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Speaker 1: Welcome back to Bachelor Happy Hours, Golden Hour. This is

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Speaker 1: part two of our family episode with my son Kyle

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Speaker 1: and his wife Candy and Susan's daughter Britney. We are

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Speaker 1: so ready to dive back in, aren't we, Susan.

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Speaker 2: Oh, yes we are, and you just named them all

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Speaker 2: so it's our children, guys.

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Speaker 3: Let's get into some of those fan questions.

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Speaker 1: Okay, let's get into them.

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Speaker 2: This is going to be fun, guys. So we give

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Speaker 2: people advice and we want you guys to give your

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Speaker 2: advice as well as we read along.

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Speaker 4: You ready, ready?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: All right?

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Speaker 5: Star?

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Speaker 1: Okay, here we go. The first one is from Talia.

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Speaker 1: She's thirty three years old and she's from my hometown

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Speaker 1: of Boston, Massachusetts. Hello, Golden Hour Podcast. I have a

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Speaker 1: question for you, ladies. I am recently married to my

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Speaker 1: husband and we have a lovely relationship. I'm dealing with

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Speaker 1: a bit of a debacle with my in laws though

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Speaker 1: ever since we got married last year. They insist that

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Speaker 1: I call them mommy and daddy, like I do with

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Speaker 1: my own parents and have done my whole life. I

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Speaker 1: know some families adopt calling their in laws mom and dad,

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Speaker 1: but that has just never really felt natural to me,

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Speaker 1: as they are my husband's parents and I've called them

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Speaker 1: by their first name for years. Every time I call

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Speaker 1: them by their first name now they correct me. But

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Speaker 1: I just feel weird calling someone else's dad daddy. Eh lol.

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Speaker 1: My husband wants me to make them happy and he

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Speaker 1: doesn't think it's weird, but I do. What do you

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Speaker 1: ladies think? Any advice is appreciated here. Thank you so much,

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Speaker 1: and I love the podcast. Well, tell y'all, I'm glad

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Speaker 1: you loved the podcast, And all I have to say is,

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Speaker 1: what do you guys think? Brittany, what do you think? Mommy?

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Speaker 5: Mom? Do you call people like I'd say?

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Speaker 1: Mo? Yeah, soow your mother in law? You'd call me ma.

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Speaker 5: Hey mom?

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Speaker 6: But they say that to other mothers too, so it's

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Speaker 6: just might be a norther thing, really think that.

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Speaker 5: I don't know, but mommy and daddy. I don't call

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Speaker 5: my own parents.

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Speaker 3: When you cry, you call me mommy?

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Speaker 5: Yes?

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Speaker 1: Okay? What about you? What about your candy?

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Speaker 5: Uh?

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Speaker 7: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: What does she call you?

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Speaker 3: Kathy?

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Speaker 1: Fabulous mother in law?

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Speaker 8: Oh?

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Speaker 1: God, she calls me Kathy.

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Speaker 7: I've called in law as before, mom and dad, mom

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Speaker 7: and dad, But mommy and daddy feels very young.

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Speaker 3: Feels weird.

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Speaker 1: It just yeah, that's but you know what, here's my problem. Kyle,

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Speaker 1: who is my son, sometimes calls me Kathy. And what

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Speaker 1: do I say to you, Kyle?

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Speaker 4: Right? Well, why do I call you Kathy?

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 3: Why do you get her attention?

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Speaker 9: Usually that's the only way to get her attention exactly, Susan.

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Speaker 2: I know you we're not best friends, but nothing.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that mommy and daddy thing is a little weird.

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Speaker 1: I will tell you though, Kyle, I don't know if

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Speaker 1: you know this. Uh, my in laws, who are both

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Speaker 1: residing in Heaven now, wanted me to call them mom

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Speaker 1: and dad, and I literally choked on it because I

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Speaker 1: and so I would literally struggle, mom, like choking it

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Speaker 1: out because to me that I wanted to call them

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Speaker 1: by the first name. And my husband Darryl always called

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Speaker 1: really weird to me. I think it's so uncomfortable. I

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Speaker 1: think the right thing to do is say to your

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Speaker 1: children and your in laws, hey, call me whatever you want,

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Speaker 1: as long as it's not a four letter word. I mean,

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Speaker 1: you know, just they got to be comfortable.

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Speaker 3: I think the MA is an easy way out of it.

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Speaker 1: You know, Candy, do not call me ma?

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Speaker 3: What's JJ calls me everything?

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Speaker 1: That's because you are everything, all right?

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Speaker 3: Moving right along?

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Speaker 1: This is wait, wait at a second, Kyle, what do

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Speaker 1: you call Candy's mother?

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Speaker 4: Oh?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Marilyn her first name.

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Speaker 3: Okay, it's twenty twenty four.

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Speaker 1: Which means what we're not moms and dads.

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Speaker 3: Everything's changed from when we grew up except that you

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Speaker 3: and I. My mother called my dad's mom my nana.

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Speaker 3: She called her mom really, yes.

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Speaker 1: That's an Italian thing, Susan.

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Speaker 2: Okay, she said, what was her name? Taliah?

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Speaker 1: There you got me. Okay, Mommy, tell you good luck.

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Speaker 1: You know what the most important thing is, Just have

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Speaker 1: a happy marriage. Don't worry about what you call them.

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Speaker 1: Just have a happy marriage.

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Speaker 3: I wouldn't do mommy and daddy. No, Okay.

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Speaker 2: This is from Michelle and she's forty one from San Jose, California.

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Speaker 3: Hi, Golden Gals.

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Speaker 2: I absolutely love your podcast, so I thought i'd write

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Speaker 2: in I have a weird situation I could use some

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Speaker 2: advice with. Over the past few months, I've had to

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Speaker 2: take some personal days off work for IVF treatment appointments

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Speaker 2: as my husband and I are trying to have a baby.

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Speaker 2: My boss asks me every time why I need a

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Speaker 2: personal day, and I thought, that's literally the point. They

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Speaker 2: are personal. Yes, my boss and I are friendly, but

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Speaker 2: she won't drop it and even asked if I was

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Speaker 2: going to job interviews during these personal days.

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Speaker 3: I am not.

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Speaker 2: I am just not comfortable sharing that we are undergoing

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Speaker 2: the IVF process because it's been a long journey for

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Speaker 2: She keeps joking that she needs to find a replacement

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Speaker 2: for me when I find a job, and I really

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Speaker 2: don't know what to say at this point. How would

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Speaker 2: you handle this situation with your boss? Curious your thoughts?

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Speaker 3: Thank you, ladies.

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Speaker 1: I'm going to let you younger ones handle out. What

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Speaker 1: do you think? Candy and Brittany?

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I wonder if she could just assure her boss

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Speaker 7: that she's not looking for another job and just respectfully

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Speaker 7: say this feels really personal to me and when I'm

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Speaker 7: ready to share, share up.

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Speaker 10: But I promise you I'm not leaving.

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Speaker 1: Oh I like that answer? What about you?

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Speaker 5: Brettany? Going again?

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Speaker 8: Instant everything in the professional world. You cannot ask that,

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Speaker 8: but I do want to reassure you I'm not looking

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Speaker 8: for a job. Personal means private, could mean medical, and

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Speaker 8: I think that you're outside of your zone.

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Speaker 1: Wait, you would say all that to your boss.

