1 00:00:02,040 --> 00:00:06,840 Speaker 1: With Alexia Napola and Marisa Patton, an iHeartRadio podcast. 2 00:00:07,120 --> 00:00:08,479 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, look at you. 3 00:00:10,680 --> 00:00:11,879 Speaker 3: How are you, my friend? 4 00:00:12,760 --> 00:00:13,560 Speaker 2: I'm really good? 5 00:00:17,040 --> 00:00:19,599 Speaker 3: Thank you. I have an event after this, so I 6 00:00:19,640 --> 00:00:21,800 Speaker 3: wanted to do Mike Glam before talking to you. 7 00:00:22,239 --> 00:00:24,560 Speaker 2: Are you gonna go hell raised in the streets of Miami? 8 00:00:25,160 --> 00:00:26,360 Speaker 3: Oh no, not really. 9 00:00:26,480 --> 00:00:28,440 Speaker 2: Well that sounds boring. 10 00:00:28,920 --> 00:00:31,120 Speaker 3: I got some places to go, some things to do. 11 00:00:31,600 --> 00:00:35,800 Speaker 3: But before we talk about that, I feel like we 12 00:00:35,840 --> 00:00:37,040 Speaker 3: need to talk about Bravo Kon. 13 00:00:37,320 --> 00:00:40,080 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, did you like Las Vegas. 14 00:00:40,280 --> 00:00:42,680 Speaker 3: I thought the whole experience at Bravo Con in Vegas 15 00:00:42,880 --> 00:00:45,559 Speaker 3: was amazing and spectacular. It was a great city, so 16 00:00:45,680 --> 00:00:49,400 Speaker 3: thank you Vegas for hosting us. And I just think 17 00:00:49,440 --> 00:00:51,400 Speaker 3: it was like so much fun. I felt like the 18 00:00:51,560 --> 00:00:56,600 Speaker 3: energy this year was a lot happier and everyone was 19 00:00:56,640 --> 00:00:59,160 Speaker 3: like nice, Everybody was happy to be there, everybody wanted 20 00:00:59,200 --> 00:01:01,400 Speaker 3: to have fun. I think Vegas is a great city 21 00:01:01,400 --> 00:01:02,960 Speaker 3: to host it. So it was New York, and I 22 00:01:02,960 --> 00:01:06,560 Speaker 3: think maybe even Miami would be like really amazing. So 23 00:01:06,880 --> 00:01:08,200 Speaker 3: I just think it's a fun event. 24 00:01:08,360 --> 00:01:08,720 Speaker 2: Mm hmm. 25 00:01:09,000 --> 00:01:10,520 Speaker 1: If it was in Miami, we didn't have to get 26 00:01:10,520 --> 00:01:12,280 Speaker 1: on a plane and we had our great Glam that 27 00:01:12,319 --> 00:01:14,000 Speaker 1: would be ideal for me. 28 00:01:14,400 --> 00:01:16,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, that definitely would be convenient. And I think that 29 00:01:16,840 --> 00:01:18,840 Speaker 3: all of our fans would love to come to Miami. 30 00:01:18,880 --> 00:01:20,600 Speaker 3: Like who doesn't want to come to Miami, right. 31 00:01:20,560 --> 00:01:22,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, like nobody does not want to come to Miami, 32 00:01:23,000 --> 00:01:24,440 Speaker 1: does not not want to come to Miami. 33 00:01:24,480 --> 00:01:26,919 Speaker 3: Well, speaking of fans, I want to give a shout 34 00:01:26,920 --> 00:01:29,679 Speaker 3: out to all the Latinos that were Bravo con I 35 00:01:29,800 --> 00:01:31,199 Speaker 3: was so impressed this year. 36 00:01:31,400 --> 00:01:32,520 Speaker 2: It was overwhelming. 37 00:01:32,760 --> 00:01:35,919 Speaker 3: It was so nice to see so many Spanish speaking people, 38 00:01:36,040 --> 00:01:39,240 Speaker 3: you know, watching us on Bravo and watching Miami, and 39 00:01:39,440 --> 00:01:41,600 Speaker 3: I thank you for your love and support. It was 40 00:01:41,720 --> 00:01:44,080 Speaker 3: so happy to see that. And like so many fans 41 00:01:44,120 --> 00:01:49,000 Speaker 3: also of iPort Forward, we had the T shirts. Yes, 42 00:01:49,080 --> 00:01:51,880 Speaker 3: I actually posted on my instagram, So whoever, I didn't 43 00:01:51,880 --> 00:01:53,840 Speaker 3: get your names, but you can go to my instagram 44 00:01:53,840 --> 00:01:56,320 Speaker 3: and you can see the picture you took with Marathol 45 00:01:56,400 --> 00:01:59,800 Speaker 3: and I on my Instagram wearing your iple forward T shirts. 46 00:01:59,840 --> 00:02:02,160 Speaker 3: We actually have to work on. We need some merch, 47 00:02:02,240 --> 00:02:04,000 Speaker 3: we need some words for I put forward. 48 00:02:04,800 --> 00:02:09,880 Speaker 1: Listen, my cocky shirts flew out like hotcakes. People were 49 00:02:09,960 --> 00:02:12,760 Speaker 1: yelling at me that they were disco snacks and everybody 50 00:02:12,760 --> 00:02:15,240 Speaker 1: else was saying, I pulled forward. We knew that the 51 00:02:15,280 --> 00:02:17,240 Speaker 1: few things that came out of our mouth would become 52 00:02:17,280 --> 00:02:18,040 Speaker 1: too iconic. 53 00:02:20,200 --> 00:02:21,400 Speaker 2: It's like such a thing. 54 00:02:21,240 --> 00:02:23,760 Speaker 3: And people just like to see us having fun. And 55 00:02:23,800 --> 00:02:25,799 Speaker 3: I believe you know, you do bring out the fun 56 00:02:25,880 --> 00:02:29,320 Speaker 3: in me and you make me laugh. So yeah, so 57 00:02:29,360 --> 00:02:31,639 Speaker 3: we had. We had a lot of fun a brabo con. 58 00:02:31,800 --> 00:02:34,320 Speaker 1: So our feet aside, my feet were so sore, like 59 00:02:34,360 --> 00:02:36,400 Speaker 1: that was the downfall of the whole thing. 60 00:02:36,600 --> 00:02:40,680 Speaker 3: Everything was great, but my feet, like I could for us, 61 00:02:41,960 --> 00:02:43,160 Speaker 3: I took off my heels. 62 00:02:43,600 --> 00:02:46,280 Speaker 1: When here's the problem when you put on a chunk leta. 63 00:02:46,639 --> 00:02:48,880 Speaker 1: So when you pull your foot out of a tiny 64 00:02:49,280 --> 00:02:52,680 Speaker 1: compressed space like pointy pumps, and then you let them 65 00:02:52,760 --> 00:02:56,040 Speaker 1: stretch out in a chunk leta, they get really big 66 00:02:56,080 --> 00:02:59,280 Speaker 1: like friends, and then you can't shove it back in 67 00:02:59,320 --> 00:02:59,840 Speaker 1: your shoe. 68 00:03:00,200 --> 00:03:05,440 Speaker 3: So then I've seen your little cute feet, bro like 69 00:03:05,520 --> 00:03:09,040 Speaker 3: that feels anywhere. That doesn't even get swollen, Trust me, 70 00:03:09,200 --> 00:03:11,560 Speaker 3: got swollen. I saw it that last day, did Yeah, 71 00:03:11,600 --> 00:03:16,000 Speaker 3: the last day she was not fitting Okay, Cinderella. Well, 72 00:03:16,040 --> 00:03:19,640 Speaker 3: first of all, I want to say a special thank 73 00:03:19,680 --> 00:03:24,160 Speaker 3: you to our colleagues Tamra and Teddy for being such 74 00:03:24,280 --> 00:03:29,120 Speaker 3: great host, for being so personable and so much fun, 75 00:03:29,280 --> 00:03:32,119 Speaker 3: so sweet. You know, I'm so happy that we got 76 00:03:32,120 --> 00:03:34,320 Speaker 3: to spend a little time with them. And we know 77 00:03:34,440 --> 00:03:37,280 Speaker 3: a lot of people actually discovered that or heard about 78 00:03:37,280 --> 00:03:39,560 Speaker 3: a lot of people not liking Teddy. I have a 79 00:03:39,600 --> 00:03:42,920 Speaker 3: different opinion. So I thought she was She was very nice, 80 00:03:42,920 --> 00:03:45,480 Speaker 3: She was very personable and you know that like that's 81 00:03:45,480 --> 00:03:47,720 Speaker 3: her job and she's really good at what she does. 82 00:03:48,200 --> 00:03:52,440 Speaker 3: And Tamra was just incredible. Honestly, I feel like I 83 00:03:52,440 --> 00:03:54,760 Speaker 3: have like a new best friend. She's very friendly, she 84 00:03:54,880 --> 00:03:59,120 Speaker 3: makes you feel very comfortable and and anyways, I was 85 00:03:59,120 --> 00:04:01,040 Speaker 3: like really surprised by both of them. And next year, 86 00:04:01,080 --> 00:04:04,120 Speaker 3: you and I have to have our Eyebrow Followers podcast. 87 00:04:04,360 --> 00:04:08,080 Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, well we can relieve them when they're on 88 00:04:08,120 --> 00:04:09,880 Speaker 3: their breaks. Then we do it for far Ward because 89 00:04:09,880 --> 00:04:13,440 Speaker 3: they're not in there all the time doing their podcast. Well, 90 00:04:13,560 --> 00:04:15,880 Speaker 3: Teddy and I had a little bit of a different experience. 91 00:04:16,760 --> 00:04:19,719 Speaker 3: We started a little rocky. I think that we were 92 00:04:20,040 --> 00:04:23,760 Speaker 3: crossing vibes. I feel like she has that experience with 93 00:04:23,800 --> 00:04:26,400 Speaker 3: a lot of people. Well, how the people can That's 94 00:04:26,400 --> 00:04:28,560 Speaker 3: what I heard, and I'm probably like I never knew 95 00:04:28,560 --> 00:04:31,080 Speaker 3: that actually when she was on Beverly Hills. She was 96 00:04:31,120 --> 00:04:32,920 Speaker 3: always one of the ones I liked because you know, 97 00:04:32,960 --> 00:04:34,640 Speaker 3: I really don't watch the show. I just like who 98 00:04:34,720 --> 00:04:37,719 Speaker 3: she was, right, And I followed her on Instagram, and 99 00:04:38,080 --> 00:04:40,920 Speaker 3: I liked her story. I liked her journey. But you know, 100 00:04:41,040 --> 00:04:44,240 Speaker 3: apparently a lot of people didn't have that same experience 101 00:04:44,240 --> 00:04:47,000 Speaker 3: with her as you as your saying now. 102 00:04:47,200 --> 00:04:48,160 Speaker 2: So so. 103 00:04:50,400 --> 00:04:52,960 Speaker 1: I mean over you know, the past couple of years 104 00:04:52,960 --> 00:04:55,000 Speaker 1: that we've been on I didn't really know her, and 105 00:04:55,040 --> 00:04:56,760 Speaker 1: she liked to beat up on me on the pod. 106 00:04:56,839 --> 00:04:59,040 Speaker 1: And that's okay, that's worth. That's her job, and that's 107 00:04:59,040 --> 00:05:01,920 Speaker 1: what she does. What you want, Yeah, right, that's what 108 00:05:01,960 --> 00:05:06,760 Speaker 1: she does. So we finally meet in person, and you know, 109 00:05:07,000 --> 00:05:09,320 Speaker 1: I'm feeding off her vibe, and her vibe is kind 110 00:05:09,360 --> 00:05:12,520 Speaker 1: of like, you know, not that friendly little aloof so 111 00:05:12,600 --> 00:05:15,400 Speaker 1: I'm mirroring that vibe, you know, and Tom's very happy 112 00:05:15,440 --> 00:05:18,919 Speaker 1: and huggy, and so I'm mirroring that vibe. So I 113 00:05:18,920 --> 00:05:20,919 Speaker 1: guess she thought that I didn't like her, and of 114 00:05:20,960 --> 00:05:25,520 Speaker 1: course I don't dislike her at all, absolutely. So I 115 00:05:25,560 --> 00:05:27,400 Speaker 1: wrote her and I said, hey, man, I think our 116 00:05:27,440 --> 00:05:29,720 Speaker 1: wires are getting crossed here because I have nothing against you, 117 00:05:29,720 --> 00:05:31,200 Speaker 1: and she said to me, you know, I'm a little 118 00:05:31,200 --> 00:05:34,080 Speaker 1: bit of an introvert, so you know, you know, maybe 119 00:05:34,200 --> 00:05:36,080 Speaker 1: I should can take a little blame for that. So 120 00:05:36,640 --> 00:05:38,760 Speaker 1: you know, I said, I was just mirroring your vibe. 121 00:05:38,760 --> 00:05:40,080 Speaker 1: But I you know, I like, you know, I was 122 00:05:40,080 --> 00:05:42,279 Speaker 1: excited to go to your party and to hang out, 123 00:05:42,360 --> 00:05:44,760 Speaker 1: you know, and connect like a girl because I'm a 124 00:05:44,800 --> 00:05:47,760 Speaker 1: girl's girl. And I think that's probably what a lot 125 00:05:47,800 --> 00:05:49,000 Speaker 1: of other people are feeling. 126 00:05:49,080 --> 00:05:51,000 Speaker 3: You're just scared. You didn't want her to talk shit 127 00:05:51,040 --> 00:05:51,480 Speaker 3: about you. 128 00:05:52,080 --> 00:05:53,560 Speaker 2: She already did. It's too lay. 129 00:05:55,640 --> 00:05:58,080 Speaker 3: So well, I didn't get that vibe from her. She 130 00:05:58,240 --> 00:06:00,880 Speaker 3: was very nice and personal, unfriendly with me. She broke 131 00:06:00,920 --> 00:06:02,680 Speaker 3: the eyes. She told me she's it's seeing me. I 132 00:06:02,720 --> 00:06:05,599 Speaker 3: watch what happens live, and she congratulated me for doing that, 133 00:06:05,920 --> 00:06:07,680 Speaker 3: and you know it was for me. It was a 134 00:06:07,680 --> 00:06:10,680 Speaker 3: great experience with both of them, and I'm so proud 135 00:06:10,720 --> 00:06:14,559 Speaker 3: that they're on the same platform as us. Right, Well, that's. 136 00:06:14,000 --> 00:06:16,320 Speaker 1: Important that you know, we all were on the same 137 00:06:16,320 --> 00:06:19,040 Speaker 1: platform together, that we all meet and hang out and everything. 