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Speaker 2: Elvis Duran in the Morning Show.

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Speaker 1: Well look at that. The weekend is over. I got

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Speaker 1: bad news. The weekend is over, Kling, Why did you

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Speaker 1: Monday four fourteen. Shut up, Froggy, Welcome to the day.

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Speaker 1: I hope you had a great weekend. Good morning, Froggy.

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Speaker 1: Just Scatty and Scatty, good morning, Good morning. Producer. Sam's

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Speaker 1: What is it you want to hear?

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Speaker 3: I would love to hear Roses by Outcast?

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, remember this? This is the song that

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Speaker 1: Look at that. Your ish don't dying, but you like

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Speaker 1: Michelle Online three. Good morning, Michelle. Michelle met one of

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Speaker 6: God Michael Murray?

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Speaker 7: Oh wow, oh wow, you've got three names.

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Speaker 4: He could be a beautiful.

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Speaker 1: He has three names. He could be an assassin. As

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Speaker 6: The Gilmore Girls Convention in New for Connecticut.

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Speaker 1: Where do you start?

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Speaker 5: Let's start in Pennsylvania. A man is in custody and

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Speaker 7: Froggy, I knowed it.

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Speaker 12: And it was crazy.

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Speaker 5: History has officially been made at Augusta National after Rory

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Speaker 7: Yes, I've listened to it a lot over the weekend,

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Speaker 1: We will not let sleeping children slowest down. That's there,

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Speaker 1: I said it. Let's go all right.

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Speaker 14: If it's your birthday today, you share it with Adrian Brody,

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Speaker 1: Capricorn. I don't know who he is.

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Speaker 12: Oh my gosh, my god, Mac, it's always funny.

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Speaker 14: enjoy that sometimes your mind plays games with you. Now

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Speaker 14: is the time to disengage and recenter. Your day is

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Speaker 13: Instead of pushing yourself harder, try putting rest and rejuvenation

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Speaker 7: Your day's a nine Pisces.

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Speaker 14: Don't make yourself deal with pain alone. Reach out to

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Speaker 14: Your day is a seven Aries.

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Speaker 13: Your assertiveness. This may take some time to get used to,

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Speaker 15: Your day's a six Taurus.

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Speaker 14: Today, your superpower is being an observer rather than engage

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Speaker 1: Your day is a ten Gemini.

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Speaker 3: Vulnerability is a strength.

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Speaker 13: Being honest with the situation you're in will create room

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Speaker 3: Your day's a nine.

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Speaker 14: Cancer Today, try to go with the flow and let

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Speaker 14: life happen rather than forcing it. Your day is a

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Speaker 14: six Leo. Don't doubt your own wisdom. Doubting yourself too

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Speaker 14: hard will be the real reason something doesn't work out.

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Speaker 14: Your day's an eight Virgo. You've been oblivious to the

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Speaker 13: Keep an open mind. Respecting other's opinion like your own

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Speaker 1: Your day's a nine Scorpio.

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Speaker 14: The only way to hear your own voice clearly is

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Speaker 13: Finally, Sagittarius, don't start a fire you can't handle. Instead

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Speaker 13: Your day's of five and those your Monday morning horscopes.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if you've been watching, but Coachella closed

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Speaker 1: Benson Boone was the star of the entire weekend. Benson.

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Speaker 1: coming out and doing Bohemian Rhapsody? Yeah, doing backflips off.

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Speaker 1: There were some. There's some complaints, especially if you're sleeping there.

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Speaker 1: You know, people stunk, They stunked a high. Hell, I'm sure,

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Speaker 1: Anyway, if you Uh, if you weren't online this weekend,

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Speaker 16: Elvista ran in the morning show. Welcome to the day,

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Speaker 16: Elister ran in the morning.

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Speaker 1: Show, Welcome back from the weekend. I gotta tell you

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Speaker 1: it was a good weekend. I'm so sad to see

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Speaker 1: gotta let it go. How was your weekend, Danielle? What'd

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Speaker 7: It was amazing. We had a track meet, we had

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Speaker 7: know Judy Torres, our friend Judy Torres. Oh yeah, so

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Speaker 7: called Freestyle A Love Story at Lehman College in the Bronx,

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Speaker 7: And so I got to go there and it was

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Speaker 7: Limelight Dance Materia. The crowd was incredible, screaming and dancing

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Speaker 1: Danielle, you gotta stop, You got to stop. You wear

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Speaker 1: me out? Daniel Do you guys agree she wears me out?

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Speaker 1: Does she wear you out? Danielle is always going somewhere

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Speaker 1: and doing something. It's like you're un It's like you're

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Speaker 17: I don't know.

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Speaker 7: I'm going to two shows this week too. I'm so excited.

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Speaker 1: What do you see this week?

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Speaker 7: Well, Wednesday, I'm going with Deanna to see the one

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Speaker 12: Chris maybe Happy Ending.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, And tomorrow tomorrow I'm going to see The Stranger

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Speaker 7: Things play on Broadway.

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Speaker 1: So seriously, it's like Daniel's always on the run and

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Speaker 12: My weekend was great?

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Speaker 5: And then I went to Conveyor Belt Sushi, always a

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Speaker 12: And then I went out to dinner on Friday night

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Froggie, I was your weekend?

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Speaker 1: It was great.

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Speaker 18: On Saturday, we actually Friday night and Saturday and went

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Speaker 1: So it's a good day.

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Speaker 15: It's crazy.

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Speaker 1: Wow, what about you, Nate, what'd you do?

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Speaker 19: I tell you I had the opposite of all y'all's weekends. I,

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Speaker 1: I was exhausted. I don't know what happened. I diagnosed

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Speaker 1: Sometimes the body just says shut down.

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Speaker 5: I'm telling you what I checked on Nate. I tried

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Speaker 5: if you don't hear back from me in three hours,

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Speaker 1: It doesn't.

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Speaker 12: But there were a.

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Speaker 5: Couple times where I'm like, Nate, it has been two hours.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I was. Have you been like that all of it?

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Speaker 1: I just got hit by a trust. You know what,

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Speaker 1: Barry Manilow was the thing that was taking me over

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Speaker 1: It was great. Friends were in town.

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Speaker 1: In this stuff these days.

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Speaker 10: So and we had a nice bunch of Copper Hill

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Speaker 10: in Williston Park.

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Speaker 1: Long Island. Wow, look at that. Well me, you know

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Speaker 1: where I am every Sunday a clockwork I met Almah. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: did you do anything?

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Speaker 20: Oh?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, absolutely at Alma. You know every Sunday for Sunday Sauce.

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Speaker 1: We have to be there and a lot of our

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Speaker 1: listeners were there. And you know what happens if you

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Speaker 1: show up to Almah even if I'm not there, and say, hey,

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Speaker 1: I heard about your restaurant from Elvis Durant on the

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Speaker 1: morning show. They have to give me a glass of wine.

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Speaker 1: What I had four glasses yesterday complimentary.

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Speaker 10: I must tell you a whole venue at this point.

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Speaker 1: Oh he does, he does, vats he owes me that

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Speaker 1: we had. We had a great day with some friends.

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Speaker 1: It was it was a beautiful day. All right. Let's

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Speaker 1: get into the Danielle report. So much going on. Like

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Speaker 1: I said, the headline with me anyway watching social media

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Speaker 1: over the weekend was Benson Boone at Coachella, I mean,

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Speaker 1: and Lady Gaga. Yeah, Coachella this year, even with all

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Speaker 1: the complaints, they said, it was just an amazing show.

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Speaker 1: So you want to get deeper into that show.

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Speaker 7: We'll start out with the show. So Travis, Scott, Gaga,

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Speaker 7: Benson Boone, I mean, the list goes on and on.

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Speaker 7: Who took the stage for the first weekend and it

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Speaker 7: was amazing. People thought the show was great. But Coachella

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Speaker 7: ticket holders that paid hundreds of dollars for access to

469
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Speaker 7: that car camping area said that they waited in line

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Speaker 7: to get in ten to twelve hours, so they called

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Speaker 7: it Coach Hella, and they said that people had rushed

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Speaker 7: to get to the festival because they wanted to catch

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Speaker 7: Lady Gaga, Fry, Charlie XCX, and Travis Scott. They performed

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Speaker 7: Saturday night. Post Malone closed the show on Sunday and

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Speaker 7: a lot of people were saying it was one hundred

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Speaker 7: degrees outside. People's cars were overheating, they were running out

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Speaker 7: of gas, there were no bathrooms anywhere, and they said,

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Speaker 7: and we paid over six hundred dollars to be here,

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Speaker 7: so absolutely ridiculous. So yeah, but other than that, the

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Speaker 7: performances were fantastic. So this is it. This is the

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Speaker 7: morning where Katie Perry, Jeff Bezos is soon to be

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Speaker 7: a wife, Lauren Sanchez, Gail King, and others. The all

483
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Speaker 7: female crew are going into space on Jeff Bezos's Blue Origin.

484
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Speaker 7: The launch window is around nine thirty Eastern time, which

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Speaker 7: is six thirty Pacific time this morning. I know Katie

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Speaker 7: Perry took to social yesterday and she was talking about

487
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Speaker 7: how she had good feelings about this because her mom

488
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Speaker 7: called her a couple of nicknames that were associated with

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Speaker 7: the flight and the launch. So Jeff Bezos is soon

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Speaker 7: to be wife is actually the flight commander. She is

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Speaker 7: in show. So there you go. So I guess it's

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Speaker 7: all gonna be happening while we're on the air this morning, right,

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Speaker 7: So it'll be cool to see how it goes down.

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Speaker 7: Did any of you see a Minecraft movie over the weekend?

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Speaker 2: No?

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Speaker 7: Okay, So it once again won the North American box

497
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Speaker 7: office brought an eighty point six million dollars in a

498
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Speaker 7: second weekend. The movie basically is a ridiculous success, passing

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Speaker 7: five hundred and fifty million at the global box office.

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Speaker 7: Now it's now expected to be the first movie of

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Speaker 7: twenty twenty five to pass the one billion dollar mark

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Speaker 7: at the box offow. And of course there are still

503
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Speaker 7: the idiots that are throwing things at the screen. So

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Speaker 7: Sebastian Manuscalco, one of our favorite comedians, took the social

505
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Speaker 7: to tell us what he would do to his kids

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Speaker 7: if he acted like if they acted like that in

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Speaker 7: the movie.

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Speaker 8: Well, what the hell's going on with this movie Minecraft?

509
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Speaker 8: Why does the theater look like nineteen grenades went off

510
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Speaker 8: after this movie's done? Teenagers thrown around popcorn, soft drinks,

511
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Speaker 8: candy because of some chicken jackie. Any parents out there saying, hey,

512
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Speaker 8: don't act up at the theater. My son throws popcorn

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Speaker 8: and drinks all over. He ain't going again. That's its

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Speaker 8: m that's a good at home. Look at the wall again.

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Speaker 12: It's so expensive. Why are you throwing gold around candy

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Speaker 12: at the movies?

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Speaker 1: It's part of the experience. Hit this particular film.

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Speaker 7: Yes, I don't know it's fair. I mean a popcorn

519
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Speaker 7: isn't bad, but don't start throwing slushies and all that

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Speaker 7: stuff all over. The people are walking out of the

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Speaker 7: movie theater sticky because they got hit with a slush

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Speaker 7: with a drink.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's not cool. Guys, where's last time, Nate? When's

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Speaker 1: the last time you went to a movie theater and

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Speaker 1: came out sticky? No nasty?

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Speaker 17: All right?

527
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Speaker 7: We all love the original of the Bodyguard movie with

528
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Speaker 7: Kevin cost and Whitney used him from nineteen ninety two

529
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Speaker 7: that pulled in over four hundred million dollars globally. Well,

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Speaker 7: they're making it over again. They're doing a little remake.

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Speaker 7: They tapped Eras toward director Sam Wrench to lead the charge.

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Speaker 7: So I'll keep you posted on that. It was so perfect?

533
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Speaker 7: Why mess with it? But okay, and a blind item

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Speaker 7: for you from our boy Rob Shooter. Now, this came

535
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Speaker 7: out last week, but I was intrigued by it, so

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Speaker 7: I wanted to bring it to you. Now you ready.

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Speaker 7: This popular late night host known for his witty remarks

538
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Speaker 7: and a list guest list may be killing it on camera,

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Speaker 7: but insiders say he's gag worthy off screen, and not

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Speaker 7: in a good way. According to multiple staffers and former guests,

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Speaker 7: this funny man suffers from seriously bad breath, so bad

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Speaker 7: that some team members have learned to keep a polite

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Speaker 7: distance during meetings and rehearsals. One source even claimed a

544
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Speaker 7: guest jokingly offered him a mint during the commercial break,

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Speaker 7: but it wasn't a joke. Despite his charm in comedic timing,

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Speaker 7: he's earned the not so flattering nickname Halatosis Harry among

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Speaker 7: the crew. Some say it is due to stress, skip meals,

548
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Speaker 7: or too much booze, but whatever the cause, the smell

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Speaker 7: is very real and very unwelcome.

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Speaker 1: Well, I don't think it's Jimmy Fallon because he always

551
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Speaker 1: has very sweet breath.

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Speaker 7: Oh yeah, whenever he comes here, he smells.

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Speaker 12: Who could it be?

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Speaker 15: I don't know, but I want to know.

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Speaker 7: I'm gonna I'm gonna text Rob and see if he'll

556
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Speaker 7: tell me. Yeah, because sometimes he'll tell me as long

557
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Speaker 7: as I don't tell everyone else.

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Speaker 15: Okay.

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Speaker 7: So American Idols on tonight, part two of the Top

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Speaker 7: twenty four performing in Disney. You've got the Voice the

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Speaker 7: second season premiere of Holy Marvel's with Dennis Quaid. You've

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Speaker 7: got all your NCIS shows, and were you talking to

563
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Speaker 7: Nate about a show before that?

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Speaker 1: You're loving Elvis, Oh my god. Mobland that is on.

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Speaker 1: It's a Guy Ritchie production. It's on Paramount Plus. It's

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Speaker 1: so great. But you know, even though it's British, they're

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Speaker 1: speaking the Queen's English. I do have to turn them

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Speaker 1: the subtitles on so I can understand what they're saying.

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Speaker 1: It is fantastic, cool.

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Speaker 7: Yep, and that's my Danielle report.

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Speaker 1: Marblin, Well, thank you, daniel Hey. The countdowns on till

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Speaker 1: Mel Robbins is here and talking to us from now

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Speaker 1: till then? Is hell long? Roughly an hour, just a

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Speaker 1: cutting hour, Mel Robbins all the way.

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Speaker 2: We're not normal hell, mister ran in the Morning Show.

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Speaker 1: Rocket is giving every home one address. Rocket dot com

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Speaker 1: a single, seamless home ownership platform that helps you find, buy, sell, finance,

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Speaker 1: even refinance your home. Visit rocket dot com, the new

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Speaker 1: home for all things home ownership. Rocket own the Dream.

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Speaker 16: Elvis, Duran and The Morning Show.

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Speaker 1: I don't think so. I don't feel like I'm running

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Speaker 1: the show at all, cause you guys are you're in

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Speaker 1: charge here. I just show up all that, okay, you

584
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Speaker 1: know me, I just show up whatever you whatever you say,

585
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Speaker 1: we do, we do, and I just kind of follow along.

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Speaker 12: Someone to cut that sound. Oh really have it forever?

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Speaker 1: You know me? I'm more passive, yes, laughing? What is

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Speaker 1: it with you people? Well, anyway, it's a beautiful, beautiful

589
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Speaker 1: day shaping up here in the in the Northeast. Anyway,

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Speaker 1: it looks like a great day on the way. Maybe

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Speaker 1: some rain later possible.

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Speaker 10: Maybe tomorrow morning, but not today.

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Speaker 1: Okay, God, I'm so ready for winter to be over that.

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Speaker 1: If you're living in Miami right now, you have no

595
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Speaker 1: idea what we're talking about. But I mean, it was Saturday.

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Speaker 1: I opened the door to walk outside and it was

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Speaker 1: this freezing cold mist. Did you feel that Saturday snow.

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Speaker 12: For a second.

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Speaker 7: Wait, so Saturday morning there was ice on the ground.

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Speaker 7: Did you notice that? So my son still had a

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Speaker 7: track meet in the ice and that rain. The kids

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Speaker 7: were running, Thankfully the track didn't have that on it.

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Speaker 7: It was I've never seen kids wetter. And when he

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Speaker 7: came home, his entire bag was I had to take

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Speaker 7: everything out. It was disgusting.

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Speaker 15: It was disgusting.

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Speaker 1: I bet the smell of a wet kid.

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Speaker 7: It's just not a sweaty wet kid. Yuckie.

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Speaker 1: Oh God.

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Speaker 5: Andrew and I walked to dinner on Friday and we

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Speaker 5: were so excited to walk home. And as soon as

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Speaker 5: we walked out, the rain and the wind hit us

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Speaker 5: at the same time.

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Speaker 12: We both screamed and called a car.

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Speaker 1: What a bogie problem? It was all you call it?

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Speaker 6: Car?

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Speaker 5: Yes?

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Speaker 1: Can you imagine? Hey, let's talk about the women heading

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Speaker 1: into outer space today? So who all is on board?

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Speaker 1: You you told us a second ago. It's Katy Perry.

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Speaker 12: And Katy Perry, Gail King, Lauren Sanchez.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, Lauren Sanchez. Wait, there's a couple more home on.

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Speaker 7: Let me find that story.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, Lauren Sanchez is a pilot and she actually founded

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Speaker 5: like an aviation company.

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Speaker 1: That's so cool.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, she's actually in charge of the whole thing. She's

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Speaker 7: the flight commander. So aerospace engineer Aisha Bow, civil rights

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Speaker 7: activist Amanda how do you say her last name? N?

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Speaker 7: G u y e n. You want to say it wrong? Yes,

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Speaker 7: and film producer Carrie Anne Flynn.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So they take off of her what.

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Speaker 7: Am say, nine six thirty Pacific?

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Speaker 1: And so where are they going? What are they doing

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Speaker 1: and how long will they.

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Speaker 7: So it says, first of all, you can watch it

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Speaker 7: on CBS and Paramount Plus if you want to. It

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Speaker 7: will be traveling sixty two miles above the Earth and

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Speaker 7: will return gently under parachutes. They say the round trip

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Speaker 7: flight takes about eleven minutes. It's eleven minutes, and it's

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Speaker 7: in West Texas where it's you know, taking place. So yeah, wow,

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Speaker 7: that's a lot of money for eleven Well did they

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Speaker 7: have to pay for it? Because I think isn't it

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Speaker 7: very expensive to do this flight?

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Speaker 12: Jeff Bezos could foot that bill?

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Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I think Jeff Bezos is actually where we're footing

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Speaker 1: the bill. Every time you order from Amazon, we're paying

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Speaker 1: for this intergalactic trip for eleven minutes intergalactic Do we

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Speaker 1: have any beast boys? Do you dare me? I dare

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Speaker 1: you do it? All right? For these beautiful ladies who

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Speaker 1: are flying into outer space today for eleven minutes.

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Speaker 21: This is for you.

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Speaker 1: Let's go all right, well, entered Galactic bac boys did

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Speaker 1: not stand the test of time.

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Speaker 12: I love that song so much.

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Speaker 1: You like this song?

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Speaker 10: Yeah, okay, my eyes, but I don't.

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Speaker 12: Know about that, but I like the song.

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Speaker 7: I never heard this song before, really, yeah nice.

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Speaker 1: We used to play a lot.

662
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Speaker 7: I didn't never heard it.

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Speaker 1: It's okay, it's okay, it's over. Let's pretend it didn't happen. Hey,

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Speaker 1: So we love it when Gandhi brings us her games,

665
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Speaker 1: her music games or sound games. Today is a really

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Speaker 1: special one. I mean, just after we played a song

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Speaker 1: that was twenty two years old. That, yeah, twenty eight

668
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Speaker 1: years old. Gandhi says, it was just ten years ago

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Speaker 1: that we had so many hits that are still they're

670
00:31:05,120 --> 00:31:07,360
Speaker 1: still standing up to the test of time, right, I.

671
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Speaker 12: Can't believe these songs are ten years old.

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00:31:09,160 --> 00:31:12,200
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, When you find out these songs are ten

673
00:31:12,280 --> 00:31:14,800
Speaker 1: years old, it will make you feel old. Yes, So

674
00:31:14,920 --> 00:31:18,320
Speaker 1: if you can figure out what these songs are. It's

675
00:31:18,320 --> 00:31:20,960
Speaker 1: a simple contest. We'll play little snippet right from the

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00:31:20,960 --> 00:31:21,400
Speaker 1: first beat.

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00:31:21,440 --> 00:31:24,120
Speaker 12: Maybe it's actually from the first lyric.

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00:31:25,080 --> 00:31:29,000
Speaker 5: Oh okay, yeah, slightly different.

679
00:31:29,520 --> 00:31:32,200
Speaker 1: So if you can tell us the name, what title

680
00:31:32,240 --> 00:31:34,320
Speaker 1: and artist or just title or artist? Which one you want?

681
00:31:34,360 --> 00:31:35,200
Speaker 12: I would say title?

682
00:31:35,680 --> 00:31:37,520
Speaker 1: Okay, if you get the titles of these songs that

683
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Speaker 1: are ten years old, you win a glaborous prize from Nate.

684
00:31:42,080 --> 00:31:44,880
Speaker 1: Call now if you know your music, your ten year

685
00:31:44,920 --> 00:31:47,920
Speaker 1: old music called Diamond now at eight hundred two four

686
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Speaker 1: two zero one hundred, and we'll see if you can

687
00:31:50,200 --> 00:31:53,800
Speaker 1: figure this out. I know that Froggy and Scary would

688
00:31:53,840 --> 00:31:56,960
Speaker 1: win this contest. Yeah, because you guys you're great with

689
00:31:57,280 --> 00:32:00,720
Speaker 1: old songs. Right, So call now, and hey, we haven't

690
00:32:00,800 --> 00:32:03,760
Speaker 1: checked in with Diamond. How's she doing? Is she over here?

