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Hi Kalin, good morning, Hi Jason Brown, Hi, Paulina, Hike, 18 00:00:58,160 --> 00:01:01,360 Speaker 2: gem Marning, Shelby Shelley will be here about twenty minutes. 19 00:01:01,400 --> 00:01:04,520 Speaker 2: Four hundred and fifty bucks is the prize if you 20 00:01:04,560 --> 00:01:07,680 Speaker 2: can beat her in five pop cultured questions. Waiting by 21 00:01:07,680 --> 00:01:11,240 Speaker 2: the phone isn't Why don't somebody get ghosted? Kiky's corners coming. 22 00:01:11,040 --> 00:01:14,720 Speaker 3: Up up, Bump Girl, What in the chat GPT is 23 00:01:14,760 --> 00:01:15,200 Speaker 3: going on? 24 00:01:15,400 --> 00:01:17,480 Speaker 1: And the Entertainer report this hour too, what are you 25 00:01:17,520 --> 00:01:17,800 Speaker 1: working on? 26 00:01:17,920 --> 00:01:22,080 Speaker 4: K We're talking a brat wedding, a thirty third birthday 27 00:01:22,120 --> 00:01:25,720 Speaker 4: party and Cold Place first concert sends the cheating scandal. 28 00:01:26,720 --> 00:01:29,040 Speaker 2: Nay talk them nut, Yeah, they talk better than they 29 00:01:29,080 --> 00:01:30,319 Speaker 2: sided tell me. 30 00:01:30,800 --> 00:01:33,440 Speaker 1: These are the radio blogs on the Fresh Show. 31 00:01:33,480 --> 00:01:35,640 Speaker 2: I wonder if some people had tickets, they're like, Nope, 32 00:01:35,800 --> 00:01:40,240 Speaker 2: not not going. Well, we'll go somewhere else, babe. 33 00:01:40,240 --> 00:01:42,200 Speaker 4: That's how you know that you're the side piece that 34 00:01:42,280 --> 00:01:44,039 Speaker 4: they're like, never mind, we're not going to cold Play. 35 00:01:44,160 --> 00:01:46,240 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, about that, We're not gonna be able to go. 36 00:01:46,640 --> 00:01:51,600 Speaker 2: Sorry, Let's go somewhere more privately, hotel room in another state, somewhere. 37 00:01:52,000 --> 00:01:54,360 Speaker 2: Audio journals like we're writing in our diaries, except we 38 00:01:54,360 --> 00:01:54,960 Speaker 2: say them aloud. 39 00:01:54,960 --> 00:01:57,720 Speaker 1: We call them blogs. Kailin go deer blog. 40 00:01:58,000 --> 00:02:01,800 Speaker 4: So I feel like doing lately, and by lately, I 41 00:02:01,840 --> 00:02:04,720 Speaker 4: mean like the last five to seven years is going 42 00:02:04,720 --> 00:02:06,800 Speaker 4: to weddings. I go to a lot of weddings. It's 43 00:02:06,880 --> 00:02:10,839 Speaker 4: kind of my second job. And you know, we've seen 44 00:02:10,880 --> 00:02:13,239 Speaker 4: the changes and the trends evolve. We've talked about on 45 00:02:13,280 --> 00:02:15,560 Speaker 4: the show. You know, do you give a cash gift? 46 00:02:15,639 --> 00:02:17,440 Speaker 4: Do you still stick with the registry? 47 00:02:17,960 --> 00:02:20,680 Speaker 5: You know? And I think think things have evolved. 48 00:02:20,680 --> 00:02:23,280 Speaker 4: So one trend I have noticed is that not a 49 00:02:23,320 --> 00:02:26,160 Speaker 4: lot of people, some people still do will bring their 50 00:02:26,200 --> 00:02:30,360 Speaker 4: cards to the actual wedding. Typically they'll mail it before 51 00:02:30,520 --> 00:02:32,400 Speaker 4: or afterwards, which I feel like. 52 00:02:32,760 --> 00:02:34,600 Speaker 5: Is nice, especially if it's out of town. You don't 53 00:02:34,600 --> 00:02:36,280 Speaker 5: have to lug that whole box home. 54 00:02:37,160 --> 00:02:39,160 Speaker 4: But I know, you know, for the Nanas and the Aunties, 55 00:02:39,200 --> 00:02:40,920 Speaker 4: they still want to bring their card and put it 56 00:02:40,960 --> 00:02:43,840 Speaker 4: in a box. Well, I prefer to send it later, 57 00:02:43,919 --> 00:02:45,760 Speaker 4: but I do like to get a good card, write 58 00:02:45,760 --> 00:02:48,720 Speaker 4: something in there, and give a little cash. 59 00:02:48,760 --> 00:02:50,239 Speaker 5: I will always give cash for a wedding. 60 00:02:51,320 --> 00:02:57,200 Speaker 4: My boyfriend always wants to send the cash via Venmo 61 00:02:57,520 --> 00:03:01,720 Speaker 4: or Zelle. And I think we're a little too lax, 62 00:03:01,919 --> 00:03:05,200 Speaker 4: a little too informal. I don't know what you guys think, 63 00:03:05,280 --> 00:03:07,360 Speaker 4: but I know some people are doing this. It just 64 00:03:07,400 --> 00:03:10,800 Speaker 4: makes me feel a little icky to just like send 65 00:03:10,840 --> 00:03:11,840 Speaker 4: you some cash. 66 00:03:12,440 --> 00:03:13,359 Speaker 5: You know for your. 67 00:03:13,240 --> 00:03:16,399 Speaker 2: Wedding because I send people money like when they when 68 00:03:16,400 --> 00:03:20,600 Speaker 2: they like, buy me breakfast, right, you know I don't Yeah, yeah, 69 00:03:20,840 --> 00:03:24,360 Speaker 2: I think it's a little informal. It's like, oh here, 70 00:03:24,639 --> 00:03:27,000 Speaker 2: here's some more was like, it's like throwing money at someone. 71 00:03:27,000 --> 00:03:29,760 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, here's money here whatever, and it takes two 72 00:03:29,840 --> 00:03:33,040 Speaker 2: seconds and there's no real effort involved. Yeah, I don't 73 00:03:33,040 --> 00:03:34,280 Speaker 2: think we're there yet for weddings. 74 00:03:34,440 --> 00:03:35,360 Speaker 5: No, I don't think so. 75 00:03:35,560 --> 00:03:38,480 Speaker 4: Now, there were people in between the at the wedding 76 00:03:38,520 --> 00:03:40,920 Speaker 4: I was at last, and between the church and the 77 00:03:40,960 --> 00:03:43,840 Speaker 4: party that were running to buy their cards and stuff. 78 00:03:43,840 --> 00:03:47,200 Speaker 4: Then I'm like, you don't need to just mail it afterwards. 79 00:03:46,800 --> 00:03:48,720 Speaker 2: As long as you do it, because trust me, we 80 00:03:48,760 --> 00:03:51,280 Speaker 2: all know people will remember if you don't do it. 81 00:03:51,760 --> 00:03:54,320 Speaker 2: Everyone remembers the people who didn't give gifts. Right or wrong, 82 00:03:54,480 --> 00:03:56,560 Speaker 2: everybody remembers the people who didn't give gifts. 