1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:04,520 Speaker 1: All right, Colo, This is from Marie and Edison. 2 00:00:04,600 --> 00:00:07,320 Speaker 2: Marie writes, my mother in law talks to my husband 3 00:00:07,520 --> 00:00:10,760 Speaker 2: like he's a child, and I nicely asked her to 4 00:00:10,880 --> 00:00:14,000 Speaker 2: stop doing it. My husband came for me and told 5 00:00:14,040 --> 00:00:16,520 Speaker 2: me to stay out of it. Am I wrong for 6 00:00:16,600 --> 00:00:17,240 Speaker 2: speaking up? 7 00:00:18,040 --> 00:00:22,320 Speaker 3: Uh? It's sort of weird. You know. That's a different dynamic. 8 00:00:23,239 --> 00:00:23,479 Speaker 3: You know. 9 00:00:24,360 --> 00:00:29,400 Speaker 4: She been talking to him like that his entire life. Yes, 10 00:00:29,680 --> 00:00:33,279 Speaker 4: and he has accepted it. I mean, it's admirable that 11 00:00:33,400 --> 00:00:36,559 Speaker 4: you want to you want everybody to speak to your 12 00:00:36,640 --> 00:00:41,880 Speaker 4: husband in a respectful fashion. That's admirable. But I think 13 00:00:41,920 --> 00:00:43,959 Speaker 4: what you should do is maybe just go to her 14 00:00:44,000 --> 00:00:49,000 Speaker 4: and just say, hey, Mama Tigue, I just need your favor. 15 00:00:49,600 --> 00:00:54,120 Speaker 4: However you talk to Darius, that's fine with me, But 16 00:00:54,360 --> 00:00:57,240 Speaker 4: just in front of me, could you just speak to 17 00:00:57,320 --> 00:01:00,840 Speaker 4: my husband in a respectful way? Because I don't I 18 00:01:00,920 --> 00:01:04,200 Speaker 4: don't speak to him that way. I don't allow any 19 00:01:04,319 --> 00:01:06,559 Speaker 4: other people around me to speak to him that way. 20 00:01:06,760 --> 00:01:08,600 Speaker 4: And I can't get in a way of what y'all got. 21 00:01:08,640 --> 00:01:11,039 Speaker 4: But just when I'm in his presence, could you just 22 00:01:11,680 --> 00:01:14,040 Speaker 4: not speak to him that way? I would really. 23 00:01:13,800 --> 00:01:17,039 Speaker 1: Appreciate, fellow, you know, Mamma Te is not trying to 24 00:01:17,080 --> 00:01:18,039 Speaker 1: hear any of that. 25 00:01:18,600 --> 00:01:23,440 Speaker 4: Well, Mama Te gonna messmund get cussed out. 26 00:01:24,440 --> 00:01:25,720 Speaker 3: No, you know, Mamma Te. 27 00:01:27,440 --> 00:01:32,480 Speaker 2: You know, Mamma Te. All right, we're gonna move on. 28 00:01:33,080 --> 00:01:36,839 Speaker 2: But all right, this is from D and Memphis. D writes, 29 00:01:36,959 --> 00:01:40,840 Speaker 2: I'm not surprised, but my husband didn't get me anything 30 00:01:41,080 --> 00:01:45,759 Speaker 2: for Valentine's Day. We ran Aaron's on Valentine Valentine's Day 31 00:01:45,800 --> 00:01:49,240 Speaker 2: and picked up Mexican food all day. I waited for 32 00:01:49,280 --> 00:01:52,720 Speaker 2: a surprise gift. Should I start overlooking sex like he 33 00:01:52,840 --> 00:01:54,440 Speaker 2: overlooked Valentine's Day? 34 00:01:55,360 --> 00:01:58,800 Speaker 3: Well you win't got that fish, the Mexican food. 35 00:02:00,640 --> 00:02:06,840 Speaker 4: Oh you ain't wont that? Listen, I don't. I can't 36 00:02:06,880 --> 00:02:11,519 Speaker 4: tell you what to do. And you know, listen, fellas, 37 00:02:11,320 --> 00:02:15,160 Speaker 4: it's just the way it is, man. It's not balanced. 38 00:02:16,080 --> 00:02:18,639 Speaker 4: It's not a balanced thing that we're involved in. When 39 00:02:18,680 --> 00:02:21,360 Speaker 4: we involved with a woman, it's not balanced. It's not 40 00:02:21,400 --> 00:02:27,760 Speaker 4: fifty to fifty. They require more. They got Christmas. Your 41 00:02:27,840 --> 00:02:30,800 Speaker 4: Christmas gilt ain't ever equal today Christmas gilt. 42 00:02:30,919 --> 00:02:31,799 Speaker 3: Get used to it. 43 00:02:32,080 --> 00:02:35,680 Speaker 4: Then here come Valentine's Day. That is strictly for them. 44 00:02:36,160 --> 00:02:37,320 Speaker 4: It is a man. 45 00:02:37,360 --> 00:02:40,280 Speaker 3: Showing a woman affection on it, and we don't get 46 00:02:40,280 --> 00:02:44,200 Speaker 3: nothing on Valentine's Day. Then here come the anniversary. 