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Speaker 1: The second date of date. Is it possible to be

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Speaker 1: too hot to date? Asking for a friend?

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Speaker 2: Nobody in this room could answer you.

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Speaker 1: Seriously.

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Speaker 3: If you look on TikTok right now, there's all these

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Speaker 3: videos of beautiful models complaining that no men will approach

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, my best friend is gorgeous and she

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Speaker 2: always had that problem.

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Speaker 4: Yeah to them.

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Speaker 3: It was all part of Hoosa's hashtag ask a Hot

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Speaker 3: Girl out without peeing yourself challenge.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, didn't go so pants.

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Speaker 3: That might be the problem that one of our listeners, Kristen,

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Speaker 3: is facing in her love life right now. She's worried

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Speaker 3: maybe she was too attractive during her first date.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god.

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Speaker 2: Okay, we'll try not to make fun of you right

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Speaker 2: out of the gate.

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Speaker 1: I don't feel sorry for you already. We want to

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Speaker 1: learn more how you doing.

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Speaker 5: I'm sorry? Can I just this was a one nighte phenomenon.

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Speaker 5: I am not that hot a true hot girl.

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Speaker 1: Anyway, we'll hang up on this girl.

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Speaker 2: What happened?

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Speaker 3: We're just joking around with you, krist tell us about

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Speaker 3: the guy that you ended up going out with. What's

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Speaker 5: His name is ben I don't even know if you

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Speaker 5: could call it going out. Last week, I was supposed

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Speaker 5: to meet up with my friend just get some drinks

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Speaker 5: or whatever. Girls nights. I have this thing where I

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Speaker 5: like to wear these one piece outfits now, like a jumper.

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Speaker 3: Like a jumper yeap oh yeah yeah, like those babies

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Speaker 3: wear that you zip up from the foot.

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Speaker 1: All the way to the neck.

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Speaker 2: Like I will say, I wish they had a zipper

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Speaker 2: down the wall, because going to the bathroom in a jumper.

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Speaker 5: Is really.

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Speaker 1: Okay, sorry, I keep going. You're you're looking good.

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Speaker 5: So I'm sitting at the bar waiting for my friend

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Speaker 5: and she is running late, and meanwhile guys are like

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Speaker 5: sending me drinks, the bartenders flirting with me.

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Speaker 2: Okay girl.

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Speaker 5: And there's this one guy in particular who is just

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Speaker 5: like absolutely my type from head to toe. Like he

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Speaker 5: was even wearing like the outfit my high schoo will

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Speaker 5: crush you through it. That was like my favorite outfit

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Speaker 5: with like green corduroys and a little black polo shirt.

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Speaker 5: And he had a beard just like he was way

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Speaker 5: taller than me.

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Speaker 1: It's good, it's good that you got over him. So

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Speaker 1: did the ban approach you?

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Speaker 2: Then?

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Speaker 5: No? I mean, I thought maybe he was looking my

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Speaker 5: way a little bit, but like I said, I was

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Speaker 5: really feeling myself. So I went up to him.

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Speaker 2: As you watch all the other boys be jealous.

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Speaker 5: Cool.

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Speaker 1: In your situation, jealous.

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Speaker 5: About this. Well, okay, here's where it gets a little

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Speaker 5: bit weird because I've never had anything like this happened

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Speaker 5: to me before. So I'm like, I'm sitting with him,

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Speaker 5: and I'm chatting with him, and I'm clearly into him,

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Speaker 5: and the bartender comes over and interrupts because some other

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Speaker 5: guys sent me a drink.

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Speaker 3: Nice while you're talking to the guy that you wanted

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Speaker 3: and competitive the guy being like, hey, bro, sorry, I

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Speaker 3: see you.

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Speaker 1: She walked to you, but I still got a retention

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Speaker 1: over here.

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Speaker 2: You like that? Did did he seem to like that,

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Speaker 2: like as like a challenge or did he seem to

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Speaker 5: I mean, he had a beard, so it's pretty hard

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Speaker 5: to tell.

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Speaker 1: Was he mostly beard? No idea?

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Speaker 2: Like I was actually bore like five o'clock shadow, no

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Speaker 2: Santa Claus.

