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Speaker 1: I do, man, I thank God for it every day.

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Speaker 1: Lorette says, my daughters want me to start dating again.

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Speaker 1: I am peculiar is sport? Peculiar is right over there one, yeah,

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Speaker 1: Come on, Cato. Hey, Brian, Hey, baby, I was um,

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Speaker 1: hello Brian, Brian. Hey, this is Greg. I know, I

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Speaker 1: I'm not gonna I'm not gonna be are to do that.

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Speaker 1: Why can't you do that? Man? Hey, let me explain

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Speaker 1: I know this is painful. Man. Now you don't know,

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Speaker 1: let me, let me let me say, let me can

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Speaker 1: just want you to know this. Brian, this is let me.

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Speaker 1: This is nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey Marning Show.

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Speaker 1: Got me to prank phone call you what you hold on?

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Speaker 1: So so okay, if you point to me what's up

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Speaker 1: hold on, I'm gonnat you talk you all right? First

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Speaker 1: Y'all the only ones can playing? People say you and

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Speaker 1: your brother be branking all the time? Man, man's life

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Speaker 1: stuff though, girl? Happy birthday baby? Oh you got a

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Speaker 1: Gifts right, yes, man, let me tuck to my wife. Man,

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Speaker 1: I got ain't got no dude, wife, hold on, please,

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Speaker 1: you got me all right? Don't don't you ain't gotta

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Speaker 1: go this far? Alright? Time supposed to be funny. I

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Speaker 1: I'm glad to know you fight for me like that fight.

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Speaker 1: It was gonna be some fight. There wasna oh girl,

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Speaker 1: just a ringo black home. Don't even stop at red like?

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Speaker 1: Was that? Was that a sexy prank? Was that a

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Speaker 1: the top of the hour, Entertainment and National news right

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Speaker 1: after this am I sexy and not Shirley? You all right?

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Speaker 1: So for damn quite asking me. You're listening Steve Harvey

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Speaker 1: Morning Show. Well, Steve, you wanted to hear This story

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Speaker 1: still trending in sports news. It's no secret that's Spike

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Speaker 1: to them, According to him, he used the same entrance

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Speaker 1: stopped by security. According to this is crazy. According to them,

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Speaker 1: it was the employee entrance and he couldn't use it.

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Speaker 1: They wanted him to go out and use the VIP entrance.

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Speaker 1: He refused for two reasons, one because he'd already had

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Speaker 1: his ticket scan and two because he knew they wouldn't

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Speaker 1: let him in again. Also, he questioned the new policy

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Speaker 1: and told the guards, you want to arrest me like

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Speaker 1: Charles Oakley. While it was originally reported that Spike and

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Speaker 1: team owner James Dolan had kissed and made up. He

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Speaker 1: disputed that claim on ESPN's First Take and Fact. When

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Speaker 1: he asked Dolan why he hadn't been notified about the change,

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Speaker 1: Dolan said, much to spike chagrin. Now you know, Spike

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Speaker 1: said he is done going to Knicks games for that

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Speaker 1: reason and for the season they've lost. Yes, they yeah,

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Speaker 1: why can't they fix this? Why won't they fix this?

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Speaker 1: It's it's the owner, guys. This is the guy that

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Speaker 1: had Charles Oakley thrown out public. Yeah, he don't care

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Speaker 1: how he abused black people. He's not a good owner.

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Speaker 1: He doesn't know basketball. He's a billionaire with money to

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Speaker 1: play with and he's playing with an NBA franchise. He

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Speaker 1: doesn't He doesn't have people skills. He always does this

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Speaker 1: type of stuff. He is a complete narcissist. We have

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Speaker 1: a plan example of that we've been dealing with for

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Speaker 1: four years. He doesn't know how. He's not a people person.

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Speaker 1: This is a spoiled rich boy that just wants his

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Speaker 1: way all the time. Why why crap on the man

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Speaker 1: like that? Spike ain't doing nothing crazy. Spike been going

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Speaker 1: through that interest for twenty years, man, twenty years. They

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Speaker 1: got a new policy. But now he can't go back

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Speaker 1: out because his ticket been scanned already. Just left the

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Speaker 1: three hundred thousand dollars a year. It's Spike, he at

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Speaker 1: every game, y'are yeah, Because they were saying yeah, and

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Speaker 1: they were also saying too that the other celebrities that

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Speaker 1: come and watch the next they go in that vip entrance,

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Speaker 1: so they wanted Spike to go in that way. Well,

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Speaker 1: he's y'all number one fan. What difference doesn't mean? That's

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Speaker 1: no problem, right, he's been going through the same employee

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Speaker 1: and employee is now when the policy got changed and

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Speaker 1: they didn't tell Spike they had scanned his ticket. One thing.

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Speaker 1: Ye people, we know, bet Steve, that's right, that's right.

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Speaker 1: I'm telling you man, we know. Were you the scammer ticket? Man?

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Speaker 1: Y'all just let me through. They hassled it. That was crazy, man. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's the owner. Man. That's not a good and the

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Speaker 1: owner could have straightened his whole thing out. A die

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Speaker 1: hard Nick fan putting the Knicks ain't one and god

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Speaker 1: knows that's right. Matter of fact, Spike, don't worry about it.

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Speaker 1: The Knicks record, they're not worthy of your presence. Right

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Speaker 1: over to Brooklyn. Yeah, there you go, or he said

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Speaker 1: he wouldn't. No, All right, time for today's headline, Steve

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Speaker 1: hanging their ladies and gentlemen, miss and trip. Thank you everybody.

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Speaker 1: This is an trip with the news. Okay. Authorities say

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Speaker 1: that there are now one hundred and fifty coronavirus cases

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Speaker 1: in the United States, with California listing fifty three confirmed cases,

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Speaker 1: one death Sadie so Now. Governor Gavin Newsom has a

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Speaker 1: declared an official state of emergency out there. There are

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Speaker 1: eleven deaths with eleven with ten in Washington State alone.

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Speaker 1: New Jersey has its first case of the coronavirus is

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Speaker 1: a thirty two year old Fort Lee man. His health

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Speaker 1: information is on the way to the CDC for final

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Speaker 1: confirmation because he's like a presumptive person who they presume,

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Speaker 1: in other words, has the virus, but they have to

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Speaker 1: get it, you know, officially said and oh yeah, this

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Speaker 1: is corona. He's hospitalized in New Jersey. And there are

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Speaker 1: eleven cases in New York, all linked to the same

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Speaker 1: New York shell attorney recently back from Miami. Later today,

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Speaker 1: the Senate will join the House and calling for eight

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Speaker 1: billion with ABEE dollars to be used to fight the

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Speaker 1: virus not just here but even now around the world.

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Speaker 1: President Trump is expected to sign that big money measure

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Speaker 1: the top executive some of the names major airlines mean

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Speaker 1: while saying that they have beefed up ways to better

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Speaker 1: disinfect their planes in the way of the coronavirus problem. American, JetBlue,

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Speaker 1: United and Southwest say they're in danger of losing money

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Speaker 1: if more travelers decide not to engage in any overseas

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Speaker 1: travel right now. European tourism has also dropped off and

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Speaker 1: in two ways for US to Chinese stop traveling. Hotel

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Speaker 1: cancelation rates have reached ninety percent in some parts of Italy.

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Speaker 1: Major concert sporting events, cultural events all being canceled in

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Speaker 1: France and other countries. In fact, the French officials have

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Speaker 1: imposed a ban on all gatherings in France of more

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Speaker 1: than five thousand people in confined spaces. So the treating

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Speaker 1: this real seriously and they should. Almost two dozen people

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Speaker 1: still reported missing in Tennessee after a tornado ripped through

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Speaker 1: Nashville that area on Tuesday. On the political scene, with

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Speaker 1: Michael Bloomberg out of the Democratic presidential primary race, and

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Speaker 1: Elizabeth warren't assessing her options. The focus is now pretty

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Speaker 1: much on Joe Biden and Bernie Sanders and on the

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Speaker 1: next week's voting Missouri, Mississippi, Washington State, also Michigan, where

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Speaker 1: Bernie Sanders to be already laying out his plan of attack.

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Speaker 1: I think some of the issues that the people of

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Speaker 1: Michigan are concerned about our trade and they would devastated

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Speaker 1: by trade agreements like NAUGHTER and Pmtall with China trade

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Speaker 1: agreements which I vigorously opposed, which Joe Biden is supported,

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Speaker 1: and that is certainly one of the issues though I

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Speaker 1: will be talking about in terms of Michigan. Bernie Sanders

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Speaker 1: b Hillary Clinton in Michigan in twenty sixteen, but Donald

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Speaker 1: Trump just barely won that state in the general election.

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Speaker 1: One more thing, because of Joe Biden's super strong performance

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Speaker 1: and super Tuesday, the stocks arising, believe it or not. Finally,

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Speaker 1: today is Dressing Blue Day. Now back to the Steve

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Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. You're listening to Harvey Morning Show. Well,

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Speaker 1: to prevent the spread of the coronavirus, experts are advising

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Speaker 1: people to wash their hands now to do it correctly,

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Speaker 1: you need to wash your hands for twenty seconds, the

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Speaker 1: same length as singing Happy Birthday twice. Steve, we'll get

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Speaker 1: tired of singing Happy birthday. So do you have a

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Speaker 1: short list of songs we can sing for about twenty seconds.

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Speaker 1: So the coronavirus people say that you should wash your

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Speaker 1: hands for twenty seconds, and that's equivalent to singing Happy

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Speaker 1: Birthday twice times. Huh yeah. They told us that at

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Speaker 1: church on second birthday too. You know how you are

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Speaker 1: about music. Set on me, bring your hand, I'll help you. Whoa,

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Speaker 1: I'm gone, somebody to me. That's twenty seconds right now.

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Speaker 1: That's that's that's a good head washing. So how about this?

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Speaker 1: Huh m hmmm. Grandma's hands lap to church on Sunday morning. Grandma, mo,

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Speaker 1: you stake sometimes and swear Grandma, lord, it really came

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Speaker 1: in handy, She say, Billy, don't you run so fast?

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Speaker 1: Might fall on a piece of glass, might be snake.

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Speaker 1: Stay in that grass, grandma's hair. I love the mom.

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Speaker 1: I love that you gotta be at the moans dig Yeah. Yeah, Christmas, Christmas,

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Speaker 1: you don't want to coronavirus. This Chrismas And as we

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Speaker 1: trimmed the tree, how my sun is gone to be

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Speaker 1: that blo Themas fire your side, clean yourself, Carol, Chris,

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Speaker 1: Christmas were hands clean, gold act the house. Yes, some

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Speaker 1: damn happy birthday, he Steve. I felt this way thirty

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Speaker 1: four minutes after Oh about Joe Biden to come back kid?

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Speaker 1: Right after this, take us Steve Love. You're listening to

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, So in trending political news,

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Speaker 1: Joe Biden proved to be the comeback kid with big,

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Speaker 1: big victories. Biden is now in a position to challenge

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Speaker 1: Bernie Sanders for the Democratic nomination. Biden is ready. Take

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Speaker 1: a listen to this. You're in a report. We are

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Speaker 1: very much alive and MCNA mistake about it. This campaign, Well,

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Speaker 1: send down Trump packing. I like it, all right, that's

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Speaker 1: what we want. And Bernie Sanders is optimistic as well.

