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Speaker 1: The Best Bits of the Week with Morgan, Part one.

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Speaker 1: I hang a scene with a member of the show.

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Speaker 2: Happy Weekend Friends. Eddie is joining me this weekend. I'm

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Speaker 2: bested tell.

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Speaker 1: Us, well, what's up, friends?

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Speaker 2: I heard this is your favorite thing ever to do?

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Speaker 1: Oh, you have no idea When you walk up to

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Speaker 1: me and you're like tip it toe and you're like hiy,

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Speaker 1: I'm like, yeah, it's my favorite week of the year

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Speaker 1: or a month. How often do we do this? You

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Speaker 1: ask me that, I think every time. My number six. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you guys rotated. There's six of you, six of us.

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Speaker 1: What are you gonna get Bobby on here? I've tried that,

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Speaker 1: it doesn't work. I've asked you might have to just

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Speaker 1: go to him.

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Speaker 2: I think he's busy. Yeah, he's got a busy schedule. Also,

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Speaker 2: he has like eight podcasts, so like, what is one.

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Speaker 1: More that he's gonna talk about? You know what I mean?

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Speaker 2: Like, true, he truly talks about a.

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Speaker 1: Lot of things. Yeah, but you know what, I think

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Speaker 1: that too. I'm like, there's no way he can do

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Speaker 1: another podcast, and then he somehow does it, and he

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Speaker 1: has a lot to talk about. What I don't understand

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Speaker 1: is like how he can just talk to no one,

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Speaker 1: like when he does podcasts by himself. Sometimes he'll do

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Speaker 1: like the Bobbycast all by himself, and it's like, how

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Speaker 1: can you talk to no one for forty five minutes?

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Speaker 2: You've never done that before.

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Speaker 1: No, never done it, never tried it, And I don't

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Speaker 1: think I can do it because I need interaction.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it is tougher to do it solo than with somebody.

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Speaker 1: I've done it. You ever do it on your podcast?

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Speaker 1: Just you?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we're all talk about things. If I have something

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Speaker 2: to talk about and say, it's.

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Speaker 1: A lot easier. Yeah. But if I have something to

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Speaker 1: talk about and say, I'm like, I'm hungry, okay, And I.

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Speaker 2: Think about telling a story okay, right, Like you're reading

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Speaker 2: a book to your kids. Imagine that there's no talking

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Speaker 2: back and you're just reading a story. That's kind of

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Speaker 2: what talking a story is.

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Speaker 1: What do you visualize while you're talking.

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Speaker 2: I'm just like picturing the story itself. It's kind of

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Speaker 2: like creating a book and you're saying it out loud.

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Speaker 1: So it's kind of like that, maybe I'll try it.

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Speaker 2: I think you could do it.

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Speaker 1: I did, like back in the day, like when I

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Speaker 1: was younger, there was a guy name I think it

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Speaker 1: was Paul Harvey. What was his name?

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Speaker 2: And we're looking at me like I could I have

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Speaker 1: Is no chance you would know who that is. But

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Speaker 1: my mom would listen to it and he would talk.

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Speaker 1: He had this little like these little five minute segments

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Speaker 1: and he would tell like some kind of story, but

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Speaker 1: he'd always just say, like, so the car was just

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Speaker 1: sitting there. There's nothing better than the sound of it.

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Speaker 1: And this is.

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Speaker 2: How he sound, like, very melodramatic.

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Speaker 1: And very spacey, like all the little dramatic pauses and everything.

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Speaker 1: And I thought, like, I guess that's one way of

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Speaker 2: As the thoughts pop into your brain. That's someone who's

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Speaker 2: actually really good at talking, because they're not using filler words.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if you've ever.

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Speaker 2: Put two and two together, but if you listen to

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Speaker 2: somebody talk, unless they just have so much experience that

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Speaker 2: they've edited the filler worth out of their speech. But

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Speaker 2: most of the time, when people talk slower, like you

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Speaker 2: just saw me take a break there instead of saying uh,

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Speaker 2: most of the people talk slower, you know what I mean,

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Speaker 2: Like I even you know what I mean is a

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Speaker 1: You know what I mean? So for him, he wasn't

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Speaker 1: doing any filler words, no filler words.

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Speaker 2: Sharing the story and using his brain to like allow

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Speaker 2: it to think and then process and then talk versus

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Speaker 2: most people use the filler words when their brain is thinking. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: that's a lot of it, but you can do it.

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Speaker 1: I feel like my my family talks so much that

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Speaker 1: I have nothing to say. I'm surround I got it,

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Speaker 1: I got it. I'm surrounded by so many people that

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Speaker 2: But let me challenge that. Wouldn't you have more to

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Speaker 2: say because you don't have the space to say it?

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Speaker 1: Nah? Nah no, But I love having conversations. Yeah, I

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Speaker 2: Don't think you could talk about the Dallas Cowboys, no

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Speaker 2: golf or hanging out with the boys for ten minutes

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Speaker 1: Ten minutes, Yeah, I could do ten minutes. Ten minutes

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Speaker 2: Once you get ten minutes, though, you just keep rolling

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Speaker 2: because it keeps going in different directions. They're like, oh,

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Speaker 1: Maybe I'll try it someday. I think you should see

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Speaker 1: what comes out, to see what happens. I'm not going

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Speaker 2: It helped me one time when I was, oh, gosh,

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Speaker 2: this is after my really really bad relationship. I got

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Speaker 1: That's pretty good.

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Speaker 2: It was like my release. It never went anywhere. I

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Speaker 2: never shared it, never to have it. No, I'm pretty

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Speaker 2: sure to leave that one that was evidence of a

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Speaker 2: like an audio journal entry, which is kind of like

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Speaker 2: do now. I have moments where I do little audio

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Speaker 2: are I feel like I can really speak on. But

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Speaker 2: that's even far between, you know, but there's moments of that.

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Speaker 1: I guess My point is that I really do like

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Speaker 1: doing this podcast because I can't. I think you're kidding,

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Speaker 1: because I'm not. Guys are always kidding. I'm not kidding.

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Speaker 1: We've talked about this. It's just the time. It's just

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Speaker 1: the like, hey, do you have like this time to

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Speaker 1: cut out and do this podcast? That's the hardest part.

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Speaker 1: But once we're in here, I love doing it. I

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Speaker 1: love talking to you, and I think we bounce well

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Speaker 2: And oh yeah, we have great conversations, good conversations. But

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Speaker 2: also I have to correct you because I don't come

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Speaker 2: up and say hi anymore. Now. I just come up

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Speaker 2: and you know, you know immediately I just kind of

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Speaker 2: is best Mians time.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, which is kind of what everyone does, Like Bobby

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Speaker 1: and I on stage, like you didn't have to say

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Speaker 1: got it. You want to wrap the song up, let's

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Speaker 1: go now, it's the time. See, it's how long we've

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Speaker 1: all hung out together? All right? Tell me about Live though, Eddie.

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Speaker 2: How are things going, how's dad live?

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Speaker 1: How's individual life? Yeah? Life's good. Life is good. We've

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Speaker 1: It's been a really good mix lately, has been a

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Speaker 1: good mix of like family and work and travel. We

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Speaker 1: got to I didn't get to tell you really talk

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Speaker 1: about the super Bowl with you, which is kind of cool.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, you can totally talk about it. I hadn't

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Speaker 2: Never purposely hang outside of these sporting events.

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Speaker 1: These I don't have friends like that, Like I don't

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you need some you need some dad time, yeah,

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Speaker 2: or just friend time. This is why Eddie. Every day

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Speaker 2: we always catch Eddie sitting in a guy named mckitty's

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Speaker 1: That's my guy time. This is why you always do this,

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Speaker 1: that's my guy time. But m kitty's different though. Mckitty's

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Speaker 1: like a So McKitty is a he's an on air

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Speaker 1: Afternoon Guy. He's way younger than me.

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Speaker 2: So are you living vicariously through him?

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Speaker 1: No? What's crazy is this is funny. You're gonna laugh.

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Speaker 1: But what's funny about how kind of how our relationship

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Speaker 2: I'm smiling because I think it's cool that you guys

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Speaker 2: have a connection.

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Speaker 2: I always love seeing you guys sit together. I think

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Speaker 2: it's cute, Like I think it's a cool thing.

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Speaker 1: I don't. It's not like i'm his dad's age, but

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Speaker 1: like I'm older. I'm like an older brother to him.

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Speaker 1: And like the other day he like, man, I got

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Speaker 1: our conversations. It's really like I'm older, more mature, he's younger,

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Speaker 1: party phase, and we kind of just meet in the middle.

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Speaker 1: I love this for both of you.

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Speaker 2: Guys, because it's clearly an outlet for you to have

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Speaker 2: and that clearly is important to him.

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Speaker 1: So I think it's cool that you guys do this.

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Speaker 2: I joke around with you guys because it's funny because

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Speaker 2: we give you a hard time when you always take

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Speaker 2: your breaks and stuff. We go to Whole Foods on Wednesdays, yeah,

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Speaker 2: like you guys have a whole routine that you set up.

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Speaker 2: But genuinely, I think it's awesome for both of you guys,

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Speaker 2: So you get to have that.

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Speaker 1: It is cool and he's very just nice and friendly

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Speaker 1: with dads. I was just talking to my wife about this.

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Speaker 1: There is some kind of competition interesting with just men.

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Speaker 1: And maybe it's me overthinking it, but I can see it.

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Speaker 1: it's really hard to make friends. It's almost like dating

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Speaker 2: Well, making friends and finding a partner are comparable, right.

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Speaker 1: And realistically we don't have a lot of time.

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Speaker 2: it easier totally. Kids are at school, you guys can

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Speaker 1: which is I don't know. I think parenting's fun to

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Speaker 2: Well, it's with anything in life that you're going through.

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Speaker 2: You want someone else to have battle scars with. Sure,

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Speaker 2: you know, you want to trade stories, you want to

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Speaker 2: Nobody you love to talk. You're an open space.

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Speaker 2: innate Well, I need a village to do this, you

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Speaker 1: I know exactly what you mean. And I don't think

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Speaker 2: And it's and it's very much show that it's been

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Speaker 1: I think you need it all to survive. I agree completely.

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Speaker 1: It's like thousands of men go to the mountains and

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Speaker 2: Why does that I don't know. Hold on, we're gonna

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Speaker 1: No, I can't do this. I don't smoot cigars, I

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Speaker 2: Like and that's your reason.

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Speaker 1: No, that's part of my reason. It's I again, from

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Speaker 1: same deal. Like a thousand men that I don't know.

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Speaker 2: But you eddy thrive in situations of meeting people.

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Speaker 1: I don't know what it is you love meeting I

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Speaker 2: It's just because you're you've been taught to think.

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Speaker 2: On probably now. I bet the first time they did

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Speaker 1: And then I'm like, what am I going to talk

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Speaker 2: You're being a dad, how that experience is for you?

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Speaker 2: All the things, do things, sports, you can talk about

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Speaker 1: Can I dilute my vibe? Yes?

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Speaker 2: You could also do that.

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Speaker 1: I can't. Man, Like the dudes love to drink and

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Speaker 1: you're a you're a man, Eddie.

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Speaker 2: I would challenge you that I think all of the

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Speaker 2: And you like hanging out and meeting new people. That's

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Speaker 2: all that is, the only difference is that you're adding

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Speaker 1: Thousand men, I don't know, a thousand dudes.

