WEBVTT - Episode 460: 50k to Play (Feat. Yada Awakening) 0:00:01.480 --> 0:00:04.160 What's up. It's lip service. I'm Angela Yee. 0:00:03.960 --> 0:00:06.600 I'm Gg maguire, I'm Jordi Banuel and. 0:00:08.440 --> 0:00:12.240 YadA, YadA, YadA. Oh my gosh. Well, first of all, 0:00:12.320 --> 0:00:14.000 thank you for joining us today, YadA. I know you 0:00:14.040 --> 0:00:16.520 flew in just to do lip service with us, and 0:00:16.520 --> 0:00:19.400 we've seen you go viral quite a few times on 0:00:19.440 --> 0:00:21.799 social media, and you have a very interesting story. So 0:00:21.840 --> 0:00:23.400 there's a lot of things that we want to clear up. 0:00:23.440 --> 0:00:25.720 There's a lot of advice that we want to hear 0:00:26.560 --> 0:00:30.920 from you, you know. So first of all, good to 0:00:30.920 --> 0:00:33.120 see you. How was BT Awards? How was Essence? 0:00:33.960 --> 0:00:39.320 Have been non stop playing trains automobiles, crazy, like I 0:00:39.360 --> 0:00:44.160 don't even know how I'm surviving. Essence was Let's start Essence, 0:00:44.159 --> 0:00:46.920 because that's like from last night. I literally just got 0:00:46.960 --> 0:00:50.440 on a plane from New Orleans at six am, landed 0:00:50.479 --> 0:00:52.560 and Atlanta eight am, and then was back on another 0:00:52.560 --> 0:00:55.920 plane to here in New York at two pm. 0:00:56.400 --> 0:00:58.200 So I'm like moving, moving, moving. 0:00:59.240 --> 0:01:01.320 Essence was amazing, and so as many times as I've been, 0:01:01.360 --> 0:01:04.200 this was my first time actually working, so I was 0:01:04.319 --> 0:01:07.840 pressed on behalf of the show, and I did the 0:01:07.840 --> 0:01:10.480 convention Center, I did the concerts. I did the after 0:01:10.520 --> 0:01:13.360 parties the field more saw a lot of familiar faces 0:01:13.400 --> 0:01:14.360 and got it shown a. 0:01:14.280 --> 0:01:16.600 Lot of love and I heard it. Love you hear me. 0:01:16.920 --> 0:01:19.759 I love New Orleans just in general, Like I've drive 0:01:19.840 --> 0:01:22.440 to New Orleans from Atlanta just to eat, so you know, 0:01:22.640 --> 0:01:24.600 just like all of the energy and just you know, 0:01:24.640 --> 0:01:25.759 all of the love that was shown. 0:01:25.800 --> 0:01:27.080 It was a really really really. 0:01:26.880 --> 0:01:30.119 Good time, well deserved. Thank you for working. Okay, by 0:01:30.160 --> 0:01:31.240 the way, foot it on the way. 0:01:31.560 --> 0:01:35.959 And then prior to that, I did, uh well, I 0:01:36.000 --> 0:01:38.000 was in l A for BT Weekend on behalf of 0:01:38.000 --> 0:01:41.560 Tailorport and I did my first official event with them, Okay, 0:01:41.680 --> 0:01:42.160 so that. 0:01:42.240 --> 0:01:43.640 Was pretty cool. 0:01:44.160 --> 0:01:46.920 I also did some tail Report stuff in New Orleans. 0:01:47.120 --> 0:01:47.520 Okay. 0:01:47.800 --> 0:01:49.920 So we're shaking and moving and moving and shaking and 0:01:50.000 --> 0:01:52.480 you love things. 0:01:52.280 --> 0:01:55.120 Happening, and we're going to talk about positivity. But Jordan, 0:01:55.160 --> 0:01:58.800 what about you these past few weeks last time, last 0:01:58.840 --> 0:02:00.360 time you were here, we didn't even know that. But 0:02:00.400 --> 0:02:03.360 the summer House, Martha's Vineyard is no longer. 0:02:04.000 --> 0:02:07.160 It's paused. It's paused. I'm still living my life though. 0:02:07.720 --> 0:02:11.680 I went to France South my friend and I was Yeah, 0:02:11.760 --> 0:02:14.160 so I was on planes, boats and automobile. 0:02:15.919 --> 0:02:16.200 Boats. 0:02:17.400 --> 0:02:19.840 And then I came back went to d C for 0:02:20.120 --> 0:02:26.160 the National Alopecia Foundation organization, so that was really great. 