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Speaker 1: So we're about to pay a bill. Then we've got

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Speaker 1: Ryan's roses. But first Tiny with the Training report. So

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Speaker 1: we've been reading about Taylor Swift's new album and just

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Speaker 1: how like poetic and brilliant she is. But she's receiving

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Speaker 1: some backlash over the music video for Anti Hero. People

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Speaker 1: are labeling her fat phobic. So in the video, it

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Speaker 1: shows Taylor Swift stepping onto a scale and instead of

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Speaker 1: the scale reading like numbers like it usually does, it

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Speaker 1: just says fat on the scale. This song is basically

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Speaker 1: about all of Taylor's inner like inner demons and her

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Speaker 1: biggest insecurities, and so the video obviously is you know,

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Speaker 1: portraying the those things. So she was trying to convey

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Speaker 1: what she saw about herself. So like, no matter what

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Speaker 1: shape her size she was, you know, she's not glorifying it.

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Speaker 1: She was actually trying to say the opposite, like I

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Speaker 1: was in a I'm in a bad place because no

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Speaker 1: matter what the number is, I just see myself as

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Speaker 1: as fat, right, but some fans think otherwise And and

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Speaker 1: eating disorder therapist wrote this on Twitter and it got

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Speaker 1: a lot of buzz. She said Taylor's music video is

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Speaker 1: a crappy way to describe her body image struggles. Fat

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Speaker 1: people don't need to have it reiterated yet again that

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Speaker 1: it's everyone's worst nightmare to look like us. And so

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Speaker 1: I see what they're saying, because I see it's perpetuating

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Speaker 1: this idea that being fat is a bad thing, and

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Speaker 1: so it's it's like such a it's a weird space

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Speaker 1: because I see their point. But I also see Taylor's

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Speaker 1: you know, expression as an artist saying that this was

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Speaker 1: my truth, Like this is actually something that I lived

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Speaker 1: And I'm not saying that it's right or wrong. I'm

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Speaker 1: just saying this is this was my truth, you know

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Speaker 1: what I mean. And this was a hard time for me,

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Speaker 1: and this is what I saw when I looked at

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Speaker 1: the scale. So it's just like she's expressing her truth

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Speaker 1: and something that was hard for her. But she's been

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Speaker 1: receiving a lot of backlash, and actually so much that

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Speaker 1: she went back and took that part out of the

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Speaker 1: music video, so it's no longer in the music video.

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Speaker 1: I mean it's sensitive to me because I was teased

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Speaker 1: as a kid for being chubby myself. I mean the

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Speaker 1: reason that I am the way I am today in

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Speaker 1: terms of the way I eat, or torture myself by

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Speaker 1: the way I eat, Like sometimes I feel guilt. Maybe

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Speaker 1: I shouldn't feel, but I also am uh sometimes not

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Speaker 1: healthy about focusing too much on working out and if

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Speaker 1: I don't beating myself up over it. But that's all

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Speaker 1: because I was literally teased when I was in eighth grade,

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Speaker 1: in ninth grade, in fifth grade, and I can't I

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Speaker 1: have not gone to your therapist and I have not

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Speaker 1: worked through it yet. So to me, I have that

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Speaker 1: specific memory for myself, and I think everyone has their

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Speaker 1: own insecurities, and I think good on Taylor for these

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Speaker 1: This is what she felt, this is what she wanted

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Speaker 1: to portray, and for me, looking at that image of

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Speaker 1: stepping on the scale and not seeing numbers and just

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Speaker 1: seeing the word fat, like that's what I see every

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Speaker 1: day I step on the scale. It doesn't matter what

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Speaker 1: the number is like, you know, it's like that's what

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Speaker 1: we all use. Do you do that to yourself? Do

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Speaker 1: you step on the scale every day? You know? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: I do? And it's like a pound here, a pound there,

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Speaker 1: and it's like you either excited or you're depressed or

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Speaker 1: you're like it's like really like it's high or low,

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Speaker 1: isn't it? Because I get it too, Yes, it's literally

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Speaker 1: and it doesn't matter what the reality is, it's just

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Speaker 1: what I say. It doesn't And you almost know what

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Speaker 1: the number is going to be because it's like not

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Speaker 1: going to be drastic obviously, and you're almost like you're like, okay,

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Speaker 1: well it's probably a pound for my clothes and it's

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Speaker 1: a pound for and you make all these excuses for yourself,

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Speaker 1: but like, no matter what, you know what you feel

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Speaker 1: for yourself in your own insecurity. So if that's what

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Speaker 1: she feels, let her be like what everyone need to

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Speaker 1: come in and like so specific for me for everyone.

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Speaker 1: That's the thing. Do you know? I was thinking about this,

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Speaker 1: and I was as you were talking about, and I

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Speaker 1: was thinking about a progress you've made with your therapist, Tanya.

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Speaker 1: Can we have your therapists on not to talk about you,

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Speaker 1: but just to meet her. So it's interesting. I don't

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Speaker 1: know if she will because there's like all that confidentiality stuff.

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Speaker 1: Maybe it's a bad idea. I feel like, I feel

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Speaker 1: like this is the second time you've asked and she

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Speaker 1: basically said no. She keeps telling me to take her

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Speaker 1: as mine, so I don't know what to believe. I

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Speaker 1: can text you her number, and I see, I think

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Speaker 1: that's easy. That's that's conflicting as well. Why because what

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Speaker 1: if we're talking about each other? Yeah, I would not.

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Speaker 1: I'm not talking about Well, you don't know what I'm

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Speaker 1: talking about, and don't judge if I do. Okay, true,

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Speaker 1: no judgment. But she's not gonna come back and tell

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Speaker 1: me that again the confidentiality, I guess I'm just saying, like,

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Speaker 1: you've made such great progress, it seems with this person

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Speaker 1: based on what I see here, that would be nice

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Speaker 1: to meet the person. But I guess that's not standard

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Speaker 1: that you meet the person therapists and go, hey, you're

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Speaker 1: doing great, therapist, but therapists stole my therapist. I'll book

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Speaker 1: two hours. The thing that's so interesting that I think

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Speaker 1: that people try to like you. We all know where

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Speaker 1: works in progress, and that we have issues. We all

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Speaker 1: have insecurities, and you want to work on yourself and

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Speaker 1: you try and do it yourself, but I just feel

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Speaker 1: like if we could all just do it ourselves, Like

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Speaker 1: there's no you just can't. What's that movie? Dude? Where's

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Speaker 1: my therapist? Dude? There's my car? Yes, and the spinoff? Dude,

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Speaker 1: first my therapist? Now you're onto something. Finally we can

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Speaker 1: get a studio deal? Right, trying to better ourselves and

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Speaker 1: what this show is all about getting better? Growing? Right?

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Speaker 1: Don't you find you grow? Don't you time you see

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Speaker 1: that you have growth? Not only grow. I'm like so

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Speaker 1: proud of like certain things that I've had breakthroughs in,

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Speaker 1: Like it's like that's what I need to work through

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Speaker 1: with my own things we just talked about partly just

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