WEBVTT - Cradle Snatchers, the New Norm? | MiniPod

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<v Speaker 1>Native Lamp Pod is a production of iHeartRadio in partnership

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<v Speaker 2>Welcome, Welcome, Welcome, Welcome, Welcome.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, everybody, welcome home. This is our mini pod. Y'all's

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<v Speaker 3>giving Battle of the sex This here because you know,

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<v Speaker 3>back in the day, Eliah said, aj no, but the number.

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<v Speaker 3>But what we didn't know was that that r Kelly

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<v Speaker 3>Lurkin in the background was going to create a much

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<v Speaker 3>larger problem for young women everywhere. And you know, I

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<v Speaker 3>just think that sometimes women escape this when they are

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<v Speaker 3>the cougars and the predators. So I'm not gonna necessarily

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<v Speaker 3>say that this woman was a predator for dating someone

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<v Speaker 3>who is legal. But I do have a problem with

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<v Speaker 3>a forty someven year old woman dating somebody the same

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<v Speaker 3>at as my godchild. This woman was on love and

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<v Speaker 3>hip hop, I believe Tommy, and she was at least

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<v Speaker 3>on a date with Solange Knowle's son Jules Smith. Now,

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<v Speaker 3>if you gonna date a young man, don't let it

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<v Speaker 3>be the young man with the mama that beats it

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<v Speaker 3>with in a fight in the elevator.

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<v Speaker 4>Now, I don't know if you want to run up

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<v Speaker 4>on that one. Let's rote this clip.

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<v Speaker 5>Nick Oh lord, oh lord, look at look at him happy,

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<v Speaker 5>happy to be really happy.

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<v Speaker 4>Look at and the fact that she's recording this.

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<v Speaker 5>That's what they do these days.

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<v Speaker 3>My baby, literally your baby, young enough to be your baby.

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<v Speaker 1>It's hard to be fine.

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<v Speaker 2>I said, it's hard to be fine.

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<v Speaker 3>We got some money on your back.

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<v Speaker 5>He's in Miami, day in Miami.

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<v Speaker 1>What's the objections? It's about to figure out what Angela's

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<v Speaker 1>objection is. What's the core objection?

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<v Speaker 2>How old is he?

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<v Speaker 4>This child is twenty? Isn't he twenty twenty one? He's

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<v Speaker 4>twenty one? You're right? And Tommy is forty one, and well.

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<v Speaker 1>What should issue? I think Angela is the only one

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<v Speaker 1>with a problem because I was. I was a cougar hunter,

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<v Speaker 1>That's what I was.

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<v Speaker 3>I was.

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<v Speaker 4>Not twenty years twenty when.

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<v Speaker 1>I met Ellen. Now, Ellen was eight and a half,

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<v Speaker 1>nine years older than me. It wasn't twenty, but that

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<v Speaker 1>was a whole lot. I mean, so.

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<v Speaker 4>Ellen still looks younger than you, with all due respect.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so what does that?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, does it have to do with how you look?

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<v Speaker 1>Your age?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, twenty years is too significant for a man

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<v Speaker 3>or a woman dating someone their junior.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm sorry, I was forty and she was sixty.

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<v Speaker 1>Still the big issue.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe Look, look, I don't share run around here with

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<v Speaker 2>a thirty five year old. What is she she pushing?

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<v Speaker 4>Pushing too much too, that's too much. I don't like that.

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<v Speaker 2>Love.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we loved this.

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<v Speaker 4>Mini pot is over. I thought that. Okay, so I

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<v Speaker 4>was not the only one carried, but so many.

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<v Speaker 2>Now you agree with me.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm going to tell you that these are these gentlemen

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<v Speaker 6>are not even are he is She's not.

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<v Speaker 5>Talking about cheering, We're talking about adult No, but my.

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<v Speaker 4>God child is the same age.

