WEBVTT - Miracle on The Hudson

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome everyone.

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<v Speaker 2>This is NY and TJ.

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<v Speaker 1>And this is actually a very special anniversary. I know

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<v Speaker 1>that how many years have you been in the business

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<v Speaker 1>covering events? And twenty five twenty five years, twenty seven

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<v Speaker 1>plus for me, Can you recall TJ ever covering a

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<v Speaker 1>plane crash where anyone survived?

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<v Speaker 3>That is, I can only remember one. I'm trying to

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<v Speaker 3>think of another, um and that's tough right now, I

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<v Speaker 3>can't come up with it right.

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<v Speaker 1>You're looking for a survivor, if anyone survived. But I

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<v Speaker 1>think we all can remember fifteen years ago. That's the

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<v Speaker 1>crazy part where there was a plane crash and you

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<v Speaker 1>didn't just have some survivors or a survivor, but you

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<v Speaker 1>had one hundred fifty five survivors. Everyone on board, passengers

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<v Speaker 1>and crew survive. Of course, we are talking about the

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<v Speaker 1>miracle on the Hudson, and I covered it. I was

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<v Speaker 1>with another network, just from the desk as an anchor.

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<v Speaker 1>You were actually on the ground. You were at CNN

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<v Speaker 1>when this all went I.

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<v Speaker 3>Was, yeah. So I was in Atlanta with CNN, which

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<v Speaker 3>was where most of the shows are coming out of

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<v Speaker 3>at that time, and it was an easy flight over

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<v Speaker 3>to Charlotte because Charlotte is where that plane was headed,

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<v Speaker 3>and so many folks on that plane were trying to

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<v Speaker 3>get home, So they didn't make it on that flight.

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<v Speaker 3>At least a lot of them caught the next one,

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<v Speaker 3>and I was there to receive them at the airport

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<v Speaker 3>in Charlotte. When Yeah, those survivors, it's crazy to think

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<v Speaker 3>you were just in a plane crash and then you

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<v Speaker 3>ran and got onto the plane.

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<v Speaker 1>Some of them did some of that, not everyone did.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know that.

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<v Speaker 2>Would you have done that?

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<v Speaker 1>Would you have jumped on a plane right after?

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<v Speaker 3>You know what? I think? So, because what are the chants?

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<v Speaker 3>There's no way I'm going to be involved in two

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<v Speaker 3>plane crashes.

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<v Speaker 1>Lightning doesn't strike twice back to back day.

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<v Speaker 3>There's no way. And plus I know how you are.

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<v Speaker 3>I am sure you would have gotten on a plane.

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<v Speaker 3>I am sure because I got to get home the schedule,

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<v Speaker 3>you got a plan. I am sure you would have

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<v Speaker 3>gotten on a plane.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, it is, and it continues to be an unthinkable miracle. Actually,

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<v Speaker 1>of course, Captain Sully Sullenberg safely landing US Airways fifteen

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<v Speaker 1>forty nine in the icy Hudson River. I think it

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<v Speaker 1>was like twenty something degrees outside that day, a flock

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<v Speaker 1>of geese in case you don't remember, took out his

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<v Speaker 1>engines and forced a crash landing, and incredibly, Sully as

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<v Speaker 1>he is affectionately referred, landed that plane on the Hudson

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<v Speaker 1>and everyone made it out okay. And it is a

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<v Speaker 1>story that we don't want to forget because there aren't

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<v Speaker 1>many stories like this that have this kind of ending.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's not even just about the miracle of the landing.

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<v Speaker 1>But I think what's really remarkable about this story is

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<v Speaker 1>it fifteen years later. It's not the crash, it's what

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<v Speaker 1>happened after the crash to so many of these survivors.

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<v Speaker 1>When you go through something that is truly a near

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<v Speaker 1>death experience, you don't live the same way that you

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<v Speaker 1>did before. And I spoke to one of the survivors

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<v Speaker 1>way back, and I'll never forget this woman. She said

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<v Speaker 1>to me, everyone at some point in their life has

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<v Speaker 1>their plane crash. It's what you do with your life

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<v Speaker 1>afterwards that counts. And so we have two of the

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<v Speaker 1>survivors from that incredible miracle like fifteen forty nine with

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<v Speaker 1>us today on this podcast, fifteen years later to the date,

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<v Speaker 1>to not only talk about what they went through, but

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<v Speaker 1>how this impacted and changed their lives forever, how they

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<v Speaker 1>live differently. So we want to welcome Jim Whittaker and

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<v Speaker 1>Valley Collins to the podcast to honor what they went

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<v Speaker 1>through and to talk about where they are are now

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<v Speaker 1>because it is such an incredible journey to get to

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<v Speaker 1>this day.

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<v Speaker 2>So welcome.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you for being here, Jim and Valley, Hi, thanks

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<v Speaker 1>for having us.

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<v Speaker 4>Hey, folks, thanks for the invitation.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, Jim, I'll ask you, we were just kind of

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<v Speaker 3>joking here about whether or not we would have gotten

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<v Speaker 3>on a plane right after that. Is this right you?

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<v Speaker 3>I think you've told this story over the years. Not

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<v Speaker 3>only did you get on a plane pretty soon, you

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<v Speaker 3>were lit to RelA on the phone trying to book

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<v Speaker 3>another flight, very very soon, maybe even while the plane

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<v Speaker 3>was still sitting there on the hutst and you hadn't

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<v Speaker 3>even gotten the dry land yet.

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<v Speaker 4>I have flown a few flights and I mistakenly thought

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<v Speaker 4>US Airways would be ready for a crash and to

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<v Speaker 4>rebook survivors. But I was wrong every single day. So yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>when I first called US Airways at the time, US

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<v Speaker 4>are Ways, it was very funny because I did call

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<v Speaker 4>and say, hey, I'm a crash survivor. I'd like to

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<v Speaker 4>get on another airplane, and they didn't get it. They

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<v Speaker 4>thought it was a sicker joke than normal, because it literally,

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<v Speaker 4>by the time I called, had not even made it

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<v Speaker 4>to the wire yet inside of the carrier, which was

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<v Speaker 4>beyond bizarre. And then by the time we even got

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<v Speaker 4>to the airport later that night, those folks at the

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<v Speaker 4>counter still didn't know there had been an airplane crash.

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<v Speaker 4>And all I had for an ID was a library

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<v Speaker 4>card and we wanted to get on an airplane and

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<v Speaker 4>go home.

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<v Speaker 3>But I'm still struggling of your mindset. You just went

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<v Speaker 3>through something that traumatic and you don't even have time

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<v Speaker 3>to process it before you were literally trying to get

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<v Speaker 3>back on another plane.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, I was defective before I was only a little

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<v Speaker 4>bit more defective.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a great And you know, Jim, I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>that you know this, but I believe you and TJ

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<v Speaker 1>might have met fifteen years ago.

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<v Speaker 3>That was, and I might have interviewed you because I

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<v Speaker 3>was there at the Charlotte Airport waiting on that plane

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<v Speaker 3>to land, and it was we were all waiting, so

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<v Speaker 3>many reporters and photographers were there like, we don't know

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<v Speaker 3>which ones are going to be the survivors, Like what

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<v Speaker 3>does a plane crash survivor look like? We're like, oh, okay,

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<v Speaker 3>which ones are going to be? It was not easy

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<v Speaker 3>to identify, hard to identify you guys, because you were

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<v Speaker 3>wearing Red Cross blankets as like a badge of honor

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<v Speaker 3>when you got out. And also most of y'all were

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<v Speaker 3>half drunk. They were giving y'all free drinks on the

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<v Speaker 3>flight on the way, which they should have, but you

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<v Speaker 3>all got all You're the happiest plane crash survivors I'd

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<v Speaker 3>ever seen.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, I think it was the Red Cross blanket that

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<v Speaker 4>did it, tj. That may be a matter of opinion.

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<v Speaker 4>Was but it was the free swag from having been

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<v Speaker 4>a crash survivor getting a Red Cross blanket to some

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<v Speaker 4>kind of gold star.

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<v Speaker 1>And Jim, you said your clothing was still wet when

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<v Speaker 1>you got off that plane.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I was being chilly, but it's true and Valley

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<v Speaker 4>would know the same story. But by the time the

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<v Speaker 4>plane stopped moving in the river inside was taking on

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<v Speaker 4>water very quickly. So having survived to an airplane crashed,

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<v Speaker 4>the next scare was I really don't want to drown

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<v Speaker 4>floating down the river in the middle of the winter.

