Speaker 1: What's up its lip service? I'm Angela Yee, I'm Gigi MacGuire,
Speaker 1: I'm Jazzline brand. I'm Laura Mura is here on tour
Speaker 1: right now. Thank you for making time for us. Appreciate
Speaker 1: and you had yes and gig. Tell them how you
Speaker 1: got here today? Oh my god, y'all. I had to
Speaker 1: fly from Atlanta to Trenton. Did y'all even know trent
Speaker 1: had airport? I didn't know. The only airline that goes
Speaker 1: there is Frontier. So I was in the big front
Speaker 1: seat in Frontier. Okay, laid out, No, I wasn't. I was,
Speaker 1: And then I took an Amtrak train. I waited an
Speaker 1: hour in the train station for my train, and took
Speaker 1: an Amtrak train from trent in New Jersey to New
Speaker 1: York City and then Ubert from the train station to here. Okay,
Speaker 1: guess what. Usually I'll stay right, but the flights are
Speaker 1: so crazy. I don't know what's going on with these flights.
Speaker 1: But flights are so crazy right now that it made
Speaker 1: better sense for me to fly back out tonight. So
Speaker 1: she really came here just for four hours and then
Speaker 1: back to Atlanta. I got that's why he brought a
Speaker 1: flower courtesy got flowers. Yeah, you know what I want
Speaker 1: to ask you this, say, go so um buying flowers
Speaker 1: for women sometimes, right, I've seen women get mad because
Speaker 1: they think a man buys some flowers because he messed up.
Speaker 1: But yeah, we've seen that happened before. So yeah, when
Speaker 1: you mess up. But a woman like me, I love flowers. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I buy myself flower I keep flowers in my house, Like,
Speaker 1: I buy flowers like weekly, by weekly if I know
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be home for a few days and I'll
Speaker 1: be able to actually enjoy them. I have flowers all
Speaker 1: around my house all the time, and I love women
Speaker 1: send me flowers or buy me flowers. Like, I've had
Speaker 1: flowers on first dates multiple times, and I think that's
Speaker 1: a good Like, you know, it's a nice gesture. Okay,
Speaker 1: like a small little plan you can keep it longer.
Speaker 1: What do we give guys like on a you know what,
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, no, first date? First day? Yeah, on the
Speaker 1: first date, gig. Sorry, Like I get a girl ever
Speaker 1: given you a present like on a first date or
Speaker 1: early on a present? Yeah? Like you know, like flowers
Speaker 1: are a great gesture, but like, what do we give
Speaker 1: a guy? Nah, I haven't been on a first date
Speaker 1: in a long time. You know what I'm saying, Like
Speaker 1: what y'all are saying sounds like a dinner we dress.
Speaker 1: I haven't done that forever. But the flowers thing, like,
Speaker 1: that's a cool move. I think. So no one's ever
Speaker 1: been like the first time you go out, because I
Speaker 1: just felt like, that's not fair. We don't given me
Speaker 1: a gift. Yeah, like the first day. Now, I don't
Speaker 1: think I've ever given a man women men give women.
Speaker 1: We don't do anything given him a gift on the
Speaker 1: first date. But like, if there's something we spoke about,
Speaker 1: like on the first date that you know, and we
Speaker 1: have a second date, like I've a small gesture, like
Speaker 1: a small gesture, you know, something something said made me
Speaker 1: think of something more. If I saw something that has
Speaker 1: to do with something they spoke about, Oh this is cute.
Speaker 1: Let me grab this real quick. Yeah, that's not on
Speaker 1: the first date. But not the first but not the
Speaker 1: first date. No, I am the present because sometimes people
Speaker 1: are press Like let's just say, because there's a lot
Speaker 1: of people that are meaning like online or online dating,
Speaker 1: and so they might know each other a little bit
Speaker 1: before they actually go that's different. Yeah, on a date.
Speaker 1: If you've been talking on the phone for a little bit,
Speaker 1: you know, have you guys have an online dated. My
Speaker 1: friend said, let me not say what she's gonna do,
Speaker 1: because she's gonna do it. But I tried it. I
Speaker 1: download apps, like two or three apps. The second third day,
Speaker 1: I erased it because I just couldn't it wasp sipepe.
Speaker 1: I can't with guys doing selfies of themselves and they
Speaker 1: always post selfies of themselves are like pictures with no
Speaker 1: shirt on them. But my friends said, I definitely should
Speaker 1: try it. Okay again, go back there, go back out there. Well, Misa,
Speaker 1: why haven't you been on that first day in a
Speaker 1: long time in a relationship. I've been getting money. That's
Speaker 1: all I've been trying to do, because I think I
Speaker 1: think relationships are expensive, like really functional ones for people
Speaker 1: like me. People see me and it's like the R
Speaker 1: and B guy. Then you're thinking trips and balconies, and
Speaker 1: I'm saying, so it's like, no, before I do all
Speaker 1: that and the assumption of expectations, let me get my
Speaker 1: net worth a little bit and we listen, no judgment.
Speaker 1: But you have these sold out shows, you know, Grammy
Speaker 1: dominated say to accolades. I feel like you can do
Speaker 1: the balconies. Oh not yet. Have you been on any dates?
Speaker 1: You haven't been on any dates. I feel like you
Speaker 1: miss your X or something. X recently got pregnant. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm not missing her. Still dealing with that one. He
Speaker 1: doesn't feel about this. How long have y'all been broken up? Like?
Speaker 1: For you, okay, she got pregnant, you still think? Okay, well,
Speaker 1: you know what, I'm a sensitive He was trying to
Speaker 1: leave that door open, and you know it a little
Speaker 1: too long. I look back at the text, They're like,
Speaker 1: what's the last thing we talked about? Okay, let just
Speaker 1: see where I How did you find out? A friend
Speaker 1: of mine called me. It was like you see this?
Speaker 1: I was like, no, I didn't see this. It was
Speaker 1: on Instagram? What was Did you hit her and say congratulations?
Speaker 1: Are you ignored it? She's gonna see this interview? All good?
Speaker 1: Why did you guys break up? Um? I feel like
Speaker 1: my emotional intelligence wasn't high at the time. Okay, it
Speaker 1: was your fault. Yeah, it was totally my fault. She
Speaker 1: was real like she had all the things. I just
Speaker 1: feelt like I was too, like just it wasn't ready
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, just nigga time, just the life.
Speaker 1: Feel like she's the one that got away, nah, because
Speaker 1: I'd do with her, you know what I'm saying, Like
Speaker 1: I feel that, but at the same time, just like
Speaker 1: my ego, it's just it feels away down in the dumps.
Speaker 1: I like this, he plugged my music. See just you know,
Speaker 1: I feel away about things for no reason. Okay, now
Speaker 1: I think that's fair though. Yeah. Sometimes you see your
Speaker 1: ax and you could be over and then you see
Speaker 1: something you're like, oh, word, like that's what you do? Check, Like,
Speaker 1: am I over? And not that you have this situation
Speaker 1: Like I did an April Fool's joke. I like posted
Speaker 1: that I was I proposed to young lady and my
Speaker 1: phone was like filled with death threats. Wow. It was
Speaker 1: just like if you I will kill you in the
Speaker 1: wedding and I was like, oh are you carry carrying?
Speaker 1: They were access dance right, no phone? Yea. I thought
Speaker 1: were just kind of hanging out. But it seems like, oh,
Speaker 1: this is this is a button for you. Let's get
Speaker 1: into this. Because you are John I I am like
Speaker 1: the good Yard eighth Gemini, You're Sam. This is a
Speaker 1: well research podcast. Twenty third Gemini come on with it,
Speaker 1: and and I've had a lot of Gemini men cross
Speaker 1: paths within my lifespan. Yeah, I think this is crazy.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna see that you are the reason why they
Speaker 1: say we are crazy. It's y'all, and it's you. I agree,
Speaker 1: So you right here, sir. I'm not fighting you at
Speaker 1: all about that. I think I channeled my crazy into
Speaker 1: my art. Great on the stage, I get to be regular.
