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Speaker 2: Millions of millions of dollars?

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Speaker 1: One hundred percent? One hundred percent. You take that money

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Speaker 2: I maybe it's someone I did is going to give

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Speaker 1: It may happen to you, so once upon a climb,

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Speaker 1: says So. I'm still in shock writing this post, and

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Speaker 1: I haven't told anyone yet, not even my husband. I

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Speaker 1: I'm not sure how he'll feel about this. I'm going

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Speaker 1: to go on a whole ride here because this is

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Speaker 1: still so unbelievable. I, twenty five female was left millions

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Speaker 1: of dollars by an older guy I used to date.

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Speaker 2: Really, it's crazy. Also, how much older and how much

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Speaker 2: younger were you? Cause you're twenty five now and have

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Speaker 1: I think he's about to tell it's about to say, yeah,

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Speaker 1: back in twenty seventeen. Someone do the math.

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Speaker 2: Uh what year is el was this?

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Speaker 1: I'm twenty two?

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Speaker 2: No? But is this written in twenty twenty four?

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Speaker 1: I believe so?

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Speaker 2: Yes, A twenty seventeen no.

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Speaker 1: No, because I'm twenty two and I graduated high school

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Speaker 2: Ninety twenty seventeen. But that was seven years ago or eighteen,

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Speaker 2: I guess eighteen. Yeah, seventeen or eighteen, depending on it.

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Speaker 1: Might we know because I what I'm saying is I

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Speaker 2: Twenty seventeen, three years, four years. That's seven years ago.

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Speaker 1: She would have been.

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Speaker 2: She's twenty five, so she could but she also could

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Speaker 2: be seventeen, depending.

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Speaker 1: On college back in twenty seventeen. Oh, maybe I didn't

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Speaker 1: read this part when I was in college. So she's eighteen.

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Speaker 2: No, you could be seventeen in college.

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Speaker 1: She's probably eighteen. We're going with she's eighteen, Okay. I

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Speaker 1: went to Florida to spend the summer with my uncle.

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Speaker 1: I used to frequent the Las al Olas area, and

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Speaker 1: one evening, while I was out with some friends who

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Speaker 2: What wait? What?

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Speaker 2: She said twenty five. Then this was not written.

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Speaker 1: In what I was sixteen in twenty seventeen.

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Speaker 2: Oh, she says she was sixteen.

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Speaker 1: No, I'm saying I was sixteen and twenty seventeen. She's

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Speaker 1: It must have been written not twenty That's what I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: Okay, that's what I was asking.

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Speaker 1: Okay, But she was still been an eighteen yearroller. I

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Speaker 2: But hey, you know, like, you know what you're trading.

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Speaker 1: Uh oh, he continues, but definitely looked forty five.

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Speaker 2: Max.

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Speaker 2: I'm sixty young, sixty for sure.

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Speaker 1: We started dating, and mostly it would just attend these

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Speaker 2: Who was I thirty? Probably probably?

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Speaker 1: And all throughout this time we never slept together once.

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Speaker 1: Well, he might have just wanted to like like parade

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Speaker 1: He told me about all his life experiences and how

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Speaker 2: Gave it to his son. Oh yeah, this doesn't make

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Nikki says he was probably just looking for some companionship.

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Speaker 1: It was just he gave me a lot of advice

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Speaker 2: What does all right? What does dating this guy long

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Speaker 1: He seems to genuinely enjoy He's like conversations with him.

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Speaker 2: What what does it mean to date this man?

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Speaker 2: Why? Why? Is if? Like I have friends that take

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Speaker 1: That's quite I mean, were they talking together when they

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, it sounds like they were very important

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Speaker 1: His son told me I meant a lot to him

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Speaker 1: and I'm still not sure if I should accept this money.

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Speaker 2: Are multiple millions? Is this and also millions? You know

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Speaker 2: what I'm thinking. I'm thinking she got millions, but he

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Speaker 1: Must have because the sun doesn't seem at all upset. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: which he seems like. He seems like it's good.

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Speaker 2: It seems like they had a cool relationship. I mean like,

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Speaker 2: I feel like often those relationships are pretty like when

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Speaker 1: Like but it wasn't, you know, there wasn't any spicy

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Speaker 1: I'm glad that Opie's being very transparent.

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Speaker 1: So, I spoke with my husband yesterday and he said,

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Speaker 2: Why wouldn't you like, why wouldn't you accept it? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: He said, money like that could forever change our lives.

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Speaker 1: He's like, he's like, totally up to you. Yeah, total,

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Speaker 1: Just thinking, Oh, so I decided to accept it. Nice, Ny,

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Speaker 2: When's the yacht coming?

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Speaker 1: Get rich, simple get rich scheme. Opie says, sometimes good

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Speaker 2: Escabase, which is what some of y'all are saying in

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Speaker 1: Yeah, which I think is true and kind.

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Speaker 2: Of what I've heard.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, uh, where was I wait?

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Speaker 2: Milly says. I think it was more about companionship, and

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Speaker 2: I don't think it's why is it? I don't understand

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Speaker 1: Great because it was it would have been more transactional.

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Speaker 2: What do you mean it was? It was somewhat transactional.

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Speaker 1: Ask for, Like she didn't ask for any of that.

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Speaker 2: They could have genuinely enjoyed hooking up. Okay, well anyway,

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Speaker 2: If it's what it sounds, what it sounds like is

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Speaker 1: As long as they're both consenting adults start off with

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Speaker 2: Is it you're saying if you was like, I'm going

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Speaker 1: No, yeah, that's what I am saying.

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Speaker 2: But he wasn't wait, but he didn't like it wasn't

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Speaker 1: It was I think it was like, yeah it was

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Speaker 1: there was never an.

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Speaker 1: Yeah that's yeah.

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Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, yes, these are all you're agreeing with me.

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Speaker 1: I'm just clarifying, clarifying my points. But where I've lost

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Speaker 1: And also you can form long lasting relationships with people

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Speaker 1: so what. My husband isn't a millionaire, of course, but

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Speaker 2: That's cute. Yeah, I'm glad that she's dating a high

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Speaker 1: So true. But yeah, no, I think I think Beta boy.

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Speaker 1: This seemed like it was okay because everyone was on

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Speaker 1: board and everyone it seemed like the genuine connection was

445
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Speaker 1: you know, the goal. Yeah, in op's relationship as long

446
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Speaker 1: as it's.

447
00:21:19,359 --> 00:21:22,399
Speaker 2: Just genuine connection and she's not if she's not in

448
00:21:22,480 --> 00:21:25,639
Speaker 2: it because of his money and he's not in it

449
00:21:25,720 --> 00:21:30,880
Speaker 2: because of only Yeah, the physical aspect, I feel it's

450
00:21:30,920 --> 00:21:33,639
Speaker 2: good and it's like that's the case, like they know

451
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Speaker 2: it's it was, this is.

452
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Speaker 1: A good scenario. Yeah, I think just in some scenarios

453
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Speaker 1: where you have a much older man going after a

454
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Speaker 1: you know, eighteen to twenty year old, there are power

455
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Speaker 1: dynamics that you have to be very wary of.

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Speaker 2: It Definitely does it look good onto paper, No it doesn't.

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Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. I think you have to be

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Speaker 1: very careful. That is not to say that it is

459
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Speaker 1: you know.

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Speaker 2: Universally wrong, but but but it just doesn't sound great.

461
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Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, that's especially and when you add spicy that I.

462
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Speaker 2: Don't understand, Like why person year old? Do you know

463
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Speaker 2: that is interesting?

464
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Speaker 1: Yeah? Personally as a twenty two year old.

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Speaker 2: Jack, I mean he's about to turn twenty.

466
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Speaker 1: But yeah, I don't know as a as a twenty

467
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Speaker 1: two year old, I just don't really find people like

468
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Speaker 1: like I'm like, I don't think I'm attracted to people

469
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Speaker 1: under freshman Yeah, under like who are younger than me,

470
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Speaker 1: because we're just at different points of our life.

471
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Speaker 2: I don't know, or not to say, like you know, like.

472
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Speaker 1: If you see a person younger than you, you're not

473
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Speaker 1: going to maybe think they're physically attractive but like, I

474
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Speaker 1: don't know talking to them and like you seem so young.

475
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Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know. Yeah, I don't know. I don't

476
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Speaker 2: know if I could ever do it. But hey, maybe

477
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Speaker 2: one day when I'm sixty and my wife dies. No, yeah, millions, millions, No,

478
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Speaker 2: I'll strike a conversation with a.

479
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Speaker 4: Thirty year old.

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Speaker 1: Anyway. That's the end of. That's the end of.

481
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Speaker 2: That's Foxy Cat. Yes, I'm still lurking. Sam is the

482
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Speaker 2: best smile. You didn't see that in the cardo.

483
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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, John, you were there. You're the funniest, Riley

484
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Speaker 1: was the handsomest, and I was the favorite.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Foxy Cat, thanks for the five bucks. I just

486
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Speaker 2: ran out of space in my letter to include the

487
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Speaker 2: fact that he is the best smile. He makes me smile. Sam,

488
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Speaker 2: sorry for not including that much love xoxo, damn right,

489
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Speaker 2: foxy Cats out of here.

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Speaker 1: Berlin nav thank you for the five bucks five bock tip.

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Speaker 1: It's my first stream after binging y'all's channel for the

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Speaker 1: last week. So glad you wait?

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Speaker 2: Are you blin?

494
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Speaker 1: Are you now?

495
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Speaker 2: Are you new?

496
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Speaker 4: Do you even go here?

497
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Speaker 2: Do you even go here?

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Speaker 1: Y'all made there was more to that, y'all made my week.

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Speaker 1: Let's go, Taya Moran, thank you for the three sixty six. Hey,

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Speaker 1: okay fam, thank you for providing us with entertainment nearly

501
00:24:04,680 --> 00:24:07,600
Speaker 1: every day. Today is my birthday, and happy birthday, and

502
00:24:07,720 --> 00:24:10,639
Speaker 1: listening to y'all is the cherry on top of this

503
00:24:10,800 --> 00:24:16,359
Speaker 1: perfect day. I'm so glad, Happy birthday. You're having an

504
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Speaker 1: amazing birthday. Tina M. Dot thank you for the ten

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Speaker 1: buck tip. I sent a package from Amazon dot com

506
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Speaker 1: and it is out for delivery, but it is delivered

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Speaker 1: through you and Express and addressed to Okay Show love

508
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Speaker 1: all four of you.

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Speaker 2: We love you too.

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Speaker 3: Next, real quick, if you are going to send a package,

511
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Speaker 3: make sure to put Riley or John's name on it

512
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Speaker 3: because UPS is trying to get me to pay five

513
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Speaker 3: dollars for Okayop Show and I'm not gonna do it.

514
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Speaker 3: So put my name down.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, please put Riley's name or John's name.

516
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Speaker 2: I should just get that.

517
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Speaker 3: Yeah, but we just changed their name and then it'll

518
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Speaker 3: be like, oh, it's so good story, Tom, Like, I

519
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Speaker 3: will fight this fight.

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Speaker 2: You know what.

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Speaker 3: They don't update me every time I get a package,

522
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Speaker 3: so I'll fight that. I'll just remind them of that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Nix. Thank you for the ten bucks. Have a

524
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Speaker 1: friend who was in a relationship with the forty year

525
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Speaker 1: old age gap. He didn't expect her to sleep with him,

526
00:25:08,800 --> 00:25:11,800
Speaker 1: but once they did, the power dynamics shifted and I

527
00:25:11,800 --> 00:25:15,920
Speaker 1: got really transactional afterwards. That is what I am worried about.

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Speaker 1: And I'm not saying that it happens all the time.

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Speaker 1: I'm actually actually thank you. Yeah no, I'm not saying

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Speaker 1: it happens all the time. I'm just you know, it

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Speaker 1: is something to be wary of. Bad hatter Gal, thank

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Speaker 1: you for the five bucks. This reminds me of the

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Speaker 1: story you guys read about the much older, much older

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Speaker 1: something losing her V card for the first time, much

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Speaker 1: older person.

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Speaker 2: Well, yeah, I forgot that story. I don't remember that story.

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Speaker 1: Lurking puppy, thank you for the five bucks. My sister's

538
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Speaker 1: co worker has a sugar daddy and they never kiss

539
00:25:46,520 --> 00:25:47,360
Speaker 1: but talk and date.

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Speaker 2: Nice.

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Speaker 1: Thanks I set up. I guess that what is the

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Speaker 1: end of the story. Can we open up another package?

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Speaker 2: A little package, A little package, A little package?

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Speaker 1: Uh the thing like that's well, no, I have to leave.

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Speaker 1: I like I have to like seven, no, like seven,

546
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Speaker 1: because I have to leave at thirty.

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Speaker 2: All right, go produce. Get in there, John, grab a package.

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Speaker 2: It's about darndam we open it package. We're back in

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Speaker 2: right now.

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Speaker 5: Oh all right, we're getting the package like gentlemen.

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Speaker 6: You see uh Cassandras sent Riley. Oh so he doesn't

552
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Speaker 6: pean in the yard anymore.

553
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Speaker 2: Is that a peak?

554
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Speaker 4: It's a peak container.

555
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Speaker 2: Damn right, sure you get a fit in here. It's

556
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Speaker 2: a tweet tight up my feet.

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Speaker 4: Uh oh, I am seeing something very royal looking. Did

558
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Speaker 4: you see a peak? It is from the wanted only

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Speaker 4: l Sandra.

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00:27:02,080 --> 00:27:06,760
Speaker 2: Yes, it is the crown for the win Queen. I'm guessing.

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Speaker 4: I'm gonna guess. Yeah, this has got to be for you.

562
00:27:10,840 --> 00:27:11,520
Speaker 2: It's got to be for me.

563
00:27:11,600 --> 00:27:14,400
Speaker 4: Give it, give hold, hold on, give it here.

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Speaker 2: I knew you were going to say that. Oh Carolyn, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: Carolyn c with the one hundred dollars tip, almost giving

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Speaker 2: us another thirty minutes. I love you guys. Please find

567
00:27:31,119 --> 00:27:33,320
Speaker 2: me a sugar daddy so I can keep doing it.

568
00:27:34,440 --> 00:27:36,119
Speaker 2: Don't we all do that? Oh?

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Speaker 1: Well, be laid on my give me my crown.

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Speaker 2: I love my Sam. Exclamation points, berfects. Let's cure all

571
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Speaker 2: my subjects.

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Speaker 7: Now is your royalty bound down?

573
00:27:59,040 --> 00:28:03,399
Speaker 2: But are you ready to close out this episode on money?

574
00:28:04,160 --> 00:28:08,399
Speaker 2: Let's go? So am I the a hole for ending

575
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Speaker 2: a friendship because I refuse to pay for their trip?

576
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Speaker 4: Don't do it?

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00:28:14,400 --> 00:28:17,240
Speaker 2: Keep your minds from No Conversation eighteen eighty three, and

578
00:28:17,280 --> 00:28:19,879
Speaker 2: they say, realizing that I had a leech as a friend,

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Speaker 2: and I'm disappointed in myself. Laurie always wants to participate,

580
00:28:24,359 --> 00:28:28,760
Speaker 2: but never contributes ever, and most of the time it

581
00:28:29,000 --> 00:28:32,119
Speaker 2: never really bothered me. Our group of six always contributed

582
00:28:32,200 --> 00:28:35,240
Speaker 2: extra things for like concerts, weekend trips, and so on.

583
00:28:35,400 --> 00:28:37,720
Speaker 2: In high school, it was because Lourie came from a

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Speaker 2: poorer family than the rest of us and wasn't able

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Speaker 2: to get a job due to parentification had four younger siblings,

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Speaker 2: so basically like she had to be the parent ah

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Speaker 2: of her family. Then in college it was because she

588
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Speaker 2: couldn't work and maintain her grades without losing her scholarship.

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00:28:59,520 --> 00:29:02,520
Speaker 2: Now she can't contribute anything because she's struggling financially and

590
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Speaker 2: didn't have the means to save anything. And I got pissed, admittedly,

591
00:29:07,360 --> 00:29:10,520
Speaker 2: because she spends her money in crap ways. I've called

592
00:29:10,560 --> 00:29:14,080
Speaker 2: her the Carrie Bradshaw of the group shout out, Sex

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Speaker 2: in the City my new favorite show. I've been watching it.

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Speaker 2: I've been watching it all day. I love Sex in

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Speaker 2: the City. It is amazing.

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Speaker 1: Carrie Bradshaw IDOL came to me and he said, I

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Speaker 1: think I understand women now, And I said, you only

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Speaker 1: understand a very specific type.

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Speaker 2: Of But you got to start somewhere.

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Speaker 1: You know, I have to balance this day.

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Speaker 4: You know what I understand, Sam. But we just got

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Speaker 4: another round.

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Speaker 2: Are you you know how I had that thick Yeah,

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Speaker 2: she says, with confidence. With confidence, we're gonna read those

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Speaker 2: donations in a little bit. We're gonna keep going. Also,

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Speaker 2: if you watch Sex in the City puts spicy sleep

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Speaker 2: in the comments in the chat.

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Speaker 4: Why not?

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Speaker 2: Why not?

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Speaker 4: So I saw an episode?

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Speaker 2: You saw an episode recently? Which one?

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Speaker 4: The first one?

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Speaker 2: Oh, the very first one. First I started in the

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Speaker 2: midst of season two. That's okay. I do that pretty

615
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Speaker 2: good because he usually season when they're finding their footing.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you gotta get the hot stuff.

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Speaker 2: Anyway, I've called her the Carrie Bradshaw of the Group,

618
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Speaker 2: which wasn't appreciated but is very much true in how

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Speaker 2: she uses her income. We've been planning this trip for

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Speaker 2: four years. We're gonna plan a trip for four years,

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Speaker 2: and it looks like she can't do it. I know,

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Speaker 2: it's awful to look at someone who uh. I know

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Speaker 2: it's awful to look at what someone has and judge

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Speaker 2: their finances. But Laurie is the same person who had

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Speaker 2: no expenses during the pandemic because she was living with

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Speaker 2: me and my great grandmother. She doesn't pay for groceries,

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Speaker 2: was in charge rent, still had her job and was

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Speaker 2: getting hazard pay, so she was getting money and not

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Speaker 2: having expenses. Yeah, Laurie waited until it came time to

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Speaker 2: start paying for everything to say she didn't have it. Sophia,

631
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Speaker 2: we oh we did add the times didn't add thirty minutes.

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Speaker 2: Say yeah we did. We just did we just did it.

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Speaker 1: I did it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah she did it. So basically, they're all trying to

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Speaker 2: plan this trip and now she's backing out last minute

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Speaker 2: because she said she doesn't have the money.

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Speaker 6: People who don't back up the split venmos. That is

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Speaker 6: my greatest pet peeve in the universe.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, agreed, Also tldr HM. She said this to me

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Speaker 2: one on one while we were out shopping for the trip.

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Speaker 2: Her idea, So she was shopping for the trip but

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Speaker 2: couldn't pay for the actual trip. Laurie wanted to go

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Speaker 2: to the stores that weren't cheap. I asked her if

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Speaker 2: she was sure, and she claims she wanted to treat herself.

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Speaker 2: She spent just over thirteen hundred dollars. Oh, and then

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Speaker 2: we go to lunch and she has the nerve tell

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Speaker 2: me she can't afford the trip, a whopping twenty six

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Speaker 2: hundred dollars per person for fifteen days. She spent half

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Speaker 2: the money on one shopping trip.

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Speaker 4: That was completely unnecessary.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, like you could go to Target or something just yeah,

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Speaker 2: or like a store that the store a drift store,

653
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Speaker 2: a thrift store, it's cheap. Yeah, of course I said no.

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Speaker 2: And guess what she brings in the rest of the

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Speaker 2: group two days later, and all of them are on

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Speaker 2: board with splitting her expenses. Translation, they would cover half

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Speaker 2: the cost among them and I'd be stuck with the

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Speaker 2: other half because I make the most money and saying

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Speaker 2: no means I'm the a hole. Calling Laurie out for

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Speaker 2: blowing half of what she'd have to pay for the

661
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Speaker 2: trip on crap she didn't need was too harsh. And

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Speaker 2: uncalled for. They claimed that she deserved to feel good

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Speaker 2: about herself after the life she had, Like I wasn't

664
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Speaker 2: raised by my grandparents and neglected by my parents in

665
00:33:05,440 --> 00:33:08,680
Speaker 2: favor of their step children. Wasn't working through high school

666
00:33:08,760 --> 00:33:12,800
Speaker 2: maintaining my grades to be Valcupatorian, like I wasn't struggling

667
00:33:12,880 --> 00:33:16,480
Speaker 2: until I got a good internship because I had to work.

668
00:33:16,880 --> 00:33:21,080
Speaker 2: Talk about it. Yeah, I'm financially secure now, but why

669
00:33:21,120 --> 00:33:26,240
Speaker 2: the heck should Laurie be rewarded for bad spending habits? Also,

670
00:33:26,280 --> 00:33:30,360
Speaker 2: I think OPI was monologuing about their own history. Oh yeah, yeah,

671
00:33:31,440 --> 00:33:35,000
Speaker 2: if you caught that. Yeah, I'm financially secure now, but

672
00:33:35,240 --> 00:33:38,040
Speaker 2: why the heck would Luri be rewarded for spending bad habits.

673
00:33:38,400 --> 00:33:40,760
Speaker 2: They're all upset now because I told them I'd go

674
00:33:40,880 --> 00:33:43,680
Speaker 2: on a trip by myself. They didn't think I'd cancel

675
00:33:43,760 --> 00:33:46,240
Speaker 2: it and go through with booking a trip for myself.

676
00:33:46,520 --> 00:33:50,120
Speaker 2: It's costing me more, but squill them. They want Laurie

677
00:33:50,160 --> 00:33:52,160
Speaker 2: to go on a trip, they can plan one and

678
00:33:52,240 --> 00:33:59,560
Speaker 2: take her without me. And that is where this initial update.

679
00:33:59,680 --> 00:34:03,560
Speaker 2: And well we have some va gobbits and another big

680
00:34:03,600 --> 00:34:07,240
Speaker 2: old juicy update. But John, what do you think about

681
00:34:07,280 --> 00:34:10,919
Speaker 2: this kind of revenge cancelation.

682
00:34:11,280 --> 00:34:12,279
Speaker 4: I'm not gonna lie h.

683
00:34:12,440 --> 00:34:14,719
Speaker 6: Like I said, the the like people not sending you

684
00:34:14,760 --> 00:34:17,759
Speaker 6: money back my biggest pet peeve, my greatest pet peeve.

685
00:34:19,600 --> 00:34:24,520
Speaker 6: I do agree with, like, hey, this person deserves to

686
00:34:24,600 --> 00:34:27,160
Speaker 6: at least have like a sit down and be like, hey,

687
00:34:27,280 --> 00:34:32,520
Speaker 6: like you you spent all this money.

688
00:34:30,840 --> 00:34:32,560
Speaker 2: Back the stuff that you bought?

689
00:34:32,760 --> 00:34:33,520
Speaker 4: Yeah, take back?

690
00:34:34,400 --> 00:34:37,439
Speaker 6: Yeah, Like like there deserves to be some calling out

691
00:34:37,840 --> 00:34:39,279
Speaker 6: of Uh who is it?

692
00:34:39,280 --> 00:34:43,279
Speaker 2: Lisa was person's name? Uh? The person who is spending

693
00:34:43,360 --> 00:34:45,920
Speaker 2: all this terrible money Laurie. Sorry.

694
00:34:47,400 --> 00:34:52,000
Speaker 4: But also I'm also not an agreement of the move

695
00:34:52,400 --> 00:34:56,600
Speaker 4: of canceling the trip and then doing it solo, because

696
00:34:57,239 --> 00:34:58,759
Speaker 4: at the end of the day, it's like, Okay, if

697
00:34:58,760 --> 00:35:00,520
Speaker 4: that's gonna cost more.

698
00:35:00,480 --> 00:35:02,120
Speaker 2: Can cost more. And it's like, you want to hang

699
00:35:02,160 --> 00:35:03,520
Speaker 2: with the rest of your friends, Are you really going

700
00:35:03,600 --> 00:35:06,160
Speaker 2: to punish yourself and everyone else just to prove a point?

701
00:35:06,160 --> 00:35:07,600
Speaker 2: Like I feel like that's kind of whack.

702
00:35:07,480 --> 00:35:09,319
Speaker 6: That's that's maybe a little a little too far. But

703
00:35:09,360 --> 00:35:12,880
Speaker 6: I definitely agree with with basically holding Laurie accountable.

704
00:35:13,680 --> 00:35:17,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, I And like I feel like the friends shouldn't

705
00:35:17,480 --> 00:35:19,200
Speaker 2: pay for it and they should make her to return

706
00:35:19,280 --> 00:35:21,640
Speaker 2: all the expensive clothes that she got one hundred. At

707
00:35:21,719 --> 00:35:24,920
Speaker 2: least she can minimize the cost that they have to

708
00:35:25,520 --> 00:35:26,200
Speaker 2: help her out.

709
00:35:26,080 --> 00:35:27,400
Speaker 4: With at a bare minimum.

710
00:35:27,440 --> 00:35:29,560
Speaker 6: You ever turn it and then use that thirteen hundred

711
00:35:29,640 --> 00:35:31,839
Speaker 6: for the whole pool, so that way everyone has to

712
00:35:32,440 --> 00:35:34,680
Speaker 6: pay less for it. But honestly sitting down and being like,

713
00:35:35,960 --> 00:35:38,719
Speaker 6: I don't know if this is possible. Maybe maybe you like, hey,

714
00:35:38,760 --> 00:35:40,399
Speaker 6: if you can't pay, like, we'll just have someone else

715
00:35:40,400 --> 00:35:42,000
Speaker 6: hopping the trip round something like that.

716
00:35:42,440 --> 00:35:46,080
Speaker 2: I I don't know, dude, Okay, this is my pet

717
00:35:46,080 --> 00:35:49,920
Speaker 2: Peeve talk to me. So there's this person that we

718
00:35:49,960 --> 00:35:53,760
Speaker 2: met a year ago that you don't I don't think remember.

719
00:35:54,160 --> 00:35:58,400
Speaker 2: They were extreme. They were like extremely wasted when we

720
00:35:58,440 --> 00:36:02,560
Speaker 2: met them at a party. But they're like they were

721
00:36:02,600 --> 00:36:05,759
Speaker 2: getting kicked out of their apartment or something because they

722
00:36:05,840 --> 00:36:08,440
Speaker 2: couldn't come up with the rent or and like like

723
00:36:08,520 --> 00:36:11,719
Speaker 2: on Instagram he's like I need help, Like can someone

724
00:36:11,880 --> 00:36:14,800
Speaker 2: like spot me housing? I met this guy like once,

725
00:36:15,480 --> 00:36:20,239
Speaker 2: all right, the very next post after him being like

726
00:36:20,480 --> 00:36:23,560
Speaker 2: I'm gonna be out on the streets bros at freakin'

727
00:36:23,640 --> 00:36:28,560
Speaker 2: nobu eating out, I'm like, how dumb do you have

728
00:36:28,680 --> 00:36:32,080
Speaker 2: to be to spend all your money at a fancy

729
00:36:32,120 --> 00:36:36,440
Speaker 2: restaurant after not being able to afford rent. I'm I'm like,

730
00:36:36,520 --> 00:36:38,440
Speaker 2: I was pissed. I was pissed.

731
00:36:38,680 --> 00:36:42,040
Speaker 6: I feel like the type of person who deserves the

732
00:36:42,080 --> 00:36:45,320
Speaker 6: money almost like never asks for it, but then like

733
00:36:45,560 --> 00:36:47,520
Speaker 6: or somehow you found out or maybe they do ask

734
00:36:47,560 --> 00:36:49,680
Speaker 6: for it, but in like the most the most.

735
00:36:49,560 --> 00:36:51,000
Speaker 2: Humblest of ye exact.

736
00:36:51,560 --> 00:36:54,600
Speaker 6: And then it's like, Okay, this person, you know is

737
00:36:54,719 --> 00:36:59,359
Speaker 6: way a trillion times more deserving than the person just like, yo,

738
00:36:59,480 --> 00:37:02,040
Speaker 6: can you lie spot me some some money?

739
00:37:02,120 --> 00:37:05,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, dude, Yeah, And and it sounds like Laurie is

740
00:37:05,719 --> 00:37:10,880
Speaker 2: like this, this kind of person is just so irresponsible

741
00:37:10,880 --> 00:37:14,200
Speaker 2: with money because she's just trying to fund a lifestyle

742
00:37:14,320 --> 00:37:16,200
Speaker 2: or a vision of a lifestyle or what she thinks

743
00:37:16,239 --> 00:37:17,719
Speaker 2: like like luxury should be.

744
00:37:17,800 --> 00:37:19,480
Speaker 6: And she's kind of getting away with it too, because

745
00:37:19,640 --> 00:37:22,560
Speaker 6: everyone's like, hey, let's just like take their cost and

746
00:37:22,600 --> 00:37:24,399
Speaker 6: then like split it between the whole group.

747
00:37:24,440 --> 00:37:29,239
Speaker 2: And it's like she's not going to change for the better.

748
00:37:29,280 --> 00:37:32,760
Speaker 2: It's just gonna get worse, you know. So Yeah, I'm

749
00:37:32,960 --> 00:37:36,200
Speaker 2: not not a lot of sympathy for trigger triggered Triggered

750
00:37:36,400 --> 00:37:41,760
Speaker 2: all right, eleven commons though, so Captain Wellington the third says,

751
00:37:41,960 --> 00:37:45,160
Speaker 2: what kind of mental hold does she have on you folks?

