WEBVTT - Twinning with Emily Ferguson 0:00:00.280 --> 0:00:04.400 Hell We Suck At Being Newlyweds? Kylen miller Key and 0:00:04.600 --> 0:00:10.320 Jared haven An iHeartRadio podcast. Hello everyone, and welcome back 0:00:10.360 --> 0:00:12.560 to an all new episode of Help We Suck At 0:00:12.600 --> 0:00:16.320 Being Newlyweds. This week we have Jared, we have Dean surprisingly, 0:00:16.680 --> 0:00:21.960 and we also have Emily Ferguson. Why did you get 0:00:22.000 --> 0:00:26.320 lard to like? Surprise Dean? Hey, everybody, welcome to the podcast. 0:00:26.400 --> 0:00:28.000 I feel like you got to bring some more energy 0:00:28.040 --> 0:00:30.200 next time. Okay, then you do it. You start, you start. 0:00:30.360 --> 0:00:33.800 This isn't like a murdering mystery podcast. We want some energy. Hey, 0:00:33.880 --> 0:00:36.400 we suck and we know it, and we're here to 0:00:36.920 --> 0:00:39.760 bring the energy and get you motivated for your Sunday 0:00:39.840 --> 0:00:43.360 or Monday morning commute, whatever it is. As Kylen is saying, 0:00:43.400 --> 0:00:45.559 we've got a great guest this week, a great co 0:00:45.680 --> 0:00:48.760 host with us. It's Emily Ferguson. You know her, you 0:00:48.840 --> 0:00:51.560 love her from Ben Higgins season and I want to 0:00:51.560 --> 0:00:53.360 say two Seasons of Paradise, but it could just be 0:00:53.400 --> 0:00:57.760 one button now very famously, she is Craig Goes and 0:00:57.920 --> 0:01:01.240 she is married and she's expecting, and we want to 0:01:01.240 --> 0:01:04.840 dive into all things about her life today. So Emily, 0:01:04.840 --> 0:01:07.800 how the heck are you? I'm doing really good. Today's 0:01:07.920 --> 0:01:09.520 you caught me on a good day, so I'm really 0:01:09.560 --> 0:01:12.440 happy to be here. Thanks for having me, and I'm 0:01:12.480 --> 0:01:14.360 excited to chat with you guys. And I love the 0:01:14.400 --> 0:01:19.400 new name. We suck at being newlyweds. It's very very cute. Well, Emily, 0:01:19.440 --> 0:01:23.399 how long have you been married for? Oh? God, Okay, 0:01:23.440 --> 0:01:26.039 I got married in July of last year, so I 0:01:26.080 --> 0:01:29.560 think i'm close to like seven months eight months. So 0:01:30.760 --> 0:01:34.399 would you consider yourself a newlywed? I guess so, yeah, 0:01:34.480 --> 0:01:37.400 because I feel like I haven't hit a full year yet. 0:01:37.440 --> 0:01:42.080 That doesn't feel like it doesn't feel long enough. Yeah, yeah, yeah, 0:01:42.120 --> 0:01:44.240 so years pretty much to cut off where if you start. 0:01:44.280 --> 0:01:46.280 If you continue saying you're a newlywedd after your year, 0:01:46.319 --> 0:01:48.880 you're a psychopath. Yeah kind of I agree with that, 0:01:49.040 --> 0:01:51.480 got it, okay, because we always try to think about 0:01:51.480 --> 0:01:54.000 that because when we rene in the podcast, obviously Caitlin 0:01:54.040 --> 0:01:56.200 and Dean are not married yet. Yeah, I've been married 0:01:56.240 --> 0:02:04.080 for almost for no. Three and a half years, and yeah, 0:02:04.120 --> 0:02:06.240 I'm definitely not a newlywed. There's no way I'm a 0:02:06.240 --> 0:02:08.560 newlywed anymore. Do you feel like do you feel like 0:02:08.680 --> 0:02:12.840 eight months is considered a newlywed still, honestly, in my opinion, 0:02:12.880 --> 0:02:16.560 Now nobody's gonna take my opinion. I think like three months, 0:02:17.040 --> 0:02:21.520 three months. I know, I cut it off quick. Wow. Yeah, No, 0:02:21.560 --> 0:02:24.120 I would still consider myself like a newlywed. It's but 0:02:24.240 --> 0:02:28.359 I say that because even when I introduced myself as 0:02:28.360 --> 0:02:32.800 Missus Carlson, it sounds it still sounds weird. It just doesn't. 0:02:33.320 --> 0:02:35.760 It doesn't like roll right off the tongue. Sometimes I 0:02:35.800 --> 0:02:38.200 feel embarrassed, or I feel like I'm bragging, or I 0:02:38.200 --> 0:02:40.360 feel like I'm just trying to shove it in people's faces. 0:02:40.400 --> 0:02:44.280 So I just kind of like, Hi, I'm Aily. So 0:02:44.360 --> 0:02:46.840 maybe that's the distinction between being a newlywed and not 0:02:46.880 --> 0:02:50.160 being a newlywed anymore. Jared said, you're no longer a 0:02:50.160 --> 0:02:52.280 newly wed when people stop buying you drinks at a bar. 0:02:52.840 --> 0:02:54.760 But obviously no one can buy you a drink at 0:02:54.760 --> 0:02:56.800 a bar because you know you're pregnant. Do I like 0:02:56.880 --> 0:02:59.680 Emily's description a little bit better? You you're not a 0:02:59.720 --> 0:03:02.600 newly wed as soon as you feel comfortable introducing yourself 0:03:02.639 --> 0:03:07.480 as missus whatever last name is. Yeah, No, I definitely, yeah, 0:03:08.280 --> 0:03:10.160 I feel like once it rolls right off the tongue, 0:03:10.200 --> 0:03:11.880 then you know you've been married for like a long 0:03:11.919 --> 0:03:15.560 time and it just works out makes sense. In that case, 0:03:15.840 --> 0:03:20.400 I'm definitely newlywed, because Ashley still doesn't. She's still so weird. 0:03:21.160 --> 0:03:23.880 Is weird saying Ashley Iken Eddie Haven because she likes 0:03:23.880 --> 0:03:27.760 to fit all three in there? Yes, but it's very 0:03:27.800 --> 0:03:30.160 long winded and a mouthful. I wanted to do that. 0:03:30.200 --> 0:03:33.359 I wanted to be Emily Ferguson Carlson, but because Ferguson 0:03:33.400 --> 0:03:35.520 and Carlson had the son at the end, I thought 0:03:35.560 --> 0:03:37.680 it sounded so silly. So I was just gonna I'm 0:03:37.680 --> 0:03:41.360 just Emily Carlson. And my sister she got married first, 0:03:41.360 --> 0:03:43.240 and she decided she was going to change her name 0:03:43.520 --> 0:03:45.400 to Haley Palvey. And I was like, you're just leaving 0:03:45.440 --> 0:03:47.160 me here in the dust, like you're just gonna be 0:03:47.200 --> 0:03:50.120 Haley Palvet. You're not gonna be Haley Ferguson Palvey. Because 0:03:50.120 --> 0:03:52.440 that sounded really good. I thought, She's like, no, I'm 0:03:52.440 --> 0:03:54.840 just gonna be Palve. And I'm like, okay, fine, well 0:03:54.880 --> 0:03:57.560 I'll just be Carlson. Your credit to your credit, Emily 0:03:57.600 --> 0:03:59.920 Carlson sounds amazing. I think that sounds like a very 0:04:00.040 --> 0:04:01.960 good name. You do need to change your Zoom name, 0:04:02.000 --> 0:04:04.880 though you're still Emily Ferguson on Zoom. I have changed that. 0:04:05.080 --> 0:04:07.160 I haven't changed a lot of things. I The only 0:04:07.160 --> 0:04:09.760 things I've changed is my ID and now my health 0:04:09.760 --> 0:04:13.720 insurance because I'm having a baby. So wow, talk about adulthood. 0:04:14.000 --> 0:04:16.679 I know. And it's such a hard process to change everything. 0:04:16.720 --> 0:04:18.599 I need to change my passport too, but that's like 0:04:18.640 --> 0:04:20.919 the last thing I'm gonna do because that seems like 0:04:20.960 --> 0:04:24.200 a nightmare. I remember because you and Haley were the 0:04:24.200 --> 0:04:27.599 Fergie twins. Yeah, it's so hard to let that go. 0:04:27.760 --> 0:04:29.839 I don't think I'll ever let that go. Yeah, you 0:04:29.839 --> 0:04:32.320 guys are always to be the Fergie twins at heart. Yeah, 0:04:32.360 --> 0:04:34.880 and that's what our TikTok name is because we share TikTok, 0:04:35.000 --> 0:04:37.760 So we're the Fergie Twins on TikTok. Like. I still 0:04:37.800 --> 0:04:40.159 like to call myself Fergie, like, I just love that 0:04:40.160 --> 0:04:42.400 little nickname. So it's hard, It really is hard to 0:04:42.440 --> 0:04:47.000 let it go. Did you didn't? Um? Didn't? Someone? Will 0:04:47.000 --> 0:04:49.160 we know? Change? Kaylin, you're going to change your middle 0:04:49.240 --> 0:04:52.000 name to your current last name. Did you guys either 0:04:52.040 --> 0:04:55.799 do that Emily or Haley. No, so me and Haley. 0:04:55.920 --> 0:04:59.839 So she's you're using your middle name. I'm gonna drop 0:05:00.120 --> 0:05:03.760 my middle name and be Emily Emily. I'm Kaylyn Kayl 0:05:03.920 --> 0:05:07.080 Miller Bell. I'm still so tired, Kaylyn Miller Bell. So 0:05:07.160 --> 0:05:11.120 take drop Murray as my middle name. Yeah, replaced with Miller. 0:05:11.400 --> 0:05:13.080 I don't. I don't have a middle name. So that's 0:05:13.080 --> 0:05:15.000 why I always thought it would be cool to be 0:05:15.240 --> 0:05:18.400 Emily Ferguson whoever I'm married. But then, like I said, 0:05:18.440 --> 0:05:23.360 Emily Ferguson Carlson, Yeah, it sounds so silly interesting. So 0:05:23.480 --> 0:05:25.000 no middle name, So that's a non issue for you, 0:05:25.040 --> 0:05:27.720 I guess. And I'm sure Hailey doesn't have a middlea no. 0:05:27.800 --> 0:05:29.960 And if we were to have a girl, which we're 0:05:30.000 --> 0:05:32.359 having a boy, I was like, I don't want my 0:05:32.440 --> 0:05:34.480 girl to have a middle name. I think it's kind 0:05:34.480 --> 0:05:36.159 of cool because people are always like, oh, you don't 0:05:36.160 --> 0:05:37.680 have a middle name, and then people would just give 0:05:37.680 --> 0:05:39.599 me a middle name, just make it up. It was 0:05:39.640 --> 0:05:42.800 so fun. I love that. I know it was fun. 0:05:42.839 --> 0:05:47.480 Everyone just gave me random middle names. Yeah that's interesting. Yeah, 0:05:47.640 --> 0:05:49.159 all right, Emily, will so tell us a little bit 0:05:49.240 --> 0:05:51.039 more about what's going on in your life. I know 0:05:51.120 --> 0:05:55.279 that you you guys have got pregnant pretty recently after 0:05:55.279 --> 0:05:56.800 the wedding obviously, if you will have been married for 0:05:56.839 --> 0:05:59.599 seven months and you're what like four months along now, 0:06:00.040 --> 0:06:04.240 Oh my gosh, I wish i'm I'm I'm seven months pregnant. 