WEBVTT - Secondary Catcher 0:00:00.560 --> 0:00:04.800 Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya rap An iHeartRadio podcast. 0:00:08.400 --> 0:00:10.879 Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in. 0:00:11.760 --> 0:00:14.400 Scrub a dub dum. 0:00:14.560 --> 0:00:16.480 We're back on a Wednesday. 0:00:16.960 --> 0:00:23.720 Yes, I do have to apologize because Monday's originally scheduled programming. 0:00:24.480 --> 0:00:27.720 I worked from home. I wasn't feeling well. I went 0:00:27.760 --> 0:00:30.560 down over the weekend, and in an abundance of caution, 0:00:31.640 --> 0:00:33.400 I decided not to come into the studio, which felt 0:00:33.440 --> 0:00:34.479 respectful to others. 0:00:34.640 --> 0:00:37.559 It was respectful, and honestly, it was a gift, not 0:00:37.720 --> 0:00:39.960 that you being sick was a gift, but a gift 0:00:40.000 --> 0:00:42.480 to have the three day weekend because I was like, Okay, 0:00:42.479 --> 0:00:43.960 we're going to do it early, so I'll have the 0:00:43.960 --> 0:00:46.440 rest of the day. It's an easy low lift getting 0:00:46.440 --> 0:00:49.400 to hang with my friends and the stew but it 0:00:49.440 --> 0:00:51.920 was so nice to just not do anything. 0:00:53.040 --> 0:00:56.800 I quite enjoyed it. But I'm I'm sorry you were sick. Yeah. 0:00:57.080 --> 0:00:59.720 Are you feeling better? Yes? Full recovery has been. 0:00:59.680 --> 0:01:02.080 Made, I'd say ninety percent recovery. 0:01:02.560 --> 0:01:04.720 In the mornings, I'm still a little like not my 0:01:04.800 --> 0:01:07.160 best undred percent self, but like during the day, I'm 0:01:07.160 --> 0:01:07.800 totally fine. 0:01:07.840 --> 0:01:10.400 Who took you down? I'm not sure who. 0:01:10.200 --> 0:01:13.280 Took me down, and I'm not sure, like I don't 0:01:13.280 --> 0:01:14.640 know if you do this when you get sick, but 0:01:14.760 --> 0:01:16.800 like try and pinpoint the like who gave it to you? 0:01:16.840 --> 0:01:19.720 When and where? I think. I just kind of do 0:01:19.840 --> 0:01:22.840 like a kind of drive by in my head. 0:01:22.840 --> 0:01:26.480 Who did I see? How are they doing? Was I 0:01:26.560 --> 0:01:29.520 in a crowded space? And then I let it go 0:01:29.640 --> 0:01:30.679 because it doesn't matter. 0:01:31.000 --> 0:01:33.360 Yeah, I go like in where I try to like 0:01:33.400 --> 0:01:36.039 figure it out, but I'm constantly around people, so it's 0:01:36.080 --> 0:01:36.759 like impossible. 0:01:37.120 --> 0:01:39.120 You're around people more than anyone I know. 0:01:39.360 --> 0:01:40.520 Yes, and I'm going and then. 0:01:42.240 --> 0:01:43.039 Correct. Yeah. 0:01:43.200 --> 0:01:45.720 Yeah, so I didn't really get to the bottom of 0:01:46.600 --> 0:01:47.680 where I got this thing. 0:01:47.640 --> 0:01:50.160 Like you're in spaces where people are just like sweating 0:01:50.520 --> 0:01:53.720 and like engulfed in their sweat. 0:01:54.000 --> 0:01:55.320 Yes, yeah, in hot rooms. 0:01:55.400 --> 0:02:00.720 Yeah. Hm, successful of germs daily daily. 0:02:00.880 --> 0:02:03.360 So I up and a little bit about me. Oh 0:02:03.360 --> 0:02:04.200 you better believe that. 0:02:04.280 --> 0:02:04.520 Now. 0:02:04.560 --> 0:02:07.560 I'm like, I have my wellness, I have my quick defense, 0:02:07.600 --> 0:02:10.440 I have my bee keepers spray. Then I have spraying. 