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Speaker 5: That was like a little bit awkward. So I kind

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Speaker 5: of used that as an opportunity to like show him

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Speaker 5: that I was into him. So I kind of looked

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Speaker 5: at the other guy like, uh, thanks, but what the heck,

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Speaker 5: and just ignored him and went back to talking to Ben.

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Speaker 1: Actually must have made him feel good.

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Speaker 5: Like wow, but here's the thing, guys. Then it happened again.

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Speaker 2: What whoa wait? Same dude, like, same.

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Speaker 5: Dude, kid, now different dude.

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Speaker 1: Can you send me a link to your jumps? I

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Speaker 5: I had like some sort of magical magnetism going on,

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Speaker 5: and I just I just I like saluted that guy awkwardly,

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Speaker 5: like okay, captain, and I'm.

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Speaker 2: Thinking about setting you a drink right now.

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Speaker 1: The bar seems like the coolest place.

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Speaker 3: It's got captains, it's got lumberjacks Brooks over.

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Speaker 1: In the back saying like, how do you do.

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Speaker 4: Mama?

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Speaker 5: Tell them because I'm out of your commentation.

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Speaker 1: That's the weirdest bar. How did this interaction between you

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Speaker 1: and Ben? How did that end?

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Speaker 5: Well? I mean, eventually my friend let me know that

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Speaker 5: she wasn't coming, and I was like, that's actually fine.

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Speaker 1: I forgot about and we.

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Speaker 5: Hung out for the rest of the night, had a

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Speaker 5: fantastic night. He gave me his number, I gave him

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Speaker 5: my number. Yeah, And I mean that's basically been did

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Speaker 2: Him if he was single, like, point blank, Oh.

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Speaker 5: My god, no, I have not. Actually, this is mind blowing.

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Speaker 1: Because even if he wasn't interested in you.

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Speaker 3: The fact that you were like literally swatting other men

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Speaker 3: away in front of him and then telling him you

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Speaker 1: That alone would make it.

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Speaker 2: Guy, just make all you back attention. Not him.

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Speaker 5: I've been theorizing because obviously I've been thinking about nothing

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Speaker 5: but since and maybe he like stalked me online and

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Speaker 5: is like, Okay, she's not always that hot.

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Speaker 2: Oh it's like when they turn the lights on at

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Speaker 2: the end of the night.

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Speaker 5: Of the bar and you're like, do you have to understand? Like,

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Speaker 5: for me, the onesie thing, the whole thing is I

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Speaker 5: don't have to put an outfit together. It's like no effort.

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Speaker 5: So it's like I don't want to make up.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's true. I'm with you.

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Speaker 3: Okay, you and your magic onesie hold on. We're gonna

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Speaker 3: play a song that we'll call Ben for you, and

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Speaker 3: we'll try and get your second date update.

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Speaker 5: Okay, Okay, I'm suddenly feeling very.

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Speaker 4: Hot.

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Speaker 1: Got this hold on update.

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Speaker 2: You're in the middle of a second date update update,

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Speaker 2: and we're gonna find out how the couple is doing

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Speaker 2: right after you here part two.

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Speaker 3: Hey, if you're just joining us, it's the sequel to

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Speaker 3: Joseph and the Amazing Technical or Dream cot Listen and

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Speaker 3: the Magic Do Attracting Onesie wants to link because she

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Speaker 3: went out and wore this one specific jumper that made

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Speaker 3: her look real fine that night. So guys at the

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Speaker 3: bar kept sending her drinks, which was a good thing,

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Speaker 3: except it was happening while she was sitting down with

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Speaker 3: a sexy lumberjack type named Ben who's apparently more beard

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Speaker 3: than body.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but she's worried.

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Speaker 3: Maybe all that attention from other guys was a little

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Speaker 3: bit intimidating to Ben and it could have scared him away.

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Speaker 2: How could a guy with a beard like that be intimidated.

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Speaker 5: I don't know what happened, but he's not asking me out,

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Speaker 5: so I mean, whatever it is, I want to know.

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Speaker 3: Maybe his beard got caught on the door and he's

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Speaker 3: just he can't get home to make the call to you.

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Speaker 1: So let's find out here we go. Hello, Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: it sounds right. Hey, is this Ben the beard?

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Speaker 4: What I mean? Ben?

