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Speaker 3: Second Date Update Date. I'm not sure if you remember this,
Speaker 3: but a few months ago one of our listeners named
Speaker 3: Michael did an awkward Tuesday phone call because he had
Speaker 3: this female friend who was complaining to him about how
Speaker 3: lonely she was all the time. So he wanted to
Speaker 3: convince his best friend to date her just to get
Speaker 3: miss sad Face out of his hands.
Speaker 1: I do remember that. I can't remember how it turned out,
Speaker 1: but I remember.
Speaker 3: It, so doesn't really matter. I guess we did a
Speaker 3: good enough job helping him with that situation that Michael
Speaker 3: now trusts us completely, so much so that almost a
Speaker 3: year later, he wants us to do a second date
Speaker 3: update far Michael, it's good to have you back on
Speaker 3: the show.
Speaker 4: Dude.
Speaker 5: Hey, it's great to be back. Thanks for having it.
Speaker 1: Feel to lower your standards of advice this life.
Speaker 5: Well, I think you guys are going to help me out.
Speaker 4: Oh.
Speaker 3: It is our honor and privilege to be able to
Speaker 3: assist you with your love life today, Michael, So tell
Speaker 3: us what's going on.
Speaker 5: I want you to know that before I started dating,
Speaker 5: even before I had you guys help me advice with
Speaker 5: my friend, I was in a long relationship before then
Speaker 5: it ended messy, so I was definitely taking a long
Speaker 5: break from dating. But now I'm back out there.
Speaker 1: Okay, okayil I'm so all right.
Speaker 5: I mean, I'm finally got on the app. But why
Speaker 5: I need your advice is somebody I met in real life,
Speaker 5: not on the ass.
Speaker 1: Oh that's fun. How did you do that.
Speaker 5: Well, her name's Meghan, and I met her at the
Speaker 5: grocery store.
Speaker 3: That's like such a stereotype.
Speaker 1: People say the best place to meet a chick? Did
Speaker 1: they really say?
Speaker 3: I don't know why, but.
Speaker 1: They say that. Wearing my hair pots to the grocery store.
Speaker 3: It's so romantic at the grocery store, especially when they
Speaker 3: have the thunder over by the produce section, the rainstorm. Dude,
Speaker 3: how did you need Meghan?
Speaker 5: There? Just we caught each other's eyes, and then we
Speaker 5: kept finding each other in almost every eyele.
Speaker 1: Oh you need bread too, I needed bread. That's kind
Speaker 1: of cute.
Speaker 5: Yeah, and to the point where, like she jokingly had
Speaker 5: to ask me, are you following me? With a smile.
Speaker 2: I'll tell you when women say that, it's like joking.
Speaker 1: But also on.
Speaker 3: The pepper spray. Yeah all right, you.
Speaker 5: Know, I asked her right back though, are you following me?
Speaker 5: That started off like a small conversation. We just talked
Speaker 5: about what was in our cart, you know.
Speaker 1: Oh, yeah, you gonna make tacos tonight?
Speaker 4: Huh.
Speaker 3: Yeah, you guys went deep on that first convo, Oh
Speaker 3: my god.
Speaker 5: Yeah, and that led to me asking for her number. Yeah, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 5: I got her number.
Speaker 1: Wow, Well that.
Speaker 3: Must make you feel really confident after, like you said,
Speaker 3: you went through that tough breakup for like a year ago.
Speaker 3: Finally going out into the world and meeting somebody that
Speaker 3: you connect with instantly.
Speaker 1: What have people been complaining about? This is so easy?
Speaker 3: It didn't lead to an actual date.
Speaker 4: It did.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and there was no ghosting involved.
Speaker 3: Yeah, look how jaded we all are in this room,
Speaker 3: Like you really met again? Oh my gosh.
Speaker 5: Well you're jumping ahead. There was some ghosting. Oh okay, yeah,
Speaker 5: I mean we we did meet up. I suggested we
Speaker 5: go out for dinner and like at a restaurant, just
Speaker 5: to get to know her more. But she countered with
Speaker 5: just like, I don't feel like going out? Can we
Speaker 5: just watch a movie? And I said sure? And she
Speaker 5: suggested my place sign is it?
Speaker 3: Or I mean, like, are you?
Speaker 2: Because I feel like it's a good sign for just
Speaker 2: like a one night hangout situation.
Speaker 1: It's not a good sign if you're I just meant
Speaker 1: it's a good sign that she's comfortable enough to come
Speaker 1: to you.
