Speaker 1: Hell We Suck At Being Newlyweds? Kylen miller Key and
Speaker 1: Jared haven An iHeartRadio podcast. Hello everyone, and welcome back
Speaker 1: to an all new episode of Help We Suck At
Speaker 1: Being Newlyweds. This week we have Jared, we have Dean surprisingly,
Speaker 1: and we also have Emily Ferguson. Why did you get
Speaker 1: lard to like? Surprise Dean? Hey, everybody, welcome to the podcast.
Speaker 1: I feel like you got to bring some more energy
Speaker 1: next time. Okay, then you do it. You start, you start.
Speaker 1: This isn't like a murdering mystery podcast. We want some energy. Hey,
Speaker 1: we suck and we know it, and we're here to
Speaker 1: bring the energy and get you motivated for your Sunday
Speaker 1: or Monday morning commute, whatever it is. As Kylen is saying,
Speaker 1: we've got a great guest this week, a great co
Speaker 1: host with us. It's Emily Ferguson. You know her, you
Speaker 1: love her from Ben Higgins season and I want to
Speaker 1: say two Seasons of Paradise, but it could just be
Speaker 1: one button now very famously, she is Craig Goes and
Speaker 1: she is married and she's expecting, and we want to
Speaker 1: dive into all things about her life today. So Emily,
Speaker 1: how the heck are you? I'm doing really good. Today's
Speaker 1: you caught me on a good day, so I'm really
Speaker 1: happy to be here. Thanks for having me, and I'm
Speaker 1: excited to chat with you guys. And I love the
Speaker 1: new name. We suck at being newlyweds. It's very very cute. Well, Emily,
Speaker 1: how long have you been married for? Oh? God, Okay,
Speaker 1: I got married in July of last year, so I
Speaker 1: think i'm close to like seven months eight months. So
Speaker 1: would you consider yourself a newlywed? I guess so, yeah,
Speaker 1: because I feel like I haven't hit a full year yet.
Speaker 1: That doesn't feel like it doesn't feel long enough. Yeah, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: so years pretty much to cut off where if you start.
Speaker 1: If you continue saying you're a newlywedd after your year,
Speaker 1: you're a psychopath. Yeah kind of I agree with that,
Speaker 1: got it, okay, because we always try to think about
Speaker 1: that because when we rene in the podcast, obviously Caitlin
Speaker 1: and Dean are not married yet. Yeah, I've been married
Speaker 1: for almost for no. Three and a half years, and yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm definitely not a newlywed. There's no way I'm a
Speaker 1: newlywed anymore. Do you feel like do you feel like
Speaker 1: eight months is considered a newlywed still, honestly, in my opinion,
Speaker 1: Now nobody's gonna take my opinion. I think like three months,
Speaker 1: three months. I know, I cut it off quick. Wow. Yeah, No,
Speaker 1: I would still consider myself like a newlywed. It's but
Speaker 1: I say that because even when I introduced myself as
Speaker 1: Missus Carlson, it sounds it still sounds weird. It just doesn't.
Speaker 1: It doesn't like roll right off the tongue. Sometimes I
Speaker 1: feel embarrassed, or I feel like I'm bragging, or I
Speaker 1: feel like I'm just trying to shove it in people's faces.
Speaker 1: So I just kind of like, Hi, I'm Aily. So
Speaker 1: maybe that's the distinction between being a newlywed and not
Speaker 1: being a newlywed anymore. Jared said, you're no longer a
Speaker 1: newly wed when people stop buying you drinks at a bar.
Speaker 1: But obviously no one can buy you a drink at
Speaker 1: a bar because you know you're pregnant. Do I like
Speaker 1: Emily's description a little bit better? You you're not a
Speaker 1: newly wed as soon as you feel comfortable introducing yourself
Speaker 1: as missus whatever last name is. Yeah, No, I definitely, yeah,
Speaker 1: I feel like once it rolls right off the tongue,
Speaker 1: then you know you've been married for like a long
Speaker 1: time and it just works out makes sense. In that case,
Speaker 1: I'm definitely newlywed, because Ashley still doesn't. She's still so weird.
Speaker 1: Is weird saying Ashley Iken Eddie Haven because she likes
Speaker 1: to fit all three in there? Yes, but it's very
Speaker 1: long winded and a mouthful. I wanted to do that.
Speaker 1: I wanted to be Emily Ferguson Carlson, but because Ferguson
Speaker 1: and Carlson had the son at the end, I thought
Speaker 1: it sounded so silly. So I was just gonna I'm
Speaker 1: just Emily Carlson. And my sister she got married first,
Speaker 1: and she decided she was going to change her name
Speaker 1: to Haley Palvey. And I was like, you're just leaving
Speaker 1: me here in the dust, like you're just gonna be
Speaker 1: Haley Palvet. You're not gonna be Haley Ferguson Palvey. Because
Speaker 1: that sounded really good. I thought, She's like, no, I'm
Speaker 1: just gonna be Palve. And I'm like, okay, fine, well
Speaker 1: I'll just be Carlson. Your credit to your credit, Emily
Speaker 1: Carlson sounds amazing. I think that sounds like a very
Speaker 1: good name. You do need to change your Zoom name,
Speaker 1: though you're still Emily Ferguson on Zoom. I have changed that.
Speaker 1: I haven't changed a lot of things. I The only
Speaker 1: things I've changed is my ID and now my health
Speaker 1: insurance because I'm having a baby. So wow, talk about adulthood.
Speaker 1: I know. And it's such a hard process to change everything.
Speaker 1: I need to change my passport too, but that's like
Speaker 1: the last thing I'm gonna do because that seems like
Speaker 1: a nightmare. I remember because you and Haley were the
Speaker 1: Fergie twins. Yeah, it's so hard to let that go.
Speaker 1: I don't think I'll ever let that go. Yeah, you
Speaker 1: guys are always to be the Fergie twins at heart. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and that's what our TikTok name is because we share TikTok,
Speaker 1: So we're the Fergie Twins on TikTok. Like. I still
Speaker 1: like to call myself Fergie, like, I just love that
Speaker 1: little nickname. So it's hard, It really is hard to
Speaker 1: let it go. Did you didn't? Um? Didn't? Someone? Will
Speaker 1: we know? Change? Kaylin, you're going to change your middle
Speaker 1: name to your current last name. Did you guys either
Speaker 1: do that Emily or Haley. No, so me and Haley.
Speaker 1: So she's you're using your middle name. I'm gonna drop
Speaker 1: my middle name and be Emily Emily. I'm Kaylyn Kayl
Speaker 1: Miller Bell. I'm still so tired, Kaylyn Miller Bell. So
Speaker 1: take drop Murray as my middle name. Yeah, replaced with Miller.
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't have a middle name. So that's
Speaker 1: why I always thought it would be cool to be
Speaker 1: Emily Ferguson whoever I'm married. But then, like I said,
Speaker 1: Emily Ferguson Carlson, Yeah, it sounds so silly interesting. So
Speaker 1: no middle name, So that's a non issue for you,
Speaker 1: I guess. And I'm sure Hailey doesn't have a middlea no.
Speaker 1: And if we were to have a girl, which we're
Speaker 1: having a boy, I was like, I don't want my
Speaker 1: girl to have a middle name. I think it's kind
Speaker 1: of cool because people are always like, oh, you don't
Speaker 1: have a middle name, and then people would just give
Speaker 1: me a middle name, just make it up. It was
Speaker 1: so fun. I love that. I know it was fun.
Speaker 1: Everyone just gave me random middle names. Yeah that's interesting. Yeah,
Speaker 1: all right, Emily, will so tell us a little bit
Speaker 1: more about what's going on in your life. I know
Speaker 1: that you you guys have got pregnant pretty recently after
Speaker 1: the wedding obviously, if you will have been married for
Speaker 1: seven months and you're what like four months along now,
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, I wish i'm I'm I'm seven months pregnant.