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Speaker 1: Ben with a beard. This is Ben. Sorry, he sounded

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Speaker 1: exactly like I thought. I think Ben just flustered everyone

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Speaker 3: My name is jeff I also have a beard, but

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Speaker 3: probably not as nice as yours. I host a morning

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Speaker 3: radio show called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning, and

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Speaker 3: we're hoping to talk with you a little bit.

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Speaker 2: Uh. You can also hear some podcasts too, if you

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Speaker 2: want to look us up on like Spotify, any of that.

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Speaker 2: We're there.

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Speaker 4: Uh all right, cool, that's all we wanted to say.

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Speaker 1: Thanks for your time.

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Speaker 2: Den.

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Speaker 3: Sometimes, No, we're really calling because we're doing something called

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Speaker 3: a second date update. We're trying to help one of

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Speaker 3: our listeners get a hold of you. Okay, her name's Kristen,

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Speaker 3: and you met her out at the bar.

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Speaker 1: The other night.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it wasn't really a first date.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, uh, I don't know.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, you don't remember Kristen. She had a

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Speaker 4: No, oh my gosh, I do know. I know who

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we got to talk to her. She sounded awesome,

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Speaker 1: She wasn't like full of herself at all. Yeah, really fun.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, she's super fun. She's right, Okay, I'm sorry she

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Speaker 3: She said that she met you out at the bar

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Speaker 3: the other night and was having a really nice time.

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Speaker 3: And then afterwards, it's been kind of hard getting ahold

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Speaker 1: Why.

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Speaker 4: Wow, this is this is so crazy.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I know this isn't a normal thing that happens,

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Speaker 3: but we're really hoping to help her out because she's

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Speaker 4: Who does that? Who does that? That's so she's just

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Speaker 2: What did she do something to you?

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Speaker 4: I don't know, I was the situation was like I

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Speaker 4: But I mean like she got like a drink from

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Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, you mentioned that to us a little bit.

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Speaker 3: Is that something that intimidated you?

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Speaker 4: I mean not really not at first. I mean I

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Speaker 4: like a second time, I was like, oh, he don't

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but how are you How are you blaming her?

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Speaker 4: That's not her fault. So, like, the situation that happened

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Speaker 4: know you know you're not causing a scene, right and.

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Speaker 3: But if you're like, hey, man, politely, I'm trying to

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Speaker 2: So what did he say?

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Speaker 4: He said he didn't send it.

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Speaker 2: What Oh, so then you just obviously got the wrong dude, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: like it was somebody else.

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Speaker 1: The bartender said it wrong.

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Speaker 4: No, because like the bartender pointed to the guy out,

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Speaker 1: They're across the room. So the bartender was like.

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Speaker 2: From him, So you went to the bartender.

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Speaker 4: So I walked over the bartender and I asked the

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Speaker 2: He just pointed the dude out.

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Speaker 1: I didn't want to.

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Speaker 3: Start or something, he say.

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Speaker 4: It was just weird that he was being coy and

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Speaker 4: I called that out. I was like, why do you

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Speaker 4: is something that she did.

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Speaker 1: That Kristen does.

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Speaker 4: She pays the bartender to like send a drink to

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Speaker 3: Really, way do you believe that I'm going to start

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Speaker 2: You think?

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Speaker 1: Do you think that's true?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, because the second he like admitted it, he was like,

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Speaker 4: don't tell her. She does this often, Like she comes

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Speaker 2: Or soot like he doesn't he did it for like

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Speaker 2: a few months. He though, that's kind of nice.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm about to keep track of that sneaky trick.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so you think that's a red flag? You don't

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Speaker 4: That's so it's so weird that.

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Speaker 2: I feel like it's just trying to pump up her

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Speaker 2: going to go approach another guy, which is a really

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Speaker 3: True, it's I mean, it sounds so outlandis you guys

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Speaker 1: I'm still not sure if this is actually true. Okay,

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Speaker 1: I think we should.

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Speaker 3: Just ask Kristin directly. Kristin, did you pay the bartender

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Speaker 5: Of course not.

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Speaker 4: That's ridiculous, Ben, I forgot to tell you.

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Speaker 1: Persons on the other line listening, she wants to talk

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Speaker 5: So embarrassing.