0:02:10.520 --> 0:02:13.400 I'm gonna do it every day now. Another friend of 0:02:13.400 --> 0:02:15.440 mine sent me some pills that she gets from Whole 0:02:15.440 --> 0:02:19.320 Foods that are like wellness pill in this formula, and I'm. 0:02:19.160 --> 0:02:20.880 Going to be taking that daily. 0:02:22.639 --> 0:02:23.600 Is the I take. 0:02:25.280 --> 0:02:27.120 I think it is well in this formula. It's like 0:02:27.160 --> 0:02:28.120 a white and teal tub. 0:02:28.240 --> 0:02:29.240 Yeah. 0:02:29.280 --> 0:02:30.760 I'm going to get some of that today. 0:02:31.080 --> 0:02:34.799 Uh yeah, that's good because I was thinking we got 0:02:34.800 --> 0:02:35.200 to keep you. 0:02:35.280 --> 0:02:37.320 We have a month. We're in a month less than 0:02:37.360 --> 0:02:37.639 a month. 0:02:38.040 --> 0:02:40.800 Yes, I do understand this weekend how much we had 0:02:40.880 --> 0:02:43.800 on our to do list and we got to fifty 0:02:43.800 --> 0:02:44.880 percent of it. 0:02:44.880 --> 0:02:48.600 It's okay, it's still there, so you got to figure 0:02:48.600 --> 0:02:49.720 out another time to do it. 0:02:49.760 --> 0:02:51.360 We have not going anywhere two. 0:02:51.200 --> 0:02:53.840 Hour zoom meeting on Saturday, and that was the day 0:02:53.840 --> 0:02:56.120 where I was like at my worst. 0:02:56.200 --> 0:03:00.359 You know what, I think you need to process that 0:03:00.520 --> 0:03:04.400 everything might not go perfectly and that's fine. I know 0:03:04.480 --> 0:03:06.440 she doesn't. But like before we turn the mics down, 0:03:06.440 --> 0:03:08.680 there was a whole thing about when her period's coming, 0:03:08.680 --> 0:03:10.080 and it's going to come that day or the day 0:03:10.120 --> 0:03:12.400 before or the day after. You know what, you gotta 0:03:12.480 --> 0:03:12.880 let go. 0:03:13.560 --> 0:03:14.840 Let go like God, that's it. 0:03:14.960 --> 0:03:17.840 Some stuff not fong to go perfectly, yeah, like God, 0:03:17.960 --> 0:03:20.240 like let flow like God. 0:03:20.440 --> 0:03:24.320 Yeah, yeah, it's true, but that is something you struggle 0:03:24.360 --> 0:03:25.400 with in many areas. 0:03:25.440 --> 0:03:27.600 Oh my gosh, it's like my letting go of control. 0:03:27.760 --> 0:03:31.399 Yes, it's like my biggest character flaw. It's a part 0:03:31.400 --> 0:03:35.600 of me. It's a bit of me. Yeah. But we are. 0:03:35.920 --> 0:03:38.120 We are in the less than a month countdown, Helen, 0:03:38.200 --> 0:03:40.360 I go, I live in four weeks since she goes 0:03:40.400 --> 0:03:41.040 three weeks. 0:03:41.320 --> 0:03:43.680 Yeah, I was like four and I tried to do 0:03:43.760 --> 0:03:45.400 it and she was like three. 0:03:45.880 --> 0:03:50.400 So it's coming up fast now. Yeah, January took six months, 0:03:50.480 --> 0:03:52.160 but February has been a blink of. 0:03:54.320 --> 0:03:55.240 It's always like that. 0:03:55.360 --> 0:03:58.840 How like when we get to the wedding, when we 0:03:58.920 --> 0:04:02.040 leave for the wedding day destination, do you feel like 0:04:02.120 --> 0:04:03.520 everything's gonna be ready and good? 0:04:04.120 --> 0:04:05.000 At that point? 0:04:05.560 --> 0:04:08.160 By the time I leave to go to my wedding, 0:04:08.280 --> 0:04:09.320 I am relinquishing. 