1 00:00:01,000 --> 00:00:03,840 Speaker 1: Time now for today's Strawberry Letter and listen. If you 2 00:00:03,880 --> 00:00:07,440 Speaker 1: need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting, and more. 3 00:00:08,039 --> 00:00:11,680 Speaker 1: Please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEYFM dot com 4 00:00:11,680 --> 00:00:14,840 Speaker 1: and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your 5 00:00:14,920 --> 00:00:16,880 Speaker 1: letter live on the air, just like we're going to 6 00:00:16,920 --> 00:00:19,200 Speaker 1: read this one right here, right now, and you never 7 00:00:19,239 --> 00:00:21,680 Speaker 1: know it could be yours. You never know, you never know, 8 00:00:21,920 --> 00:00:23,799 Speaker 1: so buckle up and hold on tight. We got it 9 00:00:23,840 --> 00:00:26,960 Speaker 1: full you here it is Strawberry Letter. Thank you nephew. 10 00:00:27,120 --> 00:00:30,680 Speaker 1: Subject he loves her, but he won't leave me. Dear 11 00:00:30,760 --> 00:00:33,519 Speaker 1: Stephen Shirley. I am thirty four years old and my 12 00:00:33,640 --> 00:00:36,920 Speaker 1: husband is forty eight. We've only been married six years, 13 00:00:36,960 --> 00:00:39,320 Speaker 1: and I found out that he's had a relationship with 14 00:00:39,360 --> 00:00:43,760 Speaker 1: another woman for the past three years. Not only is 15 00:00:43,880 --> 00:00:46,560 Speaker 1: he with this woman more than he's with me. They 16 00:00:46,600 --> 00:00:49,680 Speaker 1: have a two year old son together. When I married him, 17 00:00:49,840 --> 00:00:52,879 Speaker 1: he didn't have any children and I have two. He 18 00:00:52,960 --> 00:00:56,760 Speaker 1: adopted my children because their father passed away. I still 19 00:00:56,840 --> 00:00:59,880 Speaker 1: can't bring myself to tell our children that they have 20 00:01:00,040 --> 00:01:02,520 Speaker 1: a little brother because I'm embarrassed and feel like I've 21 00:01:02,520 --> 00:01:06,679 Speaker 1: failed as a wife and a mother. My husband's mistress 22 00:01:06,840 --> 00:01:09,920 Speaker 1: came to me and told me that she was pregnant 23 00:01:09,959 --> 00:01:13,360 Speaker 1: by my husband, and my life has been in shambles 24 00:01:13,360 --> 00:01:15,800 Speaker 1: since then, the three of us sat down and had 25 00:01:15,920 --> 00:01:20,360 Speaker 1: an adult conversation about how we'd handle things. The baby 26 00:01:20,440 --> 00:01:24,880 Speaker 1: is innocent, and the baby is innocent in this, so yes, 27 00:01:25,040 --> 00:01:27,520 Speaker 1: I love this little boy and I have a cordial 28 00:01:27,560 --> 00:01:30,399 Speaker 1: relationship with this woman. I also drink a lot of 29 00:01:30,400 --> 00:01:33,600 Speaker 1: martinis when I need to let off steam. The problem 30 00:01:33,640 --> 00:01:36,480 Speaker 1: I'm having is with my husband. He won't go be 31 00:01:36,600 --> 00:01:39,360 Speaker 1: with her, and I can tell that's truly where his 32 00:01:39,480 --> 00:01:42,520 Speaker 1: heart is. He is still trying to caress me and 33 00:01:42,560 --> 00:01:45,759 Speaker 1: make love to me like everything is cool. But every 34 00:01:45,760 --> 00:01:48,200 Speaker 1: time he leaves the house, I feel like he's going 35 00:01:48,240 --> 00:01:50,960 