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<v Speaker 4>So yeah, we were all plenty of wet on the

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<v Speaker 4>inset before we got off the airplane and were rescued

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<v Speaker 4>to the shoreline. But then something about walking around the

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<v Speaker 4>rest of the day in wet clothes, it's just really

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<v Speaker 4>not a cool feeling. So I was free to go home.

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<v Speaker 1>I can only imagine and Valley. I was actually able

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<v Speaker 1>to speak to both of you a couple of years ago,

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<v Speaker 1>which was it's pretty awesome to be able to come

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<v Speaker 1>back five years later and see how you're doing. But

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<v Speaker 1>I remember I asked you what your seat number was,

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<v Speaker 1>twenty six D. You'll never forget that, never as long

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<v Speaker 1>as I live.

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<v Speaker 2>No, actually my seat was twenty sixty was my assigned seat.

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<v Speaker 2>But after the birds hit, I got up in the

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<v Speaker 2>aisle because the flight attendant was trying to get something

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<v Speaker 2>behind my seat, and the empty seat next to me

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<v Speaker 2>was twenty six E. Because we had one baby on boards,

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<v Speaker 2>we had an empty seat, so the flight attendant told

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<v Speaker 2>me to sit in that middle seat. So I started

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<v Speaker 2>in twenty six DY, but I landed in twenty six E.

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<v Speaker 2>I still claim twenty six.

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<v Speaker 3>D landed, landed.

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<v Speaker 2>How azing is that?

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<v Speaker 1>Landing on the Hudson not just your regular runway. I

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<v Speaker 1>want to ask you both in Valley. I'll start with you.

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<v Speaker 1>What is it like to hear the phrase coming from

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<v Speaker 1>the captain of the plane brace for impact? What's the

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<v Speaker 1>first thing you think? What's the first thing you do?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, the first thing I thought the gentleman at the window.

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<v Speaker 2>He had been looking out and he told me we

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<v Speaker 2>were going into the river, So I you know, he said,

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<v Speaker 2>be ready, we're going in the water. So like right

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<v Speaker 2>about the time that Sullenberger said brace for impact. So

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<v Speaker 2>I'm just thinking airplane water landing. This plane's going to cartwheel,

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<v Speaker 2>gonna bust into a lot of pieces. So, Valley, if

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<v Speaker 2>you're conscious, just swim to the light. That's just what

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<v Speaker 2>I told myselone. I'm a person I always wmot have

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<v Speaker 2>a plan, and that was my plan that if I

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<v Speaker 2>was awake and conscious, just well the seat, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>unbuckle the seat belt and start swimming towards the light. Now,

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<v Speaker 2>before the brace for impact comment or you know, hea

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<v Speaker 2>announcer from Sullenberger, I was pretty aware we were in

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<v Speaker 2>a dire situation. My seat mate had told me there

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<v Speaker 2>was birds. I could smell the smoke. We didn't have

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<v Speaker 2>any other thrusts, so, you know, in those moments, my

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<v Speaker 2>thoughts were more of just about raising my children, not

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<v Speaker 2>getting to see them hit all those milestones. I literally

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<v Speaker 2>I sent my husband a text message that said, my

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<v Speaker 2>flight is crashing, because I didn't want him to wonder

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<v Speaker 2>for an hour or a day or a week, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>to get confirmation. Because this was back, because it is

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<v Speaker 2>fifteen years ago. We didn't have Google calendars. We didn't

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<v Speaker 2>keep up with what airline, what flight number, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>we just weren't. We traveled all the time, so I thought,

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<v Speaker 2>he doesn't even know I'm on board the plane. So

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<v Speaker 2>those were That's kind of what I got done in

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<v Speaker 2>the three and a half minutes from when the birds

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<v Speaker 2>hit to EVA.

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<v Speaker 1>Three and a half minutes. Jim, what did you do?

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<v Speaker 4>Well? Valley's description was a good one. There was already

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<v Speaker 4>plenty of pandemonium going on because remember from wheels up

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<v Speaker 4>to impact with the birds. It was only ninety seconds,

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<v Speaker 4>but everything was at full thrust. Typical day in the

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<v Speaker 4>aviation business, right, So from the moment of the bird impact,

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<v Speaker 4>pandemonium was quick to start. Of course, and then the

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<v Speaker 4>command to brace for impact only made everything exponentially worse

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<v Speaker 4>on the inside of the airplane. And you know, there's

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<v Speaker 4>there's probably not a set of words that does justice

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<v Speaker 4>to the things that Value was talking about and what

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<v Speaker 4>we both experienced, because that's just one of those worst

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<v Speaker 4>moments where you just wouldn't be able to describe another

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<v Speaker 4>human where people are so between total silence to praying

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<v Speaker 4>out loud, to screaming and crying to cursing in anger.

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<v Speaker 4>It was the fullest, braw range of emotions you could

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<v Speaker 4>possibly imagine ever hearing at one time. So it was

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<v Speaker 4>it was as raw a moment as I've of course

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<v Speaker 4>ever experienced in life.

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<v Speaker 3>But you you talk about the range of emotion and

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<v Speaker 3>a range of thoughts, Valley was just mentioning talking about

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<v Speaker 3>her kids, wanting to be there for our kids and

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<v Speaker 3>raise their kids. But Jim in that and right ninety

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<v Speaker 3>seconds the impact happens with the birds, and then another

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<v Speaker 3>essentially ninety seconds and you're in the river. What though,

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<v Speaker 3>at what point in those three minutes did it switch

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<v Speaker 3>from oh my god, I'm going to die to oh wow,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm going to survive this thing.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, everyone has their own experience, and everyone has their

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<v Speaker 4>own faith tradition, so that the thought of dying wasn't

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<v Speaker 4>really that so called scary to me. But I was

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<v Speaker 4>way preoccupied because I was the dummy. They got to

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<v Speaker 4>stand by seat, so I was sitting next to the

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<v Speaker 4>woman with the baby.

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<v Speaker 2>I was really.

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<v Speaker 4>Preoccupied by a nine month old that was practically as

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<v Speaker 4>big as his mother, crawling everywhere. So for me, that

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<v Speaker 4>whole experience was really really small in the fact that

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<v Speaker 4>it was between two humans that had never met one

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<v Speaker 4>another before and a mother that was separated from her

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<v Speaker 4>husband and another child on board and clearly terrified in

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<v Speaker 4>not knowing what to do with this rambunctious baby. So me,

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<v Speaker 4>like a fool, being a father of five, said hey,

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<v Speaker 4>let me hold your baby. And she was incredibly, incredibly courageous.

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<v Speaker 4>As I'm sure you all have heard the story before,

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<v Speaker 4>is she actually surrendered and gave up her child to

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<v Speaker 4>someone else that she thought, maybe because he was a nut,

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<v Speaker 4>was going to somehow be able to protect this child

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<v Speaker 4>as we were going in the river.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow, that is incredible. I'm curious, Bally, what actually goes

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<v Speaker 1>through your mind? Did you believe you were going to

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<v Speaker 1>die and do you see your life flash before you do?

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<v Speaker 1>Things seem like they happened in slow motion. What were

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<v Speaker 1>those three and a half minutes like?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, to echo what Jim said, I don't think I

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<v Speaker 2>was so scared of dying. I've always been a person

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<v Speaker 2>of faith, so I remember thinking, well, God, this is

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<v Speaker 2>your will. I accepted. I'm not crazy about it, but

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<v Speaker 2>I accept it, and I do at that point. I

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<v Speaker 2>was thirty seven years old that day and three of

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<v Speaker 2>my four grandparents were still alive, so the one grandparent

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<v Speaker 2>that had passed, I just thought, well, he's going to

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<v Speaker 2>be there waiting on me. So I wasn't so scared

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<v Speaker 2>of dying. I was just more selfishly. I mean, it's

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<v Speaker 2>fomo at the max. Okay, I was so sad about

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<v Speaker 2>all the things I was going to miss out on

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<v Speaker 2>in my family's life. That's what really made me so sad.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, I'm not a perfect mother, but I am

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<v Speaker 2>their mother, and my children were four, six, and nine

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<v Speaker 2>on that day, so I knew it's going to totally

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<v Speaker 2>impact their life significantly for the rest of their lives.

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<v Speaker 2>Not that I didn't think Steve would do a great

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<v Speaker 2>job finishing racing them, but I was just I was

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<v Speaker 2>just wrecked about all those big moments, all those big

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<v Speaker 2>milestone moments I was gonna miss.

