WEBVTT - Cherie & Jessey from Bling Empire 0:00:01.280 --> 0:00:04.320 This is a Wells Cast with Wells Atoms and I 0:00:04.440 --> 0:00:13.000 Heart Radio podcast. You guys, ready, yeah, ready are you? 0:00:13.760 --> 0:00:16.400 I'm good. I'm just so you know, I'm doing this 0:00:16.440 --> 0:00:20.280 from my mom's house because I'm quarantining away from my fiance. 0:00:21.000 --> 0:00:24.480 Uh So, I mean, you guys are lucky. You get 0:00:24.520 --> 0:00:28.880 to see what my childhood bedroom looked like. It looks nice, right, 0:00:29.280 --> 0:00:32.440 you get the inside scoop. Yeah, that's pretty cool. That's 0:00:32.479 --> 0:00:35.400 pretty cool. Do you guys have rooms in your house 0:00:36.040 --> 0:00:39.920 that are the walls are painted margarine or no, actually 0:00:40.200 --> 0:00:43.080 doors were hurt. The other house that we have is 0:00:43.200 --> 0:00:47.320 like kind of like a yellowish, like a bright margarine color. 0:00:48.720 --> 0:01:04.039 We can relate. All right, let's do this thing alright. 0:01:04.040 --> 0:01:06.000 Back on the Welles Cast. Very excited to have the 0:01:06.080 --> 0:01:10.520 stars of Bling Empire on Netflix. Terry and Jesse here, 0:01:10.600 --> 0:01:16.080 how are you, guys? We're good? Okay, so obsessed with 0:01:16.160 --> 0:01:18.200 your show, and I gotta be honest with you, like, 0:01:18.240 --> 0:01:22.640 I like all the storylines, but your guys storyline to 0:01:22.800 --> 0:01:25.960 me is the best. When you watch your back do 0:01:26.040 --> 0:01:29.000 you guys feel like, yeah, we're the stars of this show. 0:01:29.240 --> 0:01:30.959 I think there were a lot of stars, but I 0:01:31.000 --> 0:01:33.080 think we're definitely the stars of the show as well. 0:01:33.640 --> 0:01:37.199 We're very authentic on the show. We were absolutely no filter. 0:01:37.520 --> 0:01:40.759 That was my life and just the whole timing how 0:01:40.800 --> 0:01:43.360 everything had happened. When I think back, it's pretty crazy. 0:01:43.400 --> 0:01:46.000 I mean, he just rewatched our scenes last night. He 0:01:46.040 --> 0:01:48.600 watches our scenes like all the time. It's kind of 0:01:48.640 --> 0:01:53.040 like a every other day like activity that he does. Yeah, 0:01:53.040 --> 0:01:55.279 I mean he he just loves the scenes with the kids, 0:01:55.320 --> 0:01:58.120 like and and watching Javom being born again and again 0:01:58.200 --> 0:02:01.480 and again again, Like He's was like, Wow, Gravon, you know, 0:02:01.520 --> 0:02:03.760 I can't believe, like he went through all that with 0:02:03.880 --> 0:02:06.360 me and my mom and he just came out the 0:02:06.400 --> 0:02:10.280 happiest baby, and we're grateful for that. Yeah. I think 0:02:10.720 --> 0:02:14.160 the birth of Givon, that particular saying was very special 0:02:14.200 --> 0:02:16.880 to me, and it's just such a blessing and kind 0:02:16.880 --> 0:02:20.000 of honored to be able to have that captured and 0:02:20.080 --> 0:02:22.800 be able to kind of relive that at that moment. 0:02:23.320 --> 0:02:26.840 He Ashley cried when Javon was born, and I was 0:02:26.880 --> 0:02:28.480 really shocked. I was like, why are you crying? Well, 0:02:28.639 --> 0:02:31.120 he didn't cry, like who's the sobbing? He did tearing 0:02:31.240 --> 0:02:34.200 up and then and then it hit me that, you know, 0:02:34.520 --> 0:02:37.720 he as much as my mom has affected me, it 0:02:37.720 --> 0:02:40.760 affected him too. And obviously my mom affected me, which 0:02:40.760 --> 0:02:44.520 affected Javon Right was pregnant the whole time and he 0:02:44.600 --> 0:02:46.600 was very sensitive to it, but he never showed it 0:02:46.680 --> 0:02:49.760 to me until that moment, which was kind of edit 0:02:50.000 --> 0:02:52.400 out of the you know, the scene because everyone thinks 0:02:52.440 --> 0:02:54.480 like a birth in one minute, and that's not true. 0:02:54.840 --> 0:02:57.600 I was pushing for a while. I mean, yes, I 0:02:57.639 --> 0:03:00.120 wasn't grunting or screaming, but I didn't do that my 0:03:00.160 --> 0:03:03.160 first pregnancy too. I didn't sweat like it wasn't It's 0:03:03.200 --> 0:03:06.080 not Hollywood. This is a reality. That's how I give birth. 