1 00:00:01,760 --> 00:00:04,840 Speaker 1: Welcome to Naked Sports, the podcast where we live at 2 00:00:04,840 --> 00:00:09,760 Speaker 1: the intersection of sports, politics, and culture. Our purpose reveal 3 00:00:09,840 --> 00:00:11,680 Speaker 1: the common threads that bind them all. 4 00:00:12,240 --> 00:00:15,640 Speaker 2: So what's happening in women's basketball right now is what 5 00:00:15,680 --> 00:00:19,040 Speaker 2: we've been trying to get to for almost thirty years. 6 00:00:19,079 --> 00:00:22,240 Speaker 1: From the stadiums where athlete to break barriers and set records. 7 00:00:22,640 --> 00:00:26,000 Speaker 3: Caitlin Quark broke the all time single game assists record. 8 00:00:26,200 --> 00:00:28,080 Speaker 2: This is crazy for rookies to be doing. 9 00:00:28,440 --> 00:00:32,000 Speaker 1: Our discussions will uncover the vital connections between these realms 10 00:00:32,320 --> 00:00:36,280 Speaker 1: and the community we create. Welcome to Naked Sports. I'm 11 00:00:36,320 --> 00:00:41,919 Speaker 1: your host, Carrie Champion. Hey everyone, So on today's podcast 12 00:00:41,960 --> 00:00:47,199 Speaker 1: we have the lovely, the extraordinary, multi talented Jane Kennedy. 13 00:00:48,040 --> 00:00:52,479 Speaker 1: This one, for me was highly emotional. Jane Kennedy was 14 00:00:52,520 --> 00:00:56,040 Speaker 1: the very first black woman I saw on television doing sports. 15 00:00:56,320 --> 00:01:02,040 Speaker 1: She was a first in many ways, an actress, she 16 00:01:02,440 --> 00:01:05,279 Speaker 1: was an entrepreneur in ways in which we had never 17 00:01:05,319 --> 00:01:09,560 Speaker 1: seen black women be put in spaces in that way. 18 00:01:10,080 --> 00:01:13,600 Speaker 1: I had the wonderful experience of being on a panel 19 00:01:13,640 --> 00:01:15,880 Speaker 1: with her during the All Star weekend. 20 00:01:16,600 --> 00:01:17,759 Speaker 3: And when I. 21 00:01:17,720 --> 00:01:21,680 Speaker 1: Tell you, I could turn to someone I've admired over 22 00:01:21,720 --> 00:01:24,120 Speaker 1: the years only from afar and say thank you for 23 00:01:24,160 --> 00:01:27,840 Speaker 1: what you've done. In fact, if it wasn't for you, 24 00:01:27,920 --> 00:01:29,679 Speaker 1: I don't know how far that I could have gone 25 00:01:29,720 --> 00:01:30,400 Speaker 1: in my career. 26 00:01:30,520 --> 00:01:31,160 Speaker 2: So thank you. 27 00:01:31,640 --> 00:01:34,840 Speaker 1: She recently wrote a book. It's called Plain Jane. Please 28 00:01:34,880 --> 00:01:38,319 Speaker 1: go out and get it. This book is fascinating. It 29 00:01:38,400 --> 00:01:42,480 Speaker 1: tells her story. She is in control of her narrative 30 00:01:43,120 --> 00:01:47,520 Speaker 1: and it's very, very emotionally touching, but it's also very inspiring. 31 00:01:47,880 --> 00:01:49,440 Speaker 3: I hope you enjoy this interview. 32 00:01:49,520 --> 00:01:53,000 Speaker 1: And for my ladies who want to be more than 33 00:01:53,040 --> 00:01:54,880 Speaker 1: what they are right now, or who feel like they 34 00:01:54,920 --> 00:02:01,680 Speaker 1: can't do more, she is a perfect reminder that it's 35 00:02:01,720 --> 00:02:04,800 Speaker 1: not over. There's still more time, there are there still 36 00:02:04,800 --> 00:02:06,880 Speaker 1: more things for you to do. So I hope you 37 00:02:07,000 --> 00:02:12,320 Speaker 1: enjoy my conversation with Jane Kennedy. Welcome to Naked Sports, y'all. 38 00:02:13,120 --> 00:02:14,959 Speaker 1: It goes without saying, and I told you this when 39 00:02:14,960 --> 00:02:17,400 Speaker 1: I met you. I was just very effusive with praise 40 00:02:18,040 --> 00:02:21,600 Speaker 1: reading your book even more so, and I almost feel 41 00:02:21,639 --> 00:02:25,480 Speaker 1: like it's never too late, just obviously to honor our heroes, 42 00:02:25,680 --> 00:02:28,000 Speaker 1: and in your case, this is just an honor for me. 43 00:02:28,360 --> 00:02:31,920 Speaker 2: Thank you very much. I really appreciated. Thank you, especially 44 00:02:31,960 --> 00:02:34,680 Speaker 2: coming from you. You know, you and Jamil are my 45 00:02:34,760 --> 00:02:38,400 Speaker 2: heroes so many people, you know, and I'm watching with 46 00:02:38,600 --> 00:02:42,000 Speaker 2: such pride watching you know you girls. I feel like 47 00:02:42,040 --> 00:02:44,919 Speaker 2: a mother birthday there children and watching them grow up. 48 00:02:45,240 --> 00:02:47,880 Speaker 2: And so now I guess I'm into grandmother phase right now. 49 00:02:48,320 --> 00:02:48,639 Speaker 3: No. 50 00:02:48,639 --> 00:02:51,960 Speaker 1: No, you definitely you definitely paved the way. I think 51 00:02:52,000 --> 00:02:54,560 Speaker 1: that every image that we have of you. I'll just 52 00:02:54,600 --> 00:02:57,120 Speaker 1: share this story. The first time that I really had 53 00:02:57,120 --> 00:02:59,680 Speaker 1: a moment to interact with you was at the Essence 54 00:03:00,040 --> 00:03:04,200 Speaker 1: Women in Hollywood of It some three years ago. A 55 00:03:04,320 --> 00:03:07,040 Speaker 1: couple yeah and you and you walked up to me 56 00:03:07,160 --> 00:03:08,960 Speaker 1: and you say, oh, I know you, and it just 57 00:03:09,000 --> 00:03:09,600 Speaker 1: made my day. 58 00:03:09,760 --> 00:03:13,160 Speaker 3: And I want you to know. Just those words and 59 00:03:13,240 --> 00:03:14,560 Speaker 3: it doesn't have to be much more. 60 00:03:14,720 --> 00:03:17,160 Speaker 1: Just those words solidify the work that you've done and 61 00:03:17,200 --> 00:03:20,720 Speaker 1: the work that we've done, and it does it does matter. 62 00:03:20,800 --> 00:03:23,680 Speaker 1: It does matter to hear it from people that you see, 63 00:03:23,919 --> 00:03:25,799 Speaker 1: that you see and say, oh, it's possible. 64 00:03:25,960 --> 00:03:28,480 Speaker 3: And for me, that's what that was. When I would 65 00:03:28,480 --> 00:03:28,840 Speaker 3: see you. 66 00:03:28,800 --> 00:03:31,320 Speaker 1: On television, I would think, it's so possible, and could 67 00:03:31,320 --> 00:03:33,200 Speaker 1: I ever be that pretty? And could I ever be 68 00:03:33,320 --> 00:03:35,440 Speaker 1: that eloquent? And could I you know, all of these 69 00:03:35,480 --> 00:03:38,240 Speaker 1: things that you think about yourself when there's so few 70 00:03:38,280 --> 00:03:41,720 Speaker 1: images of little brown and black girls. Your book starts 71 00:03:41,720 --> 00:03:44,680 Speaker 1: off saying plain Jane, and I remember thinking, as the 72 00:03:44,720 --> 00:03:47,360 Speaker 1: title of it, I thought, well, She's anything but plain. 73 00:03:47,520 --> 00:03:49,480 Speaker 1: But can you tell me why that was your title? 74 00:03:49,560 --> 00:03:51,240 Speaker 1: I know there was significance behind that. 75 00:03:52,280 --> 00:03:55,160 Speaker 2: There was because I've always seen myself as just the 76 00:03:55,160 --> 00:03:59,480 Speaker 2: girl next door, you know, even though at my pinnacle 77 00:03:59,560 --> 00:04:02,840 Speaker 2: in Holly would and I'm not going to say pinnacle 78 00:04:02,840 --> 00:04:05,880 Speaker 2: because I'm still looking for that pinnacle. That's right, that's right, 79 00:04:06,800 --> 00:04:09,920 Speaker 2: at the last level of achievement. I'll leave it at that, 80 00:04:10,800 --> 00:04:13,320 Speaker 2: but you know I'm still looking at you know, what 81 00:04:13,360 --> 00:04:16,440 Speaker 2: can I do next? But I've always been the girl 82 00:04:16,600 --> 00:04:21,719 Speaker 2: next door. I was a tomboy. I remember when my 83 00:04:21,800 --> 00:04:25,440 Speaker 2: mom entered me in the Miss Cleveland pageant that led 84 00:04:25,480 --> 00:04:28,440 Speaker 2: into the Miss Ohio pageant. So it wasn't something that 85 00:04:28,520 --> 00:04:31,200 Speaker 2: I had chosen, but she entered me in and the 86 00:04:31,279 --> 00:04:33,960 Speaker 2: guy said to me, the owner of the dealership, after 87 00:04:34,000 --> 00:04:35,880 Speaker 2: I had won, he said, you know, you could go 88 00:04:35,880 --> 00:04:37,920 Speaker 2: all the way if you get rid of those tomboy knees. 89 00:04:40,200 --> 00:04:42,560 Speaker 3: What are tomboy knees? Exactly? 90 00:04:43,480 --> 00:04:47,200 Speaker 2: Oh, my gosh, I would wit did stunts. Our street 91 00:04:47,279 --> 00:04:48,920 Speaker 2: was a dead end street and it was had a 92 00:04:48,920 --> 00:04:51,880 Speaker 2: little slut to it. So we would sell tickets. Everybody 93 00:04:52,000 --> 00:04:54,400 Speaker 2: have to pay a quarter to come and watch our show. 94 00:04:54,440 --> 00:04:57,040 Speaker 2: And we would practice, of course, preparing for the show. 95 00:04:57,480 --> 00:04:59,400 Speaker 2: So my stunt was that I would get to the 96 00:04:59,440 --> 00:05:01,880 Speaker 2: end of the street, paddle as fast as I can, 97 00:05:02,440 --> 00:05:07,039 Speaker 2: and then stand up on the back of the you 98 00:05:07,080 --> 00:05:10,640 Speaker 2: know they had the little carrier with this right right so, 99 00:05:11,360 --> 00:05:14,520 Speaker 2: and stand up on the back, put my head down 100 00:05:14,600 --> 00:05:17,720 Speaker 2: on the seat and stand on my head going there, 101 00:05:18,160 --> 00:05:20,839 Speaker 2: going down the road. Wow, achieved at once. 102 00:05:23,920 --> 00:05:26,159 Speaker 3: The things we're so fearless when we're kids. 103 00:05:26,200 --> 00:05:28,960 Speaker 1: Now you're like, never, I would never do many things happening, 104 00:05:29,279 --> 00:05:30,680 Speaker 1: Well I will. 105 00:05:30,760 --> 00:05:34,039 Speaker 2: That's just me plain, Jane. You know, I knew in 106 00:05:34,080 --> 00:05:36,920 Speaker 2: Hollywood that I was going to have to reshape an image, 107 00:05:36,960 --> 00:05:39,920 Speaker 2: but I never wanted to leave the essence of who 108 00:05:39,960 --> 00:05:41,599 Speaker 2: I was that my parents raised me to be. 109 00:05:42,520 --> 00:05:44,080 Speaker 1: When you were told you can go all the way 110 00:05:44,120 --> 00:05:46,960 Speaker 1: and then you ultimately win, miss Ohio, what are you 111 00:05:47,200 --> 00:05:49,640 Speaker 1: thinking at that moment? Are you still feeling out of place, 112 00:05:49,680 --> 00:05:52,400 Speaker 1: are you still feeling very are you still feeling like yourself? 113 00:05:52,600 --> 00:05:56,159 Speaker 2: Like playing j the night of the Miss Ohio pageant. 114 00:05:56,920 --> 00:05:59,120 Speaker 2: It was at the local mall that I used to 115 00:05:59,120 --> 00:06:02,360 Speaker 2: work in. I was a model for May Company Fashion 116 00:06:02,400 --> 00:06:09,359 Speaker 2: Department and they had I think maybe five counties and 117 00:06:09,440 --> 00:06:12,320 Speaker 2: all the local high schools would have a representative to 118 00:06:12,480 --> 00:06:15,920 Speaker 2: the May Company eighteen fashion board. So I remember being 119 00:06:15,960 --> 00:06:19,080 Speaker 2: there so and I'm going up you know, every Saturday, 120 00:06:19,400 --> 00:06:22,760 Speaker 2: and back then stores weren't open on Sundays. It was 121 00:06:22,760 --> 00:06:24,960 Speaker 2: a blue law. So I mean, you know, I'm really 122 00:06:24,960 --> 00:06:27,640 Speaker 2: aging myself when I say that, but you know, this 123 00:06:27,720 --> 00:06:30,040 Speaker 2: is this is who I was. So you know, I 124 00:06:30,920 --> 00:06:37,640 Speaker 2: saw that I had the opportunity to do the the 125 00:06:38,080 --> 00:06:45,080 Speaker 2: the Miss Ohio tryout. I'm sorry, Yeah, seventy seventy four 126 00:06:45,200 --> 00:06:46,520 Speaker 2: is not fun when you forget stiff. 127 00:06:47,360 --> 00:06:51,520 Speaker 3: Wait, do trust me, I have zero memory, so it's fine, yes. 128 00:06:52,160 --> 00:06:54,599 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, But you know, I just I just 129 00:06:54,680 --> 00:06:58,000 Speaker 2: always thought that I could do something in that area. 130 00:06:58,120 --> 00:07:01,560 Speaker 2: I thought I could do something in basketball. I ended 131 00:07:01,640 --> 00:07:05,599 Speaker 2: up forming my own basketball team pre title ninth and 132 00:07:06,160 --> 00:07:08,560 Speaker 2: we would play each other and I always had the 133 00:07:08,640 --> 00:07:11,960 Speaker 2: championship teams. I was always an eager person to do 134 00:07:12,080 --> 00:07:13,000 Speaker 2: the best that I could. 135 00:07:13,840 --> 00:07:16,920 Speaker 1: It's interesting when you think about all the things, and 136 00:07:16,960 --> 00:07:20,240 Speaker 1: you need a book for that very reason, to document 137 00:07:20,520 --> 00:07:24,080 Speaker 1: your story so that you control the narrative. You were 138 00:07:24,240 --> 00:07:27,080 Speaker 1: a first in so many ways, and quite frankly, I 139 00:07:27,160 --> 00:07:29,760 Speaker 1: don't know of and even if we left in a 140 00:07:29,800 --> 00:07:33,960 Speaker 1: sports category, I can't think of a sports reporter to date, black, brown, 141 00:07:34,040 --> 00:07:35,200 Speaker 1: or white that has done. 142 00:07:35,080 --> 00:07:38,120 Speaker 3: What you were able to do when you were. 143 00:07:39,440 --> 00:07:43,040 Speaker 1: An actress, a model, a sports broadcaster, the first to 144 00:07:43,080 --> 00:07:46,480 Speaker 1: do NFL today, like I can't think of anybody who 145 00:07:46,880 --> 00:07:49,720 Speaker 1: has done what you have already accomplished. So to hear 146 00:07:49,800 --> 00:07:54,560 Speaker 1: you consider yourself playing Jane, that's that's refreshing but also 147 00:07:54,760 --> 00:07:59,200 Speaker 1: very remarkable to me. So on once you win Miss Ohio, 148 00:07:59,360 --> 00:08:01,560 Speaker 1: was Hollywood waiting for you? How did you make that 149 00:08:01,600 --> 00:08:05,800 Speaker 1: transition from the Midwest to out west in Hollywood? 150 00:08:07,120 --> 00:08:09,560 Speaker 2: Hope that because I wanted to also thank you for 151 00:08:09,640 --> 00:08:13,200 Speaker 2: acknowledging that it was something that you know, it's. 152 00:08:12,920 --> 00:08:15,119 Speaker 3: Never been done before, that never been done before. 