WEBVTT - EP. 67 " Ain't No Forgiveness Bae" with Sonia Lewis 0:00:03.040 --> 0:00:07.080 We're just too unapologetically black women with an opinion. Who 0:00:07.200 --> 0:00:13.160 talks back? Hey, y'all, it's me Tim Maam. Welcome back 0:00:13.200 --> 0:00:18.560 to a new episode of We Talked Back. Hey, and 0:00:18.600 --> 0:00:22.720 that's your co host, a j holiday Am. How are 0:00:22.720 --> 0:00:25.480 you doing? A j oh, good girl. That was a 0:00:25.480 --> 0:00:30.680 good introduction, like that yelling at the goddamn Mike period. 0:00:32.479 --> 0:00:36.720 What's up, y'all? How was your weekend? My weekend was cool. 0:00:36.760 --> 0:00:38.920 I went outside. I know, I said I wasn't going outside, 0:00:38.960 --> 0:00:42.599 but I did. The live motherfucker's terrible. It's boy like, 0:00:42.680 --> 0:00:45.680 It's all right. You're sitting up in this four floor 0:00:46.040 --> 0:00:49.000 looking down this all kind of ship in energy outside. 0:00:49.040 --> 0:00:50.680 It makes it hard to want to stay inside when 0:00:50.720 --> 0:00:54.680 it's all beautiful and stuff. So I was outside. You're 0:00:54.800 --> 0:01:00.520 going outside when it was cooldest funk outside outside. It's 0:01:00.560 --> 0:01:04.160 harder when it's nice. So that bruns out, all right? 0:01:04.600 --> 0:01:06.560 So what club did you hit up this weekend in Charlotte? 0:01:06.560 --> 0:01:08.160 You might as well listen. First of all, you might 0:01:08.160 --> 0:01:11.039 need to try to get some low promo money from 0:01:11.080 --> 0:01:15.560 these niggs in Charlotte. Okay about these spots being astly, 0:01:15.600 --> 0:01:18.679 because I'll be moving around the city so I went 0:01:18.800 --> 0:01:23.480 to UM. I started at Infused, which is like a 0:01:23.520 --> 0:01:25.960 little hooka bar. Then I left there and I went 0:01:26.000 --> 0:01:28.759 to Fahrenheigh, which is like a rooftop situation. You can 0:01:28.760 --> 0:01:31.760 see the city city views. It's good cocktails. Had a 0:01:31.760 --> 0:01:33.600 few drinks there. Then I left there and I went 0:01:33.640 --> 0:01:37.320 to another place called fifteen Street Social, which is a 0:01:37.360 --> 0:01:40.080 newer spot, and it was seeming kind of young, but 0:01:40.080 --> 0:01:42.080 the DJ said that people were that young. Black just 0:01:42.120 --> 0:01:46.479 don't crack, so um it was cool. Left there and 0:01:46.520 --> 0:01:49.960 I went to cloud Southend, which is a nice little 0:01:50.040 --> 0:01:52.080 jumping It's like one of the most popping spots in 0:01:52.160 --> 0:01:56.360 Charlotte right now. Cloud and that was That was Saturday night. 0:01:57.560 --> 0:02:01.080 That was all I want, all of those places. There's day. 0:02:01.200 --> 0:02:04.880 I got up and I went to fifteen one, which 0:02:04.920 --> 0:02:09.000 is like an outdoor situation, real good vibes, good music. 0:02:09.160 --> 0:02:13.600 R and b's grown crowd, very grown crowd. Oh yeah, 0:02:13.639 --> 0:02:15.359 I went there. I went there a couple of weeks 0:02:15.400 --> 0:02:19.160 ago to watch a football game. It's like outside, right, yeah, 0:02:19.160 --> 0:02:22.600 it's outside. It's next to that ruby ruby ruby. What's 0:02:22.600 --> 0:02:25.399 that ruby sunshine? Don't I think you might be talking 0:02:25.400 --> 0:02:30.160 about Lost and found? Lost and found is another good spot. No, 0:02:30.320 --> 0:02:32.560 I'm pretty sure it's fifteen on one. Maybe I'm thinking 0:02:32.600 --> 0:02:35.560 about yeah, but that's the place. It's like outside, they're 0:02:35.720 --> 0:02:39.000 in the same area. Yeah, okay, yeah. I went there 0:02:39.040 --> 0:02:40.560 and I was like, damn. I asked the barts and 0:02:40.560 --> 0:02:42.000 I'm like, who on this? She said it was black On. 0:02:42.200 --> 0:02:46.200 I'm like, okay, yeah, he's black on a little nightclubs 0:02:46.200 --> 0:02:49.960 in Charlotte. They be doing a damn thing. And then 0:02:50.280 --> 0:02:52.600 and then I left fifteen o one and I went 0:02:52.639 --> 0:02:55.200 to STATS on Sunday nights stands on Sunday night. It 0:02:55.280 --> 0:02:59.080 is like a whole vibe. That's a big spot. Like church. 