0:03:06.200 --> 0:03:08.359 And a lot of my friends give birth that way too, 0:03:08.480 --> 0:03:11.920 and some people have full glam, some people have no glam. 0:03:11.919 --> 0:03:14.679 And I just you know, I mean, I was so depressed, 0:03:14.720 --> 0:03:17.200 like and I just it was excited to see Javan 0:03:17.360 --> 0:03:19.560 I didn't I just want to be natural and not 0:03:19.639 --> 0:03:21.359 have a glam. Because my friends were like, how come 0:03:21.360 --> 0:03:23.240 you didn't you know, some of my friends who love makeup, 0:03:23.240 --> 0:03:25.200 They're like, how come you didn't doll up for the scene. 0:03:25.240 --> 0:03:27.639 I'm like, why would I dollop? Giving birth? Like I 0:03:27.680 --> 0:03:30.359 don't know, like to me, my focus is just give 0:03:30.440 --> 0:03:33.280 birth like I And also I didn't have a time, right, 0:03:33.320 --> 0:03:35.240 I mean, when he comes, I'm not gonna call my 0:03:35.400 --> 0:03:38.640 makeup birthers, hey stand by, come come doll me up, 0:03:38.760 --> 0:03:41.160 Like I don't know. It wasn't my thing, So it 0:03:41.240 --> 0:03:44.000 was very natural, very natural. Yeah, the whole thing was 0:03:44.160 --> 0:03:46.880 I went there and you know, I had contractions and 0:03:46.960 --> 0:03:50.160 I went there and I gave birth. Yeah. One of 0:03:50.160 --> 0:03:54.440 my favorite subplots of your son being born is this 0:03:54.480 --> 0:03:58.720 whole past life reincarnation thing that you guys touch on. 0:03:58.840 --> 0:04:01.880 But I want to know more at it because, um, 0:04:01.920 --> 0:04:05.360 it's fascinating to me and I like believe in that stuff. Obviously, 0:04:05.440 --> 0:04:08.160 your daughter plays a big role in like the narrative 0:04:08.320 --> 0:04:12.640 of that. You know, she recognizes your son as your mother, 0:04:12.960 --> 0:04:15.120 and I want to know, are they like other things 0:04:15.120 --> 0:04:17.480 that were cut out that were like signs of that 0:04:17.480 --> 0:04:20.039 that we didn't see. I think they captured a lot 0:04:20.120 --> 0:04:23.760 of it. Obviously. George talked about my mom every day. 0:04:23.839 --> 0:04:27.920 Even last night she was telling me that my mom, 0:04:27.920 --> 0:04:30.320 you know, doesn't want to get shots anymore. She's tired 0:04:30.360 --> 0:04:33.240 of the pain, like getting shots, and she wants to 0:04:33.320 --> 0:04:36.159 be relaxed and enjoy her day. And I was just 0:04:36.200 --> 0:04:38.960 like okay, Jars. And then my friend had told me something. 0:04:39.040 --> 0:04:41.400 You know, babies are so special. They come from heaven, 0:04:41.800 --> 0:04:44.760 so it's like a recognizable place that that they can 0:04:44.800 --> 0:04:47.360 feel things and see things that we cannot feel because 0:04:47.360 --> 0:04:51.120 we've already evolved into you know, our own personalities and characters. 0:04:51.880 --> 0:04:54.320 At the moment, had convinced me that your mom was 0:04:54.400 --> 0:04:58.440 my mom, and I felt very convinced because I remember 0:04:58.440 --> 0:05:01.560 telling my mom, Hey, um, you know is it's too 0:05:01.560 --> 0:05:03.479 painful for you and you want to let go. I 0:05:03.560 --> 0:05:05.919 understand because she my mom went through a lot of 0:05:05.960 --> 0:05:08.920 pain for ten months, and I told her, you know, 0:05:08.960 --> 0:05:11.920 if you want to come back as Dravan, I will 0:05:12.000 --> 0:05:14.599 take care of you like I will. You know I 0:05:14.640 --> 0:05:17.560 would do. I will go to extra steps even more 0:05:17.640 --> 0:05:20.200 than than ever to take care of her. And the 0:05:20.240 --> 0:05:25.279 whole time, I really felt Ravan could have been my mom. 0:05:25.320 --> 0:05:28.719 But now that time