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Speaker 1: Pauline and Rufio. The cost of childcare OH has increased

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Speaker 1: nearly twenty percent between twenty sixteen and twenty twenty one,

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Speaker 1: According to lending Tree, excluding tax exemptions or credits.

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Speaker 2: It'll cost twenty one.

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Speaker 1: Thousand dollars a year to raise a child at minimum.

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Speaker 1: thirty seven four hundred and eighty two thousand dollars over

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Speaker 2: To raise a kid.

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Speaker 4: It's wild because people want to give me backlash or

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Speaker 4: giving you backlash? Listen Listeners people, Yeah, like grand people.

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Speaker 4: My own mom has said, like you sure you don't

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Speaker 4: But we're not doing this again. We're one and done.

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Speaker 1: Well, you'd posted a question the other day. We didn't

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Speaker 1: I Okay, more importantly, did you only have one kid?

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Speaker 3: Way that which kid would you erase from your history?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, if you had to say one kid, right.

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Speaker 4: I think there's pros and cons to everything, right or

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Speaker 1: How are you very well? So you have two kids,

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Speaker 7: They're four years apart, not by design, but are not

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Speaker 7: And Pauline, I know you just had a baby.

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Speaker 1: Christina, have a good day, A good one. Well good,

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Speaker 1: I have a daughter and she's not weird.

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Speaker 3: Beautiful life.

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Speaker 6: Ashly is four and a half. So he he understands,

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Speaker 1: Hello Julian, you've got a son and twin girls. Yes,

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Speaker 11: I had three of them in college at one time.

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Speaker 11: The girls are much harder to raise.

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Speaker 6: No, they make you more affordable because no one wants

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Speaker 1: But anyway, Orlando is uh the top place for a

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Speaker 3: Old timy like Western Town in Tucson.

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Speaker 1: There's a few of them. But yeah, what was it called?

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Speaker 6: Jerome's the one on the hill on the you gotta

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Speaker 1: There are several of them, and then there's some fake

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Speaker 1: You could you could mind for gold. They had like

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Speaker 1: and put condos there, sadly, But Santa Ana, California. Moreno Valley, Laredo,

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Speaker 1: a staycation in Pearl City. Irving, Texas. In Fremont, California. Oh,

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Speaker 1: one more AI story for you. Researchers are exploring how

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Speaker 1: AI will someday be able to interpret dog vocalizations, possibly

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Speaker 1: distinguishing between playful barks and aggressive growls, and even identifying

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Speaker 1: aracteristics such as age, breed, and gender of the dog.

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Speaker 1: So someday with about so far they have fifty percent accuracy,

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Speaker 1: But someday they're saying that you'll be able to use

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Speaker 1: AI to understand what your dog is saying.

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Speaker 2: Maybe my dream.

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Speaker 1: Well, but I prefer just to do I prefer to

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Speaker 1: just translate myself, like I have the dialogue already with

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Speaker 1: my dog, Like we just we talk to each other,

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Speaker 1: and I say what she's gonna say, and then I

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Speaker 1: already know she's doctor Doolittle.

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Speaker 3: I can't say. She'll text me and be like, Chance

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Speaker 3: I can't understand him.

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Speaker 2: Oh, no, you know we didn't say that.

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Speaker 1: I called the house, Lily says, Hi, she's asking about you. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: she wants to know where you've been. No, and she

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Speaker 1: probably doesn't want to know where I've been. I believe them.

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Speaker 1: It's National Call your doctor Day, so do that, and

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Speaker 1: everyone the well Polina did yesterday, and everything's in her

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