0:02:59.280 --> 0:03:04.359 They called church on Sunday. What about your heathens? Right? 0:03:04.400 --> 0:03:09.120 The church? So I did be going to church online 0:03:09.160 --> 0:03:14.520 on Sunday Sunday morning. I got the first day. It 0:03:14.520 --> 0:03:17.800 gives me the word before I go out and drink. Now, 0:03:17.880 --> 0:03:20.600 one day we was talking and I said, you said, yeah, 0:03:20.600 --> 0:03:22.720 I went to church twice today. I was like, damn, girl. 0:03:23.160 --> 0:03:25.359 He was like, man, funk these niggers. I went to church. 0:03:25.440 --> 0:03:27.600 I'm really thinking this bitch went to church twice. She 0:03:27.760 --> 0:03:31.880 talking online church, it's all online. You ain't going nowhere. 0:03:32.480 --> 0:03:34.640 I didn't go. I was in a tennis he record. 0:03:34.680 --> 0:03:40.320 They recognized the listeners online. Bitch, you said some ties 0:03:40.360 --> 0:03:48.160 in all right, now that's now he runs out. Now, 0:03:48.240 --> 0:03:51.280 that's one thing I ain't about to do. You runs 0:03:51.280 --> 0:03:55.400 out now. That was my weekend. But this weekend, I'm 0:03:55.440 --> 0:03:58.720 a chill. Is Mother's Day this weekend coming up? No, 0:03:58.840 --> 0:04:03.320 it's next, it's next me. Yeah, okay, this weekend I 0:04:03.320 --> 0:04:06.160 don't have I might fly to Atlanta this weekend or something. 0:04:08.560 --> 0:04:10.560 I'm going to tell your maka next week. I can't wait. 0:04:11.040 --> 0:04:12.960 So I'm at to I don't know, do something for 0:04:13.040 --> 0:04:16.040 my mom before I dip out on her ass. My 0:04:16.160 --> 0:04:19.800 weekend was uneventful, per usual. My stepdad is in the hospital. 0:04:20.600 --> 0:04:24.960 That's what I've been dealing with. Yeah, man, listen, y'all, 0:04:24.960 --> 0:04:27.599 take care of your bodies when you're young. Just take 0:04:27.640 --> 0:04:29.640 care of your bodies when you're young, so nobody has 0:04:29.680 --> 0:04:31.640 to take care of you when you get old, like 0:04:31.760 --> 0:04:35.520 that should just be goals. Yeah, but I mean, that's 0:04:35.640 --> 0:04:40.159 that's deteriorating as we get older. Is a part of life, 0:04:40.279 --> 0:04:42.919 kind of right. Even if you take care of ourselves, 0:04:43.000 --> 0:04:45.200 it's just only so much you can do before somebody 0:04:45.200 --> 0:04:47.240 got to take care of you. You know, I read 0:04:47.279 --> 0:04:50.159 this hot I read this article that suggests that each 0:04:50.240 --> 0:04:54.280 human has a certain amount of heartbeats. We just don't 0:04:54.279 --> 0:04:58.160 know what our predetermined amount of heartbeats are. Could you 0:04:58.240 --> 0:05:03.640 imagine that? Like it's somewhere they got I wouldn't. No, 0:05:03.880 --> 0:05:07.240 hell no me either, spending my day's counting them. But 0:05:07.400 --> 0:05:09.520 I did also read because a couple of months ago, 0:05:09.520 --> 0:05:11.160 I was stressed out, like why the fund is? I 0:05:11.200 --> 0:05:13.000 always wear my fit bit right, I know everybody got 0:05:13.040 --> 0:05:17.080 Apple watched My Life hip it I my heart rate 0:05:17.279 --> 0:05:20.200 is always like low, like fifty five, so I'm thinking 0:05:20.200 --> 0:05:23.400 I'm dying. And I was watching uh Discovery of Witches 0:05:23.520 --> 0:05:29.200 last night, and of course you were. And the dude, 0:05:29.240 --> 0:05:31.920 the one of the vampire characters, old girl, was feeling 0:05:31.960 --> 0:05:34.039 his chest and she was like, you know, you don't 0:05:34.080 --> 0:05:37.120 have a heartbeat, and then the heartbeat came right he 0:05:37.200 --> 0:05:39.159 was like, I do have a heartbeat, is just slower, 0:05:39.720 --> 0:05:43.200 you know, because we live internal we got eternal life, 0:05:43.200 --> 0:05:45.520 So your heartbeat. Then I started Google. I said, wait 0:05:45.520 --> 