WEBVTT - Conversations About Birthdays 0:00:01.840 --> 0:00:04.440 Watch up and welcome back to another episode of No 0:00:04.519 --> 0:00:07.520 Senner's podcast with your hosts now fuck that with your 0:00:07.560 --> 0:00:08.280 low glasses. 0:00:08.320 --> 0:00:19.479 Malone says g popped out at the Kendrick concert. That 0:00:19.640 --> 0:00:21.120 headline is not going to be. 0:00:22.560 --> 0:00:23.280 For a photo. 0:00:27.960 --> 0:00:28.880 Wasn't photo. 0:00:32.960 --> 0:00:34.400 Popped up to show niggas? 0:00:34.440 --> 0:00:34.640 Right? 0:00:35.400 --> 0:00:41.200 This is getting worse. This is like almost unbelievable. 0:00:42.600 --> 0:00:43.639 And he's like, what's y'all thought? 0:00:43.760 --> 0:00:45.440 Let me pop out, let me show your niggas. 0:00:46.200 --> 0:00:52.000 But say when Kendrick saying that, he wasn't saying like, hey, 0:00:52.040 --> 0:00:54.760 I'm here again, It's like, nigga, I have to show you, 0:00:54.840 --> 0:00:55.400 like you know what I mean? 0:00:55.880 --> 0:00:56.120 Let me. 0:00:59.800 --> 0:01:01.600 You think I ain't been around and like. 0:01:01.640 --> 0:01:01.960 Know you. 0:01:07.840 --> 0:01:11.040 Okay, fine, that's what I was stay. 0:01:11.080 --> 0:01:19.040 I was like, yeah, show them how about don't know 0:01:19.120 --> 0:01:20.440 how this. 0:01:21.840 --> 0:01:28.840 Because Red always just trying to gentrified urban street urban terms. 0:01:29.280 --> 0:01:38.040 He needs hella like mainstream Orange County, mall way, That's 0:01:38.040 --> 0:01:40.319 what I'm saying. She's not even from like the suburbs 0:01:40.400 --> 0:01:44.640 like that, but her takes be hella. Like I was 0:01:44.680 --> 0:01:47.480 trying to explain to her what outside man, I'm like, 0:01:48.040 --> 0:01:51.160 outside doesn't mean like outside the front door. It means 0:01:51.200 --> 0:01:55.240 like you in the streets on some you know, mild behavior. 0:01:55.440 --> 0:01:56.400 You know, I mean you dug it. 0:01:56.600 --> 0:01:59.680 Like you you you in the streets, you know, in 0:01:59.680 --> 0:02:01.400 the middle a chaos. You're willing to be in the 0:02:01.400 --> 0:02:04.720 middle of chaos. Like I'm outside, like I'm looking for trouble. 0:02:05.360 --> 0:02:08.200 She thought outside when rappers were saying it, man like 0:02:08.520 --> 0:02:11.600 outside And when next thing, you know, because you start 0:02:11.639 --> 0:02:14.720 seeing all these flyers for clubs. 0:02:14.720 --> 0:02:17.560 Like outside, I'm like, bro, that's not what that means. 0:02:18.240 --> 0:02:21.240 So that's what you'll see. They're introjecting that thing because 0:02:21.280 --> 0:02:22.600 we do see that, like that's like. 0:02:22.560 --> 0:02:28.720 I'm outside, might popping out. I don't know about it. 0:02:29.400 --> 0:02:30.120 They're out. 0:02:31.080 --> 0:02:33.960 So now ever since Kendrick's line, pop out and. 0:02:34.040 --> 0:02:37.640 Show niggas, but he really is expressing like that, people 0:02:37.680 --> 0:02:40.160 don't believe you would be a problem. So sometimes you 0:02:40.200 --> 0:02:43.440 gotta come pull up and make it a problem for them. 0:02:43.919 --> 0:02:46.760 A great example of popping out and showing somebody is 0:02:46.800 --> 0:02:48.799 the final quadrant. 0:02:48.680 --> 0:02:51.280 Of the video Tupac Must Die. 0:02:52.560 --> 0:02:57.160 That's m hmm okay. 0:02:57.520 --> 0:03:00.600 That's when people doubt and they're like, okay, glasses as 0:03:00.639 --> 0:03:02.600 Glass his career over because you know you were here 0:03:02.639 --> 0:03:05.639 a thousand motherfucker saying ship. But it's like I popped 0:03:05.639 --> 0:03:08.040 out and showed niggas like you can't fuck with me 0:03:08.080 --> 0:03:10.120 when it comes to this street urban culture ship, Like 0:03:10.120 --> 0:03:13.760 I'm too vested in it. So I made it a problem. 0:03:13.840 --> 0:03:17.080 I like I arrived and made it a problem. So 0:03:17.200 --> 0:03:20.160 pop out and show niggas like bring the problem to them. 0:03:20.320 --> 0:03:22.160 You know you you. 0:03:21.919 --> 0:03:25.120 You're not around, but I'm finna show up and make 0:03:25.200 --> 0:03:27.280 it a problem for you because you're here. 0:03:29.040 --> 0:03:33.120 I feel like it means popped out the car. It 0:03:33.240 --> 0:03:40.600 showed you we weren't fucking around the baby in the 0:03:40.600 --> 0:03:42.080 car and gave you a free education. 0:03:42.680 --> 0:03:47.400 Yeah the problem. So the baby daddy was popping out 0:03:47.400 --> 0:03:47.880 showing briat. 0:03:48.600 --> 0:03:51.600 It was just making it a problem those baby daddies. 0:03:57.280 --> 0:03:59.040 When is we doing to dating shoe? When are we 0:03:59.120 --> 0:03:59.480 starting that? 0:04:01.240 --> 0:04:05.360 I didn't even know now because ever since I said that, woo, 0:04:06.920 --> 0:04:10.520 that makes it more. My dms have like especially on Facebook. 0:04:10.520 --> 0:04:11.880 I don't even be on Facebook. I went in there, 0:04:11.920 --> 0:04:15.280 It's like hello, good morning, what who are you? Okay, 0:04:15.320 --> 0:04:20.039 I'm looking going scrolling down. I friended a few guys 0:04:20.120 --> 0:04:23.120 and then they hit me like good morning, how you doing. 0:04:23.200 --> 0:04:24.960 I'm like Okay, here we go with this stuff, and 0:04:25.000 --> 0:04:26.279 I'm like, okay, who are these people? 0:04:26.279 --> 0:04:29.400 And then you're like, well, maybe I guess so. 0:04:28.920 --> 0:04:29.760 Sound say good morning? 0:04:29.839 --> 0:04:30.960 Well what they supposed to say? 0:04:31.000 --> 0:04:33.360 No, I'm just saying now, I see, like, okay, ship, 0:04:33.400 --> 0:04:35.320 I shouldn't have said that's just so soon, because now. 0:04:35.279 --> 0:04:38.200 I gotta go you double backing on you. 0:04:38.960 --> 0:04:40.200 I ain't double backing right now. 0:04:40.200 --> 0:04:42.720 So then what's the problem with me and introducing themselves 0:04:42.720 --> 0:04:44.719 saying hey, good, you know. 0:04:45.520 --> 0:04:47.840 New right now? So I'm just like, oh shit, let. 0:04:47.760 --> 0:04:49.560 Me you don't remember what that was. 0:04:49.560 --> 0:04:54.200 Like, no matter what, mad if you get attention, and 0:04:54.520 --> 0:04:56.800 more mad if you don't, I'm. 0:04:56.680 --> 0:04:58.640 Mad about it. I'm just saying it was just like, 0:04:59.440 --> 0:05:01.880 oh shit, you open your girl looking. 0:05:01.920 --> 0:05:04.039 I was like, now I got to put up with 0:05:04.080 --> 0:05:07.719 these good mornings now now I have to actually entertain 0:05:07.839 --> 0:05:09.560 this attention that I was. 0:05:11.600 --> 0:05:15.520 I'm good. It's just I'm just saying. It was just like, damn, 0:05:16.560 --> 0:05:19.760 it's there, it's there. They ready, Yeah, they ready? So 0:05:20.040 --> 0:05:22.080 just you shouldn't said nothing. 0:05:23.680 --> 0:05:24.040 Ready. 0:05:24.360 --> 0:05:26.920 I'm not complaining though. It's cool. Hey, I'm glad y'all 0:05:26.960 --> 0:05:27.159 like me. 0:05:28.360 --> 0:05:33.719 I don't say just don't know you? Yeah, no, that's 0:05:33.760 --> 0:05:36.160 not what I've said. Forgive me. 0:05:36.520 --> 0:05:39.000 So no, Like you know how you first meet you, 0:05:39.160 --> 0:05:41.040 like a guy at first meet you and he chasing you, 0:05:41.120 --> 0:05:43.400 he doing everything to get you, and then he actually 0:05:43.400 --> 0:05:46.040 gets you, and then ship start going all the way wrong. 0:05:46.880 --> 0:05:47.839 That's because he knows you. 0:05:47.920 --> 0:05:51.279 Now, well, that's the same thing, because that's what guys 0:05:51.320 --> 0:05:52.120 do all the time too. 0:05:52.360 --> 0:05:52.839 They do that. 0:05:52.960 --> 0:05:55.000 I'll be like, who are you? You were not? You 0:05:55.040 --> 0:05:56.040 are not the person I'm at. 0:05:56.360 --> 0:05:58.760 Well, I think guys are a little bit more obvious. 0:06:00.120 --> 0:06:00.440 It is. 0:06:00.800 --> 0:06:02.880 You can kind of tell niggas's pieces and ship. 0:06:03.400 --> 0:06:08.080 Yeah, if you pay, especially if you're paying attention, let's yeah. Yeah, 0:06:09.000 --> 0:06:10.159 some red flags you're starting. 0:06:11.200 --> 0:06:14.760 They be popping up the whole time. You just don't 0:06:14.760 --> 0:06:15.400 want to admit it. 0:06:15.440 --> 0:06:19.120 You just be hopeful that it's just hard out here man. 0:06:19.200 --> 0:06:21.040 So you know, you be hoping when you give somebody 0:06:21.080 --> 0:06:23.240 your time, you really be open and wishing that you're 0:06:23.279 --> 0:06:23.960 not wasting it. 0:06:25.200 --> 0:06:30.080 But I think if you actually really enjoy the experience, yeah, 0:06:30.160 --> 0:06:32.840 you couldn't waste your time. Like, if you waste your time, 0:06:32.880 --> 0:06:35.120 it's your own personal thing. No God can make you 0:06:35.160 --> 0:06:39.200 waste your time. Like, if you really going to, you know, 0:06:40.440 --> 0:06:44.560 dialogueing and interacting with another human. If you understand what 0:06:44.600 --> 0:06:46.960 your purpose is on the impression you're trying to leave 0:06:47.000 --> 0:06:50.520 on their life versus you know, like y'all problem is 0:06:50.560 --> 0:06:53.000 you trying to get something out of it versus figuring 0:06:53.000 --> 0:06:55.960 out what you're gonna give, then everything else will be fun. 0:06:58.240 --> 0:06:59.440 I just need you to be funny. 0:07:00.839 --> 0:07:02.080 Why you don't date a comedian? 0:07:02.640 --> 0:07:04.760 I should. 0:07:06.480 --> 0:07:09.000 Hang out down at Flappers and just you know, see 0:07:09.000 --> 0:07:09.679 what's what. 0:07:14.240 --> 0:07:17.400 I seen a couple of I saw a video of. 0:07:17.720 --> 0:07:19.040 Who goes Flappers? 