0:04:09.680 --> 0:04:10.720 Oh I am. 0:04:11.440 --> 0:04:15.680 I am doing this my hands and I am done. 0:04:16.320 --> 0:04:19.200 Wow mm hmm. But when we get that point, I 0:04:19.240 --> 0:04:21.960 am just enjoying. But when we get there, isn't there 0:04:22.000 --> 0:04:24.120 stuff to be done? Or no? Nope? Wow? 0:04:24.200 --> 0:04:24.440 Wow? 0:04:24.920 --> 0:04:31.719 Not by me? Well we did you on? Not by me? 0:04:32.040 --> 0:04:34.920 On Gallentine's Day we went for was that the final 0:04:35.000 --> 0:04:36.279 dress fitting for my Yeah? 0:04:36.320 --> 0:04:37.080 For my wedding dress? 0:04:37.160 --> 0:04:42.600 Yeah, yeah, and the reception dress fitting. Yep, you guys, 0:04:42.680 --> 0:04:46.720 Tanya's outfits. You're gonna You're gonna love. The people are 0:04:46.720 --> 0:04:47.200 gonna love. 0:04:47.320 --> 0:04:49.160 Thank you, Yeah, thank you so much. 0:04:49.400 --> 0:04:51.279 I like, I put on my dress for the last 0:04:51.320 --> 0:04:53.800 time and I was just like sobbing, and I'm like. 0:04:53.760 --> 0:04:55.320 How am I going to get through my wedding? 0:04:55.400 --> 0:04:59.760 Like I'm in a tailor's shop, it's raining outside. I 0:04:59.760 --> 0:05:02.760 put this dress on and I'm literally sobbing. 0:05:03.720 --> 0:05:05.680 So you don't get through your wedding, that's okay, you 0:05:05.680 --> 0:05:06.560 can cry all the way through. 0:05:07.000 --> 0:05:08.000 I think I'm going too. 0:05:08.240 --> 0:05:08.640 I did. 0:05:08.839 --> 0:05:12.080 Yeah, I think I'm going to because I was like, 0:05:12.800 --> 0:05:16.599 there's nothing romantic about the situation that we're in right now. 0:05:16.720 --> 0:05:20.679 Everybody's wet, it's rainy, and I'm just like full sobbing. 0:05:21.480 --> 0:05:25.359 I wonder though, because of the adrenaline and. 0:05:28.440 --> 0:05:31.720 Like you being overwhelmed, I wonder if it'll almost stifle 0:05:32.320 --> 0:05:35.560 the flow or it'll either like enhance the flow or 0:05:35.640 --> 0:05:36.799 it'll stifle the flow. 0:05:37.279 --> 0:05:39.640 When I'm very much hoping that doesn't happen to me, 0:05:39.680 --> 0:05:42.760 and I'm gonna have to like really be proactive about 0:05:42.839 --> 0:05:47.600 not letting myself go. There is the timeline because In 0:05:47.600 --> 0:05:49.560 this two hour meeting that I had with my wedding planner, 0:05:49.640 --> 0:05:51.760 A lot of it is timing of the day of 0:05:52.160 --> 0:05:53.880 What time do you want your hair makeup to be done? 0:05:54.080 --> 0:05:56.239 When do you want your photos with your family versus 0:05:56.240 --> 0:05:58.760 your bridesmaids versusa. Do you want your bridesmaids going to 0:05:58.800 --> 0:05:59.840 cocktail hour? Do you want them with you? 0:06:00.000 --> 0:06:00.920 Blah blah blah. 0:06:00.960 --> 0:06:03.400 I'm hoping that, like I'm not so in the like 0:06:04.680 --> 0:06:07.360 timing of everything in my head that I'm actually able 0:06:07.400 --> 0:06:09.760 to just like enjoy it. 0:06:10.000 --> 0:06:12.440 Well, that's why you have a wedding planer who has 0:06:12.480 --> 0:06:14.919 the timing, so that you can let go of having 0:06:14.920 --> 0:06:17.200 to keep track and let someone else do it and 0:06:17.360 --> 0:06:21.240 U it's like be the ones who keep track of. 0:06:21.080 --> 0:06:24.200 That the timing. Yeah, yeah, that's what I'm hoping. 0:06:24.839 --> 0:06:30.479 So go ahead and just really god yeah, yeah. We 0:06:30.480 --> 0:06:33.600 were talking about earlier at that before we started the 0:06:33.960 --> 0:06:36.880 period thing, because you were very concerned that it was 0:06:36.960 --> 0:06:39.240 going to fall on your wedding your start date. 0:06:39.600 --> 0:06:41.159 Yes, which could still happen. 