0:05:48.760 a minute, so I'm not sick because my heartbeat it's 0:05:48.760 --> 0:05:52.599 sucking slow. So your vampire bitch. Now I'm a lift 0:05:52.640 --> 0:05:55.159 already know I'm a lift toime like ninety five, but 0:05:55.279 --> 0:05:59.960 now I'm it's like confirmed. Yeah, bitch, I take it easy. Okay, 0:06:00.200 --> 0:06:06.760 what network was this song? AMC bitch? Listen, I take 0:06:06.800 --> 0:06:08.680 it easy. I know I'm gonna be around here until 0:06:08.680 --> 0:06:11.839 like ninety three. That's why I need y'all to stop 0:06:11.839 --> 0:06:14.320 sucking up my world. Okay, if you're planning on die 0:06:14.400 --> 0:06:18.160 in that sixty okay, stop sucking my world up. Yea. 0:06:18.279 --> 0:06:20.520 Let's let's go to commercial on that note, because this 0:06:20.560 --> 0:06:29.800 bitch is We'll be right back. All right, Let's get 0:06:29.800 --> 0:06:34.159 into some dumb internet news, y'all. What we got going on? Sam? 0:06:34.800 --> 0:06:38.520 So Mega Stallion did an interview with GAYL King? Did 0:06:38.560 --> 0:06:44.679 you why? Why? Why? What? I don't know why. I thought. 0:06:44.720 --> 0:06:47.919 I thought they put Tori under a gag about this whole, 0:06:48.320 --> 0:06:52.200 you know, situation that happened. So why is she allowed 0:06:52.240 --> 0:06:55.600 to do interviews with Gail King and he can't say anything? 0:06:56.360 --> 0:06:59.440 I guess because maybe we need to We're looking at 0:06:59.480 --> 0:07:01.400 it wrong. We were looking at it as if it 0:07:01.440 --> 0:07:03.400 doesn't seem fair. Should we be looking at it as 0:07:03.440 --> 0:07:05.719 if this nigga is fucking guilty? And I'm a victim 0:07:05.760 --> 0:07:08.599 and I should be able to talk about it like 0:07:08.720 --> 0:07:10.400 this is therapy for me at this point, and with 0:07:10.480 --> 0:07:18.679 the whole world. I'm not here to um like judge 0:07:18.840 --> 0:07:21.880 either one of them. This ship has been going on 0:07:21.960 --> 0:07:25.400 for two years now. Yeah, it's like two years now. 0:07:26.400 --> 0:07:29.400 The fact of the matter is Meg the Stallion did 0:07:29.400 --> 0:07:34.000 not have a gun, and she got hurt. Somebody else 0:07:34.040 --> 0:07:36.640 had a gun. You see what I'm saying. She got hurt, 0:07:37.360 --> 0:07:39.560 and with the internet and everybody, she probably felt the 0:07:39.600 --> 0:07:41.920 need to get out there and tell her story in 0:07:42.000 --> 0:07:43.600 some type of way and get a check off it 0:07:43.640 --> 0:07:48.920 at the same time. Yeah, I feel you so um. 0:07:48.960 --> 0:07:51.360 I'm gonna read some of the things that Megan said. Uh, 0:07:51.400 --> 0:07:55.360 and it's quote big Megan said. It was an argument 0:07:55.400 --> 0:07:57.960 because I was ready to go and everybody else wasn't 0:07:58.000 --> 0:08:01.600 ready to go. But that's like normal friends stuff, Like 0:08:01.600 --> 0:08:04.360 we fuss about silly stuff all the time. But I 0:08:04.440 --> 0:08:07.000 never put my hands on anybody. I never raised my 0:08:07.080 --> 0:08:09.760 voice too loud, Like this was one of them times 0:08:09.760 --> 0:08:12.960 where it was like it got it little. This was 0:08:13.000 --> 0:08:15.600 one of them times where it was like it shouldn't 0:08:15.600 --> 0:08:18.680 have got this crazy right, And I can I can 0:08:18.760 --> 0:08:20.640 understand that you know how sometimes like you and a 0:08:20.680 --> 0:08:22.440 Frank could be y'all could be playing damn, and all 0:08:22.440 --> 0:08:25.640 of a sudden, somebody really gets serious. Like I can 0:08:25.680 --> 0:08:30.840 see that happening. I've had that happen, um. But you 0:08:30.880 --> 0:08:33.880 know one thing I did see. According to a public 0:08:33.920 --> 0:08:39.920 transcript from December hearing on Meg the Stallion and Tory 0:08:40.000 --> 0:08:43.640 Lanes case, the source can't confirm that the officer testified 0:08:44.200 --> 0:08:49.199 there was gunshot residue found on tories hands. So now 0:08:49.559 --> 0:08:54.240 all the public um judges have been saying, oh, they 0:08:54.320 --> 0:08:59.760 found the residue on old girl's hand, homegirl, Casey, wasn't 0:08:59.760 --> 0:09:05.040 it learning Casey? M hm, Kelsey sorry that they found 0:09:05.040 --> 0:09:08.960 a yeah, the residue on Kelsey's hands, But in actual 0:09:09.080 --> 0:09:12.840 evidence at the courts, now they're saying that that the 0:09:12.960 --> 0:09:18.400 residue was on Tori's hands. Then also, you know this 0:09:18.480 --> 0:09:22.840 should have missed. It is there, she's staying there. They 0:09:22.920 --> 0:09:26.040 never slept with each other, her and Tori. I mean, 0:09:26.080 --> 0:09:28.600 are you publicly about to damn? I'm not listen. This 0:09:28.640 --> 0:09:31.080 is my pussy. I don't gotta confirm or deny nothing 0:09:31.080 --> 0:09:34.400 for y'all. Period. So rather she did or not, is 0:09:34.440 --> 0:09:36.480 that her business I feel like even if I feel 0:09:36.520 --> 0:09:38.520 like her saying that they did what, even that would 0:09:38.559 --> 0:09:41.280 be a better defense for for it would be not 0:09:41.360 --> 0:09:44.160 a defense. Sorry, it would be a better situation if 0:09:44.200 --> 0:09:46.480 she did say that they were fucking, because that's even 0:09:46.480 --> 0:09:48.600 more reason for him to shoot at her. But I 0:09:48.600 --> 0:09:51.080 feel like, if you're gonna come out and uh talk 0:09:51.160 --> 0:09:55.400 about this ship till the whole truth, now don't then 0:09:55.440 --> 0:09:58.480 maybe that is the truth. Maybe it is the truth. 0:09:58.520 --> 0:10:00.480 Why don't know? I mean, based on what you're saying, 0:10:00.480 --> 0:10:03.200 why would I come out and tell somebody my sexual business, 0:10:03.320 --> 0:10:07.120 you know, like you know, if you're gonna tell it, now, 0:10:07.240 --> 0:10:10.079 tell it all. Yeah. And I I believe I believe her. 0:10:10.200 --> 0:10:13.000 I believe Mega Stallion. I've been saying that we didn't 0:10:13.040 --> 0:10:16.920 talked about this you at last. I want to believe her. 0:10:17.800 --> 0:10:21.120 I will. I want desperately to believe her. But I 0:10:21.240 --> 0:10:24.560 just still, you know, it's just so much stuff that like, 0:10:24.920 --> 0:10:27.520 first it was like glass, then it was a shooting, 0:10:27.679 --> 0:10:31.000 and it's just too many different stories. She got hit 0:10:31.040 --> 0:10:33.840 by bullet, then the fact that her and her best 0:10:33.840 --> 0:10:36.920 friends are no longer best friends after this just seems 0:10:36.960 --> 0:10:40.520 like some fishy ship going on. Well, did you see 0:10:40.559 --> 0:10:42.600 where somebody I don't know who E was trying to 0:10:42.600 --> 0:10:45.880 pay the home girl or Meg to be quiet for 0:10:45.920 --> 0:10:49.600 a million dollars. Tory offered one million to keep silent. 0:10:51.400 --> 0:10:55.760 So was did he? Everybody gave the home girl a 0:10:55.840 --> 0:11:01.079 million dollars to be quiet? Mega, just says Tory lays 0:11:01.160 --> 0:11:04.000 offered her and Kelsey one million for their silence on 0:11:04.040 --> 0:11:11.000 the shooting. Damn, I would have took it. Maybe her 0:11:11.000 --> 0:11:13.640 home girl did take it. You see what I'm saying. 0:11:14.000 --> 0:11:15.920 Maybe her home girl did take it. So now you 0:11:16.000 --> 0:11:19.240 just left your best friend. You know you've known way 0:11:19.320 --> 0:11:23.000 before the fame. You left her out hanging to get 0:11:23.000 --> 0:11:25.560 on her level. You see what I'm saying. I would 0:11:25.640 --> 0:11:28.240 never That's why I always say, man, integrity is a 0:11:28.240 --> 0:11:30.320 lifelong commitment, because I'd never do that to one of 0:11:30.320 --> 0:11:32.640 my friends. Fuck that nigga, Like he got to go 0:11:32.679 --> 0:11:35.439 to jail, because regardless of what if, even if it 0:11:35.480 --> 0:11:38.520 wasn't a direct bullet, like I said, she didn't have 0:11:38.559 --> 0:11:41.280 a gun, there was a weapon on the scene, and 0:11:41.400 --> 0:11:44.760 she's the only one that got hurt. What does that say? 0:11:45.200 --> 0:11:48.000 She said he was hanging out the car window shooting 0:11:48.040 --> 0:11:51.440 at her feet. Do y'all know what fragments are. He 0:11:51.480 --> 0:11:53.560 didn't say that, she didn't. It wasn't a bullet. She 0:11:53.640 --> 0:11:55.720 might have thought it was glass initially, you know what 0:11:55.760 --> 0:11:58.480 I'm saying. It could have recocheted off the concrete. It 0:11:58.480 --> 0:12:01.520 could have been pieces of concrete in her foot, anything. 