Speaker 1: to her to do the same thing. I have seen 36 00:01:51,080 --> 00:01:54,360 Speaker 1: his credit card statements where he's purchased things for her 37 00:01:54,480 --> 00:01:57,920 Speaker 1: and his son. He thinks I'm cool with everything, so 38 00:01:58,000 --> 00:02:00,920 Speaker 1: he has nothing to hide. I told him that he 39 00:02:01,000 --> 00:02:03,720 Speaker 1: might as well invite her over for Thanksgiving dinner, and 40 00:02:03,760 --> 00:02:06,520 Speaker 1: now he thinks I'm losing my mind. I think it's 41 00:02:06,520 --> 00:02:08,680 Speaker 1: time for him to man up, tell our children about 42 00:02:08,680 --> 00:02:10,919 Speaker 1: their sibling, leave our house, and get his life back 43 00:02:11,000 --> 00:02:14,000 Speaker 1: on track with his new family. How do I get 44 00:02:14,040 --> 00:02:17,040 Speaker 1: through to him that it's not okay when I've mistakenly 45 00:02:17,080 --> 00:02:21,680 Speaker 1: made him feel that it is. How do I move on? Wow, 46 00:02:21,880 --> 00:02:24,280 Speaker 1: this is a hard one to move on, To move 47 00:02:24,320 --> 00:02:26,920 Speaker 1: on from? I mean your husband having a baby with 48 00:02:26,960 --> 00:02:32,680 Speaker 1: another woman all that. You know, that's a very appropriate question. 49 00:02:32,720 --> 00:02:36,240 Speaker 1: Whatever you want to say, how do you move on? Well, first, 50 00:02:37,000 --> 00:02:41,280 Speaker 1: you know, you have the adult conversation, so he thinks 51 00:02:41,360 --> 00:02:44,480 Speaker 1: that you and the woman and him are all cool 52 00:02:44,520 --> 00:02:47,079 Speaker 1: because you invite her. But just tell him the truth. 53 00:02:47,160 --> 00:02:49,400 Speaker 1: Let him know that none of this is working for you. 54 00:02:50,080 --> 00:02:53,119 Speaker 1: Let him know all of that. Okay, talk to him, 55 00:02:53,320 --> 00:02:56,080 Speaker 1: tell him the truth. You're telling us, but you're not 56 00:02:56,120 --> 00:02:59,120 Speaker 1: really telling him. You're just saying, invite her over and 57 00:02:59,160 --> 00:03:01,720 Speaker 1: do things like that. That's not cool. You gotta tell 58 00:03:01,840 --> 00:03:05,680 Speaker 1: him what you really really feel. Okay. One way to 59 00:03:05,720 --> 00:03:08,880 Speaker 1: move on is forgiveness. I know you're not there yet. 60 00:03:08,960 --> 00:03:11,519 Speaker 1: I can already see it in the letter. You said 61 00:03:11,560 --> 00:03:13,600 Speaker 1: you drink a lot of martinis to get through this. 62 00:03:14,160 --> 00:03:16,320 Speaker 1: So you know, like I said, you got to talk 63 00:03:16,360 --> 00:03:20,080 Speaker 1: to him. You gotta let him tell him he's got 64 00:03:20,080 --> 00:03:22,880 Speaker 1: to go. It's not his decision anymore. He made the 65 00:03:22,919 --> 00:03:25,440 Speaker 1: decision to have the baby with the other woman. He 66 00:03:25,480 --> 00:03:29,360 Speaker 1: needs to get out. He does, he's adopted your children. 