752
00:37:45,320 --> 00:37:48,879
Speaker 2: She has some type of professor X type powers. What

753
00:37:48,920 --> 00:37:51,080
Speaker 2: does she bring to the group that allows her to

754
00:37:51,080 --> 00:37:54,919
Speaker 2: move off everyone? That's crazy? He's the personality higher. That's

755
00:37:54,920 --> 00:37:58,440
Speaker 2: why op says it's legitimately just pity. At this point,

756
00:37:58,560 --> 00:38:00,520
Speaker 2: all of them focus heavily on how she had an

757
00:38:00,520 --> 00:38:03,160
Speaker 2: awful life growing up, which I'm not going to discredit

758
00:38:03,520 --> 00:38:06,160
Speaker 2: or's if sucked and the only way she was able

759
00:38:06,200 --> 00:38:09,440
Speaker 2: to do anything with us was if my grandparents watched

760
00:38:09,440 --> 00:38:12,440
Speaker 2: her siblings. But can she seriously use that as an

761
00:38:12,440 --> 00:38:16,280
Speaker 2: excuse to be irresponsible for the rest of her life?

762
00:38:17,360 --> 00:38:20,320
Speaker 2: Like seriously, she blew half the cost of this trip

763
00:38:20,800 --> 00:38:25,160
Speaker 2: in my face, like literally he blew it while they

764
00:38:25,160 --> 00:38:29,680
Speaker 2: were shopping together, insane crazy and then said I can't

765
00:38:29,920 --> 00:38:30,360
Speaker 2: afford it.

766
00:38:30,400 --> 00:38:32,440
Speaker 4: She can't afford it. Immediately right after.

767
00:38:32,760 --> 00:38:35,920
Speaker 2: Wild b three Mark says that that's an expensive leech.

768
00:38:36,760 --> 00:38:39,080
Speaker 2: Glad you finally called her out. Probably should have happened

769
00:38:39,080 --> 00:38:41,520
Speaker 2: a long long time ago. Are the other people aware

770
00:38:41,600 --> 00:38:43,799
Speaker 2: that the moment she asked, well demanded, really you pay

771
00:38:43,840 --> 00:38:46,080
Speaker 2: for a trip she spent half of the trip's costs

772
00:38:46,200 --> 00:38:50,879
Speaker 2: on random stuff a few hours prior. If not, that's

773
00:38:50,920 --> 00:38:53,319
Speaker 2: info they need. If they don't care about that, they

774
00:38:53,400 --> 00:38:56,960
Speaker 2: weren't really your friends either. If you look back at

775
00:38:57,000 --> 00:38:59,000
Speaker 2: the group dynamic, are you the one who usually ends

776
00:38:59,040 --> 00:39:00,840
Speaker 2: up paying a bigger share just because you have a

777
00:39:00,840 --> 00:39:04,080
Speaker 2: better paying job, or did the others contribute equally? And

778
00:39:04,160 --> 00:39:08,000
Speaker 2: Laurie was the only leech? Opie responds. At first, Laurie

779
00:39:08,080 --> 00:39:10,680
Speaker 2: was the only leech, But the ongoing text argument, yeah,

780
00:39:10,760 --> 00:39:13,360
Speaker 2: I've been the one footing a larger share. It wasn't

781
00:39:13,440 --> 00:39:16,160
Speaker 2: obvious at first, But what's expected of me as a

782
00:39:16,200 --> 00:39:22,120
Speaker 2: friend is disproportionate to what's expected of them. And there

783
00:39:22,239 --> 00:39:25,440
Speaker 2: is a thick Josie update, a.

784
00:39:25,520 --> 00:39:28,880
Speaker 4: Quick question, and another juicy update. Oh my many juicy updates.

785
00:39:29,360 --> 00:39:33,760
Speaker 6: I do wonder is this is canceling the trip kind

786
00:39:33,800 --> 00:39:37,640
Speaker 6: of the hammer needed to be dropped for the group

787
00:39:38,080 --> 00:39:40,440
Speaker 6: where it's like, hey, the g's it's not just Lisa,

788
00:39:40,520 --> 00:39:43,680
Speaker 6: it is the group that kind of keeps enabling this

789
00:39:43,840 --> 00:39:45,480
Speaker 6: and ope he's using it to like kind of teach

790
00:39:45,480 --> 00:39:45,920
Speaker 6: a lesson.

791
00:39:46,080 --> 00:39:49,560
Speaker 2: Well, you know what, Actually that's a really good point,

792
00:39:49,600 --> 00:39:53,520
Speaker 2: because yes, Laurie is a problem for sure, Laurie is

793
00:39:53,560 --> 00:39:56,520
Speaker 2: like the person that's sparking all of this, but it's

794
00:39:56,560 --> 00:39:59,960
Speaker 2: really the friend group that's enabling her to continue having

795
00:40:00,200 --> 00:40:04,439
Speaker 2: problem and the friend group that is pushing majority responsibility on.

796
00:40:04,360 --> 00:40:08,080
Speaker 6: OP because it's kind of that classic situation of you know,

797
00:40:08,280 --> 00:40:11,560
Speaker 6: I'll give you one more chance, you know, and oftentimes

798
00:40:12,360 --> 00:40:14,480
Speaker 6: they could end up just been asking you so hard

799
00:40:14,520 --> 00:40:17,640
Speaker 6: in that scenario that you can't really teach the lesson.

800
00:40:17,760 --> 00:40:19,839
Speaker 6: So is OP kind of in this rock and hard

801
00:40:19,840 --> 00:40:24,720
Speaker 6: place of maybe I just like to really hammer home

802
00:40:24,840 --> 00:40:27,959
Speaker 6: the message let me although OPI didn't say that's why.

803
00:40:27,960 --> 00:40:31,120
Speaker 6: I think OPI has petty reasons for it. Yeah, but

804
00:40:31,440 --> 00:40:34,560
Speaker 6: would that be a means of accomplishing sending the message

805
00:40:34,560 --> 00:40:37,359
Speaker 6: to the group of I will not like.

806
00:40:37,320 --> 00:40:41,400
Speaker 2: I don't want to keep funding her bad decisions. I

807
00:40:41,400 --> 00:40:44,680
Speaker 2: think what it looks like is like talking to the

808
00:40:44,760 --> 00:40:47,200
Speaker 2: friends and say, hey, I don't want to keep having

809
00:40:47,280 --> 00:40:53,640
Speaker 2: to major like basically pay the majority of her expenses

810
00:40:54,239 --> 00:40:57,200
Speaker 2: as a result of her bad spending habits. I don't

811
00:40:57,239 --> 00:40:59,319
Speaker 2: want to have to do that, and I don't think

812
00:40:59,560 --> 00:41:03,600
Speaker 2: you should good keep putting the weight on me and

813
00:41:03,680 --> 00:41:07,799
Speaker 2: also on yourselves. Yeah, So have that conversation, then have

814
00:41:08,440 --> 00:41:11,160
Speaker 2: a conversation with Laurie and say, hey, I want you

815
00:41:11,200 --> 00:41:12,799
Speaker 2: to be on this trip. I like hanging out with you,

816
00:41:12,880 --> 00:41:15,560
Speaker 2: but to attend to this trip, I want you to

817
00:41:15,680 --> 00:41:17,960
Speaker 2: sell all of your stuff back. I want you to

818
00:41:18,600 --> 00:41:21,760
Speaker 2: return all of it because the reason you can't afford

819
00:41:21,840 --> 00:41:24,960
Speaker 2: is because you spent so much. If the friends agree

820
00:41:25,320 --> 00:41:28,280
Speaker 2: to not keep supporting her in this way, and Laurie

821
00:41:28,360 --> 00:41:30,840
Speaker 2: agrees to return the stuff, then go on the trip.

822
00:41:31,000 --> 00:41:32,840
Speaker 2: If not, I think, go on the trip kind of

823
00:41:32,840 --> 00:41:34,720
Speaker 2: say like, these are my terms.

824
00:41:35,239 --> 00:41:38,000
Speaker 6: Yeah, and maybe if you just instead of going nuclear

825
00:41:38,040 --> 00:41:39,960
Speaker 6: and canceling it, just sit down and have the talk

826
00:41:40,040 --> 00:41:42,680
Speaker 6: exactly as you discussed it, and then kind of see

827
00:41:42,760 --> 00:41:47,160
Speaker 6: what they do as almost Okay, I gave them a

828
00:41:47,239 --> 00:41:50,480
Speaker 6: very reasonable I didn't go nuclear, gave them like reasonable terms.

829
00:41:50,840 --> 00:41:53,279
Speaker 6: Are they going to step up and you know, kind

830
00:41:53,280 --> 00:41:54,719
Speaker 6: of be good friends and hear me out and act

831
00:41:54,760 --> 00:41:56,279
Speaker 6: upon it, or are they just going to continue to

832
00:41:56,280 --> 00:41:57,759
Speaker 6: do it, which maybe at that point you need to

833
00:41:57,760 --> 00:41:59,440
Speaker 6: reassess if you want to keep hanging out with them.

834
00:41:59,480 --> 00:42:02,600
Speaker 2: Potentially, yeah, but I'm curious what you guys think que

835
00:42:02,600 --> 00:42:06,640
Speaker 2: your answers in the chat. I feel like it's a

836
00:42:06,640 --> 00:42:09,000
Speaker 2: toss up because maybe some people. If you're wealthy enough,

837
00:42:09,040 --> 00:42:10,279
Speaker 2: you're like, all right, I don't care. I'm just gonna

838
00:42:10,280 --> 00:42:12,480
Speaker 2: pay for all my friends. True, but that doesn't see

839
00:42:12,520 --> 00:42:16,880
Speaker 2: what Yeah, it seems to bother ope, But let's see

840
00:42:17,400 --> 00:42:21,600
Speaker 2: what actually happens in these relevant comments before the update.

841
00:42:21,680 --> 00:42:26,080
Speaker 2: Oh no, in the update, actually so seriously, I get

842
00:42:26,120 --> 00:42:29,440
Speaker 2: called mean, selfish, cruel, and a bunch of other insults

843
00:42:29,480 --> 00:42:33,480
Speaker 2: for not bankrolling in idiot's life. Decide to cut contact

844
00:42:33,600 --> 00:42:35,520
Speaker 2: and end the friendship, and now they want me to

845
00:42:35,520 --> 00:42:39,160
Speaker 2: make up. Laurie, the primary leech, has horrible spending habits.

846
00:42:39,400 --> 00:42:43,439
Speaker 2: Think Carrie Bradshaw from Sex and the City. She'll blow

847
00:42:43,480 --> 00:42:46,399
Speaker 2: her money on designer clothing and shoes and then ask

848
00:42:46,440 --> 00:42:48,960
Speaker 2: you to cover her expenses for trips. And the more

849
00:42:49,040 --> 00:42:50,960
Speaker 2: I think about how much money I've wasted on her

850
00:42:50,960 --> 00:42:55,160
Speaker 2: over the years, the angrier I become. Laurie has apparently

851
00:42:55,200 --> 00:42:57,279
Speaker 2: burned more bridges. In the week or so I have

852
00:42:57,320 --> 00:43:01,000
Speaker 2: been no contact. They apparently decided that they can't afford

853
00:43:01,080 --> 00:43:03,000
Speaker 2: to bring Laurie on a similar trip to what I

854
00:43:03,040 --> 00:43:05,480
Speaker 2: had originally planned for us. It was fifteen days split

855
00:43:05,480 --> 00:43:10,520
Speaker 2: between Portugal, Spain and Italy. Great trip. One of the group.

856
00:43:10,680 --> 00:43:14,160
Speaker 2: Jenna went to my grandpa because she couldn't get in

857
00:43:14,200 --> 00:43:17,640
Speaker 2: contact with me. I had blocked all of them, mainly

858
00:43:17,680 --> 00:43:21,359
Speaker 2: because I got sick of arguing. Grandpa told her now

859
00:43:21,560 --> 00:43:25,279
Speaker 2: wasn't a good time, though refused to give her any details.

860
00:43:25,520 --> 00:43:28,680
Speaker 2: She came back four days in a row until he relented.

861
00:43:29,000 --> 00:43:31,880
Speaker 2: He called me for her and gave me the gist

862
00:43:31,920 --> 00:43:34,160
Speaker 2: of things before I told him to send her to

863
00:43:34,200 --> 00:43:36,680
Speaker 2: the coffee shop. I was at a post for another

864
00:43:36,719 --> 00:43:39,919
Speaker 2: day because I'm still processing the meeting and know I'll

865
00:43:40,000 --> 00:43:44,000
Speaker 2: need to vent about it, so Jenna one of the group.

866
00:43:44,040 --> 00:43:47,160
Speaker 2: The meeting with Jenna went to hell and I ambasco boy.

867
00:43:47,200 --> 00:43:49,399
Speaker 2: He started telling me the group had planned a new

868
00:43:49,440 --> 00:43:51,719
Speaker 2: trip and she knows I'm mad, but canceling on them

869
00:43:52,000 --> 00:43:55,040
Speaker 2: and not sharing the agency was really cruel. They found

870
00:43:55,080 --> 00:43:58,360
Speaker 2: an agency to travel through, but to keep the time

871
00:43:58,480 --> 00:44:00,560
Speaker 2: they had off work, which mean means they have to

872
00:44:00,560 --> 00:44:03,800
Speaker 2: pay more cheap as they could get was four thousand

873
00:44:03,880 --> 00:44:08,280
Speaker 2: a person before it was twenty six hundred four thousand

874
00:44:08,360 --> 00:44:11,960
Speaker 2: a person, big increase. I didn't respond mainly because yes,

875
00:44:12,120 --> 00:44:14,160
Speaker 2: she continued to blame me for their crap, like it

876
00:44:14,239 --> 00:44:17,719
Speaker 2: wasn't their fault. I canceled and stopped talking to them.

877
00:44:18,000 --> 00:44:20,480
Speaker 2: When I told her it was their fault, Jenna agreed

878
00:44:21,160 --> 00:44:25,840
Speaker 2: that it was. She revealed that they tried to talk

879
00:44:26,200 --> 00:44:29,120
Speaker 2: to Laurie into returning everything she brought, which is one

880
00:44:29,160 --> 00:44:31,960
Speaker 2: of the things that we saidep but in her words,

881
00:44:32,560 --> 00:44:36,400
Speaker 2: they can't afford half the things I can. Jenna personally

882
00:44:36,400 --> 00:44:39,480
Speaker 2: believes that Laurie's need for designer things is because of me.

883
00:44:40,120 --> 00:44:42,960
Speaker 2: I didn't snap immediately at this and let her ramble

884
00:44:43,040 --> 00:44:46,480
Speaker 2: on about it. Quote, I know you don't notice it,

885
00:44:46,560 --> 00:44:49,200
Speaker 2: but you're always wearing nice things and spending money on

886
00:44:49,320 --> 00:44:52,760
Speaker 2: nice places. You're always buying expensive makeup, getting your nails

887
00:44:52,760 --> 00:44:55,560
Speaker 2: and your hair done. She just wants that lifestyle too,

888
00:44:55,880 --> 00:44:59,640
Speaker 2: and it's like you're rubbing it in her face. All

889
00:44:59,680 --> 00:45:04,359
Speaker 2: of us are at fault, which is a crazy thing

890
00:45:04,400 --> 00:45:04,759
Speaker 2: to say.

891
00:45:05,000 --> 00:45:09,040
Speaker 6: Yeah, Like, just because you buy yourself nice things doesn't

892
00:45:09,080 --> 00:45:14,200
Speaker 6: mean you're like, ah, I am forcing you into my

893
00:45:14,200 --> 00:45:15,680
Speaker 6: my spending clutches.

894
00:45:15,840 --> 00:45:19,680
Speaker 2: Like yeah, like I have a little self control. Yeah,

895
00:45:20,880 --> 00:45:23,360
Speaker 2: I mean just because people around you are doing a

896
00:45:23,360 --> 00:45:25,520
Speaker 2: certain thing doesn't mean you should do it. You should

897
00:45:25,600 --> 00:45:31,479
Speaker 2: do what is right for your body and your wallets. Amen, brother, Amen, brother, well,

898
00:45:31,840 --> 00:45:33,880
Speaker 2: when I told her it was their fault, jenneral agreed

899
00:45:33,920 --> 00:45:34,440
Speaker 2: that it was.

900
00:45:36,040 --> 00:45:36,719
Speaker 4: Anyway.

901
00:45:37,040 --> 00:45:41,239
Speaker 2: And yes, I do spend money on those things. But

902
00:45:41,360 --> 00:45:44,080
Speaker 2: as Lauri, but as I told Laurie and now Jenna,

903
00:45:44,640 --> 00:45:49,280
Speaker 2: I can afford that lifestyle. I budget for those things.

904
00:45:49,560 --> 00:45:52,120
Speaker 2: I thrift shop. A good number of my nice things

905
00:45:52,800 --> 00:45:54,880
Speaker 2: I thrift shop, and a good number of my nice

906
00:45:54,920 --> 00:45:58,040
Speaker 2: things are secondhand. Yes, I put a lot of effort

907
00:45:58,040 --> 00:46:01,200
Speaker 2: into my appearance, but I also live below my means.

908
00:46:01,560 --> 00:46:04,719
Speaker 2: I live in the house my great grandmother owns outright

909
00:46:04,760 --> 00:46:08,520
Speaker 2: and pay utilities, shop and bulk and local markets for food,

910
00:46:08,560 --> 00:46:12,000
Speaker 2: and have good insurance that covers great Grandma's medical expenses.

911
00:46:12,480 --> 00:46:15,040
Speaker 2: I again thrift from my nicer things, or save for

912
00:46:15,120 --> 00:46:17,799
Speaker 2: them or wait for a sale. I have enough in

913
00:46:17,880 --> 00:46:21,719
Speaker 2: my lost my job savings account to last a year. Yes,

914
00:46:22,080 --> 00:46:24,920
Speaker 2: I have a saving account just for that, and continue

915
00:46:24,960 --> 00:46:29,000
Speaker 2: to add to it from every paycheck. Everyone that knows

916
00:46:29,040 --> 00:46:32,200
Speaker 2: me is aware of how I can afford what I afford.

917
00:46:32,560 --> 00:46:34,600
Speaker 2: I don't make an effort to hide this. However, it

918
00:46:34,680 --> 00:46:37,520
Speaker 2: is not my fault Laurie refuses to be smart with

919
00:46:37,560 --> 00:46:40,759
Speaker 2: her spending. I said all this to Jenna, and she

920
00:46:40,880 --> 00:46:44,480
Speaker 2: had the nerve to cry like a little whining baby.

921
00:46:45,680 --> 00:46:48,120
Speaker 2: She says, not everyone can have that type of security,

922
00:46:48,160 --> 00:46:51,080
Speaker 2: and unlike me, they can't afford a last minute trip,

923
00:46:51,120 --> 00:46:55,360
Speaker 2: and Laurie especially couldn't. I cut her off when she

924
00:46:55,480 --> 00:46:59,239
Speaker 2: started on Lorie's sad childhood and just let her have it.

925
00:46:59,440 --> 00:47:02,400
Speaker 2: I told her she was fixated on my finances and lifestyle,

926
00:47:02,480 --> 00:47:04,520
Speaker 2: but that wasn't my fault. She and the rest of

927
00:47:04,560 --> 00:47:08,880
Speaker 2: the group all have decent careers. They all had better

928
00:47:08,920 --> 00:47:11,719
Speaker 2: safetiness than I did, and it made them complacent. I

929
00:47:11,760 --> 00:47:14,120
Speaker 2: didn't have that. Yes, I was middle class growing up,

930
00:47:14,320 --> 00:47:18,880
Speaker 2: but I wasn't well off as them. Miranda's the redhead

931
00:47:18,880 --> 00:47:20,359
Speaker 2: and Sex and the City, right, sofya.

932
00:47:20,520 --> 00:47:23,360
Speaker 1: I haven't seen Sex in the City.

933
00:47:23,520 --> 00:47:23,799
Speaker 2: You haven't.

934
00:47:24,360 --> 00:47:27,280
Speaker 4: I haven't seen as a resident expert, Sophia Donna.

935
00:47:27,600 --> 00:47:28,800
Speaker 2: Who's the one that's a lawyer?

936
00:47:29,640 --> 00:47:33,800
Speaker 1: I think mid old like I think is Miranda.

937
00:47:34,640 --> 00:47:38,239
Speaker 2: That's Samantha. The cougar is Samantha. Yeah, Marian, older lawyer lady.

938
00:47:38,680 --> 00:47:40,640
Speaker 2: It sounds like op is Miranda.

939
00:47:40,680 --> 00:47:42,400
Speaker 1: The only thing I've bout know about Sex and the

940
00:47:42,440 --> 00:47:45,040
Speaker 1: City are from the very limited clips I've seen on TikTok.

941
00:47:45,640 --> 00:47:48,399
Speaker 2: It's great and the Carry Diaries. It's great, but yeah,

942
00:47:48,400 --> 00:47:50,200
Speaker 2: I feel like Miranda and Sex and the City is

943
00:47:50,239 --> 00:47:52,400
Speaker 2: a lawyer and she's like, why am I being punished

944
00:47:52,719 --> 00:47:56,759
Speaker 2: for being rich and successful? Because like, these guys who

945
00:47:56,760 --> 00:47:59,239
Speaker 2: are more poorer than her won't want to date her

946
00:47:59,280 --> 00:48:01,919
Speaker 2: because they feel insecure that she makes more money than him.

947
00:48:02,200 --> 00:48:04,920
Speaker 2: And it's like, it's not her fault that she's making

948
00:48:04,920 --> 00:48:05,800
Speaker 2: these guys insecure.

949
00:48:06,800 --> 00:48:08,839
Speaker 4: But these idiots, they could be catching the bag.

950
00:48:09,320 --> 00:48:13,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, they could. They could have been hooked up, like

951
00:48:13,239 --> 00:48:15,680
Speaker 2: in the last story where you get you inherit a

952
00:48:15,960 --> 00:48:19,279
Speaker 2: millions of dollars nice, it would have been great.

953
00:48:19,800 --> 00:48:21,280
Speaker 4: Love millions of dollars inherited.

954
00:48:21,520 --> 00:48:28,440
Speaker 2: We love that. So yes, I had a grandpa that

955
00:48:28,480 --> 00:48:30,960
Speaker 2: would spoil me, but it wasn't to the extent they think.

956
00:48:31,000 --> 00:48:33,200
Speaker 2: I still drive as old in Paula. I had been

957
00:48:33,239 --> 00:48:34,839
Speaker 2: the first to get a car in a group right

958
00:48:34,920 --> 00:48:37,480
Speaker 2: because his eyesight was going bad. He couldn't drive me

959
00:48:37,520 --> 00:48:41,080
Speaker 2: around like their parents did. And don't get me, don't

960
00:48:41,080 --> 00:48:44,080
Speaker 2: get me started on college itself. Laurie had a financial

961
00:48:44,080 --> 00:48:47,120
Speaker 2: aid packet because she was poor. Jenna and the rest

962
00:48:47,160 --> 00:48:49,239
Speaker 2: of the family that could pay off their tuition and

963
00:48:49,280 --> 00:48:52,279
Speaker 2: living cost and I barely got anything aid wise, and

964
00:48:52,400 --> 00:48:55,480
Speaker 2: had to work because my grandparents couldn't afford it, and

965
00:48:55,520 --> 00:49:00,880
Speaker 2: my parents refuse to acknowledge me. Dang. If I hadn't

966
00:49:00,960 --> 00:49:03,800
Speaker 2: landed an internship turned career that paid off my education,

967
00:49:04,239 --> 00:49:06,960
Speaker 2: i'd still be in debt. Jenna kept crying, and I

968
00:49:07,040 --> 00:49:14,400
Speaker 2: told her stop stop that. Stop that baby crap I threw.

969
00:49:15,880 --> 00:49:18,920
Speaker 2: I threw her getting cut off by her parents in

970
00:49:18,920 --> 00:49:22,360
Speaker 2: her face. Oh man. I told her that it was

971
00:49:22,400 --> 00:49:26,160
Speaker 2: because she's a financial leech, just like Laurie, and that

972
00:49:26,360 --> 00:49:29,719
Speaker 2: was her problem. Damn. I'm sick of them acting like

973
00:49:29,840 --> 00:49:33,080
Speaker 2: I'm the problem, and I was done listening to her

974
00:49:33,160 --> 00:49:36,320
Speaker 2: efforts to villainize me. Rather than whining. Maybe she should

975
00:49:36,320 --> 00:49:39,000
Speaker 2: think about why her parents cut her off and why

976
00:49:39,440 --> 00:49:43,080
Speaker 2: I am also cutting her off, because she likes to

977
00:49:43,080 --> 00:49:47,600
Speaker 2: blame everyone and everything for her failures. I shouldn't have

978
00:49:47,600 --> 00:49:50,440
Speaker 2: said it, but I did. You got kicked out for

979
00:49:50,520 --> 00:49:54,880
Speaker 2: stealing someone's essay. You wasted their money, and I'm damn

980
00:49:54,960 --> 00:49:58,279
Speaker 2: sure you won't waste mine. Grow the f up and

981
00:49:58,400 --> 00:50:02,920
Speaker 2: don't ever bother my family again. Then I left her

982
00:50:02,920 --> 00:50:07,720
Speaker 2: there crying, sobbing on the floor. Not my finest moment,

983
00:50:08,120 --> 00:50:11,320
Speaker 2: but seriously, what the actual hell is wrong with people?

984
00:50:12,719 --> 00:50:17,240
Speaker 2: And there is another comment and another update. But John,

985
00:50:17,880 --> 00:50:24,280
Speaker 2: it seems like something you would do me me. I'm kidding.

986
00:50:24,320 --> 00:50:27,560
Speaker 2: John's nicest person. No way, Yeah, I mean this is

987
00:50:30,560 --> 00:50:33,080
Speaker 2: you wing crazy? Oh man?

988
00:50:33,320 --> 00:50:34,399
Speaker 4: I mean that was a lot.

989
00:50:34,600 --> 00:50:39,560
Speaker 2: No, that was too much. Yeah, I.

990
00:50:41,120 --> 00:50:41,880
Speaker 4: Let me ask you this.

991
00:50:41,960 --> 00:50:44,960
Speaker 6: Do you feel like everyone's kind of the ahole at

992
00:50:45,040 --> 00:50:47,799
Speaker 6: least a little bit here? That's kind of what I'm

993
00:50:47,800 --> 00:50:50,879
Speaker 6: feeling as of right now. Op went way too hard.

994
00:50:51,000 --> 00:50:53,080
Speaker 6: Op went way too hard. Op was the a hole

995
00:50:53,120 --> 00:50:55,880
Speaker 6: for like saying all that stuff, like, I don't know

996
00:50:55,920 --> 00:51:02,200
Speaker 6: if it's that deep, especially if OP is it's just.

997
00:51:02,200 --> 00:51:05,120
Speaker 2: That there's LICs, dude, there's chappahl Is that don't know

998
00:51:05,120 --> 00:51:07,319
Speaker 2: how to manage their money. Yeah deep, Yeah, I don't

999
00:51:07,320 --> 00:51:08,040
Speaker 2: know if it's that deep.

1000
00:51:08,120 --> 00:51:11,160
Speaker 6: For OP did not have to go, especially when she

1001
00:51:11,280 --> 00:51:13,600
Speaker 6: was crying, like, I don't know, that was way too hard.

1002
00:51:13,640 --> 00:51:16,880
Speaker 6: And then but I do some points that OP was making,

1003
00:51:16,960 --> 00:51:21,719
Speaker 6: like where she was saying like basically, oh, we all

1004
00:51:21,760 --> 00:51:23,680
Speaker 6: share a faults in this and oh, you flaunt your

1005
00:51:23,680 --> 00:51:24,480
Speaker 6: fancy lifestyle.

1006
00:51:24,480 --> 00:51:26,879
Speaker 2: It's like that's whack, that's whack. I don't think Op

1007
00:51:27,040 --> 00:51:27,880
Speaker 2: did anything wrong.

1008
00:51:30,000 --> 00:51:34,440
Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, I could say I think OP was like

1009
00:51:34,560 --> 00:51:38,040
Speaker 6: kind of going like a maybe a little hard in

1010
00:51:38,080 --> 00:51:41,920
Speaker 6: the earlier exchanges, but it wasn't like it wasn't like

1011
00:51:41,960 --> 00:51:43,240
Speaker 6: too over the line or anything.

1012
00:51:43,520 --> 00:51:44,240
Speaker 2: And then this.

1013
00:51:44,239 --> 00:51:46,680
Speaker 6: Op just like blew the lid off of it and

1014
00:51:46,760 --> 00:51:48,960
Speaker 6: just went absolutely bananas.

1015
00:51:49,520 --> 00:51:52,840
Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, I feel like everyone's an a hole at

1016
00:51:52,920 --> 00:51:56,040
Speaker 2: least a little bit. Yeah, I mean, like Laurie's so

1017
00:51:56,040 --> 00:51:58,600
Speaker 2: so just going through. Luri's the ahole for being a

1018
00:51:58,600 --> 00:52:01,760
Speaker 2: financial leach, spending money that she doesn't have on things

1019
00:52:01,760 --> 00:52:04,280
Speaker 2: that she doesn't need so she can so she can't

1020
00:52:04,320 --> 00:52:09,479
Speaker 2: go on on events and plans that she committed to. Then,

1021
00:52:09,800 --> 00:52:12,239
Speaker 2: so that's why Laurie is the a hole. And then

1022
00:52:12,280 --> 00:52:16,480
Speaker 2: we have Jenna, who's the a hole because she is

1023
00:52:16,800 --> 00:52:22,160
Speaker 2: the one basically supporting Laurie's bad decisions, making it so

1024
00:52:24,280 --> 00:52:26,880
Speaker 2: Laurie can keep making those bad decisions and then placing

1025
00:52:27,000 --> 00:52:30,759
Speaker 2: blame on Op for Laurie's mishaps, and then Laurie is

1026
00:52:30,760 --> 00:52:35,360
Speaker 2: like no better, it feels like then or Jenna's no

1027
00:52:35,400 --> 00:52:38,000
Speaker 2: better than Laurie for that for that reason, and then

1028
00:52:38,080 --> 00:52:42,600
Speaker 2: OP was fine until she just went off and like

1029
00:52:42,880 --> 00:52:47,759
Speaker 2: insulted the childhood and every like everything. Yeah, just I

1030
00:52:47,800 --> 00:52:51,760
Speaker 2: think it was too far but so far ninety five

1031
00:52:51,880 --> 00:52:56,480
Speaker 2: percent of audience says it was not too far. Who

1032
00:52:57,760 --> 00:53:01,440
Speaker 2: puffing off? Oh my god. Well, but think about how

1033
00:53:01,560 --> 00:53:07,319
Speaker 2: mean they are to us sometimes they do they do

1034
00:53:07,400 --> 00:53:13,800
Speaker 2: be they do mean sometimes. So that's crazy, so funny

1035
00:53:13,800 --> 00:53:16,439
Speaker 2: you think that was it that they're like, nah.

