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Speaker 1: I listened to the Black Guy Who Tips because Rod

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Speaker 1: and Karen are so hot.

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Speaker 2: Hey, welcome to another episode of the Black Autos podcast.

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Speaker 1: I'm your host.

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Speaker 2: Rod joined us always on my cost Kim, and we're

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Speaker 2: live on a Saturday, a very special birthday Saturday.

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Speaker 1: Happy birthday, birthday girl, Thank.

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Speaker 3: You, thank you. Today has been a very very good day.

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Speaker 4: When we had did for those of you, did our premium,

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Speaker 4: we did the Balls Deep Sports and pregame last night,

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Speaker 4: and what I had planned on doing today was just

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Speaker 4: ubering everywhere because I was like, I want to drink

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Speaker 4: and stuff like that. And Roger was like, well, it's

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Speaker 4: not really safe to kind of uber, particularly by yourself,

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Speaker 4: you know, without without somebody with you knowing that you're

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Speaker 4: going to be drinking and stuff like that. So I

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Speaker 4: took that into considerations when I made my plans, and

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Speaker 4: so you was like, well, reach out to some people,

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Speaker 4: you know, because like I said, i'm here, I'm still

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Speaker 4: hearing short because I know I have actually planned on

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Speaker 4: come in to see you this weekend, but we changed

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Speaker 4: those plans. I'm gonna see you later on in a

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Speaker 4: month where we both are free and go sight seeing

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Speaker 4: and actually have more time we both would have more

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Speaker 4: time to actually meet and see you know, people that

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Speaker 4: have you know, wanted to see us both.

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Speaker 3: You know you with us, but us both.

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Speaker 4: And so what I did I last night I contacted

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Speaker 4: one of my cousins to see how she's doing. But

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Speaker 4: she has like two small kids and a husband. So

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Speaker 4: I told her, I say, you know, I understand.

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Speaker 3: If you're not free.

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Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying, because you know, your life

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Speaker 4: is busy and all that type of stuff. But she

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Speaker 4: was free, and so I went to go see her

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Speaker 4: today and actually had a fit. And I'm so glad

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Speaker 4: I did it because it was so much fun because

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Speaker 4: I got to see my aunts and my uncle and

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Speaker 4: her husband and their kids.

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Speaker 3: Everybody's vaccinated and all that type of stuff.

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Speaker 4: I don't know about the small because the other two

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Speaker 4: younger chidren are smallest, so I don't know if they

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Speaker 4: vaccination age. But you know, all the adults, you know,

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Speaker 4: because I keep my circle really tight as far as

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Speaker 3: Had no game to me.

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Speaker 4: And so I actually had a really really good time

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Speaker 4: we went out to cause I don't she didn't know

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Speaker 4: what's on my birthday. So I was like, yeah, you know,

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Speaker 4: I'm going out. You know, I want to spend some time,

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Speaker 4: on birthday. So she said, oh, it's your birthday. So

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Speaker 4: we went out and so uh because I was gonna

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Speaker 4: was like, hey, I'm bout it you.

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Speaker 3: I wanted to go out.

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Speaker 4: I wanted to have a good time, so I was like, hey,

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Speaker 3: But she was like no, no, no, no.

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Speaker 4: She was like, I'll go ahead and I'll cover the

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Speaker 4: bid I they forced her to anything like that.

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Speaker 3: So we went to one of our favorite places.

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Speaker 4: To eat, Burtons, and we had a.

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Speaker 3: Really good time. She was like, what have you tried?

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Speaker 4: I said, just about everything on the menu everything, you know.

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Speaker 4: So we had a really really good time eating everything,

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Speaker 4: Uh. Because we went when they first first opened up,

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Speaker 4: But wasn't nobody in the literally nobody was in there

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Speaker 4: And so we had a really really good time we

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Speaker 3: And I am so glad that you kind of you

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Speaker 4: And also I am so glad that I know I've

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Speaker 3: Saying this, and I know I'm not the only one.

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Speaker 4: I finally got out of my COVID funk, and so

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Speaker 4: and so it's actually not just funny, it's been healthy

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Speaker 4: for my mental it's been better for me.

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Speaker 3: Physically and all that stuff.

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Speaker 4: Just to you know, to move around and get out

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Speaker 4: and I didn't realize how much of a difference that

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Speaker 4: For the first time in a long time, I started

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Speaker 3: Ooh people, I'm about to die, like like it was serious.

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Speaker 3: I was like, the fuck am I bait around people? Oh?

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Speaker 4: People is the problem? Like I I know, I'm not

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Speaker 4: a very very long time, but like that, but almost

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Speaker 4: two years I was like a fucking the people.

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Speaker 3: The people is the one that make everybody sick, you know.

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Speaker 4: And so for me, I did everything I was supposed

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Speaker 4: to do. I've been vaccinated. I'm masked with my mask

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Speaker 3: The next booster shot is.

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Speaker 4: And so you know, it's one of those things where

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Speaker 3: I'm just tired. I mean, I'm not trying to be funny.

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Speaker 4: I will still do everything to protect everybody as far

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Speaker 3: I can't do it no more. I just can't. I

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Speaker 2: I think also it could be that I'm not there

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Speaker 2: I didn't really. I tried to have some level of

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Speaker 1: COVID, but that's the risk I took and stuff.

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Speaker 2: And I think you know, now you're probably feeling some

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Speaker 1: And now you kind of have to do it on

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Speaker 2: But I'm glad that your birthday has been good. I'm

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Speaker 2: glad that you and your cousin had a good time.

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Speaker 2: You know, I saw the flowers you supposed to the flowers.

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Speaker 2: I'm glad you liked them.

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Speaker 3: They did beautiful rainbow color.

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Speaker 1: Did it come on like a wind chime too or something?

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Speaker 1: I was like, oh, I got a wind chime.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's encouraging me to go out there and sweet

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Speaker 3: I've been doing interaction with her.

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Speaker 4: And the thing about seeing my family members is that

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Speaker 3: Since like years, like like literally, when.

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Speaker 4: I tell you, I've been keeping my black ass to

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Speaker 3: I am going to see nobody. I'm like, no, nigga, nope,

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Speaker 3: And stuff like that. And they son had birthday to me,

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Speaker 3: He was giving me some money. He mad. I said,

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Speaker 4: So I am actually and I am excited about just

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Speaker 4: And I did a little bit of grocery shopping and

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Speaker 3: So when you need fresh stuff, you kind of, you know,

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Speaker 4: Homemade vegetable soup today with all with all all the

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Speaker 3: So I'm looking forward to that. And it's actually been

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Speaker 4: And I'm babe, I'm actually happy, and I'm very thankful

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Speaker 2: Episode twenty five oh eight Positive Energy. We got four comments.

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Speaker 2: It was a feedback show. Appia left three of the comments.

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Speaker 3: So that's why you see people that's always online.

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Speaker 2: Apple says, Oh, how I wish you would start. You

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Speaker 1: And eventually I'll do that with Discovery. I am Sasha.

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Speaker 2: Pierce says, just a note to say Game Theory is excellent.

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Speaker 1: Wishing y'all this says you deserve.

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Speaker 2: Congrats to you both for the amazing journey you've had

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Speaker 2: for me, just because of how hard I had to

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Speaker 2: work to get this thing to make sense and for

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Speaker 2: people to like really understand it and and vibe with it.

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Speaker 2: And you know, the work's never done, Like tomorrow will

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Speaker 2: be working on it one more time, like you get

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Speaker 2: one last shot at changes and stuff or something just

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Speaker 2: bumps wrong. Or but like when I tell y'all, man,

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Speaker 2: the enthusiasm of the room, the enthusiasm of bowl after

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Speaker 2: the readdown, during the readdown, like it felt really really

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Speaker 2: fucking good to have people be like, you know, like

449
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Speaker 2: stopping to clap and like, you know, be like, yo,

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Speaker 2: y'all fucking did.

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Speaker 1: This, you know what I mean?

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Speaker 2: And I think all of those people haven't seen something.

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Speaker 2: Some of those people haven't seen the steps of the

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Speaker 2: process and how it was kind of like a really

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Speaker 2: difficult process as far as like some of the stages

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Speaker 2: and some of the back and forth and directions.

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Speaker 1: You know that, I was very, very proud of that.

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Speaker 1: So I can't wait.

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Speaker 2: For y'all to see it tomorrow because it's just one

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Speaker 2: of those things where I just think it'll be great

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Speaker 2: and I think y'all will recognize a lot of the fun,

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Speaker 2: the comedy and stuff in there. And then the poe

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Speaker 2: was do you think Arby's is a drug front?

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Speaker 1: Yes or no?

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Speaker 2: And I'll see people in the chat room saying great poll, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: thank you Mary. Seventy three percent said yes and twenty

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Speaker 2: seven percent said no on our website, and then if

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Speaker 2: you look on Spotify, seventy nine percent yes, twenty one

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Speaker 2: percent say no, so even more people know it's a

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Speaker 2: drug front. And then the question and answer was thank

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Speaker 2: you for listening, and people left comments, thank you for

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Speaker 2: putting out fire content, thank you for talking. Uh that's

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Speaker 2: jbing Ernest, thank you. Roger says, thank you. Don't be thankful,

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Speaker 2: be careful. Okay, alright, sorry.

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Speaker 3: I take that one, and yes, I'm gonna be careful,

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Speaker 3: but it sounds.

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Speaker 1: Like pimp and can uh.

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Speaker 2: Phil says, and I'll keep listening as long as you

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Speaker 2: teach your boy how to squabble.

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Speaker 1: I don't even know what squabble means.

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Speaker 3: Uh dance.

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Speaker 2: We're in trouble because I don't know how I'm gonna

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Speaker 2: teach you that. I can teach you some scrap how

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Speaker 2: to scrabble anyway. Chuck Obean says, thank you for doing

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Speaker 2: what you do.

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Speaker 1: You or I appreciate it.

487
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Speaker 2: MS Barr says, thank you for selflessly giving us a podcast,

488
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Speaker 2: giving us this podcast love while you burn, burning the

489
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Speaker 2: candles on both ends. We don't deserve you riding caring

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Speaker 2: the r and Arby's is a legit establishment.

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Speaker 1: Agreed to disagree.

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Speaker 3: Michael says, somebody said that means fighting.

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Speaker 2: Oh okay, all right, teach you how. I mean, I

494
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Speaker 2: can teach you how to fight. I guess you're not

495
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Speaker 2: gonna win them all. I didn't win them all. Teach

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Speaker 2: you how to fight with your words. Michael says, been

497
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Speaker 2: here for years, I ain't going nowhere, so thank you.

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Speaker 2: Everybody left a comment. The next episode was twenty four

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Speaker 2: I mean twenty five nine The Pursuit of Slappiness thirteen comments.

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Speaker 3: Oh y'all had like to say, yeah.

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Speaker 1: This is one of the ones.

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Speaker 2: I'm glad we covered this shit when we did and

503
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Speaker 2: didn't have a chance to talk about it throughout the

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Speaker 2: week because I really have not changed my opinion much.

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Speaker 2: The only thing that's changed is that I feel more like, damn,

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Speaker 2: y'all was app to fun right out of this shit,

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Speaker 2: Like who did y'all project this shit into some horribleness?

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Speaker 2: And some real people are acting very horrible to each

509
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Speaker 2: other on the internet over this shit, and I just

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Speaker 2: do not see how it's called for that.

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Speaker 1: So yeah, let's that.

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Speaker 2: And it was a shorter episode for us, and it

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Speaker 2: was the only thing we talked about. So Brooklyn shoe

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Speaker 2: Babe says, thank you, thank you, thank you. As soon

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Speaker 2: as I heard what happened, all I wanted to hear

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Speaker 2: with your jokes and hot puns.

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Speaker 1: Thank y'all we delivered.

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Speaker 3: You know.

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Speaker 2: That's the other thing with the funny stuff is worse

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Speaker 2: the opposite of how people think. But they's a comedy

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Speaker 2: plus time. Oh no, tragedy plus time equals comedy. I

522
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Speaker 2: don't for something like this. It's like a window of

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Speaker 2: like a couple of hours to twenty four hours possibly

524
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Speaker 2: where you can get some comedy in and then literally

525
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Speaker 2: the Internet SAPs the fun out of it until it's like,

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Speaker 2: it's not about what happened anymore. It's about the personal

527
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Speaker 2: lives of the people that see it and how they're

528
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Speaker 2: interpreting it into, you know, and the shit that's not true.

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Speaker 2: In my opinion, Brooklyn shoe Baby says thank you, think

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Speaker 2: thank you.

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Speaker 1: Soon as it happened.

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Speaker 2: I wanted to hear how unhive My family group text

533
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Speaker 2: was buzzing this morning with gifts, jokes and contemplations.

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Speaker 1: I've been at the oscars.

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Speaker 2: Wish they hired Kevin Hart, now they take him today. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: Kevin Hard is also one of them dudes that he

537
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Speaker 2: if he's gonna roast you or make jokes, he normally

538
00:26:13,400 --> 00:26:16,280
Speaker 2: seems to try to keep it light or like he

539
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Speaker 2: wants to be liked, And I don't think he wants

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Speaker 2: the reputation of like the hardcore mean comic that a

541
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Speaker 2: lot of these a lot of these comedians, that's the

542
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Speaker 2: challenge is to be mean, and the Academy has embraced

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Speaker 2: that low key. A lot of the people that claim

544
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Speaker 2: to be upset about this Chris Rock thing and that

545
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Speaker 2: Chris was out of line a lot of them, like

546
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Speaker 2: also love to watch these these these like higher than

547
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Speaker 2: thou rich beautiful celebrities but get roasted and then it

548
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Speaker 2: comes becomes relatable.

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Speaker 1: But you know, it all kind of hinges on the.

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Speaker 2: Fact that we're supposed to be jealous of these celebrities

551
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Speaker 2: to some extent, so it's humbling, but also like it

552
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Speaker 2: makes it makes them seem like a good sport, like yeah,

553
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Speaker 2: I'm rich, Yeah I'm famous, Yes I'm beautiful, Yes, everybody

554
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Speaker 2: wants to fuck me. Yes, da da da da, But hey,

555
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Speaker 2: I laughed at the fact that this person just said

556
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Speaker 2: all my movies are bad and I'm showing it's like

557
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Speaker 2: a roast. I'm showing I'm a good sport. You're gonna

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Speaker 2: continue to watch the Oscars. You're gonna think it's cool

559
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Speaker 2: that I'm winning awards and shit, and we're just gonna

560
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Speaker 2: move on as if we've all made disagreement.

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Speaker 1: And I think whoever realized.

562
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Speaker 2: That that's what award shows would have to be in

563
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Speaker 2: order for the general populace that is probably very upset

564
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Speaker 2: by the fact that wage stagnation has affected most of

565
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Speaker 2: us inflation, and yet the beautiful, pretty rich people get

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Speaker 2: to continue to play.

567
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Speaker 1: Their games and all that stuff.

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Speaker 2: You know, I think that's the only way to overcome

569
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Speaker 2: that sentiment and that social contract was broken when Will

570
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Speaker 2: Smith hit that.

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Speaker 1: Dude, Yes, it was you know, like the like.

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Speaker 4: It was why everybody responded like they did that they're

573
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Speaker 4: not responding because they're crazy, a lunatic anything like that.

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Speaker 3: It's like, hey, this was.

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Speaker 4: The kind of silent written agreement and it was broke.

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Speaker 4: Now was a problem.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, like that was the thing because it was it's

578
00:28:19,600 --> 00:28:22,560
Speaker 2: more like whoever gets on that stage and does that joke,

579
00:28:23,680 --> 00:28:27,760
Speaker 2: Like like it's not necessarily uh like, whoever gets on

580
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Speaker 2: that stage is going to make some type of joke

581
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Speaker 2: at the expense of someone in the audience, not saying

582
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Speaker 2: it's gonna be that joke, not saying it'll be that person.

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Speaker 2: But you can go out through the whole night and

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Speaker 2: I would guarantee you that there were other jokes that

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Speaker 2: were at the expensive people in the audience.

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Speaker 4: But ya started off with it when the three holes

587
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Speaker 4: came out there and.

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Speaker 3: All three of them were just firing jokes.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but I'm sure we'll talk talk this thing to death.

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00:28:52,440 --> 00:28:55,440
Speaker 2: Laughing my ass off Seriously, though, isn't Twitter tired of

591
00:28:55,520 --> 00:29:00,440
Speaker 2: psycho analyze the celebrities. Yet no, because not really about

592
00:29:00,440 --> 00:29:03,320
Speaker 2: the celebrities, about us. I haven't met one person that

593
00:29:03,600 --> 00:29:06,680
Speaker 2: walked out of this. This shit is a royal shock test,

594
00:29:06,760 --> 00:29:09,000
Speaker 2: and I haven't met one person that walked out of

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Speaker 2: this with a different opinion than they.

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Speaker 1: Had going in.

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Speaker 3: Agree.

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Speaker 4: That's why I'm not talking to anybody, because you're not

599
00:29:13,680 --> 00:29:14,360
Speaker 4: gonna change my PM.

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00:29:14,360 --> 00:29:16,120
Speaker 3: I'm not gonna change yours. What are we talking about?

601
00:29:16,600 --> 00:29:19,800
Speaker 2: Like everyone's fan casting this thing into what they wanted

602
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Speaker 2: to be. People that kind of been waiting to hate

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Speaker 2: Will Smith and you know celebrities like that, you know,

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Speaker 2: tired of Jada pinkin Smith they walk out with tired

605
00:29:30,480 --> 00:29:32,280
Speaker 2: of with Jada Pinkett and hating Will Smith.

606
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Speaker 1: And the people that hate Chris Rock or walk out

607
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Speaker 1: of what.

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Speaker 3: You know.

609
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Speaker 1: I always hated Chris Rock.

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Speaker 2: He was never shited like it's you know, I haven't

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Speaker 2: seen anybody that, at least in my opinion, that went

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Speaker 2: full one point eighty other than people who were like

613
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Speaker 2: shocked by the violence of Will Smith because they just

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Speaker 2: didn't think he was that type of person. Those people

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Speaker 2: may have come out of it with like a like

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Speaker 2: a very harsh rebuke of Will Smith, and I think

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Speaker 2: that's on. That's some deeper level shit that causes you

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Speaker 2: to have such a hard because look, I mean, I'm

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Speaker 2: really not trying to downplay it, but it's just a slap.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry. I'm not saying it's not a big deal.

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Speaker 2: I'm not saying people shouldn't talk about it, but people

622
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Speaker 2: are talking about it in a way they talk about

623
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Speaker 2: like Roman Pulaski and Mel Gibson and you know what

624
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Speaker 2: I'm saying to an extent of like, well, that can't

625
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Speaker 2: really be about the degree of the quote unquote crime.

626
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Speaker 2: Like if someone assaulted somebody by slapping them, we might

627
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Speaker 2: think that's terrible. Will Smith slapped the white man for

628
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Speaker 2: trying to who is a journalist and trying to do

629
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Speaker 2: some type of prankster shit in the red carpet and

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Speaker 2: kiss him, and Will Smith smacked the shit out of him.

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Speaker 2: It's still a smack. None of us are sitting around

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Speaker 2: going I can't believe that that's assault.

633
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Speaker 1: Why is it he in jail?

634
00:30:53,680 --> 00:30:57,400
Speaker 2: Like it's something about it's Will Smith, it's Chris Rock,

635
00:30:57,480 --> 00:30:59,520
Speaker 2: it's in a setting we did not think that would

636
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Speaker 2: ever happen.

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Speaker 1: And whether you applaud it or hated or whatever.

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00:31:05,960 --> 00:31:09,000
Speaker 2: It is a shocking moment, and so people are trying

639
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Speaker 2: to downplay the shockingness.

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Speaker 1: But at the same.

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Speaker 2: Time, I'm not gonna say, like, it's the same as like,

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Speaker 2: you know, a motherfucker being a rapist and not being

643
00:31:20,480 --> 00:31:22,520
Speaker 2: invited back to the oscars. It's not the same thing

644
00:31:22,520 --> 00:31:27,840
Speaker 2: to me, you know, But yeah, I get it, she says.

645
00:31:28,560 --> 00:31:30,800
Speaker 2: I guess people are bored now that the Trump's not president.

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Speaker 1: Stay safe, peace, you know what.

647
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Speaker 4: And I agree, like, no matter what people say, excuse me.

648
00:31:36,960 --> 00:31:38,760
Speaker 4: A lot of the news and a lot of people

649
00:31:39,000 --> 00:31:41,360
Speaker 4: left and right miss Trump. A lot of them will

650
00:31:41,400 --> 00:31:44,440
Speaker 4: never admit that, but they miss Trump because Trump kept

651
00:31:44,440 --> 00:31:47,240
Speaker 4: the news cycle for the fucking going. Trump was out

652
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Speaker 4: there doing all kinds of things, like him love him,

653
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Speaker 4: feeling different. He constantly kept everybody talking. The news cycle's going.

654
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Speaker 4: Now that person is no longer there, and particularly on

655
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Speaker 4: social media and things like that, if they are, you know,

656
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Speaker 4: they he can't make the same impact. So a lot

657
00:32:05,520 --> 00:32:07,040
Speaker 4: of people are like, oh shit, we were gonna do it,

658
00:32:07,040 --> 00:32:08,520
Speaker 4: there's nothing to do. What are we gonna talk about it?

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Speaker 4: There's nothing to talk about, you know, And so they'll

660
00:32:11,400 --> 00:32:11,960
Speaker 4: go back.

661
00:32:12,800 --> 00:32:15,000
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't even think it's that though.

662
00:32:15,040 --> 00:32:18,840
Speaker 2: I mean, like I understand that, but even if Trump

663
00:32:18,880 --> 00:32:22,800
Speaker 2: was president and this happened, people will be talking about

664
00:32:22,800 --> 00:32:25,400
Speaker 2: this all week, like these are some of the most

665
00:32:25,520 --> 00:32:29,240
Speaker 2: famous people on the planet and what happened was shocking

666
00:32:29,280 --> 00:32:33,240
Speaker 2: the people. And I don't think it's just about filling

667
00:32:33,280 --> 00:32:37,040
Speaker 2: the Trump gap. I think this is legitimately something people

668
00:32:37,080 --> 00:32:38,080
Speaker 2: would be talking about.

669
00:32:38,680 --> 00:32:41,600
Speaker 4: Yes, And I'm not saying that they wouldn't talk about it,

670
00:32:41,600 --> 00:32:43,880
Speaker 4: and I'm not saying it still wouldn't be a big event,

671
00:32:44,320 --> 00:32:47,160
Speaker 4: But I do think that that plays a factor to

672
00:32:47,320 --> 00:32:47,960
Speaker 4: why a lot.

673
00:32:47,840 --> 00:32:50,280
Speaker 3: Of people are doing so, because a lot of energy.

674
00:32:49,960 --> 00:32:53,080
Speaker 4: That they normally would have put in other places they're

675
00:32:53,080 --> 00:32:54,160
Speaker 4: putting it all on this.

676
00:32:55,160 --> 00:32:55,400
Speaker 3: Yeah.

677
00:32:55,880 --> 00:32:57,920
Speaker 2: Like I said that, this is just one of those ones.

678
00:32:57,960 --> 00:33:00,880
Speaker 2: I think I just disagree a bit. I think this

679
00:33:01,080 --> 00:33:05,080
Speaker 2: is so shocking. Whether Trump was president, whatever the fuck is,

680
00:33:05,200 --> 00:33:08,880
Speaker 2: it would just be the Internet imploding and fighting like

681
00:33:09,720 --> 00:33:12,360
Speaker 2: it just happens sometimes. It's one of those quote unquote

682
00:33:12,360 --> 00:33:17,080
Speaker 2: crazy things that with our celebrity worshiping culture, is bigger

683
00:33:17,120 --> 00:33:19,480
Speaker 2: than real life problems, you know what I mean?

684
00:33:19,600 --> 00:33:21,240
Speaker 1: Like, you know what I mean?

685
00:33:21,840 --> 00:33:26,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, whether you call it distraction, yeah, sure, I

686
00:33:26,520 --> 00:33:27,440
Speaker 2: just I know people.

687
00:33:27,240 --> 00:33:29,000
Speaker 1: Would be interested no matter when this happened.

688
00:33:29,040 --> 00:33:33,120
Speaker 2: But Appa says, I thought the jokes were really bad,

689
00:33:33,200 --> 00:33:34,880
Speaker 2: But there's still no reason for violence.

690
00:33:35,240 --> 00:33:38,280
Speaker 1: Most people who slap who gets slapped at college? Wait?

691
00:33:38,440 --> 00:33:41,160
Speaker 2: Most people who slapped a colleague, oh, colleague at work

692
00:33:41,360 --> 00:33:43,520
Speaker 2: would get in big trouble or fired. But most people

693
00:33:43,520 --> 00:33:52,320
Speaker 2: aren't rich, powerful celebrities. Well that's the thing, though, would they? Like,

694
00:33:52,880 --> 00:33:56,600
Speaker 2: I've had jobs where a coworker did some wild shit

695
00:33:56,760 --> 00:33:59,960
Speaker 2: and showed up the next day, like not every job

696
00:34:00,200 --> 00:34:03,280
Speaker 2: is a protective space, man like, And I'm not saying

697
00:34:03,280 --> 00:34:06,080
Speaker 2: that the downplay what Will did, but just like I

698
00:34:06,120 --> 00:34:08,600
Speaker 2: think our society is fucked up with violence.

699
00:34:08,239 --> 00:34:10,720
Speaker 1: I don't know that. I think a lot of times

700
00:34:10,760 --> 00:34:13,359
Speaker 1: we downplay shit like this. You know.

701
00:34:13,480 --> 00:34:16,799
Speaker 2: That's the same way that women go to HFR like

702
00:34:16,880 --> 00:34:18,520
Speaker 2: somebody grab my ass.

703
00:34:18,440 --> 00:34:18,840
Speaker 1: Or something, and.

704
00:34:20,520 --> 00:34:23,359
Speaker 2: That nigga be at work the next day, like and

705
00:34:23,480 --> 00:34:26,719
Speaker 2: so I don't even know that workplaces handle this shit

706
00:34:26,840 --> 00:34:30,080
Speaker 2: well when it's not famous people. You know, people always

707
00:34:30,080 --> 00:34:33,280
Speaker 2: point at famous people because it makes us feel like, yeah,

708
00:34:33,560 --> 00:34:36,440
Speaker 2: you know, we can agree right that Deshaun Watson is terrible.

709
00:34:36,520 --> 00:34:38,960
Speaker 2: But it's like you're you probably work with somebody that

710
00:34:39,080 --> 00:34:42,560
Speaker 2: hits their wife. You probably work with somebody who's done

711
00:34:42,600 --> 00:34:46,399
Speaker 2: some untowards shit, towards a coworker or whatever. Like, our

712
00:34:46,440 --> 00:34:48,920
Speaker 2: society is not really good at handling any of this

713
00:34:48,960 --> 00:34:51,719
Speaker 2: shit when it comes to enforcement.

714
00:34:52,480 --> 00:34:54,200
Speaker 3: No, they're not. And it's on some one of those

715
00:34:54,200 --> 00:34:55,839
Speaker 3: things to particularly hear.

716
00:34:55,880 --> 00:34:59,160
Speaker 4: In America, we love our violence from the school shootings

717
00:34:59,280 --> 00:35:02,759
Speaker 4: all that stuff, because if we were quote unquote as

718
00:35:02,800 --> 00:35:05,439
Speaker 4: anti violent as a collective as we claim we are,

719
00:35:05,600 --> 00:35:09,120
Speaker 4: a lot of our rules will be completely different. Yeah,

720
00:35:09,160 --> 00:35:12,480
Speaker 4: And so because we like guns, we like violence, we

721
00:35:12,600 --> 00:35:16,320
Speaker 4: like mma, we like boxing, like we like we like hockey,

722
00:35:16,560 --> 00:35:19,640
Speaker 4: like these things where people attack each other. Well, just

723
00:35:19,719 --> 00:35:22,839
Speaker 4: something about this environment and that and that contract being

724
00:35:22,880 --> 00:35:24,840
Speaker 4: broke that calls people to be like, oh.

725
00:35:24,680 --> 00:35:25,480
Speaker 3: No, no, no, not here.

726
00:35:26,120 --> 00:35:26,319
Speaker 1: Yeah.

727
00:35:26,320 --> 00:35:28,600
Speaker 2: I think people like violence in places where it's supposed

728
00:35:28,640 --> 00:35:31,880
Speaker 2: to happen. Agree, you know what I'm saying, Like, we

729
00:35:31,920 --> 00:35:36,000
Speaker 2: don't love our school shootings, but we do love violence

730
00:35:36,040 --> 00:35:38,600
Speaker 2: and like football, you know, and this is a place

731
00:35:38,600 --> 00:35:41,000
Speaker 2: where it's not supposed to happen, you know. But my

732
00:35:41,120 --> 00:35:43,880
Speaker 2: point is, even when it happens in a place is

733
00:35:43,920 --> 00:35:48,279
Speaker 2: not supposed to happen. We're not we America, and like,

734
00:35:48,880 --> 00:35:51,520
Speaker 2: you know, we we we do not have a good

735
00:35:51,600 --> 00:35:54,520
Speaker 2: handle on how to deal with this shit. It really

736
00:35:54,560 --> 00:35:56,920
Speaker 2: does vary by how powerful the person is, how rich

737
00:35:56,960 --> 00:36:00,279
Speaker 2: the person is, how much you like the person, what

738
00:36:00,520 --> 00:36:04,879
Speaker 2: are the motivations of the place where it happens. You know,

739
00:36:05,239 --> 00:36:09,440
Speaker 2: how many churches look the other way, how many workplaces

740
00:36:09,520 --> 00:36:11,239
Speaker 2: look the other way, how many.

741
00:36:11,400 --> 00:36:12,719
Speaker 1: Teams look the other way?

742
00:36:12,760 --> 00:36:16,160
Speaker 2: Like we're not really we've never been good about this shit,

743
00:36:16,400 --> 00:36:21,359
Speaker 2: you know. But yeah, but you know, I absolutely think

744
00:36:21,400 --> 00:36:25,000
Speaker 2: that is a huge part of it is that, you know, and.

745
00:36:25,239 --> 00:36:26,160
Speaker 1: It also like.

746
00:36:27,840 --> 00:36:31,759
Speaker 2: There's this weird element that I think is happening racially

747
00:36:31,840 --> 00:36:34,920
Speaker 2: where black people are attached to these celebrities because they're black,

748
00:36:35,840 --> 00:36:40,360
Speaker 2: you know, that's just a fact. And white people, even

749
00:36:40,680 --> 00:36:45,480
Speaker 2: the well meaning ones, have no attachment to the race

750
00:36:45,680 --> 00:36:49,359
Speaker 2: obviously of these like there's no representational politics for them,

751
00:36:49,800 --> 00:36:52,080
Speaker 2: so they just are like I would feel this way

752
00:36:52,120 --> 00:36:55,360
Speaker 2: about anybody doing this, you know, like like it's not

753
00:36:55,400 --> 00:36:58,360
Speaker 2: a black or white thing to me. And it's starting

754
00:36:58,400 --> 00:37:03,279
Speaker 2: this the schism of like they want to be very

755
00:37:03,320 --> 00:37:06,879
Speaker 2: punitive and very harsh towards these people and black people

756
00:37:06,920 --> 00:37:10,120
Speaker 2: want to be very protective of you know, not every

757
00:37:10,600 --> 00:37:14,200
Speaker 2: of each group, but you know in general that yes, yeah,

758
00:37:14,280 --> 00:37:17,360
Speaker 2: And so it's fucking up the whole conversation because the

759
00:37:17,480 --> 00:37:22,320
Speaker 2: unspoken word in the room is race, and you can't

760
00:37:22,360 --> 00:37:25,960
Speaker 2: tell any white person that, yo, you're I think you're

761
00:37:25,960 --> 00:37:30,040
Speaker 2: being I think you're not being considerate of blah blah blah,

762
00:37:30,080 --> 00:37:31,919
Speaker 2: because they're gonna just be like, oh, are you calling

763
00:37:31,960 --> 00:37:32,440
Speaker 2: me racist?

764
00:37:32,480 --> 00:37:34,480
Speaker 1: I'm not. I'm definitely not a racist, So you can't

765
00:37:34,680 --> 00:37:35,720
Speaker 1: tell me what to talk about.

766
00:37:35,760 --> 00:37:37,799
Speaker 2: And once that happens, you can't talk to no white

767
00:37:37,800 --> 00:37:40,799
Speaker 2: person that like, what's the idea of race?

768
00:37:40,880 --> 00:37:42,600
Speaker 1: Enters the room, white people shut the fuck down.

769
00:37:42,760 --> 00:37:45,680
Speaker 2: So you know, you got people feeling like why the

770
00:37:45,680 --> 00:37:48,640
Speaker 2: fuck is like Judd Apatow and some of these white

771
00:37:48,680 --> 00:37:52,359
Speaker 2: folks going hard on Will Smith in a way that

772
00:37:52,480 --> 00:37:56,120
Speaker 2: makes them be like, Okay, but is this a thing

773
00:37:56,200 --> 00:37:59,240
Speaker 2: you feel about? You know, I don't know Sean Penn

774
00:37:59,360 --> 00:38:02,920
Speaker 2: or uh, you know, like like you know, Jim Carrey's

775
00:38:02,920 --> 00:38:05,719
Speaker 2: literally been accused of shit. He's just allowed to go

776
00:38:05,800 --> 00:38:09,040
Speaker 2: to the oscars and do whatever. So it's taught it's

777
00:38:09,080 --> 00:38:10,680
Speaker 2: causing us like what about ism?

778
00:38:10,680 --> 00:38:10,919
Speaker 5: Shit?

779
00:38:11,040 --> 00:38:14,239
Speaker 2: That's happening, and you know, once again, by not participating

780
00:38:14,239 --> 00:38:16,600
Speaker 2: in the conversation, I just witnessed these things and it's

781
00:38:16,640 --> 00:38:19,680
Speaker 2: like this it makes me not want to engage because

782
00:38:19,680 --> 00:38:22,239
Speaker 2: it's like it makes me not want to engage on

783
00:38:22,280 --> 00:38:25,759
Speaker 2: a serious level because I'm like, everybody's all over the

784
00:38:25,800 --> 00:38:28,840
Speaker 2: place and that's you know, hopefully this shit passes in

785
00:38:28,840 --> 00:38:30,239
Speaker 2: a week or two and we just look back and

786
00:38:30,280 --> 00:38:32,759
Speaker 2: be like, yeah, that was a crazy time, because I

787
00:38:32,760 --> 00:38:35,279
Speaker 2: don't think anybody's saying anything they can really stand by

788
00:38:35,480 --> 00:38:38,799
Speaker 2: when it comes to other examples, like, uh, like they're

789
00:38:38,840 --> 00:38:41,440
Speaker 2: not gonna be this way forever, and we honestly aren't

790
00:38:41,440 --> 00:38:44,200
Speaker 2: going to have a one to one example for this

791
00:38:44,280 --> 00:38:46,759
Speaker 2: kind of shit because people just don't do what Will did.

792
00:38:46,880 --> 00:38:51,719
Speaker 2: So that being said, uh, you know, I think white

793
00:38:51,760 --> 00:38:59,799
Speaker 2: people's punitive nature towards celebrity. Uh And I'm not even

794
00:39:00,120 --> 00:39:02,640
Speaker 2: on them racist. I just think they don't care whether

795
00:39:02,680 --> 00:39:05,439
Speaker 2: they're black and black people were biased. We do care

796
00:39:05,480 --> 00:39:07,600
Speaker 2: that they're black. We do want to protect and I

797
00:39:07,640 --> 00:39:09,799
Speaker 2: don't care what side of it is. I don't care

798
00:39:09,840 --> 00:39:12,279
Speaker 2: what side of it you're on. If you're black and

799
00:39:12,360 --> 00:39:14,400
Speaker 2: you want to protect Chris or you want to protect

800
00:39:14,400 --> 00:39:17,160
Speaker 2: will or you want to protect Jada. That's because you're

801
00:39:17,200 --> 00:39:19,880
Speaker 2: black and you understand how difficult it is for a

802
00:39:19,880 --> 00:39:22,400
Speaker 2: black person even be in that room, and you understand

803
00:39:22,400 --> 00:39:25,200
Speaker 2: how stacked the odds are against them, And so there's

804
00:39:25,200 --> 00:39:27,279
Speaker 2: an empathy and the sympathy that we have for these

805
00:39:27,280 --> 00:39:30,920
Speaker 2: folks that people that's not black ain't gonna have, Like

806
00:39:30,960 --> 00:39:33,800
Speaker 2: there's no represent White people don't understand representation on politics

807
00:39:33,840 --> 00:39:36,799
Speaker 2: because everything is already catered towards them and it's never

808
00:39:36,880 --> 00:39:40,160
Speaker 2: called that, So you know, they never.

