1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:05,160 Speaker 1: Today's show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time. I 2 00:00:05,280 --> 00:00:15,840 Speaker 1: don't know. Y'all have a sun giving them like the 3 00:00:15,920 --> 00:00:24,720 Speaker 1: million bucks things and its star through good Steve hastening 4 00:00:24,840 --> 00:00:58,960 Speaker 1: to the other for stay, I don't join Jo. You 5 00:00:59,120 --> 00:01:41,360 Speaker 1: gotta turn you're going to do. You gotta turn to 6 00:01:41,400 --> 00:01:46,480 Speaker 1: turn them out. Turn you love, got to turn them out. 7 00:01:46,600 --> 00:02:00,200 Speaker 1: Turn the water the water go. Come come on your tha. 8 00:02:01,000 --> 00:02:05,240 Speaker 1: Uh huh I shore will good morning everybody. You are 9 00:02:05,280 --> 00:02:07,640 Speaker 1: listening to the voice, Come on dig me nine one 10 00:02:07,720 --> 00:02:11,799 Speaker 1: and only. Steve Harvey got a radio show, Man one 11 00:02:11,880 --> 00:02:15,440 Speaker 1: more time. Steve Harvey got a radio show. Yeah, I do, man, 12 00:02:15,919 --> 00:02:20,440 Speaker 1: I thank God for it every day. You know, UM 13 00:02:20,480 --> 00:02:23,799 Speaker 1: my message this morning, man's real clear. It's something that's 14 00:02:23,840 --> 00:02:32,640 Speaker 1: been on me to share, and it's it's amazing. You know, Um, 15 00:02:32,720 --> 00:02:37,680 Speaker 1: God can do some amazing things for you. But what 16 00:02:37,800 --> 00:02:41,320 Speaker 1: happens along the way is and I don't know that 17 00:02:41,400 --> 00:02:45,400 Speaker 1: I mean to say, but but the fact that God 18 00:02:45,440 --> 00:02:49,519 Speaker 1: can do some amazing things for you, that comes adversity 19 00:02:49,560 --> 00:02:57,519 Speaker 1: along with it. Every single time it it just goes 20 00:02:57,560 --> 00:03:03,800 Speaker 1: without saying. And I've uh I was having a fairly 21 00:03:04,160 --> 00:03:07,280 Speaker 1: I mean well not fairly, but a hugely successful week. 22 00:03:07,960 --> 00:03:12,799 Speaker 1: I had never seen this type of hatred before. I 23 00:03:13,200 --> 00:03:17,640 Speaker 1: hadn't seen it. And it's it's a great trick that 24 00:03:17,680 --> 00:03:20,400 Speaker 1: the devil does. You know, when when God is blessing 25 00:03:20,440 --> 00:03:23,920 Speaker 1: you and giving you some some some great opportunities in 26 00:03:23,919 --> 00:03:26,640 Speaker 1: your life, as all of you have gone through, and 27 00:03:26,720 --> 00:03:30,600 Speaker 1: it is. Isn't it amazing how some negative thing crops 28 00:03:30,680 --> 00:03:34,160 Speaker 1: up and that's what you have to focus on. I 29 00:03:34,240 --> 00:03:36,320 Speaker 1: found out that I don't have to, but you wind 30 00:03:36,400 --> 00:03:39,440 Speaker 1: up focusing on it, and your energy goes over to 31 00:03:39,720 --> 00:03:43,400 Speaker 1: that to try to deal with it, counteract. Wonder why 32 00:03:43,400 --> 00:03:45,920 Speaker 1: I was happening. You gotta make phone calls? What was 33 00:03:45,960 --> 00:03:48,360 Speaker 1: this about? Blah blah blah blah blah, and and and it, 34 00:03:48,480 --> 00:03:51,960 Speaker 1: and it throws you off the course you are on 35 00:03:52,640 --> 00:03:55,920 Speaker 1: the beginning of the week, I was so grateful, I 36 00:03:56,080 --> 00:03:59,320 Speaker 1: was so amazed. I was really thanking God for opportunity. 37 00:03:59,560 --> 00:04:05,000 Speaker 1: For this brief moment, the enemy slides this little factor 38 00:04:05,080 --> 00:04:08,760 Speaker 1: in there that causes you to and it requires your attention. 39 00:04:08,800 --> 00:04:10,520 Speaker 1: You have to pay an attention because you don't know. 40 00:04:10,840 --> 00:04:13,080 Speaker 1: You're going, wow, man, let me see what this could 41 00:04:13,120 --> 00:04:17,039 Speaker 1: really be? How much dirt is this really that they're 42 00:04:17,080 --> 00:04:20,120 Speaker 1: trying to do? And so it requires your attention, but 43 00:04:20,279 --> 00:04:25,279 Speaker 1: in that attention, you lose your focus on really all 44 00:04:25,320 --> 00:04:28,000 Speaker 1: the blessings and the good thing that God does for you. 45 00:04:28,560 --> 00:04:32,080 Speaker 1: That the enemy has an amazing trick that he does that. 46 00:04:32,520 --> 00:04:34,719 Speaker 1: And it was and it was in my head. I 47 00:04:34,760 --> 00:04:37,080 Speaker 1: gotta tell y'all all week long, man, and I was 48 00:04:37,160 --> 00:04:42,000 Speaker 1: doing some amazing stuff. I was having such a blessed week, man, 49 00:04:42,080 --> 00:04:44,680 Speaker 1: in terms of press and pr and where God was 50 00:04:44,720 --> 00:04:48,839 Speaker 1: taking me. And then when I got back, I was 51 00:04:48,880 --> 00:04:52,080 Speaker 1: talking with my wife, and then I was talking to 52 00:04:52,160 --> 00:04:57,680 Speaker 1: a good friend of ours and they shared something that 53 00:04:57,760 --> 00:05:02,800 Speaker 1: really helped me out. And they said to me, new level, 54 00:05:03,640 --> 00:05:08,360 Speaker 1: new devil. You know it's it's it's something really simple, 55 00:05:08,760 --> 00:05:13,440 Speaker 1: but new level new devil. Every time you go to 56 00:05:13,480 --> 00:05:18,040 Speaker 1: another level, every time you go a little bit higher, 57 00:05:18,440 --> 00:05:21,640 Speaker 1: every time God has a blessing in store for you, 58 00:05:22,040 --> 00:05:26,240 Speaker 1: every time He moves you in position. Do you understand 59 00:05:26,320 --> 00:05:29,360 Speaker 1: that the enemy's job is to make you not see 60 00:05:29,400 --> 00:05:33,120 Speaker 1: the blessing, make you not be grateful for it, lose 61 00:05:33,240 --> 00:05:36,120 Speaker 1: your focus and focus on this that I just threw 62 00:05:36,200 --> 00:05:40,640 Speaker 1: in your way, this stumbling block, this obstacle, this trickery, 63 00:05:40,920 --> 00:05:43,479 Speaker 1: And man, I was, I was, I got you. I 64 00:05:43,560 --> 00:05:45,919 Speaker 1: just gotta tell you, man, I mean, it was so 65 00:05:46,160 --> 00:05:49,039 Speaker 1: filled with hatred that I had to I really spent 66 00:05:49,160 --> 00:05:51,880 Speaker 1: some time addressing it. I you know, I got publicists 67 00:05:51,880 --> 00:05:53,839 Speaker 1: on the phone. I said, what's what's happening here? Y'all 68 00:05:53,880 --> 00:05:56,560 Speaker 1: not watching this? Y'all not what what was? What was 69 00:05:56,600 --> 00:05:58,920 Speaker 1: this attack? You knew that you didn't know these angles? 70 00:05:58,960 --> 00:06:05,000 Speaker 1: What what was? And you Steve Chill, new level, new devil. 71 00:06:05,920 --> 00:06:08,440 Speaker 1: If you get a promotion on your job, guess what. 72 00:06:09,240 --> 00:06:12,960 Speaker 1: Somebody ain't happy that you got the promotion. So here 73 00:06:13,040 --> 00:06:15,000 Speaker 1: come to hey. You don't even you don't even really 74 00:06:15,080 --> 00:06:19,920 Speaker 1: know these people. You have no idea. Every time you 75 00:06:20,000 --> 00:06:24,960 Speaker 1: make a decision to make your relationship with your spouse better, man, 76 00:06:25,240 --> 00:06:26,960 Speaker 1: this is it. You know what I'm gonna start doing. 77 00:06:27,000 --> 00:06:28,919 Speaker 1: I'm gonna do this, man, so me and my girl 78 00:06:29,200 --> 00:06:30,880 Speaker 1: can go on and have this on. Me and my 79 00:06:30,920 --> 00:06:33,480 Speaker 1: man can go on and have this. Watch what happened 80 00:06:33,839 --> 00:06:39,520 Speaker 1: every single time? Here comes the new level, the new devil, 81 00:06:39,760 --> 00:06:42,000 Speaker 1: the trick. You don't need to do that, what you're 82 00:06:42,040 --> 00:06:43,960 Speaker 1: doing that for her? She don't appreciate it. He ain't 83 00:06:43,960 --> 00:06:46,719 Speaker 1: gonna appreciate it. Look over here, man, look at that 84 00:06:46,880 --> 00:06:49,360 Speaker 1: right there, ain't he nothing? You know, he missed, he 85 00:06:49,400 --> 00:06:51,600 Speaker 1: didn't call you, And he said, it's gonna all types 86 00:06:51,640 --> 00:06:54,520 Speaker 1: of stuff. It just happens all the time. And I 87 00:06:54,600 --> 00:06:57,200 Speaker 1: was sitting here talking with this friend, really good friend, 88 00:06:57,320 --> 00:07:00,880 Speaker 1: very spiritual person, and they said, you know something, Steve. 89 00:07:01,120 --> 00:07:03,880 Speaker 1: You know, I was talking to Jesus and said I 90 00:07:03,920 --> 00:07:07,719 Speaker 1: was having this conversation with Christ. And I said, God, 91 00:07:07,839 --> 00:07:12,320 Speaker 1: for real, you mean to tell me every time that 92 00:07:12,520 --> 00:07:16,800 Speaker 1: something good happens to me. You mean every time I 93 00:07:16,920 --> 00:07:18,880 Speaker 1: try to go to the next level, every time you 94 00:07:18,920 --> 00:07:21,239 Speaker 1: put me on the next level, You mean to tell 95 00:07:21,280 --> 00:07:23,520 Speaker 1: me that I got to go through this right here? 96 00:07:24,400 --> 00:07:29,920 Speaker 1: Are you for real? And then my friend said, Jesus said, 97 00:07:30,680 --> 00:07:34,720 Speaker 1: they did it to me, and we just fell out laughing. 98 00:07:35,480 --> 00:07:38,520 Speaker 1: They did it to me, They did it to him. 99 00:07:39,800 --> 00:07:41,880 Speaker 1: They did it to him for him to go to 100 00:07:41,920 --> 00:07:45,000 Speaker 1: the next level. And you know, I was just I 101 00:07:45,040 --> 00:07:47,920 Speaker 1: was just going over the whole story about the crucifixion 102 00:07:47,960 --> 00:07:50,920 Speaker 1: and everything that had to be amazing man of all 103 00:07:50,920 --> 00:07:53,760 Speaker 1: the hate he had endured, all the prosecuting he had 104 00:07:53,800 --> 00:07:58,280 Speaker 1: do it. They thought, ultimately, what we'll do is we'll 105 00:07:58,440 --> 00:08:01,240 Speaker 1: nail him on a cross and fine, and that'll be 106 00:08:01,280 --> 00:08:03,280 Speaker 1: the end. Of him, and we'll put him in this 107 00:08:03,400 --> 00:08:05,880 Speaker 1: tune and we'll put this big stone up there, and 108 00:08:05,960 --> 00:08:08,440 Speaker 1: that'll be the end of him. But what they did 109 00:08:08,480 --> 00:08:11,160 Speaker 1: not know was all you was doing was setting the 110 00:08:11,280 --> 00:08:15,120 Speaker 1: tone for the next level, because eventually the stone got 111 00:08:15,200 --> 00:08:18,440 Speaker 1: rolled away and he went and got placed with his 112 00:08:18,560 --> 00:08:22,400 Speaker 1: father where he was headed to. Anyway, he ultimately knew 113 00:08:22,960 --> 00:08:26,240 Speaker 1: that his ultimate goal was to get to his father. 114 00:08:27,200 --> 00:08:31,200 Speaker 1: So when you when you when you thought you were 115 00:08:31,280 --> 00:08:34,720 Speaker 1: doing what you were doing to him, and you put 116 00:08:34,800 --> 00:08:36,640 Speaker 1: him in a tune and you put the big stone 117 00:08:36,720 --> 00:08:40,000 Speaker 1: up in there, and the stone got rolled got rolled away, 118 00:08:40,080 --> 00:08:42,400 Speaker 1: and he went eventually to where he was trying to 119 00:08:42,400 --> 00:08:48,200 Speaker 1: get to. That story is in place for all of 120 00:08:48,320 --> 00:08:52,200 Speaker 1: us to remember that when we are going through some things, 121 00:08:53,320 --> 00:08:55,679 Speaker 1: could it be because we are going to a place, 122 00:08:56,640 --> 00:08:58,600 Speaker 1: you know, It could be just a place in life. 123 00:08:59,040 --> 00:09:01,800 Speaker 1: It could be just as a different level in life. 124 00:09:01,840 --> 00:09:04,600 Speaker 1: That's all it has to be. But there's going to 125 00:09:04,640 --> 00:09:09,760 Speaker 1: be the adversarial challenges that come with it, and those 126 00:09:09,800 --> 00:09:13,640 Speaker 1: are the moments we must expect, expect and take them 127 00:09:13,679 --> 00:09:17,400 Speaker 1: head on and still not lose your focus or appreciation 128 00:09:17,480 --> 00:09:19,760 Speaker 1: for what God has done for you. So in light 129 00:09:19,800 --> 00:09:22,160 Speaker 1: of all of that I'm able to say to day 130 00:09:22,480 --> 00:09:25,320 Speaker 1: that I thank my heavenly Father, I really do for 131 00:09:25,400 --> 00:09:28,360 Speaker 1: all the blessing season bestowed upon me and all of 132 00:09:28,400 --> 00:09:32,400 Speaker 1: the haters, and all of the liars, and all of 133 00:09:32,440 --> 00:09:36,360 Speaker 1: the backstabbers and all those people. When you get through lying, 134 00:09:37,000 --> 00:09:41,520 Speaker 1: when you get through stabbing, when you get through gossiping 135 00:09:41,640 --> 00:09:46,360 Speaker 1: and doing what you do, I'm still going to the 136 00:09:46,400 --> 00:09:53,160 Speaker 1: next level. I'm still going. You cannot stop what God 137 00:09:54,160 --> 00:09:56,679 Speaker 1: has in store for you. No one can stop that. 138 00:09:57,320 --> 00:10:04,240 Speaker 1: You're listening, ladies and gentlemen, boys and girls. I have 139 00:10:04,320 --> 00:10:07,480 Speaker 1: a special public service announcement to make before we start 140 00:10:07,520 --> 00:10:10,000 Speaker 1: to Steve Harvey Morning Show. First of all, let me 141 00:10:10,040 --> 00:10:13,320 Speaker 1: say hello to Sherley Carler Mouth of the South Junior 142 00:10:13,360 --> 00:10:17,520 Speaker 1: and nephew Tommy. Good morning everyone. This is very important. 143 00:10:17,840 --> 00:10:26,960 Speaker 1: This is a public service announcement to all Sesames Street costumes, 144 00:10:27,880 --> 00:10:34,680 Speaker 1: all Sesame Street puppets, all Sesame Street employees. I have 145 00:10:35,040 --> 00:10:40,400 Speaker 1: just come from the NAACP meeting and he got out 146 00:10:40,400 --> 00:10:46,280 Speaker 1: of hand. I have forwarding you that parents is gonna 147 00:10:46,320 --> 00:10:50,960 Speaker 1: start snatching Sesme Street folks. I'm just letting you know 148 00:10:51,080 --> 00:10:57,000 Speaker 1: that it's great snatching, snatching and shaking. Ain't gonna be 149 00:10:57,040 --> 00:11:00,160 Speaker 1: no punching. We're not gonna harm you real bad, but 150 00:11:00,240 --> 00:11:03,880 Speaker 1: we all gonna snatch and shake until your helmet come 151 00:11:03,920 --> 00:11:07,560 Speaker 1: off and you are exposed. Then we're taking your picture 152 00:11:07,760 --> 00:11:11,000 Speaker 1: because we're gonna were tied up pointing that big bird 153 00:11:11,080 --> 00:11:14,280 Speaker 1: and earning burden all these people as racists. We want 154 00:11:14,360 --> 00:11:18,560 Speaker 1: to know who you are. The new things we're doing 155 00:11:18,800 --> 00:11:21,360 Speaker 1: public service announcement. Now let's get to the real state. 156 00:11:21,440 --> 00:11:29,520 Speaker 1: I love the show. We are. Ain't God good, Junior? 