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Speaker 1: Subject My best friends are my exes. Dear Stephen Shirley.

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Speaker 1: I'm a thirty three year old married woman and I've

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Speaker 1: been with my husband for eight years, married for five.

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Speaker 1: My husband just found out that my male best friend

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Speaker 1: is my ex boyfriend. I also have a female best

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Speaker 1: friend that I used to have threesomes with. We are

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Speaker 1: all close and they loved my husband and he loved them.

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Speaker 1: I was on FaceTime with my best friend the other

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Speaker 1: night and he mentioned a tattoo on my lower back

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Speaker 1: and said he remembered when I got it. My husband

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Speaker 1: looked at me so crazy and then told my best

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Speaker 1: friend he was out of line. My best friend laughed

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Speaker 1: and told my husband to chill out and loosen up,

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Speaker 1: or he would screw his wife again.

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Speaker 2: I almost sign it. What what Yeah, wait a minute, Okay,

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Speaker 2: you want me to go back over that line.

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Speaker 4: Right here?

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Speaker 2: Well, I exactly see, exactly exactly.

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Speaker 1: My best friend tried to say it was a joke,

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Speaker 1: but my husband cursed him out and said he'd better

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Speaker 1: not see him anytime soon. My best friend said he

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Speaker 1: was on his way over. Less than an hour later,

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Speaker 1: my best friend showed up at our apartment ready to fight.

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Speaker 1: My husband went outside and made me stay inside. My

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Speaker 1: crazy ex was yelling so loud. I heard him tell

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Speaker 1: my husband that he slept with me for years and

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Speaker 1: we had threesomes with my female best friend. He bragged

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Speaker 1: about our sexual past. My ex boyfriend slash best friend

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Speaker 1: and I had vowed to keep our past in the past,

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Speaker 1: and we haven't had sex in over fifteen years. They

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Speaker 1: were so loud that our neighbors came out and threatened

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Speaker 1: to call the police. My ex left and my husband

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Speaker 1: told me I could go with him, but of course

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Speaker 1: I stayed and tried to talk some sense into my

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Speaker 1: husband best My husband said I'm a sneaky, lying woman,

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Speaker 1: and he gave me an ultimatum either my friends or

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Speaker 1: my marriage.

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Speaker 2: I don't think that's fair. Why is it such a.

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Speaker 1: Big deal that I'm still friends with two people i've

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Speaker 1: had sex with?

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Speaker 2: Please help? Are you kidding me right now?

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Speaker 1: It's a big deal because this happened, Okay, because your

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Speaker 1: stupid ex boyfriend did this, and your husband should have

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Speaker 1: whooped his behind.

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Speaker 2: Seriously, he came over there asking for it.

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Speaker 1: Anyway, that comment he made to your husband about screwing

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Speaker 1: you and all of that was so completely.

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Speaker 2: Out of line and disrespectful.

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Speaker 1: He obviously has a problem with you, your marriage, and

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Speaker 1: especially your husband. He's jealous, he's a hater. He's trying

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Speaker 1: to sabotage everything. He knew exactly what he was doing

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Speaker 1: with all that loud yelling outside and around the neighbors

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Speaker 1: and stuff. But you're the problem because you don't see

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Speaker 1: what your husband is talking about. You don't see that

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Speaker 1: it is such a big deal, and you don't think

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Speaker 1: it's fair that you can't see your friends again. Come on,

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Speaker 1: you need to cancel him, You need to cancel her.

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Speaker 1: Stick with your husband. Those aren't your friends. He broke

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Speaker 1: the code, he broke the trust. All of that, You guys,

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Speaker 1: agreed not to tell, and your husband doesn't care if

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Speaker 1: it was fifteen years ago of fifteen minutes ago.

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Speaker 2: All right, this dude was out of line.

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Speaker 1: He probably suspected something your husband all along. Anyway, some things,

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Speaker 1: you know, these secrets people should take to their grave

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Speaker 1: and you should be glad his sorry, but is out

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Speaker 1: of your life.

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Speaker 4: All right, Steve, Thank you, thanks, welcome, Thank you, Chirley.

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Speaker 4: Beautiful letter to come back to. Ladies and gentlemen. Call

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Speaker 4: everybody you know, and watch what I do with this

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Speaker 4: letter right here. I've been waiting on something like this.

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Speaker 4: Oh God, I misster trobe letter, he would go. Now,

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Speaker 4: I'm gonna read this letter, and I'm gonna show you

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Speaker 4: this sheer ignorance of this whole damn letter.

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Speaker 3: My best friends are my exes, did Steve.

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Speaker 4: I'm thirty three year old woman and I've been with

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Speaker 4: my husband eight years, married for five. My husband just

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Speaker 4: found out that my male best friend is my ex boyfriend.

