Speaker 1: Second date, up date, Alexis, let me ask you and
Speaker 1: just be honest here, have you ever gone out with
Speaker 1: a guy just to get something out of him for free?
Speaker 2: Oh?
Speaker 3: Like a mule or a coffee?
Speaker 4: Duh?
Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, why would you?
Speaker 2: Sorry?
Speaker 5: I didn't mean.
Speaker 1: I didn't mean every single time you've ever spoken to
Speaker 1: a guy. I just meant like once or twice. But
Speaker 1: sure for you, Alexis, you didn't think anything of that.
Speaker 1: You feel like they deserved to pay for your steak
Speaker 1: dinner and the fourteen white claws just to enjoy the
Speaker 1: privilege of being next time.
Speaker 3: I am fun company.
Speaker 1: Think about the guy? What is he left with?
Speaker 3: Yes, that's what dating is, Jeff.
Speaker 1: It's a large credit card bill too, Okay, nothing to
Speaker 1: show for it. But one of our listeners, John, says
Speaker 1: he feels like he may have been used when he
Speaker 1: went out with a woman the other night, and we're
Speaker 1: gonna try and help him out.
Speaker 3: What does he expect? I mean? Okay, all right, you're
Speaker 3: getting no sympathy from today. I saw, like, what do
Speaker 3: you want in return?
Speaker 5: There?
Speaker 3: John?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Why don't you actually rand over your credit card information
Speaker 1: to us now before we get started? Okay?
Speaker 5: Yeah, you know relationship guarantee that'd be more fun.
Speaker 1: Can you not judge him? He hasn't even gotten to
Speaker 1: say hello to us. It's like, John, what's that man?
Speaker 3: John?
Speaker 1: Let's get them away.
Speaker 2: Hey, I'm here. I don't know. I feel like maybe
Speaker 2: I've been years.
Speaker 3: So used for What What were you used for?
Speaker 6: All right?
Speaker 2: Let me back it up.
Speaker 1: Yeah, why don't you start from the beginning. Tell us
Speaker 1: about this woman that you met, how you met her,
Speaker 1: what her name is, and then lead us into the story.
Speaker 3: If you say, Alexis I swear to change my name.
Speaker 1: What's her name?
Speaker 2: Now? You're safe her name? I guess her identity is
Speaker 2: probably safe if I just get it.
Speaker 5: The first name, Nikky we had after last we got
Speaker 5: a caller, bro, Like, that's how this?
Speaker 1: Okay, her name is Nicky? And how did you meet her?
Speaker 2: Okay?
Speaker 5: Uh?
Speaker 2: You know I met her online?
Speaker 3: Okay? And was there any red flags? Seeing that you
Speaker 3: think you got used?
Speaker 2: I mean it was cool at first we're talking. She's cute,
Speaker 2: she's not like strangely hot where you know it doesn't.
Speaker 3: Look like a bot, is what you're saying?
Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly, Like talking in the conversation is good.
Speaker 1: Like, Okay, take us to the date and what happened.
Speaker 2: Okay, so we were having trouble getting together because I
Speaker 2: have a kind of under weekly I've got schedule. Okay,
Speaker 2: we're going to casino. I'm in the surveillance room.
Speaker 3: You have like a crazy schedule.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a problem.
Speaker 5: It's funny that a guy who works in surveillance thinks
Speaker 5: he may have gotten scammed.
Speaker 2: It is ironic.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, so, I mean your schedule must be hard
Speaker 1: to like find a good time to go out with
Speaker 1: somebody that you really like. What did you end up
Speaker 1: doing with NICKI?
Speaker 2: So it was cool. She goes, all right, you come over,
Speaker 2: I'll make you a night's dinner before you're going to work.
Speaker 1: Oh are you complaining about being scammed?
Speaker 2: About that?
Speaker 3: It's so awesome and it sounds amazing.
Speaker 5: And she trusts you right like, because she's inviting you
Speaker 5: to your place before she's even met you.
Speaker 2: Exactly. I thought that was cool. I'm not like a
Speaker 2: criminal looking guy, so.
