1
00:00:00,280 --> 00:00:06,120
Speaker 1: Back. All right, let's start the scrub scrubbing in with

2
00:00:06,160 --> 00:00:13,640
Speaker 1: Beca Tilly and I Heart Radio podcast. We are scrubbing

3
00:00:13,960 --> 00:00:18,640
Speaker 1: in and when I say Lee, I mean me myself

4
00:00:19,040 --> 00:00:22,120
Speaker 1: in Easton. That's right, that's right. It's a bare bone

5
00:00:22,160 --> 00:00:25,920
Speaker 1: scrub today, but we're scrubbing it. Nonetheless, this isn't one

6
00:00:25,920 --> 00:00:28,600
Speaker 1: of our more intricate surgeries. We didn't need too many

7
00:00:28,640 --> 00:00:31,160
Speaker 1: hands on deck. That's right, regular run of the mill,

8
00:00:31,240 --> 00:00:35,240
Speaker 1: you know, quick, outpatient type of thing. It's an outpatient

9
00:00:35,280 --> 00:00:39,760
Speaker 1: procedure exactly. But hopefully don't miss Marcantani too much because

10
00:00:40,280 --> 00:00:43,120
Speaker 1: we're here. Yeah, you have to remember, I don't know

11
00:00:43,159 --> 00:00:47,360
Speaker 1: if you remember from a Too podcasts ago when Easton

12
00:00:47,600 --> 00:00:51,680
Speaker 1: sang Hillary Duff songs, it made me realize he is

13
00:00:52,120 --> 00:00:56,400
Speaker 1: Tanya in Mail four. And then you've also played marks role.

14
00:00:56,560 --> 00:00:59,640
Speaker 1: So I feel confident about today. Yeah, it's gonna be

15
00:00:59,640 --> 00:01:00,880
Speaker 1: a lot of and we're gonna have a good time.

16
00:01:00,920 --> 00:01:05,040
Speaker 1: I practiced reading emails all last night. My addiction is excellent,

17
00:01:05,360 --> 00:01:08,640
Speaker 1: my pacing is perfect. I think I'm ready for this responsibility.

18
00:01:08,680 --> 00:01:11,320
Speaker 1: I practiced last night too. I went out, I had

19
00:01:11,360 --> 00:01:16,880
Speaker 1: a few drinks. I practiced for today's podcast as well,

20
00:01:17,200 --> 00:01:19,440
Speaker 1: but I do want to say I'm sorry I was

21
00:01:19,520 --> 00:01:24,360
Speaker 1: not present on Monday's podcast, and I was there in

22
00:01:24,440 --> 00:01:27,280
Speaker 1: spirit and on the phone, but I wasn't physically present.

23
00:01:27,800 --> 00:01:31,959
Speaker 1: I got some d M s about it. They were upset. Yeah,

24
00:01:32,040 --> 00:01:34,400
Speaker 1: well it's okay, you know, we do what we had

25
00:01:34,400 --> 00:01:37,360
Speaker 1: to do. But now they maybe can d M Tanya

26
00:01:37,360 --> 00:01:41,760
Speaker 1: and Mark and show exactly share their disappointment. You at

27
00:01:41,800 --> 00:01:46,600
Speaker 1: least you called in. Yeah, I guess point, guys, no

28
00:01:46,680 --> 00:01:49,840
Speaker 1: call from Tanya, no call from Mark. Yeah, but we

29
00:01:49,920 --> 00:01:51,800
Speaker 1: do have a really fun show today. We have the

30
00:01:52,000 --> 00:01:54,640
Speaker 1: um some of the guys from sand Lot the sand

31
00:01:54,680 --> 00:01:58,240
Speaker 1: Lot on the show, which is super exciting. It's such

32
00:01:58,280 --> 00:02:01,400
Speaker 1: an iconic movie. Yeah, it's gonna be so cool. I

33
00:02:01,440 --> 00:02:06,440
Speaker 1: know it. I feel like everyone we have on this podcast.

34
00:02:06,440 --> 00:02:08,440
Speaker 1: Do you like fan Girl over Yeah? I know. That's

35
00:02:08,520 --> 00:02:10,760
Speaker 1: that's why I took this job, actually, so I could

36
00:02:10,760 --> 00:02:13,840
Speaker 1: meet my heroes. It's been twenty five years of the Samma.

37
00:02:13,919 --> 00:02:17,040
Speaker 1: That's insane. I didn't realize it had been that long

38
00:02:17,120 --> 00:02:20,600
Speaker 1: because I can't remember at what age I actually watched it.

39
00:02:20,680 --> 00:02:24,480
Speaker 1: But I was only four when it came out, so

40
00:02:24,520 --> 00:02:26,119
Speaker 1: I can't imagine I saw it when I was four,

41
00:02:26,520 --> 00:02:29,440
Speaker 1: you know, But that's what I'm thinking. Even years after

42
00:02:29,480 --> 00:02:31,600
Speaker 1: it came out, when I saw it as a child,

43
00:02:31,639 --> 00:02:34,320
Speaker 1: it was it was already iconic, like it had already

44
00:02:34,360 --> 00:02:40,160
Speaker 1: made that mark on on the film industry. Exactly. It's

45
00:02:40,200 --> 00:02:42,200
Speaker 1: one of those movies. I think a few people can

46
00:02:42,240 --> 00:02:44,040
Speaker 1: remember the first time they saw it, just you've always

47
00:02:44,040 --> 00:02:47,440
Speaker 1: been a fan of yea, yeah, it's so true. I'm excited.

48
00:02:47,600 --> 00:02:49,440
Speaker 1: I feel like you have some good questions for them too.

49
00:02:50,040 --> 00:02:51,760
Speaker 1: You know, it's one of those movies where as I

50
00:02:51,760 --> 00:02:54,919
Speaker 1: grew up, I related to all these different like I

51
00:02:55,000 --> 00:02:56,919
Speaker 1: related to Squints quite a bit when I was a

52
00:02:56,960 --> 00:02:59,440
Speaker 1: kid because I had glasses and I was very nerdy,

53
00:02:59,440 --> 00:03:01,400
Speaker 1: and I, um, I tricked a lot of girls into

54
00:03:01,440 --> 00:03:04,480
Speaker 1: kissing me. Did you did you fake drown yourself? I

55
00:03:04,480 --> 00:03:06,800
Speaker 1: didn't go that far, but I definitely used some other

56
00:03:06,840 --> 00:03:10,440
Speaker 1: tricks that were just as despicable. But uh, and then,

57
00:03:10,560 --> 00:03:12,200
Speaker 1: you know, then as I got older, of course I

58
00:03:12,200 --> 00:03:15,120
Speaker 1: became a baseball superstar, and I related more to Benny,

59
00:03:15,240 --> 00:03:19,880
Speaker 1: which is where I am obviously obviously the baseball superstar. Yep,

60
00:03:20,000 --> 00:03:23,720
Speaker 1: it's gonna be great. We're gonna have gonna have Tom geary,

61
00:03:23,840 --> 00:03:26,400
Speaker 1: I hope I'm saying his last name correctly. Who played

62
00:03:26,440 --> 00:03:30,160
Speaker 1: Smalls Victor. I gotta check with these guys last names,

63
00:03:30,200 --> 00:03:34,880
Speaker 1: um Victor de Matia who played Timmy Timmins, and Patrick Renna,

64
00:03:34,920 --> 00:03:37,840
Speaker 1: who played Hamilton's better known as ham. We're gonna be

65
00:03:37,840 --> 00:03:39,080
Speaker 1: on the show. It's gonna be a lot of fun.

66
00:03:39,160 --> 00:03:41,920
Speaker 1: I know. I'm excited, and I'm excited to have um

67
00:03:42,200 --> 00:03:45,280
Speaker 1: multiple male guests because you know, I love when we

68
00:03:45,360 --> 00:03:48,720
Speaker 1: answer some emails or talk about life in general and

69
00:03:48,760 --> 00:03:50,760
Speaker 1: have a male perspective because a lot of the times

70
00:03:50,800 --> 00:03:54,040
Speaker 1: you're you and Mark are kind of overwhelmed by the

71
00:03:54,160 --> 00:03:57,440
Speaker 1: female perspective and opinion. So it'll be fun too. I'm

72
00:03:57,440 --> 00:04:00,160
Speaker 1: going to be the only girl in the room. I know.

73
00:04:00,200 --> 00:04:04,800
Speaker 1: I hope you cann't be able to handle this raw masculinity.

74
00:04:04,920 --> 00:04:09,800
Speaker 1: I'll be okay. Um Yeah. So I was in Charlotte,

75
00:04:09,840 --> 00:04:12,800
Speaker 1: North Carolina this week, and I was visiting one of

76
00:04:12,880 --> 00:04:16,679
Speaker 1: my friends and she's currently touring the country. Her name's

77
00:04:16,760 --> 00:04:21,480
Speaker 1: um Hayley Kiyoko and she is UM on like a

78
00:04:21,520 --> 00:04:26,159
Speaker 1: North North America, Yeah, North America tour. And so I

79
00:04:26,160 --> 00:04:28,120
Speaker 1: went to Charlotte and we hung out and then she

80
00:04:28,200 --> 00:04:30,560
Speaker 1: was like, why don't you stay and go on the

81
00:04:30,600 --> 00:04:33,239
Speaker 1: tour bus and do like a day in the life

82
00:04:33,279 --> 00:04:37,919
Speaker 1: type thing. Yeah, you know, I imagine the tour bus

83
00:04:38,000 --> 00:04:43,320
Speaker 1: life being so glamorous and you know, like she has

84
00:04:44,440 --> 00:04:47,760
Speaker 1: but so she has a like there's a room in

85
00:04:47,800 --> 00:04:50,400
Speaker 1: the back that's hers. You know. I think there's thirteen

86
00:04:50,440 --> 00:04:53,039
Speaker 1: people who sleep on the bus every night, which when

87
00:04:53,080 --> 00:04:56,440
Speaker 1: you really everyone has a spot like a bunk, but

88
00:04:56,720 --> 00:04:59,320
Speaker 1: everyone trying to move around in the bus. It's it's

89
00:04:59,480 --> 00:05:04,080
Speaker 1: very close quarters. Um, when you go to the restroom,

90
00:05:04,160 --> 00:05:06,520
Speaker 1: no one's allowed to go number two on the bus,

91
00:05:06,800 --> 00:05:10,240
Speaker 1: which is a safe rule. I think it's smart. But

92
00:05:10,320 --> 00:05:12,800
Speaker 1: even when you go just number one. I don't know

93
00:05:12,800 --> 00:05:14,920
Speaker 1: if this t m I, but you have you can't

94
00:05:14,960 --> 00:05:18,040
Speaker 1: flush anything. So it's like yeah, so I was. I

95
00:05:18,080 --> 00:05:20,440
Speaker 1: had a lot of anxiety about that. That would give

96
00:05:20,480 --> 00:05:22,280
Speaker 1: me a lot of things, okay thinks. So I just

97
00:05:22,360 --> 00:05:24,880
Speaker 1: was like, I think I'm just gonna hold everything until

98
00:05:24,920 --> 00:05:28,000
Speaker 1: I get to a building. So I probably have done

99
00:05:28,040 --> 00:05:32,520
Speaker 1: internal damage to myself. But so when Hayley first left

100
00:05:32,520 --> 00:05:34,039
Speaker 1: and one on tour, I was like, how's it going,

101
00:05:34,120 --> 00:05:37,120
Speaker 1: Like how's the bus? And she was like, I haven't slept.

102
00:05:37,200 --> 00:05:40,400
Speaker 1: It's it's so bumpy in the room where I sleep

103
00:05:40,400 --> 00:05:42,600
Speaker 1: in the back, and so I moved myself up to

104
00:05:42,760 --> 00:05:44,960
Speaker 1: a like the one of the bunks in the front.

105
00:05:45,360 --> 00:05:47,120
Speaker 1: So I knew that she didn't sleep back there. So

106
00:05:47,160 --> 00:05:48,800
Speaker 1: when I was I was going to stay and ride

107
00:05:48,800 --> 00:05:50,680
Speaker 1: the bus, I'm like, perfect, I'll have the whole bed

108
00:05:50,720 --> 00:05:53,720
Speaker 1: in the back to myself. It's bigger than the regular bunks.

109
00:05:54,560 --> 00:05:57,159
Speaker 1: I laid there just with my eyes open, staring at

110
00:05:57,200 --> 00:05:59,479
Speaker 1: the ceiling, shaking back and forth, feeling like I was

111
00:05:59,520 --> 00:06:04,400
Speaker 1: in an earth. Quite it's not, you know. I kind

112
00:06:04,400 --> 00:06:06,880
Speaker 1: of think it would rock you to sleep, like you're

113
00:06:06,920 --> 00:06:09,360
Speaker 1: in the womb or something. I thought too, but not

114
00:06:09,400 --> 00:06:12,280
Speaker 1: the case. Now. I love turbulence on airplanes. Me too.

115
00:06:12,720 --> 00:06:16,880
Speaker 1: If I could go on an only turbulent flight, I would.

116
00:06:17,440 --> 00:06:19,600
Speaker 1: The only time I really feel like I can relax

117
00:06:19,600 --> 00:06:22,200
Speaker 1: and maybe fall asleep is when there's turbulence. You're the

118
00:06:22,240 --> 00:06:24,680
Speaker 1: only other person I've ever talked to I love turbulence,

119
00:06:24,720 --> 00:06:26,479
Speaker 1: and I always say, if I could just take off

120
00:06:26,520 --> 00:06:30,760
Speaker 1: and land over and over, that are we Okay? I

121
00:06:30,800 --> 00:06:33,000
Speaker 1: don't think so. I think that's the natural thing for someone.

122
00:06:33,200 --> 00:06:35,960
Speaker 1: This feels kind of dark, um, but I do like

123
00:06:36,080 --> 00:06:38,000
Speaker 1: that you agree with me. But so that's what I

124
00:06:38,040 --> 00:06:40,200
Speaker 1: thought too. I'm like, that's when she was talking about

125
00:06:40,240 --> 00:06:42,480
Speaker 1: how bad it was, and like that seems dramatic. I

126
00:06:42,520 --> 00:06:45,800
Speaker 1: like movement, it's not like that. How big was the bed?

127
00:06:45,960 --> 00:06:48,080
Speaker 1: Was it like a twin? A full It's like a

128
00:06:48,120 --> 00:06:50,680
Speaker 1: little bit smaller than a twin, or maybe it was

129
00:06:50,720 --> 00:06:52,360
Speaker 1: the size of a twin, but it had like a

130
00:06:52,480 --> 00:06:55,240
Speaker 1: temper met it temper pedic like cover on it, so

131
00:06:55,760 --> 00:07:01,080
Speaker 1: if the bus was still ideal. But then she was like,

132
00:07:01,160 --> 00:07:03,320
Speaker 1: you can, if you want to, you can sleep in

133
00:07:03,400 --> 00:07:05,080
Speaker 1: my bunk with me. And I go and I look

134
00:07:05,120 --> 00:07:07,760
Speaker 1: at the bunk and it is literally half of a twin. Bad.

135
00:07:07,960 --> 00:07:10,840
Speaker 1: I'm like, there's no chance to people are sleeping in here.

136
00:07:12,280 --> 00:07:14,320
Speaker 1: Not Yeah, and I like to be I like to

137
00:07:14,320 --> 00:07:17,080
Speaker 1: have space when I sleep. So um, yeah, it was.

138
00:07:17,240 --> 00:07:20,200
Speaker 1: It was fun, a great experience. But I don't see

139
00:07:20,240 --> 00:07:23,840
Speaker 1: myself touring the country anytime soon for many reasons, but

140
00:07:24,080 --> 00:07:26,960
Speaker 1: that's one of them. Yeah. You know, Tania has been

141
00:07:27,080 --> 00:07:30,240
Speaker 1: on tour buses before and she would always talk about like,

142
00:07:30,720 --> 00:07:34,000
Speaker 1: oh my god, it's the greatest thing. It's so cute,

143
00:07:34,120 --> 00:07:37,080
Speaker 1: and I'm like, Okay, what's it really like though? You know, Tanya.

144
00:07:37,920 --> 00:07:40,920
Speaker 1: The fact that she said that was cute makes me

145
00:07:41,040 --> 00:07:45,320
Speaker 1: question everything because it's it's not it's it's I get

146
00:07:45,360 --> 00:07:48,160
Speaker 1: the experience of like, oh, it's fun like and I'm

147
00:07:48,480 --> 00:07:50,679
Speaker 1: I'm assuming once you sleep on it so many times

148
00:07:50,680 --> 00:07:53,600
Speaker 1: you get used to exactly, But cute isn't the word

149
00:07:53,640 --> 00:07:56,080
Speaker 1: I would go for. That's one thing I do remember

150
00:07:56,120 --> 00:07:58,720
Speaker 1: hearing from her. It was the bathroom. She she's told

151
00:07:58,720 --> 00:08:00,360
Speaker 1: me the same thing like, oh, you always want hold

152
00:08:00,400 --> 00:08:07,239
Speaker 1: it a building, right, a structure. But um, speaking of Tanya,

153
00:08:07,360 --> 00:08:13,040
Speaker 1: she's been on three dates now, dr w um getting

154
00:08:13,120 --> 00:08:17,680
Speaker 1: very serious, very serious. She says he doesn't listen to

155
00:08:18,080 --> 00:08:21,680
Speaker 1: the Morning show. What she talks about it quite a

156
00:08:21,720 --> 00:08:25,880
Speaker 1: bit on their um and I think goes into some

157
00:08:25,960 --> 00:08:30,000
Speaker 1: detail in there listening. She's very lucky he doesn't listen.

158
00:08:30,800 --> 00:08:33,079
Speaker 1: But it brings it brings up such an interesting thing

159
00:08:33,120 --> 00:08:36,000
Speaker 1: in my head because it is her job in a sense,

160
00:08:36,040 --> 00:08:37,880
Speaker 1: and I there's a lot of times where I feel

161
00:08:37,920 --> 00:08:41,600
Speaker 1: like I'm required to share so much of my life.

162
00:08:42,280 --> 00:08:44,000
Speaker 1: But then I have to take a step back and think,

163
00:08:44,080 --> 00:08:46,040
Speaker 1: like what am I protect? Like I have to protect

164
00:08:46,640 --> 00:08:49,640
Speaker 1: I have to protect some things because something need to

165
00:08:49,640 --> 00:08:53,280
Speaker 1: be sacred, right, But I do think that there's something.

