WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: H-anger Management

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<v Speaker 1>Rooking Jubels. Second, you know how the old saying goes,

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<v Speaker 1>don't dip your wiener in the company penholders saying, don't

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<v Speaker 1>give your wiener to a co worker's in the company

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<v Speaker 1>and the company Oh ink, I'm the weird one. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>saying it wrong. I don't know anyway. Julian is on

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<v Speaker 1>the phone today for a second day update. His email

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<v Speaker 1>said that he met the girl who he wants to

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<v Speaker 1>call today at work. So I'm guessing it's a co

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<v Speaker 1>worker or something. Julian, how you doing, I'm good. How

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<v Speaker 1>are you guys? Good? So you're trying to dip your

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<v Speaker 1>wiener in the penning, right? Is that what this is about? No, No,

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<v Speaker 1>it's not at all. Okay, tell us a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>about the girl that you want to call today. She's

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<v Speaker 1>a co worker, Well, she's not a co worker. She

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<v Speaker 1>came in purchasing supplies at the office that I work at,

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<v Speaker 1>so she's kind of a client co worker. Nicee the

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<v Speaker 1>deal there? So did you ask her out while she

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<v Speaker 1>came in to deal with Like? No, because I think

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<v Speaker 1>that's unprofessional. Basically, what happened is she came in and

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<v Speaker 1>she was working with me or I was working for her,

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<v Speaker 1>however you want to say it. I didn't want to

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<v Speaker 1>cross the line, I guess. And then she ended up

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<v Speaker 1>coming back because she hadn't got her parking ticket validated

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<v Speaker 1>in the lot, and then you validated it with your wiener?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god? Right? Or am I right? No? No? No?

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<v Speaker 1>I validated it and then had a nice conversation with

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<v Speaker 1>her when I walked her out to the lot. Okay, well,

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<v Speaker 1>where's the wiener come into this thing? I haven't heard

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<v Speaker 1>anything about a wiener yet. No, there was no weener

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<v Speaker 1>involved in the validation. Anyways, I asked her if she

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<v Speaker 1>would like to get dinner on Friday night, and she

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<v Speaker 1>said she would, and I got her number and I

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<v Speaker 1>called her and we went to dinner. What's her name,

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<v Speaker 1>by the way, Christina? Christina? And how was dinner with Christina?

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<v Speaker 1>Dinner was good. I mean, I feel like we had

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of chemistry, and I like veal and not

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<v Speaker 1>everybody likes feel and she wanted the veal too, so

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<v Speaker 1>we ended up ordering the same thing, which I thought

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<v Speaker 1>was kind of a cool thing, and dinner went good.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you guys both ordered veal? In other words, you're

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<v Speaker 1>both fans of slaughtering baby calves. I like that about

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<v Speaker 1>both of you. Seems nice. That's not what I think

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<v Speaker 1>about when I'm eating veal. I like the way feels

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<v Speaker 1>pay so I'm not worrying about the process. Oh, that's

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<v Speaker 1>why I like it. I just I picture the whole

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<v Speaker 1>things go on while I'm eating veal. I like it.

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<v Speaker 1>Now why I like it at all? Actually, you're making

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<v Speaker 1>me like it a lot less by giving me that

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<v Speaker 1>that story. So if dinner went well and everything else,

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<v Speaker 1>why do you think she's not calling you back? You know,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I mean, there were a couple of things.

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<v Speaker 1>Now I'm trying to run the night through my head

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<v Speaker 1>and like, did I do something wrong? Did I have

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<v Speaker 1>you know, my fly open or my food in my face?

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<v Speaker 1>Or how I ate? Here's the fly open? The winner?