Speaker 1: What's the craziest thing that you would say you've done
Speaker 1: in a relationship? Did you look back and be like, man,
Speaker 1: why did I do that? Was I thinking? I try
Speaker 1: to do like mafia things like shop her head off. No,
Speaker 1: like uh in the sense of like I bought my
Speaker 1: lady x's uh barbershop and just turned it into something else.
Speaker 1: Wait wait wait you bought her ex Wait trying to
Speaker 1: tell you, like I'm trying to go for the juggular.
Speaker 1: We have women right here. We have her men who
Speaker 1: is a barber and he was succeeding. Then he owned
Speaker 1: a barbershop. Then they broke up, and then her and
Speaker 1: I got together. But then at that time I was
Speaker 1: still in my like crazy Gemini. She can only be
Speaker 1: with me, And so at the time, I'm trying to
Speaker 1: be like, you get my investments up, you know, maybe
Speaker 1: turn into a cafe or something. And so I copped
Speaker 1: this little real estate and I was like, we could
Speaker 1: keep it a barbershop, but then he would still have
Speaker 1: his job. So he's just gonna take a the barbershop away. Gosh,
Speaker 1: that crazy, pretty crazy. And what did she think about that?
Speaker 1: That was crazy? Yeah? That it was much So where
Speaker 1: is this property still? The same question driving it? And
Speaker 1: is it still this over details about this man's barbershop.
Speaker 1: You can get a balcony, for sure. I'm saying, I
Speaker 1: feel like you need first class bot, but you're buying
Speaker 1: barbershops right super ready in the black community. Um. He
Speaker 1: said it was a He said it was a little
Speaker 1: real estate situation. Yeah, but like I was just trying
Speaker 1: to be a I was just trying to like think
Speaker 1: too hard on how to like that's old okay years ago.
Speaker 1: I can imagine you And because I know you and
Speaker 1: sir cool dumb music together, right, a smoking young man.
Speaker 1: I can imagine these types of conversations because he's a
Speaker 1: he's a pretty fun person as well. Yeah, have talked, Yes,
Speaker 1: he had what was that like we got to watch that, Yeah,
Speaker 1: you do, because he's a few years But then we
Speaker 1: spoke to him at B T Words as well. Oh
Speaker 1: yeah we did. Interesting. Yeah he's cool. Yeah, he is
Speaker 1: very cool, super talented. Tell me what it was like
Speaker 1: for you guys working together. Surgis has a lot of
Speaker 1: deep conversations about like love and life, and he had
Speaker 1: this like trash can bag full of weed and then
Speaker 1: I mean he's from Collie, yes, you know, yes, I
Speaker 1: mean you're from like listen, all of these things are true. Yeah,
Speaker 1: just I don't know. Serge is really smart, you know
Speaker 1: what I mean. And I love the way he stacks
Speaker 1: his harmonies and we're just always just having jam sessions.
Speaker 1: And I would always like play keys while he's telling
Speaker 1: a story and then that would be the song. That's
Speaker 1: how we made Nanna and some other joints, just like
Speaker 1: talking sitting around like this. You're smoking per usual and
Speaker 1: I'm just playing keys per usual. So you like older women? Damn,
Speaker 1: we're just getting straight into it, okay. I mean we
Speaker 1: have a whole song about here. I feel like older
Speaker 1: women usually have food in their fridge and at the
Speaker 1: time that was my love language. Eating. Yes, you know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. So my fridge is there. Okay, are
Speaker 1: you an old woman? Are you? Yeah? I think so? Yeah, Okay,
Speaker 1: because you're very young. How old you think? I am
Speaker 1: thirty twenty seven? Aren't you like thirty born than ninety three?
Speaker 1: Were you older than that? I'm twenty nine, But I
Speaker 1: just seeing what the research dealt with, probably ten years apart,
Speaker 1: that's my limit. Yeah, I think a little. I'm gonna
Speaker 1: go up to eighty. Yeah. She said, I'm gonna go
Speaker 1: take right, but hello, I would take Granda. I'm gonna
Speaker 1: take grand Fay on a spin on his on his wheelchair.
Speaker 1: But but younger than me. I can only go down
Speaker 1: ten years. Yeah, because the maturity is just gonna get
Speaker 1: a little out of here. Yeah. I feel like, if
Speaker 1: not only that, I have a daughter who is twenty six, so,
Speaker 1: and my nieces they're all like between like twenty four
Speaker 1: and twenty two and like thirty three. But you are
Speaker 1: a young mom. I am. I was. I'm forty three.
Speaker 1: I had her when I was seventeen. But I just
Speaker 1: feel like, and more recently, about maybe three years ago,
Speaker 1: one of my nieces, the one that's a year younger
Speaker 1: than my daughter, she moved to Atlanta. So now I
Speaker 1: have three nieces that live in Atlanta and they're all
Speaker 1: within that age range. And my one niece is running
Speaker 1: into guys that I dealt with back in the day
Speaker 1: and she's now meeting them. So it's like, it's kind
Speaker 1: of weird. So I don't it gets kind of weird.
Speaker 1: So it's like when it comes to like a younger guy, like,
Speaker 1: I don't feel like I can see myself being with
Speaker 1: somebody that my daughter could possibly be with, right, But
Speaker 1: these guys definitely could see them definitely. What I'm saying,
Speaker 1: I don't know. It's just it's a morality thing with me.
Speaker 1: If you had a choice between a younger woman and
Speaker 1: an older woman, what would you pick. I'm gonna older woman.
Speaker 1: I'm still taking in what you just said. That is wild, Okay. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so I'll be like, oh, yeah I know him. Yeah.
Speaker 1: She'll be like, oh, um, I just met this guy.
Speaker 1: He said he know you, and I'm like, yeah, he
Speaker 1: knows me, all right? Do you tell him? Like, tell
Speaker 1: who how do you know? Nie Hurt? Yeah? You just
Speaker 1: to give her head all the way. There's only been um,
Speaker 1: there's only been one guy that um that she like
Speaker 1: kinda was really into but I had never slept with
Speaker 1: him before. I just knew him in that way. So
Speaker 1: it's just like and what is that way? Like we
Speaker 1: were like talking, but it never meted to the bedroom.
Speaker 1: So we like went on a couple beats and you know,
Speaker 1: and what happened. Um, I just wasn't interested. Okay, Yeah,
Speaker 1: what would make you not like what would make you
Speaker 1: go out with some man a couple of times? Like?
Speaker 1: What are some things that would make you not interested
Speaker 1: in somebody? Oh, I'm gonna start with the way they smell.
Speaker 1: You know, people have a smell, Like everybody has their
Speaker 1: own smell. And if if your smell isn't something that
Speaker 1: I'm attracted to, like your pheromones, you know what I'm saying, Like,
Speaker 1: if that don't get me like this, then that's one personality?