166
00:08:53,320 --> 00:08:55,520
Speaker 1: I mean, the fact that so many people are so

167
00:08:55,600 --> 00:08:59,400
Speaker 1: invested in her dating life. Three dates with this guy

168
00:08:59,440 --> 00:09:03,640
Speaker 1: and people are like planning her wedding pretty much. It's

169
00:09:03,640 --> 00:09:06,280
Speaker 1: really fun to watch. It is fun to watch. I'm

170
00:09:06,280 --> 00:09:09,200
Speaker 1: really I'm really impressed with how she's handling it because

171
00:09:09,559 --> 00:09:12,240
Speaker 1: I remember, like when I started doing someone very early on,

172
00:09:12,720 --> 00:09:14,760
Speaker 1: it felt like the world was there was a lot

173
00:09:14,760 --> 00:09:16,520
Speaker 1: of pressure, you know, and like I couldn't and I

174
00:09:16,559 --> 00:09:18,320
Speaker 1: was the only one tone about it. And I could

175
00:09:18,360 --> 00:09:21,320
Speaker 1: imagine if there's like thousands of other people like weighing

176
00:09:21,360 --> 00:09:24,120
Speaker 1: in and like I know, you know, invested in this

177
00:09:24,200 --> 00:09:27,320
Speaker 1: and giving you the opinions and everything. I think, I

178
00:09:27,400 --> 00:09:29,560
Speaker 1: know that's the thing you have to be open to

179
00:09:29,640 --> 00:09:32,360
Speaker 1: realizing if you're talking about it, that everyone's going to

180
00:09:32,400 --> 00:09:36,640
Speaker 1: have an opinion with everything. I realized, I if I'm

181
00:09:36,640 --> 00:09:39,160
Speaker 1: going to post something that even something that I want

182
00:09:39,160 --> 00:09:45,080
Speaker 1: to think would like require an opinion, a difference of opinion,

183
00:09:45,480 --> 00:09:47,599
Speaker 1: you still have to be prepared for it. Like the

184
00:09:47,600 --> 00:09:50,800
Speaker 1: other day, I posted a song in nineteen song you

185
00:09:50,880 --> 00:09:54,240
Speaker 1: may have seen on my Instagram, and then the playlist

186
00:09:54,320 --> 00:09:56,520
Speaker 1: I just happened to click on a playlist on Spotify,

187
00:09:56,559 --> 00:10:00,959
Speaker 1: and it's called doubting or something I saw. Whenever someone

188
00:10:01,000 --> 00:10:03,280
Speaker 1: posts a screenshot from Spotify, I look at what playlists

189
00:10:03,320 --> 00:10:05,400
Speaker 1: are playing because people don't realize it shows that. Yeah,

190
00:10:05,400 --> 00:10:07,320
Speaker 1: I didn't even know. And I love see like um

191
00:10:07,400 --> 00:10:10,640
Speaker 1: uh you know, um songs to poop too and things

192
00:10:10,679 --> 00:10:12,240
Speaker 1: like that, and it's it's very funny. Um. But I

193
00:10:12,240 --> 00:10:14,840
Speaker 1: saw down in the dumps. Yeah, I was not down

194
00:10:14,840 --> 00:10:16,440
Speaker 1: in the dumps. In fact, I was. I'm in a

195
00:10:16,600 --> 00:10:20,320
Speaker 1: very good place mentally and emotionally. But I do love

196
00:10:20,400 --> 00:10:23,560
Speaker 1: sad music. Like sometimes even if I've had the best day,

197
00:10:23,640 --> 00:10:26,800
Speaker 1: I like to light a candle and put us some

198
00:10:26,920 --> 00:10:30,360
Speaker 1: sad songs on and just basking it. Yeah, sometimes it's

199
00:10:30,400 --> 00:10:31,839
Speaker 1: nice to just like take that head on, you know

200
00:10:31,880 --> 00:10:34,559
Speaker 1: what I mean. I love it. Yeah, I love it. Um,

201
00:10:34,600 --> 00:10:37,000
Speaker 1: do you have any plans for Father's Day? You know?

202
00:10:37,240 --> 00:10:41,600
Speaker 1: I saw my dad a couple of weeks ago. My

203
00:10:41,760 --> 00:10:44,760
Speaker 1: parents live in northern California, so I don't live nearby,

204
00:10:45,160 --> 00:10:47,840
Speaker 1: so we kind of did a father's His birthday is

205
00:10:48,280 --> 00:10:52,040
Speaker 1: in May, so we did like a birthday Father's day thing. Um.

206
00:10:52,120 --> 00:10:54,320
Speaker 1: But I so I don't know what I'm gonna see

207
00:10:54,360 --> 00:10:56,240
Speaker 1: him next. But I will be giving him a call

208
00:10:56,559 --> 00:11:00,720
Speaker 1: and sending him a gift. Um. But but what about

209
00:11:00,760 --> 00:11:02,680
Speaker 1: you though, because you you don't live near your parents either,

210
00:11:02,800 --> 00:11:05,320
Speaker 1: I know it's really hard. I was going to go

211
00:11:05,640 --> 00:11:09,720
Speaker 1: back to um Florida, where my parents live, after I

212
00:11:09,760 --> 00:11:12,520
Speaker 1: was in North Carolina and Virginia. But I haven't seen

213
00:11:12,559 --> 00:11:14,120
Speaker 1: them in a while, and so I was going to

214
00:11:14,240 --> 00:11:17,040
Speaker 1: have to be back for my sister's birthday. So it

215
00:11:17,120 --> 00:11:19,880
Speaker 1: was going to be a very quick trip. And I

216
00:11:19,960 --> 00:11:22,560
Speaker 1: was like, it's almost a tease to go for just

217
00:11:22,760 --> 00:11:24,440
Speaker 1: a couple of days and then have to turn around.

218
00:11:24,480 --> 00:11:28,000
Speaker 1: So um, and then I leave for Costa Rica on Sunday,

219
00:11:28,160 --> 00:11:31,560
Speaker 1: So I'm kind of a busy time. The summers are

220
00:11:31,559 --> 00:11:33,960
Speaker 1: a little crazy. But um, I'm gonna try and go

221
00:11:34,000 --> 00:11:36,680
Speaker 1: back in July and stay for a little bit longer.

222
00:11:36,880 --> 00:11:39,720
Speaker 1: So when you go back home, do you how long

223
00:11:39,720 --> 00:11:45,040
Speaker 1: do you usually stay? It depends. I try to stay

224
00:11:45,120 --> 00:11:48,920
Speaker 1: at least like five days if I can. And that's

225
00:11:49,240 --> 00:11:53,360
Speaker 1: is that Louisiana, Florida, Florida. That's I mean, you know,

226
00:11:53,440 --> 00:11:55,480
Speaker 1: everyone's kind of spread out. So sometimes I go to

227
00:11:55,520 --> 00:11:57,839
Speaker 1: Louisiana because that's where my sister and my nephews live.

228
00:11:58,480 --> 00:12:01,640
Speaker 1: And then my parents are in Florida, so we try.

229
00:12:01,800 --> 00:12:04,959
Speaker 1: They're close enough where like either my parents can drive

230
00:12:05,080 --> 00:12:08,320
Speaker 1: my sister or my sister can drive my parents. So

231
00:12:08,360 --> 00:12:10,240
Speaker 1: I just need to get to the South is basically

232
00:12:10,280 --> 00:12:13,400
Speaker 1: what happens. So so once you even like go home

233
00:12:13,400 --> 00:12:15,199
Speaker 1: and there's still more traveling to be done. So's a

234
00:12:15,240 --> 00:12:17,559
Speaker 1: lot of a lot of walking around probably, Yeah, tons

235
00:12:17,559 --> 00:12:20,400
Speaker 1: of walking. Yeah. What kind of shoes do you usually

236
00:12:20,400 --> 00:12:24,400
Speaker 1: wear for that? Um, comfortable shoes. It's a must. Yeah,

237
00:12:24,400 --> 00:12:27,720
Speaker 1: it's a must. Um, which actually brings us to our

238
00:12:28,000 --> 00:12:33,320
Speaker 1: first sponsor of the podcast, Roth These Um. They are

239
00:12:33,960 --> 00:12:36,880
Speaker 1: the flats that we have talked about before on the show.

240
00:12:36,920 --> 00:12:43,320
Speaker 1: They're made from recycled plastic water bottles, which seems so crazy,

241
00:12:43,679 --> 00:12:47,440
Speaker 1: but they're stylers. They're sustainable. They're comfortable enough for everyday

242
00:12:47,480 --> 00:12:51,200
Speaker 1: where whether you're walking in an airport, walking around carrying

243
00:12:51,200 --> 00:12:55,280
Speaker 1: your nephews, basically what I do when I do go home. Um,

244
00:12:55,440 --> 00:12:59,160
Speaker 1: their everyday flats for life on the go. They're super stylish,

245
00:12:59,240 --> 00:13:02,400
Speaker 1: they're comfortable. They come in three styles. They have the flat,

246
00:13:02,679 --> 00:13:06,280
Speaker 1: the point in the loafer. The loafers are so cute. Um.

247
00:13:06,280 --> 00:13:09,240
Speaker 1: The color and pattern selection is amazing. They're always updating

248
00:13:09,280 --> 00:13:13,720
Speaker 1: their lineup. Um they launched new colors all the time,

249
00:13:13,840 --> 00:13:17,600
Speaker 1: every few weeks and they sell out constantly. So if

250
00:13:17,640 --> 00:13:20,200
Speaker 1: you go on the website and you like one of

251
00:13:20,240 --> 00:13:23,080
Speaker 1: the shoes, I say, order them now, Yeah, get them

252
00:13:23,080 --> 00:13:25,280
Speaker 1: while you can. The thing that, um, I think it's

253
00:13:25,280 --> 00:13:27,320
Speaker 1: really cool about these is when you say these shoes

254
00:13:27,320 --> 00:13:29,400
Speaker 1: are made of recycled water bottles. I always just picture

255
00:13:29,840 --> 00:13:32,320
Speaker 1: a bottle water cut in half with a like a

256
00:13:32,360 --> 00:13:36,640
Speaker 1: two string, and we are the same mind. But no,

257
00:13:36,920 --> 00:13:40,160
Speaker 1: these things are these are like, these are very nice shoes.

258
00:13:40,280 --> 00:13:42,959
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm they probably don't even my size, but

259
00:13:44,160 --> 00:13:47,360
Speaker 1: they're like, these are real. You wouldn't ever know they

260
00:13:47,400 --> 00:13:49,920
Speaker 1: were made of recycled water bottles, and they're and they're

261
00:13:49,960 --> 00:13:52,040
Speaker 1: super soft, and you think of water bottles, you don't

262
00:13:52,040 --> 00:13:55,400
Speaker 1: think of soft. However they do it. They're they're literally

263
00:13:55,440 --> 00:13:57,080
Speaker 1: the soft to shoe you'll put on your feet, so

264
00:13:57,120 --> 00:13:59,200
Speaker 1: you can feel good about wearing them because they're made

265
00:13:59,240 --> 00:14:04,280
Speaker 1: from something good. Exactly you know what your recycle reuse

266
00:14:04,559 --> 00:14:08,640
Speaker 1: and close the loop and guess what what Their machine washable.

267
00:14:11,559 --> 00:14:13,680
Speaker 1: So if you're stomping around in the bayou and you

268
00:14:13,679 --> 00:14:16,400
Speaker 1: get muddle over him. You can toss these suckers in

269
00:14:16,400 --> 00:14:18,920
Speaker 1: the I literally can throw them in the washer. That's insane.

270
00:14:18,960 --> 00:14:21,560
Speaker 1: I love that. Yeah, because you can't do that's like

271
00:14:21,640 --> 00:14:24,000
Speaker 1: your fair shoes and things have become delaminated. I used

272
00:14:24,000 --> 00:14:25,840
Speaker 1: to be in the shoe industry. I know all about this.

273
00:14:26,840 --> 00:14:30,800
Speaker 1: But these suckers you are durable, machine washable, and they

274
00:14:30,800 --> 00:14:33,280
Speaker 1: look good. And they look good. Um, I love my

275
00:14:33,400 --> 00:14:35,720
Speaker 1: roth These. I know you guys will love them too.

276
00:14:36,080 --> 00:14:39,000
Speaker 1: Right now, Rathi's has an amazing deal for our listeners.

277
00:14:39,360 --> 00:14:43,520
Speaker 1: Use code becket to get free shipping on free ship. Nope, sorry,

278
00:14:43,800 --> 00:14:46,320
Speaker 1: use code becket to get free shipping. There's no minimum,

279
00:14:46,640 --> 00:14:49,600
Speaker 1: so free shipping, free returns and exchanges on your Rothy's

280
00:14:49,600 --> 00:14:52,600
Speaker 1: shoe and trust me, you're probably not going to return them.

281
00:14:53,480 --> 00:14:55,880
Speaker 1: Feel good about that. Go to roth These dot com

282
00:14:55,960 --> 00:14:59,080
Speaker 1: that's r O T h y s dot com and

283
00:14:59,240 --> 00:15:01,800
Speaker 1: enter becket to get you're cute shoes and free shipping.

284
00:15:02,120 --> 00:15:05,080
Speaker 1: It's no brainer. The shoes that are comfortable, stylish and

285
00:15:05,160 --> 00:15:09,000
Speaker 1: sustainable and there's free shipping. Get your getting you up there.

286
00:15:10,040 --> 00:15:11,920
Speaker 1: You're going to do Becca with me? Right, I've been

287
00:15:11,960 --> 00:15:14,080
Speaker 1: waiting for this. I'm really excited you never let me

288
00:15:14,080 --> 00:15:17,200
Speaker 1: do it in the past. This is my moment. Okay,

289
00:15:17,240 --> 00:15:19,520
Speaker 1: get your get yourself a pair of juice today from

290
00:15:19,600 --> 00:15:22,480
Speaker 1: Roth's dot com. Get this deal while at last, go

291
00:15:22,560 --> 00:15:25,360
Speaker 1: to roth These dot com and use promo code Becca.

292
00:15:28,400 --> 00:15:31,160
Speaker 1: That was felt really good. Now, really, we've really been

293
00:15:31,200 --> 00:15:34,880
Speaker 1: holding out not using you for that well our three

294
00:15:34,880 --> 00:15:37,480
Speaker 1: part harmony. I I've always wanted to chime in. When

295
00:15:37,480 --> 00:15:39,440
Speaker 1: I'm at home listening, I always do it along with

296
00:15:39,480 --> 00:15:41,120
Speaker 1: you guys, but when I'm in here, I try to

297
00:15:41,240 --> 00:15:43,520
Speaker 1: try to hold myself back. But I'm really excited about

298
00:15:43,640 --> 00:15:45,880
Speaker 1: is we can have a nice full chral sound going

299
00:15:45,920 --> 00:15:48,240
Speaker 1: on the next one, right because we're gonna have the

300
00:15:48,280 --> 00:15:51,280
Speaker 1: guys from the Salem coming in right now. The best

301
00:15:51,280 --> 00:15:54,960
Speaker 1: thing is that our next sponsor is a Tampon commercial,

302
00:15:55,040 --> 00:15:56,840
Speaker 1: So I can't wait to have all the guys chime

303
00:15:56,880 --> 00:15:58,640
Speaker 1: in for with me on that one. That's gonna be

304
00:15:58,640 --> 00:16:02,600
Speaker 1: a home run. Wow. Way to bring in sand Lots

305
00:16:03,000 --> 00:16:07,720
Speaker 1: traving back. It's going to get a lot more fun alright,

306
00:16:07,800 --> 00:16:12,200
Speaker 1: So we are beyond excited. Easton and my Soft are

307
00:16:12,360 --> 00:16:18,720
Speaker 1: super excited to have some of the main players from

308
00:16:18,760 --> 00:16:21,800
Speaker 1: the sand Lot in the studio with us today. Thank

309
00:16:21,840 --> 00:16:25,400
Speaker 1: you so much for being here, Thanks for having us.

310
00:16:25,920 --> 00:16:27,560
Speaker 1: I mean this, I feel like I'm just in the

311
00:16:27,600 --> 00:16:31,440
Speaker 1: presence of greatness? Is that how you feel everywhere you go?

312
00:16:31,600 --> 00:16:34,960
Speaker 1: You are like icons? Well, I don't think we try

313
00:16:35,000 --> 00:16:38,400
Speaker 1: and say a little humble, right, you don't want to,

314
00:16:38,720 --> 00:16:40,720
Speaker 1: you know, be crazy about it. But I think when

315
00:16:40,720 --> 00:16:42,760
Speaker 1: we did the film, we didn't We didn't know that

316
00:16:42,800 --> 00:16:44,600
Speaker 1: it was going to be as popular and as big

317
00:16:44,600 --> 00:16:48,200
Speaker 1: as We're just happy to be hanging out playing baseball.

318
00:16:48,520 --> 00:16:58,640
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, how old were yall when y'all filmed that movie? Yeah, yeah,

319
00:16:58,760 --> 00:17:01,200
Speaker 1: you guys are eleven. I got you by a few years.

320
00:17:02,480 --> 00:17:05,040
Speaker 1: Oh wow, that's so fun. I mean when I have

321
00:17:05,119 --> 00:17:07,160
Speaker 1: nephews and so I don't even know if they've seen

322
00:17:07,160 --> 00:17:09,040
Speaker 1: The sand Lot yet, but the oldest is eight, so

323
00:17:09,080 --> 00:17:12,399
Speaker 1: I'm gonna like quickly introduce them to it. But because

324
00:17:13,080 --> 00:17:15,520
Speaker 1: they're on their iPads and on their phones all the time,

325
00:17:15,560 --> 00:17:18,040
Speaker 1: and I feel like the movie is such a it's

326
00:17:18,040 --> 00:17:21,160
Speaker 1: a reminder like every time I was I watched it recently,

327
00:17:21,240 --> 00:17:22,960
Speaker 1: every time it's on TV, I feel like I stopped

328
00:17:22,960 --> 00:17:25,159
Speaker 1: and watch it, no matter like what part it's on.

329
00:17:25,720 --> 00:17:28,280
Speaker 1: But I think about like those days in the summertime

330
00:17:28,320 --> 00:17:30,800
Speaker 1: of being outside and playing with your friends. And I

331
00:17:30,840 --> 00:17:34,399
Speaker 1: feel like they don't do that anymore. What are you

332
00:17:34,480 --> 00:17:38,520
Speaker 1: talking about? iPads? iPhones haven't taken over the world. My

333
00:17:38,880 --> 00:17:41,960
Speaker 1: kids all the time. Can I get your phone on? Please? Granny?

334
00:17:42,160 --> 00:17:45,800
Speaker 1: This this game? Granny were Grandma runs around the house

335
00:17:46,200 --> 00:17:49,920
Speaker 1: and tries to kill you play on the phone. It

336
00:17:50,000 --> 00:17:53,560
Speaker 1: is pretty trip. My fourteen month old already holds down

337
00:17:53,640 --> 00:17:59,359
Speaker 1: this button and talks to Sirie. So you just think,

338
00:17:59,440 --> 00:18:02,760
Speaker 1: what are what is this generation going to be? Like? Yeah, yeah,

339
00:18:02,880 --> 00:18:05,400
Speaker 1: it's scary. Before we get too deep into it, let's

340
00:18:05,560 --> 00:18:10,960
Speaker 1: let's introduce who we're talking to. It was like from

341
00:18:11,000 --> 00:18:14,359
Speaker 1: the Samla is the dog there, I'm the best. Yeah.

342
00:18:15,160 --> 00:18:18,160
Speaker 1: So we got Patrick Renna who played hand. We got

343
00:18:18,359 --> 00:18:21,760
Speaker 1: Victor de Madia who played Timmy Timmins, and Tom Guyry

344
00:18:21,920 --> 00:18:24,840
Speaker 1: played Smalls here in the studio with us, and so excited.

345
00:18:24,880 --> 00:18:26,880
Speaker 1: These are the main guys you can tell Squints that

346
00:18:26,920 --> 00:18:33,639
Speaker 1: we don't. Easton said that he really related to Squints

347
00:18:33,680 --> 00:18:39,080
Speaker 1: as a as a young boy, I wore glasses and

348
00:18:41,680 --> 00:18:43,040
Speaker 1: I kissed a lot of girls who didn't want me

349
00:18:43,040 --> 00:18:47,639
Speaker 1: to kiss. Yeah, but um, but it's so excited to

350
00:18:47,680 --> 00:18:49,720
Speaker 1: have you guys in here today when something that I've

351
00:18:49,800 --> 00:18:53,320
Speaker 1: really wanted to ask, uh, Patrick and Tom, which one

352
00:18:53,359 --> 00:18:55,679
Speaker 1: of you gets people coming up saying you're killing me?

353
00:18:55,760 --> 00:18:59,280
Speaker 1: Small as more? I bet you it's gotta be bad.

354
00:19:00,040 --> 00:19:02,199
Speaker 1: You know, I don't know. You know, it could be

355
00:19:02,240 --> 00:19:04,960
Speaker 1: Tom too, it's both of us. Yeah, I would, I

356
00:19:05,000 --> 00:19:06,800
Speaker 1: would get it. I get it a lot. Actually, yeah,

357
00:19:07,200 --> 00:19:13,679
Speaker 1: my kids say it to me. One time. I was like,

358
00:19:13,840 --> 00:19:15,600
Speaker 1: you got to go to bed and he was like, oh,

359
00:19:15,760 --> 00:19:20,560
Speaker 1: he's killing me. It's like worse than a cuss word.

360
00:19:21,200 --> 00:19:24,440
Speaker 1: What did you say to your father? Wait? How old

361
00:19:24,440 --> 00:19:29,360
Speaker 1: are your kids? Eighteen? Seven in five? And they've seen

362
00:19:29,359 --> 00:19:33,399
Speaker 1: the movie? Ye? Boys? My daughter is five? Okay, got it?