153 00:08:15,160 --> 00:08:17,760 Speaker 1: It's never been done before, and it's and so when 154 00:08:17,760 --> 00:08:20,200 Speaker 1: you say you're at your pinnacle, you were at your pinnacle, 155 00:08:20,240 --> 00:08:23,119 Speaker 1: and you said there's still more. There is so much more. 156 00:08:23,240 --> 00:08:27,000 Speaker 1: I see so much more. Everyone now is very interested 157 00:08:27,080 --> 00:08:30,160 Speaker 1: in obviously learning your history so that you know what 158 00:08:30,240 --> 00:08:32,800 Speaker 1: could be accomplished, as opposed to just being so caught 159 00:08:32,880 --> 00:08:35,520 Speaker 1: up in the quick of it all that you are 160 00:08:35,600 --> 00:08:37,720 Speaker 1: showing us what There's still so much more to do. 161 00:08:37,920 --> 00:08:39,320 Speaker 3: There's still so much more to do. 162 00:08:39,640 --> 00:08:42,360 Speaker 2: But for me, it was necessity. It was all out 163 00:08:42,360 --> 00:08:45,280 Speaker 2: of necessity because if you're a black actress and you're 164 00:08:45,280 --> 00:08:48,120 Speaker 2: in Hollywood in the nineteen seventies, you don't get very 165 00:08:48,120 --> 00:08:51,480 Speaker 2: many opportunities to work. So, yes, I was a singer, 166 00:08:51,760 --> 00:08:54,199 Speaker 2: Yes I was a dancer. Yes I traveled around the 167 00:08:54,240 --> 00:08:57,760 Speaker 2: world with Bob Hope. Yes, I would do all kinds 168 00:08:57,760 --> 00:09:00,240 Speaker 2: of different things, you know. I. And then when the 169 00:09:00,280 --> 00:09:03,960 Speaker 2: idea to do sports braskets broadcasting came along, that was 170 00:09:04,040 --> 00:09:06,640 Speaker 2: totally new. But I knew that I could do it, 171 00:09:06,920 --> 00:09:09,520 Speaker 2: and there wasn't anybody telling me, but you're an actress, 172 00:09:09,559 --> 00:09:12,200 Speaker 2: you can't do that, Because in my heart, I said, 173 00:09:12,320 --> 00:09:15,120 Speaker 2: I know I can do this, because whatever I put 174 00:09:15,200 --> 00:09:18,320 Speaker 2: my mind to, I can find a way to achieve that. 175 00:09:19,760 --> 00:09:23,000 Speaker 1: But okay, so you did these things out of necessity 176 00:09:23,040 --> 00:09:25,160 Speaker 1: because there wasn't going to be much work for you 177 00:09:25,240 --> 00:09:27,800 Speaker 1: when it came to acting and or singing and or 178 00:09:27,920 --> 00:09:30,359 Speaker 1: modeling as a black woman in Hollywood. 179 00:09:31,040 --> 00:09:34,559 Speaker 2: Correct, Because maybe I was blessed that I did get 180 00:09:34,559 --> 00:09:38,160 Speaker 2: a lot of jobs, but none were guarantees, you know, 181 00:09:38,280 --> 00:09:40,520 Speaker 2: like I was the one. It wasn't because I went 182 00:09:40,559 --> 00:09:43,840 Speaker 2: to an audition that my agent sent me to. It 183 00:09:43,960 --> 00:09:46,679 Speaker 2: was because I knew somebody who knew somebody who knew somebody, 184 00:09:47,000 --> 00:09:50,280 Speaker 2: and you make those connections and then you end up 185 00:09:50,400 --> 00:09:53,400 Speaker 2: working in an area that you're totally unfamiliar with and 186 00:09:53,440 --> 00:09:55,880 Speaker 2: you go home and you learn it, you know. And 187 00:09:55,960 --> 00:10:01,440 Speaker 2: that was my career because we didn't have opportunity. There 188 00:10:01,480 --> 00:10:05,000 Speaker 2: weren't very many black actresses working at that time. I 189 00:10:05,160 --> 00:10:07,880 Speaker 2: was blessed to be able to work along with Marla 190 00:10:07,880 --> 00:10:11,240 Speaker 2: Gibbs who was working at that time, Diane Carroll who 191 00:10:11,320 --> 00:10:14,320 Speaker 2: was working at that time. I was in the movie 192 00:10:15,080 --> 00:10:18,840 Speaker 2: with Diana Ross, with Billy d Williams, and I'm so 193 00:10:18,960 --> 00:10:21,800 Speaker 2: excited and I go, you know, I'm playing Billy's first 194 00:10:21,800 --> 00:10:26,320 Speaker 2: girlfriend when he finally meets her, and the scene where 195 00:10:26,360 --> 00:10:29,760 Speaker 2: she slides down the wall as she sees this gorgeous 196 00:10:29,800 --> 00:10:33,959 Speaker 2: man walking into the club. You know, I had all 197 00:10:34,000 --> 00:10:38,160 Speaker 2: of these scenes and I'm sitting at the watching the 198 00:10:38,400 --> 00:10:40,560 Speaker 2: you know, the release of it, and I'm saying, where 199 00:10:40,600 --> 00:10:44,880 Speaker 2: am I. I'm just totally out of the movie. Except 200 00:10:45,120 --> 00:10:47,480 Speaker 2: the scene where we walk into the nightclub. You see 201 00:10:47,520 --> 00:10:51,200 Speaker 2: me for a hot second, and then it focuses on 202 00:10:51,280 --> 00:10:56,080 Speaker 2: Billy D. And that's what Motown wanted. They wanted everybody 203 00:10:56,120 --> 00:11:00,800 Speaker 2: in America to see Billy D the same way Diana did, 204 00:11:01,200 --> 00:11:04,120 Speaker 2: and when she melted and fell down the wall, all 205 00:11:04,160 --> 00:11:08,760 Speaker 2: of America melted it down their walls as well, including me. So, 206 00:11:08,920 --> 00:11:10,680 Speaker 2: you know, I went up to Bury because he was 207 00:11:10,720 --> 00:11:12,800 Speaker 2: my friend. I went up to Barry and I said, 208 00:11:13,040 --> 00:11:17,000 Speaker 2: you were one hundred percent right, So you know, there's 209 00:11:17,200 --> 00:11:23,640 Speaker 2: you know, I just I've done everything, you know, and 210 00:11:23,800 --> 00:11:27,319 Speaker 2: I was very proud of my ability to adapt. And 211 00:11:28,120 --> 00:11:32,160 Speaker 2: it didn't hurt that you knew contexts. Sammy Davis Junior 212 00:11:32,280 --> 00:11:35,760 Speaker 2: was a huge supporter. So how do you meet Sammy 213 00:11:35,800 --> 00:11:38,719 Speaker 2: Davis Junior? You say, you know, I was on I 214 00:11:38,760 --> 00:11:41,680 Speaker 2: was on Rowan and Martin's Laughin and Sammy was one 215 00:11:41,679 --> 00:11:46,079 Speaker 2: of the performers, one of the talent, main talent, and 216 00:11:46,360 --> 00:11:48,760 Speaker 2: Leanna and I became good friends with him and we 217 00:11:48,800 --> 00:11:52,120 Speaker 2: would go to Sunday dinners and Friday night movies all 218 00:11:52,160 --> 00:11:55,559 Speaker 2: the time where he would introduce us to industry executives, 219 00:11:56,600 --> 00:11:59,400 Speaker 2: and that's how we made the connections. It wasn't about 220 00:11:59,679 --> 00:12:00,720 Speaker 2: going to an audition. 221 00:12:01,840 --> 00:12:07,440 Speaker 1: I think it's interesting how Hollywood, they say doesn't change. 222 00:12:07,480 --> 00:12:11,679 Speaker 1: But it feels very like a very intimate, small black community. 223 00:12:12,960 --> 00:12:16,240 Speaker 1: And for you, it's not unusual for people in front 224 00:12:16,280 --> 00:12:17,920 Speaker 1: of the camera to meet other people who are in 225 00:12:17,920 --> 00:12:21,760 Speaker 1: front of the camera, but for them to become friends. 226 00:12:22,400 --> 00:12:24,520 Speaker 1: Was it because there were so few of you in 227 00:12:24,559 --> 00:12:28,720 Speaker 1: that space, because it doesn't feel that as friendly. Now 228 00:12:28,920 --> 00:12:31,439 Speaker 1: it's friendly, and you do meet these people, but there's 229 00:12:31,440 --> 00:12:35,319 Speaker 1: definitely a separation between church and state. If you are 230 00:12:35,360 --> 00:12:38,240 Speaker 1: a broadcaster, you're not an actress, you're not a model. 231 00:12:38,320 --> 00:12:40,800 Speaker 1: You may be able to be an influencer in a capacity, 232 00:12:41,160 --> 00:12:45,520 Speaker 1: but how did you how did how were these bonds formed? 233 00:12:45,559 --> 00:12:49,160 Speaker 1: You talk of being friends with some legends, and it 234 00:12:49,200 --> 00:12:51,760 Speaker 1: feels very casual, and I wonder. 235 00:12:51,520 --> 00:12:52,360 Speaker 3: How that happened. 236 00:12:54,360 --> 00:12:58,760 Speaker 2: You're absolutely correct that there were not many opportunities for 237 00:12:58,880 --> 00:13:04,920 Speaker 2: anyone and we were very close friends. And I speak 238 00:13:04,920 --> 00:13:07,800 Speaker 2: of it like a small community because it was, you know, 239 00:13:07,840 --> 00:13:10,840 Speaker 2: I could probably in my book, I've gone through the 240 00:13:11,480 --> 00:13:15,320 Speaker 2: near the very end, I've named all the amazing black 241 00:13:15,360 --> 00:13:20,000 Speaker 2: actresses that I worked with in the seventies that maybe 242 00:13:20,040 --> 00:13:22,600 Speaker 2: didn't have the chance to make the big the big 243 00:13:22,679 --> 00:13:25,760 Speaker 2: change that created their career and made it, you know, 244 00:13:26,320 --> 00:13:28,800 Speaker 2: made them a legend. And I just say say their 245 00:13:28,880 --> 00:13:32,199 Speaker 2: names because they should be acknowledged as well. These are 246 00:13:32,240 --> 00:13:35,280 Speaker 2: all people that were my friends. Yes, we would party together, 247 00:13:35,640 --> 00:13:37,760 Speaker 2: but there was also the day or the day you 248 00:13:37,760 --> 00:13:42,160 Speaker 2: would walk into casting and you told your friend, well, 249 00:13:42,280 --> 00:13:44,880 Speaker 2: I'm just going to walk around the block, and you 250 00:13:44,920 --> 00:13:46,959 Speaker 2: show up at the casting meeting and you get there 251 00:13:47,360 --> 00:13:51,480 Speaker 2: and your partner and your friend is at the same 252 00:13:51,559 --> 00:13:54,760 Speaker 2: casting meeting because they didn't tell you either, because you know, 253 00:13:55,320 --> 00:13:58,680 Speaker 2: it's only one chance. So first guess the job the 254 00:13:58,720 --> 00:13:59,960 Speaker 2: other person doesn't have that. 255 00:14:00,160 --> 00:14:01,960 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's oh, that still happens, Jane. 256 00:14:02,120 --> 00:14:03,800 Speaker 1: Then you'll talk about, oh, I'm up for a job 257 00:14:03,840 --> 00:14:05,320 Speaker 1: and the person you're on the phone with is up 258 00:14:05,320 --> 00:14:07,080 Speaker 1: for the same job and they don't tell you, and 259 00:14:07,120 --> 00:14:09,360 Speaker 1: that still happens. You just it just does, because it 260 00:14:09,559 --> 00:14:11,520 Speaker 1: just it's so few spaces for us. 261 00:14:11,559 --> 00:14:11,880 Speaker 3: Still. 262 00:14:13,080 --> 00:14:16,000 Speaker 2: If you're looking at few spaces today, you can imagine 263 00:14:16,000 --> 00:14:19,520 Speaker 2: how few those opportunities were in the seventies and eighties. 264 00:14:20,240 --> 00:14:22,360 Speaker 1: You mentioned you talked about Lady Sings the Blues and 265 00:14:22,400 --> 00:14:25,680 Speaker 1: everyone's reaction to Billy d Williams my mom's boyfriend. Everybody's well, 266 00:14:25,720 --> 00:14:27,960 Speaker 1: he was my boyfriend, and I'm the kid. I was like, 267 00:14:28,200 --> 00:14:30,400 Speaker 1: I'm twelve. I like you man, you know, but you 268 00:14:30,920 --> 00:14:33,160 Speaker 1: literally he was just such a beautiful man. But he 269 00:14:33,280 --> 00:14:36,720 Speaker 1: had that reaction he gave. Everyone had that reaction to him, 270 00:14:36,800 --> 00:14:39,160 Speaker 1: as we did to you. I was looking at some 271 00:14:39,200 --> 00:14:43,160 Speaker 1: of the archives and I remember just sleeping through some 272 00:14:43,200 --> 00:14:46,440 Speaker 1: of the films that you were in wonder Woman. I mean, 273 00:14:46,760 --> 00:14:49,880 Speaker 1: I'm what, like, you were in wonder Woman and that's 274 00:14:49,880 --> 00:14:51,160 Speaker 1: not even a film as a TV show? 275 00:14:51,320 --> 00:14:52,680 Speaker 3: Was a TV show? Wonder Woman, right? 276 00:14:52,840 --> 00:14:53,320 Speaker 2: TV show? 277 00:14:53,400 --> 00:14:55,360 Speaker 3: Yes, And I was making sure. 278 00:14:55,400 --> 00:14:57,960 Speaker 1: I was like, oh my god, I that had to 279 00:14:58,080 --> 00:15:01,200 Speaker 1: be I just you just don't understand that to me 280 00:15:02,640 --> 00:15:06,480 Speaker 1: is that was phenomenal. You were a superhero, like you 281 00:15:06,480 --> 00:15:08,800 Speaker 1: were a superhero before they were allowing us to be 282 00:15:08,840 --> 00:15:13,920 Speaker 1: superheroes before exactly was Catwoman, Like you were a superhero 283 00:15:14,400 --> 00:15:17,080 Speaker 1: and there were so few jobs and I'm thinking, Gosha, 284 00:15:17,160 --> 00:15:17,760 Speaker 1: you had them all. 285 00:15:17,920 --> 00:15:21,160 Speaker 3: I wonder if, and I wonder if the way you 286 00:15:21,200 --> 00:15:23,360 Speaker 3: see yourself is so different from the way we see you. 287 00:15:25,280 --> 00:15:31,600 Speaker 2: I can say absolutely, yes, yeah, yeah, And that's that's 288 00:15:31,640 --> 00:15:36,600 Speaker 2: a whole dialogue because people say to me all the time, 289 00:15:37,280 --> 00:15:41,120 Speaker 2: you don't see yourself that way, and I don't, you know, 290 00:15:41,200 --> 00:15:44,720 Speaker 2: like I feel like I'm just playing Jane, you know, 291 00:15:45,040 --> 00:15:48,440 Speaker 2: and I treat people like that. I don't see myself 292 00:15:48,480 --> 00:15:51,800 Speaker 2: as a I'm holding myself above anyone else. I don't 293 00:15:51,800 --> 00:15:57,000 Speaker 2: think that, you know, I made this huge leap and 294 00:15:57,080 --> 00:16:01,760 Speaker 2: became that the NFL today you find me and it 295 00:16:01,840 --> 00:16:05,320 Speaker 2: still does today. So a leap of faith, you know, 296 00:16:05,400 --> 00:16:07,600 Speaker 2: And then you get to the point where they still 297 00:16:07,600 --> 00:16:10,080 Speaker 2: aren't giving you the job, even after you know, Brent 298 00:16:10,120 --> 00:16:12,760 Speaker 2: Musburger walked off the set in the audition and say 299 00:16:12,840 --> 00:16:15,400 Speaker 2: it's Jane or nobody, and he walked off the set 300 00:16:15,440 --> 00:16:18,320 Speaker 2: and didn't complete the other auditions. And they're still not 301 00:16:18,400 --> 00:16:22,120 Speaker 2: going to hire me because they're concerned that the Southern 302 00:16:22,120 --> 00:16:25,240 Speaker 2: Affiliates are going to bulk because there's one black on 303 00:16:25,320 --> 00:16:29,440 Speaker 2: the show, one white and one black, so two blacks 304 00:16:29,440 --> 00:16:31,920 Speaker 2: and one white wasn't going to work for the Southern Affiliates. 305 00:16:32,360 --> 00:16:35,359 Speaker 2: They sent my audition tapes down to the Southern Affiliates 306 00:16:35,360 --> 00:16:39,120 Speaker 2: and they said, Wow, she can really do this job, 307 00:16:39,160 --> 00:16:41,520 Speaker 2: but how can we fix this? Well, Jimmy the Greek 308 00:16:41,560 --> 00:16:43,600 Speaker 2: had already been on the show, but he was not 309 00:16:43,720 --> 00:16:45,920 Speaker 2: on the desk, so they put him on the desk. 310 00:16:46,320 --> 00:16:50,400 Speaker 2: So you've got two blacks on the desk, two whites 311 00:16:50,400 --> 00:16:53,680 Speaker 2: on the desk. Problem solved, but they still only gave 312 00:16:53,720 --> 00:16:56,600 Speaker 2: me a six week contract. I had to prove myself 313 00:16:56,680 --> 00:16:57,720 Speaker 2: all over again. 