1036
00:53:16,400 --> 00:53:21,239
Speaker 6: This might be the strongest example of us and the

1037
00:53:21,320 --> 00:53:24,680
Speaker 6: audience disagreeing on something that's insane, because I don't remember

1038
00:53:24,719 --> 00:53:27,720
Speaker 6: another time where we've disagreed, and it was ninety ninety

1039
00:53:27,760 --> 00:53:30,879
Speaker 6: seven ninety five percent, like over ninety five or ninety five.

1040
00:53:30,920 --> 00:53:33,680
Speaker 2: We had something like during the outdoor stream that was

1041
00:53:33,760 --> 00:53:37,359
Speaker 2: like that right right, Yeah, well now it's mister says

1042
00:53:37,360 --> 00:53:41,040
Speaker 2: one hundred percent valid response. Friend needed to know the truth,

1043
00:53:41,280 --> 00:53:44,560
Speaker 2: but it wasn't it like like there's a difference between

1044
00:53:44,600 --> 00:53:48,680
Speaker 2: the truth and just savagery has killed me. Yeah, you're

1045
00:53:48,680 --> 00:53:49,640
Speaker 2: aage savagery.

1046
00:53:49,880 --> 00:53:53,080
Speaker 4: Yeah, y'all are vidicted.

1047
00:53:55,120 --> 00:53:59,839
Speaker 2: I am. I am scared. Scared y'all, y'all will come

1048
00:54:00,120 --> 00:54:06,120
Speaker 2: after us. Oh, Death says yeah. Death says not far enough,

1049
00:54:06,480 --> 00:54:11,400
Speaker 2: not far enough, that is. Peggy says, f around and

1050
00:54:11,480 --> 00:54:15,120
Speaker 2: find out. I go click Death go, click Death go

1051
00:54:15,160 --> 00:54:21,160
Speaker 2: click death not far enough from death? Peggy f around

1052
00:54:21,440 --> 00:54:24,440
Speaker 2: find out. I don't want to find out, really mean John.

1053
00:54:24,480 --> 00:54:28,720
Speaker 2: Also there is another there's another updated. Oh my god,

1054
00:54:28,880 --> 00:54:30,200
Speaker 2: there's another us.

1055
00:54:30,200 --> 00:54:31,760
Speaker 4: This friend group just needs to stop.

1056
00:54:32,000 --> 00:54:36,839
Speaker 2: We are not done. We are not done. All right,

1057
00:54:37,440 --> 00:54:45,000
Speaker 2: y'all are crazy? Ninety four percent say nah, I'm Ozzie

1058
00:54:45,040 --> 00:54:47,280
Speaker 2: girl in art shop. Death not far enough?

1059
00:54:47,920 --> 00:54:52,360
Speaker 6: Scroll up a little bit. Uh came right there, Carista

1060
00:54:52,520 --> 00:54:55,799
Speaker 6: crystallin for the wind. Op left that frustration build up

1061
00:54:55,840 --> 00:54:57,759
Speaker 6: for too long and let all the anger come out

1062
00:54:57,840 --> 00:54:59,720
Speaker 6: in one catastrophic blow.

1063
00:55:00,120 --> 00:55:03,600
Speaker 2: See I agree, it's a catastrophic blow, which it's not necessary.

1064
00:55:03,719 --> 00:55:05,279
Speaker 4: Yeah, like it kind of just built up.

1065
00:55:05,480 --> 00:55:09,040
Speaker 6: It seemed like Opie was voicing themselves, but maybe it

1066
00:55:09,080 --> 00:55:11,280
Speaker 6: was just like, yeah, it just kind of still kept

1067
00:55:11,280 --> 00:55:14,440
Speaker 6: building and building, and yeah, yeah it seems like.

1068
00:55:15,120 --> 00:55:18,120
Speaker 2: Also Riley idea, what if we made the TLDR look

1069
00:55:18,200 --> 00:55:22,080
Speaker 2: more like the chat? I love that chat. Also, w

1070
00:55:22,239 --> 00:55:24,959
Speaker 2: 's in the chat for Riley. Riley built the thing

1071
00:55:25,440 --> 00:55:28,560
Speaker 2: with a mo about when he clicks a comment, it

1072
00:55:28,560 --> 00:55:29,520
Speaker 2: shows up on screen.

1073
00:55:29,600 --> 00:55:30,280
Speaker 4: It's so great.

1074
00:55:30,360 --> 00:55:34,440
Speaker 2: It looks so good. It's pretty good. Uh oh, it

1075
00:55:34,520 --> 00:55:39,240
Speaker 2: looks so good. Shout out Riley w's in the chat for.

1076
00:55:40,360 --> 00:55:42,040
Speaker 3: We were gonna like, come on, come back on.

1077
00:55:43,640 --> 00:55:44,279
Speaker 2: What are we gonna do?

1078
00:55:46,239 --> 00:55:48,600
Speaker 4: You can tell us and we'll express reactively.

1079
00:55:49,680 --> 00:55:53,839
Speaker 3: So we were going to like change up the change

1080
00:55:53,880 --> 00:55:55,200
Speaker 3: it up a little bit. But I think it looks

1081
00:55:55,239 --> 00:55:56,560
Speaker 3: I think it looks super clean, that.

1082
00:55:57,160 --> 00:55:59,880
Speaker 2: It looks so good. I honestly want the t l

1083
00:56:00,239 --> 00:56:02,200
Speaker 2: R to be removed and just have it in that

1084
00:56:02,400 --> 00:56:05,800
Speaker 2: other Okay, we'll talk about it. We'll talk about it. Also,

1085
00:56:05,920 --> 00:56:09,320
Speaker 2: question question to y'all that are here, does anyone read

1086
00:56:09,360 --> 00:56:12,760
Speaker 2: the TLDR that we have up there? Like, does anyone

1087
00:56:12,800 --> 00:56:15,560
Speaker 2: read that? I don't. I'm not sure if anyone does,

1088
00:56:15,719 --> 00:56:18,000
Speaker 2: let us know. Let us know, because I would I

1089
00:56:18,000 --> 00:56:22,640
Speaker 2: would love to understand your inner thoughts and feelings. But

1090
00:56:23,239 --> 00:56:28,680
Speaker 2: we do have a final comment from OP and an update.

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Speaker 4: Get it all right?

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Speaker 2: So final comment from OP. Everyone that knows me is

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Speaker 2: aware of how I can afford what I afford. I

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Speaker 2: don't make an effort to hide this. I'm a firm

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Speaker 2: believer in financial health and wellness. I having a good

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Speaker 2: relationship with money, knowing how to live within your means,

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Speaker 2: et cetera. I don't preach about it and answer questions

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Speaker 2: my friends have asked me honestly, because I think some

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Speaker 2: level of transparency is good. When they ask me how

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Speaker 2: I could afford this or that, I tell them how

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Speaker 2: I got it, which is almost always through sifting or

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Speaker 2: sales or some kind of deal. If they ask me

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Speaker 2: for advice, I get it to them and encourage them

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Speaker 2: to talk to others too, because everyone's situation isn't the same,

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Speaker 2: and I know it comes off like all they do

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Speaker 2: is talk about money. But prior to all this, them

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Speaker 2: asking or talking about money was far and few and

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Speaker 2: far in between, sans the occasional weekend trip. Oh Riley,

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Speaker 2: we do a poll? Do we use the TLDR or not?

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Speaker 4: Oh do a pool for that?

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00:57:24,440 --> 00:57:30,280
Speaker 2: Yeah? So basically like OP is like we there is more.

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Speaker 2: There is now more financial transparency, but there really hasn't

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Speaker 2: been before. But they believe in financial transparency or I

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Speaker 2: guess no, no, no, there there is no, OP says there.

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Speaker 2: They have been financially transparent with a friend, but money

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Speaker 2: doesn't talk up that much. Money. Money doesn't come up

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Speaker 2: that much.

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Speaker 6: So they were like transparent about their own finances, but

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Speaker 6: they didn't have a.

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Speaker 2: Like if any of their friends ever had any questions

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Speaker 2: about where they got something or how they afforded it.

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00:58:00,960 --> 00:58:04,840
Speaker 2: Op would be very open about how that came to be,

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Speaker 2: but often finances and stuff didn't show up a ton

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Speaker 2: in their friendship. Like it wasn't like a thing that

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Speaker 2: was talked about. It.

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Speaker 4: I got you whenever it came up, she answered it.

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Speaker 2: But it wasn't a big thing. Yeah, but one final update,

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Speaker 2: so seriously, I blocked their daughter nearly two weeks ago.

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Speaker 2: Oh okay. Of my former group, there's Carly. Her parents

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00:58:34,920 --> 00:58:38,360
Speaker 2: were always the overly involved sorts growing up. It was

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00:58:38,400 --> 00:58:40,960
Speaker 2: a major point of contention. People didn't invite her to

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00:58:40,960 --> 00:58:44,680
Speaker 2: things because her mom would call or text every few hours.

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Speaker 2: Overnight trips were the worst, and birthday parties were intolerable.

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Speaker 2: Think smothered where it's not a party just for the

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00:58:51,720 --> 00:58:54,240
Speaker 2: daughter but shared by the mother and turned into an

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Speaker 2: entire twin events. The only reason our group stuck through

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Speaker 2: it was because it was easy to talk to her

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Speaker 2: mind Karen into being our chaperone, and even then she

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00:59:03,600 --> 00:59:05,640
Speaker 2: was always trying to be one of the girls. And

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Speaker 2: even back then it was two bunch of times. Carly

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00:59:08,880 --> 00:59:12,440
Speaker 2: is twenty six. Now, why is her mother calling me

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Speaker 2: crying about how I hurt her. Karen cutting off Carly

1143
00:59:17,560 --> 00:59:20,560
Speaker 2: has hurt her mother's feelings so much so that she

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00:59:20,680 --> 00:59:23,600
Speaker 2: claims she's been crying every time she thinks of me

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00:59:24,000 --> 00:59:27,160
Speaker 2: and how much I mean to them. Karen is adamant

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00:59:27,280 --> 00:59:29,720
Speaker 2: that I'm her friend too, but I barely interacted with

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Speaker 2: her outside of Carly. Carly is another girl in the

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00:59:32,560 --> 00:59:36,440
Speaker 2: girl group. It's just weirding me out how attached this

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00:59:36,520 --> 00:59:39,960
Speaker 2: woman is to me. Her being old enough to be

1150
00:59:40,000 --> 00:59:42,320
Speaker 2: my mother isn't the issue. I have friends her age

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00:59:42,320 --> 00:59:45,360
Speaker 2: and older, but we're not friends. I've occasionally spoken to

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00:59:45,400 --> 00:59:47,960
Speaker 2: her without Carly being involved, yes, and prior to cutting

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00:59:48,000 --> 00:59:51,120
Speaker 2: Carly off, Karen didn't text me every so often, but

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00:59:51,200 --> 00:59:54,720
Speaker 2: I never spent time with her. The way her crying

1155
00:59:54,720 --> 00:59:57,560
Speaker 2: over burnt bridges gives off and I tried my best

1156
00:59:57,600 --> 01:00:00,280
Speaker 2: to be nice, but come on, we're not friends. Off

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Speaker 2: Carly because I've come to realize and accept that she

1158
01:00:02,920 --> 01:00:05,200
Speaker 2: was not a good friend to me. Karen texted me

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01:00:05,240 --> 01:00:08,480
Speaker 2: a paragraph about all the time we spent together and

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01:00:08,520 --> 01:00:12,480
Speaker 2: I'm just uncomfortable, so I blocked her. These friendship moments

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01:00:12,520 --> 01:00:15,120
Speaker 2: she's claiming were moments I share with Carly, not her,

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Speaker 2: and more than that, those same moments made me realize

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01:00:17,640 --> 01:00:20,960
Speaker 2: that all of my friends from high school suck. Not

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01:00:21,120 --> 01:00:23,760
Speaker 2: one major life event Karen brought up had me on

1165
01:00:23,800 --> 01:00:27,280
Speaker 2: the receiving end, like, has Carly ever done something nice

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01:00:27,280 --> 01:00:30,480
Speaker 2: for me that wasn't her mom giving her credit? The

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01:00:30,560 --> 01:00:35,920
Speaker 2: answer is no, and that is where this story ends.

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Speaker 4: Wow.

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Speaker 6: You know, I feel like, probably ope and all of

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01:00:42,000 --> 01:00:44,040
Speaker 6: these people going their separate ways is.

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Speaker 2: For the best. I agree what I'm feeling. I agree. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I mean I'm not really in touch with many of

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Speaker 2: my high school friends as most.

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Speaker 4: Of them there you go.

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Speaker 2: I think they've grown since then, but in high school

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01:00:57,720 --> 01:00:58,560
Speaker 2: they were not great.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, you're not your definitely not obligated to be friends

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01:01:02,320 --> 01:01:04,360
Speaker 6: with people that you knew from back when because you

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01:01:04,440 --> 01:01:06,320
Speaker 6: know them from back when, and.

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Speaker 2: Except for Christian, except for Christian, shout out, honey baby,

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01:01:11,240 --> 01:01:12,160
Speaker 2: honey baby.

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Speaker 6: But I think that, like the one good thing I

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01:01:16,360 --> 01:01:20,720
Speaker 6: think that op did recognize is like, hey, this group

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01:01:20,800 --> 01:01:24,880
Speaker 6: friendship dynamic just simply isn't working and it's gonna be.

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01:01:25,280 --> 01:01:25,959
Speaker 4: It's just best.

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01:01:26,040 --> 01:01:29,560
Speaker 6: Like the the mom of the friend that was like

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01:01:29,720 --> 01:01:31,840
Speaker 6: calling her and like that'd be weird. You've only like

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01:01:32,480 --> 01:01:35,440
Speaker 6: interactive with someone a few times, who's really which is

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01:01:35,480 --> 01:01:38,360
Speaker 6: fine with like the mom of your friend really and

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01:01:38,360 --> 01:01:39,840
Speaker 6: then she's like calling you crying.

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01:01:39,720 --> 01:01:44,800
Speaker 2: Giving in uh mean girls the mom that hangs out.

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01:01:44,640 --> 01:01:47,720
Speaker 4: With right let Leslie no, uh.

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01:01:48,040 --> 01:01:52,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, Leslie no? Rick? What Regina George George's mom. Yeah,

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01:01:52,600 --> 01:01:55,560
Speaker 2: I'm all of my girl references are coming out today,

1195
01:01:55,720 --> 01:01:58,840
Speaker 2: just going strong. Yeah.

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01:02:00,240 --> 01:02:03,040
Speaker 6: But yeah, I think op did ultimately make the right call,

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01:02:03,080 --> 01:02:04,400
Speaker 6: And I think this is going to be the best

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01:02:04,440 --> 01:02:06,720
Speaker 6: for everyone because I think there'll there would be nothing

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Speaker 6: but more confrontation issues in this frame.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. If OPC, yeah, just sounds like they were trying

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01:02:12,480 --> 01:02:16,560
Speaker 2: to leach off her money, honestly. Yeah, but you know

1202
01:02:16,600 --> 01:02:20,360
Speaker 2: what I want to leach off of what John's next story.

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01:02:20,440 --> 01:02:23,000
Speaker 2: But before we do that, we got some don't know.

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01:02:24,440 --> 01:02:27,440
Speaker 6: Shout out to Jojo for if I X. Thanks for

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01:02:27,480 --> 01:02:29,720
Speaker 6: the ten buck tip on the DNA link. Happy to

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01:02:29,720 --> 01:02:32,240
Speaker 6: see the live is still going. That's freaking ride, Jojo.

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01:02:32,520 --> 01:02:34,200
Speaker 2: And it's going to go for thirty minutes more.

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01:02:34,360 --> 01:02:35,000
Speaker 4: That's right.

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01:02:35,320 --> 01:02:37,680
Speaker 6: We hell, we hit it, well, we hit it. Let's

1210
01:02:37,680 --> 01:02:40,960
Speaker 6: freaking go. Foxy Cat thanks for the two bucks. If

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01:02:41,000 --> 01:02:44,240
Speaker 6: anyone wants to talk, Mini's chat with me on discord

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01:02:44,560 --> 01:02:47,880
Speaker 6: Foxy Cat absolutely crushed our miniatures. They were freaking amazing.

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Speaker 4: Scroll up a little bit, oh, Mad Hatter Gal.

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01:02:51,520 --> 01:02:54,760
Speaker 6: Absolutely we we must put respect on Matt hatter Gal's name.

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01:02:55,320 --> 01:02:58,520
Speaker 4: Uh, Lord of Madness. I'm hoping I remembering that.

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01:02:58,640 --> 01:03:02,120
Speaker 2: Many gifted memberships? Is madn like probably a hundred at

1217
01:03:02,160 --> 01:03:02,800
Speaker 2: this point.

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01:03:02,640 --> 01:03:05,640
Speaker 6: Today, I don't know, like today almost one hundred, but

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01:03:05,680 --> 01:03:09,440
Speaker 6: over time, dude, could be hundreds. It could be manhatter

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01:03:09,560 --> 01:03:12,560
Speaker 6: Cow has been going crazy, so shouty Matt hawkels.

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01:03:12,920 --> 01:03:14,880
Speaker 4: But Lenn Nabby thinks for the ten bucks.

1222
01:03:14,960 --> 01:03:18,840
Speaker 6: I need longer. I started late because of work. Well

1223
01:03:18,880 --> 01:03:20,320
Speaker 6: you just might get it.

1224
01:03:20,320 --> 01:03:21,760
Speaker 2: It's a stream, Ben, I feel like it's been a

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01:03:21,800 --> 01:03:26,680
Speaker 2: second a wow, four hours exactly four hours. Chris tin Foil.

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01:03:27,000 --> 01:03:33,000
Speaker 6: Also with the five gifted memberships, let's freaking go bust

1227
01:03:33,000 --> 01:03:37,400
Speaker 6: the Kida Yancey. I'm celebrating a two month membership Infamous

1228
01:03:37,440 --> 01:03:41,040
Speaker 6: Bust the key to here. Geebro is twenty four years

1229
01:03:41,120 --> 01:03:43,640
Speaker 6: older than me. Geebro, ye Eyebro.

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01:03:44,120 --> 01:03:44,720
Speaker 2: What is that.

1231
01:03:46,240 --> 01:03:52,320
Speaker 6: Seventeenth anniversary was June first? He turns sixty eight. Oh wait, yeah, Geebro,

1232
01:03:52,400 --> 01:03:54,320
Speaker 6: I don't know what that is, but I.

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01:03:54,280 --> 01:03:55,480
Speaker 3: Think that's their partner's name.

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01:03:55,800 --> 01:04:00,000
Speaker 6: Ah, very nice. Well, congratulations, happy anniversary.

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01:04:01,000 --> 01:04:03,800
Speaker 4: And we got mo m O. Thanks for a one

1236
01:04:03,800 --> 01:04:04,240
Speaker 4: buck tip.

1237
01:04:04,280 --> 01:04:06,800
Speaker 6: Haven't watched X in the City in years, but I've

1238
01:04:06,840 --> 01:04:09,400
Speaker 6: seen them all. Love you all and watch every day.

1239
01:04:10,400 --> 01:04:13,280
Speaker 6: My kids always ask me, what's O cop?

1240
01:04:15,360 --> 01:04:17,240
Speaker 4: That's our That's my least favorite.

1241
01:04:17,360 --> 01:04:20,360
Speaker 6: I hate it, not only it's double sin now because

1242
01:04:20,480 --> 01:04:23,120
Speaker 6: it's it's now okay story time and it's.

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01:04:23,000 --> 01:04:25,240
Speaker 2: The bastardization of okop.

1244
01:04:25,400 --> 01:04:30,640
Speaker 6: But anyways, I digress asterization it is because before you

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01:04:31,000 --> 01:04:35,600
Speaker 6: still we're OKOP since it's all that's on my YouTube history.

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01:04:35,720 --> 01:04:36,040
Speaker 2: Lol.

1247
01:04:36,320 --> 01:04:40,960
Speaker 4: That's a cute story. Love that. Matt, Matt Hatter Gal.

1248
01:04:41,120 --> 01:04:43,880
Speaker 4: We were just talking about you again. With the ten

1249
01:04:43,920 --> 01:04:46,800
Speaker 4: Gifted memberships, we have to put respect on Matt Hawder

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01:04:46,840 --> 01:04:47,400
Speaker 4: Girl's name.

1251
01:04:48,240 --> 01:04:52,880
Speaker 2: Least where we can go that we do. Gray Gray Scray,

1252
01:04:53,160 --> 01:04:55,680
Speaker 2: thanks for the five bucks, sending one hundred plus bags

1253
01:04:55,680 --> 01:04:58,640
Speaker 2: of chips, half our quest chips and two fan arts

1254
01:04:58,640 --> 01:05:01,160
Speaker 2: on Thursday. Oh I love fan arts, so if you

1255
01:05:01,200 --> 01:05:05,120
Speaker 2: have made one fan art her prophilepic on discord. Also,

1256
01:05:05,160 --> 01:05:07,920
Speaker 2: if you haven't joined the Discord, join the Discord, join us.

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01:05:07,960 --> 01:05:08,400
Speaker 4: We're hanging.

1258
01:05:08,520 --> 01:05:11,440
Speaker 2: Oh wait, have we have. We shouted out the thing. Yeah,

1259
01:05:11,640 --> 01:05:12,479
Speaker 2: I'm going to do it again.

1260
01:05:12,640 --> 01:05:13,360
Speaker 4: I'm going to do it again.

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01:05:14,000 --> 01:05:17,320
Speaker 2: Okay, So I'm actually so excited about this. We're going

1262
01:05:17,400 --> 01:05:21,200
Speaker 2: to do a game show with all of you, and

1263
01:05:21,240 --> 01:05:23,760
Speaker 2: we're going to try to record it on Friday. Basically,

1264
01:05:24,400 --> 01:05:28,720
Speaker 2: what we need is we need people with cheating stories,

1265
01:05:28,760 --> 01:05:34,400
Speaker 2: so like someone cheated on you, or you you were

1266
01:05:34,440 --> 01:05:37,560
Speaker 2: suspicious of your partner and it ended up like that,

1267
01:05:37,640 --> 01:05:41,560
Speaker 2: nothing was happened, like nothing that happened, right? Or did

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01:05:41,800 --> 01:05:43,800
Speaker 2: change it if?

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01:05:43,880 --> 01:05:46,120
Speaker 3: Oh no, no it wasn't. Five people that have been

1270
01:05:46,160 --> 01:05:47,640
Speaker 3: cheated on? Did you stay or not?

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01:05:47,880 --> 01:05:48,320
Speaker 2: Yes? Yeah?

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01:05:48,400 --> 01:05:48,760
Speaker 4: Did you stay?

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01:05:48,760 --> 01:05:51,760
Speaker 2: There? We go? Yeah, sorry, yeah, five people that have

1274
01:05:51,760 --> 01:05:53,400
Speaker 2: been cheated on? Did you stay or not? We're going

1275
01:05:53,480 --> 01:05:57,000
Speaker 2: to choose five people from our community to interview you

1276
01:05:57,120 --> 01:05:59,520
Speaker 2: on the show. We already have fifteen.

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01:06:00,200 --> 01:06:03,200
Speaker 6: Yeah, our responses flooded from when we shouted it out earlier.

1278
01:06:03,200 --> 01:06:05,760
Speaker 6: So if you want to get in, I would fill

1279
01:06:05,760 --> 01:06:06,240
Speaker 6: out the form.

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Speaker 2: Fill out the form. We're probably going to be doing

1281
01:06:08,360 --> 01:06:11,200
Speaker 2: like like interviews with all of you or or like

1282
01:06:11,240 --> 01:06:15,040
Speaker 2: a message interviews tomorrow tomorrow, and we're gonna try to

1283
01:06:15,080 --> 01:06:17,600
Speaker 2: get everyone on the game. It should be like two

1284
01:06:17,640 --> 01:06:20,720
Speaker 2: hours of filming. You can go from anywhere. It's gonna

1285
01:06:20,720 --> 01:06:24,720
Speaker 2: be virtual. I'm really excited, Like we're really excited for

1286
01:06:24,720 --> 01:06:27,760
Speaker 2: this format's format. Yeah, it's like it's gonna be it's

1287
01:06:27,760 --> 01:06:30,320
Speaker 2: gonna be what you love about these stories, but more

1288
01:06:30,400 --> 01:06:33,600
Speaker 2: in person with the community and game show. It's the

1289
01:06:33,640 --> 01:06:35,439
Speaker 2: form is in the description, right, Riley? Yeah?

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01:06:35,480 --> 01:06:40,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, is linked in the YouTube like pinned in them.

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01:06:40,920 --> 01:06:44,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, if you're on Facebook, you might want is it

1292
01:06:44,440 --> 01:06:45,040
Speaker 2: drop in the chat?

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01:06:45,560 --> 01:06:45,720
Speaker 7: Yeah?

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01:06:45,800 --> 01:06:49,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, dropping in the chat one we're time, Okay, Yeah,

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01:06:49,600 --> 01:06:51,520
Speaker 2: we would love to have you were so excited, dude,

1296
01:06:51,560 --> 01:06:55,720
Speaker 2: we got some we got some things cooking, got cooking,

1297
01:06:56,360 --> 01:06:58,960
Speaker 2: you know, also what we have cooking. I don't know

1298
01:06:59,000 --> 01:07:01,320
Speaker 2: if you've seen thistally, what's.

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01:07:01,160 --> 01:07:06,480
Speaker 6: That fly cap you got on there, Sam Donner? A

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01:07:06,480 --> 01:07:07,640
Speaker 6: little hard to see the story.

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01:07:07,440 --> 01:07:09,680
Speaker 2: Time, but it says story time says storytime on there.

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Speaker 6: It's a really cool. It's like it's like a very

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01:07:12,000 --> 01:07:15,360
Speaker 6: like retro, especially the hat get off. It's just the

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Speaker 6: vibe all goes together very well.

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Speaker 2: I'm not sure if we'll even make these on if

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Speaker 2: you guys, if you guys want, I don't know if

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01:07:22,880 --> 01:07:24,640
Speaker 2: you guys even want them, but if you. If you do,

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01:07:24,720 --> 01:07:25,400
Speaker 2: maybe we'll make some.

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01:07:26,760 --> 01:07:28,760
Speaker 4: But I just pinned it in Facebook.

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Speaker 2: Is that I can. I don't know if you can.

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01:07:30,840 --> 01:07:32,680
Speaker 2: I don't know if they can copy that.

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Speaker 3: It's on the Facebook thing. I went to Facebook and

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Speaker 3: did it.

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Speaker 2: Oh, shout out Riley for being awesome. Correct, But yeah,

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Speaker 2: please come on our show. We want to interview you.

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Speaker 2: Fill out that form. We'd love to have you. Carissalyn

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Speaker 2: N f TW celebrates two months of membership. Just saw

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Speaker 2: that I've been a member for two months. Sending some

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Speaker 2: Rootier Float cookies in the next week or so for

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Speaker 2: you guys to enjoy. Thank you so much. Frederick Lott

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01:08:00,760 --> 01:08:05,840
Speaker 2: celebrating two months of membership, talking about some really sad stuff.

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Speaker 2: I don't want to say it out loud for your privacy, Frederick,

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01:08:08,800 --> 01:08:13,200
Speaker 2: but thank you so much for supporting this show.

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01:08:13,400 --> 01:08:13,800
Speaker 4: We love you.

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01:08:15,480 --> 01:08:18,720
Speaker 2: And Martika Waterman thanks for the one dollar. While you

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Speaker 2: guys are still live well. I went on a walk

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Speaker 2: with my mom and my kids today to help me

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Speaker 2: start exercising and trying to eat healthy for my health

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Speaker 2: and also for me to stay with my kid. Also

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01:08:27,360 --> 01:08:32,040
Speaker 2: helps with anxiety and depression. Feel good, look good, be good,

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01:08:33,400 --> 01:08:36,240
Speaker 2: and Avery thanks for the five bucks. I opened the

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Speaker 2: balcony today. A pigeon through inside my house. Flew inside

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01:08:39,320 --> 01:08:41,000
Speaker 2: my house and my wife was having a panic attack,

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Speaker 2: and I said, Sam came to visit us. You're welcome.

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01:08:45,120 --> 01:08:48,679
Speaker 2: Your army is infiltrating, trying to trying your best.

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01:08:51,479 --> 01:08:53,360
Speaker 3: Did you stop like pooping on my car?

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01:08:53,760 --> 01:08:56,960
Speaker 6: Yeah, that's true. Taylor Perry, thanks for the ten twenty

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Speaker 6: five tip. Say hello to Cali.