67 00:03:29,440 --> 00:03:31,160 Speaker 1: All of that. You guys have to work all of 68 00:03:31,160 --> 00:03:34,920 Speaker 1: this out. He's made a mess of everything everything, So 69 00:03:35,160 --> 00:03:37,800 Speaker 1: just tell him and then put him out and work 70 00:03:37,880 --> 00:03:43,320 Speaker 1: everything else out after he's out. All right, Steve, this 71 00:03:43,520 --> 00:03:45,920 Speaker 1: is a little water over the damn advice that I'm 72 00:03:45,960 --> 00:03:49,120 Speaker 1: about to give you. But there's also a way that 73 00:03:49,280 --> 00:03:53,040 Speaker 1: you can create a new damn and let it water flow. 74 00:03:54,240 --> 00:03:58,080 Speaker 1: So I have it for you. See, I've got the 75 00:03:58,120 --> 00:04:00,760 Speaker 1: whole thing. You've been married to this man and for 76 00:04:00,800 --> 00:04:04,320 Speaker 1: six years, and he's forty eight and you're thirty four, 77 00:04:04,360 --> 00:04:06,800 Speaker 1: and you found out he's been having a relationship with 78 00:04:06,840 --> 00:04:08,720 Speaker 1: this woman for three years, and now they got this 79 00:04:08,800 --> 00:04:10,800 Speaker 1: two year old baby. And when you married him, he 80 00:04:10,800 --> 00:04:12,480 Speaker 1: didn't have no kids, and you got two kids. And 81 00:04:12,520 --> 00:04:15,320 Speaker 1: he adopted your kids because your kids father passed when 82 00:04:15,440 --> 00:04:19,360 Speaker 1: he adopted. Got all that, and you can't bring yourself 83 00:04:19,440 --> 00:04:21,400 Speaker 1: tell your children they got a little brother. Because I'm 84 00:04:21,400 --> 00:04:23,599 Speaker 1: in bears, feel like I failed as a wife and 85 00:04:23,600 --> 00:04:26,359 Speaker 1: a mother. Well you you've done neither of those. You 86 00:04:26,400 --> 00:04:28,560 Speaker 1: haven't failed as a wife or mother. Why are you 87 00:04:28,680 --> 00:04:32,880 Speaker 1: taking this own as blame for yourself. You didn't fail 88 00:04:32,960 --> 00:04:36,120 Speaker 1: as a wife or mother. You did all your wifely 89 00:04:36,200 --> 00:04:40,000 Speaker 1: duties and you've done all your motherly duties. What that's 90 00:04:40,120 --> 00:04:42,920 Speaker 1: not an excuse for a man to go have another 91 00:04:42,960 --> 00:04:44,920 Speaker 1: whole family. So I'm I'm gonna help you out to 92 00:04:44,960 --> 00:04:49,640 Speaker 1: minute him my husband mistress. Here we go. My husband 93 00:04:49,720 --> 00:04:53,560 Speaker 1: mistress came to me and told me she was pregnant 94 00:04:53,600 --> 00:04:56,920 Speaker 1: by my husband, and my life been in shambled since then. 95 00:04:57,160 --> 00:05:00,719 Speaker 1: Well right here, See my life ain't gonna be the 96 00:05:00,760 --> 00:05:03,680 Speaker 1: only one in shambles. See when you're coming here with 97 00:05:03,720 --> 00:05:06,520 Speaker 1: some bad news for me, I think we need to 98 00:05:06,560 --> 00:05:10,520 Speaker 1: share some mobady, and I think the sharon should have 99 00:05:10,560 --> 00:05:17,640 Speaker 1: went down immediately. You know, I look just if I 100 00:05:18,080 --> 00:05:21,560 Speaker 1: look as a man. I want you to understand I'm 101 00:05:21,640 --> 00:05:27,080 Speaker 1: talking to this woman as a woman. When this mistress 102 00:05:27,240 --> 00:05:31,159 Speaker 1: came to you and told you she was pregnant by 103 00:05:31,240 --> 00:05:36,200 Speaker 1: your husband, you being another woman, could have handled it 104 00:05:36,240 --> 00:05:38,520 Speaker 1: different because it ain't you got two kids. Ain't you 105 00:05:38,600 --> 00:05:44,320 