1 00:00:00,760 --> 00:00:03,800 Speaker 1: This is the Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous podcast 2 00:00:03,840 --> 00:00:04,680 Speaker 1: with iHeartRadio. 3 00:00:05,880 --> 00:00:08,600 Speaker 2: Hey guys, welcome back to the Almost Samos podcast. It's 4 00:00:08,680 --> 00:00:11,560 Speaker 2: me and today we've got og bachelor Bob breaking down 5 00:00:11,560 --> 00:00:14,440 Speaker 2: the latest episode of Paradise with me. Hey, Bob, thank 6 00:00:14,440 --> 00:00:16,360 Speaker 2: you so much for doing this while Ben is away 7 00:00:16,400 --> 00:00:19,239 Speaker 2: in Italy getting so much deserved rest of his family. 8 00:00:19,960 --> 00:00:22,560 Speaker 3: Yes, thank you, Ashley. I it's exciting to see you. 9 00:00:23,120 --> 00:00:27,120 Speaker 2: So nice to see you too. So this episode I 10 00:00:27,280 --> 00:00:31,440 Speaker 2: rate it very highly. Maybe my favorite episode of Paradise 11 00:00:31,520 --> 00:00:34,000 Speaker 2: this season. What are you about you? I? 12 00:00:34,200 --> 00:00:36,360 Speaker 4: You know, I was it was like drinking through a 13 00:00:36,360 --> 00:00:38,599 Speaker 4: fire hose because there was so much going on in 14 00:00:38,600 --> 00:00:41,800 Speaker 4: this episode, which I was. I was kind of like 15 00:00:41,840 --> 00:00:43,880 Speaker 4: of the mindset where I was like, Oh my god, 16 00:00:43,960 --> 00:00:45,960 Speaker 4: how much more can they squeeze into this thing? 17 00:00:46,520 --> 00:00:48,239 Speaker 3: And it was kind of crazy. 18 00:00:48,360 --> 00:00:51,279 Speaker 4: So yeah, for me, I won't say it was one 19 00:00:51,320 --> 00:00:54,120 Speaker 4: of my favorites, but I will say it was definitely. 20 00:00:54,400 --> 00:00:57,560 Speaker 4: There was a lot going on, and so in that regard, 21 00:00:57,600 --> 00:00:58,800 Speaker 4: I found it pretty interesting. 22 00:00:59,040 --> 00:01:02,600 Speaker 2: I think I was really starting to root for couples. 23 00:01:02,720 --> 00:01:06,320 Speaker 2: And when I say couples, I really mean one who 24 00:01:06,440 --> 00:01:08,880 Speaker 2: is your Before I revealed my favorite who's your favorite 25 00:01:08,880 --> 00:01:10,280 Speaker 2: couple right now? Who do you feel is the most 26 00:01:10,280 --> 00:01:12,800 Speaker 2: genuine and long term Well. 27 00:01:13,160 --> 00:01:17,679 Speaker 4: God, it's tough because my favorite couple was still Keith 28 00:01:17,680 --> 00:01:21,080 Speaker 4: and Kathy, which I know is not gonna be I 29 00:01:21,120 --> 00:01:23,399 Speaker 4: just I love that they have like just taken on 30 00:01:23,480 --> 00:01:25,840 Speaker 4: the role of being like counselor to everyone, which I 31 00:01:25,920 --> 00:01:29,520 Speaker 4: kind of thought might happen. But you know, I found 32 00:01:29,640 --> 00:01:37,119 Speaker 4: myself today for whatever reason, finding the whole Spencer and. 33 00:01:36,640 --> 00:01:37,640 Speaker 3: Is it Spencer and Jess. 34 00:01:37,959 --> 00:01:38,280 Speaker 4: Is that that? 35 00:01:38,680 --> 00:01:39,240 Speaker 3: Yeah? 36 00:01:39,360 --> 00:01:41,760 Speaker 4: I found them to be a lot more interesting today. 37 00:01:42,280 --> 00:01:44,720 Speaker 4: But I actually started rooting for Andrew and Alex more 38 00:01:44,760 --> 00:01:46,600 Speaker 4: today exactly. 39 00:01:47,280 --> 00:01:47,880 Speaker 3: That was me. 40 00:01:48,080 --> 00:01:50,120 Speaker 2: I was like, Okay, wait, they are a serious couple 41 00:01:50,440 --> 00:01:54,000 Speaker 2: and I care about their well being. Yeah, They're the 42 00:01:54,000 --> 00:01:57,120 Speaker 2: ones that I'm rooting to go all the way. There's 43 00:01:57,600 --> 00:02:01,240 Speaker 2: a friendship foundation there for sure. I think that they 44 00:02:01,320 --> 00:02:05,880 Speaker 2: are going in the right direction upward. And I think 45 00:02:06,240 --> 00:02:11,560 Speaker 2: Jess and Spencer perhaps they're putting a little like storyline 46 00:02:11,600 --> 00:02:14,640 Speaker 2: of doubt and maybe it's not that big of a deal, 47 00:02:16,400 --> 00:02:18,720 Speaker 2: but I just try to put myself in my in 48 00:02:18,760 --> 00:02:21,919 Speaker 2: the position that I was in if Jared during Bachelor 49 00:02:21,919 --> 00:02:24,320 Speaker 2: in Paradise was ever like I'm ready to move in 50 00:02:24,320 --> 00:02:29,440 Speaker 2: in three months. I would have been like, yeah. 51 00:02:28,160 --> 00:02:30,679 Speaker 4: See, That's the thing that's so crazy is like, first 52 00:02:30,680 --> 00:02:33,480 Speaker 4: of all, I don't know. I've been with Canyon for 53 00:02:33,520 --> 00:02:37,080 Speaker 4: thirteen years and we have been we're married, and we 54 00:02:37,160 --> 00:02:39,960 Speaker 4: have kids and we live together, of course, and I 55 00:02:40,040 --> 00:02:42,000 Speaker 4: don't think I've ever said those things to her, Like, 56 00:02:42,040 --> 00:02:44,400 Speaker 4: I don't think I ever said, Okay, my plan is 57 00:02:44,440 --> 00:02:46,880 Speaker 4: we're gonna have kids in about you know, three years, 58 00:02:47,120 --> 00:02:47,600 Speaker 4: but that's. 59 00:02:47,520 --> 00:02:48,400 Speaker 3: Kind of long for me. 60 00:02:48,800 --> 00:02:51,600 Speaker 4: Then I definitely want to have us living together immediately upon, 61 00:02:52,040 --> 00:02:53,120 Speaker 4: you know, leaving this island. 62 00:02:53,400 --> 00:02:55,920 Speaker 3: I'm just like, like, what dude does this? You know, 63 00:02:55,960 --> 00:02:57,440 Speaker 3: it's kind of a lot and. 64 00:02:57,360 --> 00:02:59,840 Speaker 2: Not a lot of guys, but I know that if 65 00:02:59,880 --> 00:03:03,040 Speaker 2: I I liked somebody enough, and there's so many different personalities, 66 00:03:03,080 --> 00:03:06,600 Speaker 2: so I'm speaking for myself and not for her. She 67 00:03:06,880 --> 00:03:10,120 Speaker 2: seemed freaked out by it. And if I was totally 68 00:03:10,160 --> 00:03:14,000 Speaker 2: in love with someone, I would I would be kind 69 00:03:14,000 --> 00:03:18,520 Speaker 2: of all in on his plan. He does want to 70 00:03:18,560 --> 00:03:23,639 Speaker 2: move fast, and he also there was also the part 71 00:03:23,680 --> 00:03:26,359 Speaker 2: where he's like, I am in love with her and 72 00:03:26,440 --> 00:03:29,000 Speaker 2: she says she's not ready to say that yet. 73 00:03:29,160 --> 00:03:31,480 Speaker 3: Well, what's crazy though, was like I swear to god. 74 00:03:31,520 --> 00:03:32,200 Speaker 3: Two weeks ago. 75 00:03:32,320 --> 00:03:34,200 Speaker 4: She was the one who was like, this is our 76 00:03:34,320 --> 00:03:38,040 Speaker 4: last ever first date, and you know, like I remember 77 00:03:38,080 --> 00:03:39,440 Speaker 4: like when they got the date and she's like, this 78 00:03:39,520 --> 00:03:41,320 Speaker 4: is this was our first date and it's going to 79 00:03:41,320 --> 00:03:43,000 Speaker 4: be the last ever first date either one of us 80 00:03:43,040 --> 00:03:45,839 Speaker 4: ever have, Like she started this. So then for him 81 00:03:45,880 --> 00:03:48,600 Speaker 4: to be now like reacting to that and responding to that, 82 00:03:48,680 --> 00:03:50,800 Speaker 4: and for her to act like she's scared to death 83 00:03:50,840 --> 00:03:52,720 Speaker 4: of it is almost kind of like, what the hell, lady, 84 00:03:52,760 --> 00:03:54,720 Speaker 4: this is what you said you wanted and now he's 85 00:03:54,760 --> 00:03:55,280 Speaker 4: giving it. 86 00:03:55,160 --> 00:03:58,480 Speaker 3: To you and you're freaking out, you know. Yeah, yeah, 87 00:03:59,400 --> 00:04:01,120 Speaker 3: but yeah. So with Alex. 88 00:04:00,880 --> 00:04:02,560 Speaker 4: Andandrew, I was going to say, the reason why I 89 00:04:02,720 --> 00:04:05,320 Speaker 4: liked what was going on there so much was it 90 00:04:05,360 --> 00:04:09,560 Speaker 4: was like they were both too timid to tell each 91 00:04:09,600 --> 00:04:12,840 Speaker 4: other they were falling in love. And then she's like, 92 00:04:12,880 --> 00:04:14,360 Speaker 4: oh my god, I'm gonna be the first one to 93 00:04:14,360 --> 00:04:14,600 Speaker 4: do this. 94 00:04:14,640 --> 00:04:16,159 Speaker 3: Oh my god. And he goes, hold on, hold on, 95 00:04:16,680 --> 00:04:17,760 Speaker 3: I'm falling in love with you. 96 00:04:17,839 --> 00:04:20,320 Speaker 4: Like he what I really liked about that he was 97 00:04:20,440 --> 00:04:22,440 Speaker 4: like protecting her, you know, and like you don't have 98 00:04:22,480 --> 00:04:24,320 Speaker 4: to say it first, I'll say it, you know, which 99 00:04:24,360 --> 00:04:25,279 Speaker 4: I thought was really sweet. 100 00:04:25,600 --> 00:04:28,159 Speaker 2: It was so cute. Maybe I also find them to 101 00:04:28,160 --> 00:04:30,640 Speaker 2: be like the most relatable. They're both a little bit 102 00:04:30,720 --> 00:04:35,039 Speaker 2: like I wouldn't say awkward. Maybe sometimes she's awkward, but 103 00:04:35,040 --> 00:04:39,039 Speaker 2: in a very endearing not like ooh, cringey awkward, but 104 00:04:39,080 --> 00:04:43,240 Speaker 2: like in an adorable, endearing awkward. I just feel like 105 00:04:43,320 --> 00:04:46,840 Speaker 2: there's just like a lot of genuine goodness between them. 106 00:04:47,279 --> 00:04:52,360 Speaker 2: And I don't even consider Dale and Kat to like 107 00:04:52,560 --> 00:04:55,880 Speaker 2: be like an actual option here, and I guess neither do. 108 00:04:56,000 --> 00:04:59,880 Speaker 2: I think Jeremy and Bailey because both of them we've 109 00:05:00,120 --> 00:05:04,600 Speaker 2: seen on camera have struggles before, and like their struggles 110 00:05:04,640 --> 00:05:06,919 Speaker 2: that I'm not like, I don't think that were overcome. 