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Speaker 1: Papa Team six Welcome to another episode of for the Dads.

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Speaker 1: I hope the trash is out. I hope your belly

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Speaker 1: is full and your balls are empty. Happy spooktober. This

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Speaker 1: show is for the dads, hard stop, no other way

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Speaker 1: to say. This show is for the dads, about becoming

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Speaker 1: a better father, examples of being a shitty father, our wins,

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Speaker 1: our losses. We are not experts whatsoever. We're assuming there's

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Speaker 1: a couple new viewers each and every week because we're

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Speaker 1: building this thing.

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Speaker 2: How we building it boys, inch by inch, inch by inch.

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Speaker 1: We have partners, we have people, we work with people

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Speaker 1: Beg and Chef at times, Derek at times guess guess

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Speaker 1: when are we gonna get guests? Guests are going to come.

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Speaker 1: But there's something about growing, one day at a time,

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Speaker 1: one viewer at a time, one person at a time,

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Speaker 1: slowly building this community. Because one day when this brand

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Speaker 1: and this show, I think in our I know all

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Speaker 1: of PT six, I know all the Papa Team sixers

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Speaker 1: out there to them, also the Seman Team sixers, the

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Speaker 1: head of the ship back there in Chef Jack.

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Speaker 2: When it does pop off and.

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Speaker 1: People are gonna, hey, you've ever seen this for the

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Speaker 1: Dad's and the pt sikos Bro, We're.

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Speaker 2: Gonna be back. I've been on that.

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Speaker 3: I've been on that.

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Speaker 1: I've been crying before they are doing guests. Yeah, I've

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Speaker 1: been saying good I've been mounting my wife.

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Speaker 3: I've been I rode chock Wave twice.

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Speaker 1: No lines, no lines, crying in school boys. But this, uh,

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Speaker 1: this community is awesome. This community is awesome. We do

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Speaker 1: have keep again, continue to leave comments, continue to engage

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Speaker 1: with us. I was scrolling on Spotify earlier. Okay, big

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Speaker 1: shout out to all the platforms that we're on. We're

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Speaker 1: on everything. So if you're watching on YouTube's, if you're

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Speaker 1: listening on Spotify, Apple, Amazon, all the podcast all the

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Speaker 1: all the podcast platforms in the world, we're on them.

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Speaker 2: Simply subscribe. All we ask is that you subscribe.

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Speaker 1: And if you're having any conversations or group chats or dms,

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Speaker 1: we're sending clips because we're on socials out for the

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Speaker 1: dad's pot. If you're doing any of that with your

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Speaker 1: boys or with your your friends, or if Milk Team

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Speaker 1: wives or other moms, ye encourage them to subscribe.

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Speaker 3: Please yes, and we hit we hit a k Yeah,

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Speaker 3: shout out, shout out, we hit ak. I noticed that

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: And then if you really want to at yourself in

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Speaker 1: this community, I say it every week, it's betwtv dot com.

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Speaker 2: We have a lot of new cool.

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Speaker 1: Merch for embracing spooktober yea embracing Halloween, embracing the fright.

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Speaker 2: We have some for the dads with.

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Speaker 1: A little little little wolf pop and a wolf pup

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Speaker 1: and the little wolf pups holding a little you know,

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Speaker 1: a little candy bag, a little Halloween candy bag. It

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Speaker 1: says for the dads on it is our new PT

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Speaker 1: six shirt. Is that out the one I'm looking at

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Speaker 1: right now at the very end of the hangar that's

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Speaker 1: out in stores, Oh, buddy one. Yeah, but we have

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Speaker 1: a new so so for people who bought the very

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Speaker 1: first just throw it to the very person iteration of

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Speaker 1: the Papa Team six shirt. We have our second iteration

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Speaker 1: of the PT six shirt. You got the lawnmower, the

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Speaker 1: Ryde lamb or with PT six on it on the back.

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Speaker 1: We incorporated the little cub this time for all the

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Speaker 1: moms and all the people. Hey, where's the little kid? Oh?

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Speaker 1: Why isn't the parent, Why isn't the dad watching the

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Speaker 1: little kid? On the first one, he's rocking the grill. Wait,

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Speaker 1: these are good dads, These are the good dads.

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Speaker 2: Right here.

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Speaker 1: You're out here mowing the yard with your little with

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Speaker 1: your little cub sunshining. You're out in the backyard. You

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Speaker 1: got a little swing set, a little sunset behind the house.

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Speaker 1: If you're this is this description is if you're listening

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Speaker 1: to this episode right now, we ride at dawn. Down

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Speaker 1: at the bottom. A new PT six shirt is out.

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Speaker 1: We have a lot of cool merch. But that is

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Speaker 1: how you get in. That's how you fully invest in

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Speaker 1: the PT six community. Sherman's holding up one that says

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Speaker 1: We've got to keep this, We've got to.

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Speaker 2: Keep this under an hour. So there you go.

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Speaker 1: We've been seeing comments that say we love shirts that

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Speaker 1: now have those. Here's Thispootober themeed ones right here. Little

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Speaker 1: for the dad's little wolf pup costume. Look a little

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Speaker 1: cute one. This is a little cutee BTWTV dot com.

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Speaker 1: Oh that is where you get your merch. How are

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Speaker 1: we doing sure? How are we doing?

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Speaker 2: Boys?

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Speaker 3: Doing good?

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Speaker 5: We're doing great, doing great, House Seeming Team six going,

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Speaker 5: We're doing just fine.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, So Shepp was telling me right before this episode started,

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Speaker 1: his old man he's now fully bought in.

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Speaker 2: He's he listened to a couple. He's went all the

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Speaker 1: He's listened to all the episodes now and his old

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Speaker 3: He's mom o GP mom.

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Speaker 5: My mom listens on the day we launched. She'll go

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Speaker 5: work out at like five, like six am.

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Speaker 1: She loves to hear a boy on the mic that

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Speaker 1: very proud mom. That's a that's a stoked mom. Right,

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Speaker 5: She makes sometimes some comments that some of the jokes that.

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Speaker 6: She does, it's funny. Yeah, oh jack, you boys, what's

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Speaker 6: the show jack mom? It's a roller coaster.

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Speaker 1: And Chef was telling me too, you like, my dad

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Speaker 1: was like, I went back and listened to an early

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Speaker 1: He's like I'm taking that ten times out of ten.

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Speaker 1: He's that we're selfless most of the time, like we do.

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Speaker 1: the kids rock with your friends. And I don't think

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Speaker 2: So mission this weekend.

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Speaker 3: I'm on a mission.

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Speaker 2: Sweet.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, there's a bet six mission right here, A big one,

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Speaker 1: A big one one for you to knock out of

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Speaker 2: We mentioned it a couple of weeks ago.

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Speaker 3: True. Okay, So Jill is on a bachelorette party in

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Speaker 3: Miami currently we are recording on Friday right now.

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Speaker 1: Oh, she get rowdy, mama, letting the hair down. You

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Speaker 1: tell her, hey, you let your hair down. Your boys

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Speaker 3: Get get some mc lobes and listen to that by

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Speaker 3: Bunnie on the Beach.

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Speaker 1: She's in Bad Bonnie on the Beach Swift album. That's

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Speaker 3: I could get down with some Tea Swift.

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Speaker 2: I can get down some with some Tea Swift.

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Speaker 3: But she she's having a good time. Well, actually she's

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Speaker 3: been crying a lot. I've been getting a lot of

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Speaker 2: Okay, so this isn't. This isn't. I'm a little I've

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Speaker 1: In no get emotional. This is like, I'm separation anxiety.

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Speaker 3: Unless you yeah, unless she's listening to a Bad Bonnie

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Speaker 3: she's sober. Little separation anxiety, dude, I gotta show you

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Speaker 3: a picture now that I'm bringing this up. I'm sending

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Speaker 3: It does not offend me.

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Speaker 2: You better than me.

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Speaker 1: Oh had some fun with it. It took it out

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Speaker 1: and ripped it up. Don't ever disrespect me again. I

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Speaker 1: FaceTime check ins. And when you gotta see you gotta

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Speaker 2: Leaving the nest.

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Speaker 3: Leaving the nest, I saw the note you left for

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Speaker 5: I gotta give context here she has I mean, this

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Speaker 5: is like will It's instructions for building a chair. Yes,

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Speaker 5: good on, Jill, I mean, this is this give this

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Speaker 3: Zero excuse. She she could run a small country, my

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Speaker 5: She has phone numbers written now, phone health info. She

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Speaker 3: Two a time schedule, has eight emergency contact listenings. Now

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Speaker 1: You're right right, so, because I'm enjoying thinking of the

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Speaker 1: is sitting over there looking at like that's you, what

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Speaker 1: they talking about? That's you, that's your every day. But

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Speaker 1: I feel that though so almost like a like a

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Speaker 2: This is the this is the formula.

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Speaker 1: It just so happens that she laid it out or

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Speaker 1: and it seems like it's for you, but really it's

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Speaker 1: just this is the general this.

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Speaker 2: Is the Bible.

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Speaker 3: This is the Bible. This is the baby Bible writing.

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Speaker 3: But I will say I like got her roll belly

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Speaker 3: I don't even really know why, but I was like, yeah,

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Speaker 3: She's gone for the weekend. I am being left at

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Speaker 3: And guess why I do it as well because you

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Speaker 1: You know, I'm going out of town for two days,

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Speaker 3: It's fine because my brain's gonna know, Oh, Jill's not here,

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Speaker 3: I'll sleep on the ground on the air mattress. Then

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Speaker 2: I'm fired up for you.

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Speaker 3: It's gonna be good, dude, I'm fired up for you.

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Speaker 3: This morning was incredible. It like, actually was incredible. It

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Speaker 2: No, we are filming it is. It's eleven right now.

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Speaker 3: She go Auntie Hillary aka Hillary Cox is watching Scarlet.

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Speaker 3: That's my boy, Brian I've told you about.

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Speaker 3: They were sweet enough. She came over. She's watching Scarlett

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Speaker 3: The Merlin, dude, I didn't even put the Merlin down

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Speaker 3: Will Howard was the very first Merlin baby. Steelers future

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Speaker 1: Yes, wishing well a healthy, healthy recovery with the injuries

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, but a survival kit. Survival kit the Merlin.

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Speaker 3: I know you're trying to say it, but you have

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Speaker 3: Literally have to keep it under an hour, okay, or

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Speaker 1: But there was also so if we go all the

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Speaker 1: Who has the same amount of kids or more kids

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Speaker 3: Bless her, who made some banana bread and wrote a

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Speaker 3: Shout out. It was off that they could watch Scarlett

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Speaker 3: And Jill was like, go the avenue of Hillary first

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Speaker 3: What we need to I need to be better at that.

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Speaker 3: You don't feel bad and you don't feel bad. I

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Speaker 3: Fuck are gonna be? When Hillary came over, she legitimately

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Speaker 1: a feed feet her at this time, but then that

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Speaker 1: Saturday and you just look at her.

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Speaker 3: You can look at her. You put her in the

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Speaker 3: plate thing, you can do the two she's loving the

440
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Speaker 3: two feet right now where you're just tuning her, you're

441
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Speaker 3: flipping her. Yeah, it's chef. I'm sorry you were you

442
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Speaker 3: were gonna say something.

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Speaker 8: Oh, no, you're good.

444
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Speaker 2: I was just saying shiming in.

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Speaker 5: Maybe it's like a good karma thing, like what goes

446
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Speaker 5: around comes around, So you need to pay it forward

447
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Speaker 5: if if you take that, if you're offered, and maybe

448
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Speaker 5: it's one of those things where it's kind of with

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Speaker 5: the knowledge of like hey, we owe you, we owe

450
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Speaker 5: you one, whatever that may be.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you do that, you definitely you're in the camp. Hey,

452
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Speaker 1: we we'll get you on the back end. All I'm

453
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Speaker 1: saying is if I am telling you, hey, I'll watch

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Speaker 1: scar scar and even though I got two kiddos and

455
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Speaker 1: let's say I'm alone and I'm just like, hey, i'll

456
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Speaker 1: watch I'll watch Scarlett for you, and you'd be feeling bad.

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Speaker 1: I back, bro, she's three months old. Like, I'll be

458
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Speaker 1: able to handle it, and you trusted me to do it.

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Speaker 1: I'm saying, if I am offering you, like there should

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Speaker 1: be zero guilt, Like if I'm in the man, I

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Speaker 1: kind of don't want to watch her, then I wouldn't

462
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Speaker 1: you know that it was fair shooting offer at all.

463
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Speaker 1: But if I'm offering you, I'm thinking, bro, like your

464
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Speaker 1: boy can handle this. You either trust me or you don't.

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Speaker 1: I think you should maybe you don't. Would you trust me?

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Speaker 3: A hundred d? And hey that was when I got

467
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Speaker 3: a pretty nice compliment this morning from Hillary. She was

468
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Speaker 3: like I just want be cause I was like running

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Speaker 3: through all this stuff with her and she was like, Hey,

470
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Speaker 3: I just want to let you know, working in a hospital,

471
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Speaker 3: I'm used to that to being like yeah, I don't

472
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Speaker 3: know their allergies, like go talk to mom, Yeah, go

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Speaker 3: talk to mom.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah.

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Speaker 8: So she was like.

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Speaker 3: You're you're on it, like you everything seems great. Like

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Speaker 3: I was almost like performative to her when she like

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Speaker 3: showed up in a way of like and this is

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Speaker 3: right here, and this is right here.

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Speaker 2: It's just let you know, just hand on the shoulder. Okay.

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Speaker 3: So like first off, Sherman, we're in your house. Yeah, yeah,

482
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Speaker 3: you can do whatever the hell you want.

483
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Speaker 2: I'm a nurse.

484
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Speaker 3: I'm a nurse. I'm just gonna watch your kid, like

485
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Speaker 3: you don't have to prem anything. I'm sitting there like okay,

486
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Speaker 3: but everything's like it's all good. If you need it,

487
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Speaker 3: it's it's your here. But yeah, dude, huge weight off

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Speaker 3: my chest. When I walked out the front.

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Speaker 2: Door was good.

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Speaker 3: I was like, oh dude, that felt good.

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Speaker 2: But got to be home soon.

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Speaker 3: Got to be home.

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Speaker 2: Got to keep this one under an hour.

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Speaker 3: Got to keep it under an hour.

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Speaker 2: You go ahead.

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Speaker 4: Oh.

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Speaker 3: I was just gonna say, and gotta kick ass, dude,

498
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Speaker 3: And I'm off to the hottest start ever. Knock on

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Speaker 3: wood Yeah, knock on wood by Sorry, off hot.

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Speaker 2: You're gonna crush it. Thank you, You're gonna crush it.

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Speaker 1: Because when those conversations or questions was coming up, it's like, hey,

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Speaker 1: real opportunity here.

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Speaker 3: Of course I would trust you with Scarlett. I appreciate that.

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Speaker 3: Of course I would. I would rip bro. And that

505
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Speaker 3: was to the point that I was trying to make

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Speaker 3: earlier where Hillary paid that compliment was like most dads

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Speaker 3: you know don't even know what they're allergic to or

508
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Speaker 3: their social Security number. I'm like, I think of you

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Speaker 3: as a dad that's on it.

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Speaker 1: I don't know their social Security numbers, but you've been

511
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Speaker 1: but I'm on it, beyond it. So I watched Time

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Speaker 1: Concern I be on You've seen a blowout or too. Yeah, yeah,

513
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Speaker 1: you got this easy money. Ru would crush it too.

514
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Speaker 3: Because because some of those you see, you know, your

515
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Speaker 3: boy's like holding your kid and it starts crying even

516
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Speaker 3: a little bit, and it's like almost an instant reaction

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Speaker 3: of yo yo yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Your anxiety will really build whenever, like say you and

520
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Speaker 1: Jill do a date night, or you're like letting the

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Speaker 1: babysitter do whatever with Scarlet. She's a little older to

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Speaker 1: where she's aware or has they'll have their own separation anxiety,

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Speaker 1: and it's kind of crippling.

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Speaker 4: Bro.

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Speaker 1: You kind of just feel bad leaving the house. First

526
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Speaker 1: time Charle and I left the house to go on

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Speaker 1: a date, and Rue was like aware that we were leaving,

528
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Speaker 1: and she was starting she was getting old, she was

529
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Speaker 1: getting at that age to where you know, she's like

530
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Speaker 1: reaching or crying and doesn't seem like they're gonna have

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Speaker 1: fun with the babysitter, and you kind of just feel

532
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Speaker 1: like you're leaving them there to get tortured. You're driving

533
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Speaker 1: away from the driveway just thinking in their mind, they're

534
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Speaker 1: probably they probably got like an animal brain they probably

535
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Speaker 1: think we don't We're not coming back like this is there.

536
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Speaker 1: It's the saddest thing in the world. You kind of

537
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Speaker 1: just don't know what you and your wife sitting there

538
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Speaker 1: and all you're doing is talking about the kid. To

539
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Speaker 1: get to dinner, and you have to like tell yourself like, hey,

540
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Speaker 1: we have to enjoy this meal. Yes, then you eat

541
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Speaker 1: kind of faster. Are we gonna get dessert? Oh wait,

542
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Speaker 1: we got to get home. We'll skip dessert. And you're

543
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Speaker 1: kind of just racing home. You just feel so bad

544
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Speaker 1: leaving them. That'll come to dude, that's guy that will hit.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and it Thankfully I didn't feed Scarlett. I gave

546
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Speaker 3: Hillary the bottle and I was like, I think this

547
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Speaker 3: will help in the long run if you actually kick

548
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Speaker 3: off this wild babysit two hour sash with like a

549
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Speaker 3: feeding with.

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Speaker 1: A dub with the dub quick game quarterbacks, a little

551
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Speaker 1: nervous Yeah, Like, let's just get a quick one out there,

552
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Speaker 1: quick out, quick slant, something to the flats, maybe a screen.

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Speaker 1: Maybe let's just hand the ball off. Here's the ball,

554
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Speaker 1: it's a bottle.

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Speaker 3: Maybe you know block block bark, Oh yeahart you off

556
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Speaker 3: with a quick win, quick when and I was like,

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Speaker 3: Scarlett's going to be like, Oh that's formula lady that

558
00:25:05,240 --> 00:25:08,639
Speaker 3: fed me and now she's playing me. Te Swift. Hillary

559
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Speaker 3: kind of ribs, yeah, yeah, yeah, all right, let's not

560
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Speaker 3: We got a lot of stuff to covert. We have

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Speaker 3: a lot of comments, and I do I was writing

562
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Speaker 3: down a lot of I was writing down a lot

563
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Speaker 3: of comments and more so just names to shout out

564
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Speaker 3: because last week's episode was obviously very emotional. At one

565
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Speaker 3: point when I was talking about when Garrett shot over

566
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Speaker 3: an awesome comment talking about how you listened to the voicemail,

567
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Speaker 3: it really struck your boy as empathizing with somebody who

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Speaker 3: lost their parent, understanding that their parent won't really get

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Speaker 3: to know your kid. It's just something my mom passing

570
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Speaker 3: away before was born, when Charli, my wife was pregnant,

571
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Speaker 3: really hit your boy hard. Ye kind of got off

572
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Speaker 3: the rails for a moment.

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Speaker 1: It was an obvious emotional state that I needed to

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Speaker 1: live in lean into. I do appreciate you guys for

575
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Speaker 1: sitting with your boy during that during that moment, because

576
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Speaker 1: it was very awkward and different for me in that moment.

577
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Speaker 1: But all of the comments, all of the messages, everybody

578
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Speaker 1: that's been engaging, everybody that's been talking about how they

579
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Speaker 1: lost somebody close to them, they lost a parent, or

580
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Speaker 1: just putting their arm around me. In the comments section,

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Speaker 1: I shout out a lot of names. I'm gonna just

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Speaker 1: read a list because there were so many. I'm doing

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Speaker 1: my best to shout out everybody. Sumner, Darlington, Ian Natch,

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Speaker 1: jib Kennedy, LeBlanc, Brittany Underwood, Austin Barnett, Vladie Man on

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Speaker 1: the Planet, Danny Cerno, Clifton Jones, Evan Snyder, Life of

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Speaker 1: Siah Hambonius, Rex Andres, Sorry about this, brother Schaidez Chadez

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Speaker 1: Chadees Avenged, Nick Bemo fifty four, Paul Johnson, Flat River

588
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Speaker 1: Boy grew up in Park Hills. He said he watched

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Speaker 1: me back when I played in RGFL. So this is

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Speaker 1: a young Oh Thundercat fourth fifth, sixth grade. He says

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Speaker 1: he now has thirteen kids. Didn't that that was not

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Speaker 1: a type of Yes, three three sets of twins. You

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Speaker 1: got three sets of twins after the second clip, Buddy,

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Speaker 1: you got it.

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Speaker 2: You gotta shut it down.

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Speaker 1: Uh, Noah Adams, Tanner, Stevens, Andre Cady, Kim Hickey, Nathaniel Sachs.

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Speaker 4: Uh.

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Speaker 1: There were a bunch also that I was reading in

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Speaker 1: the in Spotify as well. If you go to our

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Speaker 1: Spotify again, make sure you hit that little plus button

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Speaker 1: to make sure you're following the for the Dazz brand

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Speaker 1: of course can't occurage the following and subscribing, by the way.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, he's a he's a big timer. He's a big timer.

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Speaker 1: The for the She's a tier one across the board,

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Speaker 1: busting with the boys for the Dads. Everything but Jake Ballman,

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Speaker 1: Jade and Biby Bennett. I'm reading the uh the Spotify

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Speaker 1: Matt Notreman, just everybody man. Honestly, it's it was really cool.

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Speaker 1: I got a FaceTime last week from a buddy of mine,

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Speaker 1: a shout Out logan who logan. We were kind of

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Speaker 1: talking about the episode at first, and I was like,

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Speaker 1: have you listened to this week's because he was like, Hey,

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Speaker 1: I've been loving the for the Dad stuff. I've been

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Speaker 2: I haven't spoken to in a long time.

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Speaker 1: It's just really cool to see what the brand's doing

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Speaker 1: and the episodes have been have been great. I'm like,

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Speaker 1: tell me about this weeks. I was like, I was

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Speaker 1: starting to tell him. I was honestly starting to get

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Speaker 1: emotional again as I'm trying to tell him last week.

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Speaker 2: Last week we'll go down as the most emotional.

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Speaker 1: Week that Willie c had reading comments, seeing the clip

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Speaker 1: that you guys made and kind of like seeing it

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Speaker 1: again and reliving it. But he calls me like ten

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Speaker 1: minutes later on FaceTime and he's just in the middle

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Speaker 1: of crying and it was.

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Speaker 2: Kind of like a.

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Speaker 1: Kind of like I wasn't in the state of crying anymore.

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Speaker 1: Tried popping a joke to make it light and everybody

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Speaker 1: has just been super cool and it's cool to see

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Speaker 1: everybody in the community rally around just each other, share

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Speaker 1: their stories, be vulnerable with us.

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Speaker 2: So thank you guys.

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Speaker 1: We do have comments here that we're gonna rip some

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Speaker 1: more fun comments this week. We have we can't just

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: I want to thank you for sharing what you did.

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Speaker 3: And I thought it was really cool and just how

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Speaker 3: I personally affected me. Called my mom instantly after the podcast.

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Speaker 3: Dude cried with my mom and it was fucking sick.

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Speaker 3: And what you did was was incredible, your legend.

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Speaker 2: Thank you.

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Speaker 1: I don't want to add I truly, it's like if

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Speaker 1: I add talking about again, it'll feel you know what

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Speaker 1: I mean it feel Just say the marri and stuff

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Speaker 1: the mom stuff, just the all of it.

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Speaker 3: Bro feel feel Willy C has never done this in

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Speaker 3: the history of Busting. After that episode, you took an

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Speaker 3: hour nap in the shop.

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Speaker 2: An emotional nap, and I do.

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Speaker 1: When I woke up, I appreciated that the doors were shut,

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Speaker 1: because they weren't at first. I kind of was sitting

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Speaker 1: there and I was like, I'm gonna watch forget what

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Speaker 1: it was either like it's Friday. It's on a Friday,

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Speaker 1: so it's either like make some posts or like watch

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Speaker 1: some film on the NFL, like watch the All twenty two,

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Speaker 1: like dive into some of that stuff.

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Speaker 2: And I kind of just got to where I was.

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Speaker 1: I was starting to be a sleepy boy, yeah, and

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Speaker 1: so I just kind of put the hat over the

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Speaker 1: face and the lazy boy that we got, and I

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Speaker 1: was just hopeful my hopefully guys don't come in and

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Speaker 2: Like I was like, I'm just gonna get a quick now,

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna get a nap.

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Speaker 9: Hopefully, Derek and I Derek you saying, I was just

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Speaker 9: gonna say it was kind of like when Dad falls asleep.

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Speaker 9: And you're like, oh, we should change your hand on.

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Speaker 9: My Mom's like, don't mess with that. Like people were

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Speaker 9: like trying to go and we're like, don't go in

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Speaker 9: there yet. Like people are like, hey, is Will in there?

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Speaker 9: We're like, don't.

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Speaker 3: Don't open the door, Like, don't open the door the

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Speaker 3: boy a second.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, And it was truly an hour nap. Like I

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Speaker 1: woke up the door. You guys had shut the doors.

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Speaker 1: It was me was who is one of the last

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Speaker 1: ones in here? Maybe clump, yeah, because most most everybody

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Speaker 1: was gone.

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Speaker 3: Ryan was here.

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Speaker 2: I was kind of bum that I didn't get said

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Speaker 2: by to you guys. I did wake up.

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Speaker 1: I was say, man, everybody, it was a much it

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Speaker 1: was a much needed nap. It was the week of

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Speaker 1: travel and everything else. And then that that emotion was

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Speaker 1: because we shaped out. I didn't watch that moment on YouTube.

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Speaker 1: I know when we got done, I was kind of

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Speaker 1: up in the air about cutting a lot of stuff

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Speaker 1: out because I was just I was feeling very awkward

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Speaker 1: no pod and then I was just kind of like, hey,

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Speaker 1: you guys, listen to it.

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Speaker 2: I trust you guys.

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Speaker 1: Whatever you want to cut out if you think it's necessary,

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Speaker 1: if you feel like it'll be people you know connect

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Speaker 1: with it and it'll be helpful. You guys do your

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Speaker 1: thing with it. Yeah, but I know, how did you

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Speaker 1: did you edit out stuff?

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Speaker 5: Oh? Yeah, uh yeah, I edited a decent bit, but

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Speaker 5: nothing like dialogue wise. I really think that there's maybe

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Speaker 5: like three or four words that cut, and that was

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Speaker 5: kind of like what you guys don't see is like

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Speaker 5: producer talk, where will I go like you might want

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Speaker 5: to cut this or something like. That's all that was,

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Speaker 5: But pretty much everything is said. I cap because I

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Speaker 5: thought it was really important. I thought that there was

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Speaker 5: like a lot that resonates with the people who watch this,

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Speaker 5: and I think it's important that they, you know.

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Speaker 8: See that. And I did speak from my side. I

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Speaker 8: don't think it was awkward at all.

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Speaker 5: I think you're having a moment that's universal and I'll,

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Speaker 5: you know, eventually pretty much everyone will understand.

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Speaker 1: So yeah, yeah, for sure some one of those where

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Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm I'm driving afterwards or thinking about it afterwards,

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Speaker 1: and usually like when a moment like that's happening, not

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Speaker 1: say like I'm usually alone and I want to be

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Speaker 1: alone because I think like, Okay, I'm usually alone when

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Speaker 1: that happens, and it's like, oh, it's always good to

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Speaker 1: have somebody there with you.

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Speaker 2: Or whatever the case, like support system around.

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Speaker 1: But usually, like as as anybody who has like a

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Speaker 1: tough moment like that, usually you feel much more comfortable

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Speaker 1: it's happening, whether it's in your car, at home alone,

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Speaker 1: whatever it is, and for it to be happening in

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Speaker 1: front of you guys when it's see the moment where

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Speaker 1: I had to kind of just sit this side and

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Speaker 1: I'm like, all right, this is I gotta basically I

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Speaker 1: have to have this moment.

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Speaker 2: I can't like get out of this moment.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 2: And then to look up and see see.