809
00:39:40,200 --> 00:39:42,600
Speaker 1: Feel that like, oh man, the white guy made it.

810
00:39:42,640 --> 00:39:44,400
Speaker 2: I hope everything, you know, I hope they don't go

811
00:39:44,480 --> 00:39:45,680
Speaker 2: too hard on they don't feel that.

812
00:39:45,760 --> 00:39:47,640
Speaker 1: We feel that every single day, right.

813
00:39:47,920 --> 00:39:50,160
Speaker 4: Because they're the baseline. So if you're the baseline, you

814
00:39:50,160 --> 00:39:51,240
Speaker 4: don't give a fuck what happened.

815
00:39:51,360 --> 00:39:52,080
Speaker 3: You're the standard.

816
00:39:52,239 --> 00:39:52,479
Speaker 1: Yeah.

817
00:39:52,600 --> 00:39:55,400
Speaker 2: Appy also said, I can assess a lot of anger

818
00:39:55,440 --> 00:39:58,360
Speaker 2: in a moment, and I guess access a lot of

819
00:39:58,440 --> 00:40:00,879
Speaker 2: anger in the moment, and then the it feels great,

820
00:40:01,320 --> 00:40:03,080
Speaker 2: it makes me feel strong and like a line of this,

821
00:40:03,200 --> 00:40:04,080
Speaker 2: but I know it's bad.

822
00:40:04,760 --> 00:40:06,520
Speaker 1: So I learned to breathe and not give in. When

823
00:40:06,520 --> 00:40:07,160
Speaker 1: I was younger, I.

824
00:40:07,120 --> 00:40:12,239
Speaker 2: Threw doors, I threw doors, shar. I guess shars that

825
00:40:12,520 --> 00:40:14,200
Speaker 2: the glass in the door broke.

826
00:40:14,360 --> 00:40:15,239
Speaker 1: I don't know it.

827
00:40:16,440 --> 00:40:18,680
Speaker 2: I threw hair brushes and left a mark on the

828
00:40:18,719 --> 00:40:21,200
Speaker 2: wall and so on. Never people still it is bad,

829
00:40:22,239 --> 00:40:25,080
Speaker 2: petty proud, pretty proud that I didn't do something like

830
00:40:25,080 --> 00:40:27,560
Speaker 2: this in the least for at least ten years.

831
00:40:28,760 --> 00:40:29,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think.

832
00:40:30,960 --> 00:40:35,640
Speaker 2: From my own level of projection or whatever, that's to me,

833
00:40:35,719 --> 00:40:38,600
Speaker 2: the most relatable thing in that clip is not Will

834
00:40:38,719 --> 00:40:46,360
Speaker 2: hitting Chris is the not even the weird apology, not

835
00:40:46,480 --> 00:40:50,239
Speaker 2: apology shit, it's when he's crying and people are consoling him,

836
00:40:50,280 --> 00:40:52,920
Speaker 2: and I'm like, you know, the bar phrase from him,

837
00:40:52,960 --> 00:40:55,480
Speaker 2: the khali from Keith and the Girl.

838
00:40:55,640 --> 00:40:57,280
Speaker 1: If it's hysterical, it's historical.

839
00:40:57,719 --> 00:40:59,400
Speaker 2: That's the part where I'm like, oh, he was out

840
00:40:59,440 --> 00:41:03,440
Speaker 2: of control, and so all this fan casting of him

841
00:41:03,480 --> 00:41:07,120
Speaker 2: trying to protect a black woman and it's about black

842
00:41:07,120 --> 00:41:08,920
Speaker 2: hair and shit, it's fan casting.

843
00:41:08,960 --> 00:41:09,680
Speaker 1: It's not real.

844
00:41:09,920 --> 00:41:12,840
Speaker 2: That's not real, because if that was what he was

845
00:41:12,880 --> 00:41:15,640
Speaker 2: really about, He's like, I don't give a fuck if

846
00:41:15,680 --> 00:41:17,200
Speaker 2: I didn't get an oscar, I don't give a fuck

847
00:41:17,239 --> 00:41:18,480
Speaker 2: if they kicked me out the academy.

848
00:41:18,719 --> 00:41:21,239
Speaker 1: I did what I did. I am not sorry. Chris

849
00:41:21,320 --> 00:41:22,600
Speaker 1: Rock deserved what he got.

850
00:41:22,719 --> 00:41:25,040
Speaker 2: And I've never apologized because you don't talk about my

851
00:41:25,080 --> 00:41:26,040
Speaker 2: wife like that.

852
00:41:26,040 --> 00:41:26,960
Speaker 1: That's what the fuck you.

853
00:41:26,960 --> 00:41:30,440
Speaker 2: Say if you meant that, But when you're crying and

854
00:41:30,480 --> 00:41:34,640
Speaker 2: you're issuing apologies the next day and shit, you know,

855
00:41:35,680 --> 00:41:36,320
Speaker 2: I just don't.

856
00:41:36,400 --> 00:41:40,000
Speaker 1: It's hard for me to believe that he was completely

857
00:41:40,000 --> 00:41:41,120
Speaker 1: in control of himself.

858
00:41:41,440 --> 00:41:45,440
Speaker 2: So it's like that that fan casting of like this

859
00:41:45,520 --> 00:41:50,360
Speaker 2: is a moment of protection and all that stuff. I

860
00:41:50,640 --> 00:41:52,480
Speaker 2: didn't see it that way. I think a lot of

861
00:41:52,520 --> 00:41:56,520
Speaker 2: it's a lot of his ego, you know what I mean, Yes,

862
00:41:56,880 --> 00:42:00,239
Speaker 2: and we all had and I think a lot of

863
00:42:00,320 --> 00:42:05,520
Speaker 2: protection of your wife and your kids, and that is mine.

864
00:42:05,600 --> 00:42:09,319
Speaker 2: It's your ownership is doing that. And some of it

865
00:42:09,360 --> 00:42:14,680
Speaker 2: is you disrespected me as a man, and I've you know,

866
00:42:14,719 --> 00:42:17,440
Speaker 2: these are the ways that I was saying this on

867
00:42:17,480 --> 00:42:24,839
Speaker 2: the pregame. But as a black sis had Mail, I

868
00:42:24,920 --> 00:42:28,200
Speaker 2: know that the language of violence is something that I

869
00:42:28,280 --> 00:42:32,880
Speaker 2: have to speak, and it's taught to you early and

870
00:42:33,080 --> 00:42:36,440
Speaker 2: often in many cases at least to survive in this life.

871
00:42:37,120 --> 00:42:41,200
Speaker 2: And oftentimes it's the thing that takes you down, you know,

872
00:42:41,680 --> 00:42:45,360
Speaker 2: like it's the reason you're not We quote unquote endangered

873
00:42:45,400 --> 00:42:47,319
Speaker 2: species was on the front of the newspaper when I

874
00:42:47,360 --> 00:42:49,640
Speaker 2: was a kid, and you know, you had a one

875
00:42:49,680 --> 00:42:52,160
Speaker 2: and four chance of making it to twenty one being

876
00:42:52,280 --> 00:42:55,759
Speaker 2: out of jail, not having HIV, or not being dead

877
00:42:56,200 --> 00:42:56,839
Speaker 2: one in four.

878
00:42:57,280 --> 00:42:58,120
Speaker 1: That's not good.

879
00:42:59,080 --> 00:43:01,200
Speaker 2: And I think think one of the things that bothers

880
00:43:01,239 --> 00:43:04,440
Speaker 2: black people in this conversation is that white people can

881
00:43:04,520 --> 00:43:08,399
Speaker 2: never fucking relate to that. So it's hard for us

882
00:43:08,480 --> 00:43:11,840
Speaker 2: to listen to them talk about it having no relation

883
00:43:11,920 --> 00:43:14,040
Speaker 2: to that, even if they were.

884
00:43:13,880 --> 00:43:14,719
Speaker 1: Gonna come away and go.

885
00:43:14,840 --> 00:43:17,239
Speaker 2: Yet even with that, I still feel the way I

886
00:43:17,280 --> 00:43:19,800
Speaker 2: feel it's the fact that we know they can't relate,

887
00:43:20,000 --> 00:43:20,920
Speaker 2: and so they think.

888
00:43:20,800 --> 00:43:26,000
Speaker 1: Our empathy to these people is some type of.

889
00:43:26,000 --> 00:43:29,160
Speaker 2: Just like weird racial bias where it's like, no, we

890
00:43:29,280 --> 00:43:31,000
Speaker 2: just understand the context, and we don't.

891
00:43:31,160 --> 00:43:31,960
Speaker 1: We're not quick.

892
00:43:32,480 --> 00:43:34,880
Speaker 2: We're not as quick to condemn people that came from

893
00:43:34,920 --> 00:43:37,680
Speaker 2: where we came from, the experience what we experienced. You know,

894
00:43:38,600 --> 00:43:41,000
Speaker 2: none of these people were talking about a generational wealth,

895
00:43:42,000 --> 00:43:44,440
Speaker 2: like like, we're talking about three people that are success

896
00:43:44,480 --> 00:43:47,719
Speaker 2: stories in their own right that weren't given shit. So

897
00:43:47,880 --> 00:43:51,399
Speaker 2: I think there's an attachment that comes from black people

898
00:43:51,480 --> 00:43:55,440
Speaker 2: that is based in that, and it's just unexplainable and ungrasped.

899
00:43:56,040 --> 00:43:57,640
Speaker 1: White people could never grasp that shit.

900
00:43:58,239 --> 00:44:01,880
Speaker 2: So the defensiveness and you know that stuff is coming

901
00:44:01,920 --> 00:44:08,200
Speaker 2: into the room, you know, and his shit was you know,

902
00:44:08,680 --> 00:44:09,600
Speaker 2: you know, people.

903
00:44:09,520 --> 00:44:10,680
Speaker 1: Know his thing about him.

904
00:44:10,680 --> 00:44:13,680
Speaker 2: He couldn't protect his mom and blah blah blah, and

905
00:44:13,960 --> 00:44:16,080
Speaker 2: you know that maybe it comes from childhood, all that

906
00:44:16,080 --> 00:44:22,680
Speaker 2: stuff and people can't handle you saying those things. Make

907
00:44:22,760 --> 00:44:25,960
Speaker 2: me feel empathy for him, But I still think you

908
00:44:26,000 --> 00:44:27,920
Speaker 2: can't be hitting people, right.

909
00:44:28,280 --> 00:44:29,360
Speaker 1: I think that's true.

910
00:44:29,600 --> 00:44:33,960
Speaker 2: I think that's a very rational, reasonable way to come

911
00:44:34,400 --> 00:44:35,080
Speaker 2: across from this.

912
00:44:36,000 --> 00:44:37,640
Speaker 1: And it's been so extreme.

913
00:44:37,840 --> 00:44:41,000
Speaker 2: You either have to be like comedians need to be

914
00:44:41,040 --> 00:44:43,480
Speaker 2: getting punched on stage, or you have to be like.

915
00:44:45,040 --> 00:44:46,839
Speaker 1: That ball bitch need to take a joke.

916
00:44:46,920 --> 00:44:49,319
Speaker 2: And I'm just like, it feels like you can be

917
00:44:49,440 --> 00:44:52,640
Speaker 2: somewhere in between that where you're like, yeah, I understand

918
00:44:52,960 --> 00:44:55,120
Speaker 2: you're too grown to be having this type of outburst.

919
00:44:55,320 --> 00:44:56,800
Speaker 1: It really was an outburst.

920
00:44:56,880 --> 00:44:59,440
Speaker 2: You seem to regret it, So I'm gonna take you

921
00:44:59,480 --> 00:45:01,560
Speaker 2: at your word that you do regret it, which means

922
00:45:01,719 --> 00:45:04,000
Speaker 2: you shouldn't have done it. And I'm gonna just give

923
00:45:04,040 --> 00:45:06,319
Speaker 2: you that you know what I'm saying, But instead it's

924
00:45:06,320 --> 00:45:11,040
Speaker 2: turning into psychoanalyzing, you know, like Jada Pinkett now you

925
00:45:11,120 --> 00:45:13,239
Speaker 2: gotta hate her now. Like it's just it's turned into

926
00:45:13,320 --> 00:45:16,120
Speaker 2: something that I just don't I don't know how people

927
00:45:16,160 --> 00:45:18,919
Speaker 2: get there without admitting that they're projecting some of those

928
00:45:18,960 --> 00:45:21,120
Speaker 2: things into it because.

929
00:45:20,840 --> 00:45:21,440
Speaker 1: We can't know.

930
00:45:22,440 --> 00:45:25,799
Speaker 4: Nope, And a lot of the situation and things, you know,

931
00:45:26,120 --> 00:45:29,239
Speaker 4: we will actually never know, right And like you say,

932
00:45:29,360 --> 00:45:32,000
Speaker 4: it's a lot of factors going on, it's a lot

933
00:45:32,000 --> 00:45:34,520
Speaker 4: of moving pieces going on. It's a lot of moving

934
00:45:34,560 --> 00:45:37,160
Speaker 4: parts happening all at the same.

935
00:45:36,960 --> 00:45:39,240
Speaker 3: Time, and we're actually seeing it live.

936
00:45:39,440 --> 00:45:44,319
Speaker 4: We're actually seeing, you know, things unfold publicly, and so the.

937
00:45:44,360 --> 00:45:45,080
Speaker 5: Thing is.

938
00:45:47,200 --> 00:45:49,400
Speaker 3: Not very funny. Will Smith ain't the first nigga to

939
00:45:49,440 --> 00:45:50,120
Speaker 3: slap somebody.

940
00:45:50,360 --> 00:45:53,839
Speaker 4: You know, people have seen these things happen before with

941
00:45:54,000 --> 00:45:58,279
Speaker 4: non famous people, but all you know, and shit played out.

942
00:45:58,280 --> 00:46:00,440
Speaker 4: But guess it didn't play out publicly, to play that

943
00:46:00,560 --> 00:46:03,040
Speaker 4: at your hometown and your neighborhood whatever, But it wasn't

944
00:46:03,080 --> 00:46:05,880
Speaker 4: on such a large.

945
00:46:05,760 --> 00:46:10,600
Speaker 2: It's Will Smith, it's the oscars. It's everyone's like knows about.

946
00:46:10,360 --> 00:46:13,560
Speaker 1: It, you know, Like I said, I guess for me.

947
00:46:13,680 --> 00:46:15,600
Speaker 2: The thing is, I just have a lot less judgment

948
00:46:15,640 --> 00:46:19,240
Speaker 2: for people that disagree with me, Like, if you disagree

949
00:46:19,280 --> 00:46:21,600
Speaker 2: with me, okay, Like I can see how you would

950
00:46:21,600 --> 00:46:22,440
Speaker 2: get to that point.

951
00:46:23,080 --> 00:46:26,400
Speaker 1: I don't have to agree with you to say. You know,

952
00:46:26,760 --> 00:46:27,879
Speaker 1: like my mom called me.

953
00:46:27,840 --> 00:46:30,960
Speaker 2: The next morning, and you know, she had a different

954
00:46:31,000 --> 00:46:33,359
Speaker 2: perspective than I did, and you know, I was still

955
00:46:33,400 --> 00:46:35,879
Speaker 2: on joke time. I'm like, that shit was hilarious, and

956
00:46:35,920 --> 00:46:37,799
Speaker 2: you know, it's still my mom, so like she had

957
00:46:37,880 --> 00:46:39,839
Speaker 2: she did, she was like he had Ike Turner form

958
00:46:39,880 --> 00:46:43,560
Speaker 2: on that slap, but she was genuinely disturbed by that shit.

959
00:46:44,160 --> 00:46:44,720
Speaker 1: Oh yeah.

960
00:46:44,760 --> 00:46:47,600
Speaker 2: And it wasn't disturbing to me in that type of

961
00:46:47,640 --> 00:46:51,080
Speaker 2: way for a bunch of reasons. But I understood why

962
00:46:51,080 --> 00:46:53,719
Speaker 2: it would be disturbing, and so I didn't need to

963
00:46:53,760 --> 00:46:56,239
Speaker 2: go find people online who were disturbed by it, or

964
00:46:56,440 --> 00:46:58,840
Speaker 2: find celebrities who said they were disturbed by it and

965
00:46:58,920 --> 00:47:02,080
Speaker 2: make them feel bad about it, like, yeah, it's okay

966
00:47:02,120 --> 00:47:03,160
Speaker 2: to be disturb about that shit.

967
00:47:03,280 --> 00:47:04,680
Speaker 1: Violence is not cool.

968
00:47:04,920 --> 00:47:06,920
Speaker 3: You know it is, you know what I mean, in

969
00:47:06,960 --> 00:47:12,279
Speaker 3: real life, it's not cool. The thing seeing it in

970
00:47:12,320 --> 00:47:14,239
Speaker 3: real life is not cool at all.

971
00:47:14,920 --> 00:47:19,760
Speaker 4: And I lost my cool one time where I actually

972
00:47:19,840 --> 00:47:22,719
Speaker 4: hit somebody like that and I.

973
00:47:22,680 --> 00:47:23,840
Speaker 3: Made them see stars.

974
00:47:23,960 --> 00:47:26,319
Speaker 4: And because I was just mad and I allowed that

975
00:47:26,480 --> 00:47:29,440
Speaker 4: anger to just rise up and just talk to me,

976
00:47:30,400 --> 00:47:33,520
Speaker 4: and I was wrong, and I was flat dead wrong.

977
00:47:33,600 --> 00:47:35,480
Speaker 4: I had no bit just doing that, and a person

978
00:47:35,640 --> 00:47:37,440
Speaker 4: ad was actually trying to protect me from something, but

979
00:47:37,520 --> 00:47:39,520
Speaker 4: I was just mad and angry and I didn't want

980
00:47:39,520 --> 00:47:40,960
Speaker 4: to hear what they had to say at the time.

981
00:47:41,480 --> 00:47:46,400
Speaker 3: And so you know, it's for me. It's just like

982
00:47:46,400 --> 00:47:48,200
Speaker 3: I said, it's a lot of projecting. It's a lot

983
00:47:48,200 --> 00:47:48,640
Speaker 3: of people.

984
00:47:50,239 --> 00:47:52,760
Speaker 4: People are allowed to feel the way that they feel.

985
00:47:53,120 --> 00:47:55,960
Speaker 4: And I think the Internet does not allow for people's

986
00:47:56,000 --> 00:47:59,400
Speaker 4: true feelings and true emotions to be valid. Nothing you

987
00:47:59,440 --> 00:48:02,360
Speaker 4: say or do if it doesn't agree with me, I

988
00:48:02,520 --> 00:48:05,480
Speaker 4: just quote unquote consider it invalid and just dismiss it.

989
00:48:05,719 --> 00:48:08,960
Speaker 4: When that's ridiculous, you know, because with all human beings,

990
00:48:09,000 --> 00:48:11,560
Speaker 4: we all have these feelings in immed motions, and people

991
00:48:11,600 --> 00:48:15,160
Speaker 4: are allowed to say it affected me, it disturbed me.

992
00:48:15,480 --> 00:48:19,080
Speaker 3: People are allowed to say I felt uncomfortable. They're allowed

993
00:48:19,120 --> 00:48:19,520
Speaker 3: to say that.

994
00:48:19,560 --> 00:48:21,640
Speaker 4: But the Internet act like there's something wrong with you

995
00:48:22,080 --> 00:48:25,160
Speaker 4: for saying that. How you you know that you didn't

996
00:48:25,400 --> 00:48:28,560
Speaker 4: agree that everybody did the right thing at all time,

997
00:48:28,760 --> 00:48:29,680
Speaker 4: you know, and stuff like that.

998
00:48:29,719 --> 00:48:31,600
Speaker 3: And so for me that him, I said, that's why

999
00:48:31,600 --> 00:48:33,719
Speaker 3: I tapt. There's no reason for me to talk to

1000
00:48:33,719 --> 00:48:35,440
Speaker 3: anybody because I feel how I feel.

1001
00:48:35,960 --> 00:48:38,839
Speaker 4: And it's one of those things where unless you're really

1002
00:48:38,880 --> 00:48:41,000
Speaker 4: didn't have a real conversation with me, why are we talking?

1003
00:48:41,360 --> 00:48:44,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, And honestly, a lot of people verbally are acting

1004
00:48:44,800 --> 00:48:51,520
Speaker 2: like Will Smith and that they are basically saying none

1005
00:48:51,520 --> 00:48:53,239
Speaker 2: of the context of this matter is, none of the

1006
00:48:53,239 --> 00:48:56,560
Speaker 2: facts matter, none of the quote matters. I'm attacking anyone

1007
00:48:56,600 --> 00:49:01,000
Speaker 2: that says something I don't like, and it's very weird.

1008
00:49:01,520 --> 00:49:05,600
Speaker 2: I'm sorry, but it's a weird behavior to have. It's

1009
00:49:05,640 --> 00:49:07,879
Speaker 2: something none of us had anything to fucking do with,

1010
00:49:09,719 --> 00:49:12,640
Speaker 2: and so it's weird to be like, and I'm going

1011
00:49:12,680 --> 00:49:15,600
Speaker 2: on the hunt to destroy people, you know. So any

1012
00:49:15,600 --> 00:49:17,680
Speaker 2: celebrity that says something they were going to try to

1013
00:49:17,760 --> 00:49:20,799
Speaker 2: find things from their personal life to bring up.

1014
00:49:21,640 --> 00:49:22,840
Speaker 1: It's very weird, you know.

1015
00:49:23,080 --> 00:49:25,800
Speaker 2: And the thing I was gonna say about the violence

1016
00:49:25,800 --> 00:49:31,320
Speaker 2: and learning that language as a child, and the way

1017
00:49:31,360 --> 00:49:35,200
Speaker 2: that you have to navigate the world when you're constantly

1018
00:49:35,239 --> 00:49:39,759
Speaker 2: afraid of having it enacted upon you or having too,

1019
00:49:40,040 --> 00:49:47,239
Speaker 2: enacted upon someone else. The thing you learn is that one,

1020
00:49:47,440 --> 00:49:51,920
Speaker 2: unless it's self defense, there's no such thing as deserving violence,

1021
00:49:53,239 --> 00:49:55,279
Speaker 2: you know what I mean, Like like, that's a very

1022
00:49:56,320 --> 00:50:00,560
Speaker 2: white patriarchal in my opinion type of way viewing it.

1023
00:50:00,600 --> 00:50:02,439
Speaker 1: I think it's a lot of master's tool shit.

1024
00:50:02,560 --> 00:50:04,319
Speaker 2: You know how, I say, you can't dismount the house

1025
00:50:04,400 --> 00:50:07,280
Speaker 2: master's house with the master's tool, which you know, lucky

1026
00:50:07,360 --> 00:50:09,960
Speaker 2: doesn't really make that much sense. But I understand that

1027
00:50:10,160 --> 00:50:14,160
Speaker 2: this underneath it what the point is. And the thing

1028
00:50:14,280 --> 00:50:17,919
Speaker 2: is to me, that kind of violence is a master's tool,

1029
00:50:18,000 --> 00:50:22,319
Speaker 2: especially especially enacted upon black people's bodies in America, that

1030
00:50:22,440 --> 00:50:26,680
Speaker 2: is one of the Master's tools. So too, and and

1031
00:50:26,680 --> 00:50:30,080
Speaker 2: and and anyone who's ever been violent, whether it's to

1032
00:50:30,160 --> 00:50:34,960
Speaker 2: defend yourself, whether it's attacking someone, especially if you're black,

1033
00:50:35,920 --> 00:50:42,760
Speaker 2: you understand that when you're doing it, that other person

1034
00:50:42,840 --> 00:50:45,800
Speaker 2: is no longer human to you. They don't mean anything

1035
00:50:45,840 --> 00:50:46,040
Speaker 2: to you.

1036
00:50:47,120 --> 00:50:50,520
Speaker 1: That's just that's the scariest shit.

1037
00:50:52,000 --> 00:50:55,360
Speaker 2: That And to me, that feeling inside of me is

1038
00:50:55,400 --> 00:50:58,080
Speaker 2: the scariest shit in the world, because I don't know

1039
00:50:58,120 --> 00:51:00,360
Speaker 2: what I'm capable of when I have that, and I

1040
00:51:00,360 --> 00:51:02,759
Speaker 2: don't want to find out, you.

1041
00:51:02,680 --> 00:51:03,239
Speaker 1: Know what I mean.

1042
00:51:03,600 --> 00:51:08,120
Speaker 2: And yet what has happened, in my opinion, is that

1043
00:51:08,200 --> 00:51:12,000
Speaker 2: through social media, the internet, podcast, whatever, media week, we

1044
00:51:12,120 --> 00:51:16,239
Speaker 2: have lionized the idea of that anger, but without the consequences, right,

1045
00:51:17,160 --> 00:51:19,839
Speaker 2: And so you're seeing a lot of people inspired by

1046
00:51:20,920 --> 00:51:24,960
Speaker 2: the violence they saw, good or bad, but basically trying

1047
00:51:25,000 --> 00:51:29,480
Speaker 2: to inflict some type of one way street of this

1048
00:51:29,560 --> 00:51:33,239
Speaker 2: is not complicated at all. This person is deserves to

1049
00:51:33,280 --> 00:51:36,359
Speaker 2: be hit, or this person deserves to have everything taken

1050
00:51:36,400 --> 00:51:39,520
Speaker 2: away from them, and all of it feels a little

1051
00:51:40,360 --> 00:51:42,920
Speaker 2: for me, a little too simple. But you know, obviously

1052
00:51:43,000 --> 00:51:46,040
Speaker 2: people are entitled. They feel how they feel, and as

1053
00:51:46,080 --> 00:51:49,200
Speaker 2: long as they're not hitting me, fine, disagree. Like that's

1054
00:51:49,239 --> 00:51:53,480
Speaker 2: the lesson that you know, that's the lesson that you

1055
00:51:53,520 --> 00:51:55,640
Speaker 2: know that I took from this. It's like, yo, keep

1056
00:51:55,640 --> 00:51:57,200
Speaker 2: your hands to yourself. I don't give a fuck if

1057
00:51:57,200 --> 00:51:58,839
Speaker 2: you don't like me and you say some wild shit

1058
00:51:59,000 --> 00:52:01,360
Speaker 2: like I don't have to you know, I don't have

1059
00:52:01,400 --> 00:52:02,040
Speaker 2: to agree with it.

1060
00:52:02,040 --> 00:52:03,000
Speaker 1: I can say something back.

1061
00:52:03,040 --> 00:52:05,680
Speaker 2: But you know, there's a level of shit here where

1062
00:52:05,719 --> 00:52:09,320
Speaker 2: it's like we're fan casting and it's not really about

1063
00:52:09,360 --> 00:52:10,320
Speaker 2: what happened anymore.

1064
00:52:11,800 --> 00:52:13,320
Speaker 1: But back to the next comment, I'm.

1065
00:52:13,160 --> 00:52:16,120
Speaker 2: Sorry, Cava Donna says, Look, Will Smith can be wrong

1066
00:52:16,160 --> 00:52:17,840
Speaker 2: and niggas can be tired of the shit. It was

1067
00:52:17,880 --> 00:52:20,000
Speaker 2: a horrible incident, but it's a reminder that dude is

1068
00:52:20,040 --> 00:52:22,879
Speaker 2: only human. People get mad and mess up. Chris Rock

1069
00:52:22,960 --> 00:52:25,400
Speaker 2: was doing the job and it went left. That's life,

1070
00:52:25,560 --> 00:52:28,880
Speaker 2: And I'm sorry. Will had some pitch perfect form that

1071
00:52:29,040 --> 00:52:31,160
Speaker 2: wasn't a slap as an open handed right hook that

1072
00:52:31,360 --> 00:52:32,960
Speaker 2: Ali training came in handy.

1073
00:52:33,080 --> 00:52:35,680
Speaker 1: Well, he turned it into a slap at some point.

1074
00:52:35,760 --> 00:52:44,960
Speaker 2: But yeah, I guess yeah, I mean, like, I think

1075
00:52:45,200 --> 00:52:47,759
Speaker 2: I'm with you that Will can be tired of the shit.

1076
00:52:47,920 --> 00:52:53,480
Speaker 2: I just think that yeah, yeah, actually I'm looking at

1077
00:52:53,480 --> 00:52:55,279
Speaker 2: it again. I don't disagree with anything he said. Yeah,

1078
00:52:55,320 --> 00:52:59,120
Speaker 2: it was a horrible incident. Will is only human, and

1079
00:52:59,239 --> 00:53:03,560
Speaker 2: I just think people people believe the social contractors that

1080
00:53:03,600 --> 00:53:05,800
Speaker 2: these people have to take it. That's just the and

1081
00:53:06,040 --> 00:53:09,759
Speaker 2: and that's normally what happens. But also I'm surprised that

1082
00:53:09,800 --> 00:53:14,160
Speaker 2: shit doesn't happen more because we lionize these people into

1083
00:53:14,760 --> 00:53:17,840
Speaker 2: you know, fucking demigods and shit, and then they believe

1084
00:53:17,880 --> 00:53:21,920
Speaker 2: they own hype. And you know, that's what somebody that

1085
00:53:21,960 --> 00:53:24,280
Speaker 2: doesn't think the rules apply to them for a moment,

1086
00:53:24,440 --> 00:53:29,960
Speaker 2: does you know what I mean? And it looked like,

1087
00:53:30,000 --> 00:53:32,840
Speaker 2: for a second he really believed, like you supposed to

1088
00:53:32,840 --> 00:53:36,280
Speaker 2: talk about everyone else in this room, but not my wife,

1089
00:53:36,920 --> 00:53:39,920
Speaker 2: you know. And and of course I still believe, and

1090
00:53:40,000 --> 00:53:43,200
Speaker 2: I can't prove it, but I still do believe this

1091
00:53:43,280 --> 00:53:45,600
Speaker 2: is a personal thing that Will and them probably have

1092
00:53:45,800 --> 00:53:51,880
Speaker 2: Will has probably been like Chris, that's enough, you know

1093
00:53:51,920 --> 00:53:53,759
Speaker 2: what I'm saying, Like I don't. I can't prove it,

1094
00:53:54,280 --> 00:53:57,399
Speaker 2: and that's total conjecture on my part. But that shit

1095
00:53:57,560 --> 00:54:00,560
Speaker 2: feel that slap felt that I feel the same way.

1096
00:54:00,960 --> 00:54:05,120
Speaker 2: Five days later, six days later, that slap felt like

1097
00:54:05,480 --> 00:54:10,000
Speaker 2: I been toldjo ass because you know, and there's history

1098
00:54:10,080 --> 00:54:13,320
Speaker 2: there with him saying shit about Jada and stuff, Chris

1099
00:54:13,400 --> 00:54:15,640
Speaker 2: rock As using her as a punch line of a

1100
00:54:15,920 --> 00:54:18,719
Speaker 2: you know, a joke. There's an interview with him where

1101
00:54:18,760 --> 00:54:21,120
Speaker 2: he said he would never make jokes about Will Smith,

1102
00:54:21,120 --> 00:54:22,680
Speaker 2: even though he did go on to make jokes about

1103
00:54:22,680 --> 00:54:26,759
Speaker 2: Will Smith at some point. And uh, you know, I

1104
00:54:26,760 --> 00:54:29,240
Speaker 2: don't buy I didn't read too much into the body

1105
00:54:29,320 --> 00:54:33,359
Speaker 2: language of it, because it's a public form where your

1106
00:54:33,440 --> 00:54:37,279
Speaker 2: job is to sit there and laugh, so you know,

1107
00:54:37,360 --> 00:54:39,920
Speaker 2: the people trying to like turn it into like she

1108
00:54:40,280 --> 00:54:43,400
Speaker 2: put him up to this, or he saw her face

1109
00:54:43,520 --> 00:54:46,080
Speaker 2: and then he had to attack. That may be true,

1110
00:54:46,280 --> 00:54:48,440
Speaker 2: but I'm gonna let him say it. I'm gonna let

1111
00:54:48,520 --> 00:54:50,320
Speaker 2: him say it because I just don't know that that's true.

1112
00:54:50,719 --> 00:54:54,600
Speaker 2: Like it really could just be as simple as he

1113
00:54:54,680 --> 00:54:57,640
Speaker 2: decided that if that shit happened, he was gonna hit

1114
00:54:57,680 --> 00:55:00,680
Speaker 2: that man, you know what I mean. And maybe he

1115
00:55:00,719 --> 00:55:03,000
Speaker 2: told Chris, maybe he didn't, but we know what happened

1116
00:55:03,040 --> 00:55:05,040
Speaker 2: is he went and hit that dude for making that joke.

1117
00:55:07,719 --> 00:55:11,200
Speaker 2: Uh and and I and also I do agree with

1118
00:55:11,239 --> 00:55:14,400
Speaker 2: the people controversial as it is, I do agree with

1119
00:55:14,440 --> 00:55:18,040
Speaker 2: the people that say it's not uh he Chris Rock

1120
00:55:18,080 --> 00:55:21,920
Speaker 2: didn't know he was making a joke about alopecia. Like,

1121
00:55:22,000 --> 00:55:23,560
Speaker 2: I just don't think he was, like, I know she

1122
00:55:23,640 --> 00:55:25,839
Speaker 2: has alopecia. I think it's funny that she cut her

1123
00:55:25,840 --> 00:55:29,080
Speaker 2: hair off. This will be hilarious. I think he didn't know.

1124
00:55:29,280 --> 00:55:32,600
Speaker 4: If he if he's I personally projected, I think if

1125
00:55:32,600 --> 00:55:34,080
Speaker 4: he would have known, he wouldn't even have made the joke.

1126
00:55:34,400 --> 00:55:37,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, it just you know, I just don't think, you know,

1127
00:55:37,719 --> 00:55:39,839
Speaker 2: I don't think that's how he was like woke up

1128
00:55:39,840 --> 00:55:43,320
Speaker 2: that morning like I can't wait to do that, and

1129
00:55:43,480 --> 00:55:46,560
Speaker 2: I as much as people that love and follow Jada

1130
00:55:46,600 --> 00:55:49,880
Speaker 2: Pingy Smith, like I knew, well, yeah, but everybody's not

1131
00:55:49,960 --> 00:55:53,879
Speaker 2: watching Red Table Talk, everyone's not checking her interviews like that.

1132
00:55:55,000 --> 00:55:57,520
Speaker 2: Clearly it wasn't on the telepropter. It wasn't a plan joke.

1133
00:55:58,760 --> 00:56:01,359
Speaker 2: I mean shit, I was talking to someone at work.

1134
00:56:01,360 --> 00:56:04,040
Speaker 2: I was like, you know, what's funny if he says

1135
00:56:04,120 --> 00:56:07,760
Speaker 2: Dora Miller Jay instead of g I Jane.

1136
00:56:08,360 --> 00:56:09,440
Speaker 1: I don't even think he gets.

1137
00:56:09,280 --> 00:56:11,920
Speaker 3: Hit a completely different reaction.

