WEBVTT - "E.L.H.A.E." 0:00:00.680 --> 0:00:10.240 Holdo, holdo together some specially ship Welcome, come to the 0:00:10.720 --> 0:00:15.200 Alert Show. You want to nor only Octavian to be 0:00:15.360 --> 0:00:23.840 more exact, and it's your best friend Sue Solo. This 0:00:24.040 --> 0:00:27.680 is the Fall Alert Show. Yes, sir, welcome to the 0:00:27.720 --> 0:00:30.240 Ball Alert Show podcast. I go by the Day with 0:00:30.320 --> 0:00:33.840 par Civics and it's your best friend Sue Solo. Welcome 0:00:33.880 --> 0:00:36.839 to the show podcast. Yeah, you're ready to get into it, 0:00:36.920 --> 0:00:42.440 let's do it in case you missed it. Just okay, 0:00:42.520 --> 0:00:45.000 So most of y'all know so know West Coast for 0:00:45.240 --> 0:00:49.200 being the bubbly, giggly little lady on the show ridiculousness. 0:00:49.240 --> 0:00:52.280 But what y'all might not know is Sis was actually 0:00:52.360 --> 0:00:54.920 signed to Little Wayne's Young Money label all the way 0:00:54.920 --> 0:00:58.000 back in two thousand thirteen, which would have made her 0:00:58.040 --> 0:01:01.360 the only Caucasian rapper under the label at the time. Right, okay, 0:01:01.400 --> 0:01:05.199 so boom, fast forward to one. After a whole eight 0:01:05.280 --> 0:01:08.200 years of not saying why she ain't made no hits 0:01:08.200 --> 0:01:11.880 with the label, she is now saying basically, it's Nicki's fault. 0:01:11.920 --> 0:01:15.040 Take a listen. It didn't work out because basically, um, 0:01:15.040 --> 0:01:18.440 it was more because of certain people like just not 0:01:18.560 --> 0:01:21.480 like you know, really like feeling me being part of 0:01:21.480 --> 0:01:26.520 the click type thing. Yeah yeah, girl, Now you know 0:01:26.880 --> 0:01:29.920 the barbs are about to come and drag your ass. Okay. 0:01:30.000 --> 0:01:31.920 If you had other labels that you could have worked with, 0:01:31.959 --> 0:01:34.759 you should have Winn and goutslide by one labels. Don't 0:01:34.800 --> 0:01:37.360 do that, girl, don't do that. Okay. Now listen. If 0:01:37.360 --> 0:01:40.280 the Kardashians can make lemonade out of lemon, so can 0:01:40.400 --> 0:01:44.360 gorilla glue girl herself, Tessica Brown. Tessica is starting a 0:01:44.400 --> 0:01:48.200 new hair Caroline y'all. It's called Forever Hair to help 0:01:48.240 --> 0:01:51.920 folks suffering from hair loss and damage. Inspired by her 0:01:51.920 --> 0:01:55.440 own you know, sticky situation. If you will. She went 0:01:55.680 --> 0:01:58.200 viral when she couldn't get gorilla blue out of her hair. 0:01:58.320 --> 0:02:00.480 She had some hair loss, and it is now making 0:02:00.880 --> 0:02:03.720 lemonade out of lemons. Okay, look again, If the Kardashians 0:02:03.720 --> 0:02:06.600 can do it, so can we go sist. Now I'm 0:02:06.640 --> 0:02:09.399 gonna start calling our hot girl leader Megan a stallion, 0:02:09.440 --> 0:02:12.920 hot and sweet. Okay. She paid the funeral service of 0:02:12.960 --> 0:02:16.079 a fan when a friend of the deceased reached out 0:02:16.120 --> 0:02:18.440 to her. You know, let's just talk about queen. Is 0:02:20.760 --> 0:02:23.320 that is how you balance the thought life and the 0:02:23.400 --> 0:02:30.919 Queen life. Okay, with more of the alert show message. 0:02:31.000 --> 0:02:36.680 Al Right, it is time for baller mails. Are you ready? 0:02:36.720 --> 0:02:40.240 I'm ready? Let's do it. Okay, dear or, I love 0:02:40.320 --> 0:02:44.080 my fiance, but I can't stand his daughter. She's twelve 0:02:44.400 --> 0:02:46.799 and she don't like me and I don't like her. 0:02:47.200 --> 0:02:50.480 I feel absolutely terrible about it. But this little girl 0:02:50.639 --> 0:02:56.040 is too disrespectful. I'm considering recanting the entire wedding over 0:02:56.400 --> 0:02:59.240 this little girl because I Once I marry him, of 0:02:59.280 --> 0:03:05.280 course she comes with it. Please help solo. Um, this 0:03:05.360 --> 0:03:08.519 sounds like a problem. First of