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Speaker 1: the tub a tub tub full disclosure. I just had

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Speaker 1: before the podcast. And then I walked in and she

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Speaker 1: my scorpio intuition sometime is like freaky. You just know me.

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Speaker 1: I'm really like, I'm really fine. I'm just like I'm

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Speaker 1: very um displaced, Like I feel like my now we're

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Speaker 1: So I used to work from my home and now

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Speaker 1: constantly like packing bags and I feel really bad when

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Speaker 1: the what's that thing that I have? The video on

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Speaker 1: And then I'm like, I feel bad that I left her.

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Speaker 1: and like I just it's like all these emotions at once,

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Speaker 1: and mom guilt is is a real thing. Yeah, And

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Speaker 1: then I'm like, man, I'm like, why did I not

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Speaker 1: set up my place? Because we set up Red Star's

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Speaker 1: And I was like, why didn't I set up my

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Speaker 1: room free because these stairs are very dangerous. They are covered. No,

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Speaker 1: she's like little too. I feel like she'd get really lost.

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Speaker 1: There's all these wires. I can have her up here. Well,

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Speaker 1: you could close this door for sure. Yeah, I guess

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Speaker 1: I could just close all the door, But then she

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Speaker 1: way scarier. But she doesn't go off the stairs because

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Speaker 1: we blocked it off. So why don't just I mean,

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Speaker 1: if you block it off with like you have fourteen

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Speaker 1: the boxes. And that's the other thing. I mean, I

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Speaker 1: So it's just been like a rough like forty eight hours.

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Speaker 1: I'm honestly fine, Like you just need a release. I

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Speaker 1: I mean, you go back and forth every single day.

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Speaker 1: You like, you and Red Star don't live together, but

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Speaker 1: and forth. So they're both set up for Phoebe too,

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Speaker 1: and where you stay you can be like taking the dog,

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Speaker 1: the constant stress and crying that's happened since you got Sunny.

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Speaker 1: Like there is joying here too, right beyond like beyond

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Speaker 1: actually should just bring it to his house. It's easy. Yeah, people, apology,

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Speaker 1: that was an unexpected happening for us. So we apologize

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Speaker 1: for the fib that we told about a Thursday podcast.

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Speaker 1: The week for theme Thursday was disappointment. Yes, that was

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Speaker 1: should be something that we discuss in depth on that podcast.

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Speaker 1: about on this podcast. Well yeah, I could get more specific,

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Speaker 1: doing it. Becca vetoed it, but like, yeah, it's something

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Speaker 1: to go forensic, and so maybe like this Thursday's theme

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Speaker 1: hair Day would be a bole for a podcast. Well yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'm here for the team playership of it all, and

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Speaker 1: I'll veto when I feel like I need to veto,

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Speaker 1: the list. If we're postponing topical conversation because if fits

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Speaker 1: they were like, how are And it's also funny because

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Speaker 1: it's like, how are you so good at keeping it private?

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Speaker 1: Like how do we not know? And I'm like, well,

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Speaker 1: people control what they post on Instagram. Yeah, but I

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Speaker 1: guess I get what they're saying, because you really do,

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Speaker 1: interesting because people are saying that you lip every once

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Speaker 1: there's also people, you know, it's funny, I get such

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Speaker 1: But I actually, honestly, I think we just have time

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Speaker 1: about a ring, but if it's something I'm gonna be

424
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Speaker 1: wearing for for a long time, hopefully I want to

425
00:23:36,720 --> 00:23:39,360
Speaker 1: love it and so and it is an expensive purchase,

426
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Speaker 1: so I totally get this mindset. I think that you,

427
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Speaker 1: or if you have a friend that's like a like

428
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Speaker 1: mutual friend that he trust, maybe you could send her

429
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Speaker 1: kind of like what you love and what you don't

430
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Speaker 1: love and let her relay the information so it doesn't

431
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Speaker 1: feel like you're trying to control the situation, but you're

432
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Speaker 1: like having hint subtly, and I would mostly focus on

433
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Speaker 1: what you do not like, like what you for sure

434
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Speaker 1: would never want to wear, and trust that if you

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Speaker 1: I mean, it's it's really sweet that he wants it

436
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Speaker 1: to be a surprise, So I think, like take that,