Speaker 1: been pregnant before? So tasko, I'm thinking he should have 106 00:05:44,320 --> 00:05:47,800 Speaker 1: got physical. Then that's just me. I don't see how 107 00:05:47,839 --> 00:05:51,359 Speaker 1: I didn't, But I'm just saying I'm thinking it should 108 00:05:51,400 --> 00:05:53,360 Speaker 1: have got physical. But once again, like I told you, 109 00:05:53,600 --> 00:05:56,600 Speaker 1: this is a water over the damn conversation. But I'm 110 00:05:56,640 --> 00:05:58,320 Speaker 1: going to show you how to build a new damn 111 00:05:58,440 --> 00:06:02,080 Speaker 1: so you can get the water coming over. Okay, the 112 00:06:02,320 --> 00:06:05,560 Speaker 1: three of us sat down and had an adult conversation 113 00:06:05,640 --> 00:06:10,560 Speaker 1: about how we'd handle played. See right there hit the 114 00:06:10,680 --> 00:06:13,560 Speaker 1: part in the converstion. First of all, three of us 115 00:06:13,640 --> 00:06:17,560 Speaker 1: are not sitting down because what I'm about to do, 116 00:06:17,640 --> 00:06:21,159 Speaker 1: we all gonna need to be standing because it needs 117 00:06:21,200 --> 00:06:23,440 Speaker 1: gonna be some furniture moving going on up they there, 118 00:06:23,480 --> 00:06:26,320 Speaker 1: We're gonna be some foot shuffling and some hand swinging. 119 00:06:26,600 --> 00:06:28,200 Speaker 1: So I don't know how you do that sitting down. 120 00:06:28,360 --> 00:06:32,279 Speaker 1: Lets y'all in wheelchair. Oh but y'all's y'all ain't wheelchair. 121 00:06:32,360 --> 00:06:34,320 Speaker 1: We need everybody on the feet. So when I come back, 122 00:06:34,360 --> 00:06:37,240 Speaker 1: I'm explaining to you how this little sit down with 123 00:06:37,360 --> 00:06:41,000 Speaker 1: a win. All right, all I got to say, be ready? 124 00:06:41,240 --> 00:06:43,719 Speaker 1: All right, Thank you, Steve. We'll have fort two of 125 00:06:43,720 --> 00:06:46,440 Speaker 1: your response coming up at twenty three minutes after the hour. 126 00:06:46,720 --> 00:06:49,400 Speaker 1: Today's Strawberry Letters subject he loves her, but he won't 127 00:06:49,480 --> 00:06:51,680 Speaker 1: leave me. We'll get back into it right after this. 128 00:06:52,080 --> 00:06:56,600 Speaker 1: You're listening to show. All right, come on, Steve, let's 129 00:06:56,600 --> 00:06:59,599 Speaker 1: recap today's Strawberry Letters. Subject he loves her, but he 130 00:06:59,680 --> 00:07:02,000 Speaker 1: won't leave me for the ye old man was his 131 00:07:02,080 --> 00:07:04,320 Speaker 1: thirty marriage is thirty for year woman. They've been married 132 00:07:04,360 --> 00:07:06,799 Speaker 1: six years. He'd been having a relationship for three years. 133 00:07:07,279 --> 00:07:09,159 Speaker 1: He had to mess around and had a little boy 134 00:07:09,320 --> 00:07:12,200 Speaker 1: by this other woman, and he never had any kids, 135 00:07:12,240 --> 00:07:14,960 Speaker 1: and now he got this little boy. But he adopted 136 00:07:15,000 --> 00:07:18,600 Speaker 1: her his wife's two kids because they father passed away. 137 00:07:18,880 --> 00:07:22,680 Speaker 1: And then you know you're embarrassed to tell your kids 138 00:07:22,720 --> 00:07:24,760 Speaker 1: because you feel like you fail as a mother and 139 00:07:24,720 --> 00:07:27,520 Speaker 1: a wife. And I must tell you you haven't done either. 