1138
00:56:11,840 --> 00:56:13,759
Speaker 2: Like I'm not even trying to be funny, Like it's

1139
00:56:14,360 --> 00:56:18,120
Speaker 2: and it's kind of a quote unquote same thing, Like

1140
00:56:18,160 --> 00:56:21,320
Speaker 2: it's kind of the same issue, you know, like it

1141
00:56:21,440 --> 00:56:24,520
Speaker 2: still would be about her having alopecia on some level

1142
00:56:24,920 --> 00:56:28,920
Speaker 2: he did. Obviously he didn't know that, but I think

1143
00:56:29,040 --> 00:56:30,960
Speaker 2: a lot of people would have been like, yeah, that's yeah,

1144
00:56:30,960 --> 00:56:31,520
Speaker 2: black Panther.

1145
00:56:31,560 --> 00:56:31,680
Speaker 4: Two.

1146
00:56:31,760 --> 00:56:35,160
Speaker 1: We love that, we love Jada. This is a positive joke,

1147
00:56:35,560 --> 00:56:36,920
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. We want her to be

1148
00:56:36,960 --> 00:56:37,239
Speaker 1: in it.

1149
00:56:37,320 --> 00:56:41,480
Speaker 2: And society has not made it to this place where

1150
00:56:42,120 --> 00:56:47,120
Speaker 2: it's off limits to talk about someone's appearance like we haven't.

1151
00:56:47,360 --> 00:56:49,880
Speaker 2: And you know, I think we're once again fan casting,

1152
00:56:49,920 --> 00:56:52,880
Speaker 2: and there's a lot of people that have been angry online.

1153
00:56:53,120 --> 00:56:55,839
Speaker 2: They've made this battle about comedians and comedy, and they

1154
00:56:55,920 --> 00:56:58,080
Speaker 2: just were happy to finally see when if somebody get

1155
00:56:58,160 --> 00:57:01,080
Speaker 2: hit for saying some shit that they don't like, you know,

1156
00:57:01,280 --> 00:57:03,680
Speaker 2: and so they you know, jumped all over their principals

1157
00:57:03,760 --> 00:57:06,680
Speaker 2: and jumped to the other side, like, finally it's working

1158
00:57:06,719 --> 00:57:07,120
Speaker 2: out for me.

1159
00:57:07,400 --> 00:57:13,000
Speaker 1: Love violence this way. R W twenty sixteen.

1160
00:57:12,680 --> 00:57:14,520
Speaker 2: Says I was getting some Game of Thrones vibes from

1161
00:57:14,520 --> 00:57:16,680
Speaker 2: Will and Jada. You guys might have missed Jada whispering

1162
00:57:16,680 --> 00:57:20,280
Speaker 2: in Will's ear. I choose violence. Yeah, I've seen, yeah,

1163
00:57:20,320 --> 00:57:23,400
Speaker 2: various jokes like that. My favorite one is, uh, someone

1164
00:57:23,440 --> 00:57:28,520
Speaker 2: took the words that Varius Zeno said to uh to

1165
00:57:28,600 --> 00:57:31,320
Speaker 2: the Winter Soldier to activate them.

1166
00:57:32,040 --> 00:57:34,120
Speaker 1: That's the funniest version of that joking.

1167
00:57:34,200 --> 00:57:38,800
Speaker 2: My fan to Poppy says, a fun dad joke that

1168
00:57:38,840 --> 00:57:41,960
Speaker 2: I came across regardless lap what what did Chris Rock

1169
00:57:42,040 --> 00:57:46,280
Speaker 2: find on his face the morning after the Oscars Fresh Prince?

1170
00:57:47,680 --> 00:57:50,520
Speaker 1: Okay, that's good, that's a good dad joke.

1171
00:57:52,080 --> 00:57:55,240
Speaker 4: That's that's that's definitely a terrible dad joke to be

1172
00:57:55,280 --> 00:57:58,400
Speaker 4: on that game we played no craft.

1173
00:57:58,440 --> 00:58:00,480
Speaker 2: He says, thank you so much for your break down.

1174
00:58:01,000 --> 00:58:02,920
Speaker 2: I thought I was insane to think that this is

1175
00:58:02,960 --> 00:58:04,840
Speaker 2: just a case of a guy whose egos and emotions

1176
00:58:04,880 --> 00:58:06,800
Speaker 2: got to better him in the moment. I stayed off

1177
00:58:06,840 --> 00:58:09,240
Speaker 2: social media, specifically to avoid the ridiculous hot takes that

1178
00:58:09,240 --> 00:58:11,720
Speaker 2: would be flying around. The joke itself was super hack,

1179
00:58:11,760 --> 00:58:13,880
Speaker 2: a g I Jone reference to twenty twenty two Gi

1180
00:58:13,960 --> 00:58:15,400
Speaker 2: Jane reference in twenty twenty two.

1181
00:58:15,760 --> 00:58:17,320
Speaker 1: I know Chris Rock is better than that.

1182
00:58:17,400 --> 00:58:19,240
Speaker 2: If I were to make that comment to a random

1183
00:58:19,240 --> 00:58:20,800
Speaker 2: couple on the street, should I be surprised if I

1184
00:58:20,800 --> 00:58:23,360
Speaker 2: get slapped for it? Just felt like a situation where

1185
00:58:23,360 --> 00:58:25,760
Speaker 2: he talked about his wife one too many times, and,

1186
00:58:25,800 --> 00:58:28,440
Speaker 2: as one of my students would say, talk shit, get hit.

1187
00:58:29,080 --> 00:58:31,320
Speaker 2: Is it bad that I wanted Will to say as

1188
00:58:31,320 --> 00:58:33,680
Speaker 2: he was walking up, Hey, Chris, here's a joke for you.

1189
00:58:33,920 --> 00:58:36,600
Speaker 2: What the five fingers say to the face the para

1190
00:58:37,000 --> 00:58:39,880
Speaker 2: crazed Chris Rock. I shouldn't have slapped them. He shouldn't

1191
00:58:39,880 --> 00:58:41,160
Speaker 2: have slapped them, but I understand.

1192
00:58:42,480 --> 00:58:42,760
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1193
00:58:43,200 --> 00:58:45,400
Speaker 2: The only thing I would caveat I would add to

1194
00:58:45,440 --> 00:58:50,400
Speaker 2: what you wrote is just it's not walking down the street.

1195
00:58:51,720 --> 00:58:51,920
Speaker 1: You know.

1196
00:58:52,000 --> 00:58:54,080
Speaker 2: It's like when you go to a comedy club and

1197
00:58:54,160 --> 00:58:57,120
Speaker 2: some comedians do CrowdWork and they started talking about you.

1198
00:58:58,120 --> 00:58:59,680
Speaker 1: A lot of people are uncomfortable about it.

1199
00:58:59,720 --> 00:59:02,040
Speaker 2: You don't like it, it sucks, But there's a context

1200
00:59:02,080 --> 00:59:03,320
Speaker 2: of I'm in a comedy club.

1201
00:59:03,400 --> 00:59:06,640
Speaker 1: I knew this could happen. The Oscars is even.

1202
00:59:07,200 --> 00:59:13,200
Speaker 2: More unambiguous than a comedy club. It's literally, we're going

1203
00:59:13,240 --> 00:59:15,080
Speaker 2: to talk shit about the celebrities.

1204
00:59:15,160 --> 00:59:16,040
Speaker 3: So it's coming in.

1205
00:59:16,280 --> 00:59:16,560
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1206
00:59:16,960 --> 00:59:19,680
Speaker 4: With the comedy club, you might go and they might

1207
00:59:19,720 --> 00:59:22,280
Speaker 4: not bother you did it, quote unquote might be your night.

1208
00:59:22,360 --> 00:59:23,440
Speaker 3: But this day, no, no, no.

1209
00:59:23,880 --> 00:59:26,400
Speaker 4: We purposely set y'all up front because we are going

1210
00:59:26,440 --> 00:59:29,320
Speaker 4: to talk about these eight, ten, twelve people, twenty people

1211
00:59:29,640 --> 00:59:32,480
Speaker 4: within this certain area because y'all are up close and upfront.

1212
00:59:32,960 --> 00:59:35,200
Speaker 2: And I don't think it's about defending the quality of

1213
00:59:35,240 --> 00:59:37,160
Speaker 2: the joke. I think people are missing the point. Whether

1214
00:59:37,160 --> 00:59:39,760
Speaker 2: it's a good joke or bad joke, The jokes are

1215
00:59:39,840 --> 00:59:43,200
Speaker 2: the attempts like this is so like not and this

1216
00:59:43,240 --> 00:59:45,080
Speaker 2: is not me trying to be Hollywood or some shit,

1217
00:59:45,160 --> 00:59:47,080
Speaker 2: but just behind the scenes writing.

1218
00:59:48,080 --> 00:59:50,200
Speaker 1: The thing a lot of people don't understand.

1219
00:59:49,840 --> 00:59:54,360
Speaker 2: Is the jokes aren't all written and one of the

1220
00:59:54,400 --> 00:59:56,880
Speaker 2: reasons you put a comedian or somebody like that to

1221
00:59:56,960 --> 01:00:01,040
Speaker 2: present is because with the show being and live, there's

1222
01:00:01,080 --> 01:00:03,440
Speaker 2: a lot of shit happening at a lot of times.

1223
01:00:03,800 --> 01:00:07,000
Speaker 2: And so you're in Chris Rock's ear, going, hey, we

1224
01:00:07,040 --> 01:00:10,320
Speaker 2: need thirty seconds, like some don't.

1225
01:00:10,360 --> 01:00:12,600
Speaker 1: Someone's not dressed, We don't have a thing.

1226
01:00:12,880 --> 01:00:13,960
Speaker 3: That we were behind.

1227
01:00:14,080 --> 01:00:17,120
Speaker 2: We got behind, we got too fast. And so what

1228
01:00:17,200 --> 01:00:21,240
Speaker 2: happens is you tell him the vamp. He didn't probably

1229
01:00:21,440 --> 01:00:24,080
Speaker 2: has no prepared material, but you, hey, we got one

1230
01:00:24,120 --> 01:00:27,600
Speaker 2: of the world's best comics. Just look around, make some

1231
01:00:27,680 --> 01:00:30,640
Speaker 2: jokes off some bullshit, and it's very hard.

1232
01:00:30,640 --> 01:00:33,600
Speaker 1: It's one of the reasons that most of these shows.

1233
01:00:33,120 --> 01:00:35,960
Speaker 2: Are not that funny, you know, like the skits will

1234
01:00:36,040 --> 01:00:38,640
Speaker 2: be funny, the prepare, but like you know, I remember

1235
01:00:38,680 --> 01:00:40,680
Speaker 2: watching Chris Tucker at the BT Wars. It felt like

1236
01:00:40,720 --> 01:00:42,840
Speaker 2: his whole fucking thing was just I'm gonna make it up,

1237
01:00:42,920 --> 01:00:46,640
Speaker 2: you know, And so he just made a back up,

1238
01:00:46,920 --> 01:00:49,840
Speaker 2: in my opinion, a bad attempt, like his joke if

1239
01:00:49,920 --> 01:00:53,320
Speaker 2: you were scoring, it was not necessarily good. It still

1240
01:00:53,440 --> 01:00:57,320
Speaker 2: is not a thing where you should expect to have

1241
01:00:57,600 --> 01:01:00,280
Speaker 2: violence and acted upon you for it. It's not like

1242
01:01:00,720 --> 01:01:03,959
Speaker 2: I think it's just people. People are so dead set

1243
01:01:04,080 --> 01:01:07,560
Speaker 2: on like working backwards from what happened to justifyance, like

1244
01:01:08,520 --> 01:01:11,400
Speaker 2: two things can happen. Joke was kind of bad, kind

1245
01:01:11,400 --> 01:01:16,640
Speaker 2: of tasteless, not well formulated, and you know, could be

1246
01:01:16,760 --> 01:01:20,000
Speaker 2: interpreted a certain way, even though I think, you know,

1247
01:01:20,080 --> 01:01:23,080
Speaker 2: some of these interpretations are really relying on, you know,

1248
01:01:23,560 --> 01:01:25,600
Speaker 2: some some pretty bad intentions.

1249
01:01:25,920 --> 01:01:28,120
Speaker 1: But that's fine even if you believe that.

1250
01:01:28,880 --> 01:01:31,200
Speaker 2: It's also not a thing where people just go on

1251
01:01:31,240 --> 01:01:33,640
Speaker 2: stage to start hitting people. And the reason I want

1252
01:01:33,680 --> 01:01:36,160
Speaker 2: to stress that is because these niggas are only thinking

1253
01:01:36,200 --> 01:01:39,360
Speaker 2: about themselves and a lot of this shit is like

1254
01:01:39,440 --> 01:01:41,960
Speaker 2: being couchings, Like this is about protection, this is about

1255
01:01:41,960 --> 01:01:43,560
Speaker 2: being a black woman, It's about black hair.

1256
01:01:44,040 --> 01:01:44,720
Speaker 1: Okay, cool.

1257
01:01:46,360 --> 01:01:48,600
Speaker 2: What about when they make a joke about somebody being

1258
01:01:48,600 --> 01:01:53,080
Speaker 2: a conservative audience and they don't like it, right, Can

1259
01:01:53,120 --> 01:01:54,760
Speaker 2: they just come on stage and hit them because look

1260
01:01:54,840 --> 01:01:56,280
Speaker 2: to them, they don't like it.

1261
01:01:56,280 --> 01:01:58,440
Speaker 1: It's not about us anymore. Remember, it's about you.

1262
01:01:58,720 --> 01:02:00,720
Speaker 2: See The problem with all this is, And this is

1263
01:02:00,720 --> 01:02:02,959
Speaker 2: why I like, I really the crowd that therapy shit

1264
01:02:02,960 --> 01:02:06,480
Speaker 2: people be talking online. Your fucking therapist is gonna tell

1265
01:02:06,520 --> 01:02:09,440
Speaker 2: you how to deal with the world. That is not

1266
01:02:09,520 --> 01:02:14,360
Speaker 2: going to let you lead by your trauma, right, you know,

1267
01:02:14,600 --> 01:02:16,960
Speaker 2: we like and this ship where we think we're helping

1268
01:02:16,960 --> 01:02:19,919
Speaker 2: people when we were really fucking harming them. Is when

1269
01:02:19,960 --> 01:02:23,240
Speaker 2: we sit up here watch people react out of trauma

1270
01:02:23,720 --> 01:02:26,280
Speaker 2: and then try to act backwards like oh no, this

1271
01:02:26,320 --> 01:02:30,280
Speaker 2: is why that was Okay, No, you can't exist in

1272
01:02:30,320 --> 01:02:33,800
Speaker 2: this world where you're so fucking raw that you're out

1273
01:02:33,800 --> 01:02:37,000
Speaker 2: here doing whatever, and we think helping you is going

1274
01:02:37,080 --> 01:02:37,880
Speaker 2: it's fine to do.

1275
01:02:37,840 --> 01:02:41,560
Speaker 1: Whatever, you know, like that can't be the world.

1276
01:02:41,600 --> 01:02:43,800
Speaker 2: And what happens when you do that is eventually they

1277
01:02:43,880 --> 01:02:47,800
Speaker 2: keep reacting until they do some shit that we will go, okay,

1278
01:02:47,880 --> 01:02:49,840
Speaker 2: I don't I don't know how they went too far.

1279
01:02:49,880 --> 01:02:51,800
Speaker 2: It's like because every step of the way we were

1280
01:02:51,920 --> 01:02:54,400
Speaker 2: enabling people, we're telling them that it's fine. We're telling

1281
01:02:54,400 --> 01:02:57,080
Speaker 2: them this okay, Like it's that kind of shit, you

1282
01:02:57,120 --> 01:03:00,960
Speaker 2: know what I mean. Like, So it's that that's the

1283
01:03:01,040 --> 01:03:03,920
Speaker 2: part that I think is weird because because you have

1284
01:03:04,000 --> 01:03:06,240
Speaker 2: people that claim to be the opposite of this, You

1285
01:03:06,320 --> 01:03:10,040
Speaker 2: have people that claim to be about mental health, black

1286
01:03:10,160 --> 01:03:12,560
Speaker 2: black mental health, black male mental health, and we need

1287
01:03:12,600 --> 01:03:14,840
Speaker 2: to go to therapy and shit, Well, then we shouldn't

1288
01:03:14,840 --> 01:03:18,040
Speaker 2: be applauding this. We should be able to say like, yeah,

1289
01:03:18,040 --> 01:03:21,400
Speaker 2: that was wild. Will probably does need to go talk

1290
01:03:21,440 --> 01:03:26,240
Speaker 2: to some people. There may be consequences for this. The

1291
01:03:26,360 --> 01:03:28,440
Speaker 2: crying and shit makes me feel like he was not

1292
01:03:28,640 --> 01:03:33,800
Speaker 2: in control of himself. And that once again projecting a

1293
01:03:33,800 --> 01:03:36,440
Speaker 2: lot of this, but that would if that was my friend,

1294
01:03:36,440 --> 01:03:40,320
Speaker 2: I'd be like, bro, we need to talk, like who,

1295
01:03:40,480 --> 01:03:43,480
Speaker 2: we need to have you talk to somebody? Because what

1296
01:03:43,920 --> 01:03:46,439
Speaker 2: you live in a world where this is gonna keep happening, Will,

1297
01:03:46,600 --> 01:03:49,080
Speaker 2: and you know what's gonna happen now, it's gonna get worse.

1298
01:03:49,480 --> 01:03:52,400
Speaker 2: That's not People aren't gonna sit up here and be

1299
01:03:52,640 --> 01:03:55,840
Speaker 2: like this is no hold on someone say right, he's

1300
01:03:55,880 --> 01:03:58,040
Speaker 2: the whole time he's been in therapy. That's the thing

1301
01:03:58,080 --> 01:03:59,920
Speaker 2: about therapy. And that's why I said I don't like

1302
01:04:00,080 --> 01:04:02,960
Speaker 2: talking about it online and shit people act like it's

1303
01:04:03,000 --> 01:04:07,520
Speaker 2: a class you pass. That's not how it works. Like

1304
01:04:07,560 --> 01:04:10,080
Speaker 2: you see like someone be oh, thank God for therapy,

1305
01:04:10,640 --> 01:04:13,400
Speaker 2: and it's like, no, nigga, that's not. You didn't graduate

1306
01:04:13,440 --> 01:04:16,880
Speaker 2: from therapy, Like like, what the fuck are you talking about?

1307
01:04:16,920 --> 01:04:18,200
Speaker 1: But that is how we treat it.

1308
01:04:18,240 --> 01:04:21,480
Speaker 2: Someone somebody does something good or something good happens, and

1309
01:04:21,480 --> 01:04:23,840
Speaker 2: then we just call it, Oh, that's that's the therapy.

1310
01:04:24,160 --> 01:04:26,000
Speaker 2: Like it's like it's a pill you take and then

1311
01:04:26,000 --> 01:04:27,800
Speaker 2: you're like, I'm healed and then you just go out

1312
01:04:27,800 --> 01:04:31,160
Speaker 2: into the world. But it's like, my nigga, clearly you

1313
01:04:31,200 --> 01:04:33,560
Speaker 2: still have work to do. It's a reason you're in there,

1314
01:04:33,680 --> 01:04:36,960
Speaker 2: and it's a reason you reacted that way. So you know,

1315
01:04:37,200 --> 01:04:39,760
Speaker 2: to me, I think people do a disservice when they go, yeah,

1316
01:04:39,760 --> 01:04:42,560
Speaker 2: it's just normal. That's just what it happens, you know

1317
01:04:42,560 --> 01:04:45,120
Speaker 2: what I'm saying. It's like, we don't treat other problems

1318
01:04:45,200 --> 01:04:47,040
Speaker 2: like that. If you have like an addiction problem, we

1319
01:04:47,080 --> 01:04:48,760
Speaker 2: don't be like like people say they whole like I'm

1320
01:04:48,760 --> 01:04:51,400
Speaker 2: an alcoholic, have a touch the drop in twenty two years,

1321
01:04:51,480 --> 01:04:54,080
Speaker 2: but I have to say I'm alcoholic or SORR. That's

1322
01:04:54,080 --> 01:04:56,440
Speaker 2: how I keep myself, you know, from having to deal

1323
01:04:56,480 --> 01:04:59,160
Speaker 2: with that. So I think that's one of those things,

1324
01:04:59,200 --> 01:05:02,240
Speaker 2: you know, Like I don't know how much Will sees

1325
01:05:02,320 --> 01:05:04,480
Speaker 2: of the Internet and the way he's talked about, so

1326
01:05:04,560 --> 01:05:07,160
Speaker 2: I can't really speak to if that's what's affecting him

1327
01:05:07,200 --> 01:05:09,520
Speaker 2: and stuff. But all I know is he's in the

1328
01:05:09,560 --> 01:05:14,000
Speaker 2: fucking fish bowl we're all looking in and he just

1329
01:05:14,040 --> 01:05:16,880
Speaker 2: did something that makes people go, well, I'm gonna talk

1330
01:05:16,920 --> 01:05:20,680
Speaker 2: about it. And I've seen it within the last few

1331
01:05:20,760 --> 01:05:23,160
Speaker 2: days because he said he was doing this out of

1332
01:05:23,280 --> 01:05:27,040
Speaker 2: protecting his wife. I've seen comedians now go on stage

1333
01:05:27,040 --> 01:05:30,640
Speaker 2: to call her a bitch. Corey Hokom call her ball bitch,

1334
01:05:31,560 --> 01:05:35,200
Speaker 2: Thomson Gura, same thing, Tony.

1335
01:05:35,640 --> 01:05:37,720
Speaker 1: I don't know if it's Tony Rock or Chris Rock's.

1336
01:05:37,440 --> 01:05:42,200
Speaker 2: Brother like like this this. If y'all are saying this

1337
01:05:42,400 --> 01:05:46,000
Speaker 2: was a solution, then you're you don't understand. That's you

1338
01:05:46,080 --> 01:05:50,880
Speaker 2: don't understand how violence works. It's not an it escalates.

1339
01:05:51,120 --> 01:05:54,760
Speaker 2: Violence is an escalator. It is very rarely. It has

1340
01:05:54,800 --> 01:05:58,360
Speaker 2: to be implied almost surgically to completely stop some shit.

1341
01:05:58,840 --> 01:06:02,400
Speaker 2: But when you act, when you react without thinking and

1342
01:06:02,440 --> 01:06:04,600
Speaker 2: out of violence, it is very rarely the thing that

1343
01:06:04,680 --> 01:06:07,280
Speaker 2: solves it. And if it solved it, niggas wouldn't be

1344
01:06:07,360 --> 01:06:09,880
Speaker 2: arguing six days later on the internet with their friends.

1345
01:06:11,920 --> 01:06:16,400
Speaker 2: But yeah, so let's see. Prat says, thank you so

1346
01:06:16,480 --> 01:06:18,200
Speaker 2: much for your breakdown. Thought it was insane to think

1347
01:06:18,240 --> 01:06:21,120
Speaker 2: that just this is just a case of guys, do

1348
01:06:21,320 --> 01:06:25,439
Speaker 2: read this. Oh yeah, Okay, Logan a man says, love y'all,

1349
01:06:25,480 --> 01:06:27,320
Speaker 2: thanks for covering this. You are one of the top

1350
01:06:27,320 --> 01:06:29,920
Speaker 2: podcasts I was looking forward to hear and discussed this. Overall,

1351
01:06:29,920 --> 01:06:32,360
Speaker 2: I think everyone involved will come out Okay, yeah, that's

1352
01:06:32,360 --> 01:06:32,800
Speaker 2: the other thing.

1353
01:06:33,000 --> 01:06:36,440
Speaker 1: I do think everyone will. They're rich, they're famous.

1354
01:06:36,520 --> 01:06:39,959
Speaker 2: I think for the for the same reasons that people

1355
01:06:40,000 --> 01:06:41,800
Speaker 2: are out here feeling like they need to defend what

1356
01:06:42,120 --> 01:06:44,800
Speaker 2: Will Smith did, or probably the same reasons that they

1357
01:06:44,840 --> 01:06:48,160
Speaker 2: won't face the harsh repercussions that would, you know, face

1358
01:06:48,240 --> 01:06:50,600
Speaker 2: other people would face it by doing something like this.

1359
01:06:52,200 --> 01:06:53,960
Speaker 2: And I'm not even saying that's good or bad, just

1360
01:06:54,200 --> 01:06:58,760
Speaker 2: I think you're right that ultimately they'll it'll be fine.

1361
01:07:00,400 --> 01:07:01,600
Speaker 1: If there's any positive to this.

1362
01:07:01,680 --> 01:07:07,000
Speaker 2: Folks, sure the hell know where alopecia is now, Yeah,

1363
01:07:07,040 --> 01:07:09,640
Speaker 2: but they're just gonna downplay it now. If anything, I

1364
01:07:09,640 --> 01:07:14,080
Speaker 2: think this may have hurt the alopecia thing because what's

1365
01:07:14,120 --> 01:07:18,320
Speaker 2: gonna happen is because it's being brought up by a

1366
01:07:18,320 --> 01:07:20,040
Speaker 2: lot of people who are like and that's why it's

1367
01:07:20,040 --> 01:07:24,040
Speaker 2: okay to slap somebody. You're gonna get a pushback of like, well,

1368
01:07:24,160 --> 01:07:26,640
Speaker 2: I do know what alopecia is, and that doesn't mean

1369
01:07:26,680 --> 01:07:30,160
Speaker 2: shit to me, too bad, fuck you, blah blah blah.

1370
01:07:30,200 --> 01:07:32,960
Speaker 2: It's as opposed to people being like, Okay, I didn't

1371
01:07:33,000 --> 01:07:37,480
Speaker 2: realize how that could really affect specifically black women, and

1372
01:07:37,520 --> 01:07:39,800
Speaker 2: instead it's gonna be like, well, anybody can get alopecia.

1373
01:07:39,840 --> 01:07:41,400
Speaker 2: Who gives a fuck about that? You know, it's that,

1374
01:07:41,680 --> 01:07:44,400
Speaker 2: and it's it's just sad to see people talk like

1375
01:07:44,440 --> 01:07:49,280
Speaker 2: that because like there's a this thing's it's not really

1376
01:07:49,320 --> 01:07:53,600
Speaker 2: about alopecia, you know what I'm saying like that, it's

1377
01:07:53,600 --> 01:07:57,880
Speaker 2: about this dude's ego, about his wife and what he

1378
01:07:57,960 --> 01:08:02,960
Speaker 2: felt he needed to do to you know, I guess

1379
01:08:03,040 --> 01:08:07,880
Speaker 2: defend her honor according to him, So that's not necessarily

1380
01:08:07,880 --> 01:08:12,680
Speaker 2: an alopecia thing, Like you know it was about alopecia.

1381
01:08:12,960 --> 01:08:15,040
Speaker 2: Then you wait till after the show and you you

1382
01:08:15,240 --> 01:08:17,599
Speaker 2: or you shit when you're doing your fucking OSCAR acceptance

1383
01:08:17,640 --> 01:08:20,400
Speaker 2: speach you up there like, yeah, my wife has alopecia,

1384
01:08:21,040 --> 01:08:23,880
Speaker 2: And I don't know why Chris Rock thinks that things

1385
01:08:23,920 --> 01:08:25,400
Speaker 2: making jokes like that is blah blah blah, Like you

1386
01:08:25,479 --> 01:08:27,560
Speaker 2: could there's a time and place and that's what you

1387
01:08:27,720 --> 01:08:29,919
Speaker 2: really trying to do. Some type of PSA for alopecia.

1388
01:08:30,040 --> 01:08:33,160
Speaker 2: But Na, it's just gonna lead to people going, it's

1389
01:08:33,200 --> 01:08:35,280
Speaker 2: not a big deal. I've already heard it and seen

1390
01:08:35,320 --> 01:08:39,240
Speaker 2: it a bunch of times since Sunday of people being like,

1391
01:08:40,400 --> 01:08:42,240
Speaker 2: she's still pretty, even.

1392
01:08:42,040 --> 01:08:42,720
Speaker 1: The men that.

1393
01:08:44,240 --> 01:08:47,040
Speaker 2: The amount of men that talk about how she's still attractive,

1394
01:08:47,080 --> 01:08:51,880
Speaker 2: What the fuck did that mean? What does it matter? Oh,

1395
01:08:52,439 --> 01:08:56,160
Speaker 2: she's still so hot. Okay, that's not what she's that's

1396
01:08:56,240 --> 01:08:59,120
Speaker 2: not what she's talking about. You know, in this world

1397
01:08:59,120 --> 01:09:02,000
Speaker 2: where you have so much anti blackness around black women's hair,

1398
01:09:02,600 --> 01:09:06,760
Speaker 2: specifically black women's hair, not all women's hair, specifically black

1399
01:09:06,800 --> 01:09:10,519
Speaker 2: women's hair that is tied to laws, wage discrimination, rate

1400
01:09:10,640 --> 01:09:15,799
Speaker 2: of job discrimination, the military, Like, you're talking about something

1401
01:09:16,320 --> 01:09:19,520
Speaker 2: that is on a fundamental level.

1402
01:09:20,800 --> 01:09:23,879
Speaker 1: Systemic and sickening and anger inducing.

1403
01:09:24,280 --> 01:09:25,840
Speaker 2: And that's why you see a lot of people fan

1404
01:09:25,960 --> 01:09:28,800
Speaker 2: casting this shit is like, this is a statement about

1405
01:09:28,840 --> 01:09:30,920
Speaker 2: black hair, and this is a statement about alopecia and

1406
01:09:30,920 --> 01:09:35,400
Speaker 2: black women because people want to feel that that's what happened,

1407
01:09:36,280 --> 01:09:38,800
Speaker 2: because they're sick of fucking having to eat this shit.

1408
01:09:38,920 --> 01:09:41,840
Speaker 1: And people go, it's not a big deal. A black

1409
01:09:41,840 --> 01:09:44,519
Speaker 1: woman's relationship to her hair in America is a very

1410
01:09:44,600 --> 01:09:45,479
Speaker 1: fucking big deal.

1411
01:09:46,400 --> 01:09:50,240
Speaker 2: You know, you're talking about black children, black girls picking

1412
01:09:50,439 --> 01:09:53,880
Speaker 2: white baby dolls in the sixties and shit, because that's

1413
01:09:53,920 --> 01:09:57,000
Speaker 2: how much we're told as black people, and as black

1414
01:09:57,000 --> 01:10:00,080
Speaker 2: girls specifically, are told you need to hate yourself. You know,

1415
01:10:00,120 --> 01:10:03,800
Speaker 2: it's beautiful a white woman, you're not, and so part

1416
01:10:03,800 --> 01:10:06,760
Speaker 2: of that journey can be hair and pride in your hair.

1417
01:10:07,200 --> 01:10:10,439
Speaker 2: And when you are not able to grow it and

1418
01:10:10,560 --> 01:10:15,080
Speaker 2: perform femininity, perform, you know, in the way that you

1419
01:10:15,200 --> 01:10:17,840
Speaker 2: want to, because it's not about how I feel about you, Like,

1420
01:10:17,880 --> 01:10:21,120
Speaker 2: oh but Jada Pinker's hot, it's how she feels about herself,

1421
01:10:21,160 --> 01:10:23,080
Speaker 2: and it's how all these women feel about themselves. And

1422
01:10:23,120 --> 01:10:25,960
Speaker 2: it's like, I am not able to perform because I'm

1423
01:10:26,000 --> 01:10:28,000
Speaker 2: also a victim of all this shit and I'm working

1424
01:10:28,040 --> 01:10:30,680
Speaker 2: it out too. I'm not able to perform femininity in

1425
01:10:30,680 --> 01:10:32,840
Speaker 2: the way that I would like to. I don't get

1426
01:10:32,840 --> 01:10:35,120
Speaker 2: to tell her like, yeah, it's no big deal, bitch,

1427
01:10:35,120 --> 01:10:37,960
Speaker 2: get over it. Oh you bald whatever you still find

1428
01:10:38,000 --> 01:10:38,640
Speaker 2: I fuck you?

1429
01:10:39,040 --> 01:10:39,599
Speaker 1: What is that?

1430
01:10:39,600 --> 01:10:42,720
Speaker 2: That means nothing to people? It's just stupid, you know

1431
01:10:42,760 --> 01:10:45,040
Speaker 2: what I mean. It's such a dumb ass distraction in

1432
01:10:45,080 --> 01:10:48,160
Speaker 2: this conversation. But yeah, it just seems.

1433
01:10:48,320 --> 01:10:51,840
Speaker 1: It just seems. Yes, it's very wrong minded.

1434
01:10:51,960 --> 01:10:57,760
Speaker 2: But yeah, but unfortunately, like I said, people didn't learn

1435
01:10:57,800 --> 01:11:01,160
Speaker 2: about alopecia. They're more the ones who are learning about

1436
01:11:01,160 --> 01:11:03,400
Speaker 2: our peace are mostly learning to dismiss it.

1437
01:11:05,960 --> 01:11:07,599
Speaker 1: I also don't care what white people have to say

1438
01:11:07,640 --> 01:11:08,000
Speaker 1: about it.

1439
01:11:08,040 --> 01:11:10,639
Speaker 2: I'm like joining the scamma clip all the white people

1440
01:11:10,680 --> 01:11:13,559
Speaker 2: to the back immediately. There are more than enough nuance

1441
01:11:13,640 --> 01:11:16,120
Speaker 2: black opinions on this. Folks are getting dragged if black

1442
01:11:16,160 --> 01:11:19,800
Speaker 2: Twitter deems it's the wrong one. Virtual bodies everywhere. Yeah,

1443
01:11:19,960 --> 01:11:22,040
Speaker 2: I I guess I I don't have a problem with

1444
01:11:22,040 --> 01:11:24,200
Speaker 2: white people talking about it. This shit happened into publica

1445
01:11:24,240 --> 01:11:26,400
Speaker 2: space for us to act like it's a insular black moment.

1446
01:11:26,920 --> 01:11:30,000
Speaker 1: It's not. It's not. And I know why people are

1447
01:11:30,000 --> 01:11:30,320
Speaker 1: saying that.

1448
01:11:30,400 --> 01:11:32,840
Speaker 2: They're saying it because I mean, it's fine not to

1449
01:11:32,840 --> 01:11:34,599
Speaker 2: care for the record, cause I don't be caring either.

1450
01:11:34,640 --> 01:11:38,479
Speaker 2: White people can like it's it's so healthy today you learn.

1451
01:11:38,680 --> 01:11:40,559
Speaker 2: I can listen to these people talk about something and

1452
01:11:40,600 --> 01:11:41,240
Speaker 2: I hope y'all do it.

1453
01:11:41,360 --> 01:11:44,679
Speaker 1: I show too. I can listen these people talk about something,

1454
01:11:45,120 --> 01:11:46,400
Speaker 1: disagree and not care.

1455
01:11:47,960 --> 01:11:51,120
Speaker 3: Do you know what? That is the most free thing

1456
01:11:51,320 --> 01:11:52,320
Speaker 3: in my life.

1457
01:11:52,680 --> 01:11:54,799
Speaker 4: You know how many podcasts I listen to, the niggas

1458
01:11:54,840 --> 01:11:57,160
Speaker 4: be talking about like, oh I don't care, yeah, and

1459
01:11:57,400 --> 01:12:01,439
Speaker 4: like and keep it motherfucking trucking. And because the thing

1460
01:12:01,640 --> 01:12:04,479
Speaker 4: is what I've learned, and I told your mother this,

1461
01:12:07,160 --> 01:12:11,280
Speaker 4: my piece is valuable to me, and a lot of

1462
01:12:11,320 --> 01:12:17,680
Speaker 4: things that happens in life consistently disrupts that peace. And

1463
01:12:18,160 --> 01:12:21,240
Speaker 4: I don't have the energy and or the bandwidth to

1464
01:12:21,400 --> 01:12:24,559
Speaker 4: give a fuck about everything that happens around me.

1465
01:12:24,840 --> 01:12:26,679
Speaker 3: I can not, None of us can.

1466
01:12:27,600 --> 01:12:29,400
Speaker 4: So when this situation happened, I told you my mother,

1467
01:12:29,400 --> 01:12:31,000
Speaker 4: I said, this was the situation that.

1468
01:12:31,040 --> 01:12:32,000
Speaker 3: I opted out of.

1469
01:12:33,320 --> 01:12:36,679
Speaker 4: I cannot care, and I actually don't care about certain things.