437
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Speaker 1: you know, honor that, and also you know, I get

438
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Speaker 1: you wanting what you want. So like if you were

439
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Speaker 1: going to get engaged, I would hope that Red Star

440
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Speaker 1: would be like, hey, reach out to you. For sure,

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Speaker 1: I think he would, because then I'd be like casually

442
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Speaker 1: like do you ever think about engagement rings to you,

443
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Speaker 1: what style do you like? But you know what I

444
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Speaker 1: think that's so interesting is like, and I hate to say,

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Speaker 1: like the rings are in fashion or whatever, but I

446
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Speaker 1: feel like something like there there are there's fashionable styles

447
00:24:46,119 --> 00:24:48,640
Speaker 1: of rings every couple of years, and so it's like, yes,

448
00:24:48,680 --> 00:24:51,200
Speaker 1: you're gonna have this ring forever. So like let's say

449
00:24:51,200 --> 00:24:54,160
Speaker 1: you're having a fifty sixty years the looks gonna change.

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Speaker 1: You're probably gonna hate the ring in ten years. Honestly,

451
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Speaker 1: I mean, if you go with a classic die band

452
00:25:01,000 --> 00:25:06,360
Speaker 1: and a simple band, timeless, right, I agree, But I'm

453
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Speaker 1: just saying, but I also think a lot of it.

454
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Speaker 1: I agree. It's about the sentiment, in the moment, in

455
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Speaker 1: the memory of it. And you know, you can always

456
00:25:17,440 --> 00:25:20,760
Speaker 1: like I sometimes like I think about the surprise party

457
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Speaker 1: that read start through for me, or the dinner, and

458
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Speaker 1: honestly that every part of it is I loved every

459
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Speaker 1: single part of it. He did all of that, you

460
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Speaker 1: know what I mean? Like he did. He did, he

461
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Speaker 1: figured it out, and it was everything that I would

462
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Speaker 1: have wanted. The only thing that was missing. And he

463
00:25:37,000 --> 00:25:38,240
Speaker 1: even said it, he was like, I should have had

464
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Speaker 1: a photographer there, and I was like, you know what,

465
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Speaker 1: I would have liked that because I feel like all

466
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Speaker 1: my photos turned out like dark. Um. But I think

467
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Speaker 1: about that a lot too, because I'm like, he really

468
00:25:51,280 --> 00:25:54,159
Speaker 1: does know me, and he knows how to figure out

469
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Speaker 1: what I want, what I like. Um, so I guess

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Speaker 1: is trust trusts Yeah, leaves some hints. Um that's hard though,

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Speaker 1: I mean, I'm I realized that I never thought I

472
00:26:11,400 --> 00:26:16,760
Speaker 1: was such a um control freak, but I realized that

473
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Speaker 1: me not having control in certain situations gives me some

474
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Speaker 1: mild anxiety. But then but then if I'm expected to

475
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Speaker 1: be in control of something, I also get anxiety because

476
00:26:30,080 --> 00:26:31,960
Speaker 1: I don't like the weight of like the pressure of

477
00:26:32,000 --> 00:26:34,240
Speaker 1: it being on me. And yet if someone else is

478
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Speaker 1: doing and I'm just sitting back, like I would have

479
00:26:36,600 --> 00:26:39,959
Speaker 1: done this differently, you know. Yeah, It's really it's an

480
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Speaker 1: interesting little um predicament because I'm so where this is Friday,

481
00:26:47,720 --> 00:26:51,800
Speaker 1: because it's a holiday today, so um, we I'm doing

482
00:26:51,880 --> 00:26:57,520
Speaker 1: red planning Red Star's birthday party, and it's been It's

483
00:26:57,520 --> 00:27:01,000
Speaker 1: weird because like you wanted to be perfect for them,

484
00:27:01,480 --> 00:27:04,040
Speaker 1: I don't even know. It's a lot made me rethink

485
00:27:04,080 --> 00:27:08,520
Speaker 1: weddings too. Yeah. Oh yeah, no, but you know what,

486
00:27:09,080 --> 00:27:12,479
Speaker 1: Amanda Stanton recently got engaged and so she's wedding planning,

487
00:27:12,480 --> 00:27:15,399
Speaker 1: and she was like, we both thought we didn't care

488
00:27:15,440 --> 00:27:19,280
Speaker 1: about anything, but as we're going through it, we realize

489
00:27:19,280 --> 00:27:22,240
Speaker 1: we're very particular. And she was like, but it's not

490
00:27:23,240 --> 00:27:26,480
Speaker 1: you know, I think there's this false and maybe some

491
00:27:26,520 --> 00:27:31,560
Speaker 1: people love like the planners, like love aple love planning things.

