1 00:00:00,360 --> 00:00:04,240 Speaker 1: Scrubbing in with Beca Tilly and I'm your podcast. I 2 00:00:06,600 --> 00:00:09,760 Speaker 1: still don't we should have Mark do that an Tanya Rad, No, 3 00:00:09,960 --> 00:00:13,680 Speaker 1: the whole intro. I think he should just add Antonia 4 00:00:13,800 --> 00:00:18,360 Speaker 1: Rad and his voice with it. Yeah, we have a 5 00:00:18,640 --> 00:00:21,799 Speaker 1: we have a different scenery today, we have east and back. 6 00:00:22,760 --> 00:00:25,720 Speaker 1: We have missed you. I've missed you, guys. I felt 7 00:00:25,760 --> 00:00:27,640 Speaker 1: a little betrayed that I found out you were doing 8 00:00:27,680 --> 00:00:30,479 Speaker 1: another podcast and that's why you weren't in here. But 9 00:00:30,920 --> 00:00:33,400 Speaker 1: it breaks my heart. But you know, I go where 10 00:00:33,400 --> 00:00:37,280 Speaker 1: I'm needed where needed here and we don't have Mark today. 11 00:00:37,400 --> 00:00:40,320 Speaker 1: And yeah, so Mark's out of town, Easton's back. I 12 00:00:40,320 --> 00:00:42,720 Speaker 1: guess if Easton had been doing the other podcast, Tanya 13 00:00:42,760 --> 00:00:45,240 Speaker 1: and I would have produced the whole thing on our own, 14 00:00:45,280 --> 00:00:48,839 Speaker 1: which would have been Yeah, I would have been a disaster, 15 00:00:49,000 --> 00:00:50,839 Speaker 1: But I guess you would be pretty good at this, right, 16 00:00:52,040 --> 00:00:55,400 Speaker 1: disaster slash fun. You know, new challenges present. If it 17 00:00:55,440 --> 00:00:57,800 Speaker 1: doesn't challenge you, it doesn't change you. Okay, I have 18 00:00:57,960 --> 00:01:00,480 Speaker 1: to talk to you all about this quote, as Tanya 19 00:01:00,560 --> 00:01:03,040 Speaker 1: doesn't all the time, and the first time I ever 20 00:01:03,120 --> 00:01:05,080 Speaker 1: heard it, we went to you know, we go to 21 00:01:05,120 --> 00:01:07,280 Speaker 1: the sauna and do the infrared sauna and do like 22 00:01:07,360 --> 00:01:13,800 Speaker 1: sweat sessions to what does it do like distress? And 23 00:01:13,840 --> 00:01:16,319 Speaker 1: I mean it's like an hour of pure torture of 24 00:01:16,400 --> 00:01:19,479 Speaker 1: just sweating to death. And Tania most of the time 25 00:01:19,560 --> 00:01:21,960 Speaker 1: like handles it like a champ, and I'm the one struggling. 26 00:01:22,440 --> 00:01:26,000 Speaker 1: And one time she gets out and she's like rocking 27 00:01:26,040 --> 00:01:30,280 Speaker 1: back and forth like naked. She's like, if it doesn't 28 00:01:30,319 --> 00:01:33,640 Speaker 1: challenge you, that doesn't change you. And I kept saying 29 00:01:33,640 --> 00:01:38,760 Speaker 1: it over and I was like a chance terrifying, And 30 00:01:38,840 --> 00:01:41,320 Speaker 1: I was like at first I was laughing and concern. 31 00:01:41,440 --> 00:01:43,360 Speaker 1: I mean I was concerned, but I was laughing. And 32 00:01:43,360 --> 00:01:46,800 Speaker 1: then it kept going for like minutes of the same chant, 33 00:01:46,800 --> 00:01:50,680 Speaker 1: and I'm like, she okay, Like do I need to call? Yeah? Well, 34 00:01:50,720 --> 00:01:53,440 Speaker 1: I was already concerned. Do you chant when you exercise, 35 00:01:53,480 --> 00:01:57,600 Speaker 1: either of you. I don't exercise sometimes I don't champ, 36 00:01:57,600 --> 00:02:01,320 Speaker 1: but I'll say when I'm working out, I constantly say 37 00:02:01,360 --> 00:02:04,680 Speaker 1: on loop, the body achieves that the mind believes. So 38 00:02:04,720 --> 00:02:06,600 Speaker 1: if I say I'm tired I want to stop running, 39 00:02:06,680 --> 00:02:08,919 Speaker 1: then I'll stop running. But if I say I can 40 00:02:08,919 --> 00:02:10,880 Speaker 1: do it, then I can do it. It's wild. I 41 00:02:10,880 --> 00:02:14,200 Speaker 1: think that works incredibly well. Like when I when I run, Um, 42 00:02:14,240 --> 00:02:16,400 Speaker 1: I run a lot of half marathons, not full of marathons, 43 00:02:16,400 --> 00:02:20,519 Speaker 1: half marathons thirteen point one miles. And when I get tired, 44 00:02:20,560 --> 00:02:24,440 Speaker 1: I say speed. I am speed. Faster than fast, quicker 45 00:02:24,480 --> 00:02:27,200 Speaker 1: than quick, I am speed. That's what Lightning McQueen says 46 00:02:27,240 --> 00:02:29,320 Speaker 1: in the Cars movies, and it really helps, it does. 47 00:02:29,600 --> 00:02:32,520 Speaker 1: Y'all are both very Um. I didn't know this about you, 48 00:02:32,560 --> 00:02:35,400 Speaker 1: but I can say that Tanya, we were talking about 49 00:02:35,400 --> 00:02:39,640 Speaker 1: it the other day, is very mentally strong, Like you 50 00:02:39,720 --> 00:02:43,080 Speaker 1: have convinced yourself that pizza is better. I mean, salad 51 00:02:43,120 --> 00:02:46,359 Speaker 1: is better than pizza, totally. Like I can't change your mind. 52 00:02:46,360 --> 00:02:47,840 Speaker 1: I could be like, this is the best piece of 53 00:02:47,840 --> 00:02:51,360 Speaker 1: pizza in the world. She's like this dressing with salad 54 00:02:51,520 --> 00:02:56,760 Speaker 1: is whylicious? Um, and I envy that because I I'm 55 00:02:56,840 --> 00:02:59,600 Speaker 1: so mentally weak, especially when it comes to having will 56 00:02:59,600 --> 00:03:03,600 Speaker 1: power like exercising or eating healthy. Don't have it. Yeah, 57 00:03:03,720 --> 00:03:07,400 Speaker 1: I truly believe mind over matter in every situation. Yeah, 58 00:03:07,639 --> 00:03:10,920 Speaker 1: it's a it's a gift. I kind of work at it. 59 00:03:11,160 --> 00:03:17,399 Speaker 1: Trust me. You. Um, we went out on Friday night, 60 00:03:17,440 --> 00:03:20,760 Speaker 1: Well say let's go back. Okay, First of all, I 61 00:03:20,880 --> 00:03:24,160 Speaker 1: want to say, I truly had the best birthday ever 62 00:03:24,880 --> 00:03:30,080 Speaker 1: and it was because of you, truly. Like I'm like 63 00:03:30,120 --> 00:03:32,960 Speaker 1: a weird like my my birthday is weird to me 64 00:03:33,000 --> 00:03:35,320 Speaker 1: because I feel like just in our lives and our 65 00:03:35,400 --> 00:03:37,520 Speaker 1: jobs in general, we always have all these commitments and 66 00:03:37,520 --> 00:03:39,200 Speaker 1: things like that. So for me, I'm like, I don't 67 00:03:39,240 --> 00:03:41,200 Speaker 1: want to do a big birthday dinner, a party or 68 00:03:41,240 --> 00:03:44,080 Speaker 1: something that just adds another commitment to people's lives because 69 00:03:44,080 --> 00:03:47,280 Speaker 1: we're already so busy and how annoying. But I also 70 00:03:47,320 --> 00:03:48,960 Speaker 1: don't want to like not do anything and just like 71 00:03:49,120 --> 00:03:51,960 Speaker 1: sit at home on my birthday. So Becca comes in, 72 00:03:52,440 --> 00:03:57,040 Speaker 1: swoops in on a pump day birthday because it's the 73 00:03:57,040 --> 00:04:00,320 Speaker 1: middle of the week so it's like random, and takes 74 00:04:00,360 --> 00:04:02,360 Speaker 1: me to the spa, which I didn't even know that 75 00:04:02,400 --> 00:04:04,880 Speaker 1: I needed, you know, like I didn't even realize how 76 00:04:04,880 --> 00:04:07,240 Speaker 1: badly I needed a massage, and just like it was 77 00:04:07,400 --> 00:04:11,000 Speaker 1: so beautiful, so relaxing. That was like literally could not 78 00:04:11,160 --> 00:04:13,360 Speaker 1: have been better. And she just thought of that just 79 00:04:13,440 --> 00:04:16,320 Speaker 1: on a whim, and then she said, what's the one 80 00:04:16,320 --> 00:04:17,760 Speaker 1: thing that you want to do? And I said, I 81 00:04:17,800 --> 00:04:19,880 Speaker 1: really want to go to the beach and write down 82 00:04:19,920 --> 00:04:21,839 Speaker 1: my intentions that I want to call into my life 83 00:04:21,839 --> 00:04:23,839 Speaker 1: and then burn the things that don't serve me anymore. 84 00:04:24,200 --> 00:04:26,360 Speaker 1: So we did the spa. We went and we had 85 00:04:26,400 --> 00:04:31,240 Speaker 1: dinner at this like place that we love income two 86 00:04:31,279 --> 00:04:32,919 Speaker 1: of my other best friends that I thought were in 87 00:04:33,000 --> 00:04:39,640 Speaker 1: Vancouver that Becca had like they surprised me, which was awesome. 88 00:04:39,720 --> 00:04:42,080 Speaker 1: I started like bawling my eyes out. You haven't seen 89 00:04:42,080 --> 00:04:44,760 Speaker 1: that video on Tiny's Instagram. That that thing made me 90 00:04:44,760 --> 00:04:49,159 Speaker 1: cry so awesome because we're in the car there and 91 00:04:49,240 --> 00:04:51,359 Speaker 1: like Becca is like, oh, like how long until you 92 00:04:51,360 --> 00:04:53,920 Speaker 1: see Pauline and Sophia And I was like, oh, they're 93 00:04:54,040 --> 00:04:58,240 Speaker 1: traveling into like mid August. It sucks cut two or 94 00:04:58,320 --> 00:05:00,280 Speaker 1: in this place. And she kept telling me to look 95 00:05:00,320 --> 00:05:03,600 Speaker 1: at this painting to the left, talking about it. Okay, 96 00:05:03,680 --> 00:05:07,279 Speaker 1: So how we were positioned, we were like, if you 97 00:05:07,320 --> 00:05:09,080 Speaker 1: walked into the door of the restaurant, we were to 98 00:05:09,080 --> 00:05:12,040 Speaker 1: the left, so whoever walked in a Tania could easily 99 00:05:12,080 --> 00:05:15,560 Speaker 1: just turn and see whoever walked in next. And Paulina 100 00:05:15,640 --> 00:05:17,560 Speaker 1: texted me She's like, make sure her back is facing 101 00:05:17,560 --> 00:05:20,040 Speaker 1: the door. But like how we were positioned, it wasn't 102 00:05:20,040 --> 00:05:22,880 Speaker 1: really possible. So there was this there are these paintings 103 00:05:22,880 --> 00:05:25,800 Speaker 1: on the wall and you're like not exciting at all, 104 00:05:25,880 --> 00:05:28,800 Speaker 1: just totally just at first, we were looking at them 105 00:05:28,800 --> 00:05:30,440 Speaker 1: and I genuinely was like, I feel like I could 106 00:05:30,480 --> 00:05:33,000 Speaker 1: paint that. And it was like very expensive or something. 107 00:05:33,000 --> 00:05:34,680 Speaker 1: I was I feel like I could paint that. And 108 00:05:34,720 --> 00:05:37,159 Speaker 1: then when Paulina text me and said they were walking up, 109 00:05:37,240 --> 00:05:39,000 Speaker 1: I was like, I need her to be looking in 110 00:05:39,040 --> 00:05:41,960 Speaker 1: the opposite direction. So I'm like, I don't even remember 111 00:05:41,960 --> 00:05:43,839 Speaker 1: what I said. I started talking about the painting again, 112 00:05:43,839 --> 00:05:45,880 Speaker 1: and She's just like staring at me, like why are 113 00:05:45,920 --> 00:05:48,040 Speaker 1: you talking about this paints? Literally, I was like, she 114 00:05:48,120 --> 00:05:51,200 Speaker 1: keeps bringing up these weird paintings, like what is going 115 00:05:51,320 --> 00:05:54,360 Speaker 1: on this? I'm like looking at it. And then all 116 00:05:54,400 --> 00:05:56,479 Speaker 1: of a sudden, they hear Paulina's voice and I was like, like, 117 00:05:56,520 --> 00:06:02,440 Speaker 1: happy birthday. It was total shock and literally the like 118 00:06:02,480 --> 00:06:06,320 Speaker 1: the most happiest like it just everything about the day 119 00:06:06,400 --> 00:06:08,800 Speaker 1: was just perfect and what I wanted. And then we 120 00:06:08,839 --> 00:06:10,679 Speaker 1: went to the beach and we did what I wanted 121 00:06:10,720 --> 00:06:14,200 Speaker 1: to do, and you gave me an amazing gift and 122 00:06:14,400 --> 00:06:16,640 Speaker 1: it was just I can't thank you enough, Like, honestly, 123 00:06:16,640 --> 00:06:19,360 Speaker 1: it was the best birthday ever. I'm so happy because 124 00:06:19,440 --> 00:06:21,920 Speaker 1: I I get a little weirder on my birthday as well, 125 00:06:21,960 --> 00:06:23,760 Speaker 1: and I feel like I put a lot of It's 126 00:06:23,760 --> 00:06:26,760 Speaker 1: almost like I don't want to put any expectations on it, 127 00:06:26,800 --> 00:06:29,080 Speaker 1: but I end up doing that more so because I'm 128 00:06:29,080 --> 00:06:31,600 Speaker 1: trying not to or something. So when I say like, oh, 129 00:06:31,760 --> 00:06:33,360 Speaker 1: I don't want it to be a big deal whatever, 130 00:06:33,520 --> 00:06:35,240 Speaker 1: and then no one everyone's like Okay, we won't make 131 00:06:35,240 --> 00:06:37,599 Speaker 1: any big deal and no one does anything. I'm like, wait, 132 00:06:37,640 --> 00:06:40,840 Speaker 1: someone was supposed to step up and do something, so 133 00:06:40,880 --> 00:06:43,440 Speaker 1: it's like unrealistic. But I get the same way. So 134 00:06:43,520 --> 00:06:46,080 Speaker 1: I wanted your day to be like exactly what you wanted. 135 00:06:46,160 --> 00:06:48,800 Speaker 1: So it makes me so happy. It was deserved. It perfect. 136 00:06:48,880 --> 00:06:52,320 Speaker 1: It literally was perfect. Great. Should we talk about Elizabeth? 137 00:06:52,560 --> 00:06:58,160 Speaker 1: I was gonna say so as soon as I walk 138 00:06:58,240 --> 00:07:00,760 Speaker 1: in this a little calf cafe we went to. It 139 00:07:00,800 --> 00:07:04,279 Speaker 1: was like very casual, little Um. I guess it's considered 140 00:07:04,320 --> 00:07:07,520 Speaker 1: like Mexican things, like Mexican food, but like healthy Mexican food. 141 00:07:07,720 --> 00:07:11,000 Speaker 1: Yeah seems yeah, it seems like somewhere that I would 142 00:07:11,040 --> 00:07:14,520 Speaker 1: not like, but I quite enjoy it. Um. This is 143 00:07:14,560 --> 00:07:17,360 Speaker 1: the same place where we ran into Mr Wilsher when 144 00:07:17,400 --> 00:07:20,320 Speaker 1: he was with another girl. Yeah, we've had some good 145 00:07:20,440 --> 00:07:23,240 Speaker 1: run ins there. Um. So we walk in and immediately 146 00:07:23,320 --> 00:07:27,800 Speaker 1: I see Elizabeth Berkeley, who is Jesse Spano from And 147 00:07:27,960 --> 00:07:30,480 Speaker 1: I see her, but I like, don't say anything because 148 00:07:30,520 --> 00:07:32,840 Speaker 1: I didn't know that Tanya was like a big fan 149 00:07:33,400 --> 00:07:37,440 Speaker 1: same bind the belt. So we sit down in my back. 150 00:07:37,720 --> 00:07:40,760 Speaker 1: It's just she's just by herself eating and my back 151 00:07:40,960 --> 00:07:44,400 Speaker 1: is to her. And then Tanya is like sitting across 152 00:07:44,400 --> 00:07:46,560 Speaker 1: from me and she's facing her basically making eye come 153 00:07:46,600 --> 00:07:49,080 Speaker 1: back with Elizabeth Berkeley the whole time. And so Tanya 154 00:07:49,160 --> 00:07:52,360 Speaker 1: is like, I she said something I can't even or something. 