Speaker 3: I don't think it's looks on that one. Yeah, there's
Speaker 3: a lot of good looking guys and also you can't
Speaker 3: trust but.
Speaker 1: Yeah, sure, so she invites you over, she opens the door,
Speaker 1: she tells you here put your wallet over here, and.
Speaker 2: Yeah, not so blatant, okay, like salmon and wine.
Speaker 5: Oh yeah, she's paying for you, okay.
Speaker 2: And it was awesome and nothing this movie too fast.
Speaker 2: We're just having a nice dinner. It was the first step.
Speaker 5: It's great, great, Well you have to go to work later,
Speaker 5: so it's not even like you can have a drink
Speaker 5: or two. You know, it's like nothing's going to happen during.
Speaker 2: That date, right right? Okay, So there, and then she
Speaker 2: mentions the fact that her bathroom sink is gripping a lot,
Speaker 2: and she's like she did the scene where it was
Speaker 2: like she mens like twice and stop and.
Speaker 1: I, oh, she keeps bringing up that darn sink.
Speaker 3: Oh that's funny, see.
Speaker 2: Right, okay, it was like enough of a prompt where
Speaker 2: I was like, you want me to look at it?
Speaker 2: She did, and I'm like, yeah, cool. I was happy, Honestly,
Speaker 2: I was like cool.
Speaker 3: Okay, are you a hand to feel helpful? Are you
Speaker 3: a handy guy? Did she know that about you?
Speaker 2: Yeah? So I think that's like maybe why she didn't
Speaker 2: mention it. Because I mentioned that I renovated my place.
Speaker 3: I see when the using I think is going to
Speaker 3: come into play here.
Speaker 1: But it may not be using. Still, she may still
Speaker 1: be into you and be like, look while you're here.
Speaker 1: I don't go on a lot of dates. I don't
Speaker 1: have a lot of guy friends. Just look for me.
Speaker 1: Yeah right, So did you go look at the sink?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 2: I did, and I fixed it in like ten minutes.
Speaker 3: So yeah, that's cool. How did the day end? Did
Speaker 3: you just like fix the sink and you're like, all right,
Speaker 3: well it works here done?
Speaker 2: No? I mean it ended like I thought we were
Speaker 2: totally va. I mean, got the hug, got a kiss,
Speaker 2: but there was like door strain kiss, you know, I
Speaker 2: kind of initiated it and uh.
Speaker 4: A little awkward.
Speaker 1: So she cooked you a meal, she gave you a kiss,
Speaker 1: you fixed her sink in like ten minutes, and you
Speaker 1: feel like that was the scam.
Speaker 2: I mean, I'm wondering. I can't help but wonder because
Speaker 2: I thought the day was good. You know, I played cool.
Speaker 2: I waited two days, you know, texted her. I texted
Speaker 2: her again.
Speaker 3: Okay, so she's not responding exactly.
Speaker 5: But like, maybe she just doesn't like you, like you like,
Speaker 5: it doesn't mean that she's using.
Speaker 3: You for them. I want to give you a to
Speaker 3: do list of things that it makes it sound.
Speaker 5: Like you didn't want to do it as a favor,
Speaker 5: Like it just sounds like a friendly favorite thing to do,
Speaker 5: like you expected something in return.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, it's sound like I expected to do something
Speaker 2: or her. But it comes down to this, right, it's
Speaker 2: you that she's not in to be don't ask me
Speaker 2: to picture shake.
Speaker 3: I really want to waste your night.
Speaker 5: She wouldn't get you a full dinner if she already
Speaker 5: knew that.
Speaker 3: That's a good point, you know, like she wouldn't.
Speaker 1: I mean, if that's what a scam is, I hope
Speaker 1: that somebody scams me. I am open first. I got
Speaker 1: you so good with that five course meal.
Speaker 3: All right, fine, I'll take your car warranty.
Speaker 1: Anyway, Let's let's find out once and for all. Maybe
Speaker 1: maybe there is a nugget of truth to this. We're
Speaker 1: gonna call Nikki for you and try and get you
Speaker 1: a second date update right after this. Okay, all right, cool,
Speaker 1: all right, now hold on second date update. To be
Speaker 1: scammed or not to be scammed? That is the question.