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Speaker 3: Have you met my daughter, my daughter.

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Speaker 1: Brittany, you'd be looking for a new job.

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Speaker 11: No, because if they fired me, then they'd be soon, Kyle,

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Speaker 11: Because I was looking for a job.

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Speaker 5: I was trying to have a baby.

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Speaker 1: What about you, Kyle?

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Speaker 9: Yeah, So like I'm a supervisor, I have to ask,

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Speaker 9: you know, I have to ask my people questions sometimes.

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Speaker 9: And like Bertie said, there's there's laws and rules and

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Speaker 9: and employment law and whatnot. I think I would I

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Speaker 9: would give the boss some graces that she said that

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Speaker 9: they're friends, so she's sort of asking, and and the

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Speaker 9: person writing the letter is just doesn't want to share

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Speaker 9: its personal That's understandable, so she does.

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Speaker 4: I think she just needs to communicate clearly.

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Speaker 9: She just needs to say, Hey, like I shade you asking,

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Speaker 9: this is kind of something personal that I'm dealing with.

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Speaker 9: Like Kenny said, I'm not leaving if that's your concern,

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Speaker 9: I'm not looking elsewhere, but it's something personal, and I

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Speaker 9: just appreciate not discussing it right now.

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Speaker 4: He's got to just be just tell him, just straight up, what.

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Speaker 1: About you, Kathy, what do you think I'd do? Susan

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Speaker 1: moral quandary?

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Speaker 3: Play that damn game.

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Speaker 1: I'm not playing, you know what. I have been pretty

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Speaker 1: good friends with my bosses, so that's kind of hard

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Speaker 1: for me to answer, because if it was a really

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Speaker 1: don't want to talk, you know, but this is what's

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Speaker 1: going on. But if it was a boss that didn't

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Speaker 1: know me very well, I honestly, Brittany, I don't think

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Speaker 1: believe it or not, I don't think i'd be as

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Speaker 1: forthright as you. I think I would lean a little

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Speaker 1: bit more like Candy. I would say, you know, it's

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Speaker 1: I'm not leaving. I assure you that, but this is

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Speaker 1: something I'd soft pedal it. I'd soft soap it because

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Speaker 1: I don't like believe it or not confrontations, and I

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Speaker 1: wouldn't want to be confrontational. I know you're laughing over there,

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Speaker 1: my children are laughing, But I don't like confrontation confrontation either.

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Speaker 8: But I've had health issues, so my health or anything

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Speaker 8: medical should be pause.

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Speaker 2: Just pause, it's not confrontational. Britney says what she wants

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Speaker 2: to say, and that's it. You don't get a word in.

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Speaker 3: She's done.

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Speaker 1: She goes, hey, Brittany, I'd like you to send me

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Speaker 1: your CV. I'd like to see your employment history when

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Speaker 1: we're done with this. All right?

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Speaker 3: Does anybody want to guess what I would do?

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Speaker 1: Yes? I was just gonna ask Susan, what do you think, Candy? Candy?

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Speaker 1: What do you think Susan would do you think? Candy?

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Speaker 10: I feel like you and Brittany might be on the same.

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Speaker 9: Page, Kyle, Uh, maybe some four letter words.

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Speaker 3: No, Brittany, you know me, Kathy.

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Speaker 1: I think I think Uh, Susan would look at them

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Speaker 1: straight in their face and say, this is so personal

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Speaker 1: to me, I don't want to discuss it.

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Speaker 8: No, I guess she tells every single bit of information

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Speaker 8: and if they don't like it or say anything, it's

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Speaker 1: Wait a minute, you would tell them this very personal

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Speaker 1: thing that you're going through IVF to oh, no.

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Speaker 11: You understand this woman when I was in labor had

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Speaker 11: the camera up in there. I'm like, no one wants

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Speaker 11: to see this, but she everything and tell everything.

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Speaker 1: Okay, right, I'm just I'm going out on a limb

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Speaker 1: here now, Susan, I've got to rethink our friendship. I

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Speaker 1: don't want a camera anywhere near that.

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Speaker 3: Tell her you're not bare and children.

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Speaker 5: She's got to zip it, Kathy, and.

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Speaker 1: Then, Susan, you really need to zip it.

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Speaker 3: Holy smoke a room, he said, know this?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you point out your cloud.

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Speaker 3: Truth shall set you free.

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Speaker 1: Kyle, do you hear this? You think that your mother

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Speaker 1: will go out on a limit you have just met?

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Speaker 1: You are talking to somebody who leaves me in the dust, just.

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Speaker 12: Saying, Skyle, moving right along, thank you.

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Speaker 1: We're going to move on here. This is this question

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Speaker 1: is from Darren. He's sixty four, and if he's single,

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Speaker 1: he's mine.

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Speaker 3: Susan, just going there. Why do you always talk first?

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Speaker 1: Always? Because I'm from Boston and I know how to

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Speaker 1: move it along? Okay? From Darren, he's sixty four. He's

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Speaker 1: from Duluth, Minnesota. Hello, Kathy and Susan. I am writing

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Speaker 1: in with an unfortunate situation. I haven't brought up to

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Speaker 1: my family yet because I need some unbiased advice on

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Speaker 1: What would I do, Kyle?

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Speaker 3: You don't even need words.

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Speaker 4: So that's entirely possible too.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Well, a law school and think like we didn't.

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Speaker 1: I'm going out. Yeah, I'm going on a limb Kyle

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Speaker 9: You're you're stating unequivocally you're not into ethical non monogamy.

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Speaker 1: Excuse me? Ethical?

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Speaker 3: What pretty?

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Speaker 12: What would you do?

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Speaker 1: What was?

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Speaker 5: But ethically non monogamy is what he said. It's going

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Speaker 1: But yeah, no, I'm not into I'm not into I'm

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Speaker 7: Kyle.

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Speaker 1: Thank you.

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Speaker 9: I'll let you see your future husband and a growping

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Speaker 1: Got it?

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Speaker 3: It was Julian's future bride.

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Speaker 1: Do what Julian is her son, Britney's son.

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Speaker 2: If it was, because if it was Kyle's daughter, He's

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Speaker 8: So she's hitting on someone else, Well, she's going to

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Speaker 1: Let me just tell you where this is going. Brittany,

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Speaker 11: I'm just saying, I don't need any cameras, but tell

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Speaker 1: Not gonna like you it. Kathy, shut up, Susan. How

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Speaker 1: about if you and I find one guy and we

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Speaker 2: I mean, come on, because I'll have to do all

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Speaker 5: You need more information? You really do? You need either

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Speaker 2: That's okay, but but here's the deal. This is what

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Speaker 1: And Susan, no, you would take the guy.

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Speaker 2: You would talk to that guy without a baseball bat.

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Speaker 2: Kyle and I are on the same page. These two

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Speaker 5: It's just it's something that we're aware of that too.

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Speaker 5: Now that doesn't come to mine.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I know I'm not Susan. Are you choosing that

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Speaker 1: I'm just here to tell you, Susan would say something?

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Speaker 1: What you Susan? Would I go? Would I say something.

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Speaker 3: To my daughter anymore? I don't know you anymore.

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Speaker 1: We're not playing moral quandary. I'm afraid to answer.

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Speaker 2: Yea right, all right, all right, now we're gonna have

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Speaker 2: of they did this to me on national TV. Okay,

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Speaker 2: I had never heard of this game, and we are

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Speaker 1: Can we just say the game on the tee on

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Speaker 3: These bitcat the Zippit we'll get to that.