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Speaker 2: Which is a thousand people out an airport that you'd

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Speaker 1: It might take me back to you know, middle school.

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Speaker 2: This is like the little kid in you that is

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Speaker 1: found one person that I saw. I'm like, dude, be

434
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Speaker 1: my friend. I know I never really talked to you

435
00:20:09,280 --> 00:20:11,119
Speaker 1: in elementary school, but like, be my friend because I

436
00:20:11,119 --> 00:20:14,280
Speaker 1: don't know anyone else here. Same in high school. Like

437
00:20:14,440 --> 00:20:16,280
Speaker 1: high school again, it was a bunch of middle schools

438
00:20:16,280 --> 00:20:18,600
Speaker 1: getting together and all of a sudden, I'm like, I

439
00:20:18,600 --> 00:20:21,399
Speaker 1: don't know anyone here. This is so weird.

440
00:20:21,680 --> 00:20:23,440
Speaker 2: This is a little kid in you that's freaked out

441
00:20:23,440 --> 00:20:26,119
Speaker 2: by it. Maybe I just feel like it, and I'm

442
00:20:26,720 --> 00:20:29,480
Speaker 2: warning for you. At the end of the day.

443
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Speaker 1: My wife says the same thing. She's like, go like,

444
00:20:32,080 --> 00:20:34,399
Speaker 1: you might like it, and I'm like, I don't want to.

445
00:20:34,600 --> 00:20:36,840
Speaker 2: That's the worst second happen. You're gone for forty eight hours.

446
00:20:36,960 --> 00:20:39,760
Speaker 1: No, no, no, I think it's like a it might

447
00:20:39,800 --> 00:20:43,400
Speaker 1: be like a three four day retreat. Okay, but say

448
00:20:43,440 --> 00:20:45,119
Speaker 1: you go twenty four hours. It's not a lock in,

449
00:20:45,200 --> 00:20:47,000
Speaker 1: like they're not. They can't keep me exactly.

450
00:20:47,040 --> 00:20:48,520
Speaker 2: Say it's my four hours, Like, this is the worst

451
00:20:48,560 --> 00:20:50,240
Speaker 2: thing I've ever done. I have to go. Oh my

452
00:20:50,359 --> 00:20:50,920
Speaker 2: kids got sick.

453
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Speaker 1: I gotta go. You want me to go all the

454
00:20:52,119 --> 00:20:53,600
Speaker 1: way in the mountains and come back like.

455
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Speaker 2: Six hours later, Yeah, because I guarantee you're not gonna come.

456
00:20:57,080 --> 00:21:02,320
Speaker 1: Back you're so calm it. Yes, I probably wouldn't. I'd

457
00:21:02,320 --> 00:21:05,920
Speaker 1: probably like it. Yeah, you love socializing. I do. I do.

458
00:21:06,080 --> 00:21:07,760
Speaker 1: It's just I don't know anything about this.

459
00:21:08,800 --> 00:21:12,080
Speaker 2: No. Like, look, change is good. Being uncomfortable is good

460
00:21:12,160 --> 00:21:13,840
Speaker 2: for you. It would help you. It would help you

461
00:21:14,359 --> 00:21:16,800
Speaker 2: probably have a new experience that you've been needing.

462
00:21:17,000 --> 00:21:18,360
Speaker 1: What was it like? Let me ask you a question.

463
00:21:18,359 --> 00:21:19,840
Speaker 1: What was it like when you joined the Bobby Bone

464
00:21:19,880 --> 00:21:22,240
Speaker 1: Show and you didn't know any of us? I was uncomfortable,

465
00:21:23,160 --> 00:21:24,040
Speaker 1: But like, do you remember that?

466
00:21:24,440 --> 00:21:24,600
Speaker 2: Yeah?

467
00:21:24,640 --> 00:21:24,920
Speaker 1: I do.

468
00:21:25,000 --> 00:21:26,359
Speaker 2: It was uncomfortable and I was like.

469
00:21:27,119 --> 00:21:27,800
Speaker 1: We knew each other.

470
00:21:28,080 --> 00:21:31,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, but we had one lunch at one point in time.

471
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Speaker 1: I'd met you a couple of times. But those are

472
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Speaker 1: all march people.

473
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Speaker 2: And typically when you know, like you're with your people,

474
00:21:36,840 --> 00:21:39,439
Speaker 2: you're gonna hang to them versus the one person that

475
00:21:39,480 --> 00:21:40,359
Speaker 2: you maybe kind of know.

476
00:21:40,520 --> 00:21:41,879
Speaker 1: Yeah, I was your dude in middle school.

477
00:21:42,080 --> 00:21:46,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, and I it was uncomfortable. But now look at this,

478
00:21:46,280 --> 00:21:49,960
Speaker 2: and if I wouldn't have been uncomfortable, where would I be?

479
00:21:50,720 --> 00:21:51,120
Speaker 1: Not here?

480
00:21:52,760 --> 00:21:55,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, being uncomfortable is a catalyst for change.

481
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Speaker 1: I know. And I feel so stupid because I preached

482
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Speaker 1: this to my son all the time. My seventeen year old,

483
00:21:59,359 --> 00:22:03,400
Speaker 1: and he's all like not avoiding uncomfortable situations, and I'm

484
00:22:03,400 --> 00:22:04,720
Speaker 1: always like, you're to do that.

485
00:22:04,840 --> 00:22:08,840
Speaker 2: It's easier to do that because being uncomfortable also sucks,

486
00:22:08,840 --> 00:22:11,640
Speaker 2: and it gives you feelings that you don't either want

487
00:22:11,640 --> 00:22:13,119
Speaker 2: to address or you don't want to feel.

488
00:22:13,840 --> 00:22:15,080
Speaker 1: And it's hard.

489
00:22:15,200 --> 00:22:17,560
Speaker 2: I can recognize that. There's moments where I'm like, I'm

490
00:22:17,600 --> 00:22:19,800
Speaker 2: not touching that I don't want to do that. There's

491
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Speaker 2: I can't tell you how many times, Eddie, I've had

492
00:22:21,880 --> 00:22:23,800
Speaker 2: a date lined up and I have to hype myself

493
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Speaker 2: up and.

494
00:22:24,080 --> 00:22:27,119
Speaker 1: Be like, Okay, we're going to do this where I'm

495
00:22:27,160 --> 00:22:27,880
Speaker 1: like sitting on couch.

496
00:22:27,920 --> 00:22:29,159
Speaker 2: I was like, I really don't want to do this.

497
00:22:29,320 --> 00:22:31,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, but it has. Has any of those dates turned

498
00:22:31,200 --> 00:22:35,520
Speaker 1: into something really cool? Yes, and a lot of them haven't.

499
00:22:35,800 --> 00:22:38,840
Speaker 2: So to my point being, I still get up and

500
00:22:38,880 --> 00:22:40,720
Speaker 2: do it every time because I know there's always the

501
00:22:40,800 --> 00:22:44,359
Speaker 2: opportunity for something really cool to come of it. Yeah,

502
00:22:44,400 --> 00:22:46,840
Speaker 2: And this is your opportunity for something really cool and

503
00:22:47,400 --> 00:22:52,040
Speaker 2: close friendships that you don't currently have, not on that level, not.

504
00:22:51,960 --> 00:22:54,919
Speaker 1: On that space. No, I don't. I think this is

505
00:22:54,920 --> 00:22:57,119
Speaker 1: something you have to Bobby and like I have like

506
00:22:57,400 --> 00:23:00,520
Speaker 1: our guys here, but it's it.

507
00:23:00,480 --> 00:23:03,679
Speaker 2: Is different and you you're looking for dad friends and

508
00:23:03,720 --> 00:23:06,680
Speaker 2: thinks these are people that are likely on very similar

509
00:23:07,080 --> 00:23:10,159
Speaker 2: levels and experiences as you, and having that kind of

510
00:23:10,160 --> 00:23:14,760
Speaker 2: community is so much different having Like I love this community,

511
00:23:14,840 --> 00:23:16,960
Speaker 2: I say, they're different like my work community.

512
00:23:17,000 --> 00:23:17,320
Speaker 1: Love it.

513
00:23:17,359 --> 00:23:17,760
Speaker 2: I'm great.

514
00:23:17,800 --> 00:23:18,680
Speaker 1: I love coming here.

515
00:23:19,080 --> 00:23:21,120
Speaker 2: I don't wake up in the morning and hate coming

516
00:23:21,160 --> 00:23:24,359
Speaker 2: into work. But I also love that I have my

517
00:23:24,400 --> 00:23:26,240
Speaker 2: group of friends that I get to spend time with

518
00:23:26,320 --> 00:23:28,520
Speaker 2: outside of work. I go and we go and do

519
00:23:28,600 --> 00:23:29,080
Speaker 2: fun things.

520
00:23:29,119 --> 00:23:31,680
Speaker 1: But you don't have a family, You're right, But that's

521
00:23:31,800 --> 00:23:34,520
Speaker 1: my community. I have the family, so is the community.

522
00:23:34,600 --> 00:23:35,880
Speaker 1: Is the my family and my community.

523
00:23:35,880 --> 00:23:38,000
Speaker 2: It's another one of your communities. It's not your only one.

524
00:23:37,840 --> 00:23:40,000
Speaker 1: Though, because that family takes a lot of my time.

525
00:23:40,119 --> 00:23:40,520
Speaker 1: It does.

526
00:23:40,920 --> 00:23:43,119
Speaker 2: But it's also important to use a human being to

527
00:23:43,160 --> 00:23:47,480
Speaker 2: have multiple communities. Yeah, for you to feel good, because

528
00:23:47,520 --> 00:23:49,520
Speaker 2: how are you going to keep living in this community

529
00:23:49,520 --> 00:23:52,520
Speaker 2: with your family and at work and feel whole when

530
00:23:52,520 --> 00:23:53,320
Speaker 2: there's something missing?

531
00:23:53,480 --> 00:23:55,639
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think, I mean, there's definitely something to think

532
00:23:55,680 --> 00:23:57,520
Speaker 1: about because I think a lot of people are in

533
00:23:57,520 --> 00:24:00,440
Speaker 1: my situation where you really don't have a lot of

534
00:24:00,480 --> 00:24:03,960
Speaker 1: time to do anything else other than work and your family.

535
00:24:04,520 --> 00:24:06,880
Speaker 1: You go to work, you're done with work, It's time

536
00:24:06,920 --> 00:24:09,680
Speaker 1: to cook, it's time to take kids to practice, time

537
00:24:09,680 --> 00:24:12,600
Speaker 1: to pick kids from school, whatever, whatever it may be.

538
00:24:12,560 --> 00:24:14,640
Speaker 1: Before you know it, it's eight thirty and it's time

539
00:24:14,640 --> 00:24:17,800
Speaker 1: to get everyone ready for bed, and you're like, well,

540
00:24:17,840 --> 00:24:20,800
Speaker 1: what do we do now? Like nothing, but there are

541
00:24:20,840 --> 00:24:23,800
Speaker 1: the weekends. There are, But this is also challenging you.

542
00:24:24,280 --> 00:24:26,280
Speaker 1: This is the challenge do you restructure.