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Speaker 1: Take a listen. We are going to de seat Trump

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Speaker 1: because we are putting together an unprecedented rats roots, multi

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Speaker 1: generational VOLTI racial movement. Okay, all right, and Bloombergers out too. Bloombergers, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: has tried to hang in. Come on this one. I've

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Speaker 1: said this from the very beginning, From the very beginning,

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Speaker 1: I've told you who wasn't gonna be in there, and

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Speaker 1: they need to come on out because it's March. We

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Speaker 1: gotta get unified. If you want to remove Donald Trump,

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Speaker 1: you gotta be unified because the Republicans are unified. Elizabeth

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Speaker 1: Warren just come out. It's all right. You ran a

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Speaker 1: great race, girl, You was outstanding. You you want some debates,

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Speaker 1: all that come out. Let's over. Give your money and

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Speaker 1: your damn delicate. You don't like Bernie Sanders, get that

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Speaker 1: to Biden. Bloomberg, give all his to Biden. Global chap

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Speaker 1: global aiming Biden Biden. Everybody gonna get it. Anybody gonna

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Speaker 1: get Bernie old ass nothing. Listen to me, Donald. When

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Speaker 1: you hear Donald Trump saying the Democrats are treating Barry

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Speaker 1: Sanders very unfairly, you know why because he wants the

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Speaker 1: candidate to be Bernie Sanders. Because if Bernie Sanders is

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Speaker 1: the Democratic candidate, we are all but handing this back

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Speaker 1: to Donald Trump. Because Donald Trump is gonna scare the

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Speaker 1: nation with the term socialist, just like he scared them

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Speaker 1: with the wall, with immigration, just like he scared them

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Speaker 1: with talking about anti abortion. He scares them with everything

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Speaker 1: the economy. He use fear. He's gonna take that fear

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Speaker 1: rhetoric and ram it down our throats with Bernie Sanders. Now,

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Speaker 1: I like Bernie Sanders ideas, but can I tell you

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Speaker 1: something he is doing. Like all politicians, he is promising

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Speaker 1: something that he cannot pass. America is built on capitalism,

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Speaker 1: it is not built on socialism. And people in the

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Speaker 1: house gonna be going, okay, so that's what this means.

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Speaker 1: This is what this means. Let mask you because disertiue

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Speaker 1: got if you work for something, do you want what

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Speaker 1: you've earned? Yeah, of course absolutely, without saying that goes

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Speaker 1: without saying step and we don't get paid what we deserve,

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Speaker 1: absolutely not. So how about this? Then? How about everybody

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Speaker 1: just make the same thing. That's what they're gonna shape

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Speaker 1: up socialism to be because socialism is tied to communism,

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Speaker 1: Communism is tried, is tied to Russia, is tied to Cuba.

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Speaker 1: They're gonna run that down our throw man. And he's

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Speaker 1: to the left, extremely to the left. And what he's

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Speaker 1: saying is good for a lot of people and for

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Speaker 1: the masses who are under privileged. But if you have

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Speaker 1: any aspirations are becoming privileged, that's a scary conversation. Man,

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Speaker 1: that's what I think that Donald Trump is going to

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Speaker 1: use if it's Bernie said, Biden is our only ship

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Speaker 1: and that's why he wants to run against Bernie Sanders.

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Speaker 1: Coming up next, Nephew here with today's prank phone call

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Speaker 1: right after this. Yes, let's up. It's DJ Cally. You

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Speaker 1: are in no what time? And boy DC young flag. Hi.

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Speaker 1: My name is Carlos Miller and I'm Chico Bean. Hey,

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Speaker 1: it is Kevin Hart. Hold tight. The nephew has another

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Speaker 1: prank call coming up next. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour, right about

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Speaker 1: four minutes after. It's Today's Strawberry Letter. My subject forward

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Speaker 1: today stuck between two women that I love. It's not

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Speaker 1: what you think, though, It's not what you think. Huh. Yes?

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Speaker 1: Can I say something, yes that my opinion about politics

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Speaker 1: is just my open everybody is. I think whatever you

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Speaker 1: want now, I just won't when people listen to them.

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Speaker 1: Steve sent him at time my he on night, so

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Speaker 1: he gonna vote No, No, No, you have your right

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Speaker 1: to your opinion. I don't speak for the Morning Show.

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Speaker 1: I was just talking to Steve. That's what you want

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Speaker 1: to say that, right, all right, you're Steve Harvey and

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Speaker 1: you approve this message. All right, here we go. H nephew,

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Speaker 1: I will vote. Yeah, I'm about to speak for the

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Speaker 1: people I mean, not ugly. I'm about to right inside.

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Speaker 1: You know, boy, I just came out I'm speaking for

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Speaker 1: stupid people. Now. No, no, you said you you said

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Speaker 1: ugly people. Now that was a mistake. That was the

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Speaker 1: fact that you have a combination. That ain't our fault.

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Speaker 1: I don't have a stupid Yeah, you speaking for stupid

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Speaker 1: people right now? Just kind of girl scout cooking is

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Speaker 1: the stupid prank, not ugly, just stupid. Let's go. He

632
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Speaker 1: was this, Hey, um, how are you doing? Man? My

633
00:45:33,120 --> 00:45:35,799
Speaker 1: name is Glenn Man. I'm working I work in building too.

634
00:45:36,280 --> 00:45:40,320
Speaker 1: You work for Cludia, Right, yeah? What what's fun? So

635
00:45:40,560 --> 00:45:43,719
Speaker 1: we probably met a couple of times. Uh do you

636
00:45:43,800 --> 00:45:46,919
Speaker 1: have a girl? You have a girlfriend? Uh? Why what's

637
00:45:47,000 --> 00:45:52,320
Speaker 1: up you guys? You guys live together? Or what? What

638
00:45:53,000 --> 00:45:54,960
Speaker 1: is this your business? Like? What? What? What's what's what's

639
00:45:54,960 --> 00:45:57,640
Speaker 1: the deal, What's what's what are you asking about? My girl? Well,

640
00:45:57,719 --> 00:45:59,640
Speaker 1: let me ask you this here. What's what's what's going

641
00:45:59,680 --> 00:46:04,480
Speaker 1: on with you? At the job. Uh what what do

642
00:46:04,560 --> 00:46:07,440
Speaker 1: you what do you mean? What's like? Like? I mean

643
00:46:07,560 --> 00:46:10,640
Speaker 1: you you know you know, right? I mean so what

644
00:46:10,840 --> 00:46:13,640
Speaker 1: like what what's what's the deal? What? What? Who are you? Like?

645
00:46:13,719 --> 00:46:15,800
Speaker 1: Who the who? The are you? Like? What? What? What

646
00:46:15,960 --> 00:46:19,320
Speaker 1: the what? What is this? Poor? Like? Why are you? Like?

647
00:46:19,440 --> 00:46:23,520
Speaker 1: I don't even know you? Right? I just calmed down, bron,

648
00:46:23,640 --> 00:46:25,439
Speaker 1: just calmed down, Like I say, my name is saying.

649
00:46:25,760 --> 00:46:28,239
Speaker 1: I work at Gila too, you know, and I know

650
00:46:28,920 --> 00:46:31,040
Speaker 1: I just tell you now, I know you. I know

651
00:46:31,160 --> 00:46:34,600
Speaker 1: what you're doing, okay. I know what y'are doing at

652
00:46:34,640 --> 00:46:37,080
Speaker 1: the job. I already know, and a couple other people

653
00:46:37,160 --> 00:46:39,399
Speaker 1: know what's going on. And I know you got a girl.

654
00:46:39,719 --> 00:46:41,600
Speaker 1: I know you got a girl at home. I know that.

655
00:46:42,560 --> 00:46:45,800
Speaker 1: What so so what what? What? What the what? What

656
00:46:46,000 --> 00:46:47,840
Speaker 1: is this about? Like? Why why do you call my

657
00:46:47,920 --> 00:46:50,839
Speaker 1: polte trying to harass me about the boot? Like? Who

658
00:46:51,000 --> 00:46:55,799
Speaker 1: are you? Like? What? What what is your problem? Like? Hey, many, Hey,

659
00:46:55,880 --> 00:46:58,160
Speaker 1: comeing down, man, I finished, I ain't trying to tell

660
00:46:58,200 --> 00:46:59,719
Speaker 1: you a little secret or nothing like that. I ain't

661
00:46:59,760 --> 00:47:02,279
Speaker 1: trying to do that, all right, but but but I'm

662
00:47:02,320 --> 00:47:05,080
Speaker 1: gonna be real with you, okay, all right, Like I said,

663
00:47:05,200 --> 00:47:06,719
Speaker 1: you know I got one of your names. I got

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Speaker 1: your number from one of co workers. Okay, I got

665
00:47:09,000 --> 00:47:10,440
Speaker 1: your number. I said, I want to I want to

666
00:47:10,520 --> 00:47:13,000
Speaker 1: give the car and you talk to him about something.

667
00:47:13,080 --> 00:47:15,279
Speaker 1: That's how I got your number. So yeah, who gave

668
00:47:15,280 --> 00:47:19,279
Speaker 1: you ten? We'll get to that later. Okay, we'll get

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00:47:19,320 --> 00:47:20,719
Speaker 1: to that later. But let me but let me say

670
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Speaker 1: this though. I know what's going on with you and

671
00:47:23,640 --> 00:47:25,560
Speaker 1: the job, all right, and I ain't gonna say nothing

672
00:47:25,600 --> 00:47:28,200
Speaker 1: about it, you know, that's just our little secret or whatever.

673
00:47:28,480 --> 00:47:30,480
Speaker 1: But I do have something that I want you to do. Though.

674
00:47:31,080 --> 00:47:33,520
Speaker 1: What do you want? Dude? But what do you want?

675
00:47:33,600 --> 00:47:36,880
Speaker 1: You call me bugging me about all this book? Like,

676
00:47:37,000 --> 00:47:38,600
Speaker 1: what do you want? What do you want? Well? Here

677
00:47:38,600 --> 00:47:41,279
Speaker 1: it is, man, Listen, I ain't gonna say nothing about

678
00:47:41,320 --> 00:47:42,920
Speaker 1: what you got going on, all right. That ain't that

679
00:47:43,000 --> 00:47:45,239
Speaker 1: ain't even I don't even care about that. But here

680
00:47:45,360 --> 00:47:47,200
Speaker 1: here's what I do want you to do. I do

681
00:47:47,360 --> 00:47:50,319
Speaker 1: need some help from you, all right. Listen. My little

682
00:47:50,360 --> 00:47:53,960
Speaker 1: girl is selling girl Scout cookies and I want you

683
00:47:54,000 --> 00:47:57,000
Speaker 1: to buy fifty boxes of them, all right with be

684
00:47:57,160 --> 00:47:59,680
Speaker 1: a cash out because she got an album Soul by

685
00:47:59,760 --> 00:48:04,760
Speaker 1: them all morning? Are you kidding me? Bro? You. Okay,

686
00:48:04,880 --> 00:48:08,920
Speaker 1: so you're on some black man's books and listen, dude,

687
00:48:08,960 --> 00:48:11,399
Speaker 1: who the gave you my number? Because you're gonna call

688
00:48:11,520 --> 00:48:14,680
Speaker 1: me ask me to buy them some cookies and you

689
00:48:15,080 --> 00:48:17,759
Speaker 1: should just bet a man and ask me about it. Like,

690
00:48:17,920 --> 00:48:20,680
Speaker 1: don't be calling my phone trying to give me that book,

691
00:48:21,160 --> 00:48:24,359
Speaker 1: Like come on, man, like I ain't got no time

692
00:48:24,440 --> 00:48:26,759
Speaker 1: for this. Like I'm asking you to do is buy

693
00:48:26,840 --> 00:48:29,239
Speaker 1: today I'm cookies man, That's it. You know what I'm saying.