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<v Speaker 3>No, Valley, tell me, past fifteen years, what have been

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<v Speaker 3>the milestone moments? Would have been the moments that, Oh

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<v Speaker 3>my god, I cannot imagine I would have missed this.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh gosh, I'm gonna get teaching them all three to

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<v Speaker 2>drive a car, drive a stick shift. In our house,

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<v Speaker 2>your first car is a stick shift because you can't

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<v Speaker 2>text and drive a stick shift. You know, none of

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<v Speaker 2>your friends can drive your car up. Insurance is cheaper,

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<v Speaker 2>so I mean, you know, those were moments of flattery,

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<v Speaker 2>cheers for tears, so, you know, teaching them to use

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<v Speaker 2>a little grit to drive a stick shift. Going in kindergarten,

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<v Speaker 2>my young guest, I mean, it's first day of school,

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<v Speaker 2>the first day of high school, the proms, the graduations.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, one's one's out of college, one's going to

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<v Speaker 2>graduate from college this this May, and my baby just

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<v Speaker 2>went to college. You know, Being able to take them

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<v Speaker 2>to I mean you you name it, dance recitals, baseball games.

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<v Speaker 2>The list is long. And I think because of being

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<v Speaker 2>a part of this experience I have, all those milestones

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<v Speaker 2>are all more sweet to know that I am here

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<v Speaker 2>to see them.

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<v Speaker 3>Where are they in college? Are they Tennessee volunteers too?

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<v Speaker 2>Well? One is a Tennessee volunteer. One is a graduate

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<v Speaker 2>of Wake Forest in North Carolina, the senior this year.

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<v Speaker 2>He is a he's all of ball and my baby

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<v Speaker 2>is a Baylor Bear. He goes to school in Waco, Texas.

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<v Speaker 2>He's sick of bears. So they've got three different you know,

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<v Speaker 2>three different paths, and I wouldn't want it any other way.

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<v Speaker 1>I wish you could have seen Jim while you were talking.

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<v Speaker 1>He was clapping, he was cheering, He even had firework

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<v Speaker 1>behind him. At one point. He was just echoing everything

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<v Speaker 1>you were saying. We're going to hear more about what

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<v Speaker 1>this experience has done to change your life, how you've

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<v Speaker 1>lived differently. We're going to hear all about that when

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<v Speaker 1>we come back.

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<v Speaker 3>All right back here now. Jim Whittaker A Valley Collins,

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<v Speaker 3>two of the survivors of Flight fifteen forty nine, the

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<v Speaker 3>crash in the Hudson, the miracle on the Hudson. I

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<v Speaker 3>guess is what we should all be referring to it

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<v Speaker 3>as these days. That's how we know it. But all

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<v Speaker 3>one hundred and fifty five people on board that flight,

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<v Speaker 3>of course survived Captain Sully. It's been cool to hear

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<v Speaker 3>Valley here. She keeps referring to him by his full name, Sullenburger.

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<v Speaker 3>You have a different relationship well than the rest of

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<v Speaker 3>us do we call him Sully? But that's cool to hear. Jim,

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<v Speaker 3>let me ask you, what what was the pre miracle

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<v Speaker 3>on the Hudson, Jim Whittaker like, as opposed to the

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<v Speaker 3>guy we are sitting here talking to now.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, again, both versions are defective. However, the one before

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<v Speaker 4>and there's still now today. Long time lifelong road warrior,

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<v Speaker 4>thousands of flights, thousands of nights and hotels, traveled all

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<v Speaker 4>over the country, all over the world, and so the

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<v Speaker 4>whole experience of traveling, that is, and take off and

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<v Speaker 4>so forth and so on, that was as commonplace as

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<v Speaker 4>driving to work. But extinguishing characteristic that made this different.

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<v Speaker 4>And I've been on plane planes before where an engine

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<v Speaker 4>had gone out or something had occurred, but never had

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<v Speaker 4>I been on an airplane at takeoff that had gone

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<v Speaker 4>from full thrust to being a glider. No noise, no engine,

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<v Speaker 4>no nothing. And I just described that to say that.

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<v Speaker 4>Of course, for someone that had been on thousands and

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<v Speaker 4>thousands of flights, that was a new, immediate just and

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<v Speaker 4>immediate clicks in the back of your brain, like something's wrong.

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<v Speaker 4>This is a big problem, obviously, So it flash forward

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<v Speaker 4>to now. Since then fifteen years it's scary to say,

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<v Speaker 4>but not only hundreds, but I've continued doing the same thing.

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<v Speaker 4>But to the points that Valley made earlier, that of

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<v Speaker 4>all those life experiences that came there after, the graduations

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<v Speaker 4>and grandchildren and the events that were special, there is

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<v Speaker 4>an awareness to realize that I would not be having

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<v Speaker 4>this experience but for the hands of others and the

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<v Speaker 4>grace of God. And that is as we race through

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<v Speaker 4>all of our lives. That's probably something I know. I'm

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<v Speaker 4>often easy to forget about. Hey, I should pay attention

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<v Speaker 4>to be present in this moment, because it's a gift

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<v Speaker 4>that I'm here right now. We have I had thought

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<v Speaker 4>that twenty years ago. Of course not.

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<v Speaker 3>But we need to remind folks, you weren't supposed to

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<v Speaker 3>be on this plane. You were a standby passenger.

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<v Speaker 4>Is that right? Well, again, back to the defectiveness. I

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<v Speaker 4>made a lot of foolish choices in life, but one

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<v Speaker 4>of them was getting done early in Manhattan, running to

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<v Speaker 4>the airport again being the road warrior, trying to get

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<v Speaker 4>home early. Life's going to be great. Maybe I'll even

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<v Speaker 4>catch dinner. And that was a very interesting choice to

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<v Speaker 4>get all stand violists and get the window seat next

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<v Speaker 4>to the baby in the back.

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<v Speaker 2>Jim and I have some similarities in that it's interesting

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<v Speaker 2>that you put us on here together because I flew,

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<v Speaker 2>maybe not quite as much as Jim, but I flew

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<v Speaker 2>a lot with my job as well. But I always

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<v Speaker 2>flew Delta, so that's where I had all my you know,

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<v Speaker 2>platinum first class bump up, all my perks. But that's

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<v Speaker 2>this trip was like a last minute. So the US

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<v Speaker 2>Airways trip ticket was like eight hundred dollars left. So

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<v Speaker 2>I remember thinking, well, i'll save my company that money,

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<v Speaker 2>for go my little frequent flyer perks, and I'll go

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<v Speaker 2>US Airways today. So that's why I ended. So I

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<v Speaker 2>wasn't supposed to be on that flight either, epnically, that's

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<v Speaker 2>not normally, and that's how I ended up on the

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<v Speaker 2>last row with the empty seat that was there because

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<v Speaker 2>Jim had the baby in his rum. So it's now,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, and I think both of us kind of

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<v Speaker 2>have a faith based and you're like, well, why was

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<v Speaker 2>I there? What am I supposed to learn from that?

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<v Speaker 2>What am I supposed to take away from that? Because

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<v Speaker 2>there were passengers on our flight that took that flight

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<v Speaker 2>every week, you know, that was just their way home

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<v Speaker 2>to Charlotte every week, but not the case for me.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you think you were supposed to be on that flight? Now, Valley,

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<v Speaker 1>I know you said you're a woman of faith, and

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<v Speaker 1>do you think that it was something that was faded

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<v Speaker 1>to be? And you said you learned a lot. What

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<v Speaker 1>was the biggest thing you learned?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, first of all, I'm not small enough answer the

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<v Speaker 2>question of as if fate is I supposed to be there?

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not supposed to I have zero idea. I have

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of learnings I took away, probably the very

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<v Speaker 2>well two things. I'll say, after you sit in a

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<v Speaker 2>moment where you really think you're gonna die and then

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<v Speaker 2>all of a sudden you don't, there's a there's a

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<v Speaker 2>sense of life purpose and life responsibility, you just feel

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<v Speaker 2>that onus even greater. Okay, I'm kind of in the

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<v Speaker 2>bonus round of jeopardy. You know, how do I how

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<v Speaker 2>do I get this right and make the most of it.