Speaker 1: I think, yeah, you've been pregnant for a while. I
Speaker 1: feel like, you know, and oh, yeah, I've been pregnant
Speaker 1: for quite some time. I only have Okay, no, I'm
Speaker 1: six months pregnant because I have twelve weeks left. But no,
Speaker 1: I'm twenty nine weeks today, so I think I have
Speaker 1: eleven weeks left. First of all, the whole timetables of
Speaker 1: pregnancies are just so weird because like even with Dawson,
Speaker 1: they're like, oh, he's technically this amount of weeks old,
Speaker 1: but he's really this old. And then it was like, well,
Speaker 1: because isn't the term of pregnancy actually ten months? Yes? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I think. So it's like when as soon as like,
Speaker 1: I'm so honestly so bad at this crap, Like when
Speaker 1: you find out that you're pregnant, you've already been pregnant
Speaker 1: for like a month, and I'm like you just find
Speaker 1: out because like it counts starting from the day that
Speaker 1: you started your period, so it's it's honestly the most
Speaker 1: confusing thing ever. But yeah, technically like full term, I
Speaker 1: know by weeks. This is like the thing, like I
Speaker 1: know that you can be forty weeks pregnant, that's like
Speaker 1: full term, considered full term, and I'm twenty nine weeks
Speaker 1: pregnant today. But yeah, so shortly after the wedding, I
Speaker 1: was on an acne medication where they were like, you
Speaker 1: have to get off before you want to consider having kids.
Speaker 1: So I got off the acne medication and then we
Speaker 1: started trying, and we were very very lucky to get
Speaker 1: pregnant very quickly. But I haven't been on birth control
Speaker 1: for five years now, so like, I'm surprised I never
Speaker 1: got pregnant sooner. And we didn't do the pullout method,
Speaker 1: we didn't do any of that crap. So, honest to god,
Speaker 1: I think my body's been trying to get pregnant for
Speaker 1: five years. Wait, that's really interesting and very crazy. So
Speaker 1: you guys, you've been off birth control for five years,
Speaker 1: and you guys have been together for maybe not five years,
Speaker 1: but a good amount of that time. Yep, I've been
Speaker 1: off birth control for quite a long time. That's crazy.
Speaker 1: That's good news for Kalin because Calin also just stopped
Speaker 1: taking birth control. But I don't want to get pregnant.
Speaker 1: Be careful. There's something in the water, especially out here
Speaker 1: in Vegas, because everyone I know is pregnant right now.
Speaker 1: So oh, I just don't drink the water. No, I'm kidding, kidding,
Speaker 1: You'll be fine. But if you just track everything. Honestly,
Speaker 1: I feel like you start to know your body more
Speaker 1: when you're ovulating. So I just knew my body so
Speaker 1: well by the time we were like, we want to
Speaker 1: have a baby, So I think that also was very
Speaker 1: extremely helpful. And I did the temperature thing, and I
Speaker 1: think you were the first one I saw to ever
Speaker 1: do natural cycles, which is what I'm doing now to
Speaker 1: like track my period and everything. That thing legit tells you.
Speaker 1: It is like, I know people are hesitant about that
Speaker 1: stuff and probably don't think it's legit, but it is legit.
Speaker 1: It tells you everything. Let's get very very cool app
Speaker 1: and stuff. So that's that's how I tracked everything for pregnancy.
Speaker 1: And I was tracking long before we were trying to
Speaker 1: get pregnant because I mean, well, we're considering having kids
Speaker 1: before getting married, because um, he's from Sweden and all
Speaker 1: his friends are like have babies, and they're all just
Speaker 1: like they just like get engaged and then just have babies.
Speaker 1: They never end up getting married. So he's been wanting
Speaker 1: kids for a long time. So I was considering having
Speaker 1: kids before getting married. But then he ended up proposing,
Speaker 1: and then I was like, okay, let's just wait. So yeah,
Speaker 1: now we're happy. Nice. And so you guys decided to
Speaker 1: start drying right after the wedding. That's great that you
Speaker 1: guys were able to figure it out and get it
Speaker 1: all together so fast. That's great. And so so what
Speaker 1: are you? Are you? And you know it's a boy
Speaker 1: and you're excited to have the boy. I'm sure he's
Speaker 1: very excited to have a boy as well as I
Speaker 1: feel like most dads are excited to potentially be boy
Speaker 1: dad's right. Yeah, So, like Will's from Europe and so
Speaker 1: I always you know, he has more I guess I
Speaker 1: would say, like feminine energy in a sense, but like
Speaker 1: also very masculine energy. But I always saw him as
Speaker 1: a girl dad, and when we got he's a professional
Speaker 1: hockey player. He's very masculine. Yeah, would you say so.
Speaker 1: I don't know, like he very he can be like
Speaker 1: dressed quite girly at times. I guess just like, yeah,
Speaker 1: it's yeah, long hair. He has all his teeth, which
Speaker 1: is very different than a lot of hockey players. Thank god. Honestly,
Speaker 1: we were talking about that the other day. I was like, honestly,
Speaker 1: thank god, you have all your teeth. Yeah. I always
Speaker 1: saw him as a girl dad, I really did. He's
Speaker 1: so good with like all my girlfriends and all the
Speaker 1: other girls on the team and stuff. So I always
Speaker 1: saw him as a girl dad, and I was convinced
Speaker 1: I was having a girl. I had every sign I
Speaker 1: was having a girl. Wives tales don't mean because I'm
Speaker 1: having a boy. So, but it was a very big
Speaker 1: surprise to have a boy. Like I've been very sick
Speaker 1: in my first trimester. Second trimester was absolutely glorious. I
Speaker 1: was not sick at all. And now since I've hit
Speaker 1: my third trimester, I feel sick again. Oh no, it's
Speaker 1: like going downhill. Yeah, because Ashley was just downhill for
Speaker 1: the first six or seven months, and then she hit
Speaker 1: her third trimester and then literally she was the best
Speaker 1: she was the entire pregnancy. A month before she gave birth.
Speaker 1: She just was uncomfortable. Man, I just I know, I
Speaker 1: said all the time, but I'm so happy. I'm a man.
Speaker 1: Poor you guys, just damn, it's just so much when
Speaker 1: now you're you know, you're bringing back memories of when
Speaker 1: Ashley was pregnant, about how she had a track recycle
Speaker 1: and being sick all the time and her body changing.
Speaker 1: And then just like has has your son started kicking? Oh? Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's so weird because he I have an interior placenta,
Speaker 1: which means by placentas in the front, So I didn't
Speaker 1: start feeling kicks until like I would say, like strong
Speaker 1: twenty seven weeks, so that was only two weeks ago.
Speaker 1: And they jolt me like they're like, it's absolutely wild.
Speaker 1: When it happens in like his head and shoulders, you
Speaker 1: can feel like the shoulders, the elbows, the butt. It's
Speaker 1: like it is the weirdest, coolest experience. Although I will
Speaker 1: say when he moves it makes me feel extremely sick,
Speaker 1: but it's cool. It's a cool experience. But I'm very
Speaker 1: ready for it to be over. It's so funny. And Kaylin,
Speaker 1: you know, one day hopefully you will be able to
Speaker 1: experience this. But it's crazy to me that you, Like,
Speaker 1: did you ever dream five years ago just being on
Speaker 1: a podcast talk about your placenta? No? Never, I would
Speaker 1: like never. Pregnancy just like brings out such like I
Speaker 1: feel like women who are pregnant are like, okay, I'm
Speaker 1: just gonna say everything, Like I could give a rat's
Speaker 1: ass anymore. No. I honestly like I was thinking about
Speaker 1: this today. It's like I should probably get cute and
Speaker 1: ready for this podcast. I'm like, kit, I'm pregnant. I
Speaker 1: don't give us Yeah, No, everything just goes out the
Speaker 1: door when you're pregnant. I feel like, at least for me,
Speaker 1: I mean like there's days where I try it and
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh my god, I'm still cute, And then
Speaker 1: like other days, I looked down at my belly and
Speaker 1: I'm like, what who am I? What has happened to me?
