WEBVTT - Episode 187: Butt snaps back (Feat. Shay Johnson) 0:00:01.960 --> 0:00:04.120 What's up? What's up this lip service? I me intil yee, 0:00:04.400 --> 0:00:09.760 I'm McGuire. Listen, Stephanie's it back? Okay, Stephane, I'm not 0:00:12.440 --> 0:00:17.240 up for a second. We're just rested first, all right, 0:00:17.320 --> 0:00:21.360 So how are we gonna do this? Yes, I'm g 0:00:21.320 --> 0:00:25.520 g McQuire. Start producing, y'all, girl, I don't y Yes, Okay, 0:00:25.560 --> 0:00:27.120 there we go. We have a special guest with us 0:00:27.160 --> 0:00:29.280 today for the first time ever. She's a lip service virgin. 0:00:30.760 --> 0:00:36.400 Him a little nervous one already, ain't numb. But sex. 0:00:36.479 --> 0:00:40.600 Talk to you can talk about that. We talk about sex, 0:00:40.600 --> 0:00:42.280 and we talk about other things like sex. It's a 0:00:42.360 --> 0:00:44.159 lot of stuff I hadn't been through. I'm sure y'all 0:00:44.200 --> 0:00:48.440 haven't been. We want to about it today. Well share 0:00:49.159 --> 0:00:52.159 with us. You didn't even introduce yourself. Hey, everybody's your girl. 0:00:52.200 --> 0:00:54.920 Shaw Johnson here, loveing hip hop, Miami was good, loving 0:00:54.960 --> 0:00:59.480 hip hop everywhere, and so what do you think you've 0:00:59.480 --> 0:01:01.640 been through that you haven't been through? You'd be surprised. No, 0:01:01.760 --> 0:01:05.759 it's not that. It's just I've never had list embarrassing 0:01:05.760 --> 0:01:08.840 a little bit. I never had an orgasm during intercourse. Well, 0:01:08.920 --> 0:01:11.160 but he had one good knee now that's the only 0:01:11.160 --> 0:01:13.480 way it can happen. It's only too can happen. Yeah, 0:01:13.560 --> 0:01:16.199 but I want to feel the other way as well. 0:01:16.280 --> 0:01:20.160 I've tried different positions angles that I've tried everything, but 0:01:20.800 --> 0:01:23.200 I just realized that it's just not gonna happen. I've 0:01:23.200 --> 0:01:26.200 accepted it. I don't think what about on top, like 0:01:26.280 --> 0:01:28.760 you on top and everything that's position. I did it. 0:01:29.160 --> 0:01:32.039 You know, it's just because I wanted to get that 0:01:32.120 --> 0:01:34.040 feeling because I you know, my homegirls talk about and 0:01:34.120 --> 0:01:36.000 all that, you know, so I'm like, I want that too. 0:01:36.319 --> 0:01:39.720 So during intercourse. I love intercourse, but the best part 0:01:39.720 --> 0:01:41.200 for me you go down to me because that's how 0:01:41.240 --> 0:01:43.080 many other feel like you're about to and it just 0:01:43.080 --> 0:01:47.760 don't happen or just never even know. Just feel like 0:01:46.680 --> 0:01:58.440 you gotta listen to that's what they feeling. Let it go, 0:01:59.160 --> 0:02:01.840 but let it gorosen, let it go. What are you 0:02:01.960 --> 0:02:10.840 thinking about coming? No? Yes, there are no And then 0:02:11.040 --> 0:02:13.040 you know, I don't even like to tell my partner 0:02:13.120 --> 0:02:15.799 because he's trying to do it. So it was one 0:02:15.840 --> 0:02:17.440 time on my ex, I just faked it because I 0:02:17.600 --> 0:02:21.840 got sick. There's a lot of women, though, percentage wise, 0:02:21.880 --> 0:02:25.520 that can't that haven't had orgasm through interquestions, any of 0:02:25.600 --> 0:02:29.639 you guys, not me. It takes me a lot any 0:02:29.720 --> 0:02:31.760 going to happen every time, and then you should make 0:02:31.800 --> 0:02:34.560 it only happen if I'm on to happen. Yeah, but 0:02:34.680 --> 0:02:37.280 it does happen. But and you know about that new toy. 0:02:37.800 --> 0:02:40.280 She was talking about that. But they can help you, squirt. 