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Speaker 1: All right, buckle up and hold on tight. We got

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Speaker 1: it for you here. It is a Strawberry letter subject

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Speaker 1: booty licious. Dear Stephen Shirley. Let me start off by

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Speaker 1: saying that I'm a young man in my mid twenties,

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Speaker 1: but I've been fully committed to my beautiful girlfriend since

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Speaker 1: high school. Our relationship is great, but my issue is

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Speaker 1: when we are out in public. Lord knows this always

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Speaker 1: happens to me. Always is in all caps. Another female

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Speaker 1: with a huge behind seems to always come strolling along,

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Speaker 1: and I just can't help but catch a quick quick look.

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Speaker 1: My girl has a nice, big behind, but I look

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Speaker 1: to window I like to window shop, and she hates it. So, Steve,

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Speaker 1: is this normal to me? It's a natural thing. And

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Speaker 1: guys just can't help themselves when they see a nice

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Speaker 1: big behind. We start acting like a fat kid with cake.

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Speaker 1: I've even tried wearing sunglasses to hide my eyes, but

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Speaker 1: sometimes I let out a little run when I see

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Speaker 1: a fine woman. Well this urge ever go away? Does

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Speaker 1: every guy do this, regardless of how beautiful their girlfriend

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Speaker 1: or wife is? Please help, No, they do not. There's

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Speaker 1: a thing called self control, young man. You need to

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Speaker 1: get you some okay, because you're being very disrespectful to

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Speaker 1: your girlfriend, to your beautiful girlfriend who you are fully

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Speaker 1: committed to. Those are your words. You put them in

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Speaker 1: the letter. Okay, it's it's okay to admire beautiful people

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Speaker 1: and beautiful things, but you can't be disrespectful to your

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Speaker 1: girl out in public. That's ridiculous. Come on, get ahold

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Speaker 1: of yourself, get some self control, and you gotta stop it.

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Speaker 1: Are you going to lose your beautiful girlfriend who you

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Speaker 1: say you were fully committed to? All right, Steve, Wow,

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Speaker 1: I'm done. Wow? That was sure? Yeah, it was Steve.

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Speaker 1: Let me start off by saying that I'm a young

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Speaker 1: man in my mid twenties. I'm fully committed to my

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Speaker 1: beautiful girlfriend since high school. Relationship is eight But my

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Speaker 1: issue is when we out in public. Lord knows. And

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Speaker 1: here's where it gets. Lord knows. This always in capital

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Speaker 1: letters happens to me. Another female with a huge behind

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Speaker 1: seems to always come strolling alone. I just can't help

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Speaker 1: but catch a quick look. My girl has a nice,

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Speaker 1: big behind, but I like to window shopping. She hates it.

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Speaker 1: First of all, let's just deal with them. It always happens.

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Speaker 1: See what you're gonna have to do, young man, is

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Speaker 1: you're gonna have to pay attention to where you at now. Obviously,

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Speaker 1: since it always happened you had a hood mall, you

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Speaker 1: have a mall in the hood. You're gonna have to

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Speaker 1: start going to some white mall. And you don't have

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Speaker 1: to go early in the morning for the walk for

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Speaker 1: the mall week open up that way you can walk

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Speaker 1: and ain't nothing in that what old people walking? That

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Speaker 1: is your only way a white mall. Befold the mall

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Speaker 1: open then you won't have to see these big behind

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Speaker 1: So now, m you try to catch a quickly. My

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Speaker 1: girl has a night bit, but I like to wind

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Speaker 1: a shop and she hates it. So, Steve, is this normal?

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Speaker 1: Let me tell you something. Yes, this is normal. Thank you. Yes,

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Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie to you. This is normal. What's

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Speaker 1: normal to wind a shop, to look at women when

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Speaker 1: they walk back when you're with your wife or your girlfriend.

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Speaker 1: Be quiet? Sure you answer, you had you little shop

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Speaker 1: answer because you don't know about this whatever he says. Steve,

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Speaker 1: it's this normal. You know nothing about on it. The

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Speaker 1: only way you in this letter, Shirley, is you want

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Speaker 1: of them big behind women. That's walking by this for now,

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Speaker 1: that's why you the reason. I was getting along with

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Speaker 1: it til you jumped in. But since you want to

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Speaker 1: jump in, then let's put you in it. You is

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Speaker 1: who this letter is about. He said. He always with

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Speaker 1: his woman and some woman with a big behind. Come

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Speaker 1: back now, Shirley, Steve Harvey, quit walking past this boy

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Speaker 1: when he with his girl. Okay, all right, now you

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Speaker 1: wanta stay out of it, now, come on, he says, So, Steve,

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Speaker 1: is this normal? Yes, this is normal. Uh to me,

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Speaker 1: it is a natural thing. And guys just can't help

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Speaker 1: themselves when they see a nice, big behind. We started

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Speaker 1: acting like a fat kid with Kate. But let's explain

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Speaker 1: something to you, young man. Fat kids with cakes get

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Speaker 1: their ass whooped all the time. And a fat kid

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Speaker 1: will take our ask whipping over some cake. So what

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Speaker 1: you're gonna mess around to do until you learn the

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Speaker 1: me about this cake. Now. They're behinds that don't belong

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Speaker 1: to you that you love. When the shopping that then

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Speaker 1: you ask me is a natural thing. Yes, it's a

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Speaker 1: natural thing. But you're going to have to develop the

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Speaker 1: techniques to do this. I've even tried wearing sunglasses to hide.