0:07:19.320 --> 0:07:20.640 A lot of people the man. 0:07:20.680 --> 0:07:22.360 I saw a video this a week or two, like 0:07:23.200 --> 0:07:26.120 name brand, like big, biggerish name people that were there, 0:07:26.120 --> 0:07:26.480 and I was. 0:07:26.440 --> 0:07:28.920 Like, god, damgn man, I haven't seen that name since. 0:07:29.080 --> 0:07:32.080 Like I got downgraded to Flappers like ten years ago 0:07:32.200 --> 0:07:33.120 to go do a show there. 0:07:34.360 --> 0:07:34.960 Downgraded? 0:07:35.000 --> 0:07:37.080 Where was where was you downgraded from? 0:07:37.440 --> 0:07:40.960 I don't remember the names of other places A couple 0:07:41.000 --> 0:07:43.040 of times, like the like the main spots over off 0:07:43.040 --> 0:07:45.040 of like like comedy Story and shit like that. 0:07:45.120 --> 0:07:48.120 But like I forget I. 0:07:48.360 --> 0:07:50.880 Forget the names of the spots in the San Fernando Valley. 0:07:50.920 --> 0:07:52.520 But I saw that sign. I was like I read 0:07:52.640 --> 0:07:53.600 signed I hate that place. 0:07:54.240 --> 0:07:56.440 Yeah, it's in Burbank, Flappers. 0:07:56.760 --> 0:07:57.120 That's the one. 0:07:57.160 --> 0:07:58.760 There was another one in North Hollywood too. 0:07:59.840 --> 0:08:01.320 I can't even think of that one. 0:08:01.360 --> 0:08:07.360 But yeah, well I think you can make really. 0:08:09.360 --> 0:08:13.480 I think you can make a situation great. You know 0:08:13.520 --> 0:08:14.000 what I'm saying. 0:08:14.040 --> 0:08:16.080 If you if you walk into a focused on what 0:08:16.120 --> 0:08:21.200 you're gonna give, that's true. Sometimes y'all just make the 0:08:21.280 --> 0:08:24.400 choice of the focus on what you're gonna get, and 0:08:24.440 --> 0:08:26.160 that's when you waste your time because you didn't get 0:08:26.160 --> 0:08:26.680 what you wanted. 0:08:29.920 --> 0:08:30.400 Makes sense. 0:08:30.480 --> 0:08:35.640 No, you're not fucking with that too, too crazy, So 0:08:35.760 --> 0:08:38.800 I just changed that part about it. No seilings, yeil. 0:08:40.480 --> 0:08:43.080 I got my man Pete in the house. But more 0:08:43.080 --> 0:08:48.040 important than Pete, I got the cousins who really ever come. 0:08:49.520 --> 0:08:53.680 To a studio shout out to Yeah, what's that red? 0:08:54.000 --> 0:08:56.920 Hey, what's going on? 0:08:57.559 --> 0:08:58.160 The ginger? 0:08:58.280 --> 0:08:58.520 Al? 0:08:59.640 --> 0:09:02.480 Got the uh the stuff they use for babies. 0:09:03.400 --> 0:09:05.880 Looks like you guys got some sort of cabernet or something. 0:09:06.200 --> 0:09:07.680 Getting ready for the birthday. 0:09:08.920 --> 0:09:09.440 This weekend? 0:09:10.160 --> 0:09:16.480 Happy birthday. Oh I'm about to pop out, damn gotta 0:09:16.520 --> 0:09:18.560 show exactly. 0:09:25.160 --> 0:09:27.720 Yeah, so I've got to hydrate, you know, you gotta 0:09:27.760 --> 0:09:31.600 prepare all here, just really million, just drinking and stuff. 0:09:31.600 --> 0:09:36.000 You know what I'm saying, You got you gotta hydrate, 0:09:36.040 --> 0:09:37.760 you gotta stretch. You know what I'm saying. 0:09:38.880 --> 0:09:44.880 I'm gonna change my name to William Nilly stage name, 0:09:45.440 --> 0:09:46.280 William Nilly. 0:09:46.960 --> 0:09:50.280 That's all rap. Name it. Man. 0:09:50.920 --> 0:09:52.800 You could pop out and show somebody with a name 0:09:52.880 --> 0:09:53.040 like that. 0:09:53.440 --> 0:09:56.160 Sure, you can pop out and show somebody for the 0:09:56.280 --> 0:09:59.839 name like William Nilly. I might have the name of 0:10:00.120 --> 0:10:03.679 p that William Nilly, Willy Nilly. 0:10:05.360 --> 0:10:07.080 Oh man, William Nelly. 0:10:07.800 --> 0:10:10.719 Yeah, tell y'all, just hydra Ye'll be all right. 0:10:11.400 --> 0:10:13.800 Yeah, But at this point, why would you go through 0:10:13.840 --> 0:10:16.880 all of that to go dehydrate yourself for your birthday. 0:10:18.080 --> 0:10:22.840 Party? Why is that? Why is that considered partying? 0:10:23.760 --> 0:10:25.560 It's not really part you know what. 0:10:25.600 --> 0:10:26.000 I'm sorry. 0:10:26.040 --> 0:10:29.720 I don't want to make you think because that's how 0:10:29.760 --> 0:10:31.160 you just got to You're. 0:10:31.040 --> 0:10:34.560 Like the snicker and make me think. No. 0:10:35.000 --> 0:10:37.559 I just want to be able to just dehydrate all 0:10:37.600 --> 0:10:39.400 I want to and nobody should ask me. 0:10:39.440 --> 0:10:43.880 Why am I dehydrating myself to have fun for me? 0:10:45.120 --> 0:10:48.960 Justin k This is how she drinks too much. 0:10:49.720 --> 0:10:50.240 Justin Kate. 0:10:51.840 --> 0:10:56.640 That's my other rap name is justin Case, will justin 0:10:56.760 --> 0:10:58.319 Case featuring William Nilly. 0:10:58.960 --> 0:11:07.360 What I'm trying to tell you, yeah, stretch a little. 0:11:07.720 --> 0:11:08.560 I'm telling y'all do. 0:11:09.160 --> 0:11:14.440 So the thought of it don't make you think like like, yeah, 0:11:14.200 --> 0:11:18.960 I'm rehydrating because I know I'm going to purposely dehydrate 0:11:19.040 --> 0:11:22.079 myself in the goal of having fun. 0:11:22.960 --> 0:11:24.360 It's okay, you'd be right. 0:11:27.000 --> 0:11:32.040 She's not thinking like that my birthday I'm doing drinking. 0:11:33.320 --> 0:11:37.760 I mean, she just doesn't know how the night's gonna go. 0:11:37.880 --> 0:11:40.240 You're explaining to someone that does not drink. 0:11:40.880 --> 0:11:41.319 I'm not. 0:11:42.240 --> 0:11:44.480 What does it matter that I don't? I don't drink, 0:11:45.360 --> 0:11:50.640 So you're gonna always frown? Then, I'm not Frowning's one 0:11:51.120 --> 0:11:54.480 frown on my face. I'm asking a genuine question. How 0:11:54.520 --> 0:11:57.240 do you call the pursuit of fun dehydrating yourself? 0:11:57.720 --> 0:11:59.680 I mean, that's that's an allary. 0:11:59.760 --> 0:12:01.880 Car, I have fun. 0:12:02.440 --> 0:12:05.440 You know what, women do have some crazy stuff. I 0:12:05.480 --> 0:12:07.920 met women in the past who wanted me to choke them. 0:12:08.080 --> 0:12:09.120 Oh yeah, that's fine. 0:12:11.720 --> 0:12:12.520 What's wrong with that? 0:12:12.600 --> 0:12:17.160 G I'm saying, that's how is that crazy? 0:12:17.640 --> 0:12:18.199 Choke me? 0:12:18.800 --> 0:12:20.120 I don't understand that at all. 0:12:20.160 --> 0:12:20.720 That's bizarre. 0:12:22.080 --> 0:12:23.400 I've encountered that before. 0:12:23.600 --> 0:12:23.880 I don't. 0:12:24.120 --> 0:12:27.520 I'm like, this is it's very common, and I don't. 0:12:28.840 --> 0:12:29.720 Did you like it? 0:12:30.280 --> 0:12:30.680 And I don't. 0:12:30.960 --> 0:12:33.840 I don't understand ship for me, you want being choked, 0:12:34.400 --> 0:12:36.600 but like did you do it? 0:12:37.679 --> 0:12:37.920 Did you. 0:12:39.559 --> 0:12:39.880 Whatever? 0:12:39.920 --> 0:12:43.520 I don't care, But it's like, let make a diference 0:12:43.920 --> 0:12:45.800 that I don't understand it. I don't understand why you 0:12:45.800 --> 0:12:48.800 want me to pretend to be your mother's husband by 0:12:48.880 --> 0:12:50.160 calling me your father. 0:12:49.960 --> 0:12:53.920 All the time and choke me day and choke me. 0:12:55.280 --> 0:12:58.640 That's love, that's this functional relationship. 0:12:59.880 --> 0:13:03.960 I don't know, but I mean the choking thing, yeah, 0:13:03.960 --> 0:13:06.040 it could be fun at times. I'm not gonna just 0:13:06.080 --> 0:13:09.400 tell anybody like that, but I've. 0:13:09.240 --> 0:13:11.480 Had a situation where I'm like, yeah, and it's not 0:13:11.520 --> 0:13:13.600 like a choke to where like you can't breathe. 0:13:13.640 --> 0:13:15.920 It's just kind of like a you know, like a. 0:13:16.760 --> 0:13:20.000 Imagine imagine if I couldn't imagine that, guess God loved 0:13:20.040 --> 0:13:21.080 me enough to kill me. 0:13:21.160 --> 0:13:27.320 But then but then but then, like, look at me, 0:13:28.520 --> 0:13:29.439 do you see me? 0:13:34.040 --> 0:13:36.520 I always look at it. Well, if I don't pull 0:13:36.559 --> 0:13:38.160 out it enough, at least I'm already. 0:13:37.920 --> 0:13:46.480 Halfway choking her out, you know what. At least a 0:13:46.559 --> 0:13:48.559 Scott Peterson maneuvers already in place. 0:13:48.559 --> 0:13:51.720 If I don't get it out in time, he didn't. 0:13:52.600 --> 0:13:55.359 Okay, go ahead and drink this drill. 0:13:55.160 --> 0:14:00.400 On that note, So what there is your birthday? 0:14:00.960 --> 0:14:03.320 It's on Monday, June seventeen, same day as Kendrick. 0:14:04.080 --> 0:14:06.480 Oh, same day as my mother's. 0:14:06.800 --> 0:14:07.600 We did talk about that. 0:14:07.679 --> 0:14:07.880 Yep. 0:14:09.640 --> 0:14:12.560 And Tupod's birthday is the following day or the day before, 0:14:12.600 --> 0:14:17.640 the day before and birthday is Oh, it's Saturday, is it? 0:14:19.200 --> 0:14:21.320 Yeah? 0:14:22.120 --> 0:14:25.480 Yeah, that's that's some Gemini shit. 0:14:26.320 --> 0:14:26.560 True. 0:14:27.040 --> 0:14:29.160 Let me let me dehydrate myself. 0:14:31.680 --> 0:14:33.920 She go, be all right, she would do all that. 0:14:34.040 --> 0:14:36.760 I'm not. I'm just doing this just a case. But 0:14:36.840 --> 0:14:39.720 I already know me. I don't know that because I've 0:14:39.720 --> 0:14:40.480 been on a minute. 0:14:41.760 --> 0:14:46.440 I think that's brilliant that you understand you dehydrating yourself. No, 0:14:46.560 --> 0:14:48.560 I swear to God, most people who drink a lot 0:14:48.640 --> 0:14:49.400 don't know that. 0:14:49.240 --> 0:14:50.080 That's what they're doing. 0:14:50.160 --> 0:14:53.720 They're dehydrating theirself. The sugar and liquors starting to take 0:14:53.760 --> 0:14:54.440 all of the water. 