0:02:40.680 --> 0:02:45.120 It's called the enjoy or something. That's just see the 0:02:45.120 --> 0:02:47.320 problem right now as you're being too judgmental about your 0:02:48.240 --> 0:02:49.960 and all of that stuff. Just you gotta just let 0:02:50.000 --> 0:02:54.360 your fluids out. I don't know. She just don't share that. 0:02:54.480 --> 0:02:56.640 She just doesn't want to let it. Always go to 0:02:56.639 --> 0:02:59.560 the bathroom before because I want to make sure I 0:02:59.600 --> 0:03:02.360 don't have that feeling. I mean, so do I'll stop 0:03:02.400 --> 0:03:04.080 that goes to the back room and come back. You 0:03:04.120 --> 0:03:05.760 gotta go to bathroom. Plus, if you didn't just show 0:03:05.880 --> 0:03:08.959 you got a wet wife. Absolutely off showers. It's nice 0:03:08.960 --> 0:03:11.240 and freshman. You're ready to take take a little bird back. 0:03:11.400 --> 0:03:13.680 She was about to come plenty of times, but she 0:03:13.760 --> 0:03:15.880 stopped and went to the bathround. You're thinking too hard. 0:03:16.160 --> 0:03:18.440 I think I'm expecting that feeling on when he goes 0:03:18.520 --> 0:03:20.639 down on me. So I'm expecting that and it doesn't 0:03:20.639 --> 0:03:25.480 feel like So. I'm still learning my body, you know, 0:03:25.560 --> 0:03:27.320 as I'm getting older, I'm still learning my body. But 0:03:27.360 --> 0:03:29.480 I want what y'all have, you know, I want. I 0:03:29.480 --> 0:03:32.400 want to feel that you enjoy having an orgasm after 0:03:32.520 --> 0:03:34.520 I do, I don't even feel like having sex anymore. 0:03:38.960 --> 0:03:41.600 I'd be like, all right, goody. I'd be like, I 0:03:41.640 --> 0:03:44.240 wish he would hurry up. Yeah, if you don't go 0:03:44.320 --> 0:03:46.560 down on me, because the way my body set up, 0:03:46.600 --> 0:03:49.480 I'm just not interested. But it's great when you come 0:03:49.520 --> 0:03:51.240 and then he has sex, like if he goes on. 0:03:51.840 --> 0:03:56.360 It's nice, isn't it. Can y'all have two orgasms back 0:03:56.400 --> 0:04:04.440 to back? I really can? Running away Like I mean, 0:04:04.480 --> 0:04:07.119 if you keep fighting through it, then it'll be okay. 0:04:06.920 --> 0:04:14.320 And again you know, yeah, warrior, make you stay where 0:04:14.320 --> 0:04:18.000 you are. If you're gonna more than twice, you can 0:04:18.080 --> 0:04:20.520 come off and getting a head back to back to back. See. 0:04:20.560 --> 0:04:22.560 I have several toys that I played with because I 0:04:22.600 --> 0:04:24.200 love that feeling. The only way I get it to 0:04:24.240 --> 0:04:25.880 go down on me or I play with my little toy. 0:04:26.520 --> 0:04:29.320 So you know, I guess because I'm so used to it. 0:04:29.600 --> 0:04:31.000 It's just I want it again. I want it again. 0:04:31.160 --> 0:04:34.000 It's it's amazing. What if he uses a toy on you. 0:04:34.279 --> 0:04:36.359 I've done that and it was great. He was inside 0:04:36.400 --> 0:04:38.000 me and we played with the toy. It was different. 0:04:38.040 --> 0:04:40.120 It was great. I liked it. But I want you came. 0:04:41.880 --> 0:04:48.240 It was the toy. It wasn't. I ain't trying to exactly. 0:04:48.440 --> 0:04:50.080 So I want to feel it without a toy. I 0:04:50.120 --> 0:04:52.520 want I want somebody to give me that stimulation. Without that, 0:04:53.000 --> 0:04:54.599 you gotta. I think you'd probably just be thinking too 0:04:54.640 --> 0:04:56.800 hard about it because it hasn't happened, and then you 0:04:56.920 --> 0:04:58.920 probably like, I gotta stop myself. I don't want this, 0:04:59.040 --> 0:05:03.400 you gotta. It's the feeling. You're a squirder. Obviously you 0:05:03.440 --> 0:05:08.080 keep saying that feeling. Well, I have not every time, 0:05:08.480 --> 0:05:11.560 and takes you a certain guy to make me square, 0:05:11.680 --> 0:05:14.320 like a certain movement, certain guy. So I feel like 0:05:14.360 --> 0:05:16.560 with you, you're about to come, but you won't let 0:05:16.560 --> 0:05:18.920 it go. So you're never gonna come and let you 0:05:18.960 --> 0:05:23.239 just let it go on that bitch o God. I mean, 0:05:23.360 --> 0:05:25.640 I guess it's gonna take a certain time person and 0:05:25.760 --> 