543
00:24:27,600 --> 00:24:30,320
Speaker 2: You have a son who is old enough to help

544
00:24:31,600 --> 00:24:34,240
Speaker 2: that you're at least have talked about on the show,

545
00:24:34,240 --> 00:24:36,520
Speaker 2: where you've struggled with letting go of some things and

546
00:24:36,560 --> 00:24:38,840
Speaker 2: allowing him to do stuff, which is hard. I know,

547
00:24:39,040 --> 00:24:40,960
Speaker 2: I remember being a sixteen year old kid or and

548
00:24:41,400 --> 00:24:44,639
Speaker 2: that was not super responsible. But I also remember my

549
00:24:44,680 --> 00:24:47,520
Speaker 2: two older sisters spending a lot of time watching me

550
00:24:47,840 --> 00:24:50,000
Speaker 2: and taking care of me. And I'm sure my parents

551
00:24:50,040 --> 00:24:52,239
Speaker 2: at one point we're afraid, but we're like, well, we

552
00:24:52,320 --> 00:24:53,760
Speaker 2: have to let go of this and let it happen.

553
00:24:53,880 --> 00:24:56,800
Speaker 1: We've used him before, but there's I have four boys

554
00:24:56,920 --> 00:24:59,480
Speaker 1: and three of them play sports, so like we literally

555
00:24:59,520 --> 00:25:02,560
Speaker 1: have to sometimes go three different ways, you know, Like

556
00:25:03,359 --> 00:25:05,560
Speaker 1: my oldest son will take one of them to practice,

557
00:25:05,720 --> 00:25:07,520
Speaker 1: my wife will take another one to practice, and I

558
00:25:07,560 --> 00:25:10,000
Speaker 1: will take the other one to practice practice. So like

559
00:25:11,400 --> 00:25:12,800
Speaker 1: that's just kind of where we're at.

560
00:25:13,040 --> 00:25:15,720
Speaker 2: True, And there's moments in your life where this will happen. Yes,

561
00:25:15,960 --> 00:25:18,000
Speaker 2: And I can't speak to that not being a parent.

562
00:25:18,080 --> 00:25:21,679
Speaker 2: But you can restructure enough to have a weekend away.

563
00:25:22,200 --> 00:25:24,560
Speaker 2: You can restructure enough to have a lunch with somebody.

564
00:25:25,160 --> 00:25:28,040
Speaker 2: You can restructure enough to keep one night because.

565
00:25:27,800 --> 00:25:29,760
Speaker 1: Your wife does I said, my wife does it, and

566
00:25:30,400 --> 00:25:32,439
Speaker 1: I have no problem just staying at home with the

567
00:25:32,440 --> 00:25:34,520
Speaker 1: boys while she does that. She and she doesn't have

568
00:25:34,520 --> 00:25:36,800
Speaker 1: a problem staying home with the boys while I do it.

569
00:25:36,920 --> 00:25:39,880
Speaker 1: She does it every time I travel, see, like that's

570
00:25:39,960 --> 00:25:41,600
Speaker 1: part of like, that's part of what we do.

571
00:25:42,160 --> 00:25:44,280
Speaker 2: So this is just something you have to restructure to

572
00:25:44,320 --> 00:25:47,240
Speaker 2: see if it's worthy enough of the time for you

573
00:25:47,680 --> 00:25:49,360
Speaker 2: to go and do it, like if it's that important.

574
00:25:49,480 --> 00:25:51,719
Speaker 1: See. I will say though that when we do travel,

575
00:25:51,760 --> 00:25:54,639
Speaker 1: like the super Bowl, we were gone for a whole

576
00:25:54,680 --> 00:26:01,680
Speaker 1: week and me, Kevin, Mike Reid, Bobby and Matt Stell

577
00:26:01,720 --> 00:26:03,480
Speaker 1: came with us on that, like we do kind of

578
00:26:03,520 --> 00:26:06,440
Speaker 1: form a bond, yeah, you know, and we do have

579
00:26:06,560 --> 00:26:09,040
Speaker 1: like a good time together, and we do have good

580
00:26:09,080 --> 00:26:12,639
Speaker 1: conversations because we're outside of the work environment. We're together

581
00:26:12,720 --> 00:26:15,159
Speaker 1: the whole time, so that does kind of count.

582
00:26:15,640 --> 00:26:19,080
Speaker 2: It does to that, But but you are also still working.

583
00:26:19,400 --> 00:26:20,080
Speaker 1: I am still working.

584
00:26:22,480 --> 00:26:24,600
Speaker 2: Like, yeah, it's got like how Bobby has a challenge

585
00:26:24,680 --> 00:26:26,800
Speaker 2: himself to do things that are not work related, right,

586
00:26:27,160 --> 00:26:29,200
Speaker 2: you almost have to challenge yourself to have friends that

587
00:26:29,240 --> 00:26:31,840
Speaker 2: aren't work related or within your other community.

588
00:26:31,880 --> 00:26:33,879
Speaker 1: It's a tough challenge, and I know it's rewarding at

589
00:26:33,880 --> 00:26:37,080
Speaker 1: the end. I just it's a challenge where you're like, man,

590
00:26:37,080 --> 00:26:41,000
Speaker 1: I'm not even willing to play, even though I do

591
00:26:41,119 --> 00:26:43,199
Speaker 1: know there's a reward at the end you do.

592
00:26:43,320 --> 00:26:46,160
Speaker 2: And it's like with anything, you have to decide what's

593
00:26:46,160 --> 00:26:47,800
Speaker 2: actually worth it, you know what I mean?

594
00:26:47,840 --> 00:26:50,040
Speaker 1: What do I care enough about? What do I want

595
00:26:50,040 --> 00:26:54,679
Speaker 1: my rest on Saturdays it's a thing? Or do I

596
00:26:54,760 --> 00:27:00,600
Speaker 1: want to go meet or hang out with friends? It's true, Yeah,

597
00:27:00,640 --> 00:27:02,760
Speaker 1: I mean there are like one thing I have been

598
00:27:02,800 --> 00:27:05,639
Speaker 1: wanted to do is go like on a little trip

599
00:27:05,680 --> 00:27:10,000
Speaker 1: with friends, you know, like even just like a coffee trip. No,

600
00:27:10,200 --> 00:27:12,480
Speaker 1: I'm talking about like three of my good buddies that

601
00:27:12,520 --> 00:27:15,199
Speaker 1: I know or three of Like, there's a buddy I

602
00:27:15,240 --> 00:27:16,919
Speaker 1: have in Wyoming that I haven't talked to. I went

603
00:27:16,960 --> 00:27:18,399
Speaker 1: to college with. I haven't talked to him in a

604
00:27:18,440 --> 00:27:20,800
Speaker 1: long time. Like we kind of chext back and forth

605
00:27:20,800 --> 00:27:23,280
Speaker 1: once in a while, but like I would love to

606
00:27:23,320 --> 00:27:26,080
Speaker 1: go spend a few days with him in Wyoming. Like

607
00:27:26,480 --> 00:27:29,320
Speaker 1: I'd rather do that than go to the mountains with

608
00:27:29,400 --> 00:27:32,400
Speaker 1: a thousand dudes. Okay, then what has stopped you all

609
00:27:32,440 --> 00:27:35,159
Speaker 1: of these years? Nothing? Just finding the time to do

610
00:27:35,200 --> 00:27:37,880
Speaker 1: it and him finding the time that he can do it. Yeah,

611
00:27:37,920 --> 00:27:40,560
Speaker 1: that's it. Just I mean, if we can kind of say, hey,

612
00:27:40,560 --> 00:27:42,960
Speaker 1: you know what, how it is March fifteenth, that's great,

613
00:27:42,960 --> 00:27:45,000
Speaker 1: March fifteenth. I will be there. We will do it.

614
00:27:45,040 --> 00:27:47,920
Speaker 1: And I know that at some point in the near

615
00:27:47,920 --> 00:27:50,919
Speaker 1: future we will do that. But that's the kind of

616
00:27:50,920 --> 00:27:53,600
Speaker 1: stuff I like, rather than jumping into the cold, cold

617
00:27:53,640 --> 00:27:56,439
Speaker 1: water of hanging out with a thousand dudes of a mountain.

618
00:27:56,480 --> 00:28:00,879
Speaker 2: Okay, fair enough, maybe this is your baby step, but

619
00:28:01,000 --> 00:28:02,400
Speaker 2: I think you just need to do it.

620
00:28:04,040 --> 00:28:04,479
Speaker 1: Just do it.

621
00:28:04,600 --> 00:28:07,080
Speaker 2: You just need a book it, get it on the calendar,

622
00:28:07,119 --> 00:28:07,640
Speaker 2: and do it.

623
00:28:08,520 --> 00:28:09,119
Speaker 1: You have to.

624
00:28:10,880 --> 00:28:13,680
Speaker 2: If you have had any experiences in the last year

625
00:28:13,680 --> 00:28:16,400
Speaker 2: that have taught you like present moment matters. You can't

626
00:28:16,480 --> 00:28:18,280
Speaker 2: keep saying yes, at some point it will happen.

627
00:28:18,400 --> 00:28:19,480
Speaker 1: You just have to do it.

628
00:28:20,160 --> 00:28:21,760
Speaker 2: I know that's hard to do with kids and a

629
00:28:21,760 --> 00:28:24,399
Speaker 2: family and a whole life. That is existing part of

630
00:28:24,440 --> 00:28:24,960
Speaker 2: me too, though.

631
00:28:25,000 --> 00:28:28,200
Speaker 1: My personality is never to be the party planner, but

632
00:28:28,240 --> 00:28:31,000
Speaker 1: to be the party attendee. Fair, but all you have

633
00:28:31,040 --> 00:28:33,280
Speaker 1: to just book a date. Yeah, let me a date.

634
00:28:33,440 --> 00:28:36,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, and I bet he'll start planning the rest.

635
00:28:37,240 --> 00:28:39,040
Speaker 1: Right. But as the book in the date is kind

636
00:28:39,040 --> 00:28:44,320
Speaker 1: of is planning the party, okay, d it's literally saying

637
00:28:44,360 --> 00:28:46,440
Speaker 1: this weekend works for me. It's like, I'll give you

638
00:28:46,440 --> 00:28:48,760
Speaker 1: a small example playing golf, Like I have a hard

639
00:28:48,800 --> 00:28:54,200
Speaker 1: time setting a tea time, like a commitment of I'm

640
00:28:54,240 --> 00:28:57,200
Speaker 1: going to play at eight o'clock today. I'd rather just

641
00:28:57,240 --> 00:28:59,000
Speaker 1: walk up to the course whenever I'm ready to go

642
00:28:59,080 --> 00:29:01,480
Speaker 1: and be like, hey, do you ever for one? Yeah,

643
00:29:01,640 --> 00:29:04,240
Speaker 1: you can walk right up like that's my style.

644
00:29:04,520 --> 00:29:08,760
Speaker 2: Spontaneous is not a bad thing. It's also balance. You

645
00:29:08,760 --> 00:29:12,080
Speaker 2: can have plenty of spontaneity while also having one weekend

646
00:29:12,120 --> 00:29:15,200
Speaker 2: where you're like, set calendar dead, run it down.

647
00:29:16,560 --> 00:29:17,520
Speaker 1: I'm challenging you.

648
00:29:17,560 --> 00:29:19,560
Speaker 2: This also has happened a few times where we've like

649
00:29:19,640 --> 00:29:22,400
Speaker 2: challenged different things and we get follow ups. Next time

650
00:29:22,400 --> 00:29:24,320
Speaker 2: you come on Best Bits, I hope you have at

651
00:29:24,400 --> 00:29:25,600
Speaker 2: least booked the trip.