0:14:55.280 --> 0:14:57.880 But that's okay, So that that's only if you're drinking 0:14:57.920 --> 0:15:00.000 a lot. She doesn't drink a lot, so she doesn't 0:15:00.040 --> 0:15:03.160 really probably even need to hydrate herself right now. 0:15:03.200 --> 0:15:06.240 Well, remember, being drunk to some degree is being dehydrated. 0:15:07.000 --> 0:15:09.040 So if you ever got drunk and why you kind 0:15:09.080 --> 0:15:09.840 of that's why. 0:15:10.160 --> 0:15:13.040 A headache or you brewery when you walk in. 0:15:13.400 --> 0:15:15.320 That's like all feelings of dehydration. 0:15:16.760 --> 0:15:20.560 Okay, I thought I was just drunk as. 0:15:21.160 --> 0:15:24.000 But that would be the way that a drunk would 0:15:24.040 --> 0:15:27.800 say it. Clinically, it would probably be. 0:15:27.720 --> 0:15:31.520 Connected to more of a like, yes, more ware. 0:15:31.560 --> 0:15:34.800 You could diagnose it like the body going through some 0:15:34.920 --> 0:15:36.800 different not just being drunk as fuck. 0:15:37.640 --> 0:15:43.680 D af what's your plans for your birthday? 0:15:44.160 --> 0:15:48.520 So we're going to branch Ladies, you know, have some 0:15:48.560 --> 0:15:52.200 mimosas and stuff, and then I got a sweet We're 0:15:52.280 --> 0:15:57.000 gonna go there some more, then leave there and go 0:15:57.080 --> 0:16:00.000 to a little day, little party. I don't want to 0:16:00.080 --> 0:16:01.640 say where I'm at. 0:16:01.960 --> 0:16:03.240 Well this comes out after. 0:16:03.200 --> 0:16:06.320 Okay, Well, I gonna la function. 0:16:07.200 --> 0:16:08.800 La function. That's the spot word that's up. 0:16:08.920 --> 0:16:09.840 Yes, in Hollywood. 0:16:09.880 --> 0:16:11.640 I've never been. It's gonna be my first time. 0:16:13.480 --> 0:16:18.800 It's like a day even it's actually Big Boys, Big 0:16:18.800 --> 0:16:21.600 Boys thirtieth radio anniversary. So we're just gonna all be 0:16:21.680 --> 0:16:26.600 there chilling. You know, everybody named Mama in La. 0:16:27.800 --> 0:16:31.920 It's a June team celebration. Also mm hmmm, oh, it 0:16:31.920 --> 0:16:34.600 should be cool. They have like vendors and stuff like that, like. 0:16:36.280 --> 0:16:39.440 Art. Then they also have like performances stuff like that 0:16:39.520 --> 0:16:40.160 should be cool. 0:16:40.680 --> 0:16:42.840 How many days do you plan to celebrate your birthday? 0:16:43.160 --> 0:16:46.920 Well, I have, I'm gonna have I'm gonna get up 0:16:46.920 --> 0:16:49.280 and do like a spa day on my actual birthday, 0:16:50.480 --> 0:16:54.280 and then I plan on going to the beach one 0:16:54.280 --> 0:16:58.160 of these days the week and also our shopping. 0:17:01.120 --> 0:17:03.520 So about four days a celebration the. 0:17:04.680 --> 0:17:08.280 Whole week of week. 0:17:08.800 --> 0:17:12.680 What you don't think y'all just overdo it for your birthdays. 0:17:12.760 --> 0:17:15.680 I love birthdays. I think that birthdays are awesome. I 0:17:15.760 --> 0:17:18.280 always go out away for my birthday. I love birthdays 0:17:18.280 --> 0:17:20.000 before a holiday or anything. 0:17:20.000 --> 0:17:22.240 To be honest with you, why what did you do 0:17:22.320 --> 0:17:23.400 for your birthday last year? 0:17:24.119 --> 0:17:27.679 Nothing? He asked me, What did I do for my birthday? 0:17:27.720 --> 0:17:28.320 I said nothing? 0:17:28.720 --> 0:17:29.760 Why don't you do anything? 0:17:29.800 --> 0:17:31.760 He never does any I didn't do nothing that day. 0:17:32.080 --> 0:17:34.000 My mom did something, so maybe if she was alive, 0:17:34.000 --> 0:17:35.640 I was saying her, presure she did all the work. 0:17:36.040 --> 0:17:36.840 I just showed up. 0:17:38.000 --> 0:17:41.400 It's just a celebration of just no he or another year. 0:17:42.280 --> 0:17:44.560 It's a celebration of the work that your mom did 0:17:44.600 --> 0:17:46.159 to get you here. 0:17:46.480 --> 0:17:47.160 You ain't do shit. 0:17:48.080 --> 0:17:49.840 I felt like my mom should give me something for 0:17:49.840 --> 0:17:52.679 Mother's Day because I made her a mom on my birthday, 0:17:52.680 --> 0:17:54.720 I probably should do something for her because she did 0:17:54.760 --> 0:17:55.280 all the work. 0:17:57.000 --> 0:18:00.960 He did all the work. Yeah, I didn't know. 0:18:01.000 --> 0:18:03.320 He didn't do ship after that first, that nigga didn't 0:18:03.320 --> 0:18:07.640 do ship period, That digga to do nothing. Shout out 0:18:07.680 --> 0:18:09.920 to my pops. Though my pops got busy, but the 0:18:10.000 --> 0:18:14.080 nigga were IMPREGNATETD. My mom didn't do nothing. So but 0:18:14.080 --> 0:18:15.800 but you know, and don't talk to you. 0:18:16.960 --> 0:18:17.880 You don't talk to your dad. 0:18:18.640 --> 0:18:20.879 Yes, I talked to my dad, But the person that 0:18:21.000 --> 0:18:23.320 came to my mom is a different story. 0:18:23.720 --> 0:18:24.800 We just started talking. 0:18:25.280 --> 0:18:27.879 Really, so, how long had it been before forty years? 0:18:28.359 --> 0:18:29.280 You just met him? 0:18:30.240 --> 0:18:31.600 What happened did you ask? 0:18:31.800 --> 0:18:34.879 Yeah? How did you navigate through that time gap? 0:18:36.040 --> 0:18:36.919 Y'all want the truth? 0:18:37.080 --> 0:18:40.119 Yeah? 0:18:40.640 --> 0:18:44.360 So the truth is, Oh, man, he gonna be mad 0:18:44.400 --> 0:18:44.639 at me. 0:18:45.160 --> 0:18:48.520 So my brother, my little brother k is mad because, 0:18:49.000 --> 0:18:51.520 oh he goes through these spurts where he's upset at 0:18:51.560 --> 0:18:52.360 the relationship. 0:18:52.920 --> 0:18:55.200 Like my little brother father raised me my whole life. 0:18:55.240 --> 0:18:56.960 I didn't even know he was my He wasn't my 0:18:57.080 --> 0:18:59.680 dad till I was like nine, when my older brother 0:18:59.720 --> 0:19:03.160 Pool and my younger brother k start saying that like. 0:19:03.080 --> 0:19:06.119 I was an orphan. That was a joke because my 0:19:06.240 --> 0:19:07.040 dad didn't make me. 0:19:07.119 --> 0:19:09.719 I didn't know that before that, right, you know, I 0:19:09.760 --> 0:19:11.760 just thought my mom and my dad was my dad. 0:19:11.880 --> 0:19:14.159 So that was how I first find out. 0:19:14.400 --> 0:19:18.480 And so my my younger brother sometimes goes through spurts 0:19:18.520 --> 0:19:19.600 at the relationship that. 0:19:19.680 --> 0:19:22.040 Me and my pops share. You know what I mean. 0:19:22.040 --> 0:19:24.280 I don't know whatever is the reason, but we. 0:19:24.359 --> 0:19:27.600 Hella close right our whole that's like my guy, my 0:19:27.600 --> 0:19:28.720 favorite person in the world. 0:19:29.480 --> 0:19:35.240 So he was upset at that relationship. 0:19:35.400 --> 0:19:37.600 So he went all out of his way to go 0:19:37.680 --> 0:19:41.040 find the person that came in my mother, and he 0:19:41.160 --> 0:19:43.760 found him on Facebook because we share the same name. 0:19:44.040 --> 0:19:47.040 When way to go get you your old dad, to 0:19:47.080 --> 0:19:48.160 get you off of his dad. 0:19:48.760 --> 0:19:54.159 Yes, oh wow recently I just told you, yeah, I 0:19:54.359 --> 0:20:02.280 just forty years how his name yeah yeah, yeah, we 0:20:02.320 --> 0:20:03.880 had to sign. We don't have the same exact name. 0:20:03.920 --> 0:20:05.639 I got middle names. You don't have middle names. 0:20:06.000 --> 0:20:08.040 So you met you met up with him already. I've 0:20:08.040 --> 0:20:09.840 talked to him and he lives in the city. 0:20:10.080 --> 0:20:12.080 No, No, he lived in Vegas where he used to 0:20:12.080 --> 0:20:14.000 be in the city. 0:20:14.760 --> 0:20:15.800 Oh that's crazy. 0:20:16.080 --> 0:20:19.480 Yeah, so you how often do you talk to him now? 0:20:19.960 --> 0:20:22.120 Probably what's a month? 0:20:22.320 --> 0:20:23.960 Did he know this whole time? 0:20:24.200 --> 0:20:28.600 Like, so it's treaty right because he says no, But yes, 0:20:28.720 --> 0:20:33.119 he had to because certain people around them knew. But 0:20:33.240 --> 0:20:35.800 I think he just kind of neglected the thought of 0:20:35.840 --> 0:20:37.920 it or pushed the thought to the back of his mind. 0:20:38.000 --> 0:20:41.760 Like she didn't. So my mom tells me to stray wrestler. 0:20:41.840 --> 0:20:42.760 So she said. 0:20:45.800 --> 0:20:48.080 When she was pregnant, she had talked to him again 0:20:48.680 --> 0:20:50.160 and he was like, you know, what do you think 0:20:50.160 --> 0:20:52.439 about children? He's like, yeah, I ain't really had no children. 0:20:52.440 --> 0:20:56.000 I probably gonna wait another ten years. So she knew 0:20:56.000 --> 0:20:57.520 at that point he didn't want them to do with 0:20:57.520 --> 0:20:59.399 no kids, so she said she wasn't getting rid of 0:20:59.400 --> 0:21:00.840 her kids. So she he didn't never say nothing to 0:21:00.920 --> 0:21:06.199 him about it until years later she should but she 0:21:06.560 --> 0:21:10.240 was bringing me to members of his family, so he 0:21:10.640 --> 0:21:13.919 you know, I'm sure to some degree he had an idea. 0:21:14.480 --> 0:21:17.680 So what was that first conversation, Like, did you reach 0:21:17.680 --> 0:21:18.360 out to him or. 0:21:18.280 --> 0:21:19.399 Did he reach out to you? 0:21:19.680 --> 0:21:20.439 He reached out to me? 0:21:21.440 --> 0:21:26.120 What was that like when he say he's hey, Like, oh. 0:21:28.200 --> 0:21:30.159 So at that point, I think he was convinced, like 0:21:30.200 --> 0:21:32.159 he knew it at that point, which I think he 0:21:32.240 --> 0:21:38.919 always know, not to me, but I would imagine it. 0:21:38.920 --> 0:21:42.600 What's crazy is his son, which would be my brother. 0:21:42.640 --> 0:21:44.879 I've met him a lot of times before I knew 0:21:45.359 --> 0:21:47.160 he was my biological brother. 