0:05:28.760 let me loosen up, because literally I'm peeing on you 0:05:28.880 --> 0:05:30.800 like this, and you love. I'm not used to that, 0:05:30.920 --> 0:05:33.440 you know, I ain't never did that. Just do it 0:05:33.440 --> 0:05:40.000 in his house, not yours. Yeah, there's a treat for you. 0:05:40.160 --> 0:05:44.320 So now, what would you say? We all have had 0:05:44.360 --> 0:05:47.840 these situations where we do feel like all relationships we 0:05:47.960 --> 0:05:50.240 learned something, right. Have you ever had a relationship that 0:05:50.279 --> 0:05:54.200 you feel like it was a waste of your time? Yes? Recently? Um, 0:05:54.200 --> 0:05:57.119 I was dating him, he was younger, he had three kids. 0:05:57.120 --> 0:05:58.880 Not wasted my time. We had a good time, but 0:05:59.600 --> 0:06:01.360 he was been ready for what I was ready for it, 0:06:01.360 --> 0:06:03.080 and I should have known that because he was younger. 0:06:03.120 --> 0:06:05.159 But I had a situation going on where I was 0:06:05.200 --> 0:06:07.600 selibant for over a year. So I just wanted some 0:06:07.920 --> 0:06:10.039 and when I got that what I needed and he 0:06:10.200 --> 0:06:13.560 pleased me properly. I wanted more. I wanted to have 0:06:13.640 --> 0:06:15.560 something more with him, but he was too young, so 0:06:15.640 --> 0:06:18.320 we just But he had three kids, he got three. 0:06:18.520 --> 0:06:20.280 I would think he it was some type of how 0:06:20.320 --> 0:06:24.040 many different baby minds? Okay, what made you gonna celiban 0:06:24.120 --> 0:06:27.479 for a year? I have five woids. I saw you 0:06:27.600 --> 0:06:30.200 talking about that and how painful it was for you. Yeah, 0:06:30.240 --> 0:06:32.440 it was. It was embarrassing. You know, it's crazy so 0:06:32.560 --> 0:06:34.600 we did have We have these detox doctors that we 0:06:34.680 --> 0:06:37.039 worked with, and they talked a lot about five worids 0:06:37.120 --> 0:06:39.320 and UM the diet, and they do this whole detox 0:06:39.360 --> 0:06:41.120 plan to help women with fibraries. And we had a 0:06:41.160 --> 0:06:43.800 women on They had over fifty five words and she 0:06:43.960 --> 0:06:46.560 lost UM, well almost all of them. I think she 0:06:46.640 --> 0:06:48.839 only has like five left now. But it is so 0:06:48.960 --> 0:06:51.760 inhibiting in your life, like people don't even understand. Took 0:06:51.800 --> 0:06:54.800 over my life. It was embarrassing because I had accidents 0:06:54.800 --> 0:06:57.560 that I didn't expect to happen. My minister went from 0:06:57.680 --> 0:07:02.400 six days to fourteen days having to change your it 0:07:02.440 --> 0:07:04.479 wouldn't even work. I had so many accidents in the 0:07:04.520 --> 0:07:07.240 bed I couldn't even imagine how accidents in my in 0:07:07.320 --> 0:07:09.800 my godmother's car. It was. It was just embarrassing to 0:07:09.840 --> 0:07:12.560 where That's why I stopped dating, because I didn't want 0:07:12.600 --> 0:07:14.920 to bring him into that. So I just said, let 0:07:14.920 --> 0:07:16.920 me just figure out what's going on me. I didn't 0:07:16.920 --> 0:07:18.520 know what it was. I just knew I had these 0:07:18.600 --> 0:07:21.559 heavy minstrokes, a type of birth control. I've never taken 0:07:21.560 --> 0:07:23.400 a birth control ever in my life, and that a 0:07:23.400 --> 0:07:26.000 lot of people thought that it came from that because 0:07:26.040 --> 0:07:28.400 of the you see, that's the first thing I thought, Yeah, 0:07:28.480 --> 0:07:30.640 But it wasn't that because I've never ever taken a 0:07:30.680 --> 0:07:32.800 birth control. I used condoms, that's it. But I knew 0:07:32.800 --> 0:07:35.440 the side effects and long term side effects of birth control, 0:07:35.720 --> 0:07:37.840 so I never took anything like that, So I don't 0:07:37.840 --> 0:07:39.400 know where mine came from. And I went to three 0:07:39.400 --> 0:07:41.680 doctors and they didn't know either. So