363
00:19:33,440 --> 00:19:35,480
Speaker 1: Has she seen the movie? But she does, but she

364
00:19:35,520 --> 00:19:40,680
Speaker 1: doesn't yeh. She's like, yeah that's a daddy movie. Oh yeah,

365
00:19:40,720 --> 00:19:44,040
Speaker 1: of course. How do you can be with trolls? You

366
00:19:45,680 --> 00:19:49,240
Speaker 1: it's so good. I am such a cartoon guy now

367
00:19:49,280 --> 00:19:54,600
Speaker 1: that I have a young one. Incredibles Trolls Wana, I know,

368
00:19:55,440 --> 00:19:57,719
Speaker 1: it's all I'm about now. I love that y'all are

369
00:19:57,800 --> 00:20:01,879
Speaker 1: just actually that's talking about It's just funny because you

370
00:20:02,000 --> 00:20:04,560
Speaker 1: I think about we were talking about it was twenty

371
00:20:04,560 --> 00:20:07,320
Speaker 1: five years ago that the movie came out and is

372
00:20:07,359 --> 00:20:12,119
Speaker 1: that right? And I when that happen, Oh my gosh.

373
00:20:12,160 --> 00:20:22,679
Speaker 1: I hadn't what for when it came out. I was four, Yeah,

374
00:20:22,760 --> 00:20:24,480
Speaker 1: but I didn't see it until I didn't see it

375
00:20:24,600 --> 00:20:26,919
Speaker 1: till I was you know, like I was just we

376
00:20:26,920 --> 00:20:28,600
Speaker 1: were talking about I didn't see it when I was four,

377
00:20:28,640 --> 00:20:31,240
Speaker 1: because I remember remember seeing it for the first time,

378
00:20:31,280 --> 00:20:33,600
Speaker 1: and I clearly was not four years old. But even

379
00:20:33,720 --> 00:20:36,200
Speaker 1: at that point, it was already such an iconic movie

380
00:20:36,280 --> 00:20:40,399
Speaker 1: that everyone knew and loved. And so the fact that

381
00:20:40,440 --> 00:20:44,119
Speaker 1: twenty five years later, we're it's still talked about as

382
00:20:44,160 --> 00:20:47,159
Speaker 1: much as it is, it's it's crazy. I think it's

383
00:20:47,160 --> 00:20:50,720
Speaker 1: actually gotten more popular as the years about it. Yeah,

384
00:20:50,880 --> 00:20:53,080
Speaker 1: every Fourth of July it gets more and more popular.

385
00:20:53,560 --> 00:20:57,200
Speaker 1: You know what. I loved that scene when the fireworks. Yeah,

386
00:20:57,320 --> 00:21:00,720
Speaker 1: where were the song is playing? Were? You know? It's

387
00:21:00,720 --> 00:21:04,600
Speaker 1: just it's my favorite scene. It's how long did it

388
00:21:04,600 --> 00:21:07,000
Speaker 1: take you to We're so young? Like, did you do

389
00:21:07,040 --> 00:21:09,480
Speaker 1: you remember being like, God, these days are lasting forever?

390
00:21:09,600 --> 00:21:11,719
Speaker 1: Did it just feel like you were out playing around?

391
00:21:12,200 --> 00:21:14,359
Speaker 1: Utah was really hot? It was really hot. It was

392
00:21:14,400 --> 00:21:18,400
Speaker 1: a hot song. It was on some time in pools though, Yeah,

393
00:21:18,560 --> 00:21:20,679
Speaker 1: I heard that that pool day it was really cold.

394
00:21:20,760 --> 00:21:25,640
Speaker 1: It was especially Shance. Just watch him in the movie.

395
00:21:25,680 --> 00:21:28,400
Speaker 1: His teeth are chattering at that time. That was because

396
00:21:29,400 --> 00:21:31,439
Speaker 1: the floor was like it was, it was freezing, and

397
00:21:31,480 --> 00:21:33,680
Speaker 1: we were so excited to film that scene because it

398
00:21:33,760 --> 00:21:35,840
Speaker 1: had been so hot all summer and then we show

399
00:21:35,920 --> 00:21:37,399
Speaker 1: up that day it was the coldest day of the

400
00:21:37,520 --> 00:21:40,080
Speaker 1: entire shoot. Yeah, but you gotta realize they were we

401
00:21:40,080 --> 00:21:42,880
Speaker 1: were young, and there's, um there's rules on how long

402
00:21:42,920 --> 00:21:46,200
Speaker 1: you can shoot. So I think we only shot eight

403
00:21:46,200 --> 00:21:49,359
Speaker 1: hours a day, and you know, because it was summer,

404
00:21:49,480 --> 00:21:52,160
Speaker 1: didn't get dark, so we got to just hanging party

405
00:21:52,200 --> 00:21:54,679
Speaker 1: with each other half the day. I mean, you know,

406
00:21:55,440 --> 00:21:58,639
Speaker 1: another eight hours just hanging as dudes, you know, and

407
00:21:58,640 --> 00:22:01,040
Speaker 1: then you have the full weekend off and that's awesome. Yeah.

408
00:22:01,119 --> 00:22:04,719
Speaker 1: So it wasn't like a job for sure. Sometimes it

409
00:22:04,800 --> 00:22:07,320
Speaker 1: was a little bit, but like like summer camp a

410
00:22:07,320 --> 00:22:10,320
Speaker 1: little bit, yeah, baseball summer camp. Yeah, it really was.

411
00:22:10,400 --> 00:22:13,040
Speaker 1: Were you guys from Los Angeles originally or where you

412
00:22:13,080 --> 00:22:17,520
Speaker 1: all from? None of us are, No, I mean, I've

413
00:22:17,560 --> 00:22:19,840
Speaker 1: grew up in the valley, so I mean I was

414
00:22:19,920 --> 00:22:22,439
Speaker 1: born in Salt Lake City, but I don't don't remember

415
00:22:22,560 --> 00:22:24,840
Speaker 1: that idea. From the time I was really little. I

416
00:22:25,160 --> 00:22:27,359
Speaker 1: grew up in the in the San Fernando Valley, right here,

417
00:22:27,480 --> 00:22:29,560
Speaker 1: all right. I thought it must have been weird to

418
00:22:29,560 --> 00:22:31,439
Speaker 1: shoot a movie that was taking place in San Fernando

419
00:22:31,520 --> 00:22:34,639
Speaker 1: Valley and then like get on the on the plane.

420
00:22:35,119 --> 00:22:36,800
Speaker 1: I did it because it's the only place that still

421
00:22:36,840 --> 00:22:40,320
Speaker 1: looks like l A in San Fernando Valley in the sixties. Yeah,

422
00:22:41,640 --> 00:22:46,240
Speaker 1: I'm from Boston. Tom's from Jersey. Not awesome. Awesome? Do

423
00:22:46,280 --> 00:22:49,679
Speaker 1: you all live here now? No, I'm still living New Jersey.

424
00:22:49,720 --> 00:22:52,080
Speaker 1: Oh nice. I was going to say, your accent if

425
00:22:52,119 --> 00:22:54,960
Speaker 1: you still live here, I mean still holding one of

426
00:22:54,960 --> 00:23:04,879
Speaker 1: that I have? What are you talking about? What? What accent?

427
00:23:04,880 --> 00:23:10,199
Speaker 1: I got rid of mine? You ask? So Jersey. I

428
00:23:10,320 --> 00:23:12,160
Speaker 1: love that, though I feel like l A. You don't

429
00:23:12,200 --> 00:23:14,120
Speaker 1: know one has an accent. And when I say I'm

430
00:23:14,160 --> 00:23:16,200
Speaker 1: from the South, and when I say I still say y'all,

431
00:23:16,200 --> 00:23:19,160
Speaker 1: even though I've lived here for ten years, and it's

432
00:23:19,359 --> 00:23:22,800
Speaker 1: immediately like even if I'm talking and I don't say y'all,

433
00:23:22,880 --> 00:23:24,880
Speaker 1: no one says anything. And then as soon as y'all

434
00:23:24,880 --> 00:23:29,480
Speaker 1: comes out, agree from Yeah, it's faster part of the

435
00:23:29,520 --> 00:23:33,159
Speaker 1: South Louisiana. Okay, my wife. My wife's from Arkansas, so

436
00:23:33,200 --> 00:23:36,800
Speaker 1: hers comes out everyone yea, she say, y'all. Yeah, yeah,

437
00:23:37,119 --> 00:23:40,359
Speaker 1: my wife's family is from Louisiana. Slide out. Oh nice,

438
00:23:40,480 --> 00:23:43,359
Speaker 1: I'm from North Louisiana and Tree Courts, so I was

439
00:23:43,400 --> 00:23:46,400
Speaker 1: just out there. Really. Yeah. We just we go back

440
00:23:46,400 --> 00:23:48,640
Speaker 1: once in a while because my son met his great

441
00:23:48,720 --> 00:23:54,840
Speaker 1: his great mama. That's how you say it, right, mama, Mama. Yeah, well,

442
00:23:54,880 --> 00:23:57,240
Speaker 1: I guess they're a little I don't know, that's the

443
00:23:57,280 --> 00:24:00,159
Speaker 1: death mama. Yeah, I don't know if I say right,

444
00:24:00,240 --> 00:24:03,480
Speaker 1: but mine was just Nana and Grampy. But did you

445
00:24:03,480 --> 00:24:07,000
Speaker 1: eat some good food? Oh? Yeah, too much. It's you know,

446
00:24:07,040 --> 00:24:09,000
Speaker 1: it's a disaster when I go there, I gotta get

447
00:24:09,040 --> 00:24:12,800
Speaker 1: home quick for the salad. The salad life in l A.

448
00:24:13,520 --> 00:24:15,440
Speaker 1: Did you all meet your like when how old you

449
00:24:15,560 --> 00:24:18,800
Speaker 1: when you met your wives? And I was twenty two

450
00:24:20,560 --> 00:24:24,240
Speaker 1: I met my wife. Okay, I'm single, so it's well,

451
00:24:24,280 --> 00:24:28,359
Speaker 1: you talk a lot, Tanya, my girl, Tanya. It's been

452
00:24:28,400 --> 00:24:31,560
Speaker 1: a huge topic on the show. We talked about dating

453
00:24:31,600 --> 00:24:34,680
Speaker 1: a lot because we're both saying only approach it very differently,

454
00:24:34,720 --> 00:24:37,439
Speaker 1: so it's kind of the fun dynamic of when we

455
00:24:37,480 --> 00:24:41,640
Speaker 1: talked to guests and especially people who have, like our

456
00:24:41,720 --> 00:24:45,520
Speaker 1: in successful relationships, are married, we're like very curious how

457
00:24:45,560 --> 00:24:48,200
Speaker 1: people do it because we just feel like we're wandering

458
00:24:48,240 --> 00:24:50,840
Speaker 1: around and well, now it's got to be so interesting though,

459
00:24:50,880 --> 00:24:53,240
Speaker 1: because do you do like the online stuff? Do you

460
00:24:53,320 --> 00:24:57,199
Speaker 1: use it? Like? Well, so Tanya started, she saw this

461
00:24:57,200 --> 00:24:59,439
Speaker 1: guy on Instagram. It's kind of been like a saga

462
00:24:59,520 --> 00:25:01,720
Speaker 1: on the pod cast of us like keeping up and

463
00:25:01,720 --> 00:25:05,440
Speaker 1: people are so invested in this relationship. But we call

464
00:25:05,520 --> 00:25:09,600
Speaker 1: him dr W because he was I don't even know

465
00:25:09,600 --> 00:25:12,959
Speaker 1: where to begin, so we start at the beginning. I'm

466
00:25:13,000 --> 00:25:19,000
Speaker 1: just that you can. So they met through Instagram. She

467
00:25:19,119 --> 00:25:23,440
Speaker 1: found his photo or his Instagram through someone. They liked

468
00:25:23,440 --> 00:25:25,600
Speaker 1: each other's photos and went back and forth, and then

469
00:25:25,600 --> 00:25:27,359
Speaker 1: it was this whole thing of like do I direct

470
00:25:27,440 --> 00:25:29,760
Speaker 1: message him? How do I do it? When? Do I? Like?

471
00:25:29,880 --> 00:25:32,400
Speaker 1: Did he do like the you like something from two

472
00:25:32,400 --> 00:25:34,439
Speaker 1: months ago? But just once? And it's kind of creepy

473
00:25:34,480 --> 00:25:37,480
Speaker 1: but it's kind of flirting. Okay, Okay, I see I

474
00:25:37,480 --> 00:25:39,720
Speaker 1: got this a little bit, guys. I got it made

475
00:25:39,720 --> 00:25:42,919
Speaker 1: me realize how important that move is because when she

476
00:25:43,000 --> 00:25:45,280
Speaker 1: told me he did that, I'm like you're good, like

477
00:25:45,359 --> 00:25:47,920
Speaker 1: this is your this is where you move in. So

478
00:25:47,960 --> 00:25:50,720
Speaker 1: now they've been on three dates and we called him

479
00:25:50,760 --> 00:25:55,040
Speaker 1: Dr W because he was being a whoosy. We couldn't

480
00:25:55,080 --> 00:25:57,320
Speaker 1: say the word that we wanted to say, but so

481
00:25:57,359 --> 00:26:00,680
Speaker 1: then he turned into doctor W and um. But now

482
00:26:00,680 --> 00:26:05,000
Speaker 1: they've been on three dates and it seems like it's wow,

483
00:26:06,040 --> 00:26:09,840
Speaker 1: dr dr Wow. Okay okay. So I just always like

484
00:26:09,920 --> 00:26:12,560
Speaker 1: hearing how people we like love hearing however one meets

485
00:26:12,600 --> 00:26:15,280
Speaker 1: their significant other because they don't have to go through

486
00:26:15,280 --> 00:26:18,000
Speaker 1: such an ornate plan like that. Yeah, but I'm intrigued

487
00:26:18,040 --> 00:26:20,680
Speaker 1: to hear about this generation doing it because when I

488
00:26:21,119 --> 00:26:23,440
Speaker 1: met my wife in my early twenties two and there

489
00:26:23,520 --> 00:26:26,160
Speaker 1: was no Instagram, how did you we all just met out?

490
00:26:26,320 --> 00:26:28,520
Speaker 1: How do you? How did through a friend? How did

491
00:26:28,520 --> 00:26:33,000
Speaker 1: it happened? I went to a high school friend of mine. Uh.

492
00:26:33,440 --> 00:26:35,440
Speaker 1: It was the day I got back from filming Black

493
00:26:35,440 --> 00:26:37,760
Speaker 1: Hawk Down and he called me up and he's like,

494
00:26:37,760 --> 00:26:40,080
Speaker 1: I'm having a bonfire at my house and like Cornfield

495
00:26:40,280 --> 00:26:42,440
Speaker 1: Mill of nowhere, Jersey, and that's where I met her,

496
00:26:42,600 --> 00:26:44,160
Speaker 1: and she was she was there and she went through

497
00:26:44,880 --> 00:26:47,159
Speaker 1: high school next to the old high school I went to.

498
00:26:47,800 --> 00:26:51,280
Speaker 1: We hit it off and that was it so easy? Yeah,

499
00:26:51,320 --> 00:26:54,400
Speaker 1: it was. It was easy and hung out and you know,

500
00:26:54,760 --> 00:26:58,040
Speaker 1: and then it was like she was with me constantly

501
00:26:58,119 --> 00:27:01,520
Speaker 1: and she'd always leave some clothes at my place, and

502
00:27:01,560 --> 00:27:04,680
Speaker 1: then more clothing all the sudden, like your whole wardrobes here,

503
00:27:06,840 --> 00:27:10,040
Speaker 1: just like the liking. It's like the Instagram liking of

504
00:27:10,119 --> 00:27:14,399
Speaker 1: twenty years ago. Oh my gosh, she left her shirt.

505
00:27:15,480 --> 00:27:18,600
Speaker 1: It's way less subtle, actually, and if she leaves a sock,

506
00:27:18,680 --> 00:27:23,600
Speaker 1: it doesn't it's not it's the whole thing. Wait, how

507
00:27:23,640 --> 00:27:25,560
Speaker 1: long did y'all date before you all moved in together?

508
00:27:27,440 --> 00:27:31,240
Speaker 1: Like six seven months? And then how long did it

509
00:27:31,240 --> 00:27:33,400
Speaker 1: take her to move in? Was? How long was that

510
00:27:33,640 --> 00:27:36,119
Speaker 1: process of leaving random stuff at your house? Oh? That

511
00:27:36,160 --> 00:27:40,639
Speaker 1: took like within within a year, within a year. Okay, okay, interesting?

512
00:27:40,800 --> 00:27:44,159
Speaker 1: What about you? Yours is probably a bit more recent?

513
00:27:44,440 --> 00:27:50,480
Speaker 1: Is how many Instagram stuff on it? Uh? No, my space? Basically? No,

514
00:27:50,840 --> 00:27:57,040
Speaker 1: we met and in person actually, which but I mean

515
00:27:57,080 --> 00:28:00,840
Speaker 1: I was thirty two when we when we started dating. Yeah,

516
00:28:01,040 --> 00:28:05,639
Speaker 1: so you know, we met through work and she she

517
00:28:05,760 --> 00:28:09,159
Speaker 1: tells the story that she she was the one she

518
00:28:09,200 --> 00:28:11,440
Speaker 1: saw my butt and said, I used to do a

519
00:28:11,480 --> 00:28:17,840
Speaker 1: lot more CrossFit. That's the one right there. So did

520
00:28:17,920 --> 00:28:22,880
Speaker 1: she did? Yeah, she picked your bet out of the lineup. Wow.

521
00:28:24,080 --> 00:28:28,040
Speaker 1: I love a good romance story. No, I well, that's

522
00:28:28,040 --> 00:28:31,240
Speaker 1: another huge debate. It's the whole Like, is it o

523
00:28:31,280 --> 00:28:38,520
Speaker 1: our girls allowed to do the pursuing now not allowed? Yeah? Yeah,

524
00:28:38,600 --> 00:28:41,080
Speaker 1: I think it's always up up to the girl, you know. Yeah,

525
00:28:41,320 --> 00:28:43,920
Speaker 1: however they want to do it. But we like to

526
00:28:44,320 --> 00:28:48,080
Speaker 1: We like to feel like it's the guy's decision, even

527
00:28:48,120 --> 00:28:50,560
Speaker 1: though we're in control. We like to feel like the

528
00:28:50,640 --> 00:28:56,800
Speaker 1: guys are making the move. It's inception, you constantly accept us.

529
00:28:58,440 --> 00:29:00,560
Speaker 1: What about your Patrick? Howd you meet your wife? You know?

530
00:29:00,800 --> 00:29:04,160
Speaker 1: I I went to school with her in like early

531
00:29:04,240 --> 00:29:07,880
Speaker 1: high school, and then we just were but we didn't

532
00:29:07,880 --> 00:29:09,600
Speaker 1: get together from there. We just kind of ran in

533
00:29:09,640 --> 00:29:13,520
Speaker 1: the same circles. And then she was the maid of

534
00:29:13,560 --> 00:29:17,480
Speaker 1: honor and I was the best man in the and

535
00:29:18,520 --> 00:29:21,160
Speaker 1: uh so soon after that we kind of, you know,

536
00:29:21,200 --> 00:29:25,480
Speaker 1: because our best friends were you know, we sort of

537
00:29:25,480 --> 00:29:28,600
Speaker 1: became like a double couple, you know. So and then

538
00:29:28,640 --> 00:29:32,880
Speaker 1: in the early two thousands or you know, two thousands, three,

539
00:29:33,000 --> 00:29:34,800
Speaker 1: four or five, we just hung out a lot more.

540
00:29:34,840 --> 00:29:38,560
Speaker 1: And then I actually knew her so well. So we

541
00:29:39,200 --> 00:29:41,840
Speaker 1: got together in the end of two thousand five and

542
00:29:41,960 --> 00:29:44,400
Speaker 1: I proposed early two thousand six and we were married

543
00:29:45,160 --> 00:29:49,240
Speaker 1: like eleven months after we were Yeah, it was fast,

544
00:29:49,240 --> 00:29:51,400
Speaker 1: and then we just had our first kid. But we've

545
00:29:51,400 --> 00:29:55,800
Speaker 1: been married almost twelve years, so we've did things reversed

546
00:29:55,840 --> 00:29:59,720
Speaker 1: like we were had such a short engagement, long marriage.