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<v Speaker 2>So that's that's one of the things. Probably the biggest

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<v Speaker 2>learning I took away was just the power of perspective

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<v Speaker 2>that you know, no matter just not just what the

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<v Speaker 2>small stuff. As cliche as it sounds, you know, every

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<v Speaker 2>it's It's interesting when when I was before takeoff, I

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<v Speaker 2>was talking to the gentleman at the window and we

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<v Speaker 2>had this empty seat in between us, and they kept

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<v Speaker 2>telling us it's this full flight. Well you keep waiting

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<v Speaker 2>for who's the person that's going to PLoP down the

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<v Speaker 2>empty seat and from the gate, and there was still

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<v Speaker 2>this empty seat, and I looked at him, I'm like, well,

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<v Speaker 2>this must be our lucky day because here we've got

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<v Speaker 2>all this elbow room to Charlotte. Well, you know, little

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<v Speaker 2>did I know how lucky it was going to be

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<v Speaker 2>in next seven eight minutes. So so I think I'm

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<v Speaker 2>just trying to every day's a lucky day, even if

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<v Speaker 2>it's not a great day, I'm still just lucky. We're

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<v Speaker 2>all lucky to be.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, you say you're not. You know clearly you're smart

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<v Speaker 3>enough to answer the question. She did ask again what

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<v Speaker 3>you were trying to say? But you all helped me. Everybody,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm sitting here with Robes with a breast cancer scare

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<v Speaker 3>in her life to where she thought she was going

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<v Speaker 3>to die, and still quite frankly, every six months he's

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<v Speaker 3>waiting on a report or going and you're still wondering

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<v Speaker 3>about how much time you have left Valley, Jim, both

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<v Speaker 3>of you all, you all weren't supposed to be on

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<v Speaker 3>the flight you got you stand by passenger here, you

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<v Speaker 3>ended up flying. You were trying to save some money

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<v Speaker 3>for your company, which I'd never recommend that, but still,

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<v Speaker 3>but for both of you all all, maybe all three

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<v Speaker 3>of you got to help me understand here, that's not

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<v Speaker 3>just who chalks that up to just coincidence. We've always

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<v Speaker 3>and I've gotten more into it that later in my

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<v Speaker 3>life about the universe giving you signs or follow there

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<v Speaker 3>are signs out there? What do you make Let me

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<v Speaker 3>start with you, Jim, since clearly you're you're going to

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<v Speaker 3>be smart enough to answer that. But but how do

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<v Speaker 3>you make sense of I'm not supposed to be here.

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<v Speaker 3>She's not supposed to be here, Robock. Even a lot

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<v Speaker 3>of people would argue, maybe not supposed to be here.

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<v Speaker 3>Her cancer was called earlier but we all are sitting

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<v Speaker 3>here now on this call, on this podcast together, Jim,

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<v Speaker 3>how do you or do you even try to make

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<v Speaker 3>sense of something like that.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm going to help you, teacher. I'm not going to

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<v Speaker 4>leave you hanging thanks to help you, I would say

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<v Speaker 4>to that, and trying to be serious, is my perspective

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<v Speaker 4>has changed in that I can't explain it either, and

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<v Speaker 4>probably nor can any of us about why did this happen?

0:23:58.080 --> 0:24:03.399
<v Speaker 4>Or what if that kind of is a lost cause.

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<v Speaker 4>But what we can say is, well, I am still here,

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<v Speaker 4>and what more purposeful, meaningful impact can I have on

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<v Speaker 4>the lives of those that are most close to me

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<v Speaker 4>and depend upon me? And then the next concentric ring

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<v Speaker 4>out from that, and the next concentric ring out from that.

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<v Speaker 4>So for me, at least, what I've tried to be

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<v Speaker 4>a better tried. I fail a lot, however, but I've

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<v Speaker 4>tried to be a better parent and spouse and brother

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<v Speaker 4>and son to my parents, So that trying to be

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<v Speaker 4>that better individual. But more importantly, I've also learned to

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<v Speaker 4>balance a good point as I've become much more, maybe

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<v Speaker 4>with age two, more influential as a mentor in other

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<v Speaker 4>folks lives that are going through challenging circumstances in their

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<v Speaker 4>personal lives. I've found a lot of reward and satisfaction

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<v Speaker 4>in that and trying to help others navigate their circumstances,

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<v Speaker 4>which seems maybe traumatic at the time. And I can

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<v Speaker 4>always say, yeah, but you weren't on a plane crash, correctct.

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<v Speaker 2>And I'm sure his family and friends, like my family

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<v Speaker 2>and friends, kind of get tired of me always putting

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<v Speaker 2>the perspective on. One of my dearest friends in National

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<v Speaker 2>college'll go. I said, Okay, do you want my real opinion?

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<v Speaker 2>Do you just want me to do you just want

0:25:25.359 --> 0:25:27.480
<v Speaker 2>me to side with you right now? Or do you

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<v Speaker 2>want me to give you the perspective of And She's like, no,

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<v Speaker 2>I just want you to decide to me right now.

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<v Speaker 1>What's the biggest change that both of you made in

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<v Speaker 1>your life once you survived and got back home. I'll

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<v Speaker 1>start with you, Jim.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, that's a bad start because I don't have a

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<v Speaker 4>great story to tell you. I couldn't say to you,

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<v Speaker 4>I wouldn't tell you some fabulous lie that says I

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<v Speaker 4>was a new person the next day when I woke up,

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<v Speaker 4>I wasn't. I was still the same me. Sure as

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<v Speaker 4>I've already tried to describe. But it wasn't a Road

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<v Speaker 4>to Damascus moment and I somehow woke up and I

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<v Speaker 4>was some new human and had this different perspective online

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<v Speaker 4>I didn't. I was certainly more thankful and grateful, and

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<v Speaker 4>I am today and I am today, But I'm not

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<v Speaker 4>some different human because I wasn't an inauthentic person before.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm just more appreciative for the gifts that I've been

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<v Speaker 4>given now that I'm still here for obviously spending the

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<v Speaker 4>time week right now talking about something happened back then,

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<v Speaker 4>but I'm more grateful for the gifts that I've been

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<v Speaker 4>given in my life and have been since then.

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<v Speaker 2>Pally like Jim, I wasn't all of a sudden the

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<v Speaker 2>different person. I was a pretty positive, friendly, pride be

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<v Speaker 2>kind person before this. In some ways I was not

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<v Speaker 2>as I've always been, very strong, very confident, a type

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<v Speaker 2>a leader type person, not very fearful. I would say,

0:27:05.800 --> 0:27:09.520
<v Speaker 2>I became a little more fearful, and you know, in

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<v Speaker 2>I'm much more myself like myself now fifteen years later

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<v Speaker 2>than I was let's say a month later or six

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<v Speaker 2>months later or a year later. You know, when I

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<v Speaker 2>first got home, I thought, Okay, you know, I'm good.

0:27:21.280 --> 0:27:23.679
<v Speaker 2>Let's go right back to life. Let's, you know, have

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<v Speaker 2>these two busy careers with traveling and three small children.

0:27:27.000 --> 0:27:29.159
<v Speaker 2>And then about a month in, I was just I

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<v Speaker 2>couldn't do it. I could not keep all the balls

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<v Speaker 2>in the air. I couldn't. I'd be on a conference call,

0:27:34.119 --> 0:27:36.399
<v Speaker 2>I can remember what people said, I'd start typing an

0:27:36.400 --> 0:27:39.879
<v Speaker 2>email and I'd forget my train of thought. I, you know,

0:27:40.400 --> 0:27:42.959
<v Speaker 2>should be so happy to be alive, but I just

0:27:43.000 --> 0:27:46.600
<v Speaker 2>felt so sad. And you know, one of the challenges

0:27:46.640 --> 0:27:48.920
<v Speaker 2>I'll say for me, I can't speak for all the passengers,

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<v Speaker 2>but you know, it was the good news story of

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<v Speaker 2>the year. People. It was so cool, it was so exciting,

0:27:53.160 --> 0:27:55.680
<v Speaker 2>it was so miraculous, and people were like, wow, wasn't

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<v Speaker 2>that amazing? You're like now, But it was also really scary,

0:27:59.800 --> 0:28:02.520
<v Speaker 2>and it was it was traumatic. I hate I know

0:28:02.560 --> 0:28:04.919
<v Speaker 2>that word gets used a lot, but it was. It

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<v Speaker 2>was traumatic and it was scary. So all of a sudden,

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<v Speaker 2>I became this person that was driving down the interstage like,

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<v Speaker 2>oh no, that Semi is gonna come over and they're

0:28:11.960 --> 0:28:13.680
<v Speaker 2>gonna crash into my car. We're I'm going to die,

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<v Speaker 2>or I wouldn't put something on my calendar for two

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<v Speaker 2>weeks later because I'm probably not gonna live two more weeks,

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<v Speaker 2>you know. So the fragileness of life became I became

0:28:23.160 --> 0:28:26.359
<v Speaker 2>hyper focused. Or we we have a boat, our kids

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<v Speaker 2>water ski behind the boat, they'd fall. I'm like, get back,

0:28:29.480 --> 0:28:31.320
<v Speaker 2>get them because there's gonna boat comes gonna knock. You know,

0:28:31.320 --> 0:28:34.560
<v Speaker 2>it's gonna kill them. I mean, I just became very,

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<v Speaker 2>very aware of how fragile life is and how quickly

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<v Speaker 2>it can change. Now time has helped that neurosis, if

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<v Speaker 2>you want to call it, but I still lack a

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<v Speaker 2>little bit of the moxy confidence that I had. And

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<v Speaker 2>that's okay because I think it makes me appreciate and

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<v Speaker 2>be a little yeah, just being more appreciative for the

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<v Speaker 2>time that I have had.