155 00:07:52,360 --> 00:07:54,600 Speaker 1: I'm like, I know she be cool. They'll say anything 156 00:07:54,880 --> 00:07:58,520 Speaker 1: like she can see you talking. And so I'm sitting 157 00:07:58,560 --> 00:08:02,640 Speaker 1: here laughing because Tanya has met pretty much every big 158 00:08:02,680 --> 00:08:06,120 Speaker 1: celebrity you could think of, and I think this is 159 00:08:06,160 --> 00:08:09,440 Speaker 1: the first time I saw like a genuine fan girl. 160 00:08:09,480 --> 00:08:12,080 Speaker 1: Like she was like I have to I'm just smiling, 161 00:08:12,120 --> 00:08:14,240 Speaker 1: like I can't stop smiling. I know it because like 162 00:08:14,320 --> 00:08:19,600 Speaker 1: that's like she's iconic. Yeah, so um, we kind of 163 00:08:19,640 --> 00:08:23,200 Speaker 1: get past the fan girl ness and then Sophie and 164 00:08:23,200 --> 00:08:26,679 Speaker 1: Paulina come in and surprise her, and then Elizabeth Berkeley 165 00:08:26,760 --> 00:08:30,960 Speaker 1: is like, you have some really good friends, like yeah, 166 00:08:31,000 --> 00:08:35,800 Speaker 1: and I was like so and so we're kind of 167 00:08:35,920 --> 00:08:38,560 Speaker 1: and so Tony's like, I know, like they just surprised me. 168 00:08:38,640 --> 00:08:39,920 Speaker 1: And we kind of go back and forth for a 169 00:08:40,000 --> 00:08:42,560 Speaker 1: second and then we go to eat or whatever. So 170 00:08:42,600 --> 00:08:46,679 Speaker 1: then she and her son and assist nanny get up 171 00:08:46,679 --> 00:08:49,400 Speaker 1: to leave and she comes over and she's like, well, 172 00:08:49,440 --> 00:08:54,040 Speaker 1: happy birthday. Literally, I was like yeah, my mouth was 173 00:08:54,080 --> 00:08:57,760 Speaker 1: just like this, like like happy birthday, says a few things, 174 00:08:57,800 --> 00:08:59,640 Speaker 1: and I turned around. I'm like, we saw you when 175 00:08:59,640 --> 00:09:01,440 Speaker 1: we walked Tim, but we didn't want to be rude, 176 00:09:01,520 --> 00:09:04,560 Speaker 1: but since you started the conversation, you know, like you know, 177 00:09:04,640 --> 00:09:07,480 Speaker 1: we love you. Whatever. Well, then she kind of stands 178 00:09:07,520 --> 00:09:10,320 Speaker 1: around and what she's she said, what do you what 179 00:09:10,360 --> 00:09:13,120 Speaker 1: do you guys do? Which is why I hate that 180 00:09:13,200 --> 00:09:16,520 Speaker 1: question because everyone else is like, I'm in radio, I'm 181 00:09:16,559 --> 00:09:20,040 Speaker 1: an actress, whatever, and I'm just like I do social media. 182 00:09:21,400 --> 00:09:23,000 Speaker 1: But it's also it sounds like it's such a random 183 00:09:23,080 --> 00:09:24,959 Speaker 1: question when you're making like small talk with somebody, you 184 00:09:25,000 --> 00:09:26,160 Speaker 1: know what I mean, You're like, oh, like what are 185 00:09:26,200 --> 00:09:27,599 Speaker 1: you doing the rest of the day, or like, you 186 00:09:27,679 --> 00:09:29,360 Speaker 1: know what I mean, where do you guys live, like, 187 00:09:29,400 --> 00:09:32,320 Speaker 1: what do you do? Such a random yeah question? But 188 00:09:32,440 --> 00:09:35,040 Speaker 1: she was super nice, came up and said, you know, 189 00:09:35,160 --> 00:09:43,040 Speaker 1: and then she introduced he has. If I hadn't been 190 00:09:43,120 --> 00:09:45,200 Speaker 1: bawling my eyes out from the surprise, I was like 191 00:09:45,280 --> 00:09:49,320 Speaker 1: kind I almost I was so torn because I was. 192 00:09:49,400 --> 00:09:51,760 Speaker 1: I mean, at that point, she had initiated a conversation, 193 00:09:51,840 --> 00:09:54,600 Speaker 1: so I was like, do I facilitate like a phone? 194 00:09:55,360 --> 00:09:57,360 Speaker 1: I would have done it myself, but I just looked 195 00:09:57,400 --> 00:09:59,520 Speaker 1: like such a disaster that I was saying, there's just 196 00:09:59,600 --> 00:10:01,880 Speaker 1: no for me today. She would have been thrilled. I'm 197 00:10:01,920 --> 00:10:04,360 Speaker 1: sure she was very nice. Yeah, but Lisa Berkeley, we 198 00:10:04,400 --> 00:10:09,280 Speaker 1: love you Berkeley. Yeah. Um, I'm a huge Day by 199 00:10:09,320 --> 00:10:11,520 Speaker 1: the Bell fan. I didn't realize how excited I would 200 00:10:11,520 --> 00:10:14,559 Speaker 1: be to see anyone from there, but I got super excited. 201 00:10:14,840 --> 00:10:17,240 Speaker 1: Have you been to the Saved by the Max? But 202 00:10:17,360 --> 00:10:20,400 Speaker 1: I want to, but you know, it's like really full, 203 00:10:20,440 --> 00:10:22,840 Speaker 1: Like the reservations are really hard to get. I feel 204 00:10:22,880 --> 00:10:25,040 Speaker 1: like we could get in there telling you you think so. Yeah, 205 00:10:25,280 --> 00:10:27,160 Speaker 1: I have wanted to go to that. I feel like 206 00:10:27,200 --> 00:10:32,120 Speaker 1: we can make it happen for ourselves. Um. I want 207 00:10:32,120 --> 00:10:34,880 Speaker 1: to go into more of this week, but first I 208 00:10:35,160 --> 00:10:37,880 Speaker 1: know there's so much to cover, which is nice because 209 00:10:37,920 --> 00:10:39,280 Speaker 1: a lot of times we're like, what did we do? 210 00:10:40,920 --> 00:10:42,760 Speaker 1: But so we have to talk about um, we have 211 00:10:42,880 --> 00:10:46,720 Speaker 1: to do the UM. We talk about out out, going 212 00:10:46,720 --> 00:10:48,840 Speaker 1: out out, and then we also have to talk about 213 00:10:49,160 --> 00:10:52,320 Speaker 1: our Facebook live right. Okay, So our first sponsor for 214 00:10:52,360 --> 00:10:55,800 Speaker 1: today is something that most of y'all have heard about. 215 00:10:56,600 --> 00:11:02,840 Speaker 1: Sugar Bear hair, the hair gummy itemins that are absolutely delicious. 216 00:11:03,960 --> 00:11:07,199 Speaker 1: Have you used them? I haven't. 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Um, and it's a best seller 237 00:12:13,000 --> 00:12:15,920 Speaker 1: on Amazon too. Yeah, I'm not surprised. Ali came over 238 00:12:16,000 --> 00:12:18,319 Speaker 1: and was helping me clean up my well, we kind 239 00:12:18,320 --> 00:12:21,120 Speaker 1: of started to organize my office, but we didn't get 240 00:12:21,200 --> 00:12:22,680 Speaker 1: very far. But she was like, do you have any 241 00:12:22,679 --> 00:12:26,440 Speaker 1: sugar Bear hair? I'm hungry And I was like, okay, 242 00:12:26,480 --> 00:12:30,440 Speaker 1: well you can snackle and sugar They're like, uh no, 243 00:12:30,679 --> 00:12:33,559 Speaker 1: She's like no, but I need a bottle anyway. So um, 244 00:12:33,640 --> 00:12:37,600 Speaker 1: they are. They're delicious, but not just delicious, they're very 245 00:12:37,600 --> 00:12:40,440 Speaker 1: effective because they have as much vitamin A as four 246 00:12:40,520 --> 00:12:43,720 Speaker 1: cups of broccoli, as much vitamin C as one cup 247 00:12:43,760 --> 00:12:47,240 Speaker 1: of cranberries, and as much vitamin B twelve as four 248 00:12:47,400 --> 00:12:52,600 Speaker 1: organic eggs. That's crazy. That's a lot of nutritious vitamins 249 00:12:52,640 --> 00:12:54,640 Speaker 1: in these little gummies. That's right. So I have like 250 00:12:54,679 --> 00:12:57,760 Speaker 1: really luxurious hair and to get these results, I was 251 00:12:57,840 --> 00:13:00,319 Speaker 1: eating four cups of broccoli, one cup of cram berries, 252 00:13:00,360 --> 00:13:02,480 Speaker 1: and for organic eggs every day. But oh my god, 253 00:13:02,520 --> 00:13:07,520 Speaker 1: that wastes so much time. Yeah. I love gummy bears though, 254 00:13:07,960 --> 00:13:10,079 Speaker 1: So go to sugar bear Hair dot Com slash Becca 255 00:13:10,200 --> 00:13:13,640 Speaker 1: for beautiful hair and healthier you that sugar bear hair 256 00:13:13,800 --> 00:13:17,320 Speaker 1: dot Com slash Becca once again sugar bear Hair dot 257 00:13:17,360 --> 00:13:23,640 Speaker 1: Com slash Becca. Um. Okay, so we went, as Tanya 258 00:13:23,720 --> 00:13:29,480 Speaker 1: has described it, out out on Saturday night. Yeah. We 259 00:13:29,520 --> 00:13:31,200 Speaker 1: came up with that term on the Morning Show because 260 00:13:31,240 --> 00:13:33,840 Speaker 1: I was telling Ryan about the fact that we were 261 00:13:33,840 --> 00:13:35,320 Speaker 1: going out this weekend. I said, well, I'm not just 262 00:13:35,360 --> 00:13:37,320 Speaker 1: going out to dinner. I'm going out out, so like 263 00:13:37,320 --> 00:13:39,200 Speaker 1: we're going to dinner and then like out after, which 264 00:13:39,240 --> 00:13:41,240 Speaker 1: is if you know me, you know I like to 265 00:13:41,480 --> 00:13:44,800 Speaker 1: be in my robe. Yeah, well, she wrote she when 266 00:13:44,800 --> 00:13:46,800 Speaker 1: I dropped her off on her birthday on Wednesday, she 267 00:13:46,920 --> 00:13:50,200 Speaker 1: was like, should we go out this weekend? I was like, 268 00:13:50,800 --> 00:13:53,480 Speaker 1: who are you? Yeah, that's right, and she's like would 269 00:13:53,480 --> 00:13:58,520 Speaker 1: that be cute? Like so cute? It would be the 270 00:13:58,559 --> 00:14:01,160 Speaker 1: cutest to go out and be like in our on 271 00:14:01,240 --> 00:14:05,080 Speaker 1: our couch this weekend. So I was very excited, and 272 00:14:05,120 --> 00:14:07,520 Speaker 1: I wasn't sure if you were going to feel the 273 00:14:07,520 --> 00:14:09,760 Speaker 1: same way when the weekend actually came. So I was like, well, 274 00:14:09,800 --> 00:14:12,440 Speaker 1: there was a teeter point where I can't remember you 275 00:14:12,480 --> 00:14:15,400 Speaker 1: sent me a text like I'm feeling tired or I'm beat, 276 00:14:15,760 --> 00:14:18,280 Speaker 1: because I meant I looked beat because I've been like 277 00:14:18,360 --> 00:14:20,480 Speaker 1: running around all day. I was like gross looking. So 278 00:14:20,520 --> 00:14:22,000 Speaker 1: I just took that one text. I was like, well, 279 00:14:22,000 --> 00:14:23,160 Speaker 1: if you don't want to go ahead out, we can 280 00:14:23,160 --> 00:14:25,520 Speaker 1: totally just have dinner and then to come home. Yeah. 281 00:14:26,600 --> 00:14:28,280 Speaker 1: I was gonna say, if you're tired, if you met 282 00:14:28,360 --> 00:14:30,200 Speaker 1: your beat isn't tired, I was gonna say, we don't 283 00:14:30,200 --> 00:14:32,640 Speaker 1: have to go out afterwards. I'm like, no, we're gonna 284 00:14:33,000 --> 00:14:36,520 Speaker 1: the whole point. Tanya's quote was I'm giving out my number, 285 00:14:37,520 --> 00:14:39,320 Speaker 1: um and if it's to the end of the night 286 00:14:39,320 --> 00:14:41,200 Speaker 1: and I haven't given out my number yet, I'm writing 287 00:14:41,240 --> 00:14:43,320 Speaker 1: it on a napkin and handing it to the barten There. 288 00:14:43,760 --> 00:14:45,720 Speaker 1: I went out with the intention to like, I was like, 289 00:14:45,800 --> 00:14:49,000 Speaker 1: I'm giving my phone number out tonight. However that may 290 00:14:49,000 --> 00:14:51,920 Speaker 1: be I'm doing it. I cannot wait to tell a 291 00:14:51,960 --> 00:14:55,160 Speaker 1: story of what happened once ag we go to we 292 00:14:55,200 --> 00:14:58,320 Speaker 1: have a lovely dinner with your parents. Shout out to 293 00:14:58,440 --> 00:15:01,960 Speaker 1: mom and popa wrap. They were they were the cutest 294 00:15:01,960 --> 00:15:03,760 Speaker 1: of all time. We had a great dinner. It's like 295 00:15:03,800 --> 00:15:08,600 Speaker 1: a long, like enjoyable dinner, tavern, had some wine. I 296 00:15:08,720 --> 00:15:12,920 Speaker 1: was feeling ready to go out ahead. I was a 297 00:15:13,080 --> 00:15:15,400 Speaker 1: very risky top by the way, and then my dad 298 00:15:15,440 --> 00:15:18,480 Speaker 1: was like, you go girl. It's the funniest thing that 299 00:15:18,600 --> 00:15:21,960 Speaker 1: tany ist dynamic with her parents is so different than mine. 300 00:15:22,000 --> 00:15:26,480 Speaker 1: Like she just throws around like the evolve and her 301 00:15:26,560 --> 00:15:30,680 Speaker 1: dad's all like complimenting her own her like semi risk 302 00:15:30,960 --> 00:15:34,760 Speaker 1: or not semi risk, very risk. Yeah, I'm very open 303 00:15:34,800 --> 00:15:37,680 Speaker 1: with my parents. I told them about um, we don't 304 00:15:37,720 --> 00:15:42,160 Speaker 1: have to get into detail, but about how say, I'm 305 00:15:42,200 --> 00:15:44,720 Speaker 1: getting like a second of embarrassed an even thinking about 306 00:15:44,720 --> 00:15:48,000 Speaker 1: some of the things we talked about. How this one 307 00:15:48,000 --> 00:15:50,800 Speaker 1: guy that I dated in the past, I didn't try 308 00:15:50,840 --> 00:15:53,080 Speaker 1: to do anything with me sexually, Like he didn't even 309 00:15:53,120 --> 00:15:55,880 Speaker 1: try to touch my boobs. And my dad was like, 310 00:15:55,920 --> 00:16:00,120 Speaker 1: don't let that make you feel like you're unsexy? Was like, 311 00:16:00,200 --> 00:16:02,920 Speaker 1: did that make you feel like you aren't sexy? And 312 00:16:02,960 --> 00:16:06,480 Speaker 1: he's like, shouldn't feel that way? Yeah, I'm a very 313 00:16:06,480 --> 00:16:09,440 Speaker 1: open dialogue with my parents for sure. Yeah. It's hilarious 314 00:16:09,640 --> 00:16:12,080 Speaker 1: and some and her dad like she was having a 315 00:16:12,080 --> 00:16:14,240 Speaker 1: conversation with her mom and her dad's just like taking 316 00:16:14,240 --> 00:16:17,800 Speaker 1: photos of her across the table, and she finally looked 317 00:16:17,800 --> 00:16:20,320 Speaker 1: around him like dad, and he goes, how did you 318 00:16:20,400 --> 00:16:25,160 Speaker 1: know he had like a sphone up? So anyways, we 319 00:16:25,200 --> 00:16:27,040 Speaker 1: had a great dinner with your parents. Then it was 320 00:16:27,120 --> 00:16:30,600 Speaker 1: time to go out and had some uber issues, but 321 00:16:30,760 --> 00:16:33,000 Speaker 1: we got in the car, got we were going to 322 00:16:33,040 --> 00:16:35,640 Speaker 1: send our Tower Bar, which is at Sunset Tower Hotel, 323 00:16:36,080 --> 00:16:38,280 Speaker 1: and I thought it was kind of a hot spot, 324 00:16:39,240 --> 00:16:43,120 Speaker 1: but for what we wanted, it wasn't the ideal It 325 00:16:43,240 --> 00:16:47,640 Speaker 1: wasn't the ideal location. But within fifteen minutes of getting there, 326 00:16:48,640 --> 00:16:51,000 Speaker 1: I spot my guy. I was like, that's my dude. 327 00:16:51,080 --> 00:16:53,360 Speaker 1: She goes this. See the guys over there to the 328 00:16:53,480 --> 00:16:55,920 Speaker 1: right having there's four of them having dinner, one in 329 00:16:55,960 --> 00:17:00,000 Speaker 1: the brown coat. I look over it's like this guy 330 00:17:00,080 --> 00:17:06,280 Speaker 1: and like a sports looks like a business meeting. Significantly 331 00:17:06,880 --> 00:17:11,800 Speaker 1: older than us. I would say, he looked Max forty okay. 332 00:17:11,800 --> 00:17:15,280 Speaker 1: From my angle, I was going like mid forties, okay, okay, 333 00:17:15,480 --> 00:17:18,000 Speaker 1: you have like the salt and pepper around the temple pepper. 