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Speaker 1: Susan did some wild stuff.

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Speaker 2: So we are throwing it back to the infamous game

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Speaker 1: Okay, buckle up, everybody. We have no idea what the

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Speaker 1: Wait, can I just say can we make this truth?

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Speaker 3: Cathy?

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Speaker 2: All right, all go go snuck out of the house

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Speaker 1: I haven't, I haven't I have I have you did, Susan?

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Speaker 1: Did you no? Kyle? Did you scare my father? Wait

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Speaker 1: a minute, we have to make this a three part series.

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Speaker 1: When did you think out of the house? Kyle?

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Speaker 4: That's like the least bad stuff that I've.

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Speaker 3: Done, Kathy, Now is not the time. Okay, just write

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Speaker 1: Oh, I'm taking notes. We're going to have a.

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Speaker 5: Little my neest little window and showed my little body.

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Speaker 1: Was in the basement.

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Speaker 3: By was in the basement?

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Speaker 1: Candy? When did you sneak out, Candy.

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Speaker 10: When I was in high school? Right out of the

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry? Where were your parents while you were sneaking

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Speaker 5: Heavily sleeping?

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Speaker 1: Let me just say, guys, for all of you young

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Speaker 5: How about now?

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Speaker 3: How about gotten the tattoo?

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Speaker 1: I haven't many, Kyle and Candy.

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Speaker 2: I don't think there's anything wrong with that. My niece

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Speaker 2: Gianna just got to sleep.

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Speaker 1: Wait, Susan, do you have a tattoo? No? Okay, Kyle

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Speaker 4: We're gonna get more.

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Speaker 3: Wait, Kyle, I hear you get addicted to ink. Right

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Speaker 4: That's very much the things?

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Speaker 3: What's your mind?

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Speaker 4: What's what?

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Speaker 3: Sorry?

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Speaker 1: Well, I asked what your favorite tattoo is, and Susan asked,

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Speaker 7: Like?

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Speaker 3: You don't like it anymore?

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Speaker 3: I'll get pierced. You could take about Caitlin.

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Speaker 1: My daughter has one with her dad's initials, and I

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Speaker 1: Why chrysanthemums?

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Speaker 1: three kids. I would have to move along, Kathy next,

447
00:23:11,760 --> 00:23:15,960
Speaker 1: All right, lied about my age? I haven't.

448
00:23:17,440 --> 00:23:20,159
Speaker 3: Ya, I have yeah, And I said I was twenty

449
00:23:20,200 --> 00:23:21,800
Speaker 3: one and I wasn't.

450
00:23:22,880 --> 00:23:26,280
Speaker 1: Oh wait, oh yes I did. When I was a teenager.

451
00:23:26,320 --> 00:23:28,199
Speaker 1: I lied about my age and the Bahamas. I was

452
00:23:28,200 --> 00:23:34,960
Speaker 1: in a nevermind. Okay, bought my siblings, Kyle, you better

453
00:23:35,000 --> 00:23:40,080
Speaker 1: think carefully bought my siblings something I wasn't supposed to.

454
00:23:44,240 --> 00:23:44,760
Speaker 1: I haven't.

455
00:23:44,840 --> 00:23:47,440
Speaker 3: Brittainy, have you gotten your brother's beer?

456
00:23:49,880 --> 00:23:55,560
Speaker 1: I haven't, Kyle, you haven't. You haven't died.

457
00:23:57,000 --> 00:23:59,600
Speaker 5: I'm anything specific.

458
00:24:02,720 --> 00:24:04,560
Speaker 3: I didn't buy my siblings anything.

459
00:24:04,720 --> 00:24:07,720
Speaker 9: I wasn't buying anything for Douglas or Caitman I was.

460
00:24:07,760 --> 00:24:09,720
Speaker 9: I was buying it for myself. They were the goodie

461
00:24:09,720 --> 00:24:10,120
Speaker 9: t shoes.

462
00:24:10,160 --> 00:24:10,760
Speaker 4: They weren't doing it.

463
00:24:11,359 --> 00:24:11,879
Speaker 1: It's true.

464
00:24:12,720 --> 00:24:13,879
Speaker 3: That's why I liked you, Kyle.

465
00:24:14,440 --> 00:24:17,000
Speaker 1: No, can I just tell you Kyle's the sweetest of

466
00:24:17,000 --> 00:24:20,760
Speaker 1: my three children, but he's also pushed the envelope of

467
00:24:20,760 --> 00:24:21,720
Speaker 1: my three children.

468
00:24:22,359 --> 00:24:26,720
Speaker 2: Okay, have any has anybody forgotten a family member's birthday?

469
00:24:27,520 --> 00:24:30,480
Speaker 5: I have, I don't think I have.

470
00:24:32,440 --> 00:24:36,200
Speaker 4: I have. I remember sort of kind of after the fact.

471
00:24:35,960 --> 00:24:38,920
Speaker 1: But yeah, like who's Who's.

472
00:24:39,640 --> 00:24:43,520
Speaker 9: I remember feeling really disappointed with myself that I forgot.

473
00:24:43,880 --> 00:24:46,119
Speaker 4: I think it was last year, right at the end

474
00:24:46,119 --> 00:24:47,960
Speaker 4: of the day about Dad's birthday.

475
00:24:48,119 --> 00:24:50,720
Speaker 1: Actually, oh wow, you.

476
00:24:50,680 --> 00:24:54,000
Speaker 2: Know, my my husband, my ex husband, and my sons

477
00:24:54,680 --> 00:24:58,600
Speaker 2: are convinced my birthday's March third, and it's March second,

478
00:25:00,359 --> 00:25:03,399
Speaker 2: and I would get hurt every single year. Now my

479
00:25:03,520 --> 00:25:07,080
Speaker 2: daughter says, it's tomorrow. Don't screw it up.

480
00:25:08,040 --> 00:25:12,359
Speaker 1: What about you, Candy? No, that's not okay.

481
00:25:12,400 --> 00:25:13,640
Speaker 3: Well here here's a good one.

482
00:25:13,840 --> 00:25:15,080
Speaker 1: Go ahead, Susan, go.

483
00:25:15,680 --> 00:25:20,520
Speaker 2: Showed up drunk, tipsy high to a family function?

484
00:25:26,240 --> 00:25:28,520
Speaker 4: Come on, even a real question.

485
00:25:30,960 --> 00:25:33,600
Speaker 1: Look at Look at Brittany. She's got to chush her cap,

486
00:25:33,720 --> 00:25:39,199
Speaker 1: smile on her face. I can honestly say I have not.

487
00:25:41,040 --> 00:25:43,320
Speaker 4: I can honestly say I don't believe that.

488
00:25:46,240 --> 00:25:49,280
Speaker 1: When have I ever showed up drunk or high? Or

489
00:25:51,200 --> 00:25:51,560
Speaker 1: I didn't?

490
00:25:51,800 --> 00:25:52,000
Speaker 4: Wait?

491
00:25:53,119 --> 00:25:57,760
Speaker 1: Children, Wait, it does not say left a family function.

492
00:25:57,960 --> 00:26:00,359
Speaker 1: It says arrived to family.

493
00:26:00,560 --> 00:26:02,000
Speaker 4: She was very clear. I heard it.