157 00:11:29,600 --> 00:11:31,800 Speaker 1: What's on your mind to day man? No, no, sir, 158 00:11:32,080 --> 00:11:35,160 Speaker 1: We're gonna stay right there. What they need to know? 159 00:11:35,400 --> 00:11:38,520 Speaker 1: What you what we're doing as black people when you 160 00:11:38,840 --> 00:11:41,280 Speaker 1: know our children, Well see you got it. We got 161 00:11:41,360 --> 00:11:45,360 Speaker 1: too much film and evidence now. And then there's other 162 00:11:45,440 --> 00:11:47,600 Speaker 1: black people calling me. You know, the same thing happened 163 00:11:47,640 --> 00:11:50,480 Speaker 1: to loving you Rod, and you know we're starting to 164 00:11:50,520 --> 00:11:53,959 Speaker 1: hear the stuff like that happened to yours too. I 165 00:11:54,120 --> 00:11:57,760 Speaker 1: love because I had the say out there they did 166 00:11:57,840 --> 00:12:02,600 Speaker 1: the same thing to see once that get around, I'm 167 00:12:02,640 --> 00:12:05,679 Speaker 1: just I'm just doing this because I'm a Christian and 168 00:12:05,840 --> 00:12:10,199 Speaker 1: I just though you need to know what's about to 169 00:12:10,320 --> 00:12:13,120 Speaker 1: pop off so you don't get comfortable like you've been 170 00:12:13,240 --> 00:12:17,280 Speaker 1: just continued, I see, listen to me. You ain't the police. 171 00:12:19,200 --> 00:12:25,520 Speaker 1: You know you ain't. So we're snatching y'all for real. 172 00:12:26,200 --> 00:12:31,000 Speaker 1: I get out for real and just wanted to let 173 00:12:31,120 --> 00:12:33,800 Speaker 1: y'all know that's what we're doing now. And I don't 174 00:12:33,840 --> 00:12:36,040 Speaker 1: I don't you know. I ain't trying to scare nobody. 175 00:12:36,640 --> 00:12:38,959 Speaker 1: I am trying to help you because this is a 176 00:12:39,040 --> 00:12:44,520 Speaker 1: show of motivation, uplift, inspiration and mostly information and after 177 00:12:44,920 --> 00:12:48,760 Speaker 1: coming from it in a I'm just letting y'all know 178 00:12:48,920 --> 00:12:52,240 Speaker 1: it got out of head now. The leadership tried to calm, 179 00:12:52,800 --> 00:12:56,920 Speaker 1: but it did not work because you was hearing stuff 180 00:12:57,000 --> 00:12:59,360 Speaker 1: out to back. They ain't did nothing of your baby, 181 00:13:03,040 --> 00:13:05,680 Speaker 1: not the testimony. Then you get din you hear stuff 182 00:13:05,720 --> 00:13:07,839 Speaker 1: in the back. Then you don't tell me how to 183 00:13:07,920 --> 00:13:14,040 Speaker 1: do mine? Now? Then didn't this one? Then I had 184 00:13:14,160 --> 00:13:16,000 Speaker 1: that baby, you ain't gonna do what you want to 185 00:13:16,040 --> 00:13:18,319 Speaker 1: do to mine, and then that was it. And then 186 00:13:18,559 --> 00:13:20,920 Speaker 1: all the black women got together and then they just 187 00:13:21,080 --> 00:13:23,040 Speaker 1: moved to the front. Then that when all the black 188 00:13:23,120 --> 00:13:25,160 Speaker 1: dudes said out the way, well, I guess we're gonna 189 00:13:25,320 --> 00:13:28,240 Speaker 1: do something about this. That's what daddy said. All right, 190 00:13:28,280 --> 00:13:33,200 Speaker 1: I'm snatching and now that's what to me. Thank y'all. 191 00:13:34,320 --> 00:13:37,200 Speaker 1: All right, no, thank you for the laughs. Is always 192 00:13:37,559 --> 00:13:39,880 Speaker 1: coming up. In thirty two minutes after the hour, run 193 00:13:40,000 --> 00:13:43,240 Speaker 1: that prank back with the nephew right after this. You're 194 00:13:43,320 --> 00:13:47,120 Speaker 1: listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, then it's time 195 00:13:47,160 --> 00:13:49,079 Speaker 1: to start your morning off with the nephew and run 196 00:13:49,160 --> 00:13:52,160 Speaker 1: that prank back. What you got for us? Naugh Huh 197 00:13:53,000 --> 00:13:56,200 Speaker 1: you heard, huh, I'm coming. I want something stupid this morning? 198 00:13:56,559 --> 00:14:00,040 Speaker 1: Am I being summons at my being summoned? Were I 199 00:14:00,040 --> 00:14:04,240 Speaker 1: can say for you? We have you know what you do. 200 00:14:05,640 --> 00:14:09,160 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna hold you back on it. Baby right here, 201 00:14:11,080 --> 00:14:14,200 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna do it to you. This is called baby. Wait, baby, 202 00:14:15,000 --> 00:14:19,160 Speaker 1: we could have waited on that. See right, oh baby, 203 00:14:19,280 --> 00:14:21,560 Speaker 1: wait a minute, you said, wait a minute, you said 204 00:14:21,600 --> 00:14:23,640 Speaker 1: at that time, I'm getting better. You know when I 205 00:14:23,680 --> 00:14:25,480 Speaker 1: do my exercise. I ain't done him this morning, but 206 00:14:25,560 --> 00:14:31,880 Speaker 1: when I do. Come on, baby, wait wait, I got it. 207 00:14:32,520 --> 00:14:37,400 Speaker 1: I did what I could. Come on cat, Hello, hello, 208 00:14:37,520 --> 00:14:41,800 Speaker 1: I'm trying to reach trainer please. Yeah, this is trainer TRAINA. 209 00:14:41,880 --> 00:14:44,280 Speaker 1: My name is Ernest. Ernest Murphy down here at the 210 00:14:44,320 --> 00:14:47,640 Speaker 1: bus bond with you from the school district. Your son 211 00:14:47,920 --> 00:14:52,600 Speaker 1: is Devin, am I right? Yeah? Okay? Now using the 212 00:14:52,800 --> 00:14:56,520 Speaker 1: fifth grade, I think anything to pay, Yeah yeah, everything 213 00:14:56,640 --> 00:14:59,840 Speaker 1: is fla. I think he's on he rides bus ninety 214 00:15:00,120 --> 00:15:04,480 Speaker 1: Bus ninety three. Does he ride US ninety three? Uh? Yeah, 215 00:15:05,240 --> 00:15:08,960 Speaker 1: yeah he does. Okay, So now the school board has 216 00:15:09,120 --> 00:15:13,160 Speaker 1: implemented a new rule, and um, we're having to call 217 00:15:14,280 --> 00:15:16,040 Speaker 1: a lot of parents and let them know about the 218 00:15:16,120 --> 00:15:20,280 Speaker 1: new rule for us. As far as the buses are concerned. Now, 219 00:15:20,920 --> 00:15:24,400 Speaker 1: from my understanding, each child that gets on the bus 220 00:15:24,560 --> 00:15:28,160 Speaker 1: has to weigh less than one hundred and twenty five pounds. 221 00:15:28,760 --> 00:15:31,120 Speaker 1: That's what the new rule that is implemented by the 222 00:15:31,160 --> 00:15:38,440 Speaker 1: way board. What did you say that again? Each child 223 00:15:39,160 --> 00:15:41,600 Speaker 1: that gets on the bus has to weigh less than 224 00:15:41,680 --> 00:15:46,080 Speaker 1: one hundred and twenty five pounds. I don't understand. I 225 00:15:46,120 --> 00:15:50,240 Speaker 1: don't understand. So wait, what's okay? So what does what 226 00:15:50,360 --> 00:15:54,200 Speaker 1: does that mean? So starting on Monday, Starting on Monday, 227 00:15:54,280 --> 00:15:57,200 Speaker 1: what they're gonna do If they're gonna the bus driver 228 00:15:57,360 --> 00:15:59,840 Speaker 1: will have a scale and he will wait a key 229 00:16:00,120 --> 00:16:03,800 Speaker 1: word they get on on the bus. I understand. Man. 230 00:16:03,880 --> 00:16:06,600 Speaker 1: The doctor, like I say, I'm calling, I'm calling every 231 00:16:06,720 --> 00:16:10,760 Speaker 1: patent that they say, you're gonna you're gonna weigh my 232 00:16:11,080 --> 00:16:13,880 Speaker 1: child before he gets on the bus. That's that's what 233 00:16:14,040 --> 00:16:15,880 Speaker 1: the new rule. That's what the new rule. And if 234 00:16:15,920 --> 00:16:18,400 Speaker 1: he over one twenty five then he he'll either have 235 00:16:18,560 --> 00:16:22,000 Speaker 1: to work, you have to take him the school, which 236 00:16:22,080 --> 00:16:24,320 Speaker 1: but I have a job. Okay, I have a job. 237 00:16:24,400 --> 00:16:26,040 Speaker 1: I thought it gonna take my kids in school, but 238 00:16:26,680 --> 00:16:28,560 Speaker 1: I don't. That's what the bus is for. That's what 239 00:16:28,880 --> 00:16:33,640 Speaker 1: my tax dollars paid for us. Right, But the reasoning, 240 00:16:33,760 --> 00:16:36,480 Speaker 1: the rationale behind this, Okay, let me tell you what's 241 00:16:36,520 --> 00:16:39,720 Speaker 1: going on. From what they're saying, the weight of these 242 00:16:39,920 --> 00:16:43,880 Speaker 1: children is wearing down these transmissions on this bus, on 243 00:16:44,000 --> 00:16:47,920 Speaker 1: these bus transmission, the transmission cannot take all of that. 244 00:16:48,720 --> 00:16:52,200 Speaker 1: So they are limiting the weight of each child. So 245 00:16:52,400 --> 00:16:56,840 Speaker 1: now how much does that discrimination? I think that's discrimination. 246 00:16:57,760 --> 00:17:02,120 Speaker 1: But over is he over one hundred and twenty five pounds? 247 00:17:02,640 --> 00:17:07,320 Speaker 1: He okay, he is, ok. Then you you're probably gonna 248 00:17:07,320 --> 00:17:09,600 Speaker 1: have to take your son to school. Are you gonna 249 00:17:09,600 --> 00:17:12,160 Speaker 1: have to walk? He probably need to walk to school 250 00:17:12,160 --> 00:17:17,960 Speaker 1: if he already or hunting twenty five pounds? What he 251 00:17:18,119 --> 00:17:24,040 Speaker 1: ask are you talking about a man? All? I'm saying 252 00:17:24,440 --> 00:17:28,080 Speaker 1: all I'm saying is if your son can overweight one 253 00:17:28,160 --> 00:17:31,199 Speaker 1: hundred and twenty five, you know, maybe the exercise are 254 00:17:31,240 --> 00:17:33,760 Speaker 1: doing good when like I said that, the schools that's 255 00:17:33,800 --> 00:17:38,080 Speaker 1: gonna allow him on the plus. But sir, I will 256 00:17:38,160 --> 00:17:40,840 Speaker 1: not accept this. I who do I need to call? 257 00:17:41,000 --> 00:17:43,879 Speaker 1: Is there a manager? Is in a city's council member? 258 00:17:43,960 --> 00:17:48,919 Speaker 1: I mean, this is seriously the most ub discriminatory practice 259 00:17:48,920 --> 00:17:51,200 Speaker 1: I've ever heard of. It doesn't even make sense. You're 260 00:17:51,240 --> 00:17:54,120 Speaker 1: talking about a child. I understand, but we're talking about 261 00:17:54,160 --> 00:17:56,640 Speaker 1: a child way more than a grown person. You your son. 262 00:17:57,200 --> 00:17:59,200 Speaker 1: I need to get what is your name, sir? Tell 263 00:17:59,280 --> 00:18:02,600 Speaker 1: me your name again? My my name is Ernest. I'm 264 00:18:02,600 --> 00:18:04,600 Speaker 1: down here at the bus ball. I would like to 265 00:18:04,640 --> 00:18:08,879 Speaker 1: speak to the supervisor, like, now, what do you do? 266 00:18:09,119 --> 00:18:11,440 Speaker 1: Not get to speak to my about my child that way? 267 00:18:11,640 --> 00:18:13,200 Speaker 1: You get to speak to any kid that way? You 268 00:18:13,280 --> 00:18:15,680 Speaker 1: should not be working at a school if that is 269 00:18:15,720 --> 00:18:18,439 Speaker 1: your attitude. I'm no, I don't work at the school. 270 00:18:18,480 --> 00:18:20,280 Speaker 1: I work at the bus bab I'm down here at 271 00:18:20,320 --> 00:18:22,800 Speaker 1: the bus ball and they gave me you nothing? Then 272 00:18:22,880 --> 00:18:25,240 Speaker 1: that they right? Because you're saying he's over behind in 273 00:18:25,320 --> 00:18:29,359 Speaker 1: twenty five pack. I am an absolute shock this is 274 00:18:29,480 --> 00:18:35,080 Speaker 1: so okay. So do you have a fatica? I mean, 275 00:18:35,200 --> 00:18:36,720 Speaker 1: do you have scuba? I'm sorry, do you have a 276 00:18:36,800 --> 00:18:40,560 Speaker 1: big chatter? Listen? What my child looks like, how much 277 00:18:40,600 --> 00:18:43,959 Speaker 1: he weighs is none of your business. I'm gonna call 278 00:18:44,000 --> 00:18:47,000 Speaker 1: the school. They can't be working with your company. If 279 00:18:47,040 --> 00:18:50,000 Speaker 1: this is the way that you treat people and you 280 00:18:50,119 --> 00:18:55,320 Speaker 1: talk about children, this doesn't matter with here. I guess 281 00:18:55,400 --> 00:18:57,600 Speaker 1: what they're doing is this is the way of them 282 00:18:57,800 --> 00:19:04,879 Speaker 1: approaching obesity, you know, right, Yeah, school, whoever, whoever, they 283 00:19:05,000 --> 00:19:08,359 Speaker 1: might walk it all your start. Listen, listen. That is 284 00:19:09,000 --> 00:19:12,680 Speaker 1: the most ridiculous thing I've ever heard. Okay, I have 285 00:19:12,880 --> 00:19:15,920 Speaker 1: to work. My son is getting on that bus, and 286 00:19:16,040 --> 00:19:17,760 Speaker 1: I'm going to call the schoolboard and should not be 287 00:19:17,840 --> 00:19:20,520 Speaker 1: working with you. We another bust company. I don't know, 288 00:19:20,640 --> 00:19:22,919 Speaker 1: but I'm calling the city. I will call the members 289 00:19:23,320 --> 00:19:24,879 Speaker 1: they need to call. But you need to give me 290 00:19:24,920 --> 00:19:28,920 Speaker 1: a supervisor's name right now, right now? Do you think 291 00:19:29,000 --> 00:19:31,800 Speaker 1: you need to start cooking different? So Devin, don't have 292 00:19:32,600 --> 00:19:35,000 Speaker 1: you know, maybe maybe it starts at home and what 293 00:19:35,119 --> 00:19:41,480 Speaker 1: you're feeding everybody, you know. I am calling the supervisor. 294 00:19:41,520 --> 00:19:44,240 Speaker 1: I'm calling the the city, I'm calling the school I'm 295 00:19:44,280 --> 00:19:47,560 Speaker 1: going so fired, like I can't even believe that you're 296 00:19:47,560 --> 00:19:50,080 Speaker 1: allowed to make this call like our other parents. Okay 297 00:19:50,200 --> 00:19:55,680 Speaker 1: with this, I'm called, Well, you are on your way 298 00:19:55,720 --> 00:19:59,000 Speaker 1: to work in the morning, trainer. Do you listen to 299 00:19:59,160 --> 00:20:04,280 Speaker 1: the Steve Harmon I want to shore. Oh my god, yes, 300 00:20:04,600 --> 00:20:12,880 Speaker 1: I do from the Steve Harvey Morning. Yes. Yes. Your 301 00:20:13,000 --> 00:20:16,040 Speaker 1: cousin Vicky got me the plank polk call you baby. 302 00:20:16,560 --> 00:20:22,080 Speaker 1: Oh my god, I'm gonna yeah. I mean, I was like, 303 00:20:22,440 --> 00:20:25,840 Speaker 1: oh my god, I love Steve Harvey. I love you. 304 00:20:26,480 --> 00:20:31,359 Speaker 1: I was about God, you gotta tell me this baby. 305 00:20:31,880 --> 00:20:34,040 Speaker 1: Train up. What is the baddest and I mean the 306 00:20:34,119 --> 00:20:42,800 Speaker 1: baddest radio show in the lane? Steve Harvey? All right, 307 00:20:42,920 --> 00:20:45,920 Speaker 1: thank you, nephew, thank you. Coming up next, it is 308 00:20:46,000 --> 00:20:49,240 Speaker 1: asked the clo with our chief love Officer, Steve Harvey 309 00:20:49,359 --> 00:20:52,560 Speaker 1: and the building ready for your love questions. Right after this, 310 00:20:53,160 --> 00:20:57,359 Speaker 1: You're listening morning show coming up at the top of 311 00:20:57,440 --> 00:21:01,560 Speaker 1: the hour. And entertainment news Jordan pe movie Nope is 312 00:21:01,640 --> 00:21:04,920 Speaker 1: number one at the box office, and Black Panther Wakanda 313 00:21:05,040 --> 00:21:09,720 Speaker 1: Forever has released a powerful official movie trailer. Also in 314 00:21:09,800 --> 00:21:14,720 Speaker 1: trending headlines, Alpha Phi Alpha Fraternity Incorporated has released a 315 00:21:14,840 --> 00:21:18,680 Speaker 1: statement in solidarity with their frat brother Brandon Callaway. We'll 316 00:21:18,720 --> 00:21:20,600 Speaker 1: talk about all of these stories at the top of 317 00:21:20,680 --> 00:21:24,240 Speaker 1: the hour, but right now it is time to ask 318 00:21:24,480 --> 00:21:29,399 Speaker 1: the CLO Chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey in the building 319 00:21:29,520 --> 00:21:34,080 Speaker 1: ready for your love questions. Anya and Charleston writes, My 320 00:21:34,280 --> 00:21:38,120 Speaker 1: husband and I have two dogs, and our neighbor babysits 321 00:21:38,119 --> 00:21:40,879 Speaker 1: our dogs when we go back from When we got 322 00:21:40,960 --> 00:21:44,080 Speaker 1: back from vacation, the neighbor had changed our dogs food 323 00:21:44,440 --> 00:21:46,919 Speaker 1: and gave us a bag of food for both dogs. 324 00:21:47,280 --> 00:21:49,480 Speaker 1: She said we'd get the hang of bits sooner or later. 