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Speaker 4: I'm embarrassed, but this is embarrassing for everyone.

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Speaker 5: Okay, first of all, that is not even Drew. That's

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Speaker 5: complete nonsense. I would never do that. But let's say

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Speaker 5: theoretically someone did that. That's hilarious. I don't believe. No.

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Speaker 5: I was listening and Ben's all like, oh, she's messed up,

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Speaker 5: And I'm like, have you never seen the movie.

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Speaker 2: Clueless and Clueless?

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Speaker 5: Remember she sends herself talkless and slow?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, in high school.

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Speaker 2: I don't think they could be.

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Speaker 1: At a year to somebody that's denying it. You sure

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Speaker 5: Oh my god, you guys, a magician never reveals their secret.

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Speaker 1: Go okay, let me.

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Speaker 3: Get Is it not even that cute?

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Speaker 1: Then I'm kind of like, I.

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Speaker 2: Mean, here's the thing. Does it even matter? Like? Who cares?

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Speaker 2: She sounds awesome.

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Speaker 4: I mean you can kind of hear what she's saying

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Speaker 4: And I'm like, if you're starting off on the wrong

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Speaker 5: So you are like, I feel like you're taking this

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Speaker 4: Well, then if you think that I'm taking it too seriously,

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Speaker 4: then just own up to it. Then I'll ask you again,

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Speaker 4: did you do it?

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Speaker 5: Yeah? Of course I did.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I love it though a flirty It's like all

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Speaker 5: It works.

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Speaker 2: It's what dating is. It's like, you know, trying to

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Speaker 2: She just used a different method.

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Speaker 3: Well, I'm sorry to interrupt this conversation, but I do

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Speaker 3: wants to send you a gift card to go on

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Speaker 1: Would you like that gift card?

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Speaker 5: Ben?

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Speaker 3: Because Ben, if you say yes, then you can go

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Speaker 3: out with Kristen one more time.

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Speaker 1: We'll pay for that.

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Speaker 5: Uh, you know what?

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Speaker 4: Sure? Yeah, why not? But you have one strike against

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Speaker 4: you right now? You know you on a warning.

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Speaker 2: Okay, sounds like a naughty thing.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, okay, agree. You know I have never ever cheated

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Speaker 1: You have to insist that no one asked.

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Speaker 4: Worry.

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Speaker 2: It's freaking Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 3: It's been a few months since we did that second date,

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Speaker 3: and we were supposed to have Ben and Kristen back

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Speaker 4: But we don't.

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Speaker 3: Only Ben agreed, Kristen actually sent us an email calling

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Speaker 3: Ben a bunch of names.

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Speaker 1: What I don't know why but Ben, can you shed

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Speaker 2: Maybe they were sweetheart, Maybe she was calling you sweetheart

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Speaker 1: That's not the name. I can tell you that. Then

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Speaker 4: I mean, I absolutely know why she refused to be

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Speaker 4: But it was a different one than we went to

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, we give you a gift certificate. So what happened?

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Speaker 2: You had pretend women sending you drinks exactly.

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Speaker 4: That's it. I got that early and I told the bartender.

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Speaker 4: I was like, Hey, I'm gonna sit over there. Missed

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Speaker 4: and maybe wait like five minutes and then can you

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Speaker 4: bring me a vodka soda and sit like point to

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Speaker 4: Do you mind?

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Speaker 1: That's exactly what she did.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I thought it was obvious, obviously funny, right right,

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Speaker 4: But then when the bartender did it, she was furious.

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Speaker 2: Why Why was she so mad? Did she think you

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Speaker 4: Or I don't think that she really got the joke

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Speaker 1: Whoa, she was the one that came up with this joke.

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Speaker 2: It's not as funny when a guy does it.

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Speaker 1: Do the joke, the joke.

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Speaker 2: So she seems so cool, not so unstable.

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Speaker 1: That's what happens with.

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Speaker 3: All those cool girls, the cool one second nightmares the

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Speaker 2: So was that the end? Well?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean I guess she just got a little

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Speaker 2: She really was doing it because she had kind of

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it was a bummer but whatever.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, did you get that woman's number that sent you

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Speaker 4: If I can get it, will you guys help me

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Speaker 2: It obviously went so well the first time. Brook and

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