0:06:04.240 --> 0:06:07.240 I think, yeah, you've been pregnant for a while. I 0:06:07.240 --> 0:06:10.679 feel like, you know, and oh, yeah, I've been pregnant 0:06:10.720 --> 0:06:13.120 for quite some time. I only have Okay, no, I'm 0:06:13.240 --> 0:06:15.880 six months pregnant because I have twelve weeks left. But no, 0:06:15.960 --> 0:06:17.560 I'm twenty nine weeks today, so I think I have 0:06:17.560 --> 0:06:21.120 eleven weeks left. First of all, the whole timetables of 0:06:21.160 --> 0:06:25.719 pregnancies are just so weird because like even with Dawson, 0:06:25.800 --> 0:06:29.479 they're like, oh, he's technically this amount of weeks old, 0:06:29.600 --> 0:06:32.279 but he's really this old. And then it was like, well, 0:06:32.680 --> 0:06:36.880 because isn't the term of pregnancy actually ten months? Yes? Yeah, 0:06:36.920 --> 0:06:40.120 I think. So it's like when as soon as like, 0:06:41.600 --> 0:06:44.720 I'm so honestly so bad at this crap, Like when 0:06:44.720 --> 0:06:47.320 you find out that you're pregnant, you've already been pregnant 0:06:47.360 --> 0:06:49.760 for like a month, and I'm like you just find 0:06:49.760 --> 0:06:52.760 out because like it counts starting from the day that 0:06:52.800 --> 0:06:55.560 you started your period, so it's it's honestly the most 0:06:55.560 --> 0:06:58.400 confusing thing ever. But yeah, technically like full term, I 0:06:58.480 --> 0:07:00.320 know by weeks. This is like the thing, like I 0:07:00.360 --> 0:07:03.000 know that you can be forty weeks pregnant, that's like 0:07:03.080 --> 0:07:06.039 full term, considered full term, and I'm twenty nine weeks 0:07:06.080 --> 0:07:10.480 pregnant today. But yeah, so shortly after the wedding, I 0:07:10.560 --> 0:07:12.880 was on an acne medication where they were like, you 0:07:12.920 --> 0:07:15.160 have to get off before you want to consider having kids. 0:07:15.200 --> 0:07:17.600 So I got off the acne medication and then we 0:07:17.640 --> 0:07:20.080 started trying, and we were very very lucky to get 0:07:20.080 --> 0:07:23.800 pregnant very quickly. But I haven't been on birth control 0:07:23.840 --> 0:07:27.080 for five years now, so like, I'm surprised I never 0:07:27.160 --> 0:07:30.880 got pregnant sooner. And we didn't do the pullout method, 0:07:30.920 --> 0:07:33.120 we didn't do any of that crap. So, honest to god, 0:07:33.160 --> 0:07:34.960 I think my body's been trying to get pregnant for 0:07:35.000 --> 0:07:40.280 five years. Wait, that's really interesting and very crazy. So 0:07:40.600 --> 0:07:42.600 you guys, you've been off birth control for five years, 0:07:42.640 --> 0:07:44.960 and you guys have been together for maybe not five years, 0:07:44.960 --> 0:07:47.160 but a good amount of that time. Yep, I've been 0:07:47.200 --> 0:07:49.920 off birth control for quite a long time. That's crazy. 0:07:49.920 --> 0:07:52.120 That's good news for Kalin because Calin also just stopped 0:07:52.160 --> 0:07:55.080 taking birth control. But I don't want to get pregnant. 0:07:56.520 --> 0:07:59.400 Be careful. There's something in the water, especially out here 0:07:59.400 --> 0:08:02.320 in Vegas, because everyone I know is pregnant right now. 0:08:02.440 --> 0:08:06.000 So oh, I just don't drink the water. No, I'm kidding, kidding, 0:08:06.000 --> 0:08:08.760 You'll be fine. But if you just track everything. Honestly, 0:08:08.800 --> 0:08:11.240 I feel like you start to know your body more 0:08:11.360 --> 0:08:14.080 when you're ovulating. So I just knew my body so 0:08:14.120 --> 0:08:16.360 well by the time we were like, we want to 0:08:16.400 --> 0:08:19.320 have a baby, So I think that also was very 0:08:19.320 --> 0:08:24.200 extremely helpful. And I did the temperature thing, and I 0:08:24.240 --> 0:08:25.840 think you were the first one I saw to ever 0:08:25.840 --> 0:08:27.880 do natural cycles, which is what I'm doing now to 0:08:27.920 --> 0:08:33.040 like track my period and everything. That thing legit tells you. 0:08:33.120 --> 0:08:35.760 It is like, I know people are hesitant about that 0:08:35.800 --> 0:08:39.000 stuff and probably don't think it's legit, but it is legit. 0:08:39.880 --> 0:08:43.160 It tells you everything. Let's get very very cool app 0:08:43.200 --> 0:08:46.520 and stuff. So that's that's how I tracked everything for pregnancy. 0:08:46.559 --> 0:08:48.599 And I was tracking long before we were trying to 0:08:48.600 --> 0:08:52.440 get pregnant because I mean, well, we're considering having kids 0:08:52.440 --> 0:08:56.480 before getting married, because um, he's from Sweden and all 0:08:56.480 --> 0:08:59.880 his friends are like have babies, and they're all just 0:09:00.120 --> 0:09:02.400 like they just like get engaged and then just have babies. 0:09:02.440 --> 0:09:04.800 They never end up getting married. So he's been wanting 0:09:04.840 --> 0:09:06.800 kids for a long time. So I was considering having 0:09:06.840 --> 0:09:09.079 kids before getting married. But then he ended up proposing, 0:09:09.080 --> 0:09:13.520 and then I was like, okay, let's just wait. So yeah, 0:09:13.559 --> 0:09:15.640 now we're happy. Nice. And so you guys decided to 0:09:15.679 --> 0:09:19.120 start drying right after the wedding. That's great that you 0:09:19.120 --> 0:09:20.679 guys were able to figure it out and get it 0:09:20.720 --> 0:09:23.160 all together so fast. That's great. And so so what 0:09:23.200 --> 0:09:24.840 are you? Are you? And you know it's a boy 0:09:24.880 --> 0:09:26.520 and you're excited to have the boy. I'm sure he's 0:09:26.640 --> 0:09:27.960 very excited to have a boy as well as I 0:09:27.960 --> 0:09:30.480 feel like most dads are excited to potentially be boy 0:09:30.559 --> 0:09:34.400 dad's right. Yeah, So, like Will's from Europe and so 0:09:34.440 --> 0:09:37.600 I always you know, he has more I guess I 0:09:37.600 --> 0:09:40.480 would say, like feminine energy in a sense, but like 0:09:40.640 --> 0:09:43.000 also very masculine energy. But I always saw him as 0:09:43.040 --> 0:09:45.679 a girl dad, and when we got he's a professional 0:09:45.720 --> 0:09:48.800 hockey player. He's very masculine. Yeah, would you say so. 0:09:48.880 --> 0:09:51.080 I don't know, like he very he can be like 0:09:51.600 --> 0:09:54.440 dressed quite girly at times. I guess just like, yeah, 0:09:54.800 --> 0:10:00.200 it's yeah, long hair. He has all his teeth, which 0:10:00.240 --> 0:10:04.240 is very different than a lot of hockey players. Thank god. Honestly, 0:10:04.280 --> 0:10:06.600 we were talking about that the other day. I was like, honestly, 0:10:06.720 --> 0:10:10.160 thank god, you have all your teeth. Yeah. I always 0:10:10.160 --> 0:10:12.120 saw him as a girl dad, I really did. He's 0:10:12.160 --> 0:10:14.520 so good with like all my girlfriends and all the 0:10:14.559 --> 0:10:16.559 other girls on the team and stuff. So I always 0:10:16.559 --> 0:10:18.360 saw him as a girl dad, and I was convinced 0:10:18.440 --> 0:10:20.400 I was having a girl. I had every sign I 0:10:20.440 --> 0:10:24.160 was having a girl. Wives tales don't mean because I'm 0:10:24.160 --> 0:10:27.000 having a boy. So, but it was a very big 0:10:27.000 --> 0:10:30.679 surprise to have a boy. Like I've been very sick 0:10:30.720 --> 0:10:33.800 in my first trimester. Second trimester was absolutely glorious. I 0:10:33.880 --> 0:10:35.480 was not sick at all. And now since I've hit 0:10:35.520 --> 0:10:39.000 my third trimester, I feel sick again. Oh no, it's 0:10:39.040 --> 0:10:42.280 like going downhill. Yeah, because Ashley was just downhill for 0:10:42.320 --> 0:10:44.240 the first six or seven months, and then she hit 0:10:44.280 --> 0:10:47.160 her third trimester and then literally she was the best 0:10:47.200 --> 0:10:50.280 she was the entire pregnancy. A month before she gave birth. 0:10:50.640 --> 0:10:55.320 She just was uncomfortable. Man, I just I know, I 0:10:55.320 --> 0:10:57.120 said all the time, but I'm so happy. I'm a man. 0:10:57.360 --> 0:11:01.280 Poor you guys, just damn, it's just so much when 0:11:01.480 --> 0:11:04.240 now you're you know, you're bringing back memories of when 0:11:04.240 --> 0:11:06.480 Ashley was pregnant, about how she had a track recycle 0:11:06.559 --> 0:11:08.760 and being sick all the time and her body changing. 0:11:08.800 --> 0:11:13.560 And then just like has has your son started kicking? Oh? Yeah, 0:11:13.600 --> 0:11:16.920 it's so weird because he I have an interior placenta, 0:11:16.960 --> 0:11:19.000 which means by placentas in the front, So I didn't 0:11:19.000 --> 0:11:21.840 start feeling kicks until like I would say, like strong 0:11:21.920 --> 0:11:24.000 twenty seven weeks, so that was only two weeks ago. 0:11:24.400 --> 0:11:28.600 And they jolt me like they're like, it's absolutely wild. 0:11:28.800 --> 0:11:31.800 When it happens in like his head and shoulders, you 0:11:31.840 --> 0:11:34.600 can feel like the shoulders, the elbows, the butt. It's 0:11:34.640 --> 0:11:39.160 like it is the weirdest, coolest experience. Although I will 0:11:39.200 --> 0:11:41.560 say when he moves it makes me feel extremely sick, 0:11:42.080 --> 0:11:45.120 but it's cool. It's a cool experience. But I'm very 0:11:45.120 --> 0:11:49.520 ready for it to be over. It's so funny. And Kaylin, 0:11:50.040 --> 0:11:52.280 you know, one day hopefully you will be able to 0:11:52.280 --> 0:11:57.320 experience this. But it's crazy to me that you, Like, 0:11:57.480 --> 0:11:59.280 did you ever dream five years ago just being on 0:11:59.320 --> 0:12:02.720 a podcast talk about your placenta? No? Never, I would 0:12:02.760 --> 0:12:07.080 like never. Pregnancy just like brings out such like I 0:12:07.120 --> 0:12:09.199 feel like women who are pregnant are like, okay, I'm 0:12:09.240 --> 0:12:11.120 just gonna say everything, Like I could give a rat's 0:12:11.120 --> 0:12:13.920 ass anymore. No. I honestly like I was thinking about 0:12:13.920 --> 0:12:15.480 this today. It's like I should probably get cute and 0:12:15.559 --> 0:12:18.760 ready for this podcast. I'm like, kit, I'm pregnant. I 0:12:18.840 --> 0:12:24.000 don't give us Yeah, No, everything just goes out the 0:12:24.040 --> 0:12:25.840 door when you're pregnant. I feel like, at least for me, 0:12:25.880 --> 0:12:27.440 I mean like there's days where I try it and 0:12:27.440 --> 0:12:29.199 I'm like, oh my god, I'm still cute, And then 0:12:29.240 --> 0:12:31.120 like other days, I looked down at my belly and 0:12:31.160 --> 0:12:35.240 I'm like, what who am I? What has happened to me? 0:12:35.440 --> 0:12:36.920 I like pulled up my shirt the other day and 0:12:36.920 --> 0:12:40.280 I just couldn't stop like laughing at this situation because like, 0:12:40.360 --> 0:12:43.400 my belly is so big. It's just I could never 0:12:43.480 --> 0:12:46.840 imagined that I could be this big and be as 0:12:46.880 --> 0:12:50.080 comfortable as I am. Weirdly, like I'm pretty dang comfortable. 