0:06:41.720 --> 0:06:43.920 I could very much be getting my period the day 0:06:43.920 --> 0:06:47.039 of my wedding. What are the odds, Like, literally, what's 0:06:47.080 --> 0:06:47.480 the odds? 0:06:47.520 --> 0:06:49.160 What's what's the percentage in that. 0:06:50.040 --> 0:06:52.000 I suppose that's crazy. 0:06:52.440 --> 0:06:55.760 I think it's beautiful, Like, what a beautiful celebration of womanhood. 0:06:55.839 --> 0:06:59.960 Right, it's very on brand. It's very on brand. 0:07:00.200 --> 0:07:03.200 This is right. Anything that does go quote unquote wrong 0:07:03.279 --> 0:07:05.560 you can spin as positive if you were in the 0:07:05.600 --> 0:07:06.440 mindset to do so. 0:07:06.720 --> 0:07:06.960 Yeah. 0:07:07.000 --> 0:07:08.880 A girlfriend of mine also was on her period of 0:07:08.880 --> 0:07:11.440 her wedding, and she said she bled through her her 0:07:12.040 --> 0:07:14.360 her pajamas that she got like her getting ready outfit 0:07:14.440 --> 0:07:16.080 in bled completely through it. 0:07:16.120 --> 0:07:18.680 I was like, at least it was that ye could 0:07:18.720 --> 0:07:19.400 you imagine? 0:07:19.760 --> 0:07:23.160 Yeah? I no, that would send me. Yeah. I was like, 0:07:23.240 --> 0:07:23.720 let me tell you. 0:07:23.800 --> 0:07:25.040 If anything, I'm going to be prepared. 0:07:25.040 --> 0:07:29.080 I'm gonna have this super super jumbo tampons, big old 0:07:29.160 --> 0:07:33.600 paddle over there because there's so much space, is there? 0:07:34.040 --> 0:07:37.160 Yeah, isn't there bell dress? 0:07:37.360 --> 0:07:38.160 No, it's not. 0:07:38.240 --> 0:07:41.600 Bell, but it's not like a tight little silky thing. 0:07:43.560 --> 0:07:45.560 If I'm on my period, I'm going to have some 0:07:45.600 --> 0:07:46.720 sort of secondary. 0:07:47.000 --> 0:07:47.200 Yeah. 0:07:47.240 --> 0:07:48.920 No, I think that's catcher down there. 0:07:52.600 --> 0:07:53.239 For sure. 0:07:54.360 --> 0:07:55.480 How is Valentine's Day? 0:07:56.240 --> 0:07:58.360 Well, uh, maybe we should start with yours. 0:07:58.680 --> 0:08:03.240 Oh yeah, I mean mine was pretty reallyed. Haley had 0:08:03.280 --> 0:08:05.560 to work all day. We were originally going to do 0:08:06.120 --> 0:08:09.040 a spot day on Friday and then do dinner. She 0:08:09.120 --> 0:08:11.720 ended up having to work, so we had pushed everything 0:08:12.240 --> 0:08:17.440 and that. So she was in her office working and 0:08:17.480 --> 0:08:20.080 then our groceries were delivered and so I was putting 0:08:20.080 --> 0:08:21.920 them away because it was stuff that needed to go 0:08:21.920 --> 0:08:25.559 in the fridge, and there was a roast which she's 0:08:25.680 --> 0:08:28.360 never made, and I was I knew she was cooking 0:08:28.400 --> 0:08:30.320 for me that night, or actually I thought we were 0:08:30.360 --> 0:08:31.920 doing takeout because we were like, let's just have a 0:08:31.960 --> 0:08:34.199 cozy night in. She was like, I have to work 0:08:34.240 --> 0:08:36.880 all day. So I see the roast and I'm like, oh, 0:08:36.920 --> 0:08:38.360 is she going to try and cook a roast? Cause 0:08:38.360 --> 0:08:40.960 that's my favorite meal that my mom mays yeah, And 0:08:41.000 --> 0:08:43.200 so I'm always like, oh, she's always like, oh, if 0:08:43.200 --> 0:08:45.280 you could have one meal before you die, what would 0:08:45.320 --> 0:08:47.200 it be. And I'm like, Oh, my mom's roast. So 0:08:47.240 --> 0:08:49.239 it's like, oh, she's going to make me a roast. 