691
00:32:04,640 --> 00:32:05,760
Speaker 1: What's wrong? What's wrong with you?

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00:32:06,000 --> 00:32:07,000
Speaker 7: It doesn't matter, Diamond.

693
00:32:07,680 --> 00:32:10,400
Speaker 1: Is she tired? Is she worn out on the weekend?

694
00:32:10,560 --> 00:32:11,280
Speaker 12: She's tired.

695
00:32:11,520 --> 00:32:13,360
Speaker 2: She went to see Vibes Cartel on.

696
00:32:13,400 --> 00:32:16,840
Speaker 1: Friday and you're still paying the price on Monday.

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00:32:16,960 --> 00:32:21,280
Speaker 15: Oh yeah, I am. Actually I'm dragging wagons dragging.

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Speaker 1: That's cool, you guys, you do so much. I mean

699
00:32:24,360 --> 00:32:26,880
Speaker 1: This is the most active room of people I've ever met,

700
00:32:27,000 --> 00:32:29,040
Speaker 1: especially Danielle and now Diamond.

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Speaker 7: It's good.

702
00:32:30,600 --> 00:32:33,160
Speaker 1: So the people it's scary actually went got off the

703
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Speaker 1: couch and didn't rot this weekend. I did a lot

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Speaker 1: this weekend.

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00:32:35,880 --> 00:32:37,000
Speaker 10: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Anyway, well we're all paying the price today. But it

707
00:32:39,000 --> 00:32:41,400
Speaker 1: sounds like you had a great weekend. Okay, called Diamond. Now,

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Speaker 1: if you can identify songs that are believer here not

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Speaker 1: ten years old eight hundred and two four to two

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Speaker 1: zero one hundred.

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Speaker 7: Podcast.

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Speaker 10: I want to read his nuts long because she gave

713
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Speaker 10: us true straws out of five?

714
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Speaker 1: How's your corn beef? If take another bike? Okay? Well

715
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Speaker 1: what is his review of our podcast? Abe seventy seven?

716
00:33:00,320 --> 00:33:04,400
Speaker 10: Yeah, Ab says, stop eating during the podcast, dummies.

717
00:33:05,960 --> 00:33:08,920
Speaker 16: Listen to the Brooklyn Boys podcast on the iHeartRadio app,

718
00:33:09,040 --> 00:33:13,680
Speaker 16: Apple Podcasts or wherever you get your podcasts. Eh, mister

719
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Speaker 16: ran in the morning show, Mister Rann in the morning show.

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Speaker 1: So exciting. The countdown is on Mel Robbins. He's gonna

721
00:33:21,080 --> 00:33:22,880
Speaker 1: be on with this in just a little bit. Of course.

722
00:33:22,920 --> 00:33:27,360
Speaker 1: Everyone's reading this book, The Lettin Theory. I know Daniel's

723
00:33:27,400 --> 00:33:30,440
Speaker 1: listening to it on audible yep. And and you know what,

724
00:33:30,760 --> 00:33:33,320
Speaker 1: let's talk to her about that, about the difference between

725
00:33:33,320 --> 00:33:36,640
Speaker 1: reading it and listening to her do her sidebars.

726
00:33:36,840 --> 00:33:39,560
Speaker 7: There has to be extras because she goes off page

727
00:33:39,560 --> 00:33:42,640
Speaker 7: all the time. I know it just the way she talks,

728
00:33:42,680 --> 00:33:44,480
Speaker 7: and she goes, well, wait a minute, let me tell you,

729
00:33:44,560 --> 00:33:47,560
Speaker 7: and then she I'm like, I love it. I love it.

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Speaker 1: A good friend of mine considers her to be his therapist.

731
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Speaker 1: Just listening to or reading this book. I mean, mel

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Speaker 1: Robbins is one of the smartest people I've ever heard

733
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Speaker 1: speak about relationships, getting along with people, lowering your expectations

734
00:34:05,440 --> 00:34:08,280
Speaker 1: of people, letting yourself off the hook, all of the above,

735
00:34:08,680 --> 00:34:12,000
Speaker 1: the countdowns on, she's on how far from now? A

736
00:34:12,000 --> 00:34:14,600
Speaker 1: little under an hour now? Elvish? God, can we just

737
00:34:14,680 --> 00:34:16,400
Speaker 1: rush it up? Can we just go faster?

738
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Speaker 7: You know what else I downloaded this weekend because of you, Elvis.

739
00:34:19,680 --> 00:34:21,480
Speaker 7: What's that Jefferson Fisher?

740
00:34:22,120 --> 00:34:23,040
Speaker 1: Oh, he's amazing.

741
00:34:23,120 --> 00:34:25,640
Speaker 7: So Sheldon follows him as well on Instagram, and I'm like, well,

742
00:34:25,719 --> 00:34:27,560
Speaker 7: let me start following this guy. So we were talking

743
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Speaker 7: about him over the weekend in his new book, The

744
00:34:29,440 --> 00:34:33,400
Speaker 7: Next Conversation. And he is also the narrator on Audible,

745
00:34:33,680 --> 00:34:36,120
Speaker 7: so I downloaded it because I'm so excited to hear

746
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Speaker 7: him talk and read it to us. So that'll be next.

747
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Speaker 1: Yeah, get to know Jefferson Fisher like Danielle's doing it

748
00:34:42,080 --> 00:34:46,320
Speaker 1: is she He He's an attorney, a trial attorney from Texas.

749
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Speaker 1: He started doing these motivational thoughts sitting in his car,

750
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Speaker 1: like behind the steering wheel, and he would just you know,

751
00:34:53,560 --> 00:34:56,480
Speaker 1: do a selfie video and he would put him out

752
00:34:56,480 --> 00:34:58,360
Speaker 1: in the universe and it's just great stuff.

753
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Speaker 7: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: And actually mel Robbins interviewed him on her podcast and

755
00:35:03,880 --> 00:35:06,319
Speaker 1: the two of them together like, whoa mind blowing cool.

756
00:35:06,400 --> 00:35:09,799
Speaker 1: I don't know if you're into this stuff like self help,

757
00:35:10,120 --> 00:35:11,000
Speaker 1: what do you want to call it?

758
00:35:11,200 --> 00:35:13,640
Speaker 7: Yeah, it is like self help, but it's self help,

759
00:35:13,680 --> 00:35:16,080
Speaker 7: I feel like in a different way. I don't know.

760
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Speaker 7: It's not the self help from back in the day

761
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Speaker 7: where they shove this stuff down your throat. The thing

762
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Speaker 7: I love about her is that she she wants you

763
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Speaker 7: to learn from examples, Like she tells you exactly what

764
00:35:27,120 --> 00:35:29,560
Speaker 7: she went through and why you don't have to go

765
00:35:29,600 --> 00:35:32,320
Speaker 7: through it as well. And she uses tons of examples

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Speaker 7: in the book of her life story.

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Speaker 1: So it's good will melt.

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Speaker 15: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, she's great and that's a good way to set

770
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Speaker 1: the table with her. I mean that is how she

771
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Speaker 1: does it. She's great anyway, we'll find out for you'll

772
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Speaker 1: find out on your own when you hear her with us.

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Speaker 1: In less than an hour, Meil Robbins is on the way,

774
00:35:49,360 --> 00:35:52,359
Speaker 1: all right, scary, give me some music here. Gandhi has

775
00:35:52,360 --> 00:35:56,200
Speaker 1: come up with another incredible game, this one. What do

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00:35:56,239 --> 00:35:58,480
Speaker 1: you call this? A decade old? Is that what we

777
00:35:58,520 --> 00:35:58,799
Speaker 1: call this?

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Speaker 7: Sure sounds good.

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Speaker 1: These songs are like ten years old, and you're gonna

780
00:36:04,200 --> 00:36:05,760
Speaker 1: freak out when you find out they're that old.

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Speaker 12: Yeah, Like ten years just seems like so long ago,

782
00:36:08,680 --> 00:36:09,240
Speaker 12: a decade.

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Speaker 5: It's a long time. Yeah, and then you hear these

784
00:36:10,960 --> 00:36:12,839
Speaker 5: songs that are like they're ten years old. Oh my god,

785
00:36:14,080 --> 00:36:14,640
Speaker 5: we're all.

786
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Speaker 1: Dying at yeah. Timers rolling fast. Hey, Jenna, how are

787
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Speaker 1: you feeling? How was your weekend?

788
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Speaker 11: Good r good morning? It was wonderful. Did you guys

789
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Speaker 11: know that I talked to you two years ago, like

790
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Speaker 11: exactly two years ago, playing Gandhi's music game?

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Speaker 1: Really?

792
00:36:30,000 --> 00:36:32,040
Speaker 11: Wow?

793
00:36:32,040 --> 00:36:32,440
Speaker 22: Did you do?

794
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Speaker 1: How did you do?

795
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Speaker 7: Then?

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Speaker 11: I did really well? So I really hope not to

797
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Speaker 11: disappoint this.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Well, if if the game you played with us

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Speaker 1: two years ago was songs that are eight years old,

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Speaker 1: they could be the same songs today that are ten

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Speaker 1: years old.

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Speaker 7: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: So these songs Gondi did her research, as she does

804
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Speaker 1: with these great games. She did her research. These songs

805
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Speaker 1: were a hit ten years ago. Is that the best

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00:36:56,560 --> 00:36:57,960
Speaker 1: way to discrive these songs.

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Speaker 12: In the year twenty fifteen. Wow, they'll all take you back.

808
00:37:00,840 --> 00:37:02,160
Speaker 12: Maybe they won't because they feel new.

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Speaker 1: So, Jenna, she's looking for the name of the song.

810
00:37:05,640 --> 00:37:07,839
Speaker 1: But you can guess the artist too. But that that's

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Speaker 1: not going to get you closer to winning the grand prize.

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00:37:10,640 --> 00:37:15,920
Speaker 1: You have a big prize for this something that you

813
00:37:15,960 --> 00:37:19,319
Speaker 1: have nothing. Maybe you'll have to get to the end

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Speaker 1: to find out. I we'll find out when we get there,

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Speaker 1: all right, So, Jenna, here we go, a decade old

816
00:37:24,200 --> 00:37:25,480
Speaker 1: song number one? What is this?

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00:37:29,320 --> 00:37:31,720
Speaker 6: Oh?

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00:37:32,160 --> 00:37:32,560
Speaker 2: The name?

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Speaker 11: There's so many names? Yeah, I know it's Taylor I.

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Speaker 11: Actually you can kind of live near her in p

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Speaker 11: ah Okay.

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Speaker 1: If only that would help.

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Speaker 12: Yeah, you.

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Speaker 1: Scary way you hit the buzzer so fast. Scary. That's

825
00:37:47,520 --> 00:37:49,399
Speaker 1: not your call to hit a buzzer because you don't

826
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Speaker 1: think she's gonna get it. Who do you think you

827
00:37:51,040 --> 00:37:53,919
Speaker 1: are buzzing our listener? How rude?

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Speaker 5: Bad blood?

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Speaker 12: It just no, it's not.

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Speaker 1: Bad blood buzzer. Is he scary?

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Speaker 12: You're right lyric of every song?

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Speaker 1: So yeah, that was blank space Taylor.

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Speaker 3: Space space and all right, you.

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Speaker 1: Know there you go, big hit ten years ago. My god,

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Speaker 1: it was ten years ago. All right, let's let's make

836
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Speaker 1: sure you don't get buzzed on this one. This is

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Speaker 1: a decade old song number two.

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Speaker 23: And I know she'll be the death of me.

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Speaker 11: What's the weekend?

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Speaker 20: Mm hmmm, oh maybe I know. My artists are not

841
00:38:31,560 --> 00:38:36,840
Speaker 20: the song names you can hear all the time, and

842
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Speaker 20: she'll be the death of me.

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00:38:41,280 --> 00:38:41,800
Speaker 1: Mm hmmm.

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Speaker 20: I'm getting.

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Speaker 17: There.

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Speaker 1: It is can't feel my face a weekend that was

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Speaker 1: ten years old? Yes, oh my god, are you sure?

848
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Speaker 12: Yes?

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00:38:57,320 --> 00:38:58,879
Speaker 1: Oh my god? How old does that make us? Don't

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Speaker 1: don't answer that? All right, here we go. Here is

851
00:39:03,840 --> 00:39:07,560
Speaker 1: a song ten years old, number three, Elius to call me?

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00:39:07,719 --> 00:39:08,080
Speaker 21: Oh my.

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00:39:10,360 --> 00:39:14,560
Speaker 11: Okay, drake, okay, my artists.

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Speaker 20: Why are these guys looking nervous? Because I love you?

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00:39:20,080 --> 00:39:22,560
Speaker 1: Okay, listen to the listen to the Larry he gives us.

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00:39:22,600 --> 00:39:24,080
Speaker 1: It may give you a little bit of a clue. Okay,

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00:39:24,080 --> 00:39:29,400
Speaker 1: play it again. Eli used to call me, oh my okay,

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Speaker 1: m h oh that's hot line blank yeah, I know,

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00:39:40,080 --> 00:39:40,880
Speaker 1: line blak.

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Speaker 7: Man. That's when Drake was on top of the world.

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Speaker 17: Yeah.

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00:39:45,440 --> 00:39:49,080
Speaker 1: Remember, maybe you'll get this one. This song ten years

863
00:39:49,120 --> 00:39:54,759
Speaker 1: ago was a huge hit. Number four, great song song.

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Speaker 20: Oh my gosh, I love it too, Major Laser.

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Speaker 1: Done it something to right, something to.

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Speaker 15: Your morning.

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Speaker 1: No, no, it's an excellent song from Ajor Laser. That's

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Speaker 1: lean on. Okay, so you've watched four of them. Let's

869
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Speaker 1: see if you can get Okay, what is the name

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Speaker 1: of this song? It came out ten years ago. Number five.

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Speaker 1: It's been ten years ago. Wow, I see you again.

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00:40:43,440 --> 00:40:43,839
Speaker 1: You did?

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Speaker 4: You got it?

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Speaker 17: That was important?

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Speaker 1: Whiz Khalifa, Charlie Pooth's excellent. All right, let's see how

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Speaker 1: you do with this one. This song is ten years

877
00:40:51,239 --> 00:40:56,560
Speaker 1: old as well. Number six, Love.

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Speaker 20: It, dance a thing, No, shut up, A dance with me.

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00:41:02,280 --> 00:41:02,920
Speaker 24: Sugar.

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00:41:05,280 --> 00:41:08,080
Speaker 1: Walk the moon shout all right now, you got to

881
00:41:08,800 --> 00:41:10,520
Speaker 1: you got to. Let's see if you can get this one.

882
00:41:10,640 --> 00:41:11,280
Speaker 1: Number seven.

883
00:41:15,440 --> 00:41:15,879
Speaker 23: Mm hm.

884
00:41:18,320 --> 00:41:20,920
Speaker 1: Hm hmmm mm hmmm. One more time.

885
00:41:24,320 --> 00:41:25,360
Speaker 11: Let's five.

886
00:41:26,560 --> 00:41:29,640
Speaker 20: Yeah, oh, I listened to that one a lot too.

887
00:41:32,520 --> 00:41:42,040
Speaker 1: All Right, Sugar, it's sugar, right, sugar, all right, all right,

888
00:41:42,600 --> 00:41:44,040
Speaker 1: you know what you're like me though I wouldn't. I

889
00:41:44,040 --> 00:41:46,120
Speaker 1: wouldn't get these right. I can get the artists, I

890
00:41:46,160 --> 00:41:47,680
Speaker 1: can't get the titles. All right. Let's see if you

891
00:41:47,680 --> 00:41:49,560
Speaker 1: can get a decade old song number eight. Here.

892
00:41:49,560 --> 00:41:52,279
Speaker 21: It is when your legs don't look like they used

893
00:41:52,320 --> 00:41:55,080
Speaker 21: to before, cheering.

894
00:41:55,920 --> 00:42:09,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, hmmm, I know song. Okay, faking out loud at Sharon,

895
00:42:10,280 --> 00:42:10,840
Speaker 1: thinking that.

896
00:42:12,960 --> 00:42:13,320
Speaker 4: Maybe.

897
00:42:14,600 --> 00:42:17,000
Speaker 1: All right, let's see. Okay, hold on, now you've got

898
00:42:17,000 --> 00:42:19,160
Speaker 1: a couple of them. Let's see if you can figure

899
00:42:19,200 --> 00:42:23,640
Speaker 1: out a decade old song number nine from Fetti Wop

900
00:42:25,920 --> 00:42:38,279
Speaker 1: Stop Okay, buzzer. That is trap, Queen time, queen big song.

901
00:42:38,480 --> 00:42:39,960
Speaker 1: All right, I'm gonna give you one more. It's all

902
00:42:40,040 --> 00:42:41,719
Speaker 1: or nothing. If you get this one right, we'll give

903
00:42:41,760 --> 00:42:45,719
Speaker 1: it all to you. That's how generous Gandhi is. This

904
00:42:45,880 --> 00:42:48,080
Speaker 1: is decade old song number ten.

905
00:42:52,600 --> 00:42:58,919
Speaker 20: Bruno Mars, I know every word that is this song.

906
00:42:59,000 --> 00:42:59,880
Speaker 11: My mom's gonna kill me.

907
00:43:00,080 --> 00:43:11,839
Speaker 22: Can't sing it, no, God, Jenna, if you're not, it's

908
00:43:11,960 --> 00:43:12,680
Speaker 22: uptown funk.

909
00:43:15,520 --> 00:43:18,440
Speaker 1: People are texting and people are yelling. At you on

910
00:43:18,480 --> 00:43:20,160
Speaker 1: the text. They're screaming like got it.

911
00:43:20,400 --> 00:43:22,480
Speaker 11: You know what, most people can get through and talk

912
00:43:22,520 --> 00:43:23,879
Speaker 11: to you and see how nervous they are.

913
00:43:25,120 --> 00:43:27,640
Speaker 1: I know, Jenna, we love you. At least if only

914
00:43:27,680 --> 00:43:30,920
Speaker 1: we were testing your knowledge on artists, you would have

915
00:43:30,960 --> 00:43:35,799
Speaker 1: won clean sweet Yeah. Anyway, so I guess we gotta

916
00:43:35,840 --> 00:43:37,799
Speaker 1: he can't let her go empty handed. You're the one

917
00:43:37,840 --> 00:43:42,560
Speaker 1: that's said nothing on that all or nothing there, Duranne.

918
00:43:42,800 --> 00:43:45,840
Speaker 1: You're right, you got nothing. You got nothing, Jenna, But

919
00:43:47,320 --> 00:43:48,920
Speaker 1: you know we we have to play about the rules,

920
00:43:48,960 --> 00:43:53,160
Speaker 1: right You want nothing, absolutely nothing.

921
00:43:53,880 --> 00:43:55,400
Speaker 4: But we love you.

922
00:43:55,400 --> 00:44:00,520
Speaker 1: You're fabulous all right? Well, Jenna, haven't I hate to

923
00:44:00,560 --> 00:44:02,520
Speaker 1: like send you away like starting your week like this,

924
00:44:02,680 --> 00:44:05,160
Speaker 1: but you're really You're gonna have a bad week.

925
00:44:05,200 --> 00:44:08,920
Speaker 12: I can get better. Yeah, you start at rock bottom,

926
00:44:09,080 --> 00:44:09,719
Speaker 12: it's gonna be.

927
00:44:09,640 --> 00:44:09,920
Speaker 15: Better for.

928
00:44:13,560 --> 00:44:13,600
Speaker 2: You.

929
00:44:13,640 --> 00:44:17,280
Speaker 1: Should see the awful texts are coming through. This is

930
00:44:17,520 --> 00:44:22,360
Speaker 1: this is bull blank. Get somebody else to play.

931
00:44:22,400 --> 00:44:22,960
Speaker 14: We love.

932
00:44:25,040 --> 00:44:28,560
Speaker 1: We love you, Jenna anyway, have a beautiful day and

933
00:44:28,600 --> 00:44:30,520
Speaker 1: the you know, come back and try it again into morning.

934
00:44:30,600 --> 00:44:32,560
Speaker 19: Idea, how about we give our a chance at redemption

935
00:44:32,680 --> 00:44:35,440
Speaker 19: tomorrow with something Okay.

936
00:44:36,120 --> 00:44:39,279
Speaker 1: By the way, Diamond says that when you were on

937
00:44:39,320 --> 00:44:41,520
Speaker 1: two years ago, you won six hundred dollars from us.

938
00:44:41,520 --> 00:44:44,880
Speaker 11: Oh wow, really well, because I got all the artists

939
00:44:44,920 --> 00:44:45,439
Speaker 11: right in some.

940
00:44:45,360 --> 00:44:46,160
Speaker 20: Of the songs.

941
00:44:47,400 --> 00:44:50,080
Speaker 1: All right, six hundred dollars. We had a budget two

942
00:44:50,160 --> 00:44:54,040
Speaker 1: years ago. We have nothing like that now. All right.

943
00:44:54,080 --> 00:44:56,040
Speaker 1: If you want to bring Jenna back tomorrow and give

944
00:44:56,080 --> 00:44:58,920
Speaker 1: her a chance to try again, we will. Okay, you're

945
00:44:58,960 --> 00:45:01,000
Speaker 1: you're the producer, it's up to you. Sure, Yeah, let's try.

946
00:45:01,040 --> 00:45:03,399
Speaker 1: We'll do something different with you, Jenna. All right, Jenna,

947
00:45:03,440 --> 00:45:06,040
Speaker 1: when if you lose tomorrow, you owe us just yeah,

948
00:45:06,040 --> 00:45:09,480
Speaker 1: you owe six hundred dollars. Done, all right, Jenna, Hold

949
00:45:09,480 --> 00:45:11,640
Speaker 1: on one second. Let's make sure we connect with you tomorrow.

950
00:45:11,920 --> 00:45:15,319
Speaker 1: But how generous you are, Nate, that's a good idea.

