Speaker 1: Rooking Jubels. Second, you know how the old saying goes,
Speaker 1: don't dip your wiener in the company penholders saying, don't
Speaker 1: give your wiener to a co worker's in the company
Speaker 1: and the company Oh ink, I'm the weird one. I'm
Speaker 1: saying it wrong. I don't know anyway. Julian is on
Speaker 1: the phone today for a second day update. His email
Speaker 1: said that he met the girl who he wants to
Speaker 1: call today at work. So I'm guessing it's a co
Speaker 1: worker or something. Julian, how you doing, I'm good. How
Speaker 1: are you guys? Good? So you're trying to dip your
Speaker 1: wiener in the penning, right? Is that what this is about? No, No,
Speaker 1: it's not at all. Okay, tell us a little bit
Speaker 1: about the girl that you want to call today. She's
Speaker 1: a co worker, Well, she's not a co worker. She
Speaker 1: came in purchasing supplies at the office that I work at,
Speaker 1: so she's kind of a client co worker. Nicee the
Speaker 1: deal there? So did you ask her out while she
Speaker 1: came in to deal with Like? No, because I think
Speaker 1: that's unprofessional. Basically, what happened is she came in and
Speaker 1: she was working with me or I was working for her,
Speaker 1: however you want to say it. I didn't want to
Speaker 1: cross the line, I guess. And then she ended up
Speaker 1: coming back because she hadn't got her parking ticket validated
Speaker 1: in the lot, and then you validated it with your wiener?
Speaker 1: Oh my god? Right? Or am I right? No? No? No?
Speaker 1: I validated it and then had a nice conversation with
Speaker 1: her when I walked her out to the lot. Okay, well,
Speaker 1: where's the wiener come into this thing? I haven't heard
Speaker 1: anything about a wiener yet. No, there was no weener
Speaker 1: involved in the validation. Anyways, I asked her if she
Speaker 1: would like to get dinner on Friday night, and she
Speaker 1: said she would, and I got her number and I
Speaker 1: called her and we went to dinner. What's her name,
Speaker 1: by the way, Christina? Christina? And how was dinner with Christina?
Speaker 1: Dinner was good. I mean, I feel like we had
Speaker 1: a lot of chemistry, and I like veal and not
Speaker 1: everybody likes feel and she wanted the veal too, so
Speaker 1: we ended up ordering the same thing, which I thought
Speaker 1: was kind of a cool thing, and dinner went good.
Speaker 1: Do you guys both ordered veal? In other words, you're
Speaker 1: both fans of slaughtering baby calves. I like that about
Speaker 1: both of you. Seems nice. That's not what I think
Speaker 1: about when I'm eating veal. I like the way feels
Speaker 1: pay so I'm not worrying about the process. Oh, that's
Speaker 1: why I like it. I just I picture the whole
Speaker 1: things go on while I'm eating veal. I like it.
Speaker 1: Now why I like it at all? Actually, you're making
Speaker 1: me like it a lot less by giving me that
Speaker 1: that story. So if dinner went well and everything else,
Speaker 1: why do you think she's not calling you back? You know,
Speaker 1: I don't know. I mean, there were a couple of things.
Speaker 1: Now I'm trying to run the night through my head
Speaker 1: and like, did I do something wrong? Did I have
Speaker 1: you know, my fly open or my food in my face?
Speaker 1: Or how I ate? Here's the fly open? The winner?
Speaker 1: I knew it. Don't talking to you that you're a
Speaker 1: wiener guy. I knew it. Yeah, that's you're right. How
Speaker 1: did you figured me out? But realistically, the only things
Speaker 1: that I think that could have possibly not gone well,
Speaker 1: I did have to take a work call, which I
Speaker 1: don't like to have to take work calls if I'm
Speaker 1: on a date. But I was expecting a client to call,
Speaker 1: so I had to walk away. Did you tell her
Speaker 1: at the beginning of the night that that was going
Speaker 1: to happen. I did not tell her that I was
Speaker 1: expecting a call, But when I got back, I said,
Speaker 1: this was an important job call. I had to take it.
Speaker 1: Did you, I mean, did you leave her stranded by
Speaker 1: herself for like a half an hour while you were
Speaker 1: on some conference call or something. Well, no, I stayed
Speaker 1: at the table for a minute and then walked away.
Speaker 1: But it was no more than fifteen minutes long, I mean,
Speaker 1: and she had an appetizer and some wine, so okay,
Speaker 1: So it wasn't I have a hard time thinking that
Speaker 1: that would be the reason not to call you back.