0:08:49.640 --> 0:08:52.400 Then I found out so she's doing this. She's having 0:08:52.480 --> 0:08:56.040 these huge meetings like in the kitchen and she's like 0:08:56.480 --> 0:08:59.000 putting the roast in the pod like trying to like 0:08:59.080 --> 0:09:00.720 talk and also do this stop. 0:09:00.559 --> 0:09:02.840 On Zoo with video. Yeah, oh geez. 0:09:03.400 --> 0:09:06.840 And and then I found out she called my mom 0:09:07.040 --> 0:09:09.319 and got my mom's rest because my mom makes roasts 0:09:09.320 --> 0:09:12.040 different than anyone, like everyone who makes a roast, it's 0:09:12.040 --> 0:09:15.680 always different than how my mom did it. And so yeah, 0:09:15.720 --> 0:09:17.800 she called and got the instructions from my mom and 0:09:17.800 --> 0:09:20.000 made a roast and it was it was so good, 0:09:20.080 --> 0:09:23.240 and it was like, so she was so thoughtful, so thoughtful, 0:09:24.240 --> 0:09:28.920 and yeah, and then yeah, it was good. And then 0:09:29.200 --> 0:09:31.720 on over the weekend we just kind of we like 0:09:31.800 --> 0:09:33.600 went on hikes and had time, and then we did 0:09:33.679 --> 0:09:35.520 the spot on Monday, which was so nice. 0:09:35.720 --> 0:09:40.199 That is so nice, pleasant little weekend, so pleasant, so cozy. 0:09:41.160 --> 0:09:41.559 Love it. 0:09:42.559 --> 0:09:43.840 Why did you make that face? 0:09:43.920 --> 0:09:46.120 And he said, let's start with yours, No, because mine 0:09:46.160 --> 0:09:47.480 went down fast. 0:09:48.880 --> 0:09:49.600 Yeah. 0:09:49.640 --> 0:09:52.800 So like I started my day off with a nice workout. 0:09:53.720 --> 0:09:56.640 Love that for me. In a red set, you know, 0:09:57.240 --> 0:09:59.360 Valentine's Day. 0:09:58.679 --> 0:10:04.680 Selflow, self, feeling good, Robbie said, be dressed and ready 0:10:04.679 --> 0:10:05.679 at five pm. 0:10:06.040 --> 0:10:07.680 Wear something swanky. 0:10:07.920 --> 0:10:09.960 Swing swang. 0:10:10.000 --> 0:10:13.800 Okay, in terms for the the youth, what is sin? 0:10:14.800 --> 0:10:15.400 I didn't know. 0:10:15.440 --> 0:10:17.720 I'm like, what the hell is swinky? And where are 0:10:17.760 --> 0:10:21.520 you taking me? Is it like nice cocktail? Yeah? I 0:10:21.559 --> 0:10:23.920 wore like a little sexy like black top with like 0:10:24.040 --> 0:10:26.800 black slacks okay, and like a coat swank. 0:10:27.000 --> 0:10:30.120 I felt swanky, luxurious and expensive. 0:10:30.400 --> 0:10:33.480 Yes, yes, I was ready at four point fifty on 0:10:33.559 --> 0:10:37.360 the dot. That's had to be ready, yes, wow or 0:10:37.640 --> 0:10:40.920 whatever four forty nine like a minute before, thank you. 0:10:43.000 --> 0:10:46.600 And then on our drive to the restaurant, I started 0:10:46.640 --> 0:10:48.360 feeling like the tickle in my. 0:10:48.400 --> 0:10:50.600 Throat on the on the drive. 0:10:50.400 --> 0:10:51.599 And I was like, do I tell him or do 0:10:51.679 --> 0:10:53.200 I just try and suck it up through dinner and 0:10:53.280 --> 0:10:57.240 just like one last bang, you know, like right like 0:10:57.720 --> 0:11:00.760 both before it takes me down. Because I wasn't feeling 0:11:00.800 --> 0:11:02.920 horrible at that point. I was just feeling like a tickle. 