334 00:17:18,960 --> 00:17:21,160 Speaker 1: It was, by the way, it's very dim and there 335 00:17:21,960 --> 00:17:23,639 Speaker 1: in my mind, I was like, she could walk up 336 00:17:23,640 --> 00:17:26,160 Speaker 1: in that guy's our age or he's like seventy five. 337 00:17:26,200 --> 00:17:30,240 Speaker 1: I don't know what drew you to him. Initially the sport. 338 00:17:30,960 --> 00:17:33,240 Speaker 1: He was hot. He was giving me like he was 339 00:17:33,600 --> 00:17:36,480 Speaker 1: I was feeling him alright. But literally she I don't 340 00:17:36,480 --> 00:17:39,719 Speaker 1: even know how in that because we were standing at 341 00:17:39,720 --> 00:17:41,600 Speaker 1: the bar and she just looks over. She's like that one. 342 00:17:42,000 --> 00:17:44,800 Speaker 1: She's like, I'm gonna go talk to him. So okay. 343 00:17:44,880 --> 00:17:48,360 Speaker 1: So Ali comes to meet us at this point and um, 344 00:17:49,040 --> 00:17:51,800 Speaker 1: I'm gonna go over and I'm just gonna say, I 345 00:17:51,800 --> 00:17:56,080 Speaker 1: feel like we've met before. Are you friends with Robert? Yeah? 346 00:17:57,960 --> 00:18:00,480 Speaker 1: And so, And I'm like, what if he's as Robert 347 00:18:00,480 --> 00:18:03,760 Speaker 1: who Robert Graham? Of course Robert Graham. I want to 348 00:18:04,000 --> 00:18:06,720 Speaker 1: use Robert Graham. The name is so perfect, like it's 349 00:18:06,720 --> 00:18:09,439 Speaker 1: like just ye, it's very like I don't want to 350 00:18:09,440 --> 00:18:12,360 Speaker 1: say generic, because Robert Graham is very special, but it's 351 00:18:12,720 --> 00:18:16,639 Speaker 1: it's distinguishing right exactly like it's not like do you 352 00:18:16,640 --> 00:18:19,560 Speaker 1: know todya buddy Sabby Beach, Like it's so scared, like 353 00:18:19,560 --> 00:18:24,199 Speaker 1: do you know Robert Graham? Like it's just very like whatever. So, um, 354 00:18:24,359 --> 00:18:26,680 Speaker 1: we're drinking, and I'm thinking, okay, we're gonna at least 355 00:18:26,760 --> 00:18:29,040 Speaker 1: this full drink before she's like bold enough to go 356 00:18:29,119 --> 00:18:31,320 Speaker 1: over and do this. Well, they start getting up to 357 00:18:31,480 --> 00:18:33,399 Speaker 1: oh they're getting up. I'm going over there. So before 358 00:18:33,960 --> 00:18:35,879 Speaker 1: Ali and I even have a chance to like, wait, 359 00:18:36,080 --> 00:18:39,800 Speaker 1: Tony has gone. So Ali and our Santa Barba, I'm like, 360 00:18:39,840 --> 00:18:42,600 Speaker 1: I can't look, I can't watch this happened. And she said. 361 00:18:42,720 --> 00:18:45,719 Speaker 1: Ali's facing them, and she's like, oh, she's talking to him. 362 00:18:45,760 --> 00:18:47,480 Speaker 1: Oh wait, now she's talking to the other guy, like 363 00:18:47,480 --> 00:18:50,199 Speaker 1: giving me the play by play. So I turned and 364 00:18:50,240 --> 00:18:52,760 Speaker 1: look and Tony is giving her number to the friend, 365 00:18:53,400 --> 00:18:56,040 Speaker 1: not the guy that she initially had her eyes set on. Yeah, 366 00:18:56,040 --> 00:18:58,600 Speaker 1: which was weird because so I didn't bring my phone 367 00:18:58,600 --> 00:19:00,359 Speaker 1: with me over to him. I just like left it 368 00:19:00,400 --> 00:19:02,440 Speaker 1: with them at the bar. So we started talking and 369 00:19:02,880 --> 00:19:04,720 Speaker 1: he's like, oh, we're going to the next bar. Do 370 00:19:04,760 --> 00:19:06,399 Speaker 1: you girls want to come with us? And I was like, oh, 371 00:19:06,440 --> 00:19:08,119 Speaker 1: we just got here. We literally just got our drinks. 372 00:19:08,119 --> 00:19:09,880 Speaker 1: So no. I was like, but let me, why don't 373 00:19:09,880 --> 00:19:11,520 Speaker 1: you take my number down? And he was like oh yeah. 374 00:19:11,520 --> 00:19:13,000 Speaker 1: He's like, hey, do you mind getting her number? I 375 00:19:13,000 --> 00:19:15,040 Speaker 1: don't have my phone on me, which that was weird. 376 00:19:15,160 --> 00:19:17,639 Speaker 1: It was weird. Yeah, but I was like whatever, So 377 00:19:17,680 --> 00:19:21,119 Speaker 1: I turned to the friend. Did not if that happened 378 00:19:21,160 --> 00:19:24,160 Speaker 1: to me? All right, well, maybe we'll meet up later. 379 00:19:24,320 --> 00:19:28,240 Speaker 1: She's yeah. Turned to the friend and I gave the 380 00:19:28,280 --> 00:19:29,679 Speaker 1: friend my number and I was like, here you go. 381 00:19:29,760 --> 00:19:34,160 Speaker 1: My name is Tanya, and there you go. And he's like, okay, cool, 382 00:19:34,240 --> 00:19:38,399 Speaker 1: we'll text you or whatever. And I didn't get like 383 00:19:38,520 --> 00:19:42,080 Speaker 1: the greatest vibe you know what I mean from the 384 00:19:42,080 --> 00:19:44,240 Speaker 1: guy that you had your eyes said on right. Yeah, 385 00:19:44,400 --> 00:19:46,320 Speaker 1: So I was like okay, whatever, I gave him my number. 386 00:19:46,359 --> 00:19:48,480 Speaker 1: I did what I needed to do. I don't know 387 00:19:48,600 --> 00:19:50,399 Speaker 1: if it's necessary if I need to like go to 388 00:19:50,440 --> 00:19:53,680 Speaker 1: this next bar and meet up with this guy. Sure 389 00:19:53,680 --> 00:19:57,760 Speaker 1: as hell. My phone starts blowing up from the friend 390 00:19:57,760 --> 00:20:00,479 Speaker 1: and I was like, O hey, hi, and then another 391 00:20:00,560 --> 00:20:02,800 Speaker 1: number of texted me and it was the guy, but 392 00:20:02,840 --> 00:20:05,520 Speaker 1: then he just kept texting me. Well, he texted her 393 00:20:05,800 --> 00:20:08,200 Speaker 1: and said what are you girls doing later or something 394 00:20:08,240 --> 00:20:09,960 Speaker 1: or are you going to come meet up? Something like that, 395 00:20:10,080 --> 00:20:14,040 Speaker 1: and then Tanya I was like I was Tanya the 396 00:20:14,080 --> 00:20:16,440 Speaker 1: way she came back. She was like he's seemed kind 397 00:20:16,480 --> 00:20:19,960 Speaker 1: of blah. You know, she wasn't super impressed. And so 398 00:20:20,320 --> 00:20:21,800 Speaker 1: when he texted her and said do we want to 399 00:20:21,840 --> 00:20:23,880 Speaker 1: meet up later? I was like, no, Like, we gave 400 00:20:23,920 --> 00:20:27,399 Speaker 1: out your number. He texted, I'm over it. Yeah, like 401 00:20:28,280 --> 00:20:30,320 Speaker 1: it didn't needed it gave me like my mojo back. 402 00:20:30,359 --> 00:20:31,960 Speaker 1: Like I felt kind of like good that I could 403 00:20:31,960 --> 00:20:35,560 Speaker 1: just give it out and like it was jim impressive. 404 00:20:36,200 --> 00:20:38,520 Speaker 1: So then he she doesn't respond and he goes okay, 405 00:20:38,680 --> 00:20:42,200 Speaker 1: Gen like okay, good night, and I was like we're done. 406 00:20:42,200 --> 00:20:48,080 Speaker 1: We're definitely. He kept going and I was like, so, yeah, 407 00:20:48,160 --> 00:20:50,440 Speaker 1: nothing really happened there, but no, nothing's going to happen 408 00:20:50,440 --> 00:20:54,520 Speaker 1: except that you are a bold, empowered woman. I have 409 00:20:54,640 --> 00:20:58,480 Speaker 1: a modern woman. Hear meet She kept saying I am 410 00:20:58,520 --> 00:21:01,440 Speaker 1: a modern woman. So then you know, we were kind 411 00:21:01,440 --> 00:21:03,040 Speaker 1: of sitting there and then it was like, all right, 412 00:21:03,119 --> 00:21:06,359 Speaker 1: the vibes kind of wasn't picking up. Yeah, all getting 413 00:21:06,400 --> 00:21:13,600 Speaker 1: a little sleepy. It was like wow, yeah yeah, and 414 00:21:13,640 --> 00:21:15,800 Speaker 1: Tonny was like ready to try another place. I was 415 00:21:15,840 --> 00:21:17,479 Speaker 1: like at that point where I had capped out. I 416 00:21:17,520 --> 00:21:19,119 Speaker 1: was like, I'm not gonna be fun, you know, I'm 417 00:21:19,119 --> 00:21:20,800 Speaker 1: not going to be a good wing woman at this point. 418 00:21:20,840 --> 00:21:23,080 Speaker 1: And she was like, do we need to get in 419 00:21:23,160 --> 00:21:26,760 Speaker 1: an outer ship shot? I had had like four meals 420 00:21:26,760 --> 00:21:29,800 Speaker 1: before this, so I was like, kind of ful, but 421 00:21:29,880 --> 00:21:31,719 Speaker 1: if you want in and out, like, let's go. So 422 00:21:31,800 --> 00:21:35,760 Speaker 1: we go. And I watched Tony oh ate a gross fry? 423 00:21:35,840 --> 00:21:38,919 Speaker 1: Oh yeah? So there was a there was a plate 424 00:21:39,000 --> 00:21:41,679 Speaker 1: of like cheesy fries on the table that literally had 425 00:21:41,760 --> 00:21:44,480 Speaker 1: looked like they've been sitting there for like at least 426 00:21:44,480 --> 00:21:47,520 Speaker 1: an hour outside because the cheese had like hardened on 427 00:21:47,600 --> 00:21:49,720 Speaker 1: top of the French fries. And I said, Becca, how 428 00:21:49,760 --> 00:21:51,680 Speaker 1: much would have to pay you to eat one of 429 00:21:51,680 --> 00:21:54,120 Speaker 1: those French fries? They were just there, like they were there. 430 00:21:54,119 --> 00:21:56,760 Speaker 1: We didn't want to just walked onto them. Becca said, 431 00:21:56,960 --> 00:21:58,840 Speaker 1: I need it for fifty bucks. I said, I will 432 00:21:58,920 --> 00:22:02,320 Speaker 1: venmo you right now eat that and she eight. Next 433 00:22:02,359 --> 00:22:05,000 Speaker 1: of all, I asked Tanya first, how much would I 434 00:22:05,000 --> 00:22:08,879 Speaker 1: have to pay you a thousand dollars? She says, I'm like, wow, 435 00:22:09,040 --> 00:22:12,240 Speaker 1: I want to eat someone's nasty cheese fries. It had 436 00:22:12,240 --> 00:22:15,560 Speaker 1: not been touched it had been untouched, and my thought 437 00:22:15,680 --> 00:22:18,119 Speaker 1: where we were not breathed on that. Who knows I 438 00:22:18,240 --> 00:22:22,040 Speaker 1: was breathing on that. I'm feeling great, feel fine, and richer, 439 00:22:22,640 --> 00:22:27,320 Speaker 1: fifty dollars richer thanks to my my bravery. I love 440 00:22:27,359 --> 00:22:28,679 Speaker 1: that you guys do because I do that kind of 441 00:22:28,680 --> 00:22:31,320 Speaker 1: stuff with my friends and right, how much would you 442 00:22:31,320 --> 00:22:33,040 Speaker 1: have to pay me to do this exactly? And then 443 00:22:33,200 --> 00:22:35,520 Speaker 1: then eventually just goes like screw it'll just eat it 444 00:22:35,600 --> 00:22:39,399 Speaker 1: for well. I like doing that stuff too, and I 445 00:22:39,400 --> 00:22:41,120 Speaker 1: feel like the next time we go out, I want 446 00:22:41,160 --> 00:22:43,240 Speaker 1: to do more of those types of things, like what 447 00:22:43,359 --> 00:22:46,840 Speaker 1: about that guy? And we like do something fun. I know, 448 00:22:47,000 --> 00:22:49,160 Speaker 1: I think like that. I think the bar we went 449 00:22:49,200 --> 00:22:51,320 Speaker 1: to was just probably not the right vibe, like to 450 00:22:51,600 --> 00:22:54,840 Speaker 1: fancy and people eating dinner. Yeah. I think if we 451 00:22:54,880 --> 00:22:56,760 Speaker 1: went to a bar where like people were just like 452 00:22:56,800 --> 00:22:58,600 Speaker 1: more mingly, I feel like I could have given my 453 00:22:58,680 --> 00:23:00,600 Speaker 1: number out to a lot of people. And Saturday night, 454 00:23:01,240 --> 00:23:04,680 Speaker 1: like I was just like Mojo, it hard on Mojo. 455 00:23:04,880 --> 00:23:10,879 Speaker 1: We're I think we do it again this weekend. Yeah, 456 00:23:11,040 --> 00:23:13,479 Speaker 1: I mean it was a good start for our like 457 00:23:13,640 --> 00:23:16,280 Speaker 1: weekend outings, but I feel like we can do better. 458 00:23:16,320 --> 00:23:18,640 Speaker 1: It's a strong start, we should talk about the new 459 00:23:18,640 --> 00:23:22,760 Speaker 1: feature that I discovered on Instagram though too. Oh so 460 00:23:23,040 --> 00:23:26,280 Speaker 1: it's like reading the rundown and it says Tanya sucked 461 00:23:26,320 --> 00:23:29,280 Speaker 1: back at d M and I'm like, I don't know 462 00:23:29,320 --> 00:23:34,800 Speaker 1: what that. Yeah, okay, yeah, but first I want to 463 00:23:34,840 --> 00:23:39,840 Speaker 1: talk about equip talk to me. So, by the way, 464 00:23:40,160 --> 00:23:41,560 Speaker 1: do you know how many times I brush my teeth 465 00:23:41,560 --> 00:23:43,879 Speaker 1: a day? Now? Yeah? Probably a lot, it's five or 466 00:23:43,920 --> 00:23:47,880 Speaker 1: six times. Well, it's a lot, it's a lot. Um 467 00:23:48,080 --> 00:23:50,760 Speaker 1: with the topic of dating, it's very important to have 468 00:23:51,119 --> 00:23:56,640 Speaker 1: fresh breath of clean mouth because you know you have halitosis. 