0:12:02.480 --> 0:12:09.200 But she's happening when yeah, oh yeah, yeah yeah, And 0:12:09.240 --> 0:12:12.280 it wasn't herd I called the police. It was bystanders 0:12:12.320 --> 0:12:15.920 that heard gunshots. What are we talking about? But when 0:12:15.920 --> 0:12:19.640 a black woman say somebody heard them, nobody, nobody fucking cares. 0:12:19.720 --> 0:12:22.640 And that's that's what this is given to me. It's 0:12:22.679 --> 0:12:28.439 just what it's obviously because in the court of public opinion, 0:12:28.720 --> 0:12:31.080 Mega Stallion is a liar. There's a lot of women 0:12:31.400 --> 0:12:33.280 who think she's a liar, and it's a lot of 0:12:33.320 --> 0:12:35.400 men who think she's a liar. When she initially said 0:12:35.440 --> 0:12:36.960 she didn't even want to say nothing because she didn't 0:12:36.960 --> 0:12:41.360 want to get him in trouble. Still, yeah, I don't 0:12:41.400 --> 0:12:43.720 think she I don't know what to think. I can't 0:12:43.720 --> 0:12:46.439 say I exactly stand with Meg, just because of how 0:12:46.440 --> 0:12:49.440 many different stories came out in the beginning. But I 0:12:49.520 --> 0:12:51.880 don't I can't say that I stand with Tori either. 0:12:51.960 --> 0:12:54.800 I just I'm still waiting to hear the full details 0:12:54.800 --> 0:12:59.760 of what happened before I make pass any judgment on anybody. Well, 0:12:59.760 --> 0:13:02.640 I don't want to pass judgment at all, but I'm 0:13:02.720 --> 0:13:05.120 never gonna. I want to say I want victim blame, 0:13:06.840 --> 0:13:09.120 but I'm not victim blaming. You know what I'm saying. 0:13:09.120 --> 0:13:12.360 We know people lies sometimes, we know people make stories up. 0:13:12.880 --> 0:13:14.839 We know we know that type of ship happens. But 0:13:14.960 --> 0:13:18.600 I have seen her story be consistent. I didn't see her. 0:13:18.679 --> 0:13:21.560 I mean, she never confirmed or denied a relationship with 0:13:21.640 --> 0:13:24.960 him at all either. So I don't know. I hope 0:13:25.120 --> 0:13:27.400 um oh. And another thing I want to add, so 0:13:27.480 --> 0:13:29.440 Tory he has he has that he has had to 0:13:29.480 --> 0:13:32.760 pay two different bonds. If he was a regular nigga, 0:13:32.880 --> 0:13:34.880 he would have sat in jail with these charges. He 0:13:35.040 --> 0:13:39.240 only got out because he has the means to yeah, 0:13:39.320 --> 0:13:43.959 you're right, and then outside like posting pictures with her 0:13:44.000 --> 0:13:47.160 ops and stuff like that, making making funny songs and 0:13:47.160 --> 0:13:53.200 ship like boy. Yeah, I don't know. By Ola Davis, 0:13:53.679 --> 0:13:58.920 she did a Netflix special event with Oprah and she 0:13:59.040 --> 0:14:02.880 spoke on her childhood, you know, hardships and growing up 0:14:02.920 --> 0:14:08.600 knowing she was pooring she was so beautiful on there. Yeah, 0:14:08.679 --> 0:14:12.120 she looked good, and she lived in a home with 0:14:12.320 --> 0:14:16.559 rats and without utilities like gas and electricity, and she 0:14:16.800 --> 0:14:18.960 would spent a lot of time being hungry as a kid. 0:14:20.520 --> 0:14:22.280 That's a lot of story. You know a lot of 0:14:22.320 --> 0:14:25.840 people's story, I know. Yeah. And you know, as kids 0:14:25.880 --> 0:14:28.840 like in school and stuff, you never know, we've always 0:14:28.840 --> 0:14:33.880 had like the little stink kids in school or you 