all, it's not even 0:03:08.560 --> 0:03:10.840 once you marry him, she comes with him. She's with 0:03:11.000 --> 0:03:14.679 him now. Okay, she is in your life right now. 0:03:14.880 --> 0:03:17.120 You are currently engaged this man. I am assuming that 0:03:17.200 --> 0:03:21.480 you guys lived together since y'all are engaged. If you 0:03:21.880 --> 0:03:26.360 really considering calling this marriage off because you hate his 0:03:26.520 --> 0:03:28.200 twelve year old daughter that bad, you need to go 0:03:28.200 --> 0:03:30.960 ahead and do it now. If you cannot men relate 0:03:31.000 --> 0:03:34.239 a relationship with this twelve year o little girl, just 0:03:34.360 --> 0:03:36.200 don't don't do it. Because they don't even sound like 0:03:36.240 --> 0:03:39.160 you want to make things right. It just sounds like 0:03:39.200 --> 0:03:41.280 your options are either this little girls won't give it 0:03:41.320 --> 0:03:43.960 the program or I'm out. So I just don't see 0:03:44.000 --> 0:03:46.640 how this is gonna work out, twelve year old. They've 0:03:46.640 --> 0:03:48.560 grown now, so I can imagine she's probably saying some 0:03:48.640 --> 0:03:52.360 real slick ship too. A couple of things here that's 0:03:52.400 --> 0:03:55.520 going on. I think it could also be an issue 0:03:55.560 --> 0:04:01.760 with the ex. Maybe the X it's still in the picture, 0:04:01.960 --> 0:04:05.560 or maybe the X is upset in some way and 0:04:05.840 --> 0:04:10.200 talking smack about the new mom to be step mom 0:04:10.240 --> 0:04:13.560 to be, which makes the twelve year old, you know, 0:04:13.680 --> 0:04:17.240 obviously maybe side with the mom and not and not 0:04:17.440 --> 0:04:22.520 like the new X mom not saying that that's the case, um, 0:04:22.640 --> 0:04:25.200 or maybe she just don't like you. That's a whole 0:04:25.200 --> 0:04:28.680 another thing. I would suggest that you, guys explore counseling. 0:04:29.720 --> 0:04:32.800 I would explore counseling. But it seems like you are 0:04:32.880 --> 0:04:35.159 at your wits end, and it looks like if you 0:04:35.160 --> 0:04:38.720 are here considering, uh, counseling the entire wedding and being 0:04:38.760 --> 0:04:41.600 over it looks like you're over it. I would say, uh, 0:04:41.720 --> 0:04:44.960 try counseling if you haven't, and if not, your peace 0:04:44.960 --> 0:04:47.279 of mind is a big thing. Baby. You do not 0:04:47.360 --> 0:04:50.320 need to be stressed out in a relationship, marriage, no nothing, 0:04:50.600 --> 0:04:52.560 sound like you're gonna mess around and jack this little 0:04:52.600 --> 0:04:54.800 girl up. It won't need to hear you on the news, 0:04:54.880 --> 0:04:56.800 on the moon, on the episode of Snap, and none 0:04:56.800 --> 0:04:59.040 of that. So I think you need to go ahead 0:04:59.080 --> 0:05:02.640 and explore maybe one more time, some counseling, some group counseling. 0:05:02.960 --> 0:05:06.080 Talk to your fiance. Uh, if he a real one, 0:05:06.360 --> 0:05:08.760 and if it's something that maybe the ex is doing 0:05:08.839 --> 0:05:10.800 like the toy year old mom is doing, he's gonna 0:05:10.839 --> 0:05:14.640 have to address that. Um, I haven't had that ever 0:05:14.760 --> 0:05:17.600 in my you know, I got baby Mama's but I 0:05:17.640 --> 0:05:22.120 did have to talk with my exes and my wife, 0:05:22.640 --> 0:05:24.680 so everybody know that we all on the same page. 0:05:25.480 --> 0:05:28.560 So don't try nobody. Don't nobody try nobody. We had 0:05:28.560 --> 0:05:31.240 that conversation. So if you'll never had that conversation, I 0:05:31.279 --> 0:05:33.960 think that's a good conversation to have. That that made 0:05:34.040 --> 0:05:36.120 that could help and straighten some things out. But if 0:05:36.120 --> 0:05:40.160 it don't and she's still disrespectful and it's destroying your 0:05:40.200 --> 0:05:42.200 mental state of mind, I'm telling you listen, man, I 0:05:42.200 --> 0:05:47.080 will take peace and mental stability over a forced relationship 0:05:47.279 --> 0:05:50.919 any day. So if you feel like she messing up 0:05:50.960 --> 0:05:54.400 your phone, say your mental your mental health, don't get 0:05:54.400 --> 0:05:56.840 a get the hell about it though, tell you're not 0:05:57.040 --> 0:05:59.080 get the hell about it up. I'm trying to figure 0:05:59.080 --> 0:06:01.680 this out too, though. Is the twelve year old bad 0:06:01.720 --> 0:06:04.839 with her dad as well and like her biological mom? 0:06:04.960 --> 0:06:07.880 Or is she just or y'all who just don't get along? 