0:02:26.800 --> 0:02:29.280 And then I came back to the Hamptons did an 0:02:29.280 --> 0:02:32.840 event for c DJ's Yes the event, then came back 0:02:32.919 --> 0:02:34.799 and it's just been NonStop too. 0:02:34.880 --> 0:02:40.520 So I also am losing my voice and the look. 0:02:40.600 --> 0:02:42.520 And now we have Yat here. And you know, I 0:02:42.520 --> 0:02:45.480 know you talk a lot about like positivity, manifesting the 0:02:45.520 --> 0:02:47.880 things that you want in life, and how your life 0:02:47.880 --> 0:02:50.760 can change when you put some positivity out there. So 0:02:50.840 --> 0:02:52.919 let's talk about you and your background. For people who 0:02:52.960 --> 0:02:55.639 are listening, they've seen you on social media, they've seen 0:02:55.680 --> 0:02:58.120 some viral clips, and let's talk about who Yat it is. 0:02:58.440 --> 0:03:02.040 Because you've had a really I would say that your 0:03:02.080 --> 0:03:05.280 background has prepared you for where you are today. And 0:03:05.360 --> 0:03:08.280 sometimes it's easier to listen to somebody when they've been 0:03:08.320 --> 0:03:10.760 through when they've been through it and come out on 0:03:10.800 --> 0:03:13.880 the other side, you know, So let's talk about kind 0:03:13.960 --> 0:03:16.080 of where you got started. Because your life was not 0:03:16.120 --> 0:03:16.799 always easy. 0:03:16.919 --> 0:03:19.120 No I wasn't no, no, no no no. I was 0:03:19.200 --> 0:03:24.160 raised by a beautiful, beautiful woman, single parent that busted 0:03:24.200 --> 0:03:27.080 her butt to make sure her children were good. We 0:03:27.080 --> 0:03:28.720 were some bad boys. We were horrible. 0:03:29.440 --> 0:03:30.160 How many boys? 0:03:30.320 --> 0:03:31.200 Was it two? 0:03:31.560 --> 0:03:33.520 Just two of you? Okay? Too terrible? 0:03:33.600 --> 0:03:35.120 No, definitely terrible. 0:03:35.440 --> 0:03:37.000 Are the older or the younger? 0:03:37.200 --> 0:03:39.160 I'm the middle, I'm in the middle, so it's two. I 0:03:39.200 --> 0:03:41.480 have two brothers, I'm the middle one, so it's three 0:03:41.520 --> 0:03:41.720 of us. 0:03:41.840 --> 0:03:43.480 Okay, okay, Yeah. 0:03:44.640 --> 0:03:47.720 I was raised in California, moved around. My mother, remarried 0:03:47.720 --> 0:03:51.000 to a military guy, and that that was what it was. 0:03:51.880 --> 0:03:55.440 And then I started traveling, got into medicine, and then 0:03:55.480 --> 0:03:58.200 I went to Africa, opened up a hospital. 0:03:58.400 --> 0:03:59.200 What part of Africa? 0:03:59.320 --> 0:04:02.480 Senegal? West Africa? Okay, wow, it opened up an Africa, 0:04:02.480 --> 0:04:05.040 got I mean, opened up a hospital, got into trucking, 0:04:05.120 --> 0:04:07.400 and it's just been Murdercery wrote. 0:04:07.200 --> 0:04:09.040 I don't know how somebody just it's like, I'm going 0:04:09.120 --> 0:04:12.080 to just go to West Africa and open up, Like, 0:04:12.200 --> 0:04:13.280 how does that even happen? 0:04:13.280 --> 0:04:15.240 But I went there for fun. I went I went 0:04:15.280 --> 0:04:17.760 there for fun, and then I seen a lot of 0:04:17.760 --> 0:04:19.000 opportunities to make some money. 0:04:19.279 --> 0:04:20.320 So you took advantage of that. 0:04:20.360 --> 0:04:23.160 Of course, got yourself an empire, got yourself a wife 0:04:23.200 --> 0:04:26.520 over there, and I got a wife because. 