951
00:45:15,320 --> 00:45:17,200
Speaker 1: We're gonna bring her back, give her another chance. Yeah,

952
00:45:17,840 --> 00:45:20,279
Speaker 1: all right, So enough of that. We do have a

953
00:45:20,280 --> 00:45:22,560
Speaker 1: phone tap on the way. It's not a free money

954
00:45:22,600 --> 00:45:26,480
Speaker 1: phone tap because obviously we have no budget. Jenna took

955
00:45:26,480 --> 00:45:29,120
Speaker 1: her six hundred dollars two years ago. We still haven't recovered.

956
00:45:29,440 --> 00:45:31,040
Speaker 1: All right, Let's get into the three things we need

957
00:45:31,080 --> 00:45:33,239
Speaker 1: to know from Gandhi coming up, and I guess less

958
00:45:33,239 --> 00:45:36,759
Speaker 1: than thirty minutes mel Robbins is on with us, so excited.

959
00:45:37,200 --> 00:45:39,200
Speaker 1: She's gonna be awesome. Wait till you hear her. If

960
00:45:39,239 --> 00:45:41,080
Speaker 1: you're running late for work, to stay in the car

961
00:45:41,160 --> 00:45:43,359
Speaker 1: and listen to this interview, or you can always listen

962
00:45:43,400 --> 00:45:47,640
Speaker 1: to it on the Elvis Duran demand on demand channel.

963
00:45:47,719 --> 00:45:50,520
Speaker 1: What do we call it? Elvistrant on demand on the podcast?

964
00:45:50,640 --> 00:45:53,200
Speaker 1: Right here we go three things from Gandhi and then

965
00:45:53,280 --> 00:45:54,960
Speaker 1: let's move on. What's going on Gandhi?

966
00:45:55,000 --> 00:45:55,399
Speaker 12: All right?

967
00:45:55,440 --> 00:45:58,200
Speaker 5: A man is in custody and will face attempted murder

968
00:45:58,239 --> 00:46:01,480
Speaker 5: and arson charges following a Sunday morning fire at the

969
00:46:01,480 --> 00:46:05,399
Speaker 5: Pennsylvania governor's mansion. The suspect has now been identified as

970
00:46:05,480 --> 00:46:09,280
Speaker 5: Cody Balmer, according to the Pennsylvania State Police. Firefighters responded

971
00:46:09,320 --> 00:46:12,000
Speaker 5: to the Harrisburg residence of Governor Josh Shapiro at about

972
00:46:12,040 --> 00:46:14,799
Speaker 5: two am. Shapiro says his family was home at the

973
00:46:14,840 --> 00:46:18,520
Speaker 5: time and they were able to escape unharmed, Thank god.

974
00:46:19,440 --> 00:46:22,080
Speaker 5: President Trump is calling on the FCC chair to give

975
00:46:22,160 --> 00:46:26,440
Speaker 5: substantial penalties to CBS. According to the Huffington Post, the

976
00:46:26,440 --> 00:46:30,160
Speaker 5: President is furious over the sixty minutes Sunday broadcast about

977
00:46:30,160 --> 00:46:32,840
Speaker 5: the opposition from Greenlanders as far as becoming part of

978
00:46:32,880 --> 00:46:35,360
Speaker 5: the US and the failed immediate promise to end the

979
00:46:35,480 --> 00:46:39,520
Speaker 5: Ukrainian War. Trump is urging FCC chair Brendan Carr to

980
00:46:39,560 --> 00:46:43,120
Speaker 5: issue the network maximum fines and punishment and saying they

981
00:46:43,120 --> 00:46:48,160
Speaker 5: should have their license revoked. And finally, today, April fourteenth

982
00:46:48,280 --> 00:46:51,160
Speaker 5: is look up at the Sky Day. Not only apparently

983
00:46:51,200 --> 00:46:53,920
Speaker 5: do you experience feelings of wonder and amazement. We all

984
00:46:53,960 --> 00:46:57,279
Speaker 5: know that's true, but you're be nicer to yourself. Researchers

985
00:46:57,320 --> 00:46:59,920
Speaker 5: discovered that when people felt awe, they were kinder to

986
00:47:00,080 --> 00:47:03,880
Speaker 5: themselves and made choices that actually reflected self compassion.

987
00:47:04,440 --> 00:47:06,520
Speaker 12: Did any of you guys see the pink moon last night?

988
00:47:07,520 --> 00:47:10,960
Speaker 12: It was beautiful. She was so big and it was lovely.

989
00:47:11,000 --> 00:47:12,479
Speaker 5: So if you can go outside and stare at the sky,

990
00:47:12,719 --> 00:47:14,240
Speaker 5: do that today, you might feel a little better.

991
00:47:14,280 --> 00:47:15,400
Speaker 12: And those are your three things.

992
00:47:15,640 --> 00:47:19,120
Speaker 1: So we feel better about ourselves if we are in

993
00:47:19,320 --> 00:47:21,880
Speaker 1: awe the things that are bigger and more powerful than us.

994
00:47:22,000 --> 00:47:25,319
Speaker 5: Yes, think about that feeling when you're standing right on

995
00:47:25,360 --> 00:47:26,879
Speaker 5: the beach and you stare out at the ocean and.

996
00:47:26,840 --> 00:47:27,640
Speaker 12: How vast it is.

997
00:47:27,880 --> 00:47:29,240
Speaker 7: Yeah, I think it's a very.

998
00:47:29,080 --> 00:47:31,400
Speaker 5: Calming, centering moment. When you're hiking and you see a

999
00:47:31,440 --> 00:47:33,879
Speaker 5: massive mountain, any of that kind of stuff.

1000
00:47:33,880 --> 00:47:34,239
Speaker 15: It's great.

1001
00:47:34,320 --> 00:47:35,480
Speaker 1: You have to be in awe. I mean, it's the

1002
00:47:35,480 --> 00:47:37,000
Speaker 1: same way you feel when you walk into a room

1003
00:47:37,000 --> 00:47:37,400
Speaker 1: and I'm.

1004
00:47:37,239 --> 00:47:40,880
Speaker 5: There right when we're all a doubt without down, I

1005
00:47:41,680 --> 00:47:42,839
Speaker 5: nearly faint every time.

1006
00:47:43,840 --> 00:47:48,319
Speaker 1: Wow. Pretty incredible. All right, So thank you for that.

1007
00:47:48,400 --> 00:47:50,560
Speaker 1: I like that, so be in awe. Yes, Like I

1008
00:47:50,560 --> 00:47:52,239
Speaker 1: remember the first time I saw the Grand Canyon, I

1009
00:47:52,280 --> 00:47:56,040
Speaker 1: was like, oh my god. It's always good to remember

1010
00:47:56,080 --> 00:48:00,760
Speaker 1: that we are just a small minuscule dot in the universe.

1011
00:48:00,880 --> 00:48:03,480
Speaker 1: In the universe is so so important, so powerful. I

1012
00:48:03,520 --> 00:48:07,080
Speaker 1: love that great story. All Right, you're no money, free money,

1013
00:48:08,160 --> 00:48:10,520
Speaker 1: no money phone tap is. We're gonna call it that. Yeah, yeah,

1014
00:48:10,560 --> 00:48:12,240
Speaker 1: a zero money phone tap.

1015
00:48:12,160 --> 00:48:12,640
Speaker 2: Is coming up.

1016
00:48:13,200 --> 00:48:17,200
Speaker 16: Elvis d Uran, the haggiest Elvis Duran in the Morning Show.

1017
00:48:23,200 --> 00:48:27,120
Speaker 16: Don't answer the phone, Elvis Duran, the Elvis Duran phone tapp.

1018
00:48:27,320 --> 00:48:29,640
Speaker 1: All right, Garrett, Yes, what's it all about? So Rachel

1019
00:48:29,640 --> 00:48:31,839
Speaker 1: wants to play a phone tap on her friend Andy. Now.

1020
00:48:31,880 --> 00:48:34,040
Speaker 1: Andy asked Rachel to do a simple favor pick up

1021
00:48:34,040 --> 00:48:36,920
Speaker 1: his son's birthday cake because they're going to be celebrating

1022
00:48:37,000 --> 00:48:39,600
Speaker 1: later on today, and Rachel starts the call to Andy

1023
00:48:39,600 --> 00:48:42,879
Speaker 1: from the cake store. Then I play the cake decorator.

1024
00:48:43,120 --> 00:48:46,000
Speaker 1: Oh okay, let's see what happens in Garrett's.

1025
00:48:45,600 --> 00:48:47,279
Speaker 9: Phone tap Hello, Hey, it's me.

1026
00:48:49,520 --> 00:48:53,120
Speaker 17: I'm not the cake place, and there's kind of a

1027
00:48:53,120 --> 00:48:54,040
Speaker 17: problem with my cake.

1028
00:48:55,000 --> 00:48:56,360
Speaker 9: Was they didn't put the trucks on it.

1029
00:48:57,440 --> 00:49:01,000
Speaker 17: The guy wrote happy birthday, bitch.

1030
00:49:02,120 --> 00:49:03,399
Speaker 9: What why?

1031
00:49:03,920 --> 00:49:04,480
Speaker 6: I don't know that.

1032
00:49:05,520 --> 00:49:07,520
Speaker 17: I don't know. I wrote it out last week and

1033
00:49:07,560 --> 00:49:09,759
Speaker 17: wrote happy birthday, Mitch. I say, you know, the be

1034
00:49:09,960 --> 00:49:11,840
Speaker 17: doesn't even look like an m I don't know. And

1035
00:49:11,920 --> 00:49:13,040
Speaker 17: he won't change it for me.

1036
00:49:13,960 --> 00:49:14,920
Speaker 9: He won't change it.

1037
00:49:15,440 --> 00:49:18,240
Speaker 17: Yeah, he's saying that it's the custom design blah blah

1038
00:49:18,239 --> 00:49:21,719
Speaker 17: blah they did for birthday. I know, but it's like

1039
00:49:21,760 --> 00:49:23,480
Speaker 17: air brushed, and you know what.

1040
00:49:23,640 --> 00:49:26,400
Speaker 9: The so just don't pay them and say we're not

1041
00:49:26,400 --> 00:49:27,680
Speaker 9: going to give you and we're not gonna pay you

1042
00:49:27,760 --> 00:49:29,359
Speaker 9: until you changed the cake.

1043
00:49:29,600 --> 00:49:31,759
Speaker 17: Well, we gave them a thirty dollars deposit already and

1044
00:49:31,760 --> 00:49:32,719
Speaker 17: they won't give it back to me.

1045
00:49:33,080 --> 00:49:36,240
Speaker 9: They won't give it back to you. What is his problem.

1046
00:49:36,280 --> 00:49:38,120
Speaker 17: Well, he's telling me that he won't change the cake

1047
00:49:38,160 --> 00:49:39,200
Speaker 17: and he won't give me my money back.

1048
00:49:39,239 --> 00:49:41,760
Speaker 9: That's why I'm called this kid, go talk to the manager.

1049
00:49:41,920 --> 00:49:42,720
Speaker 9: Where's the manager?

1050
00:49:42,960 --> 00:49:43,960
Speaker 1: What are you still doing here?

1051
00:49:44,040 --> 00:49:44,120
Speaker 4: Yo?

1052
00:49:44,680 --> 00:49:48,400
Speaker 23: And he talked to him, Hello, what is the problem again?

1053
00:49:48,880 --> 00:49:52,040
Speaker 9: The problem is that you, when we told you to

1054
00:49:52,040 --> 00:49:55,080
Speaker 9: write happy birthday, mitch on a birthday cake for a

1055
00:49:55,160 --> 00:49:58,200
Speaker 9: five year old, wrote happy birthday, bitch, and you won't

1056
00:49:58,280 --> 00:50:00,560
Speaker 9: change it. So I need you to rape off the

1057
00:50:00,880 --> 00:50:03,560
Speaker 9: dam b and put on the ends. Make it happy

1058
00:50:03,560 --> 00:50:04,200
Speaker 9: birthday miss.

1059
00:50:04,360 --> 00:50:04,680
Speaker 1: Listen.

1060
00:50:04,760 --> 00:50:07,520
Speaker 23: Dude, dude, I need you to really mellow out right now,

1061
00:50:07,560 --> 00:50:09,839
Speaker 23: come down to where I'm at, because then you better

1062
00:50:09,920 --> 00:50:11,839
Speaker 23: understand what what what I'm doing here?

1063
00:50:12,040 --> 00:50:12,360
Speaker 6: Wait?

1064
00:50:12,400 --> 00:50:13,880
Speaker 9: Wait, what universe do you live in?

1065
00:50:13,960 --> 00:50:14,040
Speaker 25: Like?

1066
00:50:14,080 --> 00:50:16,160
Speaker 9: Do you not know that we are customers? Are your store?

1067
00:50:16,320 --> 00:50:16,560
Speaker 1: Dude?

1068
00:50:16,560 --> 00:50:18,960
Speaker 23: You're talking way too loud right now for this time

1069
00:50:19,000 --> 00:50:22,640
Speaker 23: in the afternoon. First off, why in God's name are

1070
00:50:22,680 --> 00:50:24,400
Speaker 23: you having a birthday party for a dog?

1071
00:50:24,680 --> 00:50:28,919
Speaker 9: No, it's a five year old kid, dude.

1072
00:50:28,960 --> 00:50:31,720
Speaker 23: Why would you write happy birthday, bitch on your son's

1073
00:50:31,760 --> 00:50:32,600
Speaker 23: birthday cake?

1074
00:50:32,640 --> 00:50:35,200
Speaker 9: Birthday bitch? What is your name? What's your name? You're

1075
00:50:35,239 --> 00:50:36,480
Speaker 9: the bitch? Okay o, my.

1076
00:50:36,600 --> 00:50:38,800
Speaker 1: Bitch, you're writing names on birthday cakes.

1077
00:50:38,800 --> 00:50:40,399
Speaker 9: Go in the back and make a cake as fast

1078
00:50:40,440 --> 00:50:41,800
Speaker 9: as you can't dude.

1079
00:50:41,600 --> 00:50:44,239
Speaker 23: I'm not a keibler, elf I cannot do it that fast, right,

1080
00:50:45,040 --> 00:50:45,920
Speaker 23: Who are you?

1081
00:50:45,960 --> 00:50:49,480
Speaker 9: Who are you? Get off the damn phone. Just get

1082
00:50:49,480 --> 00:50:52,480
Speaker 9: off the phone. Kind up bringing me to leave work

1083
00:50:52,480 --> 00:50:53,560
Speaker 9: to come down to the store.

1084
00:50:53,719 --> 00:50:58,040
Speaker 17: Okay, So what do you want me to do? He won't

1085
00:50:58,080 --> 00:51:00,400
Speaker 17: do it for me. We have to have a cake,

1086
00:51:00,640 --> 00:51:02,160
Speaker 17: so we kind of have to take the happy birthday

1087
00:51:02,160 --> 00:51:03,759
Speaker 17: bitch cake. I don't know what you want me to do.

1088
00:51:03,920 --> 00:51:05,840
Speaker 9: That is not an option taking the bitch cake. What

1089
00:51:05,960 --> 00:51:08,040
Speaker 9: is the name of this store? I'm calling the city.

1090
00:51:08,160 --> 00:51:10,640
Speaker 23: The name of the store is Elvis Duran's House of Cakes.

1091
00:51:11,040 --> 00:51:13,640
Speaker 23: What this is Garret from Elvis Duran in the Morning Show.

1092
00:51:13,680 --> 00:51:15,080
Speaker 1: And you got phone tapped.

1093
00:51:15,840 --> 00:51:19,759
Speaker 6: Oh my, I have never heard you talk so fast.

1094
00:51:19,520 --> 00:51:20,799
Speaker 17: And you're entire.

1095
00:51:25,040 --> 00:51:27,919
Speaker 9: I had to walk out of the parking lot.

1096
00:51:30,440 --> 00:51:32,160
Speaker 2: To be Elvis Duran's phone tap.

1097
00:51:33,640 --> 00:51:36,279
Speaker 14: This fal tab was pre recorded with permission granted by

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Speaker 14: all party students the.

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Speaker 1: Mel Robbins, thank you for dropping by. I know you're

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Speaker 1: the busiest person in show business.

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Speaker 15: Oh no, that's not true.

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Speaker 1: I think you are.

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Speaker 15: Now I'm not. I live in Vermont. I am not

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Speaker 15: the busiest person in show business.

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Speaker 1: Well, welcome to our show. Thank you. We're so excited

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Speaker 1: that you're here.

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Speaker 15: Thank you.

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Speaker 1: It's a dream come true to be honest, but I'm

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Speaker 1: not going to butter your biscuit anymore.

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Speaker 15: That sounds very sexual, biscuits buttered.

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Speaker 1: The number one New York bestseller, The Let Them Theory

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Speaker 1: is out, and we're talking about a book that people

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Speaker 1: in the publishing industry are saying, well, maybe one of

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Speaker 1: the biggest selling books of all time, which has got

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Speaker 1: to freak you out just a little bit. Or do

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Speaker 1: you believe it? Are they liars?

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Speaker 15: I I you know, you know, it's a weird thing

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Speaker 15: to talk about. It is like, there is no doubt.

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Speaker 15: This is my legacy, this book, this book, this is

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Speaker 15: my legacy. It's so I can't believe it. Mister Craying again,

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Speaker 15: I am so blown away by the impact it's making

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Speaker 15: and the fact that people are interested in reading a

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Speaker 15: book you know that is not helping you escape your life,

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Speaker 15: but helping you turn toward your life.

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Speaker 1: Wow, now I'm gonna start crying, so you can.

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Speaker 12: People need that right now so desperately.

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Speaker 15: Yes, I feel you know, there are so many moments

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Speaker 15: in your life where you're going to feel impatient and

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Speaker 15: where you're going to feel like you're not quite sure

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Speaker 15: where things are going. And I know over the past

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Speaker 15: sixteen years in particular, I've certainly felt that way. And

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Speaker 15: what has happened with this theory and the way it's

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Speaker 15: spread around the world is I now can look back

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Speaker 15: and go, oh, all of those reps you were putting in,

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Speaker 15: all of those days you got yourself out of bed,

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Speaker 15: all of those days you didn't quit, all of those

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Speaker 15: times you kept going even though you got fired or

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Speaker 15: that didn't work out, or you didn't think it was

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Speaker 15: going to happen. It's because you were being held for

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Speaker 15: this moment. And I really believe that there are two

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Speaker 15: skills that I would love to talk about today that

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Speaker 15: have made a huge difference in my life that anybody

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Speaker 15: can learn. Number One, it is a skill in life

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Speaker 15: to learn how to make yourself do the things you

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Speaker 15: don't feel like doing. Like, if you only did the

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Speaker 15: things you don't feel like doing, you'd have everything you've

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Speaker 15: ever wanted. Motivation is complete garbage. Stop sitting around waiting

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Speaker 15: for it. It's not coming. Nobody's coming to save you.

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Speaker 15: You have everything you need inside you. That's not some

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Speaker 15: sort of wizard of Oz gobblygoo woo woo crap. The

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Speaker 15: truth is you have the ability to push yourself through anxiety,

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Speaker 15: through depression, through overwhelm, through fear, through anything that is

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Speaker 15: currently holding you back, and do the simple things that

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Speaker 15: will change your life.

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Speaker 1: And what was the second? Do you remember?

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Speaker 10: Yes?

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Speaker 15: And the second is teaching yourself how to believe in

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Speaker 15: a bigger possibility that things are going to work out

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Speaker 15: for you.

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Speaker 1: I just wanted people to hear those two things because

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Speaker 1: I well, people always.

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Speaker 15: Ask me how did you how did you become Mel Robbins,

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Speaker 15: And I'm like, how did you become Mel Robbins By

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Speaker 15: teaching myself how to get out of bed on those

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Speaker 15: moments when the anxiety and depression was so crushing and

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Speaker 15: I felt like what was the point?

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Speaker 1: Right?

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Speaker 7: And there's at one point in the book where you go.

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Speaker 7: I walked into my friend's house and she had just

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Speaker 7: renovated the whole house, and you were so jealous. Yes,

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Speaker 7: and you were so and that's and that's the point

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Speaker 7: where I feel you were like, f this, I gotta

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Speaker 7: do something.

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Speaker 15: Well, you know, there's again. Life is always teaching you something,

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Speaker 15: so you know, for for if you're listening and this

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Speaker 15: is the first time that you're either watching or hearing

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Speaker 15: my voice. My story begins sixteen years ago when we

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Speaker 15: were eight hundred thousand dollars in debt and my husband's

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Speaker 15: restaurant business was going under and I was unemployed at

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Speaker 15: the time, and we had three kids ten and under,

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Speaker 15: and that was not the vision for my life. And

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Speaker 15: what you will find is that it's easy to give

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Speaker 15: other people advice, but when the you know what hits

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Speaker 15: the fan in your own life, you get paralyzed with

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Speaker 15: the fear that you're not going to figure it out.

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Speaker 15: And that was me. And instead of doing what I

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Speaker 15: knew I needed to do, which was get a job,

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Speaker 15: stop screaming at Chris, get out of bed, get the

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Speaker 15: kids on the bus, ask for help, I did the opposite.

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Speaker 15: I drank myself into the ground and I would lay

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Speaker 15: in bed like a human pot roast, staring at the ceiling.

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Speaker 1: This sounds good.

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Speaker 15: Yeah, I wouldn't open the bills. They just kept piling

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Speaker 15: up on the counter and it gets worse and worse,

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Speaker 15: and then you start to convince yourself there's nothing you

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Speaker 15: can do, and that's a lie. There is always something

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Speaker 15: you can do to improve even the worst of situations

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Speaker 15: through your attitude, through your actions, and through the way

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Speaker 15: you process your emotions. And this is not a new idea,

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Speaker 15: by the way, this is Victor Frankel's man search for meaning.

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Speaker 15: This is what's true about the human experience. And so

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Speaker 15: I became the success that you see today due to

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Speaker 15: sixteen years of boring, grueling reps that I would put

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Speaker 15: in every day that began with just get your butt

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Speaker 15: out of bed on the morning. You don't feel like it.

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Speaker 1: Wow, you know, very simple the five four three two

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Speaker 1: one theory of the the countdown. There's always something we're

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Speaker 1: procrastinating about. I don't want to go out of bed.

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Speaker 1: I don't want to do this. You got to be

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Speaker 1: that rocket at Cape Canaveral that's about to take off.