0:06:07.960 --> 0:06:09.840 Because if the twelfth year old is just a badass 0:06:09.839 --> 0:06:11.839 twelve year old kid, and then that's just probably what 0:06:11.960 --> 0:06:15.200 comes with it, maybe it's not really directed towards you. 0:06:15.680 --> 0:06:19.159 But I agree with Rory. Okay, y'all. I feel like 0:06:19.279 --> 0:06:24.960 people who are entering uh a new marriage relationship with 0:06:25.040 --> 0:06:28.400 somebody already got kids, they always consider like going to 0:06:28.520 --> 0:06:30.800 relationship counseling. But I'm sorry, if you're about to be 0:06:30.800 --> 0:06:33.360 a step mom or a step parents in general, y'all 0:06:33.360 --> 0:06:36.400 didn't have family counsel because the kid's opinions and feelings 0:06:36.400 --> 0:06:38.719 mattered too. So maybe this twelve year old girl just 0:06:38.720 --> 0:06:43.360 feels like y'all haven't valued her feelings correct And I 0:06:43.680 --> 0:06:47.720 completely agree with that. So I would say, uh, exhaust 0:06:47.880 --> 0:06:50.400 all options before you say you know what, I'm out, 0:06:50.880 --> 0:06:53.560 because there is a child involved, and if you regardless 0:06:53.560 --> 0:06:55.599 of if you like her not you are in her life, 0:06:56.080 --> 0:07:00.360 so to abruptly leave, you know, that's not necessar certainly 0:07:00.360 --> 0:07:03.560 a good thing. Uh. And it's not good. Uh, it's 0:07:03.600 --> 0:07:06.880 not a good routine to show the kids. So you 0:07:07.680 --> 0:07:11.160 clearly love this man, So just try all avenues first. Yeah, 0:07:11.200 --> 0:07:13.360 try all avenues. But again, at the end of the day, 0:07:13.400 --> 0:07:16.520 if it's something that's affecting your mental health, get the 0:07:16.520 --> 0:07:19.000 hell on. Yeah. If the sex is as bad as 0:07:19.040 --> 0:07:22.720 the twolve your daughter, then don't. All right, let's go 0:07:22.760 --> 0:07:24.560 to commercial. We'll be back with more of the ball 0:07:24.600 --> 0:07:28.000 Alert Show. We'll be right back with more of the 0:07:28.120 --> 0:07:33.480 Baller Alert Show. Back to the Baller Alert Show. Start 0:07:33.840 --> 0:07:37.800 Ferrori Simmons and Sue Solo. Welcome back to the ball 0:07:37.840 --> 0:07:41.640 Alert Show podcast, available everywhere you get your podcast. Uh, 0:07:41.800 --> 0:07:44.000 Sue Solo is not here in these streets talking to 0:07:44.480 --> 0:07:46.920 some new talents, Solo, you wanna bring it in. Yes, 0:07:47.120 --> 0:07:50.240 I spoke to l A, who is a rising R 0:07:50.280 --> 0:07:51.960 and B superstar. I don't want to call him R 0:07:51.960 --> 0:07:53.760 and B because he's not like an R and B 0:07:54.000 --> 0:07:56.280 type guy. He's very eclectic. He does have a verson 0:07:56.360 --> 0:08:00.160 tall sound. He's been working with people like Missego, who 0:08:00.280 --> 0:08:01.640 is I don't know if y'all know, but if you 0:08:01.680 --> 0:08:03.400 don't know, you need to get up on game. He 0:08:03.520 --> 0:08:06.040 pulled up to the Great City of Atlanta, and of 0:08:06.080 --> 0:08:08.120 course I had to pull up to talk to l A. 0:08:08.640 --> 0:08:10.960 Let's talk, Hey, young what is your best friend? Sue 0:08:11.040 --> 0:08:14.040 solo And this is a new episode of the Baller 0:08:14.080 --> 0:08:18.120 Alert Show podcast. We have an upcoming superstar by way 0:08:18.160 --> 0:08:22.600 of North Dakota, who is George Ray's singer artist, visionary lady, 