652
00:29:26,000 --> 00:29:29,760
Speaker 1: I have something for you. Yeah, the next few days,

653
00:29:29,880 --> 00:29:32,240
Speaker 1: something that I told you I would get you, and

654
00:29:32,280 --> 00:29:36,040
Speaker 1: it's coming. Corn. I'm not telling you what it is.

655
00:29:36,680 --> 00:29:41,320
Speaker 1: I'm not telling you what it is. That's the only thing, right,

656
00:29:42,880 --> 00:29:45,240
Speaker 1: smoke Corn, No, I'm not telling you.

657
00:29:45,600 --> 00:29:46,400
Speaker 2: It's Corn season.

658
00:29:47,200 --> 00:29:52,480
Speaker 1: Run it down, goal, go hang out with Scott and Wyoming.

659
00:29:52,800 --> 00:29:54,640
Speaker 2: And my only challenge is that by the next time

660
00:29:54,640 --> 00:29:56,440
Speaker 2: you are on Best Bits, that gives you six weeks.

661
00:29:56,480 --> 00:29:58,440
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, that gives you six weeks. I can't

662
00:29:58,440 --> 00:29:59,680
Speaker 1: book something in six weeks.

663
00:30:00,040 --> 00:30:01,720
Speaker 2: All I'm saying is get it on the calendar and

664
00:30:01,760 --> 00:30:03,600
Speaker 2: you and you book a flight. It doesn't have to

665
00:30:03,600 --> 00:30:05,600
Speaker 2: be in the next six weeks that you go on

666
00:30:05,640 --> 00:30:08,640
Speaker 2: the trip, but in the next six weeks you set

667
00:30:08,760 --> 00:30:10,680
Speaker 2: and pick a date and you do this.

668
00:30:12,080 --> 00:30:14,160
Speaker 1: I think I just text to my friend Scott and

669
00:30:14,160 --> 00:30:15,600
Speaker 1: be like, hey man, I want to come see you

670
00:30:16,640 --> 00:30:18,640
Speaker 1: when now let's book it.

671
00:30:19,240 --> 00:30:23,560
Speaker 2: Literally, you know my wife too, well, yeah, like hey,

672
00:30:23,680 --> 00:30:25,640
Speaker 2: be like, hey, wife, when's the good time.

673
00:30:26,120 --> 00:30:28,200
Speaker 1: We're going into basketball tournament seasons.

674
00:30:28,240 --> 00:30:29,720
Speaker 2: You're always going to have excuses.

675
00:30:30,600 --> 00:30:31,920
Speaker 1: This is always something I hear you.

676
00:30:31,920 --> 00:30:34,160
Speaker 2: But you're always going to have excuses because life is

677
00:30:34,200 --> 00:30:36,840
Speaker 2: always going to be busy. You're always going to have

678
00:30:36,840 --> 00:30:38,880
Speaker 2: something to do for the rest of your life. Because

679
00:30:38,920 --> 00:30:40,720
Speaker 2: you had four kids, you will always have.

680
00:30:40,680 --> 00:30:41,239
Speaker 1: Something to do.

681
00:30:41,440 --> 00:30:44,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, but you know how necessary it is for

682
00:30:45,000 --> 00:30:47,880
Speaker 2: you to also have personal experiences, even as a dad

683
00:30:47,920 --> 00:30:48,280
Speaker 2: and adult.

684
00:30:48,400 --> 00:30:52,080
Speaker 1: It's necessary. I know, I know, because my sole purpose

685
00:30:52,120 --> 00:30:54,560
Speaker 1: in this life right now is just to raise my

686
00:30:54,600 --> 00:30:57,480
Speaker 1: four kids, like in my mind, like that's it. Yeah,

687
00:30:57,640 --> 00:31:00,640
Speaker 1: like anything else is not important, and that's fine. But

688
00:31:01,080 --> 00:31:02,200
Speaker 1: also this time.

689
00:31:02,040 --> 00:31:04,360
Speaker 2: Is just as important for you being a human on

690
00:31:04,400 --> 00:31:05,840
Speaker 2: this earth in your life.

691
00:31:05,880 --> 00:31:09,320
Speaker 1: I agree, And it takes someone like Morgan Heughlesman to

692
00:31:09,440 --> 00:31:09,960
Speaker 1: tell me this.

693
00:31:10,240 --> 00:31:12,840
Speaker 2: I have to remind you because I am I don't

694
00:31:12,880 --> 00:31:15,640
Speaker 2: have kids, so I can blatantly say there's a reason

695
00:31:15,680 --> 00:31:17,840
Speaker 2: you need to do this, and I know that's also

696
00:31:17,840 --> 00:31:20,600
Speaker 2: easier said than done because I am childless.

697
00:31:20,680 --> 00:31:23,480
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, but yeah, that's like when Bobby does

698
00:31:23,560 --> 00:31:27,200
Speaker 1: like parent advice. Yeah, I can.

699
00:31:27,320 --> 00:31:29,920
Speaker 2: I can recognize that this is a very difficult ask,

700
00:31:30,680 --> 00:31:31,600
Speaker 2: but I think it's important.

701
00:31:31,600 --> 00:31:33,760
Speaker 1: It's a good challenge. It's a good challenge and a

702
00:31:33,880 --> 00:31:34,640
Speaker 1: challenge accepted.

703
00:31:35,800 --> 00:31:37,200
Speaker 2: It's better than the Mountain retreat.

704
00:31:37,280 --> 00:31:39,360
Speaker 1: You know. We found the we found the baby ground

705
00:31:39,520 --> 00:31:40,080
Speaker 1: for sure.

706
00:31:40,560 --> 00:31:41,800
Speaker 2: Okay, we're gonna take a break.

707
00:31:41,800 --> 00:31:42,360
Speaker 1: We'll be our back.

708
00:31:42,400 --> 00:31:43,800
Speaker 2: I want to tell you about some things that happened.

709
00:31:43,840 --> 00:31:45,640
Speaker 2: Maybe we can get in some super Bowl stories.

710
00:31:45,840 --> 00:31:51,360
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, the super Bowl. I forgot about that, so, Eddie.

711
00:31:51,400 --> 00:31:54,479
Speaker 2: We had International Women's Day this past weekend. Cool and

712
00:31:54,520 --> 00:31:56,200
Speaker 2: I got asked to be on a panel at the

713
00:31:56,240 --> 00:31:57,960
Speaker 2: Grand hiat Let's Go.

714
00:31:58,360 --> 00:32:01,720
Speaker 1: It was so much fun. You did it already, Yeah, yeah, happened.

715
00:32:01,960 --> 00:32:05,560
Speaker 2: International Women's Day was on Saturday of this last weekend,

716
00:32:05,680 --> 00:32:06,200
Speaker 2: not this one that.

717
00:32:06,160 --> 00:32:08,360
Speaker 1: We're talking about now. What was the event? It was

718
00:32:08,440 --> 00:32:10,120
Speaker 1: just a panel of three women.

719
00:32:10,200 --> 00:32:14,760
Speaker 2: One was it CEO, another was a general manager, and

720
00:32:14,800 --> 00:32:16,880
Speaker 2: then there was that's.

721
00:32:16,840 --> 00:32:19,520
Speaker 1: Crazy, not in a bad way. That's awesome. Yeah, that's

722
00:32:19,600 --> 00:32:22,760
Speaker 1: great for you. That's just wow, like a good company

723
00:32:22,800 --> 00:32:24,280
Speaker 1: to be in in a room of women.

724
00:32:24,360 --> 00:32:26,600
Speaker 2: There were some dudes that trickled into like shout out

725
00:32:26,640 --> 00:32:29,880
Speaker 2: to them. And it was really good, Eddie, Like it

726
00:32:29,920 --> 00:32:32,160
Speaker 2: felt really good to talk to women and it was

727
00:32:32,160 --> 00:32:33,680
Speaker 2: really cool to be on a panel, we were all

728
00:32:33,680 --> 00:32:36,760
Speaker 2: different ages. We had won that was like kind of

729
00:32:36,800 --> 00:32:38,680
Speaker 2: more my mom's age, and then we had middle and

730
00:32:38,720 --> 00:32:41,160
Speaker 2: then we had mine. Like we had these different ages

731
00:32:41,200 --> 00:32:43,880
Speaker 2: in it, which also gave us all a lot of perspective,

732
00:32:43,920 --> 00:32:45,680
Speaker 2: like we were learning from each other as we're sitting

733
00:32:45,760 --> 00:32:49,280
Speaker 2: on the panel. And the reason I bring this up though,

734
00:32:49,320 --> 00:32:51,960
Speaker 2: because at the very end, like they had asked, people

735
00:32:52,000 --> 00:32:54,760
Speaker 2: in the audience had asked questions. But after we got done,

736
00:32:54,760 --> 00:32:56,880
Speaker 2: I'm standing waiting for my car to get pulled up,

737
00:32:57,760 --> 00:32:59,880
Speaker 2: and one of the girls who was in the audience

738
00:33:00,080 --> 00:33:03,640
Speaker 2: walks up to me and the other the CEO panelist too,

739
00:33:04,320 --> 00:33:07,160
Speaker 2: and she goes, I didn't want to ask you a

740
00:33:07,200 --> 00:33:10,800
Speaker 2: question because I don't speak super good English, And she

741
00:33:10,960 --> 00:33:12,880
Speaker 2: was like, but how do you wake up every day

742
00:33:12,920 --> 00:33:15,800
Speaker 2: and be confident? How do you do this? You seem

743
00:33:15,960 --> 00:33:19,440
Speaker 2: really happy? And we sat there and we had like

744
00:33:19,560 --> 00:33:21,880
Speaker 2: a conversation about for like five minutes and she's like, oh,

745
00:33:21,920 --> 00:33:23,520
Speaker 2: I have chills on my arms, Like thank you for

746
00:33:23,560 --> 00:33:27,520
Speaker 2: saying that. But I ended it with also, you should

747
00:33:27,560 --> 00:33:29,680
Speaker 2: speak up. Do not be afraid because you learned a

748
00:33:29,760 --> 00:33:33,040
Speaker 2: whole new language, like and why would you not want

749
00:33:33,080 --> 00:33:35,520
Speaker 2: to use it? You did that on purpose. I don't

750
00:33:35,560 --> 00:33:38,720
Speaker 2: speak another language, like use it. Don't be afraid just

751
00:33:38,760 --> 00:33:42,640
Speaker 2: because somebody might not completely understand you, like be confident

752
00:33:42,680 --> 00:33:45,360
Speaker 2: that you did that. And she like gave me this

753
00:33:45,400 --> 00:33:47,320
Speaker 2: big hug and she had tears in her eyes, and

754
00:33:47,400 --> 00:33:49,920
Speaker 2: I was just like, what is my life right now?

755
00:33:50,120 --> 00:33:52,280
Speaker 2: That I got to have that conversation with that woman

756
00:33:52,360 --> 00:33:55,160
Speaker 2: and be on this panel and this life is happening.

757
00:33:55,280 --> 00:33:57,440
Speaker 2: It was a really cool moment. Yeah, and I wanted

758
00:33:57,440 --> 00:33:58,080
Speaker 2: to share that with you.