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Speaker 1: That you guys were, you know, being the way you were,

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Speaker 1: and thank you for being a good friend both all

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Speaker 1: you guys, All you guys much appreciate it.

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Speaker 2: Should we get into some some fun comments.

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Speaker 1: I'm ready, all right, I'll kick it off Coach Web

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Speaker 1: on YouTube Coach Web ninety nine to zero three. Best

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Speaker 1: part of the pod is the tears. Crying is cool

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Speaker 1: Coach Web. So glad I have a scheduled time to

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Speaker 1: cry each week. Another one, another fun one. Josh Thompson's

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Speaker 1: sixty three sixty four bed podcast best podcast I listen

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Speaker 1: to this year. Will I totally felt that emotion, Josh.

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Speaker 1: I appreciate the comment. Brother Junior le Bk on YouTube.

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Speaker 1: I fucking love this podcast. So many lessons in here

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Speaker 1: for everyone. This might be for the dad's at its core,

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Speaker 1: but in my opinion it's Ooh, I like this for

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Speaker 1: the soul.

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Speaker 2: Thanks for speaking from the hard boys, dude. Thank you, Junior.

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Speaker 3: Snap Snap Snaps. Lindy Roker fifty five thirty five on YouTube.

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Speaker 3: Set just wanted to say how much I love this podcast.

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Speaker 3: My fiance put me on it and I've been hooked

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Speaker 3: from the beginning. We aren't parents yet, but I can't

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Speaker 3: tell you how much more excited you guys have made

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Speaker 3: us to become members of Empty six and PT six

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Speaker 3: one day. You have given all of us listeners a

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Speaker 3: refreshing and realistic perspective on parenting. I'm all in for

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Speaker 3: the rollercoaster of emotions I experienced listening to this show too,

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Speaker 3: laughing one minute and then crying the next. Real men

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Speaker 3: in parentheses and women cry and crying is totally cool.

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Speaker 3: Thank you so much for sharing your lives, your hearts

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Speaker 3: with us and making this podcast incredible.

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Speaker 1: I love that comment. It is it's like when you're

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Speaker 1: sitting there, like what clips do I want to post?

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Speaker 1: It's like you got the emotional one. There's someone I've

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Speaker 1: seen in the comments that are alluding to this, like

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Speaker 1: the speech of the moment last week after you know,

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Speaker 1: my man got himself out of the trenches. And then

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Speaker 1: there's like I got the bane mask on you do

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Speaker 1: you think this bottle is your alle we lially crying

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Speaker 1: motivational speeches, like all right, how are we going to

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Speaker 3: Yes, we have a clip that it took me a

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Speaker 3: day and a half to edit because it's a funny

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Speaker 3: part of the podcast. But my eyes look like I

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Speaker 3: context of us reading sad comments at the beginning of it.

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Speaker 3: Then transitions to you, yeah, I'm out of underwear. I'm

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Speaker 3: wearing a European swimsuit. That's the joke. There you go,

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Speaker 3: and like my eyes just look awfully, But yeah, the

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Speaker 3: pod is sick. DUDEJ for the Dad's pt Sika that's

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's somebody too, that's probably on that's probably you know,

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Speaker 1: we haven't I haven't looked or we haven't circled back

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Speaker 3: Yeah he's got the light machine gun. He's not carrying

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Speaker 3: Thank you kJ. Another one or yeah, I got Katie

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Speaker 3: Katie Joson Hans. What a cool name. As a mom

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Speaker 3: proud of our last name. It was sad to think

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Speaker 3: that name as their middle name too. That way we

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Speaker 3: Cash family. You heard that right, from Katie Cash to

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Speaker 1: You can't expect us to just be dialed in on

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Speaker 1: some of the names Katie joson Hans. But yeah, Katie

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Speaker 3: But my boys will always be a part of the

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Speaker 1: As far's that's a subtle parenthack right there. That's a

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Speaker 1: longtime listener to the bus and have to say four

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Speaker 1: of the dads is the best new member of step

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Speaker 1: Papa Team six of two wonderful kids five and six.

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Speaker 1: All your stories and advice helped me tremendously. Keep up

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Speaker 3: Team six, Step Papa Team six.

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Speaker 1: If you're a good one. And it sounds like he's

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Speaker 1: somebody I shout it out with a great comment. This

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Speaker 1: with the day to day of dad life. A place

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Speaker 1: and say the things that we all have on our minds,

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Speaker 2: Shout out you.

870
00:40:19,600 --> 00:40:23,000
Speaker 1: And one more from Nuke fifty on YouTube, Willie one

871
00:40:23,080 --> 00:40:25,440
Speaker 1: Sholf make me cry on a damn construction site. Just

872
00:40:25,480 --> 00:40:27,720
Speaker 1: another reason why I love you guys and love this show.

873
00:40:27,920 --> 00:40:30,560
Speaker 1: Wednesdays can't come soon enough. No they can't, Brother and

874
00:40:30,640 --> 00:40:32,040
Speaker 1: come on, no they can't.

875
00:40:32,200 --> 00:40:35,359
Speaker 3: Gaming Riot one oh one says was up. I'm new

876
00:40:35,400 --> 00:40:37,799
Speaker 3: to the channel that I'm expecting my first child. He

877
00:40:38,120 --> 00:40:40,399
Speaker 3: is a boy and his name is River. I'm only

878
00:40:40,480 --> 00:40:43,359
Speaker 3: twenty one. Shout out River, Shout out River, and I'm

879
00:40:43,400 --> 00:40:47,560
Speaker 3: nervous about We have a great I am nervous about it,

880
00:40:47,800 --> 00:40:51,080
Speaker 3: but we have a great support system. I'd like to

881
00:40:51,120 --> 00:40:56,759
Speaker 3: hear from some of you guys, so sorry, let me

882
00:40:57,320 --> 00:41:00,600
Speaker 3: regrape here. I would like to hear some of your

883
00:41:00,719 --> 00:41:05,160
Speaker 3: guy's hardest and best moments about being a first time dad.

884
00:41:05,640 --> 00:41:09,000
Speaker 3: My name is Austin Witchmand. By the way, I'm in

885
00:41:09,040 --> 00:41:10,520
Speaker 3: Papa Team six officially.

886
00:41:10,600 --> 00:41:14,680
Speaker 2: Now what Smarcus of emotion for you?

887
00:41:18,520 --> 00:41:21,560
Speaker 3: Hardest and best moments of being a first time dad?

888
00:41:21,680 --> 00:41:28,000
Speaker 3: I would say hardest moments is getting into the rhythm

889
00:41:28,320 --> 00:41:33,520
Speaker 3: of the infancy stage, like the newborn stage. That was

890
00:41:33,560 --> 00:41:37,360
Speaker 3: the hardest part for me. It was a definite learning curve.

891
00:41:38,760 --> 00:41:41,200
Speaker 3: But once I got it down, I got it down.

892
00:41:41,400 --> 00:41:45,319
Speaker 3: It's a lot of people talk about like skiing is

893
00:41:45,520 --> 00:41:48,200
Speaker 3: very hard to master, but it's like very easy to

894
00:41:48,239 --> 00:41:52,120
Speaker 3: pick up, whereas snowboarding is a little bit harder to

895
00:41:52,200 --> 00:41:55,400
Speaker 3: pick up but a lot easier to master. I feel

896
00:41:55,400 --> 00:42:00,719
Speaker 3: like bringing up a newborn is like snowboarding. It's kind

897
00:42:00,760 --> 00:42:02,239
Speaker 3: of hard to pick up, but once you get the

898
00:42:02,280 --> 00:42:04,040
Speaker 3: hang of it, you're you're gonna start ripping.

899
00:42:04,120 --> 00:42:04,560
Speaker 2: Good to go.

900
00:42:05,160 --> 00:42:08,759
Speaker 1: Yeah dude, I could not imagine being a father at

901
00:42:08,800 --> 00:42:09,239
Speaker 1: twenty one.

902
00:42:09,880 --> 00:42:12,719
Speaker 3: Yeah dude. Well, I mean, like, well done to him

903
00:42:12,800 --> 00:42:16,439
Speaker 3: for being locked in at the age. The thought of

904
00:42:17,040 --> 00:42:19,560
Speaker 3: a twenty one year old Sherman being a dad is

905
00:42:19,719 --> 00:42:21,240
Speaker 3: a scary one.

906
00:42:21,719 --> 00:42:23,360
Speaker 1: I know it's hard for a lot of young parents

907
00:42:23,440 --> 00:42:26,200
Speaker 1: that have kids that young. And whether it was planned

908
00:42:26,280 --> 00:42:30,120
Speaker 1: or unplanned, I think the most important thing that this

909
00:42:30,320 --> 00:42:34,560
Speaker 1: young man can do is accept whatever the reality is

910
00:42:34,600 --> 00:42:36,839
Speaker 1: of a situation. And I'm not saying it wasn't planned.

911
00:42:36,880 --> 00:42:38,880
Speaker 1: I'm not saying he didn't want this. I'm just almost

912
00:42:38,880 --> 00:42:44,160
Speaker 1: assumpting because he's twenty one, But accept.

913
00:42:43,760 --> 00:42:46,480
Speaker 2: Whatever reality you have, and dude, it's got.

914
00:42:46,239 --> 00:42:48,520
Speaker 1: To be the number one priority in your life on

915
00:42:48,680 --> 00:42:50,160
Speaker 1: nailing down fatherhood.

916
00:42:50,520 --> 00:42:51,160
Speaker 2: It just does.

917
00:42:51,480 --> 00:42:55,800
Speaker 1: It does with all the And there's a there's honestly

918
00:42:56,000 --> 00:42:59,200
Speaker 1: a sick lesson that I came across, or sick like

919
00:42:59,280 --> 00:43:01,400
Speaker 1: philosophy that I think is going to be like a

920
00:43:01,480 --> 00:43:04,799
Speaker 1: new found thing like in my life and world.

921
00:43:04,840 --> 00:43:05,879
Speaker 2: There's like a.

922
00:43:05,960 --> 00:43:09,799
Speaker 1: North Star Mount rushmore philosophies that I'll hit later in

923
00:43:09,800 --> 00:43:15,719
Speaker 1: the episode. But man, write down what your priorities are,

924
00:43:15,760 --> 00:43:18,120
Speaker 1: what you want to be as a father. Write it

925
00:43:18,200 --> 00:43:20,799
Speaker 1: down and be as clear as possible. Who do I

926
00:43:20,920 --> 00:43:24,359
Speaker 1: want to be as a dad, especially as a young man. Bro,

927
00:43:24,440 --> 00:43:28,000
Speaker 1: because you're very young, I don't know everything you have

928
00:43:28,120 --> 00:43:29,840
Speaker 1: going on in your life. I'm sure you're trying to

929
00:43:29,920 --> 00:43:32,919
Speaker 1: balance what you want to do in this world. Well

930
00:43:33,000 --> 00:43:35,520
Speaker 1: kind of dad you want to be? And I would

931
00:43:35,560 --> 00:43:39,719
Speaker 1: say give yourself some grace and not feeling urgent and

932
00:43:39,800 --> 00:43:43,840
Speaker 1: rushed into figuring out whether it's career, school, whatever is

933
00:43:43,880 --> 00:43:45,520
Speaker 1: going on in your world. You're going to have a

934
00:43:45,560 --> 00:43:48,200
Speaker 1: lot of pressure and a lot of stress being a

935
00:43:48,239 --> 00:43:50,239
Speaker 1: young dad being at twenty one.

936
00:43:50,719 --> 00:43:53,480
Speaker 2: But bro, get as clear as you possibly can.

937
00:43:53,640 --> 00:43:56,319
Speaker 1: If this podcast is something you enjoy listening to and

938
00:43:56,360 --> 00:43:59,160
Speaker 1: feel like you get help from, stay glued to it

939
00:43:59,560 --> 00:44:02,080
Speaker 1: because you're there's gonna be a lot of trials and

940
00:44:02,120 --> 00:44:07,480
Speaker 1: tribulations in your relationship, in in fatherhood, in all of it.

941
00:44:07,560 --> 00:44:07,759
Speaker 2: Bro.

942
00:44:08,920 --> 00:44:10,839
Speaker 3: But yeah, I thought you had. I thought you had

943
00:44:10,880 --> 00:44:11,480
Speaker 3: great advice.

944
00:44:11,520 --> 00:44:14,200
Speaker 1: It's like, man, it's gonna feel overwhelming with a newborn,

945
00:44:14,320 --> 00:44:15,160
Speaker 1: your first one.

946
00:44:15,640 --> 00:44:17,120
Speaker 2: Once you get it down, you're gonna get it down.

947
00:44:17,200 --> 00:44:19,880
Speaker 1: But make sure you keep your the main thing, the

948
00:44:19,920 --> 00:44:23,080
Speaker 1: main thing when it comes to fatherhood, bro, and prioritize.

949
00:44:22,400 --> 00:44:25,880
Speaker 2: It because it's it's it's it's difficult.

950
00:44:25,920 --> 00:44:28,560
Speaker 1: And I'm speaking as somebody who is a dad at

951
00:44:29,200 --> 00:44:34,080
Speaker 1: RHO is three, So thirty three, thirty four years old, yeah,

952
00:44:34,360 --> 00:44:38,360
Speaker 1: thirty two for myself, yeah yeah, so I feel like

953
00:44:38,960 --> 00:44:41,560
Speaker 1: it was helpful for me. I guess like later to

954
00:44:42,040 --> 00:44:44,719
Speaker 1: become a dad. I truly I couldn't imagine. But Dude,

955
00:44:44,719 --> 00:44:47,399
Speaker 1: if I give you advice, it's it's the same kind

956
00:44:47,440 --> 00:44:50,040
Speaker 1: of things that we talk about. I say to myself

957
00:44:50,080 --> 00:44:52,680
Speaker 1: out all the time, like nobody's coming to save you.

958
00:44:53,200 --> 00:44:55,880
Speaker 1: Focus be as clear as you possibly can, and stay

959
00:44:55,920 --> 00:44:58,880
Speaker 1: glued to whatever that clearity is, whatever you have written down,

960
00:44:58,960 --> 00:45:01,719
Speaker 1: stay glued to it, because that's what you're gonna need

961
00:45:01,719 --> 00:45:04,160
Speaker 1: to look at and lean on and constantly think about

962
00:45:04,239 --> 00:45:06,120
Speaker 1: the self talk all the time with all the pressure

963
00:45:06,160 --> 00:45:07,200
Speaker 1: that you'll have in this world.

964
00:45:08,880 --> 00:45:10,840
Speaker 2: But good on you for right in. I appreciate you

965
00:45:10,920 --> 00:45:13,000
Speaker 2: right in, bro, Yes, appreciate you right now.

966
00:45:13,040 --> 00:45:15,600
Speaker 3: Thank you for writing in. And if it is one

967
00:45:15,600 --> 00:45:18,480
Speaker 3: of those situations where you are trying to do school,

968
00:45:18,600 --> 00:45:21,680
Speaker 3: balance that. There was a guy that I went to

969
00:45:21,760 --> 00:45:25,840
Speaker 3: Baylor with shout out Jimmy, that he had an accident

970
00:45:26,920 --> 00:45:30,319
Speaker 3: child or a surprise child his senior year of high

971
00:45:30,320 --> 00:45:34,600
Speaker 3: school and he absolutely rinted as a dad and was

972
00:45:34,600 --> 00:45:38,640
Speaker 3: a full on college student, like living on campus, co

973
00:45:38,800 --> 00:45:43,120
Speaker 3: parenting with mom. They were I mean, it was like

974
00:45:43,440 --> 00:45:48,040
Speaker 3: truly something special to get to watch. It's really cool

975
00:45:48,080 --> 00:45:53,560
Speaker 3: when like people are kind of thrust into responsibility and

976
00:45:53,600 --> 00:45:56,520
Speaker 3: how they can handle that. Yeah, because twenty one year

977
00:45:56,560 --> 00:45:59,120
Speaker 3: old Sherman that was shirtless with a Pikachu mask on

978
00:45:59,680 --> 00:46:02,120
Speaker 3: during on a reof top was not ready to be

979
00:46:02,160 --> 00:46:06,080
Speaker 3: a dad at twenty one. But Jimmy absolutely mastered it,

980
00:46:06,200 --> 00:46:09,080
Speaker 3: handled it. And I still follow him on Instagram. I

981
00:46:09,080 --> 00:46:11,600
Speaker 3: see pictures of him and his little girl and he rips.

982
00:46:11,800 --> 00:46:12,640
Speaker 3: He's an awesome dad.

983
00:46:13,080 --> 00:46:14,360
Speaker 2: Yeah.

984
00:46:14,560 --> 00:46:19,160
Speaker 1: I have an email here from Zach Zeke Zach Zigzag,

985
00:46:19,320 --> 00:46:21,480
Speaker 1: Hey boys, big fans of the podcast. Love listening to

986
00:46:21,520 --> 00:46:23,880
Speaker 1: you guys. Every week. We are gonna call this shitty.

987
00:46:24,120 --> 00:46:27,120
Speaker 1: We're gonna call this a shitty situation story. I have

988
00:46:27,160 --> 00:46:31,480
Speaker 1: two boys aged one and two, two hundred two boys who.

989
00:46:32,800 --> 00:46:34,880
Speaker 2: But how you know? Rude soccer?

990
00:46:35,680 --> 00:46:38,839
Speaker 3: Each week, bro, please keep on taking more and more

991
00:46:38,960 --> 00:46:40,239
Speaker 3: videos of Oh yeah yeah.

992
00:46:40,239 --> 00:46:42,480
Speaker 1: I posted on my story like all the boy like

993
00:46:42,560 --> 00:46:45,560
Speaker 1: being boys and Rus just locked in foot on the ball.

994
00:46:46,360 --> 00:46:47,360
Speaker 2: She's in a ready.

995
00:46:47,120 --> 00:46:48,839
Speaker 3: Position staring the coach down.

996
00:46:48,960 --> 00:46:54,160
Speaker 1: Bro. The boys, man are just different animals. That's why

997
00:46:54,160 --> 00:46:55,200
Speaker 1: I sit there on my girls.

998
00:46:55,320 --> 00:46:58,280
Speaker 2: Yeah. Girls run the world. Yeah, like these boys are idiots.

999
00:46:59,040 --> 00:47:00,840
Speaker 2: I don't think it good on. We gotta find the

1000
00:47:00,880 --> 00:47:02,040
Speaker 2: killer instinct a little bit.

1001
00:47:02,120 --> 00:47:04,200
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah yeah, but I'm sitting back there like a

1002
00:47:04,239 --> 00:47:07,160
Speaker 1: proud pappy just and just watching these boys like wrestle,

1003
00:47:07,280 --> 00:47:09,319
Speaker 1: pick up the ball, like do all the things get

1004
00:47:09,400 --> 00:47:10,279
Speaker 1: upset at each other?

1005
00:47:10,360 --> 00:47:12,760
Speaker 2: Like boys? They just feel like a different animal.

1006
00:47:12,920 --> 00:47:13,160
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1007
00:47:13,719 --> 00:47:16,960
Speaker 1: It was last year on a Saturday I believe Nebraska

1008
00:47:17,000 --> 00:47:19,040
Speaker 1: was playing Ohio State that week. Both the boys are

1009
00:47:19,040 --> 00:47:21,239
Speaker 1: already down for their morning nap. Huskers are on. Life

1010
00:47:21,280 --> 00:47:22,640
Speaker 1: is good, right, Boy?

1011
00:47:22,760 --> 00:47:23,200
Speaker 2: Was I wrong?

1012
00:47:23,280 --> 00:47:26,200
Speaker 1: The boys started waking up from their nap right around

1013
00:47:26,239 --> 00:47:27,240
Speaker 1: the two minute warning.

1014
00:47:27,600 --> 00:47:28,560
Speaker 2: I told the wife and.

1015
00:47:28,440 --> 00:47:30,319
Speaker 1: This is this is when we had little hole state

1016
00:47:30,360 --> 00:47:33,600
Speaker 1: on their heels. The Huskers had a hot state on

1017
00:47:33,640 --> 00:47:36,239
Speaker 1: their heels. At was it at Columbus?

1018
00:47:36,680 --> 00:47:40,960
Speaker 3: It was? It was pre Holgerson. Imagine if we get

1019
00:47:40,960 --> 00:47:41,920
Speaker 3: out that one.

1020
00:47:42,520 --> 00:47:44,840
Speaker 2: I told the wife I would go get them. At halftime.

1021
00:47:45,120 --> 00:47:47,719
Speaker 1: I walk into the room and the stench that hit

1022
00:47:47,800 --> 00:47:50,280
Speaker 1: my nose quite literally knocked my dick in the dirt.

1023
00:47:50,800 --> 00:47:53,040
Speaker 1: It was the worst smelling shit I have smelt in

1024
00:47:53,080 --> 00:47:54,840
Speaker 1: my life. I thought that was the end of the

1025
00:47:54,840 --> 00:47:58,520
Speaker 1: shitty situation. But once I regained consciousness, I look up

1026
00:47:58,560 --> 00:48:03,680
Speaker 1: and see they both smeared their diarrhea diapers over all

1027
00:48:03,719 --> 00:48:07,880
Speaker 1: over everything, the wall, the crib, the sheets, anything you

1028
00:48:07,920 --> 00:48:10,839
Speaker 1: could think of, there was shit on it. They were

1029
00:48:10,880 --> 00:48:13,920
Speaker 1: also covered in ship head to toe. I was deep

1030
00:48:14,000 --> 00:48:16,719
Speaker 1: in the trenches. That was just a little story from

1031
00:48:16,760 --> 00:48:19,000
Speaker 1: a family that has two boys. We're adding a little

1032
00:48:19,000 --> 00:48:21,800
Speaker 1: girl here at the end of October go Big Red,

1033
00:48:22,239 --> 00:48:23,080
Speaker 1: Love you guys.

1034
00:48:23,680 --> 00:48:28,839
Speaker 2: Sent from my iPhone. The little from out.

1035
00:48:28,719 --> 00:48:31,600
Speaker 3: The front of the bottom was actually.

1036
00:48:32,280 --> 00:48:35,000
Speaker 1: They got the little tag at the bottom, go Big

1037
00:48:35,040 --> 00:48:38,279
Speaker 1: Red having a little spook tober girl at the end

1038
00:48:38,520 --> 00:48:39,400
Speaker 1: at the end of the month.

1039
00:48:39,600 --> 00:48:42,040
Speaker 2: Congratulations to you. That's a good laugh.

1040
00:48:42,320 --> 00:48:45,799
Speaker 3: Hey good. Good for him and Iowa fans refraining from

1041
00:48:45,840 --> 00:48:48,600
Speaker 3: any nasty comments of leave it to some huskers to

1042
00:48:48,640 --> 00:48:49,680
Speaker 3: rub poopball over them.

1043
00:48:49,719 --> 00:48:52,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, leaves to let it get out of hand in

1044
00:48:52,040 --> 00:48:54,120
Speaker 1: such a situ in such a way that there's ship

1045
00:48:54,239 --> 00:48:55,359
Speaker 1: all over the place like that.

1046
00:48:55,400 --> 00:48:56,120
Speaker 8: To me is.

1047
00:48:57,719 --> 00:48:59,640
Speaker 2: That's code of red. That's get the boys.

1048
00:48:59,760 --> 00:49:02,720
Speaker 1: Get the boys out, except that you're about to smell

1049
00:49:02,800 --> 00:49:05,720
Speaker 1: and be shitty, or take him outside, get the hose,

1050
00:49:05,880 --> 00:49:08,799
Speaker 1: get the hose, water him down, and say to yourself,

1051
00:49:08,800 --> 00:49:11,960
Speaker 1: this is worse than the time the raccoons got stuck

1052
00:49:12,000 --> 00:49:15,680
Speaker 1: in the copier. Yeah, chuckle about the Anchorman old Anchorman movie,

1053
00:49:16,440 --> 00:49:18,960
Speaker 1: and pray to god, wife's up there, clean up the room.

1054
00:49:19,000 --> 00:49:20,439
Speaker 1: I know, I wouldn't want to clean the room.

1055
00:49:21,239 --> 00:49:24,640
Speaker 3: Oh, they had sex fanther in the room. Yes, that's

1056
00:49:24,719 --> 00:49:28,719
Speaker 3: essentially what was going on. Yeah, damn, hey good. What

1057
00:49:28,880 --> 00:49:32,319
Speaker 3: was his name again? Zach zach Zig zach Ze, thank

1058
00:49:32,360 --> 00:49:37,440
Speaker 3: you for that email. That was hilarious, Vincent. Vincent writes

1059
00:49:37,480 --> 00:49:39,320
Speaker 3: in on YouTube. He says, seeing the end of the

1060
00:49:39,400 --> 00:49:43,160
Speaker 3: road in sight. Wife is thirty seven weeks pregnant with

1061
00:49:43,200 --> 00:49:46,640
Speaker 3: our first and it's a baby boy, and we're getting

1062
00:49:46,640 --> 00:49:50,080
Speaker 3: induced in three days. Everything is finally starting to kick in.

1063
00:49:50,160 --> 00:49:53,040
Speaker 3: All the feelings, emotions and thoughts are running through my

1064
00:49:53,120 --> 00:49:57,000
Speaker 3: mind faster than I can understand. So many worries I

1065
00:49:57,080 --> 00:49:59,919
Speaker 3: keep thinking about. But I know I've got this podc

1066
00:50:00,080 --> 00:50:02,680
Speaker 3: as to watch every Wednesday, and you boys have got

1067
00:50:02,680 --> 00:50:06,480
Speaker 3: me ready to tackle anything coming my way. Appreciate what

1068
00:50:06,560 --> 00:50:10,000
Speaker 3: you guys are doing. Shout out the boy, man, Shout

1069
00:50:10,000 --> 00:50:12,120
Speaker 3: out the boy. Thank you for the comment that gets

1070
00:50:12,120 --> 00:50:14,800
Speaker 3: me so dead, like somebody's going into something with confidence.

1071
00:50:15,040 --> 00:50:18,799
Speaker 3: Because I will say this week, like this weekend, I

1072
00:50:18,800 --> 00:50:21,000
Speaker 3: would not be going into it with the confidence I

1073
00:50:21,040 --> 00:50:23,480
Speaker 3: have if it wasn't for this show. And I mean

1074
00:50:23,520 --> 00:50:27,640
Speaker 3: that I to man. So I'm feeling with Vincent's feeling.

1075
00:50:29,000 --> 00:50:32,200
Speaker 1: This was from Waylon Ransom. This is this comes from

1076
00:50:32,719 --> 00:50:34,799
Speaker 1: the social media platform x ah.

1077
00:50:35,000 --> 00:50:38,279
Speaker 2: Nice gentlemen. I've been given the honor and.

1078
00:50:38,320 --> 00:50:41,800
Speaker 1: Privileged to coach my daughter's fourth grade powder puff flag

1079
00:50:41,840 --> 00:50:45,799
Speaker 1: football team. What an honor. We will be playing the

1080
00:50:45,880 --> 00:50:49,520
Speaker 1: third grade squad. It's eight v eight. This is my

1081
00:50:49,640 --> 00:50:53,520
Speaker 1: coaching debut. Any advice for coaching or pregame speech advice

1082
00:50:53,880 --> 00:50:55,120
Speaker 1: would be appreciated.

1083
00:50:56,200 --> 00:50:57,160
Speaker 2: This game will be.

1084
00:50:57,239 --> 00:51:01,680
Speaker 1: October twelfth, around three pm. I can update y'all after

1085
00:51:02,520 --> 00:51:05,120
Speaker 1: the huge win. What's the date right now? It's a

1086
00:51:05,200 --> 00:51:08,320
Speaker 1: third so he'll get to listen to this before before

1087
00:51:08,360 --> 00:51:09,279
Speaker 1: the game kicks off.

1088
00:51:09,320 --> 00:51:11,239
Speaker 2: This is this is a deep water conversation. This is

1089
00:51:11,239 --> 00:51:12,320
Speaker 2: a deep water spid.

1090
00:51:12,560 --> 00:51:14,760
Speaker 3: Are they the underdogs in this?

1091
00:51:14,760 --> 00:51:16,640
Speaker 1: This is a fourth grade team, they're playing the third grade.

1092
00:51:16,680 --> 00:51:19,560
Speaker 1: They're playing the third grade team. So this should be bullied.