0:08:22.640 --> 0:08:28.880 lover all of that. L Ah, that's it. Yeah, wow, Dry, 0:08:30.720 --> 0:08:32.439 you want to say thank you for having me too? 0:08:33.840 --> 0:08:37.720 There is however you want to say, throw your whole 0:08:37.800 --> 0:08:41.040 name out. I'm bad everybody knows you. When I connected 0:08:41.160 --> 0:08:43.959 to I was like, oh wow, okay, that's hard l A. 0:08:44.080 --> 0:08:46.600 You are a new upcoming artists I think most people 0:08:46.840 --> 0:08:49.000 would say, but you've actually been working for a really 0:08:49.000 --> 0:08:51.880 long time. Yeah, Like we're just talking about, you know, 0:08:52.720 --> 0:08:56.040 the show that you came to years ago. I was like, wow, 0:08:56.080 --> 0:08:58.079 I forgot all about that. Yeah, I've been I've been 0:08:58.120 --> 0:09:00.320 putting in work for a while now, you know, trying 0:09:00.320 --> 0:09:02.800 to get it together. Just so we don't exclude the listeners. 0:09:02.800 --> 0:09:04.760 What he's talking about is I end up going to 0:09:04.800 --> 0:09:08.760 like a outdoor showcase in Atlanta and they introduced this 0:09:08.920 --> 0:09:10.839 artist l A. I had no idea who he was, 0:09:11.280 --> 0:09:13.600 but then I got into it. The music I remember 0:09:13.600 --> 0:09:16.240 it was like super melodic and it seemed like you 0:09:16.320 --> 0:09:19.120 had fans that were on your gass at that show. Yeah, 0:09:19.160 --> 0:09:22.120 I remember that, and I had a band with me too. Yeah, 0:09:22.559 --> 0:09:26.160 that was a cool time. It was a vibe, definitely vibes. Now, 0:09:26.200 --> 0:09:28.040 do you feel like Atlanta shows you a lot of love? 0:09:28.040 --> 0:09:30.319 I know that you're born well born in North Dakota, 0:09:30.360 --> 0:09:32.079 but raised in Georgia. You feel like you get a 0:09:32.120 --> 0:09:34.240 lot of love from Georgia. I do, Actually, I mean 0:09:35.120 --> 0:09:37.040 nine times I would tell when I do do shows here, 0:09:37.240 --> 0:09:39.800 it sells out. And the last time we had on 0:09:39.840 --> 0:09:43.480 tour wards sold out, which was tween nineteen. So I'm hoping, 0:09:43.480 --> 0:09:47.040 you know, next time, which is in November when we're 0:09:47.040 --> 0:09:50.600 going back out on tour um, that it sells out again. 0:09:50.800 --> 0:09:53.320 Tour like a tour tour. Yeah, we're gonna do like 0:09:53.320 --> 0:09:58.200 ten of twelve cities and then yeah, oh y'all got money? 0:09:58.440 --> 0:10:00.959 All right? So tell us about the transition from being 0:10:01.000 --> 0:10:04.520 an independent artist doing things like mood ring or Moodsling, 0:10:04.559 --> 0:10:07.920 whatever that party was, to having an entire label behind 0:10:08.000 --> 0:10:11.080 you to push your creativity, to have you working with 0:10:11.120 --> 0:10:13.880 people that are amazing. I mean, I don't know how 0:10:13.880 --> 0:10:16.920 the Mesego collab came about, but when I saw that, 0:10:17.080 --> 0:10:20.480 I just felt like this was a collab that needed 0:10:20.520 --> 0:10:24.160 to have exactly the pieces were put together for me. Yeah, no, 0:10:24.320 --> 0:10:27.560 I mean, you know, coming from like the Internet and 0:10:27.600 --> 0:10:31.319 like the SoundCloud era, I felt like eventually I hit 0:10:31.360 --> 0:10:35.000 a ceiling, you know what I mean, because at that time, 0:10:35.080 --> 0:10:37.120 streaming wasn't really a thing, you know what I mean. 0:10:37.120 --> 0:10:39.760 It was like SoundCloud was like the new way. Then 0:10:39.800 --> 0:10:42.400 once that kind of felt like it was declining, I 0:10:42.480 --> 0:10:47.040 was kind of I remember specifically, um Crow Cherry hitting 0:10:47.080 --> 0:10:50.040 me up from Apple Music about this new platform they're 0:10:50.040 --> 0:10:52.840 about to prison called Apple Music and the streaming I 0:10:52.880 --> 0:10:56.880 remember like it was yesterday and so like just just 0:10:56.960 --> 0:10:58.880 saying that to say, like, it wasn't a