1 00:00:01,040 --> 00:00:06,000 Speaker 1: This is Ben and Ashley I almost famous in Depth. Wow, guys, 2 00:00:06,280 --> 00:00:11,119 Speaker 1: we have a very special mini in depth today because 3 00:00:11,280 --> 00:00:15,000 Speaker 1: this person does not do a lot of interviews. He 4 00:00:15,040 --> 00:00:18,480 Speaker 1: really just doesn't. Um. He's kind of been a ghost 5 00:00:18,560 --> 00:00:21,239 Speaker 1: to the franchise over the past few years, but a 6 00:00:21,400 --> 00:00:25,639 Speaker 1: name that we will always remember. Ladies and gentlemen, please 7 00:00:25,840 --> 00:00:31,920 Speaker 1: welcome Juan Pablo Galves. Ah, yeah, thank you very much, 8 00:00:32,120 --> 00:00:34,800 Speaker 1: thank you for inviting me. And uh, yeah, well, I 9 00:00:34,800 --> 00:00:39,720 Speaker 1: guess that was a good intro. Well, let's let's address 10 00:00:39,720 --> 00:00:44,720 Speaker 1: me honestly. That's a very honestly right there. Thank you. Well, 11 00:00:44,960 --> 00:00:48,400 Speaker 1: let's address that that statement that I made. Then, why 12 00:00:48,520 --> 00:00:54,120 Speaker 1: have you been so distant from the franchise since your season? Well, 13 00:00:54,160 --> 00:00:58,600 Speaker 1: to be honest with you, it's it wasn't easy to 14 00:00:58,920 --> 00:01:01,880 Speaker 1: just get out of the show when you know, I've 15 00:01:01,920 --> 00:01:05,720 Speaker 1: explained to some people that when we me and Nikki 16 00:01:06,880 --> 00:01:09,000 Speaker 1: and the show, and the next day we were in 17 00:01:09,000 --> 00:01:11,440 Speaker 1: in Miami. We we flew to Miami. The first thing 18 00:01:11,480 --> 00:01:14,360 Speaker 1: we saw was my mom and she was crying, you know, 19 00:01:14,480 --> 00:01:18,399 Speaker 1: because of how they treated me on the show, or 20 00:01:18,440 --> 00:01:22,160 Speaker 1: how they edited everything, you know, so uh and they 21 00:01:22,319 --> 00:01:27,440 Speaker 1: edited her against me basically, and she felt she felt bad, 22 00:01:27,480 --> 00:01:31,480 Speaker 1: and in my my position was like, I don't care 23 00:01:31,480 --> 00:01:33,560 Speaker 1: if they edit me, but not my parents or my 24 00:01:33,640 --> 00:01:37,000 Speaker 1: cousin or my brother or whatever, my my family. So 25 00:01:38,000 --> 00:01:40,720 Speaker 1: that was one of the reasons, you know. Once I 26 00:01:40,760 --> 00:01:42,760 Speaker 1: was out of the show, I was like, you know what, 27 00:01:43,840 --> 00:01:47,319 Speaker 1: it's easy. And the other thing was like, Dancing with 28 00:01:47,400 --> 00:01:51,320 Speaker 1: the Stars was calling me big time, and when we 29 00:01:51,320 --> 00:01:53,280 Speaker 1: were on the finale, we were talking to Dancing with 30 00:01:53,320 --> 00:01:56,280 Speaker 1: the Stars, and the the owner of the show didn't 31 00:01:56,320 --> 00:01:58,200 Speaker 1: let me do Dancing with the Stars as well. So 32 00:01:58,520 --> 00:02:00,480 Speaker 1: it was that kind of you know, I was like, 33 00:02:00,520 --> 00:02:02,960 Speaker 1: you know what if if I did this show for 34 00:02:03,040 --> 00:02:06,000 Speaker 1: you guys, and you're editing whatever you want to do, 35 00:02:06,200 --> 00:02:11,440 Speaker 1: and you're editing your way, and I got u Look, 36 00:02:12,120 --> 00:02:16,040 Speaker 1: I was made a villain because I was honest, because 37 00:02:16,080 --> 00:02:19,960 Speaker 1: I didn't proposed to somebody that I knew forty hours 38 00:02:20,760 --> 00:02:23,120 Speaker 1: and I've never proposed to anybody in my life at 39 00:02:23,120 --> 00:02:27,640 Speaker 1: the time, and h and if being honest was a 40 00:02:27,760 --> 00:02:31,720 Speaker 1: bad thing, I guess I wasn't good for the franchise, 41 00:02:31,800 --> 00:02:34,799 Speaker 1: I guess, you know. So those are some of the 42 00:02:34,880 --> 00:02:37,400 Speaker 1: situations that got me, you know what, I'm done with 43 00:02:37,440 --> 00:02:41,680 Speaker 1: the show, and that's it. I'm good. In hindsight, were 44 00:02:41,720 --> 00:02:43,639 Speaker 1: there any comments that you felt like you said out 45 00:02:43,680 --> 00:02:46,080 Speaker 1: of honesty that didn't go the right way that you 46 00:02:46,120 --> 00:02:48,520 Speaker 1: feel like probably shouldn't have said that. I could have 47 00:02:48,560 --> 00:02:53,160 Speaker 1: kept it in my own head. You're not gonna be 48 00:02:53,200 --> 00:02:55,680 Speaker 1: You're not gonna please everybody, So I'd rather be honest 49 00:02:55,720 --> 00:03:00,440 Speaker 1: with you then not say something. If you're asking me question, 50 00:03:00,560 --> 00:03:03,000 Speaker 1: you know, I cannot be like, oh, I won't go 51 00:03:03,080 --> 00:03:06,519 Speaker 1: around or something like that. So in my head, I 52 00:03:06,639 --> 00:03:10,239 Speaker 1: was like, I'm just gonna be myself. It's my it's 53 00:03:10,240 --> 00:03:12,400 Speaker 1: my life. I have a daughter. I have to be 54 00:03:12,440 --> 00:03:14,080 Speaker 1: as honest as I can. I have to be honest 55 00:03:14,080 --> 00:03:16,040 Speaker 1: with the girls. I have to be honest with myself, 56 00:03:16,520 --> 00:03:18,960 Speaker 1: and I have to be honest with the father or 57 00:03:19,040 --> 00:03:21,320 Speaker 1: family of the girls, you know. And And one of 58 00:03:21,360 --> 00:03:25,280 Speaker 1: the things that that stick into my head when I 59 00:03:25,320 --> 00:03:27,840 Speaker 1: was in the hometowns was a Nikki's parents, you know, 60 00:03:27,880 --> 00:03:31,320 Speaker 1: and and Nikki's dad when he said, if you proposed 61 00:03:31,360 --> 00:03:34,200 Speaker 1: to my daughter, are you a sure you're gonna marry her? 62 00:03:34,720 --> 00:03:36,560 Speaker 1: And I was honest to him, and I said, well, 63 00:03:36,560 --> 00:03:39,000 Speaker 1: in the situation is hard. I have three other families 64 00:03:39,680 --> 00:03:41,640 Speaker 1: that I visit or I have to visit. I remember 65 00:03:41,680 --> 00:03:43,480 Speaker 1: at the time if I have visit them or not, 66 00:03:44,120 --> 00:03:48,400 Speaker 1: but I said, you know, um that I'm a father. 67 00:03:48,960 --> 00:03:52,200 Speaker 1: So when I heard those words and said, if you're 68 00:03:52,200 --> 00:03:55,640 Speaker 1: proposed to my daughters because you're sure, then I was like, 69 00:03:55,680 --> 00:03:59,040 Speaker 1: I cannot propose because I met this girl forty hours. 70 00:03:59,520 --> 00:04:03,120 Speaker 1: I don't need to know in real life how she is. 71 00:04:03,560 --> 00:04:06,000 Speaker 1: But I liked her. I like her a lot. You know, 72 00:04:06,080 --> 00:04:09,640 Speaker 1: I like her a lot. That's how you know. It's 73 00:04:09,680 --> 00:04:13,640 Speaker 1: funny because during the entire season I explain a lot, 74 00:04:14,280 --> 00:04:17,440 Speaker 1: a lot of things. I explained, for example, that I 75 00:04:17,480 --> 00:04:21,440 Speaker 1: love you. In America as used for anything. I love 76 00:04:21,480 --> 00:04:23,440 Speaker 1: that dress, I love I love this, I love that, 77 00:04:23,560 --> 00:04:26,120 Speaker 1: I love you use that way, and we have different 78 00:04:26,120 --> 00:04:30,120 Speaker 1: words in Spanish that when you're dating or you're going 79 00:04:30,120 --> 00:04:34,520 Speaker 1: out with, somebody's like I like you, I adore you. 80 00:04:34,520 --> 00:04:36,600 Speaker 1: You don't use that. I'm like, hey, I adore you. 81 00:04:36,920 --> 00:04:38,440 Speaker 1: You were like, what are you talking about? You know 82 00:04:38,440 --> 00:04:41,040 Speaker 1: what kind of It's weird, you know, but in Spanish 83 00:04:41,040 --> 00:04:44,320 Speaker 1: you say different. There's like levels and then at the 84 00:04:44,400 --> 00:04:46,039 Speaker 1: end you say I love you. When you are in 85 00:04:46,160 --> 00:04:49,080 Speaker 1: love and you you know the person that a lot 86 00:04:49,240 --> 00:04:52,320 Speaker 1: you know, right, well, I feel like that kind of 87 00:04:52,400 --> 00:04:56,800 Speaker 1: rolls over into when you had when you spoke about 88 00:04:56,839 --> 00:04:59,360 Speaker 1: there being possibly a gay lead to the show and 89 00:04:59,600 --> 00:05:02,280 Speaker 1: you use the word that you weren't that you backtracked 90 00:05:02,279 --> 00:05:04,960 Speaker 1: on because you said, there is a cultural difference to this, 91 00:05:05,279 --> 00:05:08,640 Speaker 1: there is a sort of a language barrier to this, 92 00:05:09,080 --> 00:05:12,440 Speaker 1: where there are other times throughout the show that you 93 00:05:12,520 --> 00:05:16,640 Speaker 1: felt like those barriers got in the way of the 94 00:05:16,640 --> 00:05:23,360 Speaker 1: the fandom bonding with you. The gay situation was like 95 00:05:23,680 --> 00:05:27,479 Speaker 1: I try to say, perver was not the word. It 96 00:05:27,600 --> 00:05:30,960 Speaker 1: was like more affectionate and people in the house will 97 00:05:31,000 --> 00:05:33,200 Speaker 1: fall in love with the people in the house. You know, 98 00:05:33,240 --> 00:05:36,800 Speaker 1: I have family members, I have friends. I've been around 99 00:05:37,320 --> 00:05:40,920 Speaker 1: gay people in my life. I have zero homophobic or anything, 100 00:05:40,960 --> 00:05:42,240 Speaker 1: you know, because at the end of the the the 101 00:05:43,320 --> 00:05:46,560 Speaker 1: person I love them, and