0:12:50.120 --> 0:12:53.200 It's just like the sickness and like the heartburn, it's 0:12:53.200 --> 0:12:56.120 all the symptoms that suck. It's just it's weird that 0:12:56.200 --> 0:12:57.960 your body knows what to do and you just like 0:12:58.000 --> 0:12:59.720 are kind of fine, and you just like wake up 0:12:59.720 --> 0:13:03.640 and of your life. It's so weird. I can't wrap 0:13:03.720 --> 0:13:07.280 my head around it. Has it been a good experience overall, 0:13:07.360 --> 0:13:09.559 or has it been like I guess, it's kind of 0:13:09.559 --> 0:13:12.760 been a roller coaster you said, I would say highs 0:13:12.760 --> 0:13:15.839 and lows, But it hasn't Like it hasn't stopped me 0:13:15.880 --> 0:13:17.839 from thinking that I would want more kids. I definitely 0:13:17.880 --> 0:13:20.640 want like two kids, So it definitely doesn't like make 0:13:20.720 --> 0:13:22.680 me think, oh my god, I'm not having another kid. 0:13:23.240 --> 0:13:26.120 So that's I think good news. But let's wait until 0:13:26.120 --> 0:13:28.439 I give birth, because then I might change my mind. 0:13:28.760 --> 0:13:30.800 I was gonna ask, are there any nerves like going 0:13:30.840 --> 0:13:35.679 into childbirth? I can only imagine, Oh god, the I can't. 0:13:35.720 --> 0:13:38.200 I honestly, most days just try to block it out 0:13:38.200 --> 0:13:40.040 of my head that I have to get this baby 0:13:40.120 --> 0:13:43.920 out somehow. And I think every option sucks. I think 0:13:43.960 --> 0:13:47.120 I can't believe a c section would suck, and Honestly, 0:13:47.120 --> 0:13:50.160 I think giving birth vaginally would suck. I think that 0:13:50.320 --> 0:13:53.920 either way it's it's gonna suck. So I don't know. 0:13:54.000 --> 0:13:56.600 I'm just it's hard for me to think about. Honestly, 0:13:56.640 --> 0:13:58.680 it's it's terrifying. And that's the one thing I'm most 0:13:58.679 --> 0:14:00.720 scared about is that I have to delay this baby 0:14:00.840 --> 0:14:03.319 one way or another. Do you have a preference or 0:14:03.320 --> 0:14:06.600 an expectation C section or vaginal either way, because I know, well, 0:14:06.760 --> 0:14:09.040 so my sister in law just had a child as well, 0:14:09.520 --> 0:14:12.360 and not to get into their private life, but they 0:14:12.400 --> 0:14:16.600 had to have that yeah, yeah, yeah, but they had 0:14:16.600 --> 0:14:17.920 to make the decision, and I know that it was 0:14:17.920 --> 0:14:19.680 like a challenging decision for them to make because I'm 0:14:19.680 --> 0:14:22.160 just curious if you are leading one way or the 0:14:22.160 --> 0:14:26.040 other on that situation. It's weird because I feel like 0:14:26.160 --> 0:14:29.640 I'm I'm a better candidate for a C section, because 0:14:29.640 --> 0:14:32.400 I get I don't like I think most people don't 0:14:32.440 --> 0:14:35.200 like the unexpected. Right with the C section, you can 0:14:35.240 --> 0:14:37.080 schedule it. You know you're getting the surgery, you know 0:14:37.120 --> 0:14:39.760 you're getting the baby this day. You don't have to labor, 0:14:39.760 --> 0:14:43.080 you don't have to worry about that. But going into 0:14:43.160 --> 0:14:45.760 the experience, I was like dead set on a C section, 0:14:46.440 --> 0:14:49.120 and now as I've gotten further along and my baby's 0:14:49.160 --> 0:14:52.080 been head down the whole time, this whole pregnancy, I'm like, well, 0:14:52.080 --> 0:14:55.360 why wouldn't I push? That's what that's what we're The 0:14:55.360 --> 0:14:59.560 body knows what to do, and I'm working with Adula 0:14:59.640 --> 0:15:02.800 and she he is extremely helpful. So I think I'm 0:15:02.840 --> 0:15:05.240 going to try to push, which is like total one 0:15:05.400 --> 0:15:07.920 eighty from what I was expecting to do because I 0:15:07.960 --> 0:15:09.760 was totally going to schedule a C section and just 0:15:09.880 --> 0:15:12.080 get this baby out and just call it a day. 0:15:12.600 --> 0:15:14.320 But now I'm thinking I'm just gonna let my body 0:15:14.320 --> 0:15:16.840 go into labor and just let this baby come how 0:15:17.400 --> 0:15:20.360 he's supposed to come. Are you thinking about getting an epidural? 0:15:20.760 --> 0:15:24.520 That was my question. Yes, So working with a dula, 0:15:26.440 --> 0:15:29.240 I've thought about maybe trying not to do an epidural, 0:15:29.600 --> 0:15:32.680 But the only realistic way that would work is if 0:15:33.040 --> 0:15:35.640 if my water broke and I can labor mostly at 0:15:35.640 --> 0:15:38.360 home and like my bathtub and try. Obviously, this is 0:15:38.400 --> 0:15:40.320 my first baby, so I don't know what to expect. 0:15:40.800 --> 0:15:42.960 So I'm thinking my water's gonna break and I'm gonna 0:15:42.960 --> 0:15:45.160 be like, get me to the hospital. I'm freaking out, 0:15:45.320 --> 0:15:47.680 like I don't think that I can remain calm, But 0:15:47.720 --> 0:15:52.120 I'm also doing like it's called birthing hypnosis, so like 0:15:52.200 --> 0:15:55.600 I'm listening to like affirmations and meditations to try and 0:15:56.400 --> 0:15:59.000 keep me calm and like prepared for when that moment 0:15:59.040 --> 0:16:02.480 does happen. I don't know. I can't. I'm not sure 0:16:02.560 --> 0:16:04.520 how I'm going to be when I go once it 0:16:04.520 --> 0:16:06.080 gets closer. I'm not sure if I'm going to be 0:16:06.080 --> 0:16:07.960 super anxious or if I'm going to be able to 0:16:08.520 --> 0:16:11.320 remain calm. But I felt calm this whole pregnancy, and 0:16:11.360 --> 0:16:15.680 they do say boys make you feel more calm, so um, yeah, 0:16:15.680 --> 0:16:17.280 I feel pretty calm. I don't know. I feel like 0:16:17.320 --> 0:16:19.240 I might be able to do this if they had 0:16:19.360 --> 0:16:22.240 laugh if they had laughing gas, I really think I'd 0:16:22.280 --> 0:16:25.640 be able to push without an epidural. Another reason I 0:16:25.680 --> 0:16:28.400 don't want an epidural is because I have scoliosis and 0:16:28.640 --> 0:16:31.240 it could affect how the epidural works in my body. 0:16:31.320 --> 0:16:34.600 I don't how terrifying would that be. I don't know 0:16:34.800 --> 0:16:38.000 how affect that, so I guess that it could. It 0:16:38.000 --> 0:16:40.120 could a make the epidural not work, be it could 0:16:40.120 --> 0:16:42.560 make the epidural only work on one half of your body, 0:16:42.720 --> 0:16:47.240 and that just sounds so scary. I don't know. All 0:16:47.280 --> 0:16:51.280 my options seriously suck. But also I was just told 0:16:51.280 --> 0:16:54.240 that I have like low platelets. So my options are 0:16:54.320 --> 0:16:57.360 either you have to give birth with no epidural because 0:16:57.360 --> 0:16:59.200 you can't and nothing can go into your spine with 0:16:59.280 --> 0:17:01.320 low platelets. And if I have a C section, I 0:17:01.320 --> 0:17:03.440 have to be under anaesthesia, so I would be asleep, 0:17:03.800 --> 0:17:05.440 so then I don't even get to see my baby, 0:17:05.440 --> 0:17:09.280 and that option sounds really really sad. Darn So it's 0:17:09.320 --> 0:17:11.520 damn stressful just even thinking about what you want to 0:17:11.520 --> 0:17:14.639 do for the delivery process. It's honestly so stressful. I 0:17:14.640 --> 0:17:17.119 definitely if I if my plate let's get any lower 0:17:17.160 --> 0:17:19.920 and I have to go under anesthesia for a C section, 0:17:20.000 --> 0:17:22.280 I'm not doing that option. I would rather just push 0:17:22.359 --> 0:17:25.960 with no epidural. Okay, Well that's yeah, that's intense. That's 0:17:25.960 --> 0:17:28.359 good that you have that in your head already made up. 0:17:28.400 --> 0:17:30.159 If it's too low and you would have to go 0:17:30.200 --> 0:17:31.840 under anesthesia, then you know that you're not going to 0:17:31.920 --> 0:17:32.879 do it, And I think it's good that you have 0:17:32.880 --> 0:17:34.639 your mind made up about that. Yeah, I mean, it 0:17:34.640 --> 0:17:37.000 would be amazing if I could push without an epidural. 0:17:37.119 --> 0:17:39.560 But I'm going in with an open mind. I want 0:17:39.560 --> 0:17:42.200 to see how contractions feel. I don't have a dead 0:17:42.200 --> 0:17:44.520 set plan. I just kind of want to see how 0:17:44.560 --> 0:17:47.879 it goes. Yeah, so Ashley, the reason I asked is 0:17:47.920 --> 0:17:50.840 because Ashley got the epidural and her prank, because you 0:17:50.840 --> 0:17:54.800 were scared of childbirth. And I will say once Ashley's 0:17:54.880 --> 0:17:57.680 knock on wood was pretty smooth. Yeah. The only time 0:17:57.680 --> 0:18:00.320 it wasn't smooth when we've got to the hospital little 0:18:00.400 --> 0:18:04.520 and then contractions became worse and more painful, and then 0:18:04.520 --> 0:18:06.359 we just had to wait for the uppidural. But luckily 0:18:06.400 --> 0:18:09.960 the upperdual came and then it worked and everything was fine, 0:18:10.400 --> 0:18:12.440 and she just had to do a couple of maneuvers 0:18:12.440 --> 0:18:15.320 and she pushed for like I don't even think it 0:18:15.359 --> 0:18:19.680 was two hours, and then that's dream was born. Yeah. 0:18:19.720 --> 0:18:22.480 It's crazy though. It's funny when I always talking about 0:18:22.520 --> 0:18:26.560 being in the delivery room and you know, there's Ashley's 0:18:26.560 --> 0:18:28.280 whole thing was like she wanted to put the blanket 0:18:28.359 --> 0:18:31.120 or shade up. She never wanted me to look. There 0:18:31.200 --> 0:18:33.520 is no blanket, there is no shade. Everything is seen. 0:18:33.640 --> 0:18:38.520 There's just water everywhere, and it's just it's so funny 0:18:38.600 --> 0:18:44.960 how you just like there's three or four people, these 0:18:45.000 --> 0:18:49.520 doctors and nurses like around Ashley's vagina and they're just there, 0:18:49.520 --> 0:18:52.840 like all right there, ready to go, and it's just 0:18:53.040 --> 0:18:55.919 you know, her legs are just strapped up in the 0:18:55.960 --> 0:19:00.920 air and just it's just yeah, it's she's water break. 0:19:01.000 --> 0:19:02.639 And then she went to the hospital or did she 0:19:02.680 --> 0:19:07.159 get induced. No, her water broke, yeah, okay, but I 0:19:07.160 --> 0:19:09.200 don't think I ever saw it, because she woke me 0:19:09.280 --> 0:19:12.480 up in the middle of the night and she said 0:19:12.520 --> 0:19:14.520 that she felt like she was having contractions, and then 0:19:14.560 --> 0:19:16.320 she was timing them and then she said, Okay, if 0:19:16.320 --> 0:19:18.640 I get another one in ten minutes, we should probably go. 0:19:18.880 --> 0:19:23.560 And then she got another one and then her water broke. 