Speaker 1: I like pulled up my shirt the other day and
Speaker 1: I just couldn't stop like laughing at this situation because like,
Speaker 1: my belly is so big. It's just I could never
Speaker 1: imagined that I could be this big and be as
Speaker 1: comfortable as I am. Weirdly, like I'm pretty dang comfortable.
Speaker 1: It's just like the sickness and like the heartburn, it's
Speaker 1: all the symptoms that suck. It's just it's weird that
Speaker 1: your body knows what to do and you just like
Speaker 1: are kind of fine, and you just like wake up
Speaker 1: and of your life. It's so weird. I can't wrap
Speaker 1: my head around it. Has it been a good experience overall,
Speaker 1: or has it been like I guess, it's kind of
Speaker 1: been a roller coaster you said, I would say highs
Speaker 1: and lows, But it hasn't Like it hasn't stopped me
Speaker 1: from thinking that I would want more kids. I definitely
Speaker 1: want like two kids, So it definitely doesn't like make
Speaker 1: me think, oh my god, I'm not having another kid.
Speaker 1: So that's I think good news. But let's wait until
Speaker 1: I give birth, because then I might change my mind.
Speaker 1: I was gonna ask, are there any nerves like going
Speaker 1: into childbirth? I can only imagine, Oh god, the I can't.
Speaker 1: I honestly, most days just try to block it out
Speaker 1: of my head that I have to get this baby
Speaker 1: out somehow. And I think every option sucks. I think
Speaker 1: I can't believe a c section would suck, and Honestly,
Speaker 1: I think giving birth vaginally would suck. I think that
Speaker 1: either way it's it's gonna suck. So I don't know.
Speaker 1: I'm just it's hard for me to think about. Honestly,
Speaker 1: it's it's terrifying. And that's the one thing I'm most
Speaker 1: scared about is that I have to delay this baby
Speaker 1: one way or another. Do you have a preference or
Speaker 1: an expectation C section or vaginal either way, because I know, well,
Speaker 1: so my sister in law just had a child as well,
Speaker 1: and not to get into their private life, but they
Speaker 1: had to have that yeah, yeah, yeah, but they had
Speaker 1: to make the decision, and I know that it was
Speaker 1: like a challenging decision for them to make because I'm
Speaker 1: just curious if you are leading one way or the
Speaker 1: other on that situation. It's weird because I feel like
Speaker 1: I'm I'm a better candidate for a C section, because
Speaker 1: I get I don't like I think most people don't
Speaker 1: like the unexpected. Right with the C section, you can
Speaker 1: schedule it. You know you're getting the surgery, you know
Speaker 1: you're getting the baby this day. You don't have to labor,
Speaker 1: you don't have to worry about that. But going into
Speaker 1: the experience, I was like dead set on a C section,
Speaker 1: and now as I've gotten further along and my baby's
Speaker 1: been head down the whole time, this whole pregnancy, I'm like, well,
Speaker 1: why wouldn't I push? That's what that's what we're The
Speaker 1: body knows what to do, and I'm working with Adula
Speaker 1: and she he is extremely helpful. So I think I'm
Speaker 1: going to try to push, which is like total one
Speaker 1: eighty from what I was expecting to do because I
Speaker 1: was totally going to schedule a C section and just
Speaker 1: get this baby out and just call it a day.
Speaker 1: But now I'm thinking I'm just gonna let my body
Speaker 1: go into labor and just let this baby come how
Speaker 1: he's supposed to come. Are you thinking about getting an epidural?
Speaker 1: That was my question. Yes, So working with a dula,
Speaker 1: I've thought about maybe trying not to do an epidural,
Speaker 1: But the only realistic way that would work is if
Speaker 1: if my water broke and I can labor mostly at
Speaker 1: home and like my bathtub and try. Obviously, this is
Speaker 1: my first baby, so I don't know what to expect.
Speaker 1: So I'm thinking my water's gonna break and I'm gonna
Speaker 1: be like, get me to the hospital. I'm freaking out,
Speaker 1: like I don't think that I can remain calm, But
Speaker 1: I'm also doing like it's called birthing hypnosis, so like
Speaker 1: I'm listening to like affirmations and meditations to try and
Speaker 1: keep me calm and like prepared for when that moment
Speaker 1: does happen. I don't know. I can't. I'm not sure
Speaker 1: how I'm going to be when I go once it
Speaker 1: gets closer. I'm not sure if I'm going to be
Speaker 1: super anxious or if I'm going to be able to
Speaker 1: remain calm. But I felt calm this whole pregnancy, and
Speaker 1: they do say boys make you feel more calm, so um, yeah,
Speaker 1: I feel pretty calm. I don't know. I feel like
Speaker 1: I might be able to do this if they had
Speaker 1: laugh if they had laughing gas, I really think I'd
Speaker 1: be able to push without an epidural. Another reason I
Speaker 1: don't want an epidural is because I have scoliosis and
Speaker 1: it could affect how the epidural works in my body.
Speaker 1: I don't how terrifying would that be. I don't know
Speaker 1: how affect that, so I guess that it could. It
Speaker 1: could a make the epidural not work, be it could
Speaker 1: make the epidural only work on one half of your body,
Speaker 1: and that just sounds so scary. I don't know. All
Speaker 1: my options seriously suck. But also I was just told
Speaker 1: that I have like low platelets. So my options are
Speaker 1: either you have to give birth with no epidural because
Speaker 1: you can't and nothing can go into your spine with
Speaker 1: low platelets. And if I have a C section, I
Speaker 1: have to be under anaesthesia, so I would be asleep,
Speaker 1: so then I don't even get to see my baby,
Speaker 1: and that option sounds really really sad. Darn So it's
Speaker 1: damn stressful just even thinking about what you want to
Speaker 1: do for the delivery process. It's honestly so stressful. I
Speaker 1: definitely if I if my plate let's get any lower
Speaker 1: and I have to go under anesthesia for a C section,
Speaker 1: I'm not doing that option. I would rather just push
Speaker 1: with no epidural. Okay, Well that's yeah, that's intense. That's
Speaker 1: good that you have that in your head already made up.
Speaker 1: If it's too low and you would have to go
Speaker 1: under anesthesia, then you know that you're not going to
Speaker 1: do it, And I think it's good that you have
Speaker 1: your mind made up about that. Yeah, I mean, it
Speaker 1: would be amazing if I could push without an epidural.
Speaker 1: But I'm going in with an open mind. I want
Speaker 1: to see how contractions feel. I don't have a dead
Speaker 1: set plan. I just kind of want to see how
Speaker 1: it goes. Yeah, so Ashley, the reason I asked is
Speaker 1: because Ashley got the epidural and her prank, because you
Speaker 1: were scared of childbirth. And I will say once Ashley's
Speaker 1: knock on wood was pretty smooth. Yeah. The only time
Speaker 1: it wasn't smooth when we've got to the hospital little
Speaker 1: and then contractions became worse and more painful, and then
Speaker 1: we just had to wait for the uppidural. But luckily
Speaker 1: the upperdual came and then it worked and everything was fine,
Speaker 1: and she just had to do a couple of maneuvers
Speaker 1: and she pushed for like I don't even think it
Speaker 1: was two hours, and then that's dream was born. Yeah.
Speaker 1: It's crazy though. It's funny when I always talking about
Speaker 1: being in the delivery room and you know, there's Ashley's
Speaker 1: whole thing was like she wanted to put the blanket
Speaker 1: or shade up. She never wanted me to look. There
Speaker 1: is no blanket, there is no shade. Everything is seen.
Speaker 1: There's just water everywhere, and it's just it's so funny
Speaker 1: how you just like there's three or four people, these
Speaker 1: doctors and nurses like around Ashley's vagina and they're just there,
Speaker 1: like all right there, ready to go, and it's just
Speaker 1: you know, her legs are just strapped up in the
Speaker 1: air and just it's just yeah, it's she's water break.
Speaker 1: And then she went to the hospital or did she
Speaker 1: get induced. No, her water broke, yeah, okay, but I
Speaker 1: don't think I ever saw it, because she woke me
Speaker 1: up in the middle of the night and she said
Speaker 1: that she felt like she was having contractions, and then
Speaker 1: she was timing them and then she said, Okay, if
Speaker 1: I get another one in ten minutes, we should probably go.