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<v Speaker 6>That's why. That's why you see it, and that makes

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<v Speaker 6>perfect sense. But I will say, Angela, there's something in

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<v Speaker 6>the water. And I'm not saying this is for everyone,

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<v Speaker 6>but there is something in the water about this generation

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<v Speaker 6>of young men who are unafraid to holler at.

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<v Speaker 2>Women older than them from.

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<v Speaker 1>Tell me what your no.

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<v Speaker 6>I only like younger men come to me with no

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<v Speaker 6>issue and come to me with no drama, come to

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<v Speaker 6>me like, hey, what's up?

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<v Speaker 2>If they they not nonchalant?

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<v Speaker 6>You older men be nonchalant like I'm not a big

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<v Speaker 6>deal chalant me my.

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<v Speaker 2>G B chalanted?

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, do not come to me on some nonchalant you are, okay,

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<v Speaker 6>I want you to be chalanting me the entire time.

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<v Speaker 6>These young men will do that because they have no

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<v Speaker 6>ego involved. They have not been hurt, they have not

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<v Speaker 6>been damaged, and they will come to you. Look, I'm

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<v Speaker 6>not doing twenty, but I will say, I mean, I

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<v Speaker 6>do get a young fella, youngest the youngest where I

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<v Speaker 6>would really seriously consider it.

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<v Speaker 2>I'd live right around thirty five. That's where I'm a b.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I'm gonna be I could do thirty six.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait, wait for what?

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<v Speaker 2>So is this just like to know today for real?

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<v Speaker 1>Like I don't know, y'all?

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<v Speaker 6>Just fun and then they're dating for real? So fun fun,

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<v Speaker 6>I'd hit to third night, I go right at a

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<v Speaker 6>third end.

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<v Speaker 4>I can't do it.

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<v Speaker 2>I would, I would, But my question isn't cause you do, Angela.

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<v Speaker 1>This is where you get.

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<v Speaker 4>I just I can't. I just I can't.

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<v Speaker 1>But for fun, y'all ain't really asking people for this.

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<v Speaker 1>Ain't like to say that you're not meeting somebody in

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<v Speaker 1>a mutual space asking them for their identification card. If

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<v Speaker 1>you find somebody to be attractive when you're in their conversation,

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<v Speaker 1>has a good job you know them if they are

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<v Speaker 1>twenty six, twenty seven, twenty eight.

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<v Speaker 3>No, no, no, you'll know they am my professional development program.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know them any other way, you know.

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<v Speaker 6>And then it's rare that you'll meet I think, at

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<v Speaker 6>least in my particular case, it's rare that I meet

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<v Speaker 6>somebody in their twenties that I'm like, oh, this sounds

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<v Speaker 6>like someone I would like to have a full conversation with.

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<v Speaker 6>This sounds like somebody I want to sit and talk about.

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<v Speaker 6>But the thing is they haven't had enough experiences to

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<v Speaker 6>maintain the stimulation that would want to keep me there.

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<v Speaker 2>And so that's it.

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<v Speaker 5>I think that's the line of demarcation.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so that's why I really couldn't take someone that young. Seriously.

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<v Speaker 6>Now, that's what I said about thirty five in your

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<v Speaker 6>dating summer, You're like, Okay, you've had some life experiences.

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<v Speaker 6>You may own a home, you may have you may

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<v Speaker 6>have started your own business. You're you're you're fully invested

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<v Speaker 6>into this thing called adulthood. You're you've been adulting and

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<v Speaker 6>so therefore allegedly way, but what I mean, just in theory,

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<v Speaker 6>you've traveled, you've lived the world, Like there are things

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<v Speaker 6>that you've experienced, and so the conversation and so the

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<v Speaker 6>agreements and the level of which we can really relate

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<v Speaker 6>keeps me interesting.

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<v Speaker 1>I understand that because the first time you get the

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<v Speaker 1>Cheesecake Factory menu, if you haven't been there before, if

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<v Speaker 1>you haven't seen it before, it can be overwhelmeding.

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<v Speaker 5>Options.