138 00:06:19,200 --> 00:06:21,360 Speaker 2: So anyway, we squashed that beef. 139 00:06:21,640 --> 00:06:25,599 Speaker 3: You hash that beef. I love squashed a beef with 140 00:06:25,760 --> 00:06:29,119 Speaker 3: Vicky Vicky and her were supposed to squash that beef 141 00:06:29,120 --> 00:06:29,719 Speaker 3: and they didn't. 142 00:06:30,320 --> 00:06:33,400 Speaker 2: Well that tbd on that. I don't want to touch that. 143 00:06:33,600 --> 00:06:35,480 Speaker 3: I like that too. I mean I like that too. 144 00:06:35,520 --> 00:06:37,560 Speaker 3: You don't always have to squash that beef. 145 00:06:38,240 --> 00:06:38,839 Speaker 2: Mm hmmm. 146 00:06:39,600 --> 00:06:43,640 Speaker 1: Right, Well, now we know she's an introvert, and perhaps 147 00:06:43,680 --> 00:06:45,640 Speaker 1: that's the vibe that people are getting and then they 148 00:06:45,640 --> 00:06:47,719 Speaker 1: think that, you know, she's rude or whatever. 149 00:06:47,720 --> 00:06:49,920 Speaker 3: It would that be? So would that be the Brabo 150 00:06:50,040 --> 00:06:54,560 Speaker 3: lab that was unpleasant towards you, a Brabo con or 151 00:06:54,600 --> 00:06:55,400 Speaker 3: did you didn't? 152 00:06:55,600 --> 00:06:57,479 Speaker 1: I know, I didn't think she was unpleasant. I just 153 00:06:57,560 --> 00:07:01,800 Speaker 1: kind of was, you know. It wasn't like fireworks, that's all. 154 00:07:01,920 --> 00:07:04,919 Speaker 1: And she took it like even worse. So no, no, 155 00:07:05,320 --> 00:07:07,599 Speaker 1: I didn't have an experience with anyone this year. 156 00:07:08,560 --> 00:07:10,720 Speaker 3: Right because I've seen her last year. You had a 157 00:07:10,720 --> 00:07:11,280 Speaker 3: few of those. 158 00:07:12,040 --> 00:07:17,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, well yeah, can you just ow yeah, yeah you did. 159 00:07:17,800 --> 00:07:21,840 Speaker 2: I think when I said yeah, I met yeah. 160 00:07:20,840 --> 00:07:22,920 Speaker 3: Oh, I thought you say I thought you were making no, 161 00:07:23,000 --> 00:07:25,760 Speaker 3: I said, yeah, I thought it was a cat. I 162 00:07:25,760 --> 00:07:27,880 Speaker 3: thought it was a cat making meals on it and 163 00:07:28,040 --> 00:07:31,200 Speaker 3: you were trying to saty. Can you just say see yes? 164 00:07:31,240 --> 00:07:31,600 Speaker 3: I did? 165 00:07:31,760 --> 00:07:33,520 Speaker 2: Uh huh, All right, we's moving on. 166 00:07:34,320 --> 00:07:37,960 Speaker 3: But bro, you're on a show with me, you have 167 00:07:38,040 --> 00:07:41,480 Speaker 3: to say speak your mind and say what you're really feeling. 168 00:07:42,160 --> 00:07:44,200 Speaker 2: I did I care five times. 169 00:07:44,440 --> 00:07:46,680 Speaker 3: Okay, but can you share who you didn't have such 170 00:07:46,680 --> 00:07:48,360 Speaker 3: a pleasant experience with last year? 171 00:07:50,040 --> 00:07:50,240 Speaker 2: Yeah? 172 00:07:50,320 --> 00:07:55,200 Speaker 1: With Kenya, Yeah, she's she's uh And at my Watch 173 00:07:55,240 --> 00:07:58,520 Speaker 1: what Happens Live, I noticed they edited out every morning. 174 00:07:58,880 --> 00:08:04,120 Speaker 3: Was not yeah you have to yeah, we're talking just 175 00:08:04,160 --> 00:08:06,000 Speaker 3: to watch what happens like was New York. 176 00:08:06,000 --> 00:08:08,520 Speaker 2: Anyway, everyone had a problem with her, and I thought, oh, okay, 177 00:08:08,680 --> 00:08:09,160 Speaker 2: this is not. 178 00:08:09,160 --> 00:08:10,920 Speaker 3: Just you see that's another one that I don't have 179 00:08:10,960 --> 00:08:13,440 Speaker 3: a problem with. She can you actually invited me to 180 00:08:13,440 --> 00:08:15,640 Speaker 3: go to the Usher concert with her, which I was 181 00:08:15,720 --> 00:08:19,880 Speaker 3: super bommed that I didn't get to go because I 182 00:08:19,960 --> 00:08:23,080 Speaker 3: was working at Ravo Con so it conflicted with the time. 183 00:08:23,120 --> 00:08:26,480 Speaker 3: But then I saw that Usher serenaded her. So I 184 00:08:26,480 --> 00:08:28,800 Speaker 3: guess I'm I guess I'm friendly, or I guess I 185 00:08:28,840 --> 00:08:32,000 Speaker 3: get along with like all the tough girls, Yeah, maybe yeah, 186 00:08:32,360 --> 00:08:35,439 Speaker 3: because you know, I see beyond I see beyond their toughness. 187 00:08:35,480 --> 00:08:37,320 Speaker 3: You know, I think that a lot of these girls 188 00:08:37,320 --> 00:08:39,480 Speaker 3: that are kind of tough on the outside, they're really 189 00:08:39,520 --> 00:08:41,720 Speaker 3: sweet and nice in the inside. And that's the part 190 00:08:41,760 --> 00:08:43,760 Speaker 3: that I know about them and I love about them. 191 00:08:43,800 --> 00:08:46,360 Speaker 2: Well, if somebody has to like them, I'm glad it's you. 192 00:08:46,440 --> 00:08:51,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, Okay, any highs and he lows a Bravo con just. 193 00:08:51,040 --> 00:08:53,520 Speaker 1: My sore feet. I was the low and seeing the 194 00:08:53,559 --> 00:08:55,600 Speaker 1: fans was the high pretty much. 195 00:08:55,679 --> 00:08:56,560 Speaker 2: And having. 196 00:08:59,240 --> 00:09:01,680 Speaker 3: I mean truthful are fans. I mean, this is why 197 00:09:01,679 --> 00:09:05,160 Speaker 3: we're back on Bravo because we have so much love 198 00:09:05,200 --> 00:09:07,840 Speaker 3: and support from all the fans that really follow our 199 00:09:07,920 --> 00:09:10,920 Speaker 3: journeys and follow the stories and follow the show and 200 00:09:11,040 --> 00:09:13,520 Speaker 3: are rooting for us. That to me, that was like 201 00:09:13,559 --> 00:09:17,840 Speaker 3: the biggest high definitely as well the fans and just 202 00:09:17,840 --> 00:09:20,160 Speaker 3: seeing everybody together, right, I mean a lot of times 203 00:09:20,240 --> 00:09:23,200 Speaker 3: I got on see these shows. So the fact that means, yes, 204 00:09:23,240 --> 00:09:25,240 Speaker 3: I know them from social media and I know about 205 00:09:25,240 --> 00:09:27,280 Speaker 3: their shows, but the fact that they're there and you 206 00:09:27,320 --> 00:09:29,680 Speaker 3: get to see some of these people that you see 207 00:09:29,720 --> 00:09:31,640 Speaker 3: on TV. You just get to see them and hang 208 00:09:31,679 --> 00:09:33,760 Speaker 3: out and talk and you get to know them a 209 00:09:33,800 --> 00:09:34,480 Speaker 3: little bit more. 210 00:09:35,240 --> 00:09:37,320 Speaker 1: What I really love is the people that I always 211 00:09:37,360 --> 00:09:39,560 Speaker 1: think are fighting because of what I've seen, and then 212 00:09:39,600 --> 00:09:42,199 Speaker 1: they're buddy buddy and kissing and taking photos together and 213 00:09:42,200 --> 00:09:44,840 Speaker 1: they're actually good friends, even though on TV it seems 214 00:09:44,880 --> 00:09:45,320 Speaker 1: like they're not. 215 00:09:46,080 --> 00:09:49,760 Speaker 3: They've already resolved you're probably wrong episode. Well, sometimes you'll 216 00:09:49,760 --> 00:09:51,880 Speaker 3: see that on one episode, right, like you're fighting one 217 00:09:51,920 --> 00:09:55,120 Speaker 3: episode and then then the episodes later you know they're 218 00:09:55,160 --> 00:09:58,200 Speaker 3: like best friends. Well so you're reading that press, I 219 00:09:58,400 --> 00:10:01,920 Speaker 3: was really happy to see and Whitney you know that 220 00:10:02,080 --> 00:10:05,120 Speaker 3: they've you know, come together and they're you know, friendly again. 221 00:10:05,160 --> 00:10:08,360 Speaker 3: And Lisa Barlow Yeah, so I was like, I'm very 222 00:10:08,360 --> 00:10:10,720 Speaker 3: happy to see that. You know this, That's what happens 223 00:10:10,760 --> 00:10:13,240 Speaker 3: with these shows. You know, one season, you know you 224 00:10:13,280 --> 00:10:16,880 Speaker 3: can be you know, enemies, and the other season you 225 00:10:16,920 --> 00:10:19,880 Speaker 3: know you could be friends. And that's the beauty of it. 226 00:10:19,920 --> 00:10:21,560 Speaker 3: You know, you want to see growth, right or. 227 00:10:21,559 --> 00:10:23,520 Speaker 2: When you're in the moment and you in your shows 228 00:10:23,559 --> 00:10:26,400 Speaker 2: filming and you're arguing, but you've resolved it. By the 229 00:10:26,480 --> 00:10:29,360 Speaker 2: time seven months later comes and then the airs and 230 00:10:29,400 --> 00:10:32,000 Speaker 2: then Bravo con comes, you've already resolved on those issues. 231 00:10:32,040 --> 00:10:34,959 Speaker 2: So that's you know, we're a little behind. So when 232 00:10:34,960 --> 00:10:37,800 Speaker 2: we see people together lovey dovey, and it's you know, 233 00:10:38,000 --> 00:10:39,600 Speaker 2: I like it, I love it. You know, I love 234 00:10:39,640 --> 00:10:40,280 Speaker 2: a resolution. 235 00:10:41,920 --> 00:10:44,520 Speaker 4: I love a solution. You love a resolution. I love 236 00:10:44,760 --> 00:10:56,160 Speaker 4: like a resolution. I've been reading a lot about you 237 00:10:56,200 --> 00:11:00,439 Speaker 4: and Melissa Gorga and this Louis Royes and Terre the thing, 238 00:11:01,640 --> 00:11:02,400 Speaker 4: what's going on? 239 00:11:02,480 --> 00:11:04,240 Speaker 2: Because you can tell the story. 240 00:11:04,520 --> 00:11:06,840 Speaker 3: First of all, it's like so stupid and dumb at 241 00:11:06,840 --> 00:11:11,679 Speaker 3: this point already. And it's something that apparently Melissa Gorga 242 00:11:11,840 --> 00:11:15,520 Speaker 3: started that rumor about Louis trying to date me before Teresa, 243 00:11:16,280 --> 00:11:21,120 Speaker 3: and that is not true. What happened was that obviously 244 00:11:21,520 --> 00:11:24,600 Speaker 3: Louie watches these shows, as do many men that don't 245 00:11:24,640 --> 00:11:26,200 Speaker 3: want to own it and say it. 246 00:11:26,120 --> 00:11:28,080 Speaker 2: So a lot of men, they never want to own it. 247 00:11:28,920 --> 00:11:30,720 Speaker 3: No, of course, not because it's supposed to be like, 248 00:11:30,800 --> 00:11:33,199 Speaker 3: you know, show for women, but a lot of men 249 00:11:33,240 --> 00:11:36,120 Speaker 3: do watch these shows as well. And he obviously knew 250 00:11:36,120 --> 00:11:39,640 Speaker 3: who I was. He had seen Miami, and if I 251 00:11:39,679 --> 00:11:43,120 Speaker 3: haven't mentioned, this is new information here. So Louie actually 252 00:11:43,160 --> 00:11:47,120 Speaker 3: watched Miami. Besides that, he liked our franchise and he 253 00:11:47,240 --> 00:11:51,640 Speaker 3: liked the show. He his sister was dating Frederick before 254 00:11:51,679 --> 00:11:55,120 Speaker 3: Frederick married Adriana. How about that for Gen? How about 255 00:11:55,120 --> 00:11:59,240 Speaker 3: that for Ja? How about that for I got uh huh? 256 00:11:59,400 --> 00:12:05,400 Speaker 3: So that sister way back. Louis's sister was Frederick's girlfriend 257 00:12:05,400 --> 00:12:06,200 Speaker 3: for three years. 258 00:12:06,559 --> 00:12:09,439 Speaker 1: But this was things are they got married, I mean 259 00:12:09,480 --> 00:12:11,680 Speaker 1: the real time, not the fake time on our show. 260 00:12:11,679 --> 00:12:14,000 Speaker 3: But they knows about them, say, because everything is fake 261 00:12:14,000 --> 00:12:15,800 Speaker 3: about her and everything is a lie. So you know, 262 00:12:15,840 --> 00:12:17,600 Speaker 3: we don't you know, we don't know which is real. 263 00:12:17,640 --> 00:12:20,000 Speaker 3: We're just fake. But supposedly she was married to Frederick, 264 00:12:20,760 --> 00:12:24,480 Speaker 3: so after louis sister dating him for three years. So 265 00:12:24,559 --> 00:12:27,080 Speaker 3: of course Louis knows Frederick. So he was watching the 266 00:12:27,080 --> 00:12:29,640 Speaker 3: show to see like Frederick and his new relationship with 267 00:12:29,840 --> 00:12:32,200 Speaker 3: you know, I Adrianna, and just watching the show in general, 268 00:12:32,800 --> 00:12:35,280 Speaker 3: and so of course he recognized me. We're in Barcelona. 269 00:12:35,440 --> 00:12:39,840 Speaker 3: I'm with Todd. We're walking down you know, Lacaye for Barcelona, 270 00:12:40,000 --> 00:12:42,440 Speaker 3: and he happened to be there. I don't even really 271 00:12:42,480 --> 00:12:45,200 Speaker 3: remember who he is with because you don't remember, you know, sometimes, 272 00:12:45,240 --> 00:12:47,320 Speaker 3: at least for me, I forget who I am and 273 00:12:47,360 --> 00:12:50,360 Speaker 3: I forget people know me. So I you know, I'm 274 00:12:50,360 --> 00:12:53,280 Speaker 3: always like in my especially when I'm traveling, I totally forget, 275 00:12:53,360 --> 00:12:55,520 Speaker 3: especially when I'm in Europe. You know. Here in the States, 276 00:12:55,720 --> 00:12:57,960 Speaker 3: I realized that a lot of people do watch these shows. 