WEBVTT - Mind the (Age) Gap 0:00:00.320 --> 0:00:04.120 Help We Suck At Being Newlyweds with Dean Aungler, Kaylen Lurkey, 0:00:04.320 --> 0:00:10.320 and Jared haven An iHeartRadio podcast. Well, why everybody, Welcome 0:00:10.320 --> 0:00:12.840 to an all new episode of Help We Suck At 0:00:12.840 --> 0:00:17.599 Being Newlyweds. I'm Jared, joined by Dean Kaylin, parts unknown. 0:00:17.880 --> 0:00:19.480 Where are you guys? You're back from Hawaii? 0:00:19.920 --> 0:00:22.840 Back from Hawaii. We are in Vegas right now, heading 0:00:22.840 --> 0:00:23.920 to Colorado tomorrow. 0:00:24.079 --> 0:00:27.159 We're back, Jared, We're freaking back. Okay, man, are you 0:00:27.200 --> 0:00:29.560 back because you're leaving tomorrow? Why when do you guys 0:00:29.560 --> 0:00:32.440 not travel? Yeah, we're back. We're back, and you want 0:00:32.440 --> 0:00:34.000 to know what time it is in Hawaii right now? 0:00:34.200 --> 0:00:37.879 Five am? So I'm gonna be cranky today. Yeah, but 0:00:37.920 --> 0:00:40.760 what time is it in Vegas? It's eight and plus. 0:00:40.840 --> 0:00:42.840 You guys were the ones who wanted to record today, 0:00:43.040 --> 0:00:46.440 don't judge me. Well, we wanted to record for a 0:00:46.560 --> 0:00:50.080 very good reason because you're going into surgery in one hour. Well, 0:00:50.120 --> 0:00:52.360 I don't know, let's let's not get to I'm getting 0:00:52.360 --> 0:00:54.160 a root canal. I've already gotten part of the root 0:00:54.160 --> 0:00:54.840 canal done. 0:00:55.360 --> 0:00:57.680 So I went to the dentist like two months ago 0:00:57.760 --> 0:01:00.360 and they said Listen, you have some decay inside too. 0:01:00.520 --> 0:01:02.160 We can try to get it out, but it's kind 0:01:02.160 --> 0:01:03.880 of close to the nerve. So if we get in 0:01:03.920 --> 0:01:06.039 there and we're too close to the nerve, we're gonna 0:01:06.040 --> 0:01:07.600 have to send you to get a root canal. So 0:01:07.640 --> 0:01:09.080 maybe it's just best if we send you to get 0:01:09.120 --> 0:01:11.040 the root canal. So I went to go get the 0:01:11.120 --> 0:01:14.240 root canal. Really not a bad procedure, it just takes 0:01:14.280 --> 0:01:16.400 a while. So I was in there for about an 0:01:16.400 --> 0:01:18.360 hour and forty five minutes, sitting in the chair, and 0:01:18.400 --> 0:01:22.800 she's performing the root canal very players, you know, fine experience, 0:01:23.319 --> 0:01:27.640 but apparently I have very long roots, which is she said, 0:01:27.640 --> 0:01:30.959 it's great for your teeth, but bad for me because 0:01:31.000 --> 0:01:32.800 it's going to take a long time for me to 0:01:32.880 --> 0:01:36.720 finish the entirety of this root canal. So she had 0:01:36.720 --> 0:01:39.679 another appointment, so she said, listen, what I'm gonna do 0:01:39.720 --> 0:01:41.360 It's gonna be fine. Is I'm just going to close 0:01:41.440 --> 0:01:43.399 up what I've done, and then you just have to 0:01:43.400 --> 0:01:45.040 come back and it only take about a half hour 0:01:45.120 --> 0:01:47.800 more and then we'll finish up the root canal and 0:01:47.800 --> 0:01:48.400 I'll fill it in. 0:01:48.760 --> 0:01:51.320 I said, all right. So her next appointment was Halloween. 0:01:51.480 --> 0:01:53.960 So here we go October thirty. First, I'm going to 0:01:54.000 --> 0:01:56.160 finish up my root canal. It's really not so bad, pease. 0:01:56.160 --> 0:01:57.800 I feel like this is how a lot of horror 0:01:57.840 --> 0:02:01.960 movies start. Yeah, so I'll never see you guys again. 0:02:02.120 --> 0:02:02.680 It'll be fun. 0:02:02.840 --> 0:02:05.520 Does it just feel like a deeper cavity or does 0:02:05.560 --> 0:02:07.080 it feel similar to a cavity? 0:02:07.200 --> 0:02:09.679 I never really, I mean I would get I guess 0:02:09.680 --> 0:02:10.680 it just feels like cavity. 0:02:10.800 --> 0:02:12.000 Yeah, I don't know. 0:02:12.040 --> 0:02:13.880 What did you? Why did you do this? Jared? Why 0:02:13.919 --> 0:02:15.880 did you do this to yourself? Why didn't you brush more? 0:02:16.200 --> 0:02:18.040 Why didn't you floss? Why didn't you use a water pick? 0:02:18.080 --> 0:02:23.320 Why didn't you rinse with anti cavity mouthwash? How did 0:02:23.320 --> 0:02:23.839 we get here? 0:02:24.600 --> 0:02:27.880 Anti cavity mouthwash? I need to find some of that, 0:02:28.400 --> 0:02:31.520 you know. Really it's brushing. I brushed twice a day 0:02:31.880 --> 0:02:34.440 every day. I don't floss as much as I should, 0:02:34.639 --> 0:02:36.880 But I'm not as sure flossing was the issue. I 0:02:36.880 --> 0:02:38.359 think the real issue is that I have a sweet 0:02:38.360 --> 0:02:43.600 tooth and I just like chocolate a lot, and I 0:02:43.600 --> 0:02:45.720 don't think i'll ever give it up. I could lose 0:02:45.760 --> 0:02:48.119 all my teeth and I would still be munching down. 0:02:48.200 --> 0:02:49.520 I would liquefy chocolate. 0:02:50.240 --> 0:02:52.040 How long do you have to be chocolate free after 0:02:52.120 --> 0:02:55.519 today's procedure? Nothing, I'm going to have it immediately after that. 0:02:55.840 --> 0:02:57.959 Modern medicine is just so awesome. 0:02:58.080 --> 0:02:59.880 How often do you eat chocolate every day? 0:03:00.560 --> 0:03:00.920 Every day? 0:03:00.960 --> 0:03:01.200 Mine? 0:03:01.280 --> 0:03:04.079 What you guys don't have like a piece of chocolate 0:03:04.120 --> 0:03:08.400 every single day? Caitlin definitely not. I have I eat 0:03:08.440 --> 0:03:11.120 chocolate more often than she does, but not every day. 0:03:11.200 --> 0:03:12.440 How do you eat? What do you How do you 0:03:12.480 --> 0:03:14.119 consume your chocolate every single day? 0:03:14.160 --> 0:03:14.240 Like? 0:03:14.240 --> 0:03:17.839 In what form? Well, it really depends. So I used 0:03:17.880 --> 0:03:21.520 to always have your peppermint patties, like very small ones 0:03:21.560 --> 0:03:24.600 inside the house. Yeah, dude, just I would pop throughout 0:03:24.600 --> 0:03:26.480 the day, probably like eight to ten of those, just 0:03:26.520 --> 0:03:29.080 like go in the phrase grab one, like you know 0:03:29.120 --> 0:03:31.079 I'm going to get a water, I'll pop in a 0:03:31.240 --> 0:03:35.720 york Uh. So those are delicious. Uh. 0:03:35.840 --> 0:03:39.840 And then usually the thing is if I'm at Audrey's. 0:03:40.200 --> 0:03:42.600 So I guess maybe not every day because if I'm 0:03:42.600 --> 0:03:45.520 at Audrey's and I want something sweet, I'll have a donut. 0:03:46.720 --> 0:03:49.240 But I guess there's like, you know, I really love. 0:03:49.080 --> 0:03:51.040 Our chocolate chip old fashion, so that has chocolate chips 0:03:51.040 --> 0:03:52.640 in it, So I have chocolate there. Yeah, it counts. 0:03:52.800 --> 0:03:57.240 And then if I'm home and before I go to bed, yeah, 0:03:57.240 --> 0:03:59.640 we always have some sort of candy or chocolate or 0:03:59.680 --> 0:04:03.120 ice sandwich in the house that I just like, pick on. 0:04:03.200 --> 0:04:06.280 Ooh, ice cream sandwich. This honestly sounds like my dream. 0:04:07.040 --> 0:04:10.320 Ice Cream sandwiches are so underrated. I had Ashley bought them. 0:04:10.440 --> 0:04:12.320 I'm like, why are we buying ice cream sandwiches? What 0:04:12.360 --> 0:04:13.840 do we five? Yeah? 0:04:13.880 --> 0:04:19.120 Then I had one and I forgot how delightful they are. 0:04:19.400 --> 0:04:24.080 Holy, They're so good. It's the simplest things in life. Yeah, 0:04:24.120 --> 0:04:25.839 I mean, I could eat ice cream every single day. 0:04:25.920 --> 0:04:28.320 I had asked Kaylin to. She was going to the 0:04:28.320 --> 0:04:29.720 store like a week ago, and I asked her to 0:04:29.720 --> 0:04:31.720 get me some mint chocolate chip ice cream. But she's 0:04:31.760 --> 0:04:33.720 going to trade her Joe's and so it's not like 0:04:34.160 --> 0:04:36.200 the mint chocolate chip ice cream that I'm used to eating. 0:04:36.480 --> 0:04:39.599 She comes back with these ice cream sandwiches mint chocolate 0:04:39.680 --> 0:04:42.920 chip ice cream. They were legitimately the best thing I've 0:04:42.960 --> 0:04:45.719 ever eaten in my entire life. I ate it was 0:04:45.720 --> 0:04:47.960 like this tray of like a cookie tray, but there 0:04:47.680 --> 0:04:51.320 was maybe there was like twelve of them, and then 0:04:51.360 --> 0:04:53.840 I ate three. The next morning. I think I had 0:04:53.839 --> 0:04:55.400 to be up super early to go climb them out. 0:04:55.440 --> 0:04:58.080 And I woke up at like three am or four am. 0:04:58.839 --> 0:05:01.080 I had three more got back from that trip and 0:05:01.120 --> 0:05:02.960 I was like, oh, man, I deserve I deserve some 0:05:03.000 --> 0:05:04.520 of these. And then you just polished off the box. 0:05:04.560 --> 0:05:06.159 Box is gone within twenty four hours. 