1470
01:12:38,000 --> 01:12:41,439
Speaker 4: It's okay for me not to care because I'm like, look,

1471
01:12:41,720 --> 01:12:45,120
Speaker 4: I can't pick up the torch for every single solitary,

1472
01:12:45,240 --> 01:12:46,559
Speaker 4: goddamn thing that happened.

1473
01:12:46,560 --> 01:12:47,120
Speaker 3: I just can't.

1474
01:12:47,280 --> 01:12:50,400
Speaker 2: I'm not talking about not caring about what happened. I'm

1475
01:12:50,439 --> 01:12:54,920
Speaker 2: talking about you don't have to give weight to everyone's opinions, agreed,

1476
01:12:55,240 --> 01:12:57,960
Speaker 2: especially if they don't know what the fuck they're talking about.

1477
01:12:58,760 --> 01:13:00,680
Speaker 2: They don't White people will never know what it's like

1478
01:13:00,720 --> 01:13:04,479
Speaker 2: to be black, So it's masochism to go listen to

1479
01:13:04,479 --> 01:13:06,320
Speaker 2: them talk about some black shit and expect them to

1480
01:13:06,360 --> 01:13:09,760
Speaker 2: get it. It's like, a it's good if they do,

1481
01:13:10,080 --> 01:13:12,920
Speaker 2: but but I don't ever expect that shit because it's

1482
01:13:13,000 --> 01:13:15,160
Speaker 2: luck if they get it, Like, how the fuck would

1483
01:13:15,160 --> 01:13:15,360
Speaker 2: they know.

1484
01:13:15,400 --> 01:13:18,559
Speaker 1: It's like if when you listen to men talk about women.

1485
01:13:18,439 --> 01:13:21,320
Speaker 2: Issues or straight people talk about GBTQ issues, it's nice

1486
01:13:21,360 --> 01:13:23,960
Speaker 2: if someone did some research and read something, or someone's

1487
01:13:24,000 --> 01:13:27,479
Speaker 2: empathetic enough to have some type of, you know, like

1488
01:13:27,920 --> 01:13:31,840
Speaker 2: naturally kind of inclusive opinion. But that shit ain't the norm.

1489
01:13:31,880 --> 01:13:35,080
Speaker 2: That the norm is motherfuckers don't be knowing, right.

1490
01:13:35,120 --> 01:13:38,120
Speaker 4: And also the thing of me quote unquote not caring.

1491
01:13:38,600 --> 01:13:40,720
Speaker 4: It does not mean that I don't care at all

1492
01:13:40,800 --> 01:13:42,200
Speaker 4: when I say that, because a lot of times when

1493
01:13:42,200 --> 01:13:44,000
Speaker 4: you say that, people that act like I'm just dismissing

1494
01:13:44,000 --> 01:13:45,600
Speaker 4: the whole thing all together. No, I'm not dismissing the

1495
01:13:45,600 --> 01:13:48,400
Speaker 4: whole thing altogether. What I'm not gonna do is argue

1496
01:13:48,439 --> 01:13:50,000
Speaker 4: with people and then go back and forth with people.

1497
01:13:50,040 --> 01:13:51,599
Speaker 1: I think I'm that part.

1498
01:13:51,640 --> 01:13:52,400
Speaker 3: I don't care about it.

1499
01:13:52,520 --> 01:13:55,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I was only clarifying because I was talking

1500
01:13:55,960 --> 01:13:57,960
Speaker 2: about something very specific, and then you kind of just

1501
01:13:58,000 --> 01:14:01,559
Speaker 2: started genuinely talking about not caring, and I'm saying, no,

1502
01:14:01,880 --> 01:14:02,240
Speaker 2: you don't.

1503
01:14:02,320 --> 01:14:04,840
Speaker 1: You can listen to a show, you can watch a TV.

1504
01:14:05,280 --> 01:14:08,800
Speaker 2: You don't have to give those people any weight, Like

1505
01:14:08,840 --> 01:14:11,040
Speaker 2: if you truly do believe what you say, like I'll

1506
01:14:11,080 --> 01:14:12,960
Speaker 2: you know, in the keith Ner Girl forms, I'm watching this,

1507
01:14:13,320 --> 01:14:16,960
Speaker 2: I assume to be a black woman who's been leaving

1508
01:14:17,520 --> 01:14:19,759
Speaker 2: long post at the long post at the long post,

1509
01:14:19,760 --> 01:14:22,479
Speaker 2: trying to tell them like, you know, we don't need

1510
01:14:22,520 --> 01:14:25,040
Speaker 2: white people discussing this, and like then turn it off

1511
01:14:25,240 --> 01:14:29,320
Speaker 2: or don't listen, or if you truly feel like they

1512
01:14:29,320 --> 01:14:31,960
Speaker 2: don't know what they talking about, then don't worry about it.

1513
01:14:32,160 --> 01:14:33,920
Speaker 2: Because when I be feeling like motherfuckers don't know what

1514
01:14:33,960 --> 01:14:36,400
Speaker 2: they talking about, I'll be like, yeah, I'm okay, that's

1515
01:14:36,439 --> 01:14:37,120
Speaker 2: I'm moving on.

1516
01:14:37,439 --> 01:14:40,439
Speaker 1: If you truly feel that way, Like it's like if a.

1517
01:14:42,960 --> 01:14:45,240
Speaker 2: Trying to think of extreme example, whe when a Republican

1518
01:14:45,280 --> 01:14:49,519
Speaker 2: person is like climate change isn't real, Yeah, I don't

1519
01:14:49,680 --> 01:14:51,679
Speaker 2: be like I can't wait to tune in tomorrow.

1520
01:14:52,160 --> 01:14:53,400
Speaker 1: I'm like okay.

1521
01:14:53,280 --> 01:14:56,519
Speaker 2: Yeah, So on some level, you're lying to yourself if

1522
01:14:56,560 --> 01:14:58,760
Speaker 2: you truly say you don't care about their opinions and

1523
01:14:58,840 --> 01:15:01,400
Speaker 2: you listen every day, that's what you know what I mean?

1524
01:15:01,520 --> 01:15:04,080
Speaker 2: So it then I suggest you be real and be

1525
01:15:04,160 --> 01:15:06,679
Speaker 2: like I don't care and then just go not care

1526
01:15:06,880 --> 01:15:10,960
Speaker 2: like you know, but uh so, yeah so anyway, But

1527
01:15:11,000 --> 01:15:13,639
Speaker 2: I don't feel that this is as I think it's

1528
01:15:13,720 --> 01:15:16,439
Speaker 2: ridiculous to think of this as an insular moment of blackness.

1529
01:15:16,520 --> 01:15:20,400
Speaker 2: It's like, the only black thing about this is that

1530
01:15:20,800 --> 01:15:24,120
Speaker 2: three black people were evolved. This is not a moment

1531
01:15:24,200 --> 01:15:26,680
Speaker 2: for blackness in that type of way. This wasn't some

1532
01:15:26,760 --> 01:15:30,680
Speaker 2: bigger statement on black America. This like, and honestly, that

1533
01:15:30,760 --> 01:15:34,920
Speaker 2: kind of thinking can lead you down that respectability path

1534
01:15:35,000 --> 01:15:37,639
Speaker 2: of like, you know, this is this has to speak

1535
01:15:37,680 --> 01:15:38,880
Speaker 2: for all of us as black people.

1536
01:15:38,960 --> 01:15:39,000
Speaker 4: Know.

1537
01:15:39,120 --> 01:15:42,439
Speaker 2: This speaks for will Smith, Jada Pinkinsmith, and Chris Rock

1538
01:15:42,760 --> 01:15:44,240
Speaker 2: the rest of the shit I nothing to do with me.

1539
01:15:45,360 --> 01:15:50,599
Speaker 4: Right And also, and this is how I feel if

1540
01:15:50,640 --> 01:15:52,600
Speaker 4: this would have been three white people, would would with

1541
01:15:52,720 --> 01:15:54,840
Speaker 4: all the black folks everywhere lost they got that mind

1542
01:15:54,920 --> 01:15:56,400
Speaker 4: you in the care and everybody would have been on

1543
01:15:56,439 --> 01:15:57,639
Speaker 4: motherfucking joke time.

1544
01:15:58,120 --> 01:16:01,400
Speaker 1: Oh for sure, for sure. We can't. We live in America.

1545
01:16:01,400 --> 01:16:05,400
Speaker 1: We can't separate us share from race, right, you know, like.

1546
01:16:06,920 --> 01:16:09,760
Speaker 2: It just is what it is, like we we we

1547
01:16:09,800 --> 01:16:14,280
Speaker 2: live here, we're fucked, we're black, and there's it's impossible

1548
01:16:14,320 --> 01:16:16,559
Speaker 2: to look at this ship and not consider race for us.

1549
01:16:16,800 --> 01:16:19,960
Speaker 2: And that's fine. I love us for that. I listen

1550
01:16:20,000 --> 01:16:23,560
Speaker 2: to and and and I'm not saying this derisively. I

1551
01:16:23,680 --> 01:16:27,679
Speaker 2: listen to a lot of podcasts about this, but it's

1552
01:16:27,720 --> 01:16:31,640
Speaker 2: just it's okay if we disagree, I don't stop respecting them,

1553
01:16:32,280 --> 01:16:34,280
Speaker 2: you know what I mean? And I and and and

1554
01:16:34,280 --> 01:16:36,280
Speaker 2: it's not even on a race thing. Like if I've

1555
01:16:36,320 --> 01:16:38,840
Speaker 2: been listening to a show and it got white people

1556
01:16:38,880 --> 01:16:41,360
Speaker 2: on it and I don't listen to them talk about

1557
01:16:41,400 --> 01:16:43,000
Speaker 2: everything else, I'm not gonna be like, shut up up,

1558
01:16:43,000 --> 01:16:43,800
Speaker 2: shut up, white man.

1559
01:16:44,360 --> 01:16:45,200
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna tune in.

1560
01:16:45,240 --> 01:16:47,679
Speaker 2: And when Andy Kline breaks it down, be like, oh man,

1561
01:16:47,760 --> 01:16:49,680
Speaker 2: fuck three guys on they let a white man have

1562
01:16:49,720 --> 01:16:50,240
Speaker 2: an opinion.

1563
01:16:50,280 --> 01:16:51,120
Speaker 1: Who gives a fuck?

1564
01:16:52,080 --> 01:16:54,519
Speaker 2: Like I respect his opinion and every other way I

1565
01:16:54,560 --> 01:16:56,280
Speaker 2: want to hear what he has to say. That's the

1566
01:16:56,320 --> 01:16:59,320
Speaker 2: fucking game. If I truly don't care about your opinion,

1567
01:16:59,360 --> 01:17:02,799
Speaker 2: I don't hit a download. But like, no one's making

1568
01:17:02,840 --> 01:17:03,479
Speaker 2: you listen.

1569
01:17:03,360 --> 01:17:06,360
Speaker 1: To these opinions. So oh, we have lost the fly,

1570
01:17:06,520 --> 01:17:10,360
Speaker 1: all right, I also don't care.

1571
01:17:12,479 --> 01:17:14,559
Speaker 2: We'll see and for the I'm not saying you have

1572
01:17:14,600 --> 01:17:17,240
Speaker 2: to care, but it's just weird that people think it's

1573
01:17:17,360 --> 01:17:20,519
Speaker 2: like she wasn't saying she wasn't saying white people can't

1574
01:17:20,520 --> 01:17:22,200
Speaker 2: have opinion. She was saying she don't care about them.

1575
01:17:22,320 --> 01:17:25,439
Speaker 2: Totally relate. It's just funny. I just wanted to comment

1576
01:17:25,479 --> 01:17:27,760
Speaker 2: because you reminded me of the people who also said

1577
01:17:28,720 --> 01:17:31,160
Speaker 2: white people can't have opinion, and it's like, this is stupid.

1578
01:17:31,240 --> 01:17:33,400
Speaker 2: You're trying to please some shit that you can't even

1579
01:17:33,439 --> 01:17:35,320
Speaker 2: release white people's opinions.

1580
01:17:35,680 --> 01:17:37,880
Speaker 1: We couldn't stop them from genocide in the world. We can't.

1581
01:17:37,880 --> 01:17:40,439
Speaker 1: Fucking Oh, these niggas better not have an opinion.

1582
01:17:40,520 --> 01:17:44,120
Speaker 2: Tomorrow, we'll see if this would come say when it

1583
01:17:44,240 --> 01:17:46,920
Speaker 2: keeping it real goes wrong moment or not, y'all think

1584
01:17:47,000 --> 01:17:49,800
Speaker 2: we'll step down from like the Oscar committee thing.

1585
01:17:50,240 --> 01:17:55,200
Speaker 1: We'll see if there's more repercussions. But uh, I don't know.

1586
01:17:55,240 --> 01:17:57,120
Speaker 1: I feels like it's already a keeping it real goes

1587
01:17:57,160 --> 01:17:57,679
Speaker 1: wrong moment.

1588
01:17:57,720 --> 01:17:59,880
Speaker 2: For the fact that he had to that he felt

1589
01:17:59,880 --> 01:18:03,360
Speaker 2: he needed to apologize that that you know, to me,

1590
01:18:03,479 --> 01:18:06,360
Speaker 2: that says enough. Whether you believe whether you're cynical and

1591
01:18:06,439 --> 01:18:08,600
Speaker 2: think it's a fake apology, or you're like me that

1592
01:18:08,720 --> 01:18:12,120
Speaker 2: thinks it's probably a real apology. The fact that he

1593
01:18:12,200 --> 01:18:15,960
Speaker 2: had to apologize is already him admitting I was completely

1594
01:18:16,000 --> 01:18:19,559
Speaker 2: out of my fucking control for a second. I also

1595
01:18:19,560 --> 01:18:21,719
Speaker 2: appreciate the civil discussions some of us are having today.

1596
01:18:21,760 --> 01:18:24,320
Speaker 2: I finally realized my husband is worried about Will. We

1597
01:18:24,400 --> 01:18:26,760
Speaker 2: had so many conversations about this, and we're both coming

1598
01:18:26,800 --> 01:18:29,160
Speaker 2: from different angles. Then it finally dawned on me. So

1599
01:18:29,200 --> 01:18:32,040
Speaker 2: I asked, and he confirmed that's what he was trying

1600
01:18:32,080 --> 01:18:35,080
Speaker 2: to say. So one more positive, one more positive. Hope

1601
01:18:35,080 --> 01:18:38,479
Speaker 2: people are working on their communication skills. Yeah, that's what

1602
01:18:38,600 --> 01:18:42,679
Speaker 2: devid seems to be. And you know, I think talking

1603
01:18:42,720 --> 01:18:46,960
Speaker 2: to people I'm seeing it's just how different people navigate

1604
01:18:47,000 --> 01:18:49,719
Speaker 2: the earth the world. Like you know, my man, Randolph

1605
01:18:49,800 --> 01:18:54,240
Speaker 2: Terrence man fifty grand He's like, when I don't fuck

1606
01:18:54,280 --> 01:18:57,000
Speaker 2: with somebody, they have to go. He don't do like

1607
01:18:57,040 --> 01:19:03,240
Speaker 2: I'm a conflict. I'm a person that's like a I

1608
01:19:03,280 --> 01:19:04,400
Speaker 2: try to resolve conflict.

1609
01:19:04,520 --> 01:19:07,920
Speaker 1: I'm a person that if I've been hanging around.

1610
01:19:07,720 --> 01:19:10,000
Speaker 2: You, I'm going to give you the benefit of the

1611
01:19:10,080 --> 01:19:12,160
Speaker 2: doubt if I've allowed you to be in my space.

1612
01:19:12,320 --> 01:19:14,080
Speaker 2: I think I owe that to you as a friend,

1613
01:19:14,160 --> 01:19:17,040
Speaker 2: and I would not. I feel like it's a betrayal

1614
01:19:17,080 --> 01:19:19,559
Speaker 2: to immediately go get the fuck away.

1615
01:19:19,920 --> 01:19:21,160
Speaker 1: I'm gonna give you a second.

1616
01:19:21,240 --> 01:19:21,400
Speaker 3: Now.

1617
01:19:21,439 --> 01:19:23,800
Speaker 1: Look, you may still fuck that up.

1618
01:19:23,800 --> 01:19:26,240
Speaker 2: And it's like, literally, I have to be like, okay, there,

1619
01:19:26,320 --> 01:19:27,120
Speaker 2: we're not gonna be friends.

1620
01:19:27,800 --> 01:19:30,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, but that's just my default, right.

1621
01:19:30,920 --> 01:19:33,479
Speaker 2: I can't speak to other people and I try to

1622
01:19:33,479 --> 01:19:36,800
Speaker 2: respect and understand folks. So, you know, talking to ran

1623
01:19:36,880 --> 01:19:38,720
Speaker 2: Off about it, you know, he was very much like

1624
01:19:38,760 --> 01:19:43,920
Speaker 2: on some like man, fuck Will Smith anybody that says

1625
01:19:43,920 --> 01:19:46,960
Speaker 2: anything that less than like fuck him, you know, fuck

1626
01:19:47,040 --> 01:19:50,120
Speaker 2: them too, kind of, and it was a very disturbing

1627
01:19:50,160 --> 01:19:53,720
Speaker 2: thing for him. I have tremendous respect for Randolph. So

1628
01:19:54,040 --> 01:19:56,760
Speaker 2: that's not a person I'm gonna put into some camp

1629
01:19:56,760 --> 01:20:00,680
Speaker 2: of like well because I feel differently Off must be

1630
01:20:00,720 --> 01:20:02,880
Speaker 2: a bad black person. I'm like, no, I respect him.

1631
01:20:02,880 --> 01:20:05,360
Speaker 2: I want to see his point of view and it'll

1632
01:20:05,520 --> 01:20:08,120
Speaker 2: educate me and teach me like, oh, this is another

1633
01:20:08,160 --> 01:20:10,360
Speaker 2: way to see it from a person I respect.

1634
01:20:10,360 --> 01:20:13,120
Speaker 1: And I think that's what's been missing all week.

1635
01:20:13,280 --> 01:20:15,840
Speaker 2: And she just talked about that with her husband, like,

1636
01:20:15,920 --> 01:20:18,040
Speaker 2: that's her husband when she's supposed get a divorce because

1637
01:20:18,040 --> 01:20:20,639
Speaker 2: they disagree about this how they see it, and more

1638
01:20:20,640 --> 01:20:22,240
Speaker 2: than likely, if you talk about it just for just

1639
01:20:22,280 --> 01:20:23,240
Speaker 2: a fucking second.

1640
01:20:23,040 --> 01:20:25,080
Speaker 1: You'll be like, like she did.

1641
01:20:25,720 --> 01:20:29,120
Speaker 2: Oh, you see it as clearly this man acted out

1642
01:20:29,120 --> 01:20:31,439
Speaker 2: of trauma and you're worried, like, where the fuck does

1643
01:20:31,439 --> 01:20:32,200
Speaker 2: that come from?

1644
01:20:32,840 --> 01:20:35,000
Speaker 1: I just see it as he was out of.

1645
01:20:35,000 --> 01:20:38,120
Speaker 2: Pocket, or maybe I'll see it as hey, I'm glad

1646
01:20:38,120 --> 01:20:41,240
Speaker 2: he slapped him. Whatever you see it as. It's only

1647
01:20:41,280 --> 01:20:43,479
Speaker 2: through communicating with some respect, you're gonna.

1648
01:20:43,320 --> 01:20:47,799
Speaker 3: Get there with respect, and the Internet is not about respect.

1649
01:20:48,040 --> 01:20:49,720
Speaker 2: Trey says, thank you for doing the episode on the

1650
01:20:49,720 --> 01:20:51,599
Speaker 2: Slap visit that Ryder Karen all I can say about

1651
01:20:51,640 --> 01:20:53,920
Speaker 2: the situations that Will had a human moment at one

1652
01:20:53,920 --> 01:20:56,040
Speaker 2: of the worst times when he was about to have

1653
01:20:56,120 --> 01:20:58,240
Speaker 2: one of the greatest times winning his first Oscar in

1654
01:20:58,280 --> 01:21:01,000
Speaker 2: his career. Now, I don't agree with that actually slapping Chrisy.

1655
01:21:01,200 --> 01:21:03,439
Speaker 2: To me, just cussing him out is effective enough.

1656
01:21:03,640 --> 01:21:04,559
Speaker 1: But to each his own.

1657
01:21:04,720 --> 01:21:05,040
Speaker 4: Lol.

1658
01:21:05,120 --> 01:21:07,880
Speaker 2: I totally agree with anyone with everyone who was worried

1659
01:21:07,920 --> 01:21:10,640
Speaker 2: about Will, but it's also showed he is human like

1660
01:21:10,680 --> 01:21:11,240
Speaker 2: the rest of us.

1661
01:21:11,280 --> 01:21:13,439
Speaker 1: Unfortunately his actions weren't the right move.

1662
01:21:13,479 --> 01:21:17,920
Speaker 2: But the quote Rock I understand it though, Yeah, And honestly, dude,

1663
01:21:17,960 --> 01:21:20,640
Speaker 2: like what's been lost in this conversation because you know,

1664
01:21:21,240 --> 01:21:24,280
Speaker 2: it's the biggest person in the room and the most

1665
01:21:24,280 --> 01:21:27,320
Speaker 2: egregious thing is Will Smith. I do worry about Chris

1666
01:21:27,400 --> 01:21:31,200
Speaker 2: Rock in this like, like I get that, you know,

1667
01:21:31,240 --> 01:21:33,200
Speaker 2: the internet that's turned into some Q and noon shit

1668
01:21:33,280 --> 01:21:35,559
Speaker 2: looking up every single clip from his career to see

1669
01:21:35,560 --> 01:21:37,519
Speaker 2: if they can like take it out of context or

1670
01:21:37,960 --> 01:21:40,120
Speaker 2: put it in a context that makes this like a

1671
01:21:40,320 --> 01:21:48,000
Speaker 2: very methodical, malicious, planned out attempt to destroy Jada Pinkett

1672
01:21:48,040 --> 01:21:50,960
Speaker 2: in front of the White Man, you know, which is

1673
01:21:51,240 --> 01:21:53,639
Speaker 2: definitely one way to interpret the shit. I think it's

1674
01:21:53,960 --> 01:21:56,200
Speaker 2: probably the most malicious way to interpret it, you know,

1675
01:21:56,320 --> 01:21:57,439
Speaker 2: but that's people's right.

1676
01:21:58,120 --> 01:22:01,880
Speaker 1: But the main thing for me is, like that has

1677
01:22:01,920 --> 01:22:03,519
Speaker 1: to be a fucked up thing.

1678
01:22:03,600 --> 01:22:06,120
Speaker 2: The experience is a fifty something year old black dude

1679
01:22:06,200 --> 01:22:09,799
Speaker 2: that you know, probably thought you were in a space

1680
01:22:09,840 --> 01:22:14,360
Speaker 2: where you could it would be understood by other performers,

1681
01:22:15,880 --> 01:22:18,960
Speaker 2: with other people having done similar things that throughout the

1682
01:22:19,080 --> 01:22:20,840
Speaker 2: years at these shows, what you.

1683
01:22:20,800 --> 01:22:21,880
Speaker 1: Even haven't hosted one.

1684
01:22:22,280 --> 01:22:25,080
Speaker 2: He probably thought, yeah, this is like the job, and

1685
01:22:25,160 --> 01:22:27,559
Speaker 2: the job is I pick on the people in the audience,

1686
01:22:28,360 --> 01:22:30,880
Speaker 2: And to him, he thought it was light work and

1687
01:22:32,360 --> 01:22:34,120
Speaker 2: he didn't know there was a context of.

1688
01:22:34,120 --> 01:22:37,479
Speaker 1: You that in it that was gonna be about Jada's disability.

1689
01:22:39,000 --> 01:22:41,839
Speaker 2: And I'm not even gonna argue over the people equivalent

1690
01:22:41,920 --> 01:22:44,719
Speaker 2: over the alopecia disability thing, so they can be dismissive.

1691
01:22:44,840 --> 01:22:46,519
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna argue if y'all say it is, it is.

1692
01:22:47,000 --> 01:22:52,479
Speaker 2: But the thing for me is, I don't think that

1693
01:22:52,680 --> 01:22:58,200
Speaker 2: justifies hitting him. I really, you know, I think the

1694
01:22:58,240 --> 01:23:00,599
Speaker 2: only way you can really justify is if you look

1695
01:23:00,640 --> 01:23:02,799
Speaker 2: at it as a lens of this man been talking

1696
01:23:02,840 --> 01:23:05,760
Speaker 2: shit about this woman for X amount of time and

1697
01:23:05,760 --> 01:23:09,000
Speaker 2: her husband got tired of it. That's the only lens

1698
01:23:09,040 --> 01:23:11,960
Speaker 2: I can see where people feel a justification this shit of,

1699
01:23:12,080 --> 01:23:16,040
Speaker 2: just like alopicia's just the hot button topic, what we're

1700
01:23:16,080 --> 01:23:20,759
Speaker 2: hitting people is probably not true, unfortunately, not even unfortunately

1701
01:23:20,800 --> 01:23:21,080
Speaker 2: I don't.

1702
01:23:21,200 --> 01:23:21,439
Speaker 1: I don't.

1703
01:23:21,520 --> 01:23:24,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, we shouldn't be just hitting motherfuckers, but yeah, it's

1704
01:23:24,960 --> 01:23:30,720
Speaker 2: just that's not that's probably not what happened. But yeah,

1705
01:23:30,760 --> 01:23:32,920
Speaker 2: but we all need to also admit that people try

1706
01:23:33,000 --> 01:23:35,360
Speaker 2: sometimes every day each and every day and it's a

1707
01:23:35,360 --> 01:23:36,799
Speaker 2: struggle not to want to check that person.

1708
01:23:36,920 --> 01:23:38,680
Speaker 1: Oh, I think we all. I don't think anyone had

1709
01:23:38,680 --> 01:23:38,920
Speaker 1: a problem.

1710
01:23:38,960 --> 01:23:42,120
Speaker 2: AD meant that not condoning but any physical violence. But

1711
01:23:42,120 --> 01:23:44,519
Speaker 2: I completely understand what's frustration with himself in that moment.

1712
01:23:44,640 --> 01:23:46,320
Speaker 2: In the end, you have to find a way to

1713
01:23:46,360 --> 01:23:49,320
Speaker 2: either walk away, meditate, screaming and car breathe through it,

1714
01:23:49,360 --> 01:23:51,920
Speaker 2: tell yourself affirmations, or plainly get some fresh air, do.

1715
01:23:51,880 --> 01:23:54,160
Speaker 1: Whatever so you don't lose that part of yourself.

1716
01:23:55,000 --> 01:23:58,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, if there are career repercussions for this, I mean

1717
01:23:58,439 --> 01:24:02,120
Speaker 2: you kind of have to understand, because what everyone that

1718
01:24:02,520 --> 01:24:04,719
Speaker 2: everyone who's trying to excuse us like it's just another

1719
01:24:04,800 --> 01:24:07,680
Speaker 2: day at the office. Let this man be on the

1720
01:24:07,720 --> 01:24:11,759
Speaker 2: set of any fucking movie and hit somebody for any reason.

1721
01:24:13,080 --> 01:24:16,280
Speaker 2: At some point, it would be like, oop, that's because

1722
01:24:16,360 --> 01:24:20,800
Speaker 2: nothing happened that first time. We all just went great job,

1723
01:24:21,000 --> 01:24:23,400
Speaker 2: clapped form when he won the award and said there's

1724
01:24:23,439 --> 01:24:26,240
Speaker 2: nothing to see here. And then when the motherfucker slapped

1725
01:24:26,280 --> 01:24:29,840
Speaker 2: a fucking intern or some shit, we're gonna be like, oh, yeah,

1726
01:24:30,360 --> 01:24:32,720
Speaker 2: it's probably not good to go around slapping people to

1727
01:24:32,720 --> 01:24:34,880
Speaker 2: resolve your problems.

1728
01:24:35,040 --> 01:24:35,720
Speaker 1: You know, like it.

1729
01:24:36,680 --> 01:24:39,800
Speaker 2: There's levels to this shit, and as an organization, yeah,

1730
01:24:39,800 --> 01:24:42,360
Speaker 2: the OSCARS has to do something because, like I said,

1731
01:24:42,720 --> 01:24:45,439
Speaker 2: we're only thinking of the people we like. No one's

1732
01:24:45,479 --> 01:24:47,960
Speaker 2: thinking of what happens when it's the other way around,

1733
01:24:47,960 --> 01:24:52,919
Speaker 2: when it's just some motherfucker, when it's someone called somebody

1734
01:24:53,000 --> 01:24:56,599
Speaker 2: something that we agree with, you know, where it's like, uh,

1735
01:24:56,800 --> 01:25:00,240
Speaker 2: I don't know someone's next year, someone makes it joke

1736
01:25:00,280 --> 01:25:03,280
Speaker 2: that Alec Baldwin shot that woman and jokes that he's

1737
01:25:03,280 --> 01:25:05,559
Speaker 2: a murder. Ricky Gervay says that, and Ali Balwin goes

1738
01:25:05,600 --> 01:25:08,519
Speaker 2: on stage and fucking Stompson will be like, oh yeah,

1739
01:25:08,640 --> 01:25:11,519
Speaker 2: that's why the fuck is that? Okay, you can't do that.

1740
01:25:12,280 --> 01:25:13,840
Speaker 2: Now you don't have to like the joke. You can

1741
01:25:13,880 --> 01:25:16,160
Speaker 2: get up and leave, but you can't just be up

1742
01:25:16,160 --> 01:25:19,000
Speaker 2: here running up on people. Like That's what people don't

1743
01:25:19,040 --> 01:25:21,599
Speaker 2: understand because they never run shit, right.

1744
01:25:21,720 --> 01:25:23,400
Speaker 1: You know. It's that thing I was telling people about

1745
01:25:23,439 --> 01:25:24,200
Speaker 1: the NBA and the.

1746
01:25:24,240 --> 01:25:27,960
Speaker 2: NFL where people were like, I just don't understand why

1747
01:25:28,040 --> 01:25:31,640
Speaker 2: can't players protest during the game, like you can, but

1748
01:25:31,680 --> 01:25:34,200
Speaker 2: there has to be repercussions. Well, I gotta be repercussions.

1749
01:25:34,200 --> 01:25:38,840
Speaker 2: I'm like, because you're thinking of Cabernet. What you're not

1750
01:25:38,880 --> 01:25:41,920
Speaker 2: thinking of is the guy who wants to go out

1751
01:25:41,920 --> 01:25:44,400
Speaker 2: there and say, like, I want to play the game,

1752
01:25:44,520 --> 01:25:47,320
Speaker 2: my magacleats, And you're not thinking that a guy who's

1753
01:25:47,360 --> 01:25:51,439
Speaker 2: like Tim Tebow who thinks abortion is murder and wants to,

1754
01:25:52,080 --> 01:25:54,840
Speaker 2: you know, do some type of symbolic thing for that

1755
01:25:54,920 --> 01:25:56,439
Speaker 2: every time he gets on the field, because at some

1756
01:25:56,439 --> 01:25:57,800
Speaker 2: point we're gonna be like, man, if you don't sit

1757
01:25:57,840 --> 01:26:00,400
Speaker 2: your motherfucking ass down to throw the football, shut up

1758
01:26:00,400 --> 01:26:00,840
Speaker 2: in trouble.

1759
01:26:01,479 --> 01:26:03,719
Speaker 3: Because we don't, we go we're gonna beat those people.

1760
01:26:03,720 --> 01:26:06,519
Speaker 4: And it's also one of those things too, to where

1761
01:26:06,600 --> 01:26:09,280
Speaker 4: these are working environments. It's just like at your job,

1762
01:26:09,479 --> 01:26:11,760
Speaker 4: you're not allowed to just do any and everything and

1763
01:26:11,840 --> 01:26:14,920
Speaker 4: have rules of regulations to protect everybody. It's like most

1764
01:26:15,000 --> 01:26:18,439
Speaker 4: jobs like keep the motherfucking blank, don't be talking about religion,

1765
01:26:18,560 --> 01:26:22,280
Speaker 4: don't be talking about COVID, Come here, do your motherfucking job.

1766
01:26:22,400 --> 01:26:23,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, we all.

1767
01:26:23,320 --> 01:26:23,840
Speaker 1: That's the thing.

1768
01:26:24,320 --> 01:26:26,439
Speaker 2: It's not that you can't do it, it's just we

1769
01:26:26,600 --> 01:26:30,080
Speaker 2: understand why there's consequences. And it's when I agree with something,

1770
01:26:30,080 --> 01:26:32,000
Speaker 2: I'm like, I don't want them to be consequences. When

1771
01:26:32,000 --> 01:26:35,400
Speaker 2: I disagree, I'll be like someone come get dismissed. And

1772
01:26:35,479 --> 01:26:38,000
Speaker 2: so that's what's happening is that people are spinning it

1773
01:26:38,040 --> 01:26:40,519
Speaker 2: into well, I kind of want people to get hit

1774
01:26:40,560 --> 01:26:43,040
Speaker 2: from making these jokes, and I'm like, I feel you.

1775
01:26:43,920 --> 01:26:48,760
Speaker 2: It's just when it's when it's when you disagree. How

1776
01:26:48,920 --> 01:26:50,439
Speaker 2: are you gonna stand on this principle?

1777
01:26:51,160 --> 01:26:51,439
Speaker 3: Right?

1778
01:26:51,920 --> 01:26:53,800
Speaker 1: You know, if it was Will, if it was.

1779
01:26:53,880 --> 01:26:58,040
Speaker 2: Chris Rock making a joke about some racial shit in

1780
01:26:58,080 --> 01:27:01,080
Speaker 2: the audience that really happened, calling some white person a

1781
01:27:01,160 --> 01:27:03,160
Speaker 2: racist or something, are you going.

1782
01:27:03,120 --> 01:27:05,080
Speaker 1: To be like, yeah, well he made the joke.

1783
01:27:05,280 --> 01:27:08,400
Speaker 2: I mean, he knew he could get punched for calling

1784
01:27:08,760 --> 01:27:11,760
Speaker 2: Harvey Weinstein a rapist. And you're just like, nah, I

1785
01:27:11,760 --> 01:27:13,880
Speaker 2: don't think so. I think there has to be some

1786
01:27:14,080 --> 01:27:17,080
Speaker 2: level of like it's understood that you.

1787
01:27:17,000 --> 01:27:21,559
Speaker 1: Can't be hitting motherfuckers. Let's see the Oh.

1788
01:27:21,680 --> 01:27:23,720
Speaker 2: Also, I can't agree enough with the black folks who

1789
01:27:23,720 --> 01:27:25,920
Speaker 2: told white folks not to get involved because we all

1790
01:27:26,000 --> 01:27:28,360
Speaker 2: knew they would take it there, and like clockwork, they

1791
01:27:28,360 --> 01:27:30,960
Speaker 2: took it there. Ella where everybody involved in the situation

1792
01:27:31,040 --> 01:27:33,679
Speaker 2: is black, even the producers. It's not about y'all white America.

1793
01:27:33,720 --> 01:27:36,200
Speaker 2: Thanks again, Rod of Karen, Yeah, the Oscars will always

1794
01:27:36,240 --> 01:27:37,120
Speaker 2: be about white America.

1795
01:27:37,200 --> 01:27:40,559
Speaker 1: There's no way to Like I said, we all are.

1796
01:27:40,439 --> 01:27:44,720
Speaker 2: Spending our stories to fit how we feel. But you

1797
01:27:44,800 --> 01:27:47,920
Speaker 2: can't make this a black only thing and one because

1798
01:27:47,920 --> 01:27:50,840
Speaker 2: you don't have the power to do it. And of

1799
01:27:50,880 --> 01:27:54,479
Speaker 2: course white people came in with the extra punitive justice.

1800
01:27:54,720 --> 01:27:58,320
Speaker 2: Of course that's all they know, Like what white people

1801
01:27:58,400 --> 01:28:02,439
Speaker 2: want black people to go to prison like white people.