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Speaker 3: Right there.

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Speaker 4: I done told y'all you can't be friends with somebody

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Speaker 4: you attracted to. I done told y'all that. Now here

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Speaker 4: come a letter. I also have a female best friend

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Speaker 4: that I used to have threesomes.

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Speaker 1: With woo.

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Speaker 4: It's a lot of information in this hill letter right here.

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Speaker 4: And I'm telling you right now, you got an ex boyfriend.

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Speaker 4: Your ex boyfriend is your best friend, and your best

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Speaker 4: girlfriend you used to have three someomes with. That's already

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Speaker 4: too many damn people in this letter.

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Speaker 3: Already. We ain't even got out the first paragraph.

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Speaker 4: And I'm thinking about eight people in here, all already,

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Speaker 4: this room crowded. Now we are all close, and and

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Speaker 4: they loved my husband and he loved them.

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Speaker 3: That's the problem right there.

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Speaker 4: How you still close and you married with all these

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Speaker 4: people that's supposed to be your exes. It don't ever

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Speaker 4: work out. I was on FaceTime with my best friend.

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Speaker 4: Here's another problem. I want you to stop calling him

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Speaker 4: your best friend because this finnick turned ugly. I was

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Speaker 4: on the phone FaceTime with my best friend the other

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Speaker 4: night and he mentioned the tattoo on my little back

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Speaker 4: and he said he remembered when I got it.

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Speaker 3: Wait a minute, we see right right there, all of

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Speaker 3: us on this show that's married.

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Speaker 4: Can you be on a FaceTime with a person of

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Speaker 4: the opposite sex talking about a damn tattoo that's on

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Speaker 4: your lower back or talking just on FaceTime. I wish

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Speaker 4: her hef of wood FaceTime in I'm sitting up in

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Speaker 4: here with Marche.

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Speaker 3: What this already? Okay? He mentioned the tattoo, and he

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Speaker 4: My husband looked at me so crazy and then told

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Speaker 4: my best friend he was out of line, quick calling

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Speaker 4: this man your best friend. See this is the problem

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Speaker 4: with this whole letter. Your best friends ain't your friends.

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Speaker 4: Then she said, my best friend laughed and told my

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Speaker 4: husband to chill out and loosen up or he would

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Speaker 4: screw his wife again.

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Speaker 3: We need to stop this damn letter right here.

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Speaker 4: Before I started cussing, we finnsh go to commercial break

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Speaker 4: because all I want to do right now is cuss

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Speaker 4: And on the commercial break, I'm gonna get all the

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Speaker 4: cussing out and then I'll be back.

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Speaker 2: Okay, all right, loosen.

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Speaker 3: Up, and I'm gonna screw your wife again.

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Speaker 2: Mother, see whoh All right.

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Speaker 1: Look, we'll have part two of Steve's response if we

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Speaker 1: still have jobs when we come back at twenty three

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Speaker 2: Right after this, you're listening hard Morning show.

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Speaker 1: All right, Come on, Steve, let's recap today's strawberry letter.

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Speaker 1: The subject my best friend are my exes.

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Speaker 4: Listen, That's all I got to say about it right here. Okay,

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Speaker 4: so I've been cussing the whole break right, yes, So

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Speaker 4: now let me get back into this ignorant ass nothing.

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Speaker 4: It's thirty through year old woman who's her best friend

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Speaker 4: is her ex boyfriend, and her best female friend is

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Speaker 4: a woman that she used.

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Speaker 3: To have threesomes with a lot of people.

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Speaker 4: In this letter, we've discovered that she was facetiming with

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Speaker 4: her best friend, who was another man.

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Speaker 3: The other night.

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Speaker 4: He mentioned the tattoo on my lower back and said

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Speaker 4: me so crazy, and then told my best friend he

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Speaker 4: was out of line. Quit calling him your best friend.

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Speaker 4: He just mentioned a tattoo on your lower back and

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Speaker 4: he remember when you got it. He ain't he sposed

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Speaker 4: to know nothing about this. Okay, here we go. My

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Speaker 3: See I'm confused, he laughed. He was talking to me.

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Speaker 4: See, most men listening to this letter cannot imagine a

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Speaker 4: man laughing telling him to chill out or we almost

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Speaker 4: screw your wife again.

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Speaker 3: What you laughed?

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Speaker 4: Oh dog? Oh you done got comfortable. Then the lady said,

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Speaker 4: I almost feinted. My best friend tried to say it

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Speaker 4: was a joke. O don told Joe asked, lady, quit

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Speaker 4: calling him your best friend. This is the problem already.

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Speaker 4: You keep referring to this man as your damn best friend.