0:19:23.920 --> 0:19:26.840 Her water might have broke at the hospital. She went 0:19:26.880 --> 0:19:30.159 to the doctors like five days before she went to labor, 0:19:30.320 --> 0:19:33.760 and she was already three centimeters dilated, so they knew, like, okay, 0:19:34.000 --> 0:19:36.119 because she was actually thinking about getting a C section 0:19:36.160 --> 0:19:38.159 as well. But once she found out that she was 0:19:38.160 --> 0:19:40.920 already three centimes dilated, the doctor's like, listen, your body 0:19:41.000 --> 0:19:43.720 is ready to give birth. To this baby like it's 0:19:43.760 --> 0:19:46.159 probably better if you just do vaginal, and she's like, 0:19:46.160 --> 0:19:48.800 all right, cool, let's do it. Yeah, that's definitely what 0:19:48.840 --> 0:19:51.760 I'm thinking is just it would be easier to just 0:19:52.520 --> 0:19:55.000 let my body decide. I just want the decision made 0:19:55.000 --> 0:19:57.480 for me. I don't want the choice. It's too hard. 0:19:58.960 --> 0:20:01.000 That's probably if I were if I could give birth, 0:20:01.040 --> 0:20:02.560 That's exactly how I would do it too. I would 0:20:02.560 --> 0:20:04.280 just be like, I don't want to make any decisions. 0:20:04.320 --> 0:20:06.280 I want it to happen how it's supposed to happen, 0:20:06.640 --> 0:20:08.639 how it was supposed to happen, until it's actually happening. 0:20:08.680 --> 0:20:12.879 You know, how has Will been handling everything, like, uh, 0:20:13.000 --> 0:20:16.520 you know, pregnant wife and that to be How does 0:20:16.560 --> 0:20:19.240 he like, how is he handling it all? It's so funny. 0:20:19.280 --> 0:20:21.600 I feel like Will is just like naive and like 0:20:21.920 --> 0:20:23.840 he lives his life and he does his thing and 0:20:23.840 --> 0:20:26.480 he just kind of forgets that like we're pregnant. Honestly, 0:20:28.600 --> 0:20:32.320 but I do have a couple of mental breakdowns just honestly. 0:20:32.359 --> 0:20:35.639 The hardest part for me is watching how much my 0:20:35.680 --> 0:20:38.600 body's changed in such a short amount of time, especially 0:20:38.640 --> 0:20:41.320 like right before the wedding. You know you're like in 0:20:41.480 --> 0:20:43.840 full like mode, like I want my I want to 0:20:43.880 --> 0:20:46.200 like be like the best shape of my life before 0:20:46.200 --> 0:20:49.399 my wedding. And then soon after I get pregnant and 0:20:50.280 --> 0:20:52.560 just the body changes, and I'm sure just the hormones 0:20:52.560 --> 0:20:55.560 and everything make you more sensitive and stuff. So it's 0:20:55.600 --> 0:20:58.480 been a complete shock to just watch everything change in 0:20:58.600 --> 0:21:03.119 a course of seven months already. And so yeah, mornings 0:21:03.119 --> 0:21:05.840 I'll wake up crying just because I just feel like 0:21:05.920 --> 0:21:08.399 the ugliest person in the whole world. And he's just 0:21:08.440 --> 0:21:10.240 the sweetest and this is why I always thought he'd 0:21:10.240 --> 0:21:12.760 be such a great girl dad. And he's very comforting 0:21:12.880 --> 0:21:16.080 and like you're so beautiful, you're growing a human blah 0:21:16.119 --> 0:21:18.800 blah blah. So he's been really great with the emotional breakdowns, 0:21:18.800 --> 0:21:20.919 but when it comes to like day to day stuff, 0:21:20.960 --> 0:21:22.960 like I just feel like he just doesn't even think 0:21:22.960 --> 0:21:25.760 we're pregnant. I don't even think he's done. He's helped 0:21:25.760 --> 0:21:27.800 me put the stroller together, but of course, like I'm 0:21:27.840 --> 0:21:32.159 the pregnant one here freaking putting everything together, getting everything ready. 0:21:32.200 --> 0:21:34.600 I'm still the one cooking, I'm still the one cleaning. 0:21:35.000 --> 0:21:37.240 Like it's just it's kind of funny to me. I 0:21:37.280 --> 0:21:52.800 just think he thinks it's just normal. It's funny to 0:21:52.840 --> 0:21:55.199 hear you talk about the physical changes you've endored, because 0:21:55.600 --> 0:21:57.440 just on the zoom call alone, we can only see 0:21:57.480 --> 0:21:59.439 like the upper half of your torso and then obviously 0:21:59.440 --> 0:22:01.280 your face. And if you didn't, if we didn't know 0:22:01.320 --> 0:22:03.199 that you were pregnant, I would never have guessed that 0:22:03.320 --> 0:22:06.800 you are pregnant, because you look at least to me normal, 0:22:07.000 --> 0:22:11.280 you know, especially, thank you so much. That's like the 0:22:11.320 --> 0:22:13.800 one thing I'm like banking on here is the only 0:22:13.800 --> 0:22:16.199 thing that looks different is my belly. And I'm like 0:22:16.320 --> 0:22:18.840 all belly, which is so wonderful, and I'm so lucky 0:22:18.840 --> 0:22:21.840 and I haven't gotten like swollen, and my jewelry and 0:22:21.920 --> 0:22:23.840 rings still fit, so I'm always like, this is a 0:22:23.880 --> 0:22:27.480 great sign when things still fit. Obviously my clothes don't 0:22:27.560 --> 0:22:31.959 still fit, but yeah, my belly has just gotten hey humongous. 0:22:32.200 --> 0:22:35.760 I can't even like look at it most days. My 0:22:35.840 --> 0:22:39.400 belly button popped at twenty weeks, Like I couldn't believe that, 0:22:39.600 --> 0:22:41.440 Like none of my friends. A lot of my friends 0:22:41.440 --> 0:22:43.280 are pregnant, and none of their belly buttons are popped, 0:22:43.280 --> 0:22:45.240 and they usually don't pop till the end of pregnancy. 0:22:45.320 --> 0:22:47.240 My belly button popped right at twenty weeks. I'm like, 0:22:47.240 --> 0:22:50.400 oh my god, I know this is going downhill from here, 0:22:50.640 --> 0:22:54.359 Like this is so bad. And I'm like, I'm like 0:22:54.520 --> 0:22:57.200 not even gaining that much weight. I'm just super confused. 0:22:57.440 --> 0:22:59.159 I just see like this baby has nowhere to go. 0:22:59.320 --> 0:23:01.520 He's just right up, like just going out this way 0:23:01.520 --> 0:23:04.439 and this way. And I have a short torso so 0:23:04.520 --> 0:23:07.240 it's just it's been brutal. I'm not gonna lie. It's 0:23:07.280 --> 0:23:10.720 been a freaking wild ride. Do you guys have a 0:23:10.800 --> 0:23:13.760 name picked out yet? We do. We knew we've known 0:23:13.840 --> 0:23:16.679 his name before we even started trying, but I'm not 0:23:16.720 --> 0:23:19.760 sharing it. But it's so cute. I'm obsessed with it. 0:23:19.800 --> 0:23:21.399 I'll text it to you guys. I just am not 0:23:21.440 --> 0:23:26.960 announcing it. Who's who came up with the name? Well 0:23:27.040 --> 0:23:29.120 came up with the name, and I just liked the name. 0:23:29.200 --> 0:23:31.760 So it wasn't like a big argument or anything. I 0:23:31.760 --> 0:23:34.199 will say, it's not like anything. It's not like a 0:23:34.240 --> 0:23:38.000 weird name. It's actually a very classic name. Was it 0:23:38.000 --> 0:23:40.520 a name he's like always thought he'd have or he 0:23:40.640 --> 0:23:44.360 just made it up? I think he just made it up. 0:23:44.920 --> 0:23:46.880 It's not a name that I think he's like thought 0:23:46.920 --> 0:23:49.440 about having. It was just it was just based off 0:23:49.440 --> 0:23:53.160 someone that he idolized and I liked the name. Yeah, 0:23:53.160 --> 0:23:56.639 he's either yeah, I mean obviously the first name don't 0:23:57.680 --> 0:24:01.479 because you see so now my my rolodex is scrolling 0:24:01.480 --> 0:24:04.639 because says it's someone he I don't try to guess it. Well, 0:24:04.760 --> 0:24:08.160 the obviously the first one that comes to mind would 0:24:08.200 --> 0:24:13.240 be Wayne. Obviously Wayne is the first one that comes 0:24:13.280 --> 0:24:15.720 to mind, him being a hockey player. You got gret Sky. 0:24:16.119 --> 0:24:20.080 I would say probably someone like Mario Mario Lemieux would 0:24:20.119 --> 0:24:25.760 be another candidate. I would assume what other I'd say, Yeah, 0:24:24.840 --> 0:24:29.440 David David who pasta knock? Isn't David Hasselhoff Swedish? I 0:24:29.480 --> 0:24:33.439 don't know. Is David hassel sweet? I think he's I 0:24:33.440 --> 0:24:39.399 think he's from Germany. Could be yeah, because they used 0:24:39.440 --> 0:24:47.639 to chant hassle off Winter apparently dying laughing. No. Me 0:24:47.680 --> 0:24:49.960 and Haley filmed with David David Hasselhoff when we did 0:24:50.000 --> 0:24:52.639 our spinoff show, The Twins Happily ever After. What a 0:24:52.720 --> 0:24:56.800 freaking guy? Oh, I remember that he is an interesting 0:24:56.840 --> 0:24:59.320 guy and he's very actually really sweet and nice, but 0:24:59.480 --> 0:25:02.600 U Yeah, I think he I think he's German or something, 0:25:02.800 --> 0:25:06.879 or he's American, right, but people in Germany love him. Yeah, 0:25:06.920 --> 0:25:08.399 I think that's what it is. I think he's like 0:25:08.480 --> 0:25:10.920 he's German American. I think that's probably what which is. 0:25:10.960 --> 0:25:14.120 Gonna texted that he's from Baltimore, so not as exotic 0:25:14.119 --> 0:25:17.280 as we thought. He's got. He's got you guys got 0:25:17.320 --> 0:25:19.879 the name pick. That's great. Sorry, Jered, go ahead. I 0:25:19.920 --> 0:25:21.760 was gonna say, is it funny Emily that I feel 0:25:21.800 --> 0:25:24.560 like in most relationships, you know, between a man and 0:25:24.600 --> 0:25:29.440 a woman, like the woman will get more men scoffing 0:25:29.520 --> 0:25:32.280 after her, and then the men will get more women 0:25:32.359 --> 0:25:34.720 scoffing after her. But I feel like in your guys relationship, 0:25:34.760 --> 0:25:36.960 because of your history with the Bachelor and Happily ever 0:25:37.040 --> 0:25:39.920 After and him being a hockey player, I feel like 0:25:39.960 --> 0:25:42.440 there's probably so many women that come up to you 0:25:42.480 --> 0:25:44.399 when you guys are out, and there's so many men 0:25:44.440 --> 0:25:47.200 that go up to him because even when it's so 0:25:47.280 --> 0:25:49.680 funny talking to you because obviously I know your husband 0:25:49.880 --> 0:25:53.720 from hockey as being a big NHL fan, So um, 0:25:54.359 --> 0:25:56.040 is that how it goes? Like? Do you find that 0:25:56.080 --> 0:25:57.879 you got like that you have like a lot of 0:25:58.000 --> 0:25:59.720 fangirls that come up to you, and then there's a 0:25:59.720 --> 0:26:03.119 lot of fan boys that go up to Will. Definitely, 0:26:03.960 --> 0:26:07.400 it's like the complete opposite. So yeah, but you want 0:26:07.440 --> 0:26:09.240 to know what I always find so funny is whenever 0:26:09.280 --> 0:26:12.160 I like go out or whatever, it's honestly men who 0:26:12.200 --> 0:26:13.800 come up to me and they're like, and you guys 0:26:13.800 --> 0:26:16.760 probably can really it's like, my wife loves the show, 0:26:17.000 --> 0:26:19.399 Can I get a picture with you? Because my wife 0:26:19.400 --> 0:26:21.520 would just freak out because it's mostly when living in 0:26:21.600 --> 0:26:23.840 Vegas at least, it's mostly men out here for like 0:26:23.920 --> 0:26:26.800 bachelor parties or with a group of friends or something. 