314 00:16:58,040 --> 00:16:59,880 Speaker 1: You write about that in the book, and I get 315 00:17:00,160 --> 00:17:03,200 Speaker 1: so infuriated because what's old is new and it's still 316 00:17:03,200 --> 00:17:07,840 Speaker 1: the same. We consistently in this business, after years of excellence, 317 00:17:07,880 --> 00:17:12,000 Speaker 1: black excellence more specifically, have to prove ourselves over and 318 00:17:12,080 --> 00:17:14,680 Speaker 1: over again every time we come into work, every time 319 00:17:14,720 --> 00:17:17,200 Speaker 1: we get in front of the camera. There's another level 320 00:17:17,359 --> 00:17:20,159 Speaker 1: of proving and expectations that we have to meet, and 321 00:17:20,160 --> 00:17:23,159 Speaker 1: they keep moving the goal line. And you tell a 322 00:17:23,280 --> 00:17:26,199 Speaker 1: story that I love and I wish you could just 323 00:17:26,240 --> 00:17:28,440 Speaker 1: share it with our viewers as well as our listeners 324 00:17:28,680 --> 00:17:31,600 Speaker 1: well about Muhammad Ali, And at that moment you would 325 00:17:31,640 --> 00:17:32,760 Speaker 1: think like, looking. 326 00:17:32,520 --> 00:17:34,040 Speaker 3: Back, well, this solidifies me. 327 00:17:34,400 --> 00:17:37,000 Speaker 1: They give you a six week contract to see if 328 00:17:37,000 --> 00:17:37,800 Speaker 1: you can do the job. 329 00:17:37,920 --> 00:17:40,639 Speaker 3: You more than do the job. But you hear them 330 00:17:41,640 --> 00:17:43,679 Speaker 3: asking if or how can they get an interview with 331 00:17:43,760 --> 00:17:45,880 Speaker 3: Muhammad Ali. Can you tell everyone about that? 332 00:17:46,480 --> 00:17:49,440 Speaker 2: Right? It was only my second week on the job, 333 00:17:50,760 --> 00:17:53,280 Speaker 2: second of the two weeks, and I had gone in 334 00:17:53,359 --> 00:17:58,680 Speaker 2: earlier to ask them for training. They refuse to offer 335 00:17:58,760 --> 00:18:02,720 Speaker 2: that to me. By training, opportunity to get on the 336 00:18:02,800 --> 00:18:04,960 Speaker 2: set and just feel what it was like and you know, 337 00:18:05,119 --> 00:18:08,080 Speaker 2: just be there and run through, you know what it looks, 338 00:18:08,160 --> 00:18:11,960 Speaker 2: what it's like to be on the show, I've never seen. 339 00:18:12,119 --> 00:18:12,239 Speaker 3: Now. 340 00:18:12,320 --> 00:18:15,520 Speaker 2: I've done live television before, but I had never been 341 00:18:15,600 --> 00:18:20,520 Speaker 2: in this position where you have fifteen sixteen games on 342 00:18:20,560 --> 00:18:22,760 Speaker 2: the monitor that you have to watch. And you have 343 00:18:22,840 --> 00:18:27,000 Speaker 2: to also understand that this was way back when, so 344 00:18:27,080 --> 00:18:29,399 Speaker 2: you didn't have all the digital that you have today. 345 00:18:29,720 --> 00:18:32,080 Speaker 2: You don't have people giving you information that you can 346 00:18:32,119 --> 00:18:38,240 Speaker 2: really use. My very first throw to tape was the 347 00:18:38,280 --> 00:18:41,359 Speaker 2: director telling me in my ear Jane, You're you're going 348 00:18:41,440 --> 00:18:43,800 Speaker 2: to have to fill for three minutes because the machine 349 00:18:43,840 --> 00:18:44,600 Speaker 2: just ate the tape. 350 00:18:44,840 --> 00:18:48,080 Speaker 3: Oh boy, no problem. 351 00:18:48,400 --> 00:18:50,600 Speaker 2: I hadn't even been on the set, you know. I 352 00:18:50,680 --> 00:18:55,600 Speaker 2: just met IRV like twenty minutes ago. I just met 353 00:18:55,640 --> 00:18:58,840 Speaker 2: everybody else on the set, and here now I'm winging 354 00:18:58,880 --> 00:19:03,439 Speaker 2: it for three minutes. Luckily it was Cleveland, Sam Retigliano, 355 00:19:03,920 --> 00:19:06,560 Speaker 2: and I was from Cleveland, so I knew a lot 356 00:19:06,560 --> 00:19:08,240 Speaker 2: that I could just come off the tip of my 357 00:19:08,280 --> 00:19:11,400 Speaker 2: hands with. But you know, it's it was a struggle. 358 00:19:11,440 --> 00:19:14,800 Speaker 2: But here we are and they're saying that, you know, 359 00:19:15,119 --> 00:19:18,959 Speaker 2: they can't allow. The argument that they were having with 360 00:19:19,000 --> 00:19:22,920 Speaker 2: Sports Spectacular was that they could not have a broadcast 361 00:19:23,400 --> 00:19:26,399 Speaker 2: and not have a post fight interview with Mahmad Ali, 362 00:19:27,240 --> 00:19:32,240 Speaker 2: who was fighting Leon Spinks that night in New Orleans. 363 00:19:33,000 --> 00:19:36,720 Speaker 2: They had no access to him at all. ABC had 364 00:19:37,320 --> 00:19:40,640 Speaker 2: all the rights and they wanted a post fight interview, 365 00:19:41,240 --> 00:19:44,720 Speaker 2: especially if he won. And so they're arguing, how we're 366 00:19:44,720 --> 00:19:47,120 Speaker 2: going to do this, and I turned around and I'm 367 00:19:47,200 --> 00:19:50,119 Speaker 2: just I don't work for them. I work for the NFL. Today. 368 00:19:50,160 --> 00:19:53,040 Speaker 2: This was Sportsbeck. So I just turned around. I say, 369 00:19:53,080 --> 00:19:55,120 Speaker 2: I can get you the interview. And they said, who 370 00:19:55,160 --> 00:19:58,520 Speaker 2: are you? So I'm the lady that can get you 371 00:19:58,600 --> 00:20:01,200 Speaker 2: the interview, and I don't know why they believe me. 372 00:20:01,280 --> 00:20:04,119 Speaker 2: They put me on a private jet sent me to 373 00:20:04,240 --> 00:20:06,919 Speaker 2: New Orleans. I met the crew there. I called Ali. 374 00:20:07,240 --> 00:20:10,240 Speaker 2: He was a friend of mine and so I said, Ali, 375 00:20:10,359 --> 00:20:12,800 Speaker 2: I really need to make this happen. He said, I'll 376 00:20:12,840 --> 00:20:14,720 Speaker 2: leave the key at the front desk. Meet me in 377 00:20:14,760 --> 00:20:17,720 Speaker 2: my suite and I'll come by before I go to 378 00:20:17,040 --> 00:20:21,720 Speaker 2: the interviews, which he did. He walked in the door. 379 00:20:22,480 --> 00:20:26,080 Speaker 2: I took a deep breath, and he walked into the 380 00:20:26,119 --> 00:20:29,440 Speaker 2: camera and he punched the lens and he said, I'd 381 00:20:29,480 --> 00:20:31,400 Speaker 2: only do this for my friend, Jane Kennedy. 382 00:20:32,520 --> 00:20:34,840 Speaker 3: I leant so much, I went so much. 383 00:20:34,840 --> 00:20:39,040 Speaker 2: I went back to New York. Sports Bet got their 384 00:20:39,080 --> 00:20:41,560 Speaker 2: peace on Saturday. They cut a clip for me on 385 00:20:41,600 --> 00:20:44,720 Speaker 2: my show On Sunday. I went home exhausted because I 386 00:20:44,760 --> 00:20:47,600 Speaker 2: was living in LA working in New York. I got 387 00:20:47,640 --> 00:20:50,639 Speaker 2: to La totally exhausted. In the morning, woke up, the 388 00:20:50,640 --> 00:20:54,320 Speaker 2: phones were ringing and they say, Jane Kennedy. I said, yes, 389 00:20:54,840 --> 00:20:57,159 Speaker 2: your contract has been picked up for the remainder of 390 00:20:57,160 --> 00:21:01,360 Speaker 2: the year. So those are the things that I believe in. 391 00:21:02,359 --> 00:21:07,520 Speaker 1: Janet say something you had to You had to get 392 00:21:07,600 --> 00:21:10,040 Speaker 1: an interview with the greatest boxer of all time for 393 00:21:10,080 --> 00:21:13,160 Speaker 1: them to understand that you've been excellent and you did 394 00:21:13,200 --> 00:21:14,919 Speaker 1: it on your own without help, And they're like, well, 395 00:21:14,960 --> 00:21:17,560 Speaker 1: I guess we can reward although you probably had been 396 00:21:17,600 --> 00:21:21,600 Speaker 1: so excellent throughout. It is that type of to me, 397 00:21:22,320 --> 00:21:25,960 Speaker 1: not plain at all. That's like excellence beyond because no 398 00:21:26,000 --> 00:21:28,199 Speaker 1: one had that access and they knew how valuable you 399 00:21:28,280 --> 00:21:29,200 Speaker 1: were at that moment. 400 00:21:29,640 --> 00:21:31,879 Speaker 3: But that's the type of proving that you had. 401 00:21:31,760 --> 00:21:38,040 Speaker 2: To do exactly every single day, well day. And then 402 00:21:38,040 --> 00:21:39,720 Speaker 2: you know, I was by living in New York, I 403 00:21:39,760 --> 00:21:42,760 Speaker 2: didn't have the opportunity to mingle with all the people 404 00:21:42,800 --> 00:21:46,440 Speaker 2: that were in New York. And so when they decided 405 00:21:46,520 --> 00:21:49,159 Speaker 2: two years later that they were going to fire me 406 00:21:49,320 --> 00:21:54,360 Speaker 2: without telling me, they signed a contract with Phillis George 407 00:21:55,720 --> 00:21:59,639 Speaker 2: in December. Super Bowl wasn't until February. I worked the 408 00:21:59,680 --> 00:22:04,280 Speaker 2: super and I'm thinking I still got a job, and 409 00:22:04,480 --> 00:22:07,359 Speaker 2: they put me the helicopter and I'm circling over a 410 00:22:07,359 --> 00:22:10,960 Speaker 2: beautiful Los Angeles and I'm getting ready to throw to 411 00:22:11,000 --> 00:22:14,760 Speaker 2: my pre tape package and they cut away to Phyllis 412 00:22:14,760 --> 00:22:20,520 Speaker 2: George in the Gingerbread House in Beverly Hills. So a 413 00:22:20,600 --> 00:22:22,720 Speaker 2: couple of times they did it. I jump out of 414 00:22:22,720 --> 00:22:26,119 Speaker 2: the helicopter when we land and earth Cross is standing 415 00:22:26,160 --> 00:22:28,200 Speaker 2: there and he just grabs me and he says, Jane, 416 00:22:28,320 --> 00:22:31,159 Speaker 2: there's nothing you can do. And I'm furious because I 417 00:22:31,200 --> 00:22:34,720 Speaker 2: don't know what happened, and they still did not tell 418 00:22:34,760 --> 00:22:37,399 Speaker 2: me that I was fired. I go to the desk 419 00:22:37,520 --> 00:22:41,919 Speaker 2: for the halftime and I said to Brent, don't tease me, 420 00:22:42,000 --> 00:22:44,520 Speaker 2: don't fool me, don't try to pull any more tricks 421 00:22:44,560 --> 00:22:47,400 Speaker 2: on me, because this is not going to work. And 422 00:22:47,480 --> 00:22:52,040 Speaker 2: so show us over. Several more months go by, they 423 00:22:52,080 --> 00:22:56,720 Speaker 2: have me booked to go to Korea for the Miss 424 00:22:56,800 --> 00:22:59,760 Speaker 2: Universe show and I'm going to be co hosting the 425 00:23:00,880 --> 00:23:04,640 Speaker 2: So I get ready to leave my house in Pasadena, 426 00:23:05,400 --> 00:23:07,879 Speaker 2: and as soon as I walk out of the door, 427 00:23:09,240 --> 00:23:13,920 Speaker 2: I get a notice, You're fired. And this is on 428 00:23:13,960 --> 00:23:15,760 Speaker 2: my way to the airport. Now I've got to rush 429 00:23:15,840 --> 00:23:18,439 Speaker 2: to the airport. We didn't need access to you know, 430 00:23:18,480 --> 00:23:20,919 Speaker 2: we don't have cell phones, we don't have access to 431 00:23:21,680 --> 00:23:24,200 Speaker 2: methods of getting to and there early in the morning, 432 00:23:24,240 --> 00:23:27,119 Speaker 2: I was nobody won't work, and so I have to 433 00:23:27,160 --> 00:23:30,120 Speaker 2: get on the plane. And the entire time on the plane, 434 00:23:30,240 --> 00:23:32,439 Speaker 2: I'm trying to figure out what happened. And this is 435 00:23:32,560 --> 00:23:35,879 Speaker 2: months and months later after the Super Bowl, almost heading 436 00:23:35,920 --> 00:23:43,800 Speaker 2: into the next season. So here we are on the airplane. 437 00:23:44,080 --> 00:23:47,040 Speaker 2: I get off and I run into Richard Browntree, who 438 00:23:47,040 --> 00:23:50,280 Speaker 2: had just finished taping a movie, and he said, Hi, 439 00:23:50,359 --> 00:23:53,400 Speaker 2: let's go to lunch. And I sort of dismiss him, 440 00:23:53,720 --> 00:23:55,920 Speaker 2: and years later he said, Gane, I thought I'd done 441 00:23:55,960 --> 00:23:56,919 Speaker 2: something wrong. 442 00:23:59,080 --> 00:24:01,000 Speaker 3: Doing nothing like me anymore. 443 00:24:01,080 --> 00:24:02,560 Speaker 2: I said, oh my god, I said no, and I 444 00:24:02,640 --> 00:24:04,760 Speaker 2: told them what happened. I said, but you know that, 445 00:24:05,200 --> 00:24:07,600 Speaker 2: and I told I call my husband and I told 446 00:24:07,680 --> 00:24:10,320 Speaker 2: him what happened. And he said, why are you calling me? 447 00:24:10,359 --> 00:24:14,720 Speaker 2: You're wasting so much money and he hung up my distance. 448 00:24:15,160 --> 00:24:18,720 Speaker 2: I was crazy expensive at that time, and I had 449 00:24:18,840 --> 00:24:22,879 Speaker 2: nobody to turn to. And I'm there in Korea. But 450 00:24:24,359 --> 00:24:26,960 Speaker 2: my Q card guy that I'd known for years because 451 00:24:27,000 --> 00:24:29,840 Speaker 2: I've worked with them since the Dean Martin Show, and 452 00:24:30,200 --> 00:24:32,520 Speaker 2: he said, Jane, they've told me to write you out 453 00:24:32,560 --> 00:24:36,159 Speaker 2: of all the QUE cards. He said, I don't know 454 00:24:36,200 --> 00:24:39,160 Speaker 2: what's happening. And so when I get back to LA 455 00:24:39,600 --> 00:24:42,560 Speaker 2: I find out that they fired me. And they said 456 00:24:42,560 --> 00:24:44,840 Speaker 2: they fired me because I was working for another show, 457 00:24:45,440 --> 00:24:48,680 Speaker 2: but I had gotten permission from the President of Sports 458 00:24:48,720 --> 00:24:51,520 Speaker 2: to work that show, so they hired me back. Once 459 00:24:51,560 --> 00:24:54,760 Speaker 2: I presented the doctor letter, they hired me back. Two 460 00:24:54,760 --> 00:24:57,000 Speaker 2: weeks later, they fired me again, saying I can't do 461 00:24:57,080 --> 00:24:59,960 Speaker 2: the show because it's too taxing on me living in 462 00:25:00,119 --> 00:25:02,880 Speaker 2: Los Angeles working in New York and I said, well, 463 00:25:03,359 --> 00:25:06,520 Speaker 2: I work in LA two days, I'm in New York 464 00:25:06,720 --> 00:25:09,080 Speaker 2: two days. In the middle of the week, I'm going 465 00:25:09,119 --> 00:25:11,520 Speaker 2: on the road two days to do my interviews. Brent 466 00:25:11,640 --> 00:25:16,240 Speaker 2: Musburger is working two days in New York, five days 467 00:25:16,280 --> 00:25:21,120 Speaker 2: a week in La. As anchorings the evening news. You're 468 00:25:21,160 --> 00:25:24,920 Speaker 2: saying that a man can do it, but a woman can't. Yes, 469 00:25:25,560 --> 00:25:29,439 Speaker 2: And so they hire me back, and I've got Gloria Aldridge. 470 00:25:29,480 --> 00:25:33,160 Speaker 2: Now I'm working on my beat. So then about three 471 00:25:33,200 --> 00:25:36,800 Speaker 2: weeks later, they fire me again for just an innocuous reason, 472 00:25:36,840 --> 00:25:42,000 Speaker 2: and they paid me off my poultry salad salary, and 473 00:25:43,000 --> 00:25:45,600 Speaker 2: I was gone. And I still didn't know what had 474 00:25:45,640 --> 00:26:02,680 Speaker 2: happened until years later. What was it they wanted Phillis 475 00:26:02,680 --> 00:26:05,280 Speaker 2: back on the show. There's a book by a gentleman. 