0:05:06.160 --> 0:05:07.120 I didn't even get one. 0:05:07.480 --> 0:05:09.040 Well, you don't even eat that stuff. 0:05:09.080 --> 0:05:10.479 I wanted to try one. 0:05:11.120 --> 0:05:18.360 You never made that clear. Yeah, but I gotta say 0:05:18.760 --> 0:05:21.600 your peppermint patties are are my favorite as well. You 0:05:21.640 --> 0:05:23.640 want to know what I also did this summer was 0:05:23.720 --> 0:05:25.520 I was at a store can't remember where, I can't 0:05:25.560 --> 0:05:28.680 remember why. I saw them on the shelf and I 0:05:28.720 --> 0:05:30.240 knew I had to have them. It was a box 0:05:30.320 --> 0:05:32.760 does andies, mince and the mins. 0:05:32.880 --> 0:05:34.680 I think are those the ones that if you go 0:05:34.720 --> 0:05:37.520 to a hotel sometimes they'll be in bed. Yeah, those 0:05:37.520 --> 0:05:38.480 are good stuff right there. 0:05:38.480 --> 0:05:40.080 Those are good. And those are nice too because they're 0:05:40.080 --> 0:05:42.920 so small, so you don't feel quite as guilty eating them. 0:05:43.200 --> 0:05:45.600 And I also feel maybe it's because as a kid, 0:05:45.839 --> 0:05:48.839 sometimes housekeeping would leave it on the pillow that it 0:05:48.839 --> 0:05:50.359 makes me feel like I'm a vacation if I have 0:05:50.360 --> 0:05:52.919 one of those. Yeah, so nice. It's a it's a two. 0:05:52.800 --> 0:05:56.800 For that's like on your way out you get or no, 0:05:56.880 --> 0:05:58.440 with your bill, you get them at Olive Garden. 0:05:58.480 --> 0:06:00.960 Yeah that's true. Yeah, to work at a hotel in 0:06:01.160 --> 0:06:03.360 Carla Springs when I was in college and they served him, 0:06:03.360 --> 0:06:05.440 and so I probably had like a dozen of those 0:06:05.480 --> 0:06:08.320 a day, every single day. What did you do at 0:06:08.320 --> 0:06:12.160 the hotel? I was bel staff. Hey do you hear 0:06:12.240 --> 0:06:14.159 the guy running luggage? Hey, Jared, welcome to the Ander, 0:06:14.240 --> 0:06:16.279 Just hilt and can I help you with your luggage? 0:06:16.320 --> 0:06:18.159 Do you need to park your car for you? How 0:06:18.200 --> 0:06:21.200 about directions? That's pretty good. 0:06:21.279 --> 0:06:24.400 I feel like Dean in college. Doing that would be 0:06:24.400 --> 0:06:28.080 straight out of her rom com. Oh like this like 0:06:28.160 --> 0:06:30.320 a woman getting out of the car and you know 0:06:30.400 --> 0:06:32.840 she has her maybe you know, Oh my god. Ah 0:06:32.920 --> 0:06:35.520 now I'm just thinking terrible things because I'm thinking like 0:06:35.560 --> 0:06:38.880 a mom, a mom's weekend away right, Like it's like five, 0:06:39.680 --> 0:06:44.479 you know, thirty five forty year old women. Oh my god, 0:06:44.520 --> 0:06:45.560 this is our weekend. 0:06:45.680 --> 0:06:47.599 We're gonna enjoy. It's gonna be so much fun. 0:06:48.000 --> 0:06:49.440 And then they get out of the car and they 0:06:49.480 --> 0:06:51.680 see Dean, and Dean's like, hey, welcome to the hotel. 0:06:51.720 --> 0:06:55.120 Can I take your bags? And they immediately think to themselves, 0:06:55.960 --> 0:06:57.880 am I willing to risk it at all to have 0:06:57.920 --> 0:06:59.080 an affair with this man? 0:06:59.200 --> 0:07:02.040 And they did. It helped out in tips. It wasn't 0:07:02.080 --> 0:07:04.240 mostly thirty five to forty five year old women. It 0:07:04.279 --> 0:07:07.040 was mostly like business people coming for a couple of 0:07:07.080 --> 0:07:07.680 days and then leave. 0:07:07.800 --> 0:07:11.000 What age were they probably that same age, sure, but. 0:07:10.920 --> 0:07:14.360 They were heterosexual men. Oh as I was for the 0:07:14.400 --> 0:07:15.680 most part. 0:07:16.040 --> 0:07:19.080 And yeah, you said business people. Business men. 0:07:19.240 --> 0:07:22.200 Yes, it was predominant, like, look, it's not my choice, 0:07:22.200 --> 0:07:25.800 but there was mostly men coming to there for business. 0:07:27.560 --> 0:07:29.040 But it was still a good experience. I got some 0:07:29.080 --> 0:07:29.600 good tips. 0:07:30.760 --> 0:07:32.880 Yeah, I'm sure you did as older women. 0:07:32.960 --> 0:07:34.640 So my members got some good tips, if you know 0:07:34.640 --> 0:07:39.120 what I'm saying. Yeah, yeah, that's too far. That's a 0:07:39.200 --> 0:07:42.800 jerking poor taste. We'll get it. I took it too far, 0:07:43.760 --> 0:07:45.760 But Jared, I wish you nothing but the best for 0:07:45.840 --> 0:07:49.360 your root canal later today, guys, it sounds terrifying to me. 0:07:49.440 --> 0:07:52.800 I always thought that root canals were for really older 0:07:53.200 --> 0:07:55.840 not really old people, but older people because I watched 0:07:55.840 --> 0:07:58.800 Freaky Friday as a kid, and in Freaky Friday, she's 0:07:58.840 --> 0:08:03.040 like root Canal and the woman was like Jamie, I 0:08:03.040 --> 0:08:07.680 can't remember her name was like fifties right, Yeah, so 0:08:07.720 --> 0:08:09.880 I always thought rock canouser for older people, like in 0:08:09.880 --> 0:08:12.360 their fifties. I was about to steal that pop tart. 0:08:12.360 --> 0:08:13.560 I was about to steal that pop tart. 0:08:13.720 --> 0:08:17.240 Oh alis taking away from the pop tart? Crazy? Oh 0:08:17.280 --> 0:08:19.280 good for Alistair. Let him have the pop pop tart. 0:08:19.480 --> 0:08:21.600 Let them live a life. Well. Dared is almost fifties, 0:08:21.600 --> 0:08:24.280 so maybe that's maybe you're not far off that assessment. 0:08:24.640 --> 0:08:29.280 Forty seven man dentists scare me. I absolutely. I mean 0:08:29.320 --> 0:08:31.600 I think everyone could say that they hate the dentist. 0:08:31.720 --> 0:08:33.600 But that's why I lost. As much as I can. 0:08:33.640 --> 0:08:37.760 I use a water pick, I rinse my mouth false 0:08:37.800 --> 0:08:40.040 every day. I'm very diligent with my mouth twice a day. 0:08:40.040 --> 0:08:42.600 He's crazy with my mouth. You fluss twice a day. 0:08:42.880 --> 0:08:44.960 He uses a water pick, and he uses his mouthwash 0:08:45.440 --> 0:08:46.240 all twice a day. 0:08:46.320 --> 0:08:50.439 Yeah. Good four Back to college. It's silly how this 0:08:50.520 --> 0:08:52.040 keeps going back to college. When I was in college, 0:08:52.080 --> 0:08:55.000 I brushed my teeth. This is not an exaggeration. I 0:08:55.040 --> 0:08:58.959 brushed my teeth seven times a day. Yeah, I was 0:08:59.000 --> 0:08:59.680 a psychotic. 0:09:01.640 --> 0:09:04.440 What wo seven times? Does that even do anything? Like 0:09:04.520 --> 0:09:07.520 after the third time? Honestly does it make a difference. 0:09:07.840 --> 0:09:11.160 Well, I I didn't know about flossing or anything other 0:09:11.360 --> 0:09:16.120 other than brushing, and I was so at Like I 0:09:16.200 --> 0:09:18.480 hated my teeth. I hated them. I hated them. I 0:09:18.520 --> 0:09:21.439 hated them so bad because they were crooked and they 0:09:21.480 --> 0:09:23.440 were a little yellow. And I was like, if I 0:09:23.440 --> 0:09:25.160 just brush my teeth seven times a day, this is 0:09:25.160 --> 0:09:26.760 gonna be They're gonna be perfect one. 0:09:26.720 --> 0:09:28.719 Day, They're gonna shape up perfectly. 0:09:28.800 --> 0:09:30.480 Shape up. Oh, And I would do this thing where 0:09:30.520 --> 0:09:32.439 I had this one front crooked tooth, and so I 0:09:32.480 --> 0:09:34.560 would just pull my other bottom teeth on it and 0:09:34.640 --> 0:09:36.480 pull on back as hard as I dam like, try 0:09:36.480 --> 0:09:39.800 to self correct it. This is horrible and it never 0:09:39.840 --> 0:09:42.600 worked out. Surprisingly, do you believe that? Yeah? But yeah, 0:09:42.600 --> 0:09:44.079 I brushed my teeth seven times a day. 0:09:44.160 --> 0:09:45.880 And the old were you when you got in visiline. 0:09:46.679 --> 0:09:50.000 I bought it when I was like twenty maybe, and 0:09:50.400 --> 0:09:53.000 visiline didn't didn't fix my problem. I've had a visilining 0:09:53.200 --> 0:09:53.840 four times. 0:09:53.960 --> 0:09:54.960 You have perfect teeth. 0:09:55.080 --> 0:09:55.920 I hate my tea. 0:09:55.960 --> 0:09:57.439 That's what happens. 0:09:56.760 --> 0:10:00.640 I hate. I've had a VISI I like your teeth, 0:10:00.679 --> 0:10:05.520 and I did smile direct once and it just has 0:10:05.559 --> 0:10:07.959 never worked for me. And I found the issue is 0:10:07.960 --> 0:10:09.720 it's not my it is my teeth. My teeth aren't 0:10:09.720 --> 0:10:12.120 perfectly straight like I. Well, I look at Kaln's teeth 0:10:12.120 --> 0:10:14.240 every day, by the way, too, who are are perfectly. 0:10:14.240 --> 0:10:15.920 I also have a few ven ears, so that's not fair. 0:10:17.280 --> 0:10:20.680 But I yeah, I've had it four times. It's never 0:10:20.920 --> 0:10:23.040 given me the results that I wanted. But I realized 0:10:23.080 --> 0:10:25.760 it's not necessarily my teeth. It's my gums are asymmetrical. 