0:21:48.080 --> 0:21:50.640 Oh wow, what you mean? You met him a lot 0:21:50.680 --> 0:21:51.080 of times. 0:21:51.119 --> 0:21:54.880 He runs around in the music industry, so he run 0:21:55.000 --> 0:21:57.720 with Percy and them. So I've seen him a few 0:21:57.760 --> 0:22:00.800 times and I didn't, you know, we would have never knew. 0:22:02.280 --> 0:22:03.960 So y'all have y'all talk since the whole? 0:22:04.160 --> 0:22:06.679 Sure, yeah, we talk. Yeah, we talked. 0:22:08.440 --> 0:22:12.119 So it's like, so you opened the building like a 0:22:12.200 --> 0:22:15.680 relationship father son relationship with him or that. 0:22:15.640 --> 0:22:16.679 Can possibly happen. 0:22:17.040 --> 0:22:20.520 I'm like, my dad is pretty much a one for me, 0:22:20.560 --> 0:22:22.280 so it's not really gonna. 0:22:23.800 --> 0:22:24.160 Or friend. 0:22:24.240 --> 0:22:26.760 I mean, I don't think I even look at it 0:22:26.800 --> 0:22:28.199 like I'm not a girl, you know what I mean. 0:22:28.240 --> 0:22:29.080 I don't really like. 0:22:30.880 --> 0:22:33.320 And cap my relationships with other humans, Like I don't 0:22:33.320 --> 0:22:34.679 always be like, oh I need to have this with 0:22:34.760 --> 0:22:37.560 this person versus if somebody want to know me, then 0:22:37.600 --> 0:22:39.280 I you know, I have I create a space for 0:22:39.359 --> 0:22:44.000 them to get to know me. I don't really strip 0:22:44.119 --> 0:22:46.399 off like how the relationship is gonna be. Like I 0:22:46.680 --> 0:22:50.159 could never be upset because my dad been there my 0:22:50.240 --> 0:22:51.879 whole life. Like I said, I didn't know he was 0:22:51.960 --> 0:22:54.359 my dad to my brother. So but you know what 0:22:54.359 --> 0:22:56.800 I mean, that's what happened. My brother got upset and 0:22:56.840 --> 0:22:59.080 then he went and found my biological father so hot. 0:22:59.160 --> 0:23:02.080 So when he found him, when he come to you 0:23:02.119 --> 0:23:05.680 and say I found your daddy, called your daddy or no. 0:23:05.200 --> 0:23:06.560 No, you know this is a real person. 0:23:06.600 --> 0:23:08.080 We talk about him, come up here and not the 0:23:08.160 --> 0:23:11.440 killing behind you asking these questions, so like, yeah, it's 0:23:11.480 --> 0:23:14.040 not this. It seems like TV time, but this is serious. 0:23:14.440 --> 0:23:15.960 So like you know, he'd be like, yeah, she was 0:23:16.040 --> 0:23:16.760 just doing me like that. 0:23:16.880 --> 0:23:17.800 You guys are our friends. 0:23:19.240 --> 0:23:21.840 I mean, y'all, Like he's really upset that you got 0:23:21.880 --> 0:23:23.560 that you have this relationship with. 0:23:23.760 --> 0:23:28.119 You asking for a really kind of complex situation in 0:23:28.160 --> 0:23:31.200 a really simple way, and it's just maybe a bit 0:23:31.280 --> 0:23:34.760 disingenuous when you're asking it that way. But it's my brother, right, 0:23:34.840 --> 0:23:37.639 So of course this is my kid brother, Like you know, 0:23:37.680 --> 0:23:38.720 it's my mother's son. 0:23:38.840 --> 0:23:40.320 So we love each other. 0:23:40.359 --> 0:23:43.080 But is he happy you guys found each other or 0:23:43.119 --> 0:23:44.000 is he kind of like. 0:23:44.240 --> 0:23:47.120 Why would he be happy if he was doing it 0:23:47.160 --> 0:23:51.320 to be a dick. He wasn't doing it like for 0:23:51.440 --> 0:23:54.000 good will. He was doing it to be a dick. 0:23:55.600 --> 0:23:58.320 So I don't think he even give a fuck that 0:23:58.320 --> 0:24:00.320 that don't even matter to him no more. He even 0:24:00.400 --> 0:24:05.920 asked me the dynamics of the relationship after he didn't 0:24:05.920 --> 0:24:10.399 even tell me he found him. He the man told me, 0:24:11.480 --> 0:24:15.199 oh yeah, he told me your brother look for me. 0:24:17.200 --> 0:24:19.720 So it's not like he I don't think his interest 0:24:19.840 --> 0:24:23.360 was genuinely trying to complete what he may have assumed 0:24:23.400 --> 0:24:24.879 was a missing place in my life. 0:24:25.200 --> 0:24:28.200 I think in his mind he was just. 0:24:30.840 --> 0:24:32.679 I don't think he even thought this would break the 0:24:32.720 --> 0:24:34.440 relationship between me and my dad. 0:24:34.480 --> 0:24:38.080 I just think he was causing chaos at that time, and. 0:24:38.080 --> 0:24:41.360 His mind, you know, his feelings was heard about whatever 0:24:41.840 --> 0:24:44.920 he feels that I'm in the middle of, which it's 0:24:44.960 --> 0:24:49.879 obviously ridiculous, But you know, sometimes emotional minds don't think rational. 0:24:49.920 --> 0:24:53.040 It's like when you think to dehydrate yourself in a celebration. 0:24:55.160 --> 0:25:00.480 I'm not throwing you go. I'm saying, when you a emotional, 0:25:00.480 --> 0:25:05.000 when you not rationalizing thought, you feel me like you 0:25:05.280 --> 0:25:09.040 just kind of reacting off of some level of emotions. 0:25:09.680 --> 0:25:12.920 So he never asked me what happen. He never told me. 0:25:13.280 --> 0:25:15.840 I wouldn't know. The man told me like, yeah, your 0:25:15.880 --> 0:25:23.920 little brother came and found me. Wow yeah, wow wow. 0:25:23.920 --> 0:25:26.960 So I've dealt with some different type of treachery to 0:25:27.040 --> 0:25:28.800 some degree, you know what I mean. But I'm used 0:25:28.800 --> 0:25:31.640 to it, like that's just that's why the rap game 0:25:31.640 --> 0:25:36.199 ain't that crazy to me, like like people being upset 0:25:36.320 --> 0:25:38.960 or people being tripping, like none of that shit. Really, 0:25:40.160 --> 0:25:42.520 I didn't heard the worst from the people that's closest to. 0:25:42.440 --> 0:25:46.520 You, so as his parents or any of your grandparents alive, 0:25:46.640 --> 0:25:49.320 from your biological father. 0:25:49.359 --> 0:25:53.280 I don't think so. I don't know, though, I don't think. 0:25:53.440 --> 0:25:55.119 I didn't ask. Like I'm not a girl, you know, 0:25:55.200 --> 0:25:56.720 girls kind of like real. 0:25:56.560 --> 0:25:58.600 Like y'all are nosy, y'all wouldn't ask all of that. 0:25:59.160 --> 0:26:02.760 I'm more like, you know what I mean, like nigga, 0:26:03.400 --> 0:26:05.760 like if you want to tell me now, okay, Yeah, 0:26:05.880 --> 0:26:08.600 I really don't ask a lot of questions you know 0:26:08.600 --> 0:26:10.439 what I mean, I really I'm serious. 0:26:10.480 --> 0:26:12.680 The relationship with my dad is so swell, Like there 0:26:12.800 --> 0:26:15.760 is a question about lineage and you know, you want 0:26:15.760 --> 0:26:18.040 to start knowing about health, and like his uncle is 0:26:18.080 --> 0:26:22.680 little Richard, So my great uncle is little Richard. 0:26:24.119 --> 0:26:27.040 That yeah, his uncle is little Richard. 0:26:27.200 --> 0:26:31.600 Wow, your great uncle is little Richard? 0:26:31.720 --> 0:26:33.840 Sure, which whatever that means? 0:26:33.920 --> 0:26:34.080 Right? 0:26:34.160 --> 0:26:39.880 Then my mom's like her grandfather's first cousin is Sam Cook. 0:26:41.400 --> 0:26:43.040 It's like, you know what I mean. I don't think 0:26:45.600 --> 0:26:46.919 I say I have to say that. Uh. 0:26:49.480 --> 0:26:53.760 I don't think I really asked questions about it, because one, 0:26:53.880 --> 0:26:57.080 I don't want any lying to me. You know what 0:26:57.080 --> 0:26:58.800 I mean, if you say something that remember if he 0:26:58.880 --> 0:27:01.399 say something my mom, you know, passed away in prison, 0:27:01.480 --> 0:27:04.600 so you can only say the wrong thing about my mama. 0:27:05.800 --> 0:27:08.919 It's nothing you really can say. That's gonna be okay 0:27:08.960 --> 0:27:11.320 with you saying something that's not cool about my mom 0:27:11.359 --> 0:27:13.000 because my mom died and she took care of me 0:27:13.040 --> 0:27:16.600 my whole life. And you know, to some degree, I'm 0:27:16.600 --> 0:27:19.520 supposed to be upset at you versus I'm not. Like 0:27:19.600 --> 0:27:21.920 my dad been there my whole life, so I got 0:27:21.920 --> 0:27:27.639 blessed with that. But it comes into a place to 0:27:27.640 --> 0:27:32.359 where it's like a yeah, that nigga just was tripping 0:27:34.000 --> 0:27:36.520 and you know he did something and I don't think 0:27:36.520 --> 0:27:38.280 he thought it through. I think he was just emotional 0:27:38.359 --> 0:27:41.480 and he just lashed out in the way he lashed out. 0:27:43.600 --> 0:27:49.119 Yeah, do you think the relationship that you didn't have 0:27:49.200 --> 0:27:54.280 with your father did you ever think about like that 0:27:54.359 --> 0:27:56.359 may be a reason why you or was that a 0:27:56.359 --> 0:27:57.080 reason why you. 0:27:57.240 --> 0:27:58.199 Didn't have kids? 0:27:58.359 --> 0:28:01.199 Or no, no, just you never thought of it like 0:28:01.240 --> 0:28:02.679 that or it just wasn't I. 0:28:02.720 --> 0:28:04.720 Can understand the connection, you know what I mean, because 0:28:04.720 --> 0:28:06.679 I didn't want to be somebody with a woman that 0:28:06.760 --> 0:28:09.560 I didn't have kids with. So like I met a 0:28:09.600 --> 0:28:11.399 lot of women who want to give me kids, I 0:28:11.440 --> 0:28:12.840 ain't really meet a lot of women who want to 0:28:12.840 --> 0:28:13.479 be my wife. 0:28:14.680 --> 0:28:14.840 Now. 0:28:14.840 --> 0:28:16.800 I met some women who want to, you know, have 0:28:16.840 --> 0:28:19.400 a wedding, but I didn't meet a lot of women that, 0:28:20.160 --> 0:28:22.560 you know, wanted to be a wife. It's tough to 0:28:22.600 --> 0:28:24.760 me the woman that wants to be a wife, you know, 0:28:24.840 --> 0:28:28.000 go through the agony the response to be women. You know, 0:28:28.600 --> 0:28:33.040 they they are born hella unselfish, you know what I mean, 0:28:33.080 --> 0:28:35.440 Like they're born to give their whole body in existence 0:28:35.480 --> 0:28:39.840 to somebody. But culturally, you know, in this especially in America, 0:28:40.200 --> 0:28:42.040 you know what I mean, they are raised to be selfish. 