1 00:00:01,920 --> 00:00:05,359 Speaker 1: Wind Down with Jana Kramer and I'm Heeart Radio podcast. 2 00:00:06,880 --> 00:00:12,520 Speaker 2: Hey ladies, Hi, Hi, someone is number one on Netflix. 3 00:00:12,680 --> 00:00:14,960 Speaker 3: Oh that's so exciting. 4 00:00:15,360 --> 00:00:16,720 Speaker 4: I love that. I'm really proud of you. 5 00:00:16,800 --> 00:00:20,479 Speaker 1: I get so mini text from people I can't I 6 00:00:20,480 --> 00:00:22,880 Speaker 1: mean people that never text me and people that do, 7 00:00:23,160 --> 00:00:25,280 Speaker 1: like an on a group chat, like watching the movie now, 8 00:00:25,320 --> 00:00:27,600 Speaker 1: watching the movie now. I mean, it was so cute, 9 00:00:27,800 --> 00:00:29,200 Speaker 1: it was everyone loved it. 10 00:00:29,480 --> 00:00:31,240 Speaker 4: Oh, I'm just really proud of you. 11 00:00:31,600 --> 00:00:34,920 Speaker 2: Thank you Netflix. Please get in here and notice how 12 00:00:34,960 --> 00:00:35,680 Speaker 2: wonderful she is. 13 00:00:35,760 --> 00:00:37,400 Speaker 3: Fun to see you on Netflix. 14 00:00:37,920 --> 00:00:39,839 Speaker 2: I got excited because it was like number two, and 15 00:00:39,840 --> 00:00:41,840 Speaker 2: I was like, she's number two and I'm just taking 16 00:00:41,840 --> 00:00:43,519 Speaker 2: a picture in bed with Preston. And then the next 17 00:00:43,560 --> 00:00:45,199 Speaker 2: morning i wake up and it's already number one, and 18 00:00:45,280 --> 00:00:48,640 Speaker 2: I'm like, this is incredible. But such a valuable message 19 00:00:48,720 --> 00:00:52,720 Speaker 2: too that I love that this particular movie that you're 20 00:00:52,760 --> 00:00:57,280 Speaker 2: doing is getting that attention because it's such a such 21 00:00:57,280 --> 00:01:03,600 Speaker 2: a heavy and needed topic too, have yeah some awareness. 22 00:01:03,080 --> 00:01:08,040 Speaker 4: Of yeah you guys. I have such like mixed feelings 23 00:01:08,040 --> 00:01:11,040 Speaker 4: around it all. So when I heard that it was 24 00:01:11,040 --> 00:01:14,280 Speaker 4: coming to Netflix, I'm like, Okay, this is awesome, obviously, right, 25 00:01:14,440 --> 00:01:18,760 Speaker 4: New Eyes and you know, Netflix is a beast, and 26 00:01:19,840 --> 00:01:22,240 Speaker 4: but you know the last one went to number two, 27 00:01:22,319 --> 00:01:25,080 Speaker 4: so then you start to play with your emotions of things, right, 28 00:01:25,120 --> 00:01:27,600 Speaker 4: so you're like, well, I don't get upset if it 29 00:01:27,640 --> 00:01:31,440 Speaker 4: doesn't chart or you know, and that's just how like 30 00:01:31,480 --> 00:01:34,000 Speaker 4: my brain works. And then when it charted, I was like, 31 00:01:34,000 --> 00:01:38,360 Speaker 4: this is amazing. But then it's for me again. The 32 00:01:38,440 --> 00:01:41,200 Speaker 4: meaning behind the whole movie is, you know, I'm just 33 00:01:41,319 --> 00:01:43,800 Speaker 4: really proud of it. I even texted Morgan and was 34 00:01:43,840 --> 00:01:45,880 Speaker 4: just like, I'm so proud of you. But also I 35 00:01:45,959 --> 00:01:49,040 Speaker 4: know that this can open up feelings and emotions and 36 00:01:49,080 --> 00:01:52,960 Speaker 4: you've got older kids now and you know, just kind 37 00:01:53,000 --> 00:01:56,400 Speaker 4: of heart checking on her too. So it's been and 38 00:01:56,440 --> 00:01:58,840 Speaker 4: then just hearing people's stories and everything. But it just 39 00:01:58,920 --> 00:02:04,320 Speaker 4: is very interesting time. And I see the the timing 40 00:02:04,360 --> 00:02:06,920 Speaker 4: is not lost on me because about two weeks ago, 41 00:02:07,240 --> 00:02:09,520 Speaker 4: two weeks ago, a week and a half ago, I 42 00:02:09,560 --> 00:02:10,840 Speaker 4: had a call with my agent and I was like, 43 00:02:10,919 --> 00:02:13,800 Speaker 4: I think I'm just done, and I was very tearful 44 00:02:14,160 --> 00:02:16,280 Speaker 4: and I was crying and I was just like I'm 45 00:02:17,080 --> 00:02:20,040 Speaker 4: because I had gotten a no again on something that 46 00:02:20,080 --> 00:02:22,080 Speaker 4: I was really excited about. And I was just like 47 00:02:22,160 --> 00:02:24,480 Speaker 4: I'm so sick and tired of the rejection. I mean, 48 00:02:24,480 --> 00:02:26,240 Speaker 4: I've been doing this since I was nineteen years old. 49 00:02:26,720 --> 00:02:29,560 Speaker 4: I'm just I'm tired of it. Like I'm tired of 50 00:02:30,120 --> 00:02:33,000 Speaker 4: not being where I want to be and hearing no. 51 00:02:33,160 --> 00:02:35,000 Speaker 4: And I'm like, I've got the thickest skin ever in 52 00:02:35,000 --> 00:02:38,200 Speaker 4: this business, and at forty two, it still hurts when 53 00:02:38,880 --> 00:02:40,840 Speaker 4: something that I want to be doing I'm not doing 54 00:02:40,880 --> 00:02:43,800 Speaker 4: it and I keep getting told no. I'm just I'm like, 55 00:02:43,880 --> 00:02:46,000 Speaker 4: I don't know what I want to do. And she 56 00:02:46,160 --> 00:02:47,480 Speaker 4: was just like, oh, I just like really hate to 57 00:02:47,520 --> 00:02:54,520 Speaker 4: hear that. And but then like this happens and it's like, okay, 58 00:02:54,600 --> 00:02:56,360 Speaker 4: you know. So I responded back and I was like, well, 59 00:02:56,400 --> 00:02:59,280 Speaker 4: maybe I shouldn't quit, after all. I'm sure that's not 60 00:02:59,320 --> 00:03:01,200 Speaker 4: the first time she's gone through that with an artist. Oh, 61 00:03:01,200 --> 00:03:02,120 Speaker 4: I'm sure, I know. 62 00:03:02,240 --> 00:03:05,440 Speaker 2: But it just, you know, I know, we live it 63 00:03:05,480 --> 00:03:07,920 Speaker 2: on a we live it on the music side, the 64 00:03:08,040 --> 00:03:10,440 Speaker 2: ups and downs. That's what I always tease you that 65 00:03:10,520 --> 00:03:12,760 Speaker 2: both my my husband and my wife are going through 66 00:03:12,800 --> 00:03:15,520 Speaker 2: it at the same time, because it's like, you know, 67 00:03:15,639 --> 00:03:17,880 Speaker 2: like you guys your cycles are kind of like on 68 00:03:18,040 --> 00:03:20,519 Speaker 2: the same like what do we do what are we 69 00:03:20,560 --> 00:03:22,480 Speaker 2: even doing here? Should we just start a whole new business, 70 00:03:22,520 --> 00:03:24,840 Speaker 2: you know, and then and then something great will happen 71 00:03:24,960 --> 00:03:27,440 Speaker 2: and you get excited again, or you get renewed passion, 72 00:03:27,560 --> 00:03:30,480 Speaker 2: or like you remember why you came into this industry 73 00:03:30,480 --> 00:03:33,799 Speaker 2: to begin with. It's hard, though, I think people you know, 74 00:03:33,840 --> 00:03:35,360 Speaker 2: we've talked about this a little bit, but I think 75 00:03:35,480 --> 00:03:38,200 Speaker 2: just so many people don't know the inner workings of 76 00:03:38,440 --> 00:03:42,279 Speaker 2: this industry. And if you're in the really high elite successful, 77 00:03:42,440 --> 00:03:45,840 Speaker 2: it is, it's magic and it's shiny. But then there's 78 00:03:45,840 --> 00:03:48,800 Speaker 2: this like middle class, for lack of a better term, 79 00:03:48,840 --> 00:03:51,680 Speaker 2: of like just scrappers and hustlers that are just constantly 80 00:03:51,760 --> 00:03:55,160 Speaker 2: working and don't get the credit that's due and don't. 81 00:03:55,480 --> 00:03:58,440 Speaker 2: It's an industry where like the level of hustle and 82 00:03:58,520 --> 00:04:02,240 Speaker 2: hard work doesn't equal success, and that's maddening and unfair. 83 00:04:02,480 --> 00:04:05,120 Speaker 4: Yeah. So, but I am proud that this is the 84 00:04:05,160 --> 00:04:08,320 Speaker 4: one that had that got the number one, given the 85 00:04:08,920 --> 00:04:13,880 Speaker 4: storyline and the severity around it, and then hopefully helping people. 86 00:04:14,160 --> 00:04:16,719 Speaker 4: I had one person be like, oh my gosh, I've 87 00:04:16,760 --> 00:04:19,919 Speaker 4: realized that I'm being go slip by my husband, you know, 88 00:04:19,960 --> 00:04:22,760 Speaker 4: and think through watching it and so it's I I'm 89 00:04:22,800 --> 00:04:28,760 Speaker 4: really thankful that it's it can also help people too, absolutely, yeah, 90 00:04:28,800 --> 00:04:31,920 Speaker 4: well Don Kramer, thanks proud of it. And it's very 91 00:04:31,920 --> 00:04:35,760 Speaker 4: interesting the people that call when things go. I've had 92 00:04:35,760 --> 00:04:37,240 Speaker 4: a few producers be like all right, hey, so what 93 00:04:37,440 --> 00:04:38,360 Speaker 4: do you want to what do you want to work? 94 00:04:39,720 --> 00:04:42,640 Speaker 4: And I'm just like, this feels actually one really big producer. 95 00:04:42,640 --> 00:04:45,080 Speaker 4: I've been like dying to work with him in Jesus 96 00:04:45,160 --> 00:04:48,960 Speaker 4: name let it. And so he's like he dmned me 97 00:04:49,000 --> 00:04:52,000 Speaker 4: and he's like, hey, gaslet you know number one on Netflix? 