325 00:21:50,040 --> 00:21:53,000 Speaker 1: Is she calling us bad pet parents? And if so? 326 00:21:54,359 --> 00:21:56,359 Speaker 1: And if so, is she out of line? Or what 327 00:21:57,200 --> 00:22:00,240 Speaker 1: is going on? Hey? Can I tell you give a 328 00:22:00,440 --> 00:22:05,080 Speaker 1: damn give a damn about your dog? I'm just seeing 329 00:22:05,240 --> 00:22:09,840 Speaker 1: I'm chief love about give them what they love their 330 00:22:09,920 --> 00:22:13,880 Speaker 1: dogs like what you love them. I don't give damn 331 00:22:13,920 --> 00:22:16,359 Speaker 1: about your dogs. However, white me no more about no 332 00:22:16,520 --> 00:22:19,000 Speaker 1: damn dog? And then you use didn't you? Didn't you 333 00:22:19,080 --> 00:22:21,560 Speaker 1: trying to use human words and make me feel like 334 00:22:21,640 --> 00:22:24,760 Speaker 1: you to soften my heart? Twasy damn dog? We have 335 00:22:24,960 --> 00:22:28,240 Speaker 1: two dogs in our neighbors baby sit They dogs sit. 336 00:22:28,359 --> 00:22:31,320 Speaker 1: They didn't baby sit your damn dogs. They dogs sit 337 00:22:31,400 --> 00:22:34,680 Speaker 1: your dog. And so what they change your damn dog 338 00:22:34,800 --> 00:22:39,080 Speaker 1: food that I bet they ate it. These are her babies. Well, 339 00:22:39,119 --> 00:22:42,400 Speaker 1: the first babies is on the new die. You can't 340 00:22:42,440 --> 00:22:45,840 Speaker 1: be changing the dogs where you shouldn't have gave them 341 00:22:45,920 --> 00:22:49,240 Speaker 1: to the white people because the white people is feeding 342 00:22:49,280 --> 00:22:51,960 Speaker 1: them wilderness and they want the cam with the live 343 00:22:52,119 --> 00:22:54,600 Speaker 1: salmon and it's the live chicken in it and no 344 00:22:54,840 --> 00:22:59,200 Speaker 1: bye products in it. Now you now your dog eating berries, salmon, 345 00:23:00,920 --> 00:23:04,560 Speaker 1: raw and everything natural, not what they eating. She's out 346 00:23:04,600 --> 00:23:08,280 Speaker 1: of line. The neighbor was outline, CLA. What you don't 347 00:23:08,359 --> 00:23:11,240 Speaker 1: do is put your damn dogs over here with me. 348 00:23:11,760 --> 00:23:14,040 Speaker 1: Come when you come to you come to Rome, you 349 00:23:14,160 --> 00:23:17,879 Speaker 1: do like the Romans. Your dog is eating what I 350 00:23:18,200 --> 00:23:22,960 Speaker 1: dog eat. Now we're not buying no new damn food 351 00:23:23,000 --> 00:23:25,600 Speaker 1: because your dog, your dog is fitting to eat this 352 00:23:25,880 --> 00:23:32,880 Speaker 1: brand call Wilderness for and that's what they asked to sea. Well, 353 00:23:32,960 --> 00:23:34,959 Speaker 1: the dogs that are said they would get the hang 354 00:23:35,040 --> 00:23:37,240 Speaker 1: of it sooner or later. So you don't see there 355 00:23:37,280 --> 00:23:43,200 Speaker 1: ain't no black people. Dogs keep going like, yeah, I 356 00:23:43,320 --> 00:23:46,280 Speaker 1: ain't seen it. I want to be a black people. 357 00:23:46,880 --> 00:23:49,880 Speaker 1: Last time I saw a black person in a dog 358 00:23:49,960 --> 00:23:55,160 Speaker 1: food commercial with album I ain't heard nothing about them 359 00:23:55,240 --> 00:23:57,760 Speaker 1: no more. They got ran out of big all right, 360 00:23:58,880 --> 00:24:03,399 Speaker 1: where we run out of black called me by no 361 00:24:03,600 --> 00:24:08,080 Speaker 1: damn dogs on the cello segment. But she loves her babies, 362 00:24:08,119 --> 00:24:11,720 Speaker 1: all right, Camille and Sells says, I have a five 363 00:24:11,840 --> 00:24:14,359 Speaker 1: I have a five year old daughter that acts two grown. 364 00:24:14,600 --> 00:24:17,760 Speaker 1: And it's because of her daycare. She repeats whatever she hears, 365 00:24:18,040 --> 00:24:21,000 Speaker 1: and her teacher is an old woman that gossips all day. 366 00:24:21,359 --> 00:24:23,800 Speaker 1: It's a good school, and I don't want to report 367 00:24:23,840 --> 00:24:27,399 Speaker 1: an old black lady. But I also can't have my 368 00:24:27,560 --> 00:24:31,760 Speaker 1: child repeating what she's heard. What do I do? Well? 369 00:24:32,200 --> 00:24:35,520 Speaker 1: When Winter was a little boy, Winter went to the 370 00:24:35,640 --> 00:24:39,040 Speaker 1: especial daycare. We had put him in crim Della crim 371 00:24:40,840 --> 00:24:44,879 Speaker 1: Fine Fine, Yes, yes, Winton had gone up there. Winton 372 00:24:45,000 --> 00:24:48,040 Speaker 1: was about four years old. And what you came home 373 00:24:48,119 --> 00:24:51,639 Speaker 1: one day and I told what to do something? Winton 374 00:24:52,280 --> 00:24:56,200 Speaker 1: sat down in the floor. Justice come looked at me 375 00:24:56,640 --> 00:25:00,280 Speaker 1: and started slamming his legs against the float, scream even 376 00:25:00,359 --> 00:25:02,680 Speaker 1: at the top of his lung and slapping his hands 377 00:25:02,720 --> 00:25:06,320 Speaker 1: on the floor. Winton has thought the little white kids 378 00:25:06,720 --> 00:25:11,159 Speaker 1: have a tantra, so Winton came in and had a 379 00:25:11,280 --> 00:25:16,680 Speaker 1: tantra old. I got down in the floor right next 380 00:25:16,800 --> 00:25:21,240 Speaker 1: to him, and I had a tent all his age. 381 00:25:25,840 --> 00:25:29,679 Speaker 1: My son ain't bought nothing back home from up at 382 00:25:29,760 --> 00:25:35,120 Speaker 1: that school. So now I don't know who I you shy, 383 00:25:35,240 --> 00:25:38,400 Speaker 1: you should take this, Camille, But that's what I did. 384 00:25:38,520 --> 00:25:42,359 Speaker 1: And Winton is a fine young man now celebrated his 385 00:25:42,440 --> 00:25:45,640 Speaker 1: twenty fifth birthday, and he worked for his father full time, 386 00:25:46,119 --> 00:25:49,000 Speaker 1: and he tells people all the time. One of his 387 00:25:49,160 --> 00:25:53,440 Speaker 1: favorite pastime hearing his older brother is sherry some of 388 00:25:53,480 --> 00:25:59,119 Speaker 1: the monumentous ass whoop if that helped keep them out 389 00:25:59,160 --> 00:26:02,399 Speaker 1: of prison, to keep him on the straightened arrow, and 390 00:26:02,600 --> 00:26:05,480 Speaker 1: knowing how to be respectful of woman. The little girl, 391 00:26:05,560 --> 00:26:08,560 Speaker 1: the five year old girl is gossiping like the older woman. 392 00:26:09,760 --> 00:26:14,040 Speaker 1: She's not throwing no, no gossiping, same thing. Yeah girl, 393 00:26:14,320 --> 00:26:18,760 Speaker 1: yeah girls, right, did you hear? Did you know? Girl? 394 00:26:19,480 --> 00:26:26,000 Speaker 1: And that's how to ask for the start girl. Yeah, 395 00:26:26,160 --> 00:26:28,760 Speaker 1: all right, now we can move on, all right, Karen 396 00:26:28,960 --> 00:26:31,760 Speaker 1: and Gatlin Bird says, I'm twenty seven years old and 397 00:26:31,840 --> 00:26:34,600 Speaker 1: my boyfriend is thirty seven. We got negative comments about 398 00:26:34,640 --> 00:26:37,399 Speaker 1: her age difference, and it's begun to affect how he 399 00:26:37,520 --> 00:26:40,040 Speaker 1: treats me. We've stopped going out as much as we 400 00:26:40,200 --> 00:26:43,560 Speaker 1: used to, and it's killing our vibe. I don't know. 401 00:26:43,880 --> 00:26:46,120 Speaker 1: I don't want to be with him. If he's ashamed 402 00:26:46,160 --> 00:26:48,639 Speaker 1: of me, why is he with me? If he's worried 403 00:26:48,680 --> 00:26:51,840 Speaker 1: about my age? Listen to me, See that ain't a 404 00:26:51,920 --> 00:26:56,399 Speaker 1: big age gap. The problem you got is Taren looks 405 00:26:56,480 --> 00:27:02,880 Speaker 1: old as hals she is Terence. Okay, Well the boy 406 00:27:03,040 --> 00:27:07,160 Speaker 1: your boyfriend looks old as hell. That's what the problem means. 407 00:27:07,280 --> 00:27:10,640 Speaker 1: Like daddy, ain't nobody said nothing about no thirty seven 408 00:27:10,760 --> 00:27:13,359 Speaker 1: twenty seven, don't. I don't even talk about that. That 409 00:27:13,480 --> 00:27:18,800 Speaker 1: ain't nothing right there. It's the way he looked now, 410 00:27:18,960 --> 00:27:25,160 Speaker 1: y'all and Gathen and gather in Tennessee. Yeah, they're all 411 00:27:25,280 --> 00:27:27,800 Speaker 1: up there with him, Ryan Dollywood and all that dealt 412 00:27:28,240 --> 00:27:37,040 Speaker 1: He old looking bitter fifty three. I'm telling you that's 413 00:27:37,119 --> 00:27:41,639 Speaker 1: what's happening to. His outfit is crazy. His job he 414 00:27:42,040 --> 00:27:44,639 Speaker 1: probably worked out a log in meal or something like that, 415 00:27:46,040 --> 00:27:48,560 Speaker 1: a log in meal. He got an old ass job. 416 00:27:51,280 --> 00:27:55,040 Speaker 1: So that's your problem. And not he treating you different, 417 00:27:55,080 --> 00:27:58,080 Speaker 1: cause he knows, he knows. The age difference is visible. 418 00:27:59,320 --> 00:28:02,280 Speaker 1: It ain't the thirty seven and twenty seven is how 419 00:28:02,400 --> 00:28:07,959 Speaker 1: he looked. He walked and looked old. He walked all right, 420 00:28:08,840 --> 00:28:11,040 Speaker 1: all right, let's get to this last one, Steve, if 421 00:28:11,080 --> 00:28:14,359 Speaker 1: we can, vance In Lexington says, I'm a fifty eight 422 00:28:14,480 --> 00:28:16,480 Speaker 1: year old single man, and I have a girlfriend that 423 00:28:16,640 --> 00:28:19,080 Speaker 1: is thick, and I have a girlfriend that is thin. 424 00:28:19,640 --> 00:28:23,480 Speaker 1: My older sister calls them thick and or thin to 425 00:28:23,640 --> 00:28:26,320 Speaker 1: their faces. And last week she made a song about 426 00:28:26,400 --> 00:28:29,320 Speaker 1: thick and thin and sang it in front of my girlfriend. 427 00:28:29,600 --> 00:28:33,920 Speaker 1: Wait a minute, how can I how can I get 428 00:28:33,960 --> 00:28:36,639 Speaker 1: her to stop making jokes around them? Well, here we go, 429 00:28:36,960 --> 00:28:39,720 Speaker 1: ladies and gentlemen. This is a new hit song, thick 430 00:28:39,920 --> 00:28:46,440 Speaker 1: and thick. Okay, I got two girls. Oh man? Well 431 00:28:46,520 --> 00:28:50,440 Speaker 1: when we come back, I was gonna do all right, 432 00:28:51,280 --> 00:28:53,960 Speaker 1: Well more of the Steve Harvey morning, come back. We 433 00:28:54,080 --> 00:28:58,680 Speaker 1: could playing a new hit song right right after this. 434 00:28:59,440 --> 00:29:06,560 Speaker 1: You're listening, all right, Steve, before we get to entertainment news, 435 00:29:06,960 --> 00:29:10,120 Speaker 1: you wanted to address vance In Lexington, he wrote into 436 00:29:10,200 --> 00:29:13,400 Speaker 1: the cello, Chief Love Officer. You uh, he's a fifty 437 00:29:13,440 --> 00:29:15,480 Speaker 1: eight year old single man. He has a girlfriend that's 438 00:29:15,560 --> 00:29:19,680 Speaker 1: thick and one that's thin, and his sister you know, 439 00:29:19,880 --> 00:29:22,560 Speaker 1: makes fun, makes jokes and stuff like that. She even 440 00:29:22,640 --> 00:29:26,080 Speaker 1: made a song called Thick Thicker Thin. So I got 441 00:29:26,120 --> 00:29:31,000 Speaker 1: my hairs at you know you do because I wrote it. 442 00:29:31,880 --> 00:29:35,120 Speaker 1: Oh this song about here, a little bit of it. 443 00:29:37,400 --> 00:29:48,440 Speaker 1: I like, I got one thing, Yeah, and I got 444 00:29:48,560 --> 00:29:59,720 Speaker 1: one nest thing. My sister found out sang its criticizing 445 00:30:00,000 --> 00:30:07,160 Speaker 1: gonna win. She likes to write about him in song. Yeah, 446 00:30:09,000 --> 00:30:17,560 Speaker 1: like that's gonna affect me all. But I still like 447 00:30:18,200 --> 00:30:26,240 Speaker 1: one I like, and they both like me. I got 448 00:30:26,360 --> 00:30:32,000 Speaker 1: one that's stick, one that stick, and the other one 449 00:30:32,240 --> 00:30:39,000 Speaker 1: is thing. I don't give it down with my sister say, 450 00:30:41,720 --> 00:30:48,000 Speaker 1: because she ain't get me. This is just for me, 451 00:30:48,360 --> 00:30:59,360 Speaker 1: myself and I. The first one got be fired, and 452 00:31:00,160 --> 00:31:04,680 Speaker 1: the little one is a cute ain't but she ain't 453 00:31:04,720 --> 00:31:11,400 Speaker 1: got much booty. Not a thick one got big eye. 454 00:31:14,760 --> 00:31:22,160 Speaker 1: The skinny one ain't got none of that. But I 455 00:31:22,400 --> 00:31:30,680 Speaker 1: don't care coughs Sometime I don't like it. Sometime I 456 00:31:30,880 --> 00:31:41,600 Speaker 1: just want my women. I like them thicking feed about. 457 00:31:43,120 --> 00:31:47,880 Speaker 1: My sister needs to stay out of my business. She 458 00:31:48,240 --> 00:31:55,640 Speaker 1: just my key. I even know about each other, right, 459 00:31:57,280 --> 00:32:03,280 Speaker 1: had them all our own Christmas Day? What really the 460 00:32:03,440 --> 00:32:06,640 Speaker 1: way I pulled it off I put the little one 461 00:32:06,720 --> 00:32:12,040 Speaker 1: behind the Christmas tree. Kept after way she did that 462 00:32:12,200 --> 00:32:18,880 Speaker 1: little the thick one was in the kitchen. What you 463 00:32:19,080 --> 00:32:26,200 Speaker 1: think she was doing? Oh she was in that taste 464 00:32:26,240 --> 00:32:31,080 Speaker 1: and everything making show I knew what I was doing. 465 00:32:33,760 --> 00:32:50,600 Speaker 1: Last verse they both is mind do time, Oh lorgnorance, 466 00:32:50,960 --> 00:32:59,080 Speaker 1: keep minding your business. Don't get in this like one 467 00:32:59,160 --> 00:33:07,400 Speaker 1: of them things on And that's it, ladies and gentlemen. 468 00:33:08,560 --> 00:33:13,720 Speaker 1: The CLO Chief Love Officer Steve Harvey in the song 469 00:33:14,280 --> 00:33:20,560 Speaker 1: outstanding Brabo Broo. All right, we're gonna get to this 470 00:33:20,840 --> 00:33:25,720 Speaker 1: entertainment news today. The number one movie in America is 471 00:33:25,840 --> 00:33:30,680 Speaker 1: Jordan Peel's Nope, starring Keiki Palmer. That's right, bringing in 472 00:33:30,920 --> 00:33:34,560 Speaker 1: a whopping forty four million dollars at the box office. 473 00:33:34,960 --> 00:33:37,520 Speaker 1: So we got to say congratulations to Jordan Peel and 474 00:33:37,840 --> 00:33:41,719 Speaker 1: Kick Palmer. Also, David Klewa was in it. Yeah, and uh, 475 00:33:42,280 --> 00:33:45,840 Speaker 1: Kikei Palmer is not playing that colorism game. Some people 476 00:33:45,880 --> 00:33:50,560 Speaker 1: on social media are trying to compare Kiki and Zundaya's career. 477 00:33:51,000 --> 00:33:54,880 Speaker 1: All right, um, Kiki is not the one. She's not 478 00:33:55,000 --> 00:33:57,360 Speaker 1: a victim. And she said she has been successful for 479 00:33:57,600 --> 00:34:02,400 Speaker 1: a very long time. Yeah she has. Yeah, yeah, people 480 00:34:02,560 --> 00:34:08,719 Speaker 1: just yeah, yes, And Zendea's light skin kickis brown and 481 00:34:08,840 --> 00:34:12,320 Speaker 1: they want to, you know, say, have some something to 482 00:34:12,400 --> 00:34:14,520 Speaker 1: say about that. And I saw the movie. Kiki was 483 00:34:14,640 --> 00:34:16,840 Speaker 1: really really good in the movie. She really was. She 484 00:34:16,960 --> 00:34:21,880 Speaker 1: made the movie her character forty four million dollars. Impressive, 485 00:34:21,960 --> 00:34:27,680 Speaker 1: Jordan Peel, Right, that's right. Speaking of movies, everyone on 486 00:34:27,800 --> 00:34:30,960 Speaker 1: social media is reacting to the newly released Black Panther 487 00:34:31,080 --> 00:34:35,480 Speaker 1: Would Conda Forever? Official movie trailer. It was so powerful 488 00:34:35,640 --> 00:34:39,600 Speaker 1: and emotional. Director Ryan Coogler said, the cast and the 489 00:34:39,840 --> 00:34:42,920 Speaker 1: entire movie team put their love for the late great 490 00:34:43,040 --> 00:34:47,040 Speaker 1: Chadwick Boseman into the film. And as we all know, 491 00:34:47,200 --> 00:34:51,280 Speaker 1: of course, Chadwick played King T'Challa and sadly passed away 492 00:34:51,480 --> 00:34:54,840 Speaker 1: in twenty twenty after a private battle with colon cancer. 