0:10:26.200 --> 0:10:28.319 The right side of my gums are lower than the 0:10:28.360 --> 0:10:31.120 left side, and so when I smile, you'll never You're 0:10:31.160 --> 0:10:32.319 never going to see it. I when I were there, 0:10:32.679 --> 0:10:36.080 But yeah, it's a gum issue, not a teeth issue. 0:10:36.120 --> 0:10:38.360 But even my teeth are a little crooked. Anyways, back 0:10:38.400 --> 0:10:41.080 to my teeth brushing story. I brushed them seven times 0:10:41.120 --> 0:10:42.960 a day because I wanted them to be perfect. And 0:10:43.000 --> 0:10:44.760 I think teeth are the most like the first thing 0:10:44.800 --> 0:10:46.640 I see when I look at someone else's their teeth, 0:10:46.679 --> 0:10:49.040 So how could I be a hypocrite have crappy teeth. 0:10:49.520 --> 0:10:51.520 So I brushed seven times a day and I went 0:10:51.600 --> 0:10:54.400 home for like summer or winter your break once and 0:10:54.480 --> 0:10:55.960 I was talking to my buddy. I was like, yeah, dude, 0:10:55.960 --> 0:10:57.400 I've just been brushing a lot. I don't know what 0:10:57.400 --> 0:10:59.480 it is. And he goes, you know, that's probably not 0:10:59.520 --> 0:11:03.000 good for you, Like you're probably creating new like grooves 0:11:03.000 --> 0:11:05.280 and your teeth that can then stay in and create. 0:11:05.040 --> 0:11:07.520 A cabin get more porous potentially. 0:11:07.200 --> 0:11:09.280 Maybe not yeah, maybe more porous. But he's saying, like 0:11:09.480 --> 0:11:11.960 the bristles on the brash are making your teeth more grooved, 0:11:12.280 --> 0:11:14.520 and that can't be good. I was like, shoot, you're 0:11:14.520 --> 0:11:16.600 probably right. So then I cut it down to like 0:11:16.880 --> 0:11:21.720 four or five times a day. Oh man, teeth. And 0:11:21.800 --> 0:11:23.640 I just hate going to dentist. I'm too poor to 0:11:23.640 --> 0:11:25.319 afford a dentist, and so I just did anything I 0:11:25.320 --> 0:11:26.160 could to avoid it. 0:11:26.559 --> 0:11:28.079 Yeah, but we have a great dentist. Shout out to 0:11:28.120 --> 0:11:29.120 Chris Crentist. 0:11:29.320 --> 0:11:32.600 Oh yeah, Chris is our dentist. He's great. I miss 0:11:32.640 --> 0:11:36.840 going a dentist. Chris. Yeah, cupcake, what a guy. Yeah. 0:11:36.840 --> 0:11:38.120 I actually talked to him the other day. He sent 0:11:38.200 --> 0:11:42.720 me he sent me a video of what appeared to 0:11:42.800 --> 0:11:47.320 be Tom Brady, but him saying Hi, I'm Bruce and 0:11:47.520 --> 0:11:52.680 like you can ask me questions and it's AI. Brady 0:11:52.800 --> 0:11:57.760 sold like he was. He gave Meta the rights to 0:11:58.559 --> 0:12:02.280 create an a I of him. But bro, it's I've 0:12:02.320 --> 0:12:07.400 never seen anything like this. It's it's him, it's him, 0:12:07.840 --> 0:12:10.479 and then he goes metas scanned a bunch of celebrities 0:12:10.480 --> 0:12:13.320 who licensed their images of voice. Meta is using them 0:12:13.320 --> 0:12:16.520 as an AI avatar. Brady's one of them. So there 0:12:16.559 --> 0:12:18.520 is a video. I'm going to send it to you guys, 0:12:19.080 --> 0:12:23.520 and I mean it's it's just Brady. It's it's actually 0:12:23.559 --> 0:12:24.240 quite terrifying. 0:12:24.600 --> 0:12:26.560 I mean it is a Black Mirror episode coming to life, 0:12:26.559 --> 0:12:27.559 which is pretty creepy. 0:12:28.440 --> 0:12:30.640 Yeah, very creepy. Speaking of Black Mirror Halloween, what do 0:12:30.640 --> 0:12:33.240 you guys dressing up as nothing? 0:12:33.520 --> 0:12:35.680 But it's our very first year being at our house 0:12:35.720 --> 0:12:38.240 for Halloween. So we are finally going to pass out 0:12:38.280 --> 0:12:39.360 candy to trigger treaders. 0:12:39.400 --> 0:12:40.319 Where were we last year? 0:12:41.640 --> 0:12:45.160 I was trying to think that. I'm not sure we've 0:12:45.160 --> 0:12:48.040 never been home for Halloween. I know that we were 0:12:48.040 --> 0:12:50.440 on a long trip somewhere, maybe Galapagos and Galapagos. 0:12:50.480 --> 0:12:52.000 Where were the year before that. 0:12:52.360 --> 0:12:54.559 At Sarah Wells's And. 0:12:54.760 --> 0:12:56.760 We weren't even in this house before that? 0:12:56.640 --> 0:12:58.800 Is that we've been here for? Yeah? Anyways, it's our 0:12:58.800 --> 0:13:01.600 first year. I'm excited. I bought some candy. Also didn't 0:13:01.600 --> 0:13:04.680 realize how expensive candy was. Oh, really, twenty bucks for 0:13:04.880 --> 0:13:07.400 like a little bag of candy for the good pieces. 0:13:07.520 --> 0:13:08.760 The whole bag should have been twenty bucks. 0:13:08.800 --> 0:13:12.480 I got the crappy candy and mediocre candy for thirteen bucks. 0:13:12.679 --> 0:13:14.640 I got the little Receias and the little kit cats. 0:13:14.720 --> 0:13:16.680 The way that whole big plastic bag of like a 0:13:16.760 --> 0:13:18.760 sorted candy that should have been twenty bucks. 0:13:18.720 --> 0:13:19.560 It was thirteen each. 0:13:19.760 --> 0:13:23.640 Wow, that's crazy inflation. Man, these kids better be grateful. 0:13:24.320 --> 0:13:25.160 It's a very real thing. 0:13:25.240 --> 0:13:26.800 Wait, so yeah, but you also don't want to be 0:13:26.840 --> 0:13:28.280 the house with crappy candy. 0:13:28.040 --> 0:13:28.440 No, I know. 0:13:28.480 --> 0:13:29.719 So I was like, I'm not going to pick the 0:13:29.880 --> 0:13:33.360 like really bad candy. I got Resea's and Kitkats, and 0:13:33.360 --> 0:13:34.960 then I got another variation. 0:13:35.840 --> 0:13:37.720 All right, good because my dad is the house with 0:13:37.760 --> 0:13:40.560 crappy candy. Oh, it's just embarrassing. 0:13:40.320 --> 0:13:42.840 That one was cheap, and I get I get it 0:13:42.840 --> 0:13:45.400 now because you know, why wouldn't I buy the eight 0:13:45.559 --> 0:13:46.520 dollar bag of candy. 0:13:46.600 --> 0:13:47.319 You're not eating it. 0:13:47.360 --> 0:13:50.920 I'm not eating it, but I wouldn't up a little bit. 0:13:51.600 --> 0:13:53.520 Yeah, everybody, all the kids in the neighborhood are going 0:13:53.559 --> 0:13:54.439 to talk trash about you guys. 0:13:54.880 --> 0:13:57.240 No, well, they probably already do because we're never home. 0:13:57.280 --> 0:13:59.120 We never put a sign out, we never turn our 0:13:59.160 --> 0:14:01.680 lights off at least like our front porch lights. So 0:14:02.240 --> 0:14:03.520 they probably won't even. 0:14:03.320 --> 0:14:04.920 Come and they can talk all the crap about us 0:14:04.920 --> 0:14:07.280 they want because we're over here talking craft about them. 0:14:07.120 --> 0:14:07.760 And we're moving. 0:14:08.240 --> 0:14:30.600 Maybe maybe. 0:14:21.680 --> 0:14:24.120 It's interesting that you're getting your procedure done today because 0:14:24.160 --> 0:14:28.960 you probably had big plans tonight trick or treating with Dawson. Right, yeah, yeah, 0:14:28.960 --> 0:14:30.640 but there's no work. It's literally I'm going to walk 0:14:30.640 --> 0:14:32.360 out the chair and be fine. I mean, I'll have 0:14:32.400 --> 0:14:35.760 a little pain. I think you're underestimating the surgery. This, uh, bro, 0:14:35.960 --> 0:14:39.600 I already went through it. I'm just going through it again. Yeah, 0:14:39.640 --> 0:14:43.400 but this literally when I left, I went directly to 0:14:43.480 --> 0:14:46.680 work after my last route. Now, just you know, it's 0:14:46.760 --> 0:14:50.000 it's just it's just discomfort and so it is they 0:14:50.080 --> 0:14:53.000 numb me. So, you know, for a good hour and 0:14:53.040 --> 0:14:56.320 a half afterwards. You know, my speech is a little simplealysis, 0:14:57.000 --> 0:15:00.840 still a little. I thought that's the last twenty percent 0:15:00.880 --> 0:15:04.880 of a rootcal is the most painful. Obviously. Yes, doctor 0:15:04.920 --> 0:15:07.200 Dean over here knows everything about a root canal. Got 0:15:07.280 --> 0:15:10.880 Chris on the line right here. Yeah, he's just texting me. Figure. Yeah, 0:15:10.920 --> 0:15:13.280 the root canal. Bro, you got a twenty percent chance 0:15:13.320 --> 0:15:13.680 of dying. 0:15:13.840 --> 0:15:16.200 Wait, so do you guys all have matching costumes tonight? 0:15:17.000 --> 0:15:20.760 Yeah? So we just I never dress up. I mean, 0:15:20.800 --> 0:15:23.640 I love it's so weird Halloween. 0:15:23.720 --> 0:15:25.040 Gay, Okay, I. 0:15:25.000 --> 0:15:27.480 Do love Halloween, and yet I'm always every time she 0:15:27.480 --> 0:15:28.200 wants to dress. 0:15:28.080 --> 0:15:29.600 Up, and like, I just don't feel like it. I 0:15:29.600 --> 0:15:32.240 gotta be honest, but we always do it. 0:15:32.520 --> 0:15:38.000 Uh. So we have Superman. Dawson loves his Superman. So 0:15:38.040 --> 0:15:41.040 he's wearing his little muscle Superman costume and he's actually 0:15:41.080 --> 0:15:41.640 busted a video. 0:15:42.200 --> 0:15:44.960 His reaction was so cute. He was like shocked at 0:15:45.000 --> 0:15:45.680 his muscles. 