it's like, how 0:07:41.680 --> 0:07:43.880 do you deal with that? You know, I had pain, 0:07:44.040 --> 0:07:46.200 back pain, I was falling out, I was I was 0:07:46.400 --> 0:07:48.200 I was hemorrhaging and didn't know I was hemorrhaging, so 0:07:48.240 --> 0:07:52.080 I was fainting, so I needed blood transfusions. So um 0:07:52.120 --> 0:07:54.680 I started taking these herbs from a holistic doctor. It's 0:07:54.680 --> 0:07:56.680 called five word relief, and it actually relieved a lot 0:07:56.760 --> 0:07:59.120 of the symptoms. But the problem was I had four 0:07:59.200 --> 0:08:00.920 or five broyds, and one was so big it was 0:08:00.960 --> 0:08:02.840 growing with from a little signs of a peanuts, bigger 0:08:02.840 --> 0:08:06.000 than the grapefruit. Huge. It was present against my bladder. 0:08:06.240 --> 0:08:07.800 So I was going to the bathroom like two or 0:08:07.800 --> 0:08:10.040 three times an hour. I would go to the movies 0:08:10.040 --> 0:08:11.560 and I couldn't even watch the old movie because I stay, 0:08:11.560 --> 0:08:12.880 you got to go to the bathroom. So I made 0:08:12.880 --> 0:08:14.400 the decision to have them my own make to me. 0:08:14.560 --> 0:08:17.200 That's when they removed the fibroid, you know, off your 0:08:17.320 --> 0:08:20.320 your ovaries instead of having a hystory to me, I 0:08:20.360 --> 0:08:21.920 want to have kids. You don't want to do it 0:08:21.960 --> 0:08:24.040 because they'll try to talk you into having stayt to me. 0:08:24.560 --> 0:08:28.320 They try and they say, when you have that and 0:08:28.360 --> 0:08:31.160 you remove that or whatever, it basically gives problems in 0:08:31.240 --> 0:08:34.360 other areas. So it's not even like it removes the 0:08:34.440 --> 0:08:37.560 problem and removes that problem, but then it goes to 0:08:37.679 --> 0:08:40.480 other things. You'll have other problems. I was advised they 0:08:40.480 --> 0:08:43.880 can come back, but they can come back. Everybody's body 0:08:43.960 --> 0:08:46.040 is different. I don't know what you eat daily. You 0:08:46.040 --> 0:08:47.520 don't know what I eat daily, But what I put 0:08:47.520 --> 0:08:50.400 into my system causes my issues and yours causes yours 0:08:50.520 --> 0:08:53.480 based on genetic So I feel like how I transition 0:08:53.559 --> 0:08:56.000 my eating habits, I just don't believe they'll come back. 0:08:56.240 --> 0:08:58.480 And I'm just and I'm still on the herbs, the 0:08:58.559 --> 0:09:01.520 fibroid relief herbs. I'm still did you do a detox? Yeah, 0:09:01.520 --> 0:09:03.679 I did a detox, but it was mainly the herbs 0:09:03.679 --> 0:09:05.920 from the tea and the peals like literally the next 0:09:05.920 --> 0:09:07.840 minstrel cycle, it started to go down. I went from 0:09:07.880 --> 0:09:10.439 fourteen days down the nine days within three months. I 0:09:10.480 --> 0:09:12.880 want to hook you up at that detox actors coach Jesse. 0:09:13.000 --> 0:09:14.599 She actually wrote a whole book about it because she 0:09:14.640 --> 0:09:16.920 had five words and she thought she wouldn't be able 0:09:16.920 --> 0:09:18.520 to have a kid, and she had a miracle baby, 0:09:18.559 --> 0:09:20.880 that's what she called her baby. And she does these 0:09:20.960 --> 0:09:23.120 detoxes and it's how I've met a lot of women 0:09:23.160 --> 0:09:25.840 that has helped as well. So maybe I know you've 0:09:25.840 --> 0:09:28.320 been talking to a lot of holistic doctors I would 0:09:28.360 --> 0:09:30.439 talk to. I was wanting to do anything. I'm gonna 0:09:30.440 --> 0:09:34.400 hook you up head just because because she's definitely like she. 0:09:34.400 --> 0:09:36.080 She actually just did something with Y and D's sister 0:09:36.679 --> 0:09:38.640 as well, and she was saying how hard it has 0:09:38.679 --> 0:09:40.600 been for her in her life just to even function, 0:09:41.160 --> 0:09:43.839 like to do anything, to go to work. Her cramps 0:09:43.840 --> 0:09:45.440 