493 00:34:55,280 --> 00:34:58,160 Speaker 1: So Black Panther Would Conda Forever will be released in 494 00:34:58,320 --> 00:35:03,640 Speaker 1: theaters November eleventh. Oh boy, yeah, I saw the trailer. 495 00:35:04,760 --> 00:35:07,840 Speaker 1: I missed the trailer. It's on social media. It's on 496 00:35:07,960 --> 00:35:13,359 Speaker 1: the wall Conda Forever, you know, Instagram. But look forward 497 00:35:13,360 --> 00:35:16,560 Speaker 1: to the movie November eleventh, right around that beginning of 498 00:35:16,640 --> 00:35:19,440 Speaker 1: the holiday season and everything. So that'll be a good 499 00:35:19,480 --> 00:35:23,160 Speaker 1: one to see for sure, Black Panther, Waconda Forever you 500 00:35:23,320 --> 00:35:27,440 Speaker 1: are forever missed Chadwick Boseman. They showed an image of 501 00:35:27,560 --> 00:35:34,839 Speaker 1: him in the in the trailer. Yeah yeah, yeah, all right, 502 00:35:35,400 --> 00:35:37,800 Speaker 1: we're gonna switch gears here, coming up in twenty minutes 503 00:35:37,840 --> 00:35:40,520 Speaker 1: after the hour, still trending. Dave Chappelle, Chris Rock, and 504 00:35:40,600 --> 00:35:43,719 Speaker 1: Kevin Hart all on stage in New York City. We'll 505 00:35:43,760 --> 00:35:49,640 Speaker 1: talk about it right after this you're listening to. Dave 506 00:35:49,760 --> 00:35:53,000 Speaker 1: Chappelle was the surprise opening act for Kevin Hart and 507 00:35:53,080 --> 00:35:56,600 Speaker 1: Chris Rock on Saturday night in Madison Square Garden. Dave 508 00:35:56,680 --> 00:36:00,279 Speaker 1: Chappelle talked about Cancel Culture and his reason attack, and 509 00:36:00,440 --> 00:36:03,040 Speaker 1: he said he didn't want his attacker to die, but 510 00:36:03,160 --> 00:36:05,719 Speaker 1: he hoped his attacker would catch monkey pots and his 511 00:36:05,840 --> 00:36:15,120 Speaker 1: butt footage for about four to six weeks. Okay, were Chapelle? 512 00:36:16,520 --> 00:36:21,760 Speaker 1: I love it? Then Kevin gave Chris Rock a goat, 513 00:36:21,880 --> 00:36:24,360 Speaker 1: and Rock said that he wasn't taking care of it. 514 00:36:25,160 --> 00:36:29,320 Speaker 1: Rock also talked about Cancel Culture and addressed his Oscar 515 00:36:29,440 --> 00:36:33,200 Speaker 1: slap and said, anyone who says words hurt has has 516 00:36:33,320 --> 00:36:36,000 Speaker 1: never been punched in the face. Okay, They've never been 517 00:36:36,080 --> 00:36:39,400 Speaker 1: slapped like that. Chappelle went on to thank Kevin and 518 00:36:39,600 --> 00:36:42,600 Speaker 1: Chris Rock and said that comedians have a special bond. 519 00:36:43,320 --> 00:36:51,400 Speaker 1: Is that what Will Smith? I named the goat Will Smith? Crazy? 520 00:36:55,320 --> 00:37:00,759 Speaker 1: Kevin named Will Smith Will Smith? That was good? Yes, 521 00:37:01,000 --> 00:37:09,040 Speaker 1: I like that. Camaraderie. Camaraderie. Yeah, no, I love it, man, 522 00:37:09,080 --> 00:37:11,239 Speaker 1: I mean it is what it is. The dudes and 523 00:37:11,400 --> 00:37:16,280 Speaker 1: so and three bad boys right there. Yeah, I'm currently 524 00:37:16,360 --> 00:37:21,759 Speaker 1: working right now. Ain't nobody better? Yeah? Nobody? I don't know. 525 00:37:23,040 --> 00:37:25,880 Speaker 1: That's that's huge. Is it true though, that comedians you 526 00:37:25,960 --> 00:37:28,719 Speaker 1: all have a special bond, because that's what Chappelle said 527 00:37:28,800 --> 00:37:31,880 Speaker 1: that it's like this brotherhood. No, it is. It is 528 00:37:31,960 --> 00:37:34,920 Speaker 1: because we all know, we all and what do you 529 00:37:35,080 --> 00:37:36,560 Speaker 1: what is it that you know when you say that, 530 00:37:36,680 --> 00:37:38,320 Speaker 1: what do you mean? We all know what it is? 531 00:37:38,480 --> 00:37:42,200 Speaker 1: What it takes to walk out takes to walk out 532 00:37:42,239 --> 00:37:44,960 Speaker 1: there as a different beast. Man. There's a lot of 533 00:37:45,040 --> 00:37:47,440 Speaker 1: guys that's not good at it, that's walking out there. 534 00:37:48,200 --> 00:37:51,120 Speaker 1: But the greats that walk out there that say something 535 00:37:51,280 --> 00:37:56,400 Speaker 1: compelling and funny m hm or just right you know 536 00:37:56,840 --> 00:38:00,439 Speaker 1: in a way man, where you remember some bits. It's 537 00:38:00,600 --> 00:38:04,040 Speaker 1: it's hard to stand there, man, especially when you do 538 00:38:04,160 --> 00:38:08,839 Speaker 1: an hour. It's hard to stand there with just a microphone, 539 00:38:09,360 --> 00:38:12,320 Speaker 1: a mic stand, a spotlight, a ball stood, and a 540 00:38:12,400 --> 00:38:15,880 Speaker 1: glass of water. It's hard. Well, you must make it 541 00:38:16,000 --> 00:38:18,120 Speaker 1: look easy because a lot of people think that they 542 00:38:18,200 --> 00:38:22,759 Speaker 1: can just get out there and be funny. But you 543 00:38:22,840 --> 00:38:25,720 Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, though, Yeah, go do five minutes, 544 00:38:25,800 --> 00:38:30,800 Speaker 1: ten minutes, ten minutes that five minutes that started for 545 00:38:30,960 --> 00:38:36,840 Speaker 1: ten minutes started, Start from there, start from there. No, 546 00:38:37,080 --> 00:38:39,000 Speaker 1: I want I want to see it, man, I want 547 00:38:39,000 --> 00:38:42,120 Speaker 1: to make it look very easy. Well, you make it 548 00:38:42,239 --> 00:38:46,560 Speaker 1: look easy because that's what you do. Yeah, it ain't easy, right, 549 00:38:46,719 --> 00:38:49,520 Speaker 1: people think it is, because it ain't. No need to start. 550 00:38:50,000 --> 00:38:52,960 Speaker 1: Just go online, just go to the last factory and 551 00:38:53,000 --> 00:38:55,880 Speaker 1: look at the comedians that go up there. The struggle 552 00:38:56,040 --> 00:38:59,359 Speaker 1: is real. Yeah, and and and then the and then 553 00:38:59,440 --> 00:39:02,960 Speaker 1: the what they thank You's funny? Oh my god? Let 554 00:39:03,120 --> 00:39:07,560 Speaker 1: go all right? Coming up in thirty four minutes after 555 00:39:07,640 --> 00:39:11,920 Speaker 1: the hour, we'll check Steve's voicemail eight seven seven twenty nine. Steve. 556 00:39:12,360 --> 00:39:19,040 Speaker 1: Right after this you're listening, it is time now to 557 00:39:19,200 --> 00:39:21,360 Speaker 1: check Steve's voicemail. And if you want to leave a 558 00:39:21,440 --> 00:39:24,560 Speaker 1: message for Steve, callum eight seven seven twenty nine. Steve. 559 00:39:25,120 --> 00:39:28,160 Speaker 1: All right, Steve, this first caller has a spiritual question 560 00:39:28,280 --> 00:39:31,080 Speaker 1: for you. Good evening, Steve, Thank you so much for 561 00:39:31,200 --> 00:39:35,080 Speaker 1: sharing your inspirational relationship with God with the world. My 562 00:39:35,239 --> 00:39:39,240 Speaker 1: question is simple, how does one stop loaning for something 563 00:39:39,360 --> 00:39:43,640 Speaker 1: that God has obviously said no to that particular question? 564 00:39:44,360 --> 00:39:53,680 Speaker 1: Thank you, bye bye. That's questioning. That's everybody's delima. We 565 00:39:53,840 --> 00:39:57,960 Speaker 1: want what we want. Yeah, that's everybody's delima. And then 566 00:39:58,440 --> 00:40:02,399 Speaker 1: also sometimes what you want just is in the form 567 00:40:02,480 --> 00:40:08,080 Speaker 1: of temptation. You know, it's not always longing for something 568 00:40:08,160 --> 00:40:11,839 Speaker 1: you ask God faun, he told you no. Sometimes God 569 00:40:12,000 --> 00:40:15,200 Speaker 1: makes moves he know you wouldn't make because he heard 570 00:40:15,280 --> 00:40:19,000 Speaker 1: conversations you didn't hear, and He made decisions that you 571 00:40:19,160 --> 00:40:22,960 Speaker 1: just not gonna make for the betterment of yourself. Example, 572 00:40:23,880 --> 00:40:28,240 Speaker 1: I want this relationship to work with this person. God 573 00:40:28,480 --> 00:40:30,960 Speaker 1: know that ain't the one you need, So sometimes He 574 00:40:31,080 --> 00:40:33,279 Speaker 1: don't aid you in doing that. Now you can run 575 00:40:33,360 --> 00:40:35,920 Speaker 1: off and do it yourself, but you're gonna get beat up. 576 00:40:36,160 --> 00:40:39,600 Speaker 1: He not coming back. You quit asking God for him 577 00:40:39,640 --> 00:40:42,239 Speaker 1: to come back. He not coming back. That ain't got 578 00:40:42,280 --> 00:40:44,520 Speaker 1: nothing to do with God the dude you want and 579 00:40:44,680 --> 00:40:48,680 Speaker 1: made a decision that he don't want you. Now, once 580 00:40:48,719 --> 00:40:52,640 Speaker 1: you keep asking God for him fault. Instead, you should 581 00:40:52,640 --> 00:40:56,000 Speaker 1: ask God for somebody that wants you so sometimes and 582 00:40:56,120 --> 00:40:59,680 Speaker 1: I had to learn this myself. The thing that I'm 583 00:40:59,680 --> 00:41:04,359 Speaker 1: asking God that I keep getting a note too, it's 584 00:41:04,440 --> 00:41:08,279 Speaker 1: for a reason, yeah, And it's usually been because God 585 00:41:08,360 --> 00:41:11,000 Speaker 1: has something better for me. Better all the time. But 586 00:41:11,160 --> 00:41:13,080 Speaker 1: you got to open up yourself to the better and 587 00:41:13,160 --> 00:41:15,799 Speaker 1: stop thinking you got the answer. You can't ask God 588 00:41:15,840 --> 00:41:17,520 Speaker 1: to bless you. It didn't tell him how to do it, 589 00:41:17,920 --> 00:41:21,840 Speaker 1: how to do that's just that a man, brother, all right, 590 00:41:22,000 --> 00:41:24,480 Speaker 1: you better preach up in here. You met a minister, 591 00:41:25,680 --> 00:41:29,640 Speaker 1: all right, this caller, all right. Last week we had 592 00:41:29,680 --> 00:41:32,960 Speaker 1: a cello question, Steve. It was about the It was 593 00:41:33,040 --> 00:41:36,080 Speaker 1: from the married woman who had emailed us. She asked 594 00:41:36,200 --> 00:41:39,760 Speaker 1: us if she was wrong because she purchased Raider season 595 00:41:39,840 --> 00:41:42,520 Speaker 1: football tickets but changed them from her husband's name to 596 00:41:42,640 --> 00:41:45,520 Speaker 1: her name after he told her he preferred attending the 597 00:41:45,640 --> 00:41:48,680 Speaker 1: games with his boys instead of going with her. So 598 00:41:48,960 --> 00:41:52,959 Speaker 1: this caller has a comment about that. Say, Steve, I'm 599 00:41:53,040 --> 00:41:55,840 Speaker 1: losing your radio show this morning, and I agree with you. 600 00:41:56,400 --> 00:41:59,879 Speaker 1: My husband is one of three brothers. The brothers needs 601 00:41:59,880 --> 00:42:03,160 Speaker 1: to be the gabl Sometimes just some men I'm okay 602 00:42:03,239 --> 00:42:05,759 Speaker 1: with him hanging with his brothers. You don't need me 603 00:42:05,880 --> 00:42:07,880 Speaker 1: around them all the time. We didn't gather up something 604 00:42:07,920 --> 00:42:10,680 Speaker 1: four seven, seven days a week. Let that man have 605 00:42:10,840 --> 00:42:14,000 Speaker 1: some men time. Is youself? You want to rob him 606 00:42:14,040 --> 00:42:16,920 Speaker 1: crazy and you're gonna want to know why he ain't home. Boy, 607 00:42:16,920 --> 00:42:19,320 Speaker 1: He's coming home and go straight to sleep. These women 608 00:42:19,360 --> 00:42:21,440 Speaker 1: needs to let it loose. You want to hang with 609 00:42:21,520 --> 00:42:24,439 Speaker 1: your girls. You hang with your girls. You don't answer. Come. 610 00:42:24,840 --> 00:42:26,840 Speaker 1: I love it when my husband hang with his brothers. 611 00:42:27,400 --> 00:42:30,600 Speaker 1: Let them men have that mentime. Y'all have a good 612 00:42:30,680 --> 00:42:41,719 Speaker 1: day because everybody needs me time. Yeah. Hey, when I 613 00:42:41,800 --> 00:42:43,640 Speaker 1: tell my wife I'm going on the golf trip, she 614 00:42:43,719 --> 00:42:45,840 Speaker 1: want to be telling my little kenn I go No, 615 00:42:46,600 --> 00:42:49,440 Speaker 1: she know I don't want her to go right now, 616 00:42:49,520 --> 00:42:52,600 Speaker 1: I want to go play golf, talk trash, get through, 617 00:42:53,400 --> 00:42:57,360 Speaker 1: go eat without showering. Then I want to take a shower. 618 00:42:57,480 --> 00:43:01,359 Speaker 1: All these speeches you got, you've been playing golf. I'm 619 00:43:01,520 --> 00:43:07,480 Speaker 1: hungry now, I'm hugbling now, I'm hugbling now. And now 620 00:43:07,640 --> 00:43:10,239 Speaker 1: here she comes. She walked in the room. I do 621 00:43:10,400 --> 00:43:16,520 Speaker 1: want to go where you ain't? You ain't get out 622 00:43:16,640 --> 00:43:19,880 Speaker 1: of this studio Madrid you're not going to play golf. 623 00:43:23,800 --> 00:43:27,759 Speaker 1: You are not going to play golf. No, you don't 624 00:43:27,800 --> 00:43:33,000 Speaker 1: want to go, You're not going. I want to talk. 625 00:43:33,320 --> 00:43:38,080 Speaker 1: I want to show. When you ask me to shower, stop, 626 00:43:38,360 --> 00:43:40,840 Speaker 1: I want to eat now, Why don't you take a 627 00:43:40,920 --> 00:43:43,719 Speaker 1: shower first? You enjoy your food better? Who need a 628 00:43:43,800 --> 00:43:52,399 Speaker 1: shower to enjoy the man? Man? Can we go to break? Yeah? 629 00:43:53,239 --> 00:43:59,759 Speaker 1: About that time? All right? All right? Coming up next 630 00:44:00,000 --> 00:44:03,839 Speaker 1: it is the nephew today's prank phone call. We'll get 631 00:44:03,880 --> 00:44:10,120 Speaker 1: into it right after this you're listening to all right, 632 00:44:10,200 --> 00:44:12,320 Speaker 1: coming up at the top of the hour, right about 633 00:44:12,360 --> 00:44:15,399 Speaker 1: four minutes after, it's my Strawberry letter for today. Listen 634 00:44:15,480 --> 00:44:19,920 Speaker 1: to this title, will you? I'm submissive? I'm submissive? But 635 00:44:20,160 --> 00:44:23,960 Speaker 1: is he worth it? I'm submissive? Okay? But is he 636 00:44:24,160 --> 00:44:28,919 Speaker 1: worth it? You got to know that? All right, We're 637 00:44:28,960 --> 00:44:32,960 Speaker 1: gonna do that a little bit, right, Yeah, just what 638 00:44:33,280 --> 00:44:35,640 Speaker 1: is all that? All right? We'll find out in just 639 00:44:35,800 --> 00:44:38,279 Speaker 1: a few But right now, the nephew is here with 640 00:44:38,520 --> 00:44:40,719 Speaker 1: today's prank phone call. What you got for us, nep 641 00:44:40,840 --> 00:44:43,240 Speaker 1: what's happening? Well? This, you know, this kind of ties 642 00:44:43,320 --> 00:44:45,520 Speaker 1: in with some things I've been wanting to talk to you. 643 00:44:45,680 --> 00:44:49,080 Speaker 1: Guys about you and hearing call. I've been wanting to 644 00:44:49,120 --> 00:44:53,000 Speaker 1: talk to y'all about this kind of stuff. Okay, Yeah, 645 00:44:53,160 --> 00:44:59,280 Speaker 1: what's going on? Well, it's your appearance at work? Your appearance? 