1802
01:28:02,880 --> 01:28:03,000
Speaker 3: You know.

1803
01:28:03,120 --> 01:28:05,080
Speaker 2: I also think it's funny when people say it's not

1804
01:28:05,120 --> 01:28:07,639
Speaker 2: traumatizing to see that happen in front of you. You're

1805
01:28:07,640 --> 01:28:09,600
Speaker 2: talking about the most sensitive people on a planet, a

1806
01:28:09,600 --> 01:28:13,799
Speaker 2: bunch of fucking artists in a room witnessing actual violence,

1807
01:28:13,880 --> 01:28:16,760
Speaker 2: not that playplace shit they do at work, Like yeah,

1808
01:28:16,760 --> 01:28:18,800
Speaker 2: they traumatized dog and some of them and they know

1809
01:28:18,920 --> 01:28:22,040
Speaker 2: them people, unlike your stranger ass that's been traumatized all

1810
01:28:22,080 --> 01:28:23,280
Speaker 2: week arguing with niggas.

1811
01:28:23,520 --> 01:28:25,959
Speaker 1: They actually are friends, been to their house and shit.

1812
01:28:25,840 --> 01:28:28,840
Speaker 2: Like yeah they Wanda Sykes might be traumatized by the

1813
01:28:28,960 --> 01:28:33,479
Speaker 2: mentor by her mentor being slapped by dude that she

1814
01:28:33,560 --> 01:28:36,640
Speaker 2: thought was pretty cool and doing the job that she

1815
01:28:36,800 --> 01:28:39,880
Speaker 2: does for a living, Like like, I, yes, that is

1816
01:28:39,920 --> 01:28:43,920
Speaker 2: a valid reason. You niggas believe words are violence, but

1817
01:28:43,960 --> 01:28:46,959
Speaker 2: you don't believe violence is violence and traumatic?

1818
01:28:47,280 --> 01:28:49,080
Speaker 1: What kind of sense does that make?

1819
01:28:49,640 --> 01:28:49,840
Speaker 3: Right?

1820
01:28:50,040 --> 01:28:54,320
Speaker 2: None Heavyweight says, in my experience, I find most adults

1821
01:28:54,400 --> 01:28:57,360
Speaker 2: are averse to real violence. Having worked security at enough

1822
01:28:57,479 --> 01:29:00,479
Speaker 2: urban venues, the type of grown ups that are about

1823
01:29:00,479 --> 01:29:02,400
Speaker 2: that slap of nigga life aren't the ones writing thing

1824
01:29:02,439 --> 01:29:05,240
Speaker 2: pieces on Twitter. Great point hell, even being trained to

1825
01:29:05,240 --> 01:29:07,880
Speaker 2: handle it, I still prefer to de escalate because what

1826
01:29:08,000 --> 01:29:09,760
Speaker 2: I have to lose far out way is what I

1827
01:29:09,800 --> 01:29:10,360
Speaker 2: have to gain.

1828
01:29:10,600 --> 01:29:12,280
Speaker 1: Brother, you speak in my language.

1829
01:29:12,439 --> 01:29:15,160
Speaker 2: That's why I love seeing Chris eat that slap, suppresses urge,

1830
01:29:15,200 --> 01:29:17,920
Speaker 2: swing back and swallow the comebacks that I'm sure Kane

1831
01:29:17,920 --> 01:29:18,559
Speaker 2: to his mind with.

1832
01:29:19,240 --> 01:29:22,720
Speaker 1: I could well, okay, yeah.

1833
01:29:22,040 --> 01:29:26,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, I listened to Jenkins and johnes Letos dudes, but

1834
01:29:26,760 --> 01:29:28,960
Speaker 2: they had like a twenty minute session just kind of

1835
01:29:28,960 --> 01:29:32,920
Speaker 2: clowning Chris Rock and justifying like all that shit, and

1836
01:29:33,520 --> 01:29:37,080
Speaker 2: I'm like, I don't know, there is something noble in

1837
01:29:37,160 --> 01:29:41,519
Speaker 2: him not escalating and returning to violence and kin and

1838
01:29:41,560 --> 01:29:45,280
Speaker 2: then really causing extreme disturbance that's even more than what

1839
01:29:45,360 --> 01:29:45,760
Speaker 2: it was.

1840
01:29:46,960 --> 01:29:51,759
Speaker 4: Yes, yes, And the thing is people are only looking

1841
01:29:51,800 --> 01:29:55,600
Speaker 4: at it from will Smith slapped him, but there was

1842
01:29:55,640 --> 01:29:58,080
Speaker 4: somebody on the receiving end of that slap, and so

1843
01:29:58,160 --> 01:30:00,360
Speaker 4: they both will be impacted forever about this.

1844
01:30:00,400 --> 01:30:03,479
Speaker 3: Lot of people have to realize this. So Chris Rock has.

1845
01:30:03,360 --> 01:30:06,040
Speaker 4: To live with this literally being on the internet for

1846
01:30:06,160 --> 01:30:08,520
Speaker 4: the rest of his career and the rest.

1847
01:30:08,240 --> 01:30:09,040
Speaker 3: Of his life.

1848
01:30:09,640 --> 01:30:12,559
Speaker 4: Like and people act like that shit don't mean nothing,

1849
01:30:13,160 --> 01:30:14,960
Speaker 4: you know, but it actually does.

1850
01:30:15,040 --> 01:30:16,160
Speaker 3: Because I've been.

1851
01:30:16,080 --> 01:30:20,800
Speaker 4: Slapped and it's not fun, and you know, it's in

1852
01:30:20,880 --> 01:30:23,240
Speaker 4: the situation where I couldn't respond.

1853
01:30:23,800 --> 01:30:25,080
Speaker 1: Think about this, Think about this.

1854
01:30:26,400 --> 01:30:29,320
Speaker 2: People are saying it's not traumatic to witness that violence

1855
01:30:29,360 --> 01:30:34,559
Speaker 2: in person. The reason Will Smith acted the way he did,

1856
01:30:34,680 --> 01:30:37,439
Speaker 2: many of us believes, because he witnessed that kind of

1857
01:30:37,479 --> 01:30:41,040
Speaker 2: shit in person. And we don't know everybody's fucking history

1858
01:30:41,080 --> 01:30:43,120
Speaker 2: in that room. We don't know where that took them

1859
01:30:43,160 --> 01:30:45,599
Speaker 2: back to. We don't know what they've experienced in their life.

1860
01:30:45,720 --> 01:30:48,760
Speaker 2: It is just fucking stupid to be so attached to

1861
01:30:48,800 --> 01:30:51,920
Speaker 2: your narrative, so attached to the outcome that you work

1862
01:30:52,000 --> 01:30:56,439
Speaker 2: backwards to dismiss everything that every fact that doesn't make

1863
01:30:56,479 --> 01:30:59,479
Speaker 2: sense for you, for you to be outraged, like.

1864
01:30:59,720 --> 01:31:02,680
Speaker 1: It's okay to be like, yeah, maybe these people are

1865
01:31:02,880 --> 01:31:03,400
Speaker 1: you know what say?

1866
01:31:03,600 --> 01:31:08,800
Speaker 2: People forget that Republican black woman Sherry Sheppard. I'm sorry,

1867
01:31:08,800 --> 01:31:10,479
Speaker 2: I forget which one, but one of them came out.

1868
01:31:10,479 --> 01:31:12,639
Speaker 2: I was like, I'm worried now that comedy is gonna

1869
01:31:12,640 --> 01:31:15,360
Speaker 2: be blah blah blah. And people's like, oh, bitch, you traumatized?

1870
01:31:15,479 --> 01:31:18,559
Speaker 2: How And I'm like, but low key, she is worried

1871
01:31:18,600 --> 01:31:21,800
Speaker 2: because she's doing that job and she's she's never thought

1872
01:31:21,840 --> 01:31:24,800
Speaker 2: about this before. And if you know anything about comedians,

1873
01:31:25,040 --> 01:31:28,280
Speaker 2: they don't have security. Go to any comic comedy club

1874
01:31:28,280 --> 01:31:31,760
Speaker 2: in America. They ain't thinking about like the social contractors

1875
01:31:31,760 --> 01:31:36,200
Speaker 2: that you share underwe thank you, sorry Share Sheppard, Sorry

1876
01:31:36,240 --> 01:31:40,240
Speaker 2: about that. The social contractors that you don't run up

1877
01:31:40,280 --> 01:31:43,000
Speaker 2: on there that I get to try this. Maybe I'm

1878
01:31:43,040 --> 01:31:45,360
Speaker 2: not good at it, maybe you don't like it, but

1879
01:31:45,439 --> 01:31:48,840
Speaker 2: you don't hurt me for not liking it, you know

1880
01:31:48,880 --> 01:31:51,320
Speaker 2: what I mean. That's what the social contract has been.

1881
01:31:51,600 --> 01:31:54,920
Speaker 2: So yeah, us all pretending for a week that yeah,

1882
01:31:54,960 --> 01:31:57,000
Speaker 2: actually it is okay for us to hit you, for

1883
01:31:57,040 --> 01:31:58,880
Speaker 2: someone to come on stage and hit you and then.

1884
01:31:58,880 --> 01:32:01,640
Speaker 1: Go what you you triggered, you traumatized.

1885
01:32:01,760 --> 01:32:04,360
Speaker 2: All of you are acting this way because you claim

1886
01:32:04,360 --> 01:32:08,040
Speaker 2: to be traumatized and triggered by by whether it's alopecia,

1887
01:32:08,640 --> 01:32:12,320
Speaker 2: black women not being protected enough, a man.

1888
01:32:12,600 --> 01:32:13,599
Speaker 1: Questioning your wife.

1889
01:32:13,720 --> 01:32:17,080
Speaker 2: You're all justifying being triggered and leading through trauma.

1890
01:32:17,120 --> 01:32:18,840
Speaker 1: But no one else can have trauma.

1891
01:32:18,520 --> 01:32:21,400
Speaker 2: When you're in the building because there's only enough room

1892
01:32:21,439 --> 01:32:23,000
Speaker 2: for just whatever narrative you have.

1893
01:32:23,120 --> 01:32:26,519
Speaker 4: It's ridiculous, right, And it's also one of those things

1894
01:32:26,560 --> 01:32:29,519
Speaker 4: where people at work, and so for a lot of

1895
01:32:29,520 --> 01:32:32,320
Speaker 4: comedians that go, well, I'm at work, so that's like

1896
01:32:32,439 --> 01:32:34,120
Speaker 4: you going to your job, doing your work, and I

1897
01:32:34,160 --> 01:32:36,360
Speaker 4: was saying, somebody just next the fucking shit out of

1898
01:32:36,400 --> 01:32:37,519
Speaker 4: you while you're on the clock.

1899
01:32:37,760 --> 01:32:40,879
Speaker 1: Right, It's conflict is not abuse. Man, Go read that book.

1900
01:32:41,360 --> 01:32:44,080
Speaker 2: It's the hardest book, probably the hardest book I've ever read,

1901
01:32:44,760 --> 01:32:48,080
Speaker 2: and it just changed my entire worldview about how I

1902
01:32:48,160 --> 01:32:51,600
Speaker 2: look at conflict, how I look at trauma, how I

1903
01:32:51,640 --> 01:32:55,599
Speaker 2: look at how I look at the just the way

1904
01:32:55,640 --> 01:32:58,360
Speaker 2: we resolve shit. It changed everything for my life. So

1905
01:32:59,280 --> 01:33:02,080
Speaker 2: I will always recommend that book is tough. Most of

1906
01:33:02,160 --> 01:33:04,200
Speaker 2: y'all not gonna get through it, or it's gonna you're

1907
01:33:04,240 --> 01:33:08,160
Speaker 2: gonna find it challenging, But conflict is not abuse. I

1908
01:33:08,200 --> 01:33:13,160
Speaker 2: believe It's by Sarah Shulman was such a it changed

1909
01:33:13,160 --> 01:33:15,960
Speaker 2: my world. I was just like, Okay, yes, I see

1910
01:33:16,120 --> 01:33:19,519
Speaker 2: how I've bought into some things that are just simply

1911
01:33:19,560 --> 01:33:22,479
Speaker 2: not true and I and I'm letting people around me

1912
01:33:23,360 --> 01:33:26,200
Speaker 2: make me believe that this is a normal way to

1913
01:33:26,320 --> 01:33:29,360
Speaker 2: conduct life. And it's not like I understand the world

1914
01:33:29,439 --> 01:33:32,960
Speaker 2: is fucked up, but we cannot be leading through trauma

1915
01:33:33,479 --> 01:33:35,400
Speaker 2: that we have not resolved.

1916
01:33:35,080 --> 01:33:38,000
Speaker 1: Or whatever and be like, no, it's the world's fault.

1917
01:33:38,439 --> 01:33:42,680
Speaker 2: Mm hmm, because in that case, you start like everyone

1918
01:33:43,000 --> 01:33:46,519
Speaker 2: with power downatic starts making slippery slopes. I hear my wife,

1919
01:33:46,520 --> 01:33:50,360
Speaker 2: because something happened to me, you know what I mean, Like, hey,

1920
01:33:50,439 --> 01:33:53,559
Speaker 2: it's my trauma. Like everyone in the room has trauma,

1921
01:33:53,600 --> 01:33:57,920
Speaker 2: and everyone's thinking I get to lead nah nah ms,

1922
01:33:57,960 --> 01:33:59,639
Speaker 2: Marr says. Man, it's not a thing. It's a tough call.

1923
01:33:59,680 --> 01:34:01,360
Speaker 2: I mean, I have been that mad and my skin

1924
01:34:01,439 --> 01:34:03,519
Speaker 2: is paper thin when it comes to certain subjects. However,

1925
01:34:03,840 --> 01:34:05,720
Speaker 2: Chris was at his job, doing his job, and him

1926
01:34:05,720 --> 01:34:08,400
Speaker 2: deciding if he should engage this nigga moment. Shout out

1927
01:34:08,400 --> 01:34:11,040
Speaker 2: to boondocks. My timeline has been the whole ghetto with

1928
01:34:11,040 --> 01:34:13,479
Speaker 2: the worst high takes so I made the sign of

1929
01:34:13,520 --> 01:34:15,880
Speaker 2: the Cross on my phone and I pad it closed it.

1930
01:34:16,200 --> 01:34:17,880
Speaker 2: I was so glad that you and Karen had a

1931
01:34:17,880 --> 01:34:20,639
Speaker 2: thoughtful of discussion with excellent points. You both did not disappoint.

1932
01:34:20,680 --> 01:34:24,519
Speaker 2: Thank you so much, Thank you. DC says there have

1933
01:34:24,640 --> 01:34:27,559
Speaker 2: been numerous comedians who call themselves edgy that feels something

1934
01:34:27,600 --> 01:34:27,960
Speaker 2: like this.

1935
01:34:27,880 --> 01:34:28,759
Speaker 1: Puts them in danger.

1936
01:34:29,040 --> 01:34:31,920
Speaker 2: I don't think anyone should commit violence, but what makes

1937
01:34:31,920 --> 01:34:35,559
Speaker 2: them edgy? I remember a couple of years ago in Europe,

1938
01:34:35,680 --> 01:34:38,880
Speaker 2: someone wrote something that people felt offended allah and the

1939
01:34:38,960 --> 01:34:40,680
Speaker 2: next thing, you know, the paper had that published the

1940
01:34:40,760 --> 01:34:43,000
Speaker 2: article was bombed. I think the people who published that

1941
01:34:43,160 --> 01:34:45,200
Speaker 2: knew to violence as possible, but they did it anyway.

1942
01:34:45,560 --> 01:34:47,839
Speaker 2: That was brave on that part in edgy. This incident

1943
01:34:47,960 --> 01:34:51,519
Speaker 2: is not to that extent. Yeah, that's fine, but you

1944
01:34:51,520 --> 01:34:52,519
Speaker 2: ain't getting slapped at work.

1945
01:34:52,600 --> 01:34:54,439
Speaker 1: DC. I'm sorry, but like.

1946
01:34:54,400 --> 01:34:57,320
Speaker 2: It's just like I said, man, it's this thing of

1947
01:34:57,400 --> 01:34:59,840
Speaker 2: like we need to dismiss everything that's happened. No, man,

1948
01:35:00,400 --> 01:35:02,439
Speaker 2: it's gonna be traumatic for Chris Rock. It might not

1949
01:35:02,439 --> 01:35:03,559
Speaker 2: be traumatic for you at home.

1950
01:35:03,640 --> 01:35:06,160
Speaker 1: I don't know. But if a nigga slap come in

1951
01:35:06,200 --> 01:35:07,920
Speaker 1: this podcast right now and slap.

1952
01:35:07,680 --> 01:35:10,200
Speaker 2: The shit out of me. Uh, I'm gonna feel a

1953
01:35:10,200 --> 01:35:11,840
Speaker 2: way about it, and I don't.

1954
01:35:12,439 --> 01:35:15,320
Speaker 4: Yes, I am, I'm going to feel a motherfucking way

1955
01:35:15,400 --> 01:35:15,880
Speaker 4: about it.

1956
01:35:16,000 --> 01:35:20,400
Speaker 2: And I don't think Chris Rock would he in that moment,

1957
01:35:20,479 --> 01:35:23,760
Speaker 2: did not think he was being edgy. If anything, we

1958
01:35:23,920 --> 01:35:27,120
Speaker 2: most of us thought the jokes would kind of whack, like, no,

1959
01:35:27,479 --> 01:35:29,360
Speaker 2: it's kind of dad jokes, you know what I mean.

1960
01:35:29,479 --> 01:35:32,040
Speaker 2: But yeah, so I don't think he thought he was

1961
01:35:32,040 --> 01:35:35,080
Speaker 2: being edgy, even if that's what ended up happening. But

1962
01:35:35,200 --> 01:35:37,639
Speaker 2: do the same thing that made a comedian edgy back

1963
01:35:37,640 --> 01:35:40,720
Speaker 2: in the day still apply in twenty twenty two. No, no,

1964
01:35:40,920 --> 01:35:43,240
Speaker 2: not on the internet anyway. The Internet is the opposite

1965
01:35:43,280 --> 01:35:43,679
Speaker 2: of comedy.

1966
01:35:43,680 --> 01:35:45,400
Speaker 3: It's yes, it is, right.

1967
01:35:45,680 --> 01:35:48,600
Speaker 4: That's why the Internet in comedy don't always you know,

1968
01:35:48,720 --> 01:35:51,320
Speaker 4: That's why it's always a constant conflict between comedians and

1969
01:35:51,320 --> 01:35:53,680
Speaker 4: the Internet and all that shit, just because they're on

1970
01:35:53,760 --> 01:35:56,519
Speaker 4: two opposite end of the spectrums. And actually they're not funny.

1971
01:35:56,520 --> 01:35:58,240
Speaker 4: The actually don't need to fuck with each other. But

1972
01:35:58,320 --> 01:36:00,559
Speaker 4: you know, it's the Internet. So that's the part of

1973
01:36:00,600 --> 01:36:01,920
Speaker 4: the social pot of social media.

1974
01:36:02,520 --> 01:36:02,760
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1975
01:36:02,760 --> 01:36:03,320
Speaker 1: I saw.

1976
01:36:05,160 --> 01:36:09,559
Speaker 2: Earthquake Special and I thought it was good, but it

1977
01:36:09,640 --> 01:36:12,040
Speaker 2: also has a bunch of shit in there that I'm like, Yeah,

1978
01:36:12,080 --> 01:36:13,960
Speaker 2: you can't like repeat that on the internet.

1979
01:36:15,000 --> 01:36:17,120
Speaker 1: Can't share that shit out of context a lot of context.

1980
01:36:17,160 --> 01:36:20,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, it was actually hilarious.

1981
01:36:20,640 --> 01:36:21,360
Speaker 1: Killed in the crowd.

1982
01:36:21,400 --> 01:36:24,679
Speaker 2: He's a consumer professional, he's worked rooms and shipped for decades.

1983
01:36:24,760 --> 01:36:26,839
Speaker 1: He knows what he's doing well. He's a great comedian.

1984
01:36:27,200 --> 01:36:29,439
Speaker 2: And at the same time, if I took a thirty

1985
01:36:29,479 --> 01:36:32,040
Speaker 2: second clip and put that shit on Twitter, people will

1986
01:36:32,080 --> 01:36:34,040
Speaker 2: have problems because Twitter is the opposite of comedy. It's

1987
01:36:34,080 --> 01:36:37,080
Speaker 2: about taking shit out of context. And and I don't

1988
01:36:37,120 --> 01:36:39,439
Speaker 2: feel like we're exceptions for that. The people listening to

1989
01:36:39,479 --> 01:36:44,160
Speaker 2: the show right now understand us in a context because

1990
01:36:44,200 --> 01:36:45,880
Speaker 2: they listen to a long form podcast.

1991
01:36:46,240 --> 01:36:47,840
Speaker 1: You take thirty seconds from the show and put it.

1992
01:36:47,840 --> 01:36:50,880
Speaker 2: On the internet, there's a bunch of thirty second clips

1993
01:36:50,920 --> 01:36:52,479
Speaker 2: that people would be like, what the fuck is this

1994
01:36:52,520 --> 01:36:55,800
Speaker 2: show about? This sounds terrible. Wow, So they're guessing the

1995
01:36:55,880 --> 01:36:58,519
Speaker 2: race of people involved in none. No, no, Like that's that's

1996
01:36:58,600 --> 01:37:00,280
Speaker 2: you know, So you have to be aware of that

1997
01:37:00,840 --> 01:37:03,200
Speaker 2: and willing to deal with it. But yeah, nobody can

1998
01:37:03,600 --> 01:37:06,240
Speaker 2: put their fucking hands on me for that, you know

1999
01:37:06,240 --> 01:37:06,679
Speaker 2: what I mean.

2000
01:37:06,880 --> 01:37:09,160
Speaker 1: I understand that's a risk we all run, but we

2001
01:37:09,200 --> 01:37:10,240
Speaker 1: shouldn't normalize that.

2002
01:37:10,280 --> 01:37:13,000
Speaker 2: It's like, well, and that's why it's okay, just because

2003
01:37:13,040 --> 01:37:14,760
Speaker 2: it can happen, don't make it okay, you.

2004
01:37:14,680 --> 01:37:15,479
Speaker 3: Know, right.

2005
01:37:15,640 --> 01:37:17,360
Speaker 4: And on top of that, a lot of these people

2006
01:37:17,400 --> 01:37:20,000
Speaker 4: are talking with the shit never happening to them, or

2007
01:37:20,000 --> 01:37:22,519
Speaker 4: they're in a place he or position where nobody will

2008
01:37:22,520 --> 01:37:24,600
Speaker 4: come and motherfucking punch them or put their hands on

2009
01:37:24,640 --> 01:37:26,639
Speaker 4: them and slap them. It's real easy to tell people

2010
01:37:26,720 --> 01:37:28,400
Speaker 4: that they should take it or not take it and

2011
01:37:28,439 --> 01:37:31,000
Speaker 4: respond all these different types of ways when you've never

2012
01:37:31,040 --> 01:37:34,200
Speaker 4: been placing a position where you've had to hold your

2013
01:37:34,400 --> 01:37:37,360
Speaker 4: Some people have, but the average person has not been

2014
01:37:37,400 --> 01:37:41,040
Speaker 4: on the clock where they're being motherfucking paid and somebody

2015
01:37:41,080 --> 01:37:42,759
Speaker 4: has gotten valid towards them.

2016
01:37:43,120 --> 01:37:45,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's just one of those things where it makes

2017
01:37:45,240 --> 01:37:48,800
Speaker 2: me aware of like why I say I don't why

2018
01:37:48,800 --> 01:37:51,160
Speaker 2: I don't have a lot of friends, because to me,

2019
01:37:51,280 --> 01:37:53,360
Speaker 2: a friend is not a person that will watch me

2020
01:37:53,439 --> 01:37:56,320
Speaker 2: do something like that and then tell me I didn't

2021
01:37:56,320 --> 01:38:00,000
Speaker 2: do anything wrong as I'm sigvying, as I'm telling you

2022
01:38:00,040 --> 01:38:01,960
Speaker 2: I feel terrible and I regret what I did. You

2023
01:38:01,960 --> 01:38:05,719
Speaker 2: wouldn't be telling me, Nah, it's fine. You be hopefully

2024
01:38:05,760 --> 01:38:09,120
Speaker 2: a real a real person. Someone who actually did love

2025
01:38:09,160 --> 01:38:10,920
Speaker 2: me in my life would be like, Rod, Yeah, you

2026
01:38:10,960 --> 01:38:14,320
Speaker 2: were out of control, and there's a like why why

2027
01:38:14,400 --> 01:38:17,519
Speaker 2: the way you feel right now? Where's that coming from?

2028
01:38:17,800 --> 01:38:20,280
Speaker 2: Let's talk about that. Don't tell me it's all right

2029
01:38:20,479 --> 01:38:23,519
Speaker 2: because you ain't a real friend. You're an enabler. You

2030
01:38:23,680 --> 01:38:26,080
Speaker 2: you you, you know, a yes person. You just go

2031
01:38:26,120 --> 01:38:28,720
Speaker 2: along with whatever I ain't saying. You gotta be, antime

2032
01:38:28,800 --> 01:38:31,640
Speaker 2: a devil's advocate. But like you know that that I

2033
01:38:31,720 --> 01:38:34,400
Speaker 2: talked about this yesterday. One of the reasons I realized

2034
01:38:34,560 --> 01:38:36,600
Speaker 2: Justin was a real friend. Today I realized he was

2035
01:38:36,640 --> 01:38:40,400
Speaker 2: a real friend. Was I was playing basketball. This dude

2036
01:38:41,080 --> 01:38:43,680
Speaker 2: did made us lose the game. He did some a

2037
01:38:43,800 --> 01:38:49,960
Speaker 2: very dumb play, and I remember being so fucking mad.

2038
01:38:50,560 --> 01:38:53,800
Speaker 1: It's just basketball. It's not it's not life for deafinit

2039
01:38:53,880 --> 01:38:54,760
Speaker 1: just basketball, y'all.

2040
01:38:55,360 --> 01:38:57,360
Speaker 2: And I was so mad. This is probably over ten

2041
01:38:57,439 --> 01:39:01,280
Speaker 2: years ago. I was like, man, fuck you, man. I

2042
01:39:01,400 --> 01:39:04,000
Speaker 2: he was like trying to apologize. I was like, man,

2043
01:39:04,080 --> 01:39:06,200
Speaker 2: fuck you da da da And I was like, man that, like,

2044
01:39:06,240 --> 01:39:07,360
Speaker 2: why are you tripping on him?

2045
01:39:07,400 --> 01:39:07,600
Speaker 7: Like this?

2046
01:39:07,920 --> 01:39:11,280
Speaker 2: Uh? Ironic's name is tripped. That's like, you know, like, man,

2047
01:39:11,439 --> 01:39:13,280
Speaker 2: come on, man, calm down, y'all talk to him like that.

2048
01:39:13,320 --> 01:39:15,080
Speaker 2: And I was like, nigga, don't give a fuck about him.

2049
01:39:15,080 --> 01:39:16,599
Speaker 2: I don't give a fuck. I don't give a fuck

2050
01:39:16,640 --> 01:39:18,760
Speaker 2: if you live or die. Like I said, like it

2051
01:39:18,800 --> 01:39:20,000
Speaker 2: was to me egregious.

2052
01:39:20,160 --> 01:39:20,839
Speaker 1: It was horrible.

2053
01:39:21,720 --> 01:39:24,679
Speaker 2: It was horrible and Justin at the time, we weren't

2054
01:39:24,680 --> 01:39:27,760
Speaker 2: even really that tight, but you know I said that

2055
01:39:27,800 --> 01:39:29,559
Speaker 2: and he's just a mean and was like, dude, what

2056
01:39:29,600 --> 01:39:30,800
Speaker 2: the fuck is your problem?

2057
01:39:31,080 --> 01:39:33,760
Speaker 1: And I'm like, now, fuck that dude. Man, he made

2058
01:39:33,840 --> 01:39:35,640
Speaker 1: us lose a game. You was just you was on

2059
01:39:35,680 --> 01:39:36,920
Speaker 1: the team. You saw way he d said.

2060
01:39:36,960 --> 01:39:40,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, man, but that's trip. You know, like that's a

2061
01:39:41,040 --> 01:39:43,800
Speaker 2: human bro that you know that dude. You come in here,

2062
01:39:43,840 --> 01:39:46,960
Speaker 2: you talk to him every day. This this moment of

2063
01:39:47,120 --> 01:39:48,679
Speaker 2: anger that is happening over.

2064
01:39:48,560 --> 01:39:49,479
Speaker 1: A fucking game.

2065
01:39:50,160 --> 01:39:53,680
Speaker 2: You have now said something that's to me, damn, they're unforgivable.

2066
01:39:54,320 --> 01:39:56,240
Speaker 2: And if he wouldn't have forgave me, I would have understood.

2067
01:39:57,000 --> 01:39:59,960
Speaker 2: And you know, I sat with it for a second.

2068
01:40:00,080 --> 01:40:02,800
Speaker 2: It was Justin was like, you know, took me outside

2069
01:40:03,400 --> 01:40:05,519
Speaker 2: and he's just you know, in my ear, like, dude,

2070
01:40:05,720 --> 01:40:09,120
Speaker 2: you gotta apologize as fucked up blah blah blah. I'm like, nack,

2071
01:40:09,200 --> 01:40:11,800
Speaker 2: but why did he do that? You know, like we

2072
01:40:11,840 --> 01:40:13,760
Speaker 2: was open, we could have won. You know, He's like,

2073
01:40:14,000 --> 01:40:15,000
Speaker 2: but listen to.

2074
01:40:14,960 --> 01:40:15,799
Speaker 1: What you said.

2075
01:40:16,080 --> 01:40:19,160
Speaker 2: Nah, you know, I like breathe a little bit, and

2076
01:40:19,160 --> 01:40:23,920
Speaker 2: I'm like, fuck, I did do that and that is

2077
01:40:24,000 --> 01:40:24,840
Speaker 2: not how I feel.

2078
01:40:25,240 --> 01:40:26,839
Speaker 1: And I did that to hurt his feelings.

2079
01:40:27,840 --> 01:40:30,240
Speaker 2: And you know, Trip was younger than us, and I

2080
01:40:30,280 --> 01:40:33,280
Speaker 2: know he looked up to us, and so I go,

2081
01:40:33,840 --> 01:40:35,120
Speaker 2: you know, inside and talked to him.

2082
01:40:35,160 --> 01:40:38,760
Speaker 1: I'm like, yo, man, I'm sorry, Like I was out

2083
01:40:38,800 --> 01:40:41,000
Speaker 1: of it, and he forgave me.

2084
01:40:41,840 --> 01:40:43,720
Speaker 2: And I was like, thank you because he didn't have

2085
01:40:43,760 --> 01:40:45,760
Speaker 2: to do that, and uh, low key, he did it

2086
01:40:45,760 --> 01:40:46,160
Speaker 2: so fast.

2087
01:40:46,240 --> 01:40:47,080
Speaker 1: I was like, you should.

2088
01:40:47,080 --> 01:40:48,599
Speaker 2: You don't want to think about this because I said

2089
01:40:48,600 --> 01:40:51,720
Speaker 2: some horrible shit, But like I mean, he took it

2090
01:40:51,760 --> 01:40:53,240
Speaker 2: in stride and I'm glad he forgave me.

2091
01:40:53,280 --> 01:40:56,080
Speaker 1: But the point being I was out of control, right,

2092
01:40:56,800 --> 01:40:57,360
Speaker 1: you know what I mean.

2093
01:40:57,400 --> 01:40:59,519
Speaker 2: If he would have taken offense to it, I probably

2094
01:40:59,520 --> 01:41:03,599
Speaker 2: would have fought that dude for what basketball. No, it's

2095
01:41:03,640 --> 01:41:06,519
Speaker 2: coming from something else, whatever else was happening in my

2096
01:41:06,560 --> 01:41:10,880
Speaker 2: life at that time, whether it's my job of life

2097
01:41:11,120 --> 01:41:13,840
Speaker 2: that whatever it was, something it wasn't that, it wasn't

2098
01:41:13,920 --> 01:41:17,759
Speaker 2: trip shooting over a triple team that had me ready

2099
01:41:17,760 --> 01:41:23,880
Speaker 2: to fucking, you know, hurt this this this kid's feelings essentially,

2100
01:41:23,960 --> 01:41:26,479
Speaker 2: And that's the thing that I'm like, how are y'all

2101
01:41:26,520 --> 01:41:29,879
Speaker 2: not seeing that when you see what we just witnessed?

2102
01:41:29,880 --> 01:41:32,679
Speaker 2: How are you not seeing a man out of control

2103
01:41:32,800 --> 01:41:38,320
Speaker 2: for a second, regretting it and needing more, something more

2104
01:41:38,360 --> 01:41:41,880
Speaker 2: than you telling him that's okay, you know. And that's when,

2105
01:41:42,000 --> 01:41:43,800
Speaker 2: like I said, that's when I knew me and Justin

2106
01:41:43,840 --> 01:41:46,400
Speaker 2: probably in his mind we probably be came friends before that.

2107
01:41:46,400 --> 01:41:47,200
Speaker 1: That's the day me and.

2108
01:41:47,240 --> 01:41:49,800
Speaker 2: Justin became friends because I'm like, Okay, you a real nigga,

2109
01:41:50,040 --> 01:41:54,320
Speaker 2: you would tell me if I was fucking up, like

2110
01:41:54,360 --> 01:41:56,000
Speaker 2: you wouldn't just be like, oh, that's my nigga.

2111
01:41:56,000 --> 01:41:58,240
Speaker 1: Man, Let him work it out, you know what I mean.

2112
01:41:58,320 --> 01:41:59,920
Speaker 2: And we joke a lot, we say a lot, but

2113
01:42:00,120 --> 01:42:03,479
Speaker 2: that's that's why we fuck with each other and vice versa.

2114
01:42:03,600 --> 01:42:06,240
Speaker 2: I've done you know, I've done the same thing for him.

2115
01:42:06,280 --> 01:42:09,960
Speaker 2: But you know, this ship that people call friendship and

2116
01:42:10,000 --> 01:42:12,280
Speaker 2: support on the internet is really dangerous.

2117
01:42:12,280 --> 01:42:14,320
Speaker 1: And it's not it's not good.

2118
01:42:14,479 --> 01:42:17,639
Speaker 3: Okay, No, it's not. No, it's not okay. And I've

2119
01:42:17,680 --> 01:42:18,880
Speaker 3: said it before.

2120
01:42:19,160 --> 01:42:24,240
Speaker 4: And and and I and you know, because I used

2121
01:42:24,280 --> 01:42:26,280
Speaker 4: to think I was going crazy. I'm not gonna lie,

2122
01:42:26,360 --> 01:42:31,640
Speaker 4: y'all because the way people react and respond and the

2123
01:42:31,680 --> 01:42:36,840
Speaker 4: way people record personal and private moments and put it

2124
01:42:36,880 --> 01:42:41,640
Speaker 4: online and make fun. And I'm like, this isn't friendship.

2125
01:42:41,720 --> 01:42:45,000
Speaker 4: Like to me, I was like, these are not your friends,

2126
01:42:45,400 --> 01:42:47,800
Speaker 4: you know, like, like this isn't cool, these are not your.

2127
01:42:47,720 --> 01:42:50,839
Speaker 2: Fun I mean, I'm met, you know, we have frienzy

2128
01:42:50,880 --> 01:42:53,519
Speaker 2: met through the internet. It's not the putting the fixtures

2129
01:42:53,560 --> 01:42:57,120
Speaker 2: online and having fun. It's the constant you need to

2130
01:42:57,240 --> 01:42:59,960
Speaker 2: agree all the time or you're out of the circle.

2131
01:43:00,640 --> 01:43:03,720
Speaker 1: That's the thing. For me. It's the hive mentalities. And

2132
01:43:03,760 --> 01:43:04,719
Speaker 1: I watched it this week.

2133
01:43:04,760 --> 01:43:09,519
Speaker 2: I watched people go from like like a bit triggered, traumatized, shocked, whatever.