0:15:45.880 --> 0:15:49.040 It was so cute. Then he kind of like liked it. Oh, 0:15:49.080 --> 0:15:49.680 this is easy. 0:15:50.000 --> 0:15:52.160 So then I have a Superman costume as well, So 0:15:52.200 --> 0:15:54.600 we're gonna take him trick or treating. This is the 0:15:54.600 --> 0:15:56.400 first time Dawson will ever go trick or treating. 0:15:57.160 --> 0:15:57.800 Uh oh, you. 0:15:57.760 --> 0:16:00.000 Will see how he well, he will see how he does. 0:16:00.280 --> 0:16:03.000 I mean he's still only about twenty one months, so 0:16:03.040 --> 0:16:04.120 he's gonna be able to walk. 0:16:04.680 --> 0:16:06.840 So he wasn't walking last year this time, right. 0:16:07.320 --> 0:16:10.080 Not walking. He walks now, not well. 0:16:10.160 --> 0:16:11.920 I mean he walks pretty well, but he you know, 0:16:11.960 --> 0:16:13.720 he looks like Dan at three o'clock in the morning, 0:16:14.760 --> 0:16:20.200 just wobbling around. But so we're gonna go to my parents' 0:16:20.240 --> 0:16:23.080 house and we'll probably start tricking around like five thirty, 0:16:23.200 --> 0:16:25.080 we're right before it gets dark, and then do a 0:16:25.120 --> 0:16:26.960 couple of houses when it's darker than call it quits. 0:16:27.240 --> 0:16:29.160 Is your parents' house like a nice neighborhood where you 0:16:29.160 --> 0:16:33.040 go to get the nice candy? Uh? It is? It's 0:16:33.800 --> 0:16:34.680 for trick or treating. 0:16:34.880 --> 0:16:37.200 There's a there's a well, yeah, except skip my father's 0:16:37.200 --> 0:16:39.040 house because it's just terrible. It's cool though, because my 0:16:39.920 --> 0:16:44.040 two houses down every single year they do this elaborate. 0:16:45.240 --> 0:16:46.920 Uh display. 0:16:47.840 --> 0:16:50.320 So he turns his garage into like a mini haunted 0:16:50.360 --> 0:16:54.720 house and he always has a different theme and it's 0:16:54.760 --> 0:16:57.760 cool and he does such a cool job and he 0:16:57.840 --> 0:17:03.360 creates all his own You know, animatronics and costumes and 0:17:03.440 --> 0:17:05.520 it's very innovative and it's really cool. 0:17:05.520 --> 0:17:09.439 So I'm excited to see that. And I'm also excited 0:17:09.520 --> 0:17:11.920 just to see Dawson walk up to the house because 0:17:11.920 --> 0:17:13.439 he's not a shy kid, so he'll walk up to 0:17:13.480 --> 0:17:16.359 the house. And we went to a trunker tree. Have 0:17:16.359 --> 0:17:16.960 you ever heard of this? 0:17:18.240 --> 0:17:19.520 So we went to a trunk or treat that we 0:17:19.560 --> 0:17:21.400 got invited to, and that was cool because he started 0:17:21.440 --> 0:17:23.080 getting the hang of it where he would grab candy 0:17:23.119 --> 0:17:25.479 and put in his bucket and he knew that. You know, obviously, 0:17:25.520 --> 0:17:27.760 after five minutes he's just wandering around and like trying 0:17:27.760 --> 0:17:28.560 to grab everything. 0:17:29.000 --> 0:17:34.120 But it'll be fun, it'll be cute. So yeah, we're 0:17:34.119 --> 0:17:36.800 starting to get into it. I mean, this is I'm 0:17:36.840 --> 0:17:40.359 excited for next year during the holidays as well, because 0:17:40.400 --> 0:17:43.679 I think every year from now on up until you know, 0:17:43.760 --> 0:17:48.080 he's probably I guess a teenager. I feel like it's 0:17:48.080 --> 0:17:51.200 gonna be really fun because now we're living vicariously through him. 0:17:51.320 --> 0:17:54.280 Like I'm excited to see his reactions towards Halloween, his 0:17:54.359 --> 0:17:58.520 excitement about getting the costume, and I feel like it 0:17:58.600 --> 0:18:00.280 will I think one of the things that we love 0:18:00.280 --> 0:18:02.359 about the holidays. It kind of makes us feel like 0:18:02.359 --> 0:18:05.359 a kid again. You know, it's it's kind of you know, 0:18:05.400 --> 0:18:08.200 it's innocence, and you know, you get the family together 0:18:08.240 --> 0:18:09.879 and you do all this stupid stuff. You dress up, 0:18:09.880 --> 0:18:12.400 you go get candy. It's ridiculous, but it's kind of fun. 0:18:12.440 --> 0:18:15.359 And so I'm excited to be brought back in time 0:18:15.760 --> 0:18:18.359 to experience that with my kid. So I feel like 0:18:18.400 --> 0:18:20.760 a kid again. So this is all selfish really for sure. 0:18:20.800 --> 0:18:22.560 And you want to feel like a kid, but you don't, 0:18:22.920 --> 0:18:24.359 like if you want to feel like a kid, you 0:18:24.359 --> 0:18:27.800 want to feel like a twelve year old, not a 0:18:27.840 --> 0:18:28.800 two year old. You know. 0:18:30.320 --> 0:18:32.760 Well yeah, but I just remember growing up as a 0:18:32.840 --> 0:18:35.639 kid going trick or treating and like the parents in 0:18:35.680 --> 0:18:36.760 the neighborhood all. 0:18:37.160 --> 0:18:39.160 I thought they were the coolest people ever. 0:18:39.520 --> 0:18:41.240 I always wanted to be a part of the parents 0:18:41.320 --> 0:18:44.679 group sitting around the fire, like holding their glass and 0:18:44.760 --> 0:18:46.800 obviously I always knew would be alcohol. It is like 0:18:46.880 --> 0:18:49.280 either beer in there or wine or you know, they 0:18:49.280 --> 0:18:52.040 would always joke with each other about how they're you know, 0:18:52.160 --> 0:18:54.119 oh they got the juice to make them through, you know, 0:18:54.320 --> 0:18:55.400 got to get through Halloween. 0:18:55.520 --> 0:18:57.080 Or they would have the mask. I was like, man, 0:18:57.119 --> 0:18:59.800 these are the coolest people ever, and now I'm one 0:18:59.840 --> 0:19:01.359 of the those people who you know, I'm gonna have 0:19:01.359 --> 0:19:03.320 a little hot apple cider. Maybe we'll put the little 0:19:03.320 --> 0:19:06.960 fireball in there or something, you know, walk around, just 0:19:06.960 --> 0:19:09.400 get drunk as my kid goes to different strangers' homes. 0:19:10.119 --> 0:19:12.159 Be great. But I guess my point of saying that 0:19:12.280 --> 0:19:14.680 is like the older they like you were saying, the 0:19:14.720 --> 0:19:16.439 older Dawson gets, the more he'll enjoy it, and the 0:19:16.440 --> 0:19:20.080 more you'll enjoy it by association. So one nd per 0:19:20.880 --> 0:19:24.760 then we're will be awesome because now we're starting to 0:19:24.800 --> 0:19:28.760 get into that early, very very early stage of enjoying 0:19:28.800 --> 0:19:31.320 it because it's only gonna last so long. Before you know, 0:19:31.400 --> 0:19:33.520 Dawson's like this is stupid. I don't want to do 0:19:33.560 --> 0:19:36.080 this anymore because I'm too cool for school. So there's 0:19:36.119 --> 0:19:37.520 a sweet spot, and I feel like we're in the 0:19:37.600 --> 0:19:40.160 very early stages that sweet spot. And we got another 0:19:40.280 --> 0:19:43.119 like i'd say, a good seven or eight years before 0:19:43.160 --> 0:19:46.680 he's like this is stupid, uh and is not real 0:19:46.960 --> 0:19:49.440 and uh, I never want to do it again. 0:19:50.280 --> 0:19:52.160 You had a lot of years. I was just thinking 0:19:52.160 --> 0:19:54.800 about picking out Halloween costumes as a kid, and how 0:19:54.840 --> 0:19:56.680 different it is because I would always go to Party 0:19:56.720 --> 0:19:59.160 City or Spirit and I feel like my mom always 0:19:59.160 --> 0:20:01.560 took us late, so all of the costumes were picked 0:20:01.600 --> 0:20:03.320 over and they would have x's on all of the 0:20:03.320 --> 0:20:05.159 costumes that were out of stock. And now you just 0:20:05.160 --> 0:20:08.520 go to Amazon. You have like endless amounts of resources 0:20:08.880 --> 0:20:11.639 and nothing ever runs out. Yeah, I would always have 0:20:11.720 --> 0:20:13.720 the crappy costume, thee like leftovers. 0:20:13.840 --> 0:20:15.720 You know, that's interesting to think about. You're right, because 0:20:15.760 --> 0:20:18.879 I do think that kids nowadays get spoiled with the 0:20:18.920 --> 0:20:20.120 options at their fingertip. 0:20:20.240 --> 0:20:20.920 Yeah, totally. 0:20:22.560 --> 0:20:25.400 Yeah, I think we need to cut off Halloween costumes 0:20:25.400 --> 0:20:28.360 on Amazon. Really teach kids a lesson, right, Like, if 0:20:28.359 --> 0:20:30.240 you procrastinate, you're going to have a crap costume. 0:20:31.200 --> 0:20:33.800 Everybody's gonna make fun of you them. I think what 0:20:33.840 --> 0:20:36.120 I would do with my kids is I would say, 0:20:36.119 --> 0:20:38.480 you can't order a costume. You have to order like 0:20:38.560 --> 0:20:41.400 pieces to create your own costume. I like it because 0:20:41.640 --> 0:20:43.919 you could just get so and it's it's great. I 0:20:44.000 --> 0:20:47.400 do have done the same thing every Halloween until now. 0:20:47.440 --> 0:20:49.439 It's just order a costume and wear it. It's just 0:20:49.480 --> 0:20:51.439 too easy. It's kind of like cheating. 