Speaker 1: Were you looking Jubiles Second date update? You ever go
Speaker 1: out on a date with someone and you're not sure why,
Speaker 1: but you just know that they hate you the whole time? Wow? No,
Speaker 1: I haven't. No, I feel like that that's happened to
Speaker 1: you more than once. Yeah, all the time, even in
Speaker 1: like current relationships. It's weird. I were just out and
Speaker 1: I'm like, I know that you hate me, and I
Speaker 1: don't understand why. Well. Vic is on the phone for
Speaker 1: a second date update today and he was in that situation.
Speaker 1: He went out with a girl that he met on
Speaker 1: tender and he says it just seems like she didn't
Speaker 1: like him very much, but he liked her, and now
Speaker 1: he wants to call and try to get a second date.
Speaker 1: What's up, Vic? Hey, Oh yeah, I get it. I
Speaker 1: understand why she didn't like you. Know, it makes sense
Speaker 1: you too, Yeah, I'm sorry, man, maybe on the phone
Speaker 1: with you for three seconds? So your email said that
Speaker 1: the girl you went out with just was cold to
Speaker 1: you the whole time, Fridgid, Then why are you even
Speaker 1: calling us? Why would you want to go out with
Speaker 1: somebody that you didn't obviously connect with. Well, I really
Speaker 1: liked her and I just have to know if whatever
Speaker 1: I did is something that I do on dates, and
Speaker 1: it's kind of plague me, you know, for the rest
Speaker 1: of my life. I like how you're already blaming yourself
Speaker 1: the whole thing. That's good. Has this happened to you before?
Speaker 1: Not exactly. I mean I've I've dated online before and
Speaker 1: either it goes well it goes really poorly. Okay, Yeah,
Speaker 1: and this this one sort of felt like an in
Speaker 1: between it. I mean, it didn't seem like we had
Speaker 1: no chemistry. It just doesn't seem like she liked me.
Speaker 1: And was this the whole date that she didn't like you?
Speaker 1: Or was there a turning point? Um, I'm say about
Speaker 1: twelve minutes. In twelve minutes for you, what did you
Speaker 1: guys do on your date? We decided to go rock climbing.
Speaker 1: Oh that's ambitious. I assume you guys saw that you
Speaker 1: both were into that on Tinder. Well, she's got a
Speaker 1: lot of pictures of her doing you know, like really
Speaker 1: athletic staffs. I played volleyball, beach and you know, she
Speaker 1: seemed like probably played sports in college, and it seemed
Speaker 1: like a fun thing for us to do. I'd gone
Speaker 1: like once or twice before and she'd never gone, and
Speaker 1: she said it sounded like fun. Yeah, it sounds like
Speaker 1: an awesome date. Yeah. And so we went to the
Speaker 1: place and they've got you know, they set you up,
Speaker 1: they give you a harness and you know, teach you
Speaker 1: how to get hooked in and what to do. And
Speaker 1: we paid for two hours, thinking that, you know, we'd
Speaker 1: be good and tired, not knowing that twelve minutes in
Speaker 1: she'd wanted to be over exactly. And so I looked
Speaker 1: over at her at one point and she just had
Speaker 1: this look on her face like she was doing the
Speaker 1: last thing in the world she wanted to be doing.
Speaker 1: Did it look I mean, for the sounds of it,
Speaker 1: looks like she wanted to push you off the fake
Speaker 1: rock wall that you were on. Yeah. She just didn't
Speaker 1: seem like she was having it. So I said to her, I, look,
Speaker 1: you know, maybe this was another thing, you know, forget
Speaker 1: the two hours, Like I know, an oyster shack two
Speaker 1: miles down the road. Let's go there and we'll switch
Speaker 1: the date up a little bit. See, I feel like
Speaker 1: that is good self awareness in a date. How did
Speaker 1: she respond? She was relieved, it seemed like at first,
Speaker 1: and she said, you know, you know what, I think
Speaker 1: there'd be a great idea. I'm not really feeling this.
Speaker 1: So we got to the Oyster Shack and we ordered drink,
Speaker 1: and this conversation and like kind of start and stop.