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<v Speaker 3>You you use the word traumatic. Obviously, that's what I

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<v Speaker 3>guess everybody on that plane would say they experienced a

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<v Speaker 3>traumatic experience. But you also said, like, over time or

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<v Speaker 3>immediately after, you had times where you felt so sad.

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<v Speaker 3>What was that about.

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<v Speaker 2>I think that's just one of the symptoms of PTSD.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, as I went through my therapy, I learned

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<v Speaker 2>that a lot of times it doesn't present immediately. It's

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<v Speaker 2>you know, a month, six weeks, two months after, just

0:29:28.680 --> 0:29:32.040
<v Speaker 2>when the shock wears off. I don't want to speak

0:29:32.040 --> 0:29:34.080
<v Speaker 2>for Jim. Probably it was real easy for get on

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<v Speaker 2>Hunt that plane that night because he was just still

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<v Speaker 2>in shock. We were all still in shot. My first

0:29:38.480 --> 0:29:40.600
<v Speaker 2>flight was five days later. That wasn't as hard as

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<v Speaker 2>the flights three months later, six months later. So I

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<v Speaker 2>just I I don't I don't know. It was just

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<v Speaker 2>I was just in shock. I mean, it just it

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<v Speaker 2>just took. It just takes. It just takes time. I

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<v Speaker 2>wanted the I've spoken to audiences over the years about

0:29:57.040 --> 0:29:59.760
<v Speaker 2>this experience, and you going back to like why was

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<v Speaker 2>I there? While were we there? When I have when

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<v Speaker 2>I've had like a six three marine veteran come up

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<v Speaker 2>to me with tears in his eyes and say thank

0:30:08.280 --> 0:30:12.360
<v Speaker 2>you for talking about PTSD, thank you for putting it

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<v Speaker 2>out front. That's probably one of my moments that I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, maybe that's why I was there because I

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<v Speaker 2>think better now. I don't mean to go off on

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<v Speaker 2>a tangent but or get on a soapbox, but I

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<v Speaker 2>think even now, more than fifteen years ago, we talked

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<v Speaker 2>more about mental health than we did and just I

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<v Speaker 2>tell people, you know, I looked just fine on the outside.

0:30:36.800 --> 0:30:39.200
<v Speaker 2>I walked off that plane aside from being in soaking

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<v Speaker 2>wet clothes, you know, nothing was broken. I wasn't bruised,

0:30:42.360 --> 0:30:44.880
<v Speaker 2>I didn't walk with a limp. I mean when my

0:30:44.960 --> 0:30:46.960
<v Speaker 2>husband looked at me, I look like the same old valley,

0:30:47.400 --> 0:30:50.760
<v Speaker 2>but I was not the same old valley. And honestly,

0:30:50.800 --> 0:30:53.120
<v Speaker 2>it took a little while for us, even as a couple,

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<v Speaker 2>to you know, figure out the new me if you will,

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<v Speaker 2>and I hope in some ways I'm a better version

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<v Speaker 2>of myself, not as good a version of myself as

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<v Speaker 2>before I've boarded that blot.

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<v Speaker 1>I really appreciate your your honesty and your transparency, because

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<v Speaker 1>when the unthinkable happens, when the thing that is almost

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<v Speaker 1>impossible actually happens to you, that fear is real, and

0:31:18.960 --> 0:31:22.640
<v Speaker 1>fear is a powerful thing. And I can't imagine not

0:31:23.040 --> 0:31:26.160
<v Speaker 1>being afraid after going through something like that. When people say, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>what are the chances, you can say, actually, if it's

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<v Speaker 1>less than one percent, if it happens to you, it's everything,

0:31:33.560 --> 0:31:37.360
<v Speaker 1>It's one hundred percent, right and living then your life

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<v Speaker 1>knowing that your greatest fear could actually happen is crippling

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<v Speaker 1>in moments. How do you get past that? Jim, did

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<v Speaker 1>you feel the same way at all?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, this is maybe a different tangent or not for

0:31:52.120 --> 0:31:54.520
<v Speaker 4>where you all thought the conversation would go. But I

0:31:54.520 --> 0:31:58.640
<v Speaker 4>have found this fascinating, yes, because of this. Afterward after

0:31:58.680 --> 0:32:02.800
<v Speaker 4>the crash, like Valley, I went to a number of

0:32:03.800 --> 0:32:05.960
<v Speaker 4>groups that wanted to hear this story, and they wanted

0:32:06.000 --> 0:32:08.240
<v Speaker 4>to hear someone talk about it. So I had done

0:32:08.240 --> 0:32:10.240
<v Speaker 4>a fair amount of public speaking at work, so I

0:32:10.280 --> 0:32:14.320
<v Speaker 4>went on the rubber Chicken circuit of cividans and quantises

0:32:14.400 --> 0:32:18.880
<v Speaker 4>and professional groups and all that stuff, and I talked

0:32:18.920 --> 0:32:23.280
<v Speaker 4>to a number number of groups. And every time, somewhere

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<v Speaker 4>in this talk, which was just conversational like we're doing now,

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<v Speaker 4>but I had a few props right, people would start

0:32:28.640 --> 0:32:32.440
<v Speaker 4>crying and I thought, man, I mean, I know I'm

0:32:32.440 --> 0:32:36.000
<v Speaker 4>a bad presenter, but this is painful. And there would

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<v Speaker 4>just be these people sitting there and these very small

0:32:38.320 --> 0:32:41.240
<v Speaker 4>intimate groups, you know, and they would just be crying.

0:32:42.520 --> 0:32:45.160
<v Speaker 4>And then afterward they would come up and they get

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<v Speaker 4>similar to what Valley described and say things like thank

0:32:48.200 --> 0:32:52.120
<v Speaker 4>you and I've always been so fearful this was going

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<v Speaker 4>to happen to me, this total consuming fear of flying,

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<v Speaker 4>to what you talked about earlier, Amy about fear is

0:32:59.640 --> 0:33:06.200
<v Speaker 4>this incredibly powerful ruling emotion in our lives about I

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<v Speaker 4>fear these things, and I've had these things happen to me.

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<v Speaker 4>And this is the whole experience of just retelling that

0:33:12.760 --> 0:33:17.520
<v Speaker 4>story to people seems to have unlocked their own feelings

0:33:18.080 --> 0:33:21.479
<v Speaker 4>of the things that they fear and been able to

0:33:21.520 --> 0:33:23.760
<v Speaker 4>give them a little bit of maybe not comfort, but

0:33:23.880 --> 0:33:26.960
<v Speaker 4>courage that they can survive whatever moment they are in now.

0:33:27.160 --> 0:33:30.480
<v Speaker 4>It's just been a fascinate That period of time was

0:33:30.800 --> 0:33:35.040
<v Speaker 4>fascinating to me, and to Valley's point, it probably helped

0:33:35.080 --> 0:33:39.160
<v Speaker 4>me too, unknowingly so kind of process those emotions in

0:33:39.200 --> 0:33:41.960
<v Speaker 4>my subconscious minds, you know, just work through all of

0:33:42.040 --> 0:33:46.400
<v Speaker 4>that by contributing and being with other people and talking about.

0:33:46.200 --> 0:33:50.760
<v Speaker 1>The topic well, making people feel not alone. Knowing that

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<v Speaker 1>other people also can talk about their fears and face

0:33:55.480 --> 0:33:57.800
<v Speaker 1>them and acknowledge them is a huge gift that you've

0:33:57.800 --> 0:34:00.240
<v Speaker 1>given so many people. We're going to talk more with

0:34:00.360 --> 0:34:01.680
<v Speaker 1>Valley and Jim when we come back.

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<v Speaker 2>Hi.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm Kate Hudson and I'm Oliver Hudson and at last

0:34:12.280 --> 0:34:12.839
<v Speaker 5>I checked for.

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<v Speaker 6>Siblings and this is sibling revelry.

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<v Speaker 5>We're full blood siblings, the only full bloodling.

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<v Speaker 6>And our family well not in the world, I mean.

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<v Speaker 4>No, in the whole world.

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<v Speaker 5>This is it, like no one anyway. We're back with

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<v Speaker 5>season four. I can't believe it's Yeah.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm so excited, bigger and better than ever. You might

0:34:32.400 --> 0:34:36.680
<v Speaker 6>be asking yourself, what is sibling revelry?