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Speaker 1: And once the countdown is done, down one and then

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Speaker 1: blast off, you have no choice but to go to

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Speaker 1: outer space. And it actually works. I've actually applied this

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Speaker 1: to my life and it works. When I first read that,

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Speaker 1: I'm like, this is what this is stupid.

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Speaker 15: Yes I agree, So number one.

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Speaker 1: Bell out of this crap.

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Speaker 15: Yes it works, it works.

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Speaker 1: Tell everyone.

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Speaker 15: Five second rul is super simple. It's a It's a

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Speaker 15: hack you can use for instant courage or motivation. Any

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Speaker 15: moment where you have this instinct that you should do something,

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Speaker 15: whether it's speaking up at work, or it's getting out

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Speaker 15: of bed, or it's putting the phone down and actually

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Speaker 15: stepping outside for a walk, whatever it may be. Just

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Speaker 15: start counting five four three two one. You got to

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Speaker 15: count backwards. Does not work if you count up, because

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Speaker 15: you've been taught to count up your entire life, so

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Speaker 15: it's already recorded in your subconscious. The trick works be

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Speaker 15: is if you count backwards five four three two one.

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Speaker 15: It requires a moment where you have to focus on

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Speaker 15: the counting, and that pulls the front part of your brain,

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Speaker 15: the prefrontal cortex online. So now you've just activated the

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Speaker 15: part of the brain that you need to change behavior

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Speaker 15: or to actually push yourself to do something. You're now

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Speaker 15: in control for a moment. And the other reason why

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Speaker 15: it works is because it's like the first domino. Counting

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Speaker 15: is an action, and if you've actually decided to count

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Speaker 15: five four, three two one, you've already decided to do it,

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Speaker 15: So you're going to do it the first domino. Yeah,

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Speaker 15: and then you move five, fourth, three to one.

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Speaker 1: Move.

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Speaker 2: Now.

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Speaker 15: I didn't know any of this when I invented it.

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Speaker 15: I invented it after having four bourbon Manhattans and seeing

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Speaker 15: a rocket ship launch across a television screen, right and thinking,

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Speaker 15: oh my god, Okay, that is a sign from God.

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Speaker 15: Tomorrow morning, I'm gonna launch my.

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Speaker 1: Ideas happened to the bar. I have no problem with that, you.

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Speaker 15: Know, I always say that, you know, my expertise comes

1258
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Speaker 15: from being life tested, right, Like when you're in that hole,

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Speaker 15: there's a lot of things that you learn about life.

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Speaker 7: But that's the best part about the book is that

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Speaker 7: you're so honest about that, where you're not just like

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Speaker 7: shoving this information down people's throats. You're saying, Okay, here's

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Speaker 7: an example. This is what happened to me.

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Speaker 15: Yeah, totally, Like I am the villain in my own

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Speaker 15: book for sure, Like the person they find that. You know,

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Speaker 15: as you read the let them theory, or like you

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Speaker 15: hear the stories from it, you're like, oh my gosh,

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Speaker 15: old Mel was pretty awful, jealous friend, immature, constantly taking

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Speaker 15: her emotions out on her family. You know, Wow, this

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Speaker 15: either reminds me of me or it reminds me of

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Speaker 15: somebody in my life that I wish would change. And

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Speaker 15: so I also think the success of this is is

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Speaker 15: because let them and let Me is so simple and

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Speaker 15: it's a tool. You don't have to think about it,

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Speaker 15: you just use it and it works. And also, this

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Speaker 15: is a book that is largely about stories, but the

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Speaker 15: stories are what translates the research.

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Speaker 1: But I'm sure from time to time you still throw

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Speaker 1: sharp objects. You're crazy, okay, just making sure I need

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Speaker 1: to know that God.

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Speaker 5: Yes, So from all the things that you're saying, it's

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Speaker 5: not about the end, it's more about the beginning and

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Speaker 5: getting started. Yes, how can you I know you're saying

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Speaker 5: get out of bed. But for people who are just

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Speaker 5: super sad and they're having a tough time that day,

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Speaker 5: aside from get out of bed, what do you tell them?

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Speaker 15: Well, if you're having a tough day, the first thing

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Speaker 15: I want you to understand is that in order to

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Speaker 15: have good days, you gotta have bad days, and reminding

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Speaker 15: yourself that this is temporary and that another wave is

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Speaker 15: going to come and you have the ability to just

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Speaker 15: ride this wave. You don't have to gaslight yourself into positivity.

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Speaker 15: You can just allow yourself to be sad. One of

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Speaker 15: the things that is very helpful for me is to

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Speaker 15: say things like I'm sad because I'm going to allow

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Speaker 15: myself to be a little down today because and the

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Speaker 15: because is important because then sadness doesn't become your identity.

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Speaker 15: You've identified the thing that makes you sad, and there

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Speaker 15: are going to be times where being sad or heartbroken

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Speaker 15: or down is a mentally healthy response to the things

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Speaker 15: that are going on in life. And you know, the

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Speaker 15: other thing that I would tell you is I do

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Speaker 15: think they'll let them. Theory will help a lot, because

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Speaker 15: if you find that you're at a point in your

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Speaker 15: life where you're overwhelmed, you're struggling, you're worried, you're sad,

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Speaker 15: you're tired, or you just are working very hard and

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Speaker 15: nothing's clicking. The problem isn't you. The problem is that

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Speaker 15: you unknowingly are giving so much of your power to

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Speaker 15: other people, to what they think, to their expectations, to

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Speaker 15: their moods, to the drama that's going on, to their beliefs.

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Speaker 15: And when you give power to other people, you have

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Speaker 15: none left for yourself. That's why you're tired. And so

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Speaker 15: this book and the Let Them Theory is actually about

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Speaker 15: power and control. What can you can control, what can

1315
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Speaker 15: you not control? Where is power and where are you

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Speaker 15: giving it away?

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Speaker 1: Well, the let Them theory there is actually a theory.

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Speaker 1: There's actually so short of easy to figure out outline

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Speaker 1: to that. I want to get into that in a second.

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Speaker 1: We'll be right back. Hey, I'm at sharing.

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Speaker 2: Hey, what's up?

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Speaker 1: Aseni?

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Speaker 2: Elvister ram in the Morning Show.

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Speaker 1: And we're back more with Mel Robbins. So when you

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01:02:24,520 --> 01:02:27,280
Speaker 1: and your daughter together wrote the Let Them Theory, they

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01:02:27,360 --> 01:02:29,520
Speaker 1: knew they had a hit already. They knew this thing

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Speaker 1: was going to be big.

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Speaker 15: Well, I'll tell you why, because it was excruciating to

1335
01:02:34,480 --> 01:02:37,480
Speaker 15: write this together. So she does this research project where

1336
01:02:37,480 --> 01:02:38,960
Speaker 15: I wanted her to go and look at all the

1337
01:02:39,000 --> 01:02:41,800
Speaker 15: comments online from the podcast and from some of the

1338
01:02:41,840 --> 01:02:43,880
Speaker 15: social media posts that we had put up, look at

1339
01:02:44,480 --> 01:02:46,640
Speaker 15: articles that were starting to get written about let Them.

1340
01:02:46,960 --> 01:02:48,400
Speaker 15: And she came back and was like, you can't write

1341
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Speaker 15: this book And I was like why, and she said, well,

1342
01:02:52,400 --> 01:02:54,760
Speaker 15: everybody loves it, except for there's like this slice of

1343
01:02:54,800 --> 01:02:57,760
Speaker 15: people they're saying let them feels good to it's making

1344
01:02:57,800 --> 01:03:00,480
Speaker 15: them lonely. And then you're kind of left sitting with

1345
01:03:00,600 --> 01:03:03,200
Speaker 15: now what. My brothers and sisters don't reach out unless

1346
01:03:03,200 --> 01:03:05,320
Speaker 15: I do. My friends aren't checking in on me unless

1347
01:03:05,360 --> 01:03:07,320
Speaker 15: I check out what now what? And she says, you

1348
01:03:07,320 --> 01:03:09,400
Speaker 15: can't put a book out that makes people lonely and

1349
01:03:09,480 --> 01:03:11,280
Speaker 15: kind of arrogant. And she said there has to be

1350
01:03:11,320 --> 01:03:14,400
Speaker 15: a second part. And that was the genesis for let

1351
01:03:14,440 --> 01:03:17,720
Speaker 15: Me right, because you have to let them is when

1352
01:03:17,800 --> 01:03:21,560
Speaker 15: you stop worrying about other people's opinions and feelings and

1353
01:03:21,600 --> 01:03:24,440
Speaker 15: moods and making it your responsibility to make everybody else happy.

1354
01:03:25,360 --> 01:03:27,280
Speaker 15: And then you got to go, okay, but now what

1355
01:03:28,080 --> 01:03:31,080
Speaker 15: let me remind myself that my power is actually in

1356
01:03:31,120 --> 01:03:32,880
Speaker 15: how I think about things and what I do or

1357
01:03:32,960 --> 01:03:36,040
Speaker 15: don't do, and how I process my emotions. And so

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01:03:36,480 --> 01:03:38,400
Speaker 15: she is the reason why they let me part start.

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01:03:38,440 --> 01:03:39,520
Speaker 15: And then I was like, well, then we got to

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Speaker 15: write this together. So now we have two totally different

1361
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Speaker 15: working styles. Like my brain is like take a bunch

1362
01:03:45,320 --> 01:03:47,280
Speaker 15: of mice in a cardboard box and tip it over

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01:03:47,280 --> 01:03:49,800
Speaker 15: in a kitchen, and she's a walking Excel spreadsheet. Plus

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Speaker 15: her mother daughter, we.

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Speaker 12: Were like.

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Speaker 15: I would come and be like I wanted to write

1367
01:03:54,640 --> 01:03:56,919
Speaker 15: this story about my friends and being a jealous, you know, jerk,

1368
01:03:56,960 --> 01:03:58,920
Speaker 15: and she's like, my age cares about that story. And

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Speaker 15: then we fight about it and we get mad, and

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Speaker 15: then and then we'd both be like let her, and

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01:04:02,360 --> 01:04:04,080
Speaker 15: then she would leave and go to a different room,

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Speaker 15: and then I would leave as we'd get frustrated. And

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Speaker 15: so we actually sorted through every aspect of the book

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01:04:10,240 --> 01:04:12,520
Speaker 15: and we argued over everything because she wanted to make

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01:04:12,560 --> 01:04:15,560
Speaker 15: it relevant to twenty somethings. I wanted to make it relevant,

1376
01:04:15,600 --> 01:04:18,280
Speaker 15: you know, to kind of like a little bit older demographic.

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Speaker 15: And the result was we argued over every word. And

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Speaker 15: in fact, another incredible story is that when we wrote

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Speaker 15: the love section, we're getting near the end of the book.

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Speaker 15: There's eight sections. Her boyfriend of two years, the one

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Speaker 15: she thought that was going to be the end of

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Speaker 15: the aisle dumb sir. She's like, I hate this theory.

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Speaker 15: What am I supposed to do? Just let him leave,

1384
01:04:37,960 --> 01:04:39,240
Speaker 15: let him sleep with somebody else?

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Speaker 2: What? Ha?

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Speaker 15: And so we wrote the breakup guide and using the

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Speaker 15: let them theory as she was going through it in

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Speaker 15: real time. And I got to say it was incredible

1389
01:04:53,120 --> 01:04:57,000
Speaker 15: because she had to use let them to manage her

1390
01:04:57,040 --> 01:05:00,120
Speaker 15: emotions and the let me part, and I had to

1391
01:05:00,240 --> 01:05:03,440
Speaker 15: use let them and let her to give her the

1392
01:05:03,520 --> 01:05:07,560
Speaker 15: dignity of her own experience without wanting to solve it,

1393
01:05:07,600 --> 01:05:09,840
Speaker 15: Like I wanted to text the other mom constantly. I

1394
01:05:09,880 --> 01:05:12,240
Speaker 15: wanted to reach out to him, like you know when

1395
01:05:12,280 --> 01:05:14,919
Speaker 15: she's when she's like you know. One of the piece

1396
01:05:14,960 --> 01:05:17,800
Speaker 15: of advice is nobody actually goes through the detox in

1397
01:05:17,840 --> 01:05:20,480
Speaker 15: a breakup. This is why you don't get over people

1398
01:05:20,840 --> 01:05:25,440
Speaker 15: when you break off a relationship. What you don't realize

1399
01:05:25,560 --> 01:05:28,680
Speaker 15: is that you are neurologically and in your nervous system

1400
01:05:28,920 --> 01:05:33,000
Speaker 15: hardwired to be connected to this person. So for the

1401
01:05:33,040 --> 01:05:35,520
Speaker 15: first couple of weeks, when you think you hear them talking,

1402
01:05:35,760 --> 01:05:38,400
Speaker 15: that's not because they miss you, that's not because you

1403
01:05:38,400 --> 01:05:41,440
Speaker 15: should get back together. That's because your brain has patterns

1404
01:05:41,960 --> 01:05:45,800
Speaker 15: that have been encoded that it's just repeating. And if

1405
01:05:45,840 --> 01:05:49,360
Speaker 15: you've never gone thirty days without looking at a photo

1406
01:05:49,480 --> 01:05:52,600
Speaker 15: or listening to a voice memo or watching their social

1407
01:05:52,640 --> 01:05:57,160
Speaker 15: media profile, then you've never fully actually given your nervous

1408
01:05:57,160 --> 01:06:01,439
Speaker 15: system in your brain a chance to get over them.

1409
01:06:01,640 --> 01:06:03,680
Speaker 15: Every time you listen to a voicemail, every time you

1410
01:06:03,720 --> 01:06:06,760
Speaker 15: look at a photo, you reactivate that circuitry. It's just

1411
01:06:06,800 --> 01:06:09,440
Speaker 15: like an alcoholic who has a drink. And so you

1412
01:06:09,640 --> 01:06:12,840
Speaker 15: have to do this thirty day thing where you don't

1413
01:06:12,840 --> 01:06:15,120
Speaker 15: look at anything, put their stuff in a box. I

1414
01:06:15,160 --> 01:06:17,640
Speaker 15: had to go through the digital frame in the kitchen.

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01:06:18,240 --> 01:06:21,560
Speaker 15: Pause pause because I'm not I don't want to delete,

1416
01:06:21,560 --> 01:06:25,280
Speaker 15: because I'm holding out hope, right pause pause pause, you know,

1417
01:06:25,800 --> 01:06:29,160
Speaker 15: because but I have to let her have this experience.

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01:06:29,200 --> 01:06:31,200
Speaker 15: And what's interesting is when you have somebody in your

1419
01:06:31,240 --> 01:06:34,680
Speaker 15: life who's going through something it's so uncomfortable that you

1420
01:06:34,720 --> 01:06:38,200
Speaker 15: want to save them from it. If you can learn

1421
01:06:38,440 --> 01:06:41,840
Speaker 15: to give them a little space while you're standing on

1422
01:06:41,880 --> 01:06:44,720
Speaker 15: the sidelines in support, like, how would you like me

1423
01:06:44,840 --> 01:06:48,560
Speaker 15: to show up? What's interesting is you actually signal to somebody,

1424
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Speaker 15: I believe in your capacity to change. I believe in

1425
01:06:52,360 --> 01:06:56,240
Speaker 15: your capacity to move through this. And as a mom,

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Speaker 15: it's been incredible to recognize that my innate desire to

1427
01:07:00,480 --> 01:07:03,880
Speaker 15: want my husband to change doesn't make him change. It

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01:07:04,120 --> 01:07:07,720
Speaker 15: also creates distance between us learning how to let him

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01:07:07,760 --> 01:07:11,320
Speaker 15: be who he is and forcing myself to accept and

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01:07:11,360 --> 01:07:14,640
Speaker 15: love him as he is. Like, that's a whole different

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01:07:15,560 --> 01:07:17,640
Speaker 15: way to be with somebody. It's they always I heard

1432
01:07:17,640 --> 01:07:20,600
Speaker 15: somebody say once that second marriages are amazing, especially when

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Speaker 15: it's with the same person.

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Speaker 1: Wow.

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Speaker 15: And when you change how you show up, you change

1436
01:07:25,960 --> 01:07:29,919
Speaker 15: the relationship. But we've always put the pressure on other

1437
01:07:30,000 --> 01:07:32,880
Speaker 15: people to change, when actually you've got the power based

1438
01:07:32,920 --> 01:07:36,960
Speaker 15: on your energy and your attitude towards somebody, and creating

1439
01:07:37,000 --> 01:07:39,440
Speaker 15: space for somebody to be themselves is actually the best

1440
01:07:39,440 --> 01:07:40,240
Speaker 15: way to love them.

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01:07:40,480 --> 01:07:42,280
Speaker 5: When you were writing this, did you have any idea

1442
01:07:42,280 --> 01:07:44,000
Speaker 5: how many people were going to tattoo let them on

1443
01:07:44,080 --> 01:07:44,560
Speaker 5: their bodies?

1444
01:07:44,560 --> 01:07:46,000
Speaker 12: Because it's all I see everywhere.

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01:07:46,040 --> 01:07:48,640
Speaker 15: Well, it's apparently because we you know, we went through

1446
01:07:48,680 --> 01:07:52,200
Speaker 15: the process of contacting every tattoo studio that you see

1447
01:07:52,240 --> 01:07:54,840
Speaker 15: in here and getting rights for it. Really, and every

1448
01:07:54,920 --> 01:07:56,120
Speaker 15: one of them are like, I got to tell you,

1449
01:07:56,160 --> 01:07:59,920
Speaker 15: this is the number one tattoo that everywhere. Well because

1450
01:08:00,240 --> 01:08:02,560
Speaker 15: seeing it, and I love seeing now the let me

1451
01:08:02,680 --> 01:08:06,960
Speaker 15: tattoos because let them. When you say it, it's instant peace,

1452
01:08:07,720 --> 01:08:11,640
Speaker 15: because you're reminding yourself this drama or this situation does

1453
01:08:11,680 --> 01:08:15,080
Speaker 15: not deserve to be stressing me out. My time and

1454
01:08:15,240 --> 01:08:17,680
Speaker 15: energy is worth protecting. So when you say let them,

1455
01:08:17,680 --> 01:08:21,000
Speaker 15: it's a boundary. So a big mistake that people have

1456
01:08:21,120 --> 01:08:23,120
Speaker 15: about this is that, well, aren't you just letting them

1457
01:08:23,120 --> 01:08:25,120
Speaker 15: treat you like garbage? I'm like, no, they already are.

1458
01:08:25,880 --> 01:08:28,920
Speaker 15: You're explaining it away. When you say let them, you're

1459
01:08:28,920 --> 01:08:32,160
Speaker 15: erecting a boundary between yourself and the other person, and

1460
01:08:32,200 --> 01:08:34,519
Speaker 15: you're saying yourself, Okay, let them be who they are,

1461
01:08:34,680 --> 01:08:36,680
Speaker 15: let them do what they're doing, because their behavior is

1462
01:08:36,680 --> 01:08:37,599
Speaker 15: giving me data.

1463
01:08:37,680 --> 01:08:38,120
Speaker 1: There you go.

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01:08:38,240 --> 01:08:39,120
Speaker 15: Now I get to choose.

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01:08:39,200 --> 01:08:41,400
Speaker 1: See, that's the thing. When I first saw the book

1466
01:08:41,439 --> 01:08:44,160
Speaker 1: and the title, I automatically go to, well, let them.

1467
01:08:44,439 --> 01:08:46,719
Speaker 1: Let me just make an assumption what this is about.

1468
01:08:47,200 --> 01:08:51,280
Speaker 1: Let them Okay, someone said something just really disrespectful to me. Whatever, Okay,

1469
01:08:51,400 --> 01:08:54,720
Speaker 1: let them because what they're saying doesn't matter. Well, I

1470
01:08:55,040 --> 01:08:57,960
Speaker 1: don't get I'm not giving them the power. That's the

1471
01:08:58,000 --> 01:09:01,000
Speaker 1: point to mess with my power. So that's that was my.

1472
01:09:03,080 --> 01:09:04,800
Speaker 15: But here's the other thing. One of the things that

1473
01:09:04,840 --> 01:09:07,320
Speaker 15: you'll recognize when you start saying this, let them and

1474
01:09:07,400 --> 01:09:10,280
Speaker 15: let me is that the one thing in life you

1475
01:09:10,320 --> 01:09:14,280
Speaker 15: have no control over is what another human being thinks, says, believes,

1476
01:09:14,360 --> 01:09:18,920
Speaker 15: does no control. And so it is the biggest form

1477
01:09:19,000 --> 01:09:22,960
Speaker 15: of gaslighting to yourself to think that there is absolutely

1478
01:09:23,000 --> 01:09:25,160
Speaker 15: something you could do that would guarantee that somebody has

1479
01:09:25,200 --> 01:09:27,760
Speaker 15: a thought. And I'll give you an example. We've all

1480
01:09:27,760 --> 01:09:30,040
Speaker 15: had the experience where you've bent over backwards. You go

1481
01:09:30,080 --> 01:09:31,880
Speaker 15: to some party you don't want to go to. You

1482
01:09:31,920 --> 01:09:33,439
Speaker 15: do it because you don't want people to be mad

1483
01:09:33,439 --> 01:09:35,840
Speaker 15: at you, or you feel guilty, and then you get

1484
01:09:35,840 --> 01:09:37,920
Speaker 15: to the party and the host is kind of annoyed

1485
01:09:37,920 --> 01:09:39,800
Speaker 15: because you're not as fun as you normally are. And

1486
01:09:39,840 --> 01:09:42,040
Speaker 15: so even though you bent over backwards and you did

1487
01:09:42,120 --> 01:09:44,120
Speaker 15: this thing hoping that somebody would feel a certain way

1488
01:09:44,120 --> 01:09:46,720
Speaker 15: about you, it didn't work. There's a better way. To

1489
01:09:46,720 --> 01:09:49,840
Speaker 15: live your life, which is let people feel what they're

1490
01:09:49,840 --> 01:09:51,559
Speaker 15: going to feel, think what they're going to think, follow

1491
01:09:51,600 --> 01:09:54,240
Speaker 15: you or unfollow you, misunderstand, just let them because they're

1492
01:09:54,240 --> 01:09:56,120
Speaker 15: going to anyway, So why would you waste any time

1493
01:09:56,120 --> 01:09:56,760
Speaker 15: on it.