Speaker 1: Is another like waiting board that happened to you, Like
Speaker 1: while I was talking to somebody on the Internet and
Speaker 1: then we meet up and I'm like, I'm so man
Speaker 1: he said on the internet? Yea, on the internet social media,
Speaker 1: but like the pheromones on the WWW, like the pheromones
Speaker 1: weren't working with me. It was like, Noah, that he
Speaker 1: was talking for man long and I was like, I
Speaker 1: can't that's crazy. It was just her, she looked at
Speaker 1: she got a good personality all that. But it's like,
Speaker 1: I don't know if y'all see my nostrils are like
Speaker 1: I pray the sacks. You know what I meant breath
Speaker 1: And so I'm like it gotta it, gotta align with
Speaker 1: the nostrils. You know what I'm talking about me is breath,
Speaker 1: especially when the breast smells like they just took some
Speaker 1: listerine right before seeing you and you still smell the breath.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, that is the worst. Sometimes a chip
Speaker 1: to the dentist could fix that. Is it worth? But
Speaker 1: if you bet old and you're still onto that stink
Speaker 1: breath is definitely turn off. Let's go back to this plane,
Speaker 1: the saxophone thing. Your transitions are stellar. Let's go back
Speaker 1: to this saxophone situation. How do you think that plays
Speaker 1: a role with you in the bedroom, like breath control
Speaker 1: and all of that. Oh my god, I'm just curious
Speaker 1: about you, say, do I play sax in the bedroom?
Speaker 1: I was gonna ask, you know what, do you sing?
Speaker 1: Yeah in the bedroom? Yeah, that's sexy. I want a
Speaker 1: man this thing to me, have you ever had sex
Speaker 1: with a sinker, like a like a real singer? Her
Speaker 1: eyes answered back, I'm just had a little one before
Speaker 1: y'all came up on these couches about some things. So,
Speaker 1: um yeah, back to the saxophone thing, do you think
Speaker 1: that that plays a role, like as far as you,
Speaker 1: you know, being able to do certain things. That breath
Speaker 1: was wild to hold your breath girl a long time,
Speaker 1: or you know, I feel like there's something I noticed
Speaker 1: that I was at a blue note last night and
Speaker 1: I never watched other saxophone players perform, but that that's
Speaker 1: not I did. And I'm like learning how sexual that
Speaker 1: instrument is. It is like he's moving his hands mad
Speaker 1: faster instrument. The girls are going wild like oh d
Speaker 1: that to me, I was like they were not saying
Speaker 1: that no one in the morning, they're gonna start being
Speaker 1: real honest in the blue note. So you just realize
Speaker 1: how sexual that is. Yeah, I'm real innocent, Like I
Speaker 1: didn't know that the saxophone was seen that way, the saxophone,
Speaker 1: the saxophone. Yeah, but you used like how you started
Speaker 1: playing a saxophone? Was it to like, yeah, okay, we've
Speaker 1: all read up on me and okay, So there was
Speaker 1: an older woman that I had a crush on as
Speaker 1: a youngster, and the only information I had on her
Speaker 1: was she had a picture of Nagi Davis, a saxophone player,
Speaker 1: on her binder. So I have a little power my boys.
Speaker 1: I'm like, right, how do I back shorty? You know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. And it was like, we don't know.
Speaker 1: But she got a picture of the saxophone a binder.
Speaker 1: When I just ran with that and I started playing
Speaker 1: sax in attempt to woo her, and it was cool.
Speaker 1: I felt a little instrument the world. I was like thirteen,
Speaker 1: and I really like this crush kind of changed your life.
Speaker 1: That's a productive crush. Yeah, I think like men try
Speaker 1: to excel when a woman's involved. Like we're playing just
Speaker 1: pick up basketball then a girl walking. Were all trying
Speaker 1: to dunk so they could get the older lady by
Speaker 1: playing a sax. At thirteen, I got her. She probably
Speaker 1: like thirty four, But you woo the world the world, Yes,
Speaker 1: you really do like older women. He was thirty right,
Speaker 1: like what was this action to you doing that? She
Speaker 1: definitely was blushing because I was like, I'm Jamaican, so
Speaker 1: I'm trying to be extra confident, like I think I
Speaker 1: can marry you, like I'm going all out. I think
Speaker 1: she just kind of strugged it off. She was like
Speaker 1: a little boy. Oh yeah, I would have been on
Speaker 1: the newspaper. Did she know who you are? Now? Like?
Speaker 1: Do you have you seen her since you've been an adult?
Speaker 1: People asked me that a lot. N I got to
Speaker 1: figure out her first name. Oh my gosh, she was
Speaker 1: a teacher. Okay, she was teacher. Yeah, she was my teacher. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I was a kid in class. She came through and
Speaker 1: I was just like, who shure are you right now?
Speaker 1: Trying to see so our substitute teacher? I was, Now,
Speaker 1: what made you decide to him? Do this album self titled?
Speaker 1: I think usually I'm making my album with the company
Speaker 1: of a lot of women, right, and it's discussions conversations.
Speaker 1: This album was around a bunch of men, and we
Speaker 1: were having different types of conversations and like vulnerability and men,
Speaker 1: so health and femininity versus masculinity and all these different
Speaker 1: conversations I don't usually have, and so they just kind
Speaker 1: of challenged me to be vulnerable versus putting all these
Speaker 1: like barriers against me and my music. Like my music
Speaker 1: feels good, it's cool, but it's really ambiguous. It could
Speaker 1: be about whoever, whatever, But I think this album is
Speaker 1: a lot more vulnerable and personal. So I haven't done
Speaker 1: that before, and they felt that it was necessary. That's
Speaker 1: interesting because I don't look at like sometimes I feel
Speaker 1: like it's harder for guys to have those conversations with
Speaker 1: each other, and I don't know necessarily that they do.
Speaker 1: It's just the company I keep. Like I'm around like
Speaker 1: some really good guys. Like we talk about all of
Speaker 1: the things we have of this. We're in the studio
Speaker 1: doing this, discussing things dates all at and just trying
Speaker 1: to figure out how to best maneuver it because everybody
Speaker 1: kind of fighting the high value man versus the broken
Speaker 1: bag women versus the broke men versus. Yeah, it's just
Speaker 1: hard we arguing, but like, does anybody have a solution
Speaker 1: or a pathway? Who's happy? You know what I'm talking about.
Speaker 1: So it's like we just try to figure out what's
Speaker 1: the actual game plan for love since everybody just out
Speaker 1: here trying to get bread or whatever. Did you like
Speaker 1: getting more personal and vulnerable? Yes? And no, Like I like,
Speaker 1: I like getting it out, but I don't like performing
Speaker 1: it every night because it's like I gotta look y'all
Speaker 1: in the eyes, and it's like it's not a comfortable
Speaker 1: feeling to be vulnerable. It's cool to perform and entertain people,
Speaker 1: but when you're talking about your real life, it's like
Speaker 1: a different like I don't enjoy it the same. That's interesting, yeah,
Speaker 1: because I mean it's like when you're just having fun,
Speaker 1: you're doing almost like a cover song, you're just kind
Speaker 1: of being like wild and everything, But when you're talking
Speaker 1: about your life, it's just like when you're performing. Do
Speaker 1: you ever lock eyes with one woman in the crowd
Speaker 1: in the audience recently? Yes? It was crazy a homeboil.
Speaker 1: My name Jesse Boykin's a third told me I should
Speaker 1: try that, and I was like, yo, this no, this
Speaker 1: is a terrible idea. And you tried it dead for
Speaker 1: one night and how to go crazy? Like everybody was
Speaker 1: like why not me? She squirming in her seat like
Speaker 1: when the five heart beats? Was she laughing? Yes? It
Speaker 1: was that. That's all I saw when you when you
Speaker 1: when you said that, that was the vision I had
Speaker 1: in my head. Will you do it again? Maybe? It's
Speaker 1: really intense. It's got to be and it's cause a
Speaker 1: break up to right, have you ever dated a fan?
Speaker 1: Hooked up with a fan with a fan back in
Speaker 1: the day, but like, it's just not the way that
Speaker 1: did you meet her at the show? Just a random
Speaker 1: fan at the show. It's the thing that you expect
Speaker 1: as a rock star. Happened shorty giving you a vibe
Speaker 1: you like security, It's just foolishness. I just haven't see that.
