WEBVTT - | Ep 131 | It’s So Hard To Say Goodbye… 0:00:00.760 --> 0:00:04.320 Welcome to Reasonably Shady, a production of The Black Effect 0:00:04.440 --> 0:00:06.559 Podcast Network and iHeartRadio. 0:00:15.040 --> 0:00:18.119 Welcome to another episode of Reasonably sha d I am 0:00:18.200 --> 0:00:19.120 Jaselle Bryant. 0:00:19.440 --> 0:00:21.840 What's up? What's up? This is Robin Dixon. Thank you 0:00:21.880 --> 0:00:25.439 for being here once again. Yes, we ends up building 0:00:25.520 --> 0:00:27.720 and we're actually still in our studio. 0:00:27.960 --> 0:00:28.960 Yeah, we're back in our studio. 0:00:29.000 --> 0:00:30.600 I don't, I don't know how we feel about the studio. 0:00:30.640 --> 0:00:31.880 I was trying to grow on me a little bit. 0:00:31.960 --> 0:00:33.559 Yeah, we're gonna have to see. We have to see 0:00:33.600 --> 0:00:35.760 how we feel about it. Yes, we're gonna have to see. 0:00:35.880 --> 0:00:36.560 You know what I'm saying. 0:00:36.640 --> 0:00:40.400 But you know, you know, of course I prefer my home. 0:00:40.520 --> 0:00:43.360 But of course, of course, but in your home doesn't 0:00:43.520 --> 0:00:48.080 have like a contact I smell and true, Yes, but 0:00:48.159 --> 0:00:48.440 I don't. 0:00:48.600 --> 0:00:50.440 I think I like being having a contact high a 0:00:50.440 --> 0:00:53.200 little bit. Yeah, I'm stop talking crazy good? 0:00:53.640 --> 0:00:54.040 Well we like. 0:00:54.360 --> 0:00:57.400 A crazy talking Josee. You go the wrong with that? Yes? 0:00:57.800 --> 0:01:00.960 Anty, way do you ever reasonably shady moment? 0:01:06.080 --> 0:01:08.160 I'll want you go first. I'm gonna go first. 0:01:08.160 --> 0:01:13.120 Okay, yeah, okay, so my my reasonably shady moment. It 0:01:13.160 --> 0:01:14.800 actually happened a little while ago, and I need to 0:01:14.800 --> 0:01:17.760 explain it because so many people were like dming me 0:01:17.800 --> 0:01:18.959 because I put up a video. 0:01:19.600 --> 0:01:22.240 Right, I went. I took Angelina door to. 0:01:22.920 --> 0:01:27.399 Cabo, okay for spring break. I think, based off of 0:01:27.440 --> 0:01:29.639 your recommendation, because Robin had gone. 0:01:29.520 --> 0:01:31.240 A couple of times. She says she liked it. 0:01:33.920 --> 0:01:35.559 So I said, okay, let me check out this little 0:01:35.560 --> 0:01:38.440 Cabo thing situation over there on the other side, you're 0:01:38.440 --> 0:01:40.400 already go on to Cabo. You asked me about the hotel. 0:01:40.440 --> 0:01:42.880 I said that, yeah, but I think I just was like, 0:01:43.400 --> 0:01:43.920 is this good? 0:01:44.040 --> 0:01:48.440 Yeah, okay, stayed at Noble okay, And one of the 0:01:48.520 --> 0:01:50.000 days that we were there, staid at Noble and then 0:01:50.040 --> 0:01:52.160 we went over to the Waldorf. That's how we ended it. 0:01:52.200 --> 0:01:53.919 But anyway, one of the days that we were at Nobu, 0:01:53.960 --> 0:01:56.680 angel was like, I want to ride some horses. 0:01:56.760 --> 0:01:57.040 Okay. 0:01:57.080 --> 0:01:59.600 Of course, inspired by miss Beyonce. Well, I don't even 0:01:59.600 --> 0:02:01.480 know if it was inspired by Beyonce. They just wanted 0:02:01.480 --> 0:02:03.560 to ride some horses, okay. So I said, no, I 0:02:03.600 --> 0:02:05.800 don't want to ride any horses. I don't like any 0:02:05.800 --> 0:02:07.520 credit for everything, right, it's. 0:02:07.400 --> 0:02:10.640 Not what I it's not my thing. They scare me whatever, 0:02:10.840 --> 0:02:13.120 So of course, that's what my kids wanted to do. 0:02:13.200 --> 0:02:15.400 So get to the place. In order for you to 0:02:15.400 --> 0:02:15.720 get to. 0:02:15.680 --> 0:02:20.639 The horses, you have to walk over this rickety roped 0:02:20.760 --> 0:02:22.680 up oh bridge. Okay. 0:02:23.360 --> 0:02:26.200 So our guide, our man to take us over to 0:02:26.240 --> 0:02:29.480 the horses, said, this is how we figure out who 0:02:29.480 --> 0:02:32.000 has drank too much tequila if they can't make it 0:02:32.000 --> 0:02:35.200 over the bridge. And it was like noon, so it 0:02:35.280 --> 0:02:37.359 was like, okay, no one has drank it. This is 0:02:37.400 --> 0:02:42.320 what I'm thinking. I'm surely sober, right. So I was like, okay, 0:02:42.360 --> 0:02:43.680 this is gonna be an easy little walk. 0:02:44.480 --> 0:02:47.280 So I get to walk in and the bridge started shaking, 0:02:47.360 --> 0:02:47.840 like from. 0:02:47.720 --> 0:02:51.040 Side to suspension side, and I was like, oh no, 0:02:51.200 --> 0:02:53.840 I'm hold on to the side and I'm like oh no, 0:02:54.040 --> 0:02:54.520 oh no. 0:02:54.639 --> 0:02:58.520 I could barely move and I felt and looked like 0:02:58.639 --> 0:03:01.639 eighty two years old like that. I was just like, 0:03:01.880 --> 0:03:02.720 what has happened? 0:03:03.440 --> 0:03:04.680 Your girls go ahead of you? 0:03:04.720 --> 0:03:06.359 No? Well what was ahead of me? Angel was ahead 0:03:06.360 --> 0:03:07.320 of me, The door was behind me. 0:03:07.400 --> 0:03:10.920 Okay, the man, our guy, comes to get me, so 0:03:10.960 --> 0:03:12.440 I can hold on to him so I can make 0:03:12.480 --> 0:03:17.079 it off. Okay, Hi, I'm sorry. 0:03:17.480 --> 0:03:18.480 Is the bridge high? 0:03:18.560 --> 0:03:22.320 Yeah? It was high off the ground, yes, So later 0:03:22.400 --> 0:03:28.880 that day under the bridge dirty okay, So I just 0:03:28.880 --> 0:03:31.160 said I would be I'm scared of height, so terrified 0:03:31.200 --> 0:03:31.520 it was. 0:03:31.560 --> 0:03:33.079 I was. I was beyond terrified. 0:03:33.280 --> 0:03:36.320 Later that day, A Door sends me a video and 0:03:36.400 --> 0:03:41.560 it's of me that she took behind me, and she's 0:03:41.720 --> 0:03:46.880 laughing because she was shaking the bridge the entire time. 0:03:47.240 --> 0:03:49.880 She was. Yes, she was like shaking it and shaking 0:03:49.880 --> 0:03:52.680 it and shaking it. She was like, I was like, 0:03:52.760 --> 0:03:55.960 the door, you had me thinking I couldn't walk straight. 0:03:56.880 --> 0:03:59.200 She was like he he. 0:03:58.880 --> 0:04:02.760 He my ass no, yeah, a door, you're shady for that. 0:04:02.800 --> 0:04:04.800 And in the video she was like, Mommy, you can 0:04:04.880 --> 0:04:08.000 do it, you can do it. Oh my god, and 0:04:08.040 --> 0:04:09.800 she's like shaking the whole thing. 0:04:10.520 --> 0:04:14.840 Oh that's hilarious. I would have been crying. I would 0:04:14.840 --> 0:04:17.440 have so upset. Probably would have sat down and just 0:04:17.600 --> 0:04:21.559 like started crying if I wouldn't if I couldn't walk 0:04:21.560 --> 0:04:24.039 and it was shaking and it felt unstable, and. 0:04:24.320 --> 0:04:25.720 Oh my gosh, I can't believe she did that. 0:04:25.800 --> 0:04:27.680 Y'all could have like, she could have broken the bridge. 0:04:27.839 --> 0:04:31.159 She's seventeen and doesn't care. But the man came and 0:04:31.200 --> 0:04:32.640 helped me. So I made it through. 0:04:32.720 --> 0:04:36.359 But a door father to say he was la lady. 0:04:36.880 --> 0:04:38.920 He was kind of laughing a little bit. So a door, 0:04:39.040 --> 0:04:40.920 you are the shady moment of my week. 0:04:41.120 --> 0:04:41.360 Man. 0:04:42.000 --> 0:04:42.760 So I posted. 