has passed, I feel Gravan is 0:05:28.760 --> 0:05:31.520 just Ravan, like he is such a big blessing to me. 0:05:31.640 --> 0:05:37.120 He truly came to me to Earth too, because I 0:05:37.160 --> 0:05:39.200 don't know, for some reason, the universe knew my mom 0:05:39.240 --> 0:05:40.719 was gonna get sick, so they blessed me with this 0:05:40.760 --> 0:05:44.360 little baby boy. He used the happiest baby like he's 0:05:44.400 --> 0:05:47.040 happy all the time. Whenever I'm sad, he's happy. Whenever 0:05:47.520 --> 0:05:50.240 I'm happy, he's happy like I'm just he's always smiling 0:05:50.400 --> 0:05:53.240 like it's just wonderful. And I don't know, I feel 0:05:53.839 --> 0:05:57.560 like he's just such a true blessing. Honestly, I would 0:05:57.560 --> 0:05:59.359 say it's over and over again. He saved my life. 0:05:59.480 --> 0:06:02.960 He did because without him, I don't know. I don't 0:06:02.960 --> 0:06:05.280 know if I want to survive my mom not being here. 0:06:05.320 --> 0:06:07.240 I mean, obviously I have Jesse Todoin, who I love 0:06:07.320 --> 0:06:10.200 so much, but Javon, because he has inside me, I 0:06:10.240 --> 0:06:12.640 had to control myself. I had to control my depression. 0:06:12.680 --> 0:06:16.080 I had to control my sadness, control my crying. And 0:06:16.160 --> 0:06:17.800 I thought once he was out, I was going to 0:06:17.920 --> 0:06:19.760 drink myself to death or something. I don't know. I 0:06:19.760 --> 0:06:21.359 don't know. Not drink myself to death, that's not the 0:06:21.400 --> 0:06:22.960 right thing. But I was just gonna at least have 0:06:23.040 --> 0:06:25.320 some drinks. But I didn't even drink at all. Like 0:06:25.400 --> 0:06:27.280 I had drinks here and there, but it wasn't like 0:06:27.320 --> 0:06:29.320 I drink because I was depressed. You know some people 0:06:29.880 --> 0:06:32.000 do that and I don't. I don't you know, promote 0:06:32.000 --> 0:06:34.440 that at all. But I'm glad that he had brought 0:06:34.440 --> 0:06:36.760 me so much happiness and I didn't didn't think about 0:06:36.760 --> 0:06:40.240 anything else. Really, Jesse, what are you? What are your 0:06:40.279 --> 0:06:43.240 thoughts on all of this? My fiance is very like 0:06:43.400 --> 0:06:47.599 into astrology. There's a lot of me that's like, I 0:06:47.680 --> 0:06:49.360 don't know if I'm buying a lot of this. I'm 0:06:49.400 --> 0:06:51.760 more more of like a like a realist or a pragmatist, 0:06:51.960 --> 0:06:54.839 and I feel like you're kind of on that same plane. 0:06:54.920 --> 0:06:57.440 I wonder like when Terry is like, I think that 0:06:57.600 --> 0:07:01.200 maybe like our son is embodied in my late mother. 0:07:01.320 --> 0:07:04.040 Are you like, oh no, I think you need a drink, baby, 0:07:04.160 --> 0:07:08.479 or you like, oh cool? Well, I mean obviously, you 0:07:08.520 --> 0:07:12.520 know I I was supportive or whatever. She's kind of over, 0:07:12.960 --> 0:07:16.040 you know, being able to kind of handle the situation, right, 0:07:16.520 --> 0:07:21.200 because you know, even though I personally would differentiate between 0:07:21.200 --> 0:07:24.680 Gavan and her mom, I still want to keep her 0:07:25.040 --> 0:07:27.920 whatever her faith is, her belief at that time, to 0:07:28.040 --> 0:07:31.920 be that motivation factor, right because obviously she was going 0:07:31.960 --> 0:07:34.440 through a lot with the loss of her mom, and 0:07:34.440 --> 0:07:36.600 and the last thing I want to do. It's it's 0:07:36.680 --> 0:07:41.040 kind of complicated situation. So whatever it is that she 0:07:41.760 --> 0:07:45.480 was gonna help her through. Like I'm supportive, but at 0:07:45.520 --> 0:07:47.600 the end of the day, I want to be logically 0:07:47.960 --> 0:07:50.680 kind of for its my opinion, right, Like, hey, you know, 0:07:51.160 --> 0:07:53.720 maybe you want to keep a little difference between your 0:07:53.760 --> 0:07:56.400 mom and Gavan and just you know, allow