47 00:02:44,480 --> 00:02:46,680 Speaker 4: The anniversary is you got to make a big deal 48 00:02:46,720 --> 00:02:50,480 Speaker 4: out the anniversary for her again, fellas, then you got 49 00:02:50,520 --> 00:02:53,760 Speaker 4: her birthday. You got to make a big deal out 50 00:02:53,760 --> 00:02:56,079 Speaker 4: of that, Then you got Mother's Day. 51 00:02:56,320 --> 00:02:58,160 Speaker 3: It's just always sunk. 52 00:02:58,440 --> 00:03:01,600 Speaker 2: You seem like we're just we just want attention. That's 53 00:03:01,639 --> 00:03:03,639 Speaker 2: all attention. 54 00:03:04,600 --> 00:03:05,560 Speaker 3: That's all it is. 55 00:03:06,080 --> 00:03:10,080 Speaker 4: And you're gonna have to accept that because the whole 56 00:03:10,200 --> 00:03:13,880 Speaker 4: year is set up for you to pay them attention, 57 00:03:14,680 --> 00:03:17,600 Speaker 4: mostly because a lot of us ain't paid them no 58 00:03:17,680 --> 00:03:21,120 Speaker 4: attention the rest of the year to let out there 59 00:03:21,160 --> 00:03:25,280 Speaker 4: to create all the legal holidays and reasons why you. 60 00:03:25,200 --> 00:03:26,800 Speaker 1: Have to we're gonna get our attention. 61 00:03:26,919 --> 00:03:30,200 Speaker 4: Okay, it's five times a year where you have to Christmas, 62 00:03:31,200 --> 00:03:36,640 Speaker 4: Valentine's Day, Mother's Day, her birthday, and anniversary. 63 00:03:36,840 --> 00:03:38,160 Speaker 3: It's probably one more in. 64 00:03:38,120 --> 00:03:41,960 Speaker 1: Here, sweetish day, sweetest day. 65 00:03:41,960 --> 00:03:45,240 Speaker 3: Ain't nothing. We don't need that, ain't don't. 66 00:03:45,360 --> 00:03:46,240 Speaker 1: Better get something? 67 00:03:46,760 --> 00:03:55,880 Speaker 2: You can throw any holiday Monday. 68 00:03:54,760 --> 00:03:58,720 Speaker 4: Juneteenth, you better go to my Gaina saying this Negro national. 69 00:03:58,360 --> 00:04:06,680 Speaker 2: Anthelet that all right? Moving on, moving on to dell 70 00:04:06,920 --> 00:04:10,480 Speaker 2: In Louisville. Dell writes, my side chick took a selfie 71 00:04:10,520 --> 00:04:13,680 Speaker 2: of us while I wasn't paying attention. I told her 72 00:04:13,720 --> 00:04:16,920 Speaker 2: to delete the photo, and she cried. I had no 73 00:04:17,040 --> 00:04:21,040 Speaker 2: idea she was so sensitive. I'm afraid she's catching feelings 74 00:04:21,160 --> 00:04:24,799 Speaker 2: and it scares me. We've gone too far to turn back. Now, 75 00:04:25,279 --> 00:04:27,560 Speaker 2: what do I do? 76 00:04:27,400 --> 00:04:32,880 Speaker 3: I don't know. You you got to get that phone? 77 00:04:34,080 --> 00:04:37,040 Speaker 4: Wait what clo, what you got to get that phone 78 00:04:37,120 --> 00:04:38,960 Speaker 4: the next time she laid that phone down. 79 00:04:39,160 --> 00:04:41,799 Speaker 3: You think she cried when you asked her to delete 80 00:04:41,800 --> 00:04:42,400 Speaker 3: that photo. 81 00:04:42,720 --> 00:04:46,640 Speaker 4: She really gonna cry when she can't find her phone. 82 00:04:46,800 --> 00:04:49,239 Speaker 3: That phone when we drowned this phone? 83 00:04:49,520 --> 00:04:52,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, steal her phone, that's sure. 84 00:04:52,360 --> 00:04:55,640 Speaker 3: Advice. Got to get that phone. 85 00:04:58,520 --> 00:05:01,600 Speaker 1: Yeah? What did he say when she started crying? 86 00:05:03,160 --> 00:05:06,719 Speaker 3: What'd you cry for? Who the hell? 87 00:05:06,720 --> 00:05:10,400 Speaker 5: I got a sensitive side piece. We'll do that, oh there? 88 00:05:11,080 --> 00:05:19,320 Speaker 5: Oh yeah, yeah, well yeah, all right. 89 00:05:19,400 --> 00:05:23,520 Speaker 2: Last one, Steve, Last one. This is from Aramis in Richardson. 