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Speaker 1: Welcome to Reasonably Shady, a production of the Black Effect

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Speaker 1: Podcast Network and iHeartRadio.

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Speaker 2: Welcome to another episode of Reasonably shake Dy. I am

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Speaker 2: Jazelle Bryanton.

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Speaker 3: What's up? What's up? I'm Robin Dixon.

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Speaker 1: Thank you for being here with us once again.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. And it's like kind of chilly outside. Well, thank goodness,

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Speaker 3: it's like October decent. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I actually this is how I know I'm getting old

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Speaker 1: when like I actually am enjoying the fall because like

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Speaker 1: I was like always like a summer girl. I would

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Speaker 1: be outside in the summer my swimsuit and get in

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Speaker 1: the pool.

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Speaker 3: I didn't go in.

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Speaker 1: A pool one time this summer. Wow, And I'm like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: bring on the fall.

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Speaker 3: Bring on the fall. So do your cause your parents

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Speaker 3: have a pool? Uh huh do you I didn't go?

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Speaker 3: Did you normally go? Do you normally go like just

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Speaker 3: hang out one or to want to tice with the kids.

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Speaker 3: When the kids were younger, we would go a lot.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, But even as they got older, they weren't really

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Speaker 1: interested in like going like because they would want to

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Speaker 1: go wherever their friends were, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 1: So like if we were to go to my parents' house,

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Speaker 1: then we would have to like probably invite a handful

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Speaker 1: of friends over, and I just never I didn't want

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Speaker 1: to like turn it into that, so they would end

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Speaker 1: up wherever their friends were instead of at my parents' house. Okay,

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Speaker 1: I like that.

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Speaker 3: Plus, you know, leave Gladys alone. I leave alone, I know.

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Speaker 1: But I still want a pool in my back or

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Speaker 1: it's crazy. It's like I haven't been in a pool

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Speaker 1: this summer. But that's because I don't like to leave

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Speaker 1: my house.

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Speaker 3: I just want to.

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Speaker 1: But I just want to make note. We were both

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Speaker 1: wearing skinny jeans. Did you know the skinny jeans are out?

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Speaker 3: We're not supposed to wear skinny jeans anymore. No, what

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Speaker 3: am I going to do with all my skinny jeans?

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Speaker 3: I know? And I have some baggy ones.

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Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, but I just feel like I don't do

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Speaker 1: we have to abide by that rule now? We do not,

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Speaker 1: because skinny jeans are like sometimes certain things don't go

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Speaker 1: with baggy or jeans.

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Speaker 2: No, right, And sometimes if you have like a baggy top,

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Speaker 2: then the skinny jeans are perfect, right, baggy baggy I

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Speaker 2: don't like?

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Speaker 1: Right, Yeah, but now it's like, you know, you're not

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Speaker 1: supposed to wear like skinny jeans at all.

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Speaker 3: Ever, So what kind of jeans are we wearing these days?

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Speaker 1: Straight leg okay, I have some of those wide legs,

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Speaker 1: wieleg okay, I have that once to do.

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Speaker 2: I'm wearing my skinny jeans. I know that I think

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Speaker 2: we should wear stuff that looks good on you. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: skinny jeans look good on me, my back, my booty

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Speaker 2: bee popping.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I agree. And then maybe it's just like of course,

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Speaker 1: like all the younger people are like no skinny jeans,

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Speaker 1: but maybe us oh.

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Speaker 2: Oh, because the kids wear Yeah, the kids wear straight

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Speaker 2: leg and wide leg.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah, it's so weird. It's so cool.

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Speaker 1: It's so like interesting to see like fashions.

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Speaker 3: Just come and go. Yeah, it's weird because I I have.

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Speaker 2: It's so funny because I bought like maybe three pairs

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Speaker 2: of jeans. One had like it was like a cargo

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Speaker 2: and had like big pockets on it because bothers, and

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Speaker 2: they've been snatched by my children. Really, yes, they will

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Speaker 2: snatch my stuff. They'll be like mom, I thinking ahead,

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Speaker 2: uh huh. And I know if I just don't give

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Speaker 2: it to them, they're gonna just take it. Yeah, So

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Speaker 2: I just give Okay, yeah, but now I didn't know why.

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Speaker 3: Yes, okay they're in.

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Speaker 1: Oh the cargoes are in, the god legs, the bit,

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Speaker 1: all of it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, they were stealing my stuff. Yes, okay, you have

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Speaker 3: a shady moment. I do.

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Speaker 1: So I was put through the wringer this week with vehicles.

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Speaker 1: Anything vehicle related. Oh lord, okay. So first it started

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Speaker 1: off with my car. I was driving in this beautiful

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Speaker 1: huge pothole like so it was like one was on

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Speaker 1: the on the phone with me and he was like damn,

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Speaker 1: like he could hear how loud that pothole was. So

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Speaker 1: my tired didn't go flat. But as I'm driving, like

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Speaker 1: my car shaking right, So I call the dealer. They're like,

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Speaker 1: oh it's it sounds like it's a bent rim.

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Speaker 3: Come in. So I go.

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Speaker 1: So I go into the dealer. So get to the dealer.

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Speaker 1: They give me a loaner car. It's an electric vehicle.

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Speaker 1: Oh I love those.

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Speaker 3: Go ahead right, I was like, oh cool, you know

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Speaker 3: I've never driven one, Like yes, I'll have so quiet right.

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Speaker 1: So quiet, so like fast you know, And I was

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Speaker 1: like yeah, yes, like taking off so a couple of

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Speaker 1: days go by and my car is still at the dealer.

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Speaker 1: And then one day I'm driving Corey to school and

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Speaker 1: I'm like, oh shit, I have twenty miles left on

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Speaker 1: It's like seventeen miles away from my house I get home. Yes,

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Speaker 1: So I tried to like stop somewhere and charge it,

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Speaker 1: and it was like you need an app and an

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Speaker 1: account and I'm like, what the so I make it home.

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Speaker 1: I have like three miles left anyway, you know, I

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Speaker 1: end up having to like charge it at my neighbor's house. Okay,

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Speaker 1: they have a slow ash chargers, like took an hour

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Speaker 1: just to give me twenty miles blah blah blah. Okay,

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Speaker 1: So that was like second, I was so stressed over

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Speaker 1: this damn electric vehicle.

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Speaker 3: But they're amazing. They're amazing.

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Speaker 1: Yes, if you have a charger, but I'm like, you

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Speaker 1: probably should not let people. You probably shouldn't loan them

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Speaker 1: out to people who don't have a charger at home.

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Speaker 3: True, but but I want the one that I had.

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Speaker 2: I literally was like I might trade my car in right,

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Speaker 2: I want to keep it right, And.

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Speaker 1: I think a lot of people probably end up. That's

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Speaker 1: probably why they do it, because they want people to

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Speaker 1: me one. But yeah, so, yeah, you should not have

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Speaker 1: given me an electric vehicle because I had three miles left.

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Speaker 3: Blah blah blah.

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Speaker 1: I was stressing out, So then get my car back.

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Speaker 1: Next day, I'm I have an appointment. Okay, disappointment. I

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Speaker 1: have rescheduled twice so and it's appointment to meet with

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Speaker 1: my estate lawyer.

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Speaker 3: Oh that's important, yes, very important.

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Speaker 1: So I was like, oh, yes, I'm about to go

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Speaker 3: I hit my garage.

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Speaker 1: Butt in the garage won't go up.

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Speaker 3: What I suck in the garage? What happened?

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Speaker 1: It's a spring broke on my garage door. Yeah, and

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Speaker 1: It was completely stuck. So I was like, it was

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Speaker 3: And then so finally someone came, thank.

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Speaker 1: God, later that evening and fix the garage, the spring,

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Speaker 1: the door. He said, yeah, these springs should have like

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Speaker 1: a seven to ten year lifespan. My house is three

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Speaker 3: I was just so it was just like that was

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Speaker 3: that was the was the moon in Mercury Grade?

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Speaker 1: Yes, yes, it was just one thing after the other

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Speaker 1: with these damn like just I was like, you know what,

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Speaker 1: it's like it rains, it pours, that's yeah.

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Speaker 3: There was an eclipse recently, by the way, was it? Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Where and on my work vacation. I saw it. Oh yeah, oho, okay,

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Speaker 3: It was completely okay, most beautiful thing. Okay, anyway, that's crazy.

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Speaker 3: Yeah it was. It was annoying. Yeah, it was a

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Speaker 3: hell of a week. Okay, but do you want to

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Speaker 3: Like it looked like my car, you know. Yeah, so it.

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Speaker 3: They gave me a white which would be my car.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Mercedes something something something, and it was amazing.

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Speaker 3: I was like, oh my gosh, I love this.

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Speaker 3: I don't know. That might be my next car I

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Speaker 1: I mean, I feel like, should black people be buying

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Speaker 3: Like, I'm not buying a Messa. Oh yeah you should not.

