1 00:00:00,600 --> 00:00:04,280 Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya rad and iHeartRadio 2 00:00:04,400 --> 00:00:07,680 Speaker 1: and two times People's Choice Award winning podcast. 3 00:00:11,480 --> 00:00:14,160 Speaker 2: Hello everybody, We're scrubbing in. 4 00:00:14,680 --> 00:00:18,800 Speaker 1: It's my nest scrub Dub dub Baby. 5 00:00:19,560 --> 00:00:21,080 Speaker 2: How's that checklist going. 6 00:00:21,840 --> 00:00:26,400 Speaker 1: I don't know about you, guys, but I think it's 7 00:00:26,440 --> 00:00:30,880 Speaker 1: the May Gray. I have been so unmotivated and I'm 8 00:00:30,920 --> 00:00:32,800 Speaker 1: one of those people where I make my checklist, my 9 00:00:32,840 --> 00:00:34,879 Speaker 1: to do list, and I mark everything off my to 10 00:00:34,920 --> 00:00:37,040 Speaker 1: do list, and I'm like that person, and it's been 11 00:00:37,120 --> 00:00:38,640 Speaker 1: so hard for me to do that lately. 12 00:00:39,360 --> 00:00:44,279 Speaker 2: Okay, I mean that's been my whole life. So welcome 13 00:00:45,000 --> 00:00:46,280 Speaker 2: well to the other side. 14 00:00:46,800 --> 00:00:48,360 Speaker 1: I don't like the other side. I want to get 15 00:00:48,360 --> 00:00:51,800 Speaker 1: back to my side. And I think I'm gonna attribute it. 16 00:00:51,880 --> 00:00:56,040 Speaker 1: I just got my period. Yeah, and I have one 17 00:00:56,120 --> 00:00:57,760 Speaker 1: day that sucks the life out of me. It feels 18 00:00:57,760 --> 00:01:00,160 Speaker 1: like a gremlin literally like reach inside my body and 19 00:01:00,200 --> 00:01:02,560 Speaker 1: pulled all my energy out. And then I have one 20 00:01:02,640 --> 00:01:07,200 Speaker 1: day of just like profuse cramping and bleeding like Niagara falls. 21 00:01:07,800 --> 00:01:10,280 Speaker 1: And I've always chalked it up to just like, oh, 22 00:01:10,319 --> 00:01:12,480 Speaker 1: that's my period, and that's you know, that's just how 23 00:01:12,520 --> 00:01:15,440 Speaker 1: it is. And you know, what I realized, what this 24 00:01:15,600 --> 00:01:19,720 Speaker 1: is my body? Yeah, this is my body. Like, I'm 25 00:01:19,760 --> 00:01:22,279 Speaker 1: not just gonna live with this one day of Grim 26 00:01:22,319 --> 00:01:25,360 Speaker 1: Reaper taking my soul and blood flying out of me 27 00:01:25,400 --> 00:01:27,880 Speaker 1: like Niagara falls. I'm gonna start doing some research and 28 00:01:27,920 --> 00:01:30,520 Speaker 1: figuring out how to prevent this stuff from happening. 29 00:01:31,280 --> 00:01:35,120 Speaker 2: I mean, I think it's a part of the cycle. 30 00:01:35,480 --> 00:01:38,440 Speaker 1: Now I have a period, my period doesn't have me. 31 00:01:39,160 --> 00:01:44,440 Speaker 2: Oh, I see. The difference is not like I'm like 32 00:01:44,600 --> 00:01:49,280 Speaker 2: relieved that I have that day, because I'm like, it's 33 00:01:49,360 --> 00:01:52,000 Speaker 2: just that day of the month where I don't feel motivated. 34 00:01:52,000 --> 00:01:53,360 Speaker 2: I just kind of want to lay around and want 35 00:01:53,360 --> 00:01:56,080 Speaker 2: to eat whatever I want, watch TV. And I don't 36 00:01:56,080 --> 00:01:58,720 Speaker 2: feel guilty about it, because it's like, listen, we as 37 00:01:58,800 --> 00:02:01,960 Speaker 2: women deal with this. If I get one day where 38 00:02:01,960 --> 00:02:04,560 Speaker 2: I'm allowed to be like I don't feel great. 39 00:02:04,600 --> 00:02:06,120 Speaker 1: No, but it's three days for me because I have 40 00:02:06,160 --> 00:02:08,200 Speaker 1: the grim Reaper day, I have the bloody day and 41 00:02:08,240 --> 00:02:10,600 Speaker 1: the crampy day. That is three days down and that's 42 00:02:10,639 --> 00:02:11,360 Speaker 1: three too many. 43 00:02:11,760 --> 00:02:17,400 Speaker 2: Mm hmm. Right, you have right to Mark and Easton 44 00:02:17,520 --> 00:02:20,919 Speaker 2: right now. By the way, I don't have anything. 45 00:02:20,600 --> 00:02:22,360 Speaker 3: To compare it to. I don't even know how to 46 00:02:22,400 --> 00:02:23,160 Speaker 3: relate to this. 47 00:02:23,360 --> 00:02:25,600 Speaker 4: It seems to me that this is something that it's 48 00:02:25,639 --> 00:02:28,079 Speaker 4: hard to kind of do that modern woman spin on 49 00:02:28,240 --> 00:02:30,000 Speaker 4: because I think your body's gonna do what your body's 50 00:02:30,040 --> 00:02:31,160 Speaker 4: gonna do, but go for it. 51 00:02:31,200 --> 00:02:31,960 Speaker 3: See what happens. 52 00:02:32,240 --> 00:02:34,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm gonna. I'm just I've never I've just always 53 00:02:34,520 --> 00:02:36,120 Speaker 1: kind of chalked it up to like this is the 54 00:02:36,200 --> 00:02:38,800 Speaker 1: hand that I've been dealt with my period, And you 55 00:02:38,840 --> 00:02:43,040 Speaker 1: know what I'm gonna. I'm gonna take the ball balls 56 00:02:43,080 --> 00:02:46,760 Speaker 1: in my hands and I'm gonna figure it out. Like 57 00:02:46,960 --> 00:02:49,200 Speaker 1: I'm not. I'm done with this. I'm so done with it. 58 00:02:49,280 --> 00:02:53,440 Speaker 2: I actually saw a physical therapist and I'm gonna say 59 00:02:53,560 --> 00:02:55,400 Speaker 2: she's the one that I'm always talking about about. It's 60 00:02:55,400 --> 00:02:57,880 Speaker 2: just like the smartest person I've ever met. And I'm 61 00:02:57,880 --> 00:02:59,520 Speaker 2: going to show you her Instagram. But she says that 62 00:02:59,560 --> 00:03:02,280 Speaker 2: our period are not supposed to be painful, and she 63 00:03:02,400 --> 00:03:05,200 Speaker 2: works on she works on that. So maybe you could 64 00:03:05,480 --> 00:03:06,880 Speaker 2: see what she could do for you. 65 00:03:07,040 --> 00:03:08,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, Like the fact that there's one full day, twenty 66 00:03:08,960 --> 00:03:10,680 Speaker 1: four hours and I'm popping a tile in all every 67 00:03:10,720 --> 00:03:13,840 Speaker 1: six hours. I'm over it no more. 68 00:03:14,480 --> 00:03:18,639 Speaker 2: Yeah, bye bye. I. So my cousin came in last 69 00:03:18,639 --> 00:03:20,840 Speaker 2: week and she really wanted to meet Tanya and she 70 00:03:20,880 --> 00:03:22,920 Speaker 2: listens to the podcast and she was like, I just 71 00:03:23,800 --> 00:03:27,080 Speaker 2: I'm just so curious to meet her, Like I feel 72 00:03:27,080 --> 00:03:29,240 Speaker 2: like I really is well yeah, I know literally, she 73 00:03:29,320 --> 00:03:30,760 Speaker 2: was like, I just feel like I relate to her 74 00:03:30,760 --> 00:03:33,360 Speaker 2: a lot, like her zest for life and her excitement 75 00:03:33,360 --> 00:03:36,480 Speaker 2: about like the small things. And she goes but then 76 00:03:36,560 --> 00:03:40,120 Speaker 2: sometimes she says something and I'm just like, could that 77 00:03:40,200 --> 00:03:45,720 Speaker 2: really be real? Like like she's creating a triathlon for 78 00:03:45,760 --> 00:03:50,360 Speaker 2: herself this summer, And I was like, yeah, I mean 79 00:03:50,840 --> 00:03:54,440 Speaker 2: it's real, you know, like that is Tawanya. And so 80 00:03:56,040 --> 00:03:58,360 Speaker 2: everyone that saw you the other night, so my we 81 00:03:58,400 --> 00:04:00,720 Speaker 2: all went to my new house. I haven't moved in yet, but. 82 00:04:00,760 --> 00:04:03,360 Speaker 1: Which is that so amazing by the way, Like I 83 00:04:03,440 --> 00:04:05,680 Speaker 1: literally tike it over it the energy in there, it's 84 00:04:05,760 --> 00:04:07,560 Speaker 1: just it feels like you're home. Like I walked in, 85 00:04:07,640 --> 00:04:08,880 Speaker 1: I was like, Becketilla lives here. 86 00:04:09,200 --> 00:04:11,640 Speaker 2: Okay, we'll get back to that part in a second. 87 00:04:12,760 --> 00:04:16,880 Speaker 2: But my sisters and my cousin were all at the 88 00:04:16,920 --> 00:04:19,159 Speaker 2: house and Tanya came over and we left, and everyone 89 00:04:19,279 --> 00:04:25,760 Speaker 2: was like, Tanya seems so calm, like grounded. Really, Yeah, 90 00:04:25,839 --> 00:04:28,560 Speaker 2: they were all like saying, how like like calm and 91 00:04:28,600 --> 00:04:32,920 Speaker 2: grounded you seem compared to your normal Well, I'm. 92 00:04:32,760 --> 00:04:36,599 Speaker 1: Just gonna tickle me pink and call me dandy. That 93 00:04:36,839 --> 00:04:39,120 Speaker 1: is so sweet. 94 00:04:38,880 --> 00:04:47,640 Speaker 2: On the podcast title to them doesn't have it's my body. 95 00:04:47,720 --> 00:04:50,359 Speaker 1: That's my body, all right now, I have my period, 96 00:04:50,440 --> 00:04:53,800 Speaker 1: my period and have me Wait. That's actually really nice 97 00:04:53,839 --> 00:04:56,000 Speaker 1: because I always feel like sometimes your sisters think I'm 98 00:04:56,040 --> 00:04:57,560 Speaker 1: like so high energy. 99 00:04:57,760 --> 00:05:00,400 Speaker 2: No, they they all like everyone made the I'm gonna 100 00:05:00,440 --> 00:05:05,279 Speaker 2: you seemed like not sad, but like grounded. Jill relaxed, 101 00:05:05,960 --> 00:05:08,640 Speaker 2: like I thought, did she just have sex before she 102 00:05:08,680 --> 00:05:13,279 Speaker 2: came over? I was like, I don't think so, but 103 00:05:13,360 --> 00:05:13,839 Speaker 2: I don't know. 104 00:05:14,080 --> 00:05:16,680 Speaker 1: Actually no, I just finished my son run. 105 00:05:16,720 --> 00:05:19,000 Speaker 2: Actually, oh so you're just on the sun run. Yeah, 106 00:05:19,279 --> 00:05:23,159 Speaker 2: like the endorphins ground Yeah, you play your thoughts of 107 00:05:23,200 --> 00:05:24,720 Speaker 2: what you're gonna think about on your run. 108 00:05:24,839 --> 00:05:25,560 Speaker 1: Yeah. 109 00:05:25,640 --> 00:05:26,200 Speaker 2: Yeah. 110 00:05:26,320 --> 00:05:27,880 Speaker 1: By the way, we'll get back to that trap on 111 00:05:27,960 --> 00:05:30,520 Speaker 1: because Red Star is not totally on board, so I'm 112 00:05:30,520 --> 00:05:34,080 Speaker 1: gonna have to pivot my idea. But it's fine, it's fine, 113 00:05:34,080 --> 00:05:36,400 Speaker 1: it's fine. Neve more So. 114 00:05:36,560 --> 00:05:38,039 Speaker 2: Yeah, we were at the house the other day and 115 00:05:38,120 --> 00:05:40,239 Speaker 2: Tanya was like, I'm bringing sage, so we can stage 116 00:05:40,279 --> 00:05:42,320 Speaker 2: the house, which I've never done before, but I was 117 00:05:42,360 --> 00:05:45,919 Speaker 2: thinking about doing it, so I was actually like excited 118 00:05:45,960 --> 00:05:50,000 Speaker 2: about the idea, actually excited. Yeah. I wasn't like just 119 00:05:50,040 --> 00:05:52,320 Speaker 2: doing it for Tanya's sake, like I was genuinely excited 120 00:05:52,360 --> 00:05:55,760 Speaker 2: for myself to do it. And so I go to 121 00:05:55,839 --> 00:05:58,240 Speaker 2: light it. I'm like, I don't normally burn sage. How 122 00:05:58,279 --> 00:06:00,400 Speaker 2: do I do this? And so I light it. She no, no, no, 123 00:06:00,480 --> 00:06:02,360 Speaker 2: you need to light it a little bit more. So 124 00:06:02,400 --> 00:06:05,159 Speaker 2: we light it and it's literally like it looks like 125 00:06:05,200 --> 00:06:08,719 Speaker 2: a giant bmfire smoking it. There's so much smoke that 126 00:06:08,760 --> 00:06:12,120 Speaker 2: I'm like, there's absolutely no way this is right. So 127 00:06:12,760 --> 00:06:16,640 Speaker 2: she's like, maybe let's I'm gonna go outside and like 128 00:06:17,520 --> 00:06:19,760 Speaker 2: try and weaken it a little bit. So I go 129 00:06:19,920 --> 00:06:22,560 Speaker 2: in and I'm like staging it. Smokes just blowing all 130 00:06:22,600 --> 00:06:24,800 Speaker 2: over me as I'm in the middle of doing it, 131 00:06:24,839 --> 00:06:27,440 Speaker 2: and Tony is like, be intentional about what you want 132 00:06:27,440 --> 00:06:31,360 Speaker 2: this house to represent, and then all of a sudden, 133 00:06:31,360 --> 00:06:35,040 Speaker 2: the fire alarm starts going off, and it was just 134 00:06:35,120 --> 00:06:39,359 Speaker 2: the most Tanya beca moment there's ever been, like me 135 00:06:39,640 --> 00:06:42,279 Speaker 2: trying to be like intentional set in my eye. 136 00:06:42,560 --> 00:06:44,440 Speaker 1: She's like scurrying around, and I'm like, okay, go into 137 00:06:44,440 --> 00:06:46,400 Speaker 1: all the corners. And as you're going in the corners, 138 00:06:46,440 --> 00:06:47,920 Speaker 1: like really think about what you want to bring in, 139 00:06:48,000 --> 00:06:49,400 Speaker 1: Like the abundance you want to bring in, like the 140 00:06:49,440 --> 00:06:51,559 Speaker 1: accomplishments you want to have in this house, the people 141 00:06:51,600 --> 00:06:53,240 Speaker 1: you want to bring together, like all of these. As 142 00:06:53,240 --> 00:06:55,360 Speaker 1: you're going through the rooms, and then the fire alarm 143 00:06:55,400 --> 00:06:56,680 Speaker 1: start's going up, And I was like, it's okay, I 144 00:06:56,680 --> 00:06:59,360 Speaker 1: got it about it. You keep setting your intentions. 145 00:07:00,320 --> 00:07:03,080 Speaker 2: She was like so insistent that I don't stop on 146 00:07:03,200 --> 00:07:06,240 Speaker 2: my path, but I keep hitting the corners. Meanwhile, I'm 147 00:07:06,279 --> 00:07:09,480 Speaker 2: like about to be consumed by the smoke going into 148 00:07:09,520 --> 00:07:14,680 Speaker 2: my face. It was the house is sage beyond. 