0:28:42.080 --> 0:28:45.200 So from a woman's first day in existence to the 0:28:45.320 --> 0:28:47.840 last day, she's always trying to carve out space for herself. 0:28:48.560 --> 0:28:49.240 So it's like. 0:28:50.880 --> 0:28:53.280 I would meet women who wanted to, you know what 0:28:53.320 --> 0:28:55.880 I mean, like give me a child or share a 0:28:55.960 --> 0:28:58.640 child with me for whatever reason, it could be whatever, 0:28:58.720 --> 0:29:00.360 you know what I mean. And I met women think 0:29:00.360 --> 0:29:02.160 they want to be with me. But I never met 0:29:02.680 --> 0:29:03.640 a woman. 0:29:03.400 --> 0:29:09.280 Who who wanted to be married. I never met that 0:29:09.320 --> 0:29:10.920 in my life. 0:29:12.120 --> 0:29:13.840 There's plenty of women that want to get married. 0:29:14.360 --> 0:29:16.120 No, I think it's a lot of women who want 0:29:16.120 --> 0:29:16.480 a wedding. 0:29:18.120 --> 0:29:23.720 You didn't hear them that the wedding or the ceremony part. Yeah, see, 0:29:23.840 --> 0:29:26.720 I prefer the marriage, I can. You know, I don't 0:29:26.720 --> 0:29:29.280 really I think for me, if I get married, I 0:29:29.320 --> 0:29:31.120 honestly don't even think everybody's like. 0:29:31.080 --> 0:29:31.840 No, you need one. 0:29:31.920 --> 0:29:35.800 I don't think I need one. I don't think I 0:29:35.840 --> 0:29:38.600 need a wedding. I think I would just elope and 0:29:38.680 --> 0:29:39.320 go somewhere. 0:29:41.400 --> 0:29:45.120 I mean, why would you want to be married? Think 0:29:45.160 --> 0:29:49.640 about it? What makes what is being married? Why does it. 0:29:49.920 --> 0:29:52.840 I don't be all the way one hundred. I don't 0:29:52.880 --> 0:29:53.240 want to. 0:29:54.600 --> 0:29:55.240 I want. 0:29:56.600 --> 0:29:56.840 More. 0:29:56.920 --> 0:30:01.320 So I don't know how to say it, but a 0:30:01.440 --> 0:30:03.440 counterpart like someone, I don't want to. I want to 0:30:03.480 --> 0:30:06.080 be old and grace and I know it's all like, yeah, 0:30:06.120 --> 0:30:08.880 that's not believable, but old and gray with my dude, 0:30:09.480 --> 0:30:11.320 you know, with our grandchildren and stuff like that. I 0:30:11.320 --> 0:30:14.480 don't want to go through life like by myself or 0:30:14.560 --> 0:30:15.800 like get old, you know what I mean? Like you 0:30:15.800 --> 0:30:20.400 want a companion, and I think like as you get older, 0:30:20.440 --> 0:30:22.040 like you said, a lot of women they want that 0:30:22.360 --> 0:30:25.240 ceremony there like that. To me, I want that partner. 0:30:25.840 --> 0:30:28.000 And I understand that. But if you haven't went through 0:30:28.040 --> 0:30:29.920 a lot of stuff, I think that you won't know 0:30:29.960 --> 0:30:30.560 the difference. 0:30:31.840 --> 0:30:32.560 You know what I'm saying. 0:30:32.600 --> 0:30:36.760 So, but it took me to mature and figure out 0:30:36.800 --> 0:30:39.400 what I wanted to be in that place. So a 0:30:39.400 --> 0:30:41.320 lot of women may not be in that place right now, 0:30:41.360 --> 0:30:43.320 but for me, I do want to partner. 0:30:43.520 --> 0:30:45.240 I see how this shit is hard out here. I 0:30:45.280 --> 0:30:48.120 see how I, like you said, when we were talking 0:30:48.120 --> 0:30:50.360 about certain things I don't want to do. There's a 0:30:50.360 --> 0:30:52.880 lot of shit I don't want to do. You know 0:30:52.920 --> 0:30:55.120 what I'm saying. So I'm being honest, Like, that's what 0:30:55.200 --> 0:30:56.200 I want. Now, I don't. 0:30:56.080 --> 0:30:58.880 Want I can have fun and go on days out 0:30:58.880 --> 0:31:00.320 of that, I can take my own stuff out date 0:31:01.880 --> 0:31:06.120 like I literally want someone that's going to be my 0:31:06.120 --> 0:31:08.240 my counterpart, like my person. 0:31:09.200 --> 0:31:09.560 Mm hmm. 0:31:10.440 --> 0:31:10.800 Period. 0:31:11.120 --> 0:31:13.440 You ever thought about what you want to give that person, 0:31:13.920 --> 0:31:16.200 because I notice everything about it is based off. 0:31:16.080 --> 0:31:19.000 Of what I know, what I'm gonna be. I know 0:31:19.040 --> 0:31:19.720 what I'm No, no. 0:31:19.800 --> 0:31:22.680 No, that's not that's not that's not what I said. 0:31:22.720 --> 0:31:26.360 Have you ever thought to yourself what you want to give? Like, remember, 0:31:26.400 --> 0:31:28.560 I was just saying to you your focus need to 0:31:28.640 --> 0:31:30.920 change what you want versus what you want to give, 0:31:31.040 --> 0:31:32.400 and that's why you should get married. 0:31:32.520 --> 0:31:34.600 But see, this is the thing, I'm already a giver. 0:31:35.200 --> 0:31:38.840 That's not I'm I'm always the giver. 0:31:39.880 --> 0:31:42.480 I've never been, and I think that's the reason why 0:31:42.520 --> 0:31:45.800 I was so like, Okay, I'm not I don't even 0:31:45.840 --> 0:31:47.760 want to deal with anyone because I feel like I've 0:31:47.840 --> 0:31:52.560 always been that person to give give gift no matter what. 0:31:52.680 --> 0:31:55.800 I'm the oldest of the siblings. I'm the oldest of 0:31:55.800 --> 0:31:59.000 my fucking cousins. I'm the like I'm always been the 0:31:59.080 --> 0:32:01.920 nurture of the giver. The you know, even in my relationships, 0:32:01.960 --> 0:32:05.440 I'm always like, you know what I mean that person, 0:32:05.760 --> 0:32:06.200 I don't. 0:32:07.920 --> 0:32:09.680 I don't know. I just I've been a giver. 0:32:10.040 --> 0:32:11.640 So you just want something for you now. 0:32:12.680 --> 0:32:14.720 Like you said, we go through life trying to carve 0:32:14.760 --> 0:32:18.640 out some ship. We guess what I'm trying to carve 0:32:18.680 --> 0:32:19.400 out that man. 0:32:19.360 --> 0:32:23.920 Right here, put them right here? Gee where yet I think. 0:32:23.800 --> 0:32:24.400 That you bought me. 0:32:24.480 --> 0:32:26.640 I'll have to put that ship of water. That motherfucker 0:32:26.760 --> 0:32:29.280 grow as you got me a boyfriend? 0:32:29.360 --> 0:32:29.800 What was it? 0:32:29.960 --> 0:32:30.760 Remember that package? 0:32:30.800 --> 0:32:32.560 I still have it growing. 0:32:32.640 --> 0:32:35.720 Man, You put it in water and it grows. 0:32:37.960 --> 0:32:42.920 Yeah, I'm just saying it was like a person. 0:32:44.600 --> 0:32:47.040 I don't think that because I know I'm a woman. 0:32:47.120 --> 0:32:49.320 Y'all gonna say I'm emotional. Y'all gonna say, I don't 0:32:49.320 --> 0:32:50.280 know what I'm talking about. 0:32:50.600 --> 0:32:52.760 But that's really why don't we think you know what 0:32:52.760 --> 0:32:53.320 you're talking about? 0:32:53.360 --> 0:32:55.160 But sometimes you do say that y'all don't know what 0:32:55.200 --> 0:32:56.840 y'all want. Y'alln't take you kind of I don't know 0:32:56.880 --> 0:32:57.120 what you. 0:32:57.040 --> 0:32:57.360 Want to do. 0:32:57.480 --> 0:32:59.200 I never said you don't know what you want? 0:33:00.160 --> 0:33:04.880 Now that's probably happened. I know what you want. I 0:33:04.920 --> 0:33:06.520 just think you want everything. 0:33:06.960 --> 0:33:08.440 That's the problem. 0:33:08.680 --> 0:33:14.520 I mean, really, women want to be married, have dates. 0:33:15.320 --> 0:33:18.320 People should be excited about this used thing you keep 0:33:18.320 --> 0:33:22.080 serving up every I'm not talking. I'm not talking. Listen, 0:33:23.640 --> 0:33:26.400 I get why it feels like I'm talking shit, I'm not. 0:33:27.560 --> 0:33:33.360 This is the truth. I'm not. I'm not even Yes, 0:33:33.400 --> 0:33:34.720 even though it. 0:33:34.800 --> 0:33:37.840 Literally would go against the rule, it would go against 0:33:37.840 --> 0:33:41.719 the definition of the word, it goes against it. But 0:33:41.760 --> 0:33:45.480 still somehow you want this kind of ship that happens 0:33:45.520 --> 0:33:47.600 that really don't make no sense of happening, but you 0:33:47.680 --> 0:33:48.080 want it. 0:33:48.480 --> 0:33:48.560 So. 0:33:48.680 --> 0:33:50.640 I don't think women don't know what they want. I 0:33:50.640 --> 0:33:51.920 think women want everything. 0:33:53.960 --> 0:33:56.160 They don't know what they want. When faced with two 0:33:56.240 --> 0:33:59.480 things that you can't want simultaneously. 0:33:59.000 --> 0:34:01.240 Exactly, that would be the that's when they don't know 0:34:01.240 --> 0:34:01.640 what they want. 0:34:01.640 --> 0:34:05.640 They can't choose not to just be kings. The thing. 0:34:06.040 --> 0:34:08.360 Look at how faster a man goes through a menu 0:34:08.440 --> 0:34:10.520 at dinner versus how fast a woman goes. 0:34:12.760 --> 0:34:16.239 And could say you want it all week? Know the 0:34:16.320 --> 0:34:17.200 men you back and. 0:34:17.120 --> 0:34:22.680 Forth and up You're like, oh, I get that, because. 0:34:22.560 --> 0:34:26.000 In real life you would want everything you want a 0:34:26.000 --> 0:34:26.600 little people. 0:34:26.920 --> 0:34:27.240 Women. 0:34:27.400 --> 0:34:31.680 Probably they made the sampler because of a woman, some 0:34:31.960 --> 0:34:34.640 assholes that Denny. It was like, no, we need to 0:34:34.760 --> 0:34:39.400 make a tray where they have multiple small portions. 0:34:39.280 --> 0:34:42.120 Because I want to try every different people. 0:34:42.239 --> 0:34:44.240 We're gonna call it this sampler. 0:34:43.880 --> 0:34:45.680 And I want to try what's on your plate too. 0:34:46.520 --> 0:34:51.000 I want your plate and look at you, like, come 0:34:51.040 --> 0:34:51.399 on now. 0:34:52.360 --> 0:34:55.840 So then I make sure I don't order the same thing. 