0:04:26.240 --> 0:04:29.360 Some of those viral clips, you know, just to examine 0:04:29.400 --> 0:04:32.640 that a little something something, you know, the fifty to 0:04:32.680 --> 0:04:36.480 fifty versus the man taking care of the bills, not 0:04:36.520 --> 0:04:38.880 just taking care of it, but paying your wife two 0:04:38.960 --> 0:04:42.880 hundred and fifty thousand dollars a year. That was something 0:04:42.960 --> 0:04:47.200 that went viral and was very controversial. And I saw 0:04:47.240 --> 0:04:51.320 the conversations that you've had surrounding that, and it feels 0:04:51.360 --> 0:04:53.800 like when I see a lot of these podcasts, a 0:04:53.800 --> 0:04:56.320 lot of men don't like the fact that, you know, 0:04:56.400 --> 0:04:59.760 women have it. Some women have an issue with going 0:04:59.800 --> 0:05:02.000 for like the man should be able to hold it down, 0:05:02.080 --> 0:05:04.159 take care of the household. Before we talk about it. 0:05:04.200 --> 0:05:07.040 What do you think about fifty to fifty versus the 0:05:07.080 --> 0:05:08.280 man handling the bills? 0:05:08.400 --> 0:05:11.240 I personally think that it should be based on your 0:05:11.360 --> 0:05:17.360 personal situation, financial situation. You know, there's levels to life, 0:05:17.520 --> 0:05:19.840 and if you are on a level where you're grinding 0:05:19.880 --> 0:05:22.640 and you're figuring it out and we're better and stronger 0:05:22.680 --> 0:05:24.960 in numbers, then yeah, let's hold each other down until 0:05:24.960 --> 0:05:26.280 we get to where we need to be. Would you 0:05:26.320 --> 0:05:29.320 be okay with being the main provider me personally at 0:05:29.320 --> 0:05:33.320 the stake that I'm in right now. No, absolutely, it's 0:05:33.360 --> 0:05:35.960 like yeah, no, I'm holding it down for myself. 0:05:36.040 --> 0:05:38.640 It's more than me. Like, I know, I work hard, 0:05:38.760 --> 0:05:41.040 I can take care of myself. God forbid anything happen. 0:05:41.120 --> 0:05:43.799 But you need to be working harder than me. Okay, 0:05:43.800 --> 0:05:46.440 working harder than you, working harder than me, and playing 0:05:46.480 --> 0:05:47.560 harder and making more. 0:05:47.880 --> 0:05:50.919 Okay, all right now, talk to us about your thoughts 0:05:50.960 --> 0:05:51.280 on this. 0:05:52.240 --> 0:05:56.000 My thoughts is if a man has to if a 0:05:56.040 --> 0:05:57.880 man gets into a relation with a woman, he should 0:05:57.880 --> 0:06:01.240 prepare her every need. Now, if I'm grind, I don't 0:06:01.240 --> 0:06:03.480 need a woman. I should be focused on taking care 0:06:03.520 --> 0:06:05.680 of myself. And when I get to that level, now 0:06:05.680 --> 0:06:07.560 I can bring you into my world because you can't 0:06:07.600 --> 0:06:09.800 respect me if you're taking care of me. You can't 0:06:09.839 --> 0:06:12.680 respect me if you're going half on my bills. And 0:06:12.720 --> 0:06:15.159 this is what happened. A lot of men don't date 0:06:15.240 --> 0:06:17.640 to bring a woman into the world to uplift them. 0:06:17.640 --> 0:06:20.680 They're dating for a financial assistance. And this is why 0:06:20.720 --> 0:06:22.719 men want to go fifty fifty, because they need a 0:06:22.800 --> 0:06:25.200 woman to help them take care of them. 0:06:26.240 --> 0:06:27.520 Let me ask you this, how do you know a 0:06:27.520 --> 0:06:29.960 woman doesn't want you just for your money or for. 0:06:29.960 --> 0:06:31.760 Your I want a woman to woman for my money. 