646 00:44:59,600 --> 00:45:04,520 Speaker 1: U what what about it? Well? I think this this 647 00:45:04,840 --> 00:45:08,880 Speaker 1: prank kind of tells it all. Uh, what are you 648 00:45:09,040 --> 00:45:12,279 Speaker 1: talking about? Yeah, the name of this prank is you 649 00:45:12,400 --> 00:45:18,400 Speaker 1: need to Mona. You need to fix your appearance. Okay, 650 00:45:18,480 --> 00:45:22,080 Speaker 1: you need to What are you saying? I think I 651 00:45:22,160 --> 00:45:25,920 Speaker 1: think I think I said it. I think I mean 652 00:45:26,280 --> 00:45:29,719 Speaker 1: you're talking to Mona. But then you brought in it. So, yeah, 653 00:45:30,160 --> 00:45:33,400 Speaker 1: it's something I did. The prank Mona. But this is 654 00:45:33,400 --> 00:45:36,000 Speaker 1: something I've been wanting to say to y'all. You know 655 00:45:36,760 --> 00:45:40,640 Speaker 1: about your appearance. Well, let's let's hear it. Yeah, let's 656 00:45:40,680 --> 00:45:45,200 Speaker 1: hear it. But surely, I bet you my reaction is 657 00:45:45,280 --> 00:45:50,799 Speaker 1: probably gonna be the same as Mona as okay, all right, 658 00:45:50,800 --> 00:45:55,240 Speaker 1: well all right, cat dog, if you would hello, Hello, 659 00:45:55,360 --> 00:46:00,319 Speaker 1: I'm trying to reach a Mona. Please, this is her doing. 660 00:46:00,400 --> 00:46:04,239 Speaker 1: My name is James over with the corporation. I'm with 661 00:46:04,360 --> 00:46:07,240 Speaker 1: your corporate wardrobe. You've been with the company for about 662 00:46:07,280 --> 00:46:11,880 Speaker 1: eight years now, my correct, Mona, Yes, sir, Okay, Like 663 00:46:11,960 --> 00:46:14,920 Speaker 1: I said, I'm from a corporate wardrobe. I wanted to 664 00:46:15,000 --> 00:46:17,719 Speaker 1: kind of give you a call. There's been some conversation 665 00:46:17,760 --> 00:46:19,480 Speaker 1: about it, but wanted to give you a call about 666 00:46:19,520 --> 00:46:25,839 Speaker 1: your appearance in the office. Okay, okay, Now your your 667 00:46:26,000 --> 00:46:28,960 Speaker 1: your appearance seems to be pretty much in tacts for 668 00:46:29,120 --> 00:46:31,560 Speaker 1: your clothing. It's concerned, so it's nothing, it has nothing 669 00:46:31,560 --> 00:46:35,080 Speaker 1: to do with that. Okay. Now, first of all, what 670 00:46:35,360 --> 00:46:40,239 Speaker 1: are my appearings have to do with your corporation? Well, 671 00:46:40,520 --> 00:46:42,640 Speaker 1: what's going on? Like I said, you you've been with 672 00:46:42,960 --> 00:46:46,040 Speaker 1: corpor about what eight years? And now I am I right, yes, sir, 673 00:46:46,160 --> 00:46:52,319 Speaker 1: I have okay, and me telling me some about my kids, right, 674 00:46:52,400 --> 00:46:54,360 Speaker 1: I didn't need. What I want to talk to you 675 00:46:54,360 --> 00:46:58,160 Speaker 1: about is that what what what some of the workers 676 00:46:58,239 --> 00:47:00,840 Speaker 1: in the office are having a problem with. And what 677 00:47:01,000 --> 00:47:02,960 Speaker 1: we want to do is get you an actual doctor's 678 00:47:03,000 --> 00:47:07,000 Speaker 1: appointment because we want to see about helping you get 679 00:47:08,000 --> 00:47:14,840 Speaker 1: a breast reduction. Oh what a breast reduction? Okay? Now 680 00:47:14,920 --> 00:47:17,640 Speaker 1: you you you you? I mean from from my understanding 681 00:47:17,680 --> 00:47:21,719 Speaker 1: that your your breasts are too large. Now who is 682 00:47:21,760 --> 00:47:23,719 Speaker 1: this freast? Who is this again? Who is this again? 683 00:47:23,760 --> 00:47:26,680 Speaker 1: My name is James, Like I said, I'm with corporate wardrobe, 684 00:47:26,880 --> 00:47:29,880 Speaker 1: and I'm calling you actually pretty much from human resources 685 00:47:29,920 --> 00:47:33,120 Speaker 1: of corporation. Okay, and if you ain't calling him by 686 00:47:33,239 --> 00:47:37,120 Speaker 1: something else, certainly what we do here, so you calling 687 00:47:37,200 --> 00:47:39,880 Speaker 1: me telling me somethingboy, giving me a breast reduction. What 688 00:47:40,080 --> 00:47:41,759 Speaker 1: you need to do is try to tek up slow 689 00:47:42,160 --> 00:47:45,319 Speaker 1: because what I'm doing open here, I'm gonna well, they 690 00:47:45,480 --> 00:47:47,839 Speaker 1: was old here and I'm gonna well as they came out, 691 00:47:47,920 --> 00:47:50,040 Speaker 1: I well, I'm from Mona. All we want to do 692 00:47:50,239 --> 00:47:52,080 Speaker 1: is we want to get you a doctor's appointment so 693 00:47:52,239 --> 00:47:55,000 Speaker 1: we can help you get your get your breast reduce. 694 00:47:55,120 --> 00:47:57,480 Speaker 1: So you know you you'll feel a lot more comfortable 695 00:47:57,520 --> 00:47:58,880 Speaker 1: and the people in the office will be a lot 696 00:47:58,960 --> 00:48:02,239 Speaker 1: more comfortable. Okay, I'm not You ain't gonna do it. Man. 697 00:48:02,320 --> 00:48:04,640 Speaker 1: You ain't gonna come in and tell me something. What 698 00:48:04,719 --> 00:48:07,279 Speaker 1: I'm gonna do to me? What you're talking about. I'm 699 00:48:07,320 --> 00:48:10,040 Speaker 1: even just biding this far almost eight years and I 700 00:48:10,080 --> 00:48:12,239 Speaker 1: ain't never had no power with nobody telling me some 701 00:48:12,400 --> 00:48:15,160 Speaker 1: of my friends. So what you need to do is 702 00:48:15,239 --> 00:48:17,720 Speaker 1: find out who's going around here and making these rumors. 703 00:48:17,920 --> 00:48:19,799 Speaker 1: And first of all, I'm gonna dig up because maybe 704 00:48:19,840 --> 00:48:21,880 Speaker 1: one needs up in here talking about me, and you 705 00:48:21,960 --> 00:48:24,120 Speaker 1: know jealous because I'm gonna top of my and they 706 00:48:24,280 --> 00:48:26,000 Speaker 1: jealous of me. Is I'm gonna you know, I'm gonna 707 00:48:26,040 --> 00:48:28,759 Speaker 1: mask and they ain't got top of my bread. Look, man, 708 00:48:28,960 --> 00:48:31,160 Speaker 1: my job is to get your breast reduced. I gotta 709 00:48:31,200 --> 00:48:34,560 Speaker 1: get I gotta bring them down my big too. Can't 710 00:48:34,600 --> 00:48:39,279 Speaker 1: you reduce that? This big? Can't you reduce that? Man? Listen, 711 00:48:39,360 --> 00:48:41,799 Speaker 1: I gotta get your breast down to it. I gotta 712 00:48:41,920 --> 00:48:43,879 Speaker 1: get it down. I gotta bring them down. You ain't 713 00:48:43,880 --> 00:48:46,920 Speaker 1: gonna doing. Ain't what you're gonna get downe, that's what 714 00:48:47,000 --> 00:48:50,560 Speaker 1: you're gonna get done. And to stop worrying about my breast. 715 00:48:50,920 --> 00:48:54,279 Speaker 1: So you and whoever whoever calling you are telling you 716 00:48:54,400 --> 00:48:57,239 Speaker 1: somebody what I'm doing at this this? Tell them I 717 00:48:57,320 --> 00:48:59,160 Speaker 1: said the kids my to what I did even do 718 00:48:59,239 --> 00:49:01,879 Speaker 1: I'm gonna do me. So they don't like that, then, hey, 719 00:49:01,960 --> 00:49:04,400 Speaker 1: how adam, because I'm gonna find whoever doing it because 720 00:49:04,440 --> 00:49:07,120 Speaker 1: they're jealous. I'm a bad They don't understand it. And 721 00:49:07,200 --> 00:49:09,480 Speaker 1: the man's come in and what whoo whoo? Will they 722 00:49:09,560 --> 00:49:11,919 Speaker 1: tell the lot? They come to my desk and ask Lotte. 723 00:49:12,280 --> 00:49:15,040 Speaker 1: They ask for me Mona Mona. I understand that, but 724 00:49:15,200 --> 00:49:17,880 Speaker 1: what I'm saying is your breasts start distraction in the office, 725 00:49:18,000 --> 00:49:20,680 Speaker 1: and I gotta get your breast brought down first. Live 726 00:49:20,800 --> 00:49:22,759 Speaker 1: whoever you are. You might need to come see you 727 00:49:22,800 --> 00:49:25,040 Speaker 1: and sit to the front of my death and see 728 00:49:25,080 --> 00:49:26,800 Speaker 1: how it's looking. You might want to come back and 729 00:49:26,880 --> 00:49:31,680 Speaker 1: bring out your crew. Mona. I can't. I can't. I 730 00:49:31,719 --> 00:49:33,799 Speaker 1: don't want to come sit your desk and see your 731 00:49:33,920 --> 00:49:37,400 Speaker 1: your your I gotta get you to a doctor and 732 00:49:37,440 --> 00:49:39,440 Speaker 1: get your breast reduced. Not the women you want an 733 00:49:39,440 --> 00:49:42,000 Speaker 1: a point. I ain't gonna see though, I'm going to 734 00:49:42,160 --> 00:49:45,040 Speaker 1: a dirty Mona. You're going to a doctor that you 735 00:49:45,160 --> 00:49:48,000 Speaker 1: bring it so they ain't going to the doctor. What 736 00:49:48,200 --> 00:49:51,120 Speaker 1: you're talking the doctor whoever you me to go see, 737 00:49:51,480 --> 00:49:55,520 Speaker 1: I ain't trying to hear you yell. What I'm gonna 738 00:49:55,560 --> 00:49:58,520 Speaker 1: do is they said you would act like this, Monor. 739 00:49:58,600 --> 00:50:00,560 Speaker 1: They said you would react just to this way. This 740 00:50:00,719 --> 00:50:02,400 Speaker 1: is what the people in the office are talking about. 741 00:50:02,520 --> 00:50:04,400 Speaker 1: I don't give a damn what they I'll be in 742 00:50:04,440 --> 00:50:07,000 Speaker 1: this company. I almost eight years. Ain't no hand nobody 743 00:50:07,120 --> 00:50:10,000 Speaker 1: counting me telling me some my friend, what you need 744 00:50:10,080 --> 00:50:11,719 Speaker 1: to do. First of all, you need to come in 745 00:50:11,719 --> 00:50:13,839 Speaker 1: and see me because you might like what you see. 746 00:50:13,960 --> 00:50:17,719 Speaker 1: Because I'm a big, bad, bold pretty woman. You better 747 00:50:17,840 --> 00:50:20,640 Speaker 1: year yell? What's the show name? And now what's your 748 00:50:20,840 --> 00:50:22,960 Speaker 1: what's your name? Why do you need my name? I 749 00:50:23,000 --> 00:50:24,759 Speaker 1: don't need your name because I ain't never ad by 750 00:50:24,800 --> 00:50:27,600 Speaker 1: the commy tam job and telling me some my best. 751 00:50:27,760 --> 00:50:29,440 Speaker 1: I need to know your name because I'm gonna get 752 00:50:29,480 --> 00:50:31,840 Speaker 1: it some lotty in this because I don't play this, 753 00:50:31,880 --> 00:50:34,880 Speaker 1: see I need I don't play that. So, whoever you is, 754 00:50:34,960 --> 00:50:37,080 Speaker 1: or your croperty, whoever kind of me by my bread, 755 00:50:37,480 --> 00:50:40,200 Speaker 1: I don't play that. I need your name, I really do. 756 00:50:40,400 --> 00:50:44,000 Speaker 1: Come you down. I'm gonna find out who this is? Something? 757 00:50:44,360 --> 00:50:46,320 Speaker 1: Who you want to know my name? I want to 758 00:50:46,400 --> 00:50:48,200 Speaker 1: know your damn name. Hell, y'all, I want to know 759 00:50:48,280 --> 00:50:51,480 Speaker 1: your name. What is it? Are you listening? What is 760 00:50:51,920 --> 00:50:54,919 Speaker 1: this is? Nephew Tommy from the Steve Harby Morning Show. 761 00:50:55,040 --> 00:51:04,000 Speaker 1: You just got pranked by your girlfriend? You where bread's 762 00:51:04,000 --> 00:51:09,719 Speaker 1: bigger man down? Limps men, y'all need to quick? What 763 00:51:09,840 --> 00:51:20,240 Speaker 1: you gonna make me go? Right? WHOA? I can't believe 764 00:51:20,280 --> 00:51:22,600 Speaker 1: in seeing her breast bigger the man and then she 765 00:51:22,719 --> 00:51:29,560 Speaker 1: got a limps. I listened to this show every morning, 766 00:51:30,160 --> 00:51:34,520 Speaker 1: and I just can't believe I got got she did it, 767 00:51:34,680 --> 00:51:37,359 Speaker 1: she got me, got me. But I'm gonna catch limp. 768 00:51:37,520 --> 00:51:40,799 Speaker 1: I'm gonna catch to walking. It's okay. I'm gonna give 769 00:51:40,840 --> 00:51:43,359 Speaker 1: them a baby. I got one more thing for you, baby. 770 00:51:43,440 --> 00:51:45,759 Speaker 1: What is what is the baddest I'm talking about the 771 00:51:45,880 --> 00:51:49,279 Speaker 1: baddest radio show in the land. Maybe you already know 772 00:51:49,440 --> 00:51:53,839 Speaker 1: that one and only Steve Harvey wanting show. Ain't tell 773 00:51:53,960 --> 00:51:57,560 Speaker 1: me guess what play on this phone. I just want 774 00:51:57,600 --> 00:51:59,440 Speaker 1: to let you know I'm a slide sixteen with a 775 00:51:59,520 --> 00:52:09,479 Speaker 1: low cut. And then you have it. Uh, let's back 776 00:52:09,600 --> 00:52:12,560 Speaker 1: that thing up back, Yeah, and I want to talk 777 00:52:12,560 --> 00:52:14,759 Speaker 1: to y'all about that when we at work. Backing that 778 00:52:14,920 --> 00:52:22,600 Speaker 1: thing up. Y'all really hear yourself? Do you carry yourself? 779 00:52:22,920 --> 00:52:27,960 Speaker 1: You can't say these things. You play way too much, 780 00:52:28,200 --> 00:52:31,759 Speaker 1: especially today, sir, you can't do that. I mean we're 781 00:52:31,800 --> 00:52:36,200 Speaker 1: discussing things right, No we're not. We're telling you what 782 00:52:36,400 --> 00:52:39,040 Speaker 1: to do and what not to do. Okay, y'all don't 783 00:52:39,040 --> 00:52:43,799 Speaker 1: want to constructive criticis I see what this is? Don't 784 00:52:43,840 --> 00:52:48,120 Speaker 1: put us in a little prank that well, I'll tell 785 00:52:48,120 --> 00:52:49,800 Speaker 1: you where I better put you I better put you 786 00:52:49,920 --> 00:52:52,319 Speaker 1: in in front of a television on Friday night, because 787 00:52:52,360 --> 00:52:55,840 Speaker 1: Ready to Love My Ammy is back and it jumps 788 00:52:55,880 --> 00:52:58,080 Speaker 1: off Friday night on the own network. You do not 789 00:52:58,200 --> 00:53:00,839 Speaker 1: want to miss it, hosted by yours ly nephew, Timmy. 790 00:53:00,880 --> 00:53:03,120 Speaker 1: Oh my god. I got a brand new, brand new 791 00:53:03,200 --> 00:53:05,560 Speaker 1: group of singles that are searching and looking for that 792 00:53:05,760 --> 00:53:11,200 Speaker 1: incredible four letter word l O V love Oh my God, 793 00:53:11,320 --> 00:53:13,760 Speaker 1: and I will navigate and help you find a tune 794 00:53:13,800 --> 00:53:16,640 Speaker 1: in as a brand new show Friday night on the 795 00:53:16,719 --> 00:53:21,320 Speaker 1: Old network. Yeah, yeah, nine eight, All right, nephew, thank you. 796 00:53:21,480 --> 00:53:24,480 Speaker 1: We'll be watching, you know, we will. Coming up next 797 00:53:24,520 --> 00:53:27,520 Speaker 1: to it is the Strawberry Letter. The subject is I'm submissive, 798 00:53:27,960 --> 00:53:30,239 Speaker 1: but is he worth it? We'll get into it right 799 00:53:30,320 --> 00:53:35,719 Speaker 1: after this. You're listening to the same morning show. It 800 00:53:35,920 --> 00:53:38,320 Speaker 1: is time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And if you 801 00:53:38,440 --> 00:53:42,799 Speaker 1: need advice on relationships, on dating, work, sex, parenting, and more, 802 00:53:43,239 --> 00:53:46,680 Speaker 1: please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEFM dot com 803 00:53:46,880 --> 00:53:50,239 Speaker 1: and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your 804 00:53:50,320 --> 00:53:53,319 Speaker 1: letter live on the air, just like we're gonna read 805 00:53:53,400 --> 00:53:57,319 Speaker 1: this one right here, right now, all right, right now. 806 00:53:57,880 --> 00:53:59,520 Speaker 1: Buckle up and hold on tight. We got it for 807 00:53:59,680 --> 00:54:04,520 Speaker 1: you here. It is thanking a few subjects. I'm submissive, 808 00:54:04,760 --> 00:54:08,000 Speaker 1: but is he worth it? Dear Stephen Shirley, I've been 809 00:54:08,040 --> 00:54:11,360 Speaker 1: married for three years and he cheated before our wedding. 