111 00:05:06,960 --> 00:05:11,400 Speaker 2: I think they were truly brushed aside daily Kat, he 112 00:05:11,640 --> 00:05:16,400 Speaker 2: said some crazy stuff about her. She did not trust him. 113 00:05:16,760 --> 00:05:19,080 Speaker 2: They both made each other worried, like they both had 114 00:05:19,160 --> 00:05:23,039 Speaker 2: traits that they so worried about and somehow like it 115 00:05:23,320 --> 00:05:28,000 Speaker 2: was sweeped away. It was swept away. And the same 116 00:05:28,200 --> 00:05:30,640 Speaker 2: with Jeremy Bailey, like we just know that he was 117 00:05:30,800 --> 00:05:37,320 Speaker 2: all after Susan and like she forgave him for that, 118 00:05:37,560 --> 00:05:41,480 Speaker 2: And I don't know that the audience ever really trusted 119 00:05:41,560 --> 00:05:44,560 Speaker 2: that he is as in on Bailey as he says, 120 00:05:44,600 --> 00:05:45,200 Speaker 2: he is. 121 00:05:45,760 --> 00:05:47,520 Speaker 3: Yeah, Yeah, it's interesting. 122 00:05:47,560 --> 00:05:50,680 Speaker 4: There's definitely a lot of like I almost feel like that, 123 00:05:51,200 --> 00:05:54,880 Speaker 4: you know how, like the formulaic version of The Bachelor. 124 00:05:54,960 --> 00:05:57,120 Speaker 4: I mean, I'm going back a long ways, like back 125 00:05:57,160 --> 00:05:59,640 Speaker 4: when I was the Bachelor, they would always make you 126 00:05:59,680 --> 00:06:02,159 Speaker 4: think and it was editing, it was, it was, but 127 00:06:02,200 --> 00:06:04,120 Speaker 4: they would always make you think the runner up was 128 00:06:04,120 --> 00:06:06,240 Speaker 4: the one who was going to be the woman that 129 00:06:06,279 --> 00:06:09,120 Speaker 4: got the ring right, and so you were almost disappointed 130 00:06:09,800 --> 00:06:11,680 Speaker 4: when when you would watch the show and you'd see 131 00:06:11,720 --> 00:06:13,200 Speaker 4: the other person get the ring, You're. 132 00:06:13,080 --> 00:06:14,840 Speaker 3: Like, oh, well, I thought it was gonna be Debbie, 133 00:06:14,880 --> 00:06:15,080 Speaker 3: you know. 134 00:06:15,400 --> 00:06:17,359 Speaker 4: And it's almost like they're doing that with Dale and 135 00:06:17,440 --> 00:06:19,440 Speaker 4: Kat to us right now, Like they're pushing them so 136 00:06:19,560 --> 00:06:22,040 Speaker 4: hard on us that I'm like, something's going to blow 137 00:06:22,120 --> 00:06:23,600 Speaker 4: up on this, Like the wheels are coming off this 138 00:06:23,760 --> 00:06:26,640 Speaker 4: at some point. I just don't know when, and you know, 139 00:06:26,720 --> 00:06:28,680 Speaker 4: it's kind of like waiting for this all to happen. 140 00:06:28,720 --> 00:06:30,920 Speaker 3: But the only reason I'm just a skeptic. 141 00:06:31,040 --> 00:06:32,840 Speaker 4: So it's like when I watched the show, I'm always 142 00:06:32,839 --> 00:06:34,960 Speaker 4: thinking that they're manipulating me somehow. 143 00:06:34,960 --> 00:06:35,320 Speaker 3: Somewhay. 144 00:06:35,400 --> 00:06:38,919 Speaker 2: We've also seen them in like relationships in the past 145 00:06:39,040 --> 00:06:43,120 Speaker 2: that have blown up in a sort of toxic way. Yeah, 146 00:06:43,680 --> 00:06:45,920 Speaker 2: you know where it was just like, oh it wasn't 147 00:06:46,640 --> 00:06:50,200 Speaker 2: we weally with kindness, would like to separate, blah blah blah. 148 00:06:50,240 --> 00:06:53,000 Speaker 4: Like it was just like, we respect our privacy. 149 00:06:53,279 --> 00:06:54,000 Speaker 3: There's none of that. 150 00:06:54,480 --> 00:06:57,479 Speaker 2: There are two really big egos too. I love Kat 151 00:06:57,520 --> 00:07:00,520 Speaker 2: like I think she's the greatest reality star, but I 152 00:07:00,560 --> 00:07:04,640 Speaker 2: also like know that the two of them together are 153 00:07:04,800 --> 00:07:08,839 Speaker 2: just too big and together they're gonna have too big 154 00:07:08,920 --> 00:07:11,080 Speaker 2: of problems. This is just my two cents per Bason 155 00:07:11,120 --> 00:07:13,760 Speaker 2: what I watched on TV. All Right, so let's get 156 00:07:13,800 --> 00:07:17,920 Speaker 2: into the specifics about this episode. First challenge, loved it, 157 00:07:18,600 --> 00:07:23,560 Speaker 2: one of my one of my one of the like 158 00:07:23,640 --> 00:07:28,000 Speaker 2: group day challenges. Whatever that like truly can tell you 159 00:07:28,080 --> 00:07:31,600 Speaker 2: about someone. Oh, they have to go glamping. They have 160 00:07:31,680 --> 00:07:34,080 Speaker 2: to set up a campsite, so they have to like 161 00:07:34,160 --> 00:07:38,040 Speaker 2: supposedly set up their home. And this is gonna this 162 00:07:38,120 --> 00:07:41,360 Speaker 2: is great. Yeah that working together and trying to put 163 00:07:41,400 --> 00:07:46,680 Speaker 2: something together physically is a great test of compatibility. 164 00:07:46,880 --> 00:07:48,600 Speaker 3: Well, and it's hot as hell. 165 00:07:49,000 --> 00:07:54,160 Speaker 4: There's sweating, there's bugs everywhere, there's cow crap, horse crap 166 00:07:54,200 --> 00:07:54,760 Speaker 4: all over the place. 167 00:07:54,960 --> 00:07:56,880 Speaker 3: It's like, you know, anything that they can do to 168 00:07:56,920 --> 00:07:58,760 Speaker 3: make it uncomfortable they're doing. 169 00:07:58,840 --> 00:08:02,320 Speaker 4: And these people have to figure out, you know, everything's broken, right, 170 00:08:02,440 --> 00:08:05,280 Speaker 4: chairs are broken, you know, so they're seeing is this 171 00:08:05,320 --> 00:08:07,240 Speaker 4: guy going to be a gentleman in this moment or 172 00:08:07,320 --> 00:08:08,720 Speaker 4: is he going to be like, you know, I'll take 173 00:08:08,760 --> 00:08:10,080 Speaker 4: them not broken chair. 174 00:08:11,040 --> 00:08:13,480 Speaker 3: It's it's interesting to watch it. 175 00:08:13,480 --> 00:08:15,920 Speaker 4: It's funny because then they have, you know, unbeknownst to them, 176 00:08:15,960 --> 00:08:20,240 Speaker 4: they have a relationship expert watching the whole thing unfold 177 00:08:20,360 --> 00:08:22,560 Speaker 4: and and you know, taking notes on how the whole 178 00:08:22,560 --> 00:08:25,880 Speaker 4: thing kind of plays out, which I thought was pretty 179 00:08:25,880 --> 00:08:29,600 Speaker 4: interesting because you know, they obviously forgot they were on 180 00:08:29,600 --> 00:08:30,760 Speaker 4: a reality show, which, by the. 181 00:08:30,720 --> 00:08:33,080 Speaker 3: Way, I have been loving all the little chiron things. 182 00:08:33,120 --> 00:08:38,559 Speaker 4: But they're like, uh, you know buffering, Yeah, yeah. I 183 00:08:38,600 --> 00:08:40,679 Speaker 4: think they even said to someone, you know, like I 184 00:08:40,720 --> 00:08:42,320 Speaker 4: think it was it might have been Alex who was like, 185 00:08:42,320 --> 00:08:45,520 Speaker 4: you know, I can't believe they had a relationship counselor there. 186 00:08:45,360 --> 00:08:46,559 Speaker 3: And they were watching us the whole time. 187 00:08:46,600 --> 00:08:48,360 Speaker 4: We didn't know it, and all of a sudden, her 188 00:08:48,360 --> 00:08:49,880 Speaker 4: thing under her name, so I forgot she was on 189 00:08:49,920 --> 00:08:50,920 Speaker 4: a reality show. 190 00:08:50,720 --> 00:08:55,960 Speaker 2: Exactly that they're breaking the fourth wall and like referring 191 00:08:56,000 --> 00:08:58,559 Speaker 2: to the show a lot that I like it's tongue 192 00:08:58,559 --> 00:08:59,040 Speaker 2: and jacin. 193 00:08:59,480 --> 00:09:03,199 Speaker 4: Yeah, that was interesting though, but you're right, it was 194 00:09:03,280 --> 00:09:05,400 Speaker 4: kind of crazy because it's a barn burner hot out 195 00:09:05,440 --> 00:09:09,199 Speaker 4: there Cat. I honestly think this date was specifically designed 196 00:09:09,520 --> 00:09:12,320 Speaker 4: to make Cat lose her mind, Like they were probably like, 197 00:09:12,360 --> 00:09:14,439 Speaker 4: you know, we kind of need the old cat back. 198 00:09:14,480 --> 00:09:16,839 Speaker 4: She's been too chill on this season. We got to 199 00:09:16,840 --> 00:09:19,240 Speaker 4: get her back to her meltdown moments. Let's let's do 200 00:09:19,400 --> 00:09:21,120 Speaker 4: some bugs in the mix. I swear that's how it 201 00:09:21,120 --> 00:09:22,040 Speaker 4: feels to be bugs. 202 00:09:22,080 --> 00:09:25,960 Speaker 2: They're not that bad Cat, but apparently bad phobia. Dale 203 00:09:26,240 --> 00:09:31,520 Speaker 2: does keep it together, respect Alex and Andrew. The kiss 204 00:09:31,640 --> 00:09:33,439 Speaker 2: conversation was funny. 205 00:09:33,760 --> 00:09:35,920 Speaker 3: It was funny, and I didn't. 206 00:09:35,559 --> 00:09:41,760 Speaker 2: Think I understand what the relationship specialists expert is saying about, 207 00:09:42,080 --> 00:09:47,120 Speaker 2: like their chemistry, but sometimes I don't know what do 208 00:09:47,200 --> 00:09:48,840 Speaker 2: you think? Do you think maybe you did like burning 209 00:09:48,920 --> 00:09:51,360 Speaker 2: hot chemistry at that point or can it really a flirty, 210 00:09:51,360 --> 00:09:51,880 Speaker 2: fun banter. 211 00:09:52,440 --> 00:09:54,120 Speaker 3: I think that's what's more fun. 212 00:09:54,200 --> 00:09:57,319 Speaker 4: Yeah, I like what I think that lady saw in 213 00:09:57,360 --> 00:10:00,360 Speaker 4: them that she you know, she she thought other stuff 214 00:10:00,400 --> 00:10:04,800 Speaker 4: was more I don't know, more important for relationship development. 