Speaker 1: Like dating, I see that happen, but like dating a fan,
Speaker 1: you guys, because I mean I don't I don't want
Speaker 1: to be that much to someone. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: There needs to be a better balance because if I
Speaker 1: can't do no wrong, it's like right saying it. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so you feel like when you're dating it you can
Speaker 1: only date one person at a time. Oh, were you
Speaker 1: you clever? No, I'm just trying to understand dating. And
Speaker 1: I'm still trying to figure this out. You're still name
Speaker 1: dropping my songs, puliging me out now studying abroad nominated
Speaker 1: but no, um, I still have discussions about this and
Speaker 1: it gets debunked every now and again because I feel like,
Speaker 1: from a Gemini standpoint and an emotional intelligence I can
Speaker 1: definitely put together a structure where multiple women can be
Speaker 1: happy and fulfilled in one relationship. I'm confident about that.
Speaker 1: But in terms of when things change, like, Okay, if
Speaker 1: it's open, what if you have a child with this woman,
Speaker 1: can she go with some other dude? And then my
Speaker 1: like testosterone activating my ego get back? And I'm just like,
Speaker 1: I don't know if I'm okay with that. So I
Speaker 1: don't have the answer for all of the scenarios, but
Speaker 1: I do know I'm very honest. I'm extremely honest about
Speaker 1: what I do. And I think a lot of women
Speaker 1: speak about disliking that about men when they're dishonest and
Speaker 1: they have to figure things out and do all that.
Speaker 1: But I'm like, this is the setup right now, this
Speaker 1: is what I desire, this is everything. What's up? You
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying? Do you want to be involved
Speaker 1: in this or not? I think that gets me in
Speaker 1: better situations than trying to be this casting over R
Speaker 1: and B. Guy. Have you ever been heartbroken? For sure? Okay,
Speaker 1: that's good. Down in the dump, I ain't been that heartbroke.
Speaker 1: Have you cried in front of a woman like get
Speaker 1: her back to get her back? Like, I'm like holding
Speaker 1: her leg crying. Now guys mess up and then they
Speaker 1: start crying and bring it to hers out. Either it
Speaker 1: depends on how we feel at that moment. Either we
Speaker 1: wanted to when we start crying with you, or we're
Speaker 1: like if you don't start crying. I've never been that guy.
Speaker 1: But I'm like, uh, I'm like dismissed myself, and I
Speaker 1: know that. I'm like, I don't have a chance no more.
Speaker 1: And I like my friends will know, like I'll just
Speaker 1: like not make music for a lot of days and
Speaker 1: like be in a certain mood or whatever like that.
Speaker 1: But no, women have like thoroughly hurt my feelings about
Speaker 1: like tell us some things that have happened. I don't
Speaker 1: always say like women have thoroughly hurt my feelings. I mean,
Speaker 1: it's just what it is. I feel like, let's see,
Speaker 1: back in the days, I was green to the whole
Speaker 1: field of dating. I was very nice guy, very no boundaries.
Speaker 1: So I would do I would do more than flowers
Speaker 1: for the woman. I would just let her walk all
Speaker 1: over me. And I mean the right woman will just
Speaker 1: be like I'm to take this for a ride. You
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. I got a little money, I
Speaker 1: got travel, I can do things. I got access, and
Speaker 1: she's just like, let me just do that. And then
Speaker 1: once that kind of reveals itself, then you kind of
Speaker 1: really get heartbroken. Okay, you know what I'm saying. He
Speaker 1: was there for which he got. Yeah, but it's like
Speaker 1: I deserve that, you know what I'm saying. If I
Speaker 1: if I couldn't recognize Gemini response, Yeah, it's just like
Speaker 1: we played Devil's Advocate with ourselves a lot for show. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm saying, I'm not gonna cry to get
Speaker 1: her back, Like I've never been that guy, but I've
Speaker 1: definitely cried after a break. Was like, man, you really
Speaker 1: you really played me. You disrespected me heavily, and we
Speaker 1: just channel that in a song. Anything to do with
Speaker 1: what you want to try, yo, your face expression when
Speaker 1: you do the song thing. So when you said that
Speaker 1: one song what you want to try, no, see, that
Speaker 1: was about Detroit Um all right, which is a real person.
Speaker 1: She was very cool. The thing with Okay that song.
Speaker 1: The narrative of the album is following the journey of
Speaker 1: an artist, right. I started out literally as a street
Speaker 1: musician here in New York on Fifth Avenue, and then
Speaker 1: from there somebody booked me for a show and then
Speaker 1: I got sobs and then I got to this like
Speaker 1: a to Franklin Amphitheater and Detroit and so that's like
Speaker 1: the life. It's like, oh, I'm becoming famous, and so
Speaker 1: Kadesia represented like all of that, the money, the fame,
Speaker 1: and you're just like kind of being like starry eyed
Speaker 1: to the whole thing. And I feel like what you
Speaker 1: want to try is that Jamaican confidence where it's just like, yo,
Speaker 1: what's up? What you need? I'll be whatever, like I'm
Speaker 1: I'm fotis. I want to dive like all the way
Speaker 1: into this life. And I think it's just a fun
Speaker 1: song depicting all those emotions. Let me ask you what
Speaker 1: the street performer, right, like, how much money would you
Speaker 1: make on average? Was it good? That's it? Yeah? On
Speaker 1: a good night? How long did I be out there
Speaker 1: like all day on Fifth? Yeah? Like sun up the sun.
Speaker 1: I would literally be outside of sex Fifth Avenue because
Speaker 1: that's what the rich folk walking along here. I would
Speaker 1: think that would be way more lit. I guess I
Speaker 1: won't playing the right song. No, I don't know, just
Speaker 1: because you're right like in my head, like being outside
Speaker 1: there with so many people walking past and people wow,
Speaker 1: and then the fact that you were good enough that
Speaker 1: they actually booked you. Yeah, you know somewhere I would
Speaker 1: feel like you know me too. I thought it was
Speaker 1: smarter than the game. I used to give out water
Speaker 1: with my like information on it. Yes, I was trying
Speaker 1: to finesse the system like yo stock for me. Wow.
Speaker 1: So where were you living, like while you were doing
Speaker 1: that making fifty dollars a day? I'm just curious what
Speaker 1: this artist is starving? Artist's life was like, um so
Speaker 1: different places, right, I would Uh. I slept in Central
Speaker 1: Park a little bit. I did the car thing for
Speaker 1: a little bit, my old manager's floor for a little bit. Okay,
Speaker 1: that's when things started going right. Yeah you met me
Speaker 1: when I was about to get arrested for not having
Speaker 1: a permit for street musicians. Like it was just doing things.
Speaker 1: But that's a real some real shit, Like when you
Speaker 1: love something so much then you're me outside and then
Speaker 1: you know, not have a place to stay. But no,
Speaker 1: did you always know in your heart like this is
Speaker 1: going to happen to me one day? Yeah, I'm like
Speaker 1: that cocky confident manifest Whatever you want to call it,
Speaker 1: but it's like, and that's kind of the pressure my
Speaker 1: father put on me. It's kind of like, if you're
Speaker 1: not making money in a year, then you're about to
Speaker 1: be in the military, right, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: So it's kind of that pressure of I have to
Speaker 1: make this work. I've got to figure it out. And
Speaker 1: my mother's on the like makesure your heart is cool.