277 00:12:58,200 --> 00:12:59,959 Speaker 3: But when I'm in Europe then that's one of the 278 00:13:00,120 --> 00:13:01,920 Speaker 3: reasons where I really love to go is because I 279 00:13:01,960 --> 00:13:05,080 Speaker 3: feel that nobody knows us and nobody's you know, is 280 00:13:05,120 --> 00:13:07,040 Speaker 3: going to come up to me or whatever. But in 281 00:13:07,080 --> 00:13:09,439 Speaker 3: this case, he was walking. We're both staying at the 282 00:13:09,480 --> 00:13:12,520 Speaker 3: same hotel, at the w Hotel in Barcelona, and we 283 00:13:12,520 --> 00:13:14,720 Speaker 3: were walking towards the hotel and he noticed me. So 284 00:13:14,760 --> 00:13:18,959 Speaker 3: he was very nice, he was very friendly, and he said, hey, Alexia, how. 285 00:13:18,880 --> 00:13:20,680 Speaker 2: Long was this? 286 00:13:20,679 --> 00:13:20,719 Speaker 3: This? 287 00:13:21,000 --> 00:13:21,800 Speaker 2: How ago? 288 00:13:22,320 --> 00:13:25,520 Speaker 3: I'll tell you what year it was, two thousand seventeen 289 00:13:25,760 --> 00:13:29,160 Speaker 3: or twenty eighteen. I was. I was just dating Todd. 290 00:13:29,200 --> 00:13:31,360 Speaker 3: You know, here's my boyfriend, and we were on a 291 00:13:31,400 --> 00:13:35,800 Speaker 3: trip to Barcelona, were waving so many years ago, and 292 00:13:35,840 --> 00:13:38,200 Speaker 3: the fact that we're still talking about it today is stupid. 293 00:13:38,320 --> 00:13:40,600 Speaker 2: A So who brought up that the press knows? 294 00:13:40,720 --> 00:13:43,200 Speaker 3: Oh, probably Melissa because she did. You know, she wants 295 00:13:43,200 --> 00:13:45,760 Speaker 3: to keep on talking about it to make it a thing. 296 00:13:46,240 --> 00:13:50,240 Speaker 3: But there's no thing. As you see, Teresa, Louis Todd 297 00:13:50,360 --> 00:13:54,880 Speaker 3: and I are very good friends. And again, I you know, 298 00:13:55,400 --> 00:13:58,199 Speaker 3: think about it. You know, Louis was watching the show. 299 00:13:58,360 --> 00:14:01,280 Speaker 3: He has a son that's autistic, you know, he's seeing 300 00:14:01,360 --> 00:14:04,480 Speaker 3: my journey with Frankie having the accident and you know 301 00:14:04,559 --> 00:14:08,040 Speaker 3: what I'm going through, you know, as a mom with Frankie, 302 00:14:08,080 --> 00:14:10,559 Speaker 3: and he was watching. That was one of the things 303 00:14:10,600 --> 00:14:12,600 Speaker 3: he told me, like, I love that you're a great mom. 304 00:14:12,960 --> 00:14:14,880 Speaker 3: You know, I have a son that's autistic, and I 305 00:14:15,440 --> 00:14:17,960 Speaker 3: know how difficult it can get. So that's what the 306 00:14:18,000 --> 00:14:20,400 Speaker 3: conversation was about. He wasn't like trying to pick me up, 307 00:14:20,440 --> 00:14:23,640 Speaker 3: and I was like with Todd. So that happened, and 308 00:14:23,680 --> 00:14:27,880 Speaker 3: then you say, get started, Miami, tell me about rumors. 309 00:14:27,920 --> 00:14:30,280 Speaker 3: I mean, just like the one day Jianna's trying to 310 00:14:30,280 --> 00:14:34,040 Speaker 3: start about Todd and I in my marriage. Yeah, so anyways, 311 00:14:34,080 --> 00:14:38,440 Speaker 3: so yes, those are rumors, and so anyways that happens, 312 00:14:38,520 --> 00:14:40,600 Speaker 3: and then I think, I don't remember because like I 313 00:14:40,680 --> 00:14:42,760 Speaker 3: told you, you know, I never know if people know me, 314 00:14:42,880 --> 00:14:44,600 Speaker 3: like for me, like my real friends, which I have 315 00:14:44,640 --> 00:14:47,800 Speaker 3: a lot of friends, or they're a fan so and 316 00:14:47,880 --> 00:14:51,480 Speaker 3: I too. So I meet so many people and I 317 00:14:51,520 --> 00:14:53,840 Speaker 3: and I love people, so I'm an overshare and I 318 00:14:53,880 --> 00:14:56,880 Speaker 3: talk to everyone. I'm very friendly and when I and 319 00:14:56,920 --> 00:14:58,760 Speaker 3: that's what I do. So I never know. It's because 320 00:14:58,800 --> 00:15:01,000 Speaker 3: if you know me or you know my story. 321 00:15:01,000 --> 00:15:04,880 Speaker 2: Or the show before with your business my business. 322 00:15:05,200 --> 00:15:07,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean so, I mean I was someone before 323 00:15:07,800 --> 00:15:10,040 Speaker 3: the show, obviously not at a national level, but like 324 00:15:10,080 --> 00:15:12,840 Speaker 3: when I'm traveling, I usually think it's obviously because of 325 00:15:12,840 --> 00:15:16,680 Speaker 3: the show. But with that being said, when I saw Louis, 326 00:15:16,840 --> 00:15:19,400 Speaker 3: I wasn't on TV. Our show was not on TV 327 00:15:19,520 --> 00:15:22,960 Speaker 3: in twenty seventeen or twenty eighteen. Yes, of course he 328 00:15:23,040 --> 00:15:26,080 Speaker 3: knew that I had been on the show for seasons one, two, 329 00:15:26,120 --> 00:15:28,120 Speaker 3: and three, but my show was not on the air. 330 00:15:28,760 --> 00:15:31,440 Speaker 3: Fast forward. I don't know where else because I don't remember, 331 00:15:31,480 --> 00:15:34,240 Speaker 3: actually need to ask Todd. Todd said that we were 332 00:15:34,240 --> 00:15:37,080 Speaker 3: in another country or in another airport or something and 333 00:15:37,280 --> 00:15:39,520 Speaker 3: we saw each other again with Todd, you know, Todd, 334 00:15:39,560 --> 00:15:41,600 Speaker 3: me and him, and we just said like hello, well, 335 00:15:41,720 --> 00:15:43,320 Speaker 3: you know what, we go to all the good places, 336 00:15:43,360 --> 00:15:47,120 Speaker 3: I mean, everybody goes to, like Mikono's in Barcelona, Paris, 337 00:15:47,800 --> 00:15:51,120 Speaker 3: it's the land you know, You're right, Saint Trope. I mean, 338 00:15:51,160 --> 00:15:53,000 Speaker 3: those are the places that we go to. So I 339 00:15:53,040 --> 00:15:57,160 Speaker 3: mean it's not unusual, you know, to see each other again. 340 00:15:57,640 --> 00:16:00,480 Speaker 3: But again, I was with Todd in that point. I 341 00:16:00,520 --> 00:16:02,560 Speaker 3: don't even think there was conversation involved. It was just 342 00:16:02,600 --> 00:16:04,720 Speaker 3: like hi, bye, good to see you, whatever, and that's it. 343 00:16:06,320 --> 00:16:09,720 Speaker 3: What does that have to do with him meeting Teresa? 344 00:16:10,240 --> 00:16:12,920 Speaker 3: He lives in Jersey. Of course everybody knows who Teresa 345 00:16:13,000 --> 00:16:17,160 Speaker 3: is as well. And think about him, Yami, Like everybody 346 00:16:17,160 --> 00:16:19,160 Speaker 3: knows who we are, so we can always say that 347 00:16:19,200 --> 00:16:21,640 Speaker 3: the guy is trying to date us because we're on 348 00:16:21,640 --> 00:16:24,120 Speaker 3: a TV show. I mean, is that what she's trying 349 00:16:24,120 --> 00:16:26,320 Speaker 3: to say? That you know that the guys are trying 350 00:16:26,400 --> 00:16:28,760 Speaker 3: you know that Louis was trying to date Teresa or 351 00:16:28,800 --> 00:16:31,280 Speaker 3: me because we're on a TV show. I mean it's 352 00:16:31,400 --> 00:16:33,840 Speaker 3: just like the rich guy that has money and he 353 00:16:33,920 --> 00:16:35,920 Speaker 3: thinks the girl's trying to date him because he has 354 00:16:35,960 --> 00:16:38,040 Speaker 3: money or does he really like her for him? You know? 355 00:16:38,120 --> 00:16:40,360 Speaker 3: So it's the same thing. Like I totally understand that 356 00:16:40,440 --> 00:16:43,400 Speaker 3: he can't fall in love with Teresa because she's amazing. 357 00:16:43,480 --> 00:16:45,880 Speaker 3: She's beautiful, she's a great mom, she's a great wife, 358 00:16:45,880 --> 00:16:48,120 Speaker 3: she's a good friend. She just so many good qualities. 359 00:16:48,560 --> 00:16:51,040 Speaker 3: So and on top of that, she's famous, so you know, 360 00:16:51,280 --> 00:16:53,840 Speaker 3: make who knows? Like that's what I'm saying. Who am 361 00:16:53,880 --> 00:16:54,800 Speaker 3: I to say anything? 362 00:16:55,000 --> 00:16:57,000 Speaker 2: Just have to trust she just has to trust everybody 363 00:16:57,000 --> 00:16:57,640 Speaker 2: has to just trust. 364 00:16:57,720 --> 00:17:00,400 Speaker 3: We can say that about everybody, right, Like Lisa da Jody. 365 00:17:00,480 --> 00:17:02,800 Speaker 3: Now does Jody really like Lisa for who she is? 366 00:17:02,920 --> 00:17:06,240 Speaker 3: Or is he dating her because he wants fame? You know? Marcus, 367 00:17:06,359 --> 00:17:08,840 Speaker 3: you know, Marcus with Larsa the same thing, you know 368 00:17:08,880 --> 00:17:11,800 Speaker 3: what I mean? Yeah, I mean, Marcus's father is famous, 369 00:17:11,840 --> 00:17:15,000 Speaker 3: but Marcus wasn't famous. So is Marcus dating Larca because 370 00:17:15,000 --> 00:17:17,159 Speaker 3: she's famous and wants to be on the show? You know? 371 00:17:17,320 --> 00:17:19,720 Speaker 3: I mean this is something that we're always going to 372 00:17:19,840 --> 00:17:24,520 Speaker 3: have to you know, we're always gonna have to deal with. 373 00:17:24,560 --> 00:17:26,840 Speaker 3: You know. Luckily, for me, when I met Todd, I 374 00:17:26,920 --> 00:17:30,080 Speaker 3: wasn't on TV, but he knew obviously, he knew who 375 00:17:30,080 --> 00:17:32,240 Speaker 3: I was, and all his friends made she was his mother, 376 00:17:32,600 --> 00:17:34,879 Speaker 3: my mother in law, I now, which is amazing, was 377 00:17:34,920 --> 00:17:35,560 Speaker 3: a huge. 378 00:17:35,480 --> 00:17:37,119 Speaker 2: She were a legend. 379 00:17:37,680 --> 00:17:40,760 Speaker 3: It was still a legend. So anyway, so she knew 380 00:17:40,800 --> 00:17:43,080 Speaker 3: about it. But you know what, I don't want to 381 00:17:43,080 --> 00:17:45,399 Speaker 3: think that Todd dated me or wanted to date me 382 00:17:45,520 --> 00:17:47,360 Speaker 3: just because I was on a TV show. I mean, 383 00:17:47,800 --> 00:17:49,560 Speaker 3: how pathetic is that? I mean, what kind of a 384 00:17:49,560 --> 00:17:52,320 Speaker 3: guy is going to date a woman, especially in Housewives? 385 00:17:52,440 --> 00:17:54,840 Speaker 3: If I was a guy yo goro, I would like 386 00:17:54,960 --> 00:17:57,400 Speaker 3: run okay, I would not be like, oh. 387 00:17:57,280 --> 00:18:02,720 Speaker 1: I want to do like that of course away from hello. 388 00:18:03,040 --> 00:18:05,920 Speaker 3: My husband now, Todd does not like it. So and 389 00:18:06,040 --> 00:18:08,040 Speaker 3: you know, I think he was excited about the idea 390 00:18:08,119 --> 00:18:09,960 Speaker 3: when the show came back. He was excited for me 391 00:18:10,080 --> 00:18:11,919 Speaker 3: because he knows like how good I am on it 392 00:18:12,000 --> 00:18:15,200 Speaker 3: and you know how much I love it. But he 393 00:18:16,680 --> 00:18:18,840 Speaker 3: does not feel comfortable, you know, in front of the camera, 394 00:18:19,359 --> 00:18:21,760 Speaker 3: and and he doesn't like it. He likes it for me, 395 00:18:21,960 --> 00:18:23,440 Speaker 3: but you know, but he doesn't like it. 396 00:18:23,560 --> 00:18:25,880 Speaker 2: So that's what I try. That damn camera. I make 397 00:18:25,920 --> 00:18:27,239 Speaker 2: love to it every time I see it. 398 00:18:27,320 --> 00:18:29,280 Speaker 3: But anyways, I really want to put it to rest. 399 00:18:29,480 --> 00:18:31,399 Speaker 3: I mean, I honestly I would love to do a 400 00:18:31,440 --> 00:18:36,439 Speaker 3: podcast with Teresa were right now, No, well, let me 401 00:18:36,440 --> 00:18:40,040 Speaker 3: finish with Teresa and Louis and Todd and I. I mean, 402 00:18:40,240 --> 00:18:42,199 Speaker 3: the only thing is that Teresa is on a different 403 00:18:42,440 --> 00:18:44,119 Speaker 3: she's not with iHeart, so I don't know how that 404 00:18:44,160 --> 00:18:47,200 Speaker 3: would work out. But you know, to like finally shut 405 00:18:47,240 --> 00:18:50,480 Speaker 3: this down, it's like it's really it's it's really upsetting 406 00:18:50,520 --> 00:18:50,920 Speaker 3: and dumb. 407 00:18:50,920 --> 00:18:53,080 Speaker 2: At the time has come because I need to do 408 00:18:53,160 --> 00:18:53,520 Speaker 2: it and. 409 00:18:53,600 --> 00:18:55,680 Speaker 3: Went nowhere and people want to keep on talking about 410 00:18:55,680 --> 00:18:59,200 Speaker 3: it and talking about it. And again, every woman that's 411 00:18:59,200 --> 00:19:02,359 Speaker 3: on this platform, on this show, any guy that comes 412 00:19:02,359 --> 00:19:04,239 Speaker 3: to her is gonna know who she is. And if 413 00:19:04,280 --> 00:19:07,440 Speaker 3: he doesn't, in the next ten minutes after he starts dating, 414 00:19:08,440 --> 00:19:12,239 Speaker 3: people are going to tell him. So again, you know, 415 00:19:12,359 --> 00:19:15,320 Speaker 3: I don't think it's just like the guy that's a millionaire. 