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<v Speaker 1>I knew it. Don't talking to you that you're a

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<v Speaker 1>wiener guy. I knew it. Yeah, that's you're right. How

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<v Speaker 1>did you figured me out? But realistically, the only things

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<v Speaker 1>that I think that could have possibly not gone well,

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<v Speaker 1>I did have to take a work call, which I

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<v Speaker 1>don't like to have to take work calls if I'm

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<v Speaker 1>on a date. But I was expecting a client to call,

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<v Speaker 1>so I had to walk away. Did you tell her

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<v Speaker 1>at the beginning of the night that that was going

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<v Speaker 1>to happen. I did not tell her that I was

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<v Speaker 1>expecting a call, But when I got back, I said,

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<v Speaker 1>this was an important job call. I had to take it.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you, I mean, did you leave her stranded by

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<v Speaker 1>herself for like a half an hour while you were

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<v Speaker 1>on some conference call or something. Well, no, I stayed

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<v Speaker 1>at the table for a minute and then walked away.

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<v Speaker 1>But it was no more than fifteen minutes long, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>and she had an appetizer and some wine, so okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So it wasn't I have a hard time thinking that

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<v Speaker 1>that would be the reason not to call you back.

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<v Speaker 1>If you're like, hey, sorry, it's an important work call. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that me too. And then the only other thing I'll

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<v Speaker 1>be honest with you. You know, I'm not going to

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<v Speaker 1>say the restaurant, but veal is a particular type of food,

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<v Speaker 1>and if you like veal, you like feel. But I

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<v Speaker 1>thought that it was okay, and I kind of was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, how's your veal? And she's like, Oh, it's great,

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<v Speaker 1>blah blah blah. And I was like, oh, she's asked me,

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<v Speaker 1>and I was like, it's all right, it's okay. And

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<v Speaker 1>maybe I don't know, maybe she thought I was being

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<v Speaker 1>hypercritical or a snob about the food, but I wasn't.

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<v Speaker 1>I was just giving you my honest opinion. Honestly, I

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<v Speaker 1>think both of you a red flag for me, Like, obviously,

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<v Speaker 1>if a guy's taking a call in the middle of

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<v Speaker 1>a Friday night date, he's going to be putting work

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<v Speaker 1>in front of me our entire relationship. Wow, I'm just

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<v Speaker 1>saying wait, wait, wait, But first off, you have to

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<v Speaker 1>understand she's in the same business. She knows that I'm

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<v Speaker 1>in sale, but she wasn't taking a call during the

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<v Speaker 1>dinner because she's a buyer. She's not a feller. She's

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<v Speaker 1>not as important as I see how she understands that sales.

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<v Speaker 1>There are the time zones, there's other people, people that

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<v Speaker 1>are working at different hours where when you're buying it,

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<v Speaker 1>you're not, as I don't say, in demand, but sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>you have to answer the phone when you're selling because

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<v Speaker 1>if you don't lose out of sale, then you lose

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<v Speaker 1>out of money, and then you can't afford the dinner.

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<v Speaker 1>I think a red flag. A red flag would be

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<v Speaker 1>taking your wiener out at the dinner table like you

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<v Speaker 1>said you did earlier. Okay, for the record, I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>take out my wiener for any portion of the date,

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<v Speaker 1>dinner or after anything. All Right, So when we call

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<v Speaker 1>her and ask why she's not calling you back, she's

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<v Speaker 1>not going to say that. Okay, how did everything end

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<v Speaker 1>with her? You know, I kind of went in for

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<v Speaker 1>a kiss and I kind of got more of a

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<v Speaker 1>handshake hug kind of thing. But it was the first date,

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<v Speaker 1>so was it awkward? I don't think it was awkward.

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<v Speaker 1>It was. It wasn't like I was like an inch

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<v Speaker 1>from her lips and she you know, suck her hand.