Speaker 1: They're like, you know, she there was a balance, but
Speaker 1: Pops is like, we can't be broke. Get job, Like
Speaker 1: he gave you an option, because I was thinking that
Speaker 1: too when I saw that he was in an Air force,
Speaker 1: Like normally, you know, they want you to follow in
Speaker 1: those footsteps and they try to set you up. I said, Okay,
Speaker 1: try this and if it don't happen, you're gonna He
Speaker 1: gave you option. They kicked me up out the Air
Speaker 1: Force too. Well, there you have it. Yeah, I've done
Speaker 1: a good year. Then they got me about it. Why
Speaker 1: did you get kicked out? Yeah, I'm just mischievous back
Speaker 1: in them days, I gotta say back in the bays,
Speaker 1: like I'm different now. But were you okay? Like did
Speaker 1: you tell your parents when things weren't going well? Did
Speaker 1: you try to keep up a front at first front
Speaker 1: facade for sure. Yeah, everything straight going amazing. Yeah, no,
Speaker 1: I am hiding the tears for sure. But I wanted that.
Speaker 1: Could you meet any women during that time? It was like, come,
Speaker 1: you can stay with me. That is hilarious. Yes, I
Speaker 1: know it. We know that hobo sexual that's too close,
Speaker 1: that's funny a monk. Yeah, you know, so women could
Speaker 1: come up to you like that. Did happen a few
Speaker 1: times to you while you were performing? Or I just
Speaker 1: I was the character type? Why was the musician? Guy?
Speaker 1: I got a guitar in the car, Like I'm just
Speaker 1: like I'm the dreamer. So it's just like story, you
Speaker 1: know what I mean. She's like, yeah, do you ever
Speaker 1: feel like you owe them like they looked out for
Speaker 1: you back then you're trying to get me to pay
Speaker 1: some money with not money, but just like you know, yes,
Speaker 1: keeping somebody, you know, some flowers, something you keep in
Speaker 1: touch with, any of them that that looked out early on,
Speaker 1: that looked out that let them calling. Now it's actually
Speaker 1: like trying to come on answer for them to say,
Speaker 1: go James crazy. You don't never know what you don't
Speaker 1: get right. You might be in a crisis. Hey, I'm
Speaker 1: doing lip service. Okay, Hi, say hi everybody. Hey friend,
Speaker 1: all right, I'm gonna call you back. The fame, the fame.
Speaker 1: You what you're talking about? You you're famous, Grammy nominating. Okay, alright,
Speaker 1: so go on, So let's talk. See you feel like
Speaker 1: we were talking about these women. Let you shot up
Speaker 1: when you were, and you're not doing nothing for them
Speaker 1: now that you are. Any of them used to keep
Speaker 1: in contact with? Um, who do I keep in contact with?
Speaker 1: It didn't matter what they look like, because you know,
Speaker 1: sometimes when you're just trying to get like a shot, right,
Speaker 1: I was never that down there? Okay, I'm still showering.
Speaker 1: I still look good, right? Who do I keep in
Speaker 1: contact from back of the day. I think I'm just
Speaker 1: a different person. Really, I don't know if we Yeah,
Speaker 1: I really I keep on saying that. Maybe it's false.
Speaker 1: I've said it too much. But like even trying to
Speaker 1: like talk to people that have known me from high
Speaker 1: school or like saw me at the Talent show, that
Speaker 1: conversation is the same. It's like, so what's it like
Speaker 1: to me on the show with Angel Again, It's like,
Speaker 1: yo's with the people from mister I'm like I don't
Speaker 1: feel like doing that every conversation, right, And then I
Speaker 1: have survivals guild a lot, so I'll try to like
Speaker 1: do the little Creed movie thing and try to help
Speaker 1: my band man as I was in jail, and I
Speaker 1: just feel like there's not a real way to help
Speaker 1: grown men, you know what I'm saying, that just decided
Speaker 1: to move the way they're moving. And so I try
Speaker 1: to like help the people that reach out to me
Speaker 1: that I know are in the same like headspace as me.
Speaker 1: For sure, I'm gonna giver. I'm a lover all that,
Speaker 1: but it's like trying to touch somebody from the past.
Speaker 1: It just hasn't worked. Okay, I fear enough. Sometimes you
Speaker 1: do something and then people expect more and more. I'm
Speaker 1: given people bred and opportunities and open up for me
Speaker 1: and come on tour and work for me. But it's
Speaker 1: like if you don't got the right mentality, you just
Speaker 1: hurt in your business ahead and hand and you like,
Speaker 1: I'm doing what I'm trying to do, Like I'm trying
Speaker 1: to get up and over here. Yeah, I'm trying to
Speaker 1: get tired in it. And this album also kind of
Speaker 1: feels like a little bit of I know it's a
Speaker 1: vulnerable situation, but it does feel like are you talking
Speaker 1: about any person in particular or is it just all
Speaker 1: of I'm trying to fill out you? What did you
Speaker 1: hear I'm talking about like some of these songs, you know,
Speaker 1: like the Bye Bye My Love and you know all
Speaker 1: of that got you. Okay, okay, we can go there.
Speaker 1: So saying with my heart down in the dumps, I mean,
Speaker 1: you want me to continue, She's trying to say to
Speaker 1: hurt you. Is it Is it anybody in particular? Or
Speaker 1: is it just different situations that you're reflecting on. Because
Speaker 1: it's not pregnant, that's hull. I just found that out.
Speaker 1: She couldn't know. It's life, right, but it's just yeah,
Speaker 1: it's life. There's various situations that I like reflected on.
Speaker 1: I think the Sydney referencing by by my Love. I
Speaker 1: was thinking about like my first crush in life for
Speaker 1: one day, and it was this young lady named Sydney.
Speaker 1: And I was like in the fifth grade and like
Speaker 1: she was a musician. I was a musician. Everybody was like, oh,
Speaker 1: y'all could be like such and such. Yeah, I was
Speaker 1: doing all that, and so I was just thinking in
Speaker 1: the studio that day, Like, what would it have been
Speaker 1: if I like kept in contact with her and just
Speaker 1: made a song with that inspiration. But yeah, I don't
Speaker 1: really think about her after that. It was like she
Speaker 1: probably got her own life. Yeah. Does she pop up
Speaker 1: and say, well, I still do music, Let's do something together,
Speaker 1: I mean chords, right, I'll be there, said, if it's right,
Speaker 1: I like music. When did you realize that this was
Speaker 1: like a turning point we were getting lit. I feel
Speaker 1: like when I was viral in college based off a
Speaker 1: song on SoundCloud. Okay, so it was like one hundred
Speaker 1: thousand listens and I was like, I'm up, I'm dropping out,
Speaker 1: I'm the one, and it was like a song. I
Speaker 1: was just playing saxophone over like a Drake remix or
Speaker 1: something like that. But like everybody was reposting it. Ladies
Speaker 1: was on me. It was just like, oh, I'm the one.
Speaker 1: That's all. After that, it just kind of gets you
Speaker 1: kind of getting numbed to it. You're like, is this
Speaker 1: do you like me? Do you like when women? Um?
Speaker 1: Would you like them to not know who you are?
Speaker 1: Or do you prefer if they're familiar with you? It's
Speaker 1: a good question, Um, see my ego comes into play
Speaker 1: here because it's like you should know how that's how
Speaker 1: I'll be feeling. I'm just like, I think I have
Speaker 1: a good taste of music. It's just like so part
Speaker 1: of me feels that. But I like when a woman
Speaker 1: is so in another world that she doesn't know who
Speaker 1: I am, that's kind of cool too, Okay, So it's
Speaker 1: just the vibe. It doesn't matter though, what about what
Speaker 1: about women in the industry? Have you ever kind of
Speaker 1: I'm be working for me? Yeah, it doesn't work because
Speaker 1: I feel like it's just it's too much not to
Speaker 1: be this guy, but like it's too much hustle mentalities
Speaker 1: like you're getting money, I'm getting money, You're in a
Speaker 1: man a world with all these men that you're trying
Speaker 1: to like prove that you belong in, and I'm just
Speaker 1: I feel like it's usually too much of that energy
Speaker 1: in the household. Just to me in my experience, it's
Speaker 1: like I feel like, not the how do I say this?