Speaker 1: If you're like, hey, sorry, it's an important work call. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that me too. And then the only other thing I'll
Speaker 1: be honest with you. You know, I'm not going to
Speaker 1: say the restaurant, but veal is a particular type of food,
Speaker 1: and if you like veal, you like feel. But I
Speaker 1: thought that it was okay, and I kind of was like, oh,
Speaker 1: you know, how's your veal? And she's like, Oh, it's great,
Speaker 1: blah blah blah. And I was like, oh, she's asked me,
Speaker 1: and I was like, it's all right, it's okay. And
Speaker 1: maybe I don't know, maybe she thought I was being
Speaker 1: hypercritical or a snob about the food, but I wasn't.
Speaker 1: I was just giving you my honest opinion. Honestly, I
Speaker 1: think both of you a red flag for me, Like, obviously,
Speaker 1: if a guy's taking a call in the middle of
Speaker 1: a Friday night date, he's going to be putting work
Speaker 1: in front of me our entire relationship. Wow, I'm just
Speaker 1: saying wait, wait, wait, But first off, you have to
Speaker 1: understand she's in the same business. She knows that I'm
Speaker 1: in sale, but she wasn't taking a call during the
Speaker 1: dinner because she's a buyer. She's not a feller. She's
Speaker 1: not as important as I see how she understands that sales.
Speaker 1: There are the time zones, there's other people, people that
Speaker 1: are working at different hours where when you're buying it,
Speaker 1: you're not, as I don't say, in demand, but sometimes
Speaker 1: you have to answer the phone when you're selling because
Speaker 1: if you don't lose out of sale, then you lose
Speaker 1: out of money, and then you can't afford the dinner.
Speaker 1: I think a red flag. A red flag would be
Speaker 1: taking your wiener out at the dinner table like you
Speaker 1: said you did earlier. Okay, for the record, I didn't
Speaker 1: take out my wiener for any portion of the date,
Speaker 1: dinner or after anything. All Right, So when we call
Speaker 1: her and ask why she's not calling you back, she's
Speaker 1: not going to say that. Okay, how did everything end
Speaker 1: with her? You know, I kind of went in for
Speaker 1: a kiss and I kind of got more of a
Speaker 1: handshake hug kind of thing. But it was the first date,
Speaker 1: so was it awkward? I don't think it was awkward.
Speaker 1: It was. It wasn't like I was like an inch
Speaker 1: from her lips and she you know, suck her hand.
Speaker 1: To me, it was you know, I mean I was
Speaker 1: kind of coming in kind of to like hug kiss,
Speaker 1: and she kind of put her hand up a little bit,
Speaker 1: so it was it was that's all. She shut you down. No,
Speaker 1: it wasn't a shutdown. It was just it was just
Speaker 1: that wasn't a shutdown. Shut It sounds like a shut
Speaker 1: down to me if you go for a kiss and
Speaker 1: you get a handshake. Have you heard anything from her
Speaker 1: since your date? No? I called her once and I've
Speaker 1: text her three times. Okay, well, we'll play a song
Speaker 1: come back call her and get your second day update.
Speaker 1: All right, okay, great thanky, hang on rooking. Jubil in
Speaker 1: the Morning. Julian is on the phone with us and
Speaker 1: today he wants to call a girl named Christina, and
Speaker 1: Julian claims that he wasn't shut down at the end
Speaker 1: of the date when he went in for a kiss
Speaker 1: and she shook his hand instead. He still says that
Speaker 1: that wasn't him getting shut down, but in my definition
Speaker 1: of beginning shut down, that is probably the best way
Speaker 1: to describe it. Listen, I didn't get shut down. I
Speaker 1: went in for a kiss. It was you know what,
Speaker 1: it was a professional date. You know, it was a
Speaker 1: work thing, so it wasn't appropriate. I understand. Let me
Speaker 1: get shut down either way. I think you got shut down. Yeah,
Speaker 1: all right, Well we're gonna get her on the phone
Speaker 1: and see why she's not calling you back. Here we
Speaker 1: go on doll the phone of it right now? Hello, Hi,
Speaker 1: can I speak to Christina please? Yeah? This is she Christina?
Speaker 1: How are you? This is Jewel from Brooke and Jewel
Speaker 1: in the Morning. Who is this Jebil from Brooke and
Speaker 1: Jewel in the Morning, the radio show. Um, okay, why
Speaker 1: are you calling me? What is this? I'm calling you
Speaker 1: because one of our listeners asked if I could get
Speaker 1: you on the phone to ask you a few questions. Okay,
Speaker 1: that's really weird. It's a segment we do on our
Speaker 1: show called the Second Date Update. So you recently went
Speaker 1: on a date with a dude named Julian. Okay, and
Speaker 1: Julian emailed us and said that you haven't been responding
Speaker 1: to any of us text messages or phone calls. So
Speaker 1: he thought maybe we could get you on the phone
Speaker 1: and find out why you're not calling Julian back. All right.
