1 00:00:03,480 --> 00:00:09,480 Speaker 1: Welcome to Before Breakfast, a production of iHeartRadio. Good Morning. 2 00:00:10,960 --> 00:00:15,320 Speaker 1: This is Laura. Welcome to the Before a Breakfast podcast. 3 00:00:16,560 --> 00:00:20,080 Speaker 1: Today's tip is to focus on the services you are 4 00:00:20,079 --> 00:00:26,200 Speaker 1: providing to other people and not on yourself. Doing so 5 00:00:26,400 --> 00:00:30,000 Speaker 1: does tend to raise your profile over time, but has 6 00:00:30,040 --> 00:00:34,960 Speaker 1: the upside of making you less self conscious. However your 7 00:00:34,960 --> 00:00:40,240 Speaker 1: profile goes. Today's tip comes from Shira Gill, who writes 8 00:00:40,240 --> 00:00:43,519 Speaker 1: about organizing and decorating and is the author of the 9 00:00:43,560 --> 00:00:49,520 Speaker 1: forthcoming book lifestyled. In her Substack newsletter, Shara offers five 10 00:00:49,680 --> 00:00:53,800 Speaker 1: lessons for entrepreneurs drawn from her fifteen years of entrepreneurship. 11 00:00:55,160 --> 00:01:01,040 Speaker 1: Lesson one was to focus on service over ego. She writes, 12 00:01:01,200 --> 00:01:05,680 Speaker 1: I've found that when imposter syndrome sneaks in, the best 13 00:01:05,720 --> 00:01:08,319 Speaker 1: way to get out of my own way is to 14 00:01:08,360 --> 00:01:13,000 Speaker 1: shift my focus from am I good enough? To how 15 00:01:13,040 --> 00:01:16,680 Speaker 1: can I help? She goes on to say that scaling 16 00:01:16,720 --> 00:01:20,959 Speaker 1: while keeping service first and ego second will result in 17 00:01:21,040 --> 00:01:26,400 Speaker 1: growth that feeds your spirit and bottom line. I think 18 00:01:26,480 --> 00:01:30,280 Speaker 1: this advice generally makes sense for entrepreneurs and employees alike. 19 00:01:31,400 --> 00:01:34,319 Speaker 1: I do a lot of public speaking, and I could 20 00:01:34,400 --> 00:01:39,360 Speaker 1: obsess forever about how I look on stage and whether 21 00:01:39,400 --> 00:01:43,600 Speaker 1: I'm wearing the right shoes and things like that. But 22 00:01:43,760 --> 00:01:48,160 Speaker 1: ultimately that just makes me nervous and doesn't do much 23 00:01:48,160 --> 00:01:51,680 Speaker 1: for anyone. I am better off focusing on whether I 24 00:01:51,720 --> 00:01:54,240 Speaker 1: am helping my audience figure out ways to manage their 25 00:01:54,280 --> 00:01:58,720 Speaker 1: time better. Do people come away with useful tips to 26 00:01:58,840 --> 00:02:01,760 Speaker 1: the follow up? Surveys indicate that people are trying things 27 00:02:01,840 --> 00:02:06,160 Speaker 1: I suggested. If so, and as long as my shoes 28 00:02:06,160 --> 00:02:11,480 Speaker 1: aren't their own spectacle, things will be fine. Or maybe 29 00:02:11,520 --> 00:02:13,919 Speaker 1: you own a small business and you keep hearing how 30 00:02:13,960 --> 00:02:18,079 Speaker 1: important it is to have professional social media accounts make 31 00:02:18,120 --> 00:02:20,960 Speaker 1: yourself into some sort of influencer in order to promote 32 00:02:20,960 --> 00:02:24,680 Speaker 1: your products. I mean it could be, but are you 33 00:02:24,720 --> 00:02:27,520 Speaker 1: providing great products for your customers? Is at a fair price? 34 00:02:28,480 --> 00:02:31,680 Speaker 1: Are people happy with what they buy? Do they tell 35 00:02:31,720 --> 00:02:35,280 Speaker 1: their friends because they're happy and your products make their 36 00:02:35,280 --> 00:02:41,200 Speaker 1: lives better? Then keep doing that serving your customers and 37 00:02:41,280 --> 00:02:43,880 Speaker 1: people will follow your Instagram account if they want to 38 00:02:44,919 --> 00:02:48,680 Speaker 1: or they won't. But having carefully staged photos of you 39 00:02:49,360 --> 00:02:51,240 Speaker 1: looking a certain way which you may or may not 40 00:02:51,280 --> 00:02:56,600 Speaker 1: look naturally and your products with pithy captions doesn't need 41 00:02:56,639 --> 00:02:59,959 Speaker 1: to be the main thing. Or maybe you're a bank teller, 42 00:03:01,120 --> 00:03:04,760 Speaker 1: you could focus on delivering excellent service to all the 43 00:03:04,800 --> 00:03:08,720 Speaker 1: customers you encounter while being a great colleague to other 44 00:03:08,800 --> 00:03:12,040 Speaker 1: people who work in your bank. You don't need to 45 00:03:12,040 --> 00:03:14,639 Speaker 1: become obsessed with whether you are the brank teller every 46 00:03:14,639 --> 00:03:18,400 Speaker 1: one knows by name. It's about your customers and colleagues 47 00:03:19,160 --> 00:03:22,959 Speaker 1: and not about you. Now. I know that, depending on 48 00:03:23,040 --> 00:03:25,640 Speaker 1: your work configuration, you may need to pay attention to 49 00:03:25,680 --> 00:03:29,120 Speaker 1: your personal brand. You may need to make sure that 50 00:03:29,200 --> 00:03:32,400 Speaker 1: you are spending time on promotable work and that your 51 00:03:32,440 --> 00:03:35,440 Speaker 1: boss knows what you are contributing to the company. I 52 00:03:35,520 --> 00:03:40,120 Speaker 1: get that, but in general, most of your attention should 53 00:03:40,160 --> 00:03:43,640 Speaker 1: be on what you are offering and not on how 54 00:03:43,680 --> 00:03:48,120 Speaker 1: you are seen. Putting service over ego and focusing on 55 00:03:48,240 --> 00:03:51,600 Speaker 1: others means you are more likely to provide what your customers, clients, 56 00:03:51,640 --> 00:03:56,480 Speaker 1: and colleagues need that will benefit then. More likely than not, 57 00:03:56,760 --> 00:04:00,880 Speaker 1: it will also benefit you professionally over time. But you'll 58 00:04:00,920 --> 00:04:03,880 Speaker 1: definitely feel less self conscious about being in front of people. 59 00:04:05,480 --> 00:04:10,120 Speaker 1: No need for impostor syndrome, because no one is an 60 00:04:10,160 --> 00:04:17,120 Speaker 1: impostor when they are genuinely serving others. In the meantime. 61 00:04:18,080 --> 00:04:22,800 Speaker 1: This is Laura Thanks for listening, and here's to making 62 00:04:22,839 --> 00:04:33,359 Speaker 1: the most of our time. Thanks for listening to Before Breakfast. 63 00:04:33,920 --> 00:04:37,640 Speaker 1: If you've got questions, ideas, or feedback, you can reach 64 00:04:37,720 --> 00:04:47,400 Speaker 1: me at Laura at Laura vandercam dot com. Before Breakfast 65 00:04:47,440 --> 00:04:51,680 Speaker 1: is a production of iHeartMedia. For more podcasts from iHeartMedia, 66 00:04:51,760 --> 00:04:55,800 Speaker 1: please visit the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you 67 00:04:55,839 --> 00:04:57,120 Speaker 1: listen to your favorite shows.