0:06:32.120 --> 0:06:36.680 I'm a provider, want me to provide. Why are you 0:06:36.800 --> 0:06:38.800 choosing me? You want an alpha man? I'm sure you're 0:06:38.800 --> 0:06:40.640 an alpha man. I'm here to take care of your 0:06:40.680 --> 0:06:44.200 every needs. And that's not just financially, that's mentally, that's emotionally, 0:06:44.240 --> 0:06:47.320 that's spiritually because I'm here to lead in every aspect 0:06:47.360 --> 0:06:49.440 of my life because I know what you're gonna bring 0:06:49.480 --> 0:06:52.000 to me. When I put you in an environment of peace, 0:06:52.040 --> 0:06:54.039 when I put you in an environment when you feel secure, 0:06:54.440 --> 0:06:57.280 you're going to elevate. And when a woman elevates, good 0:06:57.279 --> 0:06:59.960 women are going to elevate the men right next to them. 0:07:00.440 --> 0:07:02.720 So you become my diamond in a rough How do you. 0:07:02.640 --> 0:07:03.960 Know who's a good woman and who's not? 0:07:04.000 --> 0:07:06.040 Though I don't worry about that. I'm a good man. 0:07:06.560 --> 0:07:08.960 I don't care if you're if you're tarnished, I'm going 0:07:09.000 --> 0:07:11.480 to perfect you. If I'm a good man, this is 0:07:11.560 --> 0:07:12.119 going to happen. 0:07:13.160 --> 0:07:15.720 I love this like he's like, I'm here for it. 0:07:15.840 --> 0:07:23.800 I need this recorded. I need to pray with ladies. Right. 0:07:25.080 --> 0:07:27.320 But so this is an interesting conversation because I saw 0:07:27.320 --> 0:07:30.960 a lot of people pushing back on this, and even 0:07:31.000 --> 0:07:34.360 for myself, like I know that I always do tend 0:07:34.400 --> 0:07:36.000 to bring a lot to the table, like I'm used 0:07:36.040 --> 0:07:38.840 to handling things for myself, Like I own, you know, 0:07:38.960 --> 0:07:41.960 my home and other homes, and I make a pretty 0:07:41.960 --> 0:07:44.520 good salary of what I do. And so for me, 0:07:44.920 --> 0:07:47.640 money a man like providing for me has never been 0:07:48.480 --> 0:07:52.480 my top priority as far as financial status. So I've 0:07:52.480 --> 0:07:54.920 never been like, I need somebody to like pay for 0:07:54.960 --> 0:07:57.160 all my stuff. I need this, or I'm not okay 0:07:57.200 --> 0:07:57.520 with it. 0:07:57.600 --> 0:08:00.760 So I want to chime in and say that I 0:08:00.800 --> 0:08:03.960 had that relationship where a man took care of my 0:08:04.000 --> 0:08:06.480 every need and I was put up and didn't have 0:08:06.520 --> 0:08:09.400 to worry about anything, you know, financially or anything like that. 0:08:10.840 --> 0:08:14.080 The thorn in my side in that situation was that 0:08:14.960 --> 0:08:17.760 I had given up so much control of myself that 0:08:18.120 --> 0:08:22.200 when he snatched everything from me, I was left rebuilding myself. 0:08:22.240 --> 0:08:23.960 She that's the problem, and that's why I pay my 0:08:24.040 --> 0:08:27.200 woman two hundred and fifty thousand a year. So if 0:08:27.240 --> 0:08:30.400 anything happened she feels disrespected, I've done something out of 0:08:30.400 --> 0:08:32.960 the character that she didn't improve of. She has a 0:08:33.040 --> 0:08:35.400 safety net, and that two hundred and fifty thousand doesn't 0:08:35.400 --> 0:08:37.720 go to nothing but her in a bank account that 0:08:37.760 --> 0:08:40.680 I have no access to. Real men want to see 0:08:40.679 --> 0:08:42.839 you succeed. Now you have been with money. I want 0:08:42.840 --> 0:08:43.360 to control you. 0:08:44.000 --> 0:08:46.840 So you believe in keeping your assets like having she 0:08:46.920 --> 0:08:48.640 has a bank account that you have no access to, 0:08:48.679 --> 0:08:50.080 does that mean you have that as well? 0:08:50.520 --> 0:08:53.440 No, my money is her money and her money is 0:08:53.480 --> 0:08:56.480 her money. My money is her money, and her money 0:08:56.559 --> 0:08:59.360 is her money. She has access to all my bank account. 0:08:59.440 --> 0:09:01.000 Yeah. See, situation wasn't like that. 0:09:01.160 --> 0:09:01.360 Now. 0:09:01.440 --> 0:09:03.920 When we broke up, there was like a severance package 0:09:03.960 --> 0:09:04.720 for me to restart. 