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Speaker 1: Hey, Rama, Freddie Rodriguez.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, welcome back to those amigos. Is this part two

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Speaker 2: of our conversation with my Jimmy Churi. I'mna Pacheco. I

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Speaker 2: hear we're going to play a little game.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we are.

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Speaker 2: But before we play a game, we had a few

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Speaker 2: more burning questions. Right, what was your perspective when we

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Speaker 2: first started meeting? I mean, you know you also, I

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Speaker 2: think we should really ask her about this. But but

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Speaker 2: that's a really funny.

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Speaker 1: St She's like, I got a different story.

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Speaker 3: I mean, do you want to talk about why you

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Speaker 3: fell in love with my dad first?

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: So if you've seen like his interviews, you know he's

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Speaker 3: talked a little bit about this. But when Wilmer reached

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Speaker 3: out to me, he had you know, we were just

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Speaker 3: talking and chatting and he had said something in Spanish,

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Speaker 3: and I replied back, oh, you know, I know, I

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Speaker 3: look like I'm just a white girl, but I'm actually

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Speaker 3: my and I know Spanish, like I can understand what

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Speaker 3: you're saying. And then he's like, oh, well, in that case,

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Speaker 3: he starts sending me messages in Spanish, and I'm like,

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Speaker 3: I can understand it, and so I instantly like hit

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Speaker 3: up my dad and I remember this all like so clearly.

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Speaker 3: It's crazy, how vividly, like every piece of this story is.

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Speaker 3: I was like literally lying in my bed. I was

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Speaker 3: like off work that day, and I hit up my

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Speaker 3: dad and I was like, Dad, you know, and I'm

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Speaker 3: telling him everything that's going on, and I'm telling him like, oh,

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Speaker 3: I have to respond to this message because I told

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Speaker 3: this guy that I spoke Spanish and I was fluent,

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Speaker 3: and now I don't know what to say.

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Speaker 4: And so he's like, Okay, well, shoot, what are you saying?

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Speaker 3: So I tell him what he said and he starts

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Speaker 3: laughing and he's just responds right. So I repeat it

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Speaker 3: back to my dad. I'm like, sounds good, Like do

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Speaker 3: I sound good? He's like, yeah, great, send it. Send

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Speaker 3: the message. Boom sends me one immediately after. I was like,

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Speaker 3: so then I have to like I'm like still on

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Speaker 3: the phone with my dad. Meanwhile, my dad is like working,

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Speaker 3: he's trucking, driving on the road, and so I'm like, ah,

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Speaker 3: he messaged me back already, and so I'm like, this

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Speaker 3: is what he said. This goes on for a while,

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Speaker 3: back and forth we're talking. Then he sends me voice

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Speaker 3: message and I'm like, oh, so then so then it's like,

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Speaker 3: you know, it's like next level has to speak it. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: and it gets worse because eventually we have to meet

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Speaker 3: in person and so so yeah, so that goes on

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Speaker 3: and then yeah, we ended up meeting in person.

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Speaker 1: And I'm like, wait, did you answer the voicemail?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it sounded great. I mean I had a really

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Speaker 3: great teacher, so I few, but yeah, and then you

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Speaker 3: know he wants to meet in person, and so we

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Speaker 3: ended up meaning in person.

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Speaker 4: And I remember that like super clear.

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Speaker 3: I drove by and if you've ever been to zinc,

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Speaker 3: you can see, you know, where the outdoor patio is.

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Speaker 3: So when you're driving by, like I saw him sitting

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Speaker 3: there and I'm looking over and I'm like, oh my god, Like,

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Speaker 3: first of all, he's there already, Like am I late?

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Speaker 4: Are you early on time? I don't know, but you.

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Speaker 3: Were sitting there, and I remember there was no parking.

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Speaker 3: I just moved to LA and I'm just realizing like, wow,

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Speaker 4: This is crazy madness place.

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Speaker 3: But there was Valet and so I'm like, I'm from Rockland,

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Speaker 3: Like there's not Valet, Like no one valets and so

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Speaker 3: I remember I parked really far away because I was like,

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Speaker 3: so I parked super far away. And then I'm walking

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Speaker 3: up I see him and then I but I remember again,

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Speaker 3: I'm on the phone with my dad like as I'm

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Speaker 3: driving there, and I'm like, oh my god, I see him.