2134
01:43:09,560 --> 01:43:12,920
Speaker 2: On Sunday, but their friendship circle said we need to

2135
01:43:13,439 --> 01:43:15,360
Speaker 2: attack Chris Rock And by the end of the week,

2136
01:43:15,840 --> 01:43:17,600
Speaker 2: every clip, everything.

2137
01:43:17,200 --> 01:43:18,960
Speaker 1: He's ever said, everything's ever done.

2138
01:43:19,400 --> 01:43:22,439
Speaker 2: He hates black people, he hates black women, he hates

2139
01:43:22,520 --> 01:43:25,400
Speaker 2: Jada Pinkett Smith, blah, blah and it's like damn and

2140
01:43:25,439 --> 01:43:30,000
Speaker 2: then okay, so maybe that's true with him, But people

2141
01:43:30,040 --> 01:43:33,640
Speaker 2: that you fuck with, like Wanda Sykes says, says, Yo,

2142
01:43:33,840 --> 01:43:35,240
Speaker 2: I saw my friend get hit and it kind of

2143
01:43:35,240 --> 01:43:37,840
Speaker 2: traumatized me. Why are you doing this for the white man?

2144
01:43:38,080 --> 01:43:41,000
Speaker 2: Sys Like? It's that type of mentality. It's like, oh,

2145
01:43:41,040 --> 01:43:44,320
Speaker 2: that's a that's a hive mentality. Y'all have been pushed

2146
01:43:44,320 --> 01:43:46,759
Speaker 2: each other as much as y'all clown the Beyonce stance.

2147
01:43:46,880 --> 01:43:50,000
Speaker 2: Y'all are that for each other? Like it's low key

2148
01:43:50,080 --> 01:43:50,639
Speaker 2: kind of sick.

2149
01:43:52,040 --> 01:43:52,760
Speaker 3: Yes it is.

2150
01:43:52,800 --> 01:43:55,400
Speaker 4: And like I said, and the thing about it is,

2151
01:43:55,439 --> 01:43:57,479
Speaker 4: like I said, I had to learn.

2152
01:43:57,640 --> 01:43:59,160
Speaker 3: I think I said this on the show before.

2153
01:43:59,439 --> 01:44:03,120
Speaker 4: I have a high bar for what my definition of

2154
01:44:03,200 --> 01:44:05,360
Speaker 4: friendship is and everybody's lines.

2155
01:44:05,040 --> 01:44:07,200
Speaker 3: And bars are different. And I know I.

2156
01:44:07,200 --> 01:44:10,320
Speaker 4: Can't be friends with everybody because I'm particular about shit,

2157
01:44:10,560 --> 01:44:13,560
Speaker 4: Like I just know me in particular. I take things personally.

2158
01:44:13,800 --> 01:44:15,439
Speaker 4: You know, you got to know you and you got

2159
01:44:15,439 --> 01:44:17,439
Speaker 4: to know what you will and won't deal with. You

2160
01:44:17,479 --> 01:44:19,320
Speaker 4: got to know your personality, like and a lot of

2161
01:44:19,320 --> 01:44:21,519
Speaker 4: people they don't know themselves say they don't know what

2162
01:44:21,600 --> 01:44:24,920
Speaker 4: kind of standards to put upon their friends. And that's

2163
01:44:25,040 --> 01:44:27,800
Speaker 4: only something you can learn from growing and learning and

2164
01:44:27,880 --> 01:44:32,120
Speaker 4: interacting with people. And so because I noticed about myself

2165
01:44:32,200 --> 01:44:33,080
Speaker 4: there's things that happen.

2166
01:44:33,120 --> 01:44:34,880
Speaker 3: I go, no, No, we could be cool.

2167
01:44:35,040 --> 01:44:36,519
Speaker 4: I'm not gonna be asking, not gonna be mean, but

2168
01:44:36,640 --> 01:44:38,760
Speaker 4: we can't be as friends because there's certain things that

2169
01:44:38,800 --> 01:44:40,080
Speaker 4: I know I will not tolerate.

2170
01:44:41,360 --> 01:44:44,840
Speaker 2: Uh Sela Angney says a lot of shit with that. Oh,

2171
01:44:44,920 --> 01:44:47,760
Speaker 2: pretty much everything said is everything I thought about it.

2172
01:44:47,800 --> 01:44:49,519
Speaker 2: I feel bad for Will. I also feel bad for

2173
01:44:49,600 --> 01:44:51,240
Speaker 2: Chris Rock. A lot of shit went down that night,

2174
01:44:51,280 --> 01:44:53,240
Speaker 2: but both gods showed that it doesn't matter how rich

2175
01:44:53,280 --> 01:44:55,439
Speaker 2: famous you are, you can lose it. As someone who

2176
01:44:55,520 --> 01:44:56,880
Speaker 2: is in his head all the time, I know that

2177
01:44:56,960 --> 01:44:59,920
Speaker 2: it feels like the illsier cool everyone does. I hope

2178
01:45:00,120 --> 01:45:02,200
Speaker 2: and Chris get the help they need. Rock hat it coming.

2179
01:45:02,240 --> 01:45:05,080
Speaker 2: But after reading about his nonverbal learning disorder, Yeah, all,

2180
01:45:05,200 --> 01:45:08,519
Speaker 2: it's all a lot. Y'all saw people dismissing that, which

2181
01:45:08,560 --> 01:45:09,599
Speaker 2: he's been open about.

2182
01:45:10,240 --> 01:45:11,480
Speaker 1: But because.

2183
01:45:12,840 --> 01:45:15,760
Speaker 2: There's all it, because that conflict is not abuse, go

2184
01:45:15,840 --> 01:45:19,120
Speaker 2: read the book. Because there's only room for one person's trauma,

2185
01:45:19,240 --> 01:45:22,840
Speaker 2: and it has to be a hierarchy. People suddenly start

2186
01:45:22,880 --> 01:45:27,560
Speaker 2: dismissing the nonverbal learning disorder like it doesn't matter and

2187
01:45:27,600 --> 01:45:28,599
Speaker 2: it's not a real thing.

2188
01:45:29,720 --> 01:45:30,880
Speaker 1: And there's a lot of people that.

2189
01:45:30,840 --> 01:45:35,519
Speaker 2: Experience nonlbal learning, nonverbal learning disorders who probably witness you

2190
01:45:35,560 --> 01:45:39,560
Speaker 2: say that shit. People, you know, your friends.

2191
01:45:38,800 --> 01:45:41,639
Speaker 1: Probably witness you just say that that shit. Don't mean nothing.

2192
01:45:41,880 --> 01:45:42,599
Speaker 1: It's not real.

2193
01:45:42,720 --> 01:45:45,120
Speaker 2: He made it up. There's no excuse that kind of shit.

2194
01:45:45,880 --> 01:45:50,000
Speaker 2: It's a sick people, man. People just fucking reacting out

2195
01:45:50,000 --> 01:45:54,120
Speaker 2: of the moment and never long term, never with any thought.

2196
01:45:54,720 --> 01:45:57,040
Speaker 2: That's why people fuck with our podcasts. I'm not saying

2197
01:45:57,040 --> 01:45:59,400
Speaker 2: we're the most popular podcasts on the earth, but the

2198
01:45:59,479 --> 01:46:01,599
Speaker 2: people that with us fuck with us because we're not

2199
01:46:01,880 --> 01:46:02,679
Speaker 2: just doing that.

2200
01:46:02,800 --> 01:46:03,720
Speaker 1: Anyone can do that.

2201
01:46:04,600 --> 01:46:06,439
Speaker 3: Yes, that's that's a cookie cutter.

2202
01:46:06,800 --> 01:46:09,599
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's all a lot best electable all parties. And

2203
01:46:09,640 --> 01:46:12,400
Speaker 2: then the oh, I guess I didn't have a poll

2204
01:46:12,520 --> 01:46:13,720
Speaker 2: for this episode, so.

2205
01:46:15,720 --> 01:46:16,679
Speaker 3: You forgot the poll.

2206
01:46:17,160 --> 01:46:18,759
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's a lot going on this week.

2207
01:46:20,240 --> 01:46:22,000
Speaker 3: Did you put one on Spotify? I did?

2208
01:46:22,080 --> 01:46:24,360
Speaker 1: Do you think Will Smith actively uses the N word?

2209
01:46:24,520 --> 01:46:30,280
Speaker 1: Eighty percent? Yes, nineteen because he.

2210
01:46:29,200 --> 01:46:33,960
Speaker 2: He smacked that nigga like somebody that's that says in word.

2211
01:46:35,800 --> 01:46:35,960
Speaker 4: Uh.

2212
01:46:36,000 --> 01:46:38,559
Speaker 1: And then the fotify Q and A was keep my

2213
01:46:38,600 --> 01:46:40,599
Speaker 1: wife's name out your fucking mouth.

2214
01:46:42,680 --> 01:46:45,599
Speaker 2: China says, I'm not saying he should have slapped them,

2215
01:46:45,640 --> 01:46:49,840
Speaker 2: but I understand. How do you we see the replies?

2216
01:46:50,240 --> 01:46:52,240
Speaker 2: I have to pin him so y'all can't see him.

2217
01:46:52,520 --> 01:46:58,160
Speaker 2: Uh period, Okay, I will. That was my favorite. Like

2218
01:46:58,560 --> 01:47:01,080
Speaker 2: I hate that we can't laugh any or that people

2219
01:47:01,320 --> 01:47:04,920
Speaker 2: you know, got so so carried away because there's so

2220
01:47:05,000 --> 01:47:09,000
Speaker 2: many moments that are funny in that clip, just objectively

2221
01:47:09,080 --> 01:47:12,559
Speaker 2: to me, as like we know, everybody turned out fine

2222
01:47:12,960 --> 01:47:14,800
Speaker 2: as far as like physically, no.

2223
01:47:14,760 --> 01:47:16,439
Speaker 1: One got killed or anything.

2224
01:47:17,160 --> 01:47:19,560
Speaker 2: Yes, there's real life consequences and yes it can be

2225
01:47:19,640 --> 01:47:22,200
Speaker 2: traumatic to people, but there are moments in that ship

2226
01:47:22,240 --> 01:47:25,400
Speaker 2: where I'm just like, it's almost like a sketch, like

2227
01:47:25,520 --> 01:47:26,240
Speaker 2: where he's like.

2228
01:47:26,400 --> 01:47:30,240
Speaker 1: Keep my wife's name are your fucking mouth?

2229
01:47:30,400 --> 01:47:36,360
Speaker 2: And then Will Then Chris goes, okay, I Will, like

2230
01:47:37,439 --> 01:47:38,160
Speaker 2: you slap me.

2231
01:47:38,400 --> 01:47:42,040
Speaker 1: I get it. I don't know how you yelling yo,

2232
01:47:42,640 --> 01:47:44,240
Speaker 1: wow that joint. Uh.

2233
01:47:44,960 --> 01:47:48,160
Speaker 2: Will Smith just slapped the ship out of me like that,

2234
01:47:48,360 --> 01:47:52,000
Speaker 2: Like the fact that he held it together at all, man,

2235
01:47:52,160 --> 01:47:55,160
Speaker 2: even his ability to go to the next fucking thing.

2236
01:47:55,200 --> 01:47:57,280
Speaker 2: And then when he stumbled over the words. It's like,

2237
01:47:57,800 --> 01:48:01,120
Speaker 2: we're gonna give out a documentary. I mean, we're gonna

2238
01:48:01,120 --> 01:48:03,680
Speaker 2: give out an oscar for a documentary, because I know

2239
01:48:03,760 --> 01:48:07,080
Speaker 2: his mind was racing through like every listen, anybody that's

2240
01:48:07,120 --> 01:48:09,559
Speaker 2: ever been in a fight or being punched or hit

2241
01:48:10,240 --> 01:48:13,519
Speaker 2: unprovoked or beating up. You know, if y'all want to

2242
01:48:13,560 --> 01:48:16,000
Speaker 2: call it provocation, that's fine, but when you weren't expected

2243
01:48:16,040 --> 01:48:18,320
Speaker 2: to be. At my point, if you've ever had that

2244
01:48:18,320 --> 01:48:21,120
Speaker 2: shit happen to you, which I have several motherfucking times,

2245
01:48:22,120 --> 01:48:24,640
Speaker 2: and not my mother fucking fault for the record.

2246
01:48:26,880 --> 01:48:29,599
Speaker 1: Yeah you ain't keeping it together.

2247
01:48:31,240 --> 01:48:33,200
Speaker 2: I got punched in the stomach ones by this kid,

2248
01:48:33,280 --> 01:48:34,000
Speaker 2: David Brown.

2249
01:48:34,080 --> 01:48:36,439
Speaker 1: And I was in like fourth grade or third grade.

2250
01:48:36,479 --> 01:48:37,280
Speaker 1: He was in fifth.

2251
01:48:37,520 --> 01:48:40,360
Speaker 2: He was he was one of the cool kids on

2252
01:48:40,400 --> 01:48:43,720
Speaker 2: my on my bus and also a bully. And I

2253
01:48:43,760 --> 01:48:45,960
Speaker 2: saw him walking down the hall and I.

2254
01:48:45,960 --> 01:48:48,200
Speaker 1: Just said hey, or I was like, what's up, Dave?

2255
01:48:48,680 --> 01:48:50,760
Speaker 2: And he just fucking punched me in my stomach for

2256
01:48:50,840 --> 01:48:56,960
Speaker 2: no reason, went to the office. Uh Like Still to

2257
01:48:57,000 --> 01:48:59,479
Speaker 2: this day, I don't know why he did that. Like

2258
01:48:59,520 --> 01:49:02,360
Speaker 2: I don't know happened in his home. What I mean,

2259
01:49:02,400 --> 01:49:04,640
Speaker 2: he didn't have any excuse. He didn't explain it. He

2260
01:49:04,640 --> 01:49:06,880
Speaker 2: didn't even lie and say I did something. I think no,

2261
01:49:07,000 --> 01:49:09,160
Speaker 2: I think he did lie first he said I did something.

2262
01:49:09,200 --> 01:49:13,200
Speaker 2: But they were witnesses. Everybody's like, yeah, he didn't. We know, Rod,

2263
01:49:13,400 --> 01:49:15,320
Speaker 2: this fucking nerd didn't do anything to you.

2264
01:49:15,720 --> 01:49:18,160
Speaker 3: It's nutted, And to think about it, you're nutted. This

2265
01:49:18,280 --> 01:49:20,240
Speaker 3: has kept you a lot of situations that I look

2266
01:49:20,280 --> 01:49:21,200
Speaker 3: at like this nerd.

2267
01:49:21,280 --> 01:49:23,719
Speaker 1: No, yes, they just knew it, you know what I'm saying.

2268
01:49:23,800 --> 01:49:27,559
Speaker 2: And so that was a time where you know, someone

2269
01:49:28,040 --> 01:49:31,400
Speaker 2: inacted violence upon me, and so I felt that what

2270
01:49:31,520 --> 01:49:34,240
Speaker 2: Chris Rock felt, and I damn sure wouldn't. That helped

2271
01:49:34,240 --> 01:49:36,519
Speaker 2: it together to produce was it the next award?

2272
01:49:36,600 --> 01:49:36,800
Speaker 8: Shit?

2273
01:49:37,080 --> 01:49:38,840
Speaker 1: I was like, let me lay on the ground and

2274
01:49:38,880 --> 01:49:39,759
Speaker 1: cry for a minute.

2275
01:49:40,400 --> 01:49:45,519
Speaker 4: And then another time someone told this guy that I

2276
01:49:45,640 --> 01:49:50,120
Speaker 4: was making jokes about his sister who died in a fire.

2277
01:49:51,720 --> 01:49:52,840
Speaker 3: Oh, you would never do that.

2278
01:49:53,080 --> 01:49:56,759
Speaker 1: I didn't even know this man. Well, kid, we were kids.

2279
01:49:57,040 --> 01:49:59,479
Speaker 1: I didn't even know this dude had a sister that

2280
01:49:59,520 --> 01:50:00,000
Speaker 1: died in the fire.

2281
01:50:00,240 --> 01:50:03,720
Speaker 2: I didn't know that shit, and he someone and that

2282
01:50:03,800 --> 01:50:05,960
Speaker 2: he would He never told me who put him up

2283
01:50:06,000 --> 01:50:10,840
Speaker 2: to it, But he just ran across the like courtyard,

2284
01:50:12,400 --> 01:50:15,559
Speaker 2: pushed me up against the wall and was and I

2285
01:50:15,560 --> 01:50:18,280
Speaker 2: think it was my shock and disbelief that made him

2286
01:50:18,320 --> 01:50:20,160
Speaker 2: have to be like, oh, he doesn't know what the

2287
01:50:20,200 --> 01:50:24,639
Speaker 2: fuck I'm talking about, and but honestly, he who knows

2288
01:50:24,680 --> 01:50:26,560
Speaker 2: what he would have done to me? And this is

2289
01:50:26,640 --> 01:50:31,000
Speaker 2: what I'm saying, man, anger makes people worthless, valueless, like

2290
01:50:31,080 --> 01:50:33,639
Speaker 2: the fact that, like I feel like, if that shit

2291
01:50:33,720 --> 01:50:36,880
Speaker 2: happened today, someone on Twitter would be finding a way

2292
01:50:36,920 --> 01:50:40,760
Speaker 2: to justify like and you know what, he earned.

2293
01:50:40,360 --> 01:50:44,280
Speaker 1: That because he shouldn't. Look Yeah, yeah, Like.

2294
01:50:44,200 --> 01:50:46,760
Speaker 2: It's like that's we are so addicted to the ship

2295
01:50:46,880 --> 01:50:49,840
Speaker 2: that that we will go the other way just on somebody.

2296
01:50:51,520 --> 01:50:52,680
Speaker 3: It was not sincere.

2297
01:50:52,840 --> 01:50:53,400
Speaker 1: Yeah he did.

2298
01:50:53,479 --> 01:50:56,679
Speaker 2: He did, know, you know, because they need in order

2299
01:50:56,720 --> 01:50:59,240
Speaker 2: to be to justify the violence, they need that to

2300
01:50:59,280 --> 01:51:02,840
Speaker 2: be true. And also you know, going the other way too,

2301
01:51:02,960 --> 01:51:09,439
Speaker 2: like that kid who ironically his name was David too

2302
01:51:09,439 --> 01:51:11,040
Speaker 2: now think about it, but not Brown.

2303
01:51:11,080 --> 01:51:12,280
Speaker 1: I forget his last name.

2304
01:51:12,439 --> 01:51:15,920
Speaker 2: But ironically that kid won. I think he regretted that

2305
01:51:15,960 --> 01:51:19,400
Speaker 2: shit forever because he tried to be my friend for

2306
01:51:19,520 --> 01:51:23,200
Speaker 2: like several years after that, and I decide I could

2307
01:51:23,320 --> 01:51:25,240
Speaker 2: never get over it. I couldn't forgive him and I

2308
01:51:25,280 --> 01:51:28,720
Speaker 2: couldn't be his friend, which you know, I kind of

2309
01:51:28,720 --> 01:51:32,920
Speaker 2: regret a little bit because that had to be traumatizing

2310
01:51:33,000 --> 01:51:36,479
Speaker 2: to hear that, for him to even do that, and

2311
01:51:36,520 --> 01:51:37,639
Speaker 2: that's a very sad thing.

2312
01:51:37,720 --> 01:51:42,280
Speaker 1: But I could not. I don't know, I couldn't do it.

2313
01:51:42,640 --> 01:51:43,639
Speaker 1: I wasn't at that place.

2314
01:51:43,760 --> 01:51:47,240
Speaker 2: But like, you know, think about it now, I'm tearing

2315
01:51:47,320 --> 01:51:50,880
Speaker 2: up a bit. That violence. Fucking it doesn't have to

2316
01:51:50,920 --> 01:51:53,559
Speaker 2: be like you got killed for it to affect you.

2317
01:51:53,680 --> 01:51:55,799
Speaker 2: And for me to line be like I'm not affected

2318
01:51:55,800 --> 01:51:58,880
Speaker 2: by that, it's crazy, Like these things happening to me

2319
01:51:58,920 --> 01:51:59,719
Speaker 2: when I was a kid.

2320
01:52:00,120 --> 01:52:02,000
Speaker 1: Is the reason that you know.

2321
01:52:03,880 --> 01:52:08,120
Speaker 2: That I speak violence now that I want to, you know,

2322
01:52:08,200 --> 01:52:10,880
Speaker 2: I think it's a solution sometimes when it's probably in

2323
01:52:10,920 --> 01:52:12,760
Speaker 2: a lot of cases it's really not. It's just me

2324
01:52:14,000 --> 01:52:18,200
Speaker 2: wanting to express some level of aggression. It's not a

2325
01:52:18,280 --> 01:52:21,360
Speaker 2: good thing. It's not a good impulse. And I'm not

2326
01:52:21,439 --> 01:52:23,720
Speaker 2: a violent guy in that way, like I don't know

2327
01:52:23,760 --> 01:52:26,920
Speaker 2: you're not, but but but the point being, like having

2328
01:52:26,960 --> 01:52:31,520
Speaker 2: to know what to survive is not something that leaves you,

2329
01:52:31,520 --> 01:52:35,519
Speaker 2: you know, and it's like you have to deprogram yourself

2330
01:52:35,800 --> 01:52:38,639
Speaker 2: and it's hard to do when up into your twenties

2331
01:52:38,720 --> 01:52:41,639
Speaker 2: or your thirties. For most people, that shit has been

2332
01:52:42,080 --> 01:52:44,679
Speaker 2: ingrained in you, like I did not realize, and I'm

2333
01:52:44,680 --> 01:52:47,719
Speaker 2: not and this is the reality I did not realize

2334
01:52:48,360 --> 01:52:51,879
Speaker 2: growing up in the household. My household, we got spankings

2335
01:52:51,920 --> 01:52:54,720
Speaker 2: and whoopings and things like that. But growing up and

2336
01:52:54,760 --> 01:52:59,360
Speaker 2: listening to other people talk about their childhoods where if

2337
01:52:59,400 --> 01:53:01,720
Speaker 2: they went out and they got beat up and the

2338
01:53:01,840 --> 01:53:03,960
Speaker 2: parents would be like, don't you bring your ass back

2339
01:53:04,000 --> 01:53:05,960
Speaker 2: here unless you win, Like I never had to deal

2340
01:53:06,000 --> 01:53:06,280
Speaker 2: with that.

2341
01:53:06,520 --> 01:53:09,519
Speaker 3: I never deal with line tun fundy, that type of pressure.

2342
01:53:09,720 --> 01:53:11,760
Speaker 4: I whip your ass if you lose, Like I've never

2343
01:53:11,840 --> 01:53:14,959
Speaker 4: had to deal with those things where I was actually

2344
01:53:15,000 --> 01:53:17,920
Speaker 4: forced to be violent, like I didn't have a choice,

2345
01:53:18,400 --> 01:53:23,479
Speaker 4: you know. And because of that, I realized that for me,

2346
01:53:23,960 --> 01:53:25,599
Speaker 4: I have kind of not your funny had a quote

2347
01:53:25,640 --> 01:53:28,800
Speaker 4: unquote privilege, and a lot of people have privileges behind it,

2348
01:53:28,960 --> 01:53:31,960
Speaker 4: and they do not understand people that have been through,

2349
01:53:32,000 --> 01:53:34,280
Speaker 4: that have been bottlepin, that have been raised in that

2350
01:53:34,560 --> 01:53:37,760
Speaker 4: had to grow up and unlearn that so they would

2351
01:53:37,800 --> 01:53:40,200
Speaker 4: not pass that down to their children. That is a

2352
01:53:40,360 --> 01:53:42,960
Speaker 4: very difficult thing to do, and it cannot be a

2353
01:53:43,080 --> 01:53:44,880
Speaker 4: race from the equation like that.

2354
01:53:44,920 --> 01:53:49,320
Speaker 1: Shit don't matter, unfortunate situation.

2355
01:53:49,479 --> 01:53:51,920
Speaker 2: You think Will Will had the same energy for August

2356
01:53:52,000 --> 01:53:53,400
Speaker 2: sadly hurt people, hurt people.

2357
01:53:53,720 --> 01:53:56,719
Speaker 1: What she had, what she wished he had.

2358
01:53:57,600 --> 01:54:00,400
Speaker 2: Oh, he could compose himself in the moment holiday after

2359
01:54:00,400 --> 01:54:03,240
Speaker 2: the show. Well, even the thing with August I find

2360
01:54:03,280 --> 01:54:07,640
Speaker 2: weird because I don't think that the problem wasn't that

2361
01:54:07,720 --> 01:54:08,799
Speaker 2: she slept with August.

2362
01:54:08,880 --> 01:54:10,440
Speaker 1: They have an open relationship.

2363
01:54:11,040 --> 01:54:13,559
Speaker 2: The problem seemed to be that August Olsena was out

2364
01:54:13,600 --> 01:54:16,719
Speaker 2: here trying to use it as some leverage to embarrass

2365
01:54:16,760 --> 01:54:21,040
Speaker 2: them and blackmail them. So you know the problem like it.

2366
01:54:21,680 --> 01:54:23,720
Speaker 2: So you may have noticed something at this point in

2367
01:54:23,760 --> 01:54:27,000
Speaker 2: the show. We've been talking this long about it, and

2368
01:54:27,120 --> 01:54:28,240
Speaker 2: it's not a coincidence.

2369
01:54:29,080 --> 01:54:30,479
Speaker 1: I really don't have a problem with.

2370
01:54:30,439 --> 01:54:32,840
Speaker 2: Anything Jada Smith did, Jada Pinker Smith did, and I

2371
01:54:32,880 --> 01:54:36,720
Speaker 2: really don't know why people do. I'm sorry, but I

2372
01:54:36,720 --> 01:54:38,440
Speaker 2: mean maybe you have a problem with her doing the

2373
01:54:38,480 --> 01:54:40,160
Speaker 2: red table talk blah blah blah. People do that shit

2374
01:54:40,200 --> 01:54:42,000
Speaker 2: all the time. That's like having a problem with Will

2375
01:54:42,000 --> 01:54:44,640
Speaker 2: Smith write in a book. They both tell their business

2376
01:54:45,280 --> 01:54:47,120
Speaker 2: and they sell it to us. So I don't even

2377
01:54:47,160 --> 01:54:50,680
Speaker 2: know it's their business business. But because I didn't come

2378
01:54:50,680 --> 01:54:53,360
Speaker 2: into this conversation hating black women, I'm not going to

2379
01:54:53,440 --> 01:54:56,000
Speaker 2: exit it with and it's really her fault.

2380
01:54:56,040 --> 01:54:57,480
Speaker 1: These two men had an issue.

2381
01:54:59,080 --> 01:55:01,720
Speaker 2: Unless he comes out and says, yeah, I told Will

2382
01:55:01,760 --> 01:55:04,560
Speaker 2: if he said something, go smack that man, I'm gonna

2383
01:55:04,640 --> 01:55:06,720
Speaker 2: chalk that up to the male ego because it's that

2384
01:55:06,880 --> 01:55:10,240
Speaker 2: simple to me. And you know, I don't need it

2385
01:55:10,280 --> 01:55:12,200
Speaker 2: to be like, how do I get to a place

2386
01:55:12,200 --> 01:55:14,080
Speaker 2: where I can blame a black woman because that feels

2387
01:55:14,080 --> 01:55:16,560
Speaker 2: like with a lot of people who I believe I

2388
01:55:16,560 --> 01:55:19,560
Speaker 2: already have issues with black women, that's where they ended

2389
01:55:19,640 --> 01:55:21,160
Speaker 2: up with this and somehow it's.

2390
01:55:21,000 --> 01:55:22,080
Speaker 1: Black women's fault.

2391
01:55:22,280 --> 01:55:25,080
Speaker 2: And I'm just like, that's the craziest shit that's been

2392
01:55:25,120 --> 01:55:30,320
Speaker 2: said so far. She was just sitting there, minding her business,

2393
01:55:31,520 --> 01:55:34,360
Speaker 2: like what she didn't know Chris was gonna make that

2394
01:55:34,480 --> 01:55:37,640
Speaker 2: joke anymore, and she knew Will was gonna get up

2395
01:55:37,680 --> 01:55:40,920
Speaker 2: there and hit that man like this shit where like

2396
01:55:40,960 --> 01:55:43,600
Speaker 2: it was some secret telepathic signal that she sent to

2397
01:55:43,640 --> 01:55:47,560
Speaker 2: this dude. He's responsible for his own fucking actions period.

2398
01:55:48,280 --> 01:55:51,560
Speaker 2: Erniet says, I do not want to smoke bruh. I

2399
01:55:51,600 --> 01:55:54,080
Speaker 2: did not want to smoke Captain slaper hole.

2400
01:55:53,880 --> 01:55:59,240
Speaker 1: Says Eric H. Chris says could have said she was

2401
01:55:59,320 --> 01:56:02,040
Speaker 1: part of the door. Miller j oh Ms Barnes on

2402
01:56:02,240 --> 01:56:03,160
Speaker 1: Ms Barnes says.

2403
01:56:02,960 --> 01:56:04,920
Speaker 3: That, yes, same thing.

2404
01:56:04,960 --> 01:56:06,760
Speaker 2: I thought that same thing. It was like if he

2405
01:56:06,800 --> 01:56:09,000
Speaker 2: said dor miller J. I don't even think we hear y'all.

2406
01:56:09,600 --> 01:56:13,200
Speaker 2: And it's and literally as comedically it's literally the same

2407
01:56:13,280 --> 01:56:15,000
Speaker 2: joke except positive.

2408
01:56:16,160 --> 01:56:18,160
Speaker 1: Like g I J is such an old reference that

2409
01:56:18,520 --> 01:56:19,520
Speaker 1: whatever you got.

2410
01:56:19,400 --> 01:56:22,040
Speaker 3: Some kids that the movies older than the age.

2411
01:56:22,440 --> 01:56:27,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, I really think like it wouldn't come across. I mean,

2412
01:56:27,200 --> 01:56:30,840
Speaker 2: maybe it still does because the history there. Maybe, but

2413
01:56:31,840 --> 01:56:34,760
Speaker 2: my personal belief is I will never know. But I

2414
01:56:34,800 --> 01:56:38,879
Speaker 2: think he says that we're fine. I'm going to sesee finckels.

2415
01:56:39,160 --> 01:56:41,960
Speaker 2: I could say one thing definitively is getting his wife's

2416
01:56:42,000 --> 01:56:44,360
Speaker 2: name out of people's mouth was to go. This had

2417
01:56:44,360 --> 01:56:46,880
Speaker 2: the exact obviously the fact YO could not agree more

2418
01:56:47,440 --> 01:56:50,720
Speaker 2: talk shit, get hit shrug emoji. I will I said

2419
01:56:50,760 --> 01:56:53,280
Speaker 2: what I said. I didn't say shit about your wife.

2420
01:56:53,400 --> 01:56:57,080
Speaker 2: Since Rakisha will slap Chris so hard it gave me

2421
01:56:57,120 --> 01:56:57,920
Speaker 2: selective m n J.

2422
01:56:58,040 --> 01:57:00,360
Speaker 1: I don't know y'all, wife name you and can't have

2423
01:57:00,400 --> 01:57:01,440
Speaker 1: a wife. What's a wife?

2424
01:57:01,520 --> 01:57:04,879
Speaker 2: I can't even pronounce that shit wife? Why fi weefy

2425
01:57:05,400 --> 01:57:12,440
Speaker 2: says Dante. Hilarious experiment says, his name is Chris. I

2426
01:57:12,440 --> 01:57:15,080
Speaker 2: bet you're wondering how I got how my name is Chris.

2427
01:57:15,120 --> 01:57:17,480
Speaker 2: I bet you wonder how I got here. Portia says,

2428
01:57:17,480 --> 01:57:21,160
Speaker 2: Granny always said, don't write to check your ass can't cash, y'all.

2429
01:57:21,160 --> 01:57:23,000
Speaker 2: I don't think Chris thought he was inviting that man

2430
01:57:23,080 --> 01:57:24,160
Speaker 2: to a physical altercation.

2431
01:57:24,920 --> 01:57:27,960
Speaker 1: Renee said. Renee says, but I love Karen.

2432
01:57:28,120 --> 01:57:31,080
Speaker 2: Aretha says, I don't know why commedians think they're immune

2433
01:57:31,080 --> 01:57:33,240
Speaker 2: to talk shit get hit because they mostly have been.

2434
01:57:33,440 --> 01:57:36,520
Speaker 2: That's really it, because that's the job. Like the thing

2435
01:57:36,560 --> 01:57:39,160
Speaker 2: about the Internet in real life that people do not

2436
01:57:39,520 --> 01:57:42,280
Speaker 2: respect what comedy is that the job is to attempt

2437
01:57:42,320 --> 01:57:43,080
Speaker 2: to make the jokes.

2438
01:57:44,320 --> 01:57:45,720
Speaker 1: I know people want to change in.

2439
01:57:46,440 --> 01:57:49,440
Speaker 3: And all that. That's irrelevant, but the job is the attempt.

2440
01:57:49,640 --> 01:57:52,400
Speaker 2: Every comedian I know and all of the ones I respect,

2441
01:57:52,720 --> 01:57:56,200
Speaker 2: are like, yeah, you just can't do that, And I understand,

2442
01:57:56,800 --> 01:57:59,880
Speaker 2: like that's the you know, imagine, like I said, y'all

2443
01:58:00,160 --> 01:58:03,240
Speaker 2: only thinking today about this this one that you agree with.

2444
01:58:03,640 --> 01:58:06,360
Speaker 2: No one's thinking, what if I'm doing a fucking show

2445
01:58:06,840 --> 01:58:09,440
Speaker 2: and fucking statn Allen or some shit, and I started

2446
01:58:09,440 --> 01:58:12,800
Speaker 2: making fun of Trump supporters, or like jail Covid was

2447
01:58:12,840 --> 01:58:16,560
Speaker 2: in Pittsburgh making fun of people that say, let's go Brandon.

2448
01:58:17,040 --> 01:58:19,520
Speaker 2: If that room goes talk shit, get hit, we'd be

2449
01:58:19,680 --> 01:58:22,400
Speaker 2: like that was a fucking hate crime. So I just

2450
01:58:22,480 --> 01:58:24,440
Speaker 2: I just think people need to stick to the fucking

2451
01:58:24,840 --> 01:58:27,040
Speaker 2: stick to the things that you can be consistent on.

2452
01:58:27,160 --> 01:58:30,720
Speaker 2: This ain't one, and I think just admit that it

2453
01:58:30,760 --> 01:58:32,240
Speaker 2: ain't a carte blanche rule.

2454
01:58:32,280 --> 01:58:34,560
Speaker 1: It's just, uh, you don't like this joke.

2455
01:58:35,920 --> 01:58:38,880
Speaker 2: And that's on period. And I will recently, my neighbor

2456
01:58:38,920 --> 01:58:41,200
Speaker 2: tramp with my garden. I was upset, of course, I

2457
01:58:41,240 --> 01:58:43,400
Speaker 2: told my husband we saw our neighbor. Soon after he

2458
01:58:43,480 --> 01:58:45,560
Speaker 2: jumped out the car to pull up on him. I

2459
01:58:45,640 --> 01:58:51,080
Speaker 2: was both shook and proud. Yeah yeah, yeah, man, patriarch

2460
01:58:51,160 --> 01:58:55,160
Speaker 2: is a motherfucker dog. Like you know, It's like I

2461
01:58:55,240 --> 01:58:56,880
Speaker 2: was even making I even made a joke. I was like,

2462
01:58:57,000 --> 01:58:59,080
Speaker 2: I mean, I don't know who these dudes were that

2463
01:58:59,160 --> 01:59:03,000
Speaker 2: were like proud to say they wouldn't fight for their wife.

2464
01:59:04,280 --> 01:59:07,920
Speaker 2: That feels like an over overstep in the other way,

2465
01:59:08,760 --> 01:59:12,360
Speaker 2: like I'm not like, like, I'm not saying you should

2466
01:59:12,360 --> 01:59:14,520
Speaker 2: be like I'm definitely gonna hit somebody for my wife,

2467
01:59:14,680 --> 01:59:18,000
Speaker 2: but I definitely wouldn't say I'm definitely not like, who's

2468
01:59:18,040 --> 01:59:18,760
Speaker 2: that benefiting?