0:04:42.880 --> 0:04:44.919 People were like, oh my god, why would she do 0:04:44.960 --> 0:04:46.960 that to you? I'm like, cause she's a door, right, 0:04:47.000 --> 0:04:49.240 that's why she's a little Giselle. 0:04:50.080 --> 0:04:52.279 I saw a video, but I didn't know she was 0:04:52.320 --> 0:04:55.040 shaking it. So you can't see her shaking it. Yea, 0:04:55.040 --> 0:04:57.640 because she's shaking it and she's holding the phone. Yeah, 0:04:57.680 --> 0:05:01.960 so yeah, terrible. So how people know that she was 0:05:01.960 --> 0:05:02.480 shaking it? 0:05:02.520 --> 0:05:05.000 She told me, Oh no, they don't know. 0:05:05.080 --> 0:05:07.120 But I'm talking like I rode on the top like 0:05:07.200 --> 0:05:08.640 she was shaking it the whole Oh you did? 0:05:08.880 --> 0:05:12.960 Yeah, okay, yeah, yeah, okay, all right, okay got it. 0:05:13.320 --> 0:05:14.919 Yes, door is horrible. 0:05:16.200 --> 0:05:18.799 Okay, Well I'm glad you're safe. 0:05:18.920 --> 0:05:22.080 Yes, safe in sound. And I was not drinking tequila. 0:05:22.279 --> 0:05:26.520 I was very sober. By the way, the mescal because 0:05:26.520 --> 0:05:28.560 you know it's my new drink now is mess cow. 0:05:28.680 --> 0:05:28.880 Yeah. 0:05:28.920 --> 0:05:33.720 I have left reposodo in the you know why behind 0:05:33.760 --> 0:05:36.120 me because MESSCW is even better because it's small back 0:05:36.480 --> 0:05:40.760 Jason talking, it's small batches and they take their time 0:05:40.800 --> 0:05:43.920 with it. It's very smoky and earthy, and I just 0:05:43.960 --> 0:05:48.720 like how it goes down. Yeah, so mess it stronger. 0:05:49.080 --> 0:05:50.800 It is like, I'll drink two of those and I 0:05:50.839 --> 0:05:51.520 am kind of drunk. 0:05:53.120 --> 0:05:53.880 I good. 0:05:54.040 --> 0:05:55.240 Okay, do you have like a brand? 0:05:56.400 --> 0:06:01.760 I've been drinking ilagal okay. A lot of restaurants locally 0:06:01.839 --> 0:06:04.800 have that, but in Mexico, I was like. 0:06:04.920 --> 0:06:09.280 Just licking me up ringer on okay, and I bought 0:06:09.279 --> 0:06:10.839 some in the airport coming coming home. 0:06:10.920 --> 0:06:12.839 Okay, yeah, and you got on the horse. 0:06:13.440 --> 0:06:15.159 I did get on the horse. So we get to 0:06:15.160 --> 0:06:17.159 the horse stables and I said, nope, not doing it. 0:06:17.480 --> 0:06:19.800 I started like totally like shaking and freaking out. 0:06:19.920 --> 0:06:21.920 That's what you did in the Cayman Islands. 0:06:22.000 --> 0:06:22.240 Yes. 0:06:22.520 --> 0:06:24.800 So I said to the guy like, I'm just gonna 0:06:24.800 --> 0:06:27.719 walk next to the horse. He said, ma'am, you see 0:06:27.760 --> 0:06:29.240 that hill over there that it was. 0:06:29.240 --> 0:06:29.760 Like a mountain. 0:06:29.960 --> 0:06:32.120 I said, that's where we're going, So if you want 0:06:32.120 --> 0:06:34.560 to walk that whole way, so I said, I said no. 0:06:34.560 --> 0:06:36.560 And then angels like, Mammy, you can do it. They 0:06:36.600 --> 0:06:38.240 pumped me you can do it. 0:06:38.680 --> 0:06:41.960 So the guy says to me, I will pull your 0:06:42.000 --> 0:06:44.320 horse the entire time Okay, you don't have to do anything, 0:06:44.360 --> 0:06:44.960 just sit on it. 0:06:45.000 --> 0:06:47.520 Okay. So that's how I made it through, Okay, but 0:06:47.560 --> 0:06:48.240 I was sweating. 0:06:48.400 --> 0:06:51.640 Yeah, I remember in the Cayman Islands season, I started 0:06:51.640 --> 0:06:54.200 freaking out. For god, that was an eternity ago. 0:06:54.440 --> 0:06:54.920 Yeah. 0:06:55.320 --> 0:06:59.400 We we were getting on the horses to go swim, 0:06:59.520 --> 0:07:01.560 Like were we swimming with horses? 