547
00:29:59,800 --> 00:30:02,080
Speaker 1: But for a kid, you know, I like that you really,

548
00:30:03,120 --> 00:30:05,360
Speaker 1: we really knew you were in it before you brought

549
00:30:05,480 --> 00:30:10,560
Speaker 1: brought the child in. Yeah, well that's a big thing.

550
00:30:10,800 --> 00:30:13,719
Speaker 1: People think children will fix a marriage and I go wrong,

551
00:30:14,280 --> 00:30:16,920
Speaker 1: they will test your marriage. And if you can, you know,

552
00:30:17,000 --> 00:30:19,400
Speaker 1: don't think you're going to fix a marriage with the

553
00:30:19,480 --> 00:30:23,440
Speaker 1: child because it puts everyone you know, all your patients

554
00:30:23,440 --> 00:30:25,840
Speaker 1: gets put to the test, and I mean it makes

555
00:30:25,880 --> 00:30:29,280
Speaker 1: a marriage beautiful and a hundred times better. But you

556
00:30:29,400 --> 00:30:32,520
Speaker 1: definitely need to know you're in the right relationship before

557
00:30:32,520 --> 00:30:34,800
Speaker 1: you bring children into that because I don't know, I

558
00:30:34,840 --> 00:30:38,880
Speaker 1: hate divorce and so it's tough, you know. Yeah, I

559
00:30:38,920 --> 00:30:47,840
Speaker 1: just brought it down. I just brought it really no,

560
00:30:47,960 --> 00:30:51,800
Speaker 1: but I I really appreciate that because I do. I

561
00:30:52,080 --> 00:30:53,920
Speaker 1: In fact, last night, one of my friends we were

562
00:30:53,920 --> 00:30:55,480
Speaker 1: out to dinner and she was talking about when she

563
00:30:55,520 --> 00:30:57,800
Speaker 1: was nineteen that she met this NBA player at a

564
00:30:57,840 --> 00:30:59,320
Speaker 1: bar and he asked if she wanted to be one

565
00:30:59,360 --> 00:31:01,920
Speaker 1: of his host on the road, and she was like,

566
00:31:01,960 --> 00:31:07,080
Speaker 1: you know, I said no because I had integrity, And

567
00:31:07,160 --> 00:31:10,760
Speaker 1: now ten years later, I'm regretting it because I could

568
00:31:10,760 --> 00:31:16,200
Speaker 1: have a seven foot tall, fourteen year old I wish

569
00:31:16,240 --> 00:31:18,760
Speaker 1: I would have been one of those on the road. Yeah,

570
00:31:18,920 --> 00:31:22,080
Speaker 1: so she you know, she was thinking the child could

571
00:31:22,080 --> 00:31:25,880
Speaker 1: really fix the relationship. Well, that's a little different than

572
00:31:25,960 --> 00:31:30,000
Speaker 1: what I meant. I guess that's a different scenario, but

573
00:31:30,040 --> 00:31:38,720
Speaker 1: that you agree with that, Yes, I would do if

574
00:31:38,760 --> 00:31:42,120
Speaker 1: you if you're taking on the road, I'll be your eye. Candy.

575
00:31:42,800 --> 00:31:45,320
Speaker 1: Did all of your wives no, Like, did they recognize

576
00:31:45,360 --> 00:31:48,560
Speaker 1: you all from like the movie and stuff when you

577
00:31:48,600 --> 00:31:52,040
Speaker 1: all met them? No, my wife didn't. She she had

578
00:31:52,080 --> 00:31:54,640
Speaker 1: no idea like who I was or or anything. And

579
00:31:54,680 --> 00:31:57,760
Speaker 1: then you know, she found out and it didn't really

580
00:31:57,760 --> 00:32:00,720
Speaker 1: impress her too much. That's what I liked about. I'm like, yeah,

581
00:32:00,960 --> 00:32:05,360
Speaker 1: like like you you don't care. No. Same here. I'm

582
00:32:05,400 --> 00:32:12,200
Speaker 1: constantly trying to remind her, Yeah, and she's shut up

583
00:32:12,200 --> 00:32:19,080
Speaker 1: and fold the lawn. No one came. That's amazing. Do

584
00:32:19,120 --> 00:32:21,760
Speaker 1: you want to do a spot? I do want to

585
00:32:21,760 --> 00:32:24,280
Speaker 1: do a spot. You guys, uh, you know you're in

586
00:32:24,320 --> 00:32:27,320
Speaker 1: this iconic movie about the world's greatest pastime. But I

587
00:32:27,320 --> 00:32:29,600
Speaker 1: want to know what do you feel about feminine products?

588
00:32:30,720 --> 00:32:33,040
Speaker 1: I feel good about them? Like specifically, what do you

589
00:32:33,040 --> 00:32:36,720
Speaker 1: mean fragrance? Like, what are we talking about? Well, so

590
00:32:36,720 --> 00:32:42,320
Speaker 1: many there's so many feminine products like yeah, exactly, yeah,

591
00:32:43,320 --> 00:32:46,760
Speaker 1: exactly what we're talking about. We um. I wanted to

592
00:32:46,800 --> 00:32:49,920
Speaker 1: talk to you all specifically. Actually, this has nothing to

593
00:32:49,960 --> 00:32:51,840
Speaker 1: do with you all, except for your wives might want

594
00:32:51,880 --> 00:32:54,880
Speaker 1: to know about this. It's a product called Lola. Um.

595
00:32:55,000 --> 00:32:57,520
Speaker 1: We care a lot about the ingredients and the food

596
00:32:57,520 --> 00:33:01,640
Speaker 1: that we the beauty products we use. Why wouldn't women

597
00:33:01,720 --> 00:33:05,720
Speaker 1: care about what's in their feminine care products? They should care,

598
00:33:07,240 --> 00:33:11,080
Speaker 1: and I'm sure Lola is very good for that. Yeah,

599
00:33:12,120 --> 00:33:14,640
Speaker 1: what what does Lola? What does Lola have in it?

600
00:33:15,000 --> 00:33:18,800
Speaker 1: What doesn't look well? Let me tell you the Lola

601
00:33:18,840 --> 00:33:22,960
Speaker 1: products are a hundred percent natural, ad percent easy good about.

602
00:33:23,680 --> 00:33:27,640
Speaker 1: Unlike major brands in the market, Lola offers complete, transparent

603
00:33:28,080 --> 00:33:31,720
Speaker 1: transparency about the ingredients found in their tambons, pads and liners.

604
00:33:32,240 --> 00:33:35,600
Speaker 1: No bs, no mystery, fibers. No more doubts about what's

605
00:33:35,600 --> 00:33:39,880
Speaker 1: going in our bodies, our bodies, that's right, fantastic. I

606
00:33:39,920 --> 00:33:44,720
Speaker 1: hate those mystery fibers. Yeah, bad bad. Lola products are

607
00:33:45,120 --> 00:33:48,920
Speaker 1: organic cotton with no added chemicals, fragrances, synthetics, or dies.

608
00:33:49,560 --> 00:33:53,680
Speaker 1: The Lola products come in a simple customizable subscription, so

609
00:33:53,760 --> 00:33:55,760
Speaker 1: you don't have to make a trip to the drug store,

610
00:33:55,840 --> 00:33:58,320
Speaker 1: have your husband or boyfriend go to the drug store,

611
00:33:58,600 --> 00:34:01,520
Speaker 1: comes to your door. They deliver right when you need it,

612
00:34:01,600 --> 00:34:04,280
Speaker 1: when you need it, to where you need it. Um

613
00:34:04,720 --> 00:34:08,919
Speaker 1: choose from organic cotton tampons, pads or liners, or out

614
00:34:08,920 --> 00:34:11,239
Speaker 1: of box of each. If you want to build your

615
00:34:11,960 --> 00:34:15,680
Speaker 1: box of eighteen tampons by picking the perfect mix of light, Regular,

616
00:34:15,719 --> 00:34:19,360
Speaker 1: super and super Plus, you can decide how many boxes

617
00:34:19,400 --> 00:34:22,000
Speaker 1: you want to deliver to your door. And I think

618
00:34:22,000 --> 00:34:23,680
Speaker 1: something that's really cool about low l that is quite

619
00:34:23,719 --> 00:34:26,320
Speaker 1: different from this room, Becka being a lone woman surrounded

620
00:34:26,320 --> 00:34:29,960
Speaker 1: by these dudes. Was founded by women for women, So

621
00:34:31,000 --> 00:34:32,840
Speaker 1: none of us in there. We just ruined things anyway,

622
00:34:32,920 --> 00:34:36,000
Speaker 1: you know. Yeah, yeah, I feel like guys do have

623
00:34:36,040 --> 00:34:37,880
Speaker 1: a lot of when you're in a relationship, But is

624
00:34:38,000 --> 00:34:42,040
Speaker 1: there is that moment where your girlfriend or wife goes, hey, um,

625
00:34:42,560 --> 00:34:51,040
Speaker 1: go to s Yeah, really weird down, but I always

626
00:34:51,040 --> 00:34:53,000
Speaker 1: get the wrong thing, and now I need to Now

627
00:34:53,040 --> 00:34:54,600
Speaker 1: I need a new excuse to get out of the house.

628
00:34:54,600 --> 00:34:57,759
Speaker 1: There you go. Maybe I gotta go pick up all

629
00:34:57,800 --> 00:35:05,400
Speaker 1: the box in our front lawn. So you can. You

630
00:35:05,440 --> 00:35:08,839
Speaker 1: can select your shipment frequency. You can cancel, skip and order,

631
00:35:09,040 --> 00:35:14,080
Speaker 1: modify your subscription at any time. For off all subscriptions,

632
00:35:14,200 --> 00:35:18,000
Speaker 1: visit my Lola dot com and intercode Becca when you subscribe.

633
00:35:18,320 --> 00:35:21,319
Speaker 1: That's my Lola dot Com. Okay, this is where I

634
00:35:21,360 --> 00:35:24,200
Speaker 1: need the harmonies. So I'm gonna say promo code and

635
00:35:24,280 --> 00:35:29,200
Speaker 1: we all say Becca all together all the same time.

636
00:35:29,239 --> 00:35:32,520
Speaker 1: So take whatever you know part of the you're most

637
00:35:32,520 --> 00:35:39,759
Speaker 1: comfortable with. I don't know if you're tenor high like

638
00:35:39,880 --> 00:35:45,320
Speaker 1: your piercing. No, don't know. Okay, so that's my Lola.

639
00:35:45,760 --> 00:35:49,840
Speaker 1: Sure you're going high. I'm going I love how invested

640
00:35:49,920 --> 00:35:52,680
Speaker 1: you all are in this. Okay, that's my Lola dot

641
00:35:52,719 --> 00:36:02,960
Speaker 1: Com promo code Becca. Perfect, we got I don't know

642
00:36:03,040 --> 00:36:07,560
Speaker 1: if anything's ever been better than that. And we've had

643
00:36:07,600 --> 00:36:11,160
Speaker 1: some good we've had some good harmonies. Thank you, guys.

644
00:36:11,760 --> 00:36:17,719
Speaker 1: This is fun. Um Okay, so one of the things

645
00:36:17,800 --> 00:36:21,240
Speaker 1: that we do on our podcast, we read emails from

646
00:36:21,280 --> 00:36:26,439
Speaker 1: our listeners that right in for advice. We normally have

647
00:36:26,760 --> 00:36:29,920
Speaker 1: um female guests, and like Tanya and I are together,

648
00:36:30,000 --> 00:36:34,400
Speaker 1: so we have a strong female UM perspective and opinion.

649
00:36:35,280 --> 00:36:37,759
Speaker 1: I love that I am the only girl here and

650
00:36:38,120 --> 00:36:41,839
Speaker 1: it's gonna be a guy's a guy's opinion today. UM,

651
00:36:41,880 --> 00:36:44,040
Speaker 1: So I wanted to read a few emails while I

652
00:36:44,080 --> 00:36:48,399
Speaker 1: have y'all some advice for the Okay, I actually really

653
00:36:48,400 --> 00:36:50,920
Speaker 1: like this first one because The sand Lot is one

654
00:36:50,960 --> 00:36:54,680
Speaker 1: of those movies about friendship. I think at its core, like, um,

655
00:36:55,200 --> 00:36:57,960
Speaker 1: the smallest comes to town, he doesn't know anybody, you know,

656
00:36:58,000 --> 00:37:00,319
Speaker 1: Benny takes him under his wing. I was justtion this

657
00:37:00,320 --> 00:37:02,239
Speaker 1: the other day and it was like that the part

658
00:37:02,280 --> 00:37:04,800
Speaker 1: where he shows him how to throw, which shows you

659
00:37:04,840 --> 00:37:06,600
Speaker 1: how to throw, like I brought it to you in

660
00:37:06,600 --> 00:37:08,239
Speaker 1: my eye, Like I was like, I want a friend.

661
00:37:09,960 --> 00:37:15,439
Speaker 1: It's great, so cool. Uh So this um Brittany writes

662
00:37:15,480 --> 00:37:16,800
Speaker 1: in and she wants to know how to make friends

663
00:37:16,840 --> 00:37:20,120
Speaker 1: as an adult. She writes, I recently graduated college and

664
00:37:20,120 --> 00:37:22,560
Speaker 1: I'm engaged. My fiance and I've been together since high

665
00:37:22,560 --> 00:37:25,000
Speaker 1: school and recently moved to Jacksonville her two puppies to

666
00:37:25,040 --> 00:37:28,160
Speaker 1: pursue our career in medical device sales. My life feels

667
00:37:28,160 --> 00:37:30,319
Speaker 1: like a fairy tale, but I'm still missing something. I

668
00:37:30,360 --> 00:37:31,960
Speaker 1: have a great love and a great career, but I'm

669
00:37:32,040 --> 00:37:35,080
Speaker 1: lacking in the girlfriend's department. I was in a sorority

670
00:37:35,160 --> 00:37:36,839
Speaker 1: my first two years of college, on a sales team

671
00:37:36,880 --> 00:37:39,320
Speaker 1: from my last two, but once we graduated, we all scattered.

672
00:37:39,600 --> 00:37:41,400
Speaker 1: I still keep in touch with my closest friends by

673
00:37:41,440 --> 00:37:45,080
Speaker 1: miss having BFFs within driving distance. Most people befriend their coworkers,

674
00:37:45,080 --> 00:37:47,759
Speaker 1: but unfortunately, my job is outside sales, meaning I travel

675
00:37:47,800 --> 00:37:49,839
Speaker 1: around my city all day and I technically don't have

676
00:37:49,880 --> 00:37:52,560
Speaker 1: co workers. So my question is, how in the world

677
00:37:52,560 --> 00:37:54,719
Speaker 1: do you make friends as an adult. My fiance is

678
00:37:54,760 --> 00:37:56,560
Speaker 1: my absolute best friend, but he's in the military, so

679
00:37:56,600 --> 00:37:58,719
Speaker 1: he leaves for six months in September. I feel like

680
00:37:58,719 --> 00:38:00,239
Speaker 1: the pressure is on to make friends, but have no

681
00:38:00,320 --> 00:38:02,960
Speaker 1: clue where to begin. I'm a total Tanya in need

682
00:38:03,040 --> 00:38:05,720
Speaker 1: of Rebecca. I love your podcast so much it always

683
00:38:05,719 --> 00:38:08,200
Speaker 1: has me cracking up. In Easton is my absolute favorite.

684
00:38:08,200 --> 00:38:10,600
Speaker 1: Help how do I make friends? That last part of

685
00:38:10,600 --> 00:38:17,040
Speaker 1: made Up? So what do you? I had a problem

686
00:38:17,080 --> 00:38:19,000
Speaker 1: with this when I first moved to Los Angeles, I

687
00:38:19,040 --> 00:38:21,040
Speaker 1: didn't have any friends, and I went to the record

688
00:38:21,080 --> 00:38:22,960
Speaker 1: store and found a guy looking in the same type

689
00:38:22,960 --> 00:38:24,879
Speaker 1: of music as I liked, and I think he thought

690
00:38:24,880 --> 00:38:26,960
Speaker 1: I was hitting on him. Did not go very well.

691
00:38:27,040 --> 00:38:29,080
Speaker 1: I left there without a friend. Oh I thought that

692
00:38:29,200 --> 00:38:31,799
Speaker 1: was going to be right. No, no, no no, no, it's

693
00:38:31,840 --> 00:38:33,520
Speaker 1: it's difficult. So I I don't know if you guys

694
00:38:33,560 --> 00:38:36,600
Speaker 1: have any insight on how to make friends as an adult. Wait,

695
00:38:36,640 --> 00:38:39,080
Speaker 1: we might be onto something here, because I think some

696
00:38:39,160 --> 00:38:43,759
Speaker 1: sort of uh, not dating app but friends making. Yeah,

697
00:38:43,800 --> 00:38:47,040
Speaker 1: it's bumble bff okay, because then you know what everyone

698
00:38:47,080 --> 00:38:49,399
Speaker 1: likes it. The problem is it just what you said

699
00:38:49,400 --> 00:38:52,400
Speaker 1: about the record store is it's hard to tell people

700
00:38:52,480 --> 00:38:55,760
Speaker 1: that you're legitimately just trying to hang and they everyone

701
00:38:55,920 --> 00:38:59,880
Speaker 1: is a little guarded and get slow. Hey, hey, buddy,

702
00:39:00,080 --> 00:39:05,239
Speaker 1: like you know, what was your opening line? Yeah? I

703
00:39:07,640 --> 00:39:10,160
Speaker 1: like punk music a lot. This guy was in the

704
00:39:10,239 --> 00:39:12,480
Speaker 1: section and I saw he was looking at There's this

705
00:39:12,480 --> 00:39:14,319
Speaker 1: band called Riding Out that I really liked there from

706
00:39:14,320 --> 00:39:17,440
Speaker 1: Los Angeles, and I'm like, oh, hey, have you heard

707
00:39:17,719 --> 00:39:19,520
Speaker 1: have you heard a Street Prowl? That was their new

708
00:39:19,560 --> 00:39:22,040
Speaker 1: album at the time, and he's like, yeah, yeah, it's fine,

709
00:39:22,160 --> 00:39:26,600
Speaker 1: fine exactly like he was clearly just you know what,

710
00:39:26,800 --> 00:39:28,960
Speaker 1: listen I put that on him. I think that's right

711
00:39:29,000 --> 00:39:33,680
Speaker 1: opening line. I think I was worried what was gonna you?

712
00:39:33,920 --> 00:39:35,480
Speaker 1: I was scared for you. But I mean it was

713
00:39:35,520 --> 00:39:38,759
Speaker 1: a great opening line. That's not weird. If I was

714
00:39:38,800 --> 00:39:40,560
Speaker 1: into that kind of music, I would be like I

715
00:39:40,560 --> 00:39:42,920
Speaker 1: would chat to do up. Well, thank you, I mean,

716
00:39:42,920 --> 00:39:45,040
Speaker 1: and then like I was thinking in my head, like, Okay,

717
00:39:45,080 --> 00:39:46,440
Speaker 1: if this guy wants to talk to me, how do

718
00:39:46,480 --> 00:39:48,040
Speaker 1: I bring it to the next step? You know, It's

719
00:39:48,080 --> 00:39:50,360
Speaker 1: like that found episode where he's trying to be a

720
00:39:50,400 --> 00:39:52,839
Speaker 1: friend Keith Hernandez. What do I do? Do I ask

721
00:39:52,920 --> 00:39:54,880
Speaker 1: him to dinner? You know, luckily did not get that far.

722
00:39:55,040 --> 00:39:58,759
Speaker 1: But it's hard to you know, well I with you

723
00:39:58,840 --> 00:40:02,640
Speaker 1: telling this story, I almost and y'all can correct me

724
00:40:02,680 --> 00:40:04,480
Speaker 1: if I'm wrong. I almost feel like it's more difficult

725
00:40:04,520 --> 00:40:07,680
Speaker 1: for guys to do that. I feel like girls are like,

726
00:40:08,280 --> 00:40:09,840
Speaker 1: let's be you know, you meet a girl, you have

727
00:40:09,920 --> 00:40:11,840
Speaker 1: like one thing in common, it's like we're best friends.