Jivan to 0:07:56.400 --> 0:07:59.520 be who he is. And and it so happened that 0:07:59.640 --> 0:08:04.000 Javon is part of mom. You know, we are just 0:08:04.120 --> 0:08:08.400 one big Yeah, it's just all based off of feelings 0:08:08.400 --> 0:08:11.200 and how we feel. Yeah, absolutely well, I will say 0:08:11.200 --> 0:08:14.160 this like in your Netflix Family, I think there's a 0:08:14.200 --> 0:08:17.080 show called like Life After Death and they and they 0:08:17.160 --> 0:08:20.000 talk about a lot of people who feel like they 0:08:20.280 --> 0:08:24.320 had like a reincarnation and they all have a very 0:08:24.360 --> 0:08:26.720 similar thing. Like when they're young, they have a lot 0:08:26.760 --> 0:08:30.080 of information, uh and embody a lot of stuff of 0:08:30.160 --> 0:08:32.560 someone who has passed and then as like time goes on, 0:08:32.640 --> 0:08:35.440 that kind of strips away or or maybe that person 0:08:36.040 --> 0:08:38.679 that was kind of you know embodying them is allowed 0:08:38.720 --> 0:08:41.560 to like go or feels good about letting go. And 0:08:41.600 --> 0:08:43.440 it's something that like in the beginning, I was like 0:08:43.480 --> 0:08:46.240 this is crazy talk, and now I'm like, I totally 0:08:46.240 --> 0:08:48.719 believe it. I think it's so cool. So I think 0:08:48.720 --> 0:08:51.120 it's really cool that it came out on your Guys show, 0:08:51.120 --> 0:08:53.640 which is just so fun to watch it in general. Jesse, 0:08:53.800 --> 0:08:56.520 here's my question, were you ever like, why the funk 0:08:56.559 --> 0:09:04.440 am I doing this show? Ye? Are you still like that? Um? No, 0:09:05.320 --> 0:09:07.959 I have to say, it's uh, the show has been released, 0:09:08.520 --> 0:09:11.920 and what should we touch base on. I really enjoyed 0:09:12.160 --> 0:09:14.520 the part, and I feel very blessed and honored to 0:09:14.559 --> 0:09:17.520 be part of it. I really do being able to 0:09:17.520 --> 0:09:21.160 reflect back and have all that capture. I think it's 0:09:22.400 --> 0:09:25.040 I think we're very honored to be part of that show. 0:09:25.520 --> 0:09:28.360 I think he watches the shows, I mean not the shows, 0:09:28.360 --> 0:09:33.560 but r be Um more than anyone I know. The 0:09:33.559 --> 0:09:36.800 second person, pub my cousin, like she'll she she actually 0:09:36.840 --> 0:09:40.800 clipped the scenes to only me and you know, replay it. Yeah, 0:09:41.160 --> 0:09:43.880 it's just a memory. I mean, just being able to 0:09:43.960 --> 0:09:47.199 kind of rewatch it and just live that moment, it's 0:09:47.320 --> 0:09:50.640 very special to me. I mean, I really enjoyed it. Yeah. 0:09:50.920 --> 0:09:55.520 I've been on seven reality shows, seven or eight, and 0:09:55.559 --> 0:09:57.439 I always asked this question when I talk to reality 0:09:57.480 --> 0:10:01.320 TV personalities it's an inevitability that you're gonna like some 0:10:01.320 --> 0:10:02.520 of the stuff that you see, and then you're not 0:10:02.559 --> 0:10:04.520 gonna like some of the stuff you see. That's just 0:10:04.720 --> 0:10:06.720 what happens when you don't have control. In the edit, Bay, 0:10:06.760 --> 0:10:09.920 I wonder, do you guys have anything that when you 0:10:09.960 --> 0:10:12.439 look back on Season one of being like I hated 0:10:12.480 --> 0:10:15.520 the way that was perceived, I wish or like that 0:10:15.600 --> 0:10:18.160 was wrong. I don't know, we got lucky. I don't know, 0:10:18.400 --> 0:10:20.600 like I know a lot of people had problems, but 0:10:20.679 --> 0:10:22.440 we were actually really lucky with it. For me, it 0:10:22.480 --> 0:10:26.000 was more like my my post part of body outfits, 0:10:26.040 --> 0:10:28.199 like I shouldn't chosen any more loose spitting. I don't know, 0:10:28.200 --> 0:10:30.719 while it's so confident to where like tight closing after 0:10:30.760 --> 0:10:32.400 I just gave birth, and like, no, I shouldn't have 0:10:32.440 --> 0:10:34.920 