0:07:01.880 --> 0:07:02.040 Y'all? 0:07:02.080 --> 0:07:04.440 You guys went in the water. You had land park 0:07:04.480 --> 0:07:05.440 and then you went in the water. 0:07:05.560 --> 0:07:08.320 We run the water the horses, and you got up 0:07:08.320 --> 0:07:10.040 on that horse and you were like, I freaked out, 0:07:10.560 --> 0:07:13.080 Give me off, give me up, give me off. 0:07:13.120 --> 0:07:15.400 And I'm looking at you. I'm like, why is she happening? 0:07:15.480 --> 0:07:18.360 Like I know you've had horses before. 0:07:18.240 --> 0:07:20.320 Like not like that, not like I've ridden a horse 0:07:20.320 --> 0:07:22.240 when I was like little, but I was terrified then too. 0:07:22.400 --> 0:07:22.920 Yeah. 0:07:22.960 --> 0:07:25.760 So so you think this's gonna like buck you off 0:07:25.840 --> 0:07:29.280 or something, yes, or okay, Yeah, I'm thinking it's gonna 0:07:29.320 --> 0:07:31.160 like because and I've seen it happen to a door. 0:07:31.200 --> 0:07:31.920 We took a door. 0:07:32.280 --> 0:07:35.559 We took the girls horseback riding when they were little, 0:07:35.640 --> 0:07:37.000 and the horse, she got on the horse and the 0:07:37.000 --> 0:07:40.280 horse took off. So I just feel like something's gonna happen. 0:07:40.280 --> 0:07:42.360 I'm gonna get thrown off and it's gonna break my back. 0:07:42.920 --> 0:07:45.880 So that's what I made it through. Good, good for you. 0:07:46.080 --> 0:07:47.600 And that's what they said. Once I made it through. 0:07:47.640 --> 0:07:48.000 They like. 0:07:49.760 --> 0:07:53.000 I was such a baby getting on the horse that 0:07:53.040 --> 0:07:55.080 when I came back, all the like the little horse 0:07:55.160 --> 0:07:56.600 hands were there and they were clapping. 0:07:56.640 --> 0:08:02.320 They were like, she she made it. Yeah, So would 0:08:02.360 --> 0:08:02.880 you do it again? 0:08:03.120 --> 0:08:03.200 No? 0:08:03.440 --> 0:08:06.040 Okay, absolutely no. I would think you'd be like, oh, yeah, 0:08:06.040 --> 0:08:10.680 it's not that bad. No, thank you, Okay, cool, all right, Okay, Well, 0:08:10.800 --> 0:08:13.960 my shady moment came a few weeks ago actually, so 0:08:13.960 --> 0:08:18.880 it's a little bit late when other people decided to 0:08:19.000 --> 0:08:23.800 speak for me and spread my business for me, which 0:08:24.080 --> 0:08:27.520 you know, we're used to people doing stuff like that, 0:08:27.720 --> 0:08:34.040 but for something this important, I think is incredibly rude. 0:08:34.520 --> 0:08:37.720 So and I wanted to speak my own business, my 0:08:37.840 --> 0:08:41.720 own truth, my own life, my own news, and I 0:08:41.720 --> 0:08:44.400 wanted to share it out of my own mouth when 0:08:44.400 --> 0:08:48.120 the time was appropriate, and I felt that the appropriate 0:08:48.200 --> 0:08:53.840 time would be to speak on this particular subject matter 0:08:53.840 --> 0:08:58.120 would be once Season eight of the Real Housewives of 0:08:58.160 --> 0:09:01.880 Potomac was finished airing, yes, which it is now finished 0:09:01.920 --> 0:09:06.640 airing the reunion. The last reunion episode just went off 0:09:06.800 --> 0:09:09.160 last night Sunday, if you listen to this on a Monday. 0:09:10.640 --> 0:09:14.080 And I wanted to respect the network and respect the 0:09:14.200 --> 0:09:18.280 show and wait until the season ended, which I think, 0:09:18.400 --> 0:09:21.600 you know, makes sense to share this news. But yes, 0:09:21.720 --> 0:09:25.240 I will not be returning to season nine of the 0:09:25.280 --> 0:09:26.679 Real Housewives of Potomac. 