476 00:26:05,480 --> 00:26:08,600 Speaker 2: His name is rich Bondoalski, and he said the way 477 00:26:08,600 --> 00:26:11,680 Speaker 2: he describes it, he said, everybody knew that Jane was 478 00:26:11,720 --> 00:26:16,400 Speaker 2: gone in December except Jane. I didn't know until. 479 00:26:16,240 --> 00:26:19,800 Speaker 1: July why though, they just wanted her back on the show. 480 00:26:19,840 --> 00:26:23,000 Speaker 1: They didn't want you because why because you're black? 481 00:26:23,080 --> 00:26:24,160 Speaker 3: Because what I don't know. 482 00:26:24,640 --> 00:26:26,520 Speaker 2: I never did get a reason for that. I never 483 00:26:26,600 --> 00:26:31,440 Speaker 2: met Phyllis, But I just feel that they, in my opinion, 484 00:26:31,960 --> 00:26:37,919 Speaker 2: they wanted the Black Girl was getting too much attention. 485 00:26:38,280 --> 00:26:41,919 Speaker 3: Oh gosh, oh god, Jane, you're hurting my heart. Listen ratings. 486 00:26:42,080 --> 00:26:46,399 Speaker 2: My ratings were going up and the show was like 487 00:26:46,560 --> 00:26:50,080 Speaker 2: growing like crazy, and Phyllis wanted to come back because 488 00:26:50,080 --> 00:26:52,920 Speaker 2: the show was doing so well. This is my take. 489 00:26:54,040 --> 00:26:58,600 Speaker 2: I have no proof, but you know, the Black Girl 490 00:26:58,680 --> 00:27:03,960 Speaker 2: was gone, a little Miss America's back and the black 491 00:27:04,000 --> 00:27:06,359 Speaker 2: media is saying, you should have kept that job, Jane, 492 00:27:06,720 --> 00:27:09,520 Speaker 2: even if you had to kiss ass because it meant 493 00:27:09,560 --> 00:27:11,520 Speaker 2: so much to Black Americans. 494 00:27:12,520 --> 00:27:14,320 Speaker 1: You didn't have a choice. You were trying to keep 495 00:27:14,320 --> 00:27:17,639 Speaker 1: the job. Everybody back, that was enough to you. 496 00:27:18,119 --> 00:27:21,440 Speaker 2: The press said that I had left the show. They 497 00:27:21,440 --> 00:27:23,600 Speaker 2: did not. They refused to admit that they fired me. 498 00:27:24,600 --> 00:27:27,280 Speaker 2: They said that I fired because I left the show 499 00:27:27,320 --> 00:27:29,960 Speaker 2: because I wanted to do the other show. No matter 500 00:27:29,960 --> 00:27:32,760 Speaker 2: how many times I showed them the letter from the 501 00:27:32,800 --> 00:27:37,040 Speaker 2: president of CBS Sports, nobody cared. They just wanted to 502 00:27:37,040 --> 00:27:38,280 Speaker 2: get Phyllis back on the air. 503 00:27:39,000 --> 00:27:40,880 Speaker 3: What's your takeaway from that? Years later? 504 00:27:41,200 --> 00:27:43,560 Speaker 1: What have you what did you learn from that in 505 00:27:43,680 --> 00:27:44,959 Speaker 1: terms of what the business is. 506 00:27:46,200 --> 00:27:50,080 Speaker 2: The business is very cruel there. You know, you have 507 00:27:50,200 --> 00:27:52,879 Speaker 2: to be very sure of yourself and you have to 508 00:27:52,920 --> 00:28:00,280 Speaker 2: be willing to take huge leaps of confidence and never 509 00:28:00,320 --> 00:28:04,080 Speaker 2: take it personal because I don't think it is. And 510 00:28:04,720 --> 00:28:07,439 Speaker 2: I say that in duality because as a black woman, 511 00:28:07,520 --> 00:28:10,600 Speaker 2: I do when I see what they are doing, and 512 00:28:10,640 --> 00:28:13,000 Speaker 2: you know, you can't get a job just because you're black, 513 00:28:13,359 --> 00:28:16,520 Speaker 2: and that all women across the board, not just in sports, 514 00:28:16,800 --> 00:28:18,959 Speaker 2: and you can't get the job because you're black. So 515 00:28:19,000 --> 00:28:23,120 Speaker 2: I do. I do value that. But the other opportunity 516 00:28:23,720 --> 00:28:26,399 Speaker 2: that comes along is, you know, they don't want you 517 00:28:26,560 --> 00:28:30,359 Speaker 2: to succeed, and we don't have enough black women in 518 00:28:30,359 --> 00:28:36,320 Speaker 2: the C suites to assist you in your access to success. 519 00:28:36,880 --> 00:28:40,880 Speaker 2: There's a show, there's a show called The History of 520 00:28:40,920 --> 00:28:44,560 Speaker 2: the Black Quarterback. Oh yeah, okay. It aired on Super 521 00:28:44,560 --> 00:28:48,200 Speaker 2: Bowl Sunday, and it talked about you know, and it 522 00:28:48,240 --> 00:28:50,960 Speaker 2: was done by it was produced by a black woman, 523 00:28:51,760 --> 00:28:52,440 Speaker 2: wasn't it, Maria? 524 00:28:52,840 --> 00:28:53,200 Speaker 3: Yeah? 525 00:28:53,280 --> 00:28:59,520 Speaker 2: Yeah yeah. And here's this amazing show. And you start 526 00:28:59,560 --> 00:29:03,400 Speaker 2: with Doug Williams, who's the first black quarterback to ever 527 00:29:03,760 --> 00:29:08,440 Speaker 2: win a Super Bowl with five touchdowns, and you know 528 00:29:08,520 --> 00:29:13,920 Speaker 2: there's can you how can you not have that promoted? 529 00:29:14,440 --> 00:29:17,920 Speaker 2: I didn't see any promotion whatsoever on that. And you've 530 00:29:17,920 --> 00:29:20,720 Speaker 2: got this entire super Bowl package, all of this is 531 00:29:20,760 --> 00:29:23,440 Speaker 2: going on the week leading up to Super Bowl, all 532 00:29:23,480 --> 00:29:27,280 Speaker 2: of this, and you have this amazing piece of footage, 533 00:29:27,400 --> 00:29:31,120 Speaker 2: this documentary that talks about black quarterbacks in the NFL. 534 00:29:32,040 --> 00:29:34,520 Speaker 2: And I don't know how many people saw it. I 535 00:29:34,600 --> 00:29:35,240 Speaker 2: never saw it. 536 00:29:35,840 --> 00:29:38,240 Speaker 3: Yeah, and it was I'm looking out. 537 00:29:38,320 --> 00:29:42,560 Speaker 1: It was a Maria and Lorne Michaels and NFL Films 538 00:29:42,600 --> 00:29:46,240 Speaker 1: and Ricky Hughes, she directed it. 539 00:29:46,320 --> 00:29:49,680 Speaker 2: So four part series. How many people knew about it? 540 00:29:50,080 --> 00:29:54,080 Speaker 3: Nobody? Nobody. And that's another thing too that we could 541 00:29:54,120 --> 00:29:54,680 Speaker 3: talk about. 542 00:29:54,840 --> 00:29:57,720 Speaker 1: I think that when you do get these opportunities, they 543 00:29:57,800 --> 00:29:59,840 Speaker 1: want you to be quiet about them because too much 544 00:30:00,120 --> 00:30:03,240 Speaker 1: tension is too much attention. So I to your point 545 00:30:03,280 --> 00:30:06,400 Speaker 1: of what you were dealing with earlier, I just I 546 00:30:06,440 --> 00:30:09,320 Speaker 1: don't know. It breaks my heart, It really does that 547 00:30:09,400 --> 00:30:12,320 Speaker 1: you had to deal with that, that we still have 548 00:30:12,360 --> 00:30:13,880 Speaker 1: to deal with that you have to deal with we 549 00:30:14,040 --> 00:30:16,880 Speaker 1: still have to deal with it. But I do know 550 00:30:17,600 --> 00:30:23,200 Speaker 1: that even for that time, it still was significant. It 551 00:30:23,240 --> 00:30:24,920 Speaker 1: could have been two years, it could have been two months, 552 00:30:24,920 --> 00:30:29,480 Speaker 1: but it was so significant and so important just for 553 00:30:29,520 --> 00:30:31,600 Speaker 1: that short period of time, whether it's almost like our 554 00:30:31,640 --> 00:30:35,680 Speaker 1: first black president. So those eight years may seem so 555 00:30:36,000 --> 00:30:38,360 Speaker 1: long ago and just that short period of time, but 556 00:30:38,640 --> 00:30:41,160 Speaker 1: it was important to be able to visualize it and 557 00:30:41,200 --> 00:30:46,120 Speaker 1: see it, and it changed history. It changed you changed history. Yes, 558 00:30:47,000 --> 00:30:51,960 Speaker 1: do you feel now that you have a different level 559 00:30:52,080 --> 00:30:54,720 Speaker 1: or a different measure of respect? 560 00:30:56,440 --> 00:31:00,760 Speaker 2: That's a yes and no for me. Okay, And I'll 561 00:31:00,800 --> 00:31:04,880 Speaker 2: start with no because it's easier. I've been out of 562 00:31:04,920 --> 00:31:07,200 Speaker 2: the spotlight for a long time. It would be different 563 00:31:07,200 --> 00:31:12,080 Speaker 2: if I were still consistently working. So I acknowledge that 564 00:31:12,120 --> 00:31:15,800 Speaker 2: there are people in their thirties twenties that don't know 565 00:31:15,840 --> 00:31:20,040 Speaker 2: who I am. They were probably babies, you know. So yeah, 566 00:31:20,080 --> 00:31:24,280 Speaker 2: there's that I acknowledge. But I do think that there 567 00:31:24,320 --> 00:31:29,240 Speaker 2: are things that I have been I wouldn't be trying 568 00:31:29,280 --> 00:31:33,640 Speaker 2: to relaunch my career if I didn't believe that there 569 00:31:33,720 --> 00:31:36,720 Speaker 2: was that it was still possible. And I think that 570 00:31:36,880 --> 00:31:42,480 Speaker 2: it's very, very, very crucial for us to all know 571 00:31:42,560 --> 00:31:44,720 Speaker 2: that we have to work together to make this happen, 572 00:31:46,320 --> 00:31:48,240 Speaker 2: and because I don't think that it's going to be 573 00:31:48,280 --> 00:31:52,080 Speaker 2: handed to us again, because unfortunately the politics in this 574 00:31:52,200 --> 00:31:57,640 Speaker 2: country to a place where some people come out of 575 00:31:57,680 --> 00:32:02,080 Speaker 2: the walls, and they don't want you to succeed. They've 576 00:32:02,080 --> 00:32:04,880 Speaker 2: always been there, you know, but they didn't come out 577 00:32:04,920 --> 00:32:09,080 Speaker 2: of the walls until they've been allowed to in the 578 00:32:09,120 --> 00:32:13,920 Speaker 2: past few years. And then there's people like you know, 579 00:32:14,000 --> 00:32:16,360 Speaker 2: like you know, I'm still my mind blowing. I don't 580 00:32:16,360 --> 00:32:19,520 Speaker 2: know if this is timeless in terms of how you're 581 00:32:19,520 --> 00:32:22,560 Speaker 2: going to air the show, but I'm still stunned at 582 00:32:22,600 --> 00:32:25,800 Speaker 2: the fact. You know, I followed the monks and their journey. 583 00:32:26,040 --> 00:32:28,440 Speaker 2: I don't know if you did. I followed their journey 584 00:32:28,840 --> 00:32:33,600 Speaker 2: from Fort Worth, Texas, oh the walking, the Walk for Peace, 585 00:32:34,600 --> 00:32:38,240 Speaker 2: to Washington, d C. I don't know if I just 586 00:32:38,320 --> 00:32:41,479 Speaker 2: missed it, but I following it. I should have seen it. 587 00:32:41,720 --> 00:32:44,880 Speaker 2: I didn't see anything acknowledging them when they landed in 588 00:32:44,960 --> 00:32:50,080 Speaker 2: d C President's office and they had to extend their 589 00:32:50,640 --> 00:32:55,520 Speaker 2: walk and go into Baltimore, where the black governor received 590 00:32:55,560 --> 00:32:57,040 Speaker 2: them all at his home. 591 00:32:58,720 --> 00:33:05,960 Speaker 1: Yeah Wes Moore, great guy, Yeah, yeah, I this is Keys, 592 00:33:06,480 --> 00:33:08,800 Speaker 1: this is where we are right now, the state of 593 00:33:08,840 --> 00:33:09,520 Speaker 1: this country. 594 00:33:10,360 --> 00:33:13,360 Speaker 3: But I still feel like what you're when you say 595 00:33:13,400 --> 00:33:16,880 Speaker 3: relaunching your career, I still feel like there is and 596 00:33:16,920 --> 00:33:18,680 Speaker 3: I don't I don't have the words for it, and 597 00:33:19,240 --> 00:33:21,200 Speaker 3: maybe we can look back on this, you know, a 598 00:33:21,280 --> 00:33:21,880 Speaker 3: year from now. 599 00:33:21,920 --> 00:33:24,520 Speaker 1: But there is something in the zeigeist in the universe 600 00:33:24,560 --> 00:33:27,440 Speaker 1: that tells me that this is going to be a 601 00:33:27,560 --> 00:33:31,360 Speaker 1: very successful relaunch. Uh, this country currently will have to 602 00:33:31,360 --> 00:33:33,880 Speaker 1: look at its history so it could it can establish 603 00:33:33,920 --> 00:33:37,000 Speaker 1: its future. And that has to do with what you've 604 00:33:37,000 --> 00:33:40,040 Speaker 1: been able to contribute and who you are and acknowledging 605 00:33:40,080 --> 00:33:43,760 Speaker 1: your space and place in history. And I think that that, 606 00:33:44,000 --> 00:33:47,320 Speaker 1: to me is what I'm feeling that when we share 607 00:33:47,320 --> 00:33:50,320 Speaker 1: at the stage at the twenty fifth University of Love 608 00:33:50,320 --> 00:33:53,440 Speaker 1: and Basketball, the HBCU first Look, there were so many 609 00:33:53,520 --> 00:33:55,720 Speaker 1: of my friends who were there who went and bought 610 00:33:55,800 --> 00:33:57,720 Speaker 1: your book and said, oh my god, I didn't know 611 00:33:57,760 --> 00:33:58,360 Speaker 1: her story. 612 00:33:58,440 --> 00:34:00,320 Speaker 3: I have to have it. I I just to me 613 00:34:00,640 --> 00:34:01,400 Speaker 3: by what. 614 00:34:01,320 --> 00:34:03,920 Speaker 1: You were able to, what you were able to accomplish, 615 00:34:04,000 --> 00:34:07,160 Speaker 1: because it just doesn't happen anymore. In the book, you 616 00:34:07,200 --> 00:34:11,439 Speaker 1: talk about or maybe you set things straight, you set 617 00:34:11,600 --> 00:34:15,320 Speaker 1: narratives straight, You talk about your relationships your ex husband 618 00:34:15,760 --> 00:34:17,000 Speaker 1: and you're currently married. 619 00:34:17,320 --> 00:34:20,640 Speaker 3: Was that hard for you to do to tell because 620 00:34:20,680 --> 00:34:21,719 Speaker 3: I understand that. I know. 621 00:34:21,760 --> 00:34:23,680 Speaker 1: For me, I try to I keep everything so close 622 00:34:23,719 --> 00:34:25,879 Speaker 1: to the chest it's this thing that we are. We're 623 00:34:25,960 --> 00:34:30,080 Speaker 1: very very private people in this space, while we ask 624 00:34:30,120 --> 00:34:33,840 Speaker 1: everyone all of their business and questions. 625 00:34:32,719 --> 00:34:34,280 Speaker 3: While we dig into their lives. 626 00:34:34,640 --> 00:34:37,320 Speaker 1: But was that hard for you to tell that story? 627 00:34:37,400 --> 00:34:41,320 Speaker 1: And what made you decide it's time to reshare that story. 628 00:34:42,040 --> 00:34:45,279 Speaker 2: It was extremely difficult for me to include that. My 629 00:34:45,440 --> 00:34:48,520 Speaker 2: first several drafts of the book did not include it 630 00:34:48,600 --> 00:34:51,600 Speaker 2: at all. My first draft did not even talk about 631 00:34:51,640 --> 00:34:54,520 Speaker 2: that I was married. Before I thought, you know, I 632 00:34:54,560 --> 00:34:57,439 Speaker 2: want to talk about just me, who I am, how 633 00:34:57,440 --> 00:35:01,000 Speaker 2: I got here. And then I started realizing, you know, 634 00:35:01,080 --> 00:35:02,920 Speaker 2: I have to tell the full story. You know, everybody's 635 00:35:02,920 --> 00:35:04,960 Speaker 2: going to buy the book, you know, so you have 636 00:35:05,040 --> 00:35:08,160 Speaker 2: to have to make it appealing because they I was 637 00:35:08,200 --> 00:35:14,120 Speaker 2: so successful during my tenure in Hollywood. 