416 00:19:15,600 --> 00:19:18,120 Speaker 3: You know, let's say Jeff Bezos, is Laurence Sanchez dating 417 00:19:18,200 --> 00:19:20,080 Speaker 3: him just because he's a billionaire or just you really 418 00:19:20,119 --> 00:19:22,840 Speaker 3: like him? You know, so the very wealthy man is 419 00:19:22,840 --> 00:19:23,600 Speaker 3: going to happen. 420 00:19:23,359 --> 00:19:25,880 Speaker 2: To say that aforementioned. 421 00:19:27,280 --> 00:19:28,960 Speaker 3: No, you can have it all, you know. I mean 422 00:19:29,000 --> 00:19:30,680 Speaker 3: Tom wanted to day me because I have it all 423 00:19:31,280 --> 00:19:33,359 Speaker 3: right and what and you know, and I'm just like 424 00:19:33,440 --> 00:19:35,080 Speaker 3: that person that thinks that I'm not going to be 425 00:19:35,119 --> 00:19:36,920 Speaker 3: the woman that thinks, oh, the guy wants to date 426 00:19:36,960 --> 00:19:39,600 Speaker 3: me just because he wants to be famous. I think 427 00:19:39,600 --> 00:19:42,560 Speaker 3: that that's like really, like, I mean, does it happen, yes, 428 00:19:43,080 --> 00:19:45,240 Speaker 3: But I think as a woman, we're all adults, and 429 00:19:45,440 --> 00:19:49,480 Speaker 3: at my age now, it's like like you can tell, yeah, 430 00:19:49,680 --> 00:19:52,080 Speaker 3: for you to tell. And I think that louis already 431 00:19:52,119 --> 00:19:55,119 Speaker 3: proven his love to Teresa and has proven himself, but 432 00:19:55,280 --> 00:19:57,240 Speaker 3: the rest of the girls on the show, you know, 433 00:19:57,320 --> 00:20:01,320 Speaker 3: keep on, you know, like for him, and it's it's 434 00:20:01,359 --> 00:20:03,879 Speaker 3: it's really you know, not fair. But you know what, 435 00:20:04,000 --> 00:20:05,879 Speaker 3: don't bring me, you know, don't drag me into this 436 00:20:05,920 --> 00:20:08,640 Speaker 3: because I think they've dragged me into this way too long. 437 00:20:10,000 --> 00:20:13,480 Speaker 2: Will you go on their podcast and put it to rest? 438 00:20:13,960 --> 00:20:14,160 Speaker 3: Right? 439 00:20:14,800 --> 00:20:15,480 Speaker 2: Put it to rest? 440 00:20:16,040 --> 00:20:18,280 Speaker 3: No? I mean I think I've tried. I'm trying. I 441 00:20:18,359 --> 00:20:19,880 Speaker 3: keep on and keep on, but they keep on talking 442 00:20:19,920 --> 00:20:21,359 Speaker 3: about it. They're like fascinating with that. 443 00:20:21,880 --> 00:20:24,560 Speaker 2: Well, it's a hot topic, my friend. What can I 444 00:20:24,560 --> 00:20:24,879 Speaker 2: tell you? 445 00:20:24,920 --> 00:20:26,840 Speaker 3: Okay, I guess you know. 446 00:20:30,920 --> 00:20:34,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, well, I mean, you know, things are slow in 447 00:20:34,560 --> 00:20:35,800 Speaker 1: their lives. What can I tell you? 448 00:20:35,920 --> 00:20:38,280 Speaker 3: And they want to if anything more than that. I mean, 449 00:20:38,320 --> 00:20:40,080 Speaker 3: we're all friends, The four of us are friends. 450 00:20:40,680 --> 00:20:42,480 Speaker 1: I well, not everybody knows that. And I think a 451 00:20:42,520 --> 00:20:44,840 Speaker 1: lot of people want to see the worst in Louis. 452 00:20:45,040 --> 00:20:47,080 Speaker 1: They're not they're not giving him the benefit of the doubt, 453 00:20:47,280 --> 00:20:49,640 Speaker 1: and so they're looking for anything to jump on, right. 454 00:20:49,680 --> 00:20:51,399 Speaker 3: I mean, I think it's hard when these guys that 455 00:20:51,520 --> 00:20:53,480 Speaker 3: don't sign up to me on the show, but you know, 456 00:20:53,800 --> 00:20:56,720 Speaker 3: fall in love with a woman that's on these shows. 457 00:20:57,240 --> 00:20:59,840 Speaker 3: I think they have it really hard because everybody. Not 458 00:21:00,080 --> 00:21:02,560 Speaker 3: only are the castmates and the people on the show 459 00:21:02,960 --> 00:21:05,639 Speaker 3: hard on them, but so are the viewers. You know 460 00:21:06,280 --> 00:21:08,439 Speaker 3: the show a lot. Well, he sounded my love, but 461 00:21:08,480 --> 00:21:10,520 Speaker 3: when he came in season one, he was just a boyfriend. 462 00:21:10,560 --> 00:21:12,960 Speaker 3: It's kind of like Jodie and Marcus. Then after they 463 00:21:13,040 --> 00:21:16,119 Speaker 3: got married, so obviously, like he's on full time. And 464 00:21:16,200 --> 00:21:18,760 Speaker 3: the Jersey franchise also has a different model. You know, 465 00:21:18,760 --> 00:21:22,280 Speaker 3: their husbands are very involved, so you know that that's 466 00:21:22,359 --> 00:21:22,919 Speaker 3: very different. 467 00:21:23,320 --> 00:21:27,080 Speaker 2: But you know, I like Super Joe Margaret's husband. 468 00:21:27,320 --> 00:21:30,480 Speaker 3: He's okay, Super He's a sweetheart. He's a sweetheart. 469 00:21:30,520 --> 00:21:32,359 Speaker 2: He's so sweet. You know, he likes a lot of 470 00:21:32,400 --> 00:21:35,760 Speaker 2: boo Bear. They're like the same time, really nice, so 471 00:21:35,840 --> 00:21:38,560 Speaker 2: sweet and nice. By the way, think me bou bear 472 00:21:38,760 --> 00:21:50,200 Speaker 2: that he took such good care of me. Oh yeah, 473 00:21:50,359 --> 00:21:50,720 Speaker 2: guess what. 474 00:21:50,840 --> 00:21:55,000 Speaker 1: I have tons of questions with tons of questions from. 475 00:21:55,600 --> 00:21:58,040 Speaker 3: I saw we have some best related questions. 476 00:21:58,520 --> 00:22:01,440 Speaker 2: Yeah we like those, yes. 477 00:22:02,040 --> 00:22:05,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, So you know how memoirs are really hot right now. 478 00:22:06,080 --> 00:22:07,119 Speaker 1: It seems like everybody hot. 479 00:22:08,280 --> 00:22:10,120 Speaker 3: And I've been waiting for you to write. I've been, 480 00:22:10,200 --> 00:22:13,040 Speaker 3: I've been, You've been waiting for mine. Like I've been 481 00:22:13,400 --> 00:22:14,280 Speaker 3: on this, I've. 482 00:22:14,160 --> 00:22:16,800 Speaker 2: Been telling you for three years, call a ghost writer. 483 00:22:17,320 --> 00:22:20,399 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I'm agguing, Okay, I'm aging. Is there anybody 484 00:22:20,400 --> 00:22:22,159 Speaker 3: out there that would love to that would like to 485 00:22:22,280 --> 00:22:23,920 Speaker 3: work with me and write my memoir? 486 00:22:24,600 --> 00:22:25,280 Speaker 2: Oh god, but. 487 00:22:25,280 --> 00:22:27,440 Speaker 1: You're gonna have to check your DM if you ask 488 00:22:27,560 --> 00:22:28,960 Speaker 1: questions like that, as. 489 00:22:28,760 --> 00:22:31,520 Speaker 3: Can I just for them to you. No, don't tell 490 00:22:31,560 --> 00:22:32,000 Speaker 3: them to. 491 00:22:32,080 --> 00:22:33,119 Speaker 2: Send things to me. 492 00:22:33,200 --> 00:22:35,320 Speaker 1: I'm so tired of people writing me and say, can 493 00:22:35,320 --> 00:22:38,760 Speaker 1: you ask Alecta and Lisa blah blah blah, and then I. 494 00:22:38,680 --> 00:22:42,440 Speaker 3: Just ignore them because I'm a I'm your friends. 495 00:22:42,560 --> 00:22:44,760 Speaker 1: They asked me for both of you because neither of 496 00:22:44,800 --> 00:22:48,600 Speaker 1: you look at your d ms. Okay, So anyway, if 497 00:22:48,640 --> 00:22:51,720 Speaker 1: you had a memoir, well, actually. 498 00:22:53,119 --> 00:22:54,640 Speaker 3: One of the questions I have one. 499 00:22:55,280 --> 00:22:57,520 Speaker 2: One of the questions was what would you title each 500 00:22:57,560 --> 00:23:00,320 Speaker 2: other's memoir? So if I had one, what would you title? 501 00:23:00,400 --> 00:23:05,879 Speaker 3: Mind m. You know, I'm not so good with coming 502 00:23:05,960 --> 00:23:09,919 Speaker 3: up with names like that. In that clever trait that 503 00:23:10,040 --> 00:23:13,400 Speaker 3: you have that you're very clever, I think you can 504 00:23:13,520 --> 00:23:17,639 Speaker 3: name your own memoir. It would be well, I mean 505 00:23:17,920 --> 00:23:19,080 Speaker 3: I don't want to be it would be. 506 00:23:22,240 --> 00:23:23,159 Speaker 2: I have no idea. 507 00:23:23,640 --> 00:23:27,680 Speaker 1: Well, I had so many for you, because no I do, 508 00:23:27,840 --> 00:23:31,400 Speaker 1: because like your life is like unbelievable, so it would 509 00:23:31,400 --> 00:23:32,320 Speaker 1: be like believe it. 510 00:23:32,320 --> 00:23:37,760 Speaker 2: Or not, Alexanda Pole is life or a star is born. 511 00:23:38,240 --> 00:23:44,760 Speaker 3: It's so it's something born. I love that one. 512 00:23:45,520 --> 00:23:48,159 Speaker 2: Yeah, I actually I think that's it. 513 00:23:48,200 --> 00:23:50,359 Speaker 3: I'm gonna start writing it already because I love the title. 514 00:23:50,720 --> 00:23:56,760 Speaker 1: Somebody already trademark that. I'm sure, Oh yeah, that bitch 515 00:23:58,160 --> 00:24:03,880 Speaker 1: is English? Do it to play n no le Trea 516 00:24:04,040 --> 00:24:10,719 Speaker 1: is born exactly. But definitely I think that that everyone 517 00:24:10,840 --> 00:24:13,080 Speaker 1: is writing a memoir. I think it's it's a great 518 00:24:13,119 --> 00:24:18,040 Speaker 1: way to just release you know, a lot of emotions 519 00:24:18,080 --> 00:24:19,840 Speaker 1: and things you know. And like I said, I always 520 00:24:19,880 --> 00:24:21,720 Speaker 1: read women memoirs. I don't know if any men that 521 00:24:21,800 --> 00:24:24,040 Speaker 1: have memoirs. I'm sure they do, but I'm just not 522 00:24:24,119 --> 00:24:27,080 Speaker 1: interested in them. But as a woman, I love to 523 00:24:27,119 --> 00:24:32,080 Speaker 1: read other powerful, strong women that have had a very 524 00:24:32,480 --> 00:24:35,560 Speaker 1: complete and like fulfilled life. I just love to know 525 00:24:35,640 --> 00:24:38,760 Speaker 1: how they started and how their how their journey was. 526 00:24:39,520 --> 00:24:40,760 Speaker 1: I haven't read Britney's yet. 527 00:24:40,800 --> 00:24:42,360 Speaker 2: What would be one of the stories you would share 528 00:24:42,359 --> 00:24:45,240 Speaker 2: in your memoir? Something different? 529 00:24:45,320 --> 00:24:48,040 Speaker 3: Many stories I know, and I know I'm not I'm 530 00:24:48,080 --> 00:24:49,840 Speaker 3: not going to give it here and I put forward 531 00:24:49,920 --> 00:24:52,760 Speaker 3: because you know, nobody's gonna buy it. Just you know, 532 00:24:52,840 --> 00:24:54,520 Speaker 3: I'm going to do like Brittany and I'm going to 533 00:24:54,600 --> 00:24:56,960 Speaker 3: shock people. And I'm going to do like Jada, and 534 00:24:57,000 --> 00:25:00,600 Speaker 3: I'm going to shock people. And my book is number 535 00:25:00,640 --> 00:25:03,160 Speaker 3: one bestseller. Yes, no, I'm not. I mean, I wouldn't say. 536 00:25:03,160 --> 00:25:04,720 Speaker 3: I think I have so many stories. I think I 537 00:25:04,720 --> 00:25:06,520 Speaker 3: would like to start, and I think it's important to 538 00:25:06,560 --> 00:25:09,320 Speaker 3: start since I was a child, because that kind of 539 00:25:09,359 --> 00:25:10,639 Speaker 3: like determines. 540 00:25:10,600 --> 00:25:13,119 Speaker 2: How you got here. Yeah, I think a lot of 541 00:25:13,160 --> 00:25:13,679 Speaker 2: that has. 542 00:25:13,560 --> 00:25:15,240 Speaker 3: To do with it. But I would like people to 543 00:25:15,320 --> 00:25:19,359 Speaker 3: know more about my childhood, my upbringing, and you know, 544 00:25:19,480 --> 00:25:23,080 Speaker 3: about my parents that I adored so much and howick 545 00:25:23,440 --> 00:25:27,680 Speaker 3: influential they were in my life. And yeah, I think 546 00:25:27,720 --> 00:25:31,480 Speaker 3: that as I'm writing, there's going to be so many stories, 547 00:25:31,640 --> 00:25:31,920 Speaker 3: you know. 548 00:25:31,960 --> 00:25:34,159 Speaker 1: Yeah, because things come from to the surface that you 549 00:25:34,240 --> 00:25:37,120 Speaker 1: forgot about. When you're talking about things, they just start 550 00:25:37,160 --> 00:25:39,280 Speaker 1: to bubble up and happen. 