759
00:33:58,160 --> 00:33:59,960
Speaker 1: That's really really cool and it gives you a little

760
00:34:00,160 --> 00:34:03,480
Speaker 1: a purpose, like, Wow, that's cool that she's I don't know,

761
00:34:03,560 --> 00:34:06,080
Speaker 1: she asked me a question, thought I was qualified enough

762
00:34:06,120 --> 00:34:08,480
Speaker 1: to answer that question, and now it could help her

763
00:34:08,520 --> 00:34:11,000
Speaker 1: with something in life, which is really really cool. I

764
00:34:11,000 --> 00:34:14,000
Speaker 1: do understand what she was going through though with not

765
00:34:14,040 --> 00:34:18,440
Speaker 1: wanting to ask that question. Growing up bilingual, so like

766
00:34:18,480 --> 00:34:22,319
Speaker 1: the way I grew up was my parents spoke Spanish,

767
00:34:22,360 --> 00:34:27,800
Speaker 1: some English, mostly Spanish, but I was taught to learn English,

768
00:34:28,680 --> 00:34:32,000
Speaker 1: so I understood Spanish because my parents spoke Spanish. But

769
00:34:32,080 --> 00:34:37,000
Speaker 1: I also went into an American school system learning English,

770
00:34:37,440 --> 00:34:39,560
Speaker 1: so and I was always taught my dad always taught

771
00:34:39,640 --> 00:34:42,480
Speaker 1: me like English, learn English, Learn English, Learn English, because

772
00:34:43,040 --> 00:34:46,560
Speaker 1: this is you will live. You're an American, like you

773
00:34:46,640 --> 00:34:48,880
Speaker 1: will be speaking English for the rest of your life.

774
00:34:49,520 --> 00:34:53,840
Speaker 1: And but I was always ashamed that I knew Spanish

775
00:34:53,920 --> 00:34:57,279
Speaker 1: because I didn't really learn Spanish, you know, as far

776
00:34:57,320 --> 00:35:00,799
Speaker 1: as like educational wise, like, but I new Spanish because

777
00:35:00,800 --> 00:35:04,000
Speaker 1: of my parents. So like, I understand the whole feeling

778
00:35:04,040 --> 00:35:08,080
Speaker 1: of feeling a little bit of embarrassment of like, I

779
00:35:08,120 --> 00:35:11,080
Speaker 1: don't know this language as well as I know my

780
00:35:11,280 --> 00:35:14,880
Speaker 1: main language. But you're right, it is bad ass to

781
00:35:14,920 --> 00:35:16,000
Speaker 1: know two different languages.

782
00:35:16,080 --> 00:35:19,200
Speaker 2: It is. And I well, I do think people, again

783
00:35:19,400 --> 00:35:21,920
Speaker 2: in our society have made that complicated for people, right.

784
00:35:22,040 --> 00:35:24,799
Speaker 2: I'm sure she's had moments in her life where people

785
00:35:24,840 --> 00:35:26,640
Speaker 2: have been like, I can't understand you, and they get

786
00:35:26,680 --> 00:35:29,680
Speaker 2: frustrated with her, or they yell out or like tell

787
00:35:29,719 --> 00:35:32,239
Speaker 2: her to speak you know. Yeah, who knows the experiences

788
00:35:32,239 --> 00:35:35,160
Speaker 2: that she's had that led it to that. But I

789
00:35:35,280 --> 00:35:38,840
Speaker 2: just I think it's so beautiful when two cultures can combine.

790
00:35:38,880 --> 00:35:40,480
Speaker 2: I think that's so cool totally.

791
00:35:40,520 --> 00:35:42,680
Speaker 1: And I tell my kids that all the time, because

792
00:35:43,360 --> 00:35:47,320
Speaker 1: what's funny is my two biological kids half white, half Mexican,

793
00:35:47,440 --> 00:35:52,600
Speaker 1: half Hispanic. My two adopted kids. One of them is

794
00:35:52,640 --> 00:35:57,760
Speaker 1: just fully white. He loves it. His last names Garcia.

795
00:35:58,360 --> 00:36:02,400
Speaker 1: He's like, that's right, I'm Mexican. I'm half Mexican. So

796
00:36:02,480 --> 00:36:04,520
Speaker 1: he says, have you gotten like the heart to tell

797
00:36:04,560 --> 00:36:06,799
Speaker 1: him like no, no, no, no, no, no, no no no,

798
00:36:07,160 --> 00:36:09,279
Speaker 1: I'm letting him roll. I'm letting him just roll with

799
00:36:09,320 --> 00:36:11,399
Speaker 1: it because at school, I don't know I've ever told

800
00:36:11,400 --> 00:36:13,239
Speaker 1: you this, but at school they had like a flag

801
00:36:13,320 --> 00:36:17,680
Speaker 1: day and they're like, if you have like a heritage

802
00:36:17,719 --> 00:36:20,040
Speaker 1: that you come from, like a culture or whatever, and

803
00:36:20,080 --> 00:36:21,920
Speaker 1: you want to carry that flag and represent that flag,

804
00:36:21,920 --> 00:36:23,239
Speaker 1: you can do it. And he was like, where's the

805
00:36:23,280 --> 00:36:26,200
Speaker 1: Mexican flag? And he's as pale as can be, blonde hair,

806
00:36:26,239 --> 00:36:29,600
Speaker 1: blue eyes carrying that Mexican flag, while my biological kids

807
00:36:29,760 --> 00:36:34,360
Speaker 1: was like like I don't want to carry that so wild.

808
00:36:34,600 --> 00:36:39,800
Speaker 1: Yeah it's a weird thing, where like my biological kids

809
00:36:39,880 --> 00:36:41,480
Speaker 1: kind of are just like, well, I don't know, like

810
00:36:41,600 --> 00:36:44,239
Speaker 1: what's weird? Being both like what am I? And I

811
00:36:44,280 --> 00:36:48,279
Speaker 1: could tell him like it's so cool to have background

812
00:36:48,640 --> 00:36:53,520
Speaker 1: and culture, Like your grandparents are so different. Both grandparents

813
00:36:53,560 --> 00:36:58,279
Speaker 1: are so different. They speak two different languages, Like we

814
00:36:58,320 --> 00:37:02,640
Speaker 1: make different foods. You know, we come from this place.

815
00:37:02,680 --> 00:37:05,920
Speaker 1: It's very different from the place you live. And I

816
00:37:05,960 --> 00:37:08,879
Speaker 1: think it's something, really, it's something that I didn't really

817
00:37:08,920 --> 00:37:12,759
Speaker 1: even understand until probably I was I don't know, you know,

818
00:37:12,920 --> 00:37:16,400
Speaker 1: twenty thirty years old. Once I left home and realized

819
00:37:16,440 --> 00:37:19,120
Speaker 1: that it was cool to have a little, you know,

820
00:37:19,440 --> 00:37:22,719
Speaker 1: a different background. That was pretty cool. But it took

821
00:37:22,760 --> 00:37:24,280
Speaker 1: me a long time to realize that.

822
00:37:24,520 --> 00:37:27,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, because I would imagine it would come with insecurities

823
00:37:27,560 --> 00:37:30,320
Speaker 2: because of the way that people speak about that. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

824
00:37:30,360 --> 00:37:33,319
Speaker 2: you know, and people believe that it's not okay when

825
00:37:33,400 --> 00:37:36,560
Speaker 2: you should be one or the other or whatever. When

826
00:37:36,560 --> 00:37:38,879
Speaker 2: I'm sitting here, I'm like, give me all. Heck, when

827
00:37:38,880 --> 00:37:41,160
Speaker 2: I went over to Europe and people spoke like five languages,

828
00:37:41,200 --> 00:37:42,360
Speaker 2: I was like, are you kidding me?

829
00:37:42,520 --> 00:37:43,560
Speaker 1: I don't even think another.

830
00:37:43,719 --> 00:37:45,759
Speaker 2: I mean, thankfully, I do have a little bit of

831
00:37:45,760 --> 00:37:48,600
Speaker 2: French that I happened to remember. But I was like,

832
00:37:48,719 --> 00:37:51,480
Speaker 2: you speak five languages? Pretty cool, freaking amazing?

833
00:37:51,560 --> 00:37:54,040
Speaker 1: Is that? How stupid are we to only know one? Exactly?

834
00:37:54,200 --> 00:37:57,120
Speaker 1: We shouldn't we wore too two? And I think, you know,

835
00:37:57,160 --> 00:37:58,880
Speaker 1: a lot of Americans know a little bit of Spanish too,

836
00:37:58,880 --> 00:38:01,560
Speaker 1: because you kind of have to, but like, okay, two languages.

837
00:38:01,680 --> 00:38:05,120
Speaker 1: Some of these people in these countries no freaking ten languages,

838
00:38:05,160 --> 00:38:06,320
Speaker 1: and it's so amazing.

839
00:38:06,680 --> 00:38:09,279
Speaker 2: It's incredible. So I think it's so cool. But I

840
00:38:09,719 --> 00:38:12,000
Speaker 2: knew you like that moment, that is really cool, just

841
00:38:12,040 --> 00:38:14,319
Speaker 2: because it was so important for me to tell her that.

842
00:38:14,360 --> 00:38:16,080
Speaker 2: I was like, I know, I don't have any experience

843
00:38:16,080 --> 00:38:18,600
Speaker 2: in that matter, but like, please speak up.

844
00:38:18,800 --> 00:38:20,239
Speaker 1: I don't want you to not to. What did you

845
00:38:20,239 --> 00:38:20,640
Speaker 1: tell her?

846
00:38:21,120 --> 00:38:25,200
Speaker 2: The WHI which, so she had asked, She's like, how

847
00:38:25,239 --> 00:38:27,000
Speaker 2: do I you know, wake up there? I have really

848
00:38:27,040 --> 00:38:29,160
Speaker 2: hard moments sometimes where I wake up and I and

849
00:38:29,200 --> 00:38:31,399
Speaker 2: I don't want to do this, and I just don't

850
00:38:31,440 --> 00:38:31,759
Speaker 2: know how to.

851
00:38:33,239 --> 00:38:34,920
Speaker 1: Be confident and excited like.

852
00:38:34,880 --> 00:38:36,800
Speaker 2: You are right now. And I think she was seeing

853
00:38:36,840 --> 00:38:40,120
Speaker 2: one version of me, of course, And I tell her,

854
00:38:40,120 --> 00:38:43,279
Speaker 2: I said, just exist in those feelings, like don't put

855
00:38:43,360 --> 00:38:43,800
Speaker 2: them away.

856
00:38:43,920 --> 00:38:45,600
Speaker 1: Those actually help you in the end.

857
00:38:45,680 --> 00:38:48,279
Speaker 2: And I know it's really hard when you wake up

858
00:38:48,320 --> 00:38:50,160
Speaker 2: and you're feeling sad, you and you don't want to

859
00:38:50,200 --> 00:38:52,279
Speaker 2: do something, but sometimes you have to feel that to

860
00:38:52,320 --> 00:38:55,120
Speaker 2: get to the other side. And sometimes when we push

861
00:38:55,160 --> 00:38:58,200
Speaker 2: it away, it never really helps us in the end.

862
00:38:58,760 --> 00:39:02,399
Speaker 2: So feel the feeling and then encourage yourself to keep

863
00:39:02,440 --> 00:39:04,400
Speaker 2: pushing through those and I promise you'll start to be

864
00:39:04,480 --> 00:39:07,239
Speaker 2: able to push through them more often if you just learn.

865
00:39:07,040 --> 00:39:11,239
Speaker 1: It's good something to that effect. Yeah, but way to

866
00:39:11,280 --> 00:39:13,160
Speaker 1: go to come up with that on a fly. I

867
00:39:13,160 --> 00:39:15,319
Speaker 1: mean it was real. Yeah, it's not like you made

868
00:39:15,360 --> 00:39:17,920
Speaker 1: it up, but like, yeah, questions on the fly are

869
00:39:17,960 --> 00:39:19,279
Speaker 1: pretty hard. They are.