Speaker 1: And then she got another one and then her water broke.
Speaker 1: Her water might have broke at the hospital. She went
Speaker 1: to the doctors like five days before she went to labor,
Speaker 1: and she was already three centimeters dilated, so they knew, like, okay,
Speaker 1: because she was actually thinking about getting a C section
Speaker 1: as well. But once she found out that she was
Speaker 1: already three centimes dilated, the doctor's like, listen, your body
Speaker 1: is ready to give birth. To this baby like it's
Speaker 1: probably better if you just do vaginal, and she's like,
Speaker 1: all right, cool, let's do it. Yeah, that's definitely what
Speaker 1: I'm thinking is just it would be easier to just
Speaker 1: let my body decide. I just want the decision made
Speaker 1: for me. I don't want the choice. It's too hard.
Speaker 1: That's probably if I were if I could give birth,
Speaker 1: That's exactly how I would do it too. I would
Speaker 1: just be like, I don't want to make any decisions.
Speaker 1: I want it to happen how it's supposed to happen,
Speaker 1: how it was supposed to happen, until it's actually happening.
Speaker 1: You know, how has Will been handling everything, like, uh,
Speaker 1: you know, pregnant wife and that to be How does
Speaker 1: he like, how is he handling it all? It's so funny.
Speaker 1: I feel like Will is just like naive and like
Speaker 1: he lives his life and he does his thing and
Speaker 1: he just kind of forgets that like we're pregnant. Honestly,
Speaker 1: but I do have a couple of mental breakdowns just honestly.
Speaker 1: The hardest part for me is watching how much my
Speaker 1: body's changed in such a short amount of time, especially
Speaker 1: like right before the wedding. You know you're like in
Speaker 1: full like mode, like I want my I want to
Speaker 1: like be like the best shape of my life before
Speaker 1: my wedding. And then soon after I get pregnant and
Speaker 1: just the body changes, and I'm sure just the hormones
Speaker 1: and everything make you more sensitive and stuff. So it's
Speaker 1: been a complete shock to just watch everything change in
Speaker 1: a course of seven months already. And so yeah, mornings
Speaker 1: I'll wake up crying just because I just feel like
Speaker 1: the ugliest person in the whole world. And he's just
Speaker 1: the sweetest and this is why I always thought he'd
Speaker 1: be such a great girl dad. And he's very comforting
Speaker 1: and like you're so beautiful, you're growing a human blah
Speaker 1: blah blah. So he's been really great with the emotional breakdowns,
Speaker 1: but when it comes to like day to day stuff,
Speaker 1: like I just feel like he just doesn't even think
Speaker 1: we're pregnant. I don't even think he's done. He's helped
Speaker 1: me put the stroller together, but of course, like I'm
Speaker 1: the pregnant one here freaking putting everything together, getting everything ready.
Speaker 1: I'm still the one cooking, I'm still the one cleaning.
Speaker 1: Like it's just it's kind of funny to me. I
Speaker 1: just think he thinks it's just normal. It's funny to
Speaker 1: hear you talk about the physical changes you've endored, because
Speaker 1: just on the zoom call alone, we can only see
Speaker 1: like the upper half of your torso and then obviously
Speaker 1: your face. And if you didn't, if we didn't know
Speaker 1: that you were pregnant, I would never have guessed that
Speaker 1: you are pregnant, because you look at least to me normal,
Speaker 1: you know, especially, thank you so much. That's like the
Speaker 1: one thing I'm like banking on here is the only
Speaker 1: thing that looks different is my belly. And I'm like
Speaker 1: all belly, which is so wonderful, and I'm so lucky
Speaker 1: and I haven't gotten like swollen, and my jewelry and
Speaker 1: rings still fit, so I'm always like, this is a
Speaker 1: great sign when things still fit. Obviously my clothes don't
Speaker 1: still fit, but yeah, my belly has just gotten hey humongous.
Speaker 1: I can't even like look at it most days. My
Speaker 1: belly button popped at twenty weeks, Like I couldn't believe that,
Speaker 1: Like none of my friends. A lot of my friends
Speaker 1: are pregnant, and none of their belly buttons are popped,
Speaker 1: and they usually don't pop till the end of pregnancy.
Speaker 1: My belly button popped right at twenty weeks. I'm like,
Speaker 1: oh my god, I know this is going downhill from here,
Speaker 1: Like this is so bad. And I'm like, I'm like
Speaker 1: not even gaining that much weight. I'm just super confused.
Speaker 1: I just see like this baby has nowhere to go.
Speaker 1: He's just right up, like just going out this way
Speaker 1: and this way. And I have a short torso so
Speaker 1: it's just it's been brutal. I'm not gonna lie. It's
Speaker 1: been a freaking wild ride. Do you guys have a
Speaker 1: name picked out yet? We do. We knew we've known
Speaker 1: his name before we even started trying, but I'm not
Speaker 1: sharing it. But it's so cute. I'm obsessed with it.
Speaker 1: I'll text it to you guys. I just am not
Speaker 1: announcing it. Who's who came up with the name? Well
Speaker 1: came up with the name, and I just liked the name.
Speaker 1: So it wasn't like a big argument or anything. I
Speaker 1: will say, it's not like anything. It's not like a
Speaker 1: weird name. It's actually a very classic name. Was it
Speaker 1: a name he's like always thought he'd have or he
Speaker 1: just made it up? I think he just made it up.
Speaker 1: It's not a name that I think he's like thought
Speaker 1: about having. It was just it was just based off
Speaker 1: someone that he idolized and I liked the name. Yeah,
Speaker 1: he's either yeah, I mean obviously the first name don't
Speaker 1: because you see so now my my rolodex is scrolling
Speaker 1: because says it's someone he I don't try to guess it. Well,
Speaker 1: the obviously the first one that comes to mind would
Speaker 1: be Wayne. Obviously Wayne is the first one that comes
Speaker 1: to mind, him being a hockey player. You got gret Sky.
Speaker 1: I would say probably someone like Mario Mario Lemieux would
Speaker 1: be another candidate. I would assume what other I'd say, Yeah,
Speaker 1: David David who pasta knock? Isn't David Hasselhoff Swedish? I
Speaker 1: don't know. Is David hassel sweet? I think he's I
Speaker 1: think he's from Germany. Could be yeah, because they used
Speaker 1: to chant hassle off Winter apparently dying laughing. No. Me
Speaker 1: and Haley filmed with David David Hasselhoff when we did
Speaker 1: our spinoff show, The Twins Happily ever After. What a
Speaker 1: freaking guy? Oh, I remember that he is an interesting
Speaker 1: guy and he's very actually really sweet and nice, but
Speaker 1: U Yeah, I think he I think he's German or something,
Speaker 1: or he's American, right, but people in Germany love him. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I think that's what it is. I think he's like
Speaker 1: he's German American. I think that's probably what which is.
Speaker 1: Gonna texted that he's from Baltimore, so not as exotic
Speaker 1: as we thought. He's got. He's got you guys got
Speaker 1: the name pick. That's great. Sorry, Jered, go ahead. I
Speaker 1: was gonna say, is it funny Emily that I feel
Speaker 1: like in most relationships, you know, between a man and
Speaker 1: a woman, like the woman will get more men scoffing
Speaker 1: after her, and then the men will get more women
Speaker 1: scoffing after her. But I feel like in your guys relationship,
Speaker 1: because of your history with the Bachelor and Happily ever
Speaker 1: After and him being a hockey player, I feel like
Speaker 1: there's probably so many women that come up to you
Speaker 1: when you guys are out, and there's so many men
Speaker 1: that go up to him because even when it's so
Speaker 1: funny talking to you because obviously I know your husband
Speaker 1: from hockey as being a big NHL fan, So um,
Speaker 1: is that how it goes? Like? Do you find that
Speaker 1: you got like that you have like a lot of
Speaker 1: fangirls that come up to you, and then there's a
Speaker 1: lot of fan boys that go up to Will. Definitely,
Speaker 1: it's like the complete opposite. So yeah, but you want
Speaker 1: to know what I always find so funny is whenever
Speaker 1: I like go out or whatever, it's honestly men who
Speaker 1: come up to me and they're like, and you guys
Speaker 1: probably can really it's like, my wife loves the show,
Speaker 1: Can I get a picture with you? Because my wife
Speaker 1: would just freak out because it's mostly when living in
Speaker 1: Vegas at least, it's mostly men out here for like
Speaker 1: bachelor parties or with a group of friends or something.