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01:09:00,000 --> 01:09:00,679
Speaker 2: What's up, Kelly?

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Speaker 6: It's her birthday. It's your birthday. Drink book like it's

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01:09:05,760 --> 01:09:08,960
Speaker 6: your birthday. Tory Uh Dan Dino, thanks for to ten

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01:09:09,040 --> 01:09:12,360
Speaker 6: buck tip. Look did I missed yea cherry Love four

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01:09:12,400 --> 01:09:15,640
Speaker 6: twenty celebrating two months of membership. Let's freaking go and

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Speaker 6: Tory Dan Dino a longtime listener. I love listening to

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Speaker 6: you all. Why work keep being you same, Tory Uh.

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Speaker 6: Small fry, big spoon.

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Speaker 3: Thanks for the ten bucks tip on the don link

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Speaker 3: tell me your John without telling me your.

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Speaker 2: Wait, what felt like that's an insult?

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01:09:33,160 --> 01:09:36,360
Speaker 3: No small fry like you're you're a fry like your

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01:09:36,439 --> 01:09:38,599
Speaker 3: dad's big fry and your small fry, and then you're

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01:09:38,680 --> 01:09:39,120
Speaker 3: the big.

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Speaker 6: Spoon like you. I'm spooning with my dad. Never mind,

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01:09:46,240 --> 01:09:48,760
Speaker 6: let's go to the next dono. Foxy Cat, thanks for

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01:09:48,760 --> 01:09:49,320
Speaker 6: the five bucks.

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Speaker 2: Sam.

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Speaker 4: I feel bad about not adding your sweet smile in

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01:09:53,240 --> 01:09:54,760
Speaker 4: my letter. I'm so sorry. I love x x so

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Speaker 4: might have said that before.

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Speaker 6: Actually, if a factxy Cat really really feels, really feels

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01:09:59,600 --> 01:10:00,880
Speaker 6: you know good.

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01:10:01,160 --> 01:10:05,519
Speaker 2: I was sad. I'm glad you rectified the situation. I

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01:10:05,560 --> 01:10:07,280
Speaker 2: was about to cry, but now I feel better and

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01:10:07,400 --> 01:10:09,000
Speaker 2: I smile.

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Speaker 6: There we go and miss Protein with the five gifted memberships.

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01:10:14,680 --> 01:10:16,040
Speaker 2: Is that is that who we think it is?

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01:10:16,200 --> 01:10:19,080
Speaker 3: I believe that that's her. That's her thing on discord.

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01:10:20,280 --> 01:10:22,120
Speaker 2: Oh that's missed adorable.

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01:10:22,200 --> 01:10:24,960
Speaker 4: Yeah, Miss Protein. Wow, really, thank you.

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Speaker 2: Thank you.

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Speaker 6: If it's tour thing, I mean, whoever it is, actually,

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Speaker 6: thank you very much. And Brunett, thanks for the two bucks.

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Speaker 6: Please open my package. I've been waiting.

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Speaker 2: We have some packages behind you.

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Speaker 6: We will I'm gonna be looking out for that on

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Speaker 6: the next package round. And then Kickstart Films still being

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Speaker 6: two months of membership. Also been a member for two months.

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01:10:45,080 --> 01:10:47,960
Speaker 6: You guys give such chaotic positivity.

1379
01:10:48,000 --> 01:10:52,400
Speaker 4: That's a great description. That is so us positivity, chaotic positivity.

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01:10:52,400 --> 01:10:55,519
Speaker 4: Thanks from I love saying that.

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01:10:55,560 --> 01:10:58,560
Speaker 6: And then mad hatter gal Lord John. My title is

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Speaker 6: Lady of Madness, Awe auction of Madness, Awkin Auction, Lady

1383
01:11:03,880 --> 01:11:06,160
Speaker 6: of the Bare, Lady of Madness.

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Speaker 4: I think I said that right earlier, but thank you

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01:11:07,840 --> 01:11:10,439
Speaker 4: for making sure we got Oh.

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01:11:10,600 --> 01:11:13,880
Speaker 2: Whoa, how do we not see that? Carolyn C with

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01:11:14,120 --> 01:11:18,599
Speaker 2: the ninety nine seventy three tip. I promise my last time,

1388
01:11:18,640 --> 01:11:21,840
Speaker 2: but you guys are making this Iowa business trip bearable.

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01:11:22,320 --> 01:11:29,040
Speaker 2: Carolyn Cee, you're making this stream continue. Yes, thank you.

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01:11:29,160 --> 01:11:31,920
Speaker 4: For all the fans you are are making it happen.

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01:11:32,160 --> 01:11:34,320
Speaker 2: Bam bam, Barbie, thanks for the ten bucks. I can't

1392
01:11:34,360 --> 01:11:37,400
Speaker 2: figure out the poll on YouTube to vote, but yes,

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01:11:37,600 --> 01:11:41,439
Speaker 2: keep TLDR. You guys get us distracted with packages and

1394
01:11:41,600 --> 01:11:45,960
Speaker 2: condom adventures. We need recaps. That was actually so fun.

1395
01:11:46,880 --> 01:11:50,640
Speaker 2: I think Riley let's brainstorm like later to make it

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01:11:50,680 --> 01:11:53,160
Speaker 2: as already have some stuff as vibe as possible. But

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01:11:53,200 --> 01:11:56,680
Speaker 2: it was already great, so the shout out. Can we

1398
01:11:56,760 --> 01:11:58,960
Speaker 2: just appreciate for the second like for a second. Yes,

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01:11:59,080 --> 01:12:02,720
Speaker 2: Riley is the best producer ever. He literally went and

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Speaker 2: called a spicy sleep shop and got one of the

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01:12:07,800 --> 01:12:11,479
Speaker 2: women to write something on a package with condoms in it.

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01:12:12,000 --> 01:12:15,639
Speaker 2: For me to wander in like a lost child looking

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01:12:15,760 --> 01:12:18,639
Speaker 2: for like Halloween candy and say, is there's something here

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01:12:18,720 --> 01:12:23,160
Speaker 2: for me? Like dedicate? He had the freaking coordinates written

1405
01:12:23,200 --> 01:12:24,280
Speaker 2: down like that's crazy.

1406
01:12:24,479 --> 01:12:26,599
Speaker 6: Heart's in the chat for Riley because we love him

1407
01:12:26,640 --> 01:12:28,320
Speaker 6: so much. Not only do we love him so much,

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01:12:28,400 --> 01:12:31,080
Speaker 6: but he is just the greatest producer on earth. And

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01:12:31,120 --> 01:12:37,600
Speaker 6: I dare any producer can't even come close. It's just

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01:12:37,640 --> 01:12:40,120
Speaker 6: what you deserve it. It's literally just what you deserve.

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01:12:43,680 --> 01:12:46,960
Speaker 3: I don't know what to say. Thanks you are doing

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01:12:47,000 --> 01:12:49,080
Speaker 3: this stuff. Yeah, I work really hard at it.

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01:12:49,560 --> 01:12:53,679
Speaker 2: That's what he does. He freaking does Kitty Caface thanks

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01:12:53,720 --> 01:12:55,320
Speaker 2: to the two bac tip. Hey just saw a video

1415
01:12:55,479 --> 01:12:58,360
Speaker 2: about four months ago where you read my story husband

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01:12:58,439 --> 01:13:01,879
Speaker 2: ditched on our wedding night for Warhammer, and it was surreal.

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01:13:02,360 --> 01:13:06,439
Speaker 2: The disappointment on Sophia's face ended me. That's so funny.

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01:13:06,920 --> 01:13:09,360
Speaker 2: And then Taylor Perry, thanks to the twenty bucks Hello

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01:13:09,560 --> 01:13:12,759
Speaker 2: is say hi to my wife. She loves you, Callie.

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01:13:12,880 --> 01:13:15,560
Speaker 2: It's her birthday, Callie, Happy birthday.

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01:13:15,600 --> 01:13:17,000
Speaker 4: And that was my girlfriend.

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01:13:17,080 --> 01:13:20,679
Speaker 3: She said, my membership has been gifted this whole time, Loel,

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01:13:20,680 --> 01:13:22,560
Speaker 3: so I wanted to give back wow.

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01:13:23,000 --> 01:13:25,960
Speaker 4: Wow, aw, that is a big awe.

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01:13:26,200 --> 01:13:28,799
Speaker 2: That's a big alle. That is a big.

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Speaker 4: Watches me work?

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Speaker 3: Was anyone else?

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01:13:32,640 --> 01:13:34,000
Speaker 4: If I watch her work, that'd be weird.

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01:13:34,520 --> 01:13:36,719
Speaker 2: Of what don't you watch her sew and stuff?

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01:13:37,200 --> 01:13:37,439
Speaker 4: Yeah?

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01:13:37,439 --> 01:13:40,040
Speaker 3: But like she works with kids and like teaches kids

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01:13:40,040 --> 01:13:42,280
Speaker 3: how to sew, So like that'd be weird if I watch

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01:13:42,320 --> 01:13:42,680
Speaker 3: her do that.

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01:13:44,800 --> 01:13:47,640
Speaker 4: If I'm in the window, like, well, what's going on

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01:13:47,680 --> 01:13:48,640
Speaker 4: in the binoculars?

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Speaker 6: Nice bag, Jimmy to make that yourself for ventilating. Also

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01:13:56,920 --> 01:13:59,840
Speaker 6: shout out to Bunny Cake celebrating too much membership. Ken,

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01:14:00,120 --> 01:14:03,400
Speaker 6: we get black merch this time. I need it to

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01:14:03,479 --> 01:14:04,000
Speaker 6: match my.

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Speaker 2: Dark little soul. Oh all right, here a question, question,

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01:14:07,560 --> 01:14:11,600
Speaker 2: question ask it. So not saying we're going to but

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01:14:11,720 --> 01:14:13,719
Speaker 2: if we were to make a hat, would you want

1443
01:14:13,920 --> 01:14:18,000
Speaker 2: this color? Maroon black or white?

1444
01:14:18,360 --> 01:14:19,320
Speaker 3: Ooh that's good?

1445
01:14:19,800 --> 01:14:25,120
Speaker 2: Okay, choice, so maroon black or white hat? Let us

1446
01:14:25,120 --> 01:14:27,240
Speaker 2: know we're gonna put a pull up in a second. Right,

1447
01:14:27,640 --> 01:14:31,639
Speaker 2: oh man, but we that's the end of this, uh

1448
01:14:31,720 --> 01:14:38,280
Speaker 2: this episode on money and transparency? All right? Or John,

1449
01:14:38,520 --> 01:14:42,320
Speaker 2: what is your opinions on money transparency? I think it's good.

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01:14:42,439 --> 01:14:45,280
Speaker 6: I think like sharing because I feel like in the

1451
01:14:45,320 --> 01:14:50,280
Speaker 6: past people have been very guarded and that decreased financial

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01:14:50,600 --> 01:14:53,679
Speaker 6: literacy and people being like there's all these great YouTubers

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01:14:53,680 --> 01:14:55,720
Speaker 6: that are like, hey, here's everything I make and here's

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01:14:55,720 --> 01:14:58,040
Speaker 6: how I bleature those videos, like I make fifty K

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01:14:58,120 --> 01:14:59,760
Speaker 6: and I live in Seattle, and you get to kind

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01:14:59,760 --> 01:15:01,479
Speaker 6: of like see how people like and I.

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01:15:01,640 --> 01:15:04,120
Speaker 2: Think it can help. It can help. Yeah, like you said,

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01:15:04,160 --> 01:15:06,400
Speaker 2: direct you like what like there's some YouTubers that we

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01:15:06,439 --> 01:15:08,360
Speaker 2: look at and they're like, oh, like this is the

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01:15:08,400 --> 01:15:10,400
Speaker 2: financials of my business. That's how we make it happen.

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01:15:10,439 --> 01:15:12,200
Speaker 2: And it's like, oh, like that's how you do it.

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01:15:12,240 --> 01:15:14,160
Speaker 2: That's how you create a community of people that are

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01:15:14,200 --> 01:15:17,160
Speaker 2: really really strong that like I think it's like inspirational.

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01:15:17,240 --> 01:15:21,000
Speaker 6: Yeah, open open the openness helps, like it's like collaborative

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01:15:21,000 --> 01:15:21,639
Speaker 6: and helps everyone.

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01:15:21,800 --> 01:15:25,559
Speaker 2: Yeah. No, I completely I completely agree. But should we

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01:15:25,640 --> 01:15:29,479
Speaker 2: open up a package before we get into this next door?

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01:15:29,640 --> 01:15:32,160
Speaker 2: Because have we hit a certain goal?

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01:15:32,280 --> 01:15:37,240
Speaker 6: Yeah, we hit a thousand foulo lnkeys, So let's open

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01:15:37,280 --> 01:15:37,799
Speaker 6: a package.

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01:15:37,840 --> 01:15:41,599
Speaker 2: Specifically, honest, we.

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01:15:41,560 --> 01:15:43,479
Speaker 6: Are about to open a package, ladies and gentlemen. Riley

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01:15:43,560 --> 01:15:45,240
Speaker 6: is literally on the case right in.

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01:15:45,240 --> 01:15:49,880
Speaker 2: The case is rolling in the one. I love cookies

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Speaker 2: forty two. Love the coastal and see North Carolina. Oh

1476
01:15:53,840 --> 01:15:57,200
Speaker 2: love from the coastal North Carolina. Shout out you. I

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01:15:57,240 --> 01:16:01,120
Speaker 2: love cookies and marry a million hughes. Three months of membership,

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01:16:01,160 --> 01:16:04,040
Speaker 2: I had to run to the physical therapy. Glad to

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01:16:04,040 --> 01:16:07,000
Speaker 2: see you guys still going? Do I see a wheelspin?

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01:16:07,240 --> 01:16:11,640
Speaker 2: I love the community, Lady Marie, long live the worms

1481
01:16:11,960 --> 01:16:15,720
Speaker 2: o ems. The worm army has gone grown so strong.

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01:16:15,600 --> 01:16:17,559
Speaker 4: It really it really has. We do need enough rising

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01:16:17,600 --> 01:16:18,320
Speaker 4: from blondis.

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01:16:18,400 --> 01:16:19,200
Speaker 2: This is from.

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01:16:19,240 --> 01:16:22,840
Speaker 4: Blondest Brunette with the nice little notes I shall read

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01:16:22,920 --> 01:16:25,840
Speaker 4: right now, okop show this is probably sent pre pre

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Speaker 4: branding change the first pigeon for Sam. I am still

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01:16:29,840 --> 01:16:32,840
Speaker 4: a wormy, but Sam needs his pigeons like Sophia.

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01:16:32,479 --> 01:16:33,120
Speaker 2: Needs her work.

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Speaker 3: Go.

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01:16:34,040 --> 01:16:37,479
Speaker 4: I added in some Christmas ornaments for the studio come

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01:16:37,600 --> 01:16:51,360
Speaker 4: time from the Blondest Brunette, and we have whoa, oh

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01:16:51,400 --> 01:16:53,559
Speaker 4: my gosh, that is a unit.

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01:16:53,680 --> 01:16:57,000
Speaker 2: Dude, dude, it's she thick, she thick.

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01:16:57,120 --> 01:16:57,439
Speaker 4: Though.

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01:16:58,280 --> 01:17:02,880
Speaker 6: Also we should definitely buy a little Christmas Charlie Brown

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01:17:02,960 --> 01:17:06,400
Speaker 6: Christmas tree come Christmas time.

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01:17:07,560 --> 01:17:09,800
Speaker 2: We're a whole whole studio.

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01:17:10,080 --> 01:17:10,799
Speaker 4: That is true.

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01:17:11,520 --> 01:17:13,360
Speaker 2: And then we have we need to put like, we

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01:17:13,720 --> 01:17:16,800
Speaker 2: have so many things that we need put on the wall.

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01:17:16,960 --> 01:17:19,439
Speaker 6: We are, by the way, guys, we are going to

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Speaker 6: figure out a shelving situation to house all of your

1504
01:17:22,280 --> 01:17:26,160
Speaker 6: incredible knickknacks. So that is in process and will be coming.

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01:17:27,880 --> 01:17:31,240
Speaker 6: We have little cute little tree clips.

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01:17:31,920 --> 01:17:33,880
Speaker 2: The shirt does say eat the rich.

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01:17:36,720 --> 01:17:40,680
Speaker 6: How about I'm more of a eat out the rich myself.

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01:17:43,240 --> 01:17:46,000
Speaker 4: It does say tax the rich. Yes, lots of cute

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Speaker 4: little lots.

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Speaker 5: Of cute little tree ornaments owned a little a little snowman. Wow,

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01:17:50,320 --> 01:17:53,959
Speaker 5: so great, great little Christmas tree ornaments from our Actually

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Speaker 5: you know what that we get a Christmas tree, ask

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01:17:58,640 --> 01:18:04,400
Speaker 5: the community to spend us all the ornaments. That's not

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01:18:04,479 --> 01:18:10,320
Speaker 5: the greatest thing ever, Guys get ready. That is so

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Speaker 5: I am now covered in glitter.

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Speaker 2: I love that.

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Speaker 4: And then Christmas stream its Carolina.

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01:18:17,760 --> 01:18:20,920
Speaker 2: That would be cute. Yeah, it's crazy that you were

1519
01:18:20,920 --> 01:18:22,439
Speaker 2: able to go to the strip club during.

1520
01:18:22,479 --> 01:18:25,719
Speaker 6: You know this looks I have my lap is full

1521
01:18:26,120 --> 01:18:29,320
Speaker 6: of glitter right now and it looks terrible.

1522
01:18:29,720 --> 01:18:32,040
Speaker 2: I'm gonna come home the night. Was that? So?

1523
01:18:32,080 --> 01:18:32,880
Speaker 4: Where have you been?

1524
01:18:33,200 --> 01:18:36,560
Speaker 2: Live stream? I have the receipts.

1525
01:18:38,479 --> 01:18:42,360
Speaker 4: It's a new contest. Very literally glittery snowmall. You can't

1526
01:18:42,400 --> 01:18:45,000
Speaker 4: even see the glitter at there.

1527
01:18:45,280 --> 01:18:49,520
Speaker 2: John, how crosspect? Then? By the way, how's what CrossFit?

1528
01:18:51,840 --> 01:18:51,920
Speaker 3: This?

1529
01:18:52,720 --> 01:18:57,320
Speaker 2: Mother? Right heard, ladies and gentleman if anyone has watched

1530
01:18:57,320 --> 01:19:01,040
Speaker 2: that last stream about grosspit in the people. But John

1531
01:19:01,080 --> 01:19:03,000
Speaker 2: and Riley actually did a CrossFit workout.

1532
01:19:03,720 --> 01:19:06,120
Speaker 4: Yes, we've done many. Yes, we did one yesterday.

1533
01:19:06,120 --> 01:19:07,920
Speaker 2: Too many CrossFit workouts.

1534
01:19:08,479 --> 01:19:12,960
Speaker 6: CrossFit workouts not going to a CrossFit Yeah, that's there's

1535
01:19:13,000 --> 01:19:13,679
Speaker 6: a huge difference.

1536
01:19:14,000 --> 01:19:16,400
Speaker 2: Yes, And I said to Riley.

1537
01:19:16,479 --> 01:19:21,040
Speaker 6: I was like, we were watching uh, like opposite sex

1538
01:19:21,240 --> 01:19:23,000
Speaker 6: like trainers and stuff, and it was just.

1539
01:19:22,920 --> 01:19:25,400
Speaker 2: Like watching opposite sex trader.

1540
01:19:25,840 --> 01:19:29,839
Speaker 4: They were they were watching, they were there watch it like.

1541
01:19:31,920 --> 01:19:35,200
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, dude, that stretch enhands.

1542
01:19:36,200 --> 01:19:38,559
Speaker 3: No, we were that it was like a physical trainer.

1543
01:19:38,600 --> 01:19:40,519
Speaker 3: That was a guy like helping on a girl. And

1544
01:19:40,600 --> 01:19:45,160
Speaker 3: John said, Dan, John, what did you say? I said,

1545
01:19:45,680 --> 01:19:55,519
Speaker 3: this is this is modern day prostitution, because dude, the guy.

1546
01:19:55,439 --> 01:19:55,920
Speaker 2: One was it.

1547
01:19:55,920 --> 01:19:59,080
Speaker 6: It was the the guy. It was the guy holding

1548
01:19:59,120 --> 01:20:01,479
Speaker 6: the girl's legs op or the girl holding the guys

1549
01:20:01,520 --> 01:20:01,960
Speaker 6: Like Joe.

1550
01:20:03,720 --> 01:20:08,320
Speaker 2: How long were you watching for? I pointed it out.

1551
01:20:08,560 --> 01:20:09,080
Speaker 2: I was like saw that.

1552
01:20:09,120 --> 01:20:11,120
Speaker 4: I was like, Riley, do you see what's happening over here?

1553
01:20:11,160 --> 01:20:16,479
Speaker 4: This is crazy, absolutely bonkers, but like but like he

1554
01:20:16,560 --> 01:20:19,559
Speaker 4: was doing crunches and she was like holding his just fully,

1555
01:20:20,040 --> 01:20:23,240
Speaker 4: just fully, just you know, hands on the knees, fully

1556
01:20:23,400 --> 01:20:24,120
Speaker 4: spread apart.

1557
01:20:24,240 --> 01:20:28,680
Speaker 2: I was you gotta do man? The only Riley is

1558
01:20:28,720 --> 01:20:29,760
Speaker 2: the only person.

1559
01:20:30,000 --> 01:20:30,880
Speaker 3: I do that to him?

1560
01:20:31,040 --> 01:20:36,679
Speaker 4: Yep, spreading, big boy, where are the day's leg he says?

1561
01:20:36,720 --> 01:20:37,040
Speaker 3: Spread?

1562
01:20:37,120 --> 01:20:38,040
Speaker 2: I say, how wide?

1563
01:20:40,840 --> 01:20:43,719
Speaker 4: But yeah, real quick, we'll call it with the donuts

1564
01:20:43,760 --> 01:20:44,559
Speaker 4: and gets you another?

1565
01:20:45,000 --> 01:20:48,800
Speaker 3: Uh oh keep going, keep going right, you're right, We're

1566
01:20:48,800 --> 01:20:49,439
Speaker 3: gonna get to it.

1567
01:20:49,880 --> 01:20:50,800
Speaker 4: Oh hit we hit that right?

1568
01:20:50,880 --> 01:20:51,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, stroll up.

1569
01:20:51,720 --> 01:20:56,880
Speaker 4: A little bit. It's all good? Is that one?

1570
01:20:56,400 --> 01:20:56,519
Speaker 2: Yea?

1571
01:20:56,920 --> 01:20:57,000
Speaker 4: That?

1572
01:20:57,360 --> 01:20:57,559
Speaker 2: Yeah?

1573
01:20:57,600 --> 01:21:00,599
Speaker 6: Small big small fribbakspion things but a ten bucks? Lol,

1574
01:21:00,680 --> 01:21:01,560
Speaker 6: I am actually.

1575
01:21:01,320 --> 01:21:06,639
Speaker 4: A female Riley, uh just a just short af love

1576
01:21:06,800 --> 01:21:07,519
Speaker 4: watching you all.

1577
01:21:07,640 --> 01:21:09,880
Speaker 6: Thanks for all the love. Small five egs Bill, Let's go,

1578
01:21:11,120 --> 01:21:13,840
Speaker 6: Frederick Locknick. What can we say?

1579
01:21:14,320 --> 01:21:14,559
Speaker 2: What?

1580
01:21:14,560 --> 01:21:16,479
Speaker 4: What more can we say? Other than you? You are

1581
01:21:16,520 --> 01:21:18,920
Speaker 4: the king? You rock, You literally.

1582
01:21:18,640 --> 01:21:22,200
Speaker 2: Rock so words words cannot describe. I would show you,

1583
01:21:22,280 --> 01:21:23,559
Speaker 2: but no fee picks true.

1584
01:21:23,320 --> 01:21:24,200
Speaker 4: No fee, no free feet.

1585
01:21:24,479 --> 01:21:27,680
Speaker 6: Frederick says, like I said, I wish I could get

1586
01:21:27,720 --> 01:21:30,160
Speaker 6: the discord to work so I could share the entire story.

1587
01:21:30,600 --> 01:21:32,680
Speaker 6: We'll try to figure out Frederick. We definitely want you

1588
01:21:32,720 --> 01:21:34,840
Speaker 6: in the discord to join the fam.

1589
01:21:35,000 --> 01:21:37,320
Speaker 2: But thank you as perduc the description.

1590
01:21:37,520 --> 01:21:40,800
Speaker 6: My freaking goodness, what a king guys. I think, I

1591
01:21:40,800 --> 01:21:43,160
Speaker 6: think we other people? Oh oh, do we do a wheelspin?

1592
01:21:43,240 --> 01:21:44,120
Speaker 2: We haven't done a wheelspin.

1593
01:21:44,240 --> 01:21:50,519
Speaker 4: Let's hit that real quick spin that will let's freaking

1594
01:21:50,680 --> 01:21:56,160
Speaker 4: go give it to me, Riley, let's see it.

1595
01:21:56,560 --> 01:22:01,840
Speaker 2: Two extra minutes a bro, they're gonna get you. They

1596
01:22:02,160 --> 01:22:05,679
Speaker 2: get another thirty. I have a feeling. I have a feeling.

1597
01:22:05,920 --> 01:22:09,759
Speaker 2: I got a feeling and shout out. Tiny Cactus celebrates

1598
01:22:09,800 --> 01:22:14,120
Speaker 2: three months membership in before you expect ornaments and end

1599
01:22:14,200 --> 01:22:16,880
Speaker 2: up with one thousand worms. Yeah, we're literally it's just

1600
01:22:16,920 --> 01:22:21,080
Speaker 2: gonna be a curtain of worms and pigeons and oranges.

1601
01:22:21,439 --> 01:22:24,599
Speaker 2: Matt Hatter goal things with five gifted memberships. Was there

1602
01:22:24,680 --> 01:22:30,479
Speaker 2: one uh milestone that we missed? We Oh no, we did,

1603
01:22:30,520 --> 01:22:34,599
Speaker 2: we did that. We did all a boom, We're chilling.

1604
01:22:35,200 --> 01:22:38,640
Speaker 2: Blonde is for not two months of membership, three months tomorrow.

1605
01:22:39,200 --> 01:22:44,680
Speaker 2: Let's freaking god. Second jinx of the stream wowsers is

1606
01:22:44,680 --> 01:22:45,240
Speaker 2: it me reading?

1607
01:22:45,439 --> 01:22:45,920
Speaker 4: Am I up?

1608
01:22:45,920 --> 01:22:46,400
Speaker 2: Next? Yeah?

1609
01:22:46,400 --> 01:22:49,599
Speaker 8: You're up next to Big Boy where a boy big

1610
01:22:49,680 --> 01:22:57,040
Speaker 8: Rally that boys who that Boy twenty gifted memberships from

1611
01:22:57,160 --> 01:22:58,559
Speaker 8: Chris Tinfoil Hat.

1612
01:22:59,600 --> 01:23:02,320
Speaker 2: We gotta other thirty minutes, y'all, let's go. We get

1613
01:23:02,360 --> 01:23:05,280
Speaker 2: another thirty minutes, and I believe I'm going to now

1614
01:23:05,439 --> 01:23:08,680
Speaker 2: have to text my friend and say the stream is

1615
01:23:08,720 --> 01:23:09,360
Speaker 2: going off.

1616
01:23:09,240 --> 01:23:16,920
Speaker 4: The plans are being canceled, the stream stuff nuts there. Oh,

1617
01:23:17,000 --> 01:23:19,800
Speaker 4: let's keep that. Let's keep that window open too, if

1618
01:23:19,800 --> 01:23:23,599
Speaker 4: you're open, dude, I am just a toasty boy.

1619
01:23:24,000 --> 01:23:26,680
Speaker 3: Also one of my friends from colleges in town, so

1620
01:23:26,680 --> 01:23:28,160
Speaker 3: I'm gonna go see him in Anaheim.

1621
01:23:28,800 --> 01:23:34,280
Speaker 6: Oh, dude, Riley always, Riley drives far. If anyone ever

1622
01:23:34,320 --> 01:23:38,080
Speaker 6: says Riley doesn't drive far, they're they're lying, dude.

1623
01:23:38,120 --> 01:23:41,280
Speaker 3: Okay, I live and work here, so like it kind

1624
01:23:41,280 --> 01:23:42,880
Speaker 3: of balances out my case.

1625
01:23:42,920 --> 01:23:45,000
Speaker 2: That's true. Right, You don't have to commute to work.

1626
01:23:45,080 --> 01:23:46,519
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't have to commute to work. I'd walk

1627
01:23:46,560 --> 01:23:47,280
Speaker 3: three steps to my.

1628
01:23:47,520 --> 01:23:50,240
Speaker 4: Plus a good drip. I love a good drive, dude

1629
01:23:50,280 --> 01:23:51,320
Speaker 4: with some good music.

1630
01:23:51,520 --> 01:23:55,200
Speaker 6: Yeah, it's my literally my favorite way to experience new music, literally,

1631
01:23:55,240 --> 01:23:57,599
Speaker 6: my favorite I have been. I missed the Bay Area

1632
01:23:57,600 --> 01:23:58,840
Speaker 6: because I could hop on the train.

1633
01:23:59,160 --> 01:24:01,160
Speaker 2: Oh the music. That was such a vibe.

1634
01:24:01,760 --> 01:24:05,680
Speaker 6: But I digress. We have a new story for y'all,

1635
01:24:05,960 --> 01:24:07,719
Speaker 6: and let's get into square.

1636
01:24:07,800 --> 01:24:09,960
Speaker 2: Anytime I make plans, this happens.

