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Speaker 1: It is time to ask the CLO our chief love Officer,

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey. Here we go. Annie and Towson says, I've

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Speaker 1: been married for thirty years and I found out that

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Speaker 1: my husband's cousin is not his blood cousin. She stayed

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Speaker 1: at our house before, and he's been to New York

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Speaker 1: to visit her without me. Did he hide this from

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Speaker 1: me for years because she's his side chick?

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Speaker 2: Hmm?

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Speaker 3: Not just ain't his blood because you know we had

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Speaker 3: that and everybody has that play cubin like that, you know,

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Speaker 3: as long as they don't play too much. It's what

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Speaker 3: you Yeah, y'all play too much, you know, but that

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Speaker 3: is you know, uh.

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Speaker 1: Huh okay, all right, all right, moving on to Chandria

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Speaker 1: and Lansing, Chandrier. Right, So, I'm twenty eight years old

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Speaker 1: and I have a dog walking business. One of my

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Speaker 1: pet owners was home sick Wednesday, and I went out

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Speaker 1: and bought him some cough medicine. His wife fired me

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Speaker 1: the next day. Was I wrong for trying to be

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Speaker 1: a good Samaritan?

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Speaker 2: Well, you wasn't wrong, but it cost you your job.

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Speaker 2: He's gonna stick with them dogs, that's what.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you just walk them dogs. You don't wear it,

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Speaker 3: but you don't take care of nobody. Husband.

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Speaker 2: You take care of dog. You had a dog watching service.

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Speaker 3: You don't have a husband care business part in life.

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Speaker 3: You gotta understand. You can overpeal. It ain't your business.

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Speaker 3: He walked down there, you know now, you walked your

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Speaker 3: little dude down there and bought some cough medicine.

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Speaker 2: She ain't crazy. You know you going, I just walked

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Speaker 2: these dogs now for dog cough. If the dog cough.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but you don't help out the big dog. You

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Speaker 3: just work with that little dog on that leash. You go, right,

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Speaker 3: you're over helping. Yeah, I heard him come, so I

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Speaker 3: went to the store and got him. That ain't your business.

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Speaker 3: Now you see all that all overcarried. It ain't your business.

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Speaker 1: Lets and learned Schandria.

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Speaker 2: You can't give everybody on the side of the road

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Speaker 2: to right.

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Speaker 1: Hello, okay, all right? Taking care of somebody else?

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Speaker 2: Whosand yeah, what you're doing, just don't.

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Speaker 1: Moving on to Felicity and Denver, Felicity says, my husband

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Speaker 1: heard coughing.

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Speaker 2: The wife heard him coughing. Look bad.

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Speaker 1: Denver said, my my husband watches a lot of porn

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Speaker 1: and he's in the shower for a long time. Most

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Speaker 1: nights we have sex often, so I'm getting I'm getting satisfied.

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Speaker 1: Why does he prefer to do that for himself when

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Speaker 1: I am here, ready and willing to please him? Is

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Speaker 1: this normal?

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Speaker 2: Well?

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Speaker 3: You know, let me right here. Pleasing is in the

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Speaker 3: eye of the beholden. Okay, that's pretty much. I mean,

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Speaker 3: just because you ready, willing and able. Uh you know,

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Speaker 3: abel is a root word of ability, she.

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Speaker 1: Said, Yeah, she's getting satisfied.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, oh he Well, you know I've been going

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Speaker 2: that year, You've been right there.

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Speaker 1: You know what he's doing.

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Speaker 2: Well, you know, he watched a lot of points. You know.

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Speaker 3: Sometimes you know, you can you can overdo anything, too

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Speaker 3: much anything. Yeah, and he could be overdoing it. He

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Speaker 3: just you know, there's a term called nympho maniac. Might

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Speaker 3: want to look down to it. Okay, you know.

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Speaker 1: All right, all right, last one, Steve, This is Eddie

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Speaker 1: and Montgomery. Eddie says, I am a single retired coach.

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Speaker 1: I love to eat, so I have to work out.

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Speaker 1: I'm dating a thirty seven year old woman that loves

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Speaker 1: to cook, but she doesn't work out. She's in pretty

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Speaker 1: good shape, but she's been gaining weight. How do I

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Speaker 1: encourage her to get in the gym before she gains

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Speaker 1: any more weight?