thing yet, 0:10:58.880 --> 0:11:01.440 Spotify and all that. So I didn't know where to go. 0:11:01.559 --> 0:11:03.240 I was like, well, you know, I feel like I'm 0:11:03.280 --> 0:11:06.360 hitting a ceiling on south Cloud. So you know, I 0:11:06.400 --> 0:11:09.160 went ahead and took the leap of faith, you know, 0:11:09.200 --> 0:11:11.599 I had a conversation with Kaylani actually about signing to 0:11:11.679 --> 0:11:19.880 Atlantic home you just throwing big names out there like that. Yeah, yeah, 0:11:19.920 --> 0:11:21.640 that's what I mean. We talked and then you know, 0:11:21.679 --> 0:11:23.280 once I had a conversation with her, I felt a 0:11:23.280 --> 0:11:26.640 little bit more comfortable about sign over Atlantic and UM, 0:11:26.679 --> 0:11:29.760 but you know, everybody's situation isn't the same or any 0:11:29.800 --> 0:11:32.160 label any artists. You know, everybody's journey is different, and 0:11:32.240 --> 0:11:34.839 mine just so happened to you know, not really go 0:11:35.040 --> 0:11:39.320 as playing with Atlantic. So we part ways last year early, 0:11:40.000 --> 0:11:42.920 and now I'm on Motown to Capital. I feel like 0:11:42.960 --> 0:11:45.400 a lot of independent artists, UM kind of have a 0:11:45.440 --> 0:11:49.439 fear or a concern that getting signed would change the 0:11:50.120 --> 0:11:52.559 creativity wise exactly. How do you get you know what 0:11:52.600 --> 0:11:55.200 I mean? That was a big thing for me, Like 0:11:55.280 --> 0:11:57.280 coming into this new situation, I was like, I want 0:11:58.559 --> 0:12:00.600 creative control, Like I want to be able to say 0:12:00.880 --> 0:12:03.200 what I'm gonna do and what I'm not gonna do. Um. 0:12:03.240 --> 0:12:05.559 But even with the last situation I was and I 0:12:05.600 --> 0:12:09.400 didn't really have a lot of people tugging me in 0:12:09.720 --> 0:12:12.320 different directions. It's always I feel like that's always been 0:12:12.320 --> 0:12:15.120 my stipulation and any any paperwork or any contracts is 0:12:15.160 --> 0:12:17.520 like I need that creative control in that freedom to 0:12:17.559 --> 0:12:19.920 do what I please. Uh So, yeah, I mean it 0:12:20.000 --> 0:12:21.880 just depends on you and the way the way you 0:12:22.080 --> 0:12:24.360 negotiate your stuff, you know. I mean it kind of 0:12:24.400 --> 0:12:29.400 seems like a healty demand from an artist who essentially 0:12:29.600 --> 0:12:32.200 might need the support from the label. So how do 0:12:32.200 --> 0:12:34.360 you decide if it's actually a good mood for mood 0:12:34.400 --> 0:12:37.360 for you or not? Um, I mean I think you 0:12:37.480 --> 0:12:40.480 just kind of gauge that based off your fan base, 0:12:40.520 --> 0:12:43.320 and like I guess, I mean, granted, if you have 0:12:43.400 --> 0:12:45.440 a fan base, are you talking about just like upcoming 0:12:45.520 --> 0:12:48.080 artists in general, just whatever your experience? Yeah, I mean yeah, 0:12:48.120 --> 0:12:49.480 I think for me, it was just one of those 0:12:49.480 --> 0:12:52.680 things like I saw a need for it, you know, 0:12:52.800 --> 0:12:55.040 and and just decided to take that leap of faith 0:12:55.080 --> 0:12:57.360 and see what. Also, it's just like a new experience, 0:12:57.400 --> 0:12:59.800 you know, it's a new journey, and you know what, 0:13:00.120 --> 0:13:03.520 that comes wisdom and you learn different things and you 0:13:03.600 --> 0:13:07.080 come out of it learning new things. So I mean 0:13:07.120 --> 0:13:08.840 that was kind of like the thing for me. I 0:13:08.880 --> 0:13:10.600 was like I'm still young, let me go ahead and 0:13:10.640 --> 0:13:16.000 just okay, that's cute friends. Yeah, I mean that something 0:13:16.120 --> 0:13:20.160 back then. I still feel I still feel good though, 0:13:20.640 --> 0:13:24.239 as you should. As you should, so let me ask you. Um, 0:13:24.280 --> 0:13:27.800 your music, you talk a lot about love. Are you 0:13:27.840 --> 0:13:33.120 in love with