Speaker 1: Because one of our listeners, Noble John, foundeth himself at
Speaker 1: the apartment of the Beautiful and Fair Nikki, and during
Speaker 1: the dining date, she exclaimeth, oh, the noblest of John's
Speaker 1: my scene, get doth leake it? Can you fix it perchance?
Speaker 1: Which he did.
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's nice of him.
Speaker 1: It was very nice. Ten minutes and then he went
Speaker 1: on his way to work because he does the night
Speaker 1: shift over at the casino. Inside the surveillance room. Has
Speaker 1: not heard from Nikki though in eight days. Yeah, why
Speaker 1: don't you guys applauding the performance that I had.
Speaker 3: The Shakespeare halfways?
Speaker 1: Well I only had a small role in it. Anyway.
Speaker 1: John feels like maybe Nicky took advantage of his handyman
Speaker 1: skills and had planned on using him for free plumbing
Speaker 1: work the entire time.
Speaker 3: But it's not free, John, She paid for the salmon.
Speaker 3: That's expensive.
Speaker 1: We don't know that she paid for that salmon.
Speaker 3: Used a fisherman, using men all over time.
Speaker 2: Time is money.
Speaker 1: She cooked the salmon, she put an effort.
Speaker 5: I mean you didn't text her anything like hey, you
Speaker 5: using me or anything like that.
Speaker 3: No, No texted her, but we didn't know what.
Speaker 2: No, I'm not like texting her accusations and stuff, you know,
Speaker 2: I'm just like, hey, I.
Speaker 1: Was like, it's okay. We don't have to read all
Speaker 1: the texts that you sent to her, but you've tried
Speaker 1: to reach out and she's not responding back, and that's
Speaker 1: enough for us to give her a call. Yeah, let's
Speaker 1: find out once and for all whether or not she's
Speaker 1: a scammer.
Speaker 2: Here.
Speaker 3: I don't think she's a scammer.
Speaker 5: If you're going to do something nice for someone, then
Speaker 5: you shouldn't expect anything in return.
Speaker 3: That's the nice part.
Speaker 1: Do you see what I'm saying, Jeff, don't do nice
Speaker 1: things for other people. That's okay, let's just call that's
Speaker 1: the nice thing we're going to do for John to
Speaker 1: do that. Maybe John, you can get us back when
Speaker 1: we're done. All right, here we go. I'm dialing it
Speaker 1: right now.
Speaker 2: Hello.
Speaker 1: Hey, is this Nicky? Yes it is Hey, Nikky. I
Speaker 1: apologize for the weird hall that we're pushing you into here,
Speaker 1: but you're on the radio right now.
Speaker 3: Okay, Nikki?
Speaker 7: Uh did I wait for something?
Speaker 1: Well?
Speaker 3: I mean you could at the end of.
Speaker 1: This salmon this moment. What we're doing is something called
Speaker 1: a second Date Update, and that's a segment where we
Speaker 1: try and help out listeners who've gone out with someone
Speaker 1: and they're not getting a callback afterwards to help him
Speaker 1: figure out why.
Speaker 7: Who did you say you were?
Speaker 3: Again, I'm Jeff, We're all here. It's Brooke and Jeffrey
Speaker 3: in the Morning is the name of the show.
Speaker 1: That's not what she she asked why I was? She
Speaker 1: wants to know who the stars are.
Speaker 3: I think she meant you in the room.
Speaker 1: No, she made me. I'm Jeff, and I would like
Speaker 1: to ask you about a date you went on eight
Speaker 1: days ago with a guy named John.
Speaker 3: Did you say John John that you cooked him dinner?
Speaker 3: You cooked him a lovely salmon dinner.
Speaker 2: He said, Yeah, I did.
Speaker 3: I did.
Speaker 7: I went on a date with with John.
Speaker 2: Well, he came to my house right.