0:20:52.080 --> 0:20:54.320 Yeah, or they can make their own or have us 0:20:54.320 --> 0:20:54.679 helped them. 0:20:54.800 --> 0:20:57.560 Yeah, that's obviously like my idea to an even more 0:20:57.600 --> 0:20:59.600 extreme level, which I would be way more impressive than 0:20:59.640 --> 0:21:02.639 just buying stuff, but that's out of my wheel. 0:21:02.800 --> 0:21:05.560 I like it getting a little creative, not having a 0:21:05.840 --> 0:21:08.160 just a full party city get up. 0:21:08.280 --> 0:21:11.920 Yeah yeah yeah. Do you guys remember your favorite Halloween costumes? 0:21:14.240 --> 0:21:18.760 Favorite Halloween cost like as a kid, Yeah, any any 0:21:18.800 --> 0:21:20.360 point in your life, because I was trying to think 0:21:20.359 --> 0:21:23.439 of mine, and I was Batman last year and I 0:21:23.480 --> 0:21:27.119 got a cosplay Robert Pattinson's Batman, yeah costume. I just 0:21:27.119 --> 0:21:29.560 watched like video of you in that costume yesterday. I 0:21:29.560 --> 0:21:31.680 was like, that is a big that is a that 0:21:31.800 --> 0:21:34.920 is a movie quality costume, Dude. I felt good in it. 0:21:35.000 --> 0:21:36.760 I felt like I was like, oh man, I kind 0:21:36.760 --> 0:21:39.840 of feel like Batman right now. So that was pretty 0:21:39.840 --> 0:21:41.680 cool because I've never had a costume like that. 0:21:41.680 --> 0:21:43.679 That was so cool. 0:21:44.720 --> 0:21:47.199 So I'm not saying that was my favorite costume, but 0:21:47.359 --> 0:21:49.280 like I said, I was always So it's crazy how 0:21:49.280 --> 0:21:53.000 I love Halloween and I love all of the things 0:21:53.000 --> 0:21:56.000 that surround Halloween that go with it, And yeah, I 0:21:56.000 --> 0:21:58.280 never really dressed up. I remember one year I was 0:21:58.560 --> 0:22:01.119 with my ex girlfriend. We went to this college party 0:22:01.880 --> 0:22:04.200 and she was dressed up. She was she had a 0:22:04.240 --> 0:22:05.879 costume ready to go, and she's like, what are you 0:22:05.920 --> 0:22:07.879 gonna dress up as? And I was like, I, of 0:22:07.880 --> 0:22:10.359 course was being lazy and I procrastinated. I was like, 0:22:10.800 --> 0:22:12.320 I don't know why I got nothing. I don't have 0:22:12.359 --> 0:22:12.880 a costume. 0:22:13.160 --> 0:22:17.600 So I literally bought a trucker hat and got a 0:22:17.640 --> 0:22:21.440 sticker that said hi, my name, and then I wrote 0:22:21.480 --> 0:22:25.359 Ashton Kutcher on it and just plasted that on my 0:22:25.440 --> 0:22:27.480 chest with a trucker hat and I had the long hair, 0:22:28.200 --> 0:22:31.399 and I was it was so stupid. I looked I 0:22:31.400 --> 0:22:31.879 pictured to that. 0:22:31.920 --> 0:22:35.840 I'm like, you you suck. You suck, bro, Why did 0:22:35.880 --> 0:22:38.960 you do that? Just put some effort in. 0:22:40.800 --> 0:22:43.120 My I'm trying to think of what my favorite Halloween 0:22:43.119 --> 0:22:44.119 costume that I've done is. 0:22:44.480 --> 0:22:46.359 My favorite is when we dressed up. I don't know, 0:22:46.640 --> 0:22:48.400 I don't really remember mine as a kid, but when 0:22:48.400 --> 0:22:50.359 we dressed up as each other, that was pretty It 0:22:50.400 --> 0:22:52.720 was pretty good, amazing, and Dean got heels in his 0:22:52.800 --> 0:22:55.840 size and seeing him walk home drunk in his heels 0:22:55.920 --> 0:22:56.960 was the best thing ever. 0:22:57.400 --> 0:22:58.800 Walk home. Did walk home? 0:22:58.840 --> 0:23:00.719 He did, and then he carried them. It was pretty cool. 0:23:00.720 --> 0:23:01.840 I was gonna say. We walked to the van and 0:23:01.840 --> 0:23:05.800 slept in the van that night in the street. Yeah, 0:23:05.960 --> 0:23:07.760 that was one of my favorites as well. I was 0:23:08.280 --> 0:23:10.360 so hot that night. I was hot and sassy that night. 0:23:15.040 --> 0:23:17.040 The only like, I'm trying to think of back to 0:23:17.040 --> 0:23:18.440 when I was a kid and like what I dressed 0:23:18.480 --> 0:23:19.840 up as a kid, but I can't really think of 0:23:19.880 --> 0:23:24.320 anything specifically. I do remember one Halloween, I was probably thirteen. 0:23:24.520 --> 0:23:28.560 I found like a really nice Santa costume in our house, 0:23:29.160 --> 0:23:31.280 so I dressed up as Santa for Halloween, which is 0:23:31.320 --> 0:23:35.159 probably like some weird taboo thing that you're like probably 0:23:35.160 --> 0:23:37.760 not allowed to do, but I did it. Anyways. It 0:23:37.840 --> 0:23:43.960 was a legit costume, like thirteen something like that, somewhere 0:23:44.000 --> 0:23:51.600 around that age, but it was a legit costume. Boots, pants, belly, bell, beard, hat, 0:23:52.160 --> 0:23:54.760 and like it just was pretty cool. Yeah. 0:23:56.000 --> 0:24:01.360 Yeah, I really can't remember many of them. I remember. 0:24:01.840 --> 0:24:04.240 The only one I do is Josie and the Pussycat Dolls. 0:24:04.240 --> 0:24:08.000 I was the Blue Pussycat doll and I had these 0:24:08.040 --> 0:24:10.800 like platform heels. They were probably like six or seven 0:24:10.840 --> 0:24:14.080 inches high and just as a kid, as like an 0:24:14.119 --> 0:24:15.840 eight year old kid walking around in heels as the 0:24:15.840 --> 0:24:19.399 coolest thing ever, so fine. And I was obsessed with 0:24:19.400 --> 0:24:21.000 that movie growing up because you. 0:24:21.000 --> 0:24:23.679 Get to dressed like an adult. Yeah, so you'd feel cool. 0:24:23.800 --> 0:24:26.840 I felt so cool I was, I remember. I don't 0:24:26.880 --> 0:24:30.679 remember many I remember too. The first one I remember 0:24:30.880 --> 0:24:35.040 is Zorro and I because the Mascazar just came out 0:24:35.040 --> 0:24:37.040 with Antonio and Benderis, and I was obsessed and I 0:24:37.040 --> 0:24:38.919 wanted to be Zoro for Halloween. So I got a 0:24:39.000 --> 0:24:42.720 Zorro costume and it was so frickin' cool and it 0:24:42.760 --> 0:24:46.280 came with a sowre and I had the cape and 0:24:46.560 --> 0:24:51.359 it was just awesome. And then I think I was 0:24:52.000 --> 0:24:55.760 either twelve or thirteen, but I went trick or treating 0:24:57.280 --> 0:25:01.199 with my friend Amanda and my sister Shannon. Shannon was 0:25:01.440 --> 0:25:04.240 fourteen fifteen at the time, I guess, so she was like, I'm, 0:25:04.440 --> 0:25:06.439 you know, pushing the limits. But I'll never forget. I 0:25:06.480 --> 0:25:09.160 was Dracula and I just recently saw a picture of it. 0:25:09.560 --> 0:25:13.840 I was fat Dracula, like I was a heavy Dracula, 0:25:14.440 --> 0:25:17.240 and but I'll never forget. It's amazing how these people 0:25:17.359 --> 0:25:20.119 impact your life so significantly and they have no idea 0:25:20.119 --> 0:25:22.639 who you are. Yeah, and it was such a minuscule 0:25:22.720 --> 0:25:25.080 moment for them, but I'll never forget it. I went 0:25:25.119 --> 0:25:27.199 to this We went to this guy's house and he 0:25:27.280 --> 0:25:29.439 opened the door, and then we were like trick or 0:25:29.440 --> 0:25:31.520 treat and he goes, aren't you guys a little old 0:25:31.560 --> 0:25:33.800 to be tricker treading? And he's like, right, well, here's 0:25:33.800 --> 0:25:35.520 your candy. And then from that day on, I was like, 0:25:35.520 --> 0:25:36.680 I'm never trick or treating again. 0:25:36.800 --> 0:25:38.840 Nope, too old. And then he wrote and then I 0:25:38.920 --> 0:25:40.560 never went trick or treating after that. Well, wait, how 0:25:40.560 --> 0:25:42.280 old was this guy or how old were you? I 0:25:42.359 --> 0:25:44.480 was twelve or thirteen? I guess, so probably like on 0:25:44.520 --> 0:25:47.160 the last leg anyway. Yeah, but you can trigger treat 0:25:47.200 --> 0:25:52.840 until you're like eighteen, I think, oh eighteen, Yeah. 0:25:52.359 --> 0:25:54.160 I feel like twelve and thirteen is the cutoff. 0:25:54.760 --> 0:25:56.840 If an eighteen year old walks up to your house tonight, 0:25:56.920 --> 0:25:59.720 don't give him keep I guess's when you kind of 0:25:59.720 --> 0:26:00.640 start going to parties. 0:26:00.840 --> 0:26:03.360 Yeah, that's what I was just thinking. At twelve and thirteen, 0:26:04.119 --> 0:26:06.280 we were in middle school. I started going to parties 0:26:06.840 --> 0:26:09.960 and that's when it flipped from fun Halloween costumes to 0:26:10.160 --> 0:26:11.360 sexy Halloween costumes? 0:26:11.640 --> 0:26:13.080 Was your sexiest Halloween costume? 0:26:13.600 --> 0:26:15.760 I don't remember. It's so weird that I can't remember. 