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Speaker 2: No, black and white and purple people should not buy

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Speaker 2: a Tesla, right, And I'm like I can't support Elon

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Speaker 2: Musk no in the Twitter of it all, like boy,

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Speaker 2: good night, right, Okay, Okay, So I want to give

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Speaker 2: to remind people I'm going to be in Chicago. At

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Speaker 2: the City Winery doing something called a live show. We're

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Speaker 2: going to laugh, we're gonna cry, We're going to do

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Speaker 2: all the things. So come out and see me City

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Speaker 2: Winery October twenty first at seven thirty right, and I'm

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Speaker 2: doing our little meet and greet too, so fun. I'll

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Speaker 2: be taking pictures and all the things. So get your

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Speaker 2: tickets all right now. You know, I was at my

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Speaker 2: I the other day went to my esthetician. I walk

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Speaker 2: in the door and they're like, just SA, what are

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Speaker 2: you doing? And I was like, what are you talking about?

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Speaker 2: And they were like, we talked and we canceled this,

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Speaker 2: And I was like, and then it all came flooding

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Speaker 2: back that we I talked to the front desk lady.

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Speaker 2: She told me that my asthetition had to take the

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Speaker 3: So I'm like, oh my god, because I remember the

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Speaker 3: conversation as soon as she said it, but I totally forgot.

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Speaker 3: There's so many things.

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Speaker 1: Did take it off your calendar.

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Speaker 1: The Frontiers and Aging Neuroscience Journal found that social isolation

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Speaker 2: Okay, So there's a new study that reveals that traveling

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Speaker 1: Okay, I like that, and I think that kind of

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Speaker 2: Okay, so you're gonna so every time you go on

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I like that. I'm gonna do better at that.

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Speaker 1: So how do you feel about beggars on the street

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Speaker 2: But you shouldn't be wearing Louis Vuitton. Louisat is just

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Speaker 2: the optics of it. Yes, it's just bad.

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Speaker 4: Either.

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Speaker 1: You're right, that's bad because I'm like, okay, it's so

443
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Speaker 1: I give you this dollar, you're gonna go buy now,

444
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Speaker 1: you're gonna buy some Gucci sunglasses with it.

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Speaker 3: Like what I'm moving on? I can't, I can't you

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Speaker 3: all right.

447
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Speaker 2: So there's this video in China that sewage erupts and

448
00:20:16,240 --> 00:20:21,280
Speaker 2: sprays poop on cars all over. Okay, So it erupts

449
00:20:21,320 --> 00:20:26,119
Speaker 2: from underneath the ground, right, and it's like sprunk. So

450
00:20:26,560 --> 00:20:29,840
Speaker 2: imagine you know how we hit those water hydrants and

451
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Speaker 2: like water's just like just it's like that, but it's

452
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Speaker 2: poop and it's huge. Oh my, So it sent poop

453
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Speaker 2: way up into the air. And it was going off

454
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Speaker 2: for a very long time in China.

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Speaker 3: That's not okay.

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Speaker 2: Can you imagine no, I mean, can you imagine even

457
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Speaker 2: like the smell. No, and then it's just spraying and

458
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Speaker 2: then it gets on you and it sprang out from

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Speaker 2: the ground.

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Speaker 3: No, let's say you're driving by and it's on your car.

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Speaker 1: I would be sick for months, like.

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Speaker 3: For weeks.

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Speaker 1: Weeks. Oh my gosh, yesterday, Yeah, my trash can. I

464
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Speaker 1: guess when we put the trash out and it was

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Speaker 1: like raining, so there's like a bunch of water in

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Speaker 1: the bottom of the garbage can. Yeah, okay, Well because

467
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Speaker 1: it's open, I guess it ended up being open.

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Speaker 3: You know what.

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Speaker 1: The trash people, they just throw them all around, So

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Speaker 1: the lid must have been opened. It must have been

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Speaker 1: water all in the bottom of it. So I go

472
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Speaker 1: to put something in the trash can. I open it

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Speaker 1: and it's the smell is rancid. And I look and

474
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Speaker 1: I'm like, oh my gosh, like this is disgusting. So

475
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Speaker 1: I pull it out, I dump it out, I sprayed

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Speaker 1: it out. I felt sick just.

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Speaker 3: From that smell for hours. It's like three days.

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Speaker 1: Oh yes, I was like my I thought I was

479
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Speaker 1: going to throw up. It was rancid smell I ever smelled.

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Speaker 1: So that's getting sprayed with poop.

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Speaker 3: And huge, Oh my god God, And I'm trying to think, like,

482
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Speaker 3: how did this happen? Take me away, how did this happen?

483
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Speaker 3: Why is it spraying? Why is it spraying?

484
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Speaker 4: A septic tank pipe burst during road construction in Wonxi, China,

485
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Speaker 4: causing a massive eruption of waste. The explosion sends sewage

486
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Speaker 4: shooting over ten meters into the air, covering nearby vehicles

487
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Speaker 4: in waste. It is reported that the explosion was caused

488
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Speaker 4: by a pressure test on a newly installed sewage pipe,

489
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Speaker 4: not accidental damage during construction.

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Speaker 2: I think it was done on purpose, just to see

491
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Speaker 2: if they but you know, they probably it is a

492
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Speaker 2: terrorist attack.

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Speaker 3: Ohod that it's a terrorist attack. Okay.

494
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Speaker 2: So Kim Kardashian is reportedly fuming. She's so upset Kanye

495
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Speaker 2: because his wife, Bianca is wearing all this provocative clothes

496
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Speaker 2: around the children.

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Speaker 1: Yeah right, that's what this is.

498
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Speaker 2: Fuming and she wants to take this to court, and

499
00:23:02,760 --> 00:23:06,080
Speaker 2: she's in a terrible spot because Bianca has completely won

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Speaker 2: over the kids.

501
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Speaker 3: They love her.

502
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Speaker 1: Oh, AND's gonna be like, bitch, if you looked at.

503
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Speaker 2: Yourself lately, That's what I'm getting to. Ye, we we

504
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Speaker 2: can never It's like it's good for the goose, it's

505
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Speaker 2: good for the gander. No, it's like it's not like

506
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Speaker 2: what you can't do if it's like you had a

507
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Speaker 2: sex tape. It's like it's so many things. It's like, okay,

508
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Speaker 2: what so what so where do we draw the line?

509
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Speaker 2: Where do we draw the line?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Where where did Bianca overstep? I mean, yes, when we

512
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Speaker 1: see her, we're like, okay, put on, yes, but but

513
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Speaker 1: we've all had.

514
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Speaker 3: To endure her sex tape. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: So yeah, it's kind of like you can't win this fight. Yeah,

516
00:23:44,320 --> 00:23:47,119
Speaker 2: this fight, said, Kim can win. But that isn't one

517
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Speaker 2: of them.

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Speaker 1: That woman does walk around with like no clothes on zero,

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Speaker 1: like a string simples popping, a string over her nipple,

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Speaker 1: nipple popping. So I can imagine, you know, if they

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Speaker 1: if young children. Yeah, we're walking around or around her

522
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Speaker 1: and she's walking around with a string over her nipples. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: and her problematic.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's it's it's bothersome, no question.

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00:24:11,600 --> 00:24:14,439
Speaker 2: But yeah, but Kim, like I don't think you have

526
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Speaker 2: any room, not that Kim does that nowadays, but you

527
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Speaker 2: know there was once upon a time.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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00:24:20,080 --> 00:24:23,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, so we always have to we can't, you know,

530
00:24:23,640 --> 00:24:25,679
Speaker 2: we gotta keep in mind where we come from, right,

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Speaker 2: very true. Cannot forget where we come from.

532
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Speaker 3: So anyway, we you had to read something to read.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I've got we have tons tons to read,

534
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Speaker 1: tons tons to read, so I do want to. This

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Speaker 1: is a more recent one. So I recently talked about

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Speaker 1: Game of Thrones.

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Speaker 3: Yes, honey, where are you now? I have not picked

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Speaker 3: it back up.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, Rob, and I was thinking about you

540
00:24:49,800 --> 00:24:51,199
Speaker 2: because I was like, Robin, it's got to be on

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Speaker 2: like season four, season five.

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Speaker 1: No, I haven't picked up. You know why because I started.

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Speaker 1: I watched the second half of the season of Power.

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Speaker 1: Season you don't watch Power? No? And is the Power

545
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Speaker 1: with Ghost no, with the Sun whatever? His name is,

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Speaker 1: Tarik Tarik and I really I actually lost me. Did

547
00:25:11,040 --> 00:25:13,600
Speaker 1: not watch it before, but like, I just ran out

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00:25:13,600 --> 00:25:15,000
Speaker 1: of things to watch, so I started watching it.

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00:25:15,040 --> 00:25:17,040
Speaker 3: So they had a You didn't run out of things.

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00:25:17,040 --> 00:25:18,120
Speaker 3: You could have finished Game of Thrones.

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00:25:18,359 --> 00:25:18,760
Speaker 1: That's true.

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00:25:18,760 --> 00:25:22,120
Speaker 3: Okay, that's true. So anyway, I don't know somehow I.