98 00:04:52,040 --> 00:04:54,160 Speaker 4: How cool? And I'm like, is this Am I good 99 00:04:54,240 --> 00:04:56,120 Speaker 4: enough not to be in one of your movies? Come on? 100 00:04:56,839 --> 00:04:57,920 Speaker 3: Did you say that I did? 101 00:04:58,120 --> 00:04:59,479 Speaker 5: Good? I know you did. 102 00:04:59,680 --> 00:05:02,080 Speaker 3: Actually didn't take the opportunity. 103 00:05:02,279 --> 00:05:03,880 Speaker 4: I've known him for a long time and he's never 104 00:05:03,880 --> 00:05:05,719 Speaker 4: put me in one of his movies. So and he 105 00:05:05,760 --> 00:05:08,040 Speaker 4: does like big Peter Berg movies. 106 00:05:08,279 --> 00:05:11,239 Speaker 3: You know, let's go, let's not quit, let's keep going. 107 00:05:11,640 --> 00:05:14,760 Speaker 4: But I did because I'm gonna need to know. But 108 00:05:14,800 --> 00:05:17,200 Speaker 4: I did, like a little winky face on it mightn't 109 00:05:17,240 --> 00:05:19,320 Speaker 4: have to be one of your movies, No, Winky, that's right, 110 00:05:19,920 --> 00:05:21,880 Speaker 4: not to do it? Got it? Because you know, I'm 111 00:05:21,920 --> 00:05:24,960 Speaker 4: still but yeah, I've been working working on a few things. 112 00:05:25,000 --> 00:05:28,080 Speaker 4: But you know it is, it's uh, we'll see how 113 00:05:28,160 --> 00:05:30,240 Speaker 4: it all pans out. Do you have any update on 114 00:05:30,240 --> 00:05:31,240 Speaker 4: your lake House Creamer? 115 00:05:32,320 --> 00:05:35,640 Speaker 2: I will have an update next week for you. Pinning 116 00:05:36,240 --> 00:05:41,480 Speaker 2: noted noted went on spring break? Wait time out? Really 117 00:05:41,520 --> 00:05:45,799 Speaker 2: before that, though? How are the tryouts there? Friday's clinics? Okay, 118 00:05:45,839 --> 00:05:46,920 Speaker 2: you have to learn this stuff. 119 00:05:47,240 --> 00:05:47,440 Speaker 4: I know. 120 00:05:47,680 --> 00:05:51,120 Speaker 1: It's been it's been interesting. It's been like good and bad. 121 00:05:51,160 --> 00:05:53,680 Speaker 1: Like yesterday was a little rough. You know, She's like, oh, 122 00:05:53,680 --> 00:05:55,040 Speaker 1: I don't think I'm gonna make it, like you're gonna 123 00:05:55,040 --> 00:05:57,000 Speaker 1: make it. It's fine, you know, it's just like you know, 124 00:05:57,080 --> 00:06:00,279 Speaker 1: they're ups and downs, so big girl high school tryouts, Yeah, 125 00:06:00,360 --> 00:06:00,839 Speaker 1: up and down. 126 00:06:00,960 --> 00:06:03,599 Speaker 3: So we'll see. But Friday's the official trial. 127 00:06:03,800 --> 00:06:05,560 Speaker 4: So but spring break was spring. 128 00:06:05,400 --> 00:06:06,919 Speaker 1: Break was great. It was a little chilly, but it 129 00:06:06,960 --> 00:06:10,520 Speaker 1: was good. You know, all the high school kids running around. 130 00:06:11,600 --> 00:06:14,400 Speaker 3: But no, it was good. Nothing, nothing crazy. 131 00:06:15,040 --> 00:06:17,719 Speaker 4: But I went away with my husband for three nights 132 00:06:17,760 --> 00:06:21,440 Speaker 4: because the last time we've done that was in last July, 133 00:06:21,920 --> 00:06:24,919 Speaker 4: and I realized it's we we can't go was that 134 00:06:25,000 --> 00:06:31,040 Speaker 4: nine months? It's for me, it's too long to have 135 00:06:31,120 --> 00:06:34,120 Speaker 4: three nights alone together, like too many, too much of 136 00:06:35,120 --> 00:06:38,680 Speaker 4: a big gap, Like we I'm like, we got to 137 00:06:38,720 --> 00:06:42,360 Speaker 4: do this at least every six months. It's even if 138 00:06:42,360 --> 00:06:45,159 Speaker 4: it's just going down to Alabama for a couple of nights. 139 00:06:45,520 --> 00:06:48,000 Speaker 4: But I'm just you know, like you need to maybe 140 00:06:48,040 --> 00:06:51,560 Speaker 4: a lake house. So maybe I don't know, but it's. 141 00:06:50,960 --> 00:06:57,279 Speaker 5: I I just enjoyed him so much those three days 142 00:06:57,279 --> 00:07:01,240 Speaker 5: and three nights, like it's sleep on a you know, 143 00:07:01,360 --> 00:07:05,280 Speaker 5: little cabana, and it was just the most refreshing, Like 144 00:07:05,320 --> 00:07:08,880 Speaker 5: we dated each other and we laughed and we relaxed 145 00:07:08,920 --> 00:07:10,840 Speaker 5: and it was so much fun. 146 00:07:10,880 --> 00:07:14,200 Speaker 4: And I'm just like, I do love you. I always 147 00:07:14,240 --> 00:07:15,760 Speaker 4: love them obviously, but you know, I don't know. I 148 00:07:15,840 --> 00:07:18,320 Speaker 4: was just like I didn't realize how much I needed 149 00:07:18,480 --> 00:07:19,280 Speaker 4: those three days. 150 00:07:19,440 --> 00:07:22,080 Speaker 2: It's really inspiring though, Like when you guys did that, 151 00:07:22,200 --> 00:07:24,800 Speaker 2: you just looked so calm. 152 00:07:24,920 --> 00:07:28,120 Speaker 4: It was so peaceful, and I just felt so safe 153 00:07:28,160 --> 00:07:30,679 Speaker 4: with it, you know, and I just was like, Okay, yeah, 154 00:07:30,720 --> 00:07:33,040 Speaker 4: this is what it this is what it's supposed to be. 155 00:07:33,560 --> 00:07:35,440 Speaker 4: But it's so hard to have that when it's just 156 00:07:35,600 --> 00:07:38,679 Speaker 4: movies or is fine here and the kids in the sport, 157 00:07:38,720 --> 00:07:41,880 Speaker 4: you know, So it's like I would. I would just 158 00:07:41,920 --> 00:07:43,960 Speaker 4: have to prioritize it a little bit more. We have 159 00:07:44,040 --> 00:07:46,480 Speaker 4: to prioritize it, prioritize it a lot a bit more. 160 00:07:46,600 --> 00:07:48,320 Speaker 4: We're in that right now where I'm like this, I 161 00:07:48,360 --> 00:07:51,239 Speaker 4: don't I'm just trying to go on a data way. Yeah, 162 00:07:51,280 --> 00:07:54,000 Speaker 4: like this is insanity. And I always canceled it, to 163 00:07:54,000 --> 00:07:55,360 Speaker 4: be honest with you, because I was tired from the 164 00:07:55,360 --> 00:07:58,560 Speaker 4: movie and I'm like, it's one of these my kids, but. 165 00:08:00,440 --> 00:08:03,200 Speaker 2: For spring break. So I'm just like, I think when 166 00:08:03,240 --> 00:08:05,200 Speaker 2: we want to cancels when we need it most. That's 167 00:08:05,200 --> 00:08:05,680 Speaker 2: my theory. 168 00:08:05,760 --> 00:08:07,440 Speaker 4: Oh that's true. Every time I think I want to 169 00:08:07,440 --> 00:08:11,520 Speaker 4: cancel therapy and I always needed the most, or just like. 170 00:08:11,520 --> 00:08:14,560 Speaker 2: A date night or anything. I'm even last night I 171 00:08:15,000 --> 00:08:17,040 Speaker 2: attempt I was. I actually got to go see a 172 00:08:17,080 --> 00:08:19,400 Speaker 2: show of a band that I loved in high school 173 00:08:19,440 --> 00:08:21,760 Speaker 2: and college. I'm still trying to figure out who that 174 00:08:21,800 --> 00:08:24,640 Speaker 2: even is. By the way, our Lady Peace. Anybody know 175 00:08:24,680 --> 00:08:26,560 Speaker 2: Our Lady Peace? And I feel like not a lot 176 00:08:26,560 --> 00:08:29,560 Speaker 2: of people do. They were They're Canadians. So I think 177 00:08:29,600 --> 00:08:31,400 Speaker 2: I got them because we were well I don't know 178 00:08:31,440 --> 00:08:32,400 Speaker 2: why Cramer didn't. 179 00:08:32,160 --> 00:08:34,480 Speaker 3: Get them, but didn't get them. 180 00:08:34,840 --> 00:08:37,240 Speaker 2: We out in Michigan already when they started to infiltrate 181 00:08:37,280 --> 00:08:38,360 Speaker 2: down from Canada Air. 182 00:08:38,880 --> 00:08:40,160 Speaker 4: Incredible. Anyways, I. 183 00:08:41,679 --> 00:08:44,080 Speaker 2: Didn't know Shane was an early Peace fan, and it 184 00:08:44,160 --> 00:08:46,520 Speaker 2: came up in conversation months and like a year ago, 185 00:08:46,800 --> 00:08:48,120 Speaker 2: and I said, well, we have to go to a 186 00:08:48,120 --> 00:08:50,200 Speaker 2: show together. No one cares about them, like you know, 187 00:08:50,240 --> 00:08:51,920 Speaker 2: like I never find anybody that cares about them. 188 00:08:52,440 --> 00:08:54,559 Speaker 4: We lived our best life. It was great. 189 00:08:54,960 --> 00:08:57,360 Speaker 2: But afterwards, I thought I should go to Preston. He's 190 00:08:57,400 --> 00:09:00,920 Speaker 2: in town, staying downtown for the big Country radio seminar 191 00:09:00,960 --> 00:09:04,360 Speaker 2: that's in town. Oh, CRS is here, mm hmmm, Oh 192 00:09:04,960 --> 00:09:05,720 Speaker 2: I'm not missing. 193 00:09:05,880 --> 00:09:09,760 Speaker 3: So that was my least favorite events. 