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<v Speaker 1>But everybody, everybody knows you got to start with the

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<v Speaker 1>lettuce raps. That's why you need that experience. Mercy, my

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<v Speaker 1>significant other and I still go tod We still we

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<v Speaker 1>do Applebee's appetizers because that's that's.

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<v Speaker 5>When you know better. You do better.

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<v Speaker 1>Brother.

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<v Speaker 3>No, yes, Psychritt, we're still eating there. But I'm not

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<v Speaker 3>let me ask you this, you guys, what about So

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<v Speaker 3>we talked about the youngest.

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<v Speaker 4>The guys didn't answer.

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<v Speaker 3>Really, y'all should we want to keep you safe with

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<v Speaker 3>your with your wives, but I do want to know

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<v Speaker 3>what's the oldest, so you guys can go back to

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<v Speaker 3>the oldest you dated when you were still in the

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<v Speaker 3>streets and then carry the oldest you date now.

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<v Speaker 1>I just didn't like young I didn't like young women.

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<v Speaker 4>That's because you just pop.

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<v Speaker 1>But I just did to. I didn't feel like I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't feel like teaching. Yeah, I didn't want to. I

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<v Speaker 1>wanted somebody with the with with a certain level of

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<v Speaker 1>experience physically, emotionally, had been through those things. I was

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<v Speaker 1>out here. I wasn't. Yeah, we're not out here trying

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<v Speaker 1>to trying to, you know, teach a protagona theorem. When

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<v Speaker 1>we're hanging out together. I want you to already be experiencing.

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<v Speaker 2>To come and do it the way he wanted. That's

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<v Speaker 2>what I'm talking about.

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<v Speaker 1>So that's why, that's why me and my wife hit

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<v Speaker 1>it off. Well, so I didn't I didn't train. Yeah, no, no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>we don't. We don't. We don't practice this game time.

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<v Speaker 6>I will date probably say the youngest. I would really

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<v Speaker 6>and again the word date is I'm using that word lightly.

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<v Speaker 6>I the latest, i'd consider the youngest. I'd consider it this.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh oh yeah, I'm not yeah, because maybe this sounds

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<v Speaker 6>awful what I'm about to say, maybe sixty sixty something.

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<v Speaker 2>But you have to be together, Like if I'm working,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't want you to work out.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, sure, yeah you can work out, but the

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<v Speaker 1>problem is the problem is if they sixty something, you're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna work out together, but you.

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<v Speaker 5>Gotta update your narrative.

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<v Speaker 6>Sixty Yet I'm thinking fifty five right right, If I'm

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<v Speaker 6>being honest, I was going to live right here.

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<v Speaker 1>Ask you to a question, can you too do? Can

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<v Speaker 1>you to do? Divorced with another family?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>That wait a minute, hold on divorce with another family?

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<v Speaker 3>You sound like afro Man, which you know he.

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<v Speaker 5>Ain't say nothing by marriage afro man.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't say and but like but divorce but has

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<v Speaker 1>but has like I used with so like divorce but

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<v Speaker 1>has college age ex wife and college age children ex wife? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that doesn't I've dated.

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<v Speaker 5>I diated somebody who had a child when I was

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<v Speaker 5>first elected, and I actually thought it was going somewhere.

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<v Speaker 5>And then of course all the older women in my

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<v Speaker 5>life were like, I don't know what you wasted.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not gonna that doesn't bother me. The children, I.

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<v Speaker 1>Never thought it would be. It was, and I love it.

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<v Speaker 1>I realized.

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<v Speaker 4>My kids, like I love kids, you know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 5>I think we're approaching at a different ages now. I

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<v Speaker 5>think we it'd be very hard to go into something

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<v Speaker 5>new and lasting that doesn't have some history. But I mean,

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<v Speaker 5>for me, the number is not as important as like

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<v Speaker 5>the connection with the person, and I get like if

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<v Speaker 5>you're a certain age and you haven't lived enough life.