Speaker 1: And then yes, like little bachelor at parties to like
Speaker 1: the girls are like screaming freaking out. But yeah, like
Speaker 1: mostly men are up to Will. Kids. People use their
Speaker 1: kids to get to Will. They're like, oh, my kid
Speaker 1: loves you. Can he get a picture with you? And
Speaker 1: then the whole family gets a picture. It's it's funny.
Speaker 1: But yeah, I mean, I mean, Will don't go out
Speaker 1: a lot. We're like the most boring people in the
Speaker 1: whole world, so it doesn't happen often, but when it does,
Speaker 1: it's you're right, it's definitely men going towards will girls
Speaker 1: going towards me. I gotta know as a fellow Vegas resident,
Speaker 1: when when you guys do go out, Because Kaitlin and
Speaker 1: I are the same, we like never go out, and
Speaker 1: whenever we do go out, we always go to the
Speaker 1: same place as where do you guys go out? When
Speaker 1: you go out in Vegas? Dean will not go any
Speaker 1: further than ten minutes from our house. Oh my god,
Speaker 1: because Calin's like, oh, I found this really cool restaurant.
Speaker 1: It's got four and a half stars on Google. It's
Speaker 1: in the Arts district. I'm like, oh, we're gonna drive
Speaker 1: thirty five to go to a restaurant to get a
Speaker 1: great place. Sure, but there's within those thirty five minutes
Speaker 1: there's probably one hundred more restaurants that are just as good,
Speaker 1: if not better. Dean, where are you currently? I'm in
Speaker 1: El shall Ten? You're we where Ela shall Ten. It's
Speaker 1: in the southern Argentina, So you're right now in southern Argentina.
Speaker 1: And where you just in? What's that place called Antarctica?
Speaker 1: How far is Southern Argentina and Antarctica from Vegas? It's far,
Speaker 1: but I'm not going to this. I'm not going to
Speaker 1: these places for dinner and then flying. That's ridiculous. So
Speaker 1: you so you can go to all these different places,
Speaker 1: but you can't drive thirty thirty five minutes for dinner
Speaker 1: with Kaylin. Come on, come on, I refuse. Don't suck
Speaker 1: at being a newly went bro. We went horseback riding,
Speaker 1: an hour and a half drive and I was like, Kalen,
Speaker 1: there's horses literally ten minutes from my house. One I
Speaker 1: go there, I know that was it. That was different
Speaker 1: because they couldn't cook the horses. But I understand that.
Speaker 1: But in Vegas there's so much any around you at
Speaker 1: all times, but you do live close to us. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you want to know what. There's this new place that
Speaker 1: I you guys have to try if you haven't tried
Speaker 1: it already. It's called Miroki. It's a Greek restaurant and
Speaker 1: I order it every single night on door dash and
Speaker 1: it's just the best Greek I've ever had. And I
Speaker 1: don't even like light Greek, honestly, but this Greek is
Speaker 1: so good. And maybe it's pregnancy like addiction, I don't know,
Speaker 1: but like I eat it every single night for dinner.
Speaker 1: But No, A lot of people rave about it. It's
Speaker 1: called maraki. You can order it and it's and if
Speaker 1: you want to go eat it, eat at the restaurant.
Speaker 1: It's um, it's off Charleston in two fifteen, so it's
Speaker 1: really close to where you guys live. You guys have
Speaker 1: to try it that way, but otherwise you're right, Like,
Speaker 1: the best restaurants are definitely on the strip and definitely
Speaker 1: like downtown Vegas, like the most like delicious ones. But
Speaker 1: we don't do that often, so like restaurants that are
Speaker 1: good are usually in like downtown Summerland. I don't know.
Speaker 1: I mean we'll like I usually just cook because I'm
Speaker 1: so like, I just don't like like going out, and
Speaker 1: then when you order sometimes it just doesn't taste as good.
Speaker 1: So um, Lastregas down the street. I don't know if
Speaker 1: you guys have tried Lastrega. That's good. Master Mastriano's, Oh
Speaker 1: my god, the cutest little Italian restaurant, Anna Maries. Have
Speaker 1: you tried Anna Maries? No, I think I need a
Speaker 1: list from you. We haven't. I'll make you a list
Speaker 1: because honestly, like, we don't go out often, and when
Speaker 1: we do, we just go to like the same places.
Speaker 1: We're just like I said, we're not We're not exciting.
Speaker 1: We're we're terrible at being newlyweds. We just stay home
Speaker 1: and freaking walk. We're This is why I also love
Speaker 1: Will so much is because he loves Love Island and
Speaker 1: that is just like the greatest. Like most guys are like, oh,
Speaker 1: it's just I can't believe you watch this crap and stuff.
Speaker 1: But he likes watching the Housewives with me. He loves
Speaker 1: watching Love Island with me. Oh my god. He's just
Speaker 1: so fun in that sense. It's the best. Oh, I
Speaker 1: love that. Do you watch UK? Yes, I'm I'm obsessed in.
Speaker 1: Everyone's saying that the season is not as good, but
Speaker 1: I would say, you just have to like give it
Speaker 1: a couple episodes. It gets really good. The season's unreal. Oh,
Speaker 1: I haven't watched. I watched Gemma and eck Ensues great
Speaker 1: season obviously, probably one of the best seasons. But this
Speaker 1: season is still just as good. You've got to watch
Speaker 1: it and give it a couple episodes. Don't just like
Speaker 1: be like it's not that great. You have to give
Speaker 1: it a couple episodes. I'm telling you it gets good.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, Dean's brother watches, but I can't get Dean
Speaker 1: into it. Yeah, most guys don't. It's like, come on,
Speaker 1: it's honestly so entertaining. I have watched a couple and
Speaker 1: I do get into it. Yeah, but I and I
Speaker 1: don't criticize you for watching on the thin Kalen do I.
Speaker 1: But the show I always laugh at Kalen for watching
Speaker 1: are the Real Housewives shows. Those are crazy. Those ones
Speaker 1: I actually do drive me crazy sometimes with all the yelling,
Speaker 1: but it is entertaining. I can only watch the Salt
Speaker 1: Lake City one. Oh yeah, but it's so good, so
Speaker 1: how City and Beverly Hills. So everyone says the Beverly
Speaker 1: Hills one is good. Maybe if I just didn't start
Speaker 1: from the beginning and just like watch the most recent one,
Speaker 1: i'd like it, or like the most recent few, because
Speaker 1: like the older ones are just so hard to watch,
Speaker 1: they're the best ones. Though I was never into the
Speaker 1: Housewives until COVID, I like started watching from the beginning
Speaker 1: and now I'm obsessed. Okay, now that I don't have
Speaker 1: many shows to watch, maybe I'll try. Because everyone talks
Speaker 1: about how the Beverly Hills one is the best one. Yeah,
Speaker 1: especially early seasons like now, it's it's not that great really, Okay, yeah,
Speaker 1: but I guess it's like the og of Housewives, so
Speaker 1: like I kind of should watch it. Yeah, it's good.
Speaker 1: We're obviously hitting the Brady buzzer on that, right, Yeah,
Speaker 1: we should hit the We should hit the Brady buzzer
Speaker 1: on that. That's perfect implementation of the Brady buzzer. I
Speaker 1: have been watching Perfect Match, have you guys? Perfect Match? Yeah?
Speaker 1: I've been watching The Perfect Match? Yeah? Have you finished it?