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Speaker 1: Just decided to watch the rest of power. Okay, so

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00:25:24,760 --> 00:25:28,000
Speaker 1: that's kind of where I'm where my attention was. Ok So,

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00:25:28,119 --> 00:25:29,560
Speaker 1: let's get back to Game of Thrones. But go ahead,

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Speaker 1: Game of Thrones. So we have a couple of letters.

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Speaker 1: This one is from Alexandra Franch.

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Speaker 3: Okay, she's hike girlies.

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Speaker 1: I just want to say I love your podcast last

560
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Speaker 1: so hard. When Robin was talking about Game of Thrones,

561
00:25:43,160 --> 00:25:46,960
Speaker 1: I feel exactly the same. Tried to watch it so

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00:25:47,080 --> 00:25:49,080
Speaker 1: many times and I go to sleep. So I haven't

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Speaker 1: even seen the first season. What, yes, Gazelle, Robin is

564
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Speaker 1: not the only one that hasn't watched it.

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Speaker 3: Did.

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Speaker 1: She sends us a video, this conspiracy theory video on Beyonce. Oh,

567
00:26:00,280 --> 00:26:02,760
Speaker 1: I watched it, and I'm like, it's nonsense.

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00:26:02,359 --> 00:26:04,560
Speaker 3: Okay, good nonsensical.

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Speaker 1: Nonsense, just people trying to talk about Jay has control

570
00:26:07,680 --> 00:26:12,920
Speaker 1: over Beyonce and Dre is drugged up Beyonce, And yes, nonsense,

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00:26:13,119 --> 00:26:15,639
Speaker 1: stop y'all. So she said, I would love to hear

572
00:26:15,680 --> 00:26:18,399
Speaker 1: what you think about this theory. I think it's nonsense. Okay,

573
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Speaker 1: Alexandra sending loads of hugs to you both from a

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Speaker 1: virgo in Miyorca.

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Speaker 3: Who spain Burg goes into house yes. Burg goes into

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Speaker 3: house mayorca.

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Speaker 1: Yes, and she said, ps, you can do more episodes

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Speaker 1: a week.

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Speaker 3: Maybe we can't.

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00:26:35,440 --> 00:26:39,400
Speaker 2: We sure can't, but yeah, we're not contractually obligated too,

581
00:26:40,440 --> 00:26:41,720
Speaker 2: so this is what we do.

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Speaker 3: Okay. So on the flip side, yeah, okay, go ahead, you.

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Speaker 1: Another Game of Thrones? Hi, Robin, I work from home

584
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Speaker 1: and listen to y'all religiously. This is from Kia Cannon.

585
00:26:51,560 --> 00:26:54,880
Speaker 1: Maybe are you listening to us while you're working from home?

586
00:26:55,320 --> 00:26:57,119
Speaker 3: Of course she is. And I'm not mad at it.

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00:26:57,200 --> 00:26:59,120
Speaker 1: Not trying to get you in trouble, Kiya, but Kia,

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00:26:59,160 --> 00:27:01,520
Speaker 1: we're about to get you in trou Okay, thank you

589
00:27:01,600 --> 00:27:05,960
Speaker 1: for keeping me awake during the workday.

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00:27:07,359 --> 00:27:09,960
Speaker 3: Key, I'm got mad at you. I'm not mad at

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00:27:11,920 --> 00:27:12,760
Speaker 3: This is for Robin.

592
00:27:13,040 --> 00:27:15,680
Speaker 1: I have started watching Game of Thrones too. I love

593
00:27:15,720 --> 00:27:18,879
Speaker 1: period pieces and fantasy, so I am enjoying it. I

594
00:27:18,920 --> 00:27:21,320
Speaker 1: want you to push through your boredom and keep watching.

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00:27:21,520 --> 00:27:24,680
Speaker 1: It's a slow burn, but will get interesting. I can't

596
00:27:24,720 --> 00:27:28,080
Speaker 1: believe they keep it. It's like spoiler. I can't believe

597
00:27:28,119 --> 00:27:30,880
Speaker 1: they keep killing off the main characters that you think

598
00:27:30,920 --> 00:27:34,160
Speaker 1: will last through the entire show. But apparently that's their thing.

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00:27:34,240 --> 00:27:36,800
Speaker 1: Oh not really really okay, I think I am almost

600
00:27:36,800 --> 00:27:42,040
Speaker 1: finished Season four. Giselle is correct about Denaris Targarian, Mother

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Speaker 1: of Dragons, better known as Kalisi Bad. She is shaping

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00:27:46,680 --> 00:27:48,360
Speaker 1: up to be a cool character.

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Speaker 3: Stay tuned. She is love you all.

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Speaker 1: You get back to work.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, stop stop listening to us and not doing

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Speaker 3: your job. So I'm gonna try.

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Speaker 1: I'm going to give it another crack, and.

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Speaker 3: You know, if it.

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Speaker 1: Continues to put me to sleep, yeah, I'm just going

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00:28:06,240 --> 00:28:07,320
Speaker 1: to turn seeing In back on.

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00:28:07,600 --> 00:28:08,800
Speaker 3: Okay, as you should.

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Speaker 2: But you know, seeing In right now is a lot

613
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Speaker 2: of like political stuff, and sometimes I could just get over.

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00:28:13,480 --> 00:28:14,399
Speaker 3: It, I know.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, sometimes I like to laugh though, Yeah I did.

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Speaker 2: It's very It's comedy, okay, So I am. I want

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Speaker 2: to read about Angel, who I've told you guys is

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Speaker 2: at She does go to Spilman, yes, but if you

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Speaker 2: see her leave her alone, is she still hot? I

620
00:28:30,119 --> 00:28:32,600
Speaker 2: asked her yesterday how what the degrees of her room was?

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Speaker 2: She said eighty five her room is and she said

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Speaker 2: she got used to it. Really, I said that sounds

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Speaker 2: Lord Chris. Oh okay, anyway, this is from Tasha Nicole

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Speaker 2: High High Ladies, I'm a longtime listener, well pretty much

625
00:28:50,200 --> 00:28:54,120
Speaker 2: from the beginning, because I'm a big podcast lover. Also,

626
00:28:54,280 --> 00:28:56,760
Speaker 2: RHP is the only franchise I will watch because well,

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Speaker 2: y'all are the best. Lol as straight up no chaser

628
00:29:00,960 --> 00:29:02,360
Speaker 2: kind of gal myself.

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Speaker 3: Is that you that's both of us. That's both of us.

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Speaker 2: Okay, you two have always been fased. So now to

631
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Speaker 2: the bulk of it all. This weekend, I'm home actually

632
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Speaker 2: waiting to hear from my son how the sibling exchange

633
00:29:17,200 --> 00:29:20,920
Speaker 2: went a morehouse tradition and she sent a picture and

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Speaker 2: find out all the things. Imagine my surprise when my

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Speaker 2: son finally sends a picture of his new Spellhouse sibling

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Speaker 2: and it's little Miss Angel Bryant.

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Speaker 3: Oh so this is this is actually a big deal.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I'm gonna keep reading it and I'll come back.

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00:29:38,440 --> 00:29:43,120
Speaker 2: I respond back to him, William, I've watched her grow up.

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Speaker 2: And he says, oh yeah, her dad is a big

641
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Speaker 2: time preacher here and I saw no no, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 2: yeah that too, she says.

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Speaker 3: She says, yeah, yeah, yeah, no, no.

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Speaker 2: No, whatever whatever about her dand but her mom is

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Speaker 2: an rho err And his reaction was like, oh okay,

646
00:30:03,760 --> 00:30:06,960
Speaker 2: like he doesn't here anyway, I figured I would finally

647
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Speaker 2: drop an email and say hey, because the last time

648
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Speaker 2: I was going to send one was an episode topic.

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Speaker 2: I waited and then couldn't recall what in the world

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Speaker 2: I was going to email about anyway, So figured out

651
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Speaker 2: that you'd already seen the picture of Angel and William.

652
00:30:20,600 --> 00:30:23,720
Speaker 2: You probably got it way before I did, because these

653
00:30:23,760 --> 00:30:28,000
Speaker 2: boys they don't cooperate, you know, they do not, but

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Speaker 2: they're special. Love them, Love Robin So And this is

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Speaker 2: from Tasha. T Hey, Tasha, So you know I told

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Speaker 2: you how the hurricane was happening in Atlanta. Yeah, And

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00:30:38,760 --> 00:30:42,440
Speaker 2: I said, Angel, I'm gonna fly you to Hampton where

658
00:30:42,440 --> 00:30:43,040
Speaker 2: Grace was.

659
00:30:43,480 --> 00:30:46,560
Speaker 3: Angel said no, I'm like why. She's like, this is this.

660
00:30:46,560 --> 00:30:48,640
Speaker 2: Big ceremony on Sunday and I don't want to miss it.

661
00:30:49,040 --> 00:30:51,000
Speaker 2: I'm like, what the hell is the ceremony? Who gives

662
00:30:51,000 --> 00:30:53,760
Speaker 2: a damn? It's you don't have no power right down there.