694
00:48:29,920 --> 00:48:32,600
Speaker 1: I'm just saying I do want you to buy some cookie.

695
00:48:32,600 --> 00:48:34,840
Speaker 1: I need you to buy fifty box little girl Scout cookies.

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00:48:34,880 --> 00:48:36,920
Speaker 1: Can you do that? No? No, no no no no

697
00:48:36,960 --> 00:48:38,520
Speaker 1: no no no no no no no no. You ain't

698
00:48:38,560 --> 00:48:42,000
Speaker 1: gonna call and try to manipulate me and defying like

699
00:48:42,160 --> 00:48:45,359
Speaker 1: you're you're talking? Are you trying to make me fight?

700
00:48:46,080 --> 00:48:50,480
Speaker 1: Think you nothing for you disrespecting me, calling my phone,

701
00:48:50,719 --> 00:48:53,880
Speaker 1: trying to act like you like just trying to manipulate.

702
00:48:54,360 --> 00:48:57,840
Speaker 1: I ain't down with that, but I ain't done. You

703
00:48:57,880 --> 00:49:00,400
Speaker 1: don't want to buy my cookies though, so do you

704
00:49:00,440 --> 00:49:03,120
Speaker 1: want me to call your your girls and see a ship?

705
00:49:03,160 --> 00:49:06,120
Speaker 1: But I'm not good, So you gotta stay the away

706
00:49:06,200 --> 00:49:08,920
Speaker 1: for my bro man like, don't don't come near her. Okay,

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00:49:09,200 --> 00:49:11,400
Speaker 1: you don't call her, you'll come near her, son'll come

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00:49:11,480 --> 00:49:13,680
Speaker 1: near me. You just get get the out of here.

709
00:49:13,680 --> 00:49:16,440
Speaker 1: I'm about to start this nine. Figure out who you are,

710
00:49:16,640 --> 00:49:18,759
Speaker 1: and come right after you, man like, because I ain't

711
00:49:18,800 --> 00:49:21,319
Speaker 1: playing bro, I ain't all right. So I'm gonna tell

712
00:49:21,320 --> 00:49:23,960
Speaker 1: you what, man, i'nna argue with you. I anna argue

713
00:49:23,960 --> 00:49:26,200
Speaker 1: with you, but I get off the phone right now.

714
00:49:26,920 --> 00:49:30,000
Speaker 1: Get off right now, and I'm gonna your girl. I'm

715
00:49:30,040 --> 00:49:32,120
Speaker 1: gonna call your girl and see if you want by

716
00:49:32,440 --> 00:49:36,760
Speaker 1: some No no, no, no no, you ain't call nobody.

717
00:49:36,840 --> 00:49:40,440
Speaker 1: You just get you get I try to god, I'm

718
00:49:40,480 --> 00:49:42,080
Speaker 1: gonna find out who you are. I'm gonna find out

719
00:49:42,120 --> 00:49:44,000
Speaker 1: who gave you that number. I'm gonna call you up

720
00:49:44,239 --> 00:49:47,520
Speaker 1: like you know, you don't call me trying to right me? Okay,

721
00:49:47,640 --> 00:49:50,359
Speaker 1: hey man, hey, hey, you know what? Angrian cool, we're

722
00:49:50,400 --> 00:49:52,279
Speaker 1: still talking about it, all right, I'm gonna get the

723
00:49:52,760 --> 00:49:54,920
Speaker 1: right I don't like you so so, so I'll get

724
00:49:54,960 --> 00:49:57,040
Speaker 1: off the phone like you want me to ag I'll

725
00:49:57,120 --> 00:49:58,920
Speaker 1: do that, but let me let me ask you here.

726
00:49:58,960 --> 00:50:01,360
Speaker 1: So let me ask you this. Though you sure you

727
00:50:01,520 --> 00:50:03,920
Speaker 1: want me to call you sure you want me to

728
00:50:04,000 --> 00:50:08,480
Speaker 1: do that? And right, ain't isn't that her name? Man?

729
00:50:08,800 --> 00:50:13,720
Speaker 1: You something? Individuals? All right? Look how much of these cookies?

730
00:50:13,960 --> 00:50:17,160
Speaker 1: How much you want? A man? Tommy told me you

731
00:50:17,239 --> 00:50:21,360
Speaker 1: would buy the cookies. Tommy. Yeah, Tommy told me you

732
00:50:21,400 --> 00:50:28,120
Speaker 1: would buy the cookies. Tommy, Tommy, Amen, Amen, check it out.

733
00:50:28,440 --> 00:50:30,879
Speaker 1: This is nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

734
00:50:31,160 --> 00:50:34,560
Speaker 1: Your co worker got me to pray phone call you.

735
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Speaker 1: Oh my god, I'm gonna kill him, damn so so

736
00:50:48,000 --> 00:50:51,600
Speaker 1: oh god, listen, so listen, Adrian. We have beat. We

737
00:50:51,719 --> 00:50:54,440
Speaker 1: have beat all the names, so nobody knows the things

738
00:50:54,480 --> 00:50:59,320
Speaker 1: at all. Okay, you're good, bro, You're good man. And

739
00:50:59,520 --> 00:51:05,239
Speaker 1: I m hmm, you got me? Oh god, I'm I'm

740
00:51:05,280 --> 00:51:07,279
Speaker 1: gonna go. I'm gonna take a nap man. I just

741
00:51:07,880 --> 00:51:14,960
Speaker 1: choosed up all my yeah, I'm done. Oh God, Like, hey,

742
00:51:15,000 --> 00:51:19,520
Speaker 1: where you go? I am going off? You up? Man,

743
00:51:19,640 --> 00:51:23,480
Speaker 1: I can't believe you got me on this. Tell me

744
00:51:23,560 --> 00:51:26,520
Speaker 1: this man, one more thing before you go. What's the badest,

745
00:51:26,560 --> 00:51:29,720
Speaker 1: and I mean the baddest radio show in the land,

746
00:51:30,600 --> 00:51:32,680
Speaker 1: The Steve Harvard Morton hill Man, which is what he

747
00:51:32,760 --> 00:51:41,440
Speaker 1: got played every morning? Kill me, Bro, and there you

748
00:51:41,560 --> 00:51:45,080
Speaker 1: have it. Okay, now, was that was that nice? Stupid?

749
00:51:45,320 --> 00:51:49,560
Speaker 1: Was it nice and stupid? Very? Yeah? He played too much?

750
00:51:50,239 --> 00:51:54,440
Speaker 1: Wasn't nothing ugly about it? Just stupid? That's it. You too.

751
00:51:54,520 --> 00:51:56,759
Speaker 1: Don't have to choge together. They don't need each other.

752
00:51:57,400 --> 00:51:59,839
Speaker 1: It's a it's a tough combination to live with, though.

753
00:52:00,520 --> 00:52:03,600
Speaker 1: You got ugly and stupid? Yeah, you got it. Dare

754
00:52:04,680 --> 00:52:07,520
Speaker 1: if if if if someone had that, Yeah, that'd be

755
00:52:07,560 --> 00:52:10,480
Speaker 1: a tough combination. I don't have that. Yeah, I don't

756
00:52:10,520 --> 00:52:13,120
Speaker 1: have that yet. I'm gonna be pretty, you got it.

757
00:52:13,400 --> 00:52:16,600
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be saying you're pretty now. I'm gonna be

758
00:52:16,680 --> 00:52:20,439
Speaker 1: sexy and pretty and dolphin this weekend. But I'm gonna

759
00:52:20,440 --> 00:52:25,480
Speaker 1: be stupid at the same sexy, yes, pretty, pretty stupid.

760
00:52:26,640 --> 00:52:31,080
Speaker 1: It's saying, okay, watch me, have you ever seen yourself?

761
00:52:31,160 --> 00:52:33,719
Speaker 1: I will not be ugly for you. I would not

762
00:52:33,880 --> 00:52:38,680
Speaker 1: be somebody him from the side and send it to

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00:52:39,440 --> 00:52:43,440
Speaker 1: please thank you of you up next Strawberry letter, subject

764
00:52:43,800 --> 00:52:46,640
Speaker 1: stuck between two women that I love. We'll get into

765
00:52:46,719 --> 00:52:51,840
Speaker 1: it right after this. You're listening to show Before we

766
00:52:51,920 --> 00:52:54,680
Speaker 1: got to the Strawberry letter, guys, please, this is just

767
00:52:54,880 --> 00:52:57,920
Speaker 1: a reminder to please pray for and help our neighbors

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00:52:58,040 --> 00:53:02,719
Speaker 1: in Nashville. Various organisas zations are collecting donations after they

769
00:53:02,800 --> 00:53:06,520
Speaker 1: had that deadly tornado a few days ago. Our Nashville

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Speaker 1: homestation one on one one the Beat dot com. You

771
00:53:10,040 --> 00:53:12,480
Speaker 1: can go there for a list of organizations, including the

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00:53:12,560 --> 00:53:15,800
Speaker 1: Salvation Army, United Way and the American Red Cross to

773
00:53:16,000 --> 00:53:19,040
Speaker 1: see how you can help. And you're in our prayers

774
00:53:19,560 --> 00:53:25,359
Speaker 1: as always. Okay, time now for the Today Strawberry Letter.

775
00:53:25,920 --> 00:53:29,640
Speaker 1: If you need advice on relationships, on work, sex, parenting, dating,

776
00:53:29,680 --> 00:53:33,240
Speaker 1: and more, please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEYFM

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Speaker 1: dot com and click submit Strawberry Letter. That's very important

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Speaker 1: that you click that. Okay, we could be reading your

779
00:53:40,120 --> 00:53:42,440
Speaker 1: letter live on the air, just like we're gonna read

780
00:53:42,520 --> 00:53:45,880
Speaker 1: this one right here right now. Buckle up, hold on tight,

781
00:53:46,000 --> 00:53:48,839
Speaker 1: we got it. Fall you here. It is the Strawberry Letter.

782
00:53:50,280 --> 00:53:55,520
Speaker 1: Subject Tommy, subject stuck between two women that I love.