494
00:26:02,240 --> 00:26:09,360
Speaker 3: What Kathy, Kathy drinking before you entered the family function?

495
00:26:09,800 --> 00:26:10,880
Speaker 3: Is I have.

496
00:26:11,880 --> 00:26:14,960
Speaker 1: No drunk, tipsy or high?

497
00:26:16,040 --> 00:26:16,240
Speaker 5: Yeah?

498
00:26:16,240 --> 00:26:18,360
Speaker 3: Well we know you don't get drunk, but you.

499
00:26:18,440 --> 00:26:25,440
Speaker 1: Drink, Okay, I did the other night. All right, use

500
00:26:25,720 --> 00:26:28,560
Speaker 1: a fake I d everybody.

501
00:26:28,760 --> 00:26:29,320
Speaker 3: Yeah?

502
00:26:29,720 --> 00:26:33,280
Speaker 1: No, I haven't, Yes, you have no. I have never

503
00:26:33,400 --> 00:26:35,120
Speaker 1: used a fake idea swim.

504
00:26:34,760 --> 00:26:36,760
Speaker 3: It comes from under a rock.

505
00:26:38,080 --> 00:26:40,440
Speaker 1: I swear to you. I've never used to fake ID.

506
00:26:40,840 --> 00:26:41,520
Speaker 1: I haven't.

507
00:26:42,040 --> 00:26:43,840
Speaker 10: I don't think I have either, thank.

508
00:26:43,640 --> 00:26:49,320
Speaker 1: You, Candy. I love you. Call me mam, mommy.

509
00:26:49,800 --> 00:26:50,840
Speaker 3: Mommy dearest.

510
00:26:52,440 --> 00:26:56,119
Speaker 1: Now that was my mother, all right, Brittany. Oh god,

511
00:26:56,240 --> 00:26:58,800
Speaker 1: I can't even read. No, we're skipping the next round.

512
00:26:58,800 --> 00:27:00,679
Speaker 1: I didn't want to know the answer to that. I

513
00:27:00,720 --> 00:27:01,520
Speaker 1: don't even want to know.

514
00:27:01,920 --> 00:27:07,280
Speaker 2: No, accidentally hurt my parents doing the deed.

515
00:27:07,520 --> 00:27:11,880
Speaker 10: Oh I did I remember that, Kyle?

516
00:27:13,280 --> 00:27:16,000
Speaker 1: Oh God, I thinking, I don't think so. Oh, thank God,

517
00:27:16,280 --> 00:27:16,840
Speaker 1: what about you?

518
00:27:17,720 --> 00:27:18,439
Speaker 5: I don't think so.

519
00:27:20,359 --> 00:27:24,320
Speaker 1: See, we're good discreet Bachelor nation, we are discreeted.

520
00:27:25,320 --> 00:27:26,080
Speaker 3: I walked in.

521
00:27:27,480 --> 00:27:30,760
Speaker 7: Yeah, well, and I remember my dad would it would

522
00:27:30,760 --> 00:27:33,119
Speaker 7: be like before he would go out of town on

523
00:27:33,240 --> 00:27:38,040
Speaker 7: business and then his back would hurt the next day.

524
00:27:38,600 --> 00:27:43,159
Speaker 2: I remember I walked in and was frightened when I

525
00:27:43,200 --> 00:27:43,680
Speaker 2: saw that.

526
00:27:43,840 --> 00:27:48,000
Speaker 3: I go, mom, the next day, how does that it's

527
00:27:48,040 --> 00:27:50,200
Speaker 3: so big? How was that?

528
00:27:51,040 --> 00:27:51,280
Speaker 1: Mom?

529
00:27:51,560 --> 00:27:53,960
Speaker 3: I was crying freak out.

530
00:27:55,560 --> 00:27:58,320
Speaker 1: I remember I walked in on my dad in the shower.

531
00:27:58,400 --> 00:28:03,080
Speaker 1: Once my dad traveled, he worked in New York during

532
00:28:03,080 --> 00:28:06,720
Speaker 1: the week and came home on the weekends. And our Kyle,

533
00:28:06,760 --> 00:28:11,199
Speaker 1: you remember, my parents' house had that den, and so

534
00:28:11,359 --> 00:28:13,879
Speaker 1: the windows faced the backyard and we were all a

535
00:28:13,920 --> 00:28:16,280
Speaker 1: lot in the backyard, and I was like, I don't

536
00:28:16,320 --> 00:28:20,239
Speaker 1: know fourteen and I looked in the windows and they

537
00:28:20,280 --> 00:28:22,760
Speaker 1: were just had their hands all over each other. I like,

538
00:28:22,840 --> 00:28:26,040
Speaker 1: I ran just it was like the worst I died.

539
00:28:35,960 --> 00:28:38,320
Speaker 3: How about cheated on a test, Kyle?

540
00:28:40,200 --> 00:28:40,920
Speaker 4: Many times?

541
00:28:41,280 --> 00:28:43,520
Speaker 3: I think everybody's done that except Kathy.

542
00:28:44,240 --> 00:28:45,000
Speaker 1: I never cheated.

543
00:28:45,040 --> 00:28:46,640
Speaker 5: I haven't still found it.

544
00:28:46,760 --> 00:28:52,320
Speaker 1: So candy, have you Candy? I don't think that this

545
00:28:52,360 --> 00:28:54,920
Speaker 1: is why I love candy? Move along?

546
00:28:55,400 --> 00:28:59,240
Speaker 2: How about taking alcohol from your parents' liquor capint?

547
00:28:59,280 --> 00:29:00,880
Speaker 1: Oh, Kyle, don't you dare? Lie?

548
00:29:03,000 --> 00:29:07,240
Speaker 9: So I did? And it was I did not water

549
00:29:07,360 --> 00:29:08,800
Speaker 9: down the vodka that was Caitlin.

550
00:29:11,080 --> 00:29:13,440
Speaker 1: Can we just just really quickly.

551
00:29:14,960 --> 00:29:21,360
Speaker 5: Water it would be just water afterwards or something.

552
00:29:21,520 --> 00:29:23,600
Speaker 1: Yeah. Let me just say, for those of you in

553
00:29:23,680 --> 00:29:28,000
Speaker 1: Bachelor Nation who who aren't scientists, alcohol does not freeze,

554
00:29:28,000 --> 00:29:32,120
Speaker 1: but water does. And my kids had a party and

555
00:29:32,400 --> 00:29:35,160
Speaker 1: I am a vodka drinker, and I came down the

556
00:29:35,200 --> 00:29:37,640
Speaker 1: next night and to get my bottle of vodka in

557
00:29:37,680 --> 00:29:40,200
Speaker 1: the freezer because I like it really cold, and low

558
00:29:40,320 --> 00:29:42,680
Speaker 1: pulled it was frozen. And I looked at Kyle and

559
00:29:42,760 --> 00:29:45,000
Speaker 1: Caitlyn said, Okay, which one of you put water in

560
00:29:45,040 --> 00:29:49,280
Speaker 1: my vodka? Kyle? Who did it? And when I asked Caitlin,

561
00:29:49,320 --> 00:29:50,040
Speaker 1: what does she say?

562
00:29:50,560 --> 00:29:50,800
Speaker 10: Said?

563
00:29:50,880 --> 00:29:53,840
Speaker 1: I did, yeah, and there you have my family right now?