1494
01:09:56,920 --> 01:09:59,000
Speaker 7: I can't listen because I feel like I'm listening to

1495
01:09:59,040 --> 01:10:00,960
Speaker 7: you on audible because that's how I read the book.

1496
01:10:01,160 --> 01:10:03,080
Speaker 7: And I know you do side bars all the time,

1497
01:10:03,120 --> 01:10:05,200
Speaker 7: and like, I know it's different because you buried your

1498
01:10:05,240 --> 01:10:07,760
Speaker 7: had things, but I feel like you know that she's

1499
01:10:07,800 --> 01:10:08,120
Speaker 7: with me.

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01:10:08,080 --> 01:10:10,559
Speaker 1: In the cars right now, and I feel like.

1501
01:10:10,520 --> 01:10:14,000
Speaker 7: That's my friend, MOUs.

1502
01:10:13,720 --> 01:10:14,120
Speaker 15: Your friend mo.

1503
01:10:14,479 --> 01:10:17,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, Mel Robbins. Of course the let them theory. It's

1504
01:10:17,040 --> 01:10:19,000
Speaker 1: out and I expect everyone listening to the sound of

1505
01:10:19,040 --> 01:10:21,200
Speaker 1: my vooks to buy fourteen copies because they're really decorative,

1506
01:10:21,240 --> 01:10:23,960
Speaker 1: these books. Yes, I mean they designed this cover to

1507
01:10:24,000 --> 01:10:24,720
Speaker 1: show up on a beach.

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01:10:25,000 --> 01:10:27,120
Speaker 15: Actually, I love that you said that because the color

1509
01:10:27,160 --> 01:10:29,640
Speaker 15: of it. We were told green books don't sell and

1510
01:10:29,680 --> 01:10:31,320
Speaker 15: it's bad luck to do a green book. And it

1511
01:10:31,360 --> 01:10:34,160
Speaker 15: was inspired by Corda Thorne and Rose's book two. I'm

1512
01:10:34,160 --> 01:10:36,160
Speaker 15: a big fantasy reader, and so my daughter and I

1513
01:10:36,240 --> 01:10:37,559
Speaker 15: were like, oh, we love the cover of book too,

1514
01:10:37,600 --> 01:10:40,400
Speaker 15: let's do green and yellow. And then we did it.

1515
01:10:40,439 --> 01:10:43,240
Speaker 15: And as we were designing it, I said to my daughter,

1516
01:10:43,479 --> 01:10:46,040
Speaker 15: this cover has to if you're walking down the beach,

1517
01:10:46,080 --> 01:10:48,320
Speaker 15: you have to be able to go, oh, there's that book.

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01:10:48,360 --> 01:10:51,840
Speaker 1: It's everywhere, Yes, in the airport, everywhere, well, everywhere I

1519
01:10:51,920 --> 01:10:53,400
Speaker 1: see it. I have to say that, you know, Jay

1520
01:10:53,439 --> 01:10:56,479
Speaker 1: Shatty's a good friend of ours. Jefferson Fisher. I've fallen

1521
01:10:56,520 --> 01:10:58,960
Speaker 1: in love with this guy. If you've ever seen him,

1522
01:10:58,960 --> 01:11:02,440
Speaker 1: he's usually in his car telling you, like how to

1523
01:11:02,439 --> 01:11:04,400
Speaker 1: cut people off and they're trying to f with your head.

1524
01:11:04,720 --> 01:11:06,920
Speaker 1: He's great. And I saw the podcast for the two

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01:11:06,920 --> 01:11:09,320
Speaker 1: of you. Yeah, are there other people like that emerging

1526
01:11:09,640 --> 01:11:12,519
Speaker 1: that could be the next best seller that we should

1527
01:11:12,520 --> 01:11:16,040
Speaker 1: be following. I love I love to collect these incredible

1528
01:11:16,360 --> 01:11:17,479
Speaker 1: forces on my.

1529
01:11:17,479 --> 01:11:23,719
Speaker 15: Instagram Jefferson Fisher fantastic human being. I also love doctor Julie.

1530
01:11:23,720 --> 01:11:25,120
Speaker 15: Do you know doctor Julie's in the UK?

1531
01:11:25,240 --> 01:11:26,000
Speaker 1: Who's that Well?

1532
01:11:26,000 --> 01:11:28,800
Speaker 15: I love her because she's a psychiatrist or psychologist that

1533
01:11:29,080 --> 01:11:33,960
Speaker 15: uses all these models to explain different principles. So she'll

1534
01:11:34,000 --> 01:11:37,760
Speaker 15: like take out kids toys and show you these intellectual concepts.

1535
01:11:37,760 --> 01:11:39,880
Speaker 15: And she's a mom of three kids, and when she

1536
01:11:39,920 --> 01:11:42,000
Speaker 15: flew over to be on the podcast, she brought her

1537
01:11:42,040 --> 01:11:44,160
Speaker 15: three kids and it was just really fun and we

1538
01:11:44,200 --> 01:11:46,439
Speaker 15: did all these things with physical models. So I really

1539
01:11:46,479 --> 01:11:48,120
Speaker 15: like her too. Look at that, but there's a lot

1540
01:11:48,160 --> 01:11:50,759
Speaker 15: of it, like look, I here's my philosophy in life

1541
01:11:50,840 --> 01:11:55,360
Speaker 15: is you can learn from anybody because on the road

1542
01:11:55,360 --> 01:11:57,519
Speaker 15: of life, you know, you might be ahead of me

1543
01:11:57,680 --> 01:11:59,840
Speaker 15: by three steps because you've gone through something that I haven't,

1544
01:11:59,840 --> 01:12:01,760
Speaker 15: so you can help me. I might be ahead of

1545
01:12:01,760 --> 01:12:04,040
Speaker 15: you at another time because I've gone through something with

1546
01:12:04,479 --> 01:12:07,000
Speaker 15: my son, and now I can help you. You are

1547
01:12:07,080 --> 01:12:09,080
Speaker 15: best equipped to help the person you used to be.

1548
01:12:09,479 --> 01:12:11,880
Speaker 15: And I don't think that you need some fancy credentials

1549
01:12:12,000 --> 01:12:14,240
Speaker 15: or a New York Times bestselling book to make a

1550
01:12:14,280 --> 01:12:16,639
Speaker 15: difference in another person's life. I think we all have

1551
01:12:17,160 --> 01:12:21,120
Speaker 15: important stories to share, lessons that we can teach other people,

1552
01:12:21,200 --> 01:12:23,000
Speaker 15: things that we can learn from our lives. And if

1553
01:12:23,000 --> 01:12:27,599
Speaker 15: you look at everybody around you with the potential that

1554
01:12:27,680 --> 01:12:31,639
Speaker 15: you could learn something from them, it changes everybody's ability

1555
01:12:31,760 --> 01:12:34,320
Speaker 15: to lift each other up. And that's a really cool thing.

1556
01:12:34,800 --> 01:12:38,519
Speaker 15: And so you can be the next Jefferson Fisher. You

1557
01:12:38,560 --> 01:12:41,920
Speaker 15: could be the next person that does something online that

1558
01:12:41,960 --> 01:12:45,960
Speaker 15: really reaches somebody halfway across the world that really needed

1559
01:12:45,960 --> 01:12:48,520
Speaker 15: to hear it. Like, there's eight billion people on this planet,

1560
01:12:48,640 --> 01:12:50,840
Speaker 15: and so there's something about the way that you're going

1561
01:12:50,960 --> 01:12:53,760
Speaker 15: to say something that is going to reach somebody in

1562
01:12:53,760 --> 01:12:56,360
Speaker 15: a way that I can't because my life experience is

1563
01:12:56,360 --> 01:12:57,120
Speaker 15: different than yours.

1564
01:12:57,360 --> 01:12:59,000
Speaker 1: I'm over halfway through the book and now I want

1565
01:12:59,000 --> 01:13:01,439
Speaker 1: to reach read by listening to the audible version. I

1566
01:13:01,439 --> 01:13:03,519
Speaker 1: know them over halfway through the book. Because you're getting

1567
01:13:03,560 --> 01:13:06,320
Speaker 1: into friendships and how important they are. Our friend Barbara

1568
01:13:06,360 --> 01:13:09,000
Speaker 1: Krkman was here the other day, said, Barbara still one

1569
01:13:09,040 --> 01:13:11,960
Speaker 1: of my best friends. Barbara's I look at her. She's

1570
01:13:11,960 --> 01:13:14,439
Speaker 1: sitting in this is she's sitting in this chair. I said, Barbara,

1571
01:13:14,479 --> 01:13:17,800
Speaker 1: you're almost one hundred and five years old. What is

1572
01:13:17,840 --> 01:13:19,559
Speaker 1: it in life that you're loving the most? And she said,

1573
01:13:19,800 --> 01:13:23,040
Speaker 1: surrounding myself with the people I love friends and talk

1574
01:13:23,080 --> 01:13:25,240
Speaker 1: about that because I think this is such an important,

1575
01:13:25,400 --> 01:13:28,519
Speaker 1: powerful thing people need to pay more attention to, and

1576
01:13:28,560 --> 01:13:31,120
Speaker 1: that's the people they surround themselves with.

1577
01:13:31,680 --> 01:13:35,000
Speaker 15: Absolutely Well, it's easy to forget that this all ends

1578
01:13:35,000 --> 01:13:37,559
Speaker 15: the same way for all of us, and at the

1579
01:13:37,680 --> 01:13:40,360
Speaker 15: end of your life, you're not going to be in

1580
01:13:40,400 --> 01:13:42,559
Speaker 15: a hearse that's pulling a U haul full of crap,

1581
01:13:43,240 --> 01:13:46,040
Speaker 15: and people aren't going to care much about your acknowledgments.

1582
01:13:46,479 --> 01:13:49,160
Speaker 15: Like if you do it right, you actually reflect on

1583
01:13:49,200 --> 01:13:51,880
Speaker 15: your life and you say to yourself, I am proud

1584
01:13:51,920 --> 01:13:54,360
Speaker 15: of the way that I used my time and energy,

1585
01:13:54,720 --> 01:13:56,519
Speaker 15: that I was a good boss, I was a good parent,

1586
01:13:56,560 --> 01:13:59,479
Speaker 15: I was a good friend. And if you do it right,

1587
01:13:59,560 --> 01:14:02,400
Speaker 15: you're by people that you care about who love you,

1588
01:14:03,160 --> 01:14:06,120
Speaker 15: and it's easy to get caught up. I know I

1589
01:14:06,160 --> 01:14:09,240
Speaker 15: certainly have in the day to day or in chasing

1590
01:14:09,320 --> 01:14:12,759
Speaker 15: the next thing, that you forget that it's really about

1591
01:14:12,840 --> 01:14:15,640
Speaker 15: the people. And one thing that has helped me a

1592
01:14:15,640 --> 01:14:19,320
Speaker 15: lot with the let them theory is really understanding the

1593
01:14:19,439 --> 01:14:23,000
Speaker 15: nature of friendship. And in order to create friendships, three

1594
01:14:23,080 --> 01:14:28,240
Speaker 15: things have to be present. Proximity, timing, and energy. That's it,

1595
01:14:28,720 --> 01:14:31,320
Speaker 15: and these factors have been proven by research. In order

1596
01:14:31,360 --> 01:14:33,240
Speaker 15: to be a casual friend with somebody, you got to

1597
01:14:33,240 --> 01:14:35,720
Speaker 15: spend about seventy hours. To be a good friend, you

1598
01:14:35,760 --> 01:14:38,320
Speaker 15: got to spend two hundred. And when we were little,

1599
01:14:38,360 --> 01:14:40,720
Speaker 15: from zero to twenty, we were around people our same

1600
01:14:40,760 --> 01:14:43,160
Speaker 15: age going through life at the exact same time celebrating

1601
01:14:43,200 --> 01:14:46,439
Speaker 15: the same milestones, the same vacations, the same everything. So

1602
01:14:46,520 --> 01:14:48,960
Speaker 15: you were in proximity with so many people your age.

1603
01:14:49,040 --> 01:14:51,800
Speaker 15: You're in the same timing of life, and schools set

1604
01:14:51,880 --> 01:14:55,280
Speaker 15: up the structure for it, and you could understand, Okay,

1605
01:14:55,360 --> 01:14:57,000
Speaker 15: do I click do I not click with these people?

1606
01:14:57,200 --> 01:14:59,519
Speaker 15: Then you hit your twenties and what I call the

1607
01:14:59,560 --> 01:15:02,719
Speaker 15: great sky mattering happens. Everybody suddenly is going in different directions.

1608
01:15:03,160 --> 01:15:06,240
Speaker 15: But you don't realize that it's always about these three

1609
01:15:06,520 --> 01:15:09,920
Speaker 15: things proximity, timing, and energy. And so it begs the

1610
01:15:10,000 --> 01:15:12,040
Speaker 15: question why aren't you just best best best friends with

1611
01:15:12,080 --> 01:15:14,280
Speaker 15: everybody at work, Because from the age of twenty to sixty,

1612
01:15:14,360 --> 01:15:16,920
Speaker 15: you'll spend more time at work with people than you

1613
01:15:16,960 --> 01:15:20,639
Speaker 15: will friends and family combined. Well, the reason why is timing.

1614
01:15:21,400 --> 01:15:24,320
Speaker 15: So if you're in your twenties at work and you

1615
01:15:24,400 --> 01:15:26,120
Speaker 15: work with people that are in their fifties, you may

1616
01:15:26,200 --> 01:15:27,960
Speaker 15: love these people and have great energy, but you're in

1617
01:15:28,080 --> 01:15:31,360
Speaker 15: different time of life. You know, my daughter's out partying

1618
01:15:31,360 --> 01:15:33,240
Speaker 15: and throwing up in a garbage can and she comes

1619
01:15:33,240 --> 01:15:35,840
Speaker 15: in on a Monday. You know she's not really gonna

1620
01:15:36,320 --> 01:15:38,240
Speaker 15: click with people talking about what they did at the

1621
01:15:38,240 --> 01:15:40,559
Speaker 15: soccer field with their kids on the weekend. And that's

1622
01:15:40,560 --> 01:15:42,800
Speaker 15: why you can love people at work, but they're just

1623
01:15:43,320 --> 01:15:46,120
Speaker 15: not the best of friends. And this is also why

1624
01:15:46,439 --> 01:15:48,240
Speaker 15: I hate this trend. Got to break up with that

1625
01:15:48,320 --> 01:15:51,640
Speaker 15: toxic friend. No, you don't let them come in and

1626
01:15:51,720 --> 01:15:54,400
Speaker 15: out of your life, let them come and go. Just

1627
01:15:54,439 --> 01:15:56,360
Speaker 15: because you don't see them doesn't mean you're not friends.

1628
01:15:57,040 --> 01:15:59,400
Speaker 15: What if you took a flexible approach and recognize that

1629
01:15:59,439 --> 01:16:02,680
Speaker 15: everybody you've ever met, unless you had some massive destructive

1630
01:16:02,800 --> 01:16:07,120
Speaker 15: falling out, everybody's still your friend, and your job isn't

1631
01:16:07,160 --> 01:16:09,080
Speaker 15: to sit back and be transactional and wait for them

1632
01:16:09,120 --> 01:16:11,840
Speaker 15: to reach out. If you want good relationships, it's not

1633
01:16:11,840 --> 01:16:12,519
Speaker 15: on them, it's on you.

1634
01:16:13,360 --> 01:16:15,600
Speaker 5: Is there ever a time, though, that you say, no,

1635
01:16:15,640 --> 01:16:17,280
Speaker 5: I'm not gonna let them, I'm not gonna let that

1636
01:16:17,320 --> 01:16:19,280
Speaker 5: person treat me this way or do that thing.

1637
01:16:19,600 --> 01:16:23,280
Speaker 15: Okay, great, So yes, all the time, I hope, because

1638
01:16:23,360 --> 01:16:25,320
Speaker 15: you're gonna say let them. So do you have an

1639
01:16:25,360 --> 01:16:26,600
Speaker 15: example me.

1640
01:16:28,439 --> 01:16:28,880
Speaker 1: I mean, in the.

1641
01:16:28,880 --> 01:16:31,640
Speaker 5: Past, I had worked with people who were terrible to

1642
01:16:31,680 --> 01:16:34,280
Speaker 5: be around every single day. Okay, it was terrible, and

1643
01:16:34,360 --> 01:16:36,360
Speaker 5: I used to think, Okay, I'm just gonna let this

1644
01:16:36,400 --> 01:16:38,639
Speaker 5: person do whatever they're gonna do, because I cannot control that.

1645
01:16:38,680 --> 01:16:40,960
Speaker 5: Correct However, there were boundaries, yes, where it came to

1646
01:16:41,200 --> 01:16:43,680
Speaker 5: which like that, I'm not gonna let you break like

1647
01:16:43,720 --> 01:16:44,559
Speaker 5: that they let.

1648
01:16:44,439 --> 01:16:48,760
Speaker 15: Me part because you can't ever control whether or not

1649
01:16:49,040 --> 01:16:50,880
Speaker 15: the words are going to come out in a particular tone.

1650
01:16:52,040 --> 01:16:54,920
Speaker 15: Let me is where you have to take the power

1651
01:16:54,960 --> 01:16:57,880
Speaker 15: back and ask yourself, how am I going to respond

1652
01:16:57,880 --> 01:17:01,400
Speaker 15: to this? And how you respond to things, especially when

1653
01:17:01,439 --> 01:17:04,280
Speaker 15: it's a disrespect is going to depend on a lot

1654
01:17:04,320 --> 01:17:06,320
Speaker 15: of things. It's going to depend on your energy today.

1655
01:17:06,520 --> 01:17:08,599
Speaker 15: It's going to depend on the situation that you're in.

1656
01:17:09,000 --> 01:17:10,960
Speaker 15: You get to choose if you speak up and be like, look,

1657
01:17:11,000 --> 01:17:12,640
Speaker 15: I realize you're stressed out, but you're gonna have to

1658
01:17:12,680 --> 01:17:15,680
Speaker 15: apologize for how your stress is impacting me. You get

1659
01:17:15,680 --> 01:17:17,200
Speaker 15: to choose if you're going to go to HR. You

1660
01:17:17,240 --> 01:17:18,800
Speaker 15: get to choose if you're going to stay in that job,

1661
01:17:18,960 --> 01:17:22,080
Speaker 15: because you have the power. I'm going to recognize this

1662
01:17:22,120 --> 01:17:24,320
Speaker 15: is who this person is. But now it's on me

1663
01:17:24,760 --> 01:17:28,040
Speaker 15: to hold a boundary and respect myself enough to either

1664
01:17:28,160 --> 01:17:30,400
Speaker 15: get out of this job or go to HR, or

1665
01:17:30,439 --> 01:17:32,920
Speaker 15: call out the tone of voice and do what I

1666
01:17:32,960 --> 01:17:34,719
Speaker 15: need to do. See I think this if we extend

1667
01:17:34,720 --> 01:17:37,080
Speaker 15: it into dating, Like, one of the big crises in

1668
01:17:37,160 --> 01:17:42,120
Speaker 15: dating right now is that people explain away crappy behavior,

1669
01:17:42,960 --> 01:17:45,479
Speaker 15: like people like if you're going out on a date

1670
01:17:45,520 --> 01:17:48,240
Speaker 15: with somebody, or if you're in a situationship and you

1671
01:17:48,280 --> 01:17:50,120
Speaker 15: know you're sleeping with somebody and they slink like a

1672
01:17:50,240 --> 01:17:53,120
Speaker 15: cat out the door in the morning, let them because

1673
01:17:53,120 --> 01:17:55,439
Speaker 15: that's data they're showing you they don't want to hang

1674
01:17:55,439 --> 01:17:58,720
Speaker 15: out with you, and you have to decide if this

1675
01:17:58,840 --> 01:18:03,080
Speaker 15: is a attractive or what you deserve in your life.

1676
01:18:03,439 --> 01:18:05,720
Speaker 15: They're not the problem, you are if you allow it.

1677
01:18:05,760 --> 01:18:09,000
Speaker 15: And that's not victim blaming. It is a conversation about

1678
01:18:09,000 --> 01:18:11,439
Speaker 15: where's the control and the power. Most of us get

1679
01:18:11,439 --> 01:18:14,320
Speaker 15: in these relationships and we explain away the disrespect or

1680
01:18:14,360 --> 01:18:16,360
Speaker 15: we cling onto the fantasy and we don't look at

1681
01:18:16,360 --> 01:18:18,479
Speaker 15: the reality that we're in. And if you could look

1682
01:18:18,520 --> 01:18:21,760
Speaker 15: at people's behavior when they gohos to you, when you

1683
01:18:21,880 --> 01:18:24,919
Speaker 15: have to chase them, like you inserting yourself into somebody's

1684
01:18:24,920 --> 01:18:27,760
Speaker 15: friend group and really thinking, oh, if I just hang

1685
01:18:27,800 --> 01:18:29,599
Speaker 15: around them more, maybe they're going to like me. No,

1686
01:18:29,800 --> 01:18:31,880
Speaker 15: they're already showing you they don't like you, and then

1687
01:18:31,920 --> 01:18:33,960
Speaker 15: take a step back and go, let me remind myself,

1688
01:18:34,479 --> 01:18:36,720
Speaker 15: it's up to me to decide if this is what

1689
01:18:36,800 --> 01:18:37,280
Speaker 15: I deserve.