1093
00:51:19,640 --> 00:51:20,759
Speaker 3: This should be bullyball.

1094
00:51:21,080 --> 00:51:23,680
Speaker 8: Bully ball, establish the run.

1095
00:51:25,320 --> 00:51:27,839
Speaker 1: Yeah, there you yet.

1096
00:51:29,040 --> 00:51:30,279
Speaker 2: I didn't know if you had anything else.

1097
00:51:30,320 --> 00:51:34,640
Speaker 5: You started just let's first drive, just power gap scheme

1098
00:51:35,200 --> 00:51:37,120
Speaker 5: the whole time. Does this third three get a year

1099
00:51:37,160 --> 00:51:37,920
Speaker 5: advantage on them?

1100
00:51:38,000 --> 00:51:38,560
Speaker 2: Yeah?

1101
00:51:38,760 --> 00:51:41,680
Speaker 1: Do you think this third grade team understands what it's

1102
00:51:41,800 --> 00:51:44,920
Speaker 1: like when fourth graders put their paws on them? This

1103
00:51:45,000 --> 00:51:47,680
Speaker 1: is a deep water situation. We're gonna take this team.

1104
00:51:47,880 --> 00:51:50,000
Speaker 1: We're gonna run the football. I don't know if you

1105
00:51:50,040 --> 00:51:53,399
Speaker 1: can blitz I doubt you can blitz. However, Reroute, get

1106
00:51:53,440 --> 00:51:55,880
Speaker 1: your hand on these little fucking third graders, because what

1107
00:51:55,960 --> 00:51:58,600
Speaker 1: we're gonna do in this ball game is we're gonna

1108
00:51:58,640 --> 00:52:02,000
Speaker 1: take them one foot at a time in the deeper

1109
00:52:02,200 --> 00:52:05,640
Speaker 1: and deeper water until we can hold them underwater and

1110
00:52:05,680 --> 00:52:08,720
Speaker 1: the bubbles stop. That's the kind of game we're about

1111
00:52:08,760 --> 00:52:10,479
Speaker 1: to have. And if you have any doubt in your mind,

1112
00:52:10,680 --> 00:52:14,120
Speaker 1: go sit with your parents. I don't know if that's

1113
00:52:14,280 --> 00:52:15,799
Speaker 1: you know, you got to make sure you're the only

1114
00:52:15,920 --> 00:52:18,040
Speaker 1: adult in the room telling them this kind of speech,

1115
00:52:18,600 --> 00:52:21,440
Speaker 1: because we're talking about like hold third graders underwater, which,

1116
00:52:21,520 --> 00:52:23,680
Speaker 1: by the way, this is also fun humorous podcast for

1117
00:52:23,719 --> 00:52:26,359
Speaker 1: any you know, Karen, somebody be sitting there like, oh shit,

1118
00:52:26,400 --> 00:52:28,040
Speaker 1: why is he saying that? Now, this is the kind

1119
00:52:28,040 --> 00:52:29,600
Speaker 1: of football game. We're trying to win a football game.

1120
00:52:29,640 --> 00:52:31,880
Speaker 1: We're trying to motivate however we can. I do have

1121
00:52:31,960 --> 00:52:33,680
Speaker 1: some there you go, Shuham, he's getting ready for this

1122
00:52:33,719 --> 00:52:34,719
Speaker 1: football game right now.

1123
00:52:35,080 --> 00:52:37,759
Speaker 2: I do have some as somebody who like when I

1124
00:52:37,800 --> 00:52:38,480
Speaker 2: was in high.

1125
00:52:38,280 --> 00:52:43,160
Speaker 1: School, it was my junior year all state wide receiver,

1126
00:52:43,320 --> 00:52:46,160
Speaker 1: you know, safety from Notre Dame.

1127
00:52:46,400 --> 00:52:48,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, something like that.

1128
00:52:48,400 --> 00:52:51,200
Speaker 1: That's not what we're talking about in my free time

1129
00:52:51,680 --> 00:52:55,680
Speaker 1: after practice. High school, I coached. I was a head

1130
00:52:55,680 --> 00:52:59,520
Speaker 1: coach of a fourth grade team tackle football. I was

1131
00:52:59,520 --> 00:53:01,520
Speaker 1: a head coach, which I go to the RGFL fields.

1132
00:53:01,680 --> 00:53:06,920
Speaker 1: We practiced twice a week. Did we go undefeated or

1133
00:53:06,960 --> 00:53:08,799
Speaker 1: did we go five and one? We might have lost

1134
00:53:08,880 --> 00:53:13,720
Speaker 1: the game. We might have lost the game. But having

1135
00:53:13,840 --> 00:53:17,399
Speaker 1: experience in this mode you have there's some plays out

1136
00:53:17,400 --> 00:53:19,920
Speaker 1: there to be made. If you can get these fourth

1137
00:53:19,960 --> 00:53:23,600
Speaker 1: graders understanding some jet sweep handing the ball, getting to

1138
00:53:23,640 --> 00:53:25,920
Speaker 1: the edge, because I'm telling you these third graders, their

1139
00:53:25,960 --> 00:53:28,560
Speaker 1: eyes are gonna be in the backfield if you can

1140
00:53:28,640 --> 00:53:29,759
Speaker 1: hit the perimeter with.

1141
00:53:29,760 --> 00:53:32,080
Speaker 2: Some jet sweeps. And I'm talking.

1142
00:53:32,120 --> 00:53:34,880
Speaker 1: I made a halftime adjustment that I still think about

1143
00:53:34,920 --> 00:53:37,520
Speaker 1: to this day because I would get in a power

1144
00:53:37,560 --> 00:53:39,600
Speaker 1: eye for me because you're not throwing the ball very

1145
00:53:39,680 --> 00:53:40,439
Speaker 1: much in fourth grade.

1146
00:53:40,520 --> 00:53:41,600
Speaker 2: You're not You're not throwing the ball.

1147
00:53:41,640 --> 00:53:44,160
Speaker 1: You might like lob one up if you catch them,

1148
00:53:44,560 --> 00:53:46,799
Speaker 1: you get the tight end down the seam, but you're

1149
00:53:46,840 --> 00:53:50,239
Speaker 1: playing power football. This is man on man. Like they

1150
00:53:50,280 --> 00:53:52,320
Speaker 1: got it. They're gonna feel you. I would get in

1151
00:53:52,360 --> 00:53:54,920
Speaker 1: a power eye and I'll be running, you know. Twenty

1152
00:53:54,960 --> 00:53:57,520
Speaker 1: six power I'll be doing, you know, sweeps, everything else.

1153
00:53:57,560 --> 00:54:00,440
Speaker 1: And I realize as I'm sitting back there as the

1154
00:54:00,520 --> 00:54:03,879
Speaker 1: head man in the OC watching the defense perform, their

1155
00:54:03,920 --> 00:54:07,080
Speaker 1: eyes are in the backfield. They're gonna go with whatever

1156
00:54:07,120 --> 00:54:11,040
Speaker 1: way the flow feels. They're gonna over pursue, right, especially

1157
00:54:11,040 --> 00:54:13,480
Speaker 1: when they're getting gashed up the middle or getting gashed

1158
00:54:13,520 --> 00:54:16,319
Speaker 1: on the perimeter. The coordinator, the defensive coordinator in the

1159
00:54:16,320 --> 00:54:18,800
Speaker 1: back is gonna be telling his second level, his backers,

1160
00:54:19,280 --> 00:54:22,120
Speaker 1: I gotta see you take off once you see this happen,

1161
00:54:22,239 --> 00:54:23,200
Speaker 1: that's where the ball's going.

1162
00:54:23,239 --> 00:54:24,080
Speaker 2: That's where you gotta go.

1163
00:54:24,360 --> 00:54:26,120
Speaker 1: I would get in the power rider where you line

1164
00:54:26,200 --> 00:54:29,640
Speaker 1: up three running backs right, And what I halftime adjustment

1165
00:54:29,719 --> 00:54:32,560
Speaker 1: I made is we be hitting the twenty eight sweeps

1166
00:54:32,560 --> 00:54:34,960
Speaker 1: on them, twenty seven sweeps on them to where you

1167
00:54:35,040 --> 00:54:38,719
Speaker 1: get the second level over pursuing. And what I ended

1168
00:54:38,719 --> 00:54:41,320
Speaker 1: the adjustment, I ended up making, Hey, I want a

1169
00:54:41,400 --> 00:54:44,560
Speaker 1: full twenty eight sweep. That's the optics I want. Everybody else,

1170
00:54:44,600 --> 00:54:46,400
Speaker 1: you're twenty eight sweep. I told the quarterback and the

1171
00:54:46,480 --> 00:54:48,520
Speaker 1: running back, here's what you're gonna do. You're gonna jab

1172
00:54:48,520 --> 00:54:50,600
Speaker 1: step like it's twenty eight and you're gonna go the

1173
00:54:50,640 --> 00:54:52,560
Speaker 1: back side and at the seven hole, and you're gonna

1174
00:54:52,560 --> 00:54:53,560
Speaker 1: be running scott free.

1175
00:54:53,600 --> 00:54:56,840
Speaker 2: That's called a counter, baby, Yeah, that's called a counter. However,

1176
00:54:57,080 --> 00:54:57,480
Speaker 2: this is no.

1177
00:54:57,600 --> 00:54:59,479
Speaker 1: The only one that needs counter footwork is the running

1178
00:54:59,520 --> 00:55:02,040
Speaker 1: back and the the quarterback who knows he's faking it

1179
00:55:02,080 --> 00:55:03,480
Speaker 1: this way and then dishing it out to him on

1180
00:55:03,520 --> 00:55:05,600
Speaker 1: the left and he gone, yeah, he going, I don't

1181
00:55:05,640 --> 00:55:07,840
Speaker 1: need you by pulling backside, this is gonna be wide open.

1182
00:55:08,719 --> 00:55:09,680
Speaker 2: So one jab step.

1183
00:55:09,680 --> 00:55:11,880
Speaker 1: Once you get him over pursuing in the first half,

1184
00:55:12,040 --> 00:55:14,320
Speaker 1: you come back in the second half they over pursue.

1185
00:55:14,440 --> 00:55:16,279
Speaker 1: Boom foot in the ground. You're out the back door

1186
00:55:16,320 --> 00:55:18,880
Speaker 1: the other way. Yep, eighty eight out the gate. And

1187
00:55:18,920 --> 00:55:19,400
Speaker 1: we're talking.

1188
00:55:19,480 --> 00:55:24,120
Speaker 3: This is girls flag football, correct, this powder puff? Okay,

1189
00:55:24,400 --> 00:55:27,640
Speaker 3: shirts need to be tucked in. No ponies, You need

1190
00:55:27,680 --> 00:55:30,759
Speaker 3: French braids. Ponies are gonna come loose. Hair's gonna get

1191
00:55:30,800 --> 00:55:32,759
Speaker 3: in the face. All the girls need to show up

1192
00:55:32,760 --> 00:55:36,000
Speaker 3: in French braids. Yeah, no ponies, and get the eye black.

1193
00:55:36,239 --> 00:55:37,719
Speaker 3: Get the eye black out.

1194
00:55:37,880 --> 00:55:40,520
Speaker 1: If you don't want to use the deep water analogy,

1195
00:55:40,880 --> 00:55:42,080
Speaker 1: this is the eye black game.

1196
00:55:42,280 --> 00:55:45,640
Speaker 3: This is the eye black game. But hey, make it

1197
00:55:45,680 --> 00:55:48,560
Speaker 3: fun for him. Because the little ones, when they're having fun,

1198
00:55:48,640 --> 00:55:51,479
Speaker 3: that's that's when the magic happens. So keep it fun,

1199
00:55:51,640 --> 00:55:53,719
Speaker 3: keep it light. But we also need to end some

1200
00:55:53,840 --> 00:55:54,640
Speaker 3: lives tonight.

1201
00:55:54,800 --> 00:55:55,360
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1202
00:55:55,400 --> 00:55:59,919
Speaker 1: And you know what's fun, sure, winning, winning, imposing your will. Hey,

1203
00:56:00,400 --> 00:56:02,960
Speaker 1: I'm seeing the other team not have fun anymore.

1204
00:56:03,080 --> 00:56:05,040
Speaker 3: I met this guy the other day. He was having

1205
00:56:05,120 --> 00:56:09,480
Speaker 3: so much fun. Guess what he wasn't a loser. You

1206
00:56:09,520 --> 00:56:11,399
Speaker 3: ever met a loser having a lot of fun? Will?

1207
00:56:11,600 --> 00:56:12,240
Speaker 2: No? I haven't.

1208
00:56:12,320 --> 00:56:14,200
Speaker 3: Hey, I will say this to you. Get a running

1209
00:56:14,200 --> 00:56:17,239
Speaker 3: back that is the shortest girl on your team, because

1210
00:56:17,280 --> 00:56:20,080
Speaker 3: there is something very strange with flag football with the

1211
00:56:20,120 --> 00:56:24,359
Speaker 3: younger generation of leaning down and pulling a flag. Doesn't

1212
00:56:24,400 --> 00:56:26,759
Speaker 3: matter if she has a whole lot of speed. If

1213
00:56:26,800 --> 00:56:29,719
Speaker 3: she's down low and people are having to reach down

1214
00:56:29,760 --> 00:56:31,319
Speaker 3: for her flags, they will miss her.

1215
00:56:31,320 --> 00:56:33,360
Speaker 1: Because at that age they're not as good as dropping

1216
00:56:33,360 --> 00:56:34,600
Speaker 1: their hips to balance.

1217
00:56:34,719 --> 00:56:34,839
Speaker 5: No.

1218
00:56:35,160 --> 00:56:36,799
Speaker 3: And so if you have a back with a low

1219
00:56:36,840 --> 00:56:39,600
Speaker 3: center of gravity, even if it's not the shiftiest person

1220
00:56:39,600 --> 00:56:43,359
Speaker 3: on your team but has some good speed, tote the rock.

1221
00:56:43,440 --> 00:56:44,640
Speaker 3: Tote the rock. Tote the rock.

1222
00:56:44,920 --> 00:56:49,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, you need to go into that game, and before

1223
00:56:49,640 --> 00:56:51,719
Speaker 1: you walk on the field, you need to know that

1224
00:56:51,800 --> 00:56:54,400
Speaker 1: your team. There is no smiling happening. No, it's a

1225
00:56:54,440 --> 00:56:57,719
Speaker 1: focused bunch. This is hey, we drop this game right here.

1226
00:56:57,760 --> 00:56:59,480
Speaker 1: There are no snow cones postgame.

1227
00:56:59,680 --> 00:57:04,319
Speaker 3: Yeah. And if hey, and if anybody's giggling back of

1228
00:57:04,360 --> 00:57:07,560
Speaker 3: the line, back of the line, you see another one

1229
00:57:07,640 --> 00:57:10,000
Speaker 3: giggling back of the line. Because the third graders all

1230
00:57:10,040 --> 00:57:12,360
Speaker 3: they need to see is the mean mugs of the

1231
00:57:12,400 --> 00:57:15,040
Speaker 3: fourth graders, because there will be some giggling. Let's not

1232
00:57:15,120 --> 00:57:17,560
Speaker 3: fool ourselves. These are fourth grade girls. There's gonna be

1233
00:57:17,600 --> 00:57:20,080
Speaker 3: some giggling. Hey, girls, get out there, mean mugget ball.

1234
00:57:21,120 --> 00:57:22,600
Speaker 3: There's gonna be some good back of the line.

1235
00:57:22,920 --> 00:57:24,360
Speaker 2: Yeah you're not.

1236
00:57:24,560 --> 00:57:26,520
Speaker 3: You're not leading this team out. You're gonna be giggling.

1237
00:57:26,600 --> 00:57:28,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, i'd stop practice.

1238
00:57:29,120 --> 00:57:31,200
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, dude, you're running labs.

1239
00:57:31,640 --> 00:57:33,720
Speaker 1: We wouldn't run laps, but I beg Do you want

1240
00:57:33,720 --> 00:57:36,600
Speaker 1: to tell everybody else to joke? Because we're trying to

1241
00:57:36,680 --> 00:57:39,040
Speaker 1: run a twenty six counter right now and your footwork

1242
00:57:39,120 --> 00:57:39,560
Speaker 1: is awful?

1243
00:57:39,800 --> 00:57:42,040
Speaker 3: Hey, Will's got something funny for everybody? Will? What do

1244
00:57:42,080 --> 00:57:44,960
Speaker 3: you got? It looks funny when you're telling Johnny.

1245
00:57:45,000 --> 00:57:46,640
Speaker 2: Oh, you're done telling the joke, all right? Can we

1246
00:57:46,680 --> 00:57:47,400
Speaker 2: get back to work?

1247
00:57:50,080 --> 00:57:53,720
Speaker 3: And walk out the scrilla obviously the kids bop kids,

1248
00:57:53,720 --> 00:57:54,160
Speaker 3: Bob scrill.

1249
00:57:54,280 --> 00:57:57,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, thank you for shooting us that comment. Whalen,

1250
00:57:57,760 --> 00:58:00,640
Speaker 1: we are excited to hear football game?

1251
00:58:00,680 --> 00:58:02,080
Speaker 3: Went where is it being played?

1252
00:58:05,480 --> 00:58:08,480
Speaker 1: Does not say, However, it's on October twelfth around three pm.

1253
00:58:08,680 --> 00:58:10,880
Speaker 3: Oh okay, I was gonna say, I'm free the twelfth.

1254
00:58:10,960 --> 00:58:14,040
Speaker 1: So if you want to make a halftime adjustment or

1255
00:58:14,040 --> 00:58:15,720
Speaker 1: you hit a jet sweep on the perimeter, I do

1256
00:58:15,840 --> 00:58:17,520
Speaker 1: expect a phone.

1257
00:58:17,560 --> 00:58:18,560
Speaker 2: I expect the video.

1258
00:58:18,600 --> 00:58:22,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, we gotta have video and the walkout to the kids, bobscrilla.

1259
00:58:22,440 --> 00:58:24,240
Speaker 3: That would go hard.

1260
00:58:27,440 --> 00:58:28,840
Speaker 2: Sorry, I'm thinking ball right now.

1261
00:58:29,320 --> 00:58:31,920
Speaker 1: I'm thinking how I can you know it's eight v

1262
00:58:32,040 --> 00:58:34,320
Speaker 1: eight so you're not gonna have you can stack your

1263
00:58:34,320 --> 00:58:37,120
Speaker 1: line of scrimmage. You get a jet sweep person going.

1264
00:58:37,160 --> 00:58:38,960
Speaker 1: You gotta see what the defense is doing on the

1265
00:58:39,040 --> 00:58:42,520
Speaker 1: jet sweep because let's just say you're jetting to the right.

1266
00:58:42,680 --> 00:58:46,080
Speaker 1: Yeah even numbers, that's the right side. Yeah, say you're

1267
00:58:46,160 --> 00:58:49,520
Speaker 1: jetting to the right, but you're running a twenty seven,

1268
00:58:49,680 --> 00:58:52,240
Speaker 1: a twenty five, you're running something to the left side.

1269
00:58:52,280 --> 00:58:53,640
Speaker 2: You want to see what the second level is doing.

1270
00:58:53,680 --> 00:58:56,200
Speaker 1: Are they pursuing the jet sweep or are they moving

1271
00:58:56,200 --> 00:58:58,560
Speaker 1: with the line of scrimmage in the backfield? That right

1272
00:58:58,600 --> 00:58:59,720
Speaker 1: there is going to tell you how you can open

1273
00:58:59,720 --> 00:59:00,479
Speaker 1: them up game.

1274
00:59:02,360 --> 00:59:05,360
Speaker 3: The only thing I'm worried about is that corner that

1275
00:59:05,640 --> 00:59:08,280
Speaker 3: she the third grade corner. She's out there. She hasn't

1276
00:59:08,320 --> 00:59:11,680
Speaker 3: been paying attention all game. She's sleeping, she's picking flowers,

1277
00:59:11,680 --> 00:59:12,480
Speaker 3: she's doing whatever.

1278
00:59:12,640 --> 00:59:15,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, but that that right there is you got a challenge.

1279
00:59:16,280 --> 00:59:18,680
Speaker 1: You're tight end or your tackle. You win on the

1280
00:59:18,720 --> 00:59:21,120
Speaker 1: first step because I need you to capture that outside arm.

1281
00:59:21,240 --> 00:59:21,479
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1282
00:59:23,160 --> 00:59:32,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, at the playground rocking with my classmates. But yeah,

1283
00:59:32,560 --> 00:59:33,920
Speaker 3: lesson less know how it goes.

1284
00:59:35,400 --> 00:59:37,920
Speaker 1: You get in some dad wins and losses. Yes, eleven

1285
00:59:37,960 --> 00:59:39,640
Speaker 1: forty eight right now. Got to keep it under an out.

1286
00:59:39,680 --> 00:59:45,280
Speaker 1: I got to keep it under it out. I have

1287
00:59:45,360 --> 00:59:48,920
Speaker 1: a dad loss. I need you to say it because

1288
00:59:50,120 --> 00:59:52,920
Speaker 1: what's going on. I'm trying hard to find it that long.

1289
00:59:52,960 --> 00:59:54,320
Speaker 3: Oh okay, okay, okay.

1290
00:59:54,160 --> 00:59:57,440
Speaker 1: You had a good you had a good week. It

1291
00:59:57,640 --> 01:00:00,320
Speaker 1: just I feel like we're we my wife and I

1292
01:00:00,480 --> 01:00:06,440
Speaker 1: like we're very busy. Yeah, we're dialed. Yeah, and against

1293
01:00:06,520 --> 01:00:08,480
Speaker 1: more of like not necessarily dead losses.

1294
01:00:08,520 --> 01:00:10,240
Speaker 2: It's just you know, when my wife's got to run

1295
01:00:10,280 --> 01:00:10,800
Speaker 2: double duty.

1296
01:00:11,320 --> 01:00:14,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, y'all are filling a lot of gaps, so like

1297
01:00:15,000 --> 01:00:18,240
Speaker 3: if there are any misses, it's like, hey, yea, they're

1298
01:00:18,240 --> 01:00:19,880
Speaker 3: filling gaps, so like I'm you know.

1299
01:00:20,360 --> 01:00:23,880
Speaker 1: It's yeah, it's more just about the support I can

1300
01:00:23,920 --> 01:00:28,560
Speaker 1: provide around, like provide for Charrow, around Charrow, intentional time

1301
01:00:28,600 --> 01:00:32,200
Speaker 1: for us. One thing that we are doing, staycation tonight.

1302
01:00:32,200 --> 01:00:35,360
Speaker 1: It's Friday night. Oh, Mom and Daddy got a staycation.

1303
01:00:35,520 --> 01:00:41,240
Speaker 1: We're downtown Nashville. Four seasons, four seasons. Yeah, Ao, we

1304
01:00:41,280 --> 01:00:44,840
Speaker 1: got a little spa set up. Massages happening around four

1305
01:00:45,000 --> 01:00:49,000
Speaker 1: thirty today, Little dinner reservation, keep it under an hour,

1306
01:00:49,440 --> 01:00:52,800
Speaker 1: mill of the afternoon, go early, check in, rest of

1307
01:00:52,840 --> 01:00:55,520
Speaker 1: the day together, Tomorrow morning.

1308
01:00:55,160 --> 01:01:02,160
Speaker 3: Together, servant. What's you getting for dinner at Shockway? Alright

1309
01:01:02,280 --> 01:01:13,520
Speaker 3: in I was gonna make a joke on steak preparation,

1310
01:01:13,680 --> 01:01:19,280
Speaker 3: but it didn't feel right, did not feel right. But yeah,

1311
01:01:19,280 --> 01:01:21,520
Speaker 3: I'm very fired up about that. That's all.

1312
01:01:21,600 --> 01:01:22,160
Speaker 2: Very fired up.

1313
01:01:22,640 --> 01:01:25,480
Speaker 3: Y'all deserve that. Y'all both been going and blowing and

1314
01:01:25,800 --> 01:01:31,320
Speaker 3: I feel like Jill same, come on, come on, but

1315
01:01:31,640 --> 01:01:36,240
Speaker 3: I feel you going and blowing.

1316
01:01:38,400 --> 01:01:39,439
Speaker 2: Five seconds later.

1317
01:01:40,560 --> 01:01:43,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, repetition, sweet are you I'm not as

1318
01:01:43,760 --> 01:01:44,680
Speaker 1: good as I once was.

1319
01:01:48,200 --> 01:01:51,560
Speaker 3: Maybe next time we can like go on an actual vacation.

1320
01:01:52,960 --> 01:01:55,320
Speaker 3: This is the same thing we already did. We should

1321
01:01:55,320 --> 01:01:59,800
Speaker 3: catch up on some sleep, right, a big day tomorrow, Husks,

1322
01:02:02,560 --> 01:02:04,400
Speaker 3: What was I even gonna say? Oh, dad loss?

1323
01:02:04,480 --> 01:02:05,160
Speaker 2: Yeah?

1324
01:02:05,360 --> 01:02:07,919
Speaker 3: It uh, that fires me up that you don't really

1325
01:02:07,920 --> 01:02:09,800
Speaker 3: have a dad loss. I don't really have a dad

1326
01:02:09,840 --> 01:02:13,320
Speaker 3: loss either, except for last night. I told you the

1327
01:02:13,400 --> 01:02:15,880
Speaker 3: report card was out. The last two weeks, Jill's been

1328
01:02:15,920 --> 01:02:19,480
Speaker 3: grading me strict because she's about to go out of town.

1329
01:02:19,720 --> 01:02:22,680
Speaker 3: And I fowed up last night and I fed Scarlett

1330
01:02:22,800 --> 01:02:26,760
Speaker 3: thirty minutes earlier than what she actually feeds at which

1331
01:02:26,800 --> 01:02:29,200
Speaker 3: then turned into a conversation of do you even know

1332
01:02:29,240 --> 01:02:33,280
Speaker 3: our daughter's schedule? What are we doing? Sherman? She never

1333
01:02:33,320 --> 01:02:36,400
Speaker 3: takes her basket at six thirty? Why are you taking Why?

1334
01:02:36,520 --> 01:02:38,320
Speaker 3: Why did you put her in a bath at six thirty?

1335
01:02:39,040 --> 01:02:41,360
Speaker 3: She has a bottle in her mouth before seven. She's

1336
01:02:41,400 --> 01:02:44,040
Speaker 3: not even in bed till seven thirty. This is gonna

1337
01:02:44,040 --> 01:02:46,640
Speaker 3: mess up the whole sleep schedule. And I'm like, honey,

1338
01:02:46,720 --> 01:02:48,840
Speaker 3: it's fine, it's gonna be great. Blah blah blah. Last

1339
01:02:48,920 --> 01:02:53,520
Speaker 3: night was miserable. Scarlet slept terrible. Jill was right. We

1340
01:02:53,600 --> 01:02:56,160
Speaker 3: got her off her schedule and she had a terrible

1341
01:02:56,240 --> 01:02:59,800
Speaker 3: night's sleep, but Jill did before she leaves before she

1342
01:03:00,240 --> 01:03:02,280
Speaker 3: but Jill did apologize to me. She was like, hey,

1343
01:03:02,360 --> 01:03:03,480
Speaker 3: I came down on you too hard.

1344
01:03:06,920 --> 01:03:09,160
Speaker 2: It's not lack of effort, thank you. It's not lack

1345
01:03:09,200 --> 01:03:09,520
Speaker 2: of vester.

1346
01:03:09,680 --> 01:03:11,280
Speaker 3: She was like, I know where your head was at

1347
01:03:11,640 --> 01:03:13,760
Speaker 3: because she told me before she was going to go

1348
01:03:13,920 --> 01:03:16,360
Speaker 3: get her nails done all that stuff for the Bacherette party.