638 00:35:14,960 --> 00:35:15,319 Speaker 3: I was. 639 00:35:16,000 --> 00:35:17,760 Speaker 2: I had gotten to a point where I had started 640 00:35:17,800 --> 00:35:21,200 Speaker 2: making the same amount of money as my white co cort. 641 00:35:21,920 --> 00:35:25,560 Speaker 2: I was at a place where I was earning deals 642 00:35:25,560 --> 00:35:28,920 Speaker 2: with Coca Cola six year contract going all around the 643 00:35:28,920 --> 00:35:35,280 Speaker 2: world representing Coca Cola USA. I had my exercise platform 644 00:35:35,880 --> 00:35:38,520 Speaker 2: in number three in the country, along with Jane Fond 645 00:35:38,560 --> 00:35:42,239 Speaker 2: and Richard Simmons. I was achieving so many levels of 646 00:35:42,320 --> 00:35:45,040 Speaker 2: success that had nothing to do with sports. And I 647 00:35:45,080 --> 00:35:50,560 Speaker 2: also was a moderator on a host on Greatest Sports 648 00:35:50,640 --> 00:35:54,440 Speaker 2: Legends and they would usually have a different host every year. Well, 649 00:35:54,480 --> 00:35:58,160 Speaker 2: the show ran for thirty years. I was back three 650 00:35:58,320 --> 00:36:02,399 Speaker 2: I'm sorry, six straight years I did that show, and 651 00:36:02,640 --> 00:36:09,439 Speaker 2: we had people like, who was it? They had asked 652 00:36:09,520 --> 00:36:12,000 Speaker 2: him so many times, Bill Russell, They had asked him 653 00:36:12,040 --> 00:36:14,360 Speaker 2: so many times to do the show, and he always refused. 654 00:36:15,000 --> 00:36:17,400 Speaker 2: And when I got on the show, he called, he 655 00:36:17,400 --> 00:36:19,160 Speaker 2: said I want to do the show and they said why, 656 00:36:19,680 --> 00:36:21,920 Speaker 2: and so he didn't say anything. He said, I'm just 657 00:36:21,960 --> 00:36:24,440 Speaker 2: you know, so they said come on. When he got 658 00:36:24,520 --> 00:36:27,879 Speaker 2: on swer before we started, I said, I don't know. 659 00:36:28,200 --> 00:36:30,000 Speaker 2: Why did you come and do the show for me? 660 00:36:30,600 --> 00:36:32,919 Speaker 2: He said, because you're creating a legacy and I want 661 00:36:32,920 --> 00:36:36,360 Speaker 2: to help you build it. You might and so and 662 00:36:36,480 --> 00:36:38,880 Speaker 2: Walter Payton would talk about, you know, how proud he 663 00:36:39,000 --> 00:36:41,400 Speaker 2: was that I was, that I was in the position 664 00:36:41,520 --> 00:36:45,520 Speaker 2: that I was, and he would send out an edict 665 00:36:45,560 --> 00:36:50,160 Speaker 2: throughout the NFL teams, We're going to take care of 666 00:36:50,200 --> 00:36:52,960 Speaker 2: our Jane. We're going to take care of our Jane. 667 00:36:52,960 --> 00:36:56,439 Speaker 2: We're going to see that she succeeds. I had how 668 00:36:56,440 --> 00:37:00,000 Speaker 2: could I walk away from that. I had so much 669 00:37:00,280 --> 00:37:04,480 Speaker 2: love in my heart for what I was doing. I 670 00:37:04,520 --> 00:37:13,800 Speaker 2: respected my peers. I was living a life that was glam, 671 00:37:14,440 --> 00:37:18,240 Speaker 2: but it never felt glam to me. It always felt 672 00:37:18,480 --> 00:37:21,600 Speaker 2: just plain Jane for me. You know, Like I'll talk 673 00:37:21,640 --> 00:37:25,120 Speaker 2: about the night I went to a speaking engagement with 674 00:37:27,719 --> 00:37:32,799 Speaker 2: Walter Payton and Hi Gary Leonard. Yes, so anyway, you know, 675 00:37:33,120 --> 00:37:35,680 Speaker 2: we're doing the banquet together and then they say, well, 676 00:37:35,680 --> 00:37:37,680 Speaker 2: you know, you know you never eat banquet food, you know, 677 00:37:37,760 --> 00:37:40,000 Speaker 2: so we're gathering. He said, well, let's meet in the 678 00:37:40,040 --> 00:37:42,040 Speaker 2: suite and I go change my clothes, go up to 679 00:37:42,080 --> 00:37:45,319 Speaker 2: the sweep and they've got tons of shrimp, cocktail and 680 00:37:45,360 --> 00:37:48,120 Speaker 2: all this, all the food, just know, just fill to 681 00:37:48,200 --> 00:37:51,960 Speaker 2: the brim and sitting. I mean, how many people would 682 00:37:51,960 --> 00:37:54,719 Speaker 2: have that chance, you know, how many people would have 683 00:37:54,760 --> 00:38:00,640 Speaker 2: the chance to sit alongside Mama Muhammad Ali and just 684 00:38:00,760 --> 00:38:02,120 Speaker 2: swap stories with him. 685 00:38:02,360 --> 00:38:04,960 Speaker 3: It's it's it's unheard of. 686 00:38:05,360 --> 00:38:09,399 Speaker 1: I can't tell you a person within proximity that could 687 00:38:09,400 --> 00:38:11,880 Speaker 1: tell that story outside of Laila, Like, I don't know 688 00:38:11,960 --> 00:38:14,319 Speaker 1: anybody who could ever say these are the moments that 689 00:38:14,400 --> 00:38:17,720 Speaker 1: can still remember that, uh in the way that was history. 690 00:38:17,800 --> 00:38:21,920 Speaker 1: Muhammad Ali to me, there is no equivalent. Everyone aspires to, 691 00:38:23,040 --> 00:38:26,040 Speaker 1: there is no equivalent. Athletes wish that they were built 692 00:38:26,239 --> 00:38:29,680 Speaker 1: that way to be him, and many emulate what he 693 00:38:29,719 --> 00:38:32,440 Speaker 1: was able to do on and off the in terms 694 00:38:32,440 --> 00:38:35,040 Speaker 1: of basketball court or in and out of the boxing ring. 695 00:38:35,600 --> 00:38:39,040 Speaker 1: I think that that is how just as you talk 696 00:38:39,080 --> 00:38:41,040 Speaker 1: about that, that's how many of us see you as 697 00:38:41,080 --> 00:38:44,280 Speaker 1: you tell these stories, and how you are still here 698 00:38:44,760 --> 00:38:48,960 Speaker 1: able to speak so in a first first hand accounts 699 00:38:50,120 --> 00:38:52,359 Speaker 1: of our legends, like that's a that's a TV show 700 00:38:52,360 --> 00:38:56,040 Speaker 1: in itself, and you know the people that you know right, 701 00:38:56,239 --> 00:38:58,520 Speaker 1: Like you're literally telling us who these people are taking 702 00:38:58,600 --> 00:39:01,759 Speaker 1: us behind the scenes, you know, off their ailments are off, 703 00:39:01,800 --> 00:39:04,399 Speaker 1: and you're telling us who they are and what they accomplished. 704 00:39:04,600 --> 00:39:06,440 Speaker 1: They're out of the ring, and we're seeing them in 705 00:39:06,440 --> 00:39:08,319 Speaker 1: this way. You mentioned Brett. I'm like, no one knows 706 00:39:08,320 --> 00:39:11,160 Speaker 1: Brett Musburger that way. We have our own ways of 707 00:39:11,239 --> 00:39:13,160 Speaker 1: knowing him, but not the way in which you knew 708 00:39:13,200 --> 00:39:15,239 Speaker 1: him in an intimate way where he is, you know, 709 00:39:15,960 --> 00:39:18,360 Speaker 1: you know, saying that you have to be his co hosts. 710 00:39:18,360 --> 00:39:21,960 Speaker 1: Like I think these stories as you explain them are 711 00:39:22,000 --> 00:39:26,240 Speaker 1: simply extraordinary and far from playing. But I love the idea. 712 00:39:26,760 --> 00:39:28,960 Speaker 1: Perhaps that's why you were so good at what you do, 713 00:39:29,040 --> 00:39:30,520 Speaker 1: and you are so good at what you do because 714 00:39:30,680 --> 00:39:33,160 Speaker 1: you see yourself as just someone there to do your 715 00:39:33,200 --> 00:39:37,319 Speaker 1: job in treating everyone that way in the book, I 716 00:39:37,680 --> 00:39:41,400 Speaker 1: wonder if you thought being pretty held you back. 717 00:39:41,800 --> 00:39:43,480 Speaker 3: There's a pretty tax that we call. 718 00:39:43,360 --> 00:39:48,720 Speaker 2: In our business pretty tex. Yes, it does exist. I'd 719 00:39:48,719 --> 00:39:52,799 Speaker 2: have to say that it worked for me and against me. 720 00:39:55,800 --> 00:40:00,399 Speaker 2: For me in ways that it allowed access. The first 721 00:40:00,480 --> 00:40:03,040 Speaker 2: time I met Mohammed, Okay, let's just go with that. 722 00:40:04,719 --> 00:40:10,000 Speaker 2: There was a conference, an industry conference here in Los Angeles, 723 00:40:10,640 --> 00:40:13,320 Speaker 2: and Leon and I are on the floor of the 724 00:40:14,120 --> 00:40:17,640 Speaker 2: pavilion and we hear that Muhammad Ali is upstairs. Now 725 00:40:17,680 --> 00:40:21,879 Speaker 2: we had already crushed the streets and broken down the gate, 726 00:40:22,120 --> 00:40:25,120 Speaker 2: climbed over the gate to go watch him by Troe 727 00:40:25,200 --> 00:40:27,680 Speaker 2: Fraser when we were kids in Cleveland, So you know, 728 00:40:27,760 --> 00:40:29,759 Speaker 2: the idea that he's here, we're of course we're going 729 00:40:29,800 --> 00:40:32,440 Speaker 2: to go upstairs try to lead him, right. So we 730 00:40:32,560 --> 00:40:35,160 Speaker 2: get up there and there's so many people in the 731 00:40:35,200 --> 00:40:37,960 Speaker 2: press just around him and people from the hotel, and 732 00:40:38,000 --> 00:40:41,440 Speaker 2: they're crowding the hallways, and so you know, we're pushing 733 00:40:41,440 --> 00:40:43,640 Speaker 2: our way forward, and I had been on the Dean 734 00:40:43,680 --> 00:40:48,080 Speaker 2: Martin Show two years before and the name of the 735 00:40:48,120 --> 00:40:54,000 Speaker 2: girls was called the Dingling Sisters. Oh Okay dancers, and 736 00:40:54,040 --> 00:40:57,040 Speaker 2: we were called the Dean Martin's Dingling Sisters. So we 737 00:40:57,200 --> 00:40:59,879 Speaker 2: walked into the room and the first thing Ali does 738 00:41:00,360 --> 00:41:03,840 Speaker 2: points at me and he says, that's there, goes that girl, 739 00:41:03,960 --> 00:41:06,680 Speaker 2: the Dingling system. Look at that girl, the Dingling Sister. 740 00:41:07,239 --> 00:41:08,600 Speaker 3: Any really yeah? 741 00:41:08,640 --> 00:41:10,279 Speaker 2: And he says, come on up here and sit down 742 00:41:10,320 --> 00:41:13,759 Speaker 2: with me. And then you know, I'm sitting I'm two 743 00:41:13,880 --> 00:41:16,560 Speaker 2: years in Hollywood and I'm sitting on the desk with 744 00:41:16,680 --> 00:41:20,040 Speaker 2: Muhammad Ali. How am I? How is that possible in 745 00:41:20,080 --> 00:41:20,719 Speaker 2: a lifetime? 746 00:41:21,239 --> 00:41:25,200 Speaker 1: Well worked in your favor, I said, I said, Jane, 747 00:41:25,239 --> 00:41:27,279 Speaker 1: I can only imagine because it's still to this day, 748 00:41:27,360 --> 00:41:31,279 Speaker 1: like you know, it's very you know when I say, 749 00:41:31,320 --> 00:41:33,120 Speaker 1: I said it as a joke, and the kids say, like, 750 00:41:33,160 --> 00:41:34,759 Speaker 1: you haven't been a choke hold. Like when you walk 751 00:41:34,800 --> 00:41:36,919 Speaker 1: in a room, everyone's you know, you take the broth 752 00:41:36,920 --> 00:41:40,439 Speaker 1: away and I want to be in proximity or near. So, yes, 753 00:41:40,480 --> 00:41:42,239 Speaker 1: it does work in your favor, but it can also 754 00:41:42,400 --> 00:41:46,560 Speaker 1: work against you because jealous people. I mean, I'm sure 755 00:41:46,600 --> 00:41:49,920 Speaker 1: you've had you you share stories which you felt that 756 00:41:50,040 --> 00:41:52,160 Speaker 1: could be backlash because of what you look like. 757 00:41:53,520 --> 00:41:58,640 Speaker 2: I agree, you know, and I think that every girl 758 00:41:58,680 --> 00:42:03,319 Speaker 2: that's quote unquote pretty sure or perceived to be or 759 00:42:03,440 --> 00:42:10,440 Speaker 2: actually is, you know, it's it's hard to navigate that road. 760 00:42:13,160 --> 00:42:17,799 Speaker 2: What I look at is when I see my looks like, 761 00:42:17,840 --> 00:42:20,400 Speaker 2: because I have doubts, you know, I look at myself 762 00:42:20,400 --> 00:42:22,480 Speaker 2: in the mirror and I see, no, that's not working. 763 00:42:22,760 --> 00:42:24,719 Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, I'm too heavy. I got to lose weight. 764 00:42:24,760 --> 00:42:27,239 Speaker 2: Oh my gosh. All of the things you know, I 765 00:42:29,040 --> 00:42:31,560 Speaker 2: do I let my hair go gray? Do I you know, 766 00:42:31,640 --> 00:42:34,640 Speaker 2: all of the things make you doubt who you are? 767 00:42:34,760 --> 00:42:36,960 Speaker 2: You know? So one thing is do I let my 768 00:42:37,040 --> 00:42:39,000 Speaker 2: heart go gray? And then will my fans still know 769 00:42:39,080 --> 00:42:41,200 Speaker 2: me when I've got a book coming out? So that 770 00:42:41,360 --> 00:42:44,440 Speaker 2: was a big question. But you know, COVID hit. So 771 00:42:44,520 --> 00:42:46,440 Speaker 2: I let you know my ma hair grow as a 772 00:42:46,480 --> 00:42:50,960 Speaker 2: test and I liked it, and to me, it made 773 00:42:51,120 --> 00:42:54,920 Speaker 2: it resonated way more than I expected because I'm looking 774 00:42:54,920 --> 00:42:58,880 Speaker 2: at myself and I say, playing Jane, how can I 775 00:42:58,960 --> 00:43:04,040 Speaker 2: be playing Jane? And I'm dying my hair? So when 776 00:43:04,040 --> 00:43:07,080 Speaker 2: the book comes out, I'm gonna be up there talking 777 00:43:07,080 --> 00:43:09,879 Speaker 2: about on playing Jane with dyed black hair. 778 00:43:12,080 --> 00:43:14,279 Speaker 3: That wouldn't have even occurred to me. 779 00:43:14,400 --> 00:43:17,040 Speaker 1: Jane, that would even occurred to me, I would have 780 00:43:17,040 --> 00:43:19,680 Speaker 1: been like, that's why. But it looks beautiful as is. 781 00:43:19,719 --> 00:43:21,600 Speaker 1: But I wouldn't even have thought twice about it. 782 00:43:22,000 --> 00:43:24,840 Speaker 2: Thank you. But yeah, there's you know sometimes that and 783 00:43:24,880 --> 00:43:27,239 Speaker 2: people will say, oh, she's thinks she's too pretty, and 784 00:43:27,280 --> 00:43:29,399 Speaker 2: they don't you know, they count you out no matter 785 00:43:29,440 --> 00:43:33,440 Speaker 2: how intelligent you are, never matter, doesn't matter. Yeah, but 786 00:43:33,520 --> 00:43:36,480 Speaker 2: that's on the person. That's not that's on the person 787 00:43:36,560 --> 00:43:40,040 Speaker 2: that's making those decisions. It's not the individual. And my 788 00:43:40,120 --> 00:43:43,280 Speaker 2: mom always taught me, don't worry about that person, worry 789 00:43:43,280 --> 00:43:44,040 Speaker 2: about yourself. 