1 00:00:00,560 --> 00:00:03,320 Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour. In trending headlines, 2 00:00:03,400 --> 00:00:07,240 Speaker 1: Hurricane Helene has been downgraded after leaving a trail of 3 00:00:07,280 --> 00:00:11,640 Speaker 1: destruction in the southeast. New York. Mayor Eric Adams pleads 4 00:00:11,680 --> 00:00:15,440 Speaker 1: not guilty at his arraignment, and the CARDI being offset 5 00:00:15,480 --> 00:00:19,640 Speaker 1: divorce battle is all over social media again. That's all 6 00:00:19,680 --> 00:00:21,800 Speaker 1: coming up at the top of the hour, But right 7 00:00:21,840 --> 00:00:24,840 Speaker 1: now it is time to ask the CLO our Chief 8 00:00:24,840 --> 00:00:29,840 Speaker 1: Love Officer, Steve Harvey. This from Dion in Fairfax. Dion writes, 9 00:00:29,880 --> 00:00:32,360 Speaker 1: my husband is teaching our son how to drive, but 10 00:00:32,440 --> 00:00:35,800 Speaker 1: he's not the most patient person. My son begged me 11 00:00:35,920 --> 00:00:38,760 Speaker 1: to teach him instead, and my husband won't allow it. 12 00:00:38,960 --> 00:00:41,479 Speaker 1: He said the world will not give our son choices, 13 00:00:41,600 --> 00:00:44,839 Speaker 1: so we're not Is this all about his ego? 14 00:00:46,400 --> 00:00:50,080 Speaker 2: Part of it, but it's also about oh mainly right, 15 00:00:50,280 --> 00:00:52,640 Speaker 2: stop baby and your boy. Yeah, your boy wants you 16 00:00:52,720 --> 00:00:55,520 Speaker 2: to teach him because you easy only, but the world 17 00:00:55,560 --> 00:00:58,680 Speaker 2: ain't gonna be easy on your son. Please let your please, 18 00:00:58,760 --> 00:01:01,760 Speaker 2: let your husband do this. He ain't got to be patient. 19 00:01:01,840 --> 00:01:03,480 Speaker 2: The police ain't patient either. 20 00:01:05,600 --> 00:01:06,039 Speaker 3: At all. 21 00:01:07,560 --> 00:01:11,560 Speaker 2: Zimp Please get out the way and stop letting your 22 00:01:11,560 --> 00:01:15,880 Speaker 2: boy whine. Do like your daddy. Say that daddy trying 23 00:01:15,920 --> 00:01:18,400 Speaker 2: to turn him into a man. Now he gonna fight 24 00:01:18,480 --> 00:01:20,760 Speaker 2: that because it's hard. So he gonna go to mama 25 00:01:21,440 --> 00:01:23,680 Speaker 2: and now here you already up in it. Just if 26 00:01:23,680 --> 00:01:25,640 Speaker 2: he don't want to learn how to drive from his daddy. 27 00:01:25,680 --> 00:01:29,000 Speaker 2: He can't drive, that's all. Ain't nothing wrong. That's what's 28 00:01:29,040 --> 00:01:31,840 Speaker 2: wrong with these kids. Now they soft man. Mama, he 29 00:01:31,959 --> 00:01:38,000 Speaker 2: hollering at me. Boy, my daddy taught me how to drive. 30 00:01:38,080 --> 00:01:42,920 Speaker 2: My mama can't drive. So what what you talk about? 31 00:01:42,959 --> 00:01:45,760 Speaker 2: It ain't got no patience. This is how the lesson started. 32 00:01:46,280 --> 00:01:46,680 Speaker 3: The boy. 33 00:01:46,760 --> 00:01:50,160 Speaker 2: Let me tell you so, we got one car. This 34 00:01:50,240 --> 00:01:53,040 Speaker 2: car got to take your mama to the church, and 35 00:01:53,160 --> 00:01:56,080 Speaker 2: this car got to take me to work. You tell 36 00:01:56,160 --> 00:02:04,200 Speaker 2: his car up, I'm gonna tear your ass. Hit that 37 00:02:04,400 --> 00:02:07,800 Speaker 2: hit nothing. No, that's for the lesson start. 