done that, and it was just for me. It's just 0:10:35.000 --> 0:10:37.240 outfit choices, Like I wish I made a little bit 0:10:37.320 --> 0:10:40.280 about better outfit choice after I gave birth, but when 0:10:40.280 --> 0:10:42.439 I was pregnant, I thought I was still opportunities were 0:10:42.520 --> 0:10:45.160 good on my part, I mean, for me, I think 0:10:45.160 --> 0:10:50.000 it's just kind of seeing how Shari felt right about 0:10:50.520 --> 0:10:53.720 the non proposal from my part, right. I think I 0:10:53.760 --> 0:10:58.240 think that part was very but but you know, she 0:10:58.360 --> 0:11:00.280 just recently kind of find out kind of like my 0:11:00.520 --> 0:11:03.880 little plan behind the scene and kind of the reasoning 0:11:03.920 --> 0:11:07.000 why you know, I have been hesitant. So but you know, 0:11:07.040 --> 0:11:10.480 the end of the day, I think to show him out. Great. Yeah, 0:11:10.520 --> 0:11:12.720 but it's pretty crazy because him and I have actually 0:11:12.760 --> 0:11:15.760 been looking at engagement rings for ever since we met, 0:11:15.840 --> 0:11:18.200 like every since the door was like I was pregnant 0:11:18.200 --> 0:11:21.000 with the door, and and every time I'm like, okay, 0:11:21.000 --> 0:11:22.880 you're thinking of proposed, but now it's kind of like 0:11:22.920 --> 0:11:25.800 a like a gift or something. So I was like, okay, 0:11:25.840 --> 0:11:28.440 well that's not a proposal. So you know, it has 0:11:28.640 --> 0:11:31.240 gone past me many times, and that's why I just decided, 0:11:31.320 --> 0:11:33.240 you know what, I'm just going to do it. I'm 0:11:33.280 --> 0:11:35.760 just gonna propose. Well, my god, I have this thing 0:11:35.720 --> 0:11:37.520 in my mind that I want, I wanted to do 0:11:37.640 --> 0:11:39.800 with it, so I want to make sure when it 0:11:39.880 --> 0:11:41.800 does happen, I want to make sure it kind of 0:11:42.040 --> 0:11:44.679 I'm able to do what I envisioned. And timing, like 0:11:44.720 --> 0:11:47.800 I said, it's it's everything and and just unfortunately timing 0:11:47.840 --> 0:11:50.000 has been kind of off. But you know, I mean 0:11:50.040 --> 0:11:52.600 it's it will come. Here's what I assume happened in 0:11:52.640 --> 0:11:56.400 that scene where she proposes to you. So the show 0:11:56.559 --> 0:11:59.720 shows like you take a beat, like there's hesitancy in it, 0:12:00.080 --> 0:12:03.200 and I would assume that that's not how that went down. 0:12:03.320 --> 0:12:05.400 There was no pause, but it it was just like 0:12:05.480 --> 0:12:08.719 we filmed it and then and then obviously on my end, 0:12:08.720 --> 0:12:11.240 I had some you know, like planning on my end 0:12:11.280 --> 0:12:13.320 because it's a big thing for me, right to post 0:12:13.320 --> 0:12:15.200 to someone. I mean, never in my life, but I 0:12:15.240 --> 0:12:17.280 thought I would think I would do that, right usually, 0:12:17.840 --> 0:12:19.800 I mean, I'm waiting for someone to propose to me, 0:12:19.840 --> 0:12:23.960 which would obviously be him. But yeah, okay, I think 0:12:24.000 --> 0:12:27.480 the pause can take it different ways, right. The pause 0:12:27.880 --> 0:12:30.720 wasn't about whether or not I was gonna say yes 0:12:31.480 --> 0:12:34.640 or no. The pause was I was literally shocked. He 0:12:34.760 --> 0:12:36.640 was shocked, and he was just shocked back from Asia. 0:12:36.760 --> 0:12:39.800 He was no sl jet lag everything, you know. I 0:12:39.800 --> 0:12:42.079 felt bad for him. Yeah, I mean, I literally just 0:12:42.120 --> 0:12:45.280 got back from Singapore that day and I and I 0:12:45.880 --> 0:12:48.920 mean I barely made the party, so I'm still kind 0:12:48.960 --> 0:12:51.760 of jet lag. But the thing is, I was seriously shocked, like, 0:12:51.960 --> 0:12:55.560 oh my god, I mean, is this this really happening. Yeah, 0:12:55.720 --> 0:12:58.679 so no, but I think it's a great thing. And 0:12:58.800 --> 0:13:05.160 I'm kind of looking back it's and my face was wow. 0:13:05.240 --> 0:13:09.040 I mean when you watch it back, and obviously Jesse's 0:13:09.080 --> 0:13:10.600 watching it back a lot, I love that. I love that, 0:13:10.679 --> 0:13:13.400 Like You're like, I've now become a super fan of yourself. 