0:09:05.480 --> 0:09:06.319 They helped me out there. 0:09:06.400 --> 0:09:10.320 Okay, but but yeah, it would be like whenever we 0:09:10.320 --> 0:09:13.000 would go through it and you know, he was feeling 0:09:13.080 --> 0:09:16.439 like he wanted to take that MX balance to zero. 0:09:16.760 --> 0:09:18.320 I would go swipe that card and it would get 0:09:18.320 --> 0:09:20.360 the client. So you know, it was like he held 0:09:20.360 --> 0:09:22.800 the money over my head and that became a because. 0:09:22.559 --> 0:09:25.240 That's men that only know how to lead with money. 0:09:25.600 --> 0:09:27.880 If a man can lead you in every aspect of 0:09:27.920 --> 0:09:29.920 your life, he's not going to pull money in and 0:09:29.960 --> 0:09:32.200 pull money out. You're not playing double dutch with the money. 0:09:33.000 --> 0:09:35.640 Yeah, and let's be honest though, things do happen in life, 0:09:35.679 --> 0:09:37.520 like one of the main reasons that people end up 0:09:37.520 --> 0:09:43.040 going bankrupt could be bad investments, but also medical things 0:09:43.080 --> 0:09:46.160 can happen, so there are emergencies in life that do 0:09:46.280 --> 0:09:49.880 go down. So you know, in a situation like that, 0:09:50.200 --> 0:09:53.839 let's just say something unexpected happens, and you know things 0:09:53.920 --> 0:09:55.680 people would be like, oh, I didn't have insurance. I 0:09:55.679 --> 0:09:59.160 didn't realize I needed this. Some things aren't covered by insurance. 0:09:59.600 --> 0:10:02.120 And at that point, now, when something is an emergency, 0:10:02.200 --> 0:10:03.040 then you know. 0:10:03.160 --> 0:10:07.040 Proper preparation prevents poor performance. I'm properly prepared. I'm a man. 0:10:07.480 --> 0:10:09.880 I have to prepare for that rainy day. Any like 0:10:09.920 --> 0:10:12.800 you said, anything can happen. That's where that ten million 0:10:12.880 --> 0:10:14.600 is tucked over there for a rainy day. 0:10:15.120 --> 0:10:17.640 Okay, all right, ten million tucked for a rainy day. 0:10:18.480 --> 0:10:21.760 I like the way that sounds right now. There's also 0:10:21.800 --> 0:10:24.680 people who doubt you right on social media, of course, 0:10:24.960 --> 0:10:27.680 because I've seen that, like he's a scammer, he's this, 0:10:27.840 --> 0:10:30.680 he's that, we don't believe him, he doesn't really pay 0:10:30.720 --> 0:10:32.319 her that look at Gesie's face. 0:10:32.440 --> 0:10:34.880 Because I hate the Internet and period with their opinions 0:10:34.880 --> 0:10:38.600 and they're always like projecting their their shit onto what 0:10:38.640 --> 0:10:41.360 they see in other people. And you know, that just 0:10:41.360 --> 0:10:43.959 becomes a problem for me. Just I try, like not 0:10:44.000 --> 0:10:45.880 even to really let it be a problem, but it's 0:10:45.920 --> 0:10:47.199 just like y'all so ignorant. 0:10:47.360 --> 0:10:48.959 Well, how do you how do you mage that. 0:10:50.040 --> 0:10:54.080 My woman's glow? My woman glows with understand a woman 0:10:54.200 --> 0:10:58.080 can't fake a glow, a woman can't fake happiness. When 0:10:58.080 --> 0:11:00.720 a woman's happy, you can tell from her eyes, to 0:11:00.760 --> 0:11:04.120 her skin, to everything. My woman is my crown all 0:11:04.160 --> 0:11:04.960 that it would show her. 0:11:05.360 --> 0:11:07.040 Now you also have two wives, right is that? 0:11:07.520 --> 0:11:07.800 Okay? 0:11:08.160 --> 0:11:11.080 So one wife is here in America the other one 0:11:11.160 --> 0:11:14.000 is in West Africa. Yes, yes, yes, okay, so both 0:11:14.040 --> 0:11:14.760 of them are glowing. 