1637
01:24:10,560 --> 01:24:11,160
Speaker 4: That is true.

1638
01:24:11,200 --> 01:24:12,400
Speaker 2: It's like it's like they know.

1639
01:24:13,280 --> 01:24:14,680
Speaker 4: It kind of is like they know.

1640
01:24:15,120 --> 01:24:17,720
Speaker 2: Like they know waiting Martika do I don't Martia, I

1641
01:24:17,760 --> 01:24:18,799
Speaker 2: don't think we missed your donation.

1642
01:24:19,960 --> 01:24:23,920
Speaker 4: Let us know. We read yeah, going for a walk

1643
01:24:23,920 --> 01:24:24,200
Speaker 4: and stay.

1644
01:24:24,320 --> 01:24:27,320
Speaker 2: Oh we talked about it. Yeah, we got you. We

1645
01:24:27,400 --> 01:24:28,120
Speaker 2: talked about you.

1646
01:24:29,040 --> 01:24:34,320
Speaker 6: All right, let's dive in, boys and girls. Am I

1647
01:24:34,400 --> 01:24:38,759
Speaker 6: the a hole for wanting to divorce my postpartum wife?

1648
01:24:40,880 --> 01:24:44,840
Speaker 2: Oh? Man, that sounds like you're going to post about

1649
01:24:44,840 --> 01:24:49,400
Speaker 2: your party. Oh my, that was bad.

1650
01:24:50,439 --> 01:24:53,040
Speaker 6: This comes from username, who says it's stupid to think

1651
01:24:53,120 --> 01:24:54,880
Speaker 6: I'm at this point, But here I am.

1652
01:24:55,360 --> 01:24:57,240
Speaker 2: My soon to be ex wife.

1653
01:24:57,439 --> 01:24:59,800
Speaker 6: Twenty eight female and I twenty nine male, have wanted

1654
01:25:00,280 --> 01:25:03,400
Speaker 6: for years and were thrilled when she finally got pregnant

1655
01:25:03,479 --> 01:25:06,040
Speaker 6: last year. From day one, I wanted to be the

1656
01:25:06,080 --> 01:25:09,880
Speaker 6: most supportive husband and future father that I could. Her

1657
01:25:09,880 --> 01:25:13,560
Speaker 6: father was never involved in her life. I used to

1658
01:25:13,600 --> 01:25:16,000
Speaker 6: work as a tech in labor and delivery and my brother,

1659
01:25:16,160 --> 01:25:19,160
Speaker 6: to put it kindly, is not the most involved father.

1660
01:25:19,560 --> 01:25:21,920
Speaker 6: I saw too many problems up close when it came

1661
01:25:22,000 --> 01:25:25,600
Speaker 6: to lacking husbands, and I would be damned before I

1662
01:25:25,720 --> 01:25:29,479
Speaker 6: made the same mistakes. The problem is, roughly three weeks

1663
01:25:29,520 --> 01:25:34,479
Speaker 6: into her pregnancy, everything started going downhill. Oh she stopped

1664
01:25:34,479 --> 01:25:37,920
Speaker 6: wanting to sleep together. Fair enough, hormones and stress make

1665
01:25:38,040 --> 01:25:41,519
Speaker 6: that a problem. I went full stop, meaning I think

1666
01:25:41,560 --> 01:25:43,800
Speaker 6: he was like, that's totally fine, we can stop. But

1667
01:25:43,920 --> 01:25:47,679
Speaker 6: then she didn't want any physical interaction, no cuddling, no kissing,

1668
01:25:47,840 --> 01:25:51,759
Speaker 6: slowly becoming more and more distant. Her eating constantly changed,

1669
01:25:51,800 --> 01:25:53,960
Speaker 6: and she was terrible about it. She would demand I

1670
01:25:54,040 --> 01:25:56,320
Speaker 6: get her something all day, than the moment I give

1671
01:25:56,320 --> 01:25:58,760
Speaker 6: it to her, she wants something else, screaming at me.

1672
01:25:59,160 --> 01:26:01,040
Speaker 6: Okay again, hormonal issues.

1673
01:26:01,080 --> 01:26:02,280
Speaker 4: I get it, no problem.

1674
01:26:02,760 --> 01:26:05,439
Speaker 6: She never let me go to any appointments, no groups

1675
01:26:05,479 --> 01:26:09,639
Speaker 6: she went to or spending more time away. Became cold

1676
01:26:09,720 --> 01:26:13,439
Speaker 6: and bitter. This is bulleted out here. Became cold and bitter,

1677
01:26:13,600 --> 01:26:14,720
Speaker 6: constantly angry at me.

1678
01:26:14,880 --> 01:26:15,960
Speaker 4: This went on for months.

1679
01:26:16,439 --> 01:26:19,000
Speaker 6: Slapped me a couple of times when I forgot one

1680
01:26:19,040 --> 01:26:21,800
Speaker 6: of her dozens of tasks she assigned me during the day.

1681
01:26:22,160 --> 01:26:25,800
Speaker 6: Whoa stop doing anything for the house a month into

1682
01:26:25,840 --> 01:26:28,800
Speaker 6: the pregnancy. Sure, she's pregnant, I get it moving around

1683
01:26:28,800 --> 01:26:31,200
Speaker 6: as hard, but she wouldn't even do laundry for four

1684
01:26:31,200 --> 01:26:34,960
Speaker 6: weeks in and by five weeks I did everything. I'm

1685
01:26:35,040 --> 01:26:38,000
Speaker 6: also the primary source of income. I'm barely sleep and

1686
01:26:38,040 --> 01:26:40,840
Speaker 6: I am running on fumes made me sleep in the

1687
01:26:40,880 --> 01:26:43,760
Speaker 6: guest room. Would always try and pick fights. I never

1688
01:26:43,800 --> 01:26:46,400
Speaker 6: once raised my voice, my hand or my tone. I

1689
01:26:46,479 --> 01:26:49,559
Speaker 6: sat there and constantly mentally reminded myself this isn't her

1690
01:26:49,640 --> 01:26:51,759
Speaker 6: and this would all be worth it, and she didn't

1691
01:26:51,800 --> 01:26:54,000
Speaker 6: want to make and she didn't want me to make

1692
01:26:54,040 --> 01:26:58,280
Speaker 6: any baby decisions. No name, no work on the nursery, nothing,

1693
01:26:59,479 --> 01:27:01,400
Speaker 6: And it gets back to the story. But yeah, I

1694
01:27:01,439 --> 01:27:06,800
Speaker 6: feel like there's like a point where it's like, you know,

1695
01:27:06,880 --> 01:27:09,479
Speaker 6: there's there's someone that's going like hormones and.

1696
01:27:09,479 --> 01:27:12,000
Speaker 2: Pregnancy hormones, and there's being abusive, and there's being and

1697
01:27:12,040 --> 01:27:16,040
Speaker 2: then using the pregnancy hormones to to enable that orb

1698
01:27:16,160 --> 01:27:21,160
Speaker 2: to excuse Like, yes, I under like pregnancy is a

1699
01:27:21,720 --> 01:27:25,240
Speaker 2: hard total and not making light of that at all,

1700
01:27:25,720 --> 01:27:28,680
Speaker 2: but I feel like it only allows you to be

1701
01:27:28,840 --> 01:27:31,559
Speaker 2: like this much of an a hole and that they're

1702
01:27:32,000 --> 01:27:32,679
Speaker 2: I feel like.

1703
01:27:32,720 --> 01:27:35,960
Speaker 4: This is there's there's a realm of.

1704
01:27:35,960 --> 01:27:39,120
Speaker 2: Reasonability, reasonable, a holary that you get a pass on

1705
01:27:39,240 --> 01:27:40,320
Speaker 2: being pregnant.

1706
01:27:39,920 --> 01:27:44,000
Speaker 6: And I feel like like these are very obvious steps

1707
01:27:44,080 --> 01:27:45,680
Speaker 6: outside of that realm of.

1708
01:27:45,800 --> 01:27:47,080
Speaker 2: Any physical abuse.

1709
01:27:47,840 --> 01:27:51,680
Speaker 4: Completely completely, Yeah, not acceptable at all.

1710
01:27:51,840 --> 01:27:53,799
Speaker 2: I don't want it. I don't like it. Nope.

1711
01:27:54,200 --> 01:27:57,400
Speaker 6: Now, one month before she delivered, she yelled how effing

1712
01:27:57,479 --> 01:27:59,640
Speaker 6: useless I am, and how I don't do anything, and

1713
01:27:59,680 --> 01:28:01,000
Speaker 6: that she staying with her mother.

1714
01:28:01,560 --> 01:28:02,799
Speaker 4: She didn't let me get her anything.

1715
01:28:02,920 --> 01:28:05,000
Speaker 6: Come and check in, check in on her threaten to

1716
01:28:05,040 --> 01:28:07,559
Speaker 6: divorce me and get a restraining order if I even

1717
01:28:07,720 --> 01:28:10,360
Speaker 6: called her. A couple of weeks back, I found out

1718
01:28:10,400 --> 01:28:13,880
Speaker 6: about the birth of my son from a Facebook post.

1719
01:28:14,000 --> 01:28:16,479
Speaker 4: Oh that is tough.

1720
01:28:16,920 --> 01:28:20,519
Speaker 6: Once again, Like, there are absolutely scenarios in where you

1721
01:28:20,600 --> 01:28:23,160
Speaker 6: don't you know, want the father president in these present

1722
01:28:23,240 --> 01:28:27,400
Speaker 6: in these very extreme scenarios. Oh, he was just seems

1723
01:28:27,400 --> 01:28:29,679
Speaker 6: like he was trying his hardest to be supportive and

1724
01:28:29,760 --> 01:28:31,559
Speaker 6: he was getting abusive behavior.

1725
01:28:31,760 --> 01:28:35,439
Speaker 2: I saw conspiracy theory in the chat see psycho Weirdo

1726
01:28:35,560 --> 01:28:42,280
Speaker 2: says conspiracy theory. It's not his kid mmm, and she's

1727
01:28:42,360 --> 01:28:46,240
Speaker 2: trying to push him away. Psycho weirdo. That is psycho weirdo,

1728
01:28:46,800 --> 01:28:51,760
Speaker 2: Psycha psycha a weirdo. Yeah, smart, smart, wow, big brain.

1729
01:28:52,720 --> 01:28:55,240
Speaker 2: So she posted, she posted it with her mother and

1730
01:28:55,280 --> 01:28:55,839
Speaker 2: some family.

1731
01:28:56,280 --> 01:28:59,240
Speaker 6: It effing broke me. I can imagine. I tried to

1732
01:28:59,240 --> 01:29:02,639
Speaker 6: go to the hospital visit. They had security kick me out.

1733
01:29:03,000 --> 01:29:06,720
Speaker 6: After months of outright hatred, anger and abuse thrown at

1734
01:29:06,760 --> 01:29:08,160
Speaker 6: me twenty four to seven.

1735
01:29:08,479 --> 01:29:09,400
Speaker 4: I effing had it.

1736
01:29:09,920 --> 01:29:14,400
Speaker 6: Odds are I'm not even on the birth certificate. I

1737
01:29:14,439 --> 01:29:16,920
Speaker 6: opened a new account and all my deposits go there.

1738
01:29:17,040 --> 01:29:19,599
Speaker 6: I took half out of our joint account. She never

1739
01:29:19,640 --> 01:29:22,080
Speaker 6: bought baby stuff ahead of time. Who knows what the

1740
01:29:22,120 --> 01:29:24,800
Speaker 6: money was going towards. So now that she has to

1741
01:29:24,800 --> 01:29:27,760
Speaker 6: buy supplies for our son, she's used up every cent.

1742
01:29:28,240 --> 01:29:31,400
Speaker 6: I've gotten a lawyer. The house is mine. I'm the

1743
01:29:31,439 --> 01:29:34,160
Speaker 6: only one who spent money on it in any way.

1744
01:29:34,640 --> 01:29:36,640
Speaker 6: I've sent the rest of I sent the rest of

1745
01:29:36,640 --> 01:29:41,160
Speaker 6: her stuff to her mother's house. I'm demanding a paternity test.

1746
01:29:41,840 --> 01:29:45,200
Speaker 6: So honestly smarter that I mean, she's cut you out. Yeah,

1747
01:29:45,200 --> 01:29:50,400
Speaker 6: she's cut you out. Given the extreme nature of her reaction,

1748
01:29:50,640 --> 01:29:54,160
Speaker 6: I think that's and it's like I feel like we're

1749
01:29:54,200 --> 01:29:56,200
Speaker 6: generally like, oh, like trying to work things out and

1750
01:29:56,240 --> 01:29:57,080
Speaker 6: see how things go.

1751
01:29:57,240 --> 01:30:00,640
Speaker 2: But at this point she has me it clear that

1752
01:30:00,680 --> 01:30:02,559
Speaker 2: she does not want you in the light or her

1753
01:30:02,640 --> 01:30:05,720
Speaker 2: life or the baby's life at all. So I think

1754
01:30:05,760 --> 01:30:06,960
Speaker 2: start acting like it at this point.

1755
01:30:07,040 --> 01:30:10,320
Speaker 6: Yeah, once there's erratic and abusive behavior like it's just

1756
01:30:10,760 --> 01:30:12,040
Speaker 6: you don't need to deal with that.

1757
01:30:12,160 --> 01:30:14,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel like she cheated. I feel like she cheated.

1758
01:30:14,080 --> 01:30:14,360
Speaker 2: That's bad.

1759
01:30:14,479 --> 01:30:16,920
Speaker 4: Yes, lady agrees in the comments.

1760
01:30:17,720 --> 01:30:21,600
Speaker 6: I'm not spending a dang sent until I get verification

1761
01:30:21,680 --> 01:30:24,680
Speaker 6: it's my son. I'm absolutely divorcing her. She chose to

1762
01:30:24,720 --> 01:30:27,840
Speaker 6: stay at home life. If she cheated, she's screwed. Her

1763
01:30:27,880 --> 01:30:30,360
Speaker 6: mother has money for a couple weeks stay, not even

1764
01:30:30,560 --> 01:30:33,160
Speaker 6: close to enough for full time support. If he is

1765
01:30:33,160 --> 01:30:35,599
Speaker 6: my son, I will absolutely be getting my rights as

1766
01:30:35,600 --> 01:30:39,080
Speaker 6: a father for a relationship. Last week, I soon to

1767
01:30:39,120 --> 01:30:42,639
Speaker 6: be X called me. She was practically hyperventilating. She wanted

1768
01:30:42,680 --> 01:30:44,840
Speaker 6: to come home. She's crying about how it was all

1769
01:30:44,880 --> 01:30:47,400
Speaker 6: a mistake. She's not staying with her mother, she's at

1770
01:30:47,439 --> 01:30:49,880
Speaker 6: a friend's house. She wants to come home. She wants

1771
01:30:49,880 --> 01:30:52,240
Speaker 6: our son to have his father. I told her, I

1772
01:30:52,400 --> 01:30:55,160
Speaker 6: don't effing believe that he is my son. Why the

1773
01:30:55,360 --> 01:30:58,880
Speaker 6: f would she pull this crap? If he is, show

1774
01:30:58,920 --> 01:31:01,559
Speaker 6: me a paternity test, and I'll do everything I can

1775
01:31:01,840 --> 01:31:04,479
Speaker 6: for him and him only. She wants to meet tomorrow

1776
01:31:04,479 --> 01:31:06,800
Speaker 6: at a park so I can talk to her. I said, sure,

1777
01:31:06,960 --> 01:31:10,240
Speaker 6: so I can finally say everything I have said I

1778
01:31:10,280 --> 01:31:12,759
Speaker 6: should have said months ago to her face. My parents

1779
01:31:12,800 --> 01:31:15,479
Speaker 6: are hoping we can make up, but they absolutely.

1780
01:31:15,000 --> 01:31:16,160
Speaker 4: Understand if I won't.

1781
01:31:16,520 --> 01:31:20,400
Speaker 6: My brother is a deadbeat jackass, so I don't care

1782
01:31:20,439 --> 01:31:22,800
Speaker 6: what he has to say. But my sister thinks I

1783
01:31:22,840 --> 01:31:25,040
Speaker 6: should at least hear her out.

1784
01:31:25,560 --> 01:31:27,800
Speaker 2: To hear her out for sure. Yes, so you can

1785
01:31:27,840 --> 01:31:29,040
Speaker 2: get the paternity to test stuff.

1786
01:31:29,160 --> 01:31:31,800
Speaker 6: Yeah, I'm kind of like because also we have some

1787
01:31:31,840 --> 01:31:35,400
Speaker 6: relevant comments coming up. But I it seems like it

1788
01:31:35,479 --> 01:31:40,160
Speaker 6: came out of nowhere, like prior to the pregnancy her.

1789
01:31:40,360 --> 01:31:43,280
Speaker 6: Oh yeah, the pregnancy erradic in abuse of behavior kind

1790
01:31:43,280 --> 01:31:44,639
Speaker 6: of feelingly seemingly came out of.

1791
01:31:44,560 --> 01:31:49,960
Speaker 2: Nowhere before the wish would suggest it's either cheating or hormonal. Yeah,

1792
01:31:50,320 --> 01:31:52,040
Speaker 2: or a mix of both, or a mix of both.

1793
01:31:52,240 --> 01:31:55,640
Speaker 6: Like some the math is not mathing here, and I

1794
01:31:55,880 --> 01:31:58,559
Speaker 6: kind of want to get to the bottom of what's

1795
01:31:58,600 --> 01:31:59,240
Speaker 6: really going on.

1796
01:31:59,280 --> 01:32:01,680
Speaker 2: And I feel like meeting will at least get a

1797
01:32:01,720 --> 01:32:04,280
Speaker 2: little bit more closure, yes.

1798
01:32:04,840 --> 01:32:07,760
Speaker 6: And ultimately like again this this it is still of

1799
01:32:07,760 --> 01:32:10,160
Speaker 6: course possible that this is Ope's child and he wants

1800
01:32:10,160 --> 01:32:13,000
Speaker 6: to be an active father. So there's that whole thing

1801
01:32:13,040 --> 01:32:15,360
Speaker 6: of like trying to get I don't know what it

1802
01:32:15,400 --> 01:32:15,960
Speaker 6: would this is.

1803
01:32:16,240 --> 01:32:17,599
Speaker 4: This is kind of an interesting case.

1804
01:32:17,640 --> 01:32:21,840
Speaker 6: I wonder what OPI will be able to get, like, uh,

1805
01:32:22,080 --> 01:32:25,519
Speaker 6: visitation rights wise, and like if there's any alimony or

1806
01:32:25,520 --> 01:32:28,200
Speaker 6: something that op would owe given that this was like

1807
01:32:28,280 --> 01:32:30,960
Speaker 6: a a a abusive scenario.

1808
01:32:31,600 --> 01:32:33,400
Speaker 4: I'm not sure. I'm not sure.

1809
01:32:33,640 --> 01:32:36,479
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I think if it is his kid,

1810
01:32:36,560 --> 01:32:39,519
Speaker 2: he'll have to give some kind of oh wait, because

1811
01:32:39,520 --> 01:32:42,280
Speaker 2: they're married. Would I feel like if he got the

1812
01:32:42,360 --> 01:32:44,559
Speaker 2: right kind of law, he wouldn't necessarily have to pay

1813
01:32:44,600 --> 01:32:46,400
Speaker 2: alimony for the divorce.

1814
01:32:46,439 --> 01:32:48,200
Speaker 4: But then it's like, what does the what does this

1815
01:32:48,560 --> 01:32:49,519
Speaker 4: child child? Look like?

1816
01:32:49,720 --> 01:32:52,920
Speaker 2: Yeah? I imagine it sounds like Opie wants to do

1817
01:32:53,040 --> 01:32:54,200
Speaker 2: everything he can for the child.

1818
01:32:54,400 --> 01:32:57,840
Speaker 6: Yes, and I imagine in this case, uh, OPI would

1819
01:32:57,880 --> 01:33:02,280
Speaker 6: be able to possibly get honestly all of the rights.

1820
01:33:02,520 --> 01:33:05,200
Speaker 2: Also, Aaron has a good point. When the card was declined,

1821
01:33:05,240 --> 01:33:08,680
Speaker 2: her speed dial starts working again, like it's probably that

1822
01:33:08,760 --> 01:33:13,760
Speaker 2: she's only realizing the financial ramifications that she's reaching out.

1823
01:33:13,880 --> 01:33:15,800
Speaker 6: This is all after he pulled the money out of

1824
01:33:15,800 --> 01:33:17,800
Speaker 6: the joint account and she and he said she used

1825
01:33:17,880 --> 01:33:19,040
Speaker 6: up everything in the joint account.

1826
01:33:19,080 --> 01:33:21,599
Speaker 2: So that is a great point.

1827
01:33:21,840 --> 01:33:24,400
Speaker 6: Yeah, now she's coming back crying because she doesn't have

1828
01:33:24,600 --> 01:33:28,200
Speaker 6: any any financial support, and it's like, well, if you

1829
01:33:28,240 --> 01:33:31,080
Speaker 6: hadn't been that way. But there are some relevant comments

1830
01:33:31,080 --> 01:33:33,400
Speaker 6: here as well, great relevant comments from our chat two.

1831
01:33:35,479 --> 01:33:42,360
Speaker 6: Cd nove says, not the ahole. Someone mentioned U parapousal psychosis.

1832
01:33:42,400 --> 01:33:42,799
Speaker 2: Interesting.

1833
01:33:42,800 --> 01:33:44,960
Speaker 4: I don't think we've heard that a Riley. Could you

1834
01:33:45,000 --> 01:33:49,280
Speaker 4: look look it up? She needs to talk to a doctor.

1835
01:33:49,360 --> 01:33:51,800
Speaker 6: But sheh if I found out that my baby was

1836
01:33:51,840 --> 01:33:54,720
Speaker 6: born on Facebook, I would be absolutely flattened. That is

1837
01:33:55,080 --> 01:33:58,680
Speaker 6: same really bad parapozals psychosis.

1838
01:33:58,720 --> 01:33:59,840
Speaker 4: Could you blow that up a little bit for me.

1839
01:34:01,040 --> 01:34:04,400
Speaker 6: Can be a time when mood and psychotic symptoms can

1840
01:34:04,439 --> 01:34:08,160
Speaker 6: develop or worsen. Estrogen fluctuations during this time can disrupt

1841
01:34:08,200 --> 01:34:12,559
Speaker 6: the mesolimbic reward system in some women, which can lead

1842
01:34:12,640 --> 01:34:17,400
Speaker 6: to psychiatric problems like psychosis or and d no.

1843
01:34:17,400 --> 01:34:19,120
Speaker 4: Now, basically like.

1844
01:34:20,640 --> 01:34:23,920
Speaker 6: Psychosis induced by different things from the pregnancy, like the

1845
01:34:24,280 --> 01:34:30,840
Speaker 6: hormones and things of that nature. Halcyonca says she also

1846
01:34:30,960 --> 01:34:33,720
Speaker 6: physically abused him. That woman is not well, He's right

1847
01:34:33,760 --> 01:34:37,240
Speaker 6: to protect himself and divorce her. Bleep Blue Block Blow

1848
01:34:37,800 --> 01:34:41,160
Speaker 6: says yes, if she is behaving like this to her husband,

1849
01:34:41,479 --> 01:34:43,800
Speaker 6: is she even safe to mother for the child?

1850
01:34:44,400 --> 01:34:45,360
Speaker 4: I'm asking that as well.

1851
01:34:45,640 --> 01:34:48,080
Speaker 6: OPI you should document any and all that you can

1852
01:34:48,200 --> 01:34:50,640
Speaker 6: about this. If it is your son, you might need

1853
01:34:51,120 --> 01:34:54,679
Speaker 6: to protect him from mother who might be genuinely dangerous.

1854
01:34:54,760 --> 01:34:56,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, true, true.

1855
01:34:56,200 --> 01:34:59,160
Speaker 6: Substantial Youth says not the ahole. Heck, no, do not

1856
01:34:59,240 --> 01:35:01,360
Speaker 6: meet her at the park tomorrow. If she wants to

1857
01:35:01,360 --> 01:35:03,759
Speaker 6: meet you, then it can be at your lawyer's office

1858
01:35:03,760 --> 01:35:08,400
Speaker 6: with your representative president. In a conversation recorded Loki, I

1859
01:35:08,520 --> 01:35:11,080
Speaker 6: am almost like maybe meet at the park to get

1860
01:35:11,120 --> 01:35:13,680
Speaker 6: her to because I feel like this, I feel like

1861
01:35:13,720 --> 01:35:17,240
Speaker 6: she'll be like way more guarded if they go into

1862
01:35:17,280 --> 01:35:20,479
Speaker 6: like a lawyer meeting versus like sitting down face to

1863
01:35:20,520 --> 01:35:21,879
Speaker 6: face and like, I don't.

1864
01:35:21,640 --> 01:35:24,479
Speaker 2: Know, I mean, I agree, I agree.

1865
01:35:24,600 --> 01:35:27,240
Speaker 6: Yeah, I feel like that's probably how I would personally

1866
01:35:27,240 --> 01:35:29,879
Speaker 6: approach it. If the child is yours, after an immediate

1867
01:35:29,880 --> 01:35:32,480
Speaker 6: paternity test, make sure your name is on the certificate

1868
01:35:32,479 --> 01:35:34,559
Speaker 6: and that you file for equal custody and I have

1869
01:35:34,600 --> 01:35:37,360
Speaker 6: equal say in all of the decisions of your child's life.

1870
01:35:37,479 --> 01:35:40,760
Speaker 6: I would even ask to communicate via a parenting app.

1871
01:35:40,800 --> 01:35:43,920
Speaker 6: Oh interesting, save all forms of communication from her via

1872
01:35:43,960 --> 01:35:46,280
Speaker 6: text and email, so you have a paper trail, no

1873
01:35:46,400 --> 01:35:49,080
Speaker 6: phone calls. I'm very sorry that you had to go

1874
01:35:49,160 --> 01:35:51,400
Speaker 6: through this and your experience becoming a father. If the

1875
01:35:51,520 --> 01:35:54,559
Speaker 6: child is yours, was ruined. You realize your worth and

1876
01:35:54,600 --> 01:35:56,479
Speaker 6: you do not want to be with a partner like this.

1877
01:35:56,640 --> 01:35:59,519
Speaker 6: Please protect yourself. I hope you have cameras around your property,

1878
01:35:59,560 --> 01:36:02,400
Speaker 6: a rink by the door, and you claim she abandoned

1879
01:36:02,400 --> 01:36:04,840
Speaker 6: your space. Your parents need to be on your side

1880
01:36:04,840 --> 01:36:07,599
Speaker 6: and follow your leave. The relationship is not healthy anymore,

1881
01:36:07,640 --> 01:36:10,240
Speaker 6: and now that a child's involved, you should be putting

1882
01:36:10,320 --> 01:36:13,000
Speaker 6: the child first and not raising it in a potentially

1883
01:36:13,160 --> 01:36:18,120
Speaker 6: toxic environment. OPI responds to all this. As far as

1884
01:36:18,160 --> 01:36:21,680
Speaker 6: my parents, they love her and believe she had some

1885
01:36:21,800 --> 01:36:25,080
Speaker 6: mental break during the pregnancy. However, when they found out

1886
01:36:25,120 --> 01:36:27,760
Speaker 6: about the Facebook post, my dad was heartbroken and my

1887
01:36:27,840 --> 01:36:31,320
Speaker 6: mom was utterly livid. They want me to have a

1888
01:36:31,360 --> 01:36:33,639
Speaker 6: happy family, but they are also pissed at her.

1889
01:36:33,720 --> 01:36:34,439
Speaker 4: On my behalf.

1890
01:36:34,840 --> 01:36:36,640
Speaker 2: They'll support whatever.

1891
01:36:36,520 --> 01:36:40,240
Speaker 6: I decide and closing us out with the relevant Comma

1892
01:36:40,320 --> 01:36:44,400
Speaker 6: socialist Poopa Ganda says, wait so they know, Wait so

1893
01:36:44,479 --> 01:36:45,840
Speaker 6: they know, but think it's fine that.

1894
01:36:45,800 --> 01:36:47,320
Speaker 2: She verbally and physically abused you.

1895
01:36:47,479 --> 01:36:50,360
Speaker 6: I appreciate the thinking that it was a mental break,

1896
01:36:50,600 --> 01:36:52,960
Speaker 6: but that doesn't mean anyone should stay with an abuser.

1897
01:36:53,040 --> 01:36:55,360
Speaker 6: I hope you're getting therapy and you have a good

1898
01:36:55,360 --> 01:36:57,599
Speaker 6: support system because this was awful to read.

1899
01:36:57,920 --> 01:36:58,280
Speaker 4: OPI.

1900
01:36:58,479 --> 01:37:00,559
Speaker 6: I kind of fed up and didn't tell them about

1901
01:37:00,560 --> 01:37:03,680
Speaker 6: this lapping and still haven't told them because I was

1902
01:37:03,720 --> 01:37:05,920
Speaker 6: still in that mindset that she was just going through

1903
01:37:05,920 --> 01:37:08,479
Speaker 6: a rough time. It was dumb, and I will and

1904
01:37:08,520 --> 01:37:12,360
Speaker 6: I will absolutely inform them asap. I am admittedly not

1905
01:37:12,479 --> 01:37:14,720
Speaker 6: great at opening up to them much because I have

1906
01:37:14,800 --> 01:37:17,280
Speaker 6: the mindset not to worry them and handle things on

1907
01:37:17,320 --> 01:37:20,800
Speaker 6: my own. But going forward, if I'm trying to get

1908
01:37:20,800 --> 01:37:25,040
Speaker 6: a good support system, I gotta dump it all on them.

1909
01:37:25,400 --> 01:37:26,360
Speaker 4: Judgment not the a hole.