0:26:18.000 --> 0:26:20.520 And I remember showing up to this Halloween party and 0:26:20.600 --> 0:26:24.000 everyone suddenly was dressing sexy again as a twelve or 0:26:24.000 --> 0:26:26.320 thirteen year old, which is so weird, and I wasn't, 0:26:26.600 --> 0:26:28.119 and I was like, what the heck is going on? 0:26:28.160 --> 0:26:30.080 I felt so self conscious, and from there on I 0:26:30.119 --> 0:26:32.160 had to skimp it up a bit. 0:26:32.359 --> 0:26:35.280 Yeah, you could have just spin the trend set or 0:26:35.280 --> 0:26:37.600 maybe every slutty looking girl there was looking at you 0:26:37.680 --> 0:26:39.879 being like, oh man, I wish Halloween was still fun. 0:26:40.080 --> 0:26:42.199 No, no guy would talk to me. I was just 0:26:42.320 --> 0:26:44.680 like the due in the Lame Costume. 0:26:45.200 --> 0:26:48.879 The Weep in the Lame Costume a book by Kaylen 0:26:48.920 --> 0:26:49.320 Miller Bell. 0:26:50.400 --> 0:26:52.200 But it's crazy how it just switches and no one 0:26:52.240 --> 0:26:54.640 tells you. I do remember too. One time I called 0:26:54.760 --> 0:26:56.399 one of my friends and I was like, do you 0:26:56.400 --> 0:26:58.560 want to play? And she said, Kaylen, we don't say play, 0:26:58.680 --> 0:27:01.280 we say hang out. And everything one day switched and 0:27:01.320 --> 0:27:04.000 no one told me. Yeah, I was left in the dark. 0:27:04.160 --> 0:27:06.000 That's crazy because I would still call it my friends 0:27:06.040 --> 0:27:07.960 now and be like, hey, you want to play Like 0:27:08.000 --> 0:27:10.120 I wish I had the gumption to do that, because 0:27:10.440 --> 0:27:12.720 it's so much cooler to say and so much more 0:27:12.760 --> 0:27:15.440 true to what you want to do. Like I'd rarely 0:27:15.480 --> 0:27:17.160 go out to a park and jump on a jungle 0:27:17.200 --> 0:27:19.800 gym and sit on the couch and watch. 0:27:19.640 --> 0:27:20.840 And play and play. 0:27:20.960 --> 0:27:24.480 Yeah, exactly, well we should we just we just the 0:27:24.640 --> 0:27:27.560 older we get, the worse we get to. The light 0:27:28.000 --> 0:27:29.880 for life just dim is just a little bit more. 0:27:30.000 --> 0:27:32.040 Maybe once we have kids, that's when it reinvigorates it 0:27:32.280 --> 0:27:32.840 all in us. 0:27:33.160 --> 0:27:34.840 I mean, yeah, look at Jared. He's buying movie grade 0:27:34.920 --> 0:27:37.000 Halloween costumes to dress up like Batman. So I guess 0:27:37.040 --> 0:27:37.440 you're right. 0:27:38.400 --> 0:27:41.040 Yeah, there are parts that reinvigorate you. But then also 0:27:41.080 --> 0:27:44.320 you're always tired, So it's like there's a little bit 0:27:44.359 --> 0:27:46.240 of balance there. It's like, oh, there are times where 0:27:46.240 --> 0:27:48.680 feeling like a kid, but I've also never felt older 0:27:48.680 --> 0:27:49.160 in my life. 0:27:49.160 --> 0:27:50.920 It's okay, I always feel tired right now as well. 0:27:52.359 --> 0:27:55.040 Uh yeah, pre kids. 0:27:54.640 --> 0:27:58.800 Yeah you're gonna be an old dad. Bro. Yeah, I'll 0:27:58.800 --> 0:28:00.840 just do everything for the kids now, and Kaylen can 0:28:00.880 --> 0:28:02.800 do all the things for the kids in the morning. 0:28:03.520 --> 0:28:04.960 Kind of like how we raise alistair. 0:28:05.800 --> 0:28:06.280 I like it. 0:28:06.320 --> 0:28:20.880 Actually, yeah, it's a good ballance. All right, we're gonna 0:28:20.880 --> 0:28:23.120 get see emails real quick. We got two emails. We've 0:28:23.119 --> 0:28:24.800 been trying to get to these for weeks, but the 0:28:24.840 --> 0:28:27.840 conversation has just been so invigorating we haven't been able to. 0:28:28.960 --> 0:28:30.359 I'm going to read the first one, you guys, Is 0:28:30.359 --> 0:28:31.159 everyone okay with that? 0:28:31.640 --> 0:28:31.960 Yeah? 0:28:32.119 --> 0:28:35.199 No, okay? Then I'll read the second one. Anonymous says, 0:28:35.560 --> 0:28:37.960 I'm really hesitant towards my brother's new girlfriend. He's in 0:28:37.960 --> 0:28:40.640 his early twenties and just graduated college this past spring. 0:28:40.960 --> 0:28:43.720 She's thirty two. I don't know what an adult woman 0:28:43.760 --> 0:28:46.320 would want with my brother, who's currently living with my parents. 0:28:46.440 --> 0:28:48.760 Am I being harsh for judging the relationships solely based 0:28:48.760 --> 0:28:50.960 on their age gap? He's my younger brother, so maybe 0:28:50.960 --> 0:28:53.280 I'm just being protective. I honestly can't tell if this 0:28:53.320 --> 0:28:55.720 is something I would be supportive of. Please help. So 0:28:55.920 --> 0:28:59.320 just a quick summary, This person has a brother who's 0:28:59.320 --> 0:29:02.360 in his early twenty and still in and just graduated college, 0:29:02.400 --> 0:29:06.520 and he's dating a girl who's aged thirty two? Is 0:29:06.520 --> 0:29:06.960 that weird? 0:29:09.080 --> 0:29:12.440 I feel like I'm always very harsh of age gaps. 0:29:12.880 --> 0:29:16.440 It's just like it can get weird. But I don't 0:29:16.480 --> 0:29:18.680 know if he graduated college. He's got to be twenty two, 0:29:18.720 --> 0:29:19.840 so it's a ten year age gap. 0:29:20.320 --> 0:29:23.560 I'll start, I'll start with vice. I'll just kick it out, 0:29:23.640 --> 0:29:25.000 kick it out of the gates here. I don't think 0:29:25.000 --> 0:29:25.680 it's weird. 0:29:26.200 --> 0:29:27.920 Ten year age gap, twenty two and thirty two. 0:29:28.160 --> 0:29:31.160 I have dated that age gap before and it doesn't 0:29:31.200 --> 0:29:31.760 feel weird. 0:29:32.160 --> 0:29:34.000 Oh you dated an older woman. 0:29:33.920 --> 0:29:38.240 Yes, especially as a twenty two year old, young, young 0:29:38.320 --> 0:29:39.080 strong man. 0:29:39.640 --> 0:29:41.280 Maybe she like helped form you a bit. 0:29:41.720 --> 0:29:45.120 She was like a guest at Dailer's Hilton. I'm just kidding. 0:29:45.120 --> 0:29:48.200 Obviously that's not true, but it was never it never 0:29:48.280 --> 0:29:53.320 felt weird, Okay. I just don't think it's that weird 0:29:53.360 --> 0:29:56.360 of a thing. And what kind of sucks too to say, 0:29:56.400 --> 0:29:57.640 is like if it was flipped, it might be a 0:29:57.680 --> 0:29:58.200 little weird. 0:30:00.080 --> 0:30:01.040 It was a man dating as. 0:30:00.960 --> 0:30:02.320 If it was a thirty year old guy. I think 0:30:02.320 --> 0:30:04.680 a twenty two year old girl that might be a 0:30:04.680 --> 0:30:07.800 little more weird. But that's not really fair for me 0:30:07.840 --> 0:30:09.480 to say, so I guess I have a stick firm 0:30:09.520 --> 0:30:12.920 with my stance of saying it's not weird. I don't know. 0:30:13.040 --> 0:30:15.680 I don't know why age gaps make weird me out, 0:30:15.760 --> 0:30:19.040 but they do even if you're an adult. I don't know, 0:30:19.720 --> 0:30:20.400 but you. 0:30:20.400 --> 0:30:22.520 Know we have an age gap barely. 0:30:23.480 --> 0:30:25.880 But like I was telling you, I know someone who's 0:30:26.080 --> 0:30:30.000 twenty four, Yeah, married to a forty to forty four 0:30:30.120 --> 0:30:32.600 year old. I don't know, it just it weirds me out. 0:30:32.880 --> 0:30:34.479 Well, can you tell us why it weirds you out? 0:30:34.520 --> 0:30:36.560 What exactly about is what I'm trying to figure out. 0:30:36.560 --> 0:30:39.040 I don't know why. I think society tells me it 0:30:39.080 --> 0:30:41.520 should weird me out. Oh no, I think it's weird. 0:30:41.600 --> 0:30:44.640 Okay, s look we're getting somewhere. Keep on going. 0:30:44.640 --> 0:30:46.520 You've got something, but I don't know why. Jared, what 0:30:46.520 --> 0:30:47.720 are your thoughts? 0:30:48.720 --> 0:30:53.200 I think that each case has to be weighed on 0:30:53.240 --> 0:30:57.320 its own, because some age gaps are valid. I think 0:30:57.360 --> 0:30:59.520 we just saw that in Paradise with Blake and Jess. 0:30:59.760 --> 0:31:01.280 Were we talked about it? I don't know if I 0:31:01.280 --> 0:31:05.800 talked about it on here or almost famous Listica. Blake 0:31:05.880 --> 0:31:08.200 is thirty two, thirty three and she's twenty four, and 0:31:08.240 --> 0:31:10.000 I know that's not a huge age glass. 0:31:09.760 --> 0:31:12.240 To what we're talking about here, though, But the point 0:31:12.240 --> 0:31:15.200 being was that Jess was it was very She made 0:31:15.240 --> 0:31:18.120 it known on this episode that it pretty much like 0:31:18.160 --> 0:31:20.680 she wanted to, you know, she felt like she was 0:31:20.720 --> 0:31:23.480 missing out and she wanted to explore options, and Blake 0:31:23.600 --> 0:31:24.960 was like, I don't want to do that. I just 0:31:25.040 --> 0:31:26.840 want to hang out with you. And it was like, okay, Well, 0:31:26.840 --> 0:31:29.720 this is a good example of how age gaps sometimes 0:31:29.760 --> 0:31:32.160 matter because she's twenty four and she wants to explore 0:31:32.200 --> 0:31:35.040 the world as she well should. Blake is thirty two, 0:31:35.080 --> 0:31:37.760 thirty three, and he's like, I'm just ready to settle down. 0:31:37.760 --> 0:31:41.080 I don't feel like I've explored. So that is a 0:31:41.120 --> 0:31:43.320 good example of how the age gap matters. But then 0:31:43.320 --> 0:31:45.920 there are other times where I think it doesn't matter. 