0:26:27.160 --> 0:26:29.679 And then yes, like little bachelor at parties to like 0:26:29.720 --> 0:26:32.159 the girls are like screaming freaking out. But yeah, like 0:26:32.240 --> 0:26:35.879 mostly men are up to Will. Kids. People use their 0:26:35.920 --> 0:26:37.760 kids to get to Will. They're like, oh, my kid 0:26:37.840 --> 0:26:40.600 loves you. Can he get a picture with you? And 0:26:40.640 --> 0:26:43.399 then the whole family gets a picture. It's it's funny. 0:26:43.440 --> 0:26:45.560 But yeah, I mean, I mean, Will don't go out 0:26:45.600 --> 0:26:47.440 a lot. We're like the most boring people in the 0:26:47.480 --> 0:26:49.800 whole world, so it doesn't happen often, but when it does, 0:26:49.840 --> 0:26:52.399 it's you're right, it's definitely men going towards will girls 0:26:52.440 --> 0:26:54.879 going towards me. I gotta know as a fellow Vegas resident, 0:26:54.920 --> 0:26:56.560 when when you guys do go out, Because Kaitlin and 0:26:56.560 --> 0:26:59.199 I are the same, we like never go out, and 0:26:59.359 --> 0:27:00.720 whenever we do go out, we always go to the 0:27:00.720 --> 0:27:02.400 same place as where do you guys go out? When 0:27:02.400 --> 0:27:04.879 you go out in Vegas? Dean will not go any 0:27:04.880 --> 0:27:07.120 further than ten minutes from our house. Oh my god, 0:27:07.119 --> 0:27:09.280 because Calin's like, oh, I found this really cool restaurant. 0:27:09.320 --> 0:27:11.680 It's got four and a half stars on Google. It's 0:27:11.680 --> 0:27:13.800 in the Arts district. I'm like, oh, we're gonna drive 0:27:13.840 --> 0:27:16.199 thirty five to go to a restaurant to get a 0:27:16.200 --> 0:27:19.200 great place. Sure, but there's within those thirty five minutes 0:27:19.240 --> 0:27:21.560 there's probably one hundred more restaurants that are just as good, 0:27:21.600 --> 0:27:25.680 if not better. Dean, where are you currently? I'm in 0:27:25.720 --> 0:27:29.920 El shall Ten? You're we where Ela shall Ten. It's 0:27:29.920 --> 0:27:34.159 in the southern Argentina, So you're right now in southern Argentina. 0:27:34.240 --> 0:27:37.880 And where you just in? What's that place called Antarctica? 0:27:37.960 --> 0:27:43.120 How far is Southern Argentina and Antarctica from Vegas? It's far, 0:27:43.280 --> 0:27:45.280 but I'm not going to this. I'm not going to 0:27:45.280 --> 0:27:49.560 these places for dinner and then flying. That's ridiculous. So 0:27:49.680 --> 0:27:51.480 you so you can go to all these different places, 0:27:51.480 --> 0:27:53.520 but you can't drive thirty thirty five minutes for dinner 0:27:53.560 --> 0:27:56.960 with Kaylin. Come on, come on, I refuse. Don't suck 0:27:56.960 --> 0:28:00.320 at being a newly went bro. We went horseback riding, 0:28:00.359 --> 0:28:01.800 an hour and a half drive and I was like, Kalen, 0:28:01.840 --> 0:28:04.000 there's horses literally ten minutes from my house. One I 0:28:04.280 --> 0:28:06.760 go there, I know that was it. That was different 0:28:07.119 --> 0:28:09.720 because they couldn't cook the horses. But I understand that. 0:28:10.040 --> 0:28:12.479 But in Vegas there's so much any around you at 0:28:12.480 --> 0:28:15.920 all times, but you do live close to us. Yeah, 0:28:16.080 --> 0:28:17.600 you want to know what. There's this new place that 0:28:17.640 --> 0:28:19.840 I you guys have to try if you haven't tried 0:28:19.880 --> 0:28:22.679 it already. It's called Miroki. It's a Greek restaurant and 0:28:22.840 --> 0:28:26.200 I order it every single night on door dash and 0:28:26.680 --> 0:28:28.320 it's just the best Greek I've ever had. And I 0:28:28.320 --> 0:28:31.760 don't even like light Greek, honestly, but this Greek is 0:28:31.960 --> 0:28:35.199 so good. And maybe it's pregnancy like addiction, I don't know, 0:28:35.240 --> 0:28:37.840 but like I eat it every single night for dinner. 0:28:38.040 --> 0:28:39.800 But No, A lot of people rave about it. It's 0:28:39.800 --> 0:28:42.000 called maraki. You can order it and it's and if 0:28:42.000 --> 0:28:44.280 you want to go eat it, eat at the restaurant. 0:28:44.320 --> 0:28:46.720 It's um, it's off Charleston in two fifteen, so it's 0:28:46.720 --> 0:28:48.640 really close to where you guys live. You guys have 0:28:48.680 --> 0:28:52.400 to try it that way, but otherwise you're right, Like, 0:28:52.400 --> 0:28:55.000 the best restaurants are definitely on the strip and definitely 0:28:55.000 --> 0:28:58.400 like downtown Vegas, like the most like delicious ones. But 0:28:58.520 --> 0:29:02.400 we don't do that often, so like restaurants that are 0:29:02.400 --> 0:29:05.200 good are usually in like downtown Summerland. I don't know. 0:29:05.240 --> 0:29:07.960 I mean we'll like I usually just cook because I'm 0:29:08.040 --> 0:29:11.120 so like, I just don't like like going out, and 0:29:11.120 --> 0:29:13.560 then when you order sometimes it just doesn't taste as good. 0:29:13.720 --> 0:29:17.280 So um, Lastregas down the street. I don't know if 0:29:17.280 --> 0:29:22.920 you guys have tried Lastrega. That's good. Master Mastriano's, Oh 0:29:22.960 --> 0:29:25.960 my god, the cutest little Italian restaurant, Anna Maries. Have 0:29:26.080 --> 0:29:28.520 you tried Anna Maries? No, I think I need a 0:29:28.560 --> 0:29:30.840 list from you. We haven't. I'll make you a list 0:29:30.920 --> 0:29:33.840 because honestly, like, we don't go out often, and when 0:29:33.840 --> 0:29:35.760 we do, we just go to like the same places. 0:29:35.760 --> 0:29:37.920 We're just like I said, we're not We're not exciting. 0:29:37.960 --> 0:29:40.760 We're we're terrible at being newlyweds. We just stay home 0:29:40.800 --> 0:29:44.040 and freaking walk. We're This is why I also love 0:29:44.120 --> 0:29:46.800 Will so much is because he loves Love Island and 0:29:46.880 --> 0:29:50.080 that is just like the greatest. Like most guys are like, oh, 0:29:50.120 --> 0:29:52.840 it's just I can't believe you watch this crap and stuff. 0:29:52.880 --> 0:29:55.400 But he likes watching the Housewives with me. He loves 0:29:55.400 --> 0:29:57.360 watching Love Island with me. Oh my god. He's just 0:29:57.440 --> 0:30:00.400 so fun in that sense. It's the best. Oh, I 0:30:00.440 --> 0:30:03.760 love that. Do you watch UK? Yes, I'm I'm obsessed in. 0:30:03.800 --> 0:30:05.960 Everyone's saying that the season is not as good, but 0:30:06.080 --> 0:30:08.240 I would say, you just have to like give it 0:30:08.280 --> 0:30:12.480 a couple episodes. It gets really good. The season's unreal. Oh, 0:30:12.520 --> 0:30:16.520 I haven't watched. I watched Gemma and eck Ensues great 0:30:16.560 --> 0:30:19.880 season obviously, probably one of the best seasons. But this 0:30:19.960 --> 0:30:21.960 season is still just as good. You've got to watch 0:30:21.960 --> 0:30:24.040 it and give it a couple episodes. Don't just like 0:30:24.440 --> 0:30:26.040 be like it's not that great. You have to give 0:30:26.040 --> 0:30:27.960 it a couple episodes. I'm telling you it gets good. 0:30:28.560 --> 0:30:31.160 Oh yeah, Dean's brother watches, but I can't get Dean 0:30:31.200 --> 0:30:34.880 into it. Yeah, most guys don't. It's like, come on, 0:30:34.960 --> 0:30:39.960 it's honestly so entertaining. I have watched a couple and 0:30:40.000 --> 0:30:42.960 I do get into it. Yeah, but I and I 0:30:42.960 --> 0:30:44.840 don't criticize you for watching on the thin Kalen do I. 0:30:44.880 --> 0:30:47.200 But the show I always laugh at Kalen for watching 0:30:47.200 --> 0:30:50.360 are the Real Housewives shows. Those are crazy. Those ones 0:30:50.400 --> 0:30:52.600 I actually do drive me crazy sometimes with all the yelling, 0:30:52.720 --> 0:30:55.600 but it is entertaining. I can only watch the Salt 0:30:55.640 --> 0:30:58.720 Lake City one. Oh yeah, but it's so good, so 0:30:58.880 --> 0:31:02.240 how City and Beverly Hills. So everyone says the Beverly 0:31:02.360 --> 0:31:04.800 Hills one is good. Maybe if I just didn't start 0:31:04.880 --> 0:31:07.360 from the beginning and just like watch the most recent one, 0:31:07.400 --> 0:31:10.200 i'd like it, or like the most recent few, because 0:31:10.240 --> 0:31:12.280 like the older ones are just so hard to watch, 0:31:13.040 --> 0:31:15.080 they're the best ones. Though I was never into the 0:31:15.080 --> 0:31:18.520 Housewives until COVID, I like started watching from the beginning 0:31:18.560 --> 0:31:20.600 and now I'm obsessed. Okay, now that I don't have 0:31:20.680 --> 0:31:23.280 many shows to watch, maybe I'll try. Because everyone talks 0:31:23.280 --> 0:31:26.080 about how the Beverly Hills one is the best one. Yeah, 0:31:26.240 --> 0:31:30.320 especially early seasons like now, it's it's not that great really, Okay, yeah, 0:31:30.320 --> 0:31:32.320 but I guess it's like the og of Housewives, so 0:31:32.360 --> 0:31:35.280 like I kind of should watch it. Yeah, it's good. 0:31:35.920 --> 0:31:39.800 We're obviously hitting the Brady buzzer on that, right, Yeah, 0:31:39.840 --> 0:31:41.520 we should hit the We should hit the Brady buzzer 0:31:41.560 --> 0:31:57.920 on that. That's perfect implementation of the Brady buzzer. I 0:31:57.960 --> 0:32:01.320 have been watching Perfect Match, have you guys? Perfect Match? Yeah? 0:32:01.360 --> 0:32:03.880 I've been watching The Perfect Match? Yeah? Have you finished it? 0:32:04.120 --> 0:32:06.440 I have not finished it, but you can spoil it 0:32:06.480 --> 0:32:08.760 for me. I'm not like, I'm not like weird like that. 0:32:08.840 --> 0:32:11.840 I don't give it. I'd actually rather know we won't 0:32:11.840 --> 0:32:15.480 spoil it because I don't think the audience that right. 