1910
01:37:26,439 --> 01:37:28,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, oh, he is definitely not the a hole. Just like,

1911
01:37:28,680 --> 01:37:30,760
Speaker 2: stay safe and try to get I mean, try to

1912
01:37:30,760 --> 01:37:32,679
Speaker 2: find out if this is your kid and if it

1913
01:37:32,720 --> 01:37:33,559
Speaker 2: is protected.

1914
01:37:33,840 --> 01:37:35,920
Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean you and you've been going through this alone. Like,

1915
01:37:35,960 --> 01:37:38,600
Speaker 6: I think your parents will like very much want to

1916
01:37:39,400 --> 01:37:41,240
Speaker 6: Like your parents want to support you and want to help,

1917
01:37:41,280 --> 01:37:45,080
Speaker 6: Like they seem like very involved and very the eager

1918
01:37:45,120 --> 01:37:49,240
Speaker 6: to do what they believe is the best thing to

1919
01:37:49,400 --> 01:37:51,960
Speaker 6: be done. And I think that that would be I'm

1920
01:37:52,000 --> 01:37:54,280
Speaker 6: glad that you're now like wanting to like open up,

1921
01:37:54,320 --> 01:37:57,160
Speaker 6: and I think that's a good a good pivot.

1922
01:37:57,479 --> 01:37:59,040
Speaker 2: But is there more to the story.

1923
01:37:59,479 --> 01:38:00,920
Speaker 4: Oh there is more?

1924
01:38:01,400 --> 01:38:03,599
Speaker 2: Oh God, I hope it's better.

1925
01:38:03,720 --> 01:38:05,799
Speaker 4: I did want to I did want to ask really quick.

1926
01:38:06,080 --> 01:38:08,880
Speaker 6: And we've kind of had this pop up in stories

1927
01:38:08,920 --> 01:38:14,400
Speaker 6: before where there's this like externally induced psychosis basically, like

1928
01:38:14,439 --> 01:38:17,000
Speaker 6: we've had one where there was like a brain growth

1929
01:38:17,400 --> 01:38:20,320
Speaker 6: that was literally messing with the brain chemistry, and then

1930
01:38:20,360 --> 01:38:23,360
Speaker 6: the person of the op had that removed and they

1931
01:38:23,360 --> 01:38:28,240
Speaker 6: were like almost like instantly better virtually. That's kind of

1932
01:38:28,320 --> 01:38:30,200
Speaker 6: a tough scenario. I feel like, like, what if this

1933
01:38:30,320 --> 01:38:33,160
Speaker 6: is truly pregnancy induced psychosis?

1934
01:38:33,240 --> 01:38:34,600
Speaker 4: Okay I was reading about.

1935
01:38:34,640 --> 01:38:38,920
Speaker 2: Sure, Yeah, but like that, I mean, then you get

1936
01:38:38,920 --> 01:38:44,559
Speaker 2: into conversations of people are only dicks because of their brain.

1937
01:38:45,439 --> 01:38:47,720
Speaker 2: They were born with a certain brain that made them

1938
01:38:47,760 --> 01:38:50,240
Speaker 2: an a hole. Yeah, you know, like you don't you

1939
01:38:50,280 --> 01:38:54,200
Speaker 2: don't like, like every serial killer that's ever killed is

1940
01:38:54,360 --> 01:38:58,160
Speaker 2: because they have a message of brain right, or they've

1941
01:38:58,280 --> 01:39:02,000
Speaker 2: experienced some kind of trauma. So so I think it's yes,

1942
01:39:02,479 --> 01:39:06,760
Speaker 2: every person's actions that has ever done anything wrong is

1943
01:39:06,800 --> 01:39:13,160
Speaker 2: because messed up brain or trauma. Does that excuse terrible behavior? No?

1944
01:39:13,520 --> 01:39:16,320
Speaker 2: Does it allow us to maybe be a little bit

1945
01:39:16,360 --> 01:39:21,880
Speaker 2: more empathetic, yes, but does it does it? Like I

1946
01:39:21,920 --> 01:39:24,879
Speaker 2: don't think it absolves them of any of the actions

1947
01:39:24,880 --> 01:39:27,800
Speaker 2: that they've done, but I think it helps understand and

1948
01:39:27,880 --> 01:39:31,840
Speaker 2: helps move forward, Like from that point on, Like you

1949
01:39:31,880 --> 01:39:36,519
Speaker 2: can move forward with that information, but I think you

1950
01:39:36,560 --> 01:39:40,280
Speaker 2: should still measure that person like you would anyone else

1951
01:39:40,439 --> 01:39:42,759
Speaker 2: of assholeary.

1952
01:39:42,320 --> 01:39:46,760
Speaker 6: Totally and to be supretty do pretty crystal clear. I

1953
01:39:46,840 --> 01:39:49,920
Speaker 6: was definitely not suggesting that as a means of excusing

1954
01:39:50,520 --> 01:39:53,439
Speaker 6: any form of abuse or anything like that. It was

1955
01:39:53,479 --> 01:39:55,200
Speaker 6: I think I was just thinking back to that one

1956
01:39:55,240 --> 01:40:00,439
Speaker 6: specific story where it was this like very weird like

1957
01:40:00,640 --> 01:40:03,160
Speaker 6: rock in a hard place scenario of this person had

1958
01:40:03,200 --> 01:40:03,599
Speaker 6: this like.

1959
01:40:04,720 --> 01:40:07,920
Speaker 2: Brain growth suck, suck, and it sucks. Yeah, but but

1960
01:40:08,200 --> 01:40:11,600
Speaker 2: there's like literally like you're still like just because you

1961
01:40:11,720 --> 01:40:13,680
Speaker 2: had a messed up brain doesn't mean you're not the

1962
01:40:13,720 --> 01:40:14,160
Speaker 2: a whole.

1963
01:40:14,200 --> 01:40:18,360
Speaker 6: Still yeah, zero excuse uh during, during and for all

1964
01:40:18,439 --> 01:40:21,480
Speaker 6: all of the events that happens and uh be afterwards.

1965
01:40:22,200 --> 01:40:22,320
Speaker 2: Uh.

1966
01:40:22,479 --> 01:40:27,679
Speaker 6: The person who was the victim basically does not need

1967
01:40:27,720 --> 01:40:30,640
Speaker 6: to go back to that or that that person is

1968
01:40:30,800 --> 01:40:33,840
Speaker 6: entitled to another chance or anything of that nature.

1969
01:40:33,880 --> 01:40:35,479
Speaker 4: But ladies and gentlemen, we have an update.

1970
01:40:35,560 --> 01:40:36,400
Speaker 2: One day later.

1971
01:40:36,560 --> 01:40:39,880
Speaker 6: I had to speed up the process of actually talking

1972
01:40:39,880 --> 01:40:42,599
Speaker 6: to her, since the story spread quickly around the internet,

1973
01:40:42,840 --> 01:40:45,519
Speaker 6: inevitably reaching someone involved with my friends or family, and

1974
01:40:45,640 --> 01:40:50,120
Speaker 6: no way more people I know personally, No, no are

1975
01:40:50,160 --> 01:40:53,519
Speaker 6: getting the details that I'm comfortable with my bad Well,

1976
01:40:53,840 --> 01:40:54,280
Speaker 6: why are.

1977
01:40:54,160 --> 01:40:56,200
Speaker 2: You doing more here?

1978
01:40:56,240 --> 01:40:58,240
Speaker 4: Who we are spreading more details?

1979
01:40:58,720 --> 01:41:00,920
Speaker 6: Before I ended up chatting with her, I opened up

1980
01:41:00,960 --> 01:41:03,759
Speaker 6: to my parents and sister about what was happening in detail.

1981
01:41:04,080 --> 01:41:07,240
Speaker 6: My parents were flustered at me hiding the more unsavory

1982
01:41:07,320 --> 01:41:09,920
Speaker 6: details to say the least, and are probably going to

1983
01:41:09,920 --> 01:41:11,840
Speaker 6: be checking up on me daily for the rest of

1984
01:41:11,840 --> 01:41:14,439
Speaker 6: the year to make sure I'm okay. Great, I think

1985
01:41:14,479 --> 01:41:17,439
Speaker 6: that's that's fantastic and totally what the parents should do,

1986
01:41:17,560 --> 01:41:21,920
Speaker 6: and good on them. My sister would probably have had

1987
01:41:21,960 --> 01:41:24,680
Speaker 6: to be held back from thrashing her, so I had,

1988
01:41:25,240 --> 01:41:26,600
Speaker 6: so I had to get a friend to help with

1989
01:41:26,640 --> 01:41:29,040
Speaker 6: the chat since my sister would not be able to

1990
01:41:29,040 --> 01:41:32,080
Speaker 6: contain herself. So basically, within hours of the story getting

1991
01:41:32,080 --> 01:41:34,680
Speaker 6: into the digital stratosphere, I called my wife back as

1992
01:41:34,760 --> 01:41:37,599
Speaker 6: quickly as I could to finally sit down and talk.

1993
01:41:37,960 --> 01:41:39,880
Speaker 6: We chose a local park this morning, and I had

1994
01:41:39,920 --> 01:41:42,559
Speaker 6: a friend of mine record the conversation from beginning to end.

1995
01:41:43,080 --> 01:41:44,680
Speaker 2: Mart I was.

1996
01:41:44,760 --> 01:41:48,080
Speaker 6: Basically ready to kick a fair story and get out

1997
01:41:48,120 --> 01:41:54,760
Speaker 6: of dotch, but of course it got complicated.

1998
01:41:54,840 --> 01:41:58,360
Speaker 2: Oh god, what it got even more complicated than that.

1999
01:41:58,479 --> 01:42:01,960
Speaker 6: So we met at a section with picnic tables and

2000
01:42:02,040 --> 01:42:04,559
Speaker 6: picked one as far away from other people to avoid

2001
01:42:04,600 --> 01:42:06,360
Speaker 6: them getting wrapped up in any awkwardness.

2002
01:42:06,840 --> 01:42:13,320
Speaker 4: She looked terrible, haggard and haggard, stressed, and thankfully without

2003
01:42:13,320 --> 01:42:16,320
Speaker 4: the baby. Keep in mind she very recently gave birth,

2004
01:42:16,720 --> 01:42:20,360
Speaker 4: is my understanding, so we're maybe maybe weeks out, which

2005
01:42:20,400 --> 01:42:22,679
Speaker 4: is still pretty recent.

2006
01:42:24,000 --> 01:42:24,920
Speaker 2: She tried to.

2007
01:42:25,120 --> 01:42:28,559
Speaker 6: Have the big emotional chat and whatnot. I wasn't tearing

2008
01:42:28,680 --> 01:42:32,000
Speaker 6: up or acting like the herd and badass. I frankly

2009
01:42:32,280 --> 01:42:35,439
Speaker 6: was just wanting to figure out what this was all for,

2010
01:42:36,040 --> 01:42:36,920
Speaker 6: get to the bottom of it.

2011
01:42:37,160 --> 01:42:38,360
Speaker 4: I didn't even get to ask the.

2012
01:42:38,360 --> 01:42:41,680
Speaker 6: Question before the floodgates built. I'm going to attempt to

2013
01:42:41,760 --> 01:42:44,080
Speaker 6: relay the story as best as I can, because even

2014
01:42:44,120 --> 01:42:46,799
Speaker 6: looking back on the recording, it's a mess. But also

2015
01:42:46,880 --> 01:42:48,960
Speaker 6: it's because I don't one hundred percent believe it, so

2016
01:42:49,080 --> 01:42:51,559
Speaker 6: fair warning, it could all be fake. This all started

2017
01:42:51,560 --> 01:42:55,559
Speaker 6: with her mother. As I said before, my wife's father

2018
01:42:55,680 --> 01:42:58,880
Speaker 6: was absent. He started off well, having two sons with

2019
01:42:58,920 --> 01:43:02,679
Speaker 6: her mother before her. When her mother got pregnant with her,

2020
01:43:02,760 --> 01:43:05,840
Speaker 6: her father went from being in from being in the

2021
01:43:05,840 --> 01:43:08,680
Speaker 6: picture the perfect guy, from being the picture perfect guy

2022
01:43:08,720 --> 01:43:12,560
Speaker 6: he was at first and slowly changed into a negligent, abuseful, abusive,

2023
01:43:12,720 --> 01:43:17,680
Speaker 6: unfaithful and unsupportive jackass ending with him disappearing when her

2024
01:43:17,720 --> 01:43:21,120
Speaker 6: mother was delivering. He's been in and out of prison since.

2025
01:43:21,280 --> 01:43:23,720
Speaker 6: No one knows why he did it. The impression her

2026
01:43:23,760 --> 01:43:26,639
Speaker 6: mother always gave was a strong, resilient, resilient woman who

2027
01:43:26,640 --> 01:43:29,400
Speaker 6: withstood anything life through at her and did anything for

2028
01:43:29,439 --> 01:43:32,400
Speaker 6: her kids. She has claimed to be in therapy for years.

2029
01:43:32,560 --> 01:43:35,360
Speaker 6: In reality, she has managed to conceal a deep hatred

2030
01:43:35,439 --> 01:43:38,960
Speaker 6: of men outside of her sons. But according to my wife,

2031
01:43:39,120 --> 01:43:42,920
Speaker 6: there was favoritism towards her. My wife also found out

2032
01:43:43,040 --> 01:43:45,880
Speaker 6: that she stopped therapy almost a decade ago, but never

2033
01:43:45,960 --> 01:43:49,800
Speaker 6: told anyone. Her mother seemed to have always had some

2034
01:43:50,040 --> 01:43:54,120
Speaker 6: slight against me, and now I know why. She was

2035
01:43:54,160 --> 01:43:57,439
Speaker 6: never hostile, but certainly wasn't warm to me, And hearing

2036
01:43:57,640 --> 01:44:00,599
Speaker 6: and hearing about her secret hatred, I kind and knew

2037
01:44:00,720 --> 01:44:03,880
Speaker 6: where this was going. Roughly about a half a year

2038
01:44:03,920 --> 01:44:07,360
Speaker 6: before she got pregnant, my mother in law slowly began

2039
01:44:07,560 --> 01:44:12,080
Speaker 6: sowing seeds of doubt and bitterness into my wife. Apparently

2040
01:44:12,120 --> 01:44:14,840
Speaker 6: she had a full mental break. She told her about

2041
01:44:14,840 --> 01:44:17,679
Speaker 6: me staying late at work, possibly.

2042
01:44:17,200 --> 01:44:19,400
Speaker 2: Hiding an affair. Oh so bad?

2043
01:44:20,640 --> 01:44:22,840
Speaker 4: Yet why not check in?

2044
01:44:23,400 --> 01:44:26,160
Speaker 6: Why not if there's hey, maybe there is a suspicion

2045
01:44:26,240 --> 01:44:29,080
Speaker 6: someone you love and trust tells you. Why not confront

2046
01:44:29,120 --> 01:44:32,920
Speaker 6: them with this and try to figure it out? God,

2047
01:44:34,520 --> 01:44:38,080
Speaker 6: or that myself providing the majority of the income setting

2048
01:44:38,120 --> 01:44:41,720
Speaker 6: her up for a hard divorce. Dude, This mother in

2049
01:44:41,800 --> 01:44:47,280
Speaker 6: law literally created a prophecy to be fulfilled of him

2050
01:44:47,520 --> 01:44:51,200
Speaker 6: him divorcing and because she's stay at home mom, not

2051
01:44:51,240 --> 01:44:53,639
Speaker 6: having the finances to support her later, her mom literally

2052
01:44:53,680 --> 01:44:54,280
Speaker 6: was the one that she.

2053
01:44:54,320 --> 01:44:54,960
Speaker 2: Made that happen.

2054
01:44:55,000 --> 01:44:56,519
Speaker 4: She made that happen. It would not have happened.

2055
01:44:56,560 --> 01:44:58,680
Speaker 6: It literally would not have happened, that she would have

2056
01:44:58,680 --> 01:44:59,880
Speaker 6: been there and supported without them.

2057
01:45:00,040 --> 01:45:02,639
Speaker 2: Other in law shout out mom for making dreams reality.

2058
01:45:02,760 --> 01:45:05,479
Speaker 6: I got everything my mother in law's husband did to her.

2059
01:45:05,560 --> 01:45:08,120
Speaker 6: She convinced my wife that I would do to her.

2060
01:45:08,560 --> 01:45:11,519
Speaker 6: She pumped this poison into her for months. My wife

2061
01:45:11,520 --> 01:45:15,200
Speaker 6: always idolized her mother, and compounding that with anxiety she

2062
01:45:15,600 --> 01:45:18,720
Speaker 6: suffered from years, she dove in deep. As soon as

2063
01:45:18,720 --> 01:45:21,160
Speaker 6: she got pregnant, like on the Dot, she fell into

2064
01:45:21,240 --> 01:45:24,280
Speaker 6: a mental hole within days, and that's when her mother

2065
01:45:24,320 --> 01:45:26,519
Speaker 6: got a hold of her again. Hearing about the pregnancy

2066
01:45:26,560 --> 01:45:29,920
Speaker 6: apparently triggered something fierce in my mother in law, and

2067
01:45:30,040 --> 01:45:33,080
Speaker 6: it spiraled from there again.

2068
01:45:33,200 --> 01:45:37,840
Speaker 2: Like I this makes me understand more, But I don't

2069
01:45:37,840 --> 01:45:39,280
Speaker 2: think it excuses any of them.

2070
01:45:39,520 --> 01:45:40,280
Speaker 4: Not excuse it.

2071
01:45:40,280 --> 01:45:42,280
Speaker 2: It's like the same Like there's guys that get into

2072
01:45:42,320 --> 01:45:47,000
Speaker 2: red Pill right, and like they're super lonely. They feel

2073
01:45:47,040 --> 01:45:49,000
Speaker 2: like like no one likes them, and they go to

2074
01:45:49,080 --> 01:45:50,960
Speaker 2: this dark corner of the Internet and listen to these

2075
01:45:50,960 --> 01:45:53,880
Speaker 2: whispers of Andrew Tate speaking in their ear, and like

2076
01:45:54,160 --> 01:45:57,559
Speaker 2: if you learn the whole backstory of why they got

2077
01:45:57,560 --> 01:46:01,000
Speaker 2: to that point, you can't help, but not be like empathetic,

2078
01:46:01,040 --> 01:46:04,040
Speaker 2: because when you understand someone fully, you just realize maybe

2079
01:46:04,040 --> 01:46:06,679
Speaker 2: that would be me in that situation. Are you looking

2080
01:46:06,720 --> 01:46:07,480
Speaker 2: up alpha.

2081
01:46:07,240 --> 01:46:10,280
Speaker 6: Riley's right, pulling up pictures of alpha wolves for they feel.

2082
01:46:11,200 --> 01:46:13,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's how they feel.

2083
01:46:12,840 --> 01:46:15,439
Speaker 6: That's how they But it's not an excuse. That's that's

2084
01:46:15,479 --> 01:46:18,040
Speaker 6: how they're like projecting themselves to make themselves anyway. That's good,

2085
01:46:18,080 --> 01:46:19,120
Speaker 6: good analogy.

2086
01:46:18,880 --> 01:46:22,439
Speaker 2: But I I just think it's it's just it's it.

2087
01:46:22,720 --> 01:46:25,960
Speaker 2: You will always build more empathy when you hear how

2088
01:46:26,000 --> 01:46:29,080
Speaker 2: someone came to make bad decisions, because you'll feel like

2089
01:46:29,160 --> 01:46:31,799
Speaker 2: you understand them and that you would make the same decisions.

2090
01:46:31,840 --> 01:46:34,560
Speaker 2: Maybe if you had all of their life experience.

2091
01:46:35,120 --> 01:46:38,680
Speaker 6: It could likely help address and rectify the situation. But

2092
01:46:38,960 --> 01:46:41,360
Speaker 6: to have the context, but I don't. Never an excuse

2093
01:46:41,400 --> 01:46:45,840
Speaker 6: and never an excuse. Yeah, every single thing my wife

2094
01:46:45,920 --> 01:46:47,800
Speaker 6: did to hurt me was at the behest of my

2095
01:46:47,880 --> 01:46:52,080
Speaker 6: mother in law, combined with pregnancy hormones and undiagnosed mental illness.

2096
01:46:52,160 --> 01:46:55,599
Speaker 6: She claims to have no confirmation and stress. She completely

2097
01:46:55,640 --> 01:46:58,160
Speaker 6: lost her mind. She one one hundred percent believes I

2098
01:46:58,200 --> 01:47:01,960
Speaker 6: would bail, so she was punish wish me first pulminating

2099
01:47:02,160 --> 01:47:04,680
Speaker 6: in her moving in with her mother and leaving me

2100
01:47:04,880 --> 01:47:07,879
Speaker 6: out of the berth while I was sending the papers

2101
01:47:07,920 --> 01:47:11,200
Speaker 6: and starting the divorce proceedings. She kicked into full blown

2102
01:47:11,320 --> 01:47:15,840
Speaker 6: postpartum depression when her mother finally got to her. When

2103
01:47:16,479 --> 01:47:19,400
Speaker 6: she finally beat me, which I guess was her victory

2104
01:47:19,520 --> 01:47:22,920
Speaker 6: over her ex did I mention she's effing crazy? She

2105
01:47:23,040 --> 01:47:26,360
Speaker 6: had no more use of my wife. The family involved

2106
01:47:26,400 --> 01:47:29,360
Speaker 6: in the birth included my mother in law, sisters, and

2107
01:47:29,439 --> 01:47:32,439
Speaker 6: my wife's brothers. While my mother in law and her

2108
01:47:32,479 --> 01:47:35,519
Speaker 6: sister knew what was going on, my brother in laws

2109
01:47:35,560 --> 01:47:42,240
Speaker 6: got fed the BS narrative. My mother, my brother in

2110
01:47:42,360 --> 01:47:44,720
Speaker 6: law's got fed the BS narrative my mother in law

2111
01:47:44,800 --> 01:47:47,360
Speaker 6: spun When my mother in law was done with her plan,

2112
01:47:47,520 --> 01:47:50,519
Speaker 6: the entire facade came down and my brother in laws

2113
01:47:50,560 --> 01:47:54,680
Speaker 6: found out everything upon questioning my wife. They were horrified. Yeah,

2114
01:47:54,720 --> 01:47:58,240
Speaker 6: they basically realized this was a house of cards, all

2115
01:47:58,280 --> 01:48:02,439
Speaker 6: spun up the mother in law over literally nothing, And

2116
01:48:02,439 --> 01:48:06,400
Speaker 6: it was just the mother in law just yapping and spreading,

2117
01:48:06,800 --> 01:48:11,519
Speaker 6: just rumors the strings needless to say a And it's

2118
01:48:11,520 --> 01:48:14,000
Speaker 6: so sad too, because like, literally the mother in law

2119
01:48:14,080 --> 01:48:18,439
Speaker 6: was like manifesting terrible things happening that needed not to

2120
01:48:18,520 --> 01:48:21,720
Speaker 6: have happened to her. Her daughter could have avoided many scenarios,

2121
01:48:21,800 --> 01:48:24,639
Speaker 6: like having to become a single mother.

2122
01:48:24,920 --> 01:48:27,320
Speaker 2: Imagine if she used her powers for good.

2123
01:48:28,040 --> 01:48:30,640
Speaker 4: Literally, she could have done the exact.

2124
01:48:30,120 --> 01:48:33,360
Speaker 2: She is, literally like she is the best at manifesting,

2125
01:48:33,400 --> 01:48:35,679
Speaker 2: but she's using her manifestation powers for evil.

2126
01:48:36,200 --> 01:48:41,919
Speaker 4: Needless to say, postpartum, facing a very a very grueling

2127
01:48:42,000 --> 01:48:44,519
Speaker 4: divorce on her side, no longer welcome in our home,

2128
01:48:44,760 --> 01:48:47,160
Speaker 4: and having done everything to alienate me from my son,

2129
01:48:47,240 --> 01:48:50,400
Speaker 4: at the behest of a broken lunatic reality hit her

2130
01:48:50,560 --> 01:48:53,840
Speaker 4: like a truck. She torts her entire life because her

2131
01:48:53,880 --> 01:48:56,400
Speaker 4: mother is a broken shell of a human who used

2132
01:48:56,439 --> 01:49:00,280
Speaker 4: her to reenact her own sense of justice, the Mary

2133
01:49:00,280 --> 01:49:03,280
Speaker 4: mother who washed her hands of her, of her after

2134
01:49:03,640 --> 01:49:06,680
Speaker 4: she got what she wanted. Or at least this is

2135
01:49:06,720 --> 01:49:10,160
Speaker 4: the story she gave me. Frankly, there are many story Frankly,

2136
01:49:10,200 --> 01:49:12,800
Speaker 4: there are many holes in her story. The starting point

2137
01:49:12,840 --> 01:49:15,240
Speaker 4: of the pattern of abuse, the claims of who was

2138
01:49:15,280 --> 01:49:19,120
Speaker 4: involved in the delivery, me being absent from appointments, the

2139
01:49:19,200 --> 01:49:22,720
Speaker 4: friend who she confirmed is female that she's staying with,

2140
01:49:23,280 --> 01:49:30,240
Speaker 4: and of course, but I'm I'm active.

2141
01:49:32,040 --> 01:49:36,160
Speaker 2: He hasn't had his five o'clock dinner yet. That's lies.

2142
01:49:37,360 --> 01:49:44,040
Speaker 6: That's lies, and of course my alleged son's paternity. It

2143
01:49:44,120 --> 01:49:47,200
Speaker 6: seems to effing crazy to be made up. Who the

2144
01:49:47,320 --> 01:49:49,760
Speaker 6: heck would go to the effort to make this up?

2145
01:49:50,080 --> 01:49:53,559
Speaker 6: Facing what she is facing? As soon as she finished,

2146
01:49:53,640 --> 01:49:55,920
Speaker 6: she said she's setting up a paternity test and gave

2147
01:49:55,960 --> 01:49:59,200
Speaker 6: me the info I needed with Uh, with any luck,

2148
01:49:59,360 --> 01:50:02,280
Speaker 6: it should be done and roughly a week or so. Uh,

2149
01:50:02,320 --> 01:50:04,960
Speaker 6: if I do my part. She gave the most sincere

2150
01:50:05,000 --> 01:50:08,640
Speaker 6: apologies any human being has ever given. She's begged for

2151
01:50:08,720 --> 01:50:12,120
Speaker 6: another chance. I was frankly too stunned to say anything,

2152
01:50:12,600 --> 01:50:14,440
Speaker 6: so she left and promised.

2153
01:50:15,640 --> 01:50:22,880
Speaker 2: What death John's time for? Bed old man? I am,

2154
01:50:25,040 --> 01:50:26,040
Speaker 2: I am engaged.

2155
01:50:27,720 --> 01:50:34,080
Speaker 6: I am literally again literally dead.

2156
01:50:32,400 --> 01:50:36,519
Speaker 3: Because I think the last names are cut off. I

2157
01:50:36,120 --> 01:50:37,840
Speaker 3: mean I think there's another.

2158
01:50:39,760 --> 01:50:40,280
Speaker 2: Just death.

2159
01:50:40,439 --> 01:50:42,000
Speaker 4: Yeah, just death is coming for you.

2160
01:50:42,160 --> 01:50:44,120
Speaker 2: John does make it funnier.

2161
01:50:44,880 --> 01:50:45,920
Speaker 4: John usually works out.

2162
01:50:45,840 --> 01:50:46,200
Speaker 3: At this time.

2163
01:50:46,240 --> 01:50:47,360
Speaker 4: Were you like finished up a work?

2164
01:50:47,720 --> 01:50:50,919
Speaker 2: John and Riley have been pump and iron and watching

2165
01:50:50,960 --> 01:50:54,599
Speaker 2: people like work out doing crossbed from across the gym.

2166
01:50:55,160 --> 01:50:57,000
Speaker 4: The only person I'm watching work.

2167
01:50:56,840 --> 01:51:04,160
Speaker 2: Is Riley right now. That's right, creet little smile technically, but.

2168
01:51:06,000 --> 01:51:09,760
Speaker 6: I don't think I should give her another chance. I

2169
01:51:09,800 --> 01:51:13,120
Speaker 6: don't think. I don't think I can ever risk anything

2170
01:51:13,200 --> 01:51:17,160
Speaker 6: like this again. God, I'm still hoping she's just being

2171
01:51:17,160 --> 01:51:19,599
Speaker 6: a cheating psycho and spinning a sympathy story to try

2172
01:51:19,640 --> 01:51:20,320
Speaker 6: and throw me off.

2173
01:51:20,960 --> 01:51:22,280
Speaker 4: Because this got.

2174
01:51:22,640 --> 01:51:26,080
Speaker 2: Way way too complicated.

2175
01:51:28,360 --> 01:51:31,080
Speaker 4: My brain just deserves.

2176
01:51:31,680 --> 01:51:33,720
Speaker 2: Energy, I mean oxygen.

2177
01:51:35,760 --> 01:51:37,720
Speaker 6: No, I'm good, I've already I've already drank in the

2178
01:51:37,760 --> 01:51:38,880
Speaker 6: mad get.

2179
01:51:38,880 --> 01:51:39,599
Speaker 2: I get lots of.

2180
01:51:39,640 --> 01:51:42,400
Speaker 4: Energy, But then I'm still It's like, you know, I've

2181
01:51:42,560 --> 01:51:43,360
Speaker 4: already have a drink.

2182
01:51:43,400 --> 01:51:49,160
Speaker 6: You drinking, I'll do you know when your your body's awake,

2183
01:51:49,200 --> 01:51:52,240
Speaker 6: but your eyes are tired. My eyes aren't tired.

2184
01:51:54,360 --> 01:51:57,439
Speaker 4: But what Grandpa talks about that.