215 00:10:05,080 --> 00:10:06,720 Speaker 3: So I'm wondering where they found this lady. 216 00:10:06,720 --> 00:10:10,760 Speaker 4: But I feel like, honestly, what they have going is 217 00:10:10,800 --> 00:10:11,760 Speaker 4: way more natural. 218 00:10:11,840 --> 00:10:15,160 Speaker 3: I mean, they've only been there two weeks, right, and 219 00:10:16,320 --> 00:10:17,920 Speaker 3: neither of them have been there the whole time. I 220 00:10:17,920 --> 00:10:19,520 Speaker 3: don't think. I think, I don't know. If they did, 221 00:10:19,559 --> 00:10:20,120 Speaker 3: it were not a. 222 00:10:20,080 --> 00:10:21,719 Speaker 2: Care no, and you came in like a couple of 223 00:10:21,760 --> 00:10:22,240 Speaker 2: days later. 224 00:10:22,640 --> 00:10:24,680 Speaker 4: Yeah, so it's like, you know what, we're maybe at 225 00:10:24,720 --> 00:10:27,680 Speaker 4: fourteen days max at this point, you know, And it's like, 226 00:10:28,160 --> 00:10:32,240 Speaker 4: so the fact that they're still finding things out about 227 00:10:32,240 --> 00:10:35,120 Speaker 4: each other, they're not that comfortable in every circumstance. They're 228 00:10:35,200 --> 00:10:37,079 Speaker 4: sort of you know, but here they are. And this 229 00:10:37,200 --> 00:10:40,040 Speaker 4: super what I thought was really endearing was they're in 230 00:10:40,040 --> 00:10:46,640 Speaker 4: this super awkward, sweat bug fueled you know, a horsepoop thing, 231 00:10:47,200 --> 00:10:51,760 Speaker 4: and they're actually sitting there kissing and being affectionate with 232 00:10:51,800 --> 00:10:53,680 Speaker 4: each other, and they're playing like a game about it, 233 00:10:53,720 --> 00:10:55,160 Speaker 4: which I thought was kind of cute. You know. It's 234 00:10:55,160 --> 00:10:56,600 Speaker 4: almost like they're playing and spend the bottle with each 235 00:10:56,600 --> 00:10:58,480 Speaker 4: other and there's only two people there, and it was 236 00:10:58,559 --> 00:11:00,200 Speaker 4: I thought that was kind of sweet, you know, And 237 00:11:00,240 --> 00:11:02,280 Speaker 4: I think that's kind of why I really started. I 238 00:11:02,520 --> 00:11:04,959 Speaker 4: doubled down after that relationship council. I was like, hey, 239 00:11:05,160 --> 00:11:07,800 Speaker 4: o f this lady man, like that's my people, Like 240 00:11:07,840 --> 00:11:08,480 Speaker 4: what are you doing. 241 00:11:08,840 --> 00:11:12,080 Speaker 2: I'm like, it's like, okay, okay, I guess I see 242 00:11:12,120 --> 00:11:14,760 Speaker 2: what you're talking about. But also I don't think it's 243 00:11:14,800 --> 00:11:17,000 Speaker 2: a big deal because, like I said, I mean, I'm 244 00:11:17,000 --> 00:11:20,280 Speaker 2: obviously speaking from a place where I start out as friends, 245 00:11:20,840 --> 00:11:23,600 Speaker 2: and I related to the moment and like you can tell, 246 00:11:23,640 --> 00:11:25,640 Speaker 2: it's like flirty bands or I thought she was going 247 00:11:25,720 --> 00:11:30,400 Speaker 2: to say, you guys are open about physical chemistry and 248 00:11:30,440 --> 00:11:32,960 Speaker 2: you're communicating about that and that's a good thing. 249 00:11:33,600 --> 00:11:34,040 Speaker 3: Yeah. 250 00:11:34,320 --> 00:11:36,160 Speaker 4: I gotta be honestly, you and I are on the 251 00:11:36,160 --> 00:11:39,120 Speaker 4: same page right now, because I actually thought she was 252 00:11:39,120 --> 00:11:41,440 Speaker 4: going to praise them a little bit for you know, 253 00:11:41,480 --> 00:11:43,440 Speaker 4: I maybe rip on him a little bit because you know, 254 00:11:43,679 --> 00:11:46,080 Speaker 4: when like she's she was right, you know, Alex is saying, well, 255 00:11:46,080 --> 00:11:47,480 Speaker 4: here's what I would like, and he's like, no, no, 256 00:11:47,640 --> 00:11:49,360 Speaker 4: if it's my last kiss on Earth, I'm going for 257 00:11:49,960 --> 00:11:53,600 Speaker 4: And I thought that was actually pretty funny. But I 258 00:11:53,720 --> 00:11:55,720 Speaker 4: get it, like, you know, you got to be respectful 259 00:11:55,760 --> 00:11:58,559 Speaker 4: of your partner's wishes and stuff like that. 260 00:11:58,600 --> 00:12:00,680 Speaker 3: But at the same time. I don't know I found it. 261 00:12:00,720 --> 00:12:02,439 Speaker 2: I didn't interpret the way she did. 262 00:12:03,360 --> 00:12:06,440 Speaker 3: Yeah, I didn't either. I didn't either. I didn't. You 263 00:12:06,440 --> 00:12:08,960 Speaker 3: know what, though, I have this thing like I always this. 264 00:12:08,880 --> 00:12:11,280 Speaker 4: Is gonna be horrible, and some people are gonna not 265 00:12:11,320 --> 00:12:13,760 Speaker 4: like me saying this, but I always think, you know, 266 00:12:14,200 --> 00:12:19,280 Speaker 4: isn't it weird that like every relationship expert has like 267 00:12:19,679 --> 00:12:22,319 Speaker 4: a completely jacked up home life, you know what I mean, 268 00:12:22,400 --> 00:12:26,319 Speaker 4: Like like every single time. 269 00:12:28,040 --> 00:12:29,840 Speaker 3: If you go in and if you do a little. 270 00:12:29,720 --> 00:12:32,200 Speaker 4: Deep dive, the matchmakers are all single, you know, but 271 00:12:32,200 --> 00:12:34,520 Speaker 4: they know what's best for everyone, And then all these 272 00:12:34,520 --> 00:12:37,280 Speaker 4: people that sit back and the armchair quarterback and just 273 00:12:37,280 --> 00:12:38,240 Speaker 4: just shred people. 274 00:12:38,240 --> 00:12:40,560 Speaker 3: And you're like, what are you guys going on at home? 275 00:12:40,640 --> 00:12:42,199 Speaker 3: You know? Are you happily married? 276 00:12:42,559 --> 00:12:46,080 Speaker 2: Exactly, and that she describes the how Dale has superhero syndrome, 277 00:12:46,080 --> 00:12:47,640 Speaker 2: which I think that Jared has a lot of the 278 00:12:47,679 --> 00:12:51,079 Speaker 2: time where it's like all the good things and be 279 00:12:51,320 --> 00:12:54,960 Speaker 2: like perfect, but not like for himself, not for his 280 00:12:55,000 --> 00:12:57,560 Speaker 2: own ego, like he truly wants to provide for his family. 281 00:12:57,920 --> 00:13:02,880 Speaker 2: And then when it's not like receive the way it's 282 00:13:02,920 --> 00:13:03,640 Speaker 2: supposed to be. 283 00:13:04,960 --> 00:13:05,680 Speaker 3: We get pissed. 284 00:13:06,080 --> 00:13:09,160 Speaker 4: We get a little bothered and we almost get frustrated. 285 00:13:09,200 --> 00:13:11,719 Speaker 4: Like I'm telling you I suffer from this too. So 286 00:13:12,120 --> 00:13:15,040 Speaker 4: she said that I was like, why. 287 00:13:14,880 --> 00:13:16,560 Speaker 3: Am I all of a sudden a subject on the show? 288 00:13:16,640 --> 00:13:20,120 Speaker 4: Like, but I, like I go through a canyon, Like 289 00:13:20,160 --> 00:13:22,360 Speaker 4: I literally will be the one who, like I will 290 00:13:22,360 --> 00:13:25,280 Speaker 4: go like I will go two and a half miles 291 00:13:25,320 --> 00:13:27,280 Speaker 4: out of my way to make sure that everything else 292 00:13:27,360 --> 00:13:30,520 Speaker 4: is done perfectly, even though she's perfectly capable. 293 00:13:30,160 --> 00:13:31,760 Speaker 3: She could do it. I need to be the one 294 00:13:31,760 --> 00:13:32,559 Speaker 3: that gets it done, and. 295 00:13:32,520 --> 00:13:34,440 Speaker 4: I want it to be done a certain way, and 296 00:13:34,480 --> 00:13:36,520 Speaker 4: I want everyone to think it's the greatest thing on earth. 297 00:13:36,840 --> 00:13:38,360 Speaker 4: And then when they don't think it's the greatest thing 298 00:13:38,360 --> 00:13:40,520 Speaker 4: on earth, or when they make suggestions about how else 299 00:13:40,520 --> 00:13:41,480 Speaker 4: it could have been done, I'd. 300 00:13:41,320 --> 00:13:45,080 Speaker 3: Be like, I just did this without even being asked. 301 00:13:45,280 --> 00:13:50,520 Speaker 2: And you're like acts of service people, if yes, acts 302 00:13:50,520 --> 00:13:54,440 Speaker 2: of service love language person, this is usually how like 303 00:13:54,480 --> 00:13:58,320 Speaker 2: your interpretation is. Whereas like Jared, I'll say, I wake 304 00:13:58,400 --> 00:14:00,400 Speaker 2: up and he took hated in the morning because he 305 00:14:00,440 --> 00:14:02,120 Speaker 2: woke up early, and then he did the dishes and 306 00:14:02,160 --> 00:14:04,319 Speaker 2: he did you know, he straightened up and all that. 307 00:14:05,400 --> 00:14:08,000 Speaker 2: I so appreciate it, Like I appreciate it. I'm like, 308 00:14:08,000 --> 00:14:10,240 Speaker 2: oh my gosh, thank you. It's so nice. But to me, 309 00:14:10,400 --> 00:14:13,280 Speaker 2: it doesn't speak love, like that's not romantic love because 310 00:14:13,280 --> 00:14:16,640 Speaker 2: that's not my love language. So you know, it's it's 311 00:14:16,679 --> 00:14:22,480 Speaker 2: all a balance. And the doctor giving them the challenge 312 00:14:22,640 --> 00:14:27,200 Speaker 2: prize to me seemed stagy. 313 00:14:27,440 --> 00:14:29,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, a little bit, A little bit. 314 00:14:29,960 --> 00:14:32,320 Speaker 4: Maybe that was because they I mean, maybe because she 315 00:14:32,400 --> 00:14:34,600 Speaker 4: was just melting down so badly. 