149 00:07:15,760 --> 00:07:17,400 Speaker 1: Didn't it feel good when you were done? 150 00:07:17,560 --> 00:07:19,480 Speaker 2: It felt grad I went there to check on I 151 00:07:19,520 --> 00:07:21,760 Speaker 2: had to do some measurement things this morning. I was like, wow, 152 00:07:21,800 --> 00:07:22,880 Speaker 2: I can feel the difference. 153 00:07:23,040 --> 00:07:27,240 Speaker 1: Can you just lighter? Yeah, it's very. 154 00:07:27,720 --> 00:07:29,240 Speaker 3: That you pretend to go along with this stuff. 155 00:07:29,720 --> 00:07:31,600 Speaker 4: Did you open all the windows because you'd have to 156 00:07:31,640 --> 00:07:33,440 Speaker 4: air the place out for like a week before you 157 00:07:33,440 --> 00:07:34,360 Speaker 4: move in, right. 158 00:07:34,560 --> 00:07:36,240 Speaker 1: Oh, it's not like it doesn't smell. 159 00:07:36,760 --> 00:07:38,800 Speaker 2: No, it didn't smell. It smell it smelled. It still 160 00:07:38,840 --> 00:07:44,400 Speaker 2: smells like just like fresh paint, and you know, they reaked. 161 00:07:44,480 --> 00:07:46,360 Speaker 2: I had to wash I had to wash my hair, 162 00:07:46,400 --> 00:07:48,320 Speaker 2: I had to do everything. I was like, Okay, that 163 00:07:48,520 --> 00:07:51,679 Speaker 2: was a big to do. I was expecting a little 164 00:07:51,720 --> 00:07:55,120 Speaker 2: trail of smoke to be like fluttering through the house. 165 00:07:55,200 --> 00:07:57,120 Speaker 2: It looks like I was carrying a torch. 166 00:08:00,120 --> 00:08:05,360 Speaker 1: So it was a house of sage. And what's the 167 00:08:05,400 --> 00:08:07,360 Speaker 1: first thing you're going to move in? Like the are 168 00:08:07,360 --> 00:08:08,520 Speaker 1: you gonna do the piece of paper thing? 169 00:08:08,840 --> 00:08:12,040 Speaker 2: I'm right to that. Yeah, cute. So so okay, this 170 00:08:12,120 --> 00:08:15,120 Speaker 2: whole time, I've been planning on moving this week because 171 00:08:16,280 --> 00:08:19,080 Speaker 2: I kind of wanted to be settled in. And the 172 00:08:19,120 --> 00:08:22,680 Speaker 2: next weekend I'm going I have a my one of 173 00:08:22,720 --> 00:08:24,920 Speaker 2: my best friend's wedding, and then from there I'm flying 174 00:08:25,080 --> 00:08:27,840 Speaker 2: home from my Oh. I hope he doesn't listen to this. 175 00:08:27,960 --> 00:08:30,960 Speaker 2: No one. I don't think my dad listens to the podcast. 176 00:08:31,120 --> 00:08:33,360 Speaker 2: No one tell him, Yeah, I'm falling home for my 177 00:08:33,440 --> 00:08:35,120 Speaker 2: dad's birthday, and so. 178 00:08:35,400 --> 00:08:39,559 Speaker 1: No one tell him. Lindsay, that's you, that's be gust cousin. 179 00:08:41,320 --> 00:08:44,920 Speaker 2: I yeah, for everyone listening, it is a surprise that 180 00:08:45,040 --> 00:08:48,520 Speaker 2: please don't spoil this. So I wanted to kind of 181 00:08:48,559 --> 00:08:50,520 Speaker 2: be settled in the house the week before I had 182 00:08:50,559 --> 00:08:52,319 Speaker 2: to leave and kind of make sure everything was set 183 00:08:52,400 --> 00:08:54,439 Speaker 2: up and everything. So I was trying to move this week. 184 00:08:54,640 --> 00:08:56,439 Speaker 2: Well I looked at my calendar and the only day 185 00:08:56,440 --> 00:09:00,360 Speaker 2: I have is tomorrow. So today I'm calling them moving 186 00:09:00,360 --> 00:09:02,880 Speaker 2: companies and they're like, yeah, we can do tomorrow. So 187 00:09:02,960 --> 00:09:05,720 Speaker 2: now all of a sudden, I'm moving everything tomorrow, which. 188 00:09:05,559 --> 00:09:07,480 Speaker 1: Is so exciting because that is your house. 189 00:09:07,640 --> 00:09:10,079 Speaker 2: It's so exciting. I'm so excited, and it was gonna 190 00:09:10,080 --> 00:09:12,160 Speaker 2: be I think, no matter what I was, I would 191 00:09:12,160 --> 00:09:15,320 Speaker 2: probably wait to last a minute anyway. But it is 192 00:09:15,360 --> 00:09:18,079 Speaker 2: happening really fast because that just happened this morning, So 193 00:09:18,160 --> 00:09:19,600 Speaker 2: I will be moving in tomorrow. 194 00:09:19,720 --> 00:09:19,920 Speaker 3: Nice. 195 00:09:19,960 --> 00:09:22,040 Speaker 2: I'm so happy we saved it because like. 196 00:09:22,440 --> 00:09:25,320 Speaker 1: What I know, Yeah, Well, you know what's funny is 197 00:09:25,360 --> 00:09:27,640 Speaker 1: so that night that we were talking about we were 198 00:09:27,679 --> 00:09:29,640 Speaker 1: going to Becca's house. So she says, meet me there 199 00:09:29,679 --> 00:09:32,600 Speaker 1: at six thirty. So what time do I get there? 200 00:09:33,800 --> 00:09:37,400 Speaker 1: Six twenty five, of course, and I'm sitting out in 201 00:09:37,440 --> 00:09:39,520 Speaker 1: front and Becca text me and she's like, I'm about 202 00:09:39,520 --> 00:09:42,559 Speaker 1: to leave my apartment and I was like, oh, okay, 203 00:09:42,600 --> 00:09:45,760 Speaker 1: I'm like two seconds. Sorry, right, I mean, well, we 204 00:09:45,840 --> 00:09:47,520 Speaker 1: live within five minutes of each other, but I was like, 205 00:09:47,920 --> 00:09:50,720 Speaker 1: it's six thirty, I'm here. So I was like sitting 206 00:09:50,760 --> 00:09:54,080 Speaker 1: outside of her house for probably ten minutes. But this 207 00:09:54,080 --> 00:09:56,000 Speaker 1: one neighbor that lives across the street kind of kept 208 00:09:56,000 --> 00:09:58,439 Speaker 1: like popping in and out, and it was just like 209 00:09:58,520 --> 00:10:00,680 Speaker 1: kind of giddy, and I wanted to go over and. 210 00:10:00,640 --> 00:10:05,640 Speaker 2: Introduce myself, introduce herself, like, Hi, my best friend's go 211 00:10:06,040 --> 00:10:07,840 Speaker 2: I'm not moving in here, but my best friend's gonna 212 00:10:07,880 --> 00:10:08,960 Speaker 2: leave her, so I'm. 213 00:10:08,800 --> 00:10:11,280 Speaker 1: Nice to her. Here's my number, like I was gonna 214 00:10:11,280 --> 00:10:16,040 Speaker 1: do the whole thing, and my number, I know, for 215 00:10:16,160 --> 00:10:20,280 Speaker 1: what in case you need friends. I'm good friends, but 216 00:10:20,360 --> 00:10:22,760 Speaker 1: like friends in the neighborhood, I'm great. 217 00:10:22,920 --> 00:10:23,880 Speaker 2: I feel no, she. 218 00:10:23,880 --> 00:10:26,599 Speaker 3: Should give she should get Beca's numbers. She should be 219 00:10:26,760 --> 00:10:27,480 Speaker 3: You're a number. 220 00:10:27,760 --> 00:10:29,960 Speaker 1: Well yeah, I mean, you know, to each their own, 221 00:10:30,000 --> 00:10:32,440 Speaker 1: but I think that you should really get my. 222 00:10:32,559 --> 00:10:34,120 Speaker 3: Neighbors don't have Easton's number. 223 00:10:35,880 --> 00:10:40,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, Easton, But like, I don't know, I just feel 224 00:10:40,760 --> 00:10:44,040 Speaker 1: like you should make some baskets or something for your 225 00:10:44,040 --> 00:10:46,960 Speaker 1: neighbors and like really get to know them. This is 226 00:10:46,960 --> 00:10:48,199 Speaker 1: like your first home. 227 00:10:48,280 --> 00:10:51,719 Speaker 2: Yeah it is. And I am so I'm going to 228 00:10:51,800 --> 00:10:54,760 Speaker 2: introduce myself just so like you know, there's like safe 229 00:10:54,960 --> 00:10:59,040 Speaker 2: safety and knowing the people around me. But also I 230 00:10:59,040 --> 00:11:02,040 Speaker 2: don't I'm like, I'm a little more introverted than you, 231 00:11:02,120 --> 00:11:03,920 Speaker 2: Like I don't need to, Like I. 232 00:11:03,880 --> 00:11:05,960 Speaker 1: Don't think you need to necessarily be best friends and have 233 00:11:06,040 --> 00:11:08,640 Speaker 1: your neighbors over for like a pot look every Sunday. 234 00:11:08,760 --> 00:11:10,760 Speaker 1: But I think that there is something nice about like 235 00:11:11,160 --> 00:11:13,240 Speaker 1: having a phone number of somebody that lives nearby in 236 00:11:13,240 --> 00:11:15,360 Speaker 1: case something happens, you know, Like I like that I 237 00:11:15,440 --> 00:11:18,440 Speaker 1: have people are dropping like flies in my apartment complex, 238 00:11:18,480 --> 00:11:20,680 Speaker 1: but at least I have my next door that I know. 239 00:11:20,800 --> 00:11:22,320 Speaker 3: They're moving out, they're not dying. 240 00:11:22,400 --> 00:11:29,719 Speaker 1: Just to be clear, yes, yeah, moving. I think it's 241 00:11:29,800 --> 00:11:31,800 Speaker 1: nice that I can, you know, have somebody that lives 242 00:11:31,960 --> 00:11:34,040 Speaker 1: close that I don't know I need something. 243 00:11:34,120 --> 00:11:37,319 Speaker 2: Well, I do have the Ring app, which is security cameras, 244 00:11:37,320 --> 00:11:39,760 Speaker 2: and they report what's going on in the neighborhood. So 245 00:11:40,640 --> 00:11:45,079 Speaker 2: I feel pretty good, Tanya. I already had my real 246 00:11:45,160 --> 00:11:47,040 Speaker 2: estate agent, Like we were over there and he was 247 00:11:47,080 --> 00:11:49,920 Speaker 2: like every person that walked outside, he was like, neighbor, 248 00:11:50,600 --> 00:11:52,720 Speaker 2: this is your here's your neighbor. 249 00:11:53,440 --> 00:11:56,400 Speaker 1: I was just like, hi, I do think you bring 250 00:11:56,520 --> 00:11:58,679 Speaker 1: up a good point of like, it's not great your 251 00:11:58,679 --> 00:12:00,920 Speaker 1: neighbors know. I wouldn't want my neighbors know I'm a 252 00:12:00,960 --> 00:12:01,960 Speaker 1: single girl living and. 253 00:12:02,040 --> 00:12:03,120 Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying. 254 00:12:03,679 --> 00:12:07,560 Speaker 1: Okay, but you can sign the letter love the Tillies. 255 00:12:08,080 --> 00:12:12,040 Speaker 2: So maybe, yeah, I think you're just gonna move in 256 00:12:12,120 --> 00:12:16,280 Speaker 2: and and like have my place that's mine and not. 257 00:12:16,360 --> 00:12:22,120 Speaker 1: Really I guess if you need something, yeah, you'll be 258 00:12:22,200 --> 00:12:25,600 Speaker 1: my neighbor. I know. Okay, that's true. 259 00:12:26,240 --> 00:12:28,920 Speaker 4: Shouldn't your neighbors know that you're single and living alone, 260 00:12:28,920 --> 00:12:32,400 Speaker 4: because then if they see some weirdness, they're gonna say something. 261 00:12:32,520 --> 00:12:33,920 Speaker 2: But what if they're the weirdness. 262 00:12:34,080 --> 00:12:36,280 Speaker 4: No, I don't think so. I think your neighbors want 263 00:12:36,320 --> 00:12:40,400 Speaker 4: peace and happiness in your neighborhood. 264 00:12:39,600 --> 00:12:41,719 Speaker 1: So too, But I think that might be naivete. 265 00:12:42,760 --> 00:12:45,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, man, don't have to worry about these things. So 266 00:12:45,240 --> 00:12:47,120 Speaker 2: it's like hard for you to even get into the 267 00:12:47,120 --> 00:12:50,800 Speaker 2: mindset of what it's like to have to be on 268 00:12:50,960 --> 00:12:55,480 Speaker 2: guard for those types of things, unfortunately. But I do think, 269 00:12:55,520 --> 00:12:57,720 Speaker 2: I mean, I think there is there is a balance 270 00:12:57,760 --> 00:13:00,640 Speaker 2: of being like, Hi, I'm moving in, so nice to 271 00:13:00,679 --> 00:13:05,679 Speaker 2: meet you, introducing myself, you know, and then as a like. 272 00:13:05,760 --> 00:13:07,440 Speaker 2: I don't think I need to get a drop off 273 00:13:07,559 --> 00:13:10,360 Speaker 2: goodie bags and everything. But I'm not a post like 274 00:13:10,520 --> 00:13:11,560 Speaker 2: introducing myself. 275 00:13:11,640 --> 00:13:13,439 Speaker 3: I think it's weird to say the Tillies. I think 276 00:13:13,440 --> 00:13:14,000 Speaker 3: that is weird. 277 00:13:15,120 --> 00:13:20,720 Speaker 2: But me and my my masculine, huge spend dog, oh 278 00:13:20,960 --> 00:13:22,040 Speaker 2: German shepherd. 279 00:13:23,320 --> 00:13:24,880 Speaker 4: You're going to get to know these people, and they're 280 00:13:24,880 --> 00:13:26,400 Speaker 4: going to find out that you're just by yourself, and 281 00:13:26,400 --> 00:13:28,400 Speaker 4: they're going to go didn't you write the Tillies. 282 00:13:28,040 --> 00:13:28,600 Speaker 3: On the cards? 283 00:13:28,760 --> 00:13:30,840 Speaker 1: Yeah? Becca and Phoebe Tilly. 284 00:13:31,640 --> 00:13:32,160 Speaker 3: It's cute. 285 00:13:32,200 --> 00:13:33,560 Speaker 5: It's a quirky little thing, you know. 286 00:13:34,440 --> 00:13:36,679 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, let me see. Well, we'll get to that 287 00:13:36,679 --> 00:13:39,880 Speaker 2: when we get I'm sure I'll have stories about the introduction. 288 00:13:40,120 --> 00:13:41,800 Speaker 1: But what's the word that you're going to put on 289 00:13:41,800 --> 00:13:44,360 Speaker 1: the piece of paper and bring into your home or 290 00:13:44,360 --> 00:13:45,000 Speaker 1: is it a secret? 291 00:13:45,559 --> 00:13:49,079 Speaker 2: I feel like it's I feel like it's not been 292 00:13:49,160 --> 00:13:49,800 Speaker 2: developed yet. 293 00:13:50,000 --> 00:13:51,559 Speaker 1: Oh you don't know you're moving tomorrow? 294 00:13:51,640 --> 00:13:55,160 Speaker 2: TikTok. Well, I just found I was moving tomorre this okay, 295 00:13:55,200 --> 00:13:57,520 Speaker 2: I just thought I was moving this morning. Then right 296 00:13:57,559 --> 00:13:59,400 Speaker 2: before this, I went to Low's to buy a washer 297 00:13:59,440 --> 00:14:03,120 Speaker 2: and dryer, which, by the way, an expensive process. 