83 00:03:56,600 --> 00:03:59,280 Speaker 5: I've noticed that I haven't really noticed that. 84 00:03:59,360 --> 00:04:01,480 Speaker 4: And I and our friends that I've heard talk crap 85 00:04:01,520 --> 00:04:04,160 Speaker 4: about like wedding gift situations, I'll give them a little 86 00:04:04,200 --> 00:04:09,280 Speaker 4: more because I very much don't want to be talking no, and. 87 00:04:09,160 --> 00:04:11,000 Speaker 2: Well, I don't think that we should have to give 88 00:04:11,080 --> 00:04:13,400 Speaker 2: based on what we think it are. Like I've heard 89 00:04:13,640 --> 00:04:15,240 Speaker 2: We've been over this a million times, but I've heard 90 00:04:15,280 --> 00:04:17,520 Speaker 2: the thing where it's like, you should give the amount 91 00:04:17,560 --> 00:04:19,479 Speaker 2: of money that you think it cost for you and 92 00:04:19,520 --> 00:04:22,400 Speaker 2: your guests to attend. Now, I'll give you whatever, because 93 00:04:22,440 --> 00:04:24,240 Speaker 2: I might, I might want to give you more than 94 00:04:24,279 --> 00:04:26,919 Speaker 2: I think your wedding cost. I don't know. It's not 95 00:04:26,960 --> 00:04:29,920 Speaker 2: my job to pay for myself at your wedding, no boss, no, 96 00:04:29,920 --> 00:04:32,640 Speaker 2: no no. I do think people will judge you based 97 00:04:32,680 --> 00:04:34,200 Speaker 2: on what they've done for you in the past. 98 00:04:34,720 --> 00:04:35,720 Speaker 1: Like my mom is like this. 99 00:04:35,880 --> 00:04:39,960 Speaker 2: My mom, My mom is given to cousins graduations and 100 00:04:40,120 --> 00:04:44,520 Speaker 2: friends kids graduations, and she remembers who gave to us, 101 00:04:44,839 --> 00:04:47,400 Speaker 2: and she met my grandma, my nana was really about this, 102 00:04:47,880 --> 00:04:51,719 Speaker 2: and then she remembers who thanked her and who didn't. Oh, 103 00:04:51,760 --> 00:04:54,039 Speaker 2: that's a big one, mom. The thank you is a 104 00:04:54,040 --> 00:04:56,479 Speaker 2: big one from my mom. If she sends you something 105 00:04:56,480 --> 00:04:58,600 Speaker 2: and you don't say thank you in any form, she 106 00:04:58,640 --> 00:05:01,560 Speaker 2: doesn't like that, even if it's I don't know, you 107 00:05:01,560 --> 00:05:03,600 Speaker 2: were supposed to send a gift because it was a graduation. 108 00:05:03,680 --> 00:05:05,200 Speaker 2: You were supposed to send a gift because it was 109 00:05:05,240 --> 00:05:07,279 Speaker 2: a wedding. She wants to thank you, and she'll remember 110 00:05:07,279 --> 00:05:09,640 Speaker 2: if you didn't do it. So these are all the 111 00:05:09,640 --> 00:05:11,560 Speaker 2: things I think people consider. But I don't know that 112 00:05:11,640 --> 00:05:14,160 Speaker 2: a zel. You can't just zell. I can just zell 113 00:05:14,240 --> 00:05:16,000 Speaker 2: you fifty bucks at your birthday and go here. 114 00:05:16,520 --> 00:05:18,320 Speaker 4: I don't love it. And well, by the way, I 115 00:05:18,320 --> 00:05:20,440 Speaker 4: do always give more if I have a date with me, 116 00:05:21,040 --> 00:05:23,960 Speaker 4: regardless you. I don't think you should pay for plates. 117 00:05:23,680 --> 00:05:26,520 Speaker 2: You give on behalf of because there were two of you. Yeah, yeah, no, 118 00:05:26,600 --> 00:05:27,520 Speaker 2: I think that makes sense. 119 00:05:27,880 --> 00:05:29,960 Speaker 4: Pee would you be You're the only married person in 120 00:05:30,000 --> 00:05:31,920 Speaker 4: the room. Would you be offended if someone zell do you? 121 00:05:32,360 --> 00:05:32,520 Speaker 6: No? 122 00:05:32,560 --> 00:05:33,919 Speaker 5: I've had people do that really. 123 00:05:34,040 --> 00:05:35,839 Speaker 6: A family friend actually did because she lives in Florida 124 00:05:35,839 --> 00:05:37,080 Speaker 6: and she couldn't go to my Vegas wedding. 125 00:05:37,120 --> 00:05:40,200 Speaker 5: I totally understand. So she zelled me and I thought 126 00:05:40,200 --> 00:05:40,880 Speaker 5: that was really sweet. 127 00:05:40,920 --> 00:05:43,200 Speaker 6: Oh I don't care, But I also I get the 128 00:05:43,200 --> 00:05:46,120 Speaker 6: feeling I wouldn't do it personally. I'm not there yet, 129 00:05:46,160 --> 00:05:48,680 Speaker 6: but I think the next twenty maybe thirty years, I 130 00:05:48,680 --> 00:05:49,640 Speaker 6: think that's going to be the new. 131 00:05:49,560 --> 00:05:52,039 Speaker 4: Trend because millennials don't have checks, like we just don't 132 00:05:52,080 --> 00:05:52,440 Speaker 4: have them. 133 00:05:52,560 --> 00:05:54,280 Speaker 5: We're Shelley, But you know. 134 00:05:54,640 --> 00:05:58,359 Speaker 4: I just I know it's hard, and I usually give cash, 135 00:05:58,440 --> 00:06:00,280 Speaker 4: so I hand it to the person like direct if 136 00:06:00,320 --> 00:06:02,760 Speaker 4: I see them after or whatever. But I don't know 137 00:06:02,800 --> 00:06:05,920 Speaker 4: if I'm here's what's in the line. 138 00:06:05,720 --> 00:06:07,520 Speaker 5: Like ingrats and the rest of your life. 139 00:06:08,720 --> 00:06:09,279 Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know. 140 00:06:09,360 --> 00:06:11,520 Speaker 2: That's a good question, because you're right. I mean, I 141 00:06:11,520 --> 00:06:14,240 Speaker 2: guess I have I have to dig for my checks. Yeah, 142 00:06:14,520 --> 00:06:17,279 Speaker 2: you'll find them because I have so rarely use them. Yeah, 143 00:06:17,279 --> 00:06:19,000 Speaker 2: and then I'll put money in the envelope because if 144 00:06:19,000 --> 00:06:21,520 Speaker 2: it gets lost and that's gone. But yeah, I don't 145 00:06:21,520 --> 00:06:23,840 Speaker 2: know what you do, because you're right. I mean everyone, 146 00:06:24,120 --> 00:06:26,200 Speaker 2: that is really how it's going. But at the same time, 147 00:06:26,240 --> 00:06:28,880 Speaker 2: it's just so impersonal. It's like you could send a 148 00:06:28,920 --> 00:06:30,600 Speaker 2: card and then wait a few days and then zell 149 00:06:30,680 --> 00:06:32,279 Speaker 2: and hope the card and the zell land at the 150 00:06:32,279 --> 00:06:32,839 Speaker 2: same time. 151 00:06:33,320 --> 00:06:34,280 Speaker 1: But like, I don't know. 152 00:06:34,320 --> 00:06:35,880 Speaker 5: That's what you say, like, hey, did you get myzelf? 153 00:06:36,080 --> 00:06:36,720 Speaker 1: You know what I mean? 154 00:06:36,800 --> 00:06:38,159 Speaker 5: Like you feel silly. 155 00:06:38,240 --> 00:06:40,000 Speaker 6: But I can also argue right and say that some 156 00:06:40,040 --> 00:06:43,160 Speaker 6: people do like an online account or a wedding whatever. 157 00:06:43,200 --> 00:06:46,120 Speaker 6: It's called a honeymoon fund, and some people will give 158 00:06:46,160 --> 00:06:46,880 Speaker 6: their gift. 159 00:06:46,640 --> 00:06:47,560 Speaker 5: That way is done. 160 00:06:47,600 --> 00:06:49,880 Speaker 1: That of the same almost almost. 161 00:06:49,560 --> 00:06:52,400 Speaker 2: Kind of you're saying, that's how I want you to 162 00:06:52,400 --> 00:06:55,479 Speaker 2: give it, Like, yeah, you know, yeah, that's a nice 163 00:06:55,480 --> 00:06:55,839 Speaker 2: thing to do. 164 00:06:55,880 --> 00:06:56,040 Speaker 1: Though. 165 00:06:56,040 --> 00:06:58,840 Speaker 2: I think that's a nice thing to do if you're 166 00:06:58,880 --> 00:07:01,600 Speaker 2: having a wedding, is have some form of like digital 167 00:07:01,640 --> 00:07:03,599 Speaker 2: way that I can do it, because that way I'm 168 00:07:03,640 --> 00:07:06,440 Speaker 2: doing the efficient thing. But then I don't feel like 169 00:07:06,520 --> 00:07:08,800 Speaker 2: it's informal because you're saying, do it this way. 170 00:07:08,880 --> 00:07:09,360 Speaker 5: I agree. 