0:32:15.600 --> 0:32:18.360 Right for the listeners, that was a good show. I 0:32:18.480 --> 0:32:20.240 was kyling and I've been texting a little bit about 0:32:20.280 --> 0:32:22.160 it back and forth because I'm not a big fan 0:32:22.200 --> 0:32:24.760 of reality TV typically, but this one, you know, there's 0:32:24.800 --> 0:32:27.400 some favorites from some other reality TV shows that we've watched, 0:32:27.600 --> 0:32:29.800 and it's just been interesting. It's so funny to see 0:32:30.240 --> 0:32:32.240 these contestants come back. It's kind of like a Bachelor 0:32:32.240 --> 0:32:34.040 in Paradise of sorts. That's kind of what I kept 0:32:34.040 --> 0:32:38.120 relating it too. But these contestants seem a little bit 0:32:38.160 --> 0:32:40.880 more insufferable than any Bachelor of contestants that I've back, 0:32:40.960 --> 0:32:44.400 at least, so it's been fun to watch. I don't know, 0:32:44.520 --> 0:32:47.720 I'm so bad with names. Maybe it's no Dom, No, 0:32:47.800 --> 0:32:49.360 it's not Dom. But the other couple, it's like the 0:32:49.400 --> 0:32:52.960 blonde girl and then from the circle is a Joey there. 0:32:53.160 --> 0:32:55.480 They're so toxic and stuff, but it's actually the most 0:32:55.560 --> 0:32:59.680 entertaining thing in the whole wide world. Are they still together? 0:33:00.680 --> 0:33:03.640 I just read that nobody is together from the show, 0:33:03.800 --> 0:33:06.600 like everyone broke up away. That's what I just read. 0:33:06.640 --> 0:33:09.360 I don't know if it's true. I think the couple 0:33:09.440 --> 0:33:11.800 that one was clear, like the couple that one obviously 0:33:11.840 --> 0:33:14.240 wasn't gonna last. I don't think, but I do. I'm 0:33:14.360 --> 0:33:15.960 like in love with Dom. I think Dom is my 0:33:15.960 --> 0:33:19.200 favorite reality contestant from any season, any show ever. He's 0:33:19.240 --> 0:33:22.440 so cool. I think I loved Kissing Challenge. I thought 0:33:22.440 --> 0:33:24.680 that was that's like the most recent episode. That's like, 0:33:24.800 --> 0:33:28.200 literally I'm pretty behind, but the like the where they're 0:33:28.200 --> 0:33:30.320 like kissing each other and then they get like rated 0:33:30.640 --> 0:33:34.960 and stuff. Yet Island I liked it. I know I 0:33:35.040 --> 0:33:36.880 loved it. It was it was good. It's good. I 0:33:36.920 --> 0:33:39.200 need to continue watching it. But I'm like obsessed with 0:33:39.200 --> 0:33:41.920 like Outer Banks and of course love violand so I'm 0:33:42.000 --> 0:33:44.480 kind of like cooked on other things right now. I'm 0:33:44.520 --> 0:33:47.280 three episodes into Outer Banks right now, and every time 0:33:47.280 --> 0:33:49.160 I finished an episode, I'm like, this is the worst 0:33:49.200 --> 0:33:51.520 television show I've ever watched. I can't wait to see 0:33:51.560 --> 0:33:53.720 what happens next, Like it's it's so bad, but it's 0:33:53.720 --> 0:33:56.240 got me hooked so good. It's Outer Banks reality TV? 0:33:56.360 --> 0:33:59.560 Or is it scripted? Scripted? Scripted? Okay, that's what I thought. 0:34:00.080 --> 0:34:02.560 It's really good. But I love the whole dynamic of 0:34:02.600 --> 0:34:05.160 the main characters. We're in a relationship and now they're 0:34:05.160 --> 0:34:07.400 broken up, so watching them like having to film this 0:34:07.480 --> 0:34:10.600 season together, to me, it's been so like interesting to 0:34:10.640 --> 0:34:15.399 see like the how they work together now that they're 0:34:15.400 --> 0:34:18.719 broken up. They do a really great job of pretending 0:34:18.719 --> 0:34:20.560 like it's not a problem, but like I'm thinking, like 0:34:20.600 --> 0:34:23.440 that's got to be a problem, like because now I 0:34:23.440 --> 0:34:25.880 think they're dating other people, and how could they're not 0:34:25.920 --> 0:34:28.000 be jealousy? Like I feel like they're they're doing like 0:34:28.040 --> 0:34:32.920 makeout scenes and almost like sex scenes together. I'm like, definitely, 0:34:33.040 --> 0:34:36.040 that's gotta because now they have new relationships outside of 0:34:36.040 --> 0:34:37.799 the show, and I'd be like, they probably still have 0:34:37.840 --> 0:34:41.400 a connection, you know, especially when they're like making out again. 0:34:41.920 --> 0:34:45.000 I'm like, they probably still love each other, I would think, 0:34:45.840 --> 0:34:47.759 but they're like trying to pretend not to love each other. 0:34:47.800 --> 0:34:50.080 That's just my like me like maybe being hopeful. I 0:34:50.120 --> 0:34:52.279 want them to be together because it's like they're so 0:34:52.360 --> 0:34:55.360 cute together. I'm so sad they broke up. That's honestly 0:34:55.400 --> 0:34:59.480 so sad. But yeah, watching them together as we'll watch 0:34:59.520 --> 0:35:01.880 these shows that do or mostly just love Island. No, 0:35:02.080 --> 0:35:04.279 mostly just love Island and he loves The Last of Us? 0:35:04.360 --> 0:35:08.759 Isn't that the zombie show that everybody? That one makes me? 0:35:08.880 --> 0:35:10.960 I can't it gives me so much anxiety, But I 0:35:11.000 --> 0:35:14.960 can't also stop watching it because it's like whoa, Yeah, 0:35:15.160 --> 0:35:17.239 it's pretty good. Yeah, it's good. Do you guys like 0:35:17.280 --> 0:35:19.799 watch since he's a hockey player, obviously, do you guys 0:35:19.800 --> 0:35:22.279 watch a lot of hockey or is that something you 0:35:22.440 --> 0:35:26.160 don't really watch any spare time? We don't watch hockey 0:35:26.160 --> 0:35:28.560 and our spare time. No, I think that like the 0:35:28.640 --> 0:35:30.680 rule is is like, once he comes home, there's no 0:35:30.800 --> 0:35:34.200 hockey talk. Does he make that he wants that rule? 0:35:34.280 --> 0:35:36.600 Do you want that rule? I just like never talked 0:35:36.600 --> 0:35:38.600 about it, and I always thought that's probably why why 0:35:38.640 --> 0:35:41.200 I ended up marrying him, because we don't talk about hockey. 0:35:41.440 --> 0:35:43.439 I think he likes it. So I just like that's 0:35:43.480 --> 0:35:44.960 my rule in my head. If he comes home, we 0:35:44.960 --> 0:35:48.040 don't talk about it. Yeah, he doesn't want to talk 0:35:48.080 --> 0:35:50.759 about work at home. Yeah, I mean, like, and who 0:35:50.760 --> 0:35:53.200 would want to, especially like if you're like not doing 0:35:53.280 --> 0:35:55.640 good or if you I mean, if you are doing good, 0:35:55.640 --> 0:35:59.080 you're probably really happy. But yeah, we just don't. We 0:35:59.160 --> 0:36:00.680 just don't talk about it. And I think that's a 0:36:00.680 --> 0:36:02.640 good thing. I think it's like healthy for us. But 0:36:02.680 --> 0:36:05.120 also I was like thinking, what is like healthy for 0:36:05.239 --> 0:36:07.640 us too? And I probably Dean and Kaylen can relays, 0:36:08.200 --> 0:36:10.560 because you guys travel so much and you're apart so much. 0:36:10.719 --> 0:36:13.000 Is that like when you come together, it's like so 0:36:13.120 --> 0:36:16.440 it's so nice to have those moments away from each other. 0:36:16.440 --> 0:36:19.279 I feel like that's actually been really nice for our relationship, 0:36:19.760 --> 0:36:21.799 so that he's like away for two weeks and then 0:36:21.800 --> 0:36:23.080 when he comes home, I'm like Oh my god. I 0:36:23.120 --> 0:36:25.279 gets so excited when he comes home. I like get 0:36:25.400 --> 0:36:27.920 like so prepared and like get the house ready, and 0:36:27.960 --> 0:36:29.560 I'm like, what am I going to cook for dinner 0:36:29.560 --> 0:36:31.160 this week when he comes home? Yeah, So it's like 0:36:31.200 --> 0:36:33.000 I feel like that's really nice. Are you and Ashley 0:36:33.040 --> 0:36:34.840 away from each other a lot, Jared? Are you together 0:36:34.880 --> 0:36:37.400 all the time? Noo, We're together all the time. And 0:36:37.440 --> 0:36:40.120 I think it would actually, I mean, our relationship is great, 0:36:40.239 --> 0:36:44.479 but yeah, it's I think it would be beneficial for 0:36:44.560 --> 0:36:48.200 any relationship to have your own thing and then come 0:36:48.239 --> 0:36:50.680 back to each other. But the problem is we're also 0:36:50.719 --> 0:36:55.160 paranoid people, so like I would just be convinced, like 0:36:55.200 --> 0:36:57.239 if Ashley did something without me or went on a 0:36:57.280 --> 0:36:59.480 plane or went somewhere, like I'm always convinced that, you know, 0:36:59.719 --> 0:37:02.680 some think tragic is going to happen and that she'll 0:37:02.719 --> 0:37:05.360 die or I'll die, and then that goes through my 0:37:05.440 --> 0:37:09.520 head constantly. Yes, oh my god. That's the plus side, 0:37:09.560 --> 0:37:12.839 the positive of always doing everything together, because we're like, well, 0:37:12.880 --> 0:37:15.200 at least if we're going, we're going together. You know, 0:37:15.200 --> 0:37:18.719 we were actually talking about that we I think we 0:37:18.719 --> 0:37:20.640 had to go somewhere. I forget the other day and 0:37:20.680 --> 0:37:23.160 we and we had a babysitter for Dawson. We went 0:37:23.160 --> 0:37:27.879 to this appointment and yeah, it was like I ended 0:37:27.960 --> 0:37:30.040 up going with her and she's like, I'm glad you're 0:37:30.080 --> 0:37:32.400 here because at least if we die, we both die together. 0:37:32.719 --> 0:37:34.600 And I'm like, why do we think this way? Plus 0:37:34.640 --> 0:37:36.799 we have a son at home now we have to 0:37:36.920 --> 0:37:40.400 like like I'm sorry, now I'm going on this tangent 0:37:40.840 --> 0:37:42.759 I relate to Tanner and Jade. Tanner and Jade try 0:37:42.840 --> 0:37:45.480 not to travel together because their logic is if one goes, 0:37:45.520 --> 0:37:48.320 at least the other one could still raise the kids. Yeah, 0:37:48.960 --> 0:37:51.160 I can't believe we think this way, but whatever, Well, 0:37:51.200 --> 0:37:54.000 you have to cut. Like tragedies happen. It's obviously not 0:37:54.160 --> 0:37:56.080 something that you would like hope for. But like I 0:37:56.080 --> 0:37:58.399 feel like, realistically, sometimes you have to think like that. 0:37:58.520 --> 0:38:00.879 I don't know, it's it's terrible way of thinking, Like 0:38:01.239 --> 0:38:04.359 it's not a great way to think, but it's also like, uh, 0:38:04.800 --> 0:38:07.040 somewhat realistic way to think. Now that's something that I 0:38:07.040 --> 0:38:08.879 feel like we have to start talking about. Is like, 0:38:09.239 --> 0:38:11.000 which is kind of scary, is like I don't we 0:38:11.040 --> 0:38:12.759 don't have a will, and now that we have like 0:38:12.760 --> 0:38:14.600 a baby, do we need to like make a will? 0:38:14.600 --> 0:38:17.239 Like it's just so And I'm like, I'm only thirty 0:38:17.320 --> 0:38:19.919 years old. Is this something I need to think about? Yeah? 0:38:20.000 --> 0:38:22.440 Trust me, her dad is on us being like, you 0:38:22.480 --> 0:38:24.560 gotta make a whale, you gotta make a will because yeah, 0:38:24.719 --> 0:38:27.799 something happens nobody knows. I mean I wonder what would 0:38:27.800 --> 0:38:29.200 happen right now if we don't have a will, Like, 0:38:29.239 --> 0:38:31.200 what would happen to everything we own? I would assume 0:38:31.239 --> 0:38:33.200 it would get handed down to Dawson at some point 0:38:33.200 --> 0:38:36.440 and like a you know, a savings account or something. 