298 00:14:03,559 --> 00:14:06,240 Speaker 1: Really yeah, I mean it's not much as a washer 299 00:14:06,320 --> 00:14:07,720 Speaker 1: and a dryer around these days. 300 00:14:08,520 --> 00:14:11,520 Speaker 2: I mean the low end I saw was in the 301 00:14:11,559 --> 00:14:15,880 Speaker 2: eight hundreds per unit and then yeah. 302 00:14:15,520 --> 00:14:17,800 Speaker 1: For a washer and a dryer, I could wash your 303 00:14:17,840 --> 00:14:19,680 Speaker 1: pants in a sink for two dollars. 304 00:14:20,240 --> 00:14:22,040 Speaker 2: Okay, well it seems like it would take a long time. 305 00:14:22,120 --> 00:14:24,480 Speaker 1: That's true. You do need that's and you need to 306 00:14:24,520 --> 00:14:25,480 Speaker 1: purchase yeah, something. 307 00:14:26,120 --> 00:14:29,400 Speaker 2: It's just there's a lot Like my house basically I 308 00:14:29,440 --> 00:14:31,400 Speaker 2: don't have to do anything to it, which is amazing, 309 00:14:31,480 --> 00:14:34,040 Speaker 2: but there's still like a lot to be done. Like 310 00:14:34,080 --> 00:14:36,560 Speaker 2: there's a few things that I'm like, oh, yeah, I 311 00:14:36,600 --> 00:14:41,240 Speaker 2: need to do that, and it's not cheat oh I know, 312 00:14:41,560 --> 00:14:44,080 Speaker 2: but still I'm so excited. I'm so excited to get 313 00:14:44,080 --> 00:14:48,720 Speaker 2: in there. So yeah, that's what's happening in this process 314 00:14:48,760 --> 00:14:51,520 Speaker 2: of moving, and a lot of people I said that 315 00:14:51,560 --> 00:14:53,240 Speaker 2: I was going to do the soft move, which is 316 00:14:53,280 --> 00:14:56,280 Speaker 2: like I move all the big stuff and like move 317 00:14:56,320 --> 00:14:57,960 Speaker 2: everything to where I can live out of my new 318 00:14:58,000 --> 00:15:00,280 Speaker 2: house and then can go back and forth to the 319 00:15:00,320 --> 00:15:01,920 Speaker 2: old house to kind of go through things that are 320 00:15:01,960 --> 00:15:04,640 Speaker 2: a little more like tedious annoying, like small things and 321 00:15:04,680 --> 00:15:06,680 Speaker 2: decide when I want to keep. And I got a 322 00:15:06,720 --> 00:15:07,920 Speaker 2: lot of mixture views about it. 323 00:15:08,200 --> 00:15:09,560 Speaker 1: I like that idea. 324 00:15:10,080 --> 00:15:12,520 Speaker 2: Yeah. I think the thing is that I have the 325 00:15:13,520 --> 00:15:16,400 Speaker 2: flexibility of a schedule to go back and forth, and 326 00:15:16,440 --> 00:15:19,120 Speaker 2: that's almost going to be like my project during the week, 327 00:15:19,280 --> 00:15:22,720 Speaker 2: you know. I think if I had like a nine 328 00:15:22,720 --> 00:15:24,560 Speaker 2: to five job and then I was having to go 329 00:15:24,640 --> 00:15:26,320 Speaker 2: after I would be like, I just want to get 330 00:15:26,320 --> 00:15:27,720 Speaker 2: it all done. So I'm living out of my house. 331 00:15:27,720 --> 00:15:29,720 Speaker 2: But I think because I have the flexibility and I 332 00:15:29,800 --> 00:15:32,960 Speaker 2: have the time to do it, I just think it's 333 00:15:33,080 --> 00:15:33,600 Speaker 2: it's better. 334 00:15:33,720 --> 00:15:36,120 Speaker 1: Like, why would you move everything if you're going to 335 00:15:36,200 --> 00:15:37,320 Speaker 1: get rid of a bunch of stuff. 336 00:15:38,120 --> 00:15:39,400 Speaker 2: Well a lot of people were like, why don't you 337 00:15:39,440 --> 00:15:41,480 Speaker 2: go through and purge before you move? And I'm like, well, 338 00:15:41,760 --> 00:15:45,320 Speaker 2: because I'm moving tomorrow. Yeah, I have run out of 339 00:15:45,360 --> 00:15:49,000 Speaker 2: time in that regard. So all very exciting. I can't 340 00:15:49,040 --> 00:15:54,760 Speaker 2: wait to have like house parties, gatherings. 341 00:15:54,160 --> 00:15:59,160 Speaker 1: Of my dinner party with the twinkle lights. That is 342 00:15:59,200 --> 00:16:00,600 Speaker 1: what I cannot wait for. 343 00:16:01,720 --> 00:16:05,360 Speaker 3: She has way more excited than this, which is cute. 344 00:16:05,560 --> 00:16:10,040 Speaker 2: I'm so excited. Yeah, I'm super excited. But like I 345 00:16:10,080 --> 00:16:12,600 Speaker 2: have had that reaction. I mean, obviously Tanya is Tanya, 346 00:16:12,640 --> 00:16:16,440 Speaker 2: so it's like always on a level the rest like 347 00:16:16,520 --> 00:16:18,880 Speaker 2: everyone's been like, oh my god, you know, so excited. 348 00:16:18,920 --> 00:16:22,560 Speaker 2: So I'm it's feeling like, I know, the moving stuff 349 00:16:22,600 --> 00:16:24,200 Speaker 2: is just a pain in general, but I don't even 350 00:16:24,280 --> 00:16:26,440 Speaker 2: care because I'm just kind of I'm so excited to 351 00:16:26,440 --> 00:16:26,960 Speaker 2: get in there. 352 00:16:27,120 --> 00:16:30,440 Speaker 1: I think because also because of quarantine. I've never really like, 353 00:16:30,760 --> 00:16:32,680 Speaker 1: I don't know, I've lived in an apartment my whole life. 354 00:16:32,680 --> 00:16:34,920 Speaker 1: I've never had space, and so for me, for you 355 00:16:35,000 --> 00:16:37,680 Speaker 1: to have all this space, it's like feels like an oasis, 356 00:16:37,720 --> 00:16:41,000 Speaker 1: you know. Like there's this little section where her living 357 00:16:41,040 --> 00:16:44,120 Speaker 1: room looks into the backyard and it's there's like this 358 00:16:45,080 --> 00:16:47,120 Speaker 1: I don't to explain. It's almost like a it's like 359 00:16:47,120 --> 00:16:49,440 Speaker 1: your backyard, but there's like two sections of your backyard, 360 00:16:49,760 --> 00:16:51,560 Speaker 1: and one of them is like a little patio and 361 00:16:51,640 --> 00:16:54,320 Speaker 1: she's gonna hang these like twinkle lights from the sides, 362 00:16:54,920 --> 00:16:57,640 Speaker 1: and it's just like I literally envisioned a cute dinner 363 00:16:57,680 --> 00:16:59,320 Speaker 1: party out there. The minute I walked out, I was like, 364 00:16:59,360 --> 00:17:00,600 Speaker 1: this is so cute. 365 00:17:01,200 --> 00:17:03,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's gonna be super cute. I'm really excited. And 366 00:17:03,760 --> 00:17:05,480 Speaker 2: it's really cool because I can look at it and 367 00:17:05,520 --> 00:17:08,399 Speaker 2: be like, oh, maybe I could change that and I 368 00:17:08,440 --> 00:17:10,760 Speaker 2: can do it whenever I want because it's my house, 369 00:17:11,440 --> 00:17:13,640 Speaker 2: because like nor in my place. Now I'll be like, oh, 370 00:17:13,800 --> 00:17:16,120 Speaker 2: I wish I could redo that, but you. 371 00:17:16,080 --> 00:17:18,679 Speaker 3: Know it's there. 372 00:17:18,720 --> 00:17:21,400 Speaker 4: But then of course there's the element of something breaks. 373 00:17:21,600 --> 00:17:23,359 Speaker 4: Now it's you're you're gonna have to pay for it. 374 00:17:24,240 --> 00:17:26,800 Speaker 2: Like I don't even know what's gonna happen when I 375 00:17:26,800 --> 00:17:28,800 Speaker 2: have a plumbing issue. Right off the bat, I'm gonna 376 00:17:28,840 --> 00:17:31,480 Speaker 2: be like, now, who do I call? 377 00:17:32,520 --> 00:17:37,680 Speaker 1: So I get home yesterday and my my alarm starts. 378 00:17:37,680 --> 00:17:40,480 Speaker 1: My alarm is chirping, and it's not my fire alarm, 379 00:17:40,480 --> 00:17:43,080 Speaker 1: it's my carbon monoxide alarm. And I don't know what 380 00:17:43,119 --> 00:17:46,320 Speaker 1: carbon monoxide is, if I'm being honest, And and my 381 00:17:46,400 --> 00:17:49,040 Speaker 1: apartments kind of smells like it smells like something, and 382 00:17:49,080 --> 00:17:53,000 Speaker 1: so I start panicking, and I call call my landlord 383 00:17:53,119 --> 00:17:55,119 Speaker 1: and he's like, call the gas company, and I was 384 00:17:55,160 --> 00:18:02,640 Speaker 1: like thanks. So I call the GA gas company and 385 00:18:02,680 --> 00:18:05,800 Speaker 1: she tells me that carbon monoxide doesn't have a scent. 386 00:18:06,160 --> 00:18:11,520 Speaker 1: So then I'm like, something something's going on here. No, 387 00:18:11,720 --> 00:18:14,840 Speaker 1: And so I I still said it was an emergency 388 00:18:14,880 --> 00:18:16,680 Speaker 1: and had them come out to inspect because I don't 389 00:18:16,720 --> 00:18:19,400 Speaker 1: know my carbon monoxide things going. And then my house, 390 00:18:19,520 --> 00:18:23,200 Speaker 1: my apartment smells like you know something. So then when 391 00:18:23,200 --> 00:18:25,760 Speaker 1: she said that, though, I start, like, you know, dog 392 00:18:25,840 --> 00:18:29,160 Speaker 1: the bounty hunter, start searching around my place, like what's 393 00:18:29,200 --> 00:18:32,320 Speaker 1: going on? Where's this coming from? And I saw that 394 00:18:32,440 --> 00:18:35,720 Speaker 1: my stove. I have a gas stove, and so you 395 00:18:35,760 --> 00:18:37,680 Speaker 1: have to, like you like, turn it on. It goes 396 00:18:37,720 --> 00:18:39,600 Speaker 1: like click click, and then the flames come. You know, 397 00:18:39,960 --> 00:18:41,760 Speaker 1: that's what the fire, that's what the gas stove is. 398 00:18:41,800 --> 00:18:46,080 Speaker 2: Thank you for explaining that. She's the only person who's 399 00:18:46,119 --> 00:18:46,720 Speaker 2: ever had one. 400 00:18:49,160 --> 00:18:52,400 Speaker 1: So two of the little knobs were turned. The gas 401 00:18:52,640 --> 00:18:53,280 Speaker 1: was turned. 402 00:18:54,119 --> 00:18:56,360 Speaker 2: That's dangerous though, right, yes, And I. 403 00:18:56,320 --> 00:18:58,680 Speaker 1: Hadn't been here because I was at Red Stars all weekend. 404 00:18:59,400 --> 00:19:01,240 Speaker 1: So but I think I think it was only from 405 00:19:01,240 --> 00:19:03,600 Speaker 1: Saturday to Sunday. Okay, I think it was only for 406 00:19:03,640 --> 00:19:06,159 Speaker 1: like twenty four hours. But still that's a lot of 407 00:19:06,240 --> 00:19:08,200 Speaker 1: gas coming out. 408 00:19:08,320 --> 00:19:09,959 Speaker 5: If you had lit some siege, it could have been 409 00:19:09,960 --> 00:19:12,359 Speaker 5: curtains for you. They could have allays gone up, you know, 410 00:19:14,640 --> 00:19:14,760 Speaker 5: do you. 411 00:19:14,760 --> 00:19:17,000 Speaker 1: Want to know the craziest thing. Before I even realized 412 00:19:17,000 --> 00:19:19,240 Speaker 1: an this, so I just the woman said open all 413 00:19:19,240 --> 00:19:21,160 Speaker 1: the doors and the windows. So I opened all everything 414 00:19:21,200 --> 00:19:23,399 Speaker 1: here and there and start airing it out. And then 415 00:19:23,400 --> 00:19:25,200 Speaker 1: I was like sitting here waiting for this guy to come, 416 00:19:25,560 --> 00:19:28,199 Speaker 1: you know, because they're just they're gonna come anywhere between. 417 00:19:28,400 --> 00:19:30,320 Speaker 1: Like it was five and eight pm. So I was 418 00:19:30,359 --> 00:19:33,000 Speaker 1: just chilling by the window, like with my nose outside 419 00:19:33,040 --> 00:19:34,560 Speaker 1: the windows. I'm not breathing in. And then I was like, 420 00:19:34,760 --> 00:19:36,119 Speaker 1: it's not all so bad in here. I lit my 421 00:19:36,200 --> 00:19:42,639 Speaker 1: candle in my bedroom. I didn't even realize, Wow. 422 00:19:42,600 --> 00:19:43,160 Speaker 2: My god. 423 00:19:44,359 --> 00:19:46,879 Speaker 1: Yeah, so I learned a lot yesterday. 424 00:19:47,880 --> 00:19:49,720 Speaker 3: How do you think those knobs got turned if you 425 00:19:49,760 --> 00:19:50,280 Speaker 3: weren't home? 426 00:19:51,040 --> 00:19:54,440 Speaker 1: So uh, I went. I I was home. I went 427 00:19:54,480 --> 00:19:56,320 Speaker 1: to Red Stars on Friday night and we went and 428 00:19:56,359 --> 00:19:59,440 Speaker 1: we worked out Saturday morning, which is right by my apartment. 429 00:20:00,040 --> 00:20:02,320 Speaker 1: So we came here and I dropped off some stuff 430 00:20:02,320 --> 00:20:04,320 Speaker 1: and grabbed more stuff. So we were here for like 431 00:20:05,480 --> 00:20:08,800 Speaker 1: maybe ten minutes. And I think we must have because 432 00:20:08,800 --> 00:20:11,679 Speaker 1: it didn't smell when we came back on Saturday. So 433 00:20:11,760 --> 00:20:14,000 Speaker 1: I think we must have like leaned up against the 434 00:20:14,040 --> 00:20:16,640 Speaker 1: stove or something. I have no idea, but it had 435 00:20:16,680 --> 00:20:19,120 Speaker 1: to have been. When we were here changing and then 436 00:20:19,359 --> 00:20:20,120 Speaker 1: left again. 437 00:20:20,280 --> 00:20:22,639 Speaker 2: We're just like in the kitchen leaning up against the stove. 438 00:20:22,760 --> 00:20:24,119 Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, like doing some things. 439 00:20:24,359 --> 00:20:27,439 Speaker 2: Oh wow, unexpected place. 440 00:20:27,680 --> 00:20:29,280 Speaker 1: But I'm totally kidding. 441 00:20:29,640 --> 00:20:31,240 Speaker 2: I never know if you were on his plate. 442 00:20:32,000 --> 00:20:34,880 Speaker 1: I'm sure I probably kissed him over there, like leaned 443 00:20:34,920 --> 00:20:35,800 Speaker 1: him up against the thing. 444 00:20:36,520 --> 00:20:38,280 Speaker 2: Such a weird location. 445 00:20:38,600 --> 00:20:41,240 Speaker 1: I know, I know I don't honestly, but that's like scary. 446 00:20:41,280 --> 00:20:43,120 Speaker 1: So everybody that has a guest stove, make sure those 447 00:20:43,119 --> 00:20:47,160 Speaker 1: things are don't kiss anybody near those things. 