0:11:02.960 --> 0:11:04.280 So I was like, I think I have a good 0:11:04.320 --> 0:11:05.520 one night left in me. 0:11:05.720 --> 0:11:07.960 Yeah, yeah, I can push through it. I can push 0:11:08.000 --> 0:11:08.360 through this. 0:11:08.800 --> 0:11:10.920 And it was like Valentine's Day, so it was a 0:11:10.960 --> 0:11:15.360 prefixed menu, everything was already paid for. I was like, 0:11:15.559 --> 0:11:18.080 I'm gonna seca and then he drives me to the 0:11:18.120 --> 0:11:20.360 place and lo and behold, it's this restaurant that we've 0:11:20.400 --> 0:11:21.679 been like dying. 0:11:21.400 --> 0:11:25.800 To go to. What was it dulce vita, adultce vita. 0:11:25.920 --> 0:11:28.320 I don't know about it. It's like a hot spot. 0:11:28.720 --> 0:11:30.560 I don't know if it's a hot spot, but it's 0:11:30.559 --> 0:11:32.680 like has these golden doors. And we've been wanting to 0:11:32.720 --> 0:11:35.199 go for a long time. We've had like friends tell 0:11:35.280 --> 0:11:37.600 us how like amazing it is, and so I thought 0:11:37.600 --> 0:11:40.520 it was cute that he like clocked it, made the 0:11:40.559 --> 0:11:44.240 reservation and I'm like, okay, I'm going in. 0:11:44.280 --> 0:11:46.480 They bring you a little emooge bouche or whatever, like 0:11:46.480 --> 0:11:47.199 a little. 0:11:47.000 --> 0:11:48.880 Champagne something when you sit down. I was like, okay, 0:11:48.880 --> 0:11:52.120 I guess I'm drinking tonight. And then the minute they 0:11:52.120 --> 0:11:55.079 bring out the appetizers, it's like my eyes are full blown, 0:11:55.120 --> 0:11:57.560 like glassy, and I was like, I'm going down and 0:11:57.600 --> 0:12:01.439 I'm going down fast. And I knew then I had 0:12:01.480 --> 0:12:05.439 to tell him like, babe, things are happening. 0:12:05.400 --> 0:12:06.800 When the eyes go glossy. 0:12:07.040 --> 0:12:08.480 Yeah, and the chills came on. 0:12:08.640 --> 0:12:10.600 Oh I know, I know. 0:12:10.840 --> 0:12:13.400 And so he's like, okay, do you want to leave? 0:12:13.480 --> 0:12:15.400 Do you want to go home? And I was like, like, 0:12:15.480 --> 0:12:17.760 here'd he paid for it? Was like a fixed you know. 0:12:17.880 --> 0:12:18.640 They they bring up. 0:12:19.840 --> 0:12:22.120 I know, and they've all looked so good. 0:12:22.280 --> 0:12:23.600 So I was like, you know what, no, let's stay 0:12:23.600 --> 0:12:25.640 I'll just get like a tea and mint tea or something, 0:12:26.160 --> 0:12:26.480 I know. 0:12:26.800 --> 0:12:32.079 And the food was amazing, and then they were like, 0:12:32.280 --> 0:12:33.640 do you want to see the dessert menu and he's 0:12:33.640 --> 0:12:35.200 like no, we just need to leave. Thank you so much. 0:12:35.880 --> 0:12:38.600 I was like so then I was like so sad. 0:12:38.640 --> 0:12:39.880 I had this like sexy. 0:12:39.600 --> 0:12:41.880 Lingerie picked out that I was gonna put on after dinner, 0:12:41.920 --> 0:12:44.400 and it was like sitting in my bathroom waiting for 0:12:44.440 --> 0:12:46.400 me to go in there and put it on. And 0:12:46.480 --> 0:12:48.720 I just put it right back in the drawer and 0:12:48.880 --> 0:12:50.840 that was that just. 0:12:50.760 --> 0:12:54.080 Got folded and save for another time. Yeah. 0:12:54.120 --> 0:12:56.559 And then from that point Friday night, I didn't leave 0:12:56.600 --> 0:12:59.160 my bed until Monday. Yeah. 0:12:59.160 --> 0:13:02.040 I feel like your body was like, hey I need this, 0:13:02.160 --> 0:13:04.079 so yeah, this is the only way I can get it. 0:13:04.120 --> 0:13:07.520 Here you go. Yeah. So that's day. 0:13:07.640 --> 0:13:10.240 Haley and I were talking about how one birthday one 0:13:10.280 --> 0:13:13.520 year we had she planned a spa day and dinner. 