194 00:09:09,920 --> 00:09:12,559 Speaker 2: Yeah, I do not miss that out of respect that 195 00:09:12,600 --> 00:09:15,240 Speaker 2: we're still in the industry. In a little February or March, 196 00:09:15,280 --> 00:09:17,880 Speaker 2: it's kind of changed changed. Yeah, with other respect that 197 00:09:17,880 --> 00:09:19,520 Speaker 2: we're still in the industry. I will not comment on that, 198 00:09:19,600 --> 00:09:23,560 Speaker 2: which I ever hate CRS. But I actually was like 199 00:09:23,800 --> 00:09:26,079 Speaker 2: I might try to go get to him after the show, 200 00:09:27,200 --> 00:09:29,440 Speaker 2: just to see him because he wanted me to come down, 201 00:09:29,559 --> 00:09:31,599 Speaker 2: you know, like I thought that was he always just 202 00:09:31,640 --> 00:09:32,800 Speaker 2: thinks I'm good in this situation. 203 00:09:32,960 --> 00:09:37,400 Speaker 4: So I didn't do it, but I actually thought about it. 204 00:09:37,360 --> 00:09:39,480 Speaker 2: And I was like, it's probably because I need to 205 00:09:39,480 --> 00:09:41,360 Speaker 2: do that that I have it in the back of 206 00:09:41,360 --> 00:09:41,760 Speaker 2: my brain. 207 00:09:41,960 --> 00:09:42,160 Speaker 4: You know. 208 00:09:42,360 --> 00:09:43,040 Speaker 3: It's so funny. 209 00:09:43,120 --> 00:09:45,440 Speaker 1: Last night, randomly, I don't know what made me think 210 00:09:45,480 --> 00:09:47,360 Speaker 1: of this, but we were it was like me, Nick 211 00:09:47,400 --> 00:09:50,600 Speaker 1: and Emmy talking about like work or something, and Emmy goes, 212 00:09:51,080 --> 00:09:53,040 Speaker 1: your job is so against your personality. 213 00:09:53,080 --> 00:09:54,840 Speaker 3: I was like, it really is, isn't it. 214 00:09:54,920 --> 00:09:57,160 Speaker 1: Your job is so what do you mean, like think 215 00:09:57,200 --> 00:09:59,320 Speaker 1: like I used to have to go to CRS and 216 00:09:59,360 --> 00:10:01,600 Speaker 1: go out and talk to people at a party. 217 00:10:02,320 --> 00:10:03,200 Speaker 4: That's that tracks. 218 00:10:03,720 --> 00:10:06,400 Speaker 1: I was like, but this job actually well, well what 219 00:10:06,520 --> 00:10:08,920 Speaker 1: I said to her, I go podcasting or like my 220 00:10:09,000 --> 00:10:11,400 Speaker 1: regular job, and she goes, well both, and I was like, 221 00:10:11,480 --> 00:10:14,480 Speaker 1: aren't they Like it's so true. But I just think 222 00:10:14,480 --> 00:10:16,400 Speaker 1: about the days where I had I mean, I say, 223 00:10:16,480 --> 00:10:18,840 Speaker 1: had you were great. I loved it then and I 224 00:10:18,920 --> 00:10:21,520 Speaker 1: was young and I was you know, I still had 225 00:10:21,520 --> 00:10:23,160 Speaker 1: to have like a glass of wine to go do it. 226 00:10:23,280 --> 00:10:27,360 Speaker 4: You know, I still the podcast doing these but like sho. 227 00:10:27,559 --> 00:10:29,840 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, how I could not do that now. 228 00:10:30,400 --> 00:10:31,920 Speaker 1: I mean I could if I had to, I. 229 00:10:31,920 --> 00:10:37,920 Speaker 4: Couldn't do the overly performative performative was so performative for y'all. 230 00:10:38,400 --> 00:10:40,480 Speaker 4: I would just be like, hey, what's up right? 231 00:10:41,360 --> 00:10:43,400 Speaker 3: I don't like me or not, I don't care. 232 00:10:45,160 --> 00:10:46,760 Speaker 4: Saying great, you know what I mean? And I'm not 233 00:10:46,800 --> 00:10:48,199 Speaker 4: going to do one of your free shows to prove 234 00:10:48,200 --> 00:10:50,560 Speaker 4: it to you like you said it. 235 00:10:51,320 --> 00:10:56,480 Speaker 2: Wow, yeah, wild times the things we do. 236 00:10:57,160 --> 00:11:00,800 Speaker 1: Would you take that over the acting though hustle that 237 00:11:00,800 --> 00:11:01,720 Speaker 1: you're doing Now. 238 00:11:02,920 --> 00:11:05,720 Speaker 4: I feel like where I'm at with like, I just 239 00:11:05,760 --> 00:11:11,320 Speaker 4: had a call with someone and I am very much 240 00:11:11,440 --> 00:11:16,960 Speaker 4: like I'm more in control of what I want and 241 00:11:17,040 --> 00:11:18,800 Speaker 4: I'm not just going to say yes to something. 242 00:11:18,880 --> 00:11:19,080 Speaker 3: Yeah. 243 00:11:19,120 --> 00:11:21,160 Speaker 4: So I did say yes something and it was not 244 00:11:21,200 --> 00:11:23,240 Speaker 4: a great experience. So now I'm like, okay, so how 245 00:11:23,280 --> 00:11:24,560 Speaker 4: is this going to look? Because I'm not you know, 246 00:11:24,600 --> 00:11:27,559 Speaker 4: and it's I I because if not then I'm out, yeah, 247 00:11:27,679 --> 00:11:30,760 Speaker 4: you know. And so I'm more clear with what I 248 00:11:30,840 --> 00:11:34,400 Speaker 4: deserve and with what I won't and will tolerate. 249 00:11:34,520 --> 00:11:37,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, and you couldn't do that then, no, you really couldn't. 250 00:11:37,600 --> 00:11:39,640 Speaker 4: I would love to do you can't, and you really 251 00:11:39,720 --> 00:11:41,200 Speaker 4: you can? I know. 252 00:11:41,240 --> 00:11:41,440 Speaker 5: You know. 253 00:11:41,679 --> 00:11:43,720 Speaker 2: It's interesting because Preston even texted me last night and 254 00:11:43,720 --> 00:11:45,920 Speaker 2: said the CRS is very different from me because now 255 00:11:45,920 --> 00:11:47,960 Speaker 2: he's on the executive side and the label side, and 256 00:11:47,960 --> 00:11:50,440 Speaker 2: he's like and it's more on his terms, and so 257 00:11:50,559 --> 00:11:51,360 Speaker 2: it doesn't feel like. 258 00:11:51,360 --> 00:11:53,800 Speaker 4: It's always felt, which I. 259 00:11:53,160 --> 00:11:56,520 Speaker 2: Feel like well deserved for him, but also, yeah, I 260 00:11:56,600 --> 00:11:59,880 Speaker 2: think we just all gained this maturity and the experience. 261 00:12:00,040 --> 00:12:02,840 Speaker 2: I'm like, Okay, we don't have to and we won't exactly. 262 00:12:03,040 --> 00:12:20,400 Speaker 4: Yeah, guys, we're going on tour, Yes we are, and 263 00:12:20,840 --> 00:12:26,280 Speaker 4: we are going to be hitting Philly, Pittsburgh, Atlanta, Nashville, 264 00:12:26,320 --> 00:12:28,280 Speaker 4: Saint Louis, Chicago. If you're any of those cities, go 265 00:12:28,320 --> 00:12:31,840 Speaker 4: to Jane Creamer dot com and get tickets. So excited, guys, 266 00:12:32,040 --> 00:12:33,160 Speaker 4: I'm so excited. 267 00:12:33,200 --> 00:12:36,720 Speaker 2: If I'm not I get a Girl's Night, I finally 268 00:12:37,520 --> 00:12:39,360 Speaker 2: play how I get Yeah, this is how we do it. 269 00:12:39,400 --> 00:12:41,160 Speaker 4: We have to do it because I'm like, it's been 270 00:12:41,840 --> 00:12:44,359 Speaker 4: ten years since I've had an actual. 271 00:12:44,000 --> 00:12:47,640 Speaker 3: Girls Oh my gosh, ten probably. Yeah. 272 00:12:47,760 --> 00:12:49,600 Speaker 4: The wind down is the only time. He's like, how 273 00:12:49,679 --> 00:12:51,120 Speaker 4: is christ and hous Katz. I don't know that. I 274 00:12:51,160 --> 00:12:53,959 Speaker 4: don't really get to doct and like we don't see anybody, 275 00:12:54,200 --> 00:12:55,679 Speaker 4: We've our UK Night's been canceled. 276 00:12:55,880 --> 00:12:57,000 Speaker 3: I'm like months. 277 00:12:57,080 --> 00:12:59,839 Speaker 4: Yeah, Like it's just so I'm so excited and I 278 00:12:59,840 --> 00:13:02,280 Speaker 4: cannot wait for the people that also come and get 279 00:13:02,320 --> 00:13:05,280 Speaker 4: to just hang with us. It's literally my favorite. So excited. 280 00:13:05,320 --> 00:13:07,880 Speaker 2: I don't know what we're going to get, but really 281 00:13:08,120 --> 00:13:09,760 Speaker 2: excited me neither. 282 00:13:10,040 --> 00:13:12,600 Speaker 1: However, guess what We've got somebody that's gonna help Tor 283 00:13:12,679 --> 00:13:16,640 Speaker 1: manage so I can actually like joy. 284 00:13:16,720 --> 00:13:17,240 Speaker 3: I'm just kidding. 285 00:13:17,240 --> 00:13:19,400 Speaker 1: I do love Tor managing too, but it may it's 286 00:13:19,400 --> 00:13:21,040 Speaker 1: hard to be a little stressful. So we get to 287 00:13:21,080 --> 00:13:27,079 Speaker 1: just like hang, I need you like we will. Yeah, 288 00:13:27,280 --> 00:13:29,080 Speaker 1: that's what I'm saying. Hopefully this guy's good. He's gonna 289 00:13:29,080 --> 00:13:33,720 Speaker 1: have to be because Fireball cat. So we're looking forward 290 00:13:33,720 --> 00:13:34,600 Speaker 1: to back. Get your tickets. 291 00:13:34,679 --> 00:13:36,480 Speaker 2: Am I allowed to say if I'm not just cut it, 292 00:13:36,640 --> 00:13:40,720 Speaker 2: that we would potentially also entertain later dates in other places, 293 00:13:40,760 --> 00:13:45,840 Speaker 2: because I'm getting a lot are pretty there. 294 00:13:46,040 --> 00:13:48,000 Speaker 4: I'm like, well, you don't have a city winery there front. 295 00:13:48,040 --> 00:13:51,160 Speaker 1: That's yeah, this is a city winery tour essentially, and 296 00:13:51,200 --> 00:13:54,640 Speaker 1: so we obviously went to the city wineries and we 297 00:13:54,720 --> 00:13:56,359 Speaker 1: will think about. 298 00:13:56,080 --> 00:13:58,120 Speaker 4: It and we will talk about some future dates, but 299 00:13:58,160 --> 00:14:00,840 Speaker 4: for now, get your tickets to the closest place, ladies. 