1349
01:03:16,920 --> 01:03:20,080
Speaker 3: And she was like, hey, she cannot fall asleep right

1350
01:03:20,080 --> 01:03:22,720
Speaker 3: before bedtime or she won't go to bed. And so

1351
01:03:23,480 --> 01:03:27,080
Speaker 3: I'm playing with her. I'm keeping her awake. She's starting

1352
01:03:27,080 --> 01:03:29,240
Speaker 3: to doze off, and I'm like, oh, well, she loves

1353
01:03:29,280 --> 01:03:31,880
Speaker 3: like when I change her, So I go to go

1354
01:03:32,000 --> 01:03:34,720
Speaker 3: change her because I'll keep her awake. And now I'm like, oh, well,

1355
01:03:35,120 --> 01:03:38,280
Speaker 3: you know already got her naked. Let's do bathtime because

1356
01:03:38,320 --> 01:03:40,680
Speaker 3: it's probably close to the battime right now. Didn't check

1357
01:03:40,720 --> 01:03:43,520
Speaker 3: my phone, put her in the back. I was in

1358
01:03:43,600 --> 01:03:47,080
Speaker 3: the right headspace, but it just it didn't translate.

1359
01:03:47,120 --> 01:03:49,720
Speaker 1: Well, just for the just for the moms out there,

1360
01:03:50,800 --> 01:03:54,800
Speaker 1: you can you can coach technique. You can't coach effort

1361
01:03:54,960 --> 01:03:56,960
Speaker 1: if your man's got the effort going. Like if you

1362
01:03:57,000 --> 01:03:59,800
Speaker 1: were thirty minutes late. To me, that's a that's more

1363
01:03:59,800 --> 01:04:03,840
Speaker 1: of a hammer down. Yeah, conversation. Yeah, we're thirty minutes early.

1364
01:04:03,920 --> 01:04:07,840
Speaker 1: Let's coach the technique. Yeah, let's understand that you are

1365
01:04:07,880 --> 01:04:11,320
Speaker 1: playing fast, and you're playing with a lot of effort,

1366
01:04:11,600 --> 01:04:13,280
Speaker 1: you care, and you're on it.

1367
01:04:13,280 --> 01:04:14,840
Speaker 2: It a little early and you should have seen me

1368
01:04:14,920 --> 01:04:15,600
Speaker 2: doing bad time.

1369
01:04:15,720 --> 01:04:19,560
Speaker 3: Dude, I like truly was operating for anybody that's never

1370
01:04:19,720 --> 01:04:22,800
Speaker 3: given a newborn a bath. I mean, it's like, you

1371
01:04:22,840 --> 01:04:25,320
Speaker 3: gotta have one hand on the towel because you can't

1372
01:04:25,320 --> 01:04:28,640
Speaker 3: do two hands on the baby and then be reaching

1373
01:04:28,680 --> 01:04:31,000
Speaker 3: for the towel because they're wet and slippery and they're

1374
01:04:31,000 --> 01:04:33,440
Speaker 3: gonna get cold and they're gonna start crying, so you

1375
01:04:33,480 --> 01:04:34,520
Speaker 3: gotta have the towel quick.

1376
01:04:35,200 --> 01:04:35,960
Speaker 2: What's operating?

1377
01:04:36,680 --> 01:04:38,760
Speaker 3: Yeah, I kind of crushed it, except for the fact

1378
01:04:38,760 --> 01:04:41,320
Speaker 3: that I did everything like forty five to thirty minutes.

1379
01:04:41,400 --> 01:04:43,760
Speaker 2: Do you were so prepared? You just you guessed a

1380
01:04:43,760 --> 01:04:45,040
Speaker 2: little bit before the play started.

1381
01:04:45,200 --> 01:04:48,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, dude, And coach came back around, like Jill came

1382
01:04:48,160 --> 01:04:50,919
Speaker 3: back around and totally was like she really did.

1383
01:04:51,240 --> 01:04:54,040
Speaker 2: But she was like, hey, right here, use your eyes. Yeah,

1384
01:04:54,320 --> 01:04:55,480
Speaker 2: the entire formation.

1385
01:04:55,920 --> 01:04:58,160
Speaker 3: All it's all good. The lines move in that way.

1386
01:04:58,360 --> 01:05:00,760
Speaker 3: Your eyes are on the back. Yeah, case of the counter.

1387
01:05:00,960 --> 01:05:03,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, you took what we did in individual period and

1388
01:05:04,000 --> 01:05:06,640
Speaker 1: you are applying it. I'm not trying to slow you down.

1389
01:05:06,800 --> 01:05:09,880
Speaker 1: Keep playing with that much effort. It's showing up every week,

1390
01:05:09,960 --> 01:05:14,560
Speaker 1: your preparation, the speed you're playing at. Let's widen the

1391
01:05:14,640 --> 01:05:15,360
Speaker 1: vision a little bit.

1392
01:05:15,640 --> 01:05:18,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's it because because the game made like the

1393
01:05:18,360 --> 01:05:20,880
Speaker 3: individual drills, anything can happen.

1394
01:05:21,000 --> 01:05:23,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, but that was.

1395
01:05:22,960 --> 01:05:25,520
Speaker 3: My dad loss. It wasn't that big of a dablo,

1396
01:05:26,040 --> 01:05:28,280
Speaker 3: not that bad. We're kind of operating, but that doesn't

1397
01:05:28,280 --> 01:05:30,800
Speaker 3: mean we're kind of due for a big one this

1398
01:05:30,880 --> 01:05:31,680
Speaker 3: week for sure.

1399
01:05:34,640 --> 01:05:35,320
Speaker 2: I meant for you.

1400
01:05:36,160 --> 01:05:40,160
Speaker 3: I know you meant for me, I said, but I

1401
01:05:40,200 --> 01:05:42,640
Speaker 3: was due for Dad loss, and you said this weekend.

1402
01:05:43,000 --> 01:05:44,640
Speaker 1: I thought you meant a big one, like big win,

1403
01:05:44,960 --> 01:05:49,560
Speaker 1: like I saw it as minor setback, major comeboun Okay, Okay, okay,

1404
01:05:49,800 --> 01:05:56,640
Speaker 1: that I fully Yeah death, I'll be I'll be tapping

1405
01:05:56,640 --> 01:05:59,040
Speaker 1: in it. I'll be tapping in each day. Yeah, tapping, tapping,

1406
01:05:59,120 --> 01:06:01,960
Speaker 1: I'll tapping because I'm I'll need it. That scared me

1407
01:06:02,000 --> 01:06:04,800
Speaker 1: for a second. I was like, by the way, spootober,

1408
01:06:04,880 --> 01:06:07,480
Speaker 1: you know one of the rules embracing the spook. Yeah,

1409
01:06:07,520 --> 01:06:11,760
Speaker 1: once a weekend. Yeah, we will be going to a

1410
01:06:10,520 --> 01:06:16,040
Speaker 1: uh a park, some pumpkin patch, pumpkin patch type of

1411
01:06:16,160 --> 01:06:18,280
Speaker 1: a little Halloween theme park. If you do want to

1412
01:06:18,360 --> 01:06:22,439
Speaker 1: join when, I'll tell you after all, right, right, I'll

1413
01:06:22,440 --> 01:06:22,959
Speaker 1: tell you after.

1414
01:06:24,200 --> 01:06:25,600
Speaker 2: I think it would be fun as well. No, it

1415
01:06:25,640 --> 01:06:26,280
Speaker 2: would be fun.

1416
01:06:26,480 --> 01:06:29,080
Speaker 1: I'm just like a smaller scale one, not one where

1417
01:06:29,080 --> 01:06:31,000
Speaker 1: it's like we're talking gentry farms and stuff. And I'm

1418
01:06:31,000 --> 01:06:33,520
Speaker 1: like you, hey, sure you could tag along, but I

1419
01:06:33,560 --> 01:06:35,040
Speaker 1: know Jill would want to be part of that too,

1420
01:06:35,120 --> 01:06:36,360
Speaker 1: So a wait for Jill to get home.

1421
01:06:36,480 --> 01:06:36,640
Speaker 4: Yeah.

1422
01:06:36,680 --> 01:06:39,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, this is a smaller one that I do. It's like,

1423
01:06:39,240 --> 01:06:40,560
Speaker 1: this is one where you get out of the house

1424
01:06:40,600 --> 01:06:42,040
Speaker 1: and may get a couple of photos. Shoot him too,

1425
01:06:42,040 --> 01:06:45,280
Speaker 1: the wifey ate, Well, look at look at PT six

1426
01:06:45,480 --> 01:06:47,880
Speaker 1: hunting trip, look at fast Aft for crushing This one.

1427
01:06:47,840 --> 01:06:50,400
Speaker 3: Hunting trip all but confirmed for later this year.

1428
01:06:50,520 --> 01:06:52,440
Speaker 1: This is one you go to and you could go

1429
01:06:52,480 --> 01:06:54,920
Speaker 1: to this one every weekend. Oh if I It's just

1430
01:06:54,960 --> 01:06:57,400
Speaker 1: a good little out, a little fun yeah, good little outing.

1431
01:06:57,640 --> 01:06:59,920
Speaker 3: Okay, well that's perfect. Also, I might be playing pub

1432
01:07:00,120 --> 01:07:00,520
Speaker 3: you tonight.

1433
01:07:02,560 --> 01:07:06,720
Speaker 2: Coo, no staycation one night.

1434
01:07:06,800 --> 01:07:10,400
Speaker 1: I can tomorrow, Okay, I can tomorrow. Okay, I forgot

1435
01:07:10,520 --> 01:07:13,480
Speaker 1: I saw Mom and Dad times. I forgot about staycation.

1436
01:07:13,760 --> 01:07:14,360
Speaker 3: That is on me.

1437
01:07:14,480 --> 01:07:16,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, that is on me. But well, I'll be back

1438
01:07:16,320 --> 01:07:17,040
Speaker 2: in action tomorrow.

1439
01:07:17,040 --> 01:07:20,360
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1445
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Speaker 3: my crack a cold one. This week is going to

1468
01:08:55,240 --> 01:09:03,080
Speaker 3: go to our sitter taught rule a little game. But

1469
01:09:03,120 --> 01:09:06,840
Speaker 3: it's like a like a gratitude game. It's called rosen Thorn,

1470
01:09:07,080 --> 01:09:08,800
Speaker 3: Like what was your rose of the day? What was

1471
01:09:08,840 --> 01:09:11,479
Speaker 3: your thorn of the day? Oh so your rose of

1472
01:09:11,520 --> 01:09:13,719
Speaker 3: the day is like something you were grateful for, something

1473
01:09:13,720 --> 01:09:15,559
Speaker 3: you had fun with, something that made.

1474
01:09:15,400 --> 01:09:16,040
Speaker 2: You really happy.

1475
01:09:16,080 --> 01:09:19,240
Speaker 1: Your thorn thorn of the day is something that that

1476
01:09:19,520 --> 01:09:22,559
Speaker 1: potentially bothered you or something that made you upset. I

1477
01:09:22,560 --> 01:09:24,719
Speaker 1: thought it was a really good way. Like Ruth's bringing

1478
01:09:24,760 --> 01:09:27,439
Speaker 1: this game up to me. She's like, that day, let's

1479
01:09:27,439 --> 01:09:30,040
Speaker 1: play rosen Thorn, roseen Thorn. I'm like, all right, well,

1480
01:09:30,840 --> 01:09:31,719
Speaker 1: what's rosen Thorn?

1481
01:09:32,240 --> 01:09:34,799
Speaker 2: What I missed? I was going for twenty four hours?

1482
01:09:35,720 --> 01:09:39,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, but she starts naming her rosen Thorne to where

1483
01:09:39,080 --> 01:09:41,439
Speaker 1: I'm getting what she's I'm understanding what she's saying.

1484
01:09:41,479 --> 01:09:43,880
Speaker 3: She's rattling off an entire list for her rose.

1485
01:09:46,240 --> 01:09:52,080
Speaker 1: Like playing with dad Dad, like Scottie making her laugh,

1486
01:09:52,479 --> 01:09:56,040
Speaker 1: like getting to play with mama, seeing mom in the morning,

1487
01:09:57,240 --> 01:10:00,479
Speaker 1: things that she might have done at school m uh

1488
01:10:00,920 --> 01:10:03,559
Speaker 1: like students that made her laugh, or getting to play

1489
01:10:03,600 --> 01:10:05,840
Speaker 1: a game outside for She's like ratt on.

1490
01:10:05,840 --> 01:10:06,840
Speaker 2: Off a list.

1491
01:10:07,400 --> 01:10:11,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, her thorn was mama not getting to see her play.

1492
01:10:11,479 --> 01:10:13,439
Speaker 1: Oh what about that that didn't get to be at

1493
01:10:13,439 --> 01:10:16,000
Speaker 1: school either? That again, get see me play either? All right,

1494
01:10:16,000 --> 01:10:20,479
Speaker 1: all right, I needed that one thorn. I get that. Yeah, Scotty,

1495
01:10:20,800 --> 01:10:24,040
Speaker 1: Like if Ruth's playing and Scotty goes and like, you know,

1496
01:10:24,600 --> 01:10:26,880
Speaker 1: just being scott Zilla, like we will be trying to

1497
01:10:26,880 --> 01:10:31,240
Speaker 1: build this little foam robot where like magnetizes and Scotty

1498
01:10:31,320 --> 01:10:34,519
Speaker 1: comes over and she just, you know, and she just

1499
01:10:34,520 --> 01:10:39,160
Speaker 1: starts like screaming. Rue starts screaming, and Scotty just got

1500
01:10:39,200 --> 01:10:43,840
Speaker 1: a smile and like grabbing at the phone. Robot, come

1501
01:10:43,880 --> 01:10:47,320
Speaker 1: play over here, like play over in this spot, Scotti here.

1502
01:10:48,000 --> 01:10:50,120
Speaker 1: Try to give her the remote so Scotty's occupied, so

1503
01:10:50,280 --> 01:10:53,400
Speaker 1: roo can build this robot. Yeah, and then then you'll

1504
01:10:53,439 --> 01:10:55,479
Speaker 1: hear you should drop the robot lean and get on

1505
01:10:55,479 --> 01:10:55,800
Speaker 1: the ground.

1506
01:10:55,840 --> 01:11:00,200
Speaker 2: And then you hear it's ma Scotty. I'll make Scott.

1507
01:11:00,920 --> 01:11:04,640
Speaker 1: And then when I'm like yelling like that Scotty, Scotty know,

1508
01:11:04,760 --> 01:11:07,080
Speaker 1: and Ruth just gets in like she just got through

1509
01:11:07,160 --> 01:11:10,200
Speaker 1: into the ocean type of scream like a horror movie's happening.

1510
01:11:10,240 --> 01:11:11,720
Speaker 2: Because Scotty's getting close to her.

1511
01:11:13,200 --> 01:11:15,160
Speaker 1: I kind of I can't help as I'm going over

1512
01:11:15,160 --> 01:11:19,360
Speaker 1: there like laughing, and sweetheart, Scotty's just she thinks she's

1513
01:11:19,400 --> 01:11:20,080
Speaker 1: just playing with you.

1514
01:11:20,200 --> 01:11:21,960
Speaker 2: She doesn't know. She's kind of like waffle.

1515
01:11:22,000 --> 01:11:25,760
Speaker 1: She doesn't know what's going on right now. But uh,

1516
01:11:26,320 --> 01:11:28,800
Speaker 1: rosen Thorne is a cracker cole one I really like

1517
01:11:28,880 --> 01:11:32,080
Speaker 1: because it also gets rude talking about what upset her

1518
01:11:32,120 --> 01:11:34,439
Speaker 1: in the day so we can talk through that. Talks

1519
01:11:34,479 --> 01:11:36,960
Speaker 1: about what she's grateful for, which I love. And then

1520
01:11:37,000 --> 01:11:39,320
Speaker 1: another cracker call one is just Embracing the Spook. Rue

1521
01:11:39,320 --> 01:11:41,479
Speaker 1: went to Charlie took Rue. They went to the library

1522
01:11:41,560 --> 01:11:45,599
Speaker 1: yesterday and Rue came home with the book Wicked. Oh

1523
01:11:45,720 --> 01:11:48,400
Speaker 1: Richy's so excited to show me, like, you know, for

1524
01:11:48,560 --> 01:11:52,400
Speaker 1: like Halloween and everything else. Yes, so embracing the Spook.

1525
01:11:52,400 --> 01:11:55,120
Speaker 1: When your kiddo's embrace the Spook. Those are my crack

1526
01:11:55,160 --> 01:11:55,679
Speaker 1: of cold ones.

1527
01:11:56,520 --> 01:11:59,120
Speaker 2: Is that Wicked like the musical? I believe?

1528
01:11:59,160 --> 01:11:59,320
Speaker 4: So.

1529
01:11:59,560 --> 01:12:01,240
Speaker 2: I think it's like Wizard of Oz.

1530
01:12:02,400 --> 01:12:02,960
Speaker 8: I'll be fully.

1531
01:12:03,120 --> 01:12:05,880
Speaker 5: I got dragged there when it released in theaters by

1532
01:12:05,920 --> 01:12:06,560
Speaker 5: the girlfriend.

1533
01:12:06,720 --> 01:12:11,599
Speaker 8: It was fucking awesome. That's that's one that I will.

1534
01:12:12,080 --> 01:12:12,880
Speaker 8: I put hands out.

1535
01:12:12,880 --> 01:12:14,240
Speaker 5: We were walking out of there and go, she goes,

1536
01:12:14,439 --> 01:12:16,640
Speaker 5: that was incredible, and I go, that was incredible.

1537
01:12:17,040 --> 01:12:17,679
Speaker 3: I forgot.

1538
01:12:18,040 --> 01:12:21,479
Speaker 2: You know, Shuram was a jack chef.

1539
01:12:21,520 --> 01:12:23,120
Speaker 1: He was like, why are we going to this dude,

1540
01:12:23,439 --> 01:12:25,320
Speaker 1: fucking musical musical?

1541
01:12:25,960 --> 01:12:29,439
Speaker 3: We were named off we were naming off movies over there.

1542
01:12:29,640 --> 01:12:32,960
Speaker 3: I totally forgot. I'm so glad you brought this up. Uh,

1543
01:12:33,560 --> 01:12:37,960
Speaker 3: you were naming movies too, Derek. Weren't you over there? Yes,

1544
01:12:38,800 --> 01:12:40,639
Speaker 3: I couldn't remember it if you, but we're all.

1545
01:12:40,640 --> 01:12:41,360
Speaker 2: Is probably over there.

1546
01:12:41,400 --> 01:12:41,560
Speaker 3: I do.

1547
01:12:41,760 --> 01:12:42,840
Speaker 2: That is where my desk is.

1548
01:12:42,880 --> 01:12:45,479
Speaker 3: He I do, sit right next to you, Sherman. But

1549
01:12:45,560 --> 01:12:50,240
Speaker 3: we were naming off all these movies. It's like La confidential. Uh,

1550
01:12:51,240 --> 01:12:55,800
Speaker 3: just like all these like dude films. And then Chef's like, hey,

1551
01:12:55,880 --> 01:12:58,200
Speaker 3: I'm not gonna lie. It's same story he just told

1552
01:12:58,400 --> 01:13:01,680
Speaker 3: and I'm behind my computer started laughing so hard. But

1553
01:13:01,760 --> 01:13:03,120
Speaker 3: I was like, Wicked was good.

1554
01:13:03,720 --> 01:13:04,599
Speaker 2: Yeah, it was good.

1555
01:13:05,120 --> 01:13:06,760
Speaker 8: I gotta give it. I gotta give the nod.

1556
01:13:07,360 --> 01:13:09,479
Speaker 5: We were talking about how like maybe it was Crazy

1557
01:13:09,520 --> 01:13:12,200
Speaker 5: Rich Asians, which is another one that like date in

1558
01:13:12,200 --> 01:13:14,439
Speaker 5: their right mind, you're going to theater. You're not thinking,

1559
01:13:14,600 --> 01:13:17,680
Speaker 5: let's go watch Crazy Rich Asians, but then you go

1560
01:13:17,760 --> 01:13:20,880
Speaker 5: watching You're fuck incredible, incredible.

1561
01:13:21,280 --> 01:13:23,040
Speaker 3: But I still need to get on that too. You

1562
01:13:23,400 --> 01:13:26,559
Speaker 3: have to get on this weekend would be perfect? Yeah,

1563
01:13:26,920 --> 01:13:27,920
Speaker 3: that was it would it.

1564
01:13:27,920 --> 01:13:30,200
Speaker 2: Wouldn't be It wouldn't be perfect. Has Jill seen it?

1565
01:13:30,240 --> 01:13:30,679
Speaker 4: Oh?

1566
01:13:30,800 --> 01:13:34,960
Speaker 3: Well, I feel like Jill probably has seen it. If

1567
01:13:34,960 --> 01:13:38,439
Speaker 3: I confirm with Jill and she's like, I have seen it.

1568
01:13:38,479 --> 01:13:40,920
Speaker 1: I love it, and I'm great thing for you to

1569
01:13:40,920 --> 01:13:45,240
Speaker 1: do during a nap time this weekend. Okay, legitimately perfect.

1570
01:13:45,439 --> 01:13:47,800
Speaker 1: I really want that.

1571
01:13:48,240 --> 01:13:51,360
Speaker 2: She'll she'll be She'll love that movie. She'll be obsessed

1572
01:13:51,360 --> 01:13:51,559
Speaker 2: with it.

1573
01:13:52,640 --> 01:13:56,000
Speaker 3: And we need a good movie night. We've been looking

1574
01:13:56,040 --> 01:13:59,639
Speaker 3: for a good show and slash good movie. The other

1575
01:13:59,680 --> 01:14:02,760
Speaker 3: thing I gonna bring, oh bonus krackical one for me.

1576
01:14:03,560 --> 01:14:07,160
Speaker 3: Jill is really embracing Spooktober with our daughter, and it's

1577
01:14:07,240 --> 01:14:09,519
Speaker 3: kind of sick to see like she has. It's not

1578
01:14:09,560 --> 01:14:11,559
Speaker 3: a webinga, but it's kind of like a webbingu, but

1579
01:14:11,600 --> 01:14:13,719
Speaker 3: instead of a passy attached to it, it's a blanky

1580
01:14:13,800 --> 01:14:16,679
Speaker 3: attached to it. I don't know the name of it. Yeah,

1581
01:14:16,720 --> 01:14:19,519
Speaker 3: but Jill got one with a ghost ye little ghosty.

1582
01:14:19,680 --> 01:14:21,120
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1583
01:14:21,160 --> 01:14:25,240
Speaker 3: And then she dressed up Scarlett for October first, for

1584
01:14:25,520 --> 01:14:30,160
Speaker 3: the kickoff of Spooktober, and she had what they are

1585
01:14:30,160 --> 01:14:34,000
Speaker 3: now calling a boo basket. So it's like an Easter basket,

1586
01:14:34,200 --> 01:14:37,760
Speaker 3: but for little babies on Halloween, you get them their

1587
01:14:37,800 --> 01:14:38,960
Speaker 3: little boo basket.

1588
01:14:39,200 --> 01:14:42,160
Speaker 1: Bro, there's nothing that gets the parents because you know,

1589
01:14:42,200 --> 01:14:45,120
Speaker 1: you get in this lull of Halloween right like you

1590
01:14:45,160 --> 01:14:48,000
Speaker 1: grow up loving Halloween. Did you get to do the costume? Yeah,

1591
01:14:48,000 --> 01:14:50,720
Speaker 1: you dress up. You have a stint in college and

1592
01:14:50,720 --> 01:14:53,960
Speaker 1: stuff where you're younger where you enjoy Halloween because the

1593
01:14:54,000 --> 01:14:55,679
Speaker 1: party scene and everything else.

1594
01:14:56,520 --> 01:14:56,920
Speaker 2: The women.

1595
01:14:59,520 --> 01:15:02,920
Speaker 1: Then you get like, you know, like the young adulthood

1596
01:15:02,920 --> 01:15:05,960
Speaker 1: where it's like a Halloween, like it's another holiday. But

1597
01:15:06,000 --> 01:15:10,439
Speaker 1: then you have kids, brom and holiday or Halloween juices

1598
01:15:10,479 --> 01:15:11,880
Speaker 1: you out because you get to get them in these

1599
01:15:11,920 --> 01:15:15,160
Speaker 1: cute outfits. You're embracing the theme of the month because

1600
01:15:15,600 --> 01:15:17,120
Speaker 1: or Halloween's right around the corner.

1601
01:15:17,200 --> 01:15:17,479
Speaker 2: Yep.

1602
01:15:18,200 --> 01:15:20,599
Speaker 1: Some great shows and movies out there too. By the way,

1603
01:15:20,640 --> 01:15:24,880
Speaker 1: since we're on, since we're talking about please Halloween, and

1604
01:15:24,960 --> 01:15:27,439
Speaker 1: I will say are my survival kit this week is

1605
01:15:27,520 --> 01:15:30,120
Speaker 1: just Spootober merch and one get the Four the Dads

1606
01:15:30,960 --> 01:15:32,320
Speaker 1: BWTV dot com.

1607
01:15:32,360 --> 01:15:33,920
Speaker 2: I love that true Poetobra Merch.

1608
01:15:34,000 --> 01:15:35,280
Speaker 3: I do love that shirt.

1609
01:15:35,640 --> 01:15:36,720
Speaker 2: BWTV dot com.

1610
01:15:36,720 --> 01:15:38,680
Speaker 1: We do have a lot of other like if you're

1611
01:15:38,680 --> 01:15:40,479
Speaker 1: a fan of Busting with the Boys, or you don't

1612
01:15:40,479 --> 01:15:42,599
Speaker 1: have kids and you're looking for Spootober merch or things

1613
01:15:42,600 --> 01:15:45,320
Speaker 1: to kind of uh to embrace Spootober with us. We

1614
01:15:45,400 --> 01:15:47,200
Speaker 1: do have a lot of cool Spooktober merch on the

1615
01:15:47,240 --> 01:15:50,000
Speaker 1: site bwtv dot com. Surem's holding it up right now.

1616
01:15:50,000 --> 01:15:52,559
Speaker 1: You've got Spootober. You got nothing, just chilling killing. We

1617
01:15:52,600 --> 01:15:55,160
Speaker 1: have another cool uh Spootober shirt on there, but you

1618
01:15:55,160 --> 01:15:56,639
Speaker 1: can go there and get that. That could be that's

1619
01:15:56,640 --> 01:15:59,720
Speaker 1: a survival kit. But since we're on the theme of Spootober,

1620
01:16:01,520 --> 01:16:04,840
Speaker 1: I do have a list. I have a list because again,

1621
01:16:04,880 --> 01:16:08,040
Speaker 1: a rule of Spootober is embracing the spook once a

1622
01:16:08,080 --> 01:16:12,799
Speaker 1: weekend by going to something in uh being being festive,

1623
01:16:12,880 --> 01:16:16,280
Speaker 1: say a pumpkin patch, a hay ride, whether it's.

1624
01:16:18,080 --> 01:16:19,559
Speaker 2: What I'm drawing a blink right now, like.

1625
01:16:19,520 --> 01:16:22,960
Speaker 3: A Jill and I went to a wildflower picking farm

1626
01:16:23,040 --> 01:16:24,519
Speaker 3: that had like pumpkins and stuff.

1627
01:16:24,680 --> 01:16:25,960
Speaker 2: Get outside, get.

1628
01:16:25,800 --> 01:16:28,519
Speaker 1: Around some pumpkins, get around the theme of spoopt Obra,

1629
01:16:28,560 --> 01:16:30,920
Speaker 1: haunted house, whatever it is. You're doing something to embrace

1630
01:16:30,960 --> 01:16:34,360
Speaker 1: the spook outside for sure. Another rule is watching a

1631
01:16:34,439 --> 01:16:38,320
Speaker 1: Halloween themed show or movie per day. And you can

1632
01:16:38,320 --> 01:16:40,040
Speaker 1: either have it on and it can be quick hitters,

1633
01:16:40,080 --> 01:16:41,439
Speaker 1: it can be you have it on for ten minutes.

1634
01:16:41,479 --> 01:16:41,960
Speaker 2: Whatever it is.

1635
01:16:41,960 --> 01:16:45,040
Speaker 1: You're just you're you're bringing the spook alive. Yeah yeah, uh.

1636
01:16:45,160 --> 01:16:47,360
Speaker 1: And when you have kids, you got to get creative,

1637
01:16:47,360 --> 01:16:49,120
Speaker 1: because not everything can be horror movie number one of

1638
01:16:49,160 --> 01:16:52,240
Speaker 1: my wife She's got you know, if things get too stressful,

1639
01:16:52,240 --> 01:16:54,000
Speaker 1: like we can't do it over No, I personally can't

1640
01:16:54,040 --> 01:16:56,679
Speaker 1: do it over and overall. I call the scary, gory, ghosts,

1641
01:16:56,920 --> 01:16:58,280
Speaker 1: paranormal activity.