564
00:29:53,920 --> 00:29:56,400
Speaker 3: Do you like having twins? Same thing?

565
00:29:56,680 --> 00:29:57,120
Speaker 1: Same thing?

566
00:29:57,240 --> 00:29:59,920
Speaker 2: Okay, this one I don't want to ask, have any

567
00:30:00,080 --> 00:30:01,920
Speaker 2: Have you had a one night stamp?

568
00:30:02,160 --> 00:30:02,360
Speaker 1: Oh?

569
00:30:02,440 --> 00:30:04,600
Speaker 4: Geez, yes, yes.

570
00:30:06,200 --> 00:30:12,000
Speaker 1: Kyle, I haven't. I haven't.

571
00:30:12,480 --> 00:30:13,920
Speaker 4: I sadly I believe that.

572
00:30:15,200 --> 00:30:16,200
Speaker 1: Can I just tell you?

573
00:30:17,480 --> 00:30:18,640
Speaker 3: I'm just melting?

574
00:30:19,800 --> 00:30:25,040
Speaker 1: Why on the show? I literally finally said on the show, okay,

575
00:30:25,920 --> 00:30:31,320
Speaker 1: I have never done laundry and ironed on a Sunday night.

576
00:30:31,520 --> 00:30:34,840
Speaker 1: Yes I haven't. I Wait a minute, remember that ice cream?

577
00:30:35,040 --> 00:30:37,560
Speaker 2: Wait a minute, She's never made out in the back

578
00:30:37,640 --> 00:30:39,760
Speaker 2: seat of the car. Now we're from the seventies.

579
00:30:39,840 --> 00:30:41,320
Speaker 3: Okay, who said.

580
00:30:41,120 --> 00:30:44,520
Speaker 1: I haven't made seat of the car? You wouldn't even

581
00:30:44,840 --> 00:30:48,440
Speaker 1: the front seat of a car? Well, I don't think

582
00:30:48,440 --> 00:30:50,360
Speaker 1: that was a question sincean The question was have you

583
00:30:50,400 --> 00:30:52,520
Speaker 1: done the deed in the backseat of a car? And

584
00:30:52,560 --> 00:30:53,760
Speaker 1: to that, I say, no.

585
00:30:54,280 --> 00:30:55,400
Speaker 3: Remember what's your name?

586
00:30:55,440 --> 00:30:55,640
Speaker 4: Said?

587
00:30:55,680 --> 00:30:55,840
Speaker 8: Oh?

588
00:30:55,880 --> 00:30:57,880
Speaker 3: On the dashboard, on the steering wheel.

589
00:30:58,360 --> 00:30:59,600
Speaker 5: What's the question here?

590
00:31:00,200 --> 00:31:03,440
Speaker 1: Have you ever ever had car? Kathy?

591
00:31:03,480 --> 00:31:04,920
Speaker 3: That was our question on the show.

592
00:31:06,560 --> 00:31:10,000
Speaker 1: You know, I'm sorry, inquiring mind to want to know Brittany,

593
00:31:10,040 --> 00:31:12,000
Speaker 1: have you ever had sucks in the backseat of a card? Kyle,

594
00:31:12,040 --> 00:31:15,560
Speaker 1: don't answer, Brittany, have you hey? You already answered with

595
00:31:15,600 --> 00:31:16,320
Speaker 1: my husband.

596
00:31:17,480 --> 00:31:20,680
Speaker 10: Oh please.

597
00:31:22,400 --> 00:31:24,760
Speaker 1: You I thought I did a good job of raising

598
00:31:24,800 --> 00:31:26,360
Speaker 1: my kids. I'm beginning to rethink this.

599
00:31:26,600 --> 00:31:27,800
Speaker 3: I'm moving along.

600
00:31:28,280 --> 00:31:34,800
Speaker 2: Have you ever secretly returned a gift from a family members?

601
00:31:35,120 --> 00:31:37,200
Speaker 3: We don't do anything secretly crazy.

602
00:31:38,560 --> 00:31:39,440
Speaker 1: You'll know media.

603
00:31:39,640 --> 00:31:41,600
Speaker 6: If one of us doesn't like him, we're like, here's

604
00:31:41,640 --> 00:31:43,960
Speaker 6: the receipt, returning it's something you like because I want

605
00:31:43,960 --> 00:31:45,800
Speaker 6: my money to be spent the right way, like you

606
00:31:45,920 --> 00:31:46,680
Speaker 6: have to like it.

607
00:31:46,760 --> 00:31:49,560
Speaker 2: That's about you, Kyle and Candy.

608
00:31:49,480 --> 00:31:50,200
Speaker 10: Yes I have.

609
00:31:50,840 --> 00:31:51,200
Speaker 5: I don't.

610
00:31:51,320 --> 00:31:55,400
Speaker 9: I don't think I have, Kathy, because you said secretly

611
00:31:55,520 --> 00:31:59,480
Speaker 9: right secretly what Brittany said, like my mom?

612
00:31:59,560 --> 00:32:03,680
Speaker 4: I oh, gift for seeds? Okay, one, but not like.

613
00:32:04,080 --> 00:32:06,480
Speaker 3: Wait, I'm making this one up. Have you ever regifted

614
00:32:06,520 --> 00:32:06,920
Speaker 3: a gift?

615
00:32:07,240 --> 00:32:07,400
Speaker 1: Oh?

616
00:32:07,480 --> 00:32:10,840
Speaker 2: Hell yes, I can't do it because if I hate it,

617
00:32:10,880 --> 00:32:12,480
Speaker 2: I'm not going to be embarrassed to give it to

618
00:32:12,560 --> 00:32:14,760
Speaker 2: somebody who's going to be The.

619
00:32:14,760 --> 00:32:17,400
Speaker 4: Key is regifting kids gifts they don't use it.

620
00:32:17,480 --> 00:32:20,360
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I like that.

621
00:32:20,760 --> 00:32:25,640
Speaker 1: All right, here's the next one. Have oh God, oh, Kyle, perfect,

622
00:32:25,760 --> 00:32:29,400
Speaker 1: you can just say yes right now dated or hooked

623
00:32:29,480 --> 00:32:34,120
Speaker 1: up with someone ten plus years older, Brittany. We already

624
00:32:34,120 --> 00:32:36,360
Speaker 1: know Kyle's answer, he's married to her. How about you?

625
00:32:38,280 --> 00:32:41,240
Speaker 5: I don't think over ten years?

626
00:32:41,640 --> 00:32:43,080
Speaker 3: How about ten years younger?

627
00:32:44,160 --> 00:32:52,640
Speaker 1: No, Candy, Candy, yes, siree. And for me at this point, Susan,

628
00:32:52,640 --> 00:32:55,600
Speaker 1: we're getting damn close. For me, ten years older means

629
00:32:55,600 --> 00:32:57,080
Speaker 1: I'd be digging in the ground.

630
00:32:57,480 --> 00:32:59,200
Speaker 5: You know, it's different.

631
00:32:59,320 --> 00:33:02,560
Speaker 6: But when I single and younger that then it would

632
00:33:02,560 --> 00:33:04,720
Speaker 6: have been a little weird being ten years younger than

633
00:33:04,720 --> 00:33:07,040
Speaker 6: me and be like sixteen like that didn't make sense

634
00:33:07,080 --> 00:33:08,040
Speaker 6: in my timeline.