448 00:20:47,280 --> 00:20:48,959 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, no funny business. 449 00:20:49,160 --> 00:20:51,800 Speaker 1: Funny business by the gas stoves, do y'all. 450 00:20:52,000 --> 00:20:55,320 Speaker 2: Okay, So this kind of goes back to you, like 451 00:20:55,600 --> 00:20:57,720 Speaker 2: basically at the beginning saying you don't really have the 452 00:20:57,760 --> 00:21:01,159 Speaker 2: motivation or like uh focus or whatever to do what 453 00:21:01,200 --> 00:21:05,360 Speaker 2: you need to do. So every time when I drink coffee, 454 00:21:05,400 --> 00:21:07,879 Speaker 2: it makes me really tired, Like it never wakes me 455 00:21:07,960 --> 00:21:08,520 Speaker 2: up at all. 456 00:21:08,880 --> 00:21:09,639 Speaker 1: It's so weird. 457 00:21:10,240 --> 00:21:13,640 Speaker 2: But someone responded to that could be a sign of ADHD, 458 00:21:13,920 --> 00:21:17,120 Speaker 2: like that's one of the signs, like caffeine actually makes 459 00:21:17,119 --> 00:21:20,119 Speaker 2: you tired, which I've always been able to drink like 460 00:21:20,160 --> 00:21:22,440 Speaker 2: doctor pepper and soda and before bed and it has 461 00:21:22,480 --> 00:21:27,840 Speaker 2: never like affected my sleep or anything. And I started realizing, 462 00:21:27,920 --> 00:21:30,640 Speaker 2: like I have a really hard time focusing on anything, 463 00:21:30,800 --> 00:21:34,160 Speaker 2: like if I start a show, or something if there's 464 00:21:34,160 --> 00:21:37,880 Speaker 2: not something really exciting. 465 00:21:36,760 --> 00:21:39,320 Speaker 1: For sure, but you get bored. 466 00:21:39,720 --> 00:21:43,680 Speaker 2: Oh I just check out. Yeah I can't even that. 467 00:21:44,200 --> 00:21:45,600 Speaker 2: Is that also a sign? Or do you do that? 468 00:21:45,880 --> 00:21:48,840 Speaker 1: No? I think I think everybody has a form of ADHD. 469 00:21:49,960 --> 00:21:51,960 Speaker 2: How do you know when it's affecting you to be 470 00:21:52,000 --> 00:21:54,520 Speaker 2: able to focus? Because I feel like I cannot focus 471 00:21:55,880 --> 00:21:57,760 Speaker 2: for long periods of time. But I don't want to 472 00:21:57,800 --> 00:22:00,320 Speaker 2: be like, you know, I don't want to overthink it. 473 00:22:00,520 --> 00:22:03,000 Speaker 1: Or yeah, I don't know. It's her to say. I 474 00:22:03,040 --> 00:22:06,080 Speaker 1: had a friend in college that had ADHD, and she 475 00:22:06,280 --> 00:22:09,920 Speaker 1: like literally like unless you had like taken her medication, 476 00:22:10,080 --> 00:22:12,840 Speaker 1: she couldn't communicate with like she would just get distracted 477 00:22:12,840 --> 00:22:14,000 Speaker 1: by like everything. 478 00:22:14,480 --> 00:22:16,479 Speaker 2: I'm not like that, but I have a little bit 479 00:22:16,520 --> 00:22:17,000 Speaker 2: of that amy. 480 00:22:18,840 --> 00:22:19,879 Speaker 1: I don't know. I'm not doctor. 481 00:22:21,640 --> 00:22:22,000 Speaker 2: I don't know. 482 00:22:22,000 --> 00:22:25,119 Speaker 1: I can't help you. Coffee usually snaps me into place. 483 00:22:25,400 --> 00:22:27,480 Speaker 2: I know. I'm jealous, like I wish I could do 484 00:22:27,520 --> 00:22:28,480 Speaker 2: that anyways. 485 00:22:28,160 --> 00:22:29,000 Speaker 1: Or celsius. 486 00:22:29,480 --> 00:22:33,760 Speaker 2: And also I had I've been noticing like do you 487 00:22:33,880 --> 00:22:36,880 Speaker 2: I wonder if you do this. So the other day 488 00:22:37,080 --> 00:22:40,320 Speaker 2: I pull up to I thought I hadn't locked the 489 00:22:40,359 --> 00:22:44,000 Speaker 2: back bedroom door when everyone was over there, so I 490 00:22:44,040 --> 00:22:47,120 Speaker 2: went over there the next day with Hint to check 491 00:22:47,160 --> 00:22:50,080 Speaker 2: it before we went down to Newport, and of course 492 00:22:50,119 --> 00:22:52,680 Speaker 2: it was locked. I just like was doing something thinking 493 00:22:52,680 --> 00:22:54,280 Speaker 2: about something else when I locked it, so I didn't 494 00:22:54,280 --> 00:22:58,000 Speaker 2: have that memory. And so I'm shutting the front door, 495 00:22:58,520 --> 00:23:00,680 Speaker 2: locking it. I get in the to drive off and 496 00:23:00,720 --> 00:23:03,639 Speaker 2: I'm like, Okay, I feel like I'm being crazy, but 497 00:23:03,680 --> 00:23:05,560 Speaker 2: I can't remember if I locked to the front door. 498 00:23:06,080 --> 00:23:07,800 Speaker 1: What that happened to me yesterday? 499 00:23:08,040 --> 00:23:10,199 Speaker 2: And so I made we had to turn around and 500 00:23:10,240 --> 00:23:12,280 Speaker 2: I made her go check again, and I was like, 501 00:23:12,720 --> 00:23:14,800 Speaker 2: what is wrong with me? Like I feel like I'm 502 00:23:14,840 --> 00:23:18,800 Speaker 2: losing my mind, but I think there's certain Like I 503 00:23:18,800 --> 00:23:20,560 Speaker 2: feel like there's a lot of change in my life 504 00:23:20,600 --> 00:23:23,159 Speaker 2: right now, and I don't feel fully grounded because a 505 00:23:23,160 --> 00:23:24,960 Speaker 2: lot of things are there's a lot of moving parts 506 00:23:24,960 --> 00:23:27,600 Speaker 2: and my brain's constantly thinking about things, so I'm not 507 00:23:27,760 --> 00:23:30,840 Speaker 2: like focusing on exactly what I'm doing, and therefore don't 508 00:23:30,840 --> 00:23:33,920 Speaker 2: have the memory of myself doing it. And maybe it's 509 00:23:33,960 --> 00:23:36,119 Speaker 2: like a need for control to go back and check it. 510 00:23:36,680 --> 00:23:42,200 Speaker 1: I literally yesterday, uh so I popped tilan all every 511 00:23:42,240 --> 00:23:45,600 Speaker 1: six hours when I'm on my crampy day, and it 512 00:23:45,680 --> 00:23:48,720 Speaker 1: was in that window of smelling the gas and calling 513 00:23:48,720 --> 00:23:50,159 Speaker 1: the people, and I didn't know what was going on, 514 00:23:50,200 --> 00:23:51,679 Speaker 1: and it was my time to take my talent all 515 00:23:51,720 --> 00:23:53,679 Speaker 1: and I grabbed the bottle, but I can't remember if 516 00:23:53,720 --> 00:23:54,679 Speaker 1: I took the pills or not. 517 00:23:55,040 --> 00:23:56,480 Speaker 2: Oh, And I was. 518 00:23:56,440 --> 00:23:58,719 Speaker 1: Like, I don't want to double down. I don't want 519 00:23:58,760 --> 00:24:01,760 Speaker 1: to like overdose, you know what I mean? And you 520 00:24:01,800 --> 00:24:03,880 Speaker 1: know what I mean, Like I don't know, I don't want. 521 00:24:04,440 --> 00:24:05,840 Speaker 2: You take a. 522 00:24:07,920 --> 00:24:08,560 Speaker 3: Stomach pumped. 523 00:24:10,240 --> 00:24:12,600 Speaker 1: And so I was just like really stressed out about it. 524 00:24:12,640 --> 00:24:14,680 Speaker 1: And Red Star was like, are you okay? You don't 525 00:24:14,720 --> 00:24:18,520 Speaker 1: remember if you took to tylan on. He's like, is 526 00:24:18,560 --> 00:24:20,960 Speaker 1: it like the gas or like what's going on? I'm like, 527 00:24:21,000 --> 00:24:23,560 Speaker 1: I don't know. I'm really panicked. It's happened one hour 528 00:24:23,560 --> 00:24:24,479 Speaker 1: ago and I can't remember. 529 00:24:24,720 --> 00:24:26,400 Speaker 2: Okay, that kind of makes me feel better. 530 00:24:26,440 --> 00:24:31,200 Speaker 1: Maybe it's age that doesn't make me feel better that Allison. 531 00:24:30,840 --> 00:24:32,359 Speaker 5: All the time, like if we're in a hurry to 532 00:24:32,400 --> 00:24:34,760 Speaker 5: go somewhere, I will take a picture of the bathroom 533 00:24:34,800 --> 00:24:37,440 Speaker 5: counter to prove that she didn't leave her hair straight 534 00:24:37,440 --> 00:24:39,720 Speaker 5: and her plugged in. That that's something that will stress 535 00:24:39,760 --> 00:24:40,000 Speaker 5: her out. 536 00:24:40,600 --> 00:24:44,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's another Yeah, So that's a stressor for sure, 537 00:24:45,080 --> 00:24:46,439 Speaker 1: leaving this curling iron on. 538 00:24:46,920 --> 00:24:51,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, all right, well, good to know I'm not alone here, 539 00:24:51,960 --> 00:24:54,200 Speaker 2: but I'm gonna I'm going to pay attention to. 540 00:24:54,240 --> 00:24:56,439 Speaker 1: Like, there's something that you can take for your memory. 541 00:24:56,880 --> 00:25:00,879 Speaker 1: Mark wasn't Ryan saying something the other day? Kinko by Loba. 542 00:25:01,640 --> 00:25:03,919 Speaker 1: It's like a supplement or powder. 543 00:25:04,880 --> 00:25:07,199 Speaker 3: I'm not sure exactly what it is, but I do 544 00:25:07,320 --> 00:25:10,959 Speaker 3: know this is called ginko by Loba. It's a natural plant. 545 00:25:11,400 --> 00:25:13,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, you can take it for your memory. 546 00:25:13,960 --> 00:25:20,919 Speaker 2: Okay, that seems cool unless it's in right, Sure I 547 00:25:20,920 --> 00:25:24,679 Speaker 2: have a mental block, Yeah, ginko putting out in my 548 00:25:24,760 --> 00:25:29,680 Speaker 2: notes thinks Yeah, we have something very significant to talk 549 00:25:29,680 --> 00:25:31,879 Speaker 2: about regardingificant. 550 00:25:32,240 --> 00:25:34,840 Speaker 3: First of all, how'd you like last week's episode. 551 00:25:35,119 --> 00:25:36,879 Speaker 2: We're gonna take a break and then we're gonna come 552 00:25:36,920 --> 00:25:56,600 Speaker 2: back because we have a lot to discuss. Where do 553 00:25:56,640 --> 00:25:57,040 Speaker 2: we begin? 554 00:25:57,640 --> 00:25:59,399 Speaker 3: I would like to be able with the last week's episode, 555 00:25:59,440 --> 00:26:01,639 Speaker 3: the return of Very and what you guys thought? It 556 00:26:01,680 --> 00:26:04,280 Speaker 3: was split in half. We had Jackson with his dad 557 00:26:04,359 --> 00:26:05,520 Speaker 3: and Jackson with April. 558 00:26:06,320 --> 00:26:11,159 Speaker 2: I mean, I knew that I missed April Kepner, but 559 00:26:11,359 --> 00:26:14,560 Speaker 2: I did not realize how much I missed April Kepner 560 00:26:14,680 --> 00:26:21,359 Speaker 2: until her frantic energy came back on the screen. Yeah, seriously, Like, 561 00:26:22,640 --> 00:26:26,360 Speaker 2: I just loved her character and it made me realize 562 00:26:26,359 --> 00:26:29,840 Speaker 2: that I always wanted Jpril to be in Game, but like, 563 00:26:29,920 --> 00:26:32,199 Speaker 2: I would have been fine if they had just come on, 564 00:26:32,400 --> 00:26:34,680 Speaker 2: if she just came on came back, and that wasn't 565 00:26:34,720 --> 00:26:38,399 Speaker 2: necessarily where her storyline went, because I just would like 566 00:26:38,400 --> 00:26:41,480 Speaker 2: to have her back, but instead. 567 00:26:41,200 --> 00:26:42,160 Speaker 1: We get neither of them. 568 00:26:42,240 --> 00:26:46,040 Speaker 2: It happened exactly how I thought it would happen. Yeah, 569 00:26:46,080 --> 00:26:48,680 Speaker 2: spoiler alert. I remember I don't know if I said 570 00:26:48,720 --> 00:26:51,800 Speaker 2: this on the podcast, but I was like, I want 571 00:26:52,040 --> 00:26:54,400 Speaker 2: Japril to be in Game, but if she's only coming 572 00:26:54,440 --> 00:26:56,800 Speaker 2: back for one episode, that might mean that that would 573 00:26:56,960 --> 00:26:59,600 Speaker 2: I guess, could mean that Jackson's leaving, and I hate 574 00:26:59,600 --> 00:27:02,520 Speaker 2: that that was the correct theory. 575 00:27:02,560 --> 00:27:06,920 Speaker 1: I had a whole theory. Okay, I had a theory 576 00:27:07,400 --> 00:27:11,919 Speaker 1: that this was the last season, and that I just 577 00:27:11,960 --> 00:27:14,440 Speaker 1: had like my brain started going to all these places 578 00:27:14,600 --> 00:27:17,400 Speaker 1: of this is the final season and we lost Jiacomo 579 00:27:17,680 --> 00:27:20,480 Speaker 1: and now Jackson and all these people came back and 580 00:27:20,560 --> 00:27:24,400 Speaker 1: went away, and like Meredith is going to relapse and 581 00:27:24,520 --> 00:27:28,400 Speaker 1: she'll be gone. Oh yeah, I had this whole thing 582 00:27:28,440 --> 00:27:31,560 Speaker 1: like this was it the final final, And then news 583 00:27:31,880 --> 00:27:37,000 Speaker 1: broke today that they're coming back for season eighteen and 584 00:27:37,320 --> 00:27:41,280 Speaker 1: debunked all my theories because this is great news. 585 00:27:41,320 --> 00:27:43,200 Speaker 3: But I had the opposite thought when I saw that 586 00:27:44,200 --> 00:27:45,399 Speaker 3: Jackson Avery. 587 00:27:45,200 --> 00:27:48,639 Speaker 2: Whose real name is Jesse Williams Jesse Williams, was. 588 00:27:48,680 --> 00:27:51,560 Speaker 4: Leaving Grace Anatomy. My thought was, there's got to be 589 00:27:51,600 --> 00:27:54,520 Speaker 4: an eighteenth season. Otherwise he's not leaving. The show is ending. 590 00:27:54,640 --> 00:27:58,440 Speaker 4: You don't leave a show one episode before the last episode, ever, 591 00:27:58,600 --> 00:28:00,399 Speaker 4: it just is ending. So I thought the fact that 592 00:28:00,400 --> 00:28:03,119 Speaker 4: they're announcing he's leaving means it's gonna be followed by 593 00:28:03,119 --> 00:28:04,840 Speaker 4: announcement that there will be a season eighteen. 594 00:28:06,119 --> 00:28:07,720 Speaker 1: Really, well, don't you think? 