0:09:26.920 --> 0:09:28.760 To hear you say it out your mouth like, it's 0:09:28.840 --> 0:09:32.000 like killing my heart right now. And obviously I know 0:09:32.040 --> 0:09:33.000 this information, but like. 0:09:32.960 --> 0:09:35.600 To hear you say it right, it's reality. 0:09:36.040 --> 0:09:42.080 It's reality. The network did not invite me back. I 0:09:42.120 --> 0:09:46.000 was fired for lack of better words, and I will not, 0:09:46.240 --> 0:09:49.520 you know, sugarcoat the situation and say, oh I am 0:09:49.600 --> 0:09:53.920 walking away and this is a break or anything like this. 0:09:53.920 --> 0:09:59.839 This was a network decision, and you know, and I'm 0:09:59.880 --> 0:10:07.319 a okay with it because nothing lasts forever. And I 0:10:07.320 --> 0:10:09.959 I know, you know, I had a very long run 0:10:10.000 --> 0:10:10.520 on the show. 0:10:10.679 --> 0:10:12.320 Yes, eight seasons is a long time. 0:10:12.360 --> 0:10:17.200 Eight seasons for sure, and I just you know, I 0:10:17.200 --> 0:10:20.560 don't have anything like written to read off of, so 0:10:20.559 --> 0:10:23.800 I'm just like speaking, and I just really appreciate the 0:10:23.840 --> 0:10:26.800 time and the opportunity that I had on the show, 0:10:28.200 --> 0:10:29.680 and you know, I just want to say thank you 0:10:29.720 --> 0:10:33.760 to the network, Bravo, truly original, the production company, the 0:10:33.800 --> 0:10:36.800 executives there, the people who gave me the opportunity to 0:10:36.840 --> 0:10:40.560 be on the show, who saw something in me in 0:10:40.600 --> 0:10:44.640 twenty fifteen. I think was that when we filmed season one? Yeah, 0:10:44.640 --> 0:10:47.800 I think so, because it premiered in twenty sixteen. You know, 0:10:47.800 --> 0:10:51.200 the people who saw something in me and thought that 0:10:52.720 --> 0:10:54.720 they you know, wanted me to be a part of 0:10:54.800 --> 0:10:57.760 their network, their show, their platform, and to share my 0:10:57.840 --> 0:11:01.520 story and my life, my family, my trials and tribulations, 0:11:01.520 --> 0:11:05.920 my ups and downs, and you know, the the beautiful 0:11:05.960 --> 0:11:07.720 friendships that I have on the show. 0:11:09.440 --> 0:11:09.599 You know. 0:11:09.840 --> 0:11:11.920 So first of all, thank you to the network and 0:11:11.960 --> 0:11:15.280 the executives. Thank you to all of the producers, all 0:11:15.320 --> 0:11:21.520 of the crew that we've worked with. Thank you to 0:11:21.600 --> 0:11:25.160 the fans. Yeah of course who've watched us from day one, 0:11:25.440 --> 0:11:29.520 especially our day wunners, who you know, when Bravo announced 0:11:29.559 --> 0:11:31.600 The Real Housewives Potomac was coming on and they saw, 0:11:31.760 --> 0:11:33.959 you know, this weird city, you. 0:11:33.920 --> 0:11:37.560 Know, they're like, why. 0:11:37.080 --> 0:11:38.800 Are we going to watch this? And they said, well, 0:11:38.880 --> 0:11:41.120 let's give it a chance, and they they watched it 0:11:41.160 --> 0:11:43.320 they loved it, They grew with us, They told their friends, 0:11:43.320 --> 0:11:47.200 who told their friends, and you know they they loved us, 0:11:47.360 --> 0:11:49.360 loved us, or hated us, whatever it would be, but 0:11:49.480 --> 0:11:50.319 they will watch us. 0:11:50.440 --> 0:11:51.480 Yeah. 0:11:51.559 --> 0:11:53.959 But I do want to especially thank all of the 0:11:53.960 --> 0:11:58.200 fans and viewers who have supported me Seawn love to me. 0:11:59.679 --> 0:12:03.280 Who have you know, whether you directly sent me love, 0:12:03.440 --> 0:12:05.800 or you prayed for me, or you just have you know, 0:12:06.040 --> 0:12:09.920 positive energy and positive thoughts around me. I appreciate you, 0:12:10.000 --> 0:12:14.160 and I and I hope that I inspired you, the viewers, 0:12:14.160 --> 0:12:19.080 the fans, to live your life, you know, authentically, not 0:12:19.760 --> 0:12:22.920 feel pressure to change for anyone or for society or 0:12:22.920 --> 0:12:27.080 to impress people, and just to be yourself. 