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Speaker 3: And we were joking that I was going to need

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Speaker 3: uh but yeah, I mean he realized quickly that I was.

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Speaker 2: Actually not speaking Spanish to me.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and he's like, so who was who was that?

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Speaker 3: And then then your dad and I was like, wow,

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Speaker 5: Come to Yeah, should come to coffee, because so interested,

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Speaker 5: but there's there's sense of humor, was so alike and

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Speaker 5: so and then I met her dad and I was like,

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Speaker 2: So he's he's such a great friend to me and

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Speaker 2: and such a beautiful member of her family and it's

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Speaker 2: just it's just so fun. But anyway, so his father,

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Speaker 2: his father, her father made it, you know, like such

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Speaker 2: for him to meet my father. And then it was magical.

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Speaker 2: My dad is like my dad is like a party

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Speaker 2: in a small little kitchen. Like he just likes to

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Speaker 2: cook and hosts people and all that. And as soon

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Speaker 2: as Armando and my dad met, it was like instant

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Speaker 2: compared instant compa I can see that. Oh my god,

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Speaker 2: they laugh all the time. My dad cooks him dinner

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Speaker 2: every night. It's like the whole thing. But he just

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Speaker 2: became such a strong and important member of our family.

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Speaker 2: And then you know, we made this decision that like,

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Speaker 2: you know, we we got engaged.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so yeah, so how many months after your dating

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Speaker 1: that you got.

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Speaker 4: Engaged It was more like seconds, I think, No, it

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Speaker 4: was like a year.

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Speaker 2: It was about a year.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it was about a year.

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Speaker 2: And well, you know, you know, but also also like

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Speaker 2: we were at a point of our lives and our

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Speaker 2: age where we're like, okay, you know, what do we

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Speaker 2: want from life? You know, and and it felt to

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Speaker 2: me like our worlds were aligning and the fact that

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Speaker 2: our interests were, you know, finding its place at the

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Speaker 2: right time, at the right place. So when we got engaged,

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Speaker 2: during that year, we were on a bunch of trips

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Speaker 2: together and one of those trips was to Japan. And

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Speaker 2: when we were to Japan, that's when we said I

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Speaker 2: love you to each other for the first time. And

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Speaker 2: that's when our conversation was like, okay, what are our

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Speaker 2: intentions here? You know. So when we had this conversation,

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Speaker 2: you know, it felt like we were on the same

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Speaker 2: place at the sun. You know, we were at the

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Speaker 2: same mindset and and we realized that what we were

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Speaker 2: with each other was a family. And then as soon

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Speaker 2: as that happened, we you know, we were engaged and

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Speaker 2: the whole thing. And and then all of a sudden

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Speaker 2: middle of planning a wedding. And then during COVID they're like, oh,

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Speaker 2: it's going to be done in April. They said, okay, well,

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Speaker 2: and then when he wasn't that in April, they were like, okay,

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Speaker 2: so what's more important to us the wedding or started

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Speaker 2: a family, And that's when the kind of became a possibility. So,

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Speaker 2: but that was such an interesting time too. I remember,

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Speaker 2: you have to experience so many things on our own

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Speaker 2: really because it was COVID, you know, like you have

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Speaker 2: to have your first how was how was.

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Speaker 1: So during COVID, what was the biggest surprise about each other?

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Speaker 1: That you that you realized I mean, because right you're

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Speaker 1: forced to be with yes in each other's face. Like

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Speaker 1: what was what was what was the biggest surprise for me?

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Speaker 3: I guess for me it was like even further back,

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Speaker 3: like when we were traveling a bunch, like just his

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Speaker 3: level of patience with me, because I feel like I'm

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Speaker 3: not like super you know, complicated, but I definitely like

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Speaker 3: traveling like I was like, you know, sometimes we'd get

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Speaker 3: he'd be like checklists, like do you have this?

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Speaker 4: You have this? Yeah, I've got everything.

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Speaker 3: We get to the airport, I'm like I don't have

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Speaker 3: like a lot of, you know instances where like I

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Speaker 3: got to sell like see so many sides of him

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Speaker 3: so differently to so many different like scenarios that I

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Speaker 3: put ourselves in, And when I saw how he handled

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Speaker 3: those situations, I was like, Okay, like wow, this person

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Speaker 3: has you know, so much just like patience.