Speaker 1: I have not finished it, but you can spoil it
Speaker 1: for me. I'm not like, I'm not like weird like that.
Speaker 1: I don't give it. I'd actually rather know we won't
Speaker 1: spoil it because I don't think the audience that right.
Speaker 1: Right for the listeners, that was a good show. I
Speaker 1: was kyling and I've been texting a little bit about
Speaker 1: it back and forth because I'm not a big fan
Speaker 1: of reality TV typically, but this one, you know, there's
Speaker 1: some favorites from some other reality TV shows that we've watched,
Speaker 1: and it's just been interesting. It's so funny to see
Speaker 1: these contestants come back. It's kind of like a Bachelor
Speaker 1: in Paradise of sorts. That's kind of what I kept
Speaker 1: relating it too. But these contestants seem a little bit
Speaker 1: more insufferable than any Bachelor of contestants that I've back,
Speaker 1: at least, so it's been fun to watch. I don't know,
Speaker 1: I'm so bad with names. Maybe it's no Dom, No,
Speaker 1: it's not Dom. But the other couple, it's like the
Speaker 1: blonde girl and then from the circle is a Joey there.
Speaker 1: They're so toxic and stuff, but it's actually the most
Speaker 1: entertaining thing in the whole wide world. Are they still together?
Speaker 1: I just read that nobody is together from the show,
Speaker 1: like everyone broke up away. That's what I just read.
Speaker 1: I don't know if it's true. I think the couple
Speaker 1: that one was clear, like the couple that one obviously
Speaker 1: wasn't gonna last. I don't think, but I do. I'm
Speaker 1: like in love with Dom. I think Dom is my
Speaker 1: favorite reality contestant from any season, any show ever. He's
Speaker 1: so cool. I think I loved Kissing Challenge. I thought
Speaker 1: that was that's like the most recent episode. That's like,
Speaker 1: literally I'm pretty behind, but the like the where they're
Speaker 1: like kissing each other and then they get like rated
Speaker 1: and stuff. Yet Island I liked it. I know I
Speaker 1: loved it. It was it was good. It's good. I
Speaker 1: need to continue watching it. But I'm like obsessed with
Speaker 1: like Outer Banks and of course love violand so I'm
Speaker 1: kind of like cooked on other things right now. I'm
Speaker 1: three episodes into Outer Banks right now, and every time
Speaker 1: I finished an episode, I'm like, this is the worst
Speaker 1: television show I've ever watched. I can't wait to see
Speaker 1: what happens next, Like it's it's so bad, but it's
Speaker 1: got me hooked so good. It's Outer Banks reality TV?
Speaker 1: Or is it scripted? Scripted? Scripted? Okay, that's what I thought.
Speaker 1: It's really good. But I love the whole dynamic of
Speaker 1: the main characters. We're in a relationship and now they're
Speaker 1: broken up, so watching them like having to film this
Speaker 1: season together, to me, it's been so like interesting to
Speaker 1: see like the how they work together now that they're
Speaker 1: broken up. They do a really great job of pretending
Speaker 1: like it's not a problem, but like I'm thinking, like
Speaker 1: that's got to be a problem, like because now I
Speaker 1: think they're dating other people, and how could they're not
Speaker 1: be jealousy? Like I feel like they're they're doing like
Speaker 1: makeout scenes and almost like sex scenes together. I'm like, definitely,
Speaker 1: that's gotta because now they have new relationships outside of
Speaker 1: the show, and I'd be like, they probably still have
Speaker 1: a connection, you know, especially when they're like making out again.
Speaker 1: I'm like, they probably still love each other, I would think,
Speaker 1: but they're like trying to pretend not to love each other.
Speaker 1: That's just my like me like maybe being hopeful. I
Speaker 1: want them to be together because it's like they're so
Speaker 1: cute together. I'm so sad they broke up. That's honestly
Speaker 1: so sad. But yeah, watching them together as we'll watch
Speaker 1: these shows that do or mostly just love Island. No,
Speaker 1: mostly just love Island and he loves The Last of Us?
Speaker 1: Isn't that the zombie show that everybody? That one makes me?
Speaker 1: I can't it gives me so much anxiety, But I
Speaker 1: can't also stop watching it because it's like whoa, Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's pretty good. Yeah, it's good. Do you guys like
Speaker 1: watch since he's a hockey player, obviously, do you guys
Speaker 1: watch a lot of hockey or is that something you
Speaker 1: don't really watch any spare time? We don't watch hockey
Speaker 1: and our spare time. No, I think that like the
Speaker 1: rule is is like, once he comes home, there's no
Speaker 1: hockey talk. Does he make that he wants that rule?
Speaker 1: Do you want that rule? I just like never talked
Speaker 1: about it, and I always thought that's probably why why
Speaker 1: I ended up marrying him, because we don't talk about hockey.
Speaker 1: I think he likes it. So I just like that's
Speaker 1: my rule in my head. If he comes home, we
Speaker 1: don't talk about it. Yeah, he doesn't want to talk
Speaker 1: about work at home. Yeah, I mean, like, and who
Speaker 1: would want to, especially like if you're like not doing
Speaker 1: good or if you I mean, if you are doing good,
Speaker 1: you're probably really happy. But yeah, we just don't. We
Speaker 1: just don't talk about it. And I think that's a
Speaker 1: good thing. I think it's like healthy for us. But
Speaker 1: also I was like thinking, what is like healthy for
Speaker 1: us too? And I probably Dean and Kaylen can relays,
Speaker 1: because you guys travel so much and you're apart so much.
Speaker 1: Is that like when you come together, it's like so
Speaker 1: it's so nice to have those moments away from each other.
Speaker 1: I feel like that's actually been really nice for our relationship,
Speaker 1: so that he's like away for two weeks and then
Speaker 1: when he comes home, I'm like Oh my god. I
Speaker 1: gets so excited when he comes home. I like get
Speaker 1: like so prepared and like get the house ready, and
Speaker 1: I'm like, what am I going to cook for dinner
Speaker 1: this week when he comes home? Yeah, So it's like
Speaker 1: I feel like that's really nice. Are you and Ashley
Speaker 1: away from each other a lot, Jared? Are you together
Speaker 1: all the time? Noo, We're together all the time. And
Speaker 1: I think it would actually, I mean, our relationship is great,
Speaker 1: but yeah, it's I think it would be beneficial for
Speaker 1: any relationship to have your own thing and then come
Speaker 1: back to each other. But the problem is we're also
Speaker 1: paranoid people, so like I would just be convinced, like
Speaker 1: if Ashley did something without me or went on a
Speaker 1: plane or went somewhere, like I'm always convinced that, you know,
Speaker 1: some think tragic is going to happen and that she'll
Speaker 1: die or I'll die, and then that goes through my
Speaker 1: head constantly. Yes, oh my god. That's the plus side,
Speaker 1: the positive of always doing everything together, because we're like, well,
Speaker 1: at least if we're going, we're going together. You know,
Speaker 1: we were actually talking about that we I think we
Speaker 1: had to go somewhere. I forget the other day and
Speaker 1: we and we had a babysitter for Dawson. We went
Speaker 1: to this appointment and yeah, it was like I ended
Speaker 1: up going with her and she's like, I'm glad you're
Speaker 1: here because at least if we die, we both die together.
Speaker 1: And I'm like, why do we think this way? Plus
Speaker 1: we have a son at home now we have to
Speaker 1: like like I'm sorry, now I'm going on this tangent
Speaker 1: I relate to Tanner and Jade. Tanner and Jade try
Speaker 1: not to travel together because their logic is if one goes,
Speaker 1: at least the other one could still raise the kids. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I can't believe we think this way, but whatever, Well,
Speaker 1: you have to cut. Like tragedies happen. It's obviously not
Speaker 1: something that you would like hope for. But like I
Speaker 1: feel like, realistically, sometimes you have to think like that.
Speaker 1: I don't know, it's it's terrible way of thinking, Like
Speaker 1: it's not a great way to think, but it's also like, uh,
Speaker 1: somewhat realistic way to think. Now that's something that I
Speaker 1: feel like we have to start talking about. Is like,
Speaker 1: which is kind of scary, is like I don't we
Speaker 1: don't have a will, and now that we have like
Speaker 1: a baby, do we need to like make a will?