would be so bad she couldn't even go to work. 0:09:45.960 --> 0:09:50.480 You know, people over I like sleeping on my stomach 0:09:50.559 --> 0:09:53.840 but naked. If I would roll over slightly, it works 0:09:53.880 --> 0:09:55.880 me up immediately. I can't sleep the rest of the night, 0:09:55.920 --> 0:09:59.200 So sleepless nights. My nemi is shot up. You know. 0:09:59.240 --> 0:10:01.800 I was, like I said, was hemorrhaging, back pain like 0:10:01.840 --> 0:10:03.840 it was? It was just so many symptoms. I'm like, 0:10:04.000 --> 0:10:06.600 ain't no way women not talking about this? Why they't 0:10:06.640 --> 0:10:08.360 not talking about that? This is hell? You know what 0:10:08.400 --> 0:10:10.160 I'm saying. I was so embarrassed. I ain't nobody talks 0:10:10.160 --> 0:10:12.120 too because I thought they would. You don't make fun 0:10:12.120 --> 0:10:14.200 of me. But now I have a voice about it 0:10:14.200 --> 0:10:16.199 because I understand when a lot of women go through 0:10:16.200 --> 0:10:18.439 a lot of women ago, and it's more in African 0:10:18.440 --> 0:10:21.000 American women, absolutely, and they also talk to you more 0:10:21.000 --> 0:10:23.120 about having it. His directed me as African American, and 0:10:23.200 --> 0:10:25.000 they try to convince you to do that, and I said, 0:10:25.040 --> 0:10:27.280 absolutely not. I want a child, like I'm not about 0:10:27.280 --> 0:10:29.000 to have a hiss directed me to take my whole 0:10:29.080 --> 0:10:31.440 uterus out. That's not happening. But I'm glad I made 0:10:31.480 --> 0:10:33.720 the decision I made, Like I'm not going to bathroom 0:10:34.280 --> 0:10:36.880 nowhere near as much that I'm made have anymore. Like 0:10:36.920 --> 0:10:39.320 everything kind of went back down, like I feel like 0:10:39.360 --> 0:10:43.079 a woman again. That's good, that's it. I'm glad is 0:10:43.120 --> 0:10:47.960 going to get better and bad girl dating they went 0:10:47.960 --> 0:10:51.120 back to normal. My minstrels went back to normal because 0:10:51.120 --> 0:10:54.680 they were like six days, seven days, about five six days. 0:10:55.800 --> 0:10:59.880 Experience even went better. Yeah, like my whole life of mom, 0:10:59.880 --> 0:11:01.960 I period are about to get it right, that's how 0:11:02.000 --> 0:11:06.840 it ye, that's how we'd be playing in our whole 0:11:06.840 --> 0:11:10.520 schedule according to when that periods coming. Wait, wait, my 0:11:10.600 --> 0:11:13.720 period comes that day. I didn't even do that because 0:11:13.720 --> 0:11:15.719 I have a regular period. You don't even know what. No, 0:11:15.960 --> 0:11:18.800 I don't know. So I might just be like one 0:11:18.880 --> 0:11:21.480 day it just comes and I'm like fun, But then 0:11:21.520 --> 0:11:23.760 I might not get it that mom. So but that's 0:11:23.760 --> 0:11:26.920 because I had six So that's the same, like the 0:11:26.920 --> 0:11:30.040 same problem, similar problem, but like it would just like 0:11:30.080 --> 0:11:32.360 stop my periods or make them longer. When I was 0:11:32.440 --> 0:11:36.839 younger and I would have periods for a long time. No, 0:11:37.000 --> 0:11:39.400 I don't know. That's the crazy thing. It's just I 0:11:39.400 --> 0:11:42.360 had like sis like here and there. I still have 0:11:42.679 --> 0:11:45.640 ye to this day. Like I'll get little ones or whatever. 0:11:45.880 --> 0:11:47.880 But they say that like a lot of women have 0:11:48.080 --> 0:11:53.320 six and which your period you're just you don't see 0:11:53.360 --> 0:11:57.600 them none other but doctor, and they'll see them. You'll 0:11:57.640 --> 0:11:59.400 have like a little more than something that's like a 0:11:59.440 --> 0:12:01.880 blood cloud like at the end of the day. So 0:12:05.760 --> 0:12:07.520 when I was younger, I had a real big one 0:12:07.520 --> 0:12:09.320 that I had to get removed. But when they went 0:12:09.440 --> 0:12:15.960 to remove it, at ruptured. So it's