595 00:28:08,240 --> 00:28:09,679 Speaker 2: No, I think he's coming back. 596 00:28:10,680 --> 00:28:12,320 Speaker 3: No, I'm not saying he's coming back. I'm saying the 597 00:28:12,320 --> 00:28:15,440 Speaker 3: show is coming back because he's leaving the show. If 598 00:28:15,440 --> 00:28:17,560 Speaker 3: the show is ending, there's no show left to leave. 599 00:28:17,960 --> 00:28:21,000 Speaker 1: Uh, Because it was like the news was all Jesse 600 00:28:21,080 --> 00:28:22,720 Speaker 1: Williams is leaving Grace leaving. 601 00:28:23,720 --> 00:28:27,320 Speaker 4: Well, if he's leaving one episode before the finale, ever. 602 00:28:27,280 --> 00:28:28,359 Speaker 3: Then he didn't really leave. 603 00:28:28,840 --> 00:28:30,080 Speaker 2: That is some finale. 604 00:28:31,400 --> 00:28:32,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, there's two more episodes. 605 00:28:33,560 --> 00:28:37,439 Speaker 1: Oh you are like a logic teacher back in some 606 00:28:37,600 --> 00:28:41,720 Speaker 1: old life, because that is some crazy connection I thought. 607 00:28:42,080 --> 00:28:47,000 Speaker 2: I mean, okay, so the episode itself first of all, Wait, okay, 608 00:28:47,040 --> 00:28:50,200 Speaker 2: let's talk about the episode itself. Jesse Williams. The fact 609 00:28:50,240 --> 00:28:54,400 Speaker 2: that I'm not gonna get to gaze upon him with 610 00:28:54,480 --> 00:29:00,680 Speaker 2: respect on Thursday Nights is truly devastating. I was just 611 00:29:00,800 --> 00:29:05,280 Speaker 2: watching him like wow, Like I love the way his mouth. 612 00:29:06,760 --> 00:29:10,000 Speaker 1: Wait, so you know that scene with like when April 613 00:29:10,040 --> 00:29:12,440 Speaker 1: and Jackson are like going at it, but. 614 00:29:12,520 --> 00:29:14,480 Speaker 2: When in the bathroom when they first hooked. 615 00:29:14,320 --> 00:29:17,200 Speaker 1: Up, No, in this week's episode where they're kind of 616 00:29:17,240 --> 00:29:22,840 Speaker 1: like fighting but it's like frantic. I felt like because 617 00:29:22,840 --> 00:29:24,240 Speaker 1: April has been gone for so long and she was 618 00:29:24,320 --> 00:29:26,680 Speaker 1: kind of overacting, you know what I mean. And Jackson 619 00:29:26,800 --> 00:29:28,880 Speaker 1: was like in this like weird whatever. And so I 620 00:29:28,920 --> 00:29:30,320 Speaker 1: was watching it with the Red Star, but he wasn't 621 00:29:30,320 --> 00:29:31,760 Speaker 1: really watching it. He had to do work, and so 622 00:29:31,800 --> 00:29:34,160 Speaker 1: I was watching it and he was, you know, working, 623 00:29:34,200 --> 00:29:37,760 Speaker 1: and he goes is the storyline of this show better than? 624 00:29:38,040 --> 00:29:40,479 Speaker 1: I was like, Okay, this is not a fair scene 625 00:29:40,520 --> 00:29:44,000 Speaker 1: to judge right now, because scene yeah, I was like, 626 00:29:44,040 --> 00:29:46,360 Speaker 1: April just came back. She's been gone for a few seasons, 627 00:29:46,400 --> 00:29:48,840 Speaker 1: so she's really you know, coming on strong. And now 628 00:29:48,920 --> 00:29:51,160 Speaker 1: Jackson's leaving so this was his final episode. So they 629 00:29:51,160 --> 00:29:54,560 Speaker 1: were really like just really kind of both you know, 630 00:29:55,040 --> 00:29:57,640 Speaker 1: going for it. It was so funny because I was just like, 631 00:29:58,240 --> 00:29:59,760 Speaker 1: I need to start him from season one. 632 00:30:00,320 --> 00:30:03,320 Speaker 4: But so, uh, are you are you happy that this 633 00:30:03,400 --> 00:30:06,160 Speaker 4: could mean that j April is endgame because they're moving 634 00:30:06,200 --> 00:30:07,120 Speaker 4: to Boston together? 635 00:30:08,440 --> 00:30:14,080 Speaker 2: Listen, I don't know. I guess like it's better than 636 00:30:14,160 --> 00:30:16,840 Speaker 2: him just leaving with nothing, like at least we have 637 00:30:16,880 --> 00:30:22,760 Speaker 2: an imagination, a fan fiction idea of them going east. 638 00:30:22,840 --> 00:30:28,120 Speaker 2: I knew you turn on fan fiction, fan fiction. I 639 00:30:28,200 --> 00:30:31,080 Speaker 2: knew it'll be a great storyline for that. But I 640 00:30:31,200 --> 00:30:33,320 Speaker 2: just I was like, are they gonna kiss? 641 00:30:33,360 --> 00:30:35,560 Speaker 1: Like the no kiss was kind of. 642 00:30:35,600 --> 00:30:38,880 Speaker 2: Like I know, and like, I know what it would 643 00:30:38,880 --> 00:30:40,440 Speaker 2: have been a little aggressive, like. 644 00:30:40,440 --> 00:30:42,760 Speaker 1: And then here we get Joe gets left again. 645 00:30:43,320 --> 00:30:47,560 Speaker 2: Okay, dust, she's gonna end up with mcwidow. 646 00:30:47,800 --> 00:30:50,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's not a thing. That was just a fling. 647 00:30:51,360 --> 00:30:53,760 Speaker 3: We all knew that. Joe knows that. Everybody knows that. 648 00:30:53,880 --> 00:30:54,680 Speaker 1: I didn't know that. 649 00:30:55,560 --> 00:30:58,120 Speaker 2: It was a point. I mean, we were trying, they tried, 650 00:30:58,160 --> 00:31:00,560 Speaker 2: but I think they were just likenes feels like a 651 00:31:00,600 --> 00:31:03,280 Speaker 2: fling and we're just gonna say a fling. Here are 652 00:31:03,280 --> 00:31:09,360 Speaker 2: my thoughts. I'm torn because am I excited for another season? 653 00:31:09,480 --> 00:31:13,000 Speaker 2: Of course, I love the show. I'm like a huge fan, 654 00:31:14,000 --> 00:31:16,320 Speaker 2: and I didn't want it to end with like this 655 00:31:16,400 --> 00:31:19,680 Speaker 2: season being like COVID and like that. You know, is 656 00:31:19,720 --> 00:31:22,880 Speaker 2: such a heavy season with that. But at the same time, 657 00:31:22,920 --> 00:31:25,440 Speaker 2: we've lost so many people that I cared about and 658 00:31:25,520 --> 00:31:27,320 Speaker 2: wanted to watch, And I'm like, are we going to 659 00:31:27,360 --> 00:31:31,520 Speaker 2: be tried to introduce new people into this next which 660 00:31:31,560 --> 00:31:33,680 Speaker 2: I would imagine this could be the final season. 661 00:31:35,080 --> 00:31:37,160 Speaker 3: I want them to announce that though I want to 662 00:31:37,160 --> 00:31:38,960 Speaker 3: know going into this is the final season. 663 00:31:39,000 --> 00:31:40,840 Speaker 1: I know they're going to go to twenty Like who 664 00:31:40,960 --> 00:31:41,680 Speaker 1: ends at eighteen? 665 00:31:42,320 --> 00:31:42,480 Speaker 2: Yeah? 666 00:31:42,560 --> 00:31:43,960 Speaker 3: Great, twenty twenty be great. 667 00:31:44,440 --> 00:31:46,760 Speaker 2: I mean I'm fine with that too, But I'm with you. 668 00:31:46,800 --> 00:31:48,480 Speaker 2: If it is a final season, I'd like to know 669 00:31:48,520 --> 00:31:50,080 Speaker 2: in advance so I can really soak it in. 670 00:31:51,080 --> 00:31:55,280 Speaker 1: But you know what, wait, what was I gonna say? 671 00:31:55,960 --> 00:32:00,400 Speaker 2: Wow, Ginkot, Ginko, ginkgo. 672 00:32:00,840 --> 00:32:02,480 Speaker 3: But also if they know in advanced that it's the 673 00:32:02,480 --> 00:32:05,480 Speaker 3: final season, they can create a killer finale, not like, oh, 674 00:32:05,480 --> 00:32:07,120 Speaker 3: it's the end quick, let's come up with a finale 675 00:32:07,160 --> 00:32:08,880 Speaker 3: they can really build towards something awesome. 676 00:32:09,440 --> 00:32:14,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm excited to see this finale because they said 677 00:32:14,360 --> 00:32:16,920 Speaker 2: it could be a serious finale or a season finale, 678 00:32:16,960 --> 00:32:18,680 Speaker 2: So I'm curious to see what they do for that. 679 00:32:19,520 --> 00:32:21,200 Speaker 1: I don't know. It's just like, I don't understand why 680 00:32:21,200 --> 00:32:24,240 Speaker 1: they keep letting all our favorites go. You know, It's 681 00:32:24,240 --> 00:32:28,080 Speaker 1: like I was and still there, like, how. 682 00:32:33,520 --> 00:32:37,440 Speaker 2: Honestly, honestly okay. 683 00:32:38,880 --> 00:32:42,320 Speaker 3: That Bailey and Weber are getting big raises too. I 684 00:32:42,360 --> 00:32:43,080 Speaker 3: was glad to see that. 685 00:32:43,400 --> 00:32:46,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, as they should. As they should because they're the 686 00:32:46,800 --> 00:32:51,160 Speaker 1: three ones from the first episode right left, right, Yeah, 687 00:32:51,600 --> 00:32:53,840 Speaker 1: Miranda and Richard. It's awesome. 688 00:32:55,360 --> 00:32:55,720 Speaker 2: So I. 689 00:32:59,680 --> 00:33:02,280 Speaker 1: Remember what I was gonna say, Sorry, it was it loud? 690 00:33:03,440 --> 00:33:03,960 Speaker 1: Was it loud? 691 00:33:04,120 --> 00:33:06,040 Speaker 2: I don't know if it was allowed in my mic 692 00:33:06,280 --> 00:33:07,320 Speaker 2: or like in person? 693 00:33:07,480 --> 00:33:16,080 Speaker 1: Oh, Michael, Sorry. My first reaction was this, I've quit, 694 00:33:16,320 --> 00:33:20,000 Speaker 1: and reflex is like, cat, Wow, that's a whole nother 695 00:33:20,040 --> 00:33:24,360 Speaker 1: season for us to be like interns. Oh, you're so right, 696 00:33:24,400 --> 00:33:25,400 Speaker 1: extra extras. 697 00:33:25,760 --> 00:33:28,280 Speaker 2: I like that you automatically assume we're gonna be interns 698 00:33:28,320 --> 00:33:29,040 Speaker 2: as extras. 699 00:33:29,080 --> 00:33:31,680 Speaker 1: But I didn't. In the Interns, I meant extras extras, 700 00:33:31,680 --> 00:33:32,760 Speaker 1: that's a whole nother season. 701 00:33:32,840 --> 00:33:34,400 Speaker 2: That is a bright spot. 702 00:33:34,640 --> 00:33:36,320 Speaker 1: Thank you. I just got to look at the positive, 703 00:33:36,360 --> 00:33:36,520 Speaker 1: you know. 704 00:33:37,000 --> 00:33:40,640 Speaker 2: Okay, So I was watching I watched Grays and you remember, 705 00:33:40,960 --> 00:33:43,560 Speaker 2: uh Jackson comes in and April's are like, what are 706 00:33:43,560 --> 00:33:44,880 Speaker 2: you doing here? Is it? You're not? No, it's not 707 00:33:44,920 --> 00:33:47,360 Speaker 2: your night's on the schedule. He's like, calm down, and 708 00:33:47,400 --> 00:33:49,480 Speaker 2: she's like, you know that, like telling someone to calm 709 00:33:49,560 --> 00:33:51,800 Speaker 2: down who isn't calm never helps the situation. Or she 710 00:33:51,800 --> 00:33:55,320 Speaker 2: says something along those lines. So then I watched Cruel Summer, 711 00:33:55,360 --> 00:33:57,040 Speaker 2: which is a new show, and she plays the mom 712 00:33:57,080 --> 00:33:59,640 Speaker 2: of one of the girls, and they're like about to 713 00:33:59,680 --> 00:34:02,560 Speaker 2: go and to like a police questioning or something, and 714 00:34:02,600 --> 00:34:05,480 Speaker 2: the husband, the husband, she kind of is like in 715 00:34:05,520 --> 00:34:08,120 Speaker 2: that frantic mode and the husband goes call or someone 716 00:34:08,280 --> 00:34:11,480 Speaker 2: goes calm down and she goes, the husband goes you know, 717 00:34:11,760 --> 00:34:14,399 Speaker 2: telling someone who's not calm to calm down never helped 718 00:34:14,440 --> 00:34:16,680 Speaker 2: the situation. And it was so funny because it was 719 00:34:16,719 --> 00:34:19,400 Speaker 2: like back to back shows of her being told to 720 00:34:19,440 --> 00:34:20,080 Speaker 2: calm down. 721 00:34:20,320 --> 00:34:23,239 Speaker 1: Wow, I know, It's like I don't know, I can't 722 00:34:23,280 --> 00:34:26,960 Speaker 1: see April Kepner that way. What as what's her name 723 00:34:26,960 --> 00:34:28,240 Speaker 1: in the in Crairl summer. 724 00:34:28,480 --> 00:34:32,560 Speaker 2: Well, she's the mom of Jeanette Turner. But if you're 725 00:34:32,560 --> 00:34:34,279 Speaker 2: not watching, then that means nothing to you. 726 00:34:35,280 --> 00:34:36,799 Speaker 1: She's forever April Kepner to me. 727 00:34:37,920 --> 00:34:38,439 Speaker 2: Yeah, same. 728 00:34:40,440 --> 00:34:42,880 Speaker 1: So so okay, if we had to rate this episode 729 00:34:42,960 --> 00:34:46,880 Speaker 1: out of ten, ten being ultimate, one being bad. 730 00:34:48,480 --> 00:34:49,600 Speaker 3: I really enjoyed it. 731 00:34:49,640 --> 00:34:52,279 Speaker 4: I really like Eric Roberts as his dad. I think 732 00:34:52,320 --> 00:34:54,120 Speaker 4: he's great, and I think he adds a lot to 733 00:34:54,160 --> 00:34:55,960 Speaker 4: the show. And I like sitting in and thinking like, oh, 734 00:34:55,960 --> 00:34:57,439 Speaker 4: that's Julia's brother. That's so neat. 735 00:35:00,600 --> 00:35:01,959 Speaker 2: Is Emma's dad? 736 00:35:03,160 --> 00:35:08,280 Speaker 1: Mm Emma Roberts hard to say, yes, Oh wow, Okay, 737 00:35:08,920 --> 00:35:09,359 Speaker 1: there you go. 738 00:35:09,680 --> 00:35:13,279 Speaker 2: Confirmation. Emma Robert's dad plays Jackson Avery's dad. 739 00:35:13,440 --> 00:35:16,719 Speaker 4: But Julia Roberts brother my angle. Somebody else might go 740 00:35:16,719 --> 00:35:18,359 Speaker 4: with Amma Roberts. But I think it's cool. I think 741 00:35:18,400 --> 00:35:20,560 Speaker 4: he's very good. Anyway, I would give it a seven 742 00:35:21,120 --> 00:35:21,760 Speaker 4: point three. 743 00:35:25,040 --> 00:35:27,239 Speaker 2: What about you? 744 00:35:27,239 --> 00:35:30,279 Speaker 1: You know it didn't it didn't tinkle my Todd and 745 00:35:30,360 --> 00:35:33,640 Speaker 1: all that much. So I'm going to give it tinkle 746 00:35:33,719 --> 00:35:34,200 Speaker 1: my Todd. 747 00:35:34,480 --> 00:35:39,160 Speaker 2: What is that exactly? It didn't What does that mean? 748 00:35:39,320 --> 00:35:41,760 Speaker 1: Tickle my wickle? 