Speaker 1: We'd find a thread talk for a minute or so,
Speaker 1: and then it would sort of die, and then it
Speaker 1: was kind of up to me to start the next
Speaker 1: threat of conversation. It just seemed like she had something
Speaker 1: on her mind. There was something bothering her, and I
Speaker 1: didn't know what it was, but it kind of felt
Speaker 1: like that throughout the night, and by night, I mean
Speaker 1: twenty five minutes because she then tells me that she
Speaker 1: has a work presentation that she'd totally forgotten about she
Speaker 1: had to go prepare for. And I'm going like, this
Speaker 1: is weird. It's five thirty on a Sunday and completely
Speaker 1: slip my mind to have the biggest presentation of my
Speaker 1: life tomorrow and I don't know why I forgot. So
Speaker 1: I'm gonna go handle that right now, you know, And
Speaker 1: theoretically I would like to give would have benefit of
Speaker 1: it doubt, because I mean, if if she really did
Speaker 1: have her presentation the next day, then you know, maybe
Speaker 1: that was why she was not having fun rock climbing,
Speaker 1: maybe why she couldn't really hold a conversation together. So
Speaker 1: that's true. She could have been preoccupied with trying to
Speaker 1: get ready for her thing and felt like she was
Speaker 1: kind of wasting time on a date at that moment.
Speaker 1: Either that or I'm really unlikable. That's so sad, you
Speaker 1: see what I mean? Yeah, what did you like so
Speaker 1: much about her? Because she sounds like it was kind
Speaker 1: of a painful, awkward time with her. You know, she
Speaker 1: was she was gorgeous. She has these brown eyes that
Speaker 1: could like pierce into your soul. And on tint or
Speaker 1: a profile, you know, so she's into old eighties horror
Speaker 1: movies stuff I grew up on. Um. It seemed like
Speaker 1: we were really going to hit it off. And when
Speaker 1: she was talking with me, I mean, she seemed really
Speaker 1: cool and interesting those brief moments, or she would respond
Speaker 1: to your comment or something. Maybe, I mean, maybe she
Speaker 1: just wasn't attracted to you. And it's not to say
Speaker 1: that there's probably anything wrong with you, but maybe that
Speaker 1: was just it. But we I mean we met on Tinder.
Speaker 1: She has like four pictures of what I look like. Yeah,
Speaker 1: how accurate are they they're all recent pictures. They're taken
Speaker 1: in the last year, so it looks like me. I mean,
Speaker 1: it's what I look like. Okay, So it was definitely
Speaker 1: your personality that you didn't. We got the looks out
Speaker 1: of the way, and we know that it goes deeper
Speaker 1: than that. It goes straight down to your soul. So
Speaker 1: let's figure it out. Will play a song, come back,
Speaker 1: and then call her and get your second day update.
Speaker 1: All right, all right, thank you looking jubil in the
Speaker 1: morning second updates. If you're just joining us for today's
Speaker 1: second date update. Vic is on the phone, and Vic
Speaker 1: is the most likable unlikable person I've ever met in
Speaker 1: my life. I say that because Vic went out with
Speaker 1: a girl named Jesse that he met on Tinder. They
Speaker 1: went rock climbing and then went to go get some oysters.
Speaker 1: But he says the whole time it just seemed like
Speaker 1: she hated him, and he wants to know if he's
Speaker 1: doing something on dates that makes women dislike him. Also,
Speaker 1: he says he likes her too, but more than that,
Speaker 1: he just wants to know what's unlikable about Vic. It
Speaker 1: sounds like a sitcom. Victa just doesn't work out. On
Speaker 1: a second date. We could just maybe write a show
Speaker 1: what's unlikable about Vic? What do you think? I don't
Speaker 1: know if you go could handle that? I mean, what
Speaker 1: if she does say something super harsh about you, then
Speaker 1: I will know and I can change. Sometimes you can't
Speaker 1: change the things people don't like about you, and you
Speaker 1: just have to find somebody who does like it. Okay, Vic, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't know. She's just she's really cool. I like
Speaker 1: her and I hope she'll go out with me again. Okay, Well,
Speaker 1: well let's get her on the phone and find out
Speaker 1: first why she seemed to have a horrible time in
Speaker 1: second If she'll do it all over again, sounds great. Okay,
Speaker 1: all right, here we go. Hello. Can I speak to
Speaker 1: Jesse please? Hi speaking? Hey Jesse, how are you? This
Speaker 1: is Jewbil from Brook and Jewil in the Morning. I'm sorry,
Speaker 1: I don't know who that is. We're a plumbing and
Speaker 1: contracting service. You need to know if you need me
Speaker 1: worked out in neighborhood, that'd be so amazing. What are
Speaker 1: all those people in the background, Hi, Jesse? Those are
Speaker 1: all people that work at Brook and Jewel in the
Speaker 1: Morning plumbing and contracting. We'll do it in the Morning.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I'm confused. I don't know what's going on.