somebody right now? Yeah? Elaborate is the 0:13:33.240 --> 0:13:37.960 somebody we know? No, No, I've done that before. I'm not. 0:13:38.440 --> 0:13:41.600 You know. That's like I've done that before. It's that's 0:13:41.679 --> 0:13:44.200 that's that's a little money. What did you do before? Huh? 0:13:44.360 --> 0:13:46.000 Who did you do before? I don't know what you're 0:13:46.000 --> 0:13:49.880 talking about. You said you've done that before. Ye, I 0:13:49.920 --> 0:13:55.640 can't kiss and tell you that's cute, okay, Sorr. Yeah, 0:13:55.720 --> 0:13:58.000 that wasn't fall at all. We didn't get exclusive to 0:13:58.040 --> 0:14:01.439 you that time. I mean, I mean, so no more 0:14:01.440 --> 0:14:04.160 famous women. I just know, I just you know, it 0:14:04.240 --> 0:14:07.520 just didn't work out for me. It was a few 0:14:07.559 --> 0:14:12.280 different a few different situations. It's just never really panned 0:14:12.280 --> 0:14:14.160 out the way I wanted it to. I think it's 0:14:14.200 --> 0:14:17.240 like scheduling and just kind of like just you know, 0:14:17.280 --> 0:14:20.200 the pressures that come from both sides. It's just yeah, 0:14:20.440 --> 0:14:24.440 it's it's a lot. So did anyone in particular influence 0:14:25.000 --> 0:14:29.080 my city? Um? No, not really. I think my city 0:14:29.160 --> 0:14:31.520 just became like for me and most of the songs. 0:14:31.760 --> 0:14:34.480 I would say about ninetent of my songs come from 0:14:34.480 --> 0:14:38.840 real life experiences and being vulnerable and transparent and a 0:14:38.920 --> 0:14:41.160 lot of that stuff that you know, I've been through 0:14:41.240 --> 0:14:44.160 and just kind of like trying to navigate those like 0:14:44.600 --> 0:14:48.320 really hard times and kind of push that through the music. Um, 0:14:48.360 --> 0:14:50.520 but for My City was one of those ones that 0:14:50.640 --> 0:14:53.400 actually was like just a feel good, fun record, you know. 0:14:53.440 --> 0:14:55.920 So it didn't really cause or a call for a 0:14:55.960 --> 0:14:59.760 lot of um like deep you know, cooling from the soul. 0:15:00.000 --> 0:15:01.440 You know. It was just like let's just have fun 0:15:01.480 --> 0:15:03.640 and yeah, and I didn't really take too much thought 0:15:03.680 --> 0:15:05.240 about like who was about. Was just like let's just 0:15:05.280 --> 0:15:08.280 have fun, you know. Okay, fun music is always the best, 0:15:08.360 --> 0:15:11.560 you know. Te Pain recently said, um, one of his 0:15:11.640 --> 0:15:14.000 songs was just a joke, the by by You a 0:15:14.080 --> 0:15:19.960 drink song and ends up changing his whole life. It 0:15:20.080 --> 0:15:22.520 is what it is. So My City, featuring with Sego, 0:15:22.600 --> 0:15:26.840 who is amazing, like he is a powerhouse in himself, 0:15:27.200 --> 0:15:32.000 has already surpassed one point two million views on YouTube. Wow, 0:15:32.040 --> 0:15:35.280 you didn't know that, Faller exclusive. I just broke the 0:15:35.360 --> 0:15:39.400 t to the day of artists. I didn't know, you know, 0:15:39.720 --> 0:15:44.520 it's yeah anyway, yeah, cool, okay, Wow, you are so humble. 0:15:45.400 --> 0:15:48.800 That is amazing. That is away. So if there's anything 0:15:48.800 --> 0:15:51.680 that you can tell Baller Nation something about you, because 0:15:51.720 --> 0:15:53.400 I do think that for a lot of our listeners 0:15:53.520 --> 0:15:55.360 this is a new experience. They're needing you for the 0:15:55.400 --> 0:15:58.400 first time. So what is like something that is so 0:15:58.440 --> 0:16:00.960 important that you feel they need to know about you. 0:16:01.920 --> 0:16:04.240 You gotta give him a hook so that they look, 0:16:04.480 --> 0:16:07.680 you know, look you up right. That's a good question. 