it's just it's just I've 102 00:05:46,600 --> 00:05:51,039 Speaker 1: been around for forever, you know, since I'm little. And yeah, 103 00:05:51,080 --> 00:05:55,440 Speaker 1: there was two we're taken out of and I understand 104 00:05:55,480 --> 00:05:57,920 Speaker 1: out of context, but I understand to make a buss 105 00:05:57,920 --> 00:06:00,280 Speaker 1: out of it, whatever, you know. To me, it was, 106 00:06:00,520 --> 00:06:02,440 Speaker 1: you know, it was funny because when I wake up 107 00:06:02,480 --> 00:06:05,040 Speaker 1: that morning, it was seven in the morning in l A. 108 00:06:06,160 --> 00:06:09,000 Speaker 1: And the first person I called. Was Ricky Martin's manager 109 00:06:09,000 --> 00:06:12,400 Speaker 1: at the time. I said, Blue, No, what do I 110 00:06:12,480 --> 00:06:14,880 Speaker 1: do now? You know what's going on? One no words, 111 00:06:15,000 --> 00:06:17,760 Speaker 1: Let's just figure something out here because I know you 112 00:06:18,600 --> 00:06:21,040 Speaker 1: and I know the words are not what you mean. 113 00:06:21,680 --> 00:06:24,560 Speaker 1: So so that was the first guy. As soon as 114 00:06:24,600 --> 00:06:27,000 Speaker 1: I saw everything, the first guy I called right away. 115 00:06:27,160 --> 00:06:29,520 Speaker 1: And and it was tough for me. It was tough 116 00:06:29,520 --> 00:06:32,200 Speaker 1: because I was taking taking the wrong way, but I 117 00:06:32,279 --> 00:06:35,040 Speaker 1: understand why it was taking the wrong way. And in 118 00:06:35,160 --> 00:06:41,480 Speaker 1: the show, Um, those explanations that I did that they 119 00:06:41,480 --> 00:06:45,479 Speaker 1: were never shown, would have made everything better, you know, 120 00:06:46,279 --> 00:06:49,000 Speaker 1: you know, and and it's just it was just part 121 00:06:49,000 --> 00:06:51,800 Speaker 1: of it, you know. And I understand they have to 122 00:06:51,839 --> 00:06:56,720 Speaker 1: do a show. They but in my head, I will 123 00:06:56,760 --> 00:06:59,599 Speaker 1: always say it could have been better. It could have 124 00:06:59,640 --> 00:07:01,800 Speaker 1: been a show. It could have been a good story. 125 00:07:02,120 --> 00:07:04,839 Speaker 1: And I understand if I didn't propose, that's not what 126 00:07:04,920 --> 00:07:08,120 Speaker 1: they wanted, you know, And I get it. And maybe 127 00:07:08,560 --> 00:07:11,400 Speaker 1: band would not propose, or the other one wouldn't have proposed, 128 00:07:11,400 --> 00:07:13,160 Speaker 1: and the next one would not propose, and and then 129 00:07:13,160 --> 00:07:20,560 Speaker 1: it loses the the show. How do you say the 130 00:07:21,240 --> 00:07:23,360 Speaker 1: final thing on the show, you know, like, oh, oh, 131 00:07:23,400 --> 00:07:26,880 Speaker 1: he's got a propose basically the climax, the package, the 132 00:07:26,920 --> 00:07:29,880 Speaker 1: full package of it. Yeah. Yeah, So, I mean you've 133 00:07:29,880 --> 00:07:33,080 Speaker 1: been explaining this and like there was especially during your 134 00:07:33,080 --> 00:07:34,840 Speaker 1: time in The Bachelor, felt like it was kind of 135 00:07:34,880 --> 00:07:38,040 Speaker 1: one thing after another, uh, that either the show was 136 00:07:38,080 --> 00:07:40,960 Speaker 1: frustrated with or that people just didn't understand. I mean 137 00:07:41,040 --> 00:07:44,120 Speaker 1: during this moment for you personally, were you getting frustrated 138 00:07:44,800 --> 00:07:47,360 Speaker 1: and like kind of how are you processing processing this 139 00:07:47,520 --> 00:07:51,480 Speaker 1: personally as all as you're being misunderstood and as things 140 00:07:51,520 --> 00:07:53,680 Speaker 1: just kept kind of like spiraling and you felt like 141 00:07:53,720 --> 00:07:57,840 Speaker 1: you were kind of losing losing control of the public. Well, 142 00:07:58,000 --> 00:08:01,240 Speaker 1: you know what, you've been there. You film first, and 143 00:08:01,280 --> 00:08:03,440 Speaker 1: they treat you a certain way. You don't even know 144 00:08:03,480 --> 00:08:10,040 Speaker 1: what's going on, you know, when you're filming. Everything was fine, Um, 145 00:08:10,200 --> 00:08:15,360 Speaker 1: obviously there were some situations at the beginning. The first 146 00:08:15,440 --> 00:08:18,280 Speaker 1: day that one of the first days was the dog. 147 00:08:18,760 --> 00:08:22,960 Speaker 1: It was it was like adopted dog and we had 148 00:08:22,960 --> 00:08:26,760 Speaker 1: to do photo shooting stuff. So just like thirteen girls 149 00:08:26,800 --> 00:08:28,640 Speaker 1: and and I was fine and we were doing the 150 00:08:28,640 --> 00:08:31,240 Speaker 1: photo shoot and everything was great, boomable or whatever, and 151 00:08:31,280 --> 00:08:34,679 Speaker 1: it got a little uncomfortable situation with the girls that 152 00:08:34,760 --> 00:08:36,840 Speaker 1: they the guy was like give him out to mouth 153 00:08:36,880 --> 00:08:39,160 Speaker 1: to one give to the other one. And it was 154 00:08:39,240 --> 00:08:42,240 Speaker 1: kind of you know, and like I said, I have 155 00:08:42,320 --> 00:08:44,840 Speaker 1: a daughter at the time, and I still have it, 156 00:08:44,880 --> 00:08:48,079 Speaker 1: but uh so it was it was a tough situation 157 00:08:48,160 --> 00:08:50,840 Speaker 1: for me there. And I talked to the producer and 158 00:08:50,840 --> 00:08:52,600 Speaker 1: I said, listen, I would love to talk to the 159 00:08:52,600 --> 00:08:55,880 Speaker 1: four guys I talked the first day. I really want 160 00:08:55,880 --> 00:08:59,160 Speaker 1: to talk to them because I'm I know in the 161 00:08:59,200 --> 00:09:03,280 Speaker 1: situation I am. I know, you get uncomfortable sometimes, but 162 00:09:03,320 --> 00:09:08,240 Speaker 1: there's there's a thin line that I will do or 163 00:09:08,280 --> 00:09:11,319 Speaker 1: not because I have a daughter and that's the way 164 00:09:11,320 --> 00:09:15,800 Speaker 1: it is. So when I met with them, um, I 165 00:09:15,880 --> 00:09:19,640 Speaker 1: remember Mike flies telling me, we just want you to 166 00:09:19,679 --> 00:09:23,360 Speaker 1: be you all right then then it's gonna be me, 167 00:09:24,000 --> 00:09:26,880 Speaker 1: you know. And and that was not that was not 168 00:09:26,880 --> 00:09:30,640 Speaker 1: good for him because when they will say, Juan, this 169 00:09:30,679 --> 00:09:33,120 Speaker 1: is not what happened. But you know, they'll be like, 170 00:09:33,360 --> 00:09:35,880 Speaker 1: why do you go naked? This didn't happen. But but 171 00:09:35,960 --> 00:09:37,960 Speaker 1: let's say, for example, something like why do you go 172 00:09:38,080 --> 00:09:40,480 Speaker 1: there naked and just do a flip or whatever and 173 00:09:40,600 --> 00:09:42,240 Speaker 1: getting bed with a girl. And I said, no, that's 174 00:09:42,240 --> 00:09:45,840 Speaker 1: not me. Why don't you shower and you don't. That's 175 00:09:45,880 --> 00:09:49,280 Speaker 1: not me. So it got to a point that either 176 00:09:49,360 --> 00:09:51,200 Speaker 1: you wanted me to act because I said you wanted 177 00:09:51,240 --> 00:09:53,760 Speaker 1: me to act, I'm not an actor, or you want 178 00:09:53,760 --> 00:09:55,200 Speaker 1: me to be me and he said, no, I want 179 00:09:55,240 --> 00:09:57,560 Speaker 1: you to be you. Okay, fine, then then me it's 180 00:09:57,600 --> 00:09:59,880 Speaker 1: gonna be and and there's certain things that I will 181 00:10:00,000 --> 00:10:04,320 Speaker 1: I do for a show because that's not me. You know. 182 00:10:14,760 --> 00:10:18,079 Speaker 1: Do you think that comparing yourself to the other leads 183 00:10:18,120 --> 00:10:21,520 Speaker 1: who have had kids, like Jason Mesnick and Emily Maynard, 184 00:10:22,240 --> 00:10:27,040 Speaker 1: you were less able to use Camilla, your daughter, as 185 00:10:27,080 --> 00:10:29,280 Speaker 1: a reason for you not wanting to do something like 186 00:10:29,320 --> 00:10:33,120 Speaker 1: For example, Emily was able to have the entire show 187 00:10:33,200 --> 00:10:36,400 Speaker 1: taken to North Carolina. She was able to tell the 188 00:10:36,440 --> 00:10:38,720 Speaker 1: guys before Fantasy Sweets that she wasn't going to have 189 00:10:38,800 --> 00:10:41,439 Speaker 1: a sleepover because she wanted to be a good role 190 00:10:41,440 --> 00:10:43,920 Speaker 1: model for her daughter. Do you think there's a double 191 00:10:43,960 --> 00:10:50,520 Speaker 1: stand there there for you? Yeah, well, uh there. It's 192 00:10:50,559 --> 00:10:52,640 Speaker 1: all depends on how you see it, because at the 193 00:10:52,720 --> 00:10:55,480 Speaker 1: end of the day, Fantasy Suite is called Fantasy Sweets. 