171 00:07:09,520 --> 00:07:12,440 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's also tacky to like put your your cash 172 00:07:12,480 --> 00:07:16,360 Speaker 3: app code on the invite or something like I got yeah. 173 00:07:16,240 --> 00:07:17,080 Speaker 5: People do that now. 174 00:07:17,120 --> 00:07:19,680 Speaker 3: They'll put like happy birthday to me, and then they'll 175 00:07:19,720 --> 00:07:24,200 Speaker 3: put their cash app in the corner like that's so tag. Yeah, no, 176 00:07:24,520 --> 00:07:25,960 Speaker 3: I don't know, but actually I don't care how you 177 00:07:25,960 --> 00:07:28,880 Speaker 3: give me the money. Okay, cash app means it you 178 00:07:29,080 --> 00:07:29,840 Speaker 3: put it in my hand. 179 00:07:30,200 --> 00:07:35,520 Speaker 2: It just seems like, I know how fast I gotta 180 00:07:35,520 --> 00:07:37,000 Speaker 2: get some money. Oh my god, I get on my 181 00:07:37,000 --> 00:07:37,840 Speaker 2: app boom boom boom. 182 00:07:37,880 --> 00:07:38,000 Speaker 7: Here. 183 00:07:38,040 --> 00:07:39,880 Speaker 2: So I don't know, here's two hundred bucks whatever. It 184 00:07:40,000 --> 00:07:43,800 Speaker 2: just seems so sort of like an afterthought, you know 185 00:07:43,840 --> 00:07:45,520 Speaker 2: what I mean. But I guess it's better than nothing. 186 00:07:45,600 --> 00:07:46,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, what do you guys do? 187 00:07:46,520 --> 00:07:48,600 Speaker 5: With the cards after Paullein, Do you still have your 188 00:07:48,600 --> 00:07:49,200 Speaker 5: wedding cards? 189 00:07:49,240 --> 00:07:49,600 Speaker 2: I do. 190 00:07:50,000 --> 00:07:51,200 Speaker 5: I'm such a like little dork. 191 00:07:51,240 --> 00:07:53,800 Speaker 6: I keep all my cards birthday and I have communion 192 00:07:53,840 --> 00:07:55,080 Speaker 6: cards for my Baptists. 193 00:07:55,080 --> 00:07:56,119 Speaker 1: I have it all, don't Okay? 194 00:07:56,240 --> 00:07:57,840 Speaker 5: Yeah, I like to look at that stuff later, So 195 00:07:57,960 --> 00:08:01,520 Speaker 5: be classy. Get a car from the store. Yes, the 196 00:08:01,600 --> 00:08:03,760 Speaker 5: cards are expensive too, I got to that. 197 00:08:04,720 --> 00:08:06,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, ninety nine cents. 198 00:08:06,120 --> 00:08:07,400 Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, that's the value area. 199 00:08:07,440 --> 00:08:10,200 Speaker 1: The last card I bought was seven dollars. 200 00:08:10,240 --> 00:08:15,280 Speaker 2: It works's ever been left waiting. 201 00:08:15,000 --> 00:08:16,360 Speaker 1: By the phone. 202 00:08:17,200 --> 00:08:20,800 Speaker 2: It's the Fred Show. Iris, Good morning, welcome to the program. 203 00:08:20,880 --> 00:08:22,000 Speaker 2: How are you good? 204 00:08:22,120 --> 00:08:22,760 Speaker 1: How are you? 205 00:08:22,960 --> 00:08:25,160 Speaker 2: We're doing great? Thanks for being here. What's going on 206 00:08:25,200 --> 00:08:28,040 Speaker 2: with this dude, Matt? We got to know how you 207 00:08:28,120 --> 00:08:30,400 Speaker 2: met about any dates you've been on. Give us some 208 00:08:30,440 --> 00:08:33,160 Speaker 2: context and backstory, all that good stuff, and then what's 209 00:08:33,160 --> 00:08:33,840 Speaker 2: going on now? 210 00:08:34,880 --> 00:08:35,160 Speaker 8: Yeah? 211 00:08:35,440 --> 00:08:36,400 Speaker 2: Thank you? 212 00:08:37,240 --> 00:08:40,520 Speaker 9: So yeah, we met on we met online, we met 213 00:08:40,559 --> 00:08:41,720 Speaker 9: on Facebook dating. 214 00:08:41,920 --> 00:08:45,520 Speaker 1: Actually, so about that one too often. 215 00:08:45,760 --> 00:08:47,960 Speaker 5: I heard there's a lot of people in there, though, I. 216 00:08:48,000 --> 00:08:51,800 Speaker 1: Said, you know, is it like I don't. 217 00:08:52,040 --> 00:08:54,000 Speaker 3: I don't know how I know this, but I saw 218 00:08:54,040 --> 00:08:55,800 Speaker 3: that there was a part on there that you can 219 00:08:55,840 --> 00:08:57,959 Speaker 3: make it. You don't know anybody like it will never 220 00:08:58,000 --> 00:08:59,320 Speaker 3: pop up in anyone that you know. 221 00:08:59,480 --> 00:09:00,480 Speaker 1: Oh that's a good idea. 222 00:09:01,240 --> 00:09:02,880 Speaker 2: Not that anyone will be surprised to see me in 223 00:09:02,880 --> 00:09:04,800 Speaker 2: any form of a dating app. I mean, I'm single, 224 00:09:05,320 --> 00:09:06,839 Speaker 2: but I guess if you weren't single and you were 225 00:09:06,840 --> 00:09:08,560 Speaker 2: trying to poke around on that thing anyway. Okay, so 226 00:09:08,640 --> 00:09:10,600 Speaker 2: Facebook dating, we don't hear a lot about that, but 227 00:09:10,679 --> 00:09:13,480 Speaker 2: you you you. 228 00:09:13,440 --> 00:09:14,400 Speaker 1: Met someone on there? 229 00:09:14,920 --> 00:09:18,480 Speaker 9: Yeah? No, and and like actually went out on a date, 230 00:09:18,640 --> 00:09:22,400 Speaker 9: which is rare. Like meeting someone you know online and 231 00:09:22,440 --> 00:09:24,880 Speaker 9: then actually having it results in a in a real 232 00:09:24,920 --> 00:09:29,080 Speaker 9: life date feels feels pretty rare. 233 00:09:29,280 --> 00:09:31,559 Speaker 2: So why is it rare? Do you not date very much? 234 00:09:31,640 --> 00:09:33,000 Speaker 2: Or why why is it rare for you to go 235 00:09:33,040 --> 00:09:33,480 Speaker 2: on a date? 236 00:09:33,800 --> 00:09:38,080 Speaker 9: I mean, I feel like dating these days, especially online 237 00:09:38,160 --> 00:09:40,800 Speaker 9: dating in general, is really hard to actually meet someone 238 00:09:40,800 --> 00:09:43,520 Speaker 9: who wants to meet in real life. I'm also a 239 00:09:43,520 --> 00:09:49,199 Speaker 9: single mom, which complicates things, right, so it's like two strikes. 240 00:09:49,480 --> 00:09:52,679 Speaker 2: Yeah, that could be hard to to coordinate. All right, 241 00:09:52,720 --> 00:09:54,280 Speaker 2: So you met this guy, you had a great date, 242 00:09:54,520 --> 00:09:57,000 Speaker 2: you felt like everything went really well, things kind of 243 00:09:57,040 --> 00:09:59,959 Speaker 2: came together, except you have not heard from him since then, 244 00:10:00,040 --> 00:10:02,640 Speaker 2: and that s bugging you as it would anybody. 245 00:10:03,120 --> 00:10:06,880 Speaker 10: Yeah, it feels especially weird because I have to say 246 00:10:06,920 --> 00:10:11,480 Speaker 10: it was a pretty great date, Like it wasn't just okay, 247 00:10:11,600 --> 00:10:13,320 Speaker 10: it was a really good date. 248 00:10:13,400 --> 00:10:16,240 Speaker 9: So to not hear anything okay, they have him ghost 249 00:10:16,360 --> 00:10:19,560 Speaker 9: me after that just feels very odd. He'd also been 250 00:10:19,640 --> 00:10:23,560 Speaker 9: really responsive, like up to the date, you know what 251 00:10:23,559 --> 00:10:26,079 Speaker 9: I mean, like as we were planning it, as we 252 00:10:26,080 --> 00:10:31,120 Speaker 9: were talking, you know, texting, So I okay, yeah, just 253 00:10:31,200 --> 00:10:32,959 Speaker 9: it feels odd. It feels very odd. 254 00:10:33,000 --> 00:10:35,440 Speaker 2: Well, let me call Uh, We're going to play a song. 255 00:10:35,520 --> 00:10:37,320 Speaker 2: Come back. We'll call Matt. You'll be on the phone. 