663
00:30:54,000 --> 00:30:56,280
Speaker 2: And she was like, oh, we know we get our

664
00:30:56,320 --> 00:30:59,800
Speaker 2: more House brothers. Oh, And I was like that sounds dumb.

665
00:31:00,240 --> 00:31:03,760
Speaker 2: So her dad was like her dad, who went to Morehouse,

666
00:31:04,160 --> 00:31:04,560
Speaker 2: was like.

667
00:31:04,640 --> 00:31:07,640
Speaker 3: Oh, this is very important, it's very especial. And she

668
00:31:07,680 --> 00:31:11,040
Speaker 3: cannot miss it, just out and I was like whatever.

669
00:31:11,400 --> 00:31:14,800
Speaker 2: So she said in a hotel, her and her friends,

670
00:31:15,280 --> 00:31:17,600
Speaker 2: you know, because they didn't have any power anyway, she

671
00:31:17,680 --> 00:31:20,840
Speaker 2: got to go back to the dorm, change up.

672
00:31:20,760 --> 00:31:22,120
Speaker 3: And then go to the ceremony. Okay.

673
00:31:23,120 --> 00:31:25,960
Speaker 2: She goes to the ceremony and she's like, I don't

674
00:31:26,000 --> 00:31:29,000
Speaker 2: know how they pair them up, but apparently when you

675
00:31:29,040 --> 00:31:32,480
Speaker 2: get your brother, it's like your brother, right, and you

676
00:31:32,520 --> 00:31:35,400
Speaker 2: can't like date them. Oh really yeah, and it's like

677
00:31:35,400 --> 00:31:38,920
Speaker 2: a thing like you cannot date your your more morehouse

678
00:31:38,960 --> 00:31:42,120
Speaker 2: brother what. So she gets Will. She told me his

679
00:31:42,200 --> 00:31:45,560
Speaker 2: name is Will, and she sends a picture and.

680
00:31:45,280 --> 00:31:46,959
Speaker 3: I was like, oh, he's kind of cute. Yeah. I

681
00:31:46,960 --> 00:31:49,040
Speaker 3: was like date him Angel. Oh. She was like, by me,

682
00:31:49,120 --> 00:31:53,760
Speaker 3: I cannot. And I was like, what brother, it's incessay

683
00:31:53,760 --> 00:31:55,240
Speaker 3: he kind of cute, Like, yeah, you can.

684
00:31:55,640 --> 00:31:57,280
Speaker 2: She was like that's my brother. I said, no, you're

685
00:31:57,320 --> 00:32:00,320
Speaker 2: not right. Okay, you just met this man and he's

686
00:32:00,360 --> 00:32:01,480
Speaker 2: cute and he's.

687
00:32:01,280 --> 00:32:04,000
Speaker 3: Smart and he brought her flowers. Oh that's so nice.

688
00:32:04,000 --> 00:32:05,880
Speaker 2: So I was like, so, Tasha, you have a very

689
00:32:05,880 --> 00:32:09,240
Speaker 2: well respected son and I'm trying to hook up Angel

690
00:32:09,240 --> 00:32:09,520
Speaker 2: and Will.

691
00:32:09,600 --> 00:32:11,560
Speaker 3: Just for the record, right, Yes, so.

692
00:32:11,800 --> 00:32:17,960
Speaker 1: I wonder how many sibling spell House siblings have actually dated?

693
00:32:18,280 --> 00:32:20,200
Speaker 3: Yes, or even Mary got married?

694
00:32:20,320 --> 00:32:22,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, send us letters, let us know, because I'm sure

695
00:32:22,440 --> 00:32:27,200
Speaker 2: it's happened. Yes, Yes, And she's picture. I saw the

696
00:32:27,600 --> 00:32:29,320
Speaker 2: picture of Ya Tasha and her son.

697
00:32:29,160 --> 00:32:32,360
Speaker 3: And he's handsome. She was raving about how nice he

698
00:32:32,440 --> 00:32:34,640
Speaker 3: is and how smart he is and blah blah blah. Angel,

699
00:32:34,680 --> 00:32:37,640
Speaker 3: you about to get your man's what get? Will lock

700
00:32:37,680 --> 00:32:38,480
Speaker 3: that thing down.

701
00:32:39,240 --> 00:32:42,160
Speaker 1: She might need to like not be his sibling anymore

702
00:32:42,200 --> 00:32:43,080
Speaker 1: because she can date them.

703
00:32:43,640 --> 00:32:45,040
Speaker 3: You know what I said to her, I said, pass

704
00:32:45,120 --> 00:32:47,160
Speaker 3: him off to one of your friends so that you

705
00:32:47,200 --> 00:32:49,560
Speaker 3: can't date him. She's like, that's not how it works.

706
00:32:50,400 --> 00:32:53,040
Speaker 3: I was trying to break the real rule follower. Oh,

707
00:32:53,160 --> 00:32:56,120
Speaker 3: she definitely is a rule follower. Yes, the worst. But

708
00:32:56,320 --> 00:32:59,360
Speaker 3: I love her. But like I'm trying to it's Angel

709
00:32:59,400 --> 00:33:01,560
Speaker 3: and Will to the end. Oh that's nice. Yeah, I

710
00:33:01,600 --> 00:33:02,640
Speaker 3: love that.

711
00:33:02,280 --> 00:33:05,400
Speaker 1: That is one of like the beautiful things about going

712
00:33:05,440 --> 00:33:08,640
Speaker 1: to an HBCU, a black school, like all of the

713
00:33:08,680 --> 00:33:10,959
Speaker 1: traditions and the stuff that stays with you for your

714
00:33:11,040 --> 00:33:13,440
Speaker 1: for life. Like, so Angel and Will are going to

715
00:33:13,480 --> 00:33:15,960
Speaker 1: be connected for life. I have a when I went

716
00:33:15,960 --> 00:33:20,920
Speaker 1: to Maryland, you know the that's a predominantly white school,

717
00:33:20,920 --> 00:33:23,320
Speaker 1: and so the Black student Union they pair black people

718
00:33:23,480 --> 00:33:28,120
Speaker 1: up with like a brother, a big right. Yes, I

719
00:33:28,160 --> 00:33:29,400
Speaker 1: don't even remember my big name.

720
00:33:30,320 --> 00:33:31,600
Speaker 3: I don't know. I know it was a guy. He

721
00:33:31,680 --> 00:33:34,320
Speaker 3: was short, I don't he was not big, No, he

722
00:33:34,360 --> 00:33:34,760
Speaker 3: was short.

723
00:33:34,840 --> 00:33:37,280
Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, yeah, I was not dating my big I

724
00:33:37,320 --> 00:33:40,240
Speaker 1: mean so, I'm just but it's like you don't get

725
00:33:40,480 --> 00:33:44,080
Speaker 1: those experiences at a predominantly white school that you do

726
00:33:44,160 --> 00:33:46,280
Speaker 1: at a black school. So I think that is a beautiful.

727
00:33:46,400 --> 00:33:50,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's totally beautiful and hopefully so. Then she said, well,

728
00:33:50,200 --> 00:33:52,000
Speaker 2: maybe Will has friends and I can date his friends.

729
00:33:52,040 --> 00:33:54,840
Speaker 2: I said, no, just date well right the end. Right,

730
00:33:55,040 --> 00:33:55,880
Speaker 2: she's not listening to me.

731
00:33:56,360 --> 00:33:58,920
Speaker 3: All right, we've been vetted, he's been vetted, and I

732
00:33:58,920 --> 00:34:00,840
Speaker 3: know his angel, I know his mama. His mama is

733
00:34:00,880 --> 00:34:12,400
Speaker 3: Tasha se Yes, okay, all right, So this is from Fessica.

734
00:34:13,080 --> 00:34:17,160
Speaker 3: Is that right for Socca Forska Fasika. Hey, Robin and joseetlle.

735
00:34:17,160 --> 00:34:20,360
Speaker 3: I hope you're both doing well. I'm a college student

736
00:34:20,360 --> 00:34:20,960
Speaker 3: in Chicago.

737
00:34:21,200 --> 00:34:23,480
Speaker 2: Oh, she got to come to my show in Chicago,

738
00:34:23,760 --> 00:34:28,719
Speaker 2: and I would love to attend yourself. Oh, and I

739
00:34:28,719 --> 00:34:31,680
Speaker 2: would love to attend. Robin sent me up because I

740
00:34:31,719 --> 00:34:33,760
Speaker 2: did not know I was reading this, and so Robin

741
00:34:33,800 --> 00:34:36,919
Speaker 2: be is getting me okay. Pasika said she would love

742
00:34:37,080 --> 00:34:40,960
Speaker 2: to attend Gazelle's twenty one Shady Question show. Is there

743
00:34:40,960 --> 00:34:43,799
Speaker 2: a chance you can give a broke college student some

744
00:34:43,920 --> 00:34:44,600
Speaker 2: free tickets?

745
00:34:44,760 --> 00:34:48,600
Speaker 3: I know this thing right? If not, Gizelle, I hope

746
00:34:48,600 --> 00:34:51,400
Speaker 3: you have an amazing show and enjoy your time in Chicago.