194 00:10:55,559 --> 00:10:57,439 Speaker 1: Whatever you live there, it doesn't matter. You can talk 195 00:10:57,440 --> 00:11:00,200 Speaker 1: all night, you can have sex, you can do whatever 196 00:11:00,240 --> 00:11:02,200 Speaker 1: you want. You know. But at the end of the day, 197 00:11:02,480 --> 00:11:06,640 Speaker 1: if you see it from a meeting or learning or 198 00:11:06,679 --> 00:11:09,040 Speaker 1: about somebody, that that's the perfect time. Because you've got 199 00:11:09,040 --> 00:11:11,080 Speaker 1: no cameras. You can talk about Hey, do you like 200 00:11:11,160 --> 00:11:14,920 Speaker 1: to be gun? No, I don't talk about people. Then 201 00:11:14,960 --> 00:11:17,280 Speaker 1: you'll be like, hey, what do you talk about? Something 202 00:11:17,320 --> 00:11:20,000 Speaker 1: more interesting? Okay, then I guess I can. I have 203 00:11:20,080 --> 00:11:22,760 Speaker 1: to figure out why don't you talk about her dad? Oh? 204 00:11:22,800 --> 00:11:25,360 Speaker 1: How's your dad? Oh? He passed away two days ago. Ship, 205 00:11:25,840 --> 00:11:30,400 Speaker 1: Now I understand, you know. So it was it was 206 00:11:30,720 --> 00:11:34,559 Speaker 1: it was experience to me. And like I said, there's 207 00:11:34,800 --> 00:11:37,880 Speaker 1: certain things like like she did that I will not 208 00:11:38,000 --> 00:11:41,280 Speaker 1: do because I have a daughter. You know, the first fantasy, 209 00:11:41,320 --> 00:11:43,840 Speaker 1: why don't you get in bed? It's not gonna happen. 210 00:11:44,600 --> 00:11:47,600 Speaker 1: It's just not gonna happen, man, you know. And it's 211 00:11:47,920 --> 00:11:50,680 Speaker 1: it's that pushy that they get you. Okay, say I 212 00:11:50,760 --> 00:11:53,920 Speaker 1: love you, bro, I don't love her. Why what would 213 00:11:53,920 --> 00:11:55,440 Speaker 1: you want me to say I love her? I don't 214 00:11:55,440 --> 00:11:57,560 Speaker 1: love her. If I love her, I tell her. But 215 00:11:57,600 --> 00:12:00,760 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie to her just to to look. 216 00:12:00,880 --> 00:12:05,640 Speaker 1: I guess good. When I just met this girl a 217 00:12:05,720 --> 00:12:08,880 Speaker 1: month and a half ago, and I seen her ten times. 218 00:12:09,520 --> 00:12:12,440 Speaker 1: You know, that's and it it's it's far of it. 219 00:12:12,600 --> 00:12:16,080 Speaker 1: You know, from my experience in the Bachelor bubble, I 220 00:12:16,120 --> 00:12:19,080 Speaker 1: feel like it creates feelings faster. I think a lot 221 00:12:19,120 --> 00:12:22,439 Speaker 1: of people just kind of like get totally taken up 222 00:12:22,480 --> 00:12:25,320 Speaker 1: with the experience. Do you feel like you didn't have 223 00:12:25,840 --> 00:12:27,920 Speaker 1: so much of that effect and that's why you're able 224 00:12:27,960 --> 00:12:32,319 Speaker 1: to stay a little bit more like true to reality. 225 00:12:32,400 --> 00:12:33,920 Speaker 1: I don't want to call it reality because I do 226 00:12:33,960 --> 00:12:36,040 Speaker 1: truly believe it's reality, but it's a different kind of 227 00:12:36,080 --> 00:12:39,560 Speaker 1: form of it. Okay, were you a bachelorette or you 228 00:12:39,600 --> 00:12:41,520 Speaker 1: were on the batch? Right, I was on the Bachelor. 229 00:12:42,240 --> 00:12:45,280 Speaker 1: There you go, that's different. You know, you can ask 230 00:12:45,559 --> 00:12:49,640 Speaker 1: maybe Ben, you know, you have seven, so you're like 231 00:12:49,840 --> 00:12:52,080 Speaker 1: down this one or this one or this one. You 232 00:12:52,120 --> 00:12:56,200 Speaker 1: don't so you are concentrate one guy and that's when 233 00:12:56,240 --> 00:12:59,920 Speaker 1: you you know the bubble, you you you're right on point. 234 00:13:00,120 --> 00:13:02,920 Speaker 1: The bubble gets you like, oh my gosh, this girl 235 00:13:03,000 --> 00:13:05,080 Speaker 1: I like it, and the next day, oh my gosh, 236 00:13:05,679 --> 00:13:07,880 Speaker 1: kind of like I'm kind of jealousy. You know that 237 00:13:07,920 --> 00:13:11,320 Speaker 1: could happen because because it's one guy, but here you 238 00:13:11,360 --> 00:13:17,959 Speaker 1: have many, so you're like you see through different things 239 00:13:18,000 --> 00:13:20,760 Speaker 1: when you're when you're the lead guy or the lead girl, 240 00:13:20,840 --> 00:13:23,600 Speaker 1: because you see what she likes. You know, I like 241 00:13:23,800 --> 00:13:27,520 Speaker 1: some of the girls physically, you do attract to some 242 00:13:27,640 --> 00:13:30,800 Speaker 1: of the girls first. But then with Nick, I was like, oh, 243 00:13:30,880 --> 00:13:33,280 Speaker 1: I'm a nurse and I work with kids. And I 244 00:13:33,320 --> 00:13:36,000 Speaker 1: was like, well, I like that. I really like that 245 00:13:36,080 --> 00:13:39,600 Speaker 1: about her, and I have a daughter, so I'm put 246 00:13:39,640 --> 00:13:42,960 Speaker 1: myself in the you know, wait on her. I'm like, 247 00:13:43,080 --> 00:13:46,080 Speaker 1: I really like this girl. She likes kids. Tell me 248 00:13:46,080 --> 00:13:49,280 Speaker 1: a story about this kid that guy, and she rescue 249 00:13:49,400 --> 00:13:51,680 Speaker 1: and all that. And like you said, you're right on 250 00:13:51,760 --> 00:13:55,160 Speaker 1: point on that the circumstances. Remember that you don't have phone, 251 00:13:55,200 --> 00:13:57,680 Speaker 1: you have nothing. I had a phone. I was the 252 00:13:57,679 --> 00:13:59,960 Speaker 1: first guy having a phone because I will call my 253 00:14:00,040 --> 00:14:03,079 Speaker 1: daughter or any time I skied my daughter, FaceTime my 254 00:14:03,160 --> 00:14:07,080 Speaker 1: daughter or whatever anytime. So I wasn't that disconnected as well. 255 00:14:07,920 --> 00:14:10,760 Speaker 1: I mean, okay, so every time I talked to a 256 00:14:10,760 --> 00:14:14,360 Speaker 1: bachelor since my time, I tell them one thing. I 257 00:14:14,400 --> 00:14:17,040 Speaker 1: want to watch their authentic love story, whatever it is, 258 00:14:17,040 --> 00:14:19,280 Speaker 1: if it's ridiculous, if it doesn't go well, whatever, I 259 00:14:19,320 --> 00:14:21,200 Speaker 1: want to watch their authentic love story. You've spoken to 260 00:14:21,240 --> 00:14:24,080 Speaker 1: that by saying it doesn't necessarily have to end an engagement, 261 00:14:24,120 --> 00:14:27,600 Speaker 1: and I agree with you. And so if we can 262 00:14:27,640 --> 00:14:29,640 Speaker 1: all watch that, and you know, we saw it with Colton, 263 00:14:30,000 --> 00:14:32,640 Speaker 1: he didn't in an engagement. He didn't take the heat 264 00:14:32,680 --> 00:14:35,800 Speaker 1: that you did. There has to be something on your 265 00:14:35,880 --> 00:14:39,960 Speaker 1: season that really fired people up. And I would imagine 266 00:14:40,000 --> 00:14:42,040 Speaker 1: maybe it's just because it's prevalent and it's in the 267 00:14:42,080 --> 00:14:44,920 Speaker 1: news now. It was the moments with Claire, right, it 268 00:14:45,000 --> 00:14:47,960 Speaker 1: was the confrontations with Claire. Where did that go wrong? 269 00:14:48,120 --> 00:14:50,440 Speaker 1: Like in your opinion, now, if we just focus on that, 270 00:14:51,160 --> 00:14:53,480 Speaker 1: like why was that the thing that was aired and 271 00:14:53,520 --> 00:14:57,680 Speaker 1: made everybody so furious? I feel, you know what, I'm 272 00:14:57,720 --> 00:14:59,720 Speaker 1: not sure if you said it when you were in 273 00:15:00,000 --> 00:15:01,880 Speaker 1: when you have the three girls, you were like this 274 00:15:01,960 --> 00:15:04,840 Speaker 1: is the one and e Lane, You're like like the 275 00:15:04,960 --> 00:15:07,880 Speaker 1: rain because I like this girl. You know, I don't know, 276 00:15:08,280 --> 00:15:11,560 Speaker 1: I never say anything. I didn't tell them, I didn't 277 00:15:11,560 --> 00:15:14,440 Speaker 1: tell anybody what was who I was gonna pick because 278 00:15:14,440 --> 00:15:17,400 Speaker 1: it got to a point. He got to a point 279 00:15:17,480 --> 00:15:21,360 Speaker 1: that they were like trying and trying and I will 280 00:15:21,400 --> 00:15:24,720 Speaker 1: do interviews and I will do confessionaires with Chris for 281 00:15:24,760 --> 00:15:27,240 Speaker 1: like an hour and a half it's like, do you 282 00:15:27,320 --> 00:15:30,640 Speaker 1: love her? Bro I'm not. I don't. So I got 283 00:15:30,640 --> 00:15:32,840 Speaker 1: to a point that for them it was hard to 284 00:15:32,880 --> 00:15:34,920 Speaker 1: get me say something that they wanted for the show. 285 00:15:35,640 --> 00:15:40,760 Speaker 1: We Claire, to be honest with you. They they took 286 00:15:40,880 --> 00:15:47,040 Speaker 1: their her reaction to rejection, which is natural because there 287 00:15:47,160 --> 00:15:50,440 Speaker 1: was three girls and one's going to be the last 288 00:15:50,480 --> 00:15:53,120 Speaker 1: one and two were going to be rejected, and it's 289 00:15:53,160 --> 00:15:56,760 Speaker 1: just natural. And they took her reaction. They said, wow, 290 00:15:56,800 --> 00:16:01,160 Speaker 1: that was great. Ley's just flip it around and it's 291 00:16:01,240 --> 00:16:04,040 Speaker 1: just look the guy as bad as we can. She 292 00:16:04,280 --> 00:16:07,840 Speaker 1: could have made up stuff. She was upset, and it's 293 00:16:07,880 --> 00:16:11,680 Speaker 1: fine to me. I was like, you know what if 294 00:16:11,720 --> 00:16:15,720 Speaker 1: if it was so bad that I say listen, I'm 295 00:16:15,760 --> 00:16:19,160 Speaker 1: not gonna go with you, or that's part of the show, 296 00:16:19,440 --> 00:16:21,880 Speaker 1: or should I just keep too you know? I don't know, 297 00:16:22,560 --> 00:16:26,280 Speaker 1: you know. So so I was like, wow, it was interesting. 