0:14:33.960 --> 0:14:35.600 used to be one of them, bitches making fun of 0:14:35.600 --> 0:14:41.280 the not true. I distinctively remember a super stint white 0:14:41.280 --> 0:14:44.080 boy who was in in my class, and he had 0:14:44.160 --> 0:14:48.240 like a mullet mohawk type haircut, and he would smell 0:14:48.440 --> 0:14:52.880 like fresh do too every day. I never said anything 0:14:52.880 --> 0:14:54.960 like people would rag on him all day every day. 0:14:55.040 --> 0:14:57.200 I never would tease him, but I watched people tease 0:14:57.280 --> 0:15:03.240 other people all the time, like I never nah. I 0:15:03.280 --> 0:15:07.960 mean maybe maybe like maybe not him in particular, but 0:15:08.000 --> 0:15:11.160 I have defended people before, like y'all leave that motherfuck alone, 0:15:11.200 --> 0:15:13.760 you know what I'm saying. But I would tease people 0:15:13.800 --> 0:15:15.520 I know that could tease back, like I like to 0:15:15.520 --> 0:15:19.120 go back and forth, like if you ain't gonna defend yourself, 0:15:19.120 --> 0:15:21.800 I'm not about to just be beating you down. But 0:15:21.880 --> 0:15:24.720 you know, as kids, you don't realize the struggles like 0:15:24.840 --> 0:15:27.000 students go through, Like some of them, the only meal 0:15:27.040 --> 0:15:29.200 they get would be the one they have at school. 0:15:29.760 --> 0:15:31.880 You know what I'm saying, Like, like once you get 0:15:31.920 --> 0:15:33.920 to be an adult and you see the struggles adults have, 0:15:34.040 --> 0:15:36.880 like you realize like kids being that struggle. These kids 0:15:36.880 --> 0:15:39.280 be living in a car with their parents, not able 0:15:39.320 --> 0:15:43.200 to wash their school uniform every day. So I don't know, 0:15:43.240 --> 0:15:45.680 I don't know how you teach kids. I mean a 0:15:45.760 --> 0:15:51.080 little motherfucking people are mean. Yeah I was a mean girl, 0:15:51.120 --> 0:15:54.440 but to people who like to understand like the hardships 0:15:54.480 --> 0:15:59.480 of children and adults, and they just don't care, you know. Yeah. 0:15:59.720 --> 0:16:04.080 It's she also uh not not necessarily on this uh 0:16:04.280 --> 0:16:09.600 Netflix special, but she did discuss wanting a big black man. 0:16:09.760 --> 0:16:12.680 Was that on there? Yes, she was manifesting her husband 0:16:12.760 --> 0:16:16.240 child from the South, and that's what she got. Big 0:16:16.280 --> 0:16:20.520 black man from the South who loved God, uh, who 0:16:20.640 --> 0:16:24.120 was athletic, so he was he was a retired football player, 0:16:24.720 --> 0:16:26.760 So she got exactly what he wanted. Like I know, 0:16:26.800 --> 0:16:29.400 people always tell us a manifest manifest sorry, so she 0:16:29.480 --> 0:16:33.360 got exactly what she wanted. So people always talk about manifesting, right, 0:16:33.680 --> 0:16:36.880 but you gotta be real specific. You see how specific 0:16:36.960 --> 0:16:42.600 she was when where he was, from his bill, what 0:16:42.600 --> 0:16:44.840 what type of man he was, all those things and 0:16:44.880 --> 0:16:46.720 what she asked for. But I feel like a lot 0:16:46.760 --> 0:16:50.360 I've been listening. I've been very specific. God, if you 0:16:50.480 --> 0:16:53.520 hear me, you wrote it down, though, Yeah, I wrote 0:16:53.520 --> 0:16:57.800 it down. This in my Bible, This in paper in 0:16:57.840 --> 0:17:01.440 the Bible. So we're gonna see y'all gonna bear witness 0:17:01.960 --> 0:17:04.440 to this beautiful black man. That guy gonna see me 0:17:05.000 --> 0:17:09.320 this year. God, what if he like a little ugly? 0:17:10.640 --> 0:17:12.640 You know, I've done a little I've done a lot 0:17:12.680 --> 0:17:17.600 of ugly, so I should do a little ugly. I 0:17:17.600 --> 0:17:20.400 don't like my man being as finest me though. So 0:17:20.560 --> 0:17:22.640 on the piece of paper in the Bible, did you 0:17:22.680 --> 0:17:26.879 put anything about penis size in there? I did not, 0:17:28.720 --> 0:17:32.920 So there you got a lot of money size. Penis 0:17:32.960 --> 0:17:37.119 size is not like a big thing for me. Like 0:17:37.440 --> 0:17:40.240 I don't need like the biggest dick. Maga, Like I mean, 0:17:40.400 --> 0:17:42.120 do I want? I don't. First of all, I don't 0:17:42.160 --> 0:17:45.439 like really big dicks. Anyway, he got like a humongous dick, 0:17:45.560 --> 0:17:47.600 Like that's just not even like that hurts. I can't 0:17:47.600 --> 0:17:50.480 do that all the time. I want a I want 0:17:50.480 --> 0:18:01.879 the baby or porch, big, the medium size, the hamburgers. 