551 00:25:39,880 --> 00:25:41,840 Speaker 2: You know, been there, done that. It would also be 552 00:25:41,840 --> 00:25:44,800 Speaker 2: a good name for a book for you, if anyone 553 00:25:44,840 --> 00:25:46,240 Speaker 2: else is known. 554 00:25:46,400 --> 00:25:49,399 Speaker 3: I should have Okay, you simp I should have I 555 00:25:49,400 --> 00:25:51,159 Speaker 3: should have done that if I would have done that, 556 00:25:51,200 --> 00:25:52,080 Speaker 3: I should have done that. 557 00:25:52,320 --> 00:25:53,800 Speaker 2: I feel like you've already done everything. 558 00:25:54,920 --> 00:25:57,840 Speaker 3: There's still there's still a lot of years, hopefully, you know. 559 00:25:58,359 --> 00:26:02,520 Speaker 1: Hopefully calm ones no more so rises you had enough surprises. 560 00:26:02,800 --> 00:26:04,320 Speaker 2: I'm done with surprises. 561 00:26:05,440 --> 00:26:07,919 Speaker 1: Yes, I have a story that I would tell in 562 00:26:07,960 --> 00:26:11,120 Speaker 1: my memoir that I already. I told you this one 563 00:26:11,160 --> 00:26:13,359 Speaker 1: this weekend because it was so funny when we went 564 00:26:13,440 --> 00:26:14,720 Speaker 1: to redecorate my office. 565 00:26:15,160 --> 00:26:17,639 Speaker 3: Oh, I love it. You have so many anecdotes like 566 00:26:17,680 --> 00:26:21,440 Speaker 3: with your mom that are so incredible. 567 00:26:21,040 --> 00:26:26,560 Speaker 2: So funny. Yeah, I know, everyone said you need to 568 00:26:26,600 --> 00:26:27,960 Speaker 2: write a book. What am I talking about? 569 00:26:28,200 --> 00:26:29,600 Speaker 3: Your mom? Your mom? 570 00:26:30,359 --> 00:26:33,360 Speaker 2: So, my old business partner was telling me the other 571 00:26:33,440 --> 00:26:37,320 Speaker 2: day that she had gone to look at desks while 572 00:26:37,320 --> 00:26:40,000 Speaker 2: we were decorating the office when we had the PR firm, 573 00:26:40,560 --> 00:26:42,760 Speaker 2: and Carol said. 574 00:26:42,600 --> 00:26:45,520 Speaker 1: She really wanted a glass top desk and they were 575 00:26:45,520 --> 00:26:47,760 Speaker 1: looking at one and that my mother said to her. 576 00:26:47,920 --> 00:26:51,800 Speaker 2: I you come buy a lat top desk. How are 577 00:26:51,800 --> 00:26:54,719 Speaker 2: you going to crash your peepy? Everyone will see you. 578 00:26:56,880 --> 00:26:59,600 Speaker 3: Who even think of that? You see, Elsa would come 579 00:26:59,640 --> 00:27:02,399 Speaker 3: up with those things because if it see through, you know, 580 00:27:02,400 --> 00:27:05,600 Speaker 3: if you could see clear glass, you can't. 581 00:27:05,359 --> 00:27:08,600 Speaker 2: Do anything, everyone will see you. It was so funny. 582 00:27:08,720 --> 00:27:11,399 Speaker 2: She always came up with funny things like that, who thinks. 583 00:27:11,240 --> 00:27:13,040 Speaker 3: Do you think? Do you think that that's why men 584 00:27:13,359 --> 00:27:16,159 Speaker 3: don't have see you know, like clear glass desks. They 585 00:27:16,240 --> 00:27:19,560 Speaker 3: usually have like a wooden desk. Coming you noticed, Oh, 586 00:27:20,280 --> 00:27:23,720 Speaker 3: what do you think they're doing underneath the that's where 587 00:27:23,760 --> 00:27:26,800 Speaker 3: the secretary goes? Don't exactly does I wonder if Bill 588 00:27:26,800 --> 00:27:28,400 Speaker 3: Clinton had one? Oh? 589 00:27:28,480 --> 00:27:31,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, clear, it was I think the Oval Office has 590 00:27:31,280 --> 00:27:35,280 Speaker 1: a wood desk, yes, you know vintage, Yeah, yeah, an 591 00:27:35,280 --> 00:27:36,480 Speaker 1: old English wood desk. 592 00:27:36,920 --> 00:27:37,840 Speaker 2: My moral of the. 593 00:27:37,800 --> 00:27:44,200 Speaker 3: Story you should get your husband. And if you cheat 594 00:27:44,200 --> 00:27:47,400 Speaker 3: at cards, don't have a glass desk a table. Don't 595 00:27:47,400 --> 00:27:49,480 Speaker 3: play cards on a glass table if you're gonna cheat. 596 00:27:49,560 --> 00:27:52,480 Speaker 3: We busted my mother cheating all the time. She would 597 00:27:52,560 --> 00:27:54,639 Speaker 3: hide cards under her butt when we were playing and 598 00:27:54,720 --> 00:27:56,160 Speaker 3: be like mom, and she'd. 599 00:27:55,960 --> 00:27:57,959 Speaker 1: Be like, how do you know like the tables glass, 600 00:27:58,040 --> 00:27:59,879 Speaker 1: we can see you, we can see what? 601 00:28:00,800 --> 00:28:03,720 Speaker 3: Oh my god, that's so good. So we have another 602 00:28:03,800 --> 00:28:07,160 Speaker 3: question here and they're asking us what can we expect 603 00:28:07,280 --> 00:28:10,680 Speaker 3: for live with Marisol and Alexia. I'm so excited. I'm 604 00:28:10,760 --> 00:28:13,800 Speaker 3: driving down from Detroit. Oh what an honor. 605 00:28:14,400 --> 00:28:15,359 Speaker 2: That's what an honor. 606 00:28:15,440 --> 00:28:17,800 Speaker 3: I want you to say who you are once you're there, 607 00:28:17,880 --> 00:28:19,119 Speaker 3: because we're gonna remember you. 608 00:28:19,840 --> 00:28:22,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm gonna call you up, call you up to 609 00:28:22,840 --> 00:28:25,280 Speaker 2: the stage, and have a cocky made by me, because 610 00:28:25,359 --> 00:28:27,320 Speaker 2: one of the things we're gonna do is make some cockies. 611 00:28:27,760 --> 00:28:30,359 Speaker 3: Yeah, because we need cockies to have even more fun. 612 00:28:30,960 --> 00:28:31,320 Speaker 2: Yeah. 613 00:28:31,359 --> 00:28:34,840 Speaker 1: So yeah, we're gonna play games, and we're gonna gossip, 614 00:28:34,920 --> 00:28:36,800 Speaker 1: and we're gonna do Q and a's and we're going 615 00:28:36,880 --> 00:28:39,000 Speaker 1: to have a meet and greet that stage. 616 00:28:39,000 --> 00:28:39,920 Speaker 2: We're gonna do a lot of things. 617 00:28:39,960 --> 00:28:42,200 Speaker 3: That night's fun. It's gonna be fun. It's just kind 618 00:28:42,200 --> 00:28:43,880 Speaker 3: of you girls are going to be and guys because 619 00:28:43,880 --> 00:28:46,000 Speaker 3: I'm sure there's gonna be guys there as well. It's 620 00:28:46,040 --> 00:28:47,960 Speaker 3: just gonna be like a night to hang out, hang 621 00:28:48,000 --> 00:28:51,000 Speaker 3: out with us, and we're just gonna talk about everything 622 00:28:51,040 --> 00:28:54,200 Speaker 3: you guys want to talk about. Ask us questions, play games, 623 00:28:54,320 --> 00:28:57,360 Speaker 3: have fun, you know, just like Marathon I do with 624 00:28:57,680 --> 00:29:00,360 Speaker 3: you know, if I teach them some Spanglish right tum 625 00:29:00,440 --> 00:29:04,120 Speaker 3: being see, everybody likes a little bit of Spanish. 626 00:29:04,680 --> 00:29:08,400 Speaker 2: Mm hmmm. Another question here is how does your friendship 627 00:29:08,680 --> 00:29:11,719 Speaker 2: help each other? I like this one. I like this 628 00:29:11,760 --> 00:29:14,360 Speaker 2: one because we have a really good dynamic. 629 00:29:14,840 --> 00:29:15,520 Speaker 3: I like. 630 00:29:15,600 --> 00:29:18,240 Speaker 1: What I love about you is you always give great advice. 631 00:29:19,440 --> 00:29:22,400 Speaker 1: You give good advice, and you're always good about giving 632 00:29:22,440 --> 00:29:26,240 Speaker 1: me for like, because you know, I'm very so I'm 633 00:29:26,360 --> 00:29:29,320 Speaker 1: very calm. I'm very calm, and I try to keep 634 00:29:29,320 --> 00:29:32,160 Speaker 1: myself very relaxed. So I'm very good at relaxing and 635 00:29:32,200 --> 00:29:36,880 Speaker 1: soothing you, I think, and you're so riled up. And 636 00:29:36,920 --> 00:29:39,959 Speaker 1: when I need riling up, she riles me up, and 637 00:29:40,000 --> 00:29:41,719 Speaker 1: you give me good advice and you rile me up 638 00:29:41,760 --> 00:29:44,200 Speaker 1: and then I calm you down. I think that's the 639 00:29:44,240 --> 00:29:45,040 Speaker 1: circle of our. 640 00:29:45,040 --> 00:29:47,720 Speaker 3: Cares no, I mean, and I think that that's why 641 00:29:47,720 --> 00:29:52,240 Speaker 3: our friendship works, because we really help each other with everything, 642 00:29:52,320 --> 00:29:54,560 Speaker 3: you know, like when I think that you know you 643 00:29:54,640 --> 00:29:57,080 Speaker 3: need me to give you that, I'm there to give 644 00:29:57,080 --> 00:29:59,200 Speaker 3: it to you, you know, and you think I need to, 645 00:29:59,520 --> 00:30:04,160 Speaker 3: you know, calm me down or just like just listen. Yeah, 646 00:30:04,440 --> 00:30:06,560 Speaker 3: you're you're there for me. So I think we just 647 00:30:06,640 --> 00:30:09,240 Speaker 3: kind of like figured it out and we and we 648 00:30:09,320 --> 00:30:12,360 Speaker 3: help each other like not take life so serious and 649 00:30:12,480 --> 00:30:14,720 Speaker 3: just have fun with it. And I think that's also 650 00:30:14,800 --> 00:30:17,640 Speaker 3: been like with age and with our friendship of so 651 00:30:17,720 --> 00:30:20,520 Speaker 3: many years, right, Like we were at a different stage 652 00:30:20,600 --> 00:30:22,520 Speaker 3: in our lives when we first met, and then we 653 00:30:22,560 --> 00:30:24,240 Speaker 3: went into a second stage, and now I feel like, 654 00:30:24,400 --> 00:30:27,280 Speaker 3: you know, we're in our third stage of our friendship, 655 00:30:27,360 --> 00:30:27,960 Speaker 3: you know what I mean? 656 00:30:28,120 --> 00:30:33,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, But like, honestly, I look back and I reflect 657 00:30:33,520 --> 00:30:35,760 Speaker 1: on how anxious and how worried I get about things 658 00:30:35,760 --> 00:30:37,880 Speaker 1: in my past, and now I don't worry about anything 659 00:30:37,920 --> 00:30:40,840 Speaker 1: because I know how temporary everything is. But then sometimes 660 00:30:40,880 --> 00:30:43,360 Speaker 1: you're like, you didn't want you know, and you did 661 00:30:43,480 --> 00:30:43,960 Speaker 1: give me my. 662 00:30:45,800 --> 00:30:47,640 Speaker 3: I worry about the things you have to worry. I 663 00:30:47,680 --> 00:30:50,040 Speaker 3: don't worry about silly stuff. And I also love that, 664 00:30:50,200 --> 00:30:53,200 Speaker 3: like not to sweat the small stuff and things you 665 00:30:53,280 --> 00:30:56,800 Speaker 3: have no control over. But you know, sometimes I think 666 00:30:56,840 --> 00:31:00,640 Speaker 3: we just keep each other on our toes between and 667 00:31:00,640 --> 00:31:03,960 Speaker 3: giving each other advice and just being there for each other, 668 00:31:04,120 --> 00:31:07,040 Speaker 3: and we just really enjoy each other. Yeah, I think 669 00:31:07,080 --> 00:31:08,000 Speaker 3: that that's very secret. 670 00:31:08,400 --> 00:31:10,560 Speaker 2: And you make me laugh because you're funny. 671 00:31:10,640 --> 00:31:13,640 Speaker 3: So are you? You're funnier, bro, You're funny different. 672 00:31:13,800 --> 00:31:18,880 Speaker 1: It's totally different and both thoroughly entertaining. That's all I 673 00:31:18,880 --> 00:31:22,000 Speaker 1: have to say about that. Yeah, Well, that being said, 674 00:31:22,440 --> 00:31:24,400 Speaker 1: are you different in real life? From how you are 675 00:31:24,440 --> 00:31:27,240 Speaker 1: on rhl M and do you ever hold back because 676 00:31:27,240 --> 00:31:28,560 Speaker 1: you're worried about how it looks on TV? 677 00:31:28,600 --> 00:31:29,080 Speaker 2: Why I know you? 678 00:31:29,200 --> 00:31:31,560 Speaker 3: My god? No, Okay, so I'm going to answer that 679 00:31:31,680 --> 00:31:35,760 Speaker 3: question because exactly why I am on TV is who 680 00:31:35,800 --> 00:31:37,320 Speaker 3: I am my real life and whoever I am in 681 00:31:37,360 --> 00:31:39,200 Speaker 3: my real life, that's who you guys see on TV. 682 00:31:39,720 --> 00:31:41,760 Speaker 3: And what I love about it is that my friends 683 00:31:41,760 --> 00:31:44,280 Speaker 3: and family that really know me, they're like, oh my god, 684 00:31:44,360 --> 00:31:47,160 Speaker 3: that's so Alexia, because that's how I really am. And 685 00:31:47,200 --> 00:31:49,160 Speaker 3: you know, I'm never going to lose that. And I 686 00:31:49,160 --> 00:31:51,280 Speaker 3: think that's the best advice that I can give to 687 00:31:51,560 --> 00:31:54,360 Speaker 3: any woman out there that wants to cast for these 688 00:31:54,440 --> 00:31:59,520 Speaker 3: kind of shows. Be authentic, be yourself and never change 689 00:31:59,520 --> 00:32:01,520 Speaker 3: you know you to be you. Don't try to like 690 00:32:01,640 --> 00:32:04,720 Speaker 3: imitate anyone else on any other show or do anything else. 691 00:32:05,080 --> 00:32:07,600 Speaker 3: Just be authentic and be you. And I think that's 692 00:32:07,640 --> 00:32:10,120 Speaker 3: been part of my success and why people like me 693 00:32:10,160 --> 00:32:12,880 Speaker 3: on the show. And No, I never hold myself back. 694 00:32:12,920 --> 00:32:15,880 Speaker 3: I actually maybe sometimes, like in Miami this weekend, I 695 00:32:15,920 --> 00:32:19,040 Speaker 3: mean sorry, in Brabo Con this weekend, in the Miami panel, 696 00:32:19,160 --> 00:32:23,680 Speaker 3: like Memordila linguis a couple of times I was Alexiano, okay, 697 00:32:23,720 --> 00:32:27,240 Speaker 3: Alexia no, because you know, everybody was like being like 698 00:32:27,360 --> 00:32:31,520 Speaker 3: to kumbaya moment. Everybody was love. It was a LoveFest. 