298 00:16:27,320 --> 00:16:30,120 Speaker 1: We we did it and we know how it goes. 299 00:16:30,760 --> 00:16:33,320 Speaker 1: She left and I was fine. They were oh, great, 300 00:16:33,360 --> 00:16:36,080 Speaker 1: who's the girl? Whatever? They go that way, and then 301 00:16:36,080 --> 00:16:40,160 Speaker 1: when you see the editing, you're like, really, Also, there's 302 00:16:40,200 --> 00:16:44,680 Speaker 1: this part that they took right away, and I'm gonna 303 00:16:44,680 --> 00:16:46,720 Speaker 1: be honest with I don't know how long I was 304 00:16:46,840 --> 00:16:49,400 Speaker 1: from when I say goodbye to her too when I 305 00:16:49,520 --> 00:16:53,000 Speaker 1: said it, you know, because she she responded at me, 306 00:16:53,040 --> 00:16:54,920 Speaker 1: it's like, I never want my kids to have a 307 00:16:54,920 --> 00:16:57,680 Speaker 1: father like you or whatever. And I don't know if 308 00:16:57,680 --> 00:17:00,200 Speaker 1: you're a father or your father yet not yet when 309 00:17:00,240 --> 00:17:04,240 Speaker 1: your dad, you know, or or your mom You're like, a, 310 00:17:04,240 --> 00:17:06,680 Speaker 1: you're gonna tell me that, like, what did I do wrong? 311 00:17:06,720 --> 00:17:09,080 Speaker 1: I just say that I didn't want it to you know, 312 00:17:09,240 --> 00:17:13,000 Speaker 1: I have feelings for somebody else. So I said, I'm 313 00:17:13,040 --> 00:17:17,640 Speaker 1: glad I didn't pick her right and dad was put 314 00:17:17,760 --> 00:17:20,960 Speaker 1: right away like she turned around, But I'm glad in that. 315 00:17:21,640 --> 00:17:23,920 Speaker 1: I every think it wasn't that way. She was gone 316 00:17:24,400 --> 00:17:27,560 Speaker 1: and and I was sweating and you know, and then 317 00:17:27,560 --> 00:17:29,760 Speaker 1: I was like, I didn't pick her, you know. But 318 00:17:29,880 --> 00:17:35,239 Speaker 1: everything is filmed, So that's interesting. I think that a 319 00:17:35,280 --> 00:17:39,240 Speaker 1: lot of people infer that what why she said that 320 00:17:39,440 --> 00:17:43,320 Speaker 1: was because of what you said on the helicopter, correct, 321 00:17:43,520 --> 00:17:46,400 Speaker 1: So do you regret what you said on the helicopter, 322 00:17:47,080 --> 00:17:49,760 Speaker 1: To be honest with you, I don't. I don't recall that. 323 00:17:50,440 --> 00:17:52,600 Speaker 1: And that's why it made me think also as well 324 00:17:52,680 --> 00:17:56,160 Speaker 1: on why she said it, why she did it why 325 00:17:56,240 --> 00:18:02,520 Speaker 1: she you know, like, when when you're in that situation, 326 00:18:03,359 --> 00:18:05,600 Speaker 1: obviously I'm not gonna remember everything I said or whatever. 327 00:18:05,720 --> 00:18:08,040 Speaker 1: But I was like, I was surprised with that. I 328 00:18:08,119 --> 00:18:11,119 Speaker 1: was like, when did I say that? You know? But 329 00:18:11,680 --> 00:18:13,679 Speaker 1: if she says it, I'll just leave it out her. 330 00:18:14,080 --> 00:18:16,359 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna fight or I'm not gonna get into 331 00:18:16,400 --> 00:18:18,840 Speaker 1: the all you said I didn't say or whatever. And 332 00:18:19,000 --> 00:18:24,359 Speaker 1: she was upset, very upset because I rejected her. So 333 00:18:25,880 --> 00:18:29,680 Speaker 1: why can I tell you to me when I got rejected, 334 00:18:29,680 --> 00:18:32,479 Speaker 1: I didn't get upset and start saying whatever, it scared whatever. 335 00:18:32,600 --> 00:18:36,399 Speaker 1: I just didn't. But I felt like she took it 336 00:18:36,720 --> 00:18:40,920 Speaker 1: very personal and she didn't understand that that's part of it. 337 00:18:41,040 --> 00:18:44,399 Speaker 1: You know, so people are gonna go get rejected, so 338 00:18:44,440 --> 00:18:49,919 Speaker 1: people don't It's it's it's hard. I mean, your story 339 00:18:50,160 --> 00:18:52,919 Speaker 1: here is right, Like it's been years now, we've been 340 00:18:52,960 --> 00:18:56,280 Speaker 1: able to process through this um you're you know, you've 341 00:18:56,320 --> 00:19:00,480 Speaker 1: brought back up again because Claire was just the bad Clirett. 342 00:19:00,680 --> 00:19:02,959 Speaker 1: You're reliving these moments that you don't want to relive, 343 00:19:03,560 --> 00:19:06,560 Speaker 1: and I'm just wondering, like, was there anything inside of 344 00:19:06,600 --> 00:19:11,239 Speaker 1: you that wanted to defend yourself because it felt like, 345 00:19:12,040 --> 00:19:14,240 Speaker 1: in a sense, like there was no defense. You kind 346 00:19:14,240 --> 00:19:15,840 Speaker 1: of took it. You took it, you took it, you 347 00:19:15,920 --> 00:19:17,680 Speaker 1: keep taking it, and you took it again here when 348 00:19:18,040 --> 00:19:20,959 Speaker 1: Claire and I don't I mean, I can't say if 349 00:19:20,960 --> 00:19:23,680 Speaker 1: there's anything to defend yourself for, but your story now 350 00:19:23,800 --> 00:19:26,480 Speaker 1: is that hey, you know when you know this was 351 00:19:26,520 --> 00:19:30,080 Speaker 1: all kind of reaction to being Uh. Claire's reaction was 352 00:19:30,119 --> 00:19:33,280 Speaker 1: to being you know, rejected. Um, you didn't say things 353 00:19:33,320 --> 00:19:36,280 Speaker 1: in the timing that it was shown. So why don't 354 00:19:36,280 --> 00:19:39,320 Speaker 1: want to get your story out there? Why I didn't 355 00:19:39,320 --> 00:19:42,439 Speaker 1: want to get my story out there? I just you know, 356 00:19:42,520 --> 00:19:45,480 Speaker 1: it's I just left it like, you know, I'm just 357 00:19:45,480 --> 00:19:48,639 Speaker 1: gonna leave it what they wanted to say and and 358 00:19:48,640 --> 00:19:53,000 Speaker 1: and to me it was it was like why am 359 00:19:53,040 --> 00:19:55,359 Speaker 1: I gonna keep you know, they keep bringing me every 360 00:19:55,359 --> 00:19:58,359 Speaker 1: season for anything, they'll call me. They wanted me to 361 00:19:58,359 --> 00:20:00,720 Speaker 1: do bad you imperatives and be all alone Andy, And 362 00:20:00,760 --> 00:20:04,800 Speaker 1: I say no, that it's pointless. I'm not gonna do it. 363 00:20:04,960 --> 00:20:08,200 Speaker 1: How big is it checked? My flights? You know whatever, 364 00:20:08,320 --> 00:20:11,560 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna do it, you know. And uh, And 365 00:20:11,640 --> 00:20:14,280 Speaker 1: to my surprise, I was I was gonna go on 366 00:20:14,280 --> 00:20:18,959 Speaker 1: on Claire's season because I got called from the producers 367 00:20:18,960 --> 00:20:21,120 Speaker 1: and they say, you know one, Claire wants to make 368 00:20:21,160 --> 00:20:23,240 Speaker 1: peace with you, and I was like, okay, cool, I'm 369 00:20:23,240 --> 00:20:27,399 Speaker 1: fine with it. You know, I have nothing against anybody. Know. 370 00:20:27,560 --> 00:20:32,000 Speaker 1: She was upset six years ago, and I'm like, I 371 00:20:32,000 --> 00:20:34,560 Speaker 1: don't know why because she I say, it's not you 372 00:20:34,720 --> 00:20:39,240 Speaker 1: with the other girl. Um, and I say, well, okay, 373 00:20:39,520 --> 00:20:44,800 Speaker 1: we think about it, you know so, but then everything changed. 374 00:20:45,640 --> 00:20:49,080 Speaker 1: What happened? Why are you going because of jail? Because 375 00:20:49,119 --> 00:20:51,960 Speaker 1: of whatever happened, It's like, oh, she's gone now. It 376 00:20:52,080 --> 00:20:54,840 Speaker 1: was like, okay, good, all right, you were gonna go 377 00:20:55,000 --> 00:21:00,520 Speaker 1: on the show and quarantine. Well if if I if 378 00:21:01,880 --> 00:21:03,640 Speaker 1: I'm telling you this, and I don't even know if 379 00:21:03,640 --> 00:21:06,919 Speaker 1: she wanted for real or not to do this. It 380 00:21:06,960 --> 00:21:09,199 Speaker 1: could be a producer calling me be like, oh listen, 381 00:21:09,359 --> 00:21:11,440 Speaker 1: we can do this, and then I get there and 382 00:21:11,480 --> 00:21:14,199 Speaker 1: they'll be like, Claire, what are you doing here? I 383 00:21:14,240 --> 00:21:17,560 Speaker 1: hate you? I don't know. I had no idea, but 384 00:21:17,960 --> 00:21:21,000 Speaker 1: I thought about it and I say, I have nothing. 