1690
01:18:37,880 --> 01:18:39,840
Speaker 1: Wow, this is sort of goes back to the theory

1691
01:18:39,880 --> 01:18:42,080
Speaker 1: we always talk about. Arranged marriages are actually sometimes a

1692
01:18:42,080 --> 01:18:45,080
Speaker 1: great thing because your friends and family know you and

1693
01:18:45,200 --> 01:18:47,600
Speaker 1: how you're going going to totally be in denial with

1694
01:18:48,040 --> 01:18:50,800
Speaker 1: someone you're dating, but they see it. No, that's just

1695
01:18:50,840 --> 01:18:52,840
Speaker 1: another theory. There's something interesting going on here in the

1696
01:18:52,880 --> 01:18:55,639
Speaker 1: room now. Danielle, of course a huge fan of yours,

1697
01:18:56,400 --> 01:18:59,960
Speaker 1: but her husband Sheldon, over you. They fight their own

1698
01:19:00,280 --> 01:19:02,000
Speaker 1: they fight over who knows your best.

1699
01:19:02,040 --> 01:19:02,720
Speaker 15: You're the third part.

1700
01:19:02,720 --> 01:19:05,840
Speaker 1: So Sheldon, you've been quiet, I have unleash. Well, here's

1701
01:19:05,880 --> 01:19:06,200
Speaker 1: the thing.

1702
01:19:06,560 --> 01:19:09,560
Speaker 25: For the last month, my wife, Danielle has been peacocking

1703
01:19:09,600 --> 01:19:12,280
Speaker 25: around our house saying, oh, listen, I've I've found this

1704
01:19:12,400 --> 01:19:15,040
Speaker 25: new great person who's going to influence our life. I'm like,

1705
01:19:15,080 --> 01:19:17,519
Speaker 25: ohe great, who's that Mel Robins? I'm like, really, where

1706
01:19:17,560 --> 01:19:20,160
Speaker 25: you've been? I said, I've been best friends with Mel

1707
01:19:20,240 --> 01:19:22,760
Speaker 25: Robbins in my head for ten years? Can you tell

1708
01:19:22,800 --> 01:19:24,559
Speaker 25: me what the three two one method is of getting

1709
01:19:24,600 --> 01:19:26,160
Speaker 25: a better night sleep? Can you do that?

1710
01:19:26,320 --> 01:19:28,360
Speaker 1: No? No, exactly and when.

1711
01:19:28,280 --> 01:19:29,960
Speaker 25: Was the last time you used the five four three

1712
01:19:30,040 --> 01:19:32,000
Speaker 25: two one method in actuality?

1713
01:19:32,080 --> 01:19:32,960
Speaker 1: I know you read it.

1714
01:19:32,880 --> 01:19:33,760
Speaker 14: But have you done it?

1715
01:19:33,840 --> 01:19:33,880
Speaker 2: No?

1716
01:19:34,000 --> 01:19:35,800
Speaker 1: I did it this morning. How about that?

1717
01:19:36,479 --> 01:19:38,200
Speaker 25: I couldn't if I didn't want to get out of

1718
01:19:38,240 --> 01:19:40,760
Speaker 25: bed this morning. I simply imagine New Year's even I'm

1719
01:19:40,760 --> 01:19:42,840
Speaker 25: counting down to five four three two one, and there's

1720
01:19:42,920 --> 01:19:44,960
Speaker 25: thirty other people in my bedroom right now, and they're

1721
01:19:45,000 --> 01:19:46,800
Speaker 25: cheering for me to get out of bed. So why

1722
01:19:46,840 --> 01:19:48,719
Speaker 25: wouldn't I get out of bed with a pep in myself?

1723
01:19:50,040 --> 01:19:50,240
Speaker 1: This?

1724
01:19:50,280 --> 01:19:50,479
Speaker 8: Wait?

1725
01:19:50,520 --> 01:19:51,160
Speaker 20: The other day.

1726
01:19:51,280 --> 01:19:53,360
Speaker 7: The other day, we were at a track meet and

1727
01:19:53,400 --> 01:19:55,400
Speaker 7: there was a guy and he was acting like a

1728
01:19:55,439 --> 01:19:58,360
Speaker 7: total ass right, and I wanted to say something. I

1729
01:19:58,479 --> 01:20:01,679
Speaker 7: was ready, I had the words, and I said, Mel

1730
01:20:01,760 --> 01:20:04,160
Speaker 7: said let them, so I'm like, I'm just gonna let them.

1731
01:20:04,160 --> 01:20:05,559
Speaker 7: So then we got in the car and I started

1732
01:20:05,600 --> 01:20:07,679
Speaker 7: cursing the guy out in the car and he turns

1733
01:20:07,680 --> 01:20:10,599
Speaker 7: to me and he goes, what did Mel say? Final

1734
01:20:10,760 --> 01:20:13,240
Speaker 7: let them? So then I let them, and I actually

1735
01:20:13,240 --> 01:20:15,479
Speaker 7: did feel better. So I take credit for that, And

1736
01:20:15,600 --> 01:20:17,519
Speaker 7: I think I'm your friend more than.

1737
01:20:17,920 --> 01:20:21,160
Speaker 15: That, both yours. I'll let you both think whatever you want.

1738
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Speaker 1: So they go on and on and I just let them. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I want to go down, Thank you, I want to

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01:20:26,520 --> 01:20:29,800
Speaker 1: go down this I just just notes, okay, from the

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01:20:29,840 --> 01:20:32,800
Speaker 1: Latin theory, maybe as I see it, Stop wasting energy

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01:20:32,840 --> 01:20:36,559
Speaker 1: on things you cannot control. Stop comparing yourself to other people.

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01:20:37,000 --> 01:20:40,639
Speaker 1: Break free from fear and self doubt, release the grip

1744
01:20:40,680 --> 01:20:44,960
Speaker 1: of people's expectations. Loving that build the best friendships of

1745
01:20:45,000 --> 01:20:47,599
Speaker 1: your life. We talked about that, create that love you deserve.

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01:20:47,960 --> 01:20:51,320
Speaker 1: Pursue what truly matters to you with confidence, build resilience

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01:20:51,320 --> 01:20:55,439
Speaker 1: against everyday stressors distractions, define your own past to success,

1748
01:20:55,520 --> 01:20:58,400
Speaker 1: joy and fulfillment, and so much more. That's a taller order,

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01:20:58,439 --> 01:20:59,960
Speaker 1: it sure is, and it's in one book.

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01:21:00,080 --> 01:21:03,200
Speaker 15: It is because all you need is one tool. The

1751
01:21:03,200 --> 01:21:06,720
Speaker 15: only person that can keep you from what's meant for

1752
01:21:06,760 --> 01:21:09,960
Speaker 15: you in life is you. No other human being is

1753
01:21:10,000 --> 01:21:11,120
Speaker 15: blocking your way.

1754
01:21:11,479 --> 01:21:13,400
Speaker 1: We are our own worst enemies.

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01:21:14,080 --> 01:21:17,160
Speaker 15: But look, I didn't realize this. I was fifty four.

1756
01:21:17,560 --> 01:21:21,200
Speaker 15: Like I was, I constantly let other people stress me out.

1757
01:21:21,400 --> 01:21:24,240
Speaker 15: I was constantly tired and overwhelmed and jealous and pissed

1758
01:21:24,240 --> 01:21:27,280
Speaker 15: off about stupid things, and then blaming my stress and

1759
01:21:27,360 --> 01:21:30,920
Speaker 15: my emotions on the world around me. It wasn't until

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01:21:30,920 --> 01:21:34,000
Speaker 15: I started to say those words let them that I

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01:21:34,080 --> 01:21:38,360
Speaker 15: erected a boundary between the outside world and how I

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01:21:38,400 --> 01:21:40,680
Speaker 15: was allowing it to stress me out and drain me.

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Speaker 15: And once you stop draining yourself, you start to get

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01:21:46,280 --> 01:21:50,160
Speaker 15: your energy back, and you start to realize your time

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01:21:50,400 --> 01:21:53,639
Speaker 15: matters and your energy is everything. Your experience of life

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01:21:54,680 --> 01:21:57,479
Speaker 15: is determined by what you spend time on and what

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01:21:57,520 --> 01:21:58,479
Speaker 15: you pour energy into.

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01:21:58,680 --> 01:22:01,720
Speaker 7: Full stop those days though where you're like, I can't

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01:22:01,760 --> 01:22:04,240
Speaker 7: do it today, of how do you get yourself back

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Speaker 7: on track?

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Speaker 15: Well, I let myself have that day like so, I

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01:22:08,000 --> 01:22:11,000
Speaker 15: think it's important like that. There are times in life

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Speaker 15: where the mentally healthy response. This goes to your question

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01:22:14,160 --> 01:22:17,240
Speaker 15: about sadness. There are times in life where it's important

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01:22:17,520 --> 01:22:21,840
Speaker 15: to just be down. But often when things are bad,

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01:22:22,520 --> 01:22:25,040
Speaker 15: you're still carrying the weight of how this is impacting

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01:22:25,080 --> 01:22:28,439
Speaker 15: other people, like when you're down like I with a

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01:22:28,439 --> 01:22:32,559
Speaker 15: lot of people. My husband's has struggled with depression, and

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01:22:33,000 --> 01:22:36,120
Speaker 15: a lot of what he felt other than that dark cloud,

1780
01:22:36,280 --> 01:22:40,080
Speaker 15: was this sense of added shame that he wasn't able

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01:22:40,160 --> 01:22:43,400
Speaker 15: to show up in those moments for the family, you know,

1782
01:22:43,479 --> 01:22:48,160
Speaker 15: carrying this burden that somehow he is responsible for showing

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01:22:48,280 --> 01:22:51,719
Speaker 15: up a certain way because we need it. I wish

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01:22:51,720 --> 01:22:54,080
Speaker 15: we had had let them because it would give you

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01:22:54,200 --> 01:22:58,960
Speaker 15: the grace to be able to release the responsibility of

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01:22:59,400 --> 01:23:02,240
Speaker 15: everybody else so that you can actually take care of yourself.

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Speaker 15: And let's look at the word responsibility. Responsibility is just

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01:23:05,120 --> 01:23:08,400
Speaker 15: the ability to respond. And life is going to be

1789
01:23:08,400 --> 01:23:10,360
Speaker 15: happening out there all the time. The headlines are going

1790
01:23:10,439 --> 01:23:11,920
Speaker 15: to be what they're going to be. People in your

1791
01:23:11,960 --> 01:23:14,040
Speaker 15: life are going to struggle, jobs are going to come

1792
01:23:14,080 --> 01:23:16,000
Speaker 15: and go. Think the economy is going to go up

1793
01:23:16,000 --> 01:23:20,679
Speaker 15: and down. Let it. Your response to what's happening is everything.

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01:23:20,720 --> 01:23:23,599
Speaker 15: And in fact, you know, I spoke to doctor Martin

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01:23:23,680 --> 01:23:26,920
Speaker 15: Luther King the third during you know that when we

1796
01:23:26,920 --> 01:23:28,800
Speaker 15: were talking about this book, and it was incredible to

1797
01:23:28,840 --> 01:23:31,000
Speaker 15: hear him reflect you know this s mouth is my

1798
01:23:31,040 --> 01:23:35,439
Speaker 15: father's legacy that the power is in your response to

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01:23:35,479 --> 01:23:38,640
Speaker 15: what's happening. You get to choose peace, you get to

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01:23:38,720 --> 01:23:41,200
Speaker 15: choose what you fight for, You get to choose how

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01:23:41,200 --> 01:23:43,639
Speaker 15: you're going to show up in the face of things

1802
01:23:43,720 --> 01:23:48,800
Speaker 15: that seem dark, and so understanding that you have more

1803
01:23:49,000 --> 01:23:53,439
Speaker 15: power than you realize is a very incredible thing.

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01:23:53,920 --> 01:23:55,960
Speaker 1: The power of the word no remembered to preset all

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Speaker 1: the time.

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01:23:56,240 --> 01:23:56,920
Speaker 7: It's a full sentence.

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01:23:56,960 --> 01:23:59,800
Speaker 1: Remember, Yeah, no is the sentence years ago. And you

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01:23:59,840 --> 01:24:02,160
Speaker 1: gave you hats no on it, which is my favorite

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01:24:02,200 --> 01:24:06,200
Speaker 1: hat to wear. But that was my first foray into like, Okay,

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01:24:06,360 --> 01:24:09,320
Speaker 1: I do have the power to be in control here

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01:24:09,760 --> 01:24:12,960
Speaker 1: say no. Saying no is just the most wonderful.

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01:24:12,560 --> 01:24:14,280
Speaker 15: Word, and then let them be disappointed.

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01:24:14,439 --> 01:24:15,960
Speaker 1: Does this were you at, by the way, well these

1814
01:24:16,040 --> 01:24:18,839
Speaker 1: questions when you're done with this in these these interviews,

1815
01:24:19,040 --> 01:24:21,040
Speaker 1: does she go to the car and just go, damn,

1816
01:24:21,720 --> 01:24:25,240
Speaker 1: I'm done. I'm gonna take off my spanks and just

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01:24:25,280 --> 01:24:27,080
Speaker 1: explode and just no.

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Speaker 15: You know I because I think what's standing in people's

1819
01:24:29,280 --> 01:24:33,280
Speaker 15: way most is discouragement, right, the sense that it doesn't

1820
01:24:33,360 --> 01:24:37,240
Speaker 15: matter what you do, nothing's going to change. And if

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01:24:37,320 --> 01:24:42,280
Speaker 15: there's anything that I hope to offer people, especially at

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01:24:42,320 --> 01:24:46,599
Speaker 15: a very dark moment, I really want to be a

1823
01:24:46,760 --> 01:24:51,320
Speaker 15: light that activates a sense of hope and encouragement in

1824
01:24:51,360 --> 01:24:54,080
Speaker 15: you that yes, things can get better, and yes there

1825
01:24:54,080 --> 01:24:56,000
Speaker 15: are things that you can use, and yes it matters,

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01:24:56,080 --> 01:24:57,600
Speaker 15: it matters profoundly.

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01:24:58,040 --> 01:25:01,519
Speaker 1: So this charges you up, this conversation absolutely, all right, Yes,

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01:25:01,560 --> 01:25:02,519
Speaker 1: go ahead, gondw Okay.

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Speaker 5: So you've obviously been very inspirational to so many people

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01:25:05,200 --> 01:25:07,000
Speaker 5: and they're getting let them tattooed on them. I see

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01:25:07,000 --> 01:25:10,000
Speaker 5: a tattoo on your wrists. I can't read the entire thing.

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01:25:10,040 --> 01:25:12,360
Speaker 5: It says, it shall be what it shall.

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Speaker 15: Be, It shall be? It shall be is a reminder

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01:25:16,000 --> 01:25:18,960
Speaker 15: in your ability to figure it out. Like I really

1835
01:25:19,000 --> 01:25:21,479
Speaker 15: do believe that. I think you can look backwards in

1836
01:25:21,520 --> 01:25:24,160
Speaker 15: your life and even the horrible things that happened that

1837
01:25:24,200 --> 01:25:27,680
Speaker 15: you didn't deserve, you can see how every twist in

1838
01:25:27,760 --> 01:25:29,760
Speaker 15: turn led you to where you are today. You can

1839
01:25:29,760 --> 01:25:32,480
Speaker 15: see the lessons in it. You can kind of understand

1840
01:25:32,520 --> 01:25:35,160
Speaker 15: how it shaped you and led you to this moment

1841
01:25:35,960 --> 01:25:39,600
Speaker 15: it shall be. And this skill that I believe that

1842
01:25:39,640 --> 01:25:43,759
Speaker 15: everybody can learn is standing in this moment and actually

1843
01:25:43,800 --> 01:25:47,120
Speaker 15: doing that to the future, that this moment, too, is

1844
01:25:47,200 --> 01:25:49,920
Speaker 15: but a brick on the path of your life that

1845
01:25:50,120 --> 01:25:52,800
Speaker 15: is leading you somewhere, and you can stand in this

1846
01:25:52,960 --> 01:25:58,000
Speaker 15: moment and even when it's devastating or heartbreaking or overwhelming

1847
01:25:58,080 --> 01:26:02,920
Speaker 15: and scary, that you can hold your own hand and

1848
01:26:02,960 --> 01:26:06,320
Speaker 15: remind yourself that this is but a moment, and some

1849
01:26:06,479 --> 01:26:09,240
Speaker 15: point in the future there is such a bigger possibility

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01:26:09,240 --> 01:26:11,800
Speaker 15: that is waiting for you, and your job is not

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01:26:11,880 --> 01:26:14,600
Speaker 15: to doubt that. Your job is to trust that it

1852
01:26:14,680 --> 01:26:17,320
Speaker 15: is coming, and that at some point you'll look back

1853
01:26:17,800 --> 01:26:21,920
Speaker 15: and understand why this happened and what you learned from it,

1854
01:26:21,960 --> 01:26:25,800
Speaker 15: because it was preparing you for something bigger that was coming.

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01:26:25,920 --> 01:26:28,120
Speaker 1: And that's why that tattoo is there to remind you. Wow, Wow,

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01:26:28,479 --> 01:26:30,559
Speaker 1: you're my best friend who passed away his line and

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01:26:30,600 --> 01:26:33,720
Speaker 1: his tattoo was just be it that thinks that's my

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01:26:33,760 --> 01:26:37,400
Speaker 1: first and only tattoo I'm gonna get. Danielle, I don't.

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01:26:37,160 --> 01:26:40,599
Speaker 7: Even know what to say. I love the book. It's great,

1860
01:26:40,600 --> 01:26:43,160
Speaker 7: it's so inspirational. I love the I think a lot

1861
01:26:43,200 --> 01:26:45,720
Speaker 7: of younger people should read it as well. I think

1862
01:26:45,760 --> 01:26:50,200
Speaker 7: that in Trash Cans because I know our son was

1863
01:26:50,240 --> 01:26:52,640
Speaker 7: just going through something, you know, something similar to what

1864
01:26:52,880 --> 01:26:54,920
Speaker 7: we all do. Yeah, and I think that he would

1865
01:26:54,920 --> 01:26:56,679
Speaker 7: take a lot from this book, So I don't think

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01:26:56,680 --> 01:26:59,040
Speaker 7: it's It's definitely geared to so many different people.

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Speaker 1: I cannot tell you how grateful I am that you

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Speaker 1: spent time with us today.

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Speaker 15: Well, thank you for inviting me.

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Speaker 1: The let them theory is out, of course, why don't

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Speaker 1: you be one of the ka billions of people who

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Speaker 1: have made it the best selling book.

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Speaker 15: Here's something you don't even need to buy it. We

1874
01:27:11,000 --> 01:27:11,840
Speaker 15: just told you how to use it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, something from Sheldon. I mean, I'm thrilled to be here.

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Speaker 25: I love the fact that this is a moment that

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Speaker 25: I have pictured in my mind for many, many years.

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Speaker 1: But you are exactly who I thought you would be.

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Speaker 1: So thanks for everything you gift to everyone. Mel Robbins.

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Speaker 1: Of course the let them theory, it's out, go get it.

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Speaker 1: Thank you.

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Speaker 7: It's amazing, she's we want to keep her.

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Speaker 1: The name of the book if you're wondering, is the

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Speaker 1: let them theory and uh, it's everything and anything you

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Speaker 1: would need uh to uh happy your holster, you know

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Speaker 1: what I'm saying through life. She's just amazing. So thank

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Speaker 1: you so much to Mel Robbins. I can't wait to

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Speaker 1: have her back on again. You know I love CBS

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Speaker 1: Sunday Morning. It's one of my favorite shows. If you

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Speaker 1: really is an incredible show. The stories are just well

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Speaker 1: paced and interesting and deep and wonderful. So one of

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Speaker 1: the reporters on CBS Sunday Morning, her name is Martha Tysner.

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Speaker 1: I believe she's been there for one hundred years. She's great.

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Speaker 1: She did a story about Vermont's Dog Mountain, this dog

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Speaker 1: chapel up in Vermont where people will go to grieve

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Speaker 1: and say goodbye to their dogs. And you go into

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Speaker 1: the dog Chapel in Vermont and you see just walls

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Speaker 1: covered with photos that people bring in and tack up.

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Speaker 1: They also bring their other dogs, and there's dogs running around.

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Speaker 1: It's just an unbelievable place. And you know, for some reason,

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Speaker 1: a lot of people don't give dog lovers and cat

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Speaker 1: lovers room to grieve when they lose arguably one of

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Speaker 1: the most important parts of their lives. Right and closer

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Speaker 1: to home here in Central Park. I don't know if

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Speaker 1: you know about the Secret Pet Memorial Tree. We've talked

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Speaker 1: about it before. There's a part of Central Park called

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Speaker 1: the Ramble. It's just a very, very just It's a wooded,

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Speaker 1: hilly kind of behind the scenes walk through Central Park

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Speaker 1: and right in the middle of it is this tree

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Speaker 1: decorated by pet owners with photos of their pets that

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Speaker 1: passed away. Have you ever been to the pet Memorial

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Speaker 1: Tree in Central Park?

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Speaker 15: No?

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Speaker 1: No, Oh, it'll take your breath away. It's incredible. So

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Speaker 1: go check it out next time you're in the ramble

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Speaker 1: in a beautiful Central Park. What another great way to

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Speaker 1: pay tribute to these pets of ours. So, a really

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Speaker 1: good friend of ours who we work with here at

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Speaker 1: Z one hundred in New York, they had to let

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Speaker 1: their dog go. I'm sorry. It just it kills me.

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01:31:08,479 --> 01:31:11,800
Speaker 1: I'm so sorry. It just kills me when people have

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Speaker 1: to let let them go, you know, because we are

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Speaker 1: all they know. We adopt them, or they come into

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Speaker 1: our lives when their little puppies or kittens and where

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Speaker 1: all they know. So the day they leave us, we've

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Speaker 1: been with them the entire time. Can someone say something, please?

1951
01:31:30,400 --> 01:31:34,440
Speaker 5: Yeah, someone, I'm thinking about our engineer Jeff right now because.

1952
01:31:34,200 --> 01:31:36,000
Speaker 1: He just that's what I was talking about.

1953
01:31:36,080 --> 01:31:38,360
Speaker 5: Yeah, he just cross his dog and it makes me

1954
01:31:38,439 --> 01:31:40,120
Speaker 5: very sad for him because that's your little buddy that's

1955
01:31:40,120 --> 01:31:44,160
Speaker 5: in your house with you unconditionally through everything, your crappiest moods.