300 00:14:00,880 --> 00:14:06,240 Speaker 4: Anything to whine about Kristien's eyeballs. 301 00:14:06,240 --> 00:14:08,640 Speaker 3: Did you pin something last week? We're waiting. 302 00:14:08,679 --> 00:14:10,880 Speaker 1: I've been waiting on yours because you keep pinning it 303 00:14:11,640 --> 00:14:12,280 Speaker 1: just last week. 304 00:14:12,320 --> 00:14:13,720 Speaker 3: Oh did you talk about it last week? 305 00:14:13,800 --> 00:14:14,079 Speaker 4: No? 306 00:14:14,720 --> 00:14:16,600 Speaker 2: Now I'm gonna still pin that one because it's so 307 00:14:17,240 --> 00:14:19,520 Speaker 2: it's so close to home that I have to figure 308 00:14:19,560 --> 00:14:22,160 Speaker 2: out how I can say it without it getting its family. 309 00:14:22,280 --> 00:14:25,720 Speaker 2: So I'm just really that that is tricky. I'm gonna 310 00:14:25,800 --> 00:14:28,240 Speaker 2: we'll talk offline and see if we can configure something 311 00:14:28,920 --> 00:14:31,280 Speaker 2: that we can make it. 312 00:14:31,280 --> 00:14:33,080 Speaker 1: It really made me laugh about cham about it on 313 00:14:33,120 --> 00:14:37,040 Speaker 1: tour last week. It was like, oh, this just gets 314 00:14:37,080 --> 00:14:38,800 Speaker 1: really tricky. Okay, it's me so. 315 00:14:40,240 --> 00:14:42,800 Speaker 4: Which, by the way, update on that, yeah, god, I'm 316 00:14:42,960 --> 00:14:45,200 Speaker 4: so After it aired, I blocked her because I was 317 00:14:45,240 --> 00:14:45,880 Speaker 4: so afraid. 318 00:14:46,000 --> 00:14:48,400 Speaker 3: I get people all the time when I'm like. 319 00:14:48,400 --> 00:14:49,440 Speaker 4: How old am I? 320 00:14:49,480 --> 00:14:52,480 Speaker 3: How I blocked? I blocked almost yeah. 321 00:14:52,320 --> 00:14:55,600 Speaker 4: But what I did do it was actually was really sweet. Alan. 322 00:14:55,720 --> 00:14:57,600 Speaker 4: I walked in there. Sometimes he's like, babe, why did 323 00:14:57,640 --> 00:14:59,920 Speaker 4: you talk about that or why? But this one, I'm like, 324 00:15:00,080 --> 00:15:02,240 Speaker 4: so I brought it up to the girls, you know 325 00:15:02,560 --> 00:15:07,000 Speaker 4: on the podcast, and and he didn't. I waited to 326 00:15:07,040 --> 00:15:09,720 Speaker 4: pause to see if he was like baby, but he didn't. 327 00:15:09,760 --> 00:15:11,080 Speaker 4: He was just like, okay, would they say. I'm like 328 00:15:11,080 --> 00:15:13,240 Speaker 4: they said they wouldn't, and so I feel a little 329 00:15:13,240 --> 00:15:16,600 Speaker 4: bit more validated. But he said he goes baby, He's like, 330 00:15:16,680 --> 00:15:19,320 Speaker 4: I give me. It's like, why are the wives talking 331 00:15:19,360 --> 00:15:21,120 Speaker 4: about it? He's like, give me her number so I 332 00:15:21,160 --> 00:15:23,960 Speaker 4: can get the husband's number and then the husband's can 333 00:15:24,000 --> 00:15:25,600 Speaker 4: talk about it. He's like, let me take this off 334 00:15:25,640 --> 00:15:27,560 Speaker 4: your plate. So I haven't done that yet, but I 335 00:15:27,600 --> 00:15:31,080 Speaker 4: will because she's I blocked. I was like, I don't 336 00:15:31,080 --> 00:15:33,040 Speaker 4: want to be like, how dare you talk about. 337 00:15:32,880 --> 00:15:34,720 Speaker 1: I really don't think it was that big idea, and 338 00:15:34,720 --> 00:15:37,240 Speaker 1: I think we have talked about so much worse, and 339 00:15:37,320 --> 00:15:39,960 Speaker 1: of all things that I lace to worry about. 340 00:15:39,760 --> 00:15:41,520 Speaker 4: I just get freaked out because I don't want anyone 341 00:15:41,560 --> 00:15:45,240 Speaker 4: to think that I'm just talking like bad or trash 342 00:15:45,360 --> 00:15:46,360 Speaker 4: or I just don't think. 343 00:15:46,200 --> 00:15:46,960 Speaker 3: You were at all on this. 344 00:15:47,280 --> 00:15:49,520 Speaker 2: I was reversing out of the driveway that day and 345 00:15:49,560 --> 00:15:52,600 Speaker 2: I sent her voice. I was like, ma'am, this is 346 00:15:52,640 --> 00:15:54,680 Speaker 2: far too close to your house to even entertain this option. 347 00:15:54,800 --> 00:15:56,800 Speaker 3: Well, that's what I'm going to figure trying to figure out. 348 00:15:56,840 --> 00:15:58,400 Speaker 2: I mean, I took a good hard look and I 349 00:15:58,440 --> 00:16:00,760 Speaker 2: was like, you were a good person, drip, you know 350 00:16:00,800 --> 00:16:04,160 Speaker 2: what I mean side strip, which again at plenty of trees. 351 00:16:04,360 --> 00:16:08,000 Speaker 4: But what I don't like, and here's my wine about it. Now, 352 00:16:08,400 --> 00:16:10,560 Speaker 4: when I'm going for a walk and I like see 353 00:16:11,040 --> 00:16:17,120 Speaker 4: them walking forward me, it's like that, oh hello, you 354 00:16:17,160 --> 00:16:17,680 Speaker 4: know what I mean. 355 00:16:18,520 --> 00:16:21,080 Speaker 3: And I don't even know if she heard or not. 356 00:16:21,320 --> 00:16:24,600 Speaker 4: And I'm talking into a equip bart, you know, So 357 00:16:24,680 --> 00:16:27,680 Speaker 4: I'm just like, that's the part where I'm just now 358 00:16:27,720 --> 00:16:29,320 Speaker 4: I just feel like I don't like, I feel like 359 00:16:29,320 --> 00:16:29,840 Speaker 4: I'm hiding. 360 00:16:30,680 --> 00:16:34,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, you've gotten yourself into way worse trouble before. 361 00:16:34,800 --> 00:16:36,800 Speaker 3: That is very true. I mean I can think of 362 00:16:36,840 --> 00:16:39,200 Speaker 3: a lot of instances that were just so much worse. 363 00:16:39,480 --> 00:16:41,240 Speaker 3: I get the cat. 364 00:16:41,320 --> 00:16:44,280 Speaker 2: This this one doesn't worry me at all. 365 00:16:44,640 --> 00:16:46,240 Speaker 3: So you're fine, that's true. 366 00:16:46,240 --> 00:16:48,120 Speaker 4: I mean when I talked about the high school sweetheart 367 00:16:48,240 --> 00:16:51,200 Speaker 4: going on the golfing trip like that kind of which 368 00:16:52,640 --> 00:16:54,880 Speaker 4: somebody else, but that didn't really get me, that was 369 00:16:55,440 --> 00:16:58,320 Speaker 4: at all. But what was funny is an ex boyfriend 370 00:16:58,560 --> 00:17:01,520 Speaker 4: was also on a golfing trip that weekend, and so 371 00:17:01,560 --> 00:17:04,919 Speaker 4: then their person reached out to you, going, why is 372 00:17:04,960 --> 00:17:10,120 Speaker 4: she talking about this person? I'm like, oh my god, 373 00:17:10,160 --> 00:17:14,639 Speaker 4: the worst timing of a the worst because I'm like, 374 00:17:14,720 --> 00:17:17,440 Speaker 4: he's like, why is she talking about like and trying 375 00:17:17,480 --> 00:17:19,280 Speaker 4: to start problems in the marriage. I'm like, oh my god. 376 00:17:19,280 --> 00:17:22,320 Speaker 4: I'm I was like, here's proof that I'm trying to. 377 00:17:22,320 --> 00:17:24,960 Speaker 2: Start problems in a different marriage, not yours. 378 00:17:27,000 --> 00:17:35,400 Speaker 4: No, silly, I wasn't hard to start any problem. Back 379 00:17:35,440 --> 00:17:37,920 Speaker 4: to the That's why the pool feels so much easier. 380 00:17:38,720 --> 00:17:43,440 Speaker 3: The pool the least of our worries. 381 00:17:43,880 --> 00:17:45,240 Speaker 4: I do have a tiny wine. 382 00:17:45,440 --> 00:17:49,240 Speaker 2: Okay, So I went to therapy last week with Amy, 383 00:17:49,440 --> 00:17:54,680 Speaker 2: and I came in like a wrecking Ballmiley Cyrus and 384 00:17:56,200 --> 00:17:57,879 Speaker 2: one of us can sing and I just depend on 385 00:17:57,920 --> 00:18:01,760 Speaker 2: you for that, and and I told her, I just 386 00:18:01,760 --> 00:18:03,360 Speaker 2: want to I feel like it's a good wine because 387 00:18:03,400 --> 00:18:05,040 Speaker 2: it could be a little like we could slide some 388 00:18:05,040 --> 00:18:06,880 Speaker 2: good advice in because I think a lot of people 389 00:18:06,920 --> 00:18:07,520 Speaker 2: are in the season. 390 00:18:07,560 --> 00:18:11,000 Speaker 4: But I was like, I am just constantly hijacked. 391 00:18:11,000 --> 00:18:13,240 Speaker 2: I'm starting to feel like I work at my house, 392 00:18:13,760 --> 00:18:16,159 Speaker 2: and I do work from home, but I feel like 393 00:18:16,280 --> 00:18:19,560 Speaker 2: I am not enjoying my home as much as I 394 00:18:19,600 --> 00:18:22,399 Speaker 2: should because I love it so much, you know, and 395 00:18:22,440 --> 00:18:27,960 Speaker 2: that I'm just constantly like cleaning, cooking, schooling, cleaning, cooking, schooling, laundry, 396 00:18:28,040 --> 00:18:31,800 Speaker 2: like it's just so repetitive and not that that's not 397 00:18:31,840 --> 00:18:32,360 Speaker 2: holy work. 398 00:18:32,400 --> 00:18:33,199 Speaker 4: Like you guys know me. 399 00:18:33,359 --> 00:18:36,879 Speaker 2: I love homemaking so much so it feels good to me. 400 00:18:37,480 --> 00:18:41,160 Speaker 2: But then I also feel like no one really wakes 401 00:18:41,240 --> 00:18:42,800 Speaker 2: up in the morning like you know that doctor Phil 402 00:18:42,840 --> 00:18:44,800 Speaker 2: thing I shared a long time ago, which was like 403 00:18:44,960 --> 00:18:46,119 Speaker 2: you wake up in the marine and say how can 404 00:18:46,160 --> 00:18:47,399 Speaker 2: I make their day better? And they wake up in 405 00:18:47,400 --> 00:18:49,000 Speaker 2: the marine say how can I look their day better? 