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<v Speaker 5>But I don't necessarily prescribe exclusively. I think you should

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<v Speaker 5>had you lived this long, know some things and so

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<v Speaker 5>on and so forth. But I've also met people who

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<v Speaker 5>you're like, God, damn, this person's been here. I don't

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<v Speaker 5>know how you know my life, like you know my life,

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<v Speaker 5>but you know you're speaking it into me, and vice versa.

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<v Speaker 5>So I think I'm not hooked up on age, except

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<v Speaker 5>probably when it comes to my kids. Maybe I may

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<v Speaker 5>have some opinions that will differ uh here, but but

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<v Speaker 5>I think if you got a solid connection, the age

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<v Speaker 5>thing will figure itself out.

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<v Speaker 1>I think that man look at things differently too, though,

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<v Speaker 1>I think that the I think that the attachment that

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<v Speaker 1>men gravitate towards first is more of a physical rather

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<v Speaker 1>than the emotional attachment that you that Angela and Carry

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<v Speaker 1>were alluding to, like the emotional maturity age. But yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but well, yeah, I do do you think it thinks?

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<v Speaker 1>But I think twenty to forty most most men, the

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<v Speaker 1>first thing that they gravitate towards is the physical attraction

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<v Speaker 1>and more somebody, more so than for me. But I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not when I say, I mean, I mean all of

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<v Speaker 1>the physical.

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<v Speaker 4>Tiff was still on the show. Tiff was on the show.

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<v Speaker 3>Tiff said she attracted somebody's brain when she see them.

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<v Speaker 5>I have she you gotta have some.

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<v Speaker 2>You got some real serious.

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<v Speaker 6>For that to overcome it on this precious beautiful man

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<v Speaker 6>like on the show on Flavoring and Funny Jamal and

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<v Speaker 6>I talk about this.

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<v Speaker 2>I love them.

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<v Speaker 6>I love you, Bakari, I love you Andrew. You as

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<v Speaker 6>are beautiful, handsome man, like right up my alley. I

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<v Speaker 6>like you, tall, dark and handsome, and so it is.

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<v Speaker 6>I will go for that first, which leads me in trouble.

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<v Speaker 6>Now when you open your mouth and it's nothing, then

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<v Speaker 6>I'm like, I'm turned off.

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<v Speaker 2>You can only do so much with that. You can

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<v Speaker 2>only for.

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<v Speaker 6>A woman and a man could deal with the aesthetic

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<v Speaker 6>all day. I need something more. But I do like

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<v Speaker 6>to look at you. I do want to be like here, Andrew.

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<v Speaker 1>You never you never never dated any women Andrew that

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<v Speaker 1>weren't they weren't like.

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<v Speaker 5>No, they they they they're beautiful, I mean, look good

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<v Speaker 5>on the outside. But if we can't get past that,

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<v Speaker 5>Like I'm talking to you about something serious and you're

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<v Speaker 5>like babe, you want some ice cream for dinner? Like

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<v Speaker 5>it's it's so like that's not going be like.

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<v Speaker 1>What flavor do you with a little strawbery?

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<v Speaker 5>Mostly because I think relationships have to be partnerships.

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<v Speaker 1>I think is my partner. I tell everybody that she's.

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<v Speaker 3>Beautiful and brilliant, and I think that's the part, Like

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<v Speaker 3>we're not talking about just the superficial connection. There has

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<v Speaker 3>to be something there there, and I think that's the part.

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<v Speaker 3>And what I'm concerned about, for especially these younger men,

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<v Speaker 3>is yeah, that's that's fun and fine, But a lot

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<v Speaker 3>of these women who focus just on aesthetic also expect

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<v Speaker 3>to be taking care of There are whole songs about it.

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<v Speaker 3>What are you buying me? Where are you taking me?

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<v Speaker 3>Give me some money? Like all that stuff, like what

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<v Speaker 3>happens when you get beyond that?

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<v Speaker 1>What happens when you let me tell you what?

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<v Speaker 2>What's she doing to that boy?

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<v Speaker 4>She better hope Solange don't get a hold of it.