1956
01:31:44,200 --> 01:31:47,599
Speaker 7: They're right there and it sucks that we have lived

1957
01:31:47,640 --> 01:31:49,600
Speaker 7: them like you know, I mean, I wish that was

1958
01:31:49,640 --> 01:31:52,400
Speaker 7: a magic pill that, oh God help us, you know,

1959
01:31:52,439 --> 01:31:54,120
Speaker 7: maybe one day don't come out with something.

1960
01:31:54,200 --> 01:31:57,759
Speaker 1: Well, Gandhi told us there is a pill that could

1961
01:31:57,800 --> 01:31:58,840
Speaker 1: prolong your dog's life.

1962
01:31:59,280 --> 01:31:59,639
Speaker 15: Amazing.

1963
01:32:00,240 --> 01:32:02,120
Speaker 18: I always say that I've seen the meme that says

1964
01:32:02,120 --> 01:32:04,760
Speaker 18: this all the time, is that we are here for

1965
01:32:05,200 --> 01:32:07,320
Speaker 18: they are here for a portion of our lives.

1966
01:32:07,960 --> 01:32:09,280
Speaker 1: We are their entire life.

1967
01:32:09,400 --> 01:32:13,839
Speaker 7: That's exactly trust us to make those decisions, you know, absolutely.

1968
01:32:13,920 --> 01:32:16,160
Speaker 5: I just wish they could speak and you could talk

1969
01:32:16,200 --> 01:32:17,519
Speaker 5: to them and they could say, hey, you know I'm

1970
01:32:17,560 --> 01:32:18,120
Speaker 5: not feeling good.

1971
01:32:18,400 --> 01:32:21,080
Speaker 12: You get me checked out, or hey, don't keep doing

1972
01:32:21,120 --> 01:32:22,920
Speaker 12: the surgery. Yeah you know, I'm good, let me.

1973
01:32:22,840 --> 01:32:25,120
Speaker 18: Get If you remember Elvis when we lost Kobe, it,

1974
01:32:25,240 --> 01:32:27,840
Speaker 18: I mean it's been nine years ago now, we knew

1975
01:32:27,840 --> 01:32:29,200
Speaker 18: things aren't good with him, and we took him to

1976
01:32:29,240 --> 01:32:31,840
Speaker 18: the vet and I'll never ever, ever forget. Doctor Berg

1977
01:32:31,920 --> 01:32:34,519
Speaker 18: looked at me in the face and he said, do

1978
01:32:34,560 --> 01:32:36,280
Speaker 18: you love him more than you love yourself?

1979
01:32:36,840 --> 01:32:39,160
Speaker 1: And I said yes. He said, then do what's right

1980
01:32:39,200 --> 01:32:40,720
Speaker 1: for him, not what's right for you.

1981
01:32:40,920 --> 01:32:42,840
Speaker 18: And I did And it was hard, and I missed

1982
01:32:42,880 --> 01:32:44,640
Speaker 18: Kobe every day, but I had to do what was

1983
01:32:44,720 --> 01:32:48,040
Speaker 18: right for him, because that's your responsibility as a pet owner,

1984
01:32:48,120 --> 01:32:48,960
Speaker 18: is to take care of them.

1985
01:32:49,320 --> 01:32:51,639
Speaker 1: You have to let them go, you do. Our friend

1986
01:32:51,680 --> 01:32:58,320
Speaker 1: Phil Cross his dog left them Saturday this weekend. They do,

1987
01:32:58,479 --> 01:33:00,880
Speaker 1: you know. They come into your lives and then just

1988
01:33:00,960 --> 01:33:02,880
Speaker 1: as soon as you get wrapped up, they leave us,

1989
01:33:03,120 --> 01:33:05,240
Speaker 1: you know. And I'm so sorry, I got some emotional

1990
01:33:05,280 --> 01:33:10,000
Speaker 1: But so if you have a friend who is a

1991
01:33:10,040 --> 01:33:12,439
Speaker 1: pet and you just don't understand why they're so connected

1992
01:33:12,479 --> 01:33:14,439
Speaker 1: to that pet, you don't understand why they treat that

1993
01:33:14,439 --> 01:33:17,160
Speaker 1: pet like their child, it's because they are connected. It's

1994
01:33:17,160 --> 01:33:23,240
Speaker 1: because they are their child. They are their children. And anyway, yeah,

1995
01:33:23,520 --> 01:33:25,720
Speaker 1: when I heard the news about Jeff's dog Jackie, I'm

1996
01:33:25,800 --> 01:33:31,439
Speaker 1: so so sad. But anyway, so yeah, the memorial pet tree,

1997
01:33:31,479 --> 01:33:34,120
Speaker 1: it's usually I think it's usually around Christmas time. It's

1998
01:33:34,200 --> 01:33:36,720
Speaker 1: it's up in Central Park, So take a walk and

1999
01:33:36,760 --> 01:33:40,800
Speaker 1: go check it out when next Christmas rolls around. And

2000
01:33:40,880 --> 01:33:44,600
Speaker 1: so there you go. I truly think that, you know,

2001
01:33:44,640 --> 01:33:46,880
Speaker 1: when we lose our pets, it's like it is losing

2002
01:33:46,960 --> 01:33:49,360
Speaker 1: a member of your family. There's days you need to

2003
01:33:49,360 --> 01:33:52,360
Speaker 1: take off, you need to and give people that space

2004
01:33:52,479 --> 01:33:56,240
Speaker 1: to grieve. All right, So if you do a CBS

2005
01:33:56,240 --> 01:34:01,120
Speaker 1: Sunday Morning search for that memorial dog park in Vermont.

2006
01:34:01,320 --> 01:34:04,080
Speaker 1: Watch that story. It'll totally move you. It really is

2007
01:34:04,080 --> 01:34:06,720
Speaker 1: a great It's actually a very happy story at the end,

2008
01:34:07,080 --> 01:34:08,840
Speaker 1: So give it a watch. All right. I didn't mean

2009
01:34:08,840 --> 01:34:10,960
Speaker 1: to like like poop pool on everyone's festive Monday.

2010
01:34:13,200 --> 01:34:15,080
Speaker 5: I always think when it comes to people in their pets,

2011
01:34:15,080 --> 01:34:16,960
Speaker 5: I love seeing good pet owners with their pet because

2012
01:34:16,960 --> 01:34:18,720
Speaker 5: I feel like it's the best version of themselves.

2013
01:34:18,960 --> 01:34:20,400
Speaker 12: You can meet the menus.

2014
01:34:20,080 --> 01:34:22,360
Speaker 5: Old bastard and you see them with their dog, and

2015
01:34:22,400 --> 01:34:23,679
Speaker 5: they're just so loving and adorable.

2016
01:34:23,680 --> 01:34:25,960
Speaker 12: I'm like, Okay, they're there, are looking at me. I

2017
01:34:26,000 --> 01:34:26,840
Speaker 12: was looking right at you.

2018
01:34:28,840 --> 01:34:36,360
Speaker 1: She said, God, yes, So there's that. And so you

2019
01:34:36,400 --> 01:34:38,559
Speaker 1: go to work and you know they're at home waiting

2020
01:34:38,600 --> 01:34:40,160
Speaker 1: for you. I bet you can't wait to get home

2021
01:34:40,200 --> 01:34:42,240
Speaker 1: and see them. So go home. Give them all the

2022
01:34:42,280 --> 01:34:45,680
Speaker 1: love you can give them. They're just they're everything. All right,

2023
01:34:45,720 --> 01:34:47,080
Speaker 1: let's go around the room. Let's see what's on the

2024
01:34:47,120 --> 01:34:48,880
Speaker 1: minds of everyone in the room. I want to start

2025
01:34:48,920 --> 01:34:51,519
Speaker 1: with Froggy, what's on your mind today?

2026
01:34:52,000 --> 01:34:55,160
Speaker 18: So normally when you watch golf, it's almost like you

2027
01:34:55,479 --> 01:34:58,240
Speaker 18: get to rest and relax, you just watch golf. Maybe

2028
01:34:58,240 --> 01:35:01,200
Speaker 18: you take a little nap GANDHI will to this. Yesterday

2029
01:35:01,360 --> 01:35:04,799
Speaker 18: was not a napping golf day. Watching the Masters yesterday,

2030
01:35:04,840 --> 01:35:06,800
Speaker 18: when it was over, I needed a nap. It was

2031
01:35:06,840 --> 01:35:11,519
Speaker 18: the most bipolar, just wild round of golf. One minute,

2032
01:35:11,520 --> 01:35:13,800
Speaker 18: it was like players would do good things and then

2033
01:35:13,920 --> 01:35:16,360
Speaker 18: absolutely crazy things, and I'm sitting there on my couch going,

2034
01:35:16,560 --> 01:35:18,640
Speaker 18: how did you do that? At that point and I

2035
01:35:18,720 --> 01:35:19,800
Speaker 18: realized that golf is hard.

2036
01:35:19,800 --> 01:35:21,600
Speaker 1: I get it. At play it, I understand it. But

2037
01:35:21,720 --> 01:35:23,120
Speaker 1: yesterday was such a wild day.

2038
01:35:23,120 --> 01:35:25,160
Speaker 18: But I really truly enjoyed it watching with my son,

2039
01:35:25,240 --> 01:35:28,240
Speaker 18: getting so many texts. Danielle called during the middle of

2040
01:35:28,560 --> 01:35:30,320
Speaker 18: the Masters. I had to had to put her off.

2041
01:35:30,400 --> 01:35:32,200
Speaker 18: I mean, Danielle, I'll call you back when it's over.

2042
01:35:32,360 --> 01:35:34,280
Speaker 18: So funny, I can't talk to you right now. Connie

2043
01:35:34,320 --> 01:35:36,360
Speaker 18: was texting me. It really was just a fun day.

2044
01:35:36,439 --> 01:35:38,800
Speaker 18: I enjoyed it. I can't wait till next year, only

2045
01:35:38,800 --> 01:35:41,000
Speaker 18: three hundred and sixty one days from AUGUSTA again.

2046
01:35:41,240 --> 01:35:44,400
Speaker 1: Can look at you. I can't wait. You You should

2047
01:35:44,400 --> 01:35:45,679
Speaker 1: buy one of those green jackets.

2048
01:35:46,720 --> 01:35:49,080
Speaker 18: Did you know that. I looked on Amazon. You can

2049
01:35:49,080 --> 01:35:50,880
Speaker 18: buy one for forty dollars. You can have your own

2050
01:35:50,920 --> 01:35:51,559
Speaker 18: green jacket.

2051
01:35:51,800 --> 01:35:55,240
Speaker 7: You can he sell them on Amazon Costume next year.

2052
01:35:56,080 --> 01:35:57,320
Speaker 7: Very easy go was.

2053
01:35:57,320 --> 01:35:59,439
Speaker 1: A professional golfer. What would I do if you? If

2054
01:35:59,479 --> 01:36:01,479
Speaker 1: you wore that the tournament, I'm pretty sure they'd kick

2055
01:36:01,520 --> 01:36:01,720
Speaker 1: you out.

2056
01:36:01,840 --> 01:36:02,040
Speaker 4: Yeah.

2057
01:36:02,320 --> 01:36:04,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like wearing a wedding dress to someone else's wedding.

2058
01:36:04,960 --> 01:36:05,640
Speaker 1: You don't want to do that.

2059
01:36:05,720 --> 01:36:07,639
Speaker 5: No, No, I didn't know golf could be a nail

2060
01:36:07,640 --> 01:36:09,879
Speaker 5: bier until yesterday.

2061
01:36:10,560 --> 01:36:11,800
Speaker 1: Gandhi, what's up with you today?

2062
01:36:11,960 --> 01:36:13,600
Speaker 5: I know we've talked about this before, but you know

2063
01:36:13,680 --> 01:36:15,479
Speaker 5: you always say, take a different way home, check out

2064
01:36:15,520 --> 01:36:18,960
Speaker 5: other things. Take a walk outside your building today if

2065
01:36:19,000 --> 01:36:20,880
Speaker 5: you have a lunch break or like a recess, whatever

2066
01:36:20,920 --> 01:36:23,160
Speaker 5: it is, and go explore things. Because there's so much

2067
01:36:23,200 --> 01:36:24,920
Speaker 5: to see around here. We don't really ever get to

2068
01:36:24,920 --> 01:36:26,720
Speaker 5: get out. But I ran out in the commercial break

2069
01:36:26,720 --> 01:36:28,040
Speaker 5: to check some things out, which is why I was like.

2070
01:36:28,040 --> 01:36:29,400
Speaker 1: Coming back, would you see you see?

2071
01:36:29,439 --> 01:36:32,679
Speaker 5: I got peanut butter toast. I've seen some places where

2072
01:36:32,680 --> 01:36:34,960
Speaker 5: there are like little encampments around here that I had

2073
01:36:35,000 --> 01:36:38,360
Speaker 5: not seen before. I saw the new Blue not new,

2074
01:36:38,400 --> 01:36:40,280
Speaker 5: but it's new to us, the blue kitchen that everybody

2075
01:36:40,320 --> 01:36:41,839
Speaker 5: talks about up on the twelfth floor.

2076
01:36:42,240 --> 01:36:44,040
Speaker 12: It was just a good time. I got some steps

2077
01:36:44,040 --> 01:36:44,920
Speaker 12: in go exploring.

2078
01:36:44,960 --> 01:36:48,200
Speaker 5: It's great now I feel like I'm reinvigorated and ready

2079
01:36:48,240 --> 01:36:49,599
Speaker 5: to face the day again. So it's good.

2080
01:36:50,400 --> 01:36:53,040
Speaker 1: Excellent. How about you, scary? What's on your mind today?

2081
01:36:53,840 --> 01:36:57,600
Speaker 10: Okay, we really should outlaw table pictures.

2082
01:36:58,080 --> 01:36:58,519
Speaker 1: Pictures.

2083
01:36:58,560 --> 01:37:01,200
Speaker 10: Table at the picture when people are in a restaurant,

2084
01:37:01,240 --> 01:37:04,479
Speaker 10: they're sitting around, they're hanging out, and they're literally sitting

2085
01:37:04,520 --> 01:37:07,920
Speaker 10: there and everyone is misaligned. Half the places, half the

2086
01:37:07,960 --> 01:37:11,160
Speaker 10: bodies are in the dark. This happened on Satriday night.

2087
01:37:11,080 --> 01:37:13,880
Speaker 10: Might we wanted to commemorate the moment and we took

2088
01:37:13,920 --> 01:37:18,200
Speaker 10: a table pick. It's the absolute worst idea. Which table

2089
01:37:18,240 --> 01:37:20,920
Speaker 10: pick have you ever posted for with the entire table

2090
01:37:21,200 --> 01:37:23,559
Speaker 10: where someone of the waiter takes the picture that actually

2091
01:37:23,560 --> 01:37:26,160
Speaker 10: turned out good that you were proud of. None. I

2092
01:37:26,200 --> 01:37:26,880
Speaker 10: could tell you that.

2093
01:37:27,280 --> 01:37:28,639
Speaker 1: We like this one.

2094
01:37:28,840 --> 01:37:30,880
Speaker 10: You can see the the the Neon exit sign in

2095
01:37:30,920 --> 01:37:33,680
Speaker 10: the background. There's too much ceiling, all the all the

2096
01:37:33,760 --> 01:37:37,120
Speaker 10: dirty table you know, plates are on the table in

2097
01:37:37,200 --> 01:37:37,840
Speaker 10: your phone.

2098
01:37:37,880 --> 01:37:38,920
Speaker 1: You are trash.

2099
01:37:39,040 --> 01:37:41,639
Speaker 12: You're saying, don't commemorate a moment unless it's well lit.

2100
01:37:41,840 --> 01:37:44,400
Speaker 10: Do not commemorate a moment by sea, a bunch of

2101
01:37:44,400 --> 01:37:47,120
Speaker 10: people seated in a line at at a table, A

2102
01:37:47,200 --> 01:37:49,760
Speaker 10: giant group shot sitting at a table where faces are

2103
01:37:49,760 --> 01:37:51,360
Speaker 10: poking out from other people's bodies.

2104
01:37:51,680 --> 01:37:52,479
Speaker 1: It's just awful.

2105
01:37:52,520 --> 01:37:53,519
Speaker 10: It's an awful thing.

2106
01:37:53,960 --> 01:37:54,479
Speaker 1: I'm sorry.

2107
01:37:54,600 --> 01:37:56,360
Speaker 10: I know there are bigger things in the world that

2108
01:37:56,439 --> 01:37:59,719
Speaker 10: complain about today, But we missed our mark with British

2109
01:37:59,720 --> 01:38:01,439
Speaker 10: War because we had a great moment.

2110
01:38:01,479 --> 01:38:02,760
Speaker 1: We hadn't seen each other and it was a great

2111
01:38:02,760 --> 01:38:04,880
Speaker 1: reunion and we have. All we have is this awful

2112
01:38:04,920 --> 01:38:07,799
Speaker 1: memory of this table picture. So then to take a picture,

2113
01:38:08,280 --> 01:38:10,439
Speaker 1: take a picture somewhere else then, I know, but but

2114
01:38:10,840 --> 01:38:11,680
Speaker 1: that that's the go to.

2115
01:38:11,880 --> 01:38:14,479
Speaker 10: Everyone does that. Hey, he could give the waitress a

2116
01:38:14,479 --> 01:38:16,120
Speaker 10: big bi I.

2117
01:38:16,120 --> 01:38:18,240
Speaker 1: Was begged to differ. I have some of my favorite

2118
01:38:18,240 --> 01:38:20,519
Speaker 1: photos taken at tables and they were great. I don't know,

2119
01:38:20,760 --> 01:38:22,240
Speaker 1: but you tell that waiter, you know, give me a

2120
01:38:22,240 --> 01:38:24,000
Speaker 1: point five on that camera. Let's go.

2121
01:38:24,479 --> 01:38:25,439
Speaker 7: Maybe it's the angle.

2122
01:38:25,479 --> 01:38:28,599
Speaker 1: I don't know what it was, but I just just awful.

2123
01:38:28,880 --> 01:38:30,400
Speaker 1: And then I have to look at people's dirty food

2124
01:38:30,400 --> 01:38:31,000
Speaker 1: on the table.

2125
01:38:32,000 --> 01:38:34,839
Speaker 7: Yead, you can edit it now, okay or just yeah.

2126
01:38:34,880 --> 01:38:38,160
Speaker 10: And I'm complaining about something that's probably not very important in.

2127
01:38:38,120 --> 01:38:42,640
Speaker 1: Life, but I okay, very well, producer Sam, what's up

2128
01:38:42,640 --> 01:38:43,080
Speaker 1: with you today?

2129
01:38:43,120 --> 01:38:43,400
Speaker 4: All right?

2130
01:38:43,439 --> 01:38:45,200
Speaker 3: I gotta be selfish and mentioned two things.

2131
01:38:45,240 --> 01:38:48,400
Speaker 13: First of all, congratulations to my husband William, who.

2132
01:38:48,280 --> 01:38:50,200
Speaker 3: Are on the Jersey City Marathon this weekend.

2133
01:38:50,479 --> 01:38:52,800
Speaker 13: It was his third marathon, but the first time that

2134
01:38:52,880 --> 01:38:55,679
Speaker 13: he made the time he wanted, which was under three

2135
01:38:55,720 --> 01:38:57,040
Speaker 13: hours and thirty minutes.

2136
01:38:57,120 --> 01:38:59,519
Speaker 3: He's it in three twenty seven.

2137
01:39:00,600 --> 01:39:01,599
Speaker 1: Super proud of him.

2138
01:39:01,680 --> 01:39:03,960
Speaker 3: Great job anyone who participated yesterday.

2139
01:39:04,120 --> 01:39:06,200
Speaker 12: And I also want to thank our listeners.

2140
01:39:06,240 --> 01:39:08,080
Speaker 3: If you weren't around it, didn't hear it.

2141
01:39:08,160 --> 01:39:10,240
Speaker 13: Last week I said that William and I are going

2142
01:39:10,280 --> 01:39:13,040
Speaker 13: through IVF after a year of trying, and now we

2143
01:39:13,080 --> 01:39:14,720
Speaker 13: have a year of IVF behind us.

2144
01:39:14,760 --> 01:39:17,360
Speaker 3: We are still thick in this very fun journey.

2145
01:39:17,880 --> 01:39:20,920
Speaker 13: But I just got such a wonderful outpour of really

2146
01:39:20,960 --> 01:39:24,160
Speaker 13: great comments and personal stories and the other ones that

2147
01:39:24,200 --> 01:39:26,080
Speaker 13: I was hoping for, which is people saying thank you

2148
01:39:26,120 --> 01:39:28,840
Speaker 13: so much for sharing because this is me and it

2149
01:39:28,920 --> 01:39:29,760
Speaker 13: helped to hear it.

2150
01:39:29,920 --> 01:39:32,160
Speaker 3: So if it's you, I'm with you. I'm part of

2151
01:39:32,200 --> 01:39:32,519
Speaker 3: the club.

2152
01:39:32,560 --> 01:39:34,880
Speaker 13: My fingers are crossed for all of us, and thanks

2153
01:39:34,920 --> 01:39:36,640
Speaker 13: so much for making such a safe space for me

2154
01:39:36,760 --> 01:39:37,120
Speaker 13: to share.

2155
01:39:37,640 --> 01:39:40,200
Speaker 1: Absolutely we Love You, Love You? What took me U

2156
01:39:40,200 --> 01:39:42,759
Speaker 1: straight and eight? Okay, so you've heard me raving about

2157
01:39:42,760 --> 01:39:43,080
Speaker 1: The Pit.

2158
01:39:43,240 --> 01:39:46,920
Speaker 19: It's on Max. I finished it. The season finale was

2159
01:39:47,000 --> 01:39:50,719
Speaker 19: last Thursday. I watched it over the weekend and oh

2160
01:39:50,760 --> 01:39:53,920
Speaker 19: my god, what a fantastic show. And what I'm about

2161
01:39:53,920 --> 01:39:57,559
Speaker 19: to say is this it's a feel good show.

2162
01:39:57,720 --> 01:39:58,519
Speaker 1: And I know it's.