870
00:39:19,400 --> 00:39:21,400
Speaker 2: But also it's just something I'm passionate about. I mean,

871
00:39:21,400 --> 00:39:23,319
Speaker 2: even sitting here talking with you about things I love,

872
00:39:23,400 --> 00:39:27,400
Speaker 2: I'm I'm like or I'm like Bobby. I'm a challenger.

873
00:39:27,640 --> 00:39:30,279
Speaker 2: So I love to challenge people. I love to to

874
00:39:30,320 --> 00:39:32,480
Speaker 2: see them become the best version of themselves.

875
00:39:32,560 --> 00:39:34,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, but you guys are annoying sometimes. I know it is.

876
00:39:34,600 --> 00:39:36,279
Speaker 2: It absolutely is. There's no doubt about it.

877
00:39:36,520 --> 00:39:38,160
Speaker 1: Let me, let me be, me, just let me be.

878
00:39:39,000 --> 00:39:39,520
Speaker 1: That's why I.

879
00:39:39,440 --> 00:39:41,200
Speaker 2: Also have moments where I'm like, I get it, like

880
00:39:41,440 --> 00:39:44,320
Speaker 2: it sucks. I'm not saying that it's going to be easy.

881
00:39:44,920 --> 00:39:46,880
Speaker 2: But if I can be the one person in somebody's

882
00:39:46,880 --> 00:39:48,880
Speaker 2: life to be like, no, do this, I will be

883
00:39:49,320 --> 00:39:50,880
Speaker 2: Even if I'm a little bit of a jerk to

884
00:39:50,880 --> 00:39:51,279
Speaker 2: push you.

885
00:39:51,239 --> 00:39:53,319
Speaker 1: In that direction, at least you acknowledge that.

886
00:39:53,440 --> 00:39:57,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, but it's necessary for because I think there's also

887
00:39:57,600 --> 00:39:59,600
Speaker 2: a said that we want someone to do it for us.

888
00:39:59,640 --> 00:40:02,840
Speaker 2: We want someone to challenge us like a partner, and

889
00:40:02,920 --> 00:40:05,000
Speaker 2: one of the qualities. I'm looking for someone who can

890
00:40:05,160 --> 00:40:07,600
Speaker 2: challenge me and say, no, don't do it that way,

891
00:40:07,800 --> 00:40:10,400
Speaker 2: or hey, let's talk about that before you pursue it

892
00:40:10,400 --> 00:40:12,840
Speaker 2: this way, yeah, instead of just allowing me to just

893
00:40:13,120 --> 00:40:17,160
Speaker 2: bulldoze kind of. I think that's where ours comes from.

894
00:40:17,280 --> 00:40:18,759
Speaker 2: I don't know, I can't speak for a boppy, but

895
00:40:18,760 --> 00:40:20,360
Speaker 2: that's where some of mine comes from. Is like I

896
00:40:20,360 --> 00:40:21,640
Speaker 2: want to do this for other people, and I hope

897
00:40:21,640 --> 00:40:22,319
Speaker 2: other people do it.

898
00:40:22,280 --> 00:40:23,759
Speaker 1: For me, you know what I mean.

899
00:40:24,239 --> 00:40:26,680
Speaker 2: Like you're always a reflection of the things you want.

900
00:40:27,680 --> 00:40:30,719
Speaker 1: That's what's happening. See, I'm always just like it's not

901
00:40:30,840 --> 00:40:34,520
Speaker 1: none of my business, like like she's got it unless

902
00:40:34,520 --> 00:40:36,239
Speaker 1: you come to me and ask for help. I'm not

903
00:40:37,200 --> 00:40:39,480
Speaker 1: really gonna like look at you and be like, hey,

904
00:40:39,480 --> 00:40:40,920
Speaker 1: are you okay? Like I do that. I do that

905
00:40:40,920 --> 00:40:43,560
Speaker 1: to you sometimes, Hey everything good, Like you seem a

906
00:40:43,600 --> 00:40:45,600
Speaker 1: little different, But for the most part, it's just like

907
00:40:45,680 --> 00:40:48,440
Speaker 1: that's okay, Like they'll figure it out. They need help.

908
00:40:48,440 --> 00:40:50,880
Speaker 2: They'll come to me true, And I don't ever like,

909
00:40:51,120 --> 00:40:52,839
Speaker 2: you know, never see a stranger on the street and I'm.

910
00:40:52,760 --> 00:40:54,719
Speaker 1: Like, are you kid, let me help you. I'm going

911
00:40:54,800 --> 00:40:55,640
Speaker 1: to fix this for you.

912
00:40:56,080 --> 00:40:57,840
Speaker 2: It's the only people in my life that I know.

913
00:40:57,960 --> 00:41:00,279
Speaker 2: And we start to have conversations and I can feel

914
00:41:00,360 --> 00:41:01,960
Speaker 2: like coming out of me where I'm like, oh, this

915
00:41:02,040 --> 00:41:03,799
Speaker 2: is my time, push them, let's go, let's do this.

916
00:41:04,040 --> 00:41:06,560
Speaker 1: Yeah. I just I don't know any other way.

917
00:41:06,440 --> 00:41:07,879
Speaker 2: To be, you know what I mean?

918
00:41:08,040 --> 00:41:10,279
Speaker 1: That's you. I just love that we're all different. Like,

919
00:41:10,400 --> 00:41:14,160
Speaker 1: we're all so different. And there was something I kind

920
00:41:14,200 --> 00:41:15,560
Speaker 1: of wanted to talk about on the show, but I

921
00:41:15,560 --> 00:41:18,520
Speaker 1: mean it will never It'll never happen because we're just

922
00:41:18,520 --> 00:41:19,520
Speaker 1: so timed on the.

923
00:41:19,480 --> 00:41:20,719
Speaker 2: Show, what do you want to talk about?

924
00:41:20,760 --> 00:41:24,440
Speaker 1: But I've always wanted to talk about how I didn't

925
00:41:24,480 --> 00:41:28,799
Speaker 1: realize how different people were, Like really to the core,

926
00:41:28,920 --> 00:41:30,920
Speaker 1: how different people are. You look at the human race,

927
00:41:31,160 --> 00:41:34,000
Speaker 1: We're all the same. We're all we love routine, we

928
00:41:34,080 --> 00:41:37,040
Speaker 1: love like love to eat at these times, we love

929
00:41:37,120 --> 00:41:39,200
Speaker 1: to like do these things on the weekends. Like we

930
00:41:39,239 --> 00:41:42,440
Speaker 1: all just kind of like to do certain things, right. Yeah,

931
00:41:42,560 --> 00:41:47,319
Speaker 1: But when I adopted my two kids and we've had,

932
00:41:47,520 --> 00:41:49,799
Speaker 1: you know, we've they've been part of our family for

933
00:41:52,480 --> 00:41:58,720
Speaker 1: six years now, yeah, six years. When you look at

934
00:41:59,000 --> 00:42:07,760
Speaker 1: biological your genetics versus two other people's genetics and how

935
00:42:08,080 --> 00:42:15,440
Speaker 1: different they are, it's unbelievable. It's so crazy to I

936
00:42:15,560 --> 00:42:18,680
Speaker 1: know what my boys are going to be. I don't

937
00:42:18,760 --> 00:42:20,919
Speaker 1: know what their jobs are going to be. I don't

938
00:42:21,000 --> 00:42:23,640
Speaker 1: know like where they're going to work. But I know

939
00:42:24,480 --> 00:42:27,520
Speaker 1: that one of my boys is not going to be

940
00:42:28,400 --> 00:42:31,319
Speaker 1: a lawyer. He's not going to be a doctor. He's

941
00:42:31,360 --> 00:42:33,000
Speaker 1: not going to be anything where he has to go

942
00:42:33,000 --> 00:42:37,160
Speaker 1: to school for more than like one year. He works

943
00:42:37,200 --> 00:42:40,000
Speaker 1: with his hands. He is uber talented with his hands.

944
00:42:40,360 --> 00:42:44,960
Speaker 1: He can already fix things. He can already like just

945
00:42:45,440 --> 00:42:50,280
Speaker 1: create things with his hands. And he doesn't think about anything.

946
00:42:50,480 --> 00:42:54,200
Speaker 1: He's not a thinker. He's just watch this. I do this.

947
00:42:54,320 --> 00:42:57,560
Speaker 1: Boom boom, boom boom. I build a home. Like you

948
00:42:57,600 --> 00:43:00,720
Speaker 1: see that, You're like, and then you got my oldest

949
00:43:00,760 --> 00:43:03,400
Speaker 1: and you're like, well, he can never do that, Like

950
00:43:03,480 --> 00:43:06,160
Speaker 1: he'll never ever be able to do that. But he's

951
00:43:06,200 --> 00:43:11,000
Speaker 1: got a mind that can create so many cool stories,

952
00:43:11,719 --> 00:43:16,400
Speaker 1: that can create like anything, he could rap, he could

953
00:43:16,440 --> 00:43:19,760
Speaker 1: like write a song, he could tell a cool story

954
00:43:19,760 --> 00:43:23,600
Speaker 1: and make it really funny, like unbelievable. My other one,

955
00:43:23,760 --> 00:43:27,200
Speaker 1: no chance, couldn't tell a story to save his life. Yeah,

956
00:43:27,200 --> 00:43:29,360
Speaker 1: but you start looking at these things where you're like, wow,

957
00:43:29,560 --> 00:43:36,799
Speaker 1: like we are all so different. We like, I don't know,

958
00:43:36,880 --> 00:43:39,320
Speaker 1: I feel like putting them in school is so hard

959
00:43:39,400 --> 00:43:43,760
Speaker 1: because like school is such a generic Like yeah.

960
00:43:43,600 --> 00:43:45,680
Speaker 2: It's kind of a one size fits all.

961
00:43:45,800 --> 00:43:48,960
Speaker 1: Everyone's going to take these classes, everyone's gonna take these tests,

962
00:43:49,440 --> 00:43:53,960
Speaker 1: but like one cannot do that as well as others can.

963
00:43:54,920 --> 00:43:57,880
Speaker 1: And like it's so sad to me that, like I

964
00:43:57,920 --> 00:44:00,799
Speaker 1: look at some of my kids, some struggles so hard,

965
00:44:00,800 --> 00:44:03,480
Speaker 1: and it's not their fault. They're just not built that way.

966
00:44:03,680 --> 00:44:07,400
Speaker 1: They're not built to do school the way that the

967
00:44:07,440 --> 00:44:11,759
Speaker 1: government or whatever the school officials think that that's how

968
00:44:11,760 --> 00:44:15,719
Speaker 1: it should be. But other ones thriving it so Like

969
00:44:15,840 --> 00:44:17,600
Speaker 1: I don't know. I think it just came to me

970
00:44:17,640 --> 00:44:19,000
Speaker 1: the day when I just look at them and like,

971
00:44:19,000 --> 00:44:22,560
Speaker 1: they're all so different. Isn't it weird too?