256 00:10:37,360 --> 00:10:39,080 Speaker 2: We're going to ask these questions at some point. You 257 00:10:39,080 --> 00:10:41,960 Speaker 2: welcome to jump in on the call, and I hope iris. Yes, 258 00:10:42,040 --> 00:10:44,680 Speaker 2: all right, let's call Matt. You guys met on Facebook dating, 259 00:10:44,720 --> 00:10:46,280 Speaker 2: which is not a dating app that we hear about 260 00:10:46,400 --> 00:10:49,480 Speaker 2: very often on waiting by the phone. But you guys connected, 261 00:10:49,559 --> 00:10:53,120 Speaker 2: You went out, you had great conversation, you really felt 262 00:10:53,120 --> 00:10:55,559 Speaker 2: like the date went well, and you don't date a 263 00:10:55,600 --> 00:10:58,240 Speaker 2: whole lot, so you were excited about the prospect here. 264 00:10:58,640 --> 00:11:01,080 Speaker 2: But you have not heard from they sends the date, 265 00:11:01,120 --> 00:11:03,520 Speaker 2: and you want to know why that is it? 266 00:11:03,760 --> 00:11:04,080 Speaker 1: All right? 267 00:11:04,120 --> 00:11:15,800 Speaker 2: Let's call him now. Good luck, Iris, Thank you. Hell, 268 00:11:16,320 --> 00:11:17,800 Speaker 2: Hi is Matt. 269 00:11:18,440 --> 00:11:20,160 Speaker 1: Yeah it is Matt. Hey Matt, good morning. My name 270 00:11:20,200 --> 00:11:20,480 Speaker 1: is Fred. 271 00:11:20,480 --> 00:11:22,400 Speaker 2: I'm calling from the Fred's Show, the Morning radio Show, 272 00:11:22,440 --> 00:11:23,800 Speaker 2: and I have to tell you that we are on 273 00:11:23,840 --> 00:11:26,600 Speaker 2: the radio right now, and I would need your permission 274 00:11:26,600 --> 00:11:27,360 Speaker 2: to continue with the call. 275 00:11:27,400 --> 00:11:29,160 Speaker 1: Can which for just a second on the show? 276 00:11:29,960 --> 00:11:33,600 Speaker 11: Uh yeah, I guess. I mean it's a little weird. 277 00:11:33,760 --> 00:11:34,960 Speaker 11: You said you're a radio show. 278 00:11:35,040 --> 00:11:36,720 Speaker 2: I know it's a little awkward. Thanks for listening, by 279 00:11:36,720 --> 00:11:39,960 Speaker 2: the way, But no, we're calling on behalf of a 280 00:11:39,960 --> 00:11:43,800 Speaker 2: woman named Iris, who I guess you met recently on 281 00:11:43,920 --> 00:11:46,840 Speaker 2: maybe on Facebook dating or something, and then you guys 282 00:11:46,840 --> 00:11:47,440 Speaker 2: went on a date. 283 00:11:47,800 --> 00:11:50,920 Speaker 12: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I mean I went out with her. 284 00:11:50,960 --> 00:11:53,400 Speaker 11: What's right going on? What's a question here? 285 00:11:53,520 --> 00:11:57,480 Speaker 1: Okay? Oh, we're going to go to the we love 286 00:11:57,559 --> 00:11:58,760 Speaker 1: bossing over here? Okay. 287 00:11:58,840 --> 00:12:02,320 Speaker 2: Well, she called us, Matt and told us I had 288 00:12:02,600 --> 00:12:04,080 Speaker 2: a lot of nice things to say about you, said 289 00:12:04,080 --> 00:12:06,720 Speaker 2: that she enjoyed meeting you and enjoyed the date and 290 00:12:06,800 --> 00:12:08,320 Speaker 2: was hoping to hear from you again. Says you were 291 00:12:08,400 --> 00:12:12,280 Speaker 2: very communicative before the date and and she's confused as 292 00:12:12,360 --> 00:12:14,640 Speaker 2: to why you haven't reached out or responded to her. 293 00:12:14,520 --> 00:12:15,840 Speaker 1: Since you guys went out. 294 00:12:16,040 --> 00:12:20,559 Speaker 12: Uh yeah, okay, I mean it's okay, it's a little awkward, but. 295 00:12:22,559 --> 00:12:25,079 Speaker 11: You know, Iris was was really nice. 296 00:12:25,200 --> 00:12:27,280 Speaker 12: I mean I really liked her when we were talking 297 00:12:27,360 --> 00:12:29,920 Speaker 12: on Facebook dating. We went on the date, the conversation 298 00:12:30,040 --> 00:12:32,520 Speaker 12: was good. I mean, we had good banter, you know. 299 00:12:32,559 --> 00:12:35,000 Speaker 11: And she's gorgeous. She's absolutely beautiful. 300 00:12:35,240 --> 00:12:38,920 Speaker 1: That's the problem. This all checks out. What's the problem. Then, Yeah, okay. 301 00:12:39,280 --> 00:12:42,240 Speaker 12: I knew that she's a single mom, you know, and 302 00:12:42,280 --> 00:12:45,800 Speaker 12: she doesn't get out much for the dating. So but 303 00:12:45,880 --> 00:12:49,240 Speaker 12: that didn't bother me, you know, I it was fine 304 00:12:49,280 --> 00:12:51,240 Speaker 12: hearing her talk about her son. She was very proud, 305 00:12:51,240 --> 00:12:54,360 Speaker 12: and I was totally fine. At the end of the date, 306 00:12:54,440 --> 00:12:57,040 Speaker 12: you know, we were I drove her home. We were 307 00:12:57,160 --> 00:12:59,480 Speaker 12: kissing in my car before we you know, kind of 308 00:12:59,480 --> 00:13:04,080 Speaker 12: said goodbye, and things were getting hot and heavy. But 309 00:13:04,120 --> 00:13:07,520 Speaker 12: then she told me like, okay, well, unfortunately I can't. 310 00:13:07,600 --> 00:13:09,160 Speaker 12: I wish I could bring you up, but my son's 311 00:13:09,160 --> 00:13:16,040 Speaker 12: sleeping in my bed. Okay, okay, And when I you know, 312 00:13:16,720 --> 00:13:19,840 Speaker 12: she she's yeah, she said her son was sleeping in 313 00:13:19,880 --> 00:13:23,520 Speaker 12: her bed. But she already told me that her son 314 00:13:24,440 --> 00:13:30,040 Speaker 12: is seventeen and in high school and he sleeps in 315 00:13:30,080 --> 00:13:33,800 Speaker 12: bed with her every night, and so that. 316 00:13:34,280 --> 00:13:36,560 Speaker 1: Oh no, it's in my mind where I was in 317 00:13:36,600 --> 00:13:36,880 Speaker 1: my bed. 318 00:13:36,920 --> 00:13:40,080 Speaker 2: I'm like, oh, mom's out, kids five, six, seven years old, 319 00:13:40,120 --> 00:13:44,760 Speaker 2: somehody that you know mom's in yeah, oh boy, okay. 320 00:13:45,520 --> 00:13:46,000 Speaker 1: Oh my. 321 00:13:47,679 --> 00:13:48,760 Speaker 5: If we want to go down this bed? 322 00:13:50,960 --> 00:13:52,959 Speaker 1: So anyway, like. 323 00:13:52,960 --> 00:13:54,800 Speaker 11: You guys agree here that. 324 00:13:55,120 --> 00:13:58,880 Speaker 2: Seen or not. I didn't know where this is going. 325 00:13:58,920 --> 00:14:01,040 Speaker 2: I didn't know in my I didn't know if maybe 326 00:14:01,160 --> 00:14:03,040 Speaker 2: you're going to wind up in like the kid's bed 327 00:14:03,520 --> 00:14:05,400 Speaker 2: or something like. I didn't know where this was going 328 00:14:05,600 --> 00:14:10,360 Speaker 2: because okay, no, no, let me bring iris in. I 329 00:14:10,400 --> 00:14:12,800 Speaker 2: got iris. You have a lot of explaining to do. Girl, 330 00:14:12,960 --> 00:14:16,000 Speaker 2: Like your seventeen year old son sleeps in your bed 331 00:14:16,360 --> 00:14:17,280 Speaker 2: and you're there. 332 00:14:17,679 --> 00:14:23,240 Speaker 9: Yes he does, there is Look, it's it's complicated. 333 00:14:23,600 --> 00:14:24,640 Speaker 1: Sounds like it, you know. 334 00:14:24,680 --> 00:14:27,160 Speaker 9: I feel like when you're a parent, there're certain thing 335 00:14:29,680 --> 00:14:33,240 Speaker 9: that you have to do for your child. And what 336 00:14:33,280 --> 00:14:33,720 Speaker 9: would be. 337 00:14:35,520 --> 00:14:38,240 Speaker 11: If your seventeen year old sleeps in your bed every night? 