385 00:21:21,240 --> 00:21:24,439 Speaker 1: I have nothing against her. I don't know why she 386 00:21:24,480 --> 00:21:27,920 Speaker 1: could have something against me because I did what you're 387 00:21:27,960 --> 00:21:32,440 Speaker 1: supposed to do on the show. Two eliminate girls till 388 00:21:32,480 --> 00:21:35,119 Speaker 1: you get one, and she was the second to last 389 00:21:35,440 --> 00:21:39,520 Speaker 1: I mean the second to last one. So if every 390 00:21:39,560 --> 00:21:43,800 Speaker 1: person that got rejected before somebody gets picked, that the 391 00:21:43,800 --> 00:21:47,600 Speaker 1: top the top three gets piste off, then I guess 392 00:21:47,640 --> 00:21:51,480 Speaker 1: you're not understanding that you that's that could happen to you. 393 00:21:52,640 --> 00:21:55,800 Speaker 1: I was under the insuption and I'm I'm now being 394 00:21:55,800 --> 00:21:59,560 Speaker 1: proven wrong that production just kind of wrote you off. 395 00:21:59,680 --> 00:22:01,639 Speaker 1: They want you to come back, and that's why we 396 00:22:01,640 --> 00:22:04,200 Speaker 1: haven't seen you on our TV. But apparently you say 397 00:22:04,240 --> 00:22:07,640 Speaker 1: that they've asked you to Paradise and Winter Games. At 398 00:22:07,720 --> 00:22:11,160 Speaker 1: the at the end of the day, remember something they want, ratings, 399 00:22:11,760 --> 00:22:15,959 Speaker 1: they want I don't know, drama, whatever. If I go 400 00:22:16,119 --> 00:22:17,960 Speaker 1: there what I don't even know what they will do. 401 00:22:18,040 --> 00:22:22,360 Speaker 1: But obviously, in the case of me going there, if 402 00:22:22,359 --> 00:22:24,480 Speaker 1: I would have got there and be like hi, Claire 403 00:22:24,520 --> 00:22:26,119 Speaker 1: and she'd be like, oh, this is it, you know, 404 00:22:26,119 --> 00:22:28,240 Speaker 1: I would have just say, you know what, I didn't 405 00:22:28,280 --> 00:22:30,320 Speaker 1: come for this. I turned around, didn't, I don't say 406 00:22:30,320 --> 00:22:32,640 Speaker 1: a word, and I leave, So they will not use 407 00:22:33,280 --> 00:22:35,800 Speaker 1: whatever they could. I have no idea, you know, all 408 00:22:35,840 --> 00:22:38,280 Speaker 1: those things came to my head. It's like, how if 409 00:22:38,280 --> 00:22:41,080 Speaker 1: I go there and then Claire is like, what are 410 00:22:41,119 --> 00:22:44,199 Speaker 1: you doing here? It's like, well, the production told me 411 00:22:44,240 --> 00:22:46,720 Speaker 1: that you wanted to make peace with me, and I'm 412 00:22:46,760 --> 00:22:48,960 Speaker 1: in peace with you since since that day. I have 413 00:22:49,080 --> 00:22:54,560 Speaker 1: nothing against you, you know, so I have nothing against anybody, 414 00:22:54,640 --> 00:22:57,760 Speaker 1: any contests or anything, because that's part of it. You know. 415 00:22:57,800 --> 00:22:59,840 Speaker 1: I've never seen the show. I've seen my two seasons 416 00:22:59,840 --> 00:23:02,680 Speaker 1: and that's it. I've never seen anybody show zero. I 417 00:23:02,720 --> 00:23:07,560 Speaker 1: don't see one episode none, because I know I'd rather 418 00:23:08,160 --> 00:23:11,399 Speaker 1: know the person for who they are. You know, I 419 00:23:11,440 --> 00:23:14,240 Speaker 1: don't know which season where you actually and Ben, I 420 00:23:14,280 --> 00:23:16,119 Speaker 1: know you're wearing something. I don't know if it was 421 00:23:16,200 --> 00:23:20,520 Speaker 1: tooled after me or whatever, but uh, but I'd rather 422 00:23:20,720 --> 00:23:23,880 Speaker 1: meet the person and no judge them by what you 423 00:23:24,040 --> 00:23:27,080 Speaker 1: only see on TV. You know. Well, but I mean, 424 00:23:27,520 --> 00:23:29,639 Speaker 1: you know, the one thing that's interesting it was it 425 00:23:29,680 --> 00:23:31,639 Speaker 1: was sitting in an email to us as you're prepping 426 00:23:31,720 --> 00:23:34,040 Speaker 1: for this, was you know you you want to make 427 00:23:34,080 --> 00:23:36,120 Speaker 1: peace with Claire. I don't know. I don't know why 428 00:23:36,160 --> 00:23:38,199 Speaker 1: you wouldn't, right, It doesn't do you any benefit in 429 00:23:38,240 --> 00:23:41,280 Speaker 1: life not to However, as your season did air, you 430 00:23:41,280 --> 00:23:44,000 Speaker 1: didn't watch it, but you like to tweet that got 431 00:23:44,000 --> 00:23:45,879 Speaker 1: a lot of press. Uh, and that's why I was 432 00:23:45,920 --> 00:23:48,720 Speaker 1: sent in. I think that said you dodged a bullet 433 00:23:49,359 --> 00:23:53,040 Speaker 1: by dumping Claire. Uh. If there's peace wanting to be 434 00:23:53,080 --> 00:23:55,480 Speaker 1: given to her and this is a reconciliation, why like 435 00:23:55,640 --> 00:24:01,800 Speaker 1: that tweet? Why not? I feel like because it doesn't 436 00:24:01,800 --> 00:24:05,000 Speaker 1: necessarily put like it doesn't help the relationship. I feel 437 00:24:05,040 --> 00:24:07,199 Speaker 1: like when you see you know, when you see all this, 438 00:24:07,800 --> 00:24:12,760 Speaker 1: when you're getting hammer every year, all right, you're like, 439 00:24:13,080 --> 00:24:15,439 Speaker 1: somebody just say something. You're like, I'm just gonna like. 440 00:24:15,960 --> 00:24:20,000 Speaker 1: It's not like, oh I'm terrible. Yes, I don't, I 441 00:24:20,000 --> 00:24:22,840 Speaker 1: don't mind. You know, I have nothing against her at 442 00:24:22,880 --> 00:24:24,679 Speaker 1: the end of the day, you know, I have zero. 443 00:24:25,320 --> 00:24:28,880 Speaker 1: And since since I left, I have nothing against her. 444 00:24:29,400 --> 00:24:32,359 Speaker 1: I can talk to any girl. I can talk to her. 445 00:24:32,560 --> 00:24:36,520 Speaker 1: It's fine with me. But every time I will make 446 00:24:36,560 --> 00:24:41,920 Speaker 1: a comment or something, it will just go fire whatever. 447 00:24:42,320 --> 00:24:46,280 Speaker 1: You know, so you are go ahead, and I don't 448 00:24:46,280 --> 00:24:48,639 Speaker 1: even know. The other thing is I don't even know 449 00:24:48,640 --> 00:24:53,119 Speaker 1: if it's her, if it's production telling her. So it 450 00:24:53,240 --> 00:24:54,720 Speaker 1: got to a point that you don't even know what's 451 00:24:54,760 --> 00:24:59,480 Speaker 1: going on. Like to my surprise, when I I don't 452 00:24:59,480 --> 00:25:01,440 Speaker 1: even know the contestants, and all of a sudden, I 453 00:25:01,520 --> 00:25:04,679 Speaker 1: got you know, I made a tweet that it was like, wow, 454 00:25:04,720 --> 00:25:08,720 Speaker 1: I'm surprised that the contestants are so young. It's gonna 455 00:25:08,760 --> 00:25:11,360 Speaker 1: be an interesting toe so because they're so young for her, 456 00:25:11,880 --> 00:25:16,080 Speaker 1: which I have nothing against that, but if you if 457 00:25:16,119 --> 00:25:19,040 Speaker 1: I was Claire and I'm thirty nine and I'm on 458 00:25:19,119 --> 00:25:23,560 Speaker 1: the show, just bring me. I guess ten forty year 459 00:25:23,600 --> 00:25:27,359 Speaker 1: old men at least, you know, and I have nothing. 460 00:25:27,359 --> 00:25:29,600 Speaker 1: I guess being young twenty three or thirty or whatever, 461 00:25:29,640 --> 00:25:33,280 Speaker 1: it doesn't matter, but it it's just how we should be. 462 00:25:33,680 --> 00:25:38,520 Speaker 1: I think, you know, if I'm now thirty, I'm thirty nine. 463 00:25:38,560 --> 00:25:40,680 Speaker 1: If I want to do this show, I don't want 464 00:25:40,680 --> 00:25:44,200 Speaker 1: twenty year old girls. I want to maybe thirty two, 465 00:25:44,359 --> 00:25:46,879 Speaker 1: thirty three. I don't know, but you think that that 466 00:25:46,960 --> 00:25:53,000 Speaker 1: was what maybe Claire wanted. I don't know. Uh, you 467 00:25:53,040 --> 00:25:55,240 Speaker 1: are such an honest guy, So I want to ask you. 468 00:25:55,600 --> 00:25:58,679 Speaker 1: When Claire was announced as the bachelor, at did a 469 00:25:58,720 --> 00:26:04,439 Speaker 1: little part of you go, oh, alright, I'm on again? 470 00:26:04,880 --> 00:26:10,359 Speaker 1: I said it. I'm like, all right, wow, I can 471 00:26:10,480 --> 00:26:13,680 Speaker 1: feel I can. I felt the promo right away like 472 00:26:14,600 --> 00:26:18,040 Speaker 1: it was just gonna be wh Why you know, but 473 00:26:18,320 --> 00:26:20,080 Speaker 1: it's part of it. They need to do a show 474 00:26:20,080 --> 00:26:23,760 Speaker 1: and they need to sail, and it is what it is. Well, uh, 475 00:26:23,880 --> 00:26:25,480 Speaker 1: let's take a break here for just one second. We 476 00:26:25,520 --> 00:26:27,639 Speaker 1: come back. We're gonna catch up on your life now. 477 00:26:27,680 --> 00:26:29,080 Speaker 1: I know. We just have a few more minutes with 478 00:26:29,080 --> 00:26:41,280 Speaker 1: you here. You want to hear what's going on in alright, one. 479 00:26:41,560 --> 00:26:44,880 Speaker 1: So we've talked about the show. We've broken down your 480 00:26:44,960 --> 00:26:47,600 Speaker 1: your uh, your relationship with the show kind of what 481 00:26:47,720 --> 00:26:50,240 Speaker 1: happened during it. But obviously life moves on. You're not 482 00:26:50,359 --> 00:26:54,679 Speaker 1: thirty nine years old. It's uh, are you back to 483 00:26:54,800 --> 00:26:57,680 Speaker 1: dating again? I know you've been in the headlines off 484 00:26:57,680 --> 00:27:00,399 Speaker 1: and on here recently for your romantic relationships. Well, going on, 485 00:27:01,320 --> 00:27:06,080 Speaker 1: I'm good man, I'm happy. Is that all I get? 486 00:27:07,880 --> 00:27:13,680 Speaker 1: I'm good, you know what. I'm focusing on family, my daughter, work, 487 00:27:14,359 --> 00:27:18,440 Speaker 1: you know, and and maybe somebody around you know, maybe 488 00:27:18,560 --> 00:27:23,119 Speaker 1: or maybe there's someone around. Um you um were married 489 00:27:23,240 --> 00:27:26,760 Speaker 1: to a former Miss Venezuela for two years. Do you 490 00:27:26,800 --> 00:27:29,720 Speaker 1: mind opening up a little bit about why you guys 491 00:27:29,720 --> 00:27:33,760 Speaker 1: are along or together? It was just we were different, 492 00:27:33,880 --> 00:27:35,960 Speaker 1: you know, we lost the baby and I think that 493 00:27:36,080 --> 00:27:39,480 Speaker 1: was so sorry. Yeah, that was kind of when we 494 00:27:39,600 --> 00:27:44,760 Speaker 1: lost it, every everybody, you know, took the way apart. 