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Speaker 1: Sunglasses don't work, even the big ones with the sides

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Speaker 1: on it. Now, it don't work. Women know you're looking.

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Speaker 1: They see it too. But sometimes I let out a

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Speaker 1: little grunt when I sitting there that sea right here

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Speaker 1: for see, here's what you did right here? Now here

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Speaker 1: she coming? This is what you go? And how do

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Speaker 1: you know? That's it? One more time? Did it? We

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Speaker 1: all didn't done it? And here going. No one m

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Speaker 1: got But now you've got to learn. Now you've got

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Speaker 1: to do some other things other than making these noises. Boy,

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Speaker 1: here's one. Bite your limp off. Bite it now. Sometimes

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Speaker 1: it will bleed. If it's really good, it's gonna be

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Speaker 1: blood in your mouth. Now you want to try that.

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Speaker 1: Then you got to develop an in a mon See

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Speaker 1: you're going, m you out loud. You've got to internalize it.

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Speaker 1: Here's a way to internalize it. Act like you're scratching

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Speaker 1: the back of your hand to do like that, but

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Speaker 1: you're scratching the back of your head and go dand yeah, man,

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Speaker 1: you've got to internalize as this. Ah, here's another one.

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Speaker 1: You've got to develop a bark like just out of nowhere.

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Speaker 1: You can bark. Are you crazy? You can bark, my friend,

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Speaker 1: you can act like you saw bro so ignorantly. Come on,

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Speaker 1: let's get to part two of today's young man is

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Speaker 1: having a problem. When he's with his girl, he's looking

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Speaker 1: at other women's behind. He can't help it. He likes

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Speaker 1: to win the shot. He tells me, seeing a nice,

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Speaker 1: big behind and say me and start. Ain't like fat kids.

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Speaker 1: I reminded him that a lot of people have fat,

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Speaker 1: a lot of fat kids, and had to a cake.

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Speaker 1: In fact, he will fight bout cake every time they're

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Speaker 1: getting the damn fight box. I've even tried to wear

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Speaker 1: sunglasses the high mine that don't matter. But sometimes I

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Speaker 1: let out a little grunt when I see a fine woman.

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Speaker 1: Now see you moaning? Now, now I've told you this

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Speaker 1: grunt has to become inner. You gotta get this inner all.

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Speaker 1: Like I said before, if you was in the frat,

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Speaker 1: you could develop a ball. You could act like you

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Speaker 1: see in another queue on the other side of the Malaga.

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Speaker 1: So doc okay, but he ain't in a France, which

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Speaker 1: is your damn shame. Okay, Now, will this urge ever

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Speaker 1: go away? Well no, all son, but you're gonna have

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Speaker 1: to manage it better, because, like Shirley said, it is

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Speaker 1: a sign of disrespect to your girl. So how do

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Speaker 1: you manage it better? I have two other ways to

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Speaker 1: help you out come on number one, whichever way the

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Speaker 1: girl is going, turn your head ten yards ahead of

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Speaker 1: where she's walking and let her walk into your eyeline

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Speaker 1: and passed back. That's it. That's it. That's it. You

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Speaker 1: see her coming, you turn around and look back over

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Speaker 1: your shoulder and let her walk past your shoulder. You

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Speaker 1: already turned that way. That's all you get and turned

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Speaker 1: back around and keep walking. And nothing said. You gotta

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Speaker 1: let him walk into your eyeline. That's for stars. The

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Speaker 1: last suggestion I have for you is you have to

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Speaker 1: make this moment spiritual. I just said you have to

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Speaker 1: make this a spiritual moment. So this would allow you

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Speaker 1: For like when I passed by a fine woman and

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Speaker 1: she walked past. This is all I say, Jesus, yes,

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Speaker 1: m M, that's it. But but if your lady here

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Speaker 1: you say that that's cool, it's not cold. No, And

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Speaker 1: then if my lady snatched Jesus, Father, God bless this union,

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Speaker 1: help us Lord, stay together. Didn't go into prap if

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Speaker 1: she said, what do you say, Jesus help us, Lord,

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Speaker 1: bless my favorite whatever you what you can't do is

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Speaker 1: get mad at me for having prayer. So so understand

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Speaker 1: if you if you're walking and you at the at

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Speaker 1: the White Mall, and Kim Kardashian is shopping, and you

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Speaker 1: and your lady and this boy and his lady together,

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Speaker 1: and she passed by, what do the boy do not? Baby?

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Speaker 1: You see Kim Kardashian. Baby, look over here. This is

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Speaker 1: Kim Kardashi that you who ain't gonna do that now

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Speaker 1: the whole time you're pregnant, Kim, you're looking. I hate

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Speaker 1: all of them right over here. This is perfect under

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Speaker 1: the dress. I mean by the dress, I mean at

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Speaker 1: the count. Learn to control yourselves, okay, so do the

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Speaker 1: LA does not do this when they see it all

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Speaker 1: the dame time. But we're smarting all the time. But

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Speaker 1: women don't make noises because we're smarter. All right, Steve

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Speaker 1: introduced our girl. She is here. That animal sounds you

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Speaker 1: make U that's another one too that I do that

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Speaker 1: one all the time too. I just fined at all.

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Speaker 1: today's Strawberry Letter At my Girl, surely you're listening to

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Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show.