316 00:14:34,840 --> 00:14:37,400 Speaker 2: Well yeah, and what's actually you know what, you're right, 317 00:14:38,240 --> 00:14:40,040 Speaker 2: let me not jump to stagey. I think it was 318 00:14:40,040 --> 00:14:43,760 Speaker 2: probably because it was the most extreme situation that was 319 00:14:43,800 --> 00:14:46,000 Speaker 2: like happening there, and he did deal with it with 320 00:14:46,040 --> 00:14:49,000 Speaker 2: a lot of patience, that's what she did. It seemed 321 00:14:49,040 --> 00:14:52,480 Speaker 2: like maybe as a couple they're not the strongest, but 322 00:14:52,680 --> 00:14:56,800 Speaker 2: in that situation they excelled given their traits. 323 00:14:57,160 --> 00:14:59,200 Speaker 3: I think that's true. I think that's probably why. 324 00:14:59,520 --> 00:15:03,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, they haven't had a date on the show since 325 00:15:03,240 --> 00:15:03,960 Speaker 2: they first met. 326 00:15:04,400 --> 00:15:07,000 Speaker 4: They did on the first one, so they've kind of been, 327 00:15:07,360 --> 00:15:10,160 Speaker 4: you know, sixteen days, I mean just sort of grinding away, 328 00:15:10,360 --> 00:15:11,680 Speaker 4: you know, this whole experience. 329 00:15:11,680 --> 00:15:14,920 Speaker 3: They haven't gone anywhere, done anything. I don't know. 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Jeremy and Bailey, let's talk about them. 349 00:16:35,080 --> 00:16:35,360 Speaker 3: They. 350 00:16:35,720 --> 00:16:38,080 Speaker 2: He says in an interview that during the camping put 351 00:16:38,120 --> 00:16:40,720 Speaker 2: together that he can tell that Bailey loves him. You 352 00:16:40,720 --> 00:16:43,840 Speaker 2: can see the look in her eyes, and then he 353 00:16:43,920 --> 00:16:47,880 Speaker 2: says that he could see himself getting there. Yeah, there's 354 00:16:47,920 --> 00:16:49,760 Speaker 2: just something about the dude that I don't trust, and 355 00:16:49,800 --> 00:16:51,680 Speaker 2: I like couringe at the moment that he'll come on 356 00:16:51,720 --> 00:16:56,080 Speaker 2: this podcast and I'm like, hey, really hard, really hard 357 00:16:56,120 --> 00:16:58,680 Speaker 2: on you don't know, I just don't know if we're 358 00:16:58,760 --> 00:17:01,120 Speaker 2: like incredible people. 359 00:17:01,640 --> 00:17:02,400 Speaker 3: We're not vibing. 360 00:17:02,640 --> 00:17:06,520 Speaker 4: Yeah, we're not vibing. Yeah, I know. It's crazy. It 361 00:17:06,600 --> 00:17:11,760 Speaker 4: is interesting because I feel like I'm at this point 362 00:17:11,800 --> 00:17:14,040 Speaker 4: where and I get made fun of by my wife 363 00:17:14,080 --> 00:17:17,320 Speaker 4: for this a lot that that I'm like literally rooting 364 00:17:17,400 --> 00:17:21,199 Speaker 4: for everyone, like I want everyone to be who I 365 00:17:21,280 --> 00:17:23,840 Speaker 4: hope they're going to be, right and and so now 366 00:17:23,880 --> 00:17:26,480 Speaker 4: I'm sort of like almost making excuses for everything everyone 367 00:17:26,600 --> 00:17:28,000 Speaker 4: has done or said in the past. 368 00:17:28,040 --> 00:17:29,720 Speaker 3: Like I mean I've even said, like you. 369 00:17:29,680 --> 00:17:32,200 Speaker 4: Know, well, you know, I know that Dale and Claire 370 00:17:32,600 --> 00:17:34,960 Speaker 4: had a had a horrible blow up, but you know, 371 00:17:34,960 --> 00:17:37,119 Speaker 4: we're seeing a different side of Dale, and maybe maybe 372 00:17:37,119 --> 00:17:38,840 Speaker 4: this is who he is now. I mean, you know, 373 00:17:38,880 --> 00:17:40,680 Speaker 4: he did say tonight that he knows what his love 374 00:17:40,760 --> 00:17:43,880 Speaker 4: language is. Like I'm just making excuses for everyone, you know. 375 00:17:43,960 --> 00:17:46,880 Speaker 2: Oh, that's so sweet. That's really horrible. 376 00:17:46,960 --> 00:17:48,119 Speaker 3: It's a horrible truth. 377 00:17:49,280 --> 00:17:52,800 Speaker 4: It's embarrassing that I'm like, I can get bamboozled so 378 00:17:52,880 --> 00:17:55,960 Speaker 4: quickly by people. But I'm hopeful that maybe this guy 379 00:17:56,280 --> 00:17:59,280 Speaker 4: is you know, maybe it was just an errant comment 380 00:17:59,320 --> 00:18:02,119 Speaker 4: about Susie and maybe he really didn't I don't know. 381 00:18:02,359 --> 00:18:03,479 Speaker 3: I don't know what to think. 382 00:18:04,359 --> 00:18:06,600 Speaker 4: I'm like losing it. What do you think about about 383 00:18:06,680 --> 00:18:08,159 Speaker 4: him right now? Like where's your head at with them? 384 00:18:08,320 --> 00:18:12,080 Speaker 2: There's not been a lot of evolution there. It's just 385 00:18:12,160 --> 00:18:14,160 Speaker 2: I guess vibes. And it could just be the fact 386 00:18:14,200 --> 00:18:16,720 Speaker 2: that I am so rooting for Andrew and Alex now 387 00:18:16,760 --> 00:18:18,600 Speaker 2: that like everybody else, I might get out of the way. 388 00:18:20,200 --> 00:18:24,040 Speaker 2: But also justin Andrew, justin Spencer, like you got a 389 00:18:24,080 --> 00:18:29,200 Speaker 2: root for them. We see that Dale and Kat get 390 00:18:29,240 --> 00:18:32,120 Speaker 2: this beach date where basically they're just like it's all 391 00:18:32,160 --> 00:18:35,800 Speaker 2: worth it, Like this is solidified what I needed. He 392 00:18:35,840 --> 00:18:38,239 Speaker 2: did say a big thing here, though, he said you 393 00:18:38,320 --> 00:18:42,280 Speaker 2: feel like home, to which I was like, wow, that's big. 394 00:18:42,720 --> 00:18:45,359 Speaker 3: I was impressed. I was impressed. I don't know. 395 00:18:45,400 --> 00:18:47,800 Speaker 4: You know, you've you've heard, like I mean, we all 396 00:18:47,880 --> 00:18:51,560 Speaker 4: you know hear you know the rumors that there's something 397 00:18:51,600 --> 00:18:53,800 Speaker 4: going on, that's something you know, there's something coming up 398 00:18:53,800 --> 00:18:55,600 Speaker 4: around the corner. I mean, I don't want to ruin 399 00:18:55,600 --> 00:18:57,200 Speaker 4: anything for anyone, but if you watched the previous for 400 00:18:57,240 --> 00:18:59,240 Speaker 4: the next episode, for the finale, it looks like it 401 00:18:59,600 --> 00:19:03,200 Speaker 4: it gets pretty ugly. And I feel like, I don't know, 402 00:19:03,359 --> 00:19:06,440 Speaker 4: I just feel like, if you're someone who's playing this 403 00:19:06,640 --> 00:19:08,720 Speaker 4: game because you didn't know there was five hundred grand 404 00:19:08,720 --> 00:19:09,800 Speaker 4: at the end of the at the end of this 405 00:19:09,800 --> 00:19:12,720 Speaker 4: thing when I started, if you're you're not someone who's 406 00:19:12,760 --> 00:19:16,160 Speaker 4: going that hard on these moments that you know are 407 00:19:16,200 --> 00:19:18,040 Speaker 4: going to come back to haunt you, right, And I 408 00:19:18,040 --> 00:19:21,560 Speaker 4: feel like Dale and Kat are seriously into each other 409 00:19:21,640 --> 00:19:24,199 Speaker 4: right now, Like watching them on that beach date like 410 00:19:24,240 --> 00:19:27,679 Speaker 4: they were I'm sorry, man, I I gotta say it, 411 00:19:27,760 --> 00:19:30,359 Speaker 4: like I felt like, Wow, maybe they are a real couple. 412 00:19:30,560 --> 00:19:31,760 Speaker 3: And here I've been doubting it. 413 00:19:31,800 --> 00:19:34,080 Speaker 4: You know, I don't know, but you're right, Like I'm 414 00:19:34,119 --> 00:19:36,240 Speaker 4: so rooting for Andrew and Alex too that I feel like, 415 00:19:36,880 --> 00:19:39,000 Speaker 4: you know, part of me doesn't have room for anybody else. 416 00:19:39,040 --> 00:19:41,200 Speaker 4: I'm just like, you know, no, I'm good. You guys 417 00:19:41,200 --> 00:19:43,320 Speaker 4: don't need to move up, just stay there on the beach. 418 00:19:43,359 --> 00:19:44,440 Speaker 3: You're fine, Yeah, you know. 419 00:19:44,960 --> 00:19:48,679 Speaker 2: Plus Wells, Oh my god, Wells is like really delivered 420 00:19:48,880 --> 00:19:53,119 Speaker 2: over the past few exactly what we need him to say. 421 00:19:53,680 --> 00:19:56,040 Speaker 3: Who won the who won the date? Andrew, you know 422 00:19:56,119 --> 00:19:56,639 Speaker 3: who won the date? 423 00:19:56,680 --> 00:20:00,760 Speaker 4: They go no, no, the whole everybody just starts laughing. 424 00:20:00,920 --> 00:20:03,040 Speaker 4: So he's clearly made it known that he is not 425 00:20:03,080 --> 00:20:05,280 Speaker 4: a fan of that couple right now, exactly exact. 426 00:20:05,480 --> 00:20:08,680 Speaker 2: Gosh, it's so funny. Also, can we talk about the 427 00:20:08,800 --> 00:20:11,959 Speaker 2: dates being really silly, like basically they just got drinks 428 00:20:11,960 --> 00:20:15,119 Speaker 2: out of like this parrot pineapple and there was really 429 00:20:15,160 --> 00:20:17,879 Speaker 2: nothing there that they couldn't have just gone back at 430 00:20:17,880 --> 00:20:20,720 Speaker 2: the resort, basically sitting in a cabana. 431 00:20:21,880 --> 00:20:25,160 Speaker 4: Either the budget's been cut, you know, incredibly by over 432 00:20:25,160 --> 00:20:26,040 Speaker 4: the last two episodes. 433 00:20:28,600 --> 00:20:30,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, we're not even gonna take you on a boat ride. 434 00:20:30,680 --> 00:20:33,000 Speaker 4: You guys are gonna sit on this beach and just 435 00:20:33,080 --> 00:20:35,600 Speaker 4: chill out and here here's a pineapple. 436 00:20:35,680 --> 00:20:37,159 Speaker 3: Enjoy yourself. Yeah, there's not. 437 00:20:37,440 --> 00:20:40,239 Speaker 4: They definitely have cut back on the swinkiness of the 438 00:20:40,640 --> 00:20:41,920 Speaker 4: last couple of date parties. 