Speaker 1: Brooke and Jewel in the Morning is a radio show,
Speaker 1: and we're calling you today because we actually got an
Speaker 1: email from one of our listeners who wanted us to
Speaker 1: call you. Okay, his name is Vic. Oh um, all right,
Speaker 1: that actually said it kind of positive. Okay. Well, we
Speaker 1: do a segment on our show called the second Date Update.
Speaker 1: So Vic emailed us because he really liked you a
Speaker 1: lot and was hoping you guys would go out again.
Speaker 1: But since your date, you haven't talked to him. I
Speaker 1: don't think that's going to happen. You don't think going
Speaker 1: out with him again is going to happen? No, what
Speaker 1: is it? So? Vick says, it seemed like you had
Speaker 1: a horrible time the entire time on your date, Like
Speaker 1: there was just something about him that you didn't like.
Speaker 1: You know, it was the first date. It wasn't amazing,
Speaker 1: and it's not a big deal. It's a big deal
Speaker 1: of him because he liked you a lot. Uh, Okay,
Speaker 1: So can you tell us, like, why didn't you like him?
Speaker 1: He said, like twelve minutes into the date is when
Speaker 1: you started being cold. Towards him. Oh, he gave me
Speaker 1: twelve minutes. That's that's funny. No, it's way before that.
Speaker 1: He didn't even like him for twelve whole minutes. Uh no,
Speaker 1: how could he make you upset right away? Well, for starters,
Speaker 1: he looked different than his pictures. Really, he said all
Speaker 1: of his pictures were taken within the last year and
Speaker 1: looked just like him. Oh well sure, but in his
Speaker 1: pictures he was clean shaven. Okay, okay. So he showed
Speaker 1: up with sporting a beard or something, and you don't
Speaker 1: like facial hearts, No, I'd be fine with a beard.
Speaker 1: He didn't show up with a beard. What did he
Speaker 1: show up with? He had a Hitler mustache? What like
Speaker 1: a fake one that you get at a costume store. No,
Speaker 1: like a real one growing out in his face like
Speaker 1: he grew it on purpose. Was it like to try
Speaker 1: to be ironic and hipster? You know, I don't care
Speaker 1: if he's trying to be ironic. No one should have that. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I agree, except for Michael Jordan. For some reason, Michael
Speaker 1: Jordan can wear a Hitler stash and it's okay. He's
Speaker 1: the only person in America that can do it. But
Speaker 1: Viso a multi millionaire basketball star. Yeah, like that's true.
Speaker 1: Vic obviously couldn't pull off the Hitler stash. He didn't
Speaker 1: tell us anything about that. Well maybe for him that's normal,
Speaker 1: but it just doesn't work for me. But the thing
Speaker 1: is okay, I can get where the mustache was a
Speaker 1: turn off for sure, but that is something that can
Speaker 1: be easily changed, I guess. But it just gave me
Speaker 1: this bad first impression. Like I'm climbing up this rock
Speaker 1: wall and I look next to me and there's Hitler. Yeah, no,
Speaker 1: what do you hate it? That'd be a little disturbing. Yeah,
Speaker 1: disturbing is a good word for it. Did you ask
Speaker 1: him about it at all? I mean, I don't know how.
Speaker 1: You know, it's a first date. I don't need to
Speaker 1: ask about it. But then it just got worse, Like
Speaker 1: how does it get worse than Hitler? Yeah? Literally worse
Speaker 1: than Hitler. He kept like staring me down and being
Speaker 1: like are you having a good time? Are you having fun?
Speaker 1: And it'd be like, well, I'm trying to figure out
Speaker 1: how to climb this flock, will you know? I've never
Speaker 1: done that before and I'm trying to figure out this
Speaker 1: difficult thing, and he's like, you're not smiling. I don't
Speaker 1: think you're having a good time like I'm trying to.
Speaker 1: It's like you're actually on a date with Hitler. You
Speaker 1: will have fun fun, you will have no fun. You're
Speaker 1: not having enough fun. Man, So I can't well, I
Speaker 1: can't believe that you left the gym and then went
Speaker 1: and got drinks with him. I thought maybe alcohol might
Speaker 1: calm him down a little. I was wrong. I was wrong.