728
00:40:12,239 --> 00:40:14,959
Speaker 1: Because my wife talks to anybody and everybody, and she's

729
00:40:15,000 --> 00:40:17,399
Speaker 1: coming home with a new best friend, like every other day,

730
00:40:17,600 --> 00:40:19,879
Speaker 1: we'll go to the mall and I turn around and

731
00:40:19,960 --> 00:40:22,120
Speaker 1: she's talking to some girl. And the next day she's like,

732
00:40:22,160 --> 00:40:26,560
Speaker 1: I'm meeting nashally for dinner. I'm like, that's what I'm saying.

733
00:40:26,560 --> 00:40:28,480
Speaker 1: Girls like have that natural thing where it's just like

734
00:40:28,560 --> 00:40:30,759
Speaker 1: let's be friends, let's get dinner or whatever, where I

735
00:40:30,840 --> 00:40:33,279
Speaker 1: feel like, guys that you almost have to have this

736
00:40:33,360 --> 00:40:37,480
Speaker 1: like I don't know, it's almost like you said, like

737
00:40:37,520 --> 00:40:39,440
Speaker 1: you're so guarded and you don't want to it to

738
00:40:39,680 --> 00:40:42,879
Speaker 1: come off as the rang or like weird or you're

739
00:40:42,920 --> 00:40:47,480
Speaker 1: trying to. I guess for your listener, I would say,

740
00:40:47,680 --> 00:40:49,960
Speaker 1: take a class or something like do things, you know,

741
00:40:50,000 --> 00:40:53,600
Speaker 1: get out of the world and back to college and

742
00:40:53,680 --> 00:40:57,359
Speaker 1: join a sorority. Again, you can do that, but it's

743
00:40:57,400 --> 00:41:01,440
Speaker 1: the female version of old School. And yeah, make sure

744
00:41:01,480 --> 00:41:07,359
Speaker 1: to film it because that would be an awesome if

745
00:41:07,400 --> 00:41:10,360
Speaker 1: we see a female Old School in one in eighteen

746
00:41:10,400 --> 00:41:16,800
Speaker 1: months or whatever. Company, amazing idea, you should start in it.

747
00:41:17,640 --> 00:41:24,920
Speaker 1: We'll produce it, guy as well, produce it that ain't happening. Yeah, okay,

748
00:41:24,920 --> 00:41:27,480
Speaker 1: So y'all saying, find a hobby, find something that you're

749
00:41:27,520 --> 00:41:30,680
Speaker 1: interested in that you would find that would be your advice. Yeah,

750
00:41:30,760 --> 00:41:34,520
Speaker 1: you know, do something that you're interested in, and you

751
00:41:34,560 --> 00:41:37,600
Speaker 1: know you have at least some one mutual interest, so

752
00:41:37,680 --> 00:41:39,760
Speaker 1: that would help things a little bit. I think, yeah,

753
00:41:39,800 --> 00:41:42,120
Speaker 1: that's yeah exactly. That I can also go on The

754
00:41:42,160 --> 00:41:45,840
Speaker 1: Bachelor all the girls and cens on that she is married.

755
00:41:45,960 --> 00:41:50,080
Speaker 1: Might be conflict there, but that is an option. Everyone's

756
00:41:50,120 --> 00:41:52,279
Speaker 1: there to date one guy, but you all become best

757
00:41:52,320 --> 00:41:56,120
Speaker 1: friends anyway, So that's an option alright. I like the

758
00:41:56,200 --> 00:41:57,920
Speaker 1: ones I on a date one because I like that

759
00:41:57,960 --> 00:42:00,319
Speaker 1: perspective from the guys. All right, Yeah, this this is

760
00:42:00,480 --> 00:42:02,960
Speaker 1: a good question that I've been in many times. This

761
00:42:03,000 --> 00:42:05,520
Speaker 1: is from Danielle. Love y'all so much. My name is

762
00:42:05,600 --> 00:42:07,880
Speaker 1: daniel and I'm twenty two. Last week, my friend I

763
00:42:07,960 --> 00:42:10,080
Speaker 1: used to work with, who looks like a hotter younger,

764
00:42:10,160 --> 00:42:13,279
Speaker 1: John Mayer all right, said he wanted to hay and

765
00:42:13,400 --> 00:42:16,839
Speaker 1: catch up. There's air quotes there, and even suggested specifically

766
00:42:17,040 --> 00:42:20,520
Speaker 1: grabbing coffee and going for a hike. The hike thing

767
00:42:20,560 --> 00:42:23,480
Speaker 1: fell through, so he suggested restaurants for lunch, even offered

768
00:42:23,480 --> 00:42:24,880
Speaker 1: to pick me up, but I had somewhere to be,

769
00:42:24,960 --> 00:42:28,080
Speaker 1: so we drove separately. At lunch, everything flowed so easily

770
00:42:28,120 --> 00:42:29,680
Speaker 1: since we've been friends for over a year. But I

771
00:42:29,719 --> 00:42:31,440
Speaker 1: noticed it was hard for him to keep eye contact.

772
00:42:31,480 --> 00:42:33,600
Speaker 1: Maybe he was nervous. We got the check and then

773
00:42:33,680 --> 00:42:35,920
Speaker 1: we split the cost. Was this a date or was

774
00:42:35,960 --> 00:42:43,800
Speaker 1: it not? It's a date, yes, date the date. I'm curious,

775
00:42:43,880 --> 00:42:51,280
Speaker 1: no hesitation. I feel like I don't think it's Easton

776
00:42:51,440 --> 00:42:57,439
Speaker 1: is my favorite. I don't want to himself. I feel

777
00:42:57,520 --> 00:43:01,200
Speaker 1: it wasn't. If you split the bill, U sin I mean,

778
00:43:01,320 --> 00:43:03,320
Speaker 1: and you know if you I don't know. I know

779
00:43:05,400 --> 00:43:07,359
Speaker 1: I don't want to pay for the woman you want

780
00:43:07,400 --> 00:43:09,919
Speaker 1: her to. If I'm on a date, though, I will

781
00:43:10,000 --> 00:43:12,640
Speaker 1: pay for the woman to. It's kind of like leaving

782
00:43:12,640 --> 00:43:15,160
Speaker 1: the clothes behind her like in the early instagrams. I

783
00:43:15,160 --> 00:43:18,640
Speaker 1: will do that so that there's an understanding, there's no confusion.

784
00:43:18,640 --> 00:43:21,920
Speaker 1: But that's also I haven't done it recently, so I

785
00:43:21,920 --> 00:43:24,320
Speaker 1: don't know if maybe he was just testing the waters

786
00:43:25,640 --> 00:43:27,640
Speaker 1: and it was started as a date, but by the

787
00:43:27,640 --> 00:43:29,600
Speaker 1: time the check came, he was like, it's not a date.

788
00:43:29,680 --> 00:43:33,000
Speaker 1: Let's split this up. Maybe. See, I have a strong

789
00:43:33,160 --> 00:43:35,839
Speaker 1: I think I have an opinion on this because where

790
00:43:35,880 --> 00:43:38,440
Speaker 1: I'm from in the South and how I was raised.

791
00:43:38,600 --> 00:43:40,960
Speaker 1: Every even if I was on a friend, like if

792
00:43:41,000 --> 00:43:42,560
Speaker 1: I was just out with a friend, we want to

793
00:43:42,600 --> 00:43:45,560
Speaker 1: move or anything, that he always paid. So I got

794
00:43:45,760 --> 00:43:48,560
Speaker 1: used to that. So when I moved out um to

795
00:43:48,640 --> 00:43:50,800
Speaker 1: San Diego, I went out with one of my friends

796
00:43:51,080 --> 00:43:53,160
Speaker 1: and just it was totally friendly, but he didn't pay.

797
00:43:53,160 --> 00:43:55,520
Speaker 1: And I remember being like, I guess he doesn't have

798
00:43:55,640 --> 00:44:00,840
Speaker 1: to do that, Like I wasn't. I just expected until

799
00:44:00,920 --> 00:44:03,359
Speaker 1: I was raised and then I was like, oh, we're

800
00:44:03,360 --> 00:44:05,600
Speaker 1: just friends, he doesn't owe me that. And then I

801
00:44:05,640 --> 00:44:08,799
Speaker 1: think more now with the dating accessibility of being able

802
00:44:08,840 --> 00:44:11,040
Speaker 1: to go on dates, whenever you went through an app,

803
00:44:11,160 --> 00:44:14,320
Speaker 1: it's kind of like, to you, is that what's required

804
00:44:14,360 --> 00:44:16,279
Speaker 1: that the guy pays every time? Or is it just

805
00:44:16,560 --> 00:44:18,560
Speaker 1: if you? I think it sends a pretty clear signal

806
00:44:18,600 --> 00:44:20,120
Speaker 1: if you pay, That's what I mean. So if you

807
00:44:20,200 --> 00:44:24,200
Speaker 1: split Bill, I mean maybe it was a pre date.

808
00:44:24,560 --> 00:44:30,880
Speaker 1: Maybe you didn't want to be feeling it, feeling everything

809
00:44:30,880 --> 00:44:34,200
Speaker 1: out like pre date and then if they actually do

810
00:44:34,320 --> 00:44:37,200
Speaker 1: something again, I would say, yes, date, But I think

811
00:44:37,239 --> 00:44:39,640
Speaker 1: this was like it sounds like there was something because

812
00:44:39,640 --> 00:44:42,560
Speaker 1: he was nervous, wasn't making eye contact, so there's something

813
00:44:42,600 --> 00:44:44,440
Speaker 1: going on there. But I wouldn't have called it a

814
00:44:44,560 --> 00:44:46,920
Speaker 1: date yet did they go out again? I don't know.

815
00:44:47,000 --> 00:44:49,120
Speaker 1: We'll have to get an update. But she did reference

816
00:44:49,200 --> 00:44:51,839
Speaker 1: him as her friend she used to work with. Right,

817
00:44:52,719 --> 00:44:54,480
Speaker 1: I think this was a date, but he was too

818
00:44:54,560 --> 00:44:58,320
Speaker 1: nervous task that's what it is, and that's why you

819
00:44:58,360 --> 00:45:01,120
Speaker 1: split the check to be because I think he probably

820
00:45:01,120 --> 00:45:03,880
Speaker 1: wanted to pay. Here's the thing, that it was a

821
00:45:03,880 --> 00:45:11,080
Speaker 1: little doctor w a because I think if you, if

822
00:45:11,080 --> 00:45:12,560
Speaker 1: you wanted to be a dating with ester, did dinner

823
00:45:12,600 --> 00:45:15,840
Speaker 1: or something, but then this hike suspiciously fell through and

824
00:45:15,880 --> 00:45:17,279
Speaker 1: they had to go to a restaurant. I think that

825
00:45:17,320 --> 00:45:19,680
Speaker 1: was him trying to have dinner with her without putting

826
00:45:19,719 --> 00:45:22,640
Speaker 1: her out. But if he wanted, if he wanted it

827
00:45:22,680 --> 00:45:25,359
Speaker 1: to be clear that it was a date, whantn't you pay, Like,

828
00:45:25,560 --> 00:45:29,000
Speaker 1: wouldn't that be You're like, I think he's nervous, but

829
00:45:29,160 --> 00:45:32,040
Speaker 1: that it's You're right, there's no reason to not pay

830
00:45:32,080 --> 00:45:36,600
Speaker 1: in that scenario unless unless he wanted, like you said,

831
00:45:36,600 --> 00:45:38,240
Speaker 1: he wanted it to be a date at the beginning,

832
00:45:38,239 --> 00:45:40,880
Speaker 1: and he was like, I don't want to give her

833
00:45:40,880 --> 00:45:43,279
Speaker 1: the wrong Here's the thing. Here's the thing, and I

834
00:45:43,280 --> 00:45:47,200
Speaker 1: think you guys can confirm this with your wives. There's

835
00:45:47,520 --> 00:45:49,560
Speaker 1: at least with my wife, there was never a moment

836
00:45:49,560 --> 00:45:53,040
Speaker 1: where they were unclear signals. So at the very least,

837
00:45:53,040 --> 00:45:56,120
Speaker 1: this may not be the guy for you because it's

838
00:45:56,160 --> 00:46:00,480
Speaker 1: too confusing for me and my experience I there was.

839
00:46:00,920 --> 00:46:04,920
Speaker 1: I've gone through Hollywood and had plenty of confusing moments,

840
00:46:04,960 --> 00:46:07,040
Speaker 1: and that's not the woman I ended up with. And

841
00:46:07,040 --> 00:46:08,839
Speaker 1: the reason I ended up with my wife was because

842
00:46:08,880 --> 00:46:12,200
Speaker 1: there wasn't anything confusing. We were both in it. I

843
00:46:12,239 --> 00:46:14,600
Speaker 1: didn't have to wait four days. I didn't have to

844
00:46:14,640 --> 00:46:17,239
Speaker 1: do any of that stuff. I you know, didn't have

845
00:46:17,280 --> 00:46:19,200
Speaker 1: to think. I didn't have to think about it. We

846
00:46:19,360 --> 00:46:21,640
Speaker 1: just and and then I knew she was the one

847
00:46:21,640 --> 00:46:23,399
Speaker 1: for me. She knew I was one for her, which

848
00:46:23,440 --> 00:46:27,640
Speaker 1: I still don't understand, but fair enough, and then you

849
00:46:27,680 --> 00:46:30,399
Speaker 1: know what I mean. Whereas and honestly, that's a little

850
00:46:30,400 --> 00:46:32,719
Speaker 1: early to give the guy another chance. But if it

851
00:46:32,800 --> 00:46:36,439
Speaker 1: continues to be that mixed signal stuff, I would move on. Well.

852
00:46:36,480 --> 00:46:39,719
Speaker 1: We there's always this debate of for girls, when we

853
00:46:39,760 --> 00:46:43,279
Speaker 1: go out with guys on a first day, if when

854
00:46:43,280 --> 00:46:49,719
Speaker 1: the check comes, should we reach for it? No? No, Now,

855
00:46:49,760 --> 00:46:52,640
Speaker 1: if it when the check comes, sit there and smile.

856
00:46:52,719 --> 00:46:58,359
Speaker 1: If you're not hanging out that how do you want

857
00:46:58,360 --> 00:47:01,680
Speaker 1: to do this? And then sometimes it comes in it

858
00:47:01,719 --> 00:47:05,719
Speaker 1: just sits there and you're like, I mean, that's on him.

859
00:47:06,040 --> 00:47:10,160
Speaker 1: I shouldn't sit there. Listen, guys, this is what I do.

860
00:47:10,800 --> 00:47:14,719
Speaker 1: I excuse myself to the bathroom. I ham the waitress

861
00:47:14,840 --> 00:47:18,680
Speaker 1: or waiter the card, and I say, don't even bring

862
00:47:18,760 --> 00:47:20,879
Speaker 1: the bill, just bring it to me to sign, so

863
00:47:20,920 --> 00:47:22,600
Speaker 1: the moment is never even there. I do that with

864
00:47:22,640 --> 00:47:24,360
Speaker 1: friends if I'm going to pick it up too, because

865
00:47:24,600 --> 00:47:27,160
Speaker 1: there's nothing more annoying than that moment. And then the

866
00:47:27,520 --> 00:47:31,680
Speaker 1: oh no, oh yes, shoot me now, and Patrick takes

867
00:47:31,920 --> 00:47:35,680
Speaker 1: he always pays for me. Now, come on. I would

868
00:47:35,680 --> 00:47:39,560
Speaker 1: say my advice to men these days is excuse yourself,

869
00:47:39,760 --> 00:47:41,440
Speaker 1: get it out of the way. Don't even make the

870
00:47:41,440 --> 00:47:43,319
Speaker 1: awkward moment. That's a very good move, and then you

871
00:47:43,320 --> 00:47:47,120
Speaker 1: look like a real big shot. Mr Ren, We've already

872
00:47:47,120 --> 00:47:51,759
Speaker 1: taken care of. But no, Pat was right, Like with

873
00:47:51,760 --> 00:47:54,840
Speaker 1: with my wife, there was never any that any of

874
00:47:54,840 --> 00:47:57,279
Speaker 1: that stuff of like should I text right now or

875
00:47:57,280 --> 00:47:59,480
Speaker 1: should I wait? Or should I And I've had this

876
00:47:59,520 --> 00:48:01,680
Speaker 1: conversation with her and she said the same thing that

877
00:48:01,719 --> 00:48:04,200
Speaker 1: it was just never any of that weirdness, and I

878
00:48:04,200 --> 00:48:06,080
Speaker 1: think that's kind of how that was the first sign

879
00:48:06,160 --> 00:48:08,080
Speaker 1: that we do. When you when you find the right person,

880
00:48:08,120 --> 00:48:11,000
Speaker 1: you don't have to think much, you know, second guest anything.

881
00:48:11,080 --> 00:48:15,120
Speaker 1: It happens a little natural. That's good, good to know

882
00:48:15,440 --> 00:48:18,000
Speaker 1: because we talk about this a lot, and I think

883
00:48:18,040 --> 00:48:22,839
Speaker 1: there's this sense of especially right now and like how

884
00:48:22,920 --> 00:48:26,600
Speaker 1: things are right now. It's there's this fear. I think

885
00:48:26,640 --> 00:48:30,600
Speaker 1: that sometimes men feel of like being the ones to pay,

886
00:48:30,680 --> 00:48:32,600
Speaker 1: because it's like what if the woman wants to be

887
00:48:32,640 --> 00:48:34,839
Speaker 1: in control and she's like, I can pay for it.

888
00:48:34,960 --> 00:48:39,040
Speaker 1: You know, there's that you don't you don't know want insults, right,

889
00:48:39,600 --> 00:48:42,239
Speaker 1: you know, you think that you know, That's why I said,

890
00:48:42,600 --> 00:48:44,759
Speaker 1: give this due the benefit of the doubt, go out

891
00:48:44,760 --> 00:48:46,960
Speaker 1: one more time with him, and then if he doesn't

892
00:48:47,000 --> 00:48:54,359
Speaker 1: pay the second time, then then so Danielle, go out

893
00:48:54,360 --> 00:48:56,360
Speaker 1: with him again. Let us know what happened. Sending at

894
00:48:56,360 --> 00:48:59,440
Speaker 1: an email. We need an update or even call you

895
00:48:59,520 --> 00:49:01,799
Speaker 1: to get you on. And I care about it live

896
00:49:01,840 --> 00:49:04,480
Speaker 1: while it's happening. You know, we talked about finding the

897
00:49:04,560 --> 00:49:07,520
Speaker 1: right person. That takes all the guesswork out of it.

898
00:49:07,719 --> 00:49:10,720
Speaker 1: But I think something it's just as important is finding

899
00:49:10,760 --> 00:49:16,640
Speaker 1: the right sheets. Not so true. UM. Have y'all ever

900
00:49:17,040 --> 00:49:21,560
Speaker 1: heard of Bowling Branch? No, no, but I'm very interested

901
00:49:23,760 --> 00:49:27,919
Speaker 1: you're about to. Um, So bowl and Branch makes the softest,

902
00:49:28,200 --> 00:49:31,960
Speaker 1: most comfortable organic cotton sheets you'll ever sleep on. We're

903
00:49:32,080 --> 00:49:36,799
Speaker 1: very into organic cotton on today's show. Um, I have

904
00:49:36,880 --> 00:49:40,400
Speaker 1: Bowling Branch sheets and I can attest that they are amazing.

905
00:49:40,600 --> 00:49:44,360
Speaker 1: They started soft before I even washed them multiple times,

906
00:49:44,640 --> 00:49:48,720
Speaker 1: which is which is very impressive because usually you never

907
00:49:48,880 --> 00:49:52,279
Speaker 1: find that what's the thread count on that? Um? You know,

908
00:49:52,480 --> 00:49:55,719
Speaker 1: I don't you think about Bowling Branch. You can get

909
00:49:55,719 --> 00:49:59,600
Speaker 1: whatever thread count you want. Super soft is the thread

910
00:49:59,719 --> 00:50:07,759
Speaker 1: count pure organic cotton? Um? Three of the US presidents

911
00:50:07,920 --> 00:50:14,239
Speaker 1: love Bowling Branch sheets, which one both and fair enough? Yeah,

912
00:50:14,280 --> 00:50:19,400
Speaker 1: you weren't ready for that quick answer, you knew. Um.