747
00:34:51,920 --> 00:34:56,719
Speaker 2: Love you both so much. Forsika, you can definitely have

748
00:34:56,960 --> 00:34:58,799
Speaker 2: because you're a broke college student.

749
00:34:58,520 --> 00:35:00,840
Speaker 3: And I have three that I think they not broke.

750
00:35:00,920 --> 00:35:02,560
Speaker 3: By the way, you.

751
00:35:02,480 --> 00:35:04,239
Speaker 2: Can definitely have a ticket. Please come to the show.

752
00:35:04,239 --> 00:35:06,280
Speaker 2: I would like to meet you.

753
00:35:07,760 --> 00:35:09,560
Speaker 3: Pasika. You can bring because you know you got to

754
00:35:09,560 --> 00:35:11,840
Speaker 3: be specific with these kids. You can bring one friend.

755
00:35:12,320 --> 00:35:15,759
Speaker 2: Don't bring your five friends because y'all five friends gotta pay, Okay,

756
00:35:15,960 --> 00:35:17,319
Speaker 2: but you and one friend can come.

757
00:35:17,480 --> 00:35:20,800
Speaker 3: I love that. Yes, I'll put your name on the list, ma'am,

758
00:35:21,480 --> 00:35:24,600
Speaker 3: I save this yes over, email us back, No, I

759
00:35:24,719 --> 00:35:28,520
Speaker 3: put it just if your name is not Aska, Halleu HALLEYU.

760
00:35:28,920 --> 00:35:31,520
Speaker 3: Just email us and confirm, Yes, email and confirm and

761
00:35:31,600 --> 00:35:32,239
Speaker 3: yet come through.

762
00:35:32,440 --> 00:35:34,640
Speaker 2: Yes, all right, Robin, if you set me up like

763
00:35:34,640 --> 00:35:38,239
Speaker 2: that again. Rob was like, I'm a getter.

764
00:35:38,560 --> 00:35:43,040
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, we have a little advice question from Amy.

765
00:35:43,160 --> 00:35:44,279
Speaker 3: Yeah.

766
00:35:44,360 --> 00:35:48,279
Speaker 1: Amy's from Annapolis, Maryland. She said, Hello, ladies, I have

767
00:35:48,320 --> 00:35:50,959
Speaker 1: a friend who just gout got out of an eight

768
00:35:51,040 --> 00:35:54,920
Speaker 1: year relationship with a guy who treated her like absolute garbage,

769
00:35:55,480 --> 00:35:59,160
Speaker 1: to the point where he got her inadvertently addicted to fentanyl.

770
00:36:00,200 --> 00:36:03,120
Speaker 1: Her to go to rehab about six weeks ago. She

771
00:36:03,320 --> 00:36:05,360
Speaker 1: just got out of her treatment facility a couple of

772
00:36:05,360 --> 00:36:08,400
Speaker 1: weeks ago. She has told me she already met a

773
00:36:08,440 --> 00:36:11,359
Speaker 1: new guy at the facility and has been dating him.

774
00:36:11,640 --> 00:36:14,160
Speaker 1: I instantly started having thoughts about how she's going to

775
00:36:14,160 --> 00:36:16,400
Speaker 1: get hurt again. I don't know what to do or

776
00:36:16,400 --> 00:36:18,120
Speaker 1: what to say to her. I've known her since I

777
00:36:18,160 --> 00:36:20,360
Speaker 1: was eight years old. I'm thirty two now, and she

778
00:36:20,440 --> 00:36:21,600
Speaker 1: is one of my oldest friends.

779
00:36:21,640 --> 00:36:22,280
Speaker 3: Any advice.

780
00:36:22,520 --> 00:36:25,280
Speaker 2: I don't know how you get inadvertently hooked on fentanahl

781
00:36:26,000 --> 00:36:26,439
Speaker 2: I do?

782
00:36:26,960 --> 00:36:30,560
Speaker 1: I mean, if you're with someone who is not good

783
00:36:30,560 --> 00:36:32,719
Speaker 1: for you and they're and they're doing it and they

784
00:36:32,760 --> 00:36:34,440
Speaker 1: give it to you or you know, I don't know, like.

785
00:36:34,480 --> 00:36:38,319
Speaker 3: That's overtly well, it's not inadvertently, that's but I don't

786
00:36:38,360 --> 00:36:39,040
Speaker 3: think so.

787
00:36:39,040 --> 00:36:43,120
Speaker 1: So she probably did not have addiction issues before she

788
00:36:43,160 --> 00:36:47,000
Speaker 1: met and this person, you know, got.

789
00:36:46,920 --> 00:36:50,279
Speaker 3: Her hooked on jobs. Okay, that's horrible and sorry, what's

790
00:36:50,280 --> 00:36:53,800
Speaker 3: her name? Amy? Amy? Sorry? Amy? Yeah?

791
00:36:54,200 --> 00:36:56,600
Speaker 1: So how do we how do you help a friend

792
00:36:57,640 --> 00:36:58,080
Speaker 1: move on?

793
00:36:58,320 --> 00:37:00,440
Speaker 2: But I think there's like some rules like that's supposed

794
00:37:00,440 --> 00:37:02,560
Speaker 2: to date people that you're in the program with, right.

795
00:37:02,840 --> 00:37:04,920
Speaker 1: I mean I think it's probably not encouraged.

796
00:37:05,080 --> 00:37:08,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, because you're still going through the process of program, right,

797
00:37:08,200 --> 00:37:11,560
Speaker 2: and the relationship is not good yeah, until you're like healed.

798
00:37:11,760 --> 00:37:15,319
Speaker 1: Yeah, So how do you as a friend like not

799
00:37:15,560 --> 00:37:21,080
Speaker 1: overstep or not insult your friend, but also show them

800
00:37:21,120 --> 00:37:23,560
Speaker 1: like concern you know, and this is like a touchy

801
00:37:23,560 --> 00:37:26,920
Speaker 1: subject subject or really touchy subject because you don't I

802
00:37:26,920 --> 00:37:29,000
Speaker 1: don't know, you don't want to like trigger anything.

803
00:37:29,120 --> 00:37:32,960
Speaker 2: No, but you don't want her getting going backsliding and

804
00:37:32,960 --> 00:37:35,680
Speaker 2: going back. I don't know, Amy, I think you should

805
00:37:36,280 --> 00:37:40,239
Speaker 2: be a friend by asking the right questions, you know,

806
00:37:40,320 --> 00:37:43,080
Speaker 2: like maybe ask probing questions without with like you don't

807
00:37:43,080 --> 00:37:45,560
Speaker 2: want to make her feel like you're judging totally because

808
00:37:45,560 --> 00:37:48,960
Speaker 2: she's going to like shut you off, turn away, but

809
00:37:49,200 --> 00:37:51,920
Speaker 2: just ask her, like, you know, how are you doing.

810
00:37:52,080 --> 00:37:53,239
Speaker 3: How are you being treated? Like?

811
00:37:53,280 --> 00:37:54,239
Speaker 1: How does he treat you? Oh?

812
00:37:54,239 --> 00:37:55,160
Speaker 3: What do you guys? Do you know?

813
00:37:55,239 --> 00:37:58,120
Speaker 1: Maybe just ask questions to get a grip on the

814
00:37:58,200 --> 00:38:01,680
Speaker 1: relationship and tell her, you know what, I love you

815
00:38:01,760 --> 00:38:04,600
Speaker 1: so much, I care about you so much, and I

816
00:38:04,640 --> 00:38:06,160
Speaker 1: don't want to see you get hurt again.

817
00:38:07,120 --> 00:38:10,920
Speaker 3: So please, I don't know, like, don't.

818
00:38:10,680 --> 00:38:15,520
Speaker 1: Put yourself in a situation that could make you go backwards,

819
00:38:15,719 --> 00:38:16,600
Speaker 1: you know, I don't.

820
00:38:16,400 --> 00:38:18,759
Speaker 2: Know, And let her know, like it's okay to be

821
00:38:18,840 --> 00:38:22,120
Speaker 2: by yourself and that too. Yeah, it's totally okay to

822
00:38:22,120 --> 00:38:24,520
Speaker 2: be by yourself, like you don't have to be in

823
00:38:24,520 --> 00:38:25,239
Speaker 2: a relationship.

824
00:38:25,360 --> 00:38:28,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, but I could see where that as a friend,

825
00:38:28,040 --> 00:38:31,600
Speaker 1: like you could really worry about your friends, you know,

826
00:38:31,840 --> 00:38:35,000
Speaker 1: like falling into the same traps again, especially if you're

827
00:38:35,080 --> 00:38:37,720
Speaker 1: dating someone who's been at a treatment facility with you.

828
00:38:37,719 --> 00:38:40,080
Speaker 3: You know, I don't think I know that many people

829
00:38:40,120 --> 00:38:46,280
Speaker 3: that have been and well have gone through rehab. Yeah yeah,

830
00:38:46,320 --> 00:38:49,640
Speaker 3: like close close friends, right right, and to know that experience. Yeah,

831
00:38:49,680 --> 00:38:52,759
Speaker 3: one of one of one's cousins who I've you know,

832
00:38:52,760 --> 00:38:56,920
Speaker 3: known for years, twenty eight years, he recently was at

833
00:38:56,960 --> 00:39:00,840
Speaker 3: a rehab facility and he is like the funniest person alive.