492
00:27:31,720 --> 00:27:34,399
Speaker 1: I do think that. Yeah, I don't have that, so

493
00:27:34,680 --> 00:27:37,760
Speaker 1: like the details of planning a wedding makes me feel

494
00:27:38,920 --> 00:27:44,400
Speaker 1: like I never want to do same. But I guess

495
00:27:44,400 --> 00:27:48,720
Speaker 1: that's why you hire someone. Yeah, that's true. Who does it? Yeah,

496
00:27:48,760 --> 00:27:51,880
Speaker 1: that's true. Like my sister is she's having a birthday

497
00:27:51,880 --> 00:27:56,280
Speaker 1: party this weekend and her birthday is on her birthday

498
00:27:56,320 --> 00:28:00,840
Speaker 1: is on two to to Katie, just making sure, Um,

499
00:28:00,880 --> 00:28:06,480
Speaker 1: you're not going to it right, No, but it was, well,

500
00:28:06,520 --> 00:28:08,560
Speaker 1: they're coming out here the following week, so I'm gonna

501
00:28:08,560 --> 00:28:11,280
Speaker 1: get to see her yea, um, but yeah, that could

502
00:28:11,320 --> 00:28:14,800
Speaker 1: have been a debacle by misread stars. Yeah I really

503
00:28:14,800 --> 00:28:19,240
Speaker 1: need you there. Um. And she decorated like one of

504
00:28:19,240 --> 00:28:23,000
Speaker 1: those balloon arches. She blew them up and put it

505
00:28:23,000 --> 00:28:26,760
Speaker 1: all together, and I was like yes, And I was

506
00:28:26,800 --> 00:28:29,359
Speaker 1: like you should. She's so talented that stuff. And I'm like,

507
00:28:29,520 --> 00:28:33,520
Speaker 1: you could literally do events around your hometown and like

508
00:28:33,680 --> 00:28:36,119
Speaker 1: make a lot of money. And she was like, my

509
00:28:36,280 --> 00:28:40,320
Speaker 1: fingers hurt, too bad. But she loves planning and decorating.

510
00:28:40,320 --> 00:28:42,400
Speaker 1: And I'm like, I am not like that, and I

511
00:28:42,440 --> 00:28:45,640
Speaker 1: wish I was. I wish I was too, because I

512
00:28:45,640 --> 00:28:47,800
Speaker 1: I love when people have just like an like Emily

513
00:28:47,840 --> 00:28:49,560
Speaker 1: who does all your events and stuff for you? And

514
00:28:49,600 --> 00:28:51,360
Speaker 1: then who's the girl shout out to the girl that

515
00:28:51,400 --> 00:28:54,600
Speaker 1: did your Valentine's Day. I wanted to talk about her,

516
00:28:54,640 --> 00:28:59,800
Speaker 1: but she was the sweetest ever ever ever. Um. She

517
00:29:00,400 --> 00:29:05,000
Speaker 1: So she basically started this her own company, um recently.

518
00:29:05,000 --> 00:29:07,640
Speaker 1: It was like after during the pandemic, and she was

519
00:29:07,640 --> 00:29:09,760
Speaker 1: saying how she been listening to the podcast and she

520
00:29:09,800 --> 00:29:13,080
Speaker 1: listened to the morning show and um, she just she

521
00:29:13,160 --> 00:29:14,760
Speaker 1: was working at Starbucks and decided, you know what, I

522
00:29:14,760 --> 00:29:16,800
Speaker 1: want to go for my dreams and started this company.

523
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Speaker 1: So the company is called, um, the Divine Plan Events.