Speaker 1: We heard that you made him dinner, and you guys
Speaker 1: hung out right before he had to go to his work,
Speaker 1: his like night shift. He says that you haven't responded
Speaker 1: to any of his texts in the last eight days,
Speaker 1: and I'm just gonna be honest. He says he feels
Speaker 1: like he was used by You're gonna scam.
Speaker 7: Wait that if he thinks he's being scammed, I mean
Speaker 7: he's not. I think I was the one being scammed.
Speaker 5: Oh no, a statement I didn't expect to hear from you. Wait,
Speaker 5: you think you're being scammed by him?
Speaker 7: Yeah, I don't understand me, so I don't know how
Speaker 7: much he's told you. But basically he came to my house,
Speaker 7: I mean dinner, and I mentioned that my uh.
Speaker 1: We know that he fixed your sink.
Speaker 3: That's what I think he was being used for.
Speaker 1: He feels like you knew that he's good at being
Speaker 1: like a handy guy, and so you invited him over
Speaker 1: just for that.
Speaker 5: What?
Speaker 7: No, And also like he thinks he fixed my thick
Speaker 7: but he so he said he fixed my think. I
Speaker 7: tried it out and it was fine, okay. Then we
Speaker 7: were ending the day and he goes to leave and
Speaker 7: then he's like, oh, can I go to the bathroom
Speaker 7: of fath And I was like okay. And then later
Speaker 7: on that night, I go to the bathroom and the
Speaker 7: stick's like broke it, Like the hot water isn't turning
Speaker 7: on what I know. I mean. The weird part about
Speaker 7: it was that later on he started texting me like, hey,
Speaker 7: if you have any other problems, like, I'm totally there
Speaker 7: for you, I'll come around and.
Speaker 5: Fix It's nice though, yeah, but why would she have
Speaker 5: more problems?
Speaker 3: It's like I think she's saying he's using it as
Speaker 3: an excuse.
Speaker 5: It's like the classic like girl leaves, you know, co
Speaker 5: at said man's house, like he breaks her sink.
Speaker 3: So that right, is that what you're thinking, Nikki?
Speaker 7: Yeah, he like fixed it and then he purposely unfixed
Speaker 7: it to invite himself back into my house.
Speaker 5: Oh man, that's really the oldest plumber trick in the book.
Speaker 3: I don't know if that's true.
Speaker 1: It's kind of a stretch. He fixed it and then
Speaker 1: immediately broke it.
Speaker 7: Yeah, and then he started asking if he could fix
Speaker 7: anything else. I mean, like, I think he just wants
Speaker 7: to keep coming over.
Speaker 3: You get reading into each other a lot.
Speaker 1: Yeah, he thinks that you're scamming him. You think that
Speaker 1: he's scamming you.
Speaker 3: Maybe it's maybe it means you're meant for each other.
Speaker 3: Two scam artists.
Speaker 2: On the one day, I never scammed him.
Speaker 7: I invited him over for dinner.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm on your side.
Speaker 1: Well, let's find out for sure, because we do have
Speaker 1: John on the other line, who's been listening to this
Speaker 1: entire conversation secretly.
Speaker 3: What another But don't you want to know? John?
Speaker 2: Yeah, Hey, guys, I'm here, what's going on with the
Speaker 2: same dude, that's a big accusation that she laid down there, John. Yeah,
Speaker 2: I mean, first off, I did fix the leak, So
Speaker 2: let's let's be honest. I fixed the leak.
Speaker 3: Kind of strange, he's not coming in strong.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it could have been like, there's absolutely no way
Speaker 1: that I would ever do anything sinister like that. Boom,
Speaker 1: that's it. What's going on? Did you mess with the
Speaker 1: sink before you left?
Speaker 2: I mean, hold on, hold dude, that's a little light
Speaker 2: cute sabotage.
Speaker 4: I knew it.
Speaker 7: I knew I knew that that was the case, and
Speaker 7: you had me there with no hot water, Like you
Speaker 7: made my life worse by do you.
Speaker 3: Have to wash your hands in cold water? Can you
Speaker 3: imagine if you.