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00:53:56,560 --> 00:53:59,520
Speaker 1: Dear Stephen Shirley. I've been married to my lovely wife

784
00:53:59,560 --> 00:54:02,600
Speaker 1: for eight years and we have three children. My wife

785
00:54:02,719 --> 00:54:05,040
Speaker 1: is great and we have a normal marriage and enjoy

786
00:54:05,200 --> 00:54:08,839
Speaker 1: each other and enjoy each spending time with each other.

787
00:54:10,239 --> 00:54:13,160
Speaker 1: When my wife and I started dating. My siblings loved her,

788
00:54:13,280 --> 00:54:16,960
Speaker 1: but my mom tolerated her. When we decided to get married,

789
00:54:17,080 --> 00:54:19,480
Speaker 1: my wife told me that she could tell my mom

790
00:54:19,640 --> 00:54:22,200
Speaker 1: was not happy about it. I blew it off and

791
00:54:22,280 --> 00:54:25,479
Speaker 1: thought everything thing would be fine. Well, it's not fine,

792
00:54:25,560 --> 00:54:28,719
Speaker 1: and I feel bad for my wife. My mom has

793
00:54:28,760 --> 00:54:31,399
Speaker 1: had some health issues and can't live alone right now.

794
00:54:31,920 --> 00:54:34,840
Speaker 1: She couldn't stay with my brother because he is single

795
00:54:35,000 --> 00:54:37,759
Speaker 1: and he's always on the go. My sister wouldn't let

796
00:54:37,800 --> 00:54:40,319
Speaker 1: my mom live there because they're like oil and water

797
00:54:40,480 --> 00:54:43,520
Speaker 1: most of the time, so my mother has been living

798
00:54:43,600 --> 00:54:47,239
Speaker 1: with us. I love my mom, but recently I have

799
00:54:47,360 --> 00:54:50,200
Speaker 1: seen with my own eyes how hateful she is to

800
00:54:50,320 --> 00:54:53,120
Speaker 1: my wife. I've overheard her talking to my wife like

801
00:54:53,280 --> 00:54:56,239
Speaker 1: she's stupid and criticizing how my wife takes care of

802
00:54:56,280 --> 00:54:59,120
Speaker 1: our house and our children. I could not believe it

803
00:54:59,200 --> 00:55:02,160
Speaker 1: when I first heard and witnessed it, because she is

804
00:55:02,200 --> 00:55:05,760
Speaker 1: all sweet and innocent when I'm around. My mother doesn't

805
00:55:05,840 --> 00:55:08,600
Speaker 1: know that I am onto her and her evil ways.

806
00:55:08,719 --> 00:55:10,879
Speaker 1: But I have to put my foot down and tell

807
00:55:10,920 --> 00:55:13,680
Speaker 1: her how to stop, tell her to stop mistreating my wife.

808
00:55:13,920 --> 00:55:16,000
Speaker 1: I am stuck in the middle of two women I

809
00:55:16,200 --> 00:55:18,640
Speaker 1: love dearly. I don't know how to tell my mom

810
00:55:18,760 --> 00:55:21,160
Speaker 1: to chill out, but if I don't do it soon,

811
00:55:21,440 --> 00:55:23,880
Speaker 1: I feel like my wife will end up putting hands

812
00:55:23,920 --> 00:55:27,000
Speaker 1: on my mom. Just getting my wife is not like that,

813
00:55:28,040 --> 00:55:31,640
Speaker 1: but my mom's mouth is so disrespectful. Stephen Shirley, I

814
00:55:31,760 --> 00:55:33,799
Speaker 1: may have to put my mother out of my house.

815
00:55:33,880 --> 00:55:36,360
Speaker 1: How can I fix this? Well, if it comes to that,

816
00:55:36,560 --> 00:55:39,440
Speaker 1: that may be what you have to do. And I

817
00:55:39,560 --> 00:55:41,720
Speaker 1: got to tell you you're not stuck in the middle.

818
00:55:41,840 --> 00:55:44,080
Speaker 1: You're not stuck. You're just looking at it that way.

819
00:55:45,080 --> 00:55:49,200
Speaker 1: I got that your mom and everything, but your responsibility, husband,

820
00:55:49,480 --> 00:55:53,120
Speaker 1: is to your wife first, even your siblings. Her own

821
00:55:53,239 --> 00:55:56,160
Speaker 1: children don't want to be bothered with your mom. And

822
00:55:57,040 --> 00:55:59,480
Speaker 1: she's really out of order doing it in you and

823
00:55:59,520 --> 00:56:02,080
Speaker 1: your wife's home, telling her she doesn't like the way

824
00:56:02,120 --> 00:56:04,440
Speaker 1: she takes care of her children or the house. I

825
00:56:04,840 --> 00:56:07,040
Speaker 1: just you know she's doing it in your wife's face,

826
00:56:07,600 --> 00:56:10,520
Speaker 1: right under your nose. I just think, husband, it is

827
00:56:10,640 --> 00:56:13,719
Speaker 1: time for you to step up. You're gonna have to. Uh.

828
00:56:14,480 --> 00:56:16,640
Speaker 1: You have all the evidence you need. You said you

829
00:56:16,760 --> 00:56:19,960
Speaker 1: saw it and you heard it. Um Uh you heard

830
00:56:20,000 --> 00:56:23,240
Speaker 1: your mom with your own ears. Okay, what more evidence

831
00:56:23,320 --> 00:56:27,520
Speaker 1: do you need you. You. You can't say that your

832
00:56:27,560 --> 00:56:30,320
Speaker 1: wife is exaggerating. You can't say that your wife is

833
00:56:30,560 --> 00:56:35,759
Speaker 1: lying on your mom. Any of that. Your your your

834
00:56:35,840 --> 00:56:37,719
Speaker 1: your mom changes in front of you. You say, and

835
00:56:37,800 --> 00:56:41,200
Speaker 1: she's all sweet and innocent. Well, I suggest that you

836
00:56:41,360 --> 00:56:44,000
Speaker 1: tape your wife on your mom on the cell phone

837
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Speaker 1: or when they are talking, how your mom talks to

838
00:56:46,719 --> 00:56:49,560
Speaker 1: your wife. I say, you secretly take her, tape her

839
00:56:49,640 --> 00:56:53,120
Speaker 1: on the cell phone and replay it for her. And uh,

840
00:56:53,680 --> 00:56:55,560
Speaker 1: to me, that's how you deal with it. You need it,

841
00:56:55,600 --> 00:56:57,560
Speaker 1: a way to deal with it. That's how you show

842
00:56:57,640 --> 00:56:59,880
Speaker 1: your mom you have the evidence right here. You do

843
00:57:00,040 --> 00:57:02,160
Speaker 1: it all respectfully, of course, I mean, after all, it

844
00:57:02,320 --> 00:57:04,960
Speaker 1: is your mom. I hope after she sees herself on

845
00:57:05,200 --> 00:57:08,080
Speaker 1: tape treating your wife like that, I hope this anyway,

846
00:57:08,520 --> 00:57:11,439
Speaker 1: that she'll see how hateful she is towards your wife.

847
00:57:11,520 --> 00:57:15,200
Speaker 1: And maybe this will bring about a healing and a

848
00:57:15,280 --> 00:57:18,440
Speaker 1: forgiveness in your family. That's what you need, you know,

849
00:57:18,560 --> 00:57:21,840
Speaker 1: for your mom to admit that she's wrong and to

850
00:57:22,080 --> 00:57:24,640
Speaker 1: ask your wife for a forgiveness. And you said your

851
00:57:24,680 --> 00:57:26,560
Speaker 1: wife isn't like that. It sounds like your wife is

852
00:57:26,640 --> 00:57:29,000
Speaker 1: really nice. She'll forgive her so see how that works

853
00:57:29,040 --> 00:57:33,280
Speaker 1: for you. Tape it and play it back for your mom. Steve, Oh,

854
00:57:35,680 --> 00:57:38,440
Speaker 1: I don't know, surely I can't. I like what you said.

855
00:57:38,640 --> 00:57:43,120
Speaker 1: I don't know. This is a spot, and a lot

856
00:57:43,200 --> 00:57:46,320
Speaker 1: of people don't know how this spot is. But the

857
00:57:46,480 --> 00:57:49,360
Speaker 1: first woman that a boy ever falls in love with

858
00:57:49,800 --> 00:57:54,960
Speaker 1: is his mother, that goes on throughout his life. Most

859
00:57:55,280 --> 00:58:01,400
Speaker 1: boys will protect a mother to the death. I mean so,

860
00:58:02,120 --> 00:58:05,200
Speaker 1: and he now has a wife that he absolutely loves.

861
00:58:05,240 --> 00:58:07,400
Speaker 1: They've been married their years. They got three beautiful queens

862
00:58:07,440 --> 00:58:09,240
Speaker 1: to him and his white kids, and him and his

863
00:58:09,320 --> 00:58:12,680
Speaker 1: wife loves spending time together. So okay, we got a

864
00:58:12,760 --> 00:58:17,160
Speaker 1: problem now because he's stuck. He feels between two women

865
00:58:17,200 --> 00:58:19,720
Speaker 1: that he loves. But Shirley made a great point. You

866
00:58:19,800 --> 00:58:24,240
Speaker 1: are not stuck. Dog. There is no middle here, not

867
00:58:24,520 --> 00:58:26,840
Speaker 1: young man, or however old you are. I don't know

868
00:58:26,960 --> 00:58:29,960
Speaker 1: how old you are, but dog, there is no middle hill.

869
00:58:30,920 --> 00:58:34,840
Speaker 1: It is very simple. The priority for you in your

870
00:58:34,960 --> 00:58:38,560
Speaker 1: life now is not your mother. It is your wife.

871
00:58:39,760 --> 00:58:44,959
Speaker 1: You took vows to your wife, You promise to leave

872
00:58:45,200 --> 00:58:50,960
Speaker 1: all others and cleave only unto her. Your mama is

873
00:58:51,160 --> 00:58:59,640
Speaker 1: a trip dog. Your mama is a trip man. Your other.

874
00:59:00,800 --> 00:59:03,200
Speaker 1: Your brother bachelor, so he can't have mama up been

875
00:59:03,320 --> 00:59:06,280
Speaker 1: here blocking. I know mama got some health issues and

876
00:59:06,400 --> 00:59:09,160
Speaker 1: we need to pray about that. But your brother couldn't

877
00:59:09,200 --> 00:59:11,880
Speaker 1: let your mama move in because he'll player mama up

878
00:59:11,920 --> 00:59:15,120
Speaker 1: in the house blocking. Your sister won't let the mama

879
00:59:15,200 --> 00:59:17,640
Speaker 1: move in with the health issue because they don't get along.

880
00:59:17,760 --> 00:59:20,280
Speaker 1: You know why don't get along? Because your mama is

881
00:59:20,360 --> 00:59:25,800
Speaker 1: a trip dog. Yes, all right, I'm come back. I'm

882
00:59:25,800 --> 00:59:28,360
Speaker 1: gonna tell you truth player. I ain't trying to talk

883
00:59:28,400 --> 00:59:30,360
Speaker 1: about your mama nothing. I'm just gonna tell you s

884
00:59:30,520 --> 00:59:33,840
Speaker 1: a trip. We'll have part two of Steve's response coming

885
00:59:33,920 --> 00:59:37,520
Speaker 1: up at twenty three minutes after the hour. Today's Strawberry

886
00:59:37,600 --> 00:59:40,840
Speaker 1: Letters subjects stuck between two women that I love. Will

887
00:59:40,880 --> 00:59:45,880
Speaker 1: get back into it right after this. You're listening show,

888
00:59:46,800 --> 00:59:49,560
Speaker 1: all right, Steve, come on, let's recap today's Strawberry letter.