Speaker 1: Like it's just so And I'm like, I'm only thirty
Speaker 1: years old. Is this something I need to think about? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Trust me, her dad is on us being like, you
Speaker 1: gotta make a whale, you gotta make a will because yeah,
Speaker 1: something happens nobody knows. I mean I wonder what would
Speaker 1: happen right now if we don't have a will, Like,
Speaker 1: what would happen to everything we own? I would assume
Speaker 1: it would get handed down to Dawson at some point
Speaker 1: and like a you know, a savings account or something.
Speaker 1: But I don't know. It's just like a family gets
Speaker 1: involved and they like you know, say, like sometimes like
Speaker 1: people like want to go after your money. I think
Speaker 1: it'd be so much more complicated. It's it's probably not
Speaker 1: as simple and easy as it like sounds unless you
Speaker 1: have something set in stone like paperwork. But I think
Speaker 1: that that people do become like day kind of Yeah,
Speaker 1: those bastards would get involved family. Yeah, you just hear
Speaker 1: craziest stories, honestly, and you're like damn, and you're probably
Speaker 1: up in heaven like what the fuck is going on
Speaker 1: down there? Yeah? Settled down everyone, but yeah, Dean and Klein.
Speaker 1: I sorry you, this question was meant for you, guys. Kailin,
Speaker 1: how do you feel being a part of Like do
Speaker 1: you get like Emily where you get excited to see
Speaker 1: Dean or you just dread every time it comes home. Yeah? No,
Speaker 1: I definitely don't dread it. But I think it's good
Speaker 1: for our relationship. Like I get super excited he'll be
Speaker 1: here on Tuesday, and I don't know. I think it's
Speaker 1: I think it's good for us to like do our
Speaker 1: separate things and not be attached to the hip because
Speaker 1: when he is here, we're typically in Vegas like together
Speaker 1: non stop, doing everything together. So I think it's I
Speaker 1: think it's a good healthy balance because we should be
Speaker 1: doing that most of the time, but then sometimes lets
Speaker 1: get to be apart. And why are you smiling? You're
Speaker 1: going to contradict me, Yeah, because you tell me if
Speaker 1: I okay, let's say you know, we're in Vegas and
Speaker 1: the whole day, the day's over and it's like nine pm,
Speaker 1: and I'm like, hey, Kyle, I'm gonna play video games
Speaker 1: for an hour before I go to bed, and you're
Speaker 1: every time, You're always like, but we never hang out
Speaker 1: during the day. You know, you're doing your building stuff.
Speaker 1: I'm doing my film and clean and stuff. We never
Speaker 1: hang out, I'm like killing We literally are together all
Speaker 1: the time. This sounds like Hay and Will. This sounds
Speaker 1: like me and Will talk like me and Ashley too.
Speaker 1: Jesus Okay, but lately you've been like focused on building
Speaker 1: and we didn't spend a lot of the day together.
Speaker 1: So I see where you're coming from. Like we're together,
Speaker 1: but we're not spending time together. I think there will
Speaker 1: be a difference there somewhere. Yeah, So I don't know.
Speaker 1: I see what you're saying, but I do agree with
Speaker 1: what everyone said. I like to be able to do
Speaker 1: our own separate things that we're interested in it. And then,
Speaker 1: like Emily was saying, when we come back together, we
Speaker 1: get excited, and I gotta like it gives us more
Speaker 1: things to talk about. You're gonna run out of things
Speaker 1: to talk about eventually, but it's nice to like do
Speaker 1: think separately because then it allows you to talk about
Speaker 1: those things because the other person obviously hadn't had the
Speaker 1: chance to experience it, which is nice. It makes me
Speaker 1: laugh because Will's like, we spend every day together, and
Speaker 1: I'm like, just because we're here and you're in the
Speaker 1: office playing your video games and I'm up here doing
Speaker 1: whatever else doesn't mean we're spending time together. It just
Speaker 1: meets we're in the same house together. So yes, what
Speaker 1: I mean, like what I love spending time with him
Speaker 1: is like when we go do things together, like like
Speaker 1: the other day we took Obie to the park and
Speaker 1: we got to do that together, and then we went
Speaker 1: and had lunch together. I was like, oh my god,
Speaker 1: Like days like that make me so happy, and I
Speaker 1: just feel so like full, like of love. Like my
Speaker 1: heart feels so full on those days. And yeah, like
Speaker 1: the days that he like goes off and plays video
Speaker 1: games like it's fine, like I know you love your
Speaker 1: video games and whatever, so but those days I don't full,
Speaker 1: Like my heart doesn't feel like full of like, oh,
Speaker 1: we spent such good quality time together. But you guys
Speaker 1: both play video games, right, do you gys ever play
Speaker 1: games together? Yeah, He'll play Fortnite with me. I love Fortnite.
Speaker 1: Oh my god. I'm a dad. I wonder when I
Speaker 1: have my baby. I wonder if when I have my baby,
Speaker 1: if I'll be like this thirty year old like mom
Speaker 1: with like a sleeping baby, Like, Hey, you guys want
Speaker 1: to play Fortnite real quick? I'm so curious. I think
Speaker 1: you'll figure it out. I think they'll be stoked. I
Speaker 1: I want to get Kalen into video games, but she's
Speaker 1: she's very stubborn about it. So it's been a challenge.
Speaker 1: Well always told me he would have proposed sooner if
Speaker 1: I if I learned how to play Fortnite, and so
Speaker 1: it's funny. After we got engaged, that's when I started
Speaker 1: playing Fortnite. It was it's so funny. But I just
Speaker 1: like Fortnite. It's more of like a social thing like
Speaker 1: my friends and I. It's just like we go into
Speaker 1: team mode and it's just like it's fun. It's like
Speaker 1: seriously so fun. We suck. We are not good. Do
Speaker 1: you play with other Do you play with other girls?
Speaker 1: Like other girlfriends? So I play with my friend Cody,
Speaker 1: my sister, and then our friend Aaron Nice. Do you
Speaker 1: guys ever encounter like a kid talking to you? You
Speaker 1: want no, no, because we don't play like you can't
Speaker 1: hear the other players. But if we like let a
Speaker 1: random into our team, then you can hear like kids.
Speaker 1: But I just turned my microphone off. Because like they're
Speaker 1: going to hear my voice and I'm an adult and
Speaker 1: these kids, like you can tell they're like just little kids.
Speaker 1: I get embarrassed thinking that I'm a thirty year old
Speaker 1: playing Fortnite. Yeah then don't know who you are. It's
Speaker 1: so embarrassed. You're like, I'm too old for this. That's
Speaker 1: what's That's what's great about Call of Duty is you
Speaker 1: get proximity chat. And so there were these kids playing
Speaker 1: this the other day that kills about to bring this up.
Speaker 1: We were talking so much to them. They were it
Speaker 1: was so funny. No, no, you weren't you. They were
Speaker 1: talking crap to you and you were like, your mom's
Speaker 1: not gonna like that very much. Yeah, and then I
Speaker 1: and then I killed them and I was like, you
Speaker 1: better take your words back, young man. Great experience. Okay, Dean,
Speaker 1: have you heard of Doda? Do you? Or like, yeah, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: I know. I don't remember what it is though, but
Speaker 1: I have heard Doda before. So Will is very hooked
Speaker 1: on this game called like Doda and it looks so stupid.
Speaker 1: It looks like you just it's like medieval and you
Speaker 1: just like press all these buttons and it like kills
Speaker 1: this like witch or something, and it's just so funny
Speaker 1: because we were watching like the World Championship or something like.
Speaker 1: It's like the pool of money is like forty three
Speaker 1: million dollars. You can win forty three million dollars, and
Speaker 1: I'm like, wow, like these like a video game people
Speaker 1: like they can make so much money. It's actually insane.
Speaker 1: I'm surprised you don't have like a twitch stream or something.