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<v Speaker 3>All I'm saying is you can run up on Solange

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<v Speaker 3>knows if you want to. That's not a good bet.

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<v Speaker 3>You should have found somebody else's child. But and then

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<v Speaker 3>the thing that I don't like about it is. It

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<v Speaker 3>wasn't that like Jules was recording this content. It was

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<v Speaker 3>this woman recording this content. And I think it was

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<v Speaker 3>for leverage over Solange and b And I really just

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<v Speaker 3>don't I'm always I'm always gonna go to the worst

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<v Speaker 3>possible scenario. That's what I saw for in life.

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<v Speaker 2>Is Christy.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, you know, I will say this. I will say this.

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<v Speaker 6>She got married and she was fifteen, like she's been

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<v Speaker 6>a rebel, like what she she was like a young

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<v Speaker 6>teenager when she got married and pregnant, and so I

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<v Speaker 6>think so much was she she got married, she has fifteen,

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<v Speaker 6>she got she had she had old boy, Yes, she

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<v Speaker 6>did good jewels, she had jewels, was you utene? And

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<v Speaker 6>I think they were trying to marry Oh. I think

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<v Speaker 6>they were trying to say she was married. In theory,

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<v Speaker 6>they were.

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<v Speaker 2>Trying to protect it.

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<v Speaker 6>My point being seventeen okay, so okay, My point being

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<v Speaker 6>is that she's been here before. That is her child,

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<v Speaker 6>that spirit of I will try something different and be different.

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<v Speaker 2>That's who she is. You know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 1>Friend, The quickest way to lose a child is to

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<v Speaker 1>push him away. I will tell you that. To say,

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<v Speaker 1>to say don't do this. As soon as she said

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<v Speaker 1>don't date this girl or whatever, that's the quickest way

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<v Speaker 1>for them to go out and double down.

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<v Speaker 5>She also looks like a mother who like, lets you

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<v Speaker 5>walk out on the legend probably off and then you know, correct.

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<v Speaker 2>You and learn.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know. I feel like she's protective of her

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<v Speaker 4>loved ones.

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<v Speaker 1>I just like the fact that they looked happy. Life

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<v Speaker 1>is too short. That man looked happy. He was about

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<v Speaker 1>he was about Yeah, he was about to put his

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<v Speaker 1>churchhots on and have a ball.

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<v Speaker 3>It's I think the girls now saying they broke up.

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<v Speaker 3>So that's why I'm saying, I think that this was

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<v Speaker 3>all the is to begin with. It was like a

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<v Speaker 3>you know, to get to get your people talked to you.

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<v Speaker 3>Minutes she got us talking, she got us and.

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<v Speaker 4>Sixteen year old. That's not just too old here. I

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<v Speaker 4>ain't gonna do that.

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<v Speaker 6>But you know you can't date a six year old.

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<v Speaker 6>But I will say this, I gotta go on mixtrien,

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<v Speaker 6>I gotta go to But let me say, six ye oh,

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<v Speaker 6>six zero. I wouldn't date a six zero five to five?

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<v Speaker 4>Is you right?

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<v Speaker 2>I'm right there?

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<v Speaker 6>Six Zeero's hard to find out a healthy six zero.

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<v Speaker 6>But I will say this, the way in which she was.

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<v Speaker 2>He picked her.

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<v Speaker 6>Up and she was on his back and he was filming.

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<v Speaker 6>He was schalanting her. That's what she was getting into.

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<v Speaker 4>She was schalanting him her.

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<v Speaker 2>He was happy, did you get her?

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<v Speaker 4>He was.

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<v Speaker 2>He was excited.

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<v Speaker 1>And also sometimes she was heavy because she was. Sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes we gotta just mind business, be happy.

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<v Speaker 4>You know what. Sometime that's true.

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<v Speaker 2>But by the way, and on that, mind your business.

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<v Speaker 4>Leave my guy children alone.

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<v Speaker 1>He's gonna start dating your friends. By y'all, By y'all.

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