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Speaker 4: For me, and like I don't know just I was.

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Speaker 3: I was pleasantly surprised at like how like gentle you

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Speaker 3: are with like you know, how you handle situations.

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Speaker 2: I feel so seen the first time. No my advice

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Speaker 2: versa though. I mean, like I told this story for

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Speaker 2: probably three years. We go to Houston, Texas. We're going

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Speaker 2: there for Comic Poloosa, and I'm HOSTINGLUSA with the two

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Speaker 2: lead girls of Game of Throns and we're there and

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Speaker 2: then it's like a lot of work and we're doing

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Speaker 2: this thing and I'm there and I'm like, okay, they

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Speaker 2: night before whatever, like let's just I'm gonna take a

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Speaker 2: little nap, you know. When I wake up from the nap,

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Speaker 2: my clothes were were hanging and there was a steamer

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Speaker 2: And I was like, somebody come up and doing that stuff.

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Speaker 2: And I was asked her who who steamed my clothes?

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Speaker 2: And she was like I did, And I said, what,

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Speaker 2: Stuff's wrankled, like I'm probably not right, and then she

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Speaker 2: And I was like, oh okay, Like you know, I've

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Speaker 2: interesting moment, right, Like it's like to to to do that.

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Speaker 2: But the point I'm making with the the Houston thing,

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Speaker 2: get a steamer? And she had like order it the

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Speaker 2: because she was most likely going to use it and

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Speaker 2: then she used it on my shirts and then here.

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Speaker 3: And you tell that story so many times makes me

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Speaker 3: realize that I should probably give you more stories like

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Speaker 3: that to tell.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, because that's that stories.

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Speaker 1: What is it?

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Speaker 2: Seven years old? And now you know definitely went the

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Speaker 2: other way around. No, I'm kidding, No, that's meaningful. That's

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Speaker 2: very meaningful to ye. But that was all those first

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Speaker 2: instances where like, same thing, we were noticing different aspects

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Speaker 2: of how we were treating one another in that moment,

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Speaker 2: and it just kind of paved the road for the

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Speaker 2: for the possibility. You know. But I know in so

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Speaker 2: many ways, the arrival of our family. Yea father, yeah,

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Speaker 2: now his fatherhood and motherhood and and uh, you know,

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Speaker 2: she makes it look easy. You know, she makes it

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Speaker 2: look really easy. I was I was a sitar zign

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Speaker 2: night twice now witnessing her bring uh two miracles of

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Speaker 2: children into into our world. And I always say this, like,

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Speaker 2: and we don't deserve the sacrifice that women go through

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Speaker 2: to you know, to bring you know, children into into

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Speaker 2: our world. And and it's something just like extraordinary, you know,

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Speaker 2: to to watch it, to see it, to experience it,

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Speaker 2: any man. And you know, she did it with a smile.

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Speaker 3: But it's like, you know, it's that have different finesss,

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Speaker 4: I've definitely seen you like tears?

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Speaker 1: It's just like a tears.

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Speaker 2: you know it is it? No, no, not that I'm notxious.

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Speaker 4: You hold it together.

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Speaker 2: I dude, I cried a K Pop Demon Hunter. Yes

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Speaker 2: I cried that one. And if you've seen the movie

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Speaker 2: and you're home, you watch the movie, you know exactly

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Speaker 2: what part of talking. Who is more likely this is

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Speaker 2: my voice without the lies? Okay.

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Speaker 1: Who is more likely to say let's order in instead

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Speaker 1: of cooking?

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Speaker 2: Yeah me?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you love ordering food?

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Speaker 2: I do love or food. You're right. I also do

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Speaker 2: love cooking.

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Speaker 3: I love really, I love like My version of that

448
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Speaker 3: is like me saying what I want and then like

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Speaker 3: cooking together is like me telling you what I want

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Speaker 3: and then you're cooking and it's my pleasure.

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Speaker 1: Who is more likely to buy something off of Instagram ads?

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Speaker 2: Instagram as This is the wrong question, Amazon, Amazon, It's

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Speaker 2: probably the right question. Who do you think will be?