1642
01:16:57,880 --> 01:16:58,559
Speaker 2: Stuff every day.

1643
01:16:58,680 --> 01:17:02,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, but I've enjoyed getting to relive some nostalgic things

1644
01:17:02,760 --> 01:17:04,400
Speaker 1: that grew up on because now we have kids and

1645
01:17:04,400 --> 01:17:06,040
Speaker 1: now it's like, okay, if I'm gonna embrace the spook,

1646
01:17:06,040 --> 01:17:07,960
Speaker 1: I want to have find some movies and some shows

1647
01:17:08,000 --> 01:17:10,400
Speaker 1: that rou can swap out our TV coupon for.

1648
01:17:11,479 --> 01:17:12,599
Speaker 2: But I have a list of your movies.

1649
01:17:12,760 --> 01:17:17,920
Speaker 3: Hocus Pocus, hocus Pocus one and two, one in two, Casper.

1650
01:17:18,800 --> 01:17:22,760
Speaker 1: Casper is so good, Casper bro one of my That

1651
01:17:22,880 --> 01:17:25,160
Speaker 1: was a Yeah, that was one of my first I

1652
01:17:25,280 --> 01:17:27,960
Speaker 1: was back in nineteen ninety five. Your boy was six

1653
01:17:28,439 --> 01:17:32,559
Speaker 1: six seven years old. Your boy was two friendly ghost,

1654
01:17:32,640 --> 01:17:36,040
Speaker 1: heartwarming story. Check out Casper. They do have some TV

1655
01:17:36,120 --> 01:17:37,840
Speaker 1: show with it two like on Disney they do.

1656
01:17:38,320 --> 01:17:40,479
Speaker 3: First Crush was the Girl.

1657
01:17:40,600 --> 01:17:46,679
Speaker 1: There you Go, Adam's Family Hotel, Transylvania. All four movies

1658
01:17:46,800 --> 01:17:51,799
Speaker 1: come on Mons Transylvania Two Monsters reimagine for kids, funny

1659
01:17:51,800 --> 01:17:56,800
Speaker 1: and lighthearted monster House, franken Weenie. Yeah, this is Tim

1660
01:17:56,840 --> 01:17:59,599
Speaker 1: Burton's take on Frankenstein with a boy and his dog,

1661
01:18:00,960 --> 01:18:06,040
Speaker 1: The Nightmare before Christmas. It's Halloween Christmas crossover classics. So good.

1662
01:18:06,880 --> 01:18:07,679
Speaker 2: Goose Bumps.

1663
01:18:08,080 --> 01:18:10,559
Speaker 1: This this isn't This isn't a roue age, This isn't

1664
01:18:10,560 --> 01:18:12,200
Speaker 1: three year olds. But if I'm thinking your parents out

1665
01:18:12,200 --> 01:18:15,639
Speaker 1: there that have some some older kids, maybe in that

1666
01:18:16,040 --> 01:18:21,800
Speaker 1: what seven range seven and up? Goosebumps, Buddy, Goosebumps was

1667
01:18:21,880 --> 01:18:23,719
Speaker 1: the one where the mask gets stuck on the face.

1668
01:18:23,760 --> 01:18:25,559
Speaker 2: That haunted me for a very long time.

1669
01:18:25,640 --> 01:18:30,120
Speaker 3: Oh dude, I hated because I loved how scary they were.

1670
01:18:30,200 --> 01:18:31,320
Speaker 3: I hated those movies.

1671
01:18:31,560 --> 01:18:36,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, so scary, yeah, spooky. The Square Pumpkin perfect for

1672
01:18:36,160 --> 01:18:36,760
Speaker 1: the little ones.

1673
01:18:37,000 --> 01:18:42,720
Speaker 3: Okay, I'll even this is.

1674
01:18:42,680 --> 01:18:45,000
Speaker 1: Good for the audience to figure out finding ways to

1675
01:18:45,080 --> 01:18:45,680
Speaker 1: kind of embrace it.

1676
01:18:46,960 --> 01:18:49,679
Speaker 8: Yeah, square pumps, Spookley's that's older, right.

1677
01:18:49,800 --> 01:18:50,679
Speaker 2: Two thousand and five.

1678
01:18:50,960 --> 01:18:53,120
Speaker 8: Yeah, that's right when I was growing up.

1679
01:18:53,720 --> 01:18:55,880
Speaker 1: I love that too, because we're talking five and I'm

1680
01:18:55,920 --> 01:18:57,760
Speaker 1: just pulling Casper from nineteen ninety five.

1681
01:18:58,200 --> 01:18:59,880
Speaker 2: You are a classic throwbacks.

1682
01:19:00,800 --> 01:19:04,800
Speaker 1: Adams Family nineteen ninety one, hocus Pocus nineteen ninety.

1683
01:19:04,600 --> 01:19:06,240
Speaker 2: Three, but Monsters Inc.

1684
01:19:06,280 --> 01:19:10,120
Speaker 1: And Monsters University, Coco more of a Day of the

1685
01:19:10,160 --> 01:19:11,000
Speaker 1: Dead than Halloween.

1686
01:19:11,040 --> 01:19:12,200
Speaker 2: But a great family watch.

1687
01:19:12,280 --> 01:19:13,000
Speaker 3: It's a good one.

1688
01:19:14,080 --> 01:19:18,160
Speaker 1: It's The Great Pumpkin Charlie Brown nineteen sixty six, nineteen

1689
01:19:18,240 --> 01:19:18,800
Speaker 1: sixty six.

1690
01:19:18,920 --> 01:19:21,559
Speaker 8: Chef seen that one too, Who hasn't.

1691
01:19:21,560 --> 01:19:21,920
Speaker 2: That's one.

1692
01:19:21,960 --> 01:19:24,360
Speaker 1: That's where if you're in school, you're getting the old

1693
01:19:24,360 --> 01:19:26,519
Speaker 1: TV rolled in and you're watching some Charlie Brown, The

1694
01:19:26,520 --> 01:19:29,720
Speaker 1: Great Pumpkin. Some TV shows and specials out there. I'll

1695
01:19:29,800 --> 01:19:33,240
Speaker 1: rattle through these. Scooby Doo, Where are you Scooby Doo

1696
01:19:33,240 --> 01:19:34,799
Speaker 1: in The Witch's Ghost?

1697
01:19:34,920 --> 01:19:35,280
Speaker 3: Yeah?

1698
01:19:35,320 --> 01:19:38,160
Speaker 1: Are you afraid of the Dark? That's some nineties Nickelodeon

1699
01:19:38,240 --> 01:19:39,639
Speaker 1: spooky but not too scary.

1700
01:19:39,760 --> 01:19:40,000
Speaker 3: Yep.

1701
01:19:40,960 --> 01:19:44,559
Speaker 1: Goosebumps does have a series outside of outside of the movie.

1702
01:19:44,600 --> 01:19:46,320
Speaker 1: So you got the nineteen ninety series, and you also

1703
01:19:46,320 --> 01:19:49,440
Speaker 1: have a twenty twenty three Disney Plus series for Goosebumps,

1704
01:19:49,720 --> 01:19:54,040
Speaker 1: The Simpsons, tree House of Horror episodes. That's family friendly

1705
01:19:54,080 --> 01:19:58,559
Speaker 1: if the kids are older. Yeah, yeah, Wizards of Waverley Place,

1706
01:19:58,640 --> 01:20:02,360
Speaker 1: that's Disney Channel, Magical Halloween episodes, Girl Verus Monster a

1707
01:20:02,439 --> 01:20:03,639
Speaker 1: Disney Channel original.

1708
01:20:03,720 --> 01:20:06,519
Speaker 2: Come on Halloween Town, Halloween, Come on.

1709
01:20:08,120 --> 01:20:13,519
Speaker 3: A lot of Disney Channel originals on Disney Plus. Jill

1710
01:20:13,560 --> 01:20:15,599
Speaker 3: and I were rocking those last year.

1711
01:20:15,720 --> 01:20:19,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, yes, same bro. I got roue on Halloween Town

1712
01:20:19,280 --> 01:20:21,800
Speaker 1: last year when she was two. Halloween Town is that's

1713
01:20:21,880 --> 01:20:22,759
Speaker 1: that's a fun one.

1714
01:20:22,920 --> 01:20:25,800
Speaker 3: The Phantom at the Multiplex or whatever it's called.

1715
01:20:26,000 --> 01:20:26,200
Speaker 5: Yeah.

1716
01:20:26,640 --> 01:20:31,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, those cheesy, cheesy horror movies, and they're so good.

1717
01:20:31,320 --> 01:20:34,880
Speaker 1: The Phantom and the skeleton would kind of spook a

1718
01:20:34,880 --> 01:20:36,960
Speaker 1: little bit and you kind of talk her off the ledge.

1719
01:20:37,120 --> 01:20:39,000
Speaker 1: They're they're good, They're you know, it's going to turn around.

1720
01:20:39,000 --> 01:20:43,600
Speaker 1: It's going to turn around. The Worst Witch, Curious Georgia, Halloween, Boofest,

1721
01:20:43,640 --> 01:20:47,719
Speaker 1: Mickey Mouse's of Villains, and Mickey mouse Mickey's Monster Musical.

1722
01:20:47,800 --> 01:20:48,280
Speaker 2: Those are good.

1723
01:20:48,280 --> 01:20:52,080
Speaker 1: Those are Disney Junior Room on the Broom, a twenty

1724
01:20:52,120 --> 01:20:55,599
Speaker 1: twenty animated short, very sweet for younger kids. But those

1725
01:20:55,600 --> 01:21:01,200
Speaker 1: are some movies and shows for various a just to

1726
01:21:01,280 --> 01:21:02,200
Speaker 1: embrace Ootober.

1727
01:21:02,240 --> 01:21:05,200
Speaker 3: Those are some great recommendations I would also throw out

1728
01:21:05,240 --> 01:21:08,960
Speaker 3: for the older kid crowd. Goonies. It's not a true

1729
01:21:09,040 --> 01:21:12,240
Speaker 3: Halloween movie, but it does take place in the fall.

1730
01:21:12,320 --> 01:21:15,840
Speaker 3: There are skeletons in it. It's just a great adventure flick,

1731
01:21:16,240 --> 01:21:17,160
Speaker 3: great adventure flick.

1732
01:21:17,800 --> 01:21:20,599
Speaker 9: I would be remiss and everybody in my life would

1733
01:21:20,600 --> 01:21:23,120
Speaker 9: come me fraud if I didn't bring up QB Halloween

1734
01:21:23,600 --> 01:21:24,280
Speaker 9: Adam Sandler.

1735
01:21:24,320 --> 01:21:25,080
Speaker 3: It's on Netflix.

1736
01:21:25,160 --> 01:21:27,280
Speaker 9: I have watched that movie probably over a thousand times

1737
01:21:27,400 --> 01:21:30,280
Speaker 9: on watch every day in October so far already this month.

1738
01:21:30,400 --> 01:21:32,479
Speaker 3: Yes, my favorite movie. You were watching it. It was

1739
01:21:32,479 --> 01:21:33,200
Speaker 3: on your story.

1740
01:21:33,600 --> 01:21:36,080
Speaker 9: I always tag the same group of guys from my

1741
01:21:36,280 --> 01:21:39,519
Speaker 9: like like our old days, just and they get so

1742
01:21:39,640 --> 01:21:41,360
Speaker 9: angry about it. I watch it probably once a month

1743
01:21:41,400 --> 01:21:43,599
Speaker 9: throughout the year. I think it's it's such a stupid movie.

1744
01:21:43,640 --> 01:21:47,880
Speaker 3: It's my favorite movie. I did enjoy Hubie. I did

1745
01:21:47,960 --> 01:21:48,880
Speaker 3: enjoy Hube Halloween.

1746
01:21:49,280 --> 01:21:53,000
Speaker 9: It's so hard to make a Halloween movie that hits

1747
01:21:53,040 --> 01:21:55,559
Speaker 9: like Halloween Town and hocus Pocus, Like it's a hard

1748
01:21:55,560 --> 01:21:58,560
Speaker 9: holiday to get into without it being hory, gory or

1749
01:21:58,640 --> 01:21:59,280
Speaker 9: kind of campy.

1750
01:21:59,320 --> 01:22:02,160
Speaker 3: And I thought it did well. It did do well

1751
01:22:02,240 --> 01:22:04,000
Speaker 3: and it and it did have a lot of callback.

1752
01:22:04,040 --> 01:22:06,679
Speaker 3: If you're a big Adam Sandler fan, there are of

1753
01:22:06,720 --> 01:22:08,960
Speaker 3: all of his movies that one has like the most

1754
01:22:08,960 --> 01:22:12,040
Speaker 3: callbacks that I thought were actually done well. And we're

1755
01:22:12,160 --> 01:22:15,599
Speaker 3: like tasteful with like the sheet in the front yard,

1756
01:22:15,720 --> 01:22:19,960
Speaker 3: like Callback the water Boy. Yeah yeah, I like hub Halloween.

1757
01:22:20,120 --> 01:22:23,000
Speaker 3: The The other one, dude, I have to bring up

1758
01:22:23,000 --> 01:22:27,160
Speaker 3: with Casper is that priest that shows up when they're

1759
01:22:27,160 --> 01:22:29,640
Speaker 3: doing the Exorcism of the House and he's got like

1760
01:22:29,680 --> 01:22:33,639
Speaker 3: the flat brim hat and he's got the sick. They're like, wait,

1761
01:22:33,680 --> 01:22:36,679
Speaker 3: you're a priest. He's like, yeah, I'm a priest, I said.

1762
01:22:37,479 --> 01:22:39,000
Speaker 3: They're like, you think you can do this. He's like,

1763
01:22:39,360 --> 01:22:41,559
Speaker 3: it'll be cake, It'll be crumb cake. I got it.

1764
01:22:41,680 --> 01:22:47,080
Speaker 3: And then he just comes back with his head completely Yeah. Yeah,

1765
01:22:47,320 --> 01:22:50,120
Speaker 3: oh my god, dude, Casper is such a good.

1766
01:22:50,000 --> 01:22:52,800
Speaker 2: Meeting, good one. That's a good throwback. That's that's right.

1767
01:22:52,840 --> 01:22:55,120
Speaker 1: There's a rollodex, a lot of family a lot of

1768
01:22:55,120 --> 01:22:59,160
Speaker 1: family friendly shows and movies. Add them to the survival kit.

1769
01:22:59,320 --> 01:23:04,479
Speaker 1: Embracing October, Embracing Speotober. I can't wait to get dialed

1770
01:23:04,520 --> 01:23:05,200
Speaker 1: in on a movie.

1771
01:23:05,720 --> 01:23:12,880
Speaker 3: Honestly, tonight, I wish I had a list more like

1772
01:23:12,960 --> 01:23:15,360
Speaker 3: down the avenue of this weekend. The crack of cold

1773
01:23:15,360 --> 01:23:18,200
Speaker 3: one was just basically me being able to talk my

1774
01:23:18,240 --> 01:23:22,679
Speaker 3: wife into no babysitters, no night nurses.

1775
01:23:23,080 --> 01:23:23,720
Speaker 2: I got this.

1776
01:23:24,000 --> 01:23:25,960
Speaker 3: That is my crack of cool one. It's just Jill

1777
01:23:26,080 --> 01:23:31,639
Speaker 3: trusting me and being like, hey, you got this, and bonus,

1778
01:23:31,720 --> 01:23:34,479
Speaker 3: this is breaking because it happened this morning when Hillary

1779
01:23:34,520 --> 01:23:38,040
Speaker 3: showed up. Because Hillary is my best friend from high

1780
01:23:38,040 --> 01:23:42,040
Speaker 3: school's wife, Like she is just as much Jill's friend

1781
01:23:42,120 --> 01:23:44,880
Speaker 3: as she is my friend, if that makes sense, whereas Brian,

1782
01:23:45,080 --> 01:23:50,280
Speaker 3: her husband, would very much be like closer to me. Yeah, however,

1783
01:23:51,080 --> 01:23:53,960
Speaker 3: Hillary shows up, I'm kind of giving her the rundown

1784
01:23:54,040 --> 01:23:56,799
Speaker 3: of the house. And then I think to myself, Jill's

1785
01:23:56,800 --> 01:23:59,759
Speaker 3: probably already calder and like gave her a full rundown,

1786
01:24:00,120 --> 01:24:02,000
Speaker 3: like I need to chill out, and I go I'm

1787
01:24:02,000 --> 01:24:04,080
Speaker 3: sure Jill's already called you and blah blah, and she goes, no,

1788
01:24:04,200 --> 01:24:05,599
Speaker 3: she didn't call me.

1789
01:24:06,560 --> 01:24:09,040
Speaker 2: And I was like like, that's dumb.

1790
01:24:10,600 --> 01:24:13,760
Speaker 3: That's a dumb I was like, dude, that's cool. That

1791
01:24:13,880 --> 01:24:16,479
Speaker 3: means like Jill was pending that responsibility in my court

1792
01:24:16,640 --> 01:24:19,800
Speaker 3: to be like sherman can prep pillary, he's got it.

1793
01:24:20,640 --> 01:24:23,479
Speaker 3: I was like, hey, you can leave some zipaw bags

1794
01:24:23,520 --> 01:24:25,559
Speaker 3: with clothes in it, but like the fact you didn't

1795
01:24:25,680 --> 01:24:29,320
Speaker 3: game prep pillary before she came over cheers, do you thank.

1796
01:24:29,160 --> 01:24:29,559
Speaker 2: You, dude.

1797
01:24:29,560 --> 01:24:32,040
Speaker 1: Wife didn't wife didn't call the friend.

1798
01:24:31,800 --> 01:24:33,080
Speaker 2: Before she came over to the house.

1799
01:24:33,800 --> 01:24:34,559
Speaker 3: It was kind of sick.

1800
01:24:34,680 --> 01:24:37,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, dad hacks, Dad hacks.

1801
01:24:38,000 --> 01:24:39,759
Speaker 3: Oh, I do have a what are the odds?

1802
01:24:40,000 --> 01:24:40,200
Speaker 8: Oh?

1803
01:24:40,280 --> 01:24:40,800
Speaker 2: What is it?

1804
01:24:41,720 --> 01:24:46,160
Speaker 3: Tyler Schiller wrote in the water the odds shout out

1805
01:24:46,200 --> 01:24:49,960
Speaker 3: fanduled this week is we were talking about writing in journals.

1806
01:24:50,040 --> 01:24:52,880
Speaker 3: Tyler has been writing in a journal to his daughter.

1807
01:24:53,120 --> 01:24:54,880
Speaker 3: I just wanted to read a little bit about that

1808
01:24:56,479 --> 01:25:01,240
Speaker 3: Tyler Schiller here out of that rougely you know, and

1809
01:25:01,280 --> 01:25:04,160
Speaker 3: he literally wrote, I said go tigers to be funny.

1810
01:25:04,320 --> 01:25:06,000
Speaker 3: He actually wrote go tigers, abu.

1811
01:25:06,240 --> 01:25:08,360
Speaker 1: I'm impressed he understands how to write down there in

1812
01:25:08,400 --> 01:25:09,280
Speaker 1: baton rouge lady, and.

1813
01:25:09,439 --> 01:25:12,240
Speaker 3: Well he spelled at geaux, which they say is the

1814
01:25:12,280 --> 01:25:16,880
Speaker 3: correct tigers go dogger. Great pod this week had to

1815
01:25:16,880 --> 01:25:19,639
Speaker 3: do the email because I don't have Instagram or Twitter.

1816
01:25:19,840 --> 01:25:22,439
Speaker 3: I'm a proud member of PT Sichos with the thirteen

1817
01:25:22,439 --> 01:25:25,360
Speaker 3: month old boy. He's been the best thing that's ever

1818
01:25:25,400 --> 01:25:29,280
Speaker 3: happened to me and my wife in a mentor of mine,

1819
01:25:29,360 --> 01:25:32,240
Speaker 3: gave me some good advice when he was born. Y'all

1820
01:25:32,280 --> 01:25:35,960
Speaker 3: touched up on it this episode, so figured i'd share.

1821
01:25:36,680 --> 01:25:38,880
Speaker 3: He said, keep a journal and write to him whenever

1822
01:25:38,960 --> 01:25:42,719
Speaker 3: something you want to remember for him happens. I address

1823
01:25:42,800 --> 01:25:47,080
Speaker 3: each journal entry to Shepherd, our son's name with the date.

1824
01:25:47,600 --> 01:25:49,639
Speaker 3: I'll tell him about the day, or what he did

1825
01:25:49,680 --> 01:25:52,360
Speaker 3: that was hilarious, or something we are proud of, and

1826
01:25:52,479 --> 01:25:55,400
Speaker 3: just write till I feel like stopping. For example, the

1827
01:25:55,400 --> 01:25:57,920
Speaker 3: most recent one was him stealing all the cookies during

1828
01:25:58,000 --> 01:26:01,639
Speaker 3: naptime at daycare while everybody else was sleeping, and eating

1829
01:26:01,680 --> 01:26:05,000
Speaker 3: every single one. That earned him the nickname cookie Monster.

1830
01:26:05,680 --> 01:26:08,519
Speaker 3: Memories like that is what I write about. Adaptive to

1831
01:26:08,520 --> 01:26:11,160
Speaker 3: make it easier to remember to write it in is

1832
01:26:11,200 --> 01:26:13,120
Speaker 3: to keep the journal right next to your bed, on

1833
01:26:13,160 --> 01:26:16,519
Speaker 3: your night's sand It's as much for us as it

1834
01:26:16,600 --> 01:26:19,879
Speaker 3: is for him to look back on when he's older. Anyway,

1835
01:26:19,960 --> 01:26:22,439
Speaker 3: feel free to share this or not up to y'all.

1836
01:26:22,560 --> 01:26:26,000
Speaker 3: We just did. Just wanted to pass it along that

1837
01:26:26,160 --> 01:26:28,599
Speaker 3: it is something I've really enjoyed doing, and I recommend

1838
01:26:28,640 --> 01:26:31,080
Speaker 3: it to any of my friends who are expecting God

1839
01:26:31,120 --> 01:26:34,759
Speaker 3: bless looking forward to the next pod. Take the trash

1840
01:26:34,800 --> 01:26:37,120
Speaker 3: out send by my iPhone.

1841
01:26:38,000 --> 01:26:41,080
Speaker 2: Love that that is awesome. What's the what are the odds?

1842
01:26:41,840 --> 01:26:43,679
Speaker 3: What are the odds is he was doing it before

1843
01:26:43,680 --> 01:26:46,800
Speaker 3: we even brought it up on the show. That's crazy.

1844
01:26:47,200 --> 01:26:48,160
Speaker 3: What are the odds of that?

1845
01:26:48,560 --> 01:26:50,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, what are the odds of that? I don't know

1846
01:26:50,200 --> 01:26:52,960
Speaker 2: what those odds are. Shut Out, shut outvandul. Come on,

1847
01:26:53,040 --> 01:26:54,040
Speaker 2: let's do fifty.

1848
01:26:53,920 --> 01:26:54,839
Speaker 3: Plus do fifty.

1849
01:26:56,960 --> 01:27:01,000
Speaker 1: Survival kid, Yeah, yeah, yeah, Well my SUPERVIOV kid was

1850
01:27:01,040 --> 01:27:01,799
Speaker 1: Pootober Mergers.

1851
01:27:01,880 --> 01:27:05,040
Speaker 3: That's right, all the shows and movies. I have a

1852
01:27:05,040 --> 01:27:09,679
Speaker 3: good survival kid. A playpin. We have a playpin for

1853
01:27:10,040 --> 01:27:13,280
Speaker 3: Scarlet now in the living room, and it's like fully

1854
01:27:13,360 --> 01:27:16,840
Speaker 3: fenced off. Jill, I believe bought it at Target. This

1855
01:27:17,000 --> 01:27:23,200
Speaker 3: is not like some crazy brand. It's affordable. It's pretty big,

1856
01:27:23,520 --> 01:27:25,920
Speaker 3: I would say, like the size of like an area rug.

1857
01:27:27,840 --> 01:27:32,200
Speaker 3: In Scarlet, she loved playing in her nursery. But in

1858
01:27:32,280 --> 01:27:35,000
Speaker 3: that playpin, dude, I don't know what it is, but

1859
01:27:35,080 --> 01:27:37,719
Speaker 3: it's like she knows that that's like her little world.

1860
01:27:38,120 --> 01:27:40,720
Speaker 3: And we have like different play mats like laid out

1861
01:27:40,720 --> 01:27:42,640
Speaker 3: in there. We have like a little tint playing that.

1862
01:27:43,400 --> 01:27:46,360
Speaker 3: We got her little unicorns and butterflies hanging from stuff,

1863
01:27:46,400 --> 01:27:49,800
Speaker 3: and I set her down. This morning, I was in

1864
01:27:49,840 --> 01:27:54,719
Speaker 3: the kitchen making breakfast, moving operating, cleaning, bottles making bottles.

1865
01:27:55,479 --> 01:27:57,559
Speaker 3: I did not have to touch her a single time

1866
01:27:57,920 --> 01:28:00,439
Speaker 3: for like thirty minutes. She just that in there and

1867
01:28:00,600 --> 01:28:03,519
Speaker 3: was like, ah, it was awesome.

1868
01:28:04,000 --> 01:28:04,439
Speaker 2: I love that.

1869
01:28:04,800 --> 01:28:06,599
Speaker 3: Highly advised, highly advised.

1870
01:28:06,640 --> 01:28:08,360
Speaker 2: I want to get a playpin. Wife won't let me

1871
01:28:08,400 --> 01:28:09,000
Speaker 2: get one.

1872
01:28:09,000 --> 01:28:10,920
Speaker 1: Oh really, just because there's a lot of stuff in

1873
01:28:10,920 --> 01:28:14,519
Speaker 1: the house and she just you know, y'all's living love.

1874
01:28:14,560 --> 01:28:16,040
Speaker 2: I grew up on the road, grass bro, they had

1875
01:28:16,120 --> 01:28:16,599
Speaker 2: the playpin.

1876
01:28:16,760 --> 01:28:20,519
Speaker 3: Yes, dude, y'all's living room is very similar to ours. Yeah,

1877
01:28:20,560 --> 01:28:23,519
Speaker 3: we had like we don't have the coffee table in

1878
01:28:23,560 --> 01:28:26,439
Speaker 3: there anymore. We had to move all of our furniture out,

1879
01:28:26,600 --> 01:28:29,240
Speaker 3: like it. It has taken over our living room right

1880
01:28:29,400 --> 01:28:32,599
Speaker 3: right to Toro's point, Like, I get that because.

1881
01:28:32,360 --> 01:28:34,360
Speaker 2: That's why I got a barricade ship up dude.

1882
01:28:34,680 --> 01:28:38,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, dude, you could get one up in the upstairs.

1883
01:28:39,320 --> 01:28:41,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, but you know we got that, like uh my

1884
01:28:41,920 --> 01:28:44,720
Speaker 1: brother God bless him, love the gift. Rude loved it.

1885
01:28:44,800 --> 01:28:47,599
Speaker 1: But the little ball pit, but the balls get everywhere.

1886
01:28:47,640 --> 01:28:50,360
Speaker 1: So we we got enough stuff up there. Yea.

1887
01:28:50,439 --> 01:28:52,959
Speaker 2: So it's like we got those those cushions.

1888
01:28:52,960 --> 01:28:55,200
Speaker 1: It's like they're like cushions, but you can like build

1889
01:28:55,240 --> 01:28:56,880
Speaker 1: forts and stuff with these cushions.

1890
01:28:57,160 --> 01:28:59,280
Speaker 3: Those are the ones that Reve's always jumping on, right.

1891
01:28:59,240 --> 01:29:00,639
Speaker 2: Yeah, she's small.