469 00:23:56,720 --> 00:23:58,840 Speaker 1: But I doubt you want to do it again. This 470 00:23:58,920 --> 00:24:03,080 Speaker 1: is true. Yeah, not an enjoyable experience, right, But um 471 00:24:03,240 --> 00:24:07,399 Speaker 1: Quip is to an electric toothbrush that really helps you 472 00:24:07,440 --> 00:24:10,639 Speaker 1: brush your teeth the right way, and it's a fraction 473 00:24:10,800 --> 00:24:13,679 Speaker 1: of the cost of bulkier brushes while still packing just 474 00:24:13,760 --> 00:24:17,800 Speaker 1: the right amount of vibration to clean your teeth. So 475 00:24:17,920 --> 00:24:19,679 Speaker 1: every time you brush your teeth, do you do it 476 00:24:19,720 --> 00:24:23,720 Speaker 1: for the recommended two minutes? Probably not, but you're doing 477 00:24:23,760 --> 00:24:27,640 Speaker 1: it definitely accommodated, like a combined two minutes per day 478 00:24:27,840 --> 00:24:30,199 Speaker 1: from definitely more than two minutes a day. Like I 479 00:24:30,200 --> 00:24:32,879 Speaker 1: feel like my roommate always says every time I come 480 00:24:32,920 --> 00:24:35,720 Speaker 1: into the apartment or leave your brushing your teeth. Yeah, 481 00:24:35,840 --> 00:24:37,960 Speaker 1: you're very on top of it, which is because of 482 00:24:37,960 --> 00:24:39,879 Speaker 1: my invisiligned I know, but still a lot of people 483 00:24:39,920 --> 00:24:43,159 Speaker 1: probably aren't, like true. Yeah. Um, Well, Quip has a 484 00:24:43,200 --> 00:24:45,280 Speaker 1: built in timer that helps you clean for for the 485 00:24:45,320 --> 00:24:48,920 Speaker 1: recommended two minutes, and it has pulsing like pulsating little 486 00:24:49,200 --> 00:24:52,919 Speaker 1: vibrations to remind you when to switch spots. Yeah, and 487 00:24:52,960 --> 00:24:55,520 Speaker 1: this is actually the best part they have this. They 488 00:24:55,560 --> 00:24:58,920 Speaker 1: deliver new brush heads on the dentist recommended schedule, which 489 00:24:58,920 --> 00:25:02,160 Speaker 1: is every three months for just five dollars, including free 490 00:25:02,160 --> 00:25:05,879 Speaker 1: shipping worldwide. Yeah. So um. It comes with a little 491 00:25:05,920 --> 00:25:09,320 Speaker 1: mount that suctions to your mirror and it unsticks so 492 00:25:09,359 --> 00:25:13,520 Speaker 1: that you can travel with it hygienically. It's been on 493 00:25:13,600 --> 00:25:17,120 Speaker 1: Oprah's oh List, named one of Time's Best Inventions, and 494 00:25:17,200 --> 00:25:20,760 Speaker 1: it's the first subscription electric toothbrush accepted by the a 495 00:25:20,880 --> 00:25:24,119 Speaker 1: d A. American Dental Association was very impressing. It's at 496 00:25:24,160 --> 00:25:26,679 Speaker 1: a d A. I was like, wow, I know my lingo. 497 00:25:27,200 --> 00:25:29,280 Speaker 1: So Equip starts at just twenty five dollars and if 498 00:25:29,320 --> 00:25:31,800 Speaker 1: you go to get quip dot com slash Becca. Right now, 499 00:25:31,880 --> 00:25:36,440 Speaker 1: you'll get your first refill pack free with equip Electric toothbrush. Yeah, 500 00:25:36,480 --> 00:25:39,280 Speaker 1: so that's your first refill pack free at get equip 501 00:25:39,520 --> 00:25:43,359 Speaker 1: dot com slash Becca spelled g E T q U 502 00:25:43,560 --> 00:25:48,440 Speaker 1: I P dot com slash Becca Eastern. Feel free to 503 00:25:48,520 --> 00:25:53,600 Speaker 1: join in on the harmony next time. Okay, so let's 504 00:25:53,600 --> 00:25:57,399 Speaker 1: get into you sucking back a d M. Okay, I 505 00:25:57,440 --> 00:25:59,359 Speaker 1: have been so excited about this is I don't know 506 00:25:59,400 --> 00:26:02,520 Speaker 1: how long this eacher has been available on Instagram. I 507 00:26:02,520 --> 00:26:04,720 Speaker 1: don't know if that has this been around because yeah, 508 00:26:04,760 --> 00:26:07,120 Speaker 1: I just recently noticed it the other day you did, 509 00:26:07,200 --> 00:26:09,560 Speaker 1: But this is go ahead because I have a This 510 00:26:09,640 --> 00:26:12,720 Speaker 1: is why I wrote yesterday morning, and I was trying 511 00:26:12,760 --> 00:26:14,920 Speaker 1: to have a conversation about it, but go ahead, Okay, 512 00:26:15,240 --> 00:26:18,400 Speaker 1: we're not going to say who. No, okay, we're gonna 513 00:26:18,480 --> 00:26:20,200 Speaker 1: so from now on, I decided, and I'm gonna start 514 00:26:20,280 --> 00:26:23,639 Speaker 1: naming all these guys just like Red Starburst, Pink Starburst, 515 00:26:23,840 --> 00:26:26,160 Speaker 1: Yellow Star Wars, because I can't give any clues as 516 00:26:26,200 --> 00:26:29,320 Speaker 1: to like who they actually are, So we'll just call 517 00:26:29,400 --> 00:26:31,920 Speaker 1: this guy Red Star Wars. But I sent him a 518 00:26:32,000 --> 00:26:35,880 Speaker 1: late night DM. This is our night out out. Yeah, 519 00:26:35,880 --> 00:26:40,960 Speaker 1: this is the night back then, but to me that's 520 00:26:41,040 --> 00:26:45,000 Speaker 1: late night and that shows like I'm drinking. So I 521 00:26:45,040 --> 00:26:48,360 Speaker 1: sent him in DM and because I was like feeling good, 522 00:26:48,440 --> 00:26:51,919 Speaker 1: I was like yeah, like yeah, the boat is just 523 00:26:51,920 --> 00:26:53,960 Speaker 1: flowing out of me. And then I get home at 524 00:26:54,080 --> 00:26:59,080 Speaker 1: twelve thirty and I'm like why did I send this? 525 00:26:59,280 --> 00:27:01,440 Speaker 1: Like I was just panic. I was literally staring at 526 00:27:01,440 --> 00:27:03,280 Speaker 1: it and I was texting Becca like why did I 527 00:27:03,320 --> 00:27:05,200 Speaker 1: send this d M? How can I take it back? 528 00:27:05,400 --> 00:27:08,080 Speaker 1: And Becca was like you can't, right, he said you can't. 529 00:27:09,040 --> 00:27:12,480 Speaker 1: I mean, I just didn't know if he had seen it. Okay, 530 00:27:12,520 --> 00:27:15,400 Speaker 1: Tanya's phone is weird, and maybe you can help me out. 531 00:27:15,640 --> 00:27:17,439 Speaker 1: When I send d M s to people, it's a 532 00:27:17,560 --> 00:27:20,879 Speaker 1: scene once they've opened it. Mind doesn't Tanya's doesn't do it. 533 00:27:20,920 --> 00:27:23,800 Speaker 1: We've tested it on everybody. I'll take a look at 534 00:27:23,840 --> 00:27:28,840 Speaker 1: this off the air. But yeah, maybe because it's yeah, 535 00:27:29,000 --> 00:27:31,000 Speaker 1: so it complicates a lot of things because I'm like, 536 00:27:31,600 --> 00:27:34,040 Speaker 1: she don't know someone's right or message. Yeah, that's true. 537 00:27:34,080 --> 00:27:36,000 Speaker 1: He could have seen it. And then I sucked it 538 00:27:36,040 --> 00:27:38,159 Speaker 1: back and then he probably was like drunk. It's like 539 00:27:38,200 --> 00:27:41,439 Speaker 1: maybe I was saying, I don't know I dreamt that 540 00:27:43,040 --> 00:27:44,919 Speaker 1: The key is is that I got it back the 541 00:27:45,040 --> 00:27:47,240 Speaker 1: night of, so it didn't happen the next day, which 542 00:27:47,240 --> 00:27:51,840 Speaker 1: I think is key. Out of sight, out of mind. Yeah, 543 00:27:52,000 --> 00:27:53,679 Speaker 1: I just learned that this is a future. And the 544 00:27:53,720 --> 00:27:56,199 Speaker 1: thing I think is incredible is that Snapchat allows you 545 00:27:56,240 --> 00:27:58,360 Speaker 1: to do this too. But Snapchat has a big old 546 00:27:58,359 --> 00:28:03,840 Speaker 1: message that says ut infection one two deleted a message 547 00:28:03,119 --> 00:28:09,120 Speaker 1: tell them, and so this does not. It's perfectly clean, 548 00:28:09,520 --> 00:28:11,960 Speaker 1: perfectly clean. It literally just there's no trace of your 549 00:28:12,040 --> 00:28:15,400 Speaker 1: d M. So I think it was like a twelve thirty. 550 00:28:15,480 --> 00:28:17,720 Speaker 1: I sucked it back and the d M is just gone, 551 00:28:18,119 --> 00:28:20,600 Speaker 1: and I have no idea what I actually said in it, 552 00:28:20,880 --> 00:28:23,080 Speaker 1: and I'm just hoping he never saw it. But what 553 00:28:23,119 --> 00:28:25,639 Speaker 1: I'm saying is you've d M this guy before, so 554 00:28:25,720 --> 00:28:28,800 Speaker 1: it wasn't like it was in his requested message. No, no, No, 555 00:28:28,840 --> 00:28:31,240 Speaker 1: it was like in his like we hadn't had a 556 00:28:31,240 --> 00:28:34,399 Speaker 1: little tennis match, you know, yeah, lit a little pink pung. 557 00:28:35,720 --> 00:28:37,520 Speaker 1: Say what you're saying is they talked back and forth 558 00:28:37,760 --> 00:28:41,239 Speaker 1: a little tennis match. Um, yeah, well, I mean if 559 00:28:41,280 --> 00:28:46,080 Speaker 1: he was maybe he was out and didn't. Yeah. Yeah, 560 00:28:46,160 --> 00:28:48,200 Speaker 1: in my mind, he never saw it. And I sucked 561 00:28:48,200 --> 00:28:50,240 Speaker 1: it back and all is good in the world. We're 562 00:28:50,280 --> 00:28:54,920 Speaker 1: clean clean, But like p s A to everybody out there, 563 00:28:54,800 --> 00:28:58,960 Speaker 1: are you okay you can suck back d M s 564 00:28:59,120 --> 00:29:03,000 Speaker 1: and it's like game changing. Yeah, good to know, good 565 00:29:03,000 --> 00:29:06,440 Speaker 1: to know, but you do I mean be aware. That's 566 00:29:07,200 --> 00:29:09,320 Speaker 1: most people. It has scenes, so you're like, Okay, I'm 567 00:29:09,360 --> 00:29:11,520 Speaker 1: gonna delete. I mean, on send this, but they've already 568 00:29:11,520 --> 00:29:14,320 Speaker 1: seen it. It doesn't know to live in just life 569 00:29:14,360 --> 00:29:17,080 Speaker 1: on the edge. Like the idea of like sending a 570 00:29:17,120 --> 00:29:20,240 Speaker 1: bunch of messages and then on sending them like immediately, 571 00:29:20,400 --> 00:29:23,120 Speaker 1: just like to play like a little people people have 572 00:29:23,200 --> 00:29:25,320 Speaker 1: done that to me, were like I opened it and 573 00:29:25,360 --> 00:29:27,920 Speaker 1: it was there, and then when I go to click 574 00:29:28,000 --> 00:29:31,640 Speaker 1: on it, it's gone. Yeah, it's the best feature. Thank 575 00:29:31,680 --> 00:29:37,200 Speaker 1: you Instagram. I reached to get that for text messaging. Yeah, 576 00:29:37,400 --> 00:29:39,640 Speaker 1: those I I just have to If it's bad, I 577 00:29:39,720 --> 00:29:42,360 Speaker 1: just have to delete them. And then in my head, 578 00:29:42,680 --> 00:29:44,760 Speaker 1: maybe I am mentally stronger than I thought because I'm 579 00:29:44,800 --> 00:29:49,640 Speaker 1: able to be like that didn't happen, weirdly, mentally strong 580 00:29:49,640 --> 00:29:54,760 Speaker 1: in certain areas In Relationshipking of We watched the finale 581 00:29:54,880 --> 00:29:59,920 Speaker 1: of Chris' season yesterday together on the Instagram and okay, 582 00:30:00,080 --> 00:30:03,520 Speaker 1: so we filmed a video of it happening, so that'll 583 00:30:03,560 --> 00:30:05,880 Speaker 1: be out. But I just wanted to briefly touch on 584 00:30:05,920 --> 00:30:10,600 Speaker 1: it because I was thinking in my mind it wasn't 585 00:30:10,640 --> 00:30:13,760 Speaker 1: as heavy as it really was. I know, I'm like, oh, 586 00:30:13,800 --> 00:30:16,360 Speaker 1: we're gonna watch a lighthearted episode back on The Bachelor, 587 00:30:16,480 --> 00:30:19,240 Speaker 1: so fun. I know. I even thought the Fantasy Sweet 588 00:30:19,280 --> 00:30:21,400 Speaker 1: episode would have been funnier to talk about. But I 589 00:30:21,440 --> 00:30:23,640 Speaker 1: don't know. I think everything with me on that season 590 00:30:23,680 --> 00:30:26,480 Speaker 1: was so heavy and dramatic that like there weren't any 591 00:30:26,480 --> 00:30:29,200 Speaker 1: fun episodes. It definitely wasn't a fun I was like, 592 00:30:29,440 --> 00:30:32,040 Speaker 1: oh my gosh, this is really intense. Yeah, but you 593 00:30:32,120 --> 00:30:34,960 Speaker 1: kind of trolled me the whole time, being like, wow, 594 00:30:35,000 --> 00:30:39,520 Speaker 1: this is so you emotionally stune, like this is the 595 00:30:39,560 --> 00:30:43,920 Speaker 1: best part. So Becca is like like potentially going to 596 00:30:44,000 --> 00:30:46,600 Speaker 1: get engaged to this dude, okay, So like it's down. 597 00:30:46,600 --> 00:30:48,640 Speaker 1: She's in the final two. Like we're not talking like 598 00:30:48,720 --> 00:30:52,240 Speaker 1: top ten, top five, like it's her or this other 599 00:30:52,320 --> 00:30:57,480 Speaker 1: chick that's getting proposed to. So she's like up there, Okay, 600 00:30:57,720 --> 00:31:01,520 Speaker 1: she essentially gets dumped. She gets put in a limo, 601 00:31:02,040 --> 00:31:06,800 Speaker 1: and the girl doesn't cry, not shedding one tear mentally strong. 602 00:31:07,320 --> 00:31:10,840 Speaker 1: I was like, Wow, I got I dumped after a 603 00:31:10,960 --> 00:31:15,840 Speaker 1: month of dating, and I'm like, I don't know, I'm 604 00:31:15,880 --> 00:31:19,040 Speaker 1: going to get through listening with sad songs that Becca's 605 00:31:19,080 --> 00:31:22,160 Speaker 1: like in a limo just pee cheeky and like could 606 00:31:22,200 --> 00:31:24,720 Speaker 1: someone turn up the radio please. First of all, that 607 00:31:24,720 --> 00:31:26,000 Speaker 1: would have been nice because it was a lot of 608 00:31:26,000 --> 00:31:29,800 Speaker 1: awkward silence. But I got a lot of hate for 609 00:31:29,880 --> 00:31:33,560 Speaker 1: that because I had I was prepared for him to 610 00:31:33,680 --> 00:31:36,480 Speaker 1: dump me, because I told you the conversation we had 611 00:31:36,520 --> 00:31:38,160 Speaker 1: the night before when we were sitting on the bed 612 00:31:38,200 --> 00:31:40,560 Speaker 1: and it was like back and forth. I knew. I 613 00:31:40,640 --> 00:31:42,840 Speaker 1: was like, there's no way he's gonna be able to 614 00:31:43,120 --> 00:31:46,680 Speaker 1: he can choose me after this, So I like that night, 615 00:31:46,720 --> 00:31:49,520 Speaker 1: I was like very emotional with the producer that I 616 00:31:49,560 --> 00:31:52,800 Speaker 1: was with, and then so come that next day, I 617 00:31:52,880 --> 00:31:55,200 Speaker 1: was kind of like I had already gone through the feelings. 618 00:31:56,600 --> 00:32:00,280 Speaker 1: Could I have mustered a few tears, maybe it would 619 00:32:00,280 --> 00:32:04,400 Speaker 1: have been a better decision, but I didn't. Okay, what's 620 00:32:04,480 --> 00:32:06,920 Speaker 1: done is done. Well. I was saying, like you are 621 00:32:06,960 --> 00:32:09,080 Speaker 1: the real m v P, Like why are we boo 622 00:32:09,080 --> 00:32:11,840 Speaker 1: hooing you? Like we should be praising you are you kidding? 