0:34:36.880 --> 0:34:39.080
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, well we just made it up. There is no

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<v Speaker 5>sibling revelry. It's reveling in your sibling.

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<v Speaker 6>And it's fun because we've decided to open it up,

0:34:44.840 --> 0:34:48.040
<v Speaker 6>you know, to really like all kinds of different siblings.

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<v Speaker 6>And it's going to be an awesome season.

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<v Speaker 5>So listen to Sibling Revelry on the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or.

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<v Speaker 1>Wherever you listen to paup God. Welcome back everyone. We're

0:35:08.480 --> 0:35:12.120
<v Speaker 1>talking to Jim Whittaker and Valley Collins, two of the

0:35:12.160 --> 0:35:16.040
<v Speaker 1>survivors of the Miracle on the Hudson, and we are

0:35:16.080 --> 0:35:18.840
<v Speaker 1>looking back not only what happened fifteen years ago, but

0:35:19.600 --> 0:35:22.440
<v Speaker 1>what that has led them to today and who they

0:35:22.440 --> 0:35:25.239
<v Speaker 1>are today because a near death experience. I mean it

0:35:25.239 --> 0:35:28.200
<v Speaker 1>affects people differently. I want to ask you, VALI would

0:35:28.200 --> 0:35:32.440
<v Speaker 1>you give the experience back if you could.

0:35:31.760 --> 0:35:35.600
<v Speaker 2>If I had my choice, I would not board that

0:35:35.680 --> 0:35:39.640
<v Speaker 2>plane again. I'm so thankful for what I've learned, what

0:35:39.680 --> 0:35:42.719
<v Speaker 2>I've taken from it, the gift of perspective and gratitude.

0:35:42.880 --> 0:35:47.680
<v Speaker 2>But I guess maybe giving me that sense of fear

0:35:47.840 --> 0:35:51.040
<v Speaker 2>that I'd never had before. I kind of enjoyed the

0:35:51.200 --> 0:35:54.399
<v Speaker 2>thirty seven years before. It is not not really being

0:35:54.440 --> 0:35:55.799
<v Speaker 2>scared of many things.

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<v Speaker 1>Other than Snake's I love it. You'd get it back,

0:35:57.680 --> 0:36:00.160
<v Speaker 1>how about you, Jim?

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<v Speaker 4>No, I would. I would relive it again. I had

0:36:05.520 --> 0:36:08.799
<v Speaker 4>the benefit of which is even weirder in not today's talk.

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<v Speaker 4>But I was on another aircraft that happened to catch

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<v Speaker 4>on fire, so I was in I was a pro

0:36:14.960 --> 0:36:17.399
<v Speaker 4>by the time this rolled around. And the fact that

0:36:17.640 --> 0:36:20.160
<v Speaker 4>it is scary to go in the river. But if

0:36:20.200 --> 0:36:22.160
<v Speaker 4>you're in a small aircraft and there are only two

0:36:22.239 --> 0:36:24.879
<v Speaker 4>of you on it and it catches on fire, now

0:36:25.080 --> 0:36:27.000
<v Speaker 4>that is a sense of emergency.

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<v Speaker 3>Jim, you need to take some road trips. Brother, you

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<v Speaker 3>got you gotta stop flying if I want to plan.

0:36:34.160 --> 0:36:35.319
<v Speaker 2>You're on I'm getting off.

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<v Speaker 7>Oh this is no money, because I was on one

0:36:38.719 --> 0:36:41.960
<v Speaker 7>struck by lightning with an emergency landing before the Hudson,

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<v Speaker 7>and then the December of two thousand and nine, the

0:36:44.520 --> 0:36:46.800
<v Speaker 7>same year, I was on one that lost nose steering,

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<v Speaker 7>so we had to have the full emergency cabin preparedness,

0:36:50.520 --> 0:36:51.880
<v Speaker 7>emergency vehicles line.

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<v Speaker 2>And the runway. I mean, some people are like, well,

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<v Speaker 2>what are the chances I'm calling? Well, I've kind of

0:36:55.200 --> 0:36:58.560
<v Speaker 2>been in three incidents. Is it's just so funny that

0:36:58.600 --> 0:37:00.400
<v Speaker 2>we're booked on here at the same time, you know,

0:37:00.560 --> 0:37:03.960
<v Speaker 2>my mom's like, well, yeah, crazy.

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<v Speaker 1>And for the record, just to make it clear, you

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<v Speaker 1>all still happily and willingly board planes. Yes, in fact,

0:37:11.000 --> 0:37:12.440
<v Speaker 1>you just got off one recently.

0:37:13.239 --> 0:37:15.640
<v Speaker 2>I don't know about happily. I do it because I

0:37:15.680 --> 0:37:17.479
<v Speaker 2>want to go where I want to go. I don't

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<v Speaker 2>love it. I'm never gonna love it like I did

0:37:20.120 --> 0:37:23.560
<v Speaker 2>before when I was just you know, naive. But it

0:37:23.680 --> 0:37:25.839
<v Speaker 2>is the safest way to travel. I do tell people

0:37:25.840 --> 0:37:27.640
<v Speaker 2>the most dangerous part of on air plane trip is

0:37:27.640 --> 0:37:29.799
<v Speaker 2>the drive in your car to the airport. You know,

0:37:29.880 --> 0:37:32.319
<v Speaker 2>if we all heard about every fatal car wreck in

0:37:32.400 --> 0:37:34.160
<v Speaker 2>our country every day, none of us will get in

0:37:34.200 --> 0:37:36.880
<v Speaker 2>our car. It's just with plane crashes. When something happens,

0:37:36.960 --> 0:37:39.200
<v Speaker 2>it's a lot of people at once, and everybody hears

0:37:39.200 --> 0:37:40.040
<v Speaker 2>about every one of them.

0:37:40.400 --> 0:37:42.640
<v Speaker 3>Apparently, it's the safest way to travel unless your name

0:37:42.680 --> 0:37:44.520
<v Speaker 3>is Jim Whittaker or Valley Collins.

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<v Speaker 1>I want to ask y'all, did the Tom Hanks movie

0:37:47.920 --> 0:37:48.399
<v Speaker 1>get it right?

0:37:49.080 --> 0:37:51.560
<v Speaker 2>You know, the Tom Hanks movie, which I loved, the

0:37:51.600 --> 0:37:53.960
<v Speaker 2>movie Sully. Tom Hanks could read the phone book and

0:37:54.000 --> 0:37:56.920
<v Speaker 2>I would be entertained. So I thought the movie was great.

0:37:57.719 --> 0:38:01.799
<v Speaker 2>It's definitely from Sullenberger's active I don't think they got

0:38:01.800 --> 0:38:05.920
<v Speaker 2>the evacuation scene in the movie right personally. I mean

0:38:05.920 --> 0:38:07.440
<v Speaker 2>in the movie, and I haven't seen the movie in

0:38:07.440 --> 0:38:09.520
<v Speaker 2>a lot of years, but I remember that there's there

0:38:09.600 --> 0:38:11.880
<v Speaker 2>like here, have a blanket, it's cold out there, like

0:38:11.920 --> 0:38:14.480
<v Speaker 2>the flight attendants that, and it just it just wasn't

0:38:14.520 --> 0:38:17.279
<v Speaker 2>that way it was. It was chaotic, It was a

0:38:17.320 --> 0:38:19.680
<v Speaker 2>lot of water, it was a lot of I mean,

0:38:19.680 --> 0:38:21.319
<v Speaker 2>you're how chaotic it is trying to get off the

0:38:21.320 --> 0:38:23.640
<v Speaker 2>plane when you're parked at the gate, So you know,

0:38:23.960 --> 0:38:26.480
<v Speaker 2>you can imagine. So that's the only part of the movie.

0:38:26.520 --> 0:38:28.040
<v Speaker 2>If I was going to take issue with but it

0:38:28.080 --> 0:38:30.239
<v Speaker 2>didn't upset me. I thought it was a great It

0:38:30.320 --> 0:38:34.279
<v Speaker 2>was a great fielm but you jim right it was.

0:38:34.480 --> 0:38:38.800
<v Speaker 4>It was definitely a Hollywood version of a feel good moment,

0:38:39.160 --> 0:38:42.160
<v Speaker 4>for sure, and one takes liberties when you're making a

0:38:42.160 --> 0:38:45.239
<v Speaker 4>Hollywood movie. There were the other movies as jule Me,

0:38:45.600 --> 0:38:48.399
<v Speaker 4>the docu drama, and the documentary Class. There have been

0:38:48.440 --> 0:38:52.160
<v Speaker 4>several other ones made, but the Hollywood version I think

0:38:52.280 --> 0:38:56.640
<v Speaker 4>was more centered on entertainment because Valley is exactly right

0:38:57.040 --> 0:38:59.000
<v Speaker 4>as we were talking about earlier. There's just no way

0:38:59.040 --> 0:39:01.879
<v Speaker 4>to one, it wouldn't be entertainment, it'd be a horror show.