0:18:04.480 --> 0:18:05.960 I did not add that. I don't know if I 0:18:06.000 --> 0:18:07.919 want to like talk about dick and put it in 0:18:07.960 --> 0:18:13.400 my bible, like you gotta be specific, gotta be specific. Well, 0:18:13.400 --> 0:18:17.280 you can just say you don't want a good lover. Yeah, okay, Yeah, 0:18:17.320 --> 0:18:20.320 that's that's what it's about for me, not the It's 0:18:20.359 --> 0:18:24.320 not about the size of the boat. It's the motion 0:18:24.400 --> 0:18:32.240 and the ocean. Alright, real quick, there was a train 0:18:32.320 --> 0:18:36.359 on TikTok where black women with their white boyfriends calling 0:18:36.359 --> 0:18:42.800 them master. Have you seen that? What? I don't see 0:18:42.840 --> 0:18:46.239 a couple of black guys too, But why would It's like, 0:18:46.560 --> 0:18:48.920 you know what my first thought was, did somebody take 0:18:48.960 --> 0:18:51.520 the time to pull out all these different interracial couples 0:18:51.520 --> 0:18:56.399 and then put that put that audience the pictures. You 0:18:56.400 --> 0:19:00.600 can't couples are doing it themselves, and and you know 0:19:00.680 --> 0:19:08.320 they think it's funny, like master, that's it's a jokey joke. 0:19:08.760 --> 0:19:11.800 You know. You see you see how those black women look, 0:19:12.680 --> 0:19:15.600 and that they look like the type of bitches that 0:19:15.640 --> 0:19:19.440 would be in a tetop calling that white boyfriend they masters, 0:19:19.800 --> 0:19:24.840 what the fucking nappylieve out? Get get your life, your bigs? 0:19:29.440 --> 0:19:33.560 Just crazy. Yeah, I didn't think that, you know, but 0:19:33.640 --> 0:19:38.760 to Eastern own maybe if you have like a fucking 0:19:39.200 --> 0:19:44.400 slavery fantasy with your wife, master, that's your thing, girl, 0:19:44.720 --> 0:19:47.240 Just dumb, Where where's your daddy? You don't have to 0:19:47.240 --> 0:19:49.760 post it though, that's your thing. Do it privately. That's 0:19:49.800 --> 0:19:53.399 insulting to all black women everywhere. Girl, Everything that's not 0:19:53.520 --> 0:19:55.439 belonged on the internet. And that's why, that's why we 0:19:55.520 --> 0:20:02.760 have stupid internet. Sew. Thank you for content, you dumb nap. Yeah, alright, 0:20:02.800 --> 0:20:10.560 I'm sorry, I'm sorry. Shame. Yeah, but let'sten. We got 0:20:10.560 --> 0:20:14.560 a super dope guest on. We talked back today helping 0:20:14.680 --> 0:20:20.240 y'all bitches and us bitches get our lives together. Y'all 0:20:20.280 --> 0:20:28.800 stay tuned. All right, y'all listen. So we started this 0:20:28.880 --> 0:20:30.840 year off a little bit different for season two and 0:20:30.880 --> 0:20:34.080 we talked back. Um first few episodes is kind of 0:20:34.119 --> 0:20:39.239 dedicated to our goals, which I believe we share a 0:20:39.240 --> 0:20:41.159 lot of the same goals. You want to lose weight. 