38 00:02:11,600 --> 00:02:15,560 Speaker 3: That was a heavy burden. This only advice he gave me. 39 00:02:15,720 --> 00:02:19,600 Speaker 2: Most important thing you need in all the driving is 40 00:02:19,720 --> 00:02:24,200 Speaker 2: that pedal in the middle called the break toutch it 41 00:02:24,280 --> 00:02:25,480 Speaker 2: whenever you ain't. 42 00:02:25,280 --> 00:02:32,040 Speaker 1: Show Okay, okay, all right. Moving on to Braylan in 43 00:02:32,600 --> 00:02:36,480 Speaker 1: Tybee Island, Braylan writes, I went to my parents home 44 00:02:36,520 --> 00:02:39,040 Speaker 1: to wait out the storm and my girlfriend went with me. 45 00:02:39,440 --> 00:02:41,840 Speaker 1: I'm twenty eight and she's twenty seven, and my dad 46 00:02:41,880 --> 00:02:45,160 Speaker 1: made me sleep on the couch. We are grown and 47 00:02:45,240 --> 00:02:47,600 Speaker 1: we live together. So what's the big deal about us 48 00:02:47,639 --> 00:02:50,360 Speaker 1: sharing a bedroom. 49 00:02:49,280 --> 00:02:54,280 Speaker 2: Because you can't disrespect your father's house. You ain't married 50 00:02:54,320 --> 00:02:56,200 Speaker 2: this girl. If he got to teach you how to 51 00:02:56,240 --> 00:02:59,720 Speaker 2: respect her in his house, then he will. He can't 52 00:02:59,760 --> 00:03:02,919 Speaker 2: have two people in his house in that bedroom, all 53 00:03:02,919 --> 00:03:04,440 Speaker 2: the noises coming from out of there. 54 00:03:04,440 --> 00:03:05,720 Speaker 3: That's why your father did it. 55 00:03:05,720 --> 00:03:09,560 Speaker 2: Just called respect. That's something else, man, This generation don't 56 00:03:09,600 --> 00:03:12,000 Speaker 2: want to hear. You can bring this girl over here, 57 00:03:12,040 --> 00:03:14,880 Speaker 2: But hey, man, y'all can't sleep in the same bed 58 00:03:14,960 --> 00:03:15,880 Speaker 2: your mama in here. 59 00:03:17,480 --> 00:03:19,520 Speaker 3: That's that's all too man. It's just this. 60 00:03:19,760 --> 00:03:24,960 Speaker 2: Respect, young brother, it's just one hurt damn you over here? 61 00:03:25,080 --> 00:03:28,360 Speaker 2: Just yeah, we grown. But if your ass is so grown, 62 00:03:28,400 --> 00:03:31,320 Speaker 2: where your house? You can nestle down here for the store? 63 00:03:31,960 --> 00:03:35,320 Speaker 2: Huh where your grown ass house at? 64 00:03:35,640 --> 00:03:38,200 Speaker 3: You'ling at your daddy? He evacuated. 65 00:03:38,240 --> 00:03:40,160 Speaker 1: Maybe it was safer, Maybe the parents live in a 66 00:03:40,240 --> 00:03:40,960 Speaker 1: safer area. 67 00:03:41,320 --> 00:03:46,160 Speaker 3: Great well, where your safe ass money at the hotel. 68 00:03:47,240 --> 00:03:49,320 Speaker 3: You know, this is a whole lot of places. 69 00:03:49,320 --> 00:03:52,040 Speaker 2: You know, you know you know you know where your 70 00:03:52,120 --> 00:03:57,320 Speaker 2: second home at. Man, I'm telling you, man, y'all, it's 71 00:03:57,400 --> 00:04:00,520 Speaker 2: just respect, bro. Just it ain't but a whole night 72 00:04:01,520 --> 00:04:02,520 Speaker 2: sleep on the couch. 