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Speaker 1: How your significant other's name is saved in your phone

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Speaker 1: speaks volumes about your relationship apparently, So before I tell

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Speaker 1: you what that means, I'll just go left to right.

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Speaker 1: I would start with myself. I don't have a partner,

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Speaker 1: so I can't I can't answer this. How is Big

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Speaker 1: Tim saved in your phone? Big Tim?

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Speaker 2: Yes, it really depends on the day. I'm not gonna

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Speaker 2: lie you change. You changed his name on your phone?

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Speaker 3: Yes, honey, if he makes me upset, that number is

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Speaker 3: not saved.

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Speaker 2: You unsaved the man's number who lives.

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Speaker 3: With you if I do, or I change it to

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Speaker 3: his mother's name and it just says her son.

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Speaker 4: Uh huh, so and so, so.

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Speaker 1: You will take the time to go into your phone

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Speaker 1: book and change the way someone's written. Yes, The only

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Speaker 1: way I'm changing someone's name in my phone is if

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Speaker 1: either I'm erasing them or if I want to put

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Speaker 1: something in there to identify, not to answer them like no.

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Speaker 1: The problem putting no is that if you have more

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Speaker 1: than one no, then you don't know which no it

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Speaker 1: is calling.

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Speaker 5: Now.

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Speaker 3: That's while you don't even know who's calling. That's that's extreme.

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Speaker 3: I will delete people's number.

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Speaker 1: I will not I'm not gonna take the time and

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Speaker 1: going the phone will can change it to I hate

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Speaker 1: this person?

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Speaker 2: Why change it?

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Speaker 3: Because it's kind of it makes you feel a way

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Speaker 3: when that number pops up, it's like, look at this clown,

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Speaker 3: you know, like it says, you know.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, your therapy got it. He lives there. It's better

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Speaker 2: than change.

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Speaker 3: Like some people go and change their Facebook name, like

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Speaker 3: a lot of my Mary friends, they'll go from like

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Speaker 3: Kaylen Jane Jones to Kaylin Marie because they won't they'll

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Speaker 3: drop their whose last name to show like they're mad

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Speaker 3: and I love watching that. Yeah, Or some people will

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Speaker 3: change their relationship status or go vent on Facebook face

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Speaker 2: I just change your name in my phone and laugh

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Speaker 2: when you call it.

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Speaker 1: Text me the place where people are crying for help constantly.

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Speaker 1: You just have to be able to decode it. Yes,

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Speaker 1: Like I know someone who's having a little bit of

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Speaker 1: tough a little bit of difficulty in their relationship, and

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Speaker 1: now one side is all just pictures of that person

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Speaker 1: and the kids and and intentionally without the person and

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Speaker 1: they're not they're not.

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Speaker 2: They're still together.

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Speaker 1: But I'm just I'm noticing the passive aggressiveness of it's

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Speaker 1: like I'm just gonna keep posting pictures without this person

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Speaker 1: inviting people to ask you why which you are or

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Speaker 1: when you post them there like I need extra prayers today.

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Speaker 1: It's like now, now, okay, fine, I give you a

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Speaker 1: little extra prayer, like what am I praying about?

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Speaker 2: You know?

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Speaker 1: And then you I think it just draws people in.

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Speaker 1: People start calling you, texting you. It's attention seeking, you know.

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Speaker 1: It's it's like what cryptic message are you trying to

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Speaker 1: send through Facebook?

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Speaker 4: See to do that?

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Speaker 6: I just I feel like, especially if you've been together

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Speaker 6: for a really long time and you've let people like

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Speaker 6: and you have to be like real, like sure that,

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Speaker 6: like your relationship is like over before you start. Like

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Speaker 6: I posted a Sam Hunt song once that's called break

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Speaker 6: Up in a Small Town and I just like this

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Speaker 6: song and like his brother was.

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Speaker 2: Like in boxing me, like what do you mean? Like

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Speaker 2: what's wrong? I'm like, I'm not breaking up.

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Speaker 6: I've been dating your brother for for a decade, so

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Speaker 6: like I'm not breaking up with them on Facebook?

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Speaker 1: Kayla, you never posted a meme or a song or

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Speaker 1: anything on social media that was intended to you know

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Speaker 7: I'm sure I have, but I don't not in my relationship,

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Speaker 7: Like I would never put that out. I would never

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Speaker 7: think to do that. I would do something more like

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Speaker 2: But what do you mean? What would you do?

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Speaker 4: I don't know, like hide all his sock one of

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Speaker 4: his socks or something.

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Speaker 7: I don't know, you know, like I would do like

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Speaker 7: psychological warfare just between us.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm not doing that.