810 00:54:11,880 --> 00:54:16,320 Speaker 1: We met online in an online chat room and he 811 00:54:16,440 --> 00:54:19,200 Speaker 1: said I had all of the values that he desired 812 00:54:19,280 --> 00:54:22,840 Speaker 1: and a wife. He quoted some scripture and I was hooked. 813 00:54:23,360 --> 00:54:26,000 Speaker 1: He'd been married before, and he said his biggest problem 814 00:54:26,120 --> 00:54:29,120 Speaker 1: was that his wife was not submissive. He said she 815 00:54:29,320 --> 00:54:33,320 Speaker 1: was stubborn and argumentative. I was forty eight when we 816 00:54:33,400 --> 00:54:36,400 Speaker 1: got married, and it was my first marriage. So I 817 00:54:36,520 --> 00:54:39,680 Speaker 1: aim to please him and do everything just like he 818 00:54:39,880 --> 00:54:43,240 Speaker 1: asked me to. I let him run his house and mine, 819 00:54:43,719 --> 00:54:47,640 Speaker 1: and I was the ideal girlfriend because I never stressed 820 00:54:47,719 --> 00:54:51,040 Speaker 1: him out by questioning him. He came to see me 821 00:54:51,320 --> 00:54:54,520 Speaker 1: have sex and then leave. I did not say a word, 822 00:54:54,640 --> 00:54:58,040 Speaker 1: because for the most part, he's a good man. I 823 00:54:58,080 --> 00:55:00,680 Speaker 1: would listen to him bragging to his friends about how 824 00:55:00,800 --> 00:55:04,920 Speaker 1: lucky he was to have me. Then he cheated. Excuse me, 825 00:55:05,680 --> 00:55:10,360 Speaker 1: but try to hold it. Sorry. Then he cheated, and 826 00:55:10,560 --> 00:55:13,280 Speaker 1: he couldn't lie about it because his shirt was dirty 827 00:55:13,360 --> 00:55:15,920 Speaker 1: and he smelled like a woman. He told me that 828 00:55:16,080 --> 00:55:18,920 Speaker 1: it was the alcohol, and he said he'd never drink 829 00:55:18,960 --> 00:55:22,480 Speaker 1: hard liquor again, but he lied. His affair happened just 830 00:55:22,640 --> 00:55:25,480 Speaker 1: two months before our wedding. He got drunk on our 831 00:55:25,520 --> 00:55:27,960 Speaker 1: wedding night and told his parents that he hopes he 832 00:55:28,120 --> 00:55:32,040 Speaker 1: didn't make a big mistake that rocked my soul. Because 833 00:55:32,920 --> 00:55:35,600 Speaker 1: all I've done from the beginning is catered to him 834 00:55:35,840 --> 00:55:39,200 Speaker 1: and make sure all of his needs were met. I 835 00:55:39,280 --> 00:55:42,560 Speaker 1: should have left before I made any vows to him. Now, 836 00:55:42,719 --> 00:55:44,759 Speaker 1: when I try to spoil him, he tells me to 837 00:55:44,880 --> 00:55:47,960 Speaker 1: leave him alone. He picks fights so he can sleep 838 00:55:48,040 --> 00:55:50,120 Speaker 1: on the couch. I haven't slept in the bed with 839 00:55:50,239 --> 00:55:53,040 Speaker 1: my husband in three weeks. I vowed to stay for 840 00:55:53,200 --> 00:55:56,600 Speaker 1: better or worse, but we've hit rock bottom. Is he 841 00:55:56,760 --> 00:55:59,600 Speaker 1: worthy of a good submissive wife like me? Or should 842 00:55:59,600 --> 00:56:02,560 Speaker 1: I change my ways and start acting like his equal 843 00:56:02,880 --> 00:56:09,520 Speaker 1: and see what happens? Please advise, what are you doing? Really? 844 00:56:09,960 --> 00:56:13,640 Speaker 1: What is going on in this relationship period? I mean, 845 00:56:14,280 --> 00:56:17,040 Speaker 1: you said he came to see you to have sex 846 00:56:17,120 --> 00:56:19,680 Speaker 1: and then leave right there. You should have known that 847 00:56:19,840 --> 00:56:22,279 Speaker 1: something was wrong. That was the first rift flag, and 848 00:56:22,400 --> 00:56:26,520 Speaker 1: you let it happen. That should never have been okay 849 00:56:26,600 --> 00:56:29,320 Speaker 1: with you. You waited a long time to get married, 850 00:56:29,719 --> 00:56:32,120 Speaker 1: and this is what you end up with, like this 851 00:56:32,400 --> 00:56:36,080 Speaker 1: control freak, this dictator. You allowed him to treat you 852 00:56:36,239 --> 00:56:39,000 Speaker 1: any kind of way. You put your needs and your 853 00:56:39,120 --> 00:56:42,239 Speaker 1: wants on the back burner to submit to him. For 854 00:56:42,400 --> 00:56:44,960 Speaker 1: what Because he quoted a couple of scriptures to you 855 00:56:45,040 --> 00:56:48,000 Speaker 1: in the beginning, Because you said after he quoted those scriptures, 856 00:56:48,080 --> 00:56:51,160 Speaker 1: you were hooked. You thought that that would make him 857 00:56:51,200 --> 00:56:55,080 Speaker 1: a good husband. Really, anyone can quote a scripture, and 858 00:56:55,440 --> 00:57:00,400 Speaker 1: that's certainly no reason to marry that person, you see now, anyway, 859 00:57:00,400 --> 00:57:02,840 Speaker 1: I hope you see now that all that catering to 860 00:57:03,000 --> 00:57:05,680 Speaker 1: him was just stupid on your part. You're his wife, 861 00:57:05,719 --> 00:57:08,640 Speaker 1: you're not his child, you're not his servant. He got 862 00:57:08,719 --> 00:57:10,920 Speaker 1: everything from you, and what did you get in return? 863 00:57:11,040 --> 00:57:13,920 Speaker 1: You didn't get anything. I just think this is wrong. 864 00:57:14,480 --> 00:57:18,000 Speaker 1: You should have you shouldn't have to walk on eggshells 865 00:57:18,040 --> 00:57:20,560 Speaker 1: in your own marriage. You don't know what to do now. 866 00:57:21,080 --> 00:57:24,080 Speaker 1: None of this has worked out for you. Now you're miserable, 867 00:57:24,120 --> 00:57:27,760 Speaker 1: you're unhappy, you're writing a strawberry letter. You know marriage 868 00:57:27,840 --> 00:57:29,800 Speaker 1: is about or I hope you should know that marriage 869 00:57:29,880 --> 00:57:34,000 Speaker 1: is about compromise. And love, commitment, among other things. Your 870 00:57:34,040 --> 00:57:37,320 Speaker 1: marriage doesn't have any of that because it's all about him. 871 00:57:37,720 --> 00:57:40,480 Speaker 1: You're in this one sided situation with a man who 872 00:57:40,560 --> 00:57:43,320 Speaker 1: doesn't love you. He doesn't respect you. He told his 873 00:57:43,440 --> 00:57:46,160 Speaker 1: parents on his wedding night. Maybe he hopes he didn't 874 00:57:46,160 --> 00:57:50,920 Speaker 1: make a mistake. You know, now you're sleeping on the couch. 875 00:57:51,240 --> 00:57:53,720 Speaker 1: He's sleeping on the couch, and he's picking fights with you. 876 00:57:53,880 --> 00:57:55,920 Speaker 1: He doesn't want to be with you at all. You know, 877 00:57:56,080 --> 00:57:59,000 Speaker 1: I think Steve said this last week or earlier. Yeah, 878 00:57:59,160 --> 00:58:02,040 Speaker 1: last week, he doesn't like you. He was talking about 879 00:58:02,040 --> 00:58:04,600 Speaker 1: another situation. But it doesn't sound like this man likes 880 00:58:04,640 --> 00:58:07,320 Speaker 1: you at all. I think you've wasted enough time trying 881 00:58:07,360 --> 00:58:10,080 Speaker 1: to please this man. He's ungrateful. I think you now 882 00:58:10,360 --> 00:58:14,200 Speaker 1: should focus on yourself because you deserve way better than him. Steve, 883 00:58:15,480 --> 00:58:20,800 Speaker 1: the subject of this letter is I'm submissive, but is 884 00:58:20,920 --> 00:58:28,080 Speaker 1: he worth it? Now? I'm not a professional on submissive wives. 885 00:58:28,200 --> 00:58:30,640 Speaker 1: I don't know what that is, and I'm not an 886 00:58:30,720 --> 00:58:35,720 Speaker 1: expert on how that part of it should go. Because 887 00:58:35,880 --> 00:58:38,360 Speaker 1: you're trying to throw some scriptures in there that you 888 00:58:38,520 --> 00:58:41,200 Speaker 1: heard him say. But let me just walk you through 889 00:58:41,480 --> 00:58:45,400 Speaker 1: all the mistakes I've been married for three years and 890 00:58:45,960 --> 00:58:49,480 Speaker 1: he cheated before our wedding. Now this was two months 891 00:58:49,520 --> 00:58:56,120 Speaker 1: before the wedd Now, I've learned from several people. One 892 00:58:56,200 --> 00:58:59,720 Speaker 1: time I was in counseling and he said, the thing 893 00:59:00,040 --> 00:59:02,680 Speaker 1: our marriage is, the only thing that changes a person 894 00:59:02,960 --> 00:59:05,720 Speaker 1: after the wedding is the appearance of his left hand 895 00:59:05,840 --> 00:59:11,920 Speaker 1: third finger. If he has a behavior pattern that he 896 00:59:12,120 --> 00:59:16,360 Speaker 1: does and you think marriage will change it, it won't. 897 00:59:17,320 --> 00:59:19,960 Speaker 1: We met online chat room. He said I had all 898 00:59:20,040 --> 00:59:23,840 Speaker 1: the values he desired in a wife. He quoted some 899 00:59:23,960 --> 00:59:26,520 Speaker 1: scriptures and I was hooked. He was married before, and 900 00:59:26,600 --> 00:59:29,080 Speaker 1: his biggest problem he was to set up y'all. His 901 00:59:29,240 --> 00:59:32,440 Speaker 1: biggest problem was that his wife was not submissive. He 902 00:59:32,560 --> 00:59:36,080 Speaker 1: says she was stubborn and argumentative. I was forty eight 903 00:59:36,160 --> 00:59:38,080 Speaker 1: when we got married. It was my first marriage, so 904 00:59:38,160 --> 00:59:40,040 Speaker 1: I aimed to please have been do everything just like 905 00:59:40,160 --> 00:59:42,920 Speaker 1: he asked me too. You were set up to do 906 00:59:43,120 --> 00:59:47,040 Speaker 1: this because he told you what happened to his first 907 00:59:47,160 --> 00:59:55,160 Speaker 1: marriage was she was not submissive. She was argumentative and stubborn. 908 00:59:56,240 --> 01:00:00,440 Speaker 1: So you proceeded to be that direct opposite of what 909 01:00:00,800 --> 01:00:06,960 Speaker 1: she was to please him. Thus we began the downfall 910 01:00:07,080 --> 01:00:10,160 Speaker 1: of this letter. I would explain it to you, Marvel 911 01:00:10,200 --> 01:00:14,200 Speaker 1: when we come back, because I know this one inside out. 912 01:00:15,200 --> 01:00:18,400 Speaker 1: Thank you? All right, Steve, hang on, we'll have part 913 01:00:18,480 --> 01:00:21,440 Speaker 1: two of your response coming up to today's Strawberry letter, 914 01:00:21,520 --> 01:00:25,320 Speaker 1: the subject I'm submissive but is he worth it? We'll 915 01:00:25,360 --> 01:00:30,720 Speaker 1: be back right after this. You're listening show, Come on, Steve, 916 01:00:30,840 --> 01:00:34,520 Speaker 1: Let's recap today's Strawberry letter, the subject I'm submissive but 917 01:00:34,920 --> 01:00:38,880 Speaker 1: is he worth it? Well, you're gonna find out very 918 01:00:39,000 --> 01:00:42,520 Speaker 1: quickly that he's not. And you're also going to find 919 01:00:42,560 --> 01:00:48,440 Speaker 1: out something about this thing you keep calling submissive. You 920 01:00:48,600 --> 01:00:51,640 Speaker 1: met this man online chat room, y'all got married. He 921 01:00:51,760 --> 01:00:58,480 Speaker 1: cheated two most before the marriage. You found out about it. Anyway. 922 01:00:59,120 --> 01:01:02,440 Speaker 1: You don't say all that yet, but you say he 923 01:01:02,520 --> 01:01:04,880 Speaker 1: had been married and his biggest problem with his wife 924 01:01:05,000 --> 01:01:08,040 Speaker 1: was not submissive. So he told you this to set 925 01:01:08,160 --> 01:01:11,840 Speaker 1: you up. So the setup was she was not submissive. 926 01:01:12,280 --> 01:01:16,800 Speaker 1: She was stubborn and argumentative. So you, realizing this and 927 01:01:16,920 --> 01:01:19,640 Speaker 1: he knows what he's doing, you began to act the 928 01:01:19,760 --> 01:01:22,280 Speaker 1: direct opposite because he didn't want to run up into 929 01:01:22,360 --> 01:01:25,080 Speaker 1: no more non submissive women. He didn't want to run 930 01:01:25,200 --> 01:01:28,320 Speaker 1: up into somebody talking back to him. He just didn't 931 01:01:28,360 --> 01:01:31,120 Speaker 1: want that, so he told you that's what he run. 932 01:01:31,920 --> 01:01:36,000 Speaker 1: So you said you would never been married before, so 933 01:01:36,160 --> 01:01:38,200 Speaker 1: you aim to please him and do everything just like 934 01:01:38,360 --> 01:01:43,000 Speaker 1: he asked you. I let him run his house and mine. 935 01:01:43,160 --> 01:01:45,880 Speaker 1: I was an ideal girlfriend because I never stressed him 936 01:01:45,920 --> 01:01:49,640 Speaker 1: out by questioning him, which means you had some questions, 937 01:01:50,280 --> 01:01:54,320 Speaker 1: but you allowed yourself not to question him because you 938 01:01:54,440 --> 01:02:00,520 Speaker 1: didn't want to appear stubborn, argumentive, or non submissive. Well, 939 01:02:00,600 --> 01:02:02,880 Speaker 1: now he has you right where he needs you. He 940 01:02:03,080 --> 01:02:06,480 Speaker 1: came to see you have sex and then lead. You 941 01:02:06,560 --> 01:02:09,280 Speaker 1: didn't question that because you didn't want to be You 942 01:02:09,360 --> 01:02:12,440 Speaker 1: wanted to be submissive, You didn't want to be stubborn, 943 01:02:12,640 --> 01:02:15,560 Speaker 1: and you didn't want to be argumentive. So now he 944 01:02:15,640 --> 01:02:17,920 Speaker 1: can come over, have sex with you, and leave. I 945 01:02:18,040 --> 01:02:20,760 Speaker 1: didn't say a word because for the most part, he's 946 01:02:20,760 --> 01:02:23,040 Speaker 1: a good man. I was listening bragging to his friends 947 01:02:23,080 --> 01:02:25,680 Speaker 1: about how lucky was to have me. Oh, he can't 948 01:02:25,760 --> 01:02:29,360 Speaker 1: believe I got this ship right here, and I can 949 01:02:29,440 --> 01:02:31,640 Speaker 1: do like I want to, and she let me do 950 01:02:31,760 --> 01:02:38,760 Speaker 1: it because you're submissive, you're not argumentative, and you're not stubborn. 951 01:02:39,560 --> 01:02:43,240 Speaker 1: Then he cheated and he couldn't lie about it because 952 01:02:43,320 --> 01:02:45,400 Speaker 1: his shirt was dirt and he smelled like a woman. 953 01:02:45,640 --> 01:02:48,360 Speaker 1: And that's only part. I have to interject myself into 954 01:02:48,480 --> 01:02:51,840 Speaker 1: this right here. What he cheated and he couldn't lie 955 01:02:51,840 --> 01:02:57,920 Speaker 1: about it? What did that mean? What you mean he 956 01:02:58,000 --> 01:03:03,720 Speaker 1: couldn't lie about it? How the hell he could? I 957 01:03:04,000 --> 01:03:07,000 Speaker 1: don't give a damn what I smelled like. And what's 958 01:03:07,160 --> 01:03:10,760 Speaker 1: on that shirt? You would still lie. She could have 959 01:03:10,840 --> 01:03:17,320 Speaker 1: wrote her sale number on that shirt with glitter mascaret 960 01:03:17,480 --> 01:03:21,400 Speaker 1: on it, and I smelled just like Chanelle number five. 961 01:03:22,560 --> 01:03:25,040 Speaker 1: He would still come up with a life Hell yeah, 962 01:03:26,680 --> 01:03:29,960 Speaker 1: he yeah, So I'm computing. He told me that it 963 01:03:30,080 --> 01:03:33,120 Speaker 1: was an alcohol and he said he never drink hardnook again. 