495 00:27:44,920 --> 00:27:47,840 Speaker 1: Everybody was like she obviously she was affected and I 496 00:27:47,920 --> 00:27:50,840 Speaker 1: was affected, and she wanted to do other things. And 497 00:27:50,880 --> 00:27:52,919 Speaker 1: then she thought they wanted to have a baby, and 498 00:27:52,960 --> 00:27:55,240 Speaker 1: I wanted to have a baby. So you know, it 499 00:27:55,359 --> 00:28:00,520 Speaker 1: was like me, it's it's pointless to keep trying or 500 00:28:00,080 --> 00:28:02,760 Speaker 1: or or me waiting at because I didn't know either, 501 00:28:02,960 --> 00:28:06,040 Speaker 1: you know, and she didn't know when she wanted to 502 00:28:06,080 --> 00:28:08,240 Speaker 1: have one or not. So I was like, you know what, 503 00:28:08,480 --> 00:28:14,200 Speaker 1: it's just just call it over and and and we're fine. 504 00:28:14,240 --> 00:28:16,760 Speaker 1: And you know, it was it was just it was 505 00:28:16,840 --> 00:28:20,760 Speaker 1: just those kind of things that when when you're in 506 00:28:20,800 --> 00:28:24,040 Speaker 1: life and there's some situation that happened to you, it 507 00:28:24,080 --> 00:28:27,000 Speaker 1: makes you think right away and and and make decisions. 508 00:28:27,080 --> 00:28:29,960 Speaker 1: You know. Six years ago one of my favorite cousins 509 00:28:30,000 --> 00:28:33,040 Speaker 1: passed away, So I changed my way of living since 510 00:28:33,119 --> 00:28:35,679 Speaker 1: that day. It was it was my daughter's got gulfoted. 511 00:28:35,880 --> 00:28:39,720 Speaker 1: So since that day, I was like, yeah, you know what, Um, 512 00:28:39,800 --> 00:28:41,960 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna say never, but I will almost never 513 00:28:42,080 --> 00:28:44,360 Speaker 1: jump on a bike and I have not jumped on 514 00:28:44,360 --> 00:28:48,040 Speaker 1: a bike kei years. So and I will live to 515 00:28:48,080 --> 00:28:50,360 Speaker 1: the fullest because I'm here today and then tomorrow I 516 00:28:50,440 --> 00:28:52,640 Speaker 1: might not be here, and I enjoy it with my 517 00:28:52,680 --> 00:28:54,479 Speaker 1: daughter as much as I can, with my family as 518 00:28:54,520 --> 00:28:58,000 Speaker 1: much as I can. So it's that well, taking the 519 00:28:58,000 --> 00:29:01,440 Speaker 1: bike analogy, then, just to be clear, do you want 520 00:29:01,920 --> 00:29:07,040 Speaker 1: a relationship? Are you interest? You do? And that's one 521 00:29:07,040 --> 00:29:08,800 Speaker 1: of the reasons, you know, at the end of the day, 522 00:29:08,800 --> 00:29:10,720 Speaker 1: it was like, I want to have kids. You don't 523 00:29:10,760 --> 00:29:14,760 Speaker 1: want to have kids, Okay, let me find somebody to 524 00:29:14,920 --> 00:29:17,560 Speaker 1: have kids. I'm not I'm not in a I'm not 525 00:29:17,640 --> 00:29:20,320 Speaker 1: in a rush. But if I would have lived with 526 00:29:20,360 --> 00:29:22,840 Speaker 1: somebody and it's like, oh, I don't want to have 527 00:29:22,920 --> 00:29:24,680 Speaker 1: kids in five years, then I'm gonna be like, wow, 528 00:29:24,720 --> 00:29:27,920 Speaker 1: I'm gonna be forty five changing diapers. Maybe that's not 529 00:29:27,960 --> 00:29:31,600 Speaker 1: what I want. Let me find somebody. If it happens, happens, 530 00:29:31,640 --> 00:29:35,040 Speaker 1: and I have kids as soon as I can. How 531 00:29:35,160 --> 00:29:39,000 Speaker 1: is Camila these days? How old is she? Ya? She's 532 00:29:39,080 --> 00:29:42,600 Speaker 1: gonna turn twelve in twelve days. She looks so mature. 533 00:29:42,880 --> 00:29:47,560 Speaker 1: She looks like a teenager. She looks like she's fifteen, sixteen, 534 00:29:47,640 --> 00:29:52,000 Speaker 1: she feels like she's seventeen, but she's only twelve. So 535 00:29:52,880 --> 00:29:57,719 Speaker 1: it's she's gonna be twelves. It's funny because she's just Wow. 536 00:29:58,400 --> 00:30:01,920 Speaker 1: It's crazy to to deal with her teenage. She feels 537 00:30:01,920 --> 00:30:04,720 Speaker 1: like she's a teenager. She's gonna be only twelve. But Dad, 538 00:30:04,720 --> 00:30:07,880 Speaker 1: I'm I'm big. But now she does little and when 539 00:30:07,920 --> 00:30:10,800 Speaker 1: you see her you feel like you can trigger like 540 00:30:10,840 --> 00:30:14,360 Speaker 1: she's fifteen, but she's not. So but it's fun Does 541 00:30:14,400 --> 00:30:16,720 Speaker 1: she want to watch your season at the Bachelor at all? 542 00:30:18,360 --> 00:30:19,960 Speaker 1: You know, she told my dad you need to be 543 00:30:20,000 --> 00:30:23,080 Speaker 1: on the Bachelor again. You know, like why because I 544 00:30:23,080 --> 00:30:24,800 Speaker 1: want you to be famous, because I want to meet 545 00:30:24,800 --> 00:30:28,440 Speaker 1: Ariana granted, because she just this kind of stuff And 546 00:30:28,480 --> 00:30:31,040 Speaker 1: it's just funny to me. You know, I wanted you 547 00:30:31,080 --> 00:30:36,200 Speaker 1: to meet at Dad, Why don't you married Ariana? It's like, 548 00:30:36,480 --> 00:30:38,720 Speaker 1: you give her, you give her a word, now you 549 00:30:38,760 --> 00:30:41,280 Speaker 1: can marry her. You know she's a fan, big fan 550 00:30:41,320 --> 00:30:45,720 Speaker 1: of that. So it's funny. That's uh, okay, So weird 551 00:30:45,840 --> 00:30:48,240 Speaker 1: question for you as you close up. Your daughter is 552 00:30:48,280 --> 00:30:51,080 Speaker 1: twelve years old, so this is awkward at every level. 553 00:30:51,120 --> 00:30:53,280 Speaker 1: But one day she comes to even says, Dad, I 554 00:30:53,360 --> 00:30:55,680 Speaker 1: want to go on the Bachelor because I want to 555 00:30:55,720 --> 00:31:00,560 Speaker 1: meet Ariana Grande. What would you say? Well, I will 556 00:31:00,640 --> 00:31:03,360 Speaker 1: tell her, you know, and I have. I've asked that 557 00:31:03,520 --> 00:31:06,600 Speaker 1: this question before, and I say, you can go. Just 558 00:31:06,640 --> 00:31:10,520 Speaker 1: be yourself, don't do anything you don't want, be careful 559 00:31:10,560 --> 00:31:13,840 Speaker 1: what you say, it could be used against you, and 560 00:31:14,440 --> 00:31:17,080 Speaker 1: just have a good time. I didn't have a bad time, 561 00:31:17,640 --> 00:31:20,880 Speaker 1: Like I said that, I enjoyed both the Bacheloretta and 562 00:31:20,880 --> 00:31:22,640 Speaker 1: the Bachelor. I had a great time with the guys 563 00:31:22,640 --> 00:31:25,680 Speaker 1: in the house and cocaine and go into Germany and 564 00:31:25,680 --> 00:31:28,560 Speaker 1: then Barcelona, and you have a good time, you know, 565 00:31:29,000 --> 00:31:32,840 Speaker 1: and you ask you you probably know how fun it 566 00:31:32,880 --> 00:31:35,480 Speaker 1: had a great time on the bachel Yeah, on the 567 00:31:35,640 --> 00:31:39,000 Speaker 1: on the Bachelor, Red, if you go with the mind 568 00:31:39,040 --> 00:31:43,280 Speaker 1: that you're gonna compete, you're out. You're done. You're not competing. 569 00:31:43,800 --> 00:31:46,840 Speaker 1: It's not a competition. You're not competing to win the 570 00:31:46,880 --> 00:31:48,880 Speaker 1: girl's heart. No, you just gotta be yourself. If she 571 00:31:48,960 --> 00:31:52,120 Speaker 1: likes you, good, If she doesn't, or have feelings for 572 00:31:52,160 --> 00:31:55,040 Speaker 1: somebody else, well it is what it is. So in 573 00:31:55,080 --> 00:31:58,120 Speaker 1: the case of Camilla saying you can go, you have 574 00:31:58,200 --> 00:32:03,080 Speaker 1: a good time, um, you know what could happen. At 575 00:32:03,160 --> 00:32:05,960 Speaker 1: least now I can tell her, you know what could happen. 576 00:32:06,040 --> 00:32:10,000 Speaker 1: You could be um portray certain way. You have to 577 00:32:10,000 --> 00:32:13,400 Speaker 1: see what you do. Don't drink that much because they'll 578 00:32:13,400 --> 00:32:14,880 Speaker 1: make you drink and you will never talk to the 579 00:32:14,880 --> 00:32:17,040 Speaker 1: guy until you're really drunk, and they will talk to 580 00:32:17,120 --> 00:32:19,960 Speaker 1: make you talk to the guy and make that happen. No, 581 00:32:20,080 --> 00:32:23,160 Speaker 1: there's a two drink per hour limit where on The 582 00:32:23,200 --> 00:32:28,000 Speaker 1: Bachelor no more drinking? Wow, is a new rule. It's 583 00:32:28,040 --> 00:32:33,440 Speaker 1: It's started in two thousand seventeen, so boring. Now they're 584 00:32:33,480 --> 00:32:38,080 Speaker 1: still finding ways to finding ways. I'm sorry I have 585 00:32:38,200 --> 00:32:41,560 Speaker 1: to ask what you thought when I can make people 586 00:32:41,600 --> 00:32:46,360 Speaker 1: wait because I'm liking talking to you. You're so sweet. Okay. Well, 587 00:32:46,680 --> 00:32:49,800 Speaker 1: with Claren Dale breaking up, you made a statement, you 588 00:32:49,840 --> 00:32:52,280 Speaker 1: said that you just want her to be happy. Were 589 00:32:52,320 --> 00:32:56,440 Speaker 1: you surprised that they were? You surprised that they broke up? Um? 590 00:32:56,480 --> 00:33:00,959 Speaker 1: What what do you think was the issue there? You know, 591 00:33:01,240 --> 00:33:03,200 Speaker 1: you know the issues when you're in the same room, 592 00:33:03,480 --> 00:33:06,200 Speaker 1: in the same house. You don't even know what could happen. 