889
00:59:49,680 --> 00:59:53,880
Speaker 1: Your subject stuck between two women that I love. Yeah, heit,

890
00:59:53,960 --> 00:59:56,200
Speaker 1: this man been married eight years to this woman that

891
00:59:56,320 --> 00:59:58,800
Speaker 1: got three beautiful kids. He loved a girl. They have

892
00:59:58,880 --> 01:00:03,040
Speaker 1: a great time together even before they got married. The

893
01:00:03,200 --> 01:00:08,080
Speaker 1: siblings was okay with her, but your mama never really approved. Okay,

894
01:00:09,040 --> 01:00:11,840
Speaker 1: never really approved of it. So your mama, in essence,

895
01:00:11,920 --> 01:00:15,000
Speaker 1: don't like your wife, your selection, who you're very, very

896
01:00:15,040 --> 01:00:18,360
Speaker 1: happy with. You know your mama can be wrong. Now,

897
01:00:18,440 --> 01:00:21,560
Speaker 1: your mama had fell on some health issues. Your brother

898
01:00:21,640 --> 01:00:24,760
Speaker 1: can't take care of acause he'll player. Your mama can't

899
01:00:24,760 --> 01:00:27,360
Speaker 1: be up in here blocking. I'm in here running them.

900
01:00:27,760 --> 01:00:30,919
Speaker 1: I got things to do. I got these girls coming

901
01:00:30,960 --> 01:00:33,480
Speaker 1: over to night. You in that cooking greens. We don't

902
01:00:33,520 --> 01:00:38,440
Speaker 1: wanna smell no greens in this house. Yes, since I

903
01:00:38,560 --> 01:00:43,000
Speaker 1: got mama, I got some things going on. I got lexus.

904
01:00:43,080 --> 01:00:46,000
Speaker 1: I'm on lexus, turned off the lights. You in here,

905
01:00:46,040 --> 01:00:49,320
Speaker 1: got the lights on playing church music. I'm in the

906
01:00:49,480 --> 01:00:53,560
Speaker 1: battlet bringing and you up in here playing Mighty Clouds

907
01:00:53,600 --> 01:00:56,480
Speaker 1: and Joy out of Mississippi, Third version of the Hour.

908
01:00:57,440 --> 01:01:00,960
Speaker 1: My mama can't stay here now, You're sister don't want

909
01:01:01,000 --> 01:01:03,200
Speaker 1: it in the house because you're saying your own words.

910
01:01:03,240 --> 01:01:05,600
Speaker 1: Your sister, and your mama is like all in water.

911
01:01:05,920 --> 01:01:08,200
Speaker 1: You know why that because your mamma tripped off. I

912
01:01:08,240 --> 01:01:10,200
Speaker 1: ain't gonna talk about your mama because I don't litybody

913
01:01:10,240 --> 01:01:13,560
Speaker 1: talk about mama, but your mama tripping. Now, your mama

914
01:01:13,800 --> 01:01:17,360
Speaker 1: is tripping with your wife. You didn't heard her with

915
01:01:17,520 --> 01:01:19,960
Speaker 1: your own ears. See, you knew your wife was complained

916
01:01:20,000 --> 01:01:24,040
Speaker 1: about it, but then you heard her talking to her disrespectfully.

917
01:01:24,600 --> 01:01:26,880
Speaker 1: I don't know why your fat ass can't keep this

918
01:01:27,080 --> 01:01:31,720
Speaker 1: house clean. Wa Wow, look at these kids and here

919
01:01:31,840 --> 01:01:35,000
Speaker 1: hell all over their head. They look hungry. The little

920
01:01:35,040 --> 01:01:38,600
Speaker 1: baby got dirty, dive on and shitting up in the hill. Well,

921
01:01:38,680 --> 01:01:41,160
Speaker 1: excuse me. I didn't work and I just gotta and

922
01:01:41,320 --> 01:01:43,400
Speaker 1: kids get dirty from time to time. But you need

923
01:01:43,520 --> 01:01:45,520
Speaker 1: to do a better job. And you ain't cooking. I

924
01:01:45,600 --> 01:01:48,560
Speaker 1: didn't even want this to eat. Well, I'm seeing what's

925
01:01:48,600 --> 01:01:50,560
Speaker 1: gonna have to happen, is dog. If you don't step

926
01:01:50,640 --> 01:01:55,000
Speaker 1: in here, your girl gonna tighten up. Now, Shirley, I'm

927
01:01:55,000 --> 01:01:57,240
Speaker 1: gonna give you a reenac And in the second, y'all,

928
01:01:57,480 --> 01:02:00,400
Speaker 1: I want you to be the mother complaining about so things,

929
01:02:00,680 --> 01:02:04,360
Speaker 1: and I'm gonna be his wife checking the mama. But

930
01:02:04,520 --> 01:02:07,240
Speaker 1: first of all, let me tell you something you didn't heard.

931
01:02:07,320 --> 01:02:10,120
Speaker 1: Your mother has been living with y'all and heard her,

932
01:02:11,280 --> 01:02:13,600
Speaker 1: seeing it with your own eyes, how hateful she is

933
01:02:13,680 --> 01:02:16,320
Speaker 1: to your wife. You overheard her talking to your wife

934
01:02:16,400 --> 01:02:18,840
Speaker 1: like she's stupid and criticizing how my wife take care

935
01:02:18,840 --> 01:02:21,280
Speaker 1: of the house and our children. I could not believe

936
01:02:21,320 --> 01:02:23,760
Speaker 1: it when I first heard it and witness it, because

937
01:02:23,800 --> 01:02:26,600
Speaker 1: she is sweet and innocent when you around. Because your

938
01:02:26,680 --> 01:02:31,200
Speaker 1: mama's a trip man. I've told you now, I know,

939
01:02:32,600 --> 01:02:35,000
Speaker 1: doesn't she don't know that I'm on to her. It's

940
01:02:35,080 --> 01:02:38,000
Speaker 1: time for you, mama. You can't talk to her that way.

941
01:02:38,720 --> 01:02:41,479
Speaker 1: This is my wife. I got to put my foot

942
01:02:41,520 --> 01:02:43,560
Speaker 1: down so you can get out the middle. And she

943
01:02:43,720 --> 01:02:45,640
Speaker 1: got to stop mistreating your wife. This is your wife

944
01:02:45,760 --> 01:02:48,240
Speaker 1: house man, Ain't nobody want. Ain't no woman want wanting

945
01:02:48,240 --> 01:02:50,480
Speaker 1: to come home having to walk around the house. Your

946
01:02:50,520 --> 01:02:53,080
Speaker 1: wife is the queen of the castle. I don't know

947
01:02:53,160 --> 01:02:54,920
Speaker 1: if you know it or not, but it's not the

948
01:02:55,120 --> 01:02:57,880
Speaker 1: king of the castle that kind has the biggest vote.

949
01:02:58,160 --> 01:03:00,880
Speaker 1: It's the queen. Partner. As a matter of fact, you

950
01:03:01,080 --> 01:03:04,920
Speaker 1: queen on the chessboard is the most powerful piece I

951
01:03:05,120 --> 01:03:09,560
Speaker 1: got news for you, partner, You, sir, are creating a

952
01:03:09,640 --> 01:03:13,000
Speaker 1: dilemma for yourself if you don't come to your wife's aid,

953
01:03:13,360 --> 01:03:17,000
Speaker 1: because that's who you live with. Now. Your mamma need

954
01:03:17,080 --> 01:03:21,800
Speaker 1: to go somewhere now. I ain't sound so how much

955
01:03:21,840 --> 01:03:25,840
Speaker 1: money you got but a small you know a room somewhere,

956
01:03:26,800 --> 01:03:32,880
Speaker 1: a studio, apartment efficiency, you know, let the bed down

957
01:03:33,000 --> 01:03:35,960
Speaker 1: out the wall, one room. But she can't go over

958
01:03:36,000 --> 01:03:40,560
Speaker 1: that with her even asked by herself. But you gotta

959
01:03:40,600 --> 01:03:47,480
Speaker 1: get your mama out your house, for she ruined your home, Shirley.

960
01:03:48,040 --> 01:03:50,160
Speaker 1: I want you to complain as her mother, and I'm

961
01:03:50,160 --> 01:03:53,000
Speaker 1: gonna show you how your wife could check up. Oh,

962
01:03:53,120 --> 01:03:56,240
Speaker 1: I'm in this bad honey. And when the last time

963
01:03:57,560 --> 01:04:02,800
Speaker 1: fat ass don't move around enough. Well, I'm sick and

964
01:04:03,040 --> 01:04:04,760
Speaker 1: I think you should take better care of me. I

965
01:04:04,840 --> 01:04:06,960
Speaker 1: don't like that soup you brought me last night, by

966
01:04:07,000 --> 01:04:11,160
Speaker 1: the way, you didn't you like everything. That's why you

967
01:04:11,320 --> 01:04:14,360
Speaker 1: big ass got diabetes. And that's why you're over here

968
01:04:14,480 --> 01:04:21,040
Speaker 1: now because if din't take your foot, who check? Go

969
01:04:21,040 --> 01:04:23,280
Speaker 1: ahead see it against him? And why don't you clean

970
01:04:23,400 --> 01:04:27,320
Speaker 1: up that nasty bathroom? And there don't want to bathroom

971
01:04:27,760 --> 01:04:30,680
Speaker 1: because you come in Hill and I'm trying to run

972
01:04:30,800 --> 01:04:35,120
Speaker 1: your ass off. And the little snotty those kids they

973
01:04:35,200 --> 01:04:38,720
Speaker 1: used to be cute, but now snotty. Those kids in

974
01:04:39,120 --> 01:04:43,080
Speaker 1: here sick causing YO fast sick ass in Hill got

975
01:04:43,200 --> 01:04:48,200
Speaker 1: everything they wasn't sick. Can you move then? All these

976
01:04:48,320 --> 01:04:52,840
Speaker 1: old last germs walking around this house. I don't like

977
01:04:52,960 --> 01:04:56,800
Speaker 1: the way you got this bedroom arrange. The bed needs

978
01:04:56,840 --> 01:04:58,480
Speaker 1: to be over there by the window so I can

979
01:04:58,520 --> 01:05:01,080
Speaker 1: see outside and see what's going on. Why is it

980
01:05:01,200 --> 01:05:04,520
Speaker 1: over here next to the closet. I don't understand. What

981
01:05:04,720 --> 01:05:06,640
Speaker 1: is you worried about? Where the bed is that fault?

982
01:05:06,680 --> 01:05:08,320
Speaker 1: You want to look out the window so you can

983
01:05:08,320 --> 01:05:12,760
Speaker 1: get in their business too. Leave my damn neighbors alone.