crazy, but you know, 0:12:16.040 --> 0:12:18.240 I feel like when you're diet and stuff like that 0:12:18.240 --> 0:12:21.160 that also help. I would take anything with your health, 0:12:21.280 --> 0:12:23.960 like when you're you've got to focus on your diet 0:12:24.000 --> 0:12:26.640 because that's the main thing that's going to really help 0:12:26.720 --> 0:12:31.320 you more than medicine. The medicine. The medicine is to 0:12:31.400 --> 0:12:35.640 maintain whatever sickness you got from getting worse. There's never 0:12:35.679 --> 0:12:38.520 a cure. No, yeah, you always have to look at that. 0:12:38.600 --> 0:12:41.880 It's like this to depress the symptom instead of healing exactly. 0:12:42.240 --> 0:12:44.280 So that's why I chose not to take their birth. 0:12:44.320 --> 0:12:49.880 They offered me birth control minstrel to minimize the minstrel cycle, 0:12:49.920 --> 0:12:51.760 and I'm like, I'm not I've never been on birth control, 0:12:51.760 --> 0:12:54.439 why would I start now? And then I heard birth 0:12:54.440 --> 0:12:57.959 control was part of the problem. You've given me something 0:12:58.000 --> 0:13:01.160 that would increase my situation, Like, no, that's not the answer. 0:13:01.200 --> 0:13:03.520 Till that's how I ended up going to Holistic. You know, 0:13:03.640 --> 0:13:07.440 they say they're trying to new the black women, like 0:13:07.440 --> 0:13:11.240 like make it more controlled of how much kids come 0:13:11.360 --> 0:13:14.200 from black women, Like that's what you know what I mean? 0:13:14.200 --> 0:13:16.000 And it's crazy because if you look at it, like 0:13:16.040 --> 0:13:19.600 you said, it's mainly mostly in black women. But why 0:13:19.720 --> 0:13:23.160 is that? It's something we're doing as a culture to 0:13:23.360 --> 0:13:29.160 cause this issue and we don't know exactly the line. 0:13:29.200 --> 0:13:32.280 I switched my diet four years ago. But before that, 0:13:32.480 --> 0:13:36.640 yea many years have you been daking regularly? What's gonna 0:13:36.679 --> 0:13:39.520 take years to get my body back back the way? 0:13:40.640 --> 0:13:43.559 Are you vegan? Now? Well? I eat shrip every once 0:13:43.600 --> 0:13:47.040 in a while, but I haven't eaten porking over carriers. Yeah, 0:13:47.320 --> 0:13:49.960 but no fish. I'm allergic to fish. But you'll have 0:13:50.000 --> 0:13:52.120 like a little lobster I don't like. I don't eat 0:13:52.160 --> 0:13:56.000 lobs literally every once in a while and literally once 0:13:56.040 --> 0:14:00.120 in a while. Just chicken, no pork, no swine. I 0:14:00.280 --> 0:14:03.959 had swinema. How long has this been for swine? About 0:14:04.000 --> 0:14:07.440 fifteen years? Be five years? Chicken about two years. That's 0:14:07.480 --> 0:14:11.319 like mine, that's like me. That is I'll never go back. 0:14:11.360 --> 0:14:13.960 But it's it's not. It's mostly because of how our 0:14:13.960 --> 0:14:16.800 meat is processed in the United States. It's disgusting. I'm 0:14:16.840 --> 0:14:19.520 in another country. It's different, but they shoot them up 0:14:19.520 --> 0:14:22.040 with hormone shots to produce faster. And it's a business. 0:14:22.160 --> 0:14:24.200 So I understand the business, but I'm not allowing you 0:14:24.240 --> 0:14:26.040 to kill me. Now you're putting all those hormones in 0:14:26.080 --> 0:14:30.400 your body, exactly. Isn't that crazy? Though? When you're on 0:14:30.400 --> 0:14:33.280 an island or somewhere different where it's more fresh, how 0:14:33.360 --> 0:14:39.720 much different the ship that takes from here sick? You 0:14:39.760 --> 0:14:42.520 know what else? I realized to just this is what 0:14:42.640 --> 0:14:45.720 scares for a second. You know, as you eat better 0:14:45.800 --> 0:14:48.800 and you drink and eat more fruits and vegetables, and 0:14:48.800 --> 0:14:51.280 I do have my Press Juice company. Now drink fresh juice. 