439 00:20:42,359 --> 00:20:45,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, so funny. Okay, now we have the conversation as 440 00:20:45,160 --> 00:20:46,960 Speaker 2: far as like going in order of the episode. We 441 00:20:47,000 --> 00:20:49,159 Speaker 2: had the conversation between Jessine Spencer, which we kind of 442 00:20:49,160 --> 00:20:51,840 Speaker 2: already broke down. There is an age gap there where 443 00:20:51,880 --> 00:20:55,120 Speaker 2: she's pretty young. She wants to be having kids by 444 00:20:55,359 --> 00:20:57,520 Speaker 2: her thirty I'm not sure what age she is now, 445 00:20:57,560 --> 00:21:00,879 Speaker 2: but he says that would be a little late for him. 446 00:21:01,320 --> 00:21:03,760 Speaker 2: But she did say what the thing was is she 447 00:21:03,840 --> 00:21:06,360 Speaker 2: said at the very latest thirty. So like, it's. 448 00:21:07,960 --> 00:21:09,240 Speaker 3: Okay, it's up for discussion. 449 00:21:09,280 --> 00:21:10,560 Speaker 2: It's up for discussion then. 450 00:21:10,680 --> 00:21:14,160 Speaker 4: I mean, honestly, once you're in a relationship, your timelines 451 00:21:14,280 --> 00:21:16,640 Speaker 4: changed considerably when you're both in the same place, right, 452 00:21:16,680 --> 00:21:18,919 Speaker 4: So it's like, right now, they don't even live together, 453 00:21:19,040 --> 00:21:20,760 Speaker 4: so I get it, Like you're talking about having kids. 454 00:21:20,800 --> 00:21:23,400 Speaker 4: It'd be like, dude, we live in I mean, I'm 455 00:21:23,400 --> 00:21:24,600 Speaker 4: assuming they live in different cities. 456 00:21:24,600 --> 00:21:26,760 Speaker 2: I don't even know it was Texas and California. 457 00:21:27,160 --> 00:21:28,840 Speaker 4: Yeah, so, oh my god, they're on opposite ends of 458 00:21:28,840 --> 00:21:31,320 Speaker 4: the world. It feels like, you know, from that perspective, 459 00:21:31,359 --> 00:21:33,440 Speaker 4: So it's like at the end of the day, it's like, yeah, 460 00:21:33,520 --> 00:21:36,040 Speaker 4: I mean, I get it. You know, if he's thirty 461 00:21:36,080 --> 00:21:39,040 Speaker 4: two and she's probably what like twenty four. 462 00:21:39,119 --> 00:21:40,879 Speaker 2: Maybe twenty five. 463 00:21:41,080 --> 00:21:44,119 Speaker 4: Yeah, so she's thinking seven years that that's going to 464 00:21:44,200 --> 00:21:44,959 Speaker 4: make him forty. 465 00:21:45,520 --> 00:21:47,480 Speaker 3: Bro, that's a baby too me. I mean I didn't 466 00:21:47,520 --> 00:21:49,160 Speaker 3: have my friend he's thirty two. 467 00:21:49,440 --> 00:21:50,320 Speaker 2: Oh he's thirty two. 468 00:21:50,520 --> 00:21:53,720 Speaker 4: Oh yeah, so seven years if you know so, that 469 00:21:53,760 --> 00:21:55,080 Speaker 4: would make him thirty nine. 470 00:21:56,480 --> 00:21:59,080 Speaker 3: Shaw. I didn't have my first kid that was forty eight. Bro, 471 00:21:59,240 --> 00:22:00,359 Speaker 3: Get over it, Bob. 472 00:22:00,560 --> 00:22:03,840 Speaker 2: Only like, like, I'm watching you right now, speak and 473 00:22:04,040 --> 00:22:07,440 Speaker 2: there's no way in the world that you register as 474 00:22:07,520 --> 00:22:12,840 Speaker 2: like older dad. You look and sound and presents all 475 00:22:12,880 --> 00:22:14,120 Speaker 2: over normally. 476 00:22:14,200 --> 00:22:17,359 Speaker 4: So sweet, Ashley, that's why you've always been my favorite. 477 00:22:17,800 --> 00:22:19,120 Speaker 3: Well, I will. 478 00:22:18,880 --> 00:22:21,760 Speaker 4: Tell you I uh I after this past weekend where 479 00:22:21,800 --> 00:22:23,359 Speaker 4: I went out three nights in a row, which I 480 00:22:23,359 --> 00:22:26,760 Speaker 4: haven't done in quite some time, I felt all of 481 00:22:26,760 --> 00:22:29,919 Speaker 4: the old dad vibes, Like I was like, where's my walker? 482 00:22:30,280 --> 00:22:33,360 Speaker 4: Then tonight I come home and my wife's like, oh yeah, 483 00:22:33,400 --> 00:22:33,919 Speaker 4: we're gonna have. 484 00:22:33,920 --> 00:22:35,320 Speaker 3: A play date with uh so and so and so 485 00:22:35,359 --> 00:22:35,480 Speaker 3: and so. 486 00:22:35,640 --> 00:22:38,480 Speaker 4: They didn't get see them all weekend, which I totally understood. 487 00:22:38,760 --> 00:22:40,480 Speaker 4: But then all of a sudden, the home is invaded 488 00:22:40,560 --> 00:22:43,520 Speaker 4: by a herd of people and I'm like, dude, like 489 00:22:43,600 --> 00:22:44,239 Speaker 4: I love them. 490 00:22:44,240 --> 00:22:46,600 Speaker 3: They're my favorite family, my favorite couple. They hang out with. 491 00:22:46,880 --> 00:22:48,679 Speaker 4: But I was like so shocked because I didn't know, 492 00:22:48,960 --> 00:22:50,400 Speaker 4: and I was like I kind of thought I wasn't 493 00:22:50,400 --> 00:22:52,280 Speaker 4: going to do anything tonight. But now I'm back at 494 00:22:52,280 --> 00:22:54,400 Speaker 4: it again. You know, I might as well have I noon, 495 00:22:54,520 --> 00:22:57,280 Speaker 4: let's go, you know, like I'm. 496 00:22:57,160 --> 00:23:00,480 Speaker 2: One hundred no no, no, no, You've definitely I feel like 497 00:23:00,520 --> 00:23:05,479 Speaker 2: you have a lot more stamina than I do. Okay, 498 00:23:05,560 --> 00:23:10,080 Speaker 2: so let's talk about the cocktail party where basically people 499 00:23:10,240 --> 00:23:11,840 Speaker 2: need to figure out who's going to go home. It's 500 00:23:11,880 --> 00:23:17,879 Speaker 2: pretty obvious that it'll be between Jonathan and Leah or 501 00:23:18,040 --> 00:23:21,480 Speaker 2: Keith and Kathy. And at this point, the stakes don't 502 00:23:21,480 --> 00:23:24,560 Speaker 2: feel high because it's gonna be one of them now and. 503 00:23:24,520 --> 00:23:27,520 Speaker 3: One of them later, right right, Yeah, exactly. 504 00:23:28,240 --> 00:23:32,880 Speaker 2: It ends up being Jonathan and Leah, and that's because 505 00:23:33,000 --> 00:23:36,119 Speaker 2: Dale gets the last say because they were the winner 506 00:23:36,160 --> 00:23:40,000 Speaker 2: and there was a tie in the vote, and he's 507 00:23:40,160 --> 00:23:42,840 Speaker 2: just like he was after my girl, so he's saying 508 00:23:42,880 --> 00:23:46,280 Speaker 2: by now like they obviously never really got along. And 509 00:23:46,280 --> 00:23:50,440 Speaker 2: then he also was talking about if you don't vote 510 00:23:50,440 --> 00:23:53,960 Speaker 2: off who you really think is, you know, the weakest link, 511 00:23:53,960 --> 00:23:56,400 Speaker 2: you never know what's going to like actually end up happening, 512 00:23:56,440 --> 00:23:58,280 Speaker 2: Like how are they going to play with the game 513 00:23:58,440 --> 00:23:58,879 Speaker 2: later on? 514 00:23:59,080 --> 00:24:02,560 Speaker 4: Yeah, well, and I thought that was interesting because you know, 515 00:24:03,720 --> 00:24:05,720 Speaker 4: you never know what these challenges are going to be either. 516 00:24:05,800 --> 00:24:07,199 Speaker 3: So I mean, at the end of. 517 00:24:07,200 --> 00:24:09,680 Speaker 4: The day, you know, Keathy and Keith, I think Keith 518 00:24:09,800 --> 00:24:13,399 Speaker 4: might not be the weakest link, right, so they're thinking. 519 00:24:13,560 --> 00:24:15,280 Speaker 3: But I also think part. 520 00:24:15,040 --> 00:24:17,399 Speaker 4: Of it was, you know, the people that voted for 521 00:24:17,520 --> 00:24:20,439 Speaker 4: Keith and Kathy were voting because Keith. I mean, it 522 00:24:20,520 --> 00:24:24,320 Speaker 4: was very sweet and Keith got emotional talking about it 523 00:24:24,400 --> 00:24:26,280 Speaker 4: being homesick in Wine to see his girls and they're 524 00:24:26,280 --> 00:24:28,280 Speaker 4: getting ready to go camping anyway, or something like that. 525 00:24:28,640 --> 00:24:31,679 Speaker 4: And at the end of the day, I mean I 526 00:24:31,720 --> 00:24:33,320 Speaker 4: would probably think, man, this. 527 00:24:33,320 --> 00:24:34,200 Speaker 3: Dude needs to go home. 528 00:24:34,280 --> 00:24:36,560 Speaker 4: I get it, you know, And but then all of 529 00:24:36,560 --> 00:24:38,480 Speaker 4: a sudden he changed his mind and he was like, 530 00:24:38,760 --> 00:24:40,680 Speaker 4: I think I'm willing to stick around for another week. 531 00:24:40,920 --> 00:24:44,680 Speaker 2: Somebody was probably like, don't we do. Somebody production was like, hey, 532 00:24:45,040 --> 00:24:47,320 Speaker 2: it's not really weak. It's another day. If you could 533 00:24:47,320 --> 00:24:51,040 Speaker 2: get one more night, and probably. 534 00:24:50,600 --> 00:24:52,560 Speaker 3: Just bro, we can have you on a plane tomorrow afternoon. 535 00:24:52,600 --> 00:24:54,920 Speaker 3: Just get through time. Yeah exactly. 536 00:24:54,960 --> 00:24:57,160 Speaker 4: I'm sure that's probably part of it too, But yeah, 537 00:24:57,160 --> 00:24:59,080 Speaker 4: it's not like it's unfolding in real time. I mean, 538 00:24:59,240 --> 00:25:01,320 Speaker 4: you know, it's the eight Throws ceremony and it's only 539 00:25:01,400 --> 00:25:04,560 Speaker 4: day nineteen, So if anybody's doing the math at home, 540 00:25:05,280 --> 00:25:08,680 Speaker 4: that's not eight weeks, right, that's about, you know, a day. 541 00:25:08,760 --> 00:25:09,439 Speaker 3: It was like it. 542 00:25:09,560 --> 00:25:12,840 Speaker 2: Sometimes a lot can happen in a short amount of 543 00:25:12,880 --> 00:25:19,320 Speaker 2: time there. That be said, they go home and the 544 00:25:19,359 --> 00:25:24,280 Speaker 2: next day they have another challenge, the sharp they called 545 00:25:24,359 --> 00:25:28,600 Speaker 2: sharp opinions, and it's got stabbing daggers in one's back. 546 00:25:29,119 --> 00:25:33,480 Speaker 2: Jesse ends up asking questions like who's still talking to 547 00:25:33,560 --> 00:25:38,600 Speaker 2: an X? Who is most likely to get on the 548 00:25:38,640 --> 00:25:41,520 Speaker 2: nerves of their significant other because their child like acts, 549 00:25:41,720 --> 00:25:46,200 Speaker 2: you know antics. It was an interesting. It was interesting. 