984
01:05:14,760 --> 01:05:17,480
Speaker 1: And I don't like this hardwood flooring here. I need

985
01:05:17,520 --> 01:05:19,280
Speaker 1: a carpet because when I can get out the bed,

986
01:05:19,520 --> 01:05:22,080
Speaker 1: I want to step on something nice and warm and salt.

987
01:05:22,200 --> 01:05:25,600
Speaker 1: The reason we got hard flaws, it's because we know

988
01:05:25,760 --> 01:05:28,600
Speaker 1: you got bad feet and we want to wear them

989
01:05:28,720 --> 01:05:31,600
Speaker 1: down till you moved. We're not putting no carpet in

990
01:05:31,720 --> 01:05:35,919
Speaker 1: this house cause old people make the carpet smell old.

991
01:05:37,320 --> 01:05:40,439
Speaker 1: And it's too too many mirrors in this house. Don't

992
01:05:40,440 --> 01:05:47,040
Speaker 1: you all know what you look like? I mean, you

993
01:05:47,120 --> 01:05:50,800
Speaker 1: were gonna say that one Steve All right, listen post

994
01:05:50,840 --> 01:05:53,560
Speaker 1: your comings on Today's Strawberry Letter and Steve Harvey FM

995
01:05:53,640 --> 01:05:56,560
Speaker 1: on Instagram and Facebook, and please don't forget to check

996
01:05:56,600 --> 01:05:59,040
Speaker 1: out the Struwberry Letter podcast on demand of coming up

997
01:05:59,080 --> 01:06:01,680
Speaker 1: at forty six minutes after the hour from the Talk

998
01:06:01,760 --> 01:06:07,880
Speaker 1: our girl, Cheryl Underwood. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show.

999
01:06:08,360 --> 01:06:10,040
Speaker 1: All right, coming up at the top of the hour,

1000
01:06:10,240 --> 01:06:13,880
Speaker 1: Carla's reality show update. But right now, Steve, please introduce

1001
01:06:13,960 --> 01:06:19,480
Speaker 1: that girl from the Talk dun lady and gentlemen, Sheryl Underwood.

1002
01:06:20,040 --> 01:06:23,280
Speaker 1: Thank you, Steve Harvey. And we did it, babe, don't

1003
01:06:23,320 --> 01:06:26,840
Speaker 1: call it a comeback. Joe Biden did his thing on

1004
01:06:27,120 --> 01:06:31,880
Speaker 1: super Tunesday. Don't hate congratulate the youngest that Bernie Sanders

1005
01:06:32,000 --> 01:06:36,000
Speaker 1: was dependent on state home, playing PlayStation and being on

1006
01:06:36,160 --> 01:06:39,080
Speaker 1: social media. Now listen, check up. People come to your

1007
01:06:39,200 --> 01:06:41,920
Speaker 1: little event, don't mean they're coming to vote. That's right.

1008
01:06:42,040 --> 01:06:45,480
Speaker 1: We did our Thank Black Radio, Saladary dot Com. We

1009
01:06:45,840 --> 01:06:49,800
Speaker 1: did our think Bloomberg is out and he endorsed Biden.

1010
01:06:50,120 --> 01:06:53,160
Speaker 1: Everybody that's out if getting ready to endorsed Boden now one,

1011
01:06:53,360 --> 01:06:56,200
Speaker 1: I'm a mean dude. Listen. I can't confirm with Charlie Scarbaby,

1012
01:06:56,400 --> 01:06:58,800
Speaker 1: but I was at the nail salon and one of

1013
01:06:58,840 --> 01:07:02,160
Speaker 1: the ladies doing my nail in her life said that

1014
01:07:02,360 --> 01:07:04,680
Speaker 1: Elizabeth Warren is out, So I think they would know.

1015
01:07:07,480 --> 01:07:09,920
Speaker 1: So because I know the language. I know everybody like

1016
01:07:10,120 --> 01:07:13,320
Speaker 1: I speak with the Tocala, with the Filipino people. I

1017
01:07:13,400 --> 01:07:16,720
Speaker 1: speak enough Spanish to understand what's going on. I got

1018
01:07:16,760 --> 01:07:18,960
Speaker 1: to learn language because I got the ear hustle on

1019
01:07:19,160 --> 01:07:22,120
Speaker 1: other people when they're talking about what's happening. The democracy

1020
01:07:22,520 --> 01:07:25,440
Speaker 1: was defended, and I want to shout out the jail Biden.

1021
01:07:25,760 --> 01:07:28,960
Speaker 1: When the when the protesters rushed his face. Did you

1022
01:07:29,240 --> 01:07:32,920
Speaker 1: see Jill Biden jail vote? Push him off this thing?

1023
01:07:33,160 --> 01:07:37,760
Speaker 1: Now that's the first lady right there, protection she bout

1024
01:07:37,880 --> 01:07:41,040
Speaker 1: that life. She had quick hands, Calar, she had quick hands.

1025
01:07:42,240 --> 01:07:44,400
Speaker 1: Listen to me. This is a great day. And listen,

1026
01:07:44,480 --> 01:07:47,360
Speaker 1: Bernie Sanders, you're still doing your thing. But what we

1027
01:07:47,560 --> 01:07:51,800
Speaker 1: need is Tom Style and Mayor Bloomberg to put all

1028
01:07:51,880 --> 01:07:55,800
Speaker 1: their money behind Biden. Now everybody gonna say, I don't

1029
01:07:55,840 --> 01:07:58,680
Speaker 1: do that. Know what we show was the black vote

1030
01:07:58,760 --> 01:08:02,360
Speaker 1: meant something. And Michael More when he said South Carolina,

1031
01:08:02,440 --> 01:08:05,600
Speaker 1: don cal it countered and it gave Joe Biden the

1032
01:08:05,720 --> 01:08:09,560
Speaker 1: momentum that he needed and he wants that's right. Don't

1033
01:08:09,600 --> 01:08:12,720
Speaker 1: play with us, Junior. You know you excited right now.

1034
01:08:12,960 --> 01:08:15,160
Speaker 1: You're excited right now. Why are you excited. Why are

1035
01:08:15,160 --> 01:08:18,960
Speaker 1: you excited, Junior? Swatch you as like talking because we

1036
01:08:19,080 --> 01:08:26,640
Speaker 1: talked to stay focused, to stay focused. But see, me

1037
01:08:26,680 --> 01:08:29,200
Speaker 1: and Junior are happy together, so me and Junior should

1038
01:08:29,240 --> 01:08:31,280
Speaker 1: go out and celebrate. You know, this is a good

1039
01:08:31,320 --> 01:08:34,360
Speaker 1: catfish fry fish. He wanted to do that a couple

1040
01:08:34,360 --> 01:08:38,360
Speaker 1: of days ago to Tommy when you told me that, man,

1041
01:08:38,520 --> 01:08:41,559
Speaker 1: listen to me, I start fasting and praying and doing

1042
01:08:41,640 --> 01:08:44,639
Speaker 1: sit up and not eating any salt. So I want

1043
01:08:44,640 --> 01:08:50,720
Speaker 1: to be bloated with me, and he hasn't. Junior. We did.

1044
01:08:50,920 --> 01:08:53,960
Speaker 1: We turned up to turnout me and Tunia did it.

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Speaker 1: He don't want to blow the woman. That's right, have

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01:08:59,520 --> 01:09:01,640
Speaker 1: not because he asked this not ledge he didn't have.

1047
01:09:02,840 --> 01:09:06,240
Speaker 1: He was gonna get it anyway. We appreciate you, Cheryl.

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01:09:06,320 --> 01:09:08,600
Speaker 1: Thank you. Coming up next, we're gonna switch gears and

1049
01:09:08,680 --> 01:09:12,479
Speaker 1: go to Carla's reality update at the top of the

1050
01:09:12,560 --> 01:09:20,200
Speaker 1: hour right after this. You're listening, all right, come on, Tommy,

1051
01:09:20,439 --> 01:09:23,400
Speaker 1: let's go, let's go, let's get it. Let's get it.

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01:09:23,520 --> 01:09:27,280
Speaker 1: She is here. It is Carla Farrell with what reality update?

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01:09:28,320 --> 01:09:31,240
Speaker 1: All right, thank you, nephew. Here we go, guys. Real

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01:09:31,600 --> 01:09:37,559
Speaker 1: Housewives of Atlanta drama drama, drama listen. Kenya told Cynthia

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01:09:37,680 --> 01:09:41,080
Speaker 1: that she and her husband Mark were having issues. Boy

1056
01:09:41,479 --> 01:09:46,000
Speaker 1: are they ever? He can't stand her anyway. Kenya and

1057
01:09:46,240 --> 01:09:50,680
Speaker 1: her husband Mark, they hosted a charity mentoring event, if

1058
01:09:50,720 --> 01:09:53,879
Speaker 1: you will. It was a fundraiser type giving back events,

1059
01:09:53,920 --> 01:09:56,280
Speaker 1: and it was a lot of drama preparing for this event,

1060
01:09:56,439 --> 01:09:59,880
Speaker 1: from who was invited, the venue, the speakers and seating chart,

1061
01:10:01,120 --> 01:10:03,759
Speaker 1: what were they going to wear? A lot of drama.

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01:10:04,000 --> 01:10:06,600
Speaker 1: So first thing, Cynthia noticed that it was rude that

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01:10:06,880 --> 01:10:11,360
Speaker 1: Kenya's husband Mark didn't even holler at her fiance Mike

1064
01:10:11,720 --> 01:10:14,120
Speaker 1: when they first got there. Mike is the MC of

1065
01:10:14,240 --> 01:10:16,439
Speaker 1: the event, so Cynthia was like, what's up with Mark?

1066
01:10:16,960 --> 01:10:22,120
Speaker 1: Then Mark asked Eva's husband to speak about being adopted

1067
01:10:22,240 --> 01:10:25,599
Speaker 1: his childhood, right there on the spot. And Eva was like, well, dang,

1068
01:10:25,680 --> 01:10:27,519
Speaker 1: you want to get somebody some notice if you want

1069
01:10:27,560 --> 01:10:31,200
Speaker 1: them to talk like that. And then Mark was very

1070
01:10:31,320 --> 01:10:35,759
Speaker 1: cold acting toward his wife Kenya. He didn't even publicly

1071
01:10:36,000 --> 01:10:41,519
Speaker 1: thank her at the event. It was really really awkward

1072
01:10:41,560 --> 01:10:48,000
Speaker 1: and just uncomfortable to watch. But then Marlowe, You're gonna

1073
01:10:48,040 --> 01:10:50,679
Speaker 1: have to save Kenya. Well, you're gonna have to mar Lodi.