0:14:51.760 --> 0:14:54.600 You taste better. Yeah, that's so true. Like you have 0:14:54.640 --> 0:14:56.320 a text abodyse dick and your pussy's on it and 0:14:56.360 --> 0:15:01.360 you're like, that tastes good. Yes, you ever had somebody 0:15:01.760 --> 0:15:08.800 in your mouth and they shouldn't best like you that 0:15:09.200 --> 0:15:12.240 I taste smile and you come take the difference between 0:15:12.240 --> 0:15:15.480 the man that takes that healthy. What you eat is 0:15:15.480 --> 0:15:19.120 so important exactly. So after Super Bowl Sunday, we'd've been 0:15:19.120 --> 0:15:23.760 having on them snacks and you're like, that should be salty. Better, 0:15:23.800 --> 0:15:26.680 come over there. I got a guy one time we 0:15:26.680 --> 0:15:28.680 were having a sleep on around. We were eating so 0:15:28.760 --> 0:15:31.440 much candy. You had a big jar of sour Patch kids, 0:15:31.520 --> 0:15:33.720 and we were eating so much candy. You know, live 0:15:33.880 --> 0:15:38.680 for hours watching TV, smoking weed and eating candy. And 0:15:38.800 --> 0:15:40.680 I sucked his dick later on that night, and I 0:15:40.720 --> 0:15:48.040 swear to God or maybe you just had some. I 0:15:48.080 --> 0:15:56.600 was like, You're like, He's like, tell like if you 0:15:56.600 --> 0:15:58.680 don't eat, if you haven't been eating good and then 0:15:58.800 --> 0:16:03.560 or like say you drank a lot to kill or something. Yeah, yeah, 0:16:04.320 --> 0:16:07.880 And you're like, I don't taste nothing but sandwiches. And 0:16:08.440 --> 0:16:11.520 literally he's like a car. It's like an engine. When 0:16:11.520 --> 0:16:13.120 the engine light comes on tells you something wrong, you 0:16:13.120 --> 0:16:16.480 have to fix it or cause your body. Your body 0:16:16.560 --> 0:16:20.400 the same And are there certain exercise that you do 0:16:20.440 --> 0:16:22.400 you feel like that make your sex life better, like 0:16:22.400 --> 0:16:27.480 when you've been working out stretching. But yes, I do yoga. 0:16:28.840 --> 0:16:37.840 It gives you stamina, cardio year long legs. The legs 0:16:36.000 --> 0:16:39.800 ain't like riding dick into your legs that hurt. And 0:16:39.800 --> 0:16:43.480 then you know what you like, do I want my 0:16:43.520 --> 0:16:45.960 legs to hurt or my pussy to feel good? Are 0:16:46.040 --> 0:16:47.560 the worst when you know you're not in good shape 0:16:47.560 --> 0:16:50.760 and you don't got a Charlie horse. Whoever got a 0:16:50.800 --> 0:16:57.080 Charlie horse that we had? Or like if the ls 0:16:57.120 --> 0:17:01.360 on it and you're like you don't anything, Oh my god, 0:17:01.520 --> 0:17:05.760 I'll be like, wait, I'm getting your ground. I wouldn't 0:17:05.760 --> 0:17:07.920 say I try to ride through it and be mad 0:17:07.960 --> 0:17:19.040 as hell. Yeah, you'd be secretly trying to rub your foot, 0:17:19.680 --> 0:17:30.480 trying to let me. Y'are very open, like when you 0:17:30.520 --> 0:17:32.040 know you haven't been doing what you're supposed to do, 0:17:32.040 --> 0:17:33.639 when you're squatting on the dick and you're like my 0:17:33.720 --> 0:17:36.359 legs shaking their hair. I can't do this much. All right, 0:17:36.400 --> 0:17:40.359 I'm gonna lay down, like you gotta switch it up 0:17:40.960 --> 0:17:45.200 and like no, no, you'd be like nor because sometimes 0:17:45.200 --> 0:17:48.000 guys are so lazy in bead. No they are not 0:17:48.119 --> 0:17:50.280 the last one I had, the young one, he wasn't. 0:17:50.960 --> 0:17:54.119 The young one, very controlling and I loved he was 0:17:54.200 --> 0:18:00.439 so nasty. It was perfect. He was very controlling and see, 0:18:00.560 --> 0:18:02.480 I probably would do it well again. A couple more 0:18:02.520 --> 0:18:04.199 times was he left that I was at the bedroom 0:18:04.200 --> 0:18:07.040 to her only in bad No, we did everywhere like that, 0:18:07.160 --> 0:18:15.639 but very respectful, very respectful. But yeah, he was just 0:18:15.680 --> 0:18:17.720 the perfect type of nasty. I liked the game. He 