Speaker 3: She stole Brooks line. I think it's so how did
Speaker 3: it go?
Speaker 5: I felt very comfortable and relaxed. We just all ended
Speaker 5: up doing. Was just watching a movie, had a couple
Speaker 5: of drinks.
Speaker 3: That way, you guys didn't fool around.
Speaker 5: That's no, didn't leave any of that.
Speaker 1: That's okay, it's the first hangout.
Speaker 3: Okay, this is a books hang out.
Speaker 1: You're not wrong, Jeff.
Speaker 5: So, then I thought the night would go a little longer,
Speaker 5: but she said she had to go and get something
Speaker 5: from her car real quick. She's like, I gotta run
Speaker 5: in my car real quick. I didn't even think of it.
Speaker 5: I was having a good time, and that's when she
Speaker 5: just never came back.
Speaker 4: Lead whoa.
Speaker 2: I feel like that's something Alexis would do, Like she
Speaker 2: just doesn't know how I really would.
Speaker 3: Literally dip out, like, oh wait, I looved it.
Speaker 5: It home.
Speaker 2: When you're looking someone at a second bar, like a
Speaker 2: restaurant to a bar, it's like, see you there.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's a little concerning though. Did you reach out
Speaker 3: to her afterwards?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 5: I was concerned. I'm like, I hope no one snatched
Speaker 5: her up or something like he did.
Speaker 4: I called.
Speaker 5: I even called the number, I mean, no reply for
Speaker 5: quite a bit, and then she finally got back to me,
Speaker 5: and all she just sent a text over and it
Speaker 5: just said, hey, sorry, it's not going to work out
Speaker 5: between us. That was it.
Speaker 3: We're so jaded. You're reight because I think that's polite.
Speaker 3: I'm like, that's nice heard but into his face. But
Speaker 3: it's weird that there's no explanation for why exactly after
Speaker 3: she invited herself to hang out at your apartment.
Speaker 2: But I don't feel like your own explanation after only
Speaker 2: one hangout.
Speaker 1: Jeff like that. That's a good point too. It's not
Speaker 1: like that's the same. But we want it? Do you want?
Speaker 1: Do you want to see her again?
Speaker 5: I just want to know what was the turnoff because
Speaker 5: I'm confused. Was it my apartment? Was it something I did?
Speaker 5: I don't know.
Speaker 1: I like that you're blaming yourself. That's a good start.
Speaker 5: Okay, this might lead to me being embarrassed. Who care,
Speaker 5: Let's find out what I did so I can you
Speaker 5: know you're If.
Speaker 3: There's something wrong that you're doing, it's good to know
Speaker 3: it up ahead of time. So let's come back. We're
Speaker 3: gonna call Meghan for you. Michael, Oh, so weird Brooks
Speaker 3: husband and Brook's best friend's name. Don't think about that
Speaker 3: when we do our next year.
Speaker 4: And you took her live.
Speaker 3: Second date update right after this hold on second date update.
Speaker 3: It was the comeback after the Rome Mantic setback followed
Speaker 3: by a slight drawback. Okay, because our listener Michael finally
Speaker 3: got back into the dating game after going through a
Speaker 3: tough breakup about a year ago. Didn't find his match
Speaker 3: online though, found her in the grocery store holding two
Speaker 3: big candiloopes. That's Jose's dream of how they met, but
Speaker 3: her name was Megan, and eventually they arranged a little
Speaker 3: Netflix and chill night back at Michael's apartment, which went
Speaker 3: really well.
Speaker 1: And was her idea that was very important.
Speaker 3: Things kind of fell apart though, when she said she
Speaker 3: had to grab something from her car and never returned.
Speaker 2: Yes, I'm wondering if she was hoping for something more
Speaker 2: that never was materializing.
Speaker 1: Watched the whole movie.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I was the had to grab something from the
Speaker 3: car thing a lie, Alexis says, yes, from experience, but we.
Speaker 4: Don't know that.
Speaker 1: Yes, we do.
Speaker 3: She didn't know anything for sure. We do know it's
Speaker 3: not a good signs on what.
Speaker 4: A lie is.
Speaker 1: She didn't want to be there.
Speaker 3: Okay, she lied, yes, but again we don't know. We
Speaker 3: just know it's not a good sign. Also not a
Speaker 3: good sign. Megan texted him days later, confirming it's not
Speaker 3: gonna work.
Speaker 2: That's why I know after all those things, Jeff, I
Speaker 2: think it's.