338 00:14:38,320 --> 00:14:39,600 Speaker 1: That's issue. 339 00:14:39,640 --> 00:14:43,160 Speaker 2: I don't immediately take this to like a criminal place 340 00:14:43,800 --> 00:14:46,880 Speaker 2: or anything like that. It's in my mind. It's well, 341 00:14:47,880 --> 00:14:52,440 Speaker 2: I mean, we live in a. Yeah, sadly, this is 342 00:14:52,440 --> 00:14:54,520 Speaker 2: the world we live in. But I guess I'm really 343 00:14:54,520 --> 00:14:58,280 Speaker 2: concerned about boundaries here, Like seventeen years old, there's quite 344 00:14:58,320 --> 00:15:01,000 Speaker 2: the attachment. I mean, what happens I mean, what is 345 00:15:01,040 --> 00:15:03,840 Speaker 2: he a junior in high school? Senior in high school? 346 00:15:04,640 --> 00:15:05,400 Speaker 1: Yeah? I mean like what? 347 00:15:05,960 --> 00:15:08,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, like what happens when it's time to go to 348 00:15:08,200 --> 00:15:10,080 Speaker 2: college and move out and things like that. I mean, 349 00:15:10,240 --> 00:15:14,000 Speaker 2: it seems like, you know, help me out here. 350 00:15:14,720 --> 00:15:17,080 Speaker 9: First of all, he's a he's a rising senior. 351 00:15:17,520 --> 00:15:22,360 Speaker 8: Second of all, look, I I'm not I'm not trying 352 00:15:22,640 --> 00:15:27,440 Speaker 8: to get feisty here, but I'm very surprised that that's 353 00:15:27,480 --> 00:15:30,080 Speaker 8: the reason, especially because you're. 354 00:15:30,400 --> 00:15:34,480 Speaker 9: You're not a parent, and you don't understand and there's 355 00:15:34,600 --> 00:15:37,920 Speaker 9: a lot of history and context here that I'm not 356 00:15:37,960 --> 00:15:45,840 Speaker 9: going to go into about my son's means, and that 357 00:15:45,840 --> 00:15:48,200 Speaker 9: that would be a deal breaker for you how I 358 00:15:48,280 --> 00:15:50,120 Speaker 9: choose to parent my child. 359 00:15:50,240 --> 00:15:52,280 Speaker 1: Wait a minute, you can't. 360 00:15:52,280 --> 00:15:55,400 Speaker 2: Honestly, look, no one's judging you or whatever your story is, 361 00:15:55,520 --> 00:15:59,080 Speaker 2: but you can't possibly tell me that that is something 362 00:15:59,160 --> 00:16:01,560 Speaker 2: that someone who you're rolling to date would find to 363 00:16:01,640 --> 00:16:05,160 Speaker 2: be you know, commonplace, and like, so, what happens if 364 00:16:05,160 --> 00:16:08,400 Speaker 2: this relationship goes somewhere, we have to he has to 365 00:16:08,440 --> 00:16:10,640 Speaker 2: be out of the house then, like because he's taking 366 00:16:10,640 --> 00:16:13,400 Speaker 2: your spot in the bed, like the do what do 367 00:16:13,440 --> 00:16:13,640 Speaker 2: you do? 368 00:16:14,720 --> 00:16:18,160 Speaker 9: If things were to progress, it would be a while 369 00:16:18,320 --> 00:16:23,160 Speaker 9: before you meet my son, for you know, obvious reasons. 370 00:16:23,360 --> 00:16:27,120 Speaker 9: I'm very protective of him. I thought that was understood 371 00:16:28,520 --> 00:16:33,120 Speaker 9: in terms of like intimacy. There are ways to work 372 00:16:33,160 --> 00:16:38,800 Speaker 9: around that. Bedtime is our special time. But you know 373 00:16:39,080 --> 00:16:43,000 Speaker 9: their afternoons, there mourning, there are other. 374 00:16:45,440 --> 00:16:45,920 Speaker 1: I can't. 375 00:16:46,440 --> 00:16:47,880 Speaker 11: I'm sorry, guys, I can't. 376 00:16:48,960 --> 00:16:52,120 Speaker 12: I mean, this is this is the dilemma, and I 377 00:16:52,240 --> 00:16:56,400 Speaker 12: think that I am going to withhold the judgment, but. 378 00:16:56,480 --> 00:17:00,680 Speaker 1: Just on we're going to get into studies now. I'm 379 00:17:00,720 --> 00:17:01,040 Speaker 1: not sure. 380 00:17:01,080 --> 00:17:02,880 Speaker 2: Honestly, I don't know if this is the son's thing 381 00:17:03,000 --> 00:17:06,160 Speaker 2: or the moms. I don't know who like a whole Yeah, 382 00:17:06,160 --> 00:17:08,600 Speaker 2: I don't, And I'm sorry for whatever you've been through 383 00:17:08,680 --> 00:17:11,480 Speaker 2: or however we got here, genuinely, But I can also, 384 00:17:12,040 --> 00:17:14,600 Speaker 2: in fairness, I can see why somebody from the outside 385 00:17:14,600 --> 00:17:17,800 Speaker 2: would look at this and say where do I fit in? Oh? 386 00:17:17,920 --> 00:17:21,720 Speaker 9: I mean, I would just think, especially because we did 387 00:17:21,760 --> 00:17:23,840 Speaker 9: have such a great date and you did seem really 388 00:17:23,920 --> 00:17:27,760 Speaker 9: supportive of me being a single momb which I don't know, 389 00:17:27,840 --> 00:17:34,440 Speaker 9: maybe that was, maybe that was, but uh no, Yeah, 390 00:17:35,280 --> 00:17:35,959 Speaker 9: you are welcome. 391 00:17:36,160 --> 00:17:38,960 Speaker 12: You're thinking me as a back guy, but I'm I'm 392 00:17:39,000 --> 00:17:39,840 Speaker 12: just doing. 393 00:17:39,560 --> 00:17:41,600 Speaker 11: What I know is right for me. 394 00:17:41,880 --> 00:17:45,879 Speaker 2: Yeah, I think I can understand that you're Yeah, I'm sorry. 395 00:17:45,600 --> 00:17:50,400 Speaker 12: Max, somebody finds it understandable. I and I totally support 396 00:17:50,520 --> 00:17:53,520 Speaker 12: that you are supportive of your son, just not in 397 00:17:53,600 --> 00:17:56,080 Speaker 12: that way. And granted, like you said, I'm not a 398 00:17:56,160 --> 00:18:02,119 Speaker 12: parent myself, but I think that I am justified in 399 00:18:02,240 --> 00:18:04,959 Speaker 12: not wanting to be a part of that situation. 400 00:18:05,320 --> 00:18:07,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, in fairness, there were a lot of single moms 401 00:18:07,960 --> 00:18:12,800 Speaker 2: listening out going Okay, honestly, I'm not even gonna argue 402 00:18:12,800 --> 00:18:16,679 Speaker 2: with you, but so it's not for Matt. Iris. I'll 403 00:18:16,720 --> 00:18:18,240 Speaker 2: ask the question, Matt, would you like to go out 404 00:18:18,240 --> 00:18:21,720 Speaker 2: with her again? We'll pay for it, maybe a hotel 405 00:18:21,760 --> 00:18:31,680 Speaker 2: room too, I don't know. In the middle of the day, didn't. 406 00:18:32,040 --> 00:18:32,720 Speaker 1: Look Iris. 407 00:18:32,720 --> 00:18:36,879 Speaker 2: I'm I wish you the best, and I just you know, 408 00:18:37,119 --> 00:18:39,480 Speaker 2: I don't, I don't, I don't, I don't know, I 409 00:18:39,480 --> 00:18:40,560 Speaker 2: don't know, I don't know. 410 00:18:40,680 --> 00:18:41,200 Speaker 1: I just don't. 411 00:18:41,400 --> 00:18:43,520 Speaker 2: I don't know. I don't know. And so that's not 412 00:18:43,760 --> 00:18:48,360 Speaker 2: he's not going to be interested. And Iris, I wish 413 00:18:48,440 --> 00:18:50,800 Speaker 2: you the best in whatever's going on. And uh and 414 00:18:51,000 --> 00:18:54,639 Speaker 2: and thank you so much for sharing with that entertainment report. 