Speaker 1: I feel like just the paper chasing kind of consumes
Speaker 1: a relationship in my experience, Like I just feel like
Speaker 1: what I'm doing leaves room for a relationship to thrive.
Speaker 1: But I feel like since women have to do this
Speaker 1: much more work, they don't have as much space to
Speaker 1: be feminine in my experience, That's all I'm gonna say. Like,
Speaker 1: if you had to describe this is a situation and
Speaker 1: ideal for you, um, somebody really passionate about something that
Speaker 1: has nothing to do with music, Like just don't be
Speaker 1: an artist. Let's not do ja. You want a woman?
Speaker 1: Would you want to would you want a woman that
Speaker 1: is like an entrepreneur and doing her own thing, or
Speaker 1: would you want a woman that is just like regular
Speaker 1: nine to five sticking to a schedule, so where the
Speaker 1: entrepreneur can travel with you and can kind of have
Speaker 1: that freedom but still make her own money. Or the
Speaker 1: nine to five girl who's chained to her desk or
Speaker 1: who's working chained to her dad. I mean, not like that,
Speaker 1: but you know, she can't move around and because she
Speaker 1: can't just up and go exactly, she can't up and
Speaker 1: go the way that you have to travel and all
Speaker 1: of that. So y'all wouldn't have that time, if you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. Let me see what if she
Speaker 1: was on only fans she just making content, can't do it.
Speaker 1: I'm not I'm not the guy for that picture sticks. Nah,
Speaker 1: It's like you got old creepy men in your line
Speaker 1: making you money, and you got to give him attention.
Speaker 1: Sometimes creepy woman the audience at your shovel. Sometimes he's like, yeah,
Speaker 1: I've got to lock eyes with that, get locking eyes.
Speaker 1: I don't feel this different. I think it's different. Men
Speaker 1: buying feet picks ain't locking eyes. Yeah they lock, they
Speaker 1: lock They locking eyes on them feet picks, but they
Speaker 1: ain't seeing each other. I mean big ups getting money
Speaker 1: for your feet though, right, you know what I mean?
Speaker 1: What your feet look like? Not whizzes. He wrote a
Speaker 1: poem back stop we love with his feet. Though the
Speaker 1: feet was a little ashy homeboy, you know they was
Speaker 1: as the poem was cute. Though I sold the poem.
Speaker 1: I loved the poem. Would do that's that's that was
Speaker 1: a very whiz Khalifa response always very, he a little sensitive,
Speaker 1: very You think you know that that was funny. He's
Speaker 1: about him. He probably also smokes and then responds, that's
Speaker 1: what has to be high, and you'd be like, man,
Speaker 1: this I mean to say, what yea responds, drink or
Speaker 1: get a little high. I'll be like, you know what
Speaker 1: normally have you responded to people like that, Yes, yes,
Speaker 1: all the Yeah. I mean it's a it's a long
Speaker 1: process of me like knowing that Twitter is not my diary,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. It's like because I came
Speaker 1: out when Twitter was being developed, right, so it's like
Speaker 1: at first you could just put everything. Now it's like
Speaker 1: a public statement. It's like now you're about to like
Speaker 1: take receipts and like I'm out. Don't let them get
Speaker 1: to dig into the archive and find we was anyway.
Speaker 1: But I won't. I won't dodge your question about the women.
Speaker 1: I was about to let it just go by it.
Speaker 1: But she can be an entrepreneur. That's fine with me.
Speaker 1: I feel like it's all about having the bandwidth for
Speaker 1: a relationship, that's all it is. Because I think paperchasing
Speaker 1: is a thing, and I feel like you can get
Speaker 1: so consumed in it that you don't have enough rooms
Speaker 1: to just be in a relationship, just be regular, because
Speaker 1: I think even though I can do the trips and
Speaker 1: the bags and the whatever things that people expect. Yeah,
Speaker 1: the balcony, women love balcony. Accord about the things that
Speaker 1: actually last, Like the couples I talk to that are
Speaker 1: aren't like on the internet to be scrutinized and all that.
Speaker 1: They're just doing real regular things to sustain themselves. And
Speaker 1: I'm trying to like, if I'm being something, I'm trying
Speaker 1: to make it last. Like okay, now listen, you've said
Speaker 1: that relationships usually aren't balanced right where one person likes
Speaker 1: the other person more. I've heard that it works better
Speaker 1: when a man loves a woman more interesting, what do
Speaker 1: you think? I don't know if he likes her more
Speaker 1: than she likes him, loves me, loves all. That's why
Speaker 1: I will say, like the power of a relationship is
Speaker 1: in the man's hand, Like he's the one that has
Speaker 1: to do the structure of that for it to actually
Speaker 1: work when it comes to like the sexualness and all that,
Speaker 1: Like the woman holds the key to that. That's how
Speaker 1: I view it. So it's like, of course there's women
Speaker 1: proposing a man that doesn't count like man are the
Speaker 1: ones that like say, this is a structure. Do you
Speaker 1: want to join this? So I feel like, yeah, that
Speaker 1: is that's my answer. So you don't know. I'm like you,
Speaker 1: I'm waiting for you to really politics political? How would
Speaker 1: you how would you have for a woman proposed to you.
Speaker 1: No I did that. No, Yeah, we're gonna demasculate me
Speaker 1: in front of my friends. You're gonna embarrass me in
Speaker 1: front of my crew. Well, I get embarrassing. That's kind
Speaker 1: of manly for you. No, don't you got that on
Speaker 1: one knee for something else or something else on both knees.
Speaker 1: Then you want to do that, it's a better way
Speaker 1: to do that. But like, would you guys have proposed
Speaker 1: to a man? That's what I'm saying. But I'm just
Speaker 1: saying it. We've seen it happen. I've seen them done.
Speaker 1: I've seen dudes proposed. But like a glass bottle who
Speaker 1: turned into a ring and still gets scrutinizes, I'm like,
Speaker 1: I'm avoid all of that. All right. Then I got
Speaker 1: to read you something from your Twitter, and I want
Speaker 1: to go behind this tweet and see what you have
Speaker 1: to hold on, hold on screenshot at it earlier. All right,
Speaker 1: Someone mentally stimulating you, growing your wealth or feeding you
Speaker 1: beats out looks every time, but you put every time.
Speaker 1: I just want to But I know what you meant,
Speaker 1: and so Fanny tell us, all right, So how important
Speaker 1: are looks or do they matter at all? Looks? Aren't everything,
Speaker 1: but they ain't nothing. Okay, Okay, I feel have you
Speaker 1: ever been with somebody who was like beautiful but you
Speaker 1: just were like I can't for sure? The women of
Speaker 1: Instagram and that was it. It was like it's like, yeah,
Speaker 1: no personality Instagram. The issue was me. I would like
Speaker 1: put place of personality like in and like I think
Speaker 1: she's this, and then the date would be like nah,
Speaker 1: let me go back to liking some pictures. What I
Speaker 1: think turn offs the smell is one thing. I think
Speaker 1: just not having a passion, you know, like what's guiding
Speaker 1: you in life. I don't care what it is like
Speaker 1: be passionate about it. Like I know people that are
Speaker 1: like real thorough about certain topics I have no interest in,
Speaker 1: but I love them being passionate about it. Okay. So
Speaker 1: I think passion is beautiful creativity. I think having a
Speaker 1: good relationship with somebody in your life, family, friends, something,
Speaker 1: just so just to know you're capable of like nurturing something. Okay.
Speaker 1: What about faith? How important is that you should be?