Speaker 3: Very we needed to be impartial people in the middle here.
Speaker 3: Isn't that right, Michael? You want an impartial audience like
Speaker 3: I am.
Speaker 5: Very hopeful that I'm going to get something positive out
Speaker 5: of this. It will be an easy correction to make.
Speaker 2: I think your positivity is really sweet than if you
Speaker 2: hear the condescending tone.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm not hopeful to get another date out of this.
Speaker 5: It's not like trying to get her back with me.
Speaker 5: I just wanting.
Speaker 1: Okay, and that's sweet.
Speaker 3: It's sweet that you think you can get better. Okay.
Speaker 3: We're going to try our best for you here, Michael.
Speaker 3: Let's call Megan for you and see if she answers
Speaker 3: and what she asks to say. Here we go, Hello, Hi,
Speaker 3: we're looking to talk with Meghan speaking.
Speaker 1: Oh oh, Meghan?
Speaker 4: Hey, Hello, I'm scared if I got a group phone call.
Speaker 3: Yeah, because I don't know if you realize you're on
Speaker 3: the radio right now with a show called Brook and
Speaker 3: Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 4: Are you serious?
Speaker 3: Yes? The show Meghan, Hi, guys, I guess okay. I
Speaker 3: don't know how to deal with this positivity. On the
Speaker 3: other end, we don't normally get this.
Speaker 1: We got too positive people that we've talked to.
Speaker 3: That's true. You don't know this, Meghan. But earlier the
Speaker 3: other positive person we spoke to was a guy named
Speaker 3: Michael that you went on a date with.
Speaker 4: Are you serious?
Speaker 3: Yeah? We love his energy too. Yeah, gosh, you sound excited, but.
Speaker 4: I don't know what Okay, wait, you said Michael, like
Speaker 4: Michael called you.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 3: Yeah, Well, because we're doing something called a second date update,
Speaker 3: we're trying to help him figure out if when you
Speaker 3: two hung out and did Netflix over at his apartment,
Speaker 3: if something went wrong during that night.
Speaker 2: Because well he knows something went wrong because you left
Speaker 2: and didn't come back.
Speaker 3: Well, we don't know what the problem was, if it
Speaker 3: was on your end, if it was something he did.
Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, I cannot believe this is happening.
Speaker 3: A limited times, So we need to have you believe sooner.
Speaker 3: So start to believe. You're on the radio now, are.
Speaker 1: You excited to hear Michael's name again?
Speaker 4: I don't know if i'd say excited. Okay, Okay, embarrassed, absolutely,
Speaker 4: I thought it was what happened. Okay, I don't even
Speaker 4: know where to begin. I really don't even know if
Speaker 4: I sell.
Speaker 2: You know, we love humiliating stories. We are walking embarrassments
Speaker 2: to everyone that we know, like you were in the
Speaker 2: right company.
Speaker 3: We're really just trying to help out Michael because he's
Speaker 3: really concerned feeling like he did something wrong on the date.
Speaker 4: Yeah, so let me just say, I've never done anything
Speaker 4: like this before.
Speaker 3: What do you mean, Alexi says that on the first
Speaker 3: date too.
Speaker 4: Seriously, guys, I'm a good person, I promise.
Speaker 1: What are you talking about with anything?
Speaker 4: Okay? So I kind of didn't bump into Michael at
Speaker 4: the grocery store, like not by accident?
Speaker 1: What do you mean what?
Speaker 4: I don't know if he told you, like we met
Speaker 4: in a grocery store or not.
Speaker 3: Yeah, he said, you guys like randomly kept bumping into
Speaker 3: each other kind of multiple times in the store.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 4: Well, I'm kind of like I know his ex girlfriend. What. Yeah,
Speaker 4: Like we're in a book club together, so you know,
Speaker 4: we're girl pals. We chill, we talk, you know, and.
Speaker 2: Wait, so you saw him in the grocery store by chance?
Speaker 2: Or you went there because you knew he was going
Speaker 2: to be there.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I kind of followed him.
Speaker 3: There because, oh why.
Speaker 4: He basically was like banking one day and she was like,
Speaker 4: my ex boyfriend won't give me back my guitar. So
Speaker 4: my thing leads to the next and yeah, so we
Speaker 4: kind of set up to, you know, run into Michael's.
Speaker 2: The whole thing was a setup so you could go
Speaker 2: in and steal her guitar back head.
Speaker 3: You leave with the guitar.
Speaker 4: I didn't steal anything that's hers.