524
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Speaker 1: And she deemed me and said, do you have plans

525
00:29:24,200 --> 00:29:27,640
Speaker 1: for Valentine's Day? And I was like, no, it's a Monday. Um,

526
00:29:27,840 --> 00:29:29,400
Speaker 1: We're not really gonna do much. And she said I'd

527
00:29:29,440 --> 00:29:31,160
Speaker 1: love to come and set up a picnic for you

528
00:29:31,240 --> 00:29:35,280
Speaker 1: and Red Star, and like she did such a beautiful job.

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00:29:35,360 --> 00:29:38,320
Speaker 1: She felt like Red Star wars out butterflies around the

530
00:29:38,320 --> 00:29:42,480
Speaker 1: whole thing. She was just so so sweet and like

531
00:29:42,520 --> 00:29:47,040
Speaker 1: wrote me a letter, made me cry. It was so beautiful.

532
00:29:46,480 --> 00:29:50,760
Speaker 1: It was so beautiful, and like, honestly, just um, sometimes

533
00:29:50,800 --> 00:29:52,560
Speaker 1: I think we forget, you know, because we do a

534
00:29:52,600 --> 00:29:54,200
Speaker 1: podcast and like we're in a you know, we have

535
00:29:54,280 --> 00:29:56,000
Speaker 1: these microphones and we have a computer, but I don't

536
00:29:56,000 --> 00:29:59,560
Speaker 1: think we realized the community of women that we have

537
00:30:00,120 --> 00:30:02,320
Speaker 1: in this podcast. And and just to kind of hear

538
00:30:02,360 --> 00:30:08,200
Speaker 1: her words and know that something I said two years

539
00:30:08,200 --> 00:30:10,840
Speaker 1: ago impacted her that much, you know, like it really

540
00:30:10,840 --> 00:30:14,400
Speaker 1: like touched me. And so yeah, it was a lot.

541
00:30:14,440 --> 00:30:18,000
Speaker 1: But again her the instagram is the Divine Plan Events

542
00:30:18,160 --> 00:30:21,360
Speaker 1: and she's in southern California. So if you want a

543
00:30:21,480 --> 00:30:25,640
Speaker 1: picnic or just hit her up. They're beautiful, She's amazing, amazing.

544
00:30:25,640 --> 00:30:29,880
Speaker 1: I'm definitely going to use her for maybe just a day,

545
00:30:30,040 --> 00:30:33,080
Speaker 1: like a romantic little thing. Yeah. We ordered dinner and

546
00:30:33,080 --> 00:30:36,080
Speaker 1: and and made it like a little made it like

547
00:30:36,160 --> 00:30:40,240
Speaker 1: a little romantic evening. Yeah, it's beautiful. Yeah. Um, all right,

548
00:30:40,400 --> 00:30:45,320
Speaker 1: Well On that note, it's time. It is time to

549
00:30:45,480 --> 00:30:52,720
Speaker 1: record our next podcast. So sometimes sometimes we record our

550
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Speaker 1: Thursday episodes on Monday, depending on the guest schedule or

551
00:30:56,400 --> 00:30:59,960
Speaker 1: our schedule. So if you see us in the same

552
00:31:00,120 --> 00:31:03,280
Speaker 1: close on the videos, we're not as gross and wearing

553
00:31:03,280 --> 00:31:05,240
Speaker 1: the same well, and then sometimes what we do just

554
00:31:05,280 --> 00:31:07,320
Speaker 1: to keep it fresh, keep it fresh and hot if

555
00:31:07,360 --> 00:31:09,640
Speaker 1: the guests have so like today we have our guests,

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Speaker 1: we're going to record the interview after this, but we'll

557
00:31:13,280 --> 00:31:19,000
Speaker 1: record the actual Thursday episode on Thursday and then just

558
00:31:19,320 --> 00:31:22,080
Speaker 1: tack on the interview. So behind the scenes for you,

559
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Speaker 1: if you a little behind the scenes, how the sauce

560
00:31:24,760 --> 00:31:29,560
Speaker 1: is made, how the sausage is made. Oh yeah, the sausage. Yeah. Um.

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Speaker 1: All right, Well, on that note, we gotta go. We

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Speaker 1: love you, have a great week and weekend. It'll be

563
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Speaker 1: week by the time you hear this. Have a great week.

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Speaker 1: I love you, we love you. Goodbye, goodbye,