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Speaker 2: Well, see it is hard if Okay, now he says

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Speaker 2: he works out.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, he loves to eat, so he has to

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Speaker 1: work out.

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Speaker 3: Take her to the gym with you. That's he don't

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Speaker 3: want to go. She do not want to go. I'm

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Speaker 3: telling you she don't want to go. Well, you're right

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Speaker 3: about that, you know. Oh, go ahead, see what happened.

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Speaker 1: She loves to cook.

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Speaker 3: She could become your workout.

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Speaker 2: You know.

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Speaker 3: I just notice this thing slow down at the house.

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Speaker 3: Might have something to do with size, That's all I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: And she's been gaining weight.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's hard to know.

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Speaker 1: How does he encourage her to get in the gym?

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Speaker 1: That's what you want.

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Speaker 3: You got to encourage dog. You got to make it

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Speaker 3: a part of it. Hey, look, hey, look, hey, let's

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Speaker 3: get let's let's make a pack. Let's get healthy this year.

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Speaker 3: Let's really work on our health so we can stick

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Speaker 3: around and be that for each other. You got to

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Speaker 3: use positive reinforcement. You cannot use negative statements to get

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Speaker 3: a positive result. Use positive reinforcement with That's the only

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Speaker 3: thing I can do. Hey, baby, look, I've been noticing.

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Speaker 3: We both been needing you for a great cook. But

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Speaker 3: we got the offset this with some work out. Baby,

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Speaker 3: But we're gonna mess around. We ain't gonna fit need

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Speaker 3: clothes no more. We ain't gonna be able to be no.

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Speaker 3: We know already had to replace this mattress.

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Speaker 1: So there you go.

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Speaker 3: Because you know, every time I get into bed, I

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Speaker 3: end up rolling over to your side.

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Speaker 2: You know, I'm just it's hard to sleep on this slope.

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Speaker 1: You know it too much?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, see I tried to work on it, but y'all

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Speaker 3: just kept y'all stayed on too long. What is the

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Speaker 3: next question? See, I got time. Then it's time to elaborate. Then,

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Speaker 3: ye see all we got nine your bigger It's just

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Speaker 3: you know you're gonna lose your man now. Let's just

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Speaker 3: gonna tell it all. You know, eat your way out

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Speaker 3: of the relationship.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. The way through a man's heart is through his stomach. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: And the way out of man's heart is through your stumber.

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Speaker 1: A couple.

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Speaker 3: You know, I try to use words that will help somebody,

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Speaker 3: you know, I try to find the perfect way to

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Speaker 3: say it. The way through a man's heart is through

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Speaker 3: his stumber. The way out of a man's heart is

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Speaker 3: through your stumba.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I hate you, but I love it. Yeah, you

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Speaker 1: know sometimes you.

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Speaker 3: Have to just you know, use what you got, you know,

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Speaker 3: talk to you, you know, and everything I got. I

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Speaker 3: got something about to pop off at the beginning of

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Speaker 3: the year, gonna help everybody.

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Speaker 2: But you know, until then.

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Speaker 1: You know, thank you.

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Speaker 2: It's Steve Harvey Martin show Man.

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Speaker 3: You know, men are really really not nurturing is not

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Speaker 3: really what we do. That's now he looking at a weaker.

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Speaker 3: You need a bath. You ain't walk in now, you

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Speaker 3: want some most soup? Get the game on you all

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Speaker 3: in here?

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Speaker 1: You know, game is all what they got to do.

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Speaker 2: He needs to be washed and.

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Speaker 1: Help. He took that.

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Speaker 3: I got to get you to that bathroom. We got

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Speaker 3: a problem.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, if you start for I get out that dope.

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Speaker 2: I don't need to be in here for this. Hey wait, wait,

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Speaker 2: whooa baby, whoo whoo, Wait a minute.

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Speaker 1: I took too long to get you in here, expected stupid.

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Speaker 4: You have you have to wait? Yeah, you have got

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Speaker 4: to wait till I get out here. How did I

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Speaker 4: take too long getting you in here?

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Speaker 1: Pay?

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Speaker 4: As soon as I set you down, you just started,

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Speaker 4: I like, I gotta get out to the doors.

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Speaker 2: Moran, Steve Harby, Morn Show coming up right after you