0:34:56.640 --> 0:34:58.640 So you just want everything. So I think y'all know 0:34:58.680 --> 0:34:59.239 what y'all want. 0:34:59.239 --> 0:35:03.840 I just think again, y'all expectations is obviously unreal. 0:35:04.680 --> 0:35:05.919 But it's okay, all right. 0:35:06.120 --> 0:35:08.440 It's a working process. 0:35:08.160 --> 0:35:09.719 And it's something you'll never fix you. 0:35:09.840 --> 0:35:13.200 That's what it's what makes women unsatiable, No, for real, 0:35:13.239 --> 0:35:15.719 I'm like, I get it that people hear me talk 0:35:15.960 --> 0:35:17.480 and I know, shout out to all the women who 0:35:17.520 --> 0:35:18.440 supporting those seilings. 0:35:18.520 --> 0:35:19.440 This is really important. 0:35:19.440 --> 0:35:21.520 And that's why I always stay on red and bread 0:35:21.520 --> 0:35:24.000 because people ask they be like, yo, I love when 0:35:24.040 --> 0:35:27.040 you talk to red and bread, right, because they make 0:35:27.880 --> 0:35:29.799 When me and Pitt, when me and Pete together, it 0:35:29.840 --> 0:35:32.799 makes too much sense. Like women be like, bro, they're 0:35:32.800 --> 0:35:36.200 making too much sense. You need somebody I swear to God, 0:35:36.800 --> 0:35:38.319 I swear to God. They'd be like, yo, you make 0:35:38.360 --> 0:35:39.040 it too much sense. 0:35:41.040 --> 0:35:42.279 I'm not lying. 0:35:43.800 --> 0:35:47.600 Where they say this that ye screenshot. 0:35:47.520 --> 0:35:50.799 To you, y'all make it too much sense and see 0:35:50.880 --> 0:35:53.080 and it don't sound like it's real. Because that's really 0:35:53.600 --> 0:35:55.799 what you know. Women get offended by it is when 0:35:55.840 --> 0:35:57.719 you start making sense. They like, I don't want sense. 0:35:57.760 --> 0:36:00.719 I want to feel something. They don't want want to think. 0:36:00.840 --> 0:36:06.200 They want to feel someone mhm, career. 0:36:06.320 --> 0:36:07.160 They want everything. 0:36:07.239 --> 0:36:09.640 So, I mean there's some things, you know, a lot 0:36:09.680 --> 0:36:11.759 of things that you say. I'd be like, okay, you 0:36:11.800 --> 0:36:12.960 know what, that makes a lot. 0:36:12.840 --> 0:36:15.839 Of sense when he when you say it like that, 0:36:16.040 --> 0:36:18.120 I'm like, oh, I didn't think of it like that. 0:36:20.000 --> 0:36:23.359 Like the fact that to celebrate your birthday you're going 0:36:23.400 --> 0:36:26.560 to dehydrate yourself on purpose, keep coming from me. 0:36:27.239 --> 0:36:28.560 I'm not coming for you. 0:36:30.239 --> 0:36:33.240 In case, listen, just listen, I am. 0:36:33.200 --> 0:36:34.680 Not coming for you. 0:36:34.080 --> 0:36:37.600 You are going to dehydrate yourself. 0:36:37.760 --> 0:36:41.239 She might not even get drunk, she might even drink 0:36:41.320 --> 0:36:46.120 like that. You know what I'm saying. It's just back just. 0:36:46.040 --> 0:36:49.440 In case you are drinking a formula made for babies. 0:36:49.920 --> 0:36:52.239 This is electrically, it's for adults. This ain't that. This 0:36:52.280 --> 0:36:54.960 is not the PEDIA like. 0:36:55.000 --> 0:36:57.239 What's the Pedia part? 0:36:57.360 --> 0:37:00.080 Then, No, this is not the I'm not drinking and 0:37:00.160 --> 0:37:03.720 Pedia like this electric like different for the adults. 0:37:03.719 --> 0:37:07.920 I know what. It's the same thing as Pedia life though, 0:37:07.960 --> 0:37:09.600 you are right, this is electoral life. 0:37:09.800 --> 0:37:11.120 Yes, so it's just Pedia the. 0:37:11.120 --> 0:37:13.840 Other Yeah, they re labeled it for adults. 0:37:13.400 --> 0:37:18.200 For adults though. Back in the day. Yeah, we did 0:37:18.280 --> 0:37:19.239 used to drink Pedia life. 0:37:20.280 --> 0:37:20.960 I didn't drink. 0:37:21.080 --> 0:37:21.759 I didn't drink. 0:37:22.680 --> 0:37:24.799 Oh yeah, when I did have a hangover you it 0:37:24.840 --> 0:37:25.799 was Pedia like or. 0:37:26.800 --> 0:37:29.120 I was looking at this thing with one of plus 0:37:29.120 --> 0:37:32.480 bodyguards online and he was saying how they used to 0:37:32.480 --> 0:37:34.279 go out and party and fight and punch each other 0:37:34.280 --> 0:37:37.120 in the face and then come home Monday and then 0:37:37.280 --> 0:37:39.480 like use ivs and rehydrate. 0:37:42.600 --> 0:37:43.320 That's crazy. 0:37:43.880 --> 0:37:45.520 Actually, you're doing it right now. 0:37:46.320 --> 0:37:46.920 That's crazy. 0:37:46.960 --> 0:37:50.800 But that's because. 0:37:50.560 --> 0:37:52.840 Your nigga don't got one hundred and seventy million dollars. 0:37:53.640 --> 0:37:55.360 You was fighting nigga in the club over nigga. I 0:37:55.400 --> 0:37:56.520 remember that different times. 0:37:57.560 --> 0:38:00.080 Hey, wait a minute, I never fought over. 0:38:00.719 --> 0:38:02.880 You had niggas tripping in the club. Y'all was getting 0:38:02.880 --> 0:38:05.080 into it. You and the niggas getting into it. So 0:38:05.120 --> 0:38:06.840 imagine your nigga had one hundred seventy million, he was 0:38:06.840 --> 0:38:08.120 in the bitch face, you to punch him in his 0:38:08.120 --> 0:38:09.479 fake because you can't just throw him away. 0:38:09.840 --> 0:38:10.400 That's where. 0:38:12.239 --> 0:38:14.600 Exactly he got one hundred seventy million. You can't just 0:38:14.640 --> 0:38:16.680 throw the nigga. Well, you gotta punch him in a face. 0:38:17.760 --> 0:38:19.520 It's gonna take a lot to get rid of nigga 0:38:19.560 --> 0:38:22.960 once set in a bank, got a punch of Yeah, 0:38:23.040 --> 0:38:30.920 you get punching the face, disrespecting me plaire oh man. Yeah, 0:38:30.960 --> 0:38:33.040 that's why I really pressure y'all about your own show, 0:38:33.040 --> 0:38:35.680 about your stuff. Take advantage of your opportunities. There's too 0:38:35.680 --> 0:38:38.760 many people out here that really don't have no talent. 0:38:39.280 --> 0:38:41.240 I mean, I'm not talking shit. They're trying to figure 0:38:41.239 --> 0:38:43.680 it out and develop it. But y'all have talent. I remember, 0:38:43.760 --> 0:38:45.880 y'all used to pay to do this shit, so it's weird, 0:38:45.920 --> 0:38:48.600 but I'm like, hey, I'm going to make sure I 0:38:48.760 --> 0:38:51.080 pay for you to do it. I'm going to produce 0:38:51.120 --> 0:38:53.080 it for you, and I'm going to go out and 0:38:53.120 --> 0:38:55.520 find the money to pay you to get it done. 0:38:56.440 --> 0:39:00.360 I mean, it's just taking advantage of the opportunity and 0:39:00.400 --> 0:39:01.400 you're still gonna complain. 0:39:01.600 --> 0:39:03.880 You'll like up one day, glads you y'all. 0:39:04.160 --> 0:39:07.920 You know so the thing that works for everything is 0:39:07.960 --> 0:39:09.120 I get it ahead of time. 0:39:10.120 --> 0:39:10.520 I get it. 0:39:10.560 --> 0:39:13.120 I don't think we complain about anything. 0:39:14.360 --> 0:39:16.000 He just cussed something the other day, that's all. 0:39:16.480 --> 0:39:17.719 I didn't even cuts up. 0:39:17.760 --> 0:39:19.960 Yeah, IM gonna say he didn't. He just had a 0:39:20.000 --> 0:39:25.919 whole He was a mathematical. He was hangry, hangry because 0:39:25.920 --> 0:39:28.759 you know why you didn't make sense? Because let me 0:39:28.760 --> 0:39:31.719 tell you why. Because I said, y'all could do without me, 0:39:32.560 --> 0:39:34.959 or we could do it on Sunday. The only person 0:39:35.040 --> 0:39:37.680 I liked it was Asian. On Saturday, y'all came to 0:39:37.680 --> 0:39:41.480 look at whatever the m see what about our table? 0:39:41.719 --> 0:39:42.440 Y'all could have did it? 0:39:42.440 --> 0:39:46.080 Then I just stopped no flow and I told you 0:39:46.080 --> 0:39:47.960 guys in advance what I had going on. 0:39:48.560 --> 0:39:51.879 And that was it. First ath I had a mathematical 0:39:52.360 --> 0:39:54.040 cuss out text. 0:39:54.120 --> 0:39:56.640 I never in my life cussed at you or red 0:39:56.800 --> 0:39:59.040 in like what I expressed to you. 0:39:59.120 --> 0:39:59.800 I made sense. 0:39:59.800 --> 0:40:02.279 I if you know we didn't do it Friday, then 0:40:02.320 --> 0:40:04.640 you know we need to do it. So I shouldn't 0:40:04.680 --> 0:40:06.760 have to remind you we need to do it. 0:40:06.840 --> 0:40:07.520 Got you. 0:40:07.600 --> 0:40:10.759 We sure is here today as we are, but I 0:40:10.800 --> 0:40:14.840 have my key, and I have and I have forty 0:40:14.880 --> 0:40:16.319 five minutes early. 0:40:16.280 --> 0:40:18.840 Yes, and we're gonna be done forty five minutes ahead 0:40:18.880 --> 0:40:24.520 of time. So again I just made says to you. 0:40:24.600 --> 0:40:26.920 See how she made that cut out. It was like 0:40:27.040 --> 0:40:29.120 I made sense to her and she was like, you 0:40:29.160 --> 0:40:29.879 cussed me out. 0:40:30.440 --> 0:40:33.719 She got she had that key today though. 0:40:33.760 --> 0:40:35.319 Sometimes don't do that. 0:40:35.360 --> 0:40:37.680 You're gonna have these people really thinking I actually used 0:40:37.680 --> 0:40:39.520 the sanity when I was stussing you out. 0:40:39.760 --> 0:40:43.560 Okay, to clarify, she did not use any profanity or 0:40:43.760 --> 0:40:44.640 anything like that. 0:40:44.680 --> 0:40:49.720 I didn't insult her diship. I made out the facts. Hey, hey, Britt, 0:40:49.760 --> 0:40:50.680 these are the facts. 0:40:51.360 --> 0:40:54.239 We need to go back just a moment, please God. 0:40:55.440 --> 0:40:58.040 There was a little thing there that happened where she said, 0:40:58.360 --> 0:41:06.920 but I need that sometimes what this this assertion of sensibility. 0:41:08.440 --> 0:41:11.680 That's crazy. 