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Speaker 4: I mean, I don't leave the house much.

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Speaker 3: Okay, so min offense, I have to shop online. But

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Speaker 3: you did just recently get influenced by watching Blippy, did

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Speaker 3: you not?

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Speaker 2: Oh? Yes, I was from Blippy and I found the

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Speaker 2: company that made these bats, so that you know that

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Speaker 2: they were making that baseball bats. I was like, oh,

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Speaker 2: those are cool, okay, and I bought two of them

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Speaker 2: and I went I watch watching Blippy and then I

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Speaker 2: was like, what was this company? I was the name

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Speaker 2: of the company, and I went to their Instagram account

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Speaker 2: and then I found the shop store and I bought

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Speaker 2: two bats to baseball bats from And so that was Blippy.

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Speaker 2: Not as embarrassing as Amazon, I don't think. But Amazon,

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Speaker 2: you know my my my email is also linked to

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Speaker 2: that account, to the Amazon to the Amazon account, and

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Speaker 2: so to her credit, she will buy a lot of

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Speaker 2: little things. She's always looking for the best price. She

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Speaker 2: ever wants to buy anything full price because she knows

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Speaker 2: she can find it somewhere else for fifty percent off,

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Speaker 2: and she normally does so. She's like a lot of

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Speaker 2: little things that she buys and then like the next

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Speaker 2: day I get like ten e mils about her returns.

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Speaker 2: She returns a lot of stuff. But it is it's

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Speaker 2: it's you know, it's I agree with her, Like, let's

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Speaker 2: let's feel the toy. Is it cools? What is the thing?

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Speaker 2: You know, Let's let's shop.

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Speaker 4: Let's sometimes you just late night shop.

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Speaker 3: Me. You buy all these things, and all of a sudden,

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Speaker 3: I'm like, why do I have so many of these

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Speaker 3: fuzzy onesies?

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Speaker 2: Liken sit out to Amazon. You know she's here her

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Speaker 2: first sponsorship.

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Speaker 1: Man who is more likely to lose their keys or

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Speaker 1: phone more often?

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Speaker 2: Hello, definitely not me.

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Speaker 4: I have like severe adhd I.

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Speaker 3: Several times, Oh yeah, keys too, But like luckily Nikano,

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Speaker 3: she is on it. So anytime like I leave my

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Speaker 3: phone around, she's she keeps tabs on where my phones

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Speaker 3: at and my keys? Actually, like I'll get in the

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Speaker 3: car and it's like hot here, and I'll like get

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Speaker 3: in the car and I'm like shooting all my keys

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Speaker 3: and she's like, mom, you left them in your other purse.

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Speaker 4: And I'm like, wow, s show she remembers.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, she's like, I told you not to leave them there.

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Speaker 1: Ah. So who's more likely to stay up way too

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Speaker 1: late scrolling on her phone?

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Speaker 4: I hate that question?

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Speaker 3: Why because we both are so bad at it?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yes, I mean mine is like mine's a combination,

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00:27:42,720 --> 00:27:45,040
Speaker 2: you know, it's a combination. It's like I can't stop

506
00:27:45,080 --> 00:27:48,840
Speaker 2: scrolling through emails or answering emails or texting people back

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Speaker 2: that I haven't they didn't text from ten in the

508
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Speaker 2: morning it's now nine pm. And then like sometimes my

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Speaker 2: compression is fun is watching like really stupid comedy, Like

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Speaker 2: you know how many funny ship I send you in

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Speaker 2: the middle of the night, take one am, and I'm

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Speaker 2: probably saying you some really stupid stuff on Instagram, But

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Speaker 2: I just like to laugh. So it's my problem. Yeah, yeah,

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00:28:09,800 --> 00:28:11,359
Speaker 2: and I have a problem with it for sure.

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Speaker 1: Who's more likely to befriend a stranger instantly at a party?

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Speaker 4: Also, you.

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00:28:19,920 --> 00:28:22,600
Speaker 2: I can't stop talking to strangers. It's my favorite thing. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: maybe is it not?

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Speaker 1: You're you're a people person.

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Speaker 2: I love it? Yeah, I love it? Am I wrong?

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Speaker 4: No, it's accurate.