699 00:32:32,000 --> 00:32:34,680 Speaker 3: I was like, it was an apology tour. It was 700 00:32:34,720 --> 00:32:37,360 Speaker 3: a love fest. It was kumbaya. I was like, what's 701 00:32:37,360 --> 00:32:39,080 Speaker 3: wrong with you women? Like why are you all lying? 702 00:32:39,240 --> 00:32:40,960 Speaker 3: Like I know you don't all feel this way, but 703 00:32:41,080 --> 00:32:42,720 Speaker 3: you know what, Alexa was not going to start it, 704 00:32:43,240 --> 00:32:44,680 Speaker 3: so I was like, okay. 705 00:32:45,120 --> 00:32:46,440 Speaker 2: We kept looking at each other. 706 00:32:46,680 --> 00:32:48,200 Speaker 1: You and I always look at each other and during 707 00:32:48,200 --> 00:32:50,640 Speaker 1: awkward moments and we can read each other's eyes. 708 00:32:50,680 --> 00:32:51,840 Speaker 2: It's so funny even. 709 00:32:51,680 --> 00:32:54,120 Speaker 3: But you see where you caught me down because I 710 00:32:54,160 --> 00:32:55,680 Speaker 3: looked at you and you just want like that. And 711 00:32:55,720 --> 00:32:59,320 Speaker 3: I was like, okay, she's not coming on me because 712 00:32:59,360 --> 00:33:02,280 Speaker 3: you know what exactly, but you know it was Honestly, 713 00:33:02,560 --> 00:33:06,120 Speaker 3: I was like, okay, you're all lying because I really 714 00:33:06,160 --> 00:33:08,880 Speaker 3: know how you feel about each other and and you 715 00:33:08,920 --> 00:33:10,640 Speaker 3: just guys are playing it safe. You know, what do 716 00:33:10,680 --> 00:33:14,520 Speaker 3: you think happened? Do you think everybody was just like scared. 717 00:33:14,200 --> 00:33:19,000 Speaker 2: Or I don't know, I don't know. I honestly it 718 00:33:19,080 --> 00:33:21,520 Speaker 2: was really odd. And then I think once. 719 00:33:21,760 --> 00:33:24,800 Speaker 3: By the way, guys we're talking about our panel, our 720 00:33:24,880 --> 00:33:27,440 Speaker 3: Miami panel in at brabocon. 721 00:33:27,320 --> 00:33:31,880 Speaker 1: Where they released the second well they actually but they 722 00:33:31,920 --> 00:33:34,000 Speaker 1: didn't was going to get but that's not important. 723 00:33:34,080 --> 00:33:36,840 Speaker 3: That's not important whether they released the trailer or not, 724 00:33:37,480 --> 00:33:39,320 Speaker 3: and whether producers were there or not. 725 00:33:39,920 --> 00:33:40,840 Speaker 2: We need to. 726 00:33:42,320 --> 00:33:44,280 Speaker 3: You know, we need to talk about it, and nobody 727 00:33:44,520 --> 00:33:47,640 Speaker 3: showed up to talk about it. But you know I'm 728 00:33:47,680 --> 00:33:48,560 Speaker 3: talking about it now. 729 00:33:49,360 --> 00:34:00,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, the tone took a really weird direction. So someone 730 00:34:00,880 --> 00:34:03,680 Speaker 1: wants to know how we navigate and maintain our strong 731 00:34:03,760 --> 00:34:05,120 Speaker 1: friendship during filming. 732 00:34:05,680 --> 00:34:11,000 Speaker 3: We don't, not at all times. So we Marithol and 733 00:34:11,040 --> 00:34:14,000 Speaker 3: I tend to disagree a lot when it comes to filming. 734 00:34:14,520 --> 00:34:17,160 Speaker 3: Everything else, like in our personal day to day life 735 00:34:17,160 --> 00:34:19,920 Speaker 3: and stuff, we're good. We really don't argue about anything. 736 00:34:20,040 --> 00:34:22,279 Speaker 3: We get along. It's all like chill and good and 737 00:34:22,840 --> 00:34:27,640 Speaker 3: and fun moments. I think that our hardest moments have 738 00:34:27,719 --> 00:34:31,080 Speaker 3: been while we have been filming, because we have different 739 00:34:31,080 --> 00:34:34,560 Speaker 3: styles and we disagree on a lot of things. The 740 00:34:34,680 --> 00:34:37,600 Speaker 3: kind of person that I when when I know, when 741 00:34:37,640 --> 00:34:39,400 Speaker 3: I know you did something to me, I need to 742 00:34:39,400 --> 00:34:41,040 Speaker 3: tell you, and I need to confront you, and I'm 743 00:34:41,040 --> 00:34:42,840 Speaker 3: going to say it in your face. I'm going to 744 00:34:42,920 --> 00:34:44,280 Speaker 3: go to you and I'm gonna say in your face. 745 00:34:44,800 --> 00:34:47,720 Speaker 3: And I think that Marathol has a different style. You know, Marisol, 746 00:34:47,760 --> 00:34:50,440 Speaker 3: you can answer that. She's not confrontational and you know 747 00:34:50,480 --> 00:34:53,400 Speaker 3: it makes her feel uncomfortable, so she doesn't do that. 748 00:34:53,400 --> 00:34:55,840 Speaker 3: She rather like not talk about it or you know, 749 00:34:57,360 --> 00:34:58,640 Speaker 3: you know, tell girls in. 750 00:34:59,080 --> 00:35:02,840 Speaker 1: Different style my styles. Your style is not my style. 751 00:35:03,080 --> 00:35:05,680 Speaker 1: But what they're saying is how do we maintain a 752 00:35:05,719 --> 00:35:09,520 Speaker 1: strong friendship right during filming? And I think that we 753 00:35:09,560 --> 00:35:14,040 Speaker 1: get through all of that because we communicate constantly and openly. 754 00:35:14,280 --> 00:35:17,319 Speaker 1: We're constantly communicating and speaking you and I and that 755 00:35:17,520 --> 00:35:21,640 Speaker 1: kind of keeps open lines and and it helps maintain the. 756 00:35:21,600 --> 00:35:25,360 Speaker 3: Friendship, right Yeah, I mean it's really not right. I 757 00:35:25,400 --> 00:35:28,839 Speaker 3: mean sometimes and we and we've always established that we 758 00:35:28,840 --> 00:35:31,360 Speaker 3: were not going to let this show ruin our friendship 759 00:35:31,880 --> 00:35:34,200 Speaker 3: or any of the other ladies you know, come between us. 760 00:35:34,280 --> 00:35:36,680 Speaker 3: So we've always like established that and we know, you know, 761 00:35:36,800 --> 00:35:38,760 Speaker 3: like you know that this is a show and shows 762 00:35:38,760 --> 00:35:42,600 Speaker 3: are you know, sometimes temporary, and you know our friendship 763 00:35:42,680 --> 00:35:43,440 Speaker 3: is going to be forever. 764 00:35:44,120 --> 00:35:46,880 Speaker 1: Well we actually, I actually think it's funny when they 765 00:35:47,000 --> 00:35:50,959 Speaker 1: when the girls think that they're coming between us we actually. 766 00:35:50,640 --> 00:35:53,120 Speaker 3: Laugh about it like this, We laugh a lot like 767 00:35:54,280 --> 00:35:58,120 Speaker 3: they stupid, like they don't even understand if they want, 768 00:35:58,239 --> 00:36:00,640 Speaker 3: you know, how much they would want that, but that's 769 00:36:00,640 --> 00:36:02,360 Speaker 3: never going to happen. So you see, it's something like 770 00:36:02,400 --> 00:36:04,400 Speaker 3: Marathon I have talked about and say, you know what 771 00:36:04,480 --> 00:36:07,000 Speaker 3: these ladies would love for us not to be as 772 00:36:07,000 --> 00:36:09,000 Speaker 3: close as we are and have each other's back. 773 00:36:09,080 --> 00:36:12,200 Speaker 1: And if this far, if I made it this far, 774 00:36:12,400 --> 00:36:15,239 Speaker 1: I'm not out and it's not happening. It's nothing's going 775 00:36:15,280 --> 00:36:16,040 Speaker 1: to get me out. 776 00:36:15,920 --> 00:36:17,919 Speaker 2: Of this friendship. I mean we've made it this far. 777 00:36:18,960 --> 00:36:20,759 Speaker 3: Right, Yeah, that's how we feel. You know, we have 778 00:36:20,920 --> 00:36:24,160 Speaker 3: this special bond that you know, no, no show and 779 00:36:24,280 --> 00:36:26,160 Speaker 3: nobody else is going to come between us. So I 780 00:36:26,200 --> 00:36:29,960 Speaker 3: think that that's you know, what keeps us here together. 781 00:36:30,040 --> 00:36:32,040 Speaker 3: And you know our friendship is just stronger every day. 782 00:36:32,160 --> 00:36:36,040 Speaker 1: Really yeah, I mean there's only two things that would really, 783 00:36:36,400 --> 00:36:38,920 Speaker 1: you know, come between me and a friend is if 784 00:36:38,920 --> 00:36:40,800 Speaker 1: you try to steal my manner, steal my money. 785 00:36:40,880 --> 00:36:44,080 Speaker 2: And I don't see that happening. So you know, no, no, 786 00:36:44,080 --> 00:36:44,359 Speaker 2: it's not. 787 00:36:45,520 --> 00:36:47,359 Speaker 3: Your bird doesn't have to worry about me. You don't 788 00:36:47,360 --> 00:36:48,000 Speaker 3: have to worry about it. 789 00:36:48,360 --> 00:36:49,040 Speaker 2: I mean anyone. 790 00:36:49,200 --> 00:36:52,000 Speaker 1: I know you wouldn't do that, nor you know, we 791 00:36:52,040 --> 00:36:57,359 Speaker 1: don't have you know, yeah, not concerned mm hmmm, because 792 00:36:57,360 --> 00:37:02,640 Speaker 1: they're just deal breakers. Yeah. And will we see more 793 00:37:02,640 --> 00:37:04,040 Speaker 1: of Todd's daughters on the show. 794 00:37:05,719 --> 00:37:10,440 Speaker 3: No. So Todd's daughters are my stepdaughters, and they're very 795 00:37:10,440 --> 00:37:12,959 Speaker 3: smart and they don't want to be part of the show. 796 00:37:13,680 --> 00:37:16,120 Speaker 3: And you know, we discussed it as a family, and 797 00:37:16,480 --> 00:37:18,839 Speaker 3: you know, they determined that, you know, that was the 798 00:37:18,840 --> 00:37:22,359 Speaker 3: best decision, you know, for them. You know, they're they're 799 00:37:22,400 --> 00:37:25,360 Speaker 3: young girls, and you know, it's it's really scary, you know, 800 00:37:25,400 --> 00:37:29,400 Speaker 3: these kind of shows. You know, they can either you know, 801 00:37:29,600 --> 00:37:31,840 Speaker 3: make you really popular and you can have a career 802 00:37:31,880 --> 00:37:34,080 Speaker 3: out of it like some of the Daughters and other 803 00:37:34,120 --> 00:37:37,920 Speaker 3: franchises I've done, and it can also hurt you. So 804 00:37:38,840 --> 00:37:41,920 Speaker 3: you know, we decided to protect them and also make 805 00:37:41,960 --> 00:37:44,719 Speaker 3: the decision with them, not for them. And you know, 806 00:37:44,760 --> 00:37:46,799 Speaker 3: they decided on their own that they didn't want to be, 807 00:37:47,040 --> 00:37:50,239 Speaker 3: you know, part of it. And my stepdaughter Gabby is 808 00:37:50,280 --> 00:37:52,799 Speaker 3: in college now, so she's not even here right now, 809 00:37:52,880 --> 00:37:56,520 Speaker 3: and Sophia, that's a senior, will be leaving for college. 810 00:37:57,080 --> 00:38:01,360 Speaker 3: So you know, during an idea, Yeah, but you know, 811 00:38:01,440 --> 00:38:02,880 Speaker 3: I still have Peter and Frankie. 812 00:38:03,560 --> 00:38:06,760 Speaker 2: So, but Peter doesn't live with you. 813 00:38:06,120 --> 00:38:07,919 Speaker 3: No, no he doesn't, but I mean he's very much 814 00:38:07,920 --> 00:38:11,200 Speaker 3: involved in my life. Yeah, and Frankie too, so you know, 815 00:38:11,239 --> 00:38:12,800 Speaker 3: you guys, you know get to see that, you know, 816 00:38:12,840 --> 00:38:15,080 Speaker 3: which is nice because I think that's something more like 817 00:38:15,280 --> 00:38:18,160 Speaker 3: us Latina moms. Do you know that even if they 818 00:38:18,200 --> 00:38:19,960 Speaker 3: go away, you know, they always come back. You know, 819 00:38:20,000 --> 00:38:22,719 Speaker 3: Peter did go away also to Paris for school, but 820 00:38:22,760 --> 00:38:24,600 Speaker 3: then he came back and he moved close to me. 821 00:38:24,719 --> 00:38:26,560 Speaker 3: So it's like I'd like to have him here. Like today, 822 00:38:26,600 --> 00:38:28,440 Speaker 3: for example, I'm doing this, he went to pick up 823 00:38:28,440 --> 00:38:31,960 Speaker 3: Frankie at work and you know, and they're having lunch together. 