140 00:07:27,600 --> 00:07:30,520 Speaker 1: Please don't make this your problem alone. We got to 141 00:07:30,600 --> 00:07:33,679 Speaker 1: make this everybody problem. Then you said my husband mistress 142 00:07:33,720 --> 00:07:35,600 Speaker 1: came to me and told me she was pregnant by 143 00:07:35,640 --> 00:07:39,040 Speaker 1: my husband, and my life being shambles every since. Well 144 00:07:39,160 --> 00:07:42,119 Speaker 1: it's time to get some more lives in shambles. Because 145 00:07:42,120 --> 00:07:43,680 Speaker 1: what you ain't, Fenn do is come over here and 146 00:07:43,760 --> 00:07:47,920 Speaker 1: toss mine upside down without yours getting tossed right smooth 147 00:07:48,280 --> 00:07:50,680 Speaker 1: back upside down. You want to stand, you feel me? 148 00:07:50,880 --> 00:07:54,360 Speaker 1: The three of us sat down and having a dunk conversation. No, 149 00:07:54,520 --> 00:07:57,440 Speaker 1: we didn't. The three of us was in that moving 150 00:07:57,560 --> 00:08:00,240 Speaker 1: furniture around. The three of us was in that. We 151 00:08:00,360 --> 00:08:09,400 Speaker 1: were doing everything but having a conversation. Were holly, no, no, no, no, 152 00:08:09,480 --> 00:08:16,080 Speaker 1: we're gonna be Holland as an adult, cussing as an adult, sidestepping, 153 00:08:16,200 --> 00:08:20,960 Speaker 1: swanging as an adult. But we're not talking about how 154 00:08:21,000 --> 00:08:23,480 Speaker 1: we should handle things. You're gonna find out how we're 155 00:08:23,480 --> 00:08:26,280 Speaker 1: handling it soon as you come through the door. Now, 156 00:08:26,680 --> 00:08:30,040 Speaker 1: the baby is innocent in this soul. Yes, I love 157 00:08:30,120 --> 00:08:32,800 Speaker 1: the little boy. Let's stop that. That's for women. Women 158 00:08:32,800 --> 00:08:36,200 Speaker 1: can say that I'm not loving it a little lad. No, 159 00:08:36,280 --> 00:08:42,080 Speaker 1: I'm a man. We don't. We don't do that. We're men. Wenna, No, no, man, 160 00:08:42,320 --> 00:08:44,520 Speaker 1: come up in here pregnant talking about this head. Were 161 00:08:44,520 --> 00:08:47,320 Speaker 1: fel all love it? No, we're not. No, the little 162 00:08:47,360 --> 00:08:50,920 Speaker 1: boy got a problem with men. Get over there with 163 00:08:51,000 --> 00:08:53,600 Speaker 1: your daddy, your baby friend to find out something about life. 164 00:08:55,120 --> 00:08:57,400 Speaker 1: That's what you are, what y'all asked for to do. 165 00:08:57,720 --> 00:09:00,760 Speaker 1: I just told you everybody life fit to get tossed 166 00:09:00,840 --> 00:09:03,920 Speaker 1: upside down. That's mine and that's your life, My life, 167 00:09:04,040 --> 00:09:08,920 Speaker 1: and the baby life too. Bring him over here if 168 00:09:08,920 --> 00:09:12,960 Speaker 1: you want you we ain't got no similar, Well, an'mal 169 00:09:13,160 --> 00:09:18,480 Speaker 1: got we ain't got a guy. We gotta passify. We 170 00:09:18,480 --> 00:09:21,160 Speaker 1: ain't got nothing. We gotta blake baby blankets. We ain't 171 00:09:21,160 --> 00:09:23,080 Speaker 1: got nothing. To sit your ass up, watch his game 172 00:09:23,160 --> 00:09:25,800 Speaker 1: with me and deal with it. Stop all that crime. 