913
00:50:19,480 --> 00:50:22,480
Speaker 1: They Bowling Branch only sells to you online at Bowling

914
00:50:22,520 --> 00:50:25,040
Speaker 1: Branch dot com. So their sheets cost less than half

915
00:50:25,040 --> 00:50:28,000
Speaker 1: of the designer brands, and they're twice the quality of

916
00:50:28,000 --> 00:50:30,920
Speaker 1: what you would find. Um, you won't believe how comfortable

917
00:50:30,960 --> 00:50:33,000
Speaker 1: they are. You can try them for a whole month.

918
00:50:33,239 --> 00:50:35,360
Speaker 1: If they're not the most comfortable you've ever slept on,

919
00:50:35,480 --> 00:50:38,000
Speaker 1: you can send them back for a refund. We love

920
00:50:38,040 --> 00:50:42,000
Speaker 1: a risk free free situation. Um, so there's no risk

921
00:50:42,120 --> 00:50:44,919
Speaker 1: to try. Plus you'll get fifty dollars off your first

922
00:50:44,920 --> 00:50:47,880
Speaker 1: set of sheets at Bowling Branch dot com promo Codebecca.

923
00:50:48,360 --> 00:50:52,320
Speaker 1: That's spelled b O L L and Branch dot com

924
00:50:52,560 --> 00:50:55,880
Speaker 1: promo Codebecca for fifty dollars off your first set of sheets.

925
00:50:56,280 --> 00:50:59,000
Speaker 1: Are you ready to harmonize again? All right? That's a

926
00:50:59,040 --> 00:51:05,799
Speaker 1: Bowling Branch dot com promo code. I went a little

927
00:51:05,840 --> 00:51:12,319
Speaker 1: higher on them, right. Um, okay, let's do one more

928
00:51:12,360 --> 00:51:14,719
Speaker 1: email and then we'll let you all go on with

929
00:51:14,760 --> 00:51:19,080
Speaker 1: your your days. Um, all right, I was gonna do.

930
00:51:19,280 --> 00:51:21,560
Speaker 1: Is he into me? Oh? I like that one? I

931
00:51:21,600 --> 00:51:24,200
Speaker 1: like that. Hopefully you guys can Hopefully you know whether

932
00:51:24,280 --> 00:51:26,680
Speaker 1: or not someone's into you or whether you're into someone else.

933
00:51:26,719 --> 00:51:29,560
Speaker 1: You can help Haley here. She needs some advice. About

934
00:51:29,560 --> 00:51:32,040
Speaker 1: a year ago, my friend and her then boyfriend wanted

935
00:51:32,040 --> 00:51:34,640
Speaker 1: to introduce me to his cousin, but I had to

936
00:51:34,640 --> 00:51:37,000
Speaker 1: move away for five months. I wasn't interested in starting anything.

937
00:51:37,360 --> 00:51:39,200
Speaker 1: We ended up bringing into him downtown the fourth of

938
00:51:39,280 --> 00:51:41,160
Speaker 1: July last year, right after you watch the Sam Lot,

939
00:51:41,160 --> 00:51:42,719
Speaker 1: and we danced for a little bit and kissed, and

940
00:51:42,760 --> 00:51:45,480
Speaker 1: then went our separate ways. Fast forward to a month ago.

941
00:51:45,520 --> 00:51:47,839
Speaker 1: I see him at the same bar and accidentally bump

942
00:51:47,880 --> 00:51:49,960
Speaker 1: into him on the dance floor. We hit it off.

943
00:51:50,080 --> 00:51:51,759
Speaker 1: I went home with him and we stayed up just

944
00:51:51,800 --> 00:51:54,280
Speaker 1: talking and cuddling all night. I've seen him a handful

945
00:51:54,320 --> 00:51:56,360
Speaker 1: of time since, and he's always telling me how he

946
00:51:56,400 --> 00:51:58,399
Speaker 1: doesn't believe me that I'm into him, and that he's

947
00:51:58,400 --> 00:52:01,520
Speaker 1: sincere and doesn't want me to think playing games. The

948
00:52:01,600 --> 00:52:03,799
Speaker 1: problem is the only time we text is to make

949
00:52:03,800 --> 00:52:06,160
Speaker 1: plans to see each other, so I'm constantly wondering if

950
00:52:06,160 --> 00:52:07,960
Speaker 1: he's really into me or I'm just getting my hopes up.

951
00:52:08,120 --> 00:52:09,560
Speaker 1: When we do hang out, it's always great and we

952
00:52:09,560 --> 00:52:11,799
Speaker 1: have great conversations. He even sings and dances like a

953
00:52:11,800 --> 00:52:13,560
Speaker 1: crazy person in the car with me, which I love.

954
00:52:14,040 --> 00:52:16,520
Speaker 1: I feel myself falling really fast, and I don't want

955
00:52:16,520 --> 00:52:18,600
Speaker 1: to get hurt. So how do we know that he's genuine?

956
00:52:18,800 --> 00:52:20,719
Speaker 1: Is it okay to ask where he's these things going?

957
00:52:21,000 --> 00:52:23,080
Speaker 1: I've heard that scares some guys off. Can I text

958
00:52:23,120 --> 00:52:24,839
Speaker 1: him even if he hasn't responded to a message from

959
00:52:24,840 --> 00:52:26,880
Speaker 1: a few days ago. I tend to be needy like

960
00:52:26,960 --> 00:52:30,600
Speaker 1: Tanya and super forward and relationships. Please help. I think

961
00:52:30,640 --> 00:52:32,839
Speaker 1: you can. I think if if that's if you ask

962
00:52:32,960 --> 00:52:35,520
Speaker 1: him and that scares him off, then he's not really

963
00:52:35,560 --> 00:52:38,160
Speaker 1: that into you. Yeah, nailed it, Vic, and then I

964
00:52:38,200 --> 00:52:42,399
Speaker 1: don't even want him. Wow that do you just some Yeah,

965
00:52:42,440 --> 00:52:45,680
Speaker 1: you guys are really good at I think that's an

966
00:52:45,719 --> 00:52:48,799
Speaker 1: important thing for this world today. Is number one, you

967
00:52:48,800 --> 00:52:51,120
Speaker 1: have to know people by their actions, not what they say.

968
00:52:51,320 --> 00:52:53,680
Speaker 1: And number two, if you have to change yourself to

969
00:52:53,760 --> 00:52:56,000
Speaker 1: get a guy to be into you, forget it because

970
00:52:56,000 --> 00:52:58,359
Speaker 1: it's not gonna last. And what's the point. So Vic,

971
00:52:58,960 --> 00:53:05,440
Speaker 1: nice job, I think Dr Vicky r W dr wow

972
00:53:06,040 --> 00:53:09,839
Speaker 1: Wow version Free to email me anytime. Thank you. Well,

973
00:53:09,880 --> 00:53:12,680
Speaker 1: I always say I always my advice when people right in,

974
00:53:12,760 --> 00:53:15,239
Speaker 1: I always say, like, from what I've learned, if a

975
00:53:15,280 --> 00:53:19,600
Speaker 1: guy wants you, you're gonna know. They really make it

976
00:53:19,680 --> 00:53:24,319
Speaker 1: obvious most of the time if they're super into exactly, yeah,

977
00:53:24,880 --> 00:53:28,719
Speaker 1: if you should if you have to guess, yeah, that's yeah.

978
00:53:28,760 --> 00:53:31,839
Speaker 1: If you have to think about it, it's not it's

979
00:53:31,880 --> 00:53:34,120
Speaker 1: not real. I mean, that's the thing. Is like, if

980
00:53:34,120 --> 00:53:36,560
Speaker 1: you have to worry and think about things too much

981
00:53:36,880 --> 00:53:39,840
Speaker 1: in a relationship, then it's it's it's not the right person.

982
00:53:40,320 --> 00:53:43,800
Speaker 1: You know, it should happen naturally, you know, like when

983
00:53:43,840 --> 00:53:46,200
Speaker 1: me and my wife, I she could tell I was

984
00:53:46,239 --> 00:53:48,480
Speaker 1: totally into her the whole time, you know, because I

985
00:53:48,960 --> 00:53:52,160
Speaker 1: was genuinely into her. If she had to think, oh

986
00:53:52,160 --> 00:53:55,759
Speaker 1: my god, is he enemy, well, then I wouldn't work.

987
00:53:55,840 --> 00:53:57,719
Speaker 1: You know, if you have to reach out to a

988
00:53:57,719 --> 00:54:02,600
Speaker 1: podcast to see if he's India. Yeah, most of the time,

989
00:54:02,640 --> 00:54:06,120
Speaker 1: if you're asking that question, it's it's probably not good. Yeah,

990
00:54:07,360 --> 00:54:11,759
Speaker 1: although I do think I do like that she. I

991
00:54:12,040 --> 00:54:14,360
Speaker 1: mean the fact that when they do talk, he's reaching

992
00:54:14,400 --> 00:54:16,040
Speaker 1: out to hang out with her. He clearly wants to

993
00:54:16,040 --> 00:54:19,520
Speaker 1: see her. He might be into her. But the point

994
00:54:19,560 --> 00:54:22,320
Speaker 1: is she should just not work. She should be herself

995
00:54:22,480 --> 00:54:24,600
Speaker 1: and say I'm into you, and if that scares them

996
00:54:24,640 --> 00:54:27,920
Speaker 1: off then you know, because it is possible he's into her,

997
00:54:28,480 --> 00:54:32,440
Speaker 1: but find out because she's agreeing. Yeah, she shouldn't be

998
00:54:32,440 --> 00:54:34,440
Speaker 1: worried about scaring him off. If you if you get

999
00:54:34,480 --> 00:54:38,440
Speaker 1: scared by asking if he's into her, like itself. And

1000
00:54:38,480 --> 00:54:41,080
Speaker 1: this also was in the first date they've hung like, okay,

1001
00:54:41,120 --> 00:54:42,799
Speaker 1: maybe don't ask people if you're into me on the

1002
00:54:42,840 --> 00:54:48,440
Speaker 1: first day that are you? How are you feeling pretty

1003
00:54:48,440 --> 00:54:50,640
Speaker 1: hard for you. I just want to be honest. Wait

1004
00:54:50,640 --> 00:54:54,600
Speaker 1: a minute, this was so fun. I'm having all these

1005
00:54:54,640 --> 00:54:58,400
Speaker 1: permanent fixtures on the show. The advice was just quick

1006
00:54:58,440 --> 00:55:01,520
Speaker 1: a lot of times ago. Whoa, what do you? Yeah,

1007
00:55:03,360 --> 00:55:05,839
Speaker 1: go with your gut. We're fast. We're not always right,

1008
00:55:05,880 --> 00:55:13,440
Speaker 1: but we could, but we're commonly wrong. So go with

1009
00:55:13,480 --> 00:55:17,520
Speaker 1: your heart. So that the Sam Lot Anniversary Blu Ray

1010
00:55:17,600 --> 00:55:19,960
Speaker 1: is out now, I just want to throw that out there,

1011
00:55:19,960 --> 00:55:22,040
Speaker 1: and if you haven't purchased it, you really should, because

1012
00:55:22,320 --> 00:55:24,360
Speaker 1: I'll one up. Yeah you should. You should. It's a

1013
00:55:24,360 --> 00:55:26,560
Speaker 1: really good movie. It really is. Uh And it's so

1014
00:55:26,600 --> 00:55:28,040
Speaker 1: much fun hanging out with you guys today. This is

1015
00:55:28,040 --> 00:55:30,279
Speaker 1: something that like I wish I could go back in

1016
00:55:30,320 --> 00:55:33,359
Speaker 1: time and tell myself, like just a scant a few years.

1017
00:55:33,360 --> 00:55:34,960
Speaker 1: If you plug away at it, you get to hang

1018
00:55:35,000 --> 00:55:37,680
Speaker 1: out in a studio with these these guys in the

1019
00:55:37,680 --> 00:55:40,239
Speaker 1: sand lot with Smalls and ham and As. It's so

1020
00:55:40,320 --> 00:55:45,080
Speaker 1: much fun. You guys are great. Yeah, thank you so

1021
00:55:45,160 --> 00:55:50,160
Speaker 1: much time. Should we be back tomorrow? Next week? Then

1022
00:55:50,239 --> 00:55:54,000
Speaker 1: next week? Okay, we usually tape on Mondays. We guys

1023
00:55:54,040 --> 00:55:55,560
Speaker 1: want to come by. I'll have a great spot for

1024
00:55:55,640 --> 00:55:58,160
Speaker 1: you and we'll have some more questions for it again.

1025
00:55:58,200 --> 00:56:01,839
Speaker 1: That's Tom Guyy Victor to Madia and Patrick Renna, the

1026
00:56:01,920 --> 00:56:04,640
Speaker 1: stars of the sand Lot hitting it out of the

1027
00:56:04,640 --> 00:56:10,680
Speaker 1: park once again. That was so fun. That was so fun.

1028
00:56:11,400 --> 00:56:15,440
Speaker 1: It was different being the only the only girl I know.

1029
00:56:15,560 --> 00:56:19,279
Speaker 1: I felt, um, luckily those guys they're super cool. They're

1030
00:56:19,280 --> 00:56:23,040
Speaker 1: not super like you know, man kind of a thing,

1031
00:56:23,760 --> 00:56:26,560
Speaker 1: very very nice general dudes. But I did feel bad

1032
00:56:26,640 --> 00:56:30,759
Speaker 1: that you were outnumbered. Well, I mean, I like you

1033
00:56:30,800 --> 00:56:33,280
Speaker 1: said they were. They were like very much like gentlemen

1034
00:56:33,400 --> 00:56:36,120
Speaker 1: and so kind and sweet. And I do feel I

1035
00:56:36,200 --> 00:56:39,279
Speaker 1: like that they were all married, and I liked that

1036
00:56:39,360 --> 00:56:42,399
Speaker 1: all the guys I'm surrounded by are great stand up

1037
00:56:42,600 --> 00:56:46,000
Speaker 1: married men. Yeah yeah, I mean I like to think

1038
00:56:46,040 --> 00:56:48,160
Speaker 1: of myself as a stand up married man. You're the

1039
00:56:48,160 --> 00:56:51,680
Speaker 1: most stood up married I am the most stood up. Yes,

1040
00:56:52,880 --> 00:56:55,400
Speaker 1: uh yeah, I know. I hope that we're um. You know,

1041
00:56:55,440 --> 00:56:57,360
Speaker 1: I like to think that Mark and I are trying

1042
00:56:57,400 --> 00:57:00,160
Speaker 1: to said a good I want to say at a

1043
00:57:00,200 --> 00:57:02,359
Speaker 1: good example. But like you know, I mean, I think

1044
00:57:02,400 --> 00:57:05,520
Speaker 1: that's why. I think that's why, especially when I read

1045
00:57:05,560 --> 00:57:08,920
Speaker 1: like the comments on the Facebook group, why our listeners

1046
00:57:09,000 --> 00:57:12,360
Speaker 1: love you all so much? Because there is something to

1047
00:57:13,280 --> 00:57:17,120
Speaker 1: it being the advice that y'all give being from two

1048
00:57:17,160 --> 00:57:20,440
Speaker 1: great guys who are married and you know, are in

1049
00:57:20,600 --> 00:57:23,680
Speaker 1: healthy relationships, because I think a lot of people feel

1050
00:57:23,680 --> 00:57:27,680
Speaker 1: like discouraged because they're like, well, I ever find that,

1051
00:57:27,760 --> 00:57:31,680
Speaker 1: And so to have two people, two guys on one podcast,

1052
00:57:31,760 --> 00:57:34,520
Speaker 1: it's it's really nice. That was really cool that all

1053
00:57:34,560 --> 00:57:37,480
Speaker 1: three of those guys are like happily married. And I

1054
00:57:37,520 --> 00:57:40,000
Speaker 1: think that either all or most of them have children,

1055
00:57:40,040 --> 00:57:42,480
Speaker 1: Like that's very cool. It makes me because you know

1056
00:57:42,520 --> 00:57:48,080
Speaker 1: sometimes with like child actors, there's a certain timeline these

1057
00:57:48,760 --> 00:57:49,720
Speaker 1: if you want to if you want to be a

1058
00:57:49,760 --> 00:57:51,440
Speaker 1: child actor and turn out great, go on the salmon.

1059
00:57:51,720 --> 00:57:53,720
Speaker 1: That's that's what I have to say. I wanted to

1060
00:57:53,720 --> 00:57:55,880
Speaker 1: ask I had like things that I know we were

1061
00:57:55,880 --> 00:57:58,760
Speaker 1: like talking about. I wanted to ask questions. But I

1062
00:57:58,880 --> 00:58:01,560
Speaker 1: wonder if because I know that they have done other

1063
00:58:02,000 --> 00:58:06,280
Speaker 1: roles in different projects since The sand Lot, but that

1064
00:58:06,360 --> 00:58:09,880
Speaker 1: movie is so huge, and so I keep saying the

1065
00:58:09,920 --> 00:58:13,240
Speaker 1: word iconic, but it is that it's almost I always wonder,

1066
00:58:13,360 --> 00:58:15,280
Speaker 1: you know, people feel like they get stuck in a

1067
00:58:15,440 --> 00:58:19,080
Speaker 1: role or like type past as a person. But it's

1068
00:58:19,640 --> 00:58:23,200
Speaker 1: kind of an amazing I mean, it's amazing problem to have.

1069
00:58:23,400 --> 00:58:26,400
Speaker 1: I guess you know, Tom Guyry, I did you know?

1070
00:58:26,720 --> 00:58:28,960
Speaker 1: I felt weird, like I liked a fan girl. I don't.

1071
00:58:29,240 --> 00:58:30,920
Speaker 1: I'm not ashamed of it. But I also felt like

1072
00:58:31,280 --> 00:58:33,560
Speaker 1: this is small as I don't know, but he he

1073
00:58:33,640 --> 00:58:35,400
Speaker 1: was in Black Hawk Down. He was in the Revenant

1074
00:58:35,400 --> 00:58:37,720
Speaker 1: with Leonardo DiCaprio. I remember I saw The Revenant and

1075
00:58:37,760 --> 00:58:40,840
Speaker 1: I thought that it was small, but I didn't I

1076
00:58:40,880 --> 00:58:42,120
Speaker 1: didn't know that was him in it. I was like

1077
00:58:42,160 --> 00:58:44,600
Speaker 1: in his IMDb just now and he's got quite the

1078
00:58:44,920 --> 00:58:47,240
Speaker 1: quite the film credit. Um, he's just in Wonder Wheel,

1079
00:58:47,280 --> 00:58:49,640
Speaker 1: which just came out, so um, he's even though he

1080
00:58:49,640 --> 00:58:51,520
Speaker 1: doesn't live in Los Angeles, he's still making it happen

1081
00:58:51,520 --> 00:58:53,800
Speaker 1: as a real actor. I thought that was very cool. Yeah,

1082
00:58:54,000 --> 00:58:56,240
Speaker 1: it is. It's fascinating. And they were they were just

1083
00:58:56,280 --> 00:59:00,000
Speaker 1: so they were eleven. That's a that's insane. I love

1084
00:59:00,120 --> 00:59:01,919
Speaker 1: that they said it just felt like summer camp, because

1085
00:59:01,920 --> 00:59:03,640
Speaker 1: that's what it felt like. You know, like watching it,

1086
00:59:04,000 --> 00:59:05,800
Speaker 1: you hope to hear that because I feel like you

1087
00:59:05,840 --> 00:59:08,840
Speaker 1: see a lot of movies in that kind of do

1088
00:59:08,920 --> 00:59:11,360
Speaker 1: you have this idea of this fantasy of what it

1089
00:59:11,440 --> 00:59:13,320
Speaker 1: was like filming it and then you hear back girl

1090
00:59:13,440 --> 00:59:15,880
Speaker 1: like behind the scenes stories and it was like a nightmare,

1091
00:59:16,040 --> 00:59:18,000
Speaker 1: like so and so is a diva or no one

1092
00:59:18,040 --> 00:59:20,480
Speaker 1: got along, and you're like, oh, what kind of ruins? Yea,

1093
00:59:20,840 --> 00:59:25,360
Speaker 1: it was for me. So I'm glad it wasn't like that. Um,

1094
00:59:25,400 --> 00:59:26,520
Speaker 1: So you want to you want to hit a couple

1095
00:59:26,600 --> 00:59:30,760
Speaker 1: more emails before we say goodbye. Let's do some emails.