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<v Speaker 1>To me, it was you know, I mean I was

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<v Speaker 1>kind of coming in kind of to like hug kiss,

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<v Speaker 1>and she kind of put her hand up a little bit,

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<v Speaker 1>so it was it was that's all. She shut you down. No,

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<v Speaker 1>it wasn't a shutdown. It was just it was just

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<v Speaker 1>that wasn't a shutdown. Shut It sounds like a shut

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<v Speaker 1>down to me if you go for a kiss and

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<v Speaker 1>you get a handshake. Have you heard anything from her

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<v Speaker 1>since your date? No? I called her once and I've

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<v Speaker 1>text her three times. Okay, well, we'll play a song

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<v Speaker 1>come back call her and get your second day update.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, okay, great thanky, hang on rooking. Jubil in

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<v Speaker 1>the Morning. Julian is on the phone with us and

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<v Speaker 1>today he wants to call a girl named Christina, and

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<v Speaker 1>Julian claims that he wasn't shut down at the end

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<v Speaker 1>of the date when he went in for a kiss

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<v Speaker 1>and she shook his hand instead. He still says that

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<v Speaker 1>that wasn't him getting shut down, but in my definition

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<v Speaker 1>of beginning shut down, that is probably the best way

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<v Speaker 1>to describe it. Listen, I didn't get shut down. I

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<v Speaker 1>went in for a kiss. It was you know what,

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<v Speaker 1>it was a professional date. You know, it was a

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<v Speaker 1>work thing, so it wasn't appropriate. I understand. Let me

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<v Speaker 1>get shut down either way. I think you got shut down. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, Well we're gonna get her on the phone

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<v Speaker 1>and see why she's not calling you back. Here we

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<v Speaker 1>go on doll the phone of it right now? Hello, Hi,

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<v Speaker 1>can I speak to Christina please? Yeah? This is she Christina?

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<v Speaker 1>How are you? This is Jewel from Brooke and Jewel

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<v Speaker 1>in the Morning. Who is this Jebil from Brooke and

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<v Speaker 1>Jewel in the Morning, the radio show. Um, okay, why

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<v Speaker 1>are you calling me? What is this? I'm calling you

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<v Speaker 1>because one of our listeners asked if I could get

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<v Speaker 1>you on the phone to ask you a few questions. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>that's really weird. It's a segment we do on our

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<v Speaker 1>show called the Second Date Update. So you recently went

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<v Speaker 1>on a date with a dude named Julian. Okay, and

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<v Speaker 1>Julian emailed us and said that you haven't been responding

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<v Speaker 1>to any of us text messages or phone calls. So

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<v Speaker 1>he thought maybe we could get you on the phone

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<v Speaker 1>and find out why you're not calling Julian back. All right.

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<v Speaker 1>He told us, you know, you're like a client where

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<v Speaker 1>he works, and he asked you out and he said,

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<v Speaker 1>you guys went out to dinner and had a pretty

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<v Speaker 1>fun time. That's what he told you. Yes, good time.

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<v Speaker 1>So you didn't have a good time? Um, I wouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>call it that. No, Okay, what was wrong with it then?

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<v Speaker 1>Because according to him everything was great? He thought maybe

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<v Speaker 1>he seemed like a food snob to you because he

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<v Speaker 1>disagreed with you on the veal that you guys ordered. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he definitely has a very refined palette. That's one way

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<v Speaker 1>to put it. Okay. He also said that he took

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<v Speaker 1>a phone call in the middle of the date. A. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he did that. It was a little rude. Okay, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I could see how that would upset you. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>that wasn't even the worst part of the date. What

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<v Speaker 1>was the worst part then? Um? I mean he's he's

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<v Speaker 1>a very stood sales guy, but he's kind of got

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<v Speaker 1>this seething anger underneath all of it. You see seeing

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<v Speaker 1>he was seething anger underneath his charismatic salesman personality. I mean, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's literally the best adjective I can pick to describe it.

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<v Speaker 1>It's using anger what happened? Because when you described the

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<v Speaker 1>date to us, he didn't say anything about anger or

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<v Speaker 1>being pissed off him. It's a very very picky person

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<v Speaker 1>and a very shallow person and quite rude. Actually what

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<v Speaker 1>did he do? I mean, for example, he was super

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<v Speaker 1>picky about the wine. I ordered red wine and it

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<v Speaker 1>was brought to me I guess, in a white wine glass,

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<v Speaker 1>and he got extremely upset and he turned it away

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<v Speaker 1>and made them bring it back. If one of those

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<v Speaker 1>a holes at the restaurant that like acts like he

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<v Speaker 1>owns the place when he's somewhere and that nothing's good

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<v Speaker 1>enough for him. Yeah, it's pretty much exactly like. He

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<v Speaker 1>went to the bathroom and when he came back, he

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<v Speaker 1>was in a huge huss and he said, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>there's no more paper towels in the bathroom. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>they was a fancy restaurant and then establishment, and people

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<v Speaker 1>should be refilling the sapor towels and going on and

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<v Speaker 1>on about this tiny and significant thing that how dare they?