0:38:36.800 --> 0:38:38.600 But I don't know. It's just like a family gets 0:38:38.600 --> 0:38:41.239 involved and they like you know, say, like sometimes like 0:38:41.680 --> 0:38:43.600 people like want to go after your money. I think 0:38:43.600 --> 0:38:46.120 it'd be so much more complicated. It's it's probably not 0:38:46.160 --> 0:38:48.920 as simple and easy as it like sounds unless you 0:38:49.000 --> 0:38:51.640 have something set in stone like paperwork. But I think 0:38:51.640 --> 0:38:55.359 that that people do become like day kind of Yeah, 0:38:55.400 --> 0:38:59.879 those bastards would get involved family. Yeah, you just hear 0:39:00.160 --> 0:39:02.960 craziest stories, honestly, and you're like damn, and you're probably 0:39:03.000 --> 0:39:04.879 up in heaven like what the fuck is going on 0:39:04.920 --> 0:39:09.960 down there? Yeah? Settled down everyone, but yeah, Dean and Klein. 0:39:10.000 --> 0:39:12.160 I sorry you, this question was meant for you, guys. Kailin, 0:39:12.239 --> 0:39:14.000 how do you feel being a part of Like do 0:39:14.120 --> 0:39:16.319 you get like Emily where you get excited to see 0:39:16.320 --> 0:39:19.239 Dean or you just dread every time it comes home. Yeah? No, 0:39:19.320 --> 0:39:21.920 I definitely don't dread it. But I think it's good 0:39:21.960 --> 0:39:23.960 for our relationship. Like I get super excited he'll be 0:39:24.000 --> 0:39:28.120 here on Tuesday, and I don't know. I think it's 0:39:28.160 --> 0:39:29.520 I think it's good for us to like do our 0:39:29.560 --> 0:39:31.800 separate things and not be attached to the hip because 0:39:32.000 --> 0:39:35.480 when he is here, we're typically in Vegas like together 0:39:35.560 --> 0:39:37.880 non stop, doing everything together. So I think it's I 0:39:37.880 --> 0:39:40.080 think it's a good healthy balance because we should be 0:39:40.080 --> 0:39:42.080 doing that most of the time, but then sometimes lets 0:39:42.120 --> 0:39:44.160 get to be apart. And why are you smiling? You're 0:39:44.160 --> 0:39:50.920 going to contradict me, Yeah, because you tell me if 0:39:50.960 --> 0:39:53.200 I okay, let's say you know, we're in Vegas and 0:39:53.640 --> 0:39:56.200 the whole day, the day's over and it's like nine pm, 0:39:56.200 --> 0:39:58.400 and I'm like, hey, Kyle, I'm gonna play video games 0:39:58.400 --> 0:39:59.879 for an hour before I go to bed, and you're 0:40:00.120 --> 0:40:02.399 every time, You're always like, but we never hang out 0:40:02.520 --> 0:40:05.680 during the day. You know, you're doing your building stuff. 0:40:05.719 --> 0:40:08.239 I'm doing my film and clean and stuff. We never 0:40:08.280 --> 0:40:10.959 hang out, I'm like killing We literally are together all 0:40:10.960 --> 0:40:13.280 the time. This sounds like Hay and Will. This sounds 0:40:13.280 --> 0:40:15.359 like me and Will talk like me and Ashley too. 0:40:15.440 --> 0:40:18.920 Jesus Okay, but lately you've been like focused on building 0:40:20.040 --> 0:40:21.920 and we didn't spend a lot of the day together. 0:40:22.480 --> 0:40:25.240 So I see where you're coming from. Like we're together, 0:40:25.280 --> 0:40:27.200 but we're not spending time together. I think there will 0:40:27.239 --> 0:40:31.000 be a difference there somewhere. Yeah, So I don't know. 0:40:31.040 --> 0:40:33.359 I see what you're saying, but I do agree with 0:40:33.400 --> 0:40:36.719 what everyone said. I like to be able to do 0:40:36.800 --> 0:40:38.839 our own separate things that we're interested in it. And then, 0:40:38.840 --> 0:40:40.400 like Emily was saying, when we come back together, we 0:40:40.440 --> 0:40:42.200 get excited, and I gotta like it gives us more 0:40:42.239 --> 0:40:43.839 things to talk about. You're gonna run out of things 0:40:43.840 --> 0:40:46.279 to talk about eventually, but it's nice to like do 0:40:46.360 --> 0:40:48.520 think separately because then it allows you to talk about 0:40:48.560 --> 0:40:50.600 those things because the other person obviously hadn't had the 0:40:50.640 --> 0:40:53.319 chance to experience it, which is nice. It makes me 0:40:53.400 --> 0:40:56.440 laugh because Will's like, we spend every day together, and 0:40:56.480 --> 0:40:58.960 I'm like, just because we're here and you're in the 0:40:59.000 --> 0:41:01.399 office playing your video games and I'm up here doing 0:41:01.440 --> 0:41:04.160 whatever else doesn't mean we're spending time together. It just 0:41:04.200 --> 0:41:07.640 meets we're in the same house together. So yes, what 0:41:07.760 --> 0:41:10.359 I mean, like what I love spending time with him 0:41:10.440 --> 0:41:13.520 is like when we go do things together, like like 0:41:13.560 --> 0:41:15.279 the other day we took Obie to the park and 0:41:15.360 --> 0:41:16.879 we got to do that together, and then we went 0:41:16.920 --> 0:41:18.439 and had lunch together. I was like, oh my god, 0:41:18.480 --> 0:41:22.319 Like days like that make me so happy, and I 0:41:22.360 --> 0:41:24.759 just feel so like full, like of love. Like my 0:41:24.800 --> 0:41:27.719 heart feels so full on those days. And yeah, like 0:41:27.760 --> 0:41:29.600 the days that he like goes off and plays video 0:41:29.640 --> 0:41:31.440 games like it's fine, like I know you love your 0:41:31.520 --> 0:41:34.920 video games and whatever, so but those days I don't full, 0:41:35.080 --> 0:41:37.000 Like my heart doesn't feel like full of like, oh, 0:41:37.000 --> 0:41:41.359 we spent such good quality time together. But you guys 0:41:41.360 --> 0:41:43.000 both play video games, right, do you gys ever play 0:41:43.040 --> 0:41:46.000 games together? Yeah, He'll play Fortnite with me. I love Fortnite. 0:41:46.040 --> 0:41:49.200 Oh my god. I'm a dad. I wonder when I 0:41:49.239 --> 0:41:51.439 have my baby. I wonder if when I have my baby, 0:41:51.440 --> 0:41:53.720 if I'll be like this thirty year old like mom 0:41:53.719 --> 0:41:55.759 with like a sleeping baby, Like, Hey, you guys want 0:41:55.760 --> 0:42:00.239 to play Fortnite real quick? I'm so curious. I think 0:42:00.239 --> 0:42:01.800 you'll figure it out. I think they'll be stoked. I 0:42:02.000 --> 0:42:03.919 I want to get Kalen into video games, but she's 0:42:04.640 --> 0:42:07.720 she's very stubborn about it. So it's been a challenge. 0:42:08.000 --> 0:42:10.239 Well always told me he would have proposed sooner if 0:42:10.239 --> 0:42:12.359 I if I learned how to play Fortnite, and so 0:42:12.400 --> 0:42:14.840 it's funny. After we got engaged, that's when I started 0:42:14.840 --> 0:42:18.080 playing Fortnite. It was it's so funny. But I just 0:42:18.120 --> 0:42:19.960 like Fortnite. It's more of like a social thing like 0:42:20.000 --> 0:42:22.600 my friends and I. It's just like we go into 0:42:22.640 --> 0:42:25.440 team mode and it's just like it's fun. It's like 0:42:25.520 --> 0:42:28.520 seriously so fun. We suck. We are not good. Do 0:42:28.600 --> 0:42:30.839 you play with other Do you play with other girls? 0:42:30.840 --> 0:42:34.120 Like other girlfriends? So I play with my friend Cody, 0:42:34.360 --> 0:42:37.680 my sister, and then our friend Aaron Nice. Do you 0:42:37.719 --> 0:42:41.600 guys ever encounter like a kid talking to you? You 0:42:41.640 --> 0:42:43.919 want no, no, because we don't play like you can't 0:42:43.960 --> 0:42:46.000 hear the other players. But if we like let a 0:42:46.160 --> 0:42:48.680 random into our team, then you can hear like kids. 0:42:48.680 --> 0:42:51.200 But I just turned my microphone off. Because like they're 0:42:51.239 --> 0:42:53.200 going to hear my voice and I'm an adult and 0:42:53.280 --> 0:42:55.880 these kids, like you can tell they're like just little kids. 0:42:56.160 --> 0:42:58.160 I get embarrassed thinking that I'm a thirty year old 0:42:58.239 --> 0:43:01.680 playing Fortnite. Yeah then don't know who you are. It's 0:43:01.760 --> 0:43:04.879 so embarrassed. You're like, I'm too old for this. That's 0:43:04.880 --> 0:43:06.480 what's That's what's great about Call of Duty is you 0:43:06.480 --> 0:43:08.680 get proximity chat. And so there were these kids playing 0:43:08.719 --> 0:43:10.759 this the other day that kills about to bring this up. 0:43:11.480 --> 0:43:13.560 We were talking so much to them. They were it 0:43:13.680 --> 0:43:16.080 was so funny. No, no, you weren't you. They were 0:43:16.120 --> 0:43:18.320 talking crap to you and you were like, your mom's 0:43:18.320 --> 0:43:21.359 not gonna like that very much. Yeah, and then I 0:43:21.440 --> 0:43:22.880 and then I killed them and I was like, you 0:43:22.960 --> 0:43:27.319 better take your words back, young man. Great experience. Okay, Dean, 0:43:27.400 --> 0:43:31.839 have you heard of Doda? Do you? Or like, yeah, yeah, yeah, 0:43:31.960 --> 0:43:33.840 I know. I don't remember what it is though, but 0:43:33.920 --> 0:43:36.760 I have heard Doda before. So Will is very hooked 0:43:36.800 --> 0:43:39.720 on this game called like Doda and it looks so stupid. 0:43:39.800 --> 0:43:41.759 It looks like you just it's like medieval and you 0:43:41.840 --> 0:43:43.880 just like press all these buttons and it like kills 0:43:43.920 --> 0:43:46.800 this like witch or something, and it's just so funny 0:43:46.840 --> 0:43:49.839 because we were watching like the World Championship or something like. 0:43:50.320 --> 0:43:52.640 It's like the pool of money is like forty three 0:43:52.760 --> 0:43:56.000 million dollars. You can win forty three million dollars, and 0:43:56.040 --> 0:44:00.560 I'm like, wow, like these like a video game people 0:44:00.600 --> 0:44:04.440 like they can make so much money. It's actually insane. 