790 00:43:56,719 --> 00:44:00,399 Speaker 1: In the book, there's this beautiful there's so many. First 791 00:44:00,440 --> 00:44:03,480 Speaker 1: of all, I love a book everyone listening and watching. 792 00:44:03,600 --> 00:44:04,840 Speaker 3: I love a book with images. 793 00:44:04,920 --> 00:44:09,279 Speaker 1: And there are so many great images of you modeling, 794 00:44:10,000 --> 00:44:12,920 Speaker 1: living your life, doing what you do. Oh my god, 795 00:44:12,960 --> 00:44:15,520 Speaker 1: I mean they're just they're stunning, speaking of gorgeous. And 796 00:44:15,560 --> 00:44:19,040 Speaker 1: then there's a picture of you. I believe this is 797 00:44:19,040 --> 00:44:20,520 Speaker 1: with your your husband, and. 798 00:44:20,480 --> 00:44:23,399 Speaker 3: You are he You're wearing a white dress and you're 799 00:44:23,719 --> 00:44:26,799 Speaker 3: leaning back like so my favorite. 800 00:44:26,800 --> 00:44:29,480 Speaker 1: My favorite, it's right I'm going to re emulate that 801 00:44:29,520 --> 00:44:30,680 Speaker 1: I just got to find a husband. 802 00:44:30,680 --> 00:44:32,640 Speaker 3: I'm going to redo this about five. 803 00:44:32,960 --> 00:44:35,520 Speaker 2: Hey, do that? Do that? Because that's how I find 804 00:44:35,520 --> 00:44:36,040 Speaker 2: my husband. 805 00:44:36,320 --> 00:44:36,839 Speaker 3: What do you mean? 806 00:44:37,200 --> 00:44:39,280 Speaker 2: That was the first staid me and my husband met, 807 00:44:39,560 --> 00:44:39,879 Speaker 2: and I. 808 00:44:39,920 --> 00:44:41,920 Speaker 3: Was just going to read Okay, Yes, I was just 809 00:44:41,960 --> 00:44:45,040 Speaker 3: going to read that. Okay, So for the first time. 810 00:44:44,880 --> 00:44:47,760 Speaker 1: I met Bill Overton was a photo shoot for Lamont 811 00:44:48,360 --> 00:44:50,279 Speaker 1: Who is it mac Lamore Maclamore? 812 00:44:50,680 --> 00:44:54,000 Speaker 3: Yes, okay, you tell the story. Tell the story. I 813 00:44:54,560 --> 00:44:57,120 Speaker 3: absolutely love this photo. 814 00:44:57,719 --> 00:44:59,799 Speaker 2: I do too. It's one of my favorites for sure. 815 00:45:00,360 --> 00:45:05,640 Speaker 2: But let me also say that my dear friend Lamont 816 00:45:05,760 --> 00:45:11,800 Speaker 2: maclamore asked away and the funeral was yesterday, So wasn't. 817 00:45:11,560 --> 00:45:15,520 Speaker 3: It really Oh my god, I didn't know that. Yeah, 818 00:45:15,520 --> 00:45:16,200 Speaker 3: Oh my god. 819 00:45:16,239 --> 00:45:18,000 Speaker 2: I apologize for a little bit long. 820 00:45:19,719 --> 00:45:21,880 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, I'm sorry. I had no idea. I 821 00:45:21,920 --> 00:45:23,160 Speaker 1: wouldn't have asked. 822 00:45:23,440 --> 00:45:25,480 Speaker 2: Oh that's okay. He's my dearest friend in life, and 823 00:45:25,520 --> 00:45:29,200 Speaker 2: I'm proud of to talk about him. I wouldn't have 824 00:45:29,320 --> 00:45:33,600 Speaker 2: it any other way. Lam Maclamore was the founding member 825 00:45:33,640 --> 00:45:36,879 Speaker 2: of the Fifth Dimensions, and most people remember them by 826 00:45:37,040 --> 00:45:42,399 Speaker 2: you know, Up, Up and Away, the song global hit 827 00:45:42,600 --> 00:45:49,080 Speaker 2: sensation and ten years talk about a quick quick reaction. Man, 828 00:45:49,239 --> 00:45:53,480 Speaker 2: the world just loved them, and ten years into it, 829 00:45:54,480 --> 00:45:57,920 Speaker 2: one less felt to answer all of their up, up 830 00:45:57,960 --> 00:46:02,839 Speaker 2: and wayh my beautiful balloon. You know the Age of Aquarius, 831 00:46:02,880 --> 00:46:07,279 Speaker 2: you know all of those wonderful songs, and the other 832 00:46:07,360 --> 00:46:13,040 Speaker 2: members won his past. But Florence and Billy and Maryland 833 00:46:14,400 --> 00:46:17,520 Speaker 2: McCoo davis, they were there at the funeral yesterday. 834 00:46:18,440 --> 00:46:21,719 Speaker 1: So you went to the funeral yesterday. I am so sorry. 835 00:46:21,840 --> 00:46:23,640 Speaker 1: I am really sorry for your loss. 836 00:46:24,120 --> 00:46:27,799 Speaker 2: Yeah, and his wife. As soon as I walked in 837 00:46:27,880 --> 00:46:30,279 Speaker 2: the room, his wife came over and she grabbed my 838 00:46:30,320 --> 00:46:32,959 Speaker 2: hand and she took me to the urn and she says, 839 00:46:33,000 --> 00:46:34,960 Speaker 2: we have to touch the urn together because we were 840 00:46:35,000 --> 00:46:36,040 Speaker 2: as two favorite people. 841 00:46:37,840 --> 00:46:37,880 Speaker 1: Know. 842 00:46:38,000 --> 00:46:44,680 Speaker 2: That was Oh God, I'm sorry, that's okay, that's okay. 843 00:46:44,840 --> 00:46:49,160 Speaker 2: He's a great person. He made you laugh every time. 844 00:46:50,080 --> 00:46:54,120 Speaker 2: His house was where all of the Hollywood stars back 845 00:46:54,160 --> 00:46:58,839 Speaker 2: in the nineteen seventies would go to, and he photographed 846 00:46:58,840 --> 00:47:02,200 Speaker 2: so many people. He was a prime photographer for Jet 847 00:47:02,239 --> 00:47:08,560 Speaker 2: Beauties of the Week I'll call Jet Beauties of the Week, 848 00:47:08,719 --> 00:47:12,840 Speaker 2: and it's been doing very well, and I did the 849 00:47:12,880 --> 00:47:18,000 Speaker 2: forward for it. But you know, it's just he was ninety. 850 00:47:18,040 --> 00:47:19,040 Speaker 2: He lived a full life. 851 00:47:19,239 --> 00:47:23,200 Speaker 3: He lived a full life. Well, he also introduced you 852 00:47:23,280 --> 00:47:24,560 Speaker 3: that's where you met your husband? 853 00:47:25,200 --> 00:47:26,880 Speaker 2: Yes, yes, I got sidetracked. 854 00:47:26,920 --> 00:47:32,520 Speaker 3: And yes, the photo my favorite photo was it love 855 00:47:32,560 --> 00:47:33,120 Speaker 3: at first sight? 856 00:47:34,080 --> 00:47:37,960 Speaker 2: No, not at all. Ten years later I think something 857 00:47:38,040 --> 00:47:42,600 Speaker 2: like that. But he had just come from New York. 858 00:47:42,640 --> 00:47:45,480 Speaker 2: He was a model in New York and he also 859 00:47:45,760 --> 00:47:49,319 Speaker 2: was a football player early on in his career. Graduated 860 00:47:49,360 --> 00:47:52,080 Speaker 2: from Wake Forest, played football for Wake Force and Demon 861 00:47:52,480 --> 00:47:56,160 Speaker 2: Demon Deacons, and went to New York and then he 862 00:47:56,239 --> 00:48:01,000 Speaker 2: became a scout there and he started working at the Wilhelmina, 863 00:48:01,760 --> 00:48:05,360 Speaker 2: the FORID Agency, I'm sorry, as a model, and he 864 00:48:05,440 --> 00:48:09,080 Speaker 2: got hired to do several films on the West Coast. 865 00:48:09,160 --> 00:48:11,040 Speaker 2: So he decided, you know, that he would just move 866 00:48:11,080 --> 00:48:15,000 Speaker 2: to the West Coast. And he was just here and 867 00:48:15,080 --> 00:48:18,560 Speaker 2: Lamont was doing a magazine called Too And for the 868 00:48:18,600 --> 00:48:24,000 Speaker 2: cover for his first edition, he wanted to have people 869 00:48:24,040 --> 00:48:27,080 Speaker 2: that was appeared to be husband and wife for the 870 00:48:27,280 --> 00:48:30,279 Speaker 2: for the cover, and he chose Lamant and I and 871 00:48:30,400 --> 00:48:32,400 Speaker 2: that's and so when I showed up, you know, and 872 00:48:32,440 --> 00:48:35,719 Speaker 2: I'm you know, Mont's Monts standing there and he's got 873 00:48:35,800 --> 00:48:39,480 Speaker 2: his brief son and no shirt, and you know, and 874 00:48:39,640 --> 00:48:45,600 Speaker 2: I'm wearing a shirt that comes down to halfway through 875 00:48:45,719 --> 00:48:47,719 Speaker 2: to my knees, and that supposed to be the cover 876 00:48:47,840 --> 00:48:51,560 Speaker 2: of the magazine, and then these ancillary photos were to 877 00:48:51,600 --> 00:48:55,120 Speaker 2: be on the interior. And that's the first day we met, 878 00:48:55,360 --> 00:48:59,759 Speaker 2: and so we just became friends. We uh for the 879 00:48:59,800 --> 00:49:04,759 Speaker 2: next ten years, although through my marriage when I divorced 880 00:49:04,760 --> 00:49:11,839 Speaker 2: and we actually separated in eight twenty eight, nineteen eighty one. 881 00:49:12,080 --> 00:49:18,279 Speaker 2: We got divorced in eighty two. He was married, had 882 00:49:18,280 --> 00:49:24,680 Speaker 2: a daughter, Cheyenne, who's my wonderful stepdaughter, and then five 883 00:49:24,760 --> 00:49:29,080 Speaker 2: years later we ended up getting married and we have 884 00:49:29,160 --> 00:49:33,719 Speaker 2: three children, Savannah, Copper, and Zaire, and they're the light 885 00:49:33,760 --> 00:49:35,800 Speaker 2: of my life. 886 00:49:36,040 --> 00:49:39,439 Speaker 1: You took so if we were to trunk a which 887 00:49:39,440 --> 00:49:41,800 Speaker 1: we can't really, but if we say seventies and eighties, 888 00:49:42,520 --> 00:49:45,560 Speaker 1: part of the nineties you were working, maybe mid nineties. 889 00:49:46,000 --> 00:49:48,160 Speaker 1: You told me how much work you did in the nineties, 890 00:49:48,160 --> 00:49:50,120 Speaker 1: but then there was a time in which you took 891 00:49:50,160 --> 00:49:53,399 Speaker 1: time to take care of your family, mother, wife, all 892 00:49:53,480 --> 00:49:54,320 Speaker 1: of those things. 893 00:49:54,920 --> 00:49:55,840 Speaker 3: During that time. 894 00:49:56,080 --> 00:49:58,719 Speaker 1: Were you thinking, oh, I want to come back and 895 00:49:58,800 --> 00:50:01,040 Speaker 1: work again, or were you you trying to and you 896 00:50:01,080 --> 00:50:05,719 Speaker 1: felt shut out by Hollywood or were you in the 897 00:50:05,760 --> 00:50:08,080 Speaker 1: gray phase of I don't necessarily know. 898 00:50:09,680 --> 00:50:13,640 Speaker 2: When I was diagnosed with endometriosis in the early eighties, 899 00:50:14,320 --> 00:50:19,560 Speaker 2: it and I had the HIT exercise program, traveling all 900 00:50:19,600 --> 00:50:23,920 Speaker 2: across the country, and now I can't even do one 901 00:50:23,960 --> 00:50:27,560 Speaker 2: set up and I couldn't figure out what the diagnosis was. 902 00:50:28,000 --> 00:50:30,840 Speaker 2: And it was sort of a new disease at that time, 903 00:50:31,400 --> 00:50:33,879 Speaker 2: and so all of these doctors I went to many, 904 00:50:33,880 --> 00:50:36,800 Speaker 2: many hospitals, nobody could find an answer. And finally my 905 00:50:37,800 --> 00:50:41,960 Speaker 2: obgyn said, well, why don't we just test you for indometriosis? 906 00:50:41,960 --> 00:50:45,120 Speaker 2: And it came back positive and I couldn't do my 907 00:50:45,200 --> 00:50:49,120 Speaker 2: exersports program anymore. Everything had to shut down. It was 908 00:50:49,200 --> 00:50:57,239 Speaker 2: so painful that I couldn't function at all. Everything. He said, 909 00:50:57,280 --> 00:51:01,480 Speaker 2: the only thing that can help is pregnancy, and I said, okay, God, 910 00:51:01,520 --> 00:51:02,040 Speaker 2: I'm ready. 911 00:51:02,400 --> 00:51:03,000 Speaker 3: Oh wow. 912 00:51:03,400 --> 00:51:05,680 Speaker 2: I just I went to Bill and I said, you know, 913 00:51:05,880 --> 00:51:07,200 Speaker 2: I want to have a baby. I want to have 914 00:51:07,280 --> 00:51:11,160 Speaker 2: your baby. He said, we just we were just together 915 00:51:11,280 --> 00:51:14,520 Speaker 2: like one year, and you know, we hadn't even said 916 00:51:14,560 --> 00:51:17,400 Speaker 2: anything about getting married or anything. But I said, I 917 00:51:17,480 --> 00:51:19,279 Speaker 2: knew this was going to be the path for me. 918 00:51:19,719 --> 00:51:21,600 Speaker 2: And now we've been together forty years. 919 00:51:21,719 --> 00:51:24,960 Speaker 3: Well that's good, that was great. That was good work. 920 00:51:25,080 --> 00:51:28,520 Speaker 2: Now, But the end of metriosis was there as long 921 00:51:28,560 --> 00:51:33,080 Speaker 2: as I was If I was pregnant, it was gone. 922 00:51:33,560 --> 00:51:37,400 Speaker 2: During nursing, it was gone. As soon as I stopped nursing, 923 00:51:37,440 --> 00:51:40,520 Speaker 2: it would come back. So I lived within demetriosis for 924 00:51:40,560 --> 00:51:45,520 Speaker 2: eleven years, which took me out of the industry. And 925 00:51:45,600 --> 00:51:48,160 Speaker 2: I'm raising my children and I'm thinking, you know, now, 926 00:51:48,160 --> 00:51:50,520 Speaker 2: I'm being a proud mom, and we're saying, you know, 927 00:51:50,600 --> 00:51:52,680 Speaker 2: what are we going to do, you know, other than 928 00:51:52,880 --> 00:51:55,279 Speaker 2: going on the road all the time. And that's when 929 00:51:55,280 --> 00:51:58,719 Speaker 2: we came up with doing a theatrical play called The 930 00:51:58,800 --> 00:52:02,000 Speaker 2: Journey of the African America. Was supposed to run for 931 00:52:02,080 --> 00:52:05,400 Speaker 2: six weeks. Bill was producer, actually Bill and I, but 932 00:52:06,360 --> 00:52:09,200 Speaker 2: I was being mommy too much to actually be the producer. 933 00:52:09,840 --> 00:52:12,919 Speaker 2: And we had a cast of thirty five. A lot 934 00:52:12,960 --> 00:52:16,799 Speaker 2: of children were in it. But it was an incredible 935 00:52:16,920 --> 00:52:19,799 Speaker 2: It was supposed to run for six weeks. It ran 936 00:52:19,880 --> 00:52:22,880 Speaker 2: for ten months, and then we got booked on the 937 00:52:22,960 --> 00:52:26,040 Speaker 2: road and so we're now going out, you know, with 938 00:52:26,280 --> 00:52:29,840 Speaker 2: this huge cast. We're in Atlanta, we have you know, 939 00:52:30,000 --> 00:52:35,280 Speaker 2: standing ovations, while we were in La Mendela was freed 940 00:52:36,080 --> 00:52:41,080 Speaker 2: and Mayor Tom Bradley invited him to Los Angeles and 941 00:52:41,160 --> 00:52:45,440 Speaker 2: he asked for command performance from our troop to perform 942 00:52:45,480 --> 00:52:48,359 Speaker 2: on the steps of city Hall when Mendela was there, 943 00:52:48,760 --> 00:52:50,840 Speaker 2: and we changed the lyrics of the song to go 944 00:52:50,960 --> 00:52:55,759 Speaker 2: with Mendela's free with the African American family. You know, 945 00:52:55,960 --> 00:53:01,680 Speaker 2: we were just doing so well, and Matriosis was, you know, 946 00:53:01,719 --> 00:53:03,560 Speaker 2: I was as long as I was pregnant, I was. 947 00:53:03,600 --> 00:53:09,040 Speaker 2: It was doing well. And then we're out on the 948 00:53:09,120 --> 00:53:16,520 Speaker 2: road and I get a message from Leon and he says, 949 00:53:18,440 --> 00:53:21,160 Speaker 2: I need to come over and talk to you. And 950 00:53:24,560 --> 00:53:27,040 Speaker 2: I could tell right then we were heading I were 951 00:53:27,080 --> 00:53:29,320 Speaker 2: heading out on the road. So we were at home 952 00:53:29,719 --> 00:53:31,840 Speaker 2: and my children were getting ready to go to the beach. 