0:12:27.840 --> 0:12:35.400 And oh you're gonna cry, oh Robin, You're gonna make 0:12:35.400 --> 0:12:35.839 me cry. 0:12:35.960 --> 0:12:42.199 No, no tears, oh god, Okay, well I'm no, no, okay, 0:12:42.280 --> 0:12:43.240 go ahead, no. 0:12:43.400 --> 0:12:53.000 And then I just want to finish shit. It's so 0:12:53.120 --> 0:12:55.440 crazy because like we still have reasonably shady but I 0:12:55.480 --> 0:12:57.679 really want to say I love you, oh me. 0:12:58.559 --> 0:13:02.319 Oh no. And it's been. 0:13:03.880 --> 0:13:10.560 Such a fun, amazing, stressful, crazy, wild journey the past 0:13:10.679 --> 0:13:15.200 eight years. I couldn't imagine doing what we did, you know, 0:13:16.360 --> 0:13:17.280 with anyone. 0:13:16.960 --> 0:13:26.120 Else because of that, damn knows hers. 0:13:26.280 --> 0:13:29.720 But yes, but to my Green Eye bandit my partner crime. 0:13:29.960 --> 0:13:33.760 Like it's the show. Really, we start off as friends. 0:13:33.800 --> 0:13:38.240 It's so funny because we for whatever reason, we were 0:13:38.240 --> 0:13:41.760 meant to sit next to each other that night. And 0:13:42.080 --> 0:13:44.280 I think it was in November of I don't know, 0:13:44.400 --> 0:13:48.640 twenty eleven, maybe whatever, when she knockout Yes and knockout 0:13:48.679 --> 0:13:52.280 Abuse the charity event when Cherise invited us as her guests. 0:13:52.720 --> 0:13:55.120 We sat next to each other at the table and 0:13:55.160 --> 0:13:58.800 we just we laughed and joked like we'd known each 0:13:58.840 --> 0:13:59.800 other for years. 0:14:01.760 --> 0:14:05.600 Before anybody knew us like that. And yeah, we trashed 0:14:05.600 --> 0:14:06.960 the entire room. We did. 0:14:07.600 --> 0:14:10.640 We just like every person that walked past, all the 0:14:10.720 --> 0:14:12.959 drunk people, like just you know, just had a good 0:14:12.960 --> 0:14:15.880 old time. From there, we were great friends, and then 0:14:15.960 --> 0:14:19.360 the show, you know, brought us even closer. And we've 0:14:19.440 --> 0:14:21.120 you know, been through a lot on the show and 0:14:21.560 --> 0:14:25.640 faced a lot of scrutiny and judgment and hate God, 0:14:25.800 --> 0:14:29.640 and we've supported each other through that. And you know, 0:14:29.680 --> 0:14:32.320 so although we still have reasonably shady I'm still gonna 0:14:32.560 --> 0:14:34.000 talk to you all the time and to you all 0:14:34.040 --> 0:14:37.640 the time. You know, I hate that that part of 0:14:38.600 --> 0:14:49.040 our friendship is you know, ye not there anymore. That 0:14:49.160 --> 0:14:51.760 was a very nice announcement. Okay, can I be shady now? 0:14:52.080 --> 0:14:56.800 Boo, this is a big boo. Oh my gosh boo 0:14:56.920 --> 0:14:57.440 and boo. 0:14:57.840 --> 0:15:02.040 Like And I'm not saying, you know, what's happening in 0:15:02.040 --> 0:15:05.400 the future with me if there is another season, whether 0:15:05.440 --> 0:15:06.960 or not I'm going to be on it, whatever, I'm 0:15:07.000 --> 0:15:09.440 just saying that for there to be another season and 0:15:09.520 --> 0:15:10.600 Robin not being on it. 0:15:10.960 --> 0:15:14.040 Who is like an og a stable to the Real 0:15:14.040 --> 0:15:17.280 Housewives Potomac. She has been like. 0:15:18.480 --> 0:15:26.600 The the sounding board, the foundation. She has been like, Okay, 0:15:26.600 --> 0:15:29.080 if rob Robins says it's crazy, it's crazy. If Robin 0:15:29.120 --> 0:15:30.840 says it's not crazy, he's not crazy. Like you know, 0:15:31.000 --> 0:15:33.640 Robin's always a person to go to or that that 0:15:33.680 --> 0:15:37.200 would give like the real to whatever the situation was. 0:15:38.760 --> 0:15:41.080 And just to like for me to think, Okay, I'm 0:15:41.080 --> 0:15:44.520 going to film a show and Potomac and I'm gonna 0:15:44.520 --> 0:15:46.400 look to my left and my right and Robin's not going. 0:15:46.360 --> 0:15:50.800 To be there is different? Is sad? 0:15:51.480 --> 0:15:51.600 Is? 0:15:55.080 --> 0:15:55.600 I don't know? 0:15:55.720 --> 0:15:59.680 But I feel like, yeah, we have gotten beaten up. 0:15:59.840 --> 0:16:02.560 The past eight seasons has been a lot, and I 0:16:02.600 --> 0:16:04.920 know it's been a lot for you and your family, 0:16:05.080 --> 0:16:09.520 more so the past three yeah, you know two to 0:16:09.600 --> 0:16:11.440 three have been a lot. 0:16:12.720 --> 0:16:14.520 Yeah, so. 0:16:16.040 --> 0:16:19.360 I mean, yeah, you know, just to know that, like 0:16:19.720 --> 0:16:24.760 to continue on and you know, I might be getting 0:16:24.760 --> 0:16:29.960 a beat up by myself, is like whoa. 0:16:30.960 --> 0:16:34.440 But you know, Robin has really been the glue. 0:16:35.200 --> 0:16:39.760 And despite what people on the outside may or may 0:16:39.760 --> 0:16:43.160 not know, you know, I I don't want to talk 0:16:43.200 --> 0:16:48.920 about false narratives and conspiracy theories, but let's just kidding. 0:16:49.280 --> 0:16:51.120 But but the people who know, they know. 0:16:51.680 --> 0:16:54.080 Yeah, and well, but any any of the ladies on 0:16:54.120 --> 0:16:56.440 the show will say that you are one the glue 0:16:56.440 --> 0:17:00.480 to the show. So I mean I want to say 0:17:00.480 --> 0:17:02.560 that maybe cheris kind of like put us all together, 0:17:02.600 --> 0:17:06.439 so to speak, but like these seven eight seasons, you 0:17:06.720 --> 0:17:09.440 Robin has really been the glue. 0:17:09.920 --> 0:17:12.639 And I mean I try to call things as I 0:17:12.680 --> 0:17:20.880 see it, you know, and be fair and just help 0:17:20.920 --> 0:17:23.800 people see other sides to the story. Yeah, you know, 0:17:23.960 --> 0:17:25.680 I know a lot of times, so like that's why 0:17:25.760 --> 0:17:27.760 we like balance each other out a lot, and you 0:17:27.800 --> 0:17:29.919 see it a lot on reasonably shady, like you have 0:17:30.000 --> 0:17:32.800 an opinion and I'm like, ah, have you looked at 0:17:32.840 --> 0:17:34.720 it from this angle or what about this or what 0:17:34.760 --> 0:17:37.320 do you think about this? And you know, I think 0:17:37.560 --> 0:17:40.320 most people in life can appreciate someone like that. But 0:17:40.440 --> 0:17:43.680 you know sometimes that that gets you, you know, turned 0:17:43.680 --> 0:17:46.320 into the bad guy or whatever. Just but it's it's fine. 0:17:46.320 --> 0:17:51.359 And I you know, there are certain elements I'm not going. 0:17:51.320 --> 0:17:53.679 To miss, yeah for sure. Social media. 