550 00:25:46,240 --> 00:25:48,359 Speaker 2: It wasn't as backstabby as I would have thought. It 551 00:25:48,400 --> 00:25:51,879 Speaker 2: wasn't like they were really talking behind their back. 552 00:25:52,200 --> 00:25:55,520 Speaker 4: Right, I think it would be kind of a I mean, 553 00:25:55,520 --> 00:25:57,560 Speaker 4: now it's down to what eight people. 554 00:25:57,480 --> 00:25:59,600 Speaker 2: And yeah it was anonymous. That's why it wasn't so 555 00:25:59,680 --> 00:26:00,399 Speaker 2: hard to me. 556 00:26:00,560 --> 00:26:04,040 Speaker 4: Yeah, but then all of a sudden I would be like, god, dude, 557 00:26:04,040 --> 00:26:06,000 Speaker 4: that kind of hurts to think. So I don't know 558 00:26:06,040 --> 00:26:09,520 Speaker 4: if there's first of all, I'm pretty good with math, right, 559 00:26:09,560 --> 00:26:13,120 Speaker 4: so if I'm seeing six daggers in my back from 560 00:26:13,119 --> 00:26:16,680 Speaker 4: one thing. I'm like, okay, pretty sure everybody here except 561 00:26:16,800 --> 00:26:19,600 Speaker 4: my dude or my chick didn't throw a knife at 562 00:26:19,600 --> 00:26:21,439 Speaker 4: my back on that one, because it looked like, I mean, 563 00:26:21,520 --> 00:26:23,840 Speaker 4: on a couple of those, like even Andrew on the 564 00:26:23,880 --> 00:26:26,960 Speaker 4: first one, the childlike behavior one, I thought, I don't know, I. 565 00:26:27,119 --> 00:26:29,680 Speaker 3: Don't I must have missed where that was coming from. 566 00:26:29,720 --> 00:26:32,760 Speaker 4: But that was pretty much like him, right, they said 567 00:26:32,800 --> 00:26:34,720 Speaker 4: Alex and Andrew got the most on that one, and 568 00:26:34,760 --> 00:26:38,760 Speaker 4: then the next was trust issues. That was Cat and Dale. Yeah, 569 00:26:39,080 --> 00:26:42,199 Speaker 4: then I took notes. This is how interesting this was 570 00:26:42,240 --> 00:26:45,359 Speaker 4: to me. The biggest Oh what was this the biggest 571 00:26:45,400 --> 00:26:47,120 Speaker 4: codependent jessin Spencer. 572 00:26:47,160 --> 00:26:48,200 Speaker 3: That's probably pretty. 573 00:26:47,960 --> 00:26:52,720 Speaker 2: True, just you know, definitely definitely on her, Oh for sure. 574 00:26:53,040 --> 00:27:05,359 Speaker 5: Yeah, talking to an ex. 575 00:27:05,640 --> 00:27:07,280 Speaker 3: And this one went to Jeremy. 576 00:27:07,720 --> 00:27:12,040 Speaker 2: So this seemed weird because we have heard there's rumors 577 00:27:12,040 --> 00:27:15,720 Speaker 2: around the internet and such that Kat had snuck an 578 00:27:15,760 --> 00:27:21,520 Speaker 2: iPad in and she was texting an ex. Yeah, they 579 00:27:21,600 --> 00:27:26,240 Speaker 2: either didn't flash to the right back when saying this 580 00:27:26,480 --> 00:27:31,439 Speaker 2: when like airing this, or it's just a rumor. So 581 00:27:32,000 --> 00:27:35,720 Speaker 2: we'll see, because if she was truly texting somebody in 582 00:27:35,720 --> 00:27:38,960 Speaker 2: an iPad. I think that would have come out here. 583 00:27:39,480 --> 00:27:43,080 Speaker 4: Well, if it hasn't come out, it looks like the uh, 584 00:27:43,280 --> 00:27:46,639 Speaker 4: the Paradise Parliament or whatever is coming back in the 585 00:27:46,680 --> 00:27:47,400 Speaker 4: next episode. 586 00:27:47,440 --> 00:27:49,639 Speaker 3: It's coming out if there's anything going on, because that 587 00:27:49,720 --> 00:27:53,720 Speaker 3: dude's pissede. He's like fired up man. 588 00:27:53,920 --> 00:27:57,720 Speaker 2: Yeah. What I thought was weird was that Kathy and 589 00:27:58,000 --> 00:28:01,240 Speaker 2: Keith actually didn't win this challenge. I thought they would 590 00:28:01,320 --> 00:28:04,439 Speaker 2: have the least daggers because I so too. All the 591 00:28:04,560 --> 00:28:09,439 Speaker 2: questions didn't seem to be directed towards them, right, They 592 00:28:09,440 --> 00:28:11,880 Speaker 2: also seem to be directed towards younger people. 593 00:28:11,880 --> 00:28:13,919 Speaker 4: Although when they went to the who doesn't deserve to 594 00:28:13,960 --> 00:28:16,360 Speaker 4: be here? It looked like it looked like Keith might 595 00:28:16,400 --> 00:28:17,360 Speaker 4: have gotten every one of them. 596 00:28:17,440 --> 00:28:19,320 Speaker 2: I guess when it comes down to it, they got that, 597 00:28:19,600 --> 00:28:23,280 Speaker 2: and then Andrew and Alex ended up winning, but they 598 00:28:23,280 --> 00:28:26,720 Speaker 2: did get that childish dagger. Yeah, so they end up winning, 599 00:28:26,720 --> 00:28:30,080 Speaker 2: which you know, you and I both freeth the sigh 600 00:28:30,160 --> 00:28:32,520 Speaker 2: of relief. I didn't think they were actually going to 601 00:28:32,600 --> 00:28:35,760 Speaker 2: be in danger, but it's nice going into the Rose 602 00:28:35,800 --> 00:28:38,600 Speaker 2: ceremony knowing that they're gonna be safe. But we don't 603 00:28:38,640 --> 00:28:42,160 Speaker 2: get to see the Rose ceremony. Here we do see 604 00:28:42,200 --> 00:28:48,520 Speaker 2: them kind of pairing up though, talking alliances because they're 605 00:28:48,560 --> 00:28:51,440 Speaker 2: gonna be limiting two couples and it's gonna be the 606 00:28:51,520 --> 00:28:54,880 Speaker 2: last row ceremony, so we're gonna get down to three 607 00:28:54,920 --> 00:28:59,520 Speaker 2: serious couples, which means that one of this year we 608 00:28:59,600 --> 00:29:01,680 Speaker 2: know they can. Athy and Keith are leaving. Kathleen and 609 00:29:01,800 --> 00:29:05,320 Speaker 2: Keith are really being so so sweet because Keith is saying, hey, 610 00:29:05,800 --> 00:29:10,719 Speaker 2: I'm eliminating us, you know, I'm going forward for the money, 611 00:29:10,960 --> 00:29:13,960 Speaker 2: which is really really so sweet. He also knows there's 612 00:29:13,960 --> 00:29:16,680 Speaker 2: no chance of them winning here, but he said, and 613 00:29:16,720 --> 00:29:20,120 Speaker 2: it was the most endearing thing I've watched all episodes, 614 00:29:20,200 --> 00:29:22,480 Speaker 2: all seasons of Bachelor in Paradise, and this show is 615 00:29:22,480 --> 00:29:24,160 Speaker 2: about love and that's what I want to root for, 616 00:29:24,400 --> 00:29:28,680 Speaker 2: not money. Then we see, like, you know, everybody talking 617 00:29:28,680 --> 00:29:33,720 Speaker 2: alliances and whatnot. But what I want to talk about 618 00:29:33,760 --> 00:29:36,160 Speaker 2: as we wrap up this episode is what Jesse says 619 00:29:36,280 --> 00:29:40,360 Speaker 2: in the teaser. He says, you guys have all like 620 00:29:40,520 --> 00:29:42,520 Speaker 2: known that there's money involved at the end of this, 621 00:29:44,200 --> 00:29:46,760 Speaker 2: but you do have to choose between love and money. 622 00:29:47,320 --> 00:29:50,360 Speaker 4: Yeah, you know, it's so interesting to figure out what 623 00:29:50,520 --> 00:29:53,160 Speaker 4: the hell this show is at this point because you know, 624 00:29:53,200 --> 00:29:54,960 Speaker 4: I even said at the beginning a couple of weeks ago, 625 00:29:55,000 --> 00:29:56,680 Speaker 4: when they first started talking about the money, I was like, Oh, 626 00:29:56,720 --> 00:29:57,880 Speaker 4: I wonder if there's gonna be like a for. 627 00:29:57,880 --> 00:30:00,480 Speaker 3: Lover money spin on this thing. Yeah, brought up the 628 00:30:00,520 --> 00:30:01,200 Speaker 3: Bachelor pad. 629 00:30:01,320 --> 00:30:04,080 Speaker 4: How the one dude chose, you know, to keep it 630 00:30:04,120 --> 00:30:06,920 Speaker 4: instead of share it, and he was a villain, but he, 631 00:30:07,040 --> 00:30:09,800 Speaker 4: you know, he made money. And it's interesting because now 632 00:30:09,840 --> 00:30:11,960 Speaker 4: here comes that twist right where it's really going to 633 00:30:11,960 --> 00:30:15,000 Speaker 4: be a circumstance where you know, let's be honest, man, 634 00:30:15,040 --> 00:30:20,680 Speaker 4: if if if if Jeremy, let's say, let's say hypothetically 635 00:30:20,720 --> 00:30:23,080 Speaker 4: it's Jeremy and Bailey at the end, and Jeremy's like, 636 00:30:23,240 --> 00:30:26,160 Speaker 4: I know that Bailey is into me and loving me, 637 00:30:26,200 --> 00:30:29,400 Speaker 4: but I'm not there yet. I mean, does he choose money? 638 00:30:29,680 --> 00:30:32,840 Speaker 4: Does she choose love? Like, and then what happened. 639 00:30:32,560 --> 00:30:34,200 Speaker 2: To me is choosing money in this situation? 640 00:30:34,280 --> 00:30:36,840 Speaker 3: Oh my god, no doubt right, And then he's coming. 641 00:30:36,960 --> 00:30:40,560 Speaker 2: Might even be choosing money. Kat might be choosing money. 