1892
01:29:00,800 --> 01:29:02,800
Speaker 1: When she's small enough, she thinks it's a slide or

1893
01:29:02,840 --> 01:29:04,840
Speaker 1: supposed to be putting the slide for him. But yeah,

1894
01:29:04,840 --> 01:29:07,240
Speaker 1: she's like jumping all around on it. We got the

1895
01:29:07,240 --> 01:29:08,840
Speaker 1: bean bag up there. We got a lot of like

1896
01:29:08,880 --> 01:29:11,439
Speaker 1: the Monassory toys, and she's got like the work bench,

1897
01:29:12,520 --> 01:29:14,320
Speaker 1: like she's got a lot of stuff up there. Yeah,

1898
01:29:14,320 --> 01:29:17,280
Speaker 1: like she's got the thing that we bought. It's like

1899
01:29:17,320 --> 01:29:19,639
Speaker 1: a it's like a tent set, but you can build

1900
01:29:19,640 --> 01:29:20,960
Speaker 1: it into a lot of different things. Like you can

1901
01:29:20,960 --> 01:29:23,840
Speaker 1: build into like a puppet show. You can build it

1902
01:29:23,840 --> 01:29:27,120
Speaker 1: into like a restaurant. You can build it into just

1903
01:29:27,160 --> 01:29:30,240
Speaker 1: like a tent, like a long little tent thing. Sounds sick. Yeah,

1904
01:29:30,240 --> 01:29:33,640
Speaker 1: it's fun and we you know, we have we have

1905
01:29:34,280 --> 01:29:36,280
Speaker 1: enough stuff to war. When you're up in that bonus room,

1906
01:29:36,320 --> 01:29:38,200
Speaker 1: you know, I can just like slide the door shut,

1907
01:29:38,840 --> 01:29:41,000
Speaker 1: and that's like the play area.

1908
01:29:40,520 --> 01:29:43,519
Speaker 3: It's the main cave until Waffle comes out. I don't

1909
01:29:43,560 --> 01:29:45,439
Speaker 3: know how Waffle slides that door open.

1910
01:29:46,080 --> 01:29:48,280
Speaker 2: She does. We're actual He's banging on it until it

1911
01:29:48,320 --> 01:29:48,960
Speaker 2: opens it up.

1912
01:29:50,000 --> 01:29:52,120
Speaker 1: Bulldog it's like we don't have it locked in where

1913
01:29:52,160 --> 01:29:54,000
Speaker 1: it's on the bottom, like that part broke, so it's

1914
01:29:54,000 --> 01:29:56,160
Speaker 1: like one of those slide doors, but it can like

1915
01:29:56,280 --> 01:29:59,000
Speaker 1: come out, you know what I mean and waffle just

1916
01:29:59,040 --> 01:30:02,440
Speaker 1: like run her head on it until they're like wiggles

1917
01:30:02,439 --> 01:30:04,360
Speaker 1: to where she can get a little snout and like

1918
01:30:04,439 --> 01:30:05,439
Speaker 1: move it to get in there.

1919
01:30:05,840 --> 01:30:07,639
Speaker 3: This is my first time hanging out at Will's house.

1920
01:30:07,680 --> 01:30:10,479
Speaker 3: I just see the door in the crowd just as

1921
01:30:10,479 --> 01:30:12,280
Speaker 3: he's like talking to me and I'm trying to like

1922
01:30:12,560 --> 01:30:16,320
Speaker 3: keep my I'm like, dude, there's a ghost up here.

1923
01:30:16,439 --> 01:30:18,320
Speaker 3: It's your doors just going ewing.

1924
01:30:20,680 --> 01:30:21,599
Speaker 2: That's a good. That's a good.

1925
01:30:21,680 --> 01:30:23,880
Speaker 1: That's a good tip like building on that survival kit

1926
01:30:23,960 --> 01:30:25,840
Speaker 1: for like what you know for young parents or if

1927
01:30:25,880 --> 01:30:28,920
Speaker 1: you're expecting. The reason I like love I love that

1928
01:30:29,040 --> 01:30:32,120
Speaker 1: idea is because routine is so crucial for kids and

1929
01:30:32,160 --> 01:30:34,800
Speaker 1: then like getting understanding what they're gonna be getting into

1930
01:30:34,920 --> 01:30:37,599
Speaker 1: like each different time of the day. Uh So that

1931
01:30:37,680 --> 01:30:40,719
Speaker 1: play area, that little playpin area is like she knows

1932
01:30:40,760 --> 01:30:43,720
Speaker 1: it's playtime when you're keeping them on routine where you

1933
01:30:43,760 --> 01:30:46,120
Speaker 1: feed them, you burp them, if you're gonna give them

1934
01:30:46,160 --> 01:30:48,680
Speaker 1: either tummy time, or playtime. They know putting them in

1935
01:30:48,720 --> 01:30:50,759
Speaker 1: the pin or putting them in their area of play.

1936
01:30:51,040 --> 01:30:54,080
Speaker 1: They know it's playtime. Or like when you're going for

1937
01:30:54,200 --> 01:30:56,920
Speaker 1: the nighttime routine and you know, you close the curtains,

1938
01:30:56,920 --> 01:30:58,720
Speaker 1: you put the little sound machine on, or if it's

1939
01:30:58,720 --> 01:31:00,760
Speaker 1: a little night light, whatever it is. You're getting them

1940
01:31:00,840 --> 01:31:03,640
Speaker 1: their PJS on first, Like for us, it's getting their

1941
01:31:03,640 --> 01:31:06,280
Speaker 1: pjs off, or you change them, get their pjs on first.

1942
01:31:06,320 --> 01:31:08,479
Speaker 1: You got the little you got the little noise playing

1943
01:31:08,560 --> 01:31:11,240
Speaker 1: like you're getting them ready for bedtime. They know they're

1944
01:31:11,240 --> 01:31:13,559
Speaker 1: locking in okay, this is the part of the day

1945
01:31:13,600 --> 01:31:17,040
Speaker 1: where they're, you know, expected training me to sleep through

1946
01:31:17,080 --> 01:31:20,760
Speaker 1: the night. You're getting them prep for bedtime. Same with

1947
01:31:20,880 --> 01:31:23,040
Speaker 1: nap time. You're getting them in the mode of whatever

1948
01:31:23,080 --> 01:31:25,880
Speaker 1: the routine is or the habits are around that time.

1949
01:31:25,960 --> 01:31:29,479
Speaker 1: Same with again your survival kit, the playpin area. Their

1950
01:31:29,520 --> 01:31:31,840
Speaker 1: brain is getting prepped for. It is playtime. This is

1951
01:31:31,880 --> 01:31:34,639
Speaker 1: where I go. They set me down, They play with

1952
01:31:34,720 --> 01:31:37,120
Speaker 1: me dad, Her mama's doing stuff like I have enough

1953
01:31:37,120 --> 01:31:37,920
Speaker 1: things to occupy me.

1954
01:31:37,960 --> 01:31:38,679
Speaker 2: It's time to play.

1955
01:31:38,760 --> 01:31:41,880
Speaker 3: Yes, Her eyes start moving as soon as her back

1956
01:31:41,960 --> 01:31:44,439
Speaker 3: touches that play matt. Her her eyes are moving she's

1957
01:31:44,600 --> 01:31:47,639
Speaker 3: smiling because she's like, Oh, this is when y'all roll

1958
01:31:47,720 --> 01:31:51,080
Speaker 3: me around and do the calls it the rotisserie chicken

1959
01:31:51,479 --> 01:31:53,200
Speaker 3: where you push your legs in and we kind of

1960
01:31:53,320 --> 01:31:56,280
Speaker 3: move her side to side and we make our hands

1961
01:31:56,280 --> 01:31:59,400
Speaker 3: and her feet touch on you know, the sides.

1962
01:31:59,160 --> 01:32:01,080
Speaker 1: You get the little I forget what it's called, but

1963
01:32:01,200 --> 01:32:04,920
Speaker 1: the like the player where it's like it's almost like

1964
01:32:05,360 --> 01:32:07,280
Speaker 1: it's like a matt and it's got the things hanging

1965
01:32:07,360 --> 01:32:09,479
Speaker 1: up top of it and they're just on and kind

1966
01:32:09,479 --> 01:32:13,440
Speaker 1: of looking and.

1967
01:32:11,560 --> 01:32:12,360
Speaker 8: And it rips.

1968
01:32:12,720 --> 01:32:15,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, she loves the one that we got from Kiwi Ko.

1969
01:32:16,000 --> 01:32:17,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, it ribs.

1970
01:32:18,479 --> 01:32:21,479
Speaker 3: She got her daddy's bows too. When I'm doing those

1971
01:32:21,520 --> 01:32:23,840
Speaker 3: little rotisserie chicken, she.

1972
01:32:23,920 --> 01:32:26,400
Speaker 1: Got her daddy's bout daddy's boughs. Got his daddy's boughs

1973
01:32:26,439 --> 01:32:28,280
Speaker 1: because you'd be walking. You've got the bag of Chick

1974
01:32:28,320 --> 01:32:29,920
Speaker 1: fil a in different fast food.

1975
01:32:31,240 --> 01:32:39,360
Speaker 3: She got her daddy Like all the time when we're

1976
01:32:39,360 --> 01:32:41,920
Speaker 3: doing this, I have a I have a fun dad hack.

1977
01:32:42,560 --> 01:32:44,040
Speaker 2: What's your dad? Fun dad hack?

1978
01:32:44,080 --> 01:32:46,880
Speaker 1: For parents that struggle getting their kids to eat, uh,

1979
01:32:47,160 --> 01:32:50,519
Speaker 1: using fun at dinner time because I'll get at the

1980
01:32:50,560 --> 01:32:52,800
Speaker 1: age where it's always a negotiation, always a battle to

1981
01:32:52,840 --> 01:32:55,519
Speaker 1: get her eating food because we'll always finish first, and

1982
01:32:55,520 --> 01:32:57,000
Speaker 1: you're kind of sitting there, real, please, for the love

1983
01:32:57,040 --> 01:32:58,760
Speaker 1: of God, eat your chicken, eat your broccol eat this,

1984
01:32:58,800 --> 01:33:01,640
Speaker 1: eat that's he's just a minute. Anything you put in

1985
01:33:01,680 --> 01:33:04,280
Speaker 1: front of her, she's letting you know. She's putting it down.

1986
01:33:04,360 --> 01:33:06,799
Speaker 1: She like sure, but a fun thing I came across,

1987
01:33:06,840 --> 01:33:09,240
Speaker 1: like last night as I'm sitting there, We're trying to

1988
01:33:09,240 --> 01:33:10,840
Speaker 1: get Root eat her food because it was kind of

1989
01:33:10,880 --> 01:33:13,320
Speaker 1: like a like a coconut chicken that we had had

1990
01:33:14,040 --> 01:33:16,439
Speaker 1: and she didn't want to eat it. And I start

1991
01:33:16,560 --> 01:33:18,679
Speaker 1: bothering her, like, you know, rue can't eat your food.

1992
01:33:18,720 --> 01:33:19,840
Speaker 2: She know I don't want to eat my food.

1993
01:33:19,840 --> 01:33:21,000
Speaker 1: And then I get to where I'm tickling her, but

1994
01:33:21,040 --> 01:33:23,160
Speaker 1: she's not in the mood to have fun and play.

1995
01:33:23,400 --> 01:33:25,840
Speaker 1: She's like stop, stop, and she's like putting her hand

1996
01:33:25,880 --> 01:33:28,840
Speaker 1: pushing me away. In the minute, she like put her

1997
01:33:28,880 --> 01:33:30,800
Speaker 1: hand up to keep me away from going at her

1998
01:33:30,840 --> 01:33:32,439
Speaker 1: to where it's like, oh, here comes the tickle monster

1999
01:33:32,479 --> 01:33:33,920
Speaker 1: if you don't eat your food, and she's getting to

2000
01:33:33,960 --> 01:33:36,479
Speaker 1: w her She's not into that anymore. Where it's like

2001
01:33:36,560 --> 01:33:38,680
Speaker 1: that's not gonna get me to eat my food, like, oh,

2002
01:33:38,680 --> 01:33:40,519
Speaker 1: tickle monster's gonna get you. Better eat you food for

2003
01:33:40,560 --> 01:33:42,519
Speaker 1: the tickle monster gets you. She would when she's younger,

2004
01:33:42,560 --> 01:33:45,320
Speaker 1: she would eat before the tickle monster would get her.

2005
01:33:45,320 --> 01:33:47,400
Speaker 1: That was one fun way of using dinner time to

2006
01:33:47,400 --> 01:33:49,240
Speaker 1: get her to eat your food. Now it's turned into

2007
01:33:50,520 --> 01:33:52,120
Speaker 1: like tickle monster come to get you, and she's like

2008
01:33:52,160 --> 01:33:55,479
Speaker 1: she starts getting pissy with me, like, no, Dad, I'm.

2009
01:33:55,280 --> 01:33:56,519
Speaker 2: Not gonna eat my food. I don't want to eat

2010
01:33:56,520 --> 01:33:57,360
Speaker 2: my food. I'm like, all right.

2011
01:33:57,840 --> 01:33:59,439
Speaker 1: So when she put her hand up to stop me

2012
01:33:59,479 --> 01:34:04,080
Speaker 1: from coming and I went into Darth Vader choke, I

2013
01:34:04,120 --> 01:34:06,040
Speaker 1: went into dark bag. She puts her hand up choking.

2014
01:34:06,080 --> 01:34:11,840
Speaker 1: I was like, and you know, she kind of like

2015
01:34:11,880 --> 01:34:14,040
Speaker 1: her face starts to break. And once she puts her

2016
01:34:14,040 --> 01:34:17,240
Speaker 1: hand on stof, I'm like, oh, you can't be doing that,

2017
01:34:17,360 --> 01:34:19,760
Speaker 1: or you're gonna you're gonna force choke me. And Scottie

2018
01:34:19,800 --> 01:34:21,600
Speaker 1: goes over there and starts reaching it because she's like

2019
01:34:21,680 --> 01:34:23,400
Speaker 1: laughing or playing and she just like puts her hands

2020
01:34:23,479 --> 01:34:26,320
Speaker 1: up just to reach randomly. You know. When she does,

2021
01:34:26,360 --> 01:34:29,760
Speaker 1: I was like, oh no, Roof starts to get a

2022
01:34:29,760 --> 01:34:32,880
Speaker 1: crack of a smile and then she puts her hand

2023
01:34:32,880 --> 01:34:33,720
Speaker 1: on my here comes go on.

2024
01:34:33,840 --> 01:34:37,000
Speaker 2: She puts it up and I'm like until she puts

2025
01:34:37,000 --> 01:34:39,559
Speaker 2: it down, I'm like, oh, oh.

2026
01:34:39,240 --> 01:34:41,080
Speaker 1: That got us in the mode of play to where

2027
01:34:41,160 --> 01:34:42,720
Speaker 1: I would grab her hand up back. You can't put

2028
01:34:42,760 --> 01:34:45,040
Speaker 1: your hand up or Dad is gonna choke again, Like, please,

2029
01:34:45,439 --> 01:34:47,080
Speaker 1: just eat it bout of it before you do it again.

2030
01:34:47,240 --> 01:34:48,880
Speaker 1: Just eat it out of your food. You can choke

2031
01:34:48,960 --> 01:34:51,600
Speaker 1: me again. She eat a bout of her food and

2032
01:34:51,600 --> 01:34:54,639
Speaker 1: then it's boom and then I'm like, I'm like, I'm

2033
01:34:54,680 --> 01:34:59,120
Speaker 1: lifting myselful out of the chair and she puts out like,

2034
01:34:59,120 --> 01:35:01,920
Speaker 1: oh all right, we can keep doing this. Dad is

2035
01:35:01,920 --> 01:35:03,880
Speaker 1: starting to get tired because it's really starting to hurt.

2036
01:35:03,960 --> 01:35:05,360
Speaker 1: But we can keep doing this. You just eat a

2037
01:35:05,320 --> 01:35:06,719
Speaker 1: bit of your food. She eats it bity of her food,

2038
01:35:06,720 --> 01:35:08,240
Speaker 1: and it's like, all right, you're onto something. So that's

2039
01:35:08,280 --> 01:35:10,160
Speaker 1: a way to make dinner time fun that you eat

2040
01:35:10,200 --> 01:35:12,600
Speaker 1: your food, because as a parent, you'll start getting it

2041
01:35:12,680 --> 01:35:14,880
Speaker 1: appens to us more often than not. But you get

2042
01:35:14,880 --> 01:35:19,080
Speaker 1: frustrated and then I'll leverage your cookie, y'all. I've gotten

2043
01:35:19,120 --> 01:35:19,760
Speaker 1: that down to a t.

2044
01:35:20,040 --> 01:35:20,719
Speaker 3: Hey good.

2045
01:35:20,760 --> 01:35:21,800
Speaker 2: You don't have to eat your food.

2046
01:35:21,880 --> 01:35:23,240
Speaker 1: You just you know what time it is if you

2047
01:35:23,240 --> 01:35:27,600
Speaker 1: don't eat your food, CPC, CPC, And I'll hit her

2048
01:35:27,640 --> 01:35:29,519
Speaker 1: with that. I'll be like, sweetheart, it's okay, she don't

2049
01:35:29,520 --> 01:35:31,320
Speaker 1: have to eat your food. And I'm like, you can

2050
01:35:31,360 --> 01:35:32,639
Speaker 1: go over there and so on the couch, do whatever

2051
01:35:32,680 --> 01:35:34,360
Speaker 1: you want. You don't have to teach your food and

2052
01:35:34,479 --> 01:35:36,599
Speaker 1: kind of a cookie. You know, you know you don't

2053
01:35:36,600 --> 01:35:39,120
Speaker 1: get a cookie. You eat your food, you get a cookie. Yeah,

2054
01:35:39,240 --> 01:35:42,280
Speaker 1: so it's you, it's your choice. You don't have to eat.

2055
01:35:42,400 --> 01:35:45,880
Speaker 1: And that's I mean, that is that works. But the

2056
01:35:45,920 --> 01:35:48,080
Speaker 1: way to have fun, to kind of get your impatience

2057
01:35:48,120 --> 01:35:50,000
Speaker 1: out of it, or to turn it into a fun game,

2058
01:35:50,479 --> 01:35:53,480
Speaker 1: that's a new one I found is getting force choked.

2059
01:35:53,640 --> 01:35:57,320
Speaker 3: I cannot wait for here. In like two months, she's

2060
01:35:57,360 --> 01:35:59,800
Speaker 3: gonna be at soccer practice. One of those boys is

2061
01:36:00,120 --> 01:36:03,200
Speaker 3: got a rough houser bump into her. You're just gonna

2062
01:36:03,200 --> 01:36:05,280
Speaker 3: be walked and watching from afar and you're just gonna

2063
01:36:05,280 --> 01:36:08,679
Speaker 3: see her go the kids.

2064
01:36:08,720 --> 01:36:11,200
Speaker 1: Well, what's funny is at first she thought it was

2065
01:36:11,240 --> 01:36:11,960
Speaker 1: really happening.

2066
01:36:12,040 --> 01:36:14,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, like she thought she had the power.

2067
01:36:14,360 --> 01:36:16,559
Speaker 1: And then Scotty was you know when she randomly like

2068
01:36:16,640 --> 01:36:18,920
Speaker 1: lifts her arms up like, oh, rouh, Scotty's doing it

2069
01:36:18,960 --> 01:36:21,600
Speaker 1: to you, and Rude just like looks at me and

2070
01:36:21,600 --> 01:36:24,640
Speaker 1: I'm like, is it not working? She's like no, I'm like,

2071
01:36:24,720 --> 01:36:26,920
Speaker 1: you gotta pretend. You have to pretend. And then Ruth

2072
01:36:26,960 --> 01:36:29,000
Speaker 1: started like pretending. H kind of get her sense of

2073
01:36:29,080 --> 01:36:31,120
Speaker 1: humor going a little bit. He come on, boy, to

2074
01:36:31,160 --> 01:36:33,120
Speaker 1: make dinner fun as a dad hack to get your

2075
01:36:33,160 --> 01:36:33,679
Speaker 1: kids to eat.

2076
01:36:33,960 --> 01:36:36,840
Speaker 3: I love that dad hack. You made me do a

2077
01:36:36,880 --> 01:36:38,880
Speaker 3: different dad hack than what I had written down. This

2078
01:36:38,920 --> 01:36:43,960
Speaker 3: actually happened yesterday when JJ was here, which is Jeremy's son.

2079
01:36:44,600 --> 01:36:46,760
Speaker 3: They asked him five or six times if he needed

2080
01:36:46,800 --> 01:36:48,600
Speaker 3: to go potty, because he kept on kind of you know,

2081
01:36:48,640 --> 01:36:51,000
Speaker 3: putting his legs together, putting his hands down there, showing

2082
01:36:51,040 --> 01:36:54,600
Speaker 3: all signs that he did indeed need to body. But

2083
01:36:54,840 --> 01:36:58,600
Speaker 3: his answer remained, no, do not need to potty. So

2084
01:36:58,760 --> 01:37:00,800
Speaker 3: finally they asked someone last time, hey, do you need

2085
01:37:00,840 --> 01:37:05,160
Speaker 3: to potty? And I abruptly interrupted. I said, no, JJ,

2086
01:37:05,280 --> 01:37:07,559
Speaker 3: you can't go party. I'm going potty first. You can

2087
01:37:07,560 --> 01:37:11,639
Speaker 3: go after me, and he was like no, I cant

2088
01:37:11,720 --> 01:37:18,920
Speaker 3: get Oh you better beat me, Yeah, you better beat me. Competition. Yeah,

2089
01:37:19,080 --> 01:37:19,639
Speaker 3: they ain't going.

2090
01:37:20,320 --> 01:37:24,200
Speaker 1: Because as dads as parents, because dads are more often

2091
01:37:24,240 --> 01:37:29,320
Speaker 1: seen as like the fun one. You gotta continue to

2092
01:37:29,360 --> 01:37:32,160
Speaker 1: create because you're I'm already feeling that the times were

2093
01:37:32,240 --> 01:37:35,080
Speaker 1: rus not into things I used to do, and I'll

2094
01:37:35,080 --> 01:37:37,799
Speaker 1: annoy her, and then I see it as a challenge

2095
01:37:37,800 --> 01:37:39,719
Speaker 1: like Okay, I'm gonna figure you out at some point,

2096
01:37:40,280 --> 01:37:42,320
Speaker 1: and yesterday tap it into the forest choke.

2097
01:37:42,360 --> 01:37:44,160
Speaker 2: I'm I almost see if this one works.

2098
01:37:44,760 --> 01:37:47,280
Speaker 1: Because I'm not able to break her wall of like

2099
01:37:47,320 --> 01:37:49,320
Speaker 1: having fun when I'm like tickle mass or I'm gonna

2100
01:37:49,320 --> 01:37:51,000
Speaker 1: get it, get you or whatever it is.

2101
01:37:51,200 --> 01:37:52,600
Speaker 2: Like, all right, she seems to be over that.

2102
01:37:52,720 --> 01:37:55,360
Speaker 1: How can I continue to make this fun?

2103
01:37:55,439 --> 01:37:58,360
Speaker 2: Dads have to continue to create? Bro, Yes dude.

2104
01:37:58,280 --> 01:38:01,599
Speaker 3: Also reminds me of oh yeah, we are. We are

2105
01:38:01,880 --> 01:38:03,720
Speaker 3: running it. We're not out of time, but we are

2106
01:38:03,880 --> 01:38:05,840
Speaker 3: cutting it close. We are cutting it close.

2107
01:38:05,920 --> 01:38:07,200
Speaker 2: Okay, gotta keep it under an hour.

2108
01:38:07,200 --> 01:38:09,479
Speaker 3: Gotta keep onder an hour. I'll sho. I'll save the

2109
01:38:09,520 --> 01:38:11,519
Speaker 3: story that I was gonna tell for another.

2110
01:38:11,600 --> 01:38:13,360
Speaker 2: Sude, you don't want to tell it.

2111
01:38:14,600 --> 01:38:18,000
Speaker 3: My mom used to when we were leaving for school.

2112
01:38:18,760 --> 01:38:21,080
Speaker 3: We had really bad attitudes in the morning, and so

2113
01:38:21,160 --> 01:38:24,000
Speaker 3: to make us excited for school, we weren't allowed to

2114
01:38:24,200 --> 01:38:26,519
Speaker 3: drive out of the driveway until she made a shot

2115
01:38:26,600 --> 01:38:31,080
Speaker 3: in the driveway basket like basketball hoop. And it was

2116
01:38:31,120 --> 01:38:33,360
Speaker 3: really it did make like mornings really fun because she

2117
01:38:33,400 --> 01:38:35,599
Speaker 3: would like purposely miss like the first three times. We'd

2118
01:38:35,600 --> 01:38:38,160
Speaker 3: be like, Mom, make it, we're gonna be late to school,

2119
01:38:38,160 --> 01:38:41,400
Speaker 3: so I'm trying. I'm trying. It's fun. It was. It

2120
01:38:41,479 --> 01:38:44,760
Speaker 3: was a good little like you guys, uh huh to.

2121
01:38:44,720 --> 01:38:46,679
Speaker 2: Get her going a motivator. You know we're gonna be late.

2122
01:38:46,880 --> 01:38:48,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, we do it.

2123
01:38:48,160 --> 01:38:53,000
Speaker 1: Mom, shut up, shut up, Mama, shut up, Mama, sure, shut.

2124
01:38:52,760 --> 01:38:58,479
Speaker 3: Out, Miss Amy. This okay. So six on one the Dads.

2125
01:38:58,400 --> 01:39:01,360
Speaker 2: Yes, we had the dads one, the Dad's.

2126
01:39:01,200 --> 01:39:03,120
Speaker 3: Six on one the Dads. Make sure you call in.

2127
01:39:03,280 --> 01:39:07,120
Speaker 3: We will play your call in on the episode. We'll

2128
01:39:07,240 --> 01:39:09,680
Speaker 3: interact with it. We'll answer if it's a question, if

2129
01:39:09,720 --> 01:39:11,960
Speaker 3: it's a funny story, we'll talk about it, and you

2130
01:39:12,000 --> 01:39:17,599
Speaker 3: will receive free for the Dad's merch. Excuse me. If

2131
01:39:17,640 --> 01:39:19,519
Speaker 3: you were selected for the show, and if you're an

2132
01:39:19,520 --> 01:39:24,000
Speaker 3: international listener, six o Onethedads at gmail dot.

2133
01:39:23,800 --> 01:39:26,160
Speaker 2: Com, write us an email, yes, write.

2134
01:39:26,000 --> 01:39:28,920
Speaker 3: Us email, And that's where these emails have been coming from.

2135
01:39:29,360 --> 01:39:30,840
Speaker 9: Have been coming from that, just to call out to

2136
01:39:31,120 --> 01:39:33,200
Speaker 9: for everybody. I got a DM on X from a

2137
01:39:33,200 --> 01:39:35,920
Speaker 9: gentleman saying should I send this here or the email?

2138
01:39:36,080 --> 01:39:37,960
Speaker 9: We listen to everything. If you have a longer story,

2139
01:39:37,960 --> 01:39:39,880
Speaker 9: feel free to email it. We sit down with the

2140
01:39:39,880 --> 01:39:41,720
Speaker 9: emails and kind of go through. I know that X

2141
01:39:41,800 --> 01:39:43,840
Speaker 9: is a little tough there, so longer stories feel free

2142
01:39:43,840 --> 01:39:46,559
Speaker 9: to email. For local but international, Yes, six on one,

2143
01:39:46,680 --> 01:39:47,400
Speaker 9: I like that.

2144
01:39:47,400 --> 01:39:52,680
Speaker 3: That's a good call. All right, here's our first caller. Uh,

2145
01:39:52,760 --> 01:39:55,560
Speaker 3: this one's bleeped out. It looks like it says sleeping motherfucker.

2146
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Speaker 7: So what's our boys?

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01:39:59,520 --> 01:39:59,800
Speaker 1: Will?

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01:40:00,760 --> 01:40:04,640
Speaker 7: I love the show, Papa Team six remember here. Just

2149
01:40:04,680 --> 01:40:08,439
Speaker 7: call it T dubs from from Oregon. I've got a

2150
01:40:08,920 --> 01:40:12,920
Speaker 7: motherfuck story for you guys, from the birthing of my daughter.

2151
01:40:13,840 --> 01:40:15,680
Speaker 7: Kind of keep it short and sweet. We'd had a

2152
01:40:15,800 --> 01:40:23,360
Speaker 7: long delivery process. She was induced at like noon, and

2153
01:40:23,520 --> 01:40:26,160
Speaker 7: we didn't sleep the night before. We'd been up all

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01:40:26,280 --> 01:40:30,080
Speaker 7: night and it was like two in the morning and

2155
01:40:30,320 --> 01:40:31,919
Speaker 7: I had just gone down to the vending.