0:13:13.440 --> 0:13:19.480 This is amazing. Who like, aside from from you guys, 0:13:19.480 --> 0:13:22.840 like watching you guys, who is your favorite character on 0:13:22.880 --> 0:13:26.280 the show. I think because I had just met Anna 0:13:26.360 --> 0:13:28.959 and I didn't know much about her, and then when 0:13:29.000 --> 0:13:30.800 I watched her on the show, I'm just like, Wow, 0:13:30.840 --> 0:13:35.600 I was blown away. She's very motherly, very sincere. I mean, 0:13:35.679 --> 0:13:38.839 for everything that she has. I was really blown away 0:13:38.840 --> 0:13:42.679 by her character. She's very humble too, and you know 0:13:42.760 --> 0:13:46.040 she Yeah, I mean that kind of blew me away. 0:13:47.480 --> 0:13:50.480 I personally really liked the duo of k and Kevin. 0:13:51.679 --> 0:13:54.400 I think I think the duel between them too, I 0:13:54.400 --> 0:13:56.800 mean really made. But it's a trio. It was me 0:13:57.000 --> 0:14:02.080 Kan and Kevin. Yeah, we were together pretty often actually, 0:14:02.120 --> 0:14:05.240 but obviously this is before they even film, but Canan 0:14:05.280 --> 0:14:07.520 Kevin came to the hospital all the time, including Jesse 0:14:08.160 --> 0:14:10.880 to you know, help me my mom, to pray to chant. 0:14:10.960 --> 0:14:13.680 We went to the temple all the time. I was pregnant, 0:14:13.760 --> 0:14:16.000 like getting up and down to the temple like you know, praying, 0:14:16.240 --> 0:14:19.000 doing what I should be doing. But I mean I 0:14:19.000 --> 0:14:21.080 probably could have given birth to the temple because I 0:14:21.200 --> 0:14:23.200 was always a bi down, like up and down and doubt. 0:14:23.400 --> 0:14:26.280 That's how you pray, you Kane, Kevin and I and 0:14:26.400 --> 0:14:29.280 Jesse did this like eight hour chat. Wait was any hours? 0:14:30.440 --> 0:14:32.680 I think it's four hours and you get a one 0:14:32.680 --> 0:14:35.920 hour lunch break and then you continue again for another 0:14:36.160 --> 0:14:39.280 three or four hours. So that was very intense. And 0:14:39.280 --> 0:14:42.440 that was my first like time doing that prayer session. 0:14:43.320 --> 0:14:47.640 And it's pretty incredible because Kevin does it speakinning Chinese. 0:14:47.680 --> 0:14:49.840 The whole chances in Chinese. I mean, it's even difficult 0:14:49.840 --> 0:14:54.080 for me and him, and you know, it's just great 0:14:54.120 --> 0:14:58.160 that we have that relationship. I mean, they're they're wonderful 0:14:58.200 --> 0:15:01.280 people and they're my good friends. Yeah, speaking of your 0:15:01.280 --> 0:15:06.200 heritage as someone who's who understands like doing reality shows 0:15:06.240 --> 0:15:09.720 and then it becoming a big thing and then garnering 0:15:09.720 --> 0:15:13.800 this huge following on social media, what inevitably happens with 0:15:13.880 --> 0:15:16.480 my shows people that come on it, there's really great 0:15:16.520 --> 0:15:20.000 comments and like really wonderful support, and then there's just 0:15:20.120 --> 0:15:24.080 also just a lot of like vile internet troll people 0:15:24.120 --> 0:15:28.120 say terrible things with you guys, your heritage. I feel 0:15:28.160 --> 0:15:31.080 like people could really use that against you. In terms 0:15:31.080 --> 0:15:34.000 of the show, Have you experienced that at all for 0:15:34.240 --> 0:15:38.000 us as a family, I mean, we were accepted everyone's opinions, right. 0:15:38.040 --> 0:15:40.320 I think that's part of the thing is what make 0:15:40.520 --> 0:15:43.000 us kind of move forward, is that we're gonna have 0:15:43.120 --> 0:15:45.720 to accept from both sides. Right. There are different people, 0:15:45.840 --> 0:15:48.960 different perspective. So I think the first thing that we 0:15:49.000 --> 0:15:52.280 can do as a family, it's just as respects everyone's perspective. 