Speaker 1: You should believe in something. You know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: you should had to defend it. I know, like you know,
Speaker 1: there's a lot of talks you can have about faith
Speaker 1: and all that, but it's just it's too much facade.
Speaker 1: You can look like you in faith and you will
Speaker 1: believe for or whatever, But like how your life, like
Speaker 1: how how are you living your life? How you live
Speaker 1: your life and how you treat the people around you. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it matters. That's the faith of friends, family and people
Speaker 1: you work with everything. Ye what about your family liking
Speaker 1: somebody who you're dating? Have you how often have you
Speaker 1: introduced a young lady to the family and doesn't matter
Speaker 1: to you what they think? Never? You've never done it ever?
Speaker 1: Oh wow, Oh you ain't been serious about nobody. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm scared. I'm not gonna watch. But it's so scary
Speaker 1: scared And you have siblings too, So you've never dated
Speaker 1: a girl? I mean you never wanted you to let
Speaker 1: them meet your parents? And what do you say? He
Speaker 1: said no? Clearly, Yeah I know that, But how do
Speaker 1: you say, how do you say no not yet? Just now?
Speaker 1: I said, no, let's not do that. Have you met
Speaker 1: their families? Yeah? Parents love me. Scared of so you said,
Speaker 1: I'm scared scared of what my mother is approval Like
Speaker 1: she's a boss lady, like she get bags, intelligent pageants,
Speaker 1: Like she's the one I'm having another vision the mom
Speaker 1: from Housepellar got her groove back collection. But like, I'm
Speaker 1: not gonna just like present someone to my mother. I
Speaker 1: know my mother. That's like a lot of pressure. Yeah
Speaker 1: it is. So I'm like, let's not even do it.
Speaker 1: So when are you gonna? No, she's just making sure
Speaker 1: my heart is cool and that I ain't letting the
Speaker 1: people check my birth number and date and time to
Speaker 1: check my co star. She's just doing that. God, So
Speaker 1: she wouldn't would be the ideal woman that you would
Speaker 1: take to your mother introduced, because you have to. At
Speaker 1: one point, you're thirty twenty nine, you said, let me
Speaker 1: still young? Yeah, yeah, still what would be obviously nothing
Speaker 1: that you've met. But I'm still deciding. Yeah, I don't
Speaker 1: think he's had enough experience. You're around him, meet with
Speaker 1: people parents and they ain't even worth them. Yeah, parents
Speaker 1: love me. It's facts, it's facts. What about your dad?
Speaker 1: Is your dad an easier person her? Okay, he probably
Speaker 1: would be the one to tell you. Yeah, I think
Speaker 1: that's the one you should let your mama. Yeah, don't
Speaker 1: do nothing. I mean, mom, I'm just saying, but like it.
Speaker 1: Pops is like he's a man like he's just like
Speaker 1: she's beautiful, she's cool, she's successful. Cool. But in men,
Speaker 1: we're not we don't have as many criteria and then
Speaker 1: we don't see through like y'all can like read a
Speaker 1: woman in the point five seconds. Yeah, we're just like, oh,
Speaker 1: she seems lovely. My mom's just like, when was the
Speaker 1: first time you knew they were proud of you as
Speaker 1: a musician. I think they called me and say I'm
Speaker 1: proud of you and my mom does it a lot though,
Speaker 1: because but like what happened that made them that they
Speaker 1: made them be like was it the SoundCloud? And that
Speaker 1: was for me? Yeah, they probably had no idea. Was
Speaker 1: it your first like real like book show? Was it?
Speaker 1: I feel like it was the plaque for um todal thing. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's a nice one. I like when like random people
Speaker 1: just know that song, I'm like perfect. No, I definitely
Speaker 1: got some bit ups from them for that. But my
Speaker 1: parents have been proud for a minute, Like yeah, I
Speaker 1: definitely there's no like deficit of like they just because
Speaker 1: I know at first they were like concern, you know
Speaker 1: what I mean, I'm sleeping on rocks, get your son.
Speaker 1: I mean it worked out. Yeah, everything just seemed like
Speaker 1: it's breaking out, sold out tour. Come on, you know
Speaker 1: album Let Drake samples Grammy nominations going up from here.
Speaker 1: This is the beginning. You bring a different older women,
Speaker 1: you know, and I got anybody I do? You know,
Speaker 1: I keep fridge, I'm not there up. I had to
Speaker 1: just left. So when I was preparing to come here,
Speaker 1: like I said, my daughter twenty six and she's a
Speaker 1: fan of yours. So I was preparing to come here.
Speaker 1: I told my daughter that we were interviewing you today,
Speaker 1: and she was really excited, and she kind of gave
Speaker 1: me a little bit of your background that I didn't know,
Speaker 1: and a lot of what she said is coming out
Speaker 1: of you right now. And I'm here for that. Appreciate Yeah,
Speaker 1: I like that. Well, listen, I'm sure that you're already
Speaker 1: planning what you're gonna do next. Have you started actually
Speaker 1: doing therapy, because I know you were talking about like
Speaker 1: perhaps that might be something that you would try. It's
Speaker 1: kind of like a on and off I'm trying out
Speaker 1: therapists and still trying to figure out like the cadence
Speaker 1: and the flow, like how much I want to share.
Speaker 1: That's important. It's important to find who works with you. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so I'm open to it. But okay, so you have
Speaker 1: tried a few different a little bit. Okay, that's gonna
Speaker 1: be interesting in the music, yes, but can't I can't
Speaker 1: wait to hear. I mean, I'm appreciating it, the new
Speaker 1: album and stuff. I can't wait to hear about the
Speaker 1: pregnant right names in child missegod, you said that happen? Yeah,
Speaker 1: somebody did that. No, no, you said your real name
Speaker 1: or stage name. So it's like three right, which name?
Speaker 1: Basically someone that I used to talk to name their child.
Speaker 1: Oh gosh, were you ever intimate with this person? I
Speaker 1: was not intimate with this. It wasn't there's no chance
Speaker 1: you got it. Yeah, no, no, no, you seem to
Speaker 1: be a good but what her man think? Man is there?
Speaker 1: I mean she could say, you know, the artist is
Speaker 1: a great art. They don't got enough. Hey, what we wait?
Speaker 1: Doesn't missego means blessings and prosperity. Prosperity, so she could
Speaker 1: say what, I looked up the name and this is
Speaker 1: what it means, like jam means the breed one breeding,
Speaker 1: or I could say this very popular artist and I like, yeah,
Speaker 1: and I follow him and he's in my phone and
Speaker 1: I wish I wish, I wish I was. And then
Speaker 1: later on in the year half well about the name. Well, like,
Speaker 1: all we're trying to tell you is be careful man,
Speaker 1: make sure you strap up a story, the story. You
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. Should a man find women that
Speaker 1: are good women? I think referrals are good. I don't
Speaker 1: think there's a specific place I think referrals are good.
Speaker 1: I don't think it should and I don't really think
Speaker 1: it should ever be like uh, pressure situation where here
Speaker 1: I want you to date this person. Let me set
Speaker 1: you guys up. I think it should be like a
Speaker 1: hangout situation and you could feel the vibe first to
Speaker 1: see if you even want to go one on one date.
Speaker 1: I like, yeah, so you can see the vibe. But
Speaker 1: I think if you have really good friends who you trust,
Speaker 1: like the guys that were around during the misego, and
Speaker 1: maybe they're you know, significant others, have some good referrals,
Speaker 1: that's the that's the way for somebody like you, Because
Speaker 1: I don't think, yeah, any other way it's probably gonna work. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I think referrals and like, do you do non industry
Speaker 1: things like do you hang out? What's your regular? Like
Speaker 1: hang out outside of work just doesn't work. He's chasing, Yeah,
Speaker 1: but that's another time for that too. Games and like
Speaker 1: doing just adult I don't even know how to describe
Speaker 1: if it's like I would go on a trip and
Speaker 1: then we would just find something cool to do. The
Speaker 1: ATVs thing is fun. We can be up in the park,
Speaker 1: find a beach thing we can do. I can't even
Speaker 1: name that right now, but like just having fun, you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, Like I just be acting twenty
Speaker 1: nine right? Yeah? See, I think, I think, and you're
Speaker 1: you're I feel like more in touch with yourself now.