2185
01:52:00,400 --> 01:52:06,960
Speaker 2: These freaking guys over here.

2186
01:52:04,240 --> 01:52:07,360
Speaker 6: We talk about this, this story, the story that we

2187
01:52:07,439 --> 01:52:08,599
Speaker 6: have at hand.

2188
01:52:08,760 --> 01:52:12,519
Speaker 3: Yeah, man, we would if you forget stop forgetting.

2189
01:52:13,760 --> 01:52:17,840
Speaker 6: You're the ones forgetting to comment on the story.

2190
01:52:18,280 --> 01:52:23,880
Speaker 2: Yes, it was dating someone.

2191
01:52:23,720 --> 01:52:25,920
Speaker 4: That was that nowhere. I wasn't expecting that one.

2192
01:52:25,960 --> 01:52:28,160
Speaker 3: Okay, I wasn't ready for that does have an okay

2193
01:52:28,200 --> 01:52:31,320
Speaker 3: story time, But I don't know about a potential date.

2194
01:52:32,520 --> 01:52:35,960
Speaker 2: Oh no, we're not gonna I don't think that's happening.

2195
01:52:36,360 --> 01:52:37,639
Speaker 2: I will tell that story anyway.

2196
01:52:37,880 --> 01:52:40,080
Speaker 4: Uh oh, I mean we are you have a little

2197
01:52:40,640 --> 01:52:42,160
Speaker 4: little break. We could we could do it. I think

2198
01:52:42,160 --> 01:52:45,040
Speaker 4: we're let's finish this out and then we can talk

2199
01:52:45,040 --> 01:52:46,479
Speaker 4: about it. There we go, Let's close out with some

2200
01:52:46,520 --> 01:52:50,120
Speaker 4: relevant commslations gentlemen, so Bargeld not old news.

2201
01:52:50,200 --> 01:52:52,240
Speaker 2: Zeus says, I am sorry.

2202
01:52:53,680 --> 01:52:56,680
Speaker 6: That was a tough us. I am so sorry for

2203
01:52:56,720 --> 01:52:59,040
Speaker 6: your pain. Nobody deserves to go through insanity like this.

2204
01:52:59,200 --> 01:53:02,960
Speaker 6: I'm glad she's operating on the paternity test. However, no

2205
01:53:02,960 --> 01:53:04,839
Speaker 6: matter the results, you should go through with the divorce.

2206
01:53:05,280 --> 01:53:07,599
Speaker 6: You do not need this in your life. Given this incident,

2207
01:53:07,800 --> 01:53:09,959
Speaker 6: I would even pursue full.

2208
01:53:09,760 --> 01:53:10,920
Speaker 4: Custody or of your child.

2209
01:53:11,160 --> 01:53:14,000
Speaker 6: Fact, I have to say, I agree to get duplicate

2210
01:53:14,040 --> 01:53:16,599
Speaker 6: copies of the recording of his meeting. Make sure they're

2211
01:53:16,640 --> 01:53:20,000
Speaker 6: easily transferable to your attorney for the divorce. Best of luck,

2212
01:53:20,000 --> 01:53:23,000
Speaker 6: and of course not the a whole sweet fancy Moses says,

2213
01:53:23,439 --> 01:53:26,080
Speaker 6: quoting I don't think I can give her another chance.

2214
01:53:26,240 --> 01:53:29,439
Speaker 6: I don't think I can ever risk anything like this again.

2215
01:53:30,760 --> 01:53:32,360
Speaker 6: What is what's happening?

2216
01:53:37,160 --> 01:53:37,640
Speaker 2: Worry about it?

2217
01:53:37,680 --> 01:53:38,440
Speaker 4: Anyways?

2218
01:53:40,000 --> 01:53:43,920
Speaker 6: You are right OPI responds, or this commentary responds, she

2219
01:53:44,080 --> 01:53:46,839
Speaker 6: subjected to you two months of mental torture and agony,

2220
01:53:46,920 --> 01:53:48,920
Speaker 6: despite you being supportive and understanding.

2221
01:53:49,280 --> 01:53:52,000
Speaker 4: Then she prevented you from being present during the birth

2222
01:53:52,040 --> 01:53:54,400
Speaker 4: of your child. I can't imagine what OPI went through

2223
01:53:54,720 --> 01:53:58,799
Speaker 4: when he found out the birth of his anticipated child

2224
01:53:58,960 --> 01:54:01,960
Speaker 4: through a Facebook host. All this at the behast of

2225
01:54:02,000 --> 01:54:05,439
Speaker 4: an evil mother, who says that won't happen again. Son

2226
01:54:05,479 --> 01:54:08,320
Speaker 4: of shut says she's full of crap. Opie says, I hope.

2227
01:54:08,320 --> 01:54:11,160
Speaker 4: So I sat there practically slack job listening to this.

2228
01:54:11,520 --> 01:54:14,800
Speaker 4: It's too wild to be one hundred percent honest, but

2229
01:54:14,960 --> 01:54:19,479
Speaker 4: too detailed to be completely fake. Mogulmi, this says what's

2230
01:54:19,600 --> 01:54:22,719
Speaker 4: FWIW or for what it's worth?

2231
01:54:23,320 --> 01:54:25,439
Speaker 6: For what it's worth. I do think there's a kernel

2232
01:54:25,439 --> 01:54:27,280
Speaker 6: of truth in there. I absolutely believe your mother in

2233
01:54:27,360 --> 01:54:30,439
Speaker 6: law manipulated her. But at the same time, most people

2234
01:54:30,479 --> 01:54:34,560
Speaker 6: can only be manipulated so far before they call bs

2235
01:54:34,840 --> 01:54:38,720
Speaker 6: and get fed up. The people that don't are usually

2236
01:54:38,720 --> 01:54:42,040
Speaker 6: the ones who want to believe the manipulation, who want

2237
01:54:42,040 --> 01:54:43,160
Speaker 6: the lies to be true.

2238
01:54:43,160 --> 01:54:44,440
Speaker 4: Wow, that's an interesting point.

2239
01:54:45,040 --> 01:54:46,720
Speaker 6: She was willing to hit you and hurt you in

2240
01:54:46,800 --> 01:54:50,760
Speaker 6: unimaginable ways based on nothing but maybe's and what ifs.

2241
01:54:51,040 --> 01:54:53,800
Speaker 6: Also from the mother in law, who seemed like almost

2242
01:54:53,800 --> 01:54:58,080
Speaker 6: completely removed from their relationship dynamic. Yeah, and it's that

2243
01:54:58,160 --> 01:55:01,560
Speaker 6: part that scares me. I I don't think that part

2244
01:55:01,600 --> 01:55:05,400
Speaker 6: of her can be suppressed with force of will.

2245
01:55:05,600 --> 01:55:08,800
Speaker 2: Yeah. I mean it's like like, yes, she's saying she's

2246
01:55:08,800 --> 01:55:14,440
Speaker 2: manipulating you, but that doesn't make her hate you. Yeah,

2247
01:55:14,520 --> 01:55:16,280
Speaker 2: you know, and that's not excusable.

2248
01:55:16,640 --> 01:55:21,200
Speaker 4: There's just yeah, it kind of reaches a point where

2249
01:55:22,520 --> 01:55:23,680
Speaker 4: you can't really.

2250
01:55:31,320 --> 01:55:39,680
Speaker 7: Oh man, use the cup for your p JA oh man, dude.

2251
01:55:39,920 --> 01:55:42,760
Speaker 2: Also for everyone new to the stream, Riley got gifted

2252
01:55:42,760 --> 01:55:45,400
Speaker 2: a PGA shout out, big, big shout out to Cassandra.

2253
01:55:46,920 --> 01:55:51,440
Speaker 6: Hilarious, by the way, honestly.

2254
01:55:51,280 --> 01:55:54,800
Speaker 2: Genius gift. I mean, Riley is going freaking across town

2255
01:55:54,880 --> 01:55:57,320
Speaker 2: an hour and a half. I bet those drives get

2256
01:55:57,400 --> 01:56:00,120
Speaker 2: really long, Riley, so this might come in handy. He

2257
01:56:00,200 --> 01:56:01,680
Speaker 2: kind of needs that you don't need to pull over.

2258
01:56:01,880 --> 01:56:05,240
Speaker 6: Honestly, that like, I'm not even gonna lie. That is

2259
01:56:05,320 --> 01:56:07,480
Speaker 6: kind of a good like emergency.

2260
01:56:07,440 --> 01:56:13,600
Speaker 2: Honestly for you, John, honestly, so often not a bad idea,

2261
01:56:13,760 --> 01:56:15,080
Speaker 2: just like putting that in the car. I feel like

2262
01:56:15,160 --> 01:56:18,120
Speaker 2: John has more like emergency p needs than Riley does.

2263
01:56:18,160 --> 01:56:21,080
Speaker 6: Maybe, Yeah, I one hundred percent do. And he still said,

2264
01:56:21,320 --> 01:56:23,640
Speaker 6: you see that's when you when you know real the

2265
01:56:23,680 --> 01:56:26,400
Speaker 6: real the small bladder community knows knows a real one

2266
01:56:26,400 --> 01:56:28,040
Speaker 6: when they see when Riley is not a part of

2267
01:56:28,040 --> 01:56:28,880
Speaker 6: the small blader community.

2268
01:56:28,920 --> 01:56:31,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, he doesn't understand big bladder energy doesn't understand.

2269
01:56:32,240 --> 01:56:32,760
Speaker 4: That's right.

2270
01:56:32,960 --> 01:56:34,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, so that's where that story ends.

2271
01:56:34,600 --> 01:56:35,440
Speaker 4: That is that is it?

2272
01:56:35,560 --> 01:56:38,480
Speaker 2: Yeah? I think I mean maybe what she's saying, even

2273
01:56:38,480 --> 01:56:41,240
Speaker 2: if we believe what she's saying is true, I would

2274
01:56:41,480 --> 01:56:46,160
Speaker 2: still not I would still not be down to no

2275
01:56:46,560 --> 01:56:47,680
Speaker 2: be in a relationship with her.

2276
01:56:47,760 --> 01:56:47,840
Speaker 4: No.

2277
01:56:47,960 --> 01:56:51,200
Speaker 6: It's like, if anything, it just proves that like like

2278
01:56:51,320 --> 01:56:54,640
Speaker 6: these people in your life can so easily, uh influence

2279
01:56:54,680 --> 01:57:00,560
Speaker 6: you and manipulate you without any evidence whatsoever and caused

2280
01:57:00,720 --> 01:57:07,560
Speaker 6: that much harm. Click it, Sarah says Sam being single

2281
01:57:07,600 --> 01:57:08,600
Speaker 6: for fourteen days.

2282
01:57:08,680 --> 01:57:14,200
Speaker 2: Loll I've been single for like a year. Sam used

2283
01:57:14,200 --> 01:57:16,480
Speaker 2: to learn how to be single. No, you haven't been.

2284
01:57:16,520 --> 01:57:18,720
Speaker 4: You said, you've recently went through a breakup.

2285
01:57:19,760 --> 01:57:22,120
Speaker 6: You did say that, in fairness, you did say that.

2286
01:57:22,120 --> 01:57:23,520
Speaker 6: That is a direct quote.

2287
01:57:24,800 --> 01:57:26,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, but it was only like a month or two

2288
01:57:26,920 --> 01:57:30,200
Speaker 2: or anything like that. Okay story, okay, okay story, tell

2289
01:57:30,240 --> 01:57:32,680
Speaker 2: here we go. Yes, So I was at an SAT party.

2290
01:57:32,760 --> 01:57:35,840
Speaker 2: It was an SAT theme party, and I was doing

2291
01:57:35,880 --> 01:57:39,280
Speaker 2: my reading comprehension, which I got a frickin hundred percent

2292
01:57:39,320 --> 01:57:42,160
Speaker 2: on shout out Wow. But I was doing that. I

2293
01:57:42,200 --> 01:57:44,280
Speaker 2: was reading the SAT questions and then there was really

2294
01:57:44,360 --> 01:57:46,760
Speaker 2: a cute girl like across the table and she was

2295
01:57:46,880 --> 01:57:50,040
Speaker 2: like looking at me a little bit, and I'm like,

2296
01:57:50,040 --> 01:57:53,680
Speaker 2: do you want to grade my paper, miss teacher? I'll

2297
01:57:53,720 --> 01:57:55,400
Speaker 2: try to be your star student. And she's like, okay,

2298
01:57:55,440 --> 01:57:57,040
Speaker 2: I'll grade it, and she crazed, like you got one

2299
01:57:57,120 --> 01:58:01,879
Speaker 2: hundred percent. I'm like sick. And then we start talking, literally,

2300
01:58:02,320 --> 01:58:07,440
Speaker 2: I asked. She said, she's like going on a solo hike,

2301
01:58:07,720 --> 01:58:09,840
Speaker 2: and I'm like, oh, like, do you like do you

2302
01:58:09,840 --> 01:58:12,600
Speaker 2: feel like more introverted or extroverted like things like you know,

2303
01:58:12,680 --> 01:58:16,080
Speaker 2: doing things alone more than doing things together. And then

2304
01:58:16,520 --> 01:58:22,160
Speaker 2: she says, I like doing things alone because my parents

2305
01:58:22,200 --> 01:58:24,600
Speaker 2: got divorced when I was one and it was pretty

2306
01:58:24,600 --> 01:58:28,240
Speaker 2: traumatic and then like my I had an abusive relationship

2307
01:58:28,280 --> 01:58:32,800
Speaker 2: with my brother and one of my parents died. This

2308
01:58:33,040 --> 01:58:36,480
Speaker 2: that is the second sentence, is that too much. Is

2309
01:58:36,480 --> 01:58:37,760
Speaker 2: that a red flag? She's really cute.

2310
01:58:39,400 --> 01:58:42,440
Speaker 6: I mean she's she is very straightforward and honest. Yeah,

2311
01:58:42,440 --> 01:58:45,879
Speaker 6: which clearly I think is a trait you would respect.

2312
01:58:46,080 --> 01:58:51,480
Speaker 2: It was a good conversation, Like I enjoyed the conversation.

2313
01:58:51,720 --> 01:58:53,880
Speaker 2: But I told I told Riley that he was like,

2314
01:58:53,880 --> 01:58:54,680
Speaker 2: that's a little too much.

2315
01:58:54,760 --> 01:58:57,680
Speaker 3: No, no, no, I said, you could fix her. That's what

2316
01:58:57,800 --> 01:59:01,360
Speaker 3: I said. You are the perfect person for this. I

2317
01:59:01,360 --> 01:59:04,360
Speaker 3: mean you have a relationship podcast, and you can help

2318
01:59:04,400 --> 01:59:05,680
Speaker 3: perfect the relationships.

2319
01:59:05,880 --> 01:59:08,680
Speaker 2: That is true. That is true. I can I can

2320
01:59:08,720 --> 01:59:09,920
Speaker 2: give good advice Goofily.

2321
01:59:10,040 --> 01:59:11,040
Speaker 4: Yeah, I can fix you.

2322
01:59:11,080 --> 01:59:12,640
Speaker 3: Maybe she's a little bit that in her life.

2323
01:59:12,920 --> 01:59:17,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know if our personalities compliments. I also love.

2324
01:59:17,280 --> 01:59:20,960
Speaker 6: How you met this person at an sat party. That

2325
01:59:21,080 --> 01:59:23,920
Speaker 6: is that is just too classic.

2326
01:59:24,000 --> 01:59:26,800
Speaker 3: Speaking of so Sam, we were at a party when

2327
01:59:27,000 --> 01:59:32,400
Speaker 3: was when was the Anthony's birthday? Gonna dog's Anthony? And

2328
01:59:33,320 --> 01:59:36,480
Speaker 3: about ten like sailors show up.

2329
01:59:37,680 --> 01:59:40,840
Speaker 4: Like I was like, Riley, what's what's going on here?

2330
01:59:41,000 --> 01:59:46,400
Speaker 6: Like sailors in hate Fuld, like navy on the boat uniform.

2331
01:59:46,120 --> 01:59:47,960
Speaker 3: Beers and stuff, and they're just there and I'm like

2332
01:59:48,040 --> 01:59:49,480
Speaker 3: I was talking to I'm like, oh, how did you

2333
01:59:49,480 --> 01:59:51,680
Speaker 3: hear about this? They're like, yeah, there's a shirtless dude

2334
01:59:51,720 --> 01:59:54,320
Speaker 3: with like blonde hair that came up and like told

2335
01:59:54,400 --> 01:59:56,920
Speaker 3: us to come here over here, like around ten at night.

2336
01:59:57,000 --> 01:59:57,880
Speaker 4: I was like, oh nice.

2337
01:59:58,080 --> 02:00:00,280
Speaker 2: I was. I was running in the morning and I

2338
02:00:00,320 --> 02:00:03,120
Speaker 2: was feeling good, and whenever I see a ce man,

2339
02:00:03,320 --> 02:00:06,000
Speaker 2: I'm just like, I gotta talk to him, and so

2340
02:00:07,000 --> 02:00:09,680
Speaker 2: straight for them, and I'm like, hey, you look like

2341
02:00:09,760 --> 02:00:12,400
Speaker 2: some cool fellas want to come to our party tonight.

2342
02:00:12,840 --> 02:00:16,440
Speaker 2: And I invite these three sailors to Anthony's birthday and

2343
02:00:16,520 --> 02:00:18,320
Speaker 2: I wasn't sure they would show up, but I gave

2344
02:00:18,360 --> 02:00:23,160
Speaker 2: them my number, and like halfway through the party, seven

2345
02:00:23,360 --> 02:00:27,200
Speaker 2: sailors in the white uniforms with the hat show up

2346
02:00:27,760 --> 02:00:29,800
Speaker 2: and it was glorious. Yeah, it was.

2347
02:00:29,840 --> 02:00:30,839
Speaker 4: It was pretty hilarious.

2348
02:00:31,720 --> 02:00:34,120
Speaker 3: My girlfriend was like, oh, I like your costumes. Where'd

2349
02:00:34,120 --> 02:00:35,240
Speaker 3: you guys get that from?

2350
02:00:35,360 --> 02:00:38,080
Speaker 2: No? Oh yeah. Because people kept saying like I thought

2351
02:00:38,120 --> 02:00:41,880
Speaker 2: they were strippers, like, no, they're not.

2352
02:00:42,000 --> 02:00:42,320
Speaker 7: I mean.

2353
02:00:43,720 --> 02:00:45,480
Speaker 6: I feel like if I was in their shoes, I

2354
02:00:45,520 --> 02:00:46,600
Speaker 6: would take that as a compliment.

2355
02:00:46,720 --> 02:00:49,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's true, Yeah I look good. If they were strippers,

2356
02:00:49,320 --> 02:00:50,760
Speaker 2: it would be kind of it would kind of even

2357
02:00:50,800 --> 02:00:52,640
Speaker 2: be more funny. People love a man in uniform.

2358
02:00:52,920 --> 02:00:54,880
Speaker 4: That's what they say. That's what they say.

2359
02:00:55,600 --> 02:00:57,960
Speaker 2: And your pom says Sam, she'd be fun to date

2360
02:00:59,240 --> 02:01:04,600
Speaker 2: because she on me. Yeah, I would have so much

2361
02:01:04,720 --> 02:01:06,840
Speaker 2: just solve. No, she actually does seem super cool. She

2362
02:01:06,960 --> 02:01:08,520
Speaker 2: like he's doing a solo trip to Spain.

2363
02:01:09,880 --> 02:01:10,880
Speaker 4: I don't think she's that's you.

2364
02:01:11,200 --> 02:01:13,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, no, there there. I think she would be.

2365
02:01:13,880 --> 02:01:15,760
Speaker 2: I don't know. I don't think she's that into me though.

2366
02:01:17,400 --> 02:01:18,920
Speaker 2: But she did tell me her whole life story.

2367
02:01:18,960 --> 02:01:21,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, dude, come on, but I don't tell people my trauma.

2368
02:01:22,680 --> 02:01:23,960
Speaker 3: I have to be in like a hot tub with

2369
02:01:24,000 --> 02:01:25,720
Speaker 3: like one of my best buds to do that classic.

2370
02:01:25,960 --> 02:01:27,400
Speaker 2: I will always remember that one.

2371
02:01:28,200 --> 02:01:30,200
Speaker 3: I mean we do it at the gym.

2372
02:01:32,080 --> 02:01:36,520
Speaker 6: We just that's how man managers like, ah, here's my trauma.

2373
02:01:36,880 --> 02:01:39,120
Speaker 2: She hasn't. I sent her sent her a DM and

2374
02:01:39,160 --> 02:01:42,000
Speaker 2: then she responded with something like kind of dry, and

2375
02:01:42,000 --> 02:01:44,560
Speaker 2: then I sent her another DM. I don't didn't go.

2376
02:01:45,320 --> 02:01:50,960
Speaker 2: It was it was dang, barks aren't flying. Barks aren't flying.

2377
02:01:51,120 --> 02:01:53,360
Speaker 4: But we got a lot of parties this weekend, so

2378
02:01:53,440 --> 02:01:57,000
Speaker 4: we can that's true. So many parties, that's true. Five

2379
02:01:57,160 --> 02:01:59,960
Speaker 4: this weekend. Five I have three on set.

2380
02:02:00,520 --> 02:02:03,120
Speaker 2: There is there is a ton of parties because it's

2381
02:02:03,320 --> 02:02:07,920
Speaker 2: Jack's party. There's my ex girlfriend's party. I don't know

2382
02:02:07,920 --> 02:02:10,000
Speaker 2: why she invited me to that. There's two of those.

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02:02:10,360 --> 02:02:17,600
Speaker 2: There's two parties at Dockweiler. There's Yeah, did.

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Speaker 3: You get to Christina's.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 6: By the way, if you play instruments, you should dm

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Speaker 6: me on Instagram a little thing too.

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Speaker 4: So if anyone here is a.

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Speaker 2: John's party this weekend.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, that's right, doing a little tiny desk but outside.

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Speaker 6: So if you play instruments, Oh wow, we have.

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Speaker 2: Twenty six responses on our cheating game show.

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Speaker 4: Incredible.

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Speaker 2: Okay. Also, if you want this is a this is

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02:02:42,360 --> 02:02:49,400
Speaker 2: another thing for you. If you want two ooh, do

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02:02:49,440 --> 02:02:51,400
Speaker 2: you guys want to cook dinner with Anthony tonight after

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Speaker 2: the stream down?

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02:02:52,760 --> 02:02:55,040
Speaker 4: I might not be able to you'll do it? Well?

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02:02:55,080 --> 02:02:56,720
Speaker 3: Actually I're gonna see my buddy tonight. Can't.

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Speaker 2: Sorry. Oh if you want, we're doing a cheating game

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02:03:03,000 --> 02:03:06,520
Speaker 2: show on Friday. So if you have been cheated on

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02:03:07,200 --> 02:03:08,200
Speaker 2: and what.

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02:03:10,560 --> 02:03:11,000
Speaker 4: Parties?

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02:03:11,000 --> 02:03:16,000
Speaker 3: But you didn't get a plane ticket, I'm all right.

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02:03:18,320 --> 02:03:29,600
Speaker 2: Sha sha wait. Sam hasn't been able to start. Where

2406
02:03:29,680 --> 02:03:32,560
Speaker 2: is it? Sam's been able to start another long term

2407
02:03:32,560 --> 02:03:34,520
Speaker 2: relationship because Red Flag is sharing all their text and

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Speaker 2: intimate interactions with everyone. Okay, start time, all right, let

2409
02:03:38,840 --> 02:03:41,160
Speaker 2: me ask you this. Let me ask you this. When

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Speaker 2: John Mayer writes a song about a girl and a breakup,

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02:03:44,960 --> 02:03:50,320
Speaker 2: no one says anything. That's a fair This is my song, this,

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02:03:50,560 --> 02:03:53,600
Speaker 2: this is my I'm trying to be emotionally intimate with

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02:03:53,640 --> 02:03:56,800
Speaker 2: you all. Just because they don't say anything doesn't mean

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02:03:56,840 --> 02:04:02,400
Speaker 2: they shouldn't say something. What art literally all art, and

2415
02:04:02,480 --> 02:04:06,080
Speaker 2: this podcast is are literally all art is sharing the

2416
02:04:06,200 --> 02:04:09,520
Speaker 2: raw emotional details of your life. It is true so

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02:04:09,600 --> 02:04:12,680
Speaker 2: other people can learn and grow and learn not to

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02:04:12,720 --> 02:04:19,760
Speaker 2: do what I do. So you're welcome. But should we

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02:04:19,800 --> 02:04:21,520
Speaker 2: read this next? Oh yeah, oh, if you want to

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02:04:21,520 --> 02:04:24,560
Speaker 2: be on the cheating game show and you either cheated

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02:04:24,640 --> 02:04:27,360
Speaker 2: on or had been cheated on and stayed in the relationship,

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02:04:27,760 --> 02:04:31,440
Speaker 2: or cheated on and left, let us know.

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Speaker 4: Please do bill out the form.

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02:04:33,320 --> 02:04:36,520
Speaker 6: Yeah, specifically, we haven't looked at it yet, but people

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Speaker 6: who were went through cheating and stayed in the relationship,

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Speaker 6: I imagine there's probably less of those. We haven't had

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Speaker 6: a change to look at the form, yut, but definitely

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Speaker 6: fill it out.

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Speaker 4: If that's you. We want to hear from you. We

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Speaker 4: want to have you on the show.

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Speaker 2: Yes we do. But with that, shall we get into

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Speaker 2: the next story.

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Speaker 4: Let's do it?

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Speaker 2: Oh wait read donos ah donus Okay, Martika Waterman, Oh

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Speaker 2: you guys did read it? Probably too drunk to listen

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02:05:05,480 --> 02:05:08,080
Speaker 2: during that time. It's bedtime for my day starts at

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02:05:08,120 --> 02:05:10,320
Speaker 2: four as so I have to have surgery this month

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02:05:10,400 --> 02:05:12,400
Speaker 2: Saturday for me. But at least the stream is amazing.

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02:05:12,760 --> 02:05:17,879
Speaker 2: Parts in the chat for Martika parts. Let's freaker, go Jess,

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02:05:18,160 --> 02:05:22,040
Speaker 2: and that is thanks for the fifty dollars tip. I'm

2441
02:05:22,040 --> 02:05:25,240
Speaker 2: super depressed right now, but hearing you guys is helping.

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02:05:25,480 --> 02:05:31,680
Speaker 2: We're glad to help for Jess. Yeah go three B

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Speaker 2: for the Friday game show. What time should the participants

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Speaker 2: be available? So yes for our cheating Friday Game Show

2445
02:05:40,160 --> 02:05:43,800
Speaker 2: where you submit stories about your partner cheating on you

2446
02:05:43,840 --> 02:05:46,080
Speaker 2: and staying or your partner cheating on you and leaving.

2447
02:05:46,160 --> 02:05:48,760
Speaker 2: And if you want to submit your story, go to

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02:05:48,800 --> 02:05:51,000
Speaker 2: the description of this video and click the link and

2449
02:05:51,000 --> 02:05:52,720
Speaker 2: fill out the form because we would love to see you.

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Speaker 2: I forgot what what time?

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Speaker 4: I think we said five?

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Speaker 3: Chemist think?

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02:06:01,280 --> 02:06:04,880
Speaker 2: Oh that is four? That's that's before. Yeah, so like five,

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Speaker 2: five or six, so that be done in an hour? Yeah,

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Speaker 2: we can. We can figure out the exact time once

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Speaker 2: we get all the people to guess. Yeah six, John,

2457
02:06:15,600 --> 02:06:16,240
Speaker 2: you want to take it over?

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Speaker 4: Baby God?

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Speaker 6: Thanks for one buck tip. Can y'all confirm your Chinese

2460
02:06:19,720 --> 02:06:21,440
Speaker 6: zodiac signs for one done?

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Speaker 4: Millennial?

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Speaker 2: I believe I'm a rat dragon? I think I'm an

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Speaker 2: I'm an ox? Dude?

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Speaker 4: How did I get rat?

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Speaker 3: Your animals? Here we go. We're gonna figure this out

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Speaker 3: right now.

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Speaker 6: It's tough, Okay, I know it has a Yeah, it

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Speaker 6: is what you're you Donty six?

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Speaker 4: Rat?

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Speaker 2: Uh?

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Speaker 3: Sam's an ox?

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Speaker 2: Ye?

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Speaker 3: I'm a dragon? And what you're Sofio.

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Speaker 2: Two thousand and one one snake? Nice?

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Speaker 3: Sof you a snake? Riley Dragon?

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Speaker 4: Uh?

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Speaker 3: Sam ox? John Ratt?

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Speaker 2: Everyone?

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Speaker 6: What's the what's the quality of the rat? Can you

2480
02:06:56,520 --> 02:06:58,920
Speaker 6: tell me that real quick? I'm I just need to know,

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02:06:59,320 --> 02:07:01,080
Speaker 6: Stinky did you?

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02:07:01,120 --> 02:07:01,800
Speaker 4: Did you close it out?

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02:07:01,840 --> 02:07:02,080
Speaker 2: Okay?

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02:07:02,080 --> 02:07:08,280
Speaker 4: Oh? I forget where they are? Holly Holly Fraser, thanks

2485
02:07:08,280 --> 02:07:08,960
Speaker 4: for one buck tip.

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Speaker 6: Been bing you guys on YouTube the past few weeks,

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02:07:11,880 --> 02:07:14,120
Speaker 6: a few weekdays and nights. Love you all, Love you

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02:07:14,240 --> 02:07:18,760
Speaker 6: back Unicorn puh. Thanks for the one forty six. That

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02:07:18,840 --> 02:07:23,320
Speaker 6: last story was fake? Oh interesting throwing it out. Campbell Family,

2490
02:07:23,320 --> 02:07:26,440
Speaker 6: thanks for the two bucks. There is a nine day

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02:07:26,600 --> 02:07:29,000
Speaker 6: old update oh of the last story.