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Speaker 1: Who's more likely to binge watch a show from start

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Speaker 1: to finishing a weekend? And and what shows are you

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Speaker 1: all watching?

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Speaker 3: Do you think it's because I just have like a

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00:28:41,720 --> 00:28:43,719
Speaker 3: little more time than you needed to watch stuff?

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00:28:43,960 --> 00:28:47,480
Speaker 2: No, I lose interest quick. I lose interest quick, Like

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Speaker 2: I know if the series is Yeah, that told me

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Speaker 2: I want or two. But you really give it a shot?

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, Like if I start something, I have to

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Speaker 3: watch it because otherwise I'll never watch it again.

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Speaker 4: So yeah, me.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. What's the one thing about woman that people don't know?

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Speaker 3: Mmm mm hmmm, I don't know.

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Speaker 2: Let's see. It's a good question.

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Speaker 3: That's a good question. There's really no surprises, like you

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Speaker 3: are what you get?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Uh? Do people know that you have to order a

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Speaker 3: hot dog every time you're to the movie theater?

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Speaker 4: Is that news?

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Speaker 3: Oh that you didn't know that?

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Speaker 4: The shots.

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Speaker 3: And not just what but like you have to order

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Speaker 3: two hot dogs? Like I.

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Speaker 2: Feel attacked.

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00:29:48,920 --> 00:29:50,680
Speaker 1: I feel attacked.

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Speaker 3: When we walk into the theater, like you are in line,

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Speaker 3: I'm like, what are you doing? We just had dinner,

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Speaker 3: like he has to get too hot dogs.

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Speaker 2: It's a weird thing. She's absolutely right, it's a weird thing.

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Speaker 2: I could have just had a full on you know,

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Speaker 2: meet sauce pasta with garlic, bread and like dessert. And

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Speaker 2: I'm like, so let's go watch some movie. I literally

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Speaker 2: I am hypnotized by the kids. I go straight to

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Speaker 2: it and I go two hot dogs, now, one, two

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Speaker 2: hot dogs? You're sure? And I said on my shore, yeah,

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Speaker 2: two hot dogs, and you know, must catch up. And

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Speaker 2: then I put hell openions on it, like the pickle

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Speaker 2: hell opinions, and then it's party one for I have

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Speaker 2: one hot dog for the trailers, and then one hot.

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Speaker 1: Dog for is it because like when you were a kid,

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Speaker 1: it was like traditions, So you're keeping tradition up or what.

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Speaker 2: It's a weird thing.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah yeah.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Amanda, thank you so much for being on the show.

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Speaker 4: Thanks for having me.

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Speaker 1: We're very grateful. Thank you for allowing us to occupy

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Speaker 1: the space in your home.

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Speaker 2: Every every every episode. Sure, and and and and texting

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Speaker 2: her till that kind of the start. You know, do

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Speaker 2: those heels a lot smoother and softer, you know.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you have such a beautiful family, such beautiful children,

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Speaker 1: and you and your pop is so cool and even

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Speaker 1: your extended friends you dove with who I've had the

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Speaker 1: pleasure to sit down and chat with, and it's just, uh,

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Speaker 1: you know, indicative of who you are. So thank you

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Speaker 1: so much for being with us today. Thank yeah, I'm

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Speaker 1: Freddie Rodriguez.

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Speaker 2: And Wilman about Durama. Thank you for watching Those Amigos,

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Speaker 2: watching and listening to Those Amigos where you got your podcast,

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Speaker 2: and thank you Freddie for leading this conversation with my

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Speaker 2: absolute better half with Banks.

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Speaker 1: The better Half with Banks. Those Amigos is a production

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Speaker 1: from WV Sound and iHeartMedia's Michael through That Podcast Network,

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Speaker 1: hosted by Me, Freddie Rodriguez and wilm of Valdorama.

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Speaker 2: Those Amigos is produced by Aaron burs and Sophie Spencer Zabos.

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Speaker 1: and Leo Clem at WV Sound.

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Speaker 2: and mixed by Sean Tracy and features original music by

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Speaker 2: Madison Devenport and Halo Boy.

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Speaker 2: Clau And thank you for being there third amigo today.

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Speaker 2: I appreciate you guys always listening to those amigos.

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