90 00:05:24,240 --> 00:05:27,680 Speaker 2: Aramis writes, I met a woman online and she invited 91 00:05:27,720 --> 00:05:32,560 Speaker 2: me over to watch a movie. Her living room was filthy, 92 00:05:32,760 --> 00:05:35,320 Speaker 2: and the blanket she put over us smelled like her 93 00:05:35,360 --> 00:05:39,680 Speaker 2: twenty eight pound dog. I was so uncomfortable that I left. 94 00:05:40,560 --> 00:05:44,039 Speaker 2: Here's his question, Is this fixable? Or is a nasty 95 00:05:44,120 --> 00:05:46,240 Speaker 2: house always a deal breaker? No? 96 00:05:46,360 --> 00:05:49,640 Speaker 4: I'm out, dog, I did it. I did it. You 97 00:05:49,680 --> 00:05:51,200 Speaker 4: did what Ford Motor Company? 98 00:05:51,200 --> 00:05:51,279 Speaker 2: Man? 99 00:05:51,320 --> 00:05:53,159 Speaker 3: I dated this beautiful girl. 100 00:05:53,279 --> 00:05:59,640 Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, she was beautiful, beautiful, her house, her house? 101 00:05:59,760 --> 00:06:03,440 Speaker 3: Man? Was sheal madness? 102 00:06:04,520 --> 00:06:05,479 Speaker 1: What does that mean? 103 00:06:05,720 --> 00:06:08,320 Speaker 4: I ain't never let me tell you something. I've never 104 00:06:08,360 --> 00:06:09,440 Speaker 4: been over a woman house. 105 00:06:09,800 --> 00:06:12,000 Speaker 3: That trifle really really. 106 00:06:12,040 --> 00:06:17,400 Speaker 4: Plates with old food on it, dishes in the sink. 107 00:06:18,400 --> 00:06:23,520 Speaker 3: She ain't do no dishes. Man. This woman's house was triighte. 108 00:06:24,400 --> 00:06:26,800 Speaker 3: How you that fine? And all that come out of 109 00:06:26,800 --> 00:06:29,600 Speaker 3: that beau? I don't know, dog, I don't know. I 110 00:06:29,680 --> 00:06:30,120 Speaker 3: don't know. 111 00:06:30,320 --> 00:06:31,799 Speaker 1: Did you make it to the bedroom? 112 00:06:32,440 --> 00:06:32,680 Speaker 3: Yeah? 113 00:06:32,760 --> 00:06:39,680 Speaker 4: Oh you worked for it. I just quit. I just 114 00:06:39,760 --> 00:06:40,560 Speaker 4: quit looking at all. 115 00:06:40,600 --> 00:06:43,239 Speaker 1: It didn't see nothing. 116 00:06:43,400 --> 00:06:44,440 Speaker 3: This ain't none of my beds. 117 00:06:46,880 --> 00:06:47,680 Speaker 1: How old were you? 118 00:06:47,720 --> 00:06:53,599 Speaker 4: Steve twenty had to get up there, man, I was. 119 00:06:53,800 --> 00:06:55,920 Speaker 3: I was in that working when I got in that bedroom. 120 00:06:56,040 --> 00:06:57,239 Speaker 3: I don't mean in activity. 121 00:06:57,279 --> 00:07:00,800 Speaker 4: I'm talking about helping get stuff off the bed. 122 00:07:01,040 --> 00:07:06,160 Speaker 3: I was in good too much labor. Oh it was 123 00:07:06,200 --> 00:07:07,240 Speaker 3: not sexy at all. 124 00:07:07,440 --> 00:07:07,680 Speaker 2: It was. 125 00:07:09,440 --> 00:07:11,200 Speaker 3: Oh no, No, I was just in there I was 126 00:07:11,200 --> 00:07:11,680 Speaker 3: in there work. 127 00:07:14,120 --> 00:07:16,040 Speaker 4: One time. I was over there, and I said, because 128 00:07:16,040 --> 00:07:17,119 Speaker 4: I went back several times. 129 00:07:17,120 --> 00:07:20,080 Speaker 3: She was that I went back. 130 00:07:20,160 --> 00:07:23,000 Speaker 4: You know what I said, Oh, she was beautiful. If 131 00:07:23,040 --> 00:07:26,000 Speaker 4: you if you would clean up a little bit. Man, 132 00:07:26,080 --> 00:07:28,200 Speaker 4: you got a nice house. If you would just clean up, 133 00:07:28,320 --> 00:07:37,400 Speaker 4: she said, would you help me, help help come in washing. 134 00:07:37,520 --> 00:07:41,240 Speaker 1: We gotta go see a little thing coming up there. 135 00:07:41,320 --> 00:07:42,520 Speaker 3: Dog, that's a deal breaker. 136 00:07:42,640 --> 00:07:45,600 Speaker 1: Run entertain right after this. 137 00:07:46,160 --> 00:07:47,480 Speaker 3: You did something ass this 138 00:07:47,680 --> 00:07:51,160 Speaker 1: That you're listening Morning show