2156
01:40:31,720 --> 01:40:33,000
Speaker 3: Machine to get some snacks.

2157
01:40:33,840 --> 01:40:36,360
Speaker 7: I came back, had my snacks, and I was on

2158
01:40:36,400 --> 01:40:40,639
Speaker 7: the couch where I actually earned my my my couch stripes,

2159
01:40:42,840 --> 01:40:46,680
Speaker 7: laying on the couch. I dozed off and I was

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01:40:46,720 --> 01:40:51,439
Speaker 7: awoken by the nurses telling my wife to remember to

2161
01:40:51,479 --> 01:40:55,760
Speaker 7: breathe and push, breathe and push, and I woke up

2162
01:40:56,000 --> 01:40:57,800
Speaker 7: like I was getting shot at.

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01:40:59,160 --> 01:40:59,760
Speaker 2: I woke up.

2164
01:40:59,800 --> 01:41:02,920
Speaker 7: I jumped up and I ran over there, and the

2165
01:41:03,040 --> 01:41:06,799
Speaker 7: nurses were fucking with me because I had fallen asleep

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01:41:06,880 --> 01:41:10,759
Speaker 7: on the couch for like an hour. And I, needless

2167
01:41:10,760 --> 01:41:15,400
Speaker 7: to say, I was up until like five fifty when

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01:41:15,439 --> 01:41:17,800
Speaker 7: my daughter was born. I was up the next day

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01:41:17,880 --> 01:41:22,759
Speaker 7: until by eight o'clock that night. But I love the show, guys.

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01:41:22,920 --> 01:41:25,280
Speaker 7: I appreciate all the tips. You guys are really hitting

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01:41:25,320 --> 01:41:27,080
Speaker 7: home on some of these, So just keep up the

2172
01:41:27,120 --> 01:41:29,360
Speaker 7: good work and remember to take the trash out.

2173
01:41:29,680 --> 01:41:31,719
Speaker 2: Oh dude, I love that. That is funny.

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01:41:32,280 --> 01:41:36,639
Speaker 1: That Yeah, that's tough for tea, but totally fair.

2175
01:41:38,920 --> 01:41:40,160
Speaker 2: That's awesome, dude.

2176
01:41:40,160 --> 01:41:41,960
Speaker 3: Those nurses are hilarious.

2177
01:41:42,080 --> 01:41:45,200
Speaker 1: Nurses your wife like, let's fuck with him. Look at

2178
01:41:45,280 --> 01:41:47,000
Speaker 1: him over there, snoozing.

2179
01:41:46,760 --> 01:41:49,480
Speaker 3: Sleep and motherfucker, he thinks he has it hard.

2180
01:41:53,240 --> 01:41:54,000
Speaker 2: That's funny.

2181
01:41:55,000 --> 01:41:59,680
Speaker 3: Do we have time for one more? Yeah? Yeah, it's

2182
01:41:59,720 --> 01:42:03,880
Speaker 3: hit his se Uh. This is oh solo mission trial run.

2183
01:42:04,680 --> 01:42:06,080
Speaker 3: It's applicable for this week.

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01:42:08,000 --> 01:42:14,000
Speaker 4: Hey boys, it's Stu pop a Team six coming this Friday.

2185
01:42:14,400 --> 01:42:17,479
Speaker 4: Just listening to the pod. Yeah, got a dad hack.

2186
01:42:18,320 --> 01:42:20,919
Speaker 4: So I'm a private in training and I made a mistake.

2187
01:42:22,400 --> 01:42:26,760
Speaker 4: I was ready, bags packed, car seat installed, all that.

2188
01:42:28,000 --> 01:42:31,559
Speaker 4: Mama's carrying a little extra amnionic fluid, so we monitor

2189
01:42:31,760 --> 01:42:33,240
Speaker 4: it multiple times a week.

2190
01:42:34,320 --> 01:42:38,719
Speaker 3: Baby is good, So good. Had a scare earlier this.

2191
01:42:38,640 --> 01:42:42,439
Speaker 4: Week though, thought it was the time, so we rushed

2192
01:42:42,439 --> 01:42:48,000
Speaker 4: to the hospital. To my surprise, parking garage under construction

2193
01:42:48,120 --> 01:42:48,719
Speaker 4: and closed.

2194
01:42:49,280 --> 01:42:50,000
Speaker 2: It's midnight.

2195
01:42:50,240 --> 01:42:54,760
Speaker 4: Oh second, parking garage required you to go across this

2196
01:42:55,000 --> 01:42:59,800
Speaker 4: stupid skydeck through a maze of elevators up, one elevator down,

2197
01:42:59,800 --> 01:43:04,040
Speaker 4: a all down an elevator. So once across the sky deck,

2198
01:43:04,720 --> 01:43:06,440
Speaker 4: certain hallways close.

2199
01:43:06,200 --> 01:43:07,080
Speaker 3: At eleven pm.

2200
01:43:07,600 --> 01:43:08,599
Speaker 2: Oh good.

2201
01:43:08,880 --> 01:43:13,840
Speaker 4: Finally ended up making it to the maternity ward. But

2202
01:43:14,320 --> 01:43:20,520
Speaker 4: my dad hack is do a trial run, yes, specifically

2203
01:43:20,560 --> 01:43:21,600
Speaker 4: a solo.

2204
01:43:21,400 --> 01:43:24,479
Speaker 10: Mission if you want to look like a true hero,

2205
01:43:25,160 --> 01:43:28,240
Speaker 10: so you don't deal with amazing issues before the big moment.

2206
01:43:28,360 --> 01:43:31,960
Speaker 10: He's no idea that this hospital is under construction.

2207
01:43:32,920 --> 01:43:35,639
Speaker 4: But don't want any dads to have to go through

2208
01:43:35,640 --> 01:43:39,000
Speaker 4: what I went through. But everything is good.

2209
01:43:40,080 --> 01:43:44,360
Speaker 2: Love y'all, Love the pod. What was his name, Stu, Stu,

2210
01:43:44,560 --> 01:43:46,439
Speaker 2: shout out Stu for that. That's that's real game.

2211
01:43:46,520 --> 01:43:51,280
Speaker 1: If I was, if I had hit buds training and

2212
01:43:51,360 --> 01:43:53,880
Speaker 1: I'm becoming a PT sixer, yeah in due time.

2213
01:43:54,120 --> 01:43:54,479
Speaker 2: Yeah.

2214
01:43:54,560 --> 01:43:57,360
Speaker 1: If I were to have heard that Dad hack that

2215
01:43:57,520 --> 01:43:59,679
Speaker 1: is one that you are locking that one in the chamber,

2216
01:44:00,200 --> 01:44:01,360
Speaker 1: and I would have been running a.

2217
01:44:01,240 --> 01:44:03,439
Speaker 2: Solo Dad mission. I had no clue.

2218
01:44:03,760 --> 01:44:06,519
Speaker 1: Yes, I wouldn't even been aware to do something like

2219
01:44:06,560 --> 01:44:09,080
Speaker 1: that if not for a phone call like that. So

2220
01:44:09,120 --> 01:44:11,920
Speaker 1: any expecting father's dad is PT six game right their

2221
01:44:11,960 --> 01:44:12,639
Speaker 1: shoutout Stu.

2222
01:44:12,920 --> 01:44:15,599
Speaker 3: Stu just set the bar for privates. By the way,

2223
01:44:15,680 --> 01:44:20,640
Speaker 3: he's not even PT six yet. Yeah, Stu's kind of

2224
01:44:20,680 --> 01:44:21,160
Speaker 3: locked in.

2225
01:44:21,320 --> 01:44:24,720
Speaker 1: He's locked in because he's already given game learning from

2226
01:44:24,760 --> 01:44:28,040
Speaker 1: mistakes when he's not even a PT sixer, you know

2227
01:44:28,040 --> 01:44:31,679
Speaker 1: what I mean, He's giving his younger self game. Yeah, like, hey,

2228
01:44:31,680 --> 01:44:33,840
Speaker 1: this is important enough. I want to share this with

2229
01:44:33,920 --> 01:44:35,840
Speaker 1: some some incoming fathers.

2230
01:44:35,920 --> 01:44:40,760
Speaker 3: Into Stu's point. Vandy here in Nashville parking Garage is

2231
01:44:40,840 --> 01:44:42,000
Speaker 3: also under construction.

2232
01:44:42,360 --> 01:44:42,799
Speaker 2: Yeah.

2233
01:44:42,880 --> 01:44:45,720
Speaker 3: Thankfully Jill works at Vandy and was aware of that,

2234
01:44:45,920 --> 01:44:49,400
Speaker 3: and we actually did a trial run as well of

2235
01:44:49,520 --> 01:44:51,599
Speaker 3: Jill kind of you know, we drove by there. Hey,

2236
01:44:51,600 --> 01:44:53,840
Speaker 3: we're gonna be parking here. Those are the doors we

2237
01:44:53,880 --> 01:44:56,040
Speaker 3: walk in. Highly advise it.

2238
01:44:56,240 --> 01:44:57,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, great games.

2239
01:44:57,320 --> 01:45:02,960
Speaker 3: Do great games? Dou lesson topic or quote of the week.

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01:45:03,640 --> 01:45:04,240
Speaker 2: I have one.

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01:45:04,640 --> 01:45:06,880
Speaker 3: I have one as well. Mine's really shortened quote do

2242
01:45:06,960 --> 01:45:11,559
Speaker 3: it Okay. I'm stealing this one directly from my therapist

2243
01:45:11,600 --> 01:45:15,880
Speaker 3: because I thought it was an incredible metaphor. He was

2244
01:45:15,920 --> 01:45:19,880
Speaker 3: talking about life as a plate at Thanksgiving dinner and

2245
01:45:19,920 --> 01:45:24,120
Speaker 3: that you never want your plate at Thanksgiving dinner as

2246
01:45:24,200 --> 01:45:27,840
Speaker 3: you're walking to the table to have food falling off

2247
01:45:27,880 --> 01:45:30,719
Speaker 3: of it. Or let's say you go to the table

2248
01:45:30,760 --> 01:45:32,760
Speaker 3: and you set your plate down and all you have

2249
01:45:32,880 --> 01:45:36,120
Speaker 3: is turkey. There's no gravy, there's no mashed potatoes, there's

2250
01:45:36,120 --> 01:45:39,439
Speaker 3: no green beans, sweet potato casserole. What's this guy doing?

2251
01:45:40,160 --> 01:45:41,960
Speaker 3: Or maybe you just have a little bit on your plate.

2252
01:45:42,080 --> 01:45:46,680
Speaker 3: It's like yo, it's Thanksgiving, like eat, like fill your

2253
01:45:46,680 --> 01:45:50,280
Speaker 3: plate up. He was talking about that perfect balance of

2254
01:45:50,320 --> 01:45:52,519
Speaker 3: all things that you have in your life. So like

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01:45:53,560 --> 01:45:56,320
Speaker 3: you got your social life, which is like your green beans.

2256
01:45:56,360 --> 01:45:59,599
Speaker 3: You got your let's say you're married or have a girlfriend,

2257
01:45:59,600 --> 01:46:02,439
Speaker 3: that's your turkey. You got your mashed potatoes with your

2258
01:46:02,520 --> 01:46:05,719
Speaker 3: kids and maybe some gravy. You have all these different

2259
01:46:05,720 --> 01:46:07,400
Speaker 3: things you have your work life, which is like the

2260
01:46:07,439 --> 01:46:10,719
Speaker 3: dinner roll. Yeah, you're gonna have everything on your plate,

2261
01:46:10,840 --> 01:46:12,720
Speaker 3: but you want to have the right amount and if

2262
01:46:12,720 --> 01:46:15,240
Speaker 3: you have too much of something, maybe cut back on

2263
01:46:15,320 --> 01:46:17,920
Speaker 3: it a little bit. Just make sure we have everything

2264
01:46:17,960 --> 01:46:20,760
Speaker 3: on our plate, but still have a full plate. Thanksgiving

2265
01:46:20,800 --> 01:46:22,960
Speaker 3: by God. I just love that metaphor.

2266
01:46:23,600 --> 01:46:27,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, butter roll enough or get the gravy going enough.

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01:46:29,520 --> 01:46:30,160
Speaker 2: That's a good one.

2268
01:46:30,240 --> 01:46:32,640
Speaker 3: It's a good one. As soon as I heard it,

2269
01:46:32,680 --> 01:46:35,519
Speaker 3: I was like, dude, that's so easy just to apply

2270
01:46:35,600 --> 01:46:37,880
Speaker 3: to like anything in life. But I just love that

2271
01:46:37,960 --> 01:46:38,960
Speaker 3: illustration of it.

2272
01:46:39,400 --> 01:46:40,360
Speaker 2: So this.

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01:46:42,640 --> 01:46:45,799
Speaker 1: Lesson topic whatever, This is a philosophy I came across.

2274
01:46:46,280 --> 01:46:48,599
Speaker 1: Great to stack on top of what you just said

2275
01:46:48,920 --> 01:46:50,519
Speaker 1: as far as balance in your life.

2276
01:46:51,120 --> 01:46:52,840
Speaker 2: Have you ever heard of the the.

2277
01:46:52,720 --> 01:46:55,879
Speaker 1: Anchor before sales philosophy or the anchor in sales?

2278
01:46:56,040 --> 01:46:57,719
Speaker 2: No, okay, this is great.

2279
01:46:57,800 --> 01:47:02,280
Speaker 3: This was sales as in sailing or selling somebody.

2280
01:47:01,880 --> 01:47:05,720
Speaker 2: Sales as in sailing. Say it sailing as aye out.

2281
01:47:05,840 --> 01:47:10,519
Speaker 1: So the metaphor of the anchor and sale, this is

2282
01:47:10,560 --> 01:47:12,080
Speaker 1: a This is a powerful framework.

2283
01:47:12,160 --> 01:47:14,320
Speaker 2: So It's like two essential forces.

2284
01:47:14,040 --> 01:47:18,679
Speaker 1: Right governing governing your principles, your personal values like keeping

2285
01:47:18,720 --> 01:47:20,440
Speaker 1: everything in check, keeping everything.

2286
01:47:20,120 --> 01:47:21,240
Speaker 2: Sturdy before you get the sea.

2287
01:47:21,479 --> 01:47:25,559
Speaker 1: The anchor symbolizes governing principles, so self evident truth that

2288
01:47:25,640 --> 01:47:29,400
Speaker 1: ground us during times of turmoil, while the sale represents

2289
01:47:29,520 --> 01:47:33,200
Speaker 1: our personal values or the things we esteemed to be

2290
01:47:33,320 --> 01:47:35,880
Speaker 1: of worth, which guide our actions and enable us to

2291
01:47:35,920 --> 01:47:39,920
Speaker 1: adapt and grow in the face of change. So if

2292
01:47:39,960 --> 01:47:44,200
Speaker 1: I formulate this around family life like for the dads,

2293
01:47:44,240 --> 01:47:46,560
Speaker 1: like dads, because there'll be career mixed in there, you

2294
01:47:46,600 --> 01:47:49,000
Speaker 1: can formulate this around anything in your life, but as

2295
01:47:49,040 --> 01:47:50,800
Speaker 1: far as the for the Dad's brand pop a team

2296
01:47:50,880 --> 01:47:55,439
Speaker 1: six family. Think of your life as a ship. The

2297
01:47:55,479 --> 01:47:58,559
Speaker 1: sales are the opportunities, the career move, the career moves,

2298
01:47:58,600 --> 01:48:01,360
Speaker 1: the yeses that propel you forward. Those are your sales.

2299
01:48:01,680 --> 01:48:03,720
Speaker 1: They catch the wind and move you fast. But the

2300
01:48:03,760 --> 01:48:08,120
Speaker 1: anchors the things that you've already chosen as your highest priorities,

2301
01:48:08,560 --> 01:48:11,720
Speaker 1: like your wife, your kids, your family, your career, the

2302
01:48:11,720 --> 01:48:15,080
Speaker 1: things that keep you steady. Without anchoring first, no amount

2303
01:48:15,120 --> 01:48:17,920
Speaker 1: of wind will keep you from drifting off course. The

2304
01:48:18,040 --> 01:48:21,880
Speaker 1: danger that a lot of us face is that many

2305
01:48:21,960 --> 01:48:25,479
Speaker 1: of us raise every sale without checking the anchors. We

2306
01:48:25,600 --> 01:48:29,400
Speaker 1: say yes to everything in career, hobbies, and obligations, thinking

2307
01:48:29,479 --> 01:48:32,080
Speaker 1: it's all for the family. But if the anchors aren't

2308
01:48:32,080 --> 01:48:34,720
Speaker 1: set first, if your wife doesn't feel seen, if your

2309
01:48:34,800 --> 01:48:36,840
Speaker 1: kids only get the leftovers of your time, they don't

2310
01:48:36,840 --> 01:48:39,640
Speaker 1: feel seen, your family doesn't feel seen, then all that

2311
01:48:39,760 --> 01:48:45,360
Speaker 1: progress is just drifting. So the philosophy around this metaphor

2312
01:48:45,439 --> 01:48:46,639
Speaker 1: becomes anchor.

2313
01:48:46,760 --> 01:48:47,080
Speaker 2: First.

2314
01:48:47,400 --> 01:48:50,840
Speaker 1: Schedule family time and wifetime as the non negotiables before

2315
01:48:50,880 --> 01:48:55,080
Speaker 1: anything else goes on the calendar sail with intention. Every

2316
01:48:55,160 --> 01:48:58,040
Speaker 1: career or outside commitment that you say yes to must

2317
01:48:58,080 --> 01:49:02,519
Speaker 1: be weighed against those anchors. Does this opportunity strengthen or

2318
01:49:02,600 --> 01:49:06,200
Speaker 1: train or strain what I've already chosen as the most important?

2319
01:49:07,200 --> 01:49:10,880
Speaker 1: Live by the subtraction. So true priorities show up more

2320
01:49:10,920 --> 01:49:13,320
Speaker 1: in what you say no to than what you say

2321
01:49:13,400 --> 01:49:16,839
Speaker 1: yes to. A man who says yes to everything spreads

2322
01:49:16,920 --> 01:49:20,840
Speaker 1: himself thin. A man who protects his no has the

2323
01:49:20,880 --> 01:49:25,000
Speaker 1: strength to show up fully where it matters. This doesn't

2324
01:49:25,000 --> 01:49:27,439
Speaker 1: mean you neglect your ambition or growth.

2325
01:49:27,520 --> 01:49:28,040
Speaker 2: It doesn't.

2326
01:49:28,320 --> 01:49:31,840
Speaker 1: It just means that your definition of success shifts if

2327
01:49:31,840 --> 01:49:35,200
Speaker 1: the world praises you, but your wife and kids feel unseen.

2328
01:49:35,720 --> 01:49:41,320
Speaker 1: You've lost the only scoreboard that matters. And anybody can

2329
01:49:41,360 --> 01:49:43,160
Speaker 1: listen to this or think about this in a way.

2330
01:49:43,200 --> 01:49:45,080
Speaker 1: If you have it for the Dad's brand, you're somebody

2331
01:49:45,080 --> 01:49:48,200
Speaker 1: who's successful or ambitious, all of those things I have

2332
01:49:48,240 --> 01:49:52,640
Speaker 1: an interest in, like I guess pushing a philosophy or

2333
01:49:52,680 --> 01:49:56,840
Speaker 1: something that interests me that I think is correct. Yeah, yeah,

2334
01:49:57,160 --> 01:50:00,400
Speaker 1: going back to the only scoreboard that matters. Reference and

2335
01:50:00,439 --> 01:50:03,080
Speaker 1: to me, I sit there and think about anybody that

2336
01:50:03,200 --> 01:50:09,680
Speaker 1: I latch onto admire in the world of success, hustle, grit, ambitious,

2337
01:50:09,880 --> 01:50:13,040
Speaker 1: anything that has touched me indirectly or directly that I've

2338
01:50:13,080 --> 01:50:16,360
Speaker 1: admired that I've taken bits and pieces from to apply

2339
01:50:16,520 --> 01:50:20,080
Speaker 1: to my life and career and ambition. But everybody, bro

2340
01:50:20,680 --> 01:50:23,240
Speaker 1: who gets to the end of their life that reflects

2341
01:50:23,280 --> 01:50:25,960
Speaker 1: back on things that they wish they did more of.

2342
01:50:26,560 --> 01:50:31,080
Speaker 1: It is across the board family time. Yeah, it is

2343
01:50:31,120 --> 01:50:35,840
Speaker 1: across the board. They reflect on that scoreboard of things

2344
01:50:35,840 --> 01:50:39,719
Speaker 1: that they sacrificed for this goal that they did achieve.

2345
01:50:40,400 --> 01:50:43,880
Speaker 1: And everybody bro that you sit there and read about

2346
01:50:44,120 --> 01:50:48,000
Speaker 1: or listen to that is reflecting on their success along

2347
01:50:48,040 --> 01:50:50,840
Speaker 1: the way early in life where they're at now. The

2348
01:50:50,920 --> 01:50:53,240
Speaker 1: thing that they always that they always talk about that

2349
01:50:53,400 --> 01:50:57,120
Speaker 1: is such a common denominator is I wish I would

2350
01:50:57,160 --> 01:51:00,639
Speaker 1: have played catch more. I wish I would I wish

2351
01:51:00,680 --> 01:51:04,280
Speaker 1: I would not have complained about you know, my kids

2352
01:51:04,360 --> 01:51:06,760
Speaker 1: wanting me to do X, Y and Z and I

2353
01:51:06,840 --> 01:51:08,599
Speaker 1: kind of said no to him during that time. They

2354
01:51:08,760 --> 01:51:11,120
Speaker 1: always talk about those moments, and that's something that I

2355
01:51:11,320 --> 01:51:15,240
Speaker 1: very much have latched onto in recent years and something

2356
01:51:15,280 --> 01:51:18,639
Speaker 1: that you know, as we've talked about lessons, topics, life

2357
01:51:18,680 --> 01:51:21,800
Speaker 1: outside of podcasting, like all those things, I feel like

2358
01:51:21,840 --> 01:51:24,599
Speaker 1: it's such a constant thing that I keep on at

2359
01:51:24,600 --> 01:51:27,040
Speaker 1: the top of my mind on what to say yes to,

2360
01:51:27,160 --> 01:51:29,559
Speaker 1: what to say no to, all of those things. Like again,

2361
01:51:29,640 --> 01:51:33,960
Speaker 1: a great example where this weekend was a weekend in

2362
01:51:34,040 --> 01:51:36,320
Speaker 1: the calendar when we were about to get in football

2363
01:51:36,360 --> 01:51:39,360
Speaker 1: season and we're kind of, you know, juggling what our

2364
01:51:39,439 --> 01:51:41,439
Speaker 1: routine is going to look like throughout the week, and

2365
01:51:41,479 --> 01:51:43,719
Speaker 1: this weekend had popped up as like an open weekend.

2366
01:51:43,800 --> 01:51:46,600
Speaker 1: We've talked about it on four the Dads on like

2367
01:51:47,040 --> 01:51:50,639
Speaker 1: looking ahead, whether it's family photos, shooting our shooting, our wives,

2368
01:51:50,640 --> 01:51:54,200
Speaker 1: a message, Hey go get a latte, venmoing the money,

2369
01:51:54,280 --> 01:51:57,160
Speaker 1: whatever it is, that we've done something that we wanted

2370
01:51:57,200 --> 01:51:59,760
Speaker 1: to do. Is like, hey, where is a weekend to

2371
01:51:59,800 --> 01:52:02,240
Speaker 1: where we can get away, whether it's for you know,

2372
01:52:02,240 --> 01:52:05,200
Speaker 1: we're only doing it for what like not even twenty

2373
01:52:05,200 --> 01:52:08,439
Speaker 1: four hours, Yeah, about eighteen hours to where it's like, hey,

2374
01:52:08,439 --> 01:52:10,719
Speaker 1: we're gonna have mom and dad time because we feel

2375
01:52:10,720 --> 01:52:12,759
Speaker 1: like two ships passing in the night a lot of times.

2376
01:52:13,160 --> 01:52:15,840
Speaker 1: So how can we circle this weekend as like, all right,

2377
01:52:15,880 --> 01:52:18,160
Speaker 1: we're going to build around this weekend. Anything that comes

2378
01:52:18,240 --> 01:52:19,960
Speaker 1: up that could happen this weekend we're going to say

2379
01:52:20,000 --> 01:52:22,120
Speaker 1: no to because we're going to spend time with each other.

2380
01:52:22,280 --> 01:52:22,639
Speaker 2: Yeah.

2381
01:52:22,720 --> 01:52:28,760
Speaker 1: So I came across this, this metaphor in philosophy, like

2382
01:52:28,840 --> 01:52:31,160
Speaker 1: as I was doing some you know, scrolling around on

2383
01:52:31,200 --> 01:52:33,519
Speaker 1: the Internet and everything else, this the anchor and sale

2384
01:52:33,600 --> 01:52:36,080
Speaker 1: caught my eye, and then I broke it down to

2385
01:52:36,280 --> 01:52:40,280
Speaker 1: like how can this apply family wise? Cause again you

2386
01:52:40,280 --> 01:52:42,759
Speaker 1: can use this anchor and sale philosophy for everything.

2387
01:52:42,880 --> 01:52:43,040
Speaker 4: Right.

2388
01:52:43,120 --> 01:52:46,040
Speaker 1: It's like, if you want to go accomplish anything in life,

2389
01:52:46,120 --> 01:52:47,880
Speaker 1: you want to first start at like who am I?

2390
01:52:48,320 --> 01:52:49,200
Speaker 2: What am I?

2391
01:52:49,680 --> 01:52:51,400
Speaker 1: What do I want to value? What am I going

2392
01:52:51,520 --> 01:52:54,080
Speaker 1: to a prioritize? Like who do I want to become

2393
01:52:54,560 --> 01:52:57,120
Speaker 1: those essentially are your anchors. So that way, when you

2394
01:52:57,160 --> 01:52:59,240
Speaker 1: do set sail everywhere, you're able to weigh it down

2395
01:52:59,240 --> 01:53:01,760
Speaker 1: and start first where your anchors are. So I thought

2396
01:53:01,760 --> 01:53:04,800
Speaker 1: this anchor and sale philosophy was fucking all time, and

2397
01:53:04,840 --> 01:53:07,599
Speaker 1: I was fired up to share when it comes to family,

2398
01:53:07,960 --> 01:53:10,520
Speaker 1: the family stuff, because again it's somebody who is very ambitious,

2399
01:53:11,000 --> 01:53:15,759
Speaker 1: who very much wants to achieve and accomplish, and somebody

2400
01:53:15,760 --> 01:53:18,439
Speaker 1: who also very much wants to I don't want to

2401
01:53:18,479 --> 01:53:22,000
Speaker 1: just say, you know the cliche of football, like growing

2402
01:53:22,040 --> 01:53:25,559
Speaker 1: up with football is like faith family football. It's like, okay,

2403
01:53:25,640 --> 01:53:27,920
Speaker 1: family and faith and all this stuff is in there.

2404
01:53:27,920 --> 01:53:31,000
Speaker 1: But really I'm always dialed in your boys, always dialed

2405
01:53:31,000 --> 01:53:33,879
Speaker 1: into football. That's what I'm saying, Yes to everything football,

2406
01:53:33,880 --> 01:53:35,960
Speaker 1: and not really I'm telling myself that all of this

2407
01:53:36,120 --> 01:53:39,479
Speaker 1: is for family. All my ambition and everything that I'm

2408
01:53:39,479 --> 01:53:42,000
Speaker 1: doing is for my kids, my wife, Like I go

2409
01:53:42,040 --> 01:53:44,280
Speaker 1: and do all this and so we can have this

2410
01:53:44,400 --> 01:53:47,160
Speaker 1: life everything else. But if you're truly going to be

2411
01:53:47,200 --> 01:53:50,120
Speaker 1: intentional and prioritize, it's how do you spend time to

2412
01:53:50,360 --> 01:53:53,479
Speaker 1: actually look at how family and kids and your wife

2413
01:53:53,560 --> 01:53:55,679
Speaker 1: are a true anchor in your life, so that way

2414
01:53:55,960 --> 01:54:00,840
Speaker 1: you do, you are protecting your nose when those do

2415
01:54:00,960 --> 01:54:03,880
Speaker 1: come up. So I was obsessed with this philosophy. I

2416
01:54:03,880 --> 01:54:04,800
Speaker 1: couldn't wait to share it.