173 00:09:28,440 --> 00:09:30,600 Speaker 1: Now I have it, and I love it. Boy, and 174 00:09:30,640 --> 00:09:34,880 Speaker 1: I have a cordial relationship with this woman. Why what 175 00:09:35,080 --> 00:09:39,400 Speaker 1: conversation did you have? I also drink a lot of 176 00:09:39,600 --> 00:09:42,240 Speaker 1: martinis when I need to let off Steve. The problem 177 00:09:42,320 --> 00:09:44,840 Speaker 1: I'm having is with my husband. He won't go be 178 00:09:44,960 --> 00:09:47,040 Speaker 1: with her, and I can tell that's truly where his 179 00:09:47,160 --> 00:09:49,360 Speaker 1: heart is. He's still trying to carrest me and make 180 00:09:49,480 --> 00:09:52,000 Speaker 1: love to me, like everything cool, But every time he 181 00:09:52,120 --> 00:09:54,000 Speaker 1: leaves the house, I feel like he's going to do 182 00:09:54,040 --> 00:09:56,920 Speaker 1: the same thing over her. I've seen his credit card 183 00:09:56,960 --> 00:10:00,400 Speaker 1: statements where he's purchased things for her and his son thanks. 184 00:10:00,400 --> 00:10:03,120 Speaker 1: I'm cool with everything, so he has nothing to hide. 185 00:10:03,800 --> 00:10:06,480 Speaker 1: I told him he might as well invite over for Thanksgiving, 186 00:10:06,480 --> 00:10:09,720 Speaker 1: and now he thinks I'm losing my mind. See, because 187 00:10:09,720 --> 00:10:13,840 Speaker 1: he trying to keep that line and division drawing from yours. 188 00:10:14,160 --> 00:10:16,719 Speaker 1: So y'all don't ever come together so he can keep 189 00:10:16,760 --> 00:10:21,040 Speaker 1: these two separate lives going, and that's where you're wrong. 190 00:10:22,520 --> 00:10:27,320 Speaker 1: You should call Horne invite ho over the Thanksgiving. Yeah, 191 00:10:27,640 --> 00:10:31,800 Speaker 1: she should call the woman and invite since y'all y'all 192 00:10:31,880 --> 00:10:35,200 Speaker 1: over there and had a cord conversation. Now let's have 193 00:10:35,240 --> 00:10:38,680 Speaker 1: everybody over the house to Thanksgiving. Yeah, when they get 194 00:10:38,679 --> 00:10:44,280 Speaker 1: over there, don't cook a damn well, ain't got nothing ready, 195 00:10:47,800 --> 00:10:52,400 Speaker 1: didn't have my robe on, and some shouts. Listening to 196 00:10:52,480 --> 00:10:56,160 Speaker 1: b the WBC Heavyweight, tighten a little world. I'm working 197 00:10:56,240 --> 00:10:59,880 Speaker 1: everybody ass in here for Thanksgiving. Now listen to me. 198 00:11:00,000 --> 00:11:01,600 Speaker 1: I'm gonna give your chance to put the baby in 199 00:11:01,600 --> 00:11:04,760 Speaker 1: a swain. Why are we doing our things? Put the 200 00:11:04,800 --> 00:11:07,600 Speaker 1: baby in the swain, but we're not gonna crank it up. 201 00:11:08,360 --> 00:11:09,760 Speaker 1: I don't need him to go to sleep. I need 202 00:11:09,840 --> 00:11:11,600 Speaker 1: him see what's going to have him to a mom 203 00:11:11,640 --> 00:11:16,040 Speaker 1: and it damn baby. He needs to learn some things 204 00:11:16,120 --> 00:11:21,880 Speaker 1: to right. I think it's time for him to man 205 00:11:21,960 --> 00:11:24,360 Speaker 1: them and tell our children about their siblings, leave our 206 00:11:24,400 --> 00:11:26,120 Speaker 1: house and get his life back on