1096
00:59:31,200 --> 00:59:33,240
Speaker 1: Do it with just just you and I this time.

1097
00:59:33,360 --> 00:59:35,560
Speaker 1: Now we can give our honest thoughts on nonsand a

1098
00:59:35,600 --> 00:59:41,560
Speaker 1: lot related things. Uh okay, So Britt right to us

1099
00:59:41,560 --> 00:59:43,160
Speaker 1: and she says, I want to get your guys perspective

1100
00:59:43,200 --> 00:59:46,080
Speaker 1: on an issue. I have a super close girl group

1101
00:59:46,080 --> 00:59:48,320
Speaker 1: of girlfriends from college. There are my people, and we

1102
00:59:48,360 --> 00:59:50,600
Speaker 1: absolutely tore each other. However, we all have such a

1103
00:59:50,640 --> 00:59:52,600
Speaker 1: bad habit of not being fans of the boys that

1104
00:59:52,640 --> 00:59:54,560
Speaker 1: we all date. We end up being kind of mean

1105
00:59:54,600 --> 00:59:56,200
Speaker 1: to each other about the boys we date because we

1106
00:59:56,240 --> 00:59:58,040
Speaker 1: think the world of each other and the guys are

1107
00:59:58,080 --> 01:00:00,800
Speaker 1: never up to our extremely high standards and because the

1108
01:00:00,840 --> 01:00:04,000
Speaker 1: boys are typically scumbags. It's the only time we've had

1109
01:00:04,040 --> 01:00:06,120
Speaker 1: issues in our friendship, but it's ended up causing dnse

1110
01:00:06,120 --> 01:00:08,280
Speaker 1: for us. I'm not sure how to voice my concerns

1111
01:00:08,280 --> 01:00:10,240
Speaker 1: about the guys my friends date without coming off as mean,

1112
01:00:10,320 --> 01:00:12,080
Speaker 1: while still letting them know I think they can do

1113
01:00:12,120 --> 01:00:13,720
Speaker 1: way better. Or I'm not sure if I should just

1114
01:00:13,800 --> 01:00:15,520
Speaker 1: keep my mouth shut because they're probably going to date

1115
01:00:15,600 --> 01:00:17,640
Speaker 1: them no matter what I think. I feel like I'm

1116
01:00:17,640 --> 01:00:19,120
Speaker 1: stuck between a rock and a hard place, and I

1117
01:00:19,280 --> 01:00:21,040
Speaker 1: love you guys point of view. For reference, we're all

1118
01:00:21,080 --> 01:00:24,960
Speaker 1: fresh out of college and twenty two, I don't know

1119
01:00:26,280 --> 01:00:29,560
Speaker 1: two now, it seems like a good night to dress

1120
01:00:29,640 --> 01:00:31,480
Speaker 1: up like hipsters and make fun of your excess what

1121
01:00:31,520 --> 01:00:36,400
Speaker 1: you're clearly doing. Uh. But I wonder do her friends

1122
01:00:36,440 --> 01:00:38,920
Speaker 1: feel this way about her? That's I kind of feel

1123
01:00:38,960 --> 01:00:41,000
Speaker 1: like that's what they're saying. Like she said, it's the

1124
01:00:41,080 --> 01:00:48,080
Speaker 1: only time we've had issues in our friendship. I've always thought, um,

1125
01:00:48,160 --> 01:00:52,360
Speaker 1: when it comes to dating guys that your family doesn't

1126
01:00:52,400 --> 01:00:56,080
Speaker 1: like or your friends don't like, it's always about the

1127
01:00:56,120 --> 01:00:58,360
Speaker 1: reasoning of why they know. If it's the reasoning of

1128
01:00:58,400 --> 01:01:00,920
Speaker 1: why they don't like him, if it's because he doesn't

1129
01:01:00,960 --> 01:01:05,880
Speaker 1: treat you well, or he does things that that give

1130
01:01:05,960 --> 01:01:08,840
Speaker 1: them red flags, I think that's something to pay attention to.

1131
01:01:09,520 --> 01:01:11,880
Speaker 1: If it's simply that they don't get along or he

1132
01:01:12,000 --> 01:01:14,400
Speaker 1: does it has annoying quirks that they don't like. Then

1133
01:01:15,560 --> 01:01:19,560
Speaker 1: that's kind of they're issue to deal with, you know.

1134
01:01:20,280 --> 01:01:23,040
Speaker 1: People just sometimes people don't get along and it's not

1135
01:01:23,120 --> 01:01:25,960
Speaker 1: necessarily because there's they're a bad person or you're a

1136
01:01:25,960 --> 01:01:28,840
Speaker 1: bad person. It's just like your personalities don't click. But

1137
01:01:28,920 --> 01:01:32,480
Speaker 1: that's not a deal breaker for the person that's in

1138
01:01:32,480 --> 01:01:36,160
Speaker 1: the relationship with them. Yeah. Yeah. The thing I'm having

1139
01:01:36,160 --> 01:01:39,600
Speaker 1: a hard time ignoring is that they I mean, she says,

1140
01:01:39,640 --> 01:01:42,520
Speaker 1: they all hate each everyone's boyfriend. Usually there's like one

1141
01:01:42,560 --> 01:01:46,080
Speaker 1: person integra who doesn't like the one person's boyfriend. Yeah, exactly,

1142
01:01:46,240 --> 01:01:48,440
Speaker 1: like or keeps dating guys that everyone else. You know,

1143
01:01:48,560 --> 01:01:53,800
Speaker 1: it's interesting that it's everybody and it's like, so, I mean,

1144
01:01:53,840 --> 01:01:55,880
Speaker 1: how do you I wonder how you solve this, Like

1145
01:01:55,920 --> 01:01:58,840
Speaker 1: do you have a gigantic intervention for each other? I

1146
01:01:59,560 --> 01:02:02,720
Speaker 1: think I would just be like, if it were me

1147
01:02:02,840 --> 01:02:05,640
Speaker 1: in this situation, I would set my my group of

1148
01:02:05,680 --> 01:02:08,400
Speaker 1: friends down all together so it didn't feel like gossiping

1149
01:02:08,440 --> 01:02:10,720
Speaker 1: to one about the other, and I would say, hey,

1150
01:02:10,760 --> 01:02:12,960
Speaker 1: I would literally say what she said in this email,

1151
01:02:12,960 --> 01:02:14,919
Speaker 1: like we we love each other so much we want

1152
01:02:14,920 --> 01:02:18,600
Speaker 1: the best for each other. We obviously think that every

1153
01:02:18,800 --> 01:02:22,840
Speaker 1: like each of you, deserves the best guy around. So

1154
01:02:22,960 --> 01:02:25,000
Speaker 1: what is the way we handle it if one of

1155
01:02:25,080 --> 01:02:28,960
Speaker 1: us starts dating someone we don't like, Like, what's the

1156
01:02:29,080 --> 01:02:35,240
Speaker 1: appropriate way to voice our concerns? Or are um opinions

1157
01:02:35,480 --> 01:02:40,080
Speaker 1: like bringing articles of impeachment against the boyfriend exactly? Like

1158
01:02:40,960 --> 01:02:46,360
Speaker 1: like like, it's it's tough because, um, you want, you know,

1159
01:02:46,800 --> 01:02:49,600
Speaker 1: you want your friends to go for who they're going.

1160
01:02:49,720 --> 01:02:52,000
Speaker 1: You know, you only only you can decide who's right

1161
01:02:52,040 --> 01:02:56,360
Speaker 1: for you. But also if I found if you're dating

1162
01:02:56,440 --> 01:02:59,080
Speaker 1: someone that you think is the best and literally every

1163
01:02:59,080 --> 01:03:01,200
Speaker 1: one of your friends hates them, I think that's something

1164
01:03:01,240 --> 01:03:04,160
Speaker 1: to listen to. I do too. I believe that as well.

1165
01:03:04,760 --> 01:03:07,400
Speaker 1: I don't like the word scumbags because that's like a bag,

1166
01:03:07,560 --> 01:03:12,360
Speaker 1: Like that's just that's that's a saying a lot. Yeah, yeah,

1167
01:03:12,480 --> 01:03:17,560
Speaker 1: that's quite yeah, like scumbags because the boys typically are

1168
01:03:17,640 --> 01:03:21,439
Speaker 1: kind of scumbags. Also, they're very young, very very young,

1169
01:03:22,240 --> 01:03:24,680
Speaker 1: fresh out of college. You really should dress up with

1170
01:03:24,760 --> 01:03:27,800
Speaker 1: hipsters and make fun of your access together and find

1171
01:03:27,840 --> 01:03:31,600
Speaker 1: guys who aren't scumbags. Yeah, maybe don't take these relationships

1172
01:03:31,600 --> 01:03:34,960
Speaker 1: so seriously. Because they're you know, you're probably not going

1173
01:03:35,000 --> 01:03:38,640
Speaker 1: to meet your husband right now. You might, but probably not.

1174
01:03:38,760 --> 01:03:43,560
Speaker 1: And uh, just I think, um, friendships are very important,

1175
01:03:44,360 --> 01:03:47,120
Speaker 1: but you should also not let if there's if there's

1176
01:03:47,160 --> 01:03:49,000
Speaker 1: someone you truly think is right for you, you you shouldn't

1177
01:03:49,040 --> 01:03:52,000
Speaker 1: let your friends get in the middle of you know,

1178
01:03:52,040 --> 01:03:53,640
Speaker 1: just because a friend doesn't like that guy, like you

1179
01:03:53,680 --> 01:03:56,040
Speaker 1: were saying, like because there's like a personality quirk or

1180
01:03:56,040 --> 01:03:59,080
Speaker 1: something like that. Um, it's it's a it's a hard

1181
01:03:59,160 --> 01:04:01,439
Speaker 1: thing to balance, but there, but you need to find

1182
01:04:01,440 --> 01:04:05,320
Speaker 1: balance there. My ultimate advice to end this this one,

1183
01:04:06,240 --> 01:04:11,000
Speaker 1: don't let a scumback ruin your friendship. Put that on

1184
01:04:11,040 --> 01:04:13,760
Speaker 1: the bumper sticker. Put that on the bumper sticker. Don't

1185
01:04:13,800 --> 01:04:16,800
Speaker 1: let us come back ruin that. My hurdle and um,

1186
01:04:16,880 --> 01:04:22,000
Speaker 1: my hurdle and pole vault analogy did not was not

1187
01:04:22,160 --> 01:04:25,800
Speaker 1: I mean, it was well received compared to how Tanya

1188
01:04:25,800 --> 01:04:29,000
Speaker 1: and Mark handled it. I thought so too. I should

1189
01:04:29,000 --> 01:04:31,600
Speaker 1: have chimed in. I was just about to say, where

1190
01:04:31,640 --> 01:04:36,080
Speaker 1: were you on? That left me in the dust. I

1191
01:04:36,120 --> 01:04:38,240
Speaker 1: got what you were trying, what you were saying, and

1192
01:04:38,280 --> 01:04:42,720
Speaker 1: I see the difference between um, because it was let's

1193
01:04:42,960 --> 01:04:46,440
Speaker 1: let's refresh ourselves. It's a a poll, vault and a hurdle.

1194
01:04:46,840 --> 01:04:51,720
Speaker 1: Hurdles are multiple challenges that are small. My whole point,

1195
01:04:51,800 --> 01:04:54,040
Speaker 1: A hurdle is a small thing that you have to

1196
01:04:54,120 --> 01:04:59,080
Speaker 1: jump over. A pole. Vault is large and it takes

1197
01:04:59,120 --> 01:05:02,360
Speaker 1: more effort, and it's higher. It's a bigger hurdle. That's

1198
01:05:02,360 --> 01:05:05,000
Speaker 1: all I was trying to say. I mean, its core

1199
01:05:06,080 --> 01:05:08,640
Speaker 1: is just a really big hurdle, and you get it,

1200
01:05:08,680 --> 01:05:11,280
Speaker 1: you get an extra tool, you get a stick. Yeah,

1201
01:05:13,800 --> 01:05:16,320
Speaker 1: I was really lost. I mean, everyone just goes with

1202
01:05:16,400 --> 01:05:19,280
Speaker 1: Tanya's analogies that make no sense, and I give one

1203
01:05:19,320 --> 01:05:24,160
Speaker 1: that makes sense for the first time, and everyone acts

1204
01:05:24,200 --> 01:05:30,200
Speaker 1: so confused. Tanya's ruined us. I'm really bummed that the

1205
01:05:30,280 --> 01:05:32,919
Speaker 1: guy's left before I got to do QUIP. I liked

1206
01:05:33,000 --> 01:05:35,960
Speaker 1: their harmonies. They were so good, so good, So you're

1207
01:05:36,000 --> 01:05:38,280
Speaker 1: really gonna have to pick up the slot. Oh. I

1208
01:05:38,320 --> 01:05:41,480
Speaker 1: am classically trained, so I can definitely do that on

1209
01:05:41,560 --> 01:05:45,800
Speaker 1: this one. Um. Sometimes when it's time in the past,

1210
01:05:45,840 --> 01:05:48,560
Speaker 1: now I do. I do use QUIP and they send

1211
01:05:48,560 --> 01:05:51,160
Speaker 1: me new brushes. But when I used to go to

1212
01:05:51,200 --> 01:05:53,640
Speaker 1: the store and I would be in the toothbrush aisle.

1213
01:05:55,080 --> 01:05:58,320
Speaker 1: There are so many options of toothbrushes to choose from.

1214
01:05:58,640 --> 01:06:02,640
Speaker 1: It overwhelms me. I'm like, which one is my dentist

1215
01:06:02,760 --> 01:06:06,360
Speaker 1: recommended toothbrush? And they all say they are. But um,

1216
01:06:06,440 --> 01:06:10,240
Speaker 1: many of the toothbrushes their gimmicks and they're not that great.

1217
01:06:10,720 --> 01:06:13,320
Speaker 1: But the truth is, you really just need something that

1218
01:06:13,400 --> 01:06:16,120
Speaker 1: guides the simple habits of what you're supposed to do

1219
01:06:16,120 --> 01:06:18,280
Speaker 1: when you brush your teeth that most of us get

1220
01:06:18,320 --> 01:06:23,040
Speaker 1: wrong when we're doing it. Quip as an electric toothbrush.

1221
01:06:23,120 --> 01:06:25,960
Speaker 1: It's a fraction of the cost of the bulk ear brushes,

1222
01:06:26,440 --> 01:06:29,880
Speaker 1: but it still packs just the right amount of vibrations

1223
01:06:29,920 --> 01:06:33,080
Speaker 1: to help clean your teeth very well. I've had messages

1224
01:06:33,160 --> 01:06:35,440
Speaker 1: about people who have bought equipped and they love it.

1225
01:06:35,480 --> 01:06:38,600
Speaker 1: They're like, my mouth has never felt cleaner. I wish

1226
01:06:38,640 --> 01:06:39,960
Speaker 1: I could find it right now. That would take a

1227
01:06:40,000 --> 01:06:42,760
Speaker 1: long time. Um. Quip has a built in timer. It

1228
01:06:42,760 --> 01:06:45,960
Speaker 1: helps you clean for the dentist recommended two minutes. That's right,

1229
01:06:46,120 --> 01:06:48,880
Speaker 1: not a second less, that's right. All those things about

1230
01:06:48,880 --> 01:06:51,240
Speaker 1: like oh sing happy birthday. No, no, no, my friend,

1231
01:06:51,240 --> 01:06:54,959
Speaker 1: you gotta brush for two minutes, and it's it's fun.

1232
01:06:55,000 --> 01:06:57,400
Speaker 1: Once you have the timer, you know it does it like,

1233
01:06:57,520 --> 01:06:59,600
Speaker 1: lets you know when to switch up the where your

1234
01:06:59,600 --> 01:07:02,360
Speaker 1: brush takes the guesswork out of it takes takes the

1235
01:07:02,400 --> 01:07:05,880
Speaker 1: guesswork out of it. Um. Quip has a subscription plan

1236
01:07:06,120 --> 01:07:09,560
Speaker 1: and there it's specifically for your health, not just for convenience.

1237
01:07:09,760 --> 01:07:12,880
Speaker 1: They deliver new brush heads on a dentist recommended schedule,

1238
01:07:12,920 --> 01:07:16,120
Speaker 1: which I've always been terrible about buying new toothbrushes. Yeah,

1239
01:07:16,240 --> 01:07:18,120
Speaker 1: because like if you stop someone on the street that

1240
01:07:18,200 --> 01:07:20,720
Speaker 1: uses an electric toothbrush or just or even not, like

1241
01:07:20,720 --> 01:07:22,680
Speaker 1: how often do you change your choose brush? Most people

1242
01:07:22,680 --> 01:07:26,520
Speaker 1: would say when something starts growing on maybe when it

1243
01:07:26,960 --> 01:07:31,840
Speaker 1: when anyone said that, Okay, oh yeah, that's definitely when

1244
01:07:31,840 --> 01:07:35,680
Speaker 1: I change mine. Uh. But the Equip they send you

1245
01:07:35,880 --> 01:07:39,080
Speaker 1: new heads on a on a predetermined plan so you

1246
01:07:39,120 --> 01:07:41,160
Speaker 1: can keep your teeth as healthy as you as you

1247
01:07:41,200 --> 01:07:44,560
Speaker 1: need to. Yeah, every three months for just five dollars.

1248
01:07:44,640 --> 01:07:48,720
Speaker 1: And that's including free shipping worldwide. So Quip also comes

1249
01:07:48,720 --> 01:07:51,720
Speaker 1: with a mount that sections right into your right onto

1250
01:07:51,800 --> 01:07:54,400
Speaker 1: your mirror and it unsticks to use as a cover

1251
01:07:54,560 --> 01:07:56,520
Speaker 1: for hygienic travel, so you can put it in there

1252
01:07:56,520 --> 01:08:00,600
Speaker 1: once you travel. Um. It also comes with them um

1253
01:08:00,680 --> 01:08:04,200
Speaker 1: and cut that and finally UM, they were on Oprah's

1254
01:08:04,200 --> 01:08:07,080
Speaker 1: OH List. They were named one of times Best Inventions

1255
01:08:07,280 --> 01:08:11,400
Speaker 1: and it's the first subscription electric toothbrush accepted by the

1256
01:08:11,440 --> 01:08:16,760
Speaker 1: American Dental Association. That's the A d A. Those guys,

1257
01:08:16,760 --> 01:08:19,040
Speaker 1: don't you just certify anything. I mean, this is the

1258
01:08:19,080 --> 01:08:23,040
Speaker 1: only electric toothbrush you have accepted a very rigorous acceptance process.

1259
01:08:23,160 --> 01:08:26,040
Speaker 1: Quip has made it through yes, and they're backed by

1260
01:08:26,080 --> 01:08:29,439
Speaker 1: a network of over twenty thousand dentists and hygienis and

1261
01:08:29,520 --> 01:08:33,240
Speaker 1: hundreds of thousands of happy brushers that use EQUIP every day.

1262
01:08:33,439 --> 01:08:35,840
Speaker 1: Equip starts at just twenty five dollars. If you go

1263
01:08:35,880 --> 01:08:39,280
Speaker 1: to get equip dot com slash Becca right now, you'll

1264
01:08:39,280 --> 01:08:42,800
Speaker 1: get your first refill pack free with EQUIP Electric Toothbrush.