0:41:12.280 --> 0:41:13.320 I mean with. 0:41:13.280 --> 0:41:18.040 Friends about the facts and now that you're checking them, 0:41:19.280 --> 0:41:22.680 why don't see you notice how see see how you 0:41:22.760 --> 0:41:26.560 understand urban terms with that is checking? He just made 0:41:26.640 --> 0:41:31.279 some ship up. I did not check bro. I did 0:41:31.360 --> 0:41:35.080 not check Rick, Bro. I laid out the facts. Hey, 0:41:35.120 --> 0:41:38.120 you know you need to be I needed you to 0:41:38.160 --> 0:41:41.520 be more focused, Like, I really want to make sure 0:41:41.560 --> 0:41:43.640 that we get y'all show off. I know how down 0:41:43.719 --> 0:41:46.160 y'all been trying to do this. I'm going to spend 0:41:46.200 --> 0:41:49.000 my money. I know we're gonna get y'all following because 0:41:49.000 --> 0:41:51.280 you're on no ceilings. I need to get. 0:41:51.200 --> 0:41:53.160 Y'all going while it's fresh on my mind. 0:41:53.239 --> 0:41:56.799 Like I expressed this to her, I did not ever 0:41:56.920 --> 0:41:59.240 lose my col I didn't type in all caps. 0:41:59.280 --> 0:42:01.920 I didn't you any profanity, and I didn't her. 0:42:01.960 --> 0:42:09.880 But you corralled her female whimsical lifestyle and she needs 0:42:09.920 --> 0:42:13.319 that from time to time, which I think is not 0:42:13.360 --> 0:42:17.160 only true, but an interesting thing to be conscious of introspectively. 0:42:17.560 --> 0:42:19.919 Only a one would say that no man ever goes. 0:42:20.640 --> 0:42:22.359 Yeah, he got at me, but he really had to 0:42:22.520 --> 0:42:25.520 had to get me back in line on my focus here. 0:42:25.760 --> 0:42:31.239 But you know I need that sometimes. 0:42:31.480 --> 0:42:33.960 We just made sister. That's all I did. I just 0:42:34.000 --> 0:42:38.560 made sister. Here's the facts. I can't really argue emotionally 0:42:38.719 --> 0:42:42.200 with you, so the facts, I'm like, let me exactly. 0:42:42.800 --> 0:42:46.879 Just didn't say nothing really made me look crazy, I did, 0:42:47.200 --> 0:42:48.920 I replied very. 0:42:50.719 --> 0:42:50.959 Little. 0:42:51.400 --> 0:42:59.080 Okay, I said okay, exactly. 0:43:00.080 --> 0:43:01.800 Like I'm okay. 0:43:02.040 --> 0:43:03.840 Did I say something crazy? 0:43:03.840 --> 0:43:06.480 Because I really don't talk crazy to people like it 0:43:06.640 --> 0:43:09.279 takes a lot for me to talk to people crazy. 0:43:09.480 --> 0:43:13.200 Know you didn't talk to me just like I'm calling 0:43:13.239 --> 0:43:13.719 you right now. 0:43:13.800 --> 0:43:16.319 Yes, I just brought logical points. 0:43:16.360 --> 0:43:19.319 Like yeah about them right now. 0:43:19.360 --> 0:43:22.600 I just made logical points I've never talked to. I'm 0:43:22.600 --> 0:43:23.960 really don't talk to people crazy. 0:43:24.760 --> 0:43:25.200 You don't. 0:43:26.360 --> 0:43:29.560 I ain't really my stuff. I'm really gonna kick ass. 0:43:29.640 --> 0:43:29.880 I am. 0:43:30.480 --> 0:43:33.279 You know you ain't feelings go after that other ship. 0:43:33.320 --> 0:43:34.200 It's too much space. 0:43:35.800 --> 0:43:36.440 Nice person. 0:43:36.480 --> 0:43:38.560 I try to well, I try to I'm kind. 0:43:38.640 --> 0:43:42.600 I'm not yet because I'm not nice because I really 0:43:42.640 --> 0:43:45.520 don't care what you think. I'm kind because I know 0:43:45.840 --> 0:43:48.120 I talk to you the way I should talk to you, 0:43:48.120 --> 0:43:50.240 the way my mom raised me to talk to people. 0:43:51.280 --> 0:43:52.960 I don't care if people think I'm right a wrong. 0:43:53.000 --> 0:43:55.160 That's another thing I've got really well at it. I 0:43:55.160 --> 0:43:58.080 do not care if people think I am right or wrong. 0:43:59.800 --> 0:44:02.040 I don't give a fuck if they think I'm kiss 0:44:02.120 --> 0:44:04.440 my ass. I'm gonna do it this way because this 0:44:04.600 --> 0:44:06.520 is the greatest way that I can do it. If 0:44:06.520 --> 0:44:08.800 somebody offer me a better way, I'm down and listen. 0:44:09.280 --> 0:44:11.680 But most of the time, you know, if it ain't Jesus, 0:44:11.719 --> 0:44:12.640 it ain't gonna be better. 0:44:14.239 --> 0:44:14.600 Mhmm. 0:44:16.160 --> 0:44:18.640 That's my point. So what else you're gonna do? So 0:44:19.680 --> 0:44:21.600 let's let's go back over these birthday plans. 0:44:23.640 --> 0:44:26.680 I am, like I said, brunch and then go to 0:44:26.719 --> 0:44:27.839 the room toasteps. 0:44:29.200 --> 0:44:30.160 Then we're going. 0:44:29.960 --> 0:44:32.279 To bottomless mimosa Let's start there. 0:44:32.360 --> 0:44:36.520 Yes, bottoms mimosas. We're gonna go to the room because. 0:44:36.320 --> 0:44:39.680 I realize that's why women go to brunch. You wouldn't 0:44:39.719 --> 0:44:41.799 go to brunch if it didn't have bottomless mimosas. 0:44:42.239 --> 0:44:46.040 No, I don't like going to brunch when they don't 0:44:47.120 --> 0:44:50.080 really good. You know, I don't need the bottomless mimosas. 0:44:50.160 --> 0:44:53.040 But it does make it better when you're having brunch. 0:44:54.880 --> 0:44:55.720 Which is apte. 0:44:55.800 --> 0:45:00.080 I donna say that the only way that brunch of 0:45:00.120 --> 0:45:03.120 the work. It's always a group of girls. If it 0:45:03.200 --> 0:45:06.120 wasn't bottomless, they would need a male sponsor there for 0:45:06.280 --> 0:45:09.320 the end scene of the event. 0:45:13.040 --> 0:45:15.759 Those days trying to find a nigga to pay for it. 0:45:16.200 --> 0:45:18.919 Yeah, if those weren't bottomless, believe this number came back. 0:45:20.160 --> 0:45:22.959 Oh who thinks I'm cuting this outfit because this ship 0:45:23.120 --> 0:45:24.840 got pricing back. 0:45:24.640 --> 0:45:27.759 In the day, was right, your sponsors was right? What's 0:45:27.800 --> 0:45:29.560 the most you ever got a sponsor to peg when 0:45:29.560 --> 0:45:30.800 you went out to a party. 0:45:31.719 --> 0:45:32.600 We're not a party. 0:45:32.880 --> 0:45:33.720 I mean you party. 0:45:34.920 --> 0:45:36.680 I mean like see back in the day when we 0:45:36.719 --> 0:45:40.239 went out, when we was hubbing like that, you know, 0:45:41.080 --> 0:45:44.239 you know we had we had the promoters, like, we 0:45:44.680 --> 0:45:49.080 had bottles all that, no walking walk in. 0:45:51.000 --> 0:45:52.600 I see, that's it. 0:45:53.280 --> 0:45:55.920 Nothing crazy. I'm just saying that sponsor for the night. 0:45:56.480 --> 0:45:58.000 So you just really don't want to get the points. 0:45:58.040 --> 0:46:01.040 That's what it is. What because you just really didn't 0:46:01.040 --> 0:46:01.560 say nothing. 0:46:01.800 --> 0:46:03.040 That's all that I'm just saying. 0:46:03.880 --> 0:46:10.120 He said, he said the most probably like bottles back then. 0:46:10.880 --> 0:46:14.600 Yeah, we just get bottles. How much that was? Whatever? 0:46:14.960 --> 0:46:17.040 Just tonight. 0:46:17.200 --> 0:46:19.839 Let me ask you something at this age, right, because 0:46:19.840 --> 0:46:21.839 you are at this age in your life, you know, 0:46:23.280 --> 0:46:25.680 if a guy flew you out, would you think you're 0:46:25.680 --> 0:46:26.840 supposed to give him some pussy. 0:46:27.440 --> 0:46:29.440 I'm not flying out unless I want to give you 0:46:29.480 --> 0:46:31.680 some pussy. 0:46:29.960 --> 0:46:32.919 Because that's some grown woman. 0:46:33.200 --> 0:46:35.000 You think you realize that that was true. 0:46:35.480 --> 0:46:38.719 Listen, that was a grown woman saying that I just 0:46:38.800 --> 0:46:42.200 let him eat my pussy. I hate when women say 0:46:42.239 --> 0:46:44.080 that I didn't give him those SA, girl, you just 0:46:44.200 --> 0:46:47.800 ate my pussy. Most nine times, I said, she lying, 0:46:48.000 --> 0:46:51.200 that can't happen. It can happen, but nine times out 0:46:51.200 --> 0:46:51.800 of ten. 0:46:53.160 --> 0:46:58.000 If the head was good, you're fucking at. 0:46:57.840 --> 0:47:01.359 What age did you realize and men start spending their 0:47:01.400 --> 0:47:05.200 money that you may have to give him some vagina 0:47:05.360 --> 0:47:08.200 or he expected some vagina? 0:47:08.120 --> 0:47:08.920 What age? 0:47:09.200 --> 0:47:10.919 What age did you figure that out? Because y'all didn't 0:47:10.920 --> 0:47:11.719 know that initially. 0:47:13.040 --> 0:47:15.680 My mom told me that I don't think that these 0:47:15.719 --> 0:47:17.720 men is doing anything for you. 0:47:17.719 --> 0:47:19.520 You know, I knew that immediately. 0:47:19.880 --> 0:47:22.480 So why would you let people who you didn't want 0:47:22.480 --> 0:47:24.160 to give no vagina to sponsor you? 0:47:24.800 --> 0:47:26.919 Because we're just going out with the girls. It wasn't 0:47:26.960 --> 0:47:29.080 like I'm going with you by myself on a date, 0:47:29.200 --> 0:47:31.200 like I'm, oh, you want me to come out, I'm 0:47:31.200 --> 0:47:35.040 bringing my girls. Okay, how many girls? How many girls 0:47:35.360 --> 0:47:37.400 you bring them? I'm bringing my girls. 0:47:38.000 --> 0:47:41.320 Know what that might have been when he thought, I 0:47:41.320 --> 0:47:43.200 don't think I don't even think he thought that. 0:47:46.800 --> 0:47:49.439 Said they don't give a damn vote. They might take 0:47:49.440 --> 0:47:51.600 another girl home that they didn't buy none for. 0:47:51.800 --> 0:47:57.680 That's free advertising for them. The promoters they need because 0:47:57.680 --> 0:47:59.560 when you like when you said when you got to 0:47:59.800 --> 0:48:02.840 death for men standing out by the door in the line, 0:48:03.360 --> 0:48:09.919 and you keep trotting, you know, raw me past them 0:48:10.440 --> 0:48:14.440 over and over and over again, they get tenser and desperate, 0:48:14.640 --> 0:48:16.520 and then all of a sudden, that money starts to 0:48:16.560 --> 0:48:18.799 they start to panic, and that money starts to happen. 