834
00:39:00,960 --> 00:39:03,360
Speaker 1: Like he is like the life of the party.

835
00:39:04,040 --> 00:39:04,799
Speaker 3: He comes.

836
00:39:04,920 --> 00:39:07,960
Speaker 1: He he loves to like just have an audience and perform,

837
00:39:08,040 --> 00:39:10,960
Speaker 1: and he's every time you see Robin, when am I

838
00:39:11,000 --> 00:39:11,960
Speaker 1: coming on the podcast?

839
00:39:12,719 --> 00:39:14,839
Speaker 3: When am I coming on the podcast? What's the same?

840
00:39:15,080 --> 00:39:19,319
Speaker 3: Tell him? Come through? Brother? So Brother, okay, And I'm like, well,

841
00:39:19,360 --> 00:39:22,560
Speaker 3: what are we talking about doing the podcast? What we're

842
00:39:22,560 --> 00:39:23,000
Speaker 3: talking about?

843
00:39:23,040 --> 00:39:25,239
Speaker 1: So I want to bring brother on the podcast because

844
00:39:25,239 --> 00:39:27,680
Speaker 1: he is a mess. Okay, But I'm like, I don't

845
00:39:27,719 --> 00:39:28,680
Speaker 1: know what we're talking about.

846
00:39:28,800 --> 00:39:30,680
Speaker 2: Well, maybe we can talk about his journey and like

847
00:39:30,960 --> 00:39:34,040
Speaker 2: him going through rehab and how because I'm sure it's

848
00:39:34,120 --> 00:39:36,520
Speaker 2: very difficult to like come get out of rehab and

849
00:39:36,520 --> 00:39:38,960
Speaker 2: then come back and start living your life and get triggered.

850
00:39:38,960 --> 00:39:41,160
Speaker 2: I'm sure by things like that whole process.

851
00:39:41,239 --> 00:39:42,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, is that something we want to hear?

852
00:39:42,880 --> 00:39:46,400
Speaker 1: I mean, I mean I'm sure to help people. Yeah, yeah, yeah, Okay,

853
00:39:46,520 --> 00:39:48,160
Speaker 1: Well I'll see about bringing brother on.

854
00:39:48,239 --> 00:39:51,319
Speaker 3: I'm telling you, he's a handful. He's a lot.

855
00:39:51,360 --> 00:39:53,719
Speaker 1: I mean, he's he's fun though, it's like good, it's

856
00:39:53,880 --> 00:39:57,719
Speaker 1: good handful. But I you know what, Amy, as I

857
00:39:57,760 --> 00:40:01,400
Speaker 1: think about it, I think you should actually maybe call

858
00:40:01,600 --> 00:40:04,800
Speaker 1: someone or talk to someone that works at a treatment

859
00:40:04,840 --> 00:40:06,040
Speaker 1: facility okay.

860
00:40:06,239 --> 00:40:11,440
Speaker 3: And ask them their their advice, Yeah, their advice, or

861
00:40:11,480 --> 00:40:13,759
Speaker 3: how you know, so smart their experience, or how you

862
00:40:13,760 --> 00:40:16,799
Speaker 3: should handle it, because I'm sure a lot of other

863
00:40:16,800 --> 00:40:19,240
Speaker 3: people have gone through this and you have family members

864
00:40:19,280 --> 00:40:22,040
Speaker 3: who are concerned about, you know, their loved ones who

865
00:40:22,040 --> 00:40:22,440
Speaker 3: have gone in.

866
00:40:22,440 --> 00:40:23,759
Speaker 1: Treatment facility and fallen in love.

867
00:40:23,880 --> 00:40:24,120
Speaker 3: Yeah.

868
00:40:24,200 --> 00:40:26,680
Speaker 1: No, So I say call someone at a treatment facility

869
00:40:26,719 --> 00:40:28,120
Speaker 1: that works and get there and.

870
00:40:28,040 --> 00:40:28,640
Speaker 3: Get their advice.

871
00:40:28,719 --> 00:40:33,879
Speaker 2: Yes, agreed. Okay, So we have one more. And this

872
00:40:33,920 --> 00:40:37,359
Speaker 2: is a cheating scandal. Yes, you have to bear with us.

873
00:40:37,400 --> 00:40:38,560
Speaker 2: It's kind of hard to get through.

874
00:40:39,239 --> 00:40:41,680
Speaker 1: I think it's it's a lot, it's a lot of

875
00:40:41,880 --> 00:40:43,759
Speaker 1: he he did this, she did this.

876
00:40:43,840 --> 00:40:45,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, so we're gonna we're gonna skip around it, all right.

877
00:40:45,960 --> 00:40:49,160
Speaker 2: So this is from Angela w and the and the

878
00:40:49,200 --> 00:40:52,600
Speaker 2: subject is should I cuss out my ex BF?

879
00:40:52,719 --> 00:40:56,279
Speaker 3: For closure? Ex boyfriend? For closure? I cussed them out?

880
00:40:56,440 --> 00:40:58,799
Speaker 3: Have you ever cussed somebody out for closure? No?

881
00:40:59,440 --> 00:41:02,040
Speaker 1: I give I'm just like silent treatment. Oh yeah, silent

882
00:41:02,080 --> 00:41:03,920
Speaker 1: treatment is good like you never existed.

883
00:41:03,960 --> 00:41:08,520
Speaker 3: Okay, but I okay, so me me too. Facts. However,

884
00:41:09,320 --> 00:41:10,680
Speaker 3: there have been situations in.

885
00:41:10,640 --> 00:41:14,879
Speaker 2: Which years later, like maybe ten years fifteen years later,

886
00:41:15,520 --> 00:41:17,840
Speaker 2: either I talked to the guy or something happens and

887
00:41:17,880 --> 00:41:20,560
Speaker 2: we're just this happened not too long ago, and we're

888
00:41:20,600 --> 00:41:24,400
Speaker 2: just talking and kind of like talking about like what happened,

889
00:41:25,360 --> 00:41:27,480
Speaker 2: and I cussed this boy.

890
00:41:27,920 --> 00:41:29,760
Speaker 3: Out, really out.

891
00:41:30,400 --> 00:41:31,000
Speaker 1: It felt good.

892
00:41:31,120 --> 00:41:34,239
Speaker 3: It felt great because then and it was better this

893
00:41:34,280 --> 00:41:38,160
Speaker 3: way because then he could really understand, like he explained

894
00:41:38,160 --> 00:41:42,080
Speaker 3: his perspective, which at the time I probably would not

895
00:41:42,160 --> 00:41:44,800
Speaker 3: have been mentally able to hear because I was probably

896
00:41:44,800 --> 00:41:48,920
Speaker 3: too angry. And he was able to hear my perspective

897
00:41:49,320 --> 00:41:51,560
Speaker 3: with some good old customers. It was amazing.

898
00:41:52,239 --> 00:41:55,240
Speaker 2: So I encourage it's the way ten years yes, Okay,

899
00:41:55,600 --> 00:41:58,600
Speaker 2: So this is from angela w our friend group was

900
00:41:58,640 --> 00:42:04,480
Speaker 2: completely blown up after a major cheating scandal. Long story short, now,

901
00:42:04,480 --> 00:42:06,680
Speaker 2: mind you, She says, long story short, but this is.

902
00:42:06,600 --> 00:42:10,399
Speaker 1: As not a short story.

903
00:42:10,640 --> 00:42:13,200
Speaker 3: This is not a short story. But we're gonna get through,

904
00:42:13,640 --> 00:42:16,200
Speaker 3: all right. She seed her glasses for this one. Wow,

905
00:42:16,719 --> 00:42:19,320
Speaker 3: I can see yeah, Okay, all right, long story short.

906
00:42:19,760 --> 00:42:22,080
Speaker 2: My sister and I met a few friends from our

907
00:42:22,160 --> 00:42:25,600
Speaker 2: job and we've been friends with them over a decade.

908
00:42:26,360 --> 00:42:30,120
Speaker 2: Our friends included another pair of sisters five, S and A.

909
00:42:30,360 --> 00:42:33,240
Speaker 3: Oh, she's not given names, right initials? Okay?

910
00:42:34,000 --> 00:42:37,400
Speaker 2: S and A and two girls who have been best

911
00:42:37,440 --> 00:42:41,160
Speaker 2: friends for ten years, C and Miranda, Well Sea and

912
00:42:41,200 --> 00:42:44,239
Speaker 2: Miranda were living together with C's boyfriend of four years.

913
00:42:44,280 --> 00:42:48,560
Speaker 3: Miranda was having a secret affair with him about a year.

914
00:42:49,360 --> 00:42:53,120
Speaker 3: When she confronted her, she was very nonchalant and said, sorry,

915
00:42:53,200 --> 00:42:55,280
Speaker 3: I love him. Can you imagine?