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Speaker 2: I'm hiding one of your.

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Speaker 4: Socks, right, you know, take the toilet paper or something.

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Speaker 1: You know, what is what is he in your phone?

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Speaker 4: As you're the same, but there is a photo?

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah? Does that mean something? I don't know that

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Speaker 1: count so, Jenny.

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 4: It's just like a little extra effort, you know.

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Speaker 2: I think people have dated it.

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Speaker 1: I've always been in my phone is either either their

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Speaker 1: name or their name and the dating.

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Speaker 2: App that I met them.

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Speaker 1: Oh I got if you type in hinge in my phone,

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Speaker 1: I've got a lot of hinges in there. I got

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Speaker 1: a lot of hinges. Oh yeah, I got a lot

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Speaker 1: of shyes to differentiate between you know, the so and

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Speaker 1: got a lot of those, or a lot of ass.

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Speaker 1: I got some AZ's in there because when I'm in

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Speaker 1: as you know, the Jessica in the Shy is different

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Speaker 1: from the Jessica when I'm in West Palm, which is

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Speaker 4: Might not you got a Jessica in every city?

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Speaker 1: I certainly, I certainly do. I got a Jessica everywhere

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Speaker 4: But he has a black heart next to my name.

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Speaker 4: I don't know what that means. I just asked him,

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Speaker 4: So a black heart black heart?

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Speaker 2: Okay, what is uh? Mike the mechanic, He's just Mike f.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, because I had a lot of mics met him,

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Speaker 6: you know. But I think what he has me saved

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Speaker 6: is better. It's Jason Brown gay like because like he

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Speaker 6: would like.

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Speaker 2: Save people in his opposed to the Jason Brown that

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Speaker 2: he knows it's straight.

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Speaker 6: He knows a straight one, but he would like save people.

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Speaker 6: And then he was like meeting that work customers but

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Speaker 6: live like nothing else but gay.

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Speaker 2: After that's amazing.

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Speaker 1: Do you have anyone in your phone and We've talked

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Speaker 1: about this before, but their name and then some kind

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Speaker 1: of identifying feature like I want to hit Becky big boobs.

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Speaker 2: I did hit Mecky big boobs.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah that was a real That was real because

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Speaker 1: her name was Becky and she indeed had large.

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Speaker 6: I mean, if it makes sense, yeah, if it'll help you,

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Speaker 6: honestly know, it's more just like where like you like

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Speaker 6: where I meet people in mind, No, more like physical

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Speaker 6: places versus like okay, dating apps. But I don't think

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Speaker 6: I have any like so and so grinder or anything

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Speaker 1: Well I would hope that it's been fourteen years, you

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Speaker 1: should not being grinder anymore, all, Paulina.

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Speaker 5: I'm just boring old Paulina year and I have him

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Speaker 5: saved und her husband.

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Speaker 2: He just says husband.

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Speaker 8: I mean he's been through a lot of phases as well,

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Speaker 8: like obviously like when we first started dating, or like

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Speaker 8: when we met it was you know, hobby whatever, which,

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Speaker 8: by the way, I learned that he's a why not

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Speaker 8: an I so j A v hy so I used

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Speaker 8: to have j A v I for a long time.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I know how dare I was crazy? Well because

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Speaker 2: j A v I e R so he spells it

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Speaker 2: right correct. Yeah, so he's just husband now.

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Speaker 5: But like Kiki said, I mean there are days where

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Speaker 5: husband is not husband, husband is do not answer, husband

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Speaker 5: is baby daddy like husband would be a lot of things.

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Speaker 1: I've never taken the when I'm mad and someone I

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Speaker 1: don't take the time to go in, I don't even know.

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Speaker 2: It would take me a second to figure out how

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Speaker 4: Yeah, no, I mean I respect it, I'm inspired, But.

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Speaker 3: I mean it's just a good feeling when you see

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Speaker 1: Isn't a good feeling or do you realize, Yeah, that

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Speaker 1: guy sleeps in my bed and he's a goofy clown.

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Speaker 3: Like I'm calling you. Look at this, look at this

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Speaker 3: goofy clown calling it? And then well, you know, I

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Speaker 3: anymore goes back to like bay.

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Speaker 1: Well, your partner's contact name on your phone gives insight

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Speaker 1: into your relationship. According to a psychotherapist, since the name

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Speaker 1: on our phone is a visual symbol of our partner

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Speaker 1: and a reminder of our relationship with them, then using

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Speaker 1: intimate connection. If our partner uses our full name like

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Speaker 2: It keeps their gay.