749 00:35:42,480 --> 00:35:44,360 Speaker 3: So your Wickle and you're Todd are the same. 750 00:35:44,160 --> 00:35:49,400 Speaker 1: Thing, exactly, got it? And you know what that is. Okay, 751 00:35:50,360 --> 00:35:52,800 Speaker 1: just use that logic imagination. 752 00:35:52,239 --> 00:35:55,960 Speaker 2: Of yours, that logic imagination. 753 00:35:56,320 --> 00:36:01,560 Speaker 1: Yeah exactly, yeah, exactly exactly. 754 00:36:02,239 --> 00:36:03,040 Speaker 3: So what's the grade? 755 00:36:03,680 --> 00:36:10,000 Speaker 2: I I'm just gonna give it a seven, no decimals, Okay. 756 00:36:10,840 --> 00:36:14,799 Speaker 2: I wanted a kiss because I think they have amazing chemistry. 757 00:36:16,040 --> 00:36:22,560 Speaker 2: I wanted a little more resolution ast to what happened. 758 00:36:22,560 --> 00:36:25,640 Speaker 2: Maybe it showed them fast forward to Boston a few 759 00:36:25,719 --> 00:36:28,680 Speaker 2: years later and she's like pregnant with another child or something. 760 00:36:29,000 --> 00:36:30,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I agree. 761 00:36:30,239 --> 00:36:31,920 Speaker 3: You know, he's got another episode. 762 00:36:32,040 --> 00:36:34,640 Speaker 4: It's possible they shot an extra scene to put in somewhere, 763 00:36:34,680 --> 00:36:35,839 Speaker 4: you know, since she was on set. 764 00:36:35,880 --> 00:36:36,680 Speaker 3: Maybe maybe there. 765 00:36:36,600 --> 00:36:39,200 Speaker 2: Will be one more check another episode. 766 00:36:39,800 --> 00:36:42,920 Speaker 4: As my understanding is, the next episode is his final episode, 767 00:36:43,960 --> 00:36:45,080 Speaker 4: and then there's the finale. 768 00:36:46,120 --> 00:36:53,560 Speaker 2: But April's correct, unless they shot a bonus scene or something. Yeah, 769 00:36:54,320 --> 00:36:56,440 Speaker 2: I don't know. It was good. I was, it was 770 00:36:56,640 --> 00:36:59,360 Speaker 2: I wasn't. I was like engaged the whole time. You know, 771 00:36:59,360 --> 00:37:02,000 Speaker 2: I didn't really check out. I don't think I. 772 00:37:01,920 --> 00:37:03,919 Speaker 1: Was thinking about the Jonas Brothers a lot of that show. 773 00:37:04,360 --> 00:37:05,759 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah, I don't know. 774 00:37:05,960 --> 00:37:07,360 Speaker 1: Just been thinking about them a lot lately. 775 00:37:08,080 --> 00:37:12,480 Speaker 5: Okay, I have one Jesse Williams thing to contribute, and Becky, 776 00:37:12,520 --> 00:37:14,680 Speaker 5: you probably got this sent to you like a million times, 777 00:37:14,719 --> 00:37:18,439 Speaker 5: but he didn't ask me anything on Instagram. Okay, yeah, yeah, 778 00:37:18,520 --> 00:37:20,480 Speaker 5: that was exciting. They asked him if he likes pop 779 00:37:20,560 --> 00:37:22,120 Speaker 5: tarts and he says he puts butter on them. And 780 00:37:22,480 --> 00:37:24,480 Speaker 5: he's now the second person I've heard that prefers that, 781 00:37:24,520 --> 00:37:25,960 Speaker 5: and that was pretty exciting to see. 782 00:37:26,800 --> 00:37:30,319 Speaker 2: Uh So, yeah, I mean I wasn't gonna say it 783 00:37:30,400 --> 00:37:33,160 Speaker 2: because I think we're I think he's in a happy 784 00:37:33,200 --> 00:37:36,600 Speaker 2: relationship as am I. But if there was ever something 785 00:37:36,640 --> 00:37:41,400 Speaker 2: to bond two people, he just exposed it. 786 00:37:42,600 --> 00:37:45,640 Speaker 1: I think people that prefer their pop tarts unbuttered haven't 787 00:37:45,960 --> 00:37:49,480 Speaker 1: tried the buttered pop tart. Yeah, speaking from somebody who 788 00:37:49,760 --> 00:37:51,919 Speaker 1: just had a buttered pop tart like a year ago. 789 00:37:52,080 --> 00:37:56,279 Speaker 2: Two of them in one day, delicious. We should do 790 00:37:56,280 --> 00:37:57,000 Speaker 2: that against Soon. 791 00:37:57,400 --> 00:37:59,000 Speaker 1: I would love to do that against soon. 792 00:37:59,160 --> 00:38:01,520 Speaker 2: Maybe your next period we can plan it, so yeah, 793 00:38:01,560 --> 00:38:02,479 Speaker 2: I can just do it. 794 00:38:02,640 --> 00:38:04,719 Speaker 1: Yes, because I may tell you I just had a 795 00:38:04,719 --> 00:38:07,799 Speaker 1: Burger and I U over the weekend because it was 796 00:38:08,120 --> 00:38:12,200 Speaker 1: my day that I wanted my burger and that. 797 00:38:12,200 --> 00:38:13,960 Speaker 3: Is that coincide with one of the other days or 798 00:38:13,960 --> 00:38:15,080 Speaker 3: is that a fourth day? Now? 799 00:38:15,640 --> 00:38:20,400 Speaker 1: It coincideses my cramp day, cramp day two, day two, yes, 800 00:38:20,719 --> 00:38:24,640 Speaker 1: day one falls day day one, No, Day two is 801 00:38:24,719 --> 00:38:27,319 Speaker 1: cramp Day three is Niagara Falls. And then three days 802 00:38:27,360 --> 00:38:30,600 Speaker 1: prior is Grim Reaper Soul Sucking Day. Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, 803 00:38:30,640 --> 00:38:31,479 Speaker 1: that one's the juice. 804 00:38:31,880 --> 00:38:32,720 Speaker 2: I hate thatllance. 805 00:38:32,800 --> 00:38:34,680 Speaker 1: Yeah. So I got this burger and I got a 806 00:38:34,680 --> 00:38:37,600 Speaker 1: burger from Shakeshack because Red Star was like, oh, it's 807 00:38:37,600 --> 00:38:40,239 Speaker 1: gonna be good. Shakeshack is good, and I was like, 808 00:38:40,280 --> 00:38:43,200 Speaker 1: what is what kind of circus is this? You didn't 809 00:38:43,320 --> 00:38:49,680 Speaker 1: like it? My bun was soggy, yeah, and I just 810 00:38:49,880 --> 00:38:50,520 Speaker 1: prefering enough. 811 00:38:50,520 --> 00:38:51,920 Speaker 2: Did you get it fresh? Well? 812 00:38:51,960 --> 00:38:52,840 Speaker 1: I got on Postmates. 813 00:38:52,960 --> 00:38:57,279 Speaker 2: Yeah, delivery is not You. 814 00:38:57,200 --> 00:38:59,200 Speaker 1: Got to try it live, Okay, you gotta go live. 815 00:38:59,360 --> 00:38:59,520 Speaker 2: Yeah. 816 00:39:00,200 --> 00:39:02,600 Speaker 3: Any burger delivered is not great. And same with fries. 817 00:39:03,320 --> 00:39:05,759 Speaker 1: Yeah, the fries were like not it. I was just like, 818 00:39:05,880 --> 00:39:08,720 Speaker 1: what is this is? No, this is not even comparable 819 00:39:08,760 --> 00:39:10,040 Speaker 1: in it now, Like everybod who says in and out 820 00:39:10,080 --> 00:39:11,040 Speaker 1: of Shakeshack. 821 00:39:11,080 --> 00:39:14,839 Speaker 2: Well what yeah? I mean, I think people who grew 822 00:39:14,920 --> 00:39:17,880 Speaker 2: up in on the East Coast like that area that 823 00:39:18,000 --> 00:39:21,000 Speaker 2: where Shakeshack started prefer Shakeshack and people who grew up 824 00:39:21,000 --> 00:39:22,759 Speaker 2: on the West coast eleven and out. People in the 825 00:39:22,800 --> 00:39:24,040 Speaker 2: South prefer water Burger. 826 00:39:24,560 --> 00:39:26,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, I was gonna go Oh no, I was gonna 827 00:39:26,120 --> 00:39:28,319 Speaker 1: get a Wallburger. That was also an option post Mates. 828 00:39:28,400 --> 00:39:29,600 Speaker 1: I was like, what is that. 829 00:39:29,960 --> 00:39:32,839 Speaker 5: Wagers are good, They're really good. 830 00:39:32,880 --> 00:39:33,080 Speaker 3: Yeah. 831 00:39:33,080 --> 00:39:38,239 Speaker 1: The option was like Habit Burger and five guys all 832 00:39:38,280 --> 00:39:39,040 Speaker 1: solid options. 833 00:39:39,040 --> 00:39:44,360 Speaker 2: You can't lose five guys. Blt is the best in 834 00:39:44,480 --> 00:39:47,719 Speaker 2: the game. Bacon Lettuce. I promise it's like crispy bacon. 835 00:39:47,760 --> 00:39:48,239 Speaker 2: It's so good. 836 00:39:49,120 --> 00:39:53,120 Speaker 4: Becca Wahlberger's is the Wahlberg Mark Wahlberg, Donny Waalburg, those boys. 837 00:39:53,320 --> 00:39:59,239 Speaker 2: Yeah, oh, I had no idea that was called the 838 00:39:59,280 --> 00:40:01,960 Speaker 2: best burger I know I've had in la is Burgers 839 00:40:02,000 --> 00:40:02,440 Speaker 2: ever say that. 840 00:40:02,640 --> 00:40:04,560 Speaker 1: I know I should have gone there. I know that's 841 00:40:04,600 --> 00:40:05,399 Speaker 1: what I should have done. 842 00:40:05,840 --> 00:40:07,920 Speaker 2: I'm always down for that because I crave it all 843 00:40:07,920 --> 00:40:09,640 Speaker 2: the time. So if you're if you're ever having your 844 00:40:09,640 --> 00:40:12,080 Speaker 2: meat day, yeah, I'll go with you. 845 00:40:12,200 --> 00:40:14,000 Speaker 1: Okay, one more month because I. 846 00:40:14,080 --> 00:40:14,400 Speaker 3: Just had it. 847 00:40:14,760 --> 00:40:16,400 Speaker 4: We've learned a lot over the past year about what 848 00:40:16,560 --> 00:40:18,800 Speaker 4: is deliverable and what is not. I have found burgers 849 00:40:18,800 --> 00:40:21,840 Speaker 4: and sandwiches don't hold up very well. Fries get soggy. 850 00:40:21,920 --> 00:40:24,080 Speaker 4: But like pasta, it. 851 00:40:24,160 --> 00:40:27,680 Speaker 3: Like absorbs the flavors of the extras in the pasta. 852 00:40:27,680 --> 00:40:28,799 Speaker 3: And it's even better than. 853 00:40:28,719 --> 00:40:30,719 Speaker 1: When you sounds are pretty solid too. 854 00:40:30,920 --> 00:40:32,959 Speaker 3: Salad or salad pizza of course. 855 00:40:34,840 --> 00:40:37,279 Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't. I realized. I order a lot of sandwiches, 856 00:40:37,320 --> 00:40:39,520 Speaker 2: but I don't order a ton of burgers over delivery. 857 00:40:41,200 --> 00:40:46,520 Speaker 1: Same hmm. Anyways, but I was getting treated real real nass. 858 00:40:46,560 --> 00:40:47,640 Speaker 1: I was getting the foot rub. 859 00:40:48,120 --> 00:40:48,480 Speaker 2: Wow. 860 00:40:48,880 --> 00:40:53,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, my heating pad on my on my ovaries. 861 00:40:55,880 --> 00:41:02,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, button wickle in her wikele. 862 00:41:01,920 --> 00:41:04,839 Speaker 1: And in my wiggle. It's so nice because like I don't, 863 00:41:04,880 --> 00:41:06,600 Speaker 1: you know, like I don't need any of that stuff 864 00:41:06,800 --> 00:41:08,920 Speaker 1: when I'm on my period, you know, but it's nice. 865 00:41:09,400 --> 00:41:12,440 Speaker 2: Like I can't imagine though, like I get really needy 866 00:41:12,600 --> 00:41:16,239 Speaker 2: and like I just not myself. It's mainly right before 867 00:41:16,280 --> 00:41:20,719 Speaker 2: I start my period. I cannot imagine the level that 868 00:41:20,880 --> 00:41:25,160 Speaker 2: takes you to. I should send Red Star a card 869 00:41:25,280 --> 00:41:29,520 Speaker 2: every every month, say this is for you know what's 870 00:41:29,560 --> 00:41:33,000 Speaker 2: about to happen with Tanya. Here's a gift card for 871 00:41:33,040 --> 00:41:34,160 Speaker 2: you to get her burger. 872 00:41:35,080 --> 00:41:37,400 Speaker 1: He's aware he's fully aware. He's like, oh, it's a 873 00:41:37,400 --> 00:41:37,920 Speaker 1: burger Day. 874 00:41:37,920 --> 00:41:39,200 Speaker 2: I'm excited. 875 00:41:39,200 --> 00:41:44,000 Speaker 1: He's like great, yeah, yeah, yeah yeah. 876 00:41:44,120 --> 00:41:48,520 Speaker 3: The mean day he's everything blended kale for twenty nine days. 877 00:41:50,440 --> 00:41:52,319 Speaker 1: One day and we did this thing. I was like 878 00:41:52,640 --> 00:41:55,400 Speaker 1: my Burger Day. I like wanted it, but I wanted 879 00:41:55,440 --> 00:41:57,160 Speaker 1: like all the things because I was like on my period. 880 00:41:57,160 --> 00:42:00,440 Speaker 1: And so we went to like three different places, like, 881 00:42:00,560 --> 00:42:02,600 Speaker 1: drove to I think it was Apple Pan, got a 882 00:42:02,600 --> 00:42:06,080 Speaker 1: burger from apple Pan. That's his favorite. So he's like, 883 00:42:06,080 --> 00:42:07,279 Speaker 1: you have to try it from apple Pan. And then 884 00:42:07,320 --> 00:42:09,600 Speaker 1: we went and got a pizza from I don't know. 885 00:42:09,600 --> 00:42:10,960 Speaker 1: These are all places that he so it was like 886 00:42:10,960 --> 00:42:12,600 Speaker 1: a pizza, a burger, and then I can't remember what 887 00:42:12,680 --> 00:42:15,000 Speaker 1: the third thing was, and we just kind of shared 888 00:42:15,040 --> 00:42:15,680 Speaker 1: all three. 889 00:42:16,560 --> 00:42:18,080 Speaker 2: Oh wait, it. 890 00:42:20,200 --> 00:42:23,600 Speaker 1: Was awesome. So they cut everything obviously like in whatever, 891 00:42:23,640 --> 00:42:25,000 Speaker 1: and we just like shared, but it was yeah, it 892 00:42:25,000 --> 00:42:26,279 Speaker 1: was a burger, was a pizza. And then I can't 893 00:42:26,280 --> 00:42:28,200 Speaker 1: remember that, but we drove to all the places because 894 00:42:28,320 --> 00:42:29,960 Speaker 1: he was like, you can't just get an app. You 895 00:42:29,960 --> 00:42:31,839 Speaker 1: can't get the apple Pan delivered. It's not the same. 896 00:42:31,960 --> 00:42:34,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, no delivery. When you have something you really love, 897 00:42:35,000 --> 00:42:36,520 Speaker 2: you really got to try it fresh. 898 00:42:36,640 --> 00:42:37,120 Speaker 1: Yeah. 899 00:42:37,239 --> 00:42:39,560 Speaker 2: I had the best pizza over the weekend in Newport. 