406 00:18:49,040 --> 00:18:51,560 Speaker 2: And eventually like it's impossible not to meet in the middle. 407 00:18:52,080 --> 00:18:54,280 Speaker 2: But I feel like I'm waking up thinking that way 408 00:18:54,359 --> 00:18:57,520 Speaker 2: for those four and that those four aren't necessarily thinking 409 00:18:57,560 --> 00:19:00,720 Speaker 2: of bad way for me. And so so I came 410 00:19:00,760 --> 00:19:03,600 Speaker 2: in and I unpacked it all. I'm like really high 411 00:19:03,680 --> 00:19:07,760 Speaker 2: level going over this fast with Amy, and she was like, 412 00:19:07,960 --> 00:19:10,520 Speaker 2: I think it's time to step into our executive energy. 413 00:19:10,920 --> 00:19:11,520 Speaker 4: What do you mean? 414 00:19:11,760 --> 00:19:14,040 Speaker 2: I know, I doesn't it feel good like it just 415 00:19:14,119 --> 00:19:17,760 Speaker 2: I was like Amy, say it and she said, no, 416 00:19:17,880 --> 00:19:21,320 Speaker 2: I can't. What Yeah, I have to just start saying no, 417 00:19:21,440 --> 00:19:23,840 Speaker 2: I can't. I am such a boundary master outside of 418 00:19:23,840 --> 00:19:27,160 Speaker 2: my home, so easy boundaries for her boundaries for them, 419 00:19:27,280 --> 00:19:30,520 Speaker 2: no problem. Inside my house, I feel like I can't 420 00:19:30,560 --> 00:19:34,040 Speaker 2: say no as much as I want to, maybe because 421 00:19:34,040 --> 00:19:36,200 Speaker 2: I was like this guilt of im mom, and because 422 00:19:36,200 --> 00:19:38,960 Speaker 2: I am primary parent, like I'm literally there with them 423 00:19:39,000 --> 00:19:42,600 Speaker 2: so much, but like I don't say no enough to them, 424 00:19:42,640 --> 00:19:45,959 Speaker 2: And so I said, can I have permission? Might give 425 00:19:46,000 --> 00:19:48,480 Speaker 2: me a trouble, but I was like, can I have 426 00:19:48,600 --> 00:19:52,560 Speaker 2: permission to just tell them? Like I can't be like 427 00:19:53,240 --> 00:19:55,800 Speaker 2: not bothered, but like I will be happy to help 428 00:19:55,840 --> 00:19:58,359 Speaker 2: you with all of these things starting at like seven 429 00:19:58,400 --> 00:20:02,359 Speaker 2: thirty am or eight am instead of it's like the 430 00:20:02,400 --> 00:20:04,520 Speaker 2: minute my feet hit the ground, they all wake up, 431 00:20:04,840 --> 00:20:07,480 Speaker 2: and so by six thirty five, I'm making crapes. 432 00:20:07,680 --> 00:20:10,879 Speaker 4: It is my lip, Honey, your cheer is in a bulboop. 433 00:20:12,440 --> 00:20:14,440 Speaker 3: Boundaries. You need some boundaries at home. 434 00:20:14,359 --> 00:20:17,040 Speaker 2: Absolutely, and I just don't, I think because it's wild 435 00:20:17,040 --> 00:20:19,400 Speaker 2: because I just love boundaries so much. But inside the house, 436 00:20:19,440 --> 00:20:21,880 Speaker 2: I'm not as good at that. Like I've been way 437 00:20:21,880 --> 00:20:24,840 Speaker 2: better about Preston, like you guys, Like I actually kind 438 00:20:24,840 --> 00:20:26,560 Speaker 2: of want to take a video so that you could 439 00:20:26,600 --> 00:20:29,639 Speaker 2: just see the inundation because I can be doing like 440 00:20:29,680 --> 00:20:31,680 Speaker 2: three things for one of them and then another one, 441 00:20:31,680 --> 00:20:33,280 Speaker 2: and then the baby is a little bit needy right now, 442 00:20:33,320 --> 00:20:35,399 Speaker 2: two and a half is really something. And then my 443 00:20:35,440 --> 00:20:37,080 Speaker 2: husband will come in and be like, hey, can you 444 00:20:37,119 --> 00:20:39,960 Speaker 2: read this and tell me how you'd respond, And I'm like, no, 445 00:20:40,080 --> 00:20:40,520 Speaker 2: I can't. 446 00:20:40,720 --> 00:20:42,359 Speaker 4: So that's my wine. 447 00:20:42,359 --> 00:20:42,920 Speaker 3: That's huge. 448 00:20:42,960 --> 00:20:46,640 Speaker 1: You should do that, and it will be more beneficial 449 00:20:47,080 --> 00:20:49,199 Speaker 1: for those children, that's what she said, as well as 450 00:20:49,200 --> 00:20:54,440 Speaker 1: they're older, like my kids can all probably not all, 451 00:20:54,640 --> 00:20:57,199 Speaker 1: probably not Ramsey, I don't know, can cook better than 452 00:20:57,200 --> 00:20:57,520 Speaker 1: I can. 453 00:20:57,920 --> 00:20:59,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, and they do. Like that's the thing, like love 454 00:20:59,720 --> 00:21:02,280 Speaker 2: makes herself a runny egg. She helps to just start. 455 00:21:02,920 --> 00:21:04,000 Speaker 4: Yeah, why don't you do that? 456 00:21:04,760 --> 00:21:05,040 Speaker 3: Yeah? 457 00:21:05,160 --> 00:21:07,280 Speaker 4: Actually, so I'm gonna actually had her make me a 458 00:21:07,359 --> 00:21:10,080 Speaker 4: runny egg. There you go. I was like, let's just 459 00:21:10,080 --> 00:21:13,040 Speaker 4: flip it, you know, like, good on you, girl. 460 00:21:13,080 --> 00:21:14,439 Speaker 2: And it was sweet because I came home from the 461 00:21:14,440 --> 00:21:17,439 Speaker 2: show last night and this morning I felt like I 462 00:21:17,480 --> 00:21:20,320 Speaker 2: had like cute, little shrunken roommates. They were like, tell 463 00:21:20,400 --> 00:21:22,000 Speaker 2: us about the show, and I was like, well that 464 00:21:22,359 --> 00:21:24,720 Speaker 2: so the boundaries are already starting to like make it 465 00:21:24,720 --> 00:21:25,679 Speaker 2: the key to let impact. 466 00:21:25,800 --> 00:21:26,000 Speaker 4: Yeah. 467 00:21:26,520 --> 00:21:29,719 Speaker 1: And then also, yeah, I've had a rule since they 468 00:21:29,720 --> 00:21:33,320 Speaker 1: were little that we're not doing anything before seven am. 469 00:21:33,520 --> 00:21:36,119 Speaker 3: We're not getting up out of bed. Were a cat 470 00:21:36,520 --> 00:21:38,520 Speaker 3: and no one I mean, oh everyone. 471 00:21:38,200 --> 00:21:40,240 Speaker 4: Knows that you don't come down until after seven. 472 00:21:40,359 --> 00:21:42,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's always been seven. So we don't do things 473 00:21:42,920 --> 00:21:43,920 Speaker 1: in our homekeep were. 474 00:21:43,840 --> 00:21:45,359 Speaker 4: Playing in their rooms. If they wake up at six 475 00:21:45,520 --> 00:21:48,399 Speaker 4: thirty six forty five, it's they don't come to the play. 476 00:21:48,520 --> 00:21:50,440 Speaker 4: And then seven o'clock they come down. It's like, hey, 477 00:21:50,560 --> 00:21:51,960 Speaker 4: that is always and. 478 00:21:51,880 --> 00:21:54,280 Speaker 1: Now as mine get older, they don't wake Like if 479 00:21:54,320 --> 00:21:56,600 Speaker 1: I am sleeping past that, they don't wake me up. 480 00:21:57,240 --> 00:21:58,640 Speaker 3: I mean if they need to for. 481 00:21:58,720 --> 00:22:00,439 Speaker 4: Some grades older too. 482 00:22:00,520 --> 00:22:02,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, but like Ramsey, yeah exactly, but I'm saying it, 483 00:22:02,920 --> 00:22:05,400 Speaker 1: there will get there's point when they get older, sure 484 00:22:05,520 --> 00:22:07,600 Speaker 1: where I don't know what time Ramsey gets up. 485 00:22:09,040 --> 00:22:10,840 Speaker 3: Nine times out of ten unless I'm getting re up 486 00:22:10,880 --> 00:22:11,760 Speaker 3: for school. But like on the. 487 00:22:11,680 --> 00:22:13,560 Speaker 1: Weekend, she just gets up and does her own thing 488 00:22:13,640 --> 00:22:15,800 Speaker 1: for however long, you know, until Yeah. 489 00:22:15,880 --> 00:22:18,200 Speaker 2: I mean they're just so self sufficient, which is so great, 490 00:22:18,359 --> 00:22:23,280 Speaker 2: which is so Yeah, They're just I am so available 491 00:22:23,400 --> 00:22:27,480 Speaker 2: to them that I've created, which we want to be too, 492 00:22:27,800 --> 00:22:30,640 Speaker 2: of course. Like, but there is resentment in it. Yeah, 493 00:22:30,680 --> 00:22:32,720 Speaker 2: it's ugly, but that's just the word. Like I start 494 00:22:32,720 --> 00:22:34,320 Speaker 2: to go, like, okay, but where do I even fit 495 00:22:34,359 --> 00:22:34,720 Speaker 2: in here? 496 00:22:34,800 --> 00:22:35,560 Speaker 4: Right? You know? 497 00:22:35,920 --> 00:22:38,000 Speaker 1: Maybe start asking that like you said, she made you 498 00:22:38,040 --> 00:22:40,600 Speaker 1: a running egg, start asking them to do something for you. 499 00:22:40,880 --> 00:22:41,400 Speaker 4: Yeah. 500 00:22:41,680 --> 00:22:44,879 Speaker 1: And then also that's good for them because they start thinking, 501 00:22:45,040 --> 00:22:48,160 Speaker 1: start thinking, and mine are not great at doing. They're 502 00:22:48,200 --> 00:22:49,639 Speaker 1: not good like that, like they're you know, I mean, 503 00:22:49,680 --> 00:22:51,720 Speaker 1: they're very independent, but they're not thinking what can I 504 00:22:51,720 --> 00:22:52,720 Speaker 1: do to help my mom? 505 00:22:52,760 --> 00:22:53,040 Speaker 4: Right now? 506 00:22:53,040 --> 00:22:55,960 Speaker 1: They're still kids, but you slowly, maybe start asking them 507 00:22:55,960 --> 00:22:57,680 Speaker 1: to do stuff for you too, and then that will 508 00:22:57,720 --> 00:22:58,960 Speaker 1: maybe help with that resentment piece. 