73 00:04:03,320 --> 00:04:06,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, Moving on to la. 74 00:04:06,680 --> 00:04:08,200 Speaker 3: Shouldn't even a question my. 75 00:04:08,280 --> 00:04:10,280 Speaker 1: Fault at all. 76 00:04:11,360 --> 00:04:11,800 Speaker 3: At all. 77 00:04:14,280 --> 00:04:20,479 Speaker 1: You didn't even get it out, all right? 78 00:04:21,080 --> 00:04:23,320 Speaker 3: Why to my fault? Why mm hmm? 79 00:04:23,880 --> 00:04:24,840 Speaker 1: Just do as I say. 80 00:04:25,160 --> 00:04:26,480 Speaker 3: That's it, that's all. 81 00:04:27,720 --> 00:04:30,520 Speaker 1: All right, Latricia and Hoboken writes, I'm sleeping with a 82 00:04:30,560 --> 00:04:34,320 Speaker 1: deadbeat that never has any money. He can barely pay 83 00:04:34,360 --> 00:04:36,479 Speaker 1: my cell phone bill every month, and it's getting on 84 00:04:36,560 --> 00:04:38,560 Speaker 1: my nerves. He thinks he shouldn't have to help me 85 00:04:38,600 --> 00:04:42,120 Speaker 1: out financially. He pays his child support, so shouldn't he 86 00:04:42,200 --> 00:04:42,520 Speaker 1: pay me? 87 00:04:45,960 --> 00:04:49,960 Speaker 2: Well, hey, you unless you're in a different line work 88 00:04:50,080 --> 00:04:55,720 Speaker 2: that you didn't put in the letter, pay you, pay 89 00:04:55,800 --> 00:04:57,760 Speaker 2: you is a different. 90 00:04:58,240 --> 00:04:59,240 Speaker 3: Form of work. 91 00:05:01,920 --> 00:05:06,320 Speaker 2: See. He pay his child's support because he's responsible for 92 00:05:06,520 --> 00:05:14,719 Speaker 2: the child. He's not responsible for you yet. But always 93 00:05:14,760 --> 00:05:17,760 Speaker 2: remember a coach told me this one time. You're gonna 94 00:05:17,760 --> 00:05:21,800 Speaker 2: play like your practice. He said, Boy, if y'all ain't 95 00:05:21,839 --> 00:05:24,640 Speaker 2: getting this play right at practice, that hell, make you 96 00:05:24,680 --> 00:05:26,559 Speaker 2: think you're gonna get it right in the game. Because 97 00:05:26,560 --> 00:05:29,240 Speaker 2: when people and game day, they gonna try to do 98 00:05:29,320 --> 00:05:31,160 Speaker 2: everything and they probably make sure you don't get your 99 00:05:31,200 --> 00:05:34,480 Speaker 2: play right. So, now, if you got a man that's 100 00:05:34,640 --> 00:05:39,600 Speaker 2: practicing being what you think is supposed to be your husband, 101 00:05:39,720 --> 00:05:42,200 Speaker 2: and this is how he practiced, this is how he 102 00:05:42,279 --> 00:05:49,000 Speaker 2: gonna play, he feeling, why should you a whole lot 103 00:05:49,040 --> 00:05:52,560 Speaker 2: of other time? Why should we pull out? He's a 104 00:05:52,600 --> 00:05:53,160 Speaker 2: dead beat? 105 00:05:53,360 --> 00:05:57,440 Speaker 3: He don't. I mean, he's a dead beat. 106 00:05:57,480 --> 00:06:01,880 Speaker 1: And you are okay, okay, all right, moving on, last one, 107 00:06:02,040 --> 00:06:03,520 Speaker 1: last one, You've almost got it out. 108 00:06:03,680 --> 00:06:04,120 Speaker 3: Last one. 109 00:06:04,200 --> 00:06:11,640 Speaker 1: Japhanie and Jacksonville writes that Dad, my neighbor's dad, hit 110 00:06:11,720 --> 00:06:14,360 Speaker 1: my mailbox and they think I should forgive him because 111 00:06:14,360 --> 00:06:16,920 Speaker 1: he's old. I am expecting them to do the right 112 00:06:16,920 --> 00:06:19,640 Speaker 1: thing and replace the bricks around my box. Is that 113 00:06:19,680 --> 00:06:21,600 Speaker 1: too much to ask? Would I be wrong to get 114 00:06:21,600 --> 00:06:22,920 Speaker 1: a police report? 