972
00:44:22,719 --> 00:44:25,000
Speaker 2: When you do look at that and you see all

973
00:44:25,000 --> 00:44:26,640
Speaker 2: these like you look at your four kids, They're four

974
00:44:26,680 --> 00:44:28,680
Speaker 2: different little human beings that are going to grow up

975
00:44:28,719 --> 00:44:31,719
Speaker 2: to do four different completely different things. And then you

976
00:44:31,760 --> 00:44:34,960
Speaker 2: look at people when we share things, and everybody seems

977
00:44:35,000 --> 00:44:38,080
Speaker 2: to have an opinion of how you should live their

978
00:44:38,160 --> 00:44:39,719
Speaker 2: life and it should be the way that they live

979
00:44:39,800 --> 00:44:42,239
Speaker 2: their life. And you look at that and you say,

980
00:44:42,239 --> 00:44:45,600
Speaker 2: but we have vastly different experiences, So why should we

981
00:44:45,640 --> 00:44:47,600
Speaker 2: live the same life. Why should I do it the

982
00:44:47,640 --> 00:44:50,120
Speaker 2: way that you did it just to make you feel better?

983
00:44:50,160 --> 00:44:53,279
Speaker 2: But we had different experiences that would dictate that that

984
00:44:53,320 --> 00:44:58,640
Speaker 2: shouldn't happen. Yeah, I think so much of our understanding

985
00:44:58,680 --> 00:45:00,719
Speaker 2: of people as understanding that we're and I think a

986
00:45:00,719 --> 00:45:03,520
Speaker 2: lot of people lack that ability to recognize totally.

987
00:45:03,600 --> 00:45:06,799
Speaker 1: I never thought about it. I really just thought like, oh,

988
00:45:06,800 --> 00:45:09,480
Speaker 1: we're all the same, Like we're all kind of and

989
00:45:09,520 --> 00:45:12,240
Speaker 1: there's a thought too of just like if I wanted

990
00:45:12,280 --> 00:45:14,600
Speaker 1: to become a lawyer, I can become a lawyer. Like

991
00:45:14,640 --> 00:45:16,680
Speaker 1: if I wanted to be a doctor, I could become

992
00:45:16,719 --> 00:45:19,880
Speaker 1: a brain surgeon. I don't think that's true for me.

993
00:45:20,160 --> 00:45:22,960
Speaker 1: Like I could try my best, I can try my hardest,

994
00:45:22,960 --> 00:45:25,880
Speaker 1: and maybe, like I could probably be some kind of

995
00:45:26,000 --> 00:45:28,520
Speaker 1: brain surgeon, but I don't know if I would be

996
00:45:28,560 --> 00:45:31,000
Speaker 1: good at it, because but I'm good at what I

997
00:45:31,000 --> 00:45:33,640
Speaker 1: do now. And I did not try to find this job.

998
00:45:33,880 --> 00:45:36,799
Speaker 1: I did not try to say I'm going to be

999
00:45:36,840 --> 00:45:38,879
Speaker 1: on a radio show with all my friends and we're

1000
00:45:38,880 --> 00:45:40,600
Speaker 1: gonna talk in the morning and we're gonna do this.

1001
00:45:40,920 --> 00:45:44,440
Speaker 1: Like I never said that. I never planned that. But

1002
00:45:45,000 --> 00:45:48,359
Speaker 1: I'm able to do this sometimes to think like this

1003
00:45:48,400 --> 00:45:49,799
Speaker 1: is what I'm supposed to be doing.

1004
00:45:50,280 --> 00:45:52,640
Speaker 2: Well, then it starts coming in the question of your

1005
00:45:52,640 --> 00:45:55,600
Speaker 2: calling your destiny, say are you on the right path?

1006
00:45:55,719 --> 00:45:58,000
Speaker 1: Those kind of different, but that's what I'm saying, Like

1007
00:45:58,160 --> 00:46:01,279
Speaker 1: I know what my boys are going to do. Don't

1008
00:46:01,320 --> 00:46:03,040
Speaker 1: know how they're going to do it, who they're gonna

1009
00:46:03,080 --> 00:46:06,640
Speaker 1: do it with or whatever, but I know that he

1010
00:46:06,719 --> 00:46:10,120
Speaker 1: is meant to do X, that one's meant meant to

1011
00:46:10,160 --> 00:46:13,279
Speaker 1: do Why that one's meant to do Z? Like you

1012
00:46:13,280 --> 00:46:14,719
Speaker 1: could just see it in them from the day they

1013
00:46:14,760 --> 00:46:17,160
Speaker 1: were born, like from the day they were so young.

1014
00:46:17,440 --> 00:46:20,319
Speaker 2: Have you not also had to also parent them each

1015
00:46:20,360 --> 00:46:21,880
Speaker 2: differently because of that existence?

1016
00:46:21,920 --> 00:46:23,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, so differently.

1017
00:46:23,760 --> 00:46:26,839
Speaker 2: Yeah, before it was really easy to like, oh, well

1018
00:46:26,880 --> 00:46:29,560
Speaker 2: I did this with that one, We're just gonna copy paste.

1019
00:46:29,640 --> 00:46:31,879
Speaker 1: But again again, like you even look at our show,

1020
00:46:31,960 --> 00:46:35,840
Speaker 1: look at lunchbox, how different he is than I am

1021
00:46:36,560 --> 00:46:39,359
Speaker 1: you know, or Bobby how different Bobby is from you

1022
00:46:39,480 --> 00:46:43,799
Speaker 1: or Amy, Like everyone is just so different that it

1023
00:46:44,080 --> 00:46:47,320
Speaker 1: like we all get along somehow, which is really cool,

1024
00:46:47,440 --> 00:46:51,480
Speaker 1: Like we all get along, but we're all so so,

1025
00:46:51,480 --> 00:46:54,160
Speaker 1: so so different. And Bobby's never going to think the

1026
00:46:54,200 --> 00:46:56,359
Speaker 1: way I do. I'm never going to think the way

1027
00:46:56,400 --> 00:46:59,919
Speaker 1: he does, and we're never gonna think the way Lunchbox does.

1028
00:47:00,200 --> 00:47:03,759
Speaker 1: Like it's just so interesting to me. I just love

1029
00:47:03,800 --> 00:47:04,480
Speaker 1: that about us.

1030
00:47:04,760 --> 00:47:08,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's part of the cool human experience to know

1031
00:47:08,760 --> 00:47:10,960
Speaker 2: that you get to be different, that you get to

1032
00:47:11,000 --> 00:47:13,799
Speaker 2: choose your own path, that life happens the way that

1033
00:47:13,800 --> 00:47:16,400
Speaker 2: it's supposed to. All of those things kind of collide

1034
00:47:16,440 --> 00:47:19,759
Speaker 2: and create one beautiful mess of experience that you're going

1035
00:47:19,800 --> 00:47:22,840
Speaker 2: to live throughout the course of however long you're here.

1036
00:47:23,480 --> 00:47:26,200
Speaker 2: It's weird. It's also weird. Very prestro is like very

1037
00:47:26,200 --> 00:47:31,880
Speaker 2: introspective of you to go in and very psychological, like.

1038
00:47:31,800 --> 00:47:34,760
Speaker 1: You were having a moment. It was definitely a moment.

1039
00:47:34,880 --> 00:47:37,840
Speaker 1: And it too comes from school a lot, because some

1040
00:47:37,880 --> 00:47:40,919
Speaker 1: of them struggle with school, Like really it's really hard

1041
00:47:40,920 --> 00:47:42,719
Speaker 1: for them, and I feel so bad for them, and

1042
00:47:42,760 --> 00:47:45,960
Speaker 1: I want to tell their teachers, like it's not for them,

1043
00:47:46,400 --> 00:47:48,239
Speaker 1: like school is not for them.

1044
00:47:48,640 --> 00:47:51,719
Speaker 2: I do wish there was some version of I did

1045
00:47:51,760 --> 00:47:54,000
Speaker 2: go down a rabbit hole at one point with the

1046
00:47:54,120 --> 00:47:58,120
Speaker 2: education system and why schools were created, what that looked like,

1047
00:47:58,280 --> 00:48:03,040
Speaker 2: how that started. And it's fascinating, honestly, the industrial revolution

1048
00:48:03,200 --> 00:48:06,600
Speaker 2: of creating the schools to really create these marketplaces and

1049
00:48:07,239 --> 00:48:08,399
Speaker 2: YadA YadA, yah h yah.

1050
00:48:08,440 --> 00:48:10,520
Speaker 1: That's history. But it is.

1051
00:48:10,520 --> 00:48:14,640
Speaker 2: Crazy that we've evolved in schools of what we're learning

1052
00:48:14,680 --> 00:48:17,480
Speaker 2: in a way, but it's still kind of the same.

1053
00:48:18,719 --> 00:48:23,719
Speaker 1: It's the same created decades ago. Yes, yes, so we've

1054
00:48:23,760 --> 00:48:26,759
Speaker 1: never thought, hey, we should probably rehaul this a little bit.

1055
00:48:26,960 --> 00:48:30,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like I do wonder certain things in life why

1056
00:48:30,600 --> 00:48:32,560
Speaker 2: we don't recall them. Why we don't look at something

1057
00:48:32,560 --> 00:48:34,680
Speaker 2: and say, hey, because it's hard.

1058
00:48:34,760 --> 00:48:38,319
Speaker 1: It might be way too much work that too, you know,

1059
00:48:38,360 --> 00:48:41,200
Speaker 1: maybe we don't have the resources like to do all that.

1060
00:48:41,400 --> 00:48:44,680
Speaker 1: But yes, there is something. Oh my gosh, mice, do

1061
00:48:44,680 --> 00:48:45,120
Speaker 1: we have time?

1062
00:48:45,200 --> 00:48:47,760
Speaker 2: So you can keep going as long as you go there.

1063
00:48:47,800 --> 00:48:50,680
Speaker 1: There is there is something that they do in Nashville

1064
00:48:51,000 --> 00:48:52,960
Speaker 1: and it's called, like I don't know, something biz Town

1065
00:48:53,360 --> 00:48:56,120
Speaker 1: and all the schools can participate in it. But it's

1066
00:48:56,120 --> 00:49:00,040
Speaker 1: a it's a fake city in a big warehouse and

1067
00:49:00,120 --> 00:49:03,400
Speaker 1: do a fake city. There's police officers, there's firefighters, there's

1068
00:49:04,000 --> 00:49:11,440
Speaker 1: there are businesses, there are restaurants, there are hospitals, doctors' offices,

1069
00:49:11,840 --> 00:49:15,080
Speaker 1: a radio station, a TV station, there is everything. It's

1070
00:49:15,440 --> 00:49:19,279
Speaker 1: like a little city, okay. And so these you know,

1071
00:49:19,320 --> 00:49:21,200
Speaker 1: you get your class to go that. The school has

1072
00:49:21,200 --> 00:49:23,480
Speaker 1: to sign them up and they go and it's like,

1073
00:49:23,480 --> 00:49:24,960
Speaker 1: all right, what do you want to be? Like, I

1074
00:49:24,960 --> 00:49:26,600
Speaker 1: want to be a nurse. Okay, cool, Then you're going

1075
00:49:26,640 --> 00:49:28,239
Speaker 1: to go work at the hospital. What do you want

1076
00:49:28,280 --> 00:49:30,120
Speaker 1: to be? And my son said, I want to be

1077
00:49:30,160 --> 00:49:33,719
Speaker 1: on the radio. So he ran the radio station. They

1078
00:49:33,760 --> 00:49:37,399
Speaker 1: just did this like two three weeks ago, and they

1079
00:49:37,440 --> 00:49:40,040
Speaker 1: teach him about like all right, so you work at

1080
00:49:40,040 --> 00:49:42,560
Speaker 1: the radio station. How does the radio station make money?