0:15:52.600 --> 0:15:55.280 For me, you know, my kind of past and growing up, 0:15:55.320 --> 0:15:57.440 I just have to realize that, you know, as I 0:15:57.440 --> 0:16:01.120 get older, that you just can't please everybody. And it's okay, 0:16:01.240 --> 0:16:03.640 but the most thing's gotta be true to yourself and 0:16:03.720 --> 0:16:07.280 be good person, right, and then hopefully all that leads 0:16:07.360 --> 0:16:10.160 to all the positive in the future. But we just 0:16:10.200 --> 0:16:13.200 got to kind of hold ourselves accountable and hold ourselves 0:16:13.240 --> 0:16:17.320 positive and let that kind of be our message. Has 0:16:17.360 --> 0:16:22.360 the show helped or hurt your business career? I mean 0:16:22.480 --> 0:16:26.080 I think it's still Yeah, well I think it's still 0:16:26.400 --> 0:16:30.280 very early to say or another. But I think again, 0:16:30.440 --> 0:16:32.920 kind of going back to kind of my philosophy in 0:16:33.040 --> 0:16:35.520 life in general, it is the fact that you know, 0:16:35.640 --> 0:16:38.240 we just be ourselves and do good things. I think 0:16:38.240 --> 0:16:41.400 the positivity will spread and and you know, as control, 0:16:41.480 --> 0:16:45.800 we cannot control everyone's perception, which is hoped by our actions. 0:16:46.240 --> 0:16:48.200 You know, people will kind of turn around if they 0:16:48.240 --> 0:16:50.680 have any negative view on us, that they will see 0:16:50.720 --> 0:16:54.640 the positive side of things. What can everyone expect for 0:16:54.960 --> 0:16:57.760 seasons going forward to Bling Empire? I mean, we don't 0:16:57.760 --> 0:17:01.960 know season two it's gonna happen, right and in second 0:17:02.000 --> 0:17:04.679 you know, Sara, and I mean, if if that does happen, 0:17:04.960 --> 0:17:08.080 we have to talk among us as a family to 0:17:08.200 --> 0:17:11.840 see where we see you guys fitting all right, But 0:17:11.960 --> 0:17:14.719 but regardless, just the fact that we've been part of 0:17:14.720 --> 0:17:18.680 this show and kind of in a way pioneering, it's 0:17:18.720 --> 0:17:22.080 pretty cool. I mean, it's very it's very honorable as itself. 0:17:22.600 --> 0:17:24.960 So I mean, we don't know what the future holds, 0:17:25.000 --> 0:17:28.720 but you know, we we'll just have to wait and see. Okay, 0:17:28.720 --> 0:17:30.919 So if Netflix comes back to you and says, all right, 0:17:30.920 --> 0:17:33.840 we're green lighting season two, three, and four, we'll renegotiate 0:17:33.880 --> 0:17:37.440 your contracts to whatever you guys want. Are you saying 0:17:37.520 --> 0:17:40.159 yes to that or are you still thinking about it? Definitely, 0:17:40.240 --> 0:17:43.840 we'll have your discussion with the production team right because 0:17:44.160 --> 0:17:46.680 again we have to see where we fit in because 0:17:46.800 --> 0:17:48.760 as we have sure we have mentioned and during the 0:17:48.800 --> 0:17:52.280 first season, we're very true to ourselves and we really 0:17:52.320 --> 0:17:54.919 want to make sure that what they kind of envision 0:17:55.000 --> 0:17:58.000 for us as far apart for our season two in future, 0:17:58.240 --> 0:18:00.119 we want to make sure your lines will what our 0:18:00.240 --> 0:18:03.959 visions are and what fits within our family because we do, 0:18:04.119 --> 0:18:06.600 you know, have two little babies and we have to 0:18:06.800 --> 0:18:09.679 kind of think outside of just ourselves. I have to 0:18:09.720 --> 0:18:11.960 think it's a family. Yeah, we definitely have to think 0:18:12.000 --> 0:18:15.560 for the babies because they're well being is everything and 0:18:15.720 --> 0:18:19.560 as well as education. And also, I mean, Jesse's super 0:18:20.000 --> 0:18:22.880 busy with his businesses. I have some projects coming up, 