0:31:45.960 --> 0:31:48.200 I mean, I have friends that have pretty big age gaps, 0:31:48.200 --> 0:31:50.440 and they are very much in line of where they 0:31:50.600 --> 0:31:52.960 are with their values in their life and what they want. 0:31:54.080 --> 0:31:57.320 So it's like, well that works, and it's worked for 0:31:57.360 --> 0:31:59.920 a long time, so I guess age gaps aren't that 0:32:00.000 --> 0:32:02.600 a huge Like my parents, my dad is eight years 0:32:02.720 --> 0:32:04.960 seven or eight years older than my mom, which is 0:32:04.960 --> 0:32:07.920 not crazy, but you know, pretty significant. My point being 0:32:07.920 --> 0:32:11.960 with Anonymous is that one early twenties is vague? Is 0:32:11.960 --> 0:32:14.240 he twenty like three? Yeah, well it just graduates, so 0:32:14.240 --> 0:32:15.880 we can assume. Let's assume twenty two. 0:32:16.400 --> 0:32:18.480 So twenty two, so ten years. But let me say 0:32:18.520 --> 0:32:21.160 this as a twenty two year old guy, if you're 0:32:21.240 --> 0:32:23.760 dating a thirty two year old woman, you look like 0:32:23.760 --> 0:32:24.560 a badass. 0:32:25.000 --> 0:32:28.360 Like that's pretty hot. Yeah, good, Like congratulations, bro, Yeah 0:32:28.400 --> 0:32:33.160 they're that's pretty good. What is it about older women? Yeah, 0:32:33.200 --> 0:32:35.880 they just they they know more than we do, Not 0:32:36.000 --> 0:32:37.760 that younger women don't know more than we do, but 0:32:37.840 --> 0:32:43.400 that like there's more experienced I guess. Yeah, potentially a 0:32:43.400 --> 0:32:46.360 certain level of class is associated with an older woman. 0:32:46.400 --> 0:32:48.440 You know, like you think she probably drinks champagne out 0:32:48.480 --> 0:32:50.520 of a stem glass, like a long stem glass every 0:32:50.560 --> 0:32:51.120 single night. 0:32:51.160 --> 0:32:53.600 So you're just building them up as something that, yeah, she. 0:32:53.760 --> 0:32:56.560 Only wears like black pencil dresses. 0:32:56.480 --> 0:32:58.440 So fully missus Robinson. 0:32:58.200 --> 0:32:59.960 Heels full missus Robins. 0:33:00.720 --> 0:33:02.880 Like I think guys in their early twenties, and I 0:33:02.920 --> 0:33:05.960 could speak upon myself in this, like, yeah, women in 0:33:06.000 --> 0:33:10.320 their thirties when you're in your twenties, like early twenties, it's. 0:33:10.160 --> 0:33:14.000 Like they your sexy. 0:33:13.640 --> 0:33:16.320 And it's probably like a game too, Like can I 0:33:16.320 --> 0:33:17.680 Can I get one? You know? 0:33:18.000 --> 0:33:22.440 And now can I get too? How many can love it? 0:33:23.880 --> 0:33:26.320 Just trying to think of the right word. Can I? 0:33:26.320 --> 0:33:27.800 I don't know that better to like me? 0:33:30.000 --> 0:33:30.600 Could I get one? 0:33:30.680 --> 0:33:34.160 I remember? I remember when I was like twenty three, 0:33:34.400 --> 0:33:37.160 I met a girl who was in her early to 0:33:37.280 --> 0:33:40.320 mid thirties and she was just about to take the bar. 0:33:40.560 --> 0:33:42.720 She was a lawyer, and I thought it was the 0:33:42.840 --> 0:33:45.880 and she was very beautiful, but that was like secondary 0:33:45.920 --> 0:33:47.800 to her being in her thirties and passing the bar. 0:33:47.960 --> 0:33:49.840 I was like, I was like, this girl was so 0:33:49.960 --> 0:33:52.000 out of my league. And then you put on the 0:33:52.080 --> 0:33:54.680 age thing. And then like we dated for like six months, 0:33:54.880 --> 0:33:58.479 and I started to realize that we had nothing in common, 0:33:59.520 --> 0:34:02.840 and and like I think that looking back, like one 0:34:02.840 --> 0:34:04.360 of the main things that made me attracted to her 0:34:04.400 --> 0:34:05.960 was the fact that she was ten years older than me. 0:34:06.120 --> 0:34:06.320 You know. 0:34:06.440 --> 0:34:08.760 Well that's the thing too. I think this will naturally 0:34:08.800 --> 0:34:11.799 play out if he is a mature twenty two year old, 0:34:12.680 --> 0:34:14.759 maybe the last if he's not like he's gonna be 0:34:14.800 --> 0:34:16.960 up partying, living his life. He just turned twenty one, 0:34:17.080 --> 0:34:19.400 Like it's gonna fizzle out pretty quickly. 0:34:19.480 --> 0:34:21.560 I agree, So let's go back to giving Anonymous advice, 0:34:21.600 --> 0:34:22.800 because I guess we kind of got away from that. 0:34:22.840 --> 0:34:25.240 I agree with what you're saying. I think that Anonymous 0:34:25.239 --> 0:34:28.160 should let her brother play it out because odds are 0:34:28.200 --> 0:34:31.480 it's gonna fizzle. And it's not like it's a phase, 0:34:31.560 --> 0:34:33.360 but it's it's just gonna be something that passes and 0:34:33.440 --> 0:34:34.279 eventually he'll move on. 0:34:34.360 --> 0:34:36.880 Son't just help him grow up a bit, and it probably. 0:34:36.600 --> 0:34:37.200 Will be a good thing. 0:34:37.520 --> 0:34:37.719 Hmm. 0:34:37.800 --> 0:34:40.399 Yeah, And thirty two is not that old, Like it's 0:34:40.400 --> 0:34:41.080 not like this is like. 0:34:41.040 --> 0:34:42.719 A coming from a thirty two year old. 0:34:42.920 --> 0:34:45.239 Two year old, Yeah, a whole life. You got a 0:34:45.239 --> 0:34:47.600 whole three lifetimes ahead. Yet thirty two years old and 0:34:47.640 --> 0:34:49.359 I feel younger than ever. That's not true. I still 0:34:49.360 --> 0:34:52.560 feel pretty old. But yeah, thirty two is not that old. 0:34:52.840 --> 0:34:56.200 Like I'm trying to imagine dating in twenty two, Like, 0:34:56.200 --> 0:34:59.280 if you were twenty two, that'd probably be weird for. 0:34:59.160 --> 0:35:01.959 Me, cool for you in the prime of my party 0:35:02.000 --> 0:35:03.400 phase in twenty two, maybe. 0:35:03.239 --> 0:35:05.160 Yes, maybe I wouldn't be interested dating that. 0:35:06.640 --> 0:35:09.640 Yeah, Anonymous, my advice would be, don't worry about your brother. 0:35:09.680 --> 0:35:10.439 He's going to be fine. 0:35:10.480 --> 0:35:13.000 I'd be more worried about the woman in this situation, 0:35:13.280 --> 0:35:15.240 like she's the one thirty two dating in early twenties. 0:35:15.280 --> 0:35:17.359 It's like, oh, you have some decisions to make because 0:35:17.760 --> 0:35:20.480 you know if you want kids or start family. You 0:35:20.520 --> 0:35:22.640 know kind of what stage of life you are, And like, 0:35:23.280 --> 0:35:25.680 let's see how mature this guy is, you know, because 0:35:25.840 --> 0:35:27.520 in a couple of years he could be like, I'm 0:35:27.560 --> 0:35:29.440 still in my mid twenties, Like kind I want. 0:35:29.280 --> 0:35:31.920 To just explore. According to the National Institutes of Health, 0:35:32.000 --> 0:35:34.759 the brain finishes developing and maturing in the mid to 0:35:34.880 --> 0:35:37.840 late twenties. The part of the brain behind the forehead, 0:35:37.840 --> 0:35:39.960 called the prefensive cortex is one of the last parts 0:35:39.960 --> 0:35:43.719 to mature. This area is responsible for skills like planning, prioritizing, 0:35:43.760 --> 0:35:48.239 and making good decisions. Oh shoot, I don't have quortex. 0:35:49.080 --> 0:35:51.319 You're a late bloomer, bro. I don't think I have 0:35:51.400 --> 0:35:56.000 one of those prefrontal core texes. All right, let's get 0:35:56.000 --> 0:35:59.320 to Jackie's email before we wrap up. What's your opinion 0:35:59.360 --> 0:36:02.920 on having your owner's location and phone password. My boyfriend 0:36:02.920 --> 0:36:05.040 thinks I'm crazy for want and to share locations with 0:36:05.080 --> 0:36:08.239 one another, but I feel like that's pretty standard in relationships. 0:36:08.239 --> 0:36:11.680 I also mentioned sharing our phone passwords, and he immediately 0:36:11.840 --> 0:36:14.200 got defensive. Is this a red flag that he's hiding 0:36:14.239 --> 0:36:16.520 something from me? We've been dating for a year, so 0:36:16.560 --> 0:36:18.640 I don't think this is a big ask. What do 0:36:18.719 --> 0:36:21.600 you guys think? Red flag? Huge, red flag, red flag, 0:36:21.719 --> 0:36:27.640 red flags float through the red flag raised the red flags. 0:36:28.000 --> 0:36:33.160 Yeah, he sounds like he's hiding something from you. And 0:36:33.200 --> 0:36:35.919 I get wanting some privacy and you know, some things 0:36:35.920 --> 0:36:39.120 to yourself. But if you've been dating for a year, 0:36:39.200 --> 0:36:41.439 you should you should know where it is. You should, 0:36:41.719 --> 0:36:43.560 I don't know, you should have access to those things. 0:36:43.840 --> 0:36:46.880 Did give me his location two weeks in? 0:36:47.680 --> 0:36:49.799 Two weeks in? Yeah, yeah, but that was more of 0:36:49.840 --> 0:36:51.800 like a hey, if i'm dad, here's where my body. 0:36:52.000 --> 0:36:53.239 Yeah, it's different thing. 