916
00:42:55,400 --> 00:42:55,520
Speaker 1: No?

917
00:42:55,600 --> 00:42:59,919
Speaker 2: Okay, This sent C into a major depression in harp

918
00:43:00,040 --> 00:43:05,759
Speaker 2: break after her best friend acted like she never existed,

919
00:43:06,480 --> 00:43:10,680
Speaker 2: but S did not. No, wait a minute, I skipped

920
00:43:10,680 --> 00:43:14,799
Speaker 2: a line. Okay, right, okay. This ce into a major

921
00:43:14,840 --> 00:43:18,800
Speaker 2: depression and heartbreak after her best friend that she considered

922
00:43:18,840 --> 00:43:22,920
Speaker 2: a sister would never do this to her, my sister

923
00:43:22,960 --> 00:43:26,680
Speaker 2: and I stopped all communication with Miranda immediately and acted

924
00:43:26,760 --> 00:43:30,400
Speaker 2: like she never existed, but S did not.

925
00:43:30,920 --> 00:43:34,400
Speaker 3: Ooh, so are we following this? S is still communicating.

926
00:43:34,160 --> 00:43:38,799
Speaker 1: Friend group Miranda cheated on C's Yeah, S is still

927
00:43:38,840 --> 00:43:41,480
Speaker 1: talking to and one of the friends is still talking

928
00:43:41,480 --> 00:43:42,600
Speaker 1: to Miranda. Yeah. Okay.

929
00:43:42,800 --> 00:43:46,040
Speaker 2: And to make things worse, Miranda asked S if C

930
00:43:46,600 --> 00:43:49,839
Speaker 2: had moved because she wanted to send flowers for her

931
00:43:49,880 --> 00:43:56,799
Speaker 2: mother's death anniversary. Fuel to the fire, yes, but the

932
00:43:56,920 --> 00:43:59,720
Speaker 2: real reason she was trying to find if C moved

933
00:44:00,280 --> 00:44:03,959
Speaker 2: was so she could ask for her security deposit back

934
00:44:04,360 --> 00:44:09,880
Speaker 2: from the apartment, the same apartment she was sleeping with

935
00:44:10,080 --> 00:44:11,600
Speaker 2: her boyfriend.

936
00:44:11,719 --> 00:44:17,000
Speaker 3: Bitch, bye, what see? Audacity has me shaking.

937
00:44:18,400 --> 00:44:21,520
Speaker 2: No flowers were ever sent, by the way, but what

938
00:44:22,040 --> 00:44:25,560
Speaker 2: was sent was an email to see where she actually

939
00:44:25,640 --> 00:44:29,560
Speaker 2: asked for the deposit back, but she could deduct for

940
00:44:29,680 --> 00:44:30,879
Speaker 2: a cleaning fee.

941
00:44:31,640 --> 00:44:38,440
Speaker 3: Clearly, Miranda has no shame. This is amazing. Okay, do

942
00:44:38,480 --> 00:44:41,399
Speaker 3: we need to continue? I don't know. All you got

943
00:44:41,440 --> 00:44:47,719
Speaker 3: two paragraphs sent fast forward about a year now, as

944
00:44:47,840 --> 00:44:51,880
Speaker 3: wants to start hanging out with the adulteress again because

945
00:44:52,239 --> 00:44:55,400
Speaker 3: she wants to rekindle her friendship with Miranda. So I

946
00:44:55,440 --> 00:44:59,839
Speaker 3: wonder is Miranda dating the still wait for God? Who knows?

947
00:45:00,000 --> 00:45:00,920
Speaker 1: God does she cheated with?

948
00:45:01,000 --> 00:45:01,400
Speaker 3: I don't know.

949
00:45:02,239 --> 00:45:04,640
Speaker 2: As one of her really close friends. She brings this

950
00:45:04,800 --> 00:45:07,640
Speaker 2: up to me and I tell her that ultimately it

951
00:45:07,680 --> 00:45:10,560
Speaker 2: will change the dynamic of the group because this girl

952
00:45:10,760 --> 00:45:13,720
Speaker 2: is the devil and she really hurts se.

953
00:45:14,360 --> 00:45:16,160
Speaker 3: I told her, we.

954
00:45:16,040 --> 00:45:20,239
Speaker 2: Cannot control what you do, but it will definitely make

955
00:45:20,280 --> 00:45:22,960
Speaker 2: me feel some type of way, because why would you

956
00:45:23,040 --> 00:45:26,959
Speaker 2: want to keep a friend around like that, right, She said,

957
00:45:27,080 --> 00:45:31,279
Speaker 2: Miranda didn't kill anyone, which is really messed up thing

958
00:45:31,360 --> 00:45:35,239
Speaker 2: to say. Because she was so depressed, everyone thought she

959
00:45:35,400 --> 00:45:40,200
Speaker 2: was suicidal. I keep defending see, but she would constantly

960
00:45:40,239 --> 00:45:42,560
Speaker 2: try to change my mind. She kept wanting to go

961
00:45:42,600 --> 00:45:46,200
Speaker 2: back and forth with me, but I just stopped responding.

962
00:45:46,880 --> 00:45:51,440
Speaker 2: Then s started posting subliminal messages online clearly about me,

963
00:45:51,800 --> 00:45:53,919
Speaker 2: and of course I had to post a few back.

964
00:45:54,080 --> 00:45:54,279
Speaker 1: Oh.

965
00:45:54,360 --> 00:45:58,320
Speaker 2: Then I stopped because, as my daddy from Oppulusis would say,

966
00:45:58,680 --> 00:46:04,560
Speaker 2: you can't argue with stupid mind you you know my

967
00:46:04,600 --> 00:46:05,760
Speaker 2: mama was born to opolution.

968
00:46:05,960 --> 00:46:10,080
Speaker 3: Really, yes, you can't argue with stupid this Okay, I

969
00:46:10,080 --> 00:46:11,920
Speaker 3: didn't really want to read this letter, but I am

970
00:46:12,080 --> 00:46:16,719
Speaker 3: so excited on reading this letter. This thing is so good. Okay,

971
00:46:16,880 --> 00:46:21,359
Speaker 3: all right, where are we? Okay, So then you can't

972
00:46:21,400 --> 00:46:22,840
Speaker 3: argueliminal message? Okay.

973
00:46:23,000 --> 00:46:27,719
Speaker 2: Then she said, Since then she has unfollowed see my

974
00:46:27,800 --> 00:46:31,560
Speaker 2: city and myself continued to post subliminal message about us

975
00:46:31,600 --> 00:46:32,960
Speaker 2: online for months.

976
00:46:33,280 --> 00:46:37,839
Speaker 3: She also had her family unfollow us and had them

977
00:46:37,880 --> 00:46:42,200
Speaker 3: stop talking about us. She has put in more effort

978
00:46:42,280 --> 00:46:46,040
Speaker 3: to show hate towards us than the actual adulterous who

979
00:46:46,160 --> 00:46:51,040
Speaker 3: caused the situation. This is getting good, right, okay?

980
00:46:51,120 --> 00:46:52,799
Speaker 2: All in all, Okay, so we're about to We're about

981
00:46:52,800 --> 00:46:55,080
Speaker 2: to get this rap this thing up. All in all,

982
00:46:55,520 --> 00:46:59,000
Speaker 2: she made this whole mess about herself. Anne has taken

983
00:46:59,040 --> 00:47:02,799
Speaker 2: a lot out, a lot of our energy away from

984
00:47:02,840 --> 00:47:07,840
Speaker 2: the true victim. See she has done this for years,

985
00:47:07,920 --> 00:47:11,640
Speaker 2: and it's so tiring to have to keep catering to

986
00:47:11,760 --> 00:47:17,239
Speaker 2: such selfish person. She's a Leo by the way. Who

987
00:47:17,920 --> 00:47:19,680
Speaker 2: I'm like, who's a Leo out here?

988
00:47:19,880 --> 00:47:20,640
Speaker 3: Not me?

989
00:47:20,800 --> 00:47:25,360
Speaker 1: But Leo's are selfish. I don't know any leos.

990
00:47:25,360 --> 00:47:27,719
Speaker 3: I don't think. Oh, leos think the world revolves around

991
00:47:27,840 --> 00:47:29,520
Speaker 3: what what month is that?

992
00:47:30,040 --> 00:47:30,120
Speaker 1: Like?

993
00:47:30,239 --> 00:47:30,759
Speaker 3: August?

994
00:47:31,800 --> 00:47:36,200
Speaker 1: Oh, upper August? Yeah, early August? So mid I guess

995
00:47:36,200 --> 00:47:40,240
Speaker 1: like late July, mid to mid August. Okay, yes, leo's

996
00:47:40,280 --> 00:47:42,879
Speaker 1: think the world revolves around. Who do you know that's

997
00:47:42,880 --> 00:47:45,719
Speaker 1: a leo? Actually have a lot of I'm a fire sign,

998
00:47:45,760 --> 00:47:48,920
Speaker 1: so I'm an aries Leo's a fire sign, and so

999
00:47:49,320 --> 00:47:52,799
Speaker 1: nobody that I'm trying to think anyone that you would

1000
00:47:52,840 --> 00:47:55,759
Speaker 1: know Jennifer Lopez.