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Speaker 1: Might be that they don't attribute additional value to our communication.

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Speaker 2: I think we're reaching now. I think we're really reaching.

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Speaker 1: Like if if you're in my phone as first and

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Speaker 1: last name and I'm dating you, I don't think that

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Speaker 4: Like, we don't like that.

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Speaker 2: What do you meant your name?

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Speaker 4: No, you don't need first of all, how many Kalin's

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Speaker 4: you know. Let's let's say first of all.

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Speaker 2: We're not dating anymore Kalin.

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Speaker 7: So if we don't know, but like my last name really, Like,

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Speaker 1: Think you're just Kaitlin in my phone because I only

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Speaker 1: an info and I put your name in my contact,

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Speaker 1: I don't go change the contact or the style of

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Speaker 2: It is what it is.

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Speaker 4: If we've slept together, you can't have my last name

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Speaker 1: I have a couple of people in there as I

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Speaker 1: just haven't changed the name back from how I had

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Speaker 1: to still have a friendship with this person because of

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Speaker 1: the person I was dating before. Like, I have a

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Speaker 1: female friend, I have a couple of female friends, but

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Speaker 1: I have one in particular who who I have slept with,

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Speaker 1: but we're cool. I wouldn't sleep with there when I'm

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Speaker 1: but she'd text me, and it got to the point

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Speaker 1: a male name in my phone and she still is

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Speaker 1: a male name in my life. I just haven't changed

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Speaker 1: it back. But it's like, I'm not going to not

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Speaker 1: be friends with this person because I'm not doing anything wrong.

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Speaker 1: You know, you haven't the other person you met this

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Speaker 4: How did your girl know you slept with her?

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Speaker 1: Because I think she asked me who it was, like,

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Speaker 1: So I'm like, I don't you know what I mean? Like, ill,

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Speaker 1: I didn't live with that person, Like you're the person

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Speaker 2: I wish we could. I wish we trust me.

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Speaker 1: I wish I wish that the second that you met

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Speaker 1: all the good knowledge, like all the tricks, tips and tricks,

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Speaker 1: I wish that were a thing that you had, but

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Speaker 1: you had amnesia about everybody but me. But you also

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Speaker 1: remembered how to do that thang you know what I mean.

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Speaker 1: So you remember how to do that thang, but you

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Speaker 4: Thing totally attainable, I think. So, yeah, how about you're

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Speaker 1: Oh zempic that does that, yeah, and makes your thing bigger.

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Speaker 2: Okay, different places, Honestly, I think.

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Speaker 1: I'm honest something in a different kind of lab.

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Speaker 2: Kiki, let's get in the lab. Let's do it.

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Speaker 1: Let's work on this weight loss that gives you amnesia

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Speaker 2: Hey, I'll be alive for that one.

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Speaker 4: You said, ozampic, I'm there.

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Speaker 2: That's one way. That is one way for it.

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Speaker 2: And no, no, I need you to.

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Speaker 4: Know that I am not you post those gym videos.

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Speaker 1: only unfortunate thing about this ozempic these days is that

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Speaker 2: No, it's not a secret.

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Speaker 1: Public so we've been very public with your everybody knows,

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Speaker 1: and so this goes if you but if you're actually like,

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Speaker 1: if you're really eating, like, okay, Jason, you're not an Olympic, right,

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Speaker 2: So you're doing all this, it's not that much fun.

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Speaker 2: And that's not that that that's not cool.

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Speaker 6: No, yeah, but it's it's okay as long as they

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Speaker 2: You can think whatever you want.

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Speaker 6: But I want someone I would like them to be like,

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Speaker 6: oh wait, like oh my god, like are you are

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Speaker 4: Like CMO and christ right, like worry about me.

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Speaker 2: So anyway, this this thing goes on and on.

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Speaker 1: Some people may stick to saving a person's real name

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Speaker 1: and that's for pessimistic reasons. When we take a measure

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Speaker 1: doesn't work out. No, I just don't take the time

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Speaker 1: I mean, I'm not saving your phone number unless like

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna be talking to you regularly. I don't even

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Speaker 1: reassurance and effect all this blah blahlahh. No, that's none

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Speaker 1: of that. If I save your number, that means this

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Speaker 1: might be going somewhere. What are we in your phone?

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Speaker 1: Hows geniuses yes, genius one two three gay genius genus

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Speaker 2: Gay, you know what.

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Speaker 1: So yeah, just in case, ends on the day, Just

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Speaker 1: in case you change your mind, I'm good with an asterisk.

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Speaker 1: And then if you go into the notes, it says

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Speaker 1: not out yet though, right right, you're gonna dig a

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