0:13:14.120 --> 0:13:16.960 Actually it was the same same order, like small and 0:13:16.960 --> 0:13:17.400 then dinner. 0:13:17.400 --> 0:13:19.360 And I woke up so sick on my birthday, but 0:13:19.920 --> 0:13:21.959 I was like, I really want to go get a massage, 0:13:22.120 --> 0:13:24.840 like maybe it'll make me feel better. And I was 0:13:24.920 --> 0:13:27.920 laying face down and I had snot like. 0:13:28.080 --> 0:13:29.720 Dripping onto the floor. 0:13:29.960 --> 0:13:32.640 Oh, and I kept having to ask the massage therapist. 0:13:32.679 --> 0:13:35.480 I was like, I am so sorry, and I didn't 0:13:35.480 --> 0:13:37.400 want her to know I was sick. And so she's like, 0:13:37.440 --> 0:13:39.360 it's okay, like I'm moving a lot of stuff around, 0:13:39.400 --> 0:13:40.319 it's really common. 0:13:40.480 --> 0:13:41.640 I was like yeah, yeah, yeah. 0:13:42.320 --> 0:13:46.760 So so then I'm like chills, my eyes are glassy, 0:13:46.840 --> 0:13:49.400 my throat's like tingly, and Haley's like, do you want 0:13:49.400 --> 0:13:50.679 to go to dinner still or do you want to 0:13:50.720 --> 0:13:52.800 go home? I'm like, oh, like, let's go to dinner. 0:13:52.840 --> 0:13:55.160 And I was just sitting there, like hunched over like 0:13:55.200 --> 0:13:55.840 that feeling. 0:13:56.120 --> 0:13:58.959 The thought of having somebody touching my skin when I'm 0:13:59.120 --> 0:14:02.360 sick just makes me like I don't have a lot 0:14:02.360 --> 0:14:04.200 of my clothes touching my skin when I'm sick, Like 0:14:04.240 --> 0:14:06.920 I like, you know, like when you like your skin hurts. 0:14:06.640 --> 0:14:08.199 Your hair, like your arm hair hurts. 0:14:08.280 --> 0:14:13.000 Yes, yes, yeah, oh anyway, so I I relate to 0:14:13.040 --> 0:14:13.400 that feeling. 0:14:13.440 --> 0:14:14.760 And then when they're like do you want assert and 0:14:14.760 --> 0:14:15.160 You're like, just. 0:14:15.160 --> 0:14:16.480 Give me the check, yeah, I was like. 0:14:18.280 --> 0:14:22.680 Please. Do y'all do gifts on Valentine's Day? Sometimes we do. 0:14:22.720 --> 0:14:23.400 This year, we didn't. 0:14:23.400 --> 0:14:26.000 We have a lot, a lot going on, so we 0:14:26.040 --> 0:14:28.240 did not partake in in gift giving this year, but 0:14:28.280 --> 0:14:32.040 he did start every day up. 0:14:32.040 --> 0:14:33.800 Until our wedding day. He's giving me a letter. 0:14:34.080 --> 0:14:36.440 Oh I saw this, Yeah, kicked it off on Valentine's 0:14:36.480 --> 0:14:38.000 Day and so it was very very sweet. 0:14:38.040 --> 0:14:39.640 So that's like the gift that I'm getting every day. 0:14:39.760 --> 0:14:41.880 Oh, the gift that keeps on getting, gift that keeps 0:14:41.920 --> 0:14:43.680 on getting till the day of the wedding. 0:14:43.760 --> 0:14:44.200 Correct. 0:14:44.480 --> 0:14:46.520 Wow, I feel like the one on the wedding day 0:14:46.560 --> 0:14:47.720 is gonna be really emotional. 0:14:47.800 --> 0:14:50.480 Oh my gosh, it's gonna be so good. They've been 0:14:50.560 --> 0:14:52.360 really good, Like I've been actually very impressed. 0:14:52.360 --> 0:14:54.640 Are y'all staying the night together the night before the wedding? 0:14:54.880 --> 0:14:58.720 We are? Yeah, So that's not traditional. Let me tell 0:14:58.720 --> 0:14:59.120 you something. 