642 00:30:40,840 --> 00:30:45,360 Speaker 2: I don't. I do think that. And I think that 643 00:30:45,400 --> 00:30:47,880 Speaker 2: Alex and Andrew and I don't mean to like just 644 00:30:48,000 --> 00:30:51,800 Speaker 2: pump them up so much. But I think they're gonna 645 00:30:51,800 --> 00:30:53,960 Speaker 2: be the ones that would have the most ethical dilemma 646 00:30:54,000 --> 00:30:56,160 Speaker 2: if it comes down to them being the champions and 647 00:30:56,200 --> 00:30:58,320 Speaker 2: having to choose between one or the other. Now, it's 648 00:30:58,360 --> 00:31:02,360 Speaker 2: all about appearances in my opinion, because it's a different 649 00:31:02,400 --> 00:31:04,880 Speaker 2: world than it was. I even think during Bachelor PAB. 650 00:31:06,000 --> 00:31:09,959 Speaker 2: I think just because of exposure and reality TV and 651 00:31:10,040 --> 00:31:13,040 Speaker 2: like us kind of all of us, not just you 652 00:31:13,080 --> 00:31:15,120 Speaker 2: and I who have been involved to kind of see 653 00:31:15,120 --> 00:31:18,240 Speaker 2: beyond the curtain a little bit more now, right, Yeah, 654 00:31:19,000 --> 00:31:23,640 Speaker 2: even the casual viewer who's really into the love element 655 00:31:23,720 --> 00:31:26,360 Speaker 2: of Bachelor is going to be like, guys, you take 656 00:31:26,440 --> 00:31:28,680 Speaker 2: the money and then you meet off camera and you 657 00:31:28,720 --> 00:31:29,480 Speaker 2: can get married. 658 00:31:29,560 --> 00:31:31,920 Speaker 3: Like, no one says you can't stay together, you know. 659 00:31:31,920 --> 00:31:35,240 Speaker 2: Nobody says you can't be together. I wonder if Jess's 660 00:31:35,280 --> 00:31:39,360 Speaker 2: going to say, there's like a thing where if we 661 00:31:39,560 --> 00:31:43,080 Speaker 2: catch you being together within a year of this show, 662 00:31:44,400 --> 00:31:45,120 Speaker 2: you can't do that. 663 00:31:45,160 --> 00:31:47,800 Speaker 3: You can't enforce that, No, you can't. 664 00:31:48,080 --> 00:31:50,040 Speaker 4: I mean, I would think at the end of the day, 665 00:31:50,080 --> 00:31:53,320 Speaker 4: if it came down to somebody, you know, for loving 666 00:31:53,560 --> 00:31:57,160 Speaker 4: or for money, And I mean, first of all, if 667 00:31:57,200 --> 00:32:00,160 Speaker 4: they both say so, here's here's here's the thing, which 668 00:32:00,160 --> 00:32:02,040 Speaker 4: I know we'll find out. We'll find out next week. 669 00:32:02,080 --> 00:32:05,320 Speaker 4: But what if they both say for love and they're 670 00:32:05,320 --> 00:32:07,680 Speaker 4: the winning couple, does that mean no one gets that money? 671 00:32:08,120 --> 00:32:11,480 Speaker 2: My guess is this It's gonna be kind of like 672 00:32:11,560 --> 00:32:12,400 Speaker 2: Beauty and the Beast. 673 00:32:13,160 --> 00:32:14,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, if you. 674 00:32:14,200 --> 00:32:19,240 Speaker 2: Fall in love, you will get something, if you like 675 00:32:19,320 --> 00:32:23,080 Speaker 2: make them fall in love when there's I don't even 676 00:32:23,080 --> 00:32:24,600 Speaker 2: know how to describe this. You know what Beauty and 677 00:32:24,640 --> 00:32:27,920 Speaker 2: the Beast works as he got her to fall in 678 00:32:27,960 --> 00:32:30,560 Speaker 2: love with him as a beast, and then she got 679 00:32:30,600 --> 00:32:33,280 Speaker 2: her treat, which was he was a very handsome prince. 680 00:32:33,680 --> 00:32:37,560 Speaker 2: So I'm thinking that maybe if they end up saying 681 00:32:37,600 --> 00:32:41,400 Speaker 2: we choose love, that's the ticket to actually getting the money. 682 00:32:41,480 --> 00:32:43,360 Speaker 3: To get the money. Oh my god, that'd be amazing, 683 00:32:43,360 --> 00:32:43,800 Speaker 3: wouldn't it. 684 00:32:44,360 --> 00:32:46,600 Speaker 4: Yeah, that would be amazing because I would like that 685 00:32:46,760 --> 00:32:50,600 Speaker 4: more personally because it's like, to me, the money element 686 00:32:50,680 --> 00:32:52,920 Speaker 4: somebody walking off of this show with five hundred grand 687 00:32:53,480 --> 00:32:55,400 Speaker 4: and breaking someone else's heart. 688 00:32:55,920 --> 00:32:57,560 Speaker 2: You and I know that this show has never been 689 00:32:57,600 --> 00:33:03,480 Speaker 2: this generous. No, five hundred grand that is hundreds hundreds, 690 00:33:03,920 --> 00:33:07,720 Speaker 2: four hundred thousand, at least more than they've ever paid 691 00:33:07,760 --> 00:33:12,719 Speaker 2: their lead right right, Yeah, that is a ton of money. 692 00:33:13,360 --> 00:33:15,560 Speaker 2: Real you know, they don't fly us first class or 693 00:33:15,600 --> 00:33:19,720 Speaker 2: anything like that, Like what the city around. 694 00:33:20,480 --> 00:33:22,480 Speaker 4: This's gotta be some twist and they got to be 695 00:33:22,520 --> 00:33:26,600 Speaker 4: planning on splitting it havesies at the end somehow someway 696 00:33:26,680 --> 00:33:27,280 Speaker 4: for that couple. 697 00:33:27,400 --> 00:33:27,880 Speaker 3: I don't know. 698 00:33:28,320 --> 00:33:31,040 Speaker 4: It'll be interesting to see what happens for sure, But 699 00:33:31,400 --> 00:33:35,280 Speaker 4: I mean, man, some of the best relationships have come 700 00:33:35,320 --> 00:33:38,320 Speaker 4: out of The Bachelor in Paradise, and I feel like 701 00:33:38,480 --> 00:33:39,520 Speaker 4: this could be another one. 702 00:33:39,720 --> 00:33:42,800 Speaker 2: You never know, and let me just blow up their 703 00:33:42,800 --> 00:33:45,320 Speaker 2: spot a little bit more Alex and Andrew. There's something 704 00:33:45,360 --> 00:33:48,120 Speaker 2: about looking at the two of them together that I'm like, 705 00:33:48,360 --> 00:33:51,640 Speaker 2: you guys look like you're supposed to be together. Yeah, 706 00:33:51,920 --> 00:33:55,840 Speaker 2: they knowing them from separate shows, I feel like they 707 00:33:55,840 --> 00:33:59,080 Speaker 2: were meant to meet here. I think they really could 708 00:33:59,120 --> 00:34:02,320 Speaker 2: be the next great Bachelor love story. And I'm sorry 709 00:34:02,360 --> 00:34:05,840 Speaker 2: for ignoring the Jess and Spencer of it all. I 710 00:34:06,000 --> 00:34:08,880 Speaker 2: feel like Jess and Spencer. There's an inkling inside me 711 00:34:08,960 --> 00:34:12,120 Speaker 2: that just says they could be like the Carly and 712 00:34:12,200 --> 00:34:13,400 Speaker 2: Kirk of this season. 713 00:34:13,960 --> 00:34:15,280 Speaker 3: Yes, yes, so it's. 714 00:34:15,120 --> 00:34:17,920 Speaker 2: Like the entire season, everybody thinks they're gonna end up together. 715 00:34:18,480 --> 00:34:20,759 Speaker 2: And I think that they will end up together, but 716 00:34:20,800 --> 00:34:23,120 Speaker 2: I don't think that they're serious enough to be in 717 00:34:23,160 --> 00:34:26,320 Speaker 2: an end an engagement. Do you think that anybody will 718 00:34:26,560 --> 00:34:29,640 Speaker 2: end here in engagement? Kat is already honest saying issue 719 00:34:29,640 --> 00:34:29,920 Speaker 2: will not. 720 00:34:30,800 --> 00:34:33,479 Speaker 3: Yeah, well yeah, Kat, respect, good job Kat. 721 00:34:33,560 --> 00:34:37,000 Speaker 4: Yeah, she's been there, done that, and you know, one 722 00:34:37,040 --> 00:34:39,080 Speaker 4: wants to be like you know, ross from friends, where 723 00:34:39,120 --> 00:34:41,800 Speaker 4: you get like, you know, engaged or married sixty four times. 724 00:34:42,000 --> 00:34:44,560 Speaker 3: But I do think that I look at it. 725 00:34:44,600 --> 00:34:48,120 Speaker 4: I'm with you on this because I don't I don't 726 00:34:48,239 --> 00:34:52,720 Speaker 4: get the vibe from anybody else except Andrew and Alex 727 00:34:52,960 --> 00:34:55,439 Speaker 4: that they're that they're hitting their stride at the right time. 728 00:34:55,920 --> 00:34:57,879 Speaker 3: Yes, like you know what I mean, Like I think I. 729 00:34:57,800 --> 00:35:02,840 Speaker 4: Think Jess and God, I can't wind like Spencer. 730 00:35:03,160 --> 00:35:05,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, I keep forgetting his name too for some Yeah, 731 00:35:06,000 --> 00:35:06,600 Speaker 2: and he's. 732 00:35:06,400 --> 00:35:08,880 Speaker 4: Like insanely into her and it's like, you know, but 733 00:35:08,960 --> 00:35:10,160 Speaker 4: it's like they peaked too early. 734 00:35:10,239 --> 00:35:13,040 Speaker 3: I feel I feel like Cat and Dale. Cat and 735 00:35:13,120 --> 00:35:17,319 Speaker 3: Dale are just like you know, the King. Yeah, I'm 736 00:35:17,320 --> 00:35:19,879 Speaker 3: still I'm scared about for sure. 737 00:35:20,160 --> 00:35:22,799 Speaker 2: They're like in high school and it nicks. Yeah, and. 738 00:35:24,800 --> 00:35:27,160 Speaker 4: Then you got the other ones, which I know we 739 00:35:27,280 --> 00:35:30,279 Speaker 4: keep like totally just ignoring them, but they're there's they're 740 00:35:30,320 --> 00:35:33,840 Speaker 4: not there either, right, Jeremy. Jeremy's just something's off, something's 741 00:35:33,880 --> 00:35:37,960 Speaker 4: off there. Bailey seems so sweet, she's so good. Yeah, yeah, 742 00:35:38,000 --> 00:35:40,359 Speaker 4: she and she's being I feel I hope, I hope 743 00:35:40,360 --> 00:35:42,360 Speaker 4: I'm wrong, but it feels like she's being played a 744 00:35:42,400 --> 00:35:45,279 Speaker 4: little bit. And but I don't think Jeremy, I honestly don't. 745 00:35:45,320 --> 00:35:47,400 Speaker 4: I don't know why, but I don't think Jeremy is 746 00:35:47,440 --> 00:35:50,799 Speaker 4: doing it maliciously. I think he's in the moment he 747 00:35:50,880 --> 00:35:53,440 Speaker 4: wanted to redeem himself because that Susie thing might have 748 00:35:53,520 --> 00:35:56,280 Speaker 4: just been a thing. Here I go again, making excuses 749 00:35:56,320 --> 00:35:59,640 Speaker 4: for everyone. But I feel like I feel like, underneath 750 00:35:59,640 --> 00:36:02,640 Speaker 4: it all, he's not in this situation to hurt her. 751 00:36:02,880 --> 00:36:04,239 Speaker 4: Like you can tell, he cares about her. 752 00:36:04,360 --> 00:36:06,640 Speaker 2: I think at this point it's not even appropriate for 753 00:36:06,719 --> 00:36:10,120 Speaker 2: them to leave, you know, because they still like each other. Yeah, 754 00:36:10,120 --> 00:36:12,799 Speaker 2: and we're still not even done eliminating the people that 755 00:36:12,840 --> 00:36:16,279 Speaker 2: don't like each other, Okay, Kathy and Keith. Right, and 756 00:36:16,360 --> 00:36:18,920 Speaker 2: now now, of course, with the two eliminations, yes, we 757 00:36:18,960 --> 00:36:21,120 Speaker 2: are down to the this is this would start to 758 00:36:21,160 --> 00:36:23,640 Speaker 2: be the appropriate time for them to leave if he 759 00:36:23,719 --> 00:36:26,440 Speaker 2: is not like getting to be in the love point. 