509 00:22:59,359 --> 00:23:00,919 Speaker 4: I have a wine about it for next week. I'm 510 00:23:00,920 --> 00:23:02,560 Speaker 4: pinning right now. I'm writing it down because we have 511 00:23:02,640 --> 00:23:06,000 Speaker 4: to move on to headlines, but it's around this, so 512 00:23:06,080 --> 00:23:09,480 Speaker 4: I sparked it in there. Love It, Whitney, Love It 513 00:23:09,640 --> 00:23:13,639 Speaker 4: hints at secret lives of Mormon wives, exit guys. The 514 00:23:13,680 --> 00:23:16,199 Speaker 4: amount of times that she said she's leaving, like she 515 00:23:16,280 --> 00:23:17,920 Speaker 4: really should leave at this point, that at this point 516 00:23:17,960 --> 00:23:21,760 Speaker 4: I think she should hundred percent leave because she's got opportunities. 517 00:23:21,800 --> 00:23:24,680 Speaker 4: I mean, she's crushed it. On Broadway's Roxy Heart in Chicago, 518 00:23:25,040 --> 00:23:28,639 Speaker 4: they had like, you know, a whole what's that called? 519 00:23:30,440 --> 00:23:33,160 Speaker 4: She broke a record, and then you know she's got 520 00:23:33,200 --> 00:23:36,320 Speaker 4: some real opportunity in the acting space, and my goodness, gracious, 521 00:23:36,400 --> 00:23:39,320 Speaker 4: like how great of a platform. Now, jump off of 522 00:23:39,359 --> 00:23:43,760 Speaker 4: the ship that's you know that brought you there, because 523 00:23:43,840 --> 00:23:45,960 Speaker 4: this is this is good. Like if you want to 524 00:23:46,000 --> 00:23:51,040 Speaker 4: be a legit actress, then she is a move into. 525 00:23:50,800 --> 00:23:55,560 Speaker 1: That perfect example of how reality TV really helped spark 526 00:23:55,680 --> 00:23:57,400 Speaker 1: a career under But also. 527 00:23:57,240 --> 00:24:00,760 Speaker 4: Who knew she was that talented? I know, incredible wild, yeah, 528 00:24:00,880 --> 00:24:04,960 Speaker 4: like so talented. Yeah, I'd be interested. So I texted 529 00:24:05,040 --> 00:24:08,080 Speaker 4: Jake who did the Christmas movie he directed her and 530 00:24:08,200 --> 00:24:11,040 Speaker 4: who he directed me in the Cowboy Country Christmas whatever 531 00:24:11,119 --> 00:24:15,359 Speaker 4: romance longest titles ever heard, And I was like she 532 00:24:15,440 --> 00:24:17,359 Speaker 4: and He's like she was, She's really good. She's actually 533 00:24:17,359 --> 00:24:19,399 Speaker 4: really good. Great, So I think she's got, you know, 534 00:24:19,440 --> 00:24:22,040 Speaker 4: for him to say that, like she's got a shop 535 00:24:22,080 --> 00:24:25,240 Speaker 4: for sure, and all of us please give us closure 536 00:24:25,280 --> 00:24:40,879 Speaker 4: and just go ahead and leave resign. There's another headline 537 00:24:40,920 --> 00:24:45,119 Speaker 4: too about the HR exec center of Coldplay, kiss cam controversy, defense, 538 00:24:45,200 --> 00:24:49,640 Speaker 4: very close CEO relationship, and Oprah Winfrey interview. At this point, though, 539 00:24:49,680 --> 00:24:52,040 Speaker 4: I'm just kind of like I watched some of it, 540 00:24:52,040 --> 00:24:57,240 Speaker 4: it's you did okay, because I'm just like, it's the 541 00:24:57,240 --> 00:24:59,080 Speaker 4: more you keep talking about it, the more it's going 542 00:24:59,119 --> 00:25:01,360 Speaker 4: to stay around. Like people will forget. That's the thing. 543 00:25:01,480 --> 00:25:03,159 Speaker 4: If you look at us weekly, and I used to 544 00:25:03,160 --> 00:25:06,399 Speaker 4: stress all the time if something went up there, it 545 00:25:06,440 --> 00:25:08,920 Speaker 4: gives me the most amount of anxiety. If you don't 546 00:25:08,960 --> 00:25:10,800 Speaker 4: talk about it, it goes away. Because I'm trying to 547 00:25:10,880 --> 00:25:14,920 Speaker 4: keep more stories that will be there in that same day. 548 00:25:15,160 --> 00:25:17,200 Speaker 3: I think they're trying to stay relevant, do. 549 00:25:17,160 --> 00:25:20,520 Speaker 4: You think so? Yes, she's just trying to defend herself, 550 00:25:21,240 --> 00:25:23,760 Speaker 4: which I think I mean. But now she's saying that 551 00:25:24,040 --> 00:25:26,320 Speaker 4: she didn't know the relationship with the husband, that she 552 00:25:26,359 --> 00:25:30,840 Speaker 4: didn't know the the CEO was not telling her the 553 00:25:30,880 --> 00:25:32,680 Speaker 4: full truth of the relationship with his wife. 554 00:25:32,840 --> 00:25:35,840 Speaker 2: Z that yeah, she didn't. I didn't watch all of it. 555 00:25:35,840 --> 00:25:39,120 Speaker 2: I just something about Oprah. She was talking to interview 556 00:25:39,240 --> 00:25:41,840 Speaker 2: with Oprah, Like, Okay, can I just say that is 557 00:25:41,960 --> 00:25:44,720 Speaker 2: keeping it relevant, That is keeping it going by doing 558 00:25:44,840 --> 00:25:47,119 Speaker 2: a conversation with Oprah. Okay, So I'm gonna say this 559 00:25:47,240 --> 00:25:48,680 Speaker 2: is what I was going to say, is if we're 560 00:25:48,680 --> 00:25:50,160 Speaker 2: just guys, sometimes I do forget. 561 00:25:49,960 --> 00:25:52,080 Speaker 3: We're recorded, so obviously we do. 562 00:25:53,240 --> 00:25:56,480 Speaker 2: Boo and E boop and I looked at person and 563 00:25:56,520 --> 00:25:58,840 Speaker 2: I was like, it gets to talk to Oprah. And 564 00:25:58,880 --> 00:26:01,480 Speaker 2: I don't like wrong, you know, like I've been this 565 00:26:01,520 --> 00:26:02,280 Speaker 2: is my whole life. 566 00:26:02,400 --> 00:26:04,639 Speaker 1: Also, what are we saying, Let's go get caught on 567 00:26:04,720 --> 00:26:08,119 Speaker 1: a cam cheating and you get to be on Oprah. 568 00:26:08,400 --> 00:26:12,439 Speaker 3: I'm just here for this situation rewarding bad being. 569 00:26:12,600 --> 00:26:14,680 Speaker 2: I don't like it, I will say to Janna's point 570 00:26:14,840 --> 00:26:16,639 Speaker 2: in what I did see of it, and I was like, 571 00:26:16,680 --> 00:26:18,600 Speaker 2: do I even want to This is where I'm at 572 00:26:18,720 --> 00:26:21,440 Speaker 2: in my mental load right now. Do I even want 573 00:26:21,480 --> 00:26:25,560 Speaker 2: to entertain these storylines because I am furthering the problem. 574 00:26:25,640 --> 00:26:27,600 Speaker 2: I'm one of the millions that will log on to 575 00:26:27,640 --> 00:26:28,600 Speaker 2: see what it's doing. 576 00:26:29,240 --> 00:26:32,000 Speaker 4: But I did in the glimpse of it. It feels very. 577 00:26:31,920 --> 00:26:36,680 Speaker 2: Much like a oh, I just lost what that would 578 00:26:36,680 --> 00:26:40,600 Speaker 2: be called. It feels very much like a her trying 579 00:26:40,600 --> 00:26:43,480 Speaker 2: to clear her name, like it's very for her benefit, 580 00:26:43,560 --> 00:26:47,000 Speaker 2: like it's not. There was no clarity other than her 581 00:26:47,359 --> 00:26:50,920 Speaker 2: giving this very short timeline. I mean in what I watched, 582 00:26:50,960 --> 00:26:53,400 Speaker 2: she talks about how it was four to six weeks 583 00:26:54,040 --> 00:26:56,920 Speaker 2: from the time that she legally separated from her husband, 584 00:26:56,920 --> 00:27:00,399 Speaker 2: and we're planning for divorce is the way she says it. 585 00:27:01,400 --> 00:27:03,880 Speaker 2: And then the time they got caught on the kiss 586 00:27:03,880 --> 00:27:07,800 Speaker 2: cam and he I think, if I actually should send 587 00:27:07,880 --> 00:27:09,400 Speaker 2: you just even a little bit of what I saw, 588 00:27:09,440 --> 00:27:13,240 Speaker 2: because you're going to be like this, she's making it worse, 589 00:27:13,320 --> 00:27:14,240 Speaker 2: is really what I'm trying. 