824 00:38:32,040 --> 00:38:34,520 Speaker 3: So you know, I to meet my family and my 825 00:38:34,640 --> 00:38:37,880 Speaker 3: children have always been very important and I need to 826 00:38:37,920 --> 00:38:41,680 Speaker 3: know that they're okay and they're close to me. So 827 00:38:42,440 --> 00:38:45,240 Speaker 3: but yeah, you know, again, when my kids were smaller, 828 00:38:45,400 --> 00:38:48,720 Speaker 3: you know, they were smaller when Frankie and Peter started 829 00:38:48,760 --> 00:38:53,320 Speaker 3: to show and I made that decision for them. Today, 830 00:38:53,480 --> 00:38:55,440 Speaker 3: I would have done it different today, I would have 831 00:38:55,520 --> 00:38:57,520 Speaker 3: asked them because I mean, today the kids are so 832 00:38:57,600 --> 00:39:00,440 Speaker 3: much more advanced and you know, so much more and 833 00:39:00,640 --> 00:39:02,840 Speaker 3: we have social media. Now, when my kids when I 834 00:39:02,880 --> 00:39:05,120 Speaker 3: did the show in twenty ten that I brought in 835 00:39:06,080 --> 00:39:08,759 Speaker 3: season one and I brought my kids, we even had 836 00:39:10,200 --> 00:39:12,279 Speaker 3: I didn't even have Facebook, No, I had nothing that 837 00:39:12,360 --> 00:39:14,040 Speaker 3: they made me get Facebook at that point. I didn't 838 00:39:14,040 --> 00:39:16,160 Speaker 3: even have Facebook. But my kids were not in social media. 839 00:39:16,200 --> 00:39:17,959 Speaker 3: There was no social media. That's what I'm trying to say, 840 00:39:18,320 --> 00:39:21,279 Speaker 3: because that's what really upsets me and really hurts me. 841 00:39:21,840 --> 00:39:24,200 Speaker 3: You know that these kids that are so young, and 842 00:39:24,239 --> 00:39:26,840 Speaker 3: you know they're part of these shows, and then you 843 00:39:26,880 --> 00:39:29,560 Speaker 3: know all these angry people and haters, you know, go 844 00:39:29,719 --> 00:39:33,560 Speaker 3: on their social media to leave nasty comments. And you know, 845 00:39:33,640 --> 00:39:35,440 Speaker 3: I think we did the right thing by, you know, 846 00:39:35,560 --> 00:39:38,400 Speaker 3: as a family, making the decision that you know, they 847 00:39:38,440 --> 00:39:41,600 Speaker 3: weren't going to be on because we wanted to protect them. 848 00:39:41,840 --> 00:39:44,520 Speaker 3: Like I said, my kids back then, maybe if it 849 00:39:44,560 --> 00:39:46,200 Speaker 3: would be now, I would have done the same thing 850 00:39:46,200 --> 00:39:48,160 Speaker 3: for Peter and Frankie. But now it's too late. So 851 00:39:48,200 --> 00:39:50,200 Speaker 3: you're going to keep on seeing Peter and Frankie cool. 852 00:39:51,200 --> 00:39:55,000 Speaker 2: They're not going anywhere. Mm hmm. So this is an 853 00:39:55,040 --> 00:40:00,200 Speaker 2: interesting question. How is our relationship with Nicole currently? I 854 00:40:00,200 --> 00:40:02,480 Speaker 2: think we just we talked about this a couple of 855 00:40:02,480 --> 00:40:06,960 Speaker 2: ways ago. Yeah, that it's kind of like kind of like. 856 00:40:08,400 --> 00:40:12,239 Speaker 1: It's it's it's weird, it's awkward, Like I'm always like, hey, 857 00:40:12,320 --> 00:40:14,919 Speaker 1: how are you, and I always get like a, it's 858 00:40:14,960 --> 00:40:19,360 Speaker 1: just like this very apprehensive fake response that it just 859 00:40:19,440 --> 00:40:23,319 Speaker 1: feels just very non authentic, not you know, it's hard 860 00:40:23,360 --> 00:40:23,920 Speaker 1: to talk with her. 861 00:40:23,920 --> 00:40:25,080 Speaker 2: It's like a weird vibe. 862 00:40:25,680 --> 00:40:28,200 Speaker 3: Well, I don't think she's forgiven you, my friend. I 863 00:40:28,239 --> 00:40:30,560 Speaker 3: think that she holds on to her grudges, you know. 864 00:40:30,640 --> 00:40:33,560 Speaker 3: I think even and we saw that in her story 865 00:40:33,680 --> 00:40:36,200 Speaker 3: that you know, she's had a really difficult time to 866 00:40:36,320 --> 00:40:38,800 Speaker 3: forgive her father, and you know, her father is her father. 867 00:40:39,239 --> 00:40:41,359 Speaker 3: So in Mahinade, if she's like has a hard time 868 00:40:41,400 --> 00:40:43,600 Speaker 3: forgiving her father, she's going to have a hard time 869 00:40:43,719 --> 00:40:46,759 Speaker 3: forgiving you and forgiving others. So that's how I see it. 870 00:40:48,360 --> 00:40:50,600 Speaker 3: You know. I want to say that this season, I 871 00:40:50,680 --> 00:40:53,480 Speaker 3: went in, you know, trying to bring all the ladies together, 872 00:40:53,719 --> 00:40:57,040 Speaker 3: and I thought that, you know, me setting the tone 873 00:40:57,160 --> 00:41:00,560 Speaker 3: and me meeting with the girls separately and individual because 874 00:41:00,560 --> 00:41:02,399 Speaker 3: I have a history with all of you, and even 875 00:41:02,440 --> 00:41:05,160 Speaker 3: the new girls, you know, I thought, even you know, 876 00:41:05,280 --> 00:41:08,360 Speaker 3: before we all started hanging out together, I met with 877 00:41:08,440 --> 00:41:10,239 Speaker 3: him and I would have lunch with them, So I 878 00:41:10,360 --> 00:41:13,120 Speaker 3: felt like in the group, if anybody can bring us together, 879 00:41:13,280 --> 00:41:15,040 Speaker 3: it was me, and I set the tone and I 880 00:41:15,080 --> 00:41:18,680 Speaker 3: tried and and you guys will have to watch and see. 881 00:41:18,719 --> 00:41:20,839 Speaker 3: You know, there's highs and lows, you know, so you're 882 00:41:20,880 --> 00:41:22,840 Speaker 3: you're you get to see a little bit of everything. 883 00:41:23,239 --> 00:41:25,960 Speaker 3: But as far as Nicole goes, I think that I've tried, 884 00:41:26,040 --> 00:41:28,520 Speaker 3: and she keeps on disappointing me. That's all I gotta say. 885 00:41:29,120 --> 00:41:34,400 Speaker 2: Mm hmm, yeah, do solid okay? More disappointment questions? How 886 00:41:34,400 --> 00:41:37,640 Speaker 2: are things with Adriana? Would you to a podcast? 887 00:41:41,640 --> 00:41:43,319 Speaker 3: You know what you guys are gonna have to see 888 00:41:43,320 --> 00:41:45,640 Speaker 3: because you know, we really don't talk about our show here, 889 00:41:47,480 --> 00:41:49,520 Speaker 3: so you guys are just gonna have to watch and 890 00:41:49,600 --> 00:41:54,000 Speaker 3: see and and see. But you know, I again, we 891 00:41:54,040 --> 00:41:56,880 Speaker 3: can't talk, so I can't even answer that. But how 892 00:41:56,880 --> 00:41:59,160 Speaker 3: are things are there Juanna? I wanted to think that 893 00:42:00,160 --> 00:42:06,719 Speaker 3: they were okay? And after I watched episode two, you 894 00:42:06,760 --> 00:42:09,920 Speaker 3: guys answer it. I want you guys to watch episode 895 00:42:09,920 --> 00:42:13,960 Speaker 3: two and tell me if I should be friends with Adriana. Yeah, 896 00:42:14,000 --> 00:42:17,279 Speaker 3: so if you could join any other franchise, which one 897 00:42:17,320 --> 00:42:18,280 Speaker 3: would that be Marasoon. 898 00:42:19,280 --> 00:42:21,759 Speaker 1: Well, we've answered this question many times over the years, 899 00:42:21,800 --> 00:42:23,319 Speaker 1: and I know where you want to go, and then 900 00:42:23,320 --> 00:42:25,239 Speaker 1: you know where I want to go. So I know 901 00:42:25,320 --> 00:42:27,280 Speaker 1: you want to go to Beverly Hills, right. 902 00:42:27,200 --> 00:42:34,040 Speaker 3: Yes, we need a Latina and Beverly Hills in californ. 903 00:42:36,680 --> 00:42:38,279 Speaker 2: I mean, you know where I always wanted to go. 904 00:42:38,640 --> 00:42:41,640 Speaker 3: You always wanted to go to New York, the old 905 00:42:41,719 --> 00:42:44,000 Speaker 3: New York cast, the legendaries. 906 00:42:44,560 --> 00:42:46,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, I love them, old friends. 907 00:42:46,920 --> 00:42:50,320 Speaker 3: You know, it would have fit very well with that group. 908 00:42:52,920 --> 00:42:56,200 Speaker 2: Okay, so we have some personal questions. Now, let's see, 909 00:42:56,800 --> 00:43:00,600 Speaker 2: what's the biggest thing you wish people understood about you? Hmmmm? 910 00:43:01,719 --> 00:43:04,640 Speaker 1: All right, you're thinking I'll answer mine. I don't drink 911 00:43:04,680 --> 00:43:08,040 Speaker 1: as much as it looks like I do. I mean, 912 00:43:08,080 --> 00:43:12,040 Speaker 1: it's honestly, I really don't. That's just me marketing. 913 00:43:12,640 --> 00:43:13,960 Speaker 2: I mean I think you could tell if I was 914 00:43:13,960 --> 00:43:16,080 Speaker 2: getting lit, it'd be pretty obvious. 915 00:43:16,520 --> 00:43:22,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, that's a yeah, ay doo good. What's the 916 00:43:22,640 --> 00:43:25,040 Speaker 3: biggest thing that I wish people knew about me? I 917 00:43:25,040 --> 00:43:29,120 Speaker 3: would understand about me. I would understand about me. You know, 918 00:43:29,200 --> 00:43:33,359 Speaker 3: I guess that I'm very like passionate, you know, when 919 00:43:33,480 --> 00:43:36,960 Speaker 3: I when I speak, and you know, a lot of 920 00:43:36,960 --> 00:43:39,919 Speaker 3: times I gets lost in translation, you know, as being 921 00:43:40,160 --> 00:43:43,239 Speaker 3: like mean, because I scream like once I get it 922 00:43:43,239 --> 00:43:45,640 Speaker 3: all out. But my delivery a lot of times is 923 00:43:45,680 --> 00:43:48,920 Speaker 3: like strong because I'm a screamer and I yell and 924 00:43:48,960 --> 00:43:52,120 Speaker 3: I'm passionate because when I feel something that's like my 925 00:43:52,200 --> 00:43:54,200 Speaker 3: delivery that's like how I have to say it. But 926 00:43:54,320 --> 00:43:56,799 Speaker 3: like inside, you know, it's all coming from a good 927 00:43:56,840 --> 00:43:59,040 Speaker 3: place because I have a really soft heart. 928 00:44:00,480 --> 00:44:03,920 Speaker 2: So just that, yeah, I agree with that. I agree 929 00:44:03,920 --> 00:44:04,239 Speaker 2: with that. 930 00:44:04,440 --> 00:44:08,080 Speaker 1: You're always coming from a good place. Your delivery is strong. Yeah, 931 00:44:08,520 --> 00:44:11,240 Speaker 1: and then it gets confused as angry, but you're because. 932 00:44:11,040 --> 00:44:13,840 Speaker 3: The ladies aren't passionate. Yeah, they want they want to 933 00:44:13,880 --> 00:44:16,279 Speaker 3: confuse it. They want to change the storyline. Yeah, they 934 00:44:16,320 --> 00:44:18,080 Speaker 3: want to make me look a turn away that I'm not. 935 00:44:18,719 --> 00:44:24,759 Speaker 3: So yeah. How would you help someone radiate the confidence 936 00:44:24,800 --> 00:44:29,320 Speaker 3: that you have? H That's a really good question, Marisoon 937 00:44:29,360 --> 00:44:32,120 Speaker 3: will give you a drink which is called liquid courage. 938 00:44:32,680 --> 00:44:35,600 Speaker 3: And you think you're superwoman. 