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Speaker 1: It is ten times harder to find a decent husband

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Speaker 1: than it is.

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Speaker 2: To find a great wife.

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Speaker 1: I'm almost forty, so I have all these like acquaintances

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Speaker 1: getting divorced right now, all these women they keep coming

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Speaker 1: up to me, Oh atlee. It is so difficult dating

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Speaker 1: out there for a divorced woman. None of these men

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Speaker 1: can handle me a strong woman. None of these men

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Speaker 1: want a strong woman. I'm like, you're an annoying woman.

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Speaker 3: But.

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Speaker 2: I do believe that it's slim pickings out there.

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Speaker 1: You know, none of these women they keep telling me

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Speaker 1: about their battle, how ugly it is, how they're fighting

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Speaker 1: for full custody of their kids.

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Speaker 3: I'm like, why even half custody sounds like American horror story.

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Speaker 4: It's a jutile show. And relationships are a lot of work.

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Speaker 4: But you know it's even more work than that. Divorces

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Speaker 4: so much paperwork, and who wants to do paperwork?

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Speaker 5: That's why I want.

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Speaker 4: Relationship Expert is trying to help you out, and they're

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Speaker 4: going viral because they want to save you from all

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Speaker 4: the paperwork of divorce.

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Speaker 5: That's nice, they realize.

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Speaker 4: And they just released a list of red flags that

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Speaker 4: you should think about before you say I do, including

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Speaker 4: what profession you should never get married to? Okay, so

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Speaker 4: we'll go over it now, so you can think twice

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Speaker 4: if you're married to one of these people, getting married

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Speaker 4: to one of them? But what profession do they say

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Speaker 4: you should not get married to at all? It says

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Speaker 4: if one or both parties in the marriage makes a

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Speaker 4: living as a bartender, casino manager, or a flight attendant.

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Speaker 4: That is somebody who you definitely should think twice about

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Speaker 4: before you say, I do really.

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Speaker 2: So many opportunities to stray?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, flight attendant, you can so have so many opportunities

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Speaker 6: to travel.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, look at the pros and the cons.

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Speaker 6: Yes, but while you're traveling, that's like different area codes,

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Speaker 6: less likely to run into your partner because they're across

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Speaker 6: the country.

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Speaker 2: I'm find with that.

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Speaker 4: Okay. The casino manager one kind of gets me. I'm like,

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Speaker 4: why casino manager, which is.

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Speaker 7: They're always in the environment of like a party people

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Speaker 7: around everyone around them is party mode just all the time.

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Speaker 5: Same thing with the bartender.

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Speaker 2: It's like associated with sin immediately, right, Yeah, but you just.

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Speaker 5: Don't trust these people.

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Speaker 7: If you don't trust your person, you probably shouldn't be

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Speaker 7: in a relationship.

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Speaker 5: With When in Vegas. You're not. You're always in Vegas, though,

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Speaker 5: because we live in Vegas.

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Speaker 4: What happens in Vegas is in Vegas. We live in Henderson,

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Speaker 4: not actually correct, We live a little bit outside of Vegas.

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Speaker 5: I work in Vegas.

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Speaker 4: What is another red flag you should pay attention to

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Speaker 4: if you're going to get married to somebody? They say

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Speaker 4: there's two ages that you should be aware of. Oh,

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Speaker 4: if you get married as a teenager, or if you

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Speaker 4: get married after thirty two, it's a high likelihood.

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Speaker 5: You get divorced.

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Speaker 2: What why why?

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Speaker 5: The teenager makes sense?

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Speaker 1: Right?

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Speaker 4: Because you don't know each other well and I don't

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Speaker 4: know the world well enough. Right, Yeah, change a lot

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Speaker 4: from a teenager to twenties, even after thirty two.

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Speaker 2: I don't know why that doesn't make sense.

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Speaker 6: I would I would guess that the later you will

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Speaker 6: get married, age wise, the likelihood of you, guys staying

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Speaker 6: together is higher. You've already waited that long. You're waiting

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Speaker 6: to make sure that you're with the right person. Wouldn't

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Speaker 6: you be staying with them the older you are when

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Speaker 6: you get married versus divorcing them.

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Speaker 5: You're also grown up. Yeah, you know more about yourself.

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Speaker 5: They say that after thirty two. Every year boosts your

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Speaker 5: chances of divorced by five years.

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Speaker 4: I don't believe, sorry, by five percent.

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Speaker 2: Really, I don't believe that.

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Speaker 5: I don't believe that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: And also you're kind of beat down by life at

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Speaker 4: that point, right, so you're like, well, it is what

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Speaker 4: it is.

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Speaker 5: I mean, how much time I really got left? Man?

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Speaker 4: You just stay because it's not worse what I mean. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: you're like a moment and I get that. I don't know,

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Speaker 4: I got a lot of twenty some years. Maybe I

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Speaker 4: have no idea, might as well just chill.

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Speaker 2: I would think.