2417
01:54:05,880 --> 01:54:08,639
Speaker 3: I love everything that you just said, and you pretty

2418
01:54:08,680 --> 01:54:13,160
Speaker 3: much just described like what I told my therapist my

2419
01:54:13,320 --> 01:54:15,760
Speaker 3: very first time I met with him, this new one

2420
01:54:15,800 --> 01:54:19,720
Speaker 3: here in Nashville. Of my goal yea, of like I

2421
01:54:19,760 --> 01:54:24,040
Speaker 3: am meeting with you once every two weeks because I

2422
01:54:24,200 --> 01:54:28,200
Speaker 3: want to I want the main thing to remain the

2423
01:54:28,200 --> 01:54:30,800
Speaker 3: main thing, and I want to have this balance in

2424
01:54:30,840 --> 01:54:33,120
Speaker 3: my life. I know that nobody has the perfect life,

2425
01:54:33,480 --> 01:54:37,960
Speaker 3: but I want that accountability coach, somebody that I'm able

2426
01:54:38,000 --> 01:54:42,360
Speaker 3: to like run these things by. And I love that philosophy.

2427
01:54:43,200 --> 01:54:46,160
Speaker 3: Love that philosophy because my dad would be right there

2428
01:54:46,360 --> 01:54:51,440
Speaker 3: with you with saying, you know, his biggest regret not

2429
01:54:51,520 --> 01:54:54,720
Speaker 3: doing more family time. And I say that because he'd

2430
01:54:54,720 --> 01:54:57,320
Speaker 3: be willing to share it, and I can see it

2431
01:54:57,360 --> 01:55:00,080
Speaker 3: in the way that he interacts with Scarlett. He's just like,

2432
01:55:00,240 --> 01:55:05,440
Speaker 3: oh man, uh so, yeah, dude. That gets me fired up.

2433
01:55:05,680 --> 01:55:09,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, bro, because because you're right, there's no you can

2434
01:55:09,440 --> 01:55:13,600
Speaker 1: talk about balance, but there's no such thing. It's balance,

2435
01:55:13,760 --> 01:55:17,400
Speaker 1: is all right? How can you compartmentalize your mind to hey,

2436
01:55:17,440 --> 01:55:18,840
Speaker 1: what is fucking.

2437
01:55:18,880 --> 01:55:19,720
Speaker 2: Important to you?

2438
01:55:19,960 --> 01:55:23,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, how do you dial in on each of those anchors,

2439
01:55:23,200 --> 01:55:25,720
Speaker 1: each of those principles, each of those values, and how

2440
01:55:25,720 --> 01:55:29,440
Speaker 1: do you get so clear to where you know what

2441
01:55:29,640 --> 01:55:32,680
Speaker 1: you're going to reach out to go for on your

2442
01:55:32,720 --> 01:55:35,160
Speaker 1: next move, or you know what to say no to. Yeah,

2443
01:55:35,240 --> 01:55:38,200
Speaker 1: it's god, it's so crucial. That's that's truly, like it's

2444
01:55:38,280 --> 01:55:41,240
Speaker 1: a constant conversation in my head.

2445
01:55:41,320 --> 01:55:44,360
Speaker 3: And a good illustration of that to add on to

2446
01:55:44,480 --> 01:55:48,400
Speaker 3: that picture. I was just having this conversation about like,

2447
01:55:48,520 --> 01:55:50,880
Speaker 3: what what is it like being a dad chairman? What's

2448
01:55:50,880 --> 01:55:54,200
Speaker 3: the question that was asked to me? And life really

2449
01:55:54,320 --> 01:55:57,720
Speaker 3: is like a plate being balanced on a stick, where

2450
01:55:57,760 --> 01:56:00,680
Speaker 3: like you're never going to achieve that perfect balance where

2451
01:56:00,920 --> 01:56:04,840
Speaker 3: the plate stops completely and it's flat and everything's good.

2452
01:56:05,080 --> 01:56:07,960
Speaker 3: There's always this just got at it. Now Scarlet can

2453
01:56:08,000 --> 01:56:10,920
Speaker 3: walk and talk deal with that. Now she can reach

2454
01:56:11,000 --> 01:56:13,400
Speaker 3: up and open doors, and we got to tell her

2455
01:56:13,480 --> 01:56:16,160
Speaker 3: to stay out of certain rooms. My best friend just

2456
01:56:16,760 --> 01:56:21,640
Speaker 3: did something that you know, betrayed our friendship. My boss

2457
01:56:21,720 --> 01:56:25,120
Speaker 3: at work is a psychopath. Like I'm just making up examples,

2458
01:56:25,200 --> 01:56:28,000
Speaker 3: but like the plate is always it's just like, how

2459
01:56:28,000 --> 01:56:30,560
Speaker 3: are you going to react to those things to achieve

2460
01:56:31,840 --> 01:56:37,280
Speaker 3: some semblance of balance, some semblance of like an even

2461
01:56:37,400 --> 01:56:39,200
Speaker 3: keel to keep it on sailing.

2462
01:56:39,240 --> 01:56:42,360
Speaker 1: Turn amen, bro, And to me, it's about you take

2463
01:56:42,440 --> 01:56:45,080
Speaker 1: all the accountability and control that you are going to

2464
01:56:45,320 --> 01:56:48,360
Speaker 1: find the balance of that plate. Yes, it's not the

2465
01:56:48,360 --> 01:56:51,160
Speaker 1: external things that are happening, because that's that's constant. Happiness

2466
01:56:51,200 --> 01:56:54,240
Speaker 1: is so fucking fleeting, bro, it's so fleeting. Yeah. Yeah,

2467
01:56:54,480 --> 01:56:56,720
Speaker 1: you're looking for things to make you happy, like it's

2468
01:56:56,960 --> 01:57:01,280
Speaker 1: it's dude, it's you, Yeah, it's us, it's myself, it's disciplines,

2469
01:57:01,360 --> 01:57:04,320
Speaker 1: it's things that are fucking hard. But in those moments

2470
01:57:04,320 --> 01:57:06,040
Speaker 1: when you do find that balance, it's like how do

2471
01:57:06,080 --> 01:57:09,320
Speaker 1: you again, taste it for a moment, but know that

2472
01:57:09,320 --> 01:57:11,840
Speaker 1: that unbalanced, that something's gonna happen.

2473
01:57:12,120 --> 01:57:14,000
Speaker 2: It's truly, it's all about It's all about how you

2474
01:57:14,000 --> 01:57:14,400
Speaker 2: react to it.

2475
01:57:14,680 --> 01:57:16,840
Speaker 3: And don't you don't have to be like this isn't

2476
01:57:16,880 --> 01:57:19,680
Speaker 3: like a you got to be proactive, not reactive, like

2477
01:57:19,720 --> 01:57:22,640
Speaker 3: you got to be perfect. You gotta have it absolutely. Yeah,

2478
01:57:22,640 --> 01:57:25,920
Speaker 3: it's just like just be aware that things are always

2479
01:57:25,920 --> 01:57:29,760
Speaker 3: going to be changing, and that your actions and reactions

2480
01:57:30,080 --> 01:57:33,160
Speaker 3: are gonna tell the people in your life how important

2481
01:57:33,200 --> 01:57:35,000
Speaker 3: they are to you, or the things in your life

2482
01:57:35,040 --> 01:57:36,320
Speaker 3: how important they are to you.

2483
01:57:36,400 --> 01:57:41,160
Speaker 1: Right in reconnecting, Yes, just constantly recredit reconnecting, because again,

2484
01:57:41,160 --> 01:57:43,960
Speaker 1: where we all get off the rails, we constantly get

2485
01:57:43,960 --> 01:57:44,440
Speaker 1: off the rails.

2486
01:57:45,040 --> 01:57:48,200
Speaker 2: How do you get back to center? Yeah? It fires

2487
01:57:48,240 --> 01:57:49,160
Speaker 2: me up, dude.

2488
01:57:49,160 --> 01:57:50,200
Speaker 3: I love that philosophy.

2489
01:57:50,240 --> 01:57:53,240
Speaker 1: Who was that a quote or so the art the

2490
01:57:53,360 --> 01:57:55,160
Speaker 1: article I read, I'll have to find the article, but

2491
01:57:55,200 --> 01:57:57,200
Speaker 1: it was talking about the anchor. It was talking about

2492
01:57:57,240 --> 01:57:58,720
Speaker 1: like the anchor and the sale, and it was kind

2493
01:57:58,760 --> 01:58:02,200
Speaker 1: of talking more like career based. And then I came

2494
01:58:02,240 --> 01:58:05,480
Speaker 1: across one with like, you know, I'm looking in like, uh,

2495
01:58:05,800 --> 01:58:07,560
Speaker 1: like the power of no. I always love the power

2496
01:58:07,560 --> 01:58:10,280
Speaker 1: of no stuff. Ryan Holiday talks about that with like

2497
01:58:10,360 --> 01:58:12,200
Speaker 1: family and everything else. So it was like a combination

2498
01:58:12,320 --> 01:58:14,880
Speaker 1: of things that I'm like, you know, I was trying

2499
01:58:14,880 --> 01:58:17,400
Speaker 1: to because it truly is a constant conversation in my

2500
01:58:17,440 --> 01:58:20,040
Speaker 1: head to where I'll like struggle with it every time

2501
01:58:20,080 --> 01:58:22,680
Speaker 1: I'm like tapping in, I'm like, all right, things feel

2502
01:58:22,680 --> 01:58:25,240
Speaker 1: a little overwhelming right now. How can I lock how

2503
01:58:25,280 --> 01:58:28,080
Speaker 1: can I you know, what's this bucket with my wife,

2504
01:58:28,080 --> 01:58:29,160
Speaker 1: look like, what's this bucket?

2505
01:58:29,160 --> 01:58:29,960
Speaker 2: With my kids? Look like?

2506
01:58:30,000 --> 01:58:33,120
Speaker 1: Am I satisfied? Am I happy with what I'm doing

2507
01:58:33,160 --> 01:58:35,040
Speaker 1: as much as I'm doing like with my kids? So

2508
01:58:35,080 --> 01:58:36,520
Speaker 1: I need to be a little more intentional. Do I

2509
01:58:36,560 --> 01:58:37,920
Speaker 1: need to take an hour or two? And it's just

2510
01:58:37,960 --> 01:58:39,200
Speaker 1: me and Rue. We get out of the house and

2511
01:58:39,240 --> 01:58:42,800
Speaker 1: go do somewhether it's a trip to target. You and

2512
01:58:42,880 --> 01:58:45,640
Speaker 1: Charles going to the library yesterday with Rue and she's like,

2513
01:58:45,640 --> 01:58:47,040
Speaker 1: do you mind if I pick room for school.

2514
01:58:46,800 --> 01:58:49,520
Speaker 2: And we go to the library. Yeah, oh oh yeah,

2515
01:58:49,600 --> 01:58:51,760
Speaker 2: Charles All Public Library. Yeah.

2516
01:58:51,880 --> 01:58:53,960
Speaker 1: The library's got a lot of cool stuff for kiddos too,

2517
01:58:54,520 --> 01:58:56,680
Speaker 1: like as far as like advance or story time, yeah,

2518
01:58:56,760 --> 01:58:57,360
Speaker 1: things like that.

2519
01:58:58,240 --> 01:59:00,840
Speaker 2: And she like, do you mind, you know, rocking with Scotty?

2520
01:59:00,880 --> 01:59:03,360
Speaker 1: And I'm like, oh, dude, absolutely, Like Scotty's a piece

2521
01:59:03,360 --> 01:59:04,960
Speaker 1: of cake, especially if you're one on one with her,

2522
01:59:05,040 --> 01:59:07,440
Speaker 1: Like she's a little ten eleven month old, She's just

2523
01:59:07,480 --> 01:59:09,600
Speaker 1: a lot of fun. But I'm sitting there playing with Scotty.

2524
01:59:09,640 --> 01:59:11,040
Speaker 1: It's like this is one on one time I'm getting

2525
01:59:11,040 --> 01:59:12,960
Speaker 1: with Scotti. Yeah, because a lot of times it'll be

2526
01:59:12,960 --> 01:59:14,800
Speaker 1: two on two, got the whole family together.

2527
01:59:14,840 --> 01:59:15,720
Speaker 2: You can tell when we're.

2528
01:59:15,520 --> 01:59:17,360
Speaker 1: All ready to pull each other's hair out at times,

2529
01:59:17,920 --> 01:59:20,040
Speaker 1: and it's like it's just re checking in, like, Okay,

2530
01:59:20,080 --> 01:59:21,960
Speaker 1: what is because I know I do a lot of

2531
01:59:22,040 --> 01:59:23,360
Speaker 1: We do a lot of stuff here at the shop,

2532
01:59:23,400 --> 01:59:25,400
Speaker 1: a lot of stuff at work. I'm constantly thinking about

2533
01:59:25,440 --> 01:59:28,000
Speaker 1: busting with the boys and career and everything else. But

2534
01:59:28,040 --> 01:59:29,880
Speaker 1: it's it's one of those things that where it's a

2535
01:59:29,920 --> 01:59:33,320
Speaker 1: constant conversation with myself. Uh. One thing I wanted to ask,

2536
01:59:33,600 --> 01:59:37,840
Speaker 1: how uh, how discombobulated do you get your mind when

2537
01:59:37,880 --> 01:59:40,400
Speaker 1: somebody just randomly hit you with like what's fatherhood?

2538
01:59:40,480 --> 01:59:45,240
Speaker 3: Like I do did? It's a fun question to answer

2539
01:59:45,240 --> 01:59:47,360
Speaker 3: with people that knew me very well when I was

2540
01:59:47,400 --> 01:59:51,880
Speaker 3: young because I was a absolute goofball, absolute menace, like

2541
01:59:52,760 --> 01:59:55,360
Speaker 3: Sherman Young is a dad? What the fuck? Which I'm

2542
01:59:55,400 --> 01:59:59,320
Speaker 3: sure you have friends there are like Will Compton's a dad. Yeah, yeah,

2543
01:59:59,440 --> 02:00:02,320
Speaker 3: it loves it like what in the world? And so

2544
02:00:02,600 --> 02:00:05,400
Speaker 3: I like answering that question. It is a hard question

2545
02:00:05,440 --> 02:00:09,880
Speaker 3: to answer. But like we joked about when we started

2546
02:00:09,880 --> 02:00:12,480
Speaker 3: this podcast of like your life is over, bro yea

2547
02:00:12,640 --> 02:00:15,640
Speaker 3: life is over? It does feel like that because like

2548
02:00:15,680 --> 02:00:21,040
Speaker 3: this morning completely revolved around Scarlet Sterling young. I did

2549
02:00:21,080 --> 02:00:24,760
Speaker 3: not matter for the dads didn't matter. It was how

2550
02:00:24,760 --> 02:00:27,320
Speaker 3: do we make sure Scarlett is safe for a two

2551
02:00:27,320 --> 02:00:31,080
Speaker 3: hour window so that Sherman then can do his job

2552
02:00:31,160 --> 02:00:33,760
Speaker 3: because we got to make sure Scarlet's safe. It's just

2553
02:00:33,800 --> 02:00:35,920
Speaker 3: like having this thing in your life that is just

2554
02:00:36,040 --> 02:00:40,400
Speaker 3: like I FaceTime my mom this morning and the camera

2555
02:00:40,520 --> 02:00:42,280
Speaker 3: is on me for three seconds and it was like

2556
02:00:42,280 --> 02:00:45,080
Speaker 3: a thirty minute call. She just wanted to look at

2557
02:00:45,160 --> 02:00:49,560
Speaker 3: Scarlet and like I was my mom's whole world, and

2558
02:00:49,600 --> 02:00:52,160
Speaker 3: now it's like Scarlet's her whole world, and I love it.

2559
02:00:52,720 --> 02:00:55,520
Speaker 3: I take no offense, but it really is just kind

2560
02:00:55,560 --> 02:00:58,040
Speaker 3: of like a death of self, I guess in a way,

2561
02:00:59,480 --> 02:01:02,160
Speaker 3: which you your point as well to like bring it

2562
02:01:02,200 --> 02:01:05,040
Speaker 3: back to your philosophy. That's what I'm really trying to

2563
02:01:05,080 --> 02:01:08,200
Speaker 3: work on right now, aside from being a good dad,

2564
02:01:08,240 --> 02:01:11,480
Speaker 3: good husband. It's like, hey, what are some selfish things

2565
02:01:11,600 --> 02:01:14,000
Speaker 3: I can pour into myself that I do enjoy? So

2566
02:01:14,040 --> 02:01:15,800
Speaker 3: I'm trying to like get back to my roots of

2567
02:01:15,840 --> 02:01:19,000
Speaker 3: like hunting. I really enjoyed that soccer I grew up

2568
02:01:19,000 --> 02:01:20,760
Speaker 3: playing that, I played it in high school. Want to

2569
02:01:20,800 --> 02:01:23,560
Speaker 3: try and find like a men's league or something, so

2570
02:01:24,520 --> 02:01:26,480
Speaker 3: I don't know. It's just like this constantly.

2571
02:01:26,520 --> 02:01:30,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm more so asked the question because if that,

2572
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Speaker 1: if that question were to come at me, I feel

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Speaker 1: like I would get into a very uh, just talking

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02:01:36,560 --> 02:01:40,200
Speaker 1: mode because it's not just right right, it's not. And

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Speaker 1: then like I'm driving afterwards, I'm like, man, what is

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02:01:43,520 --> 02:01:45,800
Speaker 1: fatherhood like to me? And it's something like, you know,

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Speaker 1: we had the first the very first episode we did

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Speaker 1: on being a girl dad and everything else. It's like

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Speaker 1: things like that you think you think about it, It's like, yeah, dude,

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Speaker 1: it would be cool to have like a just a

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Speaker 1: foundational thing that I know I go to because it

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02:01:58,960 --> 02:02:03,160
Speaker 1: feels so to explain until you're in it, you're like

2583
02:02:03,240 --> 02:02:06,720
Speaker 1: death of self, but just it's like new life in

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Speaker 1: the best way.

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Speaker 3: Also new life that yes, it is a death of self. Right,

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Speaker 3: it's like this new chapter that's being written. Yeah, And

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Speaker 3: I was so scared.

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02:02:16,880 --> 02:02:18,880
Speaker 2: I was terrified going into it.

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Speaker 3: I truly was. I was terrified. And now that I'm

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Speaker 3: in it, Jill's bringing up like let's have another blah blah,

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02:02:25,960 --> 02:02:28,240
Speaker 3: and a part of me is like, oh shit, and

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02:02:28,280 --> 02:02:30,120
Speaker 3: then the other part of me is like, oh dude,

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02:02:30,120 --> 02:02:31,960
Speaker 3: we get to do this again. This is gonna be awesome.

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02:02:32,000 --> 02:02:35,240
Speaker 3: We're gonna have to Yeah. So so Charle on the

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Speaker 3: two note Charo at the end of this month, she's

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02:02:39,560 --> 02:02:41,920
Speaker 3: had a wild hair to want to take Rude of London.

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02:02:42,760 --> 02:02:45,280
Speaker 3: She's taking Rud of London for like four or five days.

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Speaker 1: What yeah, yeah, yeah, that's so sick. Yeah, she's been

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02:02:49,720 --> 02:02:51,360
Speaker 1: wanting to take Rud of London and do like a

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02:02:51,400 --> 02:02:55,120
Speaker 1: mommy daughter girls trip. It was so funny when Rue

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02:02:55,200 --> 02:02:56,760
Speaker 1: was kind of asking me about it. I was feeding

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02:02:56,840 --> 02:03:00,960
Speaker 1: Rude dinner, Mom was mom was working, Scotty was playing

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02:03:01,200 --> 02:03:03,840
Speaker 1: in the living room, had the barricade up on the

2604
02:03:03,840 --> 02:03:06,600
Speaker 1: stair stairs, and I'm sitting there getting us some dinner

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02:03:06,640 --> 02:03:08,520
Speaker 1: or roos eating a snackers. Something's going on to where

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02:03:08,520 --> 02:03:10,200
Speaker 1: I'm sitting up there. Maybe it was breakfast in the

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02:03:10,200 --> 02:03:13,520
Speaker 1: morning and Charli had left early for work and h

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02:03:13,720 --> 02:03:15,760
Speaker 1: Ruth sitting there and she kind of like asking me

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02:03:15,800 --> 02:03:19,400
Speaker 1: how I feel about She's like that, how you feel

2610
02:03:19,520 --> 02:03:24,560
Speaker 1: about mama going to the airport? But Mama, Mama and

2611
02:03:24,720 --> 02:03:28,280
Speaker 1: Rue get on the plane and dead dad Scottie stay home.

2612
02:03:29,520 --> 02:03:32,160
Speaker 1: And she's like, because you're a boy, so you can't

2613
02:03:32,240 --> 02:03:34,600
Speaker 1: you can't go now, I can tell she's like actually

2614
02:03:34,640 --> 02:03:36,160
Speaker 1: trying to feel me out and see how I felt

2615
02:03:36,200 --> 02:03:39,480
Speaker 1: about it. And I'm like, oh, are you talking about

2616
02:03:39,520 --> 02:03:41,400
Speaker 1: a little girls trip? And then she's like thinking in

2617
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Speaker 1: her head, She's like, oh, Scotty would come with us too,

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Speaker 1: because Scotti's a girl.

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Speaker 4: Dad.

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Speaker 2: Dad would stay home, though, how would that be okay?

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02:03:51,040 --> 02:03:53,080
Speaker 1: I'm like, dude, of course that would be okay. You

2622
02:03:53,160 --> 02:03:55,040
Speaker 1: going on a little girls trip. You'd have so much fun.

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02:03:55,120 --> 02:03:57,120
Speaker 2: Would Rue come back? You know?

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02:03:57,160 --> 02:03:58,760
Speaker 1: If that would make me sad if Rue and Mama

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02:03:58,800 --> 02:04:01,160
Speaker 1: and everybody don't come back. She's like, yeah, we will

2626
02:04:01,160 --> 02:04:02,840
Speaker 1: always come back, because we always tell her, like when

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02:04:02,840 --> 02:04:04,200
Speaker 1: we leave, whether it's for date night or on a

2628
02:04:04,240 --> 02:04:06,280
Speaker 1: trip or whatever it is, Dad and Mama we always

2629
02:04:06,280 --> 02:04:09,120
Speaker 1: come back home. We'd always come back. And I'm like, dude,

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Speaker 1: of course, you'd have so much fun. That would be

2631
02:04:11,240 --> 02:04:12,800
Speaker 1: be so much fun. I think it's just you and Mama,

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02:04:12,920 --> 02:04:14,560
Speaker 1: she said, with Scotty's a girl too. I was like, well,

2633
02:04:14,600 --> 02:04:18,560
Speaker 1: maybe Scotty's going. I don't know to talk to because

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02:04:18,560 --> 02:04:19,960
Speaker 1: scharl and I talked about it, and I'm like, I

2635
02:04:20,040 --> 02:04:21,800
Speaker 1: just dude, it makes me a little uneasy.

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Speaker 2: You guys traveling Uh.

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Speaker 1: Being that far away, I'm thinking, what you know, you

2638
02:04:26,320 --> 02:04:31,080
Speaker 1: just think like Liam Neeson quod if something happened. But uh,

2639
02:04:31,240 --> 02:04:33,520
Speaker 1: but anyway, she's taking Rue at the end of the

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Speaker 1: month to London for four five days.

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Speaker 2: I was like, would that be cool?

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02:04:37,000 --> 02:04:39,400
Speaker 1: I'm like, dude, I feel like we have we have

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02:04:39,520 --> 02:04:42,480
Speaker 1: the capabilities where I can be flexible and go do

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Speaker 1: a trip like this.

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Speaker 2: I wanted.

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Speaker 1: I've wanted to do it for so long, and I

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02:04:46,480 --> 02:04:49,520
Speaker 1: feel like you can't do it because you got football

2648
02:04:49,520 --> 02:04:52,200
Speaker 1: season and everything else. I'm like, dude, go if you

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02:04:52,240 --> 02:04:54,040
Speaker 1: want to go and you feel like that would feel

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Speaker 1: fill your soul up and going with Rue like that'd

2651
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Speaker 1: be so many awesome memories and you'd be able to

2652
02:04:59,240 --> 02:05:01,560
Speaker 1: journal every day about it and have these core memories

2653
02:05:01,560 --> 02:05:03,840
Speaker 1: with Rue like that'd be so sick and obviously of

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02:05:04,000 --> 02:05:07,200
Speaker 1: rock with Scotti, like but my mindset having too and

2655
02:05:07,240 --> 02:05:10,680
Speaker 1: knowing I'm staying home with Scotti. It's gonna be funny

2656
02:05:10,680 --> 02:05:12,480
Speaker 1: when you have your second one and then you're on

2657
02:05:12,520 --> 02:05:14,960
Speaker 1: a spot to where she's taking scarscar and you're rocking

2658
02:05:15,040 --> 02:05:18,720
Speaker 1: back with the youngest. Your mindset because Scarlett's three months

2659
02:05:18,760 --> 02:05:20,280
Speaker 1: old and you're talking about all these things. It's a

2660
02:05:20,280 --> 02:05:23,160
Speaker 1: big fox whole moment and scoreboard everything else. But I

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02:05:23,200 --> 02:05:24,960
Speaker 1: think about me rocking Scotty. I'm like, this is gonna

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Speaker 1: be the easiest. Oh, it's gonna be the easiest session

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Speaker 1: of my life because Scotty she's just you know, she's

2664
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Speaker 1: just a little pup. Yeah, somebody told me the eleven

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Speaker 1: months old, Like, you know she'll be She'll have so

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Speaker 1: much fun with Ru's gonna be a blast to travel with.

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Speaker 1: But I feel like being one on one with Scotty.

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Speaker 1: I just think of it in such a way to

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Speaker 1: where whenever it was one on one with me and

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Speaker 1: Rue the first time when Rue was young. I'm thinking

2671
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Speaker 1: of this overwhelming, like all right, I'm gonna handle it.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna handle this. I'm gonna do that. And now

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Speaker 1: I'm thinking, since we have too, she's taking the oldest one,

2674
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Speaker 1: I got the youngest one. Like, it's gonna be a

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Speaker 1: piece of cake with Scotti. But how sick is that

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Speaker 1: going to? Uh doing a little trip to London.

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Speaker 3: That's gonna be so yeah, I'm so sorry that I

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02:06:02,240 --> 02:06:03,920
Speaker 3: checked out there at the end. Jill just texted me,

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Speaker 3: she said, are you home yet?

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Speaker 2: Twelfy three. You told her, you said twelfifty.

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Speaker 3: Five, right, twelve fifty five. So I'm gonna be there.

2682
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Speaker 3: I'm gonna be there on time.

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Speaker 1: Did you take photos, selfie photos before you left the house.

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Speaker 3: Come on, man, come on, man, you know I'm at home.

2685
02:06:19,240 --> 02:06:22,560
Speaker 3: Shake me out on Hillary. She loved Auntie Hillary. Oh

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Speaker 3: my god, send that. I'll send her a picture.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, baby, I'm home. Of course I'm home.

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Speaker 3: I'll send her a picture right now. I'll say, hey,

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Speaker 3: I took that earlier when we were recording.

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Speaker 1: Oh.

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Speaker 2: We love our wives, man, we do. We love our wives. Hey,

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Speaker 2: good sowed great?

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Speaker 3: So great, so.

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Speaker 1: Papa Team six. Hell of an episode. Make sure you're

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02:06:50,240 --> 02:06:54,280
Speaker 1: sharing it, subscribed, you've left comments, make sure the trash

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Speaker 1: is out, dude, have a hell of the rest.

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Speaker 2: Of the week. Thank you, guys, sincerely. Leave a ghost

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Speaker 2: in the chat.

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Speaker 1: Leave a ghost in the chat. But we fucking love

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Speaker 1: this community. We love you guys. Yeah, man, enjoy your day.

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Speaker 1: Hope you enjoyed the episode.