635
00:33:08,120 --> 00:33:09,720
Speaker 5: So I'm a different judge for that.

636
00:33:10,080 --> 00:33:12,719
Speaker 2: I have a question for the children, all of you,

637
00:33:13,000 --> 00:33:15,120
Speaker 2: not you, Kath, because you already schooled me.

638
00:33:16,760 --> 00:33:17,840
Speaker 1: And I'm not a child.

639
00:33:18,800 --> 00:33:20,120
Speaker 3: What does hooked up mean?

640
00:33:20,840 --> 00:33:21,360
Speaker 1: Hooking up?

641
00:33:21,840 --> 00:33:24,240
Speaker 3: Oh God, define hooking up?

642
00:33:25,080 --> 00:33:29,840
Speaker 1: Please? What does it mean? She said? What does it

643
00:33:29,960 --> 00:33:31,200
Speaker 1: mean to hook kle?

644
00:33:32,320 --> 00:33:32,520
Speaker 5: Yeah?

645
00:33:32,600 --> 00:33:37,800
Speaker 3: Having sex, Brittany, Yeah, having sex on the planet.

646
00:33:38,200 --> 00:33:41,280
Speaker 1: Already said it. She said it first, and and there

647
00:33:41,360 --> 00:33:45,680
Speaker 1: and Bachelor Nation. There you have it. Kathy may be

648
00:33:45,720 --> 00:33:48,200
Speaker 1: a purist and not have done all these things, but

649
00:33:48,240 --> 00:33:51,480
Speaker 1: she definitely knows what hooking up means. Soon think it

650
00:33:52,680 --> 00:33:53,280
Speaker 1: thought it.

651
00:33:53,200 --> 00:33:55,920
Speaker 3: Was like with somebody we made out, That's what I thought.

652
00:33:56,240 --> 00:34:00,280
Speaker 6: I mean, No, it does not the meaning I don't

653
00:34:00,320 --> 00:34:03,080
Speaker 6: have several meanings, because yeah, you can be hooking up

654
00:34:03,080 --> 00:34:03,520
Speaker 6: with someone.

655
00:34:03,560 --> 00:34:05,600
Speaker 5: It's kind of like a dating and you're together.

656
00:34:06,200 --> 00:34:09,680
Speaker 1: Except except except. Susan looked it up in the dictionary

657
00:34:09,760 --> 00:34:13,080
Speaker 1: and it says having sex with the intention of not

658
00:34:13,200 --> 00:34:17,160
Speaker 1: having a relationship moving forward. So Susan go talk to

659
00:34:17,320 --> 00:34:21,520
Speaker 1: Daniel Webster who's six feet under and argue with him

660
00:34:21,760 --> 00:34:24,600
Speaker 1: hooking up means having sex behind it.

661
00:34:24,760 --> 00:34:25,960
Speaker 5: That's a whole different story.

662
00:34:26,000 --> 00:34:27,040
Speaker 3: I just didn't though.

663
00:34:27,120 --> 00:34:30,680
Speaker 2: I didn't know I stood up a date or ghost

664
00:34:30,760 --> 00:34:31,360
Speaker 2: at someone.

665
00:34:31,880 --> 00:34:34,160
Speaker 3: Have you ever you have?

666
00:34:34,520 --> 00:34:34,960
Speaker 1: Kyle?

667
00:34:35,600 --> 00:34:41,719
Speaker 2: Kyle, Kyle Sworts, Are you kidding making yes two Brittany.

668
00:34:42,440 --> 00:34:43,880
Speaker 5: No, that's messed up.

669
00:34:44,440 --> 00:34:49,960
Speaker 1: Yes, hey Brittany. Wait, Susan, can I adopt Brittany for

670
00:34:50,000 --> 00:34:54,480
Speaker 1: the rest of the show because I'm really disgusted with you, Kyle.

671
00:34:55,160 --> 00:34:55,759
Speaker 3: I hate it.

672
00:34:55,800 --> 00:34:57,600
Speaker 2: When I got ghosted, I cried.

673
00:34:57,680 --> 00:35:01,400
Speaker 1: I was so I'd never do that, Kyle, didn't I

674
00:35:01,440 --> 00:35:03,920
Speaker 1: bring you up better than that? That is so rude.

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Speaker 9: I'll be I'll be even more honest, like I've ghosted

676
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Speaker 9: and I've been ghosted.

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Speaker 4: It happens.

678
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Speaker 3: We didn't ask if you were ghosted. We asked if

679
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Speaker 3: you were to ghost it.

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00:35:12,880 --> 00:35:15,880
Speaker 4: Okay, it works both ways. Yes, yeah, I know.

681
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Speaker 1: Why don't care about the ghosting that happens. You stood

682
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Speaker 1: someone up for it. It's the same thing. No, it isn't, Susan,

683
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Speaker 1: do ark to explain ghost it to you? Now?

684
00:35:24,680 --> 00:35:27,960
Speaker 3: Ghosting means you don't show up, right, No it doesn't.

685
00:35:28,360 --> 00:35:31,239
Speaker 4: No, no, no, no. To be clear, no no. Standing up

686
00:35:31,360 --> 00:35:32,920
Speaker 4: is like we have a date and then you just

687
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Speaker 4: don't show up. I have not done that, thank you.

688
00:35:35,480 --> 00:35:38,760
Speaker 9: I have been in communication with somebody and then just stopling.

689
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Speaker 1: That's what ghosting is.

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Speaker 3: Okay, all right.

691
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Speaker 1: Honey, Susan, listen, when I come and visit you in

692
00:35:43,600 --> 00:35:45,120
Speaker 1: a few weeks, we're going to sit down. We're going

693
00:35:45,200 --> 00:35:50,600
Speaker 1: a little lesson in terminology. In the along.

694
00:35:51,840 --> 00:35:57,040
Speaker 2: Had sex while my parents were under the same room.

695
00:35:57,719 --> 00:36:00,680
Speaker 1: Oh I don't want to know this. You love this

696
00:36:00,840 --> 00:36:07,759
Speaker 1: game you have, Kyle can't.

697
00:36:06,080 --> 00:36:08,440
Speaker 3: With Candy your daughter and get the words out.

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00:36:08,520 --> 00:36:10,360
Speaker 1: Brittany, you too, Brittany.

699
00:36:12,080 --> 00:36:13,719
Speaker 3: Yeah, let's see Tevi.

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00:36:14,040 --> 00:36:17,879
Speaker 1: Oh wait a minute, wait a minute, Hold on, hold on,

701
00:36:18,280 --> 00:36:21,800
Speaker 1: hold on. That's because we just were in New York together.

702
00:36:22,840 --> 00:36:25,400
Speaker 1: That's different. Yes it is. Look they're laughing.

703
00:36:25,960 --> 00:36:28,120
Speaker 3: Tell me, is it not new York?

704
00:36:29,120 --> 00:36:30,720
Speaker 1: It's not New York when you're on vacation.

705
00:36:31,960 --> 00:36:36,320
Speaker 2: Have you ever read a family member's phone or diary?

706
00:36:37,120 --> 00:36:37,279
Speaker 1: Oh?

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00:36:37,320 --> 00:36:40,560
Speaker 3: Hell yeah?

708
00:36:40,680 --> 00:36:42,960
Speaker 1: Are you kidding me? Kyle? I got your phone, I

709
00:36:43,000 --> 00:36:43,919
Speaker 1: got Kaitlyn's phone.