623 00:32:12,760 --> 00:32:15,880 Speaker 1: She's really changed her dune right now? Last night this 624 00:32:15,960 --> 00:32:18,160 Speaker 1: was not the case. But on the record you heard 625 00:32:18,200 --> 00:32:22,440 Speaker 1: it here first. No, because I think it's like I 626 00:32:22,480 --> 00:32:26,720 Speaker 1: think it's should be. I wish I was more like you, 627 00:32:27,080 --> 00:32:29,320 Speaker 1: but I wish I was more. It's always you want 628 00:32:29,360 --> 00:32:31,680 Speaker 1: a little more of what someone if you kind of 629 00:32:31,680 --> 00:32:35,040 Speaker 1: what what you don't have. I mean that's like human nature, 630 00:32:35,440 --> 00:32:38,960 Speaker 1: Like I wish I had more like vulnerability. I think 631 00:32:38,960 --> 00:32:43,000 Speaker 1: I just broke my finger. Vulnerability um and being able 632 00:32:43,000 --> 00:32:45,640 Speaker 1: to open up, and then you wish you were a 633 00:32:45,680 --> 00:32:49,080 Speaker 1: little more guarded for sure. Like I'm the type of 634 00:32:49,080 --> 00:32:51,920 Speaker 1: person that like literally it's like I'm jumping out of 635 00:32:51,920 --> 00:32:54,520 Speaker 1: a plane without a parachute. That's how I lay to that, 636 00:32:54,640 --> 00:32:56,560 Speaker 1: Like that is a great Quite a lot of people 637 00:32:56,960 --> 00:32:59,920 Speaker 1: say you smack on the asshole and you're like crying 638 00:33:00,040 --> 00:33:03,160 Speaker 1: and picking up the pieces, like, no thanks, but you 639 00:33:03,240 --> 00:33:10,080 Speaker 1: got to find your parachute. I'm just looking for my parachute. Life. 640 00:33:10,280 --> 00:33:14,400 Speaker 1: Where is he? Well, that was a moment that I 641 00:33:14,440 --> 00:33:16,160 Speaker 1: just wanted to say. Because I'm drinking out of my 642 00:33:16,240 --> 00:33:18,680 Speaker 1: Chick fil A cup and I got Postmates this morning 643 00:33:18,720 --> 00:33:22,440 Speaker 1: and for the first time in my Postmates history, which 644 00:33:22,440 --> 00:33:25,120 Speaker 1: you know is a lot of orders. I had a 645 00:33:25,520 --> 00:33:28,480 Speaker 1: same guy twice, like I remember him from a few 646 00:33:28,560 --> 00:33:30,960 Speaker 1: days ago, and he was like, a long time, no see, 647 00:33:30,960 --> 00:33:33,240 Speaker 1: And I'm like, what did he bring you the first time? 648 00:33:33,400 --> 00:33:38,560 Speaker 1: ChIL and he I said a long time And I said, oh, 649 00:33:38,640 --> 00:33:41,560 Speaker 1: this is embarrassing, and he goes, no, nothing to be 650 00:33:41,600 --> 00:33:44,920 Speaker 1: embarrassed about. But I was a little embarrassed, Like it 651 00:33:44,960 --> 00:33:47,200 Speaker 1: made me take a step back and think like, wow, 652 00:33:48,080 --> 00:33:50,760 Speaker 1: this is maybe changed up. Maybe change it up. What 653 00:33:50,800 --> 00:33:53,200 Speaker 1: do you get from Chick fil A? Well, in the morning, 654 00:33:53,240 --> 00:33:57,440 Speaker 1: I ate the chicken minis, hash browns, dr Pepper solid. 655 00:33:57,720 --> 00:34:01,560 Speaker 1: It's nutritious meals so insane. Um, I'm just getting into 656 00:34:01,600 --> 00:34:03,760 Speaker 1: Chick fil A because, like I think I've told a 657 00:34:03,800 --> 00:34:05,840 Speaker 1: specta for But like the town I grew up and 658 00:34:05,880 --> 00:34:09,959 Speaker 1: had a law against chain restaurants and chain businesses, which 659 00:34:10,040 --> 00:34:12,800 Speaker 1: is what town, Santa Cruz, California. You can't have drive throughs, 660 00:34:12,800 --> 00:34:15,359 Speaker 1: you can't have billboards. Interesting, Yeah, so there's like there's 661 00:34:15,360 --> 00:34:17,279 Speaker 1: like a taco about drive through that was grandfather didn't 662 00:34:17,280 --> 00:34:20,320 Speaker 1: but that's it. So Um. When I moved down to 663 00:34:20,400 --> 00:34:23,040 Speaker 1: Los Angeles, I'm like, oh boy, we're doing Chick fil A. 664 00:34:23,760 --> 00:34:25,560 Speaker 1: I'm doing in and out, like there's all these places 665 00:34:25,640 --> 00:34:27,399 Speaker 1: I've never been to. I'm just now getting into Chick 666 00:34:27,440 --> 00:34:29,120 Speaker 1: fil A. How do you like it? I mean, I've 667 00:34:29,120 --> 00:34:31,239 Speaker 1: had it twice. It's been good. But don't just say 668 00:34:31,400 --> 00:34:33,560 Speaker 1: I do actually like Chick fil A, Like I think, 669 00:34:33,640 --> 00:34:35,680 Speaker 1: very fresh. It's good. It's like there's not a whole 670 00:34:35,680 --> 00:34:38,279 Speaker 1: lot unless you're just like I don't. I hate fried 671 00:34:38,320 --> 00:34:40,960 Speaker 1: food and drive throughs. It's quite delicious, but I think 672 00:34:40,960 --> 00:34:43,640 Speaker 1: they have like a grilled chicken now. I think they 673 00:34:43,640 --> 00:34:45,000 Speaker 1: have like some sort of girl chicken that they have 674 00:34:45,040 --> 00:34:48,360 Speaker 1: a lost salad. I got a salad there. Yeah. Um. 675 00:34:48,440 --> 00:34:52,600 Speaker 1: But I also, you like have really supported my McDonald's love, 676 00:34:52,800 --> 00:34:55,880 Speaker 1: and that's very special to me too. Got the Golden Nurches. 677 00:34:57,040 --> 00:35:01,960 Speaker 1: I gave up fast food and soda for an entire 678 00:35:02,040 --> 00:35:05,080 Speaker 1: year in two thousand and ten. I doing the entire year, 679 00:35:05,160 --> 00:35:07,879 Speaker 1: from New Year's Eve to New Year's Eve, no fast food, 680 00:35:07,920 --> 00:35:11,239 Speaker 1: no soda. I thought about McDonald's and Coca Cola every 681 00:35:11,239 --> 00:35:15,240 Speaker 1: single day of that entire year. There's something chemically wrong 682 00:35:15,320 --> 00:35:18,200 Speaker 1: with that food. I craved it every single day, and 683 00:35:18,200 --> 00:35:21,400 Speaker 1: it seems that years up I had it again chemically wrong, 684 00:35:21,800 --> 00:35:26,000 Speaker 1: Like we're like too far. I'm too far into it 685 00:35:26,600 --> 00:35:29,799 Speaker 1: to give it up quite forever. I wonder what it is. 686 00:35:30,160 --> 00:35:32,520 Speaker 1: I don't know, just it tastes really good. It's a 687 00:35:32,560 --> 00:35:37,640 Speaker 1: really quality product, and I'm proud to support it. Quality product. 688 00:35:38,560 --> 00:35:44,360 Speaker 1: Um wait, um, there's some exciting news regarding Grey's Anatomy. 689 00:35:44,400 --> 00:35:46,200 Speaker 1: I kind of have been like, I haven't thought about 690 00:35:46,200 --> 00:35:49,600 Speaker 1: Gray's anatomy because you know, the way this last season ended, 691 00:35:49,640 --> 00:35:54,600 Speaker 1: it was kind of black Custer, black luster. But um 692 00:35:54,800 --> 00:35:57,760 Speaker 1: TV line says this will be the season of love. 693 00:35:57,960 --> 00:36:01,520 Speaker 1: But who do we care about? And love Jackson in April? 694 00:36:01,560 --> 00:36:04,000 Speaker 1: But now April I was gonna say, I'm saying who's 695 00:36:04,080 --> 00:36:09,640 Speaker 1: left that we care about? Well, I mean carev Camilla Letting. 696 00:36:09,960 --> 00:36:13,799 Speaker 1: Camilla Luddington said there's not a massive time jump from 697 00:36:13,840 --> 00:36:16,200 Speaker 1: the finale, which I wish there was a little bit 698 00:36:16,640 --> 00:36:19,960 Speaker 1: like they're all like sixty No, I mean not massive, 699 00:36:20,080 --> 00:36:22,799 Speaker 1: but like a few months in the wet into the 700 00:36:22,840 --> 00:36:27,799 Speaker 1: wedding their marriage, I mean no, no, but who or 701 00:36:27,840 --> 00:36:29,759 Speaker 1: maybe Meredith is going to get a new love, that's 702 00:36:29,760 --> 00:36:35,520 Speaker 1: what they're saying. I don't know, oh, Luddington. Camilla said 703 00:36:35,560 --> 00:36:40,759 Speaker 1: she's eager to see the return of Sexy Meredith when 704 00:36:40,840 --> 00:36:44,799 Speaker 1: was met every sexy sorry, like when she was like 705 00:36:45,400 --> 00:36:48,000 Speaker 1: kind of dating McDreamy and the Vet and all that. 706 00:36:48,080 --> 00:36:50,560 Speaker 1: I feel like she was kind of like she had 707 00:36:50,560 --> 00:36:53,000 Speaker 1: her mojo. She had mojo. I wouldn't describe her as 708 00:36:53,000 --> 00:36:58,440 Speaker 1: sexy though, Okay, but okay, yeah, I don't know. Yeah, 709 00:36:58,680 --> 00:37:01,960 Speaker 1: that's exciting. Though I need them to like revamp a 710 00:37:01,960 --> 00:37:04,440 Speaker 1: little bit. I do too. I'm like rewatching the beginning 711 00:37:04,480 --> 00:37:08,799 Speaker 1: seasons again and I'm just like, where's our Denny as 712 00:37:08,840 --> 00:37:14,759 Speaker 1: you love story again? You know, I hope it's gone over? 713 00:37:15,000 --> 00:37:18,239 Speaker 1: And just hate talking about this even though, Um, I 714 00:37:18,280 --> 00:37:21,400 Speaker 1: want to read some emails some time. We have a 715 00:37:21,400 --> 00:37:23,720 Speaker 1: lot of time when we can do a lot of them. 716 00:37:23,800 --> 00:37:27,439 Speaker 1: Before we get to the emails. You want to do it, Yeah, 717 00:37:27,560 --> 00:37:30,600 Speaker 1: let's talk about it, Okay, So let me just say 718 00:37:30,640 --> 00:37:33,920 Speaker 1: I'm going to talk about our night last night. Last night. Um, 719 00:37:34,440 --> 00:37:37,839 Speaker 1: We're sitting on the couch, my sister, their friends, our 720 00:37:37,920 --> 00:37:39,920 Speaker 1: other friend who was in town came over and they 721 00:37:39,960 --> 00:37:42,640 Speaker 1: cooked dinner, and all of a sudden, we start talking 722 00:37:42,680 --> 00:37:47,600 Speaker 1: about ghost stories or like ghost encounters, which I don't 723 00:37:47,640 --> 00:37:52,439 Speaker 1: like anything scary. I get really uncomfortable and feel like 724 00:37:52,640 --> 00:37:56,040 Speaker 1: someone's lurking around every corner. I don't watch scary movies, 725 00:37:57,719 --> 00:37:59,680 Speaker 1: so we're sitting there and I have like chills the 726 00:37:59,719 --> 00:38:03,600 Speaker 1: whole time. I just like don't feel comfortable. Handah. My 727 00:38:03,680 --> 00:38:06,240 Speaker 1: younger sister sitting next to me has like the blanket 728 00:38:06,320 --> 00:38:08,840 Speaker 1: up to her chin, and she's like, I'm really scared. 729 00:38:08,840 --> 00:38:11,000 Speaker 1: I can't sleep alone tonight. I thought she was kind 730 00:38:11,000 --> 00:38:14,720 Speaker 1: of kidding, but they all them too and their friends 731 00:38:14,719 --> 00:38:17,319 Speaker 1: slept in their queen bed together because they're all scared. 732 00:38:17,320 --> 00:38:20,600 Speaker 1: They were so scared. So we were telling all these stories, 733 00:38:20,640 --> 00:38:23,439 Speaker 1: and then I got nervous and started thinking about like 734 00:38:23,680 --> 00:38:26,000 Speaker 1: some you know, someone breaking in, Like I go into 735 00:38:26,040 --> 00:38:28,839 Speaker 1: that place because like ghosts and stuff that scares me. 736 00:38:28,880 --> 00:38:31,560 Speaker 1: But I also feel like I have a piece about 737 00:38:31,600 --> 00:38:35,120 Speaker 1: that from what my faith and stuff. But um, I 738 00:38:35,239 --> 00:38:38,520 Speaker 1: double checked my door like twenty times before I went 739 00:38:38,600 --> 00:38:41,520 Speaker 1: to sleep, and Phoebe is pretty alert, but once she's out, 740 00:38:41,560 --> 00:38:43,480 Speaker 1: she's pretty much out. Not much of a guard dog, 741 00:38:44,560 --> 00:38:47,440 Speaker 1: more of just a little fluff. So um our next 742 00:38:47,480 --> 00:38:51,839 Speaker 1: sponsor is like a in home security system. And I've 743 00:38:51,920 --> 00:38:55,080 Speaker 1: honestly been thinking like once my sisters are going to 744 00:38:55,160 --> 00:38:58,799 Speaker 1: move out soon and I'm gonna be living alone, and 745 00:38:58,840 --> 00:39:02,080 Speaker 1: it's kind of a I don't think I've never lived alone. 746 00:39:02,120 --> 00:39:03,920 Speaker 1: I've never lived I'm about to start living on my 747 00:39:03,960 --> 00:39:05,719 Speaker 1: own two and it's like there's a little bit of 748 00:39:05,719 --> 00:39:08,200 Speaker 1: it that like it's a little freaky. Yeah, you just 749 00:39:08,239 --> 00:39:10,279 Speaker 1: want to feel like safe when you go to sleep. Yeah. 750 00:39:10,560 --> 00:39:12,760 Speaker 1: Um so A d T is one of our sponsors 751 00:39:12,760 --> 00:39:17,960 Speaker 1: on the podcast and Eastern Your Home, and it gives 752 00:39:17,960 --> 00:39:20,080 Speaker 1: me great peace of mind. 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That is so not being able to have 772 00:40:15,440 --> 00:40:17,960 Speaker 1: that security on your phone is really nice when you're 773 00:40:18,000 --> 00:40:20,359 Speaker 1: not because I travel a lot and so it's nice 774 00:40:20,400 --> 00:40:24,040 Speaker 1: to be able to know, like my home is protected. 775 00:40:24,480 --> 00:40:26,920 Speaker 1: A joke. I'm probably moving in the next month and 776 00:40:26,920 --> 00:40:29,919 Speaker 1: I'm going to get this in my in my new house. Yeah. Um, 777 00:40:30,040 --> 00:40:31,840 Speaker 1: So you can get a d T Go with the 778 00:40:31,840 --> 00:40:34,080 Speaker 1: purchase of any of the security system So go to 779 00:40:34,160 --> 00:40:38,040 Speaker 1: a d T dot com slash podcast to take advantage 780 00:40:38,040 --> 00:40:40,279 Speaker 1: of a d T S lowest rate. That's a d 781 00:40:40,400 --> 00:40:43,960 Speaker 1: T dot com slash podcast. 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Katie says, I broke up with my boyfriend 792 00:41:21,520 --> 00:41:23,600 Speaker 1: of four years three weeks ago, but he has been 793 00:41:23,640 --> 00:41:25,759 Speaker 1: distant for a few months, had been distant for a 794 00:41:25,800 --> 00:41:28,720 Speaker 1: few months. Excuse me. Yesterday's mom posted a picture of herself, 795 00:41:28,800 --> 00:41:31,439 Speaker 1: my ex, and another girl. In the comments. Someone asked 796 00:41:31,440 --> 00:41:34,160 Speaker 1: who she was, and his mom said his girlfriend. I 797 00:41:34,200 --> 00:41:35,880 Speaker 1: texted him and told him to tell me the truth. 798 00:41:36,120 --> 00:41:38,320 Speaker 1: He says he had been dating both of us since January, 799 00:41:38,320 --> 00:41:40,200 Speaker 1: and he had been talking to her before that. I 800 00:41:40,200 --> 00:41:41,799 Speaker 1: want to message her and tell her because if I 801 00:41:41,840 --> 00:41:44,759 Speaker 1: was her, I would want to know. What should I do? Wait? 802 00:41:44,960 --> 00:41:47,759 Speaker 1: I saw this this. I saw this post on the 803 00:41:47,800 --> 00:41:51,880 Speaker 1: Facebook group, and she messaged the girl and it was 804 00:41:51,920 --> 00:41:54,879 Speaker 1: a very like No. It wasn't saying like you need 805 00:41:54,920 --> 00:41:57,160 Speaker 1: to run, she was just saying I thought I would 806 00:41:57,239 --> 00:41:59,759 Speaker 1: want to know, so I thought I should let you know. 807 00:42:00,160 --> 00:42:02,520 Speaker 1: I don't know what's happened since then, but I mean, 808 00:42:02,560 --> 00:42:04,799 Speaker 1: I feel like she did the right thing. I would 809 00:42:04,840 --> 00:42:08,120 Speaker 1: want to know. It's tough because it's a total stranger. 