0:11:15.120 --> 0:11:18.720 Of course. Now now I have to I have to, 0:11:18.760 --> 0:11:20.240 I have to put this out there because a lot 0:11:20.280 --> 0:11:23.160 of men believe that, you know, they good women for 0:11:23.480 --> 0:11:27.079 sexual things. It's it's not that mine is based completely 0:11:27.280 --> 0:11:32.000 on business. My woman in West Africa, she runs a 0:11:32.120 --> 0:11:35.720 whole trucking company. She lives in a mansion. She's properly 0:11:35.760 --> 0:11:38.920 taken care of, and I also support her whole family. 0:11:39.400 --> 0:11:43.040 My wife here runs the company here, they're bosses. She 0:11:43.160 --> 0:11:45.280 runs the company, she's in charge of the company. Here, 0:11:46.120 --> 0:11:49.199 I take care of her whole family. I make things happen. 0:11:49.240 --> 0:11:51.760 So it's not me. Oh, I'm just a sexually craved 0:11:51.800 --> 0:11:53.480 man and I'm just going out here going crazy. Now. 0:11:53.520 --> 0:11:54.400 I take care of my face. 0:11:54.440 --> 0:11:54.800 But you do. 0:11:55.000 --> 0:11:56.920 You are sexually attracted to both women. 0:11:56.760 --> 0:11:58.320 There, beautiful women. Beautiful women. 0:11:58.400 --> 0:12:00.360 Okay, yeah, and I've seen them one. I just want 0:12:00.400 --> 0:12:02.440 to double check that because when you say it's business, 0:12:02.520 --> 0:12:05.800 of course, I'm just making sure that that's part of 0:12:05.840 --> 0:12:06.640 the equation too. 0:12:07.040 --> 0:12:09.720 Of course I have I have beautiful women, but it's 0:12:09.880 --> 0:12:12.800 not the base of it. Like, I didn't choose them 0:12:12.880 --> 0:12:16.360 for sex. I'm a businessman. I chose for business, and 0:12:16.400 --> 0:12:19.240 that's why they know if anything ever happens, they have 0:12:19.360 --> 0:12:21.960 a cushion where they can be properly taken care of. 0:12:22.640 --> 0:12:24.520 All Right, how do you split up the time? 0:12:25.200 --> 0:12:27.080 I want to just jump into the teeth, like, how 0:12:27.080 --> 0:12:31.480 do you in the six months take that salary? 0:12:31.000 --> 0:12:37.320 I mean, yes, so so I'm over here half of 0:12:37.320 --> 0:12:38.720 the year. I'm over here half of the year. But 0:12:38.760 --> 0:12:41.840 the beautiful part about it is that my first wife 0:12:42.000 --> 0:12:44.440 chose the second wife. So it wasn't me saying I 0:12:44.520 --> 0:12:47.760 want you. She was like, nah, she cool and she's intelligent, 0:12:47.800 --> 0:12:49.880 like she just graduated from college. She was like, oh, 0:12:49.880 --> 0:12:51.920 she's it. So I said, come on, let me let 0:12:51.960 --> 0:12:55.760 me see and she she shining. They both shining, but 0:12:55.840 --> 0:12:56.320 she's shining. 0:12:56.559 --> 0:12:58.160 So they hang out with each other and everybody. 0:12:58.240 --> 0:13:00.480 Yes, it's real, like sister situation. 0:13:00.600 --> 0:13:03.320 It's their sisters. They'll be cool even if I wasn't 0:13:03.360 --> 0:13:04.880 even in the picture. You know. 0:13:05.240 --> 0:13:07.000 But when y'all are all in the same house, do 0:13:07.040 --> 0:13:07.839 you all sleep in. 0:13:07.800 --> 0:13:10.640 The same No, no, no, I'm not. No, no, they 0:13:10.720 --> 0:13:15.959 have they have different bedrooms. Oh okay, they have different bedrooms, 0:13:16.040 --> 0:13:19.040 you know. And when they feel like they need my presence, 0:13:19.240 --> 0:13:21.040 they bless me. I don't bless them. 0:13:21.240 --> 0:13:22.920 And are you loyal to both of them or are 0:13:22.960 --> 0:13:25.360 you still able to say step outside? Would you look 0:13:25.360 --> 0:13:26.160 for a third wife? 0:13:26.280 --> 0:13:29.240 No, I have, I have two o's. I'm committed to 0:13:29.280 --> 0:13:31.680 two women. That does mean I flirt with women or 0:13:31.679 --> 0:13:33.800 I try to pull other women into the scenario. No, 0:13:34.160 --> 0:13:36.840 my women. If they say we need somebody else because 0:13:36.840 --> 0:13:38.439 the company's expanding, they choose. 