Speaker 1: He told us, you know, you're like a client where
Speaker 1: he works, and he asked you out and he said,
Speaker 1: you guys went out to dinner and had a pretty
Speaker 1: fun time. That's what he told you. Yes, good time.
Speaker 1: So you didn't have a good time? Um, I wouldn't
Speaker 1: call it that. No, Okay, what was wrong with it then?
Speaker 1: Because according to him everything was great? He thought maybe
Speaker 1: he seemed like a food snob to you because he
Speaker 1: disagreed with you on the veal that you guys ordered. Yeah,
Speaker 1: he definitely has a very refined palette. That's one way
Speaker 1: to put it. Okay. He also said that he took
Speaker 1: a phone call in the middle of the date. A. Yeah,
Speaker 1: he did that. It was a little rude. Okay, yeah,
Speaker 1: I could see how that would upset you. I mean,
Speaker 1: that wasn't even the worst part of the date. What
Speaker 1: was the worst part then? Um? I mean he's he's
Speaker 1: a very stood sales guy, but he's kind of got
Speaker 1: this seething anger underneath all of it. You see seeing
Speaker 1: he was seething anger underneath his charismatic salesman personality. I mean, yeah,
Speaker 1: that's literally the best adjective I can pick to describe it.
Speaker 1: It's using anger what happened? Because when you described the
Speaker 1: date to us, he didn't say anything about anger or
Speaker 1: being pissed off him. It's a very very picky person
Speaker 1: and a very shallow person and quite rude. Actually what
Speaker 1: did he do? I mean, for example, he was super
Speaker 1: picky about the wine. I ordered red wine and it
Speaker 1: was brought to me I guess, in a white wine glass,
Speaker 1: and he got extremely upset and he turned it away
Speaker 1: and made them bring it back. If one of those
Speaker 1: a holes at the restaurant that like acts like he
Speaker 1: owns the place when he's somewhere and that nothing's good
Speaker 1: enough for him. Yeah, it's pretty much exactly like. He
Speaker 1: went to the bathroom and when he came back, he
Speaker 1: was in a huge huss and he said, you know,
Speaker 1: there's no more paper towels in the bathroom. You know,
Speaker 1: they was a fancy restaurant and then establishment, and people
Speaker 1: should be refilling the sapor towels and going on and
Speaker 1: on about this tiny and significant thing that how dare they?
Speaker 1: It is annoying when they don't have favorite towels. I
Speaker 1: will say that, but I don't know if I'd ever
Speaker 1: get that pissed off about it. It's not angry, it's annoying. Yeah,
Speaker 1: absolute worst part of the entire night. That favorite towels
Speaker 1: thing wasn't even it. I mean, he completely dressed down
Speaker 1: the waiter and just disrespected him when we were leaving.
Speaker 1: As he's leaving, he says, I paid forty dollars for
Speaker 1: a piece of beal I wouldn't feed to my dead grandmother.
Speaker 1: He says, Oh, you're lucky I don't come back and
Speaker 1: burn this place down. The round and I was like,
Speaker 1: did I hear you correctly? He threatened to burn the
Speaker 1: place down. He did. He threatened to burn it to
Speaker 1: the ground. He said that to the waiter. I'm serious,
Speaker 1: that was the comment of the night. I've complained the
Speaker 1: restaurants before, but I've never threatened to burn them down.
Speaker 1: I would destroy this place. Did he realize what he
Speaker 1: was saying or did he act like this is just
Speaker 1: normal banter at a restaurant? Now he knew exactly what
Speaker 1: he was saying. When we were leaving the restaurant, he
Speaker 1: turned to me and his attitude completely changed, and he
Speaker 1: made it sound like I had been suffering and I
Speaker 1: was a victim, and that everything was absolutely horrible, and
Speaker 1: you know, the things I didn't really care was so insignificant,
Speaker 1: and his mind, he must have been standing up for you. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I really want him to stand up for me and
Speaker 1: bird down the restaurant we were eating at. Some girls
Speaker 1: would be thankful for that. Some girls would be what
Speaker 1: a man, Yes, And he's as true gentleman. He's threatened
Speaker 1: to burn down a restaurant in my honor. So I
Speaker 1: know it was really ridiculous. So I mean, I said
Speaker 1: good night, and I'm going to leave at that. That's understandable.
Speaker 1: I guess I want to get out of there as
Speaker 1: soon as possible. Threats of arson on a first date. Usually,
Speaker 1: I don't want to talk to that up. Ever. Again,
Speaker 1: that's just shame because he's actually on the other line
Speaker 1: listening and wants to talk to you. You are you serious? Yes?