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<v Speaker 1>It is annoying when they don't have favorite towels. I

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<v Speaker 1>will say that, but I don't know if I'd ever

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<v Speaker 1>get that pissed off about it. It's not angry, it's annoying. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>absolute worst part of the entire night. That favorite towels

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<v Speaker 1>thing wasn't even it. I mean, he completely dressed down

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<v Speaker 1>the waiter and just disrespected him when we were leaving.

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<v Speaker 1>As he's leaving, he says, I paid forty dollars for

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<v Speaker 1>a piece of beal I wouldn't feed to my dead grandmother.

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<v Speaker 1>He says, Oh, you're lucky I don't come back and

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<v Speaker 1>burn this place down. The round and I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>did I hear you correctly? He threatened to burn the

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<v Speaker 1>place down. He did. He threatened to burn it to

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<v Speaker 1>the ground. He said that to the waiter. I'm serious,

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<v Speaker 1>that was the comment of the night. I've complained the

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<v Speaker 1>restaurants before, but I've never threatened to burn them down.

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<v Speaker 1>I would destroy this place. Did he realize what he

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<v Speaker 1>was saying or did he act like this is just

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<v Speaker 1>normal banter at a restaurant? Now he knew exactly what

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<v Speaker 1>he was saying. When we were leaving the restaurant, he

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<v Speaker 1>turned to me and his attitude completely changed, and he

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<v Speaker 1>made it sound like I had been suffering and I

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<v Speaker 1>was a victim, and that everything was absolutely horrible, and

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<v Speaker 1>you know, the things I didn't really care was so insignificant,

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<v Speaker 1>and his mind, he must have been standing up for you. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I really want him to stand up for me and

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<v Speaker 1>bird down the restaurant we were eating at. Some girls

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<v Speaker 1>would be thankful for that. Some girls would be what

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<v Speaker 1>a man, Yes, And he's as true gentleman. He's threatened

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<v Speaker 1>to burn down a restaurant in my honor. So I

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<v Speaker 1>know it was really ridiculous. So I mean, I said

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<v Speaker 1>good night, and I'm going to leave at that. That's understandable.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess I want to get out of there as

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<v Speaker 1>soon as possible. Threats of arson on a first date. Usually,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to talk to that up. Ever. Again,

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<v Speaker 1>that's just shame because he's actually on the other line

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<v Speaker 1>listening and wants to talk to you. You are you serious? Yes?

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<v Speaker 1>I am, Hey, Christina, I wasn't angry. I was standing

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<v Speaker 1>up for you. I was standing up for having good

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<v Speaker 1>service at a restaurant. I mean, I worked hard for

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<v Speaker 1>my money, and you know what, the service sucked and

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<v Speaker 1>the food sucked and there was no paper towels. What

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<v Speaker 1>kind of place doesn't have paper towels? Do you have

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<v Speaker 1>to wash your hands to go eat and they don't

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<v Speaker 1>want you to try your hands? I mean, I mean, right,

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<v Speaker 1>you're I mean I'm not gonna not wash my hands.

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<v Speaker 1>If I looked, I saw there was no paper towels,

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<v Speaker 1>and now I'm like, I'm gonna wipe it all my

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<v Speaker 1>pants and I'm gonna walk out if you look at

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<v Speaker 1>my pants are wet. I couldn't even impress you with that.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, I wasn't angry. I was I was

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<v Speaker 1>being chivalry. I mean, I was defending you. You're trying

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<v Speaker 1>to burn the place down. I mean, how how is

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<v Speaker 1>that chival That's it's threatening? Okay, Okay, I think I

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<v Speaker 1>shouldn't have said that. That was me getting frustrated because

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, Okay, the paper towels is one thing,

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<v Speaker 1>the wine was another thing, the appetizer is another thing.