415 00:18:54,760 --> 00:18:55,960 Speaker 1: He is on the pread show. 416 00:18:56,400 --> 00:18:59,959 Speaker 4: Cool boyfriend Man Chris Martin jokingly warned fans that they 417 00:19:00,040 --> 00:19:02,560 Speaker 4: they might be about to end up on the JumboTron 418 00:19:02,720 --> 00:19:05,439 Speaker 4: during their first concert since that whole cheating scandal that 419 00:19:05,520 --> 00:19:07,760 Speaker 4: broke I believe it was the first one while playing 420 00:19:07,800 --> 00:19:09,440 Speaker 4: in Wisconsin over the weekend. 421 00:19:09,760 --> 00:19:12,160 Speaker 5: Instead of just going right into the section of the. 422 00:19:12,080 --> 00:19:15,399 Speaker 4: Show where they show various couples on the big screen, 423 00:19:15,640 --> 00:19:18,480 Speaker 4: he wore the crowd what was coming. He said, we'd 424 00:19:18,480 --> 00:19:20,480 Speaker 4: like to say hello to some of you in the 425 00:19:20,520 --> 00:19:22,520 Speaker 4: crowd and put some of you on the big screen. 426 00:19:22,920 --> 00:19:24,840 Speaker 4: How we're going to do that is we're going to 427 00:19:24,960 --> 00:19:27,560 Speaker 4: use our cameras and put some of you up on 428 00:19:27,640 --> 00:19:28,359 Speaker 4: the big screen. 429 00:19:28,640 --> 00:19:29,680 Speaker 5: He reiterated it. 430 00:19:29,920 --> 00:19:32,960 Speaker 4: Please, if you haven't done your makeup, wink wink, do 431 00:19:33,119 --> 00:19:37,240 Speaker 4: so now. Last week, of course, astronomer CEO Andy Byron 432 00:19:37,400 --> 00:19:39,560 Speaker 4: was caught on the kiss cam with his arms around 433 00:19:39,640 --> 00:19:43,440 Speaker 4: coworker Christen Cabot. She even worked in HR even though 434 00:19:43,480 --> 00:19:46,760 Speaker 4: they are both married to other people. Andy has since 435 00:19:47,320 --> 00:19:50,720 Speaker 4: resigned and I'm doing that in quotes, he resigned. So 436 00:19:50,760 --> 00:19:54,760 Speaker 4: Selena Gomez celebrated her thirty third birthday with her fiance 437 00:19:54,880 --> 00:19:58,560 Speaker 4: Benny Blanco excuse me, Benny Blanco, and lots of friends, 438 00:19:58,840 --> 00:20:02,520 Speaker 4: including Taylor Swift. The party was a seventies disco theme 439 00:20:03,040 --> 00:20:05,960 Speaker 4: and photo show Tailor and Selena in a pool of balloons. 440 00:20:06,200 --> 00:20:09,640 Speaker 4: Selena posted and Instagram carousel, writing, this past year has 441 00:20:09,640 --> 00:20:12,280 Speaker 4: truly been the most beautiful of my life, and I 442 00:20:12,320 --> 00:20:14,239 Speaker 4: owe so much of that to you all. Thank you 443 00:20:14,280 --> 00:20:17,199 Speaker 4: for your unwavering love and kindness. Whether you cheered me 444 00:20:17,200 --> 00:20:19,520 Speaker 4: on from the sidelines, shared in my highs and lows, 445 00:20:19,720 --> 00:20:22,480 Speaker 4: or simply offered a listening ear, you have made this 446 00:20:22,560 --> 00:20:25,560 Speaker 4: year unforgettable. And she does look so happy. Her actual 447 00:20:25,560 --> 00:20:29,640 Speaker 4: birthday is tomorrow. And also, by the way, Selena and 448 00:20:29,720 --> 00:20:32,680 Speaker 4: Benny are doing a two day wedding. I just read 449 00:20:32,720 --> 00:20:36,960 Speaker 4: so they are also doing a two day wedding. 450 00:20:37,280 --> 00:20:40,080 Speaker 1: Let's just do it in one everything I gotta do 451 00:20:40,320 --> 00:20:42,080 Speaker 1: just one day, just one. 452 00:20:42,000 --> 00:20:43,000 Speaker 5: Day, get it all done. 453 00:20:43,119 --> 00:20:44,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, just bang it out. 454 00:20:44,720 --> 00:20:46,600 Speaker 5: They're doing that. I guess it's a new trend. I 455 00:20:46,600 --> 00:20:46,959 Speaker 5: don't know. 456 00:20:47,680 --> 00:20:49,720 Speaker 4: Then there were rumors that she picked her wedding date 457 00:20:49,760 --> 00:20:52,320 Speaker 4: based on when Taylor could attend her. 458 00:20:52,359 --> 00:20:54,280 Speaker 5: People say that's not true, but I kind of like. 459 00:20:54,560 --> 00:20:55,280 Speaker 1: Could believe that. 460 00:20:55,640 --> 00:20:58,640 Speaker 4: I got to see that maybe being true. 461 00:20:59,080 --> 00:21:02,639 Speaker 5: And speaking of Lenny thing. Lastly, it was a brat wedding, y'all. 462 00:21:02,760 --> 00:21:06,080 Speaker 4: Charlie XCX and the nineteen seventy five drummer George Daniel 463 00:21:06,280 --> 00:21:08,680 Speaker 4: tied the not Saturday in a low key London town 464 00:21:08,720 --> 00:21:12,800 Speaker 4: hall ceremony. She wore a short Vivian Westwood. They dj 465 00:21:12,960 --> 00:21:15,560 Speaker 4: their own reception and yes, there will be a second 466 00:21:15,600 --> 00:21:18,520 Speaker 4: wedding planned in Sicily. I think I saw they were 467 00:21:18,520 --> 00:21:20,600 Speaker 4: on vacation there, so they must be doing some planning. 468 00:21:20,760 --> 00:21:22,479 Speaker 4: She even did a little TikTok to one of her 469 00:21:22,520 --> 00:21:26,080 Speaker 4: own songs right before she married him, and it was very, 470 00:21:26,280 --> 00:21:26,800 Speaker 4: very cute. 471 00:21:26,920 --> 00:21:29,199 Speaker 2: That's only the only way that I can understand a 472 00:21:29,280 --> 00:21:32,320 Speaker 2: multi day wedding is if you have to get married 473 00:21:32,359 --> 00:21:36,040 Speaker 2: for some reason, like in town hall, yeah, town hall 474 00:21:36,720 --> 00:21:37,320 Speaker 2: in the square. 475 00:21:37,960 --> 00:21:38,320 Speaker 1: I don't know. 476 00:21:38,440 --> 00:21:39,840 Speaker 2: If you gotta go to the Justice of the Piece 477 00:21:39,840 --> 00:21:41,560 Speaker 2: for some reason and you invite a few people and 478 00:21:41,600 --> 00:21:43,560 Speaker 2: we show up a week because we have to formally 479 00:21:43,560 --> 00:21:45,520 Speaker 2: get it done, or maybe you go off and do 480 00:21:45,560 --> 00:21:48,119 Speaker 2: it and then we have a wedding. But that's the 481 00:21:48,160 --> 00:21:49,920 Speaker 2: only way I'm going in too, and we got to 482 00:21:49,960 --> 00:21:53,840 Speaker 2: separate them. There can't be one consecutive weekend. It's too 483 00:21:53,920 --> 00:21:57,000 Speaker 2: much to ask of one person. It's too much. 484 00:21:58,000 --> 00:21:59,480 Speaker 1: I'm very triggered, but I don't want to tig it. 485 00:21:59,680 --> 00:22:00,720 Speaker 1: That just too much. 486 00:22:01,280 --> 00:22:05,000 Speaker 2: Okay, all right, good to know if you can make 487 00:22:05,040 --> 00:22:10,200 Speaker 2: it on a on a Saturday. Ideally if you could, 488 00:22:10,440 --> 00:22:12,480 Speaker 2: and I understand it's little cheaper on other days, but like, 489 00:22:12,560 --> 00:22:15,840 Speaker 2: you know, if you love me, let's have a Saturday 490 00:22:15,840 --> 00:22:16,600 Speaker 2: wedding just for you. 491 00:22:16,640 --> 00:22:16,920 Speaker 5: Fred. 492 00:22:17,080 --> 00:22:20,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, well, because Friday can be a little tricky because 493 00:22:21,359 --> 00:22:24,479 Speaker 2: people have to work, and especially if it's a destination wedding. Now, 494 00:22:24,520 --> 00:22:26,520 Speaker 2: I got ticket day off to get there, and then 495 00:22:26,520 --> 00:22:28,480 Speaker 2: what happens if i'm you know, my flight's running late 496 00:22:28,520 --> 00:22:29,920 Speaker 2: or something like that. I gotta get the day before. 