1001
00:47:56,280 --> 00:47:59,600
Speaker 2: And that explains it. Okay, she said she's a Leo

1002
00:47:59,640 --> 00:48:03,279
Speaker 2: by the way. Way, real shock her. I'm sure I'm

1003
00:48:03,400 --> 00:48:06,919
Speaker 2: very clear that our friendship can't come back from this.

1004
00:48:07,440 --> 00:48:09,800
Speaker 2: She did a lot of other shady things in the meantime.

1005
00:48:10,160 --> 00:48:12,080
Speaker 2: But my question is, oh, thank god we.

1006
00:48:12,120 --> 00:48:12,680
Speaker 3: Got a question.

1007
00:48:13,760 --> 00:48:16,080
Speaker 2: Should I cuss her out for closure and tell her

1008
00:48:16,120 --> 00:48:21,200
Speaker 2: about herself okay? Or should I just ignore her and

1009
00:48:21,239 --> 00:48:23,480
Speaker 2: the nonsense that she posts?

1010
00:48:23,640 --> 00:48:24,239
Speaker 3: Cuss her out?

1011
00:48:26,239 --> 00:48:29,279
Speaker 2: Cuss her out, I say, because it's a woman and

1012
00:48:29,320 --> 00:48:31,960
Speaker 2: this is not like a romantic relationship.

1013
00:48:32,040 --> 00:48:33,240
Speaker 3: Yeah, cuss her to filth.

1014
00:48:33,320 --> 00:48:36,799
Speaker 1: Cuss her out, yes, tell them herself and keep it moving,

1015
00:48:36,960 --> 00:48:40,200
Speaker 1: and then you just ignore all the rest whatever falls

1016
00:48:40,239 --> 00:48:42,319
Speaker 1: out from that. Yeah, so be it. Cuss her out,

1017
00:48:42,360 --> 00:48:45,960
Speaker 1: cut her off my friend groups. She's no selfish, she

1018
00:48:46,000 --> 00:48:47,520
Speaker 1: owned the world revolves around here her.

1019
00:48:47,680 --> 00:48:47,919
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1020
00:48:47,960 --> 00:48:50,719
Speaker 1: Clearly, you have a friend that was really hurt by

1021
00:48:50,760 --> 00:48:53,600
Speaker 1: another friend, and you want to bring that friend around

1022
00:48:53,640 --> 00:48:55,960
Speaker 1: the group. No, if you want to spend time with

1023
00:48:56,000 --> 00:48:58,279
Speaker 1: the girl, find do it on your own, totally. Don't

1024
00:48:58,320 --> 00:49:03,080
Speaker 1: tell anyone. Yeah, don't bring her up like she's off limits,

1025
00:49:03,239 --> 00:49:05,200
Speaker 1: but don't put that in people's space and then when

1026
00:49:05,200 --> 00:49:07,279
Speaker 1: people don't like it, then you get mad.

1027
00:49:07,400 --> 00:49:09,240
Speaker 3: Yeah. No, No, definitely cuss her out. Yeah.

1028
00:49:09,320 --> 00:49:11,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, she's and she should be dead to you, like,

1029
00:49:12,000 --> 00:49:13,600
Speaker 2: why are we even dealing with this woman anymore?

1030
00:49:13,680 --> 00:49:13,879
Speaker 3: Right?

1031
00:49:14,040 --> 00:49:18,440
Speaker 1: Yea? And I think people everyone in this situation like

1032
00:49:18,480 --> 00:49:19,839
Speaker 1: the who is it?

1033
00:49:19,880 --> 00:49:19,960
Speaker 3: Is?

1034
00:49:19,960 --> 00:49:22,600
Speaker 1: It? It's s So that needs to be the cussing

1035
00:49:22,600 --> 00:49:26,400
Speaker 1: out s needs to put herself in sea's shoes, you

1036
00:49:26,440 --> 00:49:28,319
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. Like people when it when it's

1037
00:49:28,320 --> 00:49:31,040
Speaker 1: something controversial like this, or when stuff goes down and

1038
00:49:31,080 --> 00:49:33,000
Speaker 1: someone did something to someone and you're on the outside

1039
00:49:33,000 --> 00:49:34,680
Speaker 1: looking and like you gotta say, you know what, how

1040
00:49:34,719 --> 00:49:36,560
Speaker 1: would I feel if that person did that to me?

1041
00:49:36,800 --> 00:49:39,160
Speaker 1: How would I want things to be handled? Or how

1042
00:49:39,160 --> 00:49:40,760
Speaker 1: would I want my friends to deal with that person?

1043
00:49:40,840 --> 00:49:43,319
Speaker 1: And then the girl can understand a little bit more

1044
00:49:43,360 --> 00:49:45,200
Speaker 1: so while you're cussing her out, tell her to put

1045
00:49:45,200 --> 00:49:47,080
Speaker 1: yourself in sea shoes?

1046
00:49:47,200 --> 00:49:47,399
Speaker 3: Yeah?

1047
00:49:47,480 --> 00:49:51,759
Speaker 2: Or Miranda, Miranda was the adulteress. Yeah yeah, Like we're

1048
00:49:51,800 --> 00:49:52,680
Speaker 2: not talking to her either.

1049
00:49:52,840 --> 00:49:55,200
Speaker 3: Oh yeah you're not yeah, talking to rand No, Miranda,

1050
00:49:55,239 --> 00:49:57,399
Speaker 3: you are dead to us, Okay, but cuss her out,

1051
00:49:57,560 --> 00:49:59,719
Speaker 3: cuss her out, and it's like, go ahead.

1052
00:49:59,440 --> 00:50:02,719
Speaker 1: Because also, I mean you wrote a very long email, yeah,

1053
00:50:02,800 --> 00:50:05,960
Speaker 1: so clearly you have emotions about it. Yes, total, So

1054
00:50:06,080 --> 00:50:10,520
Speaker 1: I think ignoring the situation is not gonna bring you resolution. Now,

1055
00:50:10,760 --> 00:50:13,160
Speaker 1: it's what's going to bring you resolution is telling that

1056
00:50:13,200 --> 00:50:15,840
Speaker 1: person about themselves. So, whether you do it in a

1057
00:50:15,880 --> 00:50:18,680
Speaker 1: text message, in a voice memo, and a phone call,

1058
00:50:18,800 --> 00:50:21,480
Speaker 1: I think it's a phone call in an email, however

1059
00:50:21,520 --> 00:50:23,640
Speaker 1: you do it, do it, Yes, I think it's definitely

1060
00:50:23,640 --> 00:50:25,879
Speaker 1: a funt. You're not going to get your satisfaction. Yeah,

1061
00:50:25,960 --> 00:50:26,960
Speaker 1: if you just ignore.

1062
00:50:26,719 --> 00:50:29,280
Speaker 2: It and and then and but then, don't just cuss

1063
00:50:29,280 --> 00:50:33,920
Speaker 2: out for cussing out, sake, have like, have like a plan,

1064
00:50:34,120 --> 00:50:36,080
Speaker 2: meaning like I don't like X, y Z and a

1065
00:50:36,120 --> 00:50:39,400
Speaker 2: third you run it all down and lose my number,

1066
00:50:39,600 --> 00:50:42,400
Speaker 2: right and bitch, I better not see you again exactly.

1067
00:50:42,480 --> 00:50:44,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's how I do it. Yeah.

1068
00:50:44,080 --> 00:50:45,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know many people I told lose my number.

1069
00:50:46,040 --> 00:50:48,879
Speaker 2: Oh I love saying that, just lose my number. Yeah,

1070
00:50:49,080 --> 00:50:51,239
Speaker 2: he text me all his bullshit. I'm like, I'm gonna

1071
00:50:51,280 --> 00:50:52,160
Speaker 2: lose my number.

1072
00:50:51,960 --> 00:50:55,560
Speaker 3: Right, Yes, Yes, we're good, Yes, yeah, we're go on,

1073
00:50:55,680 --> 00:50:56,439
Speaker 3: go on, tell her boy.

1074
00:50:56,360 --> 00:51:00,200
Speaker 2: Herself, yes, cuss her tough film, Yes, all right, we're

1075
00:51:00,239 --> 00:51:00,560
Speaker 2: out of here.

1076
00:51:00,600 --> 00:51:01,600
Speaker 3: Guys. We love y'all so much.

1077
00:51:01,640 --> 00:51:03,880
Speaker 2: Don't ever forget to live your life either reasonable or

1078
00:51:04,120 --> 00:51:08,200
Speaker 2: shakey or both. And I'm in psaka I'm gonna see

1079
00:51:08,200 --> 00:51:18,560
Speaker 2: you in Chicago, right, Pasika, Bye bye. Reasonably Shady is

1080
00:51:18,600 --> 00:51:21,800
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1081
00:51:22,080 --> 00:51:27,040
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1082
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1083
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1084
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1085
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