810 00:42:08,239 --> 00:42:11,680 Speaker 1: So like, my gut reaction would just to say stay 811 00:42:11,719 --> 00:42:15,720 Speaker 1: out of it and like karma and let his stuff 812 00:42:15,719 --> 00:42:18,360 Speaker 1: get to him and not be involved. That would be 813 00:42:18,400 --> 00:42:23,440 Speaker 1: my initial reaction if it were Yeah, what if it 814 00:42:23,440 --> 00:42:27,040 Speaker 1: were you in that situation, I feel like I would 815 00:42:27,040 --> 00:42:29,160 Speaker 1: want to know, and I would want to tell the 816 00:42:29,200 --> 00:42:32,759 Speaker 1: other person because I think information is powerful, So I 817 00:42:32,800 --> 00:42:35,839 Speaker 1: would like to give that person information. Then what they 818 00:42:35,880 --> 00:42:38,200 Speaker 1: do with that information is up to them. They can either, 819 00:42:38,280 --> 00:42:41,600 Speaker 1: you know, choose to not listen or want to just 820 00:42:41,640 --> 00:42:44,479 Speaker 1: base their relationship off of their relationship with the guy 821 00:42:44,560 --> 00:42:47,040 Speaker 1: and let them do their thing. But I think sometimes 822 00:42:47,280 --> 00:42:50,040 Speaker 1: being equipped with the information is better than not having it. 823 00:42:50,239 --> 00:42:52,680 Speaker 1: Do you think it's fair? This is just me playing 824 00:42:52,680 --> 00:42:56,000 Speaker 1: devil's advocate. Do you think it's fair for the guy 825 00:42:56,239 --> 00:42:58,440 Speaker 1: if he was just if he's trying to have a 826 00:42:58,440 --> 00:43:04,080 Speaker 1: clean slate and um like, have his new relationship be 827 00:43:04,160 --> 00:43:06,760 Speaker 1: his focus and not bring his old relationship. My problem 828 00:43:06,800 --> 00:43:09,000 Speaker 1: with that, well, they were dating, he was two timing both, 829 00:43:09,040 --> 00:43:12,360 Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. So it's hard to even justify 830 00:43:12,520 --> 00:43:13,880 Speaker 1: because it's not like they broke up and then he 831 00:43:13,920 --> 00:43:15,840 Speaker 1: got something with someone he was dating. Both of them. 832 00:43:15,880 --> 00:43:17,920 Speaker 1: I think the guy is kind of a scumbag, and 833 00:43:18,840 --> 00:43:20,319 Speaker 1: I think it's a good thing you let her know 834 00:43:20,360 --> 00:43:22,840 Speaker 1: what she's getting herself into. I do think the situation 835 00:43:22,840 --> 00:43:27,319 Speaker 1: would be different if they didn't overlap. The overlap is key. 836 00:43:27,360 --> 00:43:30,520 Speaker 1: The overlap is key here, all right? So, um, Katie 837 00:43:30,640 --> 00:43:33,880 Speaker 1: with the C A Y T. I E think you 838 00:43:33,920 --> 00:43:37,480 Speaker 1: made a good decision. Besides like the you know, lying 839 00:43:37,480 --> 00:43:44,319 Speaker 1: in betrayal. When I look at something like this, I mean, 840 00:43:44,480 --> 00:43:48,759 Speaker 1: presumably he's having sex with these two girls, and I 841 00:43:48,800 --> 00:43:52,040 Speaker 1: would think there might be there's a chance that there's 842 00:43:52,120 --> 00:43:55,600 Speaker 1: an STD involved. Maybe, so at the very least I 843 00:43:55,640 --> 00:43:57,800 Speaker 1: would want to, you know, I feel like she should 844 00:43:57,840 --> 00:44:00,359 Speaker 1: reach out and say, like, hey, who knows what else 845 00:44:00,360 --> 00:44:02,360 Speaker 1: he's doing? Right? You should get yourself tested, just for 846 00:44:02,360 --> 00:44:05,000 Speaker 1: your own safe and like who else knows? Who knows 847 00:44:05,040 --> 00:44:09,359 Speaker 1: who else he's doing? Not what else, but who else? 848 00:44:09,400 --> 00:44:11,200 Speaker 1: If he did, if he did it with one, then 849 00:44:11,200 --> 00:44:15,640 Speaker 1: why wouldn't he you know, like what's stopping him from overlapping? Again? 850 00:44:15,880 --> 00:44:22,759 Speaker 1: I know sleeping around is not that they but it 851 00:44:22,880 --> 00:44:24,880 Speaker 1: is interesting because like sometimes I think back, I like 852 00:44:26,360 --> 00:44:30,359 Speaker 1: me and the Heyday, and I'm like, oh my god, 853 00:44:30,680 --> 00:44:33,360 Speaker 1: stories are shocking to me, but it's like so true. 854 00:44:33,400 --> 00:44:35,160 Speaker 1: I'm like the fact that like I would just sleep 855 00:44:35,160 --> 00:44:37,520 Speaker 1: with people without a commitment is so gross. I mean, 856 00:44:37,520 --> 00:44:43,080 Speaker 1: obviously a practice, safe, practiced, safe sex, but still it's like, yeah, 857 00:44:43,520 --> 00:44:49,640 Speaker 1: non committed sexual interaction is like not for you anymore. 858 00:44:49,680 --> 00:44:51,759 Speaker 1: I don't know, it just seems like just like so 859 00:44:51,840 --> 00:44:56,000 Speaker 1: much stuff out there. There's a lot of stuff out there. 860 00:44:56,160 --> 00:44:59,239 Speaker 1: There's a lot of stuff out there. Yeah, um, I 861 00:44:59,320 --> 00:45:05,560 Speaker 1: like this for have commitment one. I have a surprise 862 00:45:05,640 --> 00:45:09,120 Speaker 1: for you all. I'm interested. This is from Billy. I 863 00:45:09,160 --> 00:45:11,359 Speaker 1: have been dating my boyfriend for over two years. He's 864 00:45:11,360 --> 00:45:13,160 Speaker 1: an amazing person and I want to spend the rest 865 00:45:13,200 --> 00:45:14,759 Speaker 1: of my life with him. I was ready to be 866 00:45:14,840 --> 00:45:17,239 Speaker 1: engaged after six months of dating. He lives with his 867 00:45:17,280 --> 00:45:19,200 Speaker 1: friend now and I have been talking about wanting us 868 00:45:19,239 --> 00:45:20,799 Speaker 1: to move in together by the end of this year, 869 00:45:20,880 --> 00:45:23,080 Speaker 1: and he was on board. A few weeks ago, I 870 00:45:23,080 --> 00:45:25,000 Speaker 1: asked if we could start looking for a place together. 871 00:45:25,320 --> 00:45:27,719 Speaker 1: He said, he said if he wasn't sure if we 872 00:45:27,760 --> 00:45:30,680 Speaker 1: were ready for that step. I was totally shocked. He said, 873 00:45:30,719 --> 00:45:33,480 Speaker 1: moving in together is very serious. I thought we were 874 00:45:33,480 --> 00:45:36,200 Speaker 1: already serious. I honestly thought we'd be engaged any day now. 875 00:45:36,360 --> 00:45:38,239 Speaker 1: We always talked about our future. Is what our house 876 00:45:38,239 --> 00:45:40,080 Speaker 1: would look like, where we would live, what our wedding 877 00:45:40,120 --> 00:45:42,080 Speaker 1: would be like, and how we would raise our kids. 878 00:45:42,280 --> 00:45:45,400 Speaker 1: He said that meant hypothetically. He said he loved me, 879 00:45:45,440 --> 00:45:47,239 Speaker 1: but he had commitment issues that had nothing to do 880 00:45:47,320 --> 00:45:49,680 Speaker 1: with me. His parents recently divorced, and he was cheated 881 00:45:49,719 --> 00:45:52,279 Speaker 1: on after two years of dating his last girlfriend. We 882 00:45:52,320 --> 00:45:54,200 Speaker 1: have stopped discussing it and have gone back to normal, 883 00:45:54,320 --> 00:45:56,040 Speaker 1: But I don't know what to do. On one hand, 884 00:45:56,080 --> 00:45:57,920 Speaker 1: I love him and would marry him tomorrow, But on 885 00:45:57,960 --> 00:45:59,759 Speaker 1: the other hand, I read that he will never be 886 00:45:59,760 --> 00:46:01,879 Speaker 1: read if he doesn't know for sure after two years. 887 00:46:01,880 --> 00:46:05,359 Speaker 1: Is that a warning sign? This is I do think 888 00:46:05,360 --> 00:46:09,120 Speaker 1: this is fascinating. Normally I would say maybe it's a 889 00:46:09,120 --> 00:46:11,120 Speaker 1: little bit of a warning sign. But also the fact 890 00:46:11,200 --> 00:46:15,320 Speaker 1: that his parents recently got divorced. I don't know about 891 00:46:15,320 --> 00:46:17,720 Speaker 1: that he was cheated on his girlfriend his last girlfriend, 892 00:46:17,760 --> 00:46:21,640 Speaker 1: because that was like a long time ago. But I 893 00:46:21,719 --> 00:46:24,839 Speaker 1: do think there's something when you see relationships close to 894 00:46:24,880 --> 00:46:28,840 Speaker 1: you fail or not work out or their separation. It 895 00:46:29,680 --> 00:46:31,960 Speaker 1: does I mean I can say that you know you 896 00:46:32,000 --> 00:46:35,440 Speaker 1: see certain relationships and that they're not happy or you know, 897 00:46:35,520 --> 00:46:40,000 Speaker 1: you're not sensing like this sense of bliss from marriage. 898 00:46:40,120 --> 00:46:42,920 Speaker 1: It makes for me, it makes me hesitant. Like I 899 00:46:42,960 --> 00:46:46,200 Speaker 1: even remember when the psychiatrist called in. I was like, there, 900 00:46:46,239 --> 00:46:48,719 Speaker 1: I do have fear because I see that, and I'm like, 901 00:46:48,760 --> 00:46:53,239 Speaker 1: I don't want to be in that situation. So if 902 00:46:53,239 --> 00:46:57,239 Speaker 1: his parents are recently divorced, that might be heavy on him, 903 00:46:57,239 --> 00:47:00,399 Speaker 1: weighing on him, so weighing on him, have a weighing 904 00:47:00,440 --> 00:47:07,600 Speaker 1: I'm heavily heavy and weighing on him. So um, Eastern, 905 00:47:07,640 --> 00:47:11,960 Speaker 1: what do you think? I don't like it? Yeah, whenever 906 00:47:13,320 --> 00:47:15,239 Speaker 1: I feel bad about this because when you assume, you 907 00:47:15,280 --> 00:47:17,400 Speaker 1: make an ass out of you and me, But that 908 00:47:18,520 --> 00:47:21,280 Speaker 1: don't make an ass out of me. But um, whenever 909 00:47:21,280 --> 00:47:23,919 Speaker 1: a guy says I'm afraid of commitment, I like never 910 00:47:23,960 --> 00:47:26,719 Speaker 1: buy it. Yeah, I just I don't know. I when 911 00:47:26,920 --> 00:47:30,280 Speaker 1: like when that to me, that means I am afraid 912 00:47:30,280 --> 00:47:33,560 Speaker 1: of like growing up and and I mean I was 913 00:47:33,600 --> 00:47:35,600 Speaker 1: that way too. You know I was kicking and screaming 914 00:47:35,600 --> 00:47:41,200 Speaker 1: into adulthood. Um. But um, I I wonder I mean 915 00:47:41,239 --> 00:47:43,720 Speaker 1: two years, like you can't like say like, oh, after 916 00:47:43,760 --> 00:47:45,400 Speaker 1: this amount of time, you have to be ready for 917 00:47:45,480 --> 00:47:48,320 Speaker 1: this two years is a good amount of time. And 918 00:47:48,360 --> 00:47:51,600 Speaker 1: I'm not saying like he should she should be like, hey, 919 00:47:51,640 --> 00:47:55,000 Speaker 1: either we're moving together or I'm out. But I definitely 920 00:47:55,040 --> 00:47:59,480 Speaker 1: think that um this they say, she says, we've stopped 921 00:47:59,480 --> 00:48:02,200 Speaker 1: discussing it. I mean, I think this needs to come 922 00:48:02,239 --> 00:48:04,440 Speaker 1: up again, because it at the very least they are 923 00:48:04,440 --> 00:48:08,840 Speaker 1: going to have two different sets of values. It looks like, well, 924 00:48:08,920 --> 00:48:13,680 Speaker 1: look this is or get off the pot. And I 925 00:48:13,680 --> 00:48:17,480 Speaker 1: don't know if you have to believe that, but I do, Okay, 926 00:48:17,520 --> 00:48:21,200 Speaker 1: but seriously, like I just can't. I think that there's 927 00:48:21,239 --> 00:48:25,600 Speaker 1: so there's so much commitment is such a beautiful thing, 928 00:48:25,800 --> 00:48:28,880 Speaker 1: and I'm so sick of people not wanting to commit. 929 00:48:29,320 --> 00:48:31,200 Speaker 1: And I also, Billy, I don't think that you should 930 00:48:31,280 --> 00:48:34,279 Speaker 1: have like reservations or feel bad about the fact that 931 00:48:34,320 --> 00:48:36,279 Speaker 1: you want a commitment out of somebody. I think there's 932 00:48:36,320 --> 00:48:39,919 Speaker 1: nothing more beautiful than like having a partnership in life 933 00:48:39,920 --> 00:48:42,640 Speaker 1: and going through life with somebody and and committing yourself 934 00:48:42,640 --> 00:48:45,799 Speaker 1: and like helping push that person you know out of 935 00:48:45,800 --> 00:48:48,080 Speaker 1: their comfort zone and and having them pushed you out 936 00:48:48,080 --> 00:48:50,720 Speaker 1: of your comfort zone, and like building and growing together. 937 00:48:50,800 --> 00:48:52,759 Speaker 1: And I think it's so beautiful and I don't think 938 00:48:52,800 --> 00:48:56,120 Speaker 1: you should have to make apologies for wanting that and 939 00:48:56,160 --> 00:48:59,399 Speaker 1: wanting that with this guy, and no, like, well, this 940 00:48:59,480 --> 00:49:02,359 Speaker 1: is what I because I personally have no issue with 941 00:49:02,400 --> 00:49:05,120 Speaker 1: anyone moving in before like it has nothing to do 942 00:49:05,160 --> 00:49:08,160 Speaker 1: with like that. I think it's wrong to move in 943 00:49:08,160 --> 00:49:13,560 Speaker 1: before you're married. I personally, I don't want to move 944 00:49:13,600 --> 00:49:16,400 Speaker 1: in with someone told I'm like, at least at the 945 00:49:16,480 --> 00:49:19,480 Speaker 1: very least like engaged, just because I like my independence, 946 00:49:19,480 --> 00:49:23,160 Speaker 1: and once I get engaged and get married, like hopefully 947 00:49:23,280 --> 00:49:27,160 Speaker 1: that's I'm with that person for you know, as the 948 00:49:27,200 --> 00:49:29,840 Speaker 1: rest of my life, if that's the plan. But I 949 00:49:29,880 --> 00:49:32,360 Speaker 1: think that's the plan. If that's if that's what happens. 950 00:49:32,440 --> 00:49:34,919 Speaker 1: You know, things happen, but that's the hope for that. 951 00:49:35,239 --> 00:49:37,440 Speaker 1: And so for me, I'm like, I don't want to rush. 952 00:49:37,480 --> 00:49:39,279 Speaker 1: I don't I don't want to have to feel like 953 00:49:39,320 --> 00:49:41,200 Speaker 1: I have to move in with someone for our relationship 954 00:49:41,239 --> 00:49:43,240 Speaker 1: to keep going and for it to be healthy still. 955 00:49:43,800 --> 00:49:46,799 Speaker 1: And so I think having that pressure on someone, I 956 00:49:46,840 --> 00:49:48,920 Speaker 1: don't know what his reasoning is, if he's just like 957 00:49:49,400 --> 00:49:51,160 Speaker 1: I don't see this going anywhere and I just want 958 00:49:51,160 --> 00:49:55,560 Speaker 1: to play around, and you know, it just kinda depends. 959 00:49:55,640 --> 00:49:57,760 Speaker 1: But I don't know. I don't think him not wanting 960 00:49:57,800 --> 00:50:00,800 Speaker 1: to move in right now means that the relation chips doomed. 