0:13:38.440 --> 0:13:41.760 I don't choose, and that's for business purposes. The company's expanding, 0:13:41.760 --> 0:13:43.320 So you couldn't be with the women who was like, 0:13:43.800 --> 0:13:45.480 I don't want to be in this business. 0:13:45.600 --> 0:13:47.520 Now. If a woman comes and says, look, I just 0:13:47.559 --> 0:13:49.640 want to take care of the children. I just want 0:13:49.640 --> 0:13:52.280 to be a babysitter to their children. Okay. Cool. If 0:13:52.320 --> 0:13:55.600 the women agreed upon that, they add on. I don't 0:13:55.600 --> 0:13:55.920 add on. 0:13:56.640 --> 0:13:58.960 Okay. So how many children do you have? 0:13:59.240 --> 0:14:01.959 I have five beautiful children, and. 0:14:02.000 --> 0:14:05.240 So okay, and some of them living, Like, tell me 0:14:05.280 --> 0:14:07.080 the breakdown of it, which one is living? 0:14:07.160 --> 0:14:10.280 So my wife, my wife, and Africa just had a daughter, 0:14:10.840 --> 0:14:12.400 and then my wife he had just had a son. 0:14:12.480 --> 0:14:13.800 But they're all our children. 0:14:14.120 --> 0:14:17.000 Okay, all right, wow, this is I love this. 0:14:18.040 --> 0:14:22.320 So before I was born, my mother with my three 0:14:22.400 --> 0:14:24.640 older sisters, with their father. My mother lived in a 0:14:24.680 --> 0:14:28.680 house with their three children and his other woman and 0:14:28.720 --> 0:14:31.240 her children. And like, I wasn't here yet, so I 0:14:31.280 --> 0:14:32.840 wasn't a part of it, but I heard a lot 0:14:32.880 --> 0:14:33.920 of stories about. 0:14:33.640 --> 0:14:35.840 It through like through my family. 0:14:35.920 --> 0:14:37.960 Me and my mother never talked about it, and she's 0:14:38.040 --> 0:14:39.960 no longer here, so I can't get any input on it. 0:14:40.040 --> 0:14:44.680 But I always found it interesting that they were able 0:14:44.760 --> 0:14:48.400 to coin habitat. And then moving forward, when I did 0:14:48.440 --> 0:14:52.920 come into the world, my father was married to, of course, 0:14:52.960 --> 0:14:55.520 not my mother, So I was a side baby essentially, 0:14:56.000 --> 0:15:01.440 and my mother and his wife got along very well. Yeah, 0:15:01.560 --> 0:15:05.480 like even up until my mother passed away. Him, her 0:15:05.600 --> 0:15:09.600 and my father's wife, they were cool. They were very close. 0:15:10.080 --> 0:15:12.280 You know, a lot of men are doing what I'm doing. 0:15:12.440 --> 0:15:14.800 They're just secretive about it. Yes, the women don't know 0:15:14.840 --> 0:15:15.160 about it. 0:15:15.280 --> 0:15:15.680 That part. 0:15:15.840 --> 0:15:18.200 Okay, So you're saying a lot of men are having 0:15:18.840 --> 0:15:20.760 you know, I mean, they're not doing scale that he's 0:15:20.760 --> 0:15:23.720 doing it all, but they are having lives and wives 0:15:23.720 --> 0:15:26.320 in separate areas and holding it all down. 0:15:26.520 --> 0:15:28.120 Definitely, the women just don't know about it. 0:15:28.160 --> 0:15:29.920 You think that women would be if they knew. 0:15:31.320 --> 0:15:35.920 In this era, with the low quality of men, women 0:15:36.000 --> 0:15:36.920 are saying, yes. 0:15:36.800 --> 0:15:38.120 He said it, I didn't say that. 0:15:38.240 --> 0:15:40.120 With the low quality of men, women are saying. 