0:16:07.960 --> 0:16:10.040 I mean, I think I think, honestly, I'm just I'm 0:16:10.080 --> 0:16:12.640 just the just the the guy that just wants to 0:16:12.680 --> 0:16:14.720 just help people, you know what I mean. And I 0:16:14.720 --> 0:16:17.240 think my music has always done that. I think for me, 0:16:18.000 --> 0:16:20.560 getting those experiences are through d M s or emails 0:16:20.600 --> 0:16:23.840 or different type of messages from people, or even at shows, 0:16:24.360 --> 0:16:26.600 people coming up to me and saying, Yo, this music 0:16:26.720 --> 0:16:30.320 or this song, this album really changed how I look 0:16:30.360 --> 0:16:33.680 at things. Or I've had guys coming to me like yo, 0:16:33.920 --> 0:16:38.240 this made me a better man, and then women as well, 0:16:38.360 --> 0:16:40.280 like this got me through this. I had a guy 0:16:40.440 --> 0:16:43.480 come grown asks man like come to me in New York, 0:16:43.520 --> 0:16:46.240 got a listening session and he just came and cried 0:16:46.240 --> 0:16:48.560 on my shoulder. He says, the first time he ever cried, 0:16:48.640 --> 0:16:50.720 Like that's what he told me, at least first time 0:16:50.720 --> 0:16:53.280 I ever cried, and he wrote like a poem from 0:16:53.280 --> 0:16:58.800 my music. It gets deep, right, He's so cute, you 0:16:58.800 --> 0:17:01.600 know what. But basically what I'm saying is that, you know, 0:17:01.720 --> 0:17:05.520 I through my experiences with creative music, I've I've helped 0:17:05.520 --> 0:17:07.760 a lot of people. Um, And I don't say that 0:17:07.840 --> 0:17:09.600 just the boast of brag. It's just like, you know, 0:17:09.720 --> 0:17:12.600 the experience I've had dealing with people, connecting with people, 0:17:13.119 --> 0:17:15.480 and I just I love that. I love just connecting 0:17:15.520 --> 0:17:17.680 with people, you know, and I can believe that you 0:17:17.760 --> 0:17:21.320 come off very genuine thank you. What's your zodiac sign? Burgo? 0:17:21.480 --> 0:17:23.480 What do they say about all besides the crazy stuff? 0:17:23.800 --> 0:17:26.800 You know what? I don't know, you know what's crazy? 0:17:26.800 --> 0:17:28.080 Every time I say that, I'd be like, I'm a 0:17:28.080 --> 0:17:31.560 Bergo girls going like what going it? Why? Yeah? I 0:17:31.560 --> 0:17:33.719 think a lot of people kind of don't like I 0:17:33.760 --> 0:17:37.000 think I'm close like a cus though, like Leo, okay, 0:17:37.440 --> 0:17:39.720 so you got a little Leo, little Vargo, I think. 0:17:39.760 --> 0:17:41.520 So you know what I mean? I think when I 0:17:41.560 --> 0:17:45.520 say that, and normally like the same reaction kind of 0:17:45.600 --> 0:17:50.119 like that actually, little both worlds. I get it. I 0:17:50.119 --> 0:17:53.080 get I'm like pisces aries. So I know nothing about 0:17:53.119 --> 0:17:55.640 what you're talking about. Yeah, I only know my ship. 0:17:55.720 --> 0:17:59.520 I don't really know anything about other zodiac signs. But 0:17:59.720 --> 0:18:01.480 you know, I feel like it's a nice question to 0:18:01.480 --> 0:18:05.119 ask sometimes, got it. Sometimes it's kind of telling of somebody. 0:18:05.160 --> 0:18:07.800 So we know that you're going on tour. If you here, 0:18:08.119 --> 0:18:10.639 we know that you're signs. We know that your social 0:18:10.640 --> 0:18:13.720 media following is growing, We know that your fan base 0:18:13.760 --> 0:18:16.400 is growing. Overall, we know that you are probably making 0:18:16.400 --> 0:18:21.040 some coins off YouTube or shows or okay, okay, any endorsements, 0:18:21.359 --> 0:18:24.520 any brands at the moment, you know, you know, I 0:18:24.560 --> 0:18:27.600 have different people like clothing companies like start up quote 0:18:27.640 --> 0:18:29.919 quote company trying to get like me on board. And 0:18:30.480 --> 0:18:33.400 but yeah, I mean like if anybody's out there that's interesting, 0:18:33.680 --> 0:18:37.040 reach out, that's right. So this is a segment on 0:18:37.160 --> 0:18:40.160 the ball Alert Show podcast that we call baller Mail. 0:18:40.480 --> 0:18:44.000 This is where listeners get to right in and ask 0:18:44.040 --> 0:18:46.640 for advice. All Right, you gotta be really honest, because 0:18:46.640 --> 0:18:49.840 somebody really needs this advice, all right, Like this is 0:18:49.840 --> 0:18:51.600 a real thing. This is a real serious it is 0:18:51.640 --> 0:18:54.240 a serious thing. We get baller mail every day. Okay, 0:18:54.240 --> 0:18:56.880 so answer this very seriously from the heart, as genuine 0:18:56.920 --> 0:19:00.679 as your music. Okay, my man can't go in the 0:19:00.720 --> 0:19:04.680 bedroom past five pumps like a legit two to three minutes. 