0:36:54.080 --> 0:36:56.759 It's but that that's like I share my location with 0:36:56.800 --> 0:37:02.200 Ashley because it's like, hey, yeah, God forbid something happens. 0:37:02.280 --> 0:37:03.000 At least we know. 0:37:03.640 --> 0:37:06.000 Plus it's always nice because you share your location on 0:37:06.000 --> 0:37:07.640 your phone. So there's been a lot of times from 0:37:07.680 --> 0:37:10.560 like where's my phone? So I just go on Ashley's 0:37:10.560 --> 0:37:12.000 phone and find my friends and then we can like 0:37:12.040 --> 0:37:14.000 zoom in exactly where my phone is. They're like, all right, 0:37:14.000 --> 0:37:18.879 well it's somewhere in this house. But uh yeah, yeah, 0:37:19.239 --> 0:37:20.560 come on, share the location, bro. 0:37:20.640 --> 0:37:22.160 What are you doing? What do you where are you 0:37:22.239 --> 0:37:24.799 going that you're hiding. I used to be many years ago, 0:37:24.920 --> 0:37:26.280 being like, oh, I don't want to share my location, 0:37:26.360 --> 0:37:28.920 like I want some independence, And then I realized it 0:37:28.960 --> 0:37:32.640 has nothing to do with my my dependency or my independence, 0:37:33.040 --> 0:37:34.959 like I can still go wherever I want, and she'll 0:37:35.000 --> 0:37:36.319 just call them be like where are you, Like, oh, 0:37:36.360 --> 0:37:39.480 I'm here, never hiding anything, unless it's like planning a 0:37:39.520 --> 0:37:41.840 birthday or something. But then she's only ruining it for 0:37:41.880 --> 0:37:44.959 herself anyway, if she's tracking myself, so that's on her. Yeah. 0:37:45.000 --> 0:37:48.000 I get annoyed when nowadays, like when I have a 0:37:48.000 --> 0:37:50.520 friend who I share my location with and they don't 0:37:50.520 --> 0:37:54.479 share it with me back cause I just I don't 0:37:54.600 --> 0:37:56.600 need to know. But I just sometimes I'll jump on 0:37:56.600 --> 0:37:58.239 the map and I'll just see where everyone's at. I'll 0:37:58.280 --> 0:37:59.439 just like see where you guys are. 0:38:00.080 --> 0:38:02.399 My friend Ali texted me and she was like, Hey, 0:38:02.440 --> 0:38:04.120 your location's been off for a few days. Can you 0:38:04.200 --> 0:38:05.759 turn it background. I'm a little worried about you. 0:38:05.920 --> 0:38:08.520 Yeah, that's just all the look like, you know, you're bored. 0:38:08.600 --> 0:38:10.640 You see what friends are in what states. Oh, look, 0:38:10.760 --> 0:38:13.640 Chad's in Europe right now. That's awesome. That's just it's 0:38:13.640 --> 0:38:15.040 just a fun thing to do every once in a while. 0:38:15.120 --> 0:38:18.360 I will say, though, the location sharing thing bit me 0:38:18.400 --> 0:38:21.279 in the butt. Yesterday I had some bet slips to 0:38:21.280 --> 0:38:23.719 go cash from Red Rock Casino down the street from 0:38:23.719 --> 0:38:26.759 our house. I bet Bronco's money line last week and 0:38:27.640 --> 0:38:31.000 nice an over parlay that hit. So I made like 0:38:31.000 --> 0:38:33.000 a couple of dollars and I had to go cash 0:38:33.000 --> 0:38:34.880 then today cause I would have forgotten. I would have 0:38:34.960 --> 0:38:37.920 forgotten them and lost them. And I go to the 0:38:37.960 --> 0:38:40.040 casino and I said like, hey, you know what, I'm here, 0:38:40.120 --> 0:38:41.600 might as well just sit down and play blackjack for 0:38:41.640 --> 0:38:43.239 like twenty minutes. So I did that, came home and 0:38:43.320 --> 0:38:46.880 Kaitlyn said what were you doing? And I was like, oh, 0:38:46.960 --> 0:38:48.680 I just had to run some arions real quick. And 0:38:48.719 --> 0:38:51.840 she goes, why were you at the casino. I was 0:38:51.920 --> 0:38:53.960 like no, oh, no, no, I had to like do something. 0:38:54.000 --> 0:38:58.319 I was just cashing a bill. She's like, okay, well 0:38:58.320 --> 0:38:59.120 you were at the casino. 0:38:59.239 --> 0:39:01.160 It was gone for like five hours. I'm like, where 0:39:01.239 --> 0:39:01.360 is he? 0:39:02.520 --> 0:39:04.440 Ten errands I had to run? He just happened to 0:39:04.440 --> 0:39:06.120 look at the map at the time that I was 0:39:06.160 --> 0:39:10.840 at the casino. Weird and yeah, what a degenerate gambler. 0:39:11.920 --> 0:39:14.920 He was at the casino for ten hours no on 0:39:14.960 --> 0:39:16.840 a Monday, at two o'clock in the after. It was 0:39:16.920 --> 0:39:19.160 one of many stops along the way, and it was 0:39:19.200 --> 0:39:20.920 the one I said for last, because I knew it 0:39:20.920 --> 0:39:22.080 was the only one that I was actually going to 0:39:22.200 --> 0:39:23.960 kind of enjoy by going to the blackjack table for 0:39:24.000 --> 0:39:26.000 twenty minutes, which I won. By the way, I won 0:39:26.080 --> 0:39:28.560 at the blackjack table, Thank you very much. I miss 0:39:28.600 --> 0:39:30.640 playing blackjack. And then I come home and I'm getting 0:39:30.640 --> 0:39:31.560 it from all angles. 0:39:31.680 --> 0:39:34.200 All angles, I asked you, I's. 0:39:33.920 --> 0:39:35.640 Biting me, You're yelling at me. 0:39:36.600 --> 0:39:38.280 Oh my gosh, yelling. 0:39:39.040 --> 0:39:43.239 Yeah. So back to the location thing, I personally think 0:39:43.640 --> 0:39:45.799 locations should be shared if it's something that. 0:39:45.719 --> 0:39:47.920 You gets what he just said. 0:39:47.920 --> 0:39:50.480 Even through that, even with all that behind me, through 0:39:50.520 --> 0:39:53.759 thick and thin, I'll share my location. I'll just turn 0:39:53.800 --> 0:39:55.120 it off if I go to the casino again at 0:39:55.120 --> 0:39:58.480 any point. But Kivin also was on my passwords. I 0:39:58.520 --> 0:40:00.279 gave that up to her pretty early. But I'll tell 0:40:00.320 --> 0:40:02.560 you what, Like if I was back in my mid twenties, 0:40:02.600 --> 0:40:04.720 and I was like pulling the farious stuff like talking 0:40:04.719 --> 0:40:07.400 to other girls or being an a egypt when I 0:40:07.440 --> 0:40:10.439 got drunk and doing stupid stuff like that. I would 0:40:10.520 --> 0:40:13.640 also be hesitant to share my location, let my girlfriend 0:40:13.719 --> 0:40:16.359 know the passwords to my phone, because I'd be worried 0:40:16.360 --> 0:40:18.000 about like her getting in my phone and seeing some 0:40:18.000 --> 0:40:21.320 of the nefarious stuff that I was up to. You know. Yeah, 0:40:22.160 --> 0:40:25.200 so it's definitely nefarious stuff. That's what our conclusion is. 0:40:25.200 --> 0:40:27.560 Sorry to put that in your head, yeah, Jackie, but 0:40:27.800 --> 0:40:30.560 hopefully it's not. But I would also I'd keep pushing 0:40:30.600 --> 0:40:33.560 about the sharing location, especially sharing location. 0:40:33.400 --> 0:40:35.400 Like that's like the simplest fun Yeah. 0:40:35.320 --> 0:40:38.080 The simplest one. Turn your location on, bro, Yeah, and 0:40:38.120 --> 0:40:40.080 like what is she going to find? I mean, if 0:40:40.120 --> 0:40:42.480 you are doing crappy things, she's gonna find crappy stuff. 0:40:42.520 --> 0:40:44.520 But if Kay linked at my phone, she would just 0:40:44.520 --> 0:40:49.200 see like woodworking and fantasy football and that's about it. Raveting, yeah, 0:40:49.239 --> 0:40:52.400 which we're playing this week? Bro? Are we playing this week? Yeah? 0:40:52.600 --> 0:40:55.560 Spotty WiFi. I saw that and I was like, oh, 0:40:55.719 --> 0:40:58.520 that's I need this win, bro. That's a little bit 0:40:58.560 --> 0:41:00.160 of a losing streak. Way we need to make a 0:41:00.320 --> 0:41:03.400 hot chup time machine. I know. Well, think about what 0:41:03.480 --> 0:41:05.040 you want to make the bet, text me and then 0:41:05.040 --> 0:41:08.120 we'll announce it less next week because unfortunately I got 0:41:08.120 --> 0:41:10.440 to go get a freaking root canal. Oh yeah, get rooted, 0:41:10.840 --> 0:41:13.080 Get rooted, all right? Man, Well, hey, good luck, you're rooted. 0:41:13.120 --> 0:41:15.360 Good luck. Send us a picture so you know you 0:41:15.400 --> 0:41:18.160 made it out of your surgery safely. Have fun at 0:41:18.160 --> 0:41:22.359 Halloween tonight. Tell Dawson thank you. Yeah, I'll be fun. 0:41:22.400 --> 0:41:24.440 I'm excited to see Dawson. Weather's nice over here too. 0:41:24.520 --> 0:41:26.760 So it's been crappy the past few days. But today's 0:41:27.080 --> 0:41:29.000 sun's out, it's a little cold. It's like perfect Halloween. 0:41:29.080 --> 0:41:31.640 That's a little hot apple cider with a little cinnamon whiskey. 0:41:32.160 --> 0:41:34.080 Oh don't get too drunk though, Okay, don't be that 0:41:34.080 --> 0:41:36.920 guy this Halloween, dud. I have four SIPs of alcohol now, 0:41:36.960 --> 0:41:39.360 and I'm like, I'm good. I'll have a hot chocolate 0:41:40.400 --> 0:41:42.120 all right, man, have a great deal. 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