760 00:36:26,680 --> 00:36:28,319 Speaker 2: I do like the way that this seems like there 761 00:36:28,320 --> 00:36:31,160 Speaker 2: won't be any sort of pressure to be get engaged. 762 00:36:32,000 --> 00:36:34,399 Speaker 2: I think I've named this stat before, but I think 763 00:36:34,560 --> 00:36:37,960 Speaker 2: half of all married Bachelor in Paradise couples did not 764 00:36:38,040 --> 00:36:39,400 Speaker 2: get engaged in Paradise. 765 00:36:40,080 --> 00:36:40,279 Speaker 3: Yeah. 766 00:36:40,320 --> 00:36:44,319 Speaker 2: I think, if not more of the people that you're 767 00:36:44,320 --> 00:36:46,359 Speaker 2: married from Paradise didn't get engaged there. 768 00:36:46,520 --> 00:36:46,719 Speaker 1: Yeah. 769 00:36:46,960 --> 00:36:49,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, So it's good take that stress off the table. 770 00:36:50,480 --> 00:36:53,200 Speaker 4: Well, and it's like, you know, Neil Lane gets a 771 00:36:53,239 --> 00:36:57,400 Speaker 4: lot of camera time. He's good, Neil Lane's good. We 772 00:36:57,400 --> 00:37:00,000 Speaker 4: don't need to be thrown out unless they're getting five 773 00:37:00,040 --> 00:37:01,960 Speaker 4: hundred thousand dollars worth of Neil Laine rings, you know. 774 00:37:02,000 --> 00:37:03,239 Speaker 3: And that's what the whole prize is. 775 00:37:03,520 --> 00:37:05,680 Speaker 2: Some catch to this, right, It's gonna be the great, 776 00:37:05,719 --> 00:37:07,840 Speaker 2: the biggest neel Aane ring we've ever seen in our lives. 777 00:37:08,960 --> 00:37:11,480 Speaker 4: It's just like one giant It's like a hat with 778 00:37:11,560 --> 00:37:12,960 Speaker 4: a giant diamond on it. 779 00:37:13,239 --> 00:37:14,200 Speaker 3: I don't know it's gonna be. 780 00:37:14,239 --> 00:37:18,160 Speaker 4: It's gonna be interesting because I feel like, to me, 781 00:37:18,320 --> 00:37:20,960 Speaker 4: I mean the money part of it, I get it. 782 00:37:20,960 --> 00:37:23,480 Speaker 4: It was introduced to kind of you know, bring that 783 00:37:23,560 --> 00:37:26,520 Speaker 4: whole a new twist to the show and all that 784 00:37:26,560 --> 00:37:31,480 Speaker 4: kind of stuff. But part of me is hopeful that 785 00:37:31,840 --> 00:37:33,839 Speaker 4: there is some type of love that comes from the show, 786 00:37:33,920 --> 00:37:36,440 Speaker 4: because that's always been kind of the magic of it, 787 00:37:36,480 --> 00:37:40,640 Speaker 4: you know, is that whole fairy tale ending that everybody loves, 788 00:37:40,760 --> 00:37:42,560 Speaker 4: you know, and I wouldn't mind seeing that. 789 00:37:43,080 --> 00:37:46,799 Speaker 2: I believe that the twist the final episode, it's all 790 00:37:46,840 --> 00:37:49,719 Speaker 2: gonna come together and prove that the show really is 791 00:37:49,760 --> 00:37:51,680 Speaker 2: about love over money. 792 00:37:51,760 --> 00:37:54,200 Speaker 4: Yeah, that would be pretty sweet. It looks like it 793 00:37:54,200 --> 00:37:56,759 Speaker 4: gets pretty it looks like it gets pretty dicey next week. 794 00:37:56,760 --> 00:37:59,600 Speaker 4: I mean the previews obviously they're bringing back you know, 795 00:37:59,640 --> 00:38:01,520 Speaker 4: it's kind of like Survivor, right, they're bringing I mean, 796 00:38:01,560 --> 00:38:03,720 Speaker 4: they are combining so many shows into this new format. 797 00:38:04,040 --> 00:38:06,640 Speaker 4: They're they're bringing back the whole cast. They're gonna be like, 798 00:38:06,680 --> 00:38:08,920 Speaker 4: you know, you're the tribe is spoken. We're getting that 799 00:38:09,040 --> 00:38:13,120 Speaker 4: element coming up with the Parliament, Paradise Parliament. But we're 800 00:38:13,160 --> 00:38:16,080 Speaker 4: also getting you know, basically, there's gonna be there's gonna 801 00:38:16,080 --> 00:38:17,880 Speaker 4: be some people thrown under the bus because it looks 802 00:38:17,920 --> 00:38:21,360 Speaker 4: like hysterics and Sue. I mean, it looks like, you know, 803 00:38:21,600 --> 00:38:24,600 Speaker 4: obviously we know that Keith and Kathy are going home, 804 00:38:24,680 --> 00:38:27,440 Speaker 4: and then who's the who's the couple that you think 805 00:38:27,520 --> 00:38:30,880 Speaker 4: of the four would be on the chop block? Like, 806 00:38:30,880 --> 00:38:32,160 Speaker 4: which one do you think would be the next one 807 00:38:32,160 --> 00:38:32,640 Speaker 4: to go home? 808 00:38:33,280 --> 00:38:35,360 Speaker 2: I do think I think it'll be Bailey and Jeremy 809 00:38:35,520 --> 00:38:40,200 Speaker 2: because of all the things we've said, but also because 810 00:38:40,200 --> 00:38:43,320 Speaker 2: of the Parliament, and I think the Parliament's going to 811 00:38:43,360 --> 00:38:47,840 Speaker 2: bring up a lot about the Susie stuff. I also 812 00:38:47,920 --> 00:38:52,920 Speaker 2: think that they're going to get at Kat. It seems 813 00:38:52,960 --> 00:38:58,759 Speaker 2: like Alisha, I'm sorry that I cannot ever say her name, Alicia, Alicia, 814 00:38:59,080 --> 00:39:02,800 Speaker 2: Alicia Silversion. Yeah, she seems like to have a vendetta 815 00:39:02,840 --> 00:39:04,040 Speaker 2: against Kat and she's. 816 00:39:06,200 --> 00:39:06,680 Speaker 1: Yeah. 817 00:39:07,080 --> 00:39:09,359 Speaker 3: Yeah, they're fired up. I mean they have definitely been. 818 00:39:09,920 --> 00:39:12,279 Speaker 4: They probably spent some time with the producers on there 819 00:39:12,520 --> 00:39:15,520 Speaker 4: three days since they've been off the off the ranch, 820 00:39:15,840 --> 00:39:19,040 Speaker 4: and they probably have just been getting so fired up 821 00:39:19,440 --> 00:39:21,440 Speaker 4: about how to settle the score when they come back 822 00:39:21,480 --> 00:39:24,000 Speaker 4: in there. So it's gonna be, you know, it's definitely 823 00:39:24,000 --> 00:39:27,000 Speaker 4: gonna be some fireworks for sure. And it's funny tonight. 824 00:39:27,040 --> 00:39:28,680 Speaker 4: You know, my brother in law and a few of 825 00:39:28,719 --> 00:39:32,120 Speaker 4: my buddies that I was with this weekend. They are avid, 826 00:39:32,680 --> 00:39:36,600 Speaker 4: avid Bachelor and Paradise fans, and they literally all dudes, 827 00:39:36,640 --> 00:39:38,880 Speaker 4: like their wives don't even watch the show. And they're like, 828 00:39:39,280 --> 00:39:42,239 Speaker 4: they're like texting me all night. We don't want any spoilers. 829 00:39:42,680 --> 00:39:45,960 Speaker 4: Don't tell us anything. You know, we know you've seen 830 00:39:45,960 --> 00:39:47,880 Speaker 4: the show. I'm like, actually I haven't. We're watching it 831 00:39:47,960 --> 00:39:50,239 Speaker 4: later tonight. What. Oh my god, Well, we're not gonna 832 00:39:50,239 --> 00:39:51,560 Speaker 4: tell you anything that so we don't want to, you know, 833 00:39:51,600 --> 00:39:53,160 Speaker 4: influence your your podcast. 834 00:39:53,600 --> 00:39:56,040 Speaker 3: I'm just like, you guys are fools. But anyway, they're 835 00:39:56,160 --> 00:39:59,839 Speaker 3: they're so into the show and they're like, I mean 836 00:40:00,040 --> 00:40:01,520 Speaker 3: and there after. 837 00:40:01,320 --> 00:40:03,239 Speaker 4: The you know, they showed the previous for next week 838 00:40:03,320 --> 00:40:06,439 Speaker 4: or whatever. I'm just getting blown up. Oh my god, 839 00:40:06,480 --> 00:40:08,480 Speaker 4: this is happening. This is gonna be this is going 840 00:40:08,560 --> 00:40:11,319 Speaker 4: to be a reckoning. Things are going down next week. 841 00:40:11,360 --> 00:40:13,839 Speaker 2: Guys, are you getting this because we're recording this at 842 00:40:13,920 --> 00:40:16,680 Speaker 2: ten thirty pm Eastern, Like your your tex should be 843 00:40:16,719 --> 00:40:17,520 Speaker 2: rolling in about it. 844 00:40:17,560 --> 00:40:19,000 Speaker 3: Oh they're rolling, they're rolling. 845 00:40:19,120 --> 00:40:21,239 Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm watching it blown up my phone right now 846 00:40:21,280 --> 00:40:21,920 Speaker 4: as we speak. 847 00:40:22,320 --> 00:40:25,360 Speaker 3: I'm just like, oh my god, all right. 848 00:40:25,440 --> 00:40:29,399 Speaker 2: So fun, so funny, Bachelor Bob. I'll never not call 849 00:40:29,440 --> 00:40:31,560 Speaker 2: you Bachelor Bob. Thank you so much for joining us. 850 00:40:31,680 --> 00:40:35,760 Speaker 2: This was really fun. I love your insight and until 851 00:40:35,800 --> 00:40:38,120 Speaker 2: next time, I've been Ashley. 852 00:40:38,640 --> 00:40:42,040 Speaker 3: I've been Bob Bye. I've always glad to say that. 853 00:40:43,000 --> 00:40:45,960 Speaker 1: Follow the Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous podcasts on 854 00:40:46,000 --> 00:40:49,200 Speaker 1: iHeartRadio or subscribe wherever you listen to podcasts