1074
01:10:51,800 --> 01:10:57,800
Speaker 1: She arrived late. Wait what you ain't got that kind

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01:10:57,880 --> 01:11:12,160
Speaker 1: of uncle talking and to brute man. Let me finish

1076
01:11:12,200 --> 01:11:14,719
Speaker 1: this real quick though. Let me tell you guys. So Marlowe,

1077
01:11:14,840 --> 01:11:18,560
Speaker 1: she arrived late at the event with her nephews, and

1078
01:11:18,720 --> 01:11:22,439
Speaker 1: she was upset about the seating arrangements. Kenya's attitude was like,

1079
01:11:22,600 --> 01:11:25,160
Speaker 1: you're late and then you're bringing plus two, so how

1080
01:11:25,160 --> 01:11:27,479
Speaker 1: are you gonna be mad about where you're sitting? But

1081
01:11:27,840 --> 01:11:32,080
Speaker 1: Mark disagreed with his wife. Kenyan was happy that Marlowe

1082
01:11:32,120 --> 01:11:34,240
Speaker 1: showed up to the event with her nephews because he

1083
01:11:34,400 --> 01:11:36,800
Speaker 1: was like, it's a mentoring event, so you know they're

1084
01:11:36,920 --> 01:11:41,240
Speaker 1: never on the same team. Well. Then, towards the end

1085
01:11:41,320 --> 01:11:44,519
Speaker 1: of the episode, Mark was over it. He was going

1086
01:11:44,640 --> 01:11:47,720
Speaker 1: off on the production team. It appeared that he did

1087
01:11:47,840 --> 01:11:51,360
Speaker 1: not like the cameras rolling and filming his entire event.

1088
01:11:51,800 --> 01:11:54,639
Speaker 1: He went off. Mark said he was sick of the show,

1089
01:11:54,800 --> 01:11:57,040
Speaker 1: sick of them filming the event, and he was sick

1090
01:11:57,080 --> 01:11:59,640
Speaker 1: of Kenya's bodyguard, and I think he's sick of her.

1091
01:12:00,200 --> 01:12:03,479
Speaker 1: Someone asked him how he liked being married to Kenya.

1092
01:12:03,640 --> 01:12:07,040
Speaker 1: He said he hated it. He said it hated me

1093
01:12:07,120 --> 01:12:13,280
Speaker 1: and married her. Yes, So now according to But how

1094
01:12:13,360 --> 01:12:18,200
Speaker 1: horrible was that? Though was awful? Well, yeah, well he shouldn't.

1095
01:12:20,240 --> 01:12:26,599
Speaker 1: He was terrible, Steve, he did it was so yeah, yeah, yeah,

1096
01:12:26,880 --> 01:12:30,000
Speaker 1: I really do. Yeah. He was. Yeah. She was there

1097
01:12:30,120 --> 01:12:32,760
Speaker 1: supporting her husband and went all out and he was

1098
01:12:32,840 --> 01:12:34,840
Speaker 1: just he was real. Filed with what he said and

1099
01:12:34,880 --> 01:12:36,880
Speaker 1: I always said it. So it seems to be at

1100
01:12:36,920 --> 01:12:40,200
Speaker 1: the end of this particular episode that day, because you

1101
01:12:40,240 --> 01:12:43,080
Speaker 1: know this was obviously filmed in advance, they filed for

1102
01:12:43,200 --> 01:12:47,320
Speaker 1: separation the very next day. So to this day, Kenya

1103
01:12:47,400 --> 01:12:51,040
Speaker 1: and Mark are still separated and they are just trying

1104
01:12:51,080 --> 01:12:56,320
Speaker 1: to co parent together with that beautiful little girl. But

1105
01:12:58,000 --> 01:13:04,320
Speaker 1: though he say, well, I think he had probably pretty

1106
01:13:04,439 --> 01:13:08,439
Speaker 1: much if some If you ask a man, how do

1107
01:13:08,560 --> 01:13:11,240
Speaker 1: you feel being married to the person you're married to?

1108
01:13:11,360 --> 01:13:13,960
Speaker 1: When he says, I hate it, I hate it. I

1109
01:13:14,080 --> 01:13:16,920
Speaker 1: want you to know something about hell. I hate it

1110
01:13:17,280 --> 01:13:25,080
Speaker 1: means I hate huh, he hates everything about it. How

1111
01:13:25,120 --> 01:13:27,599
Speaker 1: do you feel about man? Well, he didn't. He didn't

1112
01:13:27,640 --> 01:13:31,160
Speaker 1: know what he was. Nobody knows what marriage is until

1113
01:13:31,200 --> 01:13:42,720
Speaker 1: you get in it. Nobody knows you am Amen, marriages

1114
01:13:42,760 --> 01:13:46,600
Speaker 1: work work. This was horrible. He doesn't like her, he

1115
01:13:46,640 --> 01:13:49,120
Speaker 1: doesn't want to be married to her and that was

1116
01:13:49,240 --> 01:13:51,559
Speaker 1: very obvious on this particular episode. We could talk more

1117
01:13:51,560 --> 01:13:53,559
Speaker 1: about it with running out of time on social media

1118
01:13:53,640 --> 01:13:56,000
Speaker 1: at lips by Carla and we'll be back at twenty

1119
01:13:56,040 --> 01:13:59,040
Speaker 1: after he told his wife he yep, with more questions

1120
01:13:59,120 --> 01:14:07,400
Speaker 1: for the cl oh right after this. You're listening all right, Steve,

1121
01:14:07,600 --> 01:14:10,479
Speaker 1: can you bring the Chief Love Officer in please the CLO.

1122
01:14:10,840 --> 01:14:13,760
Speaker 1: We have another question from him. This is from Marshall

1123
01:14:14,000 --> 01:14:20,040
Speaker 1: in Tampa, Okay. Because you know how you and your

1124
01:14:20,160 --> 01:14:23,360
Speaker 1: characters are, you know, hello, Steve. It says I have

1125
01:14:23,439 --> 01:14:26,719
Speaker 1: been with my man for fifteen years and around Christmas

1126
01:14:26,800 --> 01:14:30,560
Speaker 1: he told me he was ready to get married. So

1127
01:14:30,880 --> 01:14:33,360
Speaker 1: we picked out a four thousand dollars ring and I

1128
01:14:33,520 --> 01:14:36,640
Speaker 1: bought it for myself. I posted it all on my

1129
01:14:36,760 --> 01:14:40,000
Speaker 1: Facebook page that he had finally put a ring on it.

1130
01:14:40,439 --> 01:14:43,280
Speaker 1: A few days later, my man said he said he

1131
01:14:43,400 --> 01:14:46,639
Speaker 1: felt rushed and called the whole thing off. He said

1132
01:14:46,680 --> 01:14:48,920
Speaker 1: he still wants to date me and we will get

1133
01:14:49,000 --> 01:14:52,680
Speaker 1: married soon. What is soon? Should I walk away from

1134
01:14:52,800 --> 01:14:55,479
Speaker 1: him some time? That's really all it is. He just

1135
01:14:55,640 --> 01:14:59,280
Speaker 1: buys some time. When he told you he wanted to

1136
01:14:59,360 --> 01:15:03,880
Speaker 1: get married, he didn't say now he was buying time

1137
01:15:04,120 --> 01:15:07,599
Speaker 1: with the I want to getting married statement, y'all been

1138
01:15:07,760 --> 01:15:13,519
Speaker 1: dating buy anything teen years? She bought the ring fifteen years.

1139
01:15:14,360 --> 01:15:18,680
Speaker 1: You jumped a gun, bought a four thousand dollars ring

1140
01:15:18,760 --> 01:15:21,400
Speaker 1: and posted it. He didn't buy you a ring. He

1141
01:15:21,560 --> 01:15:23,880
Speaker 1: just said he wanted to get married. He did not

1142
01:15:24,080 --> 01:15:25,800
Speaker 1: make the two things you need to go with I

1143
01:15:25,880 --> 01:15:29,559
Speaker 1: want to get married, it's three things? When to who?

1144
01:15:31,200 --> 01:15:36,000
Speaker 1: And he didn't say you. We'll have moore with the

1145
01:15:36,160 --> 01:15:39,640
Speaker 1: Chief Love Officer, our CLO Steve Harvey coming up at

1146
01:15:39,680 --> 01:15:42,600
Speaker 1: thirty three minutes after the hour. What am I? What

1147
01:15:42,760 --> 01:15:45,000
Speaker 1: am I? He? The chief? I don't understand without in

1148
01:15:45,120 --> 01:15:50,160
Speaker 1: this you the fool prankster king of pranks. You're listening

1149
01:15:52,920 --> 01:15:55,439
Speaker 1: all right? Here we are with our Chief Love Officer,

1150
01:15:55,640 --> 01:16:01,280
Speaker 1: Steve Harvey. If he love officer? What am I? Yeah?

1151
01:16:01,560 --> 01:16:05,880
Speaker 1: I got to be something? Ain't nothing? Dog? You? Ain't

1152
01:16:07,680 --> 01:16:12,040
Speaker 1: you the king of pranks? Yeah? I'm the press us

1153
01:16:12,160 --> 01:16:19,639
Speaker 1: just just stupidity, were standing up comedian and then stuff

1154
01:16:19,720 --> 01:16:23,160
Speaker 1: like that. Nobody's ever written in to ask you a

1155
01:16:23,280 --> 01:16:26,360
Speaker 1: love question. You have nothing to do with the clo.

1156
01:16:27,720 --> 01:16:29,400
Speaker 1: Or wait a minute, Steve. He is the host of

1157
01:16:29,520 --> 01:16:31,920
Speaker 1: Ready to Love on own don't forget that the host

1158
01:16:32,000 --> 01:16:35,960
Speaker 1: are ready to love, not how to love. That's the

1159
01:16:36,080 --> 01:16:41,559
Speaker 1: same stupid. No show is about people that's already ready

1160
01:16:42,040 --> 01:16:51,320
Speaker 1: to right about to ask you to love. This question

1161
01:16:51,439 --> 01:16:53,840
Speaker 1: for you was from Marshall and Tampa. She said she's

1162
01:16:53,880 --> 01:16:56,200
Speaker 1: been with her man for fifteen years. Around Christmas, he

1163
01:16:56,240 --> 01:16:59,559
Speaker 1: told her he was ready to get married. So they

1164
01:16:59,680 --> 01:17:02,080
Speaker 1: picked out a four thousand dollars ring and she bought

1165
01:17:02,120 --> 01:17:05,840
Speaker 1: it for herself, posted it on her Facebook page, saying

1166
01:17:05,920 --> 01:17:08,720
Speaker 1: she finally he finally put a ring on it. Then

1167
01:17:08,840 --> 01:17:11,680
Speaker 1: days later her men said he felt rushed, called the

1168
01:17:11,760 --> 01:17:14,160
Speaker 1: whole thing off and said he still wants to date

1169
01:17:14,240 --> 01:17:16,960
Speaker 1: her and we will get married soon. It's what he said.

1170
01:17:17,200 --> 01:17:18,920
Speaker 1: She wants to know what a soon and should she

1171
01:17:19,000 --> 01:17:23,000
Speaker 1: walk away? And Tommy said, then I agree. He bought

1172
01:17:23,080 --> 01:17:25,880
Speaker 1: some time. He bought some time when he said he

1173
01:17:26,080 --> 01:17:29,719
Speaker 1: was almost ready to get married, he bought some time.