1265
01:08:43,080 --> 01:08:46,800
Speaker 1: That's your first refill pack free. I get equipped dot

1266
01:08:46,840 --> 01:08:51,080
Speaker 1: com slash Becca. That's spelled g E T q U

1267
01:08:51,320 --> 01:08:59,200
Speaker 1: I P dot com slash Becca. Honds good. That was beautiful.

1268
01:09:00,040 --> 01:09:03,719
Speaker 1: Tia might be out of a job. She fancies herself

1269
01:09:03,800 --> 01:09:07,080
Speaker 1: quite the singer, but you know, so does the email

1270
01:09:09,560 --> 01:09:14,160
Speaker 1: she does? She really um, she really puts it out there.

1271
01:09:14,479 --> 01:09:17,800
Speaker 1: She does. Uh. You know, before I worked to the

1272
01:09:17,840 --> 01:09:20,840
Speaker 1: radio station, I um sold Van's shoes and I worked

1273
01:09:20,840 --> 01:09:23,400
Speaker 1: in the mall, and I would sing very loudly at

1274
01:09:23,439 --> 01:09:26,200
Speaker 1: that job because I hated that job and I wanted

1275
01:09:26,240 --> 01:09:29,240
Speaker 1: to I wanted to die every day so hearing. Like

1276
01:09:29,240 --> 01:09:30,920
Speaker 1: whenever there would be a song that I liked on

1277
01:09:30,960 --> 01:09:33,559
Speaker 1: the loud speaker, I would jump up on the bench

1278
01:09:33,640 --> 01:09:35,240
Speaker 1: where people try on their shoes and I would sing

1279
01:09:35,280 --> 01:09:37,120
Speaker 1: along and I would usually dance, and I get people

1280
01:09:37,120 --> 01:09:39,559
Speaker 1: were excited, um, you know, And I didn't think that

1281
01:09:39,600 --> 01:09:41,160
Speaker 1: I would have that from anyone else. But then I

1282
01:09:41,200 --> 01:09:43,800
Speaker 1: started working here, and Tanya brings that to a whole

1283
01:09:43,800 --> 01:09:45,479
Speaker 1: new level and I feel so lucky to be around

1284
01:09:45,479 --> 01:09:47,559
Speaker 1: it every day. And y'all are literally I just had

1285
01:09:47,600 --> 01:09:50,600
Speaker 1: no idea how similar y'all are. It was. It was

1286
01:09:50,640 --> 01:09:53,559
Speaker 1: such a beautiful moment when it came, Like when I

1287
01:09:53,640 --> 01:09:57,200
Speaker 1: had that the Hillary Duff thing. Really just watching the

1288
01:09:57,280 --> 01:10:00,479
Speaker 1: videos after I posted on Facebook again, I was like, Wow,

1289
01:10:01,000 --> 01:10:08,479
Speaker 1: that's Donya in Easton's body. That was terribly exciting, all

1290
01:10:08,520 --> 01:10:12,960
Speaker 1: sing along like that, terribly excited, terribly exciting. Okay, so

1291
01:10:13,040 --> 01:10:15,720
Speaker 1: let's do one more one more email. All right, this

1292
01:10:15,760 --> 01:10:19,320
Speaker 1: is from Anonymous. These are always good, always good. Anonymous

1293
01:10:19,320 --> 01:10:22,120
Speaker 1: says they started a hinge profile. After hearing Becka mentioned

1294
01:10:22,160 --> 01:10:24,600
Speaker 1: it a few times, I had a few likes and

1295
01:10:24,680 --> 01:10:27,920
Speaker 1: conversations going, but nothing serious. I started noticing one guy

1296
01:10:27,920 --> 01:10:30,639
Speaker 1: in particular, and he initiated the conversation and kept it going.

1297
01:10:30,880 --> 01:10:33,479
Speaker 1: Everything was going well. We exchanged numbers and at each

1298
01:10:33,520 --> 01:10:35,840
Speaker 1: other on social media and talk about possibly hanging out

1299
01:10:35,880 --> 01:10:38,439
Speaker 1: on Saturday. Saturday comes and I don't hear from him

1300
01:10:38,439 --> 01:10:40,000
Speaker 1: at all. So I texted him a simple high and

1301
01:10:40,040 --> 01:10:42,760
Speaker 1: he replied, Hey, how's it going. That's it. I didn't

1302
01:10:42,760 --> 01:10:44,400
Speaker 1: even mention our possible hang out, and that was the

1303
01:10:44,479 --> 01:10:47,120
Speaker 1: last I heard from him. I really was impressed by him,

1304
01:10:47,120 --> 01:10:49,200
Speaker 1: so it's bugging me that I didn't even get a chance.

1305
01:10:49,360 --> 01:10:51,160
Speaker 1: He mentioned he would be in my in my town

1306
01:10:51,200 --> 01:10:54,360
Speaker 1: for a training soon, So my question is I texted him, Hey, hey,

1307
01:10:54,400 --> 01:10:56,080
Speaker 1: I know you'll be in town. We should grab drinks.

1308
01:10:57,640 --> 01:11:01,439
Speaker 1: M hm oh. I mean, just coming off of the

1309
01:11:01,479 --> 01:11:04,840
Speaker 1: advice from the guys that were here. It's like, if

1310
01:11:04,880 --> 01:11:08,760
Speaker 1: he wanted to get drinks, what do you I don't.

1311
01:11:08,840 --> 01:11:11,360
Speaker 1: I'm so torn because sometimes we get emails it's like,

1312
01:11:11,400 --> 01:11:13,519
Speaker 1: go for it, like I'm married. I did it and

1313
01:11:13,640 --> 01:11:16,400
Speaker 1: I'm married now. Yeah, but you gotta go for it

1314
01:11:16,960 --> 01:11:19,880
Speaker 1: when it's worth going for. I mean, I'm not. I'm

1315
01:11:19,920 --> 01:11:23,920
Speaker 1: just not very thrilled with this dude. And when you're

1316
01:11:24,000 --> 01:11:26,080
Speaker 1: at this point you have very little to go on.

1317
01:11:26,760 --> 01:11:32,360
Speaker 1: You should not be this like disappointed with his behavior.

1318
01:11:32,400 --> 01:11:34,719
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. Oh yeah, like he he hasn't

1319
01:11:34,720 --> 01:11:38,160
Speaker 1: earned your disappointment yet. Know exactly if you're talking about

1320
01:11:38,560 --> 01:11:40,200
Speaker 1: even if it was just like, hey, we should hang out,

1321
01:11:40,200 --> 01:11:42,600
Speaker 1: maybe we shouldn't he when he when he texts you,

1322
01:11:42,920 --> 01:11:45,280
Speaker 1: he should like say like, oh, hey, I'm sorry, something

1323
01:11:45,280 --> 01:11:46,400
Speaker 1: came up. I'm not gonna be able to you know,

1324
01:11:46,479 --> 01:11:49,160
Speaker 1: like at least references. We're just saying he's not he's

1325
01:11:49,200 --> 01:11:51,280
Speaker 1: not into it. I think he didn't want to. Um

1326
01:11:51,400 --> 01:11:53,120
Speaker 1: he didn't want to hang out. That's what I think. Yeah,

1327
01:11:53,920 --> 01:11:56,559
Speaker 1: I want to. This is the thing. And I had

1328
01:11:56,600 --> 01:12:00,120
Speaker 1: this conversation with Tania because she um it was one

1329
01:12:00,160 --> 01:12:02,760
Speaker 1: of the days like right after she and um dr

1330
01:12:03,000 --> 01:12:05,639
Speaker 1: W started talking, and it may have been after their

1331
01:12:05,640 --> 01:12:09,000
Speaker 1: first day, I can't remember, but she texted him first

1332
01:12:09,320 --> 01:12:12,000
Speaker 1: during the day. I don't know what happened. He had

1333
01:12:12,040 --> 01:12:14,200
Speaker 1: like a busy day or something, and she didn't really

1334
01:12:14,200 --> 01:12:17,400
Speaker 1: hear from all day. But it made her feel like

1335
01:12:17,800 --> 01:12:20,920
Speaker 1: disappointed and rejected, and I told her, I was like,

1336
01:12:20,960 --> 01:12:25,519
Speaker 1: would you have felt this disappointment if you hadn't texted him?

1337
01:12:25,560 --> 01:12:27,040
Speaker 1: Like if you were just waiting, you would be like

1338
01:12:27,080 --> 01:12:29,200
Speaker 1: waiting here from him. But you could be like, all right,

1339
01:12:30,080 --> 01:12:32,960
Speaker 1: he's busy whatever. You know, you could think of a reason.

1340
01:12:33,000 --> 01:12:35,040
Speaker 1: But I think once you put yourself out there and

1341
01:12:35,040 --> 01:12:38,320
Speaker 1: then you don't hear anything, it just opens the door

1342
01:12:38,360 --> 01:12:41,080
Speaker 1: to be disappointed. And I don't know if this guy

1343
01:12:41,160 --> 01:12:43,720
Speaker 1: is worth it. I mean it doesn't even sound like

1344
01:12:43,720 --> 01:12:46,280
Speaker 1: he lives in the same town. That's another thing. Yeah,

1345
01:12:46,720 --> 01:12:48,519
Speaker 1: I don't know. I would I would move on and

1346
01:12:48,520 --> 01:12:51,880
Speaker 1: find someone. I would be like Next. Next. Do you

1347
01:12:51,880 --> 01:12:57,760
Speaker 1: remember that show? Oh? Do I remember Next? It? I

1348
01:12:57,840 --> 01:13:00,519
Speaker 1: loved Next because every guy that was on that show,

1349
01:13:00,560 --> 01:13:03,240
Speaker 1: when they walk off the bus, they give two regular

1350
01:13:03,280 --> 01:13:06,280
Speaker 1: details and one wacky one, like it's like, what's up.

1351
01:13:06,320 --> 01:13:08,760
Speaker 1: I'm Jared. My favorite color is blue. I'm six ft

1352
01:13:08,800 --> 01:13:11,120
Speaker 1: two and I've never seen an episode of melrose Place.

1353
01:13:11,280 --> 01:13:15,240
Speaker 1: This is MTVS. Next. I loved that. I loved Next,

1354
01:13:15,240 --> 01:13:19,880
Speaker 1: I watched I loved Dismissed too. This was excellent. I

1355
01:13:19,920 --> 01:13:22,960
Speaker 1: also love PARENTO. Control was all that was the one

1356
01:13:22,960 --> 01:13:25,439
Speaker 1: where they went on a date and the there's hidden

1357
01:13:25,479 --> 01:13:30,240
Speaker 1: cameras and the parents of the girl we're watching, uh

1358
01:13:30,280 --> 01:13:33,160
Speaker 1: and like weighing in on the date as it was

1359
01:13:33,200 --> 01:13:36,760
Speaker 1: going along. Why don't we have any of these gems anymore?

1360
01:13:36,880 --> 01:13:38,800
Speaker 1: I know all we have is The Bachelor. That's all

1361
01:13:39,160 --> 01:13:42,280
Speaker 1: you know. The Bachelor is a staple. I gotta watch

1362
01:13:42,320 --> 01:13:47,320
Speaker 1: this week's episode. Um. Someone suggested we do like episodes

1363
01:13:47,400 --> 01:13:50,920
Speaker 1: where Tanya and I watched, or we all like put

1364
01:13:50,960 --> 01:13:54,519
Speaker 1: the my episodes of The Bachelor on the TV and

1365
01:13:54,560 --> 01:13:59,599
Speaker 1: we like like a commentary commentary. I love this idea. Okay,

1366
01:13:59,720 --> 01:14:03,559
Speaker 1: so full disclosure. I haven't seen much of The Bachelor

1367
01:14:03,640 --> 01:14:09,360
Speaker 1: until I started working closely with some of y'all, so

1368
01:14:09,520 --> 01:14:13,679
Speaker 1: I'm very into it now. But I didn't watch your season.

1369
01:14:13,760 --> 01:14:16,240
Speaker 1: I hadn't seen it, and I've been wanting to watch

1370
01:14:16,280 --> 01:14:19,120
Speaker 1: it because, my god, we should do this together. I

1371
01:14:19,120 --> 01:14:21,439
Speaker 1: think that would be a lot of fun. Because even Tanya,

1372
01:14:21,560 --> 01:14:24,479
Speaker 1: like I met her after ben season, so we didn't know,

1373
01:14:24,600 --> 01:14:27,679
Speaker 1: like we as she was watching it, she wasn't watching

1374
01:14:27,680 --> 01:14:31,920
Speaker 1: it knowing me and I actually watch it. My friends

1375
01:14:31,960 --> 01:14:34,200
Speaker 1: came over and they wanted to watch one episode, so

1376
01:14:34,240 --> 01:14:38,040
Speaker 1: we did, and it was so cringe. I hated every

1377
01:14:38,080 --> 01:14:40,240
Speaker 1: second of it. So I feel like it would be

1378
01:14:40,280 --> 01:14:42,720
Speaker 1: really fun to watch now that y'all know me and

1379
01:14:42,760 --> 01:14:46,559
Speaker 1: it was, you know, the how things are edited or whatever,

1380
01:14:47,120 --> 01:14:49,840
Speaker 1: how I look on the show. I would I would

1381
01:14:49,840 --> 01:14:51,679
Speaker 1: love this. I think we should make this happen. Okay,

1382
01:14:51,760 --> 01:14:54,720
Speaker 1: we'll have to pick like like a specific episode to

1383
01:14:54,880 --> 01:14:57,800
Speaker 1: like really be able to give extra like maybe a

1384
01:14:57,840 --> 01:15:01,519
Speaker 1: finale or something. Well, that's what you all have to

1385
01:15:01,560 --> 01:15:06,200
Speaker 1: look forward to. Thank you so much to Bowl and Branch,

1386
01:15:06,800 --> 01:15:15,040
Speaker 1: Quip and especially Lola. Yes, we had some great sponsors today,

1387
01:15:15,040 --> 01:15:20,599
Speaker 1: Thank you too, Tom, Guarry, Victor, Damadia, Patrick, Renna. That's

1388
01:15:20,600 --> 01:15:23,320
Speaker 1: how we know them. You know them as Smalls, Timmy Timmins,

1389
01:15:23,360 --> 01:15:25,800
Speaker 1: and Ham from the sand Lot. That's right. We be

1390
01:15:25,840 --> 01:15:27,200
Speaker 1: able to say that we hung out with the guys

1391
01:15:27,200 --> 01:15:29,599
Speaker 1: from the sam still, like I have to pinch myself.

1392
01:15:29,640 --> 01:15:31,880
Speaker 1: That's so cool. It's so cool. I can't wait to

1393
01:15:32,000 --> 01:15:34,519
Speaker 1: show my I can't wait for my nephews to watch

1394
01:15:34,680 --> 01:15:37,080
Speaker 1: the movie and then to be able to tell them

1395
01:15:37,160 --> 01:15:40,639
Speaker 1: like I met them, those are my friends. They gave

1396
01:15:40,720 --> 01:15:44,559
Speaker 1: dating advice today. I would consider them friends. I feel

1397
01:15:44,600 --> 01:15:47,639
Speaker 1: like we're friends. Yeah, yeah, I know. I touched them

1398
01:15:47,640 --> 01:15:49,320
Speaker 1: a lot. I took your hand a couple of times,

1399
01:15:49,320 --> 01:15:53,719
Speaker 1: and that's how I fig your friends, you know, touch them.

1400
01:15:54,280 --> 01:15:56,599
Speaker 1: What did you say to the guy in the record store, Really,

1401
01:15:57,080 --> 01:16:01,400
Speaker 1: that's what I said a lot. I said, what do

1402
01:16:01,400 --> 01:16:03,800
Speaker 1: you think of street prowl? And he said it's fine

1403
01:16:03,840 --> 01:16:06,320
Speaker 1: and he turned it back to me and I said, uh,

1404
01:16:07,200 --> 01:16:09,280
Speaker 1: it's like okay, and like I like it too, and

1405
01:16:09,280 --> 01:16:12,519
Speaker 1: they just didn't say anything back. He makes me so

1406
01:16:12,560 --> 01:16:14,519
Speaker 1: sad thinking to be like looking down at the records

1407
01:16:14,560 --> 01:16:18,800
Speaker 1: being like I like it too. All right, it was yeah,

1408
01:16:18,880 --> 01:16:22,360
Speaker 1: that was that was rough. Oh, let's not ever talk

1409
01:16:22,400 --> 01:16:28,000
Speaker 1: about it. So dad, Um, thank you Easton, thanks for

1410
01:16:28,240 --> 01:16:30,679
Speaker 1: I mean, you held it down. We held it down. Yeah,

1411
01:16:30,680 --> 01:16:33,120
Speaker 1: we were. We really nailed this. Thanks Mark and Tony.

1412
01:16:33,280 --> 01:16:37,599
Speaker 1: We love y'all, but you know, we what we needed

1413
01:16:37,600 --> 01:16:40,880
Speaker 1: to do Without you, the show goes on. I'm just kidding,

1414
01:16:41,040 --> 01:16:44,320
Speaker 1: come back soon. We love everyone. Thank you for listening.

1415
01:16:44,439 --> 01:16:48,240
Speaker 1: Please continue to send an emails um scrubbing in at

1416
01:16:48,240 --> 01:16:51,040
Speaker 1: iHeart media dot com. We get a lot of messages

1417
01:16:51,080 --> 01:16:53,400
Speaker 1: about what the email is, so once again that's scrubbing

1418
01:16:53,400 --> 01:16:56,400
Speaker 1: in at I heeart media dot com. Keep commenting on

1419
01:16:56,400 --> 01:17:00,760
Speaker 1: the Facebook group. Um, I saw there were some meetups happening,

1420
01:17:00,880 --> 01:17:05,200
Speaker 1: so have fun. Yeah, there was right up in Philly, Billy. Yeah.

1421
01:17:05,439 --> 01:17:08,040
Speaker 1: So I haven't been on Facebook since two thousand and eleven,

1422
01:17:08,040 --> 01:17:11,000
Speaker 1: but my wife Allison is very active on there and

1423
01:17:11,040 --> 01:17:13,880
Speaker 1: she loves the Facebook group, and I wanted everyone on

1424
01:17:14,000 --> 01:17:15,720
Speaker 1: there has been very nice to her, and I wanted

1425
01:17:15,720 --> 01:17:18,280
Speaker 1: to thank everybody for for being so kind. Um. I

1426
01:17:18,320 --> 01:17:20,040
Speaker 1: would just like to say that Allison is in the

1427
01:17:20,080 --> 01:17:24,200
Speaker 1: building today and she is so freaking adorable. And when

1428
01:17:24,240 --> 01:17:27,160
Speaker 1: I walked in, I was like, I know her, but

1429
01:17:27,240 --> 01:17:29,760
Speaker 1: I couldn't like figure out like when I first saw

1430
01:17:29,800 --> 01:17:33,040
Speaker 1: her face and I know her. So yeah, everyone loves you.

1431
01:17:33,240 --> 01:17:36,840
Speaker 1: Everyone loves both of you. Everyone loves Allison. Did Alison

1432
01:17:36,920 --> 01:17:40,639
Speaker 1: love the Hillary Duff performance? She did? Didn't. Allison came

1433
01:17:40,640 --> 01:17:41,920
Speaker 1: with me to work today. She had the day off

1434
01:17:41,920 --> 01:17:43,760
Speaker 1: for it, so she's sitting in the back room and

1435
01:17:44,040 --> 01:17:45,840
Speaker 1: she loved it. She said she loved it. She said

1436
01:17:46,120 --> 01:17:47,960
Speaker 1: Easton sings a lot, but that was some of his

1437
01:17:48,040 --> 01:17:51,479
Speaker 1: best performances I've ever heard. That's exactly what she said, right,

1438
01:17:51,760 --> 01:17:55,720
Speaker 1: that's right. You can't say anything back. You have no microphone.

1439
01:17:55,920 --> 01:18:00,000
Speaker 1: She's nodding her head smiling. I think she's agree. Shall

1440
01:18:00,360 --> 01:18:05,639
Speaker 1: shall we call time of death? Yes, it's such a time.

1441
01:18:06,200 --> 01:18:14,400
Speaker 1: It really is eleven. Oh no, no, it was so

1442
01:18:14,479 --> 01:18:15,840
Speaker 1: bad when I was like on the