593 00:33:06,520 --> 00:33:13,240 Speaker 1: You know, you go on a show trying to meet 594 00:33:13,280 --> 00:33:17,920 Speaker 1: somebody and then to get to know her better, you know, 595 00:33:18,040 --> 00:33:21,520 Speaker 1: and and in sleep with her and eat with her. 596 00:33:21,560 --> 00:33:24,320 Speaker 1: I don't even you don't even know how I don't 597 00:33:24,320 --> 00:33:25,840 Speaker 1: even know if I go to the show with you, 598 00:33:25,880 --> 00:33:29,920 Speaker 1: I don't even know. How do you hold it forks 599 00:33:30,240 --> 00:33:33,080 Speaker 1: like this or if you do? You know, it's just 600 00:33:33,680 --> 00:33:38,520 Speaker 1: it's just simple things. But but maybe it was too rush, 601 00:33:38,920 --> 00:33:42,720 Speaker 1: you know, she like, I don't know. I guess they 602 00:33:42,720 --> 00:33:44,960 Speaker 1: were talking before this show. I don't even know, you 603 00:33:45,000 --> 00:33:47,880 Speaker 1: know what happened. But at the end of the day, 604 00:33:48,040 --> 00:33:50,880 Speaker 1: I know she wants to be a mom. We we 605 00:33:51,000 --> 00:33:53,560 Speaker 1: talked about it, you know, and I don't know if 606 00:33:53,600 --> 00:33:56,239 Speaker 1: she does now, but but I would just want her 607 00:33:56,320 --> 00:34:01,800 Speaker 1: to be happy. She's been every year trying and trying, 608 00:34:02,080 --> 00:34:05,960 Speaker 1: and I feel like if she stops trying that way 609 00:34:06,080 --> 00:34:09,080 Speaker 1: and she just let it be, it just it's just 610 00:34:09,080 --> 00:34:12,399 Speaker 1: gonna happen. Sooner or later, we'll happen. Do you think 611 00:34:12,400 --> 00:34:14,680 Speaker 1: that she she's going for the wrong kind of guys? 612 00:34:17,080 --> 00:34:18,920 Speaker 1: How do you know what's the wrong kind of guy? 613 00:34:20,239 --> 00:34:25,319 Speaker 1: Are you dating? Somebody asked me, I'm married married? Where 614 00:34:25,760 --> 00:34:28,520 Speaker 1: was it? Did you marry in this show? I did? 615 00:34:29,680 --> 00:34:33,640 Speaker 1: I met Jared on The Bachelor, Yes, but how do 616 00:34:33,719 --> 00:34:37,120 Speaker 1: you know it was the right guy? I'll tell you this, 617 00:34:38,200 --> 00:34:40,359 Speaker 1: I very much felt like it was love at first night, 618 00:34:40,920 --> 00:34:45,040 Speaker 1: but we were kind of a bachelor exception because we 619 00:34:45,120 --> 00:34:49,719 Speaker 1: didn't really get together until after like a year at 620 00:34:49,800 --> 00:34:52,080 Speaker 1: two and a half years, until after we first met 621 00:34:52,080 --> 00:34:55,680 Speaker 1: on the show. And while like I was totally into 622 00:34:55,800 --> 00:34:58,879 Speaker 1: him the entire time, Um, we just it was our 623 00:34:58,920 --> 00:35:03,920 Speaker 1: friendship that has made us so strong and everything since 624 00:35:03,960 --> 00:35:09,040 Speaker 1: has been so easy. That's when you realize because you 625 00:35:09,080 --> 00:35:13,680 Speaker 1: didn't even you were not even picked, right. Yeah, So 626 00:35:14,480 --> 00:35:17,719 Speaker 1: it was a conversation. It was in the show. He 627 00:35:17,719 --> 00:35:21,520 Speaker 1: didn't pick you, you see, that's a that's a great example. 628 00:35:22,000 --> 00:35:25,960 Speaker 1: He didn't pick tore he married you because what oh 629 00:35:26,120 --> 00:35:28,200 Speaker 1: he didn't pick you then, but then he got to 630 00:35:28,239 --> 00:35:34,480 Speaker 1: know you for real, not ten minutes talk about interesting things. 631 00:35:35,760 --> 00:35:38,640 Speaker 1: I will. I will admit that with the other relationship 632 00:35:38,680 --> 00:35:40,960 Speaker 1: that I met on the show, it was a real 633 00:35:41,000 --> 00:35:44,840 Speaker 1: turning point to me when we did spend time together 634 00:35:45,080 --> 00:35:48,640 Speaker 1: in real life where I was like, oh, I'm starting 635 00:35:48,640 --> 00:35:52,200 Speaker 1: to feel like this is not right, but the bubble 636 00:35:52,320 --> 00:35:56,520 Speaker 1: made it feel pretty good. Yeah it is, it is 637 00:35:56,560 --> 00:36:02,200 Speaker 1: not you know, I feel like, um, she she will 638 00:36:02,239 --> 00:36:05,879 Speaker 1: find somebody, somebody, will you know, and she'll be like, oh, 639 00:36:05,960 --> 00:36:08,160 Speaker 1: that's the guy, and the guy will pay it's you, 640 00:36:08,320 --> 00:36:13,239 Speaker 1: and they'll get to know each other for real, more 641 00:36:13,320 --> 00:36:18,520 Speaker 1: time than just the bubble, the good old bubble man. Well, uh, 642 00:36:18,680 --> 00:36:21,560 Speaker 1: we really appreciate you sitting down and talking to us 643 00:36:21,680 --> 00:36:25,960 Speaker 1: and sharing your insights, uh into your whole season. Uh. 644 00:36:26,000 --> 00:36:30,280 Speaker 1: You know, it feels like, honestly, and I could be wrong, 645 00:36:30,440 --> 00:36:32,880 Speaker 1: it doesn't feel like this happens very often where you 646 00:36:32,920 --> 00:36:37,480 Speaker 1: get to sit down and share uh your bachelor's story, good, 647 00:36:37,520 --> 00:36:40,600 Speaker 1: bad and different whatever. But it just doesn't. It doesn't happen. 648 00:36:40,920 --> 00:36:43,040 Speaker 1: We haven't heard it, and we get small snippets and 649 00:36:43,080 --> 00:36:45,279 Speaker 1: I see you in the headlines for the tweets that 650 00:36:45,320 --> 00:36:47,320 Speaker 1: you like and the tweets that you put off, but 651 00:36:47,360 --> 00:36:49,719 Speaker 1: there's no explanation behind him. So we really appreciate you 652 00:36:49,760 --> 00:36:52,160 Speaker 1: sitting down and explaining with us and hanging out with us, 653 00:36:52,840 --> 00:36:55,880 Speaker 1: um and talking to us for as long as you have, Uh, 654 00:36:56,080 --> 00:36:58,040 Speaker 1: Juan Pablo thinks for being a guest on the Almost 655 00:36:58,040 --> 00:37:00,000 Speaker 1: Famous in Death podcast, it's a big deal for us. 656 00:37:00,760 --> 00:37:03,200 Speaker 1: Thank you, guys. I really appreciate it, you know. And uh, 657 00:37:04,040 --> 00:37:07,640 Speaker 1: well we'll see we'll talk some other time. And now 658 00:37:07,680 --> 00:37:09,920 Speaker 1: you get away more about the story. And actually, now, 659 00:37:10,239 --> 00:37:14,040 Speaker 1: actually you know that I wasn't hiding just just because 660 00:37:14,040 --> 00:37:16,840 Speaker 1: I wanted to behind him. You just didn't want to 661 00:37:16,840 --> 00:37:19,640 Speaker 1: do us. You picked us to do the interview with, 662 00:37:19,880 --> 00:37:24,480 Speaker 1: so sweet one, Pablo. I want to end by saying 663 00:37:24,880 --> 00:37:28,240 Speaker 1: that I think you should go back on and get 664 00:37:28,360 --> 00:37:31,080 Speaker 1: Camilla to meet Ariana Grande because you may have been 665 00:37:31,120 --> 00:37:35,040 Speaker 1: one of the most divisive characters of all Bachelor time, 666 00:37:35,560 --> 00:37:38,319 Speaker 1: but you can be very entertaining and you have been 667 00:37:38,400 --> 00:37:41,200 Speaker 1: during this half an hour. So thank you. One last 668 00:37:41,560 --> 00:37:44,560 Speaker 1: to close out here, Uh Matt James, our current Bachelor. 669 00:37:45,400 --> 00:37:49,520 Speaker 1: Uh what advice? Uh do you want to give Matt 670 00:37:49,640 --> 00:37:52,600 Speaker 1: James as he continues, so already filmed, but as he 671 00:37:52,640 --> 00:37:55,919 Speaker 1: continues through the process, what well, if it's already film 672 00:37:56,000 --> 00:37:58,919 Speaker 1: we cannot give him advice on the show. The only 673 00:37:58,920 --> 00:38:02,000 Speaker 1: advice I could give it was just watch it, figure 674 00:38:02,000 --> 00:38:05,520 Speaker 1: out what is edited and whatnot, why you like or whatnot, 675 00:38:05,640 --> 00:38:10,040 Speaker 1: and just just be honest. Man. At the end of 676 00:38:10,040 --> 00:38:15,000 Speaker 1: the day, they don't I'm not sure if they like honesty. 677 00:38:16,480 --> 00:38:19,080 Speaker 1: I don't. They want you to play the game, and 678 00:38:19,120 --> 00:38:21,960 Speaker 1: you know that. Um, I wasn't able to do it. 679 00:38:23,040 --> 00:38:25,399 Speaker 1: People tell me, why do you do this or whatever, 680 00:38:25,480 --> 00:38:28,640 Speaker 1: because I just can't. It's just something inside of me 681 00:38:28,719 --> 00:38:31,480 Speaker 1: that I can't just people say, oh, man, you shouldn't 682 00:38:31,480 --> 00:38:34,040 Speaker 1: say I love her, give her the ring or whatever. Yeah. 683 00:38:34,200 --> 00:38:39,040 Speaker 1: I could have done all that, but that's my values 684 00:38:39,160 --> 00:38:41,319 Speaker 1: and how it was brought up. It was, you know, 685 00:38:41,360 --> 00:38:44,480 Speaker 1: I kind of just like to somebody on her face 686 00:38:44,600 --> 00:38:47,760 Speaker 1: or national television to please somebody, when when I feel 687 00:38:47,800 --> 00:38:53,520 Speaker 1: like it's more important to respect the father who tells 688 00:38:53,560 --> 00:38:57,440 Speaker 1: you something like are you gonna be sure if you 689 00:38:57,520 --> 00:38:59,680 Speaker 1: propose to my daughter and you're like, damn, I'm a 690 00:38:59,719 --> 00:39:03,680 Speaker 1: fun I need to be sure, I guess because I 691 00:39:03,680 --> 00:39:07,200 Speaker 1: want my daughter when she gets proposed. I want the 692 00:39:07,200 --> 00:39:09,239 Speaker 1: guy to be sure. I don't want it to be 693 00:39:09,760 --> 00:39:13,000 Speaker 1: you know. So, Uh, those are the things that as 694 00:39:13,000 --> 00:39:16,400 Speaker 1: a father you see it from a different If I 695 00:39:16,440 --> 00:39:19,200 Speaker 1: wasn't