953 00:53:32,280 --> 00:53:34,000 Speaker 2: So I told the girls, I said, you know, we're 954 00:53:34,040 --> 00:53:35,200 Speaker 2: not going to have to go to the beach day. 955 00:53:35,239 --> 00:53:37,440 Speaker 2: I could tell it by the tone in his voice. 956 00:53:38,239 --> 00:53:40,640 Speaker 2: And he came over, and this has been ten years 957 00:53:40,680 --> 00:53:44,560 Speaker 2: since we've been divorced, and he said the tape is out. 958 00:53:45,560 --> 00:53:48,320 Speaker 2: And I hadn't even thought of the tape. I did totally. 959 00:53:49,120 --> 00:53:51,720 Speaker 2: It was so far we that was done in nineteen 960 00:53:51,800 --> 00:53:55,279 Speaker 2: seventy five, and here we are in nineteen ninety two, 961 00:54:00,560 --> 00:54:02,840 Speaker 2: and there was a gentleman, I don't even want to 962 00:54:02,840 --> 00:54:06,120 Speaker 2: call him a gentleman, an individual that stole the tape, 963 00:54:07,160 --> 00:54:12,319 Speaker 2: sold it so that he could get drugs, and it 964 00:54:12,440 --> 00:54:19,799 Speaker 2: destroyed my career. It destroyed my belief in myself. I 965 00:54:19,840 --> 00:54:22,719 Speaker 2: didn't want anybody to see me anymore. I couldn't. I 966 00:54:22,719 --> 00:54:28,600 Speaker 2: couldn't look at anybody anymore. I couldn't even look at myself. 967 00:54:30,920 --> 00:54:36,520 Speaker 2: My children became my lifeline. My husband tried to help 968 00:54:36,560 --> 00:54:38,520 Speaker 2: as much as he could, but I was just broken. 969 00:54:47,280 --> 00:54:49,400 Speaker 2: And people would call and say, you know, well, can 970 00:54:49,480 --> 00:54:52,920 Speaker 2: Jane come and do this? And Bill knew the answer. 971 00:54:53,400 --> 00:54:55,759 Speaker 2: You know, usually he'd say no, but sometimes he'd ask. 972 00:54:56,280 --> 00:55:00,040 Speaker 2: And in a CP image Awards called and we I 973 00:55:00,040 --> 00:55:02,560 Speaker 2: had gotten the Theater Award for Best Production with the 974 00:55:02,560 --> 00:55:07,279 Speaker 2: African American. So some years later they asked me if 975 00:55:07,320 --> 00:55:11,160 Speaker 2: I would come and present the Theater Award to a 976 00:55:11,200 --> 00:55:14,640 Speaker 2: troop of actors that had just they thought was going 977 00:55:14,680 --> 00:55:19,640 Speaker 2: to be winning. And Bill asked me, and he knew 978 00:55:19,640 --> 00:55:21,120 Speaker 2: I was going to say no, and I said yes, 979 00:55:22,719 --> 00:55:27,600 Speaker 2: and he did a double take. He said, what are 980 00:55:27,640 --> 00:55:31,480 Speaker 2: you sure? And I said yeah, So I got to 981 00:55:31,600 --> 00:55:38,360 Speaker 2: the arena and I was so scared. I didn't know 982 00:55:38,360 --> 00:55:44,040 Speaker 2: what to do. I did not want to go I 983 00:55:44,080 --> 00:55:46,600 Speaker 2: did not want to go out and let my peers, 984 00:55:46,920 --> 00:55:52,719 Speaker 2: my friends see me again. And I kept trying to 985 00:55:52,719 --> 00:55:55,200 Speaker 2: find an exit. I kept trying to find a door. 986 00:55:56,000 --> 00:55:57,799 Speaker 2: There were none. I said, well, that's got to find 987 00:55:57,840 --> 00:55:59,560 Speaker 2: out there's a window that I can break and I 988 00:55:59,560 --> 00:56:04,360 Speaker 2: can jump. I didn't do this. I didn't Bill grab 989 00:56:04,400 --> 00:56:08,480 Speaker 2: me and he had given him a script and he 990 00:56:08,560 --> 00:56:11,000 Speaker 2: grabbed my hand and he had led me on stage, 991 00:56:11,480 --> 00:56:16,040 Speaker 2: and I just trusted him, and I walked up the 992 00:56:16,040 --> 00:56:20,000 Speaker 2: steps behind him, and he walked to the podium and 993 00:56:20,120 --> 00:56:23,160 Speaker 2: he threw away the script and he said, I just 994 00:56:23,200 --> 00:56:26,239 Speaker 2: want to thank the NACAP for getting my wife out 995 00:56:26,239 --> 00:56:34,759 Speaker 2: of the house. And all of my friends that I've 996 00:56:34,800 --> 00:56:45,000 Speaker 2: been afraid of, they all stood up with a standing ovation. Yeah, 997 00:56:45,400 --> 00:56:48,920 Speaker 2: And that was that was a turnaround for me to 998 00:56:49,080 --> 00:56:52,120 Speaker 2: that I needed to turn my life around. It took 999 00:56:52,160 --> 00:56:55,200 Speaker 2: many more years to do that, but that was it. 1000 00:56:55,360 --> 00:56:58,920 Speaker 2: That was the moment. It was a defining moment. And 1001 00:56:58,960 --> 00:57:03,520 Speaker 2: then you're dealing with, Okay, you've been away from the industry, 1002 00:57:03,719 --> 00:57:08,360 Speaker 2: can you come back. So many other people they're continuing 1003 00:57:08,360 --> 00:57:16,560 Speaker 2: their jobs, they're performing. We've got Debbie Allen doing directing 1004 00:57:16,640 --> 00:57:18,760 Speaker 2: on TV, you know, and all these other people, these 1005 00:57:18,800 --> 00:57:21,640 Speaker 2: amazing women doing things that I wanted to do. I 1006 00:57:21,680 --> 00:57:27,000 Speaker 2: wanted to be a director, and I walked away from it. 1007 00:57:28,560 --> 00:57:32,200 Speaker 2: So I had to talk myself into how are you 1008 00:57:32,280 --> 00:57:32,880 Speaker 2: going back? 1009 00:57:33,800 --> 00:57:34,040 Speaker 1: Yeah? 1010 00:57:34,400 --> 00:57:36,720 Speaker 2: First was I had to start losing weight because I 1011 00:57:36,760 --> 00:57:44,280 Speaker 2: had gained so much weight. So I I did. I 1012 00:57:44,280 --> 00:57:51,280 Speaker 2: lost seventy bounds and I'm still enjoying trying to lose more. 1013 00:57:52,120 --> 00:57:59,320 Speaker 2: But the bookman a lot to me. Ad meant the 1014 00:57:59,400 --> 00:58:02,480 Speaker 2: book was the most important thing other than my family, 1015 00:58:04,200 --> 00:58:09,240 Speaker 2: to prove to myself and let people know that I 1016 00:58:09,320 --> 00:58:13,960 Speaker 2: am not done yet. Amen, And that's the name of 1017 00:58:13,960 --> 00:58:14,600 Speaker 2: my company. 1018 00:58:18,160 --> 00:58:21,760 Speaker 3: It's so wonderful to hear this. I need this, we 1019 00:58:21,800 --> 00:58:22,280 Speaker 3: need this. 1020 00:58:23,520 --> 00:58:25,960 Speaker 2: But you know, then I go on stage and I 1021 00:58:26,040 --> 00:58:30,160 Speaker 2: see you guys on stage, and I'm so proud of you. 1022 00:58:31,080 --> 00:58:35,840 Speaker 2: That day that we went on stage together, I looked 1023 00:58:35,840 --> 00:58:37,440 Speaker 2: at each and every one of you. I didn't want 1024 00:58:37,480 --> 00:58:40,320 Speaker 2: to say anything until I could take you all in 1025 00:58:40,600 --> 00:58:45,000 Speaker 2: and enjoy sitting there and watching you shine, you know, 1026 00:58:45,160 --> 00:58:51,440 Speaker 2: and knowing that I had a pardon. I'm so proud 1027 00:58:51,440 --> 00:58:56,600 Speaker 2: of all of you, all of the women in sports broadcasting, 1028 00:58:59,160 --> 00:59:01,280 Speaker 2: there's one that I'm. 1029 00:59:01,920 --> 00:59:06,440 Speaker 3: Well, there's always one. Thank you. 1030 00:59:06,480 --> 00:59:08,560 Speaker 1: We can say this. Jamale and I talked about this 1031 00:59:10,680 --> 00:59:13,520 Speaker 1: and she said, I don't think Jane feels like she 1032 00:59:14,040 --> 00:59:16,760 Speaker 1: gets the respect and or love that she deserves. I 1033 00:59:16,800 --> 00:59:20,920 Speaker 1: was like, I could imagine her not feeling that way. 1034 00:59:21,960 --> 00:59:23,840 Speaker 1: But if you had any time with any of us, 1035 00:59:23,840 --> 00:59:27,840 Speaker 1: you know that we are so in awe of what 1036 00:59:27,880 --> 00:59:29,280 Speaker 1: you've been able to do. 1037 00:59:30,760 --> 00:59:38,280 Speaker 3: And the level of grace that you handle yourself with. 1038 00:59:39,280 --> 00:59:42,120 Speaker 1: I think when you tell your story, a lot of 1039 00:59:42,160 --> 00:59:45,040 Speaker 1: me gets upset because I think, gosh, I hate that 1040 00:59:45,200 --> 00:59:49,960 Speaker 1: a tape with your husband can ruin your career or 1041 00:59:50,320 --> 00:59:53,360 Speaker 1: sideline your career when there are so many other more 1042 00:59:53,440 --> 00:59:55,480 Speaker 1: egregious things happening in the world. 1043 00:59:55,520 --> 01:00:01,640 Speaker 3: This feels overly punitive, But I do feel like it's 1044 01:00:01,680 --> 01:00:02,160 Speaker 3: your time. 1045 01:00:02,640 --> 01:00:06,680 Speaker 1: I think that being welcomed back into this world where 1046 01:00:06,720 --> 01:00:09,480 Speaker 1: you know that everyone knows you, at least anyone with 1047 01:00:09,560 --> 01:00:12,080 Speaker 1: any significance in their career knows who you are and 1048 01:00:12,120 --> 01:00:14,240 Speaker 1: what you've done. We stand on your shoulders and I 1049 01:00:14,320 --> 01:00:19,480 Speaker 1: mean that, And there's all we all have felt ignored 1050 01:00:20,000 --> 01:00:23,360 Speaker 1: and or sidelined and or exiled in this business for 1051 01:00:23,560 --> 01:00:25,840 Speaker 1: being a black or brown girl trying to do her 1052 01:00:25,960 --> 01:00:30,959 Speaker 1: job and then also trying to have a personal life. Unfortunately, 1053 01:00:31,040 --> 01:00:34,160 Speaker 1: we're not allowed to have one sometimes and many of 1054 01:00:34,240 --> 01:00:36,560 Speaker 1: us feel like we have to pretend to be something 1055 01:00:36,600 --> 01:00:41,800 Speaker 1: we're not. And you've you lived in so many different worlds, 1056 01:00:42,120 --> 01:00:44,720 Speaker 1: and you made it okay to say I'm multi talented 1057 01:00:44,800 --> 01:00:47,800 Speaker 1: and I and I want to be many things, and 1058 01:00:47,840 --> 01:00:53,120 Speaker 1: I deserve to be many things. And nowadays you think 1059 01:00:53,120 --> 01:00:56,800 Speaker 1: about a tape sex sake that isn't seedy or gotdy, 1060 01:00:56,840 --> 01:00:59,160 Speaker 1: I'm with my husband, it's nothing in comparison to what 1061 01:00:59,240 --> 01:01:01,680 Speaker 1: I see people do all the time in this business. 1062 01:01:02,160 --> 01:01:03,200 Speaker 3: So that's why it's. 1063 01:01:03,000 --> 01:01:05,840 Speaker 1: Beautiful to know that there's still more left and you 1064 01:01:05,920 --> 01:01:08,880 Speaker 1: haven't given up. We all need to hear that story 1065 01:01:09,080 --> 01:01:12,200 Speaker 1: because no one wants to walk away silently into the night. 1066 01:01:12,280 --> 01:01:14,200 Speaker 1: We still want to work in different ways, and you 1067 01:01:14,280 --> 01:01:17,280 Speaker 1: still are doing that with this book. You're giving us 1068 01:01:17,400 --> 01:01:20,040 Speaker 1: renewed hope for those of us who still know there 1069 01:01:20,120 --> 01:01:23,240 Speaker 1: is still more left. It's not your final act. So 1070 01:01:23,320 --> 01:01:26,080 Speaker 1: I'm so grateful for you sharing that story. I'm so 1071 01:01:26,280 --> 01:01:28,080 Speaker 1: hurt that you had to go through that. 1072 01:01:29,160 --> 01:01:32,120 Speaker 3: I wonder if you ever get over that, Jane, has 1073 01:01:32,160 --> 01:01:33,960 Speaker 3: that hurt left you? 1074 01:01:33,960 --> 01:01:36,919 Speaker 2: You know, I think about that a lot, because I'm 1075 01:01:36,960 --> 01:01:39,040 Speaker 2: saying to myself, you know, why am I telling this 1076 01:01:39,160 --> 01:01:42,840 Speaker 2: story again? And I'm still crying, you know, I and 1077 01:01:43,000 --> 01:01:45,600 Speaker 2: I and I said when I wrote the book, if 1078 01:01:45,640 --> 01:01:48,120 Speaker 2: I get it out, then I can be strong, and 1079 01:01:48,160 --> 01:01:50,880 Speaker 2: then I can go forward and do all the things 1080 01:01:50,920 --> 01:01:52,919 Speaker 2: that I love to do. I can be a matter 1081 01:01:53,200 --> 01:01:56,480 Speaker 2: to my children, you know, I can be I mean, 1082 01:01:56,560 --> 01:01:58,360 Speaker 2: I think I'm a great mom to my child. And 1083 01:01:58,400 --> 01:02:01,200 Speaker 2: they'll tell you, well, you have a right. Well, this 1084 01:02:01,400 --> 01:02:08,800 Speaker 2: amazing extended, blended family, that's just crazy, crazy, amazing. I'm 1085 01:02:08,880 --> 01:02:13,720 Speaker 2: so blessed in that regard. And you know, so that 1086 01:02:13,800 --> 01:02:19,080 Speaker 2: part I'm not worried about. But yes, it's really hard. 1087 01:02:19,320 --> 01:02:22,760 Speaker 2: And I had found I didn't know how to forgive 1088 01:02:22,800 --> 01:02:26,840 Speaker 2: myself for a long time, and I knew that I 1089 01:02:26,920 --> 01:02:31,040 Speaker 2: had to forgive. I'm thinking of all these people have 1090 01:02:31,120 --> 01:02:33,439 Speaker 2: to forgive, people that have wronged me. People have done 1091 01:02:33,440 --> 01:02:36,479 Speaker 2: this and this and this, and I said, I can't 1092 01:02:36,480 --> 01:02:39,320 Speaker 2: forgive them. You know, my life has been destroyed. My 1093 01:02:39,400 --> 01:02:42,000 Speaker 2: life is ruined, and you know I can't forgive them. 1094 01:02:42,240 --> 01:02:45,800 Speaker 2: And then I met this gentleman. There was a small 1095 01:02:45,880 --> 01:02:50,680 Speaker 2: church and that I was going to the market, and 1096 01:02:50,720 --> 01:02:54,120 Speaker 2: this glowing yellow light was coming through the door and 1097 01:02:54,160 --> 01:02:57,600 Speaker 2: you could hear the choir rehears and it was an 1098 01:02:57,640 --> 01:03:01,560 Speaker 2: African American church, sound like southern southern singing with which 1099 01:03:01,560 --> 01:03:04,560 Speaker 2: I love, you know. So I just made a U turn. 1100 01:03:04,840 --> 01:03:07,080 Speaker 2: I don't know why other than the fact that God 1101 01:03:07,120 --> 01:03:09,479 Speaker 2: told me and I just made a quick U turn 1102 01:03:09,560 --> 01:03:12,680 Speaker 2: pulled it to and I sat there waiting till their 1103 01:03:12,840 --> 01:03:16,400 Speaker 2: rehearsal was over, and I went to the pastor. I 1104 01:03:16,480 --> 01:03:19,920 Speaker 2: had no idea who he was, and I just started crying. 1105 01:03:19,960 --> 01:03:22,280 Speaker 2: I said, I need to know how to forgive. And 1106 01:03:22,360 --> 01:03:26,560 Speaker 2: I started talking and he didn't say anything. He just 1107 01:03:26,640 --> 01:03:32,040 Speaker 2: let me vomit, you know, and spit everything out that 1108 01:03:32,120 --> 01:03:39,280 Speaker 2: I was feeling to a total stranger, to a total stranger. 