964 01:03:33,280 --> 01:03:36,760 Speaker 1: He lied. His affair just happened two months before I went, 965 01:03:36,840 --> 01:03:38,520 Speaker 1: and he got drunk on our wedding night, and he 966 01:03:38,600 --> 01:03:42,960 Speaker 1: told his parents that he hopes that he didn't make 967 01:03:43,000 --> 01:03:47,040 Speaker 1: a big mistake that rocked my soul, because all I've 968 01:03:47,080 --> 01:03:49,640 Speaker 1: done from the beginning is cater to him and make 969 01:03:49,720 --> 01:03:53,680 Speaker 1: sure all his needs were met. Here's the biggest mistake 970 01:03:53,840 --> 01:03:57,280 Speaker 1: you made. You made sure all of his knees was meant? 971 01:03:57,680 --> 01:04:01,520 Speaker 1: What about yours? Like my charge? Not one place in 972 01:04:01,640 --> 01:04:05,680 Speaker 1: this letter has this man done anything to you, except 973 01:04:05,800 --> 01:04:08,920 Speaker 1: Brad to his friends how lucky he was. I should 974 01:04:08,960 --> 01:04:11,960 Speaker 1: have left before I made the vows to him. Now 975 01:04:12,080 --> 01:04:14,040 Speaker 1: when I try to spoil him, he tells me to 976 01:04:14,120 --> 01:04:16,760 Speaker 1: leave him alone. He picks fights so he can sleep 977 01:04:16,800 --> 01:04:18,880 Speaker 1: on the couch. I haven't slept in the bed with 978 01:04:19,000 --> 01:04:22,680 Speaker 1: my husband in three week. I vowed to stay for 979 01:04:22,840 --> 01:04:28,520 Speaker 1: better or for worse. You vowed to stay for better 980 01:04:28,600 --> 01:04:36,240 Speaker 1: or for worse. He didn't. He didn't. You are submissive, 981 01:04:37,320 --> 01:04:44,720 Speaker 1: he ain't. He starts argumented arguments. You're not augmented he is. 982 01:04:45,960 --> 01:04:51,000 Speaker 1: You're not stubborn he is. See, you became everything he wanted, 983 01:04:51,040 --> 01:04:53,120 Speaker 1: but you didn't require him to be nothing you want. 984 01:04:54,440 --> 01:04:58,280 Speaker 1: And so now you left holding the bad. But we've 985 01:04:58,360 --> 01:05:01,280 Speaker 1: hit rock bottom? Is he worth the good submissive wife 986 01:05:01,360 --> 01:05:03,720 Speaker 1: like me? Or should I change my ways and start 987 01:05:03,800 --> 01:05:10,560 Speaker 1: acting like his equal? What where did you come from? Who? 988 01:05:10,840 --> 01:05:15,600 Speaker 1: Who are you? Should I start acting like his equal? 989 01:05:15,720 --> 01:05:21,160 Speaker 1: And see what happened? What is she doing? I got 990 01:05:21,240 --> 01:05:25,800 Speaker 1: a little green eyed equal right now? Shut up? When 991 01:05:25,840 --> 01:05:33,680 Speaker 1: I ask nothing I asked her to and submissive to 992 01:05:34,000 --> 01:05:37,400 Speaker 1: nothing I tell her to do unless she agree with it. 993 01:05:39,000 --> 01:05:42,520 Speaker 1: I don't know what you have. I'm so he's so fortunate. 994 01:05:43,920 --> 01:05:48,640 Speaker 1: But see, listen to me. Here's your problem, sister. I 995 01:05:48,760 --> 01:05:52,800 Speaker 1: got a great marriage. I got a great wife, were partners. 996 01:05:53,880 --> 01:05:59,760 Speaker 1: Submissive doesn't mean to any and everything. That's where you 997 01:06:00,520 --> 01:06:04,800 Speaker 1: off the boat wrong. Then submissive does not mean you 998 01:06:04,960 --> 01:06:08,960 Speaker 1: have to be submissive to abuse. You have to be 999 01:06:09,120 --> 01:06:14,160 Speaker 1: submissive to loneliness, you have to be submissive to any quality, 1000 01:06:15,000 --> 01:06:19,040 Speaker 1: and you have to be submissive to doubt. You can 1001 01:06:19,120 --> 01:06:21,880 Speaker 1: post your comments on today's Strawberry Letter. It's Steve Harvey 1002 01:06:22,000 --> 01:06:25,240 Speaker 1: FM on Instagram and Facebook. Check out the Strawberry Letter 1003 01:06:25,360 --> 01:06:28,520 Speaker 1: podcast on demand. Coming up at forty six minutes after 1004 01:06:28,640 --> 01:06:32,040 Speaker 1: the hour. It's Junior and Sports Talk right after this. 1005 01:06:33,400 --> 01:06:37,040 Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, 1006 01:06:37,120 --> 01:06:40,240 Speaker 1: it is time now for Junior and Sports Talk. What 1007 01:06:40,400 --> 01:06:44,600 Speaker 1: you got junior? Oh? Oh, Kevin Durrant, they talked about it. 1008 01:06:44,760 --> 01:06:47,320 Speaker 1: He's not wanting to stay in Brooklyn. He won't out 1009 01:06:47,440 --> 01:06:49,680 Speaker 1: any I mean he went out. He going. They got 1010 01:06:49,760 --> 01:06:53,320 Speaker 1: trade talks right now for Kevin Durant to go to Boston. 1011 01:06:53,720 --> 01:06:56,240 Speaker 1: If he go to Boston City, you don't even care 1012 01:06:56,280 --> 01:07:00,600 Speaker 1: for You've already made that play to clear Kevin durand 1013 01:07:00,680 --> 01:07:04,520 Speaker 1: could go to Boston. It exchanged for Jalen Brown, who 1014 01:07:04,840 --> 01:07:08,920 Speaker 1: draft pick. Yeah, they're gonna give up Jaylen Brown and 1015 01:07:09,080 --> 01:07:11,000 Speaker 1: then Jelly Brown and Kyrie. I don't know how this 1016 01:07:11,040 --> 01:07:14,000 Speaker 1: is gonna work, but right now, Kevin Duran gonna work 1017 01:07:14,040 --> 01:07:17,720 Speaker 1: with Kyrie. Nothing. I'm gonna work with Kyrie, not specially 1018 01:07:17,840 --> 01:07:23,680 Speaker 1: Jaylen Brown. They're a little boy. Yeah, Kyle gonna talk 1019 01:07:23,720 --> 01:07:27,760 Speaker 1: to him like he Yeah. Remember, but I don't like 1020 01:07:27,960 --> 01:07:31,280 Speaker 1: I don't like Kevin in Boston. I don't like it either, 1021 01:07:31,760 --> 01:07:34,840 Speaker 1: as I'm talking about Phoenix at one time. Yeah. Yeah, 1022 01:07:34,960 --> 01:07:37,400 Speaker 1: but when they when they signed Aiden, when they got 1023 01:07:37,400 --> 01:07:39,840 Speaker 1: when I got DeAndre Aiden, they signed him, then the 1024 01:07:39,920 --> 01:07:41,480 Speaker 1: deal was dead for Kevin because they ain't had the 1025 01:07:41,520 --> 01:07:43,560 Speaker 1: more cap space. It was it was it would be 1026 01:07:43,600 --> 01:07:46,360 Speaker 1: on the cap space for thought they could keep Aiden. 1027 01:07:51,840 --> 01:07:56,360 Speaker 1: Well that's what it happened. So that's like, yeah, if 1028 01:07:56,440 --> 01:07:59,920 Speaker 1: you ever known anything crazy, that was we're gonna sign eight. 1029 01:08:00,160 --> 01:08:06,760 Speaker 1: We were about Kevin the river. That was the logic. 1030 01:08:06,960 --> 01:08:10,360 Speaker 1: That was actually the logic. Also in the NFL. Man, 1031 01:08:10,480 --> 01:08:13,800 Speaker 1: let's say shout out to my man Colin Murray. Colin 1032 01:08:13,920 --> 01:08:16,240 Speaker 1: Murray has signed his extension. That boy went and got 1033 01:08:16,280 --> 01:08:20,080 Speaker 1: an extension for two hundred and thirty million, one hundred 1034 01:08:20,120 --> 01:08:23,720 Speaker 1: and sixty guarantee all that little boy out there. We're 1035 01:08:23,720 --> 01:08:30,080 Speaker 1: working Arizona. Yeah, the carterson signed this board for Yeah, 1036 01:08:30,120 --> 01:08:32,599 Speaker 1: they ain't gonna get ready to get out to Lamar. Yeah, 1037 01:08:32,760 --> 01:08:35,559 Speaker 1: that's all about to ask you now. Now, So now 1038 01:08:35,800 --> 01:08:38,880 Speaker 1: what dude, Lamar that got he got coming And Lamar 1039 01:08:39,000 --> 01:08:45,720 Speaker 1: doesn't use an agent either, Lamar does. It's right to 1040 01:08:45,800 --> 01:08:49,320 Speaker 1: his own deal. What can we think Lamar got former 1041 01:08:49,479 --> 01:08:52,160 Speaker 1: MVP of the NFL. Well, I think he's gonna ask 1042 01:08:52,280 --> 01:08:56,160 Speaker 1: for that at least. Yeah. Yeah, two young black quarterbacks 1043 01:08:56,439 --> 01:08:58,679 Speaker 1: I'm talking about out here, about to break the bank. 1044 01:08:59,640 --> 01:09:02,720 Speaker 1: I got MVP on my on my resume. I'm not 1045 01:09:02,840 --> 01:09:07,200 Speaker 1: signing the same thing. Color Mary sad. Okay, well you know, 1046 01:09:07,880 --> 01:09:10,679 Speaker 1: and you can unfold your arm because that ain't high work. 1047 01:09:10,760 --> 01:09:14,680 Speaker 1: But okay, I mean, I appreciate you being stubborn and 1048 01:09:14,800 --> 01:09:17,559 Speaker 1: all this hire, but you know that ain't no money 1049 01:09:17,600 --> 01:09:20,760 Speaker 1: to sneeze that though. No it's not, no, no, it's not. 1050 01:09:21,240 --> 01:09:23,200 Speaker 1: You know, he got to look at the winds too, though. 1051 01:09:25,360 --> 01:09:28,519 Speaker 1: You know, he can't get Patrick a home money, he 1052 01:09:28,600 --> 01:09:31,160 Speaker 1: can't get in Roger's money. He can't get that money 1053 01:09:31,200 --> 01:09:40,000 Speaker 1: because you gotta win million. I mean, but why were 1054 01:09:41,960 --> 01:09:44,840 Speaker 1: coming up more of the Harvey Morning Show at the 1055 01:09:44,920 --> 01:09:47,760 Speaker 1: top of the hour right after this, you're listening to 1056 01:09:49,000 --> 01:09:54,519 Speaker 1: morning show, well, Steven. The eighty third Grand Conclave of 1057 01:09:54,720 --> 01:09:58,000 Speaker 1: Omega Side five was held in Queen City, Charlotte this 1058 01:09:58,160 --> 01:10:05,320 Speaker 1: past weekend. Just having a good time. Yes, you didn't 1059 01:10:05,360 --> 01:10:08,680 Speaker 1: make the claim, dog, I'm going out and taking on 1060 01:10:08,800 --> 01:10:13,519 Speaker 1: them damn pictures. But you were there in spirit though, 1061 01:10:13,600 --> 01:10:17,040 Speaker 1: I know. Yeah, Brus had a good time. Man. I 1062 01:10:17,160 --> 01:10:19,240 Speaker 1: saw a lot of pictures, man, a lot of videos, 1063 01:10:19,320 --> 01:10:22,200 Speaker 1: got a lot of phone calls. The greatest thing at 1064 01:10:22,200 --> 01:10:25,000 Speaker 1: the Clay Boys, we have a brand new Grand Bosselist, 1065 01:10:25,680 --> 01:10:29,560 Speaker 1: the brand new Grand Bosselists of Omega Scide five is 1066 01:10:29,600 --> 01:10:32,080 Speaker 1: one of the greatest cues I've ever met in my life. 1067 01:10:32,160 --> 01:10:35,200 Speaker 1: One of the most dedicated, hardy working, hard at working 1068 01:10:35,240 --> 01:10:40,000 Speaker 1: bros I've ever known. Ricky Lewis from a district wail 1069 01:10:40,120 --> 01:10:43,599 Speaker 1: rep Leader of Ta Ta But that dog gone. Ricky 1070 01:10:43,720 --> 01:10:47,920 Speaker 1: Lewis is now the Grand Bossles, which in other words, 1071 01:10:47,960 --> 01:10:52,759 Speaker 1: would be equivalent to President of the United States. Grand 1072 01:10:52,960 --> 01:10:56,960 Speaker 1: Bosselist who means more to me than the President of 1073 01:10:57,120 --> 01:11:02,600 Speaker 1: the United States. So congratulates to Ricky Lewis. Congratulations to 1074 01:11:02,720 --> 01:11:06,160 Speaker 1: the bros. Man, they had a great weekend. Man, A 1075 01:11:06,240 --> 01:11:08,680 Speaker 1: lot of great stories came out of there. Oh I 1076 01:11:08,720 --> 01:11:12,160 Speaker 1: would have killed myself. I wouldn't killed myself because I 1077 01:11:12,240 --> 01:11:15,080 Speaker 1: know I'm too old. Man. I know them young boys. 1078 01:11:15,439 --> 01:11:18,479 Speaker 1: They put you in the line and they teach you 1079 01:11:18,600 --> 01:11:21,680 Speaker 1: these new hots that that that they set out, new 1080 01:11:21,760 --> 01:11:24,479 Speaker 1: hots that old bros don't really do. Too much turning 1081 01:11:24,520 --> 01:11:27,840 Speaker 1: and spinning it, picking it, dropping in the floor in 1082 01:11:27,920 --> 01:11:31,720 Speaker 1: the stir. That can't happen. Man, I'm one move. I 1083 01:11:31,840 --> 01:11:33,519 Speaker 1: was a cute. Let's get on around this thing in 1084 01:11:33,600 --> 01:11:39,040 Speaker 1: this circlet boys, Spice Adams is a cute, right. He 1085 01:11:39,160 --> 01:11:44,760 Speaker 1: got a funny one on his Instagram, old bros. But 1086 01:11:44,880 --> 01:11:49,040 Speaker 1: the day after being out all night boy holland laugh 1087 01:11:50,360 --> 01:11:53,439 Speaker 1: and he got another one on about this this cat 1088 01:11:53,560 --> 01:11:56,719 Speaker 1: that's running track and he gets to the finish line 1089 01:11:57,320 --> 01:11:59,200 Speaker 1: and they was talking about he hardly looked like he 1090 01:11:59,280 --> 01:12:01,720 Speaker 1: had a breath in it. Went up interviewing while I 1091 01:12:01,840 --> 01:12:05,320 Speaker 1: was high. I watched the ball eight times. Fryce Adams 1092 01:12:05,439 --> 01:12:08,080 Speaker 1: is abroad too. Just wanted to cut it up from me, 1093 01:12:08,160 --> 01:12:11,560 Speaker 1: my little bit wrong time for the who oh we 1094 01:12:11,760 --> 01:12:14,160 Speaker 1: just smiling. Dear hear me w up with your turn 1095 01:12:16,120 --> 01:12:20,080 Speaker 1: blue and them all mighty brothers down the side camera. 1096 01:12:20,200 --> 01:12:27,320 Speaker 1: Oh lord, have mercy. WHI got cutton made? And to 1097 01:12:27,479 --> 01:12:32,920 Speaker 1: George Clinton, George Clinton is finally a qute. Congratulations, Brother 1098 01:12:33,080 --> 01:12:47,080 Speaker 1: Clinton unanimously voted in. Ah, he gonna hurt good self 1099 01:12:48,360 --> 01:12:54,519 Speaker 1: and he's sitting down about himself his self, says the 1100 01:12:54,600 --> 01:13:01,160 Speaker 1: cap on the show, bicking up the Anthony Anderson too, man, 1101 01:13:01,200 --> 01:13:09,040 Speaker 1: you gotta show answer love, yeah, man, oh lord, have mercy. Shot. 1102 01:13:09,560 --> 01:13:16,280 Speaker 1: Michael Jordan was down, Oh Charlotte, Yeah that's hometown. Stephen A. 1103 01:13:16,479 --> 01:13:23,000 Speaker 1: Smith is a brow. Yeah yeah, Jordan's a brush. Shaquille 1104 01:13:23,040 --> 01:13:26,759 Speaker 1: O'Neil's a bro. Mo Vaughn is a bro. A Lonzo 1105 01:13:26,960 --> 01:13:33,120 Speaker 1: Morning is a bron Who got the most famous Between 1106 01:13:33,160 --> 01:13:37,000 Speaker 1: the caps and the queue your hands down? Hands down 1107 01:13:37,040 --> 01:13:45,040 Speaker 1: as the capital, it's way hands I'm calling about Junior 1108 01:13:45,080 --> 01:13:50,519 Speaker 1: starting this cop five, I get right on. Name the 1109 01:13:50,600 --> 01:13:59,040 Speaker 1: famous capital me you need okay, Capir's got Tommy and 1110 01:13:59,160 --> 01:14:10,599 Speaker 1: the queues got me. Oh, let me think I'll tell 1111 01:14:10,600 --> 01:14:16,080 Speaker 1: you when we coming. More of the Steve Hard Morning 1112 01:14:16,120 --> 01:14:24,400 Speaker 1: Show coming up. Oh, maga athlete. Right after this he said, 1113 01:14:27,360 --> 01:14:32,400 Speaker 1: you ain't got no about it? Is that it? You're 1114 01:14:32,479 --> 01:14:37,360 Speaker 1: listening to the Steve Hard Morning Show. All right, there 1115 01:14:37,479 --> 01:14:40,200 Speaker 1: was no Mega millions winner declared on Friday. So now 1116 01:14:40,320 --> 01:14:44,439 Speaker 1: the Mega million lottery jackpot is up, up, up even more. 1117 01:14:44,560 --> 01:14:48,760 Speaker 1: It is over seven hundred and ninety million dollars, I said, 1118 01:14:48,880 --> 01:14:55,240 Speaker 1: seven hundred million dollars. Yeah, tonight is the next drawing. 1119 01:14:55,760 --> 01:14:59,280 Speaker 1: Lottery officials suggest that you make a copy of your 1120 01:14:59,360 --> 01:15:02,680 Speaker 1: lottery tick, get a lawyer and a financial advisor if 1121 01:15:02,760 --> 01:15:07,160 Speaker 1: you win tonight's astounding Jack Pott. Okay, I got a question. 