0:39:02.040 --> 0:39:04.680
<v Speaker 4>And then two, there's just no way to capture how

0:39:04.719 --> 0:39:08.600
<v Speaker 4>a raw and nasty All of that was at the

0:39:08.640 --> 0:39:12.400
<v Speaker 4>time that it was occurring, before everyone was off the

0:39:12.480 --> 0:39:16.279
<v Speaker 4>airplane and on water taxis, and the event was kind

0:39:16.280 --> 0:39:19.359
<v Speaker 4>of passed right that first that period of time in there,

0:39:19.360 --> 0:39:23.160
<v Speaker 4>in the crash sequence and the rescue, that was pretty ugly, right.

0:39:23.320 --> 0:39:25.239
<v Speaker 1>I can't I cannot even imagine.

0:39:25.560 --> 0:39:29.759
<v Speaker 2>My scariest moment and the whole event was after we

0:39:29.880 --> 0:39:32.120
<v Speaker 2>landed and I went to the galley and there was

0:39:32.160 --> 0:39:34.880
<v Speaker 2>a hole in the APU fell off the tail of

0:39:34.880 --> 0:39:36.840
<v Speaker 2>the plane, and you know, we couldn't get out the

0:39:36.840 --> 0:39:39.720
<v Speaker 2>back exits and the water was rushing in to about

0:39:39.760 --> 0:39:43.040
<v Speaker 2>my shoulder level, and thinking I was going to drown.

0:39:43.400 --> 0:39:47.239
<v Speaker 2>That was really my scariest moment, was just being in

0:39:47.280 --> 0:39:51.160
<v Speaker 2>that galley with that cold water and realizing we're not

0:39:51.200 --> 0:39:53.880
<v Speaker 2>getting out the back and people are still trying to

0:39:53.920 --> 0:39:56.080
<v Speaker 2>come to the back, you know, and I'm thinking this

0:39:56.200 --> 0:39:58.680
<v Speaker 2>this gentleman's gonna mow me over, you know, trying to

0:39:58.680 --> 0:40:02.120
<v Speaker 2>get people turned around to move towards the wings. So

0:40:02.200 --> 0:40:05.560
<v Speaker 2>that was really, for me, my scariest moment.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, just hearing you describe that, you just get chills

0:40:08.400 --> 0:40:11.880
<v Speaker 1>from head to toe. That is just worst case scenario,

0:40:12.000 --> 0:40:14.160
<v Speaker 1>thinking you're trapped in this plane and the water's rushing

0:40:14.200 --> 0:40:18.120
<v Speaker 1>and I'm curious, fifteen years has passed. Has there been

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<v Speaker 1>a day where you haven't thought about it?

0:40:20.239 --> 0:40:24.319
<v Speaker 2>Valley? Oh? Sure, Yeah, there have been plenty of days

0:40:24.320 --> 0:40:27.280
<v Speaker 2>where I have not where I have not thought about it. Especially,

0:40:27.480 --> 0:40:29.360
<v Speaker 2>like I said, time helped. You know, in the first

0:40:29.440 --> 0:40:31.640
<v Speaker 2>year or two years, No, there probably wasn't a day

0:40:31.680 --> 0:40:34.080
<v Speaker 2>I didn't think about it. But as time has gone on.

0:40:34.520 --> 0:40:36.640
<v Speaker 2>But if I do catch myself in a moment of

0:40:36.719 --> 0:40:38.680
<v Speaker 2>you know, kind of sweating the small stuff or getting

0:40:38.719 --> 0:40:41.760
<v Speaker 2>annoying because you know, my boys left all their underwear

0:40:41.880 --> 0:40:43.840
<v Speaker 2>all over the floor or something. You know, we'll be like,

0:40:43.840 --> 0:40:45.960
<v Speaker 2>all right, I'm still the moms here that gets to

0:40:46.000 --> 0:40:48.800
<v Speaker 2>pick up the dirty underwear. And that's what life's about,

0:40:48.920 --> 0:40:51.520
<v Speaker 2>is the real stuff. And I'm just happy I've been

0:40:51.560 --> 0:40:54.080
<v Speaker 2>here to enjoy the real stuff. But I don't think

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<v Speaker 2>about it every day.

0:40:55.600 --> 0:40:58.399
<v Speaker 3>Jim, speaking on the real stuff, Why does it take?

0:40:59.200 --> 0:41:01.279
<v Speaker 3>You know, I speak to people all out there. We've

0:41:01.360 --> 0:41:03.040
<v Speaker 3>all known people in our lives and you all are

0:41:03.040 --> 0:41:05.840
<v Speaker 3>two examples as well. They go through something traumatic and

0:41:05.880 --> 0:41:08.840
<v Speaker 3>then they make a change in their life. People have something,

0:41:09.080 --> 0:41:10.880
<v Speaker 3>they hit rock bottom and they make a change in

0:41:10.920 --> 0:41:13.640
<v Speaker 3>their life. Something has to happen. Can you speak to

0:41:13.719 --> 0:41:17.879
<v Speaker 3>Jim to people and they all have their own experiences,

0:41:17.920 --> 0:41:20.880
<v Speaker 3>of course, but how would you encourage people to not

0:41:21.000 --> 0:41:23.799
<v Speaker 3>wait for that moment. Don't wait until you have a

0:41:23.840 --> 0:41:26.880
<v Speaker 3>near death experience, don't wait until you hit rock bottom.

0:41:27.200 --> 0:41:30.160
<v Speaker 3>Today is a day you can start to appreciate more

0:41:30.200 --> 0:41:33.680
<v Speaker 3>and love more and be kinder and do what Valley says,

0:41:33.719 --> 0:41:35.880
<v Speaker 3>you know, don't sweat the small stuff. What would be

0:41:35.920 --> 0:41:38.680
<v Speaker 3>your words of encouragement for folks to not have to

0:41:38.760 --> 0:41:42.080
<v Speaker 3>have a plane craw a literal plane crash before they

0:41:42.120 --> 0:41:42.640
<v Speaker 3>make changes.

0:41:44.160 --> 0:41:51.600
<v Speaker 4>Man, I'll take an easier question for one hundred. That

0:41:52.400 --> 0:41:55.200
<v Speaker 4>is a heavy one. I don't know that I know

0:41:55.560 --> 0:42:00.799
<v Speaker 4>the right answer, but what you just described resonates with

0:42:00.880 --> 0:42:04.560
<v Speaker 4>me too at a personal level, because that bouncing on

0:42:04.600 --> 0:42:07.279
<v Speaker 4>the bottom happens for a lot of us. Whether you

0:42:07.400 --> 0:42:11.640
<v Speaker 4>have problems with substance abuse or mental illness or whatever

0:42:11.640 --> 0:42:14.800
<v Speaker 4>those things are, the bouncing on the bottom is often

0:42:15.400 --> 0:42:17.520
<v Speaker 4>the path that many of us have to go through

0:42:17.560 --> 0:42:20.640
<v Speaker 4>because you don't know which way is up until you

0:42:20.760 --> 0:42:25.320
<v Speaker 4>found the bottom. So to expect someone, or to hope

0:42:25.360 --> 0:42:28.160
<v Speaker 4>for someone, or to desire for someone, to be able

0:42:28.200 --> 0:42:30.800
<v Speaker 4>to be self aware enough to know that, hey, man,

0:42:30.960 --> 0:42:34.440
<v Speaker 4>this is not working, this is not the best you.

0:42:35.680 --> 0:42:40.000
<v Speaker 4>Perhaps that is such a giant decision that I find

0:42:40.040 --> 0:42:44.120
<v Speaker 4>that most people don't make that decision because it requires

0:42:44.120 --> 0:42:47.319
<v Speaker 4>so much courage and it's going to be painful most likely.

0:42:48.200 --> 0:42:51.839
<v Speaker 4>So the continuation of doing nothing is usually easier than

0:42:51.880 --> 0:42:55.920
<v Speaker 4>doing something. And that's why that bouncing off the bottom

0:42:55.960 --> 0:42:58.239
<v Speaker 4>seems to work for some folks. I have found in

0:42:58.280 --> 0:43:02.080
<v Speaker 4>my life at least. That is a really, really tough question.