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, if that's what she says, is this one
Speaker 3: really happens at book club? You don't read any books.
Speaker 2: Yes, you do the book for like fifteen twenty minutes,
Speaker 2: you discuss it.
Speaker 3: And then you put revenge against all of your exes
Speaker 3: for the rest of the time.
Speaker 2: I mean, if it needs to happen, it needs to
Speaker 2: happen to anything. I mean, she's not getting revenge, she's
Speaker 2: just trying to get her guitar backed.
Speaker 1: That's different. I have had reconnaissance missions like this myself.
Speaker 3: I know that's like another twenty minute long story that
Speaker 3: we don't need to get.
Speaker 1: Into, but we don't need the important thing.
Speaker 3: That we need to get to here. Megan is letting
Speaker 3: you know that Michael is actually on the other line
Speaker 3: right now listening to this conversation.
Speaker 4: Way, it's fine.
Speaker 1: I mean, it's not like you're ever going to see
Speaker 1: him again.
Speaker 3: Well, no, it kind of ruins your plan.
Speaker 1: What do you mean didn't she already get the guitar?
Speaker 3: Michael? Are you hearing this?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 5: I do not know what to say right now, Minchael.
Speaker 4: Oh my god, I'm so sorry, I really am.
Speaker 5: That's what is unbelievable. Tell me, is a guitar from
Speaker 5: my house? Gone?
Speaker 4: Yeah, I slipped it outside the door when I went
Speaker 4: to the bath.
Speaker 3: That's so, I mean, devious coming.
Speaker 1: But Jeffery is like, doesn't You're stunned.
Speaker 3: I'm I'm shocked. I didn't see this coming because I mean,
Speaker 3: what is the history of the guitar? Whose guitar is it?
Speaker 5: It's my exes? Yeah, like, why on it? It was
Speaker 5: a gift. I just held onto it.
Speaker 1: You know.
Speaker 5: It was a messy end. I don't want to get
Speaker 5: into it at all, but I'm.
Speaker 1: Trying to try to get it's a messy breakup. This
Speaker 1: makes it a messy.
Speaker 4: Like you were the.
Speaker 1: Issue some woman.
Speaker 3: Some woman hold like onto the sweaters from their ex
Speaker 3: boyfriends and cry. He holds onto his ex girlfriend's guitar
Speaker 3: and cries.
Speaker 1: And do it, which is expensive, dirty old sweatshirt.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm sorry, man. She just said like, basically, you
Speaker 4: kept making excuses, so I wanted to help her out.
Speaker 5: I just do want to see her kind of thing.
Speaker 5: It wasn't really about keeping it out of spider and anything.
Speaker 4: I will say, like, you are a really nice guy,
Speaker 4: Like you were really fitable, you were really cordial, You
Speaker 4: didn't try anything crazy, and you're not.
Speaker 3: Even mad hearing about this like elaborate plan to get
Speaker 3: the guitar back out from under your nose.
Speaker 5: It's more amazing that you pulled it off than why
Speaker 5: would I be angry about that?
Speaker 1: Amazing You didn't notice missing?
Speaker 3: Yeah, well he doesn't. He doesn't girlfriend's But is there
Speaker 3: still like, was there ever a romantic connection between YouTube
Speaker 3: Megan and Michael?
Speaker 1: You're going to make that happen.
Speaker 3: Isn't that the goal of this call?
Speaker 2: Uh?
Speaker 4: Sorry, Michael, I was actually engaged, so.
Speaker 3: You went because you're engaged about.
Speaker 4: Yeah, he knows all about it, and he thinks it's
Speaker 4: hilarious and.
Speaker 3: Oh my god, kind of funny.
Speaker 5: I'm happy I didn't make a move.
Speaker 3: So yeah, okay, well, clearly there's no connection between the
Speaker 3: two of you, but Megan, Michael did want to get
Speaker 3: some dating advice out of this segment. Do you have
Speaker 3: any that you want to share with him to maybe
Speaker 3: help him out going forward?
Speaker 4: Yeah, Michael, you definitely got to be more aware of
Speaker 4: your surroundings and don't bring people to your house.
Speaker 2: Okay, you notice someone stopped you to a grocery store.
Speaker 3: Just assume everybody wants to steal something from him. Wow,
Speaker 3: that is a hard real first date. Michael back in
Speaker 3: the dating world after a year. This is set up
Speaker 3: to get your guitar out of your apartment.
Speaker 5: Lesson learned here.
Speaker 2: Yeah, Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.