Speaker 2: Would have invited me back the next day?
Speaker 4: It would have been.
Speaker 5: John romantic when you put it that is there like
Speaker 5: a string of women out there with plumbinesses because of you?
Speaker 2: The wo.
Speaker 1: So I'm joking, it's really hard to John, that's a
Speaker 1: good joke. Maybe does that make you feel special that
Speaker 1: out of all the women he's dated, you're the only
Speaker 1: person sink that he has sabotage? He wants to come
Speaker 1: back that Jo Sabotage said, I mean.
Speaker 7: He's breaking things instead of fixing them, And I had
Speaker 7: to call my neighbor and like inconvenience people because of him.
Speaker 3: I mean, oh, man, John, you don't have to call
Speaker 3: your neighbor.
Speaker 2: I look close.
Speaker 3: Do you not feel bad?
Speaker 2: No?
Speaker 4: I don't feel bad. I fixed the main problems. You
Speaker 4: don't have a leak anymore.
Speaker 1: It's just turning a knot. I mean, would you blame
Speaker 1: a woman for purposely leaving something at a guy's house?
Speaker 1: Would you call her a bad person for doing that?
Speaker 5: I mean, if she called the radio station and accuse
Speaker 5: the guy of using her first, I would call her
Speaker 5: a kind of a crappy person.
Speaker 4: Yeah, judge, I would Oh, hold on, everybody's like paying me?
Speaker 4: Is the bad guy?
Speaker 2: Serdainly?
Speaker 1: You did turn off her hot walk?
Speaker 2: Yes? Yeah, well I mean just barely.
Speaker 1: So mean, it's really up to you. Could you find
Speaker 1: it in your heart to forgive him for just doing
Speaker 1: a little cute sabotage because he really wanted to see
Speaker 1: you that badly one time? Could you see that and
Speaker 1: maybe give him one more chance.
Speaker 2: It's kind of funny, he is kind of funny.
Speaker 7: We did have a good time.
Speaker 1: This is crazy.
Speaker 2: Come on, Nikky.
Speaker 4: Maybe it looks in a certain line that I did
Speaker 4: something uh less than above board, but come on, uh he.
Speaker 1: Said, wow, yeah, come on, yeah.
Speaker 3: How did you say no to this romantic.
Speaker 4: You know what?
Speaker 2: Like too short?
Speaker 4: Let's do it.
Speaker 2: She wants a little.
Speaker 1: Extra punishment for you.
Speaker 3: You too, don't invite back to your house ever. Look
Speaker 3: on your power.
Speaker 1: You just scam us for a.
Speaker 3: Yes, Yes he did.
Speaker 4: I'm coming over looking, Jeffrey.
Speaker 1: In the morning, you heard Brooke and Alexis and everybody
Speaker 1: in this room completely shocked that she said yes to another.
Speaker 3: I am still shocked.
Speaker 1: But this is how bad the dating pool is. A
Speaker 1: guy comes to your house, eats your food, intentionally breaks
Speaker 1: your sink, and then admits a week later, and you say, yeah,
Speaker 1: sure I'll date that guy. That's where we are in
Speaker 1: the dating world right now.
Speaker 5: It's just like the rom comes from the nineties, right Yeah, I.
Speaker 6: Mean, no joke, seriously, I mean, I guess the good
Speaker 6: news for us is it doesn't sure a lot more
Speaker 6: people want second dates, you know, like it ensures our
Speaker 6: segment can continue because a rough totally.
Speaker 3: It's a dark look, Jeffrey.
Speaker 1: Well, the next time that anything breaks inside of my house.
Speaker 1: I'm going to be like, huh, who is trying to
Speaker 1: get a hold of me? My roof caved in. Wow,
Speaker 1: somebody must like you came.
Speaker 3: And put black mold in this classet.
Speaker 1: Anyway, we can always help you out with your dating life,
Speaker 1: no matter how tragic it might seem. Shockingly we we
Speaker 1: can do it. We'll call that person who isn't calling
Speaker 1: you mad Brooke
Speaker 3: And Jeffrey in the morning.