1174
01:17:29,840 --> 01:17:33,559
Speaker 1: Then you jumped the gun, bought a four thousand dollar ring,

1175
01:17:34,120 --> 01:17:37,280
Speaker 1: posted it now. He said he rushed and called the

1176
01:17:37,360 --> 01:17:40,800
Speaker 1: whole thing off because he didn't ask you to marry him,

1177
01:17:41,520 --> 01:17:44,120
Speaker 1: and then I told you before. The three things missing

1178
01:17:44,200 --> 01:17:50,519
Speaker 1: with that almost ready statement was when to who? And

1179
01:17:50,760 --> 01:17:54,840
Speaker 1: he did not say to you. So now she wants

1180
01:17:54,880 --> 01:17:58,360
Speaker 1: to know should I stay with this? Well, you fifteen years,

1181
01:17:59,640 --> 01:18:04,000
Speaker 1: fifth team, that long years and you bought your own ring.

1182
01:18:05,680 --> 01:18:14,920
Speaker 1: That's tough. Yeah, So now about should I stay? Here's

1183
01:18:14,920 --> 01:18:17,960
Speaker 1: what women do. Women say, Well, I don't put fifteen

1184
01:18:18,080 --> 01:18:20,040
Speaker 1: years in. I don't want it to be for nothing.

1185
01:18:20,360 --> 01:18:24,360
Speaker 1: You have nothing. You just have fifteen years of something.

1186
01:18:24,439 --> 01:18:27,800
Speaker 1: You don't want what you what you do want? He's

1187
01:18:27,880 --> 01:18:31,439
Speaker 1: not willing to give. So the simple question I've said

1188
01:18:31,479 --> 01:18:34,560
Speaker 1: just a hundred times in the band's repeating, do you

1189
01:18:34,720 --> 01:18:38,400
Speaker 1: walk away? That's up to you. But if you stay,

1190
01:18:39,080 --> 01:18:44,360
Speaker 1: do you want fifteen more years of this? Because nothing's

1191
01:18:44,479 --> 01:18:48,240
Speaker 1: changed and he's not going to change. He's been talking

1192
01:18:48,280 --> 01:18:52,439
Speaker 1: about getting married for the longest fifteen years. She needs

1193
01:18:52,479 --> 01:18:55,360
Speaker 1: to go, So you have to make up that decision

1194
01:18:55,439 --> 01:18:58,559
Speaker 1: for yourself. All right, we'll be back with our last

1195
01:18:58,680 --> 01:19:01,080
Speaker 1: break of the day and some closing remarks from the

1196
01:19:01,120 --> 01:19:03,639
Speaker 1: one and only Steve Harvey at forty nine minutes after

1197
01:19:03,840 --> 01:19:09,120
Speaker 1: right after this, you're listening, all right, Steve, Here we

1198
01:19:09,240 --> 01:19:14,080
Speaker 1: are our last break of the day. It's been a

1199
01:19:14,160 --> 01:19:18,600
Speaker 1: good day, break up the day, Yes it is, and

1200
01:19:18,760 --> 01:19:21,479
Speaker 1: it's been a good day. We've had fun today. Yes,

1201
01:19:21,600 --> 01:19:29,080
Speaker 1: we had Carlo's back. It's all good in the hood back. Yeah.

1202
01:19:29,760 --> 01:19:33,160
Speaker 1: I feel so bad for you, man, because I ain't.

1203
01:19:33,400 --> 01:19:40,200
Speaker 1: You've got damn dog dog. I got ready to say,

1204
01:19:40,240 --> 01:19:42,040
Speaker 1: I feel so bad for you because you got a

1205
01:19:42,120 --> 01:19:45,720
Speaker 1: great career working in everything. Y'all don't have an ugly

1206
01:19:45,840 --> 01:19:50,599
Speaker 1: career though. I have a nice, sexy career. That's happened. Wow.

1207
01:19:51,240 --> 01:19:56,639
Speaker 1: Hey man, I'm tripping because I'm actually trying to pay

1208
01:19:56,720 --> 01:19:59,160
Speaker 1: you a compliment. I know, but you're gonna put ugly

1209
01:19:59,240 --> 01:20:04,280
Speaker 1: on the end of it. Doan't. Let's see her? Let

1210
01:20:04,320 --> 01:20:08,320
Speaker 1: me it's a movie about his life. Insecure. You know

1211
01:20:08,520 --> 01:20:13,840
Speaker 1: that there's a movie. And why is people insecure? What's

1212
01:20:13,920 --> 01:20:21,080
Speaker 1: the number one number one reason why people are insecures? What? Junior?

1213
01:20:22,240 --> 01:20:27,000
Speaker 1: Because they un't that's the number one reason for security. Insecurity?

1214
01:20:27,280 --> 01:20:32,439
Speaker 1: Love you whatever? And if you shot like troll, Steve,

1215
01:20:35,280 --> 01:20:40,920
Speaker 1: no other I'm a troll. You got that troll? I

1216
01:20:43,000 --> 01:20:46,519
Speaker 1: I said, if you shot and ugly, that's like a troll.

1217
01:20:46,720 --> 01:20:49,479
Speaker 1: Then he said, I'm a troll. You remember what my

1218
01:20:49,600 --> 01:20:53,680
Speaker 1: father told you, Tommy, You remember what grandfather told you

1219
01:20:53,800 --> 01:20:56,639
Speaker 1: that if you keep talking, he gonna make you stand

1220
01:20:56,680 --> 01:21:02,040
Speaker 1: outside and hold and landing. He oh, he had known

1221
01:21:05,400 --> 01:21:09,000
Speaker 1: he was gonna put Tommy in a jackie suit and

1222
01:21:09,240 --> 01:21:17,000
Speaker 1: make him holding a lamp. House, Oh, God, party, and

1223
01:21:17,160 --> 01:21:20,080
Speaker 1: the church people was coming over, and they said, so

1224
01:21:20,200 --> 01:21:22,519
Speaker 1: they'd know the house. My daddy said, you're gonna put

1225
01:21:22,600 --> 01:21:25,800
Speaker 1: timmy jockey suit on and have him stand out on

1226
01:21:25,920 --> 01:21:29,760
Speaker 1: the steps and hold a lamp. Steve, I'm sure this

1227
01:21:29,960 --> 01:21:34,360
Speaker 1: is not gonna go with your clothing, so not at all.

1228
01:21:34,439 --> 01:21:37,160
Speaker 1: All right, I'm sorry, all right, let's go. Here's the

1229
01:21:37,160 --> 01:21:46,639
Speaker 1: closer monks, Damn, sorry, but listen, you know, crazy big

1230
01:21:46,760 --> 01:21:51,800
Speaker 1: church party. Oh. I think a lot of times, man,

1231
01:21:53,760 --> 01:21:56,519
Speaker 1: those of us who are people of faith, we often

1232
01:21:56,640 --> 01:22:01,200
Speaker 1: ask God for certain things, and in waiting for it,

1233
01:22:01,479 --> 01:22:06,600
Speaker 1: we get tired. And I'm the same way. It's some

1234
01:22:06,840 --> 01:22:09,120
Speaker 1: things that I've been talking to God about for a

1235
01:22:09,200 --> 01:22:16,439
Speaker 1: while and it just doesn't seem to be happening. But

1236
01:22:16,640 --> 01:22:21,479
Speaker 1: He has ways of doing it that's so high above

1237
01:22:21,600 --> 01:22:27,120
Speaker 1: our thinking level and our concept level that it actually

1238
01:22:27,280 --> 01:22:31,800
Speaker 1: could be happening. But because we are so focused on

1239
01:22:32,080 --> 01:22:35,920
Speaker 1: it not happening and not going the way we perceive it,

1240
01:22:36,400 --> 01:22:43,320
Speaker 1: that we don't even notice the things that he's actually

1241
01:22:43,520 --> 01:22:49,240
Speaker 1: doing on our behalf, and a lot of it is

1242
01:22:49,439 --> 01:22:56,720
Speaker 1: unbeknownst to us. See, man, faith is the belief in

1243
01:22:56,920 --> 01:23:02,120
Speaker 1: things that you cannot see. That is the essence of

1244
01:23:02,360 --> 01:23:08,559
Speaker 1: becoming successful. If you could see it, how hard would

1245
01:23:08,600 --> 01:23:12,160
Speaker 1: it be. It would be fairly simple. If you could

1246
01:23:12,360 --> 01:23:15,400
Speaker 1: see where the Finnish line was, that would be no

1247
01:23:15,600 --> 01:23:18,000
Speaker 1: need to get tired and stop. You know it's right there.

1248
01:23:18,120 --> 01:23:21,559
Speaker 1: Just keep going, It's just right there. But faith ain't

1249
01:23:21,640 --> 01:23:24,599
Speaker 1: set up that way. The finish line ain't set up

1250
01:23:24,640 --> 01:23:28,080
Speaker 1: that way. Your goals and dreams and visions are not

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Speaker 1: set up that way. It is cloudy on your way

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Speaker 1: to your dreams and visions. It is rolled blocks on

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Speaker 1: your way to your dreams and vision. It is detours

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Speaker 1: on your way. It is peaks and valleys on your way.

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Speaker 1: It is traps along the way that are setbacks along

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Speaker 1: the way. If it was a straight line from here

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Speaker 1: to where you wanted to go, do you know how

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Speaker 1: simple that would be? And if you could see it,

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Speaker 1: how simple that would be. Listen to me, everybody, This

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Speaker 1: is the concept of life for all of us. I

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Speaker 1: don't care if your name is Bloomberg. I don't care

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Speaker 1: if your last name is Zuckerberg. I don't care if

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Speaker 1: your last name is Jordan or Woods, it doesn't matter.

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Speaker 1: Your last name can be Winfrey. Do you understand that

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Speaker 1: it is set up this way for everybody. You have

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Speaker 1: got to be willing to fight through to get to

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Speaker 1: the end. That is your success. And the biggest mistake

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Speaker 1: we make, man, is we compare ourselves to other people. Man,

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Speaker 1: you ain't gonna ever be happy like that, because that's

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Speaker 1: always somebody with a bigger boat, a bigger call, a

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Speaker 1: nicer watch, a bigger house. If you don't learn that

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Speaker 1: in this process of life, that God is taking you

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Speaker 1: through this journey, and if you can keep the faith,

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Speaker 1: that is a bright side for you waiting for you.

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Speaker 1: And a lot of times you're actually in the middle

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Speaker 1: of the sun coming up, but you don't see it

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Speaker 1: because you keep turning around looking at the darkness. You

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Speaker 1: don't even see the sun coming up over the hill

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Speaker 1: because you keep turning around looking at your life in

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Speaker 1: total darkness. Man, faith is the belief in things that

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Speaker 1: you cannot see. Understand that that that is for everybody.

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Speaker 1: Keeping the faith is keeping the belief that God is

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Speaker 1: on the way. As hard as it may seem, he

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Speaker 1: always come and he ever too late. He's never been

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Speaker 1: too late. Those are my closing remarks. That's it. Hey, y'all,

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Speaker 1: have a great weekend. Man, we're getting close. I'm getting

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Speaker 1: on the plane. I see y'all. For all Steve Harvey contests,

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