0:17:54.040 --> 0:18:00.200 Yeah, social media, just the conspiracy theories, the horrible false narratives, 0:18:00.200 --> 0:18:03.800 the intent to misunderstand and misinterpret. But you know, and 0:18:03.920 --> 0:18:06.600 and I and I I didn't. 0:18:07.920 --> 0:18:10.919 Know that that's what came with the job. Now. 0:18:11.080 --> 0:18:13.480 You don't know until you know, right, Yeah, you don't 0:18:13.520 --> 0:18:15.440 know until it happens to you, slams you in the face. 0:18:15.640 --> 0:18:18.480 But you know, But but I want to just I don't. 0:18:19.119 --> 0:18:22.480 I want to just like focus on the great experiences, 0:18:22.600 --> 0:18:29.240 you know, just being able to start businesses and from 0:18:29.240 --> 0:18:33.320 the ground up and watch people support them. And you know, 0:18:33.680 --> 0:18:36.560 it's it's kind of unfortunate that of the timing because 0:18:36.920 --> 0:18:41.280 I'm about to really embark on a huge business venture 0:18:42.880 --> 0:18:51.240 and open my own skincare studio franchise, Glow thirty in Columbia, Maryland, 0:18:51.480 --> 0:18:53.960 and that is a huge undertaking. I mean, I have to, 0:18:55.240 --> 0:18:57.240 you know, do the build out work, you know, do 0:18:57.359 --> 0:19:00.720 the construction process. I've got to find employees, gotta get 0:19:00.760 --> 0:19:03.040 the business up and running. And so it's it's unfortunate 0:19:03.119 --> 0:19:05.200 that I can't share it. And I'm saying it not 0:19:06.080 --> 0:19:10.040 personally because of myself, but because the viewers will miss 0:19:10.080 --> 0:19:13.479 out on seeing someone start a business from ground up, 0:19:14.080 --> 0:19:17.959 and because I know, the best part about being on 0:19:18.000 --> 0:19:19.600 the show, one of the best parts about being on 0:19:19.600 --> 0:19:21.800 the show is hearing from the viewers who say, you've 0:19:21.840 --> 0:19:25.720 inspired me to do this, whether it's you know, to 0:19:26.320 --> 0:19:29.040 not give a damn what people think, or to become 0:19:29.080 --> 0:19:33.240 an entrepreneur, to have an idea and just start a business. 0:19:33.600 --> 0:19:35.960 So it's unfortunate that they won't be able to see 0:19:36.000 --> 0:19:40.119 me start that type of business because that is a 0:19:40.320 --> 0:19:45.959 huge project, a huge undertaking, and it yes, thank you, 0:19:46.000 --> 0:19:49.600 and I think women especially should see other people doing 0:19:49.600 --> 0:19:52.400 stuff like that and saying, oh my gosh, I can 0:19:52.440 --> 0:19:55.399 totally do this. You know, let me look into a 0:19:55.480 --> 0:19:59.159 franchise that maybe I'm interested in opening, and you know, 0:19:59.400 --> 0:20:04.800 establishing jobs for my community and passing down generational wealth 0:20:04.800 --> 0:20:07.919 to my family. So, you know, I hate that the 0:20:08.000 --> 0:20:09.800 viewers won't really really be able to get see that 0:20:09.840 --> 0:20:11.960 because that is a real, real thing that's going on 0:20:12.040 --> 0:20:12.480 in my life. 0:20:12.480 --> 0:20:14.200 Well, they're gonna they're gonna hear you every week on 0:20:14.320 --> 0:20:18.040 Reasonably Shady, and they're gonna hear you talking about Glow thirty. 0:20:18.200 --> 0:20:18.360 Yeah. 0:20:18.400 --> 0:20:20.840 I mean, of course, on my own personal platform, I'm 0:20:20.880 --> 0:20:22.639 gonna share, you know, so I'll talk about it on 0:20:22.720 --> 0:20:25.520 Reasonably Shady. Yeah, I'll you know, share as much as 0:20:25.520 --> 0:20:28.920 I can on my personal Instagram account. But I just think, 0:20:29.040 --> 0:20:31.879 you know, to see it, to see it is a 0:20:31.920 --> 0:20:38.160 little bit different for some people, and it just to hear, 0:20:38.400 --> 0:20:41.560 like you know, just how stressful it might be or whatever. 0:20:41.640 --> 0:20:47.439