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<v Speaker 1>Because I wasn't, I was. I got so frustrated. I'm talking.

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<v Speaker 1>I st you guys, stopped talking. I heard this already.

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<v Speaker 1>I heard it the last sun. I'm hearing it again.

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<v Speaker 1>You're just repeating yourself, you know, if, like, if you

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<v Speaker 1>keep focusing on little insignificant things and being a rude everybody, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know how women do stand to go on

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<v Speaker 1>a day with you. It's no wonder. You've been divorced twice?

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<v Speaker 1>Who what? Who? Who? You just brought up my two divorces,

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<v Speaker 1>so my ex wives I share that with you. Are

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<v Speaker 1>you kidding me? I mean, that's rude, that that's that's

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<v Speaker 1>that's mean. But that's an example. It's two strikes. And

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<v Speaker 1>so this woman clearly couldn't deal with all of your crap,

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<v Speaker 1>my crap, my crap because I want good customer service,

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<v Speaker 1>because I'm at a restaurant and I want some customer

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<v Speaker 1>human brain and be respype. That's full about it. You were,

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<v Speaker 1>respectfully just brought up That's why this is how people

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<v Speaker 1>in the service industry. You don't know if it's threatened people.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what. I'm in the sales industry. You know what.

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<v Speaker 1>I take care of customers. They need to take care

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<v Speaker 1>of customers. You should know them. I mean, we're in

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<v Speaker 1>this industry. But I don't even know what to say.

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<v Speaker 1>I've stayed in my case. I don't know. In the

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<v Speaker 1>surface industry, sometimes you have to put your foot down

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<v Speaker 1>to get some respect. So I was doing that with

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<v Speaker 1>the waiter in the restaurant, and you know what, I

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<v Speaker 1>think you need to show me a little respect, because

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I was defending you. I think so too.

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<v Speaker 1>That's why I'd like to ask Christina, would you like

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<v Speaker 1>to go on a second date with Julian? We will

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<v Speaker 1>pay for it. Hell no, no, no, I don't you

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<v Speaker 1>answered so quickly there, You know, if you talk to

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<v Speaker 1>me like that, no way, Julie, Are you sure? I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I could find you, guys a great restaurant that Julian

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<v Speaker 1>could burn down. A gonna pass on that. You know what,

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<v Speaker 1>if you want to settle for mediocre service, then you

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to go date some schleck who will take

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<v Speaker 1>you to the drive through. I want to go to

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<v Speaker 1>a four star restaurants where they treat you like a customer.

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<v Speaker 1>We're right, we are supposed to get this stuff. Come on,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, really think you know what? You know what?

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<v Speaker 1>You've pushed the envelope so far. I was fine just

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<v Speaker 1>knocking another date with you, but you know what, I

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<v Speaker 1>really don't want to do business with someone who has

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<v Speaker 1>FTHX like you. Oh oh, now you're taking personal and

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<v Speaker 1>you're putting it in business. Really, I'm going to tell

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<v Speaker 1>the people I work with my company will not be

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<v Speaker 1>doing business that's your company anymore. Are you cheating me

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<v Speaker 1>based on a date? You know it wasn't a date,

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<v Speaker 1>it was your attitude that did it. I am done

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<v Speaker 1>with this conversation. Goodbye. Wow, Julian, what just happened? You

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<v Speaker 1>didn't get a second date? And I think you might

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<v Speaker 1>be losing your job soon too, because I want customer service. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's because you're threatened to burn the place down. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you're a total douche bag about it. I apologize for

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<v Speaker 1>the burning the place down. I mean that was you know,

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<v Speaker 1>it was one batting after another and it pushed me beyond.

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<v Speaker 1>But but I mean the rest of the stuff was

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<v Speaker 1>all customer service. A slow service, bad food, wrong glasses. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we know. The lest man broke and jubil in the morning.