1109 01:03:39,720 --> 01:03:41,240 Speaker 2: Then he gave me a tissue, and he says, you know, 1110 01:03:41,320 --> 01:03:47,560 Speaker 2: these things come in handy sometimes. He says me to 1111 01:03:47,640 --> 01:03:50,400 Speaker 2: set some sessions, and he said, you can come and 1112 01:03:50,440 --> 01:03:56,120 Speaker 2: we can meet. We did for six weeks and the 1113 01:03:56,200 --> 01:03:59,200 Speaker 2: last week he said, so what have you learned as 1114 01:03:59,240 --> 01:04:03,200 Speaker 2: of today? And I said, I have to learn how 1115 01:04:03,240 --> 01:04:08,040 Speaker 2: to forgive myself. I said, that's the only thing. I said. 1116 01:04:08,320 --> 01:04:12,840 Speaker 2: I know I've I'm a nice person. I'm a decent person. 1117 01:04:12,920 --> 01:04:17,440 Speaker 2: I'm not hard on anybody, even though I'm a scorpio. 1118 01:04:18,040 --> 01:04:21,200 Speaker 2: You know, I don't really hold a grudge except the 1119 01:04:21,240 --> 01:04:25,880 Speaker 2: guy that stole the tape. I don't know how to 1120 01:04:25,920 --> 01:04:29,200 Speaker 2: forgive him, and I don't know how to forgive myself. 1121 01:04:29,200 --> 01:04:32,360 Speaker 2: He said, that's it. You don't know how to forgive yourself. 1122 01:04:33,400 --> 01:04:36,360 Speaker 2: And we talked about that for a long time. I 1123 01:04:36,400 --> 01:04:39,040 Speaker 2: went back for our next session and the church was 1124 01:04:39,040 --> 01:04:42,760 Speaker 2: boarded up, so I said, well, maybe I don't know, 1125 01:04:42,800 --> 01:04:45,280 Speaker 2: maybe they moved. I called his wife. She said, no, 1126 01:04:45,320 --> 01:04:47,880 Speaker 2: I haven't seen him in three or four years. She says, 1127 01:04:47,920 --> 01:04:53,800 Speaker 2: we're not together. And went back again. Church have been bulldozed, 1128 01:04:56,080 --> 01:05:04,760 Speaker 2: and I never saw him again. Wow. Message is that 1129 01:05:05,480 --> 01:05:09,800 Speaker 2: you've learned. You've learned that you have to forgive yourself. 1130 01:05:11,000 --> 01:05:13,280 Speaker 2: And that's the reason I came there in the first place. 1131 01:05:14,280 --> 01:05:20,280 Speaker 2: I needed to learn that, and now I have. And 1132 01:05:20,360 --> 01:05:23,840 Speaker 2: I know, say, you know, how can you say you 1133 01:05:23,840 --> 01:05:25,880 Speaker 2: forgive yourself and you're sitting there in tears? But I 1134 01:05:25,920 --> 01:05:28,560 Speaker 2: have because I was strong enough to write the book, 1135 01:05:30,120 --> 01:05:33,640 Speaker 2: and I wanted to put people say, well, why in 1136 01:05:33,680 --> 01:05:36,360 Speaker 2: the first part, you know, I said, because if I 1137 01:05:36,360 --> 01:05:38,680 Speaker 2: don't put it there, and if I don't talk about 1138 01:05:38,680 --> 01:05:41,280 Speaker 2: it in the book, people won't believe the book at all. 1139 01:05:42,800 --> 01:05:46,920 Speaker 2: And my story was too important to have this again 1140 01:05:47,520 --> 01:05:51,800 Speaker 2: destroy me. So I put it in the book. 1141 01:05:53,800 --> 01:05:56,040 Speaker 1: I will I will tell you most people like me 1142 01:05:56,320 --> 01:05:59,720 Speaker 1: who know the story or bits and pieces of it. 1143 01:06:02,120 --> 01:06:07,400 Speaker 1: I know I felt seeing seeing that it's okay to 1144 01:06:08,360 --> 01:06:12,240 Speaker 1: not always love every detail about your life. But when 1145 01:06:12,360 --> 01:06:16,760 Speaker 1: I read it, I felt like that secret shouldn't have 1146 01:06:16,760 --> 01:06:20,000 Speaker 1: any more power, because secrets have power, like they hold 1147 01:06:20,080 --> 01:06:23,880 Speaker 1: so much power. And I've felt like for me if 1148 01:06:23,920 --> 01:06:26,320 Speaker 1: you read, when you read something, you often relate to 1149 01:06:26,360 --> 01:06:30,760 Speaker 1: how where where it resonates with you. And it felt 1150 01:06:30,880 --> 01:06:39,160 Speaker 1: very fearless. It felt very I've learned, and now there's more. 1151 01:06:39,720 --> 01:06:42,560 Speaker 1: And also in the grand scheme of things. I know 1152 01:06:42,640 --> 01:06:44,960 Speaker 1: you probably don't feel this way because it is your experience, 1153 01:06:45,560 --> 01:06:50,040 Speaker 1: but when I think about it, it feels so insignificant 1154 01:06:50,200 --> 01:06:55,040 Speaker 1: considering where we are in today's times. It doesn't even 1155 01:06:55,080 --> 01:06:58,479 Speaker 1: feel like it should it should even be it should 1156 01:06:58,600 --> 01:07:02,400 Speaker 1: be a just okay, that happened, that happened. It shouldn't 1157 01:07:02,440 --> 01:07:04,960 Speaker 1: be like, let's stop the press. This is There is 1158 01:07:05,040 --> 01:07:08,560 Speaker 1: no penalty I think attached to it anymore. There's nothing 1159 01:07:08,600 --> 01:07:12,280 Speaker 1: more punitive that can happen to you. If anything, people 1160 01:07:12,320 --> 01:07:15,000 Speaker 1: are looking at it and learning that things do happen, 1161 01:07:15,280 --> 01:07:18,240 Speaker 1: bad things happen to good people, but they survive. That's 1162 01:07:18,600 --> 01:07:23,200 Speaker 1: how I read it, And I think that message for 1163 01:07:23,360 --> 01:07:26,600 Speaker 1: little brown girls who do what we do is so 1164 01:07:26,720 --> 01:07:29,640 Speaker 1: important because we won't always get it right, we won't 1165 01:07:29,640 --> 01:07:32,960 Speaker 1: always make the decisions. They judge us so much more 1166 01:07:33,280 --> 01:07:37,400 Speaker 1: harshly than they do others. So if we learn to 1167 01:07:37,440 --> 01:07:41,320 Speaker 1: forgive ourselves, you know, then we can move on. That's 1168 01:07:41,560 --> 01:07:42,840 Speaker 1: what I'm hearing you say. 1169 01:07:43,840 --> 01:07:49,160 Speaker 2: Absolutely, absolutely, And that message was not just for me. 1170 01:07:49,320 --> 01:07:51,760 Speaker 2: It was for my daughters. When you say, we look 1171 01:07:51,800 --> 01:07:55,560 Speaker 2: at these brown girls and you know, and they do 1172 01:07:55,680 --> 01:08:00,720 Speaker 2: need to be told that they matter. They do need 1173 01:08:00,760 --> 01:08:03,080 Speaker 2: to be told that no matter what you can achieve, 1174 01:08:03,720 --> 01:08:07,200 Speaker 2: you know. I was given the maybe five years ago, 1175 01:08:10,040 --> 01:08:13,520 Speaker 2: Black Enterprise Magazine and the Women of Power Legacy Awards 1176 01:08:14,440 --> 01:08:17,280 Speaker 2: they gave me. They Butch Graves called me in the 1177 01:08:17,320 --> 01:08:21,360 Speaker 2: morning and I hadn't talking to him since he been 1178 01:08:21,360 --> 01:08:24,680 Speaker 2: a kid. I knew his father, and he called me 1179 01:08:24,720 --> 01:08:26,880 Speaker 2: and he said, Jane we want to honor you with 1180 01:08:26,880 --> 01:08:30,080 Speaker 2: the Legacy Award this year. And he said, but you 1181 01:08:30,120 --> 01:08:33,120 Speaker 2: can't come unless you bring your daughters to because I'm 1182 01:08:33,160 --> 01:08:35,680 Speaker 2: to see this. I want them to see who their 1183 01:08:35,720 --> 01:08:41,840 Speaker 2: mother is. And that was probably just one of the 1184 01:08:41,880 --> 01:08:50,400 Speaker 2: most amazing things anybody could say to me. So we 1185 01:08:50,479 --> 01:08:56,000 Speaker 2: went down there, gave my speech. Girls were having a blast. 1186 01:08:56,360 --> 01:09:02,200 Speaker 2: Two thousand black women strong, all the executives of this 1187 01:09:02,400 --> 01:09:06,439 Speaker 2: that and the other strong women in this country, and 1188 01:09:06,520 --> 01:09:09,920 Speaker 2: the possibilities are endless. And they saw that, you know, 1189 01:09:09,960 --> 01:09:13,880 Speaker 2: and so one person as copper, they said, you know, so, 1190 01:09:14,240 --> 01:09:16,040 Speaker 2: what was it like when you were growing up? You know? 1191 01:09:16,439 --> 01:09:19,080 Speaker 2: And you look at your mom and she says, well, 1192 01:09:19,120 --> 01:09:21,479 Speaker 2: you know, well, we knew that she was in an 1193 01:09:21,640 --> 01:09:24,599 Speaker 2: entertainment book, she said, but when I'm standing here today, 1194 01:09:24,720 --> 01:09:28,080 Speaker 2: now I know what y'all been talking about. Yeah, And 1195 01:09:28,840 --> 01:09:32,880 Speaker 2: so the book is for them, for them to know 1196 01:09:33,439 --> 01:09:40,240 Speaker 2: who they came from. 1197 01:09:40,560 --> 01:09:42,879 Speaker 3: But have you read a grap anyday. 1198 01:09:45,920 --> 01:09:48,759 Speaker 2: This wasn't supposed to happen. We're supposed to be talking sports. 1199 01:09:48,800 --> 01:09:52,400 Speaker 3: Girl, we are, we did we have. 1200 01:09:54,040 --> 01:09:56,559 Speaker 1: I think we're talking about this is a This is 1201 01:09:56,800 --> 01:09:59,760 Speaker 1: Jane the story of women in sports, and this is 1202 01:10:00,080 --> 01:10:01,639 Speaker 1: passes black and Brown. 1203 01:10:01,680 --> 01:10:02,880 Speaker 3: It's a tough ask. 1204 01:10:03,479 --> 01:10:06,519 Speaker 1: It's still very male dominated business, even though we, like 1205 01:10:06,560 --> 01:10:09,680 Speaker 1: I said, stand on your shoulders. It's hard to be 1206 01:10:09,720 --> 01:10:15,000 Speaker 1: in this industry and find space that feels safe and 1207 01:10:16,120 --> 01:10:21,040 Speaker 1: know that you can have a life after and then 1208 01:10:21,120 --> 01:10:23,439 Speaker 1: come back and have a life after, and then come 1209 01:10:23,479 --> 01:10:27,160 Speaker 1: back and have a life after. And you've shown us that, 1210 01:10:27,280 --> 01:10:29,160 Speaker 1: and you can show all of your talents like this 1211 01:10:29,320 --> 01:10:33,759 Speaker 1: is so important to know that we're able to live loudly. 1212 01:10:34,600 --> 01:10:38,120 Speaker 1: I think your tears are so refreshing for me like 1213 01:10:38,200 --> 01:10:40,639 Speaker 1: I because you are speaking to my spirit in every 1214 01:10:40,680 --> 01:10:44,559 Speaker 1: possible way. I think we all feel no matter how 1215 01:10:44,560 --> 01:10:47,080 Speaker 1: successful we are, no matter what we've accomplished, we always 1216 01:10:47,080 --> 01:10:49,559 Speaker 1: feel like we're being hidden. I've had this conversation with 1217 01:10:49,680 --> 01:10:51,920 Speaker 1: Maria and Jamel and Taylor. 1218 01:10:51,960 --> 01:10:55,040 Speaker 3: I can name a list of women who appear to 1219 01:10:55,080 --> 01:11:00,240 Speaker 3: be thriving, but always wonder where safe? Is Is it 1220 01:11:00,320 --> 01:11:01,679 Speaker 3: safe here? Is it safe there? 1221 01:11:02,200 --> 01:11:02,519 Speaker 2: Yes? 1222 01:11:04,000 --> 01:11:06,800 Speaker 3: And thank you? Does all I have to say is this, 1223 01:11:06,880 --> 01:11:10,280 Speaker 3: thank you? This book is its bomb. It's nurturing. 1224 01:11:11,600 --> 01:11:15,160 Speaker 2: There was a little girl that when I was getting 1225 01:11:15,160 --> 01:11:18,960 Speaker 2: my ward at Black Enterprise, I woke up that morning, 1226 01:11:19,240 --> 01:11:21,599 Speaker 2: opened my phone and the very first thing I saw 1227 01:11:22,520 --> 01:11:25,920 Speaker 2: was a dad had posted that his little girl was 1228 01:11:25,960 --> 01:11:30,600 Speaker 2: supposed to make a poster for who she admired. And 1229 01:11:31,880 --> 01:11:35,479 Speaker 2: she had this poster board around her and she's standing 1230 01:11:35,520 --> 01:11:37,519 Speaker 2: in the muddle, you know, one of those things you're 1231 01:11:37,560 --> 01:11:40,479 Speaker 2: holding at the board around you. And so she had 1232 01:11:40,520 --> 01:11:43,320 Speaker 2: a miss Ohio banner on and she was holding the 1233 01:11:43,720 --> 01:11:46,400 Speaker 2: red football, a football like in my poster. I have 1234 01:11:46,439 --> 01:11:50,080 Speaker 2: a photo like a yeah, a land photo for me 1235 01:11:51,240 --> 01:11:53,799 Speaker 2: that was shot by Lamont, and I'm holding a football 1236 01:11:54,920 --> 01:11:57,360 Speaker 2: with a red blouse, red satin blouse. So she's in 1237 01:11:57,400 --> 01:11:59,880 Speaker 2: a red dress. She's holding the football. So he's got 1238 01:11:59,880 --> 01:12:02,800 Speaker 2: the she's got the crowd on her head, and she's 1239 01:12:02,800 --> 01:12:05,280 Speaker 2: got my name all around and all around the boarder 1240 01:12:05,439 --> 01:12:08,519 Speaker 2: the border, and her dad is telling her, if you 1241 01:12:08,600 --> 01:12:10,439 Speaker 2: see it, you can achieve it, you man. 1242 01:12:11,880 --> 01:12:15,960 Speaker 1: Jane Kennedy, I know that we have gone way over time, 1243 01:12:16,040 --> 01:12:18,200 Speaker 1: so I appreciate you taking your time and sharing this 1244 01:12:18,280 --> 01:12:23,280 Speaker 1: story with me. I feel I feel a biopic coming on, 1245 01:12:23,520 --> 01:12:26,799 Speaker 1: like I feel these I feel I feel. 1246 01:12:26,560 --> 01:12:28,439 Speaker 3: A bio pick coming on, Like I. 1247 01:12:28,400 --> 01:12:31,880 Speaker 1: Feel like I feel like, well, can I play the 1248 01:12:31,920 --> 01:12:34,000 Speaker 1: middle aged version of you? Because I was like, I 1249 01:12:34,040 --> 01:12:35,440 Speaker 1: too want to be an actress. 1250 01:12:35,080 --> 01:12:39,400 Speaker 3: And talk to you like let me in. I wonder 1251 01:12:39,680 --> 01:12:41,160 Speaker 3: it would be my honor. 1252 01:12:42,040 --> 01:12:45,599 Speaker 1: For sharing your story and being so naked and honest, 1253 01:12:45,920 --> 01:12:49,360 Speaker 1: really truly, just it's so important and we don't get 1254 01:12:49,360 --> 01:12:53,280 Speaker 1: to have these honest conversations, and if anybody is listening, 1255 01:12:53,439 --> 01:12:55,520 Speaker 1: the biggest takeaway is to forgive ourselves. 1256 01:12:56,360 --> 01:12:59,480 Speaker 3: Like that's the hardest thing to do ourselves. 1257 01:12:59,560 --> 01:13:03,679 Speaker 2: It's it's good. See who you are and then forgive yourself. 1258 01:13:04,439 --> 01:13:06,760 Speaker 3: Be who you are, and then forgive yourself. 1259 01:13:07,479 --> 01:13:09,840 Speaker 2: A lot of times we don't see who we are. Well, 1260 01:13:10,000 --> 01:13:11,120 Speaker 2: is it for someone else? 1261 01:13:11,960 --> 01:13:13,920 Speaker 3: Thank you very much, thank you for your time. 1262 01:13:14,040 --> 01:13:17,400 Speaker 2: I really appreciate it. Thank you, I appreciate it. I 1263 01:13:17,439 --> 01:13:18,760 Speaker 2: totally enjoyed this. Thank you. 1264 01:13:21,040 --> 01:13:25,160 Speaker 1: Naked Sports written and executive produced by me Carrie Champion, 1265 01:13:25,320 --> 01:13:29,400 Speaker 1: produced by jacquesse Thomas, sound design and mastered by Dwayne Crawford. 1266 01:13:29,680 --> 01:13:31,919 Speaker 1: Naked Sports is a part of the Black Effect podcast 1267 01:13:31,960 --> 01:13:33,200 Speaker 1: network in iHeartMedia.