0:14:59.160 --> 0:15:00.800 No, I know because we have talked about things that 0:15:00.840 --> 0:15:03.120 you're doing that are traditional and then doing your own way. 0:15:03.440 --> 0:15:07.320 Yes, So that's saying doing anything traditional except walking down 0:15:07.360 --> 0:15:09.520 an aisle in a wedding dress, in a wedding dress 0:15:09.920 --> 0:15:12.960 saying I do. Yeah, there's nobody that I want to 0:15:12.960 --> 0:15:15.720 wake up to more on my wedding day than my 0:15:15.800 --> 0:15:16.920 husband future husband. 0:15:17.040 --> 0:15:20.240 Yeah, I'm with you, you know, yeah, did yoll? What 0:15:20.320 --> 0:15:23.280 did y'all? Okay, I have two questions. What did y'all 0:15:23.280 --> 0:15:25.200 do for Valentine's Day? Ponder that? 0:15:25.400 --> 0:15:28.840 And then did you sleep together before the wedding? 0:15:28.840 --> 0:15:30.480 I don't think we knew each other, but ye did 0:15:30.560 --> 0:15:32.600 y'all snuggle well on. 0:15:32.560 --> 0:15:33.960 My wedding night. We knew each other and we did 0:15:33.960 --> 0:15:34.520 sleep together. 0:15:35.840 --> 0:15:36.360 Where were we? 0:15:37.200 --> 0:15:38.800 No, no, you came to my wedding. 0:15:38.520 --> 0:15:43.960 Then that's true. My Uh, we were separate the night 0:15:43.960 --> 0:15:46.120 before our wedding. Yes, I didn't see her until she 0:15:46.160 --> 0:15:48.280 walked down the aisle. Traditional thing. 0:15:48.320 --> 0:15:48.520 I think. 0:15:48.560 --> 0:15:53.080 I stayed with my parents in a hotel, and then 0:15:53.560 --> 0:15:56.240 the next day, on our wedding day, in the morning, 0:15:56.280 --> 0:15:57.760 I went with my groomsmen and we went and saw 0:15:57.760 --> 0:15:58.880 Austin Powers three. 0:16:00.120 --> 0:16:00.400 Right. 0:16:00.800 --> 0:16:02.880 Wow, it was like a four PM wedding or gold Member. 0:16:02.920 --> 0:16:05.200 We're like a ten am movie or something. Yeah, that's 0:16:05.240 --> 0:16:09.640 my recollection. Valentine's Day was uneventful because, like most weekends, 0:16:09.720 --> 0:16:12.040 my wife and daughter were at a dance convention, but 0:16:12.080 --> 0:16:14.080 they left that day, so in the morning I got 0:16:14.080 --> 0:16:18.200 them struck chocolate covered strawberries and flowers. But then they 0:16:18.280 --> 0:16:22.200 laughed and yes, and you're a lone ranger. Yeah, but 0:16:22.240 --> 0:16:24.880 I watched I watched some Oscar movies. It was fine, right. 0:16:26.320 --> 0:16:29.120 I did not spend the night with my wife on 0:16:29.320 --> 0:16:31.920 our wedding. The night before. I slept in a hotel 0:16:32.000 --> 0:16:34.440 room with my friend Matt and it was great and 0:16:34.520 --> 0:16:37.840 we got taco bell and we had a nice little boys. 0:16:37.960 --> 0:16:38.200 Yeah. 0:16:38.360 --> 0:16:40.920 There's something that just seems so exciting about waking up 0:16:40.960 --> 0:16:43.440 on your wedding day, like the mini your eyes open 0:16:43.520 --> 0:16:47.160 and you're like, get today. 0:16:47.160 --> 0:16:51.040 Oh to you? Well, I like, I like both. I 0:16:51.080 --> 0:16:52.920 love you like I don't. 0:16:53.040 --> 0:16:54.840 I'm not the next time I see you, you're going 0:16:54.920 --> 0:16:56.080 to be in a wedding gown. 0:16:56.160 --> 0:16:59.680 Well for me, well wedding gown right or you? For 0:16:59.760 --> 0:17:01.120 you be a tux ord. 0:17:03.800 --> 0:17:06.120 And I liked the idea of waking up together because 0:17:06.119 --> 0:17:08.160