961 00:50:02,040 --> 00:50:05,560 Speaker 1: When my my wife and I had been dating and 962 00:50:05,560 --> 00:50:09,920 Speaker 1: not living together for actually about three years, and um 963 00:50:10,040 --> 00:50:11,920 Speaker 1: I brought up the idea of moving in and she 964 00:50:12,000 --> 00:50:16,160 Speaker 1: told me, I don't want to move in until we're engaged, 965 00:50:16,880 --> 00:50:19,120 Speaker 1: because she had lived with I HA lived with one 966 00:50:19,120 --> 00:50:20,759 Speaker 1: girlfriend in the past, and she lived with a bunch 967 00:50:20,800 --> 00:50:23,080 Speaker 1: of boyfriends, and she's like, I'm not I'm not going 968 00:50:23,120 --> 00:50:25,200 Speaker 1: to entangle my life with someone if it's not a 969 00:50:25,239 --> 00:50:27,880 Speaker 1: permanent thing. She knew you were the one, though, she 970 00:50:27,960 --> 00:50:32,080 Speaker 1: was just like basically saying like, once you propose albion, yeah, 971 00:50:32,160 --> 00:50:34,319 Speaker 1: And I mean and I got that, but I also 972 00:50:34,360 --> 00:50:36,160 Speaker 1: it made me kind of nervous because living with someone 973 00:50:36,239 --> 00:50:38,160 Speaker 1: is a big you know, there's a lot of things 974 00:50:38,200 --> 00:50:40,360 Speaker 1: about someone that I think don't get revealed until you 975 00:50:40,400 --> 00:50:43,200 Speaker 1: live with them, you know, every single day. So I 976 00:50:43,200 --> 00:50:44,839 Speaker 1: was I was like, oh, man, what if I ask 977 00:50:44,880 --> 00:50:46,120 Speaker 1: her to marry me and then she turns into a 978 00:50:46,160 --> 00:50:50,000 Speaker 1: crazy person. But no, I I was. I was in 979 00:50:50,040 --> 00:50:53,080 Speaker 1: for it and I believed in it, and we got 980 00:50:53,120 --> 00:50:55,680 Speaker 1: engaged in the like three months. They removed in and uh, 981 00:50:55,920 --> 00:50:59,600 Speaker 1: everything's fine. So do you feel like once you're like 982 00:50:59,640 --> 00:51:01,600 Speaker 1: when you're dating someone and you're staying the night at 983 00:51:01,640 --> 00:51:04,560 Speaker 1: their place, like especially if you're like or if you're 984 00:51:04,560 --> 00:51:06,759 Speaker 1: traveling with someone, you see their habits. Like, I know, 985 00:51:06,840 --> 00:51:08,920 Speaker 1: you see a lot more when it's like everyday stuff. 986 00:51:08,960 --> 00:51:11,239 Speaker 1: But once you've been together and you're like comfortable around 987 00:51:11,280 --> 00:51:13,200 Speaker 1: each other, you kind of know everyone's you know their 988 00:51:13,280 --> 00:51:16,279 Speaker 1: quirks and like what they you know their routine. Would 989 00:51:16,320 --> 00:51:18,359 Speaker 1: think so too, But I've heard I've never lived with 990 00:51:18,400 --> 00:51:20,759 Speaker 1: a boyfriend. I was close to it at one point 991 00:51:20,800 --> 00:51:24,279 Speaker 1: in my life, but um, everybody says it's different. I 992 00:51:24,280 --> 00:51:26,680 Speaker 1: feel like some people said I there's people who they 993 00:51:26,719 --> 00:51:28,919 Speaker 1: get married and they're like it's so different, Like they've 994 00:51:28,920 --> 00:51:31,960 Speaker 1: been living together and everything's been like the routine is 995 00:51:32,000 --> 00:51:33,360 Speaker 1: the same, and then they get married and they're like 996 00:51:33,400 --> 00:51:35,480 Speaker 1: it's so different. And then there's other people who are like, no, 997 00:51:35,680 --> 00:51:37,600 Speaker 1: still the same same as it was. Did you feel 998 00:51:37,640 --> 00:51:38,960 Speaker 1: like that or did you feel like it was totally 999 00:51:38,960 --> 00:51:42,279 Speaker 1: different when you was married. So I feel like it 1000 00:51:42,360 --> 00:51:46,440 Speaker 1: just depends on the person. But um, yeah, I don't know. 1001 00:51:46,840 --> 00:51:48,840 Speaker 1: I washed my sheets more often. That's the only difference. 1002 00:51:50,160 --> 00:51:55,520 Speaker 1: Did the dishes more? Yeah, from zero to U. Sometimes 1003 00:51:55,560 --> 00:51:57,799 Speaker 1: I don't know if we helped her. I just my 1004 00:51:57,920 --> 00:51:59,920 Speaker 1: personal opinion. I don't think it's doomed. I do think 1005 00:52:00,000 --> 00:52:02,480 Speaker 1: should have a conversation of like, do you potentially see 1006 00:52:02,560 --> 00:52:05,319 Speaker 1: us getting to a place where we take the next 1007 00:52:05,320 --> 00:52:08,200 Speaker 1: step or do you not see a foreseeable future? Because 1008 00:52:08,200 --> 00:52:10,960 Speaker 1: I'm I'm ready for that, and that's when you'll have 1009 00:52:11,000 --> 00:52:13,520 Speaker 1: an answer. More. Because they are getting to the point 1010 00:52:13,560 --> 00:52:16,120 Speaker 1: where you as tiness to eloquently put it, you have 1011 00:52:16,200 --> 00:52:21,320 Speaker 1: to bleep or get off the pod. Yeah, yeah, sorry, sorry, 1012 00:52:21,320 --> 00:52:26,719 Speaker 1: not sorry, sorry, not sorry? All right? Yes, this one's 1013 00:52:26,719 --> 00:52:30,160 Speaker 1: from Raylan. I currently have a problem with my ex 1014 00:52:30,239 --> 00:52:32,640 Speaker 1: high school sweetheart. We did it for a couple of 1015 00:52:32,680 --> 00:52:34,640 Speaker 1: years in high school and broke up when we graduated. 1016 00:52:34,800 --> 00:52:36,600 Speaker 1: We stayed very close over the following year, and I 1017 00:52:36,600 --> 00:52:39,080 Speaker 1: would even fly back home and see him. We eventually 1018 00:52:39,080 --> 00:52:41,239 Speaker 1: slowed down, and now, almost two years later, we don't 1019 00:52:41,239 --> 00:52:44,080 Speaker 1: talk at all. We both have very different values and beliefs. 1020 00:52:44,160 --> 00:52:46,640 Speaker 1: I haven't followed him on everything and balondates with other guys. 1021 00:52:46,719 --> 00:52:49,279 Speaker 1: But then I was on vacation posted pictures and he 1022 00:52:49,360 --> 00:52:51,839 Speaker 1: texted me, hey really, and I know this is out 1023 00:52:51,880 --> 00:52:53,920 Speaker 1: of nowhere, but how have you been? I didn't get 1024 00:52:53,920 --> 00:52:56,720 Speaker 1: it until seventeen days later because I was overseas. Wow. 1025 00:52:57,280 --> 00:52:59,560 Speaker 1: So I responded an apologize for the delight, and he said, 1026 00:52:59,560 --> 00:53:00,960 Speaker 1: no worry. I was just hanging out with some old 1027 00:53:01,040 --> 00:53:02,839 Speaker 1: high school friends and felt bad I hadn't checked in 1028 00:53:02,840 --> 00:53:05,040 Speaker 1: on you in a while. Hope all as well? I said, 1029 00:53:05,040 --> 00:53:07,440 Speaker 1: thank you, hope all as well? With you two. I 1030 00:53:07,520 --> 00:53:10,000 Speaker 1: don't want him to contact me again. It took me 1031 00:53:10,000 --> 00:53:11,400 Speaker 1: so long to get over him, and I don't need 1032 00:53:11,440 --> 00:53:13,359 Speaker 1: him to check in on me. If he feels it's 1033 00:53:13,360 --> 00:53:15,160 Speaker 1: okay to text me after two years, what will stop 1034 00:53:15,200 --> 00:53:16,960 Speaker 1: him from doing that again? Should I tell him to 1035 00:53:17,000 --> 00:53:18,839 Speaker 1: respectfully not check up on me again, or just let 1036 00:53:18,840 --> 00:53:21,520 Speaker 1: it be? I mean, if you really don't want to 1037 00:53:21,560 --> 00:53:26,040 Speaker 1: hear from him and block the number I got him, yeah, yeah, 1038 00:53:24,960 --> 00:53:28,040 Speaker 1: I would say don't tell him that. I would just 1039 00:53:28,080 --> 00:53:31,880 Speaker 1: say stop responding. I would block it because if she 1040 00:53:31,920 --> 00:53:34,680 Speaker 1: doesn't respond, he's just going to come in, you know. Whenever. 1041 00:53:35,080 --> 00:53:37,240 Speaker 1: That's hard though, Like you finally move on from someone 1042 00:53:37,280 --> 00:53:39,640 Speaker 1: and then it's like they come in. It seems so nice, 1043 00:53:39,719 --> 00:53:42,279 Speaker 1: like they're checking in. Although I don't like that he said, 1044 00:53:42,320 --> 00:53:45,399 Speaker 1: I felt bad that I hadn't checked on Like she's fine, right, 1045 00:53:45,520 --> 00:53:47,799 Speaker 1: I don't need to feel bad. She's a modern woman 1046 00:53:49,040 --> 00:53:52,640 Speaker 1: overseas doing her thing. Yeah, um yeah, but I have 1047 00:53:52,719 --> 00:53:54,520 Speaker 1: a doctor. You don't need to check in on her. 1048 00:53:55,840 --> 00:54:00,919 Speaker 1: I can't. I hate dudes. I'm sorry, really I do too. 1049 00:54:01,080 --> 00:54:03,279 Speaker 1: You could. You know what though, Like I think that 1050 00:54:03,640 --> 00:54:07,319 Speaker 1: like in high in um, looking back at past relationships 1051 00:54:07,360 --> 00:54:10,319 Speaker 1: that have ended for me, I'm so grateful to the 1052 00:54:10,360 --> 00:54:12,960 Speaker 1: guys that when they ended it, they went cold turkey 1053 00:54:13,000 --> 00:54:15,359 Speaker 1: on me because I think it's so selfish to keep 1054 00:54:15,400 --> 00:54:18,480 Speaker 1: an open dialogue with somebody that you essentially just broke 1055 00:54:18,560 --> 00:54:21,640 Speaker 1: up with. I think it's so rude because it's like 1056 00:54:22,080 --> 00:54:23,960 Speaker 1: I need to get over you, So give me the space, 1057 00:54:24,040 --> 00:54:26,880 Speaker 1: so I don't need you doing anything sweet, don't send 1058 00:54:26,880 --> 00:54:29,560 Speaker 1: me happy birthday, don't do any of that stuff, especially 1059 00:54:29,600 --> 00:54:31,080 Speaker 1: if you're the one that ended it. It's like you 1060 00:54:31,080 --> 00:54:33,120 Speaker 1: have to you have to respect the person, like you're 1061 00:54:33,280 --> 00:54:36,360 Speaker 1: the one choosing to do this and hurt them essentially, 1062 00:54:36,440 --> 00:54:40,640 Speaker 1: so like let them grieve it and get over it totally. 1063 00:54:40,680 --> 00:54:42,239 Speaker 1: And it's like you don't it don't have to be bad, 1064 00:54:42,320 --> 00:54:44,800 Speaker 1: Like it's not like I'm not angry with you. I 1065 00:54:44,840 --> 00:54:48,160 Speaker 1: don't hold this this whatever. But it's also like, you know, 1066 00:54:48,239 --> 00:54:50,400 Speaker 1: like you're kind of dead to me now, so I 1067 00:54:50,440 --> 00:54:53,680 Speaker 1: don't need you popping in. Yeah, don't don't check on me. No, 1068 00:54:54,640 --> 00:54:59,080 Speaker 1: like to be like super cynical that this here. So 1069 00:54:59,360 --> 00:55:01,400 Speaker 1: she didn't lock him, she has unfollow him on everything. 1070 00:55:01,400 --> 00:55:03,600 Speaker 1: He's presumably still following her at least going on the 1071 00:55:03,640 --> 00:55:07,120 Speaker 1: page a lot, and she's on vacation posted pictures probably, 1072 00:55:07,280 --> 00:55:12,680 Speaker 1: you know, like, all right, I think we should check 1073 00:55:14,400 --> 00:55:16,279 Speaker 1: type of appointments we can see. Yeah, see if the 1074 00:55:16,320 --> 00:55:20,560 Speaker 1: doors of a jar exactly shut the door very selfish 1075 00:55:20,560 --> 00:55:28,879 Speaker 1: and very hurtful. So um, yeah, it's just I think 1076 00:55:28,960 --> 00:55:31,680 Speaker 1: we all and he may have been having a lonely 1077 00:55:31,719 --> 00:55:34,160 Speaker 1: moment think about the good times, but he doesn't deserve 1078 00:55:34,200 --> 00:55:39,920 Speaker 1: to have that like access to you, access denied, denied. 1079 00:55:40,880 --> 00:55:43,600 Speaker 1: You are the sanctuary, not the dispensary. That was a 1080 00:55:43,640 --> 00:55:47,319 Speaker 1: good one. Look ad about that one too. Um. I 1081 00:55:47,360 --> 00:55:49,120 Speaker 1: feel I kind of want to do the plane encounter 1082 00:55:49,160 --> 00:55:54,160 Speaker 1: and then we can supping. What's the plane encounter from Brianna? Brianna, Brianna, 1083 00:55:54,320 --> 00:55:56,600 Speaker 1: this is plane like you fly in the sky, not 1084 00:55:56,719 --> 00:56:03,680 Speaker 1: like not like interesting exactly. Brianna says, about two weeks ago, 1085 00:56:03,760 --> 00:56:05,759 Speaker 1: I was flying to New York from my home city 1086 00:56:05,760 --> 00:56:07,839 Speaker 1: of Houston to visit a friend. When I was boarding, 1087 00:56:07,880 --> 00:56:09,520 Speaker 1: I saw a cute guy get on before me, so 1088 00:56:09,560 --> 00:56:11,680 Speaker 1: I naturally chose the closest empty seat to him, which 1089 00:56:11,719 --> 00:56:14,560 Speaker 1: just so happened to be right across the aisle. We 1090 00:56:14,600 --> 00:56:16,359 Speaker 1: didn't talk to the entire plane ride, but I could 1091 00:56:16,360 --> 00:56:19,160 Speaker 1: tell his interest was piqued, so right be where we landed, 1092 00:56:19,160 --> 00:56:21,399 Speaker 1: I made a small, slowly comment to him. We talked 1093 00:56:21,400 --> 00:56:23,319 Speaker 1: to the entire way to baggage claim and realized we 1094 00:56:23,320 --> 00:56:25,360 Speaker 1: were both from the same city, had studied abroad in 1095 00:56:25,400 --> 00:56:27,480 Speaker 1: the same place, and really hit it off. He ended 1096 00:56:27,560 --> 00:56:29,040 Speaker 1: up asking for my numbers so we can meet for 1097 00:56:29,080 --> 00:56:31,520 Speaker 1: drinks while in New York City, and I obviously gave 1098 00:56:31,560 --> 00:56:34,280 Speaker 1: it to him, but didn't get his long story short, 1099 00:56:34,320 --> 00:56:36,919 Speaker 1: he never reached out and still hasn't to this day. 1100 00:56:37,280 --> 00:56:39,120 Speaker 1: He was really cute and seemed so smart and nice. 1101 00:56:39,239 --> 00:56:40,919 Speaker 1: Not sure if I should reach out on social media 1102 00:56:41,000 --> 00:56:44,080 Speaker 1: or just let it be. I know what you're gonna say, 1103 00:56:44,560 --> 00:56:48,640 Speaker 1: you're a modern woman. What do you want? I don't 1104 00:56:48,680 --> 00:56:51,560 Speaker 1: know you're gonna tell her not to I don't know 1105 00:56:51,719 --> 00:56:54,120 Speaker 1: he got her number, why didn't he use it? Because 1106 00:56:54,120 --> 00:56:57,480 Speaker 1: what if it like flew? Oh you're so he's just 1107 00:56:57,680 --> 00:57:01,640 Speaker 1: not that into you. What's her name? What is the 1108 00:57:01,760 --> 00:57:04,239 Speaker 1: what is the paper that she gave him her number on? 1109 00:57:04,480 --> 00:57:08,640 Speaker 1: Was like flown away on a number? I bet she 1110 00:57:09,120 --> 00:57:11,040 Speaker 1: he put it in his phone. Okay, Well, what if 1111 00:57:11,040 --> 00:57:14,040 Speaker 1: he mistook her eight for nine and put the wrong 1112 00:57:14,120 --> 00:57:16,080 Speaker 1: number in there and he's like agonizing and trying to 1113 00:57:16,120 --> 00:57:18,080 Speaker 1: get a hold of her. I mean, worst case scenario, 1114 00:57:18,160 --> 00:57:21,080 Speaker 1: you reach out to him on social media and it 1115 00:57:21,120 --> 00:57:23,080 Speaker 1: doesn't go anywhere on there, but at least you tried. 