Speaker 1: I shouldn't have gone to the second location with Hitler.
Speaker 1: I'm not going to do that again. What happened then,
Speaker 1: are just just more of the same. He's staring me up.
Speaker 1: Are you having fun? You don't look like you're having
Speaker 1: fun now picture I'm doing it, and like his banks
Speaker 1: falling in his face and him like angrily getting out.
Speaker 1: I'm just shouting at you the whole time. That's pretty
Speaker 1: much what it felt like. It was just so weird. Yeah,
Speaker 1: not to get weirder on you, Jesse, but Vic is
Speaker 1: actually on the other line listening and wants to talk
Speaker 1: to you. Wait seriously, Yes, oh god, so you didn't
Speaker 1: have a presentation. No, no, you don't. I didn't have
Speaker 1: a presentation. Yeah, Jesse got out of the date by
Speaker 1: saying that she had a work presentation and that's what
Speaker 1: you're focusing on. Vic, Well, that was a little rude
Speaker 1: to lie to somebody. I mean, you can just tell
Speaker 1: them the truth. Oh, Vick, why do you have a
Speaker 1: Hitler stash man? That's how my mustache grows. I don't
Speaker 1: have like a full mustache. Show. It's kind of like
Speaker 1: a more a bridge. You're trying to get tobody because
Speaker 1: your mustache doesn't growth mustache. I do not think it
Speaker 1: looks like a Hitler statche. I've watched hours and hours
Speaker 1: of Hitler's speeches, and I do not. I hope you
Speaker 1: mean like in documentaries and not just for your own research. Yet. No,
Speaker 1: I'm a history I was a history major in college. Okay, time.
Speaker 1: I mean I've just I've seen a lot of videos
Speaker 1: of Hitler about Hitler, and I don't know, Well, why
Speaker 1: have you seen a lot of videos about Hitler? Like Jesse,
Speaker 1: didn't you hear me? I mean I was a history major.
Speaker 1: I didn't. I didn't go out of my way to
Speaker 1: watch Hitler videos. But I don't look Okay, look, I
Speaker 1: think it looks good. I get that you don't think
Speaker 1: it looks good. I guess I have to ask some
Speaker 1: people that I'm close to and get a consensus. Look,
Speaker 1: even if you don't look like Hitler, which is fine,
Speaker 1: that's what you think. It's so really rude and strange
Speaker 1: to spend the entire date asking me if I'm having
Speaker 1: fun yet and being mad at me for not having
Speaker 1: enough fun? You know, maybe how is it like you?
Speaker 1: I would have been having you. I just don't understand.
Speaker 1: How is it rude to ask one if they're having fun?
Speaker 1: I just thought that's what people do. Are you? Are
Speaker 1: you having fun? I'm having fun? I'm not having fun.
Speaker 1: I'm not having fun though, and I wasn't having fun zone?
Speaker 1: Why why aren't you smiling? Are you having fun? Why
Speaker 1: do you? Because I'm not having fun? Because you keep
Speaker 1: asking me if I'm having fun? So what can we
Speaker 1: do to make sure that you're having fun? Why do
Speaker 1: something that problem? VI? Jesse? Would you like to see
Speaker 1: if you could have fun with Vic and go on
Speaker 1: a second date with him? We will pay for double No, no, please,
Speaker 1: I have heard enough. I do not want to go
Speaker 1: on another date with the ice queat. Oh yeah, I
Speaker 1: guess I won't be having any fun at all. Well,
Speaker 1: I've yet to see you have any fun? So am
Speaker 1: I done? Now? Do I have to keep talking to you? Guys?
Speaker 1: Can I hang up? Yeah? Jesse, that's fine, you can go.
Speaker 1: Thank you for your time. Yeah? Thanks? Yeah, Vick, that
Speaker 1: was intense. That was a little rough. Um, Sorry you
Speaker 1: didn't get a second date. Man, No, I'm even happier
Speaker 1: than I call it now, you know. No, you need
Speaker 1: to shave that mustache off, is what you need to do. Vic.
Speaker 1: I think you really have the wrong idea of what
Speaker 1: this mustache looks like. It's very professional. I can go
Speaker 1: out into the world like I think that if I
Speaker 1: was walking around with a mustache that looked like Hitler,
Speaker 1: one person other than the crabbiest person I've ever met,
Speaker 1: you think that she probably would have liked it like
Speaker 1: sweet