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Speaker 6: I think somebody that got married after thirty and that's

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Speaker 6: been divorced would be a little bit more because they've

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Speaker 6: already been through it.

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Speaker 2: So they're like, of I gotta do it again. I'll

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Speaker 2: just do it again.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, this is first marriage. I think this first marriage,

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Speaker 5: right right? Yeah? Yeah, having gone through one of those,

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Speaker 5: I don't ever want to do that again.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: Like I said, it's a lot of paperwork.

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Speaker 2: Doun like a lot. This is emotionally taxing too.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, it's definitely that. It's definitely emotionally taxing.

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Speaker 4: But then there's the paperwork, and then paperwork for me

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Speaker 4: is probably the most emotionally taxing thing. I mean, you

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Speaker 4: should see the way I cry when I just check

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Speaker 4: email once a week.

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Speaker 2: Sure, he really does.

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Speaker 4: If your wedding planning was a disaster, they say you

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Speaker 4: should probably not be getting married.

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Speaker 6: Aren't all wedding planning is a disaster because you're kind

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Speaker 6: of running around, you have a lot to choose from.

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Speaker 2: Like that sounds stressful.

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Speaker 7: Being stressed is different than having a disaster of a

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Speaker 7: wedding planning session.

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Speaker 2: Really.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: According to a study of five hundred newly weds or

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Speaker 4: engaged couples, ninety six percent say they found the planning stressful,

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Speaker 4: forty percent of the planning was very or extremely stressful,

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Speaker 4: and seventy one percent had met the wedd planning was

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Speaker 4: more stressful than finding a job or buying a home.

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Speaker 5: I believe it.

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Speaker 6: I don't know anybody that said it was. And I've

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Speaker 6: been a part of wedding planning. Not my own weddings obviously,

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Speaker 6: but as a friend. I've been a part of wedding

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Speaker 6: planning and it's always stressful. Thankfully they're all still married,

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Speaker 6: but very stressful.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I don't understand that that is so silly to

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Speaker 7: spend all that time, money and stress a stress party.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, it's essentially just a party. Who cares to celebrate?

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Speaker 2: It's a dream who.

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Speaker 7: It cares was fed to you by Walt Disney himself,

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Speaker 7: and you should be.

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Speaker 2: Mad at him. Go have a party.

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Speaker 5: Go have a party. It's a dreams fine.

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Speaker 7: Party has to be perfect, yeah, all right, yeah, because

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Speaker 7: marriage is perfect.

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Speaker 5: Right, there's a nation out of place.

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Speaker 2: Everything's hold onto that one special moment.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, you'll have to hold onto it. It's called your

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Speaker 7: credit card debt.

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Speaker 4: It says another red flag when it comes to a

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Speaker 4: wedding and if you should or shouldn't do it more

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Speaker 4: than twenty percent of if more than twenty percent of

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Speaker 4: the wedding guests refuse to attend, I'm not getting married.

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Speaker 4: I'm sure there are people that have invited a bunch

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Speaker 4: of people and they're like, nope, I am not I'm

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Speaker 4: not co signing this.

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Speaker 5: Even by sitting in a seat, I feel like I would.

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Speaker 6: Still have to go, Like if it was my friend,

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Speaker 6: even if they were marrying somebody that I didn't agree with.

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Speaker 2: Like, I feel like I have to be there for support.

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Speaker 7: I think most people do feel like they have to

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Speaker 7: be there. So think about that. They were like not,

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Speaker 7: I'm good.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: And lastly, what this one I think is ridiculous. What

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Speaker 4: is one of the red flags that you should pay

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Speaker 4: attention to in a partner if you're gonna get married

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Speaker 4: to them, I'm going to a career and other things

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Speaker 4: like stress and stuff like that. If the husband has

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Speaker 4: a high level of testosterone.

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Speaker 6: Well you laugh at that, but that also goes with

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Speaker 6: the aggression. The higher like need for like sexual whatever release,

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Speaker 6: all of that type of stuff puts them in situations

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Speaker 6: where they may act up a little bit.

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Speaker 5: So they're saying they're more likely to cheat.

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Speaker 4: But also if you have a high level of testosterone,

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Speaker 4: you can also practice self control.

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Speaker 5: Right, I mean, this is the weirdest thing, your babe.

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Speaker 5: I had no choice.

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Speaker 2: You're asking for a lot no choice. I couldn't do it,

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Speaker 2: you know what I mean?

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Speaker 4: Like problem is all the testosterone running through my brain,

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Speaker 4: Like it just tastes control, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 4: So really, you can't blame you at all. I should

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Speaker 4: be blaming you for questioning me about it. It's probably

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Speaker 4: all that stupid estrogen in your brain. You know, nothing

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Speaker 4: makes you guys crazy all the time.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, good, thing you're immediately over, but you'll know that

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Speaker 6: before you get married.

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Speaker 2: So if you walk down the aisle with that, that's

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Speaker 2: on you.