1116 00:57:23,160 --> 00:57:27,120 Speaker 1: I guess I'll switch my tune. Fine, definitely, Maybe maybe 1117 00:57:27,120 --> 00:57:28,880 Speaker 1: he put an eight in there instead of a nine. 1118 00:57:29,240 --> 00:57:32,560 Speaker 1: There you go. Or what if he like saved your 1119 00:57:32,600 --> 00:57:35,360 Speaker 1: name as like plane girl, and then he was like what, 1120 00:57:35,720 --> 00:57:37,640 Speaker 1: like I've saved people in my phone, Like what did 1121 00:57:37,640 --> 00:57:39,840 Speaker 1: I save them in as? And I can't find them? 1122 00:57:39,880 --> 00:57:41,880 Speaker 1: And the matter on the plane. Wouldn't that be like 1123 00:57:41,920 --> 00:57:44,240 Speaker 1: an obvious search? He's like, how did I Well, she 1124 00:57:44,240 --> 00:57:46,360 Speaker 1: probably said my name is Christie or whatever, and then 1125 00:57:46,400 --> 00:57:48,160 Speaker 1: he put in Christine and he was like, oh my god, 1126 00:57:48,200 --> 00:57:50,640 Speaker 1: I can't remember what I put her in my alright, alright, 1127 00:57:50,800 --> 00:57:54,000 Speaker 1: reach out if you found him. If he did the 1128 00:57:54,080 --> 00:57:56,280 Speaker 1: work and found him, might as well. I mean he 1129 00:57:56,320 --> 00:57:58,400 Speaker 1: asked for her number, so like I like to think, 1130 00:57:58,480 --> 00:58:00,600 Speaker 1: like it's like he left the airport. It's like maybe 1131 00:58:00,600 --> 00:58:02,360 Speaker 1: that was a bad idea, you know, like that didn't 1132 00:58:02,600 --> 00:58:05,680 Speaker 1: I think you wroke down the wrong something happened. I'm 1133 00:58:05,720 --> 00:58:10,160 Speaker 1: being very optimistic here. I like it. Yeah, but I 1134 00:58:10,160 --> 00:58:12,520 Speaker 1: would actually like it if you could, Brianna, keep us posted, 1135 00:58:12,640 --> 00:58:15,880 Speaker 1: because yeah, I like this story. I want to find 1136 00:58:15,880 --> 00:58:18,200 Speaker 1: I'd like to follow this story. So reach out to 1137 00:58:18,320 --> 00:58:21,120 Speaker 1: him via whatever social media outlet and let us know 1138 00:58:21,200 --> 00:58:24,480 Speaker 1: if he responds. Please. We didn't talk about some of 1139 00:58:24,680 --> 00:58:32,160 Speaker 1: your I don't know dr w ums trapping. Yeah, their'st 1140 00:58:32,160 --> 00:58:36,440 Speaker 1: trapping next week. Oh good teaser. We talked. We did 1141 00:58:36,440 --> 00:58:39,919 Speaker 1: a Facebook live because I got on Sultani was doing 1142 00:58:39,960 --> 00:58:42,240 Speaker 1: it and then you can she could like buzz me 1143 00:58:42,320 --> 00:58:44,200 Speaker 1: in and it was like we were both doing FaceTime. 1144 00:58:44,240 --> 00:58:47,040 Speaker 1: It was literally like FaceTime over Facebook Live. It was awesome. 1145 00:58:47,120 --> 00:58:50,840 Speaker 1: But we forgot that we weren't just spacetiming like everyone 1146 00:58:53,040 --> 00:58:56,040 Speaker 1: just like a normal conversation. So we did tease a 1147 00:58:56,040 --> 00:59:01,080 Speaker 1: few of the thirst traps that Tanya used that worked, 1148 00:59:01,280 --> 00:59:03,800 Speaker 1: and so we said that we'd share them on the podcast, 1149 00:59:03,840 --> 00:59:05,680 Speaker 1: but we have run out of time, so we'll do 1150 00:59:05,720 --> 00:59:08,720 Speaker 1: it next week. It's It's thirst Trapping by Tanya rad Yeah. 1151 00:59:09,080 --> 00:59:10,840 Speaker 1: Now that's a book. I want to read The Key 1152 00:59:11,200 --> 00:59:16,880 Speaker 1: the Key to Success. I got the Keys Key success 1153 00:59:17,000 --> 00:59:20,240 Speaker 1: in the thirst trapping world. Yeah, not so much in 1154 00:59:20,240 --> 00:59:23,400 Speaker 1: the relationship world. One step at a time. One step 1155 00:59:23,480 --> 00:59:25,120 Speaker 1: at a time can't be good at everything. Yeah, you 1156 00:59:25,160 --> 00:59:28,960 Speaker 1: got to crawl before you walk. So they okay, do 1157 00:59:29,000 --> 00:59:30,560 Speaker 1: you want to do the shout outs for the weeks? 1158 00:59:30,600 --> 00:59:33,800 Speaker 1: I do have shoutouts here that would be really fun. Um. 1159 00:59:33,880 --> 00:59:36,160 Speaker 1: Oh you know what actually really quick? Uh. I got 1160 00:59:36,480 --> 00:59:38,959 Speaker 1: just before we started the podcast, this is breaking news. 1161 00:59:39,000 --> 00:59:44,680 Speaker 1: I got messaged on the Instagram UM by Alexis Nicole 1162 00:59:45,400 --> 00:59:48,240 Speaker 1: and she said this is random, but a couple of 1163 00:59:48,240 --> 00:59:51,120 Speaker 1: weeks agol. This a couple weeks ago, this girl, Christine 1164 00:59:51,160 --> 00:59:53,720 Speaker 1: messaged you about taking out the trash. I posted Instagram 1165 00:59:53,760 --> 00:59:58,120 Speaker 1: story asking for questions because I don't have that questions feature, 1166 00:59:58,760 --> 01:00:00,600 Speaker 1: and my wife sent me once thanking you please tak 1167 01:00:00,640 --> 01:00:02,920 Speaker 1: out the trash and hope people message me to ask 1168 01:00:03,000 --> 01:00:07,400 Speaker 1: if I did it. Anyway. Alexis is from Chicago. Uh. 1169 01:00:07,560 --> 01:00:09,880 Speaker 1: The other girls from Tennessee they met at a wedding 1170 01:00:09,880 --> 01:00:12,000 Speaker 1: this weekend and bonded over their love for scrubbing in 1171 01:00:12,120 --> 01:00:14,919 Speaker 1: and me taking out the garbage. So I just wanted 1172 01:00:14,920 --> 01:00:18,080 Speaker 1: to shout out Alexa's Nicole, thanks for being invested in 1173 01:00:18,120 --> 01:00:20,280 Speaker 1: me doing my chores. I need my trash to be 1174 01:00:20,320 --> 01:00:23,840 Speaker 1: taken out, my trash. I'm very good at it. That 1175 01:00:24,000 --> 01:00:26,080 Speaker 1: is the one chore I don't like. I will literally 1176 01:00:26,080 --> 01:00:29,320 Speaker 1: do it. I love laundry, dishes, everything, but just I 1177 01:00:29,360 --> 01:00:32,440 Speaker 1: hate taking out. It's not fun. But this is what 1178 01:00:32,520 --> 01:00:35,440 Speaker 1: our lovely listeners are doing. While listening to the podcast. 1179 01:00:35,920 --> 01:00:39,240 Speaker 1: Monts Sarrett Sagara is packing moving from l A back 1180 01:00:39,280 --> 01:00:44,120 Speaker 1: to Mexico. Aaron, I'm sorry, but your last name free 1181 01:00:44,200 --> 01:00:46,000 Speaker 1: Litch is on the subway in New York right now 1182 01:00:46,000 --> 01:00:48,360 Speaker 1: and getting strange looks from writers because she is laughing 1183 01:00:48,360 --> 01:00:52,920 Speaker 1: out loud. Amy Lynn Smith listens when she's home alone, 1184 01:00:52,960 --> 01:00:54,320 Speaker 1: so if someone comes to the door that they want 1185 01:00:54,320 --> 01:00:59,520 Speaker 1: to know she's home alone. Sophia Sir Walls in Sweden, 1186 01:00:59,520 --> 01:01:01,800 Speaker 1: She's listen and loudly so her roommate will hear. She 1187 01:01:01,880 --> 01:01:04,240 Speaker 1: needs someone to talk about dr W and Becky's commitment 1188 01:01:04,280 --> 01:01:09,960 Speaker 1: issues to talk to Chloe wick Is in a steam 1189 01:01:10,040 --> 01:01:12,760 Speaker 1: room in Texas right now? Oh, Chloe, a girl of 1190 01:01:12,760 --> 01:01:15,320 Speaker 1: our own heart. Do you guys bring podcasts in the 1191 01:01:15,320 --> 01:01:17,800 Speaker 1: steam room with you? It sounds I can barely breathe 1192 01:01:17,800 --> 01:01:19,560 Speaker 1: in a steam room. I listen to podcast when I 1193 01:01:19,560 --> 01:01:21,320 Speaker 1: got to this if I go by myself, not a 1194 01:01:21,440 --> 01:01:24,360 Speaker 1: sauna steam room. Oh, but we went in the other 1195 01:01:24,440 --> 01:01:27,360 Speaker 1: day and we both were like, didn't last for ten seconds. 1196 01:01:27,760 --> 01:01:30,400 Speaker 1: I hope you have like an autterbox or something phone 1197 01:01:30,400 --> 01:01:32,919 Speaker 1: case and Lisa Cooper of St. Louis has a rule 1198 01:01:33,040 --> 01:01:35,320 Speaker 1: she can only listen if she's on the elliptical. Oh 1199 01:01:35,360 --> 01:01:38,640 Speaker 1: that's motivation. That good. I love that my commitment issues 1200 01:01:38,760 --> 01:01:41,280 Speaker 1: is something that people need to talk to their friends about. 1201 01:01:41,960 --> 01:01:44,920 Speaker 1: Clearly people have commitment issues just like you. Oh. I 1202 01:01:44,960 --> 01:01:46,880 Speaker 1: didn't know if they were saying, like we gotta help 1203 01:01:46,920 --> 01:01:52,920 Speaker 1: her out, like let's talk about her commitment issues are unsure? Unsure? 1204 01:01:53,160 --> 01:01:56,120 Speaker 1: I took it as like they relate to your commitment issues. 1205 01:01:56,440 --> 01:01:59,960 Speaker 1: All right, we'll go with like optimistic span on the situation. 1206 01:02:00,720 --> 01:02:04,840 Speaker 1: I think you like have me all insecure. After watching 1207 01:02:04,880 --> 01:02:12,680 Speaker 1: the Pachular finalitiester She's all this is familiar, all too familiar, 1208 01:02:13,200 --> 01:02:20,320 Speaker 1: and then I started singing, ain't got no two strap. So, um, 1209 01:02:20,360 --> 01:02:23,240 Speaker 1: all right, I'm hoping there's a lot to talk about 1210 01:02:24,240 --> 01:02:26,560 Speaker 1: when we come back. We well, I mean thirst trapping. 1211 01:02:26,600 --> 01:02:29,240 Speaker 1: That's very exciting. I think people can learn a lot 1212 01:02:29,320 --> 01:02:34,240 Speaker 1: from this. Um, we're going to try and goll make 1213 01:02:34,240 --> 01:02:36,760 Speaker 1: like a tutorial like dews and don't because you did 1214 01:02:36,840 --> 01:02:38,600 Speaker 1: help me a lot with these, so let's kind of 1215 01:02:38,600 --> 01:02:40,240 Speaker 1: like combined. I was ware for you to give me 1216 01:02:40,320 --> 01:02:42,840 Speaker 1: some credit, like you just kept like nodding your head 1217 01:02:42,880 --> 01:02:46,080 Speaker 1: like it was all you. I'm like, at any point, 1218 01:02:46,160 --> 01:02:49,160 Speaker 1: are you gonna like say, this happens a lot. I 1219 01:02:49,160 --> 01:02:51,440 Speaker 1: helped my friends with captions, not with you, but I 1220 01:02:51,480 --> 01:02:54,480 Speaker 1: help my friends were captioned and they have like hilarious there. 1221 01:02:54,520 --> 01:02:56,480 Speaker 1: People will be like, oh my gosh, she's so funny, 1222 01:02:56,480 --> 01:02:59,040 Speaker 1: and I'm like just sitting over here. Yeah. I actually 1223 01:02:59,160 --> 01:03:01,520 Speaker 1: can't actually ever asking to help me with captions because 1224 01:03:01,520 --> 01:03:03,920 Speaker 1: mine are like sentimental. I'm like never feel like a 1225 01:03:04,320 --> 01:03:07,920 Speaker 1: quote or something like in fact about a caption on 1226 01:03:07,960 --> 01:03:12,160 Speaker 1: Instagram for me and be like this isn't Tanya. Yeah, 1227 01:03:12,640 --> 01:03:14,240 Speaker 1: But so maybe we could come up with like a 1228 01:03:14,360 --> 01:03:16,440 Speaker 1: like a like a lesson, like a school class like 1229 01:03:16,520 --> 01:03:22,200 Speaker 1: tutorial of first trapping trapping. Anyone should be given lessons. 1230 01:03:22,560 --> 01:03:27,720 Speaker 1: It's you. No, No, I'm just the conduit. I'm really 1231 01:03:27,720 --> 01:03:30,440 Speaker 1: excited for this personally because that's the topic of very 1232 01:03:30,440 --> 01:03:35,280 Speaker 1: interested in. All right, sounds good? All right? Um, so 1233 01:03:36,240 --> 01:03:40,400 Speaker 1: that's a wrap on today's surgery. That is a wrap. 1234 01:03:40,480 --> 01:03:44,200 Speaker 1: That's a good surgery. Um I had. I've like listened 1235 01:03:44,200 --> 01:03:46,240 Speaker 1: to country music all morning and I just want to 1236 01:03:46,280 --> 01:03:48,560 Speaker 1: be on like a back road heading to the river, 1237 01:03:49,200 --> 01:03:53,800 Speaker 1: sitting in an inner tube, floating with aborting hand. That 1238 01:03:53,880 --> 01:03:57,880 Speaker 1: sounds like an out outing. That's more like a day, 1239 01:03:58,040 --> 01:04:00,560 Speaker 1: like like just a fun day. I feel like, oh 1240 01:04:00,600 --> 01:04:02,680 Speaker 1: my gosh, if we went to like Austin or somewhere 1241 01:04:02,680 --> 01:04:05,120 Speaker 1: and there's like rivers that you can float in, we'd 1242 01:04:05,120 --> 01:04:08,560 Speaker 1: find you. Oh, we would find you a Southern guy 1243 01:04:08,720 --> 01:04:10,960 Speaker 1: so fast just floating on the river, you know. But 1244 01:04:11,040 --> 01:04:12,479 Speaker 1: like I feel like we need to do the work 1245 01:04:12,720 --> 01:04:14,840 Speaker 1: here because I need to find someone that lives here. 1246 01:04:15,400 --> 01:04:21,600 Speaker 1: We also have a new interesting prospect. Your sister's Okay, 1247 01:04:21,800 --> 01:04:24,800 Speaker 1: before going out, shall we tease this next week? We'll 1248 01:04:24,800 --> 01:04:28,520 Speaker 1: talk about it next week. This is next week, literally 1249 01:04:28,600 --> 01:04:31,880 Speaker 1: my sister said, I might have like my boss, I 1250 01:04:31,920 --> 01:04:35,960 Speaker 1: might have someone for you and or someone she works. 1251 01:04:36,000 --> 01:04:37,400 Speaker 1: So I don't even know. I didn't even hear the 1252 01:04:37,400 --> 01:04:41,360 Speaker 1: full story. And Tanya leaves and she goes, I'll be 1253 01:04:41,400 --> 01:04:43,440 Speaker 1: looking forward to hearing from you, And I was like, 1254 01:04:43,480 --> 01:04:46,640 Speaker 1: what was that about. She's like about the guy. Yeah, 1255 01:04:46,920 --> 01:04:48,720 Speaker 1: so we'll keep you posted because she's going to talk 1256 01:04:48,760 --> 01:04:52,680 Speaker 1: to him on Wednesday. Should be good. I'm just throwing 1257 01:04:52,720 --> 01:04:55,600 Speaker 1: feelers out, you know, like that's just feeler, feeler, feeler. Yeah, 1258 01:04:55,600 --> 01:04:58,360 Speaker 1: there's no no holding back. It's like when you're it's 1259 01:04:58,360 --> 01:05:01,320 Speaker 1: like when you're a fisherman and you are fishing, you 1260 01:05:01,400 --> 01:05:04,440 Speaker 1: throw out a lot of bab bait and then one 1261 01:05:04,480 --> 01:05:11,520 Speaker 1: of them is eventually gonna Yeah, that's got it. And 1262 01:05:11,640 --> 01:05:16,880 Speaker 1: on that note, we'll call time of death. Dude, I 1263 01:05:16,920 --> 01:05:20,240 Speaker 1: think I called it last week. Go ahead, twelve o eight, 1264 01:05:21,960 --> 01:05:26,320 Speaker 1: don't don't say it, don't say it. If we were 1265 01:05:26,360 --> 01:05:29,880 Speaker 1: awake at twelve eight am, we'd have bigger