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00:36:44,440 --> 00:36:46,320
Speaker 5: What I would find? No?

711
00:36:46,320 --> 00:36:47,759
Speaker 4: No, no, no.

712
00:36:47,400 --> 00:36:49,200
Speaker 3: No I did. When you have kids, I try to

713
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Speaker 3: find stuff out.

714
00:36:50,040 --> 00:36:53,399
Speaker 1: But no, I didn't do Kyle's I didn't. Wait, you've

715
00:36:53,400 --> 00:36:57,880
Speaker 1: never blamed the women, Susan. Oh no, see she's rushing, biker.

716
00:36:57,960 --> 00:36:59,960
Speaker 1: She didn't want to answer that. When we're going right back.

717
00:37:00,719 --> 00:37:02,720
Speaker 1: Did you look in your children's phone?

718
00:37:02,760 --> 00:37:06,279
Speaker 3: Says yes, definitely, I did.

719
00:37:06,719 --> 00:37:08,600
Speaker 1: Listen, look at her, She says it like she's on

720
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Speaker 1: the witness stand. Yes, sir, I did, and I'm proud

721
00:37:10,880 --> 00:37:12,480
Speaker 1: of it, and I would do it again, sir.

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00:37:12,960 --> 00:37:14,120
Speaker 3: Absolutely, Kyle.

723
00:37:14,120 --> 00:37:15,440
Speaker 1: Have you ever gone through my phone?

724
00:37:15,840 --> 00:37:20,000
Speaker 10: No, Candy, I've never gone through your phone.

725
00:37:21,080 --> 00:37:24,840
Speaker 1: I'm safe. You know why. There's nothing in my phone?

726
00:37:25,600 --> 00:37:28,960
Speaker 1: A lot of really, there's nothing there.

727
00:37:29,280 --> 00:37:29,640
Speaker 5: All right.

728
00:37:29,880 --> 00:37:32,800
Speaker 3: Have you ever blamed a fart on a flat family member?

729
00:37:33,320 --> 00:37:37,560
Speaker 1: No family, pet a family.

730
00:37:39,160 --> 00:37:42,640
Speaker 2: I'm blame it on anybody.

731
00:37:43,560 --> 00:37:46,240
Speaker 6: No, I own see you in the car and locks

732
00:37:46,320 --> 00:37:47,839
Speaker 6: the doors in the windows.

733
00:37:49,800 --> 00:37:51,239
Speaker 4: Here comes another one.

734
00:37:52,000 --> 00:37:55,600
Speaker 1: I don't fart.

735
00:37:54,280 --> 00:38:00,440
Speaker 3: No, she don't have sack. She should have been a nun. Sorry,

736
00:38:00,480 --> 00:38:01,160
Speaker 3: Brittany goes.

737
00:38:02,719 --> 00:38:06,240
Speaker 5: I'm just saying, like we often have the laughing peeing yourself?

738
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Speaker 5: Oh god, more than like.

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Speaker 1: Okay, wait a minute, Susan, have you laughed so hard

740
00:38:12,360 --> 00:38:15,000
Speaker 1: you've peed yourself a million times?

741
00:38:15,560 --> 00:38:17,880
Speaker 3: I actually got it fixed, so I don't do.

742
00:38:18,000 --> 00:38:18,680
Speaker 1: I never have.

743
00:38:19,719 --> 00:38:20,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, that was great.

744
00:38:21,440 --> 00:38:23,960
Speaker 2: I could jump on a trampoline now I could laugh,

745
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Speaker 2: my sister.

746
00:38:26,000 --> 00:38:28,919
Speaker 1: That's the thing I never have. I swear I've never

747
00:38:29,080 --> 00:38:33,600
Speaker 1: had that issue either. I lived at very No. I'm sorry.

748
00:38:33,880 --> 00:38:36,800
Speaker 1: Peing yourself or not peeing yourself is not goody two shoes.

749
00:38:36,880 --> 00:38:38,960
Speaker 1: It's just it's a physical phenomenon.

750
00:38:39,440 --> 00:38:40,800
Speaker 5: Laughing hard enough.

751
00:38:41,840 --> 00:38:45,000
Speaker 1: Oh seriously, I don't laugh hard enough. Really, you want

752
00:38:45,040 --> 00:38:47,400
Speaker 1: me on the floor. That's a roller blades.

753
00:38:47,440 --> 00:38:50,000
Speaker 5: It's in my swishy pants and not coming out.

754
00:38:52,800 --> 00:38:55,160
Speaker 3: Wait when you get a two pack? Did you ever

755
00:38:55,160 --> 00:38:55,759
Speaker 3: get a two pack?

756
00:38:55,840 --> 00:38:56,080
Speaker 7: Kyle?

757
00:38:56,120 --> 00:38:58,280
Speaker 3: I'm sure what the hell is a two pack?

758
00:38:58,600 --> 00:38:59,920
Speaker 5: When you laughed so hard?

759
00:39:01,640 --> 00:39:03,560
Speaker 2: I always say, oh my god, I got a tu

760
00:39:03,680 --> 00:39:06,440
Speaker 2: pac because the pain the muscles in your stomach are

761
00:39:06,480 --> 00:39:09,520
Speaker 2: so tight. I don't have a six packs of minds.

762
00:39:09,520 --> 00:39:12,560
Speaker 6: That two's getting a workout from me and getting apps.

763
00:39:12,719 --> 00:39:14,080
Speaker 3: It's true.

764
00:39:14,880 --> 00:39:17,600
Speaker 1: Okay, I'm we're leaving that one. We're going to end

765
00:39:17,600 --> 00:39:22,040
Speaker 1: this little segment on something that I wish would happen.

766
00:39:22,600 --> 00:39:25,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, pay attention, I have pay attention.

767
00:39:25,640 --> 00:39:27,120
Speaker 1: Listen up and make this happen.

768
00:39:27,239 --> 00:39:28,760
Speaker 3: All three of you, all three.

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00:39:28,600 --> 00:39:32,600
Speaker 1: Of you and anyone else who's listening. I have or

770
00:39:32,640 --> 00:39:37,400
Speaker 1: have not set my parent up with someone for a date,

771
00:39:38,200 --> 00:39:43,879
Speaker 1: please crickets. Mike drops well, yeah, look at them. Look

772
00:39:43,880 --> 00:39:45,680
Speaker 1: at it. Wait, I just wish everyone could see them.

773
00:39:45,719 --> 00:39:47,200
Speaker 1: They're all look at them.

774
00:39:47,200 --> 00:39:50,360
Speaker 3: They're just like they're thinking, who could I ask you?

775
00:39:50,640 --> 00:39:51,360
Speaker 5: I'm talking.

776
00:39:51,600 --> 00:39:53,239
Speaker 6: I told you to go on this show. I feel

777
00:39:53,320 --> 00:39:56,080
Speaker 6: like that's the best one of all. It's the best one.

778
00:39:56,320 --> 00:39:59,160
Speaker 3: It wasn't a date, though, I didn't get a date.

779
00:39:59,480 --> 00:40:01,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, you got a piece of pink cord. Stop complaining.

780
00:40:02,200 --> 00:40:06,040
Speaker 9: Oh and Mom, I just want to say it for you.