0:48:18.800 --> 0:48:24.279 They start buying them tables. I've watched it happen in 0:48:24.320 --> 0:48:26.879 real life. I just go, Man, that guy there, he's 0:48:26.880 --> 0:48:28.959 gonna crack. Those three guys are gonna crack. 0:48:30.200 --> 0:48:36.280 I always thought that that was the worst. The club 0:48:36.400 --> 0:48:39.200 is the worst idea in the world because every guy 0:48:39.280 --> 0:48:41.879 knows what they're going for, but every girl, a lot 0:48:41.920 --> 0:48:45.279 of girls, most girls, ninety percent of the girls are 0:48:45.320 --> 0:48:47.040 going and they're confused. 0:48:48.040 --> 0:48:50.720 Like, guys go to the club to get laid tonight. 0:48:51.480 --> 0:48:55.319 Yeah, one out of one hundred guys, there's one guy 0:48:55.320 --> 0:48:58.560 who's not trying to get laid, But ninety nine, let's 0:48:58.560 --> 0:48:59.640 say ninety seven out of. 0:48:59.600 --> 0:49:01.719 One hundred guys are they're going to get laid. 0:49:06.280 --> 0:49:10.840 Right, And women are so confused because they like they're 0:49:11.480 --> 0:49:13.160 like you would think they'd be like, well, I'm here 0:49:13.200 --> 0:49:14.880 to get chosen by the guy who want to get 0:49:14.960 --> 0:49:17.920 chosen by and if I don't, to me, that's the truth. 0:49:18.600 --> 0:49:21.200 But of course women, you know, they're not telling the truth. 0:49:21.239 --> 0:49:23.200 They're not saying they there to get laid. 0:49:23.800 --> 0:49:27.439 They're like, yeah, I'm gonna have fun and everyone's gonna 0:49:27.440 --> 0:49:29.880 give us shit for free, because everything is free of 0:49:29.920 --> 0:49:30.920 this world. 0:49:32.080 --> 0:49:33.560 Yeah, we're not there to get laid. 0:49:34.920 --> 0:49:37.880 It's like imagine going to a swim where sharks are 0:49:37.920 --> 0:49:39.359 at Like, well, I'm not going to get eight. I'm 0:49:39.400 --> 0:49:40.120 just going to swim. 0:49:45.960 --> 0:49:49.479 Yeah, you're going to known dose spots like I'm coming 0:49:49.480 --> 0:49:51.319 to watch super Bowl. I don't care about them selling 0:49:51.360 --> 0:49:56.520 dope here when the police raided. Yeah, that's I think 0:49:56.600 --> 0:50:00.880 the club has always been broken because women like you, 0:50:00.960 --> 0:50:02.120 I mean women break it. 0:50:02.520 --> 0:50:06.120 What you mean, women gotta be always run a way 0:50:06.160 --> 0:50:07.720 where we did something. 0:50:07.480 --> 0:50:09.840 No most of the time, I mean, well, that's the 0:50:09.960 --> 0:50:11.600 problem with being a giver of all life. 0:50:11.800 --> 0:50:15.399 Most system breakdowns are the results of I mean most 0:50:15.520 --> 0:50:19.080 I mean systems run on a logical foundation. That's what 0:50:19.200 --> 0:50:23.360 keeps them rolling. Women don't run on a logical foundation. 0:50:23.400 --> 0:50:25.680 You insert them into a system, the system breaks not 0:50:25.719 --> 0:50:26.320 real complicate. 0:50:27.760 --> 0:50:29.360 It sounds a little harsher than it is. 0:50:29.480 --> 0:50:33.360 It's not negative though, it's really just understanding what you're dealing. 0:50:33.120 --> 0:50:34.520 With, just nottsing boats. 0:50:34.920 --> 0:50:37.879 Yeah, it's all like logic that makes sense. 0:50:39.760 --> 0:50:47.080 No, no, all right, I ask this question. Then everybody 0:50:47.120 --> 0:50:49.040 knows guys are going to the club to get laid. 0:50:49.040 --> 0:50:50.759 Women are going to the club for any of a 0:50:50.840 --> 0:50:53.839 myriad of reasons. But they know all the men in 0:50:53.880 --> 0:50:56.560 there are paying to make your fun free night out 0:50:57.160 --> 0:50:58.520 the fun free night out. 0:50:58.360 --> 0:50:58.879 That it is. 0:50:59.719 --> 0:51:02.040 But for the ones who aren't trying to go out 0:51:02.080 --> 0:51:04.080 and get fucked, which is probably a lot of them, 0:51:04.080 --> 0:51:08.120 and then they get caught slipping, why feel the need 0:51:08.480 --> 0:51:11.399 to dress the sexiest you possibly can for. 0:51:11.360 --> 0:51:12.200 Yourself that night? 0:51:12.200 --> 0:51:17.239 Then why not if you're going out to have fun, 0:51:17.280 --> 0:51:20.120 why not wear the most comfortable good time sweatpants you 0:51:20.239 --> 0:51:22.000 got boom, Ain't nobody. 0:51:21.800 --> 0:51:24.160 About to wear that? SnO club, pase stop? An't nobody? 0:51:26.160 --> 0:51:27.280 I understand that. 0:51:27.280 --> 0:51:28.600 That's my point. 0:51:28.880 --> 0:51:31.439 I'm excited to get out because I don't. I don't 0:51:31.440 --> 0:51:34.000 go out, so just I'm a little. 0:51:33.880 --> 0:51:35.360 Like, that's not the question. 0:51:35.920 --> 0:51:36.760 What's the question. 0:51:37.320 --> 0:51:39.960 The question is if you're going out to have fun 0:51:40.120 --> 0:51:43.920 and dance and drink and not fuck anybody. Why do 0:51:43.960 --> 0:51:47.960 you dress in such a way as to advertise. 0:51:47.320 --> 0:51:48.600 Your sexual appeal? 0:51:48.760 --> 0:51:51.640 Why not just wear the most comfortable sweatpants you got 0:51:51.760 --> 0:51:53.959 because you're just trying to dance and have a couple 0:51:53.960 --> 0:51:56.080 of cocktails and a good time with your girls. 0:51:56.480 --> 0:51:57.400 That why are you? 0:51:57.520 --> 0:52:00.960 They are looking good? Is funny for then and now 0:52:00.960 --> 0:52:01.640 we're going home. 0:52:01.719 --> 0:52:03.960 And sometimes that can bait the sponsors. Let's keep it 0:52:03.960 --> 0:52:04.719 one hundred. 0:52:07.880 --> 0:52:10.640 And that's why. And and that right there is proven 0:52:11.640 --> 0:52:12.840 women destroyed the club. 0:52:13.480 --> 0:52:16.640 Hey, listen, let me tell you something. The men do 0:52:16.760 --> 0:52:19.560 that to get the women to their section. The women 0:52:19.680 --> 0:52:21.799 do that so she could get into the section. We 0:52:21.840 --> 0:52:23.960 don't know why, but that's what the fuck happens. 0:52:24.400 --> 0:52:25.520 Why are you in the section? 0:52:25.640 --> 0:52:26.239 Why are you there? 0:52:26.719 --> 0:52:27.880 I don't know why they there? 0:52:28.200 --> 0:52:29.080 You gotta ask why. 0:52:29.280 --> 0:52:31.640 Men know why the men are there. Men know why 0:52:31.680 --> 0:52:33.680 they want the women there. Why are the women that 0:52:33.760 --> 0:52:35.440 are there not know why they are there? 0:52:36.160 --> 0:52:38.720 That's that's some ship they got to talk about their girls. 0:52:39.160 --> 0:52:41.240 You're women, you're the women. 0:52:44.080 --> 0:52:46.200 Get I got a sponsor. I don't want to pay 0:52:46.200 --> 0:52:46.719 for this ship. 0:52:46.800 --> 0:52:47.080 Why is. 0:52:52.840 --> 0:52:54.120 On a bottle of cheap liquor? 0:52:54.239 --> 0:52:59.120 Listen, let me tell you, Like I said, it was free. 0:52:59.360 --> 0:53:00.920 That's why I don't know. 0:53:01.480 --> 0:53:03.080 It wasn't. 0:53:03.360 --> 0:53:05.799 It's not writet science. I went out, had fun, and 0:53:05.840 --> 0:53:08.480 I took my ass home. If he decided to go 0:53:08.640 --> 0:53:12.520 up or whoever do whatever, that's on him. 0:53:12.600 --> 0:53:13.600 You knew what it was. 0:53:13.680 --> 0:53:13.839 This. 0:53:13.960 --> 0:53:16.120 This is not a guy that you went to the 0:53:16.160 --> 0:53:17.640 club with. This is like somebody. 0:53:17.800 --> 0:53:19.279 No, you know how they be like, oh yeah, we're 0:53:19.280 --> 0:53:20.560 gonna be up here, y'all should come up here. 0:53:20.600 --> 0:53:23.040 Okay, I'm with my girls. Cool, come up, we're gonna 0:53:23.080 --> 0:53:26.440 be there with t cool we did or if you 0:53:26.560 --> 0:53:29.319 there already, you gonna send the people to the front 0:53:29.360 --> 0:53:30.480 to come get me and my girls? 0:53:30.560 --> 0:53:31.480 Is we go into your sex? 0:53:31.480 --> 0:53:36.680 Sh look good. 0:53:36.880 --> 0:53:40.560 That's right. I got my girls and we out. I'm 0:53:40.600 --> 0:53:43.200 just saying that's how I was when I was going 0:53:43.239 --> 0:53:45.120 out like that. Now I don't know. I don't know 0:53:45.160 --> 0:53:46.200 what these girls be doing. 0:53:46.960 --> 0:53:51.480 Okay, here's the final question. Are to get laid for 0:53:51.560 --> 0:53:52.520 your birthday? 0:53:53.880 --> 0:53:54.480 Birthday? 0:53:54.680 --> 0:53:58.120 Six birthday? So I don't even have nobody. 0:53:58.160 --> 0:54:00.640 I'm no, I'm be honest. 0:54:01.320 --> 0:54:04.200 I had nobody on art. 0:54:04.560 --> 0:54:07.640 So there's nobody that might could possibly be flowing around. 0:54:10.680 --> 0:54:13.359 This might could possibly be eligible at the Big Boy 0:54:13.600 --> 0:54:14.319 and be honest with you. 0:54:14.320 --> 0:54:22.320 No, I haven't met anyone yet. There's no one. I 0:54:22.320 --> 0:54:25.040 don't want to screw anyone from my past, so no, honestly, 0:54:25.239 --> 0:54:25.600 but you. 0:54:25.719 --> 0:54:28.319 Going to the Big Boy event on Sunday, so there's 0:54:29.040 --> 0:54:31.880 there's just no way nobody could happen to catch your 0:54:31.920 --> 0:54:32.279 eye at. 0:54:32.200 --> 0:54:32.640 The Big Boy. 0:54:33.000 --> 0:54:34.480 Yeah, I mean ship is the sixth. 0:54:35.120 --> 0:54:40.080 Honestly, I don't know how many tricks if you had 0:54:40.200 --> 0:54:40.840 that point. 0:54:40.680 --> 0:54:44.000 I don't know. I have to tell you about it later. 0:54:44.040 --> 0:54:44.920 I don't know. 0:54:50.320 --> 0:54:52.960 They're looking out for tuning into the No Senters podcast. 0:54:53.239 --> 0:54:56.000 Please do us a favorite, subscribe, rate, comment, and share. 0:54:56.440 --> 0:54:58.799 This episode was recorded right here on the West coast 0:54:58.840 --> 0:55:01.880 of the US. 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