0:19:04.920 --> 0:19:11.960 Us keep wow. I can hear the selfishness and that 0:19:13.440 --> 0:19:17.359 this is serious for the ladies. Okay, my man can't 0:19:17.359 --> 0:19:19.679 go in the bedroom past five pumps like a legit 0:19:19.760 --> 0:19:22.399 two to three minutes, and it's killing me. I'm starting 0:19:22.440 --> 0:19:27.720 to have a I'm starting I should have pre read this. 0:19:28.400 --> 0:19:32.199 I'm starting to pleasure myself. We've spoken about this, and 0:19:32.240 --> 0:19:35.679 he doesn't seem to care. What do you guys suggest? Okay, 0:19:36.000 --> 0:19:41.280 so y'all've come they've come to a conclusion that he 0:19:41.440 --> 0:19:43.960 can't go past five pumps. I think he came to 0:19:44.000 --> 0:19:47.840 the conclusion that he can't go past and she told him, 0:19:47.920 --> 0:19:51.119 and she doesn't seem the care, got it, And he 0:19:51.119 --> 0:19:53.080 doesn't seem to care. He doesn't seem to care that 0:19:53.680 --> 0:19:58.840 she's pleasuring herself without him. So what what are we? 0:19:58.960 --> 0:20:01.480 What are we helping with right here? She wants to 0:20:01.480 --> 0:20:03.800 know what to do should she stay in this relationship? 0:20:04.200 --> 0:20:06.040 So they're not they're not like married, this is just 0:20:06.920 --> 0:20:08.840 just well she didn't specify, she just said my man 0:20:08.960 --> 0:20:11.600 got it. Um, oh we know, is that's her man 0:20:11.640 --> 0:20:15.760 who she's trying. I think I think if you love them, 0:20:16.440 --> 0:20:19.200 then you know, use that deal. Deal girl? Do you 0:20:19.400 --> 0:20:22.399 think you know something about get that thing off, you 0:20:22.400 --> 0:20:24.320 know what I'm saying, and get them five pumps and 0:20:24.320 --> 0:20:28.919 then go to the bathroom. Another another writer, actually, and 0:20:29.160 --> 0:20:31.760 I promise I'm not making this up, y'all. Another writer 0:20:31.880 --> 0:20:35.240 said that her man knows that he doesn't please her, 0:20:35.280 --> 0:20:37.399 so when he finishes, he throws on the strap on 0:20:37.800 --> 0:20:39.439 to help her get to where she needs to go. 0:20:39.840 --> 0:20:42.520 First off, every nig in this room just look at 0:20:42.560 --> 0:20:46.040 you when you said that, because they're like, wait, it's 0:20:46.080 --> 0:20:49.840 a problems. I ain't walking around the house with two dicks, period. 0:20:50.359 --> 0:20:53.520 You ain't, bro what I'm not putting on this. No 0:20:53.680 --> 0:20:55.280 nigga in here is put on the strap on my 0:20:55.320 --> 0:20:59.640 guy like it's it's a rat right, it's over. So 0:21:00.080 --> 0:21:02.840 I mean whatever you So basically, what you're saying is 0:21:02.880 --> 0:21:08.960 that he can't go for a long period of once 0:21:09.000 --> 0:21:11.600 he comes, he puts the strap on. Yeah, so he 0:21:11.640 --> 0:21:14.720 can try to talk to the last girl and get 0:21:14.760 --> 0:21:17.840 her the last You know what I'm saying. She got 0:21:17.840 --> 0:21:19.760 a dial though and all that. You know, she played 0:21:19.800 --> 0:21:24.600 with herself. Who is it selfish? All I'm saying. All 0:21:24.600 --> 0:21:27.959 I'm saying is it's ways to do this. Like if 0:21:28.000 --> 0:21:31.480 you if you know you can't last, bro, kill that 0:21:31.600 --> 0:21:34.439 four play, start with the four play, go crazy in 0:21:34.480 --> 0:21:37.560 that ship and then come behind that with your five pumps. 0:21:37.600 --> 0:21:40.600