track with his 207 00:11:26,160 --> 00:11:28,160 Speaker 1: new family. How do I get through to him that 208 00:11:28,200 --> 00:11:30,640 Speaker 1: it's not okay when I mistakenly made him feel that 209 00:11:30,679 --> 00:11:35,360 Speaker 1: it is. This is where you can build a bridge 210 00:11:35,440 --> 00:11:38,960 Speaker 1: up with water over the bridge. No, no, no, you 211 00:11:39,080 --> 00:11:42,440 Speaker 1: got to let him know at Thanksgiving that this ain't okay. 212 00:11:43,600 --> 00:11:46,160 Speaker 1: That that sit down we had shouldn't have been a 213 00:11:46,280 --> 00:11:49,480 Speaker 1: sit down. It should have been a throwdown. And on 214 00:11:49,720 --> 00:11:53,320 Speaker 1: Thanksgiving had a throwdown that this is after Thanksgiving. So 215 00:11:53,360 --> 00:11:58,680 Speaker 1: we got Christmas coming perfect, perfect, good. If you wreck 216 00:11:58,760 --> 00:12:02,640 Speaker 1: a holiday is memory, it'll be years. Girl. You remember 217 00:12:02,640 --> 00:12:05,760 Speaker 1: that time she invited us old for Christmas. Wasn't no 218 00:12:05,840 --> 00:12:10,960 Speaker 1: tree shovel all the snow out of her yard. She 219 00:12:11,080 --> 00:12:12,959 Speaker 1: got a leaf blower and blew all the snow out 220 00:12:12,960 --> 00:12:15,160 Speaker 1: of y'all ain't know what was happening, girl, I whatever, 221 00:12:15,200 --> 00:12:17,560 Speaker 1: there were no lights went on, and you know, blinking light. 222 00:12:17,920 --> 00:12:20,959 Speaker 1: She hand on Santa Claus hold that DoD man. It 223 00:12:21,040 --> 00:12:23,160 Speaker 1: was about five of her girlfriends, and that all of 224 00:12:23,160 --> 00:12:27,520 Speaker 1: them just had on swimmer talk and brawl, putting vassoline 225 00:12:27,559 --> 00:12:30,120 Speaker 1: on their face and taking the year in off the girl. 226 00:12:30,160 --> 00:12:33,959 Speaker 1: They was in here, the girls, and he ain't know 227 00:12:34,040 --> 00:12:37,240 Speaker 1: what to do. And the baby was in there, just crimped. 228 00:12:37,280 --> 00:12:40,440 Speaker 1: Somebody snapped the baby top, baby shutting. Look. I just said, 229 00:12:40,440 --> 00:12:42,680 Speaker 1: oh man, what's going on up in here? Oh that 230 00:12:42,760 --> 00:12:47,560 Speaker 1: was a crazy Christmas. Who girl, it was a crazy 231 00:12:47,600 --> 00:12:50,640 Speaker 1: ass Christmas up in the hill. Then she had the 232 00:12:50,760 --> 00:12:53,920 Speaker 1: nerve to have or done and half away on this Christmas, 233 00:12:54,080 --> 00:12:57,960 Speaker 1: this Christma, and I said, man, ain't never seen nobody 234 00:12:58,000 --> 00:13:03,800 Speaker 1: fight to this stpid poster comments on today's Strawberry Letter. 235 00:13:04,040 --> 00:13:07,720 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, that's stupid, right. Steve Harvey f them on 236 00:13:07,760 --> 00:13:11,240 Speaker 1: Instagram and Facebook. Check out the Strawberry Letter podcast too, please. 237 00:13:11,720 --> 00:13:14,319 Speaker 1: It's on demand now, coming up at forty six minutes 238 00:13:14,360 --> 00:13:18,120 Speaker 1: after the hour more trending headlines. Right after this, you're 239 00:13:18,160 --> 00:13:20,640 Speaker 1: listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show