115 00:06:23,960 --> 00:06:27,760 Speaker 2: Well, your neighbors should repair that. I mean, that's the 116 00:06:27,800 --> 00:06:32,200 Speaker 2: neighborly thing to do. Yeah, Now, if your old ass 117 00:06:32,240 --> 00:06:35,320 Speaker 2: daddy can't see they old ass daddy don't need to 118 00:06:35,360 --> 00:06:36,360 Speaker 2: be behind the wheel. 119 00:06:37,400 --> 00:06:40,800 Speaker 3: He'd have hit the whole mailbox. You know. 120 00:06:40,920 --> 00:06:43,800 Speaker 2: That could have been a car, which is way more expensive. 121 00:06:44,440 --> 00:06:48,920 Speaker 2: That could have been a person taking out the garbage. 122 00:06:49,440 --> 00:06:51,720 Speaker 2: His old ass don't need to be driving now. 123 00:06:51,760 --> 00:06:52,039 Speaker 3: I know. 124 00:06:52,880 --> 00:06:54,839 Speaker 2: I will forgive him. As a matter of fact, I 125 00:06:54,880 --> 00:07:00,000 Speaker 2: forgive your father. But y'all got paid for this damn mailbox. Yeah, 126 00:07:00,360 --> 00:07:02,440 Speaker 2: you know you have to. That's the right thing to do, 127 00:07:02,560 --> 00:07:06,800 Speaker 2: is to pay for the mailbox, or at least for it. 128 00:07:06,839 --> 00:07:10,200 Speaker 2: Ain't no offer offer accepted? 129 00:07:12,040 --> 00:07:13,960 Speaker 1: Oh okay, then. 130 00:07:13,960 --> 00:07:20,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, no, no, no, you have to pay for this mailbox. 131 00:07:20,840 --> 00:07:21,800 Speaker 3: I don't understand. 132 00:07:22,160 --> 00:07:25,680 Speaker 2: He owes, so you know, no, no, he his old 133 00:07:25,720 --> 00:07:27,560 Speaker 2: ass got some money though, he. 134 00:07:27,680 --> 00:07:28,400 Speaker 3: Oh he owes. 135 00:07:28,840 --> 00:07:31,679 Speaker 1: Yeah, but if he doesn't, she's gonna get a police report. 136 00:07:34,640 --> 00:07:38,040 Speaker 2: Old people have money. I'm not gonna lie to y'all. 137 00:07:40,000 --> 00:07:44,040 Speaker 2: Old people have money. Old people that's get that. That 138 00:07:44,120 --> 00:07:46,480 Speaker 2: old they've been around a long time. They know how 139 00:07:46,680 --> 00:07:48,720 Speaker 2: they feel to be broke. They stops that they got. 140 00:07:48,720 --> 00:07:54,320 Speaker 2: He got money somewhere, okay, and it's in an unconventional place. 141 00:07:54,880 --> 00:07:56,440 Speaker 2: Look in the basement under the. 142 00:07:56,400 --> 00:08:04,000 Speaker 1: Steps, so you're bound to find something there. All right, 143 00:08:04,040 --> 00:08:06,400 Speaker 1: thank you, clo. Coming up at the top of the hour, 144 00:08:06,480 --> 00:08:09,040 Speaker 1: we'll have some entertainment news for you. Right after this. 145 00:08:09,600 --> 00:08:12,320 Speaker 1: You're listening to Harvey Morning Show