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Speaker 1: Rooking Jubels. Second, you know how the old saying goes,

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Speaker 1: don't dip your wiener in the company penholders saying, don't

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Speaker 1: give your wiener to a co worker's in the company

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Speaker 1: and the company Oh ink, I'm the weird one. I'm

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Speaker 1: saying it wrong. I don't know anyway. Julian is on

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Speaker 1: said that he met the girl who he wants to

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Speaker 1: are you guys? Good? So you're trying to dip your

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Speaker 1: wiener in the penning, right? Is that what this is about? No, No,

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Speaker 1: it's not at all. Okay, tell us a little bit

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Speaker 1: about the girl that you want to call today. She's

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Speaker 1: a co worker, Well, she's not a co worker. She

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Speaker 1: came in purchasing supplies at the office that I work at,

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Speaker 1: deal there? So did you ask her out while she

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Speaker 1: came in to deal with Like? No, because I think

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Speaker 1: that's unprofessional. Basically, what happened is she came in and

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Speaker 1: however you want to say it. I didn't want to

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Speaker 1: Dinner was good. I mean, I feel like we had

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Speaker 1: Now why I like it at all? Actually, you're making

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Speaker 1: why do you think she's not calling you back? You know,

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I mean, there were a couple of things.

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Speaker 1: Now I'm trying to run the night through my head

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Speaker 1: I knew it. Don't talking to you that you're a

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Speaker 1: saying wait, wait, wait, But first off, you have to

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Speaker 1: go on doll the phone of it right now? Hello, Hi,

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Speaker 1: can I speak to Christina please? Yeah? This is she Christina?

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Speaker 1: How are you? This is Jewel from Brooke and Jewel

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Speaker 1: in the Morning. Who is this Jebil from Brooke and

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Speaker 1: Jewel in the Morning, the radio show. Um, okay, why

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Speaker 1: He told us, you know, you're like a client where

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Speaker 1: they was a fancy restaurant and then establishment, and people

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Speaker 1: on about this tiny and significant thing that how dare they?

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Speaker 1: It is annoying when they don't have favorite towels. I

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Speaker 1: get that pissed off about it. It's not angry, it's annoying. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: As he's leaving, he says, I paid forty dollars for

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Speaker 1: Who what? Who? Who? You just brought up my two divorces,

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Speaker 1: with this conversation. Goodbye. Wow, Julian, what just happened? You

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Speaker 1: you're a total douche bag about it. I apologize for

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