Speaker 1: I told Will all the time if he could just
Speaker 1: help me set it up, I could be like so
Speaker 1: rich doing this and he's like, Emily, no one's gonna
Speaker 1: watch you play. You suck. I don't know. There's a
Speaker 1: lot of like nerdive video game guys that would love
Speaker 1: to watch a pretty girl play the game that they love.
Speaker 1: You know, you probably get a lot of fetish people
Speaker 1: who if you did like the pregnant gamer, you can
Speaker 1: probably make so much money. I was like, all I
Speaker 1: have to do is just put on a push up bra,
Speaker 1: do my hair and makeup, and just play Terrible Fortnight.
Speaker 1: That's all I gotta do. Yeah, that's so funny. That'd
Speaker 1: be pretty awesome. Hogwarts Legacy just came out, and I
Speaker 1: want to get Kaylen into it and Also, Kaylin asked
Speaker 1: if she could borrow my switch the other day, so
Speaker 1: there's there's a promise for her. Yet today you said
Speaker 1: you want to get your own or something like that.
Speaker 1: This switch is fun. Yeah, I'm holding out, Maria Hurt,
Speaker 1: but I'm proud of you for playing video games. That's great.
Speaker 1: She does like games, but she likes the she likes
Speaker 1: the a board games. Oh yeah, what's your favorite board game? Oh? Um,
Speaker 1: what's that one? That? Well? Actually nerdy? But I really
Speaker 1: love Settlers of Katan. I was gonna say. I was like,
Speaker 1: I wonder if Catan is your favorite board game. Katan
Speaker 1: is so much fun. It's so fun, and people are
Speaker 1: so close minded to it because it just sounds nerdy.
Speaker 1: I'm like, it's actually a really fun game. Oh please,
Speaker 1: We've been just talking about the Real Housewives of Beverly
Speaker 1: Hill and The Fortnight and Call of Duty. Katan is
Speaker 1: not nerdy to these things, Okay, it is in the
Speaker 1: same realm of these things. I've never even heard of it.
Speaker 1: I never I don't even know if Will has. I'll
Speaker 1: have to ask him. Maybe he has. It's a very
Speaker 1: adult board game. We're getting a game night together us
Speaker 1: us for your sister and her husband. We got the
Speaker 1: expansion pack so we can play up to six people.
Speaker 1: We're doing it one of these days my sister. My
Speaker 1: sister comes home in like two days, and then her
Speaker 1: husband comes home like three weeks after her. So, honestly,
Speaker 1: that would be kind of fun. Actually we should. I
Speaker 1: love game nights honestly, they're like the best, the best
Speaker 1: nights ever. I wish I could drink. Game nights are
Speaker 1: so much more fun when you can have like a wine. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: how I gotta ask you, so, being pregnant, obviously I'm
Speaker 1: not supposed to drink while you're pregnant. Have you not
Speaker 1: that you drank a lot before or anything like that?
Speaker 1: But like, have you found any compromises for like if
Speaker 1: you are itching for a couple of glasses of wine,
Speaker 1: like you just do something else, or like how do
Speaker 1: you handle that? No? You guys, Like if I'm going
Speaker 1: to drink my calories, it's going to be a soda.
Speaker 1: Like I just want a freaking Coca Cola, a Doctor
Speaker 1: Pepper or something like that. So whenever we go out
Speaker 1: to dinner, I just get I just get like a
Speaker 1: Coca Cola or a doctor pepper. If they have it. I've, like,
Speaker 1: like you mentioned, I've just never been a big drinker.
Speaker 1: So honestly, not being able to drink while pregnant has
Speaker 1: been easy. The only time it's been hard is when
Speaker 1: I go to like social events like hockey games and stuff,
Speaker 1: and like I, you know, people want to chat and stuff.
Speaker 1: Or we go to dinners and keep you know, team
Speaker 1: parties and stuff and the chatting and everyone else is
Speaker 1: drunk and stuff. That's been the hardest part is because
Speaker 1: I feel like I'm not a socially awkward person, but
Speaker 1: I become socially awkward and I think I'm overthinking it,
Speaker 1: and I'm like, god, I just wish I could have
Speaker 1: a drink right now, just to help loosen me up
Speaker 1: and like make my conversations flow a little easier, because
Speaker 1: I feel like I'm just like this pregnant girl in
Speaker 1: the corner, like no one wants to talk to because
Speaker 1: I'm just sober drinking water. It's it sucks. And this
Speaker 1: is why being pregnant, I just don't even bother going
Speaker 1: out because everyone else is going to be drunk, so
Speaker 1: and I'm just gonna sit there and be awkward and
Speaker 1: be like I'm so tired I can't wait to go home,
Speaker 1: because seriously, when you're pregnant, you're so tired. Yeah, I try,
Speaker 1: There's nothing worse than being the only sober person in
Speaker 1: a room. I absolutely cannot stand it. It's the worst. Well, Emily,
Speaker 1: before we let you go, So, Kaylin and I are
Speaker 1: getting married in a couple of months. I just wanted
Speaker 1: to know if you have any advice or suggestions for
Speaker 1: us before we take that big step forward. Oh my god,
Speaker 1: I'm so excited for you, guys. Honestly, I'm just so
Speaker 1: excited to see what dress you pick. Kaylin. I s
Speaker 1: been watching your videos and like every dress you post
Speaker 1: so pretty. I just know you're going to be, like
Speaker 1: truly the most beautiful bride I've ever seen. Like, I'm
Speaker 1: so so excited for you, guys. Advice, I don't know,
Speaker 1: I'm so bad, I'm so cheesy and dumb, but just
Speaker 1: like enjoy it because like in the moment, I felt
Speaker 1: so overwhelmed and I was like, oh my gosh, I
Speaker 1: just can't wait for this to be over with, And
Speaker 1: now that it's over, I'm like, I just wish I
Speaker 1: could go back. I honestly miss it so much. I'm
Speaker 1: more so just wish I could go back to the
Speaker 1: wedding day, like that was so fun and I can't
Speaker 1: believe how smooth and great everything went day of It
Speaker 1: was truly just the best day of my life. So
Speaker 1: I guess just try to enjoy every moment and and
Speaker 1: have people take videos and just be like the annoying
Speaker 1: people like I know it's probably not like that fun,
Speaker 1: but like I hired someone to film behind the scenes,
Speaker 1: and like, looking back on those moments, it's like it
Speaker 1: brings back all those memories and those are the things
Speaker 1: I cherish the most. So oh, I love that. Maybe that, yeah,
Speaker 1: it was the best day of your life up until
Speaker 1: little Wayne Carlson is born. Little Wayne is born, everyone
Speaker 1: always says, oh, the birthday is just like the best day.
Speaker 1: So let's hope that I feel that way. And I'll
Speaker 1: tell you what, I bet you it's gonna go so smoothly.
Speaker 1: You're not gonna have to worry about anything, no epidural,
Speaker 1: no c section. I mean hopefully if that's what you
Speaker 1: end up going with, and you're gonna just cruise through
Speaker 1: it and it's gonna be fantastic. But um, you're great,
Speaker 1: we love you, We're so happy for you. We can't
Speaker 1: wait to see and meet the little guy and um, yeah,
Speaker 1: thank you so much for joining us. This has been
Speaker 1: a blast, Thanks for having me. Thank you so much,
Speaker 1: you guys, you're so sweet. We'll see we'll see you
Speaker 1: dropping into Fortnite one of these days. Yeah, seriously, we'll
Speaker 1: play a game together. You can see how much I suck. Perfect, perfect.
Speaker 1: I look forward to it, you guys, and I'll text
Speaker 1: you a list of Vegas stuff Klin for food because
Speaker 1: thank you. Yeah, there's a lot of good stuff around you. Amazing,
Speaker 1: we need it. Nice, awesome guys. Thanks so much for
Speaker 1: all right, well yep chat later, see ye. All right,
Speaker 1: we'll make sure everybody thank you so much for tuning
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Speaker 1: so I think Dean and Caitlin will be reunited next week.
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