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Speaker 4: That we just looked for it.

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02:07:30,440 --> 02:07:31,480
Speaker 3: I don't see it.

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02:07:31,520 --> 02:07:32,840
Speaker 2: Well check it out to be down to read it.

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Speaker 6: Wenest Brunette, thanks for the two bucks. Seemen in a

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Speaker 6: cave lmao or a party lo unicorn puh, thanks for

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Speaker 6: another one forty six. Believe this account she slept with

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Speaker 6: coworker slash stay at home wife leave.

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Speaker 2: Oh, she slept with the coworker. This this person that

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Speaker 2: had this story apparently.

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Speaker 6: Oh like that's maybe like part of the update. Yahoa

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02:08:00,040 --> 02:08:01,640
Speaker 6: and then Bobo thanks for a five buck tip on

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02:08:01,640 --> 02:08:03,480
Speaker 6: the don't link. I have a story I've always wanted

2504
02:08:03,520 --> 02:08:06,040
Speaker 6: advice on, but I don't have friends and I would

2505
02:08:06,080 --> 02:08:08,480
Speaker 6: never want to actually post on the internet. However, I

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02:08:08,520 --> 02:08:11,240
Speaker 6: would be honored if okay fam could help. Is there

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02:08:11,240 --> 02:08:13,560
Speaker 6: anyway I can share my story without posting it on

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02:08:13,640 --> 02:08:14,200
Speaker 6: the internet?

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Speaker 2: Our discord? Yes, go to our discord. There's a link

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02:08:19,000 --> 02:08:21,360
Speaker 2: in the description. Go check it out. We'd love to

2511
02:08:21,360 --> 02:08:22,080
Speaker 2: have you over there.

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Speaker 3: I just found the update and I put it down.

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Speaker 2: Bottom of the john. I feel like that's you. We

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02:08:28,120 --> 02:08:31,960
Speaker 2: should we should keep going, keep trucking through.

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02:08:33,600 --> 02:08:34,320
Speaker 3: Thanks you guys.

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02:08:34,640 --> 02:08:37,720
Speaker 2: Also, really is that number right on the stream?

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Speaker 3: I don't know. It's not been super I've been updating this.

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Speaker 3: I don't know if it is.

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Speaker 4: Oh I think it is. This one was just flagging.

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Speaker 2: Oh shooesh shout out to the new people in the stream.

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Speaker 2: We have a like. Maybe give me TLDR for everyone?

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02:08:54,840 --> 02:08:56,480
Speaker 4: Yes, so super quick TLDR.

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Speaker 6: Basically, op was the guy in the relationship his wife

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02:09:00,280 --> 02:09:04,120
Speaker 6: got pregnant, was was basically went crazy, was abusive. He

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Speaker 6: later found out that his pregnant now ex wife's mother

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02:09:09,680 --> 02:09:11,600
Speaker 6: just kept feeding her all of the stuff to basically

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Speaker 6: hate Opie. So OPI is leaving the relationship.

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Speaker 4: He's now kind of found out the whole backstory and

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02:09:17,760 --> 02:09:21,920
Speaker 4: why she had this insane behavior and an abusive reaction

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Speaker 4: towards him. And now we're getting an update because I

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02:09:25,160 --> 02:09:27,360
Speaker 4: don't think we got the paternity test or other big

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02:09:27,400 --> 02:09:32,160
Speaker 4: details that were still left. So update I believe this

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Speaker 4: is uh where it is? Yes updates?

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Speaker 6: Well, well, well this was all a fantastic waste of time.

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02:09:39,720 --> 02:09:42,480
Speaker 2: This is full of stupid information that doesn't matter. So

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02:09:42,520 --> 02:09:45,480
Speaker 2: here's what happened condensed. Don't my oh, I think I

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02:09:45,560 --> 02:09:49,600
Speaker 2: know what that donation comment was about.

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Speaker 4: Mm iu. Guys, let's put the in.

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02:09:54,200 --> 02:09:55,160
Speaker 2: You see where this is going.

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Speaker 6: Ki we I did not want to be a ratking.

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02:09:59,000 --> 02:10:02,520
Speaker 6: I am cool with orange anyways, So it took me

2542
02:10:02,560 --> 02:10:04,920
Speaker 6: way longer than it should have to realize I should

2543
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Speaker 6: actually call someone who saw her behavior when she left firsthand.

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02:10:08,480 --> 02:10:11,480
Speaker 4: I called one of her brothers. Basically word vomited and

2545
02:10:11,520 --> 02:10:14,000
Speaker 4: relayed the whole story and asked if they can verify.

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02:10:14,640 --> 02:10:17,440
Speaker 4: They could not what actually happened.

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Speaker 6: She started having an affair with a coworker roughly four months.

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Speaker 2: Before she got Pregnantoo yep, so it's not his baby. Yep,

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Speaker 2: that's what it sounded like he gave her.

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Speaker 6: And just like it's just so much worse knowing that

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02:10:34,640 --> 02:10:40,440
Speaker 6: like she was like she was had this abusive behavior

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02:10:40,520 --> 02:10:43,080
Speaker 6: and put him through the ring her when she was

2553
02:10:43,120 --> 02:10:46,400
Speaker 6: the one doing the wrong and cheating and all this bs.

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02:10:47,720 --> 02:10:51,520
Speaker 6: So she was having an affair with the coverworker roughly

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02:10:51,560 --> 02:10:53,760
Speaker 6: four months before she got pregnant. He gave her the

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02:10:53,760 --> 02:10:56,920
Speaker 6: affair partner spiel about how he was better and she

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02:10:58,320 --> 02:10:59,160
Speaker 6: should go with him.

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02:10:59,280 --> 02:11:00,760
Speaker 2: When she got prebate, she.

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02:11:00,840 --> 02:11:04,960
Speaker 6: Immediately gets it in her head to abuse me usual

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02:11:05,040 --> 02:11:07,640
Speaker 6: a fair crap, eventually wanting to run off with him

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02:11:08,640 --> 02:11:11,800
Speaker 6: the day she left. The day she left, she did

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02:11:11,840 --> 02:11:14,680
Speaker 6: stay at her mother's, but she had all the intention

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02:11:14,800 --> 02:11:17,640
Speaker 6: to move in with him after giving worse and I

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02:11:17,680 --> 02:11:20,920
Speaker 6: get we called that. We totally called the cheating. I

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Speaker 6: bet you.

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Speaker 2: Then he threw her out and was like, I don't

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02:11:24,360 --> 02:11:25,760
Speaker 2: want that anymore, one hundred percent.

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02:11:25,840 --> 02:11:26,680
Speaker 4: He manipulated her.

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Speaker 6: Before she delivers, she owns up and tells her family everything.

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02:11:30,920 --> 02:11:33,280
Speaker 6: My mother in law's and brother in laws couldn't care

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02:11:33,320 --> 02:11:36,680
Speaker 6: at the time. This may not be crazy, but they

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02:11:36,840 --> 02:11:40,120
Speaker 6: still didn't like me, and from what she was selling

2573
02:11:40,160 --> 02:11:43,000
Speaker 6: to them about her a fair partner, they liked him

2574
02:11:44,000 --> 02:11:45,320
Speaker 6: that I mean red.

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02:11:45,120 --> 02:11:47,560
Speaker 2: Flag other and the law was like, I want this

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02:11:47,640 --> 02:11:49,000
Speaker 2: a fair partner.

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02:11:48,680 --> 02:11:52,280
Speaker 6: Instead, like at least she like she seemed to have

2578
02:11:52,320 --> 02:11:56,800
Speaker 6: this like uh from her negative insane, insane, and like

2579
02:11:56,920 --> 02:12:01,680
Speaker 6: from her past negative experiences with men. At least keep

2580
02:12:01,720 --> 02:12:03,960
Speaker 6: it consistent and hate the affair partner too, and be

2581
02:12:04,080 --> 02:12:07,280
Speaker 6: like it's an affair partner, not like your husband, my

2582
02:12:07,680 --> 02:12:13,080
Speaker 6: whack god, A fair partner was at the birth high

2583
02:12:13,720 --> 02:12:15,480
Speaker 6: and tried to start a fight with them.

2584
02:12:17,080 --> 02:12:21,600
Speaker 4: Meanwhile, here was op literally ready to high to be

2585
02:12:21,680 --> 02:12:23,760
Speaker 4: a good father and be there and be present and

2586
02:12:23,800 --> 02:12:24,480
Speaker 4: do everything.

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Speaker 6: Literally, you threw it all away for nothing, for garbage.

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02:12:30,920 --> 02:12:32,360
Speaker 2: You threw it all away for garbage.

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02:12:32,680 --> 02:12:37,960
Speaker 6: By then, wife already did a paternity test and it

2590
02:12:38,120 --> 02:12:38,440
Speaker 6: was his.

2591
02:12:40,080 --> 02:12:41,280
Speaker 4: It was the affair partners.

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02:12:41,920 --> 02:12:43,720
Speaker 2: Dude, I feel like a horse sight now every time

2593
02:12:43,720 --> 02:12:44,440
Speaker 2: I hear it, I'm like.

2594
02:12:44,920 --> 02:12:51,240
Speaker 4: Yeah, so many nays. A fair partner then disappears and

2595
02:12:51,280 --> 02:12:55,200
Speaker 4: she realizes she is screwed. We have a.

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02:12:55,120 --> 02:12:57,800
Speaker 6: Solid prenup in my house is a pre mari in

2597
02:12:57,840 --> 02:12:59,240
Speaker 6: my house is pre maritable.

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02:12:59,440 --> 02:12:59,720
Speaker 2: Merit.

2599
02:13:00,840 --> 02:13:04,240
Speaker 6: We have a solid prenup and my house is premarital,

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02:13:04,360 --> 02:13:07,360
Speaker 6: meaning she can't get it in the divorce. Plus we

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02:13:07,440 --> 02:13:11,920
Speaker 6: live in an at fault state meaning basically, because she

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Speaker 6: she caused all the stuff for the divorce, she can't

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Speaker 6: really get anything. Big picture around that time is when

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Speaker 6: I called her out and split the finances. She was

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02:13:20,800 --> 02:13:24,000
Speaker 6: deep in a hole with no way out, and in

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02:13:24,040 --> 02:13:26,320
Speaker 6: her mind, pitching a drama show about her family to

2607
02:13:26,400 --> 02:13:29,920
Speaker 6: me made sense to get me on her side. What

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Speaker 6: was her plan for the paternity test.

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Speaker 4: I don't know.

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02:13:32,840 --> 02:13:36,200
Speaker 6: Yeah, basically her whole spiel and everything is like, yeah,

2611
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Speaker 6: she like.

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02:13:38,160 --> 02:13:41,040
Speaker 2: Gi'me as heck, dude, dumbas eck ah?

2613
02:13:41,880 --> 02:13:43,160
Speaker 4: What was she planning for?

2614
02:13:43,240 --> 02:13:45,080
Speaker 2: Whenever I interacted with family again?

2615
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Speaker 4: I don't know.

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02:13:46,320 --> 02:13:48,520
Speaker 2: Why did her family go along with it? I don't

2617
02:13:48,520 --> 02:13:49,440
Speaker 2: know how.

2618
02:13:49,840 --> 02:13:52,480
Speaker 4: How was she ever going to make up for abuse?

2619
02:13:52,760 --> 02:13:54,960
Speaker 2: I don't know. Is there any truth to her tale

2620
02:13:54,960 --> 02:13:57,360
Speaker 2: about her mother? I have no idea. I don't care.

2621
02:13:57,400 --> 02:14:00,080
Speaker 4: At this point. The whole problem was a desperate per.

2622
02:14:00,160 --> 02:14:03,280
Speaker 6: In her toxic family, gambling everything on a no show,

2623
02:14:03,560 --> 02:14:06,400
Speaker 6: and only when they had burned all the bridges with me.

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02:14:06,720 --> 02:14:10,200
Speaker 4: Did they try to reconnect. I'm glad the brother who

2625
02:14:10,280 --> 02:14:13,600
Speaker 4: had any decency to own up to their nonsense. He

2626
02:14:13,720 --> 02:14:16,800
Speaker 4: realized how deep he was and that this and that

2627
02:14:17,280 --> 02:14:19,920
Speaker 4: his sister didn't help with that, and he's finally done

2628
02:14:20,000 --> 02:14:23,160
Speaker 4: with his family's crap and wants to get away. He

2629
02:14:23,440 --> 02:14:26,400
Speaker 4: gave me a copy of the paternity test she gave

2630
02:14:26,440 --> 02:14:32,520
Speaker 4: to him. Wow, so the brother gave the paternity test results?

2631
02:14:33,800 --> 02:14:37,480
Speaker 2: What? Yeah, because.

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02:14:38,720 --> 02:14:43,560
Speaker 6: I'm trying to think, because I mean, yeah, I mean

2633
02:14:43,640 --> 02:14:46,000
Speaker 6: I think so. The brother, it sounds like, realized his

2634
02:14:46,040 --> 02:14:50,440
Speaker 6: family's just like crazy. Yeah, and he's like, hey, yea,

2635
02:14:50,560 --> 02:14:52,160
Speaker 6: let me, let me make this right and then cut

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Speaker 6: myself out.

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02:14:52,920 --> 02:14:55,640
Speaker 2: At least someone in the family has a head on

2638
02:14:55,640 --> 02:14:56,160
Speaker 2: their shoulders.

2639
02:14:56,240 --> 02:14:58,120
Speaker 4: Yeah, and honestly, like he deserved to know.

2640
02:14:58,200 --> 02:15:00,520
Speaker 6: And probably the brother's like if I I don't tell him,

2641
02:15:00,560 --> 02:15:01,440
Speaker 6: is he ever going to find out?

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02:15:01,520 --> 02:15:03,960
Speaker 2: Yeah? Dude, I mean I wouldn't as that brother. I

2643
02:15:04,000 --> 02:15:06,000
Speaker 2: would be like, I don't want this weight on me,

2644
02:15:06,120 --> 02:15:07,800
Speaker 2: this moral weight, that would be terrible.

2645
02:15:08,040 --> 02:15:10,560
Speaker 4: Let's at least give this guy the closure on that.

2646
02:15:10,600 --> 02:15:10,800
Speaker 2: Yeah.

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02:15:10,880 --> 02:15:12,960
Speaker 4: Yeah, I totally agree. He sent dozen.

2648
02:15:13,120 --> 02:15:15,640
Speaker 6: He sent dozens of messages she had with him and

2649
02:15:15,680 --> 02:15:19,360
Speaker 6: the family in a group chat. I have enough proof

2650
02:15:19,360 --> 02:15:22,640
Speaker 6: for my lawyer to bury her. I texted her and

2651
02:15:22,720 --> 02:15:26,080
Speaker 6: told her I knew everything. She's been messaging me relentlessly

2652
02:15:26,560 --> 02:15:29,400
Speaker 6: with the most vile things she can say. I'm just

2653
02:15:29,480 --> 02:15:32,680
Speaker 6: forwarding all to my lawyer. I'm still in awe to

2654
02:15:32,720 --> 02:15:35,760
Speaker 6: how she tried to pull a last resort manipulation tactic

2655
02:15:35,800 --> 02:15:38,400
Speaker 6: with the story about her family, and it's actually kind

2656
02:15:38,400 --> 02:15:42,640
Speaker 6: of disturbing. I agree, but this doesn't really concern me.

2657
02:15:42,720 --> 02:15:47,160
Speaker 6: Now locks are changed, fiances are already separated. I am

2658
02:15:47,480 --> 02:15:51,000
Speaker 6: not o Jay, I'm not on the birth certificate and

2659
02:15:51,080 --> 02:15:54,040
Speaker 6: my divorce is getting ready to start. Probably will have

2660
02:15:54,080 --> 02:15:56,920
Speaker 6: no updates for a long time. Divorces take way longer

2661
02:15:57,000 --> 02:15:59,840
Speaker 6: than Reddit makes it seem like. In any way, this

2662
02:16:00,120 --> 02:16:02,280
Speaker 6: was the best case scenario. I'm actually giddy that I

2663
02:16:02,320 --> 02:16:04,560
Speaker 6: can have a clean break. Huge sigh of relief. She

2664
02:16:04,640 --> 02:16:07,560
Speaker 6: could at least have told me the truth and spared

2665
02:16:07,680 --> 02:16:13,040
Speaker 6: the pointless drama update. Yeah wow, I mean, at least

2666
02:16:13,040 --> 02:16:15,800
Speaker 6: give him the truth that like she again, it's just

2667
02:16:15,960 --> 02:16:19,720
Speaker 6: so twisted that not only did she she put him

2668
02:16:19,720 --> 02:16:23,400
Speaker 6: through all of this absolute garbage, but.

2669
02:16:23,560 --> 02:16:27,080
Speaker 4: She was the one in the wrong the whole time.

2670
02:16:27,040 --> 02:16:29,240
Speaker 2: I know, And it's crazy that she created this fake

2671
02:16:29,360 --> 02:16:34,440
Speaker 2: story to get sympathy points. And also it seems like

2672
02:16:34,480 --> 02:16:39,920
Speaker 2: what she did too was she was doing all of

2673
02:16:39,959 --> 02:16:44,360
Speaker 2: this abuse intentionally to make him leave, So it was

2674
02:16:44,400 --> 02:16:47,520
Speaker 2: like that was part of her plan for what to Then.

2675
02:16:47,640 --> 02:16:51,600
Speaker 6: Now now you're like, oh, I have no like, uh

2676
02:16:51,760 --> 02:16:54,320
Speaker 6: financial support when I chose, and we planned for me

2677
02:16:54,400 --> 02:16:57,600
Speaker 6: to be a stay at home mom, Like, yeah, good

2678
02:16:57,680 --> 02:17:00,480
Speaker 6: riddance honestly, but the question we don't say it as

2679
02:17:00,560 --> 02:17:04,800
Speaker 6: much recently, but sounds fake. Oh there was also someone

2680
02:17:04,840 --> 02:17:06,640
Speaker 6: earlier I think they said the story was fake.

2681
02:17:06,680 --> 02:17:08,480
Speaker 4: I think there maybe referencing.

2682
02:17:08,280 --> 02:17:13,800
Speaker 6: That the the the wife or the story was fake. Yeah,

2683
02:17:13,879 --> 02:17:18,439
Speaker 6: but like was there no signs.

2684
02:17:17,200 --> 02:17:21,320
Speaker 2: In their whole relation? I mean, this is really really

2685
02:17:21,600 --> 02:17:24,560
Speaker 2: because it's like that kind of behavior shows up in

2686
02:17:24,600 --> 02:17:25,240
Speaker 2: other ways.

2687
02:17:25,320 --> 02:17:28,000
Speaker 4: That's I mean, how can it not.

2688
02:17:28,320 --> 02:17:31,760
Speaker 2: Because I think there's like I feel like there's like

2689
02:17:31,800 --> 02:17:34,560
Speaker 2: I feel like you can see like character traits of

2690
02:17:34,640 --> 02:17:37,760
Speaker 2: someone who like, like, for example, if someone's super vindictive

2691
02:17:38,160 --> 02:17:41,360
Speaker 2: either always like my friends are effing me over, this

2692
02:17:41,400 --> 02:17:44,920
Speaker 2: person's effing me over. You're there's only a matter of

2693
02:17:44,959 --> 02:17:49,800
Speaker 2: time before that vindictiveness gets pushed on to your turn,

2694
02:17:49,920 --> 02:17:52,080
Speaker 2: your Yeah, before it's your turn. And so I think

2695
02:17:52,120 --> 02:17:57,520
Speaker 2: a lot of people uh are looking at like basically

2696
02:17:57,520 --> 02:18:02,040
Speaker 2: are looking at someone being rude or unkind or bad

2697
02:18:02,120 --> 02:18:03,760
Speaker 2: to other people, are like, oh, that will never happen

2698
02:18:03,840 --> 02:18:06,080
Speaker 2: to me, and then once it happens to you, like,

2699
02:18:06,160 --> 02:18:08,360
Speaker 2: oh crap, Like I knew there were red flags the

2700
02:18:08,360 --> 02:18:10,800
Speaker 2: whole time. So maybe oh, he just never saw it

2701
02:18:10,840 --> 02:18:13,320
Speaker 2: happen to him, but it would. There's no way it

2702
02:18:13,400 --> 02:18:15,360
Speaker 2: did not happen at all.

2703
02:18:15,520 --> 02:18:17,840
Speaker 6: Yeah, I think that's like I don't know if we've

2704
02:18:17,879 --> 02:18:20,600
Speaker 6: like kind of crystallized that as a classic trope on

2705
02:18:20,680 --> 02:18:22,800
Speaker 6: the show. But it seems that people like, we just

2706
02:18:22,800 --> 02:18:24,640
Speaker 6: read a story of me and Sophia earlier today on

2707
02:18:24,680 --> 02:18:25,840
Speaker 6: the stream where someone was.

2708
02:18:25,800 --> 02:18:28,080
Speaker 4: Like, Oh, I have my best friend.

2709
02:18:28,120 --> 02:18:31,040
Speaker 6: He's such a great guy, but he he's like basically

2710
02:18:31,080 --> 02:18:33,240
Speaker 6: addicted to sleeping with married women and has done it

2711
02:18:33,320 --> 02:18:35,360
Speaker 6: like dozens of times. And then he finally he did

2712
02:18:35,400 --> 02:18:39,040
Speaker 6: it to his like mentor's wife after he told them

2713
02:18:39,080 --> 02:18:42,400
Speaker 6: like specifically like, hey, do not target my mentor's wife

2714
02:18:42,440 --> 02:18:44,920
Speaker 6: because like this is an important relationship to me, and

2715
02:18:45,000 --> 02:18:47,879
Speaker 6: the dude did it anyways, only then that it affected him.

2716
02:18:47,879 --> 02:18:49,440
Speaker 2: Did he fought after like.

2717
02:18:51,280 --> 02:18:53,760
Speaker 6: Dozens of times and then it's like bro, of course,

2718
02:18:54,320 --> 02:18:57,360
Speaker 6: like he like he's done this. He slept with married

2719
02:18:57,400 --> 02:19:01,640
Speaker 6: women dozens of times. So that's the thing where it's like, oh,

2720
02:19:01,959 --> 02:19:03,240
Speaker 6: because it hasn't happened to me.

2721
02:19:03,280 --> 02:19:05,720
Speaker 2: To you yet, oh you think it won't happen. Yes,

2722
02:19:06,040 --> 02:19:09,360
Speaker 2: that's there everyone's saying, even if the whole uh, people

2723
02:19:09,360 --> 02:19:12,760
Speaker 2: are saying the story is fake. How do you guys

2724
02:19:12,879 --> 02:19:16,600
Speaker 2: know where are we getting this information? I'm reading the comments?

2725
02:19:16,640 --> 02:19:20,960
Speaker 2: What comment on Reddit? What are people saying? Did Yeah?

2726
02:19:21,000 --> 02:19:25,520
Speaker 2: What Unicorn Pooh is saying, but she is a stay

2727
02:19:25,560 --> 02:19:28,000
Speaker 2: at home wife, so it's fake. What do you mean

2728
02:19:28,760 --> 02:19:31,920
Speaker 2: stay at home wife? Ber Then Nabi says, I think

2729
02:19:32,000 --> 02:19:36,359
Speaker 2: she became a stay at home wife after she became pregnant.

2730
02:19:36,680 --> 02:19:44,680
Speaker 2: Unicorn Pooh, first post. Wait, let's see his continuity editor

2731
02:19:44,720 --> 02:19:45,600
Speaker 2: is ripping him off.

2732
02:19:46,280 --> 02:19:47,000
Speaker 4: H oh.

2733
02:19:47,080 --> 02:19:51,000
Speaker 3: So at first, okay, here it is here, it is

2734
02:19:51,360 --> 02:19:55,240
Speaker 3: so in the first few stories, Opie said that she

2735
02:19:55,320 --> 02:19:57,320
Speaker 3: was a stay at home wife, and then this story

2736
02:19:57,480 --> 02:20:01,240
Speaker 3: she got caught with a co worker, so the continuity

2737
02:20:01,400 --> 02:20:01,800
Speaker 3: is off.

2738
02:20:02,400 --> 02:20:06,959
Speaker 2: Well, you should got a job or something. I don't know.

2739
02:20:07,160 --> 02:20:10,119
Speaker 4: It's entertaining and it happen.

2740
02:20:10,560 --> 02:20:12,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, who knows.

2741
02:20:12,879 --> 02:20:15,240
Speaker 4: For a hundred we never know.

2742
02:20:15,560 --> 02:20:19,960
Speaker 2: We never know unless it's from unless it's from you guys,

2743
02:20:19,959 --> 02:20:22,240
Speaker 2: from our community and which actually talk to you, Which

2744
02:20:22,280 --> 02:20:25,520
Speaker 2: is why, which is why we are moving more and

2745
02:20:25,520 --> 02:20:30,560
Speaker 2: more towards community posts. Yes, and we wanted to interview

2746
02:20:30,600 --> 02:20:33,840
Speaker 2: you guys directly. This thing that we're doing on Friday

2747
02:20:34,280 --> 02:20:37,640
Speaker 2: is a move towards that I feel like, I feel

2748
02:20:37,640 --> 02:20:40,360
Speaker 2: like it's going to be really really cool. Yes, it's

2749
02:20:40,400 --> 02:20:42,640
Speaker 2: a combination of a lot of different formats we've been seeing,

2750
02:20:42,680 --> 02:20:45,560
Speaker 2: like on YouTube that I think are really interesting and

2751
02:20:45,640 --> 02:20:50,360
Speaker 2: have been successful. So I really hope you guys like it,

2752
02:20:50,400 --> 02:20:52,520
Speaker 2: because we've done a couple tests on the channel of

2753
02:20:52,600 --> 02:20:54,560
Speaker 2: things that are a little different and none of them have

2754
02:20:54,640 --> 02:20:58,879
Speaker 2: really worked. Like we did the gen z ads thing

2755
02:20:59,120 --> 02:21:04,400
Speaker 2: and like the kind of like uh like a essay,

2756
02:21:04,440 --> 02:21:08,000
Speaker 2: we did the nail video. There's like one more that

2757
02:21:08,040 --> 02:21:09,720
Speaker 2: we did that was a little different too that didn't do.

2758
02:21:09,920 --> 02:21:13,720
Speaker 2: Oh the the un Welcome to the neighborhood.

2759
02:21:13,160 --> 02:21:14,320
Speaker 4: Welcome to the neighborhood.

2760
02:21:14,400 --> 02:21:17,560
Speaker 6: We did like meme reviews a long time ago, Creddit

2761
02:21:17,600 --> 02:21:18,080
Speaker 6: meme review.

2762
02:21:18,760 --> 02:21:21,959
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, I thought those were great. Yeah, pretty for

2763
02:21:22,000 --> 02:21:24,560
Speaker 4: those were great. Gotta be close. But yeah, like we're

2764
02:21:24,959 --> 02:21:26,880
Speaker 4: hopeful that you guys will enjoy it. We're really excited

2765
02:21:26,920 --> 02:21:27,200
Speaker 4: about it.

2766
02:21:27,280 --> 02:21:29,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, we're always testing new stuff. If there's like formats

2767
02:21:30,000 --> 02:21:34,000
Speaker 2: too that you think would be interesting, you should totally

2768
02:21:34,400 --> 02:21:37,040
Speaker 2: talk to us about it in the discord because we're

2769
02:21:37,040 --> 02:21:41,400
Speaker 2: always willing to try new stuff. Obviously, the story stuff

2770
02:21:41,400 --> 02:21:43,520
Speaker 2: it's going to be our bread and butter, but we all,

2771
02:21:43,600 --> 02:21:44,959
Speaker 2: like I feel, always want to give you guys the

2772
02:21:44,959 --> 02:21:49,760
Speaker 2: best videos possible. And again, one more time before the

2773
02:21:49,760 --> 02:21:52,440
Speaker 2: stream ends, if you want to participate in our game, show.

2774
02:21:52,520 --> 02:21:56,200
Speaker 2: Fill out the form in the description below. We'd love

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02:21:56,280 --> 02:21:58,400
Speaker 2: to have you. We're going to and if you don't

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02:21:58,400 --> 02:22:01,160
Speaker 2: get on this one, we might roll it into another one.

2777
02:22:01,240 --> 02:22:05,360
Speaker 6: Yeah, planning on doing multiple of these, so if you have,

2778
02:22:05,480 --> 02:22:07,879
Speaker 6: if you don't have, like a story being being cheated on,

2779
02:22:08,200 --> 02:22:10,320
Speaker 6: chances are we will do a story that you might

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02:22:10,360 --> 02:22:11,440
Speaker 6: have experience as well.

2781
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Speaker 2: So we're gonna do a bunch of different ones. We

2782
02:22:13,480 --> 02:22:20,840
Speaker 2: might do a DNA test. Yeah, live live with peopleship. Yeah,

2783
02:22:20,879 --> 02:22:23,120
Speaker 2: we have al we're playing with. We have a ton

2784
02:22:23,160 --> 02:22:26,920
Speaker 2: of ideas that we're playing with. We're so excited. But

2785
02:22:28,160 --> 02:22:30,640
Speaker 2: I think with that this stream is over.

2786
02:22:31,120 --> 02:22:31,840
Speaker 4: That is correct.

2787
02:22:32,600 --> 02:22:37,120
Speaker 2: So if you love us, make sure to subscribe We

2788
02:22:37,200 --> 02:22:45,039
Speaker 2: love you and see it tomorrow. Boo boo.

2789
02:22:47,760 --> 02:22:49,800
Speaker 3: I want to see what it's like on YouTube.

2790
02:22:50,280 --> 02:22:51,360
Speaker 2: Oh yeah,