781
00:40:06,480 --> 00:40:08,160
Speaker 9: I don't need to set you up. You were very

782
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Speaker 9: good at advocating for yourself.

783
00:40:11,480 --> 00:40:14,040
Speaker 3: Really had dates.

784
00:40:14,719 --> 00:40:15,719
Speaker 1: The question was.

785
00:40:15,960 --> 00:40:18,120
Speaker 9: We were in New York and they were talking about

786
00:40:18,120 --> 00:40:22,120
Speaker 9: some guy that like was single, and you were like.

787
00:40:22,080 --> 00:40:23,680
Speaker 4: Set me up with him, blah blah blah, Like do

788
00:40:23,880 --> 00:40:24,760
Speaker 4: you speak up for yourself?

789
00:40:24,840 --> 00:40:25,920
Speaker 1: Yeah? Can I just tell you?

790
00:40:26,000 --> 00:40:26,160
Speaker 5: Wait?

791
00:40:26,320 --> 00:40:29,839
Speaker 2: And that's because they're scared. No, you're thank you if

792
00:40:29,920 --> 00:40:31,560
Speaker 2: you did it, thank you all they might.

793
00:40:31,480 --> 00:40:34,359
Speaker 1: Have approached her. I'm just saying, yeah, can I just

794
00:40:34,360 --> 00:40:36,560
Speaker 1: tell you the guy Kyle's talking about in New York

795
00:40:37,200 --> 00:40:40,600
Speaker 1: a sixty nine year old, really good looking guy, seriously

796
00:40:40,680 --> 00:40:44,640
Speaker 1: a good listen, super good looking guy. His wife died.

797
00:40:44,680 --> 00:40:48,960
Speaker 1: I hope you're listening to, sir. His wife died two

798
00:40:49,280 --> 00:40:52,879
Speaker 1: years ago, not even not even two years ago. And

799
00:40:52,960 --> 00:40:54,759
Speaker 1: so the family that we were with, a bunch of

800
00:40:54,760 --> 00:40:58,560
Speaker 1: family members, extended family members. I said, what's the matter

801
00:40:58,600 --> 00:41:00,919
Speaker 1: with you? Why don't you met up with this guy?

802
00:41:01,200 --> 00:41:05,319
Speaker 1: He texts the guy ready his wife has not even

803
00:41:05,440 --> 00:41:08,400
Speaker 1: gone two years yet, he's already living with another woman.

804
00:41:10,239 --> 00:41:11,800
Speaker 3: Seriously, good for him.

805
00:41:12,360 --> 00:41:15,000
Speaker 2: Okay, And I think that's going to do it for

806
00:41:15,120 --> 00:41:16,200
Speaker 2: today's episode.

807
00:41:16,239 --> 00:41:18,680
Speaker 3: And you guys were fabulous.

808
00:41:20,200 --> 00:41:22,560
Speaker 2: You're gonna have to come down to Austin when I

809
00:41:22,600 --> 00:41:23,520
Speaker 2: go down there because.

810
00:41:23,360 --> 00:41:26,719
Speaker 3: I'm working a fire engine.

811
00:41:25,960 --> 00:41:29,360
Speaker 8: I've never been, and my friend had just moved there recently,

812
00:41:29,440 --> 00:41:30,720
Speaker 8: my best friend from college.

813
00:41:30,760 --> 00:41:32,000
Speaker 5: So I need to come visits.

814
00:41:32,120 --> 00:41:34,040
Speaker 1: You are so welcome to come. We're all going to

815
00:41:34,080 --> 00:41:36,759
Speaker 1: descend on Kyle. Hey, Kyle, if they all come, can

816
00:41:36,800 --> 00:41:38,520
Speaker 1: we go to the fire station? Can we go up

817
00:41:38,520 --> 00:41:41,600
Speaker 1: on that really high ladder? That whatever that thing is called,

818
00:41:41,600 --> 00:41:42,480
Speaker 1: It goes really high up.

819
00:41:43,200 --> 00:41:46,000
Speaker 4: My new place where I met doesn't have that anymore,

820
00:41:46,120 --> 00:41:46,759
Speaker 4: or doesn't have one.

821
00:41:47,400 --> 00:41:50,640
Speaker 2: Yle, I'll drive the engine. They can get up on

822
00:41:50,719 --> 00:41:52,120
Speaker 2: the ladder while I drive.

823
00:41:53,320 --> 00:41:56,040
Speaker 4: You can drive my chief vehicle, my battalion chief vehicle.

824
00:41:56,160 --> 00:41:57,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, Kyle doesn't fire engine?

825
00:41:58,000 --> 00:41:58,319
Speaker 5: Is it?

826
00:41:59,400 --> 00:42:01,520
Speaker 4: I'll you know, I know people. I'll get you on

827
00:42:01,520 --> 00:42:02,600
Speaker 4: to mention Kyle.

828
00:42:02,800 --> 00:42:06,200
Speaker 1: Kyle's the one that runs the fires. Wait a minute, Kyle,

829
00:42:06,480 --> 00:42:10,319
Speaker 1: you would let her drive a fire engine?

830
00:42:10,640 --> 00:42:11,239
Speaker 4: No?

831
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Speaker 1: No, okay, fine, all right, Well this has been so grand.

832
00:42:17,800 --> 00:42:20,359
Speaker 1: We have loved getting to chat. I have found out

833
00:42:20,400 --> 00:42:23,720
Speaker 1: things about you, Brittany that I am stunned about. Kyle.

834
00:42:24,239 --> 00:42:27,160
Speaker 1: We'll take it up later what I've learned about you.

835
00:42:28,080 --> 00:42:31,080
Speaker 1: And we've had so much fun with you guys.

836
00:42:31,360 --> 00:42:34,000
Speaker 2: It really was and I have you guys out there

837
00:42:34,080 --> 00:42:36,879
Speaker 2: listening and joined our kids as much as we did.

838
00:42:36,960 --> 00:42:40,600
Speaker 1: Really because we love our kids. And please, please, I

839
00:42:40,680 --> 00:42:42,799
Speaker 1: know I sound like a broken record. My kids, Kyle

840
00:42:42,840 --> 00:42:45,640
Speaker 1: will tell you I am a broken record. I repeat myself,

841
00:42:45,680 --> 00:42:48,520
Speaker 1: so let me repeat myself once more. Be sure to

842
00:42:48,600 --> 00:42:53,920
Speaker 1: follow Bachelor Happy Hour as we have new episodes, new guests.

843
00:42:54,160 --> 00:42:56,440
Speaker 1: It's a grand time. Please come and join.

844
00:42:56,320 --> 00:42:59,399
Speaker 2: Us and make sure you submit your questions to us,

845
00:42:59,440 --> 00:43:02,320
Speaker 2: because with that them, what else would we talk about?

846
00:43:02,400 --> 00:43:02,760
Speaker 1: Kathy?

847
00:43:03,719 --> 00:43:08,040
Speaker 2: You can go to bachelornation dot com, slash Golden Hour,

848
00:43:08,400 --> 00:43:11,200
Speaker 2: or hit us up on social at Bachelor Happy.

849
00:43:10,920 --> 00:43:15,440
Speaker 1: Hour and please listen to Bachelor Happy Hours Golden Hour

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00:43:15,800 --> 00:43:19,680
Speaker 1: on the iHeartRadio app or wherever you listen to podcasts

851
00:43:19,880 --> 00:43:23,160
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