1081
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Speaker 1: They sell advertisements to that restaurant over there, So you

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Speaker 1: have to go to the restaurant and you have to

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Speaker 1: ask the restaurant if they would like to buy and

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Speaker 1: they all start with like ten dollars.

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Speaker 2: Okay, wait, hold on. This is so interesting to me.

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Speaker 1: It's amazing.

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Speaker 2: It's fascinating that they do this. Are there people in

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Speaker 2: this place, like adults that are working there.

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Speaker 1: No, they're not working. Well, they work, I mean they

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00:50:05,800 --> 00:50:09,799
Speaker 1: they are adults supervising, okay, but they let the and

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Speaker 1: they teach the kids. Like all right, each there's an

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Speaker 1: adult in every building. Got it.

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Speaker 2: So they have a supervisor for kind of each correct

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Speaker 2: for the restaurant.

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Speaker 1: So like when you go work for the restaurant, they

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Speaker 1: tell you what your job is, what you need to

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Speaker 1: be doing.

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Speaker 2: But your son when you had to go to the

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Speaker 2: restaurant ask he was talking to another student, mm hmmm,

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Speaker 2: got it.

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Speaker 1: That was told that he's going to come and ask

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Speaker 1: you if you want to do advertisements. That means that

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00:50:30,800 --> 00:50:33,080
Speaker 1: they they'll say you're name of your restaurant on your

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Speaker 1: on the radio station. Got it. And then and then

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00:50:35,280 --> 00:50:37,520
Speaker 1: he once he makes the sell, he goes back to

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00:50:37,520 --> 00:50:39,480
Speaker 1: the radio station and writes a little script and he's

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Speaker 1: like go eat at whatever Italian restaurant and then he

1108
00:50:43,160 --> 00:50:45,560
Speaker 1: plays a song and everyone can do requests or whatever.

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00:50:45,960 --> 00:50:49,360
Speaker 1: But they give them ten dollars and like everything costs money.

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Speaker 1: Like so you just made a dollar from that from

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00:50:52,520 --> 00:50:56,520
Speaker 1: that restaurant. Yeah, so now you have to spend a dollar.

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Speaker 1: Do you want to hire? Like, do you want to

1113
00:50:58,640 --> 00:51:01,800
Speaker 1: hire a salesperson say you going all the way out there, Like, yes,

1114
00:51:02,200 --> 00:51:04,279
Speaker 1: I don't want to sell anymore. So he hired a

1115
00:51:04,320 --> 00:51:07,680
Speaker 1: salespeople that cost three dollars and so vice versa. Or

1116
00:51:08,640 --> 00:51:11,680
Speaker 1: you want health insurance, that costs a dollar, and he'll

1117
00:51:11,719 --> 00:51:14,120
Speaker 1: go to the doctor's office. He bought health insurance. It

1118
00:51:14,239 --> 00:51:15,000
Speaker 1: was amazing.

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Speaker 2: It's like monopoly kind of in real life. Well to

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00:51:17,760 --> 00:51:20,680
Speaker 2: teach them about real life experiences.

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00:51:20,080 --> 00:51:22,239
Speaker 1: Real life how to go to a bank and like

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00:51:22,320 --> 00:51:23,880
Speaker 1: you can borrow money, but it's going to cost you

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00:51:23,920 --> 00:51:27,880
Speaker 1: to borrow money. Wow, pretty amazing. I not know this existed.

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Speaker 1: And what I loved about it was to see because

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00:51:30,120 --> 00:51:31,759
Speaker 1: my son came back and told me, like, well, I

1126
00:51:31,800 --> 00:51:34,440
Speaker 1: was like, what was everyone like your friends? Everyone was

1127
00:51:34,480 --> 00:51:37,520
Speaker 1: pretty much what their dad did or their mom. Did

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00:51:38,160 --> 00:51:42,080
Speaker 1: you know like he has he has like his friend

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00:51:42,120 --> 00:51:44,400
Speaker 1: his dad's a builder in town, so what did he do?

1130
00:51:44,480 --> 00:51:46,920
Speaker 1: He's a construction guy. But you know, my son was

1131
00:51:46,960 --> 00:51:50,680
Speaker 1: a radio guy. There's a you know, a girl her

1132
00:51:50,800 --> 00:51:53,360
Speaker 1: her mom was a is a doctor, so she was

1133
00:51:53,400 --> 00:51:57,200
Speaker 1: a doctor. Like I think, it's just so cool like that.

1134
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Speaker 1: And they did it for like three days in a row.

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Speaker 2: I was wondering if they continued it to really have

1136
00:52:01,560 --> 00:52:02,480
Speaker 2: the full experience.

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00:52:02,560 --> 00:52:06,600
Speaker 1: They did. Wow, they did. It's really interesting. It's like, man,

1138
00:52:06,760 --> 00:52:09,120
Speaker 1: that should be school for some people.

1139
00:52:09,320 --> 00:52:11,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, well it also should just be part of everybody's

1140
00:52:11,960 --> 00:52:14,719
Speaker 2: schooling to really understand, especially in high school when you're

1141
00:52:15,040 --> 00:52:17,319
Speaker 2: getting to the point of understanding like what's after because

1142
00:52:17,360 --> 00:52:18,960
Speaker 2: so many of us got out of high school, we're like, Okay,

1143
00:52:18,960 --> 00:52:21,120
Speaker 2: I guess we're going to college more school, and then

1144
00:52:21,160 --> 00:52:23,879
Speaker 2: you still learn just more advanced things that you learned

1145
00:52:23,880 --> 00:52:26,560
Speaker 2: in high school. And then you start to be like, oh, well,

1146
00:52:26,600 --> 00:52:27,960
Speaker 2: what am I supposed to do? I don't know, I

1147
00:52:27,960 --> 00:52:28,760
Speaker 2: haven't done anything.

1148
00:52:28,800 --> 00:52:30,759
Speaker 1: How am I supposed to know what I'm going to do? Oh?

1149
00:52:30,840 --> 00:52:32,600
Speaker 1: Do you remember getting your first job and like trying

1150
00:52:32,640 --> 00:52:35,560
Speaker 1: to figure out, like what are benefits? Like what do

1151
00:52:36,160 --> 00:52:36,959
Speaker 1: what do I get?

1152
00:52:37,160 --> 00:52:39,560
Speaker 2: Well, my first job was working at Buffalo Wildlings as

1153
00:52:39,560 --> 00:52:42,920
Speaker 2: the hostess. And that was a wild wild West experience

1154
00:52:42,960 --> 00:52:47,680
Speaker 2: for me because no pun intended Tally, I like, I

1155
00:52:47,719 --> 00:52:50,000
Speaker 2: was sixteen years old, I got my first paycheck. I'm like,

1156
00:52:50,040 --> 00:52:51,359
Speaker 2: what what was happening here?

1157
00:52:51,440 --> 00:52:54,080
Speaker 1: What I do with this piece of paper?

1158
00:52:54,520 --> 00:52:56,360
Speaker 2: And there was I mean that was so eye opening

1159
00:52:56,400 --> 00:52:57,440
Speaker 2: for me, and I was adamant.

1160
00:52:57,520 --> 00:52:57,960
Speaker 1: It was funny.

1161
00:52:58,040 --> 00:53:00,319
Speaker 2: My parents were like, well more than you. You like

1162
00:53:00,320 --> 00:53:02,000
Speaker 2: four sports and you're in school. How the heck are

1163
00:53:02,000 --> 00:53:03,239
Speaker 2: you gonna have a job. I was like, I don't know,

1164
00:53:03,320 --> 00:53:06,960
Speaker 2: but I need you need money. They were like okay,

1165
00:53:07,000 --> 00:53:09,160
Speaker 2: but just so you know, this isn't gonna be easy.

1166
00:53:09,200 --> 00:53:11,080
Speaker 2: I was like, well, I need to do it.

1167
00:53:11,160 --> 00:53:11,799
Speaker 1: And it was.

1168
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Speaker 2: It was really hard, and I brought sixteen years old,

1169
00:53:14,960 --> 00:53:17,520
Speaker 2: started working like immediately, it was like my sixteenth birthday happened.

1170
00:53:17,560 --> 00:53:18,839
Speaker 2: I was like, okay, time to get a job.

1171
00:53:19,800 --> 00:53:22,000
Speaker 1: And I was like, why why did I do that?

1172
00:53:22,120 --> 00:53:22,840
Speaker 1: Because you're a worker?

1173
00:53:23,080 --> 00:53:25,799
Speaker 2: I was, but like I look back on it, like, dang,

1174
00:53:25,840 --> 00:53:27,360
Speaker 2: Morying could have been a little bit lazier.

1175
00:53:27,600 --> 00:53:29,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, no, no, no, that's not again, that's not your style.

1176
00:53:29,960 --> 00:53:33,040
Speaker 1: That's not morgan was it. Do you remember your first

1177
00:53:33,080 --> 00:53:35,400
Speaker 1: job and being like what is happening? A lifeguard? I

1178
00:53:35,440 --> 00:53:37,520
Speaker 1: was a lifeguard and like, yeah, when I got my

1179
00:53:37,520 --> 00:53:39,399
Speaker 1: first paycheck, I went to the guitar store and bought

1180
00:53:39,400 --> 00:53:42,719
Speaker 1: a guitar. You blew. My check was four hundred dollars.

1181
00:53:42,760 --> 00:53:44,640
Speaker 1: I bought a three hundred and fifty dollars guitar and

1182
00:53:44,640 --> 00:53:47,080
Speaker 1: then I'm like, dang, I land fifty bucks? So what

1183
00:53:47,080 --> 00:53:49,440
Speaker 1: did she do with the last fifteen I don't remember,

1184
00:53:49,480 --> 00:53:53,320
Speaker 1: got whateburgers, I don't know. Yeah, I got lunch. That's funny.

1185
00:53:54,000 --> 00:53:57,000
Speaker 1: We're so stupid. And then all these times too, I'm like,

1186
00:53:57,320 --> 00:53:59,560
Speaker 1: where was my mom and dad? Like why didn't not

1187
00:53:59,600 --> 00:54:01,560
Speaker 1: tell me? Like don't go via guitar.

1188
00:54:02,040 --> 00:54:03,560
Speaker 2: Oh, I'm pretty sure my parents tried to tell me

1189
00:54:03,560 --> 00:54:04,399
Speaker 2: a bunch of things and I didn't.

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00:54:04,480 --> 00:54:06,000
Speaker 1: Probably that's probably the real story.

1191
00:54:06,120 --> 00:54:08,360
Speaker 2: It was not what was happening? Okay, Eddie, Well I

1192
00:54:08,400 --> 00:54:09,600
Speaker 2: could keep you here forever already.

1193
00:54:09,640 --> 00:54:12,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, that was fun. We got to answer favorite my

1194
00:54:12,120 --> 00:54:14,719
Speaker 1: favorite time, maybe my favorite time of every six months,

1195
00:54:14,880 --> 00:54:15,640
Speaker 1: it is we are.

1196
00:54:15,719 --> 00:54:17,239
Speaker 2: I mean, I had like random things and that was so

1197
00:54:17,320 --> 00:54:20,040
Speaker 2: much better. So I'm really glad it worked out that way.

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Speaker 1: Thanks for being here ours.

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Speaker 3: That's the best bits of the week with Morgan. Thanks

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Speaker 3: for listening. Be sure to check out the other two

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Speaker 3: parts this weekend. Go follow the show on all social.

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