2469
01:59:20,320 --> 01:59:22,440
Speaker 3: Yes, and I would never put you in a position

2470
01:59:22,680 --> 01:59:23,040
Speaker 3: like that.

2471
01:59:23,120 --> 01:59:24,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, but you know what I'm saying.

2472
01:59:24,280 --> 01:59:27,360
Speaker 2: It's just I mean, it's a joke really, but it's

2473
01:59:27,440 --> 01:59:29,440
Speaker 2: just like it was funny the people that jumped out

2474
01:59:29,480 --> 01:59:32,480
Speaker 2: to be like, I know, you call my wife anything,

2475
01:59:32,680 --> 01:59:35,280
Speaker 2: you won't and I will sit there and sip my

2476
01:59:35,400 --> 01:59:36,680
Speaker 2: tea and mind my business.

2477
01:59:37,000 --> 01:59:39,560
Speaker 1: And I'm like, I don't know. I mean, hopefully you

2478
01:59:39,600 --> 01:59:42,360
Speaker 1: had a kind of woman that's that of all. That's like, yeah,

2479
01:59:42,440 --> 01:59:43,680
Speaker 1: but I don't know.

2480
01:59:43,840 --> 01:59:47,880
Speaker 2: Somebody started roasting your wife long enough, you know it

2481
01:59:48,000 --> 01:59:49,960
Speaker 2: might be time that you might start to feel away.

2482
01:59:50,000 --> 01:59:50,600
Speaker 1: It's all I'm saying.

2483
01:59:51,400 --> 01:59:54,680
Speaker 2: The last one was a walking to every cap, which

2484
01:59:54,720 --> 01:59:57,560
Speaker 2: gets lots of comments these days. Ramsey Djinga says, this

2485
01:59:57,600 --> 02:00:00,160
Speaker 2: second half of the season's been good. They're all might

2486
02:00:00,240 --> 02:00:04,240
Speaker 2: take Sebashian out, Assassin Carrol will take that boy out.

2487
02:00:04,520 --> 02:00:08,200
Speaker 2: I totally forgot about Darryl Letting. Rambo Lea loose uh,

2488
02:00:08,240 --> 02:00:12,280
Speaker 2: and man says as bad as as they would as

2489
02:00:12,280 --> 02:00:14,240
Speaker 2: it would that would be if she took everyone out

2490
02:00:14,360 --> 02:00:17,880
Speaker 2: solo talking about Leah. It just wouldn't seem like the

2491
02:00:17,880 --> 02:00:21,240
Speaker 2: smart thing to do, unless, like someone else said the ad, Uh,

2492
02:00:21,560 --> 02:00:24,760
Speaker 2: she finds a way to infiltrate and go out kill

2493
02:00:24,760 --> 02:00:27,200
Speaker 2: Marga on the court Commonwealth. But I think Liah is

2494
02:00:27,240 --> 02:00:29,520
Speaker 2: in a new group. Also, do you think Nan was

2495
02:00:29,560 --> 02:00:32,200
Speaker 2: worried about his wife being with Maggie because he thought

2496
02:00:32,200 --> 02:00:33,440
Speaker 2: Maggie might harm her out.

2497
02:00:33,280 --> 02:00:34,280
Speaker 1: Of revenge a mine?

2498
02:00:35,680 --> 02:00:37,320
Speaker 4: Uh?

2499
02:00:37,800 --> 02:00:40,240
Speaker 1: Maybe shit, Maggie do be doing wild shit?

2500
02:00:41,040 --> 02:00:41,240
Speaker 3: Uh?

2501
02:00:41,760 --> 02:00:45,200
Speaker 4: Heavyweight before hand she took a pick axe and went

2502
02:00:45,280 --> 02:00:47,879
Speaker 4: to the motherfucking chest gave him open heart surgery.

2503
02:00:48,040 --> 02:00:49,320
Speaker 1: Heavywey says that was my thought.

2504
02:00:49,360 --> 02:00:51,240
Speaker 2: I didn't think he wanted to tell her Maggie might

2505
02:00:51,320 --> 02:00:53,600
Speaker 2: hurt her and ruin their ability to work together. But

2506
02:00:53,640 --> 02:00:56,200
Speaker 2: I genuinely feel disconcern when he radio her.

2507
02:00:56,640 --> 02:00:57,839
Speaker 1: Uh with Maggie.

2508
02:00:58,080 --> 02:01:00,600
Speaker 2: Ms Barr says that woman is too dangerous because not

2509
02:01:00,680 --> 02:01:02,960
Speaker 2: only she got all the guns, she pissed with Maggie

2510
02:01:03,000 --> 02:01:06,200
Speaker 2: and then Darryll pissed with Maggie first and foremost second,

2511
02:01:06,200 --> 02:01:09,040
Speaker 2: she is patient and will take her time to strike.

2512
02:01:09,160 --> 02:01:10,440
Speaker 1: We are all about.

2513
02:01:10,160 --> 02:01:14,120
Speaker 2: To see Leah unleash. Scared and Heavyweight says. At first,

2514
02:01:14,160 --> 02:01:16,080
Speaker 2: I wasn't even sure the weapons had been taken. I

2515
02:01:16,080 --> 02:01:18,320
Speaker 2: thought Hornsby was lying about the entire thing. I'm also

2516
02:01:18,320 --> 02:01:20,680
Speaker 2: a bit confused did the coat have the guns or not.

2517
02:01:21,160 --> 02:01:23,000
Speaker 2: When the leader was questioned before he was killed, he

2518
02:01:23,040 --> 02:01:24,720
Speaker 2: made it sound like they found the weapons but didn't

2519
02:01:24,760 --> 02:01:28,080
Speaker 2: kill the people, which we now we now know who

2520
02:01:28,120 --> 02:01:30,760
Speaker 2: did a kill them. Yeah, I think the co leader

2521
02:01:31,000 --> 02:01:35,200
Speaker 2: said they found the thing, but not the weapons.

2522
02:01:35,240 --> 02:01:37,560
Speaker 1: They just found out those people dead off the road.

2523
02:01:37,720 --> 02:01:38,360
Speaker 3: Yeah.

2524
02:01:38,400 --> 02:01:40,360
Speaker 4: And when he was talking about we found the footprints,

2525
02:01:40,440 --> 02:01:42,520
Speaker 4: they probably found the footprints and then walking up on

2526
02:01:42,600 --> 02:01:44,440
Speaker 4: it and then turn around and walking the fuck back.

2527
02:01:44,560 --> 02:01:47,680
Speaker 4: But they didn't take anything, but their assumption was they

2528
02:01:47,680 --> 02:01:48,240
Speaker 4: took something.

2529
02:01:48,440 --> 02:01:51,040
Speaker 2: Also, even some highly rated body armor is susceptible a

2530
02:01:51,080 --> 02:01:53,480
Speaker 2: knife point if you don't know where. If you know

2531
02:01:53,520 --> 02:01:55,880
Speaker 2: where the brakes are, you can get between them with

2532
02:01:56,000 --> 02:01:59,120
Speaker 2: the armor. The armour scenes bite proof, but zombie fingers

2533
02:01:59,120 --> 02:02:02,800
Speaker 2: are basically boned. If enough of them are grabbing you,

2534
02:02:02,840 --> 02:02:04,280
Speaker 2: one of them gonna find a breaking point.

2535
02:02:04,320 --> 02:02:05,200
Speaker 1: I definitely agree with y'all.

2536
02:02:05,240 --> 02:02:08,200
Speaker 2: I thinks a bashing questions was a veiled threat against

2537
02:02:08,360 --> 02:02:11,200
Speaker 2: the kids, and he changed his tune.

2538
02:02:10,960 --> 02:02:12,160
Speaker 1: When that knife came out.

2539
02:02:12,600 --> 02:02:14,920
Speaker 2: I haven't wanted someone on the show to dot his

2540
02:02:15,000 --> 02:02:17,640
Speaker 2: bass as Jared was fucking with Morgan and shot Benjamin

2541
02:02:18,640 --> 02:02:21,640
Speaker 2: Rick and Morgan killed Jared and every last one of

2542
02:02:21,680 --> 02:02:24,280
Speaker 2: them savors after that escape from Hilltop because of Henry.

2543
02:02:24,680 --> 02:02:26,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, I love that episode. I don't care what Eve say.

2544
02:02:27,480 --> 02:02:30,640
Speaker 1: Daryl should have Darrel should have learned this lesson.

2545
02:02:31,040 --> 02:02:34,000
Speaker 2: Love your recaps and Yeah, the poe was, do you

2546
02:02:34,040 --> 02:02:35,480
Speaker 2: think Li's in a new group or.

2547
02:02:35,400 --> 02:02:36,320
Speaker 1: Is she rolling solo?

2548
02:02:38,000 --> 02:02:39,440
Speaker 3: Oh, she's in a new group.

2549
02:02:39,600 --> 02:02:42,520
Speaker 2: Fifty seven percent of audience agrees, forty three percent does not,

2550
02:02:43,200 --> 02:02:48,560
Speaker 2: And on anchor, the poll is eighty eight percent thinks

2551
02:02:48,560 --> 02:02:50,920
Speaker 2: she's solo and twelve percent said she's.

2552
02:02:50,800 --> 02:02:53,120
Speaker 1: In a new group. Wow, what a disparity.

2553
02:02:54,520 --> 02:02:57,040
Speaker 2: Honestly, I'm more scared of she's solo because I'm like,

2554
02:02:57,160 --> 02:03:00,600
Speaker 2: oh you, oh, you crazy, crazy, like you're.

2555
02:03:00,480 --> 02:03:03,000
Speaker 1: Trying to take down the Commonwealth by yourself. Who knows

2556
02:03:03,000 --> 02:03:03,680
Speaker 1: what you're gonna do.

2557
02:03:04,240 --> 02:03:08,640
Speaker 4: Oh, she's solot ship Like, yeah, he is ready to

2558
02:03:08,720 --> 02:03:09,040
Speaker 4: go in.

2559
02:03:09,240 --> 02:03:10,520
Speaker 1: She gonna do some Carol shit.

2560
02:03:12,720 --> 02:03:15,920
Speaker 2: Uh, nigan moves fast was a comment, and ain't no

2561
02:03:16,040 --> 02:03:21,200
Speaker 2: step for stepper, uh, says Ernest Nighan stand a sister first, saha,

2562
02:03:21,320 --> 02:03:22,560
Speaker 2: then Michelle, what if Micheon?

2563
02:03:22,720 --> 02:03:25,040
Speaker 1: And uh? And now he.

2564
02:03:25,040 --> 02:03:27,280
Speaker 2: Said, let me wipe up the mother of his this

2565
02:03:27,480 --> 02:03:29,840
Speaker 2: queen quickly. Yeah, his white wife died.

2566
02:03:29,920 --> 02:03:30,800
Speaker 1: He said, you know what?

2567
02:03:32,120 --> 02:03:32,560
Speaker 4: Uh?

2568
02:03:32,680 --> 02:03:36,200
Speaker 2: And Nazio says, brown sugar, ooh the fever. Megan caught

2569
02:03:36,240 --> 02:03:37,400
Speaker 2: those rick vibes.

2570
02:03:38,200 --> 02:03:38,480
Speaker 3: Uh.

2571
02:03:38,600 --> 02:03:42,080
Speaker 2: Michael says, aside from the Pepe girls, crazy mama, Neiga

2572
02:03:42,240 --> 02:03:45,160
Speaker 2: ain't had none in years. That sister put that thing

2573
02:03:45,240 --> 02:03:47,040
Speaker 2: on him so good. He put a baby in it

2574
02:03:47,080 --> 02:03:48,080
Speaker 2: and a ring on it.

2575
02:03:49,160 --> 02:03:49,320
Speaker 3: Uh.

2576
02:03:49,400 --> 02:03:50,240
Speaker 1: Dre says hell.

2577
02:03:50,360 --> 02:03:50,560
Speaker 4: Yeah.

2578
02:03:50,600 --> 02:03:52,840
Speaker 2: When it was revealed that not only is Nigga married,

2579
02:03:52,880 --> 02:03:55,160
Speaker 2: but his wife is also pregnant, I was like, well, damn,

2580
02:03:55,160 --> 02:03:56,120
Speaker 2: how long has it been?

2581
02:03:56,680 --> 02:04:01,000
Speaker 1: He moves fast? Okay, all right, we got some.

2582
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Speaker 2: Emails to get to before I go watch this this

2583
02:04:05,640 --> 02:04:08,800
Speaker 2: UNC game, and I'm checking the voicemails as we speak

2584
02:04:08,840 --> 02:04:12,120
Speaker 2: to see if anybody left one. I think we got okay,

2585
02:04:12,160 --> 02:04:14,360
Speaker 2: it looks like we got a couple of voicemails.

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02:04:14,440 --> 02:04:19,800
Speaker 1: Let me see, okay from Sunday Street, So who.

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02:04:19,640 --> 02:04:24,080
Speaker 6: Knows riding here, and this is Kareta at Cross Cory

2588
02:04:24,160 --> 02:04:29,560
Speaker 6: on Twitter. Just call again real quick, because first of all,

2589
02:04:29,640 --> 02:04:35,480
Speaker 6: I'm just so thrilled for y'all with this amazing HBO

2590
02:04:35,800 --> 02:04:38,920
Speaker 6: level up. You know, y'all were already HBO famous, but

2591
02:04:39,040 --> 02:04:42,960
Speaker 6: now you're HBO famous again. I love it, and it

2592
02:04:43,040 --> 02:04:46,720
Speaker 6: has been so cool to watch this journey with y'all

2593
02:04:46,920 --> 02:04:50,240
Speaker 6: and cheer you on. So thank you for letting us

2594
02:04:50,840 --> 02:04:54,520
Speaker 6: accompany you. One of the things I wanted to share.

2595
02:04:54,960 --> 02:04:57,120
Speaker 6: I never write in or call in nearly as much

2596
02:04:57,160 --> 02:05:01,040
Speaker 6: as I think too. I'm always having a conversation with y'

2597
02:05:01,040 --> 02:05:03,680
Speaker 6: all in my head, but I at least wanted to

2598
02:05:03,800 --> 02:05:11,360
Speaker 6: chime in because you know, I follow Ball's Deep because

2599
02:05:11,400 --> 02:05:15,440
Speaker 6: I've been premium since I discovered y'all back in twenty sixteen.

2600
02:05:16,200 --> 02:05:20,280
Speaker 6: And you know, so I follow balls Deep mostly for

2601
02:05:20,800 --> 02:05:25,760
Speaker 6: the pregame and of course I'm watching Game Theory with

2602
02:05:25,880 --> 02:05:29,440
Speaker 6: Bomani Jones, So you know, I'm one of those people

2603
02:05:29,560 --> 02:05:33,000
Speaker 6: I love to claim that I'm all of a sudden

2604
02:05:33,160 --> 02:05:36,600
Speaker 6: an expert, right, so I've been feeling real copy about

2605
02:05:36,640 --> 02:05:44,040
Speaker 6: my sports expertise. Oh, in my shock when last night

2606
02:05:44,880 --> 02:05:51,280
Speaker 6: I saw Duke University playing basketball in what is leading

2607
02:05:51,320 --> 02:05:54,840
Speaker 6: to March madness or leading to the Final four or

2608
02:05:54,920 --> 02:05:56,520
Speaker 6: whatever it's leading toward something.

2609
02:05:57,440 --> 02:05:58,120
Speaker 8: I thought that.

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02:05:58,080 --> 02:06:01,480
Speaker 6: They were completely out because you know, all of the

2611
02:06:01,600 --> 02:06:05,680
Speaker 6: relishing of their defeat at home, I thought that was

2612
02:06:05,720 --> 02:06:08,240
Speaker 6: the end of everything. So I was just like that

2613
02:06:08,480 --> 02:06:11,680
Speaker 6: it is happening. Why is coach K showing his face

2614
02:06:11,760 --> 02:06:16,919
Speaker 6: in public all of the specifically to say.

2615
02:06:16,760 --> 02:06:18,440
Speaker 3: That I am not there.

2616
02:06:18,960 --> 02:06:22,360
Speaker 1: She got cut off. Let's see, that's hilarious.

2617
02:06:22,680 --> 02:06:24,959
Speaker 6: So of course I got cut off. This is kreta

2618
02:06:25,760 --> 02:06:30,840
Speaker 6: at procry from Twitter again. So anyway, so you know,

2619
02:06:31,520 --> 02:06:34,480
Speaker 6: I like to brag about being an expert in all

2620
02:06:34,640 --> 02:06:37,480
Speaker 6: kinds of things that I probably shouldn't brag about being

2621
02:06:37,480 --> 02:06:40,960
Speaker 6: an expert in. But I definitely got called out last

2622
02:06:41,080 --> 02:06:44,680
Speaker 6: night because I was so confused that Coach K is.

2623
02:06:44,640 --> 02:06:46,200
Speaker 3: Still showing his face in public.

2624
02:06:46,280 --> 02:06:49,920
Speaker 6: I mean, if I have had that segment on game theory,

2625
02:06:50,960 --> 02:06:56,280
Speaker 6: I would have just gone to bed. But anyway, congratulations

2626
02:06:56,280 --> 02:07:01,800
Speaker 6: to get on everything. Game Theory is just so so mark.

2627
02:07:02,280 --> 02:07:06,720
Speaker 6: I love the analysis, and I love the way that

2628
02:07:07,200 --> 02:07:10,800
Speaker 6: Bomani and you all as writers get to flex because

2629
02:07:10,840 --> 02:07:13,280
Speaker 6: at the end of the day, fourth is such a

2630
02:07:13,320 --> 02:07:17,000
Speaker 6: crucial part of culture. That it allows y'all to just

2631
02:07:17,080 --> 02:07:21,600
Speaker 6: do some really really amazing analysis that I just so appreciate.

2632
02:07:21,720 --> 02:07:24,440
Speaker 6: So thank you for the example. Thank you for taking

2633
02:07:24,520 --> 02:07:28,280
Speaker 6: us on the ride, and I will continue to share

2634
02:07:28,320 --> 02:07:30,839
Speaker 6: you on and being on the ride as much as possible.

2635
02:07:31,800 --> 02:07:32,320
Speaker 3: Love y'all.

2636
02:07:32,600 --> 02:07:35,120
Speaker 1: Thank you, you two, and thank you.

2637
02:07:35,200 --> 02:07:36,040
Speaker 3: It's hilarious.

2638
02:07:36,080 --> 02:07:38,720
Speaker 2: Thank you. Extremely proud of what we're doing. And yeah, Coach,

2639
02:07:38,800 --> 02:07:40,280
Speaker 2: shouldn't showus facing public anymore.

2640
02:07:40,280 --> 02:07:43,600
Speaker 1: I'm with you. I agree. Why are we even playing tonight?

2641
02:07:44,160 --> 02:07:47,520
Speaker 8: Hey, riding Karen. I'm in the car. Hopefully you guys

2642
02:07:47,680 --> 02:07:50,520
Speaker 8: hear me. This is Come Home and I'm listening to

2643
02:07:50,800 --> 02:07:55,960
Speaker 8: episode episode twenty five oh six, and I just calmed

2644
02:07:56,000 --> 02:08:00,760
Speaker 8: myself down from laughing so hard about y'all, you and

2645
02:08:00,840 --> 02:08:06,240
Speaker 8: Karen going off on this tangent talking about this potentially

2646
02:08:06,280 --> 02:08:11,440
Speaker 8: gayy dog being dropped off at the animal shelter. Y'all

2647
02:08:11,480 --> 02:08:17,320
Speaker 8: are hilarious, loving game theory ride, and Carry's inspired me

2648
02:08:17,480 --> 02:08:20,360
Speaker 8: to get back on my healthcakes. So he's telling us

2649
02:08:20,360 --> 02:08:25,960
Speaker 8: about your air fryer new recipes, and I love you guys.

2650
02:08:26,160 --> 02:08:26,800
Speaker 1: Oh, thank you.

2651
02:08:27,640 --> 02:08:32,120
Speaker 3: Oh that's so sweet. I air fried sweet potatoes. Your

2652
02:08:32,120 --> 02:08:33,200
Speaker 3: mama gave me that idea.

2653
02:08:33,680 --> 02:08:36,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, and I like air fried potatoes.

2654
02:08:36,640 --> 02:08:38,080
Speaker 3: Mm hm oh yeah. Yeah.

2655
02:08:38,240 --> 02:08:39,920
Speaker 4: Like I said, I think I'm did potatoes, but I

2656
02:08:40,160 --> 02:08:41,640
Speaker 4: I didn't know you could do sweet potatoes. And I

2657
02:08:41,720 --> 02:08:47,360
Speaker 4: found a good recipe for uh sweet potatoes that has

2658
02:08:47,400 --> 02:08:49,240
Speaker 4: a little bit of cinnamon, a little bit of brown

2659
02:08:49,280 --> 02:08:51,480
Speaker 4: sugar and you mix it up.

2660
02:08:51,360 --> 02:08:54,520
Speaker 3: With some oil off. But I tell you that shit

2661
02:08:54,680 --> 02:08:57,840
Speaker 3: was candy. It was absolutely delicious.

2662
02:08:58,480 --> 02:08:58,600
Speaker 4: Uh.

2663
02:08:58,760 --> 02:09:01,280
Speaker 2: We got emails I've seen around the world. This is from

2664
02:09:01,280 --> 02:09:03,680
Speaker 2: Mandy who says, Hello, Rod and Karen just wanted to

2665
02:09:03,720 --> 02:09:08,280
Speaker 2: comment on the Will Smith and Chris Rock situation. It

2666
02:09:08,320 --> 02:09:11,600
Speaker 2: was a situation that occurred at the Academy Awards. It

2667
02:09:11,640 --> 02:09:13,560
Speaker 2: was triggering to see an assault on a platform a

2668
02:09:14,000 --> 02:09:16,280
Speaker 2: monster peers or a comedian who was known to make

2669
02:09:16,360 --> 02:09:20,280
Speaker 2: jokes about everyone to everyone when Will originally laughed at

2670
02:09:20,280 --> 02:09:23,360
Speaker 2: it but wanted to be Billy badass. I get that

2671
02:09:23,440 --> 02:09:25,800
Speaker 2: Will did it to defend Jado because it is his wife.

2672
02:09:25,880 --> 02:09:28,280
Speaker 2: But Chris did not cause no physical harm to no

2673
02:09:28,400 --> 02:09:30,680
Speaker 2: one on stage, And I do not think it was

2674
02:09:30,720 --> 02:09:32,840
Speaker 2: really about Chris joking about Jada's hair. It was more

2675
02:09:32,840 --> 02:09:35,640
Speaker 2: about Will being embarrassed as being seen as a beta

2676
02:09:35,680 --> 02:09:39,440
Speaker 2: mail because of his wife. Entanglements that she aired out

2677
02:09:39,440 --> 02:09:41,440
Speaker 2: to the public a couple of years ago that the

2678
02:09:41,520 --> 02:09:44,720
Speaker 2: three women hosted host joked about earlier in the show.

2679
02:09:45,920 --> 02:09:48,360
Speaker 2: We could he could not have slapped those women for

2680
02:09:48,440 --> 02:09:51,400
Speaker 2: what they said, because that would have been really overboard

2681
02:09:51,400 --> 02:09:52,880
Speaker 2: for a man to hit a woman. So he took

2682
02:09:52,920 --> 02:09:56,720
Speaker 2: it out on the mail. Honestly, everything you're saying could

2683
02:09:56,720 --> 02:09:58,560
Speaker 2: be true. I don't know, That's.

2684
02:09:58,440 --> 02:09:59,040
Speaker 1: All I'm saying.

2685
02:09:59,200 --> 02:10:01,600
Speaker 2: I'm trying to keep it to the things that I

2686
02:10:01,640 --> 02:10:05,120
Speaker 2: feel like we do know. I think once we get

2687
02:10:05,120 --> 02:10:10,920
Speaker 2: into like the psychoanalysis of their relationship, I really do

2688
02:10:11,040 --> 02:10:15,400
Speaker 2: not know that much about it because the assumption that

2689
02:10:15,440 --> 02:10:16,520
Speaker 2: we're all using from.

2690
02:10:16,400 --> 02:10:17,320
Speaker 1: Our very.

2691
02:10:18,840 --> 02:10:26,240
Speaker 2: Patriarchal, heteronormative matriarchal and not your matriarch I'm sorry, but

2692
02:10:26,560 --> 02:10:29,720
Speaker 2: our matrimony, you know, are you need to be married

2693
02:10:29,720 --> 02:10:31,800
Speaker 2: and it has to be this type of way. A

2694
02:10:31,840 --> 02:10:34,400
Speaker 2: lot of us are speaking out of ignorance through that

2695
02:10:34,440 --> 02:10:38,760
Speaker 2: and being like their open marriage should use the same

2696
02:10:38,880 --> 02:10:44,800
Speaker 2: moral judgment as our relationships that are normally monogamous, and

2697
02:10:44,880 --> 02:10:47,280
Speaker 2: so a lot of us are being like, it was cheating,

2698
02:10:47,920 --> 02:10:52,800
Speaker 2: the entanglement was wrong, it was bad. I don't know,

2699
02:10:52,960 --> 02:10:54,720
Speaker 2: is all I'm saying, I don't know the rules. I

2700
02:10:54,760 --> 02:10:56,320
Speaker 2: don't know if they've healed from that. I don't know

2701
02:10:56,320 --> 02:10:58,200
Speaker 2: if I know they talked about it on the show.

2702
02:10:58,640 --> 02:11:01,560
Speaker 2: I know it was an emotional episode and then they

2703
02:11:01,640 --> 02:11:03,960
Speaker 2: ended up talking about how they were bonded for life,

2704
02:11:03,960 --> 02:11:06,880
Speaker 2: whether or not they were going to be married or

2705
02:11:06,960 --> 02:11:08,600
Speaker 2: intimate or whatever, blah blah blah.

2706
02:11:08,680 --> 02:11:09,360
Speaker 1: So I don't know.

2707
02:11:09,480 --> 02:11:12,560
Speaker 2: They're both And honestly, at this point, I don't even

2708
02:11:12,560 --> 02:11:14,600
Speaker 2: put all that shit on Jada because Will's telling his

2709
02:11:14,680 --> 02:11:15,240
Speaker 2: business too.

2710
02:11:15,280 --> 02:11:15,840
Speaker 1: I don't know why.

2711
02:11:15,880 --> 02:11:20,080
Speaker 2: When he tells his business it seemed as like it's okay,

2712
02:11:20,160 --> 02:11:22,120
Speaker 2: but when she tells her business it's seen as an

2713
02:11:22,120 --> 02:11:22,920
Speaker 2: attack on him.

2714
02:11:23,400 --> 02:11:24,360
Speaker 1: It just feels weird.

2715
02:11:24,520 --> 02:11:27,360
Speaker 2: And you know, like I said, I get the jokes.

2716
02:11:27,440 --> 02:11:29,440
Speaker 2: I'm not here to tell y'all not to joke about it.

2717
02:11:29,480 --> 02:11:32,120
Speaker 2: I think they put it out in public. That's one

2718
02:11:32,160 --> 02:11:34,360
Speaker 2: of the reason I think Chris Rock thought he would

2719
02:11:34,400 --> 02:11:36,840
Speaker 2: be fine is because a lot of that shit has

2720
02:11:36,880 --> 02:11:39,120
Speaker 2: been out there and people been making jokes everywhere. It

2721
02:11:39,160 --> 02:11:41,640
Speaker 2: ain't like Chris Rock ran on the stage made the

2722
02:11:41,680 --> 02:11:44,000
Speaker 2: first ever Will and Jada of the first ever Jada

2723
02:11:44,040 --> 02:11:47,080
Speaker 2: pinging Smith joke, and then we went Wow, I didn't

2724
02:11:47,120 --> 02:11:49,800
Speaker 2: know that was possible, Like, nah, he thought he was

2725
02:11:49,840 --> 02:11:51,000
Speaker 2: coming in a long line.

2726
02:11:50,800 --> 02:11:53,520
Speaker 1: And Will said, actually not you not so fast. So

2727
02:11:54,760 --> 02:11:56,960
Speaker 1: but yeah, I don't know. You could be right.

2728
02:11:57,120 --> 02:11:59,760
Speaker 2: Just understand I don't want to go there because I

2729
02:11:59,800 --> 02:12:01,960
Speaker 2: think once we go there, it gets into this weird

2730
02:12:02,040 --> 02:12:05,680
Speaker 2: kind of it's Jada's fault kind of, you know, And

2731
02:12:05,720 --> 02:12:07,920
Speaker 2: I'm like, maybe I don't know, maybe that Will have

2732
02:12:08,000 --> 02:12:09,960
Speaker 2: to listen to them talk about it. I know it's

2733
02:12:09,960 --> 02:12:12,480
Speaker 2: gonna spark the conversation about black I'm sorry, care, I'm sorry.

2734
02:12:14,120 --> 02:12:15,920
Speaker 2: I know it's gonna spark the conversation about black men,

2735
02:12:15,960 --> 02:12:18,080
Speaker 2: protect the black women, black women, and hair black love.

2736
02:12:18,440 --> 02:12:20,320
Speaker 2: Sad to even say this, but black on black crime

2737
02:12:20,400 --> 02:12:23,120
Speaker 2: because what if Chris would have punch Will and self defense?

2738
02:12:23,360 --> 02:12:23,720
Speaker 1: I get it.

2739
02:12:23,760 --> 02:12:25,960
Speaker 3: What about the kids in Chicago next right.

2740
02:12:25,840 --> 02:12:26,280
Speaker 1: I get it.

2741
02:12:26,320 --> 02:12:28,960
Speaker 2: But the resort to an active violence over a corny joke.

2742
02:12:29,040 --> 02:12:32,200
Speaker 2: Come on, Maybe Chris did not know about Jada's health issue,

2743
02:12:32,240 --> 02:12:34,680
Speaker 2: but that is what Chris does whenever he is invited

2744
02:12:34,720 --> 02:12:38,440
Speaker 2: to the Coudemy Awards any other show. Yeah, yeah, I

2745
02:12:38,480 --> 02:12:40,840
Speaker 2: hear you. I'm not even gonna argue with you. Uh,

2746
02:12:41,000 --> 02:12:44,000
Speaker 2: Theron says Rod as an s U Jags alumni. I

2747
02:12:44,040 --> 02:12:47,160
Speaker 2: greatly appreciate using Southern and your skit on the HBCU

2748
02:12:47,200 --> 02:12:50,240
Speaker 2: Sports Go Jags Great show. Yeah, I didn't come up

2749
02:12:50,280 --> 02:12:57,800
Speaker 2: with that skit. That was Sidney Castillo, who I think.

2750
02:12:57,880 --> 02:12:59,280
Speaker 2: I don't know if we wrote about self or whatever,

2751
02:12:59,320 --> 02:13:02,040
Speaker 2: but he was heavily the person behind that skit.

2752
02:13:02,160 --> 02:13:02,320
Speaker 4: Man.

2753
02:13:02,360 --> 02:13:04,040
Speaker 1: He did a lot of good work on that ship.

2754
02:13:04,120 --> 02:13:06,720
Speaker 2: And uh yeah it was.

2755
02:13:08,280 --> 02:13:08,520
Speaker 1: Cool.

2756
02:13:08,560 --> 02:13:09,800
Speaker 2: I did get to go in there and take a

2757
02:13:09,840 --> 02:13:15,560
Speaker 2: picture with that Rosa Parks High School backdrop though, because

2758
02:13:15,600 --> 02:13:17,520
Speaker 2: I was the person that put Rosa Parks High School

2759
02:13:17,680 --> 02:13:21,360
Speaker 2: in the Duke Deep dive and so they really went

2760
02:13:21,440 --> 02:13:22,240
Speaker 2: and made that thing.

2761
02:13:22,320 --> 02:13:27,600
Speaker 1: I was like, Oh, that's so cool. Hlarious slap one

2762
02:13:27,600 --> 02:13:27,960
Speaker 1: of them.

2763
02:13:28,360 --> 02:13:29,760
Speaker 3: Probably not, we need one.

2764
02:13:31,080 --> 02:13:32,080
Speaker 1: Rose Parks High Schools.

2765
02:13:32,160 --> 02:13:37,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, dem willis it says Hi uh Hi Roding Karen,

2766
02:13:37,640 --> 02:13:40,320
Speaker 2: congrats to you on all the great things happened to

2767
02:13:40,360 --> 02:13:42,600
Speaker 2: you for you professionally, and then for continuing this show.

2768
02:13:42,880 --> 02:13:43,760
Speaker 1: We appreciate it.

2769
02:13:43,800 --> 02:13:45,880
Speaker 2: Shout out to Karen for being an amazing woman. I've

2770
02:13:45,920 --> 02:13:47,840
Speaker 2: listened for a long time. Almost ashamed to say I

2771
02:13:47,880 --> 02:13:50,560
Speaker 2: was convinced to write in about this. I saw Chris

2772
02:13:50,640 --> 02:13:52,600
Speaker 2: Rock at Madison Square Garden years ago. I think it

2773
02:13:52,720 --> 02:13:54,280
Speaker 2: was the bigger and black of tour. Chris did a

2774
02:13:54,360 --> 02:13:56,120
Speaker 2: joke about Will Smith and Will was in the audience.

2775
02:13:56,160 --> 02:13:58,080
Speaker 2: Will immediately stood up in the third or fourth row.

2776
02:13:58,280 --> 02:13:59,240
Speaker 1: They exchanged words.

2777
02:13:59,280 --> 02:14:01,800
Speaker 2: Will yelling the audience and Chris on stage with a mic,

2778
02:14:02,040 --> 02:14:03,920
Speaker 2: so he seemed to be calm and in control. It

2779
02:14:03,960 --> 02:14:05,800
Speaker 2: was hard for us in the audience to figure out

2780
02:14:05,840 --> 02:14:07,200
Speaker 2: if it was a bit or if it was real.

2781
02:14:07,560 --> 02:14:10,400
Speaker 2: Some people boo and yelling at Will to sit down.

2782
02:14:10,440 --> 02:14:13,080
Speaker 2: Others were clapping. Chris basically told him that he was

2783
02:14:13,120 --> 02:14:15,120
Speaker 2: going to go back to his show and sit down,

2784
02:14:15,440 --> 02:14:17,760
Speaker 2: then went on with this Hilarry's show. My memory went

2785
02:14:17,840 --> 02:14:20,480
Speaker 2: straight to that when the Oscar slap happened. Whatever that

2786
02:14:20,600 --> 02:14:23,440
Speaker 2: issue is, it's gone back a while. Thanks for the show,

2787
02:14:23,600 --> 02:14:27,040
Speaker 2: you the best justice for Arby's lol, Daisy, thank you

2788
02:14:27,840 --> 02:14:28,400
Speaker 2: not just.

2789
02:14:28,280 --> 02:14:29,120
Speaker 3: Just for Arbys.

2790
02:14:29,680 --> 02:14:33,840
Speaker 2: And yeah, like I said, that is my projection and

2791
02:14:33,920 --> 02:14:36,560
Speaker 2: conjecture is that it seemed like there was a history

2792
02:14:36,560 --> 02:14:40,880
Speaker 2: there that maybe it wasn't explicitly stated, but at some

2793
02:14:40,960 --> 02:14:43,720
Speaker 2: point Will Smith decided that this dude was paying that

2794
02:14:43,920 --> 02:14:48,040
Speaker 2: night for everything, whatever shit they been through, because it

2795
02:14:48,160 --> 02:14:50,440
Speaker 2: just felt like it couldn't have just been that fucking joke.