497 00:22:29,960 --> 00:22:32,440 Speaker 2: I can't miss it. And then a Sunday wedding means 498 00:22:32,480 --> 00:22:34,240 Speaker 2: I can't. Yeah, I don't know, I can't really partake. 499 00:22:34,359 --> 00:22:37,879 Speaker 5: And okay, any other stipulations for you. 500 00:22:38,040 --> 00:22:38,560 Speaker 2: Want to leave? 501 00:22:38,640 --> 00:22:41,840 Speaker 3: Right after you say, I right say, I'm gonna have 502 00:22:41,880 --> 00:22:43,240 Speaker 3: the chicken parmesan. 503 00:22:43,080 --> 00:22:50,600 Speaker 2: About the door the chicken barbage. Hopefully you have chicken parmejo. Yeah, 504 00:22:51,080 --> 00:22:53,920 Speaker 2: as long as there's no that's the asterisk. If there's 505 00:22:54,000 --> 00:22:57,440 Speaker 2: chicken barbiago, then then you can have it on a 506 00:22:57,480 --> 00:22:58,080 Speaker 2: Thursday if you want. 507 00:22:58,080 --> 00:22:59,600 Speaker 1: If there's chicken barbigan. 508 00:22:59,240 --> 00:23:04,200 Speaker 5: There, chicken, I'm marketing all right, perfect, shout it down. 509 00:23:04,240 --> 00:23:06,200 Speaker 5: I have all my notes down, and I've never in. 510 00:23:06,160 --> 00:23:08,320 Speaker 2: My life or anyone referred to it a chicken partment. Joah, 511 00:23:09,520 --> 00:23:11,080 Speaker 2: you know, okay anyway? 512 00:23:11,160 --> 00:23:13,960 Speaker 4: And okay, if you are new, or if you miss 513 00:23:14,000 --> 00:23:15,399 Speaker 4: any part of the show and want to catch up, 514 00:23:15,440 --> 00:23:17,600 Speaker 4: type the Friend Show on demand on the free I 515 00:23:17,640 --> 00:23:18,639 Speaker 4: heard where. 516 00:23:18,520 --> 00:23:20,040 Speaker 2: The show is brought to you by Chicken Patma jo 517 00:23:21,200 --> 00:23:22,800 Speaker 2: And if you want me to go to your Thursday wedding, 518 00:23:22,880 --> 00:23:24,240 Speaker 2: Chick and Papa Jean better. 519 00:23:24,000 --> 00:23:26,040 Speaker 1: Be on the minu. Do you have what it takes 520 00:23:26,080 --> 00:23:35,280 Speaker 1: to battle show biz? Shelley in the Showbiz Showdown? Hey, Hi, 521 00:23:35,359 --> 00:23:36,040 Speaker 1: show Shelley. 522 00:23:36,359 --> 00:23:36,520 Speaker 7: Hi. 523 00:23:38,760 --> 00:23:43,680 Speaker 2: Let's get Brittany on here. Hi Brittany, Hey Brittany, good morning. 524 00:23:43,680 --> 00:23:44,160 Speaker 1: How are you? 525 00:23:45,040 --> 00:23:45,440 Speaker 7: I'm good? 526 00:23:45,440 --> 00:23:47,639 Speaker 1: How are you great? Welcome? Fun fact about you? 527 00:23:47,800 --> 00:23:48,600 Speaker 2: Ease what. 528 00:23:50,320 --> 00:23:53,000 Speaker 7: I'm actually getting married? September twentieth Okay. 529 00:23:52,800 --> 00:23:56,119 Speaker 2: Now, hold on, what day in the week is that Saturday? 530 00:23:56,119 --> 00:23:58,480 Speaker 1: Thank you? You have thank you? 531 00:23:58,560 --> 00:23:58,760 Speaker 8: Yeah? 532 00:23:58,800 --> 00:24:00,520 Speaker 1: What is our chicken part on the menu? 533 00:24:01,600 --> 00:24:03,880 Speaker 7: There's not, but it's actually you're gonna hate it because 534 00:24:03,880 --> 00:24:05,000 Speaker 7: it's an all weekend event. 535 00:24:05,320 --> 00:24:08,000 Speaker 1: Oh hold on, hold on, hold on a second. 536 00:24:08,280 --> 00:24:10,520 Speaker 2: Explained to me, Now why does it need to be 537 00:24:10,520 --> 00:24:12,359 Speaker 2: in all week like what what is happening? So if 538 00:24:12,400 --> 00:24:14,520 Speaker 2: I were to be invited, then explain to me, like 539 00:24:14,600 --> 00:24:15,560 Speaker 2: what what are we doing? 540 00:24:16,480 --> 00:24:18,840 Speaker 7: So our thought process was, you spend so much on 541 00:24:18,880 --> 00:24:20,760 Speaker 7: a wedding and I can't fathom the idea of it 542 00:24:20,760 --> 00:24:24,959 Speaker 7: being one day. So I we like camping. We're very 543 00:24:24,960 --> 00:24:28,359 Speaker 7: out doorsy people. So one of our things was, if 544 00:24:28,359 --> 00:24:31,880 Speaker 7: we're going to make it an all weekend event, why 545 00:24:31,920 --> 00:24:34,320 Speaker 7: not go camping? That way kids are involved. We both 546 00:24:34,359 --> 00:24:35,840 Speaker 7: have a lot of kids in our family and a 547 00:24:35,840 --> 00:24:36,439 Speaker 7: lot of venues. 548 00:24:36,480 --> 00:24:37,000 Speaker 11: We looked at. 549 00:24:37,880 --> 00:24:40,639 Speaker 7: Their max was like one fifty and that just didn't work. 550 00:24:41,080 --> 00:24:43,439 Speaker 7: So we decided to do a camping event. So we 551 00:24:43,520 --> 00:24:47,560 Speaker 7: actually basically rented out like half of a campground and 552 00:24:47,600 --> 00:24:49,720 Speaker 7: so we have our own little section and so everybody 553 00:24:49,720 --> 00:24:51,879 Speaker 7: that's staying there gets to see all weekends. So the 554 00:24:51,920 --> 00:24:54,720 Speaker 7: kids are involved, and then that Saturday, we're actually getting 555 00:24:54,720 --> 00:24:57,240 Speaker 7: married at a golf course because we like the golf too, 556 00:24:57,320 --> 00:24:58,879 Speaker 7: so we're going to like golf during the day and 557 00:24:59,000 --> 00:24:59,760 Speaker 7: so to be it's. 558 00:24:59,600 --> 00:25:04,000 Speaker 2: Going to be all right, Okay, I see that. Now 559 00:25:04,000 --> 00:25:05,440 Speaker 2: what if I don't What if I were invited, I 560 00:25:05,480 --> 00:25:06,920 Speaker 2: don't want a camp can I do? I just show 561 00:25:06,960 --> 00:25:10,080 Speaker 2: up to the wedding then, yeah, so there's cabins. 562 00:25:10,160 --> 00:25:11,639 Speaker 7: Yeah, if you don't want to do that whole weekend, 563 00:25:11,680 --> 00:25:14,240 Speaker 7: you don't. Some people are staying hotels too. There's a 564 00:25:14,240 --> 00:25:16,560 Speaker 7: casino nearby, so a lot of people like to gamble 565 00:25:16,560 --> 00:25:18,000 Speaker 7: phone they can do that too. 566 00:25:18,080 --> 00:25:18,480 Speaker 5: It's fun. 567 00:25:18,880 --> 00:25:19,120 Speaker 1: Yeah. 568 00:25:19,760 --> 00:25:23,120 Speaker 2: Well, and I suppose if you're making me go somewhere 569 00:25:23,160 --> 00:25:25,840 Speaker 2: for your wedding, then we may as well have options. 570 00:25:26,080 --> 00:25:27,800 Speaker 2: But if it's in my town and I got to 571 00:25:27,800 --> 00:25:30,480 Speaker 2: show up to three different things on two different nights, 572 00:25:30,480 --> 00:25:31,560 Speaker 2: I'm like, you know, it's too much. 573 00:25:32,320 --> 00:25:37,840 Speaker 1: It's too much for me too. You're right, I don't. 574 00:25:36,640 --> 00:25:39,200 Speaker 7: So it made sense. 