939 00:44:35,400 --> 00:44:37,840 Speaker 1: I'm going to help you relax and then I'm going 940 00:44:37,880 --> 00:44:40,919 Speaker 1: to talk to you into fabulousness, right, you. 941 00:44:40,840 --> 00:44:43,319 Speaker 3: Know, And for me, you know, for me, it's just 942 00:44:43,400 --> 00:44:47,040 Speaker 3: like you know, I'm so fortunate that I do have 943 00:44:47,120 --> 00:44:50,640 Speaker 3: that like instilled inside of me. By the way I 944 00:44:50,680 --> 00:44:52,360 Speaker 3: got to meet, I thought this was going to be 945 00:44:52,440 --> 00:44:54,480 Speaker 3: one of our questions. I think we said if we 946 00:44:54,600 --> 00:44:58,200 Speaker 3: had a brabo lab that was unpleasant to us so 947 00:44:58,280 --> 00:45:01,040 Speaker 3: that we didn't like, but we and ask which I 948 00:45:01,040 --> 00:45:04,000 Speaker 3: would have asked, was who was your favorite brabo leb 949 00:45:04,080 --> 00:45:08,200 Speaker 3: that you got to meet this weekend. So I met Obviously, 950 00:45:08,280 --> 00:45:09,920 Speaker 3: I know a lot of the housewives already and we 951 00:45:09,960 --> 00:45:12,240 Speaker 3: know each other and all that, but I met someone 952 00:45:12,320 --> 00:45:15,239 Speaker 3: from a different franchise, actually from a different show altogether, 953 00:45:15,920 --> 00:45:21,680 Speaker 3: and that's Madison from Southern Charm and I was so 954 00:45:22,719 --> 00:45:25,600 Speaker 3: amazed by her. And I had just watched Coming Back 955 00:45:25,600 --> 00:45:29,440 Speaker 3: from New York on the Plane her episode, and she 956 00:45:29,480 --> 00:45:31,840 Speaker 3: had such a strong episode and I got to see 957 00:45:31,840 --> 00:45:34,319 Speaker 3: that on the show, and then I got to meet her, 958 00:45:34,360 --> 00:45:36,600 Speaker 3: and she was so sweet and she was so nice. 959 00:45:36,600 --> 00:45:38,920 Speaker 3: First of all, they confused me with her, so for 960 00:45:39,040 --> 00:45:41,320 Speaker 3: me it was a huge compliment because she was he 961 00:45:41,440 --> 00:45:45,080 Speaker 3: was younger than me, and so that was that. And 962 00:45:45,080 --> 00:45:47,280 Speaker 3: then we got to talk and we hit it off. 963 00:45:47,600 --> 00:45:50,759 Speaker 3: So I think me just speaking to her and just 964 00:45:50,800 --> 00:45:53,280 Speaker 3: telling her how great she was and because I'm older 965 00:45:53,320 --> 00:45:55,120 Speaker 3: than her, and you know, she I was like, you know, 966 00:45:55,120 --> 00:45:57,200 Speaker 3: obviously my kids are older. She has a six year 967 00:45:57,239 --> 00:46:00,160 Speaker 3: old son and all of these things. I think just 968 00:46:00,200 --> 00:46:03,320 Speaker 3: by our conversation, you know, I gave her that confidence. 969 00:46:03,360 --> 00:46:06,800 Speaker 3: You know. I feel like sometimes me being like older 970 00:46:06,880 --> 00:46:09,040 Speaker 3: and wiser and got through so many lessons in my 971 00:46:09,120 --> 00:46:12,760 Speaker 3: life even without trying to. I sit next to someone 972 00:46:12,960 --> 00:46:16,200 Speaker 3: and I shine that light and that knowledge on them, 973 00:46:16,280 --> 00:46:18,560 Speaker 3: and I empower them. And I love that I can 974 00:46:18,600 --> 00:46:20,479 Speaker 3: do that and that I and I do it without 975 00:46:20,520 --> 00:46:23,160 Speaker 3: even trying. Like that's like how it was, you know. 976 00:46:23,200 --> 00:46:25,719 Speaker 3: And I see young women, you know, and like you 977 00:46:25,760 --> 00:46:27,920 Speaker 3: know that they're insecure about things, you know, and I 978 00:46:28,000 --> 00:46:29,680 Speaker 3: just want to like grab them and say, you know 979 00:46:29,719 --> 00:46:33,520 Speaker 3: what you're feeling amazing, keep on shining. You're great only 980 00:46:33,560 --> 00:46:36,319 Speaker 3: you know. So I feel like that I do that, 981 00:46:36,400 --> 00:46:38,640 Speaker 3: and I think that that's how I help people without 982 00:46:38,680 --> 00:46:39,240 Speaker 3: even trying. 983 00:46:39,719 --> 00:46:41,719 Speaker 1: Yeah, I think the problem is a lot of a 984 00:46:41,760 --> 00:46:45,360 Speaker 1: lot of girls, women, men try to compare themselves to 985 00:46:45,560 --> 00:46:47,399 Speaker 1: people they idolize or someone else. 986 00:46:47,920 --> 00:46:50,200 Speaker 2: And you can't do that because you are. 987 00:46:50,200 --> 00:46:53,640 Speaker 1: Unique and different in your own way, and there are 988 00:46:53,680 --> 00:46:56,080 Speaker 1: people that love you for who you are and what 989 00:46:56,120 --> 00:46:58,279 Speaker 1: you bring to the table, and you just kind of 990 00:46:58,360 --> 00:47:01,799 Speaker 1: have to accept them. Love who you are because you're 991 00:47:01,840 --> 00:47:03,759 Speaker 1: never going to be anybody else. You have to be 992 00:47:03,920 --> 00:47:07,440 Speaker 1: great at you. You know, you can be a great you, 993 00:47:07,840 --> 00:47:10,040 Speaker 1: then you will love you. 994 00:47:10,080 --> 00:47:12,400 Speaker 3: No, that's really good advice. I think that's one of 995 00:47:12,440 --> 00:47:15,000 Speaker 3: the questions that that's next, Like what advice would you 996 00:47:15,000 --> 00:47:18,600 Speaker 3: give women entering their thirties. Women in their thirties should 997 00:47:18,719 --> 00:47:21,280 Speaker 3: know that it's never too late, you know. I feel 998 00:47:21,320 --> 00:47:23,520 Speaker 3: like I did so much in my life in the 999 00:47:23,560 --> 00:47:26,520 Speaker 3: last ten years, and it's never too late. Like, you know, 1000 00:47:26,600 --> 00:47:28,879 Speaker 3: I don't want them to take that, you know. Oh 1001 00:47:28,880 --> 00:47:30,799 Speaker 3: my god, I'm in my thirties. I'm getting old. I 1002 00:47:30,800 --> 00:47:33,319 Speaker 3: don't have enough time. No, like, take your time, you know, 1003 00:47:33,360 --> 00:47:37,160 Speaker 3: work on yourself, and it's never too late, you know, 1004 00:47:37,280 --> 00:47:38,759 Speaker 3: to be who you want to be and do what 1005 00:47:38,800 --> 00:47:39,359 Speaker 3: you want to do. 1006 00:47:40,120 --> 00:47:42,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, don't be afraid to do anything. I started 1007 00:47:42,760 --> 00:47:45,839 Speaker 1: my PR firm in my thirties. I jumped on it 1008 00:47:45,920 --> 00:47:48,000 Speaker 1: and I had the energy and I had the desire. 1009 00:47:48,360 --> 00:47:49,320 Speaker 1: Do I have it now? 1010 00:47:49,719 --> 00:47:52,600 Speaker 2: No, So do it in your thirties because afterwards you 1011 00:47:52,600 --> 00:47:53,359 Speaker 2: get really turned out. 1012 00:47:53,640 --> 00:47:56,680 Speaker 3: The thirty really important years for women because like I said, 1013 00:47:56,760 --> 00:47:59,640 Speaker 3: it's usually you're getting married, you're starting a family, and 1014 00:47:59,640 --> 00:48:02,239 Speaker 3: then your career. So it's hard being a woman in 1015 00:48:02,280 --> 00:48:04,920 Speaker 3: the thirties because they have to juggle all these different 1016 00:48:04,920 --> 00:48:08,400 Speaker 3: hats and they're kind of new at it and it's scary. 1017 00:48:08,480 --> 00:48:10,520 Speaker 3: But you know, don't be scared, like, you know, you 1018 00:48:10,640 --> 00:48:14,120 Speaker 3: got this, and it's never too late. You know, you can, 1019 00:48:14,280 --> 00:48:15,920 Speaker 3: you know, And even for the women that can't they 1020 00:48:15,920 --> 00:48:17,680 Speaker 3: don't have children in the thirties, it's never too late. 1021 00:48:17,719 --> 00:48:20,360 Speaker 3: You can have them in your forties. If your career isn't, 1022 00:48:20,400 --> 00:48:22,399 Speaker 3: you know, blosshoming in your thirties, you know, it's never 1023 00:48:22,440 --> 00:48:23,920 Speaker 3: too late. In your forties, you can do it. 1024 00:48:24,440 --> 00:48:26,279 Speaker 2: Maybe you don't have kids at all, like men, you 1025 00:48:26,320 --> 00:48:29,080 Speaker 2: can still have a great fulfilling life and be happy, 1026 00:48:29,280 --> 00:48:31,840 Speaker 2: you know, you just it's just different generally. 1027 00:48:32,160 --> 00:48:32,799 Speaker 3: Absolutely. 1028 00:48:33,760 --> 00:48:37,280 Speaker 1: So I want to end because we have a question. 1029 00:48:37,840 --> 00:48:39,560 Speaker 1: This is my favorite question of the day. What are 1030 00:48:39,560 --> 00:48:40,840 Speaker 1: your favorite Cuban sayings? 1031 00:48:40,880 --> 00:48:43,960 Speaker 2: And why? To wrap up the show? There's so many 1032 00:48:44,000 --> 00:48:46,600 Speaker 2: good ones. I was all lost. I feel like when 1033 00:48:46,600 --> 00:48:49,319 Speaker 2: we're talking you and me, they just come out. When 1034 00:48:49,360 --> 00:48:51,840 Speaker 2: I had to think about them, I couldn't think of them. 1035 00:48:52,000 --> 00:48:55,400 Speaker 2: I got a little stumped, but I still have. One 1036 00:48:55,440 --> 00:48:59,719 Speaker 2: of my favorites is being bompboom, mm hmm bump boom 1037 00:49:00,080 --> 00:49:00,279 Speaker 2: a car. 1038 00:49:00,400 --> 00:49:02,239 Speaker 3: It's a car, and I know what it is, my love. 1039 00:49:02,280 --> 00:49:06,000 Speaker 3: I know, pampoom. 1040 00:49:08,400 --> 00:49:11,200 Speaker 2: It's a car. You know the ones that you open 1041 00:49:11,280 --> 00:49:11,920 Speaker 2: up and sleep in. 1042 00:49:12,000 --> 00:49:16,240 Speaker 1: But the Cubans love to say that it's pin bampoom 1043 00:49:16,239 --> 00:49:18,560 Speaker 1: because when you open it up, it goes pink pompom. 1044 00:49:18,600 --> 00:49:20,239 Speaker 2: When you open and it hits the floor. 1045 00:49:20,840 --> 00:49:23,800 Speaker 3: Is a word. But one of my favorite Cuban sayings 1046 00:49:24,160 --> 00:49:29,799 Speaker 3: is a roco mango no no no from Mango, and 1047 00:49:29,840 --> 00:49:33,840 Speaker 3: that basically just means it's like a big mess. But 1048 00:49:34,040 --> 00:49:36,640 Speaker 3: it's just funny because it's like a saying. And like 1049 00:49:36,719 --> 00:49:38,439 Speaker 3: you said, there's so many sayings like. 1050 00:49:40,160 --> 00:49:44,520 Speaker 2: I love when you say that makes me laugh when 1051 00:49:44,520 --> 00:49:45,440 Speaker 2: you someone. 1052 00:49:45,280 --> 00:49:48,400 Speaker 3: You take off your shoes, Yes, when your shoes and 1053 00:49:48,440 --> 00:49:51,240 Speaker 3: you're in public and you're walking all over the lobby 1054 00:49:51,320 --> 00:49:53,680 Speaker 3: or all over the street with no shoes on and 1055 00:49:53,719 --> 00:49:56,719 Speaker 3: you're the bottom of your feet are dirty. So when 1056 00:49:56,719 --> 00:49:58,879 Speaker 3: I see somebody with the shoes off, I say, Batasusa. 1057 00:49:59,440 --> 00:50:00,319 Speaker 2: That makes me laugh. 1058 00:50:00,440 --> 00:50:04,400 Speaker 1: Or junk someone that where's does flip flops and they 1059 00:50:04,440 --> 00:50:05,560 Speaker 1: smack them on the floor. 1060 00:50:06,080 --> 00:50:10,439 Speaker 3: You know. By the way, if we're gonna have we're 1061 00:50:10,440 --> 00:50:13,200 Speaker 3: gonna have a little segment like this at our live 1062 00:50:13,280 --> 00:50:18,360 Speaker 3: show where we talk about our favorite Cuban sayings and 1063 00:50:18,360 --> 00:50:20,440 Speaker 3: and we want the audience, you know, to all get involved. 1064 00:50:20,440 --> 00:50:22,080 Speaker 3: I mean, just like Spanish, you know, I feel like 1065 00:50:22,160 --> 00:50:23,840 Speaker 3: not only Cuban, but I think a lot of the 1066 00:50:23,880 --> 00:50:28,960 Speaker 3: Cubans can also translate into like other Spanish languages or cultures. 1067 00:50:29,719 --> 00:50:32,279 Speaker 3: So you don't have He're in Miami, you know the 1068 00:50:32,400 --> 00:50:33,120 Speaker 3: human chains. 1069 00:50:33,280 --> 00:50:37,880 Speaker 2: M h m hmmm mmm. Yeah, so I hope everyone 1070 00:50:37,920 --> 00:50:39,760 Speaker 2: comes to see us. That's December ninth, right. 1071 00:50:39,760 --> 00:50:42,239 Speaker 3: Yes, in Boca. Can you give them the details? 1072 00:50:42,760 --> 00:50:47,080 Speaker 1: Yes, it's at the Meisner Park, Boca, Meisner Park Theater 1073 00:50:47,760 --> 00:50:51,759 Speaker 1: December ninth. The tickets are for sale ticket Master. You 1074 00:50:51,800 --> 00:50:53,560 Speaker 1: can click the link in my bio. Do you have 1075 00:50:53,560 --> 00:50:55,839 Speaker 1: it in your bio too to buy tickets? Alect No thing? 1076 00:50:56,800 --> 00:50:57,919 Speaker 2: Okay, why have the link? 1077 00:50:58,360 --> 00:51:01,160 Speaker 3: Maybe I do? Maybe I don't don't around those techy things. 1078 00:51:01,200 --> 00:51:03,200 Speaker 3: But yeah, I'll just show up. 1079 00:51:03,239 --> 00:51:05,719 Speaker 2: Trust me, I had help with that. I don't do 1080 00:51:05,840 --> 00:51:09,399 Speaker 2: that me. That'll help. So, yeah, my tickets comes here, 1081 00:51:09,440 --> 00:51:10,600 Speaker 2: So it's gonna be so fun. 1082 00:51:11,320 --> 00:51:14,920 Speaker 3: Yes, yes, can't wait to see you guys. Thank you 1083 00:51:14,960 --> 00:51:18,920 Speaker 3: for listening. Like always, it's such a pleasure and blessed 1084 00:51:19,560 --> 00:51:24,040 Speaker 3: and until next time, Mi amiga. All right, love you bro, 1085 00:51:24,160 --> 00:51:28,640 Speaker 3: have fun tonight, Love you mesitos. Thank you guys, so bye. 1086 00:51:29,000 --> 00:51:29,920 Speaker 3: Thanks for listening. 1087 00:51:30,440 --> 00:51:33,560 Speaker 1: Follow us on Instagram at iPort Forward Podcast. 1088 00:51:34,040 --> 00:51:36,080 Speaker 3: Make sure to write us a review and leave us 1089 00:51:36,120 --> 00:51:39,359 Speaker 3: five stars at Astell Approxima