0:15:39.960 --> 0:15:42.520 Us, What about if it was the other way around. 0:15:42.600 --> 0:15:45.240 Let's just say it was a woman and she had 0:15:45.280 --> 0:15:45.880 a husband. 0:15:46.040 --> 0:15:49.240 Yeah, and that happens, there's a TV show. 0:15:49.280 --> 0:15:50.400 What are your thoughts about that? 0:15:51.040 --> 0:15:55.040 Honestly, I don't think women. You guys are different like women. 0:15:55.120 --> 0:15:58.400 Your loyalty is different, your love is different, Like you're 0:15:58.480 --> 0:16:01.840 superior when it comes to that. Besides of men. Men 0:16:01.880 --> 0:16:03.680 are not like that. We're not built like you. Guys 0:16:03.720 --> 0:16:06.360 are built. When you love, you love with all of you. 0:16:06.800 --> 0:16:09.720 When a woman is happy, she doesn't see another man. 0:16:10.480 --> 0:16:12.360 So but you're saying that men can be happy but 0:16:12.400 --> 0:16:13.000 see other women. 0:16:15.120 --> 0:16:17.880 We can't. We can't, we can't do that. What I'm 0:16:18.080 --> 0:16:20.440 what I'm saying is when when a woman, when a 0:16:20.480 --> 0:16:24.160 woman is truly in love completely, you love with all 0:16:24.200 --> 0:16:27.000 of you, mind, body and soul. So if a man 0:16:27.080 --> 0:16:29.320 walked in here, regardless of how handsome he was, how 0:16:29.360 --> 0:16:32.200 much money he had, you don't see him. All you 0:16:32.320 --> 0:16:35.480 see is the man you're in love with. Men, we 0:16:35.520 --> 0:16:38.480 can be in love with you, love everything about you, 0:16:38.560 --> 0:16:40.880 and still see women when they walk into. 0:16:40.720 --> 0:16:41.520 The room and do. 0:16:45.600 --> 0:16:47.760 I don't know that every man is like that. I 0:16:47.800 --> 0:16:50.240 would not all like to believe. 0:16:50.760 --> 0:16:51.320 But there's a lot. 0:16:51.360 --> 0:16:54.240 I think it becomes a decision like they they're more 0:16:54.240 --> 0:16:57.960 actively choosing to act upon that or not, whereas we 0:16:58.080 --> 0:17:02.120 naturally choose. It's it's embedded in us. I think that too, 0:17:02.360 --> 0:17:06.040 Like when I'm invested in a person in a relationship, 0:17:06.160 --> 0:17:09.320 I'm turned off by other men, whereas men they actively 0:17:09.320 --> 0:17:12.320 have to say ooh, I'm thinking about Julie or whoever, 0:17:12.640 --> 0:17:13.400 whoever it is. 0:17:13.520 --> 0:17:14.520 You got to calm it down. 0:17:14.520 --> 0:17:19.679 It's like, nope, I'm actively turning around rather than naturally saying, oh, 0:17:19.720 --> 0:17:21.720 I'm not even looking at her like they're always looking here. 0:17:21.760 --> 0:17:23.680 Because yeah, if a woman walked in here and was 0:17:23.760 --> 0:17:26.359 like amazing, you would be saying to yourself, I'm loyal 0:17:26.400 --> 0:17:28.000 to my two wives. I don't see that. 0:17:28.200 --> 0:17:30.480 No, when women walking up, put my head down. I 0:17:30.680 --> 0:17:33.720 respect for my women. See, but I still know there's 0:17:33.800 --> 0:17:35.760 beautiful women we can I think we. 0:17:35.720 --> 0:17:38.560 Can acknowledge a man is handsome and a good catch. 0:17:38.760 --> 0:17:40.600 You know what, we do refer him to a friend. 0:17:40.800 --> 0:17:42.680 If we love our friends, we'll be like, girl, I'm 0:17:42.680 --> 0:17:45.080 met a guy that would be great for you, you know. 0:17:45.440 --> 0:17:46.480 I think that's what. 0:17:47.000 --> 0:17:49.720 That's a little different. But oh man, just walking in 0:17:49.840 --> 0:17:54.960 you just seeing him like. 0:17:51.160 --> 0:17:56.640 H But sometimes yes, sometimes yeah, sometimes. 0:17:56.160 --> 0:17:59.960