900 00:42:40,080 --> 00:42:44,280 Speaker 2: I was down there celebrating Caroline's birthday. It's called Genus Pizza. 901 00:42:44,320 --> 00:42:46,960 Speaker 2: Have you ever had it? It's so good? 902 00:42:48,200 --> 00:42:49,160 Speaker 1: Are you on your period? 903 00:42:49,480 --> 00:42:53,920 Speaker 2: No? I'm just always like that. My food cravings are 904 00:42:53,960 --> 00:42:58,160 Speaker 2: consistent throughout the month for me. Okay. You know, I 905 00:42:58,280 --> 00:43:01,440 Speaker 2: really thought a lot about our conversation with Devon Franklin 906 00:43:01,520 --> 00:43:03,359 Speaker 2: last week and some of the things he said. I 907 00:43:03,440 --> 00:43:08,319 Speaker 2: just really appreciated his like simplicity of the thing that 908 00:43:08,400 --> 00:43:13,200 Speaker 2: really stuck with me was how you know it's the 909 00:43:13,200 --> 00:43:17,160 Speaker 2: Bible says, like the greatest commandment is love, love God, 910 00:43:17,239 --> 00:43:20,719 Speaker 2: and love your neighbors yourself, but like always forgetting the 911 00:43:20,800 --> 00:43:23,239 Speaker 2: self part, Like, and how are we supposed to love 912 00:43:23,880 --> 00:43:27,279 Speaker 2: others if we're not fully loving ourselves? I thought that 913 00:43:27,320 --> 00:43:29,440 Speaker 2: was so good. That marinated. 914 00:43:29,600 --> 00:43:31,600 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I mean he just marinates. 915 00:43:31,840 --> 00:43:32,320 Speaker 2: Yeah. 916 00:43:33,320 --> 00:43:35,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, he's a grower and a shower. 917 00:43:37,040 --> 00:43:38,719 Speaker 2: You know, he would love to hear that from you. 918 00:43:38,840 --> 00:43:41,680 Speaker 1: It's true though, like he like he like shows up 919 00:43:42,000 --> 00:43:45,200 Speaker 1: like and it makes an impact immediately, but then it 920 00:43:45,239 --> 00:43:48,759 Speaker 1: also grows because you think you're like a lingers And 921 00:43:48,800 --> 00:43:50,200 Speaker 1: I think about it all the time, I still think 922 00:43:50,200 --> 00:43:52,239 Speaker 1: on advice I read from his book like three years ago. 923 00:43:52,760 --> 00:43:55,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean it's cool to it was cool to 924 00:43:55,560 --> 00:43:58,160 Speaker 2: talk to him because I know you've always you've never 925 00:43:58,200 --> 00:43:59,920 Speaker 2: said he's a grower and a shower, but you've all 926 00:44:00,120 --> 00:44:02,759 Speaker 2: talked about how great he is, and it was cool 927 00:44:02,800 --> 00:44:03,640 Speaker 2: to experience it. 928 00:44:04,600 --> 00:44:06,480 Speaker 4: I don't I don't think that's what that means, just 929 00:44:06,480 --> 00:44:08,239 Speaker 4: so you know, the grower versus shore. 930 00:44:09,360 --> 00:44:11,600 Speaker 2: It's just it does. 931 00:44:12,680 --> 00:44:14,920 Speaker 1: It means like a grower, like they grow on you. 932 00:44:14,960 --> 00:44:16,240 Speaker 1: They're not like a show or shower. 933 00:44:16,320 --> 00:44:19,359 Speaker 5: Is like, yes, yes, you're right, that's exactly somebody that you. 934 00:44:19,360 --> 00:44:29,799 Speaker 1: Meet and they're like they wait, hand, yeah, grower, not 935 00:44:29,920 --> 00:44:32,640 Speaker 1: a shower like somebody that grows on you. So some 936 00:44:32,680 --> 00:44:34,960 Speaker 1: maybe like you meet somebody they're quiet, they're more of 937 00:44:35,000 --> 00:44:36,680 Speaker 1: a grower, not a shower. But then there's like the 938 00:44:36,719 --> 00:44:44,040 Speaker 1: guy you mean, You're like, yes, he's a shower, not 939 00:44:44,120 --> 00:44:46,399 Speaker 1: a grower, because and then maybe eventually. 940 00:44:46,120 --> 00:44:48,759 Speaker 4: You spend saying the traditional use of that phrase is 941 00:44:48,800 --> 00:44:51,239 Speaker 4: not that it has to do with genitalia. I'm just 942 00:44:51,280 --> 00:44:54,480 Speaker 4: saying that is what people normally associate that. 943 00:44:54,440 --> 00:44:58,120 Speaker 1: Phrase with, as they do with everything else, Like you 944 00:44:58,800 --> 00:45:03,600 Speaker 1: right and all just comes back to. 945 00:45:04,360 --> 00:45:08,799 Speaker 2: It comes back to the Todd and the Wickeley exactly, 946 00:45:10,600 --> 00:45:17,080 Speaker 2: and Pickle, I guess my Pickle exactly. Multitude of names. Well, 947 00:45:17,120 --> 00:45:18,560 Speaker 2: shall we get to some emails. 948 00:45:19,160 --> 00:45:23,240 Speaker 3: Let's do that. But first there are some really great 949 00:45:23,360 --> 00:45:26,919 Speaker 3: people and organizations that have sponsored this podcast. You need 950 00:45:26,960 --> 00:45:29,760 Speaker 3: to hear about them, and then you need to purchase 951 00:45:29,840 --> 00:45:31,160 Speaker 3: their products or services. 952 00:45:31,440 --> 00:45:50,359 Speaker 2: That's right, right, we are back and speaking of sponsors. 953 00:45:50,520 --> 00:45:52,160 Speaker 2: So we get a text the other day. Do you 954 00:45:52,200 --> 00:45:55,160 Speaker 2: have the text? I'm sure I do so every now 955 00:45:55,200 --> 00:45:57,040 Speaker 2: and then in our group text, we'll get, you know, 956 00:45:57,840 --> 00:45:59,400 Speaker 2: people who want to be a part of the podcast 957 00:45:59,400 --> 00:46:04,960 Speaker 2: as sponsors. And so we got one from Amy and 958 00:46:05,000 --> 00:46:07,960 Speaker 2: she said, do you think we can pull this off? 959 00:46:08,000 --> 00:46:10,640 Speaker 2: And so I look at it and describe what it is. 960 00:46:11,200 --> 00:46:14,040 Speaker 1: So it's short and sexy audio stories. 961 00:46:14,880 --> 00:46:16,960 Speaker 2: So it's basically, I guess, like some. 962 00:46:17,360 --> 00:46:20,759 Speaker 1: Sexy audio stories that spark your imagination and get you 963 00:46:20,840 --> 00:46:21,480 Speaker 1: in the mood. 964 00:46:21,760 --> 00:46:23,719 Speaker 2: So it's kind of like erotica. 965 00:46:23,920 --> 00:46:27,560 Speaker 1: Explore bite sized samples of our stories listen to. 966 00:46:29,280 --> 00:46:33,480 Speaker 2: Okay, So I was saying, if we did this, we 967 00:46:34,000 --> 00:46:36,759 Speaker 2: like imagining me and Tanya trying to sell this in 968 00:46:36,800 --> 00:46:40,440 Speaker 2: like a sexy tone. What that would be like, so 969 00:46:40,560 --> 00:46:44,360 Speaker 2: I wanted to have Tanya audition. 970 00:46:44,200 --> 00:46:44,839 Speaker 1: Okay with. 971 00:46:46,560 --> 00:46:52,560 Speaker 2: Oh my god, so dirty read the first line. 972 00:46:52,960 --> 00:46:54,840 Speaker 3: Just go ahead, I'll bleep anything we need to bleep. 973 00:46:55,000 --> 00:46:57,200 Speaker 1: Oh my god, I can probably flower it up a little. 974 00:46:58,360 --> 00:46:59,840 Speaker 3: They probably don't want you to. 975 00:47:00,960 --> 00:47:04,680 Speaker 1: These are not These are not from the Actually, I 976 00:47:04,760 --> 00:47:08,880 Speaker 1: just googled erotica samples. Yeah, this is not from the sponsor. 977 00:47:08,960 --> 00:47:13,920 Speaker 1: This is from maybe do this start here? Okay. She 978 00:47:14,160 --> 00:47:19,160 Speaker 1: grabbed his hair, yanked and pulled him closer. As he 979 00:47:19,320 --> 00:47:25,120 Speaker 1: told her to do. He thrust, Yeah, he told her 980 00:47:25,160 --> 00:47:30,920 Speaker 1: to do. He thrust himself, crooking it. What's that mean? 981 00:47:32,120 --> 00:47:33,200 Speaker 2: Because you changed? 982 00:47:37,160 --> 00:47:40,960 Speaker 1: No way we can do this, cooking it and hitting 983 00:47:41,000 --> 00:47:45,440 Speaker 1: her in the spot that turned her moans into one long, 984 00:47:46,120 --> 00:47:52,399 Speaker 1: high pitched sound. It's gonna be a no. I don't 985 00:47:52,400 --> 00:47:53,080 Speaker 1: think we can do it. 986 00:47:53,080 --> 00:47:55,080 Speaker 2: I don't think we had to read an excerpt, so 987 00:47:55,160 --> 00:47:57,319 Speaker 2: we might be okay. But I was thinking, like, if 988 00:47:57,320 --> 00:48:00,320 Speaker 2: we turn our voices like as if we were playing 989 00:48:00,360 --> 00:48:02,439 Speaker 2: a role. Yeah, but I don't think we can. We'll 990 00:48:02,480 --> 00:48:04,440 Speaker 2: just have to get to the point, talk about what 991 00:48:04,480 --> 00:48:06,840 Speaker 2: it's about in our normal voice. I don't think I 992 00:48:06,880 --> 00:48:09,960 Speaker 2: can sit next. I'm like uncomfortable. 993 00:48:09,360 --> 00:48:10,040 Speaker 1: Quite like my. 994 00:48:11,560 --> 00:48:13,360 Speaker 2: She changed a lot of the words in that, so 995 00:48:13,400 --> 00:48:15,799 Speaker 2: it didn't quite make sense what the scene was the. 996 00:48:15,760 --> 00:48:18,480 Speaker 1: Words rated R, so I tried to self censor. 997 00:48:18,840 --> 00:48:21,040 Speaker 3: I was trying to figure out the word you changed into, 998 00:48:21,640 --> 00:48:22,520 Speaker 3: uh scream? 999 00:48:22,719 --> 00:48:26,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, it was orgasm. Okay, I mean we I think 1000 00:48:26,440 --> 00:48:29,799 Speaker 2: we've said that before, right, that could just go in. 1001 00:48:31,520 --> 00:48:35,120 Speaker 1: That She like Becca, just dive in like a like 1002 00:48:35,160 --> 00:48:38,040 Speaker 1: a swimming pool, she just dies right in. 1003 00:48:38,480 --> 00:48:41,520 Speaker 2: All right, speaking of diving right in, let's dive into 1004 00:48:41,520 --> 00:48:42,200 Speaker 2: these emails. 1005 00:48:42,400 --> 00:48:44,680 Speaker 4: Hey, this is from anonymous. I've been with my boyfriend 1006 00:48:44,680 --> 00:48:45,520 Speaker 4: from almost two years. 1007 00:48:45,520 --> 00:48:46,200 Speaker 3: We lived together. 1008 00:48:46,440 --> 00:48:49,480 Speaker 4: I'm almost thirty, he's thirty four. Last week, my boyfriend 1009 00:48:49,520 --> 00:48:51,560 Speaker 4: went out of town for work. Well, yesterday, one of 1010 00:48:51,560 --> 00:48:54,600 Speaker 4: my good friends showed me a screenshot of my boyfriend 1011 00:48:54,680 --> 00:48:55,520 Speaker 4: on bumble. 1012 00:48:55,880 --> 00:48:59,120 Speaker 3: Oh no, to say I was crushed would be an understatement, 1013 00:48:59,280 --> 00:49:02,520 Speaker 3: so I confronted him. My boyfriend didn't deny it, which stung. 1014 00:49:03,239 --> 00:49:05,359 Speaker 3: He admitted he used to have one, and I asked 1015 00:49:05,400 --> 00:49:06,920 Speaker 3: him the last time he looked at it, and he 1016 00:49:06,920 --> 00:49:08,880 Speaker 3: said it was while he was away for work. He 1017 00:49:08,880 --> 00:49:11,440 Speaker 3: said he didn't have any conversations, he didn't meet anybody 1018 00:49:11,440 --> 00:49:13,560 Speaker 3: from the app He was trying to reassure me that 1019 00:49:13,560 --> 00:49:15,640 Speaker 3: he didn't cheat on me. He just keeps saying he 1020 00:49:15,680 --> 00:49:16,560 Speaker 3: didn't know why. 1021 00:49:16,360 --> 00:49:18,680 Speaker 4: He did it, but did admit that the validation of 1022 00:49:18,719 --> 00:49:21,040 Speaker 4: the satisfaction of people liking him was part of the 1023 00:49:21,080 --> 00:49:23,440 Speaker 4: reason he did it. So I just don't know what 1024 00:49:23,520 --> 00:49:26,080 Speaker 4: to do from here. I'm so hurt. Do you guys 1025 00:49:26,160 --> 00:49:29,480 Speaker 4: consider this cheating? I just feel so blindsided and betrayed. 1026 00:49:31,960 --> 00:49:37,040 Speaker 2: I would be so livid. Oh the lividness that I 1027 00:49:37,080 --> 00:49:37,720 Speaker 2: would feel. 1028 00:49:39,040 --> 00:49:46,120 Speaker 1: What was it, Anonymous? Who was the email from her? Yes, Anonymous, 1029 00:49:48,600 --> 00:49:52,200 Speaker 1: you are so much better than that. I'm so sorry. 1030 00:49:52,480 --> 00:49:56,839 Speaker 1: But having your boyfriend say he doesn't know why he's 1031 00:49:56,840 --> 00:50:00,160 Speaker 1: on bumble, but he likes the validation of people tell 1032 00:50:00,360 --> 00:50:04,280 Speaker 1: him that he's hot or whatever, that's a hard pass 1033 00:50:04,320 --> 00:50:04,680 Speaker 1: for me. 1034 00:50:05,840 --> 00:50:08,400 Speaker 2: And like, yeah, maybe he didn't talk to anyone, but 1035 00:50:08,520 --> 00:50:11,160 Speaker 2: did he try to and no one wanted to? You 1036 00:50:11,200 --> 00:50:18,000 Speaker 2: know what I'm saying, Like, I feel like the the 1037 00:50:18,200 --> 00:50:20,920 Speaker 2: excuse of like, yeah, I didn't talk to anyone or 1038 00:50:21,160 --> 00:50:24,200 Speaker 2: have any conversations, It's like, was that your decision or 1039 00:50:24,239 --> 00:50:25,839 Speaker 2: did you try and it just didn't happen for you? 1040 00:50:25,840 --> 00:50:29,239 Speaker 2: Did no one like your stuff? I mean I say 1041 00:50:29,320 --> 00:50:34,840 Speaker 2: say goodbye personally because this guy first of all admitted 1042 00:50:34,880 --> 00:50:39,200 Speaker 2: to it. He's he needs attention from outside sources. Like 1043 00:50:39,239 --> 00:50:43,400 Speaker 2: whatever he's getting in the relationship is clearly not enough 1044 00:50:43,840 --> 00:50:49,520 Speaker 2: enough for him. So I do think I it's a 1045 00:50:49,520 --> 00:50:51,680 Speaker 2: hard no for me. It's just a lack of trust, 1046 00:50:51,960 --> 00:50:54,680 Speaker 2: respect and respect, all right. 1047 00:50:54,760 --> 00:51:00,640 Speaker 4: Next one, also anonymous, My brother's girlfriend is the absolute worst. 