Speaker 1: So in the meantime, just be careful, stap it up
Speaker 1: and don't bring nobody home to your mom until your shore.
Speaker 1: Yeah it'll be fine. Yeah, you can always master bate.
Speaker 1: That's another topic. I see. Y'all definitely get into masturbation.
Speaker 1: Who wasn't that said that they don't masturbate before shows
Speaker 1: because it makes them exhausted, your knees get weak. Um,
Speaker 1: somebody did say that everything was it was Joey said
Speaker 1: he doesn't masturbate at all. I wasn't here for that one. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I heard about that. Yeah, And you can't play the
Speaker 1: saxophone on a lot of breath and needs. Could you
Speaker 1: imagine blowing into you? Sit down any salary? How many
Speaker 1: instruments do you play? I usually just say yes, that's
Speaker 1: like my answer. How many instruments you play? Yeah, because
Speaker 1: I'm like, what can you not play? Because press complay instruments?
Speaker 1: See anything cool? I'm trying to play Okay, harmonica, guitar, bass,
Speaker 1: violent violence, cool, cello too? Can you play the violin?
Speaker 1: Play nice? I played harp too? Nice. I tried to
Speaker 1: buy one. But like all these things, you told yourself like, yeah, sure,
Speaker 1: that was crazy that you can some people have us Again,
Speaker 1: I feel like where you don't even have to, like
Speaker 1: is that something you were born with? I think all right.
Speaker 1: I was just had an affinity for instruments, and then
Speaker 1: people like Stevie and Miles and Prints who played a
Speaker 1: lot of instruments. I just looked up to them. I
Speaker 1: was just like, this is cool to me. I just
Speaker 1: want to be this, and so that kind of motivated
Speaker 1: me to just learn all these instruments, and then women
Speaker 1: liking it made me want to continue learning it, and
Speaker 1: I was like cool okay, and here we are here
Speaker 1: on the stage. Well, listen, we appreciate you so much
Speaker 1: for coming through. Learn a lot about the flowers. You know,
Speaker 1: we tried to make sure we didn't go too hard
Speaker 1: on you because listen, I was so scared you didn't
Speaker 1: see Do you seem scared everything? Yeah? Like, what was
Speaker 1: the scariest part of this? I think just when the
Speaker 1: seat started to sink, I got my space. I was like,
Speaker 1: am I gonna be like this the whole show? I
Speaker 1: was like, Yo, I'm gonna tell you what though. M
Speaker 1: d M is about to be lit right? Oh really,
Speaker 1: what am I going to say? Because like, you're available? Okay,
Speaker 1: older women be a while. He see therapy, He plays
Speaker 1: on the instruments, he has good breath control. Everybody home
Speaker 1: to his mom, and you know, everybody want to be
Speaker 1: the first. They want to challenge. Challenge, so everybody with
Speaker 1: a full refrigerator, Come on, passion. What is it that
Speaker 1: you do in life? Yeah, doesn't matter if a woman
Speaker 1: has kids or not, it doesn't. Okay, he's almost willing
Speaker 1: to play daddy. We're good play football with him. Your
Speaker 1: favorite food, oh, rice and chicken. Okay, I'm on my
Speaker 1: little vegan fake thing right now, So like soy chicken
Speaker 1: and rice, don't I'm gonna be honest, I don't think
Speaker 1: that soy chicken is any better for you than real
Speaker 1: real because it's processed. Let's go back the chicken and
Speaker 1: rice stop because you get organic, get organic chicken. But
Speaker 1: I think like processed food sometimes people. And I understand
Speaker 1: if you're like really you know, vegan and stuff like that,
Speaker 1: but a lot of that is just not Yeah. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm trying to figure that out. A lot of the
Speaker 1: meat replacement are just really not even that they're full
Speaker 1: of sodium too. Yeah, you better off doing like an
Speaker 1: oyster mushroom and in place of chicken. Oh you know
Speaker 1: about that? No bad? Yeah, the oyster mushroom is my
Speaker 1: new favorite. You find a look at chicken, figure pull
Speaker 1: apart like meat and everything stop. Huh you can you cook? Huh?
Speaker 1: I got? I got six meals that I can do. Okay,
Speaker 1: that's a good one. More to win out. I'm a
Speaker 1: week now, Come on, what are some of them? Megan rice?
Speaker 1: Now we can do that's hilarious. Why are you gonna
Speaker 1: do me like that? Spaghetti? That's what spaghetti meal? No? No,
Speaker 1: we got the We definitely got the chicken and rice.
Speaker 1: We got the the stew, brown stew, chicken, got the
Speaker 1: hockey and saw fish. Okay, that's my face, got face,
Speaker 1: I love. Yeah, we got the don't worry. We got
Speaker 1: the POTSI and the plantings and the probably the chemoa.
Speaker 1: I'm on the side, okay, um, random my banana bread.
Speaker 1: Why where you cooking? Yeah? I'm hungry too. That's why
Speaker 1: I'm like, you can go out fish. Do you use
Speaker 1: the can? No? No, no, no, no, okay, you know
Speaker 1: what's respectful. I'm just that's a good question. He's the
Speaker 1: guy saying he could cook that. We're doing like the
Speaker 1: you know, like the little breakfast tacos. Get down with that.
Speaker 1: I knew it. Everybody first knew. He Ever, he's like,
Speaker 1: come up, I'll cooked you. Yeah, we gotta get you
Speaker 1: a good seven so you can round out a week.
Speaker 1: I know at you. I need to know more. Like
Speaker 1: my oyster mushrooms are like busting for I do that
Speaker 1: with the black rice seven right there? So something like
Speaker 1: all right, ladies, you hear here, Come on, he's therapy.
Speaker 1: I got tattoos on my chest. You got tattoos on
Speaker 1: a shot ahead? You know what hattall are you? I
Speaker 1: got a stop lying. I'm like six five okay, he's
Speaker 1: six five, Like six five six six sound better? So
Speaker 1: I wanted to say that, but I was like, women,
Speaker 1: be like, take an inch off five and a half.
Speaker 1: This is what you do live too, po that pony
Speaker 1: tail up to the top. And then you got to
Speaker 1: say six camera man, camera five, cut that six six
Speaker 1: listen because later they'd be like, oh, could you end
Speaker 1: out the party? Say six five? Run that up? Well, misseka,
Speaker 1: thank you so much and really glad that you took
Speaker 1: the time to comment, sit with us even though you
Speaker 1: scaring you, and then nice to face your fairs. I
Speaker 1: love this. This was great. Yeah, I'm gonna call my
Speaker 1: therapist after this. I did it. I did it, alright,
Speaker 1: you guys check it out. Michego self titled album is
Speaker 1: out right now. Catching my tour? Where can people find
Speaker 1: the tour dates? Black planet dot com? I have lunch.
Speaker 1: Do you know what I did? I did the launch party? Um,
Speaker 1: where can you find tour dates? I guess your website?
Speaker 1: Maybe maybe? Yeah, maybe follow him on Instagram or on Twitter.
Speaker 1: So it sold out, so you can't come come to
Speaker 1: the next one. We do bartering, trade massages for tickets.
Speaker 1: We do like wellness, Yeah, all right, Mischego lift service