0:44:05.719 --> 0:44:08.080 I'm surprised you don't have like a twitch stream or something. 0:44:08.719 --> 0:44:10.360 I told Will all the time if he could just 0:44:10.400 --> 0:44:12.000 help me set it up, I could be like so 0:44:12.120 --> 0:44:14.200 rich doing this and he's like, Emily, no one's gonna 0:44:14.200 --> 0:44:17.360 watch you play. You suck. I don't know. There's a 0:44:17.360 --> 0:44:19.400 lot of like nerdive video game guys that would love 0:44:19.400 --> 0:44:21.359 to watch a pretty girl play the game that they love. 0:44:21.440 --> 0:44:23.160 You know, you probably get a lot of fetish people 0:44:23.200 --> 0:44:25.520 who if you did like the pregnant gamer, you can 0:44:25.560 --> 0:44:27.960 probably make so much money. I was like, all I 0:44:28.000 --> 0:44:29.719 have to do is just put on a push up bra, 0:44:29.960 --> 0:44:32.360 do my hair and makeup, and just play Terrible Fortnight. 0:44:32.480 --> 0:44:35.600 That's all I gotta do. Yeah, that's so funny. That'd 0:44:35.600 --> 0:44:38.040 be pretty awesome. Hogwarts Legacy just came out, and I 0:44:38.120 --> 0:44:40.120 want to get Kaylen into it and Also, Kaylin asked 0:44:40.160 --> 0:44:42.320 if she could borrow my switch the other day, so 0:44:42.360 --> 0:44:46.600 there's there's a promise for her. Yet today you said 0:44:46.600 --> 0:44:48.080 you want to get your own or something like that. 0:44:48.080 --> 0:44:51.799 This switch is fun. Yeah, I'm holding out, Maria Hurt, 0:44:54.360 --> 0:44:56.640 but I'm proud of you for playing video games. That's great. 0:44:56.800 --> 0:44:59.520 She does like games, but she likes the she likes 0:44:59.520 --> 0:45:05.640 the a board games. Oh yeah, what's your favorite board game? Oh? Um, 0:45:07.000 --> 0:45:10.399 what's that one? That? Well? Actually nerdy? But I really 0:45:10.400 --> 0:45:13.600 love Settlers of Katan. I was gonna say. I was like, 0:45:13.640 --> 0:45:15.840 I wonder if Catan is your favorite board game. Katan 0:45:16.560 --> 0:45:20.719 is so much fun. It's so fun, and people are 0:45:20.760 --> 0:45:23.240 so close minded to it because it just sounds nerdy. 0:45:23.239 --> 0:45:25.600 I'm like, it's actually a really fun game. Oh please, 0:45:25.680 --> 0:45:28.480 We've been just talking about the Real Housewives of Beverly 0:45:28.600 --> 0:45:33.759 Hill and The Fortnight and Call of Duty. Katan is 0:45:33.760 --> 0:45:35.640 not nerdy to these things, Okay, it is in the 0:45:35.680 --> 0:45:40.080 same realm of these things. I've never even heard of it. 0:45:39.440 --> 0:45:43.839 I never I don't even know if Will has. I'll 0:45:43.840 --> 0:45:46.319 have to ask him. Maybe he has. It's a very 0:45:46.400 --> 0:45:50.480 adult board game. We're getting a game night together us 0:45:50.560 --> 0:45:52.680 us for your sister and her husband. We got the 0:45:52.680 --> 0:45:54.520 expansion pack so we can play up to six people. 0:45:54.560 --> 0:45:57.200 We're doing it one of these days my sister. My 0:45:57.239 --> 0:45:59.880 sister comes home in like two days, and then her 0:46:00.040 --> 0:46:03.120 husband comes home like three weeks after her. So, honestly, 0:46:03.160 --> 0:46:06.400 that would be kind of fun. Actually we should. I 0:46:06.880 --> 0:46:09.120 love game nights honestly, they're like the best, the best 0:46:09.280 --> 0:46:12.239 nights ever. I wish I could drink. Game nights are 0:46:12.239 --> 0:46:15.239 so much more fun when you can have like a wine. Yeah, yeah, 0:46:15.280 --> 0:46:18.040 how I gotta ask you, so, being pregnant, obviously I'm 0:46:18.080 --> 0:46:20.560 not supposed to drink while you're pregnant. Have you not 0:46:20.680 --> 0:46:22.920 that you drank a lot before or anything like that? 0:46:22.960 --> 0:46:26.120 But like, have you found any compromises for like if 0:46:26.200 --> 0:46:28.319 you are itching for a couple of glasses of wine, 0:46:28.360 --> 0:46:30.000 like you just do something else, or like how do 0:46:30.040 --> 0:46:32.640 you handle that? No? You guys, Like if I'm going 0:46:32.680 --> 0:46:34.520 to drink my calories, it's going to be a soda. 0:46:34.680 --> 0:46:37.440 Like I just want a freaking Coca Cola, a Doctor 0:46:37.480 --> 0:46:40.120 Pepper or something like that. So whenever we go out 0:46:40.160 --> 0:46:41.759 to dinner, I just get I just get like a 0:46:41.800 --> 0:46:45.120 Coca Cola or a doctor pepper. If they have it. I've, like, 0:46:45.120 --> 0:46:47.040 like you mentioned, I've just never been a big drinker. 0:46:47.080 --> 0:46:51.160 So honestly, not being able to drink while pregnant has 0:46:51.200 --> 0:46:54.000 been easy. The only time it's been hard is when 0:46:54.040 --> 0:46:56.880 I go to like social events like hockey games and stuff, 0:46:56.920 --> 0:46:59.720 and like I, you know, people want to chat and stuff. 0:46:59.800 --> 0:47:02.120 Or we go to dinners and keep you know, team 0:47:02.200 --> 0:47:05.160 parties and stuff and the chatting and everyone else is 0:47:05.239 --> 0:47:07.839 drunk and stuff. That's been the hardest part is because 0:47:07.880 --> 0:47:10.799 I feel like I'm not a socially awkward person, but 0:47:10.840 --> 0:47:13.960 I become socially awkward and I think I'm overthinking it, 0:47:14.000 --> 0:47:15.640 and I'm like, god, I just wish I could have 0:47:15.640 --> 0:47:17.640 a drink right now, just to help loosen me up 0:47:17.680 --> 0:47:20.040 and like make my conversations flow a little easier, because 0:47:20.040 --> 0:47:21.600 I feel like I'm just like this pregnant girl in 0:47:21.600 --> 0:47:23.759 the corner, like no one wants to talk to because 0:47:23.760 --> 0:47:27.200 I'm just sober drinking water. It's it sucks. And this 0:47:27.360 --> 0:47:29.719 is why being pregnant, I just don't even bother going 0:47:29.760 --> 0:47:32.160 out because everyone else is going to be drunk, so 0:47:32.239 --> 0:47:34.480 and I'm just gonna sit there and be awkward and 0:47:34.640 --> 0:47:36.560 be like I'm so tired I can't wait to go home, 0:47:36.600 --> 0:47:40.719 because seriously, when you're pregnant, you're so tired. Yeah, I try, 0:47:40.800 --> 0:47:42.880 There's nothing worse than being the only sober person in 0:47:42.880 --> 0:47:48.080 a room. I absolutely cannot stand it. It's the worst. Well, Emily, 0:47:48.120 --> 0:47:49.600 before we let you go, So, Kaylin and I are 0:47:49.600 --> 0:47:51.239 getting married in a couple of months. I just wanted 0:47:51.239 --> 0:47:54.680 to know if you have any advice or suggestions for 0:47:54.800 --> 0:48:00.680 us before we take that big step forward. Oh my god, 0:48:00.719 --> 0:48:02.960 I'm so excited for you, guys. Honestly, I'm just so 0:48:03.000 --> 0:48:05.000 excited to see what dress you pick. Kaylin. I s 0:48:05.000 --> 0:48:07.959 been watching your videos and like every dress you post 0:48:08.040 --> 0:48:09.520 so pretty. I just know you're going to be, like 0:48:09.600 --> 0:48:12.279 truly the most beautiful bride I've ever seen. Like, I'm 0:48:12.360 --> 0:48:16.200 so so excited for you, guys. Advice, I don't know, 0:48:16.600 --> 0:48:19.080 I'm so bad, I'm so cheesy and dumb, but just 0:48:19.120 --> 0:48:22.200 like enjoy it because like in the moment, I felt 0:48:22.239 --> 0:48:24.160 so overwhelmed and I was like, oh my gosh, I 0:48:24.200 --> 0:48:26.080 just can't wait for this to be over with, And 0:48:26.120 --> 0:48:28.040 now that it's over, I'm like, I just wish I 0:48:28.080 --> 0:48:30.680 could go back. I honestly miss it so much. I'm 0:48:30.800 --> 0:48:32.520 more so just wish I could go back to the 0:48:32.640 --> 0:48:35.919 wedding day, like that was so fun and I can't 0:48:35.920 --> 0:48:39.399 believe how smooth and great everything went day of It 0:48:39.480 --> 0:48:41.520 was truly just the best day of my life. So 0:48:41.600 --> 0:48:44.200 I guess just try to enjoy every moment and and 0:48:45.360 --> 0:48:47.880 have people take videos and just be like the annoying 0:48:47.920 --> 0:48:50.319 people like I know it's probably not like that fun, 0:48:50.400 --> 0:48:52.720 but like I hired someone to film behind the scenes, 0:48:52.719 --> 0:48:55.080 and like, looking back on those moments, it's like it 0:48:55.120 --> 0:48:57.319 brings back all those memories and those are the things 0:48:57.360 --> 0:49:02.200 I cherish the most. So oh, I love that. Maybe that, yeah, 0:49:02.719 --> 0:49:04.680 it was the best day of your life up until 0:49:04.760 --> 0:49:10.360 little Wayne Carlson is born. Little Wayne is born, everyone 0:49:10.360 --> 0:49:13.239 always says, oh, the birthday is just like the best day. 0:49:13.400 --> 0:49:16.520 So let's hope that I feel that way. And I'll 0:49:16.520 --> 0:49:18.200 tell you what, I bet you it's gonna go so smoothly. 0:49:18.200 --> 0:49:20.560 You're not gonna have to worry about anything, no epidural, 0:49:20.680 --> 0:49:22.360 no c section. I mean hopefully if that's what you 0:49:22.400 --> 0:49:24.719 end up going with, and you're gonna just cruise through 0:49:24.719 --> 0:49:27.359 it and it's gonna be fantastic. But um, you're great, 0:49:27.400 --> 0:49:29.040 we love you, We're so happy for you. We can't 0:49:29.080 --> 0:49:32.359 wait to see and meet the little guy and um, yeah, 0:49:32.400 --> 0:49:33.880 thank you so much for joining us. This has been 0:49:33.920 --> 0:49:36.600 a blast, Thanks for having me. Thank you so much, 0:49:36.640 --> 0:49:40.120 you guys, you're so sweet. We'll see we'll see you 0:49:40.200 --> 0:49:42.600 dropping into Fortnite one of these days. Yeah, seriously, we'll 0:49:42.600 --> 0:49:47.440 play a game together. You can see how much I suck. Perfect, perfect. 0:49:47.480 --> 0:49:50.480 I look forward to it, you guys, and I'll text 0:49:50.520 --> 0:49:53.200 you a list of Vegas stuff Klin for food because 0:49:53.480 --> 0:49:57.160 thank you. Yeah, there's a lot of good stuff around you. Amazing, 0:49:57.280 --> 0:49:59.840 we need it. Nice, awesome guys. Thanks so much for 0:50:00.040 --> 0:50:06.480 all right, well yep chat later, see ye. All right, 0:50:06.520 --> 0:50:08.520 we'll make sure everybody thank you so much for tuning 0:50:08.560 --> 0:50:10.319 in this week. Make sure you tune in next week, 0:50:10.320 --> 0:50:12.520 where Dean may be here with better Wi Fi. We'll 0:50:12.520 --> 0:50:14.280 find out. 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