0:18:17.840 --> 0:18:21.680 just pleased me quite well. That it wasn't pleasure P right. No, 0:18:23.520 --> 0:18:26.840 that was a year ago, but I still pleasure. He 0:18:26.920 --> 0:18:29.919 always had my heart. That's the homie. You over there 0:18:29.960 --> 0:18:32.760 snatching wigs over here, and we said me had an 0:18:32.800 --> 0:18:34.840 angry bird. I did snaph it off her here. I 0:18:34.840 --> 0:18:38.480 didn't know, come off the wig, that's what happens. No, 0:18:38.680 --> 0:18:40.840 she was supposed to stitch down a millionaire. Didn't stitch 0:18:40.880 --> 0:18:42.600 down her wigs? So what am I supposed to do? 0:18:43.200 --> 0:18:47.440 That's your friend, and this either way it was edited. 0:18:47.480 --> 0:18:49.080 It looked like you just ran up on her. No, 0:18:49.200 --> 0:18:50.840 I did because the last time we were supposed to 0:18:50.880 --> 0:18:53.560 have a conversation she threw infanadas at me and throwing 0:18:53.640 --> 0:18:55.960 drinks and just being petty. So I'm like, okay, when 0:18:55.960 --> 0:18:57.720 I see he was nothing to talk about. Nobody knew 0:18:57.720 --> 0:18:59.480 I would do that, but I just did it. Who 0:18:59.480 --> 0:19:04.560 waits not as like that? And she knows that she 0:19:04.680 --> 0:19:08.440 knows she wanted to eat it. Okay, So let's back. 0:19:13.600 --> 0:19:16.400 So I was did you really not like her only 0:19:16.400 --> 0:19:18.919 because of pleasure? P? No, it wasn't that I liked 0:19:18.920 --> 0:19:22.080 her as a friend. We grew a friendship, hung out 0:19:22.080 --> 0:19:23.720 at her house in Atlanta. I'm sure she liked to 0:19:23.720 --> 0:19:25.600 you about this one, but hung out at her house 0:19:25.640 --> 0:19:27.760 in Atlanta. We went out in Atlanta to the clubs, 0:19:28.080 --> 0:19:31.120 hung out in um Miami, spent the night at her house, 0:19:31.200 --> 0:19:33.360 like we really were building a report. We would talk 0:19:33.440 --> 0:19:35.520 like every day, every other day, and then all of 0:19:35.560 --> 0:19:38.600 a sudden, she's cutting me off. Why I'm assuming it 0:19:38.680 --> 0:19:40.520 was pleasure. She was once someone pleasure on the show, 0:19:40.600 --> 0:19:41.840 So I'm like, you could have just talked to me 0:19:41.840 --> 0:19:43.719 about it. We could all just coom bay out and 0:19:43.760 --> 0:19:46.359 figured it out. But instead you just cut me all. 0:19:46.400 --> 0:19:48.439 So when I getting my feelings hurt, I tend to 0:19:48.480 --> 0:19:51.320 react in certain ways. But I liked her. I'm not 0:19:51.320 --> 0:19:53.520 gonna act like that I didn't. I'm not. I don't 0:19:53.560 --> 0:19:55.159 front like I really liked her. I thought she was 0:19:55.160 --> 0:19:57.760 a cool ass girl. Then that that hurts more, and 0:19:58.160 --> 0:19:59.960 it did, But I said that on the reunion, I'm like, 0:20:00.320 --> 0:20:02.000 you hurt me more than he did because I thought 0:20:02.000 --> 0:20:04.040 we had a report, Like you weren't my best friend, 0:20:04.280 --> 0:20:05.960 but I thought he was kicking and he was cool. 0:20:06.240 --> 0:20:08.400 And if it wasn't nothing, why you cut me off 0:20:08.560 --> 0:20:10.720 to this sometimes with those storylines though I Love and 0:20:10.760 --> 0:20:13.560 Hip Hop, they do like because she feels like it 0:20:13.600 --> 0:20:15.960 wasn't a real relationship for her. She just she said 0:20:16.000 --> 0:20:17.680 she went on one date with him and that was it. 0:20:17.760 --> 0:20:19.720 But when I approached her, as you've seen on the show, 0:20:19.760 --> 0:20:21.359 I was like, Oh, you're supposed to be Dame Pleasure. 0:20:21.400 --> 0:20:24.560 She said, that's my man on live on television, which 0:20:24.560 --> 0:20:27.720 they airing, so you sometimes she don't know when to 0:20:27.760 --> 0:20:29.760 not talk. And the thing is, if you're getting into 0:20:29.760 --> 0:20:34.199 it with me A Matta of Veronica tip, drill up. 0:20:34.480 --> 0:20:36.800