a father at the time, whoa I would have 696 00:39:19,239 --> 00:39:22,000 Speaker 1: been probably going crazy and do crazy things. I don't know. 697 00:39:22,160 --> 00:39:24,759 Speaker 1: But your life changes when you carry a baby. Man, 698 00:39:25,120 --> 00:39:28,000 Speaker 1: that's gonna be interesting. And I hope I can talk 699 00:39:28,040 --> 00:39:31,279 Speaker 1: to you guys when your father's and then you're like one, 700 00:39:31,800 --> 00:39:34,719 Speaker 1: Now I get you, you know a little bit. I 701 00:39:34,719 --> 00:39:37,680 Speaker 1: have no doubt. Man. Well, on every in depth episode 702 00:39:37,719 --> 00:39:39,759 Speaker 1: we end in a fun way because they oftentimes do 703 00:39:39,880 --> 00:39:43,919 Speaker 1: get uh personal Ashley creates a few questions. This takes 704 00:39:43,920 --> 00:39:45,440 Speaker 1: two minutes, and so we're gonna ask for two more 705 00:39:45,440 --> 00:39:48,120 Speaker 1: minutes of your time. She she hasked a few questions, 706 00:39:48,480 --> 00:39:52,160 Speaker 1: uh asked, answer them in as short way as possible, 707 00:39:52,760 --> 00:39:54,840 Speaker 1: and then we'll close out of here all together in 708 00:39:54,880 --> 00:39:57,320 Speaker 1: the way that we always do on Almost Face podcast. Ashley, 709 00:39:57,440 --> 00:39:59,359 Speaker 1: it's your time to shine, it's your seat to take. 710 00:40:00,000 --> 00:40:02,399 Speaker 1: Get over it ste it one. Pablo, who is your 711 00:40:02,719 --> 00:40:07,840 Speaker 1: celebrity crush mighty gloom? Okay, who's Camilla's a celebrity crush? 712 00:40:08,520 --> 00:40:14,000 Speaker 1: She likes? She likes? Who was she saying, she likes 713 00:40:14,040 --> 00:40:16,880 Speaker 1: all these influencer guys. I don't know some some with 714 00:40:17,000 --> 00:40:18,640 Speaker 1: the hair like that. I don't even know how you. 715 00:40:19,040 --> 00:40:22,319 Speaker 1: I don't even know the names ashing or I don't 716 00:40:22,320 --> 00:40:24,200 Speaker 1: even know. There's a bunch of little kids there. They're 717 00:40:25,680 --> 00:40:29,080 Speaker 1: TikTok guys. They have they have their hair like puffy 718 00:40:29,160 --> 00:40:35,040 Speaker 1: like here, you know, like like that. It's hilarious. I understand. 719 00:40:36,960 --> 00:40:41,120 Speaker 1: Was my celebrity crush all my life, you know, and 720 00:40:41,280 --> 00:40:43,960 Speaker 1: I have other ones they're younger. So she was a 721 00:40:44,000 --> 00:40:48,839 Speaker 1: consistent it's kind of like by Leonardo di Caprio. Okay, um, 722 00:40:49,080 --> 00:40:54,359 Speaker 1: what is a Venezuelan cuisine that everyone should try. They 723 00:40:54,440 --> 00:40:58,279 Speaker 1: gave you what's that? It's like almost realistic. It's a 724 00:40:58,640 --> 00:41:04,560 Speaker 1: is a cheese stick that's no no American ever or 725 00:41:04,760 --> 00:41:07,880 Speaker 1: friend from anywhere. I've gave him one. They're like, damn, 726 00:41:08,000 --> 00:41:10,480 Speaker 1: what is this? So when you come to Miami, I 727 00:41:10,600 --> 00:41:14,000 Speaker 1: take you guys to eat tack engines. Okay, sounds good. Um. 728 00:41:14,400 --> 00:41:20,800 Speaker 1: What is your favorite movie? Uh? Son of the Bride 729 00:41:22,480 --> 00:41:26,960 Speaker 1: and Argentineum, the Son of the Bride yep, okay. What 730 00:41:27,560 --> 00:41:31,600 Speaker 1: was your best memory on The Bachelorrette on des this season? 731 00:41:33,520 --> 00:41:40,160 Speaker 1: Like off camera moments moment or on camera either way? 732 00:41:41,160 --> 00:41:46,040 Speaker 1: You know, I like, I like our our rodeo thing, 733 00:41:46,200 --> 00:41:49,360 Speaker 1: like what we did stunts that was fun. To be 734 00:41:49,440 --> 00:41:52,320 Speaker 1: honest with you, we did it was that the movie 735 00:41:53,760 --> 00:41:57,479 Speaker 1: when someone like you, how do you call that movie? 736 00:41:57,719 --> 00:42:04,400 Speaker 1: I forgot how your saper way? Um? It was a ranger, 737 00:42:04,600 --> 00:42:07,799 Speaker 1: that's the one that That was one stunt that we learned. 738 00:42:07,840 --> 00:42:09,959 Speaker 1: Bunch of stuff. I read a horse that was funny. 739 00:42:10,120 --> 00:42:13,160 Speaker 1: So there was a producer on the show. His name 740 00:42:13,280 --> 00:42:17,640 Speaker 1: is Adam and you called him Banana one day and 741 00:42:18,080 --> 00:42:22,360 Speaker 1: this you don't remember this? Oh my god? The producers 742 00:42:22,400 --> 00:42:25,799 Speaker 1: a parent yes, and the producers cracked up and they 743 00:42:25,960 --> 00:42:28,600 Speaker 1: called him Banana for the rest of his time there. 744 00:42:28,719 --> 00:42:33,480 Speaker 1: Can you share the story behind it. I don't remember 745 00:42:33,680 --> 00:42:36,840 Speaker 1: why I said it, but those were the three amigos, 746 00:42:36,960 --> 00:42:41,200 Speaker 1: you know, Me, Peter, Guys Banana. It was just the 747 00:42:41,320 --> 00:42:44,520 Speaker 1: three of us at all time, you know, like you 748 00:42:44,600 --> 00:42:46,480 Speaker 1: got to a point. It was funny because the three 749 00:42:46,560 --> 00:42:52,960 Speaker 1: of us, uh like like they gut. We were like family, 750 00:42:53,280 --> 00:42:56,840 Speaker 1: you know, and they understand me because they did the introduce. 751 00:42:57,600 --> 00:43:00,160 Speaker 1: They understand me hinder percent. And I explained in it, 752 00:43:00,520 --> 00:43:02,719 Speaker 1: and they were asking me the questions and do you 753 00:43:02,840 --> 00:43:04,600 Speaker 1: love or no? So you like her a lot? You 754 00:43:05,120 --> 00:43:08,200 Speaker 1: I adore her? Or you see, there's there's this word 755 00:43:08,360 --> 00:43:12,359 Speaker 1: minganta when when something mncantas like when oh I love 756 00:43:12,520 --> 00:43:16,640 Speaker 1: this dress, you know, and and and then McDonald's I 757 00:43:16,640 --> 00:43:19,680 Speaker 1: don't know if they're paying for this bleeve. There's a 758 00:43:19,800 --> 00:43:24,080 Speaker 1: slug and school I'm loving it in Spanish, just minganta. 759 00:43:24,280 --> 00:43:29,000 Speaker 1: When when something me incanta is that you really love 760 00:43:29,120 --> 00:43:34,600 Speaker 1: that like woof, like a food, or or that girl minganta. 761 00:43:34,880 --> 00:43:38,000 Speaker 1: You don't say I love her, but she's just powerful, 762 00:43:38,120 --> 00:43:41,719 Speaker 1: like okay. So I explained that, and and for them 763 00:43:41,760 --> 00:43:44,319 Speaker 1: it was that, you know, and I got to a point. 764 00:43:45,280 --> 00:43:47,920 Speaker 1: What it was a turning point when I heard when 765 00:43:47,960 --> 00:43:50,560 Speaker 1: they were trying to make me say something, and I 766 00:43:50,680 --> 00:43:54,719 Speaker 1: remember Peter going like this, you know, like listening to 767 00:43:54,800 --> 00:43:58,920 Speaker 1: the radio. And then he just looked at me and 768 00:43:59,000 --> 00:44:01,919 Speaker 1: instead of set telling me what how to do or say, 769 00:44:03,280 --> 00:44:07,279 Speaker 1: he said, um, it's not gonna happen. When I show him. 770 00:44:07,960 --> 00:44:10,480 Speaker 1: That was like, bro, this guy really knows me, like 771 00:44:11,400 --> 00:44:13,440 Speaker 1: he knew he knew I wasn't gonna do whatever they 772 00:44:13,480 --> 00:44:17,400 Speaker 1: were telling me to do. So so but those Adamant 773 00:44:17,560 --> 00:44:21,120 Speaker 1: and Peter there my business for life. We love them 774 00:44:21,239 --> 00:44:25,480 Speaker 1: very much. Such sweethearts. But you don't remember the banana story. 775 00:44:25,600 --> 00:44:28,600 Speaker 1: Oh well, okay, fine, I'm gonna have one last crazy 776 00:44:28,719 --> 00:44:32,120 Speaker 1: question because my friend once asked this to a guy 777 00:44:32,280 --> 00:44:34,239 Speaker 1: that she liked, and she thought it was the most 778 00:44:34,280 --> 00:44:37,400 Speaker 1: embarrassing question. But I think that it can tell a 779 00:44:37,480 --> 00:44:46,080 Speaker 1: lot about someone. What is your favorite doughnut? Um bustom cream? Okay? Great? Right, 780 00:44:47,080 --> 00:44:49,440 Speaker 1: Well one, we we end every in depth, every almost 781 00:44:49,480 --> 00:44:52,959 Speaker 1: famous podcast in the same way. Uh follow our lead, 782 00:44:53,440 --> 00:44:56,040 Speaker 1: just say exactly what we say, except use your name 783 00:44:56,080 --> 00:44:58,160 Speaker 1: in the middle. Well, this has been in almost famous 784 00:44:58,200 --> 00:45:02,840 Speaker 1: in depth with Juan Pablo, who was a bachelor on 785 00:45:03,400 --> 00:45:06,399 Speaker 1: the Bachelor. UH. He spent time with us today talking 786 00:45:06,400 --> 00:45:08,439 Speaker 1: about his story, what he's up to today, and also 787 00:45:08,600 --> 00:45:12,080 Speaker 1: his relationship with Claire. UH. With all this being said, 788 00:45:12,120 --> 00:45:14,480 Speaker 1: we'll be back next week. UH In every week following 789 00:45:14,880 --> 00:45:21,520 Speaker 1: this has been been I've been Ashley y. There we go. 790 00:45:21,680 --> 00:45:25,680 Speaker 1: Thanks buddy, guys. Follow the Benn and Ashley I Almost 791 00:45:25,719 --> 00:45:28,920 Speaker 1: Famous podcast on I Heart Radio or subscribe wherever you 792 00:45:29,000 --> 00:45:29,960 Speaker 1: listen to podcasts.