590 00:27:14,040 --> 00:27:17,120 Speaker 3: To I just think it opportunity, and she's running with it. 591 00:27:18,000 --> 00:27:21,080 Speaker 4: Devil's advocate to that point, though, you know, she said, 592 00:27:21,080 --> 00:27:22,960 Speaker 4: I made a bad decision and a couple of high 593 00:27:23,040 --> 00:27:25,320 Speaker 4: noons and dance and acted inappropriately with my boss. And 594 00:27:25,359 --> 00:27:29,200 Speaker 4: if it's and it's not nothing, I took a accountability 595 00:27:29,200 --> 00:27:30,800 Speaker 4: and I gave up my career for that. That's the 596 00:27:30,840 --> 00:27:32,520 Speaker 4: price I chose to pay. I want my kids to 597 00:27:32,560 --> 00:27:34,439 Speaker 4: know you can make mistakes and you can really screw up, 598 00:27:34,480 --> 00:27:36,120 Speaker 4: but you don't have to be threatened to be killed 599 00:27:36,119 --> 00:27:40,399 Speaker 4: for them. So I think probably the backlash of the 600 00:27:40,440 --> 00:27:46,359 Speaker 4: comments and people, the Little Warrior, the board people coming on, 601 00:27:46,640 --> 00:27:51,680 Speaker 4: she probably just wants, maybe that too, to stop and 602 00:27:52,119 --> 00:27:55,480 Speaker 4: maybe defend that piece of it. I like the written 603 00:27:55,480 --> 00:27:57,879 Speaker 4: statement better than what I heard, right, And That's what 604 00:27:57,880 --> 00:27:59,679 Speaker 4: I'm saying. But if you keep talking about it. 605 00:27:59,840 --> 00:28:02,040 Speaker 3: One little written statement, say what you need to say. 606 00:28:02,000 --> 00:28:03,720 Speaker 4: That should have been the end of it, because that's 607 00:28:03,760 --> 00:28:05,560 Speaker 4: actually because that was before. 608 00:28:05,359 --> 00:28:08,959 Speaker 2: Beautiful exactly it was. She was starting to make excuses 609 00:28:09,000 --> 00:28:12,840 Speaker 2: for it. More so there's less ownership in no time. 610 00:28:13,280 --> 00:28:16,480 Speaker 3: And then I'll say, I told you so kidding. Hey, 611 00:28:16,520 --> 00:28:16,920 Speaker 3: you know what. 612 00:28:16,960 --> 00:28:19,200 Speaker 1: This isn't a headline, But I was thinking about this earlier. 613 00:28:19,560 --> 00:28:22,040 Speaker 1: How right I was? This Nancy Guthrie stuff. 614 00:28:22,040 --> 00:28:22,760 Speaker 4: Oh, what's happening? 615 00:28:22,840 --> 00:28:23,560 Speaker 3: We will never know? 616 00:28:29,480 --> 00:28:32,080 Speaker 4: Sure it's for tour, We will never know. That should 617 00:28:32,080 --> 00:28:34,760 Speaker 4: be the tour name. What's happening? 618 00:28:35,760 --> 00:28:36,679 Speaker 3: We went away? 619 00:28:36,800 --> 00:28:38,800 Speaker 4: We don't know it went away? How does it just 620 00:28:38,840 --> 00:28:40,160 Speaker 4: go away? 621 00:28:40,200 --> 00:28:41,800 Speaker 3: This is exactly what I meant. 622 00:28:42,160 --> 00:28:44,600 Speaker 4: How does it just go away? Do they find her? No? 623 00:28:45,480 --> 00:28:46,640 Speaker 3: No, That's what I'm saying. 624 00:28:46,680 --> 00:28:50,080 Speaker 1: This is I just need you were right cat moment, 625 00:28:52,320 --> 00:28:55,480 Speaker 1: You were right. This was this so like this, I 626 00:28:55,560 --> 00:28:57,760 Speaker 1: knew this is what I meant. It will just go 627 00:28:57,880 --> 00:28:58,920 Speaker 1: away and we will never know. 628 00:28:59,360 --> 00:29:00,719 Speaker 4: People will stop talking about it. 629 00:29:01,320 --> 00:29:02,160 Speaker 3: They're just done. 630 00:29:02,280 --> 00:29:04,920 Speaker 1: The sheriff said something like we think we have a motive, 631 00:29:05,160 --> 00:29:07,120 Speaker 1: but we won't tell you what it is, and then 632 00:29:07,400 --> 00:29:08,200 Speaker 1: said anything. 633 00:29:07,920 --> 00:29:09,640 Speaker 4: And it's just is it an open case? 634 00:29:09,920 --> 00:29:14,880 Speaker 1: I guess yeah, And so the lad'll never know isn't 635 00:29:14,880 --> 00:29:15,840 Speaker 1: that wild? 636 00:29:16,440 --> 00:29:16,840 Speaker 4: Wow? 637 00:29:17,120 --> 00:29:19,480 Speaker 2: So Savannah hasn't really said anything recently either. 638 00:29:19,840 --> 00:29:24,680 Speaker 3: That's I'm saying it just poof wow. 639 00:29:25,040 --> 00:29:27,000 Speaker 1: I mean, maybe we will eventually, but as of right now, 640 00:29:27,000 --> 00:29:28,240 Speaker 1: I'm telling you we will never know. 641 00:29:28,440 --> 00:29:30,760 Speaker 4: My prayer is that they actually do know and now 642 00:29:30,840 --> 00:29:32,840 Speaker 4: at the bottom of it, and that it's gonna They're 643 00:29:32,880 --> 00:29:34,880 Speaker 4: just making us settle down so that we can all 644 00:29:34,920 --> 00:29:37,920 Speaker 4: stop trying to be detective. Isn't it crazy though we'll 645 00:29:37,960 --> 00:29:40,560 Speaker 4: never know? Yeah, Well, I hope we know because and 646 00:29:40,600 --> 00:29:42,760 Speaker 4: then we can find her safe, you know, because to 647 00:29:42,840 --> 00:29:45,680 Speaker 4: have just a missing person, I know, woman out there. 648 00:29:45,800 --> 00:29:48,240 Speaker 4: This is sad. It's so sad, especially with no medicine. 649 00:29:48,280 --> 00:29:51,480 Speaker 4: Poor Nancy. Oh sad. But anyway, Hey, ladies, I'm stuck 650 00:29:51,520 --> 00:29:54,400 Speaker 4: in a weird situation. Need honest opinions. My boyfriend and 651 00:29:54,400 --> 00:29:56,560 Speaker 4: I have been together for three years and overall things 652 00:29:56,560 --> 00:29:59,760 Speaker 4: are good, but he hates my best friend. He says 653 00:29:59,760 --> 00:30:03,200 Speaker 4: she's a bad influence and thinks she doesn't respect our relationship. 654 00:30:03,560 --> 00:30:05,720 Speaker 4: To be fair, she's very blunt and has made comments 655 00:30:05,760 --> 00:30:09,840 Speaker 4: like you could do better, but she's joking, cat, But 656 00:30:10,040 --> 00:30:13,840 Speaker 4: she's joking. She's been in my life way longer than 657 00:30:14,600 --> 00:30:16,800 Speaker 4: he has now he doesn't want to come to events 658 00:30:16,840 --> 00:30:18,840 Speaker 4: if she's there, and recently he told me I need 659 00:30:18,880 --> 00:30:21,160 Speaker 4: to set boundaries with her or he doesn't see a 660 00:30:21,200 --> 00:30:23,120 Speaker 4: future with me. I feel like I'm being forced to 661 00:30:23,160 --> 00:30:25,000 Speaker 4: choose and it's stressing me out. Is this a red 662 00:30:25,040 --> 00:30:28,320 Speaker 4: flag for him? Or should I actually be reevaluating my friendship? 663 00:30:28,560 --> 00:30:31,440 Speaker 4: How do I handle this without losing one of them? Oh, 664 00:30:31,440 --> 00:30:34,400 Speaker 4: that's stressful, that's tricky. But I also if he's he 665 00:30:34,480 --> 00:30:37,520 Speaker 4: says she's about the she makes comments like you can 666 00:30:37,560 --> 00:30:40,520 Speaker 4: do better, but she's joking. That is a very passive, 667 00:30:40,760 --> 00:30:43,400 Speaker 4: not joking kind of that's kind of that's kind of 668 00:30:43,480 --> 00:30:46,160 Speaker 4: rude to your relationship. And if you told your boyfriend that, 669 00:30:46,680 --> 00:30:49,280 Speaker 4: nobody would like that. Like if someone said something to 670 00:30:49,320 --> 00:30:52,640 Speaker 4: me like oh, if I told Alan, oh, this person 671 00:30:53,080 --> 00:30:55,320 Speaker 4: you know, was like, oh, you could do better? Like 672 00:30:55,440 --> 00:30:56,880 Speaker 4: that guy is not going to be like oh, I 673 00:30:57,000 --> 00:30:58,360 Speaker 4: like her. She's a great friend. 674 00:30:58,520 --> 00:31:04,360 Speaker 2: Like the time that found saving it for do Oh. 675 00:31:05,240 --> 00:31:08,400 Speaker 4: There's something we're gonna say for tour and it is great. 676 00:31:08,680 --> 00:31:11,560 Speaker 4: I cannot say it on here, but it is good 677 00:31:11,960 --> 00:31:13,040 Speaker 4: and it is juicy. 678 00:31:13,160 --> 00:31:18,480 Speaker 2: I haven't seen Alan in months, and I think. 679 00:31:19,160 --> 00:31:20,840 Speaker 3: I will say I. 680 00:31:20,640 --> 00:31:23,480 Speaker 4: Think I really haven't. 681 00:31:23,760 --> 00:31:26,480 Speaker 1: My gosh, I do think that there's a little bit 682 00:31:26,560 --> 00:31:29,680 Speaker 1: of what if she's just venting one day because this 683 00:31:29,760 --> 00:31:33,040 Speaker 1: happens and she's complaining about something that's going on, and 684 00:31:33,040 --> 00:31:35,080 Speaker 1: then the other one's like, yeah, he should never do that. 685 00:31:35,160 --> 00:31:38,000 Speaker 1: Like we all do that, right, but you do kind 686 00:31:38,000 --> 00:31:40,760 Speaker 1: of have a job a little bit as that person. 687 00:31:40,880 --> 00:31:44,480 Speaker 1: Then to not make it create a bigger thing. 688 00:31:46,560 --> 00:31:48,240 Speaker 2: I needed you because I was like, I think we 689 00:31:48,320 --> 00:31:50,560 Speaker 2: got to break up with this guy. 690 00:31:49,920 --> 00:31:52,800 Speaker 4: No, no, no, no, no, no, I was kidding. 