0:20:41.280 --> 0:20:44.919 We talked about finances, real estate people, We had come on, uh, 0:20:45.040 --> 0:20:50.360 what else did we do tam um friendship? We had 0:20:50.400 --> 0:20:56.920 friendship goals also, right, so um, yeah, we were trying 0:20:56.960 --> 0:20:59.680 to get back to that. Yes, okay, So we're trying 0:20:59.720 --> 0:21:02.720 to get back to helping everybody at ourselves with our 0:21:03.200 --> 0:21:06.919 new Year's resolution. So look, we're talking that today, not 0:21:07.160 --> 0:21:11.520 just any that. We're talking student loan that, y'all. Okay, 0:21:11.760 --> 0:21:13.760 because I know, y'all bitches broke like me from the 0:21:13.920 --> 0:21:19.720 student Loans exactly, y'all. We got the CEO of the 0:21:20.040 --> 0:21:25.360 Student Loan Doctor LLC and self proclaimed overdraft Queen Sonya 0:21:25.440 --> 0:21:32.000 Lewis talk back. Hey girl, Hey ladies, Well I want 0:21:32.000 --> 0:21:34.600 to say former overdraft queen I've been working for No. 0:21:34.720 --> 0:21:41.280 We know that. We already know. Yeah, so why are 0:21:41.280 --> 0:21:45.120 you doing, Sonya? Tell our listeners about you. I'm good. 0:21:45.119 --> 0:21:48.480 I'm good. I'm checking in from Miami, Florida and my 0:21:48.600 --> 0:21:53.600 favoring police on Earth. Um. I moved here recently because 0:21:53.680 --> 0:21:56.639 it was just way too cool in Philly and I 0:21:56.800 --> 0:21:58.679 was just it was it was just a joke to 0:21:58.720 --> 0:22:02.240 come down here, guys. And then what happened was I 0:22:02.280 --> 0:22:05.760 loved it and I kept extending my Airbnb. Now I'm 0:22:05.760 --> 0:22:09.280 looking at apartments. Then I went brought a Lamborghini. Like 0:22:09.359 --> 0:22:12.280 life just kept it really really pass and I think 0:22:12.280 --> 0:22:14.400 I just got caught up. I'm not gonna lie. I'm 0:22:14.400 --> 0:22:18.080 real caught up these days. But I'm having fun and 0:22:18.119 --> 0:22:20.560 teaching and helping people get out of student love them 0:22:20.600 --> 0:22:23.280 at the same time. UM so yeah, so what do 0:22:23.320 --> 0:22:24.920 you guys want to start? When I was real broke 0:22:25.080 --> 0:22:29.040 or like now I'm because likening you got started with, 0:22:30.359 --> 0:22:33.080 you know, helping people with student loans in this industry. Yeah, 0:22:33.119 --> 0:22:36.199 how did you start the student loan doctor? Yeah, I 0:22:36.280 --> 0:22:38.320 was real broke, and so I just want to, you know, 0:22:38.400 --> 0:22:41.920 emphasize that. Um. I was living like beyond check the check, 0:22:42.560 --> 0:22:47.159 like overdraft to overdraft and then some like almost had 0:22:47.200 --> 0:22:49.600 my account closed a few times, but guy stepped in 0:22:50.119 --> 0:22:52.399 and then I was like, you gotta get your money right, 0:22:52.440 --> 0:22:55.359 like you don't have to live like this, and so, um, 0:22:55.400 --> 0:22:58.479 I took a financial literacy class at church, and then 0:22:58.520 --> 0:23:01.920 I started helping people at the church understanding to the 0:23:02.000 --> 0:23:05.720 loan that because that's my professional background. And then people 0:23:05.760 --> 0:23:09.280 started trying to send their cousins and their family members 0:23:09.760 --> 0:23:12.119 and I didn't even hear from the from the Lord, 0:23:12.280 --> 0:23:15.160 I still haven't heard this message to do the work 0:23:15.200 --> 0:23:19.520 for free. So I'm like, okay, he's not gonna I 0:23:19.480 --> 0:23:22.280 ain't never heard it. So I started meeting people at 0:23:22.280 --> 0:23:24.679 the corner of bakery. Now have you ever been to 0:23:24.680 --> 0:23:32.880 the corner bakery before? No? Okay, Cozy's like any any bakery. Okay, Well, 0:23:32.920 --> 0:23:35.359 you know in the bakery, you gotta find the spot 0:23:35.440 --> 0:23:41.320 next to the plug, like yes, the stocking. And so 0:23:41.560 --> 0:23:43.840 what I had to do was I would go to 0:23:43.880 --> 0:23:46.880 work every day, I would run to the corner bakery 0:23:47.320 --> 0:23:50.480 and I would get the corner roof with the socket. Now, 0:23:50.480 --> 0:23:52.760 in order to secure this spot, I had to flirt 0:23:52.800 --> 0:23:57.040 for it. You know, I still owe somebody a date, 0:23:57.080 --> 0:24:00.560 but I'm never gonna catch it in. So you know, 0:24:00.600 --> 0:24:03.000 we got do some strange things to start your business. Okay, 0:24:03.119 --> 0:24:10.280 So that man I haven't heard about heard because I'm not. 0:24:11.680 --> 0:24:14.280