1122 01:15:07,320 --> 01:15:09,880 Speaker 1: You gotta get a home. Sure, you gotta get a 1123 01:15:09,920 --> 01:15:13,000 Speaker 1: financial gotta get a copy of your ticket. All right, 1124 01:15:13,720 --> 01:15:16,719 Speaker 1: take a copy of your lottery ticket, get a lawyer, 1125 01:15:16,840 --> 01:15:20,200 Speaker 1: and then get yourself a financial advisor. I think that's 1126 01:15:20,280 --> 01:15:23,679 Speaker 1: great advice. So here's my question. Over seven hundred ninety 1127 01:15:23,680 --> 01:15:27,799 Speaker 1: over seven ninety you win, do you break off friends, 1128 01:15:27,880 --> 01:15:34,320 Speaker 1: co workers? Family? How you do it? Yeah? Yeah, you 1129 01:15:34,560 --> 01:15:38,879 Speaker 1: believe you leave? I fall off. There be no context. 1130 01:15:40,920 --> 01:15:45,280 Speaker 1: I'm get a new cell phone and everything. You and 1131 01:15:45,360 --> 01:15:47,640 Speaker 1: you got to call me and ask me. There'll be 1132 01:15:47,760 --> 01:15:50,160 Speaker 1: no way to reach it. Unplug all this social media. 1133 01:15:50,360 --> 01:15:54,360 Speaker 1: I'm gonna have a fake I g page. Tommy already 1134 01:15:54,439 --> 01:15:59,519 Speaker 1: said he's faking his death everything, which is copy lawyers. 1135 01:15:59,560 --> 01:16:02,080 Speaker 1: And all right, if I get if I was to 1136 01:16:02,160 --> 01:16:04,760 Speaker 1: get that ticket, I'm hiring me a couple of security. 1137 01:16:04,840 --> 01:16:06,320 Speaker 1: I ain't gonna tell him what it's for, and I'm 1138 01:16:06,320 --> 01:16:08,960 Speaker 1: gonna tell him where we're going. And I'm going right 1139 01:16:09,080 --> 01:16:14,320 Speaker 1: down that to the commission and as soon as they're over, yeah, 1140 01:16:14,360 --> 01:16:17,880 Speaker 1: we'll back. I'll tell you, well, all right, we'll be 1141 01:16:18,000 --> 01:16:23,559 Speaker 1: back right after this. You're listening, all right, So see 1142 01:16:23,640 --> 01:16:25,639 Speaker 1: before we left, you were telling us what you would 1143 01:16:25,680 --> 01:16:28,280 Speaker 1: do if you won the over seven hundred and ninety 1144 01:16:28,320 --> 01:16:32,800 Speaker 1: million dollars that's in the mega millions. For tonight, I'll 1145 01:16:32,840 --> 01:16:35,479 Speaker 1: probably discovered my house that I had a ticket. I'll 1146 01:16:35,520 --> 01:16:38,200 Speaker 1: be looking at the ticket. I immediately get on the 1147 01:16:38,320 --> 01:16:42,320 Speaker 1: phone and call for Most Kids first thing in the morning. 1148 01:16:43,240 --> 01:16:48,360 Speaker 1: I need a caravan surrounding my car to take me downtown, 1149 01:16:48,920 --> 01:16:52,200 Speaker 1: and I won't tell them. To the last minute lottery commission, 1150 01:16:53,240 --> 01:16:57,200 Speaker 1: I'm gonna walk in. I'm gonna get this ticket certified 1151 01:16:57,439 --> 01:17:00,400 Speaker 1: and be declared the winner. As soon as I do that, 1152 01:17:00,680 --> 01:17:02,720 Speaker 1: I want that. I don't need nothing now because I 1153 01:17:02,760 --> 01:17:06,000 Speaker 1: don't have a check yet, I'm gonna ride back home. 1154 01:17:06,040 --> 01:17:11,000 Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell Marge first what you're not gonna tell 1155 01:17:11,040 --> 01:17:13,360 Speaker 1: her before you go to No. No, I don't want 1156 01:17:13,479 --> 01:17:21,559 Speaker 1: nobody knowing nothing. Yeah, why are you telling her? Period? Shot? 1157 01:17:21,760 --> 01:17:25,599 Speaker 1: I'm telling you, wife, I just count then go ahead, 1158 01:17:25,640 --> 01:17:27,400 Speaker 1: taught me. How would you handle it? Let's hit this? 1159 01:17:27,680 --> 01:17:31,120 Speaker 1: Just be better. I'm with you on moticate on it. 1160 01:17:31,200 --> 01:17:33,000 Speaker 1: I got all that. Now when I get out that 1161 01:17:33,200 --> 01:17:36,760 Speaker 1: caught him, I'm getting that butt naked on walking into 1162 01:17:36,880 --> 01:17:41,120 Speaker 1: that lottery place taking a picture with that big check 1163 01:17:41,920 --> 01:17:47,320 Speaker 1: ass naked right there on the screen. Why because I 1164 01:17:47,400 --> 01:17:50,040 Speaker 1: want everybody to get the kissing right at that part. 1165 01:17:51,360 --> 01:17:54,120 Speaker 1: And then right there my wife and kids gonna see 1166 01:17:54,200 --> 01:17:57,800 Speaker 1: me on TV, and that is the last time they're 1167 01:17:57,840 --> 01:18:00,080 Speaker 1: gonna see their hubbing in their daddy. Right there. That 1168 01:18:00,240 --> 01:18:06,840 Speaker 1: is it. That is your g father. I'm a great father, 1169 01:18:07,000 --> 01:18:09,479 Speaker 1: and I think I have been a great father. But 1170 01:18:09,640 --> 01:18:12,080 Speaker 1: twenty some years, if you didn't get all the twenties, 1171 01:18:12,080 --> 01:18:17,000 Speaker 1: something mean, I apologize. I saw my youngest is right now. 1172 01:18:17,880 --> 01:18:20,400 Speaker 1: He got eleven years of that. He got that. My 1173 01:18:20,560 --> 01:18:23,479 Speaker 1: daughter seventeen from to be eighteen, he got eighteen. They 1174 01:18:23,560 --> 01:18:27,080 Speaker 1: got enough time to get on your arm. They got enough. 1175 01:18:27,760 --> 01:18:30,479 Speaker 1: You gotta know. I'm gonna leave y'all some change and 1176 01:18:30,680 --> 01:18:34,320 Speaker 1: gone many y'all and y'all, mama gone somewhere. How much 1177 01:18:34,320 --> 01:18:36,800 Speaker 1: you're gonna leave him, Tommy, how much money I'm gonna 1178 01:18:36,800 --> 01:18:42,280 Speaker 1: give him? By ten a piece on? That's it, C, 1179 01:18:42,520 --> 01:18:44,599 Speaker 1: C and CC right there call it. You wanted them 1180 01:18:44,680 --> 01:18:49,080 Speaker 1: child supported Mama's that's what you wanted. I'm staying half 1181 01:18:49,240 --> 01:18:51,880 Speaker 1: because you know that's your wife. Your family's got to 1182 01:18:51,920 --> 01:18:55,200 Speaker 1: take care to get that half. If you were divorced 1183 01:18:55,479 --> 01:19:00,920 Speaker 1: sheet half. They ain't rode half. They ain't wrote half. 1184 01:19:01,000 --> 01:19:03,760 Speaker 1: No jokes, they ain't wrote then half nothing, no, no, 1185 01:19:03,920 --> 01:19:07,960 Speaker 1: damn radio that what half they didn't done? Oh wow, 1186 01:19:08,840 --> 01:19:12,840 Speaker 1: So this is really bad. This is what And Steve, 1187 01:19:13,080 --> 01:19:16,840 Speaker 1: you question half too. This is really bad. It's bad. 1188 01:19:16,880 --> 01:19:19,760 Speaker 1: If they want some mold, this is really we gotta go. 1189 01:19:20,400 --> 01:19:25,040 Speaker 1: All right, I'm really sad. We'll be back with more 1190 01:19:25,800 --> 01:19:28,840 Speaker 1: of the Steve Harvey Morning Show right after this. You're 1191 01:19:28,920 --> 01:19:32,920 Speaker 1: listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, guys, it 1192 01:19:33,080 --> 01:19:36,720 Speaker 1: is time now for Steve Harvey's closing remarks. Before we 1193 01:19:36,800 --> 01:19:41,000 Speaker 1: get to that, Steve today is national aunt an uncle day. 1194 01:19:43,640 --> 01:19:48,880 Speaker 1: Huh poor Happy National Uncle Day. That's right, nephew, Steve, 1195 01:19:49,800 --> 01:19:55,720 Speaker 1: uncle Dave Man. Uh. Let me tell everybody out there 1196 01:19:55,760 --> 01:19:58,720 Speaker 1: this listen. Is it bothering me? I hear people you 1197 01:19:58,840 --> 01:20:01,920 Speaker 1: know they be on part podcast. Oh, I hear people 1198 01:20:02,000 --> 01:20:07,120 Speaker 1: call in uncle, uncle. This is not your damn uncle. 1199 01:20:07,720 --> 01:20:12,360 Speaker 1: It's not. It's not just bother you bother me because 1200 01:20:12,360 --> 01:20:15,120 Speaker 1: your ragged ass uncle ain't doing nothing, so you won't 1201 01:20:15,200 --> 01:20:21,560 Speaker 1: man that bothers me. But see everyone's uncle stick Tommy, celebrities, 1202 01:20:21,760 --> 01:20:25,400 Speaker 1: celebrities call them and and them and them too. What 1203 01:20:25,600 --> 01:20:29,640 Speaker 1: a ragged ass huncles. I don't care, not about them 1204 01:20:29,680 --> 01:20:32,840 Speaker 1: being no celebrities. I don't, but I'm highly un and uncle. 1205 01:20:33,160 --> 01:20:35,879 Speaker 1: What is your uncle when you go to your reunion? 1206 01:20:35,960 --> 01:20:40,200 Speaker 1: Why you ain't talking about him? Quick? Leave mine alone? 1207 01:20:40,600 --> 01:20:45,160 Speaker 1: I mean, he's everybody's favorite uncle. He might be everybody's 1208 01:20:45,200 --> 01:20:48,360 Speaker 1: favorite uh celebrity or something like that, but he not 1209 01:20:48,720 --> 01:20:53,360 Speaker 1: your uncle. That apply to me too. Is you try 1210 01:20:53,479 --> 01:20:56,519 Speaker 1: your damn righty dude? You started, Yes, you you're gonna 1211 01:20:58,880 --> 01:21:09,280 Speaker 1: you were your uncle that you got some of your family. 1212 01:21:13,600 --> 01:21:19,360 Speaker 1: Hey man, you right right, that's why? Right? Well, let 1213 01:21:19,400 --> 01:21:21,160 Speaker 1: me ask you question. Do you have a question for 1214 01:21:21,320 --> 01:21:27,320 Speaker 1: me about something, Tommy, Well, I think, yeah, go ahead. 1215 01:21:27,360 --> 01:21:29,880 Speaker 1: You're glad to no Noland because you got you got 1216 01:21:29,920 --> 01:21:33,240 Speaker 1: your question for you did have a question. What was 1217 01:21:33,360 --> 01:21:36,280 Speaker 1: my question? I forgot to call for your uncle. You 1218 01:21:36,360 --> 01:21:41,120 Speaker 1: don't remember what your question? Day? Your Well? I think 1219 01:21:41,160 --> 01:21:44,160 Speaker 1: what about this? I think that your uncle should share 1220 01:21:44,400 --> 01:21:49,360 Speaker 1: some knowledge about success jewels for all the nieces and nephews. 1221 01:21:49,439 --> 01:21:54,240 Speaker 1: I think, listen, because he's everybody's favorite uncle. Sorry, Tommy, 1222 01:21:54,760 --> 01:21:59,400 Speaker 1: do you mind, Tommy if he sharing we've shared for 1223 01:21:59,520 --> 01:22:02,040 Speaker 1: this little but this little segment. But but that ain't 1224 01:22:02,040 --> 01:22:05,920 Speaker 1: your damn ancle though. Yeah, he gone on, get him something, 1225 01:22:06,280 --> 01:22:08,759 Speaker 1: some knowledge with hit goes, some knowledge from the nephew. 1226 01:22:08,960 --> 01:22:14,040 Speaker 1: Get your damn uncle to doing something. He's feel territorial. 1227 01:22:16,200 --> 01:22:18,200 Speaker 1: Your uncles and aunties. Ain't none of y'all doing a 1228 01:22:18,320 --> 01:22:27,599 Speaker 1: damn thing nothing, Toms music, Man, I wish please, oh, 1229 01:22:27,840 --> 01:22:31,920 Speaker 1: I wish I had somebody when I was coming up, man, 1230 01:22:32,080 --> 01:22:36,000 Speaker 1: that I could have asked these three million questions that 1231 01:22:36,160 --> 01:22:40,439 Speaker 1: I had, you know, about success and about wanting something 1232 01:22:40,479 --> 01:22:45,400 Speaker 1: that wasn't regular, because I wanted something that wasn't normal, right, 1233 01:22:45,800 --> 01:22:50,080 Speaker 1: and what I aspired to was not normal, and I 1234 01:22:50,160 --> 01:22:52,599 Speaker 1: had nobody could have asked no questions of man because 1235 01:22:52,600 --> 01:22:55,479 Speaker 1: everybody out And I even stopped presenting my idea to 1236 01:22:55,560 --> 01:22:58,840 Speaker 1: people because he kept shooting it down. Yeah, so I 1237 01:22:58,960 --> 01:23:00,760 Speaker 1: kind of wish I had And I look back on 1238 01:23:00,880 --> 01:23:02,880 Speaker 1: the man that was the thing that's missing that. God 1239 01:23:03,000 --> 01:23:08,400 Speaker 1: supplied me a lot of other things to replace, mentors 1240 01:23:08,479 --> 01:23:12,280 Speaker 1: and stuff like that. He put a lot of you know, 1241 01:23:12,360 --> 01:23:14,800 Speaker 1: because it's really funny. Have you have you seen that 1242 01:23:14,960 --> 01:23:20,200 Speaker 1: thing where somebody said they was praying to God for 1243 01:23:20,360 --> 01:23:23,160 Speaker 1: certain things and he didn't give them anything he asked for, 1244 01:23:23,720 --> 01:23:27,479 Speaker 1: but he gave them everything they needed. Have you ever 1245 01:23:27,600 --> 01:23:33,439 Speaker 1: seen that? You know, it's here, It is right here, 1246 01:23:33,479 --> 01:23:39,600 Speaker 1: I just found it, says this is all he this 1247 01:23:39,720 --> 01:23:42,760 Speaker 1: is this man that was talking about God right and 1248 01:23:42,920 --> 01:23:46,800 Speaker 1: he said. I asked for strength, and God gave me 1249 01:23:46,960 --> 01:23:53,240 Speaker 1: difficulties to make me strong. I asked for wisdom and 1250 01:23:53,479 --> 01:23:59,480 Speaker 1: God gave me problems to solve. I asked for prosperity 1251 01:24:01,080 --> 01:24:07,960 Speaker 1: and God gave men brain and braun to work. I 1252 01:24:08,120 --> 01:24:13,400 Speaker 1: asked for courage and God gave me danger to overcome. 1253 01:24:14,800 --> 01:24:19,080 Speaker 1: I asked for love and God gave me troubled people 1254 01:24:19,200 --> 01:24:25,680 Speaker 1: to help. I asked for favors and God gave me opportunity. 1255 01:24:27,400 --> 01:24:33,040 Speaker 1: I received nothing I wanted. I received everything. I need 1256 01:24:34,120 --> 01:24:39,519 Speaker 1: a trust in God. And that's that's really what I 1257 01:24:39,640 --> 01:24:41,760 Speaker 1: found out about my life because I was sitting up 1258 01:24:41,760 --> 01:24:45,200 Speaker 1: for him. Why God, I didn't have nobody to teach 1259 01:24:45,280 --> 01:24:48,439 Speaker 1: me or answer the questions he said, I didn't. I 1260 01:24:48,520 --> 01:24:52,040 Speaker 1: didn't create you to be that. I'm gonna teach it 1261 01:24:52,160 --> 01:24:55,439 Speaker 1: to you myself, and you're gonna learn all the lessons 1262 01:24:55,520 --> 01:25:00,759 Speaker 1: through mishaps, hardship's failures, troubled situations, opportunity, these and everything. 1263 01:25:01,360 --> 01:25:04,400 Speaker 1: And so when I ask God for favor, I also 1264 01:25:04,520 --> 01:25:07,000 Speaker 1: have to realize all the opportunities that's in front of 1265 01:25:07,080 --> 01:25:12,240 Speaker 1: me because my life is filled with favor. So when 1266 01:25:12,280 --> 01:25:16,040 Speaker 1: I ask God for courage all the time, he always 1267 01:25:16,120 --> 01:25:21,320 Speaker 1: presents danger for me to overcome. It's crazy, man, Yeah 1268 01:25:21,560 --> 01:25:24,200 Speaker 1: ways are not our way, Steve, You're right, But the 1269 01:25:24,320 --> 01:25:28,760 Speaker 1: big one I used to ask so with strength. So 1270 01:25:28,960 --> 01:25:31,880 Speaker 1: he gave me a whole bunch of difficulties to make 1271 01:25:31,960 --> 01:25:36,640 Speaker 1: me strong. And I show appreciate him too, because his 1272 01:25:36,800 --> 01:25:39,080 Speaker 1: ways ain't our ways. Was his ways to show the 1273 01:25:39,200 --> 01:25:42,000 Speaker 1: best way. I never had that one mentor, but boy, 1274 01:25:43,160 --> 01:25:45,600 Speaker 1: he showed tarder to me. God been with me the 1275 01:25:45,720 --> 01:25:49,200 Speaker 1: whole time. Thank you Lord. Those are my closing remarks. 1276 01:25:49,240 --> 01:25:52,000 Speaker 1: That I wasn't intending to be closing remarks, but that 1277 01:25:52,160 --> 01:25:55,000 Speaker 1: it was. He works in mysterious ways. Just gotta let 1278 01:25:55,080 --> 01:25:57,360 Speaker 1: him use you. Hey, y'all, talk to God. He'd love 1279 01:25:57,439 --> 01:26:07,080 Speaker 1: to hear from you. Okay, Thank you Merchel. 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