1048 00:51:01,760 --> 00:51:04,240 Speaker 4: In the three plus years they've been dating, She's avoided 1049 00:51:04,239 --> 00:51:07,480 Speaker 4: family gatherings whatever possible. She's outwardly rude to my family 1050 00:51:07,520 --> 00:51:09,160 Speaker 4: and has no ambition whatsoever. 1051 00:51:09,440 --> 00:51:10,560 Speaker 3: My brother's an attorney. 1052 00:51:10,840 --> 00:51:13,160 Speaker 4: She always makes comments to him like work hard today 1053 00:51:13,200 --> 00:51:14,640 Speaker 4: because I want to move to a nice house in 1054 00:51:14,680 --> 00:51:17,759 Speaker 4: the suburbs. When she does come to family gathering, she 1055 00:51:17,760 --> 00:51:20,760 Speaker 4: says they're practically the whole time pouting. When she does speak, 1056 00:51:20,800 --> 00:51:23,200 Speaker 4: she complains about how unhealthy my family eats and how 1057 00:51:23,239 --> 00:51:25,880 Speaker 4: much she misses her dog at home. She's always sending 1058 00:51:25,920 --> 00:51:28,680 Speaker 4: me articles or tagging me in posts on social media 1059 00:51:28,920 --> 00:51:32,120 Speaker 4: about the importance of losing weight and working out. 1060 00:51:32,960 --> 00:51:35,360 Speaker 3: Definitely a subtle jab at. 1061 00:51:35,280 --> 00:51:37,839 Speaker 4: Me and my lifestyle. Side note, I don't think that's 1062 00:51:37,840 --> 00:51:40,759 Speaker 4: subtle at all. Yeah, No, my brother and I are 1063 00:51:40,800 --> 00:51:42,480 Speaker 4: really close. I don't want him to get hurt, but 1064 00:51:42,480 --> 00:51:44,279 Speaker 4: I also don't know how I'm supposed to put up 1065 00:51:44,320 --> 00:51:46,360 Speaker 4: with her for the rest of my life. Do I 1066 00:51:46,440 --> 00:51:48,480 Speaker 4: do anything or leave it alone let him figure it 1067 00:51:48,480 --> 00:51:49,240 Speaker 4: out for himself. 1068 00:51:53,440 --> 00:51:57,200 Speaker 2: This is so hard. I would hate if any of 1069 00:51:57,239 --> 00:52:01,680 Speaker 2: my siblings dated someone like this, Like I'd be devastated, And. 1070 00:52:01,920 --> 00:52:02,560 Speaker 1: What would you do? 1071 00:52:05,520 --> 00:52:07,960 Speaker 2: I mean, it's weird to me because if she's rude 1072 00:52:08,000 --> 00:52:10,400 Speaker 2: to them at the family gatherings and he's there and 1073 00:52:10,440 --> 00:52:12,920 Speaker 2: he sees her, it's not like she's hiding her behavior 1074 00:52:12,920 --> 00:52:14,760 Speaker 2: and only doing it behind the scenes, like it seems 1075 00:52:14,760 --> 00:52:21,520 Speaker 2: like she's pretty. She's showy about her rudeness. So it's 1076 00:52:21,560 --> 00:52:23,799 Speaker 2: weird to me that your brother, who you seem to 1077 00:52:23,840 --> 00:52:27,959 Speaker 2: think very highly of, doesn't see the issue here. 1078 00:52:29,760 --> 00:52:33,759 Speaker 1: I'm gonna probably be the devil's attorney here and say 1079 00:52:34,000 --> 00:52:40,200 Speaker 1: that you can't say anything, because if you say something 1080 00:52:41,440 --> 00:52:43,799 Speaker 1: and they end up staying together and getting married, it's 1081 00:52:43,800 --> 00:52:45,400 Speaker 1: gonna drive a wedge between you and your brother, And 1082 00:52:45,440 --> 00:52:47,279 Speaker 1: if you have a good relationship with your brother, that's 1083 00:52:47,320 --> 00:52:48,360 Speaker 1: gonna be bad. 1084 00:52:50,120 --> 00:52:50,480 Speaker 2: If you. 1085 00:52:52,680 --> 00:52:58,000 Speaker 1: Don't say anything, just try your best to zip up 1086 00:52:58,000 --> 00:53:00,920 Speaker 1: your cocoon and just live in your space and kind 1087 00:53:00,920 --> 00:53:02,960 Speaker 1: of push her energy out. You can still keep your 1088 00:53:03,000 --> 00:53:05,279 Speaker 1: relationship with your brother and then hopefully he will one 1089 00:53:05,320 --> 00:53:08,400 Speaker 1: day see the light and everything will be good. But 1090 00:53:08,440 --> 00:53:10,880 Speaker 1: I think if you try to say something, try to 1091 00:53:10,880 --> 00:53:13,560 Speaker 1: break them up, or voice your opinion or distaste of her, 1092 00:53:13,600 --> 00:53:15,040 Speaker 1: I think it's only going to drive a wedge between 1093 00:53:15,080 --> 00:53:15,600 Speaker 1: you and your brother. 1094 00:53:15,920 --> 00:53:18,799 Speaker 3: There's not much you can do. I mean, really, he's 1095 00:53:18,840 --> 00:53:20,359 Speaker 3: going to figure it out for himself or he's not. 1096 00:53:20,560 --> 00:53:22,520 Speaker 4: My guess is he's got really low self esteem and 1097 00:53:22,600 --> 00:53:24,719 Speaker 4: she's really hot, and he thinks she can't do any better, 1098 00:53:25,400 --> 00:53:27,120 Speaker 4: so he puts up with all this nonsense. But the 1099 00:53:27,440 --> 00:53:30,560 Speaker 4: sending of the articles about losing weight, that's really bad. 1100 00:53:30,640 --> 00:53:33,320 Speaker 4: That's really an aggressive insult. 1101 00:53:33,480 --> 00:53:36,160 Speaker 2: I would, but I personally would take the chance and 1102 00:53:36,200 --> 00:53:38,080 Speaker 2: say I would have a conversation. I wouldn't say like 1103 00:53:38,120 --> 00:53:39,479 Speaker 2: you need to break up with her, but I would 1104 00:53:39,480 --> 00:53:43,239 Speaker 2: just be like, hey, you know, I've noticed sometimes that 1105 00:53:44,200 --> 00:53:47,440 Speaker 2: Miranda at the I'm just giving her name, Yeah. 1106 00:53:47,280 --> 00:53:50,719 Speaker 3: It just seemed like a Miranda. You're right that she you. 1107 00:53:50,680 --> 00:53:53,400 Speaker 2: Know, doesn't seem that she enjoys the time around the family. 1108 00:53:53,600 --> 00:53:56,160 Speaker 2: And is there anything like I can do to make 1109 00:53:56,200 --> 00:53:58,680 Speaker 2: her feel more comfortable, Like, has she ever mentioned anything 1110 00:53:58,719 --> 00:54:00,360 Speaker 2: to you that I could do to make her feel 1111 00:54:00,400 --> 00:54:03,600 Speaker 2: like more comfortable with our family? Or maybe we could 1112 00:54:03,640 --> 00:54:06,680 Speaker 2: go hop dinner together, and maybe there's something deeper that 1113 00:54:06,840 --> 00:54:11,080 Speaker 2: isn't with herself, that's not just about you or your family. 1114 00:54:11,640 --> 00:54:15,760 Speaker 2: But I think there's a way to have a conversation of, hey, 1115 00:54:15,800 --> 00:54:18,920 Speaker 2: this isn't cool, because if he ends up marrying her 1116 00:54:18,960 --> 00:54:21,080 Speaker 2: and she is a part of your family, you're not 1117 00:54:21,120 --> 00:54:22,920 Speaker 2: going to want to be around your brother anyway. So 1118 00:54:23,080 --> 00:54:25,319 Speaker 2: might as well say something to try and just like 1119 00:54:26,080 --> 00:54:30,000 Speaker 2: smooth things over if you can. I would, I wouldn't 1120 00:54:30,000 --> 00:54:31,080 Speaker 2: be able to deal with it though. 1121 00:54:32,320 --> 00:54:34,400 Speaker 4: As happen to a friend of mine back in Wisconsin, 1122 00:54:34,520 --> 00:54:37,279 Speaker 4: she her brother was dating somebody she couldn't stand, and 1123 00:54:37,360 --> 00:54:39,080 Speaker 4: he married her. And they've been married for a very 1124 00:54:39,120 --> 00:54:42,320 Speaker 4: long time and they've reached a like they're not besties, 1125 00:54:42,600 --> 00:54:46,000 Speaker 4: but they have carved out some sort of relationship over 1126 00:54:46,000 --> 00:54:47,600 Speaker 4: the years. And I think that's what would happen here, 1127 00:54:47,640 --> 00:54:50,279 Speaker 4: is you guys would kind of figure out some way 1128 00:54:50,280 --> 00:54:54,000 Speaker 4: to communicate without always disliking each other. I say stay 1129 00:54:54,000 --> 00:54:55,320 Speaker 4: out of it and that it work its course. 1130 00:54:56,480 --> 00:54:59,440 Speaker 2: I agree, I don't I think you have a conversation, 1131 00:54:59,719 --> 00:55:03,319 Speaker 2: but peacefully. 1132 00:55:04,280 --> 00:55:05,200 Speaker 1: See how that works. 1133 00:55:06,680 --> 00:55:07,840 Speaker 2: So yeah, see how it works. 1134 00:55:11,040 --> 00:55:14,840 Speaker 1: It's like oil and water. What like we put oil 1135 00:55:14,840 --> 00:55:15,560 Speaker 1: and water. 1136 00:55:15,600 --> 00:55:17,759 Speaker 2: It's like this turns to gas knob a little bit. 1137 00:55:18,480 --> 00:55:20,359 Speaker 1: No, it's not like that. It's not like that at all. 1138 00:55:20,840 --> 00:55:23,600 Speaker 2: Light a candle in your room. 1139 00:55:23,960 --> 00:55:25,680 Speaker 1: I wish you would have seen Fred star space And 1140 00:55:25,719 --> 00:55:27,200 Speaker 1: I told him I let the candle. He was just like, 1141 00:55:27,280 --> 00:55:28,160 Speaker 1: are you kidding? 1142 00:55:28,920 --> 00:55:30,239 Speaker 2: Like I'm scary. 1143 00:55:31,120 --> 00:55:33,120 Speaker 3: Before we go, let's choose a tidler for this episode 1144 00:55:33,120 --> 00:55:35,600 Speaker 3: because I have so many options. I started running into 1145 00:55:35,560 --> 00:55:39,400 Speaker 3: at the beginning Niagara Falls, taking the balls in my hands, 1146 00:55:40,120 --> 00:55:45,160 Speaker 3: tackle me pink and call me dandy. I have my period, 1147 00:55:45,200 --> 00:55:46,319 Speaker 3: my period doesn't have me. 1148 00:55:46,520 --> 00:55:47,279 Speaker 1: I think that's it. 1149 00:55:47,680 --> 00:55:52,000 Speaker 3: Love the Tillies Grower not a shower and Tinkled by Todd. 1150 00:55:52,800 --> 00:55:55,759 Speaker 2: I kind of like The Grower not a show because 1151 00:55:55,760 --> 00:55:59,120 Speaker 2: it seems like we talk about something totally different than 1152 00:55:59,160 --> 00:55:59,560 Speaker 2: we do. 1153 00:56:00,560 --> 00:56:02,560 Speaker 1: But is that the basis of the show? 1154 00:56:04,000 --> 00:56:06,279 Speaker 2: Well, was your period has you? Or you have your 1155 00:56:06,280 --> 00:56:07,440 Speaker 2: period your period doesn't have you. 1156 00:56:07,640 --> 00:56:09,239 Speaker 1: Well that's a mission that I'm going to be on 1157 00:56:09,520 --> 00:56:10,319 Speaker 1: for quite some time. 1158 00:56:10,440 --> 00:56:14,120 Speaker 2: I will take pink and call me dandy. Honestly me, 1159 00:56:14,200 --> 00:56:16,399 Speaker 2: dandy is a pretty strong title, has a ring to it. 1160 00:56:17,000 --> 00:56:21,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, and pink could also be synonymous with period. 1161 00:56:21,560 --> 00:56:29,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, the stretch or your rare hamburger meat. All right, yeah, 1162 00:56:29,600 --> 00:56:32,320 Speaker 2: well you'll you'll have already come up with the title 1163 00:56:32,360 --> 00:56:34,640 Speaker 2: by like you'll know that everyone listening will know the 1164 00:56:34,680 --> 00:56:36,319 Speaker 2: title before we get to the end of this. So 1165 00:56:36,400 --> 00:56:40,400 Speaker 2: this is exciting. Don't get to hear the process of 1166 00:56:40,400 --> 00:56:47,399 Speaker 2: how we choose. All right, Well, on that note, we'll 1167 00:56:47,440 --> 00:56:49,120 Speaker 2: be back next week. 1168 00:56:49,200 --> 00:56:51,040 Speaker 1: And I'm going to be doing some investigating and then 1169 00:56:51,080 --> 00:56:53,360 Speaker 1: we also I do need your help on my June 1170 00:56:53,560 --> 00:56:56,160 Speaker 1: Finish challenge because Red Star is not super into the 1171 00:56:56,160 --> 00:56:57,920 Speaker 1: homemade homemade triathlon. 1172 00:56:58,160 --> 00:57:00,239 Speaker 2: Well, we'll talk about this next week. Luckily we have 1173 00:57:00,280 --> 00:57:01,600 Speaker 2: time because he's competitive. 1174 00:57:01,640 --> 00:57:05,399 Speaker 1: So he's like, oh, we can't raise each other because 1175 00:57:05,400 --> 00:57:07,279 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna and I was like, well, yeah, we 1176 00:57:07,400 --> 00:57:09,640 Speaker 1: just like swimm in a pool and like just do 1177 00:57:09,680 --> 00:57:11,799 Speaker 1: it together. He wasn't into it. 1178 00:57:11,880 --> 00:57:14,160 Speaker 2: Oh, he wants to like time himself and see how 1179 00:57:14,160 --> 00:57:14,879 Speaker 2: fast you can do it. 1180 00:57:15,520 --> 00:57:16,880 Speaker 4: Well, I thought that's what you would do, You time 1181 00:57:16,880 --> 00:57:18,960 Speaker 4: yourself and then in six months you would do it 1182 00:57:19,000 --> 00:57:20,240 Speaker 4: again and see if you can beat your time. 1183 00:57:20,560 --> 00:57:22,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, and I'm not so sure. You know, the plan 1184 00:57:22,600 --> 00:57:24,160 Speaker 1: has a lot of holes in it, so I need 1185 00:57:24,200 --> 00:57:26,800 Speaker 1: to really solidify and make a plan. 1186 00:57:26,840 --> 00:57:28,720 Speaker 2: You should sit down and just map it out with 1187 00:57:28,840 --> 00:57:32,600 Speaker 2: some you know, maybe get a board and divvy it 1188 00:57:32,680 --> 00:57:33,760 Speaker 2: up into sections. 1189 00:57:33,880 --> 00:57:34,080 Speaker 1: Yeah. 1190 00:57:34,160 --> 00:57:38,520 Speaker 2: Yeah, I think that's very much something you could get into. 1191 00:57:38,760 --> 00:57:39,120 Speaker 1: Thank you. 1192 00:57:39,200 --> 00:57:42,320 Speaker 2: Yeah all right, we love you all. Have a great weekend. 1193 00:57:42,480 --> 00:57:43,479 Speaker 2: We'll talk to you next week. 1194 00:57:43,680 --> 00:57:48,160 Speaker 1: Bye.