691 00:31:54,400 --> 00:31:56,680 Speaker 1: You got to think people say that stuff and people 692 00:31:56,800 --> 00:31:59,520 Speaker 1: vent and all the times that you've come invented or 693 00:31:59,520 --> 00:32:01,240 Speaker 1: you've come in and we've been like, oh, I can't 694 00:32:01,240 --> 00:32:04,040 Speaker 1: believe Preston did that, or I can't believe Nick did that. 695 00:32:04,120 --> 00:32:07,440 Speaker 1: You know, that's so annoying whatever, you know, So sometimes 696 00:32:07,480 --> 00:32:10,720 Speaker 1: you don't necessarily go back and be like, guess what 697 00:32:10,880 --> 00:32:13,600 Speaker 1: Kristin said about you, you know, or whatever, because that 698 00:32:13,720 --> 00:32:17,640 Speaker 1: does create I've actually been caught in in you know, 699 00:32:17,720 --> 00:32:20,080 Speaker 1: and we've all done it. Yeah, we've all done it, 700 00:32:20,160 --> 00:32:22,880 Speaker 1: but then we've seen, Okay, that created friction, now, you know, 701 00:32:22,920 --> 00:32:25,760 Speaker 1: and that created because like I'm over the fact that 702 00:32:25,800 --> 00:32:28,680 Speaker 1: he was an asshole yesterday and now they're still stuck 703 00:32:28,720 --> 00:32:30,360 Speaker 1: on the fact he was an asshole yesterday. 704 00:32:30,720 --> 00:32:31,680 Speaker 3: So I do think that. 705 00:32:31,640 --> 00:32:34,400 Speaker 1: There's a little bit of being careful of what you're 706 00:32:34,680 --> 00:32:37,479 Speaker 1: what you tell, what you're telling. It's not being both parties. 707 00:32:37,600 --> 00:32:38,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, exactly, exactly. 708 00:32:39,000 --> 00:32:40,040 Speaker 4: Yeah, I got stuck in it. 709 00:32:40,160 --> 00:32:42,400 Speaker 2: I actually made a comment like backing a friend and 710 00:32:42,520 --> 00:32:44,840 Speaker 2: was like, yeah, like, I actually don't think that is 711 00:32:44,920 --> 00:32:47,560 Speaker 2: great or fair. I didn't realize at the time that 712 00:32:47,640 --> 00:32:50,880 Speaker 2: this person didn't have the backbone to say that they 713 00:32:50,960 --> 00:32:52,920 Speaker 2: felt that way, and so they went to their husband 714 00:32:52,960 --> 00:32:55,080 Speaker 2: and said, well, even Kristen said blah blah blah, and I. 715 00:32:55,040 --> 00:32:57,800 Speaker 1: Was like, ugh, Like, well, we had that situation with 716 00:32:57,880 --> 00:33:01,600 Speaker 1: Mike several times, several several where she would get and 717 00:33:01,640 --> 00:33:04,760 Speaker 1: she felt very strongly about something and then to help 718 00:33:04,800 --> 00:33:07,840 Speaker 1: back that up, which was fine. I truly didn't care, 719 00:33:08,120 --> 00:33:10,600 Speaker 1: but she'd be like, well, Kat agrees, Kat thinks I. 720 00:33:10,520 --> 00:33:13,720 Speaker 4: Can stand in my own confidence with it. That I 721 00:33:13,880 --> 00:33:17,440 Speaker 4: needed to be like she agrees with me, you know, which, 722 00:33:18,040 --> 00:33:20,520 Speaker 4: to feel validated. It's not the right thing to do, 723 00:33:20,920 --> 00:33:23,840 Speaker 4: but to feel that validation, yep. And then to also 724 00:33:23,960 --> 00:33:27,200 Speaker 4: try to prove your point to the person. Yep, you know, 725 00:33:27,280 --> 00:33:29,440 Speaker 4: sometimes we do and it's not it, but it puts 726 00:33:29,520 --> 00:33:30,520 Speaker 4: y'all in a bad situation. 727 00:33:30,600 --> 00:33:33,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, absolutely, And you know I was willing to take 728 00:33:33,200 --> 00:33:35,560 Speaker 1: that and it was fine, but yeah, I mean it 729 00:33:35,600 --> 00:33:39,520 Speaker 1: definitely created more tension between Mike and I for sure, 730 00:33:39,920 --> 00:33:40,080 Speaker 1: you know. 731 00:33:40,200 --> 00:33:41,000 Speaker 3: And she would tell me. 732 00:33:41,040 --> 00:33:42,440 Speaker 1: She'd be like, oh, you know I said to him that, 733 00:33:42,480 --> 00:33:44,880 Speaker 1: you know, I'm like, well I did, and I did agree. Yeah, 734 00:33:44,920 --> 00:33:48,320 Speaker 1: so I stand by that, but it definitely creates more friction. 735 00:33:48,480 --> 00:33:51,520 Speaker 4: Like I told him, when you said you're not divorcing him, 736 00:33:51,800 --> 00:33:55,040 Speaker 4: you know what I mean? Like, and I was just like, well, no, yeah, 737 00:33:55,080 --> 00:33:56,760 Speaker 4: I don't think so, you know, like that was one 738 00:33:56,800 --> 00:34:00,000 Speaker 4: of the things. So she he always then was like, well, 739 00:34:00,040 --> 00:34:02,600 Speaker 4: kat was the one that we wanted, She said to 740 00:34:02,600 --> 00:34:06,840 Speaker 4: divorce me from the very beginning. And I'm like, well yeah, yeah. 741 00:34:07,040 --> 00:34:19,200 Speaker 6: Yeah, idding, getting I should have done that either one forget, 742 00:34:19,440 --> 00:34:20,640 Speaker 6: but you will be my friend. 743 00:34:21,160 --> 00:34:23,680 Speaker 1: And that's what's hard when people come and when you're venting. 744 00:34:24,280 --> 00:34:26,480 Speaker 1: This is what I'm taking away from this person is 745 00:34:26,520 --> 00:34:29,880 Speaker 1: maybe that's what's happening. I can't imagine unless this friend 746 00:34:29,920 --> 00:34:32,680 Speaker 1: is legitimately just saying you deserve better for no reason. 747 00:34:32,760 --> 00:34:34,239 Speaker 4: Here's what I want to say about that, because this 748 00:34:34,280 --> 00:34:37,080 Speaker 4: is where that comment might be coming from. She might 749 00:34:37,080 --> 00:34:39,280 Speaker 4: not be in a great place, she might be single, 750 00:34:39,520 --> 00:34:43,080 Speaker 4: she might be lonely, she's losing her friend, Yeah, you 751 00:34:43,120 --> 00:34:45,879 Speaker 4: know what I mean, And it's she might be saying 752 00:34:45,920 --> 00:34:47,920 Speaker 4: things because she's like she doesn't want to lose her 753 00:34:47,960 --> 00:34:51,959 Speaker 4: wing man. So i'd also point to where where what's 754 00:34:52,000 --> 00:34:56,120 Speaker 4: your friend going through in this moment too? And at 755 00:34:56,160 --> 00:34:58,640 Speaker 4: the end of the day, Like there's someone that Alan 756 00:34:59,640 --> 00:35:02,400 Speaker 4: doesn't like. He has he's his favorites, and there's someone 757 00:35:02,440 --> 00:35:04,040 Speaker 4: that's like not his favorite, but. 758 00:35:04,080 --> 00:35:05,560 Speaker 2: Any of those people move from one list to the 759 00:35:05,640 --> 00:35:09,400 Speaker 2: other recently, it's like any of those friends move from one. 760 00:35:09,560 --> 00:35:12,120 Speaker 4: There's still but there's still you know what I mean, 761 00:35:12,200 --> 00:35:15,920 Speaker 4: Like there are people and it's like, you know, you 762 00:35:15,960 --> 00:35:17,719 Speaker 4: can have your own relationship with that person. I have 763 00:35:17,719 --> 00:35:19,719 Speaker 4: my own relationship with that person. Yeah, and it's up 764 00:35:19,760 --> 00:35:22,960 Speaker 4: to us to not have the awkwardness. Yeah, we control that. 765 00:35:23,000 --> 00:35:24,880 Speaker 4: And so I would just say take control of like 766 00:35:25,160 --> 00:35:26,960 Speaker 4: this is my friend. Stand by your friend if you 767 00:35:26,960 --> 00:35:29,680 Speaker 4: want to keep your friend the relationship, but also maybe 768 00:35:29,680 --> 00:35:31,800 Speaker 4: be aware of what she's going through and then also 769 00:35:31,960 --> 00:35:34,880 Speaker 4: keep don't tell your like, there's certain things I don't 770 00:35:34,920 --> 00:35:37,360 Speaker 4: tell you know, because I'm like, that's he's going to 771 00:35:37,800 --> 00:35:40,160 Speaker 4: have then a different opinion of this person, and vice versa, 772 00:35:40,200 --> 00:35:42,120 Speaker 4: like you don't say it to your friend either because. 773 00:35:42,239 --> 00:35:44,960 Speaker 1: It doesn't about them and it doesn't mean help anything, 774 00:35:45,040 --> 00:35:48,440 Speaker 1: like is it helping or is it just causing more friction? 775 00:35:48,560 --> 00:35:51,040 Speaker 1: And that's you know, sometimes you just sometimes I just 776 00:35:51,040 --> 00:35:51,640 Speaker 1: thinks I don't. 777 00:35:51,480 --> 00:35:52,520 Speaker 4: Want to know. Yeah, I don't think you have to 778 00:35:52,560 --> 00:35:54,080 Speaker 4: lose anyone. And I don't think it's a red flag 779 00:35:54,160 --> 00:35:57,120 Speaker 4: from your boyfriend. I really don't. Yeah, and I don't know. 780 00:35:57,160 --> 00:35:57,640 Speaker 3: I don't either. 781 00:35:57,880 --> 00:35:59,520 Speaker 4: I think they just both love you and they just 782 00:35:59,560 --> 00:36:02,560 Speaker 4: want you, Yeah, your attention, and we love you too. 783 00:36:02,640 --> 00:36:07,320 Speaker 4: So come see us, Yes, come see us. We'll unpin 784 00:36:07,480 --> 00:36:10,399 Speaker 4: some really juicy things I have. I have a list 785 00:36:10,440 --> 00:36:14,719 Speaker 4: going to make you. Please keep that one on there now. 786 00:36:14,960 --> 00:36:16,879 Speaker 3: I didn't know who Alan's not favorites are. 787 00:36:17,200 --> 00:36:20,279 Speaker 2: I actually think she might be sitting between you two. 788 00:36:20,360 --> 00:36:23,400 Speaker 4: I am unsure at the time. No, he I'll just 789 00:36:23,440 --> 00:36:30,400 Speaker 4: say okay, okay, okay, Well until then, see y'all next week. Bye,