575 00:25:39,600 --> 00:25:41,719 Speaker 2: But if, like, if we're doing it like an excursion, 576 00:25:42,320 --> 00:25:45,600 Speaker 2: why then then I understand that I got that. Well, 577 00:25:45,640 --> 00:25:47,720 Speaker 2: if you're making me go to Mexico, you're making me 578 00:25:47,760 --> 00:25:51,920 Speaker 2: go to campground you're making me pitch a ten. You're 579 00:25:51,920 --> 00:25:54,600 Speaker 2: making me grill, get out there, kill mountain food. I mean, 580 00:25:54,640 --> 00:25:57,960 Speaker 2: you're making me survive. I got to repel down the 581 00:25:58,000 --> 00:26:00,560 Speaker 2: mountain to get to the same whatever. Then okay, fine, 582 00:26:00,600 --> 00:26:03,959 Speaker 2: but I don't know you know what. I'm just bitching 583 00:26:03,960 --> 00:26:06,280 Speaker 2: to bitch because I don't. I don't get any saying this, 584 00:26:06,359 --> 00:26:09,160 Speaker 2: and I if you invited me, i'd go. So it's fine. 585 00:26:09,520 --> 00:26:12,600 Speaker 2: Let's play the game. Five questions, four hundred and fifty bucks. 586 00:26:12,640 --> 00:26:14,480 Speaker 2: I think you should let her win this because she's 587 00:26:14,480 --> 00:26:16,200 Speaker 2: getting married at a campground and she needs some money. 588 00:26:16,240 --> 00:26:19,360 Speaker 5: Okay, I can't promise. All right, good luck. 589 00:26:19,359 --> 00:26:22,360 Speaker 2: Shelley shows no mercy to anyone. Go to the sound 590 00:26:23,240 --> 00:26:26,040 Speaker 2: if you go, Brittany question number one. A new book 591 00:26:26,040 --> 00:26:29,119 Speaker 2: claims Gwyneth Paltrow was upset about Brad Pitt's marriage to 592 00:26:29,280 --> 00:26:31,719 Speaker 2: this friend's actress. 593 00:26:33,320 --> 00:26:33,800 Speaker 5: Three. 594 00:26:35,800 --> 00:26:40,880 Speaker 7: You said, poo, I know I didn't hear the guy's name. 595 00:26:40,880 --> 00:26:41,359 Speaker 3: Going for. 596 00:26:42,960 --> 00:26:48,119 Speaker 4: Which friends actress three two? 597 00:26:49,560 --> 00:26:51,520 Speaker 2: No, I actually forgot about that marriage, by the way, 598 00:26:51,880 --> 00:26:55,280 Speaker 2: the whole thing which Bratt Singer married her fiance George 599 00:26:55,400 --> 00:27:00,199 Speaker 2: Daniel over the weekend. Charlie, Yeah, you run hold this 600 00:27:00,240 --> 00:27:04,280 Speaker 2: one so you gotta know. Which singer's butterfly prop malfunctioned 601 00:27:04,600 --> 00:27:08,359 Speaker 2: while she was writing it at a recent Lifetime's tour stop. 602 00:27:09,760 --> 00:27:12,399 Speaker 2: Katy Perry Jimmy Kimmel went off on CBS over the 603 00:27:12,400 --> 00:27:14,400 Speaker 2: firing of this late show host. 604 00:27:15,680 --> 00:27:20,280 Speaker 1: Uh uh, Colbert, well, tip, then that's fine. 605 00:27:20,400 --> 00:27:23,439 Speaker 2: And which late comedian and missus doubt fire star has 606 00:27:23,480 --> 00:27:25,240 Speaker 2: a birthday today? 607 00:27:25,560 --> 00:27:27,000 Speaker 7: Oh? 608 00:27:27,040 --> 00:27:28,280 Speaker 9: Oh my god, I want him? 609 00:27:28,320 --> 00:27:33,040 Speaker 7: What is the name? 610 00:27:33,320 --> 00:27:33,720 Speaker 1: Okay? 611 00:27:33,920 --> 00:27:34,000 Speaker 9: No? 612 00:27:34,160 --> 00:27:36,800 Speaker 1: I was that was extremely slow counting to I know? 613 00:27:37,600 --> 00:27:37,919 Speaker 11: All right? 614 00:27:38,200 --> 00:27:41,240 Speaker 1: So three you got three? Three? 615 00:27:41,720 --> 00:27:42,080 Speaker 5: Okay? 616 00:27:42,200 --> 00:27:44,240 Speaker 1: With some very generous counts? 617 00:27:45,359 --> 00:27:45,639 Speaker 12: Have you? 618 00:27:46,080 --> 00:27:47,119 Speaker 5: I try to help the listener. 619 00:27:47,160 --> 00:27:50,840 Speaker 2: I did, Jamanji, I can name it. 620 00:27:51,359 --> 00:27:55,119 Speaker 1: Don't don't give it away. Don't give it away. 621 00:27:54,880 --> 00:27:57,520 Speaker 2: A new book claims Gwyneth Paltrow was upset about Brad 622 00:27:57,520 --> 00:27:59,520 Speaker 2: Pitt's marriage to This Friend's. 623 00:27:59,200 --> 00:28:02,400 Speaker 5: Actress Jennifer andoson it never happened. 624 00:28:02,760 --> 00:28:06,080 Speaker 2: Which Bratt Singer married her fiance George Daniel over the weekend, 625 00:28:06,720 --> 00:28:10,399 Speaker 2: Charlie X. Which singer's butterfly prop malfunctioned while she was 626 00:28:10,440 --> 00:28:12,879 Speaker 2: writing it at a recent Lifetimes tour stop. 627 00:28:13,320 --> 00:28:14,760 Speaker 5: Katy Perry Jimmy. 628 00:28:14,520 --> 00:28:16,760 Speaker 2: Kimmel went off on CBS over the firing of this 629 00:28:16,920 --> 00:28:17,640 Speaker 2: late show. 630 00:28:17,440 --> 00:28:19,720 Speaker 5: Host Stephen Colbert and. 631 00:28:19,600 --> 00:28:21,800 Speaker 2: Which Lake comedian a missus doubt fire star has a 632 00:28:21,800 --> 00:28:22,880 Speaker 2: birthday today. 633 00:28:22,920 --> 00:28:26,119 Speaker 1: Robin William that's a five. That's a win. Brittany. 634 00:28:26,160 --> 00:28:27,600 Speaker 2: You did a good job. But you're gonna have to say, 635 00:28:27,640 --> 00:28:30,280 Speaker 2: my name is Brittany. I got showed up on a showdown. 636 00:28:30,359 --> 00:28:35,600 Speaker 2: You know, the rest. 637 00:28:33,760 --> 00:28:35,040 Speaker 7: Showed up on the showdown. 638 00:28:36,080 --> 00:28:39,040 Speaker 2: And you, Brittany, who's getting married at a campground with 639 00:28:39,160 --> 00:28:41,200 Speaker 2: tents and golfing, can't hang. 640 00:28:47,360 --> 00:28:52,200 Speaker 1: Can't cats, can't cat shout out to the weekend. 641 00:28:52,320 --> 00:29:01,680 Speaker 2: Wedding is Monday. That one was a struggle. That was 642 00:29:01,680 --> 00:29:04,480 Speaker 2: a struggle. I'm gonna lie to you. That's a struggle, Brittany. Hey, 643 00:29:04,520 --> 00:29:08,040 Speaker 2: congratulations and have an amazing wedding, all eighteen days of 644 00:29:08,080 --> 00:29:12,080 Speaker 2: it and hang on all right. You know, culturally there 645 00:29:12,080 --> 00:29:14,080 Speaker 2: are I believe it's is it Indian weddings. It can 646 00:29:14,120 --> 00:29:16,000 Speaker 2: often go on for days and days and days. So 647 00:29:16,160 --> 00:29:18,920 Speaker 2: you know what I do then, I mean I'd have 648 00:29:18,960 --> 00:29:20,880 Speaker 2: to just go and I'll have to deal with him. 649 00:29:21,680 --> 00:29:23,560 Speaker 2: You know, what day are we? What day are we 650 00:29:23,560 --> 00:29:25,040 Speaker 2: on the tenth day of this wedding. I'll give you 651 00:29:25,040 --> 00:29:27,480 Speaker 2: a roll at each day. Yeah, I guess right, so 652 00:29:27,560 --> 00:29:29,880 Speaker 2: I have to be there, right. Five hundred bucks is 653 00:29:29,880 --> 00:29:34,440 Speaker 2: the price tomorrow win number one, twenty seven and seven straight. 654 00:29:34,480 --> 00:29:37,400 Speaker 1: Good job, Shelly, Thank you all right? Will you come 655 00:29:37,400 --> 00:29:38,000 Speaker 1: back tomorrow? 656 00:29:38,360 --> 00:29:38,560 Speaker 10: Yes? 657 00:29:38,760 --> 00:29:40,959 Speaker 2: Okay, good We'll see tomorrow on the show for five 658 00:29:41,040 --> 00:29:41,480 Speaker 2: hundred bucks. 659 00:29:41,520 --> 00:29:42,480 Speaker 5: Bye, Oky bye. 660 00:29:42,960 --> 00:29:45,560 Speaker 1: Kis Court is up next, Bot on Bump Girl? 661 00:29:46,000 --> 00:29:48,240 Speaker 5: What in the chat GPT is going on? 662 00:29:48,440 --> 00:29:52,000 Speaker 1: Right there? More Fresh show next right here.