Speaker 1: I am, Hey, Christina, I wasn't angry. I was standing
Speaker 1: up for you. I was standing up for having good
Speaker 1: service at a restaurant. I mean, I worked hard for
Speaker 1: my money, and you know what, the service sucked and
Speaker 1: the food sucked and there was no paper towels. What
Speaker 1: kind of place doesn't have paper towels? Do you have
Speaker 1: to wash your hands to go eat and they don't
Speaker 1: want you to try your hands? I mean, I mean, right,
Speaker 1: you're I mean I'm not gonna not wash my hands.
Speaker 1: If I looked, I saw there was no paper towels,
Speaker 1: and now I'm like, I'm gonna wipe it all my
Speaker 1: pants and I'm gonna walk out if you look at
Speaker 1: my pants are wet. I couldn't even impress you with that.
Speaker 1: I was like, I wasn't angry. I was I was
Speaker 1: being chivalry. I mean, I was defending you. You're trying
Speaker 1: to burn the place down. I mean, how how is
Speaker 1: that chival That's it's threatening? Okay, Okay, I think I
Speaker 1: shouldn't have said that. That was me getting frustrated because
Speaker 1: I was like, Okay, the paper towels is one thing,
Speaker 1: the wine was another thing, the appetizer is another thing.
Speaker 1: Because I wasn't, I was. I got so frustrated. I'm talking.
Speaker 1: I st you guys, stopped talking. I heard this already.
Speaker 1: I heard it the last sun. I'm hearing it again.
Speaker 1: You're just repeating yourself, you know, if, like, if you
Speaker 1: keep focusing on little insignificant things and being a rude everybody, Like,
Speaker 1: I don't know how women do stand to go on
Speaker 1: a day with you. It's no wonder. You've been divorced twice?
Speaker 1: Who what? Who? Who? You just brought up my two divorces,
Speaker 1: so my ex wives I share that with you. Are
Speaker 1: you kidding me? I mean, that's rude, that that's that's
Speaker 1: that's mean. But that's an example. It's two strikes. And
Speaker 1: so this woman clearly couldn't deal with all of your crap,
Speaker 1: my crap, my crap because I want good customer service,
Speaker 1: because I'm at a restaurant and I want some customer
Speaker 1: human brain and be respype. That's full about it. You were,
Speaker 1: respectfully just brought up That's why this is how people
Speaker 1: in the service industry. You don't know if it's threatened people.
Speaker 1: You know what. I'm in the sales industry. You know what.
Speaker 1: I take care of customers. They need to take care
Speaker 1: of customers. You should know them. I mean, we're in
Speaker 1: this industry. But I don't even know what to say.
Speaker 1: I've stayed in my case. I don't know. In the
Speaker 1: surface industry, sometimes you have to put your foot down
Speaker 1: to get some respect. So I was doing that with
Speaker 1: the waiter in the restaurant, and you know what, I
Speaker 1: think you need to show me a little respect, because
Speaker 1: you know what I was defending you. I think so too.
Speaker 1: That's why I'd like to ask Christina, would you like
Speaker 1: to go on a second date with Julian? We will
Speaker 1: pay for it. Hell no, no, no, I don't you
Speaker 1: answered so quickly there, You know, if you talk to
Speaker 1: me like that, no way, Julie, Are you sure? I mean,
Speaker 1: I could find you, guys a great restaurant that Julian
Speaker 1: could burn down. A gonna pass on that. You know what,
Speaker 1: if you want to settle for mediocre service, then you
Speaker 1: don't want to go date some schleck who will take
Speaker 1: you to the drive through. I want to go to
Speaker 1: a four star restaurants where they treat you like a customer.
Speaker 1: We're right, we are supposed to get this stuff. Come on,
Speaker 1: I mean, really think you know what? You know what?
Speaker 1: You've pushed the envelope so far. I was fine just
Speaker 1: knocking another date with you, but you know what, I
Speaker 1: really don't want to do business with someone who has
Speaker 1: FTHX like you. Oh oh, now you're taking personal and
Speaker 1: you're putting it in business. Really, I'm going to tell
Speaker 1: the people I work with my company will not be
Speaker 1: doing business that's your company anymore. Are you cheating me
Speaker 1: based on a date? You know it wasn't a date,
Speaker 1: it was your attitude that did it. I am done
Speaker 1: with this conversation. Goodbye. Wow, Julian, what just happened? You
Speaker 1: didn't get a second date? And I think you might
Speaker 1: be losing your job soon too, because I want customer service. Well,
Speaker 1: I think it's because you're threatened to burn the place down. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you're a total douche bag about it. I apologize for
Speaker 1: the burning the place down. I mean that was you know,
Speaker 1: it was one batting after another and it pushed me beyond.
Speaker 1: But but I mean the rest of the stuff was
Speaker 1: all customer service. A slow service, bad food, wrong glasses. Yeah,
Speaker 1: we know. The lest man broke and jubil in the morning.