2163
01:39:58,400 --> 01:40:00,920
Speaker 19: About a hospital drama and people dying, but the great

2164
01:40:00,960 --> 01:40:05,679
Speaker 19: thing about it is that you're watching this er and

2165
01:40:05,800 --> 01:40:07,839
Speaker 19: it's all of these people and I know they're actors,

2166
01:40:08,200 --> 01:40:11,000
Speaker 19: but they represent all of the people out there that

2167
01:40:11,160 --> 01:40:13,479
Speaker 19: run to the danger and take care of us when

2168
01:40:13,520 --> 01:40:16,519
Speaker 19: things go bad. So it just made me feel good

2169
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Speaker 19: that there are people like that. Because of course, like

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Speaker 19: most people, I did a deep dive afterwards. I go

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01:40:21,320 --> 01:40:23,000
Speaker 19: in and see what the real thoughts were on the

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01:40:23,000 --> 01:40:25,639
Speaker 19: show online, and everybody was just raving.

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01:40:25,439 --> 01:40:27,600
Speaker 1: About it, especially people in the medical profession.

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Speaker 19: So if you had a part in making this show,

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01:40:30,240 --> 01:40:32,760
Speaker 19: thank you very much, and more importantly, if you have

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01:40:32,800 --> 01:40:35,920
Speaker 19: a part in saving people in any way, shape or form,

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01:40:36,280 --> 01:40:38,360
Speaker 19: thank you from the bottom of my heart.

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Speaker 1: Wow, so thank you. Wow. You said every single episode

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01:40:42,640 --> 01:40:44,920
Speaker 1: of The Pit was so moving, and you cried and

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01:40:44,960 --> 01:40:46,760
Speaker 1: I did in the last one. I do want to

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01:40:46,800 --> 01:40:47,080
Speaker 1: see that.

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01:40:47,320 --> 01:40:48,040
Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, me too.

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01:40:48,200 --> 01:40:50,479
Speaker 1: I'm in Danielle's help with your well.

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Speaker 7: I'm going to, you know, say thank you to people

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01:40:52,800 --> 01:40:55,160
Speaker 7: who help people as well. So you guys know, Hack

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01:40:55,200 --> 01:40:58,200
Speaker 7: and Sack HMH is actually a sponsor of ours, but

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01:40:58,760 --> 01:41:02,280
Speaker 7: years before they became a sponsor. I have been a

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01:41:02,320 --> 01:41:05,840
Speaker 7: patient a Hackensack University Medical Center is my hospital, A

2189
01:41:05,840 --> 01:41:07,879
Speaker 7: lot of my doctors are there, and so on Friday

2190
01:41:08,120 --> 01:41:11,360
Speaker 7: I went and got my annual mammogram there, right, So Stelle,

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01:41:11,400 --> 01:41:15,040
Speaker 7: shout out to Stella and Michelle and the amazing people

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01:41:15,240 --> 01:41:19,200
Speaker 7: who run the breast cancer Center, because they're absolutely amazing. Thankfully,

2193
01:41:19,280 --> 01:41:22,000
Speaker 7: everything is fine, but I just want you to know

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01:41:22,040 --> 01:41:24,840
Speaker 7: that you really should go and get that mammogram. I

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01:41:25,000 --> 01:41:27,240
Speaker 7: was hearing while I was there that they're finding more

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01:41:27,360 --> 01:41:32,040
Speaker 7: and more younger women having breast cancer, women in their

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01:41:32,160 --> 01:41:35,920
Speaker 7: thirties for some reason. They don't know why. So if

2198
01:41:35,920 --> 01:41:38,240
Speaker 7: you have any questions, if you think something's different, if

2199
01:41:38,240 --> 01:41:41,280
Speaker 7: you think something's off when you do your self examinations,

2200
01:41:41,800 --> 01:41:44,240
Speaker 7: you know, or try and go a little earlier than

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01:41:44,240 --> 01:41:46,360
Speaker 7: forty if you can, if your insurance will let you,

2202
01:41:46,360 --> 01:41:48,400
Speaker 7: you know, even just for a checkup. If it's in

2203
01:41:48,439 --> 01:41:51,439
Speaker 7: your family. All these things play a difference, and if

2204
01:41:51,840 --> 01:41:55,599
Speaker 7: you catch it early then the odds are much much

2205
01:41:55,880 --> 01:41:59,840
Speaker 7: much better. So please get your mammogram. And again, thank

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01:41:59,840 --> 01:42:02,800
Speaker 7: you everybody at Hackensack University Medical Center. I love you guys.

2207
01:42:02,800 --> 01:42:03,799
Speaker 7: You are always amazing.

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01:42:04,360 --> 01:42:06,080
Speaker 1: There you go. Did I get everyone? I think we're

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01:42:06,120 --> 01:42:08,679
Speaker 1: all in right, We're good. I think we're good. Everyone's

2210
01:42:08,720 --> 01:42:13,280
Speaker 1: tucked in. Uh, let'll tell you what. Let's do sound

2211
01:42:13,360 --> 01:42:14,720
Speaker 1: coming up, Danielle, what do you have coming up? In

2212
01:42:14,760 --> 01:42:15,720
Speaker 1: your last report of the day.

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01:42:15,840 --> 01:42:18,599
Speaker 7: Shahboozy. He's not putting out a new album, but he's

2214
01:42:18,640 --> 01:42:21,280
Speaker 7: putting out his other album that he just had out

2215
01:42:21,439 --> 01:42:25,639
Speaker 7: with some new songs. Okay, and the carpenter is doing

2216
01:42:25,640 --> 01:42:28,759
Speaker 7: something very special for Espresso you'll see.

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01:42:29,000 --> 01:42:30,800
Speaker 1: And she did a great job at Coachella as well.

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01:42:30,880 --> 01:42:34,160
Speaker 1: Everyone's just Coachella. I think we should have been there. Yeah,

2219
01:42:34,560 --> 01:42:36,680
Speaker 1: I heard people. People were kind of miserable while they

2220
01:42:36,720 --> 01:42:37,000
Speaker 1: were there.

2221
01:42:37,439 --> 01:42:40,200
Speaker 7: One hundred degrees. I'd rather watch it on the stream.

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01:42:40,880 --> 01:42:43,800
Speaker 1: But Benson Boone and Gaga by far are getting the

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01:42:43,800 --> 01:42:48,679
Speaker 1: most the most play on on social media from from Coachella.

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01:42:48,760 --> 01:42:50,320
Speaker 1: How cool? All right? So that and a lot more

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01:42:50,400 --> 01:42:51,080
Speaker 1: time coming up.

2226
01:42:52,120 --> 01:42:55,480
Speaker 2: The Elvista ran in the Morning show.

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Speaker 16: This is Lady Gaga and you're listening to my friend

2232
01:43:22,479 --> 01:43:24,559
Speaker 16: Elvis Duran and the Morning Show.

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01:43:25,080 --> 01:43:28,800
Speaker 1: Well, thank you Gaga. She did a great job at Coachella.

2234
01:43:29,320 --> 01:43:32,320
Speaker 1: She was amazing. People just thought she was I mean,

2235
01:43:32,320 --> 01:43:34,519
Speaker 1: it's Lady Gaga. She just really knows how to do it.

2236
01:43:34,760 --> 01:43:36,679
Speaker 7: She puts on a show wherever she goes. It's amazing.

2237
01:43:37,160 --> 01:43:41,000
Speaker 1: And Benson Boone super super huge. A lot of people

2238
01:43:41,120 --> 01:43:45,679
Speaker 1: just couldn't get enough. A hem, when he's doing Bohemian Rhapsody. Sure,

2239
01:43:46,760 --> 01:43:49,759
Speaker 1: let's play some Benson Boone in just a second. Gosh,

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Speaker 1: the countdown is on for the Countdown Blue Origin, the

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01:43:52,479 --> 01:43:57,080
Speaker 1: all female crew including Katy Perry and Lauren Sanchez and

2242
01:43:57,120 --> 01:43:59,960
Speaker 1: many more, Miguel King, They're taking off.

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01:44:02,080 --> 01:44:05,000
Speaker 7: Thirty twelve minutes and fourteen seconds. I'm watching it live

2244
01:44:05,120 --> 01:44:07,920
Speaker 7: right now. Oh really Yeah, MPR dot Org has it

2245
01:44:07,960 --> 01:44:08,760
Speaker 7: if you want to watch it.

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01:44:09,280 --> 01:44:12,679
Speaker 1: Oh cool, How cool is that? Let's get some sound

2247
01:44:12,720 --> 01:44:15,040
Speaker 1: in here with Garrett. Yeah, what do you have today?

2248
01:44:15,080 --> 01:44:17,360
Speaker 1: All right, let's uh some music that dropped over the weekend,

2249
01:44:17,360 --> 01:44:20,320
Speaker 1: including some Coachella artists. We'll start though with Jelly Roll.

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01:44:20,520 --> 01:44:22,360
Speaker 1: This is called Dreams, Don't.

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01:44:22,120 --> 01:44:27,959
Speaker 18: Die, Hanna, out of Crowd, No Love.

2252
01:44:29,280 --> 01:44:33,200
Speaker 4: Hana. I've been doing it.

2253
01:44:34,400 --> 01:44:36,800
Speaker 1: He said it was one of his most important songs

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01:44:36,800 --> 01:44:39,680
Speaker 1: he ever put out. So he seems like every song

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01:44:39,760 --> 01:44:41,920
Speaker 1: Jelly Role does it's really important. Yeah, he figured. I

2256
01:44:41,920 --> 01:44:45,720
Speaker 1: mean it's it's hard. It's this thing. Uh. Chaboozi, he

2257
01:44:45,800 --> 01:44:48,160
Speaker 1: was at Coachella over the weekend. But Danielle is about

2258
01:44:48,160 --> 01:44:50,840
Speaker 1: to do a story about him putting out some new music.

2259
01:44:50,920 --> 01:44:54,200
Speaker 1: This is with Miles Smith called Blink twice wh.

2260
01:45:00,720 --> 01:45:01,879
Speaker 4: Just alive.

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01:45:04,720 --> 01:45:07,000
Speaker 1: All right? And by the way, Shaboozy and Miles Smith

2262
01:45:07,040 --> 01:45:10,920
Speaker 1: met at Chingle Ball Uh Green Day put this one

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01:45:10,920 --> 01:45:12,960
Speaker 1: out to you. They played Coachella. This is called smash

2264
01:45:13,000 --> 01:45:26,360
Speaker 1: It like Blushi. Sounds good? Yes, all right, now let's

2265
01:45:26,360 --> 01:45:29,400
Speaker 1: move over to some Coachella performances. This one's for Scary

2266
01:45:29,640 --> 01:45:33,040
Speaker 1: weird Aw made his first ever Coachella appearance with Yo

2267
01:45:33,120 --> 01:45:36,120
Speaker 1: Gabba Gabba and this is them doing Rainbow Connection.

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01:45:36,880 --> 01:45:40,160
Speaker 12: I've heard it too, man too.

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01:45:40,439 --> 01:45:48,160
Speaker 1: We know something then I'm supposed to be really bomb.

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01:45:48,680 --> 01:45:56,000
Speaker 1: We'll bind it. Hey, Coachella great, the Dreamers and me.

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01:45:56,960 --> 01:45:59,120
Speaker 7: Okay, you know you ga Gabba's still around.

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01:45:59,200 --> 01:46:02,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, all right. Now this is the performance everyone's been

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01:46:02,200 --> 01:46:05,639
Speaker 1: talking about, Benson Boone with Brian May from Queen doing

2274
01:46:05,720 --> 01:46:22,320
Speaker 1: a little Bohemian rhapsody. Unbelievable. I gotta tell you, and

2275
01:46:22,520 --> 01:46:24,720
Speaker 1: I've told this to Benson before at jingle Ball, I said,

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01:46:24,720 --> 01:46:27,080
Speaker 1: you got to stop jumping so much on stage because

2277
01:46:27,120 --> 01:46:30,240
Speaker 1: you're gonna break an ankle. He was jumping from really

2278
01:46:30,320 --> 01:46:33,200
Speaker 1: far up spaces and tumbling down to the ground and

2279
01:46:34,160 --> 01:46:36,479
Speaker 1: he's nuts. He flicked over Brian May at one point

2280
01:46:36,520 --> 01:46:39,799
Speaker 1: two during that performance, and Brian May didn't even know it. Yeah, exactly,

2281
01:46:41,720 --> 01:46:44,679
Speaker 1: and then we didn't happen that fast. You're a good American, Garrett.

2282
01:46:44,720 --> 01:46:46,240
Speaker 1: Take you that, all right, Danielle, give us, give us

2283
01:46:46,280 --> 01:46:48,800
Speaker 1: your headlines, and I'm gonna play some Benson Boone for you. Okay,

2284
01:46:49,880 --> 01:46:50,439
Speaker 1: let's go, She.

2285
01:46:50,800 --> 01:46:54,559
Speaker 7: Says, Sush, what's your name? Gary? Since Garage is talking,

2286
01:46:54,680 --> 01:46:57,040
Speaker 7: it sounds like me in my house. Uh, Garic just

2287
01:46:57,040 --> 01:46:59,519
Speaker 7: talked about this, so shoe boozy. He's not putting out

2288
01:46:59,520 --> 01:47:02,960
Speaker 7: a new album. Is where I've been, isn't where I'm going.

2289
01:47:03,040 --> 01:47:06,160
Speaker 7: He put that out last year. He's putting that out again,

2290
01:47:06,320 --> 01:47:08,920
Speaker 7: but he is improving it. So he's gonna give you

2291
01:47:09,000 --> 01:47:12,080
Speaker 7: some new features, some new songs, stuff like that. So

2292
01:47:12,160 --> 01:47:16,400
Speaker 7: that's gonna be on the way. Let's see Sabrina Carpenter Espresso.

2293
01:47:16,520 --> 01:47:20,960
Speaker 7: Can you believe it? She is celebrating that Espresso came

2294
01:47:20,960 --> 01:47:23,360
Speaker 7: out last year. So what is she doing. She's giving

2295
01:47:23,439 --> 01:47:27,320
Speaker 7: us a caffeinated piece of merchandise. It's a custom vinyl

2296
01:47:27,880 --> 01:47:32,559
Speaker 7: of Espresso that's actually filled with espresso. Yes, I don't

2297
01:47:32,560 --> 01:47:34,240
Speaker 7: know how she got it in there. I'm not even

2298
01:47:34,280 --> 01:47:36,800
Speaker 7: sure if it's really coffee or really caffeine in there,

2299
01:47:37,040 --> 01:47:39,240
Speaker 7: but it's in there, and it's this liquid. And she

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01:47:39,360 --> 01:47:42,040
Speaker 7: only pressed like a thousand copies. It's a special edition

2301
01:47:42,080 --> 01:47:44,160
Speaker 7: to special release. So if you can get your hands

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01:47:44,160 --> 01:47:46,760
Speaker 7: on that, that's awesome. I don't know if you saw

2303
01:47:46,840 --> 01:47:51,080
Speaker 7: Kanye taking to Twitter over the weekend and basically dumping

2304
01:47:51,120 --> 01:47:54,200
Speaker 7: all over Taylor Swift, he said that she had sex

2305
01:47:54,240 --> 01:47:56,800
Speaker 7: with Justin Bieber and Harry Style, So she had to

2306
01:47:56,840 --> 01:48:00,400
Speaker 7: send a season desist over to him. And then Travis

2307
01:48:00,479 --> 01:48:04,000
Speaker 7: Kelsey apparently is not having it. He is so pissed

2308
01:48:04,000 --> 01:48:05,760
Speaker 7: off and he wants to have a man to man

2309
01:48:06,200 --> 01:48:08,080
Speaker 7: with Kanye. So we'll see if that happens.

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01:48:08,320 --> 01:48:08,720
Speaker 15: I do not.

2311
01:48:09,120 --> 01:48:12,280
Speaker 5: The man's obsessed and he's insane. What the she's going

2312
01:48:12,360 --> 01:48:13,000
Speaker 5: to restraining order?

2313
01:48:13,040 --> 01:48:18,120
Speaker 7: It's ridiculous, It's absolutely ridiculous. Ah and yeah, so okay,

2314
01:48:18,360 --> 01:48:21,360
Speaker 7: seven minutes and fifty eight seconds until the ladies launch

2315
01:48:21,400 --> 01:48:23,160
Speaker 7: into space. I don't know why I'm so obsessed with this,

2316
01:48:23,240 --> 01:48:23,639
Speaker 7: but I am.

2317
01:48:23,800 --> 01:48:24,679
Speaker 1: You are, we are?

2318
01:48:24,880 --> 01:48:25,439
Speaker 7: I really am.

2319
01:48:25,640 --> 01:48:26,360
Speaker 2: Katy Perry.

2320
01:48:26,479 --> 01:48:28,800
Speaker 7: You know she's going up there, Gail King, a bunch

2321
01:48:28,840 --> 01:48:31,679
Speaker 7: of others are going up there. The rocket ship travel

2322
01:48:31,720 --> 01:48:34,960
Speaker 7: sixty two miles above the Earth, returns gently under parachutes.

2323
01:48:35,280 --> 01:48:38,040
Speaker 7: Round trip flight time is eleven minutes. And like I said,

2324
01:48:38,320 --> 01:48:41,800
Speaker 7: seven minutes and thirty seven seconds to launch. What are

2325
01:48:41,800 --> 01:48:45,639
Speaker 7: we watching? American Idol, The Voice, Holy Marvels with Dennis Quaid,

2326
01:48:45,800 --> 01:48:48,160
Speaker 7: all your NSAI yeah shows, and don't forget mob Land.

2327
01:48:48,400 --> 01:48:51,120
Speaker 7: That's the one Elvis is liking on Paramountain, loving it.

2328
01:48:51,200 --> 01:48:52,439
Speaker 7: That is my Danielle report.

2329
01:48:52,800 --> 01:48:54,280
Speaker 1: And even though it's in English, you do have to

2330
01:48:54,280 --> 01:48:55,960
Speaker 1: watch it with subtitles.

2331
01:48:55,520 --> 01:48:57,360
Speaker 7: Unless you unless you live with the brit.

2332
01:48:57,120 --> 01:49:00,919
Speaker 1: Then you don't exactly all right. The star of Coachella,

2333
01:49:01,160 --> 01:49:03,080
Speaker 1: Benson Boone. I love this song. It's as new and

2334
01:49:03,160 --> 01:49:04,800
Speaker 1: it's sorry I'm here for someone else.

2335
01:49:04,960 --> 01:49:09,400
Speaker 21: I'm sorry you're here for someone else. But it's good

2336
01:49:09,600 --> 01:49:13,680
Speaker 21: to see your faces. Already hope if you do, and

2337
01:49:13,920 --> 01:49:15,439
Speaker 21: will I.

2338
01:49:15,560 --> 01:49:17,680
Speaker 4: Hope you do? And well.

2339
01:49:23,120 --> 01:49:26,360
Speaker 24: She was rather than Lake for tennis, southside town.

2340
01:49:26,360 --> 01:49:28,800
Speaker 1: Left the phat a little bit of but it's cool

2341
01:49:28,880 --> 01:49:29,479
Speaker 1: for now.

2342
01:49:29,560 --> 01:49:32,599
Speaker 24: Far from Pepec bote each other, but bore, we're getting out.

2343
01:49:32,760 --> 01:49:34,040
Speaker 19: I suppose.

2344
01:49:35,920 --> 01:49:39,400
Speaker 24: Now we'll wait and never Dina looking traumatize Chris.

2345
01:49:39,520 --> 01:49:42,439
Speaker 2: You walk up to the table with the noder rising.

2346
01:49:43,720 --> 01:49:46,600
Speaker 1: It's an it gets at you.

2347
01:49:48,360 --> 01:49:52,759
Speaker 24: And say, oh sorry you cue for song one knows

2348
01:49:53,800 --> 01:49:58,120
Speaker 24: it's good to see your face and already hope you do,

2349
01:49:58,640 --> 01:50:07,320
Speaker 24: and will ho be do we will see.

2350
01:50:06,800 --> 01:50:10,000
Speaker 15: Allaby to stay out, stay and talk.

2351
01:50:09,880 --> 01:50:13,800
Speaker 24: At the bar or by r sou But I'm here

2352
01:50:14,080 --> 01:50:18,120
Speaker 24: for some wee now whatever they ready go for where

2353
01:50:18,280 --> 01:50:19,240
Speaker 24: she finally.

2354
01:50:18,960 --> 01:50:20,920
Speaker 1: Walks into the restaurant.

2355
01:50:21,160 --> 01:50:24,200
Speaker 4: Hate to say your bottom now it was already gone.

2356
01:50:24,320 --> 01:50:28,360
Speaker 24: Oh fly, don't do it till you break it apart fairly.

2357
01:50:28,560 --> 01:50:30,880
Speaker 4: Don't do it fairly, don't do it.

2358
01:50:33,760 --> 01:50:47,559
Speaker 1: To it's person. I said, so, she is a soul. News.

2359
01:50:48,560 --> 01:50:50,599
Speaker 4: It's good to see face.

2360
01:50:51,040 --> 01:50:52,160
Speaker 1: You'll go ready home?

2361
01:50:52,520 --> 01:50:53,800
Speaker 14: You do in a world?

2362
01:50:55,200 --> 01:50:58,080
Speaker 4: How sorry?

2363
01:50:58,160 --> 01:50:59,439
Speaker 1: You said?

2364
01:51:01,880 --> 01:51:08,439
Speaker 24: Insteady talk at the bar by so, but I'm here.

2365
01:51:08,520 --> 01:51:08,880
Speaker 7: For so.

2366
01:51:32,680 --> 01:51:33,000
Speaker 4: Again.

2367
01:51:37,200 --> 01:51:39,160
Speaker 2: The Mercedes Benz Interview Lounge.

2368
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2369
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2370
01:51:43,840 --> 01:51:46,040
Speaker 12: Nate your teacher?

2371
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Speaker 16: Waiting Elvista ran in the morning show.

2378
01:52:10,400 --> 01:52:12,800
Speaker 1: All right, shows done, Let's get out of here until

2379
01:52:12,960 --> 01:52:15,959
Speaker 1: next time. Say peace out, everybody, peece out, everybody,