0:43:02.239 --> 0:43:04.600
<v Speaker 4>But back to being able to talk to folks, is

0:43:04.800 --> 0:43:07.920
<v Speaker 4>I have found it incredibly rewarding to be talking to

0:43:08.000 --> 0:43:11.440
<v Speaker 4>others who have their own set of life problems and

0:43:11.480 --> 0:43:16.080
<v Speaker 4>they at least can get some type of positive reflection

0:43:16.239 --> 0:43:18.719
<v Speaker 4>from the fact that, oh, well, wow, that happened to you,

0:43:18.760 --> 0:43:20.880
<v Speaker 4>and here you still are and you seem to be

0:43:21.160 --> 0:43:25.279
<v Speaker 4>marginally okay. Maybe my circumstance isn't so bad. Maybe I

0:43:25.320 --> 0:43:29.160
<v Speaker 4>could make better choices, maybe I will choose to do

0:43:29.719 --> 0:43:31.920
<v Speaker 4>That's been an incredibly powerful for me.

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<v Speaker 1>I love that. Do you all do anything special to

0:43:34.440 --> 0:43:36.480
<v Speaker 1>honor this day, Valley?

0:43:36.719 --> 0:43:39.399
<v Speaker 2>Not really? I mean on the ant like the one

0:43:39.440 --> 0:43:42.279
<v Speaker 2>year anniversary, the five year anniversary, the ten year anniversary.

0:43:42.360 --> 0:43:42.680
<v Speaker 3>I went.

0:43:42.840 --> 0:43:46.640
<v Speaker 2>I went to those events. It's always it's amazing to

0:43:46.640 --> 0:43:48.719
<v Speaker 2>me how many of my friends and family I'll get

0:43:48.760 --> 0:43:52.200
<v Speaker 2>more text messages, emails on this day than I will

0:43:52.560 --> 0:43:56.120
<v Speaker 2>on my birthday. It's kind of it's kind of crazy,

0:43:56.280 --> 0:44:00.920
<v Speaker 2>so I always acknowledge it. Do I have a specific tradition, No,

0:44:01.280 --> 0:44:04.239
<v Speaker 2>I just keep living that day whatever it brings. I mean,

0:44:04.280 --> 0:44:06.480
<v Speaker 2>in fact, this year, on the fifteenth anniversary, one of

0:44:06.520 --> 0:44:08.759
<v Speaker 2>the changes I made in not really a change I

0:44:08.800 --> 0:44:11.520
<v Speaker 2>made in my life, but I did quit working full

0:44:11.560 --> 0:44:16.000
<v Speaker 2>time a few few months after the experience, went part

0:44:16.040 --> 0:44:18.359
<v Speaker 2>time and then quit working all together just to raise

0:44:18.360 --> 0:44:21.200
<v Speaker 2>my family. But I started to participate more in nonprofits

0:44:21.280 --> 0:44:23.640
<v Speaker 2>and trying to help other people, because I do think

0:44:23.640 --> 0:44:26.160
<v Speaker 2>when you're struggling yourself, what makes you feel better than

0:44:26.200 --> 0:44:28.560
<v Speaker 2>to try to help somebody else who's less fortunate than

0:44:28.600 --> 0:44:32.000
<v Speaker 2>you are. And so I am the chair of a

0:44:32.120 --> 0:44:36.080
<v Speaker 2>nonprofit that works with Mount Irshed babies in Uganda and

0:44:37.520 --> 0:44:42.919
<v Speaker 2>on today today is our board strategic planning retreat. So

0:44:43.160 --> 0:44:45.799
<v Speaker 2>I'm with some people. They're very like minded with me

0:44:45.920 --> 0:44:48.759
<v Speaker 2>with helping those that are less fortunate. So I'm going

0:44:48.840 --> 0:44:53.040
<v Speaker 2>to market today trying to in some small, small way

0:44:53.600 --> 0:44:56.759
<v Speaker 2>help someone that is a whole lot worse off than

0:44:56.800 --> 0:44:57.040
<v Speaker 2>I am.

0:44:57.280 --> 0:44:58.439
<v Speaker 3>Jim, you mark the day as well.

0:44:58.960 --> 0:45:01.640
<v Speaker 4>My answer is much more practical than balance, which is

0:45:01.680 --> 0:45:03.799
<v Speaker 4>one of the many reasons why I'm so fond of.

0:45:04.040 --> 0:45:06.080
<v Speaker 4>But I'm going to the airport on Monday because that's

0:45:06.080 --> 0:45:06.720
<v Speaker 4>where I belong.

0:45:06.920 --> 0:45:11.719
<v Speaker 3>You're you're flying on the anniversary day, Yeah, Valley, have

0:45:11.719 --> 0:45:14.279
<v Speaker 3>you done that at all? Flown on the anniversary day?

0:45:14.360 --> 0:45:16.160
<v Speaker 3>Any of the past fifteen years.

0:45:16.480 --> 0:45:18.960
<v Speaker 2>Yes, I have flown on the anniversary date. I did

0:45:19.120 --> 0:45:21.719
<v Speaker 2>after one of our I did I have flown on

0:45:21.760 --> 0:45:22.919
<v Speaker 2>the anniversary date.

0:45:23.040 --> 0:45:25.920
<v Speaker 3>Yes, I wouldn't expect I expected from defective Jim, but

0:45:25.960 --> 0:45:27.520
<v Speaker 3>I wasn't expecting you Valley.

0:45:27.800 --> 0:45:31.000
<v Speaker 2>Speaking of only down at one time, I'm only doing all.

0:45:31.680 --> 0:45:33.520
<v Speaker 2>We're taking a bus to the retreat.

0:45:33.719 --> 0:45:41.680
<v Speaker 1>So well, Jim Valley, thank you so much for joining us.

0:45:41.800 --> 0:45:44.000
<v Speaker 1>It has been incredible to be able to talk to

0:45:44.000 --> 0:45:46.800
<v Speaker 1>you all about what you went through, how far you've come,

0:45:47.360 --> 0:45:50.120
<v Speaker 1>and you have a long, beautiful life to look forward to,

0:45:50.160 --> 0:45:52.720
<v Speaker 1>and thanks for inspiring us along the way. I appreciate

0:45:52.760 --> 0:45:57.120
<v Speaker 1>how really you kept it, how down to earth are

0:45:57.160 --> 0:45:58.799
<v Speaker 1>you're not trying to make it be anything more than

0:45:58.800 --> 0:46:01.160
<v Speaker 1>what it is. And the lessons you learned along the way.

0:46:01.160 --> 0:46:05.480
<v Speaker 1>We appreciate it, and we took notes, and thank you all.

0:46:05.680 --> 0:46:07.520
<v Speaker 1>And I don't know do you do you say happy

0:46:07.520 --> 0:46:09.160
<v Speaker 1>anniversary on an anniversary like this?

0:46:09.280 --> 0:46:09.680
<v Speaker 2>I don't know.

0:46:11.280 --> 0:46:13.200
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so happy anniversary old.

0:46:13.080 --> 0:46:16.239
<v Speaker 2>An anniversary fifteen years on the fifteenth.

0:46:15.800 --> 0:46:20.719
<v Speaker 1>So there you go. Well, happy anniversary, y'all, and thank

0:46:20.719 --> 0:46:21.600
<v Speaker 1>you for being with us.

0:46:22.760 --> 0:46:25.040
<v Speaker 2>Thank you bye, all the best.

0:46:25.400 --> 0:46:28.680
<v Speaker 3>Thank you so much. Yeah, hey, everybody, they're saying by

0:46:28.760 --> 0:46:31.839
<v Speaker 3>each other there. You can of course continue to follow

0:46:31.920 --> 0:46:35.400
<v Speaker 3>the show here on Instagram, at Amy and TJ podcast.

0:46:36.440 --> 0:46:38.000
<v Speaker 3>That was a great one. It's great to talk to

0:46:38.000 --> 0:46:40.000
<v Speaker 3>folks like that who have that type of respective and

0:46:40.040 --> 0:46:42.040
<v Speaker 3>can give us all a little bit. I'm still fascinated.

0:46:42.400 --> 0:46:46.040
<v Speaker 3>I can imagine her husband the text my plane is crashing,

0:46:46.600 --> 0:46:49.239
<v Speaker 3>she says. She sent him that message as they were

0:46:49.280 --> 0:46:50.560
<v Speaker 3>going out. She had three minutes to do it. I

0:46:50.600 --> 0:46:53.239
<v Speaker 3>guess I can imagine getting that type of message from you.

0:46:54.360 --> 0:46:56.560
<v Speaker 1>I hope to never send one like that, TEJ. Yeah,

0:46:56.560 --> 0:46:58.719
<v Speaker 1>that'll be on my list of goals things not to do.

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<v Speaker 3>Put a sweet emoji to it, Maybe it'll light it.