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Speaker 4: And he tried to say it was a joke, but

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Speaker 4: see him anytime soon. My best friend, here she go again,

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Speaker 4: this helper right here. She ain't learning why she keep

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Speaker 4: calling this fool her. My best friend said he was

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Speaker 4: on his way over. That ain't a man, and living

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Speaker 4: gonna tell me to shut up and chill out, or

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Speaker 4: you gonna screw my wife again. And then I promise

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Speaker 4: you a ass whooping. And then you say you on

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Speaker 4: your way over. You're not gonna believe what's gonna happen

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Speaker 4: when you get him. You're not even gonna believe this,

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Speaker 4: the level of ass whooping, the intensity of it. You brother,

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Speaker 4: let me explain something to you. You're not only driving

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Speaker 4: over here for this ass whooping. You are about to

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Speaker 4: be in a near death situation, very close okay, He

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Speaker 4: male best friend showed up at our apartment ready to fight.

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Speaker 3: Wait a minute, excuse me? Ready to fight for? What?

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Speaker 3: What does he have to fight for?

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Speaker 4: See, lady, you leaving something out in this letter because

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Speaker 4: if your ex boyfriend your husband tells him I bet

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Speaker 4: and not see you soon. He says, I'm coming over there,

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Speaker 4: and in thirty later he drive over to you and

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Speaker 4: your husband's house ready to fight. My question becomes ready

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Speaker 4: to fight for what? Ain't nobody fighting over? No fifteen

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Speaker 4: drive over here to whoop you over something that happened

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Speaker 4: fifteen years ago?

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Speaker 3: Are you crazy? Well?

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Speaker 4: And anyway, when he got over there, this letter is

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Speaker 4: the rest of this letter. If I was in this

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Speaker 4: letter is totally different. I don't even know why we're

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Speaker 4: still writing all. The rest of this is just a

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Speaker 4: police report, So I don't even know what how you

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Speaker 4: still typing? You got up in here and drove over

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Speaker 4: My crazy X was yelling so loud. I heard him

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Speaker 4: tell my husband he slept with me for years and

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Speaker 4: we had threesomes with my female best friend. He bragged

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Speaker 4: had time to say all this, yeah sayings all what

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Speaker 4: you mean? I heard him yelling and he said, no,

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Speaker 4: when you drove over here right that ass whipping I

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Speaker 4: promised you it commences soon as you get out to cars.

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Speaker 3: Matter of fact, that.

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Speaker 4: Asks what I'm starting for you get out to car, dog,

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Speaker 3: Again again, here you go.

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Speaker 4: You keep calling this man your ex boyfriend. You stupid,

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Speaker 4: because ain't nobody drove over your house over some sex

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Speaker 4: No white dude do that.

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Speaker 3: I don't know. No you do that.

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Speaker 4: They were so loud that our neighbors came out and

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Speaker 4: Most ass women's I've been involved in have been very quiet,

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Speaker 3: I don't even know what.

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Speaker 4: They're out there arguing about my ex. Now here we go.

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Speaker 4: My ex left left?

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Speaker 2: How alive.

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Speaker 4: Your ex left? That's just part of this letter. I'm

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Speaker 4: not understanding. Let me read this to you again. My

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Speaker 3: When we came. Oh, I have more for this right.

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Speaker 4: Here, I'm stuck part They arguing my husband, my ex

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Speaker 3: You're talking about in a car?

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Speaker 1: Coming up, we'll have part three of today's struggle.

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Speaker 3: Were able to drive away?

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Speaker 2: Steve Harvey is back friend.

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Speaker 3: On his own accord.

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Speaker 2: We'll be back right after this. You're listening hard morning show?

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Speaker 2: All right, Come on, Steve. Part three of today's Strawberry letter.

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Speaker 1: The subject is my best friends are my exes.

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Speaker 4: I showed hope y'all been with me on this letter.

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Speaker 4: Right here, this thirty three year old woman got this

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Speaker 4: I find that hard to believe, because ain't no dude

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Speaker 4: this is your last time. Now they're out there arguing.

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Speaker 3: How how I'm confused?

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Speaker 4: He left on his own car, He left on a gurney.

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Speaker 4: This not be meaning that he got back in his car,

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Speaker 4: But of course I stayed talked him since my husband.

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Speaker 4: My husband said I'm a sneaky line woman, and he

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Speaker 4: I don't think that's fair. You don't think that's fair.

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Speaker 3: Us outside talking, what is we talking for.

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Speaker 4: I'm disappointed in the hubs. I'm disappointed that the police

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Speaker 3: You're gonna leave in the vehicle, but it won't be

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Speaker 4: And if don't have lights on it, the wine you

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Speaker 3: Why is his aunt still living? I didn't want to

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Speaker 2: Show at the top of the hour. Right after the

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Speaker 2: you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show