2796
02:14:50,480 --> 02:14:54,440
Speaker 2: I'm sorry, but that's not enough in my opinion, Like

2797
02:14:54,480 --> 02:14:56,360
Speaker 2: for him to basically be like, I'm thrown away my

2798
02:14:56,400 --> 02:14:59,560
Speaker 2: career real quick or not even career, but he didn't

2799
02:14:59,560 --> 02:15:01,000
Speaker 2: know whether he he was throwing it away or not

2800
02:15:01,080 --> 02:15:03,280
Speaker 2: and then start crying and shit that that that was

2801
02:15:03,320 --> 02:15:06,280
Speaker 2: a lot Game Theory and Walking Dad. Tiffany says, hey,

2802
02:15:06,320 --> 02:15:08,240
Speaker 2: Rod and Karen been, we're playing catch up as usual.

2803
02:15:08,360 --> 02:15:10,040
Speaker 1: Had to stop to write y'all really quick ride.

2804
02:15:10,080 --> 02:15:11,800
Speaker 2: I'm almost certain I said it on your ig, but

2805
02:15:11,880 --> 02:15:13,840
Speaker 2: wanted to say again, congrats on your incredible new job.

2806
02:15:14,320 --> 02:15:16,160
Speaker 1: I tell people that I know a TV writer now

2807
02:15:16,360 --> 02:15:17,160
Speaker 1: loll just kidding.

2808
02:15:17,840 --> 02:15:20,160
Speaker 2: I've been watching Game Theory and this last episode had

2809
02:15:20,200 --> 02:15:21,720
Speaker 2: me in on the flowing tears.

2810
02:15:22,040 --> 02:15:23,280
Speaker 1: How did we catch us straight?

2811
02:15:23,960 --> 02:15:27,120
Speaker 2: I mean yeah, I mean Grambling when niggas committed to

2812
02:15:27,200 --> 02:15:29,880
Speaker 2: Southern I rewatched the skit. I don't know how many

2813
02:15:29,920 --> 02:15:32,080
Speaker 2: times I hollered when I heard that man say fuck

2814
02:15:32,120 --> 02:15:36,200
Speaker 2: Grambling Q the name and A leaks mean now, now,

2815
02:15:36,240 --> 02:15:39,400
Speaker 2: how did I get in this? I'm a proud Grambling

2816
02:15:39,560 --> 02:15:41,920
Speaker 2: alum and send it to my group chat and they

2817
02:15:41,960 --> 02:15:44,600
Speaker 2: were cracking up as well, looking forward to the remainder

2818
02:15:44,640 --> 02:15:47,640
Speaker 2: of the season and the seasons to come. Switching gears

2819
02:15:47,680 --> 02:15:49,440
Speaker 2: to the Walking Dead, and I crack up every time

2820
02:15:49,520 --> 02:15:52,640
Speaker 2: y'all say we're the last somebody's that are still watching

2821
02:15:52,680 --> 02:15:54,640
Speaker 2: because the person that talked to me and watching years

2822
02:15:54,640 --> 02:15:55,800
Speaker 2: ago no longer watches it.

2823
02:15:56,720 --> 02:15:57,080
Speaker 3: I did.

2824
02:15:58,120 --> 02:15:59,080
Speaker 1: I did want to ask y'all.

2825
02:15:59,120 --> 02:16:00,920
Speaker 2: In the episode with mag he told them no thanks

2826
02:16:00,960 --> 02:16:04,280
Speaker 2: out the hunting with Pam Milton. If y'all heard when

2827
02:16:04,320 --> 02:16:07,320
Speaker 2: Pam Milton said to Hornsby, You've been doing this our

2828
02:16:07,360 --> 02:16:09,640
Speaker 2: whole lives or did I hear her wrong? Either way,

2829
02:16:09,920 --> 02:16:12,080
Speaker 2: I wonder what their connection is. Ever since I heard that,

2830
02:16:12,600 --> 02:16:15,160
Speaker 2: is that her stepbrother, cousin, etc. I've been meaning to

2831
02:16:15,200 --> 02:16:17,400
Speaker 2: go back and rewatch, I haven't made the time to

2832
02:16:17,440 --> 02:16:21,240
Speaker 2: do so had to see if y'all heard it or not. Yeah,

2833
02:16:21,280 --> 02:16:23,880
Speaker 2: I do remember, I just don't think if rain is

2834
02:16:23,880 --> 02:16:27,120
Speaker 2: important to me. But yeah, that's a great catch, Karen.

2835
02:16:27,160 --> 02:16:28,640
Speaker 2: I hope you're able to get to NY sooner and

2836
02:16:28,680 --> 02:16:31,120
Speaker 2: enjoy yourself. You two continued to stay safe and take care.

2837
02:16:31,560 --> 02:16:35,520
Speaker 2: Love you go gsu t smoke, thank you, thank you,

2838
02:16:36,560 --> 02:16:39,800
Speaker 2: will so less, says Hey Rod and Karen. I am

2839
02:16:39,840 --> 02:16:41,920
Speaker 2: one of the few still holding on to the Walking Dead.

2840
02:16:42,280 --> 02:16:45,480
Speaker 2: We're all in the shell of burned out hill Top High.

2841
02:16:45,520 --> 02:16:47,600
Speaker 2: But I actually do like the direction of the show

2842
02:16:47,680 --> 02:16:49,920
Speaker 2: and really wish they had Angela King as a show

2843
02:16:50,000 --> 02:16:50,800
Speaker 2: runner years ago.

2844
02:16:51,160 --> 02:16:53,120
Speaker 1: With the announcing the Knigin and Maggie in the New

2845
02:16:53,200 --> 02:16:53,920
Speaker 1: York or whatever.

2846
02:16:54,040 --> 02:16:56,720
Speaker 2: I wonder if Rick or the other community that Jadis

2847
02:16:57,200 --> 02:16:59,680
Speaker 2: took him to is based in New York, how will

2848
02:16:59,680 --> 02:17:03,920
Speaker 2: they see the next generation at TWD spin offs from this?

2849
02:17:04,080 --> 02:17:04,360
Speaker 3: Well?

2850
02:17:04,640 --> 02:17:08,039
Speaker 2: Will edge can't be evolved? And other TV shows? Have

2851
02:17:08,200 --> 02:17:11,240
Speaker 2: either of you seen Station eleven? Overall think it's well done.

2852
02:17:11,320 --> 02:17:15,840
Speaker 2: It does skip how much would devolve devolve in the

2853
02:17:15,920 --> 02:17:20,039
Speaker 2: post apocalyptic scenario, but has some really good moments. The

2854
02:17:20,120 --> 02:17:22,959
Speaker 2: other good one if you like British TV is AMC's

2855
02:17:23,040 --> 02:17:25,600
Speaker 2: Gangs of London. The new season will be coming out soon.

2856
02:17:25,680 --> 02:17:29,279
Speaker 2: That show is crazy on to talk about the pandemic. Unfortunately,

2857
02:17:29,320 --> 02:17:30,760
Speaker 2: I think there are a lot of people, for a

2858
02:17:30,760 --> 02:17:33,000
Speaker 2: lot of reasons, that are watching the lockdowns in China

2859
02:17:33,080 --> 02:17:36,600
Speaker 2: response to what so far we are calling BA point two.

2860
02:17:37,080 --> 02:17:40,119
Speaker 1: Who know, there's been some of what I have been

2861
02:17:40,120 --> 02:17:40,680
Speaker 1: reading about.

2862
02:17:40,760 --> 02:17:43,240
Speaker 2: It could be a combination of BA point one and

2863
02:17:43,360 --> 02:17:44,120
Speaker 2: BA point two.

2864
02:17:44,480 --> 02:17:46,000
Speaker 1: Will it be an effective strategy?

2865
02:17:46,680 --> 02:17:49,199
Speaker 2: And by effective I mean we totally stopping the chains

2866
02:17:49,200 --> 02:17:52,840
Speaker 2: of transmission and keeping numbers of effected low and confined.

2867
02:17:53,080 --> 02:17:55,720
Speaker 2: If so, I can see some here and in other

2868
02:17:55,760 --> 02:18:00,600
Speaker 2: countries berating their respective leaders and governmental ages for not

2869
02:18:00,680 --> 02:18:04,200
Speaker 2: doing just like China, And my response is is it crack?

2870
02:18:04,760 --> 02:18:06,920
Speaker 1: What about the last two years? May anyone think it

2871
02:18:06,920 --> 02:18:08,720
Speaker 1: could work anywhere? But China? Also?

2872
02:18:08,760 --> 02:18:12,120
Speaker 2: While racism made things here in the US extra reading

2873
02:18:12,160 --> 02:18:15,840
Speaker 2: what happened in Sweden, their approach is basically rationing of care.

2874
02:18:15,720 --> 02:18:16,520
Speaker 1: And her immunity.

2875
02:18:16,600 --> 02:18:20,520
Speaker 2: Bullshit they have and are doing a mostly homogeneous white

2876
02:18:20,520 --> 02:18:21,440
Speaker 2: European country.

2877
02:18:21,600 --> 02:18:23,400
Speaker 1: Lets you know, it boils down to people.

2878
02:18:23,879 --> 02:18:27,920
Speaker 2: People reject rules, empathy, sacrifice, communal goals. In most societies

2879
02:18:27,959 --> 02:18:31,760
Speaker 2: around the world, it is just convenient for folks, even

2880
02:18:31,760 --> 02:18:34,200
Speaker 2: black people, to blame Biden, Harris and the CDC for

2881
02:18:34,280 --> 02:18:36,080
Speaker 2: all manner of not making it go away.

2882
02:18:37,200 --> 02:18:38,000
Speaker 1: We spoil the shit.

2883
02:18:38,720 --> 02:18:42,000
Speaker 2: What bothers me is that so many don't see Republicans

2884
02:18:42,040 --> 02:18:44,080
Speaker 2: actively trying to make it worse. They even did it

2885
02:18:44,120 --> 02:18:46,400
Speaker 2: with forty five er was in office. They are going

2886
02:18:46,440 --> 02:18:48,400
Speaker 2: to use this to say don't vote. See you voted

2887
02:18:48,480 --> 02:18:51,720
Speaker 2: nothing change, which is bullshit, as much changed as it

2888
02:18:51,760 --> 02:18:54,959
Speaker 2: did because of Biden. While is white band in it.

2889
02:18:55,360 --> 02:18:57,800
Speaker 2: Harris is doing her part and it's brilliant. But at

2890
02:18:57,800 --> 02:18:59,360
Speaker 2: the end of the day, so many people don't want

2891
02:18:59,360 --> 02:19:02,200
Speaker 2: to do the work keeping up even this fragile, imperfect

2892
02:19:02,240 --> 02:19:03,520
Speaker 2: sort of democracy going.

2893
02:19:03,840 --> 02:19:04,760
Speaker 1: I hope you're still.

2894
02:19:04,600 --> 02:19:07,440
Speaker 2: Enjoying New York and Karen can come visit maybe one

2895
02:19:07,920 --> 02:19:08,680
Speaker 2: on your day off.

2896
02:19:08,720 --> 02:19:11,320
Speaker 1: You could play a take a see a play on Broadway.

2897
02:19:11,360 --> 02:19:16,039
Speaker 2: Take care, thank you, And yeah, I totally agree with

2898
02:19:16,080 --> 02:19:17,000
Speaker 2: a lot of stuff you said.

2899
02:19:17,000 --> 02:19:17,520
Speaker 1: And it's just.

2900
02:19:19,720 --> 02:19:21,920
Speaker 2: Well, I'm sure when we do another coronavirus segment we'll

2901
02:19:21,959 --> 02:19:22,520
Speaker 2: talk about it.

2902
02:19:22,560 --> 02:19:26,960
Speaker 1: But yeah, the the lockdown isn't working in China, and no,

2903
02:19:27,120 --> 02:19:32,040
Speaker 1: you can't lock down here. And it's people. It's not politicians.

2904
02:19:31,560 --> 02:19:32,720
Speaker 3: Actually locked down.

2905
02:19:32,760 --> 02:19:35,200
Speaker 4: People say, no, we know there was nothing that was

2906
02:19:35,240 --> 02:19:37,560
Speaker 4: like we will arrest you if you bring your ass

2907
02:19:37,600 --> 02:19:38,080
Speaker 4: at the house.

2908
02:19:38,120 --> 02:19:39,880
Speaker 3: We did not have them type of rules here.

2909
02:19:40,040 --> 02:19:42,680
Speaker 2: And it's people, not politicians. People don't want to do

2910
02:19:42,720 --> 02:19:43,320
Speaker 2: these things.

2911
02:19:43,480 --> 02:19:44,520
Speaker 1: I don't know what to tell y'all.

2912
02:19:45,320 --> 02:19:47,920
Speaker 2: Lastly, it's from Steph who says, hey, y'all, I'm really

2913
02:19:47,920 --> 02:19:49,600
Speaker 2: hoping I'm not too late to send my feedback for

2914
02:19:49,640 --> 02:19:51,200
Speaker 2: this week. Just start a new job. I've been so

2915
02:19:51,280 --> 02:19:53,720
Speaker 2: behind the shelves. I just caught up and ro congrats,

2916
02:19:53,800 --> 02:19:55,600
Speaker 2: ride on the gig. Can't wait to see what you

2917
02:19:55,640 --> 02:19:57,480
Speaker 2: come up with. Man, this Will and Chris stuff is

2918
02:19:57,480 --> 02:20:00,720
Speaker 2: out of hand now. Just ready stepped down as a

2919
02:20:00,720 --> 02:20:04,920
Speaker 2: member of the Academy. I'm not saying that what he

2920
02:20:04,959 --> 02:20:07,400
Speaker 2: did was right, but for Fox Legs, it was a

2921
02:20:07,440 --> 02:20:10,480
Speaker 2: slap because somebody who's been making jokes about his wife

2922
02:20:10,520 --> 02:20:14,520
Speaker 2: for decades went too far. And before anyone says anything, yes,

2923
02:20:14,600 --> 02:20:16,720
Speaker 2: for the last time, it's a big deal to her.

2924
02:20:17,000 --> 02:20:20,920
Speaker 1: He went off script for some reason. You know how.

2925
02:20:21,040 --> 02:20:22,480
Speaker 1: I know this was not serious.

2926
02:20:22,520 --> 02:20:24,960
Speaker 2: People have been pretending that he slapped other people, Betty

2927
02:20:25,000 --> 02:20:27,400
Speaker 2: White and the like to what see.

2928
02:20:27,240 --> 02:20:27,920
Speaker 1: This is what happened.

2929
02:20:27,959 --> 02:20:32,600
Speaker 2: I think the algorithm is really taking over this week

2930
02:20:32,680 --> 02:20:34,560
Speaker 2: because people are seeing shit.

2931
02:20:34,480 --> 02:20:36,359
Speaker 1: That I'm like, I didn't even see.

2932
02:20:36,160 --> 02:20:39,760
Speaker 4: That, like even see that arguing it saying I was like,

2933
02:20:39,840 --> 02:20:42,560
Speaker 4: how did we get up? I was like, oh, because

2934
02:20:42,600 --> 02:20:45,080
Speaker 4: I hadn't been out here, so the algorithm hadn't been

2935
02:20:45,080 --> 02:20:46,120
Speaker 4: bringing that shit to my sight.

2936
02:20:46,440 --> 02:20:46,640
Speaker 1: Yeah.

2937
02:20:46,680 --> 02:20:49,680
Speaker 2: I really think it's insidious, and I think a lot

2938
02:20:49,680 --> 02:20:54,000
Speaker 2: of social media is forcing people to see inflammatory perspectives

2939
02:20:54,000 --> 02:20:57,120
Speaker 2: from the opposite camp. And because when I see people

2940
02:20:57,480 --> 02:21:01,520
Speaker 2: talking about this, if I say anything, they start responding

2941
02:21:01,520 --> 02:21:03,440
Speaker 2: to something that I swear to God, I didn't say,

2942
02:21:03,560 --> 02:21:06,760
Speaker 2: like and it's no even point to talk to him, Yeah,

2943
02:21:06,800 --> 02:21:09,320
Speaker 2: because once again I barely talked about it. I haven't

2944
02:21:09,360 --> 02:21:11,400
Speaker 2: really talked to anyone or I you know, gave my

2945
02:21:11,480 --> 02:21:14,879
Speaker 2: opinion on any of the shit. So like it'll be

2946
02:21:15,000 --> 02:21:20,120
Speaker 2: like if you say, like, yeah, he gave up his

2947
02:21:20,600 --> 02:21:24,080
Speaker 2: academy thing and oh no, no, it's Wanda Sykes said

2948
02:21:24,120 --> 02:21:24,920
Speaker 2: she was traumatized.

2949
02:21:24,920 --> 02:21:26,640
Speaker 1: If I go, yeah, well it is her friend and

2950
02:21:26,680 --> 02:21:27,840
Speaker 1: her mentor blah blah blah.

2951
02:21:27,680 --> 02:21:32,560
Speaker 2: They'll be like, yeah, well when Wanda did her special

2952
02:21:32,640 --> 02:21:34,520
Speaker 2: and says she had a white wife, I'm.

2953
02:21:34,360 --> 02:21:37,160
Speaker 1: Like, what is happening? What do they have to do

2954
02:21:37,320 --> 02:21:38,879
Speaker 1: with this specific thing?

2955
02:21:39,680 --> 02:21:39,880
Speaker 3: Right?

2956
02:21:40,520 --> 02:21:44,119
Speaker 2: Like, like, where why is Wanda Sykes now an evil

2957
02:21:44,320 --> 02:21:45,520
Speaker 2: racist black woman?

2958
02:21:46,040 --> 02:21:47,280
Speaker 1: When before she was?

2959
02:21:47,959 --> 02:21:50,280
Speaker 2: When the shit I remember people praising her special the

2960
02:21:50,280 --> 02:21:51,040
Speaker 2: first thirty minutes.

2961
02:21:51,040 --> 02:21:53,800
Speaker 1: It's just all about fuck Trump, Like people love that shit.

2962
02:21:54,000 --> 02:21:57,279
Speaker 2: A year or two ago, you know, people were happy

2963
02:21:57,320 --> 02:22:01,800
Speaker 2: she was an allied with with Monique and was like, yeah,

2964
02:22:01,840 --> 02:22:05,200
Speaker 2: I also took my special and went somewhere else until

2965
02:22:05,200 --> 02:22:07,280
Speaker 2: I got paid, So I'm staying with you.

2966
02:22:07,320 --> 02:22:10,959
Speaker 1: Says like she just I.

2967
02:22:10,879 --> 02:22:13,560
Speaker 2: Forget what she did recently, but she tweeted and supported

2968
02:22:13,560 --> 02:22:16,840
Speaker 2: somebody else, Like it's I don't know, it's just like,

2969
02:22:17,320 --> 02:22:19,800
Speaker 2: why did she have to become enemy number one because

2970
02:22:19,800 --> 02:22:22,160
Speaker 2: you didn't like that she felt away about her fringing

2971
02:22:22,240 --> 02:22:25,680
Speaker 2: slap crazy anyway, not saying that's what you did, but

2972
02:22:25,800 --> 02:22:30,200
Speaker 2: just it's been interesting to see, like, oh, wow, this

2973
02:22:30,280 --> 02:22:32,879
Speaker 2: person's had a completely different experience than the one I've

2974
02:22:32,879 --> 02:22:37,080
Speaker 2: had online. But yeah, I didn't know something about him

2975
02:22:37,120 --> 02:22:40,320
Speaker 2: slapping Betty White to make others feel something about it.

2976
02:22:40,360 --> 02:22:41,520
Speaker 1: I know people have said.

2977
02:22:41,280 --> 02:22:43,760
Speaker 2: This before, but there are literal abuses and rapists in

2978
02:22:43,760 --> 02:22:45,800
Speaker 2: the same audience, still with their awards and accolades.

2979
02:22:45,879 --> 02:22:46,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, I agree.

2980
02:22:46,760 --> 02:22:48,920
Speaker 2: Will Smith has had an impeccable career for over twenty

2981
02:22:49,040 --> 02:22:52,280
Speaker 2: years and this's how people take him down. And I

2982
02:22:52,400 --> 02:22:54,360
Speaker 2: think he'll be fine. I don't know that he's being

2983
02:22:54,400 --> 02:22:58,840
Speaker 2: taken down. I think everyone everyone needs to take a

2984
02:22:58,920 --> 02:23:01,280
Speaker 2: breath and let's see how it play is out. And honestly,

2985
02:23:01,320 --> 02:23:04,760
Speaker 2: he stepped down. They didn't make him step down. They

2986
02:23:04,800 --> 02:23:07,240
Speaker 2: may have been planning to, but he stepped down. So

2987
02:23:08,000 --> 02:23:10,240
Speaker 2: and he issued an apology, and like I said, he

2988
02:23:10,280 --> 02:23:13,560
Speaker 2: seemed regretful to me unless y'all are, like I said,

2989
02:23:13,680 --> 02:23:15,760
Speaker 2: even the people that are defending Will Smith had turned

2990
02:23:15,800 --> 02:23:16,879
Speaker 2: him into something he's not.

2991
02:23:18,480 --> 02:23:18,560
Speaker 7: Like.

2992
02:23:18,640 --> 02:23:20,920
Speaker 2: Will Smith's not the one going, yeah, I slapped him,

2993
02:23:21,000 --> 02:23:23,080
Speaker 2: he went too far. My wife and I and I

2994
02:23:23,080 --> 02:23:25,959
Speaker 2: don't care like and y'all better, and they taking me down.

2995
02:23:26,040 --> 02:23:29,080
Speaker 2: I'm the victim, even he's like, yeah, violence is never

2996
02:23:29,120 --> 02:23:29,600
Speaker 2: the answer.

2997
02:23:29,920 --> 02:23:30,600
Speaker 1: Is a poison.

2998
02:23:30,760 --> 02:23:33,400
Speaker 2: I was out of control, which jobs with way more

2999
02:23:33,400 --> 02:23:35,760
Speaker 2: of the shit he's said over the last few years

3000
02:23:36,320 --> 02:23:37,360
Speaker 2: than that slap dead.

3001
02:23:38,120 --> 02:23:42,680
Speaker 4: Yeah, and like a lot of things, it's not about

3002
02:23:42,720 --> 02:23:47,880
Speaker 4: Will because he said stuff. He apologized, but people are

3003
02:23:47,920 --> 02:23:50,119
Speaker 4: still going, nah, fuck what you said. This is how

3004
02:23:50,160 --> 02:23:52,199
Speaker 4: I feel, And I'm still carrying his narrative.

3005
02:23:52,400 --> 02:23:56,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, but then you were never here for Will in

3006
02:23:56,200 --> 02:23:56,840
Speaker 3: the first place.

3007
02:23:56,879 --> 02:23:59,400
Speaker 4: You were like like, you were just here to argue

3008
02:23:59,480 --> 02:24:01,400
Speaker 4: and shit like that, Like that, shit matters when the

3009
02:24:01,440 --> 02:24:07,320
Speaker 4: person themselves comes out and says something contradictory to what

3010
02:24:07,480 --> 02:24:08,599
Speaker 4: the statement.

3011
02:24:08,160 --> 02:24:12,000
Speaker 3: That you're making. That shows me that it was never

3012
02:24:12,160 --> 02:24:13,160
Speaker 3: about them.

3013
02:24:13,720 --> 02:24:17,720
Speaker 2: And we're a long way from taking him down like

3014
02:24:18,080 --> 02:24:21,920
Speaker 2: him experiencing consequences for violence he enacted in front of

3015
02:24:21,959 --> 02:24:23,800
Speaker 2: a whole lot of people in a place that was

3016
02:24:23,879 --> 02:24:27,520
Speaker 2: not a place where they expected. That is not some

3017
02:24:27,800 --> 02:24:31,800
Speaker 2: like conspiracy to get him. We'll see what the repercussions

3018
02:24:31,920 --> 02:24:35,240
Speaker 2: ultimately end up being. But I just think it's, you know,

3019
02:24:35,360 --> 02:24:37,480
Speaker 2: people acting like they set him up or some shit,

3020
02:24:37,959 --> 02:24:40,680
Speaker 2: like he went and did something and these.

3021
02:24:40,480 --> 02:24:44,200
Speaker 3: Comedians something something, and they go back to bad. I said,

3022
02:24:44,200 --> 02:24:46,720
Speaker 3: this is nothing that me and you talked about. Excuse

3023
02:24:46,760 --> 02:24:49,000
Speaker 3: me before.

3024
02:24:49,440 --> 02:24:53,960
Speaker 4: Why am I defending somebody who won't stand behind the thing, Like, like,

3025
02:24:54,000 --> 02:24:57,120
Speaker 4: to me, that's ridiculous. If you can't stand behind it,

3026
02:24:57,200 --> 02:24:58,800
Speaker 4: why the fuck am I gonna stand behind it?

3027
02:24:59,200 --> 02:24:59,400
Speaker 1: Yeah.

3028
02:24:59,480 --> 02:25:01,000
Speaker 2: I think if he he would have came out and

3029
02:25:01,280 --> 02:25:03,600
Speaker 2: said the things that people who are defending him are saying,

3030
02:25:04,400 --> 02:25:05,800
Speaker 2: then I'd be like, Okay.

3031
02:25:05,520 --> 02:25:07,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, I guess he really did feel with that way.

3032
02:25:07,640 --> 02:25:10,560
Speaker 2: But he's literally saying the opposite, and people are like, no,

3033
02:25:11,560 --> 02:25:13,480
Speaker 2: it was right, he did the right thing.

3034
02:25:13,640 --> 02:25:15,879
Speaker 1: It's totally reasonable to slap that man.

3035
02:25:16,080 --> 02:25:18,760
Speaker 2: Why does the academy and why do these people that

3036
02:25:18,800 --> 02:25:20,480
Speaker 2: are his coworkers even feel.

3037
02:25:20,200 --> 02:25:21,879
Speaker 1: A way about it. It's none of their business.

3038
02:25:22,080 --> 02:25:24,640
Speaker 2: Why do the friends that were there that witnessed this

3039
02:25:24,760 --> 02:25:27,640
Speaker 2: from two men that they know and love, Why do

3040
02:25:27,760 --> 02:25:30,920
Speaker 2: those people feel away like everyone's emotions are.

3041
02:25:30,840 --> 02:25:34,640
Speaker 1: Not valid except for yours the person watching. That's crazy.

3042
02:25:35,520 --> 02:25:37,400
Speaker 2: And these comedians who are saying there was an act

3043
02:25:37,440 --> 02:25:39,440
Speaker 2: of violence and disgrace for are pissing their pants right

3044
02:25:39,440 --> 02:25:41,920
Speaker 2: now because it can happen to him any Joe or

3045
02:25:41,920 --> 02:25:43,720
Speaker 2: Berning can run up on the stage and get them

3046
02:25:43,720 --> 02:25:45,520
Speaker 2: to Don't get me started on the Jada hate.

3047
02:25:45,920 --> 02:25:46,160
Speaker 1: Yeah.

3048
02:25:46,520 --> 02:25:46,760
Speaker 3: Yeah.

3049
02:25:46,879 --> 02:25:49,160
Speaker 2: The thing where we're dismissing the comedian is I hope

3050
02:25:49,160 --> 02:25:52,080
Speaker 2: you listen enough to the show to see, like, how

3051
02:25:53,040 --> 02:25:55,440
Speaker 2: if that was like I said, Jada, if that was

3052
02:25:55,680 --> 02:25:59,640
Speaker 2: my man Jail Covan when he roasted those Trump supporting

3053
02:25:59,640 --> 02:26:03,440
Speaker 2: mother getting ran up on, I don't think we'd be

3054
02:26:03,520 --> 02:26:05,560
Speaker 2: using this type of pejority of like, oh, they pissing

3055
02:26:05,600 --> 02:26:08,880
Speaker 2: their pants, we'd be like that was wrong, like should

3056
02:26:09,000 --> 02:26:11,080
Speaker 2: he had? The stage is a place where you should

3057
02:26:11,080 --> 02:26:12,760
Speaker 2: be able to make those jokes and they don't have

3058
02:26:12,800 --> 02:26:14,720
Speaker 2: to like them, but they shouldn't get to put their

3059
02:26:14,760 --> 02:26:16,800
Speaker 2: hands on you because they feel like you're picking on them.

3060
02:26:16,840 --> 02:26:19,440
Speaker 2: Because what a lot of this stuff is is people

3061
02:26:19,560 --> 02:26:25,600
Speaker 2: individually deciding they're the victim in this situation. And once

3062
02:26:25,640 --> 02:26:28,440
Speaker 2: we do that, there's people that we don't agree with

3063
02:26:29,000 --> 02:26:31,920
Speaker 2: who still feel like they're a victim. So we can't

3064
02:26:31,959 --> 02:26:34,959
Speaker 2: just make it only about how people feel. Even with

3065
02:26:35,080 --> 02:26:38,039
Speaker 2: me saying I doesn't like that joke, don't get me

3066
02:26:38,040 --> 02:26:40,840
Speaker 2: started over Jada hate. They open their personal lives up

3067
02:26:40,920 --> 02:26:42,960
Speaker 2: after we have been speculating about it for decades. They

3068
02:26:42,959 --> 02:26:44,760
Speaker 2: said they had an open relationship. The August guy was

3069
02:26:44,840 --> 02:26:47,680
Speaker 2: upset Jada didn't leave Will for him, so he went

3070
02:26:47,720 --> 02:26:49,600
Speaker 2: on an interview and said their business. So now it's

3071
02:26:49,600 --> 02:26:52,199
Speaker 2: her fault that Will did that. A real woman would

3072
02:26:52,240 --> 02:26:54,280
Speaker 2: know how to stop her husband with a bitch. She

3073
02:26:54,360 --> 02:26:57,800
Speaker 2: doesn't love him, she was embarrassing, She embarrassed him. Tupac

3074
02:26:58,360 --> 02:27:00,600
Speaker 2: unreal that she is getting blamed for this. We can't

3075
02:27:00,600 --> 02:27:05,440
Speaker 2: mess up, not even once. Yeah, yeah, I do agree

3076
02:27:05,480 --> 02:27:08,119
Speaker 2: that Jada. Some of the stuff I've seen about Jada

3077
02:27:08,160 --> 02:27:12,800
Speaker 2: has been terrible. I personally wouldn't blame her, but also.

3078
02:27:14,520 --> 02:27:16,880
Speaker 1: So much of that business is public and for sale.

3079
02:27:17,080 --> 02:27:18,280
Speaker 1: I also am not.

3080
02:27:18,360 --> 02:27:21,640
Speaker 2: Really blaming people who think like this is a result

3081
02:27:21,800 --> 02:27:26,760
Speaker 2: of all the messiness because they do sell messiness. It's

3082
02:27:26,800 --> 02:27:30,280
Speaker 2: like if someone on a reality TV show had something

3083
02:27:30,360 --> 02:27:33,039
Speaker 2: happen in real life, not scripted, a lot of people

3084
02:27:33,040 --> 02:27:35,520
Speaker 2: are gonna be like, yeah, because of that reality TV show,

3085
02:27:35,760 --> 02:27:39,640
Speaker 2: we've seen you, you do crazy shit. This is the

3086
02:27:39,680 --> 02:27:43,879
Speaker 2: result of people watching Will Smith cry on TV. Everyone

3087
02:27:44,000 --> 02:27:48,520
Speaker 2: covering it, her used determinentanglements. Everyone made jokes about it.

3088
02:27:48,640 --> 02:27:53,600
Speaker 2: All your favorite podcasts did, including us. No one was

3089
02:27:53,640 --> 02:27:56,200
Speaker 2: thinking of it in this like and one day Will

3090
02:27:56,240 --> 02:27:58,640
Speaker 2: Smith will slap Chris Rock to context because we didn't

3091
02:27:58,640 --> 02:28:00,880
Speaker 2: think that would happen. That's one reason I think it's

3092
02:28:00,920 --> 02:28:03,480
Speaker 2: weird when people try to normalize what happened because we

3093
02:28:04,160 --> 02:28:05,959
Speaker 2: the reason we're talking about is because none of us

3094
02:28:05,959 --> 02:28:08,240
Speaker 2: had that on our fucking twenty twenty two bingo cards.

3095
02:28:08,320 --> 02:28:10,840
Speaker 1: We're all a little bit shot, right, so why you

3096
02:28:10,840 --> 02:28:11,400
Speaker 1: know nobody?

3097
02:28:12,520 --> 02:28:15,879
Speaker 2: Yeah, Field, So some people got in turned on by

3098
02:28:16,040 --> 02:28:18,960
Speaker 2: some people got disgusted by. It's violence, that's what it does.

3099
02:28:19,040 --> 02:28:21,680
Speaker 2: I'm not really judging y'all for that, but I just

3100
02:28:21,720 --> 02:28:24,560
Speaker 2: don't want to exist in this world where we normalize

3101
02:28:24,600 --> 02:28:27,720
Speaker 2: it and act like this is just what happens, and hey, dude,

3102
02:28:27,720 --> 02:28:31,480
Speaker 2: talk shit, get hit like that's actually not part of that,

3103
02:28:31,840 --> 02:28:34,680
Speaker 2: you know, that agreement that that they had up until

3104
02:28:34,680 --> 02:28:36,920
Speaker 2: this point. And if it does become part of that agreement,

3105
02:28:37,520 --> 02:28:40,200
Speaker 2: it ain't gonna stop with just Chris Rock and a

3106
02:28:40,280 --> 02:28:43,000
Speaker 2: black the black protect black women, quote unquote.

3107
02:28:43,040 --> 02:28:45,279
Speaker 1: It's gonna happen sometimes when y'all.

3108
02:28:45,040 --> 02:28:47,120
Speaker 2: Actually be like, why the fuck did that person hit

3109
02:28:47,120 --> 02:28:49,360
Speaker 2: a black woman on stage? But they didn't like that

3110
02:28:49,440 --> 02:28:51,959
Speaker 2: joke Tiffany had made, Well, we can't have that.

3111
02:28:54,200 --> 02:28:55,720
Speaker 1: Unreal that she's been blamed.

3112
02:28:55,480 --> 02:28:57,200
Speaker 2: But yeah, I feel, yeah, a lot of people blaming

3113
02:28:57,240 --> 02:29:00,280
Speaker 2: her that I think it's out of control. Anyway, watching

3114
02:29:00,280 --> 02:29:02,480
Speaker 2: and Walking Dead again, I know just what the hell

3115
02:29:02,560 --> 02:29:03,440
Speaker 2: y'all be talking about.

3116
02:29:03,520 --> 02:29:03,800
Speaker 1: Lol.

3117
02:29:03,840 --> 02:29:07,360
Speaker 2: I haven't watched since the Asian Man died, Glynn, I

3118
02:29:07,680 --> 02:29:09,640
Speaker 2: have about four season to catch up on. Thank you

3119
02:29:09,680 --> 02:29:12,560
Speaker 2: for listening. This is not too long, Stephanie, Thanks for listening.

3120
02:29:12,600 --> 02:29:14,680
Speaker 2: Thanks for all y'all that road in. Seriously, even if

3121
02:29:14,720 --> 02:29:16,720
Speaker 2: you disagree with us, even if y'all wrote something that

3122
02:29:16,760 --> 02:29:19,840
Speaker 2: we disagree with, we appreciate you all writing then for real,

3123
02:29:20,879 --> 02:29:23,280
Speaker 2: because there's a lot of shows that they gave their

3124
02:29:23,320 --> 02:29:25,080
Speaker 2: opinions and nobody gave a fuck this week.

3125
02:29:26,520 --> 02:29:27,080
Speaker 1: And thank y'all.

3126
02:29:27,080 --> 02:29:30,440
Speaker 2: Also for understanding that we're not doing this shit as often.

3127
02:29:30,600 --> 02:29:33,720
Speaker 2: It's a lot of work, but we're never gonna have

3128
02:29:33,800 --> 02:29:35,760
Speaker 2: fash y'all on the show, which is why this episode

3129
02:29:35,840 --> 02:29:36,200
Speaker 2: so long.

3130
02:29:37,440 --> 02:29:38,320
Speaker 1: All right, that's it.

3131
02:29:38,440 --> 02:29:43,080
Speaker 2: Happy birthday again to you, baby yay, and until next time,

3132
02:29:43,200 --> 02:29:43,640
Speaker 2: I love you.

3133
02:29:44,280 --> 02:29:44,920
Speaker 3: I love you too,