0:18:22.960 --> 0:18:25.879 and it would be great too for the show to 0:18:25.920 --> 0:18:29.440 show what his entrepreneurial skills because he's in that way 0:18:29.480 --> 0:18:32.240 all his life. And also most people don't know he's 0:18:32.280 --> 0:18:34.960 like a workout free like a gym gym rat something 0:18:35.160 --> 0:18:38.360 like well, I mean I just ca yeah, like we 0:18:38.359 --> 0:18:40.560 were we bumped into guy the other day and he 0:18:40.640 --> 0:18:43.159 was like, oh, Jesse, you're looking fit, But I was thinking, no, 0:18:43.320 --> 0:18:46.000 Jesse was even more fit before. But now he he 0:18:46.080 --> 0:18:48.320 only is limited to one hour per day at the gym. 0:18:48.359 --> 0:18:50.000 Back then he would be went three hours at the gym, 0:18:50.000 --> 0:18:52.159 like he just loves it. And I remember when we 0:18:52.160 --> 0:18:54.720 first started dating and we had no babies, he would 0:18:54.800 --> 0:18:57.639 invite me to the gym and I'm the opposite of 0:18:57.640 --> 0:19:00.520 a gym rat, like I'm so lazy and I am 0:19:00.520 --> 0:19:02.200 o c D. So I think everything's dirty. I don't 0:19:02.200 --> 0:19:03.719 want to touch it. I'm okay, gotta wipe it out 0:19:03.800 --> 0:19:05.639 of a a web. And this is like way before COVID. 0:19:06.240 --> 0:19:08.399 And then he's like, what's wrong with you? And I'm hungry? 0:19:08.400 --> 0:19:11.359 Can't we leave? Like and then so I used to 0:19:11.359 --> 0:19:13.080 go through the gym and I would I would literally 0:19:13.080 --> 0:19:16.120 bring him down. So now we know, just me stay 0:19:16.160 --> 0:19:18.680 at home with the kids whatever and help. He gets 0:19:18.680 --> 0:19:20.000 to go to the gym on his own and it's 0:19:20.080 --> 0:19:23.200 very therapeutic for him, and I shouldn't go bother him, 0:19:23.240 --> 0:19:24.879 you know what I mean. Go Back then, he was like, 0:19:25.400 --> 0:19:26.920 what you've all look at here for half an hour 0:19:26.960 --> 0:19:28.719 and you're tired because I just I don't know if 0:19:28.720 --> 0:19:31.000 you have it in me. I'm like a I like 0:19:31.080 --> 0:19:32.680 to go to the grocery store and they'd like to 0:19:32.680 --> 0:19:35.480 go shopping. That's like my gym. And actually the kids 0:19:35.600 --> 0:19:37.800 playing with them is a lot of work. That's my 0:19:37.880 --> 0:19:40.440 gym too. I mean most moms don't know that. I 0:19:40.480 --> 0:19:42.280 think I begin a question, I'm surely how did you 0:19:42.320 --> 0:19:46.000 lose weight so quickly? Well, it's literally my son. He 0:19:46.119 --> 0:19:48.520 treats me like I'm a human gym. Like I'm like 0:19:48.640 --> 0:19:51.040 lifting him up every day on my legs and beans. 0:19:51.119 --> 0:19:53.320 And it's a lot of work, but I love doing it. 0:19:53.359 --> 0:19:56.159 I love that bonding time with him. I'm grateful for it. 0:19:56.320 --> 0:19:59.240 And yeah, everyone out there, if you haven't seen Bling 0:19:59.280 --> 0:20:01.439 Empire and netfl you need to go. You just binge 0:20:01.480 --> 0:20:04.320 the whole thing immediately. It's absolutely phenomenal. First, is there 0:20:04.320 --> 0:20:05.920 anything that you guys want to talk about it promote 0:20:05.920 --> 0:20:07.400 that I didn't talk about in terms of the show, 0:20:07.560 --> 0:20:11.840 or other things that you want to talk about. Yeah, 0:20:11.880 --> 0:20:16.320 I mean Artequila brand, which we're very excited about. Yeah, 0:20:16.359 --> 0:20:19.120 we've got somebody. Yeah, we've got some pretty special things 0:20:19.160 --> 0:20:22.000 coming out soon. Being able to create a